Man Enrages Date After Asking Date to Split Bill 50/50
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So there's this single man.
He's got a TikTok. Everyone's got a TikTok these days.
And he has enraged the internet because he asked his date to split the bill 50-50.
Oh my gosh, how could he do that?
How could any man ask a woman to split the bill 50-50?
Here's what he posted.
Take a listen. What'd you say?
Why are we splitting the bill?
Well, I mean, it's our first date, so I thought we should maybe go half.
I can't believe you made us split the bill.
I mean, you ordered an appetizer that I didn't even touch.
Why do you think that I should pay for- Okay, but you asked me out.
I know, but you ordered something that I did.
You asked me out. Alright, I'll just take you home and...
Alright, see ya.
Hello? Hello?
See ya. All right, so just to give you some further context, they met on Tinder, the dating app.
They clearly went on a date, had some appetizers, and then he asked her to split the bill.
And she's not happy. You can hear it.
She's probably not going to be signing up for a second date.
I think we can conclude that there was no second date between these two.
And I also want to be clear that I think this person, him, total jerk, he's recording it.
Obviously, he has poor moral character, and he wanted to generate some sort of a response on TikTok.
And here we are discussing it, so I guess in that regard, he's won.
But in response to this having gone viral and people throwing a lot of hate his way, he did post a secondary video, and I think it's worth discussing what he says in it.
Take a listen. All right, so...
I got a few things I want to say about what people have been telling me, but I want to address this comment right here because I've been seeing a lot of comments just like it.
And what I don't understand is You ask for the date, so you pay.
It's not like I'm forcing anybody to go on a date with me.
Clearly, we are both 50-50 on the date.
She wants to be there just as much as I want to be there.
It's not like I'm forcing her to date me or go on a date with me.
We both want to be there equally.
Therefore, we should split the bill equally.
Another thing is just talking about Spitting the bill.
I've seen a lot of women mad about spitting the bill.
You guys don't understand. This is not back in the day where women are the prize anymore.
You guys don't understand that yet.
Nowadays, Women are not like how they used to be, where they just want to be, you know, stay at home moms, cook, clean, take care of the kids.
It's not like that anymore.
It's rare to find a woman that still wants to just do that.
So if that's the woman's job, then fine.
I'll pay the bills.
You take care of the house stuff.
But that's not how it is anymore.
There's barely any Women out there that's down to do those things. So now you
expect me to help with those things and Pay for everything that makes no sense to me
So again I want to underscore the point that I think he is a jerk
for having privately recorded somebody and her Reaction so that he could arrive at this point which by the
way He could have simply posted a video of him discussing this
and opened up the conversation But what he is saying here has some merit.
It's what I talk about on this show often.
We are now seeing the result of modern feminism.
We talk about this on the show.
We talk about the topic of hoflation, the idea that men now have to work harder to find a woman that has less substance than their grandparents had.
We live in a different time now.
Women believe that men should, yes, in fact, they should be working, they should be paying for all of the bills, more of the bills at least.
They don't want to split it 50-50.
But at the same time, they want to embody what it means to be a man, right?
We basically replace feminine energy with masculine energy.
And the result of that, this bad B-I-T-C-H culture, this I can do bad all by myself, this men ain't S-H-I-T culture is what you're seeing.
Men wondering, okay, let's just split it 50-50.
What is the point? If you're going to say that you don't want to raise the kids, if you're going to say that you don't want to stay at home, if you are going to say that men shouldn't lead, then you can't complain when a man looks at you and says, let's make everything equal.
Here is the thing, and this is the point that I always try to make clear to women, is that we are creating a society that women are not happy in, right?
We've suddenly allowed radical feminists to convince us that we should want to be just like men, that we should want to climb the corporate ladder, that we should not aspire to having kids.
We routinely cover that sort of a conversation that's happening across various podcasts where they're making it seem like the aspiration to want to stay at home is something that should be frowned upon.
So I'll ask the question, what is the value of a woman today?
What is sacred about having a woman?
If you're a man and you're looking and you're saying, I want to marry somebody, what are the attributes that you should be looking for?
Are we offering that anymore?
I think we're good to go.
I want to be clear because I often get the criticism, oh my gosh, Candice, you're always talking about women.
What about men? What about men? I'm not a man.
There does need to be a movement of men talking about what actual masculinity is.
There does need to be a movement of men that are leading, talking about what it means to be at the front of a household, to protect and to lead.
But I'm focused on femininity because I'm a woman.
And I've seen the collapse of female worth happen so quickly.
So what's the remedy to it, right?
That's always the question. What's the remedy to it?
Obviously, the remedy is not some jerk in a car secretly recording a girl so he can get ha-ha TikTok views.
I think part of the remedy is we need to just explore who it is that we're platforming, you know, why it is that we follow certain women who we know are low worth.
Why we have given in to prostitution culture, to hooker culture, to sex for free culture, and making it cool to talk about traditional values again.
So I agree that we are facing an epidemic of low-value women who in turn inspire low-value men.
But I also want to say that I am tremendously optimistic about the future because I think we're starting to change things around.
Hey guys, if you liked this video, you will definitely like the full episode even better.