Steve Crowder’s ex-wife, Hillary, accused him of abuse in a viral video, yet Pearl and Lauren amplified claims without criminal proof—while Crowder’s "I love you" pleas were mocked as weak leadership. A thousand post-divorce interviews in England reveal 30% of men face paternity fraud, nine times higher suicide risk after bad splits, and systemic bias favoring wives in family courts. Conservative figures like Michael Knowles push unrealistic marriage rules, ignoring how alimony, child support, and unchecked abuse allegations trap men in financial ruin or parental loss, turning marriage into a discriminatory gamble. [Automatically generated summary]
What I see for them and debating on marriage in 2024.
Now, I would like to remind you that I didn't always have these opinions.
I didn't really understand why men didn't want to get married, why the institution was dying.
But, you know, I couldn't really under the age of 40, most people aren't married or haven't been married for that long.
The institution in itself is disappearing.
No matter what my religion was or the way that I thought or what I thought was right, I knew what I was seeing in front of me.
And what happened was I came to England and I started interviewing a thousand women and I started interviewing men after divorce.
And it changed my opinion.
So today, I actually wanted to make this show for the women that actually want to understand where the men are coming from.
You know, this is for the women that actually love men.
Maybe you have a father that you want to protect.
Maybe you have a brother that you want to protect, but knowing this information will help you protect the men in your lives.
And unfortunately, what I noticed is what Michael Knowles is pushing and the Daily Wire is pushing leads men to slaughter in a way.
Now, I know this sounds dramatic, okay?
And when I first heard this stuff, this sounded really dramatic.
I mean, just find a good woman, right?
Just find that special, special woman.
So what I gathered from the Michael Knowles debate was that he pushes, and some of the stuff I did talk about in the debate, but I really wanted to make sure that I'm explaining my opinions in depth because sometimes you might hear a soundbite, you might hear me say something offhand, and you might not understand where it's coming from, why I think this way.
And sometimes it's hard to convey this stuff over screen.
So he says to get married young, ideally with zero sexual experience with women, no prenup, no DNA test, and no divorce if she lies about, even if she lies about paternity or tries to kill you.
No, there is no divorce allowed.
And if anything goes wrong in the relationship, you just need to lead better.
Now, when I set out to create this platform, what I'm trying to do is create something that is honest.
I'm not here to sell you religion.
I'm not here to sell you a course.
I'm not here.
I'm not selling anything.
I was just sick of being lied to.
I was so tired of the dishonest media.
And I would see it on the right.
I would see it on the left.
And I would just see people not living in reality because they're trying to sell me their religion.
They're trying to sell me their political party.
And all I wanted was to figure out what was true about the world because everybody seemed to be selling something.
Now, the second reason that this information is important, that it gets out there, is because I have brothers.
You know, I have five brothers.
I have a father that I love.
One day I hope I have a son.
And I think it's so important that men understand the risk of something before signing up.
If men want to get married, I don't have any problem with that, but they should know what they are signing up for.
And the problem is, if men understood how serious of a decision they were making and understood exactly what they are signing, many men wouldn't sign up.
So they keep trying to miscategorize me as telling men what to do because I think every man should decide for himself.
I think, you know, I am not the one that is going to take the fall when you get married.
I am not the one that's going to take the fall when you don't get married.
I think that you, as the viewer, should weigh the pros and the cons of a decision yourself.
I think you should think for yourself.
I don't think you should do what I say.
I don't think you should do what Michael Knowles says.
And the reason being is I have seen the other side of this.
And I personally, you know, Michael Knowles at 33 years old is telling young men to get married, get married, get married.
Well, I know how what percent of divorces are malicious.
I know that men are nine times more likely to commit suicide after a bad divorce.
I have interviewed men that are on the brink of suicide.
None of this is about me.
And what you'll keep seeing from the right is they keep trying to make it about me.
Pearl's telling men what to do.
Pearl is single, unmarried, childless, grifter.
None of this is about me.
This is about the fathers in this country that do not have access to their children.
This is about the children that are growing up without their fathers.
This is about the young men that commit suicide because they are horrified at what their wife was doing behind closed doors.
This is about the men that go crazy and commit a crime, maybe shoot a judge like someone on the East Coast just did, because they were driven to insanity by the family court system.
And what I refuse to do is shame men and say that they are not real men or they're doing the wrong thing by not participating in a system that's set out to destroy them.
And until you've actually seen what I've seen, you may not understand it.
So I will be honest, regardless of what the people call me, regardless of what they want to say about me, you know, I'm always going to be honest.
And men should be aware of what they're signing up for.
For example, in California, if you find out you are not the father after the age of two, when the child is two, because the laws are written in the best interest of the child, you are still on the hook for child support for life.
Don't you think that is important for men to know?
Now, oftentimes, what I'll hear from the right is do marriage like we do.
We have the secret keys to having a successful marriage on the right are conservatives.
But then I look through men on the right.
Andrew Clavin married twice.
Dennis Prager married three times.
Glenn Beck married twice.
Crowder divorced.
Lauren Southern, single mother.
We have very similar results on the right and the left.
Then the cope that I have is those aren't real Christians.
And then the hosts go into playing God typically.
I would look at it like that, deciding who is real and who wasn't.
Now, a lot of you guys have asked me, why is this so important to you, Pearl?
Why, why, why?
Why do you care?
Why is this so important to you?
And there's a story that I've kind of shied away from telling live because the internet can just be a bit harsh, a bit, you know, and sometimes when I give out personal information, you know, the internet's kind of rude with it.
They're kind of, but, you know, I had, when I was 21, I got a phone call, you know, from my mom.
And my mom tells me that, you know, my brother had actually tried to commit suicide.
And I don't want to go into the details as to why or what happened, but this information can save lives.
This information is important.
Men need to know what they're trying to get into.
You know, on top of that, I had a relative growing up who was denied access to his children for years.
I had the sweetest niece.
She was the most innocent, like pure child.
And he got into a relationship with the wrong chick.
And she decided that she was going to, you know, alienate him from his children.
And you see this stuff.
And I don't know how you could not warn a brother or a father that you love if you genuinely love and want to help men.
So How are ways that we can actually help men?
You know, what policy changes are there?
So, the first one, I want to show this clip.
Okay, so let me find this clip.
second okay could we pull this up blessing oh there's there's There should be.
Are we ready?
Okay.
So, this was a clip that they're pushing out.
Okay, let me.
There should be mandatory DNA testing at birth.
I don't know why you, okay.
It's calling my wife a whore to do that.
I mean, it's ridiculous.
Why?
Okay, so because the assumption of the man, mandatory, good grief.
But the premise of it is that my wife is sleeping around.
Okay, so the woman feels icky for a little bit, but then the woman feels icky for a little bit.
Fine.
Maybe the man feels icky.
Certainly he can't.
But it prevents men from being put on child support and raising kids that aren't theirs.
You're saying that.
And if people want to opt out of it, fine.
Fine.
You can opt out.
So it's not mandatory.
It's voluntary.
But there it is voluntary.
I think it would be better if it was mandatory.
I think that's a better.
So then the men can opt out.
Oh my gosh.
What do you so?
Why was I so frustrated by this?
Why was I so frustrated?
Because I have seen the other side of this.
And he's simply waving it off like it's funny.
He's simply waving it like this isn't about me.
This isn't about winning a debate.
This is about the men that are, that find out when a after he's invested seven, eight years into a child, that that kid is not his.
That's for the daughter that thought that was his father, his or her father.
And then at seven, eight, wonders where the dad went.
This is not uncommon.
We can argue back and forth about how common it is, but mandatory DNA tests protect not only the father, but the child.
None of this is funny.
None of this is about a debate.
These are about real issues that affect fathers and children.
You know, fathers in my lifetime have become a luxury because of some of the policies that are out there.
And the only solution conservatives seem to be able to come up with is to shame men for making a logical decision and trying to religion them into it.
We can virtue signal on platforms.
We can get some good clips, but that doesn't change the fact that this is becoming increasingly not a good deal for men.
And men will continue to walk away because of these policies.
Okay.
So let me get the next one.
The next thing they're trying to, they're trying to pin me on.
Which is why it's still good to do.
What's the argument for?
What marriage is, why it's.
Okay.
So this was after, and I'm not sure, there's like a new trend where they just always call you a liberal or a feminist.
Now, I used to say, I actually want to talk about why I have a different opinion on this now.
I used to say, I used to say ban divorce.
Okay, that used to be something I said on shows.
What made me reconsider this opinion?
It is quite funny to say, just ban divorce.
You know, it is kind of funny, but this isn't funny.
What made me change my opinion is that there are so many men trapped in miserable marriages that on paper did nothing wrong.
They don't know.
And I don't think it's fair to those men that they stay trapped in these sexless, miserable marriages.
I'm going to read you.
I get these stories all the time, guys.
And I know, I know everyone's going to think, Pearl, Pearl, you're just making this up.
Pearl, they're just selective bias stories.
Guys, it's not.
There is, it is more common than it is uncommon in 2024.
And them trying to sell you on their religion, that their special religion is different is just dishonest.
And I'm not dishonest.
You know, I grew up Catholic.
Maybe I'm not Catholic enough for them.
I don't know.
But no, the Catholics are not special.
The Protestants are not special.
The Orthodox are not special.
None of them are stopping this.
Okay.
Dear Pearl, I have watched you for a while now and I really enjoy your content.
I just watched your clip.
I was sexless for seven years and found it mirrored my own story in many ways.
I hope that some of the younger men in your audience might be reassured and encouraged by believing in themselves.
Even though I'm not a patron, I hope to go on air.
I am 53 years old from the UK and wanted to share some of my marriage with you.
I have been a Christian my whole life and believe in traditional values.
I only ever wanted a woman of the same values and beliefs to share my life with.
I never dated or put myself out there.
As long as I believed in being chaste, kept my virginity and dignity, and prayed that my future wife would find me.
Optimistic, right?
I met my wife at church.
I was 19 and Anne was 21.
She was studying nursing to be a nurse in the NHS and I was bouncing between dead-end warehouse jobs.
We both joined an informal group of a dozen of our young Christian friends at church.
I've always been shy and low in confidence with no idea how to talk to women.
So I found this mix of 20-something people welcoming and easy to deal with.
I was friends with her for four years before even considering her as a potential partner.
During our friendship, we spent a lot of time together at church on pilgrimage trips, fundraiser events, outreach missions, and spiritual retreats, all within the safety of the friend group.
I found Anne to be kind, caring, chaste, generous of spirit, devout in spaith, devout in the Christian faith.
These were exactly the qualities I was looking for in a woman.
So I seriously want you guys to listen to this story.
I'm going to keep going and tell me, what was he supposed to do differently?
Where did he not lead correctly?
I have known Anne for four years.
When I realized she wanted to change the, I had known Ann for four years when I realized she wanted to change the nature of our relationship.
I was nervous and shy.
I couldn't ask her out on a date.
I wasn't even sure if I wanted to go on a date, never having been on one before.
It was just before Anne's 28th birthday when she asked me out.
She took me to a motorbike circuit to watch racing.
How could I refuse?
It was just a first date, right?
The date went really well, as I know a lot about motorsport and was able to talk about the drivers and cars with ease.
Ann was also a big motor sport fan.
We talked and watched the races and then went for a meal after.
As we parted that evening, I thanked her for a lovely day, but couldn't bring myself to kiss her goodnight.
The next day, I had a terrible head cold.
It had rained constantly all day at the racing, and I was ill in bed for three weeks.
I was so ill, I totally forgot to call Ann.
And when I saw Ann again at church, she thought I had dumped her and blanked me.
I explained, okay, blah, blah, blah.
Basically, Ann wanted a second date very quickly and she was my girlfriend in an exclusive relationship.
We had a lot of fun trips away, nights out, nights in, but no sex.
Just to be clear, we were both virgins, Christian and Chase.
We both believed in no sex until marriage and only went to first base, kissing, cuddling, clothes on above the waist early.
Ann was my first girlfriend, so I was new to all of this.
I didn't know what I was missing out on and I didn't care.
I believed I was being honorable and respectful and went home with blue balls every night.
I still believe that, but I wouldn't recommend it to anyone else.
We had been dating for one year on Ann's 29th birthday.
I was ambushed.
Ann demanded to know my intentions.
Ann wanted to be married by 30 and start a family as soon as possible.
If I wasn't going to propose right away, get engaged and set the date of the wedding, she would break it off and find someone else.
I was shocked.
And in truth, I wasn't ready, but I didn't want to lose Ann either.
I folded immediately.
I was ever a geek with all the hobbies and interests you would expect, a metal drummer too with black leather and long hair.
I came from a pretty dysfunctional family.
So I had no idea of a healthy, normal relationship in the absence of strong male role models or a decent best friend.
After getting engaged, we went away for a romantic weekend by the sea.
Okay, wait.
Okay, let me get to the marriage.
Okay, so they get married, guys.
During the first year of marriage, we had regular sex.
Ann wanted to start a family immediately.
We both had problems conceiving and needed complex medical treatments to resolve.
We spent years trying.
I remember the char, okay.
As soon as Ann got pregnant, this is what I was getting to, okay?
As soon as Ann got pregnant, she lost all interest in me as a person.
I felt like I was only a provider and protector.
Being an older mother, the pregnancy was difficult for Ann.
The birth went really badly and required emergency surgery.
It took Anne months to recover.
I was happy to allow her to dwell on her femininity and focus on motherhood while we shared the parenting of my son.
Ann continued to prioritize my son 100% for the rest of the marriage, and I felt like a lodger, a lodger who paid all the bills and expenses.
After four years, I asked if we were ever going to have sex again, which caused a massive row.
Is that all you think about?
Ann screamed and threw me out of my own house.
I knew the birth had been difficult for Anne with physical and emotional scars to heal.
No one ever considered how I felt during that experience.
I moved in with my dad and his partner three months to consider my options.
I knew I had to go back to co-parent my son and be the man and to be the man I wasn't to break this horrible cycle of family dysfunction and become the man I wanted to be.
I knew the sacrifice would involve and I would reconcile myself to it.
Spending three months with my dad, acutely aware of his failures as a parent.
The next 20 years of our marriage were sexless.
A sexless marriage is defined by having sex 10 times a year or less.
Sure, I got some on my birthday and maybe our wedding anniversary, but this felt like pity sex to me.
Ann's heart wasn't in it and it seemed like a chore to her.
This only lasted a few years until it stopped when Ann moved out of our marriage bed and into the spare room.
This was the ultimate humiliation for me.
As Ann had focused so much on our son, so am I. I'm extremely proud to say he's smart, confident, driven, and a handsome young man.
He has a solid moral compass, a righteous self sense of right and wrong, with a kind and generous heart.
He's twice the man I was at his age.
He did great in school and is at university with honors in a specialist technical subject.
He's a drummer and has a girlfriend.
Okay.
Do I believe in divorce in that instance?
Do you think that's fair?
Because I look at that as fraud.
The same thing I would say as paternity fraud.
And I guess until you've seen what I've seen, you just wouldn't know.
That's the best way I could say to describe it.
So does that make me a feminist?
Does that make me a liberal?
Does that mean, I mean, what else was the man supposed to do?
And what they're going to try to do, the TradCons keep trying to convince you, this is an outlier.
And I don't know how they could when they go on whatever podcast and there's girls with their boobs out and crosses on them.
When women are going viral and getting propped up that are ex-only fans workers.
And they're going to keep trying to pretend like this is a niche thing.
This isn't real.
This isn't real.
But I don't know how you can.
And guys, you know, I had a very similar view.
And then I interviewed a thousand women.
I spoke to victims of divorce rape and I changed my opinion.
I am not here to tell you as a man to marry or to not marry.
I am saying to go in informed in whatever you want to do.
Another cope that I keep seeing is that there are enough good women to go around and that men just need to go to church.
And my question to you is: then why isn't the reputation of church women amazing?
Why aren't more young men going to church?
Why aren't we seeing the birthrights rate?
Sorry, the birth rates going up.
Again, none of this is about me.
They keep making it about me.
Pearl's a liberal.
Pearl's a feminist.
Pearl hates women.
Pearl's this, pearl's that, pearl's that.
Guys, why do we keep making it about me when it's about the men?
It's about the men that are separated from their children.
It's about the men that, you know, that live a mile from their children and haven't seen their kids in two years.
It's about the men that go to court and have to fight tooth and nail to maybe see their kids every other weekend.
There are men that figure out the system and get through it.
But for every one man that figures it out, there's 10 that gets absolutely wrecked.
But they, all they want me to do is lie.
And I refuse to lie because of my religion.
I refuse to push men into something that causes men to commit suicide every single year because of my religion.
I just won't do it.
And if you want to say I'm a feminist, if you want to say I'm immoral for that, I don't really give a shit because I have seen the other side of all this.
There is a death in a man's eyes that I cannot explain when he comes in and it's like his soul is gone.
You know, the entire community thinks he's an abuser.
He's lost his job.
He's lost everything.
And They want you to sign up anyway with no precautions.
I mean, guys, you saw me during that interview.
I could not believe he said no prenup.
It was, you know, it was mind-blowing to me.
It was, because I just don't know how you couldn't support a prenup with somebody that you love.
You know.
So, what are things that I personally would recommend?
Now, some of these may sound extreme to you, but I'll try to make you follow how I got this decision.
So, the first thing is mandatory DNA testing.
Michael Knowles said that his wife's feelings were really important.
So, I'm going to, I'm going to, I'm going to take out these.
Maybe I could write on the whiteboard, okay?
Okay.
So, we have, can I, I can put this one up, right?
Does this work?
I don't think it's working.
Um, this is just on my butt.
Can you put it up?
I don't need to.
Um, okay.
Um, so we have oh my god, you're killing me, blessing.
Um, all right, thank you.
Um, all right, raising a kid that's not yours.
Number two, kid finds out dad isn't their dad.
Men that commit suicide over this, and what they're gonna do, and this is what I've seen the Tradcons do over and over again, they're somehow going to downplay it and act like this isn't common.
So, we've seen numbers of up to 30 percent, but let's just pretend it's 1 percent.
1 percent of men raising children that aren't theirs, even if this prevents one out of every 100, these things are more important than wife's feelings.
Call me crazy, all right?
Call me, call me a misogynist, call me sexist, but okay, but personally, I think that that's more important, okay?
Even if it's one out of a hundred, and that's what you guys are going to keep seeing.
You know, we're going to keep seeing sex workers out in the open, and they'll keep saying go to church and find a good woman.
And you're going to keep seeing more craziness in church, and they'll keep telling you to go there.
Children deserve fathers, okay?
And men deserve access to their children, and unfortunately, Unfortunately, we're in a society that that's not the case.
So, mandatory DNA testing.
Second thing, prenups.
I do not know why you wouldn't tell a man to protect himself.
If a man waits until, let's just say, 30, or maybe he gets married at 20.
Why is the woman entitled to his stuff?
We could do a middle ground and say maybe some sort of prenup or the person that files, maybe we bring back fault divorce where if the woman is refusing the husband sex, he can file.
If the woman is, I don't know, cheating on him or the man's cheating.
Maybe we just keep marriage in the church.
Maybe it's not with the state.
There's a million ways we can do this.
I could come up with a compromise, okay?
But I think it's quite foolish to tell young men not to protect themselves.
You know, men only get custody 10% of the time.
And what you'll often hear is that men are not fighting for their kids.
They're just not doing enough.
Well, in all actuality, many lawyers are advising that men do not fight for their children because they only have a 10% chance of winning.
That's why many men can't afford fighting for a child.
And the problem you get with a lot of these elitist men, and I maybe are down to earth.
I've met them in, you know, I've met Michael Knowles in person.
I don't think any of this is intentional.
But the truth of the matter is, those men will have the money for a lawyer.
They will have the money for a divorce.
Not the average man doesn't have that.
None of this is about me.
None of this is about your religion.
It is about fathers getting access to their children.
It is about the divorce laws today.
Okay.
The next thing that I would like to see happen is taking out all domestic violence proceedings out of civil court.
Many of you may not know that in family court, evidence is not required to convict someone of abuse.
Now, it's not a criminal record, but it's based on a balance of probabilities, meaning it is more likely that a man did something than didn't do it.
Meaning, a woman can go cry on a stand, say that she was abused.
And if the judge buys her story, if they believe it, the man could be not given access to his children for life, maybe years.
This happens all the time.
It is not uncommon.
So I think that if you are going to accuse a man of abuse, I think you need to go to criminal court, get a guilty plea, and then come back.
But what I see over and over and over again is women going to family court, accusing men of abuse, taking the children, taking the money.
This is not fair.
This is not fair.
And what they keep trying to do is somehow blame the men.
They didn't, they should have led better.
I'm like, have you guys ever been left by a woman for no reason?
Women admit to this.
I've seen Christian women get on TikTok and say they left their family of five years to find themselves.
I mean, like, are you guys not seeing this?
Are you not?
Are you?
Am I crazy?
Okay.
Then taking out domestic abuse.
Personally, I would get rid of child support and alimony.
I think you've got to be accountable for your decisions, but I am open to some middle ground where we at least cap how much they can get.
Yeah, and I think that's pretty much it.
I had some other ones, but let me see.
Okay, let me look at the comments.
Now, let me know in the chat.
Am I crazy for these opinions?
Does this make me a liberal?
Am I now a feminist?
Am I a feminist for saying, hey, men should be allowed to have standards?
Men shouldn't have to enter a contract and enter a system that discriminates against them.
Is this immoral?
is this wrong okay so now i am going to oh i need to get the link Okay, Glenn, if you're in the chat, can you give this to hold on?
Let me find this.
Hold on, hold on.
I got to get it.
I'm going to show you guys one more thing, but in the time being.
Now, mind you guys, remember, and even if you date a chick now, I mean, how many women are coming forward and calling men abusers?
And all they did was date.
All they did was date.
And you saw what happened with the Crowder situation.
I mean, now Crowder's wife is on record saying that he wasn't abusive.
And I have yet to see her retract.
I like Candace Owens, right?
I like her.
This isn't a personal thing, but she was wrong.
You know, they leaked private ring footage from years ago and called him an abuser.
I mean, that man worked his entire life to become something.
Just have a woman, like, but okay.
Okay.
Let me send this to.
Let me send this to.
Okay, Glenn, send this to your friend and then you can come on after him.
So are there any women in the chat?
Are there any?
Are there any women in the chat?
Again, I don't say get married.
I don't say don't get married.
I just say objectively, it's a bad deal.
Objectively and objectively, there is no way that there is no fail-safe.
And see, this is what they keep saying.
Stop pretending that you're not giving advice.
Okay, I'll give my one piece of advice is a prenup.
I do give that.
I do say, look, guys, maybe you should get a prenup.
But overall, guys, you're responsible for your own lives.
I can't tell you if the woman you're with is worthy or not.
I don't know.
You got to vet her yourself.
I'm just, they said he was verbally abusive.
I mean, come on.
Should we go through it again?
Really?
Okay.
Let me, you know what?
F it.
I'm going to, I'm going to go through this clip again.
I'm going to go through it.
Okay.
Again, again, nothing personal to Candace.
I just think she was wrong on this one.
All right.
could you all right could you show my screen so this was the verbal abuse and this is the reaction okay from christians from christian okay let me i drew a boundary no no you just did you just do that i drew a boundary okay so what's happening here she called him abusive and cruel because she wants to file a divorce I've seen this a million times.
What they do is they go to the women's shelter and they go to a divorce attorney and they tell them to do this.
They get with their friends.
They start labeling everything as abusive and cruel.
Everything, everything, everything.
You could be a housewife to a multi-bajillionaire with a nanny.
And now, do you?
God damn it.
I just, I'm sorry, okay.
Because if you refuse to do wifely things, then I will go pick up the groceries.
I have snakes.
What pellets?
My grill.
I know it's not a reasonable one.
Okay, so he's saying, he's saying, chick, I mean, you have one job.
Go get the groceries.
How about you first?
Hillary, how do you respect the man?
Yes, I don't mean that.
I don't know, I don't know, I don't know, I don't know.
No, you're not taking mother.
Okay, so the first thing, the first thing traditional conservatives should say is respect and listen to your husband.
And I'm showing you guys this not to shame them because I don't think most of them are conscious of it.
I don't think this is like a conscious thing that goes through their head.
I think we've just been so conditioned to always take the woman's side.
We never see the other point of view.
Okay.
I'm not, this isn't, but that should be the first.
Why isn't she listening to her husband?
Don't you believe in deferring to your husband's authority?
No?
No?
Okay.
You are not.
And I will ask them to pick you up.
Would you like me to hurt us?
So she's saying, I'm not, if you, if I can't take your car, I'm going to go get someone to pick me up or I'm getting an Uber.
Why be married?
Why be married?
Then go be single.
An Uber.
Okay, Stephen.
I can't.
Feeling some constraints?
Like, I can't.
Listen to me.
Listen to me.
You want to walk out right now?
Listen to me.
I can't go to the gym.
I can't go to my parents.
I can't call my friends.
I can't be home.
You're going to take the car and leave me here.
Hillary, just think of how boxing you've made me.
What do you need me to pick up?
I'll get it.
I'll be back when I'm back.
No, that doesn't work either.
You'll be back when you're back.
That doesn't work either.
Do you understand the difference between my life being set to the second and you're going to do that?
like really This is emotional abuse?
Truly, really?
Maybe.
Some of you guys were never bullied as kids in its shows.
It's like, this is emotional abuse.
And this is what happens.
And I'm so, I'm so tired of seeing it.
I'm so tired of seeing the simping everywhere.
The only way out of this is a discipline.
It's the only way out of it.
We are going to get it.
Oh, there she's doing it again, not listening to her husband.
Not a single commentator pointed this out.
None of them.
They just said, oh, Pearl, Pearl, Pearl, Pearl, you're so mean.
Stop bullying these women.
Then why would you leak ring footage if I can't comment on it?
What the?
God, I get so irritated.
I get so irritated at people that make their relationships public.
And then, if I say anything, I'm the bad.
All right.
I just said the only way I just displayed respect me said, then we're at an impact.
He said, No, we are at an impact.
Okay, I love you, but Steve.
You're abuse.
So, see, look, now he's mad again because I think he's clued into what she's doing or something because she's saying, You're abuse.
What was abusive?
I'm just so tired of this soft ass.
Watch it.
Watch it.
So he's saying watch it because he's talking about the abuse, like the abuse language.
Okay, I love you.
I love you very much.
I don't love you.
That's the big part.
I've never received love from you.
And the fact is when I'm in the middle of the day.
Okay, so what's he saying?
He's saying, I've never received love from you.
And okay, the reason I'm bringing this up is this happens in conservative communities all the time.
The women go around and say abuse, abuse, abuse.
It's crazy.
No.
But I love you more than life yourself.
Okay.
Put on some gloves.
No.
But I love you, wild and life itself.
That's not fair.
It's not fair and it's disingenuous.
Hillary, you're right.
Right in the past.
Become someone.
Listen to me.
Jay in and get out.
All he's saying is to listen to me.
That's all he's saying.
He's saying, Chick, chick, listen, listen.
A wife, word, no, not as a wife.
I didn't say John's a wife.
Hillary, come on now.
I'm not going to engage.
I'm not going to engage anymore.
I'm going to go.
I'll get texting what you need.
I'll get you to TV.
I love you.
I'm committed to you and I'm not I'm not Are you committed enough to do those things?
You're not committed to anything.
You're not committed to anything.
You just said I love you.
I'm committed to it.
Walk the dogs, put on some gloves.
Walk the dogs, put on some gloves.
Are you committed enough to do those things?
Are you committed enough to do those things?
I'm going to just walk the dogs.
Put on some gloves.
Are you committed enough to do that?
Like, really?
Abuse is being told to walk the dogs.
Oh my, oh, I'm sorry.
I get so frustrated, guys.
I just, I just don't know how nobody else saw this.
And the reason is, is because I watched Crowder growing up.
I used to like love watching him.
I know how much he loved conservative content.
I know how much he just loved, you know, all of that stuff.
And you guys all destroyed this man's reputation because you all believe women without a second thought.
And that's really frustrating to me.
That's really, really frustrating.
Go to criminal court, Chica.
If you want me to believe you, go to criminal court.
Show them the evidence and come back.
I know what's going on in family court.
None of you chicks is this is going to get by me.
None of you.
All of you chicks that didn't file a police report.
Sorry, don't believe you.
Don't believe you.
Go to criminal court.
Go to criminal court and stop calling everything emotional abuse.
It's just an argument.
Get over it.
And we, and so now they, then this is how women lie.
They lie in the craziest way.
She'll put as the crowders head inside.
And I showed this on a different live stream.
Stephen, angry and angry, and by his own admission, screams, I will F you up at his pregnant wife, Hillary, who then flees their home.
Okay.
And then right after he said, I'll, I'll F you up because she kept calling him abusive or something like that.
And he was like, oh, sorry, sorry.
Very different than a threat.
Right after Hillary said she by her own admission that he wasn't abusive, she said this in court, and nobody's issued a retraction.
Yet we ruined this guy's reputation.
And it wasn't just her, it was like Lauren, it was a bunch of them without a second thought.
And just I was so disappointed as a viewer.
Anyways, I get really wired up, like, riled up about that, but it shows this guy did everything right.
He got married.
He found a Christian girl in church.
What else was he supposed to do?
You know, is this guy on Zoom yet?
Yep.
Oh, he is.
Okay.
Okay.
So now a lot of you guys, I tell these stories, and everybody thinks I'm just making them up.
Pearl, Pearl, Pearl, you are just, you're making this stuff up.
You're, you're just none of this is real.
I mean, men should just go to church, find a good Christian chick, and just be godlike and lead.
And if anything goes wrong in the marriage, they should have just led better.
Why didn't you lead better?
So today I have a guy who was divorced, and I'm just going to ask him why he didn't lead better.
You know, let's welcome.
I have a special guest.
Could you bring up the how do I do it?
I don't know how to do it.
Sorry.
Sorry, guys.
Sorry.
Oh, Pastor Nick.
You know, am I evil for this?
Am I just the anti-marriage feminist belief who's down a dark, evil path?
Is that me?
But let me, let me go to Pastor Nick.
Yeah, is he up?
Is he ready?
Okay.
Pastor Nick, just lead better.
Hello.
How are you?
Who is who are who else is on?
Okay.
Hi, Steve.
Okay.
Is he related to the story too or no?
Okay.
I just didn't know because I was going to put him backstage until you were done, but I didn't know if he's.
Okay.
Okay.
I'll put you on next.
Is that all right?
Could you put him backstage for a second, blessing?
Okay.
Thank you.
Okay.
So, um, yo, so why didn't I wanted to see if you could tell the story you told me on the phone the other day?
And just, I wanted to know, it's all your fault.
You should have just led better.
So I'll just start with that.
Oh, yeah.
So, so why didn't you?
Yeah.
Really?
So, so, okay, so tell them first how you met your wife, your ex-wife, because that's like the first thing they'll say is you just should have vetted better.