INSANE Girlfriend Revenge Story?! Girls CONFRONT Brian?! She SHOOTS Her Shot?! | Dating Talk 284
Dating Talk 284 dives into raw revenge tales—Gigi’s 17-year-old boyfriend betrayal (she let his semen linger as retaliation) and Priyanka’s viral exposure of a married executive’s affair via Instagram, sparking debates on justice vs. vindictiveness. The panel clashes over OnlyFans’ role in real relationships, intelligence vs. degrees, and gender roles, with one woman insisting on $65K+ Christian husbands while others critique traditional expectations. A heated transgender debate erupts over biological sex vs. identity, ending with a near-haircut stunt for a champagne-sipping 21-year-old, derailed by liability fears. The episode blends moral dilemmas, cultural clashes, and unfiltered confessions—exposing how revenge, faith, and modern dating collide. [Automatically generated summary]
Welcome to the Whatever Dating Talk podcast, where we try to make sense of the modern dating hellscape.
I'm your host, Brian Atlas.
We're just sorry for the delay, guys, running a little bit late.
We're going to just jump right in.
So go ahead and introduce yourself, please.
Hi, my name's Gigi.
I'm 19.
I'm from Sacramento, but I am here in Santa Barbara for school, and I'm majoring in psychology.
All right.
And are you a second year?
First year.
First year, yes.
Okay.
And you're at the city college or the university?
City College.
City College.
Okay.
And have you taken any psychology classes?
Yes.
Currently, you're taking some?
One, yeah.
Have you taken any tests or essays or anything?
No.
Is it just intro to psychology?
Yeah.
Okay.
Can you relay to me one takeaway that you've learned from your psychology class?
No.
The class that you're currently in, when's the last time you had a class?
Like two days ago?
I didn't go to class last week, so like it's been like almost two weeks.
You skipped school?
I did, yes.
For any particular reason?
Like you concert or something?
No, just didn't really feel like going.
Okay.
Yeah.
Okay.
Would you say some people, look, I'm pragmatic about this.
Some people go to college for social reasons.
Their parents make them in some cases.
Do you feel like, and there's no wrong answer on this, do you feel like you are not super interested in college?
I am.
I don't skip school often, but me and my friends, the weather was just getting nice, so we chose to go to the beach instead.
Okay.
So.
Okay.
Yeah.
I don't feel like I'm being forced or anything to go to school.
And how long has it been at the city college?
Is it semester or quarter?
Semester.
Semester.
How long has the semester lasted so far?
It started back in January?
Yes.
Yeah.
Okay.
So you've been taking this class for like two months now?
Yeah.
Okay.
Tell me one thing you've learned from the class.
That psychological development starts at a young age.
Okay, W education.
And did you say where you're from?
Sacramento.
Sacramento.
Okay.
Yes.
All right.
What about you?
Hi, I'm Camila.
I'm from Seattle, Washington.
I graduated from the University of Texas in Arlington.
I'm currently an import car model and OF creator.
Okay.
Age?
27.
27.
What did you study in college?
Psychology.
Psychology.
When did you graduate?
2020.
Okay, five, six years ago.
Okay, you know the question that's coming.
Yes.
Tell me one takeaway.
Okay, so I think the more interesting that happened recently was, you know, the little monkey that got bullied.
So with that little monkey, and it was interesting to me how they handed him a little stuffed animal.
So with like Harry Hollow study, was that they made a study on a monkey where they gave him a cloth mother and then a metal mother.
And the monkey still preferred the cloth mother, despite the metal mother starting to feed the monkey food, showing that like it's just innate in like humans and animals to want to feel comforted just like over the need for food.
Interesting.
But that's not something you learned at university though, because that happened recently.
No, no, this happened recently.
But the Harry Hollow stuff I learned in university, that's part of my study in psychology.
Oh, okay, okay, I understand.
I thought this was like a new something new related to this recent monkey happening in relating to what I just saw recently and then what I learned.
Okay.
Really quick, before I want to get through the intros, but really quick, I did have a thought on this, and maybe this is already too spicy for so early on in the show.
Who here is familiar with the monkey thing?
Can somebody just really quick?
So what there was a monkey that was being bullied, a baby monkey?
His mom abandoned him.
And because you are like a priming animal in a whole zoo in Japan, he had no one else really protecting him.
And so everybody, or every other monkey within the zoo, was bullying him, throwing him around, beating him up.
And so the zookeepers decided to give him a little like monkey cloth stuffed animal.
And he was just carrying that little stuff animal around because that's his only comfort.
And so he would sleep with it.
Anytime that he would get beat up, he would run to it for comfort.
Okay, got it.
Who here felt sad about the monkey thing?
Who here felt sad about the little monkey that was abandoned by its mom?
Do I go here?
I don't know.
Ah, sure.
Fuck it.
Why not?
Who here is pro-choice?
Pro-life?
So pro-choice?
Pro-choice.
And then, are you pro-choice or pro-life?
I'm pro-choice.
And sorry, did you raise your hand for a while?
I did not.
Okay, so you don't give a fuck about the monkey.
So the question I was going to ask is, and I saw some discourse about this online, is on one hand, you have a lot of women who are upset that this poor monkey, an animal, many monkeys are deemed actually kind of almost pests in many countries.
And they're often quite annoying for tourists in certain countries.
Women seem to have more empathy for this abandoned monkey than, for example, like the millions upon millions of babies who, human babies who are aborted.
So I was curious how you might reconcile the empathy for this monkey, which is an animal.
I would say it doesn't have as much worth or value as a human baby, for example.
How would you reconcile that?
Well, I understand that, but personally for me, having empathy for a monkey is just humanity.
I feel like as a human, you should have empathy for animals, other humans.
But in terms of being pro-choice, in my opinion, it's more of the fact that like there are so many other circumstances that could happen to a woman, and I don't think that it's virtually right to force a woman to go full term, not knowing everything that could have possibly happened to her.
Okay, so you're saying like there might have been incest or there might have been SA, for example.
Well, if I were to sit here and grant in the instances where there is life of the mother, incest, or SA, that we would actually be willing to grant abortion in those instances, would you then be against the instances in which women are just pure, like, you know, they're having consensual sex with a boyfriend or they just had like a hookup at a frat house, oopsie, pregnant.
Would you be against abortion in those instances?
Yes, still.
Only for the fact that I would?
I would still be for pro-choice.
Okay.
So your issue isn't necessarily these, you know, extenuating circumstances.
Well, not just that.
I don't think that like giving birth and having to like give birth to a child is not only just for those circumstances as well, but also like there's so much more to like having a child.
You could have a child, but then next thing you know, you're still living within your parents' household.
You are not economically well off enough to give this child the best life it possibly could.
And so now you're bringing in a life that could have so much more difficulties and traumas.
And then now you yourself are also still figuring out your own life while having to raise something else.
And so for me personally, I just believe in giving birth and providing a life as easy as possible.
I mean, granted, life is not perfect, but just lessen the chances.
So of the people who are currently struggling economically, financially, should we just unalive them?
No.
The people that are alive, they're struggling financially.
That's their own choice, though.
And like, that's my thing is like, if this is your choice.
Well, nobody chooses to be born.
Yeah, no one chooses to be born.
But if you were given to choice, like if you, you don't, you yourself don't choose to be born, right?
But if you were given the choice whether or not you want to give birth and raise a child within the same difficulties that you did, knowing that you are currently not in a position to give your child a better life, why would you do that again?
Well, I don't think, I mean, it kind of worked for all of human history.
Most people were in extreme poverty, comparatively speaking.
And they seem to, oftentimes they had tens of children, you know, maybe not tens, but they had huge, large families.
And I think the other thing I would perhaps ask you is, would you grant to men the same allowance?
So for example, let's say a guy gets a woman pregnant and she wants to keep the child.
Would you allow the man an escape from being a father?
If he himself feels like this is not within his own path and that there's other things that he has to do in life, but it's the mother that wants to keep the child and believe that she herself and her family can help with this child, by all means.
That's hers.
But like within that circumstances, don't like then guilt him into it.
Because at the end of the day, it's more like it's her body.
So what about, so a guy, I mean, there's a couple different scenarios, but let's say there was a guy who, you know, he met a girl at the party, got her pregnant, she decides to keep the kid, and then you'd be okay with him not having, having some way, because as the law currently stands, she can completely go ahead with it with the pregnancy.
He would have zero say whatsoever.
And by the way, it would go both ways.
He can't force her to get an abortion.
He can't force her to keep the child.
So if she wants to get the abortion, she can have it.
She wants to keep the kid, she can, like, the man has no say.
But would you grant to the man an exit?
So, for example, child support.
Men have a legal obligation and duty.
They can be forced through the court system to pay child support anywhere from 18 to 21 years.
Sometimes if the child has health issues that would extend into adulthood, they actually, I think, sometimes might have to pay support.
I'd have to fact check this indefinitely.
In any case, are you okay with men not paying child support?
Like being able to escape child support legally?
This is where you would have the communication with that partner during the moment that you found out.
And I feel like it's important for men as well to be like, okay, like if he himself wants to say at that moment wants that child, then you should make a legal agreement for him to pay child support continuously throughout the child's life.
No, but assume in a situation the woman wants to keep it, she needs financial support, but the man didn't want any part in being a father, any sort of parental responsibility.
In that situation, do you think the man should have a legal escape from having to pay child support?
Within that situation, yes, because he himself doesn't want the child, cannot help with the child.
Question for you on this.
Do you think a really, would you be okay with like a billionaire woman getting an abortion?
Yes.
So she has the financial ability to raise the child.
In fact, she could pretty much birth the kid and have full-time staff taking care of the kid.
But you would still be okay with a billionaire woman.
Because she herself doesn't want the child at the moment.
Yeah, she just doesn't want it.
Would you be okay with a billionaire man?
Say, you know, say I make millions of dollars a year.
I knock up a woman.
She wants to keep the kid.
I don't want to, you know, wasn't my intention.
As a rich man, should I be able to escape?
Okay, well, I guess you're consistent then.
Billionaire's Dilemma00:04:27
All right.
Introduce yourself, please.
Hi, guys.
I'm Samantha from Brooklyn, New York.
I am a live streamer, and I dropped out of college.
Age?
21.
21.
Live streamer?
I do TikToks.
TikToks.
You do dances or.
I do battles and I dance.
What are battles?
What's that?
It's like a really small community on TikTok and you just battle other people.
So it's like streamer against streamer.
Like dance battle?
No, people like throw gifts at you.
I know what you're talking about.
Yeah.
Okay.
And you're from where again?
Brooklyn, New York.
Brooklyn.
Okay, Brooklyn, New York.
And you grew up there?
Yes, born and raised.
Okay, New Yorker.
And education?
You dropped out of high school?
College.
College.
What were you studying?
I was studying dental hygiene.
Dental hygiene.
Okay.
No, TikTok, live streamer.
Got it.
And do you have a background in dance?
Yeah, I do.
Yeah, I was a dancer my whole entire life, too.
I went to high school for dance.
Okay.
You went to high school for dance?
Yeah, high school and middle school for dance.
We're a little tied to the table.
I was going to ask you to show me like a pirouette or something.
Maybe at some point later if you get up.
Yeah.
Okay, cool.
What about you?
My name is Nicole Blade.
I live in Mississippi.
I work as a church secretary, custodian, and an usher part-time at the Coast Coliseum.
And I am 33.
33.
Any college or anything like that?
Art Institute of Dallas for a little bit, didn't finish it, and then Texas Center for Massage Therapy.
Okay.
And so are you a, what is it?
What's the term for like a certified massage therapist or?
Licensed massage therapy.
Licensed massage therapist.
How tall are you?
Six foot.
Six foot.
All right.
We'll talk about some tall people dating then.
What about you?
I'm Sarah.
I'm from Kentucky.
I'm 42.
I am a sales manager and I graduated college a long time ago.
What did you get your history?
History.
Okay, history.
Oh, it was a long time ago.
I won't quiz you.
What about you?
Hi, I'm Priyanka.
I'm 47-year-old.
I'm from Connecticut.
I am a full-time software engineer, a part-time real estate agent.
I have a HENA art business.
I'm a social media influencer and runway and commercial modeling.
Okay.
And I am a president and founder of my non-profit, Creating Wings.
Okay.
And I have done my bachelor's, undergrad in electronics, mathematics, and physics.
My master's in finance and other master's in computer science.
And I have recently finished postgraduate diploma in artificial intelligence from University of UT Austin.
All right.
You have quite the pedigree there, I guess.
You said computer science, so you do software engineering?
Yes.
Okay.
Of course, I do detect a bit of an accent.
Were you born in the United States?
No, I was born in India.
What part?
Center.
The center of it?
Okay.
And when did you move to the United States?
Ten years ago.
Ten years ago.
Do you have, I guess, what are the visa?
Have you become a naturalized citizen?
This was my second marriage.
I married to a U.S. citizen.
So you have your green card?
Is that?
No, I'm a citizen.
Oh, okay.
You became a naturalized citizen.
Yes.
Okay.
So you had to go through the citizenship process, though.
Yes.
Okay.
I came on a green card and then became a citizen.
I see.
Okay.
And I'm trying to think if I had some other question for you on some of this.
You've done quite a bit of education.
Do you have student loan debt?
Unfortunately not.
You don't have?
No.
Oh, wow.
Okay.
Because Most of my study was in India and it was way cheaper at that time.
Becoming a Citizen00:03:23
All right.
And you do runway modeling.
You said that.
Yeah, I did New York Fashion Week, Milan Fashion Week, Paris Fashion Week.
My daughter is in college, so I have a lot of time to just enjoy my life now.
So, yeah.
All right.
What about you?
My name is Erin.
I am 42.
I live in New York City now, but I'm from Wisconsin where I went to school for communication graphic design.
Okay.
And you're a comedian?
Stand-up comedian?
I am a stand-up comedian.
You were on Kill Tony, is that correct?
Twice on Kill Tony, and I think I'm on my seventh appearance on Legion of Skinks.
And usually they give you like what, a one or two minute set on Kill Tony?
You do a minute, yeah.
Give us your minute.
My first one?
My first time ever.
So I could do both if you want.
Oh my gosh, wow, it's been seven years.
My first minute I did, I knew I had to start doing stand-up now because I'm getting older and I don't want to end up getting famous for my comedy before it's too late, like, or get famous for being amazing when it's too late, like, you know, like Galileo or Van Gogh or John Benet.
But yeah, and I have, I have to be careful.
I'm totally forgetting my minute right now.
I do have to be careful because you want to make sure that you don't impersonate the greats when you do it.
And, you know, some of those people were really legends.
Like, for example, I met one of the legends once.
I met Bill Cosby in Chicago in a hotel.
It was whatever.
It wasn't important.
It wasn't memorable.
Oh, fuck.
You ever have your punchline fucked up by a repressed memory?
Hashtag me too.
But you do also have to be careful when you do stand-up because you don't want to be like the obvious thing.
Like, I didn't want to be sitting up here talking about how much I love Dick because then I just become the answer to the question no one is asking.
Could Amy Schumer be more well-fed?
Okay.
I actually messed that up.
I forgot a few.
There, sorry.
I don't have any, I don't have his cat noise, but I figured I played.
Okay.
All right.
That's more of a.
What about you?
My name is Lisa.
I'm 26.
I'm currently working in retail, but I do have my esthetician license and I want to pursue my cosmetology.
And then eventually I want to run my own business and have my own hair salon.
Okay, got it.
Did you say anything education-wise or education-wise?
I did go to Shaman University.
didn't finish it.
Instead, I'm more interested in trade school and cosmetology.
Okay.
Can I have you just tilt your microphone down?
And then what about you?
I'm Mandy.
I'm 39.
I'm from Quebec, Canada, and I only have my high school diploma.
All right.
Quebec, Canada.
Let's see.
What do you do for work?
Oh, sorry.
I'm a sales representative.
I sell tractor attachments.
Okay.
Born in Vietnam00:06:34
We have a very geographically diverse group here.
I guess also diverse in other ways.
No black women at the table.
And I'm the oldest one here, I guess.
And it does skew a little on the older side with the panel here.
And you're the only, nobody else does like sex work or anything.
You do OF.
Nobody's like, you feet pics or anything or no sugar daddies?
Feet pics.
Feet pics?
You sold feet pics?
Currently.
Are we going to give her the sex worker label?
I don't know.
Have you had a sugar daddy?
No.
Okay.
So, okay, good.
I mean, I tend to prefer the panels that have fewer, no offense, fewer sex workers.
But just people, it's a criticism we get, like, oh, you only bring on OF girls, blah, blah.
But here we have a group of pretty normal people.
Well, that's to be determined.
Your careers are normal, so to speak.
So, okay.
And like, so New York, and you're from Seattle, you're from I live in Mississippi.
Mississippi.
Someone's from Kentucky.
Kentucky, you're Indian, and you're there, and you're from New York or something, but originally from Wisconsin.
I'm in Canada.
I'm originally actually from Germany, born there.
And then I moved to San Diego, California.
Interesting.
I'm originally from Michigan.
Originally from Michigan.
Yeah.
I was born in China.
I was born in Vietnam.
Born in.
Oh, wow.
Yo, this is a very diverse group.
Okay, wait.
I want to write some notes here.
Okay, so China, Vietnam, and then India, and then Germany.
Okay.
All right.
And you're in Canada.
You don't have like U.S. citizenship here.
You're Canadian.
No, I'd love to.
Answer the mic, please.
No, I'd love to be a U.S. citizen, but I am not.
Well, Canada is kind of cooked.
It's definitely cooked.
Definitely cooked.
Definitely cooked.
Really quick question.
And here, you know what I got to ask?
Are you like Asian?
Yes.
Filipina.
Mm-hmm.
Fucking nailed it.
Okay.
White.
White and Filipina?
Yeah.
Okay.
All right.
And so you were born in China?
Yes.
Did you, were you adopted or did your parents came with your parents?
Yeah.
Okay.
And then you were born in Vietnam?
I was born and raised in Vietnam.
When did you move to the U.S.?
When I was seven.
Okay, so you're a citizen then?
Now, yes.
Now, yes.
Okay.
Parents became citizens?
Yeah, parents became citizen because my grandparents were in the Vietnam War.
Okay, gotcha.
They were the NVA?
H-O- No.
Hold on.
There's the VC.
I'm trying to remember the names for the belligerents.
The VC were opposed to the Americans.
Is that also...
Wait, hold on.
Chat.
Yo, Chad, is NVA, that was our side?
American side?
NVA?
Would that be nor no?
Wait.
They're the South and Americans was helping the South.
Okay, it's been a minute since I played Battlefield Vietnam.
I forgot the.
Okay, anyways.
Okay, question for the, really quick just on this topic.
Hold on, let me get my notes on this.
And your parents, are they still together?
Yes.
Okay, parents still together?
Okay.
Have your parents become citizens of the U.S.?
My dad is a citizen, but my mom has a green card.
Gotcha.
Okay.
So question for the very diverse people here at the table.
One sec.
Let me see if I can find the actual notes on this.
All right.
Well, normally I do this a little later on, but figured why not?
We're already talking about it.
All right.
So I'm going to present a hypothetical to some of you here.
In a morally neutral, blame-free hypothetical, conflict between the United States and either your but either your birth country or country of your parents' origin, where neither side is right or wrong, to which country is your allegiance?
United States.
United States.
W. Let's go, Gigi.
Okay, the United States.
What about you?
United States.
United States.
Same.
United States.
The Philippines, I guess.
Yeah.
Your allegiance, United States or India?
So yes, United States, but you know, I love equally both the countries because that's my mother country.
But if it's any conflict, I will always be with the United States.
What about you, Miss Germany, I guess?
I would say United States, especially with what's going on in Germany right now.
Like we have all of the like other Muslims coming in and like kind of taking over.
So definitely US.
Okay, wow.
And by the way, just to be clear, when I asked this question, it doesn't mean that you, you know, if the country of your origin speaks a different language or you have family there or it doesn't mean you have to completely revoke an affinity for your home country or the cultural ties or anything like this.
It's purely just if there was some conflict to which country is your allegiance.
This almost reminds me a little bit of the Olympics.
There's a bit of a you know what I'm talking about?
With Alyssa Liu and Eileen Gu, where Alyssa Liu, they're both, I'm trying to remember the, I don't know the exact background, but Eileen Gu, like, I think, I don't know if she was born in China, but grew up her whole life in San Francisco, goes in, but she's like half white, half Chinese.
Confronted And Cheated00:14:43
She, even though having lived in the United States pretty much her whole life, represents China in the Winter Olympics.
And there's like this big kind of drama conflict there.
And then you have like based Alyssa Liu, the ice skater, who represented the United States.
I think there was also a guy that was Ukrainian that skated for the United States.
Oh.
As well, he was like part of the duo.
Got it.
All right.
We're going to go around the table once more.
Actually, do I do the intro?
No, I'll do the intro in a little bit.
Let's do everyone's relationship status.
So tell me your relationship status.
If you're in a relationship, how long have you been in the relationship?
If you're single, how long have you been single?
And what's the longest for either one?
What's the longest relationship you've ever had, starting with you?
I have a boyfriend.
We have been together for about two and a half years, and he is my longest relationship.
You guys met in high school?
Yes.
Okay.
And is it long distance or is he here?
Long distance.
Where is he?
He goes to ASU.
Okay, not too far, but I mean, it's a plane ride.
Okay, do you guys, does he come visit you?
Do you go visit him?
I have gone and visited him the past two times, but he is coming in April to visit me.
Okay.
And it's, you're both, for both of you, it's your first year in college?
Yes.
Okay.
Yeah.
ASU, that's quite a party school, isn't it?
It is.
Is he in a fraternity?
No.
Okay.
Do you ever worry?
No.
You trust him?
Yes.
You see this area, Santa Barbara.
Yeah, I mean, I'm in Santa Barbara.
Quite a party school, party area, too, I guess you could say.
What about you?
Single.
It's complicated.
Oh, it's single or it's complicated?
Single, but it's complicated.
I'm talking to someone.
Just kind of scared to get in a relationship.
How long have you been single for?
A year now?
Sitting a year now?
One year.
But in that year, have you had a situationship?
Yes.
Like, what was the period of time that that situationship lasted?
I'm in one right now.
How long have you the situationship?
How long have you been in it?
I believe three months.
Three months.
Okay.
Longest relationship ever been in?
Four years.
Four years?
When did that end?
2020?
Okay.
Who broke up with who?
I broke up with him.
Any reason?
I just couldn't stay in Texas.
I knew I wanted more for my life.
Okay.
How long have you been doing OF, by the way?
Since 2023.
Gotcha.
Okay.
Got it.
Okay.
Are you seeing just one guy currently?
Yes.
Okay.
You don't have a roster?
No.
I. Surprising.
I believe in monogamy.
It's just more like, I feel like there's every sex worker is different.
Personally, for me, my circumstances may be a lot more surprising than the normal stereotype.
Yeah.
All right.
The guy you're dating, is he also OnlyFans person or whatever?
No, he's not an OF critic.
Do you do boy girl content?
I do not.
Ever.
It's just me.
Nope.
Only social content.
Okay.
All right.
What about you?
I'm single.
The longest relationship I've ever been in is two years.
Okay.
How long have you been single for?
A year and a half.
Is there a guy in the picture currently?
No.
Nothing?
Nothing.
Zero?
Zero.
Zilch?
Zero.
Texting?
Nine, nothing.
Texting, messaging, dating app.
You're not on any dating apps?
I am on them, but I haven't touched it in like three months.
You haven't logged in, okay.
Yeah.
And the last guy I saw tried to kiss me, and I don't want to do that.
Kiss?
I just met him.
What the hell?
I'm not kissing him.
I've never done that.
Kissed somebody?
On the first meetup?
Yeah.
That's pretty normal, I think.
I can't do that.
Really?
Yeah.
Well, tell us what you can do.
Oh, like on a link, like a first well in your messages to us you included a very uh a very interesting anecdote.
I'd like you to uh sh regale us with the tale Okay, so just start from just right into it jumping.
We're doing this, okay?
So when I was 17, I was dating a guy four years older than me and he was living with me for a couple like months and it was because his house was in foreclosure.
So I had him stay with me and I went on a vacation.
He ended up cheating on me while I was on the vacation.
While he was staying with me, I looked through his phone.
I look through the phone.
I see that he cheated on me.
Wonderful.
So then that same day, I went to my first boyfriend's house.
So he's my ex.
And that's his friend too.
So they were both friends.
I saw him and my boyfriend, he came in me.
And then repeat that one more time.
Yeah, my first boyfriend came in me.
Ejaculated.
Yes, ejaculated.
Ejaculated, yeah.
Yeah.
Just need to make it clear.
Yes, yes.
All right, continue.
Then I went home to my current boyfriend and I don't like getting ate out, but I didn't care.
So he then ate me out with his friend's semen in me.
The same day.
What?
Yeah.
Excuse me.
That's fucking disgusting.
You know what?
He did cheat on you, though, and he lived with your house.
In your house.
Yeah.
Gave him a job and everything, too.
But he doesn't know.
But now he will.
So if you're out there, I did you so dirty.
Wow.
I just did you so dirty.
How long ago was this?
I was 17, so like four, four, five years ago.
I would never do something like that now.
Have you done something like that?
No, after that, I never did anything like that ever again.
That was just rage and not giving a fuck.
Sorry, excuse me.
You know, I have some thoughts on this, but I'd like to hear from the women and say, well.
So, okay, just so I understand, the guy you were seeing at the time, he cheated on you.
Yes.
And you were upset.
You go console yourself with your ex-boyfriend.
Yeah, who was also his friend.
Oh, they were friends.
That adds a layer to it.
He ejaculates in you.
There's no better way to say it.
And then, what was it, 30 minutes later?
Oh, it was like 15.
15, so just the Lyft ride home.
In the lift.
No, I was alone in the lift.
You know, I went home.
And he was at my house waiting for me.
But so was this like you hooked up?
Like, were you planning it?
No, it was just, I was mad.
I texted him.
He said, okay, come over.
I came over.
But normally, I think in your notes, you said you normally don't like it when men go down.
Yeah, I don't.
I don't.
I do not like that.
So, but you asked him specifically to go down, is that correct?
Yes.
Because, yes.
There was another man's seed inside and leaking out of you.
Yes.
That is fucking terrible.
I cleaned up a little bit.
I still had to make sure there was some in there.
Did you, after finishing that act, did you at least tell the current boyfriend, I know you cheated on me?
Did you confront him?
I confronted him that same night.
I found out.
I confronted him.
I was like, what the fuck is this?
Excuse me.
And yeah.
So just, I don't know if you want to share your thoughts going around the table.
I mean, like, yeah, I think it's gross, but honestly, if I found out that a guy who was living in my house cheated on me, I mean, like, come on.
Like, really?
Like, that's.
Well, yeah, cheating's wrong.
Shouldn't cheat.
But so do you, do you have a sense of, like, fair game, kind of?
Yeah, yeah.
It's like, kind of, if you go low, I'll go lower.
You know, they say that the best revenge is moving on.
I mean, yeah, that too.
Oh, I carried it on.
I missed that shit for a year.
Yikes, your thoughts?
I just have a question.
In what form of like cheating did you find out he was?
If you can, try to talk straight.
And what form of cheating did you find out that he was participating in?
He was going to another girl's house while I was away on a vacation and seeing other girls at the house.
Like he didn't bring them inside, but he had them drop him off at the house and he was doing other things with the women.
So he was physically cheating?
Yeah, physically, yeah.
Okay.
I saw pictures and stuff.
It was not pretty.
Okay, then I think that's fair.
Thoughts?
You moved in the shadows.
Wow.
That's all I have to say.
That's okay.
While it's not something I would do, I think that is a great story.
I mean, you know, you come to watch for your actions.
So I completely agree with her because as a woman, we do a lot for a man.
When we are in love, especially me, we pour the whole heart out and everything.
And when we found out that somebody is cheating, whereas we are giving them so much of love and respect and everything.
So she just used another way.
I had used something completely different, but as brutal.
So I'm with you.
Do you want to tell us what that was, Super?
Yeah, so my last boyfriend, he cheated on me in the sense that he came to the United States and we met on Hinge.
And he said, you know, whatever relationship status he said, you know, I said, I'm completely monogamous.
And we were dating for three years.
And I did every possible thing.
Even I put a fast for him, you know, for his long life.
And I realized that he was just here alone because the wife is taking care of the kid in college back in India.
And he is at an executive position at a very big company where I used to work.
So I know him through LinkedIn and all.
And when I realized that his wife is coming, from eight hours talking, he completely like blocked me.
Just because my three-year period is over and now the wife is coming.
So I applied all my software engineering mind, found his wife, called his wife.
I used so many tactics to do that, and God helped me with that.
And I told his wife, and the wife was completely shocked.
And then I realized from the wife's Instagram, like he did not have any post with wife on his social media, but wife does.
And I realized, like, he met me in the US, went to India, and then went on a vacation with his wife.
And he told me, I'm going to a temple because my mother passed away.
You know, he used his mother who passed away in every conversation.
Like, he's such a saint.
So it's like when you're heartbroken.
So I told his wife, like, I completely ruined because they belong to a completely orthodox traditional family.
And I not just told his wife, but I spread the news and all his relatives on Instagram.
Yes.
Okay.
Your thoughts on her thing.
For you, you were young, and I think that you and the boyfriend at the time were just in a position where you didn't respect yourselves at all, just to be real.
You were young, you clearly learned a lesson.
You did something wrong.
There's no fair game.
You did something wrong, and you know it.
You're a grown-ass woman, though.
I'm just putting that out there.
You're a grown woman, and you just said completely unapologetically that you sought out and made multiple steps to ruin someone's life.
It doesn't matter what he did.
You're accountable for your actions.
And to say that God helped lead you to ruin someone's life, that's a completely different story than a 17-year-old who did something sideways.
As a woman, other women should know.
Like, he's cheating the wife, and he said I had no idea.
But you said it wasn't just the wife.
You also said you told his whole family.
You set out, you just admitted, you set out to ruin his life.
Yes.
That no matter what he did, you're responsible for your actions.
And to say that God helped you be petty is out of pocket.
I slept over it and I asked God, if you, if I can reach his wife somehow, that means you want me to communicate to the wife.
And so I wait, really quick.
I'm sorry, I was like focusing on something else, so I kind of like zoned out.
It was a guy cheating on his wife.
What was your involvement again?
Were you dating him?
Yeah, I met him in the U.S.
Okay.
On Hinge Dating App.
And did you go on dates with him?
We dated three years.
Oh, three years.
Okay.
Like close to three years.
And he had a wife the whole time?
Would It Be Justified?00:05:28
Yes, in India.
And he went on a vacation.
Yeah, not here.
That's why he used to live in my house.
I used to live in his house.
His wife was in India, but he was living here for three years?
Yeah, because he moved for the job.
No, that's common.
Okay.
My only question is.
So you approached the wife first, yes?
Yes.
So did you ask the wife how she would feel if you were to tell everyone else?
Like if she was okay with it?
No, I did not because I know the Indian culture.
The wife is promoting the behavior.
You know, that's why he's going on and on.
Like the wife is okay with the behavior?
Yes, I think so.
But you just said you think so.
Because according to him, he is cheating and the wife caught years ago.
That means it's a repeating behavior.
And the wife is still like due to the social pressure, the wife is still with the.
Well, yes, it could be a repeating behavior, but at the same time, maybe like there's so much situations where you don't know.
She could believe that he could change or that like there's family involved.
There's just so much within it.
And I think it's just more of a respect thing for her as well to ask whether or not she would be okay with you telling everyone else.
Because it also looks bad for her.
Yeah, I mean, I guess I don't want to linger on that for too long, but there could be some argument made that it's acceptable to tell the direct person that is affected by this.
I wasn't paying attention to all the details.
I was distracted by a tech thing going on.
But the going to the family, that seems.
I think people will probably might side with you on the going to the wife thing, letting her know.
But I think that ought to have probably been the extent of it.
Telling the whole family seems particularly malicious and vindictive.
I know.
Okay.
All right.
Your thoughts, Lisa, on her?
My thoughts.
I feel like you were young.
So I feel like when somebody cheats, especially when the guy is older, when you're young, I feel like you don't really like.
I don't want to say you don't think about it, but I definitely wouldn't think.
It's like, yeah.
So what I'm saying is like you can still take the accountability for it.
But I think because you were so young, it's like you don't really think about it.
So you just do it.
Yeah.
I wouldn't like justify that, but as I don't.
I think there's a certain element to keeping your dignity intact, right?
And taking the higher ground.
I'm sure you're sorry for it now.
And as long as you're sorry, you're not.
See, I don't care.
I was really banking on that.
But I mean, I don't know.
You know, I think eventually you're going to have to just come to terms with yourself eventually and just kind of feel bad about it a little bit because in the end, you've given him the validation for cheating on you, right?
Oh, well, she was crazy anyway.
Look what she did to me.
So that's fine.
Yeah.
That's his opinion.
I mean, she definitely got revenge on the dude.
Like, that's fucking disgusting.
Nobody wants to say it.
That is gross.
You basically forced him to be almost kind of gay, to be honest.
He definitely was.
He told me that he kisses boys.
Oh, well, I guess it's.
So he was bi.
I don't know.
I guess he maybe it's actually not.
I don't know.
It's probably an army thing.
That might be.
It might not even be.
I know a bunch of army boys that if he's like into that, he might be like dope, I guess.
Good reward.
I personally find that fucking one of the most disgusting things ever.
I remember once, this girl never actually ended up making on the show, but she sent in pre-show notes similar to you.
I wish she came on the show because I would have had some words with her.
She, and not a cheating situation.
She was dating this guy.
And I'll open this up to the panel to give your input.
This girl was dating this guy.
And she says he, after she went down on him, he didn't like to kiss afterwards.
He had a sexual boundary.
You know, she goes down on him.
He didn't want to kiss afterwards.
And so what she wrote was, I guess she didn't like that, right?
Hide it for now.
She didn't like that.
So she said the next time that they hooked up and she received his seed, I guess you could say, she Kept the seed in her mouth and spit it in his mouth.
Oh.
Now, I think that that's fucking a sex crime, to be honest.
Yeah.
That's like total sex crime.
Yeah.
If it was up to me, I was the fucking cops.
I'd arrest her.
If I was the judge, you're going on the sex offender registry.
You're going to prison.
Like, that's completely.
I'm sorry.
If a guy has stated, just even kiss, like, even if she, you know, she and he has an issue with kissing, then you're going to have to do that.
That would actually be illegal because it's a bodily fluid.
That person could have had a disease or something.
That would be illegal.
Sex Crime Discussion00:02:32
You're right.
That would be a crime.
I mean, I don't know how the courts would view it, but that's, I mean, it's wild.
I don't know.
Like, look, fuck.
I don't know if I should.
If a girl did that to me, do I fucking.
You know what?
There's some things I'm not going to say on the internet.
You can punch me.
No, not what you did.
No, no, no, I know.
If I did that, but like what that girl did.
You could punch me.
It would be.
I'm not going to say it on the internet.
I'm not going to say it on the internet, but.
This is a comedy skit.
Yeah, in Fortnite.
In Fortnite.
NGTA.
I think it would be justified if you did.
I mean, look, I.
I think even for a very mentally stable man, that would be extremely triggering.
Like, and you probably would not even be able to control what you did next.
I would restrain myself, but there would be a temptation.
Speaking as a woman, keeping that in your mouth is both disgusting and a weird challenge.
That's gross.
I can't.
Well, I mean, some women have different appetites, but look at this beautiful sunset we have.
Look at the sky.
Very lovely.
Very nice.
Very nice day in Santa Barbara, California.
By the way, speaking of beach weather, it's been very nice in Santa Barbara.
I feel sorry there's anybody viewing from a cold region.
Who's in a cold region lives in a cold region?
Well, back home, like today or yesterday or in a couple days, what's the temperature?
Strong.
Snowstorm, freezing.
Okay, all right.
Yeah, we had a blizzard on Monday.
So my husband's sitting sick at home with a cold.
Okay, here we have a super chat.
I'll just read really quick.
Corey, thank you for the super chat.
Can you ask the women why they think Trump won over Kamala?
Thank you for the super chat.
Maybe woke stuff.
Also cool.
Andrew was on Rogan LL.
I need like a one-sentence answer if you'd like to answer the question why you think Trump won over Kamala.
Because he was like gonna be a better president.
Better, except what do you think?
I don't think America's ready for a female president.
Not ready?
Okay.
He's a man.
He's a man.
That's why he won.
He had coherent sentences and you can understand him.
More coherent.
Ho Phase Explained00:15:48
Okay.
All right.
What about you?
I think that the lift is just getting too far extreme that some people, even that lean lift, are a little uncomfortable with it.
Okay, go ahead.
She doesn't make any sense when she responds something.
I just cannot because of American issues that American people are facing.
She doesn't think about that.
And Trump was spot on.
Okay.
She lied about being a Tupac fan.
You can't lie in a legend.
Can't lie about that.
What about you?
Maybe because she has a Camel Toe and like because they were saying Kamala and then Camelto, Kamala.
Okay, that's a first.
Okay.
Everything they said in Ehas Ross too.
So we're ready then.
Okay, let's continue on with the relationship status.
But by the way, disavow.
That's so funny.
I'm sorry.
That's so funny.
I would never do that ever again.
Ever.
So you learned your lesson.
Oh, yeah.
I learned my lesson.
I don't regret it, though.
So you do.
Oh, you don't.
I don't.
I don't care.
Because I don't care.
Look, cheating's wrong.
The guy shouldn't have been cheating.
Damn, that's brutal.
I don't know if there's something.
Like, what the fuck could a guy do that would be even equivalent to that?
There's not, I feel like there's nothing a guy can do that's as gross.
Really?
Good.
Like, I don't know what.
Yeah, what could a guy do?
Ooh.
AIDS.
Double deep.
AIDS.
Go down to the little truck area, do the little deed, and then go do the deed with them.
Why, man, I don't think HIV would transfer.
That would cost him, too.
I don't think it's like.
Or you know what?
Anyways, whatever.
Relationship status.
Single?
All right.
How long have you been single for?
2019.
So like six, seven years?
Sure.
I'm bad at math.
Longest relationship?
Two and a half years, long distance.
I'm assuming that's the one that ended seven years ago.
2019.
It was long distance.
He was a Marine.
Okay.
How many times were there periods where you guys were in the same city?
Anytime he was on leave, I would either visit him or he would come and see me.
Okay.
Do you know how many times sometimes long distance relationships you might see each other once a month?
So you might even be like, do you think you only saw him?
Less than that.
Like 10 times, 20 times?
Probably three times.
In person, you only met per year.
Yeah.
So maybe you met less than 10 times.
Yeah, most of our relationship was.
And then how long would you spend together?
A couple days?
A couple weeks?
A week.
One week.
Two and a half years.
Yeah.
And y'all spent like two months together, basically.
Pretty much.
Maybe.
Okay.
Was it monogamous?
He did cheat on me, though.
What branch of the military?
Marines?
Again?
Marines.
Okay.
Semper Phi, I guess.
This is your only boyfriend.
Is that correct?
Yeah.
Okay.
You had only boyfriend long distance.
And this was, wait, this was the one that ended in 2019.
Okay, so you had your first boyfriend at 20.
I think it was 2016 I met him.
And you were held then?
You're asking me to do math right now.
Well, you're 33 now, so maybe you were in your what, your mid-20s when you met?
Yeah, I would say early 20s.
Okay.
And the point of clarification, you're saying it's your first boyfriend.
Were you a virgin?
No.
Okay, so you've had more casual experiences.
I had a ho phase.
You had a ho phase?
I did.
Did you have a ho phase after?
No.
So have you been celibate for seven years?
No, unfortunately.
And I wouldn't say celibate.
Abstinent.
When's the last time that you've had a situationship in the past seven years?
The end of 2023 in February 2024.
So less than two and a half months.
So, okay.
December 2023.
Between those.
So like the last week and then February 2024.
So you've been have you been celibate for two years?
Abstinent.
Abstinent.
Yes.
Okay.
What's the difference?
Celibacy is like that is your mission in life, that you just want to stay single.
Like Paul, he just remained.
And then abstinent is your choosing.
Okay.
And then you said you had a ho phase?
I did.
What age to what age was the ho phase?
Early 20s to mid-20s.
Did you go to high school?
Not high school.
I did go to high school.
College.
Excuse me.
College.
I guess you could have a ho phase.
No, not college.
It was Art Institute of Dallas for like less than a year.
Hey, you know, look, even your most gracious host has had a ho phase.
Who here just showed, maybe going around the table, yes or no?
Have you had a ho phase?
I'll answer first.
Yes, I've had a ho phase.
Ho phase?
Yes.
Yeah.
Oh, before the boyfriend?
Yes.
Okay.
No.
No ho phase?
Really?
Yes, really.
Okay.
Yes.
Ho-faze.
Ho-faze.
Yeah.
Ho-faz.
Can you please explain?
A 3-0-Foe, a strumpet, a slut, a slut, a whore.
A slew.
No.
Having carnal knowledge with many men.
No.
Sexual intercourse with many men.
No.
A good amount of men.
P in the V. Okay.
Ho-faze?
No.
Ho-faze?
No.
Ho-faze?
No.
No Ho-Faze.
Just curious.
You know what?
Really quick, just because I'm curious, when you say ho-faze, though, that can mean something pretty, nothing too crazy, you know?
Still ho-phase, but not like Bonnie Blue, fucking 100-dude, gangbang type shit.
Definitely not that.
Can you explain to the audience and to the table what was the ho-phase?
I did the dating apps, Tinder, plenty of fish, when that was popular.
Christian Mingle.
No, not Christian Mingle.
Hinge.
Farmers only.
Never did Hinge.
And I'd meet the guys, and obviously we'd have a few dates, I guess, meetups or whatever.
And yes, I slept with them.
Okay.
And you said this was like going on for a period of like a couple years?
Two and a half years, possibly.
And would you go on like a date every week or no?
It was spread out.
Spread out.
Okay.
Very spread out.
Well, Gigi, what was the ho phase?
What was that?
it was not like sleeping with people it was just like like dating a couple guys or Yeah.
Okay.
Nothing crazy.
Ho-faze.
Tell us about the ho phase.
It was.
Is it ongoing currently?
No.
current.
It's nothing right now.
It was with that boyfriend that I was with.
Wait, you had the ho phase?
Yeah.
So you were cheating on him too?
No, that was only after.
Oh, after.
Yeah, after.
So then I had sex with my coworker that I knew for a couple months.
Sure.
And then I had sex with another man that was my friend for a couple years.
Okay.
And then I did that again, and then I broke up with him.
Any women in there?
No women.
No.
All right.
Any other?
Okay.
All right.
Okay, so one boyfriend, did you say I love you to him?
Only guy you said I love you to?
Yes.
Okay.
You've had some shorter-term flings, it sounds like.
If you call it that, yeah.
All right.
You're Christian, correct?
I really don't like to use that term anymore.
Oh, okay.
You're not Christian?
Because it's lost all meaning.
How so?
The women that come on here and claim they're Christian.
Sure.
So I'd like to say I'm God-fearing.
I go by the Bible.
I'm a disciple of Christ.
So a Christian?
Sure.
Do you want to put well?
I mean, just because, look, people come on the show and they are Christian or claim to be Christian, but perhaps they're not walking in alignment.
I don't think that would preclude you from just whatever happens on whatever podcast isn't necessarily a broader indictment of Christianity as a whole.
But are you waiting until marriage?
Yes.
Hey, we got to have, I'm sorry, can you repeat that?
Yes.
Yes, I am.
Okay, so you're waiting until marriage.
What?
And how long have you, you said two years that you've been celibate?
Or what is it?
What was the word you used?
Abstinent.
Abstinent.
Okay.
And you're 33, correct?
Okay.
Now, here is where things get interesting.
I'm assuming you want to get married?
I do.
You want to have kids?
I do.
Okay.
I assume you want to marry a Christian man.
Absolutely.
Okay, and now how steadfast, camera switch please.
How steadfast are you on this waiting until marriage thing?
110%.
So you meet a great guy, Christian guy, but he's like, look, we're both, you know, we're in our mid-30s.
Neither of us are virgins.
We have our past.
I don't want to wait.
He's not Christian.
Well, you've struggled with dating, is that correct?
Yes.
The issue is, is that the type of man who's going to be willing to wait.
Are God-fearing men?
Well, temptation happens.
I get that.
I do understand that because I did.
I fell into temptation.
I think if you put that boundary down and they still pressure you, then they're not respecting you and your wishes.
So they still keep pushing and pushing and pushing and you've said no.
This is where we stop.
And he's keep pushing.
That's probably a sign that that's not the one.
He's not for me.
Sure.
I just think the proportion of men.
So what's the age range of men you would date?
Late 20s to early 40s.
Okay.
So have to be willing to wait until marriage.
Absolutely.
Have to want marriage.
Have to be Christian or at least share your outlook, it seems.
We have to be aligned in Christ.
And you're six feet tall?
I am.
Will you date a guy shorter than you?
5'11 at the least.
I did put six feet, but 5'11 at the least.
You did ride six feet on the minimum.
Okay, so that's only 15% of men are six feet and over.
So of the remaining 15% of men of the population, and I'm assuming it, I mean, you're six feet, they're six feet.
You're probably like the guy who's just your same height.
I'm assuming that's still less than ideal, correct?
Like that's your bare minimum, but you'd probably like 6'3, right?
6'1.
Okay.
Well, then we're talking about like less than 10% of the population.
How many kids do you want?
As many as God will give me.
Okay.
Being 33.
Okay.
Well, I mean, I guess I'd give you some feedback here.
Can you turn your head that way?
And then back this way.
Okay, you have neck tattoos.
Do you have any hand tattoos?
Okay.
And I did know that you have very short hair, too.
Yes, I shaved my head last year.
Why?
Oh, well.
It was a bucket list thing.
I wanted to do it.
There wasn't a particular reason, or just wanted to shave it.
Shaved your head.
Oh, this is a good topic, actually, the head shape thing.
But before we get into that, I think, well, one thing.
I think you're going to have to grow out your hair longer.
I am.
I'm trying to.
And you should probably remove the tattoos.
A waiting until marriage Christian man is not.
Frank, look, there's Christian men with tattoos, or there's Christian men without tattoos that are okay with tattoos.
But it's like the kind of guy you're going for that's chaste is going to be okay with chastity, okay waiting till marriage.
Also, considering, notwithstanding your past indiscretions, the short hair, the tattoos, you read like liberal visually.
I do.
I know.
Like you read.
So, I mean, the pool of look, hey, the pool of men that you're choosing from and that are going to choose you, it's the Venn diagram.
The Venn diagram of Christian men waiting until marriage, and then you, which is 33-year-old with extensive sexual history and neck, and blasted, not super blasting tattoos, like re like physically basically look like a liberal, uh, and short hair.
That Venn diagram is like there's very little overlap, or perhaps none at all.
It'll be a miracle.
Are you willing to become a nun?
No, not a nun, but if God calls me to sing, I'm gonna ask you a question, though, like just a hypothetical.
Okay, let's say you've struggled so far to find a guy.
Let's say 10 years goes by, and you just you've been you've been uh why do I keep blanking on the word?
Uh, abstinent.
Oh my god, I always go to celibacy.
You've been abstinent.
Struggling Standards00:07:26
There's fucking cobwebs down there and shit.
Do you relent a little bit?
You're like, fuck, I'm 43.
I guess I'll just spring break, cancun, just like get some dick.
No, you know, no, it's okay.
You'll die.
You're willing to die?
Like, without like never having sex again.
Yeah.
Okay.
She has a constitution there.
She's steadfast.
Okay.
Question for you: Do you have a celebrity crush?
Who?
Off the top of my head right now, Gabriel Basso.
Who the fuck is that guy?
Who the fuck?
Who?
From Night Agent.
I don't.
That doesn't help.
I just don't know.
Okay.
No idea.
Yes.
Hill Billy Elegy or something like that.
Yeah.
I have no idea who that is, but he's an is he attractive guy or you can Google him.
Nathan, do you want to Google?
Do you have it?
What was the name?
Gabriel Basso.
Okay.
Do you break your rule?
No.
Huh?
What?
No.
You don't break the rule?
I don't break the rule.
Okay.
All right.
Well, I guess you're consistent.
You have it?
No.
Okay, fuck.
It doesn't matter.
Um, I don't know.
Do you have an income requirement too?
What's that?
Income $65,000, $75,000.
That's not too bad.
Okay.
All right.
I don't mean to pick on you, but.
That's fine.
I guess I'm just being realistic, pragmatic.
I understand that I'm stuck with myself, too.
The Venn diagram, it's like we can want, we can all want this ideal, this perfect thing.
Like, it'd be great if I just had like a constant stream of like 20-year-old virgin supermodels who were like super-based and submissive and like agreed with me on everything.
That would be wonderful.
But I also have to be pragmatic.
Like, I'm a little chubby, I'm older, poor skin clarity, big nose.
Like, controversial podcasts.
Like, I'm probably not going to be just running through like 20-year-old supermodels.
You know, I got to be realistic, you know.
I do understand that looks matter, but character matters most.
Yeah.
But I mean, I would say, I mean, if I were to actually give advice, I mean, you got to make yourself probably more appealing to that demographic.
I think you got to maybe lose the.
When did you get the neck tattoo?
These are old.
They're old?
Yeah.
Okay.
It's my ministry.
Okay.
You wanted to come in on something?
Yeah.
Because you're demanding that your future husband has all of these qualifications.
So what are you preparing to give up or give to him in that relationship so he wants to marry you?
Because you have all of these qualifications that you want in him.
A submissive wife.
What they call in Ephesians, Titus, Proverbs, as a biblical wife.
Okay.
You're 33.
I'm sure that there's, and I mean this in the most respectful way, I'm sure that there are younger women and more fertile women that can offer the same.
So you would have to either lower your standards or like change something about yourself in order for that man to want to desire you or want you as a wife.
I understand that.
And I think a lot of Christianity today is very weak and it's not, it's so Americanized right now.
And so maybe they're not like, they're just Christian by name.
And a man wants a God-fearing woman.
I'm that.
But a Christian man, the one that you talk about, wants a woman with a low body count, young, who's going to support him in the definition of a low body count.
How many?
I mean, preferably Christian men want virgin women.
Obviously, in 2026, it's probably not the norm, but I would say less than five.
We all know that, you know, men don't normally desire women with high body counts.
It's not.
So you, like I said, you would have to sacrifice something at that point.
And that would probably be maybe giving it up before marriage.
I mean, I respect that.
Like, you've, you've, you know, accepted that you may die alone.
And that's fine.
But yeah, I think the dem, like, the, the man that you're looking for is probably slim to none without sacrificing something yourself.
I mean, I think it's, by the way, I think it's totally fine for you to have this standard where you want to wait until marriage.
I'm just trying to be pragmatic and realistic about the probability, you know, how many men in their mid-30s are still inclined to wait to have sex, wait until marriage.
Of course, there's Christian men at all ages, but it's going to be difficult.
And it might, because for example, I think you're an attractive woman.
You're an attractive woman, but I think that there are men who, for example, would date you, but they are they're like, look, I'm not a virgin.
I'm not waiting for marriage.
They would otherwise be great boyfriends or great husbands, but I think a lot of guys today, and again, your standard's perfectly fine, but a lot of guys today are just they don't want to wait and they'll find somebody else.
And so, like, so a guy could otherwise be a good partner to you, a good boyfriend, good husband, but that could be a sticking point for them in the same way it's a sticking point for you.
Again, not trying to get you to change your preference or whatever, but it is a consideration.
Okay.
It may be destiny.
I believe in destiny.
Destiny.
Yeah.
Fuck that.
I believe in free will.
Fuck get destiny out of here.
I'm going to throw all my chips in destiny.
That's for sure.
Destiny?
Hell no.
I'm carving a fucking path my own way, regardless of what the world throws at me.
Fuck that shit.
Destiny can get fucked.
Are we talking about the streamer?
No, just we're talking about destiny.
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I don't know, right?
Free will?
I don't know.
Anyways.
God's will.
Is destiny, is that a Christian?
Do Christians believe in destiny?
No.
I'm a Hindu and I do believe in like astrology and destiny a lot.
Karmas.
So you were destined to get cheated on all this stuff.
Because of my some karmas in my last life or something, I have done something wrong.
You know what?
We once had a girl on the show who she said in the past life she dated Hitler.
I don't know.
And Abraham Lincoln.
Oh, yeah.
Or no, no, sorry.
She dated a guy.
I think she did date Hitler in a past life, but she dated a guy who in his past life was a Roman Emperor and was Abraham Lincoln.
Oh, yeah.
Are you sure she wasn't in psychosis?
She had something going on.
She had something going on.
Ooh, I wanted that.
Okay, so you shaved your head.
Question for you.
Let's say you had, at the time, you were in a relationship.
You were in a relationship, hypothetically.
And you tell your boyfriend your plan.
You don't do it yet.
Your boyfriend, or it could even be your husband, whichever you prefer for this hypothetical, tells you no.
Do you shave your head anyways?
No.
Okay, all right.
She's consistent.
Going around the table for all the women, you want to shave your head.
Now, I know most of you probably wouldn't want to do that in actuality, but let's say, you know, you want to shave your head.
Your boyfriend's like, what about a bob?
No.
Your boyfriend's like, hey, please don't.
Don't shave your head.
Do you shave your head?
No.
Yes.
Yes.
Okay.
Rebellious?
No.
Okay.
All right.
To be fair, I have plans on shaving my head soon.
Just because I don't know.
I'm hitting a milestone on TikTok.
Woo.
So I just wanted to donate my hair.
Wait, wait, wait.
What's the milestone?
There's like leagues in this like follower count?
No, like it's like you make a lot of diamonds in the day and you like move up in leagues.
So you start at D5 and then you make your way all the way to A1.
Wow.
I know.
It's wow.
But I want to donate myself.
You know what?
You're going to donate it?
I'm donating it.
I have clippers.
Can we just do it right now?
Shave your head on the whatever podcast.
Let's do it.
Come on.
You down?
Okay, but we have to cut the hair so I can at least still donate it because that's the goal.
I wanted to donate it.
Well, we can just shave, scalp you.
But I want my hair.
No, put your hair in a ponytail.
Oh, we have scissors.
Yeah, no, cut that, and then you can do that.
Fuck it.
Sorry.
Yeah, you do hair.
You're down.
You're actually down.
Let's do it.
She does hair.
We'll do it.
You know what, though?
It's a healthy reset.
Wait, wait, wait.
Chat, chat, chat.
I promise.
At the end.
Yeah, at the end.
Okay, you're for sure down.
I'll shake on it.
That'll be pretty dope.
I'll shake on that.
You'll shake on it?
She does hair, so she'll know how to cut it right.
I can't reach, but I'm going to give somebody my proxy.
Gigi, you're my proxy.
Shake on my behalf.
Okay.
That was my proxy.
So we're doing it.
Legally binding.
Yeah, okay.
Wow.
Wow.
Okay, so we'll do it a little later, but I think I need a champagne pop for that.
I need you guys to pop a ball of champagne.
Pop a ball of champagne.
I don't think I should do it, though, because I think optically that would be really.
I feel like that would look bad on me.
Why?
If I'm the one scalping you, twisting it.
No, I'd want you to do it.
She's going to scalp.
And you can't do it.
You can do it like zigzag, do whatever you want.
I'll give you a mohawk or something.
Yeah, let's do it.
All right.
Wait, TOS?
Somebody in the chat says T-O-S.
I don't know.
Because you probably said scalp.
I don't know.
No, I'm not going to fucking.
I don't mean it like that.
Okay.
Here we have.
Anybody else down to get in on this?
Anyone want to?
I don't think anyone is down.
Ooh, here's a good question.
Okay, on shaving your head.
Going around the table.
Would you shave your head for a million dollars?
Yes.
No.
Well, obviously.
Do it for hamburger.
Shave it again for a million dollars?
Sure.
Yeah.
Yes.
No.
No.
Yes.
Yeah.
Wait, is it tax-free?
Tax-free.
Okay.
It has to be cash.
Please.
And Nadi, do we do like a you can't wear a wig?
Like, I already ordered my wigs.
What's the for those of you who said no, like, or no, sorry, for those of you who said yes, what's the lowest for a head shave?
100K?
Yeah.
You do it for 100K?
All right, trooper, trooper.
No, you said no.
What's the most then?
If you said no, how much would it cost to shave your head?
Two.
Two mil.
Two mil?
Okay.
You said yes?
Yes.
Lowest amount?
200,000.
200K?
All right.
No.
Probably enough to pay off my house.
So, you know.
Okay.
300.
300.
You said 300?
A million is the lowest?
Yeah.
Okay.
I don't have a number.
I wouldn't do it.
You wouldn't do it?
No.
I'm good with what I have.
10 million.
No.
100 million.
No.
1 billion.
Nope.
100 billion.
Nope.
1 trillion.
No.
Wait, are you?
Think about it.
Hold on, bro.
That's crazy.
That is crazy.
What if we let you wear a wig?
Those are so hot and uncomfortable and shifty.
No, it's not that.
It's just I have the money I have that I live a happy enough life.
Like money isn't a massive decider for me, even if it's a ridiculous amount.
But I mean, if you have $100 billion, you can give to the charitable organizations of your choice.
You'd never have to work again.
You're generations upon generations completely set financially.
Hire a maid.
Hire multiple.
You have an entire staff.
You can buy yachts.
I love cleaning.
I don't want a maid.
Okay, then still clean, but you can still everything.
That's crazy.
You wouldn't do it for.
That's crazy.
Come on.
Do you have kids?
No.
Do you want kids?
Yes.
If I had children, that would be different.
Then I would do it if I had kids to take care of them.
If you had kids, then you take the money.
Okay.
Your answer?
Probably $100,000.
$100,000 minimum?
Yo, anybody.
Okay.
Any fucking whales?
What about you?
I'd probably do it for lower, like $80,000.
Okay.
All right.
Interesting.
It's always interesting to me, the women who would not do it whatsoever.
I'm like, look, I get some value, somebody offers you 10K.
Okay, that's bull.
A lot of women, I think, would take that, but whatever.
$100 million?
That's like generational wealth.
Never have to work again money.
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And then you ask them.
Like, you could ask a girl that she would never do it.
How much do you make?
$40,000.
I'm a waitress.
Fuck it.
It would take you millennia to make that much money.
And you won't.
Your hair will grow back in like a year.
Anyways, whatever.
Okay, we have some chats coming through.
Oh, I need to finish the.
Here, I'll read this.
Actually, you know what, Gigi, you're our official reader.
Can I have you read the chat?
Girl in red dress is very hot.
I would date her.
Can you also ask their opinion on how Trump is doing?
Love you, Brian.
Who's the girl in the red dress?
Am I pink?
I think it's you.
It's not a dress.
Well, shirt.
That's a shirt.
But that's a dress.
Yeah.
So I'm assuming.
Yeah.
Because I said something about Trump, I guess.
I guess going around the table really quick, just so you can give me one sentence answer, just because they asked for it.
Opinion on how Trump is doing?
How about this?
Just approve or disapprove?
Approve.
No.
No.
So disapprove.
Okay.
Approve.
Approve.
Disapprove.
Approve.
I want to say approve, but because there's some things that I don't agree with what he's doing with overall approve.
Okay.
Approve.
All right.
Emma Imani, thank you very much for your chat there.
Appreciate it.
Okay.
I do want to finish up on the relationship status.
We've lingered a bit.
That's my fault.
What about you?
I'm married.
For how long?
20 years.
Assuming that's your longest relationship.
Kids?
Yeah.
How many kids?
We have two together, and he had a son from his previous marriage.
Okay, so you have a stepkid from him.
Okay.
Gotcha.
What about you?
I'm single.
Longest relationship, six years.
My second marriage.
And the last relationship, more than a year now.
And you've been married two times?
Yes.
And have you been married before?
Okay.
Married two times.
First marriage.
Did he have to pay you alimony?
Or was that in India?
Yeah, so we had a daughter together.
Oh, you have a kid?
Yeah.
Okay.
Elder kid?
She's in college.
Okay.
Shit, we should have done the mother-daughter episode or something.
Okay.
She's in the USA?
Yes.
Okay.
So you had a kid with your first husband, and you have just one kid?
Yes.
Okay.
At what point did you divorce?
When I was pregnant.
Oh, while you were pregnant?
You initiated the divorce?
Actually, divorce was not an option in my community that time, but I never returned back to his house because he wanted a baby boy and I delivered a baby girl.
This is in India, correct?
Yes.
Okay, yeah, I think I recall in your notes.
They wanted you to get an abortion.
Yes.
Is that correct?
Because it was a girl, obviously wrong.
So you escaped that situation, is that correct?
Yes.
Okay, all right.
My grandma took me to their house.
So, yeah, I'm not going to dive into like the Indian laws relating to marriage, divorce, whatever.
But you did have a marriage in the United States, correct?
Yes.
Okay, how long were you with him?
My second marriage lasts like six years.
Second marriage, six years.
Both were arranged marriages.
Okay, but it was here in the USA.
He was a US citizen, yeah.
But the marriage took place in the United States.
No, he came to India.
We got married and then he applied for the green card.
For you?
Yeah, because he was a US citizen.
So you got married in India?
Yes.
Did the United States courts oversee your divorce?
I'll take that's yes.
Okay, did he have to pay you alimony?
He offered, but I said no.
Okay.
The lawyer offered me, but I said no.
Can you open the door, please?
Go ahead.
I'm single.
I've been single for about four years.
My longest relationship, we were sort of together for almost 20 years, and we were officially together for eight years.
Any kids?
No.
And sorry, did you say you were married or no?
We did not get married.
Okay, got it.
What about you?
I am dating someone right now, and then my longest relationship was in high school.
It was about a year.
How long have you been with your current guy?
The current one is a couple of months.
Okay.
What about you?
I'm married.
My longest relationship is seven years.
Is that your marriage?
No.
I've been with my husband for five years.
We just got married in August of last year.
All right.
Any kids?
I have three.
So they are not with my husband that I am currently with.
And how long have you been married to your current husband?
Since August last year.
Okay, but you've been together five years?
Yeah, five years.
Okay, and then you said three kids.
Are they separate fathers or?
Yes.
So my first two boys are from my first marriage.
First marriage, okay.
Yeah.
You've had two marriages, is that correct?
This is my second one, yes.
This is your second.
Okay.
So two boys from your first marriage and then one from a relationship?
Yeah, one from a relationship.
So I was with him for seven years, about five years into the relationship.
We decided to have our daughter.
And yeah.
Okay.
And are you planning to have kids with your current husband or no?
No, I'm infertile.
Oh, okay.
And does he have kids from any prior relationships?
Okay.
All right.
Got it.
Your first marriage, how long were you married to the guy?
So I was married to him for about a year and a half.
And you were with him for longer, though?
Yeah, I was with him.
And you had two kids?
Yes.
Okay, who initiated the divorce?
I did.
Okay.
Did he pay you alimony?
No.
Okay.
Did he pay you child support?
No.
Did you pay him child support?
Nope.
Shared custody or full custody?
We had share custody up until I moved to Ontario.
So, yeah.
Okay.
And then your third child, child support from the ex?
No, I pay child support.
You pay child support to him?
Shared custody?
No, unfortunately, because I live in a different province than my daughter, we have access rates, but I see my daughter all the time.
Me and my father's daughter, sorry, my daughter's father gets along really well.
I see her, I travel a lot to the East Coast, and my job is mostly in Quebec.
So when I go there, I see my daughter anytime.
He keeps her up for me.
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He does, he's he's great.
There was no, it was never, it wasn't because I was into anything nefarious or I was a bad person.
It just, um, the circumstances were just not there.
We, um, it was pretty toxic at the end.
Um, but given that when I moved to Ontario, um, I didn't have a setup, so he obviously got custody, but I settled in court.
Sure, so he has uh, the primary customer, yeah, okay, got it.
All right, that's everyone's relationship status.
We're gonna jump into uh some topics now, but first, I have to do my very delayed introduction.
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You can also mute a microphone, pop a ball of champagne.
Now, if you missed it, if you're just tuning in, guys, we're gonna bundle, we're gonna do a little bundle.
So, with the uh champagne bottom, you know what?
Should we make it what's the Ethereum price right now?
Uh, ETH price because we have Crystal.
Actually, you know what?
Ethereum dropped below 2,000.
So, for a little bit more, if you send an Ethereum, we'll pop a very fancy ball of champagne.
We'll pop Crystal.
Who anybody here had Crystal before?
It's very nice, very nice.
Uh, otherwise, we get the fucking Trader Joe's champagne.
Uh, it's still good, it's still champagne.
But so, for a champagne pop, whether it's the should I make it just for the Ethereum, we'll do whichever because I already offered it for either the uh Crystal pop, which is one Ethereum, I yeah, one Ethereum, or the regular champagne pop, she's going to shave her head.
We're going to shave her.
We're going to scalp her on stream, shave her head.
Her hair is going to be shaved off.
And then she's going to donate it to hair.
We share.
Yeah, that's my hair.
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Rachel, we'll pull that up in just a sec.
Yo, Rachel, good to see you.
W's in the chat, Rachel.
Yo, Rachel, we're gonna get you soon.
Oh, no, I dropped my phone.
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Guys, W's in the chat for Natalia.
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I apologize, Natalia, but I'll do a little manual ding for you.
Boom.
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You're fucking legend.
And I hope you're safe, by the way.
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You're in somewhere else, which may or may not be near conflict zones.
Anyways, W, Natalia, prayers for Natalia in the chat.
No fucking drones are coming for Natalia.
Protection prayers for, I don't know, Natalia.
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Behind the scenes hate mail and then pull it up in the stream yard on the side there.
Yeah.
Post our stream schedule, behind the scenes, hate mail, research studies, a bunch of other stuff.
I post all the hate mail I get.
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I can't do this without you guys.
I can't do the show without you, you know?
Because fucking athletic greens, they're not coming around anytime soon.
Shit.
Fucking, I don't know.
What's the other?
What's that audio book?
Audible.
Audible?
Audible ain't coming around to the whatever podcast anytime soon.
Liquid death, even liquid death ain't coming.
Who else ain't coming?
Who's all the big sponsors there for?
Blue Chew?
What are those little stupid mobile games?
Fucking, what's that mobile?
Winter White Out.
Jon Snow's Claim00:11:52
No, no.
That's a good one.
What was that video game that was like dog shit, but it was doing a bunch of sponsorships?
Dragon?
Wait, no, fuck.
Sorry.
Anybody know?
Anybody a fucking gamer?
Anybody a fucking clash of clans?
Yeah, they're not coming.
Raid Shadow Legends.
They're not fucking coming.
Boom Beach.
Is that anybody?
That's oh.
I used to play that game.
I was fucking addicted to that for like six months.
Luckily, I didn't spend any money, but that's like that is uh you must be anyways, whatever.
All right, anybody remember Boom Beach who watched A Night of the Seven Kingdom?
Anybody?
That was pretty good.
I like that shit.
Now, I wanted you might be wondering, Brian, what the fuck does that have to do with dating?
This is what it has to do with dating.
Now, we can't show the clip because HBO or whatever will copyright us.
In the final episode of A Night of the Seven Kingdom, which is a prequel to Game of Thrones, there was a scene where, oh, wait, is this spoilers?
Yeah, actually, no, this isn't spoilers.
It's not really a spoiler.
It's not spoiler, it's not, it's not like central, it's not a central spoiler.
Okay, uh, and it's from the show.
Okay, so Raymond Fossaway of House Fossaway, their sigil is an apple, but he became there's the the red app, uh, the red apple fossaways and the green apple fossaways, but that's another conversation.
Another conversation we're not going to get into.
Uh, basically, Raymond Fossaway, who just had participated in this uh trial by seven combat, he showed up big for dunk.
You guys know what I'm talking about.
Uh, so get this right.
I feel like this is not bro code.
So earlier in the season, oh my god, I'm so hold on.
Let me okay, okay, I got it.
Earlier in the show, Dunk encounters a prostitute.
I forgot her name, it's like Rose or Ross or some shit.
That's a red-haired, red-haired, uh, red-haired lady, and she's a prostitute.
And she was getting funky down and funky with Stephanie.
It doesn't matter, some other lord or some bullshit, you know, some lord.
And then she links up with our homeboy, Green Apple, Fossaway, Raymond Fossaway, but she doesn't tell him that she was a prostitute, and he's like gonna marry this chick, and but she, yeah, yeah, she's gonna marry, he's gonna marry this chick, and she's like, oh, I think I might be pregnant with Raymond Fossaway, Green Apple, Fossaway, baby.
And Dunk here, who kind of fucking fucks up the bro code, he knows that she's a hoe, Sir Duncan the Tall, he knows that she's a hoe, a hoe for show, but he doesn't let his boy know.
Oh, whoa, whoa, wait, this is even worse.
His boy participated in the trial, the trial of a seven.
Trial of a seven is combat to the death.
So his homeboy fought for him, could have died for him, took injuries for him for Sir Duncan the Tall, and he's not going to let his boy know that he's dealing with a hoe.
A strumpet.
These are the knights of our lives.
Right, exactly.
And so I'm curious what y'all think.
Like, I don't know.
Do you?
He's she's pregnant by somebody else, but she's saying it's Raymond Fossaways.
It's his kid.
But she was being a prostitute for this other knight or lord or some shit.
You know what I mean, dog?
No?
Okay.
I think they're checked out.
She's showing pretty good, too, isn't she?
She's like, that'll be going.
Yeah, but I'm like, yo, Sir Duncan, how are you going to like fucking honor, protect the innocent?
Like, as a knight in Westeros, if you become a knight, although, to be fair, no spoilers.
If you're a knight, Sir Duncan the Tall, protect the innocent.
His homeboy's innocent in this.
He's going to let his homeboy get cut.
Oh, I get it now.
He's going to let him.
So he didn't say anything.
He knew that that chick was being a hoe.
So what y'all think about that, yo?
No?
Hello?
He definitely should have said something.
Or at least take him aside.
Gigi, what do you think?
What do you think about that?
I don't know.
You don't know?
No, there's like a prostitute, and she's like hooking up with people is all I really caught on to.
I feel like, how about this, right?
How about this?
You know what?
A Knight of the Seven Kingdoms might be a terrible fucking name, by the way, for the show.
It might be too much.
Let's go back to Game of Thrones, okay?
So, Cersei Lannister is married to the fucking king.
Not a lord, to King Bobby B. Robert Baratheon, the stag, the man, the usurper, the usurper, usurped the Mad King, Mad King Aeris Targaryen.
She, she, get this shit right now.
Look, there's some issues in the marriage.
She's married to the king, though, the most powerful man in all of Westeros.
She's fucking her brother.
And her kids, Cersei Lannister's kids, are the brothers' kids.
But Everybody thinks it's the kids of the king, Robert Bobby B. Robert Baratheon.
Now he's the king, right?
That's his lineage.
Like, that's his, that's his.
What's the term?
Uh, the bloodline.
Dynasty.
No, there's another word for it.
Uh, his son would take the throne next, but it's not his son, is a thing.
And it could throw the realm, it could totally throw the realm into complete fucking chaos.
Well, and it did.
Yeah.
It threw the realm into chaos because now there's count there's other claims.
Well, that's a bastard son.
He doesn't have claim to the iron throne.
Here comes Renley Baratheon.
Here comes Stannis Baratheon.
All because Cersei Lannister is a trifling bitch.
Facts.
She be fucking her brother.
Now, what do y'all think about that?
I mean, it sounds pretty fucked up.
Super fucked up.
She's the worst.
I literally, oh, I don't want to, like, at the end, like, I wish that she had gotten it a little bit worse.
She got it pretty bad.
She got everything that was coming to her.
That analogy confused me.
What?
What analogy?
Like, whatever you just used in Game of Thrones.
The other one was better.
The other one.
Yeah, I understood it better with the other one.
I'm not going to lie.
Now get this shit right.
Here's dating, some dating problems.
Jon Snow, really Aegon Targaryen, there's a fight for the Iron Throne, but Jon Snow has a stronger...
Wait, does Jon Snow have a stronger claim to the throne?
Yo, chat, does Jon Snow have the stronger claim to the Iron Throne?
He does.
No, but.
Oh, because he's male.
Uh, because Daenerys was the direct daughter of the mad king Aeris Targaryen.
But so, and then here's what's complicated: Daenerys Targaryen, the one with the dragons, the dragon queen, she doesn't know that that's technically her relative.
So they start fucking.
It's her nephew, right?
Her nephew, technically, because Jon Snow, Jon Snow, Eris had a fuck, what was the name of the son?
Rhaegar.
Rhaegar Targaryen was Daenerys' older brother.
And Rhaegar done fucked Liana Stark.
Liana Stark and had a son, Jon Snow.
Or Aegon.
I think they called it.
I think he's technically Aegon Targaryen.
But wait.
Yes, Aegon Targaryen.
This is all very complicated.
Just honesty is missing, you know.
You just have to be honest in every relation, whether it's some relationship, your husband or wife, or if it's a friendship.
You just have to be open and honest.
Well, that's the thing is that Jon Snow or Aegon Targaryen has learned of his parentage and he then cuts off dating Daenerys Targaryen.
And then she just fucking scorches all of King's Landing.
So it's like, question for you.
You're Jon Snow.
You're Aegon Targaryen.
For the sake of the realm, do you keep secretly giving it to your aunt, Daenerys Targaryen, to keep the peace?
No.
You don't keep banking your aunt, okay?
No.
I'll do it.
Take one for the table.
No.
No.
I mean, not keeping peace, though.
Just in this situation.
Just in this situation.
You know, look, I think, look, the Targaryens were inbreeding a lot.
Incest was kind of tolerated in this universe.
And we saw what happened.
Queen Daenerys went, you know, she fucking, you know, destroyed King's Landing, burned everyone alive, basically.
I think Jon Snow, he should have just kept, you know, hyping her.
Wasn't that a really good example of don't bang crazy?
Don't.
Well, at that point, we hadn't established that she was crazy, you know.
By the way, she came from crazy bloodline.
The ending of Game of Thrones was fucking dog shit, by the way.
Fucking dog.
Because he's not finished a series, right?
And it's like that was like an example of what not to do.
Don't worry about it.
Don't do that.
Anyways, I'm moving on from that.
That's crazy.
Okay, let me see here if we have any.
Here.
Can I have you read this, Camilla?
Did I say that?
Eric Makus donated $100.
The girl in the right corner is super hot and red.
I think I'm in love with her.
She should follow me on Instagram.
Brian, you are the goat, Ellen.
I love you.
And so many people around me love you.
Love you.
Oh, thank you very much.
Appreciate it.
Let It Go?00:08:08
Let's see here.
As Destiny.
All right.
Dale, thank you for.
Looks like you bought some merch.
Thank you for the merch purchase.
Appreciate it, man.
Thank you very much.
Oh, and she does the bow.
That's very cool.
Thank you.
Thank you for the looks like you bought a hoodie there.
So appreciate it.
All right.
Is Rachel Wilson still in the chat?
Where's Rachel?
Are you still here, Rachel?
What's up?
What's up?
What's going on?
All right, let's get into some topics here.
Okay, we did that.
One sec, guys.
I'm just getting.
Oh, wait.
Okay.
Where did I want to go?
Let's see.
We talked about your situation.
Yeah.
Remind me, don't let me forget head shave.
Don't let me forget.
Don't let me forget before the end of the show.
I definitely will not forget.
That'd be pretty cool, though, to do it on the whatever podcast.
That would be pretty dope.
I was going to go live and do it, but it's okay.
It's way better here.
It's still live.
I know, I know, I know.
You just, Camilla, you describe yourself as a professional, spoiled brat.
What does that mean?
It's internet personality.
I feel like when you have a platform and you put yourself out there, you could choose to fully be fully transparent, or you can play as a personality.
And I choose the other way.
Weren't you just agreeing with her when she was talking about you should always be honest in all your relationships?
And you were nodding along with her, and then you just a few minutes later said, But I play up a personality so I can get money within my relationship, like within like my own private life.
But if I'm portraying something online, so you're saying clearly that as an OnlyFans girl, you have no relationship with any of these men?
No.
Okay.
I think that's why they pay you, but okay.
I care for them and like I do talk to them.
There's a few of them that like basically believe that I'm like a therapist per se for them.
But in terms of like actual dating relationship, no.
Does the guy that you're saying, does he know that you do it?
And like, does he mind or have any issues with you doing that?
No, he doesn't.
I need to step away for just a moment if you guys want to continue the convo.
Yeah, I guess I would just say, I mean, it's discussed off and on here that the point of OnlyFans is not just the sexual gratification.
It's the feeling of a relationship with that person and being let into something that's private and intimate with them.
So you're saying that in your personal relationships, you're very honest, but in your persona, you're portraying something which isn't honest.
So doesn't that contradict itself?
Well, the thing is, is that my Instagram and like within the OF community is just rage bait.
Like people hate you regardless of what you do as an OF creator.
So why do I have to be honest if like on Instagram platform, people are just going to hate me anyways.
But within my like subscribers' relationships, I'm very honest with them.
They do know, like, I talk to them on a daily.
They do know how I am within the platform.
If I may ask, you say that people are going to hate you no matter what because you're an OF girl.
Why do you think people hate somebody no matter what if they're an OF girl?
What do you think the reason is for that?
Well, clearly, it's because of the reason of selling your body for money.
See, now that's where I would disagree with you because I feel like there's not, there may be some, but I feel like there's a much smaller portion of the population that are going, I hate this porn star because she's a porn star.
Again, the OnlyFans thing, it's not just a sexuality, which is a morality and a debauchery.
It's also that you're creating relationships with these people, relationships that are often false because you have a management team or you have somebody that's speaking and typing for you.
So it's that you're not just playing up, again, the sexual gratification, you're creating a relationship with someone who you would never have an actual relationship with.
And in doing so, in a lot of instances, you're stopping them from actually finding a healthy relationship with someone and creating bonds that truly exist for them in their private lives.
Oh, no, I actually talk to them.
So do you feel that there's a chance that any of these regulars of yours are so dedicated to you that it might be stopping them from actually seeking someone outside of you and really finding someone in their own personal or private lives?
There's definitely subscribers of mine who are virgin per se.
I mean, I feel like a lot of that is typical.
However, like I don't, within my relationship with them, I don't ever be like, oh, like, I don't ever play the idea of like, oh, you are going to eventually meet me or anything like that either.
Like, and there's just a lot of times, it's just more of the fact of companionship, right?
And so whenever they have difficult days or something, they would tell me about it and I would like talk to them for it.
As someone who studied psychology, you don't feel it would be much healthier for them to not have this outlet and actually seek companionship with someone who will give them a real relationship in their personal and private life.
Well, but my thing is, is that I'm not stopping them from that.
If there were, like, there are times where they'll be like, oh, I'm going to go on a date with this person.
And I'm like, oh, okay, like, good luck.
I hope that go well.
I guess I'll ask the other girls on the table, do any of you feel like that might be stopping these men from pursuing another woman in actual life?
Yeah, no, I can 100% see like somebody being so like, you know, immersed in you and your relationship with them that they're coming to you with their problems when maybe they should have, like she was saying, someone in their lives that they can actually sit down with and they don't have to pay.
I mean, I'm not trying to be mean or disrespectful or anything, but like, you know, like my husband, I sit down with him and I can talk to him and share the things that are going on with me.
And I know that he genuinely cares for me.
And I'm not saying you don't genuinely care for any of these people, but I do think that it is important to be able to sit down with someone that is like your person, I think, is what I'm trying to get to make.
Yeah.
I think that that's my real issue with the concept of OnlyFans rather than pornography, which has its own issues, is that even if this is not what you're encouraging, they're putting that into you.
You're a beautiful woman.
You're absolutely beautiful.
And you definitely seem like a cool person.
So a guy that, especially a guy that doesn't socialize naturally, he's going to be so excited to talk to you, especially when you're willing to give him the sexual part.
You're a beautiful woman.
You're a young woman.
You're willing to, as far as he knows, give him time and be there for him in his low days and his low moments.
So why would he seek anything outside of that?
So really, that is stopping him from finding that.
And there is something heartbreaking about that because while men do have more time than we do, nobody has an infinite amount of time in this world.
God comes for all of us at some point.
So you really are stopping them from being able to find that in a real way with someone like the beautiful thing she has with her husband and the beautiful thing that she has with her husband.
You're stopping these men from doing that.
And social skills are like a bicep.
You have to work them for them to be strong.
So if you're doing your socializing with an OF girl who's not being honest, who's being the spoiled brat or whatever persona, this is stopping them from getting those social skills to go to their church or go to like a salsa class or something and find a woman in life.
Again, I think I want to clarify that the spoil brat is for within the content I'm making for Instagram.
Now within the relationship that I like talk with my subscribers, that's completely different.
And they fully know within my own life.
And like with like I'm honest to them.
Why Eight Faces?00:07:02
Sorry, guys, moving on.
Richard, thank you for the 100.
Gigi, can I have you read this?
Hey guys, love this show.
Have you considered having Levi Nicks on your podcast?
I think that would be a great mashup.
Thank you, Richard, for the message.
I'm actually not the name it's not striking about.
That's funny.
But thank you for the message, man.
I do very much appreciate it.
Let's just, you know what?
Jump right into this.
Okay, so the question is, fix split, please.
On a scale of zero to 10, can't pick seven, rate your looks.
So, and do it like this.
So face, body, total.
So my face is a 10, body a 10, total 10.
I would overall six.
I think it kind of depends on everyone's preference.
Okay.
Yeah.
But so say face.
Face six, body six.
Yeah, overall six.
Sure.
Six.
Okay.
What about you?
Overall, six.
It's everything.
Everything, okay.
What about you?
Six across the board.
Wow.
Same.
What?
Okay.
Nine across.
Nine across the board.
Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah.
You, sorry.
I'm going to say eight, face, three, body.
So about a five?
Eight, face, three, body.
Okay, five total.
I would say body is 5.5.
Face, maybe 6.
Okay, what about you?
Face 3, body 5.
Okay.
I give myself 4.5, 4.5, 4.5 across the board.
Pretty reasonable panel tonight, with the exception of two of you.
Now let's explore this, shall we?
All right.
Nine across the board, you said?
Yeah, I love myself.
I'm a self-obsessed person.
Question for you.
Sometimes you can have your own rating.
If 100,000 men were to rate you, what do you think they would rate you?
Oh, I don't know.
Do you think they would rate you a 9 face?
Some of them, maybe they lie, but they say.
Well, I understand, like, some of them might rate you that, but I'm asking the average.
See, before marriage, they say I'm 10.
After marriage or after the relationship, I don't know, you know, so they lie.
So I cannot trust guys on rating me because when they want to impress you, they will say like you're the most beautiful girl in the world.
But when they get what they want, you might not be as good, you know?
So it's like, I say I'm beautiful because my heart is way bigger and beautiful, and I'm a giver, and that reflects on my face.
And I just love myself, you know.
And I'm doing everything to be in shape at this age, you know, diet, exercise, everything.
But the missing point, one, is my height.
Men don't really care about height, to be honest.
I think you're beautiful.
Do you?
Yeah, I think she is.
What do you mean?
And also, she's very educated to me smart.
Honestly, in my opinion, I would rate you with a lot of people.
I just like her looks, though.
You give her a 10?
Yeah.
Thank you.
You give her 10 and you rate yourself a 6.
Since you have an interesting rating outlook, rate each of the women?
I think Gigi is a 9.
Can you repeat your rating?
I think I'm a 6.
I think she's an eight.
I think you are a seven.
Seven?
Ten.
Thank you.
Six point five?
I think you're a ten.
I think six.
And then me.
I think you're a six.
I think you're too mean on yourself.
Yeah.
I'm too mean.
Okay.
I think all of you.
So you're six and she's a nine.
He's a ten.
Oh, sorry, ten.
Excuse me.
Is she the only one you gave a ten to?
No, he gave her a 10.
Oh, also her too.
You gave her a 10.
You gave her a 10.
Oh, yeah.
She looks very angelic to me.
Thank you.
So you rate yourself lower in attractiveness in terms of looks than her.
I think you're always harder on yourself, no?
I'm just supposed to be a little bit more.
Well, and I think also, like, you have an insane educational record.
What would that have to do with her looks, though?
For me, I see attractiveness as within everything.
So I think that's a good question.
You have questions about looks.
Okay, well, even looks aside, like, she has really nice teeth.
She has really big, nice eyes.
That is looks.
But I'm saying you're saying, what, if it's just look still?
Yeah, teeth.
Yes.
Eyes, looks.
I'm saying if it's just look still, I still think she's very beautiful.
Thank you.
Okay.
And here's what you're a nine.
You gave yourself a eight face.
Can you tell me a celebrity that a female celebrity that you think is a nine in looks?
Ashwariyarai?
Huh?
Eshwarya Rai Miss World from India.
Eshwarya Rai.
Can you give us an American?
Wait, sorry, I didn't mean to press that.
Nathan, get ready to Google these.
Is there like a American, like an Indian American that we could look up?
Priyanka Chopra?
Okay, Google it.
Stunning.
A woman who's an eight?
Like I said, face.
So face alone, I would say this won't be shocking.
Christina Hendrix.
Okay, Google those two.
First, show us Priyanka or whatever, whatever.
That's going to be really easy for my producer to, my white producer.
And Priyanka Chopriyanka.
She was Miss World too.
They both were Miss World.
Okay, so you, Priyanka Chopra.
Okay, and then what was Christina Hendrix?
Can you Google Christina Hendrix, please?
Okay.
All right.
Rain, thank you for the super chat.
Christina Hendrix, can you go to the images tab?
Pinky's Self-Assessment00:15:51
Oh, the thick girl from Mad Men.
Okay.
We're talking face, not body.
Right.
So, I mean, hmm.
But you would say face equivalent and keep it there for a sec, Nathan.
I'm going to F11 again for me.
Can you control mouse wheel up on this page?
Control, like, scroll the mouse wheel so it makes it bigger.
Other way?
Yeah.
Perfect.
Okay, so this is your face looks equivalent.
So also part of how I base my scale is part of how I base my scale is on prior episodes and how you've described how the scale works.
And one of the things that stood out to me is when you had Andrew on and he described how many times you get a second glance on the street.
And while I know that the body is wrecked, I in LA just yesterday and in New York constantly, I get second glances on the street.
It even surprises me at the rate that it happens.
So if we're basing it off of that scale that was described on a prior episode, I'll give it to myself.
Well, that's a scale Andrew used.
Fair.
And I did, if you recall, much love and respect to Andrew.
I think that is not the correct way to frame it.
I rebuked him.
No.
No, I just think it was not the right way to frame it because the reality is even average or even way below average looking women, there's no shortage of supply of men who would have sex with them.
So this idea that you would rank your attractiveness based on the lust or sexual attraction of men is erroneous.
Because a man could look at a supermodel and look at an average woman and experience to some degree somewhat similar levels of lust for both of them.
Thus, it would not be a reasonable metric to use, I think, in the assessment.
Okay.
So.
So for looks, if we're not talking about men lusting, what would you say is a better way to sum up looks?
And I would have actually said a seven if I was allowed for the record.
But how would we sum up the looks if it's not lusting?
Are you talking more like symmetry, like age on the face, that sort of stuff too?
So beauty is subjective.
However, there are objective measurements that we can take of the face.
So while beauty in the strict philosophical sense is subjective, it is grounded.
Like there's universal principles.
It is grounded in objective measurements.
So that would be facial symmetry, facial harmony, interpupillary distance, you know, various other facial thirds, certain other things that are measurable.
So that would be the objective components of beauty.
And so in this case, yes, it would be those measurements.
Yeah.
I mean, I would, if you want an assessment on the, like, if I had to put a descriptor to the number, I would say five average, six cute, seven, pretty, eight, beautiful, nine, elite, ten, perfect.
There's no women who are tens.
Fair.
Nobody's per, there's no men who are tens either, but then I would definitely air myself on cute more so than beautiful.
I don't think I'd say that.
You could reassess to six.
Sure.
Well, yes.
Rate me.
Me?
Yeah, rate me.
I would go with the six and the six.
Yeah.
I think you're above average.
I think just like everybody else here, you're hard on yourself.
But is your rating still eight?
Or does that change with my new metric?
With how you just described it, especially with the word descriptors, I would say a six then.
We'll drop it down to a six.
Yeah.
Okay.
So from your perspective, we would be a looks match.
Yes.
Okay, going around the table.
Do you think me and her are a looks match?
No.
What do you think?
Well, wait.
In which direction?
Like, is she out of my league?
Like, I'd be lucky to get her.
No, it's okay.
No, I'm not going to block you.
I'm putting them on the spot.
It's okay.
It's a little podcast.
No.
Qualify the statement, though.
I'm sorry.
So, is she out of my league?
Oh, no.
I'm out of hers.
Again, I did put body at a three, so we're lower on the body.
Well, you can just judge it off of face, I guess.
But what do you think?
Out of your league.
Huh?
Out of your league.
She's out of my league?
No, you're out of her league.
Oh, okay.
I see.
All right, go ahead.
Can you explain the question again?
I'm scary.
Go ahead.
No, you're.
I think you're out of here.
What do you think?
I think if just face, yes.
Okay.
If we ignore age and everything, yeah.
I would agree with the face, probably yes, with the body, probably not.
Wait, what do you mean?
So she's, hold on.
Hold on.
Hold on.
Look, hey, look, I'm the first.
I'm not offended by it.
I'm a little chubby.
I could stand to lose a bit of weight.
Yeah.
You think her?
No, I was saying you.
You're out of my league body way.
Yeah.
Yeah.
But she mogs me face.
In the face.
She mogs.
Yeah, I feel like the face.
Okay.
What do you think?
It's fine.
It doesn't bother me.
No, it's not a brutal later.
It doesn't bother me, baby.
It's a brutal conflict.
No, it's fine.
Yeah, Brian is out of your league.
Okay.
Okay.
And then I'm going to address that, though.
Do you want to rate me?
Or did she already rate you?
Give me an.
Okay, that's overrating, but I'm not an eight.
But okay.
And you gave yourself a nine, but so you're still settling for me.
Okay.
Now, you guys might be wondering, Brian, why do you ask this?
It's kind of insensitive.
How dare you?
Like, da-da-da.
But I think it is an interesting temperature check a little bit.
Look, I don't think I'm anything special.
I give myself below average ratings.
4.5.
4.5.
Maybe if I lost a little bit of weight, we could get 5, 5.5, maybe 6.
If I'm lucky, you know.
You know, thinned out in the face a little bit and the body.
But the reason I bring it up is because I do think there is a tendency, not with all women, because most of you are pretty reasonable.
I'm not really going to challenge much of the six stuff, even if I think there might have been some slight.
I could actually give you guys ratings.
Maybe we'll do that.
But I do think that there is, when it comes to dating, and men can be guilty of this too, where men are delusional and think they're more attractive than they actually are.
I do think this phenomenon is a little bit, perhaps a little bit is an understatement.
This phenomenon is a bit more common in women where they assess themselves as more attractive than they actually are.
And this can extend beyond just looks even.
Better personality, funnier than they actually are.
No offense to you, the comedian.
More likable, whatever other characteristics.
I do think there's a tendency for women to assess themselves as a little bit higher than where they actually are in actuality.
And so it is worth discussing because I do think that, and look, men can do this too.
You can have a guy who's like, what's he bringing to the table?
But he wants to date a supermodel.
He needs to reassess his standards and the type of woman he can realistically get.
Likewise, women who think that they're more attractive than they actually are, they're going to be aiming for a certain caliber of guy that, and this is, well, this is actually a difference between men and women.
You might be able to sleep with that guy and never get commitment from him.
So sometimes women can get a limited sexual access to a guy.
And then that in and of itself will be a bolster to their erroneous self-assessment.
But I do think it's important to know where you stand.
Otherwise, like I said earlier, you know, If I'm with if me fucking pasty below like average, below average looking guy, 36, if I'm trying to, oh, I deserve a 10 out of 10 elite supermodel, like it's not going to fucking happen.
So I don't know.
Somebody had specific disagreements me on the rating thing.
Was it you?
Or I'm trying to remember.
I don't think I'll check that in.
Somebody had actual disagreements though.
No, that wasn't me.
Anybody want to?
It was might be me.
I think it was.
In the form that I filled, I guess.
Yeah, yeah, on the questionnaires, like in the DMs or whatever.
It was you who disagreed with the looks rating?
No, it wasn't in your notes, but it was in the form I just filled.
Yeah, Lisa, you said you don't always agree with rating and skeletons and stuff.
Agree because I think some people are really harsh on themselves, and I feel like you're being harsh on yourselves, as everybody here has said.
So.
I don't really think I'm being particularly harsh, but on myself, anyways.
But can you further explain your disagreement?
My disagreement, like, sometimes I think, yes, looks matter, and like, yes, you should be, like, attracted to someone, but I also feel like personality sometimes weighs that out a lot more.
Like, you can make someone more attractive or less attractive.
yeah like but that's not what we're saying like if if a guy is like funny i tend to be more attracted but the rating is specifically about looks I mean, yeah, we can have a separate conversation about how personality fits in, especially with women's attractiveness to men or like qualifiers like power or whatever.
But we're just talking looks right now, so it's a different conversation.
And men aren't like when they first see her, they're not saying like, wow, I wonder what her personality is right like, right?
They're going, is she hot?
Well, look at her face, look at her butt, look at her, you know what I mean?
They're not going, look at her labia.
I wonder if she, you know, I wonder if she likes kids.
Like, no man is thinking that.
Would you date a disabled person?
I think, you know what?
I think about that, though.
I look at a woman and I'm like, does she want to bear me seven children?
That's a factor.
Or 10 even, you know?
What was your question?
Would you date a disabled person?
What do you mean by disabled?
My last ex had one arm.
You're disabled?
Tell me.
No, I'm not disabled.
I just dated a disabled person.
Yeah.
Okay, just checking.
Yeah, I'm good.
That's actually a good topic to get into.
Well, we won't shift quite yet.
I want to finish up the thing on the rating, but would I do that?
Well, that's what data disabled.
Yeah, like would that make the rating go down?
Is what I'm saying.
Like, if she's missing a limb?
Yeah.
It's a fair question.
Look, I mean, I'll answer truthfully.
It's not a deal-breaker.
However, would it, like, practically speaking, would it be more optimal to date a woman who has two arms?
Yeah.
She's giving you seven kids.
It'd be hard to carry them with one arm.
Yeah, I mean.
Okay, well, he had a nub, and so a little something, so he could.
Yeah, I mean, I don't think, I mean, look, if she otherwise, if she's otherwise attractive and meets my other metrics, yeah, if she was like missing an arm, that's like very small portion of the population.
But yeah, I would.
It wouldn't be a deal-breaker, but I could see it presenting possible problems, I guess.
I don't know.
But no, it wouldn't be a deal-breaker.
But yes, realistically, if you're dating somebody who is disabled, as you put it, is someone missing an arm disabled?
Yeah, yeah.
You're not able to use your, you know, like if you're ableist, you know, you're if you're missing a pinky, are you disabled?
Yeah, yeah.
I don't, you're not disabled.
I don't think you're deblored.
Because if you look at the opposite of the disabled definition, it's someone who's fully able-bodied.
If you're missing even any part of your body, you're not fully able-bodied.
Well, that's not true.
I think if you were missing one singular toe or like a pinky.
Yeah, I can throw you off.
I don't think that that would be like, even if you were a woodworker, I don't, oh, look, I'm not a.
Maybe you need the pinky.
You need the pinky to rest.
I don't know.
I had an uncle that was missing three toes and it really messed him up.
It messes up your equilibrium.
You can't walk right.
Sure.
Sure.
Well, in any case, not a deal breaker.
But back to the looks rating thing.
Your disagreement?
Yeah, I think sometimes people can be too harsh on themselves and like also other people.
I think it's the opposite.
I think people are too delusional.
They think they're more attractive than they actually are.
But I agree with you that, so men, for example, they can bring other things to the table to make themselves appealing or attractive to women.
I'm not suggesting that looks are the only thing that matters, the be-all, end-all.
Plenty of women date average-looking men, plenty of average-looking men, date average-looking women.
Some people date up, some people date down, some people are with their mostly looks equivalent.
But I think to ignore the power that looks does have is kind of a bit of a disservice.
I think if you're exceptionally good looking, whether you're a man or woman, you move through the world in a very different way than an average-looking person, both for men and for women, although perhaps the benefits are somewhat different.
And certainly when it comes to dating and one's romantic prospects, it certainly helps to be good looking.
May I ask a question?
Well, I would like her to respond and then you can ask.
Do you disagree?
Like, do you think an average-looking guy is going to have the same optionality as like a 10 out of 10 fucking Giga Chad male?
Um, maybe not, but maybe not.
Um, okay.
I um not definitively, it's it's a maybe, okay.
Go ahead, continue.
Like, um, I do think that a more attractive person might have like more chances that with um a person that's like also like the same attraction level as them.
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Because usually people are geared toward like when they're like kind of just as attractive as each other.
Like, that's kind of how it goes.
So, they would be able to date more attractive people, maybe, or maybe okay.
So, an average guy who lives in Idaho who works at Walmart, he's maybe on par with like a male supermodel in terms of his ability to pull attraction from women.
Then, probably not in that case, but it also always depends on the situation too.
Because the male supermodel put the male supermodel in that Walmart in Idaho.
Do the women in that Walmart, do you think they would assess, like in terms of their attraction to these two men, the average versus the average-looking guy who's just an employee there?
Uh, you think they're gonna be like there's gonna be an equal distribution of attraction?
Well, no, okay.
Um, so do you agree?
I'm just or so, I agree, but I would say there's also situations where it like depends a lot of the time because some people date some people are really really attractive and they end up dating like really really average people.
Sure, that that phenomenon does happen, but I'm not really interested in the depends.
I'm interested in more general principles here.
I acknowledge that there are people who can end up with somebody who's more physically attractive than them.
That definitely happens in both directions.
Men and women will date up or down.
But I guess I'm looking more for as a general principle.
Oh.
But yeah, I guess as a general principle, like usually more attractive people will find like more attractive people.
Like if you look at it only in that sense, then yes.
Well, it's not just more attractive people will get the more attractive people.
If a really attractive man was so inclined, he could like basically have a harem of like 20 average looking women if he was inclined to date them.
And they would be, they would, you give an average looking woman access to a top tier man.
She will break all her fucking rules.
Not all women, just to be clear.
She'll break her rules.
She'll fuck him immediately.
She'll tolerate bad behavior.
She'll tolerate abuse.
She'll tolerate mistreatment.
Again, not all women to be with that guy who's just a better, frank, truthfully genetic potential.
Yeah, that makes sense, I would say.
Again, not all women, though.
I'm not saying all women are going to tolerate poor behavior from men.
And I'm also not even saying, even if the guy is more attractive than the girl he's dating, that he's going to mistreat her.
I'm not suggesting that, but I am saying that the dating marketplace is very competitive.
So you could have, and this is what we actually see on dating apps, so you have basically 80% of the tension on dating apps from women.
And so that's going to encompass the most attractive women, attractive women, average women, below average women.
All their attention, regardless of their own standing, is still going up towards the most attractive men.
And so if a man was so inclined, he could have like 20 girlfriends.
Some of them could be as attractive as him.
And so what you'd have happening is some really attractive guy.
He's got 10 girlfriends.
He's got a bunch of chicks on the roster.
They're happy.
This average girl is just happy to be gang dick by some really hot dude.
And then the guy who's actually her looks equivalent, who's on their equivalent league, he can't get her.
The average man no longer has access to the average woman because she's getting limited sexual access to a guy who's more attractive.
I just think it's very, very subjective.
What do you mean, subjective?
For me, the intelligence level, so that I can talk to some person brings a lot of attractiveness, whether the face is not as attractive.
But yeah, I do look for some physical for the first time, like the hair and height, for example, and whether he's fit.
How tall are you?
5'5.
What's the minimum height you would do?
5'10 because I wear heels.
Okay.
So, you know, sometimes it's not like how symmetric the face and how good looking or what's the color of the face.
It's mostly I first exchange like the LinkedIn or like what's your education and job, you know?
Yeah, I mean, sometimes it reflects in your personality.
Like I'm talking.
I should be talking with him.
Have you ever heard of something called pretty privilege?
No.
So statistically, women, or generally people who are better looking do better in life, generally.
So looks do matter, right?
So if you are unattractive, the chances of you getting that job that you wanted over somebody that's really, really pretty isn't going to happen.
Something called pretty privilege.
So looks do matter no matter what you say.
Yeah.
Yep.
Really quick.
I just need to shout some people out.
Kenzie, thank you for the 20.
Curtis, thank you for the 100 on, I believe, MMO.
Skylar, thank for the 10.
Thank you.
Thank you guys.
Appreciate it.
MC Rocker, thank you for the 12 over on Cash App.
Appreciate it.
So, I mean, you mentioned intelligence.
I think, and you guys feel free to weigh in.
I think for women, I think for women, it's really hard to date a guy who's stupider than you.
Not sure if I can say the same thing about men.
I don't think really men care.
Well, hold on.
Let me qualify my statement.
Men are okay with dating women who are less intelligent than them.
I don't think men really look for that as a priority in women.
Now, I'm not saying it's not a positive.
I think it's good to, if the woman is intelligent, ideally, she would have like a very high IQ because if you're desirous of having children, you want to confer as many benefits to your children as possible.
If she's intelligent, you're intelligent.
I think IQ has to some degree.
Intelligence to perhaps a large degree can be genetic based.
Not to say that, you know, we are not completely beholden and slaves to our genetic destiny, as you might say.
But yeah, like if you want to have intelligent kids, it's probably good that you don't get with like a really, okay, hold on.
I don't want to get, I don't know if I'll get canceled, but I do think, absent that, I don't think men care that much about a woman's intelligence.
Actually, it's opposite.
I mean, both of my ex-husbands, they don't like that I'm more educated than them because socially.
They're your ex-husbands, right?
Yeah.
Yeah, I mean.
So, I mean, they feel so inferior, like they try to just make some, oh, she is just part-time masters or like something to just pull me down in front of the society.
So, it's yeah.
Well, I think, look, a woman having intelligence is a plus.
Although, I want to caveat it with, I think sometimes people who are intelligent, and I think they've actually done studies on this, there's a higher, they tend to be a little higher in trait neuroticism.
So, that's like susceptibility to negative emotion, or you have a higher you experience negative emotion more, more sensitive to having negative emotion.
I think if you're kind of, I don't want to say stupid, maybe stupid is the right word.
Simple.
If you're simple, like intellectually simple, in some ways it's like ignorance is bliss.
But if you're really intelligent, then you sometimes see things in the world and you ponder things and you philosophize and you're like, I think sometimes being intelligent can be, I don't know if I'm explaining this the right way.
So, like if my mother-in-law say that having a girl or boy, it's on me.
And if I'm like innocently dumb or something, I say, oh, yes, it's my problem, you know.
And then I will be happily ever after, you know, just aborting all my girl child and having a boy one day.
And everybody happy, I'm still married to my first husband.
Yes.
So if I am uneducated, yes, I'm still married.
And I'm still, whatever violence is happening, I will still be happy.
I completely agree with your point.
I actually don't think education means you're smarter than everybody.
I think men in general, they don't want you to be remedial, but I mean, not having a lot of experiences in the sense that they can teach you something, right?
So it's about them showing you experiences that, like, my husband I consider very, very intelligent because he is.
And there was a lot that I didn't know.
There was a lot that like I was very misinformed about, and I had my own opinions and this and that.
And when he was able to show me and have these conversations with me, I'm not as smart as him by any means, but I learned through him.
So I don't think, like Brian said, I don't think it matters to a man how intelligent you are.
I think it just matters your willingness to learn through him and to be able to kind of embrace whatever he believes in at that point.
So I don't think education really correlates to how smart you are.
That's true.
That's definitely true.
Like you can still be very intelligent and not ever go to college.
So intelligence isn't necessarily linked to like your education.
Yeah, education does not mean that it's not a problem.
Because a lot of people have their startups and they are so successful, drop out from school and college.
So intelligence is different than education.
And I can, I have like two master's degree, but I cannot say that I'm a very intelligent person.
I feel like is some of that like cultural though?
Yes.
Yeah.
Yes.
Yes.
I mean, whenever I talk, it's my emotional like intelligence, like my past experience.
Okay.
Trying to think if there was anything else on the looks thing.
Could I ask my question?
Oh, yeah, yeah, of course.
Thank you.
You had a resource on the whatever Discord that was awesome that was a chart of the ratings, the 10 to the 1, with a few photos of some celebrities.
Do you, I don't know if it's still available on there, and I'm wondering if that's still available on there, if you agree with it overall.
Oh, I know what you're talking about.
That's from like the looks rating.
Yeah.
Yep.
Yeah, I don't think we have to pull it up, but I know what you're talking about.
Yeah.
I'm just curious because that was another thing that I used to base my decisions.
And when I saw like, like you said, you consider yourself a four, 4.5, and you're saying you think I'm below you.
And when I saw like some of those threes and twos, they were like genetic mishaps.
So I'm just curious.
I'd have to pull it up.
Yeah.
Yeah.
That's fair.
I don't mean to detract.
Apologies.
Yeah, no, I mean, well, I think you're like talking about like 0.51, where it's, yeah, I mean, it's, it's bad.
But like 4-3, I mean, it's, I don't think you're getting into.
The twos and threes were pretty brutal.
I don't know.
Okay.
Trying to think if there's anything else on the looks writing.
By the way, Nathan, have you checked the research tab for the like the AI stuff?
Yeah, we have it.
If you want to start pulling those, there's looks like there's two batches.
Yeah, yeah, pull both batches if you can.
And we'll do those momentarily.
Lisa, it looks like you had other disagreements too.
Well, you write, you feel like there's more to dating than just looks.
A person can be attractive, but it's more about the personality than the looks.
I mean, personality obviously matters for both men and women, but I think looks is going to be kind of the first thing.
It's going to be the first thing.
Yep.
And yeah.
You don't agree with the whole thing about asking people if they're a virgin right away until you get to know the person more.
Can you clarify?
Yeah, so that means that there has to be like a sort of like level of dating where you are able to open up to the person more about like personal things like that.
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And then also like that's not something that I would personally answer like on the first date.
I think maybe like maybe like more the third date.
Are you Christian?
Yes.
What denomination?
Orthodox Christianity.
Eastern Orthodox?
Yes.
Okay.
Have you been baptized?
Not yet.
I'm a catechuman.
Okay, but you go to like divine liturgy and yes.
Okay.
Why do you object to being asked that question?
I don't understand.
Because what's wrong with it?
It's not necessarily that it's wrong to ask that question.
It's more so just you have to be like in a comfortable spot like to answer that question.
It's not something that I personally would answer on a first date.
I mean if other people do that's fine but it's not something that I personally prefer.
Hmm.
Well that's hinting at you not being a virgin.
Is that fair to say?
I'm not gonna get into that.
Okay people are gonna make some assumptions then.
Well that seems a bit unfair.
So just to so let me ask you this.
Let's say you're on a date with an Orthodox Christian man and he asks you on the first date if you're a virgin would you refuse to answer the question?
It would depend on the guy probably like say the date goes well like and then if he asked me that question like by the way are you a virgin I would probably answer but if the date goes wrong and like if I'm not comfortable with like answering that I don't see why I would answer that.
Okay I'll be right I'm gonna come right back to this conversation.
It looks like you want to what's wrong with that question?
Like why wouldn't you want them to ask that?
Like what's the big deal?
It's just like not something that I'm comfortable with on the first date.
But for them, if it's a requirement for them, and you really, really like them, like you really like them, he's perfect in every way, and it's a requirement for him to know that your body count isn't like 70.
You know, or if he, like, if you're a virgin, this is the one thing that is going to determine whether or not you two go further.
Why is he not allowed to know?
Like, why does that bother you?
Um, I mean, if that's the only thing that matters, then maybe I would answer it.
Okay.
Maybe it is important.
It could be the way they ask.
Maybe they can say, like, you know, instead of going, hey, so have you ever done it?
Or hey, are you a virgin?
You know, it could just be like, hey, like, so what are your views on this?
Well, if we could parallel, an absolute deal breaker for her is, do you want to have sex before marriage?
Isn't it fair for her to ask that on a first date?
Yes, that would be fair.
So it's a sexual question and it's a deal breaker in something that's really important to her.
So if you're on a date with a man, the virginity question is, or body count question, is a deal breaker potentially for them.
And it's a sexually related question.
So why is there the double standard there?
It could be a deal breaker, but again, I would say, like, if you're not comfortable with a certain question, I don't think you have to answer it on the first date.
Maybe they'll be like, okay, that's really important to me, then this doesn't work out.
And then at that point, you would just have to find what works for you.
Like, that's why you go on dates to ask.
Really quick before you answer, I'm going to let this TTS come.
Thank you, Justice.
Thank you, man.
Intelligence, sure.
An educated woman with degrees, big red flag.
Almost certainly an unmanageable and destructive level of feminist indoctrination that provides no upside for a family.
Okay.
Does a lot of Indian men think that way?
That a working woman who has educated is a red flag.
But in my both of my marriage, I was a giver.
I was like, they said, you have to wear sari, and I wear sari whether I'm comfortable or not.
Okay.
I did not like say.
Somebody donated.
Looks like you bought a t-shirt and a hoodie.
Thank you very much, man.
Appreciate it.
Okay.
So back to that thing.
But it seems like.
Is it fair to say that for Christian, how old are you again?
I'm 26.
26.
Okay.
For Christian men, perhaps even Orthodox Christian men, that this could be something that's important to them.
Yes.
Like they wanted their virgin, they want a woman who's a virgin.
Yes.
Okay.
So, I mean, the read here from the male perspective would be like they're just going to assume your refusal to not answer the question, she's not a virgin.
Probably.
And I feel like they would assume that with other women in the church who are also not virgins if they refuse to answer that question.
Or it might just be like you have to feel more comfortable to answer that question later on.
Maybe not the first date, but the third.
I feel like that's something that's not a typical first date question.
Usually it's like, what's your favorite color?
What kind of bands do you like?
How many guys have you slept with?
That's not really like something I see on like first dates.
I'm fine with it.
I'll accept it.
So it's kind of like, and you know, if it's a first date, like I'm not sure if I feel comfortable.
Closer to the mic.
Sorry.
I don't know if I would like feel comfortable sharing very intimate details about myself.
Say for God forbid something happened to my husband and you know dated somebody.
I don't think I would want on a first date to like give him my whole well.
Oh, did you want to come in?
Yeah.
I mean like I agree.
I don't think like it's something that I'm going.
Hey, like I'm going to go on a first date and tell this guy my body count.
But at the same time, I feel like it's unfair because like for example, you're waiting to be comfortable with them.
What if you guys are like a month in, you guys aren't dating, but you guys have been talking and all of a sudden you find out he has a body count of 70?
Like how are you going to feel about that?
Don't you wish you would have known that sooner before you got deeper into it?
Well, it depends because in my like dating, I like to take things more slow rather than to like rush it.
So the way that I date, I tell the guys straight up, hey, I just like to take things kind of slower.
And then for you, like, what if you fell for someone in a time span of a month and you're a Christian?
How would you feel if this person that you've created a relation, somewhat of a relationship with, all of a sudden tells you, hey, I have a 70 body count.
Are you going to wish you knew that sooner before getting deeper in?
Probably, but at that point, I don't think it would matter if it didn't work out.
But if I can, let's change the body count to the body count isn't just about the body count.
It's an indicator of behavior.
So it's the choices you make and the way you behave.
So in the same sense, let's say that you get, you ask a guy, do you have a criminal record?
And he goes, I'm not comfortable discussing that with you.
I'll be comfortable to discuss that maybe a month or two from now.
There really isn't a difference there because if it's something that matters and it's a personality indicator, it's critical to know that right off the bat because frankly, you don't want to waste time with someone who doesn't align with you.
If I like someone on the first date, like very impressive personality, and maybe I might share.
But if I meet somebody on the first date and I say something looking fishy or something, I will not be comfortable sharing.
You know, so it's very subjective.
Well, yeah, but you already don't like the guys.
Yeah, so like it doesn't matter.
I mean, it's like at that point.
It also depends on the guy too.
If I'm really comfortable on the first date, then yeah, I might share that.
So like physical appearance.
I think what we're getting at here is it's seen.
I'm curious if they ask the question, are you going to feel upset that they asked it?
Offended.
I'm not necessarily going to feel offended.
I would just, I might feel a little uncomfortable, but I would probably answer it.
Like if that was a deal breaker for him and if that was serious, then yeah, I would answer that.
I think he just wants evidence of your self-control.
Yeah.
But it wasn't just like that you would feel discomfort with it.
You specifically wrote you don't agree with asking people if they're a virgin right away.
So you had a specific disagreement.
You have an actual issue with the question itself being asked.
It's not necessarily like an issue asking it.
I think maybe more the way it's being asked.
Is it wrong for a guy to ask the question?
No.
Okay, but you disagree with them asking it.
I mean, you pointed out that it perhaps is a bit not normal.
Most the timing.
Most men don't do that.
But actually, I mean, I can't actually see any objection.
Look, if you're dating intentionally and you're like, I'm trying to see if you're going to be a future girlfriend, I understand, like, you know, to be fair though, I mean, just thinking about in my head, you know, maybe there's not there's certain questions you're not going to immediately just ask, I guess.
I would say important and hard questions right up front.
Yeah, I agree.
But I feel like it's better to not waste your time.
If it's something that's important to you and it's potentially a deal breaker, like for example, how about this?
You want to have kids, you want to get married.
On a first date, you're not probably not planning to have kids like anytime soon, but I think it's, do you want to have kids?
And if they say no, that's a complete misalignment.
You probably want to.
Yeah.
Why would you continue dating them?
Exactly.
So like for, in this case, it's like they're perhaps asking the question because if it's important to them, they, I mean, it's maybe you want to date them and this revelation to them might change their mind, but wouldn't you want to get out sooner rather than later?
Like if there's something about me that would be a problem for a woman, I'd rather she just know sooner.
That way I'm not wasting time.
She's not wasting time.
Yep.
Yeah.
So for me, I just kind of want to get off.
I want to know the details.
Shit, I got a girlfriend application.
They got it.
It's a fucking questionnaire.
100 questions.
Not 100.
They got it.
Shit.
There's a lot.
Have you been to therapy?
I should show it one day.
One day I'm going to show my girlfriend application.
It's intense.
It's fucking gnarly.
You know?
I think I'm asking way more invasive questions.
Do you take any medications?
It's a good one.
Yeah, that's a good idea.
Shit, she's on fucking psycho, whatever the psychoanalytic is.
Or psychedelic.
No, not psychedelic.
Like if you doubt that too.
Like, for example, if a woman has schizophrenia, I think I'd rather know up front.
But like, I feel like if you don't ask that, maybe you can tell, I guess.
But if they're medicated, not really.
Anybody here have schizophrenia?
You?
Oh, you made a face.
I don't know.
Who's bipolar?
Anybody bipolar here at the BPD?
Anything?
Any personality disorders here?
We have a very mentally healthy panel, I guess.
We have a hold on.
TTS here coming in right away from Brian.
Brian donated $200.
Do you value honesty and people being upfront with you?
Yes or no?
If yes, don't waste people's time.
Ask and answer the hard questions on the first date.
Look, I get that it can feel a bit like interrogation or interviewee or autistic to like ask some of these questions on the first date.
I get that like the vibe or whatever, you know, the vibe.
That's your potential.
But look.
Yeah, if it's important and look, people are busy.
Who wants to waste time?
Like, well, I'm going to take a girl on four dates, pay for the.
By the way, it's an interesting position.
Should the guy pay for the first date?
No.
Well, that's.
I would say yes.
Second date?
Should the guys pay for the dates?
Yes.
Okay.
Now, so now it's like both of you are investing your time.
But from the male perspective, it's not, look, I mean, depends on what kind of expectations, what kind of lifestyle you're living.
But from the guy's perspective, it's like it's not just his time.
Now he's spending money.
Now it's like, okay, give me the intel.
Give me the intel.
But even just from time perspective, like I'd rather a red flag or a deal breaker surface immediately than it surface six months into a relationship.
Great, I fucking wasted six months.
And women can feel that way too.
Oh my God.
I gave this guy three years from, I gave him my best years and oh, deal breaker two years in.
Didn't think to ask about it, you know?
He didn't want kids.
It's like, okay, well, shit.
So in an arranged marriage setup, like Indian arranged marriage, you this applies to like 0.0001% of the population.
I know, but they have like a biodata.
That's what I'm like adding into the biodata of a girl and biodata of a boy.
Biodata?
Yes.
I'm fucking adding that to my.
Yes.
She's got to take a genetic test.
She's got to take.
I'm going to, in fact, I'm adding IQ test.
Fertility.
She's got to do the water level test.
All the girls, I printed this on the back of the questionnaires, guys.
I don't know if you guys are familiar with the water level test.
I made all the women at the table do it.
I think I'm going to have my girlfriend prospects do that.
IQ test, genetic testing, fertility testing.
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Anyways, whatever.
I like that, though.
And then astrological match.
Well, that's...
Your charts.
So, you know, like, then I realize, yes, is in India, we use all the before even the girls and the boy meet, we check, okay, what's the color of the girl?
Is she fair?
It's too fair.
Is she wheatish?
That's also a criteria.
Like skin color?
Yeah, yeah.
Damn, what the fuck, India?
Yeah.
Shit, racist.
Yeah.
The fucking system.
The caste.
Is it the caste system or is that something else?
That's like your position.
That's like how great the system is, and you have two arranged marriages that are failures.
Do you think I'm not?
I don't say that's a good system.
Okay.
You know, like, I like American system, to be honest.
Do you think I would kill it in India?
Do you think I would do good?
Like, do you think I'd crush it?
Oh, you are like, would I crush it in India?
You know what's crazy to think about?
There's 1.4 million, billion, excuse me, 1.4 billion people in India.
And then also in China.
See?
I think India is a little bit ahead in population.
And we only have, what, like 300, 400 mil in between there in the U.S.?
What's the number?
Can you, what's the exact population number?
Maybe the chat.
Check out the best.
Have more babies.
How much?
340.
340.
Damn.
So China has like 4x.
Four times.
And I wonder if that 340 is factoring in legal immigrants as well.
I don't know.
Probably, maybe.
But shit.
Damn, that's crazy.
That's a lot of people.
So one of my husbands, like, my, I hit above my, like, he's way better than me in every way.
Like, I did well.
But one of his things when he told me, and a lot of girls are going to come for me for this or come for him for this, was one of his requirements was that I had to lose weight.
I was 240 pounds.
And he deadass looked at me and said, I, if you want to, if I have to spend the rest of my life with you, you're going to have to lose weight.
Yes.
Yeah.
Yes.
And how much?
How do the women feel about that?
Wait, wait.
So he said, wait, he was like dating you, though?
We were seeing each other.
So he and he was like, yo, listen, you kind of fat.
Did he say that shit?
His exact words, I love you, babe.
But his exact words were, because I remember we were in a restaurant and a firefighter got up and she was a woman.
She was thin.
Her body was like amazing.
And he looked at her and he looked at me and he said, if I'm going to spend the rest of my life with you, you're going to have to give me something to look at.
And that motivated you to do it.
And I did.
Yeah, and you look amazing.
I lost 100 pounds.
Sometimes it was Ryan.
Just freakiness.
Damn, your husband?
That's my husband.
He's kind of a savage.
He's pretty good.
Like, that worked.
Like, I'm kind of an asshole.
I don't even think I could get away with that.
That's, shit.
Well, like I said, like my, like.
Like, why not?
But why not just start out with the skinny woman?
Like, if you're going to pick, like, go on the date, like, were you catfishing?
No, of course not.
But I was.
Then why did he, if it's important to him, I mean, good for you, though, that you've lost some weight.
But here's the thing.
It's because I had all, like, I had all the aspects that he wanted.
Like, I wasn't very educated.
I was very, I gave him all of like everything that he wanted, but the weight problem.
You said yourself, Brian, though, that men will sleep with a woman and not necessarily go into the relationship.
So maybe they were there.
And he said, if we want to go all the way and if you want me to really take you serious, this is the thing that's my deal breaker.
Yeah.
So, I mean, that was a deal breaker for him.
He could have said it more gently.
Was it the first date though?
It worked.
That's just tone policing, right?
If he goes, I mean, whether he's saying it that way and getting to the point or going, hey, babe, like, maybe we should go take a walk together.
It's not, it's still the ones talking thing.
That's the principle.
Yeah, exactly.
And I think the fact that you accepted it means that you knew it too, that you weren't giving yourself as much as you could and that you wanted to do better for you too.
My life changed after that.
It was my life changed exponentially.
Like my, it was crazy.
And I had more value in my, like, I felt my self-worth was more after that because I had tried so hard to lose the weight, be a better person, go to church, all of that.
And it was all because of him and for him.
And he is the most wonderful person you'll ever meet.
Like, I love this man, like, unconditionally.
And to carry a baby, you know, if you're fit, then it's easier to carry the babies.
So sometimes.
Well, we're not having kids, but I mean, like, but like, we, I mean, we're close.
I refer to tough love.
It is tough love.
Well, let's be fair.
It's a good health.
Yeah.
Like, I'm saying it with no context.
Like, I was a hardcore feminist.
Like, hardcore.
Just all of that.
And he, like, he changed my world around.
He converted you.
Oh, yeah.
As much as we have this modern thing where women are saying, I love the fact that I'm fat.
All the women who, celebrity-wise, that say that they love that they're fat got on GLP1s and are now some of the skinniest broads you see.
So, I mean, if we're really being honest, and I'm speaking to someone where I understand I'm not kidding myself, I know what I look like, but I also know that when I did lose weight and I lost 80 pounds and unfortunately put it back on, when I lost that weight, I felt better about myself in every way.
I love going to the gym.
I loved like everything I was doing.
I loved the attention I was getting from it.
I felt much better about myself and it gave me advantages.
Like you talked about the pretty privilege.
It gave me job advantages.
It gave me a lot of advantages.
So to actually say, like I said, him pushing you there, I mean, you're stunning.
Well, there you killed it.
There's that.
And because I mean, it wasn't just the weight thing.
It was like changing my entire life around and losing the weight.
He respects me on a whole other level.
Like in a way that I never thought I could see in a man.
Like he, I have everything because he affords me everything.
I would not be here if it wasn't for him.
Like I, he's not visiting California, right?
I am.
And that was afforded to me because of him.
So, I mean, it may not be the nicest way to say something, but it got me to where I am.
And it got me the man that I wanted.
All right, boys, this is what you have to fucking do.
How did you meet him?
A dating app, or what was the...
Oh, boy.
We actually, you're going to laugh.
We met each other on Discord playing video games.
Base.
All right, boys.
This is what you're going to do.
You're going to meet some chick.
You're going to be at, what was the game?
Oh, Splatoon.
Splatoon.
All right, boys, you're playing.
You're in the fucking mega bonk Discord and you're going to find a 240-pound woman.
And the first date, what you're going to do, just so romantic.
She's going to swoon after this.
You're going to call her fat and be like, listen, you want a piece of this.
You got to lose some fucking weight.
It'll work 99% of the time.
Trust me, boys.
She can agree.
She can vouch it'll 100%.
Look, it worked in your situation.
Yeah, no, for sure.
Super savage thing to say.
Did you know him one sec before that?
But that is not going to fly for like 90 minutes.
I realize that, but not going to fly.
But you're one of a hundred, I guess.
But like, my, you have to understand that men are not like when they're really, really nice and they say stuff to you that sounds so perfect.
That's not a man.
Yeah.
A man is direct and they need to get whatever it is out.
And you have to allow them that.
If you want something with them, you have to allow them to be able to say what they have and not be all emotional about it because they know, and I think Brian can agree, they know that sometimes when they say something, it doesn't come out the way that they want it to, but they mean well.
It's kind of that.
You kind of just got to accept that and maybe just ask like.
Wait.
Oh, so sorry.
Continue.
Continue.
No, go ahead.
I'm done.
Oh, yeah.
I had a question.
Did y'all, you know, have it was the first date he said that?
No, no, no, no.
We had been dating for, I think it was like a month.
No, no, no, no.
Still early on, though.
Yeah.
Had you guys been intimate, though, prior to the statement?
No, actually.
He I.
Oh, he was holding back.
Yeah, he was.
He was holding back.
He was.
So you were trying.
Oh, shit.
Oh, shit.
Okay.
Damn.
Well, of course, he was.
And he was like, you get drop below two, then you get some dip.
Was that actually.
Well, he was basically like, I can't do this.
Oh, like.
Okay.
Oh, he.
Wait, were you guys naked?
And he.
No, no, no, no.
We were at breakfast.
That's brutal.
Imagine you undress a woman and then you're like, not put your clothes back on.
I changed my mind.
I changed my mind.
I feel like shit.
I mean, look, man.
You're a trooper.
I mean, I don't know what else to say.
You're a trooper for that.
That's.
I'm going to try that, though.
Next girl I date.
I'm like, I'm going to just pinch her and be like, look, we want it to work long term.
I need you to message me if it works.
I think that's an even better test than the bow.
If a woman's willing to go through that, that's your ride or die.
I guess, I guess.
I also feel it's very risky.
It's very risky.
I feel like not a lot of women are going to be okay with that.
I don't like to like insult a girl I'm dating, you know?
Plus, who am I to speak?
I'm a little child.
That's not really insulting.
Well, I think a lot of women, like you said, they're kind of the women and all.
My mom calls me.
No, but hold on.
Women are like, a lot of women are insecure about their looks, their body, et cetera.
Like, come on.
Sounds like a skill issue.
Why would that be a skill issue?
That's not the right chick then.
So, hold on.
Let's be real.
What percentage of women don't have some degree of like insecurity about something to do with their body?
Well, sure, men do too.
Even men, yes.
But you have to be adult enough to go, all right, yeah, fair enough.
Like, again, it worked out great for her.
Like, she's so much healthier now.
He added gears to her life.
Yeah, no, it worked out.
It worked out.
But I'm just being realistic here.
Also, I mean, look, my simple perspective is: look, if you want to date a skinny girl, find yourself a skinny girl.
Like, I feel like, look, of course, yeah, if you're overweight, you should lose weight.
I don't disagree, but I do think.
Hey, that worked, by the way.
Congratulations.
And that's a tough.
I don't know if the women agree or disagree with this.
Not to be anecdotal, but that's going to be a tough self-like.
It shows a level of devotion from the woman, right?
Yeah.
Yes.
That's exactly.
That's not to be anecdotal, but there are definitely men out there that want to shape their women.
It's part of the reason I know that we talk about how men like younger women because of like the fertility and everything, but men also like younger women because they're not like, this is how I am.
I'm, you know, at 36, I know what I want and I know what I am and blah, blah, blah.
Like at a younger age, you're willing to go, I'm going to let a man lead me.
I'm going to go along with what he says.
So there are men who want to find a woman that they can improve and mold into the woman that they want and they want to put that work in.
I'm not saying every man, but those men definitely exist out there.
They want to take those reins and say, I'm going to make you the woman that I see.
You're almost there.
Let's get you all the way there so we can really what if you're a feeder though?
Like you just want to fatten her up.
I mean those exist too.
Yeah, that happened to me.
That's going to happen.
Did that happen to you?
Yeah.
What?
I was like, that's what happened.
Sorry, that was bad.
What?
I was like really fat.
You were?
Yeah.
Were you?
No, I am.
I am still.
I have a chubby.
Like, I am still chubby for sure.
That's not what I was meaning.
No, but.
No, that's just me.
Like, I look at the mirror.
I call myself fat.
That's just me.
But, yeah.
You let your ballet teacher down.
What?
Your ballet teacher.
Yeah.
Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
Bad joke.
Never mind.
No, I got it.
But yeah, he fattened me up.
He wanted me to be fed you?
Yeah.
Oh, he said that.
He wanted you to be.
Yeah.
And I didn't feel good.
I didn't feel good.
Like, I felt like I was eating so much sugar.
It's horrible.
I think those feeder men want that because they want a woman that's broken because they can control a broken woman more.
Yeah, yeah, that's a different motivation.
Yeah.
Yeah.
Okay.
I guess we're going to move on to the next topic here.
We have Gigi.
Gigi, so you said your current relationship, long distance.
You had a past relationship that ended because someone from your past came back into your life?
Yes.
You were in a talking wait.
I think they were like scattered.
They're just like random little things I threw out.
Okay.
Talking stage where the guy was totally playing you, but you stayed with him and was a little attached, but we got into it, into this thing.
And the next day he went to a girl you were friends with house and begged for her, and you have it on ring camera.
Yes, I do.
Like, so this is a high school or caught in 4K.
So you were kind of dating him, dealing with him, and then he was trying to get at your friend, your girlfriend.
Well, they had known each other prior, but when me and her weren't really friends, we were more acquaintances.
And then, yeah.
And then, like, I'm not sure if you're asking me a specific question or what.
Just the story, but I have something else.
You said that you used to have no self-respect for yourself and you let guys step all over you.
Essentially.
And it took you a long time to stand up and gain that self-respect.
So, like, this was with maybe a couple of different guys.
Yeah, definitely.
No self-respect.
And so, how would the guys, how would you have no self-respect?
And how would they be stepping all over you?
Like, for example, that guy we were talking about, I took him back after that.
And even after, and he did that multiple times, not with the same girl, but like he would be texting other girls and like asking like, or saying in boys' group chats, like, oh, I want her, I want her, I want her.
I saw all of that.
I saw all of the proof.
I would still take him back.
So he would do this multiple times.
Yes.
Okay.
Okay.
And were there other examples, though, of not like in addition to that, was he like mistreating you or being rude?
No, I would say like manipulative in a way.
I mean, because everything that came out of his mouth, and you know, I mean, he would drive me places, he would pay for things.
Like that part was fine.
But, you know, behind the scenes, he was lusting towards other women.
I see.
And it got to a point where like he kind of told me, like, oh, like, I would see proof.
And he would try to misguide me and be like, oh, like, that was just a joke.
Like da If he had never acted on it and was just had the thoughts and the lusting, would that still have not been acceptable to you if he never acted on it?
Manipulative Alpha Males00:06:49
What do you mean?
Like, if you saw a bunch of texts where he's like, I want her, I want her, I want her, or if he's one of those guys that's like liking IG models all day, but he never actually did any cheating behavior.
Like now, yeah, like he never had the actions, it was just the thoughts, like before I gained my self-respect or after, either or.
I mean, right now, absolutely not.
I would not take that back then, 100%.
It would, I would minority report, yeah.
I would be like, okay, well, like, sucks.
Let's see here.
We have, oh, Samantha got up from the table.
Samantha, I was about to ask you some questions here.
Oh, is she in the bathroom?
No, I'm right here.
Okay.
I'll wait until you're back.
Lisa, you wrote dating as a disabled woman.
So, do you want to like what's the story?
Yeah, so going back to that, I think that's like an interesting factor to talk about.
Because I always think of like my chronic conditions and how that affects the guys when I date.
Because I always take that into consideration, and I always like that is something that I would let them know right away.
I always ask them if that's a deal breaker because I think that that's important to get into.
Okay, are you wanting to share like what specifically the disability is?
Yes, so I do get like fainting spells and seizures.
So, that is always something with dating and like dating in the future and marriage.
That is always something that I think about.
And that is always something that I take into consideration when it comes to dating.
And it's something that I'll ask guys about, and they'll be like, Hey, is this a deal breaker?
Is this a problem for you?
Because it could be scary medically.
Got it.
You also write you don't agree with the alpha male trend.
So, what do you mean by that?
Um, the alpha male trend, I don't necessarily agree with it, but I also don't agree with like an alpha woman trend necessarily either.
What is the alpha male trend?
What do you mean by what is the alpha male trend?
It's kind of like to me, I feel like it's where men think they're like better than other men.
And I'm like, I don't necessarily like egotistical, yeah, like it's like an ego thing.
Uh, okay, Does it pertain to this podcast at all?
Do you think the whatever podcast is part of the alpha male trend?
Not necessarily, but I think the alpha male trend is something that's like relevant, like a relevant topic in general to talk about in terms of dating, because I feel like like dating, like women that date run sometimes into a lot of like men that can be a little bit more, like they have more of an ego.
Some men have like good like plans for their future, like wanting a business, wanting to provide, but then there's also like this really, really high ego.
And it's not just men, it's also women sometimes too.
Like there's an ego thing.
Okay.
Well, I mean, I think the alpha beta male thing is, it originates from like this study of wolf packs and there was an alpha wolf.
I think the study's actually been debunked.
I think it can sometimes be sometimes a helpful descriptor, but any man who calls himself alpha male is incredibly cringe.
It's just super cringe to call yourself alpha sigma male, though.
Sigma male grinds.
Which, yeah.
I don't know.
My opinion basically is that I think it's pretty cringey, like overall.
The alpha male trend.
Okay.
All right.
Well, the knowledge there.
Here, going, while we have everybody at the table, Nathan, we're going to pull up.
We've put all of you through AI.
We have two AI segments.
The first segment is, this is a new one we're testing out.
I don't know, but what they did was, and we're probably, I don't know if it's great for this panel.
Uh-oh, worried about that.
Do we?
I don't know if we do it.
Let's do it.
Let's do it.
Please.
Well, so oftentimes you guys were pretty reasonable, except for two of you.
A lot of times a lot of the panelists will be like, I'm a 10, I'm a 10, I'm a 10.
And so I was thinking, like, okay, what if we ran people through AI and the prompt for the AI would be, make them more beautiful.
And if they're more beautiful after being ran through AI, then how could you possibly be a 10 prior to?
But the only problem is, I think we need to adjust.
One of the people in my Discord does it.
I think we can't change the makeup.
It has to be like actual change, the facial structure.
But fuck it, we'll just do it super quick.
All right, this is going to be fucking brutal, but hey, you know what?
Gigi's going to be fine.
All right.
Yeah, right?
Gigi's going to be fine.
All right.
Go ahead.
Pull it up.
You got to zoom in a little bit, I think.
Yeah.
Zoom these out.
It's just like a like a basically the fucking hello.
I mean, it looks like they put more eyeliner on you.
They brightened your lips a little bit.
Maybe like put a little bit more color in your face.
Or cheekbones.
hair is flawless like a little okay effect but i mean okay Okay, next.
He looks great.
Oh.
Who the fuck is that?
Next.
K-pop.
Oh, no.
That's a horrible angle, but that's whatever.
I feel like it's ugly.
I feel like it's ugly.
Yeah.
What the hell is that?
It's not all.
That's the exact same.
Yeah, you look the same.
Yeah.
Wait.
Okay.
We got to get a bit of a ticket.
Pitch is a dad.
I try to see you in actual life.
Yeah.
Next.
No.
Try to get uniformity, Nathan, and like the bad ones are bad.
This guy looks like her.
Yeah.
Yeah, this is where you want to be.
Okay, next.
Asian Lipstick Dilemma00:13:34
Not me.
How did you get them smiling?
But these don't actually look like us.
This just looks like K-pop stars.
Next.
Oh, boy, this is going to be brutal.
It's going to be me.
Huh?
Yeah.
There's nothing.
There's no Brian.
Oh.
Okay.
Laura, come on.
We've gender swapped all of you, made you all men.
Oh, I'm a fine.
I got it.
Can you run through it first and like make sure they're all the same size?
I did one of those ones and I looked like the dad from Stranger Things.
I'm just like, I'm out of it.
Hey, guys, if you're enjoying the stream, like the video, please.
While Nathan's just getting that all set, like the video, please.
Just show some support for the stream.
We are, where are we sitting at?
terrible we have uh we have guys get this to 2 000 likes We're at 1,500.
There's 500 or excuse me.
5,500 people watching.
Get this to 2,000 likes, please.
All right, Nathan, do you have it ready?
All right.
Would.
I look like my brother.
So the question is, would you do the male version of you?
I don't.
It's kind of chat.
I don't date Asian men.
Me either.
Oh, I don't either.
You don't date ever?
Like, you've never dated an Asian guy?
The guy that I was in that situationship with was Asian, but before that, I have a personal preference.
I don't find Asian men attractive.
Usually, the way that they look is just too feminine for me.
I feel like Asian men look very feminine.
Interesting.
Especially like the K-pop people, I find very gross.
Yeah, like never.
Do you find some Asian men attractive?
If they're mixed with something, potentially.
If they're mixed?
Potentially, if they're mixed.
Potentially.
Like Buesian guys.
I wouldn't.
Or Blaisian.
No.
No.
Brandon Blaze.
White boys is usually my, but there are Asian men who who are, you'd agree, who do have very masculine faces, yes and like, I'll say like yeah, like I'll like you, you can be an attractive Asian man, but I personally would never, I could never see myself getting married to one.
Yeah, like if I was like, if I'm, I'm currently dating to marry, but right if say, I wasn't in a relationship dating to Mary, I would never go for an Asian guy damn, ever.
RIP Asian RIP, Asian men in the chat, brutal, brutal.
What do they call it?
Is that what?
There's some never mind um like uh okay uh, I don't know where I was going with that.
Well, here we have other Asian women here.
Do you have a?
Do you no longer interested in Asian?
You don't eat you too, me too, you too yes, and what about you?
I'm Asian yeah, I don't never date an Asian guy.
What about a Waysian guy?
Because you're Washington?
I am no.
Would you date an Indian guy?
Not anymore, I will just start dating brutal, the Asian men in the chat, black pilled, black pilled, holy fuck um okay hey, you know.
What's interesting though, about that uh, is that I think it no offense, this is a bit.
This is just a pure analysis.
Um, I don't know if I don't be offended, it may be slightly dysfunctional.
Well, for example historically, you like 300 years ago, wherever you were living, there weren't you?
Yeah, you saw your race.
Yeah, especially like if you were in China Korea Japan, unless you were, like were in port and there was like American, Dutch traders coming or some shit, like you did never, you never saw a white person and I was like I feel like it would be like if you were just not attracted to to your own race,
like you just exit yourself out of the gene pool.
Basically, what do you mean?
I mean a cinch, it's nothing toward, it's just a personal preference.
No, it's not racist, like a lot of people like to tell me, like I'm being racist to my own race.
So I don't think it's racist.
I think people can have racial preferences when it comes to dating.
I'm not I'm not putting that label on, but I think and obviously we don't live in a historical setting, we live in the modern setting, especially in America multiculturalism there's.
There's black people, white people, Arabic people, you know, all kinds of skin colors, etc.
Um, so there's no shortage of opportunity to date outside of your race, in fact, there's more opportunity.
But it does occur to me, from like a more analytical perspective, that it would be historically, in a historical context, if you didn't find your own race attractive, it would be somewhat dysfunction, because that would be your only option.
Yeah, no one.
I'm the most attracted towards Indian men still, but I don't trust them.
Yeah, it's not the looks, it's the something else.
Okay, yeah, culture for me, it's looks for you, it's looks okay, got it.
Okay, uh, and you said you don't date Asian guys too anymore.
Any more bad experience or all of them, and you know, never are you just not attracted to them?
I feel like they're all related to them, you know, like yeah, you know, I'm related to every Asian.
Well, yeah, I've heard that from some Asian women, they say it would feel like dating my brother, yeah, and I have a brother, and I do not want to do that, but don't you think that would be like don't Asian men have oh, come on, that's right, that is did we just learn you're a size queen?
What did we just learn you're a size queen?
Maybe shit, my chances are out the window now.
But uh, that's maybe if you don't know how to use it, then okay, uh, wow, that is a lot of info there.
Damn, okay, I don't know where I feel like I could go somewhere with that thing.
That's interesting.
Um, okay, uh, let's continue on with the AI thing then.
If I have any further thoughts on the race thing, uh, next, oh, no, you wouldn't date him, he's kind of that's that middle one, middle one, middle one, no, no, no, okay, next, oh, no, no, no, no, I look like my brother, yeah, you would date him, no, what's wrong?
I'm not Cersei Lannister, I look like my brother.
Let's assume he's genetically different.
Would you date him?
No, what's wrong with him?
I don't like Asians.
Oh, okay.
What's your type?
White, black, black?
Anything but Asian.
Latino, black.
Last boyfriend.
Russian, Polish.
Last guy you hooked up with.
Spanish and Russian.
What's going on in New York?
Okay.
Brooklyn.
That's right.
Okay.
Next.
What the hell is this AI?
Can we go back to that?
Yeah.
The middle ones are cute.
They're both.
Yeah, they're decent.
Would you date the AI gender swap of you?
Maybe the center one.
Okay, that's great.
Yeah.
No.
Wow, no, no, no.
Not bad.
No, that's better.
Airable.
The bus cut one.
The one on the bus cut.
No.
Still not.
All right, maybe we've got to pass them to the Asian girls.
The single ones, anyways.
All right.
Next.
Oh, he has a lipstick like me.
I didn't consider baby.
He's a robot.
Yeah.
Bacon bacon bomb.
Thank you for the gifted tens over there on Twitch.
Thank you, man.
Next.
No.
No?
No.
Really?
Again, the lipstick?
Yeah, the lipstick is.
Also, the first picture that I don't think looks like me, but okay.
Yeah.
You sure about that?
I'm pretty sure about that.
He looks like he plays magic.
Nothing wrong with a good card game.
Come on.
Next.
No.
No?
Wait, hold on.
The girl who doesn't care about looks.
What's wrong with him?
He's adorable.
He kind of mogs, not gonna lie.
Loki does.
He kind of mogs.
Maybe, okay, maybe the mom.
I have to get a closer look at the moment.
I like the last one.
Well, what's wrong with the one on the right?
The right one.
He's got a sky.
Yeah.
What's a sty?
Under his eye.
Yeah.
You gotta see through the impurities.
You gotta suspend disbelief a little bit.
So, yes, no?
Into the mic, please.
Put into the mic, please.
Probably in the middle.
Can you eat the chocolate and then pocket the wrapper, please?
Answer, answer.
The middle.
Okay.
Oh, no.
Next.
That is still a woman.
That is a gay man.
That man would not date a woman.
That is.
That's just you.
With short necks.
That's me as a lesbian.
Yep.
There you have it.
That is a trans individual.
Oh, my goodness.
All right, next.
Oh, we've seen her.
Yeah.
Yeah, she can get it.
Yeah.
Yeah.
100%.
What?
Oh.
Yeah, she can get it.
My girl, Brian, has always been pretty.
She doesn't look your sister.
And Emily.
All right, you can.
Nathan also ukulele.
Because girls are more beautiful.
Let's see here.
Getting into.
Does anybody have any disagreements about anything?
You need to improve the AI version, the model that you're using.
Improvement.
Yeah.
Any disagreements from anybody on any other topics?
Otherwise, I have further show notes to get into.
I was going to get into something from you, if I recall.
It was one sec.
Let me see if I can find it.
Okay, we did.
Is it Camila?
Camilla?
Camila.
Camila.
Okay, we did yours.
Gigi, we did yours.
Samantha, you told us about the.
Can you repeat it?
Like, give me the bullet point version super quick again for the new people who joined.
Okay.
Ex-boyfriend.
Friends with current boyfriend.
Ex-boyfriend came in me, ejaculated in me.
I went to current boyfriend and he ate the ejaculation from me.
Yes.
At your request.
Excuse me.
I didn't even say anything.
I just.
I want to go home.
Holy shit.
Okay.
Crazy even hearing it for the third time.
Oh, my God.
Okay.
You think things should be equal in a relationship.
Yeah.
You wrote that.
Yeah.
You said never 50-50, but 100% from both parties.
So when you say things should be equal in a relationship, what do you mean?
I just mean like, you know, just reciprocation, I guess.
So it should just be 100% from each side.
Like at all times.
And I was really tired when I wrote that.
I remember when I wrote that.
So yeah.
Okay.
So I wasn't really thinking.
Video.
Okay.
Should things be equal?
What about what do you guys think about if there's a disagreement?
Who do you think, if you even think this, should lead that situation?
Whoever's having the disagreement, like whoever like, well, let's say you're at a roadblock.
Let's say there's a roadblock.
I'm right.
I think I'm right.
You think you're right.
Who should be the tiebreaker?
Or do you just break up?
No, that's when I bring a third party in.
A third party?
Yeah, like just like just like a friend that knows a little bit into the relationship.
Whose friend?
Your friend?
My friend?
No, my bro.
Personally, when I'm in a relationship, I'm friends with their friends and we're all friends.
Like it's a whole friend group as soon as we start.
So I would just bring, I would ask at the beginning.
Yeah.
Yeah, I like that Spice Girl song if you want to be my love.
No, I'm just all friends.
Yeah.
Making love forever.
Friendship never ends.
I think you got to delay the meeting the friends for very long.
Vietnamese Women's Toxicity Talk00:15:28
Me personally.
I don't agree on telling your business to your friends.
I don't either.
W, WGG, W Camila.
Camila.
Sea Dog.
And I also don't believe that 100% from both parties at all time is possible ever.
That's not realistic either.
Well, there would have to be communication in that.
If you're not fully at 100%, let's say you're 30, like I can do more for you in that relationship, even if you're down.
Because obviously, no one's going to be at their 100% every single day.
I just think like you have to be able to find the balance between both of them and find a communication and a common ground.
What about chores?
Should chores be equal?
Fuck it, a woman should do it.
Women should be doing it.
Oh, you know, and if a man wants to, you know, help out, sure, I guess.
Okay.
As an Asian, you know, as an Asian.
Well, you're only 50%.
Yeah, but I grew up with my Asian side fully.
Like, my brother and sister are fully Asian.
They're my half siblings, so that's what I grew up with.
You're half Filipino?
Yeah.
Okay.
I see.
Can I share something about observations from?
Oh, well, we got Vietnamese women here, too.
Okay.
All right.
All right.
I've noticed.
Okay.
My own anecdotal experience.
When it comes to the Asian women, the Vietnamese and the Filipinos are the most toxic.
I don't think so.
Just saying.
Just saying.
You know.
Me personally.
Kind of toss up, you know, with the Chinese.
The Mongolians, of course.
Very pleasant.
Isn't that a common conception within the Asian community that there's actually the most racism in any community is Asians against other Asians and that Japanese and Chinese are determined to be like superior than like Thai Filipino or Vietnamese?
Like, isn't that?
And I'm speaking from things I've heard from other people.
If I'm wrong, call me out.
But I've heard that that's actually a thing within Asian communities.
Well, colorism is really big within Asian communities, just like how her metric is.
Although I think toxism is just individual.
I don't think it's like every region.
By the way, I'm not saying all Vietnamese women and Filipinas are toxic.
No, they're not Latina.
They are.
Wait, did I say Latina?
Oh, shit.
Fuck.
Four-day.
Wait, Filipinas and Vietnamese.
I'm not saying all of them are toxic.
My mom is the least toxic.
I've just noticed.
And my mom is the most toxic person.
My mom's toxic.
Your mom's toxic?
Yeah, and my aunt is Vietnamese, and she's not as toxic as my mother is.
The Philippines have the happiest people.
I think it's just more like women within the Philippines, Vietnam, and then honestly, kind of Thailand, no shade.
I think it's just more Southeast Asian women are more vocal.
And I think that's where the toxicity comes from.
Is that you're just, I feel like within women within Southeast Asia are more vocal because they have to do so much within even like in Asia itself.
And even when they come to America, they do so much that like they have to feel like their voice is being heard.
Well, I also think like historically, you have to consider the fact that, you know, you had like Japanese, Korean, Chinese immigration under different circumstances than, for example, like Vietnamese, a lot of Vietnamese immigrants were fleeing under like war-torn country circumstances.
So I think, I don't know, I'm just kind of blabbering a little bit.
But look, by the way, no shade.
No shade.
Just saying.
But anecdotally, I've, by the way, I've known some very pleasant Filipino women, known some pleasant Vietnamese women.
I did have a toxic Vietnamese accent.
I gotta say that.
You know.
Okay, good talk.
Good talk.
Good talk.
Hey, at least I'm willing to date an Asian.
Y'all won't even date Asian women.
Don't be all mad.
Oh my God, he's so.
I found one that I would, but I never did anything.
Yeah, because you guys never date Asian women.
Who's the real bad person here?
I'll have sex with an Asian woman.
Okay, I'll do that, but I won't date them.
I'll date them.
But you guys will.
I won't date them.
Oh, you'll smash, but you won't.
Yeah.
That's interesting.
The other way around for me.
I'll date an Asian woman.
I'll, you know, it's you.
You guys are so taught.
You guys are really toxic here towards Asian people.
Here I am, benevolent.
I guess I'll have sex with Asian women.
I guess.
If they insist.
Okay, anyway, sorry.
By the way, just to be clear, just to be clear, because I feel like I'm about to be labeled here.
I date, mostly date white women and Latinas and Asian women.
I feel like white women are more toxic than me.
They're like the most.
Just to be clear, you can find toxicity everywhere.
Yeah.
I'm not saying I've known plenty of toxic white women, Latina women.
but i feel like i gotta be honest though Have not dated a black girl.
I feel like men seek out Asians because they're less toxic than white women.
Well, I think you nailed it earlier.
I think it's more about the femininity.
Like you said, Asian men are more feminine.
And it's not just looks-wise, it's culturally as well.
It's more acceptable to be feminine in quite a few cultures currently.
And women seek masculinity.
Like, we want like rough hands and we want that kind of thing.
So, and men want feminine and tiny, and like I could throw her around, and you're gonna find that more in that.
Yeah, I don't know if I agree that you might make the argument in terms of physical appearance, but in terms of personality, I don't know if I would agree.
By the way, there's like a book, like Asians are very varied culturally.
Like, you know, China, Korea, Japan, Vietnam, Thailand, Cambodia, you know, there's plenty of other countries, Philippines, Singapore, et cetera, et cetera, et cetera.
There's like these cultures definitely differ quite substantially.
You know, I'm curious when it comes to Chinese men, for example, I don't know if it's actually the case that you could say that Chinese men are less masculine than American men, for example.
Would you describe Chinese men as assertive?
I think they well, are you talking about Chinese American or are you talking about Chinese men?
Chinese.
Well, I and I don't know.
Do you go to China or visit China?
It's been a while, but yeah.
So, I mean, I haven't necessarily agree.
Like, my dad, for example, I think is a very masculine man.
But wouldn't would you agree with this?
My impression of many Asian cultures and Chinese culture is it's a bit more traditional.
Yeah, like they tend to be more traditional, which would probably, I would suspect, perhaps lean more.
I mean, but then you hear about, you know, there's the tiger moms, or I don't know the exact term where like the moms are kind of a little bossy and dominant.
And I think you see that sometimes in Japan, where they'll, like, the, the, the Japanese wives kind of are a little bossy with the husbands.
So I've heard.
Of course, I'm sure that's not the case for all dynamics.
But I think that in many Asian countries, there's a more traditional dynamic.
Whereas here, you have like boss babe, super liberal women who are handpacking the men, and you've got like soy boy.
Like, I don't know.
Are they wait?
Hold on.
I was about to say that people be changing gender here.
Yeah.
But then I did remember about Thailand.
You're also like in California, though.
Like, California men are very different than Midwestern men or men in Texas.
Like, they're definitely a lot more, like, coming from the Midwest.
Like, Midwestern men are still pretty damn masculine.
Like, some farm boys, way different than California dudes.
I saw that thing, like, a guy was doing an interview with a bunch of Chinese women.
They were saying that, I mean, correct me if I'm wrong, but they were saying that like men from China, like in China, are more cold than most men.
Okay.
I mean, yeah, like they're more standoffish.
They're more like.
I think men in general is Asian culture in general doesn't really accept mental health, opening up emotionally.
Right.
So I think that's where the like cold idea is.
And then also, I think a lot of our men need more of that because it's not good.
Okay.
Where were we going?
Oh, the 50-50 thing?
Okay.
You wrote that you personally think most women, your words, not mine.
Most women are immature and are stupid, sadly.
Whoa, that's super sexist.
How dare you?
I know.
Disavow, disavow, rebuke.
You write, there are only a few women you can sit back and appreciate appreciate.
Yeah, as I said, I was very excited.
I can appreciate a man's work ethic more than a woman.
Women just do way too much and cannot take accountability for anything.
Therefore, if the woman can't take accountability, she shouldn't be in a relationship.
Most likely, they're going to push their insecurity onto the man, which usually makes the man look like the asshole in the end.
And she'll just play victim and blame everything on the man instead of reflecting on their actions and faults.
Wow, this is a very misogynistic take from you.
I think you should maybe apologize to all the women here for what you just said.
I need to get away from that.
Don't apologize.
I wasn't going to apologize.
No, you're good.
Because sitting back, you know, like, if I got to know you, then that obviously would change.
I just have a very like, I just keep this facade for everyone that, like, it's just a lot of women, especially on the show.
Like, you guys are not going to be able to do it.
You're not wrong.
You know what I mean?
Exactly.
And it doesn't go for, that's why I said it doesn't go for every single woman out there.
Because if you know yourself and you know that that comment wouldn't bother you.
You know what I mean?
Yep.
Right.
Does not bother me.
Yeah.
No.
Would you say, could you relate it more to people your age versus women overall?
I just, I honestly wrote that because when I was in high school, they had asked me a question: Do you think a woman should become president or can be president?
And I said no.
And I got called child eyes.
Yeah.
Like, and I went to a pretty liberal school.
Well, when I translated.
So, yeah.
So they were like, oh, she's sexist.
She's this.
But I just was like, women, like sometimes when they're under pressure, they don't think.
More emotional.
Yeah, they are very emotional with what they think.
And I do too.
And that's the thing.
I can admit that I can do things based on emotion.
100%.
And so I totally agree with that.
Like push the head down.
And I think it's great that a young woman says it because the problem is millennial women, big time.
They're the ones that are setting the course for exactly.
So they're unhappy with their lives.
They're single.
They've got their cats and their wine and their weed or whatever.
And I'm not a baby, by the way.
And they know.
No, I know.
I wasn't talking about you.
I'm a millennial.
Oh my God.
Middle-aged women sit there and go, age is just a number.
No.
No, no.
There is an objective truth.
And I've watched other women sit there and tell younger women, well, just go out, live your life, go and ride the cock carousel as much as you can.
You need your experiences.
And it completely sabotages younger women from the age.
I did believe it in my 20s.
Oh, I did.
And so did I.
It ruined me.
I'm a millennial.
And I remember it was go to college, go to, you know, go and get an education.
A man, a man's not going to want you if you work.
Like, you're never, a man is never going to marry you if you don't work.
You have to pull your weight.
You have to.
No one ever told, like, I'm a millennial, and nobody's ever told me that men just want a nice girl, a complacent girl.
Yeah.
Yeah.
And had somebody had told me in my 20s that all I had to do was be pretty and nice and I could just write out that my life doing my nails and taking care of my children and homeschooling them, my life would have been a lot different that I wouldn't have made the mistakes that I had made.
So good on you for being so young and like actually recognizing that women are a problem, especially millennial women.
That's why I will say that millennial women are a problem.
That's why I actively started watching this show.
Like I see why the aim of the show is to make women aware, not just women, but make people aware of this.
And I really do hope that people who are younger learn that lesson because it can get to the point where, oh shit, it's too late.
It really can get to that point where, oh shit, it's too late.
I know a millennial, she went on vacation and she talked about going to a cave party.
I was like, you're 40.
Is it like a Burning Man thing?
I don't know.
40?
Yeah, like you're 40.
Like I said, it's like, what are you doing?
Like, no one wants to see you dance around in a bikini.
Like, absolutely nobody wants that.
Like, and it's, it's sad.
It's, it, like, honestly, for me to look at that, it's so pathetic.
I mean, I mean, somebody who has the word stepmom in their search history wants to see that.
It's just a joke.
Just a joke.
Just a joke.
But yeah, no, I think it's great.
And I think more young women should take that on and accept because, like you said, there's no responsibility.
There's no accountability for women.
They can just go, eh, well, you know, he was mean to me.
He said a naughty thing to me.
So I don't have to, like, I don't have to accept that.
That's abuse.
Everything is abuse when it comes to women.
They never take accountability.
I've made choices in my life.
And the women that say that they've been abused in these relationships are people who have never experienced abuse in their life.
Yeah.
Like they don't even know the half of it when people are actually staying and being in these abusive relationships.
They're the ones who aren't speaking out.
They're the ones who stay quiet.
So no, and it's like the thing my husband said to me, right?
Like a lot of women would look at that and go, well, he's abusive.
He's so abusive to her.
He's brainwashed.
And it's not that.
Abuse And Expensive Hobbies00:06:17
It's he wanted what was best for me.
And I think that's fair.
And yeah, I think a lot of millennial women should just kind of take the.
I have a question since the topic of abuse came up.
I have a question.
And it's not a heavy question or anything.
I had a girl, I think it was a couple of shows ago, ask me, I do pretty well.
But you would ask me, and, you know, I would like to, whoever I'm with long-term, she doesn't have to work.
I'm going to take care of everything.
But she asked, well, what would that entail?
Like, what if your girlfriend wants a luxury bag?
Well, let me tell you, let me ask the question first.
Do you guys think it would be, it's financial abuse?
Let's say I'm got a, you know, long-term girlfriend, we have kids, whatever.
Is it financial abuse if I don't buy my girlfriend a Louis Vuitton purse?
No.
No.
Absolutely not.
Anybody think it's abuse?
Am I financially?
Like, she really wants the purse, though.
No, like, a special special occasion.
Yeah.
Well, he's saying that he supports her and financially supports her.
She's at home.
So, like, as far as like the buy-it-yourself thing, that's not an option.
She can't buy it herself.
Then no, because she's not working.
I think that if her biggest priority is getting a bag, she should reevaluate her priorities.
And you're a good man for showing that to her.
How about this?
She wants Alexis.
I get her a Toyota.
Financial abuse?
No, no.
Financial abuse?
No.
Okay.
You got her a car.
You still got her a car.
Yeah.
Sorry.
How about how about I'm trying to think of another example I could give?
I think it's financial abuse.
Like if you get yourself nice things and won't get hurt, probably more along that long.
So yeah, yeah.
I buy myself McLaren or Ferrari, but she gets a Toyota.
Well, it's still your money.
Financial abuse.
But you're making the money.
What about Phil being sorry?
She wants to take on an expensive hobby.
Like she wants to start doing something where the supplies and the stuff to do it would be really costly.
What about that?
Oh, that's good.
Horses.
Ooh, horses.
She wants a horse.
Three horses.
Does it contribute?
And I say no.
Does it contribute?
But I could afford it.
But I say no.
Sorry.
Go ahead.
No, you go ahead.
Does it contribute to anything as far as their living?
Because the expensive hobby, like, yeah.
Is it any kind of contributor?
If it's not, then no, I wouldn't.
Well, I mean, it'd be a hobby and bringing money.
No.
Okay.
I would make it racist.
They are so expensive.
Yeah.
It would lose money.
But, okay, so not financial abuse.
Okay, because I got a bit of flack, you know, because this girl, you know, we were talking about it, and she got, I would say, oh, I'd get her a bag at Costco or Amazon.
Sure.
If you have style, you could rock that Amazon bag just as good as you can rock that Louis bag.
But I guess from my perspective, it's even if I could afford it, I would, and I'm fully providing, I'm taking care of everything.
I would still want authority over purchases.
I mean, not in totality, but okay, you want to spend, like if my girlfriend were to come to me and I'm taking care of everything, oh, I want a $3,000 bag.
No.
No.
I agree.
Because my dad is the only moneymaker in our family.
Yeah.
So, and my mom does not work at all.
W.
And has very irrational asks.
Oh, you're.
Wait, did you?
You said your mom was kind of toxic?
Switches, please.
Yeah.
Okay.
What about you?
So I have a complete different story.
So I love rings.
The only jewelry I love is my rings.
So I asked my second husband that my wedding ring, because this is America, I need it prettier, you know?
Like this one is $100,000 only.
So it's not like super duper expensive.
And I asked him, whoa, that's expensive.
What?
$100,000?
No, no, no.
$1,000.
$1,000.
Oh, my God.
No.
$1,000 ring.
I was asking.
And I say, if you want, I can buy from India from my own money because I have money in India.
But he said, no, I will buy from here.
And he got like, I don't know what metal it was, like 200 bucks.
And it was really bad.
Like, really, really.
It turns black after a few months.
So, you know, do you think this is a financial abuse?
He doesn't let me spend my own money in what I want to wear every day as a sign of a marriage.
May I just say this?
You said that he won't let you spend your own money.
I will say this, and apologies, I'm speaking to someone who's not married, but when you get married, the point is that it's not your money or his money.
It's money that's your marriage.
It's our money.
But he said, do not buy clothes for my daughter because it's my daughter, not his, from my own salary, also, like whatever joint account, but he don't let me.
So that's financial abuse, you know.
Okay, going to Lisa, finishing up your notes, Lisa, you wrote when your ex cheated, then went to jail the same day?
Yeah, that was an interesting dating story.
What did he go to jail for?
He went to jail for punching someone.
And then the person went into the hospital.
Okay.
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So, yeah.
Okay.
You also wrote here your final thing.
You have other interesting opinions you chair on the podcast.
You believe, your words, not mine, you believe women should be stay at home and help their husbands.
You're a Christian.
So you're traditional.
You don't think women should be pastors and speak in the church.
You say women belong at home married with kids not working full-time and men should provide and protect.
You believe in full tradition.
Even churches have embraced the modern modern too much to the point that there's female pastors and you don't agree with that.
You think society needs to regress women.
Women belong in the kitchen, making our husbands a sandwich.
Real basic.
Hey, you know, I'm the all spicy tonight.
To an extent, yeah.
To an extent I absolutely like me personally, I do want to work, not full-time, but like I want to cook, I want to clean, I want to take care of kids, but I would also like to have a job as well, just because I feel like me personally, I would get bored from just not bored, but as fulfilling as that would be, I think it would also be cool to have a job.
Isn't that a really good example of wanting it all though?
Like the pie is only so big, you can only cut so many pieces out of it.
Yeah, but it's like even like, I mean, I joke about it with my boyfriend all the time.
Like, yeah, I don't, like, I just want to sit at home on my ass and do nothing.
But it's like he would also, like, say, me and him do get married.
He would also want me.
And you want children.
Yes.
So if you're full-time.
Again.
Okay.
Imagine there's a pie and you cut out a slice and that pie is your time.
And you cut out a slice for your husband.
Of course, I'm making the food analogy.
You cut out the slice for your husband.
You cut out the slice for your children.
If you're cutting a slice for a job, your husband and your child are getting less of a slice.
Well that's why at one point you have to get to a place where your job is making money without you fully being there for it.
Exactly.
And like for example like I want to be like a teacher.
When I'm teaching my kids are gonna be in school and I'll be home when they're home.
If you have the kids and you have the husband teach Sunday school.
I mean I help assist teaching Sunday school at my church and it wouldn't take me away from that.
It would be something you do one day a week and you still get that fulfillment and you still get that ability to teach.
100% like yeah like I want to be a teacher but as like a teacher like yeah I need to prep and all of that is going to take time as well but that's stuff that can be done at home.
Like I'm not going to nurture my husband or my children less because I also.
And again I don't want to speak about something I don't understand so I'm going to ask the people here that have children even when your children get older could you still find the time to do it all?
Is that a realistic thing?
Personally, I mean I when I graduated from college I had to go find a job you know being straight out of school but my ultimate goal was to be a stay-at-home mom like that was what I wanted to do.
I wanted to have kids and stay at home and that's what my husband wanted as well.
And that's what I did for the you know the first several years of our marriage and then he lost his job.
He took a second job.
That job didn't pay as well and so financially I had to go back to work when my son was like three.
So I had to go back and so now I am very fortunate to have a job where I am working from home.
So I am at home if the kids need me, if one's homesick from school or something like that.
So I don't feel necessarily like I'm taking time away from my kids or my husband.
I feel like everybody feels like that their needs are met.
My house isn't as clean as I would like for it to be maybe, but I still cook dinner.
I cook my husband breakfast every morning.
I cook my family dinner six nights a week.
We do go out and eat one night a week, but I'm very hands-on that way as well.
When I was growing up, my only dream was having a husband.
I will be just home and taking care of house.
And my grandma, you know, taught me all the things to be a perfect wife.
So my only dream is I will be having an arranged marriage.
My husband will be as good as my father, you know, like my father with my mom.
And then I will be just sitting and not doing anything, raising kids, taking care of guests and house.
But what happened is during my first marriage, my father asked that, you got a job offer.
Can you ask your to be husband and in-laws that are you allowed to be work?
Like what they want.
So I asked them.
And they say, no, you should work.
You're a software engineer.
It's a good job.
You should work.
So now when I'm working, because they like me to work because they want extra money, but my husband will not contribute equally in home.
You know, like they say, Indian men don't work, do the house stuff, you know, like raising kids or anything.
So then I say husband and wife should complement each other.
If a woman is just like work house maker, then husband should do all the other responsibilities.
If woman is 50, like doing job as well as taking care, husband should also.
But they both should complement each other, like to be a perfect couple.
Yeah, like if me getting a job would affect my family, then obviously I'm not going to.
Yeah.
But if like everything like it works, then it works.
And I don't want to say that I'm taking the stance of like don't work.
I'm just saying that like knowing that you're a little bit younger, are you doing the same thing we just talked about of wanting it all?
I'll tell you as a mom that does work and marrying women that did work and had three kids, choosing to go to work is probably the worst thing you can do for your children.
You say yeah, but you disagree.
No, I agree.
It's the worst thing you can do for your children because they don't take on your personality.
They don't take on your values.
They take on the government's values and whatever they decide to put in your school.
So my children are now products of the government because I made a choice.
So I had to, my son, who's 17, I had to take him away from everything like technology, electronics, this and that, and really force him back into my values.
Because he believed in the whole like men can be women, blah, blah, blah, blah, all that crap that all came out of the public schools.
He told me God wasn't real.
He told me all of that.
So I'm telling you as a mom who sent her three children to public schools, it's not a good thing.
As a person with a stay-at-home mom, it was probably the most miserable thing ever.
It made me and my siblings lives probably like if she had a job, I believe our entire family would be.
It's different for everyone.
Right.
But do you think you're going to be like your mother?
No.
Okay.
So you'll probably be a better mother.
Yeah, but like I feel like what you're saying is like principles.
Like how are you going to raise your children?
What are they going to believe?
What are they not going to believe?
Right from wrong.
Right.
Yeah.
Like, I feel like that, like, definitely has a play in how, like, there you are.
But at the same time, it's like.
Are you saying it's because she was a helicopter mom that was overbearing?
Or are you saying it's because she wasn't fulfilled and took it out on y'all?
She wasn't fulfilled and took it out on all of us.
Yeah, like insanely.
I had one of those things.
Yeah.
Like you say, like you admit that you're not going to be like your mother, right?
Yeah.
And that's fine.
And then you can, you know, you can kind of build off that.
Yeah.
But as like, I can tell you, and living in Canada, obviously it's not the same as living in America.
But in Canada, there are things that we are not like, if my son comes home and says, I'm a girl, we're not allowed to tell him no.
We have to affirm it.
Okay.
Yeah, the government should not be stepping into that.
Because they will clearly.
take your head and put them in the system.
So that's why I'm saying like it's so important that your values go into your children than the government's values going to your children.
You already said you're not going to be like your mother and I believe that.
So I, I mean, I would definitely maybe seek out someone that can provide.
You're young, you're beautiful.
You can seek out somebody good enough and that can provide so you can stay at home with a gentleman.
Trust me, it's more fulfilling than working 40 hours a week.
Elania, here's a question for you.
Let's say you end up with your current boyfriend or whatever.
You guys get married and let's say he becomes, I don't know, either through his job or some other way, very wealthy to the point where financially speaking, you don't have to work.
Under that sort of circumstance where it wasn't a financial decision, would you, and he was like, hey, I want you to stay at home.
Would you stay at home?
Yes, 100%.
That's why I'm saying if my family will prosper still from me working, if it's going to deteriorate my family, then 100% I'm not going to be able to do that.
That's why I went back to work.
It's because financially I have to.
You had to.
We have had to.
If we could be financially well off where I didn't have to work, yeah, my butt would be at the house.
I would be officially.
And actually, to your point, like you were talking about the schools, we actually homeschool our daughter.
So I'm actually able to be at home with her.
My younger son, he is still in public school.
But where I am, they're a little bit more conservative.
Right.
But yeah, I see that.
And he's actually talked to me about staying at home to do homeschooling.
I'm just like, I think you want to do that just so you can wake up later.
In Canada, like it's like if you're living off, if there's only one income in the house, like you're killing it because it's almost impossible.
The average person does not stay.
There's not one person staying at home.
Wow.
It's not feasible in Canada.
It's just not.
In India, like we have so many maids and servants and drivers.
Like my mom had three kids, but she has all the help.
Like when I had my daughter, I have all the help.
Like they just give me to feed her.
Otherwise, you know, all the family members and maids and servants, they were.
So it's so easy, you know?
Yeah.
You just going to, I guess, to your notes, Priyanka, you did write you have one meaningful disagreement.
You said a lot of conversations around women's issues are centered only on the United States, but women's struggles are also deeply shaped by culture, family systems, and traditions across the world.
That's fair.
Like when I married and came to America, I thought he has American mentality, not Indian.
But his mom came to our house and said, Why my son is doing the dishes?
The man in my house doesn't do dishes, but I'm also a software engineer, as your, you know, and I have a daughter also to take care of.
So, you know, sometimes even it's culturally sometimes very difficult.
Well, it is a difficult position where both people are working and then I do it all.
Yeah, I work a full-time job.
I like I clean, I cook, I take care of my son.
I bring like we do it all.
My son, my, my, my husband is a rugby coach.
My son plays rugby.
Like, if he calls me up and says, hey, I need this, boom, I'm in that car and I'm going.
Like, great sports.
Well, I mean, like, people.
And I feel like, like, from the sounds of it, your family, is your family doing worse because you're working, or are like, are you guys in a good position?
We're in a fantastic position, but I feel like my husband's an electrician.
So let's say if we were in Florida, he would be probably making, doing, be doing better, like, be able to support me, which is like, that's not what our plan is.
But like, he would probably be able to support me on his own.
But Canada takes a lot of taxes.
A lot of taxes.
But yeah, no, like, I, why can't you do the dishes and do all that?
Why is that so like based?
Like, because I do it.
My husband, I'm going to call him out.
I'm going to blow up his spot a little bit, but like, I left for a week because I had a show to do.
And I come back home and he's like, I bought dishwasher pods or whatever.
And I got back and they were like gain pods.
My husband is so out of the loop when it comes to cleaning that he can't even, he can't even buy proper pods.
He didn't put them in the dishwasher.
I don't even lie for my husband to load the dishwasher.
I was like, you're doing it wrong.
Just let me do it.
Well, it's not even that.
He'll pick up the broom, and I'm immediately insulted that he did that because I was like, what?
I didn't do it fast enough?
Like, what's going on?
Like, give me that, sit down.
Like, my husband, I make his tea every single night before he goes to bed.
I make his tea.
I get up at five in the morning.
I get dressed.
I make his coffee so it's ready and set to go.
Like, I literally do everything for my husband.
Because, you know, when we were talking initially on the matrimonial app, we had the same conversation.
You know, like if I'm working, will you share the responsibility?
Because growing up, I never did dishes or anything.
We always had help.
I grew up in a business class family with a joint family of people.
I learned to do everything, cooking, cleaning, sewing, whatnot.
But it's just the shared responsibility.
Because, see, I have a full-time software engineer job as he has, but I have a henna business also.
I work weekends too.
I have three kids, a full-time job.
I travel for a living.
So, you want that he should not do dishes?
No, like I'll okay.
I'm gonna just get a sugar mama, and she can still do all the work.
She can do all everything.
I'm gonna just retire.
She can work and she still has to come home.
She busted her ass for 60 hours.
She's still doing the dishes.
She's still mopping.
She's doing everything.
Well, like, I came out here and before I, like, whenever I have to go on trips for work, like, I'm out here, I go to a trade show tomorrow.
Um, I don't want my family to feel my absence as much as possible.
So, before I actually go on these trips, I will prep their meals.
Their dinners for this week are ready in the fridge.
And all you gotta do is I'm not that good.
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Just blasting through some of the other notes, Sarah, right?
You married a man 15 years older than you.
He was a college football coach.
Yep.
He told you guys your age, thought a certain way.
And you've been married 20 years, you said?
20 years, yeah.
Okay, so you were you in college when you met him, or I was in college when I met him, yeah.
Okay, and he was the football coach at that college.
He was actually the football coach at my college.
That's not how it all started, though.
Oh, okay.
That's not how it started.
So, no, actually, it was really interesting how it all started.
So, um, I went to a very small college, and he was the football coach, and um, he was actually married with a kid.
I was engaged at the time to like my high school boyfriend, and I was doing work study for one of his assistants.
I remember like his ex-wife at the time, well, ex-wife, wife at the time, would come up and she would like see him, have lunch with him, or whatever.
I would always babysit his little boy.
I even offered, like, hey, if you all want to go out on a date, I'll babysit your little boy for free.
You know, loved him.
Well, things happened between the two of them.
She ended up leaving and moving back because they're from South Carolina.
She moved back to South Carolina.
He and I became friends, and then he got a job back in South Carolina to try to be closer to his son because he didn't want to be four states away.
I was like, Man, yeah.
Oh, I thought you were like, Move your hand first.
I do got to move it on here.
Do you want to finish the story though?
Yeah, no, no.
We ended up like staying in touch and started a long-distance relationship after they got a divorce.
And 20 years later, and three two kids were here.
Wait, hold on, guys.
gotta go private for a second.
Okay.
Continuing on with your notes, Sarah.
Yeah, you're good.
So, yeah.
So, you said women need to remain pure as long as possible, preferably until marriage, due to high levels of cancer, emotional.
So, you're talking about like HPV?
Yeah, there are actually, there are studies that have been shown that the higher the body count, the higher your risk of cervical cancer, HPV, and things like that.
And so, that's not, I mean, for me, it's more morality, but for others, there's also health risks involved.
Okay, gotcha.
Just curious, who here is a Christian?
Who's Christian?
Oh, you're Christian?
Christian, Christian, Christian?
Oh, wow.
I don't know about her.
I don't get the impression, but not that that's any shade, but okay, Nicole, to you.
So, you're waiting until marriage.
Yes, I am.
We covered some of that earlier on in the show.
You said you've never actually dated.
Yeah.
But I mean, you've what's the definition of a date?
Well, I mean, like, when I say the term date, people want to map on like formality to that.
I would consider a date you're hanging on individually one-on-one with a guy you like.
That's, to me, would constitute a date.
Okay, that's that's the normal.
Like, women will do this thing where it's like, oh, I've never dated, but I've had sex with a hundred men.
I mean, you have dating experience.
You're not like lacking in dating experience.
It's been short-lived.
Okay.
But you've had some situationships short-term.
Why do you think it's short-lived with a lot of these guys?
You say you're chronically single.
What is it?
In the past?
Oh, that was before I came to Christ.
But, like, why do you were the guys just, it was them?
Was it you?
Was it both?
What?
I think it was God's protection.
And God's protection.
Yeah.
He was just pulling me away from them and dragging, like, just dragging me away from them.
Whether there was like a different situation where we just didn't vibe, I guess.
It was God's divine intervention.
100%.
Yes.
But did you like go into those relationships seeking like an actual long-term thing?
Yes, I did.
And I was seeking validation and love and all the wrong things.
I did write here, actually, can I, you sent him, I don't want to like, you sent a message about someone, can I share it?
Or you prefer not?
Sure.
That's okay.
You said you wanted to shoot your shop with Chase, who's been on the show previously, but only if he's single.
Yeah.
Good, dude.
Okay, all right.
I can't, I mean, go for it, I guess.
Is he single?
Huh?
Is he single?
I actually don't know.
I spoke to him, geez, it's been a couple months since I spoke to him.
I don't know what his current relationship status is.
Then I'll hold off until I know for sure.
But I gotta be honest.
I know he doesn't like tattoos.
I don't know if he's gonna be able to do that.
I know.
Yeah.
But they're all very God-centered.
So that's different.
They're not vulgar or anything.
Do you consider yourself a born-again virgin?
No.
No, not that.
Okay.
Aaron, going to your notes then.
Actually, you know what?
Before we get into the notes, I want to do some questionnaire stuff because no offense to everyone.
The questionnaire stuff's a bit more interesting.
Going around the table, what is the minimum yearly income to be your future husband?
I put $150,000.
$150,000?
What about you?
I think I put either $65,000 or $70,000.
$70K?
Okay.
I didn't know what to put, but I put $250K.
$250K?
Yeah.
Minimum.
Like, so not a guy makes $100K?
That's fine.
I really don't care.
I know I did.
The question is minimum.
I know.
I just didn't know what to put.
um 250k though that is i think to be top one percent it's 400,000 so you're getting close to the top one percent um What about you?
I think I said 65 to 75,000.
What about you?
I think I said 50, but honestly, as long as it's an honest job, I don't really care.
Okay.
What about you?
I mean, if I fell for someone, and if he's a really good guy, then it's negotiable.
But at least whatever I am making, but ideally, like half a million.
Half a million.
A year.
Hold on.
Now, when you say if he's a really good guy, because you said if he's a really good guy, you have the vibe, whatever.
If the chemistry and everything.
But you wouldn't date a guy who works at McDonald's.
Correct?
I cannot date.
Right.
So you would go lower, but I'm suspecting it.
It's lower than my salary.
Which is what?
Well, you don't need that.
200 plus, yeah.
Okay, so if you really like the guy, 200,000.
He has to make 200,000.
Yeah.
250,000.
But you'd love.
You did write minimum 500,000.
Okay, I'll get to that in a moment.
What about you?
With living in New York, I tried to pick a number that was a little bit lower than mine, so I said 80.
80K.
All right.
What about you?
I think I put 100K in there.
You did write 100K.
Yeah.
You said you think it's realistic to want a husband that can provide.
Okay, it is above the average income, though.
Okay.
And then what did you write?
I think I said 60K.
All right.
100K is not too crazy.
And yes, it is true.
If you do want to take on the role of staying at home, be a stay-at-home wife, the husband does need to meet a certain income threshold.
Of course, it depends on where you live.
$500,000?
Yeah, because he will be at least three years something elder than me.
So when I will be his age, my salary might be.
So something.
But it's negotiable.
Like, it all depends on what he is.
You know, if he's completely in love with him, you gotta make half a million a year.
You gotta make half a million a year to.
You said you were in your 40s, right?
47.
You're 47.
And you have kids, right?
Yeah, I have a daughter in college.
Do you think a man that makes 500K is going to want a 47-year-old single mom?
I mean, so I'm not even looking for marriage.
Somebody who makes 500K is going to go for like.
So, you know, like I was.
Unless she did.
You have to go into like the 60s, 70s.
Actually, like my colleagues in my office, that's the reference, you know, like in software companies.
But they're not dating you, right?
And like somebody in California is easily making 500 if he's in.
But 50 and yeah, software.
That's fine.
Let's just say, like, let's say 20% of the men were making 500K.
What makes them want a 47-year-old woman, single mom, and couldn't get a woman that's 25, 30, you know, like you, like, you can't have kids anymore, I'm guessing.
It's you're like, you're past your prime.
Like, a man that makes 500K, I'm sorry, doesn't want a woman.
Even actually, it's all about my past experiences.
My father was an industrialist, so I came up from a very wealthy family.
So when my father was looking a guy for me, I said, I do not want a man with money.
I want an educated man, self-made men.
But now I realize it was a bad decision.
Even if we take the kid part out of it, which it definitely factors in, let's take the kid part out of it.
You mentioned your coworkers.
Of your coworkers who are not single, of the men you know in software that are making that 500k, how many of them, even at your age or older, are dating or married to women in their 20s or early 30s?
No, it's same age.
No, I know they're the same age, but they're not going after women that are in their 40s, right?
I mean, my personal experience, a lot of colleagues, could ask me.
Okay, but you, but you're not with them, right?
Fair enough.
Okay, so because I don't want to marry again.
I feel like, like, say the man was like 55, would that and he does make 500K, would that be more?
He's probably going to go for somebody that's united.
See, I want 30.
Yeah, like generally, yes.
Yeah, I agree with that.
I wanted love, a lot of love.
So I said, God, if you're not able to give me love, then give me money.
It's simple.
If a man is bringing me romance and love and everything, I will do everything I negotiate on the money part.
But if it just is like an arranged marriage setup, then I don't think she's not good looking.
She better be my fucking slave.
She better.
I don't think you're in a position where you can negotiate.
I'm not looking.
I've already done marrying, so I'm not even thinking.
But if you say, no, even today, if you don't want to marry, but what is the criteria?
That is my current criteria, which is completely opposite to like what I was thinking 30 years ago.
But you were 30 years ago, and if you were asking for a man who was making 500K, you probably would have gotten that.
30 years ago.
30 years ago.
You're not going to get that.
Because what you were saying about men who are 55.
Proposals, I rejected them because I said 30 years ago.
So what you were saying about men, like what if they're like 55?
No, I'm only speaking for New York, which is different than everywhere else.
Men at 55, I'm telling you right now, I've gone on a few dates where they've been like, yeah, I might settle down in like five years.
I might start having kids in like five years, maybe.
Like that is still the attitude, 100%.
And if they are looking to settle down, they're like, maybe like a 33-year-old.
Like if I'm really pushing it, like they're still trying to like start having kids and start having a family at like 55, 60.
Where you know, you may have to settle for a man that's retired.
500K is a big ask for, and I'm sorry, but like for someone your age and with a child, it is a big ask from a man to be like, yeah, sure, I might have to do that.
I mean, it's my ask, and I'm not, I do not want to marry, you know?
So that's why I'm not even looking.
I think maybe a bus driver might be an option.
If I try a bus driver, maybe, look, don't sleep on the bus drivers.
A cab driver could be an option.
If I may make one other point, I used to work, my first office job was for a company that sold medical equipment.
So the majority of my time was working with people that were elderly.
You say you don't want to marry.
I can promise you something right now.
You don't want to be a person that's alone in the end.
You want somebody to be alone.
I never wanted to be.
I just wanted one man for my husband.
But now you're saying now.
We're not talking about 20 years ago.
We're talking about now.
And I'm telling you now: when you get to 65, 75, ma'am, you do not want to do it alone.
You want to have somebody there with you.
I promise it broke my heart to see the people who had no birdies versus the people that had no idea.
Actually, I don't know whether you believe in astrology or not.
No.
So all the astrologers to my dad told that marriage will not be successful.
It's very, very dangerous.
Do you believe in God or do you believe in astrology?
Because they're religious.
No, they're not.
I don't know.
It's time of birth, date of birth, place of birth.
It's like, what's the vibe?
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What sign do you know?
Do you get a vibe?
Like cancer?
Am I giving cancer vibes, Capricorn vibes?
What's the vibe?
Astrology is very complicated than zodiac sign and just, you know, it's very complicated.
If I were to tell you that I was a like all your planet situation and all my planet situation, so it's very complicated.
But if I were to tell you that I'm a cancer, knowing what you know about cancers, would you be like, I see that, Brian?
No, if you just say cancer, then you're dividing the whole world in 12 people, right?
Zodiac sign.
But it's way more deeper than just Jupiter rising.
Yeah, whatever.
All that.
Okay, if I were to tell you I'm a cancer, Jupiter rising, fucking moon.
And you know, like both of the marriage, I do not want to go away with that.
You know, it's just like, it's the threat.
Astrology is pseudoscience.
Well, it's not even a pseudo, it's just BS.
It's a feeling.
It's just a feeling.
It's like hands-proofed, you know, like for me.
She made a very valid point, though.
How do you figure God and astrology go hand in hand?
They don't.
Yeah, that I was just going to say that.
You're Hindu, right?
So we even worship all the nine planets.
That's how it's all related.
Yes, that's not God.
Yeah, that's definitely not God.
All the nine planets.
But you say God, that's a monotheistic, that's one.
So you're saying God's.
So we have so many gods.
If Pluto is not a planet anymore, do you just worship eight?
Yeah, even we worship sun every day because that's a living proof that we have God.
You know, so that's what we're saying is that we're living proof that it's not God.
It's just, you're just reiterating theosophy at that point.
But like, it has nothing to do with God.
There's one God.
It's not.
And God is everywhere.
Yes, but you're talking about astrology.
In different forms, you know.
And you're asking whatever astrology to give you a husband or a boyfriend or whatever, give you a guy who makes 500K.
I mean, it's not only pseudoscience, it's just delusional on a whole other level.
Like, if you think it's more like she built herself to be so successful, though.
So, if that's what her goal is, and then what she wants to do is, I mean, you can believe in what you believe in, but that's not God, though.
That's God's right.
It's not like an optimistic person, whatever my situation is, I'm super happy.
You know, I know I just needed one loving husband, I didn't get it, but I'm very happy.
I'm running my non-profit.
But you're optimism, but your optimism is going to end you alone.
It's okay.
Suicidal optimism.
I will not settle until all these college women around here want to get with this 36-year-old.
I will not settle for less.
They need to be down.
Like, but I won't even date just one.
Like, they all, it's got to be a harem and they have to be okay with it.
It's totally going to pan out.
Trust me.
Have you ever heard the popular saying of calling something cope?
Yeah, you're coping.
This is cope.
You know what coping means?
Do you know that word?
I feel bad now.
Okay.
I mean, getting dogpiled.
Yeah.
And again, it's like follow your heart.
But I'm telling you now, this isn't just like a some people thing.
In the end, you want somebody there.
I know, but I gave up.
You shouldn't.
You shouldn't give up.
Like, it's.
You know, I needed to save my daughter.
I needed to save my daughter from both my husband.
It was very scary.
But we're not talking about your life.
You have a child in your womb and they wanted to kill.
Okay, but that's my trauma.
But we're not talking about your daughter.
But the person you are also informs the person your daughter becomes, and she's still young.
So what if she sees you going, I don't need marriage.
I can just be alone.
And she follows that same path.
That's my decision.
Yeah, but you're not like, whatever happened to you before, that's before.
Who cares about that?
No one, like, you say you're over it.
You say you had to go through that.
That's fine.
But what are you planning to do for your future at this point?
Because you're going to end up with a lot of people.
I want to help as many women as I can.
How are you going to help them when you can't help?
I'm creating an artificial intelligence-based chatbot for women's financial independence.
I do a lot of people.
That's not helping women.
I do one.
None.
That's not helping women.
Helping women be financially independent is a detriment to society.
It is an absolute.
It's not even, it's financial independence doesn't mean that you have to divorce your husband or live single.
But it means you're not dependent on it.
Support your husband when he needed it.
Or just understand the finances in the family.
That's it.
So, but if something happened to your husband one day and you say, I do not have any idea what the finances are, and that's fine.
And the woman, like what she did, she went off and she got a job and stuff like that.
But if you believe in God, you believe in one flesh.
And you are supposed to be not completely depend, like you're supposed to depend on him financially and all of that.
And you making women financially independent is, how do we say, it's not that.
It's not one flesh.
You're telling women that you should make it.
You're very feminist.
And that's what you're definitely.
I don't need a man.
I don't need it.
No, that doesn't translate into I don't need a man.
It's just that you should be just aware of finances.
You should know how to invest, how to save.
You know, my mom was a housemaker.
She used to save secretly.
And whenever my father is in trouble, she used to help her with that emergency fund.
So you're saying that women should hide money from their husbands.
Yeah, you just said earlier that it's all about honesty.
You said always be honest, always be upfront.
And now you're saying it was good that she lied and deceived.
She did that.
I mean, like, it's.
So are you saying that women that don't work don't know anything about finances?
They don't know how to.
That's why it doesn't matter what I help people.
It doesn't mean that you have to go and work.
It's just to understand the finances.
But do you think without AI they wouldn't be able to do that?
No, I don't know.
Okay, so.
It's just that I am helping women one-on-one who comes to me by looking at me.
They discuss one-on-one.
I want to create a chat bot.
Like, I can help a million women at a time.
Tell them to get married young.
Tell them to get married young.
That's what you should be telling them.
Oh, yeah.
The first family who came to see me, I was 17.
You shouldn't be telling them to be financially independent.
That's not, that's your, that's sabotage to other women.
That is plain sabotage.
That's a good point of view.
It's also everybody's a good point of view.
I'm not looking at that.
No, I have to work.
I have to work.
My husband and I can't afford to live in Canada on like just on one salary.
But my money is his money.
I don't hide money from him.
And if he told me tomorrow, if he started making 250 grand and he said, I need you to stop working, it would be done.
I wouldn't even go.
I wouldn't go.
Well, I need to be financially independent.
Also, AI.
AI has a lot of values.
It can diagnose illnesses before a doctor can.
It can do things like that.
But if you're creating an AI chat bot to talk to people about their finances, that's taking that opportunity away from an actual person and that's putting these resources into, again, teaching a lesson that doesn't need to be taught for many people.
And if that lesson does need to be taught, shouldn't a human being have that job and that can support them?
Isn't that giving?
Aren't you taking financial independence away from the humans that are doing that job right now by creating a bot that can do it for 10,000 people instead of 5,000 people having an actual job that they can make money off of it?
See, I'm talking about my story.
My story is a lot of domestic abuse.
It's a lot of like he put a pillow on my face and he sit on top of it.
Whoa, if I'm not winning, I can never be able to do it.
Your trauma dump won't change the facts.
Hold on.
What I'm saying is, but that's the problem: you're taking your bad experiences and you're sabotaging women around you.
Yes, you are.
Yes.
Because you're sitting and going, I've had a bad relationship, therefore you're going to have a bad relationship and you need to be independent from your husband because of it.
Because I had a bad perspective.
No, because I've had bad experiences too with men.
But I can tell you that I'm not financially independent from my husband, even though I work.
And my husband is one of the best people on this planet, I believe.
And telling women, younger women, that they should be financially independent because you had a bad experience with men is plain sabotage.
I mean, it's your perspective.
Do you want to help?
You know, you should see that.
May I ask a question?
May I ask a question?
If a woman gets cheated on, do you think that she should go out and tell every other woman a man's always going to cheat?
No, I'm not saying that.
So why is that different?
I'm not saying.
Even, you know, my father was the best husband in the world.
And I think there is a lot of men who is as good as my father and more good maybe than him.
It's just that if a woman is stuck somewhere, she should, and I'm not like forcing my app to all the women in the world.
I'm just saying the help is available.
Whoever so you're saying instead of the woman taking accountability for choosing the man that she chose, that she should just be financially independent and refrain from any type of responsibility, any type of accountability.
No, I'm not saying that.
But then you shouldn't.
It all depends on what woman wants to ask the app.
It has job option, career option, education options.
Women should not if she's in domestic abuse situation, what she should do as a first step.
A lot of women doesn't know what to do.
I don't think anyone else does.
She should call the cops.
She should call the cops and have him removed.
You're saying you're creating a life coach, essentially, an AI life coach.
Yeah, you can say, but it all depends.
But like I said, you're telling women that they shouldn't trust the men that they're with, that they should always have a backup plan when in reality you should be telling women, choose the right man.
Well, but that's the thing.
And backup plan beyond other cultures, or even within her case, she was in an arranged marriage.
Not everyone has the ability to choose the right man.
So I feel like it's genuinely a privilege to be able to be married to someone that loves you and want to provide for you and take care of you.
And not everybody has that.
I'm not taking that.
No, I'm just saying, like, I think within her perspective, it's more like she just wants to create an outing for women who doesn't have that choice.
There are outs.
No matter what, there is an out.
And like I was saying, like, well, yes, because you can call the cops.
You can have them removed from the home.
Not in every country.
Call the cops.
Well, we're talking specifically about America.
I understand that you had.
But we weren't.
Well, that she was in India.
That she was in India, and that's what happened to her.
But she's telling Western women.
Here also, the same thing happened.
He said that he hates my daughter because of her skin color.
Okay, but he threatened us a lot.
But because of your culture, they chose your husband, right?
Yeah.
Okay, so, but you're telling Western women based on your experience with your culture.
It's a global app.
I didn't say it's just for U.S.
Okay, well, domestic abuse also happens within America as well.
And I understand that, like, from an outsider point of view, that's like, oh, you could always call the cops.
But I feel like when you are within that situation, there's so much that goes within it.
Like, there's just like you could, you can feel like you want to call the cops or your child or life is in danger, for example.
But like.
Can I ask you a question about that, though?
I agree that people can be in really scary situations that they feel that they can't escape.
Let me ask you specifically this question.
If they're in that terrible of a situation, do you think AI is going to help them?
No.
Thank you.
But you didn't know the architecture of my AI at all.
But because I believe that human capital is more valuable than AI, no matter how good the architecture of the AI is.
The other day I asked ChatGPT how old, this is like a week ago.
I said, how old was Joe Biden when he left office?
And ChatGPT told me he's still the president.
Like, yo, that's some weird wishful thinking, ChatGPT.
I'm going back to Grock.
Going back to what you were saying, there is a way out.
Okay.
I get it that it's hard.
I know my mother had that experience.
Okay.
I lived that life.
I was in, as a child, I was in a very difficult situation.
My mother had the option.
There was people that went and got her.
There was people that went and saw her and all of that.
And she could have called the cops.
She didn't.
And that was a choice she made.
And that's the point, though.
You always have a choice to get out of the situation.
Will you sacrifice?
In America.
Will you sacrifice?
Yes, absolutely.
You will probably sacrifice quite a bit, but there's never a situation that you can't get out of.
Well, here's my question.
Did your mother have the financial stability to be able to get out of that situation?
No, but she had family.
But at the same time, a lot of people also feel like it's a burden to ask for help from their family.
Then you're not in a bad enough situation.
But the conversation of financial stability, and again, I'm not speaking for the entire world.
I'm speaking of the United States, okay?
Any sort of financial situation, there are out, there are sources to resolve that.
And I'm not even talking about government sources.
I'm not talking about handouts.
I'm talking about churches, community, non-profits.
Like these, there are so many of those from every angle that if you put in a little bit of footwork, that financial, even when you were talking earlier about being pro-choice, that financial break, that gap can be filled by these programs.
And I'm speaking as someone who, fortunately, thank God, I have an amazing job right now that I can provide for myself.
But I have absolutely had points in my past.
I grew up poor.
And I'm not trying to be anecdotal.
I know we're all kind of doing that right now.
And I got out of it based on the decisions I made for myself and the work that I put in and not selling myself short.
So I can't speak for other countries.
I've only been here in America.
But here in America, there are resources to help you and save you and push you forward, even without leaning into shitty, badly run government ones.
Yes, but also like the thing within Asian culture, for example, it's just even if you are no longer within Asia, it's still ingrained within you to not ask for help.
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It's like a shameful thing.
So would an AI change that?
A divorce is also looked down upon within Asian culture.
For example, other NGOs and they're feeding information to my AI.
So I am working with all other nonprofits, you know.
No, but in the West, it doesn't matter what culture you're, there is a way out.
And if you're married and you're in that sort of situation, I don't know how far I can go in this situation.
The husband pays an alimony, right?
He's punished for that.
He goes to jail.
He, you know, all of that.
So there is always a way out.
It's whether or not you want to take the accountability for it.
And what I mean by accountability is you chose the wrong man.
And I hear what you're saying about it being harder.
Yeah.
I hear that.
I hear that because you speak on Asian culture.
There's also other cultures, including very traditional Christian cultures who, I mean, if you look at Catholics, like divorce is a sin.
It is a sin since in right.
So, but still, it's harder, but it's still a choice.
It's all the choice is there.
So, so if you see what she's saying, like at least here, even if it's hard, the choice is still there.
Well, even in Christianity, even way back when what would happen is they like if there was a situation like that, the woman was removed or whatever, the man was ostracized from the community.
He was like thrown out of the church.
Nobody talked to him.
And he still had to pay the woman.
They were still married, but they still had to, he had to pay a certain amount and stuff like that.
I think there's a I get that it sucks.
There's bad men in the world and there's bad women in the world too.
And at some point, we both, like, as women, we have to take responsibility for that.
I know that you could, like, let's say he abuses you.
Yes, what he did was wrong, but I chose that man.
And I should have chose better for me, is what I'm saying.
You can't blame everybody around you.
You got to take some responsibility.
And then after that, you're able to grow from that.
But then taking that experience and telling women that, well, you know, you can be financially independent if something bad happens.
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Why do we have other non-profits?
Why do we have other non-profits?
I also have one non-profit, just as the other.
So women will go to these non-profits when they needed it.
I'm not asking like everybody has to use this AI.
No.
Only the woman who is coming to me, she will go to the app, you know?
Like, it's as simple.
Why we have other nonprofits helping women?
Well, mine is also another one.
And everybody is using AI for all different purposes.
I want to use AI for something better.
Well, that's not better.
That's just not better.
That's a dangerous thing, though, because again, AI has some really valuable uses.
That's why we are.
We can't turn to it for everything.
AI is just like a gun.
Guns are awesome, okay?
But guns are not awesome if they're used for the wrong thing.
And if they're used, a chainsaw is not as good as a hammer when you need to use a hammer.
It's a graph-based rack technology.
We are feeding the chatbot to what to say.
It's not like just go on the internet and have you seen Maltbook.
As someone who's in AI, do you know what Maltbook is?
M-O-L-T-B-O-O-K?
Maltbook.
So Maltbook is a social media where AIs communicate with each other.
And you talk about what's being fed into the AI.
AI using API to just post comments in there.
So no, no, no, but that's not the point.
My point is that you're saying what's fed into the AI.
So it's just reflecting what's fed into the AI.
So AI has a human bias then if it's being fed by humans.
No, it's rag is a completely different system.
So if you're going to a chat GPT and say, suggest me a lip color, it says Maybelline, L'Oreal, second, third is Elekme or something.
But if you're going to RAG-based and if you use L'Oreal, a specific chatbot based on RAG, and if you ask what is the best lip color for me, it will only recommend L'Oreal.
So not go to the whole internet and buyers.
So it's just like an election.
The person who puts the most money in is the person who wins with your AI?
No, the other nonprofits I'm adding data with.
I want to ask something.
So a woman's being abused by her husband and she's supposed to go, dear AI, what do I do next?
Yeah, she can talk to any language to the app if she'll So crazy.
Yes!
Woo! Don't copy. No copy. No copy. Wow. Wow.
Oh, will you bow?
Let me like right now?
I don't think right now, but he's asking in general.
Guys, W's in the chat for B Timby.
I don't know if you're aware of this, B Timby.
Hair pop.
We're gonna buzz her hair slash cut it off for the champagne pop.
We'll do it a little bit later, but we will do it.
We'll also pop a bottle of champagne.
We should also pull up the bow video here in a moment.
So we'll get to that in just a moment.
I have another chat coming in from baste Justin.
Sorry for the delays on these guys.
I was up from the seat, so I didn't see these coming.
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Cheers.
Okay, so two things.
I need to get the champagne, or Nathan, can you grab me a champagne bottle from the refrigerator?
Who wants champagne?
Not old enough, sorry.
Everybody's over 21, though.
So champagne, champagne.
One.
I'll drink it.
Two, three.
I can.
Four.
Done.
Five, six, seven.
Okay.
Rock and roll.
All right.
It's lent.
Wine only.
Do you can you get me the bottle?
You got, yeah.
I'll open it.
Nice folks.
Oh, awesome.
That lighter cup is great.
All right.
That's so cool.
Actually, I got one.
For me, it's better.
Yo, guys, W's in the chat for Indy.
Yeah.
He's a legend.
It's been a while since we had a champagne pop.
Thank you, man.
Huh?
That's what the Crystal is.
It's an Ethereum.
Chill, chill, chill.
You have to donate an Ethereum for the Crystal.
You forgot that part.
Chill, chill, chill.
We just thought her hair was worth it.
No, no, no.
Yeah, so thank you, Indy.
Appreciate it.
Awesome.
This would be a good moment to ask you guys to like the video if you're enjoying the stream.
Like the video.
Hold on.
Oh, it's about to pop.
Hold on.
Here we go.
Could you hide the like the video thing?
All right.
Guys, W's in the chat for Indy here.
Yikes.
Hold on.
Let me adjust so you guys can hear the pop.
Sorry, got a fucking slicked voice.
Hello.
Oh, there we go.
There we go.
Easy peasy, easy peasy.
Thank you, Indy, for that.
Very much appreciate it.
And Justin, thank you again for your TTS.
This would be a good time if you want to go ahead and pull up Twitch.
Gigi, can you give the Twitch, do the Twitch thing for me?
Remember how I was grifting earlier?
No.
Just read the Prime subs and be like, thank you.
Here, pull it up, Nathan.
And then on the, yep, there too.
The left or the hearts or the...
The blue stars.
The blue stars.
Yeah, so bacon bomb.
Thank you for the gift.
Guys, check if you have a Prime Sub available.
It's been, I don't know, it's been two hours since we got Prime Sub.
Drop us a Prime Sub if you have one.
And our good, our homegirl, Gigi here, she will thank you and say your name.
When they start coming in.
Yeah, and you guys should be like, yeah, send in some Prime.
So let's pass it down.
Come on, guys.
Come on.
You're killing me here.
Ricketts.
I guess I. At least for Gigi.
Rip.
Rip, boys.
Prime subs.
Prime subs.
Okay.
You got a new follow.
There we go.
Alpha Smasher.
What a fucking alpha male.
17 months.
Nice.
La la la la ha ha ha one.
Thanks for the follow.
You're 21.
Munch.
Digging.
You guys want something, right?
No.
You don't want any?
Online mag.
One, two, three.
Oh, I need one more cup.
You can thank the followers.
Guys, follow us on Twitch.
Drop a Prime sub.
Sorry, guys.
I'm getting the alcohol poured.
I stopped drinking to our energy channel.
All right, we're going to do cheers.
Hide that, please, Nathan.
All right, guys.
Cheers to Indy.
Thank you for the big champagne.
Cheers.
Cheers.
It's been a while.
It's been a minute.
Thank you, man.
Thank you very much.
Really appreciate your support.
That also does get you.
We're scalping her.
I don't like that.
That term.
Okay, we're going to shave your head on the stream.
You're not backing out, are you?
No, no, no, no, no.
Okay, she's...
Yeah, she's shook on me.
I'm a trooper.
She's sick on it.
She's a trooper.
And Gigi gets to do the honors.
You down?
Yeah.
Yeah, sure.
Why not?
I mean, do you have a preference of who does it?
Lisa does hair.
Like, that's her thing.
She said she wanted you to do it earlier.
I already said that.
Yeah.
Yeah.
You want me to do it?
Yeah, I can abdulge you at any risk.
It's somebody coming out.
I feel like chat, do you want me to shave her head or should I have one of the girls do it?
I think I should have a girl do it.
I don't know.
We'll see.
We'll see.
We're not going to do it right now, but we will do it in a moment.
How tall are you going around the table?
And what's the minimum height of a man you would date?
I'm 5'4.
I put down 5'3.
5' 5'10.
Okay.
I'm 5'2 and I put 5'8.
6' and I guess 5'11.
You wrote 6 foot, but okay.
I'm 5'6 and I put 6 foot.
5'5 and 5'10.
5'6 and 5'7.
Um, I'm 5'4 and the minimum I would day is 5'5 or.
I'm 5'9 and my first husband was 5'6.
Okay.
My husband now is 5'8.
All right, I don't know if this is going to make any sense.
But Nathan, the water level test one, the one with the blue water, if you can get that going on the window tab.
So guys, I've updated my questionnaire here a little bit to include on the back side something called the water level test.
And Nathan, show the audience because it's, you know, the other one.
No, wait, It's the one with the blue.
It should be prior to that one.
I hope I got it right.
I got it wrong at first because I didn't read the word.
Stop, stop, stop, stop.
Louder, please.
There's nothing else.
There's not prior to that tab.
There's not.
Okay, go the go to the Discord then.
It's going to be in the media tab under resources.
Media tab under resources.
You're going to see it there.
It'll be the first one.
and then you'll just click it and then go to the window tab.
Okay, so this is what's on the back of the paper.
Figure A shows a glass with some water in it.
Figure B, the glass has been tilted.
Draw a line to show where the water line would be.
So starting with, starting with, I guess I'll just hold it up to the monitor.
Starting with the results here for chair one.
Chair one, okay?
Going around.
That's why that's chair nine.
Ah, fuck.
Okay, starting with the starting with the woman next to me going around that way.
I got my shit backwards.
I don't know if this is probably better.
Okay, so that's her.
Whose is this?
Is this yours, Lisa?
I think so.
I think you, did she fail?
I don't know.
Is that a fail?
I think that's a fail.
It was close.
It was close.
It was supposed to be even.
Yeah.
What is that?
Yeah.
I didn't read the question fully at first.
You definitely fail.
I did.
Fail.
Okay, going to Priyanka.
Nailed it.
Got it correct.
Might be the stupidest thing I've ever done before.
I think that is that, I think you got it right.
Yeah, I did get it right.
I just put more water in there.
You did add a bit of water, I just know it's supposed to be parallel to the table.
Yay!
It's actually for healthy.
Yeah, I just added too much water.
A lot of water.
Well, there you go.
A glass half full.
I believe.
That's pretty good.
Maybe you just don't know how to draw straight.
And then GG.
Wow, congratulations.
I think that's everybody.
Okay, that was the most uneventful thing.
Apparently, maybe you guys are just all really smart.
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Apparently, and there's a difference between men and women when you test them on this.
Women fail it more than men.
Not to say that all women fail it, but I think they've done this test on college campuses, and women fail it at like 2x the rate that men do.
Not surprising.
So, hey, that's very sexist and assumptions.
I figured you were going to do some type of intelligence test because I've seen videos where you are asking all kinds of historical questions and not like that.
We will get to that.
Okay, Sam, you think women are the prime, you agree with the statement that women are the primary victims of war?
Why is that?
Of war?
Honestly, I didn't understand the question.
Didn't understand.
What war in like...
War in general.
In general.
In general.
Oh.
But I'm not sure.
So then.
So then, yeah, so no, then I don't know.
Okay, Priyanka, you said it depends.
Why is that?
What?
Sorry?
The question?
Women, so the statement is women are the primary victims of war, not men.
You circled it, stating you agree, but that it depends.
Yeah, it depends, like, what kind of people they are.
Sometimes they do brutal things to the women after the war.
Like, they cut their private parts and then they rape them and then they slowly kill them and stuff like that.
So it all depends on what kind of war it is.
Yeah.
I think it's pretty.
I think it's pretty 50-50 in different ways.
It's like the men are generally the ones physically that are being affected, but then their families are having to deal with post-traumatic stress when like if they come home.
Does men also deal with that?
Yeah.
Well, that's what I'm saying.
Like they both depend on that.
That's why I say depends.
I feel like death is worse than that.
Absolutely.
No.
It's not just that.
The men that survive it still have.
My father had full disability from PTSD.
Yeah.
So I mean, also men go through that during war also, right?
Like as well.
Yeah, no, no.
I'm not saying that.
And then they can.
No, I'm not taking that away.
I'm saying.
I think it's both sometimes.
Men are the main sufferers, and then their families also suffer, not to the extent that the men do, but they suffer as well.
The claim is not about women don't suffer in war.
We're trying to just test if you think women are the primary victims of war, not men, to which you seem to think is it 50%.
Some of the war I knew about is like something brutal happened with the woman.
Okay, yes, there's no dispute that bad things happen to women.
Very bad things happen to women.
It depends, yeah.
But, okay.
Somebody killed you is one thing, and then somebody has brutally raped you over the years.
But men experience that in war too, right?
Like they experience rape and torture and all that.
Just the same thing that you're saying women experience, men experience too, and then they die.
Well, I'm even willing to grant that this happens more to women.
And just for the sake of argument, I'd be prepared to grant that let's even say it never happens to men and only happens to women.
Men are still the primary victims of war.
Because, well, I guess let me ask you a question.
How many men would you be willing to kill to prevent one rape?
Actually, I will not kill anybody.
Well, I understand.
My religion is I cannot kill even women.
So the hypothetical.
Okay, let's say I guess you don't kill.
Are you familiar with the trolley problem?
The trolley dilemma?
You don't know the trolley dilemma here, really quick.
Nathan, can you Google like insane trolley problem?
And then it should be probably the first result.
I don't think that's the exact phrasing, but just for context.
And then just pull it up as soon as possible.
And then just the website, probably the first result, I'm assuming.
Hold on.
Do you have it?
Mute the audio, mute the audio.
Do you wait?
Hold on.
Oh my god, what's it called?
Oh, absurd.
It's not a video.
Did you pull up a video?
No.
What did you pull up?
Is it the absurd trolley?
It's the website?
Okay, yeah, that's correct.
All right, here, let me ask you this.
Absurd trolley problems.
A trolley is heading towards five people.
You're the person by the lever.
You can pull the lever to divert it to the other track, killing one person instead.
What do you do?
I will just stop it.
What do you mean?
I mean, I will just say that.
It's fucking hypothetical.
What?
You have those two options.
You're tied to the only ones.
Your only option.
The brakes are out.
They won't stop.
One person, right?
Okay, so you pull the lever.
Is that correct?
Yes?
Yeah.
Okay, you pull the lever to prevent five people from dying.
Okay, let's change it.
Instead, we would flip it.
Actually, I think it's something like if you have a relative or something.
We're going to change it.
So the five people are on the top, okay?
And then we're going to put the one woman at the bottom.
And that's a rape trolley.
Okay.
We pulled that calling a rape trolley.
So if you don't pull the lever, the woman gets raped.
If you do pull the lever, the woman doesn't get raped and five men die instead.
Your face rape.
That's like such a complicated question.
I love women.
I would still try to say five men.
I will just say five men because it's their life, you know.
Okay, all right.
Well, in any case, what I'm trying to get at there is bad things definitely do happen to women.
That's terrible.
Terrible crimes happen to women during war.
That's not in dispute.
But again, the question is, are women the primary victims?
In some cases.
Most of the time it's men, but I'm in totality.
So yes, for example, a man who is not on the front line, like who's like in the internal of the country and he's safe, and then there's like a woman, there's like an invading army and she gets raped.
In that instance, if you're comparing that woman to the man who's safe in a different city, then in that individual example, she's the primary victim.
But the question is not about individual victims.
It's about victimhood in totality.
So for example, you would acknowledge that some men are raped, right?
And are there some women who've never been raped?
But in general, would you say that this is a crime that mostly impacts women?
No, I can say like mostly war is men, but it depends like some cases is extremely bad for the woman because they lose their either father or brother or somebody they dependent on and then also victim of rape and brutal murder of them.
Like it's worse for the dad that died though.
Okay, can I ask you this?
Okay, let's say your loving husband, hypothetical loving husband, he gets shipped off to war.
He dies.
That sucks for you and your kids, and you're going to be grieving between you and the husband who died.
Who's the primary victim of war?
Yeah, my husband.
Okay, so then can't you map that on to like all men and all women?
Yeah, that's the ideal situation, you know.
Like I mean, most of the cases.
All right.
Priyanka, you think women can't be sexist towards men?
Why is that?
You agree with the state should be sexist, you know?
Whether it's women towards white people.
Can women be sexist.
But can they be sexist towards people?
Is it possible for women to be sexist towards men?
Yeah.
Oh, okay, then I guess disregard that.
You also said people of color can't be racist towards white people.
Or you agree with the statement.
Yeah, I mean, my point is like, nobody should be racist whether you're color.
That's not the purpose of the question.
I mean, it shouldn't be.
Yeah.
Here in America, can a black person be racist towards me?
I mean, nobody should be racist towards each other.
I mean, that's a question.
I just misread it.
But can you?
So that's my bad.
That's possible.
I understand the question.
Is it possible?
She's asking you now.
Yeah.
I agree.
You should not be racist.
You should not be sexist.
Yeah, it's possible that way.
It's possible.
You say that women do not have equal rights.
Well, the statement is women do not have equal rights to men in the USA, to which you agree.
Why is that?
I mean, it's just my personal experiences in the job and career and opportunities, the salary.
And, you know, it's just like a perspective, you know, like if you're a woman, you just got like, you should do not do this, you should do that.
I mean, it's sometimes, you know, there is a, I still feel that even in the U.S. is the case.
What is a right?
So, I mean, discrimination can exist in corporations, but typically a right, corporations typically don't grant you rights.
The government would grant rights as far as just for simplicity's sake, rights don't really exist, but we're not going to get into that.
But like, for example, the right to bear arms.
You would agree that both men and women have that right to have firearms in the United States?
Yes.
Okay.
So is there a right that men have that women don't?
You said in USA, and I'm just talking about my situation with my ex-husband, you know, so I'm just like.
But this is specifically about the USA, and then in parentheses, you say better than India, though.
Yeah.
So I acknowledge that, yeah, shit is whatever.
It's bad in India.
Although there's definitely some men's rights issues in India.
But I'm asking about the USA.
Who cares about them?
Body Count Differences00:09:52
Like, my American husband said that he can go to the swimming pool, but I cannot swim because I'm a woman.
There's no law in the United States that prevents women from swimming.
Law is a different thing.
I'm just saying behind the scenes, a lot of things are happening.
It's not everything about it.
If you were married and you told your husband, no, you can't go to the swimming pool, would this be evidence of men not having rights?
I think this is just a language barrier thing, to be honest.
Yeah, like I misrigged.
Okay.
If it's about law, then yeah, law is equal.
Wrong for high body count men to prefer to date low body count slash virgin women.
Gigi, you agree.
Camilla, agree.
Sam, agree.
Nicole, agree.
Sarah, agree.
Priyanka, agree, agree.
Aaron, nothing for Aaron.
Lisa, agree.
So why would it be wrong for a lot of you?
You all can be feel free to weigh in.
What would actually be wrong with a guy who has a high body count and he wants to date a woman with a low body count?
Well, he can want all he wants to, but getting that, it's a lot of times a woman with a very low body count has higher standards.
And if she finds a man who has a body count, like, you know, a big one, then she's probably going to shy away from him.
Well, just to be clear, I don't have, like, if a woman doesn't want to date a guy with a high body count, that's totally fine.
But I think you would acknowledge, not all the time, but typically men who are able to bed many women tend to have attractive traits.
So she can have that specific standard about not wanting to date a guy with a high body count.
But I don't know if I would call into question, I don't know, the high, I don't think a guy who has a high body count would have an inability to attract women with low body counts.
No, no, he could probably attract.
I mean, obviously, I mean, but also guys will do it with about anything.
So, I mean, it's, I mean, if he's got a high body count, maybe he's attractive.
Maybe he just will do anything.
I don't know.
I think also just morally, a guy with a higher body count has a completely different lifestyle than someone who more than likely have a different lifestyle than someone, a woman with a lower body count, too.
So in that case, he's not approaching her with the intent, probably the same intent that she wants within a relationship.
Well, let's grant for the sake of the convo that he's had his fun.
He's done run through 100 chicks, but he's like, you know what?
The women that I just find more attractive and that I think are just better, make for better girlfriends, are the women with low body counts.
So he's like, I'm going to date them.
Well, is he going to that date with like being fully transparent within it?
I mean, if she asks him, he can be honest, sure.
Then I feel like if he's fully transparent, then I feel like she could give him the chance, but then that's on her.
Right, but the question, the statement is wrong for high-body count men to prefer to date low body count virgin women.
This doesn't say include or incorporate anything about the woman's proclivity to date or not date a high body count man.
It's simply the desire from the high body count man to prefer to date low body count women.
Well, I mean, it's not wrong to prefer.
I mean, he can prefer.
That's his personal choice and personal opinion.
You know, like you all say, like, you don't want to date Asian.
That's your personal choice.
So it's okay for him to have that, but saying he's going to get it is a different country.
That is absolutely different.
Although I do think it might actually be the case that high body count men might actually out-compete low-body count men in getting low-body count women.
Because men who have high body counts typically typically tend to have traits that are more attractive.
Women are a bit more forgiving on the body count promiscuity thing.
Not to say that women can't or don't care about it.
I just tend to find that they care less about it or they don't care at all.
Also, women like to tame the wild beast too.
So if he's like gone out and done a bunch and you're the one that gets him to stop, I mean, that's another thing true.
True.
I think that comes with like with women, the more women that a man has around him, the more attractive he is.
I think that comes along with that.
So I think a man with a high body count, you want them to have a high body count because they're just more attractive to us that way.
Because we're competitive.
When it's about a man and who we're trying to have kids with or whatever, it's always, you know, we see it as like the man's super attractive and he's, you know, everybody wants him.
And if you win him, then, you know.
I have a video to play.
Can you pull up the bow video?
It came up earlier.
And somebody asked in a TTS or something about the bow video.
To Indy, will you bow?
Let me get back to that.
Do you have the bow video?
Okay.
This is a video I took of my ex-girlfriend.
I show it to future girlfriends as a tutorial so they know how to behave and act properly like a lady of good repute.
All right, go ahead and pull it up.
Good repute.
Play it.
Boom, huge fucking bow.
She has to bow immediately as soon as I get home.
This was after a long podcast day, you know, immediately right to the laundry.
And then, of course, as you see, she has my dinner ready, ready to go as soon as I'm home.
She's got a scamper, too.
If she lollygags, it's a deal breaker.
She's cut.
If she lollygags, cracks open the beer for me, stirs my noodles, obviously.
Very important.
And then get ready to play it again.
And then, boom, huge bow, submissive.
She didn't feed you?
Huh?
She didn't like feed you?
Did she actually feed you?
No, I find that the eye-hand coordination for women is suspect a little bit.
So I prefer to do it myself.
If she's trained as an athlete in archery, then, or like the cello, then I will allow it.
They still struggle with it, though.
But yeah, so going around the table, would you bow for your boyfriend, your husband?
Yes.
WGG?
Yes, if that makes them happy.
Love it.
Would you bow?
Yeah.
Yeah.
Obviously.
Amen.
Would you bow?
No, the only man I'm bowing for is Jesus.
Ooh, this is interesting.
Wait, I'm going to come back to that, but okay, we'll get everybody's answer.
Okay.
I don't know.
It depends on what he does for me.
Your husband.
You're a trainer.
Okay, if it's important to him, then yes.
It's very important.
Priyanka, what do you think?
Yeah, I used to touch the feet of both of them.
Okay.
All right.
What about you?
Yes.
What about you?
Yes.
What about you?
Yeah.
W panel, except you.
Okay.
So, can I ask you a question?
Okay, so in the Bible, what does it say wives should be?
Submissive.
Should they obey their husband?
Yeah.
Yes.
Okay, so would it be in contradiction of Christian ethics for a husband, although it's a bit culturally peculiar, perhaps, and a bit eccentric?
I don't think it's actually contradictory to anything in Christianity.
Reconcile with me your refusal to obey your husband's.
So if my husband asked me to bow to him, I will.
You literally just said you wouldn't, though.
You thought you said Neil.
You still like Neil.
Random guys, like a boyfriend.
No, yeah, that doesn't have to be.
Husband.
Your husband, correct.
And Jesus.
Jesus is not your husband.
No, no, no.
Unless, well, do nuns make it.
Yeah, nuns.
He is the bridegroom's.
But anyways.
Yeah, yeah, your husband.
Do you do it for your husband?
Yes.
Oh, okay.
Then yeah, yeah, that's what I was talking about.
All right, then disregard.
How about this?
First time, I believe the first time a girl comes over, she should do laundry.
How about that?
Would you do that, Gigi?
I have done it.
Damn, bro.
Lucky boyfriend.
What about you?
I've done laundry.
I've cooked, cleaned.
Like, first time going over that.
Yeah.
I'm not going over to my boyfriend's house.
Ever?
What was De Drink?
Not to smash, but to like, I don't know, read the Bible or something.
Oh my God.
Oh my God.
1 Corinthians?
It depends.
Sorry.
Cringe.
Huh?
What?
It depends.
Like, I'll help him out.
I'll help him out.
I'll do some laundry.
I'll do the date.
What about you?
Yeah.
Yeah.
What about you?
The first date?
Not first date necessarily.
Yeah, I did.
I'll hold those underwear.
I did.
I did.
Do the laundry.
All right, what about you?
Do the laundry?
Yeah, if I gotta ask, sure.
Do the laundry?
Yes, I do the laundry, cooking, complaining.
Too based or whatever.
All right, I gotta find something to disagree with you guys on, I guess.
Let's see here.
Going to Sam, you say men are more privileged in society than women, or you agree with the statement, anyways.
Why is that?
As we learned, I'm sexist towards women.
45 Men As Presidents00:03:27
So I just think that, you know, throughout history, men have always been the person that we look up to or we follow.
So I don't see why it should be a woman.
Did I misunderstand the question?
Yeah, I think so.
Men are more.
So you think women are more privileged?
Oh, no, Men are more privileged.
Oh, men are more privileged.
Yeah, because I would rather look up to a man than a woman.
Oh, I see what you're saying.
Like, all of our presidents have been male.
Yes.
So why wouldn't I assume that men have it easier?
And not in all aspects, because obviously women have, you know, they're pretty privileged and whatnot.
Just I think men have a higher success rate than women.
But you realize how many presidents have there been?
47, although there's been some repeat.
Yeah.
What's the total number of presidents?
It's 40-something.
Wait, hold on.
Would you count Trump?
So Trump has had two terms in between Joe Biden.
Would you count that?
You wouldn't.
No, duh.
Of course I wouldn't sound like 40 years ago.
That wouldn't be.
Wait.
But no, but on his hats, it's like 45.
44.
So 47.
Do you count Trump as the 45th and the 47th president?
Chronologically, yes.
Yeah.
But in terms of the total number of people.
Individual men who have been president.
So what's the total number of.
I don't know.
It's in the 45, 46, whatever.
46.
46, 30.
48.
46?
Wait.
No, it's in the 30s.
It would be like late 30s, early 40s.
Yeah, late 30s.
There's a lot of 30 days that have been repeated.
I mean, if you go back to like 1980, only George Brush Sr. and Joe Biden have not had a second term.
Everybody else has.
Yeah, how many total presidents?
47.
No, no, that's how many, that's how many presidential terms, I guess, yeah.
Yeah, presidential elections, I guess.
The terms, yeah.
I would probably ask how many presidents, not counting, repeating unique presidents, unique presidents, 45.
Really?
No, that can't be, that's not possible.
That can't be possible.
No, because, yeah, Trump is not aware of that.
That would mean there were only two presidents that had two terms.
45 different individuals have served as president.
That doesn't add up.
Oh, well, actually, no, it doesn't because when they pass away, like Nixon, yeah, there have been presidents who have died, I guess.
And during the time they switched to the city, it says the difference exists because Grover Cleveland served two non-consecutive terms, and then Donald Trump served two non-consecutive terms.
Okay.
All right.
I'm learning something new every day, I guess.
But that's like, so there's over 170 men, excuse me, 170 million men in the United States.
Only 45 men, like throughout the entire history of the United States, have been president.
So that seems like a really small proportion.
Like, I don't think we can map on male privilege to all men because 45 men have been president.
Barista's Perspective00:05:42
I see what you're saying.
But I think it also applies to like when I would just go out into the city and I would see all the finance, like most of the finance bros, it's like they're all guys.
Like you rarely will see a woman in that.
Well, with the president thing, it'd almost be like me saying, well, Taylor Swift is, isn't she a billionaire?
Like, but that wouldn't map on to all of women's experiences, you know?
I think it also depends on like what they go into.
Maybe the majority of people who want to go into finance are men, and maybe that's why.
Yeah.
Let's see here.
A woman's career, money status makes her more attractive to men.
Sam, you agree with that?
Why is that?
That's just what I've noticed from like my friends who are like very successful.
Successful women.
Yeah.
I see that men tend to like go towards them just because of their status.
Because of the women's status?
Yeah.
And like her wealth and how much she makes and stuff.
Like that's all they care about.
That's just what I've experienced.
Are they also good looking?
Yes.
Okay.
Well, I mean, I'll just tell you the male perspective.
Obviously, not all men probably share my perspective, but generally speaking, I would say men don't really prioritize or even care about a woman's career, money, or status.
Not to say it might be a nice, I mean, it can actually, and sometimes be a detriment.
Um, like if a woman's really busy.
For example, I recall an instance where I was dating a woman who was, I think, finishing up medical school, and like she was insanely busy to the point where it fizzled out.
Like, she wasn't available.
It was like a pain in the ass scheduling.
Like, I would be much more, even though, great, she's got a great career, being a doctor's high status, you eventually make good money, like down the road because you fucking met student debt, et cetera, et cetera.
I mean, it just kind of, I think men would prefer a woman who's a bit more available, works a more reasonable job in terms of the hours than even the doctor.
Well, she has her own hours.
Well, also, let me give you an example.
I think a man, you put the how do I frame this the best way?
A 30-year-old woman who's a doctor, and then you have a 20-year-old barista.
Men are picking the 20-year-old barista over the 30-year-old doctor.
Okay, you can change the age too: 35-year-old doctor, 25-year-old barista.
A lot of men pick the 25-year-old barista over the female doctor.
Does that parse for you, or do you know?
That makes sense.
No, that makes sense 100%.
Okay, not all.
I mean, some men might disagree with me, but I think most men, it doesn't really matter.
And I think one of the reasons is when it comes to money, even women who make a lot of money typically are not as generous or generous at all with their money.
I think a lot of women, even if they make good money, even if they out-earn a guy, they still might, not in all cases, might have an expectation that the man pay for dates.
I remember when I was younger, I actually was briefly dating this girl who was a lawyer, and she was a litigation attorney.
She was making 3x as much as I was making at the time.
She still wanted me to pay for dates.
And I was like, you make more than me.
So, even when women do make money, like even if men were inclined to care about money, a limiting factor in men's, even if they, you know, wanted to care, did care, we wouldn't actually receive any benefit from dating a wealthy woman, really.
Because, like, women don't spend money on men in the same way.
Not all women, some women, y'all get y'all, okay, you've been dating a guy for a year, you'll buy him an Xbox.
Great, but like, a woman who's got a lot of money, I don't know.
Women don't really simply, I feel like if the woman had offered to pay for your date, like, would you have later?
Uh, was it just like at the time, honestly?
Fuck yeah, probably.
Because I'm not just talking about it.
It's just the principle of the thing, you know?
Like, is that, you know, like, I just want you to offer.
Of course, I'm not going to let you pay, just I want you to offer.
Like, I didn't know, like, how some guys are like that.
I don't know.
Just a question.
Just curious.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
What was the question?
Sorry.
I just said, like, if she had offered to pay for your date, would you have let her?
Or was it more the principle?
Like, she didn't even offer and she expected it from you.
I mean, I don't mind.
I'm fine paying for everything, but I kind of like it if a girl simps, to be honest.
I'll take that.
I'll take that deal.
With me, it's probably like I would expect him to pay for the dates, but I love like getting presents and gifts for my, you know, for my significant other.
So I might not pay for dinner, but I'll get you like a really nice pair of sunglasses or something like out of the blue just to let you know I was thinking of it.
And by the way, to be clear, it's not even about the money necessarily.
Like, oh, I'm saving money.
It's like a girl who's who is going outside of a typical role, she's really down bad for you.
She's simping.
Like, she really likes you if she's doing like if she's doing that.
Pass The Cup Back00:04:01
And that's a good dynamic, I think.
The girl, my perspective, the girl has to like the guy more than the reverse.
Hey, you guys can disagree, though.
Speaking of.
Who needs a sugar?
W panel.
Brian, would you gift Sage2 a hoodie?
Because hop is absurdly immodest.
Sage 2, would you accept this gift?
You know what, Did I donate $50 and then I'll put my jacket on?
Indy, donate.
If you do another champagne pop, I will get her an Arby's t-shirt to wear for the rest of the stream.
Yes, do that.
Do that.
Who wants more champagne?
If you want, pass your cup down back, just pass it down through the guests.
Please.
Yo, Indy, you're fucking legend.
Guys, W's in the chat for Indy.
W, Indy.
It's been a minute since we got champagne pops.
It's been a minute.
And, you know, I feel like, shit, you know, inflation.
We're about, I don't know if we're sessions coming.
You know, I feel like, you know, some people, you know, disappeared a little bit.
So I appreciate the support, guys.
Hold up.
All right.
All right, musical chairs over here.
All right.
Thank you, Indy.
Oh, boy.
Thank you, Indy.
Oh, no, it's going to leak, I think.
Hello?
Hello?
Hi.
Oh, no.
I fucked it up.
Oh, we got it.
There we go.
That was better than the last time, I think.
You're getting pretty good at that.
Better one than the last time.
No, the first one, I think I was pretty fast with it.
No, that's pass it down.
Just pass all the cups down, right?
I'm the monkey.
Oh, wait, how do I remember?
Yeah, exactly.
One at a time.
This is mine.
One at a time.
Did you guys have you guys?
Yeah, that's her.
Here, I'm just, you know what?
Nathan, can you just get me the solo cups?
Here.
Collect all those.
Can you just get it?
Pound it.
Pound it.
No one pounds it.
Now, frat party.
Chug, chug, chug.
I think I need to do it.
Champagne doesn't.
Champagne?
I'm good.
One, two.
There we go.
Three, four, and then Lisa.
Does she want some more?
Yes.
I don't know.
Here, while I'm pouring, do you guys want to talk amongst yourselves about something?
To keep them entertained.
How's everyone's butt feeling?
Butt?
Right?
My back.
I just feel it's not my butt, but my back.
I just had to stand just to stand.
I will say it's really cool that these.
I do think it's really cool these guys thought to put the cushions on the chair, so it was really thoughtful and they have helped me.
I think it's more jacklag.
I'm feeling a little bit of jacklag.
Oh, yeah.
I suppose it's three hours later for us.
Yeah.
Okay, this is for you.
Yeah, me too.
It's 1:30 in the morning, my time.
Who's next?
I'm coming up at this time.
What time is that?
No, no, just right here, right here, right here.
Oh, sorry.
Right here, Got it.
All right.
Well, we're not going to wait for Lisa.
Bro.
I'm sure I got more wine.
Okay.
Cheers to Indy.
Yeah, sir.
Fucking legend.
Seller.
Awesome.
Mmm.
Oh, yeah, sure.
I'll take this one.
Okay.
Hold on, one sec, guys.
So you said that's the Trader Joe's one?
Shit, you should have.
I don't know if you got Indy, you got Ethereum?
Because we got Crystal.
We got some Primo champagne.
Okay.
Men's Sexual Advantage00:14:51
Where were we on the notes?
I'm trying to remember.
Woman's Career.
Wrong, Sam.
Wrong for a man to dump his girlfriend if she regularly turns him down for sex.
Why is that, Sam?
Wait, what was the question?
Wrong for a man to you agree with the statement.
Wrong for a man to dump his girlfriend if she regularly turns him down for sex.
Oh, yeah, I agree because I couldn't do anything for a while with one of my boyfriends and he didn't break up with me.
I ended up breaking up with him.
Yikes.
Okay.
For six months, we didn't do anything.
But that's because why couldn't you?
He didn't get me wet anymore.
Watch!
So it's more like you lost attraction?
Yeah, like I forced it for a while and it was not good.
So that wasn't necessarily his fault.
Yeah.
How long did you continue dating him?
Six months.
But oh.
That's kind of proof then that if he couldn't do that for you, your body, that's your body's way of saying, like, we're not a good match.
We should end this.
Yeah.
So if anything, he should break up with you because that's six months of wasted time.
I guess you're right, but we had a good connection.
Like, we didn't have to do that for us to have a good time and stuff like that.
They were roommates.
Were you?
Basically.
Did you live together?
No.
This is totally an inappropriate question.
You do not have to answer it, but was there like any medication or anything involved at the time?
It was just.
Yeah, that's your body telling you, like, I'm not into bro.
Like, like, you can just be homie.
I mean, but that's.
Okay, birth control.
There you go.
Birth control.
But he made me go on it too.
So it was like a lot of factors.
So that's why I also, you know, broke up.
But birth control can definitely mess with that.
Yeah.
So maybe it was that.
So initially, were you attracted to him?
Yeah.
Oh, boy.
Okay.
Okay.
But you did have sex initially.
Yeah, we did.
Okay.
But he couldn't.
Okay.
When you weren't having it, did he still have a really healthy sex drive?
Like, he wanted it all the time?
Yeah.
Don't give a guy blue balls.
Oh, I do that a lot.
Okay.
He just gave me the ah.
Well, like, not on purpose.
It just happens.
I've just been told that I do that, but I don't do anything.
Well, yeah, that'll give him blue balls.
All right.
Okay.
Here, look, we'll do.
I need to wait for Lisa, I guess.
Pastor.
I had a sexless marriage for six years.
Guys.
And I didn't leave him because of that.
So you left him or you didn't leave him because of his daughter.
Was it sexless because of him?
Him, him.
So you wanted to.
Yes.
You wanted to.
I wanted the second marriage because he was having sex with someone else.
See, I consider that abusive when you, like, on either side of the world.
And I wanted to talk to him, but he doesn't even talk.
Yeah, I find that abusive because sex is a very important part of your relationship and keeping that connection.
And if your spouse doesn't is refusing to have sex or vice versa, I think that's abuse.
I think it's neglect.
I was like, I was like, I was like, I was going to tell him, you know, what I exactly want.
Yeah.
I was only 16 when this happened.
Indy donated 50 and said, I'll take the jacket.
Wait, what was the deal?
I thought the deal was.
Said if he donates 50, I'll put my jacket on.
Oh, I didn't hear that.
He's refusing it.
He wants a thousand Indy for an Arby shirt.
I'll give her the RB shirt, but he wants the jacket.
And he can help a lot of girls, chocolate-stall, who've never tried to do it.
Sounds like you're giving him Lou Wall.
$50 more, Indy.
Well, look, I don't know.
If you made a deal with him, I don't know if I can interfere with that, I guess.
But it's a cute jacket.
She did offer fifth, I don't know, whatever.
I don't know.
I was not a party to the negotiations there, Indy.
He's going to be sad, Indy.
Don't do this to him.
Okay.
So, dead bedroom.
I'm just curious, though, like, are men allowed to be like, you know what?
I just don't feel like going to work.
So I'm just not going to go to work.
Like, assuming, you know, you know what I mean?
Like, work as in, like, job or, like, work.
No, I mean, like, a profession, a career.
Oh, okay.
Yeah.
Like, I'm just not in the mood today.
I just don't want to go to work.
Like, men.
I mean, they should be able to do that.
They got me to do that.
I mean, it's like, do you care about your partner's needs and striking a balance between well?
I think it depends, too.
It depends on different things.
Like, if it's a manipulation tactic, then no, that's wrong.
If it's, hey, I'm sick or hey, you know, whatever.
But I think if it's like manipulation or you getting back at them for something or holding out for whatever reason, I don't think that's right because that is one of the main men are pretty simple creatures.
They want respect.
They want loyalty.
They want sex.
I mean, that is a need that men have generally more than women.
And so, like, it's more important to them than it is to us a lot of times.
I've seen a lot of women sit there and tell their husbands, well, if you do this, we'll have sex tonight.
Well, if you do this, we'll have sex tonight.
And they never, and then the men always come back and complain.
They're like, no, I never got it.
And I don't think women understand.
That's also manipulation.
Exactly.
Yeah.
Yeah, I know.
It's manipulation.
You used to what?
That's what I would do.
No, explain it.
You're a monster.
Explain it.
I would be like, oh, if you clean that, we can do it.
Even though I didn't want to.
Yeah, you have no desire to be with them at that point.
I personally think chore play is great when the woman does it, though.
Like seeing a woman, like scrubbing the floor kind of gets me randy.
My husband says the same thing.
Like she's just cleaning the bathroom hot, sexy, you know?
So I think that works like from men to women.
But it's like a masculine.
If it's like the man has to do the chores, it wasn't a chore.
It was just like if I couldn't do it, like if it was heavy or like make him go to the store for me because I didn't want to walk.
Oh boy, all right.
Give me a bacon and cheese when you send it.
But yeah, I mean, look, if part of being in the monogamous relationship is you guys are only going to have sex with each other.
Of course, like, look, if your girlfriend's sick, you're sick, and you're not feeling well, that's totally fine.
But this is more like a repeated pattern.
We're talking weeks, months.
They're not sick.
They're just not having sex, turning you down.
I think, you know, I think it can be, you can address it first, but if that were to happen, there's a bigger question that needs to exactly.
I wasn't the one that wanted to stay in that.
Like, it was, there was a conversation, obviously.
It wasn't like I was silent about it the whole time.
And like, I didn't tell him that I wasn't getting that feeling anymore, but there was like a kind of mutual connection where I was like, okay, we have a good connection.
We can talk all the time.
We're friends.
Okay.
Here, we're going to do past should not matter.
So body count.
Gigi, you agree with the statement.
Past should not matter.
Camilla, agree.
Sam, agree.
Preonk depends.
And Mandy, you agree.
Okay.
Why?
Oh, I meant a opposite.
Then you guys.
I think I misconfused myself.
So past should not matter.
Circle if you agree.
Yeah, I got confused.
Sorry.
Okay, then let's just do this.
What's everyone's body count?
Starting with you.
Just my boyfriend.
One?
Yeah.
Okay.
Nine.
Nine.
Okay.
Eleven.
Eleven.
Nine.
Nine?
Okay.
Husband.
One.
Just one.
Husband.
All right.
The college football coach.
Five.
Five.
Fourteen.
Fourteen.
Four.
Four.
Oh, okay.
I'm married, so I won't say the exact number, but it's below five.
Okay.
All right.
Wow.
Everybody.
I don't know if that's a we gotta.
I feel like we gotta change this chair.
We probably should have already done it.
Sorry.
Hey, can we swap chairs, please?
I wish I'd done it sooner.
I'm annoying, Brian.
No, it's not your fault.
It's not your fault.
It's the shitty chair.
Yeah, it's a squeaker.
Okay.
Body count.
Wow.
Okay.
Everybody answered the body count question.
That's cool.
Men should pay on first dates.
Men should provide protect.
Hold on.
We'll get to that in a moment.
Test it out first, though.
Make sure test it out.
Add that to the resume.
Swap it.
Maybe you could walk that chair over there.
Here, bring it back so she can walk it out.
Like the dance.
Do you know how to walk it out?
Yeah.
Do you know how to lean with it, rock with it?
Do you know how to crank dat soldier boy?
Wow.
Yeah, just try to be careful as you can.
All right.
Okay.
Let's do.
Hold on.
One sec, guys.
Priyanka, you agree getting laid is harder for women.
For me, yeah.
I mean, I think.
Women plural in general.
Yeah, so it's.
But so for you, it's harder to get laid than like an average-looking Indian guy who's 50?
No, it's because I need to be like very much emotionally involved and committed for people to.
Oh, my God, a waste of time.
That's right.
But okay.
In general, do you think it's harder for women to get laid?
So to get laid, to get sex.
Is it harder for women to get sex?
Yeah, because they're shy.
They don't go and like directly.
Like, men are directly asked, you know, you know, like sex or something, but women are shy.
And do men typically get rejected if they just directly ask a woman to fuck?
Yeah.
They get rejected too.
Sure.
Let's test it.
We can test it out super easy.
All right.
Okay.
So you think if we had a 50-year-old Indian software engineer, he would have an easier time getting laid than you.
Or we can just even say 47-year-old.
Me?
Yeah.
He would have an easier time getting laid.
I'm just like so emotional that an easier time getting someone to say yes.
Oh, yes, yes, yeah, yeah.
I will be easier to get.
Yes, yes.
That's it.
All right, all right.
Sorry, you know, like I misinterpretate.
So it's cute.
That's one way to put it.
So, you know, I don't even recognize the vocabulary, you know, we are using.
Everything is general.
Okay.
Like borderline.
Yeah.
All the other, all the questions are in general.
It's not about you specifically.
It's about in general.
Yeah, so like my sisters and all, you know, like the top friends.
Love that for you.
Sam, men should provide, protect.
You agree?
Men should be chivalrous.
You agree?
Yes.
You want to get married?
I do.
You write that you will keep your last name or hyphenate in marriage.
No, I just want, yeah, I would keep my last name.
What about for your kids?
Would they hyphenate?
They would have my husband's name.
Last name.
Okay.
Isn't it kind of the traditional thing though in marriage that you take your husband's last name?
Yeah, but the only reason I want to do that is because I'm my dad's, like, only daughter, like, my last name.
He has another daughter, but my last name is, I just want to keep my last name.
Wouldn't you also be your mom's only daughter, and she also...
Well, she has two other kids.
Oh, okay.
That complicates things.
Never mind.
Okay.
Sarah?
You?
You will keep your last name.
No, no, I'm sorry.
I must have misunderstood that.
Brianca, you write, or you agree, men should pay on first dates?
Just looking for each other.
I always offer to split first.
Men should provide protect, you agree?
Yes.
Men should be chivalrous, you agree?
Yes.
Husband should be willing to die protecting you.
You agree?
Yeah.
You will keep your last name or hyphenate in marriage.
You agree?
Yeah.
What about?
Let's say.
But if my husband insists, then, yeah.
I will keep his last name.
But I prefer to just.
I mean, let's assume.
In like both of my marriages, the last name was same.
So it was never a situation.
Let me guess.
Sing.
Sing?
Same last name because we use the religion in the middle of the morning.
Or wait, no.
Hold on.
That's not even that.
Same.
I'm thinking of Patel.
Patel.
Jen.
Jen is a religion than a caste, and we both have a name.
Yeah.
So I think that might be cultural.
My mom has her last name still, but there's only like a one-letter difference.
Oh, okay.
Yeah.
Well, so, but let's say you marry an American guy and he has a different last name than you.
Do you take his last name?
If it's love, yes.
What do you mean?
what other but what other context look i mean it's plausible that you can marry for money you can marry for other reasons but why would that prevent you in the other scenarios or other reasons in which people could Because last two marriages were arranged, you know.
That's why.
If I fell in love, I would say that you're a marriage.
Would You Take His Last Name?00:03:09
Okay, can I ask you a question?
Would you only get married if you were in love with a man?
now yes so it's it's a given wait i don't know why you need to Okay, yes, so I will take that.
I mean, but I would prefer to have mine.
Because of the bad experiences, you know, so nothing is permanent.
So that's why now I do not want to.
But you said husband should be willing to die protecting you.
That's permanent.
That's really permanent that he has to die for you, but you won't spend a few hours on a Saturday changing your last name.
I gotta fucking die for a woman.
And she can't be bothered spending a few hours on a Sunday fucking calling up credit cards and blah, blah, blah, changing her shit.
Yeah, because all the men I committed to, you know, all of them, and they cheated.
So, you know, I do not want to.
Do you understand that's not all men, right?
Like, are you just going to keep dating awful men?
Is that your plan?
No, I don't.
If they make 500K, stop dating.
So I stopped dating.
So, like, if you get married, you're probably going to try and date somebody that doesn't cheat on you, right?
Okay, so would you take that guy's last name?
He's not going to cheat on you.
This man is not.
You've learned your lesson.
All of your bad experience is gone out the window.
Are you taking his last name?
Yes.
Okay.
I mean, to be fair, what is the skill breaker I would take into me?
All right.
When I was younger, I did have an Indian dentist.
I did.
Last name Passett.
Oh, I thought you were reading that off the Facebook.
No, just.
What if her own reasons?
Oh, that's great.
It too.
That's great.
No.
You and we are self-hatting.
I had an Indian dentist when I was talking about it.
That's where I missed it.
Yeah.
Got it.
And anyways, okay.
Yo.
Yeah.
Let's see here.
I think we're pretty much done with the questionnaire.
Let me just take one more glance at it.
Wait.
Hold on.
Indy, I will take the jacket.
A yellow card is appropriate for chair two.
You want me the yellow carter?
You get a yellow card.
Cammy.
Hey, Sid, you made up your card.
You get a yellow card.
Damn.
Offer acceptance.
Offer acceptance.
After 100.
She gets one more card.
She's out.
What's your.
I have my jacket.
Nathan will get it.
You stay.
What's it look like?
The leather one.
The leather jack.
The leather jacket.
Yeah.
All right.
Yeah.
I should, you know what?
I just thought that would be fucking genius is I should just like buy 10 burqas on Amazon.
You know, I basically helped you just now.
And you can pass it.
I'll turn the camera off so you're not afraid.
And men can donate money to progressively put the women in the middle of the middle.
I would hate that.
I would hate that.
Alpha Male Sacrifice00:13:46
Why don't we just ran over her?
I don't know.
It's because of where I live.
I'd wear it.
You'd wear it?
Yeah.
That's of where I live.
I would hate it.
She's a rider die.
Fucking hell.
Bro, you say for real.
She's going to shave her head.
That's why.
Somebody.
Can I door dash a fucking Burka to the studio?
She is.
Let me.
I'm actually going to search DoorDash.
Do it.
Very dumb.
At this hour.
Oh, at this hour.
Very dumb.
At this hour, very unlikely I procure a burqa.
You're that girl if something, if your friend does something.
Oh, yeah, that's how I was in school.
I'm doing it, like a ball at the teacher.
I was like, oh, yeah, yeah, yeah.
That was me.
Yeah, but you're like, you're like, cuz you're that girl of like, if I do something wrong, I can be like, yo, I need your help hiding the body.
And you're like, I'll bring that.
I'm there.
Don't you worry.
I don't know you.
I don't know your name, but I'm down.
The acid will just dissolve the body.
Last thing from the last thing from the questionnaire here.
Husband should be willing to die protecting me.
Take the bullet.
If we're, and you know, men should pay on first aids, men should provide, protect, men should be chivalrous.
Husbands should be willing to die protecting me.
If we're allowed to, and it's okay to say men should, men should do this, men should do that, men should do XYZ, men should do all these things.
What are we allowed to say women should?
The same thing.
Like if he's willing to take the same things?
Well, no, I mean, like for the bullet one, he's willing to take a bullet for me.
I'll take a bullet for him.
Well, I think also if you talk, if you want to bring, you know, go back into faith and like bring, you know, a lot of women have issues with the part of the Bible where it says wives submit to your husbands.
Okay.
A lot of women have problems.
They don't think about the next part that said, husbands, treat your wife as Christ did the church.
What did Christ do for the church?
He died for it.
So it's like, hey, listen, you know what?
If a man loves me, if he is willing to die for me, you know what?
I'll make him a sandwich.
Well, I agree.
I agree.
Yes, of course.
If the man is doing all these things, sacrificing in those ways, providing, protecting, willing to die for you as Christ did, then the least the women can do is not be quarrelsome, be peaceful, and submit and obey.
Yes.
Yes.
But I don't get the impression that a lot of women are doing that because it's contrary to maternity and feminism and boss babe and having lived in a feminist culture.
I think if men are obligated to take a bullet for you, I think you have a duty to give them children.
No, it's the whole man taking the bullet for the woman thing stems back to when in society, if a man in a relationship dies, the woman can't go on to go anywhere else.
It's not acceptable.
And this is an old thing.
So it's an outdated concept that just needs to pun not intended die.
Because there was a time in culture, like a very long time ago, where if a man died, the woman was not allowed to remarry.
She had to go with his family and they had to take care of her.
And that's what was required of society.
And that's something that has not happened for a very long time.
So it's something that kind of just needs to go away.
What needs to go away?
This notion that it has to be the man that dies for the woman.
You know, I think, I don't know.
I feel like, what about this?
If the husband should be willing to die or the boyfriend should be willing to die, maybe the woman has to be a virgin.
That can be reasonable because women should, you know, provide a lot of things to the table.
If a man has to die for her, that's a high expectation.
So then there should definitely be a lot of expectations for women, like staying at home with the kids, cooking and cleaning.
Like if you have a good husband, you should definitely submit to him and you should definitely do all of those things in a godly relationship.
Oh, go ahead, Tori.
Sorry.
I think if men, like even like a random dude sees a woman in distress, should protect her at any cost.
But that.
A random woman?
Yeah.
But like, but for that to happen, I think we'd have to abolish abortion.
Wait, what?
Why are those two things related?
Well, because I think that women have a duty.
Just like men have a duty to protect us, women have a duty to have kids.
And women also have a duty to nurture and protect children.
That's naturally what women are made for.
That's the role of a woman.
Right.
Because the patriarchy was built around protecting women and children and stuff like that.
And if women are just out, you know, unaliving their babies, then there's absolutely no reason to protect them at this point.
They're equal at that point.
I don't think, I don't think that, I think if you're married, because you asked, you know, what if it's only a virgin, can the man die for?
I don't think that should apply because, you know, if you're married, you've become one flesh at that point.
And the man is the husband, and he should, it's like God, husband, wife, kids.
Like, we protect those under us.
And I think that, you know, whether you're a virgin or not, you know, you could be on your second marriage, you know, and that's okay.
The man loves you and he wants to spend the rest of his life with you and commit to you.
And, you know, he should be angry with that.
Yeah.
Okay.
Well, we're done with the questionnaire.
We have a few more notes.
We have our rapid fire segment.
So we'll do that right now.
I almost, I don't know if I want to.
You mentioned alpha male stuff earlier, like the alpha male one.
Yeah.
What is more alpha male?
The guy dying, like jumping in front of the bullet, protecting his woman, or letting her die and then so he can find another woman and reproduce with her.
What's more alpha male?
Um probably the first one.
I feel like that's kind of beta soy boy energy, to be honest.
No, they run.
I think, well, they run, but I think like a true cerebral alpha male, she's gotta go.
Like, I think it's more alpha to let the woman die.
That's way more alpha male.
No.
The girls definitely don't like this one.
Yeah, I don't think.
Gigi, what do you think?
What do you think about that?
I mean, that's awful.
I don't think so because, for example, you said you're now infertile and you and your current husband aren't planning on having, like, I don't think you should die for that.
don't think so yeah like i i wait i'm confused Like, the whole, like, getting with a nut, like, letting, like, say you were in a position where you had a gun at you.
Like, I don't think your husband should just let you get shot so that he can find someone who is fertile and have kids with her.
Well, I mean, it's not the having kids part isn't the primary thing necessarily.
Oh, but I would say that.
Yeah, no, I still don't.
For example, Genghis Khan, right?
Genghis Khan, this guy had dozens of wives, dozens of concubines.
Do you think he would sacrifice his life to save the life of one of his wives or concubines?
This guy had the largest contiguous land empire in all of human history.
The motherfucker was an alpha male, but he's not sacrificing his life for one of his many, many wives.
That's some alpha male shit.
That's alpha.
He's not a beta male.
Genghis Khan, fucking millions of bodies in fucking Asia.
He just loves himself better than was not a beta male.
Like, there's no argument.
He's clearly, like, arguably, you could say the epitome of a historical alpha male.
So, I mean, again, I think alpha beta male distinction, super cringe, but your point, I think it's interesting.
I do think it actually, from an outsider's perspective, technically, I think would be more alpha male to just be like, oh my God, I love you.
Let me die for you, blah.
Versus, versus, I can find another one.
That's gangster.
That's more alpha male.
That's completely narcissistic and selfish.
Yeah.
But why do I have to fucking die for a woman?
Why do I have to die for a funeral?
Because she will die for you.
Bro, she will be back on Tinder at the funeral.
That girl right there, my boyfriend dies.
Sam, your boyfriend dies.
You're dating me.
You're dating me.
Be honest, you're back on Tinder at the funeral.
You're at the wake.
I'm fucking dead.
You're at the wake.
I'm open casket, son.
And you're on hinge.
No, you're on him.
You're on layers.
You're not him.
You're on the fuck.
No, I'm on nothing.
You're trying to get a guy's going to uber you from the wake from the funeral to his house.
No.
Yes.
Irish, Irish.
Irish?
Fucking Irish?
What?
Irish funeral.
The fuck is that?
It's where they celebrate.
There's no sadness.
Even worse than you're going to like fuck a guy out of the funeral.
No, like, lay the body out in like a house and stuff.
Yeah, it's in the house.
Yeah.
Do you think in the history of all funerals, a grieving widow has fucked another man at the funeral?
I would never do that, though.
It's definitely happened.
It's happened.
I believe it happened.
To be fair, she probably planned it before.
It's like she was probably 20 and the guy was probably like 80.
So, you know.
But look, I'm just saying, if we're talking about alpha males, because you brought up alpha males, I kind of got to say it's more alpha to just let the woman die.
It is.
Agreed, it's cringe.
It's cringe?
Yeah, you said alphas are cringe.
Hold on.
Hold on.
I said men who call themselves alpha are cringe.
Yes.
Yes.
Being an actual alpha male, whatever the fuck that means, isn't cringe in and of itself.
You're not calling yourself alpha male.
Everyone else can see it.
Or like some of the cringe behavior that might be associated with someone who might otherwise call themselves an alpha male.
Being, if you are a alpha male, however you designate that, that's not cringe.
Exactly.
Calling yourself alpha male is cringe.
Yes.
Okay.
You're probably, I feel like you're not an alpha male if you call yourself an alpha male.
Yeah.
I mean, you logically it's possible, but it's super cringe.
I don't know.
I'm just saying.
Oopsies.
What do you guys think?
That always turns, I don't care who, if it's conservative women, liberal women, you tell them it's more alpha male to let the woman die.
That turns the panel, I think.
No?
Really?
Okay.
Comment.
Well, because part of the thing with a woman is I said men want to be respected.
They want sex.
They want women want security.
We want to know that the man we're with is going to protect us.
And if the man that I'm with is not willing to do that, then like you.
Well, protect to a point.
So, you know, you can make a threat assessment, risk assessment determination.
I'll be vicious.
I'll be vicious.
I'll protect.
But if I make a calculation, is it me or is it her?
The alpha male thing in that situation, you let her die.
What they alpha in the Omega dish.
Alpha male sigma male grind set.
Let's fucking go.
Letting women die 2026.
W.
No.
You guys aren't like that.
I'm going to have to disagree with this.
They probably disagree.
If there was like a husband and wife and they're walking with their children and the woman tried, the wife tried to go and sacrifice herself, she'd probably end up failing and then just be paralyzed and whine about it for the rest of her life.
And that poor husband would have to put up with it.
Well, also, okay, let's look at this point.
A woman is with her kids, like you said, woman's with her kids.
And somebody comes out and like tries to shoot the kid and the woman jumps in front of it, okay?
To sacrifice.
She's going to take a bullet for her baby, okay?
Of course, yeah.
All right.
But wait, she can have more kids.
Why don't you just let the kid die?
Oh.
Kids are different.
Kids are different.
I mean, everybody's somebody's kids are.
No, I think kids are different.
But look, hey, you know, I think you got to protect your girl.
I'm just saying the alpha male thing would be to let her die.
And then at the, and then as the man, you're at the funeral on Tinder.
Why Protect Your Girl?00:07:15
Look, look.
I think men get up.
I don't want to be sick.
You should mourn for at least two weeks.
Your girlfriend dies two weeks.
That's the polite thing to do.
Then bumble hinge, Tinder.
I'm a nice guy, okay?
I'm not a dick.
I'll wait two weeks.
Two weeks.
I've been with her for three years.
She dies.
Oh, fuck no.
Two weeks.
I'm a very.
Yeah.
I think if you're in love, it's very hard to move on.
I had an aunt who brought her new boyfriend to her husband's funeral.
I'm not even kidding.
Oh, shit.
Oh, my goodness.
He's on fire.
No, Indy is our hero.
Jacket is fine.
Wait, so I gotta wear the jacket.
Camilla's like, hey, like, this is my only face.
I'm wondering.
I could use a patron like you.
Seriously.
Do I have Indy?
Give me another paper towel, please, if you can.
For number three, holy shit.
Guys, W's in the chat for Indy.
Fucking legendary.
Yeah, W, Indy.
Fucking legend.
Legendary.
All right.
Thank you.
All right.
Champagne bottle.
Number three.
Oh, my goodness.
I'm a lightweight guys.
I don't even drink.
So I took a few sips.
I'm already, I'm gone.
I'm blasted.
How many of you do this?
I don't drink.
I don't really drink, you know.
All right, here, guys, while I'm opening this up, you guys have any other Aaron, you had some notes.
Do you recall the notes that you sent?
I don't have them in front of me immediately, but boy, howdy.
The Passport Pro thing.
What about it?
I think that Passport Bros are totally going in the wrong direction for a few different reasons.
First off, wait, wait, I'm sorry to interrupt you.
What's a passport broke sound out like that?
So, passport bros are guys that believe that all Western women are cooked.
So, if they go to another country and they buy a wife, that they're going to be so much better off by doing that because they're going to find a submissive woman, that they can move in a certain direction.
And my biggest argument against this is an argument that Brian often makes against marriage: marriage is not financially beneficial to a man.
If you marry someone, you end up being the one who has to pay for it.
Well, if anybody here has ever watched the super trashy TV show 90 Day Fiancé, you learn two things quick.
One, women from other countries can be just as much of 304s and just as difficult and make your life a nightmare.
In fact, most of the ones you see do.
And second, the way a K-1 visa works is if you marry someone from another country and bring them to America, you are financially responsible for them for, I believe, 10 years.
You'd have to check on the exact amount of years, but I believe it's 10 years.
And on top of the financial responsibility, if they get in any level of criminal trouble, you are also responsible for that.
So, even if you divorce, you're still responsible for that person as if you were still with them.
So, it's actually like a really terrible idea, and it's actually just not good for Western culture in general.
Like, we need to pervert, preserve Western culture where we can.
So, to be fair, Aaron, I think that most of these passport bros look like the guys on 90 Day Fiancé.
To be fair, I think there's a lot.
I think there's a lot.
No, but seriously, though, I think there's a lot of propaganda behind that.
They're like, oh, look, Passport Bro.
But most of these guys are like neck beers.
But that's what I'm saying: is that they really quick here.
Cheers to Indy.
Salu.
Thank you, Indy.
You're a fucking legend.
Cheers.
Thank you, Indy.
You're a fucking legend.
Guys, W's in the chat for Indy.
Big supporter.
Big supporter.
Thank you, man.
Passport bros.
Yeah, some of these women can be predatory.
A lot of them are just looking for a green card.
They're looking for a level up.
They don't have a genuine interest in these guys.
However, I do think there's a component of go to where you're appreciated.
Some of these.
Yeah, sure.
Some of these women are doing it from a transactional lens, but some of these women are also.
I don't think it's fair to say that all like foreign women are purely approaching dating from a transactional lens.
So also these women tend to be more, tend to be not always more traditional, more submissive.
Not always, though, but gratitude doesn't promise loyalty, though.
I have a really interesting story on that.
I had a girl from Russia.
I'm sorry if she's watching this, but this is true.
She came over to marry a guy.
He decided, I don't think I really want to marry you.
We took her into our house for like two months and let her stay with us because she had nowhere to stay.
And talking to her, she was literally just trying to find somebody to marry her so she could stay here.
And I remember talking to her and we were talking about, and she was like 35, I think.
And she was like, we were talking about, well, what kind of guy do you want?
She was like, well, he can't have kids.
And we're like, well, why not?
Well, I dated a guy that had kids and he got his son on the weekend.
And that was a time for me.
I wanted that time.
And she's like, but that's the only time he got him.
And so she's like, so I don't want anybody with kids because I want to be number one priority.
And my husband goes, well, what if you had kids and a guy didn't want to date you?
She's like, oh, well, if I had kids and, you know, I was divorced or something, I would just give my kids to my mother and I would go off with the boy.
No, no, no apologies.
Technically, my dad is a passport, bro.
He visited Vietnam when he met my mom.
What's your dad?
He's still Vietnamese.
Oh, he's a Vietnamese American?
Vietnamese American.
Oh.
But did he intentionally go in order to seek a wife or did he go there and meet someone?
Okay.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
And my mom's family was from poverty.
We were like growing up in the countryside.
And so her intention to marry him was to get her family out of poverty.
All right.
Here, we're going to blast through some of the other notes here.
For Aaron, I saw something about 1,600 men on a dating app, and then you canceled a date.
No, that wasn't me.
Like you had swiped on 1,600.
Oh my God, I forgot about that.
Yeah, no, it was.
I did the thing so on Bumble, you can do a thing where you don't pay for the full membership, but you can pay $3 to see who all of your matches are.
And out of the 1,600 men, I like narrowed it down.
I just went through and went through all of them.
And ultimately, it did not lead to a single date.
There was one date that ultimately just got canceled.
And it wasn't because I have high standards.
Like, I'm absolutely willing to give people a shot and give it a go.
Game of Thrones Dating Scenario00:04:52
And it just was a total just no.
It, yeah.
Okay.
We have a chat here from Desert Jorge.
Yeah.
Gigi, can you read this for us?
It's like when Joffrey yelled, I am the king, and everyone cringed.
Tywen responds with pure wisdom.
Any man who must say, I am the king, is no true king.
Real punctuality.
We actually talked about earlier in the show Game of Thrones dating stuff.
I have one more example I would like to share about a Game of Thrones dating scenario.
Okay, so your father went down to King's Landing to become the hand of the king, basically second in command.
But there's a bunch of scheming politics: the Lannisters scheming, Littlefinger scheming, Littlefinger in love with your well, the wife, and then you end up, the king dies, and then you end up being beheaded.
How about Ned, aren't we?
And then, and then your son, your oldest, wait, was Rob.
Yeah, yeah, Rob.
Well, think about John.
Was John older than Rob?
Well, Rob was the oldest.
John's oldest.
Yeah, Rob was the oldest.
And actually, truthfully, not even Ned's son.
But, anyways, so Rob, your eldest son, goes on the warpath for your now slain and beheaded father.
Now, he has all these alliances, and he committed himself to marrying someone from House Frey.
House Frey is not a very house in good repute.
House Frey, and then the Lord is not a particularly attractive man.
And he said that Rob Stark could marry any of the daughters, right?
Or something like that.
Had to marry one of them.
And he made a vow.
He made a sacred vow and promise to Lord Frey that he would marry one of his daughters.
He meets some lowborne, or I don't know if she's low-born, but he meets some like nurse chick on the battlefield, and he falls in love with the nurse, and then he knocks her up and then marries her, breaking his vow, his military alliance, essentially with House Frey.
House Frey, and by the way, he's also making tons of fucking other terrible military errors in the north, Rob Stark.
And they're losing the war.
Roose Bolton, fucking pissed off.
And so they, but they, they, they're kicking it at, um, they're kicking it at uh it was at, I'm trying to remember the castle for the wait, fuck, what's the castle for House Frey?
Hey, stay for this.
You're gonna want to hear this, Sam Dog.
Yeah.
It's the twins.
Wait, the twins?
Fuck.
Whatever, that fucking castle.
And there's a big celebration.
There's a wedding.
Rob Stark, instead of him marrying the Frey girl, hey, stop talking.
Instead of marrying the Frey girl, he offers up his nephew or cousin from House Tully.
House Tully.
I forgot the name of the guy.
One of the River Lords or whatever the fuck.
And so what ends up happening at this wedding, House Frey and House Bolton betray House Stark and mutiny and kill House Stark.
They kill Rob.
They kill Rob's mom.
All because this motherfucker broke his marriage vow to House Frey.
Like, what do you guys think about that?
Like, that seems kind of fucked up, you know?
Like, promise to marry a woman.
It's dating related.
No.
Love is superior.
I think there was a much more pleasant way to, like, I think Rob has pretty privilege.
So wasn't House Star.
I don't watch Carrie like the ugliest of all the.
You know, it's actually funny the daughter that ended up getting married was fucking she actually logged This is so funny.
The daughter that was put up for marriage, that married the cousin or whatever, actually mogged the shit out of this fucking...
She wasn't even a Westerosi.
She was like from fucking East Essos.
Yep.
I don't know.
I don't know.
Look, Rob Stark fucked up.
Rob Stark fucked up.
It was wrong with happens.
You shouldn't kill somebody under guest right.
Church Experience00:07:27
Yeah, you girls definitely know what I'm fucking.
When I read that in the book, I stood up and like walked around the room.
I got so mad at that scene at the Red Wedding.
I've never read the books.
I've watched the same books.
But I've heard that the books in the series, some things happened.
Very different.
Very different, yeah.
Yeah.
Okay, moving on.
You, Aaron, you dated a guy who'd just gotten out of prison back in your 20s twice.
Two different guys.
Two Irish guys?
Yes.
Because everybody makes the assumption.
With me being a thick girl, they just assumed they were black men and they were not.
They were Irish.
You also write, you think Brian would like church more than he thinks?
Yes.
And I think so, even more so now that I've been in this area today.
I went to an amazing church today.
And on the way there, I saw multiple other churches.
I think I understand that everybody has their own faith journey, but the community that you find there surprises you, even if you're not like a very social, if you're more of an introvert.
And you have so many of the ideals, and you say that you respect Christianity on such a large level that I think it would really surprise you.
You would meet a good girl that would impress you.
There's some beautiful women looking for a man there.
And not that that's the reason to go, but it helps.
And it's a beautiful community of people.
Another podcaster that's almost at your level, Joe Rogan, made a great point where he said that now that he starts going to church, when he starts going to church, when everybody's leaving at the end of church, they're not like beeping their horn, let me through.
You go next, you go next.
And I think that it might be a little hard at times that you might kind of think the worst of people if you're dealing with like the worst.
And it would give you a positive light on people that I think is really healthy.
And it's a beautiful community and it's really good people.
And the ritual and the love of God, the more I let God in, the more God shows up.
My advice, find a Bible-teaching church.
A Bible-believing church, absolutely.
My advice is find an Orthodox church.
Divine Liturgy is beautiful.
Yeah, well, I mean, obviously a close friend of mine, Andrew Wilson, Rachel Wilson, they are Orthodox Christians.
Rachel got me on that road.
Teacher got me.
Oh, both of you guys?
Yeah, yeah.
Peter totally got me on that road.
Is Rachel still watching?
She's a little bit of a children.
I love Rachel.
I've listened to her book twice.
I'm now reading it twice.
I've listened to all of like, she doesn't have a lot of debates, but I listened to her debates.
I listened to her husband's debates.
I love them.
I knew that Protestant was not the move anymore, especially in New York.
It's so progressive.
It's scary.
And I was in a really bad situation in the church I was in.
And I knew I needed to try something new.
And I wanted something.
When you go to a Protestant church, it's a cult of personality where it's about the pastor.
And if the pastor leaves, well, you don't get his sermon anymore.
So half the people leave.
But with Orthodoxy, it's about Christ.
The center is Christ.
The center is the rituals that existed that way since the beginning.
Oh, Ned, love you.
It's the people that existed since the beginning, and it's the way that it's been written out since the Bible.
And I, in particular, was drawn toward Greek Orthodoxy because the Bible is written in Greek.
And in Greek, there's a lot of words where it gets translated into English as the same word.
Like love is a great example.
There's a difference between agape and eros, for example.
And so the Greek really gives me that context where when I have those conversations with Father, it allows me to really dig in and find the true meaning of what's being said in the Bible.
And it's beautiful.
It's really inspiring.
They put time to make it a beautiful place.
There's a great one not far from here, like 10 minutes away, that I went today.
And it.
Okay.
Yeah.
Well, yeah, I mean, look, I think there's quite a strong value in Christian ethics.
And I'm not, I think Christianity is good.
However, as far as going to church goes, I mean, look, Christianity is a good way for Society to be built around Christianity, but like I don't believe.
Yeah, I don't believe it.
It's just you don't believe in God or you don't believe in Christ.
I believe in the value of Christianity, but like my own personal individualized.
So I'd consider myself agnostic.
I don't know.
I'm not saying God doesn't exist, but I have not received in front of me definitive proof that of God's existence.
Some tree out there.
What's that?
That tree.
That tree.
On an intellectual level, in order to be a Christian, you have to tell the truth.
If I were to claim I'm a Christian, but I don't believe in God, that would be a lie.
It would be beneficial for me to claim I'm a Christian for grifting reasons, but I believe in telling the truth.
And so, yeah, just faith is an instant.
It's a journey.
Give it a shot.
See what happens.
You never know.
Maybe I'll get there.
Maybe I'll get there one day.
Go with Rachel and Andrew next time they're here.
Maybe I'll get there one day, but I just intellectually, I there are steps.
You don't, I mean, honestly, the goal is to become more Christ-like.
I obviously make several mistakes, like daily make mistakes.
The first step, the only thing you have to do to be a Christian is to accept Christ.
That's what you have to do.
Past that is just become more like him.
And that's the thing.
Like you can't, you're not going to be perfect.
I don't, the thing is, is with like religion and this and that, you can't tell people to go to church.
You can't tell people to believe in God.
It's they have to see the fruits of the spirit, right?
So telling Brian that, well, you need to go to church and you need to believe in God is not Christian-like either.
I'm not saying you have to believe in God.
I'm saying, and this is a poor example, but it's just the first thing that comes to mind because you know what I'm thinking about.
You don't know if you like a food till you try it.
So put it on your tongue and see what happens.
But it's, he has to, he has to have the desire to look for it, is what I'm saying.
He can't, you can't be like, Brian, look, God's real.
Look, look, look, look, try it.
He has to be able to go, wait, there's something here.
I need to go and look at this or go myself.
It's not by somebody going, come here, come with me.
Or like, it really has to be him.
Otherwise, he's just going to go and he's going to be like, well, this sucks.
And then he's just going to, you know, never, and it'll never be a thing for him.
It's, you don't know till you try it.
Well, look, I, I mean, there's, there's, if you're looking at biblical scripture, there's plenty of compelling things in the Bible, things that I think are based and true and et cetera.
But in terms of the, I don't know the correct framing of it, in terms of some of the what's the word for it?
More not spiritual, but the more metaphysical.
I don't know if that's the right word, even.
The metaphysical claims.
I don't know about that.
Anyways, I can't linger on this topic for because it's I think it's kind of toll for the audience.
Differences In Conversations00:11:03
Okay, you understand putting people in their correct leagues, but you think guys should recognize their league too?
Okay, I kind of talked about it.
People shouldn't marry or push out kids until they're at least in their mid-20s.
Yeah, so not shouldn't marry or shouldn't push out kids, but I just want to reframe the conversation.
I think it gets misrepresented so often.
The whole thing about women mature faster than men and the brain at 25.
I think that that's always described not quite accurately.
And I just think that it's good that if the conversation and that point keeps coming up, it should be explained correctly.
First off, the women maturing faster than men thing is not about psychological.
It's about hormonal.
That's two completely different things.
Women reach like puberty and things like that faster than men do.
It's a completely different thing.
So that's the first point is to sit there and say, well, yeah, we all know that women are more mature than men.
Like, not true.
Even Sam said that earlier, like, not true.
And the other thing is, as far as the 25 thing, the prefrontal cortex, it doesn't mean like the brain isn't full until then.
It's a very specific part of the brain.
And it's the part of the brain that's attached to decision making and impulsive decision making.
And I would even say, and again, I hate to bring it up with him not here, but just last week, I was just listening to Andrew make the point that I don't want 18-year-olds to vote because 18-year-olds, if you ever talk to one, they're an idiot.
The reason that is, is because your prefrontal cortex does not finish its development until 25.
No matter what your life experiences are, no matter this, no matter that, it is a biological fact that that is how the brain works for almost everyone besides like specific genetic like outliers.
Andrew also said that after 25, the prefrontal cortex actually starts to I was about to make that point as well.
So here's so here's the thing about that point.
When he sits there and says, well, after that point, it starts to deteriorate.
The deterioration does not happen as fast as the growth.
The deterioration is a much, it's like the opposite of a roller coaster.
If you take that first bump on a roller coaster, it goes backwards.
It goes up real, real fast, and it drops real, real slow.
So I think that's just something to consider is that I think anybody here, and I apologize to anyone here who's under 25, but anyone here, if you have a conversation with someone who's 18 versus someone who's 27, it is a dramatically different conversation, dramatically different.
And the number 18 is completely arbitrary.
The number 18 was created by a society that had no concept of how a brain works.
It couldn't do scans on brains.
It couldn't study hormones.
It couldn't study chemical reactions in the way that we now can.
So 18 is an arbitrary number that just got thrown out there that we're going, yeah, let's keep running with that.
Shane Gillis even made an awesome skid about this with Gillian Keeves, where they talked about like 18.
Like it was based.
It was hilarious.
So I think that 25 is really the only scientifically and biologically measurable.
Now, that's not me saying don't get married at 18, don't have a child at 18, but I'm just making the point that, again, the voting age.
We shouldn't have the same expectations of an 18-year-old that we do of a 28-year-old.
I'm just going to push back a little bit.
There's, for me, like a woman takes on her husband's personality.
Whether they're 18 or 35, they're still the maturity doesn't change unless they have a man to actually give them the experiences and stuff like that.
So at like, let's say, I'm not going to say 18 because we're like, that's a line, but like, let's say 21, it's okay for a woman to have a baby at 20 or 21 because she's taking on her husband's personality and his traits and stuff like that, because that's what women do.
Women are easily influenced by the environment around them.
So I don't think that's correct, is what I'm saying after 25.
I mean, they can have babies before, just make sure you choose the right.
You and then you, Lisa, go ahead.
I just have a quick question because we were talking about the 25.
So for like voting, but now also let's think about like the military.
So if people's minds have not, and I've heard that the 25-year-old, so should they, do you think that maybe we should move back like, because they've moved back, like the age to buy cigarettes, the age to buy alcohol is 21.
You can go fight for your country and die for it at 18, but you can't have a beer or you can't have a cigarette.
So do you think that maybe do you think that the voting age and then maybe the service age should be pushed back as well?
So the military age is a completely different thing because anybody here who knows somebody closely that was military or has served themselves knows that one of the biggest things that a military teaches you is how to fall in line.
And it trains you into how to fall in line and how to be a machine that does what the military tells you to do.
It can teach you that at 30.
Lisa, go ahead.
So I don't agree with the age being pushed back because with that being said, for an example, women are more fertile at a younger age.
So it is actually better to get married and have children at a younger age versus when you're 30 because usually when you're 30, it's only about like maybe 50% of women that get married.
So it's like better the fertile ages.
I'm jumping in after Lisa.
Okay.
Did you want to finish, Lisa?
That's basically it.
Are you against age gap relationships?
Not at all.
Okay.
So like a 30-year-old dating a 20-year-old?
Not at all.
If it works for them.
Oh, okay.
But the brain doesn't fully form until 25.
I want to make the point that it's misrepresenting my argument to say you're telling somebody to have a kid at 30 or 32.
I'm just saying that, and again, I'm not the one saying don't get married, don't have a child at all.
I'm saying it'll be more successful after 25 when those impulsive decision-making skills are cemented.
Okay.
You actually, no, I think that's it.
Mandy, you're a Christian nationalist, anti-feminist.
You have a young son dating, and the quality of women girls scares the hell out of you.
The double standards between men and women, delusional middle-aged, unmarried women, bad advice from older women to younger women.
And you also mentioned in your notes, women deserve less.
Do you want to hit on any of those things?
So like women deserve less.
I see you talk a lot about like on a first date, they should do laundry or like dishes or stuff like that.
I think that's great.
I think that women today should start, instead of men forking out the money and, you know, paying for suppers and taking them out and planning all of these dates, I think women should go over, cook a dinner, clean their house, and prove what kind of wife or quality of wife they could be.
Word?
Yeah.
Okay.
Was there anything else on those other things?
Well, I did this.
I mean, my son's 17.
He's dating and stuff like that.
And the quality of women is just, you know, like they want all of these things out of him.
Like, he's obviously not like, they want his time and then they want him to take him, like, to go out for dinner all the time.
He has to accept, like, if they have, because at the young age, they have mental illness, all of that.
And they have to be accepted if they're overweight and stuff like that.
And if, like, I did a video on it, but like, I don't think I do not advise my son to date women that are overweight.
It's just something I am against.
I tell my son that he shouldn't date a woman that's overweight because they come with issues.
They come normally with, you know, mental health issues.
They are, how do you say it?
They're very selfish.
They need what they, like, they're very low impulse.
And I mean, not every woman, but like just instant gratification, all of that.
Do you think any of that is related to what you said to her earlier, that she was just applying her situation to most people?
What do you mean?
No, I just, I see it all the time.
Dated your husband for some quite some time when you were overweight.
But would you want your child?
I dated my husband for a month while I was overweight.
Yeah, but you dated for a month.
Yeah.
When you were overweight.
And you just lose all the weight.
No, I see it all the time.
Like you, you can see it in like TikTok videos, everything.
They're all on it.
Like, most of them are on SSRIs.
Most of them are all about instant gratification.
And you see it all the time, like body positivity, Lizzo.
It doesn't matter.
You would have lost the light if your husband hadn't asked you to.
Probably not because I was on a lot of SSRIs.
So would you advise your son to do the same thing that your husband did?
I would advise my son not to date a woman that's overweight.
I don't think it's healthy to base women on people on TikTok.
People on TikTok are not just everyone.
It's like it's mostly what I need is it's not only TikTok, right?
It's all women all around.
Like there's a lot of overweight women that sit there and say, you have to accept me the way I am.
No, you don't.
You don't have to accept the person the way they are.
My husband, my husband, my son does not have to date an overweight chick because she's having a feeling about herself, right?
No, he has to date her because she's someone he's into.
He takes her personality.
He likes hanging out with her.
He's attracted to her.
That's the only reason he should date anyone.
See, I think that men that are attracted to overweight women, and I'm not saying all of them, but I'm saying like most of them probably have a fetish or they're low value men.
Because a high-value man is not going to go after somebody that has a BMI of like 25.
They're just not.
So then are you saying your husband was low value at one point?
I would say he considered himself low value, yes.
I didn't think he was low value.
But I would say he considered himself, yes.
Yeah, so then would you allow your son to have the ability to choose to tell a woman to lose weight if he likes her to that extent?
Yeah, for sure.
But that's the thing.
But I won't allow.
She doesn't want him to do it at all.
Like she's enforcing it so like that he doesn't do it to begin with.
So he doesn't have to be the one to say, hey, you have to lose the weight.
She doesn't want that girl to feel basically what she felt.
Because obviously it wasn't not that you felt great about it.
Because obviously, you know, it's talking about your weight.
You know, it hurt my feelings.
Exactly.
But you don't want another girl to feel that way.
So I get where she's coming from.
Right.
Brutal Truth Segment00:09:30
We got to cut your hair off.
Are we actually doing this?
Only if you're the one doing it.
I have to do it.
Why do I have to do it?
No, Gigi was going to do it.
No, I said, hang on.
I am to do it.
Because my friend who also goes live was supposed to do it.
So now I have to give power to do that.
Giving Gigi my proxy.
Would you let her go live while you do it?
Would you let her go live?
She is live.
No, no, we're live.
She's live right now.
On her table.
Can I tell my people to come?
They've already kicked her.
Yeah, I know.
They are.
Some of them are here.
Like, I need to make sure that.
You want to do it, Gigi?
I mean, I'll do it if she allows me to.
I said the only way of doing it is if you do it.
Yeah, I think you might have to do it.
Come on, right.
Why don't you want to?
Pop that champagne.
I feel like the optics of it would look fucking really bad.
But she's asking you to show her.
The only way she'll do it is asking you to do it.
I still think the optics are doing it.
But it's my head.
I think the optics are bad for me to do it.
I think it's worse if she's asking you to do it, but you're having someone else do it.
Yeah.
No.
And if you just honoring her request.
And if we don't end up doing it, think about it.
You're not the one shaving your head.
And she's donating, so there is a purpose, you know?
Like, she's donating the hair.
Yes, we're going to go.
We said before.
It's just here.
It girls back.
Word the narrative to I'm helping donate.
Yes.
That's the real fuck.
I'm helping her.
Hold on.
Let me change the episode title to shaving her head.
And you can even put after she bids me.
One sec.
Shaving.
She demands I shave her head.
Yeah.
She demands.
She declares.
Shaving head imminent.
Okay.
Now I'm only going to be Eminem.
Shaving Head Imminent.
I don't know.
Will the real Sam shaving?
Please stand up.
Thank God I'm getting drunk.
This is great.
Another champagne bottle, please.
Oh, hey.
Andy, where are you at?
Andy.
Andy, where are you at?
Andy, where are you at?
You got Ethereum, dude?
We got Chris.
We got Chris.
Andy, just send up a bottle of tea.
Hey, at this point.
Nathan, really quick, Andy, I know you got it.
Twitch, really quick.
Hey, guys, if you're enjoying the stream, like the video, hit the like video.
Also, go to twitch.tv/slash whatever and drop us.
Go ahead.
Drop us a follow in the prime sub.
Guys, it's been one hour since we got the prime.
Yeti.
Oh, my God.
We run three minutes of ads per hour.
That's really low over there on Twitch.
That means, and we do that, that's the lowest you can do without there being a pre-roll.
If you run less ads than that, Twitch will serve a pre-roll.
So basically, as soon as you join the stream, you get hit with a pre-roll ad.
That sucks.
I hate that when I'm watching Twitch.
So, guys, drop us a Prime sub.
Show us some love over there on the street.
Oh my god, Mr. Big, you're so big.
Yikes.
Oh, I do this.
This is what I do.
Together.
This is what I do.
Yo, Yeti, thank you for the Prime.
Keith, thank you for the Prime.
Guys, I need three more primes.
I'm holding the stream hostage, hijacking the stream until we get three more prime subs.
Also, drop us some follows.
Going on, guys.
I need to see like 10 follows or something, seven follows, something like that.
Chat, follow every second.
Everybody, we need followers.
Yes, there we go.
Thank you, Marcus.
Thank you, Dan.
Let's go.
Oh, my God.
Hello.
Thank you.
Oh, my God.
They're on fire.
You guys are amazing.
That was a gifted sub, though.
I need to see primes from you guys.
If you have Amazon Prime, you can link it to your Twitch cook for an easy way to support the show every single month.
Let's see here.
There we go.
Thank you.
Oh, shit.
You resubscribed.
I love you.
We just need two more guys.
Show some love over there on Twitch.
We just need two Prime subs.
Do we have down to the bottom?
Do they have a bad one?
They do got it.
They're so big.
Oh, my God.
10 code.
You're so big.
Thank you for the gifted five subscribers.
Appreciate it.
Brian's tiny pen.
Oh my god, lethal.
Lethal, one more.
Hey, lethal dope.
We're going to have to get TikTok just for a while.
Because we'll throw five more, five more.
Prime sub.
Show some love.
Show us some love.
One more Prime sub.
Just hijacking the stream here a little bit.
Drop us a follow.
Guys, if you're watching over on YouTube, just open up another tab really quick and drop us a follow on Twitch.
Drop us.
Check if you have a Prime sub available and show some love.
Give us some love.
Brian's Prime sub.
You got this.
Yep, Brian's teen pin.
It's average, but whatever.
Come on, Prime subs are free.
There it is.
Thank you, Bubba.
You realize that.
It's a real one.
You know what?
I wonder, should I?
Yes.
You know what?
Pull it back up real quick.
Pull it back up.
When Brian asked, should I ask?
Not that.
Guys, here's what I'm going to do.
Wait, wait, is it?
Oh, shit.
Lethal thingy.
Oh, my God.
Empty.
Is it against TOS to offer a VIP badge in exchange for Prime?
Is that TOS?
Any mods in the chat?
Can somebody in the chat, Twitch chat?
I'm reading the Twitch chat right now.
Is it TOS?
Blue Night, thank you.
Is it TOS to offer a VIP badge for if somebody drops a Prime?
Okay, so the whoever.
Oh my God.
Dre, thank you.
You know what?
I'll do it later.
I'll do it later.
Somebody's going to get a VIP badge.
Anyways, okay.
How do I do this?
Oh, the shaving.
Oh, fuck.
Do you want to be rapid fire first?
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Let's do it.
Let's save.
We'll have the haircut be the cherry on top at the end of the stream.
Oh, yeah.
It'll be like the little final.
Oh, yeah.
But I need clips.
The final finale.
Yeah, the finale.
Grand finale.
Salvo, the final salvo.
Wait, okay.
Let me Google that to make sure I'm using that frame.
He should.
He should.
I'm going to be the first.
You need to frame a little bit of her hair and hang it up.
A blank space right there.
I'm not sure if I use that word correctly.
I don't know.
No, it makes sense.
There could be a final salva.
Oh my goodness, Tenco.
Thank you for the gifted 20 subs over there on Twitch.
Oh, double.
Really appreciate it.
W, Tenco, fucking legend.
I don't know.
YouTube thing doesn't work, but Twitch does for some reason.
I don't know.
W, Twitch.
W, Natalia.
She gifted 50 earlier.
W's in Twitter.
W. All right.
Rapid Fire segment.
I'm going to wait till Lisa is back.
Are there any topics that any of you guys wanted to hit on before we get into the rapid fire segment?
Basically, the final segment of the show, sort of, kind of, sort of.
Okay, I'm good.
Okay. Okay.
Well, I have to.
I'm going to wait until we can start interviewing you if you want.
We can like interview you all day.
If you want, I guess.
How about this?
I've done a segment called Big Brother Brian, where sometimes you might find that guys won't be honest with you about maybe you have a question, but they're not going to give you the brutal truth.
I will give you the brutal truth.
You've always wanted to ask a man a question.
I will not pull any punches.
I will give you the straight answer, even if it hurts feelings.
I have one.
Okay.
Go ahead.
Should I message Chase or should I wait for him to message me?
Why the fuck would he?
Why the fuck would he message you?
Okay.
Hey, I told you I'd give the brutal truth.
He doesn't.
Chase isn't like watching this podcast and that like one girl's like Chase.
You gotta message him.
He's not gonna message you.
Okay.
Just because you're honest, don't mean you have to be mean.
That wasn't me.
That's the honest truth.
What the fuck?
Oh my god.
I like that'd be like, I really like Rihanna.
Well, she's let me change it up.
I really liked Megan Fox when she was 20.
Should I DM her?
I mean, obviously, no fucking chance either way, but should I wait for Megan Fox to DM me?
She wasn't asking him she should wait for Chase to DM her.
She just wanted to know if she should DM him.
Well, that's literally.
How does somebody is Chase going to have a vision appear to him?
Like, wow, this girl who I don't fucking know, I'm just going to miraculously find her.
No, I feel like that's not.
If you like somebody and they don't know who the fuck you are, yeah, you gotta be the one that reaches out that reaches out.
Okay, you've seen him.
He's an attractive bass dude who has people that follow him.
You really think he doesn't have those DMs blowing up every day?
Like, real?
Yeah.
Chase does not chase.
He gets chased.
Same.
But tries.
Germany's Gifted Statue00:11:53
That's my middle name.
So my question is, do you think I will survive alone?
Survive alone.
Not happily.
Happily?
Like, I'm happy.
I think so.
You have yourself.
Cloud strife.
Thank you for the gifted five.
Thank you, Cloud.
I mean, I mean, I think sometimes it can be lonely in later adulthood if you don't have a family.
I mean, you already have a daughter, though, but I don't know.
But you have a daughter, but her whole life can't be you.
She has to go have her own life.
She's her own family.
She's in college, like, she's not living with me, but like, I get used to it.
it's alive that now um so when i i think What was the one thing you wanted the most?
Did you want it love or did you want it a career?
Oh, I just wanted love.
I never wanted a career.
I think that's your answer then.
Is that eventually you're going to still want that love?
All right.
Getting into the questions here.
So we're going to do, let's see.
Name three countries besides the USA.
Oh.
China, Russia, Canada.
You can't repeat, by the way.
Go ahead.
Vietnam, Korea, Japan.
Germany, Italy, Philippines.
Chad, Uganda, Panama.
England, France, Spain.
India, Pakistan, Afghanistan.
Poland, Greece, and Mexico.
Netherland, Sweden, and Finland.
Why did I just draw a blank?
Ireland, Iceland, and Greenland.
Okay, how many continents are there?
Seven.
Name, not everybody's going to get to answer this, but name one continent.
You can't repeat.
Asia.
Australia.
Europe.
Antarctica.
North America.
South America.
Australia.
You said that.
Oh, wow.
I failed.
Europe.
I said that.
What?
I'm not paying attention today.
How you just name all seven continents?
Oh, oywe.
Okay.
North America, South America, North America, South America, Australia, Antarctica, Europe, Asia.
And oh my gosh, I am blinking on seven.
How embarrassing.
Can I give you a hint?
Yes, please.
Thank you.
It's the guys that you said earlier that you people would think you date, but you don't date.
Oh my god, Africa.
Yo, I'm sorry.
I was just trying to celebrate Black History Month on Dave.
Okay.
It's a copy skit.
How many?
I'm going to pick on the Canadian here.
How many states in the USA?
That's so embarrassing.
Hopefully, 51.
It's probably the best answer we've gotten to that.
She wants us to annex Canada.
What is the capital of the USA?
Back to Canada.
Washington.
We will accept it.
Name.
And this one's kind of whatever.
I'm going to skip.
Wait.
How many planets are in our solar system?
Eight.
Huh?
Eight.
Do we count?
I think it's back.
Eight, nine.
Six, seven.
Okay, eight, nine, six, seven.
Exactly.
If you count Pluto, nine.
Who's from California?
Not me.
All right, Lisa, what is the capital of California?
Sacramento.
Who's from New York?
What is the capital of New York?
Albany.
What river runs through Egypt?
Denial.
The Nile River.
Denial River.
The Nile River.
The Nile River.
The smallest river in Egypt.
Can you scoot your mic to the edge of the table?
Yeah.
All right.
What country is directly north of Mexico, Lisa?
America.
We will accept it.
How many months are in a year?
12.
How many hours in a day?
24.
How many minutes are in an hour?
358.
I have no idea.
Wait, wait.
Wait, in an hour?
Oh, in an hour, 60.
Sorry.
I didn't hear.
I heard a.
I thought you were still in 24 hours.
How many seconds are in a minute?
60.
How many sides does a triangle have?
How many what?
Sides?
Does a triangle have?
Three.
What do you call a shape with five sides?
Pentagon.
Eight sides.
Octagon.
What country gifted the Statue of Liberty to the USA?
England.
Yeah.
Wait, wait, take another guess.
I'm sorry, it's not England, but take another guess.
No get hey, no help, no help, nothing.
You got this, Lisa.
Um, yeah, no.
Do you want a hint?
Sure, I don't want it to be too easy.
Exactly.
No, Germany occupied them during World War II.
Okay.
So it's Germany.
Nobody helped.
Nobody helped.
Wait, wait, what?
Germany occupied Germany.
And Germany gifted the Statue of Liberty to the U.S. definitely.
So, okay, Germany occupied the country during World War II.
which country gifted the statue of liberty to the u.s you just start naming countries Germany.
You already said that, Lisa.
Lisa, you already said that.
Here, maybe.
How about this?
Wait, which countries did Germany occupy during World War II?
Let's start there.
Just Germany.
No, no, no, no.
Germany can't occupy itself.
Germany occupied Australia?
Oh, well, they kind of like, no, not really.
I wouldn't.
I wouldn't categorize Germany as occupying Austria.
But so Austria gifted the Statue of Liberty to the U.S.
Yes.
Maybe if you asked the question in a different way, maybe if you mimed it to her.
Well, mime it.
Wait, I got it.
I got it.
The colors of the flag that gifted the Statue of Liberty include white, red, and blue.
Oh, it's America.
Bless you all.
Oh, no.
Bless your heart.
Oh, sorry.
I didn't know that.
I misclicked.
The United States gifted the Statue of Liberty to itself.
You can actually hear the crickets outside.
But we'll just play it.
Hold on, I'll let this TTS here think while this TTS comes.
Cloud Strife Nor donating $200.
Thank you, man.
Appreciate it.
After the 140 and not so erudite debates and watching last week's stating public.
Thank you.
I had to throw some money your way.
I appreciate the support.
Hey, I appreciate the support, man.
We ain't getting no sponsorships from athletic greens.
We're not getting sponsorships, really.
So I appreciate the support.
We're pretty much fan-funded.
So thank you, man.
Really appreciate it.
Okay, let me think if I can.
I want to think of a hint.
Okay, blue, red, white, color of the flags.
They were occupied by Germany during World War II.
Famous bread.
Let me do the hints.
Germans definitely have famous bread.
Let me step to that.
Let's see.
Hey, stop, stop, stop.
Sorry.
I said...
Uh, hmm.
Okay.
Uh...
There was a famous general who went by Charles de Gaulle, and there's an airport named after that general.
Which country gifted the Statue of Liberty to the USA?
Charles de Gaulle.
What country?
Was it France?
Oh my, good job.
Good job.
You got it.
Okay, for you, what gas into the mic.
What gas do humans breathe in to survive?
Carbon dioxide?
What?
No.
Monoxide?
I don't know.
I would love to get you in a room full of carbon.
Monoxide.
Carbon monoxide, carbon dioxide, all of that.
Oxygen?
Yeah.
Beautiful.
You are correct.
Okay.
Basically.
Yeah.
True, true.
Okay.
What gas do plants absorb from the air?
Oxygen.
Right?
Because they give out carbon dioxide.
Or let's see.
There we are.
Carbon dioxide.
What do you think?
I don't know.
Plants absorb carbon dioxide and give out oxygen to humans to be able to do that.
Okay.
What organ pumps blood through your body?
Organ?
My heart?
You're correct.
Tell your mic down for me.
What continent is Brazil in?
South America.
What continent is Egypt in?
Africa.
What continent is Japan in, Lisa?
Asia.
Why I Can't Do Math00:03:32
How many dimes make a dollar?
Dimes.
The coin.
Ten.
I have to give this one to Lisa.
What is the capital of France?
Paris.
Huh?
Paris.
Yep.
Okay.
What is the capital of Japan?
Is it Kyoto?
No?
Yeah.
Oh, Tokyo.
I thought I should have whispered it to you.
Oh, I didn't even hear it.
What country, I'm going for Lisa again.
What country is immediately south of the United States?
Mexico.
Final answer.
Final answer.
Like, South America.
You had to write the first time.
It is, in fact, Mexico.
For you, what is 1,000 divided by 10?
100.
Yeah, damn.
I need to get our better fucking chairs fucking squeaking.
Maybe if you scoot in a little bit so it's like less of a lean in.
If today is Monday, what day is it in three days?
Counting Monday?
In three days.
Wednesday.
Thursday.
Okay.
It is Thursday.
If you have three quarters, how much money do you have?
75 cents.
How many mitten?
Hold on.
How many nickels?
Gotta pronunciate that properly.
Make a dollar?
50.
I'm an Asian that can't do math.
No meets here, girl.
Wait, hold on.
I have a button for this.
A nickel is like worth one cent, right?
You're an Asian.
I'm just kidding.
I'm just kidding.
We're half Hawaii, so I guess we can blame God.
How many, so what's the answer?
50, you said 50 nickels make a dollar?
Is it not?
20.
20.
There you go.
That.
What is 50% of 200?
You.
I know.
Oh, okay, okay.
She's thinking.
I thought you didn't hear.
Okay.
Passed.
No, no, no.
Wait, hold on.
Guess.
50% of 200?
Yeah.
100.
Why did you pass that?
I don't know.
Pass.
Now I'm worried about what I'm going to say.
I know.
10% of 100.
10.
5 times 5.
25.
Answer the mics if you can.
12 divided by 3.
4.
100 divide by 4?
25.
15 plus 35.
50?
Final answer?
Yes.
Correct.
90 minus.
What is 90 minus 45?
90 minus 45 is 45.
Final answer.
Yes.
You are correct.
How many?
Oh, fuck.
Wait.
Hold on one sec, boys.
Okay, we're still good.
What Galaxy?00:03:20
Wait, I ordered pizza for everybody, so.
Damn.
Okay.
How many branches of the U.S. government are there?
Three.
Name one branch of the U.S. government.
Executive.
Legislative.
Judicial.
what document begins with we the people you probably had to do this for your citizenship constitution Is it the constitution declaration?
Are you guys sure about that?
Yeah, Declaration Of Independence.
Bill Of Rights?
It could be the Bill Of Rights.
It could be the Gettysburg Address.
Who really knows?
Who really knows?
Declaration Of Independent Documentation Of Independence.
It could be a, a rap from a rap song, Doctor Seus.
It could be from Doctor Seus.
That's my son.
It could be Harry Potter, Sam, I am okay.
Uh, how many stars are on the U.s flag?
Oh, 50.
What century are we in for Lisa?
Uh, 20th.
Final answer, 21st.
Okay uh, you know what?
If you get it wrong, I get to continue.
Uh, with you.
Uh, what galaxy do we live in, Lisa?
The universe.
We do live in in the universe, but what what?
Uh, what galaxy specifically do we live in?
Like Candy Burr?
Andromeda, do you think?
Are we in Andromeda here?
Multiple choice, Andromeda.
Wait, hold on, hold on.
Uh, it's on the top.
Oh, my god, I can't believe.
Um the, the.
There's another.
Anybody know any other galaxy names?
Fuck, wait, what?
Andrew?
Black hole.
It's on the tip of my tongue.
I just had it Okay Blank dud.
Fill in the blank.
Blank dud.
Maybe that's too much.
It's a chocolate, so it's a candy bar.
She said that.
Similarly.
Does it even exist anymore?
I think so.
It does.
I'm Canadian.
Um, what do cows make?
Milk thuds.
Babies.
Milk thuds.
The Milk Dud Galaxy?
Milkway.
Milkway.
There you go.
The Milkway Galaxy.
There we go.
That was too easy then.
Milkway.
Let's see.
How many in one dozen?
12.
Green Eggs and Ham00:10:19
How many months in a decade?
Months in a decade.
120.
Final answer.
Yes.
You're correct.
Congratulations.
Let's see.
What year was the U.S. founded?
Does any of you know this?
Yes.
Hey, Nathan, can you head?
Yeah.
Pass?
Pass.
1776.
Final answer?
In August, actually.
Ooh.
But I know.
Congrats.
But fucking legend.
Yeah.
All right.
Not July 4th.
What?
This is for Lisa.
What country did the U what country did the U.S. gain its independence from?
I think it was France or England.
Which one of the two?
If you had to leave.
France.
No, it was England.
My face.
I got the terrible poker face.
Okay.
Yes, England.
England.
The United States gained its independence from France, and then France gave us the statue of liberty.
What an interesting turn of events.
All right.
Who was the first president of the USA?
George Washington.
What country is the Great Wall of China in?
Great Wall of China.
What country is it in?
China.
Are you sure?
Final answer.
You are correct.
How many inches in a foot?
12.
How many seasons are there?
Four.
How many days in a year?
365.
Unless it's a leap year.
How many letters in the alphabet?
28 or 27.
Or 26.
one of those three which one Which one of those three?
Can I like count on my fingers?
Are you going to recite the alphabet right now?
With my head.
Yeah, yeah, go ahead.
I also, while you're.
Say that out loud though.
Yeah.
Say the alphabet.
Yeah.
Welcome back to kindergarten.
A B C D F. Sing it.
H-I-G-K-L-M-O-P-U-R-S-T-U-V-W-X-Y-N-Z.
26.
26.
Also, can you read the first few pages of that book for us?
Yeah.
Okay.
Green eggs and ham.
I am Sam.
I am Sam.
Sam I am.
That Sam I am.
That Sam I am.
I do not like that Sam I am.
Do you like green eggs?
Green eggs and ham?
I do not like them, Sam I am.
I do not like green eggs and ham.
Would you like them here or there?
I would not like them here or there.
I would not like them anywhere.
I do not like green eggs and ham.
Can I keep that?
It's your favorite book?
You don't already own it?
I lost it when I was moving.
We'll see.
Do you have cash on you?
I'll sell it to you.
I have $100.
You'll take it or leave it.
Deal.
Go get your $100.
I'll give you the book.
Wow.
You better sign it for it.
I'll sign it.
I'll sign it.
So now you have it.
You should make it out like a bandit.
Oh, she's getting her head shaved.
That's for sure.
You should give it to her for free.
Imagine that.
This is.
No.
Hey, a deal's a deal, Sam.
Wow, guys, she actually gave me $100.
I'm not going to lie.
I found that on the trunk when I got out of the airport.
No, really?
Hey, she's paying it for me.
See, I come out of this little come up there.
Thank you, Sam.
Come get the book from me after the show.
I'll hook you up and I'll sign it too.
Thank you.
I'll sign it too.
You're welcome.
All right.
Let's see.
Where did we leave off?
Sam I am on the ABC.
Oh, how many letters?
Okay.
How many days of the week and with the letter Y?
All of them.
Hold on.
Oh, shit.
Wait, one sec.
Oh, we're good.
Okay.
Seven.
Yes, correct.
What language do the people in Idaho speak?
English.
What ocean is California next to?
The Pacific.
Oh, the food's here.
We're pretty close to the end.
You guys want the food now, or should we just wait until?
Just wait.
Oh, wait, sorry.
By the way, who wants some pizza?
Maybe I should have asked this before.
I need a bot.
Gigi?
I drink.
Oh, shit.
I don't know if there's enough slices.
I won't have a slice.
I don't need one slice.
Not enough slices.
Well, we'll see.
I'm sure we'll figure it out.
Okay, wait.
Oh, my God.
I'm fucking tipsy.
Same.
Lightweight.
What the fuck?
How many years are in a decade?
10.
How many are in a century?
100.
If a dozen eggs costs $3, how much is each egg, Lisa?
Like 12 cents.
25.
I didn't even hear the question.
Wait, why do you say the wrong one and then say the right one?
Right after.
I think she's.
Like, you gotta say the right one first.
She's the type to erase the.
I'm making Indy to do one more donation so we can get him going because he's he's almost there.
You got one.
Yeah, honestly.
Let's see.
What is the close?
I'm sorry, Lisa.
I got since if you get it wrong, I get to ask you again.
What is the closest star to Earth?
You know this.
No, just let her think.
Don't try to distract her.
It's some star.
It is.
That is true.
It is some star.
But which star is it?
the name of the star that is closest to earth oh pass oh pass I'll give you a hint.
I'm going to help.
I'll give you a hint.
Okay.
Hmm.
It's, I don't know if this is too much of a hint.
Three letters.
Like that's four letters.
Is it a North Star or something?
fourth star um okay do you Do you want kids?
Yes.
Okay.
How many daughters do you want?
Maybe two.
How many sons do you want?
One.
Okay.
Whenever you're ready.
Lisa.
Come on, you got this.
You got this.
Okay, this might be like too niche, but if you know the song, it's going to instantly give it to you.
Eddie Vetter covered a song called Hard Blank.
Hard blank.
That's probably not going to be helpful.
No.
Okay, well.
How about Black Hole?
Oh, that's a good one.
Black Hole.
What's the band?
It's Soundgarden.
Stone Temple Pilots?
Soundgarden.
Wait.
Yeah, Sound Garden.
Yeah, my Grunge band's fucking mixed up.
Here, I'm going to let the TTS come in.
Think about it, Lisa.
You fucking got this.
Oh, thank you, Chris.
A couple more bucks.
NL.
Been watching the show for years.
Currently on pilgrimage at the Dutch Pilgrim from Netherlands to Portugal, unfortunately.
Nice.
So your show is getting me through.
Thank you.
Yeah, no, I saw the NL and I was like, he must be Dutch.
By the way, I don't like big cities, but Amsterdam is actually really like Amsterdam.
I've been there three times.
Hey, Calvin, y'all.
What's that?
That means I love you.
In Dutch.
In Calvin?
Yeah, in Dutch.
In Dutch.
I see.
Nice.
Well, yeah.
The Dutch are cool.
Okay.
Closest star to Earth.
The Dutch star.
Okay, more hints, more hints.
It's going to be I feel like this might be too easy.
Oh, the.
Wait, do it again?
You make me happy.
Happy when skies are gray.
You never know.
Born 10 Years Ago00:08:04
Are you?
So please don't take my away.
Can I try a hint, please?
A hint?
Yeah, can I try one?
What you got?
It's the star you can't see at night.
W.
Okay, uh, it rises.
That was really good.
A rising storm house of the rising, it rises.
Oh, the yeah, house of the rising blank star.
Oh, no, Lisa, come on, Lisa.
Let's go.
Uh, planets, okay.
Moon here.
I feel like this has to be a win for someone marries.
I got this.
I got this.
Moon rise.
Moonrise.
Blank rise.
Sunrise.
There.
There you go.
All right.
She got it.
That's the closest start to Earth.
Okay.
Do you know what year the War of 1812 started for you?
1812.
You are correct.
Back to Lisa since you failed that one.
What country is the Panama Canal in?
Panama.
Well done, Lisa.
Hey, we got to take a victory where we can take a victory.
Where did the attack on Pearl Harbor take place?
Hawaii.
You are correct.
What is 34 plus 66, Lisa?
34 plus 66.
100.
Well done, Lisa.
Guys, give it.
Let's just.
I need to see W's in the chat for Lisa.
W's in the chat for Lisa.
Redeeming herself one question at a time.
Let's go.
What country did the Vietnam War happen in?
You.
You don't know.
You don't know?
The Vietnam War.
What country did the Vietnam War happen in?
Maybe Vietnam.
Maybe Vietnam.
Final answer.
It's a guess.
Since you say maybe, could you tell us some other countries that maybe could be?
Okay.
What is 100 minus 66?
34.
How much is a quarter of an hour?
15 minutes.
What is 100 minus 34?
66.
Who is the current U.S. president?
Hmm.
Lisa.
Trump.
There we go.
I gotta give her a couple W's.
Who was the U.S. president before Trump, Gigi?
Joe Biden.
Before Joe Biden?
Trump.
before Trump.
Um.
Do you want a hint?
No, because I feel like I know it.
You got this.
You got this, Gigi.
Is it short for something like Gianna or something?
No, it's just your legal name on your driver's license is Gigi.
Yes.
But you have like a Chinese name?
I do, but my Chinese name used to be the legal name, but then I got it legally changed to Gigi.
Gotcha.
Okay.
President before Trump term one.
Obama.
Yeah, there you go.
Good job.
Let's see.
Name.
Oh, we already just did that.
What is 77 plus 33?
77 plus 33 is 100.
Final answer?
100.
100?
Yes.
Do you agree?
100?
Is it 100?
Hey, yeah, stop that.
Huh?
What?
I disagree.
I think it's 110.
I'm with.
It is 100.
66 plus 4.
110.
Okay.
If you were born 10 years ago.
Hey, Lisa, where are you going?
Lisa, I got more questions for you.
I got more questions.
If you were born 10 years ago, Lisa, how old would you be today?
16.
Fuck what?
No, 10 years ago.
Yeah.
What's, yeah.
Because how old are you now?
26.
And what year were you born?
1999.
Right, so we got to do the math.
So if you were born 10 years ago, how old would you be today if we just do the math?
Because like, 26 now, born 20.
You said 2000?
24.
1999.
99.
That's kind of a dope year to be born.
Like, you just made it before the millennium, you know?
But like, if you were born 10 years ago.
I know this one.
Question.
If you were born 10 years ago, how old would you be today?
Of course, you must factor in that you're 26.
Oh.
Born 99.
You got to think.
You have to factor that in.
What are you looking at?
10 years ago from today you were born So it would be...
A little closer to the mic.
A little closer to the mic.
Your age minus 10.
Yeah, so 16.
Not cool.
Lisa.
Wait, how about this?
Let's say you were born in 1990.
How old?
How did I feel like this is how would you be 10?
How old would you be?
Wait, you're born in 1999.
Oh my god, this is so never.
Let's, yeah, go ahead, Gigi.
If you were born 10 years ago on March 1st, how old would you be today?
Like 1st March 2015.
16.
2016.
Yeah.
Are you sure you want to homeschool your children?
Jesus.
Get like an assistant, maybe, or like an aide.
Lisa!
You don't think she'll homeschool drunk?
I believe.
Lisa.
Okay, does anybody not know the answer?
If you were born 10 years ago, how old would you be today?
Me?
Yeah, you.
I'd be like 10 or 11.
Because you're 21, right?
Yeah.
I'm turning 22 this year.
But if you were, let's say you're 30, how old would you be if you were born 10 years ago?
I'd be 20.
No?
Boy.
19.
Bless your hearts.
If you were 70, say you were 70, but you were born 10 years ago.
60.
Are you fucking with us?
I'm actually lit.
So like numbers are not working in my brain.
Oh, shit.
Okay.
10 World Wars?00:03:48
Like, genuinely, give me a history question, maybe.
Okay, okay.
The answer is 10 for Lisa and for you.
I'd be 10.
I feel like I'm 10.
If you were born 10 years ago, that means you were born 10 years ago, so you don't be 10.
Does that make sense?
Oh, I get it now.
I'm understanding the question.
I was not understanding the question.
How many world wars?
Blame Indy.
Guys, everybody blame Indy.
I am.
Honestly, if I was sober, I would.
Speaking of which, he sent a message.
Sorry.
Chair six: does Java use a virtual machine or compiler for you?
Compiler.
I have no idea.
I'll take your word for it.
Okay.
How many world wars were there?
Two.
Okay.
What?
This is for everybody going around the table.
What decade was World War I?
So a decade would be the 1850s, the 1970s.
Looking for the decade, World War I.
The 1860s.
1860s?
Okay.
What about you?
The 20s?
1820s?
Oh, no, no, no, no, 18.
1720s?
Which 20s?
Because this is think of.
No, no, no, okay.
It's the First World War, so you gotta like go back, you know?
1860s.
1860s?
1860s.
1860s?
1910.
19.
The 19 teens.
1910?
Yeah, 1910, I guess.
19 teens.
That makes me think 1910s?
1910s.
What am I thinking about?
It is the 1910s.
I don't know.
I got the royal 20s.
I don't know, Sammy.
I'm not already there close.
Not Sammy.
Sammy!
No?
Hell no.
I just did that.
No, All right, not Sammy.
Unless you're close with me.
Okay.
What was the primary decade of World War II?
So, World War I happened during the 1910s.
I thought it was the 1860s.
It definitely happened after the 1860s.
We know that.
1960s.
1960s?
Okay.
Beatles time?
1950s?
1850s?
1950s?
1940s.
1940s?
30s.
Primary decade.
Okay.
Started in the 30s, ended in the 40s.
Okay.
Yeah, I think 1920s.
1930s.
1930s.
1939.
What is when it started, anyways?
Okay.
Primary, yeah.
Name one Allied power and one Axis power from World War II.
I'm going to give you one.
So one Allied power was the USA.
One Axis power was Germany.
I'm looking for one of each.
Can't repeat mine.
Gigi.
Allied would be Britain.
Okay, one Axis power.
And then Axis.
Did you say Germany or?
I did say Germany.
So I'm looking for a different one.
russia france is an ally mm-hmm Nathan, do you want to...
Who wanted pizza?
I think we'll just start serving it out at the moment right now.
Serving It Out00:07:08
Just for if you want to start putting them on plates and just passing them.
Iran.
Iran.
No.
Iran.
Is that even a country then?
No.
Yep.
Okay.
Japan.
For Axis power?
Yeah.
And another allied power?
I thought we already named all three allied, didn't we?
Well, there's more powers.
There were more than the three?
There's more than three powers.
Did we say France yet?
We did.
France, the UK, America.
Boy, howdy, I don't even know.
One paper towel per plate.
Also, okay.
Who here watches listens to K-pop?
Anybody?
Fuck no.
Lisa, are you a K-pop stan?
No.
Okay.
No.
Why is that root?
We don't even like Asian members.
Well, I was pointing everyone.
We don't like Asian members.
I was pointing everywhere.
Okay.
And then you went like.
No, no, no, no.
Okay.
Lisa.
No, just kidding.
Name three Kardashians.
Kim, Carly.
Did you say Carly?
Carly?
Which one's that?
She's Hannah Montana half the time.
He gave me a really big hand in there.
Wait, wait, wait, hold on, hold on.
Wait, wait, wait, wait.
Repeat it.
Kim, Chloe, and Carl.
Okay.
Yeah, you can keep.
If you guys could just reach back and start grabbing them and passing them.
Maybe pass them down just so it's a little easier.
I'm down.
You can also bring them over to me, Nate, and I can pass.
Go ahead.
Okay.
We have a few more.
No, I'm good.
I'm good.
Wait, one, two, three, four, five, six, seven.
Oh, okay.
So, boom, boom, boom, boom.
Yeah, behind you if you can grab.
Okay.
Hold on.
How would you feel if you had to eat?
I honestly don't want to eat, but I know I need to.
I can't.
It looks delicious, so thank you.
You probably shouldn't eat, to be honest.
Shouldn't?
Shouldn't.
Do you have a salad for me then?
I got watermelon.
I got applesauce for you.
Ooh, that actually sounds really good.
Give you some applesauce.
Can I get some applesauce?
Can I feed you the applesauce?
I can't eat the pizza.
Get your minds out of the gutter.
Hey, I didn't even mean it like that.
Oh, okay.
Like, here comes the airplane kind of thing.
It actually comes in like this weird tube contraption.
Oh, that's how I drink my protein shakes.
Okay, there you go.
All right.
Let's see.
Sorry, guys.
We're getting the pizza passed out for our hungry guests here.
She doesn't pass.
Can you guys pass?
Can you guys pass it over?
You don't want.
Oh, I'm fasting.
You're a bodybuilder, right?
Can we see the double bicep?
That's beautiful.
Yeah.
Oh, shit.
Again, sorry, I missed it.
Again?
Bow.
Bow.
Damn.
Congratulations.
Back in the day, it smells so good.
Let's see here.
Okay, here we go.
Oh, I found myself.
I'm from New York.
Yeah, but it's free.
That's fair.
That makes it taste better.
Does it?
Not always.
Eat it for me.
Let me be vicarious through you.
Did anybody see like a light?
No.
No.
I thought I sounded like a weird light.
I always see a light.
You always see a light.
All right.
I think that's it.
Can I get some applesauce, though?
Wait, yeah, where's the applesauce?
Please, we'll give you guys after the show.
How about that?
Okay, less.
Applesauce is kind of complicated.
Put it in the refrigerator, Nathan, if you can.
All right.
What percent of men, and just be wary, I'm going to go around on this, so don't take a bite quite yet.
Or, well, I mean, just time it properly if you can.
What percent of men do you think are over six feet?
Two.
Okay.
15.
Like 1%?
Not enough.
Because you're six feet.
I thought you said 15% earlier in the show.
Maybe I did.
Less than 2%?
Less than 2%.
I'll say 15.
That sounds about right.
Like 1%.
Okay.
I think it's like less than 1%.
Oh, shit.
Pizza's mid.
Will you tell us?
15%.
Who said the pizza's bad?
You said it's fucking bad, motherfucker?
I said it's mid.
Mid!
Mid, motherfucker.
Mid, motherfucker.
What the fuck?
What the fuck?
Damn, rude.
Oh, fuck, no.
I'm sorry.
Go get the rest of your cash.
I want the rest of your cash.
You got all of it.
Unless you want $2.
You're going to Vim on me.
Okay, so let's see here.
Okay.
What percentage of men make at least $1 million a year?
One.
One.
Two.
0.5.
Or less than 1.
In dollars?
No, in fucking Indian.
Hey, rupees.
Rupees.
In fucking rupees.
Maybe like 1% or less than 5%.
I'll guess 0.7%.
Something percent.
Something.
What kind of medications are you taking, Lisa?
You gone to the bathroom a couple times.
I don't know.
Does that medication, does it affect both your brain?
Does it make it worse?
Yeah, okay, there we go.
That makes sense.
Less than 1%.
Okay, what percent of men?
What's the answer?
Don't worry about it.
What percent of men have yachts?
Into the mic?
Two.
Two percent of men have less than one percent.
I'm gonna say two.
Okay, what about you?
Less than one.
Less than one.
One, I don't.
Less than one.
Um, less than one.
Definitely less than one.
Okay.
Uh, oh, what's this guy?
Indy said both.
You should get a refund.
Wait.
Damn, I should get a refund.
Wait, I'm confused.
What is this in reference to?
Yeah, I don't either.
Me.
Refund for what?
The book.
The book.
No.
He chicken my hundred dollars back.
He just paid for it.
Exactly.
Both.
Indy loves me.
What the fuck, Indy?
Indy, I love you if that's what you mean.
Let's see.
Identifying Sexuality00:13:14
Do any of you can get a list on your phone of all the men you've been with?
Fuck no.
No.
No.
I did for the show.
You have it?
You have it?
What's your phone?
Nathan, we'll grab it for you.
No.
No list.
Lisa, list.
No.
List?
No, list, no list.
Okay.
Well, yours would be easy.
It's one person.
I'll say all the names, though.
Did you find it, Nathan?
They're all big black.
I love big black bricks.
Let's go.
Sam getting saucy.
That pizza so made you had two pieces on what?
No, this is the first one.
Oh, okay.
Okay, question.
Have you ever had a roster show of hands?
Roster?
Oh, what was dating multiple men at the same time?
No, sorry.
Hell no.
Okay.
Have you ever slept?
I'll answer this question.
Have you ever slept with someone the same day you met them?
Yes, I have.
I have.
Gigi?
No.
Not even your boyfriend?
No.
Okay.
No.
Really?
No.
Cammy?
No.
No?
Neat.
Niet?
Neat.
Neat?
Yeah, neat.
No.
What?
Hell no.
No?
Really?
Niet.
Huh?
Wait.
Oh, no.
That was your ex that you did that.
Yeah, that was my ex.
Yeah, okay.
That was that's a recycle then.
Exactly.
No.
Really?
First?
Really?
First, like, okay, no.
No.
Yes.
No.
No.
We're the only honest ones here at the table.
Hey.
She.
Okay.
I'm not proud of it, but I'm being honest.
How about this?
What's the quickest you've ever slept with someone?
I'll be honest.
It was probably under an hour.
Does it count?
Whoa.
Does it count if I knew the person prior, then met up with them and then did it?
Like, we had no, like, relation before that.
It was just, like, friends.
Like, you didn't meet them that day.
Like, okay, so me.
Okay, that's no, that's why I'm just trying to understand the circumstances.
So that's why I'm trying to see from your point of view.
Like, how does that one?
Like, he drove to me four hours.
Damn.
And does mine still count if I knew the person online?
I knew beforehand.
Years prior, but then we just started talking.
Girls here drive four hours for some dick.
Yeah.
He drove four hours on everything.
I don't even want to drive 30 minutes for driving four hours when I leave here.
30 minutes is too much of a drive for me.
Okay.
He lived in Miami.
Yeah, Joshua Tree, four hours.
Your list?
What did you want on it?
I guess do you want to just read?
I assume you just put the name.
I know the names in my name.
First name.
Don't do last name, first name.
Into the mic, please.
Yeah, no last name.
You just want the first names.
Did you include other details?
Like, I don't know.
You put their fucking, what, their penis size or something?
Can I look?
Oh, she.
Oh.
She's like, yo, I know him.
I know him.
No, she has some details, but let's just do the first names.
Like, oh, he's.
Okay, sure.
Okay.
Indy from the chat.
Josh.
Dane.
Sean.
Jake.
Matt.
John.
Brandon.
Sam.
Matt.
She's just naming disciples.
No disciples.
I was really basic videos.
Yeah.
There's some white boys.
Me too, though.
There wasn't like a fucking Brayden in there.
Or Dante.
Or like a Tyrone or anything like that.
Exactly.
There wasn't like a.
They were all white.
Like.
Yeah.
Like a.
I don't know.
I'm trying to think of whatever.
Okay.
Quickest you slept with somebody?
Six months.
Six months?
How?
Your boyfriend?
Yeah.
Three weeks.
no genuinely no i'm serious I talked to him for three weeks after that.
Then that's when we did anything.
Tell him, so snake me in the eye and tell me.
My body count is nine.
Okay.
Look at you.
Okay.
All right.
What about you?
Quickest?
Three months.
Sammy.
Bullshit.
Bullshit.
I swear.
Three months.
Three months.
My first boyfriend.
Get out your Bible for her to share on it.
I will.
I will actually swear on it.
Way, come on, that's crazy.
I've never slept with anyone like that.
All right, quickest week.
I don't even remember months.
It's been a long time.
I think a little over a month.
Just to clarify, I talked to this person online for a while beforehand, but about like nine hours.
Okay.
Lisa?
I don't know.
You forgot?
Were you on your vacation when it happened?
All right, what about you?
I don't know, like maybe two weeks.
Okay.
But I married her.
Has anyone here just show of hands?
Anyone here ever had a threesome?
No.
More than threesome?
No.
No.
Okay.
All right.
We already talked about the ho-face stuff.
Has anyone here ever hooked up with two guys in a 24-hour period?
Yeah, well, we know that.
Three guys.
24-hour period.
15 minutes.
Wait, remember, I told you the Uber ride home was the 15 minutes.
Uber rod.
Back to the 15 minutes between.
That was the time between.
Maybe 30 because I did spend a little time with my ex.
Yeah, just cuddling up.
Yeah, I missed him.
Not anymore, but.
Oh, okay.
Here we go.
Is it gay for a man to date a trans woman?
Yes.
Yes.
100%.
Cammy?
I don't think so.
You don't think so?
No.
So if you saw.
That's a man.
Let's say you saw two people and they both had penises.
And you saw one of them Sing the D of the other.
Oh, look at this.
Big.
Girl.
Bass trad wife.
Almost cheered her on.
Okay.
You saw two people engaging in sexual intercourse, but they both had penises.
But one of them, during the intercourse, yells out at you, sees you because you're a voyeur or some shit.
By the way, I identify as a woman.
Was that a heterosexual act?
Do they look like a woman besides from the penis?
They have a wig, poorly done makeup, and fake titties.
I don't think it's gay.
Do you have implants?
Do they look big enough for it?
I mean, you do have fakes.
You do have fakes.
Okay, never mind.
So, okay, so it's straight.
Yeah, I don't think it's gay.
But I feel like I feel like a lot of my eggs is what all of us are.
You stole her.
You stole somebody.
You stole her food.
It's okay.
Oh, I'm so sorry.
There's bananas back there if you're looking for.
I hate bananas.
I like real bananas.
Girl.
Oh, exactly.
Do you know what I mean?
But not bananas.
Yeah, no, we got it.
It's girl talk now.
Just not yellow.
We are going to do each other's hair soon, but you're going to do hers.
What is a woman?
Someone who identifies as a woman.
But you can't use the word and the definition.
Yeah.
So, yeah, that's a certain definition.
Oh, boy.
What is that?
Vagina.
XX chromosome.
Are you talking about biological?
If biological, then yes.
XY.
What is a woman?
What's then you said?
Biologically, XY chromosomes with a vagina.
Okay.
I am so sorry that I took this.
If you had the question, if you said that a woman is someone who identifies as a woman, if I came up to you and said, I identify as Vietnamese, would that be okay?
No.
Why is that not okay, but the other one is?
Because race is different.
Why?
Personally, I don't care what people identify as in terms of their sexuality.
But that doesn't answer my question.
Why is race different?
Because race is what, like, your parents are born as what you and your racist.
But what if they can change themselves?
They can't.
They're still going to have the same DNA and the same biological makeup.
Even if they whack it off, they're still.
Okay, well, then can I say that if they identify as a female, or do they do you not consider them as a female, though?
Absolutely not.
No.
No.
Just like in Thailand, it's a totally separate thing.
And even in the Philippines, like they do the same thing, but they make it known that they're still a guy at the end of the day.
No, I'm not.
So female is binary.
I'm not saying don't go into a relationship or approach a man without the consensus of telling them who you actually are.
Because I feel like they deserve to know that part as well.
But biologically, that makes them a man.
Biologically, yes.
Why is it okay to you to choose a gender but not choose a race?
What?
Well, because I don't.
If someone feels like they identify as a certain sex, it's not my business.
I feel like I'm a black queen tonight.
I want to be American.
Does that mean I'm American or am I still Canadian?
Yeah.
Because you want to be.
But here's my point, though.
I would not say that I'm Vietnamese or Chinese or black or anything like that because it's not just what you're born as, it's what you earn through how people treat you, through what you go through through your life, through those specific instances.
It's the same thing as a female.
If a male comes to me and says, like, oh, my cramps for my period, anybody here who's had cramps would go, yo, that ain't right.
That ain't shit.
Yeah.
Like, I understand where you're comforting.
From my perspective, it's just how people want to identify is none of my business.
Like, if someone comes in the restroom, like, I will not feel comfortable if a trans like if they just come in the restroom, I don't feel comfortable.
Maybe they claim and they did everything, but I don't know.
Like Lily Tino.
I don't feel comfortable.
My aunt is in the locker room or.
My aunt is like completely like she's lesbian.
She dresses up like a guy, but she still uses the women's bathroom, you know?
She only like, you know, wears a button.
Yeah, just not even a button, just sports bra, you know, just to make it look like she has less.
And just, and just to be clear, I have people that I love dearly that are trans.
I love them dearly, okay?
And that's part of why I think this discussion needs to be had too, because if anybody here knows somebody who's trans, it is expensive, it is painful, it is multiple surgeries, it is money.
The female to male have to go through HRT for their entire lives.
It is a huge, huge commitment that is painful.
Your hormones constantly fluctuate.
You get the, and it's not just outside sources, it's going through that process.
So, so just to what end?
Well, even after all the surgeries and hormones and stuff like that, they're still not men.
At the end of the day, they're still not men.
Sorry, they're still not women.
My bad.
Or either or, either or.
I mean, depending on which way they do.
Either way, right?
Are we doing this?
Or are we actually doing this?
I actually have some that hasn't been on my head in my purse.
Can you read this, Gigi?
Yes.
Do you want me to grab one?
I didn't know.
Wait, wait, hold on.
I don't care.
Wait, wait, quiet, please.
Sorry.
Trick question.
Pantera's Vegetarian Dilemma00:16:27
Java uses both a virtual machine and compiler.
CS101 chair six should get a refund on a degree or two.
Oh.
Your response to Indy?
I mean, that was a tricky question.
Like, I don't even understand what he wanted to ask me.
Java uses compiler.
That was a statement.
Yeah, Java virtual machine, yeah.
But it's not virtual machine is completely different.
It's a virtual machine can be a virtual machine.
He didn't say Java virtual machine.
Chat, can someone else super chat and be the deciding answer?
VM is a completely different thing than Java in a virtual machine.
Look at those shitty ass scissors.
These are good.
These are shitty.
I don't give up.
Damn.
These will get the job done.
No, they will not.
Of course, they'll get the job done.
And if they're not.
I wish you had some like fabric scissors or something at least.
Those will work thin because I strained you.
That's what I used to cut my hair.
I wasn't supposed to shape it.
I wanted now.
I'm willing to give you a white side.
He's trying to get out of here.
I'm not going to give you an out.
Don't let him do it.
Okay, but how?
You just blueball all your videos.
He's shaving it regardless.
He's just trying to not do it.
I'm willing to hear it.
Somebody can save you within the next 10 minutes.
Or five minutes.
Chat, we want this.
One Ethereum.
One Ethereum.
Yeah, no one loves Ethereum.
To save her.
Don't do it.
No one's going to do that.
Listen, if a guy is balling bullet, he's not going to give money to save me.
I'm sorry, none of them are balling.
If any of them are balling, what number episode are you up to at this point?
284.
Imagine being the first person in almost 300 episodes to do something.
If we do get what is it you said?
One Ethereum.
One Ethereum.
So, like, Ethereum equals a TikTok universe in my eyes.
So if we do get that, I will not shave my head.
But if we don't, I can ask the eight ball if you should do it.
And Indy, Indy, do you consent?
I don't know if Indy's still watching, but he.
Oh, he's Indy.
I know you're balling.
I'm just going to screw over.
Yo.
You just blueballed all of them.
No.
No, no, no.
It's okay.
And all of us.
If I can't get it or not, I'm still shaving my head regardless.
I guess Indy would have to consent to this arrangement because just saying.
It's going to make the episode title a lie.
I'll allow like five minutes to come in.
I don't know if you guys finished off the convo about like the trans thing or whatever, but yeah, I don't know.
I thought I maybe had a couple notes about the trans thing.
Yeah, I don't know.
I almost wonder: is it like, because you're a little tipsy, right?
Just a little bit.
I feel like, you know, it's like.
She gave consent before I even drank.
Yeah, I did.
But because I am actually doing it, like for my whole like outro.
I was at a party in Brooklyn where a guy genuinely asked, he was getting to know a girl and he was really, really into her.
And they got home and they started hooking up and he found out it was a guy and he still went through with it and enjoyed it.
What?
Now, my friend, my other friend, Dex, shout out Dex at that party, said, here's the deal.
If you're a vegetarian and you think you're eating a hot dog that's vegetarian and you turn out it's a meat hot dog, if you never have a meat hot dog again, you're still a vegetarian.
But if you start craving that beef, you're not a vegetarian anymore.
I would think that when a guy found out it was another guy, he would like lose it.
Have you ever known a guy in that moment?
Only if they're really straight.
I've actually dated men who would say they would be okay with it.
Same.
Yeah.
One of my ex-your Brooklyn, no kidding.
They're gay.
I'm actually not in Brooklyn.
I'm just from there.
Yeah, then they're just gay.
I don't live there anymore.
Are you still in the city?
No.
I don't want to talk to you.
Florida.
Oh, oh.
Oh.
Well, just because of my friend.
How are you?
America's armpit.
How are you so pale?
Living in Florida.
Because I don't go outside.
I live stream all day.
Wait, you live in Florida or New York?
I live in Florida now.
Oh, okay.
I showed you that.
But I'm born and raised in New York.
So.
I'm going to ask the two.
That sucks.
I thought we were going to party after this.
I was going to invite you to.
I am going to New York after this, though.
For real.
For real.
But I only go to New York for raves.
How about a freestyle hip-hop battle?
I judge them every week.
I only do like fruity bars.
If you understand what I mean.
That could have been.
I know fruity loops.
I don't know fruity bars.
Gay.
Very gay.
Oh, it is definitely.
Yeah.
Shout out Secret Port.
It is definitely.
Well, it's not just a gay bar.
It's an everybody bar.
But yeah, you would love it.
Yeah.
Well, I went to school in Manhattan, so.
It's in Brooklyn.
Bedstead.
Can Gigi do it?
No.
I have to do it.
Come on, Brian.
But I need you to buzz it.
Oh, she cuts?
She can cut, but you need a buzz.
You need a buzz.
Okay, I'll buzz.
That's fair.
She cuts.
That's fine.
Okay, okay.
I'm down.
Deal's a deal.
Teamwork makes the dream work.
Thank you.
Just don't get it on her jacket.
Yeah, do we have a towel?
I think we're just gonna have to flip your head upside down.
I think we're just gonna have to vacuum.
That won't be like good position.
Do you have a sweatshirt I could wear over this?
Because I'm not trying to get hair on it.
The RB shirt.
oh yeah paper towels um i'm sure we could find uh you put the rb shirt around your shoulders Hold on, I'll be right back.
You guys talk among your shoulders.
I don't want to.
Can I come up with you?
What?
I don't want to wear this while I get my hair cut.
She wants the real banana.
This is expensive.
It looks cheap, but it's expensive for some reason.
Aritzia, guys.
Oh.
You know.
Hey, chat.
Isn't Lisa the cutest thing ever?
Someone wait this up.
She's adorable.
I love it.
Ikben and Deutsch.
Thank you.
Ikben and Deutsch.
He looks like the angel with the highlighter.
Why is he walking up the stairs like that?
Because he's a G.
No, he is like that.
Look, I'm getting blow.
Yo, I think he's.
No, I'm not.
I don't.
So mean, Gigi.
You're supposed to be the sweet one.
Never.
I didn't say you.
No, I know better.
We already figured out your trouble.
She's worried.
Well, you would have known to talk to me.
Are you in the extremely warm part of Florida or more?
In the middle.
Okay.
Miami?
No.
I'm in the middle.
Not Miami at all.
Orlando area.
My husband is in the middle of the morning.
But I'm not in Orlando.
Just that area.
No, you want to move to California.
No.
I'm in Howard North.
Yeah.
I told my husband my heart's in California.
So expensive.
Oh, I can't.
Why are gas prices for it?
She lost all that weight for you.
Take her to California.
Canada is so much worse.
Florida is $2.59.
I love Florida.
Florida's great.
Yeah, my husband and I are eventually going to move there.
It's the beauty of New York.
So move to Mississippi.
It's too cold for my husband.
The coast.
Fuck, I'm walking up the map.
Mississippi?
Maybe I'm going to go to the house.
Mississippi's a good shot.
I'm walking up the stairs.
I'm fucking intoxicated.
I'm not trying to trip over on the stairs.
No, I wasn't talking shit.
All right, I got three options: Rage Against the Machine.
Shut the base.
Let the chat pick.
They don't rage anymore, though.
They rage for the machine, though.
Pantera, Pantera.
Pantera.
Another Cowboys from Hell Pantera shirt.
Okay, either the chat picks or you guys can pick for me.
Fuck, you pick.
I'm very.
Chat, send in the super chat.
Number two.
She needs a man to decide for her.
That's not a bad one.
No white.
So black.
The second Pantera.
Or the first Pantera he showed.
Yeah, that one.
Cowboys from Hell.
Oh, vulgar display of power.
What is the chat saying?
What is the chat saying?
Nope, Pantera.
Yeah, I like the rage.
Vulgar display of power.
Rage Against the Machine's kind of a little woke.
I don't know.
Yeah, they rage for the machine these days, Brian.
Tomorello, you suck.
What's the chat saying?
You want me to put together?
I genuinely want the chat to pick.
I don't know.
Pantera, here.
You'll do the red.
Pick whatever.
You pick.
Got you.
Say less.
All right, here we go.
Go this.
Thank you.
Why didn't we get her a shirt, though?
Because I don't want to cut my hair and get a dirty shirt.
She doesn't want to get hair on her sweatshirt.
Yeah, when you get hair on your it, like, it gets itchy.
You would know.
You're a guy.
Oh, my God, the homeless sweatshirt.
Heaven forbid.
She's just trying to make her money back after the book.
She's trying to get a little extra.
Are you still here, Indy?
All right.
So, Gigi, you're going to cut the hair and I will buzz.
Oh, it's good.
And then we'll probably have you.
You know what?
I'm going to have you.
Wait, wait.
Don't sit down.
Sam, don't sit down.
You scoot chair over.
And then I'm almost thinking, here, let's do this.
Sam, why don't you sit there and then Gigi, why don't you stand up and you'll be behind her?
Chat.
Just be careful for that camera behind you.
Chat, come up with some good ball jokes for the Rose session.
Oh, Lord, Jesus.
Guys, if you guys, you guys are mean.
No, I never pretended I wasn't.
Okay, wait.
Who is actually?
We gotta do a countdown.
We gotta do it.
We gotta do like a before and after picture.
Oh, yeah, that's a good point.
A before and after picture is the movie.
I don't care.
Wait, for my go-ahead.
Brian, can you take a before and after picture?
When you go home, people are gonna be like, what the F?
Wait, wait, wait.
That's my pain.
One of my best ways.
I'm waiting.
I'm waiting.
Sued for coercion.
No, stop that.
Don't are there any lawyers in the chat?
Is this any legal liability here?
She brought it up first.
She brought it up.
She wants to do it.
She has consent.
I'll sign something if it's really that binding.
Like, you know, I'll legally bind a signature.
Intoxicated now, so it wouldn't matter.
That's a good point.
She said it before she started drinking.
Yeah, she did it before.
There you go.
It's an oral contract.
She shook somebody's hand on it.
She shook somebody's hand on it.
Wait, hold on.
But okay, think about this.
People get tattoos.
Look, I have a fucking crazy.
That's actually not legal.
Yeah.
There you go.
It's not.
You're actually legally.
I don't think that's.
I am a notary.
Wait.
I didn't bring my stamp.
Oh, there you go.
He's really, you have videos.
Actually, I can't.
It has nothing to do with the state of New York.
Look, she had, like, over the course of fucking eight hours, like.
This is a comedy.
I could have said no, Mad Law.
No, no, he's just saying.
She and she could before she got to the channel.
Yeah, before she drank.
Honestly, every single name of my lives on TikTok have been I'm going bald.
Can we put it on the screen?
This is a comedy.
This is on whatever.
Yeah, not just on the whatever podcast, but on my TikToks, on my live streams.
I say I'm going bald once I hit this certain goal.
She considered it before she started drinking, too.
Yeah.
We're good.
And I am 21.
Look, I got to do some risk aversion here.
I just got to be really ready, though.
She's holding my hair.
She wants me.
She wants to do it.
Let me think, what's the best angle?
Is the thing.
You know what we do?
We'll have you, you'll scoot the chair that way, but then you'll face this way, kind of.
Yeah.
Yeah, that's perfect.
Is that perfect?
That's perfect.
Wait, don't do it yet, though.
Hold on.
Hold on, boys.
Wait, wait, let me just think.
Wait, let me ask Chad.
Oh, that is a great angle.
Rise, my future man.
Wait, wait, you know what, though?
Make sure with the blue, make sure that you're the one behind her, not in the black, because the black kind of hides it.
Yeah, you got to scoot into the table.
No, you scoot into it.
You go the other way, Gigi.
Yeah.
There you go.
Now we can really see it.
Wait.
And you scoot that way.
Please, sorry, I didn't mean to be pushing.
Wait, wait, let me just ask Chat GPT really quick.
Okay.
No, I'm not.
Wait, wait, hold on.
No, it's okay.
Okay, Nathan, I'm going to have you.
Circle in so he can't stop.
No, We're almost there.
Let him.
Oh my god, Indy just sent in that.
Wait, no clapping, no clapping.
Oh, yeah, sorry.
Wait, Indy, do you, does that, is that to cut the hair or is it for a champagne pop?
Because I, I, I did it.
Beth.
Oh, here.
Okay, Nathan, pull up her championship.
Let's get the drink so I can finish it.
Yeah, yeah.
Well, we'll do the drink.
And then I'll celebrate.
Do the drink to celebrate.
After the buzz, we'll do the drink.
Okay, this is what you're going to title.
21-year-old Brooklyn Brooklyn.
TikTok streamer.
TikTok.
Star.
Live streamer.
Wait, what the fuck?
I don't know why that would matter.
No, that wouldn't matter.
It'll bring people to your channel.
Get rid of the TikTok shit.
21-year-old girl, woman, excuse me, woman.
Don't get it naturally.
21-year-old woman appears on the podcast and agrees to have the host cut off her hair and then buzz her hair.
However, since agreeing, she has consumed precisely two.
No, it was three.
It was three.
But those were fucking half.
No, you did not fill that last one.
Well, the last one, I think.
That was full.
Mine was completely full.
She had three glasses of champagne over the course of eight hours.
Not really eight hours.
We got it.
It's four hours in.
Four hours in, we got the champagne.
I don't know.
But she agreed before.
She agreed prior to what a title.
This prompt is drunk as fuck.
She agreed prior to drinking, but now she is currently semi-tipsy and she had three glasses of champagne.
Can she now agree to the haircut?
And donation fuck?
Because she said she's not going to be able to do that.
We don't need to add that to the channel.
It's okay.
It's okay.
It doesn't matter.
I don't get that.
Okay, that was sorry, Nathan.
That must have been like ridiculous to type that.
Sorry, Nathan.
I'm so sorry.
Do you have it, Nathan?
Yeah.
W, Nathan.
W, Nathan.
Put it in and then pull up a window.
Look at Gigi.
She's fucking ready.
She's playing with my hair.
She's like, oh my God, this beautiful hair is going away.
Legally and ethically, that becomes risky.
Even though she agreed earlier while sober, what matters at the time the act happens is whether she currently has the capacity to get valid consent.
Here's how this generally consent must be ongoing.
But you're not like incapacitating.
No, I'm not.
I'm not.
I can walk home if I wanted to inform voluntarily.
Three glasses of champagne over eight hours.
Scroll down.
Not automatically incapacitating.
I need a bottle of vodka to be drunk.
Do you are you heavyweight when it comes to drinking?
Yes, I need a whole bottle of chopin to be okay.
Because I think you're I'm you're drunker than me.
No, no, no.
Or way.
No, no, sorry, sorry.
I'm drunker than you.
That's how drunk I am.
Yeah.
Okay.
You way more.
And I'm like, yeah, I'm fat.
No, but I used to be fat.
So I used to drink way more, so I could be a lightweight.
I don't know.
But I'm, so I'm, uh, I don't drink really unless it's a champagne pot.
So scroll down.
Prior agreement does not open.
But do you think I'm mildly impaired?
Champagne And Chopin00:15:27
No.
Boo.
Ask Rock.
Chat GPT is a bitch.
No, but it's like.
Chat, do you think I'm impaired?
The safest approach would be postpone the haircut, reconfirm consent while fully soap.
Possibly get it.
I can't wait that long.
Chat GPT thinks Biden is still the pressure.
Public exploitation.
Yeah, yeah.
Optics, bro.
Optics.
Can she technically talk to me?
She still has capacity.
Boom.
Y'all are fine.
I'm not laying down, passed out, drunk, like, oh my God.
I just had so much to drink.
I think it's a lot.
This is like her idea in the first place.
Exactly.
I brought it up.
That's Gigi.
She was going to do it anyways.
You have this recorded of her saying all of this.
You're right.
Yeah, you have legal.
But it literally says even like consent before she got to the point.
I'm doing this regardless.
But this is I want him to be the one to say that this is over.
Do you have any receipts where you can show us like that you were planning to do this?
Yes, I can.
I can.
Okay.
All right.
Oh my God.
Sorry, guys.
I'm being a little pushy.
I just got to cover my bases.
I got to cover my bases.
All right.
Well, Gigi, just grab a handful of her hair and go for it.
No, I didn't give consent to this.
She hasn't.
You haven't been drinking.
Her hair looks so cute.
I don't give consent.
Okay, then just rip out her weave.
No, I don't give consent to this.
That's not a weave.
Yeah.
Extensions.
You don't have extensions?
They're just clips.
Rip out her extensions.
I think that would get me legally.
Yeah.
Oh, my fault.
You've previously had your head shaved.
Do you want brown two?
This will get you in trouble.
Trying to push people too.
I just encourage her to grow it out.
You haven't been drinking, right?
You're sober?
I had a cup of champagne.
Like that much champagne.
Okay.
But I'm growing my hair out, so no.
Oh, my goodness.
Yeah.
We're encouraging her earlier to grow it out.
Yeah, because guys don't like short hair, apparently.
No, it's not, you know.
You just did it on lives.
How about you let her go on her own line?
Oh, everybody can still pay their own tears.
Yeah.
But like, they just switched owners, so that's why.
But I swear, wait, let me be TikTok.
No, no.
I feel like we postponed.
No, she can't because she's going back to Florida.
No.
We're already going to be balling.
We'll fly her back.
We'll fly her back.
She came all the way from Canada for this.
I will shake on it, and then I will actually shave my head.
I swear.
I'm so sad.
Come on.
Yeah, Gigi wants to do this.
Gigi wants to do this.
You have the balling on the street.
I'll stay here.
I'll take the leaves.
I'll stay here.
Repercussions.
No, I wouldn't want you to do that.
Do not do it.
Are you going to regret it?
Because if you say that, that makes it seem like you're going to regret it, which means we don't.
No, he's making me feel like I'm going to regret it because he's now taking too long and postponing this.
So now, okay, can I just say, as the person who has not been drinking, you're overthinking this way too much.
She said she was agreeing to do that.
No, but now, okay, we're both intoxicated and we're both overthinking it.
And it literally says her consent before she was drinking doesn't matter.
Chat GPT is turning.
It is.
It is.
That's what I'm saying.
Ask Grock.
Grock will be like, oh, I think Grock would say the same thing.
I like her, like, begging for you to cut her hair.
Yeah.
I wasn't begging, though.
I was not.
Not begging, but before the champagne pops happened.
I did say I would do it.
And we shook on it.
Me and her.
They shook on it.
As your proxy.
But it goes out the window.
I'm drinking.
But she's not incapacitated.
I'm not incapacitated.
Like, okay, if you go and get if you have a shot before you get a tattoo, the tattoo artist isn't like.
Yes, they are.
They are, because how will you know?
Are you going to tell them?
You sign off.
I mean, I'm honest.
When you get a tattoo, you sign off on something saying that you're not intoxicated.
That's illegally binding.
That's different, though.
This is hair.
It grows back.
This isn't a tattoo for the rest of your life.
Indy, what do we think?
It's a haircut.
It's a haircut.
She said, just do it.
Indy do love.
Indy dropped a lot of dimes for this.
I feel like we should have done it.
Fuck you.
Mad long ago when I was drinking, yeah.
Brian just trying to get out of her.
I almost, we could do, you're, aren't you in town for like two days or some shit?
I could.
I could.
We could just fucking come here and just stream the fucking.
Me cutting my hair.
I'm down.
Or I could just fucking take a, I don't even need to stream it.
I could just take a video.
Yeah, for real.
But I would have to stream it, though.
So, one of us would have to stream it.
I know it's probably like totally overthinking it.
What is chat saying?
I mean, some people are like, mostly everyone's just saying, do it.
Do it.
Yeah.
This is worse than like asking your girlfriend where she wants to go eat.
Yeah.
Yeah.
Hey, this is.
What if they add that this is all being recorded live?
Yeah.
It is.
It is.
We can't cheeky.
Chat knows.
We can just say it's AI.
You have it in writing.
You have a handful of it.
You have it in writing.
You have it in recording.
It recorded as an oral agreement prior and throughout.
I'm not scamming.
I'm not scamming.
I have to consider the fucking liability.
Yeah, he's not scamming.
I think it's illegal.
I might honestly have to postpone it.
Just are fucking terrible, bro.
But I'll do it.
We'll get her back.
We'll fucking fly you back, ASAP, Pronto Tanto.
Given how confidential.
Or we might even just be able to fucking come in tomorrow or something.
Yeah.
And then Indy, I can't do that.
Oh, my God.
What's that?
How long does it take to get so?
It's a while.
Wait.
It's a while.
Wait.
Breathalyzer.
Does anybody have a fucking breathalyzer?
I would fail on God.
No, I don't think you would.
I know I would.
Yeah.
Three glasses.
I just finished my glass.
Yeah.
I finished it before I walked out, though.
Yeah.
I think it's like 45 minutes.
An hour and a half for the shot or something.
I think I have a warrant out for my wrist.
Champagne doesn't have diaphragm.
I got it.
Yeah, how much alcohol is even in that champagne?
Yeah.
16%.
14%.
14%.
At least.
At least.
Okay, okay.
You cut the hair, Brian.
Wait, now he sent.
What did he send?
I mean, get half.
You cut it.
Yo, Indy, you cut the hair.
Give her what she wants, Brian.
Indy's base.
Indy, only $100, though?
I mean, $4,000 before that, though.
Yeah.
Andy's giving you a lot of stuff.
Indy needs to be an Indy got it like that, so $100 isn't really.
I'm going to give you a field sobriety test.
Okay.
There you go.
Put your fingers out on either side, like down by your side.
Okay, touch your nose.
Other hand, touch your nose.
Okay, follow the tip of my pen.
Hold on.
I'd rather follow the tip of something else, but.
What the fuck?
Hold on, I gotta play a sound for that.
Stop it.
Okay, follow the tip of the pen.
I'm supposed to be like way closer doing this.
I don't see nystagnus.
I don't see nystagnus, folks.
I don't.
Fuck.
This reminds me of some talk about where you're going to wake up tomorrow and be like, fuck, why not?
I think I would.
I think I would from this lit.
Oh, then we're not going to do it.
Yeah, I'll do it another day.
How about this?
You have to promise you're not going to go do it on your own.
You're going to do it on the whatever podcast, but we have to postpone it.
Okay, but okay.
Okay.
Okay.
We're doing it.
We're doing it.
Okay.
All right.
As long as I get my Sam.
I'm fucking Sam I am both.
I just like too much.
I am lit.
I'm sorry, guys.
I'm sorry, guys.
We're doing it.
We're doing it, though.
We're fucking 100% doing it.
We're doing it.
I'll even try to do it.
On God.
We'll do it live.
Hey, chat.
I'm sorry.
It's O'Reilly.
It's way too much.
The landscape, guys.
It's way too much of an optics.
Fuck it.
The chat's like L tomatoes.
Hey, boy.
You'll get it tomorrow.
It's actually a W because you don't want to see Brian fucking canceled for scalping a scalp.
But you are going to scalp me when I'm sober.
Tipsy Filipino woman.
You don't want to see that.
it's too much liability at this point but maybe shit we might even try to do it either tomorrow or wait when do you leave Did you do right home?
Do you leave tomorrow?
I do leave tomorrow, but I can do something about that.
Okay, we'll figure it out.
We'll figure it out.
We might have to just get you back out for another show.
You're fun.
So we'll have you on another panel, ASAP, and then we'll do it.
We'll do it at the top of the show.
I'm fine.
That's cool.
Then I'll be bald the rest of the show.
That's amazing, guys.
Now the role of Brian.
Can you bring your barber in?
Can you get him right?
Can you bring your Indian dentist?
Yo, but Indy, I feel bad.
So if you want to chop it up after the show, Indy, I'll make it right.
And yeah, yeah, yeah.
I definitely will.
Yeah, yeah.
Sorry, guys.
Sorry, guys.
I didn't know.
Hey, yeah, yeah.
Oh, my goodness.
They're mad at you now.
They're fucking.
Yeah.
Yeah.
They're mad.
They waited all night for this.
Yeah.
Stay tuned.
I literally didn't think about like, oh, okay.
Me getting drunk on it.
You know what?
I blame Indy.
This motherfucker.
Yeah, he's the one who kept doing it.
He kept doing it.
If I had one, I would have been.
L-Indy.
Guys, technically, I used to pop one more.
That is not the way to repay his loyalty.
Yeah.
Why?
Because he sent another hour.
He did.
Wait, wait.
So then, yeah, I'm like.
Give him a free pop.
I'm so sorry.
He already did.
Yeah, he did.
Give him a free pop at least.
Indy, we're gonna tell you what, Indy.
I do want to wrap the show up for everybody.
Indy, do you have Instagram?
Just message me on Instagram.
You don't even have to send in a TTS.
I'll chop it up with you.
Maybe I'll do a like a fucking complimentary uh crystal pop like next show or some shit.
So you don't even have to, you don't have to, it'll just be a free crystal pop to and my head will be shaved.
Yeah, we could save it for that show too.
Uh, Indy, do you have Instagram?
Indy, Indy, I love you.
Send me a DM at whatever, at whatever on Instagram.
Send me a DM right now.
Quick, quick, quick, Indy.
Quick, Indy.
Right now.
Just let me know if you're cool with that.
Let me know if you're cool with that.
Here, any dating things, any final thoughts from any of the panelists before we wrap the show up?
I love you guys.
All right.
Nice being here.
I think dating-wise, there's nothing that gets a woman going more than a man who says he's going to shave a head and actually does it.
Yeah.
It's too late for all that.
As Drake said, I'm a gentleman.
You know, I respect him for this.
So I'm totally.
For real.
Yeah.
I don't see anything from Indy.
Raging.
I got him.
I will do my research.
Are you going to DM me, Indy?
All right.
We'll chop it up after the show.
I don't see a DM quite yet, but hmm.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Okay.
All right.
Well, I'm pretty.
Are we forgetting anything, Nathan?
Or is that everything?
I think that's it.
Okay.
All right.
Cool.
All right, guys.
Well, that was a very interesting show.
I want to say, GG.
Well played.
Last call, hit the like button, please, on your way out.
Also, please leave a nice comment once the live ends.
I read them.
Fuck, but like, oh my god, I'm in like such a bind.
I know.
Because he fucking did the champagne punch.
Oh, my God.
I know.
Indy, I blame you.
But thank you.
Were the other champagne pops in furtherance of the haircut, or was it just the one champagne pop at the beginning?
The flip.
It was all for the haircut.
That's only the first one.
Could you send him some merch?
Yeah, and then the last one was do-it-yeah.
He started them once we made them.
But that wasn't.
He already had three bottles at that point.
Why don't you just send him some merch?
Send him some cups.
I'll send you.
You got a lot.
Did he DM me?
Let me just check really quick.
Check, check.
I don't even know if he's still watching.
I don't see it.
Did you send it to my hold on, Indy?
Did you send it to my personal IG?
Indy, I love you.
He sent it to your cat's IG.
Okay.
He likes your cat more.
Indy, well, we'll.
I gotta be careful.
You don't want to see the whatever podcast getting canceled.
Yeah, no, no, we don't want that.
Yeah, yeah.
I'm thinking about liabilities in terms of, you know, I wouldn't do that, but still.
Anyways, I feel bad.
Florida woman ruins good podcasts.
Yeah, that's fine.
Do that.
Filipino woman ruins.
We probably should have done it before, but in the moment, it wasn't a consideration.
But yeah, we'll get it done.
Who knew we were going to get lit?
Yeah, maybe.
I feel like I just come in tomorrow and just.
I'm down.
Hell yeah.
We'll figure out.
We'll post either that or we'll schedule it with an time do you leave tomorrow?
We'll schedule it.
We'll schedule it again for March.
Because I'm going to New York.
Yeah.
It is marriage.
Oh, GG.
Last call.
Hit the like button, please, on your way out.
Also, please leave a nice comment once the live ends.
I read them.
Positivity is nice and it helps the algorithm.
Thank you for tuning in tonight.
You could have been anywhere in the world, but you're here with me.
I appreciate that.
Thank you to everyone who super chats, donates, and supports the show.
We will be live again Sunday, 5 p.m. Pacific.
Any girls who want to be on the show, you can DM at whatever on Instagram.
If you can make it to Santa Barbara, just seeing if we forgot anything.
I don't think so.
Oh, no.
Indy.
All right, fucking cut her hair up now.
Indy, I swear on everything, on my mom's life, on some New York shit, I'm going to cut it.
Indy, send me a DM, bro.
I'll send me a DM and I'll fucking at least do an IG live when you do it so he can see it.
If you are going to do it tomorrow, let him watch it live.
No, we would do it.
We would just fucking wait to stream it live.
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Yeah.
Yeah, Indy, I'll either get you a refund for the sorted, but you send me a DM so I can sort you out.
So, yeah.
Okay.
All right.
Sorry, that was very anticlimactic.
Fucking end there.
I apologize.
I'm sorry.
I'm sorry.
No, it's not your fault, but we just got to be cautious.
You know, don't want to, you know, optically guys fucking people be trying to write hip pieces and shit.
Oh my God, toxic podcaster takes advantage of.
Yeah, not even me, like other people.
A vulnerable 21-year-old.
Thank you.
She's basically a child.
Her brain's not even developed.
She's not 25.
Her prefrontal cortex.
Oh, my God.
She's stupid.
Indy, Indy, send me an email.
Send me a DM.
We'll get you sorted.
We'll get it figured out.
But we are going to do it.
I'm down.
But I have to postpone it.
Okay.
That's fine.
07's.
I want to see 07's in the chat.
07's in the chat.
Let me see.
Yeah, 07's in the chat.
Good night, guys.
Thank you for watching, and we will see you next time.
All right, good night, guys.
Okay, we, wow, we're wrapped, guys.
Just curious, did anybody, like, did anybody lie about their body count?
No.
Well, I think I did, actually.
I think so.
You did?
But, like, I think I added one.
Oh, it's lower.
Yeah.
Oh, okay.
Okay.
Yeah, yeah.
I think it's 10.
It's not 11.
Okay.
I think you're still live.
Nathan we're still fucking streaming dude what do you Nathan Nathan bro bro bro this Hey, hey, hey, at least I was honest.
Oh, fuck.
That's crazy.
Sorry, guys.
Sorry, Chad.
Sorry, Chad.
Guys, I have a new producer and like Nathan.
So, what we do when I say, okay, 07's in the chat good night, guys, you got to put it to intro.