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Oct. 4, 2023 - Louder with Crowder

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Analyzing The American Dating Crisis! Fresh & Fit Join!

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	This Week in Feminism.
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	And me, I added a minute.
	And see, this is the accountability.
	Well, you also, the logo is smoldering.
	It is.
	Alright, before, and you know, I have to take accountability because of who we have in third chair today, but I am going to, before that, here's the rundown.
	A lot to get to.
	There are homeless pirates marauding through the Bay Area in California.
	Their words, not ours.
	Homeless.
	Do we have the rundown?
	I know you're thinking San Francisco, butt pirates.
	You're better than that.
	Come on, let's try and build some real momentum with being an adult here today.
	McCarthy has been ousted as speaker.
	I don't know what you're thinking.
	Does it affect you?
	Well, not so much beyond the fact that you spent millions of dollars to go through this dog and pony show.
	And more importantly, because of who we have here in the studio, we are going to do a segment, the ins and outs, the A to Z of why relationships Are in decline, specifically in the West.
	Now this isn't like a Tupac, Biggie, East Coast, West Coast thing.
	It's just the West, the Western civilization.
	Yes.
	Which includes Europe.
	I mean, I don't really know that we should, but we'll do it.
	We'll do it just because we feel like being generous today.
	So my question to you is, what do you think are the biggest issues facing people dating in 2023?
	What are the biggest issues that you've had to face, that you've had to overcome?
	Because in third chair today, when you hear this, They're here.
	They're on Rumble and on YouTube, on Instagram at the Fresh and Fit Podcast.
	Mr. Fit and or Fresh, how are you gentlemen?
	What's up man?
	We're happy to be here.
	Thanks for having us.
	I'm glad to have you guys.
	Hopefully you're set up because I know you were asking about the microphones and everything because you have your own set up.
	Yeah.
	And then you have a notepad.
	Yeah, you know, just in case I need to write some stuff.
	What are you writing now?
	I'm writing down a bunch of things.
	I'm writing down more than you are.
	I don't know.
	I don't know.
	Who's writing notes?
	I'm writing notes.
	I'm writing notes.
	Ready?
	I'm writing random things.
	What did you say?
	I'm writing why women deserve less.
	Okay.
	Well, I just drew a wiener.
	I drew a wiener too.
	So it's Myron and Walter, right?
	Yes.
	But you know what?
	We're going to call you Mr. Fresh and Fit.
	That's how people know you.
	That works.
	Which one is which then?
	Which one's fit and which one's fresh?
	Now we're both fit, right?
	Somewhat.
	You're both fit.
	They were doing pull-ups before the show.
	They were, yeah.
	We're trying.
	After they signed the waiver.
	I signed that thing so quick, I was like, you gotta give all your money.
	We've had people go in there and not know how to use the office gym.
	I dropped this on my toe!
	So sign the waiver that says however you hurt yourself.
	We don't care.
	Now!
	Number two, CEO and the whitest guy in the studio, Gerald A., how are you?
	Technically true.
	I'm doing well, how are you?
	Well, it's not technically true, it's absolutely true.
	Well, the Nordic Matt over here probably is a little whiter than I am.
	Your 23andMe came back reparations, that's what it said.
	I don't believe in that.
	It just came in with an IOU.
	I'd hang on to that one.
	Blond hair, blue eyes, you are the kind of person... Blond hair, blue eyes, not my fault.
	Right.
	Okay, I did not... You're the stuff of Al Sharpton's nightmares.
	Alright.
	True, but I don't like him, so that's fine.
	And by the way, of course, Fresh and Fit, I might say Fit and Fresh, I know it's Fresh and Fit, but I might reverse it by accident.
	It's all good, man.
	I apologize.
	It's all fine.
	You guys are on Rumble, right?
	People can go and subscribe to your show.
	Absolutely.
	Which is one of the few shows you also do it live often.
	Yep.
	That's, you know, without a net, that's pretty scary for a lot of folks, and you kind of specialize in relationships.
	Yes.
	Yeah.
	And all the BS going on in the West with, you know, intersexual dynamics, male self-improvement, the gym, getting your money on point, just being a more attractive guy in general.
	Yes.
	Look at the truth.
	Yeah.
	There you go.
	Yeah, exactly.
	And that's in short supply these days.
	So I say that because Rumble, they understand it.
	Oh, yeah.
	Chris Pavlovsky, the CEO, he loves you guys.
	Every time we talk, he's like, I'm like, look, Chris, I do work too.
	So if at any point I say that, you see this, if you're watching on YouTube.
	Head on over to Rumble.
	That's the YouTube dump button.
	So you guys can say whatever you want, and then someone just hits that dump button, and it'll still broadcast on Rumble.
	Yeah, we do the same because it's like, oh, we're gonna say something crazy.
	We call it the Shadow Realm.
	When they're on YouTube, like, we're going to Shadow Realm.
	You guys gotta come on over there.
	Rumble, man.
	Shout out to Rumble.
	That's where you show up when techno music plays and you meet a reptile.
	That's right.
	I was about to say, thank you very much.
	It's very 90s video games of you.
	So let's lead with this.
	Before we get to the homeless, marauding butt pirates in California, let's get to... There's a TikTok video here of an influencer.
	Now some people would say, you know, gold-digging harlot.
	I would never say that, though.
	But that's more accurate.
	That's what some people would say.
	Some people would call her a gold-digging whore, but I would never say... Why is Donald Trump Janis Rossi?
	I'm just saying, other people would say that, and I say, that's not nice.
	But then they say she is, so maybe, maybe.
	Here's the advice, and you can expect more of this on Fresh and Fit Podcasts, but here's the advice that this TikToker has for women on how to enjoy dating.
	Now for the past couple of years, I've been the girl dating athletes.
	Let me tell you four simple things I did to completely change my dating lifestyle and make me love dating again.
	Number one, no simple dates.
	That means no bar dates, no dinner dates, no coffee dates, no park dates.
	I need experiences.
	And if I'm trying to date multiple people and go on multiple dates during the week, I can't be drinking every night.
	I live in New York, so I was spending all of last month in Miami.
	And I was talking to this guy on Hinge, matched with him in New York, he lives in New York.
	He flew down to Miami to take me on a couple dates, and one of the dates was taking me to the Everglades.
	Like, an Everglades tour.
	And drop you off.
	Yeah, in a gator pond.
	You won't take my time, but at least I'm gonna have a fun experience to show for it, and it was semi-worthwhile.
	Rule number two.
	Crazy eyes.
	I'm an expensive woman.
	If you can't afford me, keep it.
	Push it.
	Furthermore, I'm never paying for a date.
	I'm not gonna pay your bills, so why am I paying for a date to make you accustomed to me splitting things with you?
	It ain't gonna happen.
	People tell you your standards are too high.
	They aren't.
	This is after one date.
	He doesn't even know my home address or carbon number.
	All he knows is that I told him that I like surprises and gifts.
	I love dating.
	This is why.
	Well, call us back in eight years when you go, ring ring, eggs?
	Oh, they're not answering.
	Now, I love it.
	She's like, I'm an expensive date.
	It's like, oh, Cherries, Berries, let me take my top off.
	Roses?
	How did that happen?
	This is the advice that you're giving to young women?
	Look, and this is the thing, the whole self-love culture, it's shallow.
	Look, you're never going to find self-esteem through these shallow, let's be honest, it's objectification of men.
	It was semi-worthwhile because he took me somewhere nice.
	How did he feel about it?
	You know, we used to talk about, hey, Motley Crue had all these, or whoever it is, insert whoever here, you know, Mick Jagger, though he slept with David Bowie, which was weird.
	Probably he Whoever his son was, won the My Dad's Cooler Than Your Dad contest in the yard.
	Mick Jagger.
	We used to talk about, hey, what about the groupies?
	Right?
	You're using women.
	We used to say it was objectification of women.
	What about the men?
	Do you think that guy just thought, oh, she's just seeing me because I'm sending her some Tiff's Treats?
	This kind of stuff pisses me off because she's taking advantage of the system.
	She's just basically using guys to have experiences at this point.
	And she's like, I don't want fine dining or anything.
	And she said five star.
	By the way, there's no five star.
	The Michelin goes up to three stars.
	You're an idiot.
	And you're just saying a little bit.
	I'm in the wine world.
	I understand these things.
	I know it's, but it's like, I need experiences that way.
	At least if I don't like the date, I've got the experience now.
	It's like, yeah, you're never going to find happiness, honey.
	The other thing with her, which, you know, this is womanese, basically, and I translated some of it for y'all.
	Oh, did you?
	Yeah, basically when she says, no simple dates, what she's basically saying is that, I don't go out with guys that I like that much, so I need to make sure I get some kind of benefit from going out with you.
	I'm going to be able to get an experience.
	So this tells me also, she said, Oh, I go out with guys on Hinge.
	That's a lie.
	She's going on sugar sites.
	She just doesn't want to admit that on TikTok and come off as a gold digging 304.
	Because the fact that she's dealing with guys that are willing to fly down to her, buying her roses, taking her on these extravagant experiences, nine out of 10 times, she's going to meet these guys through a sugar site there, you know, have more money, et cetera.
	So she's going out guaranteed with older gentlemen.
	She doesn't find that attractive that she doesn't like that much, but she wants to be able to help go ahead and get gifts and get some kind of benefit.
	Which, you know, a lot of girls do this.
	They go out with guys that they don't like that much for ulterior motives, while they have the guy that doesn't pay anything.
	They're smashing him, and they're making these other suckers pay for things, making them wait, extracting resources from them, and they're hoping, oh my god, I'm gonna get laid at some point.
	But a lot of the times they don't, or they get stuck for sex.
	And he wrote all that down very quickly.
	He did, yes!
	I just have a woodpecker on my ship.
	Oh, one other thing too.
	Tinder makes me happy!
	So good.
	Here's a song by Cyndi Lauper called Just Wanna Have Fun.
	That's the extreme of it.
	I want experiences over love.
	That's crazy, right?
	But that's reality now.
	With her, it was two girls just wanna have fun.
	And you guys would be shocked at how common this is.
	She's not even that hot.
	She's pretty attractive.
	But average women get these types of experiences and are able to date this way, where they're able to openly extract resources from men and not give anything And by the way, it's also self-harming because then at a certain point they go, oh wow, I've lived a hollow life.
	Look, you know, I always say that A Christmas Carol is the fifth gospel because Ebeneezer Scrooge, and it applies, and you're thinking, oh, old English white guy, who cares?
	No, it applies to you.
	This was a rich man.
	By the way, he was a liberal at one point.
	He said, are there no prisons?
	Are there no poor houses?
	Right?
	He just said, I'll let the government take care of it.
	And then he realized that what mattered in life was family, was relationships, right?
	He was a second father to Tiny Tim.
	He was as good of a father as there ever was.
	It was a man who said, all of these things that I thought mattered, and in that case it was money, in that case it was wealth, like this woman is talking about, changed when he realized the value of family.
	Now in that case there was redemption because he was too old to have a family, but he became a father to another young man who he could help.
	That's where you find fulfillment and self-esteem.
	And look, as funny as it is, because this is a dumb person, it's also really sad and it doesn't help anybody.
	I just, I need to ask the dumb question of what is a 304?
	So with the old graphing calculators if you, or calculator in general, if you put like 304, you flip it upside down, it means ho, so we would, yeah.
	It's a way of kind of staying YouTube somewhat friendly.
	Well we don't need to stay YouTube friendly.
	I used to, I spent, remember how expensive those graphic calculators were?
	They were like $250?
	Dude, so expensive.
	So expensive to spell boobs upside down.
	The Texas Instruments!
	58008!
	By the way, if you call tech support to Texas Instruments, you got Vivek Ramaswamy.
	Really?
	We're going to go back to this because we have a whole segment on Western civilization and relationships, but before that, right now there are actually a marauding homeless pirates in San Francisco, not to be outdone by the people crapping in the streets, because if leftism worked, hey, San Francisco would be the place to be.
	That brings us to this week's Golden State of Crime.
	All right, so this is an actual clip.
	Yeah.
	In a new twist.
	California crime.
	Homeless pirates.
	I didn't even know that was a thing.
	How do you do that?
	This is how they're describing it in the news.
	Homeless pirates.
	I mean, all pirates are homeless, technically, right?
	I mean, their boat could be their home, I don't know.
	Yeah, I mean, they're just roamers, right?
	They're ship marauders.
	Anyway, here's the thing.
	They're actually pillaging boats in the Bay Area.
	Here's a clip.
	From shipwrecks to sunken shipyards.
	Littered in trash.
	This is the sad reality of the Oakland estuary shoreline.
	Boats torn up, covered in graffiti, abandoned and trashed.
	A lap says over the past few months, pirates have been attacking vessels at five different locations along the channel.
	From boats to masts, the problem is sticking out right in front of the U.S.
	Coast Guard island.
	Oh, it's mutiny on the booty.
	Now, the Oakland PD, just so you know, you guys know Oakland.
	They only have one officer.
	They have one officer trying to operate the boat.
	They have a police boat.
	They're surrounded by waterways.
	And one officer, that's like, what are you, the Canadian Navy?
	You don't have more to protect the waterways around the entire city?
	And there's actually a sentiment that they were, there's another report, a guy who's known as Captain Taylor.
	They can't handle what they're, well they can't handle the land, you know, financially and resource-wise.
	They can't, so they can't.
	There's no Oakland Navy, you know.
	So Taylor and his fellow captains do all they can to keep an eye on each other's boats and run off any pirates who may show up, which, in his view, has a nice ring to it.
	But I'll go with... I think it sounds cool, you know, anyway, just to say that we have pirates around here.
	Since the raiders are gone, we don't have nothing to, you know, get... Still holding on to that one?
	It's like... So yeah, let's go with pirates then.
	Can we interview someone?
	Can we interview if Rob Dyrdek performed fellatio on a meth phallus?
	Hey, they're actually coming to it on CNN.
	Oh, they're talking about it right now on CNN?
	Are they?
	Oh, it's yeah, let's bring it up Huh.
	Well.
	Sorry, Fred.
	I want to say this.
	This is real.
	California is a failed society, man.
	I used to work in law enforcement, and the fact that they have to bring in the U.S.
	Coast Guard to deal with that tells you how much the state is failing when they don't even have a marine division for a police department that is right on the water.
	Yeah, I know.
	Common theme there.
	You guys saw that common theme?
	They're all black.
	What the heck, bro?
	That's messed up, bro.
	Come on, dawg.
	some of them are just gay white guys there's a pumpkin spice guy in there bro come on man
	who was dirty man what was i think dave chappelle this is a long time ago he had
	that bit where he's like black people You don't get to run a city anymore!
	Why?
	Detroit and Oakland!
	You fucked up!
	That's it!
	And now, I mean, you know, it's every city.
	I love the guy, though, that was fighting it at the end.
	He's like, yeah, I'm fighting it.
	We're trying to help our friends out.
	But since the Raiders are gone, I guess it's kind of cool.
	Yeah, exactly.
	How much of their life revolved around the Raiders?
	This is unhealthy.
	By the way, if you sent in actual Lara Croft, Tomb Raider, no one would even notice her in that area of town.
	They'd be like, what?
	Let's go back to the Folsom Street Fair.
	Find me a bearer.
	McCarthy.
	Everyone's talking about this.
	By the way, hit the like button if you're watching on YouTube because it helps with the algorithm or on Rumble.
	But go over and watch on Rumble.
	And today with Mug Club, it's going to be a lot of fun with Mr. Fresh and Orfit.
	We have an intervention with Gary later on.
	We do, yeah.
	Everyone is talking about McCarthy being ousted as Speaker.
	Okay.
	That happened.
	Alright.
	Does it affect you?
	Not all that much, but there are some issues at play here that I think some people have overlooked, so let me just brief you on this if you've been living under a rock, or if you've been marauded by San Francisco butt pirates, and so, you know, you're out without power.
	Yesterday, Matt Gaetz succeeded in his efforts to get rid of Kevin McCarthy, and he's out as Speaker of the House.
	On this vote, the yeas are 216, the nays are 210.
	The resolution is adopted.
	Without objection, the motion to reconsider is laid on the table.
	The office of Speaker of the House of the United States House of Representatives is hereby declared vacant.
	That is, did you hear that?
	That is the weakest gavel sound I've ever heard.
	Do we have another clip?
	We have another clip where we enhance the audio.
	Yeah, let's roll it again.
	Is hereby declared vacant.
	By the way, a lot of this is kabuki theater, but do you know how much this whole process cost you?
	Just the vote, $2 million.
	At least.
	What?
	Just the minutes that the vote took place, $2 million.
	I'm sure you could give an estimate that's higher.
	All the references we make are available at lightofthegreater.com, just so you know.
	Link in the description.
	That's the issue.
	They're going to bring in someone else.
	Will he be better?
	Probably not.
	Maybe a little bit.
	I'm not a McCarthy fan.
	I don't think that politicians should be your heroes.
	It's just everything costs so much money and very little gets done.
	Absolutely.
	And by the way, this guy barely got in there anyway.
	It took like 15 votes or something like that for him to actually do it.
	And it was 12.30 in the morning when they finally caveled him in.
	But don't worry.
	I mean, they're going to help the pirates, man.
	Yes, they're going to get that money.
	You know what?
	Your speaker is ours now.
	He belongs to me.
	McCarthy was so pissed, by the way, he pulled the fire alarm on the way out.
	I thought it was an exit thing, like a button.
	Press here to get out.
	So, Matt Gaetz.
	And actually, we do confirm that we have him on here in a little bit.
	So that's why we were a little bit late today, also.
	And also, just so you guys know, we're black, so we're in black people's name.
	It's what it is, man.
	Sorry, man.
	We refer to it as Canadian time.
	I was in the service industry.
	If you're a server out there, you're a waitress or a waiter, you know what we're talking about.
	Here is Gates, though, summing up why McCarthy was ousted.
	Kevin McCarthy couldn't keep his word.
	He made an agreement in January regarding the way Washington would work, and he violated that agreement.
	We are $33 trillion in debt.
	We are facing $2.2 trillion annual deficits.
	We face a de-dollarization globally that will crush Americans, working class Americans.
	Kevin McCarthy is a feature of the swamp.
	He has risen to power by collecting special interest money and redistributing that money in exchange for favors.
	No, I want to go to you Gerald, and I like what he's saying, I think that McCarthy is kind of a little bit of an empty suit, but this is like buzzword, every election, blah blah blah, swamp, people, blah blah blah, narrative!
	Pretty much.
	I mean, that's why we say it doesn't matter.
	This is the first time in history that this has happened, so it is kind of a historic event, obviously, by standard.
	But are we going to get somebody markedly different?
	I don't think so, but the interesting thing being floated right now is Donald Trump.
	Because here's one thing you need to know.
	Anyone can be made speaker.
	I didn't know that.
	I thought it had to be somebody, and that's just my ignorance on this.
	I had no idea.
	I don't know if Fresh and or Fit knew that as well.
	Did you know they can pretty much make anyone speaker?
	I did not know that.
	It's educational, Joe.
	Wait, even Hitler?
	Well, I mean, if they had a DeLorean, probably they could bring him back.
	You probably have to be a U.S.
	citizen.
	There's probably at least that or, you know, you snuck in.
	Our debt is out of control!
	I'm sorry, I misspoke.
	I meant deficit.
	Debt is the total and deficit is the annual.
	Listen!
	It's too much money!
	He's like, nine-nine-nine-nine-nine-nine-nine-nine-nine-nine.
	They're gonna have you Herman Cain Ticket.
	My plan is nine-nine-nine-nine-nine-nine.
	God smashes pizza!
	But how much would that piss Democrats off if for some way, Donald Trump became Speaker
	of The House for, just as in like, a temporary thing.
	Oh my gosh, he just walked, he just walked back in.
	Just when you thought it was safe to go back in the House.
	Daddy's back!
	And he had a high and tight- I did this because it's a House party, right?
	House party.
	Look, you're fired.
	I slept with you.
	That's right.
	Sue me.
	Sue me.
	That's right.
	You lost.
	Anyway, so we actually do, as much as he probably doesn't like that intro, we do have politicians on the show.
	We have a lot of guests on the show, and it took us a while to wrangle them down.
	We have an exclusive.
	Right now, do we have them on the line?
	Yep.
	All right.
	It's time to go to our guest, Mr. Matt Gaetz.
	All right, Mr. Gaetz, thank you for joining us.
	Steven, thank you for having me.
	Yeah, the framing is a little bit tight.
	Can you move back a bit?
	We can only see your forehead.
	That's all we can see.
	Uh, how's that?
	Uh, Mr. Representative Gates, move back some more.
	We can only see your forehead still.
	Yeah, um, no, I can't.
	I can't move back any further.
	Just zoom out, Gates.
	It zoomed out all the way.
	How is that even possible?
	How is- that's not a- there's no- Why don't you zoom out?
	No!
	No!
	I can't zoom out.
	Try backing up your camera.
	I can't back up my camera.
	It's your camera.
	Did that work?
	Okay, Toolman, just cut it.
	I can't even do this.
	Go.
	Go!
	Oh, jeez. Sorry.
	I'm sorry, guys.
	You deserve better.
	Second time?
	You know, we all have technical difficulties.
	He is a sick puppy.
	Zoom out!
	No, you zoom out!
	That's not how it works!
	I'm a child.
	I'm a child.
	My time is worth more than that.
	So, it looks like Republicans may even have to look for a Democrat for a consensus candidate.
	So again, that's the problem.
	It's like, okay, the devil you know.
	And apparently, though, Matt Gaetz is making headway, reaching across the aisle to fill the hole.
	The American people want all of us.
	That's it.
	Hezbollah!
	That is absolutely 100% not doctored.
	Her brother is pissed.
	I'm going to get the rocks!
	I'm going to get the rocks now!
	That's almost like Arnold.
	That's Elon Arnold.
	Do it now!
	I beg my brother!
	You know she married her brother, right?
	You guys know that?
	Oh, she did?
	Oh, she married her brother.
	There's the marriage certificate.
	And no one talks about it.
	Yeah.
	Banged.
	Yeah, she married her brother.
	Haram!
	What the heck?
	No, she was in his harem.
	Yeah.
	She's one of many sisters.
	We can bring it up.
	We've talked about it on the show.
	It's bad.
	Who would you like to see as speaker?
	You can comment on that.
	Let's also put out a poll.
	Eddie Gates and Ilhan Omar.
	They'd make a cute couple.
	It's been a good run for McCarthy over the past nine months.
	And even though sometimes we see people as allies, sometimes worthy adversaries, sometimes frenemies, we always want to honor them.
	Speaker McCarthy, it is time to close.
	Having received a majority of the whole number of votes cast by Sernay, a speaker has not been elected.
	The Honorable Kevin McCarthy of the state of California has received 216.
	Time to close.
	Endings and beginnings are ending and beginning.
	Look at this.
	There's finger pointing going on.
	Matt Gaetz is pointing at McCarthy.
	A crowd is gathering around them.
	And he's walking away.
	Somebody's holding somebody back.
	Look at that.
	Somebody just held somebody back.
	Stephanie, just look at that.
	It looks like a fight breaking out on the floor.
	He says he's coming for you.
	Can you survive?
	Yes, I'll survive.
	Only because he wants to take this motion.
	So be it.
	Bring it on.
	Let's get over with it.
	And let's start governing.
	If he's upset because he tried to push us into shutdown, and I made sure government didn't shut down, then let's have that fight.
	And we now want to go to Representative Kevin McCarthy speaking after he was ousted as Speaker of the House.
	I will not run for Speaker again.
	I'll have the conference pick somebody else.
	I hope you realize that every day I did the job, regardless whether you underestimated me or not, I wanted to do it with a smile.
	I know that it's time for things to close.
	I know that it's time for things to close.
	Yes, his tenure was 2023 to also 2023.
	So, we're going to close.
	Damn.
	I mean, at least he wasn't a 95-year-old, you know?
	That's true.
	We have that going for us.
	You know, the squirrel that was on Coke at the thing with Nancy Pelosi?
	Oh yeah, Nancy Pelosi.
	You remember that one, Donald Trump?
	Someone can pull that clip.
	You remember that one, Donald Trump was giving a speech and she's like... It's like she was testing every single perfume at the Dior counter.
	Mine!
	Mine!
	She's an insane person.
	That's the point.
	All right.
	And by the way, again, just for people who are tuning in now, where's the best place for people to watch you guys and watch your show support you?
	Rumble.
	Rumble's the base for us, man.
	Rumble.com slash FresherFit, and we're on YouTube as well.
	And when does your show air?
	Like, do you have a specific... Monday, Wednesday, Friday, 6 p.m., we do our daytime show, whether it's Money Mondays, Womanizer Wednesdays, or Call-In Show Friday, and then we do the after-hours shows with the Crazy Bimbos at nighttime.
	Okay.
	Funny, after this, we're going to fly back to Miami and do a show right away.
	Really?
	Oh, well, good.
	Maybe she can catch a ride with you, that lady.
	I wasn't really interested in him, but he had a nice plane.
	It was an experience?
	Yeah.
	They had good treats.
	They had good treats on the plane.
	Sheesh!
	Pistachios.
	I don't like to shell them.
	It's too much work.
	Oh my God, he has money.
	He has money, yeah.
	More money, please.
	More money, please.
	So, give me the ring.
	This brings us to the decline of relationships in the West, and these gentlemen speak about this a lot, but it is an issue, I think.
	Look, I've talked about this before.
	Yesterday, for example, when everyone was talking about McCarthy and then we had Haya of Libs of TikTok on and we realized that Twitter had demonetized words and there was some censorship going on.
	That's the kind of thing that I find most important because speakers come and go, as you see, 2023 to also 2023.
	McCarthy.
	The kinds of issues that affect you every single day and the foundation of society, right?
	Politics is downstream.
	I've heard downstream or upstream.
	It's upstream from culture.
	And the most important component of our culture is strong relationships and strong families.
	And that has been kind of circling the drain for a while now.
	And there are a good number of reasons for that.
	So I want to break it down for you, let you know kind of what What the causes are, and then the symptoms that people are experiencing.
	Because, by the way, a lot of the time you'll get some people say, oh, like Fresh and Fit, oh, they must be misogynistic, they must hate women.
	No, no.
	This affects women and men negatively.
	The problem is that it's been spearheaded, well, by feminists, but ironically, not only feminists, but the porn industry, if you go back to the 60s and 70s as well.
	They were often one and the same, and now it's ended up in this unholy amalgamate that has left everyone miserable.
	So, This clip really got us thinking to jump off with about modern relationships and dating in America.
	She's a 10 out of 10, but she has a higher body count than you.
	I don't care.
	Vibes.
	I knew you were going to say that.
	7,000 bodies on me.
	That just shows that you're secure because any insecure guy would be like, I can't do it.
	It has nothing to do with me.
	How am I going to judge a person based on a past I wasn't a part of?
	Tell that to a judge.
	Hey!
	He skinned nine people alive and ate them.
	I wasn't there.
	It wasn't my fault.
	She's pretty hostile.
	Didn't see nothing!
	So, let me give you a few stats here to undergird this.
	All the references are available and then we'll open the floor to a discussion.
	So, modern dating in America.
	Okay, let's go through young men first.
	In 2023, 63% of men under 30 are single.
	63% of men under 30 are single.
	Okay?
	34% of women under 30 are single.
	Now, if you compare that to 1980, that was 24% of men were single,
	41% of women were single.
	So that number has switched.
	First off, it's gotten higher in both categories, but it's also switched here where you saw there were more women who were single back in the 80s than today.
	Now today, only 50% of men are even actively seeking a relationship.
	Women find 80% of men below average.
	In other words, there are more men now who are single than women.
	That's a huge switch.
	There are more people overall who are single.
	Half of men say, I have no desire to change from being single.
	And then 80% of women are saying, well, most men aren't worth me ending my life of singlehood.
	That means that you're not, before we get to marriage, you're not going to have meaningful relationships and people are having fewer Meaningful relationships than ever before.
	So let's start this off with the causes.
	Okay, where this started and I don't know do we yeah, we don't have us Okay, so let's go back then.
	Okay, no-fault divorce is number one.
	That's one of the causes here A lot of people don't know about no-fault divorce how it changed A lot of people don't know where it came from.
	So Hugh Hefner And Dr. Kinsey, you know the guy who said that everyone should be able to have sex with everybody?
	His Playboy Foundation, they were the first to actually underwrite legislation on no-fault divorce.
	And they were supported by a lot of feminists.
	Now the reason for this, just to be clear, is before no-fault divorce, there was a fault.
	It was either cheating, Abuse or abandonment.
	Meaning that if someone cheated or if someone physically abused someone, they had to pay, right?
	It's not as though there were no consequences.
	And if there wasn't cheating or abuse, then it constituted abandonment.
	All were considered a breaking of the contract.
	That then switched in 69 in California.
	The first no-fault state, actually Ronald Reagan, he said it was one of the biggest mistakes that he's ever made, no-fault divorce, where it just said you can leave and break the contract for any reason and there's no one at fault.
	So just to be clear, before that it didn't mean that you could just cheat at will as a man or a woman, but let's be honest, they were
	more concerned about men, and leave Scott free. No, if you cheated, you broke that
	contract.
	Now, we need to be clear about this too. The reason that Hugh Hefner
	and people on the extreme left, the pornography industry, were pro-no-fault divorce is because
	they actually wanted men to live consequence-free and be able to cheat and not have to pay out half.
	And then it morphed into, you know what, the primary earner pays out half.
	So number one is no-fault divorce.
	Number two is feminism.
	1970s, three feminist books that were written by three prominent feminists.
	But there were three books that really kind of just ruled the bestseller list.
	One was Kate Millett's Sexual Politics.
	One was Jermaine Greer's The Female Eunuch, and then the other one was Firestone's The Dialectic of Sex.
	Now, these books railed against the nuclear family, and they told young women that, hey, you'll be free if you are more sexually predatorial.
	We now have birth control.
	Isn't it great?
	Go forth, and no being a whore, better man.
	So, that's what happened.
	Women thought that it was going to be their liberation, and now you see plenty of videos like this on TikTok or on Instagram, where these Self-professed liberal women, they have this cognitive dissonance and they don't know how to figure it out.
	This clip is sad, but hilarious.
	Do you want to know one of the saddest realizations I recently had?
	You guys know this one.
	Was that as a liberal woman, it is really hard to find a man who is willing to play the more traditional masculine role in the relationship in today's day and age.
	Who is not a conservative.
	A man who wants to pay on the first date, who wants to open your door, who has that want and desire to take care of you and to provide.
	Who is not a conservative.
	And obviously as a liberal woman, I do want to be respected for my independence.
	And I do want to have my own autonomy in the relationship.
	Independence, but I don't go Dutch.
	And most of the men that I've dated who do have that more natural provider masculinity about them are normally conservative.
	So I don't really know what to do because I don't want to compromise my morals and values just to find a man.
	Am I asking to have my cake and eat it, too?
	Yes, yes.
	Well, thank God we're not in the Fat Pride territory, so it's allegorical.
	But I want to talk to the people who are watching.
	We'll take your chats afterward.
	Hey, has this made your life better, single people out there?
	Do you believe that your life is better now?
	Do the way that we've changed the dating pool, the current environment.
	Really quickly, some consequences that are incredibly severe.
	You know, we talked about people who are not interested in relationships, but since these changes, and again, it goes back to no-fault divorce, feminism, and porn.
	These were all the same, by the way.
	They were tied together.
	It was pro-porn, pro-sex, and no-fault divorce.
	Okay, now the divorce rate in the country.
	The 50% divorce rate is kind of a myth, though it has gone up.
	Women initiate 69% of all divorces, just to be clear. And infidelity and
	physical abuse are not even the top five reasons listed. Marriage rates are at their lowest point
	ever. And then we'll get into, you know, before we get to marriage, the reason that people
	are just checking out of the dating pool for serious relationships whatsoever. I mean, you guys
	talk about this a lot. And I think a lot of people think, well, why is this happening? It's not that
	confusing when you actually look at the environment. Yeah. Bridal companies are actually
	like going out of business now too.
	Really?
	Yeah, we did an episode on it.
	I thought that was a license to print money.
	It used to be.
	It used to be one of those industries that was unaffected by the economy because people waste money on stupid shit.
	$10,000 dress?
	That's me!
	Say yes to it!
	I'll fit in it for one day and then blow up afterwards.
	I can still wear my tux.
	Now, what were you about to say?
	I just want to add as well, the question is, how do you destroy a country that's great and it's destroying the family first?
	And I think I want to add here as well, social media played a huge role in this because once again, TikTok is spreading a propaganda where they push women to be independent, Yeah, and you hit the nail on the head with a lot of the problems.
	Like, I pretty much was writing down, I was like, feminism leads to birth control, which then leads to sex without consequence, which then leads to divorce, then that destroys the family.
	And then on top of that, to compound the issue, you add in social media, just like Fresh was saying, women have more options than ever before.
	when women have a lot of options and they feel that there's a bunch of suitors that can
	take care of them or they believe so even though they because women make this terrible mistake of
	thinking.
	They all have this crazy mindset where I have a bunch of guys in my DMs so I have a bunch of
	options so I'm going to go ahead and play the field and do what I need to do which is where
	you end up with women like that girl before where she has guys that are going to go ahead and give
	her these experiences these dates these situations that she might not necessarily be able to afford
	herself.
	I think we need a stronger pole because I keep bending it.
	No, I don't think that's what that means, but yes.
	Here's some of the consequences, by the way, like you're talking about.
	We have these numbers.
	We'll make them available to you.
	You know, the body counts that people talk about, the promiscuity, right?
	Women control access to sex.
	They're taking advantage on dating apps like Tinder.
	Men swipe right.
	So right's the good thing?
	Right means that, hey, I like this person.
	Men swipe right far more often than women.
	Women swipe right only 5% of the time.
	Men, 53% of the time.
	And by the way, Tinder is also not a good place to find meaningful relationships.
	And to sort of put a face to it, an altered face to it, social media influencer, I guess she's a fitness model, Brittany Renner, Oh, man.
	And by the way, fitness model for women just means you're just not fat.
	This is one thing, too, when women say, like, you have no idea what it's like to have these body standards.
	They were doing pull-ups before the show.
	Like, do you have any idea how hard it is to be lean and muscular?
	It's like, just don't be Tess Halliday and guys will find you attractive.
	So, Brittany Renner, who's a fitness model, made internet waves talking about her body count on the Bus Confessions podcast.
	Oh, that's a good sign.
	So you said your count is 35?
	Mm-hmm.
	Okay.
	How do you feel about that number?
	It's kind of, like, annoying because at least half of my list I only had one time.
	She's in a bus.
	Okay.
	But I still have to wear those.
	You know what I mean?
	It still happened.
	But I think that's the only thing that's annoying.
	The music is annoying.
	That's my number.
	And I can't even have it on a regular basis.
	It's usually quarterly.
	That's kind of been my schedule.
	Like taxes?
	Unless I'm in a relationship or talking to someone.
	That pre-commitment phase, which has not been anything recently.
	Yeah, it sucks.
	So, over half my list.
	Probably about half my list.
	One time.
	How bad are you in bed?
	Now, getting rid of... Well, that's a lot of ones.
	The moral idea.
	Yeah, the moral consequences.
	At a certain point, it's you.
	So many of the people that I slept with didn't come back for seconds?
	Yeah, if they're not leaving with a smile on their face...
	You're doing something wrong.
	It's not that complicated for men.
	I want to mention too, do women ever tell their real body count?
	Just being frank here.
	Oh, I don't think so, right?
	We never really know.
	We have an equation.
	It's actually multiply by 7, add another 10, then divide by 1.
	Wait, who are these women?
	Roadies for Van Halen?
	And I will say this too, because we actually spoke with her on Academics Podcast, and I predicted this.
	I told her, yo, you're going to have a very difficult time finding a guy because you're out there on social media, you've banged a bunch of athletes and celebrities, guys aren't going to take you seriously, and since you're famous and you make a certain amount of money, you've basically ostracized a majority of men from taking you seriously.
	You're probably going to end up single.
	And the thing is, she's starting to realize that now.
	You're absolutely right.
	I don't think we need to run another clip of her because we get the point.
	She likes sleeping with guys, they don't like sleeping with her.
	She slept with three in one day though.
	I think that's an important note.
	You don't have to run the clip, I'm just saying that's the reveal.
	Before you feel bad for her, she did the hat trick.
	Yeah, three in one day.
	And here's the thing, you know, you guys do this Monday, Wednesday, Friday, you said, your show?
	Yes.
	And Nick DiPaolo's on Mug Club every day at 5 p.m.
	And the reason we brought him on is, you know, first off, he's the OG.
	Like, if you ask other people in the industry, they'll say, oh yeah, Nick's the guy.
	He's as funny as they get.
	He's been talking about this for a very long time.
	Now, again, I'm not saying that he's a Christian conservative.
	He's an agnostic, you know, rough-around-the-edges guy.
	But he talked about the idea of women's body count and even the sort of secular idea that, hey, you want to test drive a car, right?
	Some guys would say that.
	This is from 20-something years ago, at least, Nick DiPaolo discussing this issue.
	You could be the biggest whore for the first 30 years of your life.
	F*** the NBA West, East, and South.
	Still have the p***y of a Girl Scout when you're 76.
	They tighten their vagina.
	And you're deceiving men when you're doing that.
	It's like rolling back the odometer on a used car.
	He's talking about vaginoplasty.
	That's a real thing, man.
	Yeah, it is.
	Well, we know girls that are in the Mind My Lifestyle, and literally, they'll be pretty much with basketball players, football players, and then they go into surgery.
	It's like, oh, I'm a new body now.
	I'm like, no, you're not.
	You're still the same person.
	And it's interesting that he said this 20 years ago before the explosion of social media.
	It's even worse now because a regular girl will get DMs from athletes, celebs, guys that are top-tier, and they have access to them now because of the internet and Instagram.
	Yeah.
	No, and the thing is, like, people say, oh, you're being anti... Look, being anti-women's liberation, meaning having sex with as many people as you want, it's not anti-woman.
	Go take a sampling, right?
	A poll, 60-something-year-old women, and ask them if they say, hey, I wish I slept With more guys one time in my life.
	That's my biggest regret.
	No, almost always, these people say, when they're older, they say, I wish I would have spent more time with my family.
	They don't tell you, I wish I had more money.
	They say, you don't get more time.
	I wish I had more time.
	That's what they invariably say.
	When they say time, they mean time with people that matter.
	And think about this, you're wasting so much time in your life with things that don't matter, people that don't matter.
	And the problem, right, it's a double-edged sword, is You may never be able to find that relationship that matters because people are checking out.
	They're all terrified.
	Men are saying, well, I don't want to get married because 70%, if they're college degrees, 80% of divorces are filed by women just because, and it's no fault.
	And I don't want to marry a woman who's trained herself her whole life to learn how to break up with men.
	And then women are saying, hey, I don't want to marry these men-childs, men-children, sorry, it's hard when you combine the two, who are going through second adolescence in their 30s.
	And this is, look, you want to destroy a society from within.
	It's tell people that evil is good.
	And when I say evil, I mean...
	Learning to, you know, I had a pastor one time give me this analogy, it's like sticky tape, where he said every time you rip off the tape it gets less and less sticky.
	This is an analogy I used to use in youth group.
	And it's true.
	The more partners you have, you get really good at breaking up with people.
	You get really good at learning to end relationships.
	That's not great for yourself long term if you want to be in a permanent relationship.
	Well, you also get really good at learning how to get somebody in bed.
	That's not the goal of a relationship, right?
	If you want to learn how to get a guy in bed, it's pretty simple, right?
	The girls don't have to do a lot of training on that.
	Just say yes.
	Yeah, exactly.
	Guys, That's not what you want for a relationship.
	That's not the skill that it takes to be in a relationship.
	And really, we've talked about this on other shows, we do need to bring some shame back.
	I'm shaming the guys that are doing this too, and shaming the women.
	I'm doing it for your own good.
	You need to be ashamed of doing these things.
	She was.
	You could see it in her face when she was saying this, like, I still have to wear that.
	And I'm like, yeah.
	We are you at 40 telling you now not to make those mistakes.
	Because at 40, you're going to regret it.
	Yeah.
	And you can't make anything up.
	Your mic's coming on a little hot.
	I don't know if it's just me, but yes, you're both passion.
	You made a good point.
	And the Bible talks about end times, where good will be evil, evil will be good.
	And it's crazy because we're telling women to become better for themselves and their family, but they don't care what men actually want.
	It's what they want.
	So it sucks.
	And I saw, behold, a pale whore.
	No, I was going to say that since women are more promiscuous now than before, one thing that I say that people have, it's kind of controversial, I say before you even think about taking women seriously nowadays, you need to have sex with at least 50 girls.
	What are you talking about?
	And the reason why I say that is because if you get into a relationship dealing with a lot of modern women where they're racking up 10 bodies, 20 bodies in a semester in college because more women attend college nowadays.
	I call it the deregulated sexual marketplace.
	Women basically are able to hook up with whoever they want and if you leave women to their own devices, what do they do?
	They typically pick the best guys and they're smashing a lot of these guys and it's easy for them.
	So for, as a man, you don't want to get into a relationship with a girl that has been ran through and you don't, you're not able to see it.
	I call it like basically getting in the ring with someone who's a black belt and you're a white belt because you're not necessarily experienced enough to be able to, um, how do I say this?
	Combat.
	Combat and or identify certain characteristics that would disqualify her from a serious longterm relationship.
	And guys have to learn the skill now.
	It used to be, you know, back.
	They won't necessarily, they won't learn the skill through sleeping with a bunch of women though.
	You need to learn the skill through screening for values and actually finding someone.
	And I get that there's a lot of dishonesty, right?
	And there's a lot of deception.
	But I don't know if a guy is necessarily going to learn, like, I slept with 50 women, therefore I know that you banged 14.
	It's not a hard 50.
	It's not a hard 50.
	35, 40, whatever it may be, but what I am saying is that guys need to get out there and deal with a lot of girls.
	And I know this kind of clashes with, you know, traditional conservative values a lot of times where they're like, hey, you know, you should be trying to be monogamous, find a woman, even though I think that is a great template maybe 50 years ago in today's day and age with the way how women are and how promiscuous they are and how a lot of women sell men a dream or they sell purity, men deal success, women deal purity.
	I think you need to be able to identify women that are promiscuous and a way to do that is by sleeping with them.
	And I'll say this, the reason why it's sleeping with them versus just courting them and dating them is because that's a woman's main commodity.
	Like once you sleep with her, you've pretty much conquered that woman, not to sound crazy, but you're able to identify the gains.
	Well, no, but then it could also become, you know, this is where we would disagree, but I think it becomes a vicious cycle because then not wanting women to have a high body count, and you have a body count of 50, right?
	It makes it, that's kind of what feminism was predicated on.
	They go, well, men are doing this, so we shouldn't.
	The truth is, it's not really, it's not good for anyone, but I understand what you're trying to say.
	This is the reality of the world we live in.
	Hopefully there's a, hopefully there is a split the difference.
	You were in law enforcement, right?
	Yeah.
	You were in law enforcement.
	Do you ever get trained on how to spot a fake ID?
	May not have been part of what you're doing, right?
	But no, we have like fraudulent documents.
	Yeah.
	Yeah, so anybody that's trained on how to spot a fake ID studies the original.
	You don't study the fakes because that can change.
	You study the original so that you can understand and see when something is off.
	So I would disagree with you wholeheartedly on this, saying, look, if you want to find a pure woman, study what that is.
	Go and find what that is so that you know what to look for.
	Not necessarily what not to look for, because I think you're going to be fooled.
	Like you said, women now will sell purity.
	I never really put it into those words, but that makes sense, right?
	That makes sense.
	Like, I haven't been somebody who's going out and sleeping around.
	You need to be able to identify the lie.
	Not because you've been down in the mud with them, but because you have stayed out of it.
	Here's the problem, though.
	We saw earlier a clip of the woman talking about her experiences, right?
	With a guy.
	Did he have sex with her?
	No.
	So, off rip, she came in selling purity, selling like, oh, I'm a good girl.
	But from experience, if you knew who she was as a person, you'd be like, hold on a second here.
	You're coming to Miami, I gotta pay for stuff, I gotta figure out experiences.
	That should have been the first sign!
	But again, most guys don't know because they don't have the experience.
	You need the experience on some level.
	Yeah, it's and again, like I said, like, is this the best way to deal with things?
	No, no, I'm a big proponent on guys, you know, fighting fire with fire and dealing with women and in 2023, the same way they deal with us.
	Women, I hate to say this, in the dating game nowadays, they treat men as expendable commodities.
	That's why they're able to do the things that they do and just move on, etc.
	No, I mean that in a good way.
	I tell guys to date like women do and you treat them like spendable quantities as well because my thing is this, I see what you're saying as far as finding a pure girl, but you're going to have to be able to identify the bad ones to know what a good one is.
	But the problem is if you do that, you will make yourself no longer an option for the good girl.
	She's not going to want a guy who's done that.
	And so now the only women you can end up with are the women with the 50 body count.
	A woman who actually is pure He's not going to want a guy who's been with 50.
	I respectfully disagree with that and I'll tell you why.
	Women tend to find men that can hook up with other women and have sexual experience attractive.
	Now is this all women?
	No.
	But women definitely don't necessarily disqualify a man for having sexual experiences like a man will disqualify a woman.
	The more experienced you are a lot of times it makes you more attractive because women tend to look for guys that are leaders, etc.
	And if you're a leader in the bedroom, leader in all the other assets, It's rarely that a woman's going to disqualify you for having a promiscuous past, versus we would definitely disqualify a woman for a promiscuous past.
	So maybe the broader point is, shouldn't we be pushing people, like, maybe the biblical prescription was the right way to go, and don't abandon it just because it's hard.
	It's difficult.
	I get it.
	I was single up until, you know, like five years ago.
	We thought he was going to die alone for sure.
	We thought he was going to die alone.
	He was missing a tooth.
	No, I was.
	I used to call him Toothy.
	Yeah, yeah, you didn't call me Toothy more than once.
	I didn't know he had a tooth that was shot out by a BB gun when I first met him.
	I was like, hey, you ever think about getting... He's like, oh, this was shot out by my cousin's BB gun.
	I'm like, oh, so you know about it.
	He's like, yeah, I just can't afford to fix it right now.
	And I want to be very clear, too, that I think the nuclear family is the backbone of any thriving society.
	I think that's how the United States became the world's superpowers, on the back of nuclear families.
	I think a man should be with a woman and we should have children.
	But unfortunately, with the way things are now, where we have this deregulated sexual marketplace, where women control everything, I want to put men in a position where they're able to properly ascertain that woman's value, to give her that commitment, because guys take on such a huge risk.
	Don't sleep with her.
	Don't sleep with her.
	And I agree with you that they are.
	The minute my wife, who's now my wife at the time, the girl that I was dating, we talked about sex early and said, hey, I'm waiting.
	That immediately turns people on or off.
	It turns people off that are like, hey, I'm just interested in sex.
	And it turns somebody on, not in a sex way, but it turns like, ooh, okay, so this guy has some morals.
	This guy has a little bit of what I'm looking for.
	There's some character there.
	There's something more than just, hey, I'm trying to get in your pants there.
	I agree with you.
	I think the problem that we're facing is that society, you're correct, is crazy.
	Right?
	I don't think you play into their hand, though.
	I think you have to go a completely different direction.
	Well, there's also another, my primary issue is before, once we get on to the, we get past the entry point.
	Right.
	Here's the problem, you and your wife and I know that, and by the way, you were both very straightforward about your quote-unquote body cast.
	I did want to have sex with her before.
	Yeah, of course you did.
	Of course you did.
	She's your man.
	I mean, it was like every, it was for a while, it was like we had to, we had to move the furniture like a great Dane's Tale.
	Oh, come on!
	Here's the problem though, the reality is, at this point in time, not that she ever would, but now that you're married and the church has failed men in a lot of ways here, where that woman's talking about, hey, I expect this, okay, how about a prenup?
	Your wife, if she wanted to, if she were that person, could leave you tomorrow and take all your stuff.
	No, you both waited.
	And that's a separate problem.
	So there's so many barriers to entry now for young men where they're going, hold on a second, first off, body count.
	And then let's assume, let's assume that we all find common ground and you each find a person who is actually loyal, a person who actually does value their body and values their partner.
	There still is a contract right now that doesn't make sense and men are saying, even if all that happens, I would rather, and here's another report, one third of men between ages 18 to 24 No sexual activity at all in the previous year.
	A lot of them aren't even interested in it at all.
	That's why you have Western men becoming what they call passport bros.
	And this is according to Urban Dictionary where they say, men who have chosen to seek out foreign women, typically from other countries, for relationships.
	Why?
	Because there's a different standard.
	There's a different view of marriage.
	There's an actual view, a contractual view of marriage.
	They believe, according to this source, that Western women have been influenced by cultural
	and societal pressures to behave in a certain way, and that by seeking out foreign women
	that can find authentic, fulfilling, and more harmonious relationships, they'll often go
	to Southeast Asia or South America.
	And just because this conversation can always get intense, here's, well, try and guess why
	it's a pleasant clip.
	We were both vibing in Spanglish until she spoke too fast.
	Women here are very feminine.
	Small empanadas.
	And right now there are Western women watching this, turning to the husband, is that what you want?
	Is that?
	Yes.
	I need to wait for two years.
	Two years, wow.
	I'm from Portugal.
	I'm from Romania.
	Yes, yes.
	Me too.
	I need to wait for two years.
	Two years?
	Wow.
	Did you already apply?
	Uh-huh.
	You need a 90-day fiancé.
	Someone to marry you.
	Ah, yes.
	We noticed directly behind us was a church.
	I'm not going to lie.
	I don't know what you guys would have done in this situation, but I'll tell you what I did.
	Well, I can guess.
	Now, here's the thing.
	Women are like, is that what you want?
	Do you think?
	Yes.
	Oh, you mean someone who is pretty, who seems happy to be there, who's nice, who's happy to be in a relationship, and if he is the primary earner, she's glad to support him?
	Yep.
	Look, here's the thing.
	Men have not changed what they want in women.
	Women have changed what they expect from men.
	Now, this is not good for women.
	What women used to want was someone who could protect and provide for them.
	I mean, let me give you an example here.
	Uh, Winston Churchill.
	And, uh, you can, uh, Gary from Russia, we're gonna have him in later, we have an intervention with him because he keeps picking the wrong women.
	Yeah, we're gonna try to help.
	So, a lot of women, right, they want men who can provide and protect.
	Okay, that's important.
	Now, also, you need to be tender, right, to your wife, you need to love your wife, of course, all those things.
	Winston Churchill.
	It's a good example.
	A lot of people want their wartime leaders, and then when it's not wartime, they want to put them back on the shelf.
	They say, OK, we want to do it.
	So Winston Churchill, right, we had Chamberlain, the Nazis, they were moving forward there on the Western Front, and they said, hey, we need someone, we need a hard-ass, we need Winston Churchill, right?
	Brought him in, almost single-handedly kind of put a pause on the Nazi rise, which allowed America to get in and save the rest of the world.
	You're welcome.
	Sorry we were a little late.
	But did you guys know Churchill was ousted two years later?
	You know that?
	Not surprised.
	Two years later.
	Why?
	Because he didn't support socialized healthcare.
	So they said, we need someone to come in and protect us.
	And then afterwards, he was like, socialize?
	You'll become a bunch of lazy socialist pussies!
	And they were like, okay, now we don't want you anymore because we don't need you.
	It's not wartime.
	It's peace.
	So now we want all the free stuff.
	And he said, but there could be wartime.
	It could come again.
	Doesn't matter.
	They got rid of them.
	You see that a lot in relationships, where they want someone who's going to go out and protect and provide, okay, but also is sensitive, also does all of these new things that men weren't required to do.
	Now I get, I'm not saying that men should just come home, put their feet up, and not contribute at all, but men still want the same thing.
	I'm telling you this, women, if you're looking to find a man, if you were saying, hey, how do I make myself desirable to a man?
	They want a woman who's, yeah, pretty, yeah, but they want a woman who's nice, They want a woman who they feel like they come home and it's a safe haven.
	And someone who they can trust.
	Someone who has their back.
	We mock it now.
	I'm not just going to be some Tammy Wynette, stand by your men.
	Well then don't expect to find a man.
	Men still want the same things.
	Women want a man who can provide, protect, also be sensitive, also listen to the problems about caring.
	I'd call this the 99 and 99 rule, okay?
	And I will have this, and I've discussed this before, but maybe this might be new to you guys.
	I'll ask people who are married, a couple.
	I'll say, okay, you're married, this is your husband.
	I say, okay.
	Something goes bump in the night, is he expected to go down and take care of it?
	And the woman invariably says yes.
	And if you're at home right now, answer these questions.
	Does he go down?
	Or do you go down and say, hey, hey, hubby, lock the door?
	No, he is.
	Okay.
	Does he work?
	Does he provide for you?
	I'm not asking if he's rich.
	Does he work?
	Does he provide for you?
	Okay.
	I've now crossed a threshold, but I'm gonna ask you one more question.
	Does he ever do anything nice for you, like flowers or anything sensitive?
	Okay.
	Congratulations, you are now with a man who is doing more than 99% of men.
	Ever.
	Since the beginning of time.
	Especially if he listens to you discuss problems that have no effect on him.
	No one in the nomadic days, or if you go back to any ancient civilization was that expected of men.
	Then you ask women, okay, so flip side.
	Do you cook every day?
	No, you're doing less than 99% of women since the beginning of time.
	Now you may not want to cook, but guess what?
	He still wants that.
	He still wants a woman to be there to support him.
	And I understand you can both share responsibilities and you both work, but the expectations of men have changed so much and the desires Of men that they have and women have not changed. That's
	why you see things like the right we talked about passport bros sex dolls
	This is an ex google chief said that ai sex dolls will quote redesign
	Love and relationships the global market in 2020 was 411 million dollars and it's expected to grow by 56
	And by the way at there was a survey 50 of sex doll users consider their doll as quote the ideal
	partner For me and I feel emotionally attached to it like this guy
	This would be her anniversary present for our tenure.
	I got these matching wedding bands.
	They say synthetic love lasts forever on them.
	Which one's the robot?
	Now here's the thing.
	I'm not gonna lie to you, I decided to test it out for research purposes, and in my case, I think I deserve my money back.
	Wait, Tesla?
	It's the Lemon Law, but you know what?
	It's the last time I take a tip on an electronics purchase from Gerald.
	Me?
	Yeah.
	You know, Bianca's a missionary.
	Well, was a missionary, right, sorry.
	Because she was raised by nuns.
	You got me scared there, man.
	I was really scared for you, bro.
	Yeah, I know.
	I said, wait, what?
	Test what?
	By the way, the scariest part is that some of those sex dolls, they're only IPX3.
	They're just slightly water-resistant.
	Yeah.
	You don't want to read the reviews either.
	This is all really interesting because we talked about some of the root causes of what's going on here, and now we're dealing with some of the adaptations that men are kind of- The consequences.
	Yeah, of what they're doing, whether it's Passport Bros, sex dolls.
	Or just being lonely.
	More men are lonely than ever before.
	That too.
	Video games.
	We also had a podcast where we talked about the rise of virtual reality now.
	Where a lot of guys are using that.
	And I would say if you're a betting guy or you want to invest in something, I think investing in sex dolls and all this stuff in the future is definitely going to be a good thing because the problem is this.
	Well, maybe not a good thing, but you're saying you'll make money in it.
	Financially wise.
	Yeah, I'm saying investing to make, because I predict that it's going to continue to grow as a market.
	That's not license with sex dolls to go and make deposits.
	But I will say that what's basically happened, and we showed this clip earlier, is that Women have changed, but they still expect men to be traditional when the women don't necessarily provide traditional value back.
	They want a guy that's going to be a protector, a provider, do all these things that men historically have done while simultaneously not bringing back what men required of women.
	They're whores.
	They don't necessarily want to cook.
	They don't want to clean.
	They don't want to obey you.
	They don't want to be submissive.
	They want to be able to behave however they want while simultaneously getting a guy.
	And that's the equivalent to me being a fat nacho cheese eating loser playing video games all the time saying, I deserve a bad bitch.
	It's ridiculous.
	But it's interesting.
	Just to be clear, because you're a black guy, bad bitch is a good thing.
	Yes.
	Yes.
	Sorry.
	Yes.
	That is so cringe.
	I might as well go on a date and she's like, I'm a bad bitch.
	She's like, you just said that out loud.
	Don't call me bossy.
	One thing.
	And I want you guys to really, like, this is the thing that's crazy to me, right?
	So we've interviewed, like, almost 3,000 chicks on our show, and we always ask them, what do you want in a man?
	And they always provide the same things that we talked about, you know, protective of gender.
	Well, and then some.
	All the other things, too.
	It's like, and sensitive, and flowers, and it's like, okay, now you want Superman.
	Then this is what I ask them.
	What do you think that man wants back in return?
	And then you know what they say?
	It's incredible to me.
	They say, oh, they want a boss.
	They want someone who can make money just like them.
	Yeah, I know.
	And I'm like, holy crap.
	They literally list off all the things that they want in a man.
	And I was like, wow.
	And it's amazing.
	Billionaires marry waitresses.
	Dude.
	They don't care.
	Yeah.
	And then that's when it hit me.
	Women don't give a fuck what we want.
	They only care about what they want.
	A lot of women.
	Yes, right now the modern woman who's been in a majority.
	Again, by the way, to women out there are plenty of women out there who are not, but
	this is not for you.
	And here's the thing.
	Just like, just like if people, it was never as, as just to be clear, it was never as ubiquitous
	as people said, like domestic abuse for men, by the way, the term whipping post, a lot
	of people don't know this, that came from society.
	It was exclusively for men who beat their wives.
	You were tied to a whipping post and you were embarrassed in the town square because domestic abuse has always been considered horrible, just to be clear.
	So what I'm saying is men needed to clear ranks, they needed to clean ranks at some point.
	And women, I get that this is not all, but there aren't enough of you speaking out.
	Because by the way, men are more lonely than ever, but women are miserable too.
	Studies show that women are unhappier than ever.
	20% of women under the age of 40 are an antidepressant.
	Yes.
	And this increases, by the way, the closer they get to menopause.
	And I don't necessarily know that we have the numbers after menopause, but again, when you ask 60-year-old women, if you ask 60, 70-year-old men, 80-year-old men, like, hey, what do you wish that you had done more?
	This is where men and women find common ground.
	Time with family.
	Time with family.
	You know what's crazy?
	You brought up medication, right?
	So there's a test that guys do nowadays.
	Well, actually, the players.
	Go to a girls crib, look in the medicine cabinet and they see any medication in there.
	And that's a huge red flag because they're in therapy and they need that.
	That's a red flag because guess what?
	In your relationship moving forward, that might be a problem.
	So it's just tough.
	And it's interesting as they become more and more liberated.
	They've had more anxiety, more depression, more sadness, more miserableness.
	It's crazy because I've always said feminism was a lie to women.
	It told them, go get a career, make this money, become successful, etc.
	But what they don't realize is women's sexual market value is absolutely perishable.
	You only have a finite amount of time to get the guy that you want.
	And the older you get, the more money you make, the more you dwindle that pool of men, and you're becoming less attractive to those very men that you want.
	No, I think you're absolutely right.
	We had that clip earlier about that girl saying, I want all these conservative values.
	Liberal, right?
	That was that whole thing.
	Do you see what you're saying there?
	You want all of these things that maybe in your late teens, early twenties, didn't really care about those things.
	You're like, ew, that's gross.
	I'm going to be an independent woman.
	I'm going to go get these things.
	And then you're like, wait a minute.
	I kind of do want those things, but here's the thing.
	I don't want to change anything about what I'm doing.
	I want to just be crazy liberal, but I want all these conservative values.
	That is the misalignment.
	Like, you cannot have both, because these things live within kind of the conservative ideal.
	Outside of it, you get all the beta males you want, but apparently that's not satisfying you right now.
	And women are miserable because Like, I have never seen more positive change in people's lives, in couples that I've known, than when they had children.
	Both in men and women.
	But it gives this fulfillment, this value of, like, purpose in life.
	And it's not the only one.
	My wife is an amazing, phenomenally gifted person who's going to go back to work at some point so that our kids can see mom is a badass as well, right?
	But she has chosen to do what she's doing at home because it is that important and that fulfilling.
	And people that skate on that, and people that get too old for that because they've chased down every lie that's out there, end up missing out.
	And not only on that, and this is gonna sound old, but once you start having kids, and you enjoy that process, and then you see the joy that it brings your parents, you experience this, right?
	The joy that it brings them...
	I don't know that I'll get that.
	My dad finally started talking to me again.
	I know, yeah, it's crazy, right?
	You had kids and all of a sudden you're important again.
	My mom facepalms me.
	She's like, yeah, where's my grandchildren?
	So there's these benefits, there are these things that are built in that you miss.
	These really big important things societally that make life more full and rich and you guys are missing this because you're chasing after, I'm sorry, we talked about this yesterday in the five minute joke, you're chasing after fleeting Joy.
	Has any of this made your life better, men or women?
	This is the thing, and often men are told they can't speak about it because you're not a woman, right?
	No vagina, no opinion, but now the trans thing, like no uterus, no opinion, I don't know, just whatever.
	If you have a moo-moo, I guess you qualify.
	But this is the issue.
	Has it made your life any better?
	That's the important thing that we need to ask ourselves right now.
	Has this made relationships better?
	Has it made your life better?
	And I will say this, you know, one time I was talking with someone who was Conservative, a woman who was kind of a feminist and didn't realize it, and I tell this story all the time, because feminists say you can have it all, right?
	They say you can work and you can be a stay-at-home mom.
	And then you have conservative women, and they're mostly right, but she was really upset.
	She said, you know, that's the lie of feminism.
	She said, you know, you can have it all.
	You don't.
	She said, you have to make a choice.
	She said, you know, you can't be a professional woman out there working, and you do have to make a choice.
	And I said, huh, that must be wonderful to have a choice.
	She said, what?
	I said, so you're saying that when you were young, your parents said, hey, if you want to be a professional working woman, you can do that.
	She said, yeah.
	I said, or, you know, you can also be a mom and be a great wife.
	Yeah.
	I said, do you realize that no young man has ever had that discussion?
	Any young man here, show of hands, any man, when he realized that he thought women were pretty and he wanted to have his own real live naked lady at home one day, anyone, anyone ever have your mom or your dad say, well, the good news is you have a choice.
	You can be a working man and provide, or you can be a stay at home dad.
	Nope.
	Never.
	Must be nice to have a choice.
	And by the way, even if you tried to make it societally acceptable for men to have a choice, they wouldn't take it.
	Because men have to keep themselves accountable, and men don't respect other men, and they know that women ultimately, no matter what you say or do, they won't respect men who don't try and... And you don't have to... By the way, to be clear, I'm not saying you have to be CEO of a Fortune 500 company.
	You could be a garbage man.
	It used to be valuable that, hey, a man is going out and a man is providing for this person.
	But it not only was valuable, it was a prerequisite.
	So feminism is a lie that you can have it all, The truth is that there does need to be a choice made, and the truth is only one of the two sexes, and there are only two, has that choice.
	And that choice, by the way...
	It has a finite amount of time.
	There is a shelf life.
	And we'll talk more about that as we continue.
	You know what I think is great here is we can agree on the root causes, and then disagree on some of the approaches or solutions.
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