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Feb. 11, 2023 - Fresh & Fit

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Boyfriend Dated Her For 4 Months w/ NO Sex?!

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	What's up, guys?
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	You did.
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	Well, you were there for like three and a half.
	I could have taken it, bro.
	Yo!
	This nigga told me, bro, we're doing a live stream at 12 minutes.
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	Nigga went for five hours, bro.
	Like four and a half.
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	On Rumble.
	On Rumble, because we can't talk about that on YouTube, but you guys know what I'm referring to with that sound effect.
	Anyway.
	Oh my goodness.
	Yo, oh my God.
	Hey, man.
	It's fact, though.
	It's been verified already.
	Listen, man.
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	We're all going to do it.
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	Because as you guys know, about a month ago, thousands of documents were declassified.
	And at this point, it's pretty much been established that there were some other nefarious acts involved with JFK. But we'll do a whole episode with that.
	Shout out to Ryan Dawson.
	We'll have him on.
	But that's going to be rumble only.
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	We probably want to put that stuff on YouTube, bro.
	This guy, man.
	Hey, man, I've always been interested in that stuff.
	You gotta diversify, man.
	Very true.
	Speaking of, hit videos, Chris.
	So guys, definitely I've been showing my lifestyle a little bit more on the vlogs, as well as blind dates, double dates, all that in between.
	And I set up one of our subscribers on a blind date with a chick.
	It was pretty hilarious.
	He had no wrist, though.
	But, that being said...
	Is it safe to say he didn't close?
	He didn't close nothing.
	He closed his mouth.
	That's it.
	But, Twitch get on the way.
	Let's go, guys.
	Twitch support channel.
	Love you guys, man.
	Ouch.
	Okay.
	And, guys, check me out.
	Fed1811, as you guys know.
	Man, we give y'all everything.
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	What's up, Sean, bro?
	We got y'all with everything.
	Yeah, guys, check me out.
	As you guys know, I used to be a former Fed with Homeland, so I do criminal case breakdowns on everything.
	Scroll down a little bit.
	I just dropped a video yesterday, guys, on Courtney Clenney, a.k.a.
	if y'all know, that's the OnlyFans chick that killed her boyfriend.
	Damn.
	We went into detail here, breaking down this interaction with the police.
	I talk about her manipulation tactics, etc.
	Time stamps are in there, very detailed.
	I go through the entire investigation, you know, How she stabbed her boyfriend, what she said that she did, the likelihood of her being convicted for murder too.
	And yeah, man, we go through everything there.
	So if you guys like true crime type stuff, check me out over here.
	I cover contemporary cases like Courtney Clenney, but I also cover serial killers as well.
	Can you scroll back to the playlist there, Chris?
	Yeah, sure.
	Because a lot of you guys like serial killers, you sick bastards.
	So I'll show you guys...
	Oh, Chris, bro.
	Oh, Chris.
	Oh, Chris.
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	Oh, man.
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	Hit home.
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	You got Jeffrey Dahmer, John Wayne Gacy, Ted Bundy, Zodiac Killer, The Night Stalker, Samuel Little.
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	A lot of information.
	All of them have timestamps.
	Very detailed.
	Nice!
	And Chris?
	Chris, your part.
	Take us away.
	Yes, ladies.
	Shout out to the girls on the panel for sending DMs.
	Recently, I've been receiving lots of more DMs for girls who wanted to come on.
	Surprisingly, I don't know why, but surprisingly, your girls don't hate Martin.
	So, shout out to you girls.
	Let's make it happen.
	Roll to five mil, guys.
	Let's get it.
	I think time...
	He heals all wounds, right?
	So I think eventually they'll come to love you.
	You think so?
	No.
	I'm just kidding.
	Yeah, especially when that book drops.
	They're definitely not going to love you.
	Not anymore!
	Yeah.
	Ladies on the panel, give us your name, your age, what you do for a living, dating status, and if you want to, of course.
	Your body count.
	And we'll start right here.
	My name is Daniela.
	I'm 23.
	I'm from Broward.
	Oh, shit.
	That's a red flag, bro.
	Okay.
	I work in, like, real estate development.
	Okay.
	And I'm taking...
	How long have you been taking for?
	A few months.
	Three, four, five?
	You don't even know!
	That's messed up!
	Three, four...
	Congrats!
	Hope it lasts.
	Shout out to you.
	And then, where are you from?
	She said Broward, right?
	Yeah.
	Yeah, Daniela, 23, Broward.
	Real estate development.
	And then, what's your highest education completed?
	I have a bachelor's in psychology, and I'm finishing up my last semester of grad school.
	Okay.
	What do you, what was your, you said in psychology, what are you pursuing for your master's?
	Construction management.
	Okay.
	That's cool.
	Thank you.
	Are you going to actually use that degree and get into construction management?
	I am.
	My dad owns a construction company.
	Ah, okay.
	So you're going to be the heir.
	Basically.
	Fair enough.
	Okay, because most women never get into that type of profession.
	It took a long time, but it's interesting.
	Okay.
	That's smart.
	Cool.
	Is that Red?
	Welcome back.
	Oh my goodness.
	Hi.
	Thank you.
	My name is Red.
	I am 21 years old.
	I am from Miami and I am single.
	I was going to say, what do you do for work?
	I'm part of the team!
	I did high school.
	You said single, right?
	Yes, single.
	Hi, my name is Dani.
	I'm 21 years old, also single, and I'm in my last semester of undergrad and I'm studying to be an early childhood teacher.
	Where are you from?
	New York.
	The city?
	The city, yeah.
	What part?
	Staten Island.
	I'll give it to you.
	Hey, we count.
	I guess so, yeah.
	You guys like the forgotten fifth borough, but okay.
	And then you said your highest education level to complete is high school, but you're currently in college.
	Yeah, last semester.
	Okay, and you're pursuing what degree again?
	Education.
	Early childhood, yeah.
	Okay, just like Chris.
	Can you get sturdy?
	What?
	Can you get sturdy?
	Like the dance?
	Yeah, yeah.
	No.
	Damn it, never mind.
	I should've known better.
	That's actually a good sign.
	She don't know what that means.
	That's good.
	But she's white though, so I mean...
	Are you Caucasian?
	Yep.
	What's your status?
	Single or what?
	Single.
	Single or single AF? What's the difference?
	One is single as fuck!
	One is just single.
	Single.
	She don't want a man that bad.
	Good to know.
	What about you?
	Hi, everyone.
	My name is Sasha.
	I'm from Jamaica.
	Hey, y'all!
	What, Monty?
	Boom, boka!
	Um, what the question was?
	How old are you?
	I'm 23 years old.
	Are you originally from, like, Jamaica?
	Yeah, I was born in Jamaica.
	I came when I was seven, but I go back and forth.
	Are you from Miami?
	So the countryside.
	So St.
	Elizabeth.
	Okay.
	Where'd you go to high school?
	At Coral Springs Heights in Broward County.
	Okay.
	I would consider you from Broward, but Jamaican.
	No, no, no, no.
	Wherever you went to high school, bruh, that's pretty much where you're from.
	But you go back and forth.
	Alright, and then what's your highest education level completed?
	I have my master's.
	Okay.
	And?
	It's really long, oh my god.
	It's like info, systems, and operations management.
	I'm currently a consultant slash analyst.
	And I'm dating, so that's my status.
	And then you're a consultant right now?
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	Oh, you're smart, smart.
	Sometimes.
	And you're single, right?
	I'm dating.
	Would it be fair to say that dating is the byproduct of being single because you're figuring out which guy you want to deal with?
	Well, it's more like I'm not married, so until someone seriously commits to me, then...
	Oh, I guess.
	Okay, I agree with you.
	Sorry.
	I told you not that smart.
	I don't even know.
	Nine to five.
	Are you a full-time student, by the way?
	What's your profession?
	Full-time student.
	What about you?
	Okay, so I'm Anastasia, I'm 18 years old, and currently I'm in nursing school.
	Wait, nurse?
	Yeah.
	Where are you originally from, Miami?
	Yes, originally from Miami, but my ethnicity is Cuban.
	Yeah.
	Okay, and then you said high school is your highest education level completed, and then you're in school right now to be a nurse.
	Yeah, I'm in college.
	Okay.
	Alright, and then status?
	Single.
	Single or single AF? Just single.
	Understood.
	There's hope.
	Alright.
	What about you?
	Icy!
	Hey, she's on Icy TV. Oh my god.
	Anyways.
	As the chat knows, I work behind the scenes.
	I also get girls for Fresh and Fit Podcasts.
	And also, you know, I'm branching out to other people too, whoever needs me to whole wrangle.
	Anyways, 27, single mother, and I'm not dating.
	That's your status?
	Single mom?
	Yeah, like I'm not...
	Like I was just telling Myron earlier, like people are like talking to me and I just feel weird.
	I'm just like, don't talk.
	I don't want to talk to nobody right now.
	So that's where I'm at.
	I have one eye.
	I like one person, but they just be hard, but that's fine.
	Oh, I know who it is.
	Shut up.
	Forever alone.
	Forever alone, yo.
	I don't even know who it is, so I guess y'all doing a good job.
	Yeah, Fresh, keep your...
	I won't say anything.
	You love exposing, bro.
	Do I know this individual?
	Yes, you do.
	Oh, okay.
	All right.
	Fine, it's none of my business.
	Anyway, all right, what about you?
	So my name is Nel.
	I'm 21.
	What is it?
	Nel.
	Nel, like a nail?
	No, just N-E-L. Oh, Nel.
	Nel.
	Okay.
	I'm 21 from Canada.
	21.
	21.
	What part of Canada are you from?
	Montreal?
	Quebec City.
	Okay.
	Yeah, two hours from Montreal.
	I can see, I can hear the French accent.
	All right.
	Oui, oui.
	Okay.
	Are you in college right now or are you good for work?
	I finished my college, but in Canada it's not the same as in the US. So you have a bachelor's degree right now?
	Yeah, in human sciences.
	So I'm studying to become a teacher.
	Education, university.
	Are you still in school pursuing a master's or do you work now?
	Well, I finished college and I'm going to university in September.
	Okay, so you're going to get an advanced degree because you have your bachelor's already.
	What is that going to be in?
	Education.
	Do you work right now or just full-time student?
	Waitress.
	What's your status?
	Taken.
	How long have y'all been together?
	Four years.
	Nice!
	Good job!
	Four years!
	Is he a teacher?
	No, he's a digital marketing agency.
	Okay, nice.
	He knows 98.
	What's that?
	Islam, 98.
	Yeah, he works with him.
	98.
	Okay.
	No, no, no.
	I know who Islam is, but I'm saying like, okay, so he's one of Islam's friends.
	Yeah.
	Works with Islam.
	Okay.
	Sheldon, 98, man.
	Cool.
	Shout out to our guy, Islam.
	98.
	That's Sneeko's manager.
	Yeah.
	All right.
	Cool.
	Anything else?
	That's it.
	All right.
	Cool.
	So, guys, as y'all know, it's Friday, which means we're going to go ahead and ask the ladies questions that you guys want.
	So, let's go here.
	What's the sluttiest thing you saw a friend slash roommate do?
	It's actually a pretty good question.
	Okay.
	Okay, so we'll start right here with Miss Quebec here.
	Miss Fourier.
	What is the sluttiest thing you've ever seen a friend, roommate, aunt or female do?
	Or yourself.
	Or yourself.
	Oh my god.
	I don't have anything that comes to my mind right now.
	I don't know.
	I'm just not a party girl.
	No, no.
	It could be something as little as like maybe you saw her kiss another guy at a bar all the way to she kicked that guy out and then her boyfriend came five minutes later after he left.
	It could be anywhere in that range.
	Or maybe her even texting another guy.
	She lied about something.
	We were at a party and one of my friends, she just left her boyfriend and she was kissing another guy like five minutes away.
	No way!
	In the hallway?
	No, no, next to her ex.
	Next to her ex.
	I was just like, really?
	And this was at a party?
	Yeah.
	Was she dropped?
	Yeah, everybody was wrong.
	See?
	Drinking age is 18 in that part of the world anyway.
	Too young.
	Alright, cool.
	I see, I know you got some stories.
	Down to memory lane.
	I mean, all I did was work with hoes, but anyways.
	I had a ho living with me in my house.
	Tell the people real quick what you used to do, because they might not know.
	I used to be a dancer.
	So yeah, booby trap days.
	Anyways, I had this girl living with me.
	We were paying half of the rent together, whatever, nice little two bedroom, two bed, whatever house.
	There was this guy that I was sleeping with.
	You know, we were seeing each other for like at least a good three to four months.
	Then the fourth month came around and it was kind of like she was DMing him on the side.
	Like every time I'll go to work, she'll stay home type of thing.
	So it was like one night I didn't even...
	I said, fuck that shit.
	I'm not going to work.
	I want to see if this ho is going to try me because I went through her phone on some like crazy shit.
	But anyways...
	So you saw her texting your guy?
	Yeah, I saw that they were DMing each other.
	So I stayed home and she kept on asking me like, oh, are you going to go to work?
	Are you going to go to work?
	And I'm just like, no, I'm staying home.
	What's the problem?
	And then next thing you know, I cussed her out and dragged her out of my house and kicked her out.
	So yeah.
	So no stabbing?
	No.
	I fought her.
	How did you confront her?
	How did you set the trap card?
	Because I had another homegirl there, so then I kind of just instigated it where it was just like, didn't you say that Wes's face is going to come over and see me?
	And then it was just her face reaction.
	I'm like, oh wait, no, he was supposed to come see you.
	Isn't that right?
	And then she's just like...
	You know, like, it was bad.
	You caught her whole face-handed.
	Yeah, I dragged her stupid ass out.
	So were they actually sleeping with each other or you just, like, stopped it before it happened?
	They were, like, sexting.
	So I don't know whether they fucked each other or not.
	That's the worst.
	Did you confront him about it, too?
	No, I could give two fucks about it.
	The hoe was living in my house!
	Okay, so you just beat her up and kicked her out.
	Man, like, no.
	Why would you touch something that I'm fucking?
	Like, that's weird.
	That's nasty.
	That's weird as fuck.
	Like, we live right...
	If you want to fuck me, just say that.
	I'm across the fucking room, bitch.
	Like...
	So you literally just like hit her with the...
	And dragged her out.
	Okay, fantastic.
	What about you?
	Okay, so basically, I was like 15, right?
	It was great.
	It was some high school days.
	She was high school slutty.
	No, it wasn't me.
	It was my friend.
	I said the shorty.
	Yeah, shorty.
	You know, I was sleeping over at her house, you know, normal.
	Because she was my friend.
	And all of a sudden, like, I'm trying to go to sleep.
	I hear this bitch moaning.
	And I'm like...
	I think she was doing some weird shit while I was next to her.
	And I just...
	What am I gonna do?
	Like, I'm 15.
	I can't go home.
	Like, I just fucking go to sleep with it.
	I feel like she was fingering herself.
	To you or like...
	No, just in general.
	Like, she was just like, there.
	Like, I don't understand.
	Like, why are you gonna do that while I'm there?
	Like...
	That's a little weird.
	That is strange.
	Alright, but is that slutty though?
	I mean, just being that young over there, that's kind of strange.
	Yeah, promiscuous at 15.
	Yeah, we might have to kill the Twitch stream.
	God damn it.
	Alright, thanks.
	Okay.
	Thanks.
	Haile over here fucking up the show.
	Alright.
	Okay, yeah.
	Twitch gone.
	Guys, come on over to YouTube.
	I can already see we're going to have to probably go there soon.
	And rumble as well.
	Alright, what about you?
	Miss Jamaica.
	I have a quick question.
	Your name is Icy, right?
	So how did you go through her phone?
	Like, was it open or unlocked?
	Okay, so I'll put it like this.
	You have your ways.
	No, it's not about having my ways.
	I made my other homegirl do some funny shit.
	And I was like, oh, I'll record it.
	So I recorded them while they were doing the funny shit.
	I half recorded it.
	And then I just quickly went through the DMs and her text messages.
	And he was like right there.
	Wow.
	And I saw everything I needed to see.
	And I was like, oh, I want to meet you here.
	But we're at the laundromat.
	So, you know, I'm not going to do that.
	I'm away from my house.
	That's clever.
	But your slutty story or your friend.
	I don't have one.
	I don't have one.
	I would say only one I can remember is my friend from like, my roommate from college.
	She slept with the brother of the guy who took her virginity.
	That's the creep.
	That's just, I don't know.
	The brother with the guy.
	So they're literally Eskimo brothers now, for real.
	Blood and Eskimo.
	Wow.
	Okay.
	That's about it.
	That's it.
	Come on, bro.
	You got a mass degree.
	I know you've seen some 304 activities in college.
	I can't remember.
	I went to FSU. There's a bunch of partying every day.
	It's just too much.
	Yeah, then you must have seen some crazy shit.
	Many stuff happens there.
	Girls banging a dude in the bathroom when they got a boyfriend.
	Girls do really crazy shit in college.
	The most I saw were people in the bathroom doing coke, sucking dick, things like that.
	Oh, wait.
	I can't curse.
	No, you can't.
	Sorry.
	Yeah, that's just about it.
	Yeah, that would constitute his whole behavior.
	Yeah.
	That's a lot.
	I'd be here all night.
	You can't think of one good story?
	One good story, that's it.
	That was the best story I had.
	I can see why you're dating.
	You're not a good storyteller.
	The guy better come to date prepared with everything.
	Alright, what about you?
	I don't have a slutty story from one of my friends.
	See, she's worse than me.
	Alright, someone you know.
	I mean, now that I've witnessed, maybe heard of.
	Yeah.
	Okay, that works too.
	I mean, a friend in college that slept with someone the day after she broke up with her boyfriend.
	I would consider that slutty.
	No way.
	The day after?
	Yeah, way.
	If I was her, I wouldn't take that.
	I wouldn't take that either.
	Or him, you know what I'm saying?
	That's wow.
	Fair enough.
	What about you?
	I know you got one, come on.
	Yeah.
	You know a lot of hoes.
	I had this one friend who slept with her mother's boyfriend, so her stepdad at the time.
	And she was around maybe 13 years old.
	He was...
	Okay, yeah.
	Something legal, Red?
	What the fuck, man?
	Sorry, guys.
	The end.
	Alright, what about you?
	So we were at a bar one time, and this girl kissed somebody's boyfriend.
	Then she went across the bar, kissed somebody else, kissing like three guys.
	I was like, damn.
	Yeah.
	Did you know her?
	Yeah.
	How do you know her?
	From work?
	School?
	No.
	Living.
	Living?
	Together.
	Oh, roommate.
	Okay.
	Does she get around or was that just her at the bar drunk that time?
	Okay.
	So she brings guys home, doesn't she?
	Uh, yeah.
	What's her name?
	No.
	What?
	Don't start the drama like that.
	And you be hearing it?
	No.
	You don't hear it?
	No.
	Okay.
	All right.
	You know, I've noticed that, like, when girls have roommates or whatever, they try their best to, like, not smash in the house.
	They want to go to your place, typically.
	Yeah, they're courteous.
	Or they play loud music.
	Or a loud movie.
	Ah.
	Okay.
	That's how they mask the sound.
	That's why you don't hear it.
	Yeah.
	Oh, so you'll hear a loud music.
	Yeah.
	So you know what time it is.
	Alright, so you know what time it is then.
	Clever.
	Is she one of those girls that goes after guys that have girlfriends?
	Damn, yes.
	Yeah?
	Yeah.
	Do you think that in general women like guys that have girlfriends?
	No.
	You don't think so?
	I mean, a woman with value?
	Probably not.
	You don't think women like guys that already have girls?
	Harder to get.
	I guess.
	Fantastic.
	Alright.
	What's the next one?
	Okay.
	We got Venom here.
	Question for ladies.
	Do you care if the guy you're dealing with don't eat your kitty cat?
	That's a good one, actually.
	Okay.
	We could start here with misconstruction.
	Ladies, can you not eat your box?
	Do you care if a guy eats box?
	Yes or no?
	Do I care if he eats?
	If he doesn't?
	The kitty.
	If he does or he doesn't, do I care?
	Yeah.
	You care if he does?
	Like, if he doesn't?
	If he doesn't eat box, you're not fucking with it.
	The question is...
	I'm gonna ask why.
	So you want him to eat the box?
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	But what if he says, no, I don't do it?
	It's just disgusting.
	And you like him?
	I mean, if I like him a lot...
	A lot.
	Yeah, I mean, I could see past it.
	For how long, though?
	So, whenever he wants.
	Mean your current IE box We haven't gone in there Stop the cap!
	Wait, what?
	Okay, so he hasn't done it yet, she's saying.
	No.
	Wait, he never smashed?
	No.
	Boom, mocha!
	Wait, so he still hasn't smashed this in four months?
	Holy!
	There you go.
	Now, I kind of believe her, bro.
	There's simps out there that'll do that shit.
	He's not a simp.
	Yes, he is.
	What?
	No.
	That is by definition a simp.
	I don't think so.
	He gives you attention, right?
	Yeah.
	Time?
	Yeah.
	Takes you on dates?
	Yeah.
	Resources?
	That's obviously resources.
	Does he pay for the dates?
	Yeah.
	So, he's giving you all this, and what does he get in exchange?
	Um, I cook.
	I give him massages.
	He could pay for that shit.
	Yeah, he could, yeah.
	Bruh.
	I guess.
	If I go from Broward, don't smash?
	Bruh, something's up, bro.
	What if she has, like, values?
	No values.
	Are you a virgin?
	No.
	Okay.
	So why are you waiting?
	Why are you making them wait four months, bruh?
	It's a Walmart.
	It's a great value.
	That's a third of a year.
	That's 33% of the year.
	That's not cool, man.
	That ain't cool.
	What if it's mutual?
	What do you mean?
	That he doesn't want sex neither?
	Stop the cat, man.
	Niggas think about sex 24-7.
	That's impossible.
	If you tell him, you know, babe, tonight's the night.
	He's going to be like, yes!
	Finally!
	What the hell?
	Is it just because you want to get married and wait for it?
	Yeah.
	Really?
	Yeah.
	Let me ask you this, Dan.
	You ever had a 1-8 cent?
	What?
	You ever had a 1-8 cent?
	No.
	Never?
	Stop the cow!
	Never!
	Are you a virgin?
	No.
	What do you want from me?
	Hey, man.
	That's an L boy right there, bro.
	Four months?
	Four months is wild, yo.
	Okay, how about this?
	Let me ask you this.
	If you found out that he was having sex with other girls, would you be mad?
	Yes.
	You'll be mad?
	Yeah!
	Wow!
	Wow!
	You're selfish!
	Holy shit!
	You're selfish!
	That's crazy!
	I guess you're selfish!
	Oh, man!
	Damn!
	I ain't gonna lie, that's mean, though.
	How you gonna get mad?
	Wait, hold on.
	He got black balls, not blue balls.
	Right!
	Can you at least give him head?
	No.
	She don't give nothing.
	He's definitely fucking on someone else.
	He's going outside, bro.
	I don't know.
	I mean, is he an attractive guy, Paws?
	Yes, he is.
	Very?
	Very.
	Does he have money?
	Yes.
	Oh, he's fucking other bitches.
	Yeah, he's got to be.
	Yeah, because there's no way that I'll be waiting four months.
	Like, he's got to be doing something else.
	Wait, he lives in a brother?
	No.
	Where do you live?
	Miami?
	No.
	Florida, though.
	Long distance.
	Two hours away?
	He got pussy outside.
	Man, he don't care about you.
	Well, all jokes aside, if you found out that he was having sex with another girl, you'd break up with him?
	You'd be mad?
	Yeah, I'd be mad.
	But why, though, if you haven't been giving him none but just your time?
	Like, let's be honest here.
	What would you be mad at?
	Because you gave wasted time?
	Let's be honest.
	I don't know.
	How can you be mad if you don't even know?
	I'm genuinely asking an honest question.
	Why would you be mad if he's getting his nut off somewhere else if you're not even giving him a nut?
	But just time.
	Then you have no reason to be mad, to be honest.
	Because if you're not going to do it, another will.
	You understand that?
	And that goes in everything in life.
	Especially if he has money and he's attractive, bro.
	You can't just be like, it's mine!
	And not even use it.
	And the scary part is, even after you smash him, you still go fuck other chicks.
	Give that shit up.
	Okay.
	Alright, cool.
	So he's not licking no box because you don't want to give the box.
	Alright, cool.
	What about you?
	No, I don't care.
	You don't care?
	Smart.
	What about you?
	No.
	I don't care.
	You don't care?
	No.
	Okay.
	What about you?
	Yeah, I care because I feel like I dated a guy who was Jamaican and he wasn't trying to eat it.
	And I was just like, it's not going to work.
	I have to wait like six months.
	I said, no, I can't do this again.
	They warned us.
	Cartel warned us.
	Some of them just like, he was like old school, like, oh, fire.
	I can't.
	No, no, no.
	That's not me.
	Yeah, T-O-K. But over time, I recognized him.
	But it's not consistent.
	Oh, he was a Jamaican guy?
	Yeah, Jamaican.
	He wasn't on that type of time.
	Yeah, all those songs say, yo, don't eat.
	You can't eat.
	Don't yum.
	Literally.
	So yeah, it's important for me.
	Wow.
	Okay.
	Alright, what about you?
	Yeah, it matters a lot.
	So he has the e-box for you?
	Yes, definitely.
	If not, you gotta go.
	All the time?
	Not all the time, but if you don't eat it, period, you gotta go.
	Period.
	Interesting.
	Wait, eat it on your period?
	No!
	Okay, okay, okay.
	Relax, Cuba.
	Alright.
	The Red Sea.
	What about you?
	Icey doesn't matter.
	I'm gonna be honest here, no.
	I feel like that's a very vulnerable point for me.
	I'd rather give head, though.
	Okay, so you don't care.
	That part.
	It's like, let me please you.
	You don't gotta please me.
	You've done enough.
	Okay.
	What about you, Ms.
	Montrell?
	No, I don't care.
	You don't care?
	Alright, ladies, let me ask you a question.
	Whose sexual satisfaction is more important, the man's or the woman's?
	Whose cum matters most?
	Your cum or his cum?
	Well, you know what I mean.
	His.
	Why?
	Why?
	Yeah.
	Because I think it's more important for a guy to cum than a girl.
	A girl can still have a lot of fun, even if she doesn't have an orgasm.
	Oui, oui.
	Okay, what about you, Ansi?
	What are your thoughts?
	I could make myself cum like that, so I'm gonna be quick and then I'll just make sure you're great.
	Like, your nut matters more than mine.
	I'm cool with that.
	Okay.
	What about you?
	The guy.
	Yeah.
	What?
	Because I just feel like exactly what she said.
	Like, I could do it myself.
	But can't the guy do it himself, too?
	I mean, he can if he really tries, but it's hard.
	Get it?
	It's hard?
	Well, I mean, guys watch porn, so it's not that hard.
	Yeah, it's not hard for a guy to, you know, do that.
	So if both of you guys can make yourself come quick, why is it more important that the guys is?
	Just out of curiosity.
	Wait, what do you mean, come quick?
	I just said you can't.
	No, a guy can, though.
	He just watches, like, one porno.
	Oh, yeah, yeah, he comes quick.
	That's what I'm trying to say.
	So if both of them can come quick, why does it matter?
	Why is the guys more important?
	Mm-hmm.
	I don't know.
	It's exploding.
	It's more fun.
	So I'd say mine matters more only because I feel like with women, like I feel like once you make me satisfied as a woman, I'm going to do even more to make you satisfied.
	Like I've had time to have sex with like a guy and like back in college when like they just were trying to go in and out.
	Yeah.
	And it's like I can't, I'm not aroused.
	I don't want to do, you know, a lot for you.
	So I feel like for me, once I'm completely aroused, I will submit to you.
	So I think mine matters more.
	Okay, out of curiosity, wouldn't it be fair to say that the man has to check more boxes for you to be attracted to him?
	Yeah.
	Like, in other words, you have more requirements of him than he has of you?
	Yeah, I agree.
	So if he's fulfilling maybe the look standard, the money standard, the charisma and charm standard, and all these other things that women typically want in a guy, wouldn't it be fair that you just, what he wants is, he wants less, but it has more value?
	So then I get a man who takes off less boxes but can please me sexually in that way, if that makes sense.
	What I'm saying is for him to even have sex with you, he's got to take a bunch of boxes.
	Not a bunch, just, you know, a few.
	Oh, so you're just fucking any guy then?
	I didn't see any, but it's not like a hundred percent.
	Like, I'm not looking for a perfect guy is what I'm saying.
	Like, I can take a guy who's, okay, maybe overweight or like maybe a little bit shorter.
	Not saying that combination, but like, you know, I can compromise on certain things, I feel like.
	Okay, but wouldn't it be fair to say that even with you compromising, you're still fairly selective?
	Yeah.
	Like, let's say he's short, he's probably got to have money.
	Or let's say he's fat, he's got to probably have some game and charm.
	Oh, 100%, yeah.
	So he's got to compensate, you know, pretty high on the other ends.
	Yeah.
	Whereas he might not necessarily even care about compromising about any of your faults.
	Yeah, but I think it goes back to my original point.
	If I'm good, I'm going to make sure you're even better.
	So I feel like I like when men prioritize, not prioritize me, but like prioritize certain things because they're going to get like a return on their investment.
	I know that sounds great on paper, but the whole reason why he was attractive in the first place is because he didn't prioritize you.
	Women are attracted to men that don't prioritize them.
	I think once I get to know you, I want you to prioritize me in the beginning.
	I don't want you to look thirsty.
	But once we are together, of course I want to feel like I'm important in your life.
	But wouldn't it be fair that he should maintain the same things that attracted you to in the first place versus becoming a pussy?
	Nah.
	Oh, really?
	Nah.
	I'm okay with there being double standards and, like, it not being consistent.
	In the beginning, I don't want you to, like, be, like, you know, like, what was the word called?
	Overly thirsty.
	Overly thirsty.
	Like, that's my cue.
	Like, don't call my phone every single minute.
	So you want to be overly thirsty when you're in the relationship?
	I want him to be a little bit more than he was in the beginning.
	Because it's more serious?
	It's more serious, but it's also just like, all right, now we're committed, right?
	It's me and you.
	I want to see this now.
	Now I'm attracted to you.
	I guess what I'm saying is after I like you.
	Okay, but who dictates who gets in relationships, men or women?
	I don't ask men out, so a guy does for me.
	But realistically, who chooses if a woman gets in a relationship?
	The man, right?
	So wouldn't it be on you to prove yourself worthy to get the relationship?
	I mean, if he's with me, then clearly, like, I'm my proof of my worth, I would say.
	Not really.
	Because the thing is, is that guys will hang out with a girl and deal with her, but...
	Not hang out, like, be in a relationship, that's what I'm saying.
	But to get the relationship, you have to do certain things, right?
	Oh, 100%, yeah.
	Like, I'm gonna, like, put out effort.
	So why is it that he has to go ahead and if he's attracted to you and you guys are having sex, then it's kind of on you to retain him, right?
	But you're trying to say that he should be retaining you when the reality is that he's the one that picks you.
	So it should be on you to retain him.
	Okay, so let me clarify, right?
	So I do agree with you, right?
	It's my responsibility to retain him, but if he prioritizes me, I'm going to make sure that I put extra effort out.
	That makes sense.
	So in regards to sex, if you just stick it in and just take it out, I'm going to be dry.
	I'm not going to be as motivated to...
	Functioning.
	Yeah.
	It's not like...
	Like a lawnmower.
	You got to like...
	Exactly!
	I need you to put in some type of work.
	So what I'm saying is, I'm going to make sure you're great if you make sure that I'm good.
	Does that make sense?
	No, it's...
	I don't remember.
	No, you make 100% sense, but what I'm saying is that that sounds great on paper, but in practicality, it just doesn't really work like that.
	I think...
	Well, I'll say what I think here in a second.
	We'll continue on.
	Okay, but he's got to...
	You're not going to tolerate him not eating box.
	Okay, fair enough.
	And he's got to sexually satisfy you.
	Alright, what about you?
	I think it matters more for a guy to be satisfied than it does for a girl.
	Why?
	Because they have to put in all the work to get the girl in the first place.
	Okay.
	And possibly provide for her.
	Fair point.
	Okay.
	All right.
	What about you?
	Okay.
	I'm going to jump off of what she said as well.
	But I think me personally, I like to be effed.
	So I would assume that the man puts in all the work.
	And might as well, if you're going to put in that work and pleasure me, it's more important that you get that finish.
	Because in the end, like Icy said, I can make myself...
	No, not in the end.
	In the beginning, you make yourself film and then, you know, finish him off.
	It only takes not that long.
	Okay.
	And then what about you?
	Yeah, I agree.
	Whose sexual satisfaction is more important?
	A man.
	Yet not provide satisfaction.
	Fantastic.
	It's okay.
	It's okay.
	She's about to drive to Tampa after the show.
	She's like, fuck.
	She better.
	What am I doing?
	All right.
	We got here.
	King Kareem, 10 bucks goes, ladies, you can only manifest tangible things because you can work hard, then buy them.
	If you want a Birkin bag or a Lambo, can you manifest those, but you cannot manifest your dream man?
	Anyone disagree?
	That was a lot.
	Yeah, I think that's more of a statement.
	Charleston White!
	Yeah, he goes, would you stick beside your man if he snitched on some gang members?
	Is that really him?
	Alright, would you stick by your guy if he snitched on some gang members?
	Yes or no?
	No.
	No, why not?
	Because he should have been loyal and not a snitch.
	Wait, are you in the streets?
	No.
	Are you from the streets?
	No.
	Then why do you care?
	Because that shows, like, loyalty.
	Like, you don't snitch on people.
	So, what if he does...
	Now he's got to do 20 years and you'll never see him.
	That's different.
	What?
	That's...
	Yeah, that's basically why he snitched.
	So he doesn't do 20 years so he can see you.
	I wouldn't want him to do 20 years either.
	So what's the lesser of the two evils?
	He snitches and abandons his loyalty to the gang?
	Or he does a snitch and spends 20 years in prison and you don't see him?
	That's tough.
	That is tough.
	I would say snitch.
	So you would stick with him if he snitched then?
	Yeah.
	What about you, Red?
	I would stick with him if he snitched because...
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	Stick with him.
	Why?
	I mean, I don't know if you're talking about actual gang members, but...
	Yeah, gang members, yeah.
	Then I wouldn't know.
	Wait, can I go back?
	What?
	What were you gonna say?
	Okay, I was gonna say, because at the end of the day, I'm gonna be loyal, and I'm gonna be home all the time, so it's none of my business, whatever happens outside, unless these people are gonna come to my house and try to...
	Well, they might, because now that he snitched on them, he put you and him in danger.
	Well, it's up to my mind to protect me then.
	Okay.
	Protect and move.
	Get out of there.
	Okay.
	What about you?
	Okay.
	If I weren't, like, if we weren't in danger...
	Oh, no, you're going to be in danger.
	It's a gang.
	The Yardmans are coming for you.
	I mean, honestly, I snitch too, so out of my problem snitching.
	Wait, what?
	No, I don't play that.
	Wait, have you, like, went and provided information to police on a criminal case or something?
	I don't hang around with criminals.
	No, I'm a, like, law-abiding...
	So wait, how'd you snitch then?
	If I had to, no, I'm saying, in theory, if I had to, the police said, hey, Sasha, I'm gonna...
	Oh, okay, because you said you're a snitch, you made it, like, an affirmative statement.
	No, like, if the police asked me, yes, I'm snitching, I don't care.
	Like, I don't do crime, so I feel like...
	Okay, okay.
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	You're a civilian.
	What about you?
	I'm a civilian.
	Aaliyah, he snitches.
	What are you doing?
	Oh, she's saying.
	I don't know.
	Because you're putting me in danger.
	You get me?
	Like, I don't know.
	So you want to stick with him?
	Because it also shows loyalty, too.
	Like she said, it also shows loyalty.
	So he spent 20 years in prison for loyalty?
	And now you're out by yourself?
	There's another one.
	There's always another one.
	Okay, so you would replace him regardless.
	Whether he goes to prison or he's with you, it doesn't matter.
	You're replacing him.
	Okay, what if you snitch to get on a banana boat to come see you?
	Oh, that's different.
	That's so different.
	A banana boat?
	That's cute.
	That's so cute.
	I'll stay with him.
	If he does stuff like that, then okay.
	What?
	I don't know how the...
	That's so cute.
	People come from Cuba.
	Yeah.
	And a banana boat.
	I get that, but...
	Illegally?
	Okay.
	I'm not being with no gang member.
	I'm not being with none of that.
	You snitched too.
	I'm not being with you at all.
	Like what?
	What?
	But you got with him in the beginning.
	No, I didn't.
	The scenario is you were with a gang member and then...
	Did I know?
	Is he hiding this from me?
	No, you knew that he was a gang member.
	He said gang gang every day.
	I say gang gang every day.
	Gang gang.
	Yeah, every day.
	No, but honestly, if we was back to my old ways, if he snitched, I'm not with it.
	You're not with it?
	Why?
	Because you snitched...
	What's going to happen to me?
	Okay, so for your personal safety.
	Like how you said earlier, if he's going to come, like the gang people are going to shoot up our house.
	Let's say I'm just cooking dinner out of nowhere and then I die right there.
	Like, what?
	Can't they make the argument that they're going to come after you regardless whether you break up with him or not?
	They don't care about your status.
	They're going to be like, you used to be a girl, good enough, bang!
	Exactly, so no.
	I just fucked myself dealing with that person.
	No, but what I'm saying is that they're going to come after you anyway, so why not be in a relationship?
	I don't want the relationship.
	It's too late by then.
	It's not like they're going to show up to the house and be like, hey, listen, we got information that you're still with him.
	Are you still in a relationship?
	Oh, no, we don't.
	Show us proof.
	Otherwise, we're going to have to murder you right here, right now.
	They're not going to care.
	They're just going to shoot because that was his last girl, I think.
	I think.
	And then Icy's dead on the kitchen.
	All right, got it.
	What about you?
	You find out your guy was a gay member.
	And he snitched.
	What's worse?
	Are you going to stick by him after he snitches?
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	She said, I'm going to stick beside him.
	Okay, cool.
	Okay, we got here.
	Who's up next?
	Low IQ detector.
	Who's a single mom?
	And do you think a single mom has the same sexual market value as a woman with a child?
	What?
	Okay, he's asking, who on the panel is a single mom?
	I think we only got one, right?
	Okay, I see.
	And then he's asking, do you think a single mom has the same sexual market value as a woman with a child?
	Or without a child.
	Is that what he really means?
	Yeah, yeah, yeah.
	That makes no sense.
	So we'll start here with Tampa.
	Do you think a girl that has a kid is more or less attractive?
	Don't worry about Icy.
	She won't do nothing.
	She's been on the show a million times.
	She already knows what time it is.
	I won't cry neither.
	So you can keep it a thousand.
	What's more attractive, a girl with a kid or without?
	Shoot.
	Um, I think without.
	Why?
	Um, because they don't come with, like, the extra baggage, I guess.
	You just call her kids baggage?
	No.
	That's not what I mean.
	I would say responsibility is a nice word to say.
	I told you.
	She's selfish, bro.
	Hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey.
	You know what it is?
	Fuck with you.
	Don't listen to him.
	All right, Rhett, what do you think?
	A woman with no kids is more valuable.
	Okay.
	Again, baggage or responsibilities and a past.
	You know, you got to deal with the baby daddies.
	It's just too much.
	All right.
	Drama.
	What about you, Strong Island?
	I agree with Red.
	Are you Italian, by the way?
	No.
	What are you?
	Albanian.
	Oh shit.
	Albanian mob.
	No wonder she said she would stick by him.
	No mobs, no gangs.
	Okay, sure.
	So I agree with Red.
	I think a guy is not going to want to provide for someone else's child because it's not theirs.
	Okay.
	Did you grow up in a Muslim household?
	Yeah.
	Oh God.
	Why is your hair not covered?
	Haram!
	Because I'm not that religious.
	Haram!
	No, I mean, I follow Islam, but I'm not.
	Abdul, get the rocks.
	What about you?
	So I think your dating pool, like, shrinks a little bit because there's always going to be, like, a subset of men who don't want that.
	So maybe, like, less marketable, but you can still find somebody.
	But I would agree that less people would like you because of, you know...
	So you're saying the childless woman is more attractive?
	Yeah, the same can be said for, you know, people who maybe gain weight or don't look good.
	Like, certain things tick off.
	Damn, a single mom's like a fat bitch?
	Goddamn!
	Why would you say that?
	Y'all be judging it here, man.
	Wait, fat girls?
	Fat girls, going wild!
	Don't worry, you're on Fresh to Fit.
	We haven't been canceled yet somehow, so you'll be fine.
	Alright, what about you?
	For now.
	One without a kid.
	Why?
	Because of the same thing.
	It's a lot of responsibility and a lot of guys are not ready for that responsibility.
	You get me?
	They're not ready.
	Alright, I see.
	Go ahead.
	Tell us why you're not attractive.
	I'm just kidding.
	No, he is.
	Listen, I got a lot of place to spend but I just don't want to spend them.
	Anyways, I would say a girl without a child is more attractive due to the fact that it's more free time that you get to have.
	You get to have more time with her because the only thing that stops me is getting a babysitter, seeing if you're even worth it.
	Then I have to consider you being in my child's life later on.
	It's just so many steps to get there with me.
	And I feel like guys are not going to work that hard to be...
	With me unless they really, really, really want me.
	So it's kind of like my shit test in a sense too.
	Okay.
	Now I'll ask you.
	Okay.
	Let's say hypothetically.
	I don't want to disclose this.
	But let's say hypothetically you had a son, right?
	Or a daughter.
	But let's say son in this case.
	I do have a son.
	I was going to reveal the gender.
	I'm always transparent.
	Would you want your son to get with a single mom or a girl that didn't have a child?
	I would want him to get with a girl that has her actual life values in check.
	Okay.
	You know, because a lot of women, we just live life.
	We don't really, sometimes we don't see what our past do to us.
	So it's kind of, I really want him to check out those boxes when it comes down to a girl.
	Okay.
	But preferably, would you want him to get with a single mom or a girl that has no child?
	A virgin, preferably.
	Okay.
	Damn.
	Okay.
	You go a step further.
	Not even a virgin.
	Okay.
	All right.
	What about you?
	A woman without a child.
	Why?
	Because guys get scared.
	Okay.
	There's kids around.
	Okay.
	And big responsibility as well.
	Fair enough.
	Alright.
	What are three tangible things you bring to a relationship?
	Oh, shit.
	Okay, Miss Quebec, let's start with you.
	The question is, what are three tangible things you bring to a relationship?
	Tangible means things you can actually touch and see.
	Oh, that's zero.
	Sorry, I'm just thinking.
	Your current man, what do you bring to him?
	Three things.
	Love.
	My dog.
	Okay, I guess that could count since it's tangible.
	Alright.
	I don't get the question.
	Tangible means things that you can actually account for.
	Like love, for example, is kind of subjective.
	For example, he brings you money, a car, a house.
	You can touch the things.
	We don't live together.
	Hypothetically.
	We'll just give you examples of tangibles.
	So you brought your dog.
	What else?
	My car?
	He uses your car?
	No, no, no.
	We have our car.
	Both cars.
	But then he don't use it.
	That's for you.
	I cook for him.
	I clean.
	Okay, so you can cook.
	Yes.
	I can clean.
	I love to clean houses.
	But y'all don't live together though.
	No, but when we are together, I clean his room.
	I do his laundry.
	Okay.
	How often?
	Like, every time I met his place.
	How often is that?
	Three times a week?
	Four times a week?
	Damn!
	You don't give him space?
	Alright, what about you, Icy?
	Three tangible things.
	My child.
	I would say groceries, in a sense, too.
	No nice?
	You out here buying those groceries?
	No, I mean, like, to cook.
	In a hypothetical setting, if I was living with a guy, mainly it would be groceries.
	It would be, like, clean products.
	What are tangible things I could bring to the house?
	The shit that I do in the house.
	I don't know.
	And then...
	I don't know what...
	I can't really...
	I don't know.
	I don't...
	I'm retarded.
	Yeah.
	All right.
	Fantastic.
	What about you?
	Three tangible things.
	Yeah, like groceries, like cooking and stuff like that.
	To be honest, like if you need something, like I'll try my best to give it to him, you get me?
	But like, it depends on my financial situation.
	I don't get you.
	I don't get you.
	The beans.
	Hmm.
	Bees.
	She's like, hmm.
	Hmm.
	Hmm.
	Alright.
	This is the grunting podcast.
	What about you?
	So, I'd say nothing.
	That's a verse.
	Literally said nothing.
	So my reasoning is there's nothing tangible that I can bring that a man will value.
	Okay.
	Like I, for example, I bought stuff for men.
	They don't like, at least for me, like they don't care for it as much.
	Oh, she bought me some designer.
	Like, okay, she bought me this.
	Like, I think for me, men care more about the intangible stuff.
	So for this question, it's nothing.
	I don't bring nothing tangible.
	That he will care about.
	Okay.
	Well, since you said that women don't...
	I got a quick question for you.
	You said women don't bring anything really tangible, which is okay.
	That's a fair assessment.
	No, it's like me.
	Okay, you.
	Alright.
	So you.
	What do you think about girls that have guys that are friends?
	Oof, that's tough.
	Can you specify?
	Okay, because you said you don't bring anything tangible.
	My stance is that women in general don't bring anything tangible.
	And in a friendship, it's even less.
	Yeah, I agree.
	I think women are useless to men as platonic friends.
	That's a very touchy subject because I do say that men overall, if you're attractive, it's hard to be friends with a guy if they like you.
	They will pretend and try to be friends with you, but deep down, if you just say, what's up, they're going to sleep with you.
	So I guess you can say it's more of a one-sided relationship between men and women.
	So yeah, in that case, it's the man's benefit.
	And here's where my logic comes with this.
	Like, even in a relationship, women rarely bring tangible assets to the relationship, right?
	They bring, like, more emotional type stuff, right?
	Things that are intangible, like you said before.
	So I would argue, right, when you're in a relationship with a girl, you get the best treatment from a girl you're in a sexual relationship with.
	However, and they don't bring anything tangible there.
	So if you make it a platonic friendship, It's even less, which is why I tell guys don't be platonic friends with females because they derive all the benefits.
	They get your masculinity.
	They get the friendship energy.
	They get the protection and provisioning to a degree.
	Maybe pseudo dates, the advice, the rational mindset, the ability to talk to someone and not have to worry about them holding a grudge because girls tend to be very covert and holding grudges, right?
	But for men, we don't really benefit, but I think a lot of guys are dumb and they sit there and be friends with girls hoping they'll get sex eventually.
	When the girl's like, nah, bro, you're such a friend zone forever.
	I would say it's only ever, like, it can only ever really work out, like, friendship between men and women if there's a situation where it's, like, equal value.
	Like, for example, if, hey, I do your taxes and, like, we, like, okay, maybe go to lunch sometimes or have, like, a common interest or, like, we, our kids are, like, soccer people, whatever.
	She actually has to bring something tangible.
	She's going to be a friend, like, like, like, one and one.
	Yeah.
	All All right.
	Fair enough.
	Yeah.
	I mean, I think if that's the case, right, where she's actually adding value, maybe she does your taxes for you or she does something, then it's maybe worth it.
	But yeah, I would argue that most girls benefit immensely from friendships with men versus men rarely benefit.
	Oh, 100%.
	Because even when I go to my guy, well, not guy friends, but like guys who say we're friends, like they treat me as if like I'm their girl.
	Like they open the door, like they're sometimes offering to pay.
	Like it's just like the dynamic.
	Not you.
	Not you.
	You're the one finessing.
	They're the dumb ones.
	I do pay sometimes, but deep down, I'm like, okay, I think they want to sleep with me, like, if I wanted to.
	You think?
	Nigga, open your door for you?
	Yeah.
	He better bend over.
	Yeah.
	I see you thinking in his head.
	Yeah.
	And I think women know this deep down, that, like, the guy wants to sleep with them, but that's why I kind of, like, going back to the point earlier, why I don't think, because my stance is I don't think a girl's ejaculation matters.
	And the reason why, right?
	I'm not saying don't make a girl come.
	I'm not saying that, right?
	You should, you know, aim to please her if she's your chick and you care about her.
	But in general, I don't think it matters.
	And the reason why is because men have to bring so much value to the table to even get a girl that even if he doesn't fulfill you sexually, and some of you guys already alluded to this, but even if he doesn't fulfill you sexually, he's able to fulfill you in other ways, emotionally, maybe supportive-wise, financially, etc.
	Because men have to bring value and utility to be with a girl versus women don't have to bring utility back.
	I'll give you a perfect example, not to pick on you, but the main reason men deal with women is sex.
	You're not giving him that commodity.
	However, he's giving you a lot and not getting anything in return.
	Men are used to that typically, where they're offering women a lot of value and not getting as much back in reciprocation.
	But I think we live in a world now where women are just finessing guys out of all types of stuff.
	Guys are too dumb to realize it.
	And I think a man's biggest strength is understanding his strength and knowing when a woman's value isn't as high or she's not adding value back.
	Because girls can only manipulate you if you don't understand your worth.
	But it's not like finessing because I actually care about him.
	Sorry.
	Wouldn't finessing be like if I don't care and I'm just using him?
	Then he's the same.
	Well, to be honest, if he really cared, what does he really want?
	He wants a smash!
	I've said this before, I'll say it again.
	The predominant reason men deal with women is for sexual access.
	Otherwise, most of the time, girls are pretty useless.
	No offense.
	Is he taking a vow of abstinence or something?
	Maybe it's just that.
	I would ask him, though.
	Bro, he ain't abstinence.
	I think he wants to respect your wishes, but he's still doing his own thing, though.
	Yeah, he basically doesn't want to rock the boat.
	He's basically like, I got chicks in Tampa.
	This chick's all the way down in South Florida.
	I'll do my thing.
	It is what it is.
	So she comes forward.
	He'll play the waiting game.
	He's so stupid.
	He'll play the waiting game.
	What I've realized is that guys are so scared of rejection that they'll even be scared to be honest with a girl that they're friend-zoned by and they'd rather sit there and wait than let their intentions be known and get rejected by that girl.
	Would I rather them be straight up?
	Because do you think women are good with handling the truth?
	No.
	Usually no, but like...
	So if it's usually no, then why should I give an answer that might put me in a bad predicament?
	Yeah, you're right.
	Right?
	Yeah.
	That makes sense.
	If most women can to the truth, it's probably not in my best interest to tell a woman the truth because I'll lose the girl and lose everything I already invested.
	So it's like, yeah.
	Anyway, sorry, where were we?
	Okay, so we're talking about the intangibles, right?
	Something, three things tangible you bring to a relationship.
	I agree with you that I don't think girls bring tangible items to a relationship.
	Like we said cooking, cleaning, caring for a guy.
	I don't think that's necessarily tangible.
	Like a guy giving you money is tangible.
	Okay.
	So you bring nothing?
	Well, I mean, I definitely would take care of a guy, meaning, like, cook, clean, provide, like, care for him, but I don't consider that tangible.
	So, nothing.
	That's more emotional, like Myron said.
	What do you want to buy him?
	Yeah, guys don't care about gifts.
	Yeah, you can buy them, it's nice, but they don't care.
	Not like a girl, like, if you buy her a gift, she's gonna be like, oh, it's amazing, but guys don't care.
	Yeah.
	I think men care more about the thought.
	A price tag doesn't matter.
	The effort.
	I've got gifts from girls where they've painted something for me or they gave me something like a small trinket or whatever but it had a meaning.
	It was something that I said months ago and she remembered.
	That matters a lot.
	I just know if a woman spends money on you and she...
	Legit, guys, in the chat.
	If a girl spends money on you, she likes you because her money is her money, bro.
	I'm telling you right now.
	Her money is her money, but your money is her money.
	Most women, yeah, can go their entire lifetime without spending a dollar on a guy.
	The hotter the girl, the less likely they'll spend money on you.
	That's not fair.
	If you're in a relationship, then you should give to each other.
	But I just think that guys genuinely don't really care about gifts most of the time.
	Like you said, something more intentional.
	If you wrote him a thoughtful letter, I think he would care about that more.
	Okay.
	Alright.
	Cool.
	Three tangible things.
	I can clean.
	I will run the errands if necessary, make appointments, fill out applications, whatever it needs.
	She'll be like an assistant?
	Basically.
	All right.
	Fair.
	That's tangible.
	He can touch you.
	What about you?
	What tangible things do you bring for an exchange not smashing?
	I'm a really like big gift giver so like how you said like if like you say you want something and like I'll remember months later and I'll get you like that specific thing like I'm very thoughtful with my gifts.
	I want a Lamborghini.
	I'm gonna have to get the money for the Lamborghini and then yeah maybe I'll get you a Lamborghini.
	I will literally give like a lot.
	Do you buy a lot of gifts for your guy?
	I do buy gifts yeah.
	Expensive gifts?
	Yeah.
	Alright, you gotta do something if you ain't given box.
	I do, of course!
	No, I get it, bro.
	What?
	He gets free items, and a free place to stay in Miami, and he gets to smash other girls in Tampa!
	Win or win!
	Unbeknown to her, of course.
	Yeah.
	Which is joking.
	Fair enough.
	I'm not joking.
	No, she probably still makes me get a whole time.
	No, I know he's not joking.
	I'm not joking.
	Wait, so I'll just sleep next to each other and nothing happens?
	Cuddle time.
	Damn.
	Is he hard?
	When you guys do?
	I don't know.
	You don't feel anything?
	You don't feel it?
	She don't care, nigga, she don't care.
	That's great.
	That's the one, though.
	Johnny's a fantastic.
	Hey, man.
	Put that away, Johnny.
	Put that away.
	Put that away.
	Book coming soon.
	Why Women Deserve Less, bro.
	Comes out Valentine's Day.
	Y'all diggers better get it, man.
	All right, Tim, at 50 bucks.
	86 pages because, of course, women deserve less.
	Do you consider yourself a modern or traditional woman?
	Do you feel you deserve a traditional man and why?
	Okay.
	Go ahead, bro.
	You wanna do it?
	No, just ask it so I can piss real quick.
	What do you consider yourself?
	traditional or modern and that's the fact of you choosing one of these options here do you deserve a traditional man yourself and we'll start here right here fresh oh sorry um i would consider myself more traditional and i feel like i deserve a traditional man Why?
	Because...
	I feel like if I'm traditional, then he needs to be traditional because we both we're gonna play our roles, you know?
	That's fair.
	So what is traditional to you?
	What does that mean to you?
	As in like, what are your roles to him?
	If you're traditional.
	Being supportive.
	Yeah, being supportive, being like a wife and a mom.
	Okay.
	I think those are traditional roles.
	And then, did you ask what the man's traditional role is?
	No, no, that's fine.
	Okay, yeah.
	Right for you.
	I believe I am, I'd like to think traditional, but I feel like I'm too young, I feel.
	I was raised in this day and age, so I'd say like maybe midway between both.
	Okay.
	Do you deserve a traditional man?
	Death is no.
	Not right now, at least.
	I would hope so, but not right now.
	I believe I have a lot of work I can do on myself before I can say I deserve one.
	And if we were to describe the word modern in today's times of a girl, what does that mean, being modern, a modern girl, do you think?
	Everyday partying.
	Okay.
	Go out with the girls, girls trips.
	A lot of modern girls go out to bars just for attention or to get a guy to buy them a drink.
	So I believe that's something modern, I guess.
	That's a good point for you.
	I consider myself a traditional woman, and I would say I deserve a traditional man because I bring all the values of a traditional woman, meaning I want a family, I stay in my role, I'm not independent.
	Hmm.
	Okay.
	Okay.
	Let me ask you this.
	Yes.
	Let's say you phone that guy and how old are you right now?
	21.
	21.
	Let's say you find this guy that you want, right?
	Your traditional dream guy.
	And he said to you, you know what?
	Start whatever you're doing.
	Just come work with me.
	I'll take care of you.
	Would you actually do it?
	I would, yeah.
	Okay.
	What about you?
	Miss Jamaica!
	I don't think I'm traditional, only because I work in traditional women.
	I mean, you know, back then, you don't work, you stay home.
	I do, like, do domestic duties, but, like, I don't wake up every day and, like, let me go and cook and clean.
	So I feel like I just, by definition, I just can't be traditional.
	So I'd say I'm modern with some traditional flair.
	Like, if I'm there, of course, I'm going to take care of you.
	But I wouldn't say full traditional because it's like, if I'm gone, it doesn't mean that you can't cook or, like, you know, wash the dishes or whatever.
	I'm starting to say more modern.
	What was your second part to the question?
	Do you deserve a traditional man in return that protects and provides food?
	So I don't want a fully traditional man because I feel like that's just too masculine in my opinion.
	Back to like there's some like older Jamaicans they won't like wash like wash your clothes like wash your panty because it's like oh like you're a man like you don't wash clothes but I'm like if I'm sick like I would want my man to at least like pay some money or do it you know what I'm saying?
	Do you believe in like 50-50?
	No, I don't believe in 50-50, no.
	But I do want to protect it.
	I want to feel protected and I want a man who is masculine.
	So I would say maybe like a mix in a sense.
	Does that make sense?
	Yeah, I mean, because the thing is, what you're asking for, quite frankly, doesn't exist.
	A masculine man is masculine, period.
	That's just how it is.
	They're not going to sit there and be like, oh, I'm sensitive on Saturday, so catch me on this day.
	It's like, you can't really pick and choose.
	It's either you get a guy that has a shit together that's masculine, or you get a pussy.
	Well, it's overly masculine men, I would say.
	They're like, they can't, like, oh, I can't wear clear nail polish, like, super just, like, maybe it's the Jamaican thing, like, super, like, I don't want a man like that.
	I don't want you to be too masculine to the point where you don't take care of yourself or you can't be seen doing girl stuff.
	You think masculine men don't take care of themselves?
	I said overly.
	She's like on an extreme spectrum.
	Yes, I'm on an extreme spectrum.
	But do you think that you're a modern woman, so you're saying you kind of want to be able to do half the chores and he does half the chores or whatever?
	No, no, no.
	I never said that.
	I don't mind doing domestic.
	I'm just saying if something happens, say if I'm away on business or work or I'm sick, it doesn't mean that you can't cook is what I'm saying.
	If I can't do it, Okay, but you should be doing it 95% of the time when you're not sick.
	Yeah, I'll do it.
	Like, most times, when something happens, like, I'm busy, then, you know, you can do it.
	Does that make sense?
	Okay, I mean, but you being sick, like, let's be honest here, unless you're just a sick person, you're healthy 360 days a year, right?
	Or, like, I work, but he's at home all day, like, okay, get away from me to come home to cook?
	Like, you can order some food?
	So he's home and I'm at work, is what I'm saying.
	Well, I mean, in a traditional nuclear family, it's one income, so you would stay home, actually.
	Yeah, that's why I said, like, by definition, I can't be traditional because I work.
	Okay.
	But what if you didn't have to work?
	Then, yeah, I'd be home doing everything because that's my job.
	Would you take that being a stay-at-home mom?
	Or would you not want to do that?
	I wouldn't want to do it only because I would get super bored, honestly, just being at home.
	You think you'd be bored with kids, though?
	Kids are very time-consuming.
	Yeah, but I'm going to drop them off somewhere.
	Like, I'm not doing that.
	I don't want to be at home all day with the kids.
	I just can't.
	I'll go crazy.
	I feel like I'm best when I can, like, help you or go and do something and then come back home and fulfill my duties as a woman.
	Okay.
	Are you okay with just getting more of a pussy soy boy then?
	Are you okay with just getting a guy that's less masculine?
	Because I'll be honest, what you're saying that you provide back, a lot of dudes would be like, nah, I'm good.
	So what do you, maybe I'm misinterpreting, what do you think I provide back on your end based on what I said?
	Well, no, I mean, you're a typical traditional modern woman.
	Sorry, you're a typical modern woman where you kind of want to be able to enjoy some of the benefits and privileges of being a lady and being a woman while simultaneously being able to skirt yourself of certain responsibilities of being the same woman.
	I never said I wouldn't do anything, though.
	Yeah, but you don't even want to rear the kids.
	I don't want to rear the kids, but personally...
	You want to drop them off.
	Yeah.
	Which defeats the whole purpose of you staying home.
	No, to enriching activities.
	So I think it's important for kids to be active.
	So I'm going to bring them to soccer practice.
	Yeah, of course.
	I need a break.
	So that's what I mean, like...
	I'm going to make sure my kids are very involved in things so they can, okay, bye.
	Yeah, but obviously you're going to have to rear them in the early stages, right?
	You're going to have to be home, you know, up until they're in pre-K and stuff like that, right?
	But you're saying like you'd rather drop them off, which is cool.
	There's nothing wrong with that.
	I'm saying like some people, I guess some women just want to be able to do other things.
	But what I'm saying is that that kind of defeats the whole purpose of a guy being the main breadwinner and taking care of you.
	But is he going to do it?
	Is he going to like do everything that I do?
	Well, that's what a traditional guy would be.
	That's what a traditional man would prefer that his girls stay home.
	Yeah, I can stay home and do that, but I'm going to need my break.
	I'm not going to put it on you and say, hey babe, come up.
	No, I'm going to just go bring them to their activities.
	I mean, activities is here and there, but that's later on.
	No, it's everyday activities.
	When you have a newborn, you're not going to be right there.
	But I'm saying, like, even with the first year of child development in their life, you're not leaving the house.
	Like, you're not.
	Not for nothing.
	Like, unless you really...
	You want to drop them off to a big daycare.
	And I highly don't even agree with that.
	Because their first year, they come off of you.
	You understand?
	You're their mother.
	So at the end of the day, it's like...
	It's once you have a kid.
	I'm in the kid with my house all the time.
	You know what I'm saying?
	I pick him up tomorrow.
	He's going to be with me 24-7.
	Yeah, I mean later on.
	Not like obviously when they're in their stages where they can't be self-sufficient.
	I mean like later on.
	Yeah, but that's a year.
	That's two years.
	That's three years.
	That's like five years.
	But that's still you being in the house.
	Yeah, I don't have any complaints.
	I didn't understand what it's like being in the house till I had a child.
	You know what I'm trying to get at?
	So it's like you get to learn so much from the house.
	Like you said earlier, you were just like, I'll just drop him off and have a break.
	You know how many times I want a break?
	And it's just like, I finally just got my break and he's three years old, you know?
	Yeah, but I also feel like when I'm ready to have my child, if hopefully it's planned, I have a big support system in the family.
	Right, it takes a village.
	Yeah, so I'm going to have my mom and this Jamaican way, they have your mom come in and help you.
	If I'm tired, my mom will come.
	I trust my mom to take care of my child.
	I'm not going to leave my child, but if I need to go...
	Well, that's different than dropping them off somewhere.
	Yeah, so later on, now when they're older, I do want them to be in lessons, so it gives me a break as well.
	Of course.
	And it gives them something to do.
	So I'm big on, like, I can't be there for my kids if I'm, like, drained and, like, I'm tired as hell.
	People do it.
	Like, I get that.
	But I feel like if I have the resources to...
	The mother instinct kick in.
	It's...
	Even when you're tired, you have to do it.
	Like, it's...
	Yeah.
	You just have to.
	It doesn't even become a second thought, to be honest.
	Yeah, but so I have my, like, support system there.
	So I'm tired of my mom would just come and take my child.
	It's called...
	Okay.
	Pour an almond milk.
	To me, I think...
	So what you're kind of looking for is a guy that's going to be a little bit more...
	Maybe not 50-50, but you would want him to also, I guess, absorb some of the traditional female duties if you're not available.
	Yeah, if I'm not available.
	There you go.
	Cool.
	What about you?
	Traditional man and female.
	Okay.
	Are you a traditional woman?
	Yes, I was raised like that.
	Okay.
	Pull that question back up, Chris.
	Yeah, that's fine.
	And do you want a traditional man?
	Yes.
	Because obviously when I have a kid, you know, I want to be there for my child.
	Do you think you deserve one?
	Because remember, it's kind of a benefit because you don't work, you're just staying at home.
	I mean, yeah, I'll take really good care of it.
	It is!
	How dare you!
	The baby, the him, how dare you!
	He, she, her, whatever it identifies as, you know how celebration is.
	It's a rock.
	It's a lot more.
	Real quick, do you think you deserve a traditional man?
	Huh.
	I don't think a traditional man might like me.
	Maybe not too traditional, no.
	Facts.
	Chris, what the fuck, bro?
	At least she's honest.
	She actually thought about it.
	Fair enough.
	Icy, what about you?
	Modern or traditional?
	And you deserve a traditional man.
	I dabble in between the both.
	I'm gonna be honest.
	I have my traditional ways.
	But it's, I don't know, I like to be programmed with whoever I'm with.
	So it's like, if you're traditional, I'm gonna line up with yours.
	If you're not, if you're modern, I'm gonna line up with you.
	But I'm just more or less, I'm more into me right now.
	So, do I deserve one?
	No.
	I deserve less.
	We're coming out.
	We're coming out soon.
	Who hurts you?
	Oh, damn.
	I don't know.
	You guys say internalized misogyny for me.
	Oh, God.
	No, I'm just kidding.
	Quebec?
	I am a traditional woman.
	You are?
	Yes, I am.
	Are you a virgin?
	No.
	Oh, so you're not traditional.
	I own stuff with my boyfriend, though.
	Wait, what?
	She has sex with her boyfriend.
	Oh, your guy you're with is the one that took it to Virginia?
	Yeah.
	Oh, shit.
	Aww.
	I hope I get married.
	So, are you guys going to get married?
	Yes.
	Did he tell you he was going to marry you?
	Yeah.
	Oh, shit.
	Okay.
	He still has a dream.
	I love that.
	You know what?
	Statistically speaking, if you marry him, the chances of your relationship lasting longer are gonna be very high.
	Yeah, I know.
	You read my book?
	How'd you know?
	I'm from a Catholic family, so...
	Okay.
	My mom...
	Okay.
	Yeah, no, I mean, the studies do show that, you know, a girl that marries is a virgin, statistically speaking, is far more likely to not get divorced.
	So, all right.
	Hey, man, that's fantastic.
	That's good stuff.
	All right.
	Question for the ladies.
	What advice would you give your daughter about men dating, how to keep a man, or how to get the ring?
	That's a lot of questions.
	Yeah.
	Let's do one.
	Okay, we'll start with...
	We'll do this.
	What advice would you give to your daughter to keep a man?
	We'll start here with...
	Actually, we can start with Quebec, because I think we started here last time.
	Go ahead.
	Just...
	Be traditional.
	Just...
	Such as?
	Stay...
	Name like two things.
	Like, don't chase after a man.
	I mean, if you're interested in a man, just tell him and let him know it, but don't run after a man guys don't like it.
	Okay.
	And wait for him to come to you and just respect yourself, too.
	Okay.
	If you just go out and...
	When you say respect yourself, what do you mean by that?
	A guy that sees a girl that sleeps like with 20 guys is not going to be interested in you.
	So don't be a whore?
	No.
	Okay.
	What about if she wants to have an Instagram?
	What if your daughter says, I want to have an Instagram with pictures of myself in bikini on the beach?
	Well, if it's not too showing, I mean...
	Well, it's pretty showing.
	Well, it depends if you have boobs.
	If that's true.
	I think all girls have boobs.
	I mean, I post pictures of myself on Instagram with my bikini, but it's not like explicit, so...
	It's more explicit if you're like curvy.
	You're skinny.
	I don't think that makes a difference, but okay.
	Fair enough.
	You get a hall pass, that's why.
	Icy, what about you?
	I'm trying to control it.
	What would I tell my daughter?
	How about men dating and how to keep men or how to get the ring?
	Because my son already just randomly starts watching your shit.
	So probably, let's see.
	Damn!
	Shout out to the kids.
	I guess I'll just play Myron in the background and just be like, listen to this man.
	He knows what the fuck he's talking about.
	Stay a virgin.
	Don't let nobody touch you.
	And then that's it.
	If you have one relationship, make sure that's the relationship you're going to stay in.
	And that's it.
	All right.
	Fair enough.
	I think that's good advice.
	All right.
	What about you, Miss Hylia?
	You from Haya Lea?
	Yeah.
	Karma Lea.
	Was that a pig?
	What is wrong with Haya Lea?
	You like bacon?
	Sorry.
	Go ahead.
	So what advice would you give to your daughter to get a man and get the ring?
	It depends how old my daughter is, though.
	Let's say she's at her prime.
	She's 21 and she wants to get married.
	What are you going to tell her?
	Just, you know, provide.
	Not provide, but keep him emotionally intact.
	And then also cook, clean, stuff like that.
	How do you keep him emotionally intact?
	Just like when...
	I don't know.
	If he's ever opened up...
	Some guys don't really open up.
	So it's like...
	It depends on how...
	Fantastic advice.
	What about you?
	What would you tell your daughter to find and keep a man to get married and get a relationship?
	My advice...
	Do the opposite of mommy?
	Anyways, I would say in regards to keeping a man, I'd just say my biggest advice is just to whoever you're actively wanting to pursue, understand them and learn them.
	Find out what your man loves and do that.
	That's the best advice.
	That's pretty good, actually.
	What about you, Miss Albania?
	Listen to your man.
	Take care of him.
	Be traditional, like they said.
	So if he says make a sandwich, you better make that sandwich?
	For sure.
	Fair enough.
	That's your man, right?
	Salami and all.
	Are your parents still together?
	Yes.
	How long have they been married?
	30 years.
	Was your dad the breadwinner?
	Yep.
	Mom stayed home and raised the kids.
	Me and my two brothers.
	Damn.
	Okay.
	You turned out fucked up.
	I'm just kidding.
	Wait, you said how many siblings?
	Two.
	Two?
	Alright.
	Two older brothers.
	Ah, okay.
	Would it be fair to say that you growing up in a household with your dad and two other brothers kind of familiarize yourself with the male mindset?
	Yeah.
	I think they taught me everything I know.
	Did you learn more from them or from your mother?
	Who had a greater influence in letting you know what it takes to be attractive?
	The men in your life or the women?
	I think that my mom showed me a good example.
	Okay.
	But my brothers kept me in check.
	And so did my dad.
	Okay.
	But since my brothers are with me, I spend a lot of time with them.
	I think they probably taught me a lot.
	Okay.
	What's the biggest takeaway that you got from your brothers?
	That's a great question.
	Smash!
	No, I mean there's a lot of things that they taught me, but definitely like respecting a man, respecting yourself is another one.
	Fair enough.
	Alright.
	Red, what about you?
	Chris, keep the question up so that the ladies can see it.
	It was camp two times.
	What advice would you give to your daughter about attracting and retaining a guy for a long-term relationship?
	Okay, so first off, I would tell her, I would teach her from a very young age to try to put her logical thinking before she acts on emotions.
	I would also teach her how to be her own person and think her own way instead of following, because a lot of girls nowadays are just followers.
	They see their friends doing something and they want to do it.
	So I'd say be their own person.
	Stay out of social media and putting yourself out there because in reality it's I don't know.
	I would teach her how to give herself that affirmation and that validation instead of looking for it outwardly.
	And yeah, stay a virgin.
	Damn.
	Okay.
	Alright.
	What about you?
	I agree with not looking outwardly to...
	Seek validation.
	I feel like a lot of women nowadays do that, especially with social media.
	You post to get attention and you think that's going to satisfy you, but it doesn't satisfy you.
	None of that's really important.
	Getting attention and validation from men on the internet, you mean?
	It really has no value.
	But women nowadays make it to where it does...
	I would say lead by example so that she knows what a good woman looks like and what a...
	Yeah, just lead by example.
	And also how she was saying, understand your man, what he likes, what he wants, and try to do that for him.
	And then just be respectful and make him look good.
	Okay.
	I think that's important.
	That's true, yeah.
	Hold on, how'd you know that?
	I know a lot of good things.
	You watch the show, huh?
	No.
	I mean, that's just, I agree with that.
	You have to make your man look good.
	Like, you're a representation of him.
	Okay.
	Do you think when a girl goes to a social function, she should be quiet?
	Of course.
	Yeah?
	Yeah.
	What do you have to say?
	Just look good.
	Stand there and make him look good.
	Make him look good.
	Yeah, period.
	So, you know all this, but your man's still waiting for four months.
	None of my business.
	All right.
	Let me, real quick, I want to go around the table on this.
	He's waiting because there's value in me.
	Do you agree with the statement that women are to be seen and not be heard?
	Do I agree that women are to be seen and not be heard?
	Yeah.
	Yes.
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	Do you agree with that as well?
	Yes.
	Damn.
	Okay.
	Yes.
	Being heard is unattractive.
	You're being loud and obnoxious.
	Okay.
	What about you?
	Do you agree with the statement that women are to be seen and not heard?
	I'd say generally, yeah.
	Unless it's like a thing I'm like, I can't talk at all.
	Okay.
	Yeah.
	What about you?
	Exactly what she said, so I agree with what she said.
	Repeat what she said then.
	She said that it's like...
	I hate talking.
	Stupid!
	On a podcast, hive mind!
	What'd she say?
	Come on, you don't remember it?
	No, I do.
	It's basically like...
	Have you ever had a dream that you had...
	You got this.
	You got this.
	Don't worry.
	You got this.
	What'd she say that you agree with?
	You got this next year?
	Or just put it in your own words.
	You don't gotta repeat it.
	Okay, basically, like, you can't be loud and obnoxious, basically, is what she's saying.
	You can't be loud and obnoxious, but, like, unless I can't talk at all, like, do you guys, like, understand or no?
	Alright, so you want to be able to talk a little bit?
	Yeah, at least a little bit.
	Like, I'm not going to be like, shh, like, una monja, like, a nun, a nun, a nun, a nun, a nun, a nun.
	Okay, what about you, Isu?
	Do you agree with the statement that women are to be seen and not heard?
	Yes.
	Yes, okay, what about you?
	I agree.
	Okay, now I'm going to take it a step further.
	Why do you think women are to be seen and not be heard?
	We'll start with Ms.
	Quebec and work our way back the other way around.
	Well, I would say the same as Dani said before.
	Just not attractive for a woman to speak a lot when there's a lot of men doing their things.
	You should just shut up and look good.
	Okay.
	What about you, Icy?
	What are your thoughts?
	Because you used to be the one that would speak.
	Yeah, I'm very loud and I'm noxious.
	What made you change course?
	No, it's not even that.
	I'm just like how you said before, what is it?
	Conditionally feminine?
	If we're out in the club, I'm just going to sit behind you guys.
	I won't sit there in any public setting.
	I wouldn't sit there and embarrass nobody unless I need to make my point about some shit.
	But that's, again, conditionally feminine.
	Okay.
	Alright.
	What about you?
	Why do you think women shouldn't speak that much?
	Because, like, let's say if you're in a relationship, like, I don't want to make him look bad.
	You feel me?
	Like, I don't want to, like, embarrass him or do anything bad like that.
	Okay.
	Alright.
	What about you?
	Why do you think?
	Because you said you want to be able to talk.
	So, yeah, I guess I can go into that.
	I feel like if you're a feminine woman, personally, I hate when I see a bunch of girls just going at it and being loud.
	It's just not cute.
	So I feel like, for example, if I'm out and the guys are having a cigar or something, I don't need to interject in the convo, but I want my man to value Me enough to know, hey, like, babe, what do you think?
	Right?
	But overall, I don't need to take the attention from the man.
	Like, you go yell and talk with the guys.
	I don't need to do that.
	Like, I'm in the heels.
	Why am I yelling and shouting?
	That's what I mean.
	Like, I don't need to be talking that much.
	But I would want the man to value me.
	You know, hey, what do you think?
	You'd like to be able to put input, but only when asked.
	Yeah.
	Or if it's needed.
	But if it's not needed, you're okay with being quiet the entire time?
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	All right.
	I was gonna say, if you're a part of the conversation, then obviously you're going to speak.
	But if you're being loud and obnoxious, that's definitely not feminine.
	Okay.
	All right.
	Why do you think women are to be seen and not be heard then?
	Well, because, I mean, what are you adding to the conversation?
	I mean, if you're a part of the conversation, obviously you're going to speak.
	Okay.
	But being seen has to do with giving your man value.
	Okay.
	All right.
	Red, what about you?
	Why do you say that?
	So I grew up with the thought in my head, they ingrained it, speak only when spoken to.
	And personally, when I look at men, I think that they have their own flow going already.
	They're the leaders.
	They know what they're talking about.
	And I think that women can learn a lot off of men if they just be quiet and listen.
	Interesting.
	This is an eye-opener.
	Different panel.
	Myron's like, somebody challenged my views!
	It's cool because I think it allows for more...
	They're pretty sturdy.
	For some real conversation.
	What are your thoughts on that?
	Why do you believe that women...
	Because you actually started this conversation.
	Why even asked?
	Why do you think women are to be seen and not be heard?
	I think like let's say you're like there's an event and you're walking with your man like I feel like it holds more weight like you being seen and like it makes him look good amongst like his peers rather than like being heard like who really cares what you have to say yeah like not to be mean but like who really cares like that's not gonna add value to him like how you look and how you present yourself that adds value but I have an opinion I'm a queen Who
	taught you that?
	To be quiet and not make your man look crazy?
	My mom, so there's like a saying.
	What's your background?
	Your ethnic background?
	Colombian.
	Okay.
	Full Colombian?
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	Mom and dad?
	Okay, go ahead.
	Well, mom and sperm donor.
	Anyway.
	Wait, I thought you said your dad has a construction company.
	Okay, so that's my adopted father.
	Okay.
	Stepdad?
	Yeah.
	Okay, so your mom remarried or got with another guy?
	She married.
	And he raised me, yeah.
	From what age?
	Four.
	Okay, yeah.
	That's my dad.
	Yeah, okay, that's your dad.
	That's my dad.
	He stepped up.
	Yeah.
	Shout out to him because most guys would not do that.
	All right, continue on.
	So you said you grew up Colombian and?
	Yeah, so there's a saying in Spanish that my mom has always said, and it's callaita se mas bonita.
	Say that one more time?
	Callaita se mas bonita.
	Okay.
	Yeah, so like, you look better when you shut the fuck up.
	Shout to Colombians, man!
	Niggas keeping it real out here.
	I think that's Hispanic and Yeah, it's Hispanic.
	Okay, because you're Dominican, right?
	Yes, I've heard that as well.
	Me too.
	Puerto Rican.
	As a Cuban, have you heard that?
	Yeah.
	That phrase is used all across Latin America.
	Yeah, what is that again?
	I'll write that shit down.
	Cayata se ve mas bonita.
	Okay, because Cayata means shut up, right?
	No, no, it means quietly you look better, basically.
	I mean, I don't think Cubans had that saying when I was growing up.
	You guys are loud as shit!
	The Cubans out here are crazy.
	I feel like Cubans in Cuba are more different than Cubans here.
	Cubans here are just like different.
	Okay.
	What is it again?
	C-A-L-O. Okay.
	You know what?
	Right there.
	Okay, but sorry.
	Continue on with the phrase that you were saying.
	So yeah.
	Okay, so that's been a saying that you've been told constantly growing up.
	Any of the other ladies heard this phrase?
	It seems like yes.
	I see.
	I did, yes.
	You did?
	All four of us, we've heard it.
	Not Spanish, but Albanians have the same thing.
	When the men are talking, the men are talking.
	Don't interrupt them.
	I heard one saying...
	What?
	How do you know that?
	The bitches who don't wear the heels after the club.
	Who told you that?
	So we're at a club one day at a cigar bar and this Spanish guy's there with us.
	She's chilling.
	He's like, what's wrong with her?
	What does that mean?
	Oh, she's wearing no shoes.
	She's dirty.
	I was like, oh shit.
	Let me ask you ladies a question then and we can start hearing their work our way.
	Do you think it's more important For the guy to shine at social functions Or the woman I feel like you Add to his shine By making him look good Okay.
	But yeah, he's definitely supposed to shine.
	Okay.
	All right.
	What about you, Red?
	Yes, I think that we're, excuse my phrasing, but kind of like an accessory for men, and I think that they should shine more, and at the end of the day, they're breadwinners, so you go do what you gotta do, and I'm gonna make sure you look good doing it.
	Goddamn, y'all are having a lot of internalized misogyny.
	What about you, Ms.
	Albania?
	What are your thoughts?
	The men should shine because they're the ones with the status.
	And like you said, women are like arm candy.
	Do you think women's status matters?
	No.
	No?
	No.
	Only if it's promiscuous.
	Yes.
	Ah, okay.
	Alright, what about you?
	Sorry, go ahead.
	No, if you're mean, yeah, status, like social status, if you're like...
	Yeah, I meant, like, yeah, does, like, a woman's social status matter, like, as far as, like, oh, I got clout, like, do men care about that?
	Okay.
	Absolutely not.
	Okay.
	Okay, so if it's social status, no, it doesn't matter.
	I would say, as a woman, especially when you're invited to certain functions with men, you, number one, you're like an arm candy, right?
	Like, you want to make sure you look amazing head to toe, but then also, I feel like looking good isn't...
	It's like, okay, I'll get in the door, but men, other men will respect your man more if you're a woman of substance.
	Like, okay, you can bring a pretty girl, but like, wow, like, she can hold a conversation.
	Like, she's feminine.
	She's sweet.
	So I feel like by, in return, you both end up shining.
	Because I feel like me being feminine, attractive, and just also someone who can hold a conversation makes you look good as a man.
	And then I feel like other men want what, like, I've been places where guys will see your girl and be like, damn, give you more respect because that girl's pretty and she...
	Well, you can be pretty and have brains.
	We're not saying that, but does it matter to a guy about social status and if they're clout?
	No.
	For the first part.
	Yeah.
	So do you agree with, because Red was saying don't speak unspoken to, would you say that this intelligence that you're speaking about conveying, it's only conveyed if you're allowed the opportunity, but if it's not, you just still be quiet?
	Yeah, I don't need to prove anything.
	Yeah, 100%.
	So you're saying display it when it's needed, but don't just go out, oh, just see how, no, I got it.
	Oh, yeah.
	Men don't care.
	Nobody cares.
	I think they care if, like, okay, like, they actually want your pin on something, then okay, well, let's go to level-headed.
	Yeah.
	You're a master's degree holder yourself, right?
	If I'm not mistaken, right?
	Or were you pursuing one?
	No, you have one.
	You already have one.
	Yeah.
	Question.
	So you know that men don't care about education.
	Yeah, I didn't do for a minute.
	They don't care.
	Yeah, it was just for me.
	Okay.
	Knowing that men don't care about education or anything, what was your main reasoning for going ahead and pursuing a master's degree and getting into the corporate world?
	So, for me, growing up, especially, like, in the islands, like, education is a really big thing.
	So, number one, education has always been just an important thing in my family.
	But for me, I love learning.
	I don't see the issue with it.
	And also career path, too.
	What I want to do required, like, higher education anyways.
	Yeah.
	So, just those things.
	Combination of career and, just for me, personal development.
	I just love to learn.
	Okay.
	All right.
	Yeah, it wasn't to, like, please anybody or men.
	Men do not care, actually.
	Would you agree with, I mean, it's almost damn near a fact, but let's just say in general that the more educated a woman is, the more her dating pool dwindles?
	I would say...
	Depending on her personality, yes.
	So overall, I agree with you, yes.
	And the reason being is if you lead with your degree.
	I don't lead with my degree.
	It's more like if you know me, then you don't have a degree or whatever.
	So I'd say a lot of women who are having difficulty dating, who have higher paying jobs or degrees, is because they have to make that the forefront.
	Men, you don't know I have a degree unless I say I have a degree.
	I don't try to prove it.
	I don't care.
	But wouldn't it be fair to say that, let's say you never talk about your degree.
	Let's say you never talk about your education or your income.
	But wouldn't it be fair to say that your wants and your requirements of a man have went up substantially since you're educated and make a higher earner yourself?
	So therefore, let's say you had just a bachelor's degree, you were earning $50,000 per year, but now with your increased education, you're now able to command $100,000 a year plus in income and salary.
	And even though you might not outwardly say I'm educated or whatever, your standards have quietly went up alongside your education and income increase.
	Yeah, but not disproportionately, if that makes sense.
	For example, I have a master's.
	I don't need a man with a master's.
	I don't even need a man with a college degree.
	But that's why I said income.
	Yeah, but you can have...
	Oh, okay.
	So, regardless...
	Yeah, yeah, yeah.
	Regardless of the income...
	Yeah.
	Like, I mean, you might not care if he's educated, maybe he's an entrepreneur, but your requirements have gone along...
	have went up alongside.
	Yeah, nothing too crazy.
	So, for example, I grew up pretty, like, middle...
	upper middle class my whole life.
	So, for me, naturally, you don't need to be a millionaire.
	You don't need to be making $500,000.
	But I would overall like somebody who makes, I would say...
	100 grand?
	100 grand at least.
	A comparable amount to you?
	Exactly.
	Especially in Miami too.
	It's very hard to live without under.
	You can live 70, 80k or whatever, but I don't want to be thinking of me and you are in a partnership and it's hard for us to do certain things.
	Yeah, but you do realize that wanting $100,000 a year puts you in a very small pool, dating pool of men.
	So I would say...
	Even though it might not be representative of Miami, it's still a very small percentage of men.
	Yeah, 100%.
	And the men that earn that kind of money typically don't want to settle down.
	So I will say this.
	Number one, I think it depends on, like you said, the geographical area that you're in.
	But also, I'm very open with a lot of things, in a sense, race-wise.
	So if there's not men here, I go to Jamaica.
	I go to Cuba.
	I go to...
	I've been to Cuba by the way.
	I've been to Cuba by the way.
	I love it.
	She's a passport, bro.
	She got sanctions on Cuba.
	She's a passport, bro.
	All right.
	Cuba Missile Crisis.
	All right.
	But sorry.
	Okay.
	So you were saying...
	Okay.
	So income, yes.
	It's maybe a little more limited because it's a minimum 100K. But I think for me, offsets it.
	I'm very open with race and geographical area.
	You're the Indian guy?
	Yeah, 100%.
	Why not?
	Durga, durga, durga.
	The guy that owns a 7-Eleven?
	Thank you.
	Come again.
	Come on, man.
	I don't get a profile of Indian guys.
	I don't think they like me like that.
	A couple, but they're more like Guyanese or like Caribbean Indians.
	I'm talking about Patel.
	Patel's cute, then what's up?
	But I don't think they like me that much.
	No, they like you.
	Trust me.
	Okay.
	What about would you take Ling Ling?
	Would you take him?
	Shitty chicken.
	I'm open.
	Shitty look.
	Shrimp dick.
	May love you long term.
	as long as he can cook some shrimp would you?
	I would have dated well I went a couple days with this Asian guy but I don't care Did he smash?
	No, he didn't smash.
	Do they have small dicks?
	She didn't smash.
	She don't know.
	She doesn't know.
	He wasn't giving me big, big energy, but I don't really care for bigger sizes.
	I don't care.
	Would you date Asian Jamaican?
	100%, yeah.
	He's Jamaican.
	Like, overall...
	Like, in Jamaica, you could be white, you could be Indian, you could be anything.
	So, for me, it's like, I don't really care about race.
	I like your hat.
	Stop the cap!
	Just randomly.
	Yeah, okay.
	So, but what I'm saying is, though, you still want a guy that makes a certain amount of money, though, right?
	100,000?
	I would prefer.
	If he makes 90, I'm not going to kill him.
	I'm 23.
	Like, I have my own money.
	You know, like, I don't care.
	Okay.
	Would you date a guy that makes 50?
	Nah, I couldn't do it at this age.
	No?
	That's the average man's salary typically.
	Oh, I know.
	37 to 50, 5 foot 8.
	Would you date that?
	At 50K? Yeah.
	37 to 50k, 5'6 to 5'8 is the average man?
	No.
	So you want a man that's above that?
	Yeah.
	Are you willing to share them?
	Are you willing to share them?
	Like you smashed other chicks?
	Overall, no.
	I don't want you to have any affairs.
	Does that make sense?
	Is it an affair if you know about it though?
	Hell no.
	If I don't know about it, it can't bother me, right?
	So I don't know about it.
	So you'd rather just not know.
	Okay, how are we with this?
	Shimara Winans.
	I don't want to know.
	If you play me, keep it on the low.
	Cause my heart can't take it anymore.
	So you want to be on that type of vibe.
	You don't want to know nothing.
	Poor viewers.
	Personally, I would leave you if you have your couple indiscretions, as long as I don't know about it.
	But if you make the thing of like, you're just habitually just like cheating on me and like, that's different.
	If you have a voice now and something happens, I don't know about that.
	I'm not going to go.
	I don't go looking.
	I feel like I don't need to find out.
	That's what she says now.
	I don't, listen.
	A man can have his phone open.
	I won't look.
	I don't care.
	I don't want to ruin my day.
	I'm good.
	That temptation going at you, though.
	Fair enough.
	No, I promise you.
	I'm a look away.
	We got quite a few chats here.
	Oh, we still got more?
	Okay.
	And yo, guys, we already got almost 10,000 of y'all watching on YouTube alone.
	So guys, do me a quick favor.
	Like the video, man.
	Get the engagement up.
	This is a good panel of ladies here actually having some thoughtful discussions.
	Yeah, they're cool.
	Okay.
	Ladies, what's the most important thing your father or male family member taught you?
	Let's read some of these because we got a lot.
	We got at least 45, 46.
	That's a long time.
	Oh, shit.
	Actually, I like this whole start thing.
	Okay.
	This one's a good question.
	I'm going to save this one.
	Because we asked Miss Albania, but we didn't ask the other girls.
	Blackwolf Inc goes, ladies, do you honestly believe you have guy friends?
	If, yes, say he asks you to help him hook up with a girl he liked, would you help him out or would you refuse?
	If you would help, what would you do?
	Okay, keep that one on the side as well.
	And then, guys, from this point forward, Chris, call it.
	50 and up.
	50 and up from this point forward?
	Alright, cool.
	Blackest Panther goes, ladies, should a father, if a woman has one in her life, have an influence on who his daughter dates?
	If the father doesn't like the guy, should have a right to veto his daughter's decision?
	Okay.
	Fresh, can you read some of these?
	Fresh's balls.
	Okay.
	He says, we better be clapping cheese on Monday, Fresh.
	Me and Fresh's BBC gotta eat.
	We expect two baddies.
	Bro, chill out, man.
	Who is this person?
	Hector Delgado says, do you agree with the modern feminist movement?
	Do or don't.
	Why?
	We can do that one, maybe.
	Jake K says, name three countries outside the U.S., Mexico, or Canada.
	We could do that one, but I feel like you guys are going to know that one.
	And it's only $5.
	They should be like, if you send it in for $50.
	Okay, we got, again, fresh balls.
	Okay, cool.
	Uh, La Mirage Nuke says NBA player Cam Thomas got fined 40k for saying no homo in a post-game interview.
	Thoughts?
	Yeah, you saw that?
	Uh, no, I didn't.
	He just said no homo and they fined him.
	I mean, bro, this is the world that we're in, bro.
	Like, this is just how it is.
	You know what I mean?
	40k?
	You just can't say certain things.
	If you say anything about the alphabet community, uh...
	Them boys from that certain part of the world, if you know what I'm saying, y'all know who I'm talking about.
	They're going to try to silence you, bro.
	So it is what it is.
	It's an agenda.
	Ladies, would you prefer the man of your dreams to approach you in person or sliding your DMs?
	Real quick, would you prefer, in person or DMs?
	In person.
	Why?
	I don't know.
	It's more like natural.
	Like, why DMs?
	I don't know.
	I'd rather know them.
	How'd you meet Tampa?
	Through a mutual friend.
	Okay.
	Referral code.
	Not surprised.
	Social circle game is how most guys meet their girls anyway.
	Powerful.
	Yeah.
	I would prefer in person or by chance meeting just because I don't believe that social media connections are really any real.
	You don't believe in Wi-Fi?
	Damn!
	Definitely in person.
	You have a real conversation and you get a feel for the person better over than a random DM where they're saying some corny shit.
	You have a pretty nice eyes.
	Thank you.
	Just kidding I'd say in person I like the interaction of like, you know, a man approaching a woman and the confidence behind it.
	So I'd say in person.
	Bad man thing.
	I say in person because men are very cringy in the DM. Yeah, they are.
	And it's just like, I agree.
	Give us two examples of cringe.
	Oh, like, I mean, let me fly you out and shit like that.
	Like, ew.
	Or the consistent random calling.
	Or the consistent random calling.
	The random calling on Instagram?
	They'll spam your phone.
	Yeah, the random, like, pictures, the random Instagram.
	Look at people.
	Everything.
	On IG? Yes.
	These people.
	I've had a man send me a singing video.
	You can call him on stock.
	No.
	But it'll just show up in your feed.
	Yeah, it's too much.
	You know why?
	I was going to say, what the hell are they talking about?
	You have a blue check.
	They can't call you unless you follow them.
	The worst part is, if you open it one time, it can call you nonstop unless you block them.
	So y'all just get rent?
	They just call you rent?
	Yes.
	That sucks.
	And a lot of times.
	They start spamming you with a whole Jesus shit.
	Why are you not picking up?
	I want to take you on a date.
	Send me money.
	I might entertain it.
	That's actually really good.
	Could you imagine if you weren't verified?
	It's good and bad.
	You gotta follow each other to be able to do it.
	Connect in real life.
	That's your FaceTime.
	Yeah.
	You gotta send a number.
	Okay.
	Yeah, that's why I knew you could do it now.
	Alright.
	What about you?
	In person or DM? In person.
	Why?
	I just...
	I need a feel for the person.
	Like, I can't just do...
	I mean, on my Instagram, I'm always ignoring people, so...
	I'm in love with a stripper.
	Yeah, I barely go through DMs.
	I'm not a stripper no more.
	I'm just kidding.
	I'm a single mother.
	I'm just kidding.
	What about you?
	In person.
	In person?
	Why?
	It shows that the guy really wants to know you and that he's...
	I'm looking for the word in French.
	I don't have it in English, but...
	Oui, oui.
	What if the guy's your dream guy, right?
	And he's not...
	Well, how do I know if he's my dream guy?
	I can see him in person.
	He might be in France just saying, oui, oui, mademoiselle.
	No, I want to meet him in person.
	Just to see how genuine he is and stuff.
	Okay.
	Alright.
	Next one, Chris.
	Okay.
	I'm looking at some of these questions right now.
	Ricky Rivera, I love what you guys do.
	You guys motivated me to improve my life, started hitting the gym, and I'm down 30 pounds, still got a long way to go.
	I'm still waiting on that video on credit cards.
	Want to get more info on that.
	Yeah, no, absolutely, guys.
	We've just been having guests come in.
	Obviously, we had Chris Crone.
	You guys are going to get value from that, so we're like, yo, let's bring him in.
	Watch all of us.
	Watch the old ones until we drop the new credit card episodes for y'all.
	Don't worry.
	We're going to give you guys an updated 2023 version of how to get your credit on point and the best credit cards to get.
	We'll give you one on money, one on travel, one on overall benefits, etc.
	What do we got here?
	Cholo goes, what do you think of an adult woman who was married?
	Should she be taken seriously?
	It depends on how the marriage ended and how she was in that relationship.
	What else we got here?
	Elveden Milk Kick?
	Money Monday question.
	When starting a YouTube channel, should I immediately get an EIN slash business account credit card or until there's some progress on the channel to get that put together?
	Wait, bro.
	Yeah, wait a bit until you actually start making revenue.
	Imagine you get all that stuff and you're not making no money.
	Exactly.
	Jamel Black, 20 bucks.
	Ladies, what is the best way for your guy that you're dating could tell you that your box smells?
	Okay, we'll hold that one on the side.
	I mean, just throw her in the shower.
	Let's go shower.
	Let's go shower, babe.
	Do you know how to shower?
	No, don't even ask no questions.
	Just come shower.
	Great tip by Icy there.
	Great podcast.
	Evan, I've just wanted to say I don't make six figures yet, but wanted to let the bums know that even without being a millionaire or a six-figure earner, I'm able to maintain a family with two kids and a stay-at-home fiancé.
	Okay, bro.
	Yeah, you can absolutely do it, my friend.
	You can absolutely do it.
	Good stuff.
	Antonio goes, my boys, Myron Fresh, Chris, this is a promise to myself to give back to you for and reaching $1 million.
	I sent one super chat in the premiere with Sneeko because my sleepy ass mind thought it was live.
	Keep grinding and keep the amazing...
	I remember you said that you were going to...
	Yo, man, y'all don't have to donate a dollar to the show, bro.
	The only thing I ask you guys to do is like the video and subscribe to Fresh If It Clips.
	And go to Rumble.
	Yeah, go to Rumble as well, because we...
	Who knows?
	Our day is coming, bro.
	And take the advice they give.
	Yeah, take the advice we give, man.
	We just watch out to improve your life, man.
	That's really what it comes down to.
	I get the most satisfaction from that.
	Pause.
	Rose, 100 bucks.
	Hello, I'm a 19-year-old female.
	There is a guy at work that I like, 25.
	How do I let him know I like him without coming off As assertive 304.
	Or should I just wait for him to approach?
	Also, I used to think like feminists, but my brother showed me FNF, changed my thinking, keep up the good work.
	Alright, Rose, this is what you do.
	You're going to walk by and you're going to accidentally bump him and then drop a bunch of shit and have him help and then strike up a conversation.
	Let him see your butt.
	You need to be in his environment and make it so...
	What's the word?
	Make it so where, like, that interaction is kind of like you talking to him about either, for example, a mistake, like you said earlier, you bump into him, you drop something, or, for example, hey, I need your help, can you help me with this?
	Yeah, exactly.
	What was that, Chris?
	Rom-com.
	And the reason why I say that, it's cliche, like you walk into him and drop your books, is because it's going to put him in a position where, oh, let me help you.
	And guys like to feel like they're needed.
	And then you strike up a conversation, give him a small compliment, like, oh, I like your shirt or some shit like that.
	Thank you so much for helping me.
	And if he likes you, he'll put a step forward.
	And then he'll continue the conversation.
	And that way you're able to kind of, you know, Get an interaction going, right?
	Play to his male characteristics of him wanting to help you, etc.
	You give him a very small compliment, right?
	Don't let his ego get too big.
	And let him do talking from there.
	Yeah.
	And then if he doesn't reciprocate or whatever, hey, he just don't like you, nigga.
	Sorry.
	Find somebody else.
	Was her mom's boyfriend Bill Gates?
	Yikes.
	Who?
	What?
	I don't know, bro.
	We did talk about Bill Gates on the episode yesterday, though, with Gonzalo Lira, and we talked about them boys, if you know what I'm saying.
	Them boys!
	Them boys, okay?
	I just hit the sound effects.
	Y'all know what I'm talking about.
	Me, Mario!
	No, not the Italians.
	I know.
	Dio, dominating goes, ladies, if your man is okay with you showing your body online for random, since you aren't smashing, then you're also okay with him paying random girls' bills as long as he doesn't smash them either?
	Who is he talking to?
	I think he's in general.
	Yeah, he's asking, would you be okay with your man saying, okay, you could put your body online as long as I could pay random girls' bills.
	As long as I don't pay them.
	He's trying to draw an analogy there.
	Okay.
	We got you, brother.
	We got you.
	Question for Miss CU. Is that CU? Have you ever been to the town where Desi Arnaz was born?
	Is there any tributes or museums there or tours there?
	Also, do you know the history of USS Maine?
	Who's that?
	Does that mean Cuba?
	I think it's Cuba, yeah.
	She's like, what?
	I'm from Hialeah.
	I'm from Hialeah.
	What are you talking about?
	USS Maine.
	What is that?
	Like, that's a...
	Is that a...
	Ask me about, like, a Palacio Lujo or something.
	Yeah.
	Or Los Ranchos.
	Or Westland Mall.
	Or La Carreta.
	Raised pizza.
	Or the Fritangas.
	You're going to Fritanga, that was Nicaragua.
	But that's not Hialeah.
	I used to live in Hialeah.
	There was one in Hialeah.
	Right by the...
	I'm saying too much on camera.
	Anyhow.
	She really said the palace of eggs, bro.
	Yo, what the fuck, bro?
	It's like a buffet.
	Oh, whatever.
	Yo, this just went from fresh and fit to fucking Cuban TV. Heyme.com.
	Donovan, question for the ladies.
	If your man whom you love and a woman who is a complete stranger are on board a crashing plane where there is only one parachute available, what should you do?
	Take it for himself or be a gentleman?
	I think I know what they're going to say.
	Should you give the parachute to the random girl and be a gentleman or say, fuck that bitch or come home to you?
	Okay, they're all safe.
	Why do you care about another girl?
	Oh, shit.
	Eskos, would you break up with your man if he tells you he was great by another man in the past?
	No.
	What the hell?
	It's all five bucks in the way, so...
	This podcast has helped me feel that I was not incorrect on how I treat my fiancee once I started telling her more of why I was always ready to break up with her and help our relationship getting married on the 12th year.
	Don't get married, bro.
	Don't get married, bro.
	If you're going to get married, just make sure the state ain't involved.
	You can marry her like, oh, you're my wife and shit, but don't get the state involved, bro.
	Don't do it.
	It ain't worth it.
	Three diglets.
	Ladies, what's the one zodiac sign you stay away from and what?
	Can we answer this?
	Alright, fine.
	He probably has a follow-up to this.
	Quickly.
	I don't believe in the soldier excellence.
	Really?
	No.
	No.
	Sorry.
	I missed the list.
	I missed the list.
	Good job.
	All right.
	Stop it, Icy.
	Stop it.
	All right.
	Icy, what sign?
	Virgo?
	Virgo.
	Why?
	Who hurt you?
	The faggot.
	Oh, I'm not supposed to say that.
	I'm sorry.
	Okay, I'll say it again.
	Stupid.
	Stupid.
	Yo, what the heck?
	Okay, okay, okay, okay.
	Giggity.
	She's snorting, hold on.
	Yo, put L.I.s in the chat.
	Yo, L.I.s in the chat.
	I hope you said that for me.
	Okay.
	Fantastic.
	One thing that you...
	I truly hate, like, to be honest, Geminis.
	What?
	You're just so bad.
	You're sitting right next to one.
	Me too!
	I'm even in a boy.
	Oh, I understand.
	Where girls, like, you know.
	Yeah.
	Like, I don't really, like, I don't really know too much about it, but, like, I don't know my experience.
	What do you mean you don't know about it?
	And my experience with, like, people that are Geminis, like, I always ask because it's, like, I don't believe in it, but there's some stuff that are kind of true.
	What are you?
	I'm a Leo.
	Yeah.
	Oh, that makes sense.
	So you believe some things that you don't know about that you think might be true, you assume from somebody that you just met?
	No.
	No, because when it says about the signs, some stuff do be true about the characteristics of a person.
	Yeah, but not everything.
	Not everything.
	That's what I'm saying.
	I'm kind of like 50-50 on it.
	But if I were to choose, it would be Gemini because a lot of...
	Two-Face?
	Yeah, very.
	But the men, and they're cheaters.
	They're hot and cold.
	Get some help.
	They're very direct.
	Get some help.
	Get some milk.
	I don't really factor into consideration when I date men.
	I don't really care what month you're born.
	So, I don't care.
	Okay.
	Yeah, zodiac signs are...
	There's no point.
	It's hilarious.
	Your birthday does not matter.
	Okay.
	I know there's one.
	Go ahead and say it.
	So I wouldn't say I stay away from, but I have like this weird dynamic with Scorpios.
	Scorpios?
	And it just becomes like an obsessive, real sexual thing.
	And it's just, it's scrumptious, but it's so toxic.
	Oh, wow.
	So are you saying like your past people you've been with were Scorpios and it led to like, I guess, a toxic setup?
	Yes, but I wouldn't say all of them.
	It's just kind of like a pattern that I see.
	A coincidence?
	Yeah.
	Get some help.
	What about you?
	Yeah, I don't really do zodiac signs.
	I don't really care.
	I don't believe in it, really.
	What sign is that for?
	Sagittarius.
	Oh, so you do know?
	I know.
	Yeah, like, I know what people are, like, what I am, but I'm not really, like, deep into it, like, how some people are.
	Let's see how compatible we are.
	Yeah, or, like, this is my rising, my, like, what?
	So complicated.
	Yeah, it's just pointless.
	Get some help, too, as well.
	All right.
	Some of my chats here, Chris?
	Yep.
	Cool.
	Mason Van Meter says, how do smaller YouTubers and entrepreneurs connect with guys like yourselves?
	Just following your show after a year, and I have to make my own content related to these topics discussed.
	Just wanted to show support.
	Honestly, bro, Instagram.
	You send a DM, you add some value, you network, and hopefully we respond, or you come to one of our events, meet us in person, say, hey, here's what I do, bro, and then we talk from there.
	But that's how you would do it for the most part.
	CryptoDragon, 100 bucks.
	Shout out to you.
	Shout out to FNF. My father died when I was young, so I didn't have any male guidance.
	Your show helped me realize why I was cheated on in my past relationships.
	I now own a trucking business, earning six figures, heavily invested in crypto, and bought a 400k house last year and the gym.
	Shout out to you, bro, for doing well for yourself and coming up on that.
	Shout out to you.
	Tank, you remember?
	And then my new York broker says, ladies, how long do you think it would typically take for a man to become bored sleeping with just one woman when in a relationship?
	Do you think it's avoidable?
	That's actually not a bad question.
	And I wrote down some of the other ones too, guys.
	Don't worry, I didn't forget y'all about the, you know, advice and stuff like that.
	Okay, we can start right here, Miss Quebec.
	So how long would it take for a man to get bored with one girl, you think?
	Like yourself?
	I think if the girl gives enough sex, he can stay with her all her life.
	You think so?
	Yeah.
	You think you won't get bored?
	No, I don't think so.
	We can go freaky and do it all over wherever you want.
	Okay, so let me ask you this.
	After you and your guy, right?
	You guys have fun, whatever.
	Yeah.
	And the little milk comes out, right?
	You don't get bored?
	No.
	You don't get tired?
	No, we wait 30 minutes to do it.
	Every day.
	Yeah.
	I don't mind.
	Five times a week.
	For a year.
	You eat the same meal.
	No, I wouldn't.
	He would get bored.
	I don't think so.
	I'm telling you he'd get bored.
	You don't think he would get bored.
	You want to get bored, but you don't think he would.
	I wouldn't get bored and he wouldn't get bored.
	Same positions, the same feeling.
	There's so many positions, so many places to do it.
	For a whole year?
	Well, she was a virgin and he took it away, so that's all she knows.
	Okay, okay.
	What about you?
	Keep it a thousand, Icy.
	I won't be honest with you.
	Probably after the third time he fucks us.
	Like, he's already used to you.
	He knows how you feel.
	He knows how you smell.
	He knows how, you know, they...
	I don't think...
	No, no, no.
	I'm not saying your relationship.
	So let's take this into a generality.
	I'm not attacking your relationship.
	I want to make that clear.
	Your relationship's your relationship.
	Y'all can fuck each other to the other time.
	Oh, no, he bored, bro.
	Sorry.
	I'm gonna get the reality check here in a second, but continue on.
	But continue.
	But anyways, I believe by the third time, he knows your body, he knows how you are, he knows how to, you know?
	It's really that soon?
	So, pull that question back up one more time, Chris.
	Listen, guys, if a guy is highly, like, if he has a big body count, for an example, because we don't necessarily ask our guys, do you have a body count?
	We just know that they have experience because of how they fuck us.
	So...
	In a sense, if he's been around a lot of females, you're nothing new to him.
	You're really not.
	So do you think it's avoidable that he'll get bored?
	It's not avoidable.
	You either join in on the fun or you stay at home.
	You choose which side you want to be on.
	Okay.
	What about you, Hylia?
	How long do you think it'll take for a guy to get bored?
	And then do you think it's avoidable for him to get bored?
	Damn, bro.
	Is that they get bored so fucking fast?
	It's so funny.
	Guys are just everywhere.
	They just want everybody.
	You seem very boring yourself.
	Can you tell us how many times they smash to get bored and then is it avoidable?
	Go ahead.
	Probably like...
	Two times.
	Bro, I don't know.
	Probably even the first time.
	They just want everybody and everybody.
	Is it avoidable for them to get bored then?
	It's not.
	Okay, it's not avoidable.
	Okay, what about you, Miss Jamaica?
	So, quick question.
	When you say bored, what aspect?
	Like, physical, overall?
	Like, can you clarify that part?
	We'll say bored as in sleeping with one girl as in, like, they want variety.
	How long do you think it takes them to get bored?
	And then, do you think it's avoidable?
	I don't think it's avoidable.
	I think people overall get bored after some time.
	If I'm with you for 10-15 years, I feel like I'm going to get bored.
	It doesn't mean to go find somebody else.
	It just means this is what I'm used to.
	10-15 years?
	No, I'm just saying, for example, people have been together for long term.
	You're bound to at some point be like, damn, I'm tired of you.
	We're asking the men, though.
	Do you think men get bored?
	Yeah, 100%.
	How long do you think it takes them to get bored?
	Oh, boy.
	I can't give her a general answer.
	If you're going to assume.
	If I'm going to assume, okay.
	Is it three smashes?
	Is it one smash?
	Like she said, is it a hundred smashes?
	Is it a year together?
	I think it's more.
	So maybe like long term after a year or a couple, whatever.
	Okay.
	And then is it avoidable?
	Assuming that you're not like clingy and like you both have your separate lives is what I'm saying.
	Do you think it's avoidable?
	It's not avoidable.
	It's just a part of life.
	What about you?
	Long term, we probably will get bored, but If he's making...
	The only way he could be avoidable is if he makes a choice to not get bored.
	Meaning, like, not be promiscuous and sleep with other women.
	But wouldn't it be fair to say that it's not really...
	I mean, if he gets bored, he gets bored.
	It's not really his choice.
	Yeah, so it's just boredom.
	It's probably bound to happen.
	Okay, so you think it's unavoidable that he'll be bored?
	Yeah, I guess.
	After how long do you think?
	Probably long term.
	So like if you're in a relationship for a couple years.
	A year?
	Oh, a couple years?
	Yeah.
	What about you, Red?
	I think it's not avoidable.
	And I mean, I believe when people get into relationships, there's that maybe three months of being all caught up in each other.
	But I'd say after probably two, three times, the man's going to want other options.
	He's just going to keep himself loyal because he feels that strong connection to you.
	Or just sell the dream to you.
	After three, four months, that's it.
	You can guarantee he's going to go try to find something else.
	I think every guy would.
	No, I don't think so.
	Maybe that 1%, but we're talking about general here.
	I'm about to drop the bombshell after this.
	Alright, what about you?
	How long do you think men take to get bored in a relationship sexually, and then is it avoidable in general?
	How long?
	Maybe...
	Four months.
	How do you even remember that?
	I don't forget.
	Maybe like a year.
	Is it avoidable?
	I don't think it is.
	Okay.
	So I'll just say this.
	Ladies, men are always going to get bored of you at some point sexually because men want variety.
	It's ingrained in us.
	We always want other girls.
	Whether we enact on it or not, there's two different things.
	But men always want a variety of women.
	I mean, you go into a nightclub, you look in a VIP, there's a bunch of different girls, skin colors, hair, etc.
	Go to music video.
	Women, they're different skin colors, et cetera.
	When men have the ability to have other women, they will always get a variety of different women.
	This is why guys will have one Asian girl, one black girl, one white girl, et cetera.
	And unfortunately, you can't fulfill all those things no matter how many costumes you have.
	So what I tell girls is knowing that men typically want variety, you should probably get ahead of the curve and understand that at some point he's either going to A, cheat on you, or B, you can get ahead of the curve and accept the fact that he's going to want to have other women and you can get involved.
	Maybe set up a threesome here or there.
	Maybe you say, hey, you know, explore your options, but just wear a condom, be safe.
	But I think it's best for women to kind of understand that it's going to come at some point where he's going to get tired of just you because men want variety and sex.
	And if you don't believe me, even the most faithful guy watches porn.
	Facts.
	Anything?
	Anybody?
	Ms.
	Quebec, I know you probably have something to say.
	We probably both have something to say.
	I mean, I'm guessing, are your parents together as well?
	And it was like a long-term happy marriage.
	So we both had examples of a guy who didn't cheat.
	By the way, your parents and your grandparents were in a different time.
	These times are not the same.
	Social media has impacted all of us.
	I know that.
	But I think when you really love someone, you don't want to go look like...
	For a girl, that makes sense, but for a guy...
	Men are different.
	Maybe other relationships, I don't know.
	Let me tell you how men think.
	My main girl, she's who I love, but I can go out and have sex with other women.
	You can't do that because you're a woman.
	Once you have sex with a guy, you're emotionally tied to that man.
	Men don't think that way.
	For us, it's like taking a piss.
	I can see the gears in your brain turning because it's very difficult for you to understand.
	Because you wouldn't have sex with another guy because you love your man and you look at it like that's betrayal.
	But for men, it's not the same way because we're not emotionally tied to a woman when we have sex with her.
	You have your girl that you care about and then there's other girls that just help you bust a nut.
	I promise you, your boyfriend watches porn.
	I promise you, he either watches porn or he looks at other girls or whatever it is because men want variety.
	He just won't tell you this because it'll probably hurt your feelings.
	I mean, your reaction right now kind of selling.
	And then I know you guys said you came from two parent households and you saw your dad and you never saw him cheat or whatever, but what you see versus what happens are two different things.
	Yep.
	Well, if they're working all day and then come home every night, you know what's happening.
	Nah, you don't know that.
	You don't know that.
	A lot of times parents protect their children.
	Lunch break?
	I think boredom is quite normal.
	Is boredom seen as something bad?
	No, but imagine this.
	Like, you're partnering you, right?
	You guys have sex.
	At some point, that boredom is gonna affect either you or him.
	It's gonna start being less sex.
	Yeah, less sex or toys or maybe, like, outside help.
	You never know.
	To be honest, it's better that he's bored than you.
	If you're bored, you're gonna end the relationship.
	Yeah.
	The worst thing you could do is bore a woman.
	She'll end the relationship.
	But if you bore a guy, he'll be like, alright, she's boring, but you know what?
	She's stable.
	She don't give me a headache.
	Cool.
	I'll go fuck another random hoe and come back to my girl.
	Girls just want to have fun.
	It's not.
	You see it.
	She can't take it.
	I think it depends on the guy.
	If you're looking at a multi-millionaire who has endless options, obviously he's going to enact upon them.
	Andrew.
	It's okay.
	Can't do it.
	I have a question.
	Oh, damn.
	Okay.
	She just accepted it.
	Nice.
	You're talking about Andrew Tate.
	Obviously he's going to exercise his options.
	So wait.
	So if your guy came to you tomorrow and said, baby, I want to have other girls, would you be okay with it?
	I wouldn't, but what can I do?
	We got one!
	Hey man, I'm just preparing you for that conversation.
	It's gonna come down the road.
	It doesn't happen to everyone.
	I think guys make a conscious choice to not hurt their girlfriend or wife.
	So would you rather know the truth or a lie?
	No, I mean the truth is a guy would want to, but if he does it, it's a different thing.
	Well, here's the thing.
	What I've come to realize and what I've noticed is that most men are monogamous by necessity.
	What I mean by this is that they have a girl and they won't cheat on her because, or they'll just do their best to not get caught because they don't have the value or the ability or the frame to be able to dictate terms on that level.
	I get that.
	So what I'm simply telling you is that it's easy.
	I'm telling you it's raining outside and I'm giving you an umbrella.
	If you choose to not take the umbrella, whose fault is it if you get wet?
	Mine.
	I'm telling you, take the umbrella.
	So just expect every guy to cheat no matter what.
	That's what I would say.
	It's a possibility.
	And I talk about this in my book in detail.
	I know, it's different for men and women.
	The male sex drive is so incredibly strong that women would never be able to fathom it.
	And that's why women have such a difficult time when I tell them Guys want to have sex with other girls because the male sex drive is that powerful.
	I mean, everything you guys see that's built, it was built by men, right?
	For the pursuit of creating comfort, creating society.
	But it was all built on the backs of sex.
	Men have always traded resources for sex.
	That's how it's been.
	Because there's a great impetus and a proclivity for men to go out there and create something and become somebody for the ability to make.
	That's what we're put on earth to do.
	So, men mate by creating resources and acquiring status and currency.
	Women mate by staying youthful, beautiful, and protecting their chastity.
	That's how it's been since the beginning of time.
	The world you guys enjoy right now, the first world that we live in that we enjoy, has been built by men, not by women.
	Why?
	Because women don't have a natural inkling to create.
	Because all you guys are really looked at to create is children, not society.
	Oh, I agree with that.
	So, the male sex drive is the reason why we enjoy the first world benefits that we have.
	You know, and I talk about this in detail in the book, Why Women Desire Less, coming very soon, guys.
	February 14th.
	But this is why I tell girls, instead of sitting there in delusion, like, la, la, la, la, la, no guy's gonna cheat on me, except the fact that most men are monogamous by necessity, and it's better for you to get out in front of it, and just know, at some point, he's gonna fuck another bitch, whether he does it overtly or covertly.
	I mean...
	And, oh, well, there's that 1% that won't cheat.
	Cool.
	There's that 1%.
	But if I told you to jump out of a plane with a 9% chance, the parachute won't deploy, would you jump out?
	You wouldn't.
	So why would you hope for a guy to not cheat and hurt your feelings?
	And he could be broke, too, and still cheat.
	Yeah.
	So you might as well just find a guy that's worth accepting of cheating from.
	But when it comes to your big brothers, do you see how they go around women or how they handle that?
	Yeah.
	One of my brothers is in a committed relationship.
	Okay.
	And I live with them, so I see everything.
	Well, have you noticed if, like, do they, are they very expressive verbally?
	Because the way I see men think is they see a woman and they decide, okay, I would fuck her or I would not fuck her.
	That's the first thought.
	What do you mean expressive verbally?
	Exactly that.
	Do they express what they think when they see women or when they deal with women around you?
	Yeah.
	I mean, I've definitely heard them talk about women.
	Okay.
	And express that.
	I mean, I know how guys think.
	Obviously, they want to sleep around with as many girls as they can.
	Not even just want, because obviously they want more girls than they can get.
	But I think guys can make the choice to not cheat.
	They can.
	They don't want to.
	But to be real, are they going to?
	Probably not.
	And I think it's easy for women to say that because privilege is invisible to those that have it.
	Like, women don't have to create their value.
	Men do.
	Well, women are given their value, yeah.
	Yeah.
	So if you're given your value, how can you dictate to someone how to spend their value when they have to create it?
	Well, I guess you can't.
	Which is why guys that have status and money go out and fuck girls.
	Yeah, but if you want to have a family with a guy and have children, you want there to be stability and not, like, get embarrassed by, or, like, hear about...
	Embarrassed by what?
	Well, like, him sleeping around with other women.
	Well, you can only be embarrassed if you don't know about it, correct?
	Facts.
	But if you know what's happening...
	And the girl tries to call you and say, hey, bitch, I had sex with your girl, with your man.
	And you say, oh, well, did he rub his back?
	He likes his egg made this way, etc.
	Thank you, man.
	You saved me some time.
	Oh, yeah.
	Obviously, you don't give her the satisfaction.
	I know what you mean.
	You know?
	But.
	As long as you keep the children out of it.
	I think it's hard for girls to understand that, obviously, because we're not men.
	And we're more emotional.
	And you guys think you're special, too.
	We prop women up in society and tell them that they're special and they deserve the world.
	Y'all don't deserve shit, to be honest.
	If I'll be honest...
	I don't agree with the yes queen stuff either because a lot of girls are not queens.
	A new book coming out.
	It comes out...
	I'm going to get a signed copy.
	I got you.
	Besides the funny title or whatever, I go into detail why guys shouldn't be simps, etc.
	and why they should only give women more that deserve it, that reciprocate that same value.
	But what I'm saying is that why so many women can't fathom cheating or infidelity or whatever is because we live in a society that props women up no matter how they behave.
	If a girl's fat, I don't think women should be propped up if they don't have the value that you said.
	You know how few women think like you?
	We've interviewed 1900 plus women at this point.
	You know how many times we've had a conversation this civil?
	I can count on maybe one or two hands where we've had a conversation this civil.
	Normally it's It's my pussy, nigga.
	We should go to Rumble.
	Yes, so I can say the F word.
	I haven't been on Rumble yet.
	Now we're going.
	All right, guys, do me a favor real quick.
	Switch on over.
	Guys, we're going to go over to Rumble right now, rumble.com slash FreshFit, and then we'll close out the show there.
	And yeah, also, before we leave YouTube, guys, check out the interview we did with Gonzalo Leary yesterday, man.
	Four hours plus.
	We talked about a whole bunch of different stuff.
	It's on Rumble fully, but it's also on YouTube partially.
	But go check it out in the timestamps there so you guys can see what you want to see.
	And then check us out on FreshFit Clips.
	We love you all.
	And all deleted videos will be on Rumble.
	Yes.
	If you don't find it on YouTube, it'll be on Rumble.
	It's going to be on Rumble.
	They have your tape videos, et cetera, because they're YouTuber haters, man.
	So, yeah.
	Come on over to Rumble, guys.
	Rumble.com slash FreshFit.
	I saw 10,000 of y'all over there, so we're going to have 20,000 plus live when you guys migrate over.
	FreshFit on Rumble.
	Rumble.com slash FreshFit.
	Let's go!
	Yep.
	All right.
	And we are live on Rumble.
	All right.
	Go ahead, ladies.
	- For fucking faggots!
	- Oh, no. - Yeah! - They're all a bit corrupted. - Just a little bit. - So many faggots in there. - So many good faggotry. - But yeah, so, like, you know, and kudos to you ladies for being fairly based and understanding our perspective.
	But I think the reason why so many girls can't take the cheating, like I said before, is because we really elevate women to a point where it's almost damn near delusion.
	And I'm not saying that men are special either.
	I would argue the opposite.
	Most guys are fucking useless and losers.
	But we don't necessarily hold women to that same standard, is my point.
	Is that we let women that are losers believe that they're winners versus men that are losers, we never tell them that they're winners.
	Deservedly so.
	I think you need to be told you're a loser.
	I think the whole participation trophy society that we live in is extremely destructive.
	And I think that's why we have so many guys that don't produce, that aren't out there working, that are leaving college, not becoming successful, not making money.
	Women are out-earning, men are in a lot of major cities.
	I'm not saying college is the main thing that guys need to strive for, but it is a pretty good predicator on if you're going to be able to be a higher earner later on in life.
	And I think a big part of that is because guys are getting soft.
	It's the agenda.
	No pun intended.
	Yeah.
	We got some more chats here.
	Okay, cool.
	Quite a few.
	Anything else, Chris?
	Yeah, hold on.
	All right.
	So you guys, get the Rumble rants in if you guys got questions.
	I think we got...
	I'll double check, but when I last looked at Rumble, we had 10,000.
	Y'all are probably going to start shooting up.
	Akum Street goes, first time catching this live.
	You're awesome.
	Thank you so much, Akum.
	Thank you, bro.
	Casual Germ goes, good to see Icy on the panel.
	Shout out to Discord gang.
	Shoot.
	Awesome.
	Frankie Baltimore.
	As a self-acclaimed traditional woman, would you stay with your man if he fell short of his traditional duties at some point in the marriage?
	Probably not, bro.
	Johnny Walker.
	How are female pop stars such as Beyonce, Megan, Cardi, etc., misleading young women today through to their music actions, etc.?
	Is that even a question?
	Or a statement?
	Yes, we know.
	It's not even a question.
	No, no.
	It's an obvious answer, though.
	It's obvious.
	Do you guys think Megan Thee Stallion, Cardi B, Beyonce, etc., do you think they're misleading women?
	Absolutely.
	They're misleading women, yeah.
	They're setting a wrong example.
	Who wants to tackle this first?
	I was going to say that I think they're setting a wrong example for women being openly, like they dress provocatively, act provocatively.
	They're setting a bad example for women overall.
	I mean, in my opinion, majority of these names up here are hypocrites.
	Beyonce's married.
	Cardi B's married.
	Supposedly Megan Thee Stallion is pregnant.
	The guy just left her, actually.
	Yeah, but still, she's supposedly pregnant at the end of the day.
	Whose baby is it?
	Jerry!
	I agree with you on that one.
	Is it Ben Simmons?
	Is it Tory?
	Okay.
	Find out next time on...
	Okay, what about you?
	I know you were saying something.
	Do you think that they're good role models for women?
	No, they don't.
	They're not.
	Why not?
	They sing really explicit things.
	Young kids, like actually kids, listen to their music and just grow up with the thoughts that that's how it's supposed to be.
	Cardi B doesn't even let her daughter listen to the music that she makes.
	How they dress up is like evil music, literally.
	Anyone else have anything that they wanted to add?
	Go ahead.
	I think that they sold themselves and what they represent, and it's just all for the money at that point, you know?
	You got some Columbia?
	Yeah, I agree that they're not good role models.
	Like, what they say in their songs, like...
	Do you think that there are any female celebrities that are good role models?
	That you can think of?
	Zendaya is not a bad one.
	That's a good one.
	Is that her from Spider-Man?
	Yeah.
	Wait, why do y'all say she is?
	She carries herself pretty feminine throughout interviews.
	She's not really out there like that.
	And she's managed by her parents, so they make sure that, you know, she's in line and she isn't over the place.
	I don't know too much about her, so I can't speak in an educated fashion.
	But that's the thing.
	She's seen, not heard.
	Exactly.
	You know what I'm saying.
	All right.
	What about you?
	Do you think Beyonce, Cardi B, Megan Thee Stallion are good role models for women?
	So I feel like we're putting roles on people that didn't sign up for these roles.
	So I feel like you need to know discernment.
	I don't think Cardi B ever woke up and said, I'm a role model.
	No.
	So for me, they're entertainers.
	Entertainers, they do the job perfectly.
	I listen to Cardi B or Beyonce for entertainment or for performance.
	So I don't look to them as role model and I don't think that they want to be role model.
	I think it's for their career.
	But see, you're smart enough to know that.
	A lot of people don't.
	Coming here, a lot of Americans, sorry to say, are not that smart.
	So they think like, oh, this is in the mainstream media, it's in music videos.
	I need to be the same way.
	But in reality speaking, they shouldn't.
	But you know.
	Let me ask you this then.
	Do you think as an entertainer that has an extremely large audience that it's a little bit of their duty to take some responsibility knowing that they have an enormous amount of influence to tailor their content in a way where it's more positive towards women that might look up to them?
	So I would say...
	Where's our content being broadcasted, right?
	It's on maybe YouTube or something.
	So I feel like if you're going to YouTube, which there's kids YouTube and there's adult YouTube.
	If you're on adult YouTube, where's the parents?
	So I feel like they're not blasting their...
	They're not trying to make their influence spill over into things like PBS Kids or trying to go to...
	I don't think they're trying to like...
	So you're putting onus on the parents, it sounds like to me.
	Yeah, pretty much.
	It's not the duty of the entertainer to curtail their content, regardless of how big their platform is.
	It's on the parents to keep the child away from it.
	Yeah, even same for you guys.
	Remember now, if a kid watches this, you shouldn't be on Rumble at this time of night watching this type of show.
	You're not going to go and modify your content, your business, looking out for somebody's child.
	That's up for the parent.
	I get what you're saying.
	When your goal is completely different.
	But the music is different.
	This music plays everywhere.
	Like in the car, in the radio, in shopping malls.
	It's up to the parents if they gotta turn that radio on.
	She's making a valid point.
	Continue on.
	Sorry.
	You were saying that it's played everywhere.
	So what else?
	So you're walking them all, you just need to shut the ears of your kid?
	Because it's playing...
	Business censored in public though?
	Exactly.
	And at the same time, if you tell your child don't watch porn, what's the first thing they're going to do?
	Watch porn.
	So it's like, you can't really...
	Sometimes it's all around us.
	We don't have like a...
	You can't control everything.
	And it's free.
	Exactly.
	But it's not even just kids.
	It's like women our age that are watching them, thinking it's okay to be like that.
	Okay.
	So then I just want to have one more final point.
	I feel like the responsibility is for the lawmakers.
	So if you have a problem with like, oh, you don't want to hear certain music in public, it's not Cardi B's responsibility.
	She's making money.
	Only person who can control that are the mall owners, operators, and maybe people who put those laws into place.
	So it's not my responsibility.
	Yeah, but legally they can't.
	First Amendment freedom of speech.
	Exactly.
	So that's protected.
	They can't even do it.
	Yeah, so that goes to further the point.
	Like, hey, I'm not going to stop how I make my money to please you.
	I feel like growing up, my parents taught me certain things.
	You just carve your ears.
	You go.
	You don't need to repeat.
	If I hear you curse, I don't need to curse.
	It's inappropriate.
	So I think it goes back to parenting.
	Okay.
	All right.
	Anybody else have anything they want to say?
	Well, I was gonna say the question said, are they misleading women?
	Yeah.
	So if you're thinking about what they're showing women and like how women should be, then they are misleading women.
	They're basically putting it out there that women should be promiscuous.
	They should dress provocatively and all these things.
	That is the definition of misleading women.
	I think it goes beyond...
	Also, too, with her saying that it's entertainment, what catches the eye, sex is the number one thing for anything to get sold.
	You know what I'm saying?
	You can't sit there and just be like, all right, go on stage and be all covered up.
	It doesn't work that way.
	There is.
	But are they making money?
	I just want to ask a question.
	I mean, look at Taylor Swift.
	Adele?
	She does other stuff.
	There's other things that follow into their revenue, but when I'm talking about hype, hype artists, especially as a female, they're mainly out there with their titties out, with their ass out, they twerk on stage.
	Because they're making money.
	That's still misleading.
	The average woman is not going to make money off of doing that.
	It's misleading because a lot of women are not meant to do that.
	Exactly.
	You know?
	Women aren't supposed to do that, period.
	I mean, you're supposed to do that in the bedroom for your man at the end of the day.
	You're not supposed to be a slut anywhere outside but the bedroom, so...
	Yeah, I mean, I see the perspectives here.
	You know, you're saying, hey, the onus is on the parents, which I could see, but then she's saying, well, hey, at the same time, it's being played everywhere.
	So, you know, at some point, how much can you parent, right?
	How much can you control?
	How much can you out-parent the toxic environment, right?
	And this is why places like Japan, etc.
	They go to great lengths to suppress certain things, right?
	But then you get into the, okay, well, are we impeding on people's freedom of speech?
	So there's many different variables here.
	And then, you know, actually saying, hey, well, you know, people want to...
	One of the easiest ways to monetize is using your sexuality.
	Then you guys are saying, well, there's ways to not do it, right?
	Taylor Swift and Adele are clean artists, which is true.
	But at the same time, it's like, okay, if you're not going to sexualize, your content's got to be banged up, like really good.
	And do most women have the talent to not sexualize and just utilize their God-given skills?
	Most can't, hence why they must sexualize.
	So there's many tricky points here where it just kind of sucks.
	And this is like a slippery slope type question.
	But yeah, I would say a lot of the women that have the most influence definitely mislead women.
	I would blame, I think Kim Kardashian has quite a bit of influence and she's probably corrupted a whole new generation to let them know that, hey, you know, you can make it by selling your sexuality given, you know, she would not make it in today's day and age, right?
	In 2006 when she released her sex tape, that was something novelty.
	That was like, whoa, what's going on here?
	Paris Hilton, you know, Pamela Anderson, all these women kind of blew up from sex tapes.
	But nowadays, if you have a sex tape as a celeb, no one cares.
	You can go on your OnlyFans.
	Yeah, it's been...
	People are desensitized to that now.
	But back then in the late 90s and the 2000s, that was something that was like, whoa, this is crazy.
	I could watch my favorite celeb chick at Bay.
	This is awesome.
	You know, with some shitty ass camcorder.
	But nowadays it's like, all right, who cares?
	Where's the 4K quality?
	Yeah, exactly.
	This is mid.
	Anyways, moving on.
	Question for ladies.
	Why do women prefer the Chad Tyrones, Rico Suaves in the 20s, but turn 30, they want average men?
	Is it that you went through your options and not feel the need to settle?
	Or do you develop a respect for average men when you get older?
	I mean...
	A lot of girls here are very young, bro, so they might not...
	I mean, I see you're the oldest one here, right?
	God damn it.
	Yeah.
	Am I? Yeah, I think you are.
	Yeah.
	I'm 27.
	Anybody else?
	No.
	All the girls here are in their early 20s.
	Can you answer this for him if you want?
	I mean, it's up to you.
	But I mean, Darnell, you should watch our podcast.
	You know how to answer this.
	You just want to hear from a female.
	Yeah, bro.
	But go ahead, I see if you want to answer it.
	I mean, God damn it, bro.
	I'm How can I say this?
	I appreciate an average man more than the one that's out there due to them really putting me as priority versus being just a comrag.
	Is that better?
	But do you like them deep down?
	Is that your first choice?
	No.
	It's never my first choice.
	I want to be with a winner.
	I don't want to be with a loser.
	There you go.
	I think I think in our 20s.
	I think in our 20s women are a little bit more on the delusional end.
	I think personally, of course, because we want to feel love.
	We want to feel you love me.
	Yes, exactly.
	You said women are more on the delusional end in their early 20s when their value is high.
	Yeah, like me personally, I do appreciate an average man, but me in that delusional state, I'm still going to aim for higher.
	You know you could get better.
	Exactly.
	So until you're 30 when you're, okay, we finally settled and we're like, okay.
	We gotta be realistic now.
	Am I gonna get what I wanted in my 20s or do I gotta settle for less?
	If you didn't get in your 20s, you're probably not gonna get in your 30s.
	You gotta settle for less.
	Would you say that social media has made women delusional?
	Absolutely.
	100%.
	What do you think is the biggest contributor to why women have unrealistic standards?
	Disney.
	Access.
	Disney.
	Nigga, you grew up on all these fairytale dreams.
	What are you talking about?
	That's true.
	And like the movies, you know, what is broadcasted to us, what we expect a man to do, and the notebook.
	You know what I mean?
	If you had to pick one thing that corrupted females and made them delusional, in general, not all, of course, but if you had to pick one, what would you say would be?
	Filters.
	Filters.
	I like that one.
	Now when you say filters, can you give us a little bit of context in that?
	Filters in what way?
	Okay, so we could say it's social media, but when filters came around, girls started to view themselves through that lens.
	A little bit higher, yeah.
	Exactly.
	So we think, because we view ourselves that way, that other people should as well.
	And it just, it leads into like a...
	That's a very interesting...
	I never thought about that, but that's a very interesting point.
	So you're saying it's not even the social media.
	It's the pictures that are posted on social media through the lens of apps that allow women to increase their beauty significantly.
	And they see themselves as that individual in that picture getting 100,000 likes.
	Not the girl that had to take three hours to edit the photo.
	Exactly.
	Okay.
	Good point, right?
	Damn.
	Okay.
	What about you?
	You said access.
	Yeah.
	Go into that more, please.
	Meaning, like, obviously on social media, if a girl is putting up all those pictures, whatever, they're getting a ton of DMs.
	So they're always thinking, oh, I could do better.
	Yeah, I could do better.
	They're looking at the next step.
	They're not ready to settle down.
	Okay.
	Or pick the guy who will fulfill your needs, I guess, in that sense.
	Okay.
	Anyone else want to add to that?
	I was talking about the second girl from Fresh Friends Stepdad getting with that 13-year-old.
	I remember he had sent something in and we were like, who?
	I don't remember what it was.
	Because it was Mrs.
	CU. Santana Nice goes, man, I've been waiting for my fiance for 10 years now and I feel like she is almost worthy of carrying my last name.
	Please do a short video of how to get married without involving the government.
	I got two years to plan this out right.
	We have two kids, so it's time.
	Bro, it's simple, man.
	Okay, let's say you're Muslim.
	You just go to the mosque and get married and don't involve the state.
	Can you tell us the Christian way?
	Yeah, same thing.
	You go to church, the priest ordains you, and you're good.
	You don't need to involve the state.
	I'm not telling you not to marry her, bro.
	I'm not telling you not to marry her.
	What I am telling you is not to get the state involved in marrying her.
	What if you have to get the state involved?
	No, you don't have to.
	Well, like tax benefits or like citizenship.
	The benefits for taxes are so low for marriage.
	What about citizenship?
	I see what she's trying to say.
	No, because the benefits that you would receive from taxes are heavily outweighed by the risk you're taking.
	Yeah.
	As a man.
	Yeah, I get it.
	She can leave you and take half your money.
	Exactly.
	And then alimony, depending on what state you live in.
	He has two children, so that's automatically going to be child support.
	And then on top of that, we know that there's a 90% chance she's going to get the children and not him.
	So the tax benefits, though, they do exist.
	They are heavily outweighed by the risks.
	So, yeah, bro, don't get the state involved is all we're saying.
	So depending on your religion...
	Figure out a way to get married within the confinements of your religion that's, you know, halal or legal or whatever.
	Yeah, bro.
	That's acceptable.
	And do it that way.
	Do not involve the state, the county, the state, the U.S. government in your marital affairs at all.
	That's when you are going to get fucked, my friend.
	And also, it's like when you get into a relationship, do you need others' approvals or do you need to sign a paper that says, okay, we're dating, we're in a relationship?
	As long as you have that, like, agreement between each other that that's what we are, then that's all that should matter.
	Yeah, but you know, women, that's not enough for us, especially if you've been that long with a guy.
	So she will want something to make it feel like it's worth being with him.
	A ring and a honeymoon.
	They want paperwork to back them up.
	Not even that.
	If things go wrong.
	A little group setting, get fake married in front of your friends, and then go on a trip.
	Have the ceremony, dude.
	You could do everything without getting the state involved.
	That's our thing.
	I'm not telling you not to marry her.
	I'm saying don't get married with the state involved.
	That is how you ruin your life, my friend.
	And guess what?
	If she pressures you to go do it, that means one thing.
	That's a red flag.
	Yeah, red flag.
	Because that means she wants you to do it because it benefits her.
	Yeah.
	Purple Hill says...
	Why is it that women are hesitant in revealing they are in relationships slash marriages when dating a high-value man?
	Huh?
	Huh?
	Interesting.
	Then, bro, you are not as high-value as you think you are.
	When a girl's in a relationship with a guy that she loves, she'll let everybody know that she's in a relationship, bro.
	Let me tell you something, dude.
	Girls don't want to be on the streets, bro.
	They want a man.
	The differences that allow you guys are not the man that she first picked.
	You're like third, fourth, or fifth place.
	You are what I call a placeholder boyfriend.
	You fulfill her current needs, but if something better comes along, she will replace you.
	Yeah.
	And most of y'all fall in this placeholder boyfriend status, which is what I try to tell y'all.
	She likes to go to the club.
	She likes to dress productively.
	She likes to put up certain pictures of herself, crazy pictures of herself on Instagram.
	She'll post you anywhere.
	When she does refer to you, she doesn't refer to you in the best way.
	You are what I call a placeholder boyfriend, my friend.
	And if you are in that position, it's time for you to break up with her.
	If you're not getting the best, she goes to the rest.
	That's how it goes.
	W's.
	Alright.
	Now, Rumble Rants?
	Alright.
	Hey, Marin, at least our generation had Wonder Woman.
	woman.
	This generation is wondering who is a woman.
	That's Bar J. Rock.
	That's Bar J. Rock.
	Beach Bump Thoughts goes, it's always amazing me watching these women who are just so blatantly delusional.
	Reality is going to hit them so hard.
	Well, this panel here is fairly aware.
	Free the bros.
	Thoughts on a man that gives up living on his own to take care of his parents.
	My mom has been in and out of the hospital and my father becomes physically and mentally ill without her.
	Yeah, bro, do it because I'll tell you this, the regret, right, of you not doing it is going to hurt more than the current pain you're going through of being with them.
	So...
	And there is you when you were small, bro, so at least return a favor.
	Yeah, so there's nothing wrong with that, dude.
	Continue to do it, my friend.
	Free the bros.
	I've known my father has other girlfriends since I was 11.
	I'm 24 now and never snitched.
	Now that my mom is in and out of the hospital, he gets bedridden and sick without her.
	True love.
	There you go.
	I'm trying to tell women, man.
	A man can love you and fuck other bitches.
	Taylor Swift is the most significant 304.
	Look at all the men she slept with.
	Low-key couldn't hold that down.
	But...
	It had nothing to do with that.
	It had everything to do with the image she was portraying.
	Even though she is a hoe, which we know that, what she's saying is that in her music, she doesn't overtly sexualize herself and use that as the main way to sell records, is what she's trying to say.
	But yeah, she's a whore on the outside.
	I mean, she uses that to make her music, no?
	Because she does write her songs.
	I guess she writes breakup songs, yeah.
	But they're not like...
	Cardi B. She ain't twerking and saying all this other bullshit.
	She's still an icon though.
	She's still a 304.
	Leads on the panel.
	Now, we're going to do questions, comments, a lot of thoughts on the show.
	We'll start right here.
	I can ask any question?
	Any question, comment, statement, a lot of thoughts on the show.
	What do you think about a man not wanting to post views?
	Oh, me?
	Yo man?
	So, um, if we're gonna go off of, like, just posting on Instagram, Snapchat, what do you mean?
	Yeah, Instagram.
	So, I'm gonna be honest with you, it could be a number of things, but if he's not posting you, it could be because, one, he has other girls that he doesn't want to show you to, or it could be, for example, he's like, it's still new, he doesn't know what's up, he doesn't want to post it, then he looks dumb.
	Or it could be, for a matter of fact, he's like, he doesn't want to post girls because that's, like, his thing.
	I'm gonna do what I want, but my girl, I'm gonna keep that private.
	It could be a number of things.
	Private why?
	Because, for example, when you put something on social media, it invites people to talk about you, go behind your back, figure out who you are, family and shit.
	It's kind of tricky.
	Personally speaking, for me now, if I'm going to be in that position, I would kind of not want to post them all over the place because you never know what might happen.
	But once again, it could be a number of reasons.
	And a lot of people attach that person to you as well.
	Even if you're not dating no more.
	And why would you want to show your candy to other men?
	I mean, niggas want to show off their girl.
	She's hot.
	In person.
	It depends on the guy.
	And this is a very complex question because for the man, it could be a multitude of different reasons.
	For a girl, it's very simple when she don't post you.
	She don't like you that much.
	Because girls typically are...
	Their value is derived by what caliber of man can they attract and retain, right?
	All women want to be wives, but not necessarily all men want to be husbands.
	So...
	So I would say with the girl, if she don't post you, you already know where you stand.
	She probably wants to be able to entertain other men.
	But with the guy, though, there's a bunch of different reasons why he might not want to post you.
	But like he said, if it's about privacy, then you wouldn't want her to post.
	You as well.
	Yeah, I was just about to say that.
	Because then you're going to find out if you tag him in something like...
	Your friend group is not his friend group.
	So for example, you posting it with your friends in your circle is one thing.
	But him posting it with his circle and his friends is different.
	And only girls are going to go stalk and go look at the tags and shit.
	But that's the thing.
	You post your man, they will follow.
	They will try to sneaky fuck your man.
	It comes into the same thing.
	You guys are talking about privacy and everything.
	It's not that I don't like the man.
	I just personally don't want nobody touching that, that I've been around.
	You know what I'm saying?
	So it's not, I don't like you.
	I just want to keep it private because I know it's something good.
	Is this your experience right now?
	I said in general.
	I'll be honest with you, for us to give the best, because that's why we have to give a very general answer, because I don't know the man.
	It depends on the guy.
	If you tell me more, then I can tell you, oh, this is why.
	Okay, yeah, I guess it does.
	But it doesn't bother me.
	What's his profession then?
	He's an athlete.
	He's a what?
	An athlete.
	Professional?
	Nigga, you're done.
	Oh, that's why.
	Nigga, you're done.
	Okay, so that's very simple.
	The reason why is because he has other chicks.
	Yes.
	There you go.
	And him posting you would affect his ability to go ahead and have sex with other women when he's traveling across the road, etc.
	Bam.
	And another reason too, this is going to be a really painful reason, you're not hot enough to be posted.
	Case closed.
	That's another reason too.
	Oh, and also, 100%, he's fucking other bitches.
	Oh, we just said that.
	If he's a professional athlete, traveling all over the place, yeah, like, the other reason, too, why, like I said, having other girls, and then also, you gotta keep in mind, a lot of guys won't post their main chick sometimes, because their main chick isn't hot enough for what they do as a profession.
	So I've said it before, I'm not saying that you're not hot enough, but, I mean, if he's a professional athlete, he has a certain image he's gotta keep up, and...
	Yeah.
	You ain't a model.
	No offense.
	Is he black?
	Did that say...
	Stick a crisp.
	What the fuck?
	She said, yeah!
	See, I told you, man.
	And to add insult to injury, he's smashing you.
	So why is he going to post you?
	Yeah.
	Yeah.
	That's an athlete, man.
	Come on, man.
	Did that say...
	The other thing too, when you're a professional athlete, you're held to a certain standard of you better be with like a bad chick that like slam waist, fitness model, like nice ass, big tits, all this other stuff, like damn near perfect.
	So like if you're not with a chick that's like super, super bad and they're a public figure, it'll make him look stupid if he posts it.
	And it's going to make, he's not getting laid.
	It's going to hurt him to get other girls.
	Not a model, no offense.
	Like there's no upside for him posting you.
	That's all.
	Zero upside.
	But now she knows the answers.
	Did it answer your question, though?
	Maybe too much.
	So we gave you the truth.
	What you do, the truth is up to you.
	Just go fuck him.
	Okay, what about you?
	Also, don't men get a rise out of fucking other man's bitches?
	So that would give an opening...
	Yeah, that's what I heard.
	Some guys, like, they hit on their homie's friend, I mean, their homie's girl, like, on the low, just to feel that, yeah.
	I mean, there's some weirdos that do that, but, I mean, it's kind of a waste of time.
	Yeah, but that's, like, a waste of time.
	Like, hitting on a chick, like, if I see a girl, especially if she's with a dude of some kind of status or whatever, like, you're just wasting your fucking time, bro.
	That's dumb.
	That's really dumb.
	Okay, what about your question?
	It's more about the girls.
	Like, it'll impede your ability to get other women when you post girls.
	Yeah.
	Right.
	Okay.
	Well, thank you guys for having me on the show.
	It's always lovely to come back.
	Ladies, hit me up if you want to come on the panel.
	Divinely Red.
	And yeah, no questions.
	Thanks for having me.
	I love y'all.
	Shelter Red once again.
	Made a good point with the filter thing.
	That was legendary, by the way.
	Yeah, that was a good point.
	Courtney Clenney, did y'all see what she looks like without makeup?
	Oh, terrible.
	Yo, Chris, pull up, just Google it real quick.
	Courtney Clenney without makeup, and then you'll see her in court versus what she put on Instagram.
	I was also going to say thank you for having me, and I think guys need to listen to you more.
	Also, I wanted to bring up something where I saw about modern feminism in the chat earlier, and it reminded me that I actually took a college class last semester where this podcast was brought up.
	Oh, ours?
	Yeah.
	Oh, shit.
	I've heard about our podcast.
	Being brought up in class.
	And gender studies classes.
	People send me screenshots, bro.
	Yeah, they'd be using our shit.
	That's hilarious.
	A social context class for early childhood, meaning giving context to backgrounds that children would come from and how you can teach them.
	And they somehow twisted it to be about toxic masculinity and this podcast.
	Made up work.
	Yeah, it was horrible.
	It's not even real.
	Yeah, I mean, I think, and we had a whole debate with some feminists, like, two weeks ago, and they came on the show, and they kept trying to say that everything that we say is based on social constructs, and I'm like, no, it's not.
	It's based in biology.
	And facts.
	And facts.
	Like, women may select, not based off of, like, social constructs, though they do play a role to a degree, but since the beginning of time, women have typically wanted the same archetype of man.
	Yeah.
	Tall, aesthetic, It's not.
	Right?
	It's a biological construct.
	So, cause...
	Yeah, anyway.
	What?
	Oh, yeah.
	Yo, guys, look at that difference, bro.
	Holy!
	Makeup!
	Yo.
	What the?
	Yeah.
	That's crazy.
	Yeah, I know, bro.
	And here's the thing.
	She was making like a million dollars a year on OnlyFans, bro.
	And...
	Yeah.
	Filters!
	Filters!
	That's crazy.
	Filters and makeup.
	And ego.
	That's something else.
	Makeup.
	Well, makeup is just supposed to be an enhancement.
	It's not supposed to be as dragged out like they've been doing it.
	People took it too far.
	What about you?
	Well, first and foremost, thank you all for having me.
	It was nice meeting you all.
	I guess one quick question.
	Shoot.
	Only if you want to hear the truth, though.
	No, it's actually about the Courtney girl.
	I guess it's for the guys and the girls to probably input as well.
	I've always been confused when some men will like...
	Stay with a girl.
	So, for example, in his case, the girl was verbally abusive, physically abusive, and she doesn't look that good.
	So it's like, why do men stay with that?
	Not that he deserves, by the way, to, you know.
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	So I'm very well-versed in this case.
	So basically, I'll give you all the facts.
	She had stabbed him on a prior occasion.
	He got killed in April.
	He got stabbed in October of the year prior.
	Yeah.
	And she had been yelling at him and verbally abusing him several times before.
	It actually got to a point where he started to record the interactions because she was being so crazy.
	Poor guy.
	And he even wrote text messages saying, like, am I going to die for love?
	So, yeah, he was getting abused.
	I mean, this comes down to typically...
	This simply comes down to...
	It's comfort as well as him being in that situation.
	And you know what it is to as well?
	It's also love.
	Obviously, on some level, he loved her.
	And he's like, you know what?
	This is my girl no matter what.
	And him staying there, yeah, it's fucked up.
	He shouldn't have stayed there at all.
	But it's comfort.
	He used to her.
	Yeah.
	Rest in peace.
	I don't like to speak ill of the deceased, but he was a simp, if I'm going to be very honest.
	And the reason why I say this is because she was earning the money.
	He was her manager.
	Not her manager.
	Her assistant.
	He quit his job to come.
	He was a crypto trader.
	So I don't know how much he was earning, but obviously significantly less than her.
	So she was making probably an estimated around $100,000 a month.
	He was staying with her as her assistant.
	So the dynamics of the relationship were fucked up.
	She was in a leadership role.
	He was in a subservient role.
	And then on top of that, they were living together in an apartment.
	She was paying about $10,000 a month at this apartment.
	And...
	And she kept kicking him out and he kept coming back.
	And I think a big part of the reason why he kept coming back is she was a provider.
	She made the money.
	He had to deal and tolerate that with the abuse.
	And then on top of that, he didn't understand his own value.
	Right.
	And these are all, you know, unfortunately, that's what it is.
	You're when you're a simp, you don't you you're basically not getting a reciprocated value back from a woman.
	Yep.
	So that's what it came down to.
	So he tolerated the abuse because she was in leadership role and he just didn't know his value.
	Yeah, that's great.
	Yeah, so that's really what it was.
	Yeah, recipes and, you know, I don't like, but that's the cold hard truth is that simply put, from reading the messages I read as love notes, I read all that stuff, Did you do a case on that?
	I don't really have no questions, but thank you for having me.
	Yeah, you don't talk a lot.
	I don't talk a lot.
	Useless.
	As long as you're listening.
	As long as you're listening and learning.
	That's what you were saying, right?
	Well, she don't listen, so...
	Well, you know, I love you guys.
	Go ahead, ladies.
	Hold on, let me look better for this.
	Ladies, if you want to go ahead and come on to the podcast, hit me up.
	She's So ICTV. I will bring you on as this lovely panel we have today.
	It's nice and respectful.
	I love it.
	My choice.
	Anyways, I hope you guys follow my Twitch.
	Also watch the behind the scenes with everyone.
	And yeah, just have a lovely day.
	Cool.
	Welcome back to Miami.
	Yeah, it was great.
	Thanks for having me as well.
	It was really nice.
	Great experience watching you from Canada and now I'm here so it's nice.
	Question!
	I don't have a question just...
	Are you gonna let your boyfriend, if he gets bored, explore?
	I don't have a choice.
	He's a provider so...
	Very good.
	I got one more question for ladies.
	I know Fresh hates this.
	But this is the super chat.
	It was a super chat question.
	But I'm going to just combine it.
	What is the most important thing you learned from your dad and or male influencer in your life?
	And do they have a say in who you date?
	Do you think they should have a say in who you date?
	Start right here.
	Yes, I think my dad should have a say.
	And what's the most important thing you learned from him?
	Well, to respect my mom.
	Respect the woman in the relationship.
	Okay, but...
	But you're a woman.
	But you're a woman.
	Like, what did you learn that you could apply?
	You said daughter.
	As a daughter...
	Always let your man...
	Lead?
	What?
	Lead you?
	Lead you?
	Yeah.
	But what were you going to say before?
	No, no.
	Always let your daughter...
	You tell me what you said.
	I'm just giving you what I thought.
	You...
	He doesn't speak a lot.
	He just acts.
	Actions, not words.
	What did you learn from his actions then?
	My dad is the one who decides in the family, so my mom just goes with it.
	As a woman, he's the one that's gonna make the decisions and I should just respect it and go with it.
	Sorry I was a little bit mixed up in the question.
	For Isi, what about you?
	What's the most important thing you learned from, I guess, a male figure in your life?
	And then, do you think men should have a say in who you date?
	The male authority.
	I mean, my father's deceased, so I can't really sit up here and tell you guys he's gonna pick out a guy for me.
	Yeah, but I'm saying a male figure.
	It doesn't have to be him.
	It could be anybody.
	But in general, do you think they should have a say?
	No, yes, because before I even do anything, I honestly be like, Myron, what do you think about this situation right here?
	Like, I guess you're my male authority in a sense, because it's like, Myron, am I making the right decision?
	Because I don't want to fuck up.
	Yeah.
	Yeah.
	Alright, so you think they should be involved?
	Yeah.
	And then what's one thing you learned from a male figure in your life?
	Women deserve less.
	You've been with us for a while.
	You've changed a lot, so that's great.
	What about you, Miss Hylia?
	Okay.
	Yeah, I do think that he needs to approve who I'm dating.
	Okay.
	Because at the end of the day, he has more experience and he knows more.
	Okay.
	What's the most important thing you've learned from your father and or male figure in your life?
	Well, usually, like, her father, like, he just acts.
	He doesn't really say much.
	So I just see what he does.
	So basically, my mom is, like...
	Are your parents still together now?
	Yeah, they're still together.
	Okay.
	They've been together for 20 years.
	Okay.
	So, basically, like, I just think that the traditional woman and man thing, that's, like, how my parents are.
	Okay.
	You get me?
	Like, he taught me just to, like, kind of, like, cook, clean for, like, the man.
	And just, you know, traditional stuff like that.
	Okay.
	So you learned from how your mom behaved.
	Yeah, how my mom behaved.
	How you're supposed to behave.
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	But my dad, you know, obviously my dad is not, you know, he wasn't very, he was very crazy back in his days.
	So my mom, the way that my mom behaved kind of kept him there.
	Okay.
	Because he was like, he has like four different baby mamas.
	Okay.
	What about you?
	What did you learn from a male figure in your life?
	It could be your dad or your brothers or cousins.
	And then, do you think that those male figures should have a say in who you date?
	I'd say parents in general or even a male figure should have a say in who you date.
	I think personally, I can't be with someone long-term who my parents don't like.
	I feel like it never works out if your mom says to you, like, yo, this guy's not for you.
	So I feel like if my mom doesn't like you, my dad doesn't like you, we can't be together.
	I would say all the males in my life have just emphasized, just be a lady.
	You know, just meaning certain etiquette.
	That's about it, I would say.
	Biggest lesson?
	You just answered it earlier, but it's...
	Yeah, definitely respecting male authority.
	And then also, obviously, my dad and my brothers, they should definitely have an opinion on who I end up with.
	Why not have the people who love and care about you the most that the person that they would want you to be with?
	I agree 100%.
	That's a good point.
	Yeah, because your brothers and your fathers are going to be the only honest, real male advice because they're not trying to smash you.
	They want to protect you.
	I think a father and a brother's love can't necessarily, or a cousin, you know, uncle, can't really be replaced because, well, in a healthy family, they're not trying to do anything to you.
	So they're going to give you unbiased advice that actually benefits you.
	Versus like a guy friend.
	You know what I mean?
	They'd be on some bullshit sometimes.
	Guys friends are...
	Yeah.
	What about you, Red?
	What's your...
	I would love for my dad to have an input on what I do.
	Okay.
	But like you guys have said, my dad's not very vocal.
	He's barely even actionable.
	Like, he's just there.
	So, I mean...
	And I'm also the eldest out of my siblings.
	So, I would look up to you.
	Okay.
	If anything.
	And...
	Yeah, women deserve less and keep your legs closed.
	I mean, who needs to sell the book?
	It's going to sell itself.
	Yeah, I appreciate you ladies.
	You know, like I said, and I do take that seriously when y'all come to me for advice or ask me questions, you know, to be able to provide that for y'all.
	Yeah, so you guys don't get finessed.
	I'm going to lie to you.
	You help out too, friends.
	Don't even act like that.
	What about you?
	What did you learn from a male figure in your life?
	And then do you think they should have a say so in who you date?
	So in this case, your stepfather.
	Yeah, I definitely think he should have a say-so.
	He knows better, and yeah, he would help pick out, I guess, who the right man would be.
	Okay.
	Is he involved in your relationship now?
	I know he'd tell you to choose this nigga.
	He hasn't really said much because I haven't shared that much.
	Okay.
	Because I've been, like, just very, like...
	Because you know you're done.
	No, I just...
	I don't know.
	I want, like...
	I want to get married and I want to have kids, so I really want to be sure and whatever.
	So you don't want to bring him to your father yet because you're not sure if you're going to marry this guy yet?
	Not that I'm not.
	I mean, yeah, I guess.
	I just want to spend more time getting to know him and seeing if it's like...
	She wants to vet him properly.
	Yeah.
	But you happen to get there for four months.
	Or you guys don't see each other that often, probably.
	It's long distance.
	So four months long distance is like two months.
	No, not two weeks.
	Like two, three months.
	Yeah.
	Realistically speaking, you see him like once a week?
	Is that what it is?
	No, like...
	Once a month?
	Once a month or twice a month?
	That nigga is fucking.
	Somebody.
	I love friends, but it's not you.
	He ain't the one, man.
	Hey, man.
	Fair enough.
	It's all good.
	He's just here to ruin shit.
	We're being real.
	We're being real.
	He's an athlete.
	I mean, it is what it is, bro.
	That's kind of what comes of the territory.
	Especially pro-athlete, bro, they're going to have sex with the girls.
	That's the biggest demographic that's going to have sex with the girls.
	What if they're trying not to?
	What if they're trying to get away from having sexual sex?
	A man getting away from sex.
	I think he's telling you that to sell you a dream.
	What I've realized with men, right?
	So this is what...
	I'll give you ladies some game.
	When a guy meets a girl, right?
	A lot of times what he'll do is he'll acquiesce to what that woman's wishes and dreams are.
	And if a girl says, I'm a career woman, I make this much money, or I do this, or I do that, what he'll do is he'll tailor his game based on what that woman's interests, ego investments are, etc.
	to be able to get laid.
	And the reason why is because typically you get more bees with honey than vinegar, right?
	So they're not going to tell you, oh, I don't give a fuck about your career.
	They're not going to tell you, oh, you have your dad involved in your life?
	That's gay.
	Or they're not going to tell you you're Colombian.
	I prefer Cubanas.
	They're not going to say that.
	They're going to be like, oh, really?
	Okay, I spent quite a bit of time in Medellin.
	Oh, I love that you have a career.
	Oh, you're from Montreal?
	I can speak French, too.
	You're a virgin?
	I'm a virgin, too.
	Yeah, like, guys are going to go ahead and just acquiesce and deal with...
	They're going to acquiesce to whatever you say to go ahead and get laid.
	Like, when a man sees a woman that's attractive to him, the part of his brain actually activates that is...
	On how to fix things.
	When a man sees an attractive woman, they've done studies on this.
	So they look at it like, okay, I see attractive girl.
	I want sex.
	How will I get sex?
	And then bam, that part of their brain of fixing and repairing things starts to activate and they do what's required to get laid.
	So guys, a lot of the times are adaptation creatures when it comes to getting sex, right?
	Girls complain chivalry is dead or men are assholes now or whatever.
	A lot of the time is because they have to be that way to get laid.
	They adapt.
	Nigga, you're done.
	Guys, we've got a show on Monday and some more rants here, right Chris?
	Yep.
	Okay, more rants here and then, okay.
	Miss Albania, see Jenny.
	What does that mean?
	How are you?
	Okay.
	What part of Albania is your family from?
	Albania generally has strong traditional family values and marriages tend to last a lifetime.
	True.
	And my family is from deeper Macedonia, actually.
	Okay.
	It's a small town on the border of Macedonia and Albania.
	Okay.
	That's Jay Rugo's fit.
	In regards to what Guns Out said yesterday about in the next decade, just sitting back and watching the empire burn, what is a country now associated with U.S., Russia, China that would be good to go to?
	Bro, I'm going to UAE, bro.
	I mean, when I'm going to have a kid, I'm going to UAE. That's it.
	I'm out of here.
	Make your money.
	We talked about that in detail.
	You guys should go watch that episode.
	We talked about you got to make your money out in the West and then get the hell out of there because the West is failing, bro.
	Last flex for the broke boys.
	I need to run up my gold AMX for the promo points.
	Thank you, bro.
	Thank you so much for the support.
	Alright, guys.
	We'll catch you on the next episode of Fresh and Fit on Monday.
	We'll have Money Monday for y'all.
	Probably the credit episode.
	And then we're going to be in Dubai next week on the 16th.
	We're going to go out there.
	And then Sunday I'll have an episode of Fed It for you guys.
	All the ladies' Instagrams are below.
	Go ahead and feel free to send me a dick pic.
	Please don't.
	Either way, great panel, ladies.
	Shout out to you.
	I'm going to give y'all Don DeMarco for being good sports and having a good discussion.
	And we'll catch you guys on the next episode on Monday.
	And peace.
	Peace.
	I ran.
	I ran so far away.
	I just ran.

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