Pearl Davis dissects why aging women struggle to "take the L," contrasting their youth-era status with a decline into coping mechanisms like gym addiction and therapy. She highlights a 64% surge in young men seeking older partners for stability rather than love, critiquing the "pump and dump" dynamic where men exploit women's domestic skills. Callers debate whether these relationships are genuine or ego-driven attempts to avoid aging, noting that while some find comfort, many fail due to a lack of attachment. Ultimately, the episode suggests society must confront the harsh reality that rejecting this narrative requires accepting diminished prospects rather than relying on younger men for validation. [Automatically generated summary]
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Sometimes You Gotta Take The L00:05:05
Take the ell, take the ell, just give up and say, Oh, well, take the ell, take the ell, just give up and say, Oh, well.
Now, as far as I can tell, being an old spinster is an ell.
And yeah, you know that your future is hell.
But sometimes you gotta take the L.
Now, I'm not here to pretend I haven't taken my fair share of L's.
But here's the difference, ladies.
You just gotta say, oh, well.
Sarah Stock was horrid, too.
She couldn't take an L, but she left you too.
Another one that can't take an L is the women on caller daddy.
They act like they're under a spell.
Take the L. Take the L. Help.
Why can't you just say, oh, help?
Take the L.
Yes.
Hello, everybody.
Let me come here.
Let me come here.
My dog has not gone out yet before this show, but she's sleeping.
So if I have to let her out mid-show, I'm going to do it, and you guys have to accept that.
What did you guys think of the song?
Would you download it on Spotify?
You wish you married me.
That's kind of simpy.
You got to stop that.
You got to stop that.
There is.
I'm equally as annoying as other women.
Okay.
You know what I mean?
So, what up, guys?
Welcome to another episode of Pearl Daily here on the Audacity Network.
I really appreciate you guys tuning in.
If you want to support the show, there is a GoFundMe link in the description that will help us raise money for our current documentary, which is on divorce, and future documentaries, which I hope to be on.
I hope to do the military and false allegations next.
So let's talk about taking L's.
So women get older in life, and you know, father time is just something we cannot get away from.
Father time is just something everybody, you know, comes to.
Women hit the wall, men hit the wall much later, but like, let's keep it a buck.
A dude at 70 is not pulling what he was at 35 or 40.
You know what I mean?
Like, let's keep it a buck.
It comes for everyone, but it comes for women especially hard because the 70 year old ninja can still date 50, 40, 30.
The 70 year old woman, I mean, it's kind of an L. Like, she can date, I mean, she could sleep with a lot of people.
I actually, you know, I got to be honest.
She can, I mean, I saw this video of an old sex worker that said some of her clients were 20 something year old guys.
I'm like, fellas, what are we doing?
What are we doing?
Why are we doing this?
you So, father time does come for everybody and nobody can avoid it.
One day, you know, I mean, pretty much now I'm 29, so my eggs are all dried up.
I'm old and ugly, you know, and I'm just going to get older and uglier.
And that's just an L, right?
As women and women in general, you know, at one point we're young, we're hot, we're youthful, we're full of life, we're bright eyed and bushy tailed.
And then, you know, life takes it out of us and we get old.
Ugly and bitter.
Old, ugly, and bitter.
And this is an L.
It's an L that we'll have to live with the rest of our lives.
But modern women win in their youth.
In our youth, we get attention from the highest status men on the entire planet and get opportunities that only one can dream of.
Modern Women Win In Their Youth00:03:16
I mean, I could speak for myself and I could speak for other women.
I've met women that have gotten invited to Chris Brown's parties.
Drake's parties, NBA players' parties, flown out to Dubai.
And As women, we win in our youth.
And when the high status, we are used to being high status.
We're used to our opinions being important.
We're used to people caring about what we do.
I was even thinking how, as a woman, like everyone cares about who you're dating.
I was like, I was thinking about like in my career, how many questions I get about that and blah, blah, blah.
Men, it's just not the same.
Nobody cares, right?
I was thinking about this.
Nobody cares.
Nobody.
Nobody cares at all.
So let's talk about coping.
Coping refers to the cognitive and behavioral strategies used to manage, reduce, or withstand stressful situations, emotions, or difficult life challenges.
It involves active efforts to solve problems or handle negative emotions.
Common examples include exercising, seeking social support, positive reframing, and planning.
While poor coping can involve avoidance, the key aspects of coping, the mental and physical effort to handle stress or difficult circumstances, there's problem focused coping, which is addressing the cause of the stress, planning, emotion focused, managing the emotional distress, and meaning focused, using cognitive strategies to understand and find meaning in the situation.
Now, there's types of coping positive coping and negative coping.
Healthy strategies like exercise.
You know, it's like as a woman, when you get old, some women like myself get addicted to the gym.
It's like we'll never get that vigor of our youth, but at least we can get the vigor of benching, you know, 150 or three deadlifting 300.
Therapy.
We could argue if that's healthy or positive, but there are positive therapists on the planet that do, you know, help.
So.
There's social support, you know, making friends, blah, blah, blah.
And then there's negative coping strategies, unhealthy strategies like avoidance, substance, youth, or social withdrawal.
Active coping.
She used active coping by creating a strict study schedule to manage her exam.
Now, look, I'm not here to say there's never positive coping, but the coping I have seen is just gaslighting to eternity.
Healthy Strategies For Coping00:04:48
Look at ladies, as we get older, we get uglier.
Hello.
We get our eggs used up.
We get pumped, dumped, thrown back to the streets once again.
Life makes us bitter.
Nothing is new to us.
And, you know, there's two ways that you can really, after, you know, somebody that's taken my fair share of L's in life publicly and privately.
You know, life is beautiful in a way because no matter how many L's you've taken, you can get back up and keep fucking trying.
And I'm going to use the female point of view, but I could also use the male point of view.
I know a woman that got married at fucking, I need to stop dropping F bombs.
I know a woman, see, when you get old, you start swearing more.
I know a woman that got married at 50 years old.
Now, this is the exception.
Most of you ladies, this will not happen yet.
But you know how she got married?
She didn't give up, she didn't stop trying.
And that's one way.
I think that's a healthy way to cope.
You know, you're old as a woman, you become a single mother, discount.
That's a good way to cope, right?
You know, you get divorced, now you're really on sale.
The guys you like get it for free immediately.
Honey, do you want to come right over?
But then there's the sad type of cope, the cope where you can't accept your circumstances.
There's nothing sadder than a single mother that thinks she has the value of a young woman.
And there's nothing sadder than an old woman that says she dates young men because she wants to.
Like that is her first choice.
We all know why old women date young men because the young men can't get the women their age because the young women are banging the old men, right?
Now, let's talk about humility.
Humility is the quality of having a modest, honest view of one's own importance, free from pride, arrogance, or the need to feel superior to others.
It is often described as thinking of yourself less rather than thinking less of yourself.
Key facets include recognizing one's limitations, valuing others' perspectives, and acknowledging strengths without boasting.
Key aspects of humility admitting mistakes.
Openly acknowledging when you are wrong and don't know something rather than acting superior.
Seeking feedback.
Actively soliciting input and learning from others, regardless of their status.
Giving credit.
Sharing or redirecting credit for successes to others instead of taking all the glory.
Respectful listening.
Engaging respectfully with others' own perspectives, especially when they differ from your own.
Service and kindness.
Putting others' needs before your own and helping those in need.
Reflective.
As seen in traditions like Christianity, this can mean maintaining a lowliness of mind, focusing on service, and avoiding self centeredness.
Synonyms of humility modest, humbleness, meekness, lowliness, submission.
Humility is not lack of self esteem or self deprecation, it does not mean believing you are worthless.
It means having a balanced, accurate view of yourself.
Now, humility is supposed to come with age because life is supposed to have humbled us all.
Humility Is Balanced Self View00:14:30
Unfortunately, unfortunately, women just seem to double down.
So we're going to start reading with a New York Times article of women coping.
Okay.
Older women are in demand by younger men.
See what?
If this wasn't a coping article, it would say older women, young men are settling for older women because young women are too difficult to get and they are rejecting them.
Okay, that would be younger men are increasingly seeking out older women.
And it's not just a dating trend, it's a shift in power, desire, and modern masculinity.
In this episode of The Opinions, The Opinion Cultural Editor Nadja Spiegelman talks with writer and psychoanalyst Jamieson Webster and Emily Liebert, a staff writer at The Cut, about why age gap relationships are so popular when they signal liberation, backlash, or something more complicated.
Recently, my 52 year old friend and colleague separated from her husband.
Okay, so, and so I made her a dating profile, and the response from men in their 30s was overwhelming.
The oldest gap that I had was eight years, she was 35, and I was 27.
Dylan, so I'm 34.
The oldest that I've been on a date with, I want to say, is like close to 50.
Tristan, I'm 28, and my ex girlfriend was 42.
She had two kids who are the same age as my siblings.
More young men are seeking to date older women.
Now, if this was being honest, it would say more young men want easy sex with older women, and the winners of the women that are old and likable may secure relationships, but most will be pumped and dumped.
Now, the reasons given are I was attracted to the level of emotional maturity they could give me.
This means they make sex easier to get than young women.
Tristan, just for openness for a relationship, a real relationship, exclusivity, longer lasting.
Tristan, the translation women my age don't want to settle down.
And I don't want to have to keep taking these young broads on dates.
I would rather they just come and hang out at my house.
Kendrick, they tend to be more in their careers and they tend to be more peaceful when it comes to dating.
Kendrick.
Translation.
They're easier.
The dating app field reports huge growth in this area in just the past two years.
Because of the toxic dating world, they all hate us all.
Social media is men are trash.
You know who's not saying that?
The older ones.
They're not ghosting me after six weeks.
Women over 40 have more spending power and social capital than ever before.
So is that why these age gap relationships are now all the rage?
We're going to talk in quite general stereotypes because that's the only way large groups of people.
By gender and age.
We've all seen this in film and television.
There's Baby Girl, there's the reality show Age of Attraction, and there's the idea of you.
There's more that I can list over the past several years.
And so I was curious if this was actually happening in the world, not just in the media.
So I reached out to the dating app field and I asked them to run the numbers on this and was just like, are you seeing this on your dating app data?
And they said over the past two years, the number of men who are exclusively interested in dating older women.
Has increased by 64%.
And that is particularly true among the youngest bracket of men, 18 to 25 years old.
This is happening.
And I'm really curious why it's happening now.
Emily, you reported a full story on this.
What did you expect to find?
From the women I spoke to in my reporting, and these are women across all ages, I think the biggest thing was a sense of freedom that they're not really beholden to this mold that men might have held them to.
That they can simply be themselves.
Okay.
When women say they want to be themselves, they're saying, I want to be a whore.
I want to be a whore.
The men my age have expectations of me.
And the young men, women are happiest when we're just like whoring.
Like that's like our happiest state for whatever reason.
Like you ever see, like, I mean, honestly, women will take like a thousand dicks and just be smiling after.
It's just incredible.
Whores are very happy people.
They might not be happy with the consequences after, but let's not pretend that these women are like devastated.
They're not.
So when the old women leave their old husbands, they're like, yay, I can just be a whore because women are happiest when they're treated like a whore, and the young men are going to treat them like whores.
They don't have to pine for male validation and male desire, and instead, men can just come to them.
They want to find someone who isn't necessarily economically out earning them.
They didn't necessarily want to be with someone who's more successful than them.
They don't care about those things.
They want to be in a relationship, a loving relationship with a partner who sees and respects them.
I think the other thing is they do get a sense of joy in being able to shape a young man.
I think that some of the women I spoke to are very interested in building a boyfriend as sort of a perfect product they can carry on their arms.
So, this is translation an Instagram boyfriend they want.
They want a guy that looks good on their Instagram and they can just brag that they're this old woman that can get attention from young men, even though it's really just coping.
Scoping, right?
I'm curious about why you're saying at first.
Sorry.
I'm curious about what you were saying at first.
Part of this pleasure is that men come to them, that they don't have to be in pursuit.
It reverses our image of the predatory cougar for a lot of these women.
Are they describing that they are being approached by these young men?
Yeah.
There was a stampede of young men coming up to them in the bars.
Like one of the women was at a random Times Square dive bar, and she was like, I could not even take a breath.
I couldn't even take a sip.
Every 20 seconds, some 20 something year old was coming up to me.
And this is what happens.
The young men.
They find that men, if anything, like a few things they love routine and they love easy, simple, not complicated.
So, when they like when a man gets easy sex from an old woman and it's enjoyable, you know, um, she gluck, gluck, nine thousands.
She, I mean, she's had some time, she better be good and bad at that point.
Do you think that he's gonna like stop at one?
Why would he stop at one?
He's like, Oh, I can get easy sex, and then he goes.
To the young women, and the young women are like, nah.
And the old women are like, yeah.
What do you think they're going to do?
It doesn't mean they're going to marry them, right?
But this is what we call coping, you know.
And Jameson, are you seeing this happening in your social life or your practice?
Are you seeing this happening around you, this kind of relationship?
Jameson says, I'm not seeing it in any particular fashion personally.
But I certainly have seen it pop up in culture and I've been thinking about it.
A lot of what I do hear about is dating fatigue with respect to the apps.
And that's what's being called the manosphere, it's something that I think is on everyone's mind.
And what's happening for men and their sense of possibility, which seems to be part of the story of this question of age gap relationships.
One of the things I think is shockingly more visible and present, especially in the lives of my patients and the apps highlight, is just the feeling of the sheer number of other people that are.
And they're in ruthless competition in that, which isn't helped in a society that is increasingly about inequality rather than reducing inequality.
Okay, so now they're just going to cope more.
I don't, and the rest of this article.
So now we're going to, I think that's enough for this Cope Fest.
So next, yeah, they're not looking for love, they're looking for financial release.
Women are just panicking because the old tactics don't work.
Men have adapted, and one thing we're good at is winning.
Yeah, I know.
So now we're going to watch some videos of some old women just coping.
And my message to the ladies is you know, losers, my show is for losers.
It's really not for cool people.
I've never been a cool person.
I know it's shocking, but it's really not.
So, single moms, loser people, you are welcome here.
But we have to have some humility and admit we're kind of losers, right?
You know, single mothers, you're welcome in the show.
Cougars, you're welcome here.
But we got to admit that we're losers.
You know what I mean?
You know, we got to admit it.
Okay.
So this is a woman that has not accepted the fact that she is a loser.
Okay.
So let's.
Started, I was like drunk enough to have a girlfriend be like, let's just fucking do it.
I was like, yeah, let's do it.
And that's how I ended up on this fucking app.
Listen, I could take myself off the app, but I'm like secretly fucking enjoying the joke.
It's great.
It's the joke.
I'm sorry.
I'm not, I'm not trying to be mean.
No, it's okay.
I'm not trying to mean, but like, I'm trying to like help.
This is like, think of this as like help as I'm a 50 ass year old woman telling you, don't do it, girls.
Don't like it.
I don't fucking like it.
So true.
Yeah.
The hand in the gene in the closet.
No, I can't.
I just can't.
I just can't.
I'm sorry.
The CEO is also crazy.
Is it glitching for you guys?
He works for his dad.
Yeah.
He works for his dad.
Okay.
How do we feel about sex on the first date?
Well, so I like, what do you consider a date?
Oh, are you going on dates?
Yeah.
But I like, I feel like, When you like, there's certain circumstances where you meet somebody at a party and yeah, you have sex and then that's it.
You know, that's what it is.
You're not thinking you're going to marry this person.
That's fair.
Yeah.
Are you down for a one night stand?
Yes.
I don't have many of them.
I sound, I'm sitting here sounding like I do.
So when I do, I'm like, oh, fuck yeah.
I should have done this in my 20s.
I was married from the time that I was like having sex to the time that I had my last relationship.
Then I had children.
Who has fucking time for.
Dates and shaving and waxing and makeup.
And like, I've got two children that have to go to school.
Then I like, I got it.
Like, this shit's on time.
Like, we got, do you need me to send you a call time?
I'm obsessed.
And it's this, you got two hours.
Like, what's happening?
Cocky here, but I think it's because I have found this freedom in my 40s where I'm like, oh my God.
So I just want to say this in perspective.
I've probably had three one night stands in my entire life.
Okay.
But I did just recently fuck a 26 year old and it was really fucking amazing.
Fuck yeah.
Yes.
And I've never done that.
And I was like, oh, this is great.
Okay.
Let me just say that 26 year old is the man walking on this goddamn planet.
He's walking different today, knowing.
Oh my God.
He for sure is not, but thank you.
He is.
He is.
I will.
That's cope.
Actually, she was a little bit more less copy than I thought, but still, you know what I mean?
There's no reason why Charlie Thierzon and Hallie Barry should be single.
They don't want to be in a relationship.
There's plenty of women, like, they don't like being with other people.
So, yeah, let's keep going.
Another woman, this is her coping in another way.
Um, Whenever a guy says, I would like to make love to you, it's a nick.
It's such an egg.
100% agree.
You don't get that.
That's an egg.
Just a dry heat.
So, what's your take?
Let's start it from the beginning.
My bad.
My bad.
So, what's your take?
Whenever a guy says, I would like to make love to you, it's a nick.
It's such an egg.
100% agree.
You don't get that.
That's an ick.
Just the dry heave, the little dry heave that comes with it.
This could be multiple things.
There's a lot to unpack, but actually, there isn't.
It's just very simple.
Don't fucking say it.
Don't say love me.
As my vagina closes up.
What?
Who said that?
Coping, right?
Coping.
And what you get is women thinking.
And they get more crass.
And it's just, these are the grandmothers.
I mean, I don't really mind if grandmas have like girl talk with their friends and blah, blah, blah.
But it's just, it's becoming a little bit much.
Amber Rose Used To Be Hot00:15:49
All right, we got Amber Rose up next.
Oh, I thought this was a video.
Let me pull up the video.
Now, Amber Rose used to be really hot back in her day.
Amber Rose.
Here we go.
We'll see this one instead.
I ain't gonna lie.
I'm 42, and the only guys I pull are like 22, 23, 24.
I promise you, I can't get an old head for nothing.
What?
Do you want?
I'm just saying that I don't know.
I haven't experienced the old head.
Yeah, so this is Cope, right?
You know, let's just do a young Amber Rose.
Amber Rose Young.
I mean, she could have gotten anybody.
She was beautiful, stunning.
Like, let's.
I mean, hello.
Like, oh my gosh.
What is it?
This.
Okay, I'm trying to show this picture, but it won't.
All right.
All right, let me go back here.
She used to be beautiful.
Body for days, you know what I mean.
I mean, I never was a fan of the short hair, but see what I mean.
Let's go back here.
They just don't come around me now.
You know, she's not bad looking, but it's just cope, really.
None of these guys are thinking it, but they know the reason.
Who okay?
There's like a 51 year old that.
Yeah, what is it about the younger crowd that you kind of like?
I wouldn't say that I go towards that, they come to me, and it's an abundance of them, so that's kind of my dating pool.
You need a to work five times a week, five times a week, you gotta show up.
Who, yeah, I need that stamina, yeah, stamina.
I'm in my sexual prime, guys, right?
You know, I'm not, I can't, I can't deal with an old head that's not gonna two, three days, no, nothing, no, I'm gonna get turned off.
But outside of that, do you think the younger guys are more fun?
Like outside of that, like, yeah, the younger guys are more fun, they have more stamina, they want to do, they want to go to Six Flags and cope, cope, cope, cope.
It like I'm with that, I'm with going to Six Flags.
I don't want to, I don't, yeah.
What's the best date you've been on?
What's the best date, Doug?
If you got any more clips of women coping, feel free to put it in the doc.
Oh, God, I've been on so many wonderful dates.
I don't know, guys.
Like I said, I'm a very simple South Philly girl.
You know, I just like communication.
I'm like a lover girl.
I'm the goddess of love.
I'm a Libra.
I like somebody that's like, get ready by seven.
I'm picking you up.
And that you give me no other chance.
Like, I can't say no.
Like, I want someone to take control.
I'm only going to submit to a man that actually has masculine energy.
If it's giving, like, I have masculine energy, like, yo, it's Friday, we're going out, like, what the?
I'm not going to be interested in that.
Yeah.
So, again, it could be Cheesecake Factory.
It could be sitting in the car, going for a drive, you know?
I like flowers, though.
I do.
Like, when you pick me up, I'm old school like that.
Don't come without flowers.
I'm not fucking with that.
Open the door.
Open the door.
I mean, there's Ralph's on fucking every corner.
Like, you can get me, you don't have to get me a $400 bouquet, but like, you can get flowers from Ralph's.
It's not that serious.
Thank you for the super chat.
I appreciate you, bud.
If you set up a power chat, a larger percentage of your paid chats will go to YouTube.
When I finish this app, maybe we can look into that.
We're almost done.
The app's done in like two days.
Your biggest like turn offs are icks.
Like I'm still got.
Turn offs are icks.
I'm looking at all my friends over here because they know me so well.
A turn off is lack of communication.
A turnoff is you make plans with me and you cancel last minute.
And it's not like a really good reason.
I ain't fucking with that.
Yeah.
Translation.
I love the men that do this.
Yeah.
If you're, if you have an avoidant personality disorder where, you know, sexual intimacy is a lot for you or saying like, bitch, I love you is a lot for you.
Then you're not this hype for me.
I want somebody that's like with a boombox outside of my house, like old school 90s type shit.
Trans, I mean, she did a Kanye for a decade.
Is that the type of ninja that you know what I mean?
You know, I'm that's what I need.
I need somebody that's gonna send me songs and be like, This song made me think about you.
Like, I like corny shit.
I like nerdy guys.
I like guys that are smart that's gonna teach me something because I feel like I know everything.
So if you could teach me something, then you're good at my book.
Why do we even care what an old hoe has to say?
You know what I mean?
It's like incredible.
Like men will never be asked what they want and what they like in a woman.
But yet we have four men listening to what this woman likes.
It's just incredible.
Okay.
I'm going to send this to Doug MPA.
So, my question why can't old women take the L?
So, all right, you guys can call in.
I'm going to put it in the chat.
Why can't old women take the L?
Thank you.
$10 super chat.
And if you have, you guys ever have you guys seen this dynamic of old women, young men?
I know one couple, and they actually did have a kid, and it was like 42 woman, 18 guy.
He said, You're too broke to send a super chat.
Well, that sounds like a lie.
I'm going to be honest.
The lowest super chats are like $2.
So.
I just can't imagine that $2.
Like, honestly, if $2 is too much to send a super chat, then you really shouldn't be watching my show.
You should be picking up a second job.
I mean, this is like, do you know what I mean?
You're not super chatting because you don't want to.
And I can accept that.
I don't super chat to every show I watch.
So it's cool.
But do you know what I mean?
It's like, can we just be honest about this?
No, I'm not begging.
I'm really not begging.
You can super, you cannot super.
It's totally fine.
It's cool either way.
But all I'm saying is you saying that $2 is too much to super chat is simply a lie.
Like it, then you need to stop.
You need to turn off my show immediately.
You need to turn it off and get a job.
If that's the real reason, you know.
If that's the real, you know, and I'm not saying this, you seriously, you do not have to donate.
You don't.
It's totally fine.
I don't have expectations of that.
I stream.
You guys can not donate.
But I just, what I enjoy is us being real, being honest.
So that's what I gotta keep it a buck.
A buck.
I'm not poor.
Uh huh.
I'm not poor, but I can't afford.
You see, I mean, those two things shouldn't.
Is my AC fixed?
I love men, they're so concerned all the time about my problems.
Yes, they fixed my AC.
I'm too lazy to move the ladder.
I'm a flawed person.
I'll probably move it in the next few days.
So, I want rules for calling in.
You got to be respectful.
You can't be rude.
You can't be mean.
I mean, Pearl, but what is rude?
What does it mean?
Well, if I have to explain it to you, then I mean, you got to go get some more social skills and come back.
I'm not even the socially coolest person, but there's basic decorum.
Black people, I'm looking at you.
Black people, I'm looking at you.
I'm looking at you.
Looking at you, basic decorum, politeness.
You haven't had a job in years.
Why are you watching me then?
Go get a job.
Go get a job.
Why are you?
You're black.
Yeah, if you haven't had a job in years, I don't watch you as my fan.
You're kicked out.
I want you gone.
You got to get out.
You're, yeah, I mean, what do you, if you're a war veteran or something like you, you know, Terrence Popp, like, doesn't have an eye, you know, sometimes he has to cover it.
I mean, that I'll make an exception for.
Other rules.
All right.
So this is a general conversation.
When I do callers, There may be a disagreement, but it's never a debate.
You know, you are allowed to say, I disagree, and you can say why.
This is what we call a safe space.
That's fine.
I'm not going to get mad.
But you got to be polite.
You got to.
Can we go on a date?
I'm worth it.
Okay.
Like, I just want you to think about the frame that you're framing when you say that.
You're qualifying to me, which signals to me that I'm above you.
Okay, like just by the way, you're I'm just you know, this could be a teaching lesson, you know.
Now, I don't think I should be the one to teach this stuff because I'm a woman, but it's so bad out there, you know what I mean?
Like, guys just know nothing about this stuff, so it's like you got to think about what is that communicating to me if you say I'm worth it, like you're trying to qualify it, I should just be able to see that you're worth it based on your behaviors, right?
But when you're like saying I'm not poor, I'm worth it, like.
I appreciate the $2, but I'm just going to be, you know, I want to be frank here.
I would like to, to me, that would signal I'll never like go out with you.
I can't, like, I'm not interested anyway, but I'm saying even if my circumstances were different, like, that would just be that would never get a woman ever.
Ever.
And like, that's like the worst message you could possibly send.
The only thing worse than that is begging.
Oh my God.
Have you ever seen a ninja beg?
And she's always begging for some fat poo nanny.
It's never the hot ones.
You know what I mean?
I think it's because it hurts more.
Like, I think if a man gets rejected by a hot woman, if he's rejected by a hot woman, it's expected.
He shot, he did that half court shot, right?
And she shot that shit down.
And he's like, well, I could have seen that coming.
It's like a layup against LeBron.
But imagine you're doing a layup in a rec league and it's like this fat, Fat F.
And then the fat F knocks the ball out of your hand.
I think it hurts them so much.
Like they just cannot take it.
You know what I mean?
Okay.
Update from the chat I sent a while back.
Dad, the state is coming along.
His ex won't be able to take anything.
Put W's in the chat for dad.
W's in the chat for dad.
I want my money back.
No.
No.
I'm taking the $2 and I'm running.
No, I said what I said.
You know what I mean?
All right.
Okay.
I'll get through the rules.
I'll get through the rules.
All right.
You got to be polite.
So you can come up.
The questions that I'm going to go with are going to be some variation conversationally.
I want to know if you've dated, if you've seen a trend of the older women with young men.
I have seen some of the old women pull it off.
I don't want that to be true.
I want to say, like, they're all the young men are pumping and dumping.
I'd say, like, 80%.
But I'd say, like, 20% of the young women, they've had, like, 30 years to learn manipulation.
These young men think they're just pumping and dumping, and these ninjas fall in love.
You know what I mean?
They've had 30 years to learn to manipulate you.
Like, I'm assuming she started at, like, 18.
I mean, it could have been her.
But you know what I mean?
If she's like 40 or 50, that's 30 years of whoring.
That's a lot.
That's a lot of years.
She can hide her real personality, you know?
So, anyways, so I want to know if you've seen any trends.
And I want you to know your take.
Why can't women just, like, why do they have to cope?
Why do they have to say the young men, they're getting all this attention?
Why can't the women just say, I'm getting uglier.
I've had to lower my standards.
Older Women Have Snacks At Home00:14:57
I've slept with a bajillion people at this point.
I can't feel anything.
Why can't the old broads just say it's over for me?
Anyways, okay.
Once learned, learn.
That happens before 18.
Okay.
Let's start with Doug MPA.
Welcome to the show.
Hey, how's it going?
I'm good.
Have you seen any young?
I mean, you have to know some black ninjas.
So, some young black ninjas in your personal life.
Have you seen any of them running through these old broads or taking them seriously?
So, running through old broads, yes.
Taking them seriously, no.
And here's the thing I have seen where nothing worse than when a ninja is banging an old broad and then gets her pregnant.
I've seen that.
So, like, the reason why a woman, like, a.
An older woman has a 16 year old and then a two year old is because some ninja was careless.
So you'll see a freaking 42 year old woman with a 15 year old white child and then a two year old half black child.
I've seen that before.
Can we actually react to it?
If you go to the doc and go to the second to last link, can we react to that together?
I'll put it in the private chat.
It's a Today Show clip of just Cope.
Okay.
I recently saw, and they were for real dating, like meeting each other's friends and stuff.
The kid was 19, the woman was 42, and they have a child now.
Bruh, what?
Yeah, yeah, I've seen that before.
Here's the thing, guys, a lot of women in their 40s and 50s.
So, you know, some of the best advice I ever got is it's easier to do what you have to do than figure out what you want to do.
And so, a lot of women, especially single moms, They get afraid of not being a mother.
So they'll just have another kid.
It's like this weird thing where it's like, okay, I don't want to have to figure out what life is like without being a mom.
So I'll just have another kid, especially professional women.
I've seen it all the time.
In the area I live, I see more women who have a 16 year old and a one year old, an 18 year old and a two year old.
It's crazy.
And I'm like, you were almost done.
You were almost checked out, and now you have a two year old.
Yikes.
So there is, you shot me down for being nice.
You like Chad's.
Yep.
Women.
Did I see Nick beat the case?
No, I didn't, but I'm happy for him.
My ex couldn't take the L.
I told her beauty fades with every year that passes because she told me I would never get a better looking girl than her in an attempt to get me to reconcile.
Probably what we were saying.
Oh, the yeah, I told I actually told the woman that this was obviously going to be a fun thing.
I was like trying to be honest, and I guess she made me eat my words because they had a kid, and I don't know if they're married or not, but I like they're living together with a kid.
Like, I guess that was wrong.
Yeah, I knew a guy who was um, he was 35 and the woman he was with was 52, and they were together since he was in his mid 20s.
I think they've been together for eight.
For nine years, because she was his boss at work.
But they had some weird open relationship kind of stuff.
And she had a kid who was like 13 at the time.
So she had the kid when she was like 39 or something like that.
And the biggest problem I mean, they were that poly garbage.
But the biggest problem was they were living together.
But he would always catch feelings for a younger woman.
And then she'd have to guilt him into staying with her.
So he'd be like, look.
You know, I'm talking to this younger girl.
It was this weird thing where he keeps falling for younger women, but then they had so much emotionally invested that he he he ended up staying.
It was this weird kind of dynamic.
I actually remembered at a there's an event I went to, and the couple there, what the girl was like 65, and the guy was like 54, late 40s, 50s.
I guess they've been together a while.
Um, so that's why I don't like to say that they never will take.
Like, take the old women seriously because I've seen it, but it's got to be the minority.
I just can't imagine.
Although, I don't know because men are kind of the true romantics.
And I actually think we downplay how attached men get to women they're sleeping with.
There's this whole thing which men don't get attached through sex.
I don't know.
That's just not what I've seen.
Like, even if a guy's banging like a straight up whore, the guy just still seems to have some sort of protection over her.
Like men are very protective.
I've seen it.
So, I could totally see a sexually inexperienced guy falling in love with an older woman if she's just nice to him long enough.
Yeah.
And here's the thing a lot of guys, if the woman is pleasant and he gets regular sex and she's not fat, and like, I mean, guys like stability, guys like when a woman cheats them well, and just not being out here in the dating market and having to deal with it.
Guys will deal with, I think a guy will deal with.
More now than ever, tell you the truth.
And also, men love routine.
So if she can just slip her way into his routine, come over his house, bring snacks, you know, bring food.
I'm telling you.
Yeah.
I put it in the chat.
One of the crazy things, one of the older women I used to sleep with in my 20s, after we did it, she would wipe it off for me.
And then make me food afterwards.
I didn't have to lift a finger after we did it.
It was every single thing, you know, the things she did before, during, and after sex.
It's like, it just blows your mind.
And younger women do not.
And here's the thing older women will let younger guys do stuff to them in bed that they won't let older guys do.
Because here's the thing they are sleeping with a younger guy.
So the flex is like, oh, yeah, you know, I'm sleeping with a younger guy.
You can show them on the hub.
What you want to do, and they'll do it.
Do you kind of miss her, Doug?
Be honest.
You know what?
Yeah.
I recall that kind of fast.
I sound kind of passionate when I was talking about that just now, huh?
Yeah.
You know what I mean?
This is what I mean.
I'm going to drop you and bring you back up because I got to go on a rant for a second.
Guys will say, like, oh, it's just sex.
Like, I don't know.
This is just my observations.
Okay.
This is my observations.
And this probably is contradicting things I've said before, to be fair.
You know, because you always hear men say it's just sex, it's just sex.
I almost think a lot of times, like, men get more attached from sex during than women, like, especially if the men don't get a lot of sex.
Like, I don't know.
Like, men, it just seems like once they hook up with a girl for a while, they'll have this level of like protectiveness over her, you know, because.
I mean, being that I'm a hater, right?
You know, there's been times when I'm like, yeah, that bitch is a whore.
And if a guy's fucking her, do you know who's the biggest, like, white knight?
The guy that's banging the whore.
There's nobody that'll, like, they get protected.
They have no reason.
Like, if it's just sex, then why are you riding so hard for the girl?
You know what I mean?
I don't know.
Is that it's.
Like, I don't know.
This is maybe this is just what I've observed where like women can bang a guy for like a long time and like they, he's like dead to her tomorrow.
I've also seen it though where women are upset.
Like, if she's banging that guy, but like women, we bang everything.
They always say men bang anything.
I think women bang anything.
And so it's like if we bang anything, yeah, okay, there's one guy we get attached over, but then there's like a bajillion we don't.
You know what I mean?
Especially women that are young.
If you've ever seen a whole, I remember I got to change details in this story.
So I don't want to dox anybody.
There was a person that I knew when I was younger.
And this person lost their virginity to like a stranger.
And it like did not compute to me because I'm like, you don't, you're not attached.
You don't miss it.
And she's like, no, it was fun.
And then on to the next.
And I'm like, you're not, you're like cool with it.
Yeah, I don't want anything serious.
I'm like, huh?
But this is what I realized, you know, because I was kind of chubby.
I was like a mid.
It's like, The mids get attached out of necessity, but the hot girls don't give a fuck.
I don't know.
This is just my experience, right?
Because, like, in high school, it would be like the mids, like, because we're all women, like, bang men out of their league.
That's the default, right?
Now, how out of their league, it depends, right?
I mean, we're not going to get into that today.
But so when I think of like the women in high school, The hot girls would have a high school boyfriend, right?
They would have a high school boyfriend.
They'd be in love with him for two years.
And then they would go to college.
And the high school boyfriend wanted to stay together.
And I don't know, this is just, I didn't personally have a high school boyfriend.
This is just what I observed.
Because I would say the best looking women tended to have boyfriends in high school.
And the boyfriends are like, Are we getting married?
The girlfriends are like, I'll see you never again.
I'll see you never again.
I'm going to go to Purdue, Indiana University.
I'm going to go.
Yeah, I'll see you.
Bye.
You know what I mean?
So it's like where the women I saw get more attached, and I would say my experience was more, I don't like to talk too much about my L's in life, but it was more attachment.
But it's like when you're uglier, what choice do you have?
I was kind of fat when I was younger.
You know what I mean?
What choice, you know, because you got to think about it.
The life of a hot girl, one Chad rejects her, I'll be on to the next Chad.
In my opinion, most of the time when guys say hot girls are crazy, it's just they're batting out of their league a little bit.
Because if you talk to Chad's, they're like, I just, my experience, you could take this or leave it.
You might have had a different one.
My experience is that, like, the Chad guys, I mean, they don't really have a Problem getting that obedience from like women, not obedience.
I mean, women, none of us are obedient, but like they're nicer to the Chads, you know, when it's a guy that's like mid, above mid, even like a seven, right?
I gotta be on it.
We're so inflated.
We're such inflated, awful whores that like it's completely, even a seven's getting screwed by a seven, but it's like he lands an eight or a nine.
She's gonna be a bitch to him because she doesn't really want him.
She wants the 10.
You know, anyways, this is just my observations.
I'm not saying I'm.
People get very defensive when I talk about this.
This is just what I've seen.
Women were competitive when you were in high school.
Yeah.
The best dating advice for women be a part of his routine.
I'm so funny.
Yeah, dating an alpha widow is the worst.
Yeah.
But you have to think like, okay, for every.
I feel like the attachment is like spread out for men.
So, okay.
They get real attached to their wife, but there's still like a here attachment to every girl they've banged ever.
They'll like, where women, there's like maybe a high attachment to one or two guys, and there's like a you're dead to me attachment to the rest.
So, over an average of like attachment, I think on average the men's would be higher.
I don't know.
This is, I know this probably, it might be off.
It contradicts things I've said before.
But this is what I've noted.
This is what I've observed.
He's like, Yeah, she's a whore, but she's my whore right now.
Not to baseline.
Yeah, so he's saying not to baseline attachment.
And maybe I'll hit this again later.
Men don't get attached in the same way as you women.
I don't know.
This is just my observations.
But I'm not here to say that that's, you know, you're men.
So, you know what you feel.
I'm not here to tell you what you feel.
I'm not, you know what I mean?
So, if you think, yeah, you know.
Maya, anyways, sorry.
This is so.
I'm so off topic.
I don't even know what I'm doing.
I'm going to bring Doug MPA to get me.
I need a man to get me back on track.
I'm going to leave for a second.
You need to get the show back on track.
Get The Show Back On Track00:15:36
Guys, guys, older women, come on, guys.
Older women have snacks at their house.
You know, older women, they want to get right to it.
And, guys, here's the thing older women and single moms are the same.
We're like, will you even tolerate foolishness from an older woman?
Like, if I go out on a date with an older woman and she doesn't let me hit, I get upset.
You know, not in a bad way, but you're able to.
Really walk through the logic of the woman and be like, Look, we just had a good date.
Are you not going to let me hit?
Like, seriously?
Do you not want to see me again?
You know what I'm saying?
You're just not willing to put up with the foolishness with an older woman or a single mom that you are with a young, hot woman.
Tell me I'm lying, guys.
Tell me I'm lying.
How do your interactions with older women compare to younger women?
Right?
You were able to sit an older woman down and tell her how it really is or what you really want because she's old.
And, guys, how old is too old?
Put in the chat.
How old is too old?
All right, I'm back.
Thanks for getting us back on track.
That's another good question.
10 years, 15 years, 20 years.
Because, guys, I'm going to say it, Pearly.
A lot of guys don't get intimidated by young, hot women, but.
But you're so concerned with not messing it up and not saying something stupid to talk your way out of getting laid.
So I wouldn't say you're like intimidated.
You're just really trying really hard.
But it's kind of freeing when you're talking to an older woman.
You understand?
It's like I could take it or leave it.
Yeah.
And you're willing to tell them too.
Like, look, you know, we had a nice date.
We're back at my house.
I mean, if you leave now, like, what are you going to leave and go do?
Honestly, her watch Golden Girls, her ex, she's had time to rack up a few, so she's been in the area a while.
You know, someone else, not you, you know what I mean?
That's what I'm saying.
But 69 is fine, like 69 years old.
Come on, guys.
Oh, wait, hold on.
I need to show you a clip.
Oh my gosh, I felt bad for this man, he was basically assaulted.
Hold on, I gotta.
Oh my gosh, where is it?
Oh no, I don't know where it is.
Updating, let me look.
Updating show.
Here we go.
This was like the biggest cope I ever saw.
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Where is it?
Okay, I can't find it, but there was this dating show and they had a woman on stage who was 79.
Oh, but she looked kind of good for 79, but God, it was the biggest like she probably could have passed for like 50s or 60s.
But it was the biggest cope show I ever saw, and then she the guy declined her and she still kissed him.
I'm like, oh my god, what the hell?
Did I send it to myself yesterday?
Hold on, I know I saw it yesterday, and no, I didn't, I should have.
Yeah, guys, all the women they don't care about protection, especially with especially women in their 50s, they'll do it in the back of a car, they'll do it in a parking lot.
They'll do it in everywhere.
It's crazy.
It's like older women have this, especially with a younger guy.
They want to validate that they're still young by banging a younger guy.
And they're willing to do that any means necessary.
You know what?
There was a guy I knew.
He was like 69, 70.
And he was a pretty successful, for his age, pretty good looking guy.
And he said he started by dating 40 something year old women.
And he said they were just a headache because they still believed their Prince Charming was coming.
But he loved dating women in their 50s because he's like, by then they have their own money.
They have like a house figured out.
They're not really looking for anything serious and they just get right to it and bang you in the back of their car.
Yeah.
Yep.
Wow.
What a guy.
Welcome to the show, Mark.
Thank you for coming on.
Hello.
So, what's your experience?
What's been your experience dating these old broads?
I've only dated one.
She was about 15 years older.
I can say, yeah, she knew how to cook.
That was a big reason why I was fucking her.
How old were you and how old was she?
I was about 27.
She was about 42.
And could you have fallen?
Could she have gotcha?
Not really.
No.
You were too different, but she was easy.
She was available.
Was she a single mom or no?
No, she had no kids.
But she wasn't out the widow.
I was going to ask you how the snack drawer, you know, how the snack cabinet was.
She had snacks and she could cook.
Look at how much he's smiling when he's talking about them.
Okay, hold on.
Hold on.
Think about it.
What does it do to your ego where you get laid and she cooks for you afterwards?
Yeah, because here's the thing.
Here's the thing, Mark, and you can agree.
When you first get with a woman who knows how to cook, you make the mistake of her cooking for you and eating before.
You don't want to do that because nothing worse than doing it on a full stomach is the worst.
So, you got to have her cook for you afterwards, guys.
Don't have her cook for me before.
I've done both and had her cook breakfast for me the morning after.
Have you seen more young guys going for older women?
I haven't seen it, but it makes complete perfect sense.
Older women are easier, some of them.
So, you can perfect your game, you can perfect your Riz on them because it's going to be less headache because they have less options.
People want to know why you break it off with her.
She wanted me to be somebody I wasn't.
She wanted her life to go a different way than I wanted to go.
So she broke it off, actually, but it's fine.
Why can't old women take the L?
Like, why are they coping?
Because it's easier to cope than accept reality.
Andrew Wilson was talking about it from a political perspective why there are people who keep doubling down on their woke ideology that doesn't work.
And he was saying, It's cognitive dissonance.
When cognitive dissonance happens, it hurts.
And a lot of people don't want to deal with that pain of changing their perception of reality.
So they just keep doubling down.
This is why you see so many people keep coping.
It hurts to accept reality.
Yeah, I agree with that 100%.
Here's the thing there's a social infrastructure in place for women to kick major life decisions down the road.
And one of the newest ways to do that.
Is by we already have you know, uh, plastic surgeries, face filters, all this stuff.
I think that this dating younger men thing is just another way for women to kick the kick major life realities down the road.
Yeah, yeah, there are some older women who they've accepted reality, they realize they can't get the men they want, so they'll take what's available.
We call them cougars, right?
Yeah, but yeah, but see, I think that.
The biggest thing about that is that, like, okay, the ones who don't catch feelings are okay, but most of these women will see.
If you're a younger guy or whatever, you're with the woman who's getting up there, she will want to try to have something serious sooner or later.
And I think one of the saddest things are going to be all these women dating a younger guy and they realize that these guys are not going to stay.
Most of these guys in their 20s, they may date you in your 20s, but when they hit their 30s, most guys are going to want kids.
And I'm sorry, but old dried autism eggs?
Uh uh, not happening.
I don't know.
I think my women, by the time they're that age, they're so like cooked.
Like they can't, they don't even get attached like they used to.
Like, I don't, I think they're like dried.
You tell me though, you guys have dated older women.
So did, did, was your experience that they get attached or no?
She got a little attached, but she was also kind of an alpha widow.
She still had feelings for her ex.
Yeah, I've seen most of the guys I've seen that date older women.
The older women usually catch feelings, or it depends on how they catch it.
So, like, they want some kind of stability.
And, like, a lot of times, older women okay, you have to be willing to swallow your pride as a man and kind of let an older woman if you're taking older women seriously, she's gonna try to control you in some way and not like a younger woman.
She's literally gonna, like, it's hard for older women to not control younger guys in a relationship in sort of a mothering way.
Understand what I'm saying?
So that's something that guys who take older women seriously, you really have to watch out for that.
Because she's going to tell you what you can't and can't do, you know, what to wear, all this crazy stuff.
I think it's like an older woman thing.
It is.
It's also part of their fantasy that, oh, I can fix him.
Oh, yeah.
And then they're like more controlling so they can like mold him more to be what they want.
Or they can try to.
They're never going to be men.
They're going to eventually get sick of that.
Jackson, welcome to the show.
Have you dated an older woman yourself?
And have you seen this trend in society?
Hi, how are you?
I'm good.
How are you?
I'm good.
I actually lost my virginity to a woman who was in her 40s.
And that was my first experience with sex.
Was it like a positive five star review or what?
It was like a 1.5, one star review the first time.
But once we got comfortable with each other, it was like a 3.5, maybe a 4.
That's pretty good.
So, did you catch feelings for her or did she catch feelings for you?
Yeah, we caught feelings for each other, and that's why we had sex.
No, I met long term.
No, it wasn't long term.
It was kind of just casual.
And I was just like young.
I just meant like, did she want it to be more than a casual thing or no?
No.
Okay.
But it was.
I didn't meet this woman.
So I don't want to go too much into this woman, but I just want to say that like older women like get fed.
Like, bullshit.
Like, they're getting older and people lie to them, and that's why, like, the topic of your live stream.
Like, I think they're just constantly getting told by everybody, like, oh, no, you're not getting older, or, you know, you haven't gained too much weight, or, you know, they get fed this coke shit, like, to.
They're being taught how to cope.
Yeah.
But it's like.
It actually hurts them more than it helps them sometimes because it makes them not take as much action.
Yeah.
They're being enabled to cope, which is why when they finally hit the wall, it hurts so much more.
Yeah.
It's a much bigger hit to their pride, their ego, their.
Yeah.
Yeah, I'd agree 100%.
I'd agree with that.
Is there anything else you guys have observed when it comes to the older women and younger men?
I was talking about the controlling part.
I've seen older women who've gotten their heart broken by like an older guy and a younger guy, and it's still the victim narrative.
Oh, he lied to me and he did all these things to me.
He's like 27 and you're 40.
What?
Or he's 22 and you're 37, but he was all the same, the female friendly version of the story.
You know, he manipulated me.
He did all this stuff.
It's like, but you're 15 years older than him.
So society still gives these older women an out.
It's still, guys, if you're dating an older woman and you break up and it's your fault, it's your fault, it's your fault.
If you're dating older women and you break up and it's her fault, it's your fault.
But older women can cheat on a 25 year old guy and they'll still be like, what was that 25 year old guy lacking that made her run into the arms of?
Of another man.
He's 25.
What'd you think?
So, yeah, the cope is still real.
Older women will take a younger guy and still tell it when it ends, will tell all the same stories about how men are terrible, what he did and didn't do, all that garbage.
It's just like, why are they bragging about getting attention from young men?
Isn't this kind of embarrassing, ladies?
Like, look at, I kind of could see the draw, right?
I mean, young guys are fun, they haven't been burnt.
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You know, whatever.
I'm sure there's more stamina there, whatever that.
But I'm like, God, like, why are you brag?
Like, you know that this is an L because you cannot get Whitman your age.
Like, you can't get them.
So, why are you telling everyone about it?
You know, you don't have to tell anybody.
You can just bang them privately and not mention it.
You know?
Yeah.
One of the worst parts about modern women, yes, that they're whores, they're baby mothers, all that stuff, but not being able to keep your mouth shut, having to share on social media, having to share to all the so many women, it's like you can get away with so much stuff if you just didn't talk about it.
Why do they always talk about it, Pearly?
Why?
Um, I think women, there's too big of egos, they just think the guy won't do anything, yeah, and I want to come down now.
Now, if a woman is dating a man that's 10 to 15 years old, let's say she's 40 and she's 25, can that woman expect that?
How futile is it for her to expect that man to be faithful?
Oh, it's kind of dumb.
It's kind of dumb.
Honestly, in 2026, I don't know why anybody expects anyone to be faithful until you're like living.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
I'm just being like, I'm not saying you obviously hope for the best, right?
But I mean, nothing surprises me anymore.
You know what I mean?
It's just, I mean, people have children and they aren't faithful.
It's like, I would just expect the worst.
And if you get the best, be happy, you know?
Yeah.
I agree with that.
Like, I just, I don't, it's like, I don't, like women cheating and lying.
And that's kind of the standard.
I wonder if something.
I'm sorry, go ahead.
Here's something I've noticed with the older woman, younger man dynamic.
The older woman has her own program, and she's not going to get a man her own age to come on board with her program.
100% true.
It's much easier to get the younger guy to come on board with her program, especially if he doesn't have his own program for his life figured out yet.
That was what was going on in my situation.
She was easy, was available.
I didn't really have my shit figured out.
I was still blue pilled.
So I was like, okay, yeah, sure.
Why not?
This is fun.
Enjoy it.
But now that I've got my program, my life figured out, yeah, I'm not doing that again.
And a lot of professional high stress women, especially, like they want a guy on their program.
They need a guy like how husbands in the 50s and the 60s kind of needed a woman.
They need someone that'll listen to them, that can relieve the stress and be there to emotionally regulate them.
And like older guys who are worth a damn, one, they're not going to do that because they don't want to.
And two, they don't have the time.
But I would still say that that's finite.
Like most women will still want a guy.
Because here's the thing women now more than ever.
All ages want excitement and freaking instability that a young guy brings.
Older guys, we don't bring that.
But I think that's still on a clock.
I still think that most older women.
I don't think it's just instability.
I think it's just the fun, the excitement.
Yeah.
Yeah.
I said instability.
I don't think they're looking for instability.
It's just that instability tends to go hand in hand with the fun and excitement.
Yeah.
I'd agree with that.
I'd agree.
So, they're actually looking for the fun and excitement.
They're looking for that hit to their ego.
Basically, when they get the younger guy, it masturbates their ego.
That's part of why they do it.
Yeah, I agree.
Let's call it what it is.
It's masturbation for the ego.
That's why we do some of the shit we do because it feels good.
Yep.
Why do men brag about the women they bang?
Because it masturbates their ego to say, hey, I got that young, hot piece of ass.
Yeah, yeah.
I just think one of the biggest differences between young.
Older men, younger women, and older women, younger men is most women will still, if she's taking the younger guy seriously, will put that younger guy on a clock.
Like, you can only be young, and it's like she wants to start seeing something from her investment.
Whereas, like, younger men, they don't want the young woman to change.
We want you to stay young and hot forever.
But, like, older women, if they take a young guy seriously, will expect the guy to actualize in some way, shape, or form.
Yeah, they want the man to get on her program so she can have the status symbol of having the type of man she wants.
She can't get him, so she's trying to make him.
Yep.
And she can have a house husband.
See, I don't even know if that's true.
I think that most women say that they would have a house husband until they actually have one.
Yeah, that's true.
Then they'll make it impossible for the house husband.
Yeah, because they don't respect the house.
Housewives have it infinitely better than house husbands do.
Mario, have you banged some older women or what?
When I was in the service, I did.
When I got here at Fort Carson, I went out with someone that was in her 40s.
I believe she was like 40, 41.
It was okay, you know, like the sex was good, but like she was a little clingy.
Like she just couldn't get over like her past marriage.
Like she had like three kids.
She had a like her tubes were tied, and it was basically a friends with benefits situation.
Did she want something more?
Well, she kept comparing me to like, so she knew my ex girlfriend, and she kept comparing me from her to my ex.
And I'm like, I'm not with you.
I'm not going out with you.
I'm not going to go out with you because you're too old.
I was 27.
I still don't want to date women older than me.
Like, I have a cutoff.
Like, for if you're in your 40s and 50s, it's a done deal.
I don't want I don't want none to do it yet.
And I have a rule too for for age as far as the 20s no one under the age of 21.
Now, I've had that rule since I was in my 20s.
Because if you're under 21, you can't go to a club, you can't go to a bar, you can't drink.
What's the point of me taking you out?
Because I'm not gonna I'm not gonna downgrade myself to it because I'm already an adult.
I've already Guy needs to do these things.
I'm not going to downplay myself for you.
You need to get up on my level, not the other way around.
Why do you think that old women can't take the L?
Just like everybody else has been saying, they've been getting lied to.
And this is the thing that I see here in Denver.
I live in Denver.
Oh, bro.
This is my biggest ick, bro.
This is my biggest ick, bro.
Okay?
You'll go out to the club.
And these girls will bring their fucking mothers to the club, bro.
No, come like 40s, 50s.
Like, oh, dude.
And like, they don't even look like their daughters.
They look all old, wrinkly, and shit.
Oh, God.
God, this is the biggest ick in my fucking life, bro.
I swear.
What do you even.
How do you hit on a woman with their mom there?
How does that.
Hey, dude, I don't know, but.
Hold on, hold on.
That's the mindset.
I'm tired to be your wing woman.
Yeah, you ever, no, no, you ever.
Yeah, that's most likely what they do, but they try to bring in younger men.
It's like, what the fuck, man?
Come on.
You ever try to.
Act your age.
Do you ever try to pull both?
No, no.
I make me walk away if I see the daughter and the mother there.
I make me just walk away or I give you fucked up faces.
Like, fuck no.
I respect you if you're taking your mom to the club.
Because back in the day when I was growing up, I never saw any mother go out to the club.
Back in the day, I don't ever see that.
That's so that's such a big form of disrespect.
Oh, God, yeah, that's what I had to mention.
Sorry, bro.
Here's how I said if she's going out to the club with her mom, you're trying to get the mom to be your wing woman because that's going to be so much easier to bang the daughter.
Yeah, but with the mom, you get the mom to be your wing woman.
Did she have snacks?
No, but she cooked, you know.
Okay.
I mean, snacks would have been nice, is all I'm saying.
Jesus.
Yeah, yeah.
Like I said, that's the only thing that I hate about.
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I mean, I don't know what it is anywhere else, but lately here in Denver, that's what I've been seeing.
But the nightlife scene has kind of gone downhill, too, because they've been closing clubs left and right here.
Why?
I mean, less people going out.
They had this one place, it's called UMama's House.
The owner forgot, didn't bother to pay the taxes.
So the city of Denver and the state of Colorado are suing them.
Wow, okay.
Yeah.
It's mostly because of fraudulent stuff that's going on here, but I don't know how deep it is.
But I mean, I go out and it's like, you know, it's all right.
I mean, where I'm at, it's cool.
I mean, I don't see that.
Like, I'm in Edgewater.
Yeah.
Once again, good for making another day in Denver, dude, because I spent some time there.
Denver's quite the place, dude.
Freaking purple haired, tattooed, septum piercing weirdness all over the place.
Oh, and then there's the other complaint that there's not enough black people here.
Yeah.
It used to be all Latinos and blacks here in Denver.
But then all the gentrification started like a little bit after I got out of the army in 2015, and it's just gone downhill since.
Well, it sounds like heaven on earth.
I'm in Portland, so.
Wait.
Oh, man.
I don't think you have it any better, man.
Smart.
You're in Portland, bro?
Yeah, I'm in Portland.
Oh, no!
We got Denver and Portland.
My brothers, you gotta move, man.
I can see the stress lines on your forehead.
Guys, move.
You gotta get out of here.
And I'm not originally from here either.
I'm from Florida, man.
Florida's a lot better than that.
I'm from Homestead, Miami, Florida.
That's where I'm originally from.
Yeah.
Wow.
You're one of the few Cubans here, man.
Shit.
I've seen a lot of older women traveling a lot.
Like every time I go to an airport, I see like old broads traveling.
I'm like, who are you guys traveling for?
Yeah, you want to do that a lot around here too.
Seems like women do that when we're like young, like 18 to 25 ish.
And then it like picks back up when we're like 50.
Well, yeah, when they're young, someone else is paying it.
When they're older, they can pay for it themselves.
Mark hit it right on the head, dude.
Yep.
You remember that story around here?
Oh, sorry.
You remember that story about old British women going to Gambia to bang Gambian dudes, African guys?
And they had to put a warning to the British government saying, stop letting 50 year old English women come down here and bang the beach, guys.
Because it's kind of like how in Colombia, how sex workers make a whole lot of money in Colombia.
Well, the black dudes on the beach were making a whole bunch of money from these old white British brats.
Hey, they got to do what they got to do.
It's easier than getting a job.
I did not see that story, but that does not surprise me.
Yeah.
Yeah, like around here, I see a lot of out of towners that come from like different parts of the country.
It's kind of weird.
Like the bar that I go to, I see a lot of out of towners that come here for like weddings and like baby showers and stuff like that.
Or they just come here to visit to see the mountains.
Yeah.
Denver's nice.
I just, there's so many people.
With dogs there that like everywhere you go, it smells like dog and dog poop.
Yeah, yeah, dude, that's the other problem.
Yeah, it's like very active here, but they don't really like the dog people don't really take care of stuff.
Like, only certain people, like I would, like when I would be walking with my dogs, I would pick up poop and everything, right?
When I'm walking, but there's a lot of people just left to eat the poop.
Yeah, a lot of people just leave.
It's so bad that homeowners had to put signs on there on front of their yards to keep people that say, clean up your poop.
Yeah.
I had one of my friends who moved there.
She has a PhD, and then her boyfriend's like, whatever.
They moved to Denver because she's working on a study, and her boyfriend makes like a pretty good I mean, more than you would make in customer service as a dog walker.
So he signed up for this service, and he'll just pay you to go to the person's house for 45 minutes and like walk the dog and stuff.
And his schedule is just packed every week.
It's gonna be, I think, the future, like the next round of like rich people are gonna be.
People doing basic things that high status women are too lazy to do.
Yeah.
Like the white guys, maybe a few Latinos, a few black guys, but mostly white guys.
They'll make all the money and then their wives will spend it for them because the guy's like, Do you want to do wifely things?
She's like, No.
And so now they have to have someone else cook their food, someone else walk their dog, or they're not married, they're single and they just get it from white guys via sugar babying or other sex work like OnlyFans.
And so then it's going to be.
Uber Eats, you know, cleaning services, cooking services.
Yeah, just like women that don't know how to do basic stuff.
Yeah, I agree.
There was a business I saw where somebody was doing mobile refueling.
So they would come out to you to refuel your vehicles.
Come on.
Are you serious?
Yeah.
He would go out to private marinas, refuel boats for people.
He'd go out to businesses, refuel their fleet vehicles, and he would go to homes, refuel private vehicles.
Wow.
Well, that's Oregon for you.
I mean, they didn't do that for a long time where you couldn't pump your own gas.
They still have attendants who pump gas here in Oregon, but you can do it yourself legally now.
But no, this business was somewhere else.
It was for people who had fleets, what he was targeting was fleets, because then he has the routine amount.
It's not on call, he just goes out on a set schedule.
But he was also doing the private vehicles.
I don't remember what state this guy was in.
Might have been in Texas, actually.
Crazy.
Damn.
In Texas?
Wow.
It's just like.
I was watching this car detailing.
That's another one.
Keep going.
Sorry.
Yeah.
There is this girl on TikTok, and she's like a Gen X nurse, and all she does is shit all over young nurses.
And because she says, you know, Gen Z nurses, they get into nursing for all the wrong reasons.
They want to get the bag, they want the flexibility of schedule, but they don't want to see patients.
She's like, why the hell are so many Gen Z nurses going into nursing not expecting to do patient care?
It's crazy.
She said, Their nurses, they have a 12 hour shift and they door dash before they get on shift, in the middle of their shift, and then when they end their shift.
So her hospital has door dashers and Uber Eats people coming in constantly because nurses just door dash three times a day.
Well, I mean, I know that there are certain professions.
Like, I know nursing is one of them where they're a lot very promiscuous.
I mean, I know of another one.
It's Amazon Warehouse.
I know a ton of men that have gotten laid multiple times at the Amazon Warehouse.
Just working there.
Like, I knew somebody that has like, no, They would take them back, but they would get laid from the warehouse.
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They would take them back to their place, and then they would, I mean, he would hook up with like tons of women, bro.
Yeah, it makes sense.
Thanks, Mario, for calling in.
All right, Jackson, welcome to the show.
You look, how old are you?
Can't hear you.
I think you're muted.
You're gonna, you're gonna mute.
Oh, I'm sorry.
How old are you?
I'm 21.
You sure?
100%.
Okay.
Just double check it.
You banging these old broads or what?
You're Gen Z.
I would.
You would?
Yeah.
How old would you go?
Probably no higher than like 45.
45?
You got a lot of friends?
Like your age?
Not a lot.
Any?
Like one, two?
I have like older friends.
Like my friends are kind of like my parents and like my parents' age and stuff.
Oh, really?
I was just wondering if you knew other guys your age that'd be willing to go older.
Oh, yeah.
100%.
Even like younger, like even under 18, like are willing to fuck like even like 50 year olds if they're like even like got a nice rack or some shit.
Like, you know what I mean?
Like, even if they're like still like, uh, uh, can still have babies or whatever and they're still good at sex.
But, uh, yeah, like that's what I mean is like kids, there's like, Boys, guys under 18 who would literally have sex with 50 year olds if it was available to them like easily.
Have you ever hooked up with a big age gap, like an older woman?
Yeah, one time it was just like a casual thing.
We were just, we didn't want to go anything further than casual.
It didn't want to make itself serious, the relationship.
How old was she?
41, 42.
She had snacks?
Yeah.
Was she a single mom?
No, she had kids.
Yeah, so she was a single mom.
Well, yeah, she pretty much was, yeah.
So the snacks were insane then, right?
Was she still married then?
If you said pretty much, that means she's getting.
Well, I don't want to talk too much about that.
I don't want to give too much details because then I'm going to look like a piece of shit and then I'm going to make other people look like a piece of shit.
But maybe if it was in like a more private setting, I would reveal more about it.
But it's just us.
What are you talking about?
No, no, no.
Hold on.
No details.
I know, but it's to the whole world.
You know what I mean?
No details.
Was she married or not?
It's a yes, no question.
Oh, bro.
So I'm a piece of shit.
No.
No.
I was just thinking imagine you're like your wife's kid.
You're like the side dude, you know?
No, it was kind of just like we.
We were convenient to each other in the moment, and we had been spending a lot of time.
And you know, we kind of just gave each other to ourselves because that's what that's how stupid love is.
Did you love her?
Yeah, we loved each other for a while.
This is pretty deep.
So, would you have like if she wasn't married, would you have dated her?
Uh, probably, yeah, like she probably would be my type, yeah, it's kind of so so.
Questions.
So, but we can talk about that if you really like want to know more about that.
If you don't, that's fine, but we can talk about it in a more private setting and I can reveal more to you about real stories.
But, you know, that's like me saying everything on here, that's too much drama.
And so now there's people who I don't want me to see or like hear saying everything about our business.
That's okay.
We don't have to.
So, why do you think women.
I would like to switch the topic about something a little more funny.
Okay, go ahead.
You know how popular it is for guys to be coping about their height these days?
Like, I'm six foot, and there's a bunch of guys who say they're 5'11 when they're really 5'9.
And you can see how tall they really are.
But not that that matters.
Not that height really matters.
But once you get under 5'4 or 5'3, you're pretty fucking short to society.
But that's not like a reason to feel shame or guilt about it.
So you're saying that they cope too, but they shouldn't?
Yeah.
Yeah.
Like they wear the hype boosting shoes, the, you know, the whatever makes them feel like confident in like this dating market.
But I understand it's hard because this dating market, it'll make you feel however, you know, about yourself to make yourself like, Achieve something in that realm of human.
Doug MP, you got any questions?
Yeah.
I'm not like insanely tall, but I feel tall as a six foot man.
So I just had a couple of important questions that won't go into details, detail of the situation.
So, did you, that thing between you and that woman was completely consensual and it was, Right.
So, like, she decided to be in it.
Okay.
You're learning a life lesson early, my friend, where, like, don't infantilize or victimize women.
Like, women know exactly what they're doing, especially when they're older, man.
You don't do that.
Like, you can't feel like a piece of garbage when a woman is willingly choosing to be there, dude.
You have to learn that lesson early, man.
You're probably raised right, whatever that means, where you think that men happen to women.
That's not true.
That's one of the harsh lessons I didn't learn until much later.
So, this whole I'm a piece, you are not.
If she chose to be there and you chose to be there, it was a choice you both made.
It's a choice.
Well, we were both pieces of shit.
We were both pieces of shit.
The game is the game, dude.
It's the game.
The game has always been the game.
I think what Doug is saying is She was the one who was going.
She was going regardless.
Yep.
Oh, yeah.
If it wasn't you, it would have been somebody else.
Women like that.
She was going.
Yeah, she did that before she met me, and she's going to do that after you.
We're going, and we're convenient, and we're around each other, and so let's hook up.
Why do you feel bad about it?
Huh?
Why do you feel bad about it?
Because it was like an interpersonal relationship kind of thing.
Okay, that tells me nothing.
What does that mean?
You knew the husband?
Yeah.
Personally.
How well?
Like, pretty well.
Like, you guys like hang out and stuff?
Yeah.
Like, I don't want to say his name or like how I know him.
You have to.
Do you ever find out or not?
Yeah.
Oh, what?
Damn, he found.
What was that?
How do you respond?
We handled it as best as we could with, you know, how the situation was.
Are they still together?
Yeah.
Bruh.
He deserves exactly what he got.
That's what I'm saying, dude.
If it wasn't you, it would have been somebody else.
Like, everybody always is like self righteous in how they view certain situations, if it's right or wrong.
But I see that.
And I, yeah.
Here's my question.
I don't allow it to destroy me like I used to.
Did the husband blame you?
Or her?
That's a good question.
Her.
But he was mad at me, too.
That's fair.
Because, in a way, the husband probably felt like you betrayed your loyalty to him.
Yeah.
Pearl always says that some people deserve to live in their own hell.
And this is one of those guys, dude.
And here's the thing as you get older and more accomplished, you're going to find yourself able to.
How can I put this here?
The opportunity to be the side dude is only going to increase instead of decrease.
So you should be learning how to navigate this now because more women, there are more women who.
Who wants side dudes who are married, especially as you get older.
So at least you got this out of the way now.
Yeah.
It's a learning experience.
I'm like much wiser.
Yeah.
I've had the invitation to be the side dude from the husband.
Yeah.
Well, no, it's more like.
I mean, this is what I, you know, me and.
Sorry.
I need to just go on one small rant.
Me and Lior and I were.
Disagreeing on something the other day where I was like, she thinks every man can lead a woman.
I'm like, I don't think so.
Some of these guys just can't.
I've had two invitations to be the side dude.
You just cannot tell me.
I'm like, give that wife to some other guy's guy because you can't do it, dude.
Yeah.
Yep.
And there's no logical reason why that guy chooses to stay, but he deserves to be there, dude.
He deserves.
And Once again, Jackson, that woman cheated before you and she's going to cheat after you.
Oh, 100%.
Yeah.
100%.
So, this whole feeling bad thing, man, like, I'm sorry, people, you're too young to realize this, but right around 35 to 40, people are at where they're going to be.
Most people.
Between 30 and 40, you end up where you're going to be, period.
100%.
I agree with Doug that this experience of doing you a favor is helping you.
To stop being an idealist and be more of a realist.
Yeah.
I grew up as an idealist.
Reality, I had to fix that real quick by showing me the truth of human nature.
Yep.
And honestly, you should get ready.
Odds are, if you get with, especially in your 20s, and you get with a woman who's semi, you know, a six or a seven, she's probably going to cheat on you, dude.
So just get ready for it.
Be ready for the worst.
No, no, expect the worst and get the best in dating.
Hey, you get out of it what you need most of the time.
Doug, I would disagree a little bit.
I wouldn't say expect the worst, I would say leave the door open for the worst to happen.
Because if you're expecting the worst, you're looking for it.
That's true.
And this is why we have women who have ICLIS.
They're literally looking for it.
For reasons to disqualify, to justify why they're incapable of having a relationship.
Don't do that shit.
Don't expect the worst.
Just leave the possibility open and know that it can happen.
Still, it would surprise you.
Yeah.
That's the best way to.
Yeah.
If you're an idealist, it's going to destroy you more.
If you're a realist, you say, hey, the worst can happen.
This is what can happen.
I'm not waiting for it.
I'm not looking for it, but I understand it can happen.
It doesn't destroy you as much if it actually happens.
I like that.
I agree.
Thanks for calling in, Jackson.
Appreciate it.
Thanks for having me on the show again.
Yeah, that's what I mean.
See, these old women, they can get these young kings.
They can get them.
But then they'll get older and uglier, and then the glasses will wear off.
It's crazy, you know.
Just remember hold on.
The wall is undefeated.
And like I said before, I honestly believe that younger guys are on a clock.
All men are on a clock with women.
Especially if they only have limited or no respect for them.
And there's nothing worse.
See, a guy would never marry a housewife and then seven years later say, You need to go out and get a job.
A woman will marry a man who ain't shit and all he brought was good sex.
And then a couple years down the road, Why aren't you making any money?
Why aren't you like, What'd you think was going to happen?
Okay, so again, this girl on the right, she can do whatever the hell she wants and she'll have no consequences just because she looks like that.
You know what I mean?
Yep.
Over 20 years.
Go to her pageant pictures.
Yeah, look.
Hold on.
Beautiful.
Scroll down.
They're all full.
Look at that, dude.
Come on.
She can do whatever the hell she wants.
Anything.
Yep.
Yeah.
She's in newspaper articles.
Yeah.
So, anyways.
All right, guys.
I think I'm going to close out the show on that.
Any final thoughts on the topic?
Why can't old women take the L?
Mark, go ahead.
Reality hasn't hit them hard enough yet for them to stop coping.
This is why the wall is undefeated.
It's coming.
Yeah.
Doug MPA.
I think that there's an infrastructure in place, like I said, for women to kick harsh realities and major life decisions down the road.
And this whole dating younger men thing is one of the latest and biggest copes.
Most men will want kids and will actualize, and then they won't be conducive to dating.
Uh, older women because older women they want to control you, they want to do all this crazy stuff that older women do.
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So, guys, bang them, clang them, you know, even stay with them for a couple years and get free rent.
But, make a plan.
In fact, how about this, Pearly?
You see women with their husbands who plan a divorce like two, three, four years ahead.
If you're a younger guy with an older woman, you can make a plan.
I'm gonna be with this older woman for two, three, four years and then duck out.
How much money could you save as a young guy?
You could get a mortgage for your future family.
And one day, you know, you could say, She built me.
You know, women always say they build men, but they never actually do.
Now you can actually put her money where her mouth is.
Yes, exactly.
You could say, You can build me.
Sugar mama, I'd like some money and I would like you to teach me some basic, you know, maybe she could teach you how to cook, right?
If you're a young guy and you don't know how to cook, she could teach you how to cook.
What else could an old woman teach you?
Honestly, honestly, if you're in class, if you're in college and she has a master's degree or a PhD, she could do your homework for you.
That's a good one.
She could take your online courses for you.
Yeah, yeah.
Hey, you know?
We need to start putting women to work.
I worked with this woman one time who was like this 4'11 black girl, but.
But her attitude made her like seven feet tall, right?
And she would date a black girl and she'd date these ninjas that, like, and she had a law degree and then she went to like Cambridge for a year to do all this, whatever.
But she did ninjas with legal problems.
And so while they were sleeping together, she would help them with their legal problems.
And once she helped them with their legal problems, once they got their case resolved, they'd leave her behind.
So she didn't learn.
Start putting these ladies to work.
You know what I mean?
I just had a thought.
Why does society enable women to cope?
Well, think about it.
Who are the biggest enablers?
Other women.
Why?
Because it's easier to enable another woman to cope.
So then she enables you to cope than both of you facing reality.
Yeah.
That's true.
Agree.
The sisterhood.
Yep.
That's true.
Cool.
What a wise guy.
Thanks for calling in, Mark.
Peace.
Got some good callers lately.
Yeah, I know.
Getting better, guys.
Again, if you don't have a job, please turn off the show.
Unless you're retired, retired is an exception.
But, like, anyways, Doug MPA, final thoughts.
Yeah.
I don't know how much longer, I don't know how long this older women dating younger men thing is going to last.
I think that younger women truly do hate men at a level that like older women don't.
So until the age of 35 or 30, you can see young men dating older women, but it's not going to be a permanent thing in the long run.
It's just not.
Thanks, Doug MPA.
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Appreciate you.
Cool.
Thanks.
All right, guys.
I'm trying to think what else.
Any updates on the channel?
I think the app, we're beta testing it like Sunday.
So we're going to switch over from one app to the other app in like a week.
And then documentary August is supposed to be when it's done, when we'll put it out.