Dems Throw FIT During LONGEST State Of The Union EVER
Tate Brown dissects the 1h35m State of the Union, where 71% of Republicans now back Trump amid rising approval (63% overall), while mocking Democrats like Mark Kelly and Elon Omar for sitting during Medal of Honor tributes or dodging deportation. He pivots to Gen Z’s "romance gap," blaming media, feminism, and dating apps—where 70% of couples now form—for inflated expectations, economic distrust ("Santaism"), and a cultural shift toward fragmented relationships over shared values, warning traditional institutions may collapse under generational detachment. [Automatically generated summary]
This is Tate Brown here holding it down on this beautiful Wednesday afternoon.
It is now officially the afternoon.
We are one minute into the afternoon.
It's very exciting stuff.
Obviously, I'm taking you from the morning to the afternoon on our Rumble daily lineup.
It is really something special that we get to do here every single day.
It is now every single day, every single weekday, I should say, because Fridays is starting to become a thing.
We're holding it down on Fridays as well.
So, obviously, the story that we are going to be discussing today is the State of the Union address.
Everyone saw it.
Everyone loved it by all indications.
It was a fantastic State of the Union speech.
You saw us react to it live on Timcast IRL last night.
And he went for an hour and like 35 minutes.
So after the show wraps, and I got like, I have like, I live like an hour from the studio.
So it was like midnight, like 1230 by the time I got home.
So I didn't sleep very much.
So it's still very fresh in my mind.
It's the State of the Union.
Still very, very fresh in my mind, which is really some exciting stuff.
So I got tweets.
I got reactions from all across the space.
I got a few clips in case you missed it or if you wanted to see some of the highlights again.
I got it all.
We're going to go through it.
We're going to react and we're going to love it.
So I got that story for us.
And then at the half hour mark, we have a special guest, but we're still waiting on confirmation.
So I don't want to let it slip yet who we have planned.
But I'm very excited to have this guest on.
I think it's going to be super fun if we can get it going.
But if not, what we'll do is we'll do a mailbag section.
We'll do a chat.
We'll chop it up a chat.
So I think that'd be fun.
So either way, let's get into it.
First, before we do, I have to give a quick shout out to our sponsors for today.
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You know, I was hearing more and more about this.
You know, people were talking.
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You know, you're probably going to go with water or milk, most likely, but you can really put whatever you want in there.
You could, people were telling me they're using their own sweat and blood.
I think that was quite kind of interesting.
People are getting real freaky in the Tim Cast chat.
But, you know, I think I would say on average, the Rumble daily lineup every hour, I would say that our hour probably is the freakiest viewers for sure.
If we're going like a freak off, pound-for-pound freak off.
Kellen, do you think?
I think we probably have the freakiest viewers, I would say.
That's how you build camaraderie as a team, actually.
So with that, what else do we got?
Boonies.
We love boonies, folks.
Boonies, fantastic stuff.
We've got all kinds of boards here.
You can't get this one, the 28th Amendment board.
It's sold out.
So you got to wait until we bring some more back.
We got to buy some more.
We have actually one guy in our basement.
He's chained up and he makes these boards for us.
It's really, really nice of him to do that.
The chains, he just likes the chains.
It's all optional.
Again, freaky.
Things are getting freaky every year.
Anyway, no, that's not true.
We have a great Made in America production team that puts together these boards for us.
We have our Don't Be Gay board, the Uncancelable board, the Step on Snack 2.0 board.
We got grip tape.
We got flags.
We got these stickers, your stickers.
Oh my gosh.
We got everything.
A Be Gay board is not selling nearly as well as the Don't Be Gay board.
Great gift for your liberal friends.
Yeah, if you got a special lip tard in your life, maybe buy them the Be Gay Board.
Or if you want to fix them, maybe you buy them the Don't Be Gay Board.
I don't know.
That's up to your discretion.
I trust you guys in the audience.
While we do have the freakiest fans at the 12 p.m. hour, I would also say we have the smartest, most high IQ patriotic fans.
I think those are both simultaneously true.
So again, do what you need to do with that.
Let's get into this first story.
It is the story.
There is no other story.
President Trump, hail Trump.
Hail.
Anyway, I digress.
Great speech.
We love President Trump.
This is fantastic, except this guy.
This is the first clip I want to play because I think this really encapsulates President Trump was on a mission last night.
And first and foremost, he was needing, he needed to clip farm on these lip tards because they're really just at this point, and it's been this case for quite a while, as they will literally counter signal anything the president says.
They were even sitting during like you would see people like hesitant to stand up during the Medal of Honor award.
So, oh, these dumbs, man, these dumbs.
Well, Trump went for, I believe it was an hour and 41 minutes, which would be a record.
This dude's 80.
People forget that.
It's like, because he's been around so long.
He's a Titan.
Dude's 80.
Like, he's old, and he's going for most 80-year-olds can't stand for an hour and 40 minutes, let alone give a riveting speech.
So this guy, he just keeps going.
Every year he gets stronger.
With that, we're going to take a look at this clip here.
I want to get into this first clip.
This is really something here.
Really a sight to behold.
You know, we're just going to throw the cans on here.
This is the copy from Rapid Response 47.
If you agree with this statement, then stand up and show your support.
The first duty of the American government is to protect American citizens and not illegal aliens.
As we ensure that all Americans can profit from a rising stock market, let's also ensure that members of Congress cannot corruptly profit from using insider information.
It's crazy that we have to have a bill called the Stop Insider Trading Act.
That'd be like having to pass a bill in Congress, like a Stop Murder Act.
The fact that it has to be that on the nose is really egregious what's going on in Congress.
But with that, we're going to get to our next clip here.
This is hilarious.
Aaron Rupar.
This guy, he's a Libtard journalist, but he is just so good at clipping the funniest Trump moments.
He's like our guy.
Without Aaron Rupar, we would have missed out on some of Trump's all-time bangers because they would have just slipped by.
But he is just there capturing every moment.
So it's funny because he's, yeah, he's on the left, but I don't think there's many people that can say they've done more for the MAGA movement than Aaron Rupar.
It is really something to behold here.
We'll take a look at this amazing clip he got.
Thank you, Aaron.
As a patriot, I'm very appreciative of your work here.
We'll take a look at this clip.
Oh, and I should give you the context.
Rep Sarah McBride, that's his stage name.
It's a man.
After Trump starts going on about the trans stuff, they pan right to this guy.
I think multiple outlets were just on it because there's also a clip of Ilon Omar when he's talking about Somali people.
Yeah, I have that later in the status.
Dude, they were just on.
Maybe, I don't know, maybe it's a central cam.
I don't know.
But whoever the cameraman was was on, like, similar to the guy with Tourette's at the BAFTA awards, this guy, whoever's running the camera here, is just, he's just got good.
I was thinking it was a similar performance to USA hockey.
Yeah, yeah.
They're just on it, dude.
He's just got, he's got that comedian comedic timing.
It's really a beautiful thing.
A little darker note: the Democrats, Irina Zarutska's parents, if you don't remember it, it's unfortunate.
I hate looking at this picture, but it's there.
They brought Irina Zarutska's parents, and of course, it's really a somber scene.
She was murdered by a crazy black dude on a train in Charlotte.
And of course, the left pretty much had nothing to say about that.
And here they go.
They refuse to stand for Irina Zarutska's parents when they're being honored by President Trump of the State of the Union.
You know, I'm going to go ahead and skip ahead just to grab this clip before we go back.
This is what people are talking about.
They're like, you know, when Barack Obama was president, the State of the Union was this moment for unity.
And he would like be talking about if, you know, if you're someone that holds Republican values, come have a conversation with me and we'll work something out.
We'll cut a deal.
Well, look, I mean, this clip, you know, it's going around.
Well, remember this clip?
I remember this.
I was little, but I remember this.
And the Democrats, like Cabot Phillips says here, treated this like the biggest scandal ever.
Look at this clip.
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The reforms I'm proposing would not apply to those who are here illegally.
The Somali pirates who ransacked Minnesota remind us that there are large parts of the world where bribery, corruption, and lawlessness are the norm, not the exception.
I don't know how we would repatriate her, but I don't understand why she's still in con this is one place I have a axe to grind.
You know, everyone is already saying, What the Trump administration, you know, some people have like such bold ideas, too wishful thinking.
It's like, let's be practical.
Again, we need to win.
Some of these things we need to do need to be tangible, need to be practical victories.
Elon Omer should be pretty easy to get her out of the country.
She literally committed immigration fraud.
She married her brother.
Like, this is so easy.
This is a layup.
I don't understand what's taking so long.
You know, stop the panic and accusations.
Okay, I'm trusting the plan.
I just need an explanation here.
Why is she still not just in Congress, but in the country?
I mean, it's absolutely infuriating.
I don't know what's going on there.
But so if someone that's in the know can give me an explanation why, that'd be great.
This was hilarious.
This was before I couldn't find the clip, but the state of the union.
Al Green, who's just this like bonehead representative from Texas, who's on the way out, by the way.
He always is causing a scene.
He got booted out of the last State of the Union because he was just like crashing out on the floor.
No one could hear what he was saying, and he got thrown out anyway.
And then this time he comes in again, like it's Looney Tunes with this boom, a sign that like retracts open like that.
And it was weird because when you were watching the broadcast live, you know, it was unclear what a sign said because you're looking at the back of the sign.
We're looking from above.
We couldn't really see what a sign said.
We see Scalise reach over and like yank it and like it breaks his little like his little accordion thing that opens the sign up.
He's fashioning the sign back together.
I guess he gets it open.
This shot comes by.
We see this on TV.
No one can make out what it said.
And then the picture comes out afterwards.
And we're like, out of all the pressing issues, if you're a Democrat, all the biggest complaints you would have about President Trump, all the biggest gripes you would have written large with the way the country is or the way that the right wing is conducting themselves, et cetera, et cetera.
He decided to, I guess, go back a few weeks to the controversy where Trump or one of his staffers posted a video of the Lion King and they had Democrats on there and the Obamas were portrayed as like monkeys.
And it was considered, you know, people were like, oh, this is deeply offensive or whatever.
And they took it down like 24 hours later.
And they're like, yeah, I don't know.
Like we didn't realize a staffer posted that, et cetera.
And no one talked, like two days later, everyone stopped talking about it.
Like it really was not a big deal, all things considered.
You know, the day of, everyone's like, this is the end.
And of course, you know, so many of these like moderates, you know, couldn't help themselves but to you know attack the Trump administration like Russell Moore and all these clowns.
He's not even a moderate.
He's a left-winger.
But this was like three weeks old.
Like who cares?
No one cares.
That's why I saw this.
It took me a second to realize what he's talking about because this is such an old controversy at this point.
Again, you could have gone, he could have gone, boom, Epstein files.
That probably would have gotten like some serious traction online or boom, you know, no war with Iran or boom, you know, something like that.
And like he probably could have had some people on the right that'd be like, yeah, that's that's a good sign.
Just in a few hours, Donald Trump is going to go to the just take my call, dude.
I mean, geez, what is going on, dude?
This guy is a congressman.
This guy is a sitting congressman.
This is like where it comes down to it just being a humiliation ritual for Americans.
The fact that this guy is a sitting congressman, he can't talk.
I mean, if it weren't for the subtitles, I would have been screwed.
You know, I wouldn't even know what he's saying.
The subtitles came in and bailed me out last second here because what on earth is going on here, Shree?
Goodness gracious, deport enough.
Bright side, Republicans are rallying around the flag here.
This is really encouraging stuff.
Again, Republicans who say that they should follow Trump's leadership.
The GOP leaders should follow Trump's leadership.
It was at 57% in January 2021.
So obviously, this probably would have been right after January 6th.
April 2022, 60%.
And now February 2026, 71%.
It's a new high.
So this is really encouraging stuff that Republicans are really starting to rally around the flag.
This magification, you know, this post, this, yeah, this magification, this party sort of cementing around Trump and Trumpian policies is further consolidating.
Again, this is like an active ongoing process as Republicans, again, are continuously defining themselves along the lines of Trump's policies, which are increasingly right-wing.
So it's very good to see this is, again, this is very promising stuff.
This is encouraging.
Again, this whole thing was a white pill.
It really does feel like we're back.
And I think this poll really says it all.
Trump's State of the Union speech.
Again, 63% of Americans had a positive view of that speech.
That is really something because, you know, very rarely can we get anything where 63%.
It's something that was considered by Democrats to be so divisive.
And 63% of Americans liked it.
So we love to see that.
So with that, I'm going to close this first opening segment.
If you are watching later, thank you very much for watching.
And I'll see you next time.
And for those who are still watching, we're going to get into our interview portion of the show.
The attitudes that men and women have towards each other, young men and women in particular, have changed a lot.
I am in, you know, a very particularly good position to understand this because I sort of like aged into and out of my dating market value in such a way that I started dating Gen Z girls, like as they were, as they were, you know, getting old enough to date.
In my 30s, I was dating Gen Z girls in their 20s as they were rising in their market value.
So I got to date millennial women when I was young and Gen Z women when I was starting to age out.
And I can see the attitude changes that have come through the internet and changes in culture.
You can list the, I was trying to make an acronym for it.
Like I used the awful acronym in my last video for the affluent white female urban liberals.
I'm trying to make an acronym for the things that get taken over that send messages into society that really change what people think.
And they're things like government and media and education and of course technology.
And they're creating attitudes.
The messages coming through these things are creating attitudes in both men and women that they don't, they're more misanthropic.
They like people less.
They go out less.
They have less hope.
The women have higher expectations of the men than they used to.
People are colder towards each other.
They're much more calculating.
When I was younger, I noticed that younger women were much more likely to just want somebody that they liked.
And as I got older, I mean, you know, and this is also a function of me getting older too, but I noticed that the women are much more looking for men that can do something for them.
And that something can be, you know, it can be excitement, like sexual excitement, or it can be money, which is what I've drawn here.
So it can be, you know, either the one thing or the other.
But what I've noticed is that more and more of the young women seem to be, you know, splitting that up between people.
Like they're getting one thing from one place and one thing from another place.
You've heard of Hoflation.
You've seen the whatever podcast, which is just, I just love that Brian does that so often and so perfectly, that he just brings on these women who are, he says that he's not looking particularly hard to find examples of these awful attitudes in women.
But even if he is, it's just really important that people see that because it's the entitlement and it's the egotistical.
Like people have been asking me to make videos on egocentrism.
And that really is at the core and at the root of it.
I think egocentrism has been increasing since the boomer generation.
I'm sure you've seen those memes where it's like they have the old sapietone photo, you know, of the old, like the guy in the top hat and the woman in a bonnet.
And they say, like, we just want a better life for our children.
And then the next generation is, we just want a better life for our children.
And then the boomers say, you entitled brats, get your own money.
And then the millennials say, kids, not happening, right?
Like this is why I keep making successful videos about it.
There's so many aspects of it and so many things to watch out in the field of dating and so many strings to pull on.
Like economics has a role in it and changing demographics has a role in it and the affordability of living has a role in it.
Like, you know, women just don't want men who can't afford a basic life and more and more men can't afford a basic life.
But yeah, but basically it is, you know, if I was going to put it all into one bubble, it's the way that we view each other has changed because so many other things have changed.
Well, it's because even at the macro level, you know, okay, we see these issues with the dating market.
Like you said, the way that I totally agree.
I think Zoomers are increasingly distrustful of basically everyone.
I think some of that is obviously like an internal issue with Zoomers, but I think a lot of it is external.
I think, like you said, demographic change.
I mean, again, we have a very low trust society now.
So again, people are just increasingly skeptical.
Men are terrified because of the Me Too movement.
Women are terrified because of like feminism.
It's internalized sort of a fear of men.
But then even at the micro level, I think about my own life.
You know, I come from a Christian background.
I know a lot of great men, great women that would make great husbands, make great wives, and they just can't seem to find each other.
So even removing the macro trends that we're seeing, even with the stock of people that would make great spouses, they're even having trouble finding each other.
Like all the institutions that would have facilitated those people finding each other are just gone.
It's like, what, 70% of couples are forming through online now?
The breakdown of society is like, it's almost complete.
People are really mostly just sitting at home looking at the phone and getting all of their ideas through the phone.
And it's so, I don't know, ironic, I guess, is the first word that comes to mind that I'm trying to fix that through the phone.
And I'm trying to say to people, like, hey, while you're here, you know, get a grip on reality and try to remember that.
And, you know, remember isn't even the right word because these people never lived that life, but try to realize that real life, you know, doesn't happen.
It's not mediated through a screen.
And you're only seeing what people want you to see.
And you're supposed to get out and go have real life experiences with people.
But whenever I tell people that, they just say, well, how am I supposed to do that?
I think she was the first one to clue me in to the fact that opportunistic women had begun using church as a place to target innocent men to be used.
Like they kind of know that they've lost their market value.
I'm just going to write lies here coming out of the phone to be clear about it.
They know that they're losing their market value.
So they go to church and they find guys who are all innocent and they say, oh, I found Jesus.
I'm clean and pure now.
And so even church is not a great way to meet women anymore.
So it's like, if you don't meet someone in school, which they all think they're too young to settle down anyway, then where is the social, like, where are the social places you're supposed to go to meet people?
They're gone.
The third places are evaporating.
And yeah, it's all going through online.
And that is all mediated through the apps.
And, you know, the experience of the apps, like, you don't have to tell this to any man.
We all know.
Like, even though I had times that I was successful on apps, I had years where I was like, I remember one girl back in the in the in the 20 teens, I think, trying to tell me that she felt bad for me because the apps are so hard on men.
And I was like, what are you talking about?
But a few years later, I learned, you know, I figured out exactly what she meant.
I kind of fell out of the top 20% there.
You don't have to tell men how hard those apps are on them.
But women usually don't get it.
Like I made a video about this a long time ago about how I had, I wish I kept the drawing.
I had a girl make a profile for me because, you know, she thought that it was what I put on the phone that was not working.
This must be bad information.
So I let her do it and I let her choose a picture of a guy that she thought was cute.
So we made a fake profile with a guy she thought was attractive.
And we tested her written profile with my photo and with this guy's photo.
And she saw the difference was night and day.
And she just never really knew how to process that information.
So women are not really getting what the experience of the apps is doing to their own minds.
Like people don't have enough perspective on their own minds to know that their experiences are not normal.
Yeah, well, it's like the women, the impact that apps has on them is they have perceived options, like they have endless options, which isn't the case off of the apps.
And then for men, it's perceived scarcity, which also isn't the reality off the apps.
And so for both people, it ends up forcing them into making bad decisions where women, they're passing up on what would be great options.
And then men, again, with perceived scarcity, they just take the first woman that's available and end up in a really bad situation.
I've seen this happen time and time again, where a lot of men that are my age, I'm 25.
So a lot of Zoomers, as soon as they get their first girlfriend, even if it's a terrible match, a terrible fit, they just go all in.
Because again, a perceived scarcity that they've grown up around, and especially if they went onto the date, like the dating apps, it just one-shots you.
And you just immediately think there must be something wrong with me.
So if a girl finally likes me, then I just need to lock this down as quick as possible.
I mean, because that's the thing is the applications people give are just from older people, especially are just kind of lazy.
Like they just don't understand the reality.
I mean, the church thing is a perfect example.
Like I'm a Christian.
I'm a devout Christian.
I would not really recommend church as a place to find a spouse purely because most of these really churches that are worth your time attend.
There's not really going to be anyone your age that's there if you're young.
And then to your point, there is occasionally, but oftentimes they could just be a viper.
They know better.
Or even if they really had this change, you're still signing up for a lot of like baggage that maybe you don't realize you're signing up for.
Because again, a lot of these guys that are in these churches, and by extension, the girls, but that grow up in the church and stay in the church have a degree of innocence, a degree of insulation from how the world actually is.
It's just a really grim situation.
So it's like, I mean, best case scenario, you could, but it seems like the only couples that I know from my life found each other in college or online through the apps mostly.
This is this is really specific to DC and New York, I've noticed.
It's become very in vogue to set friends up with, I know it sounds crazy, set friends up with each other, but like that's a very rare thing for Zoomers to do.
And so I've heard like in the last two or three years, a lot more of my friends going on blind dates, these sorts of things.
But my hometown, you know, Memphis suburbs, that is unheard of.
That's where most of my friends are single and really suffering.
I don't know if it has to do with maybe New York and DC having the probably a much higher proportion of single women because of the way careers just work, the way the industries work.
But yeah, it's a lot of these guys that, again, have really good jobs, but that's it.
They live to work.
They're really getting hammered.
So they're not like you're saying they're not interested in dating or uh they they probably would be, but a lot of them have tapped out because they have you know a hinge account that gets one like every month.
No, I'm saying in New York and D.C., it seems like the dating market is actually a bit healthier, which is funny because I think the narrative online, especially on the right, is that these cities are like cesspools with all these awful.
And that's true, but it does seem like that's where you're finding a higher proportion of couples than you would find.
And I would like get to know them for two or three days and just go, there's absolutely no way that this is going anywhere.
I'm not going to buy a ring for someone who believes the thing you just said.
That's like setting my whole life on fire.
So it's like that's where they all are, but they also are, you know, the, the, I'm sure you've seen that graph also of the like if this is more conservative and this is more liberal, or maybe it's the other way around, but they have the, they show the men going like from liberal, like slightly more conservative.
Where they take all these, you know, the rules that are forged in the black hole of the cities and they just communicate them outward through the phones.
And then the women get in their heads that they're going to go protest ICE.
And if their husband says no, then you have to divorce him because he's abusing you.
It's just insane kinds of beliefs that come through the phones and they feel them so strongly and they believe that that's true.
Well, because you're unable to go on rescue missions for two reasons.
I hate this narrative from the right wing, from conservatives, is they place all of the blame on men where they're like, you know, men just aren't strong anymore.
Like women are desperate to be led, but it's these, there's a good, Scott Greer says that there's a good man scarcity.
There's this scarcity of men.
He's using this to mock these conservatives.
But it's like, okay, maybe that's true.
Men's like testosterone has gone down a little bit, but the women just, even if there was a like total, you know, alpha or whatever, women just by and large really don't seem to have the desire to be led because by and large they can lead their own lives because the economy facilitates that.
And now they can be a man and a woman simultaneously.
So they're like, this is, this is men listen to me a lot more than women do.
And so I craft my messages mostly towards men, obviously.
And, you know, the main message that I tell men is, you know, number one, I talk about individual problems and I say, for example, in my baby talk video, like when women talk to you like this, here's how you respond.
Here's how you deal with it.
So I give them real life skills.
But number two, I say that like no matter what the circumstances are, the answer to the situation is always be more of a man.
I always use this little red arrow to just symbolize, you know, moving upward, getting better at things, becoming stronger, grow your money, grow your portfolio, grow your skill set, grow your social network.
Be more of a man is always the answer for men, but that doesn't guarantee it's going to work.
Like that's not a promise of, that's not a contract that says you're going to get a woman if you do that.
When I was in my 20s, I had a, you know, a very sudden time where I started changing myself and I became more physically attractive.
And then women liked me a lot, but I still was not very much of a man.
I still was very liberal and I believed all the stuff they taught me in college and everything, very wishy-washy.
And I learned kind of slowly, like I went from, you know, a mess to good looking enough to be successful on the apps in like one year.
And then it took me about six years to become more of like a man, like what a man should be.
And I noticed that women responded better to it.
But as time went on and everyone got more liberal and as I moved again towards the center of the city, the more they would just reject it.
They really don't want to be led.
They say they want to be led, but they want to be led in the way that they already feel.
Like they want you to go fight ice for them or something.
And it's like, but that's not what being a man.
Yeah, that's you setting the frame.
That's you telling me what you want me to do.
And this is not what I believe is right.
So it's like, either you have to get behind me.
I had a drawing for that too.
They're all cut up.
I'll just redraw it.
I had a drawing with a man in the center.
And then there's danger over here.
And where she wants to be is over here.
So it's like people talk about bad boys and everything.
And why do women like bad boys?
Well, it's because they want you to be more bad than the danger.
Well, that's like such a good point as being more because something I've noticed, we saw the data come in a few months ago where it inverted where now men, a higher proportion of men want to be a father, have a family, et cetera, than women.
Because that was always the stereotype.
It's like, oh, women will do whatever it takes for a ring.
And, you know, men are the ones holding out on these women and et cetera, et cetera.
That got completely flipped on its head.
Now it's the other way around, where it seems like the majority of my friends that are men are like very desperate for a family and that sort of comfort that comes with that.
And the women are increasingly more willing to test the waters in their 20s and 30s and see what they can do before they, I guess, settle down for lack of better word.
So it's just really bizarre.
And in addition to that, I'm noticing, I don't think this, I think it's a healthy impulse, but it's not a good tendency to have is a lot of men, their goal in life is to get married and have children.
And it's like, I agree, that's noble and I want that as well, but that should be an outcome from success.
Like you, that, that gyro, like that is generated from success, like a great family life, et cetera.
Yeah, I mean, that's like, that's the formula that we used to have that, you know, the, the, you, you'd be born and you'd grow up and you would, um, I think I have that somewhere else too.
Just redrawing all my charts today for you.
Uh, that you would, you basically would be born and you would grow in like your attractiveness starts at, you know, in your teens and peaks when you're about 27 and comes down slowly.
And for a woman, it starts in her teens and it peaks at like 22 and then it comes down, you know, a little bit faster than a man's.
And then also as a man, you have a secondary value, which is your money, which, you know, ideally gets high and stays high.
And at some time around your, you know, physical attractiveness and your economic attractiveness, you just become a viable candidate to get married.
And these things are just not, they're just not working like that anymore.
That paradigm is shifted because of very artificial pressures on the economy.
And people don't understand that they're artificial too.
Like I make this point so much.
I've drawn the picture.
I've shown it so many times.
But just drawing the picture, you know, it communicates the concept, but it doesn't prove it.
So now I have to make a whole big long video to prove it.
I'll zoom in.
It's just the reason that that doesn't work anymore is because women feel comfortable, you know, playing the field and doing what they want for as long as they can because they know that this and this is going to support them.
And they're not really aware that it's coming from anyone.
That's something that I call, I call that Santaism because it's like Santa brings everything.
So people who don't understand that someone is paying the cost, they will say things like, health care should be free.
Education should be free.
Everyone should be allowed to live in America.
And it's like, this is the should be allowed.
It costs money.
It costs something, but they're not aware of the cost.
So I don't know how to communicate that to people.
I think it's fundamentally impossible to get most people to understand that, especially women.
I think the average man, when he grows up, understands that things aren't free.
Someone pays for them.
But I think the average woman pretty much never learns that.
Well, I mean, that's why you see like by a women, again, this is, you saw this over and over again in the United States was like after the murder of Irina Zarutska.
So many of them had more of an issue of people's reaction to the murder than the actual murder itself.
Yet they will go around and say, I can't walk at night.
Isn't this horrible?
This is the fault.
And again, this visual of who is the enemy in their head is like this Chud like frat bro or something when in reality, like the reality on the ground is it's actually the immigration policy and the crime policy that is sort of deployed by the party that you keep voting for.
So it's like, there's just like you're pointing out this complete detachment, cognitive disease.
And, you know, I might be, some people might think it's an extreme opinion, but I don't think, I don't think that we can really survive as a society if we continue to let people use media this way.
It's just, I have this, this little drawing I've used over and over where the girl is just watching the phone and it says, man, bad.
And then that is just her worldview now.
And then she starts seeing this guy as doing all the stuff that she saw on her phone.
She starts acting on it and never really gets up to the place where she's, you know, observing herself from the outside and saying, should I believe these things?
It's just this cycle of just repeating what the phone gave me feelings.
And then I see someone in real life.
And so my feelings must be coming from him.
I don't think we're going to get out of that ever.
And then everything will crash so hard that they won't have like the concept of rights will be silly because it'll just be like, well, no one's washing the clothes and I have to go kill an animal to eat.
I mean, South Korea is what, 10 years ahead of us, they already have this divergence like at an extreme level.
So we're already seeing that, again, the men just collectivize there and they enact their will at the ballot box.
So with that, I know we're kind of running out of time here.
I just wanted to read this quick super chat to give your thoughts on it.
This was from Guido240.
I believe it's a man.
He says, as a parent of a 16-year-old and 13-year-old, I worry so much for my kids, a boy and a girl, and their future and finding a spouse slash family.
Oh, it's like, it's just got to be a tough spot to be a parent right now because it's one thing telling that to the 16-year-old, but how do you tell that to their parent?
I'm actually, you know, being popular and having, you know, millions of people know who I am.
I get a lot of women coming into my inbox and I'm having to think about like, what if I'm a parent at some point?
What kind of world is that going to be?
I'm putting myself through that.
Like, I can't really imagine what it's like for people who are already parents.
But Don't know what to tell them any more than I would know what to tell the kids because I know what the formula is.
You have to make something of yourself and then you have to show it to people and then someone likes it and then you, you know, you work on your relationship and you have open communication and all that.
But if there's nowhere to meet people and if the you know the requirements are insane, they want you to be part of like a polycule or some insane liberal city crap, then it's just a non-starter.
So I guess all I can really say to that person is like, I feel you.
I mean, it's blackfilling in a lot of ways because he's absolutely right, obviously.
But him laying out the formulas and actually sort of elaborating on just kind of stuff that I'm pontificating and he can actually explain it in detail.
It's excellent.
So hopefully we can have him back on soon because, again, there's so many different topics we can get into.
But with that, we got to wind the show down.
It's unfortunate.
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