March 3, 2025 - Freedomain Radio - Stefan Molyneux
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Bad Decisions a Man Can Make in His Youth
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Are there any bad decisions a man can make that are so easy to make and have such severe consequences as getting pregnant?
Yes.
Yes.
Absolutely.
So, there are two main bad decisions that a man can make when he's young.
Number one is don't talk to women, and number two is don't learn economically valuable skills.
So, if you don't talk to women, And just find out a way to talk to girls and women and find out a way to interact with them in a positive way that they enjoy, then you will not very likely get married.
And that's the end of your genes.
At least women's mistakes of having kids outside of wedlock, at least the genes probably survive.
And the other is to spend your youth having fun, avoiding work, avoiding reality, avoiding feedback, avoiding submitting to the inevitable bad bosses that every new worker has to.
Deal with because good bosses are much higher in the food chain.
Bad bosses are down at the bottom dealing with the noobs.
So, surrendering yourself to what women want and need and surrendering yourself to providing economic value, those are the two massive consequences that are very hard to recover from later in life.
So, if you turn to weed, porn, and video games and stay home and don't learn any particularly economically valuable skills, then it's very hard to recover from that.
And if you get into your 20s, And you don't talk to women, then that's a skill, right?
Men and women's brains are different and complementary, and you have to figure out how they fit together to produce the spark of glory and greatness that is a male and female brain working together.
When male and female brains work together, society leaps forward unbelievably fast.
It is nitro jetpack territory.
So you have to figure out where the strengths of women are, where the strengths of you are.
figure out how to delegate and work together and have your areas of authority and your areas of surrender and you're unbeatable if you have that combination, but it takes some figuring out and negotiating, in particular because of the bad propaganda that we're getting.
I saw a video A woman rejected telling other women they're too good for men, so make them beg for attention.
Yeah, yeah.
Now, is that because she wants to block other women from being chosen, or does she believe her own spiel?
Is it both?
Any way to know?
Well, men compete with excellence in general, and women compete with sabotage.
I mean, excellence and beauty, but sabotage, right?
And sabotage elements with men as well, so there's sort of overlapping circles.
But...
Oh, yeah, like, he's too...
And so women sabotage other women either by appealing to their vanity, Or setting them up in situations where they can't succeed.
So if there's some, you know, uber-chad who wants to date some average woman, the other woman, oh, he's so hot, go for it, you'll regret it forever if you don't, knowing that it's not going to work out, right?
All right.
Ba-dam-bum, ba-da-bum-bum-bum-bum.
But churches don't make money outside of the corrupt megachurch nonsense.
I think the non-profit status is not a bad thing.
However, I do see that getting rid of the 501c thing would chase out all of the skin suits in shell churches.
Churches don't make money.
I'm not sure I follow that.
If churches don't make money, then how do they economically survive?