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Feb. 5, 2018 - Roosh V - Daryush Valizadeh

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Roosh Live #8

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	All right, we are now live.
	This comes a few days after YouTube took down my Ruch Live number seven.
	And it's all because I put the word German in the title.
	Apparently, if you put German in the title of your YouTube videos, the Nazis at the ADL, they go combing through it and they look for hate speech.
	And they didn't find it in that video.
	Not like they would watch the entire thing anyway.
	But they didn't like it.
	They don't like me.
	I don't know why.
	And so they flagged it.
	And YouTube said, I can't live stream for three months.
	And I was pissed about it.
	I raised the stink on Twitter.
	And not only did they allow me to live stream again, obviously, but Ruch Lab number seven is back online.
	So a small victory, huh?
	But I don't think it is sustainable to have to beg the SJW masters at Google and YouTube to put my video back.
	So I will just say to you to enjoy this.
	Enjoy this live stream.
	It may be the last one.
	We don't know.
	Other than that, I'm feeling pretty beat up.
	I went out last night to the nightclub and a girl made eye contact with me.
	Yada, yada, yada.
	I went to bed at 7 a.m.
	And I can't play this game anymore.
	I can't play this young man's game.
	Where I am, it's pretty late, kind of, and I still feel like I just got up.
	So I'm going to do my best with all the callers.
	If you haven't already noticed the calling line is now open, there is a short queue.
	So if you want to get in, now is a good time to call in.
	There's only three guys now.
	All right, so let's see how the live chat's doing.
	Dr. Gelaz Kevievich said, so did you get the bang?
	See, I have to assume that my future wife is going to watch everything.
	So I can't share that anymore.
	Did you call the letter pics or it didn't happen?
	Roosh, I'm in the same city.
	It's 8 p.m., correct?
	I cannot confirm that.
	And let's take one more live chat question, then I'll do a call.
	Do you take vitamins or supplements?
	Yes, I take vitamin D in the winter, vitamin B, because if I don't, I have weird, weird symptoms, and magnesium for my heart palpitations.
	Okay, enough about me.
	I think I'm warmed up now.
	Actually, you people are the first time I'm speaking all day long.
	So let's take the first caller.
	Maybe it's going to be first.
	Let's go here.
	International number.
	Hello, caller.
	You are now live.
	What's going on?
	You are the German guy.
	Yeah.
	Because of you.
	It's your fault.
	Because I gave the stream a title based on the call that you made.
	And then YouTube hates Germans now.
	So.
	But yeah, yes, it is.
	I mean, in fact, a lot of guys I know they do entertain the option of a girl who is either married or with another guy and applying on them.
	And I'm not advising anyone to do that.
	I'm not trying to break homes.
	But I mean, usually what it is, is a girl is in a relationship for the comfort.
	She likes this routine that she has with the man that she can trust, with the man she knows what he's up to and what he's doing.
	He doesn't really surprise her.
	But after some time, that man is no longer going to be able to satisfy all of her needs.
	So then that's when she is now open.
	It's not a guarantee, but she is now open to sleeping around.
	And so when she does, it's probably going to be on it with a guy that knows exactly what he's doing.
	It's not going to be on a beta that tries to get her number and take her out on dates.
	You don't take out on dates a girl who has a boyfriend because she can't really be seen in public.
	So, I mean, can it be used?
	Yes.
	Are there specific techniques you can do on them?
	Yes.
	Do I advise it?
	I advise you to do what you think is best.
	I'm just giving men a tool.
	If I give you a cooking knife and you use it to stab someone in the face, you know, that's not my fault.
	I'm not telling you to stab people.
	Hey, hold on one second.
	People in the live chat are saying that they can't hear you.
	Hold on.
	Can't hear.
	Are you on acid?
	Are you talking to yourself?
	No caller audio.
	Why isn't your caller funny?
	You know what?
	This is what happens when you do a live stream when your mind is not all there.
	Let me look at my connections.
	One to there.
	This should work.
	Sound is fine.
	We can hear you, Roose, not the caller.
	I can hear him.
	What's wrong with you?
	Feedback is, what the hell?
	I can hear good.
	Hold on.
	Let me ask something.
	Can you guys?
	I don't know what's wrong, guys.
	This is the normal setup.
	I'm trying to think of YouTube.
	Maybe they did something.
	caller are you still there?
	If I can hear you, and I got my line out, going into...
	My line.
	I think I did something stupid.
	Climb out into...
	Yeah, this should work.
	Is there a caller?
	We hear you fine.
	Can you call that?
	Okay, here, let me hang up on you and take another caller and see if the problem is still there.
	Okay, so if you have time, you can call back.
	Okay.
	I don't know what's wrong.
	I don't know why isn't this working?
	I have the same setup every single week and now it doesn't want to work.
	It should work.
	I got the left and the right.
	If I can hear him, that means you should be able to.
	What the F, man?
	Wait, hold on.
	Roosh is getting super great.
	I know.
	Okay, let's take another caller and you guys tell me if you can hear him.
	Because if you can hear me, you have to hear him because we're in the same line.
	We have the same mix.
	Doesn't make sense.
	Ruch live number eight is all messed up.
	All right, let's take another caller.
	Let's see if it works.
	Hello, caller.
	Are you now?
	Can you hear me?
	Okay, I can hear you.
	Now I'm going to look at the live chat and let's see if people can actually hear you.
	So I took a new call.
	So what?
	So can you say what is going on?
	Where are you from?
	Keep talking.
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	They can't hear you.
	Hold on, hold on.
	Hold on.
	Hold on, hold on.
	They cannot freaking hear you.
	This is, I'm, hold on.
	Trying to think.
	Did I put something in wrong?
	Shit.
	Mine out goes into the mic and on my laptop.
	That has to work.
	Let me see.
	I don't know what to do.
	Damn it.
	YouTube did something.
	No audio.
	Plug it in.
	Can't hear the caller.
	Laugh.
	I can't hear caller's audio.
	Your PC mic is.
	Oh, PC mic.
	Oh, shit.
	Hold on, hold on.
	Hold on.
	I think I got it.
	I think maybe I got it.
	PC mic.
	Hold on.
	How about now?
	Can people hear me now?
	Can you hear it?
	Let me see.
	I think I got, I think, reboot the computer.
	All right, guys, can you hear me now?
	Can you hear me talking out of this?
	Because I think you were hearing the PC mic first.
	YouTube is sabotaging the mic setting.
	It's still the PC mic.
	Okay.
	All right.
	How about now?
	Can you guys hear me now?
	I know the caller can.
	Okay.
	Yeah, I know.
	I can hear you.
	Okay.
	Still, PC Mike.
	We always hear you.
	How about the Jujo?
	Yes, yes.
	Okay.
	Yes, we can hear you.
	Okay.
	Now, caller, can you speak now?
	Okay, now let's see.
	I can hear your mom.
	That's funny.
	Louder now.
	Yes, yes.
	Okay.
	I think we got it.
	Have the caller say something.
	Can you guys hear him?
	Hold on, let's see.
	We hear you, but you are using the wrong mic.
	No, they still cannot freaking hear you.
	Louder now, but they can't hear you.
	Hold on, caller.
	I'm going to put you on hold.
	All right.
	What the F, man?
	Hold on.
	Let me see.
	No difference.
	No caller audio.
	Hold on.
	Let me try something else, guys.
	I have a different thing.
	Oh, I know what I did wrong.
	I'm a fucking retard.
	Holy shit.
	I am the dumbest idiot.
	Hungover idiot.
	That's what happened to me.
	I plugged it in the wrong fucking way.
	Damn, I'm stupid.
	Okay, can you hear me now?
	I'm pretty sure you guys can freaking hear me now.
	Hold on, let me get that.
	God, I am retarded.
	It's all good now.
	Jesus, hell.
	17 minutes.
	All right, let me let me check.
	Remember, yes, can you guys hear me now?
	Okay, now it's good.
	Jesus.
	I feel like a retard.
	I am so upset.
	See, this is what happens when you have pussy on your brain.
	All right.
	This is what pussy does to you.
	It makes you a retard.
	All right.
	When you're empty, when a girl does that, you got nothing and you can't even connect a fucking cable.
	I am pissed at myself because publicly now everyone sees what an idiot I am.
	What happens?
	All right.
	Well, let me get everything.
	Jesus Christ.
	The worst.
	I screwed up.
	But good.
	I'm glad.
	I want you guys to see what happens.
	Okay.
	All right.
	Let's get a let's get the first caller.
	Okay, caller.
	Are you still there?
	I'm still here.
	Can you hear me now?
	I can definitely hear you now.
	Let's see if the live chat because it's like takes 10, 15 seconds or so for the live chat to show up.
	Okay, let's see.
	Hold on.
	Jews did it.
	No, it wasn't Jews this time.
	It was me.
	Perfect sound.
	Okay, yes.
	All right.
	And you are calling from where I'm calling from Columbia, man.
	I'm calling from Columbia.
	Columbia, Maryland or Columbia, the South Country.
	Bogota, Bogota.
	Okay.
	Bogota.
	And what is going on there?
	So, anyways, yeah, nothing.
	I just wanted to call in.
	I do have a question for you, but actually, it's just to give you a little background on me.
	I'm an older guy.
	I'm in my 40s.
	And, you know, I didn't, I was able to escape the U.S. at about 37.
	So I consider myself pretty lucky and luckily got a good job in a field that allows me to move around, move abroad.
	And, you know, I wish I would have done it years earlier than 37, but anyways, was able to do it.
	And I come in contact with a lot of younger guys, you know, that are obviously Columbia's on the radar, as you know.
	And a lot of more people are coming.
	And I guess what I would ask is, like, what would your advice be first for these younger guys that are coming abroad and they see Columbia and I haven't been in Ukraine or any of these places yet?
	And they're kind of like, wow, they're shocked, right?
	And I get this question a lot, like, how can I make this work?
	And what I try to tell them is, like, obviously have that advanced vision to kind of like prep your life.
	And I know that's hard at 21, 20, if you're in university and figuring that out.
	So I guess my advice or my question to you would be, what do you tell these guys?
	Like, what do you tell them?
	Because I mean, they're at an age where they get locked into college debt.
	They're screwed and they pick the wrong field.
	So what I've been trying to tell them is like, figure out some international gig.
	I know you guys, the digital nomad thing, that's a tough one.
	I mean, I know I've met a few that have made it, but I got to be honest, I haven't met a ton that are really killing it in that field.
	And I think it's starting to catch up in that area.
	I mean, I guess my question to you.
	My question to you would be like, what would you tell an 18, 19, 20, 21, or even mid-20s guy?
	I mean, you can obviously get a degree later in life if you need to be, but what would you tell them?
	What I would tell him.
	And I'll tell you what I've been telling them.
	Yeah, sure.
	I mean, what you want, ideally, it's best to get to the young men as young as they possibly can before they make a lot of mistakes.
	But if a man is 18, and I'll tell you what I told my younger brother when he was at that age, I told him, don't incur a lot of student loan debt.
	Try to, you know, minimize your extent if you can't even, if you don't even take on a debt that is, that is, that is good.
	Because when you don't have, have debt, it gives you the option to change your mind.
	If you have $50,000 in debt, now I graduated from college with only $17,000, but it still took me 10 years to pay off.
	But so minimize the debt.
	Go into a trade that has, if you can, if there's a trade that interests you, where you don't have to pay a lot to really get in.
	Because, I mean, how many 18-year-olds really know what they want to do for the rest of their life?
	I mean, it's very, I don't think a man really finds himself until he's 30 or something.
	So I would say, so really the main thing is not to focus on, say, girls, like, you know, approach a billion girls, but really just minimize all debt because that allows you to make a turn this way or that.
	So don't incur large student debts, especially for a major that's dumb, that's a humanities type of major.
	And if you want to be a doctor, an engineer, that's fine, a computer programmer, but still minimize your debt as much as possible.
	Because if you realize you made a mistake like I did, I majored in microbiology when that wasn't a real passion.
	Yeah.
	I can just say, oh, I'm done.
	And then I stopped it.
	I had a few more years of student loan debt to pay off, which sucked.
	But after that, I'm basically free.
	Yeah, that's my biggest one.
	That's just don't become a slave to the states.
	You know, they're going to own you through credit card debt.
	They're going to own you through student loans, take out a mortgage on a house, all that stuff.
	You're screwed.
	But yeah, basically, that was one of my questions.
	The other question I have for you, and I'm on the flip side, right?
	So I'm in my younger 40s.
	Luckily, people tell me all the time, like, you have to jackpop your job.
	You've got this option to move all over the world and make good money and blah, blah, blah.
	And, you know, I luckily, as I tell my friends, I come, I didn't buy into the fairy tale.
	I didn't buy into the marriage and the kid right away.
	And at a young age, you don't really know yourself.
	So I'm glad.
	I'm glad for whatever reason I felt.
	But my question to you, my next question would be, going to the next part of my life, and you're only, what are you, 37, 38?
	38.
	I'll be 39 in June.
	Yeah, yeah.
	So I noticed a change and I feel like you're feeling it right now.
	Like when I hit 40, man, the hangovers, I'm just, Jericho, it's taken a back seat for me.
	I just don't get as much out of it anymore, to be honest with you.
	But luckily, I live in a country of Columbia where I can bang young girls, man.
	I'm hanging out with a 22-year-old Venezuelan right now.
	That's fucking awesome.
	But my question is, where are you going to see yourself next 10 or 15 going forward?
	I don't even know where I'm going to see.
	I don't even know where I see myself in a year from now.
	Honestly, the way it is, I mean, for a guy like us, the thing that's driving us is one, we like to be free.
	We have structured our life to be as free as possible.
	But a little bit. rootless.
	We don't have a strong tribe.
	We're not as close to our family and friends as a lot of other people.
	And the second thing is, do we have this fear of missing out on having kids?
	Now, it's probably there, but at the same time, if we've spent so long banging hose, we know the true nature of women and we don't exactly want to dive into a marriage.
	Like some of the stuff I've seen, I mean, it's even a miracle that I could even consider marrying a girl that I think is the right one.
	I know.
	But so we're kind of, we have these two things that are driving us.
	We want to be independent and free with the least amount of obligation possible.
	But at the same time, we do think that maybe we could be a good father.
	And we do feel this rootlessness where, you know, friends come and go.
	We're not as close to other people.
	So these two, it really, I find that guys like us tend to have a stronger solitary nature than normal people.
	Normal people, they can't even be alone for a day.
	But guys like us, man, I can be alone for weeks.
	I don't care.
	Yeah, you nailed it, man.
	And that's where I'm starting to feel like I'm cool being alone.
	Like, I'm good with myself being alone.
	And I can tell, you know, I'm around people that struggle with that.
	And I'm like, I must look forward to my alone time.
	You know, I can only hang out with so many people so long.
	And, you know, I've met some of these rich guys that come to Columbia and they're cool.
	I've met some cool.
	I've met some dickheads, you know.
	That's like to be with anything.
	But I got to say, I think as I get older, I'm kind of getting more stuck in my ways, obviously.
	And, you know, I just know what I like and what I don't want to like.
	I don't want to waste my time on it.
	But I'll tell you what my plan is, and then I'll get offline because I've been talking to you for a while.
	It's going to get a talk.
	But so I've got an option here, and it's a kind of a weird one.
	I don't know if we've talked about this or seen it much on your forum.
	In Columbia, I've just found out you can actually adopt as a single man.
	And I've thought about that.
	And I've had friends through my work adopt and they can get young, young, young, or they can get a certain age.
	And I thought about it.
	I said, hey, man, just what you're saying, I don't know if I could trust being in a relationship with a woman and trusting her through the whole thing and raising kids and fucking them up, getting divorced and all that stuff.
	But I know I could probably help a kid come from a shitty circumstance and give them a great life.
	So I don't know.
	That's just an option out there.
	I know it's a weird one that you don't have your genes involved.
	You don't have all the DNA and all that stuff.
	But I've never heard this one discussed much, so I kind of threw it out there.
	Maybe you should get a dog first just to see.
	That's what I was going to say.
	Yeah, because it's a lot of responsibility.
	I mean, I hate to admit this, but I have a house plant that died because I just killed it.
	I watered.
	I swear to God, I water it every week and then I'm watering a dead plant.
	I'm like, how did it die?
	I water it.
	What else does it need?
	It's in front of the window.
	I killed a house plant.
	And now I don't know if I can, you know, maybe some men just don't have that nurturing ability.
	So that's why you get a woman who has that.
	I don't have to worry about making sure my kid dies or not because I don't know what I'm doing.
	So the woman does it and I just bring home that internet cash.
	Yeah, yeah, yeah.
	Things to think about, but I just thought I thought I'd throw it out there.
	But anyways, I'll get offline because I know you gotta get to them.
	But nice talking to you, man.
	That's a great one.
	All right.
	So that was a pretty good caller.
	I don't get a lot of guys who I don't meet lately a lot of guys who travel to South America because I'm not there.
	But yeah, I'm glad we got it to work after the cable was incorrectly hooked up.
	I actually have, I'll tell you what, what actually happened was I have a splitter that splits the microphone and the headphones because I have a one-input port in my laptop.
	And I got a new cable that is the same color as the cable I use.
	So I was, I got confused.
	So that's what that's what happened.
	And I'm sure that you really care.
	Okay.
	How's our chat?
	Oh, we had a couple super chats.
	Let me let me get to them.
	We had $5 from Zacatetas.
	He said, Ruch, did you see an Ear for Men's channel took a huge shot at you and Dan Bacon?
	I have no clue who Dan Bacon is, but I thought it was a cheap shot.
	Someone's taking a cheap shot at me.
	No way.
	No one's ever done that.
	No one hates on me.
	But no, I have not actually seen that.
	I don't know who Dan Bacon is, but that's making me hungry.
	Okay.
	So Free Thinker donates $5.
	He says, after returning to the U.S. from Asia, it's been hard gaming chicks in English since I use foreign languages.
	Tips to get my edge back.
	Yeah, this time it takes a couple of months.
	But maybe you'll find out after that that you really don't want to game and game the local girls in the USA.
	But yeah, that's one downside.
	When you travel and you experience something good, it's really hard to come back.
	So you are forever changed.
	Okay.
	So yeah, if you want to ask me something, the calling line is open.
	You can leave me a super chat as well.
	So let's go to the next caller.
	Hello, caller.
	You're now live.
	Hello, Rush.
	My name is Fabio.
	I'm from Italy, but Napoli, but now I'm living in the Netherlands.
	I have a question, Ruish.
	And it is also about aging because I see that you have no vanity.
	You don't color your beard or your hair.
	And how is it for you to go to a nightclub?
	Do people judge you?
	Or how is the woman?
	Do they make comments?
	Now, I must first say that as someone who knows a lot of Italian men, that is perhaps the worst fake accent that I have ever heard.
	But that said, since you didn't troll me, I'll just say that, yeah, one thing is I refuse to dye my hair or otherwise conceal the fact that I am a middle-aged man almost.
	Some girls are not down with it, you know, but other girls, as long as you stay confident, as long as you don't, as you don't handicap yourself, and as long as you make it seem like you're doing her a favor by talking to such an immature young woman who probably doesn't know how to please an older man who's experienced a lot, you should be fine.
	I mean, yeah, one thing I noticed, there has been an uptick in the girls with daddy issues that I have gotten.
	Like I'm getting girls who target me because I look older and because I represent the daddy that they never had.
	But usually, I mean, listen, if a girl made up her mind beforehand that she wants a guy that's just a couple years older, then there's nothing you can do.
	Even if you color it and she finds out your age, it's going to be done.
	But if she is open-minded and she's one of these empowered women who want to experience the world because she was taught experience is going to make her stronger, then one thing I like to do is play up the fact that I am the oldest man that they've been with.
	The last girl I was with, the oldest man she has been with, was like 30, and I'm 38.
	So that's a big, big jump.
	And that what that does, that weaves a story because the girls, after they bang you, they love going to their friends and saying, oh, he had a Donald Trump portrait on his wall, and then he did this.
	And then I found that he was 38, and then this.
	So it's like you're creating this really interesting narrative for her to go share.
	So honestly, there could be an age, I'm 45 or something, where, you know, I'm just so old that I can only bang MILFs.
	But as a 38, and you see me, how much gray I have.
	I haven't had problems with women between 22 to 25.
	I find it very hard to believe because as hard as to believe your fake accent, is it as hard to believe as your fake accent?
	No, I don't mean in a bad way.
	You know, I'm Italian, but I also live in Spain.
	Okay, can you speak a little Italian, please?
	Can you say, Roosh, I'm happy to be calling into your show today?
	Oops.
	Oopsie.
	Busted.
	Uh-oh.
	Como, origato.
	Oh, yeah, yeah, dude.
	That is all right, dude.
	Well, is there anything else?
	Is it probably Jay Dyer anyway?
	Rush, so you got me, but it's because I work for the FBI.
	I don't speak in my normal accent.
	You're laughing.
	The worst troll, man.
	If this is Jay Jay Dyer, your troll game has slipped, dude.
	It slipped from the first.
	My question is serious.
	My accent is not.
	My question is.
	So why do you have an Italian accent but you can't speak Italian?
	Because I don't know what you're talking about.
	And you furiously go out to Google Translate.
	Anyway, is there anything else, Mr. Italiano?
	I've tried this with a girl.
	Have you ever said to a girl, Domo origato, Mr. Robato, and do her robot dance, and then you get laid?
	It happened to me a couple of times.
	Yeah, I do it every single time, those exact words, and it works.
	Okay.
	All right, man.
	So I hope you have a good day.
	Bye-bye.
	I mean, listen, if you're going to pretend to be from a certain country, can you at least say a few words in the language?
	I mean, all you had to do was be like, sono Italiano, I like a pizza.
	I think I can do a better fake Italian accent.
	Ciao, bombino.
	All right.
	Okay, chat today is calm.
	There's not a lot of trolls.
	You know, it's that Super Bowl Sunday.
	Okay, let's take the next caller.
	Hello, caller.
	You're now live.
	Caller.
	And caller got scared.
	We have a super chat free thinker asks, I speak Russian, but Russian chicks in the U.S. don't seem impressed.
	How can I leverage speaking Russian to game them?
	Well, one, why would they want a Russian speaker if they left their own country?
	They don't value that.
	If they valued it, then they would have stayed in Moscow or whatever shithole there.
	So they are in the USA, not because they want to identify as being a Russian person, but because they want the status that the West offers them.
	You don't need to speak any of it.
	Okay, let's take this one.
	Hello, Carla.
	You're now live.
	Hi, Roche.
	How are you doing?
	Pretty good.
	How about you?
	I'm just fine.
	Okay.
	A long time follower of your stuff.
	Just want to say, you know, great job for everything you're doing.
	Thank you.
	Yeah, I just want to say, you know, really about the Rouge V forums, the Rouge V community.
	Really, it has become like my homepage for, you know, for some time.
	Like every time I wanna, I wanna, you know, Google something and find if it's like authentic or something, if people really like it, if I'm looking for that particular thing, information about, you know, traveling or, you know, anything else pretty much.
	I just, you know, Google it, ending up the Rouge V you know, took a keyword there.
	And, you know, it just gives me the conversation I want, you know, and it's very authentic and it's good.
	And just saying what you're doing is very helpful.
	Great.
	So thank you for that.
	And I just want to get your take on something a little different than girls.
	You know, I noticed you were you everything with a little bit big Bitcoin and maybe other stuff.
	I wanted, you know, the because I have a way of kind of looking for, you know, how to get more financial stuff, more passive income stuff.
	Not saying I'm looking to not work hard, but you know, I just want to get the Rouch V advice for what to get into, what to invest in in 2018.
	Okay, so you're talking about what to invest and how to increase your wealth, particularly with cryptocurrency.
	The bad news is I've only I don't I'm not an expert.
	I have not made massive gains through it.
	I also, I mean, I don't want to advise men, excuse me, on money issues that I don't know.
	Because how about if I tell you to buy this and that and that ends up crashing?
	Then you're going to be upset at me.
	So, but I can tell, I only like to teach or speak in public about what I know.
	I don't want to, I don't want a case of the blind leading the blind because maybe in a year, anything I did in crypto is going to collapse and I lose everything.
	So if maybe I do it for a while, like with girls and I understand it inside and out, then I can advise.
	But I can just tell you that for me, crypto is not a means to become a wealthy guy, but just as a backup, if either the US economy collapses, dollar collapses, if banking system shuts me down, if I can accept various credit cards to sell my books, if Amazon, they shut me down.
	So really, for me, I mainly see it as an alternative financial system instead of a way to make millions of dollars.
	So for what you're asking, honestly, man, I don't know.
	All right.
	I mean, I wasn't speaking, you know, particularly about Bitcoin.
	I just, you know, I think that's a good question.
	In general, listen, I mean, in general, I focus on my work.
	My strategy is to have a monthly income, and that income keeps me going.
	But what to do with the money I have, that's a weakness.
	I don't really know.
	So I just kind of stare at it and I don't really invest.
	I don't, for me, investing is not a fun thing.
	I like to make things.
	So investing and focusing on money, I don't really do that.
	And it's probably costing me a lot, but that's okay.
	All right.
	Okay.
	All right, man.
	Bye-bye.
	All right.
	Bye-bye.
	Oh, yeah.
	I don't mind if a caller rambles a little bit extra because today my energy is low.
	So it gives me the much needed time.
	And did you see earlier how Arnold was jumping up and down?
	So that kind of proves once and for all that he is a real pug.
	And I don't want to hear it of people saying he's not.
	Okay.
	So how's our chat?
	I think we got a new super chat.
	Let's look into it.
	Okay.
	It's Jeremy M. say, would like your thoughts on guys like Dan Bilzerian.
	Is he a bad role model or something to aspire to?
	Well, that's like asking if a Hollywood actor is something worth aspiring to.
	I mean, he's presenting an image of himself that is extremely favorable.
	He doesn't present the downside to his lifestyle.
	He doesn't explain how he got his money from his daddy.
	You know, so I mean, if you believe that he has all that money through playing poker, I have a bridge to sell you.
	And he also doesn't share that a lot of those girls that are in the photos, many are there because they want some of the action, but a lot are also, from what I hear and have seen, are paid.
	So, I mean, it's kind of like a best friend, like a friend of yours that you know, that they always update really exciting Facebook things, Facebook images, but you know his life and his life is not that is not that good.
	So I'll just say that if you gave me tens of millions of dollars, I have a feeling that I could present myself as really really exciting and going on all these amazing trips and having hotties on me.
	I'm pretty sure that I could.
	But then we would have to ask is why does he feel the need to show it?
	I mean, is he really any different than an Instagram hoe who just wants people to like on him, to feel the validation?
	So I kind of see him as a female version of that, even though otherwise the kind of lifestyle he presents in terms of women and working out and guns isn't bad.
	I mean, I don't mind that as long as he's not, at least he's not a soyboy, right?
	And Scott McDonald donated a full dollar.
	Thank you, Scott.
	Okay.
	Very good.
	Super chats are kind of low.
	I think you're saving your money for the Super Bowl party that you're going to have later.
	Okay, let's go to I'm scared to answer international numbers.
	Hello, caller.
	You're now live.
	Hey, Roosh, it's me, the German guy.
	German guy.
	Okay.
	So, yeah, you called earlier when there was a problem.
	But I think you had one other thing that you, oh, and so just for everyone else, he called.
	And so he's a German guy from last week.
	He's the young man.
	And he called to say that his mom and dad did appreciate the advice that I gave him.
	And we talked for a bit.
	And unfortunately, no one could actually hear that.
	But anyway, so I think you had one more thing that you wanted to talk about.
	Exactly.
	Well, I actually thank God that I wasn't, that people weren't able to heal me, that you basically told me to recall.
	Because over the time I could rethink of the question seriously to not waste your time or mine.
	So I've had, you know, one thing you haven't known is that I have gotten total up to my life, you know, only six, 17 becoming 18, up to nearly six rejections, right?
	About those six rejections, three of those weren't really serious ones, right, where I meant it, but three where I actually like, I was actually kind of committed to something, you know, where I actually kind of meant what I said.
	Now, I am in a kind of a smaller city outside of a bigger city, you know, like kind of a village.
	And in Germany, you know how German girls and men are like really cold.
	They're not really warm.
	That's right.
	Yeah.
	Everyone I've asked, you know, as a girl, they were all German, like all white, all German, you know, their whole family.
	And my father once told me that they don't, no, no German girl in a small village would ever, ever, you can forget that, get into a relationship with you simply because of who you are.
	Because maybe their parents would say, hey, this guy is an immigrant or has black hair or whatever, to which they would say, hey, well, fuck this guy.
	I always choose the white person.
	And this question is kind of more connected to the question I was trying to ask when people couldn't hear me is that when I asked a girl at any time, and that girl didn't really have a boyfriend by that time, even though I won't do that anymore to ask for the status, is that they would two weeks after have a boyfriend after just being asked by a person for a relationship.
	Like that always happens, you know, so those two questions are really connected to each other.
	Okay, so basically you're getting rejected by a girl and then like a day after you're seeing her get banged out by someone else.
	Well, yeah, I'm not sure if they get banged out, but I'm pretty sure they are.
	Okay, it's because she is not attracted to you.
	And can you mute the YouTube?
	Because I can hear, I can hear you.
	Oh, yeah.
	That's weird.
	Anyway, so she is not attracted to you.
	And then a man who was more attractive than you in her eyes liked him and then decided to sleep with him.
	That's it.
	It does.
	So an excuse of why a woman is maybe she'll say she's busy, that she's not ready for a relationship.
	That's bullshit.
	Oh, that's bullshit.
	If the man of a woman's dreams comes to her when she's busy with work and busy with her CrossFit exercising, she's going to make time.
	There's no such thing as a busy woman when a really attractive Chad comes up to her.
	So don't believe him.
	So in your case, it's just the specific case that they are not attracted to you.
	And as a young man, you know, you're still just finding your game.
	It's going to take you time.
	But yeah, you're going to have to focus on making yourself as attractive as you possibly can be.
	Yeah, and that's what I'm working on myself.
	Yeah.
	I'm planning.
	I'm actually planning by the 24th of April.
	You might as well market on the calendar to work myself to that.
	That's basically my birthday.
	And up until that point, I would want to be as attractive as I can be.
	And I know I will reach that.
	Well, it's okay.
	I mean, April 24th, that's two months from now or something.
	But I mean, this is a multi-year thing.
	This is something that you always, it's not like, it's not a goal that, okay, on this day, I'm going to be, I'm going to be a really attractive.
	Talk about like appearance, appearance.
	Okay, yeah, yeah.
	I mean, but it's an ongoing thing.
	It's like even me, I'm 38, but I am adapting to the changing environment to, you know, look as good as I can in terms of what the local girls want.
	And thankfully, I do have that look.
	But the point is, I mean, you know, I can see you're full of kind of this, you're full of anxiety, you know, in the sense that you want to be good.
	You want a woman, but you can see it's going to be tough.
	So you're setting goals, which is good.
	But I just think, you know, you don't need to stress out as much because you're a young guy.
	You know, I mean, if you were 27, yeah, but you're only 17.
	I mean, you don't need to be so anxious about it and goal-oriented.
	I mean, just continue.
	I mean, for you, honestly, a 17-year-old in high school or something like this, it is so much more effective just to make just to make a lot of friends and be really social and just ask out the girls who show you a bit of interest.
	I mean, you don't need like games such as me to pick up girls in the nightclub when you're 15 years older than they are.
	You don't need that.
	So I think, you know, you should focus more on being a social guy.
	Yeah.
	All right.
	I'll do that.
	Okay, man.
	There's one thing that kind of opens my third, very small question, though.
	It's that in my mind, and I think you might as well be correcting my entire section of my brain by this answer.
	It's that if basically I moved to a lot of countries when I was a young guy, you know, like a smaller child, right?
	And that led to this following, like, let's say, vision I have or the picture of how I see girls and boys in my whole year, you know, like year 11, year 12 of classes.
	It's that I can't imagine, or, you know, when you talk about girls getting banged out and everything, I can't kind of put that image you have when you talk about in your videos on this life or the people that I'm around because at some point I just don't believe it, but I know that you are right.
	Like, I know you are right when you talk about it, but I just can't believe it.
	Like, what the hell is the problem?
	Don't be too concerned.
	I mean, you know, try, how can I say this?
	I am right in what I say, but don't be too concerned with trying to verify what I say.
	You know, just kind of, because your environment is never going to be exactly the same as mine.
	So yeah, take the main ideas, but don't be so worried about it.
	You know, and again, as a young man, you don't need to understand women yet.
	You need experience.
	And for your age, the best way to do that is to be a social guy who people like spending time with.
	Guys and girls like you.
	They like hanging out with you.
	They like hearing your jokes and stories.
	So don't worry too much about game, game, game.
	Just be a try to be a little bit popular in the social circle that you do get into.
	Okay.
	Okay.
	All right.
	I'll do that.
	Okay.
	Thank you very much for your time, man.
	Take care.
	Bye-bye.
	Yeah.
	So I'm pretty sure we will get to him within a year or two.
	All right.
	We got a couple of super chats.
	Davis Arini.
	One day I will learn how to say his last name.
	Do bitches like smiley faces.
	I don't know, but I give them.
	I always do smiley faces.
	I really concentrate on which emoticon captures the sentiment, but I never send more than them.
	Okay.
	Andrew Larson donated five pounds.
	He said, eight different girls I've dated last year turn 180 degrees once they find out I am self-made financially.
	What's the solution?
	So they find out you have some money and they flip.
	Hmm.
	You know, it would depend on what type of vibe you're using to get them into bed.
	You're using Alpha Chad game to get them in bed, and then you're starting to tell them how you are a beta bob because you have some money and you can take care of girls, maybe they lose attraction for you.
	But if you start the vibe with a little bit of the beta bob and then you tell her you have some cash, she should want you more.
	So I think you may be doing a clash of game.
	If you start alpha, you have to be you have to stay alpha.
	But if you start alpha and then all of a sudden you say how, yeah, you are very stable and things like that, why would a girl who was attracted to you for being alpha be interested?
	Citizen Smith says, super fake dog.
	You go to hell, Smith.
	It's not fake.
	All right.
	We got Scott McDonald.
	He donated five.
	He said, Roosh, what's the best way to pick up girls in the gym?
	Hell if I know, man.
	For the longest time, I've been going to gyms with only dudes, which was good.
	But now I'm actually a member of big corporal gym.
	There's girls everywhere, and they're like showing everything, man.
	They got yoga pants, and now I'm thinking, oh, usually, from what I've done in the past, long, long time ago, is there should be some kind of friendly banter that's going on.
	And if there's a girl that you like, I mean, don't just pick any girl out.
	You should be able to identify her over the course of a bit of time, see where she is, what time she usually comes, and then maybe try to work in with her for a certain kind of leg exercise because that's what the girls do to get that Kim Kardashian butt.
	And see if you can get a little banter where each time you go to the gym, you see her and you say, hey, you know, and then you can start to feel out.
	So what are you doing this weekend?
	Or you can do the one and out where you just approach her.
	But I have not had good experience with that.
	And you don't want, and you want to give some plausible deniability.
	So she doesn't, if an approach goes bad, she doesn't be like, this guy is sexually harassing me.
	So I would do a slow burn where you target a girl and gradually in a friendly, be really, really friendly first before you can feel her out.
	And Free Thinker asks, can the rise of China as a superpower and the CCP's ethnocentrism and hostility to foreign ideas halt the spread of Westernization around the world?
	Well, if you consider that China and the CCP have been influenced by the West, by the consumer and materialistic features of the West, I don't think they're going to counteract it that much.
	But that's not my area of expertise.
	All right, let's go to this guy.
	Hello, Caller.
	You're now live.
	Hello.
	Yo.
	Okay, this is for member Messo, junior member, maybe a few hundred posts, even a few rep points.
	So that's very good.
	Nice.
	Log in daily.
	This is my number one resource.
	So my question is, given that it's been some years since you initially wrote about this, I'd like to get an update of what you do now.
	What is your template that you would follow in setting up a date?
	Let's say from the point of getting the number, we'll use that point of contact.
	It's basically exactly the same that I wrote in Bang, which is basically I get her number.
	I text her one or two days after, and I do like Two exchanges, then I just say, How about we meet tomorrow night or the day after that?
	And that's it.
	I don't chat with her because I mean, you're just giving, because I found out that even maintaining extended chats through texts with her does not increase the chances that she will come out.
	She has made a decision about whether she will go on a date with you before you even text her.
	She is either anticipating that text so she can say yes and clear her schedule out for you, or she just gave you her number because she just wants to see if you text her, you know, because she likes hearing her phone make the ding sound.
	Absolutely.
	I felt you, I figured you would adhered to that.
	I mean, given certain dynamics have probably changed a bit since then, I was going to see if you had found need to adapt in any way.
	I guess it's probably been, what, like 10 years almost since you initially wrote about that?
	Most of the adaption that takes place is meeting a girl.
	Meeting her is, yeah, because you want to really get that attraction as high as possible.
	Usually, if it's at least at night, I don't get a number.
	I mean, to get a number at night from a bar or club, unless a girl is like complimenting you and unless you just were tired and couldn't advance it.
	There's almost, I don't want to say there's no point, but almost no point to get a phone number these days off a girl at night that you don't at least kiss.
	I mean, there's no point.
	I mean, I would ask you, why did you get it?
	Did you try to take her home?
	If not, then no, nothing is going to actually happen.
	So during the daytime, getting a number, yeah, that's not a bad idea.
	But usually the most- Yeah, that's part of what I was leaning toward.
	So most of the most of the adaptation I've had to make in the past 10 years is just striking when the iron is hot, not just getting a number and expecting her to come through to that.
	Yeah, I definitely try and set it up within as narrow of a window as possible.
	I subscribe to, like, I guess it could be an original analogy, the coal-burning stove.
	It seems like in that interim, if I'm not constantly shoveling coal in there, it dies out.
	So let's say you get the number on a Sunday or let's say Wednesday.
	You want to set it up for a few days later, and that's the soonest day.
	I sometimes feel like, well, I have to, in those few days, have to pepper it with little texture or phone call or something.
	Otherwise, it fades away.
	Otherwise, fuck, you know, ABC always be closing.
	So you always have other leads.
	But I was wondering if you felt in the more recent times, given they have more options than ever with the online and all that, if you feel the need to sprinkle it with something to keep it alive.
	Otherwise, the hell with it.
	Okay, so usually I've started.
	I used to be able to text like three days in.
	Now I usually text on the next day at the latest is the second day, usually.
	So the next day I would text.
	Another thing I do, which could actually help, is I set the date at the end of when I meet her.
	So like at the end of it, let's say she's going to, her friends are insisting that she leave, she leave the bar and you're not going to follow her like a little puppy dog.
	I say, what are you doing?
	And say it's a Saturday night.
	I say, what are you doing tomorrow at 8 p.m.?
	Let's meet.
	Now, look at her face.
	You're going to know everything you need to know.
	She kind of squints her eyes or she raises her nose a bit, don't even get her number.
	But if she opens her eyes kind of wide, like she's like, oh, that's not a bad idea, then set the date, set the place, tell her exactly where to meet her, then say, in case I'm late, let me get your phone number.
	And then again, okay, hold on, hold on.
	But then you have to say, say this: say, look, I am an adult.
	I'm fully capable of meeting you tomorrow at eight o'clock.
	I am sure.
	Are you sure?
	Because if you're not sure, I'm not going to plan this out.
	So you're basically saying, like, look, don't waste my time.
	I'm going to be there.
	So if she's, I mean, she has to say, yes, no, no, no, I'm sure.
	Tomorrow, eight, I am free.
	Then you say, okay, cool.
	So let me get your number in case I'm late.
	And then you get her number.
	And then, dude, there are times I did this where I didn't get her number.
	I say, look, I'm not going to get your number.
	Tomorrow we meet at eight.
	Will you be there?
	And I've done this a couple times.
	And the girls show up, even though they could flake out.
	But I like to, again, like I mentioned earlier, I like to create a story that is different.
	So now she's going to tell her friends, he didn't even get my number.
	He didn't text me.
	He just said, meet me there.
	So I'm not telling you to do this each time, but I like to change it up a bit.
	And I always set a date to where it's like five minutes from where I live.
	So if she's if she doesn't show up, I don't lose out.
	Yeah.
	I guess, of course, a big part of it is learning over time to gauge her reception to it.
	And again, once you're there, you know, how better of a way to know if a girl is interested is if she's responding positively to your escalation and so forth once you get to that point.
	And again, just as you'd mentioned, reading the just the facial reactions and all that, learning to maximize the effectiveness, the efficiency of your own time.
	So yes, again, that was my question is what kind of a template you're running.
	And I figured, yeah, you kept it real tight and consistent.
	And I figured, you know, again, with all this online bullshit, it's becoming much more prevalent.
	But one thing I can tell you is that now when I ask a girl for her number, I look at her face and I know if she's going to show up or not.
	Because the girl, when you okay, if a girl likes you and you ask for her number, she should show excitement.
	She's like, yes.
	All right.
	A guy that I'm attracted to, he's making a move.
	He is a real man.
	I knew it when I saw him.
	She should show excitement.
	She should.
	But if there's a pause, if there's like a she's not going to show up, she's just not.
	In many cases, when I get that, when I get that, I don't even bother.
	I say, okay, you don't seem excited.
	Have a good night.
	She has to show up because man, girls have so many options.
	If she's not excited, when you're face to face with her, why is she going to follow through on a plan when you're not there anymore?
	All right.
	That's right.
	And there is my question.
	And thank you very much for taking my call, Rush.
	Great, man.
	Keep the streams going.
	Thank you very much.
	Thank you.
	Bye-bye.
	All right.
	Yep.
	That was a good call.
	We got into some game, you know, because I wrote my game books along, a long time ago.
	So I've learned a couple other things that are coming in my new game book soon.
	Excuse me.
	Okay Let's see how's our live chat Very good.
	Let's go to the next caller Hello caller you're now live Hi Roosh, how are you doing?
	How are you doing?
	Good.
	Yeah, I've just questions about your future book.
	Have you could you give us an outline or answers or sure?
	It is it's on the third draft right now.
	It's basically a reboot of bang.
	So it's basically 10 years later starting from from from scratch and dumping in this book everything I know everything I've learned.
	It's so there's some things that are the same as what was in Day Bang and Bang and a lot of things are different.
	It goes to a deeper level where you should understand things.
	Like you're going to get it and you're going to be able to connect a lot of dots about why you have to run this kind of game while reducing your learning curve.
	The reason is that I'm doing like a reboot instead of an advanced kind of bang is because to get to an advanced game, you can't get it out of a book because it's so environmentally dependent.
	It's really dependent on your specific situation.
	So that's why I'm not writing a bang part two.
	I don't believe it.
	I think that the best you can get from a book is to hold your hands to get into the upper intermediate stage.
	But after that, to go to the next stage, that is on you.
	You cannot learn how to bang a 10, a nine.
	I mean, that has to be you.
	That has to be something very specific about you, specific value that you leverage using your own intellect and creativity.
	Great.
	Okay.
	Do you have any timeline as to when it might be done?
	Let me see.
	It is February.
	I hope September, October.
	Good.
	And charge a good price for it this time, you know?
	No, it's still going to be nice and cheap.
	It's going to be cheap.
	It's going to be mainly the PDF.
	No, because I mean, you can either make money by selling a few of a lot, a few things that cost a lot, or sell a lot of things that don't cost much.
	That is true, but I believe in giving so much value to a man that a lot of them, even if they steal your book, they still feel like guilty and they end up buying that book or another book.
	Like there's a lot of guys that send me emails saying, hey, Roosh, I stole your book, Bang, but I bought your other book.
	So I think, you know, I don't want to control how people get.
	But yeah, I'm not so worried about that.
	I think I make enough from what I do that I don't really want to maximize it.
	So I'm not talking about maximizing.
	I think it's like you should get rewarded for this.
	People can always donate, you know, what they, if you're getting so much value, if you're getting more value out of my book than the price and you want to donate extra, that is fine.
	But it's not going to be an obligation.
	Okay.
	Well, thanks for everything.
	Great thing, man.
	Okay.
	So I think I'm catching a cold.
	My throat, it's feeling a little weird.
	All right.
	How's our live chat?
	Live chat.
	It's the Jews, Roosh.
	Great.
	All right.
	Let's go to this caller.
	Hello, Colera.
	You're now live.
	Hey, what's going on, Roosh?
	Hey, how are you doing?
	Doing all right.
	I just had a couple questions about how you see the future of technology having an effect on basically males and females and their interactions.
	So I'm sure you're aware of things like, you know, like artificial intelligence.
	And now you have like robots coming into play.
	And there's actually a lot of companies now making like real-life robots, robots that can talk and walk around and things like that.
	And in some Asian companies, or not companies, in some Asian countries, there are actually now sex robots.
	And this is starting to become a bigger and bigger of a thing in society.
	And it hasn't really hit like the Western parts of the world yet.
	But I'm just curious to see what you think about things like that and how they will affect game and so on.
	Have you seen the movie, the new movie, Blade Runner 2049?
	No, I've heard about it actually, but I haven't seen it.
	It's actually not that bad.
	I liked it because the pacing is nice and slow.
	So you can kind of, I don't like the action, action, action.
	But anyway, there was a sex bot there.
	There was a female bot programmed with AI to develop a unique relationship with Ryan Gosling.
	So they developed, so she developed feelings for him.
	So she had some kind of individual consciousness, kind of.
	And then he, you know, like she knew him.
	She knew what he liked, didn't like.
	She knew his past.
	So what we're going to see within our lifetime are bots that get to know you.
	You know, so you're going to have a female bot.
	I don't know if it's going to be some kind of, I don't know, hologram or just a box, like a black box with maybe a female image on her, but they're going to get to know you.
	You're going to have conversations.
	She's going to ask you how your day is.
	And you're going to be able to ask her things.
	And she's going to develop a backstory.
	So this is going to actually happen.
	This is going to target, first of all, men who are lonely, like very lonely, who don't have friends.
	It's going to target them.
	Now, once they combine that with a robot that you can sleep with, which I don't think is far off, and you can put, so what they're probably going to do, it's going to be just a plastic thing, and you're going to put on some kind of virtual reality headset.
	And then you're going to be able to see her like a real, a real human being combined with her AI conversational ability.
	That's going to suck up a lot of guys.
	A lot of guys are going to be in that.
	And I think, but I don't think it's going to target, it's not going to, it's not targeting guys who are getting laid now.
	It's not targeting guys like us.
	It's going to be targeting the men who already dropped out.
	So, but, but since more men are dropping out, since groups like MGTOW are growing, because to get laid for a man who's in the bottom 50% is very difficult, because that's going to get worse and worse, I believe this is going to be a complete game changer at some point.
	What that means to guys like me, not much, not much.
	It's not going to change much.
	I mean, getting good-looking girls is still going to be hard because the top 50% or at least the top 25% of guys are going to be in the game still because they know that they're only a few more approaches away from actually sleeping with a real human being.
	So it's not going to change things for me.
	It's going to change things for guys who are already not getting anything.
	Yeah.
	Yeah, I actually agree.
	But one way I see it is that like things like the virtual reality, I actually feel like there's going to be like a complete paradigm shift in society.
	Like people aren't even going to live their real lives anymore.
	And they're going to be so consumed by these things that they're just like, you know what I mean?
	Like societies fall apart.
	Can I ask you, I mean, with all the smartphone zombies that you see every day, aren't we already halfway there?
	Yeah, yeah, you're right.
	Yeah.
	I mean, we wake up in the morning.
	It's the first thing we look at.
	People are in physical clubs and bars, but they're on their phones.
	They are in a bar, but they're more focused with taking a digital representation of that bar in the form of a photo to share with others while viewing other digital photos and videos that other people that are in the bar down the street.
	So it's a little bit weird, but we must ask ourselves or accept that for most human beings, living a virtual life, a digital life is way more interesting and fun and enjoyable than living a real life where, let's be honest, nothing really happens for most people.
	Right.
	Have you, do you know what VRChat is?
	Yeah, I have downloaded that just to see it.
	And I thought if I was in that thing for 10 minutes and then I said to myself, this sucks.
	This is so dumb.
	Like, why am I, why would I do that?
	But then you see this game, how popular it is.
	And it's like, holy shit.
	So this is catering to someone who cannot get that face-to-face interaction or they're not so they can put on a mask on on online, not have to really make a friend, but still get into these fun little rooms and talk.
	So, but yeah, I can see why someone who is socially shy, socially, I don't want to say incompetent, but socially lacking, you know, they would love that.
	But I have to be honest, that's going to get bigger and bigger.
	I'm telling you, I'm writing a game book now with the full knowledge, knowing it's no way going to sell even half the amount of copies of Bang.
	And the reason is because how many guys between the ages of 18 to 25, how old are you?
	I'm 22.
	Okay, so how many guys do you see at 22 that are coming up to you and being like, dude, I found game.
	We got to go approach women and get some ass.
	They don't, I mean, have they done that?
	Like, have you met guys like this?
	No, I actually learned about you when I was, I think, 18 years old in college and I've been following you for past few years now.
	And no, not one person I know has ever met Shakarush.
	But when I was young, when I was in college, in my senior year of college, I met some guys that love going to clubs, hitting on women, grinding on them.
	And I met many guys that were doing this.
	It was a thing that guys did.
	It was like a rite of passage.
	You go to the club and you bang slots, you know?
	But now I don't see that.
	And I mean, the fact that you as a young man didn't get sucked up into the video game culture, into the smartphone culture, says to me that some men, there has to be an innate constitution of a man which rejects more of a virtual artificial type of life.
	I don't know what that is, but it's not, but I mean, for everything that you have faced in the culture pushing all this digital junk onto you, for you to find me and be like, yeah, I want to learn how to do this.
	I mean, I think that says you have some kind of natural resistance.
	Right, right.
	Yeah, I think it's like a self-awareness, you know.
	I don't know if you listen to Jordan Peterson at all, but he talks a lot about stuff like that with how people who really don't have self-awareness don't they don't even understand themselves within like the context of society, you know?
	Yeah, and I mean, and I know a lot of people want to try to solve this problem, but they're not.
	You're not going to because, I mean, unless you can start to take away the technological goodies out there, the smartphone, the internet, the video games, the digital screens, it's not going anywhere.
	In fact, as the IQ goes lower and lower, because the third world is coming, you know, the third world is still reproducing.
	The first world isn't.
	They're going to come, whether you like it or not.
	They're coming to Europe and the IQ goes lower and lower and they're going to be so addicted to it because it's really hard for an low IQ person to change the fabric of their lives in terms of achieving things.
	They don't have the intellectual brainpower to set a goal and do it.
	So you're going to see it get worse.
	I mean, you're basically going to see in, I don't know, 100 years, it's only going to take like 10 men sitting at computer screens to control the minds of a billion people.
	That is what it's going to do.
	You're absolutely right.
	It's really interesting you say that because I'm actually from a third world country and everybody where I'm from is completely consumed by like Facebooks and Instagrams and things like that.
	And they can't do anything in their lives that's worthwhile and kind of like pursuing some kind of a passion to either like find some kind of financial freedom or like, you know, help out themselves and their family.
	They can't do that because all their time is spent.
	Just it's sucked into all this social media.
	And they just, you know, it's really interesting the direction we're heading.
	And I don't want to get too racial, but the way that I was able to see where trends are going is that in Washington, D.C., I merely had to look at what the low-income black people were doing.
	I saw how they were like hooking up.
	I saw the type of game black guys had to run on black girls.
	When cell phones came out, blacks were texting way more.
	They were way into their phones.
	Blacks were pumping the music.
	So they were, they're really, I don't want to say, I don't want to get into the whole blacks have lower IQ, but a lower IQ people will tell you what technology is going to do.
	And notice how the whites followed that.
	The whites followed because the tech got better and better.
	So once the tech gets really good, then it starts to absorb the higher IQ people.
	So what you're going to have is, unless your IQ is like 115, it's going to be tough for you to resist.
	And it's a control tool, you know, because when you know that you can just keep giving these people a feedback loop of like dopamine and they'll just keep on coming back, it's an easy power tool, you know?
	But man, you know, uh, good luck to the man who's trying to change that.
	But this, these trends are gonna stay because I mean, unless unless you see a trend where the IQ of people go up, and this means high IQ people have to reproduce, and nothing's going to change, it's going to get worse and worse.
	Yeah, awesome.
	Hey, thanks a lot, Rush.
	I really appreciate your team.
	Yep, okay, bye-bye now.
	Bye.
	Oh, we got a little deep there, huh?
	Yeah, a little bit deep.
	The world, man, but I've made peace with it.
	I've made peace that, you know, the world kind of sucks.
	That I'm not going to achieve the magical good that I believe is good for me.
	I'm not going to meet my dream girl because she only exists in my own mind.
	In real life, a girl doesn't want to be limited.
	In real life, a man wants as many options as he possibly can.
	He wants the path of least resistance.
	He wants to play his games and have fun with the least amount of obligation and responsibility.
	He doesn't want to work.
	A woman doesn't want to be told what to do, how to live.
	So when we say that, hey, Hollywood and the media are programming people, this cultural Marxism is programming people.
	Well, it's only selling people what they already want to do.
	They already want to hook up with people, have fun, easy, cheap, cheap fun.
	They want to drink and do drugs because it's fun for them.
	So that's just kind of how it is.
	And when you take the black pill, this is where you go.
	You're like, well, that's just how human beings are.
	And if you're with me, like I mentioned to the caller, you have some natural resistance to it.
	Why that is, I don't know, but hey, at least we can see the problem in the same way.
	All right.
	Very good.
	Let's get another call.
	So I got about half an hour more, and then it is pizza day.
	All right, caller, you're now alive.
	Hello, hello, sir.
	I can kind of hear you.
	Well, sir, actually, I called you before.
	Remember the Canadian guy?
	You are the Indian guy.
	Which Indian guy?
	Because we've had a few Indians call.
	Sir, I'm not Indian.
	I'm from Bangladesh.
	Oh, okay.
	So then, no, I don't think I remember you.
	Sir, the mall copes.
	Oh, the oh, so you got so the mall guards told you to stop day gaming.
	Yes, sir.
	Okay, so how have things been since then?
	Sir, actually, sir, I followed your advice and then I bought your book, The Bang from Husband.
	Great, and sir, I like started to like improve myself.
	I started to join in the morning, and then I stopped smoking and stops.
	I quit soon.
	Also, like, I'm focusing on meditation, yoga.
	Great, starting to get game and sir.
	Actually, it's like I get some numbers, but whenever I message, like they reject me, you know, sir, you don't reply.
	Okay, uh, at least, you know, at least you're moving forward from being kicked out of malls to getting numbers.
	That's a good traumatizing for me, sir.
	Those days, like I was extremely new, sir.
	But let me ask you this: if you give a number to a girl, sorry, if a girl gives a number to you, you text her, and she doesn't respond back.
	Why do you think that is?
	So maybe actually I think that she just gave me maybe due to social pressure, you know, like okay, but why when you offer to go on a date, why doesn't she go out on that date?
	Why doesn't she say yes?
	I think she's not attracted to me.
	Okay, here we go, because she doesn't want to go out with you.
	You are texting girls who don't want to go out with you.
	Now, that's the easiest way.
	That's the most logical, direct explanation.
	So they don't want to go out with you.
	They're not attracted enough to you.
	So that means that they can get better guys.
	So you are not their first pick.
	They can get a better guy because if they couldn't get a better guy, they would say yes.
	Or even better when you meet them, like I mentioned on an earlier call, they would show excitement.
	They would compliment you.
	Are these girls doing that?
	Are they showing excitement?
	No, sir.
	It's like I have to push and push.
	Okay, okay.
	So they're not.
	You are showing excitement, but they are not.
	So what can you do so that the girls you are meeting are excited?
	Well, until your game improves, that's a long-term thing that takes months and months, but you are on the right start.
	You have to lower your standards.
	You're approaching girls who can do better than you.
	But sir, actually, I did one more thing.
	Like, I do not know how to say, but like, you know, sir, like on there was this post that like, should men go to, you know, like for money, you know, sir.
	No, I don't know.
	Like, sir, I'm talking about, you know, the world's oldest profession, you know.
	Oh, so you want to you want to pay for sex now?
	Like, no, sir.
	Like, you know, remember, like, the mall, like, I was, like, so burned out, you know, sir.
	Like, okay.
	Have you had sex ever?
	No, sir.
	Okay.
	How old are you?
	Sir, I'm 22.
	Okay, I would get a prostitute if, and when is your, hold on, when is your 23rd birthday?
	Can you give me just the general time?
	Sir, I was born on 1995.
	Okay.
	So anyway, let's I would say do one year of game and then if you don't get late after that, then go do whatever you want.
	But I think you should you have to give it a bit of time and focus.
	And let's say if you are a virgin, if you are a Bangladesh guy in, I think you said Canada, your value is not high.
	I have to be honest.
	There is nothing in Canadian culture which values a Bangladesh guy.
	You have to lower your standards a lot.
	Like start with a girl who's like a two out of ten and then see if a two out of ten gives you a bit of attention who follows through who shows up on Dates.
	And then, if she does, then you can upgrade to a three out of ten.
	And sir, sir, I want to say that one problem I hear from like, you know, like I would like, is that like when a person told me that like something, you know, the vibration.
	Listen, listen, you are not there yet.
	Listen, you are not even close to being there.
	You have to get your standards in line with what your value is.
	In Canada, a virgin guy from Bangladesh is a two out of 10.
	Unless you happen to be tall.
	I don't know, unless you're a really good-looking dude.
	But I doubt it since you're saying that you're getting numbers and you have to push and push.
	So you have to start from the bottom.
	Start from the very bottom of the pile and then work your way up slowly.
	That's it.
	There's no game in that.
	You have to, I mean, you got kicked out of malls because you're a two approaching eight.
	You got kicked out because you were approaching eight.
	It's a serious issue.
	And you have to work on your English too, man, because I can understand you only if I concentrate.
	So you have, you got, you know, you should probably focus on women from the area you're from first who you can speak in your native language.
	But you're going after, I'm guessing, white girls.
	Yeah.
	Girls who are actually like even like whatever like I can find in front of me.
	Okay, that's which is fine.
	But yeah, okay, so your next goal is to approach two out of tens first.
	Get them to be excited to meet you and then go from there.
	Because even without game, there should be a girl somewhere who is excited to meet you.
	Now, if you yourself are a two out of ten, you may have to even go lower than that, like a one out of a ten.
	Hopefully not.
	But I would start in the two range.
	Okay, sir.
	Answer one last question, sir.
	Like, is gym really necessary for upgrading?
	Is what?
	Working out a gym working.
	Yes, gym is very important because it makes you feel more confident while increasing your testosterone.
	No, sir, I should listen to like really skimmy guy.
	I have never been to the gym.
	Well, you, dude, you have to work on so much stuff, man.
	Oh, my God, dude.
	You, you need to go to the gym.
	You need to get bigger.
	You need to get your English better.
	Come on, man.
	You got to step up, dude.
	You are like, listen, I don't want to be mean to you.
	Anything I tell you is because I want to help you, but you need to help yourself first.
	You need to accept that your value currently is low.
	I hope in the future, if you listen to me, it's going to be high.
	But you're at the bottom, man.
	You're at the bottom.
	Yes, so I understand.
	Okay, and I'm not saying that to make you upset.
	I'm saying that so you understand where you have to work.
	You have to work first on yourself.
	Make yourself a guy that women want to be with.
	That's it.
	A cool guy.
	And one indicator is that you, in your city, you have some guy friends that like you, some lady friends, people like talking to you.
	People should like you and what you offer.
	Right now, you don't offer anything, man.
	I mean, what do you offer?
	You're just another cock.
	So what?
	Yes, Mr. Ray.
	I'm like big points.
	Okay, cool.
	Make some friends.
	Go to the gym and approach girls who are low value first to see what the line is.
	What type of girl is naturally attracted to you?
	Okay?
	Yes, sir.
	All right, man.
	Bye-bye.
	Sure thing.
	Bye-bye.
	Thank you, sir.
	You know, a lot of people in the chat are saying, you know, hang up on him and they're mocking him.
	But listen, you know, imagine you are him.
	You're in a new country.
	You are in the West.
	You want a woman, but you're just from a different culture and your value in the new place is so low.
	So I hope I did actually help him.
	I hope he calls back in like a month and said that, Ruch, I banged a lot of twos.
	But unfortunately, I think even a two for him is a little bit high.
	so he may need to approach like a 0.5 We have a super chat from, let's see here.
	Peter Prinsloo donated $10.
	Thank you, Peter.
	Thank you very much.
	Oh, all right.
	Let's get another caller here.
	I have to use a bathroom soon, probably.
	All right.
	Hello, caller.
	You're not alive.
	Hey, Roosh, what's going on?
	What is going on?
	And where are you calling from?
	I'm calling from South Europe right now.
	South Europe.
	Okay.
	Yeah, I'm American, though.
	I wanted to ask you, what guy or, you know, what role model do you have like who has shaped your worldview the most?
	Would you say it's your father?
	Do you have like an uncle or, I don't know, like a famous author or someone who like just really, you know, set you on the path that you're on or that you look up to in any way?
	So what's happened is that as my life stages changed, my role models would kind of change too.
	I remember one of my first role models when I was still in microbiology was the Nobel Prize winning scientist Richard Feynman.
	And he was like a scientist that was kind of cool.
	And I read a book about him that he went to South America and he dated girls.
	I was like, wow, a smart guy who liked girls.
	And that was me.
	So I was into him a bit in terms of being motivated to like work and travel and be the best man I could be.
	Actually, Arnold Schwarzenegger was another one.
	And I even named my real life pug after him.
	Right now, since I have don't really chase after girls, I'm not as ambitious as I used to be.
	My role models have moved more into the spiritual.
	So the two men, they are now dead.
	One is Alan Watts, and he kind of brought ideas of Zen and Taoism to the West.
	And another is Osho, and he's an Indian man who was very into Tao and trying to explain to a Western audience why you are in pain, why you are suffering.
	So I like to read their books and things like that.
	But do they help me day to day in how?
	Not as much, but I think they are very closely related to the Stoic mindset.
	And I've written a lot about that.
	So now in my later age, the middle age is coming, I am less about how to get things.
	I'm less about how to achieve things, how to bang more girls, and more about trying to understand the world I am in and accept the things that I cannot change.
	Yeah, I noticed that you seem like you're at peace now.
	You know, like you finally, I don't know, found whatever you were searching for, especially over the last two years.
	I noticed a lot of your posts were going in that direction, like you were searching for something.
	Yeah, I was actually when I started to see that just banging girls is just banging girls.
	It doesn't give you value outside of it.
	I started to think, well, the answer must be God.
	It must be.
	So I was reading the Bible and things like that.
	And while the Bible reading that gave me a lot of wisdom and I respect the teachings of Jesus Christ, I didn't feel it.
	I didn't feel like it could apply to me.
	It was, I just read it as like an old book that I have to take at face value.
	And I'm not saying that it's not true, but I just couldn't just put all my life into this book.
	I just couldn't do it.
	I have too much of a rational type of mind.
	That's why I moved into the Eastern philosophies, which give you practical things.
	It tells you how to deal with suffering you have right now without having to believe in a tale, a story.
	Okay.
	Yeah, I can respect that.
	If you have time for another question, could you speak a little bit more about Russia?
	Because I know you bounced around a lot in Eastern Europe and Russia's the big guy over there.
	What are your thoughts on Russia now?
	I know like for long term, you said it's really tough to live there.
	Same thing with Ukraine.
	But would you recommend or could you see yourself doing like three months at a time in Russia?
	Like, I don't know, maybe hitting it from May through, I don't know, October or something, like summertime when maybe people aren't as depressed and it's just like maybe a better mood there.
	Like, what are your thoughts on Russia?
	Just overall?
	Sure.
	Russia and its little brother Ukraine.
	To me, I would ask you is how thirsty are you for really beautiful girls?
	For real, for the opportunity, for the chance to get with knockouts that you cannot get in the West because they're really hot girls in the West.
	They're all into the, all into the sports athletes and the famous guys, right?
	So it's basically, do you want a woman who is really hot?
	If that's what you want, and some men want that because it makes them feel good because it's of, you know, for a man to be with a hot girl, it's a form.
	It's like a woman getting with the rich guy.
	It's a form of this validation.
	But me, I'm pretty content with a seven out of 10 that has the value.
	So for me, the values are important.
	But in the East, in Russia, this is like the most material culture I've seen, man.
	I mean, girls are, money is on their brain.
	And I'm not saying they're going to steal your money, but for them, they view everything from the perspective of it.
	And they view it from the perspective of, can he improve my life in some way?
	I mean, maybe not in the Moscow when the girl has like a good, a good job.
	But usually there, money is the unspoken pile in the table in between you two.
	So if you're really hungry for hot, hot girls, then for you, it's worth it.
	But if you're not, I don't see why you would go there because the family values is not better.
	Maybe a Russian girl has a lower notch count than girls in, say, Czech, Poland, the Baltics.
	But from my experience, you know, some of if you see what some of these girls do, you will see that the family values, so to say, find a wife is not necessarily better.
	Okay.
	Is there anywhere that's like a middle ground?
	Because, I mean, I'm not chasing after a nine, but at the same time, you know, I'm not, you know, heading towards the Western women and that whole mentality.
	Is there somewhere where you can get like a seven and a half that, you know, is going to be somewhat traditional and like, I don't know, appreciative, not like super strategic, I guess.
	Like you kind of said the Ukrainian ones and Russians are to have that kind of like, you know, can I do better mentality?
	Would a place like, I don't know, Kazakhstan or anything else in that region be an improvement?
	What I would say is that Eastern Europe, to get a decent girl whose values are good without having to kill yourself, you know, the problem to answer that is that Eastern Europe is becoming westernized quickly.
	So whatever I tell you now in six months and 12 months, it could actually go and change.
	But what I hear, a place like Serbia is not bad.
	Georgia and Armenia too.
	I would say those countries seem to have a bit more traditionally minded girls.
	I know a Serbian guy is going to be in the live chat and say, no, our girls are sluts too.
	But I would say countries where the sluts are definitely out and the odds of meeting a traditional girl are done is in like Estonia, Latvia, Lithuania, Poland, Czech, especially if you're meeting girls in the cities.
	You know, if a girl is in a city of at least a couple hundred thousand people, I guarantee, I can already tell you what type of lifestyle she probably has.
	And trust me when I say that these girls are not looking to just stay at home all day just for a man to bring home the bacon.
	You know, they want to travel.
	They want to have fun.
	They want to sleep with sexy men from Italy too.
	But I heard that the women in Armenia and Georgia, they look pretty good.
	And a lot of them don't sleep around.
	So if that's what you want, it really depends, man.
	It's so hard to answer this.
	You know, you're just going to have to get up and travel.
	Yeah.
	And it also depends on you and your game and the way you present yourself.
	All right.
	Well, thanks for taking the time.
	Yeah, man.
	Okay.
	Bye-bye.
	Yeah, it's just, that's really, it's really, one of the hardest things is to ask a guy, excuse me, to tell a guy where he should go.
	I can tell you where I should go, but every man's different, you know, every man's different.
	And a place that's great for me, for you, could be really bad.
	Like if you're a blonde-haired guy, you come to the city that I'm in, you will suffer.
	You will suffer because you look like a local guy.
	I mean, you can still get laid, but you're not getting any exotic points based on your looks.
	So, you know, but then there's going to be a guy who's in South America.
	He's blonde.
	And he's saying, hey, Rouge, man, Brazil and Colombia.
	I'm killing it over here.
	I'm like, oh, yeah, I am going to come too.
	And then I go there, and then I tell girls I'm from the USA, and they're like, you're a liar.
	Show me your passport.
	And they're already turned off because I look like them.
	And that actually happened there.
	So if you're in a country where girls think that you're lying about being a foreign dude, you should immediately leave.
	All right, we got super chats.
	We got one from Leo the Great.
	He said, do you spin plates?
	Which means to date several women at once?
	No, I don't.
	I can barely date one at the same time.
	When I take a girl out on the date that I'm sleeping with, I drain my balls completely.
	Complete drainage.
	I drain it so much that in the last nut, smoke comes out.
	So when you do that, you need a few days to charge up again.
	And I can't be like go out with a girl on Monday and another one on Tuesday.
	Are you kidding?
	By Tuesday, I'm still freaking empty.
	So no, I don't.
	I'm a one woman at a time kind of guy.
	Which is why I think if I meet the right girl, it's going to be very easy for me to transition to a monogamous relationship.
	And I did it.
	So it isn't.
	It actually is very easy for me to do it.
	Unfortunately, none of these hoes I'm meeting are worth it.
	Okay, so another super chat is from Darius Ashkani, Persian Big Schlong, PBS.
	Don't you forget it.
	That is what he says.
	Thank you, Darius.
	We're all about the Persian Big Schlong meme, and Dariush is really pushing that meme.
	Unfortunately, I don't see it catching on.
	All right, and we'll take one more call.
	Sorry for the 14 guys holding.
	We had some technical difficulties earlier, and that's why.
	So let's go.
	Oh, boy, let's see what we got here.
	Okay, that's a good last caller.
	Hello, caller.
	You're now live.
	Hello.
	Can you listen to me?
	Yes, I can.
	Hello.
	First, I would like...
	Oh, right.
	I'm from South America.
	South America.
	Can you say which country?
	Yeah, sure.
	Brazil.
	Brazil.
	Il Fallo, Portuguese, Muito Bang.
	Yeah.
	I read your book about here.
	Okay.
	Actually, I was going to say thank you for your books.
	It helped me a lot when I was traveling in Europe.
	Okay.
	So you are from there?
	You're from Brazil?
	Yes, I'm from Brazil.
	Yeah, I'm from Brazil.
	But I lived three years in England.
	Okay.
	And then what I would like to debate here is something that is really pissing me off right now.
	I've been to Brazil since I arrived from England for almost four years now.
	And it's so annoying the way that things here are.
	And all my friends complain about the same thing.
	Girls here, just thinking about money.
	I know that's pretty obvious, but like, say, when I was in England or Europe, I couldn't get dates.
	The girl would pay for her drinks.
	I wouldn't need a car.
	I wouldn't need to pick her.
	Would need to pay her taxi.
	Meanwhile, in Brazil, every day that I have, I have to pay for everything.
	Why do you have to?
	That's the main problem.
	If you don't pay, you basically don't get anything.
	That is that.
	I doubt that is completely true.
	So, are you saying that Alpha Chad, like a really alpha male there, has to pay on expensive dates?
	I think you are falling into the beta frame.
	You are showing them.
	So, why are you paying?
	Why are you paying?
	The last couple girls I've been with.
	I'm not receiving anything.
	The last girl, you're doing something wrong, man.
	You're doing something wrong.
	You shouldn't have to pay.
	Yeah, if you go on a date, maybe a drink or two.
	But I mean, you're doing something wrong.
	But see, I have friends that are really good looking.
	Say in Brazil, there's this stereotype for good looking.
	There's like blonde, blue eyes.
	That's right.
	You know?
	Yes, yes.
	That's why I'm not there.
	They are falling the same problems.
	If they don't get their cars, they won't get a good day.
	Mean, like, you can't get one night stand.
	Do you know that there are men from every single country that say the same thing?
	Guys in the USA are saying that too.
	That guy, girls don't want money, but that isn't true.
	Your game is not good enough.
	And so you need to focus on, I'm telling you this not to insult you, but you need to focus on game problems.
	Get your money, excuse me, get your mind out of the money issue.
	Focus on game.
	Focus on attracting her.
	Then the money doesn't matter.
	If a girl is attracted to you, she doesn't give a fuck about money.
	She doesn't care about a taxi ride because she's so attracted to you that she will pay it.
	You're falling into a beta type of frame.
	You're probably talking to girls about your job, how you're well traveled.
	You're creating this impression that you're a well-to-do guy.
	Now I want you to do the opposite.
	I want you to tell girls how you don't talk about it.
	jack, which was a joke.
	At all falls you for your dating girls because you're showing her that you have it.
	Girls cannot use.
	Hello?
	Yeah.
	Can you hear me now?
	No, he's gone.
	So don't show.
	Oh, I think that's me.
	Shit.
	Because the chat just went really fast.
	Oh, well.
	Okay, so anyway, I don't know if you guys caught that, but I basically told him not to show that he has anything.
	Show that you're broke and focus on being as attractive as you possibly can.
	Okay, so it looks like I did broke break off.
	Man, so yeah, today, anyway, so that was the last call.
	Sorry to everyone who I couldn't get to.
	We'll try again next week.
	Yeah, today was a rough day.
	We had some technical problems because Arnold put the wrong cable in.
	Arnold, I told him, set it up.
	He didn't do it right.
	So, yeah, I guess that I did have some kind of internet issue.
	But anyway, all right.
	So let's put Ruch Live number eight.
	Let's be completely thankful that we even had this because YouTube was about to shut me down.
	YouTube was about to shut me down for three months, but I got it back.
	So let's just ruch live number eight will always be remembered as the rough one.
	So we'll do better.
	And thank you for everyone who left a super chat.
	Thank you for everyone who's here and all my patient callers who dealt with the technical problems.
	And on behalf of Arnold, the real life pug, I will see you guys soon.
	Enjoy your Super Bowl Sunday.

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