Pearl Daily’s call-in show dissects modern dating’s gender war, where men cite crushing stats—74% of divorces initiated by women, $200K legal fees, and 90% custody losses—while callers like SoCal Lowbrow and Cubby Clown exploit married women’s perceived openness, using tactics from fabricated tragedies to unlocked cars. Guests like Eric reveal shifting from threesomes to sex dolls post-2016, calling them "low-maintenance" alternatives to biological women’s emotional volatility. Ultimately, the episode frames dating as a zero-sum game where men’s strategies—whether predatory or self-protective—stem from systemic distrust and the illusion of female loyalty. [Automatically generated summary]
Most answered very quickly, no, because men are useless.
I mean, this headline from The Hill, it caught my eye.
Most young men are single.
Most young women are not.
Young men have fallen faster than any demographic in America over the last 40 years.
It's a different world now.
Like, we don't need men the way that they used to.
The future is female.
Men and women are drifting further apart, and society is crumbling because of it.
A fascinating debate has broken out about the value of marriage.
You've kind of got the Trad Con versus Red Pill thing.
This men's rights crowd that sometimes just goes too far the other way.
Oh, you need to stop acting like grown boys and infants and actually become men.
Marriage is a bond and it's a sacred bond.
It's a machine designed to extract resources from you.
Now many of the red-pilled have taken the position that it's bad for men to get married.
Hannah Pearl Davis or just pearly things.
One of the most controversial faces in all of the internet.
She goes on to say that marriage is a terrible deal for men.
Because if me and you were in a business contract, you would never sign a contract where I am paid to leave.
Gee, what could go wrong there?
74% or something of divorces are initiated by women.
Men have everything to lose, primarily their own children.
Men get killed by the courts and by divorce laws.
I had no idea that courts of family law were courts of equity, not courts of law.
Because in family court, you don't need evidence to accuse someone of abuse.
You need no evidence.
When you guys say get married young, a lot of these men don't know what they're signing up for, and you're not going to be there when their entire life falls apart.
I interviewed them on the other side.
I didn't meet my son until he was 15 months old.
How much did you spend trying to get him back?
On legal fees alone was about $200,000.
Before you know it, you're homeless.
You're literally just thrown out onto the street.
We absolutely reinforce bad behavior from women.
Wives are taught to leave their husbands and then daughters grow up without their fathers.
Family is the foundation of society.
Every problem in society comes from single mother homes.
A lot of women will just chase this negative rapid hole of happiness, endless happiness.
Feminism's biggest failures is it lies to women.
We tell women to date as many guys as possible.
We tell them to put off family into marriage.
You are allowed to leave your perfect husband.
You are allowed to end a relationship with a really great boyfriend.
Oh, freeze your edge, have an abortion.
What?
You're evil.
I don't think there's anything else in life that we actually ever go into preparing to fail.
Like if you have the mentality of this is going to go wrong and be pessimistic, naturally the outcome is going to be that it's going to fail anyway.
It's self-sabotage.
That's the thing.
Like women are so willing to leave marriages because they're not happy.
This is not about happiness.
The most important thing is the children.
And the problem is we have a modern society where it's me, me, me, my feelings, leave when I feel like it, instead of doing what's best for the kids.
This myth that we live in an age of male privilege.
Where's my male privilege?
They think, well, men have all the rights.
They have all the power.
Privilege patriarchal system that we have.
Why doesn't our society care about men's rights?
I have no friends, no wife, and no social life.
Men are alone in this situation.
Men are homeless.
Men are thinking about eating guns.
I've seen so many men on the brink of suicide and they didn't do anything wrong.
How are you equal if the men are the ones that have to fight and die to defend the country?
The men are the ones that build and maintain all the infrastructure.
Women are helplessly dependent upon men.
The so-called deaths of despair from suicide, overdose, or alcohol, three times higher among men than among women.
Culture is telling men, you are no good.
You got to get your act together.
I think men have failed themselves.
What kind of a man are you?
What kind of a woman are you going to attract?
If men are in trouble, so are women.
Everybody knows this is a huge problem, but nobody wants to admit it.
Every single woman at the table said they wanted a man.
500K, 500, 300K, 300K, 200K.
Am I crazy?
Everything is really set up against you to fail as a man.
If men make less than women, women don't want to marry them.
So, you know who wants more economically and emotionally viable men?
Women.
I don't want to be an independent woman anymore.
I don't want to be a strong, independent woman.
I'm over it.
When is it going to be my turn?
Where are we meeting the men that don't?
I can't keep having these same conversations.
The only simp here is you, Pearl.
You sent for women.
I think you sent for women.
She's a provocateur.
She says stupid stuff, but Pearl is right about this.
It's already happening.
It's just not out in the open yet.
Now it's just hookup culture is going to be our fairy tale ending because men don't want a wife and women can't find a husband.
The future, if everybody follows your path, is there is no future.
We don't want to population decline and our economy goes into decline.
Civilization will crumble.
The American story does not end well.
This is an existential crisis failing young men.
What up, guys?
That is the trailer for our divorce documentary.
We're trying to raise 100K.
If you donate 20K, you get a personalized message to your ex-wife that you can either put in the film or I can read.
So if you have anything funny you want to put in.
20K, we're at about $31,000.
Thank you to the people that donated yesterday.
We got a couple hundred dollar donations, so I really appreciate it.
So today we are talking about women stealing men from each other.
So welcome to another episode of Pearl Daily.
I always say that women can't stand each other.
The only time women unite against men is in the patriarchy.
But other than that, it's war amongst women.
80% of workplace bullying is women bullying other women.
50% of women say they would rather work for a male boss than a female boss.
There have been stories where a girl's friend will lure her into the woods and literally try to murder her.
Literally try to murder her.
Women in the modern day hate men so much that they will let women with nefarious intentions close to them and won't realize it until it's too late.
I'm bringing this up because I was scrolling through social media the other day and I started to see stories about women who had their husbands stolen from them by other women.
These are married women who had decent men but ended up losing their husband to someone else.
And most of the time, that someone was somebody that the wife knew.
The first thing I would ask in the situation would be, what wasn't the wife doing?
Why was her husband so unsatisfied that he left for another woman?
We all know that over a quarter of marriages are sexless.
And in almost all marriages, the wife nags the husband constantly.
There is a lesson in stories like this.
Ladies, you have to satisfy your man and keep your eyes on him at all times.
Single women will come for your husband because he married you.
Men that are fours and fives receives a point, maybe two, to single women because they are married.
That's what we're going to talk about today.
The women who had their husbands stolen by another woman.
Get ready with us while I tell a story about when one of my best friends tried to steal my husband.
So the other night I had my friends over.
Mary was there and we were all just like playing games, sitting on the couch, you know.
And then one of my friends, we'll call her Jennifer.
She just, she was just a little bit off the entire time.
Yeah, she wasn't really talking to us and she was like sitting with the boys when all the girls were hanging out, which we thought was really weird.
Yeah, and then a couple things happened that night that just rubbed me the wrong way.
But the first thing that happened was we were all sitting on the couch and my husband's sitting like towards the arm of the couch.
And Jennifer just like just like starts complaining about her spa and basically demanded to be sitting next to my husband.
And all of us girls were like sitting on the other side of the living room.
So it made no sense for her to be like demanding to sit over there because we were all talking over here while the boys were like hanging out.
A funny thing about my friend Jennifer though is that we used to be a lot closer back in the day, but recently, I don't know, she doesn't live as close as she used to, and so we just haven't been seeing each other much.
So it was just weird.
So here's where it gets really crazy, because Say didn't see this happening when it happened.
She like went up to go to the bathroom, but I saw Jennifer go sit over next to her husband and then start whispering something in his ear.
Like while everybody was hanging out.
And my husband doesn't entertain this stuff.
So like Mary can, she knows.
Yeah, he was not, but she was, she was definitely very close to him.
And so Mary pulls me aside and she tells me all this stuff that happens after I get out of the bathroom.
And basically we both walk out together only to find that Jennifer is like doing that stupid pygmy thing where she's like, oh, hang on to my ear.
So fast forward to later in the night, everybody's like kind of drunk and we're Jennifer's wrong.
She was really, really drunk.
And we're all like, okay, bathroom ready, all the girls go to the bathroom.
And she starts crying.
Crying.
And so obviously, since I'm not trying to like read into anything, anything too quickly, I go and I ask her, Jennifer, like, what's wrong?
And she doesn't tell me anything.
But then, oh, but then.
Then Jennifer texts me while we're all in the room hanging out together.
And she says, I can't do this anymore.
And I text her back and I'm like, what do you mean you can't do this anymore?
Like we're all just hanging out.
And she was like, I can't stand being in a room with Say and her husband because I'm in love with him.
Okay, but then this part really made me the most angry is she's back on the couch.
She's drunk and she basically just starts trying to sit like as close as she can to my husband.
And I'm like just like subtly trying to, you know, sit on my husband's lap, trying to, you know, mark my territory saying, hey, like back off.
And then I decided to get up in front of everybody and say, hey, and show everybody the text and say, Jennifer's in love with Say's husband.
And everybody was super awkward and nobody really said anything.
We ended up all leaving.
And needless to say, we don't talk to Jennifer anymore.
And this was a story about Mary in my dream the other night.
Did it really?
Yeah.
But now she's mad at her husband for a dream.
That's crazy.
All right, let's see what we got next.
My sister stole my husband, so now I'm watching their world collapse.
Story time.
So me and my husband or ex-husband recently got married.
And by recently, I mean the past five months.
We had been dating for about a year and then we got engaged and we got married within the next year.
So we had officially been dating for two years when we got married.
And it only took my sister a whole five months to steal him from me.
However, there is a little bit of a backstory on me and my husband.
So let me bring you into it.
So let's call my husband Mark and my sister Natalie.
Foundation is a very different color.
Okay.
Now, once upon a time, five years ago, they dated.
It worked kind of just like you're dating.
Like she lost her V to him.
It was quite a serious relationship for her.
However, Mark didn't really care too much.
Like, he obviously liked her and he cared for her, but the relationship in itself wasn't like his priority.
That relationship ended badly.
So you can kind of imagine the reaction they all had when me and Mark started dating.
A little FYI.
Mark is in my year, not in my sister's.
Don't know, it was always strange to me that she went for Mark because I always had a crush on Mark when I was younger.
So it was a bit of a full circle moment.
But I guess I did technically steal her boyfriend.
Oh, Natalie hated that I was dating Mark.
She absolutely despised it and she hated it even more when we got engaged.
So she stole.
Oh my gosh.
So she stole the boyfriend first.
Then her sister got petty.
Said it's fine.
Dang.
Obviously, I did speak to Natalie about this.
We did have grown-up conversations, and she told me eventually that she forgave me and that she's actually really, really happy that me and Mark were engaged at the time.
I thought, great, no family feud.
I'm with the man of my dreams.
What can go wrong?
One thing I should mention is that Mark had pre-wedding nerves.
By this, he went into an absolute state of distress.
I wasn't sure if he even wanted to go ahead with the wedding.
And then we talked for a while.
I thought it was just because he was nervous, which is completely fine and normal.
However, he has literally yesterday just admitted to me that he had these feelings because he never lost feelings for my sister.
I found out about the affair in quite like a typical way, it was nothing too drastic.
I just walked in on them both.
Like it was like a normal way to catch a cheetah.
I can best believe I left the same day, the same minute.
I was out of that house.
So I have obviously filed for divorce and never speaking to my sister ever again.
I'm so happy about it.
Wow, even though she kind of did it first.
Well, I'll get you.
All right, let's see who's next.
Morning, guys.
I just want to say I keep seeing these videos where friends are taking your spouse or marrying your husband and all your ex-husband.
All that stuff.
I keep seeing it on TikTok.
I want y'all to know that my mom taught me and always taught me.
She said, Don't have too many people around that good man.
Don't have too many friends coming to your house and you invited no ma'am.
She said, Don't do it.
And I live by that to this day.
I live by that to this day.
And I think that as my mom is a black mother, of course, and she just raised me well.
Where you got to be wise.
You can trust, but sometimes you got to be cautious.
And you just got to protect that home of yours.
If you're in a good home, don't have too many friends around your spouse, honey.
It's okay for a birthday.
It's okay for a party.
But every day, and then your friends should not have your husband's phone number at all.
None of them.
They can have your mother phone number and your daddy phone number, but they should not have your husband's phone number.
That's how black, that's how that's how black people are raised.
I mean, I just keep saying it, and I have not saying it won't happen, but I'm just saying, like, it's sad.
Protect your home.
Pray over your husband.
Pray over your husband.
Pray over your friends.
Cooked.
Yeah, you're cooked.
All right, let's see who's next.
Like, treating me badly or anything, but I can tell a kind of distance.
My best friend, who was my maid of honor at my wedding, stole my husband.
A little bit.
Women are evil.
Like, female friendships.
Do you know what?
The other day, every because sometimes I'll go out places and people think I'm a little odd because if I go somewhere, a lot of times I just go by myself.
I'm kind of like a kind of weird, you know.
And like women will be like, well, like, don't you have a lot of female friends?
And some, like, I do, but There's just such a low ROI on female friendship in my head because I think to myself they're the ones that are gonna like tell your business to everybody.
So if you have like if you tell them a secret, they'll tell everybody.
They'll just nag you and then eventually they'll crash out on you or steal your husband apparently.
I know I am a little bit of a loner.
I'm a people person, but I, you know, I know I just, I can't have a lot of female friends.
I just can't.
And so I would speak to him about it and I would say, you know, I can tell like something is wrong.
Like there's something that's not okay.
Something isn't right.
Like, what's going on?
Have I done something wrong?
You know, all of this stuff.
And he'll just kind of brush it off and be like, oh, you know, nothing, nothing, nothing, nothing.
Christmas of 2017, so December going into 2018.
We were just in the car.
We went shopping.
We're in the car.
I just turned to him and I said, hey, you know, we're about to go into a new year.
Like, whatever it is, you know, let's just put it behind us.
Like, you know, just talk to me.
Let's just start afresh.
You know, that sort of thing.
And then that's when he said to me, Tosin, I don't want to be married to you anymore.
So I was blindsided.
I had no clue.
So it was very confusing for me.
Anyway, to cut the long story short and to avoid the confusion, it was only later I actually found out that the main reason he actually wanted a divorce is because he was having an affair with my best friend.
I can't think of anything worse other than a sister.
And he did move on with my best friend.
So it wasn't just somebody that I just met.
Like this was, she was my maid of honor at the wedding.
You know, the heartbreak and the loss was not just from the perspective of the marriage.
I was also grieving the loss of a friend.
So it was kind of happening at the same time.
But it was a combination of different things I believe that contributed to my healing.
Yeah.
Now, again, all these stories are going to be the female-friendly version of the story, but all right.
Oh, I knew this.
Oh, I knew this story.
Oh, yeah.
Shania Twain took the L.
So I said, Marianne, don't you think that my husband is acting strange?
And she got very defensive and said, How could you think such a thing that I would ever lie to about anything?
The whole innocent friend, even with a tear in her eye, she's a great actress.
Can you imagine?
She probably was more pleasant to be around.
That'll do it over time because Shania looks way better than her.
She deserves an Academy Award.
How could it be so stupid?
I really didn't see that coming.
I really want to die.
The fact that my friend knew that she was going to hurt my family, but did it anyway?
I have a hard time with that.
Women don't care.
They don't.
They're going to do what's in their best interest.
Begged her.
Find love somewhere else from someone else.
It just isn't right.
She never expected that in 10 million years.
What did her best friend's husband have to do with it?
She was really, really heartbroken.
Was any of this revenge?
I don't want to go into details of that because I don't think it's oh, yeah, I forgot.
And then Shania Twain started dating your best friend's husband.
They basically swapped my own phone.
Yeah.
This tells me that Shania was probably awful to be with and her friend was friendly and did anal okay.
So I want you guys to call in and tell me your stories today.
Were you ever propositioned by your wife's wife's friends or girlfriend's friends?
Did you ever say yes?
This is anonymous, guys.
You can have cameras off and did you tell her.
Or if you knew somebody that had an affair with the best friend's husband, tell me how the crash out happened.
I love drama.
the woman so um you like my comment there bro yeah Yeah, that's pretty funny.
You know, some of the most beautiful women are just awful to be around.
It's just like Arnold Schwarzenegger.
Remember he was with Maria Shriver, but he got the nanny pregnant and the nanny literally looks like Andre the Giant.
And you're like, how'd that happen?
It's because I guarantee you, Maria Shriver was just awful to be around.
And his wife was friendly and did whatever, whenever in the bedroom.
No whining, no complaining.
No, Arnold, I have a headache.
I can't do it tonight.
I have to be gone for four or five days.
How many points does Anal give a girl?
Put in the chat, guys.
How many points does Analyst?
How many points?
Ah, that's good.
But I'm telling you, man.
Ladies, ladies, after the glut luck.
But yeah, you know, I was, I'm married and divorced, and my ex-wife was very attractive.
And let me tell you guys, the best cologne that you can wear to attract women is wife.
Once you get married, women are just all over you, man.
It's ridiculous.
And especially if your wife is attractive, because women can tell if you're married by the way that you walk and talk.
But if your wife is attractive and they meet your wife, guys, it's over with.
Over with.
Tell me about the time you were propositioned.
Pretty much every time that my ex-wife would come to my work and meet my co-workers, it would just be all over like that.
I'm talking, all of a sudden, your female co-workers want to go out to lunch with you or they want to line up work travel with you.
So you and another, a female co-worker.
This is back before the M2 days, you know, because I was married from in the early 2010s, before M2.
But before M2, female co-workers would try to line up work travel with you so you were staying in the same hotel.
Yeah, man.
Yeah.
Had that happen many times.
Have you ever been like really close to doing it?
Have you ever been like, you know, like you really, or it was really, really difficult for you to turn down, like your wife was being a bitch that day or something like that?
Well, I had a couple of instances where I saw how traumatic that cheating can affect a man and a woman.
So I've never cheated on a spouse or in like a serious relationship.
I've dated multiple women at once, but I've never cheated on a girlfriend or a spouse only because once again, like growing up, I saw how bad cheating can affect men and women.
So I just didn't cheat.
Yeah.
I wish I had because my ex-wife cheated on me.
If I could go back.
How many, what was the biggest opportunity you turned down, like the hobbies girl?
There was a woman who was in her early 30s and she Because I worked in Vegas for a while and I worked for the government and a lot of government jobs are women who were hot enough to try to live the dream off their looks, but then figured out that they're not going to get there.
So they had to settle down and get a real job.
And there was a girl at my work that was, you know, a former bottle girl.
She had been in a couple of small time magazines and she was in her late 20s and was giving up on the dream and working at my work.
And she propositioned me and I was like, oh, no, I'm married.
Sorry, but if I could go back, she was the one that I would have cheated for you, dm her after you got divorced.
No because um, I saw her social media and she was a single mama too by the time I got divorced.
You could have been, you could have been dad.
But yeah, i'm telling you guys, you get married.
Well, don't get married, but if you do, women are going to be all over you.
I had friends growing up Pearl, where they were single guys and if they were striking out at the bar, they would put a wedding ring on.
Yeah, because it's more exciting.
We love doing the wrong thing.
Men like doing the right thing, we love doing the wrong thing.
And so it's like you know when um, those like they'll try to sell their religion and say their women are different, and i'm like, no if, if women know they they're not supposed to do that thing, they want to do it even harder.
Yeah, I agree, and you know it's funny.
So one of my female friends, tell me what you think about this pearl, because everyone's going back and forth about anal in the chat.
Look what I did.
I'm sorry.
What's the?
What's the consensus?
I didn't see.
So some people are saying it's gross, some people say it's, you know, a necessity.
We got to do a poll.
We gotta please please, put a poll.
Does anal add a point to a woman?
Put yes no, look what we did.
So okay.
So Kobe Clouds, about to come on in a little bit.
He says anal means love, kind of because like, does the woman get anything out of that?
You know what I mean.
Well okay, so one of my female friends, she's finally starting to put this you know, i'm strong and black and independent down because she's staring down the barrel of being the rest, of being single for the rest of her life.
Okay, and she said, why do guys always want to do anal?
And i'm like, so this is my layman's theory, right?
Um, modern women, especially women in their 30s and 40s, just give it out, just give regular sex out to Chad Uh, in Tyrone right, but they won't give that out easy oh, okay.
And so it's like, understand what i'm saying.
Like, then he knows he's getting her best because sex doesn't mean as much.
Yeah, but you think about this how, back in the day, a man would show interest in a woman by by planning dates, spending money on her, sharing resources with her right.
And before the sexual revolution, a woman showed interest by sleeping with the men, by having sex with them and being exclusive right.
But now modern women hand out sex so much regular sex, so easy that like how are you supposed to vet now?
How are you supposed to know if she's really interested in you?
Got it anal, try it fellas, It's 50-50 in the chat.
Yes and no.
I've gotten it from every woman.
Exactly.
When I was a teenager, the thought was that she let you do that, then she's yours.
Yeah, yep.
They're split on this in the chat.
Um, okay, why don't we bring up the first caller?
All right, I'm gonna bring up Cubby first because he put something in the chat.
And uh, so Cubby Clown, he's coming up.
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Cubby Clown, are you there?
Hello, hello.
Cubby, is that like, are you in the Chicago area?
Is that a Cubs play?
Oh, Kobe Killer.
Like, I killed COVID.
Like, I had this whole idea about like a space class.
Oh, sorry.
Okay, okay.
So tell me, tell me about the cheating, the husband stealers.
Do you know any?
Go any.
Well, I've cheated.
I've had sex with like three or four wives.
So I don't know if that doesn't kind of count on your point tonight, but women are kind of trifling on their own, right?
What was that like?
Did you were you like scared you're gonna get shot?
You know, did you know going in?
So you're just like, fuck it.
Well, I was, I was a personal trainer.
It is.
Were they your clients?
No, no, no.
Go ahead.
Go ahead.
One was like separated.
Okay.
And they're all separated, right?
She had a Chad wife.
I'm a Chad wife, Chad husband for sure.
She was a hot, like half Filipino.
And like, I was training her for a while.
Then we started fucking around.
And then, yeah.
How was like the first time you guys hooked up?
Was it like where?
How did it happen?
Not in the bathroom at the gym, right?
I hear some of these like bodybuilding gyms are wild.
Yeah, I'm not.
I wasn't like in a bodybuilding gym or anything, but nothing.
We went to her place and uh we were we were for a while.
So like was it her like with her husband's house?
Like he was in California.
She moved to let's say Connecticut.
Oh, so there's a lot of she was like a boss bitch.
So she was like, I don't want to say manly, but you know, she was like, you know, you could kind of fill in the blanks.
She wasn't like, you know, she was like a high corporate chick.
And I was like a white, I was a nice trap piece of trash for her.
Yeah, a lot of those women, the only place I'll submit is in the bedroom.
Was it one of those?
I think probably, yeah.
She was like, probably like next to us, not a CEO or anything, but she was up there.
Yep.
What did her husband do for a living?
He worked for like an actuary.
Hello?
What the fuck?
Sorry, hold on.
Sorry about that.
Are you still there?
I'm here.
Sorry about that.
Something something else kicked in.
Would you rate yourself as better looking?
Did you see that?
Hell no.
I'm a fucking bald ass.
You could find me online.
You could find me on Instagram.
I'm a bald dude, tattoos.
I was in good shape.
I had spinal surgery.
A lot of shit happened over the koof kuf time.
And I'm okay.
I'm always like a five.
I'm not like, I'm like five eight, five, nine.
You know, that's like the most it's so funny because if I ask women that question, it's like I'm a tenant guy, guys are so like, um, guys are so honest.
Okay, we have to live in reality because we don't get put, we don't get pussy, yeah, they get what they want usually.
I just want to tell you, Pearl, I love the new black pill pearl.
I think you should get like, I'm not around, like, merch.
I can't afford it right now, but I'm saying like a black pill pearl merch, something dark.
You like a what was um the ship called on the pirates of the Caribbean, the black pearl.
Well, it's kind of how I view society and like a lot of these causes, like abortion, like it's a sinking ship, and you can either like stay on the Titanic tanner trying to get the water out of the lifeboat, or you can get on the life raft trying to judge it out, get the buckets, get the buckets, yeah, yeah.
Then you get that you get like sucked down in the bottom of the ship.
There was okay, go ahead.
Sorry, that was the first one.
What about the second one?
So, she was another straight Filipina, and I actually left a really good Filipina for this Filipina, which I shouldn't have done.
One was like in head over heels with love with me, and when you talk about anal, anal does mean love, you know.
But the other one was like just sluttier and hotter to me, and it was so stupid.
But then I dated her for like a year, but she was a complete mental patient.
The other one was like head over heels, and she wasn't in, she was never married, but she did have a kid.
So, the one that was head over heels, was she like fatter?
No, no, I don't, I would never fat chicken, you know, I meant like was she less hot, maybe?
I mean, or just less charming.
No, I mean, she was so much more submissive.
I don't know what it was, I'm just a filthy animal.
I just can never be with one woman.
I've been, I didn't know, I was like 10 years old, probably black pilled and red-pilled.
So, the other girls do an anal, huh?
Um, not okay, the one that was like more submissive, the cuter, the sweeter one, she did anal.
Like, she and anal is not, it's just to me, it's about power, it doesn't even feel that much better.
It's just like power, you know.
And he's right, he is right.
Like, women do give other shit up, but when they give you anal, at least it's something you can say, wow, she did give me anal.
Yeah, because it, it, they don't just hand that out, man.
They'll have the badge out and they'll hand out the glut one, they won't hand out the back door.
Let me tell you, I would have went back, Doug, and that girl, dude.
I don't care if she had two kids, you could at least like slay her.
Nah, man, I got I have a policy: no single mothers, man.
I tell all the guys I know, don't sleep with them, don't date them, don't marry them, do not go near them because if they have one man's kid, they'll have yours.
Hey, he's going for married women, though, so he's not really risk-averse here.
I have one get a visit, hey, everybody, get a vasectomy, get a motherfucking vasectomy.
It takes 15 minutes.
I ain't having kids with these trifling bitches, and uh, I have, you know, I don't, I don't know, I'm not religious or anything, that's another thing.
Did you ever did they did you ever get caught or did they ever snitch?
Like, or did sorry, did you ever snitch or get caught?
But she had to get one of the girls how to give her car, like get her car back from her husband.
She had a BMW, but it was her, it was in her, everything was in her name.
He was like, I think, you know, it's here, it's up.
She had breast cancer, you're gonna love it, she had breast cancer.
He helped her through breast cancer.
Then we I, then she came on my radar, came on her radar I started training her at my house and then we started around but he dang yeah yeah, that's was he.
He wasn't paying for the training sessions, was he?
So check it out, he was a complete broke ass dude and she was probably like sick of like she was paying for everything.
Yeah, so I think you know about that.
Yeah yep, we always talk about how trifling men are when they're in the power position and they pay all the bills, but women are even worse, dude.
Women are even worse.
Turns out he got remarried or something and he had a kid, and I think that's what he needed, you know.
So yeah, I don't talk to her anymore.
When you're messing with a married woman, are you like very careful that you don't tell anybody about it?
Like, are you ever nervous?
It'll get through the grapevine, because people talk for sure.
I mean they yeah, I mean I don't think they knew that she was.
They might.
I don't think anybody knew that she was married when I started messing with her.
Okay yeah plus, i'm like you and i'm like a long, long wolf or whatever.
I got no friends, dude.
I'm a loser, especially up there.
I got a couple friends, whatever.
Thanks for calling man.
I really appreciate it.
I love the new show fell guys and I don't want to be too much of a simp, but I like the pigtails.
I'm not around.
Have a good night thanks, take care.
Bye, like you say it's saying, but I have a boyfriend, but that clearly doesn't stop him sorry, i'm kidding.
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yeah i'm there can you hear me sean what's going on uh yeah i mean i was gonna say you know to duck's point the like when i started dating my now recently ex uh like i actually did test that theory i asked for anal i asked for you know a threesome Some down the line, I asked for modifications to her body for like plastic surgery for like C-cups or D-cups.
And girls who think that like you're the best that they could possibly hope for or get, and they feel like they're competing against other girls, they will absolutely say yes to all of that stuff, even if it's like not quite what they want or they normally would have objections for most men.
They will actually absolutely give you the green light for all that stuff.
Well, where is she now?
What happened?
So we lived together, like we dated for a year and a half, and then we lived together for a year and a half.
She got surgery for you and she bounced.
It was very apparent she had kind of like borderline personality disorder, like just from living with her.
So I kind of had to like separate from her and kind of cut it off actually in the last few weeks.
I think that Anil comes along with the bipolar package, man.
Definitely.
I mean, that's definitely possible.
No, I mean, I'd be mad if I didn't get anal from a bipolar chick.
But like, no, to your point, like, girls who like have a euphoria towards you, who feels like, you know, they hit the lottery with you, they will absolutely, they pretty much will change themselves to be what you want.
That's 100% true.
And if they're not changing and getting aligned with what you want, it's because they want someone else and they're kind of like settling for you.
Yeah.
Because in the back of their mind, they know that like, you know, they need kids relatively soon or, you know, everyone around that they want it is kind of taken.
So they'll settle with you as long as they have things their way.
And I think a lot of guys kind of need to like push back against that and go for.
Sorry, go ahead.
Pearl and I were going back and forth about the whole sleeping on the first date, sleeping with a woman on the first date.
Because I mean, yes, if a woman sleeps with a guy on the first date, she's kind of a whore, but then you don't want to be the guy that she doesn't want to sleep with on the first date.
You know what I'm saying?
So which one is it?
Is she a whore for sleeping with you on the first date or what?
Well, there's some.
There's someone that she's going to sleep with on the first date.
You're telling me if she was on a date with her celebrity crush, she's not smashing first night.
Come on.
Come on.
I mean, she makes it not you.
Go ahead.
It kind of depends on the girl.
Some of them culturally, like, they won't want to do it on the first, but if she's not doing it within the first two or three, then I absolutely agree.
Like, you know, there are girls that they will do it.
Like, if they're American-born here, like, most of them will do it on the first, if not second date.
So if she's not putting out for you relatively fast, you know, maybe she's trying to kind of convince you she's not, you know, those kind of girls.
So she's trying to like rehab her image.
Like, you know, to Pearl's point and kind of like past segments she's done, a lot of girls want to change their image as they get older.
And they don't want the new guys that they're trying to settle down with to think of them as kind of like the old whore.
So they kind of repaint their image.
They'll make you wake longer and see if you're taking them out and courting them before they put out.
Like, this is pretty common for a lot of women, especially as they get into their 30s.
So they try to like sell you this Christian image or this like, I'm a conservative girl.
Look how I dress image.
You can sell that at, why don't they try selling that at 20?
You know what I mean?
You could sell that at 20, maybe even like 23.
I would cap it maybe.
Some of you, I'd even maybe say 25, but 30.
I'm like, you can't really sell purity then.
Yeah, it's there's too many guys that will fall for it.
They'll be like, oh, finally, I found the one who's not like all the others.
And she's 32.
She's 33.
Like, there's, there's too many naive guys who, once they feel like they finally got the girl who just gets along with them magically, you know, it's, it's, uh, too many guys are a little bit naive.
So that's just what I've kind of noticed.
So when you were in the relationship or married, did were other women hitting on you more?
Like your friends?
I mean, it was a relationship.
We weren't married.
We were kind of headed that way, but I kind of cut it off when I saw a lot of the crazy, crazy.
But no, I mean, I saw extreme jealousy whenever I would like get compliments from other girls or I would talk about past girls who've complimented me even before she's even met me.
And you just see like very extreme jealousy on her face.
Like it starts to get pretty toxic, but you can kind of tell like there's almost like an obsession component where she feels like she's competing against past girls you slept with or past girls you've dated.
So they will absolutely change their behavior for guys who I'll say either they are madly in love with or obsessed with or view as the best that they can get.
How was the crash out when you dumped her?
The crash out was very hard.
Like, because she ran back to me like the next day and she was like, can we not be broken up?
Can we be like separated?
And I'm like, no, we're not doing that.
And then like within a few days, like a friend of mine sent me some screenshots and he's like in the dating market.
He's like, dude, I just saw her on a dating app.
And I'm like, what the hell?
Like, you know, she's staying somewhere else.
You know, we're broken up up.
No, she's got to get under someone to get over someone.
I mean, that's what, like, you, you know, you know, if a girl says she's just out of a relationship, get ready, fellas.
You're getting laid tonight.
Yeah.
And so I called her up like the next day just to check on her, see how she's doing because I could tell she's like feeling abandoned and things like that.
And I talked with her and just kind of like calmed her down and just said, hey, you know, let's see how things go.
Let's be broken up, but let's, you know, just to kind of like get her to calm down.
And then like my friend texted me like immediately the next day, like, oh, yeah, she's logged off the app.
So I could tell, like, you know, sometimes girls feel, they don't like rejection.
Let's put it that way.
They don't take it very well.
And some girls feel like they have to swing from one guy to another to feel like they're still wanted, if that makes sense.
Yeah.
See, but I'm going to correct you on one thing, Sean.
Rejection is on the front end.
Closure is on the back end.
You gave her closure and you never give a woman closure ever.
Ever.
That's true.
But if you want that girl to come back for like, you know, fuck around sex, like not take her seriously, but not give her a relationship.
You can't like fully reject her.
You kind of always have to kind of like keep her around enough.
What are the phrases you would say to make her feel comfortable to come back?
I would just text her like, you know, W-Y-D or like, you know, how's it going?
Do you want to come over and just, you know, see my dog?
Like, stupid shit like that, just to like give her any excuse to like, you know, come back over, but like not stay, just like kind of go back to dating, but like, I don't have any formal commitment to her.
So like, I'll say if a girl just really, really likes you, she's down for stuff like that.
Like the breakup sex, the, you know, whatever you want to call it, kind of after you guys have split, they're always down for that.
And quite frankly, they'll ignore a lot of nice guys who are asking them out day to day because they're so obsessed with one guy who they really like or a guy who they'd hope to be with.
They'll just ignore all the nice guys around their area.
So that's pretty common.
Even if a girl is in a relationship or broken up or, you know, obsessed with somebody else, that's just how they're going to be.
They're always going to go for their best.
Just don't get got, man, because sex after the relationship, sex during that whole, we're going to slowly break up phase.
It usually ends up in kids.
I've seen more guys get got with sex on the way out the door, man.
Oh, man.
Yeah.
I mean, I never hit it raw because I don't trust any of these girls.
Like, I grew up in the hood.
So, like, I know that all these girls having abortions, they're not having protected sex.
So, like, I never even allow girls to tempt me with that.
Hey, we don't need to use condoms or anything like that because I just know how they are.
You know what I mean?
Yeah.
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I've cheated and been cheated.
I'm not proud of it, but good memories are good memories.
And the spank bank is never really full.
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Yeah, we can hear you.
Okay.
Oh, yeah.
Yeah, I was a little bit behind on the YouTube part.
That's all right.
So tell me, have you ever been propositioned by your wife or girlfriend's friends?
Did you tell her?
And did you say yes?
So about that, me and my ex actually, we went to the joined the army together.
Here we go.
So we actually went to two different basic trainings.
And in basic, I had one and they knew I was married.
And she just wouldn't leave me alone.
Nothing came of it.
We went to AIT.
We went to medic school was down in San Antonio.
My wife was in the same training unit I was in, but she was in a different platoon.
And it was like majority female, like 60% female.
And there was the females in my platoon who knew I was married and knew who she was because they lived in the same barracks.
They would constantly come up to me, even though they knew I was married and knew my wife was in the same company.
There was one that actually came up and asked me, like, was like, you don't have to break up with her, but would you let me be your mistress?
I'm like, no.
Like, just never was left alone.
And that was a pretty big thing when it came to a lot of females in the military.
Were you ever really close to doing it?
Like, where you were like really, really tempted and you almost did?
When I was in the same company as her, no.
She actually had to get removed.
Like, she was getting taken out of the army because they found she had a heart murmur.
And I was going to a different training when I finished my time with the medics.
And there was, it was one of those where I had a chance and I really wish I did it because find out she cheated on me where I was in a different unit that was in Missouri and I was taking a taxi and this other female that I didn't know at all.
We were in the same taxi together and we got really, really close to doing it and I was married.
So I was like, no, I'm not going to do it.
And she got off the taxi and I left.
How did you find out your wife cheated?
It wasn't.
The story with this is that because she stayed in San Antonio and she was put into the health company where they, you know, take people out for health reasons.
Uh, there was a hotel that was on base where they put all like the um like people that prior service are switching their jobs.
And there was a hotel party, and the unit that I was training in, you don't have cell phones or anything, you have to use payphones, so I don't get to really talk to her much.
When I talked to her on the phone, she had told me that she went to a hotel party that was already given to me, like, something fucking happened.
And she told me, like, she woke up in bed with a guy who I knew he was.
And I'm like, she's like, there's nothing to happen.
I'm like, that's bullshit.
Like, I know that was bullshit.
Why would she?
Why wouldn't she just like, if she was gonna, why'd she tell you?
So she told you that?
Yeah.
Because, like, I knew people that were there and they were gonna tell me one way or another.
Oh, so she knew that.
Oh, and so her way out was to say she slept in the same bed and nothing happened.
Yeah, like she woke up in bed and the guy was there with her.
Yeah.
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What's good, Pearl?
Hope you're well.
Keep doing great things.
Thank you, Chris.
Thank you for the super chat.
I appreciate it.
You got any other stories for our questions for him, Doug?
I said earlier that I wish I would have cheated because my ex cheated on me.
Was there one that you wish you would have got back?
If you could go back, oh, did you hit her up after too?
Yeah.
No, I didn't know who she was.
It was one of those, like, we just, because it was me and a buddy of mine, we were leaving PX and we were going to, I forgot, USO.
I think that's what they're called.
It's whatever that little rec center is.
And her and her buddy were getting like trying to go to the same place.
They asked if we get in the taxi, like, joined us, and me and her were sitting in the back seat talking.
And we got really close, like, faces really close.
Like, we were going to kiss.
And then I backed off.
Never got a name, never got nothing.
Just let it go.
But you wish you did now?
Oh, yeah.
100%.
Like, she, she, she looked great.
For somebody that was in a military uniform, she looked amazing.
This is like early 2010s when you couldn't do all the extra stuff.
Yeah.
Cool.
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Hello.
Hey.
How are you doing, buddy?
Hello.
Can you hear me?
Yeah, I'm good.
How are you?
Hi, Pearl.
How's it going?
I've been just mostly just watching your shorts on and off.
I haven't really gotten a chance to see the podcast, but I saw there was just a call in.
How's it going?
Good.
Did you hear the topic?
Sort of, yeah.
It was the general topic was whether other women start coming after you if you're in a relationship.
Yeah, so has that been an experience for you?
It has.
Give me a minute.
I've got your video going on in the background.
That was annoying.
Okay.
Sorry.
Yeah, no, that's happened with me before.
Something that I actually just recently got out of an engagement, of all things.
And something that I noticed right away.
She gave me a ring as well.
And she never wanted me to give it back to her, right?
It was, you know, a cheap little thing.
It's a little, I've got it on right now.
It's this little golden snake thing, real cute.
But I noticed every time I went out to, you know, where I normally go, like I go to this tabletop shop, all the nerd chicks, I didn't get any attention whatsoever.
And they'd all come by and they'd be like, hey, what are you doing?
And I'm just like, where's this coming from?
And then I heard about this phenomenon where you have a fake ring or whatever, where people think you're engaged or married.
I heard that was a thing.
And I thought, wait, is that what's doing it?
And it's like Lord of the Rings where you put it on and you turn invisible, right?
But Sauron sees you.
That's what it felt like.
And it was so surreal.
I had that happen.
In fact, the last week, the last week before the engagement got called off, something that ended up happening.
We were at Costco.
And I'm being all, you know, friendly and lovey-dovey with my fiancé at the time.
We're buying some things.
We sit down, grab something at the grab something at the cafeteria to get like my dog or pizza or something.
And this woman just straight up comes to our table, drops a piece of paper, has her number on it, gives me a wink.
my my fiance at the time my ex-fiance she obviously just goes off but i'm just how old was the woman that approached you Oh, well, I'm 32.
My fiancé was 27.
The woman that approached me, she looked maybe three, five years younger.
Oh, wow.
Okay.
I've heard that older women are the most likely to be side checks, like 30 late 30s.
I was just curious.
I think what it was is I was helping her out get things for her apartment.
Oh, and she was covering a lot of it herself, right?
So, but I think that woman saw, oh my God, he's like buying all of this shit.
I want me some of that.
I think just the cart of all of the kitchen appliances was like, ooh, he's loaded.
Because it came out to a hefty sum between both of us.
And it was like, ooh.
The weird thing is that fiancé, after we broke up, her sister started coming after me.
No.
I shit you not.
Her sister.
And I want to stress: I met my ex-fiancé off a hinge.
And in a way, it's kind of like being a bit of a passport bro because she was from Tanzania.
She was African.
Okay.
But she'd been living in the U.S. for five years.
I had never met most of her immediate family.
Her aunt lives here around where we're at.
But I got a text message about three or four days after things were called off.
And I'm like, who the hell is this?
I was like, oh, this is your ex-fiancé sister.
I'm like, what do you want?
Because I thought she was going to chew me out because, oh, how dare you do that to my sister?
Right.
No.
She was like, hey, I'm going to be in America sometime this week.
What are you doing?
And I'm like, why?
Wait, did you, did you take her up on it?
I did not.
I did not because I'll be honest, I was feeling real shit because it was my first engagement.
And I was, you know, kind of, kind of in a depressed state.
But.
You don't want to be that guy that messes around with some girl's sister, man.
Oh, fuck, no.
Fuck no.
But I mean, why not?
The thing about her is, I mean, I don't know if it was a case of I could fix her, but whatever's wrong with her is way hotter.
Because when I saw her profile, I shit you not.
I have a screenshot of this.
It said, life goal of mine, get pregnant.
And so this was on Hinge.
And this woman, she, again, I think it's, you know, she's African, a more traditional kind of lady, 27.
You know, Westerners tend to be a little later nowadays.
Right.
So I think she was getting the whole, oh, God, I'm an old maid.
I need to do something.
Yeah.
Right.
And so I took her up on that because I. Did you, you got it done?
No, I didn't knock her up.
Oh, okay.
I didn't knock her up.
The fucked up thing is we were going pretty good for about six months.
She wanted to get knocked up.
And my whole thing was, if I'm doing that, I'm not contributing to America's single problem.
You know what I mean?
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
And so I told her straight up, let's take it a little easy.
We'll get the ball rolling.
And then, you know, I asked her around March.
And, you know, the fucked up thing is they say that the faucet turns off after you get married.
No, The faucet turns off when you get fucking engaged, apparently, even though you have baby rabies.
It was the weirdest shit.
Really?
So she just stopped sleeping with you?
Well, well, no, it's she wanted to jump right into it.
I'm talking within the first week.
She's like, hey, come over.
I'm on my cycle.
Let's try this.
And I was like, all right, slow the fuck down.
Right.
And around, I met her in September, and she invited me to stay a few times throughout the holidays at her apartment, and which we did things about three or four times.
And then March rolls around.
I ask her.
Everything immediately turns off.
And that's when, you know, that's part of the reason why we ended up cutting it off because of all things.
Oh, man, I'll tell you that the story of the story of why she cut it off is the wildest shit.
I stood up to a Karen, and apparently her extended family didn't like that.
She invited me.
My fiancé invited me over for lunch at her aunt's duplex thing, right?
Rest of her family wasn't there.
It was just me, her.
She invited me over to lunch.
She cooked, amazing cook, really good food.
I'm sitting there after we're done eating.
Doorbell rings and I answer, and it's the neighbor in the duplex.
Another minute because we have like seven more people on the line.
So go ahead.
It's anyway, she was like, Hey, you got to move your car.
And I didn't fight her and I moved it right.
So she ended up.
I ended up moving the car.
I didn't fight with the Karen lady, but it turns out she tried to get my fiancé's aunt in trouble and call the realtor and the landlord and stuff like that for me complying.
So I went back and I decided to park on that street, just like eating my dinner in the car, just hoping she would come out and I give the bitch a piece of my mind.
And her aunt comes out and gives me shit for it.
And then all of a sudden, my fiancé starts turning on me.
And then when we went to Costco, she had stopped wearing the ring as a result of that.
And I'm like, if I'm going to start buying you shit, you put that fucking ring back on.
And that's how it went downhill.
Wow.
Yeah.
Okay.
So, yeah, I got what?
I got maybe two, three times out of it.
But yeah, no.
Word of warning for the people who want to go down the passport bro route.
You got some, you know, you got some wolves and sheep's clothing.
You know what I mean?
Yeah.
Yeah.
100%.
We hear horror stories about it all the time.
Yeah.
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We really appreciate it, buddy.
Call.
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Next, we have he called her last time, but he was a really good call, so I'll let him back on.
We have SoCal Lowbrow coming back up.
I've seen him in the chat, I think.
Yeah, SoCal, you're on mute.
Odds are he's watching the YouTube, so it'll be like five to ten seconds, guys.
You got to turn the YouTube off once you hit the Zoom link, please.
Hey, what's up, guys?
SoCal, what's up, buddy?
Yeah, yeah, what's up?
I was uh, yesterday I talked to you guys.
Uh, yeah, so okay, speaking about, you know, saying married men, married women, right?
I will say this, or girlfriends, or whatever.
I'd never been married, but I will tell you this.
I was dating a girl for a long period of time, and uh, she had a girlfriend that she would, you know, bring around, and she was hot to trot to her fucking fault, right?
And so, of course, you know, uh, one night we went out, we were drinking, sat on my lap, and I'm telling this girl, like, do you see this?
Like, do you see this?
She didn't give a fuck, but anyway, as things went on, they progressed.
I broke up with this chick, and then I started smashing on her.
And her name is Nancy, nasty Nancy.
I started smashing on her, proceeds to that.
She finds out that you know, uh, you know, uh, that I'm smashing her, she gets super jealous, and then again, that's when baby rabies comes in.
She wanted to have a child with me right after that.
It is just the craziest thing in the world.
The thing is, you don't need a ring, guys.
The funniest thing in the world is you have to have a sob story if you want to attract women of certain propositions in time and in your life.
I always say that I had two kids and a wife, and they died in a car accident.
And I'm out here celebrating the anniversary that I dated her or married her.
It's like craziest shit in the world, and it always works.
And I get really sad, and then you know, I start to cry a little bit like I shed a tear in the bar.
Oh, really?
Yeah, they died, they burned up.
Oh, my God!
I see you.
Come on, guys.
No, it does work, girl.
You think I'm bothered?
You know what?
If I was at the bar with you and they said, Did that really happen?
Do you know what I'd say?
I'd say it did.
It's been really hard for him.
Yeah, no, no, trust me.
And you have to fucking pin it down by days and you have to go backtracking like before the internet.
Like, oh, this happened in 2020 when I was 25.
Was newly married and my kids burned up and she burned up too.
And they're fucking dead now.
Aw, you know, I fucking love that shit.
You don't need a ring.
You just say that you had a ring.
You know what I mean?
But on the other thing, bro, this, this, what I'm saying is this fucking podcast is off the goddamn rails.
Here's the other thing about married women, right?
This happened in Vegas in 2017.
I met a girl in the bar.
She's obviously married with her girlfriends.
You know, I'm here from LA, they're from LA.
And within five minutes, that's how easy women are.
Within five minutes, I just said, Hey, do you want to F?
And she's like, Sure.
Well, I had just got to Vegas.
We couldn't even get into the room, her room, because she was staying with her girlfriends.
So I swear to God, this is a true goddamn story here.
I literally went to the parking lot with her and we started to try to open up doors of random cars.
And it actually freaking happened where there was a Ford Explorer, it was red, and the door was unlocked.
And I put her in there and we had sex in a random car of a random person that I never knew.
That is the truth.
Any guy that gets married, I mean, like, you're really, I don't know what the hell these guys are up to, but I don't know what these guys are thinking.
That really happened.
I mean, women are freaking insane, just like man.
I mean, that shit, I was like, what?
I think I'm going to get murdered here, you know?
So, have you ever, um, did have you ever been in a relationship and the girl's friends try to sleep with you?
Yeah, yeah.
What I said, Nancy, she did.
And then I did smash her.
And then, of course, I sent my ex-girlfriend pictures and videos this many years ago.
And then, of course, that's when she got baby rabies.
So then I was, I was, I started smashing her and their friend.
It was the best thing, Nancy.
And my ex-girlfriend's name is Christina.
And she's a total mess now.
I think that I really contributed to her downfall in terms of her alcoholism.
And I'm really happy about that.
See, guys, we win.
You know, it's like, it's the funniest thing in the world.
You know, like, can you crush a woman?
Yeah, you can.
Wow.
Yeah.
No, I'm being serious.
I mean, it is insanity.
When you go for married women, are you ever nervous you're going to get like shot or something?
Of course.
And that's what turns me on.
As a matter of fact, you guys ever heard of a biker group called the Mongols?
No.
Okay.
Well, they're over here in LA.
Look them up.
They're like the Hells Angels.
They kill each other left and right.
So I was messing around with a bartender, literally who lives down the street from me.
And she was with a Mongol.
And that's really bad.
And I would still smash her.
I was like, dude, yes, that's what makes it exciting.
It's like the best thing in the world.
Like, am I going to die tonight?
Am I going to F?
And I'm going to go to the bathroom.
I hope I don't see you in the news.
Okay.
Thank you.
No, God.
No, but I'm careful.
Yeah.
It's, but that's what I'm saying.
Like, this, this show is off the rails, bro.
But that's the thing.
Like, there's so many stories like that, but it is so exciting.
You know, when you like just do these crazy things, I'm like, am I going to come home tonight?
And then you do, and you're like, how the hell did I get back?
Who knows?
You know, but yeah, like, that's the thing.
Guys, here's the thing, right?
If you want to get laid without even trying, always say that your daughter and your son and your wife burned up in a car accident.
They got, they crashed on the I-5 or, you know, the I-45, whatever the F it is, right?
And you make a sad story about it.
How do you bring that up?
So, like, let's, let's role play here.
So, I said, I'm sitting at the bar.
Are you going to open to me or do I open?
Are you crying?
And I'm like, why are you crying?
No, I wouldn't cry.
Okay, pro, you're a pretty girl, right?
So, this is what I would do.
I would be sitting at the bar.
Say you come in, right?
You're wearing, you know, your dress or whatever, and you sit down next to me.
And I'll just say, Hey, how's it going?
What's your name?
You'll tell me your name, right?
And I'm like, Shay, well, what are you doing here alone?
Well, you know, I'm just, you know, I'm just having a drink here.
You know, I like coming here.
I haven't seen you around.
I'm just celebrating life.
And then you will tell me, oh, what are you celebrating?
Well, I'm celebrating life.
You know, it's the anniversary of my wife's death.
What?
See, see, that intrigues you right there.
That's good.
That intrigues you.
You see, bro, even you're laughing because you'd be like, what?
And then I'm like, yeah, well, you know, my wife does.
That's a smooth way to go.
That's a smooth way to bring it in.
Exactly.
Even you're laughing because I will catch your ass too.
You know what I mean?
I'm like, when did they die?
I did that in New Mexico, 2007.
What?
What?
And like, you can't look that shit up.
What are you going to go on the micro fiche in the library and fucking look up what happened in 2007 and off of fucking Las Cruces, New Mexico?
No, you're not.
But you're going to be like, damn, this motherfucker was married and he's been single.
Yes, I will suck his dip tonight.
You know what I mean?
That's really what it is.
But it's the truth, bro.
See, even you're caught.
Even you're caught right now.
You'll be like, damn, that is a good line.
Yeah, it is a good line.
Thanks for calling it, my guy.
We're fucking off the roast tonight.
I think, bro, I think this is like one of the best podcasts, but I'll let you go.
But dude, this is fucking hilarious.
We see, I even caught your ass.
All right, bro.
Thank you.
Call anytime.
Yeah.
Okay.
Celebrating life and then he flips it.
That was funny.
So you go from like a high to a low.
Oh, your wife died.
Oh, celebrate.
I'd be like, celebrating life.
That's awesome.
Yeah, because my wife died.
All right.
Brad is coming up next.
Brad, you better be ready because you weren't ready last time.
You put in the chat for me to bring you back up and I'm bringing you back up.
He's joining.
How many likes have we got?
Let me see.
Guys, we dropped below 500 viewers.
Come on, I'm giving you gold tonight.
I'm giving you gold.
Can we like this video?
You know, and subscribe if you haven't already.
Brad, it says he's joining.
Hope he doesn't have a struggle internet out here.
Brad, it says he's joining.
Well, we will let it's just saying joining.
So we're going to try have a talk to him in a little bit.
So we'll let Letch Walisa in and hope.
Let's how you doing?
Hi, can you hear me?
Yep.
How you doing, buddy?
Hey, thanks for having me on again.
Hey, so what do you, what are your thoughts on the topic?
Have you ever had a wife or a girlfriend's friend try to hook up with you while you're dating or married to her?
Yeah, so I think it's a matter of validation for the woman where they want to feel like they're so great that they can get any guy and not just any guy, like they can get any guy to abandon their life, abandon their partner for the woman.
That's why a man that's taken is just a lot more attractive.
So I With caveat one exception, I've never had um my girlfriend's friends fail me while we were dating.
But after we immediately broke up, there were a few proposals.
But I think throughout my life, like during the time I was in a relationship compared to when I was single, I would get hit on a lot more when I was in a relationship, um, like significantly more.
And I think I didn't have a ring or anything, they were just my girlfriends.
Um, but I think it's also a matter of demeanor where I'm approaching them from a stance where like I'm clearly taking I'm not interested, and because of that, they're a lot more intrigued.
Um, so like interesting story is okay, yeah.
So, uh, interesting story is uh, when I was in college, there was um um uh brunette um that I was hooking up with, um, and she had a boyfriend at the time, um, but she would uh I think like the trick to it is I would just tell her whatever she's doing, she's like absolute right.
So she would say, like, oh man, my boyfriend, he's emotionally abusive.
Like, I would tell him that you and I, uh, like we're just friends, um, and we're not hooking up, there's nothing to worry about.
And I would tell her, it's like, yeah, no, you're completely right.
He's being emotionally abusive here.
Um, even though, like, I've been here throughout this entire story, I know what's actually going on.
We are hooking up.
Um, so I think, like, it just um, when reality distorts from their worldview, you have to tell them that it's the world that's wrong, and you're completely in the right here.
Yeah, that's funny.
Thanks for calling in, calling anytime.
Okay, yeah, thanks for having me out.
Have a good one, buddy.
I know we have a good amount of callers, so I'm trying to Brad.
I'm going to try you one more time.
I saw you click on and click off and click back on.
Uh, I don't know if it's like your struggle Wi-Fi or something, I don't know, but this is the last time.
Uh, your call better be interesting.
You better get right to the point.
It says joining.
I don't know what's going on with you, Brad.
Uh, I'll tell Brian one more time.
How many people are how many people are on the line?
Uh, there's one more person, okay?
So, let me see.
Brian's not responding, and so I'm gonna kick him out because I don't know why if you are not going to be here.
Um, next DaQuan, I'll let you in.
I think his name is actually DaQuan.
I use that sometimes, Chad Tyrone DaQuan.
Are you there?
Yeah, DaQuan, would you consider yourself a Tyrone?
No, I mean, I mean, not really.
I'm just regular, um, regular young 34-year-old black man from Trenton, New Jersey.
You heard?
Yeah, I use your name sometimes for a guy that like runs through a lot of women.
And I was just curious if the shoe fits or no.
That's what I did.
That's what I did in Oklahoma City.
Like what I was telling my girl earlier.
I had a friend when I was in Oklahoma City.
I had moved in from Trenton, New Jersey, about like probably 2021.
I had moved back this year, whatever.
She was asking me, she was like, Okay, when you was back home in Jersey on the East Coast, Jersey, Philly, New York, was the, you know, how was the girls?
And I was like, It's hard because you know what I'm saying?
Were you on the East Coast trying to talk to a girl or going home to the club or whatever?
They're just like, No.
So when I had moved to Oklahoma City or whatever, I was thinking, like, I went to the club and I found out you could actually go home with a chick.
I'm like, I thought that was only in movies.
So, um, my friend, so you had a good time, huh?
Well, yeah, well, yeah, my friend, um, she had actually, she was like, You think you got more confidence now when you go back home on the East Coast?
You think, you know, because you got more confidence or something like that, that it'll trickle off when you get over there and rub off.
I said, probably not, but I'll let you know.
So she asked me this in 2022, right?
So when I got back this year, I had called her and said, remember when you asked me this?
I said, the answer is no.
It's the same way.
Depending on where you go, small town, big city, whatever, it's going to be, you know, you can have different experiences and dating, you know?
So tell me, have you ever had been in a relationship or married and had a girl's friend try to hook up with you?
The answer is no, not at all.
Nope.
I know people try to make up different stories and stuff, but I'm like, no.
Now it's probably a couple of friends I wish I could have hit.
You heard, but you're so your girlfriend's friends have always been loyal.
They've never done it.
Hell yeah.
A couple of them was looking good, but they wasn't trying to do it.
Don't do nothing, you know.
I asked one of my friends, X first for four, threesome or whatever.
My girl would have did it, but she was like, nah, she was kind of, you know what I'm saying?
Yeah.
Okay.
It was kind of like, it was kind of like that or whatever.
I had that, you know, I know.
I, you know, I just basically, you know, probably just been dealing with chicks with good friends or whatever like that.
Cool.
Well, it's good.
It's good to hear a different story than the normal one.
So thanks for calling in.
Calling anytime.
All right.
You already know.
I met I name dropped you on my comedy session in New York last week.
Oh, really?
Yeah.
Is there a video?
Yeah.
Well, yeah.
I'll react to it if it's live.
Can you DM it to me?
Yeah, but I have to.
I'm waiting on them to.
I have once I pay the $30 or whatever, they're going to email it to me.
I'll probably get it like next week or whatever.
And then I could DM it to you when I get it.
What was the bet?
Can I get an idea of what it's about?
Okay.
So it's about like this.
You're going to love it.
It was about when you were talking about every chick love bad boys.
And I put every chick loves bad boys.
But I put my name dropped probably three different races or whatever.
And what a bad boy is for each race of woman.
And we all know, I mean, come on now.
Like, when I got to the black part, I was like, yeah, that's the one you all been looking for.
Okay.
Yeah.
So I basically, you know what I'm saying?
I described what a bad boy is to all of them different, you know, races.
It was inspired by you.
You know what I'm saying?
You're my favorite white girl on YouTube.
Matter of fact, in the world, matter of fact.
Thank you.
Well, I appreciate the name drop.
So send it to me and I'll react to it.
Okay.
Yeah.
How would I send it to you?
You can just do it on Twitter, pearly things with a Z.
I usually check DMs.
Or Twitter, Pearly Things with a Z. Or email.
You can email it to me.
Just pearly things, a Gmail.
Just further things.
If you put comedy thing in like the name drop, I'll see another comedy thing in DaQuan in New Jersey.
And I'll bet you remember me.
All right.
I will.
Thank you very much for calling in.
Thank you very much.
Bye-bye.
Bye.
Oh, we're going to bring up Eric.
Eric is coming up.
I want to talk to him.
Eric, what's up, buddy?
Hello.
Hey, Eric.
How's it going?
Yeah, what's all the hubbub, Bub?
I don't really know what that means, but okay.
You're too young.
Yeah, it's an old Bugs Bunny line.
But yeah, it's a good topic because, you know, like I think that, you know, I've been married twice.
And of course, you know, I'm a cusp, you know, like boomer Gen X guy.
You know, I almost made it into Gen X.
But so, you know, most of my dating experience is from like the late 70s through the 90s.
And then, of course, I wound up married and stuff.
I can tell you for a, at least in my experience, the most, the most, you know, how do you word this?
I mean, I frequently got the, you know, the batting eyes and the flirting when I had a wedding ring on my finger.
And it didn't matter whether I was deployed overseas or, you know, out of town for training or even like, you know, with my wife and our friends in some local tavern.
It's almost like it's almost like women have a magnetic attraction for, you know, men who demonstrate that they can commit.
Yeah, and if you cheat and if you cheat with her, it's like a double whammy because not only can you commit, but you can also cheat.
And we love both.
Yeah.
Yeah.
Okay.
Well, the thing is, and here's the funny thing is, is, you know, and this is what always used to strike me was I was like, well, if you think that I would cheat with you, what makes you think that I wouldn't cheat on you?
But it's like an ego thing.
We want to feel like we're better.
And we're doing that.
Yeah, that was mentioned earlier from one of the other callers.
You know, my, you know, I've, like I said in my super chat, I've cheated.
I've been cheated on.
And I've had like other, like in my first marriage, which was from 1992 to 1996.
I divorced her because she was financially irresponsible.
I never divorced her simply because, you know, she was banging one of my buddies, right?
Because, you know, like one of the guys I was stationed with down there in New Orleans, I respected him.
I liked him.
He was an amazing male specimen.
And his wife was similar.
And I wanted to get in her pants.
He took a shining to my wife.
And, you know, we were drinking in the French quarter one night.
Oh, man.
And we decided to go back home and sort of have a forsom.
Except it didn't really wind up being a forsom.
It was just really wife swapping or husband swapping, whatever.
And so, what used to happen for a while was like if I was on 24-hour duty, I could pretty much count on the idea that him, his wife, and my wife were having a threesome.
And if he had the duty, it was going to be me, you know, having the threesome with them.
And, you know, so like it wasn't the sex that broke us up.
And we were secure in our relationships.
It's not like we were going to leave each other for the others.
But yeah, it is interesting.
Did it like it didn't bother you seeing your wife get like banged out by another dude?
Well, that's the thing.
I never actually saw it.
I don't know how I would have, you know, I don't know how I would have reacted if we'd have actually done an in-the-same room for some situation.
But when it comes down to it, I really didn't, you know, I mean, honestly, when it comes down to male instincts and all the testosterone, I just didn't care about her that much.
You know, I mean, I wanted to bang his wife as much as I, you know, cared about her, I guess.
You know, so, you know, we're like, she's expensive anyway if she wants to go.
Yeah.
Yeah.
She's a financial retard.
God take her.
You can imagine.
She's making my dip dick go limp.
You know, okay.
So, so second marriage, was it similar?
Like no, second marriage was a nightmare, actually.
Because, yeah, it's too long a story to tell on your show.
But yeah, my second ex had apparently had quite the body count by the time she even, you know, like graduated high school.
And I was 14 years older than her.
And, you know, so I was like in my mid-30s and she was 21.
And she was like, oh, I'm over all that.
I've had my fun.
I want to settle down.
And I was like, sure, you do.
And about, you know, seven-year-itch being what it is, she, you know, she pulled the pill on the fat grenade.
And, you know, I still loved her, though.
But then what happened was because, you know, it was blamed on a thyroid problem.
It always is.
Yeah, she a surgeon, you know, gave her a gastric bypass.
And within about a year, she lost a hundred-something pounds and got back into her 5-2, you know, 5-2 train.
And other men started to notice her, and she liked it.
And, you know, but again, with her, it was the financial irresponsibility and recklessness that caused me to divorce her because, you know, I, you know, biologically, I mean, call me a sigma male, but as long as someone doesn't bring home an STD, I'm not concerned with who else they might be fucking.
I never was.
I was, you know, I was raised in the 60s and early 70s.
And, you know, so it was like, I mean, would I have liked to have a wife like Esme Williams, where every time I come home from work, there's a hot dinner on the table and she's totally, you know, there's total fidelity to me.
Sure, who wouldn't want that?
But you know how rare someone like Esme Williams is?
You know, so here's my thing about cheating.
It's, you know, would you ask yourselves if you're in a relationship that you consider to be serious with someone, would you feel any better if they offered their bodies to other people and got rejected?
Because as far as I'm concerned, the moment they offer their body, the cheating has in fact occurred.
Pre-mafation.
You know, it doesn't matter.
The only thing worse about catching your guy cheating is going through his phone and watching and have seen girls put leave him on bread.
Yeah, well, you know, that's like, yeah, like that's what you're saying, right?
That's like a meme.
Yeah, go ahead.
Yeah, yeah.
It's, yeah, I mean, if you're really hardcore about, you know, fealty in your relationship, you know, fidelity, then, you know, if you're a man and, you know, your wife has offered her body to another man, your problem is not with that other man, it's with your wife.
And whether he banged her or not, it's the same thing.
I mean, she offered her body to another man.
You can no longer trust her.
Yeah.
And it's the same for the wife.
You know, if the husband's out trying to freaking sow his oats all the time, you know, she has to decide whether it's worth it for her to stick with them.
But getting back to the topic, yeah, I think that the most opportunities, even when I was in my 20s and I was a lifeguard, you know, in my teens and 20s, and then, you know, being a rescue swimmer in the Coast Guard and all that, you know, there's a certain kind of woman who goes for guys who fight fires, rescue people, right?
Or, you know, and so you'd have to like suss them out and find them.
Excuse me.
But yeah, I'm old as a Galabagas tortoise.
So I, you know, I get frogs in my throat pretty easily.
But the thing is, so I used to have to like, you know, I used to like zero in on those kind of girls.
But once I had a wedding ring on my finger, I mean, even my wife's best friends, you know, they'd flirt.
And I'm not talking about like, you know, frivolous flirting.
They'd flirt like, hey, you know, I understand your wife's going off for three days in Florida.
You know, so-and-so is going off to do some training for her job.
What are you doing tomorrow?
Yeah.
Yeah, well, you know, I'm not doing you.
But yeah, it's like, unless we can, unless we can swap.
Yeah, well, yeah, true.
Yeah.
Well, like in one case, it was another Coast Guard wife who lived about 300 yards up and across the street from us.
We were very close with their family.
And, you know, her husband had been a shipmate of mine when we were just getting started in the Coast Guard.
And, you know, if he'd have been anybody else, I would have absolutely freaking banged her while my wife was away.
The guys in the chat.
Sorry, I've got limits.
I'm a man.
I got to ask.
The guys in the chat want to know about the mannequins.
What's going on?
Oh, in the back?
Oh, they're not mannequins.
They're dolls.
I've got about $30,000 invested in dolls and their clothes and their makeup and their wigs.
They all have human hair wigs, which are pretty expensive.
But yeah, in 2016 was, and I'm an old freaking Galapagos tortoise kind of guy, but 2016 was the last time I got involved with the biological woman.
And about a year, well, maybe about three or four months after I decided I was done, you know, trying to swim the salmon ladder, so to speak.
I had been watching a video, videos that mainly covered like news and social commentary from a creator called Turtfling Monkey, who he's not on YouTube anymore because he got yeeted from YouTube after about five years of videos there.
But he started another channel before he got yeeted showing his doll.
And I was like, well, shit.
I was like, okay, so if, you know, if a chimpanzee can feel like they've got company with a, you know, a stuffed chimpanzee, I'm like, well, I'm a primate.
So maybe I'll get one of these dolls.
And so I did.
And I dress them and I do their makeup and the hair and stuff.
It's kind of like a Charlie's Angels thing.
Are they like, are they sex dolls or are they just normal dolls?
Well, they're sexually capable, but you know, you're not going to get, you're not going to get a whole lot of afterglow from a sex doll.
I mean, it's like a fleshlight with the effigy of a rubber woman attached to it.
You know, it's just not a big deal.
Now, I don't, I'll tell you what, if I could have been saved a lot of frustration when I was like a young man if I if I'd have been given one of these dolls straight out of high school as a graduation gift.
Oh, really?
You know, yeah, because the pressure would have been off.
You know, I was like, well, I'm going to get my post-nut clarity whether she wants to or not.
You know, so I can date this one chick.
And if she rejects me, I'll just go home to my doll.
You know, I mean, but I don't, I don't recommend going MGTOW monk or going 100% into sex dolls if you're a young fella, like, you know, younger than 40 anyway.
Yeah.
But for me, they're just fun.
You know, they're like, like when I was a kid, I used to love statues.
We'd go to like the, what do you call it? The history of man in San Diego.
And I would just marvel over these amazing statues.
And that's, you know, that's kind of what I do with these.
Yeah.
I was just, I was just curious.
They're asking in the chat.
Yeah, no, I don't blame them.
I mean, you know, I got nothing to hide here.
My life now, as I, as I, you know, slide into my elder years, you know, it's all about guitars and amplifiers.
And it's nice to have a, you know, a representation of a feminine presence in the house.
And even though, even though they can't talk, they do have voices.
I figured out a way to give them each voices.
And I can always tell which one's talking based on their accent.
And like sometimes I'll walk out of my grubbies and I'll be heading for the store.
And one of the dolls will say, Eric, you are not going out in public wearing that shirt.
And I'm like, wow, she's so woman-like.
All right.
Well, thanks for calling in.
Calling anytime.
All right.
Yeah, sure thing.
Enjoy the rest of the shoe.
All right.
Have a good one.
What?
Um.
Hey, you know, everybody's got their something.
So, you know, and Eric's been a good supporter of the show.
He dropped super chats.
So I've just never, that's the first.
I wasn't expecting that.
Yeah.
You know, I wasn't expecting it either.
You know, I don't have an opinion on it on it either way.
I'm just going to say everybody's got their something.
Okay.
Do we have anyone else?
We can maybe do one more caller.
Yeah.
Guys, hit that like button.
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And I can always tell what's in the middle.
And Shred Cloud, Europe.
You have the YouTube in the background.
What's going on?
How are you guys doing?
Okay.
Did he make it?
No, he's.
Yeah.
Okay.
All right.
Sorry.
I was still catching up with the bald guy, man.
I did a little PTSD over here.
You got dolls too?
No, I don't have dolls.
I mean, I had some old G.I. Jones and I sold them during the lockdowns and whatnot, but those just were collecting dust in the basement.
Yeah.
No, no, no bedroom fun with any of those.
I was just wondering.
So tell me about cheating.
Have you ever had a girlfriend or wife's friend proposition you while in a relationship?
Okay, so that's a bit nuanced.
And I guess the short answer is yes, definitely.
The way that it happened, it was like intentionally a little bit subtle.
Like one of her friends who I actually was pretty adamant about her kind of distancing herself from because I could just tell she was a 304.
And she would just like make a lot of comments and be really touchy with me when we were around.
And one thing I found really kind of off-putting is that she would actually kind of like mimic some of my girlfriend's like mannerisms and stuff when we hung out with each other.
Almost like she was like preparing to take her place or something.
And I would tell, I would tell my girlfriend that I just thought she was weird.
But then on top of that, like she literally started like, she started mentioning things to me that were like, they were like intimate details between me and my girl.
So it's almost like bedroom or like pillow talk type stuff.
It was clear that my girlfriend had shared it with her.
And then it's like she wanted me to know that she knew.
Oh, you got a good review, huh?
Yeah, exactly.
And then my girl, that's what it turned out to be.
So again, I've never slept with any of my girls' friends while we were together.
But the fact is that that became a huge point of contention.
And we started fighting about just like her relationship with her friends.
And again, I'm not, I've never been controlled.
I really don't care who my girl hangs out with.
And even honestly, if my girl has friends that are kind of trash, then I just kind of take it into account and then I gauge how serious I'm going to take that girl based on her friends.
I'm not trying to get married.
I always tell girls that right away.
So there's just different degrees of girlfriend that happens anyway.
So if a girl really has a bunch of bad influences, then I'm really not taking her serious.
But we ended up having a lot of arguments about her friends.
And then one of our biggest arguments, we just broke up because I was like, I'm done.
I don't, I'm like, I'm not here to try to take your freedom away or like force you to act in a way you don't want to.
You want to have these kind of friends go ahead.
And then like a week later, that chick showed up at my place.
So I got you.
And then did you smash?
I did smash.
Yeah.
I was cheating at that point.
plus i plus i got to prove my point i was like i told you your girl's a hoe so did you did you tell her i didn't i did it because honestly me and uh my ex we ended on decent terms but i i'd be surprised if at some point it doesn't come up like her friend's the type that i think the smallest argument she'll probably bring it up to her but i always go no contact so i have no idea uh what happens i'm after damn so she just showed up at your house Yeah,
yeah, showed up and she's like, oh, she just like weaves some story trying to tell me that my ex thought she might have left something there.
And then I was like, there's no way because me and my ex actually, like, we had been talking that whole week and like we had hooked up a couple of times.
And like, I was 100% sure there was nothing there.
I had double checked.
She had checked her place for all my stuff.
And I was just like, yeah, there's nothing here.
But like, do you want to come inside for a second?
And then she was like, yeah.
And then by the excitement that she said, yes, I was like, okay, well, I'm going to smash.
And then I'm not talking to any of these chicks again.
And did you like initiate like what when she got into the house?
Like, did you guys just start hooking up or did she need like plausible deniability?
What?
Well, they always want plausible deniability, right?
So she came in and she was like, oh, well, she started like complimenting different stuff in my apartment because I actually had re like, like I redesigned stuff after my girl left because some of her stuff was in there and I like had gaps in my furniture and that kind of stuff.
So she started complimenting all my new stuff.
And then she's like, oh, you know, I've never seen your bedroom.
And I was like, yeah, do you want to?
And she's like, yeah, I'd love to check it out.
You have such good style, right?
So we went in there.
And yeah, basically it just happened.
As soon as we went in the bedroom, she was just like, wow, this is super nice.
And then got on my bed.
And then I basically ended shaped after that.
Yeah.
And then she'd probably, if she ever tells a story, she's like, he was all over me.
Yeah, exactly.
He like called me over even.
Like, they'll change the little details.
But the thing that I think about, sorry, go ahead.
No, no, no, go ahead.
Go ahead.
The thing I think about a lot, because I like, I feel like I was red pill before I ever knew what red pill was.
Like, I switched high schools a bunch of times when I was younger.
Sorry, I switched elementary schools.
High school, I went to one place, but I'd switched schools multiple times.
I really, I got used to having like different reactions from people.
So like I had had an experience where I showed up at school and it's like everybody just hated me because I, I guess I like somehow crossed one of the popular kids and suddenly everybody like they just turned everybody against me.
And this is like day two of me at a new school.
And then there's like another year I go to a school and I guess somebody liked my t-shirt and all of a sudden I'm the cool new kid and everybody loved me.
So I really always like was very much about taking my own perspective on stuff.
I never took other people's opinions to heart too much.
So when I got to High school, it just became obvious to me right away.
Where, like, all of the girls would, like, if you ask, or if you heard which guys girls have a crush on, they're all naming like 10 guys, right?
Like, it's not, it's not, it's not somebody for everybody.
Like, if people could say that to me a million times, I'll never buy that because the stats proved otherwise from the moment I started thinking about it at all.
Like, all these girls want either the captain of one of the teams or the guy who's in the band or somebody that's like prominent in our like social hierarchy in high school.
And then I had a buddy who like we became friends in our junior and senior years.
My first two years, I was kind of a nerd.
I played a lot of sports.
But then in the last two years, I ended up being friends with probably the most popular guy in the grade.
And this guy used to run through whole groups of girlfriends.
And like, he was the only guy that I knew that would date girls older than us, which was a big thing in high school.
And he was always getting the referral.
And just me seeing that, I was like, I couldn't even have imagined how trifling girls could be until I could just see that once he had one girl give him a good review, he would week after week go through the entire friend group.
And then typically they would just not be friends anymore after he was done with them.
Well, that'll do it.
Yeah.
Yeah.
And then, and then as I got older, I was still, I still had some nice guy tendencies.
So like, I was read through them in the sense that I figured most women and like I understood that like most people are going to do what they they feel like instinctually, which is not the best for everybody overall.
But I figured there were like, like we call them unicorns now, but I figured there was probably a decent amount, like maybe like 10% of women were really good.
And that if I just kind of like was a really nice guy myself, that eventually I'll just stumble on the really nice ones as much as I knew that the majority of them.
Well, luckily, your friend could go test them for you if you wanted.
Exactly.
The funny thing is, when I had new friends, because I went to college in a different state, I didn't hang out as much with that same buddy.
He stayed in our hometown.
And like, I would be telling new guys that I knew kind of my perspective.
They're like, oh man, you're so negative.
Like, I can't believe you think that way.
And then now I'm circling back to the original topic is that I kind of like, I recognized that I had good social skills.
I could talk to girls and like I could create interest or whatever, but I wasn't good at closing just because I always tried to give girls the benefit of the doubt.
So a lot of times there'd be openings where I probably could take them home, but I just, I just wasn't even reading the signs.
So I kind of got into the online red pill thing with the pickup and kind of just listening to guys talk about how they kind of went from conversation to bringing a girl back to their house.
And once I, once I kind of got a little bit of experience doing that, I just found that married women were the easiest to pick up.
Yeah, because it probably been the longest since they've like smashed someone else.
Yeah.
And honestly, the biggest, the biggest signifier is the fact that when we go out, I'm only going to try to approach women that are just out with other women, not with other guys, and are clearly acting like they came out to have a good time, right?
In the way that we as men are looking for.
So what would you even be doing there as a married woman unless you were you wanted some male attention, right?
At the very least, if not to also write, right place, right time, go home with some.
So I just found that like it was disturbing to me how much easier it was a lot of times for me to kind of progress things with a married woman than with a single woman.
And I honestly, I only one time hooked up with a married woman and it was without my knowledge.
Like she put her ring on the next morning.
But there's just so many times where it would end up coming up in conversation as I was trying to pick them up.
And I was just like, damn, like, not only does it suck that this is true, but it's like a major inconvenience.
I'm wasting all this time talking to a parent.
Yeah.
Yeah.
Well, thanks for calling in, calling anytime, okay?
Okay, I appreciate it, guys.
Have a good day.
All right.
See ya.
And that is everybody.
Just caught up with the chat.
I understand why people would recoil at the sight of my dolls, and I'm cool with that.
It's a $2 billion industry annually, so I know I'm not alone.
I actually might go.
A friend of mine said I could interview the guy who's making the dolls and stuff.
If you guys are interested, we could like deep dive into that.
I could probably interview people that are buying them.
And you know, you know, whatever, because it's just like the whole corn thing.
I know people in the Red Pill say, oh, yeah, I mentioned to stay away from corn, but really think about it.
If you're a young guy, you want to stay away from these money-grubbing whores, right?
And then they say that women are a distraction that'll take you off of your purpose.
You're supposed to be grinding in your 20s, but men still have sexual urges.
So what are they supposed to do?
Like not watch corn?
Are you serious?
I mean, I wouldn't say, I mean, if it's an unhealthy amount, but come on, expecting like a guy through his 20s that's trying to avoid women because they're going to be a distraction to not watch corn?
Come on now.
Yeah.
All right, guys.
You got any final thoughts, Doug MPA?
Yeah, the best cologne you can wear to get women is wife or girlfriend.
They can smell it on you.
And it's funny because if you're in a, especially if you're in a happy, I mean, it's rare, but if you're in a happy relationship or a happy marriage, and it's funny because it happens to you the happier you are, but then you're so happy that you don't really see the signs.
But your wife will, though.
That's all I got.
Yeah.
I personally, when I'm dating someone, I just don't try to have my friends spend a lot of time around them because I just, even good friends that I like and don't think would do that, I don't really want to test the water.
So that's, you know, that's, I always just try to not mix that.
If I can, you know, I'm not going to, you know.
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