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July 11, 2017 - Roosh V - Daryush Valizadeh
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All right, I think we're live now.
If you can't hear me, let me know in the chat.
And I know the video quality is not good since I'm using my webcam, but my audio quality should be good, and that is the most important.
So where do we get started?
I fielded some of your questions on Twitter and on the chat.
Okay, let's get started with rhyme or reason on my form.
He asks, do you think CNN will actually die?
Or will this be another Gamergate-like victory where nothing much changes at the end of the day?
The problem is there will always be a billionaire somewhere who doesn't mind throwing all his money in a outlet to push the narrative or agenda that he wants.
And we've kind of saw that in a way where Gawker died when Hulk Hogan body slammed it.
But then Univision bought it out and there's no shortage of gawker-like clones pushing the same ideas.
So even if we kill CNN now, that still leaves tons more outlets out there.
And for every outlet that you kill, another one I'm sure will rise up because there's no shortage of capital from the globalist sect that can constantly funnel money because they need some kind of narrative-driven outlet to push what ideas they think are true.
What I think is most important about the CNN attack is that it unites the right.
It creates a common enemy so we don't attack ourselves.
You know, because once Trump won, a lot of the people started to attack themselves.
I mean, a lot of people in the right started to go after the E-celebs and so on.
But now when we have a common enemy in the form of CNN, everyone's going after that.
So really, the only purpose I see in attacking the media is that it distracts us from attacking each other.
So that's pretty actually helpful.
Because if you think about it, since Donald Trump won, we really didn't round in terms of joining together and holding hands, singing we are the world and pushing our movement a little bit forward.
So I think that having a common enemy in the form of CNN definitely helps out.
Okay, a couple people said the audio is broken, but is it...
seems to be working on my end.
All right, so I think a couple of you here, so.
So now let's go on to the next.
Ali asks, are you planning on getting married in your lifetime?
I don't think you can plan that.
I don't think you can plan to one day meet the woman that you can have kids with.
You know, if you're open to outcome, then that outcome may happen if you do the right things to make it happen.
And also if luck is on your side.
But as a man who is 38 and who has met a lot of girls, if marriage or something approaching marriage hasn't even come close to me, then that's probably something that maybe I have to look in the mirror and say I'm just not type of guy.
Maybe I'm too antisocial, too independent, too this or too that, but it's something that I will definitely keep my eyes open to.
A lot of the things that we say about women in terms of how when they get older, when they're done riding the cock carousel, how they slow, they feel their biological clock ticking, and now they feel this rush after they're 30 to settle down.
That kind of happens to men too.
I mean, in a different way, not in the same way.
But, yeah, I'm 38, and now I notice kids.
I notice children and families where 10 years ago, I didn't even know there were kids anywhere.
So there's definitely something biological going on where your genes or something is telling you, hey, you know, TikTok, your age is getting up there.
And I think for me, 37 to 38 was actually a big step because now you're closer to 40 than you were 35.
So it starts to get on your mind, but there's nothing you can really do.
It's not like, you know, getting more views on a website or making more money where you just have to work at it and it's going to just naturally happen.
There has to be some environmental things in place for it to naturally happen in a healthy way.
So, I mean, that's out of my control in a lot of ways.
All right.
LSR asks, Roosh, is that location independent lifestyle just a meme or can it be a reality?
How can I get location independent money stream?
I know about eight men in the city that I am in, and they are all location independent.
All of them are either from England, Canada, the USA.
I know one guy from South Africa, and almost all of them have some kind of internet-based business, whether it's consulting, freelance, or they do some kind of affiliate marketing where they sell things, either their own products or someone else's.
So it's not a meme.
And I've met at least, I don't know, 100 guys on my travels that are doing the exact same thing because you have to understand the cost of living in a lot of these countries is very low.
I mean, my monthly nut is something like $1,500.
I mean, we're talking less than $20,000 per year.
You don't need to have as much e-fame as me to make that kind of cash.
So yes, you definitely can do it, but you have to, you know, figure out, you have to get into the internet marketing type of scene, either sell your own products or sell other people's or create a website that's popular and or a YouTube channel that's popular and sell and sell advertisements on them.
All right, let's go to the forum, see what is there.
Chios Boy90 asks, how can I find like-minded people?
Red Pill likes to approach girls, travel, and self-improve outside of the internet.
I do not like pickup groups in my town.
The people there just simply do not connect with me.
They're thirsty and have bad vibes.
How can you find like-minded people?
Usually it's through activities.
I mean, if you like traveling, you're going to meet and you go and travel.
You're going to meet guys either in hostels, hotels, and bars that are doing the same thing as you are.
You know, if I mean, if I like to play a sport and I go find in the local city other people playing that sport, chances are I'm going to meet them.
So basically, I mean, but the problem with us, a lot of men, a lot of their hobbies are really independent.
It's picking up girls alone during the daytime.
It's traveling alone to countries and renting an Airbnb alone.
You know, it's having an internet business alone in your room.
And this kind of, this trend is, it's linked to the social atomization that, I mean, everyone is experiencing.
People have less friends than ever.
So basically, you're asking, how in my individual hobbies where I like doing alone, can I meet other people?
Well, chances are they're going to want to do it alone too.
So what you really need to do is find communal group activities that other people that you can't do alone.
So whether it's throwing a frisbee to people, you can't throw a frisbee alone.
So find a frisbee club and boom, you're going to meet someone.
Maybe join a speaking club, a cooking class, yoga class, and things such as that.
You know, having independent hobbies means you stay alone.
So you're going to have to branch out, sacrifice that independence a bit, do a group activity that allows you to meet others.
High speed low drag asks, how soon are you releasing your sequel to Bang?
Okay, well, that book is going slowly.
I actually, I work on it every day and I log how much time I spend into it.
And so far I've spent about 190 hours on it.
So but it's hard to do more than one hour a day in the summertime.
You know, there's things to do, go outside.
But it looks like we're looking at a release in the end of 2018.
So it's a bit, it's a bit long, I know, but you have my other game books to keep you occupied.
But I just want to do this.
This book is basically everything I know about game.
So it's going to repeat a lot of concepts that you've already heard me talk about.
But I want one definitive book.
And Bang, I think the content lasted about 10 years of time.
And I want this new book, which the name I haven't thought of yet.
I want it to last 30 years of time.
So the advice to be men for 30 years, meaning if you buy it and you have children, you can pass this book on.
But it's going to take a while.
Okay, speaking of game, thinking out loud asks, what are your thoughts on direct versus indirect game and how to not fall into nice guy mode and instead build attraction?
You know, listen, whatever gets you to approach a girl, you know, if direct game, if you like it, then do that.
If you like indirect game and that kind of gets you approaching more, that's fine.
It's really how many touches can you make?
How many girls can you touch?
Because even if you go up to a girl with a dumb line and she likes you and you can keep that conversation going, something is going to happen there.
So the answer is whatever allows you to do the goddamn approach.
Whatever allows you to go up to that girl that you see that you like.
And if it's direct, then do that.
If it's indirect, then that's fine.
Since I'm not a social guy, especially in the afternoon, I mean, sometimes I don't say my first word until seven, eight o'clock at night.
Since I'm not a social guy, direct game for me works.
Because to be to approach direct, to go up to a girl, say, hey, I think you're you look nice and you look cool, that's that takes a social state that I'm not going to have in the afternoon.
Maybe at night I will after I'm hanging with my and I'm in the social mood.
I can do it.
But during the day, I'm not going though.
I'm going to ask her where I can find a supermarket where I can find something dumb.
And as I'm talking to her, that social mood starts to.
And maybe I can start to be a little bit more fun, chatty, and so on.
Okay.
So Raphael asks, what about having the perfect girl, wife of your kids, but you feel like you didn't experience enough girls yet because I'm only 20.
Well, first of all, Raphael, there is no such thing as the perfect girl.
There's always been an issue with how much experience do I need.
Really, the bottom line is compare what you have, what girl you have to other men, and just focus on her and the values that she's giving you, the happiness, the joy, the love she is giving you, and with whatever preconceived notion that you believe love and relationships are.
I advise you to stay.
I don't know at the young age of 20, you know, you're probably not going to want kids and stuff, but it's obviously on your mind.
But if you meet a girl and it's great, don't cut it off just because you think, no, you know what?
Even though I have this great girl, I'm going to cut it off so I can get more experience with easy sluts so that one day I can get in the future.
That's like that.
There was a, oh man, I forgot how it goes, but there was a story where a guy, a guy who works in a high corporate job working 80 hours a week from New York, takes a trip to some kind of island, and then he meets a fisherman there who doesn't work, who just fishes all day and so on.
And then the way this story goes is that the corporate man says, one day after I make enough money, I'm going to be able to quit everything and fish just like you and not have to work hard.
But you big idiot, you can already do it.
You don't need a million dollars to live in a village and to fish every day.
So whatever you want right now, if you're getting it or if you're able to, then do it.
Don't worry so much about the future that is probably not going to come because guess what?
Experience changes what you want.
It's not so much that, okay, at 30 years old, I'm going to want this.
At 35, I'm going to want that.
As you proceed in life, experience you have, no matter how small, changes what you want.
So what do you want right now?
Go for that.
If you have it, stick with it.
Okay.
Next question.
Thinking out loud asks, any tips on Germany in general?
I've heard it's all about social circles there.
Any experiences with day game?
Germany, I hear, has a lot of kebab now.
And the Middle Easterners from a lot of guys I've heard that have been there lately.
They say that you go in a major city and just milling around are these kind of Africans without much to do except spend Grandma Merkel's cash that she's given them.
So in terms of girls, I don't know why you'd go there.
I don't know why you'd go to Germany for a girl unless you speak German.
I mean, Eastern Europe, just the path has been laid out.
You know, guys are telling you where to go.
Poland, Ukraine, even the Baltics, the Balkans too.
Russia.
I just met a guy.
He said that Romania is actually very, very good.
So Germany, I mean, you know, I don't think I would go there.
Matt Forney, Return to Kings writer, asks, what's your opinion on the influence of homosexuality on the alt-light, alt-right, and other parts of the alternative media?
I think due to the fact that homosexuals cannot have children, that frees up a lot of time for them to pursue pursuits of power.
I think, you know, from my experience living in Washington, D.C., whether you're on the left or right in politics, there's a lot of gay people.
I think it's like a light for the gays, like light to a moth.
And it's just for them, it's a good fit for someone who, at least up to being able to adopt kids.
What is a gay person with high disposable income going to do once he's done partying?
Usually achieving power.
And if a man is gay, he is going to have that kind of ego and he's going to want to achieve some level of power.
So I think whether the left or the right, there's a lot of gays.
There's a disproportionate amount of gays.
And the issue with having gays on the right is that if we're going to push for a sustainable society that is traditional, at least a bit as much as modern technology allows, we should be able to criticize the promotion of the gay lifestyle.
But when you have a lot of gays, they are going to unconsciously prevent that.
So, I mean, you look at an outlet like Matt Drudge.
He gets a billion views every month.
Have you seen him headline a gays are spreading AIDS type of headline?
Or gays are, I just read an article that there's antibiotic resistance gonorrhea.
And do you think Drudge is going to say that gays are doing it?
No, because he is gay too.
So by having these gays, you kind of eliminate the news that, hey, gay lifestyle may not be a good idea.
Maybe it harms people.
Maybe it leads to the spreading of AIDS and other STDs.
Maybe it causes child abuse, at least in the minimum of having a pride parade and kids there looking at men gyrating on each other.
And I'm sure you've seen the videos of young children at these gay marches.
So I think that's at the minimum, we're not going to get the truth on the impact of what being gay is.
And Matt also asks, where do you see Trump going?
Do you think he'll be able to triumph over the deep state, or will he be assaulted, impeached, defeated for re-election in 2020?
I think Trump will do a lot more than any other conservative or Republican that could have been elected.
But because of a misstep here or there, or because he doesn't follow through on one promise or another, there's going to be this inclination from people on the right to say, Trump, he cucked out.
Trump didn't fulfill this.
Trump is cucked and Trump is this.
So I think it's going to be impossible for him to do everything.
I think he's going to do a lot, but in some people's minds, it's not going to be enough.
Unless he deports everyone, calls out the Jews and all that stuff.
I just don't think everyone is going to get on board.
I think Trump is good, good enough.
I don't agree with everything he's done, but I mean, he's better than freaking Hillary.
He's better than Jeb Bush.
I mean, who else out there would you have rather in the White House that would be doing a better job than Trump?
And really, there's no one.
He's the best guy that we got.
He's our first round draft pick.
And until you tell me there's a prospect in high school or college that we can recruit for the next, I'm fine with him.
You know, I don't have any serious problems with him.
I'm still proud to have that big, big ass Donald Trump poster in the back.
I don't know if you can see it.
He's the best man that we have now, though I do believe he is more of the 1.0 of what the right is going to turn into.
I think there's going to be a 2.0 that's going to be more extreme and that probably gets more done than Trump.
The only question is when will the 2.0 Trump come?
And it could be a member.
I just hope, I hope, I hope, I hope it's not, I don't want her.
Why are they pushing Ivanka Trump on us?
She's good looking and a good mom.
That's great.
But I don't, I'm scared they're going to try to groom her to be the first female president.
And especially with Trump inviting her on all these state meetings and so on, I can see it.
They're trying to push it.
They're trying to get us used to the idea of Ivanka Trump, and I'm not going to vote for her.
I mean, I'd rather vote for Donald Trump Jr., Eric Trump.
I would rather vote for Baron Trump before Ivanka Trump.
History has shown that a boy king with the right advisors can do fine.
So I'll take Baron Trump.
Let's see how the chat's going.
When is the next Kingmaker podcast?
Asked by Ryan Higgins.
You know, doing a podcast takes a lot of time, man.
It takes a lot of time.
And it's starting to cannibalize in my writing.
So when I have time, I don't know when.
Walter Black asks, as a person of Middle Eastern descent, how do you feel about the strong pro-white views of many people on this forum?
How do you feel about the comments from posters linking race with intelligence?
And it goes on, how do you feel about the anti-Islam and pro-Christian comments on the forum?
Do you think Islam will ever be defeated?
And, oh boy, yeah, this is, you know, to be a minority, whether black or Middle Eastern or Mexican, but to be red-pilled is tough because you don't want to be in the liberal camp.
You see that the degeneracy they push partaking in, like I would say, hooking up, is not right.
And you see how people are getting sicker, how they're pushing gays, and now they're changing sexes of kids.
You know, the left is not what the true answer is.
But you look at some elements of the far right and they want to remove kebab.
And they say, you know, all blacks create crime, and all blacks are bad.
And they basically want a white state.
They want only white people.
You have a drop of the Middle Eastern blood, or you have a beautiful beard like me, and you've got to get out.
If they achieve their ultimate goals.
So, and then you have people, even, but then you look at where things are going.
And you have to ask yourself, what kind of society do I want to live in?
Do I want to live in a multicultural society where, again, there's this sickness, this evil everywhere, where you can't find a woman to even have a family with because they're all paused out on,
you know, hookup culture and the latest Ariana Grande song, Scientist Tide, which is a song that's kids teaching girls how if you get banged hard, you can't walk completely straight.
Or do I want to take a chance on this far-right wing nationalist ideology that may not want me?
And I can say this, though.
I'm currently living in a country that is mostly white.
I would say over 90%.
And there is a nationalist strain here.
And the politics here is basically, you know, we need to control the amount of migrants that come here.
And there are definitely hoodlums, soccer, ultras out there.
And you hear stories of a brown dude getting attacked.
That said, I have never been harassed here because I follow the laws.
I don't try to change this country's culture.
I don't get involved.
I don't try to build a mosque here.
I don't start a petition to change a custom here.
I basically respect the host culture that I am in.
And I let them, the people here, determine how they want their country to be.
It's their choice, their option.
And I'm just kind of, it's kind of like you go in a, you stay in it, and you're not going to go in that hotel like a rock star and trash everything.
You're going to leave it in a good condition so that, you know, the hotel would like you to come back.
They like the fact that you come, you spend your money, you follow the rules, and you add value.
So I like to think that whatever country I'm in, at least now, I add value to it.
I don't take away, I don't take money from the government.
So that said, to answer how do I feel, I find it healthier for me to live in a country where there is more of an anti-Middle Eastern slight sentiment than in one where multiculturalism has gone off the rail to such an extent that I don't even want to go out.
I don't even want to live there.
So I rather take my chance with the right.
And one day it could be that the police or, I don't know, hoodlums, mass hoodlums, they knock on my door and they try to hurt me or they say you have to leave.
And if that comes, that's fine.
But I think living in a country where it has a little bit of that anti-immigrant sentiment, as long as you don't try to change them, as long as you don't impose on them, I don't think you'll have a problem.
The biggest problem is mostly on the internet, where on the internet, people can be really extreme.
Like, no, if you have one drop of this blood, you're out.
You have to be of the true Northern European background and this and that.
But in real life, if you add value, regardless of whether you're Middle Eastern, black, or what have you, there will be a place for you there.
So that's how I see it.
Okay, let's go to Isaac Goldblatt.
You often suggest men could go to Eastern Europe, South America, or Asia to find a more traditional, mentally healthy wife without considering their race.
What are your thoughts on race mixing?
Oh, dear.
I think at the end of the day, I don't want anyone to tell me what woman I'm allowed to fall in love with and have a child with.
And I don't think you do either.
Because if you get in to bed with the people who say that you cannot mix, that means that you start to limit your own options too.
How about if you're a white man and you fall in love with an Asian girl or even half Asian or maybe a woman who has an eighth blood of some other country?
Now you're not supposed, and you fall in love with her, but hey, everyone around you says race mixing is bad.
So I don't think that that's an approach that I'm going to actually take.
But at the same time, as a race mixed man, half Armenian and Persian, it's harder to be mixed because you have identity types of problems.
You don't really identify with either of the group that you are from.
So it's usually easier to be when your mom and dad is from the same country, the same race, they speak the same language.
That's a bit easier on the man.
Now, I don't really have a racial identity.
I can't because my mom is from here.
My dad is from there.
I was born in another country and I live in another country.
So I don't really use that.
But I can see how for a lot of people, having a racial identity gives them comfort, confidence, allows them to get a feeling of who they are.
Now, I don't have that, but I would want my kid to.
So if I have a kid in a foreign country, I'm not going to constantly push that, hey, you're a child of the world and multiculturalism is good.
I'm going to want him to really adopt the culture of his mom.
And I would want him to feel a part of where he is born and raised, or else he's going to end up like me.
He's growing up in an alien culture and decides to leave and float through the world for years and years.
So I think there is something to be said of having a racial identity.
But if you decide for your self-interest that it's better to mix, then you should be able to.
But definitely, I don't believe that the institutions, such as the media, universities, the government, should encourage it because we have to account for the individual pain a race-mixed person has.
It's harder.
You know, you don't fit in.
You're just out there.
You float.
So I think it should not be encouraged by the institutions like we have now.
I mean, I'm living in a country that is 90% white.
I mean, I can count the number of black people I see every day on my one hand.
But why is it I go to a mall and there is ads of black men and white girls like hugging?
I'm thinking, man, this is weird.
I would get it in the USA where that agenda could get pushed because there's a lot of blacks there.
But here there isn't any.
Why are there black ads here in a country that's mostly white?
So I think that kind of thing, if you want to say that a corporation shouldn't be encouraged to do that, I would agree with you.
Okay, Quantum John asks, why would a man that has the ability to bed many women advocate legal rape?
John, there was actually a typo in the article that you're talking about called How to Stop Rape.
It was actually how to stop vape.
And vape is when you smoke.
So there was a typo.
And I actually was trying to talk about how to legalize vape, the smoking.
So that's why, you know, some guy, he switched the R and V on my keyboard when I was typing that.
So this was a whole big misunderstanding.
It's, I wanted to legalize vaping, vaping.
Okay, new meta asks, what happened with your previous relationship?
You shared little details as to what happened in your blog.
Furthermore, do you think that experience has impacted your writing?
Well, I was in a relationship for approximately 15 months and it suddenly ended.
And I'll let you figure out why.
But it was an experience that I just have to allow me to give and data to make better decisions.
But yeah, it's one that I thought would go maybe all the way.
But there was some red flags I may have missed.
And, you know, when you fall in love, when you really have serious feelings for someone, you tend not to see the red flags, you know, or your subconscious, your heart wants to change that red flag to like a green flag or maybe just a yellow flag.
So maybe I missed some signs that led to an event which I decided it was best to end it.
And I think it has impacted me.
I think now I can really spot who is long-term minded.
Who can...
who is more resistant to the big city urban hedonism and temptation.
I think maybe in the past, I couldn't really judge the warning signs for a girl worth long-term relationship.
I was really good at judging what girl wanted to sleep with me within the shortest amount of time that I'm still good at that.
I mean, I can go to a bar and tell you which girl will sleep with a man within the next two or three hours just by the way that she moves and looks.
But now I think we're starting to, I started to learn that values dictate the behavior a girl is going to display.
If the values aren't there and you think that she's going to be a wife, you think she's going to take care of your kids, then you're basically hoping.
I mean, you're basically playing the lottery.
So you have a very small chance to win, but the values don't lie.
You have to really, when you're considering a girl for the long term, you have to dig in kind of deep.
I mean, you have to be a psychologist kind of to see what her childhood is like, see what were the experiences in her life that shaped her, that make her desire things now.
You know, if a girl has this high impulsive type of nature, if she likes to experience novelty and she had a father who never told her no, who basically let her do whatever she wants, and here you are trying to impose a bit of structure, but she's not going to take it because she's never had to.
So then you're going to have a hard, hard time.
But the values, they don't line.
And in addition, her previous and current actions don't either.
It's very easy to spit a good game on how you're a good girl or good guy, how you care about this or that.
But what do the actions say?
You know, look at a person's actions.
And even me, I can tell you guys a good game right now that's like, oh, you know, hookup culture is bad.
And for a society to be healthy, we need to focus on this.
But then you would have to ask me, okay, so tell me, how many girls have you slept with in the past year or two?
You know, you still, you, for a long time, you were traveling and banging girls.
How do I know that you're just not giving good lip service?
Do you really believe it?
So, you know, that's why I don't want to convince you with the words that I say.
I rather, if there's an action I learned from, and I think this will give value to you, that's fine.
But you really have to go by what a person's true actions are.
Anyone can speak.
Anyone can say anything to make you think anything.
But it may not be what the truth is.
So all I can do is tell you, this is what I did.
This is what I learned.
And this can allow you to do the best thing for you on how to live your own life.
Okay, Alt-Right Atheist asks, Hey, Roosh, are biracial yellow kids more neurotic?
I look gook bitches, but I don't want half-breed kids.
You know, there's like a meme that's if you have an Asian mom but a white dad, then the kids, they become losers or something.
But if the if it's an Asian dad and a white mom, then you have the Keanu Reeves type of archetype.
I don't know.
I really don't know.
But I think I don't, you know, I do think if to a boy, to a half Asian boy, his mom makes it clear that she hates Asian men and that's why she pursued a white man to breed with, how is that boy not going to have some kind of identity issue?
I mean, if I grew up and it was very obvious to me that my mom hated the race that she is from, hated men from the same race she is from, and guess what?
I am half of that.
That's probably going to make me, I don't know, have a lot of problems.
So if you do choose to go that half Asian route, if you find an Asian girl, it really, I mean, it shouldn't be a girl that just likes you because you're white.
You know, and I know a lot of guys like the white God factor of rolling into a country and because you're white with blue eyes, all the girls give you all this love.
But if you reproduce with her, her love for the white man is going to rub off onto your own kid who's only half white.
So just keep that in mind.
Okay, let's go to James Bond next level.
He asks, when are you going to organize the next worldwide meetups?
We can't do it only by ourselves.
We need a big impulse.
And so that falls naturally on your shoulders.
I will say there is a part of me that wants to enrage the world, that wants to do the meetups again, even larger, that wants to really go out in a blaze of glory.
That, you know, this is to, you know, it's almost like even if I die doing it, it would be a fun way to really go, to really trigger millions of people, you know.
But the reality is I'm not going to die doing it.
And it's going to make my life and the life of those closer to me, including people who read me, who want consistent access to my websites that are not, you know, hacked.
It's going to make everyone's life harder just to prove some kind of point that we don't really have to prove since people are meeting up anyway.
You know, we still have a way to meet.
A lot of guys on the form are.
So I will say that I do have a sickness.
I do have an itch that maybe one day I'll do it.
But the consequences of triggering the world is pretty freaking big.
I mean, I'm only now getting over both financially, mentally, emotionally, the outrage that happened over a year ago.
I'm only now feel like, you know what?
And I know I am because I'm starting to think of doing it again.
But I don't know.
You know, I want to do it.
But the world is getting crazy and crazy.
And if we do the meetups and there's some kind of battle on the streets where my guys get stabbed and killed, I'm not going to feel good about that.
And until I can guarantee safety, until I can arm, unless I could arm everyone in a legal way to defend themselves, which I can't, and train you guys how to use things, I don't think so.
i uh i don't think i don't think that that will ever happen all right Enoch asks, would you consider moving to the Philippines and having children there?
And someone else asks, hold on, let me find the other question someone asked about Asia.
Here we go.
Why go there?
Asked, you once said that you save up Asian countries like the Philippines for when you're older and you cannot get laid easily elsewhere.
When are you hitting up Asian Pussy paradise?
You know, it's weird.
When I was younger, I thought, you know, I'll get older and I'll go there.
But now that I am actually getting older and I'm almost, I don't think I will.
I don't like Asian girls.
How can you just one day when you're 40 or 50 say, you know what?
Now I'm going to start being a girl that I never liked for the previous 50 years of my life.
You know, and where I am at, I mean, I, for my age, I look pretty good.
The last two girls I made love to were 25 and 21.
So, I mean, I'm 38.
That's pretty good, right?
So I think because I stay in shape, you know, I have good game.
I go to the gym.
I have a beard that looks great, though it's turning white.
I think a lot of girls do kind of want an older guy that knows what he's doing that is fun.
So I think I can probably keep this going for 10 more years.
And then when I'm even older, I'm sure a 30-year-old is going to be fine.
So I think I can coast on game in Eastern Europe for a long, long time.
So I don't think I'm going to have to go to Asia like I thought I would.
Next question.
Have you read the Book of Mormon?
No, I have not.
Though, without getting into too much detail, I have had some experience with evangelicals and their game is pretty good in the sense of they know how to close you.
Like they, it's weird.
How game I've been in it so long and I cannot help but see it everywhere.
I go to a freaking church, I see game.
Hey, the pastor is running game, you know, and the way they try to get your contact info, the way they make you feel nice, comfortable, it's all game.
I can't help it.
So anyway, God, I guess you can conclude God has game.
But I did have some experience with them and they are nice.
So it's like the Mormon type.
But I think I'm going to stick to my Orthodox roots.
And someone asked about that.
Someone asked what kind of church I would go to.
So when I was about 13, I was baptized in an Armenian apostolic Oriental Orthodox Church.
So the Oriental Orthodox and the Orthodox in Eastern Europe is not exactly the same, but the difference is very small.
And when I go into an Orthodox church, I feel it.
I feel this is a kind of home to me.
But a Catholic church, Protestant church, Evangelical church, I don't really feel it.
I don't feel, and it's a feeling I can't really tell you, but it feels like I have been here before many, many times.
In the Orthodox Church in Eastern Europe, they speak like an archaic, I don't even know what that is.
And I don't understand anything, but you don't have to, you know, and you don't have the pastor trying to close you.
You know, it's not as social.
You know, they don't come up to you and say, oh, are you new here?
And we do this and that.
But it's more to me of a godly thing.
You know, it's like an individual.
You go in that church and you feel what you want to feel and you light your candle for your mom or your sister and that's it.
But the newer type churches that have the rock band singing about Jesus, if you like that, that's great.
I don't have any problem.
And those are the nicest people.
But I think I fit more into the older style.
Okay, where do you see the last place of Western civilization?
Though for how long?
I would say Hungary, Poland are going to be the two last ones.
A lot of people say Czech is, but Czech, man, that's the most atheistic country in Europe.
They're basically thin Germans.
You know, it's like Germans, but thin.
And they're a little bit smart with like the migrants.
But I don't see, I think that Poland and Hungary in the next 10 years, Poland probably, Poland is going to be, Poland has surprised me.
I mean, if you go in the cities, I've been, I've lived in Poland for at least a couple of years.
The first time I went to Poland was 2000.
It's kind of multicultural in the cities.
Like people, like you see girls that love the Western music, the booty shorts, the tattoos even, the hip-hop, my God.
I mean, people here love hip-hop and music that is just not good.
But something about it, get the meme into Poland about we bring in too many Muslims here experience a lot of danger and terrorist attacks like they're seeing in England and France.
So I think Poland and Hungary are going to last a while until I don't know.
You know, I really don't know.
I think the position of Poles and Hungary is kind of accidental.
Basically, they were able to stay predominantly white because no one wanted to come here after the Iron Curtain fell.
They were kind of poor.
Most people, they got up and left.
But the people who left, they went to England.
They started to send the money home.
And this was kind of, and it was growing and growing.
And next thing you know, it's the current year and these countries are like 95%.
And they have a bit of logic to see, hmm, if you introduce a lot of migrants that are low IQ, they're going to blow shit up.
That's all it takes.
That's all it takes.
So I think it was like an accident that Poland and Hungary have found themselves in the position that they are in.
But one comment I wanted to make.
The fact that a lot of what's happening in Europe was pushed.
Germany, even when they're not trying to be Nazis, still find a way to destroy.
It's the most amazing thing.
Either they actively try to kill people, they destroy Europe.
Even when they actively try to help people, they destroy Europe too.
I think Germans have some kind of self-destruction as a race, as a people that no matter what they do, they destroy.
And it's sad.
You know, it's sad.
And I've met a lot of Germans and through their inability to see reality or something, they cause a lot of pain.
And they're causing a lot of pain to the countries in Europe.
And when you hear the news that Engel Merkel is going to be re-elected, you're like, man, something, Germans are messed up.
Okay.
Let's see what we got.
EEB asks, what do you recommend to middle-aged white guys who have been red-pilled over the last couple of years?
Keep going and keep surviving.
You know, there's not much to do.
I mean, at the end of the day, down to is you are able to exist in a way that you see the truth.
Because that's all it is.
You know, why do we learn the red pill?
Why do we learn the true nature of women, race, countries, nations, God, all that?
Why?
And I think really, it doesn't come because we want to make a million dollars, because we want to have that virgin bride, which would be nice, the virgin bride that cleans our feet every day.
We come home and she rubs it and all that.
But it's really to have the best existence that we can, that is as aligned to our nature as possible.
And of course, our nature is shaped by the environment that we are in.
But I just want to know, I want to know what the truth of things are.
And sometimes the truth of things is knowing that you cannot find a truth.
You know, a lot of us have looked at science.
Come on, science, give me answers.
I need more answers.
Tell me the truth of this.
But then you see how science can easily be.
So unfortunately, science, I think, gives, unless outside of physics and math, I don't think it gives as much truth as people think.
I don't believe in evolution.
I don't believe, or I don't believe the story of it, how we got here was through the soup.
I believe there are some evolutionary processes going on, but I don't buy it.
I don't believe that this theory story of man.
It's just, it doesn't, it's just an idea.
It's someone's opinion.
And whenever you hear a new archaeological study that says, oh, we have new evidence that humans evolve from this, what they're really saying is they found a bone, one bone that doesn't look like any other bone we found.
And their computer creates a skeleton from the bone.
And then we have to now change our, or we have to accommodate this one bone to fit the existing theory that we already have.
All that stuff.
I just don't, I don't, you know, sometimes it's just okay to admit that you don't know everything.
You don't need to know a lot of why things are the way they are.
If things need to remain a and so be it.
And so as red-pilled as you get, there is a tendency to overdo it, to think you know everything, to think you're, you know, you know the truth on all these things, when really it should just come down to it's okay to not know, Just to use what you see and hear as what the fact is.
Okay.
Next question.
Isaac Jordan.
On the ongoing crypto asset and the possible benefits that open source, uncensorable, uninflatable, decentralized cryptocurrencies, applications, and platforms could provide to the dissident, well, Isaac, I am going to make a new crypto coin called King's Coin or just Rooshcoin.
And I will sell you a million of the Ruche coin and we will trade it.
But I think it's great, but I do think that this is still, we're still like an early stage with all the altcoins.
If you're not following, there's like, there's over 100 of them now.
There's a lot of them.
And every week there's a new one.
There's a IPO, ICO, it's called, initial coin offering.
And it's turning into like a type of game.
And it's like a wild west of stocks where you can't really control it.
And there's a lot of coins where it's hard to track.
And you can really conceal a lot of money.
I think, and we need to do commerce with each other, then these cryptocurrencies will definitely help out.
But in terms of a money-making opportunity, you know, spend time doing it.
You just have to research.
I mean, I think a lot of people, they read a couple of news articles on it and then they think it's a good idea and they buy in, not really understanding what they're getting into, not understanding how to protect their wallet from, you know, hackers and so on.
So if you're going to look at making opportunity, you really, just like you are buying a stock, you have to spend the time to research it.
But I think just like how in stocks we have like an index fund or a mutual fund, I think we're probably going to have that with the crypto coins too, because I rather pay money to a guy who knows everything and does the hours and has a team of and have like a fund than to actually me have to research every coin, how to buy them, how to store them, and so on.
Okay, now another question is, what are your thoughts on Jordan Peterson?
Has he changed your views on Christianity or the importance of meaning, responsibility, and God?
So a lot of people have been telling me to check out Jordan Peterson, and I finally did.
I watched several hours of his clips.
What's my mind is he is a smart guy.
Like this, his verbal IQ is insane.
I mean, he doesn't even have to think to speak.
Like me, I have to think.
I'm slow.
But that guy is so smart.
He's really a smart guy.
And I saw a video that his IQ is like over 150 or something.
And it shows like the amount of knowledge.
And you can say he is, he's an older guy.
I think he's like 55.
For an older guy, yeah, it's maybe easier to accumulate a lot of knowledge that you can spit back out.
But one thing I like about Jordan is that he can connect that.
So it's not just random facts that are in his mind that is good for it's he can connect it to create pretty good representations of what the West is and why.
And he mostly focuses on the attack from the far left, social justice, especially what they're doing in academia.
He's really good.
You know, I think he's really good.
Concerned about his somewhat materialist approach and you have to gain this, this, and this in order to be happy.
You know, I think a lot of that doesn't, I'm kind of off that Western materialist mindset where if I only had this, I would be, I would be happy.
I think once you achieve material comfort, there's not much more that you really need to do.
And you're going to find a lot of dead ends if you keep on going.
If you think, if only I had X, if only I had Y, and then you're going to get it.
And then there's going to be this feeling, you feel great, and then the disappointment that follows where you realize, well, life still exists and I still feel like I need something else.
So outside of that, which is a small thing, I think he's really, I think he could be like the professor of the dissident and continue to watch him some more.
But I think he's doing really good work and he came out of nowhere too.
I mean, usually you see someone coming up, but he just popped onto the scene in the second half of 2016.
And now he's like pulling tons of views.
He's like a rock star.
And no, that's, I think that is really, that is really good.
So I will continue to follow him.
Okay.
Matt Robb asks, what the fuck is going on outside there?
Demons flickering your lights.
I live in the red light district and where I'm from.
So there's a strip club right there.
So that's why it blinks.
So whenever I'm feeling lonely, I just have to go there and the beautiful girls like me for me.
But I'm sure if 4chan got a clip of this, they can probably narrow it down to like a street.
So hopefully not.
Okay, what do we got now?
Okay, Shepard asks, most people are familiar with Rolo's graph of SMV, sexual market value, that illustrates that a woman's value peaks in their early 20s while the height of the male value peaks in their late 30s.
Is it a mistake for a man to assume that his age will help him achieve higher sexual market value?
Now, I will say that I think Rollo made the peak of a male sexual market value that he created the graph.
So I'm 36.
The peak of male sexual value is 36.
So he kind of pulled a number out of his.
And the thing is, if you use game, if you use cold approach game, where a girl evaluates you based on your conversation, your income, your style, generally speaking, your cold approach game will peak around 35.
But if you don't use cold approach game, which most guys don't, most guys don't, your will peak when you have the most access to young girls, to young as in 18 to 25.
So therefore, for most guys, their sexual market value peaks in high school.
I'm sure you know guys after college, they don't get girls because they don't approach girls because it's really hard to do that.
So that graph only applies if you do game.
So for me, yes, something like this chart, it did apply.
But if I didn't approach girls, then really whatever I got when I was 21, that's going to be the absolute peak value that I see.
And you have to think that a lot of guys, normal guys, too, they meet a girl in their college class and she's 21 and they hit it off.
He doesn't have game, but she likes him.
That's going to be the best girl he can get in his life.
He's not going to be able to get hotter.
But he is young.
But look, most guys are not going to learn game.
They're not going to approach girls.
They're not going to do day game.
They're not going to travel.
You know, this is something that only maybe 2% of men do.
So therefore, for that guy, if you give that guy, the 22-year-old guy, a speech that says, hey, man, you're only 22.
And yeah, your 21-year-old girlfriend, she loves you and she's great, but you're going to get hotter girls when you get older.
He may not.
There's no guarantee.
In fact, if he's an average guy, that's going to be the hottest girl that he ever gets.
So you have to be very careful with advising young men who have girlfriends that love them.
That you should not, you're still young.
You should wait till you're, don't get married before you're this age.
Now, this is logical advice from a guy who runs game.
When you run game, yeah, you're going to get the hottest girl ever probably.
For me, even at 36, I was able to get a girlfriend that for me was one of the best that I've ever had.
But I can feel it now.
I'm 38 and the hair is white.
And girls are asking me how old I am.
And I don't really want to color my hair and things like that.
So I'm going to start to see a slight dip.
So the average age of girls I'm going to be able to go out with now is going to start to go up.
White Wolf asks, Roosh, do you think the EU could collapse within four years?
I mean, anything could collapse.
Do I think it's going to collapse in four years?
I don't think so.
England leaving the EU was a kind of accident.
I don't think they're going to allow that to happen.
I think Eastern Europe is too addicted to the Brussels money to really quit.
I think they're going to say a lot of big words about not wanting to accept migrants.
But, you know, money is the root of all evil.
And if you want someone to do an evil thing, just offer them a lot of cash.
That seems to work.
Okay, next question.
getting a little bit tired but uh let's see ringo asks i've been putting in a lot of effort into gaming girls and i feel like i'm leveling up
I can already get one-night stands frequently, and I haven't had a girl I take out with not have sex with me in years.
Quality has been improving, and I can maintain multiple girls at once.
What were your game landmarks?
How did you realize your game was that advanced?
What are the landmarks players should look for?
So this question is like in I'm competing with men.
I'm competing with you.
I'm not caring about the satisfaction of girls I have, but I want to know how I am performing like an athlete.
I want to see what my points per game is.
I don't want to go that in that route.
I stopped.
So speaking of a landmark, the beginning of the end for me was when I was in Croatia in 2012.
It was in the summer.
I was in the capital.
And I decided that I needed to sleep with two girls in one day.
I went to the bar and I lived like a block away.
I met a girl and she liked me.
Half an hour, I said, how about we go for a walk?
Tell your friends you'll be back soon.
And she said, sure.
And I walked, I live there.
I said, hey, you know, I actually live right here.
How about we get a drink?
And she said, sure.
Another.
And at the end of the sex act, her friends are like, where are you?
Where are you?
So she went and left.
It was really quick.
Another girl I had been talking to, but didn't sleep with, she was out.
And I texted her, even though I was satisfied, I just had a pretty, it was good.
But here I am.
My ego wanted more.
It wanted to feel like a man, two girls in one day.
So I went to the second girl.
We met up.
I brought her back.
Even horny.
I wasn't.
I just had sex.
And it was, I had to force myself to seal the deal with the second girl.
Even though I continued to game, I wrote books and stuff.
I can look back that that was the end that I did it mostly from this ego proposition.
Stupid.
It was stupid.
Like, wait, what am I doing it for?
Do I own game?
Do I use game as a tool or does game own me?
I decided that I wanted to use game as a tool to achieve happiness.
I didn't want game to own me where I just had sex.
I'm happy.
Basically half empty and I'm sex.
So that was, so then after that date, I started to ease into more.
But I don't think, I don't think there's a such thing as a, I mean, of course, there is a such thing as your game is a newbie level game intermediate.
But I mean, unless you're banging, there's no such thing.
It's basically, are you happy with the girl that you are with?
And I will say this for guys, and a lot of guys, when I meet them, they try to impress me on all the girls that they've been with, and that's fine.
But I'll say this.
One sign you know sleeping with a girl that he loves or likes a lot is if he has to keep going.
If you meet a girl right now that you like a lot, why would you continue to spend time with other girls?
Because that means that the girl you're with isn't satisfying you.
When a man meets a girl who satisfies him emotionally, physically, in a compatible way, why bang other girls?
I don't know why.
When I meet a girl that I like, when I meet a girl that satisfies me, of course I look at other girls and think I would sleep with her.
Of course, if that girl came to me and she said, I want to job right now, I don't think I would say no.
But to actively game, that must mean you haven't met satisfies you.
So I would say advanced game is structure it so you don't have to date multiple girls.
Structure it so you don't need to get a same night bang every day.
It should be in a way that you're meeting, maybe two, that you like.
Okay, so let's go see if, oh no, there's more.
There's more questions.
Arnold, I don't know if you guys can see Arnold.
He's in the back there.
He's just, he is a real pug, but he doesn't like to move a lot on camera.
He's shy.
He doesn't move.
Okay, mercenary asks, there is too much pessimism and negativity in the manosphere regarding our future as men.
What are some of your ideas to bring back a positive, optimistic view of things so that we do not, well, it is your that there is too much pessimism.
There is no objective way to know if there is.
If the world is in a tough shape right now of degeneracy we've seen in a long time unreasonable for there to be some negativity in the air because that negativity is a reflection of the reality.
That said, we have to ask ourselves, where does hope come into play?
I think, you know, a bottom, I mean, how can you ask men to be to be hopeful?
Like, how can you really say, hey, man, even though the girls are a wasteland, most girls are fat, tatted up, even though kids are changing their sex, even though the government is spying on us, our government is actively harming us.
I want you to stay optimistic.
I think that's an unreasonable thing to ask.
So if you want to be optimistic, give that movement a reason to be.
And I'm just a part of it too.
So what you want the movement to be.
You know, it's kind of like a JFK.
Ask not what your country can do for you.
Ask not what the movement can do for you.
You're a part of it.
So if you want the movement to be optimistic, then you can start with yourself by taking a listen to the Michael Jackson song, Man in the Mirror.
Look at yourself and make that change.
Okay.
Brobe asks, at what point should a man stop chasing casual sex and hitting the club on building more meaningful connections when you don't want to go to the club anymore?
You know, I think there's a time span for everything.
There's a time span for having fun.
And you will one day just say, you know what, I really don't want to go to the club anymore.
Then you don't have to go.
But is there every man, he grows at a different pace.
No man is the same as another man.
You're not walking down the same path as someone else.
Already created your own timeline.
So the only person that can answer that is you, and you'll know.
All right, let's see how the chat is going.
I didn't look at the chat in a while.
Okay, hi, Rush.
I'm an 18-year-old British chap talking to a lovely nationalist, conservative, Christian, Polish girl online.
How can I make her mine?
I would like to move to Poland as well, by the way, bro.
Well, you don't want to count your chickens before they hatch yet.
I would advise to meet with her first and see if she is the lovely nationalist, conservative, Christian girl that you think that she is.
But I know it's, you know, and you get excited.
You get, even me now, sometimes I get more excited when I see a pug outside than I see a girl.
But you do get excited and you think of her.
You think that I hope this can work.
But unfortunately, if you use social circle game instead of cold approach game, this is still a numbers game.
You still have to plow through or test maybe a certain amount of girls before you get the one that you like.
So I would say don't get your hopes up.
Take it one step at a time first.
All right.
Here's.
Here's one.
I am 40 kilograms overweight.
Continue to do day game or stop because if you are 40 kilograms overweight, for those of you in the USA, that's about 90 pounds.
90 pounds overweight, man.
Your value from girls is extremely low.
I would say your priority is losing the weight because it says a lot.
I mean, you're just basically, I think you honestly, it would be easier for a skinny man in a wheelchair to day game than a guy who's 90 pounds overweight.
So get your weight, find out what the root cause problems are, solve that.
And if you lose two pounds every week, you can get that solved in like a year.
But it's hard to really, I mean, unless you're approaching fat girls too, but I don't know any guy who likes that.
Okay.
Earlier question.
Thinking out loud, asks, any experienced banging girls that have or had have this right.
Okay.
Any experienced banging girls that have a boyfriend or are?
Have you ever gotten numbers from those girls with their boyfriend husband nearby?
Get moral on you and say oh, I don't sleep with girls who have a boyfriend because I'm a good guy, I'm not gonna.
But I'm gonna say I don't want to share with another guy and I get it.
If you are just want to sleep with her only one time and you don't care, then you want that, but I don't want to share.
It's uh, it's kind of one step before watching her get banged, some other guy.
So I don't do that.
If once I actually, I know I cost myself a lot of bangs by asking girls if she has a guy.
And if she does, I say, I hope you have a good night.
I don't want it.
I don't want it.
And I don't want the drama either.
And attention from one guy.
Why would I gas her ego up even more by and guy to go after her?
You know, it's like, no, she's already, there's enough single girls out there where I don't need to gas her head up to make her feel like, wow, all these guys like me.
So I can't really give you tips, man.
But actually, the one tip I will give you is if you're thinking of getting a number, you're doing it wrong.
Because for girls who are going to cheat, usually it's an impulsive thing.
Usually she's at a club on a girl's night out with her friends and you have to do it that same night, you know, striking when the iron is hot.
But if you are getting a number on a girl who has a boyfriend, she's not going to write back.
So I know guys that do pursue that angle.
And from what I know, since I don't do it, you have to, in time you meet her, you have to do it.
Okay, we'll do a couple more since it's been almost 90 minutes.
Then I'll call it a night.
Okay.
Inertio Cisco asks, Do you find it difficult to sleep with women with a higher masculine polarity?
Find it difficult to sleep with masculine girls.
Yes, yes.
I do.
You know, and actually, I was walking down the street earlier and I was asking myself, what does it mean man?
What truly at the bottom masculinity?
And really, there's only two things to provide for your family and tribe and to protect them.
Masculinity is to provide and to protect.
That's it.
And a lot of effects come from that strength, manliness in some way, knowing how to kill, maybe taking care of your kids, making sure they have a good home, and so on and so forth.
But I think just it just comes down to that.
The problem we have right now is that women are being protected by the government and being provided for by menial jobs.
So really are having their man needs served by not us.
So that's why we need game need us to protect them.
A woman doesn't need us to provide us for our masculinity.
Don't actually have it.
So what does a woman need us for?
Novelty, status, attention.
So a lot of game is really not being a man.
This is why I've referred to game as clown game because you're not a man.
I mean, you still are a man when you do it, but you're just a clown.
You're entertaining her.
She doesn't need a masculine man.
Being masculine will only get you laid if you're attractive while you do it, if you look good.
And she feels that being with you gives her a status boost.
Show off.
But she doesn't.
But if you go up to a girl and say and show value that I will protect you and provide, you won't, because she already has those needs met.
The government and her job is already providing it.
So to answer you, I want a girl with the lowest masculine polarity possible because I am ready.
If I see a girl, doesn't need me, doesn't need me to provide for her, doesn't need me to protect for her, I'm not going to show that part because then I'm not going to get any sex, right?
So I got to be interesting.
I got to be funny.
I got to be cool, right?
I got to be, I have to look good, which I hopefully always do.
So, no, I, you know, and the weird thing is the more masculine, well, not weird, it makes sense.
The more masculine you are, the more of the girly girl types are going to be into you.
The girly girl types still, something about them be protected and provided for.
When you present these values to her in a subtle way, you don't go up to her, hey, my fair maiden, I'm going to provide for you.
If you do it in a subtle way, you will see that a feminine polarity really matches well with one.
Okay, so it looks like the chat has a lot of negative comments.
Let's go take a look at some of this.
Remember when this dude Kuhn said legalize rape and everyone for it?
Wasn't that a guess?
Yes, it was.
Let's see.
Rush, I heard you had an Iranian background.
Can you speak Farsi?
Man, Farsi Nimindunam.
That's all I know.
No, I can't.
Roosh, why do you deem egalitarianism a bad thing?
Are you in favor for Sharia law systematically?
Egalitarianism is a bad thing from the strong to give to the weak who then oppress the strong.
Since I can take care of myself, I don't need the government.
I don't need any kind of handouts.
I don't want to have to give through my intelligence, my work, to someone who hasn't worked as hard as me.
So then she can use that money to buy a billy club to knock me side the head with, to say what I can think and what I can do.
Are you in favor for Sharia law?
Sharia law is a Muslim code.
I am not a Muslim and I don't live in a Muslim country.
I don't believe Sharia law makes sense.
I do believe we need a patriarchal system to solve some of the problems that we had now, that we have now.
Do we get to a patriarchal mode without turning back the clock slightly on what women are allowed to do?
That's something else.
I think the West, and I have recently wrote an article, How to Save the West, and that's basically saying we need to at least start with removing the right to vote for women's suffrage is a necessary first step.
Does the West have the stomach to do this?
No.
Are they going to do it?
Probably not.
But if you want to, if someone comes to me and says, hey, Roosh, how do we solve the problem?
That would be the first step.
And since we're not probably going to do it, what you're going to see is going to slowly decline, decline, decline until a stronger, more patriarchal group comes and takes over through violence or through demographics or a sect within the West and patriarchal in their own right start to take over.
So you're going to get patriarchy whether you like it or not.
It's just a matter from within or from outside.
Okay, let's see here.
Let's go on the forum.
Kaizen asks, since writing your seven requirements for a wife, would you consider adjusting, changing any of the criteria?
Also, how do you feel about finding a girl that fits the bill in this day and age?
And I think the seven criteria I gave was she has to have, oh, I don't even remember.
She has to have a low sex count and six other things.
But one thing I'll say is that I think a lot of men out or think I'm not going to get married or have a family until all risk in doing so is eliminated and the girl is perfectly a virgin bride with perfect morals and values.
Guess what?
That's never going to happen ever.
It would be like a man coming up to you saying, you know, I want to buy a car that's not new.
I don't like the new cars.
And you say, okay, well, a used car is fine.
And then he says, well, I want a 1930s Model T.
That was the only age where cars were good.
So where can I find a 1930s car that is in proper running condition and that is not too expensive?
And you're like, dude, it hasn't been sold.
I mean, unless you want to be some kind of collector, you know, but you're not going to get it.
So what do you do when a man comes to you and says, I want a girl who has this, this, and this, and you, you mean girl, I meet girls out there.
It's like, you're not going to find her.
But at the same time, I'm not saying you have to try to turn a hoe into a housewife.
But how different are we than a woman who own grocery list of requirements she has to find a man?
And then she gives up and says there are no good men.
And we're kind of doing the same thing, right?
We are saying there's no good girls to do and it's not that we're wrong.
We are right.
But we have to understand that the kind of girl our list has doesn't exist or doesn't exist in nearly enough quantity to where it's even reasonable to try to go.
So how do you solve that?
How do you solve that it's the current year and 99.9% of girls are not suitable for what you want?
Well, I would say you can be upset that you're born in this year.
That's really it.
I have to, what I would do is identify for you the most important, like two things, two or three things that really you believe is the chance of a family breaking apart.
It's going to be a list that is pretty dang short.
So for me, she has to look good, not be a dang hoe.
And when I'm in a relationship with her, I need to see that, you know, she doesn't, she's not too loose.
She's not talking to other dudes, hanging with the wrong girls, drinking, you know, and things and things such as that.
But you have to have a list that is kind of, and I'm not either that or just accept you won't meet that girl.
I mean, every guy thinks he's going to get to an age where he can somehow now find the virgin girl that meets all of his standards.
That's not going to happen.
That is not going to happen.
Because the guys who are getting married with the virgins didn't even have a plan to.
They just happened to be in the right community or network or church, and it just happened.
If this is especially problem, small town, it is possible, all of you are living in a city of at least half a million, a million, and you know how degeneracy is a function of city size.
The bigger the city, usually the more degeneracy you will find.
So if you're living in a you can somehow move to a smaller town and see how it's like, you're not going to find her.
So basically, it's going to be a game of how badly do you desire being a father versus what can you sacrifice?
And you're not going to want to do this until you get late into the game after 35.
I am 38.
Haven't sacrificed.
I don't want to.
But if I want to be a dad before it's too late, I'm going to have to.
So we'll see.
We'll see what actually happens.
But I don't think, I think we cannot take the same road as a woman and have a grocery and get old and bitter and angry saying there's no good girls.
Have to accept the reality of the age we were born in.
And if we want to make it work in the best way possible, knowing we cannot eliminate the risk 100%.
Okay, off the reservation asks, will you do another state of man?
Yes.
Yes, I wanted to do one this year.
I was still getting over the February 2016 outrage.
And to be honest, for me to do a lecture, it would be more like a counter-terrorist operation more than, I mean, I would probably have to spend 10% of the time on the actual speech and 90% of the time figuring out how to hold it.
And it's kind of sad that we have to do it, but I've seen a lot of guys in the alt light have the same kind of problem.
So it's not a woe is me type of problem.
It's just, this is the time that we live in.
But I do want to do one.
I'm looking at maybe towards the second half of 2018 to coincide with my new game book.
So it'll be like a game thing, which I'm sure no one will want to protest that, right, guys?
Rouge Rape Tour 2018.
Oh boy, I should have said that.
Okay, let's see, do you do any fishing where you are?
If so, what do you catch?
And do you ever want to come to Hawaii?
Okay, I know this is going to sound like I'm soft, but when I was a teenager, I was like maybe 14.
And what happened was I felt really bad for the fish and the hook out.
Like I put myself in the position of the fish.
And I was like, man, that would really suck to have a hook mouth and someone kind of trying to take it out.
And I felt bad about it.
So I never, I stopped.
And you can say I'm soft or something, but I do like, you know, even when I step on, I feel kind of bad.
And I'm not a PETA person.
And I'm like, oh, you can't.
I don't, I can't actively hurt them.
If I was on a farm and had to grow my own food, I would eat far less meat than I do now, which is why, because I care for animals, I think, and my pug Arnold, I care for him.
This is why I cannot how women can abort their own kids.
I can't even step on a caterpillar without feeling kind of bad that I ended this organisms, you know.
And women kill their kids and then write articles about how great it is.
Is that not some kind of weird sickness or what?
If that's not evil, I don't know what is.
And you have women saying 10 years, my child, and it was the best thing I've done.
There could be a 10-year-old boy or girl that you can love and that could love you standing right now.
And you are celebrating the fact that it isn't there.
Now, I'm lucky I never was in the situation where I accidentally impregnated a girl.
So when I was 20 and definitely not in the position to have a child, I may have tried to urge her to, no, you shouldn't keep it.
But I guarantee you, when I get older, I'll feel like crap.
Like maybe 15 years after the fact, I could have had a 15-year-old kid.
So to answer your question, do I fish?
No.
And do I ever want to come to Hawaii surfing?
Yeah, if there's like a surf camp that a guy who can't surf, sure.
All right, let's take a look at the chat room.
I think the chat room got a little bit too aggressive.
Let me see.
Okay, here's one from Baitlord.
Do you think it is time to form right-wing paramilitary squads in places like Germany, Sweden, France, and the UK in order to save the West from the Muslim horde?
I think if you have to ask that question, it's probably a bit late in the game, peaceful impact in preserving your country.
But no matter how late in the game you get, if there is an option on the table that you believe could help, it's going to take a with the will and the fortitude to carry it out to see if it will.
So paramilitary squad will work.
Well, it will help that much if your targets are the Muslims.
Targets are who allows the Muslims in.
If you're going to the root of the problem, then it could help.
You won't be allowed to.
I mean, if you create a paramilitary squad to go after the politicians who open the door to the third world, oh man, they're going to come down on you really, really.
You do a paramilitary squad to go after the Muslims.
The globalists will probably support you to create a narrative of look at the racist white man killing the poor immigrants.
In fact, if there is a paramilitary outfit that's just going after the Muslims only, a globalist outfit.
Because why?
You know, if your dog takes a dump on the rug, do you get mad at the doo-doo that you see, or do you get mad at the dog?
Or do you get mad at, you know, who owns that dog?
So I would say go after the owner, probably, you know, if you don't own it.
If I invite Arnold to your house and he's doing poo-poo all over, are you going to get mad at him or me?
Probably me.
So if you're going after the Muslims, I would say, why don't you go one step up and attack those who now?
That said, I don't trust the media outlets that are anti.
It's not because I think Islam is good, but if you're only attacking Islam, the low-grade, low-IQ savages that are just following their own interests, why don't you go and attack the politicians who let them in or the cultural controllers who push biculturalism, who own the media and all that stuff?
Why don't you go after them?
So whenever I see an outlet that's like anti-Islam, Islam is bad.
Okay, yeah, and I mean, why don't you attack them?
So I think attacking Islam is the safe bet.
Okay, I'm going to attack Islam.
Who's going to, you know, it's just doing that is just going to anger the left.
But why don't you go one step up instead of attacking the dog for doing doo-doo?
Find the dog's owner and find out why he's letting his dog do all these things.
Oh boy, you know, I thought I was only going to do this for one hour, but you guys are asking some good, good things.
And I like that we're having a conversation right now, you know, and I hope you feel Good good good chat.
But some of the harder, harder questions now, I think I'm going to skip.
You have something easy and answer them.
Do you like fish, P-H-I-S-H?
No, I've heard of them, but BDSM lifestyle.
I'm not into that.
Okay, this is a pretty good one.
Alex Thomas asks, Rush, how much success would you have with women in the U.S. at your age as opposed to Eastern Europe?
Girls between the ages of 18 to 24 would be very, very hard.
Because one thing in the USA is the age gap problem.
Yeah, the girl thinks you are creepy.
Even in the Eastern European country I'm in, the age gap is starting to be a problem.
There was a 21-year-old girl that it's with, but the age gap, and I'm 38, so the age gap did me in at the end when her friends complained.
So in that case, you know, if I sealed a deal in a faster way, it would be fine.
But, you know, the only places where age gap really doesn't hurt you is Ukraine, Colombia, Southeast Asia.
I heard that those countries don't mind it.
But if I had to live in the USA right now in Washington, D.C., I'd probably focus on other things.
I would buy more pugs and get love from them because it would be, I don't want to date a spinster.
I mean, just because I'm getting older doesn't mean I like older chicks.
But I'd probably have to date girls in the 25 to even 35 age range.
But, you know, some girls can look great at five even.
Some can, as long as their body doesn't feel like a marshmallow.
But the problem is mostly the mental problems that they have from being pumped and dumped for so long for being an alpha that they wanted to marry.
I think that's a bigger problem than just how their looks go down.
I think, again, there's a lot of 30-year-old girls that can look good, but 30-year-old girl with her head on straight, I can't even find a 25-year-old girl with her head on straight.
And I think starting at 23, if you, I mean, that's the beginning of the end of the wall for the mind, for the girl's mind.
But she can look good.
I mean, you know, girls, they go to yoga and all that stuff.
But if I go back home, it'd be, I'd have to date older.
Ironically, I think I probably do just as well.
You know, a lot of people hate on me saying, oh, you left the U.S. because you couldn't get girls.
Actually, it was harder at first.
I got more girls in the USA.
If you read my first in Paraguay, I got like two girls in six months.
That was like the worst ever.
So it's really the case where I did okay.
You know, now I look back in the U.S. I did fine.
And in Washington, D.C., it is kind of international.
So I was dating girls from all over the place, from Czech, Puerto Rico, Brazil.
I mean, it was not bad, actually.
But so I think, I don't know.
Now, I kind of, I think I left, the reason I stay now is because just the main one is it's cheap.
I only don't have to work hard.
I don't have, I don't want to work hard.
Where I'm at now, the costs are about 25% of what I had to pay back at home.
It up wherever I want and not have to worry about money and things such as that.
Okay.
Francesco De Natale asks, Roosh, why are Indians so awkward and lack game?
In my experience, they seem to be the ultimate beta male anti-gamers.
I don't know.
You have to ask them.
Of us were a product of the culture, the environment we were.
If you look at India, it's a really dense place.
It's super dense.
And you have to create your own safe space to deal with the density.
And I think that probably impacts them in certain ways that we don't have to deal with.
But I would say that, you know, some of the Indian guys that were raised in the West, they seem to do well.
They seem to lose that kind of Indian mindset to do well with girls.
Other than that, all right, let's do one more and then I'm done.
Okay, so the last question goes to OKA.
And Rush, do you use Tinder?
And if so, what pictures do you use?
If not, why?
Actually, you know what?
That no, I don't use it, and I don't use it because internet game just go outside and go for a walk and talk to a real-life girl.
But I'm going to try your second one.
Roosh, what do you do to stay optimistic and happy besides game?
I don't have a goal to stay optimistic and happy.
Why would I have a goal to be happy when there is nothing to indicate that everlasting happiness is a permanent state that humans should try to have?
One thing I do is try to embrace what I hate or what I fear.
If I hate not having anything to do, I will not do anything for a long time and sit in the room for go for walks and just get used to not doing anything.
And it's not bad.
If I'm scared, I'll be alone.
I will put myself in an alone type of state where I'm not talking to anyone.
I go days without talking.
Okay, I'm alone.
That's okay too.
If I'm scared of this, I'll do it.
So I do the fear own me.
If I'm scared of being sad, I'll be sad.
If I'm scared of this, I'll do that.
So the point is not to embrace or get used to the things that you are scared of so those things don't own you.
Are you scared of not having a girl then?
Well, imagine how your life would be like without a girl.
I'm not going to get married.
I'm not going to have kids.
I'm never going to have sex again for the next 30 years.
And I imagine it.
Internalize it, that's okay, and die, that's okay too.
So the point is, don't be content, because if you're watching me right now, you're not aching for food.
You have shelter and clothes.
You already have more than 80% of people on this earth.
So the point is not to be optimistic, the point is not to be happy.
The point is to be as you are, in whatever room I'm in and with whatever friend I have, with whatever girl I'm seeing.
You have to accept.
I think in acceptance.
Now, in the Western mindset, acceptance is like a bad word, because you always have to be achieving.
You have to have goals, don't you know?
You need a raise every year.
You have to jump jobs, you have to improve your apartment, you have to upgrade your girlfriend, you have to upgrade your wardrobe.
It's never ending.
This is a materialistic mindset that goes nowhere.
Okay yeah, it makes your buildings in the western city so beautiful and tall, but while the buildings are beautiful, the individual souls that have to work in those buildings are.
So the way I get by is to get by with what I have, whatever I have, whatever state I am in.
Sometimes i'm just in a bad mood.
I feel like man this the the, the world is tough and things are getting worse.
But that's okay, because guess what?
Billions and billions of people have lived during times that were way worse than what I have.
And the point of it all, I think i'm not saying there's there's no point to life, but the point of life is life itself, the fact that you're alive and you can and see and feel and feel the hands of time, feel that time is me.
That's the most that I can ask for.
And if one day I die, i'm not going to know i'm dead anyway.
That um, just acceptance.
You know western materialist doesn't like that answer.
That's okay.
Let him work and strive and achieve and accomplish and ache and create all his productivity goals.
That's fine.
But for me, the the goal is not to have a goal of plan.
The goal is to think i'm doing right now, whether it's eating lunch, going for a walk, going to the gym, walking alone, walking with a friend, you know, getting turned down by a girl, getting not turned down by her, talking to a crowd of people, Or not, sitting in my room in my bed, staring at the ceiling and just thinking of things.
So I think that if you can accept and not have a goal of to be optimistic, goal to be happy, goal to be positive, I think you'll be far better off.
Okay, guys.
So I think that's all I have for tonight.
This was a lot of fun, and you guys asked me a lot of questions that were very, very good.
So I may want to do this again in like a month or maybe sooner.
So thank you for joining and think of a question that you can ask me for the next time.
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