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March 22, 2025 - Freedomain Radio - Stefan Molyneux
03:25
How Do I Transfer Universal Moral Principles Without Applying Them Universally?
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Alright, so he says, sorry, 500 character limit.
Yes, our parents def have responsibility.
Question. How to navigate making progress helping my cousins with their kids while not applying those same principles to their parental relationships?
How to navigate making progress helping my cousins with their kids while not applying those same principles to their parental relationships?
So, one of the things that you want to do as a whole in life, When you're asking a question is, are you asking for the impossible?
This is sort of a fundamental question, right?
Are you asking for the impossible?
So you're saying, how do I transfer universal principles without applying them universally?
You can't do it.
How do I transfer or inculcate or encourage universal principles without applying them universally?
How do I have a scientific theory that explains the roots of gravity but excludes the moon and the earth?
Well, if it's a universal theory, it's going to encompass the moon and the earth.
So, how do I get people to be moral, which is universal?
How do I get people to follow universal moral principles while carving out massive sections of their personal relationships?
Spoiler! You can't!
What are you doing to me?
I really want to transfer universal moral principles to my cousins and their kids while specifically excluding their own parental relationships from these universal principles.
You can't!
And you can waste a lot of time if you want, and you can appear to be a rank hypocrite if you want, because you will be.
And look, again, I'm not a perfect person.
I have my hypocrisies and so on, so I'm not saying this with any sense of superiority, but I sure wish people had told me this shit when I was younger.
You can't.
How do I tell my cousins that parental moral responsibility is universal and absolute, but doesn't apply to their own parents?
I'm sorry, but do you see how funny this is?
It's tragic comic, but it's funny.
You can't!
You can't.
And you can either have it implicit, or you can have it explicit.
This, uh, these contradictions, this, uh, these are the ones that we have.
And we're going to have to go through this.
Someone says, parents, mid-rant at me, phone rings, all civil and polite, and the call ends, rant and abuse start up again.
Yep. Sure.
They have control.
My parents were jerks.
They could not help being awful because they did not want to change.
What? They could not help being awful because they did not want to change.
I don't understand that.
That's a real Gordian nut.
That's a real Gordian nut.
All right.
You are welcome for the help.
Thank you, Nick.
My name is Nick.
What does that mean?
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