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Transgender People: is it Normal or Not? | SLIGHTLY OFFENS*VE

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unidentified
Just imagine if you were born into a body that you weren't happy with.
elijah schaffer
I'm out here in Santa Monica California.
What's your name?
unidentified
Robin James.
elijah schaffer
All right, Robin James.
Awesome.
And I'm just out here talking to people about their views on transgenderism.
So my first question is, what are the pronouns you identify as?
unidentified
She.
elijah schaffer
As a she.
unidentified
Her.
elijah schaffer
She, her, Ms. Okay, was that the way you were born or no?
unidentified
I'm a transgender woman, so I've been addressed as a man my whole life until recently.
elijah schaffer
Do you think transsexualism and being transgender, which some people even say are different, do you think it's a mental disorder or do you think that it's a normal way of life?
unidentified
I think it's a normal way of life, to be honest.
I don't really have a problem with it.
I don't always care about facts.
I care about like other people's happiness.
elijah schaffer
So sometimes happiness is more important than facts in those kind of cases.
unidentified
Totally.
elijah schaffer
We're just kind of filming out here.
Kind of filming it.
We're just feeling the music out here.
What's up, man?
Can I ask you a question?
How do you feel about transgenderism?
Is it a natural phenomenon?
Or is it a...
It is nothing.
We are, it is nothing.
That was good.
That was awesome.
Thank you.
Sorry.
It was what it is.
What do you think about transgenderism?
Is transgenderism a science in the fact that it's a mental disorder or is it a way of life?
unidentified
I am genderless.
I'm trans.
I'm neither male nor female.
So, you know, I think it is what it is.
People are who they are.
Everyone's loved equally.
Love doesn't burn people in hell.
Love doesn't judge people because of who you are.
You're born beautiful as you are, and it's all an experiment.
We all learn as we go.
elijah schaffer
So on one side, we have people who believe in, like, they would say they believe on a scientific realm.
Are you familiar with the DSM-5?
unidentified
Yeah, that's a psychological manual for diagnosing mental illness.
Correct.
elijah schaffer
And I know that in the DSM-5, again, these are comments not to offend you or to say anything.
I'm just stating facts.
We're journalists.
In the DSM-5, transgenderism is categorized as gender dysphoria or gender identity disorder.
And it's categorized as a mental illness.
Now, you as a trans woman, would you identify as a trans woman?
Is that true or as a trans man?
Okay, as a trans woman, would you identify that the DSM-5 is accurate in its identifying transsexualism as a mental disorder or something different?
You would be the perfect person to explain your view, your take, where you think people are wrong, where you think they're right.
unidentified
Because like one, for one thing, mental disorder means that there's something wrong.
and there's really there's nothing wrong with me except that i was i was born with male chromosomes instead of female chromosomes so i don't boy that's a really good question What kind of facts support your ideas?
What kind of facts?
All of them.
elijah schaffer
Like, which one specifically?
unidentified
Which one specifically?
Well, when you understand the facts, your brain gets smarter.
When you feed your brain...
elijah schaffer
But which facts are we understanding?
unidentified
Any facts.
elijah schaffer
Particularly, like by name?
unidentified
Like, the world is round.
elijah schaffer
All right, what's up?
You said you do what with transgenders?
unidentified
I follow them on Instagram.
elijah schaffer
Cool.
And so what's your opinion of transgenderism?
unidentified
I think it's awesome.
You know, I don't even know what to say, but I think that's awesome, though.
Like, having the crazes to be who you really are, you know?
What do you think?
elijah schaffer
Well, what I think is not as relevant as the fact that do you know Kaiser Permanente?
unidentified
Yeah.
elijah schaffer
Okay, so Kaiser Permanente is a hospital, right?
unidentified
Yeah.
elijah schaffer
A HMO insurance provider?
unidentified
Yeah.
elijah schaffer
Okay, so they should be basing most of their policies on science, would you agree?
unidentified
Agreed.
elijah schaffer
Okay, so Kaiser Permanente recently, in one of their newest facilities in Los Angeles, labeled all of their bathrooms all genders.
Now, when I say the word all, what does that make you think of?
unidentified
Everything.
elijah schaffer
Everything.
Okay, so currently in science, there is no specifics or any studies that show there's anything different than a male or a female in serious science.
But in political agendas, people say that there are a spectrum, sometimes 40 plus different genders.
So because the science doesn't prove there are more than two, but the bathrooms say all, that insinuates that there's more than two.
Do you think that that's scary that a medical provider that should be basing its policy on science is now labeling bathrooms based off of political policy rather than science itself?
unidentified
It's pretty weird.
Yeah, yeah.
Look, I don't really have an answer for you, but I think it's pretty up.
We need a lot of help.
Transgender people need help, and we need help as we trans, you know, as we as we go into transition.
So we do need mental health care services.
So if it was not to be classified as a mental health situation, I think some people would not get the help that they need.
I know for me, my insurance wouldn't cover it if it wasn't a situation that was classified as a medical situation.
Cool.
elijah schaffer
All right, awesome.
What are your opinions on being transgender?
unidentified
I'm transgender, I guess you could say.
I don't know, maybe you start thinking two ways differently.
I don't know.
It's like a completely different lifestyle to me.
Like, I don't know how it is to be gay.
Like, I mean, they're cool, no.
elijah schaffer
So, suicide rates and self-inflicted violence are very high in the transgender community.
I'm sure you're familiar with that.
And maybe you yourself or you know people who have dealt with depression or different things because of rejection or other different factors.
So, being the fact that the self-inflicted harm rate is so high inside transgender communities, why do you think that's the case?
unidentified
Well, it's according to my gender specialist at UCLA, Dr. Weimer, Amy Wimer, who's awesome, by the way.
They have a whole department devoted to gender identity and help.
So, anyway, according to her, under 30-year-olds, the suicide rate is not any higher than in the general population.
So, it really seems to be obvious that what it's about is societal norms and how people feel about themselves in relation to what is expected of them as a human being.
elijah schaffer
Right, so my question is: then, so, what makes a woman a woman and a man-a-man?
What defines somebody's gender?
unidentified
Their chromosomes.
elijah schaffer
Well, I would think that being gay, being a lesbian is much different than being transgender.
Because being gay or being a lesbian is sort of your sexual preference of who you want to be in sexual intercourse with.
Being transgender is internally identifying as somebody other than what you were born.
Would you say there's a difference between being lesbian and gay and transgender, or are they the same thing?
unidentified
I think they're all different.
When people look at me, they think I just want to be a guy automatically just because how I dress.
But I'm feminine also, and then I know being transgender is definitely super different because what is it?
The mind and your heart's telling you that you're really like a female trying to turn into a male within themselves.
Like, they feel like they're that person.
So, yeah, go for it.
Oh, darling, stand by me.
Oh, stand by me.
elijah schaffer
Won't you stand?
Right, come on, come on.
unidentified
Stand by me.
elijah schaffer
Stand by me.
Ready?
Come on.
Ready?
So, parents today are giving children puberty blockers under the age of 12 to help them form into the gender they identify with.
Now, I don't know you, but when I was younger, I had a lot of weird things I was into as a kid that I've grown out of.
A lot of interesting things that I was a part of that I no longer identify with.
Do you think it's institutional child abuse to be giving children under the age of 18 permanent blockers for their hormones to change their gender before they even can technically legally vote or join the military?
unidentified
Yeah, that's ridiculous.
I didn't even know they're doing that.
elijah schaffer
It's very common practice.
unidentified
That's absolutely crazy.
elijah schaffer
I'm out here.
What's your name?
unidentified
I'm Chi Diamonds, baby.
elijah schaffer
What's your name?
unidentified
My name is Ray.
elijah schaffer
Oh, what's your name?
Frederick.
All right, you guys are a little bit lower energy than your friend right here.
unidentified
Yeah!
You want us to turn it up there?
Yes, please.
Whoa!
elijah schaffer
All right, let's get it.
unidentified
All right, so here we're here.
Whoa, get it, go, get it, go, go, go, you're on the live!
Get it!
Get it!
elijah schaffer
Where you at?
Where you at?
unidentified
Oh, shice!
Yes!
What the heck?
I'm so son!
Whoa!
You know, I'm all about people doing whatever they want as long as they're not having sex with me and whipping out a penis when I'm expecting a vagina.
So as long as that's not happening, you know, you do your thing.
I'm not going to call it a mental illness.
elijah schaffer
What if they cut off their penis and had an artificial vagina?
Would you smash or no?
unidentified
Well, it depends what the vagina feels like, you know?
elijah schaffer
Like, pretty real.
unidentified
Maybe they could, like, artificially make it feel like better than a real vagina.
elijah schaffer
I wouldn't know.
unidentified
If that's like the case, you know, and science can do that, maybe put some like drugs in there that, you know, maybe.
elijah schaffer
Like Advil vaginas?
unidentified
Yeah, Advil vaginas.
You know, that's like a science fiction vagina.
You know, hypothetically, I might have to have sex with that.
With all the fallback that comes from being transgender and all the problems you receive, it's not so much a mental issue as it is just an issue in society, I think.
elijah schaffer
Okay, so who decides what's mental issues?
unidentified
The doctors.
elijah schaffer
Okay, so the.
Yeah, so basically the scientists decided it was, so, but you said it's a social issue, so who changed it to being a social issue?
unidentified
Sorry?
I don't really know that much about climate change, to be honest, but I do believe in climate change.
elijah schaffer
Right, because you don't need to know a lot about something to believe in it, correct?
unidentified
Yes.
Sure.
So my understanding of DNA is that it's a blueprint.
And that blueprint is triggered by our consciousness.
And consciousness can fundamentally alter that blueprint.
So if your consciousness can basically override whatever your genetic code says.
elijah schaffer
Right.
So what?
How do you change your DNA with your consciousness?
unidentified
Well, your DNA.
So have you heard of epigenetics?
elijah schaffer
Of course.
I actually have a degree in a similar field.
unidentified
Okay.
So you understand that signals then trigger basically the signals that you're or your perception can fundamentally alter your DNA.
elijah schaffer
In some regards, in some situations, that holds some truth.
Sure.
So you're saying then that the consciousness of gender can be altered?
Because I know that there are some tests, epigenetic testings between twins showing the different environmental factors can absolutely change the expression of certain genes and that's widely accepted across biological studies.
However, in this case specifically with the entire, oh my gosh, these people are running.
Oh, hey, watch out.
Sorry, you guys are crazy.
According to actual genetic studies, you can't change your 23rd chromosome.
So what would you say about your claim about consciousness changing your DNA versus current studies that say you can't really do that consciously?
unidentified
It's just that no one changed my opinions.
I see that and I don't see it as a mental issue.
I don't think it's a mental problem.
elijah schaffer
You're kind of like the judge of your own world, basically.
unidentified
Yeah, I would say that.
elijah schaffer
So then who decides truth?
unidentified
I'd leave that up to the doctors and which decided it's a mental illness.
Yeah, find men and women who actually put their lives into, you know, deciding these things.
elijah schaffer
Right, so the ones that you put your trust in decided it was a mental disorder.
So then wouldn't that make it a mental disorder?
unidentified
Yeah, that makes me wrong.
elijah schaffer
Awesome.
And so do you believe in science?
Sure.
Okay, so science states that the gender of who we are is based off of the makeup of our chromosome, our 23rd chromosome, whether we have an XX, which would signify we are female, or an XY, which would signify as we are a man.
So how does one person then identify separately from their chromosomes?
unidentified
I'm aphrodite or something like that?
elijah schaffer
No, so not like Kleinfelters or dualistic anatomy, but meaning, so if I'm a man, I'm born with an XY chromosome in my sex chromosome, and I'm anatomically and physically and genetically a man.
How do I identify as a woman?
unidentified
I don't know.
I guess like inside your head, inside your soul.
elijah schaffer
So do your thoughts actually change your genetics?
unidentified
Yeah, because if you put your mind to anything, you know, you can do it, you know?
elijah schaffer
So basically, you could change your genetics if you put your mind to it.
unidentified
Well, genetics, no.
Inside of your body, no, I don't believe in that because it's the human body.
Like, you don't know how it works.
elijah schaffer
Right, so what, so in your opinion, what makes a man a man, a woman a woman?
Is it your DNA or your mind?
unidentified
To be honest, I think it's DNA, you know?
elijah schaffer
So since someone cannot change their DNA on that grounds, then they can't change their gender.
unidentified
Yes, it can.
You could change your physical appearance.
Like, people are doing it all the time.
I just saw one person on Instagram who literally legally just changed their name.
elijah schaffer
Right, but you just said that, I'm just going by your logic.
You said that your DNA is what determines you.
And I'm saying right now in science, we can't change our DNA.
So then what makes a man a man and what makes a woman a woman?
unidentified
To be honest, I don't know.
I can't answer that question.
I don't know.
If you have a penis, you have a penis.
You have a vagina, you have a vagina.
elijah schaffer
When I'm down, I don't know the lyrics.
Here we go, come on.
And I'm out ready.
I'll just make it up.
Here you go.
And I'm transgender.
Trying to figure it out.
What's in my pants?
I don't know.
Is it my DNA?
unidentified
Or a vagina.
elijah schaffer
Darling, transgender.
unidentified
By me.
elijah schaffer
Oh, stand.
unidentified
Bomby.
elijah schaffer
Oh, transgender, stand.
Stand by what's in my pants.
unidentified
What's in my mind?
Yeah.
That's right.
elijah schaffer
That's what's up.
unidentified
That was good.
I like that.
elijah schaffer
That's good.
Perfect.
Do you think your psychologists help you to understand that you were transgender or you knew that already?
unidentified
No, I did not know that already.
elijah schaffer
It kind of like, like, their counseling helped lead you in that direction.
unidentified
Their counseling allowed me to be comfortable with who I was and then find out who I was.
They never told me what I was.
They never knew.
And if I told them, like at last year, I thought I was gender fluid because I couldn't accept the fact that I could possibly have to be a woman 24 hours a day.
I didn't know how is it going to change at this point in my life?
How is it going to make that kind of change?
Are we okay?
Are we safe?
elijah schaffer
Yeah, I think we're safe.
I'm a strong person.
We're cool.
I got your back.
unidentified
Where was I?
elijah schaffer
So is that a normal thing you have to worry about your safety?
unidentified
Yeah.
elijah schaffer
Can you explain that a little bit?
Because you got really alarmed for a second and I realized that you were actually kind of in your eyes.
I saw you were scared.
So could you explain that?
unidentified
They're hooting and hollering, and I don't know what that is about, you know what I mean?
Because you never know.
elijah schaffer
Are you harassed regularly for being transgender?
unidentified
You know, I don't pay attention to any of the negative.
I don't pay attention to any of the negativity, really.
It just kind of startled me that a bunch of people came up on right away and were made all that noise.
It just kind of startled me.
elijah schaffer
So basically, these arguments have gotten me just, I'm fallen.
I can't handle it.
The guy literally just said that facts don't matter in the regards to his feelings.
People here are freaking crazy, and I'm concerned in general of where the state of our country is because there are flags all around us, but people just don't seem to understand the truth.
So I'm just taking a breather trying to understand where the hell do I live and what do people think that are here?
I mean, this is crazy stuff.
unidentified
Let's keep asking people what they think.
elijah schaffer
Alright, so would any of you guys ever, would you ever sleep with a transgender person, like a guy who was once a guy who cut off his penis and had it inverted to make an artificial vagina?
Would you do that?
unidentified
I can't do it.
No.
Am I going to get the pussy?
elijah schaffer
I got to get the pussy.
unidentified
That's all me, baby.
elijah schaffer
Am I getting paid?
Well, are you transphobic?
unidentified
Because we're right, you're going to be like, get paid.
I can't do it.
elijah schaffer
Why not?
unidentified
Because my wife is right there.
elijah schaffer
Okay, that would make sense.
Why can't you do it?
unidentified
My woman is at home watching this.
elijah schaffer
All right, what about you?
unidentified
Why can't you do it?
I can't do it because I need titties with my vagina.
elijah schaffer
But they would have artificial ones, too.
unidentified
See, I know the difference between artificial and a real thing, baby.
elijah schaffer
Have you ever been with both?
unidentified
Yeah.
elijah schaffer
All right, what's up?
unidentified
You're telling me this.
You're telling me this.
Like, she's a boy and a girl?
elijah schaffer
Well, that's the question.
Is she one or the other?
Can you change your gender?
unidentified
Can you change your gender?
Bruce should have done.
Okay, well.
elijah schaffer
Did you have sex with Bruce Jenner or Caitlin?
She has breasts and maybe she...
I don't know if she has a vagina, but she could.
He thought about it.
He wondered.
He was questioning.
unidentified
Andre.
Andre, his name is Andre.
elijah schaffer
And he thought about having sex with Caitlin Jenner.
unidentified
I love Kim Kardashian, though.
elijah schaffer
What about Caitlin?
Caitlin?
unidentified
No, don't like her.
elijah schaffer
You were thinking.
He was thinking about it.
unidentified
I was thinking about it, Kay.
He had a poster of Bruce Jennert running in the Olympics.
elijah schaffer
Oh, my.
This is for real right here.
unidentified
Okay, look, it's not technically Bruce.
It's Bruce Banner, the Hulk.
Yeah.
What do they do?
Gender blockers?
elijah schaffer
Yeah, they offer blockers for hormones before they even go into puberty.
So students are basically able to block the development into one gender into the next before they're even the age of 18.
unidentified
Yeah, that is absolutely ridiculous.
What are they trying to do with that?
Like, just so they basically, like, behave or conform to what they want?
elijah schaffer
Yeah, so basically, so boys don't have deep voices.
Girls don't develop their breasts.
Boys' genitals don't develop because they want to get transsexual surgery to reassign their gender.
So do you think that that's child abuse?
A lot of pediatricians are collating, saying that allowing children to make permanent changes to the actual form of who they are would be considered child abuse.
Do you believe that?
unidentified
Honestly, yeah.
Yeah, I do.
I think that, like, you know, the kids don't really have a choice in that.
The adults are really just enforcing that on them.
And yeah, I think that's, yeah, it's formal child abuse.
They should be able to live the lives that they want to live.
elijah schaffer
So basically, here's the thing.
So let's say I was put in prison and I was incarcerated for being a criminal because I murdered someone, but I identify as being innocent.
Am I innocent?
unidentified
Were you proven innocent or proven guilty by the court of law?
elijah schaffer
Well, it doesn't really matter because in this case, when we look at genderism, when you look at a person proven, so genetically, we would prove that a male is biologically a male.
So the proof, the evidence would prove they're a male.
There's no way to prove that they're a female, but they identify as female.
So do we go by what people say or by the evidence?
unidentified
I mean, that's hard because I, again, it comes down to the context because I, I.
elijah schaffer
But in this context, it's just evidence versus someone's opinion.
unidentified
It takes the.
Then no, I wouldn't go by evidence.
So if it comes down to what prison they belong in, if they identify as a female, then I would say then they should be with other females.
elijah schaffer
What if they identify as free?
So like, let's say the DNA evidence is there.
They're both a rapist and a male, but they identify as a free woman.
Are they a free woman, just a woman, just free, or neither or both?
unidentified
Well, they're not free, but if they identify as a woman, then they belong with the women.
elijah schaffer
So why can't we identify them as a woman when biologically it says they're not, but then we put them in prison when biologically it says that they are also a criminal, but they identify as not?
unidentified
I think we should identify them as a woman.
elijah schaffer
So when does DNA matter?
unidentified
When it matters to them.
elijah schaffer
Do you believe in that there's more than two genders?
unidentified
Yes, I do, actually.
elijah schaffer
How many genders are there?
unidentified
I don't know how many genders there are, but I just know everybody is who they want to be.
Female, male, liquid, whatever they call themselves.
elijah schaffer
So like liquid, like, how do you identify as a liquid?
unidentified
Liquid transgender.
I've heard that that's people that just, one day they just want to dress as females, some days they want to dress like more maleish.
That's as far as I know as I've seen on.
elijah schaffer
But you do say you're a believer in science, correct?
unidentified
Yes.
elijah schaffer
Okay, so are you familiar with genetics?
unidentified
Yes.
elijah schaffer
Okay, so did you know on our 23rd chromosome, it's actually our XRY or XX, which determine our sex.
And basically in every human being, we have a component inside of us that determines whether we're male or female.
And there's actually no genetic alternative that tells us whether we're anything different.
Although there are some anomalies, like Kleinfelter syndrome, which you could be intersex, it's a rare genetic anomaly.
Being the fact that our sex actually determines who we are, do you think it's possible then for someone to be male or born female and then turn into the opposite gender?
unidentified
Yeah.
elijah schaffer
How so?
unidentified
I don't know, but I'm born female, and then I have feelings for other females.
elijah schaffer
Right, which would be bisexualism, which is sexual attraction, which has nothing to do with your gender?
unidentified
Yeah, I don't know, but I believe in that.
I believe that that could happen now.
elijah schaffer
So what defines someone's gender?
How do you define when someone's a male or a female?
unidentified
Honestly, I wouldn't know how to answer that.
elijah schaffer
Then how can we guarantee they could change it if we don't even know how they are, what they are?
unidentified
That's a good question.
Don't know.
I don't know.
elijah schaffer
Right, but here's my question then, because DNA technology is pretty sophisticated, but also very simple in the fact that when we read someone's DNA track upon a gel, we can see who they are based off of a profile called skewed polymorphisms.
Now, in that sort of track, we can understand not only who a person is based off of special identity markers within their genetic code, but we can also even do further genetic testing to see what their gender is.
So since their DNA, let's say, could be used, for instance, to show that they're a male, but they can go against their DNA to show that they are a female, if their DNA show that they are a criminal, but in their mind they go against that and say they're free, that's awesome.
That's great.
What do you think the difference is between those situations?
I mean, really, logically, is there a difference?
Not socially, not legally, but logically, because I'm more about rationalism.
Is there a difference?
unidentified
I mean, I think that's what makes us human is that we have to make those decisions.
We have to...
elijah schaffer
But you making it right now.
Is there a difference?
Yes or no?
Is there a difference?
unidentified
I don't want to incriminate myself on TV.
elijah schaffer
You're not incriminating yourself because you didn't commit a crime.
You're thinking.
But today, actually, ironically, thinking can be considered a crime.
Bruce, what does your sign say?
unidentified
It says, I'm Jesus Christ.
elijah schaffer
So what kind of claims make you Jesus Christ?
unidentified
Love.
Love does.
Well, it starts with, we are all one person.
You know, I am you and you are me.
That's what this means.
When we wake up to our sense of responsibility to leave this world more beautiful than we found it, that's what this means.
Then we'll actually inherit the earth.
The meek inherit the earth because we're the honest, the fact-loving, honest.
No one can compete with us when we recognize our power.
When you recognize it's your responsibility if we go extinct, all your loved ones dying.
That's on us personally.
When you realize that, that's when we wake up and save our world.
And that's actually real America, by the way.
That's our real American dream.
You know, land of the free, home of the brave.
Melting pot of people in ideas.
Bring us your huddled masses, escaping tyranny, and we will protect you.
If you cannot get here, we will come get you.
Now, it has nothing to do with something magical.
It has to do with life on Earth.
And you can make fun of the most beautiful part of our life if you want.
But skepticism, the only thing it's really created is cynicism.
We actually need to save our world.
We have no other choice if we don't learn to trust one another.
As if I am you and you are me, and share the facts, the real open and honest facts, we're going to go extinct.
And extinction means we're all dead.
Saving our world basically means loving our kids more than ourselves and loving their kids more than ourselves.
elijah schaffer
Amen.
unidentified
For sure.
However, they identify, that's what's important.
elijah schaffer
Okay, so I asked you a question: then if I identify as a billionaire, does that make me a billionaire?
unidentified
I mean, if you got that money, though.
Valid argument.
So, I mean, I see your point.
Again, like, it's that's why it comes down to how they identify.
elijah schaffer
Right, so my question is: so, let's say you bring home what you think is a woman, and you have a few drinks at a bar, and all of a sudden you start undressing them, and then you notice, wait a second, this is not an original woman.
Do you hit refurbished women like that?
unidentified
No.
elijah schaffer
But you said if it was good enough, you might.
unidentified
Yeah, but this is like hypothetical.
Like, if they created artificial vaginas that were better than like human vaginas, I might is that possible?
I don't know, you know, but I doubt it.
I do too, but hey, science is advancing, you know.
Maybe there's like a J curve, and all of a sudden there just hits this thing with artificial vaginas that make them better than actual vaginas, you know?
So you're saying that your environment and your consciousness can change that 23rd chromosome.
elijah schaffer
Right, you can't change yourself from being an XY to an XX or an XX to an XY.
You can change some expression of genes.
So basically, there are these abilities, I'm not gonna get into it, where you can turn on the expression or off the expression of certain genes with epigenetic factors, but you can't actually change the substance of the code in the DNA due to epigenetic factors.
It's just a matter of start or end release type factors here that can cause these things.
unidentified
Okay, so my question then to you is: in those cases where you have transgender or has it been observed that the 23rd chromosome is a different expression than what the physiology is?
No.
No.
elijah schaffer
Never once.
unidentified
Okay, interesting.
elijah schaffer
Right, so if I get an artist, if I get my penis chopped off, which I don't want to do, that would be, I'm, that, oh, but if I. Right.
Don't remove them.
unidentified
I love it.
Yes.
No, never.
I love my kids.
elijah schaffer
Yeah, please don't.
But we all do love that stuff.
But the thing is, if I chopped it off and then got it inserted up into a vagina, would that make me a woman?
unidentified
Yes, I believe.
elijah schaffer
But you said DNA makes you your gender.
So if I'm genetically a man, but I have an artificial vagina, so am I a man because of that?
unidentified
I guess, you know, but then like with society, if.
elijah schaffer
That brings up a good question.
So is there a difference between scientific gender and social gender?
unidentified
Definitely.
elijah schaffer
Which one do we accept by law?
So basically, if scientifically I'm an adult, but I want to identify as a kid, am I a kid?
unidentified
No.
elijah schaffer
Why not?
What if socially I identify as a child?
unidentified
If you socially identify as a child, people are going to think you're crazy.
elijah schaffer
What if I said that some people think people are crazy for being genetically a man or a woman and then identifying as the opposite?
unidentified
I don't know.
Like for them, I don't judge them.
Like I'm all for them, you know?
elijah schaffer
So who's the real crazy?
Is it the people who don't understand you or is it you, according to your opinion?
unidentified
No, I think that this is a hard thing.
I think that we as a society, Western civilization, we are just inventing terms for this stuff because we've never dealt with it.
I mean, if you go to Indonesia or some other societies and cultures that are not Western, this is like normal.
Even Native American culture, it's not something that they have a problem with, or it's, but we, and I had such a problem with it myself that I did, I was in such denial that I didn't know it was going on.
It was like, as I said, stuffed down deep into my subconscious.
It took a lot of years, a lot of years to get to where I am now to figure out exactly what was going on.
And it's not a decision I would want to do.
You know, I don't want to look like a freak.
I got huge man hands.
I got huge man feet.
I got broad shoulders.
You know, I still got a beard.
It's taking forever to get rid of.
This is not something that I would do because, you know, for fun, and it's not something I would do because on a lark.
It's not something I would do that it was like, oh, this is just a fanciful idea I have.
elijah schaffer
People would say, people, some people say it's like a fetish.
unidentified
I had to like look at that.
Was a lot of the guilt and shame was around that because I would do this at night.
I do it in secret.
And I thought it was a fetish.
And I've beat myself up relentlessly for that.
And part of this, like living as a woman full-time now and also setting up feminization surgery is that no, I'm not embarrassed about who I am anymore.
elijah schaffer
And no matter what the who are you accordingly to you now, who are you now?
unidentified
If I as a woman, I identify as Robin James.
That's my new name.
In that sense, I would disagree.
I could say that it probably that you're referencing probably hasn't been updated in years.
elijah schaffer
Yes, it's the most recent version of DSM-5.
This thesis is actually produced in 2017, and it has not yet been replicated or reproduced in the modern era.
unidentified
Has it been accepted by the AMA?
elijah schaffer
Yes, it has.
unidentified
Okay, well then, I don't know.
elijah schaffer
I'd have to personally review it before I can make a judgment.
unidentified
All right.
So, like he said, he was thinking about it over here.
So now you're making us look bad.
So, what do you have to say for yourself?
What I got to say is, man, I want to have sex with Kim Kardashian.
No, we're not talking about Kim.
We're talking about Bruce, right?
We're talking about Bruce Banner.
Not banner.
I'm not going to lie, man.
I'm going to either have sex with Bruce or Caitlin.
Say neither.
Neither, man.
He was thinking about it at first, too.
You want to honestly?
Chloe?
That's like the girl I will go for.
If you were offered one billion, if you were offered one billion trillion gazillion Zamillion dollars, would you have sex with Caitlin Jenner?
elijah schaffer
This is a question of the moment.
unidentified
I'll be a broke.
elijah schaffer
What?
unidentified
What the hell does that mean?
I'm not taking the money.
elijah schaffer
But earlier you were okay with it.
unidentified
I'm not taking the money.
I'm not taking the money.
I got EBT, baby.
Not taking it.
elijah schaffer
All right.
All right.
You're an EBT?
EBT is better than having sex with Caitlin Jenner.
All right.
unidentified
110 times more.
elijah schaffer
EBT is better than BT.
unidentified
Remember that, people.
elijah schaffer
EBT has been a BT.
We're signing out.
Thanks, guys.
Should we encourage it or should we treat it?
unidentified
Depends on the artificial vaginas, man.
Is that going to be a thing or not?
So, if the artificial vaginas are good enough, we should probably yeah, as long as artificial vaginas work, I mean, you know, it's that's awesome, dude.
elijah schaffer
I appreciate it.
unidentified
I don't want to worry about getting, you know, having sex with a man.
I mean, or at least if I do have sex with a man, I'll know that there's a reason to do it because the artificial vagina.
elijah schaffer
But you just said that if that the chromosomes make them a man, so if chromosomal they're a man, even if you're having sex with an artificial vagina, it's still a man.
unidentified
Okay, I really don't appreciate how you're using logic and reason against me.
You know, I am a social justice warrior, and I do not appreciate having my own logic and justice thrown against me, okay?
elijah schaffer
Say that.
Awesome, guys.
Thank you guys for all walking in front of the camera.
This has been a blessing.
It's awesome.
Whenever we hit on topics like this, people immediately start to say we're transphobic, sexist.
If we talk about any hot issues about transsexuality, about anything, people will immediately come against us.
And since I'm standing here with someone who is a transgender woman, would you agree that our questions have been fair and they've been open?
unidentified
Yeah, so far it's been fine, yeah.
elijah schaffer
Yeah, okay, cool, because that's what we're here to do as slightly offensive.
We're covering this topic about transgenderism.
Is it real?
Is it not?
Is it a psychological disorder?
Is it not?
We want to be fair.
We want to be honest.
We want to give the real stories of actual people, both straight, both gay, both transgender, both heteronormative, cisgendered.
And we want to hear all of their stories to give a collective opinion, not to skew the public opinion, but to hear everyone out.
Okay, so what if it matters to them that they're free?
Like the DNA says they rape the person, but they're like, nah, I don't really like, I didn't rape them.
Like, but the DNA says it like the DNA says they're a male, but like, I identify as a woman.
I'm like, but the DNA says you're a man.
And they're like, no, but I identify as a woman.
And they're like, but I identify as free.
And you're like, but the DNA says you're a rapist.
But then we let them be a woman, but then not free.
Where do we draw the line?
unidentified
And everybody gets plastic.
I don't know.
I don't really have anything to really say to people.
I mean, I just, just that if, you know, it's about content of character.
No matter what a person's sexual identity is, no matter what their sexual preference is, is this person a good person?
Are they an honest person?
Do they show up for the other people in their lives?
Do they help people?
Are they of service to other human beings?
Are they compassionate?
Are they kind?
Are they considerate?
Those are the things that matter to me, and that's the things that should matter to anybody, not somebody's sexual preference or their identity.
And I hope that you people feel that way.
elijah schaffer
Right, so this is Elijah Schaefer with Slightly Offensive.
unidentified
I'm here with Robin James.
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