"What’s in it for men" dissects Valentine’s Day through a hyper-critical lens, framing single moms as victims of societal neglect while blaming them for "hoe" behavior to attract partners. The speaker—claiming 20 years of Catholic schooling—contrasts conservative media figures like Brett Cooper and Candace Owens, who allegedly prioritize careers or clout over motherhood, with their own ex-husband’s custody win after divorce. They argue women’s success in male-dominated fields stems from novelty, not merit, while dismissing studies (e.g., alimony affecting just 3% of divorces) as irrelevant to "real life." Ultimately, the episode boils down to a misogynistic, self-contradictory rant on gender roles, masking personal failures with broad generalizations. [Automatically generated summary]
I can't play No, I think you guys are just gonna watch me fail I'm a traditional woman, but I fly with my baby To other states I say that I'm conservative, but at the same time,
I made my husband wait while giving it to another guy for free The traditional woman.
Now maybe it's not my place to call some of this stuff out I'm sure that you fellas, you really do have your doubts, And I know I'm not the best one to say I know what these ladies are doing today.
Let's do a topic change Happy Valentine's Day.
Wait, There's a day of the year that's all about falling in love.
There's the day of the year that's all about.
It's the time of the year to get that special someone a gift.
But there are some people that ended up alone At home on their phones.
There were some people out there who didn't have that special someone.
Happy Valentine's Day to the single moms, To the single goddamn, to the single moms.
Happy Valentine's Day to all of you.
It must be tough what you're going through.
Happy Valentine's Day to the side chicks out there.
You're spending the 15th celebrating, or maybe the 13th.
Happy Valentine's Day to the ladies.
Sharing a man.
The women on this live won't understand.
Happy Valentine's Day to the fat ladies.
Maybe the black guys are taking you out, but probably not.
They're probably just coming over.
Happy Valentine's Day To you, maybe next year you'll stop going through the Taco Bell drive-through.
Oh, oh, happy Valentine's Day to the women out there.
There's no flowers for you at all, they're not coming.
And you might tell your situationship that you want to do something, but I promise to God he's gonna go running.
Happy Valentine's Day, better luck next year.
Stop crying.
I know it ended in tears.
We've all been there.
We've all been there.
It happens to the best of us.
February 14th can be kinda wrong to all.
Yes, guys, yes.
I've turned down like five record deals.
Regime Change Debates00:03:14
I've turned down like five record.
I know I get offered them every day, and I'm like, no, guys, no, no, I can't.
I can't go on tour.
Every day, they're just begging me.
They're like, Pearl, Pearl, Pearl, be a singer.
And I'm like, I'm like super busy.
I'm super busy.
Why are you telling me I'm looking rough?
Are you autistic?
I get it.
I'm ugly.
Do you know what I mean?
It's like some days are better than others.
Do you want me to stream often?
Or do you want me to stream like when I look good?
I mean, some days I look good, some days I don't.
But I haven't been taking my diet too seriously.
And my sister showed me, she used to be really fat.
Now she's just kind of fat.
And my sister showed me this trick that if you have sonic, it's like zero calories and it suppresses your appetite.
Now, I know all the health nuts on here are going to say, but Pearl, there's going to be other side effects.
I don't give a fuck.
I don't give a fuck.
I don't care.
Because I ate so bad.
We went to this, oh my gosh, Italian restaurant.
It was so good.
But I need to not eat all day and I'm going to use this to do it.
I don't care.
I don't care.
It makes you more hungry in the long run.
Shut the fuck up.
Shut up.
Shut up.
I don't want to hear it.
I don't want to hear it.
I don't care.
Then let me figure that out myself.
I've done it before and it was really effective.
Do you know?
It's incredible.
It makes you more hungry in the long run.
Shut up.
Shut up.
That's how I feel about it.
Stop asking me about Iran.
What are you a woman?
Pearl, Pearl, what do you think of Iran?
Do you want to hear my opinion on Iran?
Do you know what?
Men like you that ask me these questions, you're the reason we're so delusional.
Because what if I answer and I say, oh, well, I think the regime change is good or bad.
Now I'm going to start thinking I'm qualified to answer those questions.
Why would I be qualified?
I'm a girl.
I don't really give a shit about the war in Iran.
I'm sorry if you don't understand.
I'm a girl who cares what I have to say.
Who really cares what I think about the regime change over there?
Now, if I keep answering these questions, my ego's going to get so big.
Lessons Every Simp Should Hear00:09:20
And I'm going to end up like Brett Cooper and Candace Owens.
Their simp husbands build them up.
It's kind of their fault, you know.
All women, you're trying to make wives out of hoes.
Because we're all hoes.
You know how it goes.
Luck, luck, 9,000.
Fuck, fuck, 9,000.
We're all hoes.
You know how it goes.
But you gotta stop giving these hoes, these big ass egos.
Now look, sometimes you do things that are right.
Sometimes you put on a fight.
Sometimes you gotta do these things.
But we gotta be realistic about these things.
Oh, we're still all hoes.
Don't let them think they're special.
All women are hoes.
It just depends if it's for you.
And if you think she's got, if you think that she's not a hoe, I got bad news.
She's just not a hoe for you.
I'm sorry, guys.
Do you know how much work I've done to be mediocre at piano?
I've taken lessons for like a year now.
I have turned down so much like free time.
Every morning I do a piano lesson.
I probably should be better.
I'm a little bit dumb.
I know this about myself.
So I got to do the lessons every day.
I got to do the lessons every day.
You use a sample in my, if you ever make a rap song.
I mean, I don't see why not.
Go to church and become the church pianist.
Why would I do that?
I'd just rather not.
All right.
What up, guys?
Welcome to another episode of Pearl Daily.
And I want to start the show by talking about some key concepts.
And the first concept, no women are special, not even me.
There's no such thing as a conservative woman.
And if anything, I would say a conservative women generally are red flags because they want the clout from being conservative.
They want the virtue signal points from being conservative, but they don't want to do the work of being a conservative woman.
Liberal women have a tendency to have better personalities, so they don't really got to think about what men want because they're just a little bit more feminine, right?
But today, you know, it's the 15th.
Yesterday was the 14th.
I do want to say happy Valentine's Day to all the single moms out there.
It must be tough.
I'm sure none of your baby daddies spent it with you.
They probably spent it with a girl that's like 10 years younger, hotter, and better than you in every way.
And that's a tough pill to swallow, right?
You know, I mean, that's the father of your kid.
You probably did leave him, right?
You probably thought you could do better.
You probably couldn't do better.
I mean, occasionally, maybe if you were really hot and your baby daddy wasn't that good to begin with, you know, you had a kid, like you had a kid with your high school boyfriend and you really could have done better.
But then you had a kid.
So maybe there's a small chance, probably not though, right?
Most women don't do better, especially if you got a kid.
Single moms, if you spend it alone, it's time to be sluttier and learn to glut luck because no guy's waiting, no guy worth a damn is waiting a long time for a girl with a kid.
And you got to understand that.
If you're not a hoe, it's time to become a little bit of one.
Not for everybody, right?
Not, not for everybody, but you know, if you're interested in a guy, it's time to gluck, gluck.
Fuck, fuck.
I mean, you know what I mean?
It just is what it is.
You now got a kid.
Brett Cooper, if you become a single mother soon, it wouldn't be on your husband's volition, but if you start to think you could do better, that goes for you.
So just know that's going to be your strategy moving forward.
I next want to say, like I said in the opening song, happy Valentine's Day to the side chicks out there.
I'm sure you're hanging out with your man either today or the 13th.
You know, there's a main chick and you know that it's not you.
I love side chicks, actually.
Side chicks have a level of humility that main chicks will never have.
There's a reason that men love, like they really do fall in love and leave their wives for side chicks.
They really do.
It's because, you know, they have a level of humility.
It takes a certain level of humility to come over at 11:30 p.m. at night and like crawl through the back door to fuck.
Do you know what I mean?
Like it takes a level of humility for him to say, I'm busy with my wife.
That's a level of humility, you know.
I mean, if anything, I think it would benefit women to be side chicks.
Yeah, I think it would benefit women to be side chicks for a year or two so they can appreciate being wives.
You never really appreciate, there's a reason like wives are such bitches.
And I got to be honest, guys, a lot of you guys complain to me about your ex-wives.
And it's really your own fault, a lot of you.
You guys create monsters.
You give away your commitment for nothing.
You beg to be with these like mid women.
Why do you think they think they're tens, right?
Like recently, I figured out that the biggest body positivity, like people, the biggest men that are like body positive.
Like you, you think that the body positivity movement is women.
You think of Lizzo, you think of, you know, all these fat women, you know, Tess Holiday, but it's not really true because the fat women, they would never have that ego if it weren't for you guys banging them.
And not only banging them, you guys defend the women you're banging.
There's this one guy that was like, Oh, my ex was a 10 or an eight.
And I saw a picture, and I'm like, I don't think so.
Yes, she was okay.
That's on eight.
Does she look like Megan Fox?
No, you got an adjustable six.
I understand there's love there.
Um, you want to feel like the man, so now you got to make us all feel like she's an eight.
Men do that with fat chicks.
She's not fat.
I mean, how many times is a man banging a fat girl?
And I'm like, She's fat.
And the man will say, She men with their exes.
I'm like, oh, wow, you dated a fat woman.
I mean, just take the L, fellas.
I mean, you can't get hot women.
You can get fat and chubby women.
Just eat that.
That's that's an L. You just have to eat.
Eat it.
Just like side chicks have to eat when they don't get called back the next day, right?
When they have to crawl through broken glass to fuck the alpha, right?
That's a level of humility.
Like, I heard a story.
I know someone that works with like NBA players, right?
And the lengths women are willing to go to bang NBA players is like incredible.
And there's one guy that was just known for being like a player on the team, whatever.
Apparently, this is the story.
He had a girl in his bed, and his girlfriend came over.
And the girl, the side chick knew the deal, like she knew about him, her.
And she hid under the covers while the boyfriend or the NBA player spoke to his girlfriend and the girlfriend left.
Under the, like, do you know the level of humility you got to have to do that?
Um, just like the level of humility you guys got to have to bang fat chicks.
I mean, you got to just, it's just incredible, you know.
And I talk about these uncomfortable truths and it makes people really dislike me.
Um, and I think because if you're the one, like, if you don't know about these uncomfortable truths, um, it's very difficult to accept.
And some of these uncomfortable truths, like I, I would say I had to accept, you know, it wasn't, it wasn't like a lot of people will show my old footage and say, oh, but Pearl, your opinions changed.
Black Pilled Realities00:05:49
Oh, fuck yeah, they changed.
I started, I started as someone who had not seen enough, and now I've seen too much.
I have seen too much.
I've seen too much.
I'm black pilled.
And black pilled, I'll kind of explain what black pilled is.
It's kind of the acceptance that the world looks matter a lot, status matters a lot, and the world is going downhill.
And there's not shit I can do about it or anybody can do about it.
And it's just going to get worse.
Now, the downside when you hit black pilled is you no longer really have hope.
And hope is kind of an easy thing to sell.
Like it would be really easy for me to come on here and say, fellas, we're going to change society.
We're going to bring back traditionalism.
But I'm a little like bitter because I kind of bought into that.
And then 10 years later, like I started listening to the Daily Wire sell that 10 years ago.
And I really, I was into all the content and whatever.
And then you find out the e-girls are fucking the commentators.
And you're like, are you guys really bringing traditionalism back?
Right.
You find out like none of the men that are pushing this stuff can even say no.
They have all these bitchy fat wives at home, you know, that they can't say no to.
You're like, well, you guys can't even say no to your wives.
How can you say no to the world?
You know?
So that actually leads me to the next person I want to wish happy Valentine's Day.
This is a happy Valentine's Day to the women who married their second choice.
You probably spent yesterday with him doing everything in his power to make you happy.
Most people don't marry their first choices.
So let's not like, you know, let's be real here.
Like, most people are not going to marry their first choice because women's first choice is like a streamer with infinite money, hotness.
It's like Edward from the vampire series, whatever it's called.
And I think when you get older, you get a little more black pilled and you've kind of accepted this reality that nobody's really going to marry their first choice.
See, like it's way easier to say, oh, yeah, you guys are all going to find your dream husband.
Like, that'd be a way easier sell.
Most of you aren't going to find your dream husband, and most of you will marry your second choice.
And most men that get married, she is settling for second, maybe third, maybe fourth, maybe even 10th choice, right?
So to the ladies out there that married their second choice, happy Valentine's to you.
You may have gotten flowers, but let's be honest, it's not from who you wish it was from.
I don't know who you wish it was from.
Maybe it was the bartender from college.
Maybe it was the A-list celebrity you banked one time when you were 19.
I don't know.
All I know is it could have been from anyone else and you would have been excited.
Happy Valentine's Day to the women that used all the kindness that their husband did for them yesterday to build their brand and signal to everybody that they were awesome.
Humiliation rituals just have to keep going.
So thank you.
Happy Valentine's Day to you because you ladies keep me employed.
You ladies will keep me employed for a lifetime.
And I thank you.
Happy Valentine's Day to the women planning your divorce.
Maybe this is your last Valentine's Day with your husband and you know it and he doesn't.
Happy Valentine's Day to Sarah Stock and Elijah Schaefer.
I'm really rooting for you two.
I think it's a match made in heaven.
I think you should say fuck the world.
Fuck the world, right?
Fuck the world and just go off.
You guys are cute.
You might as well go for it.
You guys's reputation.
Like that would actually be kind of goaded if they came back together and said, fuck the world.
I just, I, you know, I think that would be incredible.
I think that would be hilarious.
Is there anyone else I missed in the chat?
I'm going to, one, put a caveat.
Anybody that annoys me, I'm going to, I don't, I know we say freedom of speech, um, but there's just some things I don't feel like listening to in the chat.
And most of them, I don't even have to go through, so.
I don't have to say it, you know.
I'm a woman.
should know freedom of speech doesn't really exist for women right my woman gave me homemade bread and a massage for valentine's day i didn't nothing.
Do you think love is possible?
Well, it's not that it's impossible.
It's just it usually doesn't last forever.
Women Passed Around00:15:35
Women are meant to be passed around.
And I'm not going to sell you dreams here.
I've been passed.
Every woman's been passed, right?
If we weren't passed, then we'd all be virgins, right?
But we're not virgins.
I mean, Priscilla and Elvis were together.
He married a virgin wife and she cheated with a karate instructor.
So, you know, different points in our lives, women crave different things.
And that's just kind of, that's life, you know?
That's life.
You know, I mean, life is, you don't always get everything you want in life.
And some people, love just is not in the cards.
And it's a lot easier to just accept that, right?
All right.
So we've talked a lot about conservative men and women.
And I think I am just, I like these topics because I've just spent so much time around conservative men and women.
I have a Catholic background, right?
So I was, I went to Catholic school for 20 years.
And, you know, I think I believed a lot of the lies that conservatives push.
And it really pisses me off because there's nobody more pissed off than someone who got fooled.
We do not like being fooled, right?
And Brett Cooper and Candace Owens, they just remind me of a lot of the women I grew up around.
And mind you, you know, they're on Twitter where I grew up.
It was Facebook back then.
And a lot of the modern women things that they're doing, the traditionalism signaling, they do while also sacrifice, really sacrificing their marriage and their family to build their brand instead of just doing a good job.
I saw that growing up all the time on Facebook.
Like, it's like you get all this personal stuff and then you're like, why are you showing this?
Okay.
So let me go here.
It's a bad idea.
Hold on, hold on.
Let me go back.
All right.
So for those of you that don't know, Brett Cooper met Clavicular.
Actually, I'm going to start that story over.
For those of you that don't know, Brett Cooper made videos talking about how she was making fun of Clavicular in her commentary.
And for those of us that are red-pilled, we know that when women nag men or complain to men, hate is a lot closer to love.
So I actually called weeks ago.
I said, look, I think she's got a crush on clavicular the way she's talking.
And this really pisses off women because women have a very difficult, we have very difficult time not sending signals to the men that we're attracted to.
It's nature on some level.
I mean, you have to actively turn it off in your brain.
Like if you see a guy that's hot, you got to look down, look down, don't, you know, don't smile, don't whatever, because it is so incredibly difficult for women to turn off signals of arousal to the men they're interested in.
And I think men have felt this at some point in their life.
I mean, one in the chat, if you've ever been on a date with a woman and she's eyeing down some Chad that walked into the room, why do you think men like to be on a farm by themselves?
They're like, I don't need my woman next to these Chads.
So, in all honesty, being a woman in media, I got to be honest, a lot of the situations you're in, they're kind of a recipe for disaster because you're just around so many high-status men, especially at these conferences.
So, Brett Cooper has claimed to be conservative or traditional.
Now, a workaround a lot of women use is they say, Oh, I'm conservative, but I'm not traditional.
I don't know what traditional means.
And we're like, Well, you're posting pictures with farm animals, right?
You're posting pictures with farm animals.
Um, like if you're saying you're conservative, what are you conserving?
Like, it's the old way of life, you know.
You're saying, Let's like go back to the kitchen, you know.
You know what I mean?
It's like, well, and I'd like to say, I shouldn't be the one to have to point this out.
I wish there was real traditional women that could point this out.
But where I'm from, because I'm not really like there should be a more moral person to point this out.
So, it's not me.
I'm just saying it's not me.
It's not me.
Don't give me that title.
So, what happens is these women actively send signals to high-status men and gaslight you into pretending they're not.
So, this woman, Brett Cooper, decides to fly out to this fashion show and see this guy that she has been criticizing online.
Now, mind you, this guy has openly said that she's hot and he finds her attractive and he would hook up with her.
So, you know, a real traditional woman would say, Do you know what?
A good wife would say, I am not even putting myself in that situation.
That is a bad look.
But Brett Cooper said, Do you know what I'm going to do?
I'm going to, in front of the whole world, I am going to go say hi to this guy.
And when she met him, the excitement on her face just couldn't, it couldn't be hidden.
Like, this is how she looked.
I'm going to show you.
And, and by the way, water is wet, the sky is blue.
Women look like this with high-status men.
And I think it kind of broke the internet because so many men have been, they've been in that situation where they're with a girl, they're on a date, she just gives these eyes, or they've been given the eyes from a guy's girlfriend.
You know, it's happened every single now.
Mind you, this would not be a big deal if she didn't do two things.
Number one, she did it in front of everybody, which is just a slap in the face.
It's like, why did you have to do this in front of us?
Why couldn't you just do this secretly?
Like, it's almost like a victory lap.
Like, I get to cuck my husband.
I get to make money online.
I get to make money off of all of you.
And I'm going to flirt with men in front of you.
This is incredible.
And I'm going to keep going.
On top of that, she would lecture men about porn, right?
So she would say, men, men, men, you've got to stop watching porn.
She, when Fresh got from Fresh and Fit got in trouble, you know, sleeping with a hooker and juggling multiple women, right?
So he would, um, so, but imagine criticizing Fresh for doing that.
And at the same time, you're leaving your baby at a hotel room while you meet high-status men with like, imagine if like a guy was watching, a woman was watching her baby while her husband went and partied with models, right?
That's the equivalent.
She's leaving her baby with her husband while she goes and meets men that say they want to fuck her, right?
And what happens is sexually inexperienced men, they don't understand this.
They don't understand the dynamic that going to these events is no different than going to a club.
If anything, it's worse because the men are more famous and better looking.
At a club, like, who's really going to be there these days?
You know what I mean?
And players know you can't really get agitated.
You can't really even get mad at the women.
They just kind of adjust to the game.
You know, they just adjust to her behavior.
Okay.
And I'll juggle plates too.
But sexually inexperienced men, what they're going to do is they're going to, they're the ones that come after me and say you're just bitter, you're lonely, you're jealous.
And to their credit, there are women I'm jealous of, but it's just not these women.
It's not because I'm never going to be jealous of a woman that's using her family to build a brand.
How good, how much, how precious can you think your family is if you're using it online?
You know, and that's kind of what they do.
hold on.
All right.
Um, Wait, let me keep going.
On top of that, I just couldn't even believe it.
It's like you're doing this in front of our faces.
You're doing like your baby's in the room.
That's just incredible.
You know, because the question is: do you value your family or you don't?
Women that travel for work and do these kind of photo shoots, they don't really care about their kids, right?
Because it's not good for the kid to be traveling out of state.
It's not good for the marriage to be inviting all these men, you know, dealing with all these dudes.
Now, I'm not even saying she's immoral for doing it, but based on people's choices, we can see what they value, right?
She values being famous.
And I think of this woman that I grew up around, right?
And she was traditional to the core.
She would never do that.
Like, I just, I can imagine.
I just know if I called her up and said, Do you want to go to New York Fashion Week with me?
She would say, Oh, no, I can't leave this person.
Like, I can't leave him at home, her husband, right?
I can't, oh, no, no, no, like, I can't leave the kids, you know.
Yeah, kids need stability.
It's not good for kids to be moving every few years.
It's not, um, and again, if these people didn't use their relationships to build their brand, nobody would care or no.
It wouldn't even be, I would say, I would say it's none of my business, but you guys keep throwing it in our faces.
So Brett Cooper meets Clavicular and it goes viral because her face is just, she's so excited to meet this giga chat, right?
She's so excited.
She can't, we can't hide it.
Um, yeah, see, kids are resilient, they adjust.
Well, that's saying I care more about me than the kids, which is fine.
You might, But like I see by your choices what you value.
But what I don't like is being gaslit.
That annoys me.
I get very annoyed when I get gaslit.
I get annoyed.
I get irritated.
I just like to call Spade a spade.
No one cares if Brett Cooper thirst traps with her baby in the room and seeks attention from other men.
I don't care.
I don't lose sleep over it at night.
The same way no one cares that Sarah Stock banged her boss.
I don't care.
I don't lose sleep.
Like, it's not something that keeps me up at night.
But I am annoyed because you guys nagged men.
You guys nagged men about porn while doing that.
Fuck you.
Go fuck yourself.
Now, all the women came out after this interaction of Brett saying hi to Clavicular, right?
And gleeing, right?
A guy that's called her hot.
And all the women came out and said, but Pearl, but Pearl, but Pearl, there's number one response.
You're just jealous.
I'm jealous of some people, not of them.
There are people I'm jealous of.
It's just not them.
I'm actually grateful to them because they keep me employed.
What would I do without you, ladies?
You could keep your relationships private, but you just keep making it public.
And now I have a job.
Thank you.
Thank you.
But all the women said, oh, she's just saying hi, you know, but women are used to being able to do this with sexually inexperienced men.
They're used to being able to I fuck people in front of their husbands.
They're used to being able to seek attention from other men.
They're so used to it.
And they're used to the simps defending it.
And it's just incredible.
I'll show you another one, right?
And this is just another example.
I'll see this stuff on Twitter and I'm like, this is just incredible.
This woman was doing an ice skating routine, right?
And your kid is like, mom, mom, hang out with me.
Now the whole world is going to say, that's so sweet.
That's so cute.
I feel like I'm crazy where I'm like, you know, maybe you should go watch your kid.
Maybe like the kid doesn't want to be dragged to all these events, you know, on the weekends.
I don't know.
Like, once you have a kid, it's supposed to be the kids' time.
Like, you're supposed to go to the kids' events.
And you're kind of seeing this transition where it, and I'm not, where it's a lot of adults that can't just let things go.
You know, her career is supposed to be done by like 25.
But now that people aren't having kids, like I even see the shift because I played volleyball.
There's not like there's more adult leaks that are for adults.
It's not really for kids anymore.
You know?
And I'm not saying she's wrong for doing this.
I don't even necessarily think it's immoral.
But again, by your choices, I can see what you value.
And she values her career more than her kids.
I don't say she's a bad person.
You know, it just, you know, it just kind of is what it is.
People make sacrifices for their careers all the time.
It's just, you know, it is.
Women's Deep Investments00:04:17
Okay, this tweet was from Nuclear Caudillo.
Last time I checked, most women wouldn't let their husbands go party with models while she stays home with the baby.
The issue isn't that she's at a fashion show, it's that these people preach we are all degenerates, tell us to be like them, and then fail to live up to the perfect standards they promote.
And this is just, you know, what I just keep seeing.
You know, how many of these the Women's Leadership Summit for Turning Point USA?
I mean, how many of these women have kids?
Okay, Isabella Brown, that's another one, uses her kid for clout.
Who's watching these children?
It's not like they just never go to events.
Like streaming is the perfect career that you can just do from home.
You know, you really have no need to work with other people at all.
You do not have to do it.
You can just get your laptop.
It is actually the perfect job for a mother.
And these women could, option A, never show their family or their husband online, right?
They could never go to the events.
And they could make choices that show, do you know what?
I care about my family.
They could log off forever, right?
But they say they, what they keep doing, and I find this insulting, is saying, I care about my family.
I'm conservative, but not the conservative that requires me to do anything conservative, but I'm still conservative.
And I'm going to make money off the audience and gaslight you for eternity.
You know, conservative women build events in community.
Like the woman that lived near us, we would go over there for dinner all the time.
That was the event.
It wasn't these events.
And that's what men value.
That's what men care about.
Right.
And I really would see the difference between like my mom and my dad growing up, right?
My dad, and I think this is common with men versus women.
Women tend to build relationships with people that nobody like we don't care about and we see once a year and they maintain these like superficial relationships where men really invest deeply in like just a few people.
Like just a few people they care like um, like when I was a kid, my dad worked a lot when I was like really young, but when I became a teenager and I think this is common because I've spoken to a few like teachers about this um, where kids, once the kids are a certain age, like the dads don't really want to deal with the kids under seven, and I think it's.
I think it's like men's ability to just see these kids as useless, but once they, they see the kid as something they can like pour into and train.
They love the kids.
Oh, they love them in a different way.
I love sports because my dad coached me in sports and he spent so much time.
I hate math but I still remember my dad like almost crying in frustration because I was so retarded, I just could not get the accounting and, like my, my dad taught my brothers how to do all this stuff.
But if you look at the skill set of women today, there it's very obvious our mothers didn't invest in us because, you know, we don't know how to do things, so they were busy doing other things right.
And this kind of shows up in the kids, um, well-adjusted children, their mother sacrificed for them, you know, And really, this whole you can do it all thing, you can't do it all.
It's that the kids, like, if you're doing these events, it's just at the expense of the children, right?
That's not like what kid wants to go to these adult conferences, what kid wants to be dragged in a hotel room.
And who knows, you know, under a certain age, okay, but no children want to deal with all this, right?
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So let me keep going.
These women, what they're doing is they're openly lusting after other men, and men are expected to suppress that.
So, you know, when Brett Cooper sees clavicular, it's all over her face.
It's like she's drooling over this guy.
It's so obvious.
Where men, you know, when a hot chick walks in a room, they're like looking down there.
And, you know, at the same time, she's shaming men for looking at porn when it's like you're basically salivating over another dude while throwing your relationship in our face.
I mean, that's incredible.
Yeah, so, and it's look at this.
So bad.
her with her husband, her with clavicular.
We've been here before.
This guy, this guy.
And the betas will gaslight you for eternity.
Now, a lot of people said, Pearl, why do you care?
Why do you even cover this stuff?
Well, I think this stuff is more actually relevant to your real life because this is the stuff you see all the time.
So, you know, you're not crazy.
Okay, wait.
All right.
So we're going to react to Brett Cooper's gaslighting.
Now, Brett Cooper kind of got caught doing something embarrassing, right?
She was openly lusting after another guy.
So embarrassing.
But this has happened.
This is life.
Like, let's just be honest here.
This is part of life.
That, you know, I was in the airport the other day and I saw the most beautiful woman I've seen in a while.
And all the men were like trying their hardest not to look at this woman's tits that were out.
She looked incredible.
I mean, this is the most beautiful woman I've seen in forever.
She looked phenomenal.
And the men are trying, but they're, you know, and if we had a camera in that room, you would see all the men like kind of looking, not looking, kind of looking.
And that's just part of life.
It doesn't mean you got to blow up your relationship.
It doesn't mean you're a bad person, but we all have these desires.
And women have the desire to fuck high-status men that we got to suppress.
And men have this desire to fuck young, hot women with big tits and big ass that they have to suppress.
Right.
And when you get caught, like when a guy gets caught staring at some boobs, he has two options.
One, double down.
I wasn't looking at the boobs.
I was not, I just said hello.
I just said hi.
I just said hi.
I just said hello.
I only said hello.
I just said hello.
Or they could say, do you know what?
I could see how you'd think that.
I could see how I could have done something better.
And the way that women react when they're caught and their ability to be reflective shows a few things.
It shows one, have they ever been corrected in their life?
Usually, no, because they have simp fathers, simp husbands.
The simps are everywhere.
Right.
She could double down or she could apologize or, you know, acknowledge.
But what happened is, and I knew she had a big ego.
I can just, I can smell a big ego from a mile away.
When she left the Daily Wire as a multi-bajillionaire, the ability to work from home with the best life you could ever have ever in all of human history.
And she still played victim.
I'm like, I don't like this girl.
This girl's never been told no.
She's never been criticized.
She's only had her ass kissed her whole life.
And there's zero humility.
And I see the zero humility here, right?
At Candace Owens, it's the same thing.
These women scare me.
They scare me because you don't know what these women with huge egos are going to do.
One day, you know, Candace is going to do an investigative series on me.
All right, let me see.
Jump scare, everyone.
I never really looked like this.
But anyway, hello from New York and New York Fashion Week.
There's a virtue signal.
I am here in New York City this week.
I'm going to ED Magazine's first ever live event that they are hosting or I guess in-person event.
I'm going to be on Fox a couple of times.
And I am going to my very first ever New York fashion.
Remember, if she cared about motherhood, she could have just stayed home.
Like, it's just incredible to me.
I'm like, do you guys not?
Okay.
All right.
Wait, hold on.
Jump scare everyone.
Hold on.
You never really look like this.
But anyway, hello from New York and New York Fashion Week.
I am here in New York City this week.
I'm going to ED Magazine's first ever live event that they are hosting or I guess in-person event.
I'm going to be on Fox a couple of times.
And I am going to my very first ever New York Fashion Week fashion show, which is very crazy and very cool.
I'm going to Elena Velez's show.
That is what we're doing.
So come along with me.
You'll see some fun faces, including Alex.
Let's do it.
Last night was wild.
Hi, guys.
Good to catch up.
Hello from New York.
Last night, you might have seen on X, I went to Elena Velez's fashion show for New York Fashion Week.
And when I was planning out this entire week, because I have a bunch of events here this week and I'm doing Fox and all that stuff, I specifically intended and planned to do today's episode, Saturday's episode, on that experience, my first ever fashion show and why I think Elena Velez is.
she down What is she gonna do?
Is she going to A, have some humility, B, gaslight, C, play victim?
What is she going to pick?
Such a unique designer that often faces so much backlash in the mainstream industry, but the show itself and the attendees and the models are getting a lot of traction online.
So I thought we should start out by discussing that because yes, you might have seen Clavicular walked in the show.
He actually closed the show.
He was the last model to walk on the runway.
And yes, I got to meet him to the screeching online from Angry Men.
But now when your feet get held to the fire, it's nothing.
No, no humility, just gaslighting for eternity.
These egos are incredible.
You really got to, oh my God.
Like influencer ego is just like incredible.
Incredible.
Ruined your day, but yes, I did meet Clavicular.
Nobody's thinking about you that much.
Nobody.
No one's day is now ruined.
I don't really care if you cheat on your husband.
I don't care if you, I don't like being gaslit.
That's, I don't like being gaslit.
Give a fuck because Twitter's not a real place.
No, the whole thing was just crazy to experience.
But honestly, in my opinion, I think it was really smart of Elena because she brought Clavicular in.
He's obviously having this huge moment online.
She basically let him stream everything from the fitting to hair and makeup to actually walking on the show.
Like we were sitting front row watching.
Now, mind you, I want to show you how he has spoken about her and her husband.
Does she come out and defend?
Like, she only defends herself, right?
After he said this.
Brett Cooper, bro.
Brett Cooper, I know you came all the way to Fashion Week for me.
You know what I'm saying?
I wish we got to talk more, but now that we're both in the same city, DM me on Twitter.
And, you know, we can make you forget you were ever married.
Let's be real.
Okay, so he felt the vibes too, right?
That's what you communicated to him that you were interested.
You did that.
You.
And you could, A, look, it, when women become wives, you don't become a good wife overnight.
Women have to be trained.
But the ego, they come into it and they think they know everything when they don't.
You know, just because you're married, it doesn't mean you're a wife.
You're not acting like a wife, right?
So, and that's kind of the criticism you get with modern women is modern women want to be married.
They don't want to be wives.
And they get these big egos because these simps marry them immediately because they say the right things and then they start switching up after marriage.
So you communicated whether you meant to or not to another man that you were interested in him.
Now, maybe you weren't, but if you communicated that, who cares?
Who gives a shit?
It doesn't matter what you meant to do.
It matters the results.
And what I'm getting really tired of is the gaslighting to eternity.
You know, just say, just say you messed up.
It's all right.
It's okay.
Forget about your fucking cuck loser husband and maybe her and the Botox lady's husband could kick it or some shit, you know?
Brett Cooper, bro.
Brett Cooper.
I know he came all the way to now.
Mind you.
Like his camera guys were walking like with him and filming the crowds.
Like they were completely involved.
And so all of this exposed Clavicular's fans, the tens of thousands of people watching him on Kick, the people clipping his videos on.
Yeah, you know, she went out of her way to meet another guy and blames the men, right?
Now, it's the men's fault for reacting this way.
And it went viral because, again, every guy relates to this.
And Brett doesn't realize you're pushing people from conservatism.
And this is what we do.
And that's why I try to say, look, women are women.
I'm a woman.
She's a woman.
We all fall.
I don't want to say victim, but we all make choices that are not good.
Right.
We just, women just, I don't know what it is about us.
We're kind of evil.
You know, there's no special women.
There's no, and any woman that tries to sell herself as different is just selling you a dream.
Can you imagine living with this?
Like the gaslighting for eternity?
Oh, I never did that.
Oh, my God.
Like, and she's not even defending her husband, right?
Watch this.
X, they expose them to Elena and to Fashion Week in general, just open them up to a whole new world.
I will say this is not the first time that a streamer has walked in a fashion show, but she really gave him free reign and gave him free access, which was very, very cool to see.
Now, in addition to killer, this is she isn't pushing conservatives away if she's making it more fun, transforming the appearance for young girls to want to be conservative because it's fun.
No, what she's doing, what you're going to have is now women are going to be streamer conservatives.
So, she, what she's selling is women getting to the getting the label of conservative without having to do anything conservative, like delete social media, have a private life, and focus on your kids.
So, all this is going to do is this is going to be the new round of young women, is women that want to use their families to build their brand.
I was the kid who was used to build, I'll just say, a relative's brand.
It's not fun, it's really annoying.
Like, I'm telling you because I've lived this stuff.
Um, and now you have to be involved in all this stuff you don't like.
Imagine if, um, like, let's say she has a daughter.
How profitable is it going to be to put that daughter on OnlyFans?
I hate to think this way, but when you're in politics, people hate you, and that's happened.
That's happened to other conservative women.
Um, I don't remember her name, but there was like a blonde daughter that, like, she was on OnlyFans, you know.
Um, and what you can do is say, Look, um, I want generational wealth, so this is the choice I'm making.
I understand it comes with consequences, but what I cannot stand is women that gaslight me to eternity.
I know what you're doing, I know what you're doing, it's fine, I'm not going to stop you, but please stop throwing your relationship in my face and telling me it's conservative.
It's not.
I know real conservative want women, it's not me, but a lot of, but I am almost insulted for them that you're making money off of them, right?
So, she also had my friend Liv Schmidt walk in the show.
She is the girl, I talked about her on the comment section a couple of years ago, but she was literally kicked off of TikTok.
She was banned on TikTok because she has this thing called Skinny Society, and she's like a fitness and health influencer.
And she was telling girls how to portion control and calorie count.
And apparently, that was triggering and harmful for people in the body positivity communities.
Yes, she was literally banned off of TikTok.
She was dropped by her modeling agency, so it was like a cool full circle moment.
She got to walk now.
You're saying Brett's better than can't.
That's true, but Brett's young, right?
She'll get more leverage and then just keep being a bitch.
Like, it's just going to keep going.
Like, this is how monsters are made.
Monsters don't start out this way, but it's her husband's never going to correct her.
Um, nobody's gonna like, it was the whole Daily Wire thing.
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Nobody told her she was wrong.
They put her on all these shows and said, You're a victim, you're a victim, you're a victim.
Instead, saying, Brett, shut the fuck up.
You live a better life than all of women in all of history.
Shut up, shut up, shut up, shut up.
You're not a victim.
There's people that have to go work for $10 an hour every day, 80 hours a week, and that their life fucking blows.
Fuck you.
Like, shut up for complaining about anything.
Stop playing the victim about this.
Okay, you weren't allowed to talk about one thing at work.
Fuck you, Candace.
Nobody can talk about what they want at work.
So it's just, it's just incredible.
Her first fashion week show, she was like covered in vogue by being in Elena's show.
Elena also had some like controversial musicians walking.
I think that she also had a detransitioner in the show.
I didn't catch that individual's name, but I was at the show of Brittany Hugo Boom, who is the founder and editor-in-chief of Evie Magazine.
They also just did a profile on me being at the show, but Brittany apparently knew who.
So again, it's the gaslighting.
They did a profile on me where I took provocative photos, right?
I took provocative, they can never say it.
They're going to downplay it.
Downplay, gaslight, down, and it's just exhausting.
I'm so exhausted.
I'm so exhausted.
I just want you to say what it is.
We're all hoes.
All every woman's got some hoe in her.
Okay.
This was and pointed her out.
But needless to say, amidst all of that, that interesting cast of characters, clavicular was very much the most viral moment of the night.
And so because he was there, will she defend her husband?
And because I was in attendance, you're going to defend herself or her husband.
Her husband called her, he called her husband a cuck.
There's now all of this discourse on X, I would say, about me being there and watching while he walked and meeting him.
And God forbid, this is the worst.
God forbid.
I'm so sorry that I did this, but I smiled at him.
Oh my God, cue the mel.
Yeah, but see, again, she's never been corrected in her life.
And as a woman, like, you don't really realize it's not like a conscious thing because we're biologically predispositioned to light up or like, you know, to send signals to high status men.
But no guys ever, you know, corrected her.
And you're throwing it in all of our faces.
You knew this was going to be on camera.
You knew that he had called you hot in the past.
Now it's time to grow up.
It's time to grow up.
She won't, though.
Meltdowns, guys.
They are freaking out over on X.
And what I need to say to that is, oh my God, people go touch grass.
Like, seriously, kick rocks, touch grass.
And she's saying touch grass, but Nuke actually said this to me.
He said, we notice this because we do touch grass.
And how many men have been in a situation where the girl lights up around a higher status guy?
Seriously, if a woman smiles at a guy being introduced, it means she's lusting.
It's the subtle facial cues.
And everyone knows when they see them, when the women can't take their eyes off.
We all know it.
We know it when we know it when we see it, right?
Because women completely ignore men they don't find attractive.
I'm being honest.
Women don't look at them, don't make eye contact.
Like, we all know it when we see it.
We're not stupid.
And, you know, she's insulting our intelligence.
So fuck you, bitch.
Fuck you.
It's just incredible.
Oh my God.
No, what did I do?
Being debated and argued about.
Now, first of all, for those individuals, if you want the full story, I did not even know the clavicular.
Oh, my God.
Cue the meltdowns, guys.
They are freaking out over on X.
And what I need to say to that is, oh my God, people go touch grass.
Like, seriously, kick rocks, touch grass.
Law.
Yeah, they're like, no, no one smiled at me like that ever.
Yeah.
Yeah.
Clavicular is high status to women.
Women care about what's popular, not who's competent.
So, yeah, like imagine if a guy went up to a girl and was just staring at her tits the whole time, staring at her tits.
Men are there, they train themselves to not do that, right?
But women, women are not trained to be accommodating to men or don't care enough to learn.
Off, go speak to a woman in real life.
Go outside and stare at the sunshine.
Like, I cannot believe that this is the same thing.
The more women deny, the more likely it's true.
She wants to fuck him so bad.
It's so incredible.
Like being debated and argued about.
Now, first of all, for those individuals, if you want the full story, I did not even know the clavicular was going to be walking in the gaslight, right?
I didn't know.
Really?
When did you find out?
Before the event?
Before?
Right when you got there, come on, I'm not stupid.
Nobody told you that morning you didn't think wouldn't be a good like just because you can show stamps doesn't mean you can fool me.
Was first invited and agreed to go.
I actually didn't think that he was going to make it after all because he was literally just in jail in Arizona.
But yes, he ended up walking, and obviously, I was going to take the opportunity to meet him after making content about him.
And after weeks of mocking him and saying that I thought he was just like a show of a person who had no values, I thought the respectful, the good thing to do would obviously be to go say hi in person and meet him.
Say hi.
Did you apologize if you thought you were too harsh?
No, you just thought, Let me just smile.
Okay, and not be an actual asshole in real life because I am not an asshole.
But unfortunately, because every part of his life is streamed, people online smiling and being nice means that you are a hoe who hates her husband and hates her family.
So that's a okay.
Um, no, that's not what we said.
We said you're not traditional and you don't care about your husband or your family if you're choosing to go to these events with high-status men while your husband watches the kid.
That's what you're doing.
Rollo pointed out that she knew he left Arizona and was going to be there.
I don't even have to look into it.
I know she knew.
Obviously, she had to meet him.
Like, why would you associate yourself with somebody who's called you hot?
Right?
He, and this is why the red pill is just never going to die.
Women are just going to keep being women.
So, discourse online.
Again, I will say, go touch grass.
I don't give a fuck because Twitter's not a real place.
Like, are you people crazy?
We do not live in Saudi Arabia.
Sometimes two women go out without their husbands, and sometimes women, oh my god, interact with the male species.
That's incredible.
That's incredible.
I, this is what she's saying.
I went out without my husband.
On camera, I flirted with another guy.
I got caught, and I'm going to double down.
It's just incredible.
Incredible.
I'm like, thank you, Brett.
I really want to thank Brett Cooper.
I want to thank Candace Owens.
I want to thank all you e-girls.
I'm going to be employed for a lifetime.
I am going to be employed forever because the inability to ever admit you're wrong, I could just make 10 videos saying that you're wrong.
Like, if you came out and just said, you know what, that probably wasn't a good look, you would have showed humility, you would have showed class, but you decided to be modern women.
I love you guys.
I love you guys.
Oh, I love you guys.
Please don't ever stop.
I might have to get a real job if you do.
What if you guys started being good women?
Oh my God, she's saying that if you don't get excited when you meet a hottie, then you should go out and meet a hobby, hottie.
Stop judging me.
Like, imagine if, imagine if a married man was like, hey, for work, I have to, I have to go to these events with models.
I didn't know the models with the 20-year-old Playboy bunnies with big tits would be there.
What?
Are we in Saudi Arabia?
Are we in Saudi Arabia?
I did the big tit, the big tit models just happened to be there.
And you're like, hey, that's mad convenient.
Hey, stop saying I hate my wife.
I didn't say I hated my wife and my baby.
You're like, well, why are you getting so defensive?
Why don't you just say, hey, I could see that was a bad look.
I'll think about it more next time.
Yeah, I had to go to a strip club because it was a work-related event.
See, this is what she wants the title of married, but without giving anything up, right?
And simps facilitate this.
They facilitate it.
They're like, I need to live stream from the porn awards show.
Yeah.
And then you're staring at the tits and you're like, hey, I just said hello to her.
If your child out smarts you like this, why would you blame the child?
Yeah, I know.
This is why Simps are like Simps, they always want to believe women.
They take women at face value.
They just trust women.
Right.
Yeah.
He says, I just had to meet the bunnies.
Incredible.
How does her husband not see through her bullshit?
Well, Well.
Okay, let me keep going.
Again, touch grass, log off.
It will be better for you.
I guarantee it.
Anyway, moving on from that.
What?
That's incredible.
You e-girls need to consult me.
You need to consult me.
I could give you way better advice than this.
You should have came out with a little bit of humility.
Humility.
And then said, look.
My bad.
I could see how that wasn't a good look.
Just like if a guy got caught staring at some tits, he could double down or say, I could see how that was, especially if he's paid by the women.
You know.
So it's just incredible.
It's incredible to me.
Mary says, if I say anything neutral or positive about another woman's behavior, I'm running cover and protecting the sisterhood.
But if I say anything negative about another woman's behavior, I'm apparently cutting her down out of envy and bitterness.
What did she say?
What did she say about Brett Cooper?
Let me see.
I know you had to weigh in.
Yeah, I see.
I knew she would run cover.
She's a feminist too.
All right.
So Mary Morgan comes in and says, immediately takes three steps after shaking hands, immediately breaking eye contact.
And people are going to twist this into something it's not.
Maybe it's because I'm reading too much into it now, but I watched this guy get dissed and then freeze into a near chaotic state.
I said she left her kids at home to go to fashion week.
Very trad.
You know, like, and it's the same thing.
Candace Owens did an event like two weeks after she gave birth.
These women don't care about their kids.
That's not good for kids.
Blinded by the labia.
Now labia splaining, Brett.
It's just incredible.
Incredible.
Women are incredible.
Thank you guys.
Keep going, though.
Like, I get to, I get to be employed forever.
So I got no problem with you guys doing this.
This benefits me.
So essentially, Brett Cooper denied nothing, gaslit, and then blamed everybody who noticed.
And then here's another one.
It just never ends.
These women, they just cannot help but embarrass their husbands online.
They've been on my show, and she says, Don't settle for long-term girlfriend status.
If he wanted to, he would.
Throwing the relationship again.
Now, this, what is the point of this post?
I am awesome.
I am so awesome that my husband proposed to me immediately.
But we all know that men that propose quickly have generally have no choice because men with choice are going to make you work for it and are not in a state of scarcity, right?
Like if you're banging three hot chicks, are you really going to be like desperate for marriage?
No, not really.
You just don't have three hot chicks, right?
So I said, men that propose quickly tend to have little to no choice in the sexual marketplace.
Women that say this kind of stuff gave it up for free before, but parade around the fact they make their husbands pay a higher price.
It's just like ladies, you won.
Don't rub it in everyone's faces.
I mean, you won, you got your ring.
Why are you rubbing it in everyone's face?
You won, your husband lost.
We all know this.
Okay, so now the last thing I should say about the conservative media personality types is that they do not know that they are DEI hires.
Now, all women in media are DEI hires, all of us, every single last one.
The same way, like a woman that maybe is an Olympic champion, even though she's an Olympic champion, and it's kind of interesting at times to watch like, you know, female gymnastics.
Really, we watch the Olympics because it's kind of like the special Olympics.
Like, we all know women aren't as good.
We all know the female leagues, they're not profitable.
They don't make money.
But we have the leagues.
And, you know, sometimes it's entertaining to watch and you can appreciate that the women have worked hard for women, but it's nowhere near as difficult as men.
And I would say it's the same thing in media.
And I learned this because when I got demonetized, I started a YouTube network and I was pretty good at getting people subscribers.
Like I got one girl 100,000 subscribers in a year.
But her credibility was just being young and hot.
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And I say this with love.
I wish her well.
She did work hard for a woman, right?
But she's still a woman, right?
And the guy had actually worked in the same, like the dating industry for 10 years.
And I couldn't get him subscribers to save his life.
And this is a guy with answers to people's problems.
So what I realized is that really, and even like, you know, my boyfriend, Nuke, right?
He's 10 times smarter than me, 10 times.
Doesn't have as many subscribers.
Knows the material 10 times better than me.
Doesn't have the following.
We are DEI hires.
We can work hard for women, right?
But we're still DEI, all of us.
And Candace Owens, again, she's going to go through life never having been told she's DEI.
Everyone's going to tell her she's smart and it's very difficult.
I've been in the position, it's very difficult to not believe it when every beta ever is going to say, you're so intelligent, you're so this, you're so that.
And it's just not good for your ego to believe it, right?
So Candace Owens is accusing somebody of something.
I mean, she's, I knew Candace Owens.
People asked how I knew she was going to go off the rails this year.
Love Nuke.
He's great.
He is great.
He's just, he's so cute, you know.
I don't know.
But, anyways, so Candace says is responding to this guy who says, Ryan Marty.
I don't know the lore because Candace.
Oh, how did I know Candace Owens was going to go off the rails?
when she started thinking she was smarter, smarter than the FBI, when she started thinking she was smarter than the FBI, when she started thinking she had all the answers and she knew more than the FBI, I watch women's sports because of the tight outfits.
Yeah, I know.
That's when I knew Candace Owens was going to go off the rails.
I'm like, oh, this is it.
She's crashing out this year.
Okay, so she's whatever talking about Erica Kirk, Charlie Kirk, who cares?
Ryan says, Hey, fun fact, DEI queen.
I'm the one that exclusively runs the CK YouTube, and nothing was deleted after his death.
Stop making up accusations you know nothing about.
Okay.
And he called her a DEI queen.
And you can tell this bothers her because it's true, right?
And that's why you have women always trying to like show their intelligence.
Females in the Olympics are for PDF gymnastics.
Yeah.
So Rola doesn't like me because I'm DEI.
And sometimes I embarrass him because I'm DEI.
And like he came up.
It's understandable.
I understand why he doesn't like me.
You've got to appreciate the irony of a company that literally employed me for years now referring to me as DEI.
All women in media are DEI.
You don't have to be Rolo smarter than me.
I have more followers.
Nuke smarter than me.
I have more followers.
It's just life, right?
Sometimes men like to watch a woman talk.
I mean, it's, I'm not even that cute, but like, that's why I'm in conservative media, not playboy.
We all are, right?
It's like mid-women.
And because media is visual, more people are drawn.
What does that mean being black have to do with anything right now?
Blah, blah, blah.
Okay, now she's crashing out.
In media, most women are DEI hires because you are monetizing beauty with an audience of sexually inexperienced men.
Did you really think you, what did you really think you knew about politics when you became famous?
Nothing.
Okay, I typed that wrong.
DEI women, right?
Do you seriously think you are more qualified than your male counterparts?
All women, including me and you in the media, are DEI hires, all of us.
She's famous because it was uncommon for a black woman to have conservative opinions, right?
I'm famous because it was uncommon for a woman to have pro-male opinions.
I don't think women are better at social skills, to be honest.
I don't think we are.
men get to the point a lot faster and i said look it doesn't matter who candace because a lot of people the white knights will come in and say she works for herself Well, it doesn't matter.
All women and media are DEI hires.
We have to do 10% of the work to be to get 10 times as much of the following.
Just like, look, my brother was a better athlete than me growing up, but I went to state.
I played in college.
I got to play overseas.
My brother is a better athlete than me.
He has better high-end eye coordination.
He's naturally stronger.
He's not like, and when you start seeing this stuff, it kind of makes the world make sense.
That's what's important to me, being accurate.
And I'm going to be accurate, even if sometimes it makes me look bad, right?
A lot of this stuff applies to me too.
But I got to do my best to be accurate.
I'm DEI, you're DEI.
we're all DEI.
So it doesn't mean, you know, you're not talented, but like, it's kind of like a woman rapping.
Like a woman has to be 10% as good of a rapper to be a female rapper because it's like entertaining to watch a woman rap.
And it's kind of cool.
Like you're like, oh, that's a woman rapping.
That's a woman doing conservative.
That's a woman debating, right?
But it doesn't mean that you're better.
It just means like that's kind of part of entertainment.
And as a woman, you know, if you want to go into this industry for the two women that watch me, it's really important that you keep your ego in check because everyone just as a woman in general, everyone's going to tell you you're awesome all the time.
Entertainment Over Ability00:08:39
Yeah, it's like women in male spaces just get more attention because it's unique, right?
don't see it often so yeah you know that's just explain my twitter
And you know, women are just inherently lazy, too.
like we and we just find the most inefficient way to do things candace owens is a dei hire just like brett cooper and me The problem is, all these simps really try to make us believe that we can be men and do what they do.
But women always dominate you too because we have tits and ass and we look good.
And even though we're not hot and even though we're not hot, most men probably would.
They would.
They do it on their worst day.
They wouldn't be that excited because we're like fives, fours, sixes, not sevens or eights.
Eights.
Because if we were that hot, we'd be somewhere like Playboy.
We'd be married to A-level celebrities or some boy toy.
We're mids, not that smart and mids.
And that's okay, because who are we kidding?
Because you know we really can't be men.
You know it's true.
And we do our best to compete on YouTube.
And look, it's okay.
And it's okay to not be as good.
You really can't be good at everything like men can be.
I mean, men can do it all.
Men are better than us in every way.
And the problem is that we even have to say, look.
And I have nobody.
I have no problem.
I have no problem with women doing this job.
But we got to be honest about what it is, just like women's sports.
People go to watch women's sports because of the shorts.
Not because of their athletic ability, really.
And it's okay, that's just what it is.
But don't put it over watching your kids.
Because they do need a mother and a father.
But I guess, fuck them, who cares about the daughter?
And I just like to call a spade a spade.
And if you want to be a spade, hey, that's okay.
But don't tell me it's not a spade, you know?
Don't say it's something else.
That's annoying.
Just say it's a spade.
It is what it is.
Not everybody can be a perfect person, you know.
And every girl's got a little bit of hoe.
And that's okay.
You know, I'm really not judging you.
But do not gaslight me on YouTube.
Because I know what it takes to do a lot of these shows.
I know what goes on at these conferences, though.
And that's okay.
You know, it is what it is.
But maybe try to watch your kids.
And I know a lot of you have nannies and they help you.
But if you cared about your kids, you wouldn't have them, you know?
You just wouldn't.
Or if you cared about your kids the most, I guess you might care about your kids, but not more than doing whatever you want to do.
And you might care about your husbands, but again, not that much because then we would see less of you, you know?
And that's okay.
Not everybody can, you know.
I mean, Oprah made sacrifices, but she knew what she was, you know?
And that's okay.
And it is what it is.
But don't tell me you're traditional if you're not watching your kids.
And, you know, I'm not here to judge you.
God forbid.
I mean, shit.
I have a lot of room for improvement too.
But if we're not saying what it is, and, you know, we're pretending it's something else.
I just think it's going to be bad for my mental health.
And now there's women nagging in the chat because they don't want to accept the fact that they're kind of bad moms.
And that's okay.
You know, you can't be good at everything.
Thank you guys for tuning in today.
I think that's all I got.
You know, I think I sound crazy on Twitter, but I actually think everybody else is crazy.
think I'm actually pretty sane where I'm just like, this is what it is.
Yeah.
You know, I know it sounds like I'm judged.
I'm not judging.
I just want to be accurate here.
Because, you know, I don't have kids.
I might be a terrible mother.
I don't know.
I might be a god-awful mom.
I like to think I'd be good, but I probably, at least in the beginning, I'll probably suck, right?
It's probably going to be awful.
Probably terrible, bad, you know.
So I don't want to, but like, I just can't, you know, I've seen really good moms, and I just don't think it's you guys.
You know, you get like a C on your report card.
That's okay.
We can't all be A students.
Some moms are just C's, you know, they did good enough to get by so their kids aren't crackheads, but, you know, all the goodness from that the kids are, it's mostly from the father, and that's okay.
The dad's just better than you.
That's all right, you know.
You're egg donor, and the dad makes sure the kids are all right.
It just is what it is, you know.
But I want to say thank you for, to the women, women, thank you to the women for keep, please keep on doing this because what am I, what am I going to talk about for two hours?
Divorce Documentary Funding00:09:24
If you stop doing this, then I might have to get a real job.
I would hate that.
I mean, like, this job is amazing.
I just get to say water is wet, the sky is blue.
I don't think she's a traditional woman if she's taking a sexual photo shoot, flying to New York Fashion Week, and flirting with other men.
I don't, she's probably not that good of a wife, you know, probably just not an A. Maybe a B or C, you know, she's not fat.
So imagine having a real job.
I can't.
It's been so long.
I don't want to.
I don't want to imagine that.
I'm going to be honest.
Thank you guys for supporting me because I really, I would rather not.
I'm just being honest.
Like, do you want me to lie to you and say, oh, yeah, I really wish to go work at Subway?
No.
I would rather do this.
I would rather do this if I can not rather than do why would I mean I'll do it I'll do it if I have to, right?
I can do it, but like gun to my head, you have to pick.
I get to I go into sales.
That's probably what I do.
And if you want to support me, I mean, you guys, you work so hard, you know, but I, my goal, and I'll tell you guys a little bit more about the divorce documentary.
Um, I'd like to raise another 30 grand for it.
Uh, the reason being is because we're putting a contract with the lawyer for the what's in it for men documentary.
And the, you know, the this is going to be a series, but this is the first one.
I worked as a janitor at a mall and I wanted to kill myself.
I would too.
I mean, I don't want to go back.
I don't, I mean, I'm just being honest here.
I don't want to go back.
Um, now the reason being is that, um, okay, sorry, going back to the going back.
Oh my God, I just blanked.
I just blanked.
Oh, I hate it when this happens.
Let me drink more of my sonic.
What's I talking about?
I don't even remember.
Fuck me, right?
I know there's a group in the chat that's like would.
I mean, you guys would do anything, you know, not special just put me in the category of would, but no simping.
Do you know what I mean?
That's that's acceptable.
Do not simp.
I mean, just say would, I would do it, but like, oh, thank you, Doug MPA.
See that?
Women can't stay on topic.
All right.
So I'm raising another 30K for the divorce documentary.
When we were doing the contract with the lawyer, they were like, what should we do if there's like overages?
I'm like, because sometimes when you make documentaries, you make a budget and then it might go over.
I'm going to kill myself if I have to start another documentary and have to stop because I run out of money.
So I really would like to raise another 30 grand if you have it and you want to donate for nothing in return, pretty much.
I'm just going to be honest.
Just to get it out there, if you just think I have too much money, I am too wealthy.
Just hit me up.
Hit Doug MPA up.
You could, I will say, you do get to work with us when it comes to the documentary.
So you could have creative input, but yeah.
Or you could help fund the second documentary, which is going to be on men in the military.
It's going to be a series: What's in it for men, marriage, military?
And it's very important to me that I have smart, intelligent men working.
I would love to employ Terrence Pop full-time to help direct these because there's no one that knows more about these issues.
$5 for the documentary.
Thank you.
See, nothing in return.
If you have a big donation, you can email me, just pearlythingsgmail.com.
The reason, again, I really feel as though I'm always going to get more attention than the guys, unfortunately.
I don't, and I really would like to get as many smart, intelligent men employed on this stuff that have worked directly in the industries.
So, you know, you know how it is.
Selling to men is just more difficult than selling to women.
So you just don't make as much.
So, anyways, that's really the goal.
There's a woman talking shit in the dock called Brandy Jean.
If you want to call in, Brandy, do you want to call in?
Put yes in the chat, and I'll send you a link if you want me to for whatever you're crashing out about.
Women crash out on everything, so it's like God only knows.
Brandy, are you going to call in?
Probably not, they never do.
Camera on, though.
You got to say it to my face.
Is she going to do it?
Probably not, but yeah, so that's what I'm doing with the documentary.
There's a GoFundMe, justpearlythings at gmail.com.
Brandy, do what I'm.
I'm waiting.
Is she gonna go?
Probably not.
You never can do it.
Women, am I right?
There's so many men in the chat.
It's only women that crash out, women and simps.
But anyways, I think that's all I got for you today.
I'm going to give Brandy 10 seconds to call in.
You got 10 seconds.
Say you want the link.
10, 9, 8, 7, 6, 5, 4, 3, 2, 1.
All right.
Well, I've seen much of your contact.
Have I converted to Islam?
No, I'm.
I think I've glucked luck too many times to pull a religion card.
I'm going to be honest.
Yeah.
Let's try it.
Are you going to cut me off, Pearl?
Yeah, I mean, it depends if you're reasonable or you're unreasonable.
I'll put it.
I'll put it in the chat.
This is for Brandy.
Can you be pleasant?
Can you do it?
If you can be pleasant, I want camera on, and you got to be respectful.
I'm going to send this to Doug here.
You can put that there.
All right, let's see.
It's on the YouTube.
The link that is for her, nobody else.
I'm gonna play the divorce documentary to give her time to call in the trailer for it that we made.
Going In For Men00:04:18
Oh no.
Oh no.
And I'm gonna hold on.
What?
I'm gonna go to the bathroom because I just drank this whole thing.
So I have to go in it for men.
All right.
So I'm gonna share this screen.
She'll make sure.
Sorry, Doug MPL, make sure that she has the link and then I'll be back.
This clip going viral online of a dozen women being asked the following question.
Do we need men?
Most answered very quickly, no, because men are useless.
This headline from The Hill, it caught my eye.
Most young men are single.
Most young women are not.
Young men have fallen faster than any demographic in America over the last 40 years.
It's a different world now.
Like we don't need men the way that they used to.
The future is female.
Men and women are drifting further apart, and society is crumbling because of it.
A fascinating debate has broken out about the value of marriage.
You've kind of got the Trad COD versus Red Pill thing.
This men's rights crowd that sometimes just goes too far the other way.
Oh, you need to stop acting like grown boys and infants and actually become men.
Marriage is a bond and it's a sacred bond.
It's a machine designed to extract resources from you.
Now many of the red-pilled have taken the position that it's bad for men to get married.
Hannah Pearl Davis or just pearly things.
One of the most controversial faces in all of the internet.
She goes on to say that marriage is a terrible deal for men.
Because if me and you were in a business contract, you would never sign a contract where I am paid to leave.
Gee, what could go wrong there?
74% or something of divorces are initiated by women.
Men have everything to lose, primarily their own children.
Men get killed by the courts and by divorce laws.
I had no idea that courts of family law were courts of equity, not courts of law.
Because in family court, you don't need evidence to accuse someone of abuse.
You need no evidence.
When you guys say get married young, a lot of these men don't know what they're signing up for, and you're not going to be there when their entire life falls apart.
I interview them on the other side.
I didn't meet my son until he was 15 months old.
How much did you spend trying to get him back?
The legal fees alone was about $200,000.
Before you know it, you're homeless.
You're literally just thrown out onto the street.
We absolutely reinforce bad behavior from women.
Wives are taught to leave their husbands and then daughters grow up without their fathers.
Family is the foundation of the society.
Every problem in society comes from single mother homes.
A lot of women will just chase this negative rapid hole of happiness, endless happiness.
Feminism's biggest failures is it lies to women.
We tell women to date as many guys as possible.
We tell them to put off family into marriage.
You are allowed to leave your perfect husband.
You are allowed to end a relationship with a really great boyfriend.
Oh, free shrich, have an abortion.
What?
You're evil.
I don't think there's anything else in life that we actually ever go into preparing to fail.
Like if you have the mentality of this is going to go wrong and be pessimistic, naturally the outcome is going to be that it's going to fail anyway.
It's self-sabotage.
And that's the thing.
Like women are so willing to leave marriages because they're not happy.
This is not about happiness.
The most important thing is the children.
And the problem is we have a modern society where it's me, me, me, my feelings, leave when I feel like it instead of doing what's best for the kids.
This myth that we live in an age of male privilege.
Where's my male privilege?
They think, well, men have all the rights.
They have all the power.
Privilege patriarchal system that we have.
Why doesn't our society care about men's rights?
I have no friends, no wife, and no social life.
Men are alone in this situation.
Men are homeless.
Men are thinking about eating guns.
I've seen so many men on the brink of suicide and they didn't do anything wrong.
How are you equal if the men are the ones that have to fight and die to defend the country?
The men are the ones that build and maintain all the infrastructure.
Women are helplessly dependent upon men.
The so-called deaths of despair from suicide, overdose, or alcohol, three times higher among men than among women.
Culture is telling men, you are no good.
Men's Struggle Unheard00:03:51
You got to get your act together.
I think men have failed themselves.
What kind of a man are you?
What kind of a woman are you going to attract?
If men are in trouble, so are women.
Everybody knows this is a huge problem, but nobody wants to admit it.
Every single woman at the table said they wanted a man.
500K, 500, 300K, 300K, 200K.
Am I crazy?
Everything is really set up against you to fail as a man.
If men make less than women, women don't want to marry them.
So you know who wants more economically and emotionally viable men?
Women.
I don't want to be an independent woman anymore.
I don't want to be a strong, independent woman.
I'm over it.
When is it going to be my turn?
Where are we meeting the men that don't stop?
I can't keep having these same conversations.
The only simp here is you, Pearl.
You sent for women.
I think you sent for women.
She's a provocateur.
She says stupid stuff, but Pearl is right about this.
It's already happening.
It's just not out in the open yet.
Now it's just hookup culture is going to be our fairy tale ending because men don't want a wife and women can't find a husband.
The future, if everybody follows your path, is there is no future.
We go into population decline and our economy goes into decline.
Civilization will crumble.
The American story does not end well.
This is an existential crisis failing young men.
All right, guys.
Do you need to sign back in?
It's like women, right?
I bet a guy could have figured it out.
Yeah, if you want to come on, links right there.
What up, Doug MPA?
Hey, how's it going?
I'll give you.
I'm not going to wait all day.
I won't lie, Brandy.
I got stuff to do.
You got like two minutes.
She was in there, but then she couldn't.
Yeah.
The guys will stay.
The women.
Sorry, Brandy.
You just got to stop.
Here's the thing about this.
Okay, there she is.
Guys, like the video, subscribe to the channel if you haven't already.
Keep doing that.
Let's go.
I'm going to kick you out when I'll maybe bring you back up later.
Camera on.
What's going on, Brandy?
Hi.
Camera is on.
Nice.
So what's your disagreement?
Well, every time I watch you debate, or just talk on the show in general, no amount of statistics, no amount of anyone, regardless of their experience, do you take them or the evidence presented at the work?
You just kind of go off of, well, I've interviewed 1,000 304s or men, whoever.
And so, therefore.
But the way I see that not balance is your show naturally attracts those type of women to come in.
Those were the women you wanted to talk to.
So, of course, you're going to get those women that are out here just throwing it out, both pants, legs, or trying to find a guy much, maybe better than they deserve.
And then you get men who tend to feel like they're always the victims because that's kind of just how the show is geared.
So I think, in a way, your numbers, your sense of what's happening, has to be somewhat skewed.
Right.
So, how many women do I have to talk to till it counts?
Well, that I don't know, but I've watched your show quite a bit.
And I remember back when you were having these women on, they tended to all be a certain type of woman, you know, and that's just not what you see in mainstream America.
Do you think it's only women, like that type of women?
You don't think I interview people off camera, like in different areas?
Oh, I'm sure you do.
I'm sure you do, but there are actual studies and research also done on this or just polls, but for some reason, you just can't seem to think that anybody else's evidence or experience is correct.
Why Alimony Debates Miss the Mark00:13:30
Who funds the studies?
Well, and that's a really good point.
And there are various places that fund them.
It's not like all men hating places or women hating places.
You have institutes.
Buying decisions are made by women.
Oh, the buying decisions?
I would guess probably 75% or more.
Not a guess, but yes.
What incentive do studies have to be honest?
Well, not all studies are backed by.
I'm not talking about things that are backed by Tyson Foods, or I'm talking about like maybe the Cato Institute or journals from psychiatrists, psychologists.
Who are the journals funded by?
I don't have them in front of me now, but Pearl, all of them are not funded in that.
I've worked in law enforcement and the court system for 20 years.
And I've seen a whole array of things.
And I just think you tend to blame women for everything and accept that say women should just accept that men are going to be men.
That's like boys will be boys.
And I just don't think it's a fair shake.
Well, actually, it's just not realistic.
And when you were talking about the whole thing with alimony, I've heard you say that through a series of interviews.
First of all, I can't remember which debater it was.
No, it was a gentleman, Trent something.
He first quoted that alimony was only paid in like 10 to 20% of divorces.
He's correct.
Like I said, I've done the whole and when I was in the middle of the day.
Right, but if I go on a roller coaster with a 10% chance of dying, I don't really want to get on.
Right, but here's what I'm trying to say.
I don't know where you're reading, but women pay alimony too.
I have been sitting in courts and seeing men.
There was just a case in the county I worked in where a chick had to pay, God, it was a big number to the guy, monthly alimony.
Women have to pay child support.
Now, I will say this.
What percentage?
What percent?
Old days, women did get the children more.
And I don't think that was necessarily fair.
I understand it years prior when women stayed home.
Who pays more alimony?
Men or women?
Oh, I would probably say men do, but you made that sound like you made it sound like it's automatic that women don't.
Well, it's 97% of the time.
97% of the 10%.
Okay.
So what we're saying is no, not a whole large set of people are getting alimony, period.
But as far as custody, luckily, North Carolina is moving towards.
A lot of states have finally said we're going to start with the presumption of 50-50 custody, that both parents are suitable unless one of the parents just doesn't want to be primary or one of the parents just can be proven to not be.
I want to start.
But we can go into that.
But we can start with the exception thing.
Do you know how exhausting it is talking to a person that where I have to say not all every five minutes?
We all know that exceptions don't make the rule right.
So if I say men pay alimony to women and that's a risk, and now I have to say well, not every single man like that's kind of an exhausting conversation.
Well, it's also exhausting to hear you talk to alimony point constantly when 90 of divorces don't end in alimony and only 10 do so.
It's kind of the same problem if you're part of the 10, If you're part of the 10, it matters.
Like, I've interviewed guys that they don't get to retire because their wife put them on alimony.
And, like, you know, get put on alimony at like 60 years old, and now he doesn't get to retire.
So, well, do you not think it matters to the women too?
Well, why can't we have a conversation?
Why can't we have a conversation about men's issues without bringing up women?
Like, don't you see that's kind of self-centered?
Where it's like, why can't we have a conversation?
Like, all of the media is catered towards women.
Like, we talk about women's issues all the time.
But it's kind of exhausting when I have to say not all every five minutes.
And I am constantly having to, you know, cater to women to not hurt their feelings.
So, I just don't.
I get that.
But it's just as exhausting again to hear you beat a drum on 10%, which, by the way, includes 3% of women in that 10%.
But to act like that, like it's first of all, some huge thing that men have to do across the board and that there aren't women in it.
It's not that it's exhausting for you just to covet things from one side.
So, of course, of course, people are going to debate the other side, Pearl.
What do you expect?
The equivalent of this is 100 men died from suicide.
This is how it affected women.
And it's kind of a joke.
It's like whenever men have a problem, women just always make it about them.
It's like, hey, this is an issue that affects 90%.
It's a 97% male issue.
That's pretty high.
And then women said, What about me?
And it just kind of shows how self-centered and, um, you cannot, you cannot over talk me on my show.
You can't.
This is the rule.
And again, it goes back to women always make it about themselves.
So super sticker from here: $1.49.
Go ahead.
You are welcome to make your point now.
Again, though, even men, not just women, men who debate you make these points.
You want to put everything on the woman.
And I don't know what to tell you except from 20 years of law enforcement and court experience.
I know what I've seen.
Like, I've lived it with them.
So when you want to talk about who's the better parent and you constantly want to say the men, I do think it was unfair that men were automatically not presumed to be, again, equal.
I'm so glad State came even away from that.
Great.
So then you see it's a problem.
Why, why nag?
Right?
That part was, I don't see, as far as the alimony, since, first of all, alimony is only given out again in very small circumstances.
100% is very small.
That's not small.
I mean, if okay, that means 10% of divorces, alimony is paid.
3%, you're saying I'm going to double-check that, but I figure that 3% pay it.
So that means 7% of the entire country's divorces result in alimony.
And that's a big problem.
That's not small.
I mean, that's a lot of people if you do the math.
Okay, well, let's do the math on abuse.
That's a lot of men that are really enslaved to women just because what they married them.
That's that's no.
What about because the women wanted to divorce because either the men were beating on them or cheating constantly?
I have seen, I've seen women come in so black and damn blue.
And the men, there would be money, both of them.
And suddenly accounts are frozen.
Things are done to where they can't access.
I mean, I have seen some stuff, Pearl.
So it's just, I don't know what jaded you.
I remember watching a video you did way, way, way, way back in your car.
And you said, people asked me how I got red pilled.
And I guess, Way D, why I can take all these misogynistic men and the manosphere.
Because see, I do watch you, but about the menosphere and the way they treat women and talk about women.
And you actually said you think it stemmed from when you were in high school and college or in playing volleyball, maybe.
You were just always, it was like you were bitter towards the pretty girls or the cute girls.
You're like, I was just always playing B or C. They'd go to all my attractive friends first.
And then they'd come to me as a backup.
And it's like, instead of turning you against the men who weren't choosing you first, you turned against the women who got chose first.
You sure know a lot about me?
You sure know a lot about me.
That's crazy.
You post videos for people to view.
What do you mean?
That's crazy.
Why are you?
What's the purpose of being here then?
You've obviously put in a lot of energy and time into learning my point.
I've been watching you for a few years here and there.
What's the like?
Why are you here?
Because I'm just trying to figure out if you just, if something happened where you dislike your mother that much, because you can tell you really like your father.
Or if you're just that up, if you're just insecurity in yourself, if it's something that most of these women have not done anything.
How many kids do you have?
Three.
And how old are they?
10, 22, and 24.
The 10-year-old I've had since he was a baby.
His mom is one of those women you described that F-grade mother, drugs, and all that.
So we decided to, you know, give him, take my nephew in.
And so, yeah, we started over when we had an empty nest pretty much.
How long have you been married?
13 years.
Okay.
And it's the same, like, all the kids.
And the kids are by my ex-husband.
Okay, so you're divorced.
All right.
Yep.
And I can tell you 100%.
I did not cheat.
I did not whatever.
He was a church-going guy when we got together.
I wasn't that big into church.
Started going to church with him somewhere down the line.
Developed some issues.
Became very, very abusive to the point where his parents helped me.
And as a matter of fact, we divorced.
I got the kids half the time.
Not because legally I could have, but they wanted to and he didn't care.
So you guys got together.
He was a church guy.
When did it change?
Like what did he say?
Was it physical or was it like emotional, mental?
Like, how was he abusing?
Oh, no, it was definitely physical.
Okay.
He would.
And you were just sitting there doing nothing to him at all.
And he would just beat the living fuck up.
I didn't.
No, no, no, it didn't happen until he drank.
It didn't happen unless he was drinking.
Okay.
So he would just get drunk and then beat you up.
Is that how it happened?
It wasn't a constant, but it happened enough and it was serious enough that, and then it started happening in front of the kids.
And that was one thing he at least would manage to wait until they were sleeping or they were spending the night at grandma's.
And I'm like, I'm not going to let my girls, because, you know, unfortunately, their mom had, she was a stripper.
She had left when they were babies too.
So I was like the only mom they'd known.
And I'm like, we can't, I'm not going to let them see this.
I'm not.
I can't.
Even if that meant me having to lose them.
But luckily, I didn't.
You know, they were able to still support.
I didn't whatever because I can't anyway, because they weren't biologically mine, but it didn't matter.
Their safety and their happiness is what mattered.
Okay, so you married a church guy with kids, is what you're saying.
And then he started getting drunk and beating you 20 years in, you said?
No, two or three years.
Oh, two or sorry.
I must have misheard you.
Two or three years in.
Like what led up to it, though?
Was it an argument or like what?
No, started frequenting the bar.
He started shooting coal.
He was good at it.
Well, he used to have a table years before, but just a different path in life, I think.
Just started walking a different path.
And it's again, I was not like I was a holy roller.
Trust me.
I wasn't.
I don't need to go to church to do the right thing.
But as a family, that's what you do.
When he wanted us to go, that's what we did as a family.
And, you know, I hate it.
But they're just, what I'm trying to say is it is not just women.
And this whole thing about men being smarter.
Sure, there's lots of things they can do better than us.
And lots of things they may be smarter.
But women also have a set of skills that they can be better at and smarter at.
What would your ex-husband say?
Like, if I asked him, if I had him on the show, what would his side of the story be?
Probably be the same if I could find old text, which I would never show that.
But, you know, he realizes, you know, he realizes.
His alcoholism got out of control.
Yeah, I think that's what it was.
He got two DUIs pretty close together back to back.
And yeah.
But I'm talking more general, though, too.
I mean, one day, Pearl, you're going to have a daughter.
And I hear you speak so highly of your father.
I don't hear you talk a lot about your mom.
And whenever you speak, like, oh, my dad's the best guy in the world.
So I don't know if there's some, it's just her working and not whatever was to, I don't know.
But maybe one day you'll have a daughter.
One day you'll have a kid.
You said possibly, you know, do you really want your daughter to go back and look at all of your podcasts and be like, wow, I mean, mom thinks pretty much this is no matter what I do, I'm just going to be a piece of shit.
That's not what I say, actually.
Well, I know you may not come across that way to you.
Well, I can't help her take it.
That's not what I say.
Yeah, but how do you think she's going to take it when she hears you just, God, I don't know.
It's just something to think about.
You're young.
I'm 51.
So I think you did an equally as good job as a law enforcement officer as the men in your industries.
Oh, yeah, I did.
I got lucky just because now a lot of the females didn't, but I had also a legal background to go with it.
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So I was able just to do other things that kind of rolled into something bigger.
But now I will say physically, yeah, most women, are they as strong as men?
Absolutely not.
But are you still working?
No, I haven't been working the last couple of years.
Well, I do work, but not.
I went to work for my husband's business.
Were you like in the field?
Yes, yeah.
And I trained new recruits.
I was a BLET instructor for 10 years, my last 10 years.
Don't you think that's a little bit like delusional to think you could like do the equal job the men can do when you're not as strong?
Well, no, I just said women aren't all women, but a lot of women aren't physically as strong.
But I also saw some of the guys we had working and, you know, they couldn't have caught me if I hopped and ran away.
They needed some better standards in terms of the physical whatever that they had.
And I'm not trying to be out here going, look, I can do anything a man can do.
I can't.
But I can do stuff men can't do.
You know, it's like, or don't want to do for sure.
Yeah, and I respect your experience, but I just, I don't think there's a world where women can do what men can do at all.
If men weren't.
I did say, I admit it, physically, there is a big discrepancy.
But again, one thing, and yes, I'm bragging a little bit because I was impressed.
And again, this was when I first started teaching BLET, would have been 13, 14 years ago.
I was in, because I was instructing, I was in my heels, my skirt, and my blazer rather than what I'd normally wear.
And every break, they had to drop and give push-ups and do whatever exercises they were told to do.
And so I watched some of them and I'm going, you're doing a girl push-up.
And I got down there and dropped and did 20.
And they were like amazed.
But some men, you know, they have to be in shape too, to be able to do that stuff.
Okay.
So what specifically do I say that just grinds your gears so much?
Because you just see a lot of energy into this.
And you're giving me general stuff, but nothing really concrete.
What do you mean?
Well, like I said, all of the studies, I've heard people that debate you and statistics and numbers.
You always just say, I don't believe that.
People lie on polls as if they won't lie to you in an interview.
You're only willing to believe what you choose to believe by what you have seen in your limited worldview.
Isn't that everybody?
Well, no, actually, I've been taught to, especially doing what I do with legal and with people's lives.
No, I look at what the experts have laid out, what the studies have shown, and that is what I go on.
I mean, I can't just, especially then.
You did that during COVID and how did that go?
What do you mean?
Oh, well, okay.
You're not going to find 100% perfect in anything, Pearl.
We can find an outlier for tons of things.
Right.
But I mean, it's like what women in academia tend to do is they want to be in control of what you think.
And so they want to say, oh, trust the experts, trust the studies.
And then when I say, well, that's not always accurate.
I got to go with what I see.
And that goes personally and professionally.
You know, I'm not going to nag you if you have a different point of view.
That's fine.
Well, there's just a lot of people that have, well, no, that was another thing when you did the Anna debate.
I'm not a huge fan of hers.
I'll be honest.
I think she's pretty condescending.
However, when she was debating you and coming at you for your thoughts or feelings and she would lay out statistics, you came back to your show and then you kept kind of labeling that nagging, nagging.
Y'all were doing a debate.
Yeah.
Well, I think women are so used to nagging, you don't even notice it.
Okay, but in a debate, Pearl, what was she supposed to do?
Well, you're not supposed to go below the belt, actually.
There's supposed to be rules for a debate.
There really wasn't.
You're not supposed to call people bitches in debates.
You're not supposed to like, you're not supposed to go personal.
There's a lot of rules.
You're actually supposed to.
She didn't follow any of them.
I wanted to submit studies ahead of time.
She didn't want to do it.
So what am I like?
What am I supposed to do if I can't remember the exact name on the spot?
I'm bad with names.
Oh, yeah.
I mean, that's I said beforehand I wanted to submit the studies ahead of time.
They said basically she's, they said she's so they didn't say they didn't call her a bitch, but I'm going to.
She's so bitchy that they didn't want her to back out by like asking her to do more.
And I think we've all been around like bitchy women where everyone's kind of afraid to piss them off.
So I don't know.
I mean, I'm more like a dude than a woman.
I can tell you I prefer guy friends.
If you're screaming at me, I did kind of freeze up.
That was embarrassing, but she was screaming at me, you know, insulting me, talking about my mother, my personal life, when it's like we can't, I'm totally willing in a debate.
When I do my show, it's going to be a mix of studies and like what I've seen and stories I've seen both personally and publicly.
But in a debate, I'm totally willing to do studies, but I have to get them ahead of time so I can read yours and you can read mine, right?
Oh, yeah.
That does make sense.
And she didn't want to do it.
So it was kind of, I was kind of fucked.
And I think it's kind of, I'm bad with names.
That's my Achilles heel.
So I can always get people to study if they really, we're working on a website now.
So in the future, I can just say, here's the website and everything's going to be linked.
But sometimes I just can't do it on the spot, especially if you looked at the prompt.
It was so broad that it's very difficult to know what topics you're going to hit.
Sometimes I just can't remember the name.
Like it's just been a year since I quoted it.
You know, well, if you think she shrieked at you, you should watch her with her partner, Jink.
Oh, they shrieked.
Yeah, but they want you to believe studies because then they'll be unemployed.
If you do my job, you find that the people that know the most actually work in the field.
So, well, yeah.
And like I said, mine isn't exactly the same type of field you're in, but family law and just crime and whatever was definitely eye-opening doing that for this long.
Yeah.
But thank you for taking the time to talk.
I don't, it didn't.
I don't know why your guy wanted to make it seem combative.
Well, I think you're more combative than you think.
Most women are.
So I don't think I have been combative at all, really, during this little thing.
It's weird.
Anybody that disagrees with you, though, you seem to, I don't know, you label us nagging and combative, and it just seems to negate the whole purpose of your field.
If people didn't debate and have opinions, you would be out of a job.
I have, I have one question for you, if you don't mind me asking.
Yes, sir.
So the new guy that you're with, your children aren't his, they come from a different guy, right?
The two adult, yes, the two oldest ones.
Okay.
They're not my biological.
So now you're not working and he's taking he's paying everything and he's taking care of you, right?
No, You've misheard me.
The none of my kids are mine biologically.
I was unable to have children.
The man I married had two, two small children, one in diaper still.
The mom, she just left.
She was a stripper.
Okay.
Okay.
I understand.
But let me get back to it.
So, so the guy you're with right now, the guy you're with right now isn't the father to any of those children.
I'm not the mother to any of them.
But he's not biologically related to any of them.
And also, so you're not working, right?
So that means that he works good for everything, right?
You missed that part too.
No, I do.
I work for his company now.
After 20 years, I left law enforcement.
Okay.
And I went to work for his company.
He had nothing to do with that.
That's the majority of the money right now.
Him, right?
Oh, certainly, yeah.
Good guy, right?
Because my biggest problem.
Okay.
Okay.
Because my biggest problem, what you're saying is: here's the thing: there doesn't have to be balance.
But listen to me very carefully.
Listen to me very carefully.
There's been 60 years of women tearing men down.
Ricky Lake, Sally Jesse Raphael, all those shows.
Men are terrible.
Everything you're saying, we criticize men long enough.
It's only been since 2015 that men have a voice.
Pearl Santa, Kevin Samuel Channel, all these guys.
You can find balance from a different channel.
Pearl doesn't have to talk about men because women like you have been able to hear it from the view in mainstream television for the past 60 years.
My whole life.
I'm 45.
Hold on, All I've heard is how terrible men are.
And the thing about it is, most of the criticisms you say about men, we'll accept.
We'll say, you know what?
Men are terrible.
But, but, but.
You haven't heard me.
You have not heard me put men down.
I'm defending because you say this whole time.
I'm not defending women.
No, me defending women does not mean I'm putting men down, honey.
You're putting them down earlier.
You see how terrible men are and what you've seen in law enforcement and all that stuff.
Yes, I have seen some terrible men.
You have a good husband and you have children, but you hate men.
Why?
Hate men.
Yes.
Oh, wow.
You have really got over your skis.
No, I've been listening to you the whole time, and I haven't said anything about hating men.
Where tell me one thing I said that indicated I hated men.
You literally remotely close.
Yeah, you're talking about your experience in law enforcement and painting men as abusers.
And where did I pay for helping the women?
I said I was in an abusive relationship.
I said I saw lots of abuse in the court system in relationships.
So, no, no, no, never anywhere.
Go back, find it on the film, find it in the chat.
The way that you've been talking about men and now, I never said anything about men in the chat.
Never said anything about men in the men.
And if you hate men, that's fine.
I'm going to mute her so you can finish and then she can go.
You gotta, you gotta let him finish, and then you can go.
Go ahead.
Don't worry about that.
Okay, you gotta let him finish.
This is what I'm saying.
Is this you found yourself a good guy?
I tell guys to stay to stay away from women and law enforcement, but you found a good guy to marry you and help you support kids that aren't his.
Sounds like there are good men out there.
How about you talk about that?
How about you talk about the good men in your life who stepped up to take care of you, hire you for his business?
How about you talk about that?
You want Pearl to have balance?
Why don't you have balance?
How about that?
This whole time, you haven't talked about the good man in your life.
Yeah, I think I bragged several times about my husband to Pearl.
I don't know where in the chat.
You must have mistaken me for someone else.
I didn't mean I did not mention men in the chat.
I did not say anything derogatory about men.
Go back and find it because I didn't.
Second of all, you are the one now coming at me with some boy.
I admitted my old men is a great man.
None of these children are biologically mine.
By the way, I also helped raise his four that were biologically his.
I also made more money than him the first half of our relationship.
Of course, he started a company on his own.
I also provided health insurance for our entire family through my job that he didn't have.
This was a joint venture between us.
He is amazing.
Yes, I will damn admit that.
But he'll also tell you I helped raise his four from his divorce.
Okay.
Once again, why don't you talk about the good men that are out there that'll do what he does?
Because there are plenty of them.
Okay.
Again, I wasn't bashing men.
I was defending women on some of her points.
Again, if you can go back and find anywhere where I said negative things, right?
But if you heard his point is that the media has been dominated for 60 years with women complaining.
I don't really care.
I don't really.
You got to stop interrupting.
I don't really care if you didn't watch the view.
It doesn't matter.
The media was out there.
So now it's like there's five channels for women, and you have to come say, Oh, you guys are talking too badly about women.
It's like there's like five channels.
I got kicked off for five channels defending men, and she has a problem with this one.
I'm not the only one that she has dealt with.
Just about everybody she deals with also thinks there's more nuance than what Pearl gives it.
Never in this whole whole interaction have I said or done anything in the way you have described me.
That is what's frustrating.
You go back, you watch this video, find anything I said specifically, just a million worse than this, or anywhere in the chat because you can't.
No, that's what bothers me you're saying.
It's because you were being misandrous in the chat, just like being just like you're being misandrous now.
And I just wanted to terrible, why are you married to one?
Why?
Honestly, that's what I want to ask questions to women like you.
If men are so terrible and women have to be defended and men are so awful, and you saw, and out of all the people, you married a drunk and a freaking abuser and stuff.
What do you, what are you married for?
What do you even have a man in your life for?
The feminist conundrum: you hate men, but you want one.
How do you reconcile that?
That's my question to women like you.
Where did I say I hated men?
Where did I back?
Where, where you can't put, oh my God, you were just making stuff up in your head.
She's not making it up.
That's not because of the office.
We're in the interview.
I don't.
Okay.
You don't calm down.
Calm down.
It's okay.
People, you know, it's just incredible because you were coming on here pathologizing me, right?
And I didn't get offended.
No, you just don't like men's tone.
That's how men talk, right?
So, like, it actually wasn't polite.
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I just let it go.
Like, it actually wasn't polite at all.
It's actually pretty rude.
But, like, women need to be like, all right.
I'm just done.
Oh, my God.
You gave that woman a lot of leverage.
I'm in the back, like, ready to freaking explode because anyone.
Look, guys.
Like, men have hit.
I'm sorry.
All right.
Go ahead.
Men have had to hear it from women for the past 50 years.
Any conversation that starts with Pearl, you have to have balance.
You have to advocate for women is an automatic L right there.
Automatic L. She's on the wrong side of the internet.
I was more, she's like, women just have no idea how unlikable they are because they do it with good tones.
So, like, because they say it with a nice tone, they think they're like, it's not bad, or people are too exhausted to correct them because I just want you to get to the point.
I'm like, don't you think it's a little bit rude to come up here and be like, oh, you're doing this because you were passed over in high school by women prettier than you know?
I'm like, I'm like, do you not?
I don't react because I'm just very like, oh, here we go.
But it's just incredible to me that, like, what if I went to her and said, um, do you feel this way because you're fat?
Like, like, yeah, so it's just gaslight you for eternity.
Eternity.
It's just going to be a gaslight.
Oh, women come up.
One more time.
Look at look at the catfish picture.
Look at that.
Guys, guys, guys, Kevin Samuels said it the best.
There doesn't have to be balance, guys.
No, those days are over.
Men, we have the right to say our stories, have our spaces, and it doesn't matter who it's coming from.
And guys, I've been a fan of Pearl's forever.
I work for her channel.
I believe what she's doing.
The fact that that woman had to try to low blow her and say, Oh, you weren't picked.
You hate the women that were just low blowing.
Come on.
Like, gloves are off.
And Kevin Samuel said, All you have to do is trigger these women, trigger them, and see what happens.
And that's exactly what I was doing.
Then it all comes out.
Law enforcement, get out of here, man.
That's the thing.
Like, you can see women are when they're angry.
So it's like, you just gotta like, I don't know, you just gotta chill out.
Dude, I mean, you can't, we're random people on the internet.
Who cares what we think?
Like, you don't have to like defend yourself, you know?
So, well, um, that's all I got.
It's kind of fun.
So, pearl, women understand honor and loyalty.
Um, the abuse thing I'd have to hear from the ex-husband.
I doubt he would say the same thing.
I mean, her ex-husband had to deal with that when she got angry.
Shoot, I drink too.
Women just have no idea how unlikable they are because they're never corrected because it's too exhausting to correct them.
Like, she had two choices there, right?
She could have, you know, taken perspective and said, hmm, maybe I did, I could have said that in a better way.
That's what young women do at 20.
They're like, oh, really?
Oh, really?
But then they get to 50.
They're like, did you see that she started when I triggered her?
She started telling the female-friendly version of the story.
When you asked her about her husband, I triggered her.
The female-friendly version of the story is where she's the hero and the victim at the same time.
Her whole story: I was in law enforcement, I did all these things, but then I was so helpless because I was with a drunk.
And then, and then she's talking about how she had to adopt a child from an awful woman.
But then, women are so good, and men are so bad.
Guys, once again, the female-friendly version of the story, they're the heroes and the victims at the same time.
Yeah, no, and also, like, she's just gonna take credit for all the business stuff.
I just know it.
Okay, all right, thanks for coming in, Doug MPA.
I appreciate it.
Thanks for having me, as always.
Yep, it's incredible.
Women, like, come on to my show and then just prove my point.
They can't respect other women, but are pro-women.
Um, it's difficult.
Look, and I get it.
Like, I mean, you think I've never seen these realizations in me?
I always try to say, I don't have an ego in this.
I'm not claiming I'm like special or perfect.
Like, um, there's things that, like, you know, I learn all the time that men find offensive, right?
Um, it's hard because you know, you're raised in this society, but like, women like her, they get to this old age and they don't, it's cooked because there's no self-reflection.
So, and I think that's why men feel bad because, um, do you know what I mean?
Like, I think that's why men feel bad because they know a lot of times it's well-meaning.
I didn't really get the energy that it wasn't like well-meaning, but yeah, why don't I stream on kick?
They don't pay me.
Um, she's talking about be abused, but she kept interrupting you and Doug wouldn't and wouldn't let you finish.
Isn't that a form of abuse?
Yeah, I know.
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Maybe one day I'll tell you all the things I've learned.
I'll even tell you things that I realize that I do.
I'll tell you, you want to know what gets me into trouble the most giving my opinion too much on things I don't know.
This job, this job, I'm going to be honest, this doesn't help.
You know, you don't realize how much you do it, you know.
So, anyways, all right, guys, thanks for watching again.
More women.
Um, if you want to call into the show, feel free.
Um, see if you can be calm and not crash out.
And, anyways, like the video, don't give up.
We need you to keep going.
Well, and maybe start with a $20 super to chat instead of $2.
It's like, we need you to get going.
Here's $2.2.
Really?
To.
I mean, I don't want to sound ungrateful here, but we need you to keep going.
Here's $2.
Like you obviously don't need me that bad because you gave me $2.
Respectfully.
Like, respect, you know, and I'm not, I'm not trying to sound ungrateful.
You guys work hard for your money.
But like, to really, do you know, like, not 10?
You know, if you like, you said need, you know, I got to pay like two employees.
I will never get 20 again.
That was a mistake.
That was a mistake.
So that was, I will never.
I know we don't have a donation infrastructure.
Thank you.
Another $2.
Are you guys trolling me with the $2?
I know we're building it.
Hopefully, in the next like two months, we're going to redo the app, redo the infrastructure.
Yeah, I had 20 employees.
God help us.
Sell signed t-shirts.
I'm going to.
That's, I got to figure out how to get this t-shirt machine to work.
But it doesn't, I haven't been motivated to do the t-shirt machine because I don't even have the website done to sell them.
So I'll be more motivated when we finish that.
It's kind of why I've taken a little step back because when we get the infrastructure done, then I'm going to be able to go off.
Right now we're doing, we're finding a documentary team and getting the donation infrastructure.
That's what we're figuring out.
Learn To Clean By Structure00:12:14
There's a girl in the chat that said, I want Pearl to teach me how to talk to men.
You should pose all the questions you want to ask me.
You got to get on dates and get in the door where you see a guy multiple times.
Okay.
I don't know who you got to bang to do it.
You're going to have to put out, right?
You can't just sit in your apartment.
You got to go on dates.
Give yourself two or three dates to bang them.
And if you don't want to bang them by the third date, move on, maybe two dates, whatever you're going to cap it at.
And then all of the things you want to learn, just ask the guy you're dating.
You just say, hey, do I ever talk with like a men love being asked their advice?
It could even be a casual fling, right?
Men love training you.
So I don't remember you.
I'm going to be honest.
The women give me attitude all the time.
So what time did you have attitude?
I don't know.
This is like women are women.
I mean, even if let's say, you know, yeah, so like the best, the best place to get trained is asking the man.
Yeah, that's the best place, but it depends if you have a man that you're interested in.
Yeah, you have a brother.
Well, the brothers are simps a lot.
So ideally, you want to get a guy that's out of your league.
Cause like it can't be a sexless guy.
He's got to be banging at least one other girl.
So he won't treat you special.
149.
Thank you for the super chat.
All right.
All right.
$5 supers.
But your brother probably, it depends if he's a simp or not.
Only you can know the answer to that.
But yeah, the men know more than me on how to talk to them.
No, that's the worst advice.
Be nice and quiet because there's ways that you speak that you don't know are really annoying to guys.
You don't even know.
Don't be, yeah.
See, okay, the guys simplify it because they're a lot of men are sexless.
So to them, it's like simple.
But, and a lot of times, men can't articulate why you're so unlikable.
They just are like, eh, I'm not feeling it.
And they can't really articulate it.
Here's the $2.
he he this is you guys are trolling well if he's blunt then go ask him and ask him you know ask him what your worst flaws are okay, I'm sorry, madam, but I said, I, okay, I'm sorry, ma'am, but I said, keep going, not get going.
You need to stay strong.
Keep fighting.
What would the internet be like without Pearlie's thing?
Somebody's got to fight these trad cons.
I know.
Take my $2.
Thank you.
Okay, I think you guys are trolling me with the $2, but all right.
Dozen Red Rolls is happy Valentine's Day, new followers.
I'll tell you things I've done that are annoying.
Don't ask them if we could do it a different way.
Just do it the initial way.
They take that as arguing.
I know we don't think of it as arguing.
We're just like, well, what about this way or that way?
They find it really annoying.
Giving your opinion.
Yeah, they find that annoying.
The older I get, the less I give an F about woman.
How does a woman benefit my peace?
Who cares?
It's economic suicide.
LOL.
Okay.
Well, if you want to.
Oh, you want to get in the habit of making yourself breakfast and dinner every day.
It depends if you know how to cook, but if you weren't, you want to have like three easy meals that are high protein and healthy that you know how to cook for breakfast and dinner.
Because you're going to be really awkward cooking for him in his kitchen if you don't know your way.
It's going to be embarrassing for you.
so you just want to have those ready to go um yeah learning to cook but you don't need to do these Don't waste time with these extravagant.
You don't need to learn to bake.
That's one that's kind of useless to men.
Because baking, like they only need it on occasion.
Like most men, like if you like gym guys, which who doesn't want a guy that goes to the gym, right?
They want low carb, high protein.
Baking is just something they need on occasion.
Cleaning, you're going to want to make sure that you, yeah, you can use an air fryer.
I, do you know what?
I prefer to learn with a skillet.
That's just me, but yeah.
But you want to get in the habit of like, men appreciate structure.
So the less structure they have to like correct, the better.
So you don't want to be like staying up till three in the morning.
You don't want to be like, yeah, clean my bathroom today.
In terms of cleaning, what helped me because I'm a naturally, I'm like a messy person.
You, if you're messy, you probably have too much stuff and you buy too much stuff.
Dirty, you have to learn to clean by structure.
So, like, it's like basically, it's like glass.
Um, uh, it's disinfectants, glass cleaner, and like water and soap, essentially.
And it's those three cleaning structures.
I don't know, like by material cover pretty much everything.
And it gets really confusing when you start adding in all this other stuff.
Um, because the reason I didn't like cleaning was because I'm like trying to clean with these products that don't work.
And nobody taught me like the structure.
I don't know, I don't know how to put it, but um, yeah, I actually think that laundry is the number one thing that men need.
Like, most men, especially if you're dating guys older in their 30s, they already know how to cook.
They kind of like their routine.
So, most men don't even mind cooking.
I mean, you'll have to pay attention.
Like, if he eats out a lot, you can maybe help him like eat in.
There's nothing wrong with using the automated stuff if you just have a system.
You want to be able to go to Uber Eats or the grocery store, and you have to have three meals that you can like cook.
Three.
That's all you need.
Three.
And don't, don't move on to a new meal until you've mastered the old one.
Um, you want to make sure you look at, um, if you go to his kitchen and it's different pans, sometimes the pans change the temperature that you cook things at and you don't want to burn everything.
So just look at the pans.
Yeah, meal prepping for the week is something men want.
Meal prepping and laundry.
I think those are the two number one things.
Yeah, grilled cheese.
You want to learn to cook meat because men really like meat.
If you want to meet men in real life, the time of day you go out.
Like if you go to a, like, let's say you want to meet men at a coffee shop.
And you can ask the baristas by you, like what industries or what types of times a day.
Like if men want to meet nurses, you got to go to the coffee shop at like 5 a.m.
They're all early.
So you kind of based on the sleep schedule of people, like it's kind of, you know, work from home people are there during the day.
Finance are there like typical nine to five, maybe like, I think if they work late, it'll be at seven or eight.
I would do a show with Anton Daniels.
But you really have to study the guy because men, like, men value different things.
So I really doubt Melania really knows how to cook.
Trump doesn't need cooking.
Do you know what I mean?
Like he doesn't need that.
He needs a girl that looks really good.
That's important to him.
And so her fashion, like each guy is going to be different.
Like, does he already know how to cook?
He probably would rather have someone clean, you know, men tend to go to cheaper places.
So a lot of times women go to meet men in places that women like to go, like dance places.
You want to go, like, you want to go to the dive bar near you.
There's going to be more men.
Golf courses, there's going to be more men.
A lot of times women, like, will go to nice restaurants, but like only like men will go to steakhouses because it's high protein.
They aren't going to go to like Italian restaurants.
But really, I mean, I would just download a dating app.
I mean, in the wild is going to take you so long.
My bad.
I clicked a button.
Gym is a good place.
High income men tend to go to biking.
Like you could join a bike club.
Like that's kind of a high income sport.
Martial arts.
I mean, why do you think these women get like their, these guys get their wives stolen by jiu-jitsu instructors because they do well with women?
Yeah, like men will go more to like, yeah, Chipotle, Jersey Mics.
Like men like, like men don't like sit-down restaurants because it takes too much time.
They value their time.
So they want it, they want high protein meat, short amount of time.
Yeah, skiing or snow sports.
BJJ is 300 a month.
Yeah.
But she wants a rich dude, right?
300 a month is nothing to some guys.
I don't want to say she wants.
I'm just assuming she's a woman, right?
Yeah, one of the dinners should be a steak.
Steaking at like you, steak is so vital for men.
Steak is like, you should know how to cook a steak.
But I'm telling you, if he's in his 30s, odds are he already knows how to.
unless he's like a super high income job then they might just see it as a waste of time and go out to steak dinner steak burger Like if I was going to pick three man meals, steak, burgers, some sort of like chicken wings.
Breakfast, beef stew, I guess.
Okay.
Tacos is another one.
And it also depends on like the culture you're trying to go for.
Like, obviously, if you're into white guys, look at like more white foods, Hispanic, Asian.
I mean, you know, yeah, chicken breasts.
I think chicken breasts are the hardest to cook, too.
Looking for a Corrector00:07:12
Yeah.
Eggs.
You want to look for guys that can correct you, that have the balls to correct you.
You don't want to be with a simp willing to teach you and that understand how, like, it always impresses, like, so many guys, it's like, oh, I want a woman to cook and clean.
Well, can you teach her how to do that?
You want a young woman?
Well, she shouldn't, she shouldn't come to me like not knowing how to do that.
Well, I mean, we're in America.
They're not going to know how to do anything.
You got no program for her?
What's her role in your life?
You got nothing?
No?
I expect this, this, and this.
Yeah.
Lamb chops are good, too.
Yeah.
I mean, you're supposed to be the leaders.
So like, if you did a 30-year-old woman, I could understand why you'd expect her to be ready to go.
But if you want a 20-year-old woman, my wife hates me correcting her.
Well, you picked the wrong wife.
I mean, that's you're supposed to pick for.
Leave her, you know.
to ask the men around you they've probably figured out a better way to do things So, like, I mean, honestly, your brother, ask him how, like, and men love teaching you.
So, if you like a guy, you just got to ask him how to teach you something.
They love teaching you things.
Oh, I can't do this.
How do I do that?
Why do you think women fall in love with their professors and their teachers?
Like, how do I, um, hey, I've been really trying to like learn this.
How do I do that?
Do you think I should?
Do you think I should do this or I should do that?
How do I do that?
Yeah, I mean, men love that.
Yeah, you got to learn how to ask men for their number.
Or, I mean, honestly, I just say the dating apps.
Do you see the women get so many matches on dating apps?
And look, if you weren't raised to be a wife, I mean, you're going to get rejected.
I hate to say it, but you can't really be too worried.
Look, you can't try to keep your body count as low as possible.
But, like, if you weren't raised to be a wife, it's you're probably going to get go.
Like, the rate I've calculated in terms of like how many men women sleep with versus getting relationships out of it's like 20%.
I would say that's average.
It's like five to seven men women go through till they get a boyfriend.
That's an average amongst, I know men don't want to hear that.
Sorry, fellas, but I mean, that's normal.
So, that's if you go into it expecting that, you don't want to like men hate feeling like obligated to date you just because they smashed.
They don't like that kind of pressure.
They don't like it.
I mean, only men with no choice.
They want to be able to like pick on their own time.
I know.
They're like, gross, gross.
Well, do you want me to be, do you want me to talk about the modern dating mark?
Look at because women are always going to go out of their league and they're young, right?
I'm not going to tell a woman not to go out of her league because, like, every woman's going to do it.
So, like, it's just water is wet, the sky is blue.
I mean, that's like me saying, like, oh, don't go for, like, I remember we did a stream with Doug MPA and this girl called in and she's like, go for it.
He's like, go for the engineers.
I'm like, she's not going to do that.
She wants to know how to get the athletes.
Like, that's what she wants.
And women are going to do, like, that's what they're going to do.
And if you were a woman, you'd probably do it too.
So I'm not going to like, you know.
But if you don't have any experience with men, it's better to like, obviously, you don't want like, you want to get relationship experience.
So some guys might not like date you, but at least you get the relation, like the experience of like, you know, how to be in a relationship.
So, no, women aren't raised to be wives.
So that means you probably have to learn.
Your brother's a software engineer.
Well, is he hot?
Like, I mean, that's the question.
Does he have choice sexually?
that that's the question if he doesn't like men can't really correct you until they have choice sexually um they just won't it's like they operate in sexual scarcity they just won't I'm 22 and never had a girlfriend of my cooked.
No, it doesn't mean that.
It just means at like when you start looking for a wife, you want to get experience, you know.
Like you just, you don't want it to be like the first girl you slept with because you're probably going to make a bad decision.
Anyways, I'm talking too long.
It's almost three hours in.
Okay, that's enough.
That's enough.
He's currently dating from Mexico.
Well, he probably doesn't have a lot of choice then.
And I'm just being honest because, like, it just, unless he's can get a rotation in his city, he probably has problems.
I don't blame them for going overseas, but I'm just being honest.
When he has that skill set, then like you can say he knows what he's doing.
But if he can't, then so.
All right, guys.
And who knows?
The rotation could be ugly, right?
It could be old.
It could be whatever, but he should know how to do it.
If he can't do it, then, well, he's just not winning in the dating market.