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Anyways, we're going to have the guests introduce themselves.
So please tell us your name, age, occupation, and your school major.
Go ahead.
My name's Alicia.
I'm 21, and I'm a pharmacy technician.
Wait, hold on.
You're 21?
Oh, sorry, 20.
Ah, okay.
Everyone's saying you're 21 with the drinks.
21 heat in my mind now.
Sorry.
It's just, it's just water in our cup, guys.
I'm Jasmine.
I'm 21.
I'm a receptionist at a nail salon, and I'm an early childhood education major.
I'm Emma.
I'm a UCSB graduate with a Bachelor in Communication.
I'm 22, and I'm a personal stylist here in Santa Barbara.
Hello.
Aksana, 31, and I'm a senior biz dev at a logistics company.
Hi, I'm Aja.
I'm 21.
I go to CSUN.
I'm a criminal justice major, and I work at HomeGoods.
Hi, I'm Lily.
Oh my gosh, I blinked out.
Name, age, occupation, and or school major.
I'm 21, and I'm a nursing radiology major.
Hi, everyone.
My name is Loee Wei.
My major was MBA.
I graduated, so right now I'm doing marketing and also content creations.
Rock and roll.
Everyone's Instagrams are in the description.
Guys, show them some love, give them a follow.
Sugar daddies, you know what to do.
Okay, so once again, around the table, current relationship status, longest relationship, and are you on any dating apps?
And that includes seeking.
Go ahead.
I'm single.
My longest relationship, it was on and off, but it was over a course of four years.
And then I'm not on any dating apps right now.
I don't like them.
Have you ever been on a dating app?
Yeah, I've tried Tinder.
I've tried Bumble.
I've tried Facebook dating.
Facebook.
It actually was like Tinder, but it was like Facebook Marketplace.
I feel like there's more genuine apps.
I feel like there are more genuine people on there.
And like, you don't have to pay to see who likes you.
But I don't know.
A lot of not really much in our age group.
Okay.
My longest relationship was two years.
I'm single.
And I had Tinder, but I deleted it and I don't use it anymore.
But I have a Tinder.
You're single?
Yes.
Are you sure?
Yeah, no, I'm single.
I have like.
I'm single.
I have one sneaky link, and that's it.
But we're not sneaky.
What does it mean?
Okay.
Okay, yeah, it doesn't matter.
All right.
Emma, go ahead.
I'm single.
My longest relationship was less than a year.
And I'm currently seeing someone from a dating app from Hinge.
Nice.
Can I have you just tilt the microphone back that way a bit?
Okay, go ahead.
Single.
I've had a three and a half, four year toxic relationship and emotionally unavailable right now.
Are you on any dating apps?
Yes and no.
Okay.
Okay, go ahead.
I am single.
I've never been in a relationship and I'm on Tinder, but I don't really use it.
I'm taken.
My longest relationship was about a year and I am not on any dating apps.
Is your current relationship your longest relationship?
No.
How long have you been in a relationship for?
It's about to be eight months.
Eight months.
Okay, cool.
So I'm single.
Pull this microphone closer towards you.
I'm single right now.
And my longest relationship is a year.
And I'm currently on Raya.
I'm not sure if you guys familiar with Raya, but it's a yes or no.
I mean, it's pretty much a game for me.
I never met anyone on that app.
It's just extremely humbling experience.
Why is it a humbling experience?
Because I feel everyone is dying to get on this app.
And then, because like for Tinder, I used to use Tinders.
Like, I would just leave it there for like a night.
The next morning, I have like 999 plus people like you, like stuff like this.
But then, Raya, I cannot get matches.
You didn't like me.
Yeah.
So Raya's the app for isn't like celebrities and shit are on there?
It's not necessarily.
Like my friend is a dentist in Santa Monica and she's on there.
And so you can get on it if you get a referral.
Yeah.
And yeah.
I heard a way to get on there is either you are in the industry, you're a producer, you're a director, you're a photographer, or you have 500k followers or you have five referrals, which you can't have five friends currently using it that you're able to get on it.
So yeah.
So you've not had any, have you matched with any celebrities or any noteworthy people on there?
It's like rapid.
Here's the thing.
Okay.
You guys keep my secret.
Raya, don't ban me.
But yeah, I've seen people like Charlie Pooth, and then the actor of Get Out, the main actor of Get Out.
I forgot his name.
Daniel.
Yeah, that one.
And then also the supermodel, Cara.
Delavine?
Yeah.
Delveen?
Yeah.
I thought she was dating someone.
I don't know.
She forgot to cancel her subscription again.
But yeah.
None of them match me.
Yeah, and even I see like a fashion.
Wait, so you're by?
I go there to make friends as well.
It's not only for dating purposes.
Well, you said like you saw Cara Del Va la or Delva.
But I mean, I want to make girlfriend too.
Like friends, yeah.
Platonic.
Yeah.
It's like Bumble.
Bumble has BF.
Yeah, yeah, so I guess on Raya, you just select both.
Yeah.
Actually, probably 50% of my matches is all girls.
Yeah.
But are they trying to date you or are you straightforward?
It's like, I just want to be friends.
I'm just trying to make friendships.
I feel maybe a quarter of them is kind of tomboy-ish, but the majority of them just want a girlfriend.
Like, go party together, get dinner and stuff.
But I never go out with any of them.
Yeah.
So you've never met someone from the app from Raya.
No.
Okay.
Yeah.
By bumping to some of them at the parties and events, but not just like a date.
Okay.
Interesting.
By the way, guys, we have some of the girls' dating profile screenshots.
We're going to do a dating app review.
And unfortunately, we couldn't do Raya because they were like kind of strict with that.
She'd probably get kicked off the app if we showed you her profile, allegedly, apparently.
So yeah, Carva del Va la Vava.
Yeah, so just going back once again, have any of you ever been on Seeking?
Never had like, never had an arrangement?
Emma?
No.
I would love to see that.
I'm just be on it.
I would love it.
No, I've not been on Seeking.
Okay.
I've made a profile.
All right.
Seeking arrangements?
Yeah, but it never went through.
Or I never followed through it.
I made a profile with like a sugar daddy, so like sugar baby or singing arrangements in tough times.
And they just never followed through.
I was like, yeah.
It's just too much work because none of them are like an application.
And so I don't want to whip out my laptop and be like, and I've also heard that not only like if you're on it, you also have to like weave through like the men and women.
And make sure you find the right one that's like actually going to pay you.
I'm too lazy for that.
I just wanted to like submit my account and then there's a sugar dining pasta.
And they're like, yeah.
Has anyone here had a sugar daddy?
No.
No.
Nobody?
Lily?
No.
No.
Lily.
Yeah.
Do I look like someone who would?
No.
Just you were a bit silent on the question, so I just wanted to confirm or deny.
Okay, rock and roll, rock and roll.
Okay, so you're the only one with a boyfriend currently, right?
I guess so.
No one else has a thing.
Yeah, no one else.
Okay.
No one else.
That's my friend.
Stop the cow.
All right.
By the way.
Okay.
So let's see.
Okay, so hold on, guys.
Sorry, one sec.
I'm looking here.
I'm going to have to get up really quick to adjust this camera angle here.
It's looking a little funky.
But, okay, so speaking of dating apps, do you think it's wrong for men to lie about their height on dating apps?
Yes.
Yes, yes.
Here, we'll go around the table on this.
Go ahead.
I feel like yes, not because your height's going to dictate whether I like you, but like you're already lying to me.
Like, you're already lying.
And then, what if I wear heels that I wouldn't have done that?
You know what I mean?
I've had this happen before.
How tall are you?
I'm 5'4.
Okay, so you've had it happen before where a guy misrepresented his.
Yeah, but it's like, it wasn't even just that.
It's like other things, and you find out they lie about it.
When they lie about the height, it's never just the height.
They're lying.
The domino effect.
Yeah.
Yeah.
Okay.
So if they lie about one thing, there's other things that there may be.
Yeah, and like they could be tiny, but like I'd still like to know.
What's tiny?
Are you talking about?
No, no.
Oh.
No, just tiny lies.
Just a tiny lie.
The lies are tiny.
Okay.
I thought maybe you were going in a different direction.
Okay.
What about you?
What do you think?
I just don't understand.
Why are you going to lie about it if we're like, if you want to end up hanging out?
Like, I'm going to find out eventually.
Like, why not just be straight up about it?
Right, like, you're going to look at them.
Especially because, like, she has a point.
Like, if I'm wearing heels, I need to know how tall you are.
Because, like, I'm like, if we're the same height and I'm in heels, like, okay, I can, that's fine.
But, like, if you're shorter than me, like, I don't know, like, why are you going to lie about it?
I'm going to see you eventually if it comes down to it.
Okay.
Emma, what do you think?
I don't think it's okay to lie, but I think it's okay to exaggerate a little, maybe.
What, like, tomorrow?
I mean, I embellish a few things.
What do you embellish?
I don't embellish anything about my physical appearance, but like personality, sure.
I'll throw in a few fun little lies.
Wait, can you pop the glasses off the head?
Yeah.
They're kind of reflecting the light.
It's fine.
Okay, so what do you think?
I've definitely been on a date with a lawyer who said he is six feet tall on the app, and then we showed up to dinner and he's my height.
And I'm okay with the man being my height, just not shorter than me.
But if you're five, eight and a half, five, nine, and then you say you're six feet, and I show up in my silettas, and I'm like, my boots are to your eyeballs.
It is just six foot?
No, yeah, because I'm five eight and a half.
So in heels, if I add three and a half, four inch heel, and I'm like, tower.
That's hot.
And the legs.
And yeah, so even though height might be like a shallow thing, like people care or don't care, I do.
And so, yeah, lying is.
Yeah.
Okay.
I'm going to say yes because if you lie about like your higher age, like what are you going to lie to me about in the future?
Yeah.
Exactly.
Guys are lying about their age.
Yeah.
Totally.
Lying down or lying up?
Lying up.
Lying up, yeah.
So lying to make themselves older.
Oh, wow.
Okay.
Yeah.
I would assume it might be the opposite because maybe older guys think that they might not be.
Well, if you're older, you might not be in their age.
What's it called?
No, the preference.
Yeah, so if they put themselves younger, older is better, then they're more likely to match with women.
I don't want an ancient man.
Yeah, the one that's about to kick the bucket, and then you can get their bucket.
I want to go back in medieval times and old-timey ancient man.
Okay.
Like a mummy?
Who's the Tutum come?
What's his name?
Something like that.
What's the mummy's name?
The Pharaoh?
Anyone chat?
The Pharaoh, there you go.
Chat.
Like a Shakespeare guy.
Who's the mummy?
What's his name?
The Pharaoh.
King Tut?
King Tut.
You're trying to get on that.
Oh, yeah.
Come away with me, King Tut.
He will wrap you up.
Okay, go ahead, Lily.
I, yeah.
Height matters.
I mean, like, is it wrong for men to lie about their height on dating apps?
I think yes, because it's like, I feel like you have to be honest from like the point on.
Like, it's a trust thing.
And in order for me to develop feelings for you, like, I have to be able to trust you.
And if that's the first thing you lie about, it's like a casual buildup of just what else could you be lying to me about?
Okay.
What do you think?
Well, I think lying is a necessary because some girls do like short guys.
Like all of my ex-boyfriends are short as fuck.
I've never date tall guys.
I just feel, you know, like there's different qualities about men's, right?
Either you're tall, you are rich, you are loyal, and you have humor.
Nobody can get all of them.
I just gave up the tall part.
Like, I don't care about height.
Just be loyal and has money.
I mean, at least you're honest.
So, okay, so you wouldn't, it wouldn't really bother you if a guy lied about his height on a dating app.
Or maybe you just also don't care so much about height.
I don't care about height.
Really?
Yeah.
There are worse things to lie about than height.
Yeah, that's true, though.
Well, that is true.
So you don't care about height?
I don't care about height.
How tall are you?
I'm 5'6.
You're 5'6?
Yeah.
Okay.
Yeah, but average men in America is like 5'8.
So they're gonna be taller than you already.
But for someone who's above average, and then they say I'm six foot, 6'4, and you show up in your heels, and they're like, like I said, your boobs to their eyes.
It's like, yeah, it just doesn't work.
Yeah.
For you, I think it's cannot lie.
Yeah, but their eyes are going to be on your boobs and no matter what.
I've never been on a date with a guy.
And it's fine.
And it's like, I can also show up in my Air Maxis and we're the same height and it's fine.
But it's just if on the app you told me that you're taller, then you show up in your head.
And you show up, it's just.
I mean, I'm like, you can lie to me about your height.
I'll lie to you and be like, yeah, I'm over my ex.
Let's lie together.
Yeah.
And that's how health and wellness happens.
Well, I mean, you're going to lie about your ex anyways.
So, I mean, it is what it is.
But, okay, so a couple of you said that if they lie about their height, then they're going to lie about other things.
So if it's wrong for men to lie about their height on dating apps, do you think it's wrong for women to wear makeup in their photos on dating apps or use photos or sorry, use filters in photos on dating apps?
Do you think that that is also wrong?
Yes.
We'll start to get a little bit more.
I feel like if it's a drastic filter, then you go close.
I feel like if it's a drastic filter and you don't look the same, then obviously, like, don't post that because they're going to see you and they're going to think you're ugly because you don't look the same way you just looked.
But if it's makeup, like, you don't think like my lips are pink.
You don't really think that because they're not.
Like, you would know like they're not pink.
Like, you can make, you can, you can know.
You would think that.
And I usually, I feel like, if you do post pictures of makeup, you could at least post at least one with like less makeup or no makeup.
If you're comfortable with it.
You don't have to, but that's what I've got.
I think that's a fair compromise if a woman has at least one or two photos where it's little makeup or no makeup and then the rest are makeup.
But you don't really see that on the guy.
A lot of the pictures probably aren't because you want to look your best.
But yeah, I think you should make a compromise and at least try to make yourself seem more real.
Because I see where you're coming from that like people or girls should post like more natural pictures.
And like, not going to lie, you'll see on my Tinder, I did that.
Like I have my natural and then I have my overfilled makeup.
But it's also at the same time, like girls, like, I don't know, girls kind of have the advantage to get to put makeup on and it kind of sucks.
But at the same time, that's kind of what society's turned to at this point, that it's acceptable for girls to wear so much makeup when guys literally don't get that option.
But I feel like a lot of girls do overdo it because they do not look like that without makeup, like at all.
Yeah.
Yeah.
I mean, makeup is one thing, but I think if you're face tuning or using filters or photoshopping, then like.
That's just like cheating the system.
Have y'all.
Have any of y'all ever seen those like Warp Fails where there's like a background and the whole like there's a fucking dwarf whenever they just skim a commercial and she like runs her hand on her waist and it's like her fingers almost a lengthy, a lengate, a lengate, whatever the word is a lengthate, a long gate along a lengthate.
Wow, I don't think.
Yeah, I mean, I don't think that that's misleading.
But wearing makeup yeah, I mean it's still kind of misleading.
No, but I mean I came here, I came here with no makeup on and right away one of the girls said told me I looked pretty.
So I'm not gonna either.
I can do either, I don't really care.
What do you think about like the face tuning out?
So no, face tune no, that's too much.
I mean.
I think if you're going on a date with one of those like take her swimming first kind of guys, why the fuck would you want to date a loser like that anyways?
Well, so I don't actually the.
The thing with the the face tuning apps is facetune just isn't good in general.
It's like bad for women too, because it like gives you dysmorphia.
Yeah, completely changing your body.
It's gonna warp your own self-image Image, you're gonna be like, oh my god, why don't I look like this girl?
Yeah, it's not, it's all fake.
It's not good overall.
But so, okay, and I'm curious if you guys encounter this.
Do you often see male profiles on the dating apps?
Those of you that are currently on dating apps or previously on dating apps, do you frequently see guys that they are using filters on their photos?
I imagine there's some, but it's probably pretty rare.
Yeah, it's pretty rare.
Yeah, it's rare.
Yeah.
Whereas like it's more so like Miro selfie.
Yeah.
Verse 10.
I mean, I think the debate is what's worse, a girl using a filter in a dating app or a guy posting with a fucking fish on his dating app.
I go fishing.
I actually went fishing yesterday and I posted on my Instagram.
Do you like them?
I love fishing.
Oh, no, absolutely.
I will post a picture of me holding 10 fish on my fingers.
Okay, you.
But I will never swipe on the guy that told me a fish posted a fish.
I'm like, I understand the sport and the fun of it, but like, just be better.
Don't post that on the dating app.
Yeah, yeah.
Which I don't have, but yeah.
Well, okay, definitely.
I would say face filters are worse, but okay, so you guys don't frequently see guys who are posting filters on the dating apps.
My experience on the dating apps is that shit's common, and it's every fucking thing.
Every girl, every girl.
Not every girl, but like 80% out of 100.
I would say women who use filters on dating apps, probably 80% I want to say, are using filters.
Some of them, it's every single photo.
And that's pretty disingenuous, I think.
So I think men should start lying about their height.
It's time we equal the playing field.
Everybody's got a lot of fun.
Is that your equivalent to makeup or filters?
Is lying about your height?
Yeah, I think men should start lying about your makeup.
Yeah, like you say you're like 6 feet and you're like 5'1.
That's a big jump.
5'1 kings.
5'1 kings, you are now 6'0.
That's a big job on the dating apps.
Have you heard about the surgery that short guys are getting to get to makeup color?
So it's like the male BBL.
Guys are breaking their legs.
Yeah, you break your legs and then they make them longer.
Love that.
So let's just continue going around though.
So your thoughts?
Oh, I said some girls do it.
Like, it's too much.
Because they don't look like that.
Okay, Lily, your thoughts?
Is it wrong for a girl to wear makeup or use filters on a dating app?
I feel like it's wrong if you like actively lie about what you look like under the makeup.
Because I mean, I feel like everybody knows like makeup changes like the way you look or like it enhances your features or it can change completely the way you look.
And it's like guys and girls kind of know that.
But I feel like if you're just like, oh, like this is how I naturally look, like I look like this, like even under the makeup and you don't like lying about it, just I don't agree with that.
But that's just me.
Well, I have to be honest, I did phase tune my face a little bit here and there in my pictures, but I did it so subtle so not many people can see like, oh, you don't look like that in person.
But also continue the topic we're talking about.
You need to check the Chinese dating app.
Men is absolutely Photoshop the shit out of their face.
They just whitened their face to an extent the background starts getting pale.
Like, because in Asian culture, being like light skin, like fair skin as a beauty standard, so everyone wants to be super light.
Yeah.
Yeah.
I've definitely seen, actually, we have a clip of this.
I wasn't anticipating to pull this up, but Eric, can you switch to the video tab really quick?
Okay, go down.
We're going to, no, no, no.
All the way at the top.
It's the makeup one.
Makeup LOL.
We don't have audio for this.
But these are some of the crazy transformations that you can see people doing.
Have you seen TikTok?
There's some videos.
Have you seen them?
And girls are like putting extra fake things on their face and like lifting it and like making themselves look more like.
No, but have y'all seen TikToks where they're talented?
They need to be like elderly women.
And she'll have no teeth, super wrinkles.
And then she does like this makeup tutorial, bam.
And then instantly.
Okay, but look at these transformations.
I mean, this is egregious.
They should really go into graphics.
Okay, that's doing too much.
I studied that.
Men, that was my main thing.
Men.
You need to start lying about your height.
No, your finances.
You need to say you have a better size.
Penis size.
We will know.
Well, whatever.
Okay, we'll see.
With your height, you can lie a little bit, like a little bit.
An inch or two.
Yeah, an inch or two.
But if you're going to lie like five inches, come on.
Five, one to six, one.
That's what I'm talking about.
Five, one, two, six, one.
No, no, no, I got that.
If someone was 5'1 and told me they were 6'1 and showed up, I would have the best time of my life.
I'd be like, oh my God, you're down to clown.
Now, obviously, these are very extreme.
Yeah, that is like extra.
But like, it's a spectrum, right?
So, like.
That's extra.
I don't know.
There's a limit.
There's a limit.
You know what?
I'm in favor.
What if we just got rid of makeup and then it levels the playing field for everyone?
Who's in favor?
I mean, you're literally not in favor.
I'm in favor of makeup.
Because your competitors are no longer wearing makeup either.
Thus, the playing field.
But even if you see like Haley Bieber doing her makeup tutorials, I know, but it's just like they're like, adapt here, adapt there, bum, bum, bum.
They're done.
And so, yeah, it has the beauty society has like transitioned more into like a less makeup standard.
But I don't think we will ever just like walk away from it because at the end of the day, we put our beat our face, as people say, for ourselves, not for anybody else.
It's for our own like self-esteem and like likings and things like that.
It's just fun.
Yeah, yeah.
It's like our artwork.
Exactly.
It's like painting a canvas or painting my own face.
I don't think it's that deep.
Like if anyone's offended by makeup, that seems like a you problem.
Yeah.
In Japanese culture, wearing makeup is showing respect.
Really?
Like if you wear makeup on a date, it's showing respect to the man.
So keep that in mind.
It's showing respect to the man.
But to the man.
But why do we want to show respect to the man?
We don't need to show respect to the men.
That's facts.
Yeah.
They could just be on their own.
And if I want to put makeup on, I put it on myself.
What?
So she's wearing the streets.
What?
Okay, but are you saying that you don't wear makeup for men?
No.
No.
I've gone on dates.
No, no, no.
No cap.
I've gone on the first date in my Lulu athleisure workout.
Like the first time I met, I went out on the date with this another different lawyer.
And I was like, okay, I'm coming straight from workout.
He's like, okay, that's fine.
I literally rolled out, did a hit class at Equinox, and then met him for like cheeseburger at this place in Austin, Texas, and fully sweaty, sweaty hair, no makeup.
Yeah, so.
I don't think attention from men is the purpose or the focus.
It's just a bonus.
Literally, it's just a bonus.
Most men, if I get it, that's nice.
Or like, why do you have to do your makeup?
It's like, it's not for you.
Yeah.
Like, I don't care what you think.
Yeah.
But okay, I mean.
Taylor Swiss song, The Bejewel, the.
Anybody?
Nobody?
Okay.
I'm not a Swiss person.
But I mean, you can acknowledge.
You can at least acknowledge to some degree that you wear makeup to be presentable for math.
Well, and just in general, but I think a woman looks truly beautiful with nothing on.
Absolutely nothing.
Hear here, Emma.
Hear here.
By the way, she spent one hour.
She was.
She ran to the bathroom.
Wait, so you're, but you're from China, correct?
Yes.
Okay, got it.
I was just curious because you brought up the Japanese thing, so I wasn't sure if you were.
Okay.
Rock and roll.
Okay.
Wow.
Good times.
Good times.
Let's do some dating app review.
Oh, God.
Let's do some review.
Actually, wait, before that, let me get these, hit these soup chats really quick.
Just a reminder, guys, all super chats will be displayed in Stream Overlay.
I will read Super Chats $10 and up.
And, oh, wait, are we missing?
Shit, we're missing one of the questions.
That's weird.
Let me get the super chat here.
We got Luke Warm.
Thank you for the $10 super chat, man.
I appreciate it.
Have the ladies rate their intelligence on a scale of 1 to 10.
Curious to see if their answers correlate later.
Enjoying the show quality.
Keep up the good work.
Bricksane.
Okay.
Thank you.
Luke?
Yeah, we can go around the table really quick.
Rate your intelligence on a scale of 1 to 10.
Go ahead.
I would probably say a 7 because I'm book smart and I try to really think about things like in social situations too, but I am naive because I consider people's feelings too much.
Sure.
I think I would say I was like a six because I'm not, I'm going to be honest, I hate school.
But like, I have my education, but I'm more like street smart, I guess, in like social situations.
Well, I wouldn't use your no, I wouldn't use your education, like your college education as a metric of whether you're intelligent or not.
People be cheese.
I still say, yeah, I'm a six.
Okay.
Not that bright.
All right.
Fair enough.
I would say my higher education taught me a certain level of critical analysis and therapy taught me self-awareness, but rarely do I tap into either.
So expect pretty low-grade intelligence from me.
I'm not blowing anyone's brains.
Yeah, I don't know.
I'm definitely street smart.
Very.
Was born and raised in Russia, so I will out-run, out-smart, whatever I need to do.
Have a graphic design degree, which was the worthless degree you've ever possibly got.
So if you're in college, don't study anything art.
Major something business, nursing, something more like sustainable.
Yeah, street smarts for sure.
Math, kind of on the e-fey side, but.
I love math.
I love math.
You love math.
I love math.
Yeah.
I took an extra year of math just because I love it so much.
Oh, no.
Am I saying I'm a seven or eight?
I can be slow sometimes.
Same.
Yeah.
I would give myself like a three.
My gosh.
I'm a very passive person.
I'm very open to listening to people's opinions and ideas.
But I don't really press it onto people.
I guess I'm, like, sort of dumb in a way because I don't, like, push myself too far out there.
I'm more of, like, you don't have opinions.
No, I don't have opinions.
I'm just quiet.
Yeah, I'm more of like, if somebody yells at me or like says something to me, I just kind of take it.
I don't like bite back.
I just like, okay.
But I feel like that doesn't mean you're not smart.
You just aren't.
It's okay.
That's what I was going to say.
You're still smart.
I have my dumb moments.
Wifey material.
Okay, go ahead.
Well, I'm going to say A because I did finish my undergrad in finance and accounting.
Oh, eight, okay.
Yeah.
And MBA was concentration of business analytics.
But that two points is I have really bad memories, probably from the caffeine pills I take every day.
Really bad memories about faces and names.
What?
Yeah.
Didn't you fuckers learn anything in college?
No, we did.
That's yours, Brian.
Mine?
Yeah.
My intelligence.
Jeez, I don't know.
It's a good question.
I feel like it's hard to.
I mean, there's so many different types of intelligence.
Yeah.
In some ways, I think I'm smart in other ways.
I think I'm like.
I know what you're saying.
I don't know.
I think that's all of us.
I think we can all say that we're smart in some ways.
I want to say like 7.5.
7.5.
Okay.
So, oh, also, just while we're rating everyone, Stiffler, ask the ladies to rate themselves on the scale of 1 to 10.
We'll start here.
Go ahead.
I'm going to go with my favorite number, 7 again, because I feel like I have depression and stuff, and I can be kind of hard to deal with.
Like, problems and stuff.
Wait, no.
Hold on, but just looks.
This is just looks.
Oh, okay.
I thought we were talking about personalities.
I mean, we'll do both.
So give us your 1 to 10 looks and then 1 to 10 personality.
Say like a six.
Looks?
And then personality, seven.
Seven.
Okay.
But then you have the depression.
You said you're hard to deal with.
I feel like for people who haven't had a similar childhood, it's just they can't wrap their brain around it.
Like, for example, my mom and I don't talk, right?
She's abusive.
And a guy told me once, he's like, have you tried to talk to her?
And I was like, yeah, did you not listen to anything?
I just said like she doesn't.
She doesn't.
We don't talk.
Like, I've tried to talk to her.
Just things like that.
I feel like I can get not mad, but little things like trigger me.
And I feel like, oh, we don't connect now because that's like such a big thing that you're, it's just, if you can't understand certain things about me, it's going to be hard for us to connect as people.
And like other way around too.
But I feel like it makes it more difficult in social situations.
And so how does that manifest itself in relationships?
I feel like because I don't have family, not that I'm clingy, but like I want to like do everything with them.
And for people who like doing their own thing and like have their own freedoms that they want to have, it's kind of, they can get kind of annoyed with me or like if they're kind of short with me and like, oh, you're mad at me.
So I think there's a problem.
And I'm like, now I'm like, oh, why are you upset?
Like, like, I'm trying to fix it.
And like, really, it's not that big of a deal.
And I make it like a bigger deal than it needs to be because I want to make sure like everything's good.
But then it does turn into an argument when there really wasn't one.
I just take things too personally.
Because I always think I'm wrong.
You always think you're wrong.
I always try to try to find a way, even if I'm not wrong, I try to find a way to blame myself.
Because then if I can blame myself, then I can do something to fix it.
Because I'm like a control freak and I want to fix everything.
Okay, but you consider yourself to be always wrong.
Situations where I know I'm not wrong, I'll try to find a way to make it you can be wrong so you can fix it.
Yeah.
Or do you think you just said people pleaser?
And you know how there's like personality tests where there's like a woo and woo Burgers Meyers.
Myers.
Thank you.
I'm like, but I'm not talking about it.
And so there's like personality tests.
And maybe you're fall into that.
I'm not putting you in the box, but just like there's like a three and the woo definition where like they're constantly trying to please other people.
Okay, we gotta move on.
Yeah, goodbye.
One to ten.
Looks and personality.
I think looks, I'm an eight.
Maybe on a good day, an eight and a half.
Like, okay.
Maybe a seven, like then it's a test.
Wait, so looks eight and a half.
And then personality, I think, I think I'm pretty funny.
I'm gonna say an eight also.
I think I have a good personality.
Sure, go ahead.
I just want to preface that I'm definitely saying at a table of tens right now.
I think everyone here is a test.
Shut up, bitch.
No, and I promise I'm I promise I'm not trying to be a fuck me, but today's a bad day for me.
I feel like a five today.
Just like I was trying to do my makeup in the bathroom and it wasn't working.
And you know when you're just frustrated with your face and you're like, you just want to get it done.
Well, I just either, I wish I like didn't put any on because I feel like I messed it up by putting it on.
We told you.
You guys were right.
Yeah, they told me they said don't wear any makeup and I was like, maybe.
Okay, personality.
Personality eight because I'm fucking nuts, but some guys like that.
I mean, at least I'm never boring, I guess.
Yeah, you're right.
Yeah.
I'm tooting my own horn, but nine, but there's always room for to perfect.
And that's look-wise, but that's just, again, just tooting my own horn.
And then the personality 13.
I'm a blast.
13.
13.
Sure.
Look, seven, and then I'm going to say personality nine.
Okay.
Lily.
I'm giving myself a five.
Five?
No, not even.
Better.
And like personality, probably like a six because I just have a lot of mental health stuff that I would like to wear.
Don't we all?
Yeah, don't subtract from mental health issues.
You can be mentally ill and sexy.
And fun.
I'm at the personality part.
I cry over everything.
It's okay, but you can't.
That's fine.
Girls with mental illness are hot in my opinion.
No.
Yep.
I'm a fucking rocket, babe.
Yeah.
Okay, but so what are your issues?
That's a very deep question.
Yeah.
There's a lot of people.
How much tempting we have to set up?
There's a lot.
makes you better just i just have a lot of very anxiety I do have severe anxiety.
I don't know if you can see that.
Panic attacks.
I'm like jittering.
I'm like shaky right now.
Well, maybe that's a bunch of things.
Well, no, it's because I'm anxious.
I have shaky hands, but it's just natural.
I'm not usually shaky.
I'm just like.
Well, I mean, I mean, this is your first time doing something like this, I imagine.
And the cameras are on, the lights are on.
I just don't know what to say.
Because I blink out.
I'm like a goldfish.
You're a goldfish?
Ted Lasso said, be a goldfish.
It's a good thing.
Okay, so anxiety, panic attacks?
Yeah, I do have depression and depression.
Okay.
My parents kind of taught me to be more of a very passive person.
You know, kind of keep your head down after like all the Asian hate crimes and stuff happening because I did get hate crimed once, not fun.
But it's just kind of like that stuff that I feel like I could work myself better to be like my best self for my friends, family, like my boyfriend, just anyone around me, basically.
Yeah.
Well, sorry to hear that you were the victim of a hate crime.
That's unfortunate.
So, okay, what about you?
For me, I think for look, I will give 7.5.
My first boyfriend said I'm a 5.5.
So I keep that in mind forever.
But thank you for that point.
Emotional damage.
Your boyfriend said you were a 5.5.
Yeah, yeah, like very serious.
Okay, last time I was on here, a guy DM me and said I was a 10, and then when I didn't respond for two hours, said, fuck you, you're an 8.5.
But I'm like, that's still good.
He wasn't that bad.
Personality-wise.
Personality-wise, I would say in English, I'm seven, but in Chinese, I'm nine because I'm still learning English.
I'm much more funnier in Chinese.
Wait, hold on.
Just let me clarify.
She said I'm funnier in Chinese.
Like in China or in Chinese.
I can relate with that.
Yeah, because sometimes I say jokes that make sense in my head in Russian and then they don't translate well in English.
And it's like, okay, I just wasted breath.
I can see that because I mean, yeah, that makes sense.
That makes sense.
So, okay.
Brian, what about you?
What about me?
Yeah.
What's the question?
Looks and personality.
I want to say I'm looks 6 or 6.9 on a good day.
What's a good day look like for you?
Just got a haircut.
I make a mascara.
I passed away.
I need to get a bit of a 10.
Like, I'm very pale.
Beard oil.
Extremely.
Sometimes I get a little bit of dandruff, you know.
So it's just like got some flakes.
So it depends, you know, like I also wear contacts if I got my glasses on.
You know, I'm kind of doing the nerdy thing.
So you know, it depends.
It depends.
But yeah, 6, 6.9 on a good day.
Personality-wise, I give myself a solid like 7.5 or an 8.
That's low.
7.5 or an 8.
I'm like the most, probably the most boring person to date, I think.
Like, I have my head on very straight.
I would say I have a lack of mental health issues.
But I'm pretty, like, I'm a very stoic person.
And like, if you want to go on a hike or go on adventures, I'm not the one.
No.
You're going to say you weren't the one.
I'm a homebody.
And like, I'm pretty, I'm more introverted.
I'm not going to be a homebody and still go on the hike.
What is that?
I'm a homebody.
I don't like hikes.
I'm a homebody and I'm in a turkey truck.
Also, also, the other thing is, the other thing is, I work a lot.
I work a lot.
I don't know.
These chicks, like, they got energy to go camping and shit.
Bro, I'm fucking tired.
You can come over.
No, that's why.
Don't camp in my bed.
That's why you need to get a girl with mental illness.
All we want to do is nothing.
Yeah.
Sleep, chips, lie.
So on your dating profile, looking for mental illness.
Yes.
Yeah.
Yes, definitely.
But, anyways, let's get these other super chats here.
We have Everyday Edgar here.
Thank you for the attendees super chat.
I'm not going to have the girls do this unless they agree to do it.
So I'll leave it up to you guys if you want to do it.
You're under no obligation to.
Every day Edgar seems to have an interest in their own.
But why is that important?
I can see your haircut.
But why is that important information for them?
Ladies, guess the weight of the person next to you.
But why is that information important to them?
Are they small boys who can lift me up and throw me on the bed?
Or like, what, or is there like weight fetish?
Like, that's what.
Why is this important?
It's not that important.
But you're not going to date us.
It's not that deep.
It's not that deep.
For girls, it is.
Why do we want to display our weight on the public plastic?
Speaking of the weight, every day Edgar, I think it's unlikely that the girls are going to want to answer this question.
Let's guess your own your own buddy.
Sorry.
Let's get his weight.
But don't you guys think, you know, on a lot of these dating apps, they have a height field, you know, you can put in your height.
Don't you guys think there should be a weight field?
On Hinge, you have to call eating disorders, but there's nothing called a height disorder.
Yeah.
You're already seeing pictures of us.
And some girls will put a full body picture.
Like, do you really need to know our weight?
People start like that.
No, right.
No.
Okay.
She's not wrong.
Well, actually, that's information from the American Eating Health Association.
Well, I would say a major factor in the well, okay.
You brought up people deleting themselves.
Men delete themselves at a higher rate than women.
And I would say that one of the reasons men delete themselves is an inability to find a romantic partner.
You don't struggle with that.
You don't have to delete yourself from an eating disorder.
You have to eat to live.
So if you don't eat, you die.
Okay, but like there's more short men.
I mean, we can get into the statistics.
Right, so the debate is that.
But like, what, but what's what?
I mean, you're using a very extreme example.
I don't think putting a weight, a weight thing on Tinder or Hinge would.
But why do you need to know our weight?
Like, why is that information do to you?
Exactly.
Yeah.
Will that make you swipe no?
Because you're.
If I say, say, I say I'm 200 pounds.
Yeah.
What does that information do?
Whereas like I could be lying that I'm 200 pounds and that might be like something that you look forward and I show up and I'm like this skinny skinny anorexic.
It's apples and oranges to compare.
A short guy deleting himself is just as tragic as a woman going through an eating disorder.
Both are tragic.
Yeah, but you're using it.
Yeah, but you're using very extreme examples here.
We're just let's talk more generally just about the height versus weight thing.
Okay.
So let's talk about it.
On dating apps, there's a height field for both men and women, yet there's no weight field.
Shouldn't they?
It's easier to tell if someone's smaller short on a picture.
Or harder to tell.
And then like someone's weight.
You can tell.
I mean, I don't have enough.
You don't need an exact number.
Why?
When they don't filter it.
What pictures are you looking at?
Girls just posting their eyes?
Yeah, you can post it.
Exactly.
A torso of the most.
Look, let me put it in the middle.
Weight is a very first small number.
So if we're going to do that, let's put stick sizes on.
Yeah, yeah, guys.
Go back to mental health.
Weight affects women's mental health.
And so we nurse.
We nurse.
Here's what we're going to do.
We're going to add three things to the dating apps, right?
Because obviously I have control over the Tinder.
All these.
We're going to add weight.
We're going to add penis size.
And we're going to add labia in your inner or Audi.
Okay?
In your Audi.
Wait, Eric, can you pull up my nonprofit organization?
So dead.
I watched the podcast and you were saying that Eric.
Please support my nonprofit organization, the American Network, against labia placy.
We are a grassroots movement.
Erica's on the board of directors.
We're looking for volunteers if any of you guys are down.
Basically, it's just very unfortunate women are shamed if they have a so-called Audi, if they have Audi, large labia, beef curtain.
These are the derogatory terms.
Hold on, hold on.
You know, there's these really terrible terms that both women and men use to refer to women with Audis.
You got roast beef, beef curtains, wizard sleeve.
Wizards.
And I think it's wrong.
What's a wizard sleeve?
A wizard sleeve.
A wizard sleeve.
Like Hanging out.
But do you know why people, by people, I mean women and man have the shame for it?
It's because when you watch porn, Pornhub, there is very shallow, structured, surgically done vaginas, labia.
Yeah, but if you watch, and back in the day, like Playboy magazines, you open up in the very front.
It's like perfect.
Yeah, it's perfect.
Bologna.
Bologna.
I love baloney.
Okay, so in the past, yes, with magazines, Playboy, and stuff, they definitely shopped.
They definitely had a certain type of woman.
However, I can just say, based on my own research, I got an archive some ladies with large labia.
That's your favorite.
Elsa Jean.
Elsa Jean boys.
Okay.
Shout out.
What's up?
I mean, yo, there are subreddits that are dedicated to women with large labia.
Why do you know?
Lips that you can't do.
Yeah, but it's the same as women.
Labia gone wild, GW.
I don't know.
Yeah, but it's the same thing as like women with big breasts, small breasts.
It's the same body parts.
Men with bigger wieners, smaller wieners.
And so it's the same idea.
But because I'm older here, the generation growing up, Pornhub, Playboy, all of that, it has been perfectly structured and shown that this is what your lady part should look like.
And then you go on a date or you sleep with someone and it doesn't look like one magazine or anything that you've seen on TV.
You're like, what the hell is that?
And so that's where the whole, should it be bigger, smaller, any, outie.
That's what I want to know.
You know, there's obviously like a standard for men that like you want a big dick.
Is it bad to have a big pussy or do is it a small pussy?
What is the standard for that?
There's no way to move.
No, it's so interesting.
Well, and there's different factors too.
So like, I mean, maybe a more apt comparison to dick size might be tight or loose.
But speaking on labia, the Audis versus the innies.
Are you talking about the outside or like the inner?
The labia.
The outside outside.
The lips.
The lips.
Oh, man.
Okay.
So.
Don't they all look the same?
No.
They do.
They all look the same.
But just some.
Some hang a little more than others.
Yeah, but it's not right.
It's not wrong.
It's just what it is.
But I mean, and there's also a wrongly, there's this train of thought that if a woman has slept with a lot of men.
Well, that she's going to have roast beef labia.
That's not true.
No, but it's the same thing they say like your vagina is going to be loose.
That's not how it works.
You do kiggles and the shin tightens.
So it doesn't matter how much sex you have.
That like if the girl's been like run through, then they're going to be hanging.
That's not true.
That's not a virgin could have large limits.
Don't you just re-tighten back up?
I would not have to do it.
It's not about tight or like it's about like your lips.
Yeah.
Eric, can you pull up the sandwich again?
No, no.
You're going to have to find it in the folder.
Take a second to find it, Eric.
Let me know when you have it.
But you know what, though?
I wish.
Oh, what's he doing?
Okay.
But you know if her legs are open, like you can't tell.
You can't tell.
Wait.
When?
What do you mean?
I'm a fan of large labiobiotics.
You can't tell.
You can tell.
What difference does it make for a guy?
It's like a fetish, no?
Like, if you're a little bit more like a little bit boobs or small boobs, that's what I would do.
You could consider it a fetish.
That's a woman suffering from BPD, a big pussy disorder.
But, sorry, what was the question that you were...
I didn't ask a question.
Oh, who was asking?
What was the question?
Emma, were you?
Oh, I said.
What's your infatuation?
I've seen that.
Yeah, but there's so many artworks that display women's private parts, and it shows the beauty of it, that there's different shapes, sizes, colors, texture, whatever.
He likes it.
We're not saying she does on Reddit and get funny pictures.
No, no, no, I know.
But you were saying, yeah.
I'm on the fucking team.
And the question, why are you on the team of bigger?
Bigger the better.
Does it like grip you?
So, by the way, and it's not like I only would like out innies are cool too.
Like, it's not that.
Just, you know, he goes down and a girl and it's an Enie.
He's like, Brian's like, yo, you got an RB sandwich down there.
Actually, you know what?
At one point, I was like, I think they're more rare than Innies, has been my experience.
Audis are more rare.
So at one point on a dating app, I was like, I'm only interested if you have an Audi.
You do not.
And all these chicks are like belly button.
I'm like, no.
That's not what I'm talking about.
Okay, Brian, Brian.
I'm such a cap for that.
I heard is if you have a butterfly, which is out.
Oh, butterfly wings is another.
Butterfly wings, not the car, but yeah.
They said that kind of feels better because there's more winkles inside and get wetter.
Is that true?
So, okay, like the appearance, it grips, so to speak.
And I think it helps.
So it's true.
I'm actually articulating this.
I can't believe I'm actually articulating why I prefer this.
No, but I would say it helps with lubrication.
Save lubrication.
What are they giving away, though?
It kind of keeps it that way.
Keeps the lubrication there.
You know what I'm saying?
No, I don't think that's how it works, though.
It makes sense.
Not that I'm a biologist, but no.
Yeah.
Can I come back to why you know that this is on subreddit?
Because he's giving away my genital subreddit.
Do you actively search it up and be like with all the other 12-year-olds?
Yes.
This is exactly what I want right here.
This exact picture of this.
I'll just say that there's several Reddit communities which they've got like hundreds of thousands.
I think one of them has like a million.
Subreddit, sorry guys, we're having a little technical issue here.
Has like a million followers for the subreddit.
In which Brian Atlas is the host.
I'm the moderator.
I'm a mod.
Eric, if you can join.
If you can fix that real quick.
Oh, there we go.
No, I'm not a mod.
I'm not a mod.
He's an admin.
He's a BPG slider.
Yeah, I wish.
I wish.
Well, no, it's like, okay, you have, should I list the fucking names of the subreddits so you guys can scope?
Let's go.
Just put it on this memorized.
R slash lips that grip.
Oh, yeah.
And then R slash Labia GW for Labia Gone Wild.
I'm going to start my own.
R slash baloney ponies.
R slash bald-headed yogurt slingers for raiding guys, weewees.
what the fuck yeah i'm gonna start a subreddit you came up with that a little too fast I got more.
One-eyed snake, third leg.
Oh, here's a few more.
R slash butterfly wings.
Shit, I don't know.
There's probably like six more, but they're not coming to me.
There should be one where it's like both, so we can like trade pics of like, I don't know, large labias and like uncircumcised wieners or that would be the equivalent.
There's probably subreddits for that shit, too.
Yeah.
Let's make this business business new with the guys on Reddit.
If anyone's on Reddit.
You guys should read R slash Big Dick Problems.
Oh, no.
Because apparently there's a lot of dudes with giant dicks.
Having issues.
I actually hate big dicks.
I think that's like a two.
It's not.
It's not enjoyable.
Yeah, it hurts.
It hurts.
It's so painful.
I like them.
Show me a micro.
That's awesome.
Okay.
So let me get these rest of these chats here.
Okay, so we got Dayvon Jackson here.
Good to see you, man.
Happy Thanksgiving.
Did you really ask why you need to respect the man that could potentially be your boyfriend?
I hope no man shows you respect on a date ever again then, El Mayo.
I believe someone said like, this was probably 30 minutes ago, that I think it was you maybe, why show a man respect on a date, right?
Something like that.
I mean, you were, no, you, it was.
It was one of you two.
I did say.
Wait, no, no, no.
What did I say?
When she was talking about like...
Oh, you were saying the thing about the Japanese women when if they wear makeup, it's like showing the guy respect.
Oh, yeah.
And then I said, why show men a respect?
Yeah.
What do you owe them?
I mean, that's you don't owe them shit.
I think she means to you making your appearance different for them.
What I meant, like, why do you have to like show men respect?
You don't owe them shit.
They don't owe you shit.
What are you doing for you?
Like right off the bat if it's supposed to be that way.
It's a mutual kind of thing.
Like I feel like respect goes both ways.
In order to gain respect from the other person, you have to learn to respect them in the first place.
Even if they don't have anything to give back, I feel like respect is just a moral basis that you just have, that everyone should just have to everybody.
Absolutely.
And going back to that, whenever I went out with that lawyer that said he's six feet and he was my height, during the whole dinner date, he wasn't miserable.
He kept telling me that I'm not gluten-free or lactose intolerant and blah, And then at the end of the date, he tried to look for a kiss and he was like, I hope to see you again.
I swerved and I said, thank you.
Have a good night.
I was still respectful to him.
So yes, you can still respect, but I'm saying like me putting makeup is not anything for him.
Is just more so for me.
But yes, at the end of the day, I'm going to be respectful to anyone I come across.
Homeless person, guy I'm going on a date, person I just met at our interview job, and things like that.
Oh, fuck it.
Dream date, I lie about my weight, you lie about your height.
We go on our phones the whole time, disrespect each other, and never talk again.
Wow, that sounds romantic.
Okay, moving on.
We have, let's see, we have Miguel Patel.
Thank you, man.
Appreciate the support.
Brian, when will we have a 1v100 panel?
Don't invite none of these caged animals, though.
P.S.
The Latina is probably the only honest one here to be humble enough.
But who's the Latina?
Who's the Latina?
Because also, if you guys are talking about me, first of all, that's kind of racist because I'm not Latina.
Then why not?
They might talk about me.
Talk about her because I'm not Latina.
I'm not Latina.
What are you?
I'm Native American.
Oh.
Well, there you go, guys.
I'm black.
Miguel Patel.
Wait, we got no Latina.
Listen, Miguel, I need to tell you something very serious here.
Uh-uh.
How dare you be racist against her?
Period.
How dare you with your racist assumptions on Thanksgiving is like this.
I'm already her day.
I'm already her day on my bed.
Wow.
Wow.
Hateful Miguel.
You know what's funny is Miguel's a Hispanic name, but Patel is like an Indian name.
Patel, yeah, that's an Indy.
Patel.
Indian.
Okay.
We got Leonardo No Caprio.
Thank you for the Canadian $10, Mercy Buku.
Rating-wise, a woman will always be near whatever her first man programmed her to be.
Think of it like center of gravity.
If you're her first and imprint on her, she's a four.
That will be her starting point.
Was this him just sharing his thoughts?
Yeah, she said that her first boyfriend said she was a 5.5 or whatever.
Oh, that's some game there.
Thank you to Leonardo NiCaprio.
Well done.
That was deep.
Merci Buku.
Okay.
By the way, Leonardo Nocaprio, your next super chat has to be in French Canadian.
Okay.
Dave Von Jackson, thank you for the $10 super chat.
You can control your weight.
You can't control your height or penis size.
Weight goes beyond a number on the scale.
It's an indication of your habits and mental fortitude.
That is a good point.
So there's penis and cancers.
Call them ambulance.
No, no, no.
I'm with this guy a little bit, but still, there's no reason for me to put my weight.
Yeah.
Because diabetes one, not the one that like you're unhealthy, but like the one that you're just lacking insulin.
You can get to the point where you just overweight because you're not producing enough insulin.
And so why does my weight still has to be on the dating profile?
What?
What?
Yeah, of course.
But okay, I just blocked out too.
No, here's the thing.
So I'll pull it back up.
So he says you can control your weight, you can't control your height or penis size.
So he's not wrong in terms of like you can't control that, but same as like we can't control our boob size unless we get a boob job and they can get a we can't control our labia size.
Yeah, penis implant.
But in some circumstances, like weight is something that you can't always change due to like physical health problems.
Like there are some people out there that can't actually lose weight due to like just pre-existing health conditions and it's like a constant buildup.
I know somebody who can't lose weight due to people who can't gain weight weight groups both ways.
Wait, hold on.
Just finish your can't lose weight because of what?
Well like I'm not gonna go into my friend's like personal stuff, but I'm saying like there's pre-existing health conditions that could cause somebody not to be able to lose weight or not to be able to gain weight.
Sure.
Okay, so on a general term.
Yeah, okay, so there are things like hypothyroidism where it is a bit more difficult to lose weight.
There are some metabolic issues.
Of the people, though, that are overweight or obese, those issues are fairly minor.
And I actually have mild hypothyroidism, which means it's a bit harder for me to lose weight.
But ultimately, losing weight, all it comes down to is calories in, calories out.
If you're at a calorie deficit, even if you don't exercise, so even someone who's bedridden can lose weight.
Yeah.
You're not wrong.
But weight is, it can be unhealthy if you.
I struggled with my weight because I was 90 pounds during when I first had an eating disorder, which I'm now in recovery for.
And it took so much time and changing my diet and just mental struggling with it mentally to gain weight, like to get to a healthy, normal weight, because 90 pounds is not a healthy, normal weight, and it was not something I wanted to disclose.
It was like an issue where I would, you know, hide it from my doctor, from my family, from everyone, my friends.
And so like weight is, I think, something that a lot of people struggle with, whether it's gaining weight or losing weight.
Whereas I think height is probably something people struggle with.
I mean, we all have our insecurities.
It's just, I think weight is a different ball game just because of the music.
And like I can see.
Exactly.
I mean, that's how I feel.
Like, boo-hoo, poor me, I had an eating disorder, but like, boo-hoo, poor you, you're short.
Come on.
Yeah.
So, I'm, but the thing is, is that a guy's height is probably going to be a bigger factor in being able to secure a partner than a woman's weight.
Oh, no, you just have to find the right person.
Weight.
You have to find the right person.
Oh, my God.
People die.
Yeah.
People die, Brian.
People die.
People die.
You're not going to die from not getting laid.
Well, Eric, keep this one up.
I'll just get it right now.
Dayvonne Jackson, thank you for the Super Chat Man.
There's no health-related weight conditions in third world countries.
That's a first world problem.
And such a small percentage of people, it's effectively irrelevant.
What?
No, people die from starvation from being malnourished and underweighted in third world countries.
He's talking about overweight people.
He's talking about being overweight.
Date what he likes and not what he doesn't and stop.
Exactly.
Exactly.
Anyways, let's do the dating app review.
We've been meeting up.
I don't know.
Oh, God.
Who's first?
Eric, can you go ahead and see if we can do it?
What is his sister in the chat?
Yo, what's up?
Darby Hayes.
Yo, what's up, Darby?
What are you doing, baby?
Y'all are pick me men.
Oh, Eric, pull that one up.
Why not?
Let's just grab it right now.
Yo, David Diane, thank you for the Super Chat Man.
Appreciate it.
I believe Miguel was talking about the second Asian girl from the left next to you, Brian.
The only girl that was realistic in her ratings.
Shout out to you, Brian, slash whatever the chat and to the ladies.
Hey, David, thank you for the support.
Appreciate you, man.
That's why.
My name's Lily.
Asian girl.
Tell them.
Yeah, you do.
Tell them.
Yo, can we get some W's in the chat for Lily?
Okay.
So don't.
Wait, how come it's good when she calls herself a five, but it wasn't good when I said I was a five.
Or whenever your boyfriend said you're a five.
If I'm not 5.5.
5.5.
My bad.
My bad.
It's like, we just want to see whoever's quietest.
I'm just here, man.
That's not fair.
Eric, can you go ahead and pull up the dating profiles, please?
I look nothing like my professor.
How much is on me first, so I can't.
Oh, you know how to, you can stay on the window, but do you remember how to switch it, Eric?
Yeah, you just go to display capture, double-click, and then just, yep, perfect.
Oh, God.
All right, we got Jasmine in here first.
Hi.
All right, guys.
So, you know, pretend that you see Jasmine here on Tinder.
Oh, God.
She's 21.
She's a receptionist.
She lives in Santa Barbara.
She loves weed picnics and dogs.
I have three dogs.
Oh, she's an Aries.
And she smokes weed or cigarettes?
I smoke weed, and I also smoke puffs and like vape disposables.
Cancer.
Okay.
You can bring it back, Eric.
It'll happen one day.
Next photo.
Okay.
All right.
Next one.
I was in the club.
I was on the beach.
I don't know if I could pull on that.
All right.
How long ago is this?
Because your hair is red.
That was in August.
Okay.
Got it.
You going to go back?
I just dyed it back to black for Halloween.
Okay, nice.
Next one.
All right.
See, I don't have very much penny on it.
It's just my eyebrows.
But my eyebrows are very eyelashes.
But my favorite is a little bit more.
So what is this piercing called?
What is that?
Is there a name for it?
You know how you have a septum piercing, right?
I have my lip pierced.
I have my septum pierced.
I used to have my nose pierced.
I have my cheek pierced.
And I'm going to pump.
Show the tongue.
Okay.
Good times.
Tongue piercings.
Good times.
Can I ask a question about tongue piercing?
Never mind.
Actually, never mind.
No, okay, it depends.
The guy can feel it sometimes, but sometimes they can't.
What if they got?
What if I caught?
No, it just never got caught.
Wait, how does it, how would a tongue piercing?
Can you feel that?
What if it goes under and just like stabs them?
No.
Okay.
I mean, I guess if you're given a guy who had a Prince Albert piercing, then yeah, I could get caught.
But like, I also did not get it to pleasure men.
So anybody that has to say that it was for me, not for fucking pleasure.
Stop the cap.
This probably sounds like the biggest red flag.
My mom had a tongue piercing.
I don't know my mom like that.
And I was like, ooh, I want a tongue piercing too.
Okay, wow.
Let's continue on with her dating app here.
Okay.
I think that might be it, but just go one over.
I think that might be.
No, I think I have two more.
One more.
Oh, okay.
Yeah.
Here's another photo.
From Target.
Okay.
I was trying on the biker shorts.
Next one.
Oh, my God.
Okay.
I'm a gym girl.
Okay, guys.
Left or right.
Do you swipe left or right?
No.
Left or right.
So no or yes.
Mama a liar.
A liar about what?
Left or right for Jasmine, guys.
What do you do?
If you see her on Tinder.
I do look like a square.
I literally told Aja earlier I'm fucking SpongeBob in this bitch.
Like, I literally love SpongeBob.
I'm giving square.
I don't have curves, not gonna lie.
Okay.
So everyone's pump and dumb.
All right.
Next.
Pump and dumb.
That is crazy.
Guys, also, don't just say, oh, here's another.
Don't just say left.
Like, what would you, would you actually, you know, swipe left or right?
Come on, guys.
Come on.
Someone said Jasmine the native.
Yes, I am native.
I feel like they're going to bring that up now that you brought that up.
Dude, someone was literally like, oh, the native likes Big Dick.
I do.
I do.
She likes Big Dick.
Yeah.
Oh.
Okay.
All right.
Go on.
Or hold on.
Matt.
Why don't I take it back?
Big Dick.
Okay.
Anyways.
Yeah.
Go ahead.
Pull it back up there.
I take it back.
All right, we have Oza here.
21 about me just trying to catch a vibe.
Looking Looking for a boo.
Yes, I'll pick mirror.
I felt your nose go down my back.
Looking for a boo.
Yes, I like mirror pics, lol.
She's a Taurus.
Oh, what's up?
Okay.
When is your birthday?
When is your birthday?
April 24th.
And my sister's is May 3rd.
I'm April 4th.
I'm 4-4.
You're Aries.
Yeah.
Yeah.
Is that a good thing or a bad?
It doesn't matter what you think.
Okay.
Next one, Eric.
All right.
Okay, next.
Next.
I think that's it.
I like that.
Next.
I'd swipe right.
Okay, left or right on Aza.
I'd swipe right.
That's all I can do.
Left or right, yes or no.
Left or right, yes or no.
What do you guys do?
And while we get those in, let me, we got a super chat here, I think.
Let me see if I can.
I said passive block.
It's okay, so it's a fucking passive.
All right, we got Miguel Patel.
That kind of rhymes, doesn't it?
Thank you for the super chat, man.
Be humble and check yourself before you shrek yourself.
Shrek yourself and become a Fiona in the future.
I'm 69% native, by the way.
P.S. Hit me up.
We can have more natives on the world.
Do you even know why do you feel entitled to include your percentage?
What does that matter?
If I were to say I was Mexican, would I have to say I'm 80% Mexican?
Do you even know why people started saying their percentages?
Are you Chumash?
I'm Chumash, and I'm Navajo.
Oh, do you have membership with the tribe?
Membership.
What citizenship, you mean?
Yeah, membership.
I'm not.
I do have to do that.
I have citizenship for being Navajo, but not Chumash.
I have Chumash.
I always get like, oh, so you have a part in the casino.
No, I don't.
I don't have anything to do with the casino.
But could you?
Like, if you tried or whatever?
Yeah, it's just the tribe that's recognized here.
My family doesn't like what they do because they support a lot of people that claim they are Chumash, but they're not.
And they can't back it up when my family can back up.
Like we have all of our records, so like we don't want anything to do with them.
So we don't have a part of it.
Ooh, there's a little rock concert going on outside.
I don't know if you guys can hear that.
Let's go.
Okay, so let's continue on with the.
Yeah.
Is there a way to do polls?
That is crazy.
Oh, that would be good.
Yeah, we just don't have the setup for that at the moment, but maybe in the future, Dayvon, thank you for the suggestion.
Eric, bring it back to the review.
Next.
Someone said I'm white.
All right, we have Oksana here.
Ooh, pizza.
She goes crazy for pizza.
3158, next.
She likes pizza.
All right, she speaks Russian.
She speaks English.
Smolensk.
Smolansk.
Russia.
Can you speak a little Russian for the viewers?
I got nervous.
Sorry.
Should I got nervy?
Anyways, you can bring it back, Eric.
Next.
I don't speak on command.
That's why.
Yeah.
Next.
Okay, all three of your prompts are food related.
So anytime I download a dating app, food, because Hinge especially makes you select prompts.
And so I'm so lazy with it.
And I don't want to be on it.
I just download them for like just out of boredom.
And so the easiest is a food subject versus me going into depth about my likes and dislikes.
And so food is just easy topic.
Okay.
Hard pass lover.
Eric, you can bring it back.
Next.
That's my prop to the last one.
Okay, baddie.
Hold on.
Hold on.
What?
So left or right, yes or no on Oxana.
And while we do that, Eric.
Oh, actually, hold on.
So Lily here is the only one with a boyfriend.
Hi.
Eight months, right?
About to be, yeah.
Eight months.
Are you guys in love?
Yes.
Have you said love?
Okay.
So you love your boyfriend.
You've had a boyfriend for eight months.
Pull up her Instagram.
No.
Scroll down slowly a little bit.
Okay.
Where's the boyfriend, Lily?
My parents don't know.
Wait, keep going.
Keep going, Eric.
Wait, she could want to keep her relationship.
Slow, slow.
Also, like, I have a crazy ex-stalker.
Up, up, up.
So I don't want to, like, put my stuff on there and stuff.
You have a crazy ex-stalker.
Okay, so, like, he has a shrine of me in his room, and we broke up over a year ago.
Yes.
That's awesome.
So he has a shrine of you?
He has photos plastered of me on his wall in his room.
Do you think he's watching right now the show?
If you are, you need to leave.
Do you have a restraining order?
No.
You should.
Wait, hold on.
Those are easy to get.
Wait, let's go into this a little bit.
When did you break up with your ex?
October 2021.
Wait, October 2021.
Okay.
And you broke up with him and he broke up with you.
I'm assuming you broke up with him.
Okay.
Was he obsessed with you during the relationship?
Yeah.
Okay.
He has a shrine of you, like actual photos.
My photos and like he has like Polaroids of me like on his wall.
Like he stuck it on his wall and he has a shelf right under all the photos with everything I've gotten him.
You guys did break up, right?
Yes.
Damn, that's that's a yikes.
Okay, so I hope he knows.
When's the last time he tried to attempt to contact you?
A couple days ago.
Yikes.
Yikes.
I mean, you have a boyfriend, correct?
Yes.
Is he aware?
No, he knows.
He thinks I'm dating my current boyfriend to make him jealous.
Oh, yeah, they have the same name.
Wolf.
That's a yikes.
My boyfriend is probably watching.
Pierre knows this.
Okay, I told him very, like, from like the start.
I told him actually everything from the start.
So my current boyfriend and my crazy ex have the same name, and I didn't really want to date my current boyfriend for the fact that he had the same name, and it was really traumatizing.
Very traumatizing.
But my ex doesn't understand why I hate him.
And he was like, I don't regret it, but I don't understand why she hates me.
And I was like, take the hint, please.
That's a yikes.
And he cheated on me with three other women while in the relationship, and he begged for me back during it.
The ex?
Yeah, and he accused me of cheating because I hooked up with somebody like a couple weeks after we broke up.
And he said that that was cheating, even though he was talking to three women.
And I knew them.
Yes, I knew them.
I knew them.
Projecting.
That's a yikes.
I'm projecting.
Is he Pisces?
He's a Taurus.
Oh, God.
Don't become a Pisces.
I don't like Tis.
But yeah, there there is that.
Yeah.
The f yo, that's whack.
Okay.
So like is but so he's stalking you?
Yeah, he made a bunch of he okay, so I post on TikTok and stuff.
Like I do TikTok.
That's like where I get my money from, you know?
Oh, you have a TikTok?
Huh?
What's your TikTok?
Oh, no, I don't want to.
I don't want to pause.
But he would make a fake account and like sit in my lives and stuff and just like watch.
But he was kind of dumb because he put a photo of like this dog, like this crusty dog.
And he's the only person I know that has a photo.
And then he like, he just wasn't sick about it.
Wait, don't hate on a dog.
Like, no, The dog was.
was it a white why is he still do you have a sense of why he's still caught up on you BPD.
No.
I honestly don't know.
Because it was that good.
It was bad.
It was that pussy whipped.
She lost BPD.
He's pussy whipped.
Yep.
I didn't want to have sex with him.
Wait, so you never had sex with him?
No, no.
Okay.
Okay.
Like, I, okay, I, I had, like, okay, this is, this is really, this is, uh, okay, this is really personal, but I'll, like, I'll explain it.
It's basically, I got, like, assaulted by a frat guy, and it was just very traumatizing.
I did not like any, like, form of physical touch, because it just really made me panic.
But he kept on asking and asking until like I felt guilt-tripped and obligated to do it.
And, like, he, he made me do it even when I was crying throughout the entire thing.
And he asked me to make noises for him while I was sobbing.
So, like, so like, you can, like, so, like, I'm just really traumatized by that.
And, like, that's why I didn't want to date my current boyfriend with the same name.
Because it just, it was like, it was like a horror story in my head.
You're a strong for sharing that.
But, like, literally, it like jokes that.
I also had a TMI.
I'm just really nervous.
I'm just blimming it.
I'm going to stop.
No, fuck that.
Oh, fuck him.
Yeah, fuck him.
You know what?
Your current boyfriend should.
I will rain down on a godly fucking firestorm upon you.
You're going to have to call the fucking United Nations finding resolution to keep me from fucking destroying you.
I am talking scorched turbo, motherfucker, I will never suck you.
I will fuck you up.
Was that a good or a bad thing?
That's your current boyfriend.
That's what.
Talking to your ex-boyfriend.
Oh, oh, I thought he said that he was talking to me.
I was like, wait.
Okay, let's move on.
So, but you don't.
Okay, so I guess you kind of have an excuse.
You got a stalker.
You don't want to post your current boyfriend on Instagram.
Like, I do post them on my stories.
I just don't post it on there because I just also prefer my privacy.
And he doesn't like people bothering him either.
So it's kind of like a mutual thing, I guess.
Yeah.
Okay.
All right.
Let's move.
Do we have any soup chats, Eric?
Or?
Okay.
So let's see.
All right.
Okay.
What is so funny?
You wanted to talk about Zodiac signs and the Hollywood dating scene.
Why was that?
Anyone's interesting Zodiac sign because I can talk a lot.
Yes, let's hear it.
Honestly, I don't know.
Okay, I'll do some prompts for the Zodiac shit.
Is there a Zodiac sign you would not date?
Own.
I'm the opposite.
I don't even know that much about zodiacs, but I no Tauruses, Machine Gunkelly and Megan Fox, enough for me.
There's a boy that i'm entertaining right now.
He's the same zodiac sign, he's younger, but uh i'm, i'm vibing with it, yeah.
And they say, if what, if you're same zodiac sign, if there's chemistry it can work, but if there's no chemistry, then yeah, it's just gonna be like headbutting.
Yeah, but i'm a Taurus.
Oh no, when is your birthday okay?
So Brian, when is your brain?
I'm not gonna say when my birthday is, but i'm a Taurus.
Why is my birthday present?
When is?
Yeah, i'm just that's.
Are you amazing?
I'll send you a.
What?
Happy birthday?
Or april, i'm april, i'm april, Taurus.
Oh my god, holy shit, hold on, i'll find out what.
George, onto us big thank you for the uh gifted 20, whatever memberships.
Thank you, man.
That's huge.
What I?
I need to check here.
The uh.
What does that get?
That gets the air horn.
thank you so much man really appreciate the support um let's see oh candace got a uh membership nice thank you man really appreciate the support um by the way guys if you look in the description we have gifted membership triggers we have at 10 20 50 70 100 1000 um and i just want to point out can one of you grab the uh mike davis uh the big the big picture frame Pass it to me.
If you gift a hundred.
If you do a hundred gifted memberships, you get to join Picture Frame GANG.
We will add you to the Picture Frame GANG.
That that's not directed George, just anybody.
Um join, join the family, okay.
Um, what were you gonna say about Tauruses?
Taurus love food and they're a little bit lazy.
Yeah facts, you guys like to take naps.
Oh love oh, every nap after work, first thing I do, pants off, clothes off, i'm in bed, set my alarm clock for like at least 30 minutes.
I'm napping.
Yeah, after work.
You said after work.
Yeah, I don't know much about, like all the astrology stuff, but I will say I don't like Taurus.
To date, I dated a Taurus and it was so toxic and so bad.
And a Capricorn the Capricorn was my most toxic race.
I can already tell that I don't like you.
Um okay, so you said tourists like to nap.
I hate napping.
How your home body hurt you.
Because you're april, i'm angry.
No, I will go home for lunch to let my dog out and I will take a nap.
I have a one hour lunch break and I will like, set on, like I said, alarm clock and pass out.
Not pass out, but just close my eyes and pretend I'm sleeping.
I will if, if I take a nap, I will have a panic attack.
That's how bad it is.
Like if I nap, I will wake up 30 minutes later, an hour later in, like a full-blown panic.
I don't know why.
I sleep fine, but when I nap, like if it's not when I'm supposed to go to sleep, I it's weird I have a panic attack.
You know we're supposed to take a nap like where?
Yeah, Like a human as, like you're supposed to go home, you're supposed to take a nap.
Like your body needs rest, like you're supposed to.
You're probably supposed to take a person.
I feel like you should take the Myers-Briggs test.
Yeah, maybe you're just like.
I feel like I believe in that science, a little more than so.
I don't know if it's true, but like, apparently you're supposed to take like four hours of sleep in the day and then four hours of sleep in the night.
Yeah, we're supposed to be on a cycle.
We're not supposed to sleep for that long of a night and then go all day without stage capitalism.
Nine to five exactly, okay.
I'm not sure if I want to talk about Zodiac really quick, though.
Is there a sign that you just would not date Taurus Taurus?
I'm skeptical about Sagittarius' because they're all they always like make me believe they're one person and then they turn into someone.
I wouldn't like not date them, but I'm I'm like concerned when they tell me they're Sagittarius.
You want what dates are Sagittarius?
What dates are Sagittarius?
I don't know, I know some of it's in December okay okay actually, I just want to ask you a question.
So we got connected through Rolo Tomasi yeah yeah, so you were on and he was on Dr. Phil.
I don't know if that I don't think that's come out yet.
Were you on the panel or were you in the audience with him?
I wasn't.
I was in the audience and one of the Dr. Phil producers asked me if I'd answer a question regarding toxic masculinity, because they would.
They would send us emails and they asked us to respond to questions, and one of the producers said that she liked my answer.
So I was like okay well, I didn't know.
I didn't know it was gonna be like Rolo Tomasi or like the Red pill people.
I didn't know it was be any of that, and Dr. Phil had asked me a question, I go talk to him and Rolo Tomasi interrupted me and we started arguing on TV.
So that's what happened.
Oh, you started arguing.
It didn't come out yet.
No, not yet no.
Will you argue?
Oh yeah yeah no, it will, but wait, did you know?
Did you know Rolo?
No, I didn't.
I knew of, like Andrew Tate and like all that stuff, but I didn't know really who he was.
And after the show was over, he introduced himself to me and I was actually surprised he talked to me because I thought like we just argued, but I mean it was fine, like we could respect each other's like, I guess, like in a businessy way, but like it's also hard.
But you guys disagreed, we disagree okay what, what did you?
So what did you guys argue about?
We argued about toxic masculinity, because he wanted to argue with me and say one of my points we got kind of off topic but one of my points.
I had said that women don't get paid as much as men and that we don't.
Obviously that's not in, like everybody, that's been debunked.
And then there was the reproductive right thing.
He wanted to argue with me about that, but like he's like Men have more reproductive rights than women.
And I was like, well, he said that?
Yes.
No.
He must have said that men have no reproductive rights.
No.
He hadn't made a podcast and he referenced me in it after the show.
And he said, men actually have more reproductive rights.
And I was like, you don't have the kids.
What are you talking about?
But my point on TV was that even in all states, like, they started banning abortions and stuff like that.
I'm like, whether you're for it or not, you can't tell people what to do with their bodies.
And that's been happening.
And he just said, no, it's not.
And I'm like, what are you talking about?
But then he didn't want to get into Roe versus Wade and all that stuff, of course, because he said that.
He said that on this podcast, he made an emergency, he called it Dr. Phil podcast.
He said something.
It was like an emergency podcast.
And I saw it and it was like right after the show.
I was actually confident.
I was actually in touch with one of the producers from Dr. Phil.
I think, I don't know if it would have been the same panel, but I opted.
I didn't have time to go and do it, but I was in touch with one of the producers.
But okay, so, well, we don't have to get into the whole reproductive rights thing, but I'm surprised that that's his take because a lot of people that are in the red pill space, I mean, one of the common arguments you hear is men have no reproductive rights.
So I don't know if you're misquoting him or maybe he just has.
He didn't say it on the Dr. Phil show on the Dr. Phil show.
He started arguing about it on the Dr. Phil show on his podcast after the Dr. Phil show.
He said women, or men actually have more reproductive rights than women.
Really?
Are you sure you're not misquoting him?
Because I can't, that just doesn't.
I could be wrong.
He might have a different take.
Whatever he said, his point was, his point was that everything's okay with us and it's not happening.
Like basically, basically, that we have all the rights that we want.
And that's just not true.
So he must be arguing that men have no reproductive rights.
Whatever he's arguing, and he's saying that reproductive laws.
But why would men have reproductive rights?
They're not all their sponsorship is just donating sperm.
But I can just go to what?
Okay, finish your thought.
I'm saying reproductive rights.
What are y'all talking about in terms of like they're not growing a baby inside of them?
Exactly.
Why do they get to talk about that?
Yeah, and so you don't have a say whether or not I'm having a baby.
That's what I'm saying.
You're just a sperm donor, whether or not I choose to.
Even your future.
Do you want to be married?
Yeah.
You'd consider your future father of your children and your husband just a sperm donor?
So if I decide to have children, yes.
Because that's.
No, because they're just, if I was your husband, I'd feel pretty fucking awful to be referred to as a sperm donor.
Just when there's emotions and feelings involved, that's different.
Okay.
But you still say you and I are married and I get pregnant.
It's still my choice.
Like, do I want to have our child or not?
So that's what I'm saying.
Like, I wed the sperm donor.
Here's a question.
Here's a question.
Like, let's say a guy has sex with a woman, gets her pregnant, she wants to keep the kid, right?
What do you say to him if he says, hey, listen, I don't want to be financially responsible.
I don't want to be involved.
What do you say to him?
Then that's she chose to have the baby, then that's fine.
Because it proves the fact he is just a sperm donor.
Yeah, he is just a sperm donor.
She just decided that she just, at the end of the day, she wanted to be a mom or whatever the case may be.
We don't know her reason why she chose to keep the baby.
But yeah, he's just a sperm donor, made her a mom, and to the loose.
Good day, sir.
Well, he's not a sperm donor, he's the father.
But perhaps this might just be semantics.
But the point is, is that so men, we don't have any reproductive rights because in the event, okay, in the event that he wants to have the kid and you don't, he doesn't have a say.
In the event that he doesn't want the kid and you do, he doesn't have a say there.
In the event that you keep the kid, and even when you go through the pregnancy, you can always give it up for adoption if you were so inclined.
Men don't really have a say under those circumstances.
But the big one is if he doesn't want the kid, you do, that's fine.
But if you have the kid, he's now forced to pay child support for 18 years.
If he is forced and he's not forced in terms of like, if I just like got pregnant off the streets, I'm not going to go to him and be like, hey, you got to pay me the child support.
But if you really don't want a kid, then have a vasectomy.
You can get it reversed.
Vasectomies are not.
Vasectomies are not.
If you want to carry children, they'd feel a lot differently about a lot of the problems.
But it's easier for them to say they do or don't want something That really isn't inside of them Look, so okay I'll give you guys my take on abortions So I'd consider myself pro-choice with caveats.
So.
Okay.
What's your man having a choice?
Well, okay, if women are allowed to have abortions, men should be able to do a legal paternal surrender, which basically means if the woman has the child, they should have the right to opt out of financial obligation and having to make tubes.
But see, it's interesting that you make the argument that for men who don't want to financially support a children, tough, wear a condom, just keep your legs closed.
But if you said the same thing to women of, oh, well, if you didn't want to get pregnant, you should have just not had sex or had a bit on birth control.
Do you see how it's a double standard there?
No, no.
No, no.
Nowadays, we have sex for pleasure.
And sex without a condom feels better than with a condom.
But there are responsibilities that come with if you're having sex without a condom.
And so therefore, if that slip happens, you're having sex without a condom, you either reserve to plan B or you accidentally get pregnant and you decide to keep the baby.
But at the end of the day, it's still, say that happened to me.
It's my fucking choice what I decide to do, whether to keep or not.
And then the discussion of like, do you want to support this or not?
That's a different topic.
I don't know.
I'll just, I'll continue on.
So basically, I would say people that are pro-life do make very compelling arguments.
The argument, and keep in mind, I'm pro-choice.
Not everything that is wrong should be illegal.
Abortion is clearly wrong.
However, it's clearly wrong.
How are they wrong?
Abortion is clearly wrong.
How are they wrong?
Would you be okay with a woman having an abortion one day before she would otherwise give birth?
Would say it again?
Would you otherwise be okay with a woman having an abortion one day before she would otherwise have a healthy?
Is that her choice because, oh, just getting a don't want to have a baby?
I don't think no right-mind woman will decide to do that.
So at what point would you say that it's okay, so would you agree it's wrong to have an abortion a day before a woman would otherwise give birth?
Yeah, because then the circumstances are.
So let's keep moving backwards.
What about a month before?
Do you see where I'm getting at here?
Isn't it weird to like share the semantics with the girl whose command of the English language isn't as strong?
Like, it feels like you're kind of picking on her.
I'm not, no, I'm not.
I'm not kind of coming for her.
No, I'm not.
We're just having a discussion.
Listen, the thing is that the pro-life argument is not so easily dismissed, right?
But I don't know where I'm going.
Yeah.
You're going with like no.
If a woman decides to have an abortion or not, it's her choice.
Is it wrong that, like, yeah, there's a heartbeat and all of that, and all of a sudden she decides to abort?
Yeah, that's where, that's why it's not black and white.
There's a gray area.
But at the end of the day, it's still because she's the one that's growing, feeding, the body is changing and all of that.
I don't see an opinion if you don't have a vagina.
Yeah, that's what I'm saying.
It's okay.
I'll get you pregnant, Brian.
Then let's see what you have to do.
No, repeat it.
Repeat it.
I don't understand why your opinion is valid when you're not the one with the vagina.
So just because, so what about women who have had hysterectomies?
Are they not allowed to have opinions?
What about women who can't naturally become pregnant?
I don't see what why is what between your legs a determining factor in whether or not you can have an opinion on something.
You can have an opinion, but it's just not a very valid one.
Okay, so tell you what.
Men are the only ones that are subject to military conscription.
Women should not all women should no longer be able to vote.
Why?
Because no woman here is subject to military conscription.
What do you mean?
No woman at this table here has been or will be forced to go to war, yeah.
Unless I choose to, but you're not forced to be so actually.
And no woman should be able to be president because the president can send people to war, Congress can send people to war.
So should women not be able to run for political office?
Because no woman would ever be subject to military draft.
I mean, it has to do with the military.
What's the question?
Like, why does the military?
Yeah, you said that men are not allowed to have an opinion on the abortion issue because they are not.
I'm not allowed to opinion.
I'm just saying that there's a lot of men that have very strong opinions about an issue that doesn't have too much to do with them.
I mean, it's not a problem.
I mean, that's a logical, it's a logical fallacy to say just because you have certain genitalia that you can't have an opinion on something.
That's not what I'm saying.
I think you're taking my words and running with it.
It has to do more than just...
Also, I would say that there's about 50% of people who are pro-life are women.
So you have to contend with that.
Well, I'm not understanding if you're arguing pro-choice or pro-life because you're saying one thing and then arguing another.
Well, I'm sort of playing devil's advocate here, and I'm steelmanning the pro-life position.
Neither opinion is wrong.
Opinions are just opinions.
I mean, I'm not saying you can't have your opinion or your opinion is wrong.
I'm just saying it's not a very.
It's like if I had a.
I have my opinion on, like you know, racial issues and stuff like that, But it's like my voice isn't the one that should be the most uplifted if it's not an issue that directly affects me or resonates me the strongest.
I'm not a good candidate to talk about Black Lives Matter.
I have strong opinions about social justice but like let's I'm the best way to do it is just let people speak who like, are directly involved in it.
Like, why do you have to like echo their opinion about every a woman's body?
Keyword opinion.
We're all gonna have different opinions and that's why we're all gonna make different choices, so everyone's just.
We can all be a devil's advocate.
can sit here and give you every hot take but well I mean you're kind it's you're kind of just getting into identity politics that some people's voices matter less on an issue I mean I would say that your skin color your race your ethnicity your ethnicity your gender uh should be irrelevant in being able to have to in being able to intellectualize on any sort of it's not a country that's literally running by straight white men's opinions it's not
I mean, that's we're sitting here right now playing into like Call of Duty level circle jerk clapback porn.
Let's not pretend this isn't literally that.
So that's just apex fallacy.
Like, I'm not.
Look, okay, I'll just say this on abortion.
We're going to move on.
Ultimately, I would say I'm pro-choice with caveats.
I think that, I mean, I already said some of it, but I'd be in favor of more robust sexual education, sex ed.
I think birth control should be free.
I think we should develop a male birth control.
And I think we should.
Campon should be free and pads.
Yeah.
There you go.
Okay, next.
Keep going.
Sorry.
We should.
Sorry, I lost my train of thought.
My bad.
We should.
I said, oh, research male birth control.
I actually did an interview with someone who's working on male birth control.
And we should.
Fuck, what was the last one?
Totally fucked me down.
My bad.
I think at the end of the day, it's not black and white.
It's a tough topic.
Yeah, there's gray areas.
There's lives affected, whether it's moms or the baby.
I got it.
I got it.
Okay.
We should do away with hookup culture.
I think that's a contributor of unwanted pregnancies.
Yeah, but that's why we have sex for pleasure.
Well, we can get into the body count thing stuff too.
But okay, and then also we should be developing an artificial womb.
I think that that is the ultimate solution to the abortion debate.
If we can develop an artificial womb, then women, if they want, can terminate their pregnancy, but you can save the life.
And it can be gestated or whatever, developed in an artificial womb.
So both sides, the pro-life and the pro-choice, of course, idiots on both sides will say, no, they'll probably still have an issue with an artificial womb, but you save the life, the woman can terminate the pregnancy.
Okay, and then where does the baby go then?
What if you don't even want your, like, you're going to know that that's your baby?
You don't think that would be a fair compromise?
A woman can terminate her pregnancy, but the life gets to.
Can you clarify when you're saying artificial womb, is the artificial womb like an attachment with a woman or is it a separate AI?
It'd be like an external, you know, like it'd be an external thing, like maybe in the hospital or something.
Oh, okay.
So he's like, he nuts in her, but then they put the nut in the womb?
No, She gets an incubator on the side.
Yeah.
So he's nutting in the womb.
No, no.
You have a baby in you.
They take the baby out and then they put it in incubators.
And then it grows for the moment.
Yeah.
Got it.
Okay, sorry.
I was confused.
But then who gets that baby?
Where does that baby go?
To the orphanage?
But there's already so many, like in orphanage, there's already so many babies in this world that aren't.
Maybe the father wants it or yes, everyone go and try to adopt Russian kids.
Like there's so many African kids.
Like why enough babies in these women?
There's so many babies.
Okay, let me ask you a question.
If abortion was in every state, if it was allowed and abortion was legal, but it had to be, you know, if you wanted to get an abortion, it had to be raised in an artificial womb.
Would that be a fair compromise to secure abortion rights for women?
No, why?
You wouldn't make that compromise.
No.
Okay, because conservatives will continue fighting to get rid of abortion.
Not just that, but it's like, where are those babies going to go?
Like, okay, the baby.
In the state.
But there's already two babies in the state that aren't being taken care of and aren't being supported.
Have you seen Santa Barbara?
I'm saying on the beach, so many homeless people.
Why do we need more?
So here's the conservative, here's the pro-life argument.
Upon conception, they believe it's a life.
They believe it's murder.
So you're going to have to.
That's not a good reason to, in a pro-lifer's view, to murder someone because there's not enough space or there's already other people.
But why isn't there conservative murdering children with an AR-15 in a school by the millions as soon as it's a baby?
It's that.
They're not.
Then why are they so gung-ho about gun rights?
Because it's a fundamental right.
It is if it's control.
It's a right to have the Constitution provides people with the right to bear arms.
But then we wouldn't have this problem if it was in the Constitution that women could have abortion.
Shouldn't we base it?
I mean, America's a very developed society.
I just feel like it's a little silly to base all of our.
You don't think people should own firearms?
No, no, no.
I'm not going against that.
I'm arguing that we stand really strongly behind a document that was written in the 1800s when people were shitting in the streets.
And they didn't have AR 15s or whatever back then.
They're talking about like simple people with firearms are using it to protect themselves.
Yes.
No.
From what?
Interesting.
Home invasions.
A tyrannical government.
Some people use.
So just to be clear, who here wants to get rid of gun ownership?
Anybody?
I do.
Okay.
But okay, so just to be clear, because I often hear this from people who are a bit more liberal.
So a lot of liberal people are kind of against police.
So you're telling me that you want to get rid of the populace owning guns and you want just the police force to have guns in the world.
They're the worst people to have guns.
I guarantee you, whether you're Democrat or Republican, the police will continue to have guns in the world.
I didn't say I was going to change it.
Okay.
And now, welcome to CNN.
This is too political, guys.
Let's talk about it.
We're no longer dying.
Let's bring up the labias again.
There's no longer a dating person.
Anyways, I don't mind talking about this stuff just because I enjoy having debates and conversations.
If anyone's uncomfortable with the political stuff, we can move on.
I don't know.
Them three got really quiet.
Here, let's ask.
Go ahead, Lily.
I mean, I have opinions, but they're not strong enough for me to be like, you can hide.
I'm okay.
Really quick, would you date a guy who owns a gun?
A legal firearm.
I'm comfortable, but I wouldn't not date them because they had one.
Okay.
But so the question is, would you date a guy who legally owns a firearm?
I mean, yeah, like it wouldn't, it wouldn't dictate whether I date them or not.
Okay.
I would prefer it to not be around me.
What about you?
Probably sound crazy.
I have dated a guy that owned three guns.
That's not crazy.
Well, because I was all like, get rid of them, but like I've- You told him to get rid of the guns.
No, I.
Well, you literally just said that.
No, no, no.
I told him to do something else with the gun, which is why it sounds crazy.
Wait, hold it up to your forehead while he's having sex with you?
Not my forehead.
In your mouth?
In your mouth?
She said.
Yo.
She said, light meow.
Obviously it was empty, but like to have that like, you know who.
To have that like tense, like it just makes it more tense.
It does.
I sound crazy.
No, it's kind of hot.
I mean, I've heard off.
I mean, I've heard girls.
It's empty.
I made sure it was empty.
And then I was like, okay, let's do this.
I mean, I've definitely heard girls also have a thing where they want a guy to hold a neck to their knife.
A knife to their neck.
I don't know how about a knife because I feel like that could accidentally real quickly.
Yeah.
Yeah.
Exactly.
I didn't realize how heavy they are.
Would you date a guy who owns a gun?
Oh, yeah, that's our gun now, babe.
I almost got a pink one.
What about you?
I'm from Texas.
I've dated.
I've shot AK-4-7.
What about you?
Yeah, I think, in a way, I think guns could be kind of hot.
Not like that.
Not like that.
Lily, what about you?
What does that mean?
What about you?
Not really.
What's a BS?
I'm not really.
I don't know.
But okay, you have a stalker.
Wouldn't it be kind of like, wouldn't you feel safe?
That's why I have pepper spray and a taser.
I just taser my neck.
I mean, but that's not lethal.
Like, you have a problem.
I don't need anything.
Why are you trying to be lethal?
Dude, you have a stalker.
Okay, that means he deserves to die.
Wait, what?
Personally, I.
Oh, my gosh.
Let her speak.
I'm.
No.
You should get a gun.
I'm being honest.
No, I'm okay.
You should get a gun.
No, it's your boyfriend.
Lily, the way you described it, you have a hardcore stalker.
Like, get a Glock, get a little handgun.
Get a little shot.
Okay, well, he can't fight.
I just.
Your boyfriend can't fight.
No, no, not my boyfriend.
My ex.
Is he in a wheelchair?
Unless he's in a wheelchair, like, he's probably got hands.
No, but he kind of waddles.
Shots fired.
Do you waddle?
Do I waddle?
You seemed a little.
No, I'm not saying that you like a waddle, but you just seemed offended by it.
So I was like, oh, I'm sorry.
I meant shots fired at your like, you know, like some people like when they walk like.
I got a little swag with my father.
You know how my boy walks?
But I'm just not that, like.
I'm just personally not confident.
I'm saying you have a stalker.
Think about getting a firearm before shooting.
I don't want a firearm, though.
Because if you make me panic too much, I'm going to be like.
What if I teach you to shoot it?
Yeah, what if you're confident?
No, I'm not confident.
I think women are great candidates for firearms.
I mean, it's just shoot a firearm.
Like, I went to the gun range.
That's like a no for me.
But like, I was exhilarating.
It's so like when I shot.
That's what I'll shoot with.
What about you, Louie?
Same, I went to the shooting range.
It just gun is not for me.
I've never dated anyone with a gun.
What about you, Brian?
Do you have any firearms?
Would you date a girl?
Do you have a gun off in your lap right now?
Yeah, pointed at all of us.
Guys, blink once if it's yes.
I mean, I would date a girl with a firearm.
That wouldn't be an issue for me.
But should we just have a gun debate real quick?
What's up?
We already had our baggage.
We already have it in your pocket.
Are you excited to see it?
No, but okay.
When I actually look at his pocket, it's not, dude.
It's just my cell phone, guys.
It's just my cell phone.
Okay, you wanted to talk.
I need to get up for a sec here.
You wanted to talk about the Hollywood dating scene.
Why don't you tell us?
Actually, I'm no more interested.
No more.
Pass on the next topic.
Brian wanted to talk about it.
I'm going to do some super chats here and then we'll get to the next topic.
Okay, we have.
Hold on.
Do we?
Okay, we got.
We've got Dave on Jackson here with the Tinto Super Chat.
Fact that she's so casually talking about having a child with a man she doesn't want to be with is concerning.
Also, there's a significant chance the vasectomy reversal doesn't take.
Yeah, that's true.
Vasectomies are not reversible.
I mean, they can be, but it's the procedure, it's very, it's just if you only should get a vasectomy if you know you do not want to have children or don't want to have any more children.
We have a red misfit here with the 10-dollar super chat.
Thank you, man.
Can all the ladies go around and state their sexual orientation?
Sure, we can do that.
Here, let's start over here.
Go ahead.
I'm straight, but then also, if I see a girl look exactly like a boy, my brain just cannot function.
And it's like, I see that as a boy, and now we're in love to her.
Is it called Ruby?
Amber Rose, Ruby Rose, no, no, Ruby Rose, Ruby Rose, Ruby Rose, yeah, yeah, like for that kind of woman, that's a dude for me, and she's hot.
She's about to do that.
That's super neat.
That's so good.
I'm bisexual.
Period.
I'm straight.
Straight.
Pansexual.
I'm bi.
I'm straight.
Wait, sorry, can you?
I still don't know what that means.
Depends on the night, babe.
Isn't it?
Depends on like you're attracted to a salt and a hot.
Obviously, I love hot.
I think everyone's hot.
I love hot people.
I love hot guys.
I love hot girls, hot they them.
It's if we vibe, if we click, if I'm horny, if I'm drunk, it's like it could go anyway.
Okay.
I'm bi, but I only like curly girls.
I mean, the general stigma about pansexual people is like, I mean, yeah, I'm like super horny, but I'm also super picky.
So it really does have to be a specific.
Okay.
We have everyday Edgar here.
If only people affected by issues were allowed to speak about them, then slavery would still be legal.
A white man freed the slaves.
Harriet Tubman freed the slaves.
No.
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My posture is like standard.
We can do a posture check.
Fit check.
Let me check.
I think, yeah, you're going to have to read the description for the fit check trigger.
George Anteveros, Second Amendment, a well-regulated militia being necessary to the security of a free state.
The right of the people to keep and bear arms shall not be infringed.
That is the Second American Amendment.
What?
Okay.
No, no comment.
Thank you.
Do you think semi-automatic weapons should be banned?
Yes.
Do you know what this is?
For sure.
A semi-automatic weapon.
Oh, wait, no, Sorry, sorry.
Oh, what is a set?
Can you tell me what a semi-automatic weapon was?
I don't like magazines and stuff either.
Like, those should not, like, no, like, get rid of all of it.
So you just want, you just want, like, a revolver?
Like, just like a bunch of just handguns?
Like the Russian roulette.
Yeah.
What do you think about a Glock?
I guess.
A handgun.
Handgun.
I think no one should definitely doesn't need an AK-47.
I don't know.
That's for sure.
A what?
AK-47.
AK-47s are banned.
You can't have an AK-47.
Yeah, that's what I'm saying.
But my friends own it.
You are Russian, so.
Yeah, and I've shot them.
Tilt the mic up towards you.
Well, they might be like authorized or something.
And you can be authorized to have automatic weapons.
And if you're like an instructor or whatever.
Okay, so a semi-automatic rifle, a semi-automatic weapon.
So you have automatic and semi-automatic, right?
A lot of people don't know this.
Automatic, if you pull, if you pull the trigger, it keeps firing.
A semi-automatic rifle, you pull the trigger once, one bullet comes out.
You pull it again, another bullet comes out.
That's fine.
I don't like the automatic.
But what do you think an AR-15 is?
Is it automatic or semi-automatic?
I have no idea.
I'm going to be dead ass with you.
Well, assault.
What do you think assault rifles?
Okay, so is an AR-15 an automatic.
Is it automatic or semi-automatic?
See an automatic.
Semi?
It's semi-automatic.
So AR-15.
You pull the trigger, one bullet comes out.
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Yeah, yeah.
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Appreciate it, man.
Brian, can you do another asking 100 girls for sex in 2020, that thing?
So we can see if the effect of modern day feminism has changed the way women would answer and react to that question.
Actually, I filmed a segment of it with Luke, and I'd like to get a girl to do it.
Maybe we could actually pull that up and have the girls react to that while I get up here for a sec.
It's a social experiment video I did almost 10 years ago.
We had a girl go up to guys just point blank on the street, say, hey, do you want to hook up?
Do you want to have sex?
I've seen that.
I think it'd be interesting to compare maybe like a conventionally attractive, like maybe like Santa Barbara, like blonde sorority girl versus like a woman of color and see what the rejection rate is there.
I think Lily would fucking kill it if she had a bad idea.
Yeah.
She's scared.
Guys love quiet creatures.
Brian, I literally panic talking to new people.
What makes you think I can go to 100?
No, we don't.
No, I have this problem where if I get really nervous, I start laughing really bad.
And then I get, I'm like, I get, I get nervous.
Okay, we're going to have Loe here do it then.
Yeah.
Do what?
Exactly.
We got Dr. Durden here.
Hey, good to see you back, man.
Thank you for the super chat.
I wouldn't date a man with a gun equals I wouldn't date a man that could protect me.
Your thoughts on this, guys?
You can protect yourself.
You have hands.
Yeah, the gun's doing that protection.
But okay, question for you guys.
So who here is like kind of against guns or wouldn't want their partner to have a gun, whatever?
Show of hands?
Well, okay.
I'm a kid.
Question of hands, but I don't care if they have a hand.
Question.
Let's say you're at home, you and your boyfriend, whatever.
Maybe you have kids, right?
Maybe your husband, you have two young kids, three men who are armed.
Actually, they don't even have to be armed.
Let's just say three grown adult men break into your house.
In that scenario, would you like either yourself or your partner to have a firearm?
Yes.
And then I'll just take my makeup off and they'll run away.
Like, they just make me uncomfortable because, like, now we're killing people or shooting people or like things can go wrong.
What if the kid runs in the way?
Like, I don't know.
It just makes me personally uncomfortable.
I'm not saying other people can't have one.
I mean, you don't.
I just personally don't.
I mean, obviously, you check your backdrop.
If your son's over there, you're not going to put shots down range.
But yeah, I mean, here's the thing.
If I have a wife, if I have two kids and three men break into the house, they're fucking dead.
Are you a good son?
They're fucking dead.
Do you have good aim?
We're not going to talk about that.
Of course I'm going to.
Because you don't know if they're just trying to steal something.
You don't know if they're going to tie you up and abuse the kids, kill the kids, kill your wife.
Why can't you have a bat or something that has a bat versus a gun?
But if they don't have guns, if they break in and they don't have guns, then like, don't you have a chance to?
Three men versus one man with a bat?
Then I'll grab my bat.
The three men are going to live.
The bat is not going to be enough.
And what if I put like spikes in the bat?
Then there you go.
Butter sock.
Yeah.
Buttersock.
Buttersock, baby.
I think where people have issues with that is like you can have a gun for safety, but then people also collect guns and that's where those automatic semi blah blah blah comes in.
And so that's that's where it gets like a little iffy.
Yeah, here's what I don't get about the gun debate is, okay.
So let's say we just made, let's just say we made guns, all guns illegal, right?
We made all guns illegal.
You couldn't own a gun.
But then I feel like it'd just go higher on the black market.
Right, that's the point I'm trying to make.
Certain drugs are illegal.
Marijuana was illegal.
I mean, cocaine, all these other drugs, they're illegal, right?
They're illegal to produce.
They're illegal to own.
People still get illegal drugs.
So if you make guns illegal, people are still going to get a paper.
Someone who's determined to do a school shooting or do a mass shooting.
They will find a way.
They're already prepared to commit a crime.
Yeah, absolutely.
Wait, it's not so much make the guns illegal.
For me, it's that like they should, I mean, obviously people will go on black market and get their gun and whatnot.
But if a normal functionable human being with a stable mind go buy a gun, they should like, there's some sort of like background check that they do like we apply for a job.
Like this looks kind of sexy posing with an AR.
I actually have a photo of me with two AK-47s and then like pistols in my rain boots and Russian Oshanka hat.
I was like in high school.
Wait, question about, so you're from Russia?
Maybe, yes.
So have you had anyone like when all the, I mean the Ukraine shit's still going on, but like when it was like really popping off, where people like, I don't know if I can be friends with you anymore.
No, it's not so much that, but it's more so when I meet people and they hear my like Russian redneck accent.
When I say redneck is because I learned English in Texas.
And so I say, I know being Russian is not a popular thing, but I just try to avoid it because I obviously know that it's whatever Putin is doing is idiotic, selfish, inhumane.
But that doesn't mean I'm not still Russian or I don't like Russia is not my country, if that makes sense.
I mean, if we as Americans had to pay for all our crimes and genocide, no one would be front.
Yeah, it's like, to me, it's like, I have nothing fucking to say.
If I did, I would hire someone and they'll take care of Putin versus like, yeah.
She's going to take care of Pam with an AR.
Don't come for me.
Hey, Brian.
Yeah.
Could I get the other pillow?
My back is really hurting.
I'm like pushing myself off the seat trying to talk to you.
When I get up, I'll do it.
Eric, why don't you play the Andrea clip first?
Would you have sex with me?
I guess.
I said no.
I'm going to be crazy.
Oh my gosh.
Yes?
No?
Did you just do anything for a day first?
Did you get me?
Let me just kind of lay there and I'll just do my thing.
Why not?
Okay.
I always want to ask you guys if you would be down to have sex with me.
I will definitely have sex with you.
Like right, like literally right now.
You're not joking.
Your house is like right over there.
Right now, you're doing it.
I'm sorry.
Let me know if this is too forward.
If you would have sex with me.
Hold on.
Mom, can I call you back?
Maybe you'd want to have sex with me.
Yes.
Yeah.
My house is definitely my house like right over there.
You want to have sex with me?
Are you out of your mind?
You're drinking?
Kind of the best way.
Oh, nope.
I'm completely sober.
You out of your mind.
In the best kind of way.
Come on, my house is yours.
Okay.
Do you want to have sex with me?
Yes.
I'm serious.
Like, my house is like right there.
I gotta get a phone.
Okay, let's do it.
Do you want to have sex with me?
Yeah.
And my house is like right there.
No hesitation.
I don't know if this is serious.
Would you like to hang out with us first?
No, I don't know.
You want to just go do it right now?
Yeah, just be like really quick, like 15 minutes.
That's totally fine.
Okay.
All right.
Ready to go?
Yeah, let's go.
Okay.
I better not be getting robbed right now.
So I better not be getting wrong.
So, your reaction to that, Louie.
Your reaction.
What do you think?
What do you think?
Actually, I appreciate the guys was saying, Do you want to know us first?
So I do appreciate that.
Okay, your faith in humanity was restored a little bit.
Yes, do it.
I feel like I was like below average.
Yo.
Lily.
Lillian.
Is that your full name, by the way?
Lillian?
No.
No.
Of course it is.
Okay.
Go ahead, Lillian.
Would you do that?
No.
That's what we're doing.
I think so many people would be like, okay, I would literally burst out laughing if I said that to somebody.
Oza.
Aja, why do you always do that?
What was the question?
Like my thoughts?
You had to feel like that.
Oh, I feel like guys will fuck anything, so they're just like.
Guys will fuck anything.
Most guys, yes.
They'll fuck anything.
They just need three holes.
That's all.
What's the thing?
I'm not going to say all that.
The belly don't.
I don't know that there's Brian.
And you like labias.
You don't know that.
The ear?
Okay, let me phrase that.
Eyeballs.
Most guys are horny, so if a girl's like, let's fuck, they're going to be like, okay.
Word.
Good.
Yeah.
I would definitely do what that girl did.
I was like, hey, you want to have sex just for shits and giggles.
Literally.
Yeah, for shits and giggles.
So before we play the next video, do you guys think it's harder for men or women to get laid?
For women to get laid?
Yeah, we'll go.
We'll start over here.
Go ahead.
I think it's harder for men because women, we have more like checkboxes, if that makes sense.
We're more, we want more from you before we want to sleep with you, but the majority of the time.
I feel like at least.
Sure.
I feel the same way.
I think it's harder for men.
My answer is redacted.
But happy Thanksgiving, ladies and Brian.
Thanks for having me back on and Eric.
Thanks for watching, guys.
I've got to go.
Wait, we haven't talked about your OnlyFans yet.
I think that's my cue.
Subscribe, though.
For next time.
All right, quick.
Wait, hold on.
Wait, wait, wait.
Hold on.
I got the crickets.
It was quite.
Peace out.
Peace out.
You too, homie.
Okay, see ya.
Thanks for coming.
Thank you.
Bye, everyone.
so I'm trying to think if I want to adjust the microphones at all there um we could have No, stay where you are.
Maybe you could just put that microphone on the ground.
There we go.
What your sunglasses?
Phone.
Oops.
Oh my God.
Don't forget your makeup and everything you brought up.
This is Sparta!
Keep the change, you filthy animal.
All right.
Thanks for coming, Emma.
Is that a man picking you up in his whip?
And his three whips?
The question was easy for men to get laid.
Men or women to get laid.
I think it just depends on how much substance, alcohol they had that day, and how horny you are.
And X, Y, and Z. Wait, but okay, is it easier for men or women to get laid?
It's easier for women to get laid because we have a say for the most part.
Like if I want to go have sex with someone, text, call, I'm over having it.
Yeah.
And with guys, Emma, don't steal their purses.
How dare you?
Leave my purse alone.
What's that term for people that steal compulsively?
Like it's a klepto.
Yeah, Emma.
That they like to steal things.
Like if they see it, they'll take it.
Yeah.
A klepto.
Among others.
They got no money.
Okay.
Do you think it's easier for men or women to get laid?
Women, definitely.
Lily?
Whoa.
Can you not use my full name like that?
I don't like it.
Lillian.
Okay, I'm done.
I'm done.
I'm done, Lily.
Go ahead.
I think it's harder for men.
Okay.
What about you, Loe?
I feel generally it's harder for men, but thinking about people like Drake, they never worry about getting maids.
but okay that's like I feel like it just I agree with her.
If there's a good-looking guy and a lot of girls want to fuck him, then he's not going to have a problem getting pissed.
Like on a general basis, I think it's for men.
Yeah, generally.
Just like, obviously, it's like based off of like attractiveness.
Honestly, here's the thing, though.
Even a really good-looking guy.
Okay, take away like Drake, like someone with really high status.
Take that away, take that out of the picture.
Even a really good-looking guy, an average girl has an easier time getting laid than like a top-tier, like top, top-looking guy.
I agree.
Yeah, it's like sexualize us even when we don't want them to, so it doesn't, I don't know.
Men sexualize.
Sometimes men sexualize you when you're not even wearing something revealing.
So I feel like just stereotypes and just genders being different in the first place maybe feeds into women getting laid more.
Or easier, I mean.
I mean, I'm not sure if it has so much to do with sexualization, but it's for sure easier for women to get laid.
And on that note, Eric, why don't you go ahead and pull up my version of that video?
I think I've seen it.
Brian had it rough, y'all.
I've seen it.
Did you speak English?
I just thought you were really cute.
And I want to know if you wanted to have sex.
No.
Okay.
I agree.
I just thought you were cute, and I wanted to know if you wanted to have sex.
No, no, no, you're really cute and I want to know if you want to have sex with me.
And I want to know if you want to have sex.
Do you guys speak English?
Where are you from?
Australia.
Australia, Cole.
You guys are really cute.
Okay.
And I want to know if you guys wanted to have sex.
Do you want to have sex?
No?
Pardon me?
I just thought you were cute, and I just want to know if you wanted to have sex.
Fine, my friend.
I thank you.
Thank you.
All right, night.
Are you stupid or I'm a little stupid?
Well, you want to lie on the ground or not?
Right now.
Yes.
What do you mean, lie on the ground?
Jamie, you're gonna slap me very hard.
Yes?
When I'm on the ground or something?
That's not what you're gonna ask, a lady.
No.
I'm not from around here, so I don't know the custom.
Okay.
I think it's also culture.
I just, because it looks like you were like in Europe or yeah.
So it was a well, so here's the thing.
So the girl one was done here in Isla Vista.
I did a version here in Isla Vista too.
And it was the same.
No, the girl said no.
Was that as ruthless, though?
I had one girl say yes in Europe and asked 200 women.
Okay.
200?
It was 200.
And I asked 100 here in the US.
Or in Santa Barbara.
Yeah.
Zero in IV.
So, yes, the two videos I showed you, there's a bit of a difference there, but we did do it in the same location.
Similar results to the one I did in Europe.
So, yeah.
I think I'm the most publicly rejected man in the world.
I shouldn't feel.
How does that make you feel?
I don't give a fuck.
You're fine?
I do not care.
I also think it's just the way you approach this.
Yeah.
If you want to go on a date, it would turn out better than you want to go.
Well, no, that wasn't.
I was trying to prove a point.
But, like, I feel like you just stood there, like, you know, the bad thing.
Your body language could have been better.
Your approach could have been better.
That does support what we were talking about.
But no matter, even if you did, a lot of women would have still said no just because of the like man-women.
Also, they have standards and types to add to that.
You just didn't fall into that.
I say all that.
I would like to actually redo it where instead of just being like, when you like to have sex, I can't get that.
That's what I'm saying.
It would be better to do like, would you like to hook up?
Even that little change, I think, wouldn't change it a bit.
And now that you're a grown man with the dude.
And then would you want to hook up?
But I did it with another guy, too.
I had another guy do it who I think is a bit better looking than I am.
And even he got rejected.
And we did that in Isla Vista.
What's his stats?
Like, what did he get?
Like, one yes?
He got zero.
Oh, God.
He got zero out of a hundred.
So it's rough out there.
So you're saying even like a brutal boy will get a whole bunch of no's.
You know what?
I would love to do it again with like the most Chad, like Giga Chad 10 out of 10 dude.
Yeah.
Honestly, he might get a little bit of success, but I want to say like all would still be.
He might get a couple, like two or three, but I'm pretty sure it's if he, if we do 100, 95% of them will still say no.
Even if he's really good looking, like it's just because especially you're asking all this women on their sober head, which you shouldn't just like have sex with a woman if she's like out of her mind.
But it's like on the sober head, yeah, woman is going to be like, Are you fucking out of your mind?
Versus like if you're goggles, yeah, if you're unless I have beer goggles, sticky particular goggles, yeah.
Let's go.
Honestly, though, I think even if you did it like at a bar or a club at a party, no, at the end of the day, I think it's just harder for you to get it.
So much different.
It's just, it is, because I don't know.
Word.
Word.
Okay, let's get to the next question here.
So let's see here.
What do we have?
Hmm.
Okay.
Sober on this, sort of somewhat on this topic.
Have you had more sober sex or drunk sex?
Start over here.
Mostly sober sex.
Okay.
Lillian.
Sorry.
Lily, my bad.
Yikes.
Brian.
I'm sorry.
Forgive me.
Forgive me.
Mostly sober.
Okay.
Mostly sober.
Yikes.
Drunky pants.
She is Russian.
Look at my phone.
Sober until recently.
Because why?
Because I have a sneaky link.
We're not sneaky.
But that's our thing.
We go downtown, we get drunk, and then have a good time.
But what about with previous partners?
Oh, sober.
Okay, so overall, though, more sober?
More sober.
Okay, what about you?
I'm sober.
Wow.
I'm just alcoholic and horny over here.
I don't really drink.
Yeah, I don't drink.
Oh.
Occasionally I drink, but like.
Do you have any more?
No.
No, we got the last one.
Let me see if there's more.
But I've met people that, and these are typically people who are in college that they've, some people have never had sober sex because they're just doing like hookups, one night stands.
They've only had sex drunk.
Or they're just always drunk.
Yikes.
Always drunk having sex.
Yeah, no.
Is there more water?
Yeah, we have some more water.
I think we might have some water.
Okay, sober meaning like drunk or like it's not, it's not that I'm just like always blackout drunk.
It's just, or I don't have sober sex.
It's just I'm out socially drinking and then either the lights go out and then it happens or yeah, it just happens.
But yeah.
Exactly.
Word.
So next question here.
So how many dates until you hook up or sleep with a guy?
How long do you think you should wait?
Go ahead.
I feel like it depends on the situation.
Yeah.
What's the situation?
I don't know.
I feel like I've tried dating, but I haven't dated like a lot because I tend to be in a relationship.
I've been in one for I was in one for a long time.
But I think definitely a few, but I don't think there's like a hardcore rule.
Like if you guys connected, I guess it depends on how much you connect with the person.
I don't have like a rule.
Okay.
No, but so would you hook up someone the first night?
Nothing wrong with that.
Just.
Yeah, not preferably, but if it went that way, I wouldn't be upset about it.
Okay.
But because some people like say, oh, third date, some people want to wait longer.
Or some people think it's like bad if you hook up on the first day.
The first date.
Yeah.
Personally, I like to wait, but like if I at least like four or five dates, but at the same time.
Four, four or five.
Gotcha.
Well, you gotta know that they like you.
But at the same time, I do have like some people that like I have hooked up with them on like the first time.
So how do you like differentiate between...
Because I know that we're only hanging out to hook up.
Wait, so just to be clear, let me...
If there's a guy where you just, he just wants to hook up, you just want to hook up first night.
Yeah, under the right circumstances, yeah.
then if i meet a guy like okay uh previously i met a guy at the bar but like he was a very genuine person like he was very he was very into the relationship type and like i'm i am too so like he's not the guy that i'd be like oh i just want to hook up with you and that's that i like we both waited we both like talked about it That's another thing.
Like you talk about it, you know wait.
But so did he want to have sex with you and then you made him wait.
We both wanted to, but we both yeah, we both wanted to have sex and we both waited.
Yeah actually no no, no.
Well, obviously you both waited, because one person in that dynamic can set the terms for that.
But you're telling me he also wanted to wait because or or is it that you said you want me dead ass?
Sure, he was a virgin, so I mean, I can see, I can kind of see that.
But and you were not a virgin, correct?
So you took his virginity yeah, how was it?
How was the sex?
Like a virgin.
Wow yeah, god damn, I don't know.
I taught him some score.
That's what you score.
That's right baby, i'm flicking.
Um, I don't think it matters.
Okay, like there have been circumstances where i've had sex on the first date, there've been circumstances on the second, third date.
But it doesn't matter how long you make a man wait, once you have sex it's either there or it's not.
So there's either that connection or it's not.
You can make them wait 12 days, three days, one day, 90 days, whatever the fuck you making them wait.
Like it there's either a chemistry connection or there's not.
And whether they want to continue pursue their relationship.
So definitely answer, I can agree with that.
Yeah definitely, that's a.
That's a very good point.
Like the thing is is that oftentimes a lot of women will, will wait.
They think that they can keep man because you're making them wait yeah, because you making them wait, and they will continue, like want to date you and pursue you because you think you're emotionally connecting.
Yeah, but it doesn't matter.
Like, once you have sex, it's either there or it's not.
Yeah, and so on to the next.
I mean it it's sort of it is a bit of a damned if you do, damned if you don't situation with women, because on one hand, there are definitely guys out there that if you sleep with them too soon, they're gonna be, they're gonna think a certain type of way about you.
But also, if you make a guy wait, then you might start getting feelings for him and then.
But he's just still after sex and then he sleeps with you, he gets what he wants, he's gone, yeah.
But there's also you can sleep on a first night uh, first date.
But if there's That connection, you will continue, he will continue pursuing and dating her versus like, oh, she slept on the first day.
And there's also scenarios where if you make a guy wait too long, then they're like, bye.
Yeah, or they would have otherwise liked to have continued seeing you, but if you make him wait too long, he's going to think, like, this is how I'll think sometimes.
If a girl makes me wait too long, I'm going to think she's playing a game.
The only time where I feel like it can be kind of justified to wait is if you're genuinely like, that's been your, that's been your standards for all your previous men.
But hold on, you've slept with 30 guys before, you've had a bunch of one-night stands, you've had a ho-faze, and now you're going to make me wait.
You're playing a game now.
And now it's a game.
So I'm already, now I'm thinking, okay, let's play the game.
Whereas if it's genuine, like if it's a girl who's a virgin, for example, okay, fine.
Yeah, but like then you're playing a game, like now you're either either, I'm going to think you're not that into me because you gave it up to this, you hooked up with this guy, no problem.
You're going to make, so you're telling me that guy with a jerk, the asshole, you gave it to him the first night, but I'm the good guy.
You want to make me wait three days, four days, five days?
Because you're a good guy.
And like, maybe they want to.
You should be rewarding the good men.
I think that's how.
Okay.
Yeah.
But I don't know.
i don't for me personally i i if a girl wanted to hook up quick like i wouldn't view her like oh she's because i think you can hook up No, but I think you can hook up with someone relatively fast and still not have a high body count.
Because a lot of guys care about body count, right?
So you can have sex with someone fairly quickly, but also be relationship-minded.
There's other indicators of if you're definitely.
Yeah, there's other indicators of promiscuity.
And like, of the law, I've had multiple long-term relationships.
I dated a girl for five years.
I had a two-year one.
I had a one-year one.
All those relationships, it wasn't like, let's wait 10 dates.
And then, no, it was like within the first one, two, or three times we hung out, we had sex.
And those were all long-term relationships.
So, I don't know, this idea of waiting in order to secure a guy for a relationship.
It doesn't work.
Like, if he's down for you, like, I mean, maybe you could do like a token, like, maybe not the first time, but like, I don't know, if you like the guy and you if the vibes are right, if that's your standard, it like some girls, they might genuinely, like, for all the guys they've ever slept with, it's like, hey, I want to know you, I want to know you for a month.
Yeah, then that's fair.
But if you had a ho-faze, you've hooked up like a month ago, you hooked up with a guy first night.
There's no way a guy might know, but I'm just like, for me, it's a fucking eye roll if you hooked up with a guy the first night a month ago.
Well, I mean, you wouldn't, but it's still like to just thinking about it, like for you to have two sets of standards, okay, for this guy first night, but then this guy who I actually want, who I want a relationship with, I'm going to make him wait.
I don't know, I feel like that's game playing.
Yeah.
Okay, what do you think about girls who like they'll fuck on the first night, but they're interested in you?
That's fine.
Yeah, well, that's what I'm saying.
It still works.
Yeah.
Yeah.
It's because it's like if there's connection, it will work.
But if there's not, at the end of the day, you're just ripped up bandit quickly.
You have sex, you don't connect.
Okay, on to the next.
But you should probably, like, if you want something more serious, like you should probably have a sense of what that guy's looking for.
So that's, I mean, there are women who will sleep with the guy.
What's that?
If that's what you want?
Like, just, that's what's going on.
What's the question?
Like, what if you guys are just like fuck buddies and like no one said what they want, but you guys are just fucking well.
But what I'm saying is establishing these sorts of understandings before you sleep about it.
Sleep with someone first.
Like, if your concern as a woman is, hey, I don't want to rack up a high body count, you can sleep with a guy relatively quickly, but you need to have a sense of where his headspace is at.
Also, if you're chasing after fuckboys, like he's not going to commit to you.
Also, you need a reasonable, and I think all the girls at this table, you know, because we'll have girls come on and they'll like say, I'm a 10.
I think I'm a 10.
So if you don't have a reasonable self-assessment of your physical attractiveness, where you stand in terms of your attraction to the your how your fuck I'm sorry, hold on, let me play this.
Tongue-tied here, guys.
If you don't have a reasonable self-assessment of where you stand in terms of your physical appearance, you're going to be chasing after a certain caliber of guy, and that caliber of guy is never going to commit to you.
So if you think you're a 10, here's the thing: like a guy who's, a guy who's an to use the numbers, right?
A guy who's a nine will gladly sleep with a girl who's a seven or six or five.
He's not going to ever commit to her for a long-term relationship, but he'll gladly, he'll gladly welcome the easy access to sex.
Yep.
So if a woman is chasing after like a top-tier guy that's maybe more attractive than her, you might be able to sleep with him.
It might be exciting.
He might be really hot.
He might be great in bed, but you're not going to get commitment.
And then you're actually kind of like fucking yourself because then you start looking at the guys who are your looks equivalent.
And all of a sudden, the guys that would otherwise be your looks equivalent, the guys that would be faithful to you in a relationship, the good, dutiful boyfriends, you're going to think you're settling for what is actually your equal.
And then you're just.
And it's pretty easy for women to sleep with like really attractive men.
An average woman can sleep with a guy who's much more attractive than her, but like an average guy can't really sleep with a guy with a girl who's fucking hot.
So we don't have the same opportunity to like fuck ourselves our wiring into like not being willing to settle for a girl that's like kind of on our level.
So we're I've actually seen a lot of bomb guys with like girls.
Yeah, because they just end up settling.
Well, men we date down.
Yeah.
Why?
So no one's still your girl?
No, just like that's how it is.
Because honestly, it's fucking with social media and dating apps.
Listen, a lot of you are fucking gassed up.
Have you ever seen a girl's Instagram comments on her Instagram?
Y'all be gassing each other up.
Then you get a shit.
You get a shit.
You get a ton of DMs from guys.
You get on dating apps, you guys get bombarded by guys.
But these guys, a lot of these guys, you have to separate so there's physical attraction and then there's relationship attraction.
Definitely.
So a guy will, guys will sleep with you, but they might not want to be in a relationship with you.
And honestly, I think women should only be sleeping with men that see you as a relationship.
I mean, if you don't, I mean, look, you're free to do whatever you want, but like.
No, yeah, that makes sense.
Thank you.
Yeah, if you want to be the town bicycle and get run through, you can do it.
What a thing.
Everybody rides it.
Like the bikes that you ride on the beach.
Yeah.
Yeah, everyone.
But like, yeah, and I say this because Men, we don't want a woman with a high body count.
But why does it matter with the body count?
Like, if you and I date, I'm not just going to tell you that I slept with two or three or 20 or 100 men.
Like, that has nothing to do with it.
Okay, sorry.
I don't go ahead.
Go ahead.
Yeah, but even if I slept with 100, it has nothing like, why is that?
Like, why should you be sharing that number?
What good does it bring into a relationship?
I mean, I feel because it's like you've shared that person with a lot of people.
It's like, you don't want that.
You know, like, I mean, same with me.
Like, if a guy has a lot of body count.
When a girl has a high body count than a guy.
Like, it looks bad on you.
That's mine.
It's not pretty, but guys, oh, but guys almost like they're like, oh, yeah, man, good job, you screwed her.
But like, a girl gets like slashamed.
Yeah.
So it's like, where's the balance, I guess?
I mean, it's, there's all kinds of double standards, but I think that's a justified double standard.
Brian, you just said you can tell if the girl has high body count because you describe that.
I mean, not always, but like we are going to look at other factors because we know if you're probably not going to be honest with yourself.
What's high?
What's high for you?
What's a high body count for you?
It depends on age.
It depends on age.
Oh, 19 with 20 plus.
That's a lot of fun.
Like 90 or so.
Honestly, 19 with 10 plus.
That's a lot.
I think for most men, for most men, honestly, at any age, over 10.
Over 10, guys are starting to think that's a high body count.
But honestly, most women have over 10.
I'd say a lot of women have an over 10.
But when I date man, I'm never asking them how many they've had.
Because women don't really care about body count.
And they don't ask me.
No, some women do care about body count, but like they care.
Generally speaking, women care about body count far less.
Yeah.
And some just don't care at all.
But sorry, repeat what was your question?
That wasn't a question.
It was just a statement that when I date man, I don't care, nor they ask me because it's irrelevant information because it's not necessarily it's like completely irrelevant, but it's just like there's no good that's gonna come from it.
So why the fuck do I care?
And do I need to like dwell and think about it?
How many people you've been with where it's just like I have you, I have you.
And so and so I'm it's just you and I now versus like unless you fucking cheat on me.
Yeah, that's different.
But it's like in the moment, it's I'm sleeping with you.
You're sleeping with me and that's it.
I mean, one reason to you mentioned cheating.
One reason to care about body count is the more partners someone has had, the greater likelihood of future infidelity in a relationship.
There's a lot of reasons to care about body count, but it's irrelevant in my opinion.
Well, for a lot of women don't care.
A lot of women don't care.
And that's because there's asymmetry in what women find if you're single, how else do you get better at sex if you're in a five-year relationship and it gets just monotonous and you're like, hey, do you want to have sex?
No.
Oh, okay.
Yes.
It's like, or if you're single, and it's not necessarily that you have to be good at sex.
It's just that's how you learn what you like, what you dislike, and you grow that way.
I don't know if that makes any sense.
Practice makes perfect.
Yeah.
Perfect practice makes perfect.
I think if you compare someone, if you compare a woman who's had sex with her boyfriend 20 times versus a woman who's had sex with 20 men one time, I would argue, I mean, you can become really skilled at sex with just.
I dated a guy for six months.
Yeah.
And we had the worst sex of my life.
And I was there trying to work on it.
You were?
How?
By not to expose too much, but like I wanted to include like a sex therapy or couples therapy or something because it was his issue six months ago.
Because there was a strong enough foundation of friendship where I wanted this relationship to work.
And so I was willing to stay in that relationship.
And so sex was terrible.
So here I was, six months relationship, and I'm crying because he had an issue with premature ejaculation.
Yes.
Was that the primary reason why the sex was bad?
Yeah, because you were too hot.
Well, but okay, so did you guys have round twos?
Because often it's not.
So there's no round twos, there's no foreplay, there's nothing.
Did you ask?
Yeah, but there's, and that's why, like, I was there, and so it was.
You stayed with him for six months, even though there's such a glaring sexual incompatibility.
Exactly, exactly.
So, next.
I mean, obviously.
I think it was fair of you to give him an opportunity to improve.
And I think all people should give people an opportunity to improve in that department.
But I mean, it seemed like a pretty glaring incompatibility sexually.
So maybe I would have moved on sooner.
Yeah.
Yeah.
A little bit.
But here's the thing, though.
Like, here's the difference between men and women.
Like, would any of you, for like a one-night stand currently, or even for a relationship, would any of you want to date a guy who's a virgin?
I don't necessarily care as long as you're trying to make sure we're both having a good time.
Okay.
Like, you can work on things or get good at things, but if you're not trying, then no.
Okay.
What about you?
I did date a guy that was a virgin, and it was because he was really nice and really sweet, and like he was boyfriend material, and I didn't know he's a virgin until like a certain point.
Okay.
And then once it, well, no, I knew before we had sex.
And then once we had sex, like it was fine, because then I know what I like, so it was easier to like tell him what to do what I like when other times when you're with a guy that is experienced, they don't even know what they're doing.
Like how the guy that was a virgin, I've had way better sex with the guy that was a virgin than guys that have had experience.
And it's like, how?
Is someone saying that the black-haired girl mic isn't working?
Is that guy just trolling?
Me?
know her because she's not talking i think they're just you gotta talk to your mic Yeah, I don't know what.
And they have like all black hair except for one.
So which black-haired girl?
I think they're talking about something.
That's funny.
Guys, is her mic not working?
Can you just speak?
Hi.
Hi, how are you?
This is the whatever podcast.
Is her mic on, guys?
So just really quick, yes or no, would you date a virgin, get with a virgin?
Probably not.
I don't know.
Okay.
I don't even know.
I mean, yes or no?
Yes or no?
Okay, I guess.
I am dating one.
Oh, see?
What a lady.
Now was.
Oh, like, Are you guys having good sex?
Yeah.
You took his virginity.
Well, I mean, like, I don't know.
I don't talk about this stuff.
But you wait, you just, but, of course, how can you say you don't know when you just said that he was a virgin?
No, no, no, no.
I'm just saying, like, I don't, like.
Yeah, I did.
But I'm saying, like, I don't know how to talk about this stuff, especially, like, in a public setting.
That's why I'm not.
Okay, go ahead.
I prefer not, but if the guy didn't tell me, I would just go for it.
Okay.
Yeah.
So that's the difference between men and women because for a lot of men, a woman who's a virgin is a prize.
Yeah.
That's a prize for a woman.
That's what my mom tell me.
My Chinese mom, make sure I don't break my virginity before marriage.
And like, she literally said, your husband won't treat you as good if you are like as a virgin.
Sorry, mom.
Wait, did we did we go all the way around on how many dates until you sleep with the guy?
I don't know if we didn't finish.
Yeah, we'll continue on with the conversation, but go ahead.
Did you, how many dates?
I don't know.
I can't be a hypocrite because I've slept with someone the first time I met him, so.
Okay.
I haven't been on enough dates to answer this.
But don't.
But the thing is, I don't know.
Not dates, like just how many.
How long?
You could say a month.
Just give us something.
Whatever happens, happens.
Just give us.
I mean, I wouldn't prefer it, but like, maybe like three months.
Three months, you'll make a point.
Sounds like a lot of work.
Okay, what about you?
Okay, Brian, don't hate me.
I think I'm very similar to the one you just described is I categorize my boys into two categories.
One is I'm super attracted to their look.
I usually fuck like second or third time I see them.
And then they only come over to my place, stay over for a night, and then leave.
I don't go to public or like don't hang out with them, no dinner afterwards.
Cannot be seen public together after this.
But another type of guy is the guy I maybe will have a lot of mutuals or I see any slight potential that he can be my boyfriend.
I will let him wait.
But the thing is like I'm not looking for a relationship right now.
So sorry to all these guys.
I'm not gonna fuck you guys at all.
Wait, hold on.
You're not looking for a relationship right now.
So you won't even do like links either?
So you sneaky links?
They come and go.
You guys come over, fuck, and you can leave.
Or you stay for a night and leave the next day.
Wait.
No breakfast.
No.
Okay, so you said you do categorization.
So some of the guys, you said that you invite them to your house.
No first meeting in public?
There is first or second meetings.
First.
Yes.
At your house.
outside dinner and stuff but i but no but you said that you don't do the and ever like after that dinner or meet up it is strictly to my house Strictly to the virgin.
Nowhere.
She can't see me.
What?
Okay, so.
She doesn't want to be seen in public with them.
You're going straight to the house.
Yeah.
From there, and then you never talk to them again, or that's just always how it is.
There's no point of talking.
In my opinion.
Like, sometimes girls just want to have sex and then not.
Because the more we talk, girl, gonna build emotions.
And I'm super emotional.
I will just fall in love with a guy if he's like super caring.
I said, I prefer not to talk with you.
Like, I keep distance with you.
You said super what?
If he's super what?
Like, if she, he's, like, super caring.
It's like, oh, I bring you soup, I bring you flowers.
Like, no, I will, like, like, girlfriend.
You will fall in love.
Yeah, I will fall in love and I don't want that.
You don't want that.
Yeah.
Why not?
What if he's like your dream person?
Then that falls into the second category.
If that's my dream person, then I'll have him wait a little if I'm ready for a relationship.
You'll make him wait.
Yeah.
Okay.
But can you explain?
It seems very methodical.
The guy comes over and then get out.
Yeah, he can like.
What about cuddling?
Do you cuddle for like 10 minutes?
I actually don't like cuddling because it's so warm.
Do you guys like cuddling?
I like cuddling.
Literally, my sneaky link.
Literally, last night my sneaky link was like, come cuddle, come cuddle.
And I was like, obligatory post-sex cuddling sneaky link because y'all are catching feelings.
Because I feel cuddling is overrated because when you guys both fall asleep, you're going to fall that separate because it's warm.
It's not that comfortable.
What do you mean?
You don't like to cut away.
What about just like the 10 minutes post-sex cuddling?
Then you kick it.
And then you leave, yeah.
Yeah, I prefer to go take a shower or take a pee first and then go back to colour.
To clean up the clean it out.
Otherwise, you get UTIs.
Literally.
But you don't like the guy.
Well, I'm with you on that.
Honestly, even with a girl I've been seeing for like a year or two, I don't want her to sleep over.
I don't want her to sleep over.
I'm crying.
Bro, I value my sleep.
I value my sleep.
Taurus.
Taurus, and he doesn't sleep or takes naps.
But I value my sleep also.
You know what?
Did with my wife separate beds.
No way.
Actually, yes.
Or same room.
California-size King's.
King-size California.
So that way there's enough space for the activities.
And then also you san your side, I say on my side, and we're both just zonked out.
Yeah, I only have a queen, so even a queen, it's just too small to switch.
No, no, no.
Put him on the couch.
And trust me, I've dated some quiet bitches.
Quiet bitch?
What does that mean?
Quiet bitches.
I've dated some quiet.
I'm kidding.
I've dated some quiet women.
Oh, what does that mean?
Like they're just like, girls are not quiet.
Don't even budge during sleep.
Don't snore.
Even then, it just fucks with my sleep.
I can't do it.
Because they're in your space.
Yeah.
They're in your bubble.
Yeah.
Yeah.
Bubble.
Although, like, you know what's crazy, though?
I feel like if I kind of push through that initial, I have had girlfriends that I can actually sleep, like, you know, spend the night with or whatever.
But he just lays out nice and silly.
He's doing having so many bosses.
And they'd be trying to wake me up in the morning.
The fuck.
I'm like, nah, man, I'm trying to sleep.
Give me breakfast.
Give me coffee.
Oh my gosh.
God damn.
All right, let me do some.
Wait, okay, I'm with you on sleep.
So that was a very interesting answer.
You don't want to catch feelings.
You don't want.
Did you tell that to guys?
When you're in love, you're what?
You slash tires?
Absolutely retarded.
You're retarded when you're in love?
Very retarded.
I'm just like so focused in love and I cannot do anything like work and career.
It's wife material right there.
I feel that completely.
Everybody knows you never go full retirement.
I mean, a true love feels good and all that, but this is not the time for me to fall in love.
I need to focus.
That's why.
Focus on what?
Getting secure to me.
What happened with Aiden Ross, by the way?
Can you talk about Aiden Ross?
What happened there?
Okay, here's the thing.
Well, also, my theory is coming from all of my trauma experiences.
All the fuckboys I've dealing with the past, so I just detach my feelings.
All the fuckboys?
Hold on.
What about the fuckboys?
Okay, Aiden Rose first, okay?
In order.
Okay, so here's the thing, right?
Aiden Rose.
I always love Aiden Rose.
I've been telling everyone, like, I love Aiden Rose's favorite streamer because he can take jokes.
He handles situations so well.
And then his assistant reached out to me a couple, like last month.
And then he's like, oh, please, could you come on this live stream with Aiden?
And we do like reverse E-Day and stuff.
And I turned it down.
And then he reached out to me again for Andrew Tate.
And I got so scared.
I didn't know Andrew Tate, like, who was this person?
So I searched online.
He was topless, talking mad shit.
And I was like, nah, I gotta get destroyed.
And then after I see that live, I was like, damn, maybe I should be on there because this is the only chance me as a woman can totally roast him in person.
And just, you know, like, this is the only chance I have.
Both end.
So after that, I was like, if Aiden ever asked me to do live stream again, I will do it just to, you know, make some jokes and stuff.
So I went on there with Kai, actually, another streamer.
They pulled a freeze prank on me.
I was on there for 50 seconds and they kicked me out.
I should not.
So the moment after that, I was like, I'm so ashamed.
I will pretend this has never happened.
But guess what?
It went viral on YouTube today.
My clip today?
Yeah, like, well, probably a couple days ago.
But my fans sent it to me today.
That was like, when I checked it, it was like 800K views at the time.
It's my edits of me getting kicked out.
Okay.
The point is.
Yeah, I saw it.
It was kind of unremarkable.
The point is, this is so disrespectful.
Oh.
Right?
You backed me to go on your live stream just to kick me out.
Oh, here's the tea.
He couldn't handle the heat.
I didn't say nothing.
Okay, here's what happened, right?
I went on there.
I was wearing a chrome hard jacket.
And then Kai was like, oh, is that a Chrome hard jacket?
And then I was like, yes.
And then he's like, yes, I was like, bro, you are literally wearing a chrome hard hat.
Like, what are you talking about?
So hypocrite.
And then they freeze on me.
Yeah, so basically, what here?
Let me, let me.
Let me translate, because so basically, she went on, and then Aiden Ross is a streamer on Twitch, and then Kai Sennett right, he's also.
I'm less familiar with him.
They do like this E-Date thing where they have girls like zoom in or it's on Discord or whatever, so it's all video, and they like pretended they were talking to her for like not 10 seconds, 20 seconds exactly, and they like pretended to freeze while talking to her and then like booted her from the discord or whatever.
So rip and you that it was pretty boring.
Like it is so boring.
I was prepared 10 questions to roast Aiden Rose and I couldn't get to do it.
I'm so pissed.
What were the?
What were we gonna wait?
Okay, what was the other thing we were gonna talk about, though?
Oh, the fuckboys let's talk about.
That's important.
So how many fuckboys have you dealt with?
Very, very bad ones.
Probably four or five.
Okay yeah, did you know they were fuckboys though, before you?
Definitely, fuckboys are so good at their craft.
They will love bombing you first you're falling in love, you're a hook, and then they disappeared, or they get with your best friends, or stuff like this.
Yeah, They got with your best friends.
Well, not their best, best friend, but like one of the girlfriends.
Wow.
Wow.
Can't really stay sad.
Good times.
Absolutely.
Yeah.
You learned the lessons.
All right.
Let me get some of these super chats here.
We got Paradise Champ.
Thank you for the super chat, man.
Appreciate it.
Hey, Brian, why do girls like to wear ugly Birken stocks?
A lot of guys really don't like it when girls wear ugly-looking Birken socks.
Do you guys like Birkenstocks?
I'm ugly though.
Yes, I don't like Birkenstocks.
I don't think the guys wear Birkin socks also.
Crocs shades and Crocs are hidden.
Crocs, no, Birken socks, no.
Victim.
I have Crocs.
Especially like the bright yellow ones.
And you just start with.
Bieber wears Crocs.
I don't like Crocs, but I don't know.
They're ugly.
No matter.
You can be hot as hell.
They're ugly.
Haley Bieber wore them.
I don't like that.
I don't like Crocs, but I like the redesign it.
We got Dave Hon Jackson with the 10.
Chat, I'll never understand why they would hook up with a guy they don't see a future with quickly, but the guy that they see a future with, they'd make wait.
If you keep rewarding trash dudes, they'll keep being trash.
Wait, well, the thing is, we don't hook up with like good guys immediately for me.
Is any friend who has benefit has an expiration date?
So I'd rather it's not happened than happen and it ended in a bad way.
Okay.
That makes sense.
Sort of, kind of, you know.
A little bit.
Maybe.
I don't know.
Okay.
Let's see here.
We have, well, actually, I want to come back to this one.
Yeah, you know, because you guys do kind of choose who you sleep with.
Definitely.
So do you have anyone to blame but yourself when you get with a fuckboy or an asshole or a jerk?
What about they love bombing you?
Yeah.
They were like the best person.
100%.
Yeah.
What is what does that even mean, love bomb?
Mukbalm?
Muk bomb.
Love bombing.
Love bombing.
Love bomb.
Love bomb is when they you start from zero to a hundred and they shower you with compliments, with gifts, they uh plan future trips together, but they're also but you should try that.
Yeah, you should.
I should start doing that.
Yeah.
And then once the relationship starts getting serious or you show, you start talking about feelings or set boundaries, they become uncomfortable.
And that's what but usually love bombs are come from narcissists and the fuckboard version and the men who are emotionally detached and they're just there to have like an upper hand over you and have control of who you see.
Because I dated this guy literally just for a month and after five dates he was like, I don't want you to see anybody, sleep with anybody.
And I'm just like, yeah, wait after how long?
Five dates.
Five dates.
Yeah.
He should have done it sooner, to be honest.
Why?
I want, I want, here's my thing.
This is my philosophy.
Wait, wait, I'll let you so okay.
I think a girl should be celibate for like a year before she even meets me.
Oh, okay.
Yeah.
Wow.
Good luck.
Yeah.
Like she doesn't even know who I am, but she's like, should be waiting.
Okay.
We'll let you have that.
Listen, I'm telling you.
How's that working out?
Are you single or are you dating someone right now?
Huh?
No, he said that hesitantly.
Yeah.
No, you got to be listening.
Should we do Brian's dating profile review?
Yes.
Yes.
It's not that.
I mean, I don't have it.
Did you want to finish your piece?
No.
Okay.
Yeah.
All right.
Paradise Champ, he sent this twice.
Appreciate it, man.
I think we already answered it.
But if you send it a third time, I have a special, just for the fun, I'll play a special soundboard thing for you.
Send this once more, Paradise Champ.
Paradise Champ, we need the hat trick on this super chat.
All right, we have Dayvon Jackson here.
Thank you, man.
What would be the purpose of asking you a question they know will upset you and that you are likely to lie about?
That doesn't mean it doesn't matter to them.
What?
Can you translate that?
Jindobra.
Jindobrain now?
Oh, wait, that's Polish.
Oops.
Okay.
What would be the purpose of asking?
I'm not sure what this is in relation to, but that doesn't mean it doesn't matter to them.
Can you clarify, Dave on Jackson?
We're a little confused.
We have Dayvon Jackson.
Good bedroom fun is about communication and enthusiasm, not about how many men you took before me.
Facts.
Facts.
It's all about communication and fun.
Facts.
Okay.
I'm trying to remember where we were.
Wait, Eric, I think you missed a super chat.
Eric, come on now.
Eric.
The 304 one.
I don't see it.
The 304 one.
You missed the.
Come on, Eric.
Hold on.
It's over now.
Whoops.
Oh, I saw the guy.
Yeah, it was like an orange one.
No, he sent $30.04.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
304.
It might not have been starred.
Can you scroll up?
Keep trying to find it.
Hold on, I got something for you while you're up.
There it is.
Wow.
George.
George, you should be furious right now.
Hold on, don't pull that one up yet.
George, you should be furious right now at Eric because we almost missed your juicy 3004 304.
Hold on.
What the fuck?
What that Eric, you are now third in line for Gressel from Kelthuzad.
Okay?
We're going to have to talk about this in the guild, okay, Eric?
You're benched and you're loot banned for a day, and you lose like 50 DKP.
Okay.
We have Dayvon Jackson here with the $10 Soup Chat.
That was about body count.
Y'all take too long to read chats.
Hey, my Batman.
So what would be the purpose?
So this was the other one.
What would be the purpose of asking you a question they know will upset you?
Oh, okay.
Yeah.
So we were talking about asking the girl her body count.
What would be the purpose of asking about your body count?
They know it will upset you and you're likely to lie about it.
Yep, exactly.
So you're going to lie about your body count.
Yep.
Guys, just on the topic of, would you guys ever date like a guild leader for a guild leader, World of Warcraft?
Oh, like the video game?
Yeah, World of Warcraft Classic.
Like they make it?
They're just nobody in the game?
Yeah, like, but he plays, I mean, he's the guild leader, and he's the main tank, and he also has his alt is a hunter, and he has a rogue.
And then, like, he's, this is World of Warcraft classic.
Like, there's going to be a fresh.
So this is his, like, career?
All he does is...
Or he does just his...
Or he's just his character in the game.
No, it's just more like, and it's a hardcore raiding guild, and so they're also going to be farming world bosses.
So, like, Lord Kazakh and Azergos, because they want to get the world boss loot.
Like, they want to fucking dominate the world bosses.
It's going above our heads.
Gibberish.
Yeah.
You're speaking and they just like, phew, phew.
So he's the topic.
I know what Warcroft is.
Okay, but he's the top guy in the game or like...
Well, I mean, there will be speed running.
They're going to be speedrunning like Molten Core, AQ40, BWL.
You lost me.
No one is paying attention to me.
No, I'm just going to say yes and keep it pushing.
Next episode.
Does it, like, do you think it's kind of hot, like if he has a...
No, if he's playing games like that, no.
That's not hot.
But here's the thing, right?
Also, they're really sweaty about it because everyone in the guild has to have a level 20 summoning alt, like a warlock summoning alt.
Then you're not paying attention to me.
You're paying attention to your game.
Yeah, but like if we want to get the world bosses, like if we want to get Lord Kazakh, if we want to get the Emerald Dragons, like the Four Dragons, the help.
If we want to get Azergos and Lord Kazakh, we're going to need at least like four summoning alts set up in Ashara and what's the one?
Where's Lord Kazakh?
Raise your hand if you're lost.
I'm lost.
I'm lost, but teach me how to play.
Hey, we're always playing.
I'm confused.
Like, also, if you go on Warcraft vlogs, though, his parses are like all 99%.
Still level where no one is paying attention.
He's in the 99th percentile of parses.
He's like, Yeah, he plays well.
He's probably.
I'm lost.
Yeah.
Yeah.
And like, okay.
On his mage.
Is this my cue to go home to on his mage, right?
He's first in line for Atiesh from Naxx.
Why are we...
No.
I don't think this is a video game.
I'm just confused.
He's also getting Scarab Lord when the AQ40.
He's going to make fun of us because none of us know.
But like, guys, think about the war effort.
Like, the war effort for the AQ-40 game.
He's getting.
Alfie's lost too.
He said, I'm the guy and I'm lost too.
I'm just saying.
I'm not hardcore.
Can I ask a question?
Yeah, what's up?
Do you guys like toys in bed?
Yeah.
Never used it.
I have never used it.
I like to use toys.
I like to use toys.
On you or on the girl.
On the girl.
What about handcuffs?
Rope is good.
Yeah.
Rope's good.
Some bondage, yeah.
I'm for it.
For sure.
Yeah.
I'm for it.
Yeah.
What about like more BDSM stuff, like the Dom sub dynamic?
Yes.
What about you?
Yeah, you're the one that said, not in an extreme way.
Does anyone here have any kinks?
I'm not even going to say my name.
Kinks.
Aja?
Why are you coming over here?
I told you I kinked last time.
You did?
Wait, what is it?
I don't remember.
The NYX.
Yeah.
The what?
The NYX?
The NYX.
The NYX.
The Nicks.
The NYX.
Oh, I thought you were talking about the basketball team.
Okay, you'd like to be choked?
I mean, that seems pretty good.
No, I didn't say choked.
No, she likes to.
You have a nice neck.
Do you like choke?
I wouldn't say that's a kink.
I'm talking about sexual kinks.
Okay, then choke it, guys.
I'm joking for sure.
I guess we'll go with that.
Yeah.
All right.
What about what if he, like, he got, fuck, what's it called?
The Drake Fang Talisman.
What is that?
Is this another game?
Yeah.
We're on San Topic.
Okay, sorry.
Sorry.
I'm lost again.
Let's do a video reaction.
Can you pull up the tab?
It should be the first one.
First, first, first.
Oh, wait.
Actually, don't play that yet.
My bad.
We'll get to that, though.
Okay, so question guys.
And I've had this occurrence happen with women.
So let's say there's a guy you just started seeing and you want to hang out with him.
Are you going to text him straight up?
Hey, do you want to hang out?
Or are you going to beat around the bush and text him, hey, and wait for him to suggest to hang out?
Have you ever done that?
It depends on who it is.
I've done both both.
I really want to hang out.
But I noticed, I think guys, I don't know.
I could be wrong, but I think guys like it if you're straightforward and being like, hey, I do want to hang out.
Because even with girls I've been seeing for a while, sometimes they'll just text me like...
Meet around the bush.
They'll just be like, hey.
And I'm like, I know you want to hang out.
Just ask.
Yeah.
And it's, and so I'll, but I'll play the game.
I'll be like, I'll say, hey, back.
They still won't ask.
I'll just say, hey, you said hey, I'll say hey.
And then they'll be like, how's it going?
I'm like, it's going good.
How are you?
And then, okay, I've been her.
I've been that.
And then here's the crazy thing, though.
I know she wants to hang out, but she doesn't want to say it.
So then I'm just like, finally, I'll just be like, do you want to hang out?
She's like, yeah.
I'm like, why didn't you just ask me that up front?
So can y'all just be straight up?
I've had that experience with a lot of women.
Play the clip because it's kind of to this.
She find the hotel.
Nightclub.
What?
What?
The hotel.
Yeah.
Just ask, man.
What are you talking about?
Three pictures of beards and still can't ask.
What?
She called me because you need a place to stay.
Oh, hey, hey, no, no, no.
Just ask.
Cut the four plate.
Just ask.
Would that be a problem?
Is it a problem for you to ask?
Can I stay at your place?
Yeah.
Okay, thanks.
Okay, so that is my experience.
That's been my experience quite a few times.
And then also I've had times where I actually had this happen to me today.
I'm not going to expose the text messages.
Today?
So, well, let me explain.
I had a girl.
There's this girl I was seeing for like six months.
It must have been like in this last spring or over the summer or whatever.
It ended.
She's like hit me up a couple times.
And today she messaged me kind of like, not in, she messaged me, happy Thanksgiving, Brian.
Hope you're having a good Thanksgiving.
And I'm like, I know you want to like rekindle because we haven't talked in three months.
Yeah, and all of a sudden, all of a sudden, the happy Thanksgiving, right?
How would you like to bring that out out of people?
Yeah, but they were messing around, so it's like...
But that's what I'm saying.
But we haven't talked in three months.
Like, we had an argument the fucking last time we talked.
And so she's like, happy Thanksgiving.
And I'm like, okay, I'm thinking in my head, clearly you want to rekindle things.
Can't you just like say that?
Say, hey, how you've been, been thinking about it.
Like, it was.
And then, so, so I texted her back.
I said, rekindle question mark.
And then she got pissed because she's like, what?
Why can't you just be a nice person, Brian?
And just, you know, just say, how are you doing back?
And like, ask me how my Thanksgiving is.
And I was like, well, obviously you're trying to rekindle.
Like, can't you just be.
stop beating around the bush and just stop being around the bush just be like what she got Because I said, rekindle question mark.
Brian, I'm going to take your advice.
And anyways, so it was kind of fitting that we play the, but the fly club clip.
So have any of you guys, maybe you've had that experience with guys where the guys are fucking being around the bush and you're like, get to the like, get to the fucking point.
Just say it, literally.
Guys have done that to me before.
It's just annoying.
But I've also done it to guys.
Yeah, so we should all listen to Tyler Durden.
We should all just cut the foreplay and just ask.
Yep.
Not the other kind of foreplay, though.
Let's keep that.
We have a big super chat here from our boy, George.
How do I pronounce your onto?
Can you tell me how I should pronounce your last name?
Onteveros.
Thank you for the big $50 soup chat.
Hold on, let me get something for you.
We gotta.
Congrats me, boss.
Boom!
Ninja Lint.
Thank you, man.
Appreciate it.
I like it when the women are start to forward.
Ah, yes.
I love it when they're start to forward, too.
Start forward, yes.
I love it.
I have no time for mind games.
Yeah, it's great.
I like women who are straightforward.
I think women should be more.
I think everyone should be more straightforward.
Okay.
Thank you, man.
Really appreciate that big $50 soup chat.
I think this is the first time, by the way, I've seen you.
Or no, wait.
I think you were in the stream last show, man.
So, George, thank you.
Good, George.
By the way, I don't know if you guys can see.
I mean, George, you know?
Picture frame gang.
Think about joining.
Ladies, he's got a very handsome mug.
Very handsome mug.
Come on, don't.
Straight.
He's straight.
Smasher pass, right?
What?
What?
How dare you?
How dare you?
Pass.
Listen, George, change your profile pic to forward.
No, yeah, not to this.
Look at his hair.
He's got great hair.
He's got the...
Okay, he has curls.
That's a plus.
Look at that fucking jawline.
He's a fucking Giga Chad.
I'm taking.
I mean, George can steal some ladies away.
I played the Fit.
George.
You want to be talking to him?
Oh, I got to do it again.
Grabs me, boss.
Boom!
And like, what is he looking at?
Like, what do you say?
I mean, he's looking at the sunset.
What jump George's.
And he definitely face tuned that pic, Brian.
Oh, my.
He's not that tan.
He's a Giga Chad.
Oh, my goodness.
Okay.
Why?
You were talking shit earlier.
We could talk shit earlier.
Wait, now we have, wait, pull up the Birkenstocks.
Not the Birkenstocks.
Again?
Hold on.
Who hurt you?
I said those.
What did he say?
Hold on.
Let's see what he said.
They're just an ugly shoe.
No, I wouldn't.
No, I wouldn't.
T-Strap.
Wait, I got to play this.
Levadovsky for the hat trick, and somehow he's put it in.
Oh, my word, this is one of Lewandowski's finest performances.
Thank you, Paradise Champ.
Appreciate you.
We have George Onteveros with the $100, so yeah.
Pass on all the ones that are hating.
Haters gonna hate.
What a legend, George.
George is a legend.
Oh, you have to go?
Yeah.
R.I.P. Bye, people.
Rip, goodbye.
Bye.
We're just getting started.
Oh, wait.
Last thing.
Can you just sit for 10 seconds here?
Okay.
The chat's been asking for the panel to answer this.
What's your body count?
I'm going to ask everyone their body count, but what's your body count?
I'm a virgin.
Stop the cat.
She's like, I'm out.
Virginia.
I was doing sex, so I'll go home now, maybe I'll find a man, and maybe something else to go back to.
Okay, bye!
Girl, you got us all lost up in here.
Thank you for coming.
If it's high, just say that.
You're going to do it, do we?
Okay.
Let me get.
Did we get another super chat or is that?
I think that's it.
Okay.
So, question.
Yes.
Answer.
Okay.
Shit.
Sorry, I lost my place on my notes here.
Okay.
Have you ever rejected a guy but later wished that he kept pursuing you?
Or you turned down a guy but later on regretted it.
Let's start over here.
I think I have rip.
Okay.
So you turned him down, but then you're like, why did I do that?
Yeah.
Yeah, it happened before.
Okay.
No.
I don't remember.
No, I don't.
No, I don't think so.
Yeah, no, for me, too.
I feel like I always have a reason, and I don't regret it.
Okay.
Have any of you ever been mad at your boyfriend for cheating on you in the dream?
No.
It wasn't my boyfriend, but yes.
So no.
No.
But have you ever had a dream where your boyfriend cheated on you?
No.
Okay.
It's a sign.
It might have been.
I don't know.
There was a lot of toxic stuff going on there, so I don't really remember specifics.
Probably.
Anybody else on the side?
I literally just talked about this with him like two days ago.
I had a dream that he cheated on me, but then I didn't get upset with him.
I just started crying because I felt that I had a dream that he cheated on me.
Oh, shit.
You felt bad.
I've had girls, girlfriends, say that I cheated on them in the dream, and then they were pissed off at me the rest of the day.
Oh, yeah.
I wasn't pissed off.
I was just like, I'm so sorry for thinking about you this way, my dream that I couldn't control.
I like started tearing up and I was like, oh my god, I'm a very sensitive person.
Okay, I feel bad a lot.
Okay, so I want to open it up to you guys.
We're going to probably do one video reaction and probably wrap shortly.
But yeah, so we'll react to one or two videos.
But before we do that, I want to open it up to you guys.
If you either have a final thought, you have a question that you want to ask the rest of the panel, you have a question you want to ask me, you have a question that you want to ask chat, or if there's just something dating related that you really want to get off your chest, maybe something that frustrates you about dating, a bad date experience, whatever it may be.
Anything?
One One little thing, I've noticed, not all guys obviously, but I noticed most of the guys in my age group, they don't want to be a team.
They want me to do everything myself, and I'm a very independent person, so I'm going to do it regardless, but then they don't, they don't take, then they like kind of hate me for it, but they don't take the initiative to do anything for themselves.
So like, here's a perfect example.
I'm like trying to figure out like my career and things like that, and I'm very independent, and then my previous boyfriends, like they don't want to work, or like they're not like trying.
Trying to do the same things and like we're building a life together.
So I want to talk about those things and like what their plans are.
And they don't have any and it's frustrating because like then they look at me like I'm the crazy one because I want to talk about it and I don't know how to like plan things in our relationship.
If yours let me make all the decisions, that's fine, but don't resent me for it.
I feel like they don't take initiative, but then they don't want me to do it.
Well, someone has to.
so then it becomes like a control thing and then do you find that in your relationships you're kind of you to use the colloquial saying you wear the pants Absolutely.
In your relationship.
Absolutely.
And do you think that's who you are as a person?
Do you think it's more the men you're picking?
What do you think?
Like, would you prefer to be more like have a guy more in the leadership position?
I would like him to have a leadership position, but not where it's like nothing I say matters.
Like I don't want him to, I want to feel like I can rely on him and that not everything's all on me, but I don't want it to be, you know, just one sided because that doesn't work.
Because then one of you ends up presenting the other.
I just want it to be equal.
And it's like hard to get that for whatever reason.
And so do you find that with the guys that you've dated, oftentimes, for example, here's a simple one.
They are, they don't know what they want to have for dinner and they're deferring you for, to, Oh no, not things like that.
Like, I want to build a life and they're worried about what's for dinner.
And I'm like, that's not what I'm talking about.
Things like that.
Like, I'm trying to talk about the bigger picture.
And they're like, oh, we'll talk about this later.
We'll talk about this later.
But we never get there.
So then I'm trying to make my own life plans.
And they're like, you make all the decisions.
And I'm like, well, I asked your opinion.
And you said you don't want to deal with that right now because you'd rather go play video games.
So, I mean.
Well, it sounds like you're looking to build more with someone and have a partner.
Whereas, I mean, well, you're 20, right?
So are you dating guys your age?
When I have gone on dates, which is very recent for me because, like you said, I'm only 20 and my only relationships have been like high school relationships.
I tend to go just a few years older, not drastic, but definitely by a few years because I feel like my experiences with guys my age, they're just not thinking about the same things that I am.
And I think the only reason I do think about a lot of the things I think about is because I don't have my parents and things like that.
So I've already learned to take an initiative in my life.
Because if I fail, it's over.
That's on me.
And there's no one there to pick me up, right?
Why are you laughing when she just said she doesn't have parents?
No, no, no, no.
Jesus.
See, this is why you shouldn't read the chat while someone's talking.
You just laughed at her because you don't have parents, correct?
Right.
Okay.
Yeah.
So I feel like I try to think more into things and try to like make sure like I'm doing what I need to do.
It's where we break up like everything.
Like I'm still fine, but I want to build a life with you.
Like that's like my goal because that's all I can really do to get like the family aspect, I guess.
So it tends to be like a few years older.
They've already started to think about things like that.
Well, I can imagine because you said you're an orphan, right?
Basically, yeah.
My mom left me on the street as a teenager and my dad died.
Wow.
So I mean it's probably led to you having to take on more responsibility and be much more independent at a very young age.
And so when I would imagine the partners that you're encountering probably they don't they're not on your level in terms of how responsible you are for yourself.
Yeah, and like I like nothing's necessarily wrong with it.
It's just like if we're not on the same team, don't pretend like you want that if you're not going to do it at the end of the day.
Because I don't want to expect something from you because you were in a better situation that you can't give me when I do know what I need and I can get it from somebody else.
What is it that you want to be given?
I want us to both be working towards a life together instead of it being, you know, I'm the one worried about the life together and it's just, oh, we'll just take it day by day.
Or they promise things that they don't do.
Are you talking about financial stuff?
Just like getting married, both having your own careers, like kids, stuff, like just normal stuff.
And like moving out, like I had my own apartment in Illinois for a couple of years.
I moved out here in March.
I'm from Fresno, actually.
But even in that situation.
Fresno.
Yeah.
I'm sorry.
Thank you.
Even in that situation, like because I was the one dealing with everything, like I had a boyfriend that lived with me at one point.
And I already had my whole life set up right.
So because I was already taking the initiative, like I couldn't rely on him for like any of the decision making.
Like, if something happened, he would not know what to do.
Wait, if something...
Like, if anything happened to me, he wouldn't know how to pay anything.
Like what website do I go to?
Or where is this?
Or like he's just in his own little world.
You guys were living together.
Okay.
Yeah.
Were you paying the bills or how was that working?
It was both, but it was originally my apartment beforehand.
Okay, so he moved in.
Okay.
Yeah, but it's just like I want someone to want to work hard with me and create a life together.
And it seems like everything that's brought into the relationship is usually things that I'm working for.
Like I talk about like marriage and stuff.
I talk about like, oh, do you want to move here instead?
Or like things like that.
And it's like, they don't really want to take the initiative to do it or talk about it.
And then I express the things that I want or things I am thinking about.
They look at me like I'm crazy.
That's how.
They don't know what they want.
So you want to get married?
Correct.
Yeah.
Kids?
Okay.
So, and you're, okay, how soon into the relationship are you bringing these things up?
Because it's going to probably scare guys away if you start talking.
I mean, maybe it shouldn't, but for most modern men, those sorts of long-term planning and conversations are probably going to scare a lot of guys away.
Yeah, I don't feel like it really scared my previous relationships.
They act like they want to go with it.
And then when it comes time to actually talk about things or like what our next steps are to like get there, even if it's like far in the future, just like we both have to have like good careers.
We both have to know where we want to live, like be stable.
You both have to have good careers.
Work in some type of way.
You can't just be like, oh, I don't know what I want to do, and I'm not going to aspire to figure out what I want to do.
But what if you met a guy who he was making enough money to support you and you could just stay at home?
I wouldn't want to do that.
I wouldn't want to do that.
Like, I don't like retail working and stuff like that.
But I want to be independent.
But what if he was building his thing and his earning potential was, I mean, I don't know what your earning potential is, but his earning potential dwarfed yours.
And he said, hey, I'm going to support us, but I want you to support my mission.
By me not working?
Is that what you mean?
Well, you would be basically helping him with his business, for example, or making yourself useful to him.
I would help as much as I can, but I'd never give up a career ever.
Even if he paid everything, supported you.
While I like appreciate the fact that he does want to take a step of leadership in that role, it makes me more comfortable, just even me alone as a person, to know that I can take care of myself because of my family history.
And because I watch divorce and things happen, it's like nothing against staying at home moms.
Like you can be a stay-at-home mom, but I've watched like they don't want to really leave the relationship because they can't take care of themselves or things like that.
And I never want to be trapped in something like that.
Just curious on the marriage thing.
Why do you want to get married?
I was actually engaged in my last relationship.
So like it, it was, but I was, we were engaged for like a while and then I was the only one really bringing up like when, where, and how.
And that was like a year after the fact.
I just started bringing it up.
Like I was like straight chilling the whole time with not bringing anything up and just enjoying the whole engagement thing.
And then it became, oh, well, this, oh, well, that, or we'll think about that later.
Like, I'm like, well, why would you, why would you propose to me if you don't want to talk about it?
And I wait a whole year before I even started bringing up like details.
So it was things like that.
I felt misled.
And other things like derailed the relationship.
It wasn't that, but that was like, I got that over and over again in different circumstances.
I think we're on the same page or not.
Just curious, who here wants to get married at some point?
Show of hands, everyone?
Not Brian.
Guys, don't get married.
Don't get married.
It's a bad move.
let me ask you guys this.
What, what does a woman bring to a marriage that, sorry, I'm fucking this up.
What can they, What does a guy get from a marriage that he doesn't get from a girlfriend?
A motive.
I feel like it's just a permanent commitment.
Yeah.
Permanent commitment.
But people 50%.
Yeah, I just mean like you both are, it's clear you're both agreeing on it.
That doesn't mean you're both going to stick to what you say, obviously, because there's divorce and infidelity and stuff.
But it gives the basis of we both want the same thing and it's very clear about it because we both agreed to get married and we both know what the contracts are for marriage.
So then it's like if you step away from that, like that's obviously wrong.
But I mean, I feel like most people.
But what is the incentive for men to get married in today's day and age?
What's the incentive for men?
I guess I would have to ask a man because it's like it could go the other way too.
Is Dayvon Jackson still in the chat?
Me and Dayvon were actually talking about this over Instagram DMs.
So for men, really, besides their own set, their own for spiritual reasons, for religious reasons, there's really no benefit to get married.
There's really not.
Okay, 50% of marriages end in divorce.
80% of divorces are initiated by women.
90% of child support, sorry, 90% of child support payments go from men to women.
97% of alimony payments go from men to women.
So for men, the way the marriage laws are now in the West, there's no reason for men to get married.
And a lot of men are waking up to this, and we just, we don't want to get married.
But you would have like a kid with someone and be together with years.
You could still have a life partner.
You could still have children.
I mean, there's other risks there too.
That's the, like, what everybody wants.
The paper.
Yeah.
Why?
I can't say why, because.
Well, you want it because if he's the breadwinner, when you inevitably, well, I shouldn't say inevitably, but if you get divorced and he's the breadwinner, free money.
What if neither of you is just one breadwinner?
What if you both work?
Because like, I want to still work and I would still want to get married.
I don't want to just take someone's money.
I get a prenup.
Prenups.
Prenups get thrown out all the time by judges and courts.
Even if you have a prenup, just takes one person to say, oh, I was.
You need to do a lot of things to make sure that the prenup.
So if you're safe.
Yeah, but even then it can still be contested.
Because I have a friend and not anymore, but her parents, her stepmom and dad, they got married.
And as soon as it hit 10 years, she left.
And she got a lot of money out of him.
That is crazy.
Because after 10 years, then you're obligated to be financially responsible for your spouse.
Yeah.
Something like that.
It's true.
I guess you just have to find someone who wants the same thing as you.
But you can find that, and then it doesn't like.
I have a perfect example, but I can't say.
Perfect example.
I mean, it's just like, look, so many divorces end in marriage.
Sorry.
So many divorces end in marriage.
No, sorry.
So many marriages end in divorce.
Like, think about the vows that you say, till death do us part.
How many people say that?
And then that's just not.
So it's just like people's words mean nothing.
People are so non-committal in today's day and age.
And also, why do you don't need the government involved in your relationship?
Even if you both are equal earners, you still got to get lawyers involved.
You're both going to lose money at that point.
You're going to go through.
I mean, my advice to both men and women is for three days, go to the court, go to your local courthouse, go to the family court, go sit in.
We got Dayvon Jackson here.
Go sit in on divorce proceedings.
Sit in on custody dispute proceedings.
And then think again whether you want to get married.
Because it is fucking depressing.
Oh, it is.
I was a child of the result of those things.
Yeah, it's like, I think marriage, outside of people who are religious, it's an antiquated thing.
I don't see the purpose of it.
So, can you pull that?
Here, I got it.
I also just see people being really quick with it and being like, oh, I'm so in love.
And like, okay, I want to prove that I'm so in love with you.
So, like, let's get married.
And then.
And you know what?
Here's I've heard this saying before.
A lot of women.
Fuck, I'm going to butcher it.
A lot of women want a wedding.
They don't want to be wives.
You want that special day, but you don't want what comes with it.
Yeah.
Hold on, let me just read this.
For even the guys, too.
They're willing to give you that wedding, but they're not.
Does anyone know what the saying is with that?
I'm trying to, I kind of might have butchered it.
Yo, Davon Jackson thinked $20 super chat.
I can promise to stay with you without having to bet half my worth that you feel the same.
Anyways, I kind of valid.
Yeah, that's the other thing is like a lot of guys get absolutely just whipped.
Destroyed.
They get destroyed in court.
Like it's just half their shit, half their money.
They're probably going to lose custody of the children.
They're not going to have 50-50.
They're not going to have shared custody.
Then they're going to start having to pay child support.
And it's just like, as a guy, it's just like, we don't want to be fucking workhorses to pay for.
It's not an appealing thing.
Word.
Yeah, you can pull it up, Eric.
A lot of women want to be married, but don't want to be wives.
Word?
Honestly, there's going to have to be a reworking of marriage laws.
Yeah.
Honestly, though, probably if guys just start opting out, if men start really opting out of marriage, they're probably the governments are going to fucking pass bullshit thing.
Eric, can you try to find that article from Canada about the guy who is with his girlfriend, not even married, and he had to pay her his girlfriend, his ex-girlfriend, like $40,000 a year or some month or some bullshit?
Yeah, fucking Canada failed state.
So, okay.
Final thought or question, something dating related that you want to get off your chest?
I have no idea.
Anything?
Something that just frustrates you about dating?
Toxic relationships.
Toxic relationships.
What about?
Emotional abuse and physical abuse.
Oh, that's sucked.
Okay.
Well, I think we can all agree here.
That's terrible.
Yeah, go ahead.
I just want to know why guys keep you around if they don't want anything.
Period, for real.
Keep you around if they don't want anything.
They don't want anything.
For sex.
No, no, no.
For sex.
What do you mean, keep you around?
Like, they hit you up, like, they just blow up your phone.
Like.
Is that happening to you?
It is.
Well, I mean, for sex.
But you said that's not it.
They don't live here.
Huh?
They don't live here, so I'm not giving him no.
Guys are.
Hold on.
Guys are texting you just to text you?
No, it was the toxic guy I told you about.
He was just blowing.
He's just blowing up my phone.
You're what?
The toxic guy I told you about last time?
Do we, mutual.
Do I know him?
No, no, not that one.
Not that guy.
No, no, not that one.
A dude is just What do you mean Keeps you around though He's just texting you?
Yeah, like, if you don't want anything, like.
So he doesn't want to sleep with you, but he's just texting you?
Oh, I'm sure he does.
I mean, where'd he have?
But he doesn't live here anymore.
And I don't live here anymore.
So it's like.
Oh, well, then he's just like.
Because he wants you back.
Well, he probably wants more than if he's just trying to keep in touch or whatever.
He's fucking down bad, though.
Yeah, down bad.
Eric, what can you pull it up?
Yeah.
Oh, perfect.
Can you go F11?
F-11.
Scroll up just a tad.
Oh, this is like a thread.
I mean, I know there was a news article on it, but men ordered to pay his ex-girlfriend $50,000 per month in Canada.
Toronto, wealthy businessman will have to pay more than $50,000 a month in spousal support for 10 years to a woman with whom he had a long-term romantic relationship, even though they kept separate homes and had no children together.
Fucking Canada, right?
Failed society.
So an unmarried couple are considered common-law spouses if they have cohabitated.
But apparently it's saying that they didn't cohabitated.
By the way, guys, that's another reminder.
In some states here in the U.S., there's this thing called a common law marriage.
So even yeah, even if you haven't done the ceremony or whatever, if you've been living with someone for long enough, if it depends on the period of time, if you've been living with your girlfriend for long enough, they're going to treat that like a marriage and you could be on the hook for spousal support, even if you're not married.
So guys, check out the laws in your state.
How about green card?
Do I get a green card to anyone?
Green card?
How long have you been in the U.S.?
Only four years.
So I need green cards.
Okay, guys, her DMs are open if you're willing to be her sponsor.
He's a green card guy.
She needs a green card.
Lily, anything dating-related you want to get off your chest?
Any final thoughts?
Any questions?
No.
Don't be a stony.
There's got to be something that bothers you about dating when you were dating or dealing with guys.
Anything?
Uh, no, I don't have anything.
Okay.
What about you?
Something dating related you want to get off the chat?
Not really, but I actually have a story to back up what you're saying about paying the child support.
This is a story happening in China, in Shanghai, actually.
One of the richest guy called, his English name is King.
Chinese name is Ching Fen.
He made a girl, got pregnant, and that girl was trying to scan his money.
And he already paid that girl a couple millions USD already.
And that girl carried a baby and escaped to America, gave birth to the babies, carry his son, go back to him as like, this is your son.
I didn't actually abortion it.
I gave birth to him and scam him again with, I believe it's like 100 million USD.
That was in the news in China.
Wow.
Wow.
I love that.
I don't gotta respect the hustle, right?
Do you guys know that like the 10 richest women in the world all came into their all came into their wealth through divorce?
The richest women in the world, not through starting their own business.
Divorce.
Yeah.
So, I mean, you know, it's kind of.
Wait, question.
I want to go around the table on this.
What's your type?
And we'll start here.
my type is terrible because i love funny dudes funny dudes is the worst because usually they can pull jokes and the pussy they pull the jokes and they pull the You're telling people if you're funny enough, you don't even need to be cute.
You don't need to be rich.
Girl just were all over you.
Girls nowadays, like they're not that submissive anymore.
They go for the guys they like.
The hilarious guy is always the most popular.
Why Pete Davidson polls?
Because he's funny.
He's cute.
Yeah.
But I love funny guys.
Okay, but what about some other traits?
Cause we had, we had a Chinese girl on, uh, or was she, she was like, uh, no, she was Chinese.
And she said that she only dates Asian guys.
Like, do you have any preferences there?
I've date mixed Asian and black.
I've never date white.
I think white guys don't find me attractive.
And nothing I would have said.
Wait, so you've, okay, so you've dated Chinese?
Asian?
Asian, half Asian.
Yeah, half Asian too.
Half white, half Asian?
Latino and Chinese.
Okay, you said you've dated black guys.
Yeah.
Have you ever dated a white guy?
No.
Ever?
No, something is like, I don't know.
There's no chemistry.
I don't know.
I need to try more, I guess.
Wait, have you ever hooked up with a white guy?
Rare.
Is Turkish considered as white?
No, right?
Okay, then it's not.
I don't chat.
If you're Turkish, is that.
No, remember you had that one girl?
And she said she was Middle Eastern?
Yeah.
She was from Turkey.
Yeah.
um wait so you've never wait okay but have you hooked up with a white guy No.
Just the Turkish?
You were considering the Turkish guy, maybe?
Yeah.
Never hooked up with a white guy.
Okay, question.
What if he spoke fluent Mandarin?
That's even that was a little turned off because usually this kind of guys is yellow fevers.
Yellow fever.
They want to move to China just to get Asian girls.
There's a lot of this kind of guys in China.
Cantonese.
What if he spoke fluent Cantonese?
Same thing.
Same thing?
Huh?
Okay.
Well, okay, Lily, what's your type?
Oh, yeah.
Oh, did you, or did you want to add funny dude and also walking on?
Like, he has his own thing going on.
Either, you know, working or has his own business.
Just something is going on.
So he's busy.
Don't bother me.
You want a guy who's only available like once every two weeks?
Once every fortnight?
Not like every two weeks, but the maximum I can do is I can meet him twice or the maximum three times a week.
Because some guys want to live together.
They want to move in.
I've never lived together with a guy.
I can do it.
Well, yeah, you told us earlier that you want them to just come over to your house, never see him.
That was the first category.
Don't get it twisted.
Ooh, don't get it.
I like that.
Don't get it twisted.
Okay, Lily, what about you?
What's your type?
I definitely prefer Asian guys.
Is your current boyfriend Asian?
Yes.
Vietnamese?
He's Chinese and Cambodian.
Okay.
What are you?
I'm Vietnamese and Chinese.
Okay.
So have you ever dated a white guy?
No.
Only dated Asian guys?
Including your stalker ex.
Yeah.
Okay.
I haven't really dated.
Latina guy?
Latina?
Latina.
Latino.
Latino.
Latina guy?
No.
Black guy?
No.
White guy?
No.
Oh, wow.
Okay.
I haven't really dated that many people.
Well, I mean, like, I do find like other races attractive.
I just haven't dated them.
Well, I haven't really.
You haven't dated much.
Yeah.
Yeah.
Basically.
Yeah, you haven't dated much.
Yeah.
Yeah.
Okay.
What if he could speak Vietnamese?
A white guy speaking Vietnamese.
That's rare.
Dear God, no.
No.
Sorry.
Do you speak Vietnamese?
I do speak Vietnamese.
Are you fluent?
I'm not fluent.
Can you speak a little Vietnamese for the chat?
I don't know what to say.
Say, me love you long time.
That was questionable.
Yo, that was a good question.
That was questionable.
That was questionable.
Canceled.
Yeah. Yeah. That was.
Shut up.
What's that movie?
Full Metal Jacket.
I don't know.
Honestly, after that, I don't want to speak Vietnamese anymore.
After you asking me to say.
Just say, hi, my name is Lily, and I really like SpongeBob.
SquarePants, the animated show.
Nice.
Okay, cool.
What about you?
What's your type?
I like black guys.
The mixed guys, right?
Yeah.
Okay.
I see you.
I see you.
Brian already knows what's going on.
What's that?
Well, I know a certain person.
I just, I know somebody.
We're not going to talk about it.
Yeah.
What about you?
Is that your only type?
What's your type?
Mixed and black.
Okay.
Mine is, I like Latinos with, I don't really like white guys.
Damn.
Yeah, I don't know.
Damn.
I mean, it could be mixed.
R.I.P. Brian.
I mean, some white guys are attractive, but like, I don't think I'd ever date a white guy.
No, yeah.
I've seen attractive white guys, but I'm just like, no.
You'd just smash a white guy, but not date a white guy.
I don't even know if I've smashed a white guy.
Oh, you wouldn't even sleep with a white guy.
Maybe.
But like features, I like muscly guys, but then I also am on the opposite side that like you can be like grawny.
You can be scrawny and like I still think you're really hot.
But I really like Mexican, Latino, or light skin.
What about Native American?
Yeah, I've never met an Native American.
What?
I'm very because like Native Americans, you have to like, okay.
Some are cute, but you have to find the right ones because a lot of the guys in Native American culture, they like to have long hair, which isn't a bad thing.
Like some guys are hot to have long hair, but other guys just can't.
Can't pull it off.
But yeah.
You have to be Mexican, beefy, or I guess scrawny.
Not scrawny, but like my sneaky link isn't beefy, but I think he's super fucking hot.
So yeah.
But he's Mexican.
Okay.
What about you?
I really don't have a type because I can't correspond any similar things between any of my relationships or people that I've gone on dates with.
They're all very different.
So I really don't think I have one.
Well, since the girls have brought up the race thing, do you have a preference there?
No.
White guys, black guys.
I don't really have a preference.
Blonde hair, brunettes.
I really don't.
Your last two exes, were they white guys?
Black guys.
One was Latino and one was half black, half white.
Okay.
All right.
There you have it.
There you have it.
All right, let's watch a video here.
You said you don't like Andrew Tate, so I thought this would be a perfect opportunity for us to watch an Andrew Tate video.
Oh, gosh.
Hold on, just stay there for a sec.
Let's do 18 versus 26.
The reason 18 and 19 year olds are more attractive than 25 year olds is because they've been through less dig.
I'll say this right here on the fucking internet.
I don't give a shit.
People sit there and go, oh, you can't say that.
Yes, I can.
A 19-year-old is more attractive than a 26-year-old woman, and I'll tell you why.
Because that 26-year-old has talked to more guys, been to the club more times, been more places, been fucked and dumped more times, more arguments, more heartbreak, more bullshit, more mess for me to clean up.
Whereas a 19-year-old might have had one guy from high school, just broke up, she's fresh, and I can fucking put my imprint on her, make her a good person, and without her having to go through all that detriment to learn about life.
So what's your key age range?
19?
It's not just about the age range.
It's just an example.
No, I know, but what's your preference?
I mean, hot girls are hot girls, right?
I don't know.
Hot girls are hot girls.
But my point is that older women, the reason they're less attractive to men, even if men don't instinctually understand it, it's because they've been through a whole bunch more shit.
And we're not interested in dealing with someone else's problems.
If you get with a girl who's 26, 27, she's going to be sitting there going, I know men like you.
I've seen what men like you do.
You ain't going out.
I don't like that.
I ain't dealing.
You're telling me, wait, wait, you're telling me you were innocent and sweet for this dude.
You were nice to him.
He fucked you and messed you up.
And now I deal with the attitude problem you've developed because he got your pussy?
I didn't mean what in the fuck you in the first place.
You should have been a virgin when you met me.
Now I'm dealing with your shit.
Get fucked.
Goodbye.
Okay.
The shit he says makes me laugh.
Your guys' reaction to that clip.
Your reaction.
I feel like.
I feel like it feeds into the double standard thing, so that's why I'm laughing.
It just sounds ridiculous.
And that's like the.
Yeah.
Do you think the double standard is justified?
No, because I could say the same thing about a guy.
I'd be like, he slept with all these girls.
Now I'm going to think about how he slept with all those girls while he's fucking me, but I'm not going to go there because like, that's, he didn't know me.
He didn't cheat on me.
I can't be mad.
You know what I mean?
So I don't know.
I feel like that's not really fair.
Your reaction?
First off, his voice is very annoying.
Second off, like, what?
What if the 19-year-olds ran through compared to the 26-year-old?
That is a good point.
It's like a virgin.
Yeah.
And then the 19-year-old's out here getting drunk and popping, whatever you want to call it.
I mean, that is a good point.
And I definitely think there is something to be said with people who are younger now, I feel like, are definitely racking up a much higher body count than back 10 years ago, back 15 years ago, back 20 years ago.
Hookup culture is a much bigger thing.
Dating apps, much bigger thing.
So, yeah, I mean, it is a bit of a somewhat, to some degree, an antiquated concept that just because they're younger, they're going to have a lower body count.
But I think more so the point he's making is a girl at 19, her at 19 versus that same girl at 29, she's going to have a lower body count at 19 than at 29.
Preferably.
Yeah.
I mean you can only go up in body count so I mean unless she's so you're more it's more likely that someone who's younger has a low body count So, yeah.
So your reaction?
I mean, I get where he's coming from from the guy's perspective.
But I agree with Jasmine.
Definitely there's a lot of younger girls who are racking it up.
Oh, yeah.
We know a few.
Yeah.
There's a few that.
20, 30, 40, 50, 100 plus body counts.
Yikes.
He yikes.
Lily, your thoughts.
I'm not going to lie.
I was staring at his bald head the whole entire time.
But like, I was listening to it.
And like, the whole idea of like nowadays, there's a really big idea of hookup culture compared to in the past.
So a lot of girls that are younger definitely do have more, like a higher body count.
Like I know this girl, she was like, when I talked to her, she was like 20.
She has a body count of over a thousand.
Wait, what?
A thousand?
What?
Hold on.
Hold on.
Wait, wait.
Wait, run that back.
Yo.
Yo, send the asteroid.
Bro.
Fucking send the asteroid.
A thousand body count at 20.
You know what I'm saying?
Was she a sex worker or porn?
She, honestly, I didn't ask about that.
I didn't want to know.
But she has a body count of over a thousand.
She told you that.
Yeah.
Well, she's leveled her entire school and some teachers, but we're not going to talk about that.
Wait, here's the question.
You're local, right?
Santa Barbara?
Yeah, but not here.
Oh, this was not in Santa Barbara.
You met her.
Okay, you met her somewhere else.
Okay, so actually question for you guys, and I'll let you give your take on this.
So what is the highest body count that you've heard like a girl admit to you, like tell you?
Like she, a girl said, this is my body count.
What's the highest a girl's ever told you?
My sophomore year of high school, a girl said she's already fucked 100 guys.
Sorry, repeat that?
Sophomore year of high school?
Sophomore year of high school.
She had already fucked 100 guys because I was like, oh, I've already had sex with two people.
Like that makes me like really insecure.
And she was like, what's going on?
No, like mine said 100.
And I was like, oh, it's okay.
I mean, look.
Oh, it's fine.
It's not big.
In high school?
Wait, hold on.
How many in her.
Repeat it just one more time.
My sophomore year of high school.
How old are you sophomore year?
Like 16 max?
100 guys.
Send the asteroid.
That is crazy.
Okay, what about you?
I've never asked, so I've never really had this conversation.
Okay, you've never talked about it.
Oh, I think the highest I've heard was probably like 17.
17?
Yeah.
In high school.
No, no, just any girl you know.
Oh, yeah, 17.
That's 17 is still the highest?
Yeah.
Oh, that's, I mean, that's not that bad.
What about you?
a little bit honestly 20 something because i don't have a lot of like um well yeah that's true too That's why I'm here authentic.
But also, like, yeah, I don't have really very active girlfriends like that.
Okay.
And did you, oh, Lily?
Oh, go ahead.
I wasn't going to say anything.
Oh, you kind of like got up on the mic.
A thousand, really?
Can she come on the podcast?
Can you like link it up?
I don't know about that, Chief.
What?
Why not?
Chief.
Well, I don't talk to her anymore.
Why not boss?
That is.
Why not sport?
Well, I don't work for you, so I can't call you boss.
You can call him sir.
Wait, it's okay.
Good, sir.
Does she live in Santa Barbara?
No, she lives in LA.
Oh, in LA.
Can you ask her if she's down to come on the podcast?
I don't talk to her anymore.
Just send her a little DMs.
Me and her got in an argument, so we're on bad terms.
What if you just send her information in here?
Send me her IG and I'll send her the request.
I'll slide the DM.
I won't mention your name.
She won't even know.
Well, she's probably going to watch this.
She's like, well, then she's not going to watch a four-hour.
Yeah, we're at the end.
She's not going to watch it unless she skips to the very last.
What's she going to do?
Is she going to try to give you her herpes that she probably has?
What's she going to do?
What's she going to do?
God, I hope not.
What's she going to do?
And you said you could fuck her up, so it's all good.
No, I can't fight.
I have a taser, but that's it.
You're going to fucking electrify that bitch.
Okay, well, I'm done.
Moving on.
Do you want to give your reaction to the video, the tape video?
I think besides body count, also girls of 18 years old girls are easier to manipulate by Andrew Tate.
That's kind of also the point he wants to make.
I'm just trying to get at.
Yeah.
Easier to manipulate.
Yeah.
Wait, can I ask a question?
Go ahead.
How would she know that she has plus a thousand?
Like, wouldn't you lose count?
Maybe she has a booklet.
Some of these people be having books and shit.
I don't know.
Journals.
I smashed this person on this day.
This was the sign.
That is crazy.
Or, or, though, could his preference be that he prefers younger women for some of the reasons he outlined.
Lower body count, more pleasant, less relationship baggage, more physically attractive, etc., etc.
Is that a question?
Yes.
Well, yeah, one guy's doing it, it's normal.
One girl's doing it is cougar, so that's double-centered.
Actually, I would say that men who are interested or who want to date younger women are shamed much more for it than women who want to date younger men.
There's a term for it, cougar, like you said.
Yeah.
I think that's weird.
Cougars?
I don't think cougars are weird.
Why would a grown-ass woman want a little boy?
Like, they're not many people.
Well, I think you can articulate.
I see what you're saying.
I think you can definitely articulate better reasons for why an older man would want to date a younger woman.
You can articulate some very good reasons why.
It's a bit more of a Stumper as to why an older woman would want to date a younger guy because typically women are attracted tend to be a bit more attracted to men who are a bit older than them just because they're a bit more mature.
Maybe they're a bit more secure financially, you know, so more experienced.
So yeah.
Should okay, last question.
Should body count matter?
Yes, and let's start here.
Go ahead.
No, but if you have a crazy number like a thousand, then that's a red flag.
But generally, generally, like normal people, I don't think so.
Well, what would you think about it?
Let's not use an extreme, but like, let's say it's plausible that a girl at 21 could have like a 30 or 40 body count.
That's not insanely high, but that's a lot of guys are going to say that's.
But you also have to think about when did she start having sex?
That's true.
But if you're like 14, that's still kind of like young.
That's probably also a bit of a red flag, a little bit.
On that note, when did you lose your virginity?
When I was 15 with the boyfriend I had for a year.
What about you?
I was 16.
When I was my boyfriend at 14 years, I was 18.
17?
20.
That was accident.
Accident?
Like, you fell on his own.
No, because we could do something, but then I was like, okay, cannot poke it through.
No, I know.
It's just like kind of, you know, do some like make out and stuff.
I was like, please do not poke it through because my mom said I cannot break my virginities before marriage, but that was when I was 20 years old.
It poke a little bit too deep.
And I saw like, wait, so you were like, you could poke it in a little bit, but not all the way?
Yeah, yeah.
Wait, Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Well, wait, so you're saying.
Just a tip.
Just for a second.
Just enough tips.
Yes.
Just the tip.
Yes.
And then it was way more than the tip.
Yeah, that counts.
It counts.
Yeah, it counts.
Wait, it's like this much or the whole thing?
The whole thing counts.
Okay, that was like 19 then.
I didn't even go to cinema before college.
It happened in the cinema, huh?
No, no, no.
Like, just like no entertainment at all.
I would just study because I was in China the entire time.
Oh, so you would entertain?
You would entertain yourself by just the tip just for a second just to see how it feels.
Yes, like sex.
Experiment.
Sexual experiments.
Can you tell us about your sexual experiments?
No, I'm curious.
Did you have a lab coat?
What?
Did you wear a lab coat?
No, no, no lab coat.
But it's just, you know, young boys and young girls, makeout in a hotel room.
So doing everything but not sexual intercourse, not annual.
So it accidentally happened.
Yes, that was sad for me.
Now, here's the question, though.
So you said just the tip, right?
Yeah.
Were you on top or was he on top?
Or were you laying down?
Well, I think it's missionary.
Missionary.
Yeah.
Okay.
So he accidentally, this is kind of almost sounding like an assault or some shit.
Okay.
He accidentally, but you were down for just the tip.
Yeah.
But you didn't want the strokes.
And then question though.
Did how many, like, was it went all the way in?
No, like all the way.
It was like halfway, but it still was a little too deep.
No strokes.
And then like, but did you stop after that?
Or did you, you just like, I guess we might as well continue?
No.
So he put it in and it just sat there?
Or like, did he move?
Like, like a sexual intercourse, but not all the way.
It's like halfway.
Are you guys like Mormons?
Like, did you soak?
Do you know what soaking is?
Almost?
Because I'm Chinese.
Chinese is very.
But you know what soaking is?
Okay, can you explain?
He just puts it in there.
So like Mormons.
movement nothing so so the mormon way to get around not having sex before marriage which is like what that The guy will, the girl will be on top.
I guess you can do it in any position.
The girl will be on top.
The guy will put it in.
And just sit there.
There's no thrusting allowed.
Nope.
But he can be inside you.
I guess it's called soaking.
That sounds like a good time.
For what reason?
Is that it?
Like a ceremony?
No, that's just.
It's a ceremony.
They wear little hats and it's just no.
Have you seen that YouTube video about the two girls saying the other way?
Like, because they can't have sex because they're Mormon.
So they're like singing about putting it in their butt.
No.
They're like, use the other door.
We have Dave Hon Jackson here with the $10 Super Chat.
This is in relation to the Tate thing.
I hate when they talk about manipulation.
What exactly is he manipulating her to do?
Be a good girlfriend, potential mother to his children.
Do you want to respond to that?
That's what I know.
I was like, what were we talking about?
Manipulate them to think he has multiple girlfriend at the same time is okay because he's giving them money and like something.
That makes sense.
Because Tate has so many girlfriends.
Well, he did convert to Islam, which allows for four wives, I think.
Is it?
They be having up to like 10.
They can?
Yeah, I think so.
Uh-huh.
Wow.
Oh, and also, he manipulate all of his girlfriends to do OnlyFans.
And he'd take 80% of the money, remember?
I think it was 100%.
Oh, yeah, something like that.
Remember 100%?
That's the manipulation, right?
Does anyone here have OnlyFans?
No.
No.
I am subscribed to a person.
Is it still up?
No, it was for a month when I was 18 and there wasn't nudity on it.
I just had a little toe picks up.
Lingerie stuff.
Yeah, it was like lingerie stuff.
It was like a bathing suit.
Okay, basically.
I'm subscribed to Anna Paul on OnlyFans.
Oh, she's fine.
She's so fine.
I love her.
All right, last question here.
Relate it.
Well, it's the part two of the last question.
So everyone said body count should not matter.
Did everyone get an opportunity?
Yes, and no.
You got what about body count?
Should body count matter?
Oh, no.
Body count should not matter.
Here's a different question.
Is it wrong for a guy to care about a woman's body count?
No.
I feel like it creates a bunch of problems.
Yeah.
Then I feel like he should just leave and not be with her if he's going to bring it up all the time.
But that's why they bring it up.
We'd like to know ahead of time.
But I feel like you also can't judge someone based just off of that.
Okay.
What about you?
Yeah.
So I always think I don't care about body count until recently.
A guy actually I kind of like.
And I was like, oh, what's her body count?
I shouldn't have asked.
And he's like, 63?
I was like, and then he asked, what's her body count?
I was like, three.
I tell everyone three because that's out of like almost respect for him to have the audacity to say to my face that actually accurate body count, I think is disrespect.
You wanted him to lie?
He has 63 or he said you have 63?
No, he said he has 63.
Oh shit.
Anyway, you said your body count is three?
Yeah.
Always.
Always?
Yes.
Wait, hold on.
She said she's not going on any...
Wait.
No, We have to decipher this.
So you always say your body count is three, but your body count actually isn't three, correct?
Of course, yeah.
That's how you tell guys three body counts.
Oh, so you're lying to them?
Repeat.
Is that what you're saying?
Repeat it.
This is how all the girls do.
Just tell guys you have three body counts, and that's it.
You know what I'm talking about?
No, you don't have three.
Yeah.
I have a girlfriend that's telling his boyfriend, like, she's a virgin before her.
And she's not a virgin.
Yeah, and he's totally into her.
And, like, boys, lie about your height.
Oh, my gosh.
Lie about everything.
Lie about your finances.
Well, if your body count's high, I get lying, but if it's low, why would you lie?
Why does it matter?
Okay.
That's a mind lie.
I mean, I appreciate your honesty.
Thank you for your honesty.
How can I not know that?
All the girls do that.
No, we don't.
No, no, we don't.
I mean, a lot of them.
I suppose yourself.
Definitely a lot of them do.
Wow.
Okay.
So.
So what?
So here's the question.
What's your body count?
Three.
Stop the cap.
You just admitted that you lied, though.
What's your actual body count?
I can.
I can share.
It's too personal.
What?
Come on.
At least under 50.
At least under 50.
Yeah, under 50.
Didn't you bring up about how your mother just looks?
My mom cannot understand English, so I'm good.
Oh, Lily, you're hilarious.
That's Lily.
Yeah, this Lily.
Oh, you said Lily.
Wait, what?
Because she's like, didn't you bring up your father?
Yeah, yeah.
No, no, she lived.
The mother thing.
That was funny.
So, but would you say between 40 and 50?
No.
Okay, no more questions.
That's it.
Brian, that's all you'll get for today.
Over 50.
It's over 50.
No, hell no.
But you said it's up to 50.
It could be 49.
So then, but you said, no, it's not between 40 and 50, so it's below 40.
Or it's 50.
I said three.
That's it.
That's it.
I don't think you're going to break it out of her.
I think you're going to break her.
I thought you just said, though, that body count shouldn't matter.
Just leave it.
What's your body count?
It's five.
Okay.
What about you?
What's your body count?
Come on.
I told you this last time I was here.
Stop the cap.
I told you this last time I was here.
But what did you tell me after the show?
That what's his face hit me up?
No, no, no.
Okay, so five, five.
I'm not lying.
Oh, what did you say seven?
What was it?
No, I didn't say seven.
No, okay, what's your body count?
Five.
Okay.
What's your body count?
My body count is 15.
I feel like a lot right now.
21, right?
Yeah, I'm 21.
Okay.
What about you?
I'm six.
Six.
Okay.
Yikes.
You know, well, first off, I appreciate your honesty.
It could certainly be real.
I just hit 15, though.
Also, I just want to add this.
Multiply it by 3, and that's the real number.
No.
For all of you.
Oh, you know what I told you for the last time?
I said I don't want to pass seven.
I didn't say I had seven.
Good luck.
I believe in you.
You got two more.
If I keep having sex with the same person, it's not going to go out.
Okay.
So all the girls admitted theirs.
You don't want to.
Nah.
It's lower than 50.
It's lower than 50.
15 or 50?
5-0?
5-0.
Why would you say that?
That sounds terrible.
Imagine if her body counts like 9 and you said you're below 50.
It could be 9.
The guys are going to think you're like, it's much better to say you're 9.
That's why they like to hear 3.
But then what if they find out about 3?
But don't they cannot find out.
You know what?
I hope a guy lies to you about everything.
I hope a guy lies to you.
Who hurt you?
Who hurt you?
I hope a guy lies to you about his finances, his height, all that shit.
Wow.
You should be honest with guys about that.
But will you guys?
Imagine starting a relationship on a lie.
But sometimes the truth hurts.
Because what if someone you tell your three body count to knows someone else that you also hooked up with, and they're going to be like, oh, well, she's I don't want ignorance.
I don't want to, I don't want ignorance's bliss.
I want the opportunity to opt out of dating a woman if she has a body count that's too high.
Listen, okay, so look, if you want to play the game, right?
Yes.
Go ahead and lie to men.
I don't think we should make it a habit to lie to people, but will it cut, will it be a self-serving, will it benefit you to say that your body counts three even though it's not?
Probably.
Should you do it?
No, because it's just, you're lying.
And it's dishonest.
It's really not that deep.
First of all, people shouldn't ask each other's body count if you really love that person or something.
I'm not.
Wait, Brian.
Like, don't you think it's hypocritical that you said you hate when guys lie about their age or their height?
I say I don't care about height.
See, I'm so caught up on the mom thing.
Literally, your mom's not going to be a little bit more.
It's like, it's not processing with the story and then the mom, and then you're like, oh, yeah, it's under 50, but I won't tell you.
Like, it could be three, actually, but I'm just going to say it's under 15.
Yeah.
Wild goose chase, I guess.
But okay, you're saying the guy should just not ask.
Yeah.
Like, it's better we both don't know each other.
After a guy tells me, like, 63, like, my heart shakes a little bit.
I was broken for a five seconds.
You're under 50.
No.
That could be 49.
I hope you're like 21, right?
You never know.
But also, you guys have to think she is 28.
So it's like.
Yeah.
You're 28.
You're 28?
Okay, mute that.
Privacy.
Mute that.
Well, didn't you say that at the beginning of the show?
No, I purposely not say it.
Oh, wait, did you lie about your age too?
I just not say it.
I just did not say it.
Oh, I didn't.
Oh, fuck.
I didn't catch that.
So, okay, you're 28.
You're 28.
You're just messing your way through life.
You do not look 28.
What's that saying?
I shouldn't say it, but Lily, what's the saying?
You know.
The Asian six.
Say it.
Lily, say it.
Say it.
I'm confused what you want me to say.
I don't know what you want me to say.
Okay.
Aging, certain when it comes to aging.
Can anybody help me here?
Yeah, old?
Aging pussy, something?
Okay, you know, I like those saying black don't crack.
Yeah, I knew that's where you're going with this.
Asian don't raisin.
Hey, well, you could have just said it.
I'm not gonna, I'm not gonna fact you up.
You just didn't want to get canceled.
All right.
You know what, Brian?
You've been attacking me a little.
First, it was a booster seat, and then like, it's just Don Hilton.
So the Asian don't raisin?
Is that talking about your skin or like down there?
Your skin.
No, like, when Asian people like their ages, they're full.
Yeah, they don't really, like.
Yeah, they've seen some really cool.
Like, my grandma, yeah, but like, once, I feel like once it hits a certain point, then yeah, they look older, but it takes a minute to get there.
Us white people, we got it.
No, y'all.
Y'all are like four years, right?
Yes, I'll find out.
We don't wrinkle until like a certain age.
Like, you like look really, really young.
Yeah.
Up until, like, you're like, what, like 60-something?
Yeah, and then it, and then it just hits you, and then it's just like you're in a dehydration shit.
Yeah, we have uh Dayvon Jackson here.
Thank you, man, for the $10 super chat.
He didn't manipulate them.
He a man, a business offer, and then made them millionaires.
What are you talking about?
We have Dayvon Jackson with the OnlyFans stuff by lying.
Wouldn't you say you're manipulating the guys you talk to into not being disgusted with you shouldn't you shouldn't lie?
You shouldn't lie.
It's a very like a lifelong kindness, the intention of kindness.
Straight finessed her way through life.
Okay.
I'm dead.
Guys, I'm dead.
We're going to wrap up here.
We've been going for like, I think this is four plus hours.
I have one more question.
Sure.
If yours is high, why did the guy's high body count make you bother you?
Yeah.
60 plus is too high.
60 plus is like under 50 is like 60 is too high, I think.
Yeah.
Wait, so if you're supposed to multiply by three, should I start saying my body count's five?
Because then they'll multiply by three and it's really 15.
Are those prison tattoos on your fingers?
No, they're stars.
Oh, okay, my bad.
I don't know.
I'm kidding.
I'm kidding.
I have a bunch of tattoos.
But you know what, guys?
The best way to start a relationship, the best foundation.
No, no, no.
Well, the best foundation for a relationship is to lie.
No.
Right?
Because then they're going to keep it.
It's a kind lie.
Brian, how about you?
Did you share your body count yet?
What's your body count?
Brian never shares his, but it's not a title.
I'm a little lying.
No, actually, I won't share mine in the future.
It's going to cause problems in the future.
Yeah, I don't share my body count because.
What's up, Lily?
I would like to say, whoever in the comments, I'm Lily.
I'm sorry.
But like this entire time, we've been on stream.
Everyone's been mistaking her for Lily.
I was like, that's me.
Lily, that's Lily.
Yeah.
Yeah, guys.
Lily.
Yeah, guys.
Is it because two Asians are sitting next to you?
Guys, what is this?
Lillian?
Lily.
I know.
Not Lily.
Oh, shit.
Lily.
Oops.
You're always coming, you know.
You know, Brian, I. What's up?
Do you got something against Vietnamese people?
What?
What the fuck?
Lily, let me actually tell you, that's his type.
I feel the cavestry for the entire episode.
I'm not going to front.
He likes the Vietnamese women.
I'm not going to front.
Kind of.
Yeah, you're right.
Yeah, I know.
You're right.
You're definitely right.
Thank you.
Well, you know, the big lady.
Not me, though.
What?
What the fuck?
What do you mean?
Well, exactly.
Yeah, not me.
What do you mean not you?
Well, not me.
People don't like me like that.
Wait, what do you mean?
Well, like.
What do you mean, not you?
What do you mean?
Like, your type is Vietnamese people, but not.
So you're saying you're not, you are not my type.
No, she's saying that she doesn't live up to your Vietnamese standards.
Yeah.
I'm not going to front.
I'm not going to front.
I'm dead.
No, no, I'm not going to front if you didn't have a boyfriend.
Can I pick up this mic and leave?
I'm just saying.
Why do you want to take the mic?
I'm good.
Hey, my friend's Vietnamese and it's a good mic.
Exposed.
Exposed.
My ex-girlfriend.
The five-year relationship she's Vietnamese.
She was crazy.
You're right.
I mean, I don't know if you've met Vietnamese parents, but they'd be cussing me out like, no, tomorrow.
It's bad.
Have you seen those TikTok memes with why is everyone talking about Kevin Wynn?
The fact that she's the only one talking about that.
Basically, you know what I'm talking about.
Okay, yeah, but you know, like how the term of like say, like a Karen and stuff, like it's like it's a generalized term.
Like it's a generalized term for like an Asian guy that dresses the exact same, like they go to raves they wear the fucking red flannels and stuff and like they, like they vape and they're like what's up girl, like it's, it's like it's just a stereotype of like these Asian guys who are just so typical and they always like like white frat boy.
Yeah, basically it's like a white frat guy, but like as an Asian person, that's a Kevin, that's a Kevin okay, but you don't want to date a Kevin.
No no no, you don't want to date a Kevin, they're just.
Also, I've been seeing this trend on TikTok, a lot of Asian women like they're ranking the different Asian and they're like first why, why they?
Why is all these like Asian women going for the Filipinos?
What's going on there?
Because Asian like okay, Filipino guys are like the biggest fuckboys out of like all the Asians.
I talk from experience.
They don't date a Filipino.
Well no, I'm not saying like okay, like Filipino.
Do you want to weigh in on this?
Oh Filipino wait, I wouldn't the best one.
The Chinese are not fuckboys in the field.
Well no, I'm just saying that Chinese are not fuckboys.
Chinese man good no, that's not what.
That's not what we're saying.
It's like Korean men too.
God damn, tell us how you really feel, Lily.
Honestly, I don't know.
Okay, all right guys, we're gonna, we're gonna wrap there.
Um, let me see anyone.
Last thoughts, anybody, okay?
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You could have been doing anything else.
Hold on wait, I gotta go back here.
Whoops, I'm fucking this up.
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Oh shit sorry, oh he's.
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