Pearl Davis critiques Christian women who weaponize faith for control, specifically attacking Brittany DeLamora's monetized conversion narrative and hypocrisy regarding her past adult film career. The discussion expands to the host's own history of addiction, industry exploitation, and controversial views on dating efficiency and gender roles. He further argues that women's suffrage creates an imbalance by allowing voting rights without military conscription or childbirth risks, proposing restrictive voting conditions like homeownership. Ultimately, the episode challenges traditional narratives of virtue, gender privilege, and political participation through personal confession and aggressive debate. [Automatically generated summary]
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Christian Women vs Porn Stars00:14:56
What is up, guys?
Welcome to another episode of Pearl Daily here on the Audacity Network.
Today, there's some people fixing my AC in this house.
So if you see anybody in the background, that might be it.
I'm just letting you know.
Now, today we're talking about how Christian women see themselves in porn stars.
A lot of times, we need to go to hell because they just can't take the L.
We all talk about black fatigue and how we're sick and tired of the fucking weave.
There's something we don't talk about enough how a lot of these Christian guys are cucked.
You already know what's the deal.
They worship women based on how they feel.
Gluck, gluck, 9,000, fuck, fuck, 9,000.
Christian women most of the time did it all.
Gluck, gluck, 9,000, fuck, fuck, 9,000.
That was Eve after the fall.
She did it all after the fall.
Adam standing tall after the fall.
Now, Christian men, they can't say no to their wives.
And they want to put her in an environment where she thrives.
And Adam really should have told Eve no.
But now he's fucking her on the low.
That's where we gotta go.
Uh Take the owl, take the owl.
All right, guys.
All right.
What's up, guys?
Let me switch over.
Welcome to another episode of Pearl Daily here on the Audacity Network.
Again, I may have to do a pause on the stream if they need me to tell me what's going on with this AC.
Okay, so I grew up in a conservative Catholic area.
All right, I grew up in a conservative Catholic area.
And so it just amazed me, I guess, the things that Christian women would do publicly and still claim that they were representatives of their church.
Now, I guess there's maybe some disagreement in conservatism, Catholicism, you know, Christian, you know.
What sin can you be doing publicly and still claim to represent a religion?
Do you know what I mean?
So the other day, I think Laura Loomer and Candace Owens are going at it.
So Laura Loomer and Candace Owens, they're beefing, right?
And Candace Owens claims to be a Catholic.
Now, I grew up Catholic.
I don't think I'm the best representative of the Catholic Church.
Probably gluck glucked a little too hard once or twice.
You know what I mean?
I mean, let's just keep it a buck, right?
And.
In my opinion, I think you need to be a superior moral standard to represent a church.
Now, maybe this is like you can't do nothing.
Hold on.
No, okay, I need to untangle this.
You can't do absolutely nothing.
Like, you can't be banging the whole football team and then claim, oh, I'm Christian, right?
I think the whole point of representing.
Sorry, when I rolled back, this thing got stuck.
You know, like, for example, if a guy was actively robbing people on the weekends and saying he was a Catholic, I would think that the Catholics should be offended by this guy, you know, robbing people on the weekends.
But women, anything goes with them.
And if they fall into sin, they always use the term falling, right?
I fell into sin.
It's like, no.
The same way the guy made a choice, he didn't fall into robbing, you know, those people.
He had a cousin, he would rob people.
He would, he liked drugs, and so he'd rob people in order to get drugs.
Not proud of it.
Woman enough to say, right, I had a cousin that did this.
And he didn't slip and fall.
It was a choice.
The same way women don't slip and fall onto Poon Annie or Dick.
But Candace Owens, it just, you know, she's spreading all these rumors about Laura Loomer and all these people, right?
And, Let me see.
I'm just like looking at her page.
And I'm like.
How can you spread all these rumors about people and have like a cross in the background of your YouTube show?
I find that offensive.
And I'm not even like a good Catholic.
Do you know what I mean?
I'm a bad Catholic.
Like, I just find it a little bit offensive.
I find it like you're.
So you're using Jesus to build your brand while using the same platform to gossip publicly.
Is this a crazy question?
I'm like, okay, don't you have to practice it a little bit?
And they'll say, well, that's her job.
And I'm like.
I mean, there are people, like, if I took a job being a prostitute, I mean, do I get a get out of jail free card?
I don't think so.
How am I a bad Catholic?
Look, I have a potty mouth.
Okay.
I could go on.
I ain't waiting for marriage anytime soon.
I'll tell you, I'm not even going to sell anybody that dream.
You know what I mean?
It's like, you want me to try?
As a woman, it's like once you've lost your V card, yeah, let any girl try to sell that at a higher price.
That's just ridiculous.
That is just ridiculous.
It doesn't mean I'm not Catholic.
Well, I just think I'd have to do better.
You know what I mean?
Because I'm not trying to make that sale.
Oh my God.
You want me to re wait?
Yeah, right.
Yeah, right.
Sorry again, AC people.
Can you not hear me?
So, I have found Christian women to be the most manipulative women on the face of the planet.
I've actually, I find them a standard deviation worse than normal women.
I think they gossip about other people more.
I think they're more controlling.
I actually think they use religion.
As a way to exert control over their husbands and the world, they love nagging people.
They can never just let people be, right?
I mean, I believe Jesus is God, but come on, we need some standard here.
Um, and so what happens is a lot of these women, um, they want a get out of jail free card and that is why they go to God.
So what happens is women are sexual peak is like 18 years old.
Now, unfortunately for women, that is when you're really young and people do make dumber choices when they're young, right?
Uh, with less previous choices, I guess to choose from.
And some of the women use that as a get out of jail free card.
So, what happens is women make these terrible choices when it comes to men.
We whore out.
We absolutely are complete whores when we're young.
And women that, you know, because women whore to advance in life.
If the women that don't get what they want out of the whoring, like whether it's a relationship, marriage, there's winners and losers in life.
And the losers out of these women, What they do is they find God.
And it's always at the most convenient time.
It's like after you caught an STD, after you gained 50 pounds.
They never find God when they're young, hot, and ready to go.
It's always they found God at the most convenient time possible.
And so these women, what they do is they used to get attention and social currency just for being hot.
If a young woman walks into a room, all eyes are on her.
The eyes start going to the next crop of young women.
And these women, they can't take it.
They can't just age gracefully and just take that out.
So, what they do is they need to do an attention seeking performance and they find God and they tell this story about how they found God that has no accountability for their choices and blames everybody else.
And then they swap out the attention they used to get for being hot, they get new attention for being former porn stars or whatever.
So, today we're reacting to Allie Beth Stuckey.
She had Brittany DeLamora, who also came on my show, on her podcast.
And she just gave her another softball interview.
And we're going to react to conservative women's manipulation tactics.
So, what happens is women like Allie Beth Stuckey, Allie Beth Stuckey openly admits to having a hoe phase.
And again, she wants to be redeemed not by doing any work, not by stepping out of the spotlight.
Christian women, they want the clout and the currency, the social currency of being religious without doing any of the work.
So you don't see her having like a modest appearance, right?
You don't see her not wearing any makeup, you know.
And by the way, this is going to take you time to do every day.
That's an hour away from your kids.
The podcast, I would say two hours of filming.
And then on top of that, You're going to get, if she's writing her own material, which I would expect, that's going to take all day.
So, this is not a stay at home mother.
This is not a woman that's paying attention to her kids.
I'm not even saying she's wrong for doing this, but I'm saying pick a lane, bitches.
Pick a lane.
Pick a lane.
Stay in the lane.
Brittany De La Mora worked in the porn industry for over six years, but God radically transformed her life.
And now she helps women in the porn industry get out and live redeemed.
Her story is absolutely so.
Again, the way they say that she helps women in the porn industry get out, it's like, are you really helping?
You're just giving them a get out of jail free card.
That's really it.
Absolutely incredible and is so encouraging to us when we remember that God is a God of redemption.
He makes beauty out of ashes.
You are going to be so edified by the testimony that she shares today.
So, without further ado, here is Brittany.
Brittany, thanks so much for taking the time to join us.
Could you first just tell us who you are and what you do?
So, yes, my name is Brittany Delamora, and I was in the adult film industry for seven years of my life.
Now, my husband and I run an organization called lovealwaysministries.com and just launched JesusLovesPornStars.org.
And what we're doing is going into adult conventions, ministering the gospel.
We just went to one in January and got to pray over so many consumers and adult industry workers, and we help people find freedom from pornography.
Wow.
Well, I can't wait to get into more of what that work looks like.
What a unique ministry that God has called you to.
I first want to hear your testimony.
We'll get to how you became a Christian, but let's back all the way up and just talk a little bit about your childhood because that has something to do with the kind of headspace that you were in when you got into the adult film industry.
So let's back all the way up.
Yeah.
So going back to childhood, I just grew up in a very chaotic household.
It wasn't a Christian home.
We didn't know God.
He wasn't in court.
Get out of jail free card.
Again, I don't want to hear it.
Childhood Chaos and Insecurity00:04:51
I don't want to hear it.
You chose to whore out because you wanted to.
It wasn't because of your parents.
It was you.
Or discouraged.
I really believe because God is love.
Without God, there's just no love in a household, you know?
And so it was very chaotic, a lot of verbal abuse, a lot of physical, emotional abuse.
I just really grew up with a lot of insecurities and a lot of self hatred because you internalize the words that are spoken over you.
And so I just felt like.
I just remember, like, at 10 years old, like going to bed with like a roll of toilet paper, like just crying myself to sleep and just like asking, Why am I even alive?
Like, what is the point of life?
Like, just having these questions of no purpose, no identity.
And was I just born to feel pain my entire life?
And that's genuinely how I felt.
And so I made all of my decisions based on that place of brokenness.
And you say that there was verbal abuse.
And gosh, what pain you must have been feeling as a 10 year old to be able to.
Just cry yourself to sleep at night.
What were some of the things that you were hearing in your home?
You're a loser.
I hate you.
I wish I never had you.
I mean, the list goes on and on things that I could never say on your podcast.
Yeah.
Gosh, I'm so sorry.
And were your parents together?
Were they made?
This is such a solid, like, imagine if you had a pedophile on here and this was the kind of interview they were giving.
Like, again, it's just, I mean, this is performative Christianity.
They were together, but they were separated.
Okay.
So, if that makes sense.
Yeah.
And I'm sure that kind of led to the insecurity and instability you felt as a child.
Yeah.
And get out of jail free card.
A lot of people had insecure childhoods and didn't become gang bangs on camera.
You know, they didn't do gang bangs on camera, or whatever the hell that video is.
So, tell me more about growing up and then that fateful trip.
That you took when you were a teenager?
Yeah.
So when I got to probably about middle school, high school, I just, my search for validation began.
And I thought, like, I just need to have a boyfriend.
I need somebody in my life.
And so I dated a couple guys here and there.
And then in high school, I just started to pursue this guy that I was attracted to.
And eventually we started dating and I lost my virginity to him.
And then his brother called me and told me that he had cheated on me with three different women.
And I was crushed because, of course, in my sixth year, And okay, you didn't cheat.
We all, bitch, we all been cheated on.
We've all been cheated on ninjas.
Look at so, all of this is gonna um elaborate to I was the victim, I did nothing wrong.
That's really what it's gonna come down to.
Teen year old little heart.
I thought, well, this is the guy that I'm gonna spend the rest of my life with, and um.
After that, I had told my friends, I'm heartbroken.
I felt not only rejected at home, but now rejected by the guy that I just gave everything to.
And so they're like, well, let's just go to Mexico and party.
Now, again, you gave everything to.
Did you give him obedience?
That's the problem.
Women that have nothing else to offer only look at sex as something to offer.
How is that different than a whore who just gives you sex?
How is it different?
Respect, obedience?
No.
Clearly not because you're talking about it on this podcast.
You're talking about this guy from middle school.
Can you imagine your wife, you've promised her the world and she's still talking about her ex from like freshman year of high school, bro?
Because we live so close to the Tijuana border.
So we went out and in Mexico, by the way, at that time, you could get into any club with a valid high school ID.
You're supposed to be 18, but you show your high school ID and they would let you in.
And you lived in San Diego, so it was just a drive down.
Exactly.
Yeah.
I lived probably 10, 15 minutes from the border of that.
And so we go to a club.
I get drunk.
Your parents didn't have, they didn't care.
No, they did actually.
My mom was very, very strict.
She, I think I had told her I was going to spend the night at a friend's house that night.
And then that friend's parents were not strict.
And they're like, oh, yeah, go ahead, go have fun, you know?
So we went to a club.
It was the first time that I had ever gotten drunk.
And I went outside to get some food.
And I see another club across the way and I recognize the name of the club because there were some guys in my high school class that would talk about how beautiful the women were.
Addiction and Skepticism00:11:02
So, out of curiosity, like, what do these women have that they're always praising these women?
Like, I'm just going to go.
Again, it's never, it's, oh, I was just curious.
It's like, no, I was horny and I'm the prowl bitches.
It's just incredible.
Hold on, let me.
What up, Doug MPI?
I figured you might as well react.
It's this woman again.
Have you seen that clip where it's going around on X where they're like, oh, yeah, I don't know why Brittany DeLaMore went on Pearl's show because she got cooked.
And now everyone is resharing that clip where you told her that you haven't seen her take accountability and she's trying to make herself sound like a victim.
It just got reshared all over X, like a couple.
I think about a week ago.
Yeah, I saw Defiant Baptist.
Yeah, yep.
Yeah, he's.
I can show that if you want.
Let me see if you can find it.
I know I have done this videos.
Keep going.
Yeah, it's just, guys, this is the template going forward right here.
The whore to church pipeline.
You know, Pearl was the first to say it, and we're seeing more and more of it.
This is a template.
Whore out and then make your money and then find your simp at church.
What do you think is more important, people's actions or their words?
Their actions, the condition of their heart.
So, do you understand why I would be a little bit skeptical if you're telling me after you were baptized, you were still doing porn?
Yes, because I believe that sanctification is a problem.
And I didn't really understand the knowledge of the scripture.
I didn't fully understand what I was doing.
The moment that I began to understand and to have a relationship with God, everything changed.
I've been out of the porn industry for 13 years.
I've never looked back.
I've, you know, really truly rebuilt my life on the foundation of Christ.
You just keep going.
It's like they monologue.
Right.
Yeah.
They say so much with saying nothing at all.
And I would still say that.
We're an adult, Brittany.
I don't, you know, I'm not even that religious, but I don't need a book to tell me it's wrong to have sex on camera.
I don't.
So, I really think this whole thing, like, oh, I didn't understand.
I didn't know.
It's a process.
I mean, that might work on the simps you interview with, but it's not going to work on me.
How would one know the scripture if they were never taught the scripture?
You went to.
You need.
Okay.
It's just incredible.
You need scripture to tell you not to get naked on camera.
Apparently.
Catholic school, you went to Catholic church.
So you were.
Okay, now she's.
Let me see the other one.
Okay.
So again, it just goes from monetizing porn to monetizing God.
And that's really where I have an issue with it.
It just doesn't seem genuine to me.
Yeah.
And it's when I question this like a normal person is going to, right?
A normal person that never did any of this stuff is just going to think that you're full of being honest.
And then you get the shaming language as soon as you question a story that's really questionable, Brittany.
Like, you said you did porn after you were baptized.
You know, it's like.
And I had no understanding.
Yeah, but.
Yeah, but.
I had no understanding.
Shut the fuck up, bro.
Got to learn to give people grace.
I literally had no understanding.
Oh my God, Steve, the moment that I read that I was living in sin, that I was going to get cast down into a sickbed along with everybody who was committing immorality with me, I quit the porn industry.
I quit.
I never looked back.
The fruit of my life is helping people.
I have helped thousands of addicts get set free.
I've helped women leave the porn industry to follow Jesus.
Like, I'm helping.
You're giving yourself way too much credit.
Way too much credit.
I mean, How much help do you need?
If you want to leave the porn industry, you're going to leave it.
People do what they want to do.
I mean, women that want to divorce their husbands, do they really need a lot of help doing that?
Here's the thing, guys.
No one, women don't do anything without some kind of reward.
And women like her, they were addicted to attention from men, the money and the lifestyle, or they were addicted to the toxic behavior of certain men.
And now she's addicted to.
To proselytizing in this new attention that she's getting for being a Christian.
These are always addicted to something and they don't do anything for free, period.
Hoping people.
So, I mean, and then I prioritize being a wife and a mother.
So, when you think, oh, I'm getting rich off speaking engagements and things like that, I only travel a handful of times a year.
I'm not getting rich off the church because I choose to value my husband and my children and to prioritize my family.
Okay, let's talk about that.
You said you prioritize being a wife and a mother.
So, are you aware that every time you step into the public sphere, there are men that struggle with lust?
You're aware of that, right?
Yes.
Are you aware that by being in the public sphere, men are going to want to Google your work?
And there's also going to be men who are going to find freedom.
Those are the men that.
I need you to answer the question first.
And then you can.
Oh, and it's yes, and.
Yes, yes, yes, and.
Are you aware that by being in the public sphere, you are drawing more attention to yourself and that is putting your family in the position to be sent more and more of your videos?
Are you aware of that?
Yes.
Okay.
And you choose to do it anyway, correct?
It's not that, oh, I just.
Women are incredible.
It's like, hey, maybe your kids will get sent less of your videos.
If you weren't in the public spotlight.
And she's like, but I love this, but I can't.
No.
Go choose to do it anyway.
This is a conversation that my husband and I have prayed about and both felt convicted that this is something that I need to do to serve God.
Okay.
Well, you have to understand how a normal person is going to view this.
Normal people with normal jobs that have never been tempted to do that stuff.
Right.
They're going to view it as you don't really care about your family because you're putting them in a position to be made fun of by further drawing attention to yourself.
I would completely believe you if you were not making money off of this story.
But the challenge I have is.
And she's lying.
She says she's not making money while her and her husband sell a course.
I'm like getting back to purity or some bullshit.
Her whole ministry, if you don't think that her, she has a ministry.
Ministries make money, especially in America.
The money I'm making is pennies.
Come on, Pearl.
Like, I'm really doing this out of service.
Like, I'm going to porn shows, not making a dollar, so that I can share the love of Jesus with thousands of people who watch porn and with hundreds of creators.
Like, I am passionate about helping people find freedom.
It's not about the.
They're just so used to what is it with the Lila Rose and Ali Bustaki?
And, like, the Christian women just monologue and they monologue so long and they say nothing.
Like, it's almost like they get to a point where they just can't have a normal conversation.
Like, you're supposed to stop.
There's a thing where, um, uh, you, you know, I know you've never seen any other Star Wars movies, but the last Star Wars movie, they, the, uh, episode eight and nine, they kind of painted themselves into a corner so that they didn't know what to do.
So they just, Threw a bunch of action scenes together at you and just hope that you didn't think about it too much.
And that's what whores do when they're talking.
They just throw, actually, that's what the left does too.
But certain people, to keep you from asking questions and making them make sense, they just throw a bunch of stuff at you all at once.
The dollar.
I have been doing this.
I have taken on so many speaking.
I wanted to mute her here.
I wanted to hear.
Including this one where I'm not getting paid for this.
Okay.
So I'm going to repeat.
I'm going to repeat.
The average person is still going to view it as this is not a priority to you.
Yeah.
Because, you know, your kids are going to be sent your videos someday and you're on social media.
Yeah, but it's going to happen eventually.
They're going to get old enough.
People say that.
Bruh, the delusion.
And that could be a consequence of my sin.
Women like this should never have kids.
They should get their tubes tied.
We got to stop encouraging whores to have children.
If it's on camera, you're cooked.
Especially if you got, you guys, you have to understand there's people that put nudes on the internet and there's people that have sex on camera.
That's a whole different level.
If you're the level of deranged to have sex on camera, You need to get your tubes tied.
You have committed to a life of being by yourself.
That's how it should be, but it won't be.
Yep, I agree.
That is one of the biggest arguments that I make with women who want to have children and are in the porn industry.
I want to be a pioneer and show them this is not the path that you should take.
And I understand that people aren't going to understand why I do what I do.
It's hard to understand the things of God when you're not spending time with God.
And most of our.
Bro, do you see that subtle disrespect?
Shaming Tactics Explained00:05:40
When you're like essentially, I am better than you because I spend time with God, although I, although she sucked a bunch of dicks on camera, bruh.
Of America, most of your listeners probably aren't really spending time with Jesus.
Right there, that's a shaming tactic.
I'm not trying to shame anybody.
This is just reality.
Essentially, saying you're essentially saying that, and you have to understand how this is going to be viewed from an average person.
The person that had sex on camera that got gangbanged on screen is telling me how I'm not holy enough.
You know, the number one reason people leave the church is hypocrisy.
So I would argue it does more harm than good.
And if anything, what you're showing these OF girls is they can do whatever they want, make a bunch of money, and even keep working after you convert and get a get out of jail free card.
Actually, my dear friend Melinda, I have shared her story, but she's off living a very Quiet life married with children, but that's the conviction that she has.
Oh my god, these Jezebels, these women are demons on her to the bar, and the bouncer was like, You can't come in.
And I said, Well, I'm not gonna drink, like, I just want to dance because I thought they weren't gonna let me in because I was drunk.
She talks 13 minutes for about Okay.
We're going to skip through her brokenness to here.
Okay.
Drop out of that class.
And then things just start feeling overwhelming and so hard.
And I'm just like, you know what?
I missed that validation.
So I went back to the strip club.
Um, well, I applied for a job at the strip club in Santa Barbara and got hired that day.
And I was still going to college at that point, taking a few other classes and a couple of producers came into the club one night and they were tipping me quite a bit of money and just telling me that, uh, Doug, did you say I'm sharing her porn name?
For research, this person in the chat was like, Was she a whore?
Really?
She's such a nice lady.
I was beautiful, that I was destined to be a star.
They said, We make romance movies.
If you're ever interested, give us a call.
I knew that they were talking about pornography, but at that time, I was already taking my clothes off for money and I was already promiscuous.
So I just kind of thought, You know, they're promising me that I'm going to be famous.
Why can't she just say, I enjoyed it?
Oh, you know, getting on the stage, getting naked, shaking my titties in the air just felt so good.
And I just couldn't stop.
I couldn't stop.
It's like maybe if enough people know my name, if enough people like recognize me, then maybe somehow like that's going to fill that void in my heart.
Like I'll learn to love myself or at least hate myself less.
And so it was like that promise of fame that I was like, okay.
I'll do it.
So I went to LA the next day and they put me in hair and makeup and continued affirming me and got me connected with an agency.
And the agent basically said, it's porn or school.
You can't do both.
And so I dropped out of school and I made porn my full time career.
And things took off for me very quickly.
Quick pause to tell.
Oh my God.
Okay.
Leaves the club like safely, just gets in the car with her friends and then goes back home.
And then, like, you were just able to leave without a problem.
Yeah.
And then after that night, did you, did that plant a seed in you that I want to do that again?
Or did that not really come into your mind until later?
You know, I was going through old journals and this is wild.
I don't even remember writing this, but I was writing, like, how am I going to pay my way through college?
And some of the things that I listed in my journal were stripping prostitution because I had met a woman in that mental institution when I had anorexia that was there.
You see, but so instead of saying I was lazy and these are the only ones, it would have been so much better.
I mean, when you talk about a mistake that you've owned, you associate a negative trait about yourself.
You say, you know what?
I was a lazy fat slut and I gluck glucked and fucked because it was fun and I didn't think there'd be any consequences and I wanted easy money and I did it.
And then there were consequences, and I wish I didn't do it.
Not because it wasn't fun, but because of the consequence.
It's kind of like, I mean, who hasn't drank too much and then you get hungover, right?
I mean, this is the equivalent.
When you're drinking alcohol, you're not doing it because you were pressured.
You're doing it because it's time to rip shots, baby.
And you have a lot of fun, but then the high comes down and then it's terrible, right?
And then you wake up the next day and you have this terrible headache.
And now you regret it because of the consequence.
And that's an honest way to look at it.
That's how her life went.
I mean, she got a bunch of fame having sex on camera.
I mean, fellas in the chat, was the first time you had sex on camera, the first time you made a sex tape, whose idea was it?
Was it the men or the women love having sex on camera?
Sugar Daddy Relationships00:15:48
Are you kidding me?
On Titanic, Rose got the fuck naked.
You know, Jack was like, let me paint you.
And she was like, please.
You know what I mean?
Can we.
Can we do some breaking news real fast?
Do you mind if I put a story in the private chat?
Sure.
You're going to love it.
You're going to love it.
Where's the private chat?
Where is it?
One second.
One second.
Or I'll put it in.
Yeah, it's like, why don't we just admit we do these things for fun or for money?
I don't know.
Is she a hoe for money or the love of the game?
I put it in the private chat and I put, look at that.
This is literally breaking today.
Okay.
DHS bigwig put on leave after ex boyfriend accuses glitzy terror official of a sugar baby scheme.
Oh, I saw this.
I didn't really know who is this guy.
So she's a, you can read it.
So a Department of Homeland Security counter terror official was suspended during an investigation into the claims that she built her sugar daddy out of tens of thousands of dollars after her jilted ex lover claimed her behavior posed a national security risk.
Julia Varvero, 29, was placed on leave after her ex boyfriend filed a claim with DHS alleging she swindled him out of $40K he spent during their three month relationship.
That's not that bad.
I'm just saying, that could be worse.
Try divorce, my man, my ninja.
Julia Varvero is on administrative leave as a result of investigation, and she is no longer serving in her capacity as deputy assistant secretary at DHS.
Varvero, a distinguished graduate of St. John's University Homeland Security, says the complaint is no more than a jilted ex boyfriend who's trying to get back.
The ex, a decades older divorce business executive known as Robert B., claimed he poured thousands into the relationship until realizing he was a little more than a bankroll.
Well, what did you think it was?
I mean, I'm kind of on the dude, I'm kind of on the girl's side.
I did not want a sugar daddy prostitution relationship after spending 30 to 40 cam vacations, cardio jewelry, expensive handbags, and shopping.
This guy's just mad he got dumped.
He thought that it was real.
They had something real.
She had something that he'd never seen before.
The love was so genuine.
Yeah, right.
You were a trick, my guy.
The money went towards a high flying life of travel, fine dining, and luxury shopping sprees, which started when the pair met on a dating app.
The couple traveled the country, staying at the finest hotels, and even made a trip to Italy, Switzerland, and Aruba, with Robert befooting the bill the whole time.
Everywhere we went, she'd always order the most expensive thing on the menu.
He kept going, huh?
Like the Wagyu premiere cut of Japanese beef.
He told the mail gripping that he dropped $1,400 on their first date and got nothing more than a kit, bruh.
Varvero supposedly turned her nose up at the hotel he booked for the Aruba getaway and guilted him into switching to a better report.
But not before slipping into the hotel's Cartier store to pick up a souvenir.
She was like, This is nice, but it's not the Ritz, explaining he caved and got them a room and upgraded hotel to the tune of $1,700 more per night.
Then they headed to Europe.
Robert B. said, Varvero gorted him into buying her a $3,500 Bottega handbag and a $1,000 camera ski gear and new coat.
She also then allegedly began pressuring him for rent during the DHS shutdown, and then he finally resisted giving.
Her a credit card, he claimed.
I'm not used to having to ask like this for a single credit card or help my run, especially being furloughed.
She texted Robert.
Any past relationship would have jumped and cared for me, which is what I like.
I was like, you know, that's not happening because I see how you shop, he said.
That got me the cold shoulder.
The relationship fell apart there, but not before he introduced Varvero to his daughter, who called her a Long Island gold digger and asked her dad, What are you doing? according to a DM.
Barbero, however, dismissed the entire mess as the work of her weird, jilted ex.
This is just a mad ex boyfriend putting together crap, and it's really weird, she said.
I thought it was a great relationship until it just didn't work, and that was it.
If we made a story about every failed short term relationship in DC, the town would implode.
Bruh.
And she's sorry, I gotta mute my phone.
I apologize for that.
And she was deputy assistant secretary, you guys, they make pretty good money.
Well, why wouldn't she not if she could get more money?
Oh, yeah.
Look at her neck.
Look at her neck.
It wasn't around her neck.
Let's go.
I almost feel bad for her.
She got a weird ninja.
She got a weird, you know, I almost feel bad for her.
Okay.
I know I should take the, I'm usually a team guy.
But you're dating a girl 20 plus years younger who looks like that.
What did you expect?
Yeah.
I mean, that was just stupid on your part to not expect it to be transactional.
Just know what you're in for, right?
And ask yourself is the poonani worth the money you're spending?
And if it's not, then move on.
But if you voluntarily gave that money away and you're mad that she took it and ran, I just can't really.
I mean, there are certain men that kind of deserve to lose that money.
I'm not.
Well, well, well, so here's the thing though you know, he has all the right.
To say his truth to her boss.
Yeah, he does, but we're all going to laugh.
Yeah, well, well, well, well, because here's the thing he's going to feel better about getting tricked if she has consequences.
So I'm sure he's fine with letting this get out because she lost her job as assistant deputy secretary of Homeland Security.
She lost a multi six figure job.
Because she was with this guy and turned him into a trick.
So, honestly, he may have lost $40,000, but she lost a lot worse.
Okay, what do you think of this?
Okay, so the New York dating game is tough.
Hey, Lauren, excited for tonight.
Are we good for 8 o'clock at Ted's?
I'm not good for tonight.
I had a lovely time these last few dates getting to know you.
I really appreciate the book you bought me on our second date.
This is hard to say, but I've been seeing someone else and I want to explore where that goes.
You are a great guy and I'm probably making a mistake.
I'm sending you a Venmo request for the $250 dinner that you owe.
You are trash.
So then she comes back.
Wait, hold on.
She comes back and she pays it.
Oh, okay.
Yeah, she says, wait, check your Venmo.
I sent you back the two women in New York are making money.
They have to make or getting a sugar daddy or something.
They don't need money.
I hope that helps.
Like I said, you're an amazing guy who deserves the perfect girl.
I feel like we would have worked together.
We just.
Felt more like the right people connecting at the wrong time.
Sorry about that text yesterday.
It was toxic and you did not deserve that.
I get it.
I could have handled the situation better.
If it makes you feel any better, my date the other night was terrible.
I kind of wish it would have been you.
I feel like I ruined things between us.
If you are open to it, I'd like to try.
Oh, no.
Come on.
I don't deserve it, but I'm realizing that I made a mistake with you.
Okay.
Would you fold or would you not fold?
No, I wouldn't fold.
You wouldn't fold?
You know how petty I am.
Come on.
I don't believe you because you didn't ask a question.
What do you mean?
How hot was she and how good was the sex?
No, I'm petty enough.
We're like, because I'll tell you.
So, you know, AJ's rants and reactions and I were twins, right?
And I've, okay, so I'm the more laid back one and he's the more talkative, extroverted one, right?
So we've had women approach one of us and then.
And then meet the other one and like the other person's personality better.
So, you know, maybe like a more laid back guy.
So they're like, oh, you know, I started by talking to your brother, but, you know, I like your personality better.
Or the other way around, they'll meet me on laid back, but then my brother's, you know, like really, really extroverted and kind of more assertive.
So they'll meet me and they figure I'm not their style.
Then they'll try to approach my brother.
And we had a pack.
If a girl approaches you, that's it.
Like the other one's off limits.
So we made it.
I've made it a point to never be second choice to anybody ever.
How would you, wouldn't you be first choice if she met you and would prefer you?
No.
So, like, just because she didn't know you before.
Yeah.
But if she met my brother and they were kind of like getting to know each other, like on a romantic level, and she said, Oh, yeah, you know, you're more my style.
No, you chose, you know, you chose the wrong one.
Sorry.
Damn, cold.
Yeah, you know how petty I am, Pearly.
Come on now.
I'm the most petty person you've ever met.
I just think that if she was attractive enough, you would probably string it out for a few months.
I think most guys would.
No, it's easy to say that, but like, I don't know.
I think I've seen men fold, even the best men fold for nines.
You know what?
How about this?
If I were in my 20s, if I were younger.
And she was like hot enough, you know, I could say, but now that I'm in my 40s, ain't happening.
Okay, let's keep it.
Her parents had put her in there because she was a teenage prostitute.
And she had just gotten out of jail.
So she.
I thought that text.
So, do you think, what do you think about him asking for his money back?
He had a covert contract.
So he, I don't like, I think it, I understand it, but I'm just not about like giving people things in order to get something in return.
So, like, I just think it's the cost of doing business, to be honest.
Yeah.
I would tell the guys, I used to mentor guys, like, don't date unless you have disposable time and money set aside.
Like, Then he should have just split it then.
Like he wasn't kind of being honest with himself about that he didn't want to pay for it.
Well, but here's the thing though.
Like he paid and then she's probably seemed really receptive at the time.
And then she's going to come back and say, you know, they probably kissed and hugged and stuff after the date.
He thought everything was good.
And then she hits him with that text message.
Because a lot of guys, if they get the vibe that it's not going anywhere, they'll split.
So the vibe was probably good after the date.
And then she's going to hit him with the okie doke.
Right, but that means you're like paying, hoping to get sex in return, and it's just not a good thing.
Then don't do that.
You know what I mean?
That's what guys do, though.
Well, then don't do dinner.
Yeah, I agree.
And do something cheaper.
You know what I mean?
So here's the thing, Pearly.
If a guy asks you out to dinner, he's paying for dinner with the hopes of getting sex at that time or somewhere in the near future.
And if a woman says that, that's the understanding.
Personally, I'll just split so we can just get to know each other and I don't have to feel like I don't want to.
I don't like people, nobody likes feeling entitled to wait, You know, I'm sorry, give me two more minutes on this.
What this whole I don't want to feel like I'm obligated that's how it was up until like modern day.
Women knew if I went out with a guy, he expects all of society would teach women don't take something from a man.
Unless you're going to give something back.
It's only in the modern day that women have imposed this, that reality is different.
Well, on the first date, you don't know if you'll like him or not.
I have to get to know you and then decide.
Like now, the burden of performance is on you.
It's can you make me feel like sleeping with you?
Yeah, I agree.
So it's like, it's like, well, you failed.
Like, that's not my fault.
Yeah.
So for me, so I would rather have it where a woman, Don't go on a date unless the guy is attractive enough, minimum, to consider having sex with.
I would never go on a date with someone that I don't find attractive enough to have sex with.
I just, okay.
But the like, the like, I think, and I think that's most women, to be honest, because we fill our time with so much useless shit.
Most women are like open.
Um, you could say maybe, but like now the burden of performance is on you.
You got to make me wanna.
Okay.
One more thing on this before you.
So I talked about this.
Before one of the worst parts about modern day and this whole not wanting to feel like you owe the guy is that stupid guys.
How many days have you been on with a woman?
You take her to dinner and the bill comes and she does this fake reach for her purse garbage, like she's gonna pay for the dinner.
And you're supposed to say, Don't worry, I'll take care of it.
And then that removes her from the well, you said you would take care of it, so I don't have to feel guilty about you paying for dinner.
Some guys split.
It's 2026.
So stupid, dude.
Some guys do.
Dumb.
I've had dudes ask to split before.
And did that change your opinion of the date?
Be honest.
Not really.
Really?
So, like, it was going really, really well.
You showed up with your, you know, all dolled up and stuff, and then it went well.
And then he said, Hey, let's split it.
No, I think it wasn't going well.
Exactly.
It was going well before that.
Like, I didn't really care.
Like, women don't really view money the same as men because we don't, like, you don't have a financial responsibility in a relationship.
Women just throw money away.
Men have to save and facilitate a life between a man and a woman.
Women don't.
Dating Rules for Men00:05:14
I think the first date, I wouldn't do dinner for a first date.
Because there are a few reasons.
I think the first date is to figure out do we like each other?
Could I have sex with you?
I can't do that on a full stomach.
I think dinner is the worst first date.
No, the movies are the worst first date.
No, I put.
I'd put dinner and also these movies you can like kind of break the touch barrier, we can hold hands or something.
Um, but like we could cuddle a little bit if it's one of those theaters, you know what I mean?
Like, there's no you can't break the touch barrier.
One, I'm full.
Who wants to have sex on an empty stomach?
You mean a full stomach?
Yeah, sorry, full stomach.
Yeah, I and three, what if I like if we get drinks?
I just think it's drinks or nothing.
I don't know why anybody does anything but drinks.
It's just my opinion because one, as a guy, you're competing with all of the distractions in our life.
Really, from our first conversation, you got 48 hours to hit in 2026, you got 48 hours to make me like you before women attraction.
It has an expiration date, so if you can't get that done, uh, sorry, we're moved on to it.
Might not even be another ninja, it just might be the next event, the next whatever.
Like, we're our brains, just we don't focus on anything.
Why would we focus on you?
And, like, and if you take us to dinner, like, we're looking for reasons to not like you.
So, you take us to dinner, you and now we're going to talk at dinner.
You've given me four hours or two hours or whatever it is, depending on like the type of restaurant you go to, probably not four, probably one to three, maybe, but to find things to not like you.
Why would you do that to yourself?
Get to, and then, and then now I don't want to drink Andy.
Like, if I drink, then your inhibitions go down.
You're in a better mood.
I feel passionately about this because.
I just, I've never liked a guy on a dinner date.
And I don't think it was the guy.
I think it was the environment.
I just, I think it's like impossible to make a girl like you in that environment.
That's my two cents.
Well, so the only reason how it's changed is because you're right.
You want to, okay.
When you're online dating, and so 50% of people meet online, you've been talking for a week or two.
So I would say that dinner, huh?
What?
Yeah.
A week or two?
Yeah.
You give these bitches two weeks to find something wrong with you?
Oh, how?
Well, you keep the conversation short, you know, and then by the time you meet up for like dinner or something like that, that's when you determine if you want to see the person again or not.
We have completely no.
I mean, I think if we don't meet within 48 hours of matching, I'm probably never like, I'm probably never going to meet with you.
Like, I don't, I don't like, yeah, but you're also on a different table.
Like, you know, most people have to, you know, work during the week.
No, no, I deal with PUAs, they say the same thing.
These are guys that go through like 100 women a year.
During the week is the best day to have dates, is what they say.
The like.
Monday through Thursday, because you're not competing with the weekend like events.
The, I mean, like, what else is, and if they're doing nine to fives, like, you're a hard worker.
You got two jobs.
You know what I mean?
Most bitches have one.
What are you doing after five o'clock?
Nothing.
You, hopefully.
Yeah.
Yeah.
You got me.
I agree.
You got me.
Most PUAs don't work either.
That is true.
That is true.
That is the same thing I have ever heard.
These ninjas do not have jobs.
Her job's actually helping other guys get laid.
Yeah.
Lasergo Pew Pew says Pookie ain't got no job either.
I just, I don't know.
You guys let me know in the chat if you guys have had really great dinner date experiences where first date you get laid after dinner.
Is that normal?
I don't know.
The best scenario for a guy, and guys in the chat, Let me know if this is happening.
I'm pretty sure if you're young and you were decently attractive as a guy, especially like college age or when you first got your first apartment, you ever have those nights where you're chilling at home playing Xbox or PlayStation and your friend's like, yo, man, we're going to some party or we're going to do something?
You're like, no, guys, I'm good.
Like, no, no, seriously, come on.
You're like, ah, dang, all right.
So you literally go to someplace in your sweatpants with maybe a hat on or something like that.
Obsession with Weight00:03:35
You meet some chick.
Then all of a sudden, you're getting laid.
Yeah, she was ovulating, right time.
That's the other thing.
You know, you got to check her health app, you know, because sometimes it's not you, it's just, you know, the time of the month.
We're horny like five days of the month.
We can go back to the reaction.
I just wanted to pick your brain a little bit.
Was trying to introduce me to her pimp and glorifying the lifestyle.
Like we have a beautiful home together and, you know, he buys me everything I want and just like glorifying it.
Right.
And so in my mind, I'm like, oh, well, great.
That's a great career choice, you know?
And so I actually wrote that in my journal as probably a 17 year old little girl.
Wow.
Teenager.
Wow.
So it was in your head that that was a possibility that that would be a good way to make money.
Yeah.
Talk to me about your, Eating disorder that you had when you were still in high school, correct?
Did that happen after that night, after your boyfriend cheated on you?
And what was kind of going through your mind then?
It did happen afterwards.
I don't think I actually correlated the two.
I was like, and I used to like idolize celebrities as a teenager.
We all did when we were teenage girls.
And I was a huge fan of Mary Kate and Ashley Olson and remember seeing them losing all this weight.
Terrence Hilton, Christina Aguilar, like Nisha Barton, the tiniest, tiniest people.
Yeah.
Women never grow up.
I mean, that's what they're most excited about the celebrities.
Women never grow up.
Obsessed with all of them.
And my friend and I decided, like, hey, let's go on a diet.
And like, we just wanted to lose 10 pounds.
And so we lose 10 pounds.
And then from there, like, I just became obsessed with it because, because my home was so controlling, it became the one thing about my life that I had control over.
And at that age, also, we were in summer school at this point.
And there was a guy that's like, oh, you guys are trying to lose weight.
Like, my brother sells cocaine.
So we had bought cocaine a few times and like that helped us to not.
Be hungry, and I just became very obsessed with being very thin to the point that my mom was like, What is wrong with it?
Like, something's wrong, like, you are losing a lot of weight, you know, you're not eating.
And she was doing Coke, yeah, that's how you get really thin.
So, that's when she had gone through my room while I was at school and found a journal.
I've always journaled with like my weight, I would put my weight at the beginning of the day and the end of the day, and um, she put me in a mental hospital for you know to try to help me with.
Is she trying to say that she did nothing to get put in the mental hospital?
The eating disorder.
The parental dynamic is so interesting there because, in a way, your mom did care.
You said that she was strict, but then also that emotional abuse that really shaped you growing up.
So it just sounded like a very complex and difficult relationship.
Yes, it definitely was.
And things have gotten so much better by the grace of God.
I mean, she babysits my kids, and I mean, she's wonderful.
Yeah.
While you're, you know, doing this because you're obviously not watching them.
So, I can't wait.
So, she talks all this shit about her mom on the podcast and then lets her mom watch her kids.
Did I catch that?
Yep.
You caught it.
So, either the mom wasn't that bad, bruh.
To talk about the redemption of all of this.
STDs in the Industry00:03:35
So, you went to that rehab or that institution.
And then, after that, is when you went to school and you got into pornography after.
Becoming a stripper and kind of getting scouted by these producers.
So, you said that after that, after you started things, started moving very quickly.
What do you mean by that?
I mean, I started getting booked almost every, literally every single day.
I worked 70 something days in a row before I caught gonorrhea and then wasn't able to work for like a week.
And yeah, like STDs run rampant in the industry.
They say that they don't, but they do.
At the time, When I was in the industry, you would get tested every 28 days.
I believe they've changed their testing protocols at this point.
But I mean, just because you test, like you may work with somebody that just slept with somebody at a bar the night before.
And now for the next 28 days or 27 days till their test, they're now.
I know Sterling came on my show and he was like, oh, porn stars have lower STD rates.
I'm like, bullshit.
There is no fucking way.
Yeah.
Tell that to the.
A lot of studios, you know, a lot of corn star studios had to move to Vegas because they had Mr. Marcus, the corn star, he had something and he gave it to a whole bunch of people because he would take his test and fold over the part that was positive.
And he gave a bunch of women an STD and they passed a law where you have to wear condoms and corn in California.
So everyone packed it and moved to Vegas.
What was the name of the guy?
Mr. Marcus.
Mr. Marcus.
Oh, he was giving everyone syphilis.
That's a good thought.
And that?
It says prosecutors say a veteran corn actor known as Mr. Marcus has been sentenced in Los Angeles to 30 days in jail for knowingly exposing at least two co stars to syphilis.
The 42 year old actor, whose real name was sentenced Tuesday after pleading no contest to one count of exposing another's communicable disease.
It's crazy.
It's curable.
I'm looking at the why would he spread that when it's curable?
Listen, it says on July 13th of 2012, Spencer received a penicillin shot after testing positive for syphilis during a routine industry screening before he was to make a film.
Following a second screening on July 21st, prosecutors said Spencer continued to test positive for syphilis and altered the original form by obscuring the result on a photocopy.
So he got.
He got a bad strain that just wasn't going away, huh?
Yeah, they say he then returned to work with participating in two adult movies.
Two actors who worked with Spencer filed police reports after a producer discovered the altered form.
And because of him, now California, you have to wear condoms in adult movies.
Crazy, right?
Spreading that around.
So crazy.
So that was my first ever STD.
I'd never had unprotected sex before the industry.
And my agent was like, oh, it's just a shot in the butt.
You'll be fine.
You know, like everybody gets it.
Very just normalized it.
Fame, Drugs, and Brokenness00:10:46
You know, like, was that jarring or were you like, okay, if this is the price of fame and money, I guess it's fine?
At first, it scared the living daylights out of me.
I didn't even know.
I was like, is this permanent?
What is this?
Am I going to die?
Like, I've had so much Botox.
Like, their faces are so fucking frozen.
I knew nothing about it.
And he just really just normalized it.
Hey, it's just like getting a cold.
It's a shot in the butt.
Like, you're going to literally, you're going to get a shot and it's going to go away and you're going to be fine.
Everybody gets it.
And he really normalized it.
And I was like, oh, okay.
Like, I guess, you know?
Yeah.
So I went and got the medication and it went away and I was able to work again.
But I mean, I was nominated for like best new starlet within just a matter of months of being in the industry.
So, like, things really, when I say things took off, like, The fame that they promised me.
I mean, I never looked at myself and they promised me the fame you got, bitch.
It's just like, how are you tricked into this?
I don't know.
Am I crazy?
I just, I think it's like the easiest thing to avoid doing porn.
It's so easy to just not do it.
Like, I got offered a million dollars for a sex scene and I didn't even think about it.
Like, it wasn't even, it wasn't even hard for me.
Like, it wasn't even a thought.
And I think that's higher paid than most.
What is the average, average sexy?
They're like, Pearl.
Like, it's like, do you know what's so crazy?
Hey, do you know what's so crazy?
The average, they'll use this logic against me.
Well, they'll say, the only reason I didn't have sex on camera is because I had a Catholic upbringing and I knew, but then simultaneously say that I don't know God now to rationalize anything when I don't do their behavior.
So, like, how did I say no when I don't know God?
You know what I mean?
It says the average yearly income for a female adult performer, these are in the actual industry, is about $58,000 a year.
Get a million dollars.
I could have just spent two hours and got a million dollars.
Yeah, but then, ugh.
Yeah, I know.
I need more than that to bang Adam 22.
Dude.
Considered myself famous, but the attention that I was getting was what I had been craving all those years.
Yeah.
And were you still doing drugs at this point?
You know what?
It's not even they're saying Pearl has morals.
Guys, I don't know if it's morals.
I'm going to be honest.
I think I just would feel uncomfortable having sex on camera.
Like, I think I just, I'm too awkward for it.
I just would not, I don't want that many people to see me like that.
You know what I mean?
But remember, guys, check out Pearl's reaction video where she talks about Shannon Elizabeth and Say she danced.
But what about just topless scenes?
Because, you know, it's so empowering.
It would be so empowering.
And for you to take the narrative back over your body and connect with your fans.
All the cope that these women are using to do, they're just like, Oh, how much we talking?
I just couldn't do it.
I don't know.
Although, would I do it?
It's like, bruh.
Or had you stopped that after rehab?
So I stopped, but then I was on set with a director who, come to find out, was just somebody who's really cruel to women.
And he told me that I was fat and that if I ever wanted to make it in the industry, I needed to lose weight.
I was only like 105 pounds at that time.
I mean, a lot thinner than I am even today.
And that really triggered something in me because what he didn't know was that I had just gotten out of not only a mental institution, but then I did an extensive outpatient treatment for anorexia and I was not fully healed.
It's just, you know, and so he triggered it, it triggered me.
And so I saw a woman, I was living at that point in a model house.
So model houses, basically, agents will.
They have like very large houses and they'll rent each room out because a lot of the women in the porn industry will come in from out of town, shoot for like a month, and then go back home to their family.
And so I was staying in a model house and I asked a girl, Hey, by any chance, can you get some coke?
You know, and she was like super suspicious, like, Why?
Who told you?
And I'm like, No, no, no.
It's just, I just want to lose a little weight.
And she goes, Oh, yeah, I can get you some.
And then she gave me cocaine.
And then from that point forward, I mean, I'd only been in the industry for maybe a month or two at that point.
I started using drugs every day after that.
Was it just cocaine?
Oh no, I mean, it transitioned from cocaine.
We have a drug addict.
We're letting, like, do you guys see how crazy of a person this is?
That we're letting in onto the stage.
This is a coked out drug addict who was put in a mental hospital and did porn.
And the church says, right this way.
I'm not saying you can't let her in the church, but maybe like we have a second room in the church where we put all these like crazy people and keep them away from the general public, you know?
And then maybe with good behavior, they can come back into the general public.
But we're in a woman's world, which is the devil's world, which means we put the worst people ever on stage.
So into Norcos, into Oxycontin, and then.
To heroin and then to crystal meth for a little bit.
I mean, it was Adderall.
I mean, I would use just anything I could get my hands on.
Looking back, were you trying to numb any pain or guilt, or was it just that it started to make you feel good, started to make you lose weight, and it spiraled from there, or maybe both?
It was both, Anna.
It started with the weight loss, but what I realized was, oh, wow, drugs make doing this kind of work easy.
Yeah.
You know, because.
I wasn't much of a woman of conviction.
There were very few things that I had convictions over in that industry.
And the drugs just kind of like numbed it.
Like there were some things that made me feel gross.
Okay.
So she'll say I didn't know and then simultaneously say she had convictions.
Pick a lane.
Pick a lane.
They made me.
What's the female friendly version?
The hero.
She's the hero and the victim at the same time.
And she's practiced this multiple times.
Like, how many times has she told this story since 2012?
Or how many times?
Probably more than she can count.
That's why when you started asking her questions in those clips, it all started falling apart.
I want to see Jason and Christiana.
I want to ambush them because I need that's one that I want to get.
Because when they say, oh, we're helping all these people, and I'm like, look, you guys came to my school.
And I gluck, gluck, just like the rest of them.
You know what I mean?
It's like, you didn't help anybody.
I was there.
I was there.
So, when is there speaking?
We're going to play that.
I feel yucky.
And using drugs just kind of like, was like, oh, whatever.
Like it just numbs everything.
And so, yeah.
And drugs give you this false sense of happiness, you know?
So it was like, I mean, I talked to people.
I just was, when I was at the porn show just a month ago, ministering.
I had my old makeup artist do my makeup, and she's like, I had no idea you were on drugs.
Like, you were the most friendly, most kind person, but it was like, it was a mask, you know?
It was the drugs that were just like making me feel happy, but it's a false sense of happiness.
Okay, y'all, how prevalent is drug use in the porn industry?
I only know two women when I was in the industry that did not use drugs.
I have lost so many people that were coworkers of mine, even in just recent years.
Some of the most well known women in that industry have just recently died of overdoses and suicide.
I hear a lot of people say, you know, why should we really care about porn?
These are grown ups consenting.
To making videos for people to consensually consume.
Sure, we might be personally against it, but why does it matter?
Like, is that an accurate picture of pornography?
Just grownups consenting to having a good time?
Yes, and no.
I think it might start off that way.
But I mean, I have women reaching out to me all the time that are so broken and feel so stuck.
So why should we care?
Because there's people in the.
Yeah, but women feel broken regardless.
Women always feel broken.
It's because we're kind of messed up people.
Um, okay, real jester mask saying is tricking women into free will, yeah.
They're actually hurting, and most of them will never admit it to the public because you have to put on a persona, right?
So, like, I had a stage name, and when I would post on my social media as my stage name, I'm not going to post a photo saying, I am so depressed, I feel like ending my life today.
That's always what they do, they have fun along the way, and it's like they feel guilty about the fun, and so what they'll do is they'll say, Oh, I like.
Women, we feel a lot of things at the same time, so we feel guilty and then we do it anyway.
So that almost makes it worse.
Um, you know, just all you got to do is say you did it and it was wrong, and that's it.
Yep, and nothing else.
In fact, every time you say that, just do a dramatic pause.
Like, I'm, I'm not going to show that side.
I'm going to put on a smile and say, Hey, guess what, guys?
Look who I get to work with today.
You know, look at what new purse I bought today, you know, and, and there's so much brokenness in the industry that people would never admit unless they're at their breaking point.
I've talked to other people.
Gay For Pay Controversy00:08:06
This was a man who had been in the porn industry and he talks about how, you know, it started one way where he was doing porn with women and, you know, he's straight attracted to women, but then it just caught Got more and more intense and more and more aggressive, and then it was gay porn because more money he was also getting a bunch of acolyte.
Oh, now I gotta listen to gay guys talk, dude.
So there's that whole gay for pay thing.
I'm sorry, man.
You bang a dude, you're gay for the rest of your life.
I don't care what anybody says.
Yeah, if you ever cross swords with a dude, okay, what do you think if they were like kids and did gay stuff?
Like, under the age, like, underage.
Do you think that makes them gay?
Because I met a guy recently who said that he was in a consensual gay relationship when he was like, it's really gross, but like, like, five years old.
And the guy was like seven or 10.
Like, they were both underage.
I'd never heard of this, but he said, like, when he told his story, it's more common than you think.
So, do you think that makes him gay for life?
Was he black?
No, he's white.
Oh, I was gonna say because let me, I don't think he's gay, but he had shit parents.
Yeah, that's what I said.
I was like, who's watching you guys?
The chat's saying yes.
I wouldn't have faulted you if you said yes.
I don't know.
Blades, like, did you ever feel that, okay, this is spiraling into more and more intense, more and more.
Scientists discovered women can't say it's my fault.
I know.
Violent content.
That is kind of scaring me.
Yes.
So, three years in, like, okay, so up to three years, like, I had some very hard nos on things that, like, I was like, I will not do.
I've never even done that in my personal life.
I will not do that.
But when it came to some aggressive scenes, like spanking and like smacking and spitting and pulling hair, like, I would agree to those scenes if they would pay me more money.
And though I hated it and it felt uncomfortable, sadly, some of it also felt normal to me because of my upbringing.
Yeah.
There is this big problem.
And we've talked about like the dangers of Pornhub and everything, but also just like the popularity of adolescent content or like pretending to be adolescent.
And that, of course, changes the taste of the people consuming it.
Like when you were in the industry, did you see that as a big problem?
Yes.
So when I say that I was not a woman of conviction, but there were very few things, that was one of the things.
So when I first started off in the industry, the reason why I was getting books so much is because I was 18 years old and I look like a little girl.
And they would put me in pigtails.
All right, hold on, Doug.
I need you to entertain these people for a second.
Dogs barking.
So, guys, let's talk about corn for a second, right?
I hate the fact that the red pill shames men for watching adult stuff.
Guys, if you're young and you're on your grind, I would rather have you putting in work, putting in long hours, doing a trade, and then rubbing one out than freaking wasting time on some bitch, especially if you're in your 20s, guys.
If you're in your 20s and you don't have something extraordinary about you when it comes to looks and stuff, you got a long way to go.
But once you hit your 30s, life gets better, I'm telling you.
So people automatically point any kind of, they think that any kind of consumption of porn is some kind of addiction.
I don't think so.
Women want to try and shame anything that a man can do to take the power away from him, right?
Guys, corn is okay to watch.
And it would take a lot.
In fact, guys, in the chat, how much corn do you think a man would have to watch to be called an addict?
How many hours a day?
And think about this when you're thinking about the calculation, put that opposite dealing with women.
So, let's say a guy is watching corn a certain amount of hours a day, opposite to how many hours guys deal with stupid ass women each day.
Honestly, guys, I think once again, if you're young and you're on your grind, you know, go to school, learn your trade.
You know, put in the hours, rub one out, and keep it moving.
There's a, oh, yeah, men shouldn't watch, men shouldn't watch corn.
Okay, and then do what?
I see five hours or seven hours is probably fanatic 24 7.
Yeah.
Three, four.
Yeah, okay.
Yeah.
I'm sorry, guys.
In your 20s, especially now more than ever, you have to stay focused on becoming a man of means.
You don't even have to become rich, but you have to be put yourself in the best position where you can live life on your own terms, whatever that looks like.
And there's more distractions now more than ever social media, 304s, people trying to make their problem your problem.
Guys, just rub one out.
Men shouldn't watch porn ever.
Okay, no, I don't believe in that at all.
I just never have.
Sorry.
What do you think about it, Pearly?
Do you think, well, do you believe in this whole thing where men shouldn't watch porn ever?
No, it's either we're going to require the sex slave forced by the parents or whatever.
Like the women, they're forced to have sex with men they don't like at 18 and be with them for life.
Then we can get rid of porn.
But if we're not going to do that, we want to give women choice, then.
Porn, it is right.
Yep, I agree.
Forced love or not, that's really what it comes down to.
Free choice, Chad.
No free choice.
Everyone gets one.
That's it.
And it's so funny because everyone's like, oh, well, we want to go back to the good old days.
And I'm like, well, are you going to do an arranged marriage for your daughter?
No, I want her to have choice.
Okay, well, like, well, did you see Andrew Wilson on trigonometry?
He cooked.
And he was talking about how men have obligations for the draft.
And the guy on trigonometry said, Well, women risk their bodies during childbirth.
He said, It's not the same.
It is the same.
No, it's not because men are compelled in the draft.
Women are not compelled to give birth.
The only way to equal that out would be to compel women to have children.
And it's never going to happen.
He cooked on trigonometry.
It was great.
And costume jewelry, and we could switch to that because I just can't listen to this bitch anymore.
Oh, I can get the clip at least.
Yeah, let's put the clip in the chat.
I'm like, I can't listen to her anymore.
I just can't.
Yeah, she's just awful, man.
And look, Pearl is on us.
I don't see anyone else calling out these trad con hookers like Pearl is.
Voting Rights Debate00:15:23
Why are you all alone in this fight, Pearly?
Wilson's kind of on it.
I don't think I'm alone.
But yeah, it's pretty much me and Andrew Wilson.
And Myron, right?
Myron's definitely on the train.
Yeah.
I see a reaction to it.
Let me see if I can find the actual.
Oh, yeah, here it is.
Okay.
It's in the private chat.
Yeah, I'm putting it in the private chat right now.
The thing is, it's really hard.
It's really difficult.
People think of things like, what's the argument against this?
This is an immutable character.
How could you argue that women shouldn't be able to vote or that men shouldn't be able to vote?
It's like, well, at our founding, they couldn't.
Women could not vote.
Well, at your founding, as you said yourself, you had slavery, right?
So things do change over time.
Sure.
But the thing is, sometimes in a good direction.
Sure.
It's sometimes in a bad direction.
Absolutely.
So the thing is, it's like, The idea that they had there was that most men couldn't vote.
There was no universal suffrage for men, including slaves, right?
For the most part, for men.
Bro, you know what's funny, real fast?
Because most people weren't allowed to vote.
Now, women.
I'm black, and I would gladly give up my right to vote if it meant women couldn't vote.
What about if black people couldn't vote?
I think that black.
There's enough.
I don't know because I feel I think if white women can vote, black people should be able to vote.
Ain't no way with black women, and even like the ninjas.
Come on, there's yeah, oh man.
Are there more?
I mean, you're black, do you think there's more Malcolms or ninjas when you talk to 10 black guys?
Oh, I mean, come on now.
There's a ninja infestation right now.
Yeah, we're okay with the Malcolms.
Malcolms are welcome.
The Carltons.
Yeah, we could do an honorary voting for like, and we'll put you in charge of it.
You could be the ninja rejector.
I have to sign off on black people voting.
I take that job.
You, your brother, and you could pick who would you pick as your third?
Like, it has to be.
Oh, yeah, Sean.
Yeah, you two and Sean.
It could be like America.
But so, American Idol, and they come in and tell you why they deserve to vote.
And the tribunal, that'd be great.
Yeah.
And the three of you, you know, working for a white guy, of course.
Then you can, oh my God, and it would be so funny because Sean would just have the straightest face and ask them, like, you can just see it.
Like, you would be like, are you kidding, man?
I'm like, Sean.
Sean would do a thing where he's like, Now, we decided that you can't vote.
Now, I know you feel some type of way about this right now, but when you go home and you think about it and all your emotions have kind of gone away, I think that you'll be able to see that our decision was so.
I can fix it.
He'd be the last person that the person talked to after the decision was made.
That's so true.
The arguments against women voting are pretty simple.
And it was the idea of landholdership and force, right?
Can women utilize force in order to maintain land?
The answer is no.
Generally, that takes men.
So, the biggest, like the, if you're looking at feminism, for instance, you had the anti suffragettes and then the suffragettes.
But the anti suffragettes' arguments were way better.
The argument was pretty simple.
It just worked like this You cannot erode or get rid of the patriarchy because you always have to appeal to it for your rights.
And that's a fundamental truth.
And since that's a fundamental truth, I've never seen a great reason why women should be able to vote because they can vote to send men to war that they themselves do not have to go fight.
They are not beholden to the draft.
Only men are.
Okay, pros.
And they can say, continue.
A scale of one to ten.
How much do you think that they're going to simp in their response to what Andrew Wilson said?
A scale of one to ten.
10, 12.
I know these guys.
Go ahead.
I'm stupid.
They're like, they have fear.
That's the thing.
We can sense when men have fear.
And we abuse it.
So, yeah, that's what these guys are going to do.
You're not beholden to the draft, perhaps because you're too old for it, but you were beholden to the draft when you were not too old for it.
So, your time could have come.
Could you not flip this argument the other way around and say women are able to vote, men are able to vote on things that affect women that don't affect men?
Like, well, all kinds of things.
For example, their right to vote, I mean, among other things, but, you know, things to do with sexual health, abortion, all kinds of things, right?
Well, I don't understand.
Abortion does have to do with men.
Okay, fine.
I mean, it does, but it has more to do with women because it affects them more directly.
Exactly.
But lots of other things.
I mean, Andrew's not buying that.
Men could pass a law that women have to wear a headscarf, for example, right?
So, see, that's inherently believing that men are like evil.
And at this rate, is a headscarf the worst idea?
Like, the only reason men would pass that law is because this has just gotten ridiculous.
Women are naked everywhere, this is just too much naked.
Our votes affect each other.
That's not an argument to deny the other sex the vote.
Oh, I don't understand.
Your argument is women can vote to send men to war.
My argument is it's called force doctrine.
My argument reduces to this.
If you always have to appeal to one sex for your rights, then why are you being imbued with the responsibility of that at all?
Because women have to appeal to men for their rights.
And anytime men want to take rights away from women, they can't.
Like that, and there's not a damn thing where they can do it.
The only thing is, I don't like that argument because most men cannot take rights away from women.
It's a select few.
I think we know what group, a select few that really have the power to do that.
But, like, I mean, the guy fixed him at AC, does he have that right, the right to take power away from women?
No.
If he hits a woman, he's put in jail, you know?
Yeah, about it.
And if you want proof of that, let me show you half the world.
Anytime collectively, men say women have no rights, they don't have any.
And that's that.
Right.
Collectively, but men do not organize.
Like men are more individualistic.
So they think for themselves and they don't like being part of a group.
So they're never going to organize.
Well, that depends, though, because we couldn't have a military if men didn't gather in groups.
We couldn't have had so many men overthrow government if they didn't gather in groups.
It's just, we literally have this block on gathering groups against things that would harm women.
Would you rather live in the city or the country?
Like a small town.
A small town.
I know.
That's the answer most men like to be by themselves more than women.
They don't like to be by themselves.
Well, but also small towns do have community, though.
One of the reasons why you go to small towns is because of community that cities don't have.
Right.
But who are the people?
That usually are in the community parts, like who's at home, who's at the school board, or like doing whatever.
It's usually women.
Um, like I don't know why it's like, uh, it's not really an argument.
Women are more social than men.
Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah, I agree.
But like, there are circumstances.
Well, okay, I think men will get to like get together.
Yeah, it's just when when men do gather, like it's before men gather to topple governments or like the military is something.
There have been plenty of volunteer armies where the men weren't getting paid, but they gathered to defend something.
They just blocked with women for some reason, and they have no idea why.
Yeah, it's not going to happen.
Not a damn thing that they can do about it.
So, the idea that they can erode the patriarchy or remove the patriarchy or in some way get away from the patriarchy to be strong, independent women is nonsense.
They're just always appealing to the benevolence of men.
Right.
But still, on an individual level, women have more power because women can, like, men don't have the power to just throw a woman in jail with a false accusation.
Only men really have that power.
100% true.
Oh, my God.
Andrew Moggs the fuck out of these guys.
This guy's so ugly.
Oh my God, look at that.
Look at that side profile.
Are they English?
Yeah.
Yeah, because like how many?
They said that England was one of the worst places in inbreeding in like the 16, 17, 1800s.
And you can tell by the people living there.
That just looks like inbred features.
The guy in the green, ugh.
Yeah, so ugly.
Always.
And so.
And your mogs.
They could say what they want.
Andrew's got a good, like, side profile.
He's got, like, a perfect side profile, for being honest.
I don't even understand what the purpose is of the vote for women.
What is it?
We can literally, via force, take it whenever we want, anyway.
What is the point here?
Well, I would imagine the point is to include the voice of half the population, which is naturally set on different priorities to those of men.
And since we live in a society which is half female, it would be worthwhile to include their perspective in half.
If we want to include their perspective, let's do, like, a quarter vote.
Or something.
I'm up for compromise.
You know what I mean?
Or if women pay taxes, then they can vote.
Like if they have no debt, no college debt, or some bullshit like that.
Look, I'm not even saying I can't compromise and say that women should have no say in anything.
What I'm saying is this has gotten ridiculous.
This has gotten absolutely ridiculous.
And to say that we have an equal say is just ridiculous.
What would be a compromise you would propose, Doug MPA?
Where the people say taking away women's vote, that's too far.
But what's somewhere in the middle that we can meet?
Married women can vote when their husbands vote.
It has to be the same.
So a married family can cast two votes the same way.
That's not a compromise.
It's not.
It's not a compromise.
You're compromising with the left.
Wait, what?
You're compromising with single women, the left.
Oh, this isn't that's like a compromise that can serve it like that.
No, this is a compromise with the single women that say, Look, it we're not going to pass taking away our vote.
What can you give us in the middle?
Because dang, um, this is where men like my dad says he loses.
Like, he would say this is just a stupid, even though it's hilarious, it's like a dumb conversation.
And you need to come up with, like, if you ask my dad what to do about abortion, he says three months, that's a compromise, give him four.
Like, then we can stop arguing about it.
Now we're done with the discussion.
I mean, so, like, how, I'm saying, what would be the equivalent of that for, um, for voting?
Uh, Oh, dang.
That's a good one.
I would say, dang, this is tough.
I've never been asked this question before.
Where a woman on the left can vote.
I would say homeownership, but that doesn't disqualify any kind of leftist, liberal, crazy person.
I would say education, but education on the left makes him even worse when it comes to voting.
I'd say net taxpayers can vote.
Like, if you're either have an insane amount of debt or like you're on government assistance, would be where my mind's going.
So, like, if some lady is killing it, doing real estate, and she, you know, she's not committing any crimes, she's living life like the man she is, has no debt, whatever.
I'll give you.
Okay.
Okay.
So, how about this?
Pay tax and you can have a say.
Go ahead.
She's not single.
No, she's single, but she's not claiming a child tax credit.
She isn't defaulted on any debt.
Okay.
Those would be the big two.
So single and not claiming a child tax credit and isn't defaulted on any debt.
Maybe military women?
Oh, yeah.
Okay.
Military women can vote.
Like women.
Enlisted.
I actually think the draft would take care of it.
I'd give up that shit so fast.
We make decisions.
Why does voting not affect them as much as it affects us?
Let me ask you a question.
Are you aware that in the United States we abolished alcohol for a period of time?
I've seen some moves about how that went.
Who got that amendment passed?
I don't know.
Women.
Okay.
Oh, no, no, no.
If you want to have an argument about.
Are disagreements with how women choose to vote?
No, no, no, no.
They couldn't vote.
Oh, I see.
That's what you're saying.
Okay.
They couldn't vote.
But they still got that amendment passed.
Okay.
The idea that women did not have influence or do not have influence or don't have moral influence on society because they can't vote is stupid.
So, what's wrong with formalizing that in the form of a vote?
Well, I just told you the very idea that women, well, like, let's start with this.
Do you want women to be able to get drafted in the military?
I personally don't, no.
Why?
Why?
Because I've never really thought about it, but it's just an instinctive reaction, actually.
Gender Privileges Gap00:15:33
I'd have to think about the exact reason, but I just think combat is what men do, I guess.
It's a very simplistic way of saying it.
And there'll be women who blow up and kick your ass, and there are women like that.
But not generally.
I am not against women serving in the military if that's what they choose to do.
Yeah, but what about the draft, though?
But I don't think they should be compelled to, no.
But men should?
I think in some circumstances, yes.
Like when the survival of the country is at stake.
So women get a privilege men don't get?
Sure.
Yeah, men get certain privileges.
So why do they have equal rights?
No.
What privileges?
Name a single privilege men get that women don't have access to.
What?
You mean legislative?
Anything.
Like literally anything.
In life.
Any aspect, whether it be governmental, social, women have all the privilege.
All the privilege.
Oh, yeah.
Hey, when the Titanic goes down.
Who gets on the lifeboat?
Yeah, yeah, but that's a very narrow context.
Or who dies in childbirth, right?
Like, I mean, come on.
We're different.
Almost no women die in childbirth anymore.
Some just still do.
Sure.
But I mean, some people die.
There's probably more women that die in childbirth in America than people who die on the Titanic.
Yeah, is childbirth avoidable?
You just don't have sex, right?
No, but what I'm saying is there are outcomes that are better for men in life than for women.
And that's a fundamental difference between men and women.
Yeah, I understand, but I'm talking about privilege.
What are any can you give me any privilege at all that men have that women don't?
Whereas I can give you tons of privileges that women have that men don't.
That's what I'm asking.
Privilege.
Well, I mean, the privilege concept outside the legislative framework is a difficult one.
Even inside of it, I'm asking for both, either any, in fact.
We got to get rid of this ugly guy.
What is he doing here?
It's really this guy's the guy's carrot.
This guy said like two words.
So they bring it up a little later, but 649 women died from maternal causes in 2024, and 4,700 men died in the workplace in 2024.
I'm going to look up one more thing.
How many women died from BBLs in 2024?
That's a good one.
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BBLs is one in 3,000.
One in 3,000.
And nobody talks about that.
I don't have the data on all this stuff, but I.
I would assume there are contexts in which men are more likely to be employed for a certain thing because they're more likely to be perceived as authoritative, as leaders, things like that.
Although that has changed with the kind of woke agenda of the last 10 years.
And it works both ways.
Like, for instance, preschool teachers, I would assume that people would vastly prefer that their kid go to a woman, right?
Right.
So it seems like that privilege is striped across.
And they shouldn't.
Let's bring the men, but men are so much better.
Like, you ever meet a male camp counselor?
There's nobody that loves their job more than a male.
The joy they get from those children, women just don't.
How about this?
Like, looking like good parents in front of the kids, but women just don't get joy from children.
Men, it's like, I remember I met this camp, he was like telling me about his job, and I'm like, that is the most excited I've ever heard someone tell.
Like, he loves these kids, yeah, or or like, um, uh, peewee football and peewee baseball coaches.
Oh, they love it.
Oh, yeah, yep.
So, like, what is the why is it that women get all of the equality, right?
But also get all the privilege?
That doesn't seem right to me.
That seems like it's backwards.
So, like, what I'm still waiting to hear from anybody ever what are these privileges men have over women versus what women have over men?
So, if you can go and you can be drafted and you can be sent off to war, right?
And women can't, but they can vote to send you off to war.
How is that not something which fundamentally needs to be addressed immediately?
That seems to me like it's completely lopsided and it's giving one class of people a significant privilege over another.
So, if we allowed women to be drafted, you'd be happy with them having the war.
Well, see, now we come into pragmatic problems, though.
The reason that you said earlier, I'm against women being drafted, is because they can't really serve in combat roles, only in support roles, with draftees of men would have to serve in combat.
There'd be a way where women could vote on like lower government stuff.
Like, I don't know, maybe they could have a vote in like the town mayor and like maybe their state politics, but not federal.
That'd be a compromise.
What do you think of that?
No.
Because the same tomfoolery goes on in state.
Because remember, states have state senate too.
Guys, put in the chat if you can think of a compromise.
I know it's easy to say women shouldn't vote, but we're in 2026.
Okay.
So, like, the only way you're going to get something passed is you're going to have to compromise on some stuff, right?
So, again, I told you with abortion, I think it should be illegal.
They think it should be legal up to birth, basically, three months, 3.5, whatever, for let's never argue about it again and just make that the standard.
How would you do that with voting?
Roles.
The reason women don't do well in combat roles is because, well, driving tanks is hard work.
It takes muscles, and you got to, you know, run the shells, and you have to carry hundreds of pounds of equipment with you, and you have to do all of this type of thing.
And generally speaking, women aren't equipped for it, which is why we've never had a female Navy SEAL to date, even though they've been trying for like 25 years.
We still haven't had a single one.
They can't do the job.
Now, what people always do is point out liars, right?
Well, some women can do it.
That's true.
Some can, but in general, they can't.
I guess.
But when you vote for a government, you don't vote whether to go for war or not.
It's the government that makes the decision.
There's plenty of people who voted for Donald Trump and are absolutely disgusted that he has started a war with Iran.
Okay.
You're just weak, man.
I was watching a video about how this guy was in the UK and he's talking about how there are UK women trying to use, do you like Trump?
As a qualifier in dating in the UK, he's like, What's that have to do with anything?
Like, we don't even live in the US, and you're disqualifying UK men for what?
What government was for?
I'm sorry, go ahead.
No, keep going.
Yeah, it's just like how UK black women talk like American black women.
Oh, we had all these struggles in the past, and so you would think that Jim Crow and slavery happened over there, it didn't happen, but they just adopted this whole thing with American black women.
Oh, for those of you watching, we have just a tentative.
I forgot, I was going to announce this at the beginning of the show.
We might be doing a dinner soon where you can actually get a ticket, and there's going to be like 10 people selected for a dinner.
In the next few shows, I'm going to put the link for it where you can apply.
It's going to be in Los Angeles.
So, tentative thing, tentative.
Of course, we are agreed on that, right?
Government's force?
Like, ultimately, that's what it reduces to.
When you say you're voting, you're voting for force and you're voting for force use.
Why does the United States have a massive military?
Well, because we're going to use it.
That's why we're going to use it.
Why do we have a draft?
Well, because we're going to use that too and have used it.
And so the thing is, is that a lot of what we're voting on is force.
We're trying to protect our nation from all foreign threats, right?
That's why we have this massive military.
That's why we have a draft.
That's why we have the potential for mass combat.
That's why we entered into World War II.
Right.
It's why we entered and there was a draft then.
And we're going to institute a draft at some point again, likely.
It's more likely than not.
At some point, we're going to do it.
So the thing is, it's like, why do women get exempt from that?
And if it's the case that you don't want them exempt from that, why is it that they don't go right to the front lines then and battle it out?
Like, draftees have at least the potential.
Am I going to have to ban you from my chat, alien girl?
What kind of simp question is that?
He's mean to the women that put their tits out on whatever.
Get fucked.
I know.
And half of them are sex workers and OnlyFans whores, but he's so mean.
Oh, no, not being mean.
Get out of here.
Well, that's a fundamental privilege that is not being addressed, right?
And yet women have the vote.
Doesn't seem like they care too much about men's rights, even though we're supposed to care about theirs.
Seems like.
I put you in time out.
Get out of here with that shit.
Get out of here.
If they have a lot of privilege in society.
Isn't that fair, Andrew?
I think a lot of women care about men's rights, actually.
Look, there's.
Oh, my God.
Let me do a street interview.
Do you care about men's rights?
What's that?
Men do have problems, but what about women?
There's a vocal minority which say that they don't and they hate men.
And look, we know those types of women.
Let's be honest.
A lot of women care about men's rights.
They do.
Give me like three of the most prominent ones you can think of.
Who cares about men's rights?
Well, I'm trying to think now, but.
I mean, we've had feminists on the show who are feminists, like Louise Perry, for example.
They're a different type of feminist to the idiots that you'd be spending your time arguing with, but the people who have a very sensible view of these things.
Yeah, lots of people like that.
Say my name.
By the way, coming back, not to change.
I know they thought of me and they didn't want to say it.
A good compromise for women to keep voting rights is upon divorce.
They are not entitled to any monetary benefits and child custody.
Oh, they get to keep their rights as long as they agree to that.
I think most men would say that's fine, right?
You would you say yes to this deal?
You'd have to, right?
Women to keep is a pun of words, they're not entitled to any amount of evidence.
Yeah, but what about the women that I mean, think about the black community.
Oh, less than 28% of black women will ever get married.
So, what you know.
So, you'd have to have a baby Mama Claus.
Yeah.
Yep.
But coming back to your point, I mean, one of the things that doesn't make a lot of sense to me is, for example, yes, it's true, men serve in combat roles and women don't, but women bear children and men don't.
And there's a huge disadvantage.
I'm not even doing that.
So, in all sorts of societal outcomes from a materialistic career perspective to spending the time to bear the child and then to nurture that child.
Right.
So, we.
Like, what?
Well, that's backwards.
No, no, hold on.
The gender pay gap discussion, which is kind of stupid in a lot of areas, is actually a reflection of the fact that there is a motherhood gap in lifetime earnings, which is if you're a woman who bears children and they're less.
Take more time off, then over the course of your life.
Less overtime.
Yeah.
You will earn less.
So that would be one disadvantage that I could give you where women contribute a different.
But now we have daycare, so you don't even have to take time off.
So I'm going back after like two weeks.
They pop that.
I mean, Candace Owens is flying everywhere like a month after she gave birth.
She was just, fuck these kids.
Am I right?
So you might say, well, men get drafted, women carry children.
It's not a disadvantage.
Oh, no.
Oh, they have to stay at home.
Oh, I don't raise their kids.
Oh, ah.
But where's the disadvantage again?
The man's in the.
Oh, no.
The men get drafted.
Where's the disadvantage?
You have got, what a simp.
Do you know what's crazy?
He'd be the first one like killed in war.
Like he just would, I can't imagine he would make it that far.
No, no, he'd be in jail.
He wouldn't even go.
Yeah.
He wouldn't answer the call.
Are you crazy?
Yeah.
Okay.
They get shot in the face.
And women earn less money over the course of their lives and have to carry a family.
No, they earn more.
It's a risk to their lives, potentially.
What they have instead is they now.
BBLs are a risk to their lives and they still do those.
There's a higher risk of death from a BBL than childbirth.
Now, don't have to pay for daycare and they can depend on somebody else's income, which is taking care of them.
Oh, that's terrible.
Oh my God.
You get to stay at home and you don't have to do anything except raise your kid.
Wow.
And by the way, they're putting their kids on a bus almost every morning to go to a public school.
They don't even have them for eight hours out of the day most of the time.
So, like, how is this the most incredibly difficult?
Okay.
Another idea is Josh Cash censored show, kidding, but I think it's a great idea.
House and Senator, men only, and create a third legislative branch which deals with domestic issues, make buildings pink.
LOL.
Yeah.
Like, we make up some problems to make women feel included.
Like some, oh, what would you give?
So, what political issues would you give to women to like waste their time on to leave them busy?
Yeah, to like leave men to the important stuff.
What would you?
I'm thinking animal rights.
I think that's a great thing for them.
Good luck, ladies.
Keep fighting.
Yeah, but the biggest problem with that is that they would pass stuff to make meat less available, though.
Yeah, okay.
I like steak.
Okay.
Yeah.
Yeah.
Go back to the drawing board.
I would say, like the environment, but then they try to restrict natural gas and gasoline.
So, I wouldn't say that.
I would say school board and school issues, but then they're going to let trans people all up in schools and stuff.
We give them decorations, like how the city, city decorations or something.
You know, like how, like what kind of trees we plant in the city.
Ooh, ladies, and let's fight to the death.
Yeah, I would say, like, you know, what's the department?
I say like parks and recreation, where they could just focus on what the parks look like and, you know, doing the contracts for the guys, you know, for Pedro and Manuel to mow the grass in all the public areas and stuff.
Women can't make decisions even on animals and environmental.
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No, I know that, but we need us to fill up our time.
I think that's really what just keeps happening men just kind of want to be left alone.
And they're like, what can we do with the women?
Let's put them in corporate America.
And then now they're causing too many problems and it just keeps going.
Job ever or in some way requires them to have that.
That's they're the ones who are privileged.
You know, there's an old comedian who made this joke, and I agree with him.
Any job you can do in your pajamas can't be that hard.
Bill Bird, a favorite comedian of ours, but it can't be that hard.
He was joking though, knowing Bill.
And now that he's married with kids, I think his perspective's changed somewhat.
But I guess, you know, I'm married with kids.
Right.
I mean, you watched your wife carry the baby or babies inside her for nine months.
Like, that's a big deal.
Sure.
So, I guess that to me would be what?
An example.
It wasn't back in the day.
My grandma just popped that shit out.
Yeah.
My mom's mom had eight kids.
My grandma had 13.
Dang.
13.
Versus the hype.
Dad's the 12th of 13 kids.
Isn't that crazy?
Wow.
That's a privilege.
And then my dad just mogged all his siblings and everything in life.
You get drafted.
In a two income household, it's a privilege.
That women get to stay at home.
It's a privilege.
But we're not talking about staying at home.
We're talking about carrying the child.
Yeah, but carrying the child.
That's how it has to be raised.
And most women in America then go back to work at a disadvantage, as we just said.
Well, that's not a disadvantage, though, right?
They don't have to have children.
You have to go out for a draft.
Well, women do have to have children for our society to.
Well, they're not.
So.
Well, I mean, they are.
I mean, they're definitely not.
Your wife is, my wife is.
Yeah, but what's the birth rate?
We're under replacement levels.
I know, but you're talking about a side argument.
What I'm saying is, In a society that wants to reproduce, men have to go to war and women have to bear the children.
That's true.
And so, why don't we just say, well, the men go to war, the women have children, that's why they both have children?
When are they going to start having the children part of this?
I mean, my wife's doing it.
Yeah, but my wife's doing it, so shouldn't they have a wife?
You're not fucking fighting war, are you?
Men, well, here's, but is there the potential for that through the draft?
Well, like just the potential for them to have children?
You say they're not.
Well, I could say you're not being drafted.
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Same thing.
No.
You can't, it's not there.
No, but it's not just the draft, it's running the entire infrastructure of society.
God, this guy's such a simp.
We're going to come back to this.
I think we're going to finish it tomorrow or something.
Yeah, because it only gets worse.
Subpoena the entire Caller Daddy subscriber list, and anyone found on the subscriber list gets their vote striped.
That would take care of it.
Well, you see all the videos about how the Caller Daddy podcast is supposedly going downhill, I guess.
Yeah, I mean, it's bet women hate each other.
He said that the Caller Daddy podcast is going downhill.
I kicked him on accident for a second, if you can hear it.
Yeah, I mean, they're bound to women.
We go in cycles.
I'm telling you, I noticed this when I was a volleyball player.
Like, it would be like all the girls would hate on one of the girls for like six to eight months and then swap.
Then it's the next girl.
Now they're complaining.
Like, we just pick people to fixate on and hate instead of fixating on fixing ourselves because that would be, yeah.
So, all right, Doug MPA, what are your final thoughts today?
You're on a one woman war against these church, you know, these horde of church pipeline women, and keep it up.
I think, you know, people are starting to open their eyes a little bit.
I don't think it's going to change anytime soon, but you're the only person shining light on this, and just keep going, okay?
Thanks, Doug.
All right, guys.
Okay, so just a little update I'm going to be gone filming for this documentary.
If you want to offer support, there's a GoFundMe link in the subscription.
Um, we finally got a donor, so we're doing like the bulk of the filming in the next two weeks.
Um, so expect no streams.
I'm gonna do coffee thoughts while I'm there, but I'm not gonna be streaming, so kind of sad.
No streams, I know.
I'm also running a half marathon this weekend, so I feel pretty unprepared, so I might kill myself, but we'll see.
Um, but yeah, we're doing the Documentary.
And then I'm trying to think what else.
We're probably going to do the dinner in like a month.
So if you guys want to sign up, I'll get the link.
I'll probably put the link in the next coffee thought I do.
If you guys want to apply to do that.
Oh, and then we're going to do some more essay videos.