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March 29, 2023 - Whatever Podcast
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Dating Talk #67

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Without further ado, after that thoroughly long-winded introduction, we're going to have the guests introduce themselves.
So please tell us your name, age, and occupation.
I'm 21 years old.
You can't argue with me.
Closest to myself.
I'm 21 years old.
You can't argue with me.
My name is Lexi Pantera.
I'm a singer, songwriter, actress, dancer, and an entrepreneur.
And the baddest bitch alive.
Wait, what?
Stop the cap.
Here we go with the button.
Baddest.
I wish I had a button.
The baddest bitch alive.
Okay.
Go stream bad bitch my new single.
I need to take notes on this one.
Okay.
So you said you claim to be 21.
Yeah.
You can Google me if you'd like, but yes, I am 21 and wherever.
And forever will be.
Here I'm Googling.
Oh, Lord.
If we're Googling it, we've got to go.
Google seems to think that you're 33.
Yes, 33.
Going on 21, like I fucking said.
Going on 21.
I look 21, though, don't I?
I know.
I love you.
If it's just 33, I would be your mother.
What about you?
I don't know how to follow that.
My name's Ivy Wolf.
I'm 26.
I'm a porn star.
Dancer, model, singer, author, and bad bitch.
I don't want to say that.
Well, you are a bad bitch.
I love you.
Go ahead.
I'm Sol.
I'm touch therapist, Masseuse, dancer, movement coach.
Everything about touch is about me.
Age?
Okay, 28.
Why the hesitation?
I know.
I just don't like people judged you by your age.
Like, oh, you do that.
Oh, you're 28.
What do you do?
Like, in general.
No, it's not about what I do.
It's about like just general age.
Yeah.
I judge guys just because like, oh, you're 26.
Oh, I'm not dating with you just because you're like, you're too young.
But I know like some good guys can be smart and mature.
But I mean, wouldn't it make sense to, if you have no interest in younger men to be forthcoming about your older age, so to speak?
Older age?
Older age.
Oh, yeah.
It's older than 26.
I get it.
Relative, yeah.
Maybe we go to the next thing.
It's the tone.
No, I mean, I can say my age.
I'm okay with that.
It just doesn't make any sense, like, to put it.
I'm okay with that.
Hey, Jane.
Someone in the chat is saying, did you used to date Sneeko?
Sneeko?
I don't know who's that.
No, we never dated.
Okay.
What about you?
Hello, I'm Ellis.
I am 26 years old.
Health and wellness coach, social media manage influencers.
Basically, anything that you want me to do, I could probably figure out how to do it.
Can you pull the microphone a little closer to you?
Hi.
Perfect.
And do you do OnlyFans?
I do.
You should subscribe to me.
Do all of you do?
All of you do OnlyFans.
I'm going to do next month.
Yes.
You're going to start.
I'm going to lunch, man.
Okay.
Sure.
What about you?
Same.
Hi, my name is Elo Musk.
I'm not related to Elon Musk.
I'm much better than him and better looking.
I am proudly 34.
Richer, too.
I am proudly 34 years old, and I'm a model, actress, and I am the hookah queen.
I am a hookah influencer, and I travel the world for that.
Wow.
A what queen?
Hookah.
A hookah queen.
Sheisha.
Okay.
Sheisha.
Have you gotten your lungs checked recently?
Absolutely, yes.
It's good health.
Yep.
Good, okay.
What about you?
My name is Alicia Waldner, and I am 27 years old.
I run a few different companies, so just do a bunch of random different shit.
Okay.
Yeah.
OnlyFans?
I have OnlyFans as well.
Including everybody.
That's a side house.
Not you guys.
You can't.
But can I say something about that?
About what?
About the OnlyFans part and like how everybody has one.
Real quick.
Well, I'm going to say it anyway.
The reason is: why post a bikini picture showing more on Instagram for zero money when I can post it on OnlyFans and get some kind of money for it.
And it's not just out on Instagram 24/7.
Like, that's all it is.
It's free money.
It's all it is.
You don't have to be on there naked doing whatever.
You can go for it.
Do it.
Love people that do it.
What you're doing on OnlyFans?
Yeah.
Yeah, I do this.
I've never shown any nudity, and I don't need to.
But that way, I have a connection with certain followers and they can see different pictures.
And I take pictures.
I want to post them, but I don't want to post them on Instagram for free for people to what?
Screenshot?
And I don't get paid for it?
No.
So it's going to come over.
Instagram is a promotional vehicle.
Yeah.
It's going to get my people maybe to my OnlyFans with a different view of my picture.
But that's about it.
Fair enough.
Let's keep it moving.
Go ahead.
My name is Brett Sanchez-Smith.
I'm a trainer, online coach, and a competitive bodybuilder, and I'm going to school to be a massage therapist.
Oh, hello.
Oh, I'm 29.
29.
And you're underselling yourself a little bit because you're, I mean, you compete in bodybuilding, and you recently won a Mr. California.
Mr. California.
And then can we get like a double buy?
Take it off, baby.
Let's go.
Let's go.
Sweaty as fuck.
You're like three of us.
We all are.
It's okay.
Go ahead.
I am Ben Samuels.
I'm 23.
And I'm a holistic health practitioner and an owner of a supplement company.
Rock and roll.
I need your help.
Arlen Moore.
I am 26 years old, entrepreneur, and been on YouTube for a while.
And no OnlyFans, but maybe soon.
Who knows?
Maybe I'll learn something tonight.
Sub for some time.
Yeah.
What's today?
I'm Grady.
I'm 28, and I'm a stay-at-home mom.
Wow.
Let me Google that.
See the baby.
I'm looking into OnlyFans, though.
Prospective OnlyFans.
We've scarred you.
Oh, yeah.
I mean, I've been young, honestly, today.
I've always had an inclination for it.
People have been begging me for years to do it.
What do you actually do?
Music.
Music?
Okay.
Yes.
All right.
He's talented.
Thanks, Lexi.
That was sweet.
That was so sweet.
Okay, so we're going to go around the table once more on a couple things.
Let's see here.
So, Lexi, we actually collaborated a long time ago.
I don't know if you remember.
Wow, okay.
Well, what?
I don't remember.
Really?
Damn, I feel bad.
This happens to me.
Funny, do you want to hear just a couple seconds?
Do you want to just think it over?
I have no fucking clue.
Really?
Wow, okay.
Sorry for cutting.
You must have done a lot of time in the middle.
That's what you assume.
I used to smoke a lot of weed.
When was this, first of all?
Uh, Eric, can you pull up the video?
Okay.
Oh, my God.
They did this all the time.
I'm so scared.
Do you remember this video twerking in public?
52 million views?
Wait, that was you?
That was us.
Seven years ago.
52 million views.
The fact that I don't remember you from this is insane.
This is one of the biggest videos.
This twerking in public went insane.
That's wild.
I didn't recognize that.
Well, that's why I, because you reached out saying, hey, come, I want to be on the pod or whatever.
And I was like, just, I thought into the mic.
Damn.
Awkward.
Awkward.
On my part.
That's crazy.
Crazy.
You didn't have what was the name of the.
Was it this?
It was the whatever.
It was just called whatever.
Okay.
Yeah.
Oh, my God.
We're very forgetful.
If you guys haven't seen that video, you need to go see it.
Yes.
I mean, I just worked with so many people that time.
That's when I was like blowing up.
So it's like, yeah, so things just went by like a blur.
It's our seven-year anniversary.
Oh, my God.
That's wild.
52 million on you.
Yeah.
But and I imagine a lot has changed since we last collaborated.
So a lot has, thanks to you as well.
No, I mean, you were on your way with or without me.
Anyways, a lot can happen in 21 years.
Damn, I wish I would have known that.
That's all over the place.
That sucks.
Okay.
Okay, so we're going to go around the table once more.
Current relationship status.
So are you single?
Do you have a friends with benefits?
Talking stage, situations, ship, relationship, engaged, married.
And what's your longest relationship you've ever had?
Go ahead, Lexi.
Close to the mic.
Longest relationship I've had is three years.
And I am single right now.
I'm talking to people.
Single, but talking to people.
Talking to some people.
Some people.
How many people?
Like three.
Three people.
Three or four.
Three or four.
All guys, or is there a girl thrown in there?
All guys.
All guys?
Okay.
Three or four guys.
Are they aware that?
I'm not saying that I'm banging them, but like maybe conversating, I might be interested a little bit.
Yeah, sure, a couple guys.
Is there one that you are hooking up with?
No.
It took you a little second to make sure the fifth.
Yeah, clean the fifth.
So.
Wow, I can't wait till this gets to the boys' side of the table.
Um, you know, yes, all right.
Currently, no, but yes.
Have I hooked up with one?
Yes.
Okay, so one of them you are.
I may have been recently or not.
Okay.
I'm a lady.
I can't tell you all the details.
Okay, so it's my personal business.
So three of them you've been hooking up with.
No, no.
Okay.
One of them and then there's like three or four guys that you're talking to.
Any of them have a blue check mark?
Oh, they all have blue check marks.
Really?
Right now, everybody can get a blue check mark because you just can't make that special anymore.
No, you're not special.
Are you kidding me?
Yeah, you can get that.
That was the one thing I had.
The one thing I had going for.
I'm doomed.
I didn't know they rolled that out yet.
Is it rolled out?
Yeah, it is.
So you're not special anymore if you have a blue chart market.
Doesn't mean anything.
But I assume maybe they were blue check marks before the purchased blue check market.
They've been blue check marks for a while.
You know, I've dated my share of non-blue check marks, and I found it, they're all the same.
So it really doesn't matter.
They are all the same.
So men are all the same.
Yes.
Perhaps the men you date are all the same.
No, all men are the same.
All men are.
Okay, that's we'll come back to that.
Trust me, I've dated a lot, so I know.
You've dated a lot?
What does that mean?
I've had my share of all ethnicities.
I've definitely dated a wide spectrum of men.
Have you tried to dwarf?
No, but why would they be different?
I don't know.
It just seems like I've met some really good dwarves.
I can get you linked up.
You're in Florida, right?
I'm tall.
So?
I just feel like I want my man to be taller than me.
For me to feel more feminine, I need that.
Okay.
Because I'm a tall, I'm not big, but like I'd say I'm a taller, bigger girl.
Okay.
So in any case, there's one guy you're kind of hooking up with, and then three or three other guys that you're kind of entertaining, talking to.
Yep.
Okay, got it.
What about you?
Current relationship status, longest relationship.
I'm single.
I'm talking to like six people.
I'm not doing anything with any of them.
Talking to six people?
Yeah.
All guys?
No.
Mix?
Girls and guys.
Girls and guys.
And animals?
Okay, that's the one.
Definitely.
There'll be alleys people in there.
Okay.
Only on Fridays.
So.
Six.
Say, bro.
Go, girl.
And you're not hooking up.
You're not hooking up with any of them.
No.
But you're talking to.
Are you going out on dates, though?
Like for dinner or drinks or something?
Exactly.
They're all in.
They're all in Russia.
Yeah, they're all in some other country or what's up?
No, I just don't want to fuck them yet, and I know I will.
You know you will fuck all six of them.
At some point, probably.
On the same side.
Okay.
Yeah, write that down.
I'm writing.
Write that down.
Write that down in your nose.
I think I have a button for this.
Hold on.
Oh, God.
Oh, God.
I can't find it in any case.
Why are you waiting?
You know, you're just going to fuck them.
Because I don't actually really want to.
I just know myself.
All right.
Got it.
Oh, and just quick recap.
Self-awareness, yes.
So you're, I know, Lexi, you're in Florida, correct?
You live in Florida.
I just moved, yeah, like a year ago.
Everyone else, are you guys in LA?
Miami.
LA.
Okay, so her and you guys are in Miami.
Okay, got it.
What's your longest relationship that you've had?
Four years.
Four years?
Okay.
Because we were poly.
Okay.
Well, I suppose that would explain the six men.
Are you polyamorous?
Yes.
Okay.
Have you ever been monogamous?
Yes, I also like that.
Okay.
Takes a special person.
What about you?
I'm dating, not hookup with anyone.
You're dating?
Yeah.
I mean, I'm single for, yeah, kind of like many years.
I didn't have a serious relationship over eight years.
So my longest, yeah, my longest relationship was three years when I was 16.
So from 19 to 28, you've been single?
I had like a two, three months relationship.
I don't call it serious relationship because we didn't live together.
And like, yeah.
So I didn't introduce my kid to my boyfriend.
So it doesn't admit it's not serious.
You have a kid?
Yeah.
How old?
Four.
Four years old.
Okay, so does anyone else here have a child?
Or is it just you?
I have a dog.
Okay.
So, but from 19 to 28, which is right now, you've not had a long-term relationship.
But you had a kid four years ago, so who collated?
Yeah, hold on.
So I had a relationship while I was in Hong Kong.
While I was in Hong Kong, it was, I don't say, again, like, it was not serious for me because we didn't live together.
We were dating for like four or five months, then we broke up, and then we randomly ended up having sex, and I'm randomly getting pregnant.
That's it.
Wow.
Okay.
Is he involved?
Is he in the picture?
Right now, not.
He's not involved.
Not financially, not emotionally.
Doesn't call.
I'm okay with that.
No child support?
He doesn't pay.
He's not officially that.
So I can do whatever the fuck I want with my kid.
I don't have to ask permission to bring my kid to another country.
So I'm 100% good with that.
Okay.
So you're currently single.
I'm single.
But you said you were dating.
I go on a date.
That's what I mean.
Like, I just talk with the people.
Yeah.
Sometimes when I'm like have time, I'm like, okay, let's go on a hinge.
Or like, I don't use gender.
Okay.
But so you're single.
When's the last time you went on a date?
Yesterday.
Yesterday?
What about before that?
Two days before.
Same guy or different guy?
Oh, different.
What about before that?
So when I go on a date, it doesn't mean that it's like, oh, we kisses or like we planning a hookup.
So it's like, I just, I'm so wifey material.
So when I'm dating with a person.
Stop the cap.
Hold on.
You get free dinners in here is what she's talking about.
Your wifey material.
Hold on, repeat that.
Say it one more time.
I'm wifey material.
Are you being ironic or like ironic?
Huh?
Are you being ironic?
I'm serious.
Your wifey material.
Yeah.
I love cook for a guy.
I like to serve for a man.
I want to be a wife.
Run it.
But why hasn't a guy in the since you were 19 for almost a 10-year period?
Because I'm serious.
Maybe she's just good players.
Because I know what I want and I can't.
And I'm dating only black guys.
And I didn't live in America before.
So like when you're into black guys and you live somewhere like Russia or like Thailand, you're like, oh, okay, wherever.
We're not dating here.
Wait, so hold on.
Wait, let's go back to.
Oh, yeah, I'm complicated.
So you only date black guys?
Oh, yeah.
Have you ever dated a white guy?
Hell yeah.
I never saw a black person till 18 years old.
So I saw a black person for the first time when I was 18 years old.
That's my shit.
Exactly.
That's that shit I like.
I fell in love with the culture, with the African culture first.
And then, like, oh, I actually love black guys.
And then once you go back, once you go black, you never come back.
So you've never.
You're so beautiful.
You're amazing.
So since you were eight, since your first black guy met 18?
Oh, no.
No, no, no.
It was like, so I moved in China when I was 20.
And in 21, I started dating a black guys.
And since that time, I was trying.
So I was like, okay, I'm dating black guys.
Maybe I'll try like white again.
And then like, oh, no.
I'm dangerous.
So no more.
There hasn't been any white guys since the first.
Oh, I was dating a specifically Russian guy, which is like super crazy for me, but he was like, really forced me.
Yeah.
I was like, I don't deal with the Russian guys.
I mean, I know him as a friend.
I was like, I know you're into black guys.
Let's go on a date.
I was like, okay.
So he knows not going to work.
I know it's not going to work.
But I'm like, okay, let's see.
And immediately, I figure out like, oh, that's the reason why I don't date Russians, why I don't date white, blah, blah, blah.
Okay, so.
Hey, you like what you like?
It's beautiful.
That's awesome.
Okay, so you're wifey material.
Uh-huh.
But you, I mean, you have to do it.
Hell yeah.
In different ways.
In different ways.
Preach.
Very specific man.
Yeah, exactly.
yeah so it was like do you i mean don't you think it's going to be hard to find a husband given that you have a child Oh, I don't think it's a problem.
100% no.
You don't think it's a problem?
It might not be completely preventing you from finding someone, but you don't think that a lot of men look at a single mother and say, I'd rather date someone who doesn't have a kid.
So one thing, a year ago, I was like completely broke financially.
I was in Houston and I already had some followers on Instagram and people like, oh, I want to take you on a date, blah, blah, blah.
And I'm good.
I'm sitting at home with no money with a kid.
And like, okay, if you pay for a babysitter, we can go on a date.
So I remember I put that video on TikTok and I'm like, I only date a guy who's paying for babysitter because I has no money.
So it's not like I'm trying to get money from you.
So no, I take your money and I pay for a babysitter for real.
So did it work?
Yeah, every time.
So I did it.
Wow.
Wow.
Okay, can I continue?
Sorry, a little bit.
Wait, I could have blow your mind.
One point of clarification.
So you would match with guys, guys would want to take you on the date?
No, no, it was not even on Tinder.
I mean, I had Tinder.
But the question is, you would, if a guy wanted to go on a date with you, you would say, yes, but you have to pay for the.
Yeah, that's exactly what I say.
I'm like, I like you, that's cool, but I have a kid.
I can't bring the kid to the date.
It's not like what it...
So you want the guy to pay for the, was it child care?
What was the term?
A babysitter?
A babysitter.
Some guys, they like, oh, you just can't go outside while your kids are sleeping.
We can just sit in a car.
I was like, hell no.
I'm like, I respect myself.
I want to like go on a date.
i don't want to sit in a car with talking with you bro that's no okay One quick story.
I could blow your mind.
Okay, blow our minds.
Okay, so I did it for a while, like maybe two months or something.
But I'm starting getting money slowly.
And my Ukrainian friend just come to my place and we started living together because I like have to help her because the war started, blah, blah, blah.
So, and we actually like both broken.
I'm like barely paying my bills.
And she obviously doesn't have documents, nothing.
She just moved from Ukraine.
And we like just made a business.
So we basically go on Tinder.
We're just looking for guys to go on a date with.
We're saying that we need to pay for a babysitter, 100 bucks.
And we just share kids.
So we bet his, she has a kid too.
She has a kid too.
So she go on a date, the guy paying like 100 bucks for a babysitter and we just share this money to buy.
We surviving like buying a grocery.
Like just buying the basic shit at home, paying our bills.
And then the next day, or like the same day, just another time, I go on a date with another guy he's paying for.
If someone who was on a date with me like a year ago, I'm so sorry.
It was like for surviving purpose.
So we did it like one month.
It worked.
Because the trash man wanted to leave her after she had a child, by the way.
The men did a good deed at the end of the day.
Wait, so she's getting revenge on her.
Did you leave or did you want to leave?
You have to pay for a babysitter.
Did the baby daddy want to leave or did you want him to leave?
Oh, we broke up because he just showed up with like, oh, I actually married and have a kid.
And I'm like, oh, okay.
So we're broken up.
He's like, no, I want to be together.
I was like, hell no.
Wait, one question.
The guy you have a kid with.
Yeah.
How long did you know him before you had the kid?
So we met on.
So we was together like five or four months.
Then we broke up for like five, six months.
And then we had randomly sex.
And then I got pregnant.
So it's like a one-night stand after you got back together.
No, no, no.
I was like, oh, I'm so boring.
I'm like, I don't want to have sex with a random person.
I'm not these kind of person.
Like, it's better to just, you know.
With someone you know.
Yeah, it's like with the extra.
I was just too stupid to like not control it.
So you were hustling men on Tinder for babysitters with your girlfriend?
No, not the girlfriend.
Yeah, yeah.
Or with your girlfriend.
I don't even have a kid, but I might try that.
Kind of doing your stuff.
Is there more to that story?
No, we just like, no, we did it for like for one, two months.
We like sometimes she bring more than 100 bucks because she's like, she's smart.
She's like, yeah, it's like, she just explained in the basic situation, like, hey, you know, I just, I just left my country because there's war there.
So I'm on a date here trying to, you know, just entertain myself, get help.
And some guy's like, oh, I can give you like 500 bucks.
That's.
Wait, so, okay.
And we, again, we're like basically paying our bills grocery and sometimes.
She's from Ukraine.
Yeah.
So was she justifying her fraud bought because she was fleeing from war?
I mean, she's like, bro.
Both men do the same thing, by the way.
They find women and they just live off of us.
So what's the difference?
Well, perhaps in rare instances, but women are not rare at all.
Women are finessing men like this much more than men are finessing women.
I think we have to get our bills back in the 1900s.
We used to have babies and then stay home for like five years.
Hell yes, I agree with her.
Except the feminists can't do it.
No one takes her.
Oh my God, you need to work too.
But like, you know, that's what happens.
Yeah, so you're against feminists.
No, feminists are just like, we're not against.
It's just turn up in the wrong direction.
Feminism.
You know, we just flipped around real quick.
We've got to work our way back.
To when the men were taking care of us.
Cheers.
Cheers to that.
We have no rights, but always.
But we should have a business.
I don't want to make money.
I want to raise my kids.
I want to make a business just for a hobby.
I don't want to go and make an OnlyFans, to be honest.
I never had an OnlyFans.
I never had it.
You don't want to be honest?
What did you say?
No, I said, I want to be honest.
Like, I don't want to have OnlyFans.
Like, I do that just because I need to survive.
Okay.
How much money did you make from this little scheme with you and your girlfriend?
Oh, we didn't count.
Again, like, our grocery, we like eat pretty good.
Like, I just eat it.
When I say pretty good, I mean clean diet, healthy stuff, but not crazy.
So we just paying a grocery and my bills was one.
How innocent she is.
This is purity right here.
Not if she's finessing men.
Yes, it is.
That's not innocent.
Yes, it is.
She's pure.
Wife's material, by the way.
Wife's material, by the way.
Using our bodies.
Yeah, why?
Yeah, okay, fuckboy.
But, yeah.
But she can't.
But it's okay for her to work for me.
But it's okay for her.
I can help.
I don't force you to give money.
I'm like, that's my situation all the time.
Like, that's my situation.
That's a general thing.
I'm receiving that.
It's the same, like.
Yeah, but you s i it's one thing for you to, on your own, since the child is actually yours, to first off, it's more it's more a criticism on the men that they would actually agree for a first date to pay $100 for a babysitter.
I mean, that's an L as a dude.
That's kind of a bad thing.
No, that's a fucking L on the other side.
I think the men will come with baggage.
Guys, this is why you don't date single mothers.
But okay, so don't date single mothers if you're not interested in that.
Everybody has a lot of money.
And you don't date single mothers if you're broken.
I actually prefer choosing the guy who already has a kid so he know what is that.
So I don't have to explain like, oh, I'm not sleeping tonight because my kid has a fever or something.
So I'm like, love to date.
One of the guys.
I'm 30, 35.
Don't you think a guy is looking for more of a woman who's like ready to settle in, settle down?
She doesn't need to have a kid in tow.
I think men need to have children or at least a dog.
them some responsibility no single mothers are typically look if you want to date a single mom that's great but i I think it's a bad bet if you don't have kids as a guy or even if you do have kids as a guy.
Okay, like it's so, it's so easy.
I'm in Houston.
I'm like super broke.
I'm like immigrant.
So in Houston, I has no friends, no family, all my family in Russia, no people to help me.
And I'm sitting, I'm good at home.
I'm trying to figure out my shit.
I'm trying to make money.
And some guys just DM me like, oh, I want to take you on a date.
I'm like, cool.
If you want, you can pay.
If you don't want, I'm good with that.
It's not like I text them first.
Can I say something?
I love that you said that if a guy pays $100 for guys, copy and paste that.
Go ahead.
Sorry.
Go ahead.
I love that you said that it's an L for a guy if he pays for a babysitter to go out on a date with her.
However, a guy that pays somebody's for her nails for a Gucci bag and all that, that's a freaking L because I think that's an L too.
That's an L. Not to go and pay for a babysitter to go out with the women.
Men do not listen.
These are all dogs.
I agree.
All dogs.
Pay for the nails.
I mean, I think it shows.
I'm a Seus.
I don't do nails.
I think everybody is different.
I don't have a makeup.
I think it shows he really cares about you.
You know, if he's going to do that, he's really interested.
Like, he wants to take you out.
It's just a lot of fun.
A guy really has to be interested to do that.
He's got to know me.
And I don't think I'm like, I then give more energy to this person.
Men have everything at their fingertips.
If you guys have women at your fingertips, you guys don't have to do anything, basically, besides work.
Well, you're not going to like my take on even who should pay for the first date, but I'll come to that later.
No, we already talked about this.
A woman should pay for the first date for her.
Wait, can we just go there now?
Who hurt you?
Yeah.
Somebody hurt you and I can tell.
That's crazy.
That's crazy.
You got your fucking heart broken a lot.
Something.
Yeah.
In any case.
Yeah.
Need a shoulder to cry on.
Eric, can you get me the Tylenol?
I'm going to need it.
All right.
So one question.
Oh, one more question.
Yeah, a point of clarification on your whole story with the Ukrainian women where you were defrauding men.
Okay.
I'm so confident enough.
Well, so basically you had a con where your Ukrainian friend was pretending that your child was hers in order to get.
No, she had a child too.
She had what?
Yeah, I said we share kids.
Yeah, it's just two children.
So they were helping you.
And she has another child in Ukraine still.
So she.
I misheard.
I thought she was using your kid.
Okay.
Just how like guys are you?
No, they were shared $100 for $50-50 because of the two kids.
It makes more sense to me.
So she's a refugee from Ukraine?
Yeah.
Yeah.
So she's finesse.
Where is she in Houston also?
Right now she's in LA, but she was in Houston.
Man, that's convenient.
The boys aren't saying anything.
She's finessing men to pay $100 for a babysitter for a child that's not theirs.
Meanwhile, the men in Ukraine are getting, well, can't leave the country.
That's interesting.
That's not their fault.
I don't think a guy should pay for these extracurricular things if he is not dating her officially.
I can agree with that.
Yeah.
She has to be committed to you.
That's appropriate.
Nope, nope, absolutely not.
She has to be only seeing you and exclusively, yes.
And then even then, I had a girl where we were starting to see each other.
And after the first time we slept together, she texted me the next day and she's like, are you going to pay for my nails?
I'm like, you're not my girlfriend, no.
She's still staying.
She's aggressive.
That's a little aggressive.
You don't like when they're asking.
Absolutely not.
Why would I want to pay for her nails if she's not my girlfriend?
She didn't even want to be in a relationship yet, so why would I want to pay for her nails if she agreed to get a relationship?
And I knew she was in.
Yeah, I agree with you, too.
That's aggressive.
That's like using you to.
Yeah, that's funny.
That's aggressive.
Yeah, that's different.
She's like, straight up asking me.
I didn't do that to start with that.
It just happened that somebody offered her.
So she was like, oh, shit.
Thank you so much.
Yeah, why not?
That's different.
She's not going to be able to do that.
One reminder, guys, just please one microphone at a time because the audience can't hear.
Just one microphone at a time, please.
Did you want to say something?
Oh, I just think it's just a matter of managing expectations, right?
Like, if you're someone that enjoys showing love by giving gifts, then you should be with someone that likes receiving gifts, right?
But where misalignment comes in, where it sounds like it does in your case, you're not someone that likes to show love initially by giving gifts, which is a super normal thing, which is why there's so many guys that do go out and like splurge on new girls.
And you look at it and you go, what the fuck are you doing?
Just like give them a hug.
You know, that's what I want to do.
We all just have different love languages, right?
And so when I meet girls that are like, what?
Are you not going to get my nails?
I'm like, no, like, that's just not, that's not how I show a new person love.
But like, you totally deserve to be with someone that gives you that.
You know what I mean?
Yeah.
It's just a matter of love languages, right?
I think the love language isn't about what you're giving them.
It's how they receive love.
Yeah, but there's love by getting gifts.
That's what you have to do.
Yeah, that's it.
Whether you like it or not.
Sure.
It's just a matter of managing expectations, right?
There's also a difference between a love language and them expecting these things.
I just said managing expectations.
I mean, it was after the first date, you said, right?
I didn't feel disrespected.
It was like a month or so in and then of us like kind of talking and then we slept together the first time and then literally the next morning I get that text and I was like.
That's just toxic.
So that's why I flagged away.
I know that.
I agree.
Yeah, I agree.
Talking about L's, buddy.
She's like, oh, I got that.
I have to go there.
Yeah, so it was like, but after, once you guys are established.
She sets the boundaries.
She wants that.
So she's telling you, hey, this is the best thing.
Then you could talk about vacation.
That's what she likes, you know?
So she just asked for it, which I think is pretty cool.
When you were...
She could have been nicer about it.
When you were going on these dates, were you potentially expecting to meet an actual partner?
Oh, yeah.
Oh, you were?
It's not like I just, and I could, again, like, I even was not in a date with white guys who I normally don't date.
So if I really don't like the person, it was like, it's not even attractive.
I'm like, oh, I'm not going.
But my friend, she's like, I need money.
We're going everywhere.
She's like, she's a deserving person.
What you're saying, there's basically you've discovered there's an abundance of guys that are interested in a single mom, is what you've discovered.
So I'm a little bit different.
I'm not American.
People can see me as so different.
have another mentality.
I consider myself like super authentic and so different.
So when some guys like see me or like on that time like they saw me on social media and see my personality, they like, oh, I want you specifically.
I don't care you have kids or not.
They like I want to know you.
And I'm like, okay, if you can pay, I'm like, I'm going.
So again, like I was like, oh, I can, I really can make like some, maybe I can find my partner.
Yeah.
Two birds with one stone.
Hit two birds with one stone.
You find your partner and you pay for your baby.
So actually, I remember like I really liked one guy, so he paid two times for a babysitter.
And then the third time, it was like, I was like, you don't have to pay for a babysitter.
I just can go and like, again, talk in the car.
Because I already like you.
I already know you.
Like, we just can like, you know, talk in the car a little bit and that's it.
Hey, car conversations are cool.
Okay, question.
So question for you.
How many dates with different men would you say you've you went on where you requested that they pay for more than 10?
No, I guess it's around like 10 or 12 or something.
It was not a lot.
Again, like we like share kids sometimes and my friend do that.
So.
Okay.
Okay.
Makes me sad.
But so you your claim is.
I'm not.
I actually having problem too.
That's my like therapy to asking a man some help or money or anything because I can't do that.
I was raised like, oh, you can do by yourself, everything like that.
So.
Okay.
One thing really quick, I'll come back to that.
Chat, can you guys tell me if Streamlabs is not working?
There's been a couple people that said they've been trying to donate through Streamlabs, but apparently it's not working, not going through.
I'm not really sure what's going on.
Eric, can you show me the chat so I can see what the deal is?
So you were saying that, hold on, let me just see.
Cannot donate on Streamlabs.
Anybody else?
Shit.
I have no idea why that wouldn't be working.
You know you don't get pussy.
It's not working.
Clear sign.
That's why he wants to be working so bad.
I'm going to Streamlabs is not working.
Can somebody else, can anybody else try on Streamlabs?
But yeah, that's really weird.
I don't know why that's happening.
I'll try to fix it, guys.
We'll get it figured out.
Otherwise, I'll just switch the, I'll switch all the TTS over to Super Chats.
So one question for you.
Remind me, how many guys did you?
10 to 12.
10 to 12?
I don't remember, actually, because I don't count.
And this was like, oh, I'm getting money.
Okay.
I'm just counting like where's their day of paying bills and how much I have right now that on that time was like that.
Okay, but you so you consider yourself a wifey material though?
Oh yeah.
I love that.
I mean and I'm not saying this to be rude, but I think the fact that you have a child kind of you're you're not wifey material.
Why?
Right now she is.
But she already shows how she can take care of it.
It doesn't make any sense for me.
You told me right now.
Wait, Brian, what's a wifey material to you?
Yeah, what's a wifey material?
Wifey material would would would be a girl that at bare minimum doesn't have a child in tow from another father.
What?
Well why?
Why is that?
That's a great opinion.
It's just happened.
Yeah.
I feel like you're a man too and loving and passionate and like all these things to bring someone that doesn't have a dad and take them in as their own, that's really special and lucky, to be honest.
It's just not for you.
Well, I think it's sharing opinions.
We're still allowed our own opinion.
Sure.
Yeah.
Yeah.
And I don't have a double standard on this.
If a woman didn't want to date a guy because he had a kid, I'm totally fine with that.
I don't object to that.
Some women wouldn't want to date a guy who has a kid.
Maybe they want to start their own family.
Maybe they recognize that there's potential issues there.
So, yeah.
I'm like, I don't date.
Yeah.
Like, I don't date with the guys who are not ready for family or who doesn't want to have kids because it doesn't make any sense.
Like, I want to have a family.
I want to have a kid.
I'm not looking for a husband.
It's just going to happen.
I'm not like, Hincer, whatever is that.
I'm like, come on, let's look in for no, I'm not that.
But like, if you tell me clearly, I'm not sure I want to have kids, I'm like, I'm leaving.
Like, what I'm doing here.
Okay, we're going to continue moving on.
Your relationship status and current relationship status, longest relationship?
My longest relationship was two, two and a half years.
My current relationship status is single, but looking for an online boyfriend that can buy out.
Man, what an era we're in.
It's crazy.
I'm just vibing, man.
I'm a fabulous era.
So you're currently single, correct?
Yes.
When's the last time you went on a date?
The last time I went on a date was probably a week ago.
When's the last time you hooked up with somebody?
Oh my gosh.
Oh, it's been a minute.
It's been a minute.
I'm sad.
It's been a minute, a minute.
A fortnight?
Fortnite.
It's been like a couple months, probably.
14 days?
Okay.
No, it's been a few fortnights.
A few.
Four score and seven years ago.
I'm an angel.
Okay.
Fuck.
What about you over there?
Me?
Yeah.
My longest relationship was about eight years.
Current relationship status.
Taken.
Okay.
Relationship.
Okay.
How long have you been dating?
A little over a year.
Okay.
Got it.
But you're still just not looking for anything serious, right?
Still just.
No.
We're boyfriend and girlfriends.
Yeah.
I was just joking.
Go ahead.
I got you.
That was a joke.
My longest relationship was probably two years, but I was just recently in one that was five years on and off.
So I don't know if the on and off shit makes five years, but that's kind of, yeah.
I'll just say, you know what?
I'll just say two years.
But you're currently single.
Yeah, I am single.
Yes.
Okay.
How long have you been single?
About two and a half months.
Two and a half months?
Yes.
Okay.
And you said your longest was like a two-year on and on again and off again thing?
That was five years on and off.
Oh, excuse me, five years on and off.
And is that the one that recently ended?
Yes.
Okay, have you had a rebound?
No.
Oh, a rebound guy?
No, I mean, I'm at a really interesting point in my life.
Like, I'm just really steady and comfortable with being with being with myself.
And I don't know.
I'm not really looking for anything.
I'm just enjoying life.
That's how you find the right person.
Yeah, like I'm not, yeah, I have no expectations.
I'm just riding a wave.
Yeah, I'm fucking just rotting, man.
Eric, can you pull up the chat really quick?
Hey, guys, what are you guys getting an error when you're trying to donate through Streamlabs?
Is there an error that's happening?
Let me know in the chat.
I'm just going to look at it here for a couple seconds and try to troubleshoot.
Yeah, I'll have to try to switch it over to YouTube.
But I did get one that came through on Streamlabs, which is weird.
Cheeks, I don't know if you're still in the chat.
Did you get an error message?
Cheeks.
That's weird.
Mr. Cheeks, are you with us?
Hold on.
Some of his comments are so interesting.
I know.
So I'm going to have you guys answer your current relationship status and longest relationship.
I'm currently single, and my longest relationship was three years.
Should we fill it in?
How was it?
How were those comments?
The question, why did it end?
Yeah.
That's a good question.
I could hardly remember.
That was like 2017 that it ended.
When was your last relationship?
It ended in January.
Why did that end?
I basically was not.
You couldn't lift enough?
No, that's not.
I mean, put it simply, like, I basically left.
We competed at the same show, and I basically just left and didn't kind of watch her compete.
Yeah.
Why'd you do that?
Just some, a lot of things were happening within my work environment that led me to believe essentially that like she was against me in a way and I instead of communicating that I just kind of wanted to handle my own business.
And what did we learn through that experience?
Well don't date a woman that lifts more than you.
You're right, you're right.
And I'll admit that.
Like, yeah, it's a regret.
But I also told her that we would talk about it on Sunday after, and I'm like, just let me do my own thing and we can talk about it on Sunday.
Which was the day.
It's very weird that there was a competition between you two.
You don't hear that.
No, you weren't.
No, we weren't competing against you.
But you said there was some sort of competition.
Like you felt like I competed in bodybuilding and she competed in bikini.
Like we were at a show.
But it got complicated.
You said because there was a competition thing.
That's the competition.
No, there was external factors were playing into it where it led me to believe that she was not on my side as my partner.
Wasn't supporting you properly?
No, it's more like work related and it was like a he said, she said thing and I was just like, I just want to not even think about this right now and just handle my own shit.
So I was just like overly selfish and then we tried to like work it out after, but then didn't really work it out after.
RIP.
RIP.
I am currently single and the longest relationship was three years.
Did you ever test her poop?
The fuck.
He tests people's poop.
Ben does like heavy metal mineral analysis of people's not in that relationship, no.
I wasn't into that yet.
But very important, microbiome of your partner.
You don't want to be getting parasites from your partner.
Wait, wait, wait.
But parasites.
No, I'm joking.
I test heavy metals in the body.
But if your partner has parasites and you have sex with them, you're going to transfer the parasites.
So hookup culture, very dangerous for your health.
Without condom.
And with condom kissing, all of it.
Oh!
Yeah, you're going to get parasites.
Wow!
I must have everything.
What if parasites?
Does we all have parasites?
Yeah, probably.
What if your partner is vegan?
Keeps got some hot takes.
Yeah, obviously.
Isn't it mostly from meat that you get parasites?
No, no.
It can be from everywhere, but it just depends on how strong your body can fight it.
It's a myth that they just come from third world countries.
Yeah.
I mean, it's like your immune system's deficient.
You don't have all your nutrients.
You attract parasites.
Got your colours.
Oh, Asian parasites.
So you got a lot of people who are unhealthy in our world.
You got a hookup culture.
Everyone's sharing nastiness.
Go to Disneyland.
You'll see a lot of unhealthy people.
Oh, hell yeah.
Go to America, though.
I don't go to Disney.
Food's just getting worse over there.
It used to be better.
Now it's trash.
I am currently in a relationship.
It's been about a year, and it's been my longest relationship.
Aw, that's cute.
And she's in the building.
Can we get her over here?
She's a hottie.
She's beautiful.
What about you?
I've never been in a relationship over a year.
I think longest capped at like eight or nine months.
And why do you think that is?
What are your flaws?
Yeah, Grady's a lubber.
He's just too much.
Yeah, I think it really just boils down to not being in a place where like with a lot of options available, I was like centered enough to like lock in.
And now kind of got like a main thing.
So she got me these pajamas and she's in another state.
So like.
What are those?
I would call them PJs, but I guess they're just on the polar bear.
It's a polar bear.
I think or like really poorly drawn some other animal, but I think it's polar bear as well.
Very likely that the artist was attempting at a polar bear.
Have you ever seen?
But again, it could be a multitude of things.
Could be a really, really bad ant.
You said you've never been in a relationship?
No, it was over like eight or nine months.
I think that's usually a lover.
He said, but you're like a lover.
Yeah.
So it was more of the girl that was like usually the problem?
I wouldn't boil it down to that.
I would say I'm largely problematic.
I think it just boils down to like being able to recognize differences and like maybe the fact that you are one way at the beginning of a year and at the end of it you're not.
And you're like, I'm not going to keep being someone that I'm not in order to like appease someone else.
I think at a certain point you have to be spiritually selfish and look out for yourself first.
And honestly, just like a byproduct of being scatterbrained.
I think like I'm just fucking insane.
But you know, I feel like I'm getting in a good routine.
I'm starting to figure it out.
You know, doing cold plunges, yeah.
Very self-worth.
Doing massages.
Doing cold plunges.
I was thinking straight, huh?
Wild and I know that.
We did them on the way here.
We stopped by Diplo's house on the way up and did a 34-degree cold plunge.
So shouts out, Diplo.
Thank you for the cold plunge.
Sorry for getting your floor.
Diplo, we're finally friends again.
Gang.
Again?
Yeah.
We just recently met at a wedding.
Won't go into detail, but we're friends again.
You guys previously hooked up?
No, we have never hooked up.
No.
Allegedly.
Okay.
Only personality.
We have never hooked up.
Literally, I was going to say shockingly.
Didn't you have seven girlfriends?
No.
I didn't know.
Seven girlfriends.
No, that was you.
You told me that you had seven girlfriends.
I didn't know seven girlfriends.
It was a it was an interesting situation.
I was just in an open relationship with a girl.
My parents just gotten divorced.
I was probably in like a pretty low point.
And so I was just like, kind of open to whatever.
How old were you when this happened?
It's like 23, 24.
And what does that look?
What is that?
You're just analyzing it?
You handled a breakup in your grown age that way.
I just wouldn't expect it.
For sure.
Yeah, I mean, there was a lot of other shit going on, but like, also, it's just like I met a dope girl, and she happened to be by.
We were in an open relationship.
One thing led to another.
Met one girl that wanted to have three ways, met another one, and it just kind of like compounded into this like super group of girls that all women.
How did you feel in that moment?
At a certain point, it just felt normal.
You know, it was just like a regular situation.
Imagine the comments if a girl said that.
That would be crazy.
She do.
Right?
Hello.
But no, it was.
Grady, I think the way you explained it to me the first time was that you were dating a girl, and then it turned out she was dating the same girl that you were also dating.
No, no, it's not like that.
No, no.
No, so basically, one of the girls that I took out while I was dating this chick was going on a date with a girl that I had just hooked up with.
And I was like, and she was like, I want to go hook up with this girl, but I'm too nervous to do it on my own.
Will you come?
And I'm like, absolutely.
And so I was sort of like the liaison for their sexuality opening, you know?
And so that sort of like blossomed into a much.
Why'd you get out of all of that?
I guess like a volcano eruption.
Yeah, just one beautiful final goodbye, and I waved my way back to Los Angeles and never looked back.
I want to make a comment, too, on this.
Not that it matters a ton, but I mean, maybe people watching see Grady and a onesie and might make some judgments.
But Grady dates and is typically friends with some of the most beautiful women I've ever seen.
I don't know what it is about Grady, but What do you mean you don't know what it is?
Look at me.
It's like, I don't know.
I don't know why.
I have no idea why.
No, I got a fella.
We were in Croatia this summer, and he showed up with this six-foot New York runway model.
I was just like, it doesn't compute sometimes.
It could be it.
He's got to be more than that.
I don't know.
It's all about the personality.
Oh, man, he just seems like a genuine dude.
We're all about the inside.
He seems like a cool, chill, genuine...
Girls like to laugh.
That's a rounded guy.
You're a Libra.
Yeah.
I'm a Libra.
For you, I'm a Libra.
See, that's what.
That's why.
That's why.
Oh, why are you going to ask a Zodiac sign?
What?
I mean, why didn't ask like everybody's Zodiac sign?
Because he's not crazy.
We're all connected to the stars.
I believe it.
I believe it.
I think we're celestial beings for sure.
I think a lot of people put too much on it.
I think a lot of people use it as a crutch.
It might be because you don't know enough about it.
Sure, or you know too much, right?
Like, I think a lot of people will use it as a crutch and say, well, you know, I'm only an asshole on Wednesdays because the star said so.
And it's like, no, you're just being an asshole on a Wednesday and maybe take accountability, you know.
Or maybe it's not.
I think people in this day and age have a lot of trouble with taking accountability.
That's just a bottom line.
Your natal chart is basically your blueprint.
However, you get to do whatever you want with that blueprint.
So you don't have to be what you're doing.
Exactly.
That's how I feel.
I felt very aligned with a lot of stuff I've read.
I've gone to shamans.
I've done a lot of that stuff.
I mean, like, I try to find.
Yeah, I mean, I try to stay tapped in.
I don't do drugs, but I do a lot of mushrooms.
I always try to keep myself in check spiritually.
And I've definitely felt a lot of times really seen by stuff that I read with astrology.
And I think there's power to it.
I just think just like with anything else, you got to realize that you're the one in the driver's seat.
It's like the same with the religion.
You can use that, like, oh, my dad or my daughter, he said, like, one time, I'm like, I need some money.
On some point, we were talking and he was helping sometimes financially.
So I was like, I need some money for like my daughter for like clothes.
And he's like, do you get to send something or not?
He's like, oh, you know, Allah doesn't give me money.
I'm Ben Mugs.
I can see your red flames coming out of your head.
Okay, I'm going to need to get caught up on some of the chats.
Sorry, guys.
Streamlabs is broken.
I've enabled TTS on YouTube.
I just enabled it, so I did see some come through.
So I'll have to, I'm going to re-trigger them now if I can.
Eric, before I do that, can you just pull up Twitch really quick?
All right, guys, go over to twitch.tv/slash whatever.
Drop us a follow.
The link is in the description mods.
If you can just put the link there.
Drop us a follow on Twitch, twitch.tv slash whatever.
If you have a Prime sub, drop us a Prime sub.
Yo, thank you all so much, everyone, for following.
Appreciate it, guys.
Okay, let me get these chats here.
So we have, I don't know if this is going to trigger, but.
Oh, okay.
Yo, Streamlabs might be working now.
Can somebody go over there and double check and see if Streamlabs is working?
Yo, Krug, thank you, man.
Lexi in college, we would blast DJ Snake middleware, you're twerking Hollywood.
Let me fucking trigger it again.
Gang gang.
Stay tuned, baby.
One sec.
Is it not gonna?
I'm drinking a cocktail right now in your honor.
I'm talking about the money again.
Cheers to you.
All right, Stephen Krug, thank you for that, man.
Yes, bitch, I have a kid.
You have to pay for a kid.
Yeah.
Good question is: are you on my OF?
Is what I really want to know.
Yeah.
Okay, for some reason, Streamlabs is just absolutely scuffed.
It doesn't even want to trigger anything.
So that's too much energy here.
Yeah, I have no fucking idea.
Streamlabs is obviously scuffed.
I don't think it's on, I don't think it's on our end because people weren't even able to donate.
So I'm just going to read, Eric, were you still starring everything?
Yeah.
Okay.
I'm just going to have to read the soup chat.
Sorry, guys.
Streamlabs must be scuffed right now.
Yo, cheeks, thank you, man.
Thank you for the 200.
OF girls and single mothers are barely made for recreational use, let alone lifey.
These delusional thoughts have it easy to simp, giving them whatever they ask.
Brian, I'll see you soon.
I sent you the days.
Verify, please, guys.
Don't sub to OF.
It's foul and they don't give you anything back.
You're wearing a bow tie, bro.
Smile for the picture.
He's 50 and he doesn't get laid.
Would you date a guy with a bow tie?
No, potentially.
Those aren't even cool anymore.
You have zero sense of style and you're probably balding in the back.
Okay, shots fired.
Thank you, Cheeks.
Yo, Dustin Bond, thank you, man.
Thank you for the 200.
Whoa, just tuned in in this panel of high value.
Is this the panel of high value men?
Question for each dude.
How much did you pay last year to the IRS?
I paid just short of 400K.
Come get us, Daddy.
Sit right up.
Somebody get this guy on.
Dustin Bond, thank you, man.
Look at his picture.
Did you see that?
What is he running a miracle?
He's a gold medal on his neck.
He's a champion.
He's a champion.
That guy's a Chad.
Okay.
Come pay mine.
He is kind of a Chad.
My bills are high as well.
All right.
Yo, Cheeks, thank you, man.
As a man that is black and Latino, I run through girls like you and give you a nice spit.
Oh, Jesus Christ.
Oh, the thing is, is, honey, you have to pay for your women.
Yeah.
Hourly.
Also, real men of status won't ever marry any of you.
304.
What's your name?
Consider you running.
Hold on a marriage.
Let me read these guys.
It's considered you in the running with your odious behavior and endeavor.
Shut up.
I can't get any messages on labs.
Sorry, man.
Yeah, the Streamlabs is scuffed right now.
So, yeah.
And you need to pay to be heard.
Yo, Markavious Martin, thank you, man.
Sorry to you, too.
Streamlabs is fucked.
Hearing this panel give advice is like making a McDonald's fry cook, your financial advisor, or Ted Bundy, your dating coach.
You have Lexi, the ADHD grandmother of your hobbit.
There's nothing wrong with that.
A Hobbit in the onesie.
Is that me?
Is that me?
Oh, my God.
Thank you, Martin.
Thank you for that $200 feedback.
Martin can't even have a profile pick.
He's so ugly.
Wow.
Do I have any Lord of the Rings music on my stream deck?
Oh, I hope you got it.
I can run that shit up.
Are you kidding?
People spend so much money to write this day.
It's so funny.
And they're telling me, like, oh, so we're going to be able to do it.
Yo, shut up.
And a gaggle of fatherless.
Bro, it's stop.
A gaggle of fatherless digital street walkers.
Have any of you ever listened to yourselves?
Yo, Mark Wavius.
Thank you, man.
Appreciate it.
All right, we have Sebastian, $100 super chat.
Thank you, man.
Dating a single mom, you build a bond with the child.
In the event you two don't work out, you would lose the child as well that you have no rights to.
Think about how having a father figure in the child's life that then went to get milk.
Talk about childhood trauma.
Interesting.
Facts from experience.
Based.
Eric, did we miss any of the super chats?
No.
You sure?
Yeah, I don't know if so.
Okay.
Let me see if I can trigger this.
Nope.
That's not working.
That's really weird.
No idea what's going on.
Hold on.
Let me check one thing.
See if that'll do it.
Nope.
Okay.
I'll just have to read it, but it's not going to be visible on stream here.
So we have a $200 donation from, or excuse me, $100 donation from Wyatt.
Thank you, man.
Brian, I'm sorry about not making it tonight.
I can fly out from MT whenever your neck is fully healed and the podcast is up and running.
Necktat, it is essential to match the level of energy your man gives.
Who's talking back there?
Bro, why are you distracting my producer?
What are you doing?
Can you rejoin the panel or what's the deal?
Huh?
You're eating?
What the fuck, bro?
Oh, my God.
Yo, but don't be sitting next to him.
Just like go in the bathroom or some shit.
Sit on the toilet while you eat.
Let's be respectful.
All right.
Wyatt, it is essential to match the level of energy your man gives.
You seem to only bring issues to the table.
Who's this directed to, Wyatt?
I don't know.
Confirm or deny, Wyatt.
Sorry, Wyatt.
Sorry that your donation didn't come through normally.
Streamlabs is fucked.
Not sure what's going on.
I want to redirect everyone to just super chat through YouTube.
We'll just treat it.
TTS might not even be working.
So, yeah.
I'll just, we'll have to play it by ear.
Okay.
Everyone got to give their relationship status.
So my question is: all of you, most of you guys are on OnlyFans.
So have you encountered any issues with dating because of having OnlyFans?
I've had guys definitely get kind of upset, but it's like, if you're not going to pay my bills, you can't tell me to stop making my income, sort of thing, you know?
I advertise as polyamorous, so I'm pretty straightforward from the beginning.
This is what it is.
So, one question on the polyamory.
What's the most amount of partners you've had at one time?
Like, that I'm in love with.
Sexual partners.
Oh.
Love or not?
It's an intriguing question, isn't it?
Yeah, I love to know.
I've never really kept track.
Is that something you do?
Do you keep track?
Well, I'm typically one woman person.
I typically only sleep with one girl at a time.
Gotcha.
So you're monogamous, typically.
Yes.
Gotcha.
Okay.
But so, I mean, and I'm speaking concurrently, so at the same time.
So maybe not like same day, but say over the stretch of a two-week period, a month period.
I would say three or four.
Three or four.
Is that the one that's not?
I don't see them all the time.
Like, you know.
Have you ever had like seven at the same time?
No, that's a bit much.
That's a bit much.
A bit much?
Hard to keep trying.
Too much.
On Monday through Sunday.
You get your Monday man.
And like, and you're saying like Tuesday shorty.
Like, you're actually in relationships.
Polly.
Like, you're actually.
I have a girlfriend.
Yeah.
And I'm very in love with her.
And then I have a boyfriend.
Yeah.
And I'm very in love with him.
Here, I told you.
Eric, leave this up.
I'm going to read it while it's here.
Yo, VD Cars, thank you for the 200.
You want men to be traditional and pay for things, but none of you act like traditional women.
If I shared a photo of the national flags of Tonga, Albania, China, Morocco, Singapore, Tunisia, Switzerland, and Isle of Man, there would still be fewer red flags in that image than on this podcast.
I'm so traditional, but you just can see that.
You don't know.
How do you know that it went not traditional?
I'm tradition.
Who cares about tradition?
I am not traditional.
I didn't want you just saying not paying bills for women.
That's not called tradition.
That literally is called tradition.
Nobody said bills.
Oh, yeah, that's different.
Like, you don't want to be cameras.
Men being providers is them being traditional, adhering to their traditional gender roles.
What's traditional mean?
And like traditional women, it's who's staying at home and raising kids, but I can't raise a kid by myself.
And don't work.
But you can be traditional in the world.
I'm so old-fashioned.
I'm monogamous.
I'm so old-fashioned in so many different ways because I was born and raised in Russia.
It's like my mentality is so traditional and old-fashioned.
But again, how you can know?
Like, you can't, just because the way I talk, you can't see that.
I also think it's like way harder to be quote-unquote traditional in this day and age.
Like, just with how expensive just living is now, it is nearly impossible to be like a dude, like just a regular dude working a regular job and be able to provide for you and your spouse and a kid and like get a house.
Like that's insane.
It's actually impossible.
Yeah.
It doesn't operate.
With a regular job, yeah.
So like, you know, people are just kind of reaching for like fewer and fewer fruits because like you're not talking about just finding a guy that has a job anymore.
You're talking about like a very small pool of men that have managed to like beat the odds and have a career that is sustainable.
You know?
But that's why this idea of tradition, at least in America, is impossible.
It's like, doesn't exist.
I don't think it's impossible, but you do make a good point that there are certain economic realities where it makes it harder for the man to be the sole breadwinner in a family.
Everything is a trickle-down from that, isn't it?
Is a traditional woman?
Should cook a clean?
Just a question.
Should what?
Should cook and clean?
Yeah.
I mean, when I'm thinking of traditional, it's more about just your demeanor, like how you act.
Yeah.
Okay.
How do you act in a live?
Cooking and cleaning, like, that's cool.
So your girl can have an OnlyFans?
Is that a way of acting or is that different?
So I think that why wouldn't you want to date someone with her?
What if she's like super traditional, but it's her like really hobby?
And because like my friend, she's like super traditional, typical Russian woman, has two kids, she's married, but she has like her own things about like not omnipresence, but like sexual stuff.
And for her, it's like a hobby.
So it's like, but she's still traditional.
That's fine, but I think a lot of men will look at women who are really invested in their career and think, for example, a guy who wants family and kids, he's going to look at a girl who's really invested in her career and think, well, maybe she's not going to be particularly involved or wanting to be involved in the household when it comes to raising the kids.
Because, and, hey, if she wants to pursue a career, that's great.
But I think men might look at that and be like, well, maybe I want to pursue someone who might be more willing to work part-time or even not work at all and let me be with the breadwinner.
And they take care of the inner household while the man takes care of the outer household.
I totally agree with that.
Like even myself, because I run several different companies and I feel men are often intimidated by that.
And like it's a turnoff because they want, and like I even looked at the guys that I would date and they're all with somebody just like that that would take that part-time job or was just working like a babysitting job.
They were a teacher and they can just finage their way out of there.
But any girl that's running their own shit, I think it is often very intimidating for men.
Not all men, but a lot of men.
Go ahead.
I can stop.
I don't say stop my career, but I'm like, I can pause my projects if I'm really getting into the marriage and the kids.
So it's like, I still have my passion about dancing, like massage, all of that stuff.
But if I'm like getting into a serious relationship and I think like I need like put more attention in there and into the family and relationship, I can like, oh, okay, my project can wait.
And I'm like, yeah, that's the point in my life.
Not at all.
Yeah, I'm totally okay with that.
So it's like, just again, like my family is my priority.
Like my daughter is my priority.
When I have a husband, husband, my family is my priority.
I can pause the business.
I can pause everything.
In my relationship right now, I would say it's generally pretty traditional where I make all the money.
And my girlfriend, who's here in the studio, is her main goal is to just have a family as soon as possible.
And she has some career goals, but she's said, you know, from the start, like, as soon as I'm ready to have a kid, she's ready.
That's a full-time job rate.
Does her family have money?
Does her family have money?
Were her family taking care of her?
I'm taking care of her.
that?
Uh, she was, yeah.
Yeah, yeah.
mean she had a she had a job she had a internship but um well women who are independent on their own they have no they don't have an opportunity or you're just gonna be on the streets So some people have that hustle and they're working, working, working, and that's all they can do.
So it's like, okay, now I'm successful.
And now a guy comes around and I have all this.
And then suddenly they don't want you because you're too busy.
You're not hand in foot at them.
It's an issue.
You wanted to go?
Yes, I just wanted to say something to what you just mentioned.
My boyfriend himself as well, he knows I work and I'm successful.
He's successful, but he also says I don't have to work if I don't want to.
Because he could provide and he would provide because that's how he was raised and that's what he would want to do for the woman that he loves.
So I love that you're doing that.
Okay, I'm going to do a couple super chats here.
By the way, I think I have TTS working on YouTube.
It might be working on YouTube.
It might not.
But what I'll do is, if you are at the Super Chat Shaker for 200 and it's just like not, it doesn't work, I'll try to read it immediately as possible.
So it's almost like a TTS.
Thank you for hanging in there with me, guys.
Okay, so did we do this one?
Yeah, I think we did that one.
We did this one.
We had cheeks here.
Thank you for the 100.
As a 50-year-old balding black man, no matter what insults are thrown at me, you still will never be respected by anyone with your current activities and only homies.
For the record, my bow tie still costs more than your whole outfits combined.
Kobe, Brian, verify days.
Hey, you got him on Cornball, bro.
The fact that you just said Kobe, you're corny.
You got him on the balding part, Lexi.
I already know he's bald money.
And what is respected by anybody?
We're respected by plenty of people and people that we care about.
I don't really care about anyone's opinion other than people that agree 100%.
All right, we have Minnesota Liz here.
Thank you for the 100.
The only comments these women will listen to will be the comments from the children's mouths when they are embarrassed by how you presented yourself.
Guys, as a custody evaluator, this OF world makes it easier for all you men in court to gain custody.
That's actually false, but okay.
Is that true?
Is that true?
No, that's absolutely false.
Did you call Minnesota Liz?
Oh, wow.
Aren't you?
Did you call Minnesota Liz a Karen?
Sorry.
Is she a Karen?
Go home to your hubby.
Girls have to put other girls down.
Okay, we have Captain Bamalam.
Yeah, something's going on there, Liz.
$100.
Thank you, man.
Hey, Brixon, I'm just dropping by to say, keep up the good work, my brother.
Thank you, man.
I've been working on my certifications, head down and focused.
Well done.
I pray you and your family are in good health.
Shout out to the chat.
Love you guys.
Yo.
We love it.
Okay, thank you.
Yo, Captain Bamalam, thank you, man.
Captain Bamalam.
Thank you, man.
Appreciate it.
Very nice of you.
Really appreciate the support, Captain.
Here, I'll do it.
I'll give you a little Janan Clausen, Merci Buku for the 137 Canadian.
I know over six families with 18 plus children families doing just fine on single father income.
The fathers, for the most part, are your average contractor.
It is very much possible to make it and be successful, stop the cap, and become a proper man.
Working 500 hours a week where your children don't see you.
Okay.
Oh, wow.
Depends on the job, but yeah.
Sean's fire.
How city are you at?
What country are you?
Yeah, I'd love to see the breakdown of that economy.
I really want to see the house.
I want to see how they live.
How well are they really living?
18 children.
Okay.
So everyone here lives in LA, right?
I mean, you used to live in LA.
Miami.
That's so crazy.
Have you ever lived in LA?
Did you guys traditionally do this with UCSB students?
Yeah.
Yeah.
Yeah, we still get UCSB students on, but it's just all transplants now.
Yeah, it's just people commuting, I guess.
We made the truck today.
It's harder to get UCSB students on because we're getting a little too big at this point.
Some of them don't want to talk about some of this shit.
Yeah.
So.
Yeah.
Okay, so let's talk about dating in LA.
Since most of you have live in LA or dating around the world.
Oh, it's just trash everywhere?
Yes.
These men all have wives, girlfriends, cheaters.
Let's talk about men.
Let's talk about women.
Sure.
What do you want to say about men, Lexi?
I just feel like most men, I'm going to say most, are unloyal.
Most men are unloyal.
Especially with me, please.
Disloyal.
Disloyal.
Are disloyal.
When you say most men, can you assign a percentage?
I would say about 85%.
85% of men.
Yeah.
You think are unloyal?
Yes.
Do you have any guys in the friend zone?
Yes.
Do you think any of them would be loyal to you?
No.
Even the guys in your friend zone.
Yeah, and most of my guy friends will say that yes, every guy that they know has cheated.
So there's not a guy that's just like super down for you, but you're just not like, he's not exciting.
He's in your friend zone.
He's safe, not exciting.
You know, maybe I can think of one.
Okay.
But you're not attracted to him.
I, yeah, I just never really liked him.
I feel like the chemistry just wasn't there like that.
Just wasn't there.
I feel like what's helped me, like, I really feel that for me, and I'm going to go against this a little bit, men really, for me, like, aren't that unloyal because I just have been able to create like a really safe space where I'm just very straightforward and I give them the space to say whatever they want.
I don't try to control them.
And when I noticed I took that away and they took that away off me, it's just like straight vulnerability.
And it's like this beautiful communication I get to have with you.
I've tried that and they still lie.
I have another problem.
I'm not saying it's easy, but that's helped me a ton.
Let me just.
I bet if you go through their phone, you'd find something.
Let me see if you can.
I don't want to touch that.
I think for equality.
What do they find?
I don't, I don't know.
Okay, let me just address Lexi's thing really quick.
So, I mean, you said 85% of men are disloyal.
Are all the men that you've dated, they've all been disloyal?
All of them?
No.
Okay.
Most of them?
Have you ever cheated?
No.
I'm not a cheater.
No.
Never.
Never, not once.
Okay.
I'm a loyal girl.
I smile just because I'm smiling, but no.
I'm a very loyal girl, and I expect that back.
And I don't think they've all cheated, but I do think that they didn't have to go as far as like hooking up or kissing, but like texting or like doing some things in their phone that I wouldn't like.
Yes, every boyfriend, I most probably.
Wouldn't it technically be cheating, though, if you're messaging people on OnlyFans?
That's kind of like...
Who said we're the ones messaging?
No.
No.
But if you're replying to them, I'm saying.
No, I don't think so.
Do you do content with other creators?
No.
That's just me, though.
I have another problem.
No one wants to have family.
Like, I'm really going to date, and I'm like, I'm not looking for a husband, but I wish I can have a family.
And people are like, oh, I'm not ready, blah, blah, blah.
that stuff or they like oh one day Guys don't want to commit.
They don't want to have kids in the family.
But you just said you don't want a husband?
I want a husband.
I want to have a husband.
I want to have kids.
And like, if I, I was trying to date like my age, like 29, 20, even like 30 or 31.
It's still not age, specifically in LA.
Like, it's that age, like, oh, they just still figure out their shit.
They hardly pay their own bills.
So they're not ready financially, emotionally for any kind of family.
Have you tried guys that have kids already?
Oh, yeah, sure.
And they still.
Oh, no, they're okay.
It was just another thing.
It's not about the kids.
So again, like, I love to date with the guys who has already kids.
But, yeah.
But they don't want a family, but they are.
No, they want families.
Just guys with the kids, they have another thing.
Sometimes they like, oh, I'm not sure.
Like, I want to have like people so scared to get divorced.
They like, I don't want to married again if they had a kid and got married before.
Like, I don't want to marry again just because I'm scared.
I'm going to divorce again.
And I don't want to go again for that shit.
Because women, most of the time, takes everything.
It's like all that custody is just like pain or wherever child support.
All right.
I'm going to do these super chats here.
Hold on.
We have Minnesota the Liz.
Thank you for the 100.
Karen's back.
Here.
Lexi, can you read this?
Oh, Karen, you say.
OF is how you get attention from men.
Paying to see your snatch.
I get money by giving attention to father's rights and no snatch required from me.
Only respect.
Guys, you'll find better parenting advice on the back of a trucker's magazine.
What is attention to father's rights?
What's that mean?
I don't get that.
Father's rights.
Like mother's rights, but father's rights.
Can I share my opinion on this one?
But she doesn't.
I don't show my snatch.
So, bitch, I make more money than you ever will without showing snatch.
You don't know snatch.
No, I'm not making all my OnlyFans.
The kidney only baby.
And I still am the most subscribed person on OnlyFans caring.
You will never be anybody.
You're the most subscribed on OnlyFans?
Yeah.
Wait, really?
Isn't there like there?
I am.
Jeez.
I think in terms of OF getting attention from men, I think that so many men are in our DMs, honestly, degrading us as we don't get attention.
You want to message me?
You have to.
That's not how we get attention from men.
I think she was talking about the money.
You're giving us so much attention.
No, OF is how you get attention from men.
I get attention walking on the street looking like a homeless person.
Yeah, homeless people give us way more attention than anyone.
Especially in Vanuatu's, like in LA.
That's crazy.
When you're looking the bummiest, too.
Just like that.
So, like, right now?
What?
OnlyFans is just the way the man is talking.
Like, you know how we go to the gas station and it's like, oh, he's the bum that like even though they're the sweetest when we're looking like terrible, like death.
Yeah.
And they're so sweet all the time.
Followers.
Everybody is usually really nice to me.
I don't know.
So we get attention from the bum, okay?
Doesn't that have to be on OnlyFans?
All right, VD Cars, think for the 100.
Most men equals most men you want.
I was actually about to say this, i.e. high-value men.
The average guy would be loyal to you, but you don't want those guys.
And the high-value men, yo, can you?
No, we've had very low value.
Shut up.
We've had low-value men in our lives as well.
Guys, if I'm reading the super chats, shut the fuck up.
Let me read them, please.
I've told you guys multiple times.
All right.
And the high-value men have the options, which is why they don't pick you.
Yeah, I mean, Lexi, I was going to say, you said a lot of people.
No, I dated a guy that worked at Universal.
I would say he's a very low-value man, to be honest.
And they're still the same.
The guys, you're complaining about all these men being disloyal, but it's the guys that you're picking.
I've dated, like I said, a very wide variety of what they do for a living, what they look like, what ethnicity they are, and it's all the same.
Would you say typically you date fairly attractive men?
No, not all.
Mostly it's for me, it's about chemistry and personality.
Narcissists?
Yes.
Possibly, yes.
Okay.
You date narcissists or you?
Yes.
Okay.
I tend to date more of the narcissist, yes.
Well, that could certainly, I mean, by your own admission, the fact that you date narcissists.
Not all, but some.
Can you stop interrupting?
The fact that you date narcissists would indicate to me that I would suspect someone who's a narcissist is more likely to cheat on you.
Yes, they're psychopaths.
I agree.
I agree.
But narcissists, I was going to say that about when you said 85% of men are disloyal or cheaters, I would disagree because I think there's a lot of narcissists, men out there that gaslight women that are totally not cheaters, but they are in control of the women and they're abusive in all different aspects, but they're not cheaters.
So I wouldn't say that men are disloyal.
Look, 85% of men are disloyal.
I would just say maybe it's a 50-50, but I would say there's a lot more narcissists and gaslighting assholes out there hurting women than cheaters.
I literally just put that on my Twitter the other day.
I was like, what's worse?
A cheater or a narcissistic asshole who's abusive emotionally, mentally?
I just know all the guys I'm around have said that they don't know one person that has not been loyal.
So that says something about that.
I mean, that says a lot about the people you're hanging out with.
I mean, I have good guys around me.
I mean, I think like narcissist guys are high value.
I'd probably put them at like a little bit of a task.
Well, they care about themselves more, I think.
You know, physically, they take care of themselves, and that's kind of attractive.
Yeah, but they're like an actor psychopath.
In a place like LA, like so many narcissists around because everyone just cares about superficial things, to be honest.
I think that's why it's so hard to date in LA.
It's like so many models, fitness instructor, like you're like, At the same time, like when you're on a certain level of your conscious of like your business, of like yourself in general, you can't date a regular guy.
It's like, yeah, I had the guys who was like really nice to me, and but they, I don't say they, they could provide me a regular life, but I am too ambitious for that.
You're too ambitious, yeah.
How much money do you make right now?
Um she said ambitious, that's different.
I don't know.
I don't want, I don't want to say because like six figures, huh?
No, no, no.
Well, you're you're 28, you have a child in tow.
I mean, I just moved to America.
Like, don't forget that.
Like, I just started from the scratch here.
Okay, so, question.
What in so you said you want an ambitious partner then?
Huh?
You want an ambitious partner?
Do you want a successful partner who's currently successful?
No, we can grow together.
I'm good.
How much does a guy need to make per year for you?
I don't have that.
I don't care because I had guys who has a lot of money, but they spend a lot because they like have super luxury lifestyle.
And I had a guy who's like making the same money, but he has a regular lifestyle.
So he saved more than he likes spending.
So I don't care how much he's making.
I care how much he provides for me and like our family.
About his financial decisions.
Yeah, yeah.
They should be smart about money because I am smart about money.
I'm like saving.
I want to buy properties.
I don't want to.
I don't want to work every fucking day.
I want to work.
You say you're smart about money, but you previously had to have men pay for your babysitters to go on dates.
I was broken as fuck.
I just moved to America.
She immigrated to give her family a better life.
You never experienced that.
Are you American?
Well, I was born in France, so I have French citizenship and I have a U.S. You were born as a citizen.
You was not moving to another country when you were an adult.
And you're not a woman.
You would never have an immigrant.
And you're white.
What does my skin color have to do with this?
No, what does my skin color have to do with this?
White has privilege.
What do you mean?
Why is America?
reject that but so why why are we bringing it's so different don't you think it's a bit Don't you think it's a bit racist to bring up skin color in a dating conversation?
No, I've heard you say this before.
It's not racist at all.
There's nothing racist being said.
To highlight someone's skin colour.
I'm conscious that there's a privilege being that way instead of a woman.
If you're coming to America seven months ago from another country, that's she's going to have it.
Hold on.
Okay, okay, sure.
If there was a black girl at this table and I was attempting to dismiss her point because of her skin color, you don't think that would be racist.
There's no dismissing a point.
That was the whole point of this.
You were saying that I don't have, because I'm white, I don't have.
You can't relate.
You don't know what you're talking about.
Well, I'm a human.
You're not a woman.
I said woman too.
You didn't say anything about that.
Well, I'll address that after.
I'll address that after, but I can't have an opinion on things because I'm a human with a functioning brain and I'm capable of rational.
That's what I mean.
Can you stop cutting me off?
Can you stop cutting me off, please?
Yes, Brian.
Bro, what's the you?
You've got, I mean, I'm not surprised your issues with men.
You've got an attitude.
I've been perfectly polite to you, but this is not an attitude.
If you can't.
I mean, you're interrupting me.
You're cutting me off.
Yes, Brian.
You're being a little conversational.
It's a conversation.
We're going back and forth.
Okay.
Anyway.
So to dress the woman thing, I don't see how being a woman immigrant makes it more complicated than if you were a male immigrant.
I would assume it's actually harder to be a male immigrant.
And single mom than single mom?
I don't think so.
You have more responsibility for a kid.
You have to take care of your kids.
You're a single dad.
If you want to do one-to-one, then you'd have to think a single dad.
But you're not single dad.
I'm not an immigrant either.
This is a hypothetical scenario.
So basically, the way I moved to America and the way like the first months after I moved was happening, it was like too crazy.
So I was in that position where I have no, I had a lot of choice, but just because I have something that I can do, like, okay, right now I'm that position.
I can do that.
I can make this money.
I can be smarter than everybody else.
And that's it.
So I don't think it's like an issue.
And yeah.
No, it started off saying that he's saying that you are not smart with your money because of what you did.
No, I'm so smart.
I was so smart about the money.
I think, I agree, but I think when you come to any country, it doesn't even matter if you were born here and now you hit rock bottom.
If you need to do whatever you had to do to feed your child, then it is what it is.
Not like she's out there on corners doing whatever she needed to do.
No offense to those people, but I'm just saying, like, it could have been worse.
You can offend them.
If you want, you can offend the streets.
You got to do what you do.
You have to do some bullshit before you become a great person.
It's just offend the prostitutes.
They're watching right now.
No, I don't want them.
I don't want to.
Catch your bag, sis.
Catch your bags.
Earlier, you were saying that you didn't care how much your partner made, right?
Huh?
You were saying you didn't care how much your partner made?
I mean, it doesn't.
I don't care about the numbers.
I care if you provide, everybody would.
Shouldn't matter how much he makes if he's trying to provide.
Huh?
Shouldn't it matter how much he makes if he's trying to provide?
Yeah, and you said.
No, I want a successful person.
So then you care about it.
It's not about the numbers.
It's about mentality.
Wealth is here.
It's about mindset.
Those two ideas are contradicting each other right now.
What exactly?
But you could be with a guy who makes a million dollars a year who spends 12 million or a guy who makes 100k a year.
Exactly what I'm saving.
That's what I'm talking about.
How much do you need him to save?
I don't want numbers.
Why are you so obsessed with the numbers?
You said so long as he provides for me.
Be specific.
What do you mean by provides for you?
Provides for our family.
So again, I'm going to work too just because I love that.
I wish I can just like being a mom, but right now I can't.
So my perfect picture of my dream life, it's having multiple properties, like my own and my husband has.
Have a lot of kids, has a babysitter, a huge house, and not just only one because I'm probably going to live somewhere between America and Asia.
What does it take to get all that?
Yeah.
What do you mean?
What does it take to achieve that level of status?
By myself or with my partner?
Oh, that's different.
Because I know how I achieve by myself.
Financial, right?
That comes down to the finances, right?
Yeah.
So you're going to want a guy to at least match your level of income, right?
Or exceed it, correct?
Again, I'm not looking for a rich man.
I don't want to.
We can grow together.
It's about mindset.
So longer than the numbers.
I'm on a date and I can see.
So the number doesn't count.
She'll grow with a bunch of man.
As long as you're working toward that.
He's only making $100K a year.
He's not going to get you that big house with a babysitter.
Not right now, but she says she's willing to work toward that.
We can work towards that.
I don't want to, I don't need to reach guy right now.
Like, I don't care.
As long as I was like driving.
I don't like luxury stuff.
Like, I spend my money.
But at money, for education, at some point, even if it's not.
Money matters, yes.
Obviously.
I have a kid.
Do you know how much money kids like really?
I want to have like five kids.
And I don't want to, I want to have a big family.
I want to have a helper, a babysitter, whatever.
I was more pointing out the fact that a male providing for his woman and not caring how much a male is making is completely contradictive and it goes against each other.
When I say I don't care about their numbers, I don't have like my man should have like one million of that.
Because again, depends on how much he's spending, how we spend it together, which kind of lifestyle he has.
Like, I have my own lifestyle.
I don't know.
Like, it's why you put the numbers, like, exactly.
But in the long run, that number is going to matter if you want that big house and that babysitter and everything.
So, again, it's about ambition and mindset.
I get that.
It's about ambition, yes.
But then, like, what if he is not able to achieve it?
Like, at a certain point, he's at a time.
He can't just have like, he's at the top of his job.
I am, as a woman, I'm a neck.
And the man in the house is a head.
So, I know how feminine energy and the smart woman works.
So, they just like help their husband to achieve some goals.
So, again, like, I see the man, you're successful.
You know, what are you doing?
You're growing.
We started dating.
And I can, as a woman, I can like just help you to grow in your business.
Because, again, like, when you have a woman who supports you, who gives you all the love and everything you need?
Because most of the time, I'm asking a man, what do you want from a woman?
I get, I'm so traditional.
I'm cool, clean.
I love that stuff.
But they're like, oh, I'm okay with that.
I don't need that.
I need support.
If I'm struggling, but I'm like growing, I need my woman comes to me and I'm like, I'm with you.
No matter what you're doing, right now, like, we're making $1 million.
Tomorrow we're going to lose that, but you're still with me.
This is hard.
That woman who's going to be loyal.
I'm going to stay with that man.
I think it's pretty based what she's saying.
I don't know.
I guess I'm on the same level.
I understand him.
And I guess I understand.
I understand what she's saying.
I don't think it's.
I don't think it's crazy.
I understand.
You're saying he might not be making the money that you want now, but if over time you work together, you provide him support, he works his ass off, then you'll have your three houses, your nanny.
Of course, because I'm Russian, I don't have these levels of money.
She's Eastern European.
I think I can relate a little bit.
I happen to have had a relationship with a half-Ukrainian, half-Russian woman with two kids.
So I could see the situation.
Now you tell us?
Now you say this?
I was debating.
It was like, is it my place?
Should I have information about that?
So, yeah.
Oh, you know the mindset.
I know.
You should have spoke a long time ago.
Yeah, what the hell?
Don't touch the mic like that, man.
What are you doing, bro?
Come on, man.
Okay.
This is what the audio is real.
It's so soft and tender.
It's just enjoyable.
Chat, were you hearing him?
Chat, were you hearing him?
Eric, show me the chat.
Were you hearing him like touching the microphone like that and shit?
Yeah.
Could you hear that?
The muffling or whatever the fuck.
Mike, I think he's talking to you, Mike, Nazi.
Not really.
Oh, no, no, no.
All right, guys, don't touch the microphones right here.
That's where the fucking audio is coming through.
All right.
It's pretty divisive.
Yes, I'm not sure what that is.
Should we do some breathing exercises?
I have breathing strips for everybody.
We could take some deep inhales.
Yo, shut the fuck up.
What are you doing?
Do you want to say that to a guy, so don't say that to us.
I'm just a little screwed up.
Because the guy will punch you in the head, but you know we can't, so don't test us.
She's just a screen.
Yo, you're screaming on my podcast.
What are you doing, guys?
She's letting it out.
That's all.
She was letting out her anger.
Just letting it out.
Look, there's been a couple issues so far tonight, man.
You're touching the microphone.
You're on your phone.
I asked, just please maybe leave the microphone on the desk.
Okay?
I think you need a spa day, Brian.
No, I think it's just basic.
It's just basic decency.
No, it's just basic decency.
There's people who have listened to it.
Courteous.
He doesn't want them to hear all this.
Yeah, like I'm trying to run a show, guys.
This is a professional show.
I'm going into their ear, too, like, right in their ear.
Headphones.
All right, I'm going to do some super chats.
Okay, we have MD here.
I'm here for more economic from the musician onesie Hobbit.
Wondering from the OF girls in Russian Fraudster, where they draw the line between taking babysitter money and actual payment for sex.
If a guy offered you 1G or 5Gs for the full night, would you turn it down?
Yeah.
Yes.
Yeah.
Obviously.
I didn't have sex for money.
Yeah, none of us.
I didn't say we're prostitutes just because you're on OnlyFans.
Doesn't mean you're selling sex for money.
That's very, very different.
All right, we have A.A. Ron Martinez.
Thank you for the 100 man.
Seriously, best thing you can learn from tonight's podcast is to stay as far away from girls like Lexi as possible.
Not even recreational use with attitude like that.
This kind of girl is not worth the drama and certainly doesn't deserve the attention she would demand.
Your response.
That's all you got.
You got anything more to say to Martinez?
No, that's it.
We love you, Lex.
Thank you.
Lucia, thank you for the 16 million Indonesian.
I don't know what the R is.
Can the guests stop talking over the host, especially the women?
Traditional women with act classy more than trashy and supposedly have more humility to listen.
It's his podcast.
Calm down.
It's not like your words bring exemplary value to this conversation or society.
Okay, then tell me why Brian has all of us here.
Yeah, maybe just Brian and he's just going to talk to Lucy.
This is what makes a podcast.
Please suck on that.
But why are you watching?
There's so many people.
It's just hard to, and we're talking about like a hot topic.
Maybe Brian should get this.
So people can just listen to you talk all day long, Brian.
Yeah, Lucia.
How about that?
That's a good idea.
I didn't really come here to fight with the unphased.
This is what these podcasts are about, honey.
We put our on the table.
Well, just do me.
I need a joint.
Yeah.
I'm having a great time.
There's a certain decorum that should be observed when someone's trying to operate a professional production.
That's all I'll say.
I can respect that.
Okay.
Let me just check if we have any from if Streamlabs is working.
Again.
We know it gets clicks.
This.
All right.
Hold up.
let's see here okay so you were talking about you know we we touched a little bit about you know you wanting a guy who's ambitious right And you wanting multiple properties and whatnot.
Do you want to get married again?
Huh?
Do you want to get married again?
Oh, yeah.
I want a husband and a kid's.
Okay, what's the ideal age of the guy you'd be looking to marry?
I would say th between 33 and my maximum, I guess like 42.
42.
Okay.
And by what age would you like to get married again?
Huh?
By what age would you like to be married, ideally?
Like my age?
What age do you want to be when you get married?
Oh, like I can marry tomorrow.
Okay.
I'm like ready right now.
Boys line up.
I'm like.
It's like tonight.
I can go.
Okay, so you currently have one kid.
Do you want to have more kids?
Yeah, five, six.
I don't care how, how, I mean, there's certain biological realities.
You're 28, so I mean.
So.
Well, how many kids do you want?
I told you.
I mean, three to six.
between three and six and seven if i am uh me and my husband we like have a successful relationship family We're rich and we have help from our family.
Again, maybe babysitters.
I can have a lot of kids.
I'm okay with being pregnant.
I'm okay with breastfeeding my kids.
I'm okay with that.
Okay.
How many?
So.
Okay, five.
Five.
Just get to the point.
Does the guy have to be black?
How many?
He has to be black.
Oh, sure, yeah.
Okay, has to be black.
Take him off the table.
When I say I date only black guys, thank you for reminding me.
Only black.
Okay, so you want five kids.
How much of the family income do you personally want to contribute?
So 50%?
I don't have these thoughts.
Well, to be honest, I don't know.
So you want to have five kids.
Do you want to be working during all those pregnancies?
No.
i'm gonna have passive income if i'm talking about my money but again like your money or our money I hope I will find a person who can provide for the whole family without me putting my money in our family, but I'm okay putting my money, spending my money on my kids or on some needs in our family.
Don't do that look because I'm, again, I'm so traditional.
I care about the kids.
You're making money.
But earlier you were saying how you want to also be working and you don't really care.
When I say working, it doesn't mean I go to the office and I don't work nine to five.
I don't do a regular thing.
You either want a woman to work or you don't want a woman to work.
Where do you guys stand?
Because at this point we can't work because then we can't lock down a guy.
And then if we don't work, we're fucking looking for your money.
So where is it?
Where does that leave us women?
Well, I'll come to that if you can remind me later.
I'm going to continue with you.
So.
The way I see I'm working, I go to my social media or like I'm, I know that I have like multiple properties.
It makes me money, passive income, so I just control sometimes.
Or I have a manager who controls that shit.
And I have social media.
Like everything just already working on me passively.
So I don't have to work every day and control that shit like I do right now.
Okay.
So, and you want five kids.
You don't want to be working while you are working, while you are pregnant with your kids and perhaps raising them in infancy.
So ideally you want, it sounds like you want a guy to take care of 100% of the household income.
Again, I'm flexible enough, I'm smart enough, and I understand if a man, my husband, who I have a kid with, has some issues with his business and I has money, I 100% put it in my family.
It's my family.
It's our family.
I'm not like that selfish.
But can you just give me a percentage?
How much of the family income do you personally want to contribute?
0%, 50%.
Putting my money in our family?
Yeah.
How much of the family income do you personally want to contribute?
Zero percent, 50%?
Okay, say 50%.
You want to be 50-50, but you just, I mean, that's not, that kind of contradicts what you just said because you said while you are pregnant with, you said you want to have five more kids and you already have one.
Are you talking about pregnancy?
Are you talking about like between pregnancy or like while I'm breastfeeding?
Well, if you're going to have to do that.
It's a different stage, like where you, when I'm pregnant, I don't want to work at all.
So I'm like stopping my businesses or like I have something who taking care of all the time.
Yeah, you're going to be pregnant pretty much for five year period.
But she's saying she wants passive income so she doesn't have to physically be working and she still has income coming in.
I mean, but you would have to.
I'm just telling you that past, do you know how passive income?
Yes, but you have to do something to set up that passive income.
So right now I'm working, yeah.
I don't have a family.
I'm.
I'm setting up all my businesses.
Okay, so how much passive income do you anticipate having?
Okay, when people make a visual board, just all that stuff.
Just a quick answer.
No, you're asking me a number.
I don't know because I know which kind of car I want, which kind of lifestyle.
I know how I want to fill it.
I don't have numbers in my house.
I'm telling you, I don't know.
That's fine.
Then let's talk about that house size.
Huh?
You said you want multiple properties.
Let's say your primary residence.
How big do you want your house to be?
I want to land like 20 acres.
20 acres?
In LA or Tennessee.
Or Atlanta.
Okay, so 20 acres.
I mean, maybe that's landscaping square foot of the actual house.
I don't know.
Okay.
How many bedrooms would you like in your primary residence?
Depends on that time.
You say you want six kids, right?
So maybe a master bedroom and then you want seven bedrooms.
Seven bedrooms.
How many baths?
God damn.
The same.
Seven?
Okay, that's fine.
You're going to be manifesting.
You better know what you want.
I know which kind of house I want.
It's just not in my mind right now.
You have too many questions.
Do you currently live in California?
Yeah.
Do you want to stay in California?
No.
Okay, so you'd be open to having this house somewhere outside of California.
Yeah.
Okay.
Do you know a specific place?
Orlando?
Orlando?
Oh, yeah, Bali, Mexico.
Like, I have multiple properties.
And again, like I said, I want to live between America and Asia, probably like Thailand, Bali.
I'm just confused.
You said previously that you don't really care about having a luxury lifestyle, but having multiple properties in major cities.
When I say luxury lifestyle, it's like having their brands or yards.
I don't know, like boats.
Well, there is something luxurious.
Spending money, like traveling.
I mean, I love travel.
Okay, so perhaps the decor might not look luxurious, but it is a luxurious lifestyle to have multiple properties.
If you have a huge land, it doesn't should be luxury.
And I'm into sustainable life.
And I...
You want like a farm somehow?
Yeah, I will definitely have a farm, garden.
Obviously, I'm not going to do that.
Everything by myself.
I have to have a lot of stuff.
That's still luxurious, though.
Okay, so.
And yeah, it's like if you're talking about having just the land in California, it already sounds luxury.
But when I say luxury, it's like I'm talking about like you want cars too, I assume, right?
How many cars would you like to have at your primary residence?
I have to have my own car, family car, and I don't care how many cars have my husband.
Okay.
And are you okay if they're regular cars?
Would you like a nice mid-tier luxury car?
I don't know what's a luxury car for you.
My dream car is cheap and $50,000 car.
Yeah.
You'd like a multiple $50,000, at least two $50,000 car.
Oh, family car is going to be like big.
And we have like five kids probably gonna be two cars.
I don't know.
Okay.
Do you want to be vacationing regularly?
I don't do vacations.
I mean, I would like to go on vacation with my husband, but I am more.
So when I go to another country, it's not like I stay in a hotel.
So I'd rather to go to another country for three months or get an apartment for three months and live in like a local.
So I don't call it vacation.
So like traveling.
I'm going to go to Hawaii, go to, you know, vacation, go to Europe, whatever maybe.
Yeah, but again, like, I'm more like exploring.
I don't stay in a hotel.
Again, I'd rather to go not in vacation, which they talk in like two weeks.
I will go maybe with my kids for like two months.
And go to different areas.
Yeah, I definitely love travel.
Okay, so, and that includes international travel.
And you said you want to have multiple properties, so you'd be going between these multiple properties.
Okay.
So keeping all this in mind, and I know you didn't really quite want to give a number previously, keeping all of what you just said in mind, what would your husband's income need to be to facilitate that lifestyle?
I will not ask that question because I don't know.
I'm not American.
I even don't know how much certain things cost.
Currently, currently, what would he have to make for that to happen?
Currently, what would happen?
She doesn't care.
She believes that.
Why I should like, oh, I have to do like my husband, like, doing this job.
I don't care which kind of dog he is.
It doesn't matter what his job is.
How about this?
What percentage of men make enough to facilitate the lifestyle?
Oh, it's like really low.
And if we're talking about like black guys, it's like really low.
So less than 1%.
Let's do the calculator.
We should do the calculator on this.
How are you going to do that?
So my question to you is, first off, what you've just described, you're looking at a less than 1% guy.
You're looking at a manifest that's so different.
I'm sitting here and I build an image of life and their family, which I want.
So it's, you're just not in this, you're just not spiritual, so you will not understand me.
You're like super.
I don't say clothes mind.
I actually said, I think Brian is relatively spiritual.
He has some like Eckhart Toll books back there.
But maybe not enough spirituality.
I'm trying to be realistic.
As a man, I'm like a little bit different.
I'm wild.
Okay, I'm wild.
I'm crazy.
I like to consider myself as a wild woman because everybody keep, even my friends keep telling me like, oh, you want this man?
And you deserve that.
You're okay with that.
But he also has, you also want a black man.
And I'm like, yes, and I will get that.
100%.
You're not going to get it.
You are solid.
I will come to you.
Swear to God.
I promise.
I will come to you in a few years when I have kids and a husband.
And I will call you.
And I will send you a picture because I want to come Listen, there is no way.
So I'm struggling for, like, I don't say all my life, but my life is not easy.
And the last seven years of my life, the craziest one, after I got pregnant, it's like the craziest.
Like, I'm in stress almost every time, last five years.
I'm okay right now.
It doesn't buy happiness.
And I don't believe that I deserve like their bare minimum.
I'm not.
I know that I will meet a person who I deserve.
Because right now, I know that dating in LA sucks.
And I had this mindset.
So I changed my mindset.
Like, oh, I will get a really nice guy in LA.
And I just have to manifest and think about that, concentrate on that.
And I started dating a guy who's like awesome.
They're like, oh my God, I was like, I have so many options because, oh, this guy in eyes, he's like lore.
He's a smart.
He's like super polite.
These guys, he's like fashion designer, but still like very spiritual and very like super successful, not like too artistic, like crazy.
And I'm like, ah, I'm changing my mindset.
So I'm getting these like successful guys.
They're not rich.
They're regular guys, but they're getting already their own shit.
They can afford living in the two bedrooms just because they want and all that stuff.
So it's like, you're not dating a guy who's like renting a room in LA.
I'm not dating like these guys.
And I already see that.
I was like, I can potentially build a fucking empire with this guy just because he's smart, he's successful, I'm the same.
And we can build together.
I want to have the flag of my family.
I want to have like specific stuff and like, you know, just build an empire, not just like a regular family.
I'm going to build empire.
Okay.
I'm not saying this to be mean, but you're delusional.
I'm not saying that's insane.
I don't care.
But you're delusional.
Okay, I don't care.
I'm super excited because like you.
And no one believed me.
My mom doesn't believe me.
No, all my friends, they like.
It would be like high.
I would love for you to look if you prove me wrong that's great for you I'm not going to prove you.
I don't care.
I'm just going to like.
But that would be great for you.
However, you're looking for a less than 1% man.
Yes, you are.
She's a 1% female.
No, she's not.
You're not.
No, she is.
You're not.
You don't know me.
You don't know what I put on the table in relationships.
The most.
You're a single mother.
You are not.
are not I'm not saying this to be mean but you are not are you mean let me finish okay you're You are not in the 1% of desirable partners out there.
You're just not.
You might be a fantastic person.
You might be a fantastic person.
You're not dating a guy who's like, oh, I would love to care about your kid because I want to have a kid.
I see you as a great mom.
And it's not even the guys who I'm dating.
It's like a bunch of people in my DMs.
They feel my energy.
They see me on the social media as a really authentic person.
They like always make compliments how great mom I am.
And yeah, I'm okay with that.
With your opinion.
This is your opinion.
I don't care.
I mean, that's wonderful that you're authentic.
I think authenticity is a great trait to have.
However, I just based off of all the things you've provided, you're looking for a less than 1% man.
Oh, great.
And it's possible, but it's not probable.
So what, or do you want me to lower my standards?
what what would your like well i if you want to find I'd rather to be alone than agree with their bare minimum period.
That's why I'm saying that.
But that's why I feel like I would disagree with you because if you find somebody who's like, that's your freaking real love and you have that connection and this is all and he's not going to be able to give you exactly that.
Or what if he can't even have kids?
Okay, whatever.
You can't be like super bad.
I was like, no.
Okay, but then what if, okay, so then again, like I can't.
And then what if money will come?
What if he has the money and he's amazing, the best person ever, and he's black, but he can't have children?
We're just not going to a point where I figure out that he's a great person.
Like if a person tell me, if a person tell me like, I can't have a kid and it's like 100% like, and I don't want a kid, we just not going a second date, period.
So it's a non-negotiable.
Kids not.
Okay.
It's like, I don't see myself having one kid.
I want to have a lot of kids.
It's just my value.
Let's, here, let me do some super chats and then we're going to pull up the delusional calculator so we can get an actual number.
That is so annoying.
So we can get an actual number on this.
Actually, really quick here, we're going to go around the table.
Stiffler, ask everyone to rate their looks on a scale of one to ten.
Oh, God.
Lexi, you first.
Rate our looks.
Rate your looks.
I'm a 10.
Jesus Christ.
With a hint of narcissism.
I'm a 10 with a hint of narcissism.
An eight or seven.
Ten.
You're a ten?
Of course.
You guys have a ten, too.
Self-love, baby.
Into the mics, guys.
I would say a 10.
Eight.
Always room for improvement.
Gentlemen.
For being realistic.
Four.
Bro, you're more than a four.
Shut up, dude.
Show us the double buy.
With my clothes off, if I'm about to compete, I'm like an eight only for my body.
Okay.
What about you?
Ten.
Thank you.
So ten?
I think, well, I think with the male population, probably I would personally rank myself probably between a six or seven, but my girlfriend tells me I'm a ten, so that's all that matters, right?
Everyone looks in a house.
I cannot.
Adorable.
Okay, what about you?
I'll go with a solid six.
Okay.
Yeah.
Down with it, yeah.
Honestly, the lower the better, because life is so good that, you know, if I can get away with the life that I have being a six, I think it's way cooler than what about you, Brian.
I give myself six.
Six.
All right, there's no tens at this table.
I'm just going to say there's definitely tens at the table.
Don't play.
You guys.
I'm going to have a man.
I'm not going to let you get away with this.
Let me ask you.
What is a 10 out of 10 relationship partner beyond physical?
What does that look like to you?
Oh, a 10 out of 10?
Yeah, this is all perspective.
Of course it is.
Of course it is.
But I'm asking Brian.
What checks every box?
Like, I mean, physically, emotionally, mentally personally.
Clearly, looks.
No, I mean, as a partner, what do you look for?
Sure.
Well, I would say first off, no forehead tattoo.
Just kidding.
I'm kidding.
All right.
Can I ask you what that's about?
What's the forehead tattoo?
Yeah, is that like from an anime or something?
What is the forehead tattoo?
No, it's the symbol of feminine and masculine energy.
It's the moon and the sun.
From what culture?
From what culture?
It's just a symbol.
I just found it on Pinterest.
You just found it?
It's a Pinterest tattoo.
Can I see it?
It's actually the moon rising women.
Sexualizing women.
I have that tattoo too.
Just like your feminine and masculine.
Okay.
So, yeah, as far as what I'm looking for in a girl, that would be like a perfect 10 personality-wise.
First off, I don't think anyone's a 10 in any regard, but peace.
If she can bring me peace, that's a big one.
Loyalty, fidelity, low body count.
What's your why is a low body count important to you?
Don't even start at this point.
I mean, does a vagina feel different?
Yeah, wait, wait.
It's important to me, too.
Just basically don't.
I mean, there's a ton of reasons.
Don't want the town bicycle.
Don't want a higher likelihood of getting an STD.
There's a higher likelihood of infidelity, higher likelihood of divorce, higher likelihood of reporting relationship dissatisfaction.
As your number of premarital sexual partners increases, so too do all these things I just listed.
Also, it's just gross.
Like a woman with a high body count, that's a proxy for promiscuity.
So to me, I don't want to even date a girl who's sleeping with another guy.
Like I want a girl to come properly single if she's going to date me.
So, the thought of going on a date with a girl, kissing a girl, hooking up with a girl, and she's fucking another dude to me, that's disgusting.
So, body count is a proxy for promise.
Are you a serial monogamist?
Like, is hookup culture just not something you're interested in engaging in?
I'm not interested in hookup culture.
I have no interest in one night stands.
If I sleep with a girl, I want there to be a continuity.
That is really cute, Brian.
That's sweet and cute.
We don't need a lot of men like you.
I'm just saying, Brian, I got right now.
I 100% agree with your values on that.
Thank you, man.
Yeah, if I sleep with a girl, I want to continue seeing her.
I would never sleep with a girl with the intention of ever sleeping with her.
Yeah, absolutely.
Just one time.
Brian, you won't date me.
Listen, I understand you.
We got way back seven years ago.
That's also why I was asking you.
The tension, the passions there.
That's why I was also asking earlier if replying to OnlyFans would be like cheating, because there's emotional cheating too.
Well, you know, the thing with OnlyFans is, and I kind of get dragged for this.
Ideally, I wouldn't date a girl who has OnlyFans.
Oh, no.
And I would not.
Yeah.
I've never dated a girl who has OnlyFans.
However, I would date a girl who did solo content.
It's never happened.
What would the difference be?
If I put two girls together, I'd prefer to date the girl without the OnlyFans.
What's the difference between solo content and OnlyFans?
Like another girl.
Well, like a girl on OnlyFans could be doing like porn, like fucking other dudes.
Oh, no.
So if she's fucked other dudes on camera, like no way.
So if she's like DJing it by herself, you have to put that on TV.
Oh, there would.
What about girl and girl?
Only girl and girl content.
That's a good one.
I like that.
Yeah, I suppose that would be okay.
It's not ideal, though.
Okay.
Especially, but we can make things work, Brian.
Personal preference.
I would not want to propose someone.
The amount of people I fucked, I don't know about it.
Propose to me, Lexi.
You got to get over the fucking extra.
Are you going to propose to me, Lexi?
I like this ring.
From my perspective, if another man is paying $10 or $20 to Amazon for seven bucks.
If another man's paying $10 or $20 to watch a girl's, you know, doing her thing, and I have to pay like way more than that just to even get to that level, like, I think that's not very cool.
I'm not being a provider for a chick with OnlyFans.
Okay.
But being you provider for like a regular girl who like dating only.
Don't get me wrong.
I understand.
I had this.
I'm going to go back to what I said.
I had to.
Because you guys put us in a hard spot.
Men put us in a hard spot.
You want a woman that doesn't work, but then you don't want a woman.
We moved on from that.
No, we haven't.
Well, there is a lot of people.
Oh, I do too much, so I can't.
You know, there's a thing there that we're in between now.
It's either you want a woman that doesn't work or you want a woman that works that has maybe less time.
So where the hell do we survive at?
I'm not really following the question.
So you want women, a girl, basically, men don't want a woman usually that works too much, that's not available when they want, that has a fucking career and passionate job, and blah, blah, blah, because they're always busy and they're making money and they're independent, all this thing.
And then suddenly you don't want a broke bitch.
It's just like, I want a man that's going to pay for me and support me and blah, blah, blah.
So it's like, well, what do you want?
I think you can find guys that would be happy to have a 50-50.
And I think you are happy to find guys that would be willing to be the sole breadwinners and be willing to be the traditional provider type.
I think there's guys that are happy to be 50-50 and there's guys that are cool being the provider.
Agree.
It's just about finding the guy.
She kind of repulsed, or I don't know the term, you kind of recoiled when I said 50-50.
Find that disgusting, I guess.
Oh, no, no, no.
I don't know.
Okay, I don't know.
I've done the 50.
You don't get pregnant.
You don't have breastfeeding.
It shouldn't be 50-50.
Okay, I'm not sure.
Making more money than the man is a problem.
It makes them very, very, very insecure.
Some men, sure.
Most, yes.
Yeah.
I mean, but it is the case, though, that I think women are unsatisfied in those relationships, too.
Well, the man feels like they can't provide or give anything to the woman, so they feel like, oh, well, what does she want?
What does she need me for?
I mean, I wouldn't.
What can I give her that she can't give herself?
And then they start being insecure.
Then they start going to the bottom of the barrel.
Women that just don't do shit or whatever you want to call that.
And then they go and usually fuck around with those girls.
You said you date a lot of narcissists, right?
Yeah, which they do that.
But those are the women, the men that are already insecure.
If you find a man that's not insecure, that wouldn't happen.
Then, yeah, he's going to be proud of you for making that money.
Maybe it's my title is really fucked because all of the guys I've dated are very insecure.
What do you mean?
That's what it comes down to.
Do you want a husband?
Do you want a family?
Yeah, I want a husband.
What's your 1% man-build lifestyle?
I want a husband that can match my lifestyle.
Well, you said you're the number one OnlyFans earner, so he's making, like, you're making, like, You're making what, like half a million a month for me because of the insecurity it comes with.
You must be making more than half a million a month right now.
No.
No, most money.
You're making six figures.
You don't mean the most money, no.
Oh, most subscribers.
Yeah, I'm a subscribed person, but that doesn't mean I'm making the most money.
Got it.
Okay.
So what's his income?
There's not a lot of men that make this much money.
No.
What is it?
I would say over $200,000 a month.
All right.
And then you're what, like 5'11, 5'10?
5'7.
You're 5'7?
Oh, okay.
You look taller for some reason.
5'7.
I thought you're taller too than that.
No, yeah.
It's very slim to none men.
But I have dated the opposite, and I've had zero, absolutely zero luck with them.
And you need a specific ethnicity?
No.
No.
Not even like American or.
I don't care what they are, where they're from, no.
You don't care if they're from Brazil, Asia.
Wherever, I don't care.
Okay.
Will you move for them?
Yes.
Okay.
All right.
So what's your ideal lifestyle?
I'd like my kids.
I want a couple kids.
I want them to be homeschooled.
I want to be able to travel and have one or two houses, maybe.
Okay.
Maybe a Birken or two?
I don't really give a fuck.
Hell yeah.
I want a Birkin.
Yeah, no, that's it.
I mean, I want to be comfortable.
Okay, so you want to be a-I can pay for that myself, but I'd like the guy to match that, yes.
Okay.
For him to be taller than me.
Okay.
So what do you think is preventing you from getting that?
The guys, my type that I go for.
But that actually seems actually a lot less specific than, I'm sorry, I forget your name, but that's actually, what?
Soul.
Soul, okay.
What do you mean?
Into the mics, guys.
Well, so you want a guy that's making like roughly at least 200K a year.
You want a couple properties.
Oh, okay.
That's where it came in.
Oh, yeah.
You want the guy who makes 200K a month?
I said they need to match my lifestyle or more.
Yes.
And so you're making 200K a month?
Around.
About.
Okay.
That's what I said.
Okay.
Okay.
And I said, yeah, not a lot.
Are you sure you don't want to date an OnlyFans girl now?
It's not a lot of people.
No, but she needs a guy to match her level of income.
I'm not making that much.
I'm not making that much.
Insecure guys.
And I'm not saying that I have guys around me all the time, that I have a lot of guy friends.
Like, I don't feel like I do anything to make them insecure.
If anything, I'm very supportive and all these things, right?
And I help them, but it makes them feel very small.
And it makes them feel demasculated, damask, whatever the hell the word is.
It just, it doesn't, it doesn't work out for me.
I'd date a girl who makes more than me.
I wouldn't, wouldn't really bother me.
You're very secure with yourself, but there's really not a lot of men that are like that at all.
There really aren't.
And so that has been my problem.
And I did date a guy that made good money, like less than me, but he made good money.
But his lifestyle was very, very, we didn't want the same things.
So he didn't like to travel that much.
He didn't want to own other properties.
You know, that was just like, okay, well, I don't see myself with you.
When they start to get insecure, what does that look like?
They put you down.
Welcome to therapy.
They're putting you down.
Can they try to control you too?
Or try to control it.
You start maybe talking to the other girls.
Or it's very controlling with what you're wearing, who you're hanging out with.
Try to make your success like that.
Very much like.
How can I make them lower than I am?
Because I feel low.
Wait, so you like, did you have an issue where, for example, a guy, maybe you were dating him for a couple months and he, for example, didn't want you going to the club or to a party or bar?
Because you mentioned like controlling what you wear, controlling what you do.
Is that kind of what you mean?
I kind of don't really want to do that.
So that's really not a problem.
What do you sacrifice for a relationship?
Because I remember I made a list where like, oh, this is a guy like less than 1%.
And I know like I can sacrifice.
Let's do that.
I will not sacrifice my career or that my passions that I'm driven.
Like, that's definitely, I'm not going to do that.
And I know in my industry, I have a certain time frame where I have, you know, it's about time you give it up type of thing.
I'm very aware of that.
And so I'm willing to kind of put things on the back burner a little bit and do other things when I want to settle down, have kids, and do all that.
Yeah.
Sure.
Okay.
I think I'm going to do that.
You do want kids, though, right?
Yeah, I do.
You want kids.
You want to get married.
Okay.
And so, Eric, I want to pull it back up for her.
Can we do the little calculator?
Okay, so we're going to have you fill this in.
Eric, scroll down just a tad.
So what's the ideal age of 33 or 42?
Between 33 and 42?
Exclude someone who's already married.
Obviously.
Yes, okay.
Race, put it that's black, minimum height.
How tall does he have to be?
I'm 5'2, so I don't care.
Like, everything like taller than me.
We need about five.
You can put like four.
You can put like five, four.
I don't care.
Five, four.
Okay, five, four.
Exclude obese.
Do you want to exclude obese?
Yes.
Minimum income.
You're going to have to max that because of what she wants.
Ten months or like that's a year.
You just have to max it.
You're going to have to max for what she wants.
Okay, go ahead, find out.
Wow.
Okay.
Zero.
Unless this makes sense.
You mine.
Okay.
The limit does not exist.
Yeah.
I don't care.
There's no Bachman.
But do you see?
Do you see what I mean?
Like why I said you're delusional.
I think that's a good idea.
You show me some bullshit program and you're trying to prove that I am wrong in my thoughts.
It's the Census Bureau.
Well, never mind.
I don't care.
Do you see this cat bag right here?
This is your future, I think.
Cat.
Cat food.
She's going to be a cat mom?
Yes.
Wow.
I don't like cats.
Wait, hold on.
Is that a settle sponsorship?
I thought so too.
That was incredible.
That was incredible.
Wait.
Oh, one thing.
Going back to Stiffler's ask yourself to rate everyone on a scale of one to 10.
Would you guys hide this, Eric?
You guys down to revise your answer?
Yeah.
I have some makeup remover.
Maybe I had to take the makeup.
I look better without makeup.
I wanted to come completely without makeup, but I didn't know how it looked to.
I don't wear makeup at all in real life.
That's hilarious.
Dermatologist recommends it.
So, does anybody want to revise their answer?
Should we know?
Absolutely.
I literally look better without makeup.
All right.
Okay.
Yeah, the same.
Eric, pull it back up.
We're going to do Lexi's delusional calculator.
When the money's delusional, honey, the mana delusional.
Are you about to rap?
I thought you were.
I rap.
Can you give him your answers?
You know.
Age.
I mean, up to like 42.
I think that's a good age.
We can go lower than 33 if we'd like.
Yeah.
Like that's fine.
About 28.
28.
Thank you.
Thank you.
To what?
To 42?
28.
Any color of shade, honey.
Height.
Minimum height.
Okay.
Like I said, I'm tall.
Exclude obese.
Minimum income.
Is that a year?
Into the mic.
Into the mic.
Is that a year?
In a year.
That's too low.
500K is too low.
It's laughable.
It's the highest.
You might as well keep that.
Find out.
Fuck around and find out.
0.011%.
There's hope.
I need that 0.11 to slide through my DNA.
Oh, boy.
Signature OnlyFans.
Dick size.
Is that in there?
Not enough questions.
I don't belong on this planet.
You're right, honey.
I don't.
Yeah.
I agree.
And that's just off of those sole questions.
I'm sure all of you have other, you know, disqualifying things, you know, personality.
Is he physically attractive?
That's not even the component of it.
It's a tough one.
Chemistry got to be there.
And then my husband's just not 9% because he's still not making that money right now, but he will.
Oh, God.
He's going to pop.
I'm going to kill a girl, though.
She can stand behind her man and like, listen, we're going to go.
We're going to come up together.
That's fucking cool.
Just enjoy the cat food.
That is what I have to say.
You can enjoy my life, and I know my God.
But you said manifest it.
You can't.
Let me ask you a question.
Do you think you can manifest anything?
Everything, yes.
So if I have terminal cancer, I'm terminal.
I believe you can heal everything.
100%, yes.
If my arm gets chopped off, can I heal my arm?
Is that bullshit?
Oh, but it's like you cut your arm.
Like, you can't put it together.
Oh, I thought you could manifest anything.
You can manifest a robot arm.
It's like we're talking about the healing, but you can't put the arm back.
It's just.
Yeah, it's just.
We can't talk about that because we're going to be here until tomorrow.
Yeah.
There's so much we can talk about.
Everybody's going to have to do it.
I'm 100% sure about my mentality and mindset.
So you will heal any disease.
They say you can still feel it.
What is it called?
You can heal any disease.
Yes, by yourself.
By mentality.
Yeah, by mentality, by your mind.
So somebody who has cancer, whatever is that, oh, your teeth.
Have you heard of the brain-eating amoeba?
It's called Nigliria phalauri.
I think if you get it, the death rate is like 99%.
Can you heal that?
Okay, we're talking.
You're going to ask.
No, but it's a disease.
Yeah, I know.
But you're going to continue to ask like, oh, what is about that disease?
What about, I said my point, 100% sure that you can heal any disease.
But if they so, listen, I didn't finish.
Okay.
Okay, go ahead.
If the soul comes to this planet to die on a second day, it's going to die.
It's the same like your miscarriage when you lose a kid or when you watch miscarry.
So if this kid, like this baby inside, didn't has like any chance to survive because it's supposed to be like that.
This soul came on that planet.
I'm too spiritual, I told you.
Just came to this planet for that purpose.
Sorry, I was just typing.
You're messing up my podcast.
I'm in your podcast, and people can't hear.
I'm so rude.
Okay, so you've heard of Joe Dispenza?
Sounds familiar.
What?
You should read the whole books, please, and then we will talk.
Okay.
Okay.
So have you heard of prions?
I don't know what it's like.
Prions.
I don't know what it is.
I feel like we're going too far Hold on.
Come on.
Hold on.
Prions.
So it's basically proteins that have misfolded, and it's basically like melts your brain.
Do you think you can manifest healing if you have like prions?
How do you know about that guy?
It's like...
There's a lot of scary shit out there, guys.
Don't...
Don't do not Google.
Hold on.
Do not Google prions if you want to sleep tonight.
I started in medical college.
I can Google where I will sleep.
Can you manifest the end of prions?
Listen, the question, like, you're born with that, and then you die the next day, or like what?
Well, it depends, but pretty much once it starts replicating, or I don't know if that's the exact correct terminology.
But babies can manifest.
You're pretty much dead.
If you have prions.
Yeah, but the babies can manifest.
We're talking about the bad people.
What about babies?
Like, the babies can't just like, or baby come to this world with disease.
I'm talking about humans.
Just any human who gets a prion.
So this disease, you just got it?
Like infection?
Or you was born with that or what?
I think my understanding is you can get it.
I don't know if you've heard mad cow disease, but you can get it through consuming it.
Perhaps there's blood-borne ways you can get it.
But basically, like, if you get it, you die.
My point.
It's still the same.
You can't manifest.
There are definitely people who have brain healers that definitely have a body.
Nope.
Can't heal that.
My point, it's still the same.
What's your point?
You can heal any disease if you're conscious enough.
True, my, that's it.
We that don't even eat food and then she mentioned Joe Dispenza.
Please read his books and like his podcast, wherever he has, like, meditation and everything.
What about Jesus raising the dead?
Can anything be done?
Fox, manifestation.
He manifested himself to be alive again, so anything's possible.
Is that what you mean?
Is that what you're doing?
Are you Jesus?
All right, let me do a couple super chats here.
All right.
I said there's an old.
Do you believe in Jesus?
I love Jesus, yeah.
You believe in Jesus?
I love him, yeah.
Okay.
I know him, and I don't really believe in believing.
I believe in knowing.
Have you seen The Secret Secret on YouTube?
No.
You should Google it.
The Secret?
The Secret.
The Secret Secret.
Is that like the sequel to The Secret?
The Secret Secret?
No.
It's where they get all the terms like Christos, I think.
Okay, here.
I got to do some super chats.
MD, thank you.
Here, Lexi, can you read this for us?
I'm here for more economic musician onesie Hobbit wondering.
Did we read this?
Oh, yeah, we got it.
Oh, my bad.
Genomics.
I remember The Hobbit.
And this one's too late.
Is it?
I think we haven't read this one.
Go ahead.
It's hilarious that they're girl getting paid millions to do nothing.
That's me.
With no credentials.
What does credentials really mean now?
Thinks that white men are the most privileged class.
Have some awareness.
Are you saying that I'm the most privileged?
Sounds like it's jealous of you, to be honest.
I don't think so, but.
Levi, thank you for the $100 super chat.
Sorry that it took us a while to get to it.
Appreciate it.
Jeremy Korea.
Go ahead, Lexi.
You've got a pleasant speaking voice.
The whole problem with the world is that fools and fanatics are always so certain of themselves, and wise people are just so full of doubt.
Bertrand Russell, mathematician, logician, philosopher.
Jeremy Corea, thank you, man.
Appreciate it.
Go ahead, Lexi.
Just say you want a rich dude to take care of five kids and have multiple properties.
Nothing wrong with wanting that.
A dude making that kind of money, age 33 to 42, is in his prime and probably would not choose a 28-year-old single mother.
Realistically, what is your plan to get a guy like that?
Yeah, you have to ask yourself, what does the guy that you want, what does he want?
What do you mean?
Well, you can...
What I put in a table?
Hold on.
As a girl, you can think, well, I want this, this, this, all these traits in the partner, but you have to think, well, the guy that I want, what does he want?
And if it's not you, you're from the relationship, from me?
From a girl.
Does he want you with a child 28 that you want or four heads?
Oh, thank you, Lexi.
Oh, yeah.
Well, thank you.
Thank you.
I just know what I put in the table.
That's it.
She's conceited that she's delusional.
She's optimistically delusional.
Okay, I'm delusional.
I'm wild.
I'm men.
I don't think we're beating a dead horse.
I don't believe in the impossible.
You're going to go back to my point again and again, and I will tell you again and again the same shit.
Don't be the dead horse, Brian.
Yo, PT Cars.
Sorry, I know this was a trigger for TTS.
Just the TTS is still not working.
Not sure what's going on.
So sorry about that, but thank you, man, for your patience.
All right, and then we have Matt T. Thank you for the 100 man.
Hey, Brian, can you ask the ladies what they would tell a man who says he'd go on a date with them if she gives him $100 to pay for a babysitter?
If being able to pull that off isn't a sign of privilege, I don't know what is.
Oh, shit, wait.
Oh, Streamlabs is working again?
Oh, gosh.
Is Streamlabs working again?
Hello?
That comment's crazy.
I didn't read it.
Okay, I'll pull that one up again.
Let me.
Wait, so let me pull that one up again.
So would you guys, let's say you met, match with a guy, and he had a kid.
He had a son, single father, and he asked you, you know, you guys were trying to plan the date, and he asked you, hey, could you pay me $100 for a babysitter so I can go on a date with you?
What would your answer be?
Let's start with you, Lexi.
Oh, you can't even take me out of dinner at that point.
Like, it's not going to happen.
You?
What do you mean?
Into money?
Would you pay the guy $100?
If I really liked him, yeah.
You'd pay $100 for the babysitter?
Yeah.
That's fine.
I don't pay.
She doesn't pay.
Okay.
No.
The man that I'm going to end up with doesn't need the $100 for the babysitter.
Okay.
That would never happen to me, but hypothetically speaking, I would say yes, because if he's going to have a little date or something at the house, or he comes over to my house and we have a little date, if he can't afford a date outside, and he is a genuine good guy, and he just is in a shithole position and has a child that he has to raise.
I bring all that back.
I'll do it.
I mean, we can be friends.
It doesn't mean that you're going to be something.
I just don't I just don't think that any any man that has a potential husband just like her you know It's a fucking Tinder date.
So who knows if it's going to be your husband or your best friend or are you going to maybe a tendency to get a child?
I don't know if you're going to.
Can I say something?
I just don't think that any dude that has a kid should be prioritizing going on dates if they have a kid that they can't even pay for.
Their number one priority should be getting enough money to take care of their kid before they're going to get a drink.
I know she's going to get a good wife out of her.
Cook, clean, sex, blah, I mean, if the guy can't pay, what the hell else are we going to get from the guy?
I mean, that's just a bare minimum.
I mean, I agree with you.
Personally, I know I couldn't date somebody with a kid, so it wouldn't even go there.
But I wouldn't also expect somebody to do that if I had a kid.
That's an hypothetical.
Yeah, I just, I mean, I kind of, it just wouldn't be a situation on BN.
I also was never on any apps, on dating apps.
I would never want to do that stuff.
Yeah.
Hopefully, I will say, hey, I want to take you on a date.
Here's $100 for your babysitter.
That's the ultimate goal there.
Yeah.
Yo, SoCal Surfer805, that it did pop up on the screen, but for some reason, I don't know.
I'm not able to trigger it again.
So I'll just read it.
Question for the ladies: What do you think about men who make decent money, 130 to 200K, but love to get high on edibles and smash hot hookers all day?
Datable?
Must he lie?
He wants to make more money eventually, but overall, just chill, surf, eat.
Be honest, please.
What is this question?
It's kind of ridiculous.
How about just a thumbs up or thumbs down on that one?
Sounded almost like a guy I dated.
Parents had money, ate edibles all day, liked to play a lot of video games.
Basically, he was like a 24-year-old, retired dude already.
Didn't smash girls, though.
So that was a little different.
No, I'm speaking for all of us.
Thank you.
Okay.
Good times.
All right.
So we have two missed super chats from last week that I need to get to.
This is from Cheeks.
He asks, marriageable man or Instagram.
So would you get rid of your Instagram or social media for a marriageable man?
Lexi.
Would you give up your career for a man is the question?
Well, you because I'm a singer, so I need my Instagram and social media.
No.
Okay, that's fine.
What about you?
No.
Into the mic, you got to speak into the mic.
No, same thing.
No?
No.
You're asking me to give up my career.
Why wouldn't, like, absolutely not?
Whether it's my career or not, I've done that before, and he was a narcissistic asshole, and I had to divorce him.
So I would definitely say no.
Good times.
Yeah.
I have to agree, no.
Like, I just, for something like that, I don't want to.
There's little things that I would change to be with somebody.
That's controlling.
And yeah, like it's just controlling, and that just not great.
Yeah, it's not fucking healthy.
What if he was willing to, he was very wealthy and he was prepared to totally provide for you under those circumstances.
We do this.
Why is that?
He needs to be like, I don't like social media just because money.
Money doesn't make social media doesn't make you just a money.
I'm helping people through my social media to connect with their body, to heal their body.
So it's like, it's not just about money.
I'm really, I see one of my purposes, like to help people with the certain things.
I wasn't, I mean, I'm still movement coaches.
I don't just don't work right now, but I'm helping people with the posture.
So I use my social media just like, yeah, get this knowledge.
Like, do like it doesn't even make any principle.
It doesn't sound like a healthy relationship.
Like, why are you so insecure that you're making me do this?
Yeah, I'm like, I wouldn't want to change that person.
That person shouldn't change me.
And regardless, if they can pay for stuff, that means nothing to me.
So no.
Have you just tilted your microphone up just a 10?
Thank you.
Perfect.
Yeah.
Well, just on your point, really quick.
So I would say that you said that you want to have six kids.
So perhaps, for example, for you, your husband is looking to you to stay home and take care of the six children that you're going to have.
And you won't have time for that.
What a stay-home mom for you.
Like stay-handed.
Six kids, that's a lot.
You can still work from home, though.
You still can work.
You still can travel.
You still can do so many things.
And a certain point, kids need a lot of attention.
But I can't imagine, like, my daughter, right now, four.
And I imagine if I have a house, I even don't need a daycare or school.
She's going to be outside.
I just need to prepare food for her.
She can go to the bathroom by herself.
I know how to teach her like basic things.
And she can just play outside.
So it's like she doesn't need me.
So, like, I see that again.
These things, I mean, maybe it's like delusional about that point, but I see like it's easier to raise the kids when you have a huge land, when you have like money, you have a house.
Kids need just space and entertainment, and they can entertain themselves, especially if it's like not one kid.
Because like right now, I'm living in there when my friend has like three kids.
They entertain each other, so it's like...
Sure.
But he's saying whether or not if the guy was to ask you to delete your Instagram, otherwise he wasn't going to marry you.
And then he continued saying, oh, but you want six children and X, Y, and Z, but her Instagram was her passive income.
So that already cancels your.
I thought, but you said you want to do healing, right?
So wouldn't that be like, for example, you do massage, right?
So I mean, you can't really make passive income from massage because that's a service.
That's what I'm doing.
I mean, are you going to make massage instructional videos, but like online courses?
I'm going to do a retreat house.
Okay.
That's cool.
So many things.
Like online passive income.
I'm selling my massage oil, so it's like...
Sure. I...
My family with all the money.
I have few customers in a week because I'm going to increase my price more and more.
And I just get a higher value customers who okay with my price and like even tip so I don't have to period.
Okay.
Give her a goddamn break.
Arlen, you wanted to come in on something.
Yeah, I have a lot on my mind.
But my first question is, so you guys, if you had to choose between your personal careers and having a family, you would choose personal career.
A lot of our careers are our happiness, too.
It's not just family.
Right, but if you had to choose going to make us happy.
I'm not sure if I'm going to be able to do that.
But if you had to choose career as a hobby.
So it shouldn't be like, you, so, like, right now, I put all my attention in my career because why do we have to?
Can we reverse?
Like, go around the current career, family, which you would choose.
Oh, yeah.
Yeah, we can do that.
We have to choose.
There's truth.
Let's just keep it as simple as this.
What would you have if Penny was the breadwinner?
Like, would you give up your passions and the shit you love the most?
That's what I'm saying.
Just to be like, okay, I'm going to give all this up just to be a men and a wife.
Would you guys be a stay-at-home dad?
Give up your career.
If she was capable of providing and she was a good woman, and you're giving me like this only option.
Although I'm not sure how set I am on if I want to have a family or whatever, but perhaps.
Ryan, we can't be together then.
Rip.
I'm the same way.
I don't know if I can.
RIP's in the chat.
I don't know.
I think most men are, it might sound cold, but most men are going to be generally pretty, like if men can't actually work, if they can't go out and exercise their essentially like masculine urges, they're going to be pretty miserable.
So if you put a guy in like a daycare and you say like you can't build anything, you just have to play with kids all day, he's going to be kind of like heterosexual straight men.
He will be the worst.
That's how I feel.
Just reverse.
That's how I feel reverse.
But I also too, I'm similar.
I don't know what I want in the future.
Like marriage.
That's why we're battling.
Independent women have something we're working towards.
It's like, well, how do you balance finding a man that wants that and you want that and being successful and all this together?
I mean, it's not.
We just need a woman on a podcast who already balanced her family and business.
I feel like if I knew someone long enough, like say I had a friendship with them for a decade, 15 years, and then we got together and there was the necessity for me to choose the family, I would have enough trust at that point to do so.
I agree with that.
I think that it really is what you're saying.
Like it really just depends on how long I've known somebody, how much I trust them.
I'm sure we've all thought about that.
Yeah, so I think that question is a little, yeah, it's a little black and white when that situation is a little colorful.
Well, it's kind of sad that we've, in some ways, perhaps even for both men and women, that the ultimate happiness that we've been sold that we will receive in life is through a career.
When I think for both men and women, it's going to actually be through a family.
It's about passion.
My reasoning is basically just I'm willing to give it up.
Sorry.
I'm willing to give it up, but I need to know that I can trust that I'm going to be taken care of and okay and not suddenly dropped if I give up the momentum of my career and stuff like that.
So if I had that time to develop that trust over, because that's the only thing that will really give you that is a long, long, long period of time.
I think that situation, you dropped, you're dropped.
Now I'm now I'm with a child and no money because I didn't work on my career and he left me because you like her.
Objective people should not get divorced.
Marriage is for life.
There ain't no divorce.
Oh yeah, but it's specifically you leave them.
That leaves you out in the dust and you have nothing.
You have three kids with them.
You lost your whole fucking career, your whole life and dedicated all your shit.
I wouldn't do that to you, Lexi.
Well, I would not do that to you.
I'm very tainted.
You're tainted?
What do you mean?
So you actually, when we were talking about that, so you said, did you, should we talk about body count?
Body count?
Should body count matter?
Yes or no?
I'm not going to tell you mine.
Oh, is it?
What's your body count is what I want to know.
What is yours?
I would love to know.
As a man of God, as a man of God, I do not reveal my body count.
Oh, here we go.
I'm trying to expand my body count like that.
Yeah, I prefer.
I prefer women.
It doesn't matter to me.
What's your body count?
You got to tell me.
I'm not going to share it, but I prefer to go.
Are you a virgin?
I'm not a virgin.
So multiply by three.
It's at least.
Meghalt's over $100.
Totally.
Why does it bother you that I've slept with so many men?
Why?
Have you?
I want to know why.
Have you?
I think he explained earlier.
I slept with a good amount of men, so why would you feel uncomfortable about that?
He explained earlier why that matters.
You just can't stand the fact that it's because it's gross.
He was saying it was gross.
Gross?
That sounds very immature.
Like, what does it really mean?
But it's not gross if your dick has been in a lot of vaginas.
Like, what does that mean?
And no, they're not STDs because that doesn't mean I'm fucking other people while I'm having sex with you.
I don't have an STD currently, so.
I mean, but didn't you say that you're currently sleeping with one guy and dating three to four total?
As she said, to me, that would already disqualify a girl because even if you weren't sleeping with any of the other guys, if I know a girl's dating four other dudes, I'm like, I'm just not going to pursue it.
Why?
Until I maybe I want to actually wait and see who I really like and fuck with.
It's really not that hard to do this.
Hold on.
Hold on.
It's really not that hard to date just one person at a time.
Maybe that called me old-fashioned.
Of course not.
I've done that my whole life.
And that's why I think people get so stuck in situationships and why people are so dissatisfied with modern dating is this so many options or illusion of options.
I think people ought to date one person at a time.
If it doesn't work, fine, move on to the next one.
But you got people who are.
I'm at the point where I don't want to be hungry.
I kind of, I like that though, but I don't want to get emotional.
But I think, so that's, again, that's your problem, that that's why you can't find somebody, right?
Because like what Brian is saying, if you're dating multiple men, then yeah, you're not giving 100% to that one guy.
So you're automatically not getting 100% back even.
Well, you get it when you know they're giving you 100%.
If I'm treating it like an option, I'm going to treat her like an option.
You got to show it.
They tell you that that's like, oh, I want to go in, I'll go in.
I agree with you.
I was in that point when I moved to America because I did it before.
Like, if I'm dating with you, like, I only dated with you.
And I came here and I'm like, oh, that's not going to work here.
Because guys, like really doing the same, like I'm like telling them, like, oh, so I'm like to do everything like faster.
Like, oh, we like commit, like, we dating only each other, and they're like, oh, I can't do that.
I, like, I need to, like, to choose.
I'm talking with that girl, with that girl.
And I just realized like it's how everything works here.
But obviously, I, when I'm like, going to date with the different guys, I don't want to sleep with everybody.
But it's like ended up like, yeah, you choosing.
You need to.
You're weighing out your options here.
But I think a lot of, especially nowadays, people are dating multiple people without having sex with them because they have been in a shitty relationship or situationship where they can't, they have trust issues with themselves and with the person that they're dating.
So they're like, okay, just in case, let me keep this one in a basket and this one in a basket, a different basket, just in case if one doesn't work, they can go to the other.
And that's where kind of like anxiety and like trust issues and things like that kind of come up.
This is where I don't have anxiety.
You talking to multiple guys.
Me talking to one guy gives me more anxiety.
Can you tilt the microphone down a little bit?
Yeah.
I said, talking to multiple guys doesn't give me anxiety right now.
But because I've been in a couple past shitty relationships, yeah, I'm probably like, oh, like I want to just talk to multiple guys right now.
And I don't want to.
Like we were talking about talking.
We're like talking to sleeping until somebody.
This is like the root of the problem though.
I mean, I went to the bathroom.
I've been with not the root of the problem.
I've had many boyfriends.
Like I've been in relationships my whole life.
Right.
No, but my point is that your fear and not to put you on the spot, but your fear and insecurity that's putting you in a position where you can only have surface level relationships with a few guys is preventing you from getting a deeper one.
Exactly.
Like when I was in my deeper one.
When I was in college, I had the same mindset.
Like, I want to.
I'm in my cafe.
Well, yeah.
No, I mean, I wanted to date multiple girls at a time, have the whole rotation thing.
But I realized after a while that that was actually mostly out of insecurity.
And there was a moment in my life where I was like, wouldn't it be nice if I could just be happy with one girl?
I've had that multiple times.
I guess I'm just in a different headspace.
No, that's not a good idea.
How does it work?
Like, I'm super straightforward.
So most of the time, I'm like, okay, do we like kind of like are building right now the base of the future relationship?
And I'm like coming up with that idea.
And then like, oh, I'm not sure.
I'm ready for that.
Most of the guys telling me that.
So I'm ready to date one guy and like focus in and give all my energy, but they are not ready.
Most guys are not.
They like.
Oh, they are like kind of like scared of a relationship or like scared of commitment.
Many, many.
But I would honestly look at that and ask yourself, like, are you really ready?
Right.
I'm ready mentally and emotionally for a relationship.
What about you, Lexi?
What?
Are you ready?
I'm ready to give in like my time.
Your name's not Lexi, but okay.
I don't know if I'm ready right now.
Lexi, you're not.
I'm not ready right now.
You're not.
Well, I mean, yeah, you're sleeping with one guy and you're dating.
Yeah, I'm not ready.
No, I've been in a couple past, like I said, I've been in these other relationships.
I'm not, no, and I'm really focused right now on my shit.
On your shit.
Okay.
So, not really.
I think it's perfectly normal to date around a lot.
I've been in relationships with guys who have had multiple girlfriends and know where they went wrong and are able to do better because of that.
And I've also dated guys that was their first girlfriend and they don't know what the fuck they're doing because they've never experienced it before.
And I feel like I'm teaching them.
So I almost feel like it's better, in my opinion, from my experience, to be with people who've experienced other people.
Amen to that.
Oh, yeah, for sure.
Wait, so you're saying you've had boyfriends who didn't have experience?
Yeah, I've been their first girlfriend, and then I've had boyfriends who've dated quite a few girls, and usually it's better when they've had the experience, they know where they went.
I think it's the opposite for men.
I think it's the opposite for men.
How do you know what you want if you don't experience different things?
Because you could think you want something in your mind, and then you try it on your board.
You don't even know what's out there.
A lot of you guys sound like you've had a lot of dating experience.
Have you been able to find a good relationship?
Are you guys religious at all by chance?
Super spiritual?
Most of them.
So I think part of finding a, if you're actually interested in looking for a life partner, is being open to leaving part of it up to whatever higher power you believe in.
100% I agree with you.
Because you're going to attract someone who's generally what you want, but they're going to have some, you know, shit that they got to deal with.
Nobody's perfect, right?
And people change a lot.
So, yeah, I think you have to be open to an imperfect human being.
I agree to that.
Of course.
I agree to that.
And I feel like that's how I found my perfect match in a way.
Because I told the girls earlier, I was like, I decided, okay, I'm healing myself.
I love myself.
I finally found a rhythm within myself.
And then again, you kind of just let it, you know, don't just have, put the decision on somebody else too, like you were saying, you know, either spiritually or religiously.
And you kind of just continue working, you know, every day towards becoming a better person, a better you, without having to date around 24/7.
Because I feel like I don't want to spend my time on dating and doing X, Y, and Z and talking and texting when it's going to be for nothing.
Like, why spend my energy on somebody that's not going to matter to me?
And then, you know, things happen and you find the right person.
Look, ultimately, it's just not, it's really not that hard to date one person at a time.
If it doesn't work, you can meet someone new, but I think people are getting into trouble.
And I don't think it's conducive to the development of a relationship if you're dating a ton of people at the same time.
But you can go on different dates and not be sleeping with them and stuff.
You can just kind of see what you want to do.
That's true.
That's true.
But then you also have girls that are sleeping with like three, four, five guys at the same time.
Each their own.
If they're okay with their partners okay with it, who cares?
Honestly.
Most men would not be cool.
If you ask most men.
Some guys live like that.
They're doing it behind your back.
So I think you just have to know.
Quite often, yeah.
That's what men do.
I feel like a lot of what you guys have been saying is very indicative of the type of men that you end up associating with.
And I think even in a place like LA, like you're talking about a city of 10 million people.
You might just be talking about a very niche demographic that the industry we're in.
Exactly.
It's 10 times more difficult.
Exactly.
It's much more difficult to date anybody, first of all.
But what I'm saying.
You're not seeing some random guy down the street normally.
No.
And then you have people online that maybe might be a fan of yours or you don't know who they are.
Or you meet someone with a check mark that's been in the industry that's fucked.
So it's like, well, I guess what I'm saying is your own career aside, like you shouldn't be prioritizing what you're doing when you're looking for someone else, right?
Like they have to have their own life, regardless of how it aligns professionally.
I think a lot of the times I hear girls complaining about how the guys, every guy is so trash when they're sort of just dating a copy and pasted version with a different haircut of the same base traits in a dude.
An emotionally unavailable and sort of like remote, detached from reality in a lot of ways that I think you are in that you've had a pretty successful career in your 20s.
And I think as an attractive person or a successful person when you're young, when you have that, you have sort of a removal of a necessity for accountability.
And you have the ability to sort of say, This is who I am.
This is what I want.
Fuck what you want.
I'm going to put my foot down.
And like, you haven't really had to ever, you know, put your ego aside and just be an adult for a sec because you can afford the luxury of saying, fuck you, I don't got to deal with this.
I'm rich and I'm hot and I got my own thing going on.
Like move along instead of taking a second to like check in with yourself and say, what am I doing wrong here?
Where are the parts that I might not be stepping up to the plate in this relationship?
And why am I consistently finding people that I don't connect with and that are mistreating me?
Am I mistreating myself first and foremost?
Am I not giving myself enough love?
Because it seems like I'm consistently, you talk about manifestation.
It's magnetism too.
It doesn't even matter what you're asking the universe for.
It's what you're telling yourself too.
It's about the relationship that you have with yourself.
And I think a lot of women and men are caught in a loop of really just toxic relationships because they have a toxic relationship with themselves.
And I think a lot of what that comes from is totally not our fault.
And like everybody watching, we didn't ask for this, right?
Like when I was in high school, I started using social media and became painstakingly aware of the fact that there's just a million options at all times.
And especially when you're in the industry or you're an attractive girl, those options are just always available to you.
And so it's been really hard for me to be monogamous and lock in with people that would have been absolutely amazing for me, that had nothing wrong with them, you know, and that I was the one that fell short.
And I had to take responsibility for that and know that because I was in a position where I could afford to be with really hot girls and live an incredible life, I didn't take accountability as a man to be the person that a partner would need.
And I think that's where a lot of men fall short is their lack of accountability.
And it's the same thing with women.
We really have gotten so much ego with no basis.
And you have just a generation of people that are so blameless and act like they're God's gift to earth when really we're all looking for the same thing.
We want to be loved.
Like everybody wants to be loved.
Okay, well, but women do too.
And let's see.
Men just need to be loved.
Great, great.
And you're just God's gift to earth, right?
Because I've been an amazing girlfriend.
I'm sure you have, but you've also been consistently talking over people and not allowing space when people are having a dialogue.
Like there are certain components of having a mature dynamic with someone that I think you could still work on.
There's nothing wrong with that.
You've gotten a co-spy and whatever, but like in order to get the relationship that you're shying away from by having these service-level relationships, you do need to first do that work with yourself.
And I don't mean like checking co-star.
I don't mean like looking at tarot cards.
I mean like actually just taking a look at yourself.
And I'm not talking to you specifically.
I'm talking to everybody, like myself included.
I think we all have been barraged with so much information that it has clouded us and clouded our ability to really even know ourselves.
And you have to clear that shit out before you can ever even be the person like you.
In order to be the person that you need to be to have that partner, because that's where I'm at in my life, right?
Like I've consistently fallen short with relationships or they've fallen short for me where it doesn't work.
And I keep going, oh, they're just not right.
They're just not right.
They're just not right.
But I think the reality is that I haven't really done that own cross-let checklist on myself, right?
And gone, what type of person am I looking for?
What are those boxes that I need to check?
And what do I need to bring to the table?
What kind of man do I need to be in order to attract that kind of person?
Because it's not just going to come to you.
And like you thinking that manifestation only gets you so far.
Application is what delivers results.
And you have to know exactly what you're looking for and what it takes to get that in order to manifest to that level.
A key component of manifestation is like real, true, genuine effort.
Man, that was.
Let me shake your hand, man.
That was quite the cut.
That was a great thought.
And I have a very similar journey, too.
Like, I was super hurt first, or I was hurting people, and I didn't understand why.
And I had such amazing men that were coming into my life, but really it came down to me.
And I had to realize I was not okay.
And I had to do all this healing work to actually be able to own my feminine and love back.
So it's been like a beautiful process.
For sure.
People sometimes mirror you.
Yeah.
Okay, let me do a couple super chats that came in here.
All right.
Yo, Markuvius Martin.
Sorry we didn't treat this as a TTS.
Yeah.
Men want purity.
We're territorial protective.
We are conquerors.
Wanting feminine, unfettering females is in our DNA.
We would die for the woman we love.
A woman that is run through is not part of the relationship equation for us.
She's coarse, vulgar, devalued, already conquered.
Okay, so I think a lot of the times people get caught up in the right and the wrong way to be, and they have this opinion on what that is, and that's totally valid.
We're all allowed to have that.
But at the end of the day, we're each individually going to have a different opinion on what is right for us.
And we should really be able to allow other people to have that opinion and to hold our own opinion on what's right for us.
And I feel like as somebody who's chosen to be polyamorous or also been monogamous and for my career choice, a lot of people will apply what they think is the right way to be onto me, not taking into consideration maybe I'm an authentic, honest, communicative, straightforward person who's just my own person and just different.
And I think that it's really just about finding what's good for you and making sure you're respecting yourself and you're respecting other people, that you're clean, that you're kind, and that you're communicative.
I really think at that, at the end of the day, we're all going to have our own idea of what's right for us and what's right in our own part, in our other partner.
Well, I mean, this is just Mark Wavius' comment here is in response to why body count.
He's talking about the entire conversation.
Yeah, he's saying in terms of why body count matters.
So, and one thing that he's his opinion.
Some people date porn stars and are fine with it.
Yeah, I've had a lot of partnerships.
Everyone's different.
Yeah, I personally don't understand.
How often have you been tested?
I have met guys who are interested in.
How often have you guys been tested here?
How often do you get STD tests?
I mean, I see where you're going with this, but like...
Usually after every relationship.
That's beautiful.
That's really amazing.
I go at least once a month, two times a month, if not every seven to 14 months.
But a lot of people.
So you do traditional adult content, correct?
Yes.
How many scenes do you do per month or week?
Basically, you have to do it.
Like one, two a week, if I feel like it.
Okay, with new individuals, correct?
Yes.
You're also tested seven to fourteen days.
Yeah, but I mean, the STD rate in the, for example, like HPV and herpes in the porn community, in the adult content community, is far higher than in the general public.
Correct.
That's why there are plenty of things and ways that you can prevent that.
Well, I mean, it's not a good idea.
And there are actually, if you're not afraid of If you study the statistics of herpes, most people have it in their body, but because they never get tested for it, because they're like, oh, my body count is low, they actually have it in their body.
And most people that have it, they just don't have an album.
Sometimes they never know.
You don't even get tested for it anymore.
So if you think about the way they're recording the information, they're...
Okay, but you're being a little misleading because there's two forms of herpes there.
There's HSV1 and HSV2.
I'm talking about both of them.
You can have both in both places.
You're not going to have both of them in your body.
Yes.
Most people have at least one form in their body, but they just don't have it out.
It's going to be pretty common.
Do you have genital herpes?
Yeah, that's what I've heard.
I don't have it, but I heard that it's very common.
It's common in a cold sore one we're talking about, right?
Well, there's cold sores, but the best.
Your partner could have a cold sore and then give you head or whatever, and then you get it there, even though it's type one.
So are you not going to date anybody because they have a cold sore when it's like 90% of the population?
If your mom is a divorce, because they could eat you out and give you, like, okay, if you have, I don't know which, if it's HSV1 or HSV2, but like that's.
I'm just saying most people, sorry.
Most people don't have genital herpes.
Sometimes you can't see the symptoms.
Are you guys really defending herpes?
Like, I'm just like, they don't even test for it anymore when you get straight.
They're defending whatever you think.
They don't.
Because everyone has it some form of it for the most part.
It's like 90% of the population.
I'm good on that one.
All I was saying is everybody has their own perspective on the right way to live and the wrong way to live, and we're all allowed that.
Sure.
And I think respect, communication, integrity, that's all that really matters.
Yeah, but look, women are free if you want to have numerous.
That man is allowed to have his perspective.
You're allowed to have yours, and we're allowed to have ours.
Absolutely.
That's fine.
However, however, we are having a conversation, and the fact of the matter is, most men don't want to have long-term relationships or marry women who were promiscuous or are promiscuous or have a high body count.
I have experienced a lot of men who are okay with it simply because of my ability to be communicative, respectful, and authentic.
And I think that a lot of the times girls will lie or we kind of like hide things, won't be straight up about things, and that causes a lot of distrust.
And honestly, that's dirty.
To just fucking lie, that's dirty.
That's gross.
100%.
So you can date a girl basically, and she said, like, oh, my body count is five, but it's not true.
So how do you know?
I mean, there's, sure, a woman could lie about her body count, but there's certainly, you know, we as men, we can look at a girl and sort of get a sense of, you know, not always, but you can look at their behavior and kind of get a sense of promiscuity.
It's like hysterical.
It's just like it's pretty true.
It is zero.
No, you can.
Look, it's not like fucking science.
Like, sure, could a girl partake in certain behaviors and have a low body count?
Yes, but you can like look at someone's character.
You can look at certain things and kind of determine is she for the streets or not.
H, age.
We're talking about like 22 year old who's like just finished the college.
No, that doesn't matter because nowadays we can be 30 and we can still be, you can be for the streets.
How about you tell us what you think each of our body counts is?
Like let's give an estimate.
Let's play this game.
Let's go.
I'm down for the next one.
Give an estimate based on what you think.
Okay, you're all at least double digit.
For sure guaranteed.
Double digit.
Double digit?
Like that's how 10 or 100 is wrong.
What does that mean?
How about that?
You're all double digit.
You're all at least double digit.
Wrong, wrong.
How about that?
What about you guys?
What do we have?
How about all of it?
What do we think?
Just want to say it.
But you're all right.
I think I'll put this down.
I've seen a lot of comments about me picking this thing up, so we'll keep it on the table.
I mean, if you've been sexually active for like 10 years and you've had 10 sexual partners, it's like an average of one a year.
So I don't really get the upset.
Even if it's 20, that's if you're if you're concerned about a girl having sex with 20 people and she's been sexually active for 10 years, you're concerned about someone sleeping with two people a year, which just to me is like.
I mean, listen, like we're different people, but that just like isn't crazy.
I think what Brian's suggesting is that that might be normal.
That might be normal right now, but I think that's maybe not good for society.
No, my point was that he's saying that he can basically stereotype a woman based on her behavior or how she's dressed or what her Instagram pictures are, that, oh, she definitely has so many guys.
And that's what, that's where you're wrong, because that's where you stereotype people without getting to know them.
Once you know somebody, then how would you say you just sat here and told me that all of us have had double-digits?
Well, you asked me to guess.
So I entertained your request.
In Look or whatever.
So without you guys revealing your body counts, show of hands, was I at least correct in my range assessment?
Oh, for sure.
Okay, so I wasn't with the exception of 18 years old.
No, no, no, no.
I'm just saying, I don't, I hate when certain women get, and I get it.
Maybe here, maybe you guys have had more sexual partners.
Cool.
I'm not saying it's a bad thing.
It's not a good thing.
I'm just saying I don't like that you sit here and basically stereotype women based on where, based on their behavior or what they dress.
Women make all kinds of judgment calls about men's behavioral care.
I was going to say, we literally have been doing that the whole time.
We can call a guy a fuckboy.
Yeah, well, women are much more pickier than men, and you guys have higher standards than men.
You guys have laundry lists of things that you need in the man.
So heaven forbid.
Men really don't ask for much.
But one thing men do value, again, not all men.
Which is true.
You don't ask for much.
Let's go back on that one.
Yeah, men really don't ask for a lot more.
You ask for a lot more than women does.
You think men ask for more?
You want us to give up our careers.
You want us to have children, stay home, cook, clean, support you.
Shit, I don't know.
Males done, hair done.
I don't need that.
Not you spoiling me, but not me worries.
Don't cheat with a lot of men or a lot of women.
Don't need that.
I actually prefer girls that don't wear any makeup.
What do we expect from you guys?
But to support us.
Be the provider.
And not cheat on us.
That's about it.
Be your provider, be the protector, and then you guys have laundry lists of things that you need.
My what?
Lexi, you said you want a guy who's at least six feet and makes $500,000 a year.
That's so good.
$200,000 of money.
I need him to be a little bit more than a million dollars.
You guys want way more from us than we want.
No, women want more.
Women need and want way more from men.
I don't believe that.
Men really don't need a lot.
Okay.
We really don't.
Write a list of what you think a man wants and a woman wants.
And I guarantee they'll be a good person.
It's pretty simple.
Our list is bigger.
It's really simple.
Bring us peace, be pleasant, be feminine, don't be a whore.
I agree with Brian on that one.
Low-key, like, I agree with him.
I don't agree.
It's not really.
We don't really care.
Like, your money is not a huge factor.
Like, you don't need to be like, a lot of girls need a guy who's charismatic, funny.
You see this all the time on dating apps.
Almost every single girl on the dating app says, make me laugh, be funny.
There's so many personality traits that you guys are desirous of in men that are quite frankly.
You got to make us laugh.
You can get a real hot girl if you're ugly as shit if you can make her laugh.
You have a great personality?
I just like to make a dating chimp.
If you want a bad men to make her laugh.
I mean, honestly, in today's day and age, you need a lot more than that.
I've never thought of it.
Not really.
So maybe it's even.
I don't know.
Men are like widely known as simple creatures.
So I think these things are pretty accurate.
He's absolutely right.
Bro, we really don't need, like, if you can just, honestly, you just bring us peace and calm and don't be promiscuous.
Children and stay home.
And what about attractiveness level?
Sexy and shut the fuck up.
There's no attractive levels.
No, no, no.
But those are the guys that you are attracting, and those are the bad guys.
Not every guy is like that.
Yo, let's go.
Let's go.
And not every guy is like that.
I think they want peace.
They don't, if a true man who loves you, he can tell you, okay, you can work.
Good for you.
You don't have to, though.
So that's already security.
And he just wants peace, like Brian said.
Many men are like that.
You love my boyfriend.
Most men.
How men are you?
No, half you guys don't even want to support your women.
What are you doing?
But those are the wrong guys.
Those are the wrong guys.
Those are the wrong guys.
Lexi, you want a guy who makes $2 million a year.
I don't care how much money, but if you can't support me, if you can't support me, that's a problem.
And a lot of men won't just support you.
Everybody go home and pray, man.
A lot of men always just laugh.
They want to pay everybody.
They don't want to, no matter how much they are.
They'd rather use 50 million people.
They ain't going to get nowhere with their wife.
But would you be okay with 50-50?
I've done 50-50 a million times.
She's done 150.
I've done 100, and he's even done 100.
Here's the thing, but you don't need a guy to support you.
You make so much money, you're good.
But you want somebody with drive and ambition, right?
Sure.
Absolutely.
Comes with success often.
Do men care about that in women?
No.
I think totally that you can't.
I think it depends on the guy.
Some guys just want a pretty girl.
Some guys find it not different in a relationship.
That's pretty normal.
Well, here's the thing when it comes to relationships.
So a guy who, because of the current economic landscape, most people will need, it will have to be a dual-income household.
So I suppose, yes, men who are lower earners, for example, they might look to a woman to bolster the household finances.
But for the guy that Lexi is looking for, which is kind of a high-earning man, most men who, the more money a man makes, the less he's going to care about a woman's money.
Whereas the more money a woman makes, the more she cares about a man's money.
Because most women don't want to hold down a guy.
Yeah, makes sense.
So, but so a guy who has his money right, he doesn't really care what you're bringing financially to the table.
Obviously, don't be in debt and bomb.
You're on the body.
Don't be a bum.
Don't be a mom and don't do shit and like be negative too, you know, of course.
But like, for example, I would, I would date a girl who works at Chick-fil-A.
Don't give a fuck.
Like, Lexi, I don't think you're about to date a dude who works at Chick-fil-A.
I just said, I dated, what, a couple years ago, when I had OnlyFans, a guy that did shows at Universal.
He didn't have anything.
Sounds like a fucking legend.
What are you talking about?
He was cool, but he was a psycho, and I was afraid for my life eventually, yes.
But I have dated that before, which seemed so fucking nice in the beginning, so gentleman, so caring, so loving, so like everything I thought I wanted, and then literally became psycho.
It seems to be the case that you're constantly finding yourself attracted to men who are psychopaths and sociopaths, but go ahead.
Yeah, I think potentially, Lexi, one of your issues that you're finding in a lot of high-achieving women is that they want a guy who's high-achieving, of course.
And, you know, a guy like Brian, for example, very high-achieving guy.
Brian.
He wants a woman who gives him peace.
But a career, building a successful business, building a successful career, as you're doing.
Oh, my God.
I'm sorry.
I was going to give you a ding.
Thank you.
Building a successful career is a stressful thing, whether you're a man or a woman.
So for Brian, you know, he wants a woman to give him peace.
Most successful men want a woman to give him peace.
And if she's got a very difficult career, she probably doesn't have a ton.
I would imagine, and I don't know, but the music industry is probably extremely stressful.
Are you coming home, you know, like ready to give your man a massage?
Or are you coming home like you needing a massage?
I think that's what brought my issue.
So I've never had a man to do any of that.
So I'd be more for the guy.
Yeah.
But does your career not stress you out whatsoever?
No, but I don't really bring that to the guy.
No, but that's why you haven't found the one because you're masculine.
A guy wants to take care of me.
I haven't really had a guy to do that.
Oh my God, babe, I can't pay my bills.
Oh my God, babe, I need this.
Oh, my God, I need help.
I've never been the girl to do that.
And that has been the problem as well.
But your masculine is way too overpowering for the guy.
And that's what I have to do.
He can be the masculine energy for you and you being the female, the feminine energy.
That's where the problem lies.
Right, right.
That's all it is.
So it's really a problem within you, within all of us.
It's learning your feminine and owning your feminine because men want that.
Yeah.
And how do I attract that?
Oh, like my girl, she gets everything from guys.
I'm like, Lord, how do you do it?
She has money.
She's like, bitch, I will call him on the phone.
Like, oh, my God, I can't pay my bed.
But you're feminine.
I can't do that personally.
I feel like we are doing that.
Oh, my God, I need help paying my bills.
Well, you don't need help.
I need help with this.
I don't.
I don't.
Or, oh, is she finessing?
Is it like Kat?
And she's just trying to get away from her.
Like, you're feminine?
Yeah, it's a finesse, but it's more like the guy is more on her because he feels like, oh, let me go save a hoe.
Yeah, but like, you're feminine, too.
You want to take care of you?
I've always wanted to do myself.
Yeah.
Well, so what he was saying, like a really successful, ambitious, higher man, the guy that you're chasing after, someone who's making that amount of money is likely to be living a stressful life.
People who make a lot of money typically, well, I mean, it depends.
There could be some crypto pump, you know, made up a ton of money on crypto, whatever.
But most men who are making a lot of money live stressful lives.
And the last thing that a man who's successful wants to do is not only have to, not only go out in the world and contend with the world and, you know, business being cutthroat.
You're in business.
Same.
I want him to be there for me as I am for him.
But it's because of, perhaps, I mean, you're incredibly successful because of the cutthroat.
And you said you're in the music industry, which is well known for being quite cutthroat.
You know, you have perhaps developed a, you've developed more masculine traits.
And I'm not saying this to attack you, but my impression of you is you're very strong individual.
But I do think you're pretty in your masculine, I would say.
You're pretty combative.
Yeah, but when I have a boyfriend, it's a little bit different.
Sure.
And to give you credit, you know, I've invited you, you've been invited on the podcast to have a conversation and to have a debate to some degree.
So I suspect the way that you might conduct yourself when you've been invited to have a debate with someone.
It's a lot stronger than normal.
Yeah.
When you've invited to debate with someone is perhaps not how you're going to conduct yourself when you're one-on-one in an intimate setting with a partner.
So in the same way that we're all actors in a way, the way we conduct ourselves, for example, in the classroom or with a teacher is much different than how we might conduct ourselves when we're with our friends or with a girlfriend.
So obviously, I don't suspect the way that we're interacting now is how you're going to interact with a partner, although I imagine to some degree you do have, you're very fiery, you know?
And I, you know.
So I would.
I'm very fiery, but I am very submissive with a guy.
Yeah, absolutely.
It's not too bad for you to find out.
But how submissive?
I want a man to do that.
I think you're just in a personal life.
Are we talking about PDF?
But how submissive because you're not willing to give up my career?
No, I'm not going to give up my passions and my singing and my stuff.
I have a question.
What if you can still have a passion, do whatever you want, but it's just not about money.
So you don't have to rush and build a career.
So it still is okay.
So it's like, right now, if no one paying me for what I'm doing, I'm still going to do that without money because it's my passion.
Yeah, I do the same thing.
Okay.
This is how I say this.
Eric.
Because I don't make a million dollars off my singing, honey.
I make it off my OnlyFans.
I do my singing and all the other bullshit because I love it.
Yeah.
Okay.
Eric, let's do a shout out to Twitch people and then we have a couple super chats.
Okay.
Yo, Matt, thank you for the Prime Man.
Appreciate it.
Guys, go over to twitch.tv/slash whatever mods.
If you could drop the link for that in the chat.
Guys, go to twitch.tv slash whatever.
Open up another tab.
Drop us a follow.
If you have a Prime sub, drop us a Prime sub.
If you have Amazon Prime, you link it to your Twitch.
Quick, free, easy way to support the show every month.
Hey, thank you guys so much for all the follows.
Really appreciate it.
Okay, so let me get these soup chats here.
We have Hello Mind.
Internet's favorite place to buy that.
Can we sponsor you?
Brian at whatever.com if you want to discuss sponsorships.
You can sponsor me.
Speedy the Unsilent 100.
The excuse, they do it as well.
It's not a good excuse.
Just because someone else is doing it does not make it right.
I do not sleep around and I do not want a woman with that history.
Yeah, same here.
I mean, I'm not like trying to run through chicks.
It just doesn't interest me.
Not interested in one night stand, but yeah.
All right, we have Markuvius Martin, $100 soup chat.
Do you have a test for your soul?
Wait.
What's this in reference to?
Have you got a test maybe for your, I think your calculator thing?
I don't think it's...
A SOUL TEST!
Oh.
Do you have a test for soul?
Okay.
Yo, Markuavius, thank you, man.
Appreciate it.
Hope the quiz nose is.
Wait, is it?
Is it Mark Wavius the one with the quiz nose?
We don't have a soul.
Wait, Lexi, can you scoot into the table a little bit?
You're just popping out.
You fuck, you don't have a soul.
Oh, actually.
Yeah, just on the center cam, you're kind of cut off there a little bit.
Okay, let me just check here.
All right.
So, oh, we had one other.
Hold on, let me see if I can pull it up.
Cappadocia, this is a missed super chat from last stream.
This is a little lighter question.
Favorite drink, favorite kink, favorite smoke.
Go ahead, Lexi.
Favorite drink?
Favorite kink, favorite smoke.
I don't drink.
Okay.
I'm just psycho-like this now.
Me too.
Kink?
Yeah.
It's probably some weird balloon shit or something.
No, I feel like it's a little normal.
I just like being like degraded in bed.
You like to be degraded in bed.
A little choking and smacking.
I like all that shit.
So that's my kink.
What was the other question?
So she likes being called a no smoke.
Favorite smoke.
Favorite smoke?
I don't smoke anymore either.
Okay.
Comments are just the dirty talk.
There you go.
See, I can submit.
She likes to keep it up.
Your comments are turning me on.
Why do you think I'll say, oh my God.
You dirty whore.
You have this STD test.
Call me a dirty.
I love the dirty whore.
You're a dirty whore.
Oh, I'm so brutal.
Brian.
So brutal.
I wouldn't do that.
I wouldn't do that.
Broken.
What's it called?
Okay.
Brian can't think straight now.
Look at him.
Someone's getting a little rosy in the cheeks.
Why you gotta go?
Is that you?
Is that you?
That you say what?
That I said that that's my kink.
Was that your favorite?
No, I mean, I'm familiar.
No, I'm familiar with that.
I don't know.
I don't really want it.
Speak your mind.
I've been speaking your mind.
I don't know.
This whole like rough sex meta with the fucking BDSM, 50 Shades of Gray.
No, it's not weird.
Like, I don't have anything wrong with it.
Just it's not really.
Some people don't like it.
Some people feel really awkward doing it.
I mean, and they're like, I'm not comfortable when you're like, hit me.
And they're like, I'm like, why?
Yeah, I'm not like trying to fucking hit a chick or some shit like that during sex.
That's not really.
Why, though?
Why?
If she tells you she likes that, you're just, I don't, you don't want to.
I'm not trying to catch a case for some pussy.
A lot of people say that, but, like, that's not.
Bro, I'm not going to put marks on the door.
That sucks if you do that in bed and then they're going to be like, damn, like, I'm coming after your money after that.
That sucks.
I would never do that to you, Brian.
Okay.
You could smack me if you'd like.
Wow, okay.
I will not go for your money.
Ryan is set up.
We might be Ubering back, girls today.
I'll just say two.
Ryan's grabbing the Bible.
I see the Bible.
He has one on hand.
Jesus.
All right.
God's name and Bane over here at town.
Okay.
Go ahead.
Favorite drink, favorite kink, favorite smoke.
Drink white wine, favorite kink.
Either really sweet or bondage.
Wait, sweet love making?
Yeah, like really sweet.
I feel like I don't get a lot of that as much.
So in my life, it's been like, ooh.
Oh.
What was the last one?
Smoke, favorite smoke.
Favorite smoke?
Obviously, the gange.
What about you?
I don't drink alcohol based.
I don't smoke too.
Favorite kink?
I love when guy licked my feet.
What the?
Oh, yes, baby.
Put those toes in his mouth.
And actually, I just figured out that last year because I even didn't know that people like selling the feet stuff.
It was like not just popular in Russia.
So I did when like the last year when I figured out the feet fetish, I'm like, oh, okay, the guy's paying for that.
And then like the guy just like my feet.
And I'm like, oh, I like that.
I took some MILS.
Like it.
Go next to that.
I think we all like that.
So the area in your brain that like controls the feet and it sends us pleasure are right next to each other.
So sometimes the wires get crossed and that's why fetishes are so common.
It's actually science.
Yeah.
Yeah.
Fun fact.
I do massage for feet.
It like turns on many people.
Palms, feet.
My neck.
So it's like so many.
It's reflexology, right?
It's like the areas of your palm and feet are connected to every meridian or organ in your body.
It's not just about that.
It's like just sense.
I even don't know how to explain it in English, so never mind.
I just.
You can do it in Russian.
Hummi go next.
Never mind.
Okay.
Favorite.
My favorite drink is probably a start with espresso martini, move on to Moscow Mule.
Then a vodka soda with five lemons.
Okay, my favorite smoke, sativa.
My favorite kink, probably public sex or getting choked.
Oh, it's me.
Earlier, what you doing later?
Wanna sleep over?
I'll make sweet love to you.
Let's go.
Favorite drink, tequila.
Kink between the public sex or like sweet love in bed.
And favorite smoke, obviously hookah.
Nice.
I don't smoke.
I'm sorry.
I don't smoke.
My favorite drink is tequila ranch water.
And yeah, yeah, it's like my new thing.
What is ranch water?
It's basically like seltzer water and then lime juice.
So it's literally like a clean version of a margarita.
Yeah.
But it's like, yeah.
So anyway, ranch water.
And my favorite kink is like, I like a passionate daddy.
Like I can't have I can't have sex with some unless I like emotionally connect to them and mentally.
So like that needs to be there.
So like I like the rough sex thing could be really hot, but like I need to connect with them emotionally.
So because of that is usually very passionate.
So I do like being choked.
I do like those things, but it needs to come from love and not too intense.
I have a question for you guys on the kind of the rough sex stuff.
Was it something that you kind of came to on your own or was there one specific guy that kind of introduced it into you into your life?
I had a girlfriend.
I had a girlfriend tell me that she liked being choked.
And so I was like, let me try it out.
And it honestly feels good because when you cut off that oxygen to your brain, it forces like you have more sensation to other areas of your body.
So it's like just a physical thing.
So it makes you feel like the pressure in a certain point here just feels good.
So it's not about like the action.
It's like the action like you feel or the guys like dominate like they're mentally.
But there's like specific things like you.
Yeah, and you have to choke carefully.
Yes, don't go like this.
So you'll kill them.
So you should push the specific thing and you get, yeah, this is about oxygen.
You just get high exploring with the hook.
Google it before you do it.
Make sure you don't kill them in bed.
I don't know when mine started.
I've almost fucking died in bed before.
She does it on all the shows.
Sorry, Brian.
You thought you felt special.
Yeah, I thought I felt special.
All right.
We have Mr. Scumbag here, $100 Soup Chat.
Brian, every time you bring a Giga Chad on the show, a simp presses his delete button.
Where is below average Joe to display his point of view slash perspective for the education of these 30 foes?
Not that they will ever listen or see it.
Joe needs your help.
Not Chad.
I just want to say thank you, Mr. Junior Scumbag.
I've never been called a Chad.
I know it's not a compliment, but I just love new experiences.
So thank you for that.
You guys, what's a 304?
Area code, probably.
I don't think so, Brian.
It's about prostitution.
I think it's going to be H-O-E.
It's about prostitution.
I don't know about you later.
If you flip it upside down, it spells hoe.
Oh, okay.
Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah.
I didn't know that.
Isn't hoe a person that sleeps for money?
Is that what that means?
Yeah, yeah, it kind of like that.
304.
Because I remember I saw the TikTok with these hashtags and the girls like talking about.
Shout out to Dark Knight Gaming Squad.
Shout out to India.
Big love.
All the way from New Zealand.
These guys going crazy.
Let's go.
Let's go.
Okay.
let's see here we have uh we had one come through i think on uh nope Okay.
So there was a lot we touched on.
Oh, there was the last thing.
Eric, can you pull up the Twitter thing?
I'm sexually drained.
You're that's wrong?
Hello.
Eric, is the audio at 70?
It seems a little low.
Oh, weird.
All right.
Can you zoom it in one more?
Okay.
So this is from at Little Dick Game on Twitter.
And he had this interesting thread when it comes to perhaps this is a double standard, maybe not, but he says, and Eric, scroll down as I start reading it.
I told my ex, for every guy that approaches you, I'll approach one girl.
For every guy that messages you on Instagram, I'll message one girl.
She stopped going out to clubs and made her Instagram account private.
Low IQ individuals will say these are false equivalences.
Hold on, there's a thread.
I'll read more.
So he continues by saying, women run passive game.
They don't approach men, but they put themselves in positions where they could be approached by men, clubs.
They won't DM a man, but they'll post pictures to lure him into DMing them, Instagram.
Mainstream media doesn't want you to know this.
Scroll down.
Up, Eric.
Men are salesmen.
Women are marketers.
But most guys are too naive and lack the capacity for nuanced thinking to be able to identify this distinction.
In a committed relationship, a man should stop pitching and a woman should stop advertising.
Fair proposition.
But most men are fooled into believing that just because their woman isn't also initiating conversations with other men, then everything is good.
She was never initiating conversations.
That's not how she operates.
We utilize different strategies to get similar outcomes.
You stopped talking to women and gave up your edge, but she never stopped putting herself out there.
That's why she already had a replacement for you after the breakup, because she never stopped marketing.
She was generating leads the whole time.
A lion and a rhino are about to fight, and the lion tells the rhino, take off your horn so that we can have a fair fight since I don't have a horn.
The rhino foolishly agrees.
Fight begins, and he gets torn to shreds by the lion because the lion used his teeth and claws.
You're the foolish rhino.
Women are the lion.
A lion and a rhino are not the same, so they can't play by the same rules.
If the rhino takes off his horn, then the lion will need to remove its teeth and claws.
You both have to give up your edge to even the playing field.
In regards to the situation with my ex, I know you may be thinking, so what if she was at the grocery store and a guy approached her?
That's normal.
She didn't put herself in that position.
It's totally different from her intentionally walking into the lion's den, the club.
Well, anyways, that's pretty much it.
I think he has too much time on his hands, to be honest.
I think that's fucking true and super profound.
Some girls do it for the girls.
Some girls don't do it for the men.
Yeah, I post shit for myself.
I don't for myself.
Yeah, I go to the club for dancing.
I'm professional dancing.
Yeah, some girls don't like to go to the club to get hit on by men.
It's like almost the opposite.
Wait, was I yelling in the microphone?
Someone says, I think on this topic, like I definitely didn't, when I was looking for a girlfriend, I didn't want her to go to the club.
And actually, when I first met her, I invited her to a club and she said no.
And that's kind of, that was like an indicator that that would be a good girl for me.
I don't know.
I don't think it's necessarily a lot to ask because this thread is suggesting to have, to want your girl to give up going to a club if she enjoys it.
But also at the same time, you should also just be not looking for girls in clubs if you want a girlfriend.
100% agree.
The same with a man.
Like, I'm not looking for a man in a club.
And if I know that the men go to the club every weekend, oh, that's not my time.
Like, I don't think that's it.
But you don't know that when you just go to a club.
You don't know anything about it.
I don't go to the clubs.
I work there, so I don't.
I don't know.
Well, you know, though, that's work at the clubs.
That's worse.
I worked as a dancer in China.
In China, huh?
Yeah.
Colorful.
I've been in China for three years, and I worked in a club.
A girl who works at a club is almost worse than a girl who goes to the club.
Huh?
Why you're getting paid?
A bartender, bro.
A professional dancer.
Some dancers like to go to clubs just to shake a little ass.
Maybe they don't want to be in their home.
Maybe they want to go out to the club and do it with their girlfriend.
A rom.
But it doesn't mean that they're looking for a guy.
I got to go to a gay club and do that, to be honest.
Instant breakup.
I don't think this guy.
I mean, obviously, this guy wasn't dating like a model or a singer or someone that their career is literally based on them presenting themselves.
This guy's girl is an ex, so who even gives a shit?
I'm just saying, I'm just saying that.
He talked a lot about probably dump him too.
Hold on.
I'm at the club.
We all enjoy a damn good club.
I used to go to the club to go, like, I used to dance like hip-hop.
Sorry, I know I cut it.
Here, let him talk.
Let him talk.
I mean, just like anything else, I think it's just nuanced.
I've dated plenty of people that they're models and their career is based on them being able to present themselves looking attractive.
And I think that it goes with the territory that if you're dating an attractive, desirable girl, the world is also going to recognize it and pine for it.
But just like with anything else, I think it's a matter of self-control and accountability.
And just because someone is DMing your girl doesn't mean that she's going through these DMs.
It doesn't mean you should go DMing guys DMing somebody.
That's crazy.
It's crazy the notion of unwarranted messages that aren't even being checked in a folder being compared to a dude being like, all right, well, then I get to pick out any chick that I want and just flirt with her.
Like that's absurd.
There's a reason I think that.
I think it's insecurity.
There's a reason that threads.
I get the name of the guy.
It was a metaphor.
No, I'm more on your side.
Probably, I think, Little Dick game.
I don't know.
I get it's kind of a joke, but I mean, like, if you're like, I haven't talked a lot about myself, but like, I have a pretty successful business.
I have a social media following.
I get direct messages from girls all the time as well.
You know, I think that was kind of a cope thread for a guy that just isn't highly successful.
And if that's your problem, if you're going to spend a lot of time tweeting about that, maybe just go build yourself to the point where girls are DMing you or are approaching.
Like, I get approached sometimes in the grocery store.
You know, I work out.
I take care of myself.
Yeah, I think that thread was a little bit cope from that guy, to be honest.
I think that in regards to women that don't have to show face, like models and things like that, going to the club, you're purposefully putting yourself in a position to get hit on men, knowingly going to those clubs, knowing that that is a possibility.
In regards to the Instagram thing, yeah, it can be an insecurity, and insecurities work both ways.
Totally.
But you're also still having those options that are there where they can reply at any given time.
And that's not something that happens to men that often where they have the ability to just, you know what, I'm going to go back to this girl and reply to her now and she's still there.
Because men are going to stick around forever.
I mean, you've, I'm sure all of you have seen it where they reply like a year later to nothingness and they're in your DMs still.
Like women have those opportunities all the time and men don't really have those opportunities.
So it's like, don't worry about this guy.
Mr. Universe or Mr. California has those.
Come on, you guys.
Oh, I get one.
Okay, so to be honest, the vast majority of my followers actually that I got were all gay dudes, to be honest.
And it was because like I had like striations on my glutes and I posted this video of me just like flexing and like you can see literally every muscle fiber on my ass.
Oh yeah.
Hey, whatever.
But I thought you were.
Wow.
I see on Instagram.
I do get it.
So you can show your body, but a girl can't show theirs.
So the intent is different though.
For me, I'm looking for the guys to be like, I'm looking for the guys to be like, yo, you're fucking shredded, dude.
like nice like I'm looking for like I'm not posting this just to be like oh I look hot here I'm just like, my body looks fucking nuts right now.
The same.
Same.
No, because girls are purposefully showing their buttholes on Instagram.
You just let me know.
This is 10 times more.
I like this more than we like any guy's comments on our videos.
From my perspective, I am building art.
Go ahead, get out of here.
Show our lives.
That could sound so one-sided, whatever.
I don't care.
I literally pay and get paid to step on stage to get judged for how I look.
Don't leave the podcast.
We get paid for this and sponsorship.
Don't do it to yourself.
Girls have sponsorships from companies.
Literally.
But what kind of talk?
Sponsorships talk, though, specifically.
Let him talk.
So we can put our vagina on you.
Sponsorships or food sponsorships or sponsorships that help you obtain that goal of getting that art that you try to work for.
You're going to be surprised, but I'm like twerk for many years.
I was a twerk teacher.
I'm a dance teacher in many different ways.
And I remember I posted, and most of my followers are girls.
So when I post like a twerk video sometimes, which is not even sexual, like I'm fully close, I got a lot of messages like, oh, I wish from women, I wish I have this level of confidence.
Like teach me, please.
You inspired me a lot with your feminine energy, the way you express yourself.
Okay, this is a good idea.
I'm so like.
Okay, I got to interrupt you because we're moving away from the original point.
Kind of the original point that you were trying to make is that as a guy, we don't have like chicks just ruthlessly sliding into our DMs.
Like some people ask, again, you stop it, but without working for you, six, five fucking blue check mark athletes on Instagram, girls are DMing them.
That's fine.
However, average girls, 1,000 followers, 2,000 followers, just average chick that goes to college is getting dozens of DMs a week.
It's like the man who wants us in a burqa and they will still do that.
I'm living my life.
It's not about what we're posting either.
Who cares?
Why do you care?
The point is, is that there's a difference there between the attention that men and women receive.
An average girl, an average girl has dudes sliding into her DMs.
Hold on.
An average girl has average, well, average girl has dudes sliding into her DM.
Average dudes ain't getting a DM in their entire fucking life.
But men need to stop their life.
It's not your problem, but part of being in a monogamous relationship means limiting your options.
No, you live in this world.
You're getting Instagram.
You're living in this world.
You shouldn't say that.
You want the girl to give up her Instagram?
For what?
For a relationship with DM.
Can you elaborate?
Just in general.
For what?
What is she giving it up?
She wants to be with you.
And what does the whole Twitter feed thing was about?
That your question is still very vague to me.
Instagram is a dating app.
You're saying a business.
I have had content.
So I just want to dating that.
But for example, let's say an average, you guys are all content creators, whatever.
Most girls are not content creators.
They're average chicks, but they have Instagram.
Dudes are sliding into their DMs.
In that situation where finances are not a component, it's like, I wouldn't have unreasonable for a guy to be like, yo, you're getting DM'd by a bunch of women.
Man's just hungry.
If I was in normal chicken like that, I would give up my Instagram and not give a damn about it.
Okay, well, if my livelihood didn't depend on it, I wouldn't care at all.
And I wouldn't have one.
But the fact that ours does, yes, it's different for us.
Man and women are not the same.
Go ahead.
I'll let Leo go real quick.
Okay.
Thank you.
I was just going to say, if you're in like a secure, if you're secure with yourself, both partners, and you guys are secure with each other and have that foundation, you can get hit on anywhere.
This could happen at work.
This could happen at the grocery store.
However, if you're secure with yourself and your relationship, you know that even if she's getting DM'd this amount of DMs, she's not going to do anything with it.
And why does that bother you?
If it bothers you, then that's something deep that you need to go searching within yourself.
It's your own insecurity.
It's not insecurity.
It's not a reality.
No, you even mentioned, no, you even mentioned, oh, guys with check marks.
Clearly, you have something about guys with check marks and you're worried about it because you've been talking Lexi all night.
It's an insecurity with yourself.
I hate to say it, but it is.
Because if you were with somebody, if you were with somebody that you felt good about and you knew she was all about you and you guys have trust and everything, it doesn't fucking matter because this can happen anywhere.
I think a man should be proud, if anything.
Yeah, there's my woman and she's doing whatever the fuck she needs to do.
She looks good and people are loving her, especially women.
And of course, men are going to look at her.
Be proud of that.
But she's with me.
Every day she's me.
That's fine.
That's fine.
But one of the things you guys were talking about, well, what makes a traditional woman?
One of those things is modesty.
Posting photos of your ass on Instagram is not being modest.
No, but I actually traditional, though.
We're not.
We're not traditional.
That's cool.
Then enjoy your 50-50 relationship.
Yeah, we're not traditional.
Enjoy your 50-50 relationship.
This world is not traditionally.
Then when someone breaks into your house, you guys can defend it.
Well, duh, I'm a stranger, but I'm a boxer.
See, here's the thing.
This is one of the primary issues in modern dating.
Non-traditional women want men to adhere to their traditional gender rules.
You want men to be men, but you want to go post your shit on Instagram.
You want to fucking fuck around and be loose and be promiscuous.
You put women and mouths out.
Everything together.
We're all in an expression.
We want to love you guys.
We do love you guys.
We're all for you guys, but we can do that because you're not insecure and you'll let us do those things.
Yo, because you know that we're not doing it for men.
Wait, I'm not saying be proud.
Be proud of somebody that's putting her ass out like half naked to that comment.
That's not what I'm talking about.
I'm talking about I can be sexy in a dress.
I have a sexy love to me, even if I'm wearing, I'm fully clothes.
That's not my fault.
That's not my fault.
I'm just a sexually attracted feminine woman and I'm just posting like my shit.
It's just my passion.
I'm just sexy and beautiful.
Like that's what it is.
And not even like it's a job.
Like it's just a regular photo, just like a heavy.
Brian needs a regular girl.
Just a regular girl.
I date regular women half the day.
And you said like I date regular women.
And one of the reasons why, and I mean, a lot of you guys live in LA.
I mean, this is why I've refused, even though despite having been doing content creation for 10 years, I've refused to live or move to LA.
I feel you.
Like, it's just toxic as fuck.
But that's a whole nother conversation.
I date regular chicks.
I'm not dating content creators.
I don't think I've actually ever dated a girl who does content or who does OnlyFans ever.
When you say content is like 100% like adult content or are you dating?
I'm dating any kind of content.
I'm dating like PhD students and like corporate chicks, like nurses.
I've done all of them.
They're strong jobs that are like very stressful.
They come home and they're like, oh my God, my job's so stressful.
You deal with that stuff for sure with those girls.
Yeah, I have dated people.
Probably more than the content creators.
That's doubtful.
But I've dated women who have stressful jobs.
I've dated the doctor.
I've dated pharmacists.
I've dated physician assistants.
How much time do they have?
Yeah, and nurses, honestly, a little red flag.
Do they have time for you in the relationship?
Well, these were more short-term relationships, but I mean, most of the women I date, I'd say, are.
I mean, first of all, nurses are freaking crazy and talking.
I've dated way too many nurses.
I'm better than one.
But okay, what you call insecurity, I just call having a boundary.
And in regards to the insecurities, and we were talking about the DMs, and if there's like a bunch of guys, whatever.
Can you guys get off your phones, please?
Sorry, yeah.
It's just 11 p.m.
Wrap in 10 minutes.
Okay, okay.
I do get messages from men and women, and then men obviously don't entertain, but even the women, like I've had people offer to fly me to New York and like pay for all this shit.
And I like delete that stuff.
I don't even reply.
I don't open it.
I delete it.
Because why would I want that sitting there?
Like, I kind of hold myself to a little bit of a higher standard, to be honest, to even have that in my DMs just because I'm single.
I deleted like five messages this morning from the guys I know.
Why would I want to entertain you?
Because I have values and morals that I would.
Your value is my woman can't take me on a trip.
Some random woman wants to pay for me to go somewhere.
You're psycho for that.
How am I psycho?
Are you crazy?
I mean, no.
I understand him.
I'm like, but still, like, maybe I'm acting the same in DM because I consider Instagram.
If I don't want a girl that I want to date to be doing this stuff, I'm not going to do it either.
I agree.
So I want to date someone that's similar to me.
But that could be the boundary too.
Just don't respond to them or delete them.
I don't know what to do.
Exactly.
That's what I'm saying, though.
Like, don't leave it in your DMs to just have it sitting there.
And don't reply, and that could be the boundary.
Because it's not my responsibility if someone texts me.
Like, I can't control that.
Yo, bye, Felicia.
Thank you for the $100 soup chat.
Hey, mom, look, I'm on TV.
Thank you, Felicia.
Appreciate it.
All right.
Okay.
Love that.
Let's move that specific thing away from Instagram.
And let's just say a man doesn't want his girlfriend going to the club.
Do you object to that?
Controlling.
Totally controlling.
It's controlling.
I know, but it's not.
I would never want to restrict my guy from going to the club, the strip club, any of that.
I don't believe in restriction at all.
I believe in letting people do what they want to do.
I agree.
So they can always tell me their authentic truth.
They never have to hold back.
And if it's something like you said, you don't want them to respond to these DMs or whatever, then that's the boundary.
And you just are able to create those boundaries.
But if you don't have that safe space, it's never going to happen and things will happen behind people's backs.
I guess a good analogy for me is like, and not that in a relationship there should be a dog, but like a dog that wants to be around you, you don't have to have a leash on it, right?
Like I don't want to have to like leash somebody and like tell them what they can and can't do.
If someone wants to be with me, I want them to naturally do Do that without, like me, telling them like valid what, like I think I think you lay out your needs, you tell, you tell people what, what it is that you're looking for.
And if they don't naturally have that, like don't expect people to change for you.
There's so many, there's just so many people on this planet.
I just I don't just don't get consumed by like, if something works 95, just don't compromise and don't expect someone else to compromise.
Like every everybody, at least in my, in my opinion, I think everybody deserves to be with someone that gives them the type of love that they need.
Obviously, as I've already said, that starts with you being able to love yourself first and knowing who you are.
It's the only way that you'll ever be able to look, be you know loved, appropriately.
But once you do that, I think you just got to know what it is you're looking for and then and then be uncompromising, like don't, don't falter and don't don't try to make someone something that they're not, because you're gonna end up getting upset at them and and think and making them feel like a piece of shit for just being in a different phase in their life and like the reality is like you don't Brian,
you don't want to be with someone that you have to tell that they have to like stop posting certain types of pics.
Or like going to places that you don't want them going, like that just isn't your dating pool, so it should never be your concern.
It's not.
It's not the type of person like the way.
The way I'm putting it is like it's not.
Like you're gonna meet a girl that was going out to a club and then be like stop going out to a club.
You don't want a girl that's going out to a club.
That's, that's the the main point.
Yeah, you're not.
You're not the end line of her club going.
You know she was never a person.
That was a girl that wanted to be going out to a club.
Are you wearing my ring, by the way?
I am all right, we're married now.
Yeah, I got to fish, all but, but uh no, I mean you, you make a fair point I, I guess.
Uh, there you go so, so so your fair point is that I agree with you.
Ideally, the girl just from the get-go already has these things that i'm looking for.
I don't.
It's not like I have to coach her or try to change bad habits, for example.
However, I mean the thing is, is that the way society is, hookup culture, all this stuff there is?
I think there's a lot of bad programming and I think some girls can be unprogrammed.
In other words, like a girl, you guys are like what the fuck?
But like, don't try to change, I just don't want to be, I just don't want to be someone's knight in shining armor and I don't.
I don't want to be.
Sometimes some, some people can't change if, if they're made for the streets or they just feel like they always want to be out at clubs and playing around getting free drinks.
Yeah, are you like trying to pick up like a dog from an adoption center?
Do you want like the thoroughbred that you were looking for I?
What I mean is like trady, I think it's rarely gonna exist.
Stuff I talk about with my girlfriend all the time is and, judging from experiences, looking at the people that we know that have been relate in relationships the longest um, you know our parents or grandparents or other.
You know adults that you're still in relationships.
They all say that they had to compromise.
They don't love everything about their partner, but if you want long-term relationships well, that's not.
That's not what i'm saying.
I'm saying.
I'm saying, if, if a core value for you is, I don't Want other men being able to approach.
I want you unapproachable by other women.
I'm not a club topic.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Then you definitely find a girl.
Then you should find a girl that's not going out to clubs.
I'm not saying, like, well, I prefer that she had blonde hair, or I wish she was a little bit funnier.
Like, those are nuanced things.
I'm talking about core values.
You want a girl that's like, it sounds like that seems pretty important, is what I'm saying.
It's like me coming up, like, oh, I want kids, and a guy doesn't want kids, and I'm trying to get someone who's not a child.
You can't change his mind.
You can't change someone.
And the minute you think that you can change someone, you're going to get to know that.
As far as the whole club thing goes, man, these people, these people in the.
I just wonder how a lot of these dudes that are in the comments live because all of them are saying it's so cringe.
And it's an oh, I'm like, I just wonder what happened in our world that led to people thinking that they needed to be so harsh.
Yeah.
It's insane to me that you think that you need to be like this toxic person in order to maintain something that is inherently volatile.
If you have to be trying to make someone something they're not, you yourself have insecurities that you have to be dealing with.
Look, for example, when you first meet someone, for example, there's no expectation immediately of commitment or loyalty.
So perhaps they're sleeping with other people.
Me personally, that's just a no-go from the get-go.
But for some people, they acknowledge, hey, when I'm first meeting someone, there's no expectation of exclusivity.
So I'm not exclusive.
They're not exclusive.
So, however, once you have the conversation and say, and this is a negotiation that can be initiated by either party, we want to now be monogamous, you can't, you're both putting up a boundary, which is, I'm not going to sleep with anybody, you're not going to sleep with anybody.
My view of nightclubs and bars is these are singles of venues.
That is, that is, hold on.
These are very specific social gatherings.
These are for single people.
I don't know.
So that's the framework with which I view these businesses.
But I guess for me.
Well, it is different between men and women because, as a guy, if you go to a club all alone without any intention of talking to anybody, nobody's going to talk to you the entire night.
However, take two people, an average girl and an average guy.
Average guy goes to a nightclub or bar.
He goes into the corner.
I know.
He goes, hold on.
No girl's coming to hit on the average dude.
However, that average chick is probably going to get approached multiple times.
But I can reject and say, go ahead.
Yeah, but it's about if you respect your partner, you just don't engage.
If you respect your partner, you just don't engage in activities designed for single people.
I won't do it.
Literally, all he was saying is core values.
If you have certain core values, then you look for those core values.
That's it.
Yeah.
Sure, yes.
And don't go for the girl that doesn't have anything.
And you can't change them.
You can't change them because it's going to be terrible.
I don't drink.
I don't go to bars.
I don't go to clubs.
I don't party.
So I'm looking for a girl who's on the level.
Okay, okay, exactly.
I don't go to the clubs.
Like, really.
But what if one time in the year, I want to go to their Afro club?
I love Afra clubs.
I dance Afro and Dance Hole.
So you tell me.
My point of view.
I already have my standards.
So my standard is I'm not interested in the girl that's going to the club every night of the week.
I guess I'm more so coming at it from the angle of almost like warning dudes: don't get involved with chicks that are clubbing all the time because a good girlfriend, that does not make.
Okay, wait.
Can I just say, I think a lot of people are misunderstanding me.
I'm not saying that if I'm seeing someone, they can do whatever they want.
Of course they can do whatever they want, but if they're doing something that they want to be doing that I don't want my partner doing, end of the relationship, and that's okay, all respect, all love.
Like that, that's what you have to understand is if you're having to tell your partner like what you need after you guys have already had that discussion, you're in the wrong game.
Let me ask you this.
So let's say you met, let's say your girl was on Hinge on a dating app on Tinder.
Sure.
And then that was a behavior that she was engaging in prior to meeting you.
However, now you guys are thinking about getting in a relationship, committed and monogamous relationship.
I assume you'd want her maybe people.
This would not be controlling.
It would not be controlling to say, hey, we're both going to delete our dating apps in the same way.
Like, hey.
I think for me, it just sort of feels, maybe this is specific to me, but it just sort of feels like a beta move to have to even have that discussion.
Any girl that I've been genuinely interested in gave up everything immediately.
Like didn't even want to look at other people.
I didn't have to ask them.
And that's because the energy that I bring is powerful enough, I feel, that I don't have to ask a girl or tell a girl what she can and can't do.
She naturally wants to be with someone that's right for them, right?
Like if you have to ask, it's not the right person.
That's personally how I feel.
And if I do, if I have to overextend myself in any sort of way, I don't want it.
You know what I mean?
So that's what it comes down to.
Like, I'm not out here saying, like, my girl can do whatever she wants.
If she's doing something that I don't want in a relationship, all love.
You guys all have your own paths.
Like, live your life.
Do your thing.
I'm just, I just, I know myself.
I respect myself.
And I know that I don't have to ask.
Like, I bring that energy.
You know, I bring an energy that if I start seeing someone, like, I know that they're going to cut things off without me even having to talk about it.
Yeah.
I always want people to make their own decisions.
That's my favorite.
And that's like ideal.
And if you have to try to make someone's decision for them, it's never going to be a problem.
You know what?
And I didn't mean that one-sided.
The same goes for me.
From the jump, if I rock with someone, it's like I get tunnel vision.
And I'm like, this is amazing.
As long as it's amazing for you, it's amazing for me.
And if it's not amazing for you, we'll talk about it or we'll exit it.
That's okay.
I agree with you about dating, like looking for someone, looking for your partner that has those core values that you want to find in your partner.
But I also think that where Brian's coming from is like you're already dating for a while and you find out that suddenly this person goes past a boundary that you have as your core value.
What do you do in those instances if you're not going to ask them to change, but they've already crossed that boundary, but you've been together for a while and you just thought you found that person that goes with your core values.
So where do you establish like the compromise there?
Or do you just stop dating that person and you just wasted six months of your life?
For sure.
You don't have to talk to her or him.
But you just find this out last minute, though.
Right.
And make them understand where they, you know, messed up and how that's not, that's kind of like not what you were standing for and not what you wanted.
And in relationships, it also depends if you set the boundaries beforehand.
How's she supposed to know your boundaries are if you don't have to do that?
Yeah, right.
So if she did it behind your back or after knowing, even though she did it knowing that you don't like that shit, then that's her problem.
But what I'm getting at is though, you find the partner that you want and you've been dating for a while and then she goes, you know what?
It's Tiffany's birthday tomorrow.
I'm going to go to the club with her, just me and the girls, and we're going to celebrate.
Yeah, people are.
you don't want to, you don't want to condone for that.
Yeah, people change their lives.
What I'm getting at is if you, if that, if that already crosses one of your boundaries, you always need to check in and release.
What are you going to do?
What's the boundary that you have?
You probably should have established that at the beginning of the relationship.
Okay, so what do you do then when you get into a relationship, though?
Do you like send a whole ass paragraph and be like, this is everything that I want in a person.
Either you meet it or you go.
You become friends and you don't know.
You get to know them, obviously.
But I'm saying after a while, like, what if they're just like, hey, I'm going to go do this one thing?
Well, you have a conversation.
You had a conversation about it.
So then you agree with compromise then to change.
No, In relationships, in relationships, you always have to check in.
Things change.
I have to do this last super chat.
Then we have one video to watch and then we got to wrap.
Okay, guys.
And then maybe in your day.
Jeremy, Korea, Brian, please go around the table and ask each girl why she feels the need to yell into the mic at the same time as everyone else.
My ears are bleeding.
Yo, Alk, thank you for the super chat.
Brian, you desperately need a vacation left from NYC.
Yeah, I am taking a couple weeks off actually after tonight's show.
Well, I was planning on doing that anyways, but yeah, I'm taking two, three weeks off.
So, yeah.
Thank you, man.
Appreciate the donation, man.
Thank you all for the time.
I'll meet you there.
All right, Lex.
On my own time.
Okay.
All right.
So let's see here.
Actually, you'd have to pay.
You'd take me to Hawaii?
Sure.
Maui.
I took my ex-boyfriend to Hawaii.
You might be upset about that.
I would be upset about that?
Yeah, because of my past relationship.
I mean, are you four seasons?
Good for you?
Oh, it was good.
Four seasons.
Four seasons?
Absolutely.
Okay, you pay for it, get booked, and you can DM me the details.
All right, cool.
Miss Breadwinner.
All right.
Okay, so Eric, can you pull up the Patrice clip and then we're going to watch that and then wrap?
Lastly, we should.
What fucking clip?
Let me ask you a question.
Here's a question.
Here's a good serious question.
Okay, ladies, if you didn't have a vagina, like say it was a terrible train accident, right?
And the doctor was like, we have to remove your pussy right away or you're going to die.
How would you keep your man past, you get a two-month guilty?
I can't leave the bitch right away because she just lost a pussy in a train accident.
Can't just walk right out on him.
How would you keep your man past that if you didn't have a vagina?
Pause there.
You can't.
Because men want pussy, period.
There's no way you're keeping the bitch.
Yes, this is what it is.
You guys are like that.
Keep in mind, you know, recently there's been some train derailments in this country.
It's plausible that a chick lost her pussy.
I'm just saying, maybe a chick lost her pussy recently, so this is very, you know, it's recent.
What's the term for in any case?
So you've lost the pussy.
Pussy's gone.
What do you do, though?
What do you do, though, Lexi, to keep your man?
What that mouth is.
So we'll go around the table.
We're bringing a girlfriend in.
Okay, bringing.
Yeah, so I guess we got to bring in another chick.
Okay.
Because I know that's probably what's going to happen eventually, anyways.
Okay.
What about you?
I don't know.
I expect he's going to communicate, but polyamorous, like I said.
Okay.
All right.
Probably going to find a man who asexual, how you call that person, who'd like nodding to ACE.
Okay, so you'd leave the guy.
You'd leave the guy.
There's no way you can keep a relationship because men's need that, so and I'm not into like poly, so oh, I thought you were about to say you're not into BJs, huh?
I don't know what it doesn't mean.
Can someone translate what a blow job into Russian for us?
The mouth.
The mouth.
The oral cavity.
I still believe that for men is not enough.
Not enough?
Okay.
What about you?
Honestly, great idea of finding somebody who's asexual, leaving your partner, I guess.
I don't want to see them fucking another girl.
So I'd find someone who doesn't want to fuck me.
I think men can live without sex depending on how strong-willed they are.
And there's also other ways of pleasuring a man.
It doesn't need to be your vagina.
Such as your mouth, your hands, or just your heart and your brain.
Your feet.
Yes.
For real.
What about you?
I would first have a conversation with him.
I'm a very open-minded person.
So if he would be okay with me just pleasing him, hand job, blowjob, then great.
But if there's something that he might need more, I would be open to possibly bringing somebody else in or like Polyamory or something.
If he loves you, he wouldn't have to do that.
I expected to go a little differently on that.
But I just, I think it's the conversation with the person.
All right, Eric, let's play the rest of the clip.
I have something else to say.
Wow.
We can talk.
We can talk.
Suck his dick.
Okay.
Mouth.
There have been more than I'm going for previous references.
Asshole, okay, great.
You see what I'm saying?
Now, I've been getting pussy beamed the whole show, right?
But I give women an opportunity to say, I'm going to make myself worth more.
But you just classified yourself as a series of holes.
But, you know, I'm.
I'm supposed to teach you special, but you're just a bunch of holes to yourself.
Go to Mordor.
No one said learn how to play Xbox, learn how to play pool, tell better stories, get another bitch that got a pussy to come on in.
Well, look, whatever.
Okay, I don't think most of you didn't take the bait on that, but yeah.
Okay, we have this from Jeremy Corea.
Well, the bait is like typically the girl's, we'll say mouth, anus, hands.
You gotta watch the clip.
All right, we have Jeremy Corea.
Thank you for the 100, man.
Yo, Brian, thank you, man.
Please go around the table and ask.
Oh, wait.
Oh, I already got this.
I thought, was there another one, Eric?
Did we miss one?
Something about a hobbit in the one.
A what?
A hobbit.
I know that if a guy's dick falls off, a woman would love him unconditionally still and not fuck other people.
Wait, let me read.
Wait, wait, hold on.
Most women.
I think most women.
Yeah, you might be the exception, but I don't think most women.
So you would not.
No, if a guy's dick fell off, a girl would still be okay to be with them if they love them.
I would still love him, but I would want to have sex.
What if he doesn't give head?
That's okay, too.
Not everyone likes heads.
Eric, it's muted.
Can you unmute it?
Yeah, we need the bell binge, bro.
Not everyone likes heads, so I don't know.
Do we not have the hip-hop horn?
Music in my ears.
All right, here, let me read this last one.
We have, yo, Samita, thank you for the 100, man.
Appreciate it.
The first girl is so cringe.
Actually, Lexi, why don't you read this?
Is this about me?
Yeah, you read it.
The first girl is so cringe.
The fact that she can't even like herself, she needs to be Bella's supermodel, whatever her life.
Bella Hadid.
It's coming back up.
Go ahead.
Whatever her last.
Oh, Bella Hadid.
Thanks, honey.
Whatever her last name is, ladies, tell me, are your mom stupid like y'all too?
Because that I would understand why y'all stupid and sluts.
The last person that talked about my mom, I beat his ass, by the way.
So you better watch your goddamn mouth.
Oh my God, the chat is on by your chat this.
Oh, mom.
Fire.
Hello.
Yeah, I want to see you come out here and see what I would love.
The thing is, is they would never see this stuff in person.
I know from experience.
What?
They never say this stuff in person.
Yeah, sure.
They become a fan automatically.
Who cares?
Yeah.
The worst stuff, too.
Then they're like, oh, never mind.
I was just joking.
Yeah, I'm sure you were.
Okay, chat.
Was this a asteroid panel?
Yes or no?
Eric, can you show us?
Astrophic.
Absolutely.
Eric, was this chat?
Was it a godly fucking firestorm upon you?
You're going to have to call the fucking United States.
One in the chat if it was an asteroid episode.
One in the chat if it was an asteroid episode.
Asteroid emojis works too.
One in the chat.
I will fuck you up.
Okay, it seems to be the case that it was, in fact, asteroid.
We're going to get so many fucking views.
Send the asteroid episode.
Okay.
Clout, clout, clout.
Can you hide those, Eric?
Okay, cool.
Final thought before I wrap.
Anybody?
Follow us on Instagram.
Follow me on OnlyFans.
Get a massage.
Find God.
Find God.
Let me get ideas.
Please pray.
Yeah.
Find God if you believe in him.
I love God.
I love Jesus.
Who says we don't believe in God?
We believe in God.
Just because we fuck doesn't mean we don't believe in God.
If you want an incredible partner, start by working on yourself.
Yes.
Amen to that one.
Love yourself.
Don't be judgy like Brian.
Yeah.
JK, love you.
No, just know what you want.
Thank you for having me, Brian.
Sorry for interrupting.
The children are our future, so have more kids.
If you can't handle a hot girl, don't date a hot girl.
Yeah, if you can't take the huge.
Did we make any progress?
Did anyone learn anything?
Probably not.
I feel like we're pretty much ending.
I learned that we're doomed.
I learned.
There's no way this is just how the world thinks.
I learned that.
This isn't normal.
I hope.
Yeah.
I hope that y'all out there are smarter than this.
I just think there's a misconception.
I just think you guys shouldn't take everything so damn seriously.
That's what I think.
Exactly.
You should definitely have some of these people on the chat.
Work on like world peace, man.
Like, go and like go out and vote or something.
Don't worry about it.
Voting.
That's rigged.
That's one horse.
Oh, my God.
What is Lexi doing?
Sorry.
Okay.
But so I'm judgmental, you think?
No, I think you just know what you want, but you do have a very biased thing of the people and what they do around you.
I truly believe that you are very educational and you know exactly what you want.
What you're saying are fucking facts as fuck, but I don't think you're seeing it from all the perspectives because I think you only see it from one way.
And if I sat down one day with you and we would have coffee and I told you my story, then you'd be like, oh, shit.
I don't drink coffee.
I'm sorry.
Okay, you can have your tea or you want.
Okay.
Chamomile tea.
Thank you very much.
I love chamomile tea.
You would understand that you can be a certain way or have a certain outlook on women or on men or whatever people's lifestyles.
That's just a lot of fun.
But other than that, I like you.
I think you're great.
I think you're a great businessman, Brian.
Congratulations to your podcast.
It's Thrive.
Slay.
Slay.
Thank you.
Thank you for the endorsement, Lexi.
I'm going to put that on my Twitter or something.
You should.
So wait, I'm closed-minded.
Yeah, for me, yeah.
I think you're closed-minded because you only want to date.
Oh my god, um, you have a very narrow group of men that you're going to that you want to date.
Oh, the same.
I know what I want.
That's not that's not like that.
You guys should date.
Yeah, oh my god, except he's not on a one day.
Maybe you can look past that.
You know what's funny, actually?
My dad was born in Africa, my mom was born in America, so technically I'm African-American.
Oh, but it's not a lot of fun.
Loophole, South Africa, Algeria.
But you're not less below.
Maybe, you know, under the belt.
Oh, my God.
I can promise you, Brian is definitely African-American.
What the Frick?
Not at you now.
Energy.
Oh, whoa, whoa, whoa.
Okay.
Oh, my God.
Last thing.
Last thing, my friends.
Eric, can you pull it?
Wait, why is this still?
Oh, okay.
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All right, cool.
So, guys, if you don't know this, I've got a nice pack here.
I got a heat pack on my neck.
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You could have been anywhere in the hold on.
I have something.
Someone's flustered a guy.
They can't see.
You're going to have to do it again.
Where's the camera?
You're just not lighting.
Move to our eyes.
God, Jesus Christ.
I'm going to pretend like you need this to make my dick go soft.
You're welcome.
I can already tell that I don't like you.
I'm going to pretend like you need this to make my dick go soft.
Not quite opposite.
Wait, there was one more.
Wait, here we go.
Hold on.
That crazy dance and making my penis soft.
Wow.
That crazy dance and making my penis soft.
Okay, all right.
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Where are you going?
Signing off.
Oh.
Okay, we're about.
Okay.
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