Terrence Pop of redonculus.com argues modern divorce courts weaponize men, citing 44 daily veteran suicides linked to financial ruin post-divorce—projected to exceed WWI-WWII battle deaths by 2035–2038. He blames "catfish" profiles (e.g., Sidney Sweeney, Paige Spinnerack) and declining testosterone levels (down 50% in 50 years due to plastic/estrogen exposure) for relationship failures, while dismissing figures like Charlie Kirk as hypocritical. Pop demands judicial accountability via stripping qualified immunity, warning divorce attorneys exploit men’s mistakes, and ties 85% of prison inmates to single-mother households. His critique frames marriage as a societal mirage, urging men to prioritize self-control over emotional vulnerability—though audience pushback highlights his focus on individual blame over systemic change. [Automatically generated summary]
Welcome to another episode of Pearl Daily here on the Audacity Network.
Today we have the man, the myth, the legend.
We have Terrence Pop in the building.
Thank you.
Thank you.
I wouldn't go as far as the legend.
I'm just a dude.
I would say legend because there's no one else in the space that really does as I would say as deep of work with you.
I mean, how many lives?
How could you not say you're a legend when you've saved like 500 lives?
It's 555.
We read the last guy in last week.
So can you tell them a little bit for those that don't know you, even though you are a legend in the space?
Tell them a little bit about your work, your channel, and your backstory.
All right.
So I run redonculus.com, R-E-D-O-N-K-U-L-A-S.com.
I know I spelled it wrong.
I have dyslexia.
Do I care?
Not really.
I basically do comedy or comedy lectures for the young men out there or even older men in regards to this craziness in our culture.
The gender war is all I can really say.
It's exactly what it is.
And it's killing men hand over fist.
Straight up.
And one of the stats is going to blow your mind here.
The new stat is 44 veterans a day are committing suicide.
And if you take that number, multiply by the number of months, days, roughly by 2035, 2038, we will have allowed more veterans to commit suicide than all of the killed in action between 1901 and 1999.
That is unacceptable.
And that's just the veterans.
There are men out there who are taking the permanent solution to a temporary problem, and it's disgraceful and nobody's talking about it.
I believe I'm the only comedian on the planet actively fighting this with logic, reason, comedy.
I throw a little wisdom in there because I apologize for not what I said, but for the timing that I did say it.
But I did 33 years in the military, in the army, and I had to take the long way around.
That's just the way it goes.
Can you tell them how you got red-pilled?
Oh, Lord.
I'm going to get sued, but okay.
All right.
So I went to Iraq in 2004.
I got my second enemy marksmanship badge, Purple Heart.
The front end of my vehicle was basically blown up by an IED, somewhere between 20 and 40 kilograms of boom putty.
I had a pretty significant TBI and a minor stroke.
And when I rotated back, you know, you're not the man I married.
You know, the usual crap.
And she basically killed my dog, six-year-old Chocolate Lab.
Now, I got three different stories.
And we've all seen enough crime, you know, shows.
When the story changes, the outcome's never good.
You know, I got divorced.
They called me a murderer, an assassin, in open court.
Lost my kids, lost my house.
I lost $90,000, wound up homeless, living out of my car.
So technically, I wasn't like, you know, in the street homeless, but I still had to eat off the dollar menu and sleep in my car for two or three nights.
And then I would go to a buddy's house, sleep on the couch for a day or two because I don't want to burden anyone.
And I just realized just how savage it is out there for men in the current situation we have going on.
And wow, this is bringing back a lot of traumatic memories.
Now, I'm not that guy.
I'm not going to sit there and play the victim.
But if you're a warrior and you're confronted with a war situation, because that's what divorce is, it's a war.
If you don't research your enemy thoroughly, you are slacking.
So that's what I did.
And I found out that 60 to 70% of all the suicides I looked into had a divorce or a contact with family court or both in their past within five to seven years.
And that system weaponizes love and hope against the men of this country.
And anything capable of weaponizing love and hope is evil to its core and needs to be eradicated thoroughly and completely.
That's what I'm trying to do.
And I'm doing it at the grassroots level.
I'm trying to get in front of the guys 16 to 19-ish before they sign the blank check with their penis that they're going to spend the rest of their life trying to cash.
And it's just tragic.
I can't tell you how many times in the army I've talked to guys who are getting half their check taken and it's given to three or four different women because the man downstairs was doing all their thinking when they were young and stupid.
Do you find that young men can be talked out of a decision if they're if they're really in love with a woman?
Because I found that there's some guys you just cannot it's it's really difficult.
I even have relatives where I'm like, you don't want to look into the laws of your state?
No, nothing.
Well, I thoroughly tell guys, get a PI, pull a background on her, find out what if she had what her credit score is, because that does.
predict a lot of problems in the future.
Find out if she's got a boatload of student debt and then recon the mother.
Because I'm going to tell you right now, she might be fine right now.
She got long legs and big tits.
A couple years down the road, those are big legs and long tits, and that's where tentacle porn came from.
Right there.
And trying to talk a guy out of it is insane.
I can't tell you.
I mean, that's what I was wondering if you found it possible.
It was hard.
Because I'm like, when I see guys going down that path, it's going to show that on the show today, but I literally had guys in front of my desk and, you know, they're getting married.
And I have to do like the marriage counseling because I was their first or second line leader.
And it's always the same thing.
She's different.
She loves me.
She's good people.
And I'm like, uh-huh.
Yeah.
We fill out the counseling.
And in the corner, in the upper right, I always put two divorce attorney phone numbers in there.
And they're like, Sora, what are these phone numbers for?
I mean, those are for the divorce attorney that you're going to need in six to 12 months from now.
And almost every single time within six to eight months, oh, Sword, I got to move back into barracks.
Oh, you call those numbers?
Yes, I'm going to call those numbers.
But trying to talk them out of it because the little head's doing all the thinking.
And if you ever knew where that saying came from, I need that like a hole in the head, well, the wrong head's doing the thinking.
And that hole in the top, that's where all of the bad decisions come out.
Yeah.
Well, I want to say, first of all, thank you for your service.
Yeah, it's all good.
And I'm a really big fan of your work.
So guys, make sure to go to his channel.
The link is in the description.
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Yes, the sympodemic.
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So, the first example that I have of this sympodemic, I decided at New Year's that I was going to do a catfish of the year.
Now, are you aware of what a catfish is?
Yes, I am.
Now, I did.
You've taken it to a whole other level.
Yes.
I applaud.
Yeah, so I had a tweet that said, Now, now that 2024 is coming to a close, we need to issue our most important award, the 2024 Catfish of the Year.
I want to give a special thanks to the filters, plastic surgeons, and FaceTune app that makes this all possible.
Please vote by liking and retweeting the lovely ladies in this thread below.
So, first on deck, we have the red-headed libertarian.
She's a 40-year-old conservative tweeter who made us think she looked 28 and hot.
Unfortunately, she's mid like the rest of us.
So, this is what we thought she looked like.
Well, the minute you say 40, I know there's a whole bunch of bondo there.
Bondo, what's bondo?
It used to use it back.
I'm aging myself here, but you used to use it to fill in dents and imperfections in your car back in the day, and then you paint over it.
But the thing is, the average women have a bump and grind shop in their bathroom.
That's like a $30,000 ordeal.
They should work for Hollywood.
Like this woman here, she looks okay right there.
Train wreck.
Yep.
There you go.
And first of all, redhead, no offense, but most redheads age like banana pudding.
They turn brown by the time you walk them to the table from the refrigerator.
I mean, it's crazy.
Yeah.
And they have no soul.
Yeah, I know.
And my ex was a redhead with big missile tits.
And she was different.
She loved me.
And I got hammered just like everyone else.
Next up, we have Sidney Sweeney.
Now, Sidney Sweeney portrayed herself to be a blonde bombshell, but unfortunately, without the professional makeup, she looks like another college girl at the University of Arizona.
So again, you know, she's very attractive, right?
And I'm not saying she's ugly, but there we go.
It's just a lot.
Still, still hot, you know, good looking.
She's okay.
I'd give her a four.
But just not just not what she's selling.
You see, this is a different.
No.
Now, next up, we have Paige Spinnerack.
Paige is a professional golfer, social media personality, and model.
Paige portrayed herself as a solid 9.5, but unfortunately, underneath all the filters, she looks like my childhood babysitter.
All right, hang on.
All right.
Okay.
How old is she?
Like 32, 31.
Hmm.
Okay.
She's like just average, average chick.
Yeah, again, I didn't say, I want to give preface.
I said nobody was ugly.
I did not say anything wrong.
You don't have to say that.
I'll say it.
If they're picked the meat off the bow and ugly or looking glass challenge, I will throw that out there.
Face tune can hide a lot.
Do you know what FaceTune is?
It's some kind of what filter or something.
Yeah, it's like an app where you can make your waist smaller, your lips bigger, eyes, but you can change your whole face.
So they turn themselves into an anime cartoon?
Yeah.
Okay.
And so FaceTune can hide a lot, but in this case, it hid 20 pounds.
We all thought Lolita was a Puerto Rican bombshell, but unfortunately, the receipts came out.
She did threaten to sue me over this post.
Yeah, she threatened a lawsuit, but I refuse to be silenced.
I will show the judge these posts, Lolita.
This is fraud.
Wow.
So this is what we thought she looked like.
All right.
Pretty attractive woman.
Yeah, not bad.
Yeah.
I have a weakness for Latino women.
Okay, yeah.
So now.
Okay.
Not ugly.
Not bad.
She got like third.
This, I think, was the biggest because they thought she was thin here.
It's kind of a chubster.
Well, I mean, the Latin women, they curve out.
And if they don't stay on top of it, they literally turn into Tyrannosaurus rexitis.
Yeah.
Next up, we have Sabrina Carpenter, a phenomenal singer and pop sensation.
But under all that makeup, she too is a mid.
Yeah.
And the thing was, I said nobody was ugly.
I never in this said anyone was ugly.
And I got attacked so hard.
Vicious.
They were all killed.
Like, they were all attacking me and saying that I too was a catfish, which is just, it's just not true.
I'll show you my online picture.
It's pretty in real life, you know.
Well, I'm looking at it right now.
You don't have like a bunch of makeup caked on or nothing.
Look, I know, but they're trying to, it's projection.
They're mad.
They're mad because they got found out.
They're making all this money.
Well, here's the thing.
No one is going to walk around as a 10 all the time.
It's just not going to happen.
Yeah.
I mean, and those women that can actually pull that off are so rare that you will never come across one in the wild.
And they have to put in so much time.
So then you have a girl that takes two hours to get ready every time.
I hate that.
Yeah.
So it comes at a.
I have one friend I know.
She looks pretty good.
She's like 40 something, but she pays 10K a year to look.
So it's like, she's not like a 10, but like.
I got you.
If they're putting in that much money, that's very expensive.
I did a show on the cost of modeling.
It's the bump and grind shop.
Yeah.
I did a show on the cost of it all.
Like if your wife wants a boob lift, that's going to cost $12,000.
Yeah.
Yeah.
Now, listen, if you are a certain age and you put your body through some stuff and you want to rehang the chandeliers, have at it.
Most guys are like, yeah, I don't care.
But if you're doing that when you're in your 20s, it doesn't age well.
Now, we have a lovely conservative streamer.
I forgot her name and I didn't feel like Googling it, so I didn't put it in.
But we thought was a hot e-girl, but she looks like my mom's friend Rebecca growing up.
We thought she was hot, but turns out she's just hot for her age.
Oh, shit.
Again, not ugly, but...
How old is she?
She's like 40.
Okay.
She's hot for her age.
Well, she looks like Wednesday in the other one.
I don't know who Wednesday is.
From the Adams family.
Next up, we have Courtney Nill, the conservative thirst trapper.
Go back to the other picture.
This one wasn't too bad.
All right.
That's some good boulder holder right there.
Next up, we have Isabel DeLuca, otherwise known as Cake Tits.
Cake Tits.
Yeah, she had a tweet go viral of her baking a cake.
It was very obviously, you know, those trad thirst traps.
And so this is what we thought she looked like.
Again, not bad, but just not what we're selling here.
Then this one was really blurry.
It's tough.
You got to get them on TikTok because they're not going to get us done up for a TikTok video.
They're still a natural filter, but if you want to get the girls, you got to get video.
The pictures can be too altered, but the video AI just isn't there yet.
Brittany Venti.
Okay.
Oh.
All right.
That looks like she did a couple rounds with the ugly tree.
Yeah.
Holy crap.
She hit a couple of those limbs on the way down, man.
Next up, we have Chrissy Mayer, a conservative mother of one trying to prove she's still got it.
Hmm.
Well, I mean, she's average.
Yeah, normal.
I mean, that other picture looks like something you see on a World War II poster or something.
Next up, we have Sarah Gonzalez, a mother of two, trying to prove she's still got it.
So this is what I want to know your number one draft pick, and then I'll tell you who won based on the votes.
Okay.
Ada Luich.
She just got divorced.
All right.
That's not really a super big transformation, but.
It's not terrible.
Then we got this one.
All right.
So we have a blonde, and then she's a brunette.
Blonde?
Okay.
Well, which is it?
I mean, what's her natural color?
I don't know if she's wearing this on the right.
So who do you think was the biggest catfish?
Let's see.
The woman I said who was Looking Glass Challenged.
The one right there.
This one?
Oh, shit.
Yeah, she was third.
The number one vote was her.
Really?
Yeah, it was kind of because she had a mental breakdown, though.
She did?
Oh, yeah.
It was really funny.
What happened?
She, like, got all offended.
She started calling me a pedophile.
Wow.
Because I told her to stop tweeting at me and watch her kids.
Oh.
No, because sometimes they spend so much time that I just wonder who's paying attention to the children when they're tweeting all day about how they're still hot.
And so I just kept telling her, go watch your kids.
And she's like, did you bring my kids into this?
Yeah.
She stop attacking me.
And I'm like, I didn't call you ugly.
I just said, look, this is fraud.
Like on my Twitter, I don't even argue with people.
I just ignore them.
Yeah.
I don't know.
I thought it was funny, so I kept going.
Well, I mean, listen, dudes, you got to be aware of this.
All right.
This is like, you know, Ho Trap 101, horizontal-orientated entertainer.
They put on the paint, they put on the spanks, you know, all of the tight-fitting stuff to hide their devil's braille, which is cellulite.
And you don't know what's going to happen until you pop the top and, you know, it's going to open up like a Pillsbury Doughboy can.
Yeah.
I've heard some guys will hook up with a woman and they bring her back and then she takes off the spanks and it's just no-go.
That's right.
I call it the devil's braille because, you know, if you could read Braille, when you go over that, it's a big warning, run for the door.
How do you, do you have to like grab her butt to like feel if there's an extra piece of fabric?
Yeah.
Be careful with that because you can wind up with catching a charge.
So, you know, first of all, guys, if you guys have a question for Terrence, you do go to theaudacitynetwork.com, sign up for the monthly or yearly membership.
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So speaking of which, we have Bennett.
He says, are we dating?
The same guy needs to go.
I run a group that screenshots and shares posts from Boston, Massachusetts, and Manchester and New Hampshire groups.
We have over 4,100 followers now.
Well, I don't know why it would need to go because honestly, it's a great marketing campaign.
The women will want to sleep with them more.
Like when they get posted on the page, like women will pick them more.
You know what I'm talking about?
Oh, well, women picking people apart.
That never happens.
No, so there's a Facebook group where women will share if they're dating the same men.
So they'll post it and say it.
Dating him.
Does anyone else dating him?
And the problem is they think it'll deter women, but it just encourages us to like, like, it's a marketing campaign for the guy.
Well, we were just talking about this, about the whole virgin thing.
Oh, yeah.
Like, if a woman has a high body count, men will view her as less attractive.
But women, if they find out a man is a virgin, they run away.
Yeah.
I mean, it's not, it kind of sucks, but that's just the reality on the ground.
I'm not here to lie to anybody.
Yeah.
So speaking of virginity, we had this.
I want to first talk about the simp episode.
I want to first talk about the simp epidemic.
It's bad.
Can you tell us, how do we get here, Terrence?
Why is there such an epidemic of men wanting to throw?
I mean, we could talk about the women, right?
So I'm not trying to take it off the women.
But sometimes I wonder, why do men sign up for such bad deals?
Why is there an epidemic of men wanting to throw their money, their hard-earned resources?
Well, basically, back in the day, before we had the internet, if you were a five in looks, you'd have women who are a five, you're a five, and they would just naturally meet each other and work out.
Now you have the twos, threes, fours, all the way up to tens, all going for the nine and ten over here.
And, you know, most of the women below that, they're swamp donkeys.
And men are not, you know, getting any play.
So they're using their money, throwing money at it, trying to get attention from these ladies.
And listen, I'm going to tell you right now, it's not going to work out for you.
I mean, even if you're successful in the short term, just a matter of time before she rings out your wallet and you wind up homeless, living out of your car like me.
We can order off the dollar menu together.
So there's, I was talking about the archetypes that I see in Christian media and church.
And one of them that I see is the dorky conservative guy that is just so naive to what's going on, but he has a big ego and thinks that he's going to somehow out-alpha the state.
He found a special woman.
And they also market it to us as if we need to do that too.
Well, first of all, those conservative dorks, they're what the media apparatus wants to put in front of the men of today.
So there's that.
Now, I myself am, I still am a dork, geek, whatever you want.
I mean, I play Dungeons and Dragons, War Thunder, you know, I play a lot of first-person shooter video games, real-time strategy.
I've been doing it since I was in eighth grade.
I'm like the king of the dorks, and I'm cool with it.
But I'm not naive.
I'm not stupid.
Mainly because, you know, I got my balls kicked in so hard in divorce court, it wakes you up.
Yeah.
And a lot of these conservative dorks have not really felt that kind of pain yet.
Yeah.
I mean, we have Crowder.
I'm not going to go into his details, but he got tooled up really bad.
Yeah.
And his rhetoric before was you need to man up and get bad.
I hate that.
I can't stand when they try to sell that to you because they're literally selling you an idea that more than likely will lead you into ruin.
And some people die because of it.
I can't do it.
In good faith, I cannot recommend that any man get married and invite the state into the relationship that they are in because it just ends in travesty.
So I'm predicting that Charlie is going to divorce.
I don't wish it upon him.
Charlie Kirk.
Yeah.
I saw a clip that goes that went viral.
And the reason I think this is going to happen is because he had clips throughout the years.
One of them was him talking about how treat a date like a job interview.
I find, yeah, I find that women do that all the time.
You literally drop out of the box pre-programmed how to do that.
Well, but the problem is with women, they just learn the answers.
So the guys that are media personality, they're telling everyone the answers they want to hear.
So it's pretty easy for a woman to like stalk a guy and then tell him exactly what he wants to hear on a date.
Like, I won't leave her.
And I looked into her.
She used to be a pageant queen.
Yeah, I know.
I know.
She's a very, very pretty woman, but she was older than him.
And the thing is, when a woman, even if you're the same age in your 20s, the run circles around the guy.
Yeah.
You know, I mean, 25-year-old girl has dealt with way more men than a guy.
Yeah.
So I just don't see it working out.
I mean, a woman can walk into church and say, come hit this in my car.
And there will be men standing up and going back there and doing it.
Yeah.
I mean, there's a thousand men that signed up to have sex with Bonnie Blue.
And they had sex with her for 45 seconds each.
Yeah, we did.
We did the math one.
How's that work?
It's not a lot of completion going on there.
And they signed up.
They said, put me on camera.
I'll do it.
I mean, first of all, that friction sleeve had to be worn out.
I mean, you got to put ice in there or something after that.
I mean, that's a lot of abuse.
Yeah.
Wow.
That's some beat up bubblegum right there.
Yeah.
So, anyways, I saw Charlie Kirk had a clip that went viral of him debating with a guy.
So I want to see your reaction to it.
Yes, sir.
You were talking about like premarital sex and things like that.
Let me make sure this isn't on.
Is that on 2X?
Oh, no, it's not.
Okay.
We start off here.
Yes, sir.
You were talking about like premarital sex and things like that, which I feel like is a great concept.
Yeah, but the question is, do you think men and women both having high body counts is the same thing?
No.
They're both bad, but men deal with different sexual temptation than women.
It's much easier for a woman to say no to sex than men.
A man, much easier.
So which one do you think is worse?
That's what I mean by worse for them.
It's actually worse for the female, psychologically.
Right.
Worse, like, like, worse from an outside judgment standpoint.
I mean, it's probably a tie.
I mean, but they're worse for men for different reasons.
So why do you think he's lying?
Well, he is in the public.
And you see that model of female in the background?
Yeah.
All right.
So he's got to play to both sides.
So, I mean, you got to do what you got to do, I guess.
But because YouTube will cancel his ass if he's too honest.
Well, one too honest, and he's on the men's side.
Like, literally, the media machine wants to beat the men down, especially men who are masculine and trying to set the example for other men out there.
They hate you with a passion and they want to burn you down.
That's the truth.
What do you mean, hate you with a passion?
Like the media?
You think he hates men?
Well, the media is run by feminists.
Yeah.
And like I have been a speaker at some of the men's rights conventions.
And these women show up and pull the fire alarm.
And all we're doing is talking.
Yeah.
I mean, men should just talk out their feelings.
And we try to come together to talk out our feelings.
And they call in bomb threats.
They pull the fire alarm.
They block the entrances.
It's insane.
Do you think he knows?
Yes, he's not an idiot.
He knows exactly what's going on, but he's getting paid for playing both sides of the aisle.
That's just my man.
Yeah, let's see what else he says.
He has a much harder time restraining sexual impulse than a female.
Right, but it's also a fact that when a woman has a high body count, they become less desirable in the eyes of a man.
I don't know if that's not a good thing or a bad thing.
It's just reality.
He's totally right there.
If a man is a virgin, especially in the generation we live in, why are we not like if you if you're a virgin, are you going to be respected as a man?
I was.
Right, but I was a virgin until I got married.
Right, but thing about the majority, I had a pretty good life and good career.
Like, career, career, yes.
But also, why are you sharing your sexual behavior with people?
Like, that's weird.
Like, why is it their business that you're a virgin or not?
Like, I mean, that's like, who cares?
Can you pause?
Did he or did he not mention his wife and sex life many times before this clip?
Yeah.
Okay.
So he's literally.
Well, he doesn't say the they he does tout her as like a talking point.
You know, so he'll say, get married because I got married.
I had kids.
You know how they do that?
It's like they use it's so infuriating.
Yeah, they use their wives and their families for clout, which isn't really that's a lot of pressure to put on someone, you know.
Yeah.
You know what's the worst at it is Mr. Matt Walsh.
He is always blaming and shaming men for not getting married or whatever, not stepping up.
Yeah.
Yeah.
In fact, I gave him his own name, Naggy Beard.
Because that's all he does is nag.
Now, I agree with a lot of what he has to say.
But I just, I get really upset when he literally is talking to men and blaming and shaming guilt and fear.
Like he should just set, you know, put on a set of tits and just yell at us like a chick.
Did you know his wife like spurged out at me once?
She what?
His wife like yelled at me, not yelled at me, but she wrote an essay about me on Twitter.
I'm a doomer.
Well, you have got a lot of, you get way more hate mail than I get.
Oh, yeah.
Yeah.
I mean, I get hate mail, but it's like always the same.
Like, you hate your mother.
You hate yourself.
We hate women.
I don't hate anyone.
Yeah.
I mean, I have been to the end of the road where hate ends and it's in a mass grave.
I am like, I severely dislike.
You know, I might, you know, be enraged, but I am not at the level of hatred.
So let's see what else he has to say.
Dude, I agree.
But like, if you is the argument that you have sex because you might be like called a virgin?
Like, yeah, I don't have STDs, go to hell.
Like, okay.
No, I, again, I completely agree with you.
But like, the fact that the social pressure is.
It's like, if a man is a virgin, especially in this dating market, right?
Like, I think that's unbelievably attractive to women.
Wrong.
He's wrong.
I think women actually, they don't, they stop throwing themselves at Drake because they said he's got a too high of a body count.
Let me just let me just stop.
Now, listen, I mean, there are guys out there who are virgins into, you know, their 30s and 40s because they're waiting for the right woman.
And I can't begrudge them for that.
More power to them.
But in today's day and age, they're going to get eaten alive.
Well, yeah, well, there's that.
And in today's day and age, you know, there are women out there walking across the stage to get their high school diploma with the thousand cock stare on their face.
You can see it in their eyes.
Well, now they're having sex with a thousand guys in a day.
That is so disgusting.
I know.
I mean, I literally want to vibe.
It's only 12 hours, not even a day.
Yeah.
Okay.
So at least you can get a good night's sleep, I guess.
I mean, would you, if she wanted to hook up, would you hook up with her?
No.
No, I'm actually done with that.
It's just not worth the effort anymore.
Let me see here.
I disagree.
My wife's pretty beautiful.
Right, right?
Like, she's pretty desirable.
Right.
Would you guys agree?
Yeah, Erica's pretty beautiful.
I'll just tell you that if a man or a woman remains a virgin, you become insanely attractive in a time when everyone else has been shared.
It's not easy.
I understand that.
All right.
How old is his wife?
She's.
Okay.
Let me look at the ages.
Actually, I think I have them in my.
I have my.
What age did she get married at?
She got married.
It was either like 31 or 32.
I have it in my spreadsheet.
Let me just go ahead.
She got married to him basically because Father Time had caught up.
Yeah.
I got you.
I hope he doesn't get divorced.
I don't wish that on anyone.
But, you know, when you look at just the numbers and the stats, you know, 56% of the people who get married are getting divorced.
Oh, it's Erica Kirk.
That's her name.
Oh, she's not in this.
I got so many.
You don't have her on there?
I thought I did, but I know.
Fair ore.
Fair or I know.
Hold on, let me look up.
Charlie Kirk, wife, age, married.
32.
Okay.
Yeah.
Yeah.
And she's really attractive, but she's like a pageant queen.
So it's like Charlie Kirk.
Okay.
But you got to understand, like, a lot of these women that travel in those circles.
Yeah.
I mean, they're around rich men, powerful men, and things go down or up and in and out, you know, stuff like that.
I have to find it.
She had like some big model pictures, which are pretty skimpy, like back in the day.
I'm not hating on it, but I'm like, this isn't the trad that you're pushing.
I mean, I hope it works out for him.
I really do.
But, you know, I'm a realist here.
Yeah.
We live in a hypersexualized culture.
I'm not even shaming people.
I know it's difficult, but if you commit yourself to it, you should be, you should be platformed as a desirable, you know, way to live.
And again, I'm not here to humiliate everyone's struggles and everyone has.
Maybe today, though, if you could.
Should is like a wish list.
What?
Should is a wish list.
Yes.
When we say, like, even me, I like to, I can't say it on YouTube, but that we shouldn't, you know.
Yeah.
But yeah, I can't say it, but I kind of stopped saying it because I realized it's just a wish list that'll never happen, the vote.
Yeah.
Yeah.
It is what it is.
But again, I listen to him talk a lot.
He's really smart and he debates people and rips them to shreds.
Got it.
But he's not the guy who should be giving relationship advice.
Not in today's day and age.
Could rededicate yourself to that way of life.
It's a beautiful thing.
But okay, so then again, does the innocence of being a virgin as a man lower his masculinity?
No, it actually increases his masculinity.
Just call him in return.
Actually, my lord.
Main a virgin.
That means that you have so much self-control over your animal instincts that you're like the most badass man.
Wow, he is stretching that.
The most badass.
Is he more badass than you who like served in Iraq?
No.
You know, you're in the militate.
More than the kickboxers.
He's more badass.
No.
but he waited.
So you just got to.
Well, I mean, more power to him.
I mean, like I said, I'm not taking anything away from him, but I'm a realist.
And it just is what it is.
It's easy not to be a virgin.
It's hard to be a virgin.
Masculinity is doing the hard stuff, not the easy stuff.
Yes and no.
That's what I was thinking, God.
Yeah, yes and no.
Like, yeah, masculinity has a lot to do with doing the hard stuff.
All right.
Now, the way I look at masculinity, there's four corners to it.
Provide, protect, mentor, and if need be, destroy.
That's it.
It's just that simple.
And if he could fit into that box, then more power to him.
But like I said, I think he's stretching playing both sides of the audience.
Yeah.
I think it's because the wives, conservative women, influence the vote too much.
Like, I think that's who Trump was pandering to last election because that's why he was pushing.
That's why Melania did the pro-abortion stance.
I think that was like a chess move because he was trying to get the suburban mom vote.
Well, I mean, with, I mean, what are the marriage rates now?
It's like between five and six out of a thousand are getting married.
Yeah.
That's the lowest it's been since they started counting that stat after the Civil War in 1865.
What was it in 1865?
It was the end of the Civil War.
No, what was the rate then?
I don't know.
It was significantly higher.
Okay.
Because back then people got married or young.
Yeah.
But I don't know, man.
I'm just sick and tired of the talking heads selling us this illusion.
They get married.
You know, man up.
Like, what are you talking about?
A man in current year makes one mistake.
His life is ruined.
Because child support is no joke.
If you need two incomes just to get by in today's day and age, try doing it when they're taking 60% of your wages away.
You are living in a refrigerator box.
You're eating off the dollar menu.
All because you listen to these talking heads and you decided to get married.
I call it a mirage.
It's not a marriage.
It's a mirage.
It's that thing you see in the distance.
Like, oh, that looks so refreshing.
I'm going to keep going until I get there.
And you never get there.
You die in the desert of thirst.
And they keep selling hope.
Yeah.
Yeah.
Listen, I'm not trying to crush anyone's hope.
I'm just telling you the truth.
And in current year, as a young man or a man, you need to focus on your excellence, your purpose, or a mission will get you by.
But, you know, living your life to be a slave to someone else or living up to society's expectations of you is just a fool's errand.
See how he finished.
Like, I have zero respect for a 17 year old.
It's like, bro, I have all this sex with people.
Like, yeah, you're nothing more than a rabbit.
Yeah.
Like, good for you.
Again, like, control yourself.
Again, but doesn't it also come down to if innocence raises femininity and makes a woman more attractive, wouldn't it do the opposite for a moment?
No, I'm saying it actually makes the man more attractive.
I think virginity makes both sexes more.
Wow.
Again, he's playing to both sides.
Yeah.
And like the Daily Wire, they do the same thing because they are literally in league with the forces of darkness.
What do you mean they're in league?
What does that mean?
All right.
What I mean by the forces of darkness, they want to keep you under their thumb.
They want to maintain you as basically a beast of burden.
And they don't want you to have any opinions.
They don't want you to resist.
They're going to put the yoke of slavery on you and keep you walking forward until you die.
And our current civilization has broken the contract between men and women because men provide and protect and maintain the civilization.
And they used to do it because there was that contract between men and women.
Yeah, I'm going to do all of this risky stuff, but I'm going to have a wife.
I'm going to have a family.
And that's going to be my purpose.
That's gone now.
And I really cannot, in good faith, look any man in the face and go, yeah, get back on that plantation and work yourself to death.
No.
What would you tell young guys to do?
Focus on your excellence, find your purpose, and stick to that because it'll be more rewarding in the end.
And I know people are going to get mad because I said this, but even if you do, you know, you're like, oh, I'm going to have kids.
It's going to be so rewarding.
Yes.
while you watch your kids grow up and fast forward, because you only see them 96 hours a month, and you're paying half your pay to put a roof over the heads of your children while your ex-wife or baby mama has literally installed a revolving door in the front and back door for the conga line of cocks that are going to go through that house, and your kids are going to be exposed to that.
And those men who visit your ex-wife or your baby mama will get to spend more time with your children than you will.
That is a travesty.
One thing i've heard from men is they were saw how bad single mothers are as parents when they dated one.
Oh, they're terrible because, like I had one guy tell me that he went on a date and he didn't realize the he like went back to her place and he didn't realize the daughter was There.
It was like a first date.
Ooh.
And so he just said he left because he felt so weird that the daughter was like, he just assumed the daughter was gone, you know.
Well, I mean, you know, I was raised by a single mother.
And, you know, I think one of the problems that I had with women in my life is because my mother told me what women wanted, which, you know, but that's not what they want.
They don't want the nice guy.
They don't want the gentle giant, the hero.
They don't want that guy.
They want the bad boy that's going to pull their hair and, you know, beat him up a little bit, throw them onto the curb.
I'm serious.
I know.
I'm just, I'm being honest.
I can't, like, while I was dating, I had women like, oh, you're just too nice.
I'm like, what the hell does that mean?
I'm like, okay.
Yeah, maybe.
Maybe, you know.
Yeah.
It is what it is.
Now, I'm not recommending that because it would catch a charge and it's expensive.
But yeah, I don't think women even know what they want.
No.
Because they'll tell you one thing with their words, but their actions are completely different.
Here we got another one from Charlie Kirk.
Are noticing this and have a plan and an agenda.
And the agenda, Donald Trump's agenda, putting the country first, curtailing hyperinflation.
I have made this advice publicly and privately to President Trump.
In the debate and in his rallies, he needs to be very clear.
And when he goes to college campuses this fall, which I hope we're going to host a couple campus events for either him or his vice president, future vice president, whoever it is, you know, we have a great campus infrastructure.
We hope to do it.
The president Trump needs to say, forget the noise, forget the chatter.
As president, I will make it easier to do three things.
Get married, have babies, own a home.
If I'm president, those three things will be achievable for you.
No, do you have any idea what that will take?
No, you tell me.
What do you think?
You're the expert here.
Yeah.
Well, first of all, what would that take?
You're going to have to get the women on board with that, which they're not going to allow the laws to change because they get a free run.
That's the thing.
I think more men would sign up than women tomorrow.
I do.
Because I don't know.
No, hear me out.
This is why I think that.
Because the average marriage is like 30 or 32, and men want the younger, hotter women, but we keep pushing it off.
So that to me says that the ball's more in women's court to push.
Like, I don't think women want to give up the lifestyle that being young and attractive is.
So it's like, I think like women would protest too.
They want the benefits of the traditional marriage while still living the modern feminist lifestyle.
Yeah.
And we don't, the other thing is women don't want to be mothers.
Like if we're shame.
Yeah.
If we aborted an eighth of the world population, like, how can we say that they're like, they always say women are nurturing and want to be mothers.
If you're a woman, yeah, God.
If you're a woman and you have an abortion and then you say, I'm not a mother, yes, you are.
You're a mother to a dead child, which is a tragedy.
Yeah.
It's straight up.
I consider it murder.
Yeah, I do too.
And, you know, I like, and I used to think totally different before I had my own kids.
Once I had my own kids, I'm like, ooh, yeah, that's not good.
Well, and they don't care.
Like, the thing is, I've shown women abortion videos on my show before.
Oh, my Lord.
And no, I've seen them.
I've like watched an abortion.
I've shown women them, and they just do not care.
They just don't.
I'm not surprised.
Yeah.
This idea that women are like nurturing.
I just do not, but I think men are more nurturing than women.
You want to see a woman's true character?
You watch how she performs in divorce court.
Yeah.
Because there's no, I'm strong and independent in divorce court.
No, no, I'm a victim.
He's so terrible.
He did all this stuff to me.
Oh, get the hell out of here.
Come on.
Yeah.
The someone said, you got to go to the Amish to find a traditional woman.
Oh, yeah.
Well, my brother's looking.
Or the Mennonites.
My brother wants a wife.
So I think for a YouTube video, we're going to go to the Amish and see if we can.
That's a whole like, that's a whole ordeal.
I know.
I'm kidding.
I think we might actually do it for a video because it'd be funny to have him approach Amish women.
Listen, man, we are screwed.
We really are.
Especially if women don't want to be mothers.
They don't have a problem aborting their children and they're totally cool with it.
I mean, I have the 80-80 rule, which is 80% of divorces are filed by women.
80% of the time, the man is caught completely off guard.
They weaponize the system against you.
They don't care if you wind up living in the street.
Parental alienation happens on the regular and it's enforced by the laws.
And women don't give a shit.
I've sat there and was in court because I did this research while I was homeless.
And some of these women were out in the lobby bitching and moaning how the father doesn't come around anymore and they can't control the kids.
And the kids are between 11 and 13, which is basically where the mother can no longer discipline the children, especially if they're male children.
And she's whining and complaining about this.
While just five years prior to this, she drove the father away.
And now she's complaining about it.
It's the typical liberal.
Create the problem and then bitch about it down the road.
We have another guy.
Oh, here we go.
This one I haven't seen, so it'll be interesting.
Let me see.
Marriage needs to happen quick if you are going to wait before marriage or if you're going to wait till marriage.
Men who are ready for real is going to last.
They want to wait for sex, but they also want marriage to happen quick.
Bingo, which means you better be a damn good dater.
That's right.
You got to be an excellent dater.
You got to be vulnerable.
You got to be integrated.
You got to know what you like, how you like it.
What the fuck?
Are you serious?
What is it?
Like, why do Christians produce such simps?
Like, I don't know.
I'm not saying other religions don't, but it's just so bad in Christian churches.
The Christian religion.
It's like, well, she's accepted Jesus.
She's redeemed.
And they sell this to the man in the congregation.
And they, a lot of them buy it.
I'm sorry.
I've told several pastors, do not sell me your swamp donkeys if I come into your church to eat your zombie flesh and drink your vampire blood.
Don't do it.
I've literally like, I've seen guys get up and walk out.
It's interesting.
My dad, he's not overly religious, right?
But he's very moral.
Like he literally doesn't drink, doesn't split.
He's the most like literally like one of the best people I've ever met.
And I asked him why he doesn't go to church or like that, why that's not a thing for him.
And he told me he doesn't like watching gay men talk.
He's like, I got sick of gay men telling me how to live my life.
He's got a point.
I know.
And that's why I found, and especially in like the Catholic Church, because we're Catholic, right?
So it's, it's kind of.
I forgot when they did the study of what percent of the priests were gay.
It was probably a significant amount.
You got to do something with it.
What are you going to do with the gay guys?
You got to do something with them.
So I don't know.
Maybe let the priests get married.
Yeah.
What?
Oh.
No, I said the gay guys.
It's no wonder they're more affected.
But the thing is, is like I was raised in the Episcopal Church.
So if you're going to do Christianity in a beer scale, Episcopalian is basically Catholic light.
Okay.
Because it's all the same stuff.
You know, the sit-stand kneel, the church aerobics.
You go up, you drink the zombie or the vampire blood, eat the zombie flesh, and all of a sudden you're good to go.
And then everyone leaves.
It's the exact same, except the guy talking to you can get married in the Episcopal Church.
In the Catholic Church, they can't.
Oh, no way.
I don't know.
Yeah.
It just is what it is.
I just love the answer.
If they corrected that, you would deal, it would crush a lot of that pedophilia down, all of that horrible stuff that happened under the Catholic Church that they hid for years.
And it's probably one of the main reasons a lot of people are turned off from Christianity here in this country is because of the horrible example the Catholic Church.
Well, it always happens, even in other churches, like they've had.
Oh my gosh.
Do you see that guy in X, that guy in Africa?
Oh, no, actually, it wasn't a church.
He was a government official.
But all these sex tapes came out of him with like 300 people.
Like, he've had sex with pretty much all the women in the office that were married.
Wow.
And then it came out a couple months later.
He's on vacation with his wife.
She doesn't care.
Damn.
He had sex with her, like all the women on the job too.
Didn't.
But actually, even like Justin Bieber's pastor at a scandal.
Well, I mean, that's another country.
Yeah.
You screw around with people's wives in other countries.
There could be dire consequences.
Yeah.
Let's see the rest of this.
You got to talk about it.
And then, hey, when things start getting spicy, whistle up a small little fucking ceremony, throw her on the couch and wrap it up.
So my wife and I met, and we started dating.
Two weeks later, I said, You're the woman I want to marry.
Let's get married.
Two weeks.
Two weeks.
She's different.
She's different.
She loves me.
They always say that.
They always say, I'm too mean on the women.
And I thought if you came on today and we only talked about women, like maybe we'd get hate speech or something.
So I decided to show you the men.
This guy's got a ham hock neck.
All right.
He's obviously gravitationally challenged.
And I mean, of course he's going to ask a woman to marry after two weeks because he probably doesn't get over the X enough times to be picky.
Yeah.
He's like, all right, I'm over the drop zone.
Do it.
Come on.
I don't know.
I'd go to the gym.
Maybe I should show him how to use the treadmill so he doesn't have to be that desperate.
It's not hard.
Okay.
Now, in current year, two weeks is totally unacceptable.
Now, if this was like 50 years and be, you know, 50 years ago or beyond, that happened all the time.
People got married young and quick.
Yeah.
I think the average, I remember in 1920, the average was like three months of no one.
You just get married.
A lot of that might be shotgun marriage.
You slipped them by the goalie, so I guess we got to do this.
Yeah, seal the deal.
We didn't get married on the spot, but we also didn't wait eight years.
We got engaged, and we went 10 and a half months from then.
Any sex during the engagement?
No, it was a wonderful wedding night, I will say.
And I have five kids, so it's definitely sex happening now.
Did we talk about sex?
Absolutely.
Did we want to have sex before?
Absolutely.
Did we?
No, because we said, let's make sure.
Let's hold off on sex for sure.
She didn't want the sex that bad.
When a girl wants, when a woman wants sex from a guy, oh, she'll make him cave.
There's no way.
It's so hard.
Try telling a woman, if she doesn't want to have sex with you, if you tell her no, it's fine, like whatever.
But if she wants to have sex with you, it's hard.
And you say no, good luck.
Unless she's ugly or something.
They will throw it on you.
Listen, man, it all depends.
If you are in the middle in a dry spell and you need a slump buster, things happen so that we can have the right life and make sure this works.
Did you present it?
Yes.
I think that's the big indicator.
You presented it.
It doesn't work so well when the woman presents it and the guy goes, good idea.
I also made a comedy lecture years ago called The String Along Method where you get a girlfriend and you could string her along for up to like 13 years without getting married.
Wait, wait.
Yeah.
Okay, wait.
Tell me more.
Well, yeah, you're with a girl.
She's a nice piece of tail, and you don't want to, you know, ruin it and say no right away.
So you string it along, like, oh, yeah, I want to get married.
Well, why don't we get a dog first?
And then, you know, we'll see how that goes.
You can string that out for about, you know, 18 months, 24 tops.
Wait, wait, can we role play?
I want to see how you'd answer.
I want to see how you'd answer.
So if I say, I say, let's get married.
Why don't we get a dog first?
Okay.
Okay.
So now we have the dog.
Okay.
So now we have the dog.
Look at this dog.
I trained him myself.
I taught him to sit.
Very nice.
Look at he's such a good dog.
Now what?
What do we have to do?
Well, we should live together first.
Okay, let's do that.
All right.
So you can string that along for another 18 to 24 months.
I'm super neat.
I'm super.
Look at I do all the laundry.
Excellent.
Excellent.
Okay, so this is that's been two years.
So no, it's been four.
Four, because the dog was two.
And then the okay, so then you pull out ring bluff one.
Okay, so it's yeah.
let's go look at rings and you can string that along for like another 18 months Okay, so for 18, so then, so another year and a half, we just okay, so I liked this ring.
We'll put it on layaway.
No, no, we can get a cheaper ring.
It's okay.
I don't care.
We can do this right.
We're going to get this.
No, no, don't waste your money.
Don't, don't.
I don't want you.
I know you're.
Still doing the ring bluff.
I know.
Now, look, I'll take the cheapest one.
It doesn't work.
I'll take a bit.
You got to string it out, man.
Okay, so if you do, I don't remember all of the steps, but if you follow all of the steps, you can really string this out for nine to 12 years.
So what's after the ring bluff?
That's ring bluff one, ring bluff one, ring bluff two, and then there's illness.
Okay, so I want to be totally healthy when they do this.
I want to make sure I don't leave you with anything.
Okay, what's unhealthy?
You seem like a healthy.
I have runs in my family.
I have congenital heart issues.
I need to get checked out.
I got to run and do some PT.
Oh, okay.
So, if we go to the gym together every day, there you go.
You live with me.
You can cook for me.
Do I wake me up?
Do I need to get thinner too?
I'm guessing.
Why not?
Okay.
It's better if you get thinner, then you can milk the pencil better.
Okay, so what's your goal here?
You want to get to lose 20 pounds and then we can do it?
Well, yeah, you can do that as well.
But the thing is, no, I meant us because you said you wanted to get in.
Like, what's the what do we have to get to to get to the marriage?
Well, typically, uh, you want to you don't want to get married, you know, you're stringing it along.
No, no, but I want to know what they you have to tell the people what they would say to like hypothetically me.
So, we need to get well.
If you want to have children, we need to be as healthy as we possibly can.
So, you're going to have to like run a few.
Okay.
We have to eat better.
Like, there's all kinds of excuses.
Okay, so now I come back.
When you run out of excuses, you're like, this just isn't going to work out.
And then you go find another one that's younger and you start all over.
It's rinse and repeat.
Oh, that's so funny.
It's mean as hell.
But in today's current, in the market of what's going on out there, and the what if at the end?
So, does she dump you or you dump her?
Well, if you're smart, you can actually get her to dump you.
Okay.
And I'm going to make that video.
You gave me that idea.
Okay.
So, how do I?
So, I say, you know what?
I want to be with you so bad.
We don't even have to get married.
Well, you're kind of stuck then, but if you want her to get rid of you, you can like number one, you cry in front of her.
Okay.
So, let's look at this.
Women always lose respect for man the minute he sheds one tear.
Hey, honey, how's it going?
Go ahead.
There you go.
Why are you crying?
I could make up like something that's really weak and stupid.
Somebody cut me off on the way home.
Oh, something stupid.
Oh, it's okay.
Because if your dog dies and you cry about it, you can get a pass for that.
If a family member or a close friend dies, you can get a pass for that.
But if you are crying at the drop of a hat, you're literally, she's okay.
So let's pretend that doesn't work.
Oh, it's okay.
It's no big deal.
He was a veteran.
He's badass, so who cares?
It's all right.
Get another one.
What?
Find another dude, which most women can find another dude, no problem.
Okay, so you get another dude for her.
Is that what you like?
What's that?
That could be a maneuver.
Okay, so you know her type, obviously.
So you find someone that's like better.
Yeah.
Maybe pay him to go after her.
Is that if you pay somebody to go after her, that is, you're going to get some bad karma for that.
But if you arrange the meeting and it just takes, it just nature takes its course, then you're going to get a pass.
So how would you arrange the meeting?
What would you do?
Well, that requires you like be at work and be like your best-looking co-worker.
Hey.
Well, yeah, you can do something like that.
You're like, you know what?
You know, you just like bring him around the house and then you just take that quick look to see if she's looking at him.
You got to see if he's looking at her too.
Yeah.
Yeah.
But the important part is if you catch her looking at him, then you know you can sell it.
So then what do you do?
Do you tell him?
Be like, hey.
You're just like, you know, hey, man, it's not working out with us.
I don't know what's going to happen.
And then if he's into it, it'd be like, oh, okay.
No, it can't be your friend.
It could be somebody you work with, an acquaintance.
You don't ever want to pawn off used merchandise on one of your close friends.
That is a no-go.
That's how you get punched in the mouth.
Wow.
Well, what if the friends kind of, I mean, maybe the friend will get rid of her after, but he's got to end the.
I saw a TikTok actually.
Well, that's how you wind up with Eskimo Brothers.
Well, I saw TikTok of these two friends, and one said that he hooked up with his friend's girlfriend, and he did it to show him that she was a whore.
And then he dumped her, and the guy was like, Yeah, I was thankful for it.
Well, yeah, that's it.
I mean, in the day and age where women will marry you just to get the cash and prizes, you're going to have to get medieval.
Okay.
I mean, there's a reason I call them wife's to tutes for a reason.
Speaking of which, Brad Pitt's divorce is finalized, and I have the numbers.
So I'm going to be doing another Pimp Tart Wife Stitute Brad Pitt edition coming up.
What does that mean?
That's where I take all of the money that was handed over and then, you know, I estimate how many hits on pussy and other sexual acts.
And then I divide the numbers and find out how much he actually paid.
So what is the super model?
So since she's a supermodel, that'd be interesting.
These are supermodels.
Here's the funny thing.
He was only married for two years.
Really?
It was that short?
It was that short.
And he was with her for a decade prior to that.
But that's just bait pussy.
That was nothing but bait to bring in the big fish, hook it, and then slaughter it.
And that's what happened.
Wow.
Wow.
So I didn't know that they were only married.
They were two years.
It took what, seven, eight years for the divorce to be done, and they're still fighting about stuff.
Wow.
Now, I have no idea.
Like, if a divorce takes that long, every lawyer involved needs to have their law license taken away because there's no reason to milk it for eight goddamn years.
They just want to get paid.
I mean, morally, I think that's reprehensible.
That 13 years.
So funny.
String along?
Brad tried.
He did it for 10.
Yeah, he screwed it up.
He fell off of the equation.
Yeah, he should have.
Maybe he should have stayed married to Jennifer.
I don't know.
I don't even know what kind of hell that was.
I don't know.
I don't think she took him to the cleaners or anything.
No, no.
But, you know, he divorced her because he was coming up on the 10-year mark, and Hollywood has permanent alimony.
And Robin Williams was paying alimony to two ex-wives.
No way.
Yeah.
I didn't know.
I did the memorial for Robin Williams where I actually, in video, gave him the taps in 21 he should have gotten from the military because of all of his USO tours.
Oh, wow.
I mean, that dude literally showed up, did comedy, and entertained the troops while mortars were falling.
Well, what was that?
Mortars.
What's that?
It's a short, short-range artillery.
It's a man-pack of toy.
Oh, wow.
Yeah.
I mean, he died, and then there was no ceremony.
They hid it or tried to cover it up.
I think they did it out of shame because they knew they rode that mule into his grave.
My dad said he was sick.
Was he not sick?
My dad said he killed himself because he was like...
He had some type of neurodegenerative thing going on, and I totally get it.
But, I mean, look at it this way.
You're on the hook to pay two ex-wives alimony for the rest of your life.
And you cannot bring in the money like you used to.
Most judges are not going to lower your alimony.
And I knew something was going to go down with him when he put most of his assets in a, what's that, irrevocable trust for his kids.
And then I guess he was just marking time.
So do you think, because my dad, I was just talking to him about Robin Williams the other day, but he said that it was because he was sick and it was going to get bad.
That was the deciding factor.
Yeah, okay.
Because I thought it was from his divorce.
Well, I mean, again, you have to pay millions of dollars in alimony a year to two ex-wives.
Yeah.
And you cannot earn the money to pay that.
And now you're sick.
And it's not, there's no upside.
It's nothing but downhill from there.
And, you know, he did what he did.
Yeah.
Now, I, you know, I was, I can't really judge him.
I was not in his shoes.
I totally understand.
But like when it comes to self-deletion, most of the time you can figure it out.
But if you get to the point where you have a terrible diagnosis or you are old and it's a done deal for you, leave your keys at the desk and move on to the next the next mission.
Yeah.
And I don't think the universe is going to punish you for that.
Yeah.
Like if you're 90, some odd years old and you can't even walk and you're all screwed up and you're in a home and nobody's visiting you.
I mean, that's hell on earth.
Yeah.
My dad said if he was sick, he would just do the same thing.
If it happened to me, I mean, if I got something like that, I would probably say.
What did he have?
I don't remember.
Louis body dementia or something.
Okay.
But if I found myself in a situation like that, I would probably send a formal invitation to have a duel with a Mexican drug cartel gang.
That's so funny.
What?
You're just like, okay, I'm going to meet you here and, you know, bring whatever you want.
And we're going to do it.
Of course, I'll show up early so I can, you know, I set up before they set up on me.
And it is what it is.
I mean, I'm done anyway.
Yeah.
You might as well go out in a duel.
Why not?
I don't know.
What if they kill you?
Like, wouldn't it be quicker to just do a gun?
I don't know.
Like, I don't want to bleed out or something.
I mean, it's not that scary.
Not to me anymore.
Yeah.
I mean, I've served through three wars.
I was almost killed in two.
Let's see who else we got.
Oh.
The Charlie Kirk.
Oh, this one for you.
Oh, here we go.
Oh, you're going to love this one.
I mean, this is shocking stuff you're showing me here.
Yeah.
Tomorrow we're going to go more.
He's going to be here tomorrow, guys.
By the way, guys, 80 bucks a year, 10 bucks a month.
Any comment, I will read.
I'm going to read chats in a second.
We're trying to get 3,500 by the end of the year on the website.
That way we can be YouTube free.
You know, that way they can demonetize me and I don't have to move countries again.
And if anybody's watching this from the regiment, please share the links to all of the other dudes.
So here we go.
Actually, I'm going to read the chat first.
Then we'll do the next video.
Pearl, I'm pretty sure that Brad Pitt factors divorce settlements into annual bottom line at this point.
Thanos, I was passed the same ideology by my parents in church to marry traditional, young, and quick to be a nice guy and a virgin.
I didn't know my wife was not traditional, although she looked and tried to be.
We had bad chemistry eventually.
We decided to separate.
She kicked me out of our home, struggling to start my life again in the last five years.
Yep.
Based on the current discussions, there is no future.
What can we do to change the outcome?
I will learn to improve, but learning to fail is not worth noticing.
What do you think of that?
Well, part of being a man is you're going to have way more L's than wins.
I mean, that's just the way it goes.
Before the internet, when I'd go out and hit on women, I would get told no 150 times before I'd get a yes.
And I would really only, you know, after all, like three or four women who said yes, maybe I would date one on the regular for a certain amount of time.
But that's a lot of L's.
And as a man, listen, life is going to punch you hard.
You got to roll with the punches and come back and keep swinging.
Don't fall down and quit.
But he's saying, how can you improve the society?
Oh, wow.
That's what he's saying.
You know, that's the argument.
This is the way I would do it.
I would take away qualified immunity from all of the judges.
Okay.
Because a lot of these guys, especially in divorce court, violate your constitutional rights on the regular.
They flaunt it.
They're even doing it on video, you know, these hearings done video where people are recording it.
You can find them on YouTube.
They don't care.
You take away the qualified immunity, and guess what?
A judge violates your constitutional rights.
You sue the shit out of them.
Like this whole PPO baloney.
Now, in the Constitution, you have the right to face your accusers, but virtually everyone who gets divorced is going to have a PPO put on them in secret.
They don't even call you in.
All of a sudden, your gun rights are gone and your life is screwed until you can get the PPO reversed or taken off or it expires.
Most of the time, it expires in three to five years.
But literally, they're taking away your constitutional rights, and you weren't even in the room when they did it.
That's bullshit.
And there's Supreme Court precedents, there's cases out there where you have the right to raise your children, but they say best interest of the child, which they can't even define.
But when you look at the statistics, 85% of the people in the big boy pound you in the ass prison came from single mother homes.
So what else would you do?
I would go after the divorce attorneys.
And it's easy.
I threatened a certain divorce attorney with exactly this way.
I'm like, I'm going to get a list of all of the cases you've ever had, you know, for divorce in the tri-county area.
And I'm going to see how many times abuse was brought up.
And if it's a high number, I'm going to file a formal complaint against your license with the bar.
And then I'm going to go contact all of the men that got screwed over this and have them do the same thing.
Because you can brush off one complaint with the bar, but you're not going to brush off a couple hundred complaints for the same shit with the bar.
And her eyes got as big as saucers.
And I said, I'm not fucking around.
You pick a fight with a fighting man, and you are shocked and surprised when you actually get a fight.
You're a moron or you're retarded.
What happened?
She shut the hell up.
That was in your court case?
I cannot say that.
Oh, okay.
So then what else would you do?
So you'd go after the lawyers, you go after the judges?
Yeah, because the lawyers, they always go for the juggler.
They want to get paid.
There's no best interest of anyone.
Listen, if you're a dude and you go in divorce court and like literally they're taking so much money away, you're living in the street.
That is just unethical in every way, shape, and form.
It needs to stop.
And who else would you go after?
Or what else would you do?
Well, I would have to go after the lawmakers who put a lot of this shit in there and don't want to change it.
You polar qualified immunity as well.
Like if you're passing laws that are just blatantly one-sided.
Yeah.
You know what?
There needs to be some reckoning for that.
And it's because the immunity, it says that basically under the guise of their job, they can't be su you.
Yeah, it's my job.
I can totally just, you know, walk all over your constitutional rights.
I can ignore all decency.
And we're going to turn you into a slave.
And then what else would you do?
That's about it.
Okay.
Like when I got divorced, I was hysterically laughing as I was walking out of the court.
My attorney was next to me.
And he's just like, what is so funny?
And I'm like, I'm laughing at the fact that there isn't a barricaded gunman across the street 24-7, 365, because what happened here today is 100% weapons-grade horseshit.
And he said, Yeah, I agree with you.
And then he bought me lunch.
Let me read the rest of these.
So, Pearl read, you need to occasionally refer to your network as the odd damned acidy network.
It's a redneck thing.
Richard says you have to strategically simp.
Bennett said, Matt Walsh seems to be coming around to realize the reality of modern dating, though.
He's the only one at Daily Wire I watch.
Pearl, if I subscribe to your network, does that make me a simp?
No, let's not.
No.
Okay, hit that.
10 bucks a month, 80 bucks a year.
All right, cool.
All right.
You're not paying 10 bucks a month to look at a butthole.
That's a simp.
Somebody telling you the truth.
And, you know, that's not simping.
That's trying to get information, truthful information.
If the only thing you can accept is how things are today, are you only living for today?
Does that mean you have no future?
If there is no future, don't you need a plan?
Live accordingly.
He just gave you a 13-year plan.
Yeah, string along.
He just did it 13-year.
You can just keep doing that.
Well, like in my case, you know, when I was living out of my car, I'm like, you know what?
I'm going to figure this shit out.
And I'm going to get this information in front of as many people as I can.
And I tweaked it using comedy because you might not realize this, but if I'm telling you the truth and I'm presenting in a way where you're laughing, I am literally reaching into your thinking meat, pushing buttons and flipping switches, and you don't even know it.
My marriage definitely gave me PTSD.
I can't even talk about it 20 years later.
Pearl, until people care more about fulfilling their vows to God than their personal fulfillment, it's not going to get better.
Marriage is either a sacrament of the church or nothing at all.
The talking heads complaining about talking heads.
With all the people who know everything, you'd think the world would be better than it is.
Modern Christianity rechecks, requires nothing but niceness.
True Christianity requires obedience to God.
They leave out that part in modern men and women will come in.
Consider life is about reproducing and passing my genes.
Every animal knows this and does this.
Mankind is not an animal.
We need to pass on what we know and have earned and enhances the future.
What do you think about that argument?
They're valid.
But just think about this.
Men have an insanely high instinct to reproduce.
And we have a system in place that is so egregious, it's overriding our basic human instincts.
That's a travesty.
He says that's not an answer.
What is your view of the future?
Ah, well, the birth rates are in the toilet.
We're not at replacement levels.
So at some point, it will become top heavy and it will collapse and it will turn into a bloodbath.
And when you look at the fall of empires and countries in the past, it's usually very violent and very bloody.
And I hope that doesn't happen.
I hope we can course correct.
But with feminism steering the civilization, they're taking us off a cliff.
You wouldn't believe how many women's groups there are that specialize in making accusations about men.
Glenn says, shout out.
Hi, Glenn Lawrence.
I would, he's been on the show.
I don't know if you know Glenn.
He's in the red pill space.
I would say that they should be able to hold the judges civilly responsible for any man who self-deletes due to the biased rulings and unconstitutional infringements of men's rights.
Joel says populate or perish.
Okay, so guys, I'm going to do one more time later in the show.
I'm going to read chats.
So if you guys have anything you want read, go to the website.
All you do is you go under Pearl Daily, hit the live stream that's live now, and you can put whatever you want.
10 bucks a month, 80 bucks a year.
I'll do this last one that just came in.
Just to clarify, after we had our two children, happened to divorce because of her cheating as a side chick to another married man.
After that, I fell many times to self-delete as I had no other purpose.
Yeah, you have to find a purpose.
And I mean, it sounds, when I say it, it sounds so simple, but it's not.
It really requires some soul searching.
And a lot of times, the universe will put it before you.
You just have to see it.
Like, I myself, I'm a fighting man.
And I decided, I rolled up my sleeves.
I said, all right, you got to fucking fight.
Here it comes.
So we're going to go back to this epidemic.
All right.
So we have one more from Charlie Kirk.
I think this is the end of his epidemic.
Although there's many clips, but this is, I think we'll move on to the next other now, obviously.
But what advice can you give to young dads that are either about to have their first child or just had their first child?
What would you, I mean, we've been through all of that, but how, I mean, what would you say to help encourage them?
Well, I would say you need to understand the biblical role of the father.
Again, I'm still learning this.
I've only been at it, you know, for two and a half years.
But when it comes to your child, you are tasked to protect them both physically, spiritually, and emotionally.
And really outside the house, and obviously in other ways as well.
Quality time is everything.
You are not above any of the duties or the tasks or the roles.
But you're also, you as a father and as the provider, you need to get your act together so much that your wife never has a minority pressure ever on the family.
Oh my gosh.
And if you have not done that, then you got to get your act together.
And let me tell the men out there, you do not spend a dime on video games Or things for yourself until your wife does not have to worry about finances.
You come last in the family when it comes to finances.
Period.
That is your business.
What a fucking sim.
I was doing the math, right?
I don't like this TradCon.
They say that women shouldn't work, okay?
And I thought to myself, okay, I understand women cheat at work.
That's a, but women cheat at home too.
If a woman wants to cheat, why should he kill himself to pay the bills when odds are she's going to leave later?
That's my one number one.
And two, I mean, what we have air fryers now.
It's not that hard to cook and clean.
We have Roombas, we have air fryers.
I live by myself.
I take care of it.
Yeah.
But again, he is playing to both ends.
What he just said there, all the feminists are now applauding because the feminists run the media.
Yeah.
So he's going to get canceled if he doesn't play the game.
I can't do that.
Yeah.
And he, oh my gosh.
I was looking up.
I'm like, you could even work at a school.
If you're a mom, you could be a teacher.
Well, first of all, if your wife is not working, when she divorces you after 10 years, you're going to pay lifetime alimony.
Yeah, I just talked to a guy.
He didn't get lifetime, but he was about to retire and he had six kids.
So he had a ton of kids.
It wasn't, he did the, his wife stayed home the whole time, raised the kids.
She was the professional whistle sack.
And he has to delay his retirement.
What are you, 50?
I'm 56.
Yeah, he's a little older.
He's 60, but he's a little bit of a drink.
So he's going to retire at 72.
Yeah.
He'll be dead before he retires.
Yeah.
So, I mean, like that permanent alimony shit is bullshit.
I mean, okay.
Chris Rock hit this on the head.
You go to a steakhouse, you're eating a steak, and then you're thrown out of the restaurant, but still you get to eat the steak.
What?
It doesn't make any goddamn sense, especially in current year where they're strong and independent.
Prove it.
Well, and women's money is easier to get.
Like, women are overpaid for jobs all the time.
So if I could go make, like, why, don't you guys want to spend time with your husbands?
Like, if you could go make six figures as a diversity and inclusion officer and now he doesn't have to work 80 hours a week, wouldn't that make, wouldn't that be best for the kid?
Yeah, I know, but to see both parents.
The minute a woman makes anywhere near what you make, you are now on the chopping block.
She's looking for the next one to get with who makes more money.
She's going to leave anyway.
I know.
You might as well save your money.
I know.
String her along.
I mean, that could be, you know, that's what I was thinking.
I'm thinking if she, if we leave anyway, like we cook, if we cheat anyway, what's the why shouldn't he save his money?
Like, why does he need to be responsible for all her bills?
Yeah, I know.
Maybe he could put her on alimony.
It's palimony.
When she pays him, it's palimony.
So I had a guy friend in London.
He would come on the show a lot.
And his strategy was he just went to the gym a lot and he would only date women that made like six figures.
And his thought process, he would get them at like 30, where like he would go for professional lawyers because he knew that they were lonely and he knew that they couldn't really date the lawyers that they worked with.
And so he would just get really jacked and go after them.
And he's like, look, if we have a kid and she leaves, I'm going to put her on alimony.
Don't know if that'll work.
We'll see.
But well, the UK, the UK is just brutal.
Well, and he's the way he said, the way he phrased it was he told me that women cheat anyways.
So I might as well be at less risk and go for the rich ones.
Well, I mean, yeah, that is a strategy.
Yeah, I'm not saying, I'm not saying to do it or it's going to work.
That was just his.
Yeah, more than likely your woman's going to get her tonsils stabbed by somebody else.
It just is what it is.
Accept it now.
Okay, who do we want to do next?
Do we want to go?
I'll let you pick the next one because I don't think we'll get through all of these.
Okay.
We can do Matt Walsh.
We can do the divorce lawyer.
Let me get through them.
We can have Ben Shapiro, Crowder back in the day, Matt Walsh, or the divorce lawyer.
Let's do Matt Walsh because I have a bone to pick with that guy.
Oh, and Brett and Tatum.
That's another one.
We'll do this one first.
So you have a bone to pick with Matt Walsh.
Naggy Beard.
Naggy Beard.
Why do you think he's a nagger?
Play it.
Okay, let's see.
Over the years about the decline in the birth rate and the rapidly increasing number of young adults who are refusing to get married and have children.
As much as we discuss the subject, we still have not discussed it enough.
It is one of the great crises facing our civilization at the present moment.
When a society gives up on having children, it has given up on its future.
It has given up on itself.
And stop it right there.
Well, all right.
What he's doing right there is he's instilling fear.
Okay.
And people who are fearful are easy to control.
Okay.
What he's saying is not a lie.
It will collapse.
But he's using fear.
All right.
Keep going.
Well, that matters.
That matters a lot.
Now, of course, plenty of people are still having children.
We haven't entered full-on children of men territory quite yet.
Our population is still growing, just as the population of the world is still growing, but the growth is slowing.
And we have long since crossed the crucial threshold in this country where our fertility rate is now below replacement level.
We are no longer having enough babies to replace older people as they die off.
And as a consequence, our population itself grows older and more top-heavy, and all kinds of complications follow from that.
And those complications quickly turn into catastrophes.
All right, stop it.
Again, more fear.
He's not wrong, but he's setting the stage with fear.
We've discussed many aspects of this problem, but it's a problem so deep and all-encompassing that there are always going to be new dimensions to explore.
And a few days ago, the New York Times, engaging in another random act of journalism, as Rush Limbaugh used to call it, published a piece homing in on a facet of the birth rate decline that, until now, hadn't gotten much press, if any at all.
The article is titled, quote, The Unspoken Grief of Never Becoming a Grandparent.
And the piece by Katherine Pearson has gotten a— Yeah, okay.
This is a valid point.
There's a lot of young people out there like, I'm not having kids.
And their parents are suffering because they want to have the grandkids.
So this is a valid argument.
But again, he's setting the stage.
A decidedly mixed reaction.
Some people, myself included, found it to be a profoundly sad, yet very empathetic and very interesting look at a group of people who are suffering in a unique way from our society's plummeting birth rate.
But other people were angry and offended for reasons we'll talk about in a moment.
But first, let's read a little bit of this article.
It says, quote, Lydia Burke, 56, has held on to her favorite copy of The Velveteen Rabbit since her three children, now in their 20s and 30s, were young.
She loved being a stay-at-home mother and filled her family's home with books.
All of her children could read before they started school, Miss Burke recalled with pride.
She hoped one day to be a cool grandma who would share her favorite stories with a new generation.
All right, right there.
All right.
So, what he's doing now is he's putting bait on the hook.
It's called grief.
Okay.
So, we have fear, and now he put the hook in the water and he baited it with grief.
Well, and it's so crazy because they could have done this with the court system with the millions of men that they were doing.
They will never do that because they are working for the forces of darkness and they will not ever tell you the truth because they'll get canceled on YouTube and they'll lose a bunch of money.
None of her children want to have kids.
And though that decision is right for them, Miss Burke said, it still breaks her heart.
I don't have young children anymore, and now I'm not going to have grandchildren, she said.
So that part of my life is just over.
Like Miss Burke, a growing number of Gen Xers and baby boomers are facing the sometimes painful fact that they are never going to become grandparents.
A little more than half of adults 50 and older had at least one grandchild in 2021, down from nearly 60% in 2014.
Amid falling birth rates, more U.S. adults say they're unlikely to ever have children for a variety of reasons.
Chief among them, they just don't want to.
Now, the article continues along with more anecdotes along these lines.
I'm not going to read them all here, but you should go find the article and read for yourself.
They're quite sad, quite illuminating, though.
And, you know, there are many older people these days with children who swear they will never have children of their own.
And the reasons they give for remaining childless in the article are all very similar.
They point to the economy, the state of the world, climate change, of course, and so on.
Family, really?
It doesn't mention divorce or family crime.
Oh, my.
None of them feel they have any obligation to have kids and carry on the family name and the bloodline.
They're thinking only about.
All right, there's the guilt.
So we have the fear, the grief.
Here comes the guilt.
Themselves and decided that they're most comfortable being childless and alone.
So their parents will just have to deal with the loneliness and grief that comes from that.
That's the general attitude.
I actually agree with that.
I don't think you should have kids so that you can impose your plan for their life.
They have to be like their adults.
I think it's selfish to have a kid so it can just do exactly what you want it to do.
You know what I mean?
To a point.
Usually a child right around 12 to 13 is where they start branching off to do their own thing.
And it's really important for you not to stomp that out.
You got to let them grow in their own direction within reason, of course.
Because if you crush it, you might be impeding future growth.
Yeah, like Crowder, his dad was like a hockey player.
I asked him if he knew, or like if his parents were in media or whatever.
And he's like, no.
So, you know, like imagine if they made him be a hockey player.
You know?
Well, I mean, there could be worse things than being a hockey player.
I mean, a hockey player is going to get primo ass.
I just mean, I don't know.
I don't, I don't think, like my dad was very big on letting us do what we wanted to do and like we're passionate about.
And he didn't say just because he did software, like we had to do software, even though, even though he was really good at it.
Listen, you are blessed.
Yeah.
And my brother, he ended up like going into it.
But like my other brother is an engineer.
Like I do media.
That's cool.
Yeah.
Decent fellow.
Yeah.
You're blessed.
Yeah, he's the best.
And there's a lot of kids out there who are living their life based on half of the equation.
Yeah.
While I was dating, there was like three or four times where I just walked out because I'd ask him, well, do you have a relationship with your father?
Like, no, he's a piece of shit.
Check, please.
And literally, if you don't, if you don't have a relationship with your father, you're not going to have a good relationship with any other man.
I'm not going to waste my time.
Yeah.
I'm out.
Let's see what he says next.
It's also the attitude of many commenters on this article.
There's plenty of sympathy for the would-be or want-to-be grandparents, but there's also a lot of this sort of thing, quote, boohoo, get over yourself.
I chose not to have children.
That is, was my choice, which was clear from day one with my spouse.
He married me on those terms.
I'm not responsible for my parents' happiness.
They are.
They tried to guilt me into it during the first few.
Not a bad deal.
I mean, there's men that don't want to have kids.
Yeah.
Listen, if you don't have kids, you don't want to have kids.
I had a woman who messaged me asking what she should do because she was infertile and she was like 22.
Ooh.
Yeah, like she just had a genetic, whatever.
But I told her, I'm like, there's a divorced guy that never wants kids again.
I promise you.
There is a divorced guy that he's never.
Yeah.
And listen, you can, I would say they can adopt, but that system is incredibly corrupt as well.
Yeah.
There's so many kids out there that need a loving home and they're denied that because there's so many hoops you have to jump through.
Yeah.
And sometimes you only get through those hoops by coughing up thousands upon thousands of dollars.
You know what the problem is, actually?
There's a really long waiting list for babies.
But the problem is there's like crackhead moms that can't take care of the kid.
And so then the state takes it away at like five or six.
And then who wants a kid that's lived with a crackhead for five years?
Like people, people don't really sign up for that as much.
I mean, you can work through it.
I don't know.
Over it, like I had.
Listen, I trained thousands of guys on how to be men, how to like, you know, conduct war, be honorable people.
I've raised two daughters.
You know, I've mentored many, many young kids because I teach boxing and kickboxing.
And I mean, yeah, you got to have some rules in place, a little bit of discipline.
But a four-year-old kid, you can fix that.
It's not irreversible.
You know what?
There is a couple from my church that adopted two brothers and one was under the age of two and one was over.
And they just had a really hard time with the one that they got because most of their personality forms by like two.
And the younger brother was like a prodigal, like he was a musical genius.
He did all this stuff.
The other brother literally robbed the church.
Like he would steal money from like the, he was raising money for the church and then he just kept it.
And, you know, I think like on not that it can't be fixed, but it's a lot harder if you don't get them like younger.
Yeah, you got a point.
Okay, how far do you want to go into this video?
Just a little bit more.
A little more.
A few years I was married, but eventually gave up.
It was never their choice to make.
A lot of empathy there.
A similar message in this comment says, quote, I feel it's extremely self-centered of any person to expect others to make decisions that will make them happy.
Too many parents try to live their lives vicariously through their children.
Children do not owe their parents everything.
Besides, many of us were forced to babysit our younger children.
I had 18 years of watching my three younger.
You know what?
That's the thing.
My friend, her mom did not do anything.
And she was like, she was the caretaker basically for her younger brothers.
That's totally a thing.
Well, I mean, if you look at back in the day when there was no welfare and you had to work, guess what?
If you had young children in the house and one of the siblings was, you know, 10, 11 years old, tag your it.
Yeah, yeah.
That's just the way that's the way it works.
Is it a perfect solution?
No.
But you have to work with what you got.
Yeah.
Well, I think it would have been better if her mom wasn't out like partying.
Well, yeah.
Again, you know what I mean?
Like farming or something.
Yeah.
Again, the revolving door and the front and back door.
Sorry, continue, continue.
What were you saying about this?
Well, I mean, again, we have a bunch of people out there who don't want to have kids.
And if they don't want to have kids, they don't have to have them.
But there are repercussions.
40 to 80 is a long goddamn time.
And when you get older and you start slowing down, it's good to have kids around to soften the blow.
Like, I take care of my mother.
I go check on her two, three times a week.
I've taken her to the hospital.
I mean, just the other day, I had to feed her.
That's just the way it goes.
If I wasn't a dutiful, you know, the dutiful son, my mother would probably be living in an institution or dead.
Her siblings and having to work in my mother's daycare center.
My God, if I had my own children, I would have ended up spending my entire life raising children.
My purpose in life is not to watch/slash-raise children.
With the recent parental theory practice of making the oldest child the third parent, making them help raise their younger siblings, you can expect that more people will reject parenthood when they become adults.
I have to clarify one thing here, and this is a theme that we're going to see emerge in these people that reject having kids is that they just have no understanding of history at all.
I stop it right here.
All right.
This is where he's going to give you, these people did it, so you should.
Or I did it, and you should be able to do it too.
And he's not mentioning at all the court systems, just the vicious effect it has on your life.
It's no joke.
We don't have to go any further in this, but the whole thing is the same.
It's guilt, blame, shame.
It is what it is.
Okay, we're going to do one last one before I want to know your take.
There's a lot of discourse.
I hate that guy.
It's interesting.
I think some guys like him.
So you don't.
I can't stand him.
So why do you not like him?
Because he's like a bionic divorce attorney.
What does that mean?
He basically does divorces for the uber-rich people.
And a lot of what he does in his divorces sets the stage for what happens to other people in the same court who don't have 100%.
What do you mean it sets the stage?
Well, one of the main reasons divorce court is so screwed up is because divorce attorneys like that abuse the system, Play the sympathy card, you know, the abuse card.
How do you know he does that?
Because his mouth is moving and he's a divorce attorney.
Okay.
So, you do you automatically assume all divorce attorneys are unless I speak to them directly?
Yes.
Okay.
Like the reason I went with my divorce attorney, he didn't lie to me.
He did not lie to me.
He goes, They're gonna, you're gonna bend you over and put it right in a pickle barrel.
Okay.
My job is to limit how many strokes they take on you.
Okay.
And I'm like, you're my man.
Okay, let me see what he says.
About, you know, why women commence more divorces than men.
And there's a lot of discourse about the impact of no-fault divorce.
And these are all things that I think get thrown into this dialogue and weaponized in ways that aren't honest and aren't effective because they're used by people on the, let's say, the red pill space or, you know, whatever we want to call it to say, well, oh, you can't marry women because look, women commence divorce actions.
And 73% of them.
That's a whole bunch of word salad.
He's just talking around the point, which is most women file for divorce.
Most of the time, the man is caught completely by surprise.
Most of the time, the man will not get custody of his children.
Divorces are commenced by women.
So that means women are coming into the casino, making all the money that they can, and then cashing their chips out 73%.
Why does the statistic is true, isn't it?
It is.
Yeah.
Yeah.
So how do you, how is that not a sort of indictment on the way that women approach marriage?
Facts all come with points of view.
And here's the thing that maybe a divorce lawyer sees that other people don't see.
Word salad.
Walsh called him out on it.
He's doing the typical attorney thing, talking around, threw down some sand, doing a soft shoe.
Listen, man, it's a brutal, one-sided bullshit.
He makes money off the system.
So it's in his best interest to keep it going.
Of course, this is just my opinion.
Yeah, I know.
But he, I think they called him out for that.
And he said, well, they're going to hire people anyway.
Or something like that.
Yeah.
So I might as well help you mitigate, you know.
Yep.
I can't stand this guy, though.
Who commences a divorce action is not always, I would even say not often, an indicator of who wanted to end the marriage.
It just means who filed the paperwork.
So if a woman marries a man and she realizes, hey, I've cashed out everything I can for this guy and now I want to bounce on the relationship, I'm filing a divorce action.
You're right.
If 73% of divorces were commenced by women under those circumstances, that's a strong argument.
50% would be a strong argument.
The reality is much more.
So this is the way it goes down.
80% of the time, the woman files for a divorce.
But mentally, she's already checked out probably a year or two years prior.
So she's premeditated the entire lead up to filing.
This isn't like they wake up in the morning and a switch flips.
They plan this shit out and they are absolutely merciless about it.
Period.
Frequently than that, I see a guy who runs off with his secretary, stops paying any expenses related to the residence.
He's been the breadwinner of the family for so many years.
And he's not going to just set up like a franchise.
Like he's leaving this wife and two kids.
And, you know, a man who leaves his wife for his mistress just leaves a job opening.
So now he's going to go to the mistress and he's going to start going to have a family with her now, but he's not going to take care of his responsibilities towards the family he already has.
What does that woman do?
She comes into my office and she says, help.
You know, the mortgage isn't being paid.
He changed the utilities to my name.
I don't have a job or I have a job as a teacher.
Stop it right there.
Okay.
Does that happen?
Yes.
Does it happen a lot?
No.
Most guys do not have the resources to do what he's explaining.
He's explaining uber-rich people that can do that.
I'm sorry.
Sure, part-time because I've been raising our children.
What do I do?
And I have to say to her, you have to file for divorce.
And she says, Well, I don't want a divorce.
I'm not the one who wanted a divorce.
I want to figure out a way to reconcile.
I want to go to counseling.
I want to work it out.
I'll forgive him for the transgression if we could just figure it out for our kids.
But the problem is, you know, you can't force someone to stay married to you.
You can't force someone to come back home and pay the bills unless you've filed a divorce action.
So we file divorce actions all the time for people who do not want to get divorced.
All right, stop right there.
Again, like, well, somebody's going to do it, so minus will be me.
Yeah.
That's like the dude banging the married woman and not caring because she's married.
Well, somebody's going to do it.
Minus will be me.
What does that say about your integrity?
I think that calls it into severe question, don't you?
Who are in a position?
I can't just go to court without an action and say, Judge, can you issue an order?
You know, I have to have an underlying action, and the action is an action for divorce.
So that's why that statistic is so wildly misleading.
Now, again, I'm not saying that there aren't plenty of examples of women taking the advantages that the system gives to them financially and or when it comes to custody and weaponizing that against men.
But you cannot just look at that statistic and say, oh, that's proof that women are cash.
Stop it right there.
Yes, you can look at this statistic.
Sorry.
I'm sorry.
When men are killing themselves because of this statistic, it's not like he's just waving it off like it's not a big deal.
Yeah.
They all do.
Yeah.
I don't need to see the rest of this.
My blood pressure is already going through the roof.
And they're expert debaters, so they just like talk and they're master debaters.
I mean, they're married.
Yeah.
If you're married and you're a master debater, you're doing it wrong.
Yeah.
I wanted to see your take on the divorce lawyers.
I would love to get you in a room with some of these people.
Like, I really would.
I think it'd be such good, a good conversation because I think you, of all people, would run circles around them.
You've been doing it too long.
Yeah, since 2009.
Yeah.
Like the first video I put out was Purple Heart's Final Beat.
And it's like a serious veteran suicide video.
And it got underviewed horribly, mainly because they, you know, YouTube put a graphic violence warning and then they age restricted it.
And there's another guy who downloaded it, uploaded on his channel, and there's no restrictions.
Okay.
Wow.
So, and we did that in 2009.
And by the beginning of 2011, we're up to somewhere between 115 and 120 lives saved.
Wow.
Just from that one video.
Wow.
Well, thank you for your work, Terrence.
You're a legend in the space.
Thank you.
You got to own it, you know?
I'm just trying to keep guys on the right side of the lawn, man.
And I've been in the Army since 1986.
And I saw as a private, an E4, and a sergeant exactly what was happening.
And yeah, these guys were stupid in marrying the wrong woman.
But then I realized they're going to the whore tree, shaking it, expecting a wife to fall out.
Of course, it's going to be a bad outcome.
But then people are going to the wife tree and shaking that, and whores are falling out.
There is no upside.
Don't play the game, gentlemen.
Yeah.
Well, thank you so much for coming on, Terrence.
Tell the people where they can find you.
Okay, I run redonkalis.com, R-E-D-O-N-K-U-L-A-S dot com.
I have like 2,000 videos on YouTube.
I'm on virtually every video platform on the planet.
I believe some of my videos are actually on servers in Russia.
Wow.
Yeah, I have viewers all over the world.
Well, guys, go subscribe to his channel.
Make sure you like the video on your way out and subscribe to the channel.
And go to theaudacitynetwork.com, 10 bucks a month, 80 bucks a year.
Let me read the final chats of the show.
Okay.
Where are we going up?
Oh, we got a lot here.
Pearl, men like Knowles and Kirk don't realize how feminist they are.
We would be better off without them pretending to be on our side.
Pearl, your guest put it succinctly when he mentioned how the system demolished men's natural desire to reproduce.
The roots of feminism have to be demonic.
No other explanation.
Joel says, Pearl, thanks for the guest thought-provoking info, which will always discuss with my own boys.
Johnny says, Pearl, Matt Walsh wears flannel, has a beard, and smokes cigars.
He's supposed to personify manhood.
I bet he's not allowed to smoke in his own house.
That tells me everything I need to know.
Peter, if your kids hate you because of your parental alienation, you still end up dying alone.
Stephen says he seems very passionate, kind of simpy.
Johnny, imagine how simple and clear our conversations would be if the same guy who named the Anteater and Grasshopper named everything else too.
What message, or Craig says, what message did you give your two daughters to help them be better women to the men in their lives?
Unfortunately, I did not get to spend a lot of time with them.
I mean, 96 hours a month, a father does not make.
All I really could do was set the example, and hopefully it sticks.
Peter says, Sexton is not doing anything to fix the system.
He's just explaining how it's broke.
Maybe he's bringing up the knowledge.
Anyone who got ground by Family Court knows.
Pearl, your content is amazing.
Thanks for the relevant insight, insightful guests and brutal honesty chest punches with all the warriors.
The 7Ps.
I don't know what you read.
The 7P abso fucking politely right, brother.
Okay.
Peter says, yes, Uber Rich set the model for the divorce rape of regular guys.
Glenn, they did that to me with my last video on male suicide post-divorce.
Oh, brother, he has tats.
Tough guy, divorce lawyer.
Pathetic.
Okay, guys, like the video on your way out.
Subscribe.
Thank you so much for watching.
And we'll see you tomorrow.
Tomorrow, we went in on the guys today.
Tomorrow we might go in on some of the hoes.
I might show him the a thousand men in the day in a day woman.