Pearl Daily’s call-in show dissects the "Modern Women Can’t Handle Rejection" phenomenon, citing 74% of divorces initiated by women and cases like Travis Rudolph—acquitted after shooting at an ex’s family over harassment—while exposing men’s financial and emotional toll, including $200K legal fees. Callers share extreme post-breakup behavior: a woman clinging violently, another stalking during graveyard shifts, and one smashing property after rejection, yet many men avoid police or confrontation due to fear of backlash. Sean, "Mr. Breakup," insists on documenting evidence and disengaging, while Marcos reveals his ex’s cousin demanded invasive visits despite clear boundaries, backing down only after legal threats. The episode argues that societal norms now shield women from consequences while pressuring men into compliance, even when safety is at risk, exposing a double standard in rejection dynamics. [Automatically generated summary]
Most answered very quickly, no, because men are useless.
I mean, this headline from The Hill, it caught my eye.
Most young men are single.
Most young women are not.
Young men have fallen faster than any demographic in America over the last 40 years.
It's a different world now.
Like, we don't need men the way that they used to.
The future is female.
Men and women are drifting further apart, and society is crumbling because of it.
A fascinating debate has broken out about the value of marriage.
You've kind of got the TradCon versus Red Pill thing.
This men's rights crowd that sometimes just goes too far the other way.
Oh, you need to stop acting like grown boys and infants and actually become men.
Marriage is a bond and it's a sacred bond.
It's a machine designed to extract resources from you.
Now many of the red-pilled have taken the position that it's bad for men to get married.
Hannah Pearl Davis or just pearly things.
One of the most controversial faces in all of the internet.
She goes on to say that marriage is a terrible deal for men.
Because if me and you were in a business contract, you would never sign a contract where I am paid to leave.
Gee, what could go wrong there?
74% or something of divorces are initiated by women.
Men have everything to lose, primarily their own children.
Men get killed by the courts and by divorce laws.
I had no idea that courts of family law were courts of equity, not courts of law.
Because in family court, you don't need evidence to accuse someone of abuse.
You need no evidence.
When you guys say get married young, a lot of these men don't know what they're signing up for, and you're not going to be there when their entire life falls apart.
I interviewed them on the other side.
I didn't meet my son until he was 15 months old.
How much did you spend trying to get him back?
The legal fees alone was about $200,000.
We absolutely reinforce bad behavior from women.
Wives are taught to leave their husbands, and then daughters grow up without their fathers.
Family is the foundation of society.
Every problem in society comes from single mother homes.
A lot of women will just chase this negative rapid hole of happiness, endless happiness.
Feminism's biggest failures is it lies to women.
We tell women to date as many guys as possible.
We tell them to put off family into marriage.
You are allowed to leave your perfect husband.
You are allowed to end a relationship with a really great boyfriend.
Oh, freeze your eggs, have an abortion.
What?
You're evil.
I don't think there's anything else in life that we actually ever go into preparing to fail.
Like if you have the mentality of this is going to go wrong and be pessimistic, naturally the outcome is going to be that it's going to fail anyway.
It's self-sabotage.
That's the thing.
Like women are so willing to leave marriages because they're not happy.
This is not about happiness.
The most important thing is the children.
And the problem is we have a modern society where it's me, me, me.
My feelings leave when I feel like it instead of doing what's best for the kids.
This myth that we live in an age of male privilege.
Where's my male privilege?
They think, well, men have all the rights.
They have all the power.
Privilege, patriarchal system that we have.
Why doesn't our society care about men's rights?
I have no friends, no wife, and no social life.
Men are alone in this situation.
Men are homeless.
Men are thinking about eating guns.
I've seen so many men on the brink of suicide and they didn't do anything wrong.
How are you equal if the men are the ones that have to fight and die to defend the country?
The men are the ones that build and maintain all the infrastructure.
Women are helplessly dependent upon men.
The so-called deaths of despair from suicide, overdose, or alcohol, three times higher among men than among women.
Culture is telling men, you are no good.
You gotta get your act together.
I think men have failed themselves.
What kind of a man are you?
What kind of a woman are you going to attract?
If men are in trouble, so are women.
Everybody knows this is a huge problem, but nobody wants to admit it.
Every single woman at the table said they wanted a man.
500K, 500, 300K, 300K, 200K.
Am I crazy?
Everything is really set up against you to fail as a man.
If men make less than women, women don't want to marry them.
So, you know who wants more economically and emotionally viable men?
Women.
I don't want to be an independent woman anymore.
I don't want to be a strong, independent woman.
I'm overage.
When is it going to be my turn?
Where are we meeting the men that don't stop?
I can't keep having these same conversations.
The only simp here is you, Pearl.
You sent for women.
No, I think you sent for women.
She's a provocateur.
She says stupid stuff, but Pearl is right about this.
It's already happening.
It's just not out in the open yet.
Now it's just hookup culture is going to be our fairy tale ending because men don't want a wife and women can't find a husband.
The future, if everybody follows your path, is there is no future.
We go into population decline and our economy goes into decline.
Civilization will crumble.
The American story does not end well.
This is an existential crisis failing young men.
What is going on, everybody?
Welcome to another episode of Pearl Daily.
If you didn't already know, that is our documentary trailer.
We are attempting to make a divorce documentary with these stories that I interviewed in the past two years of men that were victims of divorce.
Great.
The documentary is called What's In It for Men, asking the age-old question: why should men get married?
What do they get out of it?
Now, we have a special thanks to the donations from last show.
We're looking to raise $100,000, and we're actually almost to $35K.
You guys are killing it lately.
Okay, so the donations, we got Anonymous, $20.
Philip, I couldn't even believe this when I saw it this morning.
$1,254 donated yesterday.
Woo!
$50 from Anonymous, Jeff, $25.
The reason, and I was telling somebody interested in donating, we want $100K.
We want to hire someone full-time to work on this, that their only job is dedicated to doing this documentary.
And we also would like to hire a director for it.
I have someone you guys all know well in mind, but that's a conversation for a different day.
It's going to cost us about $100K in a year.
We've had the problem before where we start and then I ran out of money and I don't want to be in that position again.
I'd rather just have the money and then know where I can spend it.
So if you guys want, the link is in the description.
I do apologize for the delay, but I've gone through like four Instagrams, eight TikToks, and I've been demonetized on YouTube and now I'm remonetized, but it was just a whole process.
So anyways, today's show was actually inspired by a show I had a few weeks ago talking about breakups.
And I had some people call in and dump me.
And I really, it inspired me to think about breakups I've gone through and breakups of my friends, family.
You know, we just, I think that both men and women, we tend to go through mostly women, but even men too.
The first like breakup or two, we just tend to crash out.
Like, you know how it is.
So, anyways, welcome to another episode of Pearl Daily.
Women don't know how to accept rejection.
We tend to have a problem.
We tend to have no problem breaking up with men, but we do crash out when we're being broken up with.
We feel entitled to harming men in any way we see fit during a breakup.
I mean, we even, come on, from the early 2000s, I hate that I love this song.
I really hate that I love it.
Come on, I dug my key into the side of his pretty little cooped up four-wheel drive.
You know how it goes.
There are so many like songs in the early 2000s.
Catchy ones at two.
That's the worst part.
About women crashing out in a breakup.
Carrie Underwood saying, it's okay to key his car.
It's okay to.
It's okay to slash his tires for cheating.
You know, we just can't accept that L.
And you could see videos of women breaking men's things, making false accusations, and in general, trying to ruin a man's life after a breakup.
Society teaches girls that this is okay from when we're young.
TV shows, movies, and social media have shown women doing all types of horrible things to men during breakups, and no one bats an eye.
But what do men do in response?
Most of the time, nothing.
In my world, I would hope to see men respond in the way women would know not to do this type of stuff, but usually men just take the L.
And I don't even blame them because sometimes doing something in response will cause an even bigger crash out.
And it's just on today's show, we're going to have a special guest, Sean, who dumped me a few shows ago, and it was awesome.
But he's going to be here to look at some crazy exes and teach us how to break up with a girl so they don't crash out and try to ruin your life.
Now, guys, just so you know, this is, I'm going to read an article before we bring them up, but this is going to be on the website.
So you have to go to pearlinvite.com and apply.
Shiv's actually, if you want to sign up now, Shiv's available to take calls and you can sign up, but you do have to apply because there's a little bit of a screening process to get on the website.
Or the Audacity Network, if you click the sign up, it'll also take you on the website.
So we're going to start with being a crazy ex-girlfriend, a woman's learning story.
So we're going to go.
All right.
A personal story.
Being the crazy ex-girlfriend after a breakup.
I absolutely hate when guys use the phrase crazy ex-girlfriend to describe a former love interest.
It's misogynistic.
And if you see it on potential suitors dating at profiles, you should run the other way, ASAP.
But I do think after a breakup, people can behave in uncharacteristic ways.
Ways that could be described as obsessive, erratic, or possibly crazy.
And if I'm being honest with myself, I've behaved like that before.
So in a personal story, I'm sharing a little bit more about my experience being a crazy ex-girlfriend.
Brad and I met on Tinder shortly after my divorce.
Brad and I met on Tinder shortly after my divorce.
I think it's gone now.
Brad and I met on Tinder shortly after my divorce.
He was about five years older than me, but had never been in a serious or long-term relationship.
I, on the other hand, had only been in serious relationships.
Now, I'd see it as a major red flag if someone hasn't ever committed in their 30s.
But at this time, I overlooked it.
And despite this, we ended up dating quite seriously for nearly two years.
We went on multiple vacations together, talked about getting married, and planned on moving into each other in together.
In fact, we were actually starting to look at houses, but then Brad dropped a bombshell.
He wanted to end things.
The breakup.
Two weeks earlier, we'd been on vacation on our trip.
Brad had even talked about us getting married.
The night before, we were out with his family and had a great time.
He stayed over at my place, and the next morning, we parted as normal.
Later that day, I was running out.
I was out running errands, and on the way to the supermarket, I called him to see if he wanted to come with me.
He didn't answer, but it wasn't too unusual.
He had a bad habit of not keeping his phone nearby.
Since I was driving right past his place, I decided to stop and see if he needed to get groceries too.
As a side note, I had the key he'd previously told me that due to his phone habit.
Well, he agreed that the two of us went to get groceries.
Afterwards, I stopped.
I dropped him at his home and we said our goodbyes.
That night, he called and said he wanted to break up.
But as you can imagine, this came as a complete and utter shock to me.
There was no warning signs.
I didn't know where the hell this was coming from.
I would love to finish this personal story by saying that I calmly told him to go F himself before hanging up.
That I took this out of the blue breakup for what it was, a sign of his ineptitude rather than mine and never spoke to him again.
Or even that I expressed how blindsided I felt with the same kind of eloquent grace as Gabby from this season of The Bachelor.
Unfortunately, none of that happened.
Instead, I reacted in ways that I find embarrassing.
That night, I cried and committed the cardinal sin of all dumpies.
I begged him to change his mind.
I went over his house under the guise of retrieving my belongings, mind you, to further try and convince him.
The more tears as I implored him not to leave.
I pressed him for why he would do such a thing.
And when he told me he needed space to figure out what he wanted, I went so far to suggest we just take a break in a pitiful attempt to negotiate.
Before I left, we agreed to stay in contact, something I now recognize as a huge mistake.
Now, I do believe that you could stay in touch or even friends with an ex.
Thank you for the 100 sec.
I appreciate it, Anton.
Very nice of you.
But as soon, but it's usually a recipe for a disaster.
Post-breakup obsession.
I continued to call him and text him.
When he failed to answer or respond at all, my anxiety would spike to the point of near panic attack levels.
And did I find a way to deal with my anxiety in a healthy, productive way?
No, of course not.
I ended up driving over to his house to talk to him in person.
Quick tip for anyone showing up there.
Showing up unannounced at an ex-house, ex's house is always a terrible idea.
No good can come from forcing someone to talk to you when they don't want to.
And I'm even more ashamed to say that this happened even more than once.
Yes, the first time I did it, he was angry.
The second time, he was understandably angrier, but I didn't learn.
I was stuck in my own post-breakup obsession.
I couldn't think of any other ways to resolve my anxiety.
They say that the definition of craziness is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results.
And that way, even though I hate the term crazy ex-girlfriend, I can recognize that I was one.
I was repeating the behavior that clearly didn't do me any good.
Yet each time I thought, this time will be different.
This time I'll be able to convince him how much I care.
Obviously, this couldn't go on forever.
He blocked my number.
And while I do understand, I disagree with the way he went about it.
It came after several weeks of us being in contact.
During this time, he frequently told me he thought he'd get back together at some, we'd get back together at some point.
He also asked to borrow money, which I gave him.
Then he agreed to go somewhere with me, but the night before, he texted me to cancel.
His message went something like this.
I'm not going to come over this weekend or anytime after that.
I've decided it's not good to continue to be in each other's lives.
Please don't text or call me at all, Brad.
Considering that I just lent him money prior to this, he said that he thought there was a good chance of reconciliation.
That message sent me on fire.
Of course, I ignored his request for me to crash out or for me not to reach out.
And of course, he ignored my crash out at the time.
I went to his house the next day, but at this time I wasn't there to try and change his mind.
This time I was fueled by pure anger.
I demanded my money back and told him that what he did to me was BS.
What's more, I took back a few of the gifts I had given him.
So that's how it ended with Brad.
We've spoken a few times since then, but he never gave me any actual closure.
Last contact was when he sent me a happy birthday text.
I never replied, and I certainly didn't reciprocate on his birthday.
The life lesson here is: breakups tend to bring out the worst in us.
So it's an understandable to act irrationally when you're hurt and angry.
But even though I understand why I acted the way I did, I'm still ashamed of it.
Life lesson here is before you act, think about how you'll feel when retelling the story.
Have you ever experienced a crazy ex-girlfriend before?
Okay, so next we're going to bring up Doug MPA as well as Sean.
Welcome to the show, guys.
Hey, how's it going?
Good.
How are you?
Awesome.
Hey, what's going on?
What's going on?
How are you doing?
Good.
How are you?
Thanks for coming.
Thank you.
No problem.
No problem.
You know, I had to come through.
If this guy had your breakup formula, he wouldn't have gone through it.
Maybe, maybe, maybe so.
Wait, they still crash out even with it.
Maybe so.
We have to see.
But shout out to that person who actually donated the 1K.
Shout out to him.
Yeah.
Thank you.
We're going to go back.
Phillip.
Appreciate it, Philip.
So I'm going to read the article on the Travis Rudolph murder trial.
So I'm going to set that up real fast.
So, guys, Travis Rudolph was a cornerback for the Miami Dolphins, and he ended up having a injury.
So he had to take a couple of years off to try to recover from the injury, physical therapy, and stuff.
Well, he, I think he was late 20s, early 30s, and he was dating this.
He's a black dude, and he was dating this B-dub.
And they were dating for a year or two, and he wouldn't claim her as his girlfriend.
He was just seeing her, right?
And so he moved in with his brother in Miami because his brother was well-to-do too, but he moved in because he wasn't making income as an NFL player.
Well, he said that he didn't want to be with her anymore and she starts breaking stuff in the house.
What do they always do?
What's the first thing they go for when they get upset, guys, at the PS5?
So she broke the PS5, started breaking stuff in the guy's house.
The brother said, Look, you need to get her out of here.
So he kicks her out the front door.
He texts she gets in her car and she texts her brother and says, Oh, he hit me.
He put his hands on me.
You need to go mess this guy up, right?
So her brother and three of his friends go over there with weapons.
And Travis Rudolph has his AR-15 and he lights these bad boys up.
And so one of them is deleted.
Another one was severely injured.
And the other two drove off with the two.
So one of them died in the car.
The other one made to the hospital.
And he got charged with attempted murder.
Well, he got acquitted of the charges.
So go ahead.
Okay.
Defense attorney paints Dominique Jones as a scorned lover who recruited brothers' friends to kill former FSU football star.
The ex-girlfriend of Travis Rudolph was a cross was cross-examined for hours the second day of testimony in the Florida State football states, Florida State Football Stars murder trial.
Dominique Jones, who had testified the day before, that she had testified the day before that she never intended for her brother and his friends to hurt Rudolph when she texted her brother to go shoot up his S. What is that supposed to be?
It just says his shit.
Oh, okay.
After learning the football player's apparent infidelity, was back on the witness stand Thursday.
Defense attorney Heidi Perlett attempted to portray Jones as an out-of-work real estate agent who was married to another man.
Jealous.
Yeah, that's another thing.
So she crashed out over him being unfaithful or whatever when he never claimed his girlfriend and she was married to another man the whole time.
All right, go ahead of Rudolph's professional football career and angry with Rudolph at the time of the April 2021 fatal shooting in Lake Park.
Rudolph is charged with one count of first-degree murder and three counts of attempted first-degree murder in connection with the shooting that killed Sebastian John Jackson.
Jones testified Thursday that Rudolph became confrontational and wouldn't let her leave after she read his text messages with another woman.
She also admitted to smashing his PlayStation and calling him a broke bitch after the confrontation spilled out to the front yard of Rudolph's home.
It's not hot enough for this bullshit.
Oh my god.
I can't believe he was messing with her.
Oh my god.
Isn't that crazy how low these guys will go?
Isn't the moral of the story that you sent your brothers and your friends to go kill Travis? Perlette asked Jones.
No, the moral of the story is him putting his hands up.
That's always what women say.
It's never he beat the shit.
It's always he put his hands on me.
That is really the basis of everything.
And I didn't send my brothers to kill him.
No, you just sent a text to go shoot up his shit, right?
Perlette said, I didn't say shoot him, Jones answered.
When asked to explain what she meant by her text messages, Jones said it was nothing violent towards a person.
I was upset, my adrenaline was running, and I said something I didn't mean, Jones said.
She went on to say that she didn't necessarily mean for anything bad to happen to Travis, his family, his house, or anything.
Perlette made a point to mention that Jones went back inside his home to get a tequila bottle, which Perlette claimed Jones used to hit Rudolph in his head.
Another item she picked up during the scuffle was a brick that she used to smash his car window, Jones testified.
I don't think I slapped him, but I did like throw a punch at him.
She testified.
Jones also confessed to deleting the shoot up his shit text message along with another text message.
Women the audacity.
She's going to lie.
Okay.
That her brother sent a group text referring to Rudolph as a dead man walking before turning his phone over to the deputies.
That's why betas are so dangerous because they enforce women's crazy demands.
Rudolph has been out of jail and house arrest since last year after he unsuccessfully sought a stand-your ground defense.
Jean Jacques Quest fled after the shooting, was later found fatally wounded in the front passenger seat of a car in West Palm Beach.
The driver and backseat passenger were also in the car, but they were uninjured.
Another victim was found with gunshot wounds in Lake Park.
A star wide receiver at Cardinal Newman High School, Rudolph went on to play at Florida State.
He hauled in 153 catches, 2,311 yards, and 18 touchdowns in three seasons with the Seminoles from 2014 to 16.
The West Palm Beach native left school early to declare for the NFL draft, and although he wasn't drafted, he signed with the New York Giants in 2017 and spent two seasons with the team.
Rudolph was signed to the Miami Dolphins practice squad in 2018, but tore in ACL on his first day of workouts and never played in the NFL again.
He signed with the Canadian Football League Winnipeg Blue Bombers in 2020, but the team released him after his arrest.
Testimony was expected to continue on Friday.
Wow.
So she called her brother and they went over there and one guy lost his life.
The sad part about it is they drove around with that guy bleeding out for an hour before they took him to the hospital.
What do we do, man?
What do we do?
What do we do?
Yeah.
Waited an hour to take him to the hospital.
Should I read the next one?
Yeah, because that tells what happens.
The ex-NFL Florida State player Travis Rudolph found not guilty of murder and attempted murder charges.
Travis Rudolph, a former wide receiver for Florida State who played in the NFL, was found not guilty of murder and other charges by a Palm Beach County jury on Wednesday court records show.
Rudolph has faced one count of first-degree premeditated murder and three counts of attempted first-degree murder in connection with a 2021 shooting.
Rudolph argued that the shooting was in self-defense.
The jury found Rudolph not guilty on all counts and he was released from house arrest Wednesday, according to court records.
I'm definitely going to celebrate with my family trying to get back to play football.
Rudolph spent two seasons in the NFL as a player for the New York Giants and the Miami Dolphins.
In 2017, he played seven games for the Giants, catching eight passes for 101 yards.
Mark Scheiner, Rudolph's attorney, told CNN the jury reached a true and just verdict.
Travis has been falsely accused from day one and the truth came out.
Travis is a special human being and we wish him all the success in the world as he starts with his new found freedom.
Mark Freeman, a spokesman for the Palm County, Palm Beach County State Attorney Dave Ehrenberg, said prosecutors respect the jury's decision.
Although we may disagree with the jury's verdict, it is their job to determine from the facts whether a defendant is guilty or not, Freeman said.
Our thoughts are with the victims and their families in the case.
Palm Beach County Sheriff's deputies responded to a double shooting in Lake Park, Florida soon after midnight in April of 2021.
The sheriff's office said in a statement, one man at the scene had been taken to a local hospital for treatment.
Another man was found dead not far away in the city of West Palm Beach, the sheriff's office said.
Investigators identified Rudolph as the sub suspect as he was arrested in the death of Sebastian Jean Jack Keese, according to WPBF.
Highly recruited out of high school, Rudolph attended FSU, where he spent three seasons as a member of the Seminoles from 2014 to 2016.
He received all ACC second team honors in his sophomore and junior seasons.
Yeah, so it's good he at least was found not guilty, right?
Good thing they had the tax three years.
Yeah, I know.
Like imagine he probably had the stress of that weighing him down.
Yeah, and all he said, cool remember, he never claimed the woman.
He was messing around with her.
And then he said, look, I don't want to be with you anymore.
And he had to kick her out of the house.
And then she called her brothers, put a battery in her brother's back.
And then one guy ended up shot.
The other guy ended up not here anymore, all because of the words of some woman.
Sean, what are your thoughts on it?
Do you think this, do you think when it's a woman that crazy, it's something that can be avoided?
Or do you think it was just he just messed with the wrong woman?
Yeah, he didn't mess with the wrong woman.
I think crazy knows no limits.
But I think you made a great point, which I actually highlighted: is betas enforce women's demands.
And so you got to realize that if a crazy is that crazy, it's hard to avoid it because there's going to be betas that enforce her demands.
You know what I was thinking, too?
Even if a woman has no power at all, it's like, because I was thinking about how guys say they don't want a woman with social media presence, and I totally understand why.
But the problem was like Crowder, even a woman that has no presence, like she just has to run her mouth on social media about a well-known guy.
And then now she does.
You know, like what happened in the Crowder case?
Yeah, exactly.
All she has to do is be connected directly or indirectly.
Who was the lady who was talking about Trump?
I mean, like, who is she?
But at the end of the day, it didn't matter.
Didn't matter.
Again, they're forcement.
The sad part about this, how do you navigate a conversation?
So let's say you know your sister or a girl that you're friends with is kind of crazy, right?
And she calls you and says, Sean, you have to come and go beat this guy up.
Because you have to ask questions.
Like, I wouldn't, I'm not the kind of person that put a battery put in my back.
But then if you, it's sad because if you don't go rush to her rescue, people talk trash.
They'll be like, oh, you didn't believe her and you didn't blah, So you're danged if you do and you're dangled if you don't.
Yeah, that's facts.
But if it was my sister, I know she was probably in the wrong.
So I would probably definitely go out.
Let's try it.
Let's try it.
Hold on.
Okay.
Sean, Sean.
He put his hands on me.
He put his hands on me.
Oh, really?
Yeah.
Explain more, please.
Well, we were fighting and he just, he just put his hands on me.
He just, he hit me.
How do you feel about that?
Well, I'm so pissed off.
Can you go?
Can you go get him?
I'm overseas now, so I'm not currently available, but I can help you walk through your pain.
Okay, okay, so you can't be overseas.
Let's say that you're in the same city as her.
Okay.
Yeah.
I'm in the hospital.
I'm not available neither.
No, but seriously.
No, seriously.
Go ahead.
Well, I'm going to be in the hospital too.
I mean, he's going to, he's going to kill me.
Well, you can come over and you can stay at my place and we can talk about it and we can have a conversation and figure this thing out together.
Okay, but then I come over to your place and then it's the same conversation.
Yeah, continue.
Continue to go with the conversation.
Hey, how are you doing?
I know on the phone you were speaking about something that happened between you and your boyfriend and your partner.
Please explain.
Yeah, he put his hands on me.
He shoved me down the stairs and he just threw me on the ground and he hit me.
And what are you going to do next?
Were you staying at his house or I was over at his house?
Okay.
All right.
Do you want me to go with you down to the police station?
Yeah.
And then can we, yeah, can we, can we go to the police?
Okay.
And then you're going to go.
Put in the car, go to the police station.
She's not going to go.
Number one.
But number two, even again, remember, you got to remember in these things, people are going to call you to do things that you, you know, they want you to do.
If she wanted to go to the police, she would have gone to the police, right?
She don't need me, right?
Oh, I see.
Okay.
Yeah, that's true.
You get what I'm saying?
So I'm asking her to do things that she doesn't want to because she would have done it already, right?
She would have called the police.
You don't have to go to the police.
The police will actually come, right?
Very quickly.
There you go.
So she would have been like, oh, more than likely, she's probably going to be like, oh, well, no, I can't come right now.
Or, oh, well, no, I don't want to take it there yet.
And so, again, I would just say things.
I don't directly have to say, no, I'm not going to support you.
Okay, so eventually it comes down.
What would you say, Sean, if you said, I want to go to the police station, but before we go there, I want to go by his house so you can go so you can go tell him off for me.
I want you to go talk to him for me.
No, I can't do that because if I do something like that and get myself in a particular situation, then I'm in jail.
So, what if she says, We're supposed to be friends?
You're supposed to be with my brother.
Are you saying that you don't care about me because you don't want to defend me?
No, I care about you.
That's why I'm here talking to you.
This is why we're doing it.
How am I going to help you if I'm in jail or incarcerated or six feet under?
Sean's the goat, man.
This is great stuff.
We have to walk ourselves through this.
And Anton, thank you for the super chat.
Okay, so next.
Okay, you guys are roasting my fake crying.
All right.
I don't.
All right.
All right.
I get it.
I get it.
So next, we're going to watch some videos.
And I want you to say what you would do in this situation.
And by the way, guys, after you can ask Sean, if you guys have situations of your own with crazy women, you can ask him directly about what his advice would be.
We're going to do a call-in show.
So call in with this ladies can call in to you with your craziest breakup story.
But guys, we want to hear what's the craziest thing a woman's done after you've broken up with her or divorced her.
And then also, how did you respond?
Because a lot of guys just take the L. Why do you think, how'd you respond?
And then how do you think men should respond?
Okay.
How does that make you feel?
Okay, I want to watch this.
Here are you want to.
Okay, I'm just going to be real junky if one of my people beat your ass.
I'm fine with that.
I'm fine with that.
You're going to have everybody beat his ass.
I'm going to call the police.
What do you want me to do?
No, that's what you always wanted to do.
That's why I don't need to be with you.
That's what you want me to do.
Okay.
No, I don't want to do that.
You told me to call my dad.
You told me to call all these people.
I say, go ahead and get your money so I can go.
That's what you told me.
I said, all you got to do is get your money so I go.
Okay, whatever.
You want me to do what you told me to do?
All right, whatever.
A few moments later, all I'm trying to do is go out the door.
This ain't gonna watch.
I'm trying to look out the door.
Get away from the situation.
What the fuck better?
Because she switched quick as hell.
I can't seem to go.
So when the police get here, you will see because I'm gonna have to remove her from me physically.
Trying to be polite and just walk out and have a great day, but she won't get off me.
Can you please get off me?
I'm asking her twice.
Can you please get off of me?
Okay, I'm asking you to sit down.
Can you please get off of me?
Gary, please don't put your hands on.
I'm at bed.
Your name is Jay.
Please.
Please.
I'm trying to go.
I'm trying to go.
Look at me.
Look at me.
I don't want to be with you.
I'm going to give you whatever.
I don't want to.
I want to be away from you.
I don't want freedom from you.
What'd you think?
That was pretty good.
Sean, what'd you think about his reaction?
Did he do good?
Yeah, I would say one of the best parts he did was do the camera, but he was going back and forth with that girl.
That was definitely not the good part.
Because obviously it broke and then it came back in.
So steady recording the whole time.
Unless we got the clip, right?
But he did record.
So that's a good part.
But don't fight her back.
That's the bad part.
Yeah, but he has the right to be able to physically like push her away from him if she has her arms around him, right?
I don't know.
Not according to the beta enforcement cop that's going to show up afterwards.
We're going to have to ask him about that.
Yeah, because it doesn't matter what we think.
It matters like what he's putting himself at risk for.
Yeah, he should have maintained distance.
That's what he should have did.
He should have never, you know.
He should have kept the distance, kept a good jab.
So your only advice would be to, like, the only thing you would have changed about that is like not to push her off for anything.
Is that what you're saying, Sean?
Yeah, yeah, not to push her off and definitely call the cops.
Because if you, if you got the video and you call them, that's the best thing, not breaks of it.
That's when people get in trouble, right?
When you're trying to show the cop breaks, like, look, this is her yelling.
And I said, I want to go.
And then the next thing they see is she's holding you.
And then you're kind of pushing her off.
Like, I'm about to push her off.
Like, just, again, it depends on the officer, how he wants to see it.
You get me?
And then after that, if you're lucky to make it to the court.
So, you always just want to record and then get yourself out of this situation and call police.
And then you'll be good.
Yeah.
Yeah.
And he needs to be the one to call the police.
Exactly.
Not her.
Don't let her do it.
She can launch her story.
Yep.
All right.
Let's see.
We got next.
His ex found out where he worked.
His dead ass just got off work, bro.
It's five in the morning.
I work graveyard.
And my ex is literally here, bro.
Look, there's a security right here.
And that's her car leaving right now, bro.
Look at that.
That's her license plate right here.
This is her, bro.
I just got a gun fucking weirdo Psycho.
Pulling up to my job and shit.
What did you think about that, Sean?
Well, that was pretty short, but one thing I think he did was just explain it a little bit good, just like he did.
Don't curse, guys.
Don't call them effing psychos.
Don't do that.
Just explain it.
Because then again, when you're showing this evidence, right?
To the court, to the officer, they're going to hear you calling her effing psycho and all this other stuff.
And again, remember who you're talking to.
Everybody's bait is around you.
So it'll be like, hey, this is my ex.
She pulled up to my site.
I'm recording it.
I'm scared.
I don't know what to do.
I just wanted to record it and make sure that I have my evidence.
That narration is better than the narration.
Oh, she's an effing psycho.
Look at her.
She's effing this.
That's not good for you.
Yeah, because even if you're right, even if you're right, it doesn't matter because you don't, it matters if the cop thinks you're right.
Yeah, and young guys really have to watch out because young women, I mean, women in their late 20s, early 30s crash out, but no one crashes out like the 18, 19, 20, 21-year-olds.
They have no concept of long-term consequence.
I mean, most women don't anyway, but especially when they're 19, 20, 21, 22, these women will do something drastic that'll affect the rest of their lives, man.
So you really got to be careful.
Young guys, if you're between the ages of 19 and 25, you really got to watch out with these breakups, guys.
All right, let's see the next one.
Yeah.
Sorry, go ahead.
Yeah, yeah, no.
What I was going to just add is, remember, guys, it's easy.
You got to, when somebody's looking into your story about what's going on between a dispute and you're the one looking calm and puts you in a superior position, if you're not looking calm, then that already puts them on the narrative like, oh, she's crying.
She's erratic, but this guy's angry.
And so you get what I'm saying?
So from the outside looking in, the beta officers are going to be like, okay, she's obviously the victim and he's the aggressor and you're aggressive or angry.
Yeah, you want to just be level-headed.
He seems like an angry guy, so he must have done something to make her this way.
Yeah, exactly.
All right, let's see the next one.
I hid in my ex-boyfriend's closet for a week.
Now, I know what y'all thinking.
What the fuck is this bitch right now?
First, I want to preface, I was literally 17 and psycho and mentally ill.
So literally, I have been dating this guy for almost a year and I was like so in love with him, like more in love with anybody than I've ever been in my life.
And he broke up with me and I was like, well, what the hell?
Like, please no.
Like, I was like, this was detrimental.
This was the worst thing that could ever happen in my entire life.
Like, it literally felt like my world was ending and I was going to die.
So, of course, stupid 17-year-old me would still sneak over to his house and we would, you know, you know, duh, because I thought, well, if I keep doing that, maybe he'll love me and not want to break up.
Anyway, so eventually, like, I was over there one time and I don't even know, but I ended up staying there for a week straight.
Like, and I would hide in his closet, like, during the day when he wasn't home and his parents were home.
And, like, literally, I would just hide and I would just stay in there, like, literally.
And I would shower at night, like, when his parents went to bed and everything.
And it was, this was like a week, a week long.
And mind you, I did not have my driver's license because I did not get my license until I was 18.
So, like, I had somebody drive me there.
And then, like, I just stayed.
It was low-key kind of nice, but then at the same time, it was like, like, I don't know.
I don't know what I was thinking, bro.
What was I thinking?
Now, this was like eight, nine years ago.
So it was a long time ago, but I still think about it sometimes because it's literally crazy.
But anyway, one day he went to school and I went out to the living room and his dad was there and he caught me.
So that was embarrassing.
And his mom ended up coming home from work to take me home and it was not good.
And my ex-boyfriend was mad because he got caught and in trouble and then he didn't want to talk to me ever again.
So no, we did not get back together.
Seven years later, we did.
And he is who I'm dating now.
And we've been together for two years now.
So if y'all think that men don't like crazy, you might just overlook it.
So, I mean, I was down bad, but I ended up back with him.
So who's really winning?
Oh, wow.
Eric, these guys who call in and don't show their faces are cowards.
Beta and alpha cosplay costumes.
Eric, some people got jobs.
You know what I mean?
What do you guys think of the girl?
Why do you think the guy got back with her?
She's probably great in the sack.
She looks like the type.
What do you think, Sean?
Well, not a coward.
But what I would say is he probably got backward because, again, people don't realize that, like you said, Britt many times before, a lot of guys don't get a lot of access to women.
So supply and demand.
She was somebody familiar from his past.
He probably overlooked the red flags with time.
And he said, okay, I want to be with her.
And that's what he allows.
So, at the end of the day, the relationship worked out.
I don't even think she's got to give all that good poom-poom.
We know guys don't have many friends, right?
They don't have a big network of male friends, so they need intimacy.
And she probably maybe is good in the sack, I don't know.
But at the end of the day, he said, Okay, I'll take her back, and then he took her back.
What would you do?
What would you tell guys to do in that situation if they found their girlfriend hiding their ex-girlfriend hiding in their closet?
Obviously, file a police report.
That's number one, right?
That's number one.
I don't even understand.
Like, and then you got to watch this one.
The whole family knew it happened, and they just drove her home and then he got in trouble.
Yeah, if that was a guy, he'd be shot, bruv, right?
Yeah, like this girl was breaking an entry, hiding in someone's houses.
The mom drove her home, like, okay, darling.
Hope you get home safe.
And then, after that, right?
So, this is what I'm saying: that ecosystem of betas that just allow women to do as they please.
So, if that happens to you guys, definitely follow a police report, period.
Even if your parents thought it was okay, it's irrelevant.
Protect yourself at all times.
Yep, I agree.
Let's see this next girl.
See this next girl.
He would have been shot, Pearl.
Bam!
If it was a male, hiding in someone's clothes.
He would have been shot.
All right, let's see.
It's me.
In my birthday day, you are going to buy me the handbag of Chanel.
Sorry.
Do you remember when you promised me at my birthday you are going to give me the Chanel bag?
Okay, but that's when we were together, love.
Like, you broke up with me.
Yeah, but a promise is a promise.
Okay, so what do you want?
I came here to get my handbag.
Your handbag?
We broke up six months ago.
It's what's even crazier is women will take back gifts that men they get men in a relationship, but like they what is this girl's got to be mentally ill doesn't matter.
I won't break up six months ago.
You told me my birthday you are going to give me the handbag.
Yeah, when we were together, we're not together anymore.
So it doesn't matter.
Like when we're not together anymore.
So why?
Yeah, like I don't understand why you're here.
If we are together or not together, that doesn't matter.
But you actually, you make a promise.
And I always keep my word when I'm saying something.
And you should do too.
You told me you are going to give me my birthday, the handbag.
Yes, I said that I'll get you a handbag when we were like boyfriend and girlfriend.
We're not together anymore.
We're not in anything anymore.
But now you've come to me in my house saying to me, hey, where's my bag?
Of course.
What do you mean, of course?
Sorry.
Love.
Love.
It's your birthday.
Go spend it with your family.
Go spend it with your friends.
I don't care.
I will do that later on.
But now I come to collect my gifts because you promised me a gift for my birthday.
I come to take my gift.
So I can broken up.
We're breaking up.
It's like me saying to you.
Hold it in there.
Holding him in it.
Yeah.
Yeah, sometimes.
Yeah.
Holding him in a hair.
Yeah, love.
Yeah.
It's like me saying to you, you promised me commitment in our relationship, but then you said, oh, no, no, no, I want to break up from the relationship.
No, it doesn't work like that.
Cool.
You broke off the relationship with me.
That's fine.
I moved on.
But now you can't come to my house saying, no, where's my bag?
Life doesn't work like that.
If I say something, even if we break up, I'm still keeping my horde.
No, Because let's start a relationship.
You made a word to commit to the relationship.
So if you can't commit to the relationship, then you can't commit to the rewards from the relationship.
You are keeping it harder.
Listen, listen.
I don't have the time to watch with you.
You promised me in my birthday day, you are going to buy me the handbag.
Wow.
Isn't that nuts, guys?
Has that ever happened to you?
Negative.
What about you, Doug?
Man, I dare say someone would come back around and say, oh, yeah, you're supposed to buy me a kit.
Yeah, come on.
What would you tell the guys?
What would you tell the guys to do in this situation?
Yeah, I think it would be behooving you to have the conversation.
Say, hey, can you please leave my property?
Say the things that you need to say.
I'm assuming that was a doorbell, so it should be recorded.
Call the cops while it's going down, but keep her there.
But call the cops while it's going down.
Yeah, I know, right?
I keep saying that because of this, girl.
I was just watching a couple of officer videos.
Same thing with DV or DA.
And most of the time, the woman does something crazy.
The guy had it on record.
The officer takes him to the side and says, hey, bud, you know, I know, I know, but hey, do you want to press charges?
And they're like, nah, you know, that's my mother, my children.
No, this is.
Press charges.
Every time in most of the videos, right?
It's always the men just saying no, even when the officer acts, right?
The only reason in that video they actually ended up doing it is because she had the child and she threw the child in his arms and then started running through his car without his permission.
So once she threw the child, they were like, okay, we have to kind of intervene now because she endangered a child.
And then he was like, oh, really?
I mean, so again, guys, you have to call the police.
You have to document everything.
Period.
You got to do it.
Even the men in the relationships are not used to enforcing any type of law enforcement or intervention, even when they have the options and the evidence.
That's the problem.
So you let the person go with the bad behavior and they continue to act crazy.
Yeah.
Why don't you think men want to press charges?
Well, I think it's mostly conditioned.
Sorry, go ahead.
I didn't mean to click it.
I think most men are conditioned to protect women and children.
So even in a situation where, of course, you have some conflict, they're still attempting to protect, right?
Well, I don't want to make her look bad.
Even if she's a mother that is actually being bad, we're like, well, I don't want to make her look bad.
Even if she's a crack fiend, she's still a black queen, kind of.
Like, it's ridiculous.
Do you think there are some kids afraid of further retaliation?
That could play a part, but I believe mostly it comes from the protection side.
They just want to protect it.
And even the officers, most of the time, they're like, hey, guy, look, I don't want to call you a victim, but I got to hand you this victim brochure.
Like, you know, the officers don't even want to like, they're like, hey, man, I know you're not a victim, but here's a victim.
You know what I'm saying?
Domestic violence, victims, brochure, and et cetera.
I know you don't want to do this.
Pearl, it was even one time the mom was being very bad, right?
And then the officer said, hey, man, you know, don't tell the child this at all.
Just like, say she's still a good mother after she was just beating on him in front of the child.
The officer even told the actual guy, like, hey, let the baby see the mother before we take her to the jail and make sure you tell her her mother is good.
Oh my God.
After she just beat up the guy and they had to drag him off to jail.
They would never do that for a guy ever.
Bruv, crazy.
So just realize that.
Get your evidence.
All right.
I got another lady.
Let's see.
Okay.
Do you know what day it was yesterday?
The day yesterday on that was Monday.
My birthday.
Another one?
Okay.
Happy birthday.
Well, it's a bit late now, but I'm sure she didn't actually message me yesterday, to be honest.
Sorry, what?
I'm sure she didn't message me yesterday.
Okay, but you blocked me.
Okay, but you blocked me.
No, I haven't.
I haven't blocked you on Instagram.
Yes, you have.
You blocked my number.
You blocked me off Instagram.
Like, we're broken up.
Like, like a month ago.
Yeah, but you know, you can email me.
You can wish me a happy birthday.
It's just the least that you could do.
Even though you've just broken up, not that long ago, I still care about you, innit?
Hopefully, you care about me, but clearly you don't even wish me happy birthday.
Okay, but you broke up with me.
Like, how am I supposed to say happy birthday to you?
How am I supposed to say happy birthday to you if you blocked me?
Because there's so many ways.
You call me an email.
You can email me.
You can even bank transfer me a penny.
You don't even have to break the bank for it.
Transfer me a penny.
Put reference.
Happy birthday.
There's so many people that do that nowadays.
But hopefully, you're like, why am I going to bank transfer you money or like even a penny when like you blocked me and you're the one who broke up with me?
I just still think it's a bit unfair that you're not even wishing me happy.
But if it was your birthday, yeah, I'd 100% wish happy birthday.
All right.
He shouldn't have engaged the argument.
Would you agree with that, Sean, or no?
I think when he was engaging with it, he wasn't too confrontational.
But yeah, I would agree.
He wouldn't engage too much.
It's like, I'm so, I'm sorry.
How are you doing, Wayne?
Happy birthday.
Document it.
Yeah, why did these guys even entertain the conversation?
I mean, I'm glad they did because I like watching it.
But sometimes you just, you know, you see who's at the door, you just go back, go back to bed.
Yeah, right.
The game fucking.
Sorry, go ahead.
At that level, engage to the point where, of course, you're calm, but you need them to say stuff that makes them look crazy as they are.
Because what I'm just trying to tell you is collect your evidence.
Isn't that what the wife did to that Christian guy?
What was his name?
Oh, Crowder.
The conservative.
Yeah, she was.
She did exactly that.
Yeah.
Had him looking all types of out of character on that thing thing.
She knew exactly what was going on.
Right?
She's about to pull up my shirt so my pregnant belly's showing.
And I'm going to stand at this angle, so I'm right on camera.
It's so brutal, dude.
Boom!
She had it.
It was hook line and sinker.
So you guys have to think the same way because the enemy thinks that way.
Yes, it used to be a girlfriend, but now that's not that.
Yeah.
Yep.
Julian says, fun fact: the Gambia has issued a warning to old women from the UK who flock to the country to find boy toys to look elsewhere.
That's a real thing.
It's a real thing.
Yep.
40, 50 year old British women go down there, and these guys just hang out at the beach and, you know, they go down there to get their backs blown out.
And he's got to make a whole bunch of money because, you know, the women take care of him, give him money and stuff.
Oh, yeah.
African guys.
Hey, Doug, cut it out.
They go down there to find true love.
Okay.
Of course they do.
Why do black guys?
They'll always do it.
No offense, guys.
But like, it's like, if there's ever a girl that's like really ugly and you see who she's sleeping with, it's just always.
I'm like, why?
No lies told.
Watch out, bro.
They're going to come and get you.
But yes, they do.
So true.
It's like.
There's this old like cougar woman.
Like, she's like 55.
I'm like Jamaid Lud did.
And she was banging this like 30-something year old jack dude.
And I'm like, why?
Why?
She was like chubby, too.
I'm like, I don't get it.
Yeah, we have to do better, guys.
Seriously.
That's not going to happen.
You know that, Doug.
I know that.
Okay, so we were thinking, Doug MPA, like take like one or two callers and then go to the website.
What do you think?
Let's take about four or five because it's been an hour.
So let's do maybe 20, 25 minutes because we're at 56 minutes.
Okay.
Yeah, that's fine.
So put the Zoom in the chat.
And the question is, what's the craziest thing a woman did when you broke up with her?
And you can also ask Sean if you have a question, like if you want to, if maybe you could have handled it a different way or like you want advice on a situation, we'll take, let's take three and then go to the website.
Okay.
Cool.
Make sure to like, if they're really short, we'll take four.
But because then I was, I wanted to have him go over like just what you want to think about when you're breaking up with a girl.
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First up, we have Just the Other Life.
Just the Other Life are you there?
Yes, I'm here.
Hey, how's it going?
Hey, I'm doing better than I hope so.
What's your breakup story you got for us?
A few years ago, I was actually, it was not my story, it was somebody else's, but I was security guard for apartment complex.
And we got a call for a noise complaint.
When we got there, the whole apartment was destroyed.
Literally, this is like someone went through the apartment and just literally destroyed all the furniture, destroyed TV, destroyed fish tank, like even injured the dog.
And we're like, what happened here?
We couldn't, like, we were waiting for cops and everything else.
One thing, another, we figured it out that it was a girlfriend got rejected because guy didn't want to have sex with her while she was drunk.
What?
And she trashed the entire apartment?
Pretty much.
Wow.
What did he do?
Like, how did he reclaim?
Did he dump her?
Yes, he did dump her on the spot.
Obviously, after that kind of thing.
At first, he was like, I don't know, but we're like, dude, are you serious?
She just trashed your whole place.
She almost killed your dog and she pretty much destroyed the fish tank.
And the fish were like swimming in two inches of water at that point and things like that.
It was like insane.
And we're like, dude, look what she did to you.
Like, why would you want her back here?
At first, he was like considering to keep her, but then he's like, no, I'm done with her.
Wow.
Sean, what's your advice if a guy comes back and the place is trash?
Just, is there anything else other than gather evidence if she's there?
Oh my gosh.
Is she still there?
Hopefully, she's gone after she trashed the place.
But if she's there, gather evidence, man, and file.
That's all you can do at that point.
What else could you do?
Yeah, in this case, he actually filed charges against her for destruction of property because she was not on a lease, meaning she was just a guest there.
So they filed charges against her, and she did get arrested.
She did get bonded out, as far as I know.
I have no idea what happened after that, but I know he filed for a restitution and things like that.
That's the good thing.
Is there ever a point where you have where it's okay with the preponderance of what she's doing to you?
Okay, is there ever a point where it gets justified to respond with physical force?
If she's literally going through your house and trashing your stuff, well, in my state, that is.
For example, like, for example, like she used a bat on a dog.
That is, in that case, you can actually use lethal force because she's you're protecting your property, the living property.
Well, I guess, is there ever a case where you'd recommend it, Sean?
Like, retaliation.
Unless she and sorry, go on.
Yeah, unless she got that weapon coming after you.
And that gets a little sticky, right?
But outside of that, she's damaging your property and everything.
You just always got to think about what's the next layer, man.
How's everybody else going to see it?
And this is Normie's society.
This is not red pill people, right?
So you always got to look at it for that situation.
So, and I would say always try to get yourself out of that situation.
You get me?
Because more than likely, unless she has a weapon, she's not going to be able to really get to you and do something damaging.
But be very careful about that.
That's why I say disengage.
Also, if she's damaging property, don't be like, oh, I punched her and decked her out.
Because then you know how people are.
They're going to be your jury.
Well, you went too hard.
You could have shook her.
You could have did this.
You could have done that.
She did destroy your PS5.
But did you have to do that?
Exactly.
Shane says.
We live in a country where.
Go ahead.
Go ahead.
Shane says, no, Pearl, that is, you know, I can't say that word.
And simps, not black men, take on the whales.
Okay.
Sorry, I'm starting to read the super chat.
It just once again, I wish that enough men will not me and not anyone I know would respond in kind where women would start to see that it's a bad idea.
I think we're starting to see the trend turnaround of women getting up in men's faces because there's enough videos out there of men responding and these women get knocked out.
Gen Z men are different.
Gen Z men are Gen Z men are different.
Yeah, because they raised to believe that women and men are equal.
So I see all sorts of young Gen Alpha, Gen Z dudes hitting girls in the face with skateboards and stuff.
It's crazy.
But this is what they wanted.
Equality right there.
Also, in order to collect evidence, it has to be collected in the moment while it's happening.
Without being said, get security cameras like I do.
I have like 16 cameras around my house and five cameras inside my apartment.
Oh, dear.
Bella.
And another thing, if your girl knows where your security is recorded, she'll take the recorder.
So with that being said, have off-site recording.
Like some kind of cloud system.
I mean, yeah, she can unplug the internet prior to that if she knows it.
But there's ways to do it even without the internet.
I've done it.
I have four customers that live nearby me, and their security system is recorded in my home.
I did it without the internet, Yuzich.
I did it with point-to-point access points.
And it's fairly cheap, actually.
It's gotten to the point where we have to do secret agent type stuff to avoid situations with women.
Isn't that sad?
But hey, you know, like one of my customers is a local store here, and they did get broken.
It was a weed store.
Someone stole a whole bunch of weed and a little bit of cash out of the like under the drawer type of thing.
But we caught him because they did look for the recorder and they spent like maybe 17, 18 minutes trying to look for it.
Then they like F it and they left.
But we got all of their information just because it was off-site recording.
Okay.
Good advice.
Okay.
Well, thanks for calling in, Jesse.
Like we really appreciate it.
Absolutely.
You guys have a call.
Thank you.
Let's take another caller.
He's actually the only one.
So I guess if we wanted to switch to the website, we could.
Oh, sure.
Cool.
Sure.
Let's go.
Wait, wait, wait.
Wait.
Is the Zoom link at the top of the chat?
It's not.
Oh, yeah.
That's a problem.
Let me see if I can.
Guys, make sure you pin it.
Wait a little bit.
I want to say, how do we get to the point where women do this type of thing and just don't even think about the consequences?
Because women didn't do this type of stuff 20, 30 years ago, did they?
I think so.
Well, I think it started in the 90s.
Remember that scene Waiting to Exhale where Homeboy tells Angela Bassett that he's that he's breaking up with her for a white girl and then she sets his BMW on fire.
Remember that?
And the cop comes and is like, ma'am, you know, the car's on fire out front.
And she's like, yeah, I know.
That's how it all started right there.
I think women's always done this kind of stuff, but men don't really talk about it.
Like, I think men just aren't really the type.
Like, because this used to be their wives.
It wasn't girlfriends.
So now, like, I would even say there's more of an incentive for them to talk about it now than there was 30, 40, 50 years ago.
Like, you're not going to tell.
Do you think you're going to tell anyone in town your wife's beating the shit out of you?
No.
Yeah.
Yep.
Yeah.
I agree.
I agree.
It always existed.
So now, like, I would even say, Gregory.
Hey.
Hey, guys.
How's it going?
Hey, Gregory.
How's it going?
Pretty good.
Pretty good.
Do I show my video or just audio is cool?
Either's fine.
What's your breakup story?
Oh, my goodness.
I don't think I've broken up very recently because I have relationships for six months and then I think, should I get married?
I don't know.
And until now, it's always been a no.
So.
Okay.
Yeah.
So how do you usually end it?
Like, what's your breakup?
Give me, dump me.
Let's see.
Dump you.
Yeah, just like you can, yeah, just give, give me the, the breakup speech.
What do you give?
So, okay, so let's say you and Pearl.
No, give me the last one, like the stuff that happened from the last one.
No, like I dated someone from another country.
It's not like that.
We're still in good terms.
If we ever wanted to get together, we probably could.
So it's not like I'm kind of friends with a lot of my exes.
Yeah.
Okay.
How do you pull that off?
What's the speech?
There's no speech.
It's just they go to the other country.
The visa is up or something, you know.
Oh, you just like passport women?
Like you bring them in or what?
No, it just happens to be.
I speak Russian, so it's easy.
Like, you know, and there's a war between the two countries.
So we kind of meet in the middle or we travel or we have a good time, you know.
But I'm always looking for different criteria.
I have like a checklist in my mind.
So if I see someone who matches that, I'm like, oh, I get hopeful.
You know, this is maybe the one.
But I'm also very.
How do you meet them?
Huh?
How do you meet these women?
How do I meet them?
Some of them is matchmakers.
I would say actually that that is a very traditional way.
It's not the way that, you know, you don't meet in a club or dating.
I've had some success with matchmakers.
And then also I meet them also anywhere, right?
You go to a club or whatever, but I'm Jewish.
So for me, there's a big like filter.
I can't just like go out, you know, with just anybody.
Anyway, it's probably the same if you're like a Catholic, right?
Or if you're Muslim, you got this big filter.
And anyway, I'm not Catholic enough to care.
But I can understand it.
I know people that are.
What's your take, by the way, I guess on condoms or contraception, like, do you think Catholics are violating it by using condoms or, you know, because they're not having children so much?
Well, I don't really think Catholic women care about Catholicism.
I mean, if they did, we'd all be virgins, right?
But we're not.
So I suppose, yeah.
Yeah.
Over here, Pearl always says that on her channel, that church, it doesn't matter what the church is, is usually the last stop on the horror train.
You know what I say?
I say when the condoms are off, the religion doesn't matter.
You're going to have a lot of babies anyway.
That's true.
But anyways, I would say a couple things I think you guys would like, and then I have a question.
Okay.
The thing you guys would probably like is that in polygamous societies, you kind of had the Pareto distribution of like 20% and 80%.
But you could have multiple women, you would take care of your children.
Officially, there would be no vast children.
He would actually take care of everybody.
In the Western world, they came up with this idea that you can have sex before marriage.
Okay.
So like in traditional societies, there were consequences of sleeping with a married woman.
That was actually a very bad crime.
Okay.
The both the man and the woman who did it were punished.
But if you're not married, right, there's no crime.
So I think if you look at the premarital sex, you probably find the same 80-20, meaning that probably 80% of the women are chasing 20% of the guys and vice versa, you know?
So I imagine that's biological.
It doesn't matter if you're using this framework or that framework.
And then, but there's less violence, at least, Pearl.
There's less violence because with polygamy, you need to get rid of some men in order to have enough to go around.
Let's just say after a war.
After a war, there's always polygamy.
Yeah.
We're just, we're trying to stay a little bit on topic.
Okay.
I'm sorry.
That's okay.
Do you have anything else to add about like breakups?
Yeah.
I have a question.
Okay.
So I just want to understand, and maybe I asked this question in another form.
It's like, if everyone followed the principles that are being taught to men by the red pill community or the manosphere, etc., right?
Would it be a sustainable society?
That's what I'm concerned about because I don't think feminism would lead to a sustainable society.
But I also concerned if all the men would love.
I do appreciate the question, but it's just still not on topic.
Okay.
I'm sorry.
I didn't realize that.
Okay.
All right.
All right.
Last call we're going to take is going to be Marcos.
We can take one more because the last after this one.
Like we can take two because the last guy was kind of off topic.
Marcos, hey there.
Hey, what's up?
Hey, how's it going?
Hey, nice to meet you guys.
What's right, Pearl?
So what's your breakup story you got for us?
This is an interesting one.
Okay, so makeup story, it was because of a toxic and very toxic person.
But in this case, it was because she's the TZX of the uncle of another ex I had, which is interesting.
Then she started to follow me after she divorced the guy.
We ended up together.
And then you dated someone that was with your uncle?
No, that was with my ex's uncle, my friend's another ex-interesting enough.
She was my age.
He got divorced, started following me.
Okay, I said, okay, let me see what's going on here.
So I ended up bringing her home.
A couple of months came by.
Everything was okay.
Then she started to ask for more attention.
I'm a software engineer and a C-salmon.
I'm also a musician.
I have a couple of companies under my belt.
So thing is that she wanted the 100% plus more just because I'm already a person that's very busy with stuff.
So, okay.
So, then after that, she pretty much hired a friend of her to talk to me so I could, I could call, give her a call back to see what was happening.
Um, because I left her in the call right after that, right?
And then she asked me to call her, you know, okay, you should call her, at least end things in a good mood or whatever.
Well, so we talked and we ended things in a good mood.
Then, last the next day, she sent me a an itinerary of trips to my house for two months.
And I was like, okay, this is crazy.
She's actually making plans of coming home without me telling her.
I call her.
I even, I even offered to pay the flights back and stuff.
And she said, oh, I'm not going to cancel.
I'm going to come to your house right away.
I was like, look, if you come to the house.
So this was after you broke up with her?
Yeah, so I occupied her.
So she kept sending you pamphlets of the itinerary for the trips you were going to go on.
No, no.
He made trips to my house.
He actually bought flights a couple of months.
Okay, so she was like out of the state or out of the country.
Yeah, she's out of the state.
I'm in New York.
She moved to Mayan.
Okay.
And then she, after the fact, after the breakup, she started making planning flights.
And then she just sent me all the screenshots.
I was like, you fucking out of your mind.
If you come here, if you don't want to cancel, I'm going to call the police on you.
And you better stop it because what are you going to do in New York in the streets for 30 days?
I'm going to call the police on you.
You better.
Then one of her friends called me and I just, the administration looked straight up.
I'm going to call the police if she comes here.
You better get prepared.
What's going to happen?
So did she come or no?
Yeah.
No, she didn't come.
Okay.
She kind of got scared.
Okay.
That's good.
Did you have a question for Sean at all, or did you just want to tell the story?
Oh, I just wanted to come in.
This is my first time.
I just joined the university and stuff.
So I wanted to see all this.
Oh, welcome in.
Thanks for calling in.
Okay.
Cool.
Thanks, buddy.
Okay.
I guess we're going to switch over to the website now because that's everybody.
And so, do you mind?
I'm going to just say something first.
So, Sean, if it's okay with you when we get to the website, I was hoping you could do like a breakdown of like communication with women and just your principles on it and like how to lead conversations with them and then just like best practices.
Is that all right?
That sounds perfect.
Okay, cool.
Cool.
So we're going to do that on the website.
Doug and Pierre, you got anything else on YouTube?
No, I do not.
You guys, make sure to go to pearlinvited.com.
Thank you, everyone, for being here.
We really appreciate it.
And when it comes to breakups, guys, you know, I just say ghost them.
This is why you ghost.
And then don't answer the door.
Don't entertain the conversation, guys.
And press charges.
Press charges.
Don't let things get away with messing up your car and messing up your stuff.
That's all I have to say about it.
You got any final words?
Wait, hold on.
Also, go ahead.
Yeah, yeah, I was just about to say, with the last caller, it was perfect.
That guy seemed like he was pretty serious about, hey, I'm going to call the police.
Hey, don't do this.
Don't do that.
And then the crazy person was just like, and she just left.
She probably wouldn't be crazy with somebody else.
So definitely press charges, protect yourself at all times.
And it you probably could say, oh, it's unfortunate I got to do it.
Look, it's a fortunate that I got to save myself from a case.
So at the end of the day, protect yourself at all times.
This is the real world, and people do crazy things.