Pearl Daily’s call-in episode dissects marriage decline, citing The Hill’s data: young men—down 40% in 40 years—face warnings about marriage risks (74% female-initiated divorces, custody losses) but no equivalent scrutiny for women. Callers like Samantha Amanda and JC Jackson expose double standards, from trespassing exes to false accusations costing millions, while Bucky details China’s Chin Chun Fei culture and Detox warns of emotional manipulation post-breakup. The host links Gen Z’s delayed rejection processing to social media validation and suggests Amish women may avoid modern dating pitfalls, hinting at broader societal imbalances fueling relationship collapse. [Automatically generated summary]
I mean, this headline from The Hill, it caught my eye.
Most young men are single.
Most young women are not.
Young men have fallen faster than any demographic in America over the last 40 years.
It's a different world now.
Like, we don't need men the way that they used to.
The future is female.
Men and women are drifting further apart, and society is crumbling because of it.
A fascinating debate has broken out about the value of marriage.
You've kind of got the Trad COD versus Red Pill thing.
This men's rights crowd that sometimes just goes too far the other way.
Oh, you need to stop acting like grown boys and infants and actually become men.
Marriage is a bond and it's a sacred bond.
It's a machine designed to extract resources from you.
Now many of the red-pilled have taken the position that it's bad for men to get married.
Hannah Pearl Davis or just pearly things.
One of the most controversial faces in all of the internet.
She goes on to say that marriage is a terrible deal for men.
Because if me and you were in a business contract, you would never sign a contract where I am paid to leave.
Gee, what could go wrong there?
74% or something of divorces are initiated by women.
Men have everything to lose, primarily their own children.
Men get killed by the courts and by divorce laws.
I had no idea that courts of family law were courts of equity, not courts of law.
Because in family court, you don't need evidence to accuse someone of abuse.
You need no evidence.
When you guys say get married young, a lot of these men don't know what they're signing up for, and you're not going to be there when their entire life falls apart.
I interview them on the other side.
I didn't meet my son until he was 15 months old.
How much did you spend trying to get him back?
The legal fees alone was about $200,000.
Before you know it, you're homeless.
You're literally just thrown out into the street.
We absolutely reinforce bad behavior from women.
Wives are taught to leave their husbands and then daughters grow up without their fathers.
Family is the foundation of the society.
Every problem in society comes from single mother homes.
A lot of women will just chase this negative rabbit hole of happiness, endless happiness.
Feminism's biggest failures is it lies to women.
We tell women to date as many guys as possible.
We tell them to put off family into marriage.
You are allowed to leave your perfect husband.
You are allowed to end a relationship with a really great boyfriend.
Oh, freeze your edge, have an abortion.
What?
You're evil.
I don't think there's anything else in life that we actually ever go into preparing to fail.
Like if you have the mentality of this is going to go wrong and be pessimistic, naturally the outcome is going to be that it's going to fail anyway.
It's self-sabotage.
And that's the thing.
Like women are so willing to leave marriages because they're not happy.
This is not about happiness.
The most important thing is the children.
And the problem is we have a modern society where it's me, me, me, my feelings, leave when I feel like it, instead of doing what's best for the kids.
This myth that we live in an age of male privilege.
Where is my male privilege?
They think, well, men have all the rights.
They have all the power.
Privilege, patriarchal system that we have.
Why doesn't our society care about men's rights?
I have no friends, no wife, and no social life.
Men are alone in this situation.
Men are homeless.
Men are thinking about eating guns.
I've seen so many men on the brink of suicide and they didn't do anything wrong.
How are you equal if the men are the ones that have to fight and die to defend the country?
The men are the ones that build and maintain all the infrastructure.
Women are helplessly dependent upon men.
The so-called deaths of despair from suicide, overdose, or alcohol, three times higher among men than among women.
Culture is telling men, you are no good.
You gotta get your act together.
I think men have failed themselves.
What kind of a man are you?
What kind of a woman are you going to attract?
If men are in trouble, so are women.
Everybody knows this is a huge problem, but nobody wants to admit it.
Every single woman at the table said they wanted a man.
500K, 500, 500K, 300K, 200K.
Am I crazy?
Everything is really set up against you to fail as a man.
If men make less than women, women don't want to marry them.
So you know who wants more economically and emotionally viable men?
Women.
I don't want to be an independent woman anymore.
I don't want to be a strong, independent woman.
I'm overage.
When is it going to be my turn?
Where are we meeting the men that don't?
I can't keep having these same conversations.
The only simp here is you, Pearl.
You simp for women.
I think you simp for women.
She's a provocateur.
She says stupid stuff, but Pearl is right about this.
It's already happening.
It's just not out in the open yet.
Now it's just hookup culture is going to be our fairy tale ending because men don't want a wife and women can't find a husband.
The future, if everybody follows your path, is there is no future.
We're going to population decline and our economy goes into decline.
Civilization will crumble.
The American story does not end well.
This is an existential crisis failing young men.
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So, anyways, guys, as you guys know, I do go to war with these trad cons.
I really do.
I really, you know what?
I just realized I left one of the lights on.
That's okay.
I really go to war with these trad cons.
And there was a particular trad con that we really saw get red-pilled in front of our own eyes.
So, to start the show, I want to talk about how Crowder has actually joined us in the women ain't shit crowd.
If you guys don't mind making this full screen when I play this because I gotta, I'm gonna fix the lighting thing.
And that's how you get to the point of being cheated.
She only cheated because you weren't giving her enough attention.
Exactly.
There was no more intimacy.
There was a breakdown in communication.
If a guy cheats, no matter what, he is a piece of crap societally.
Here's the thing: there are now people on the right who are still telling you: no, no, young men, it's not that the option's available to you.
It's not that the agenda that's been driven home and that has been thrust upon you is a problem.
It's actually just you.
Young men, you are still, even though you make up 94% of workplace deaths, even though you make up so many of the suicide.
Yeah, did you guys see the contrast between that and the clip from earlier?
Crowder had a very different tune a decade ago.
Very different tune.
A decade ago, he was telling men to man up, and now he's saying, Holy shit, he got zeroed out.
Besides, you are the problem, at least according to Tommy Laurent.
It's a major problem.
And you know, Speaker Johnson has been talking about those maybe deadbeat folks that are on Medicaid, and maybe some of those folks are the stay-at-home sons.
We don't know.
But I'll tell you this: leave it to Gen Z to rebrand laziness and social awkwardness as something cutesy, like a stay-at-home son.
They did much the same thing with quiet quitting, where you can go to work and do less.
And if you call it quiet quitting, it's somehow better.
But Laura, I got to tell you, this is also a big problem when it comes to, I think, declining birth rates.
What did the surgeon do to her nose?
Oh my God.
People not getting married and having children.
You know, that's a big problem.
They blame it on women.
Well, look at what young women have to choose from.
The pickings are slim.
Yes, we might have a feminism problem in America.
Yeah, but what are women bringing to the table?
We're fat.
It's the feminization of Crowder.
Is a recovering simp.
I think he's in recovery now.
I don't think he's how he used to be.
One evil woman red pills a man.
There are a lot of young women out there that want to get married.
They want to have kids.
They want to have stable families.
But there are a lot of young men out there who want to live in mama's basement and order DoorDash.
And therein lies a big part of the problem.
Yeah, you know, I know a lot of men actually that live at home with their parents.
And it's not, they're all working, to be honest.
They just want to save money on rent.
I know probably three different men that have money for a house and they just live at home.
And it's not because they can't buy a house, but they don't really have a reason to.
Why pay rent when you don't have to?
Yeah, and by the way, I understand this idea of dealing with the work ethic of young people in some ways.
Sure.
Tommy Loren is a master of the straw man.
Like, that's just not the real problem.
There are no options for men.
They've been, well, who's feminized men?
And I just heard Tommy Loren list a bunch of things that she wants and expects from men.
Okay.
But maybe men have expectations too.
So men are the ones who are living at mom's home and ordering DoorDash.
Here's the thing you need to understand.
Around the 20-year-old, like Gen Z women, they're twice as likely to be obese as men.
They're significant.
16% of women were obese at age 20.
Jesus Christ.
Significantly more likely to be depressed and to be on psychiatric medication.
So young men, who, by the way, are in many ways becoming more fit, young men who are often in many ways, certainly young conservative men, who are focusing on self-improvement.
That's the message that you hear from people like Dr. Jordan Peterson.
That's the message you hear from a lot of people, whether you like him or not.
And I think he's wrong on a lot, Andrew Tate.
That's the message you're hearing from people like Andrew Wilson out there.
It's resonating with young men.
It's not a message.
You can argue until you're blue in the face, but the message to young men right now, where they are checking out of the dating pool, the message is very consistent.
Young men, get your house in order.
Make yourself valuable.
Make yourself desirable so you can select the right kind of woman for you.
Young men are less obese.
They're less depressed.
They're more independent.
And women still blame young men.
Let me tell you, can anyone out there, can anyone out there name me one fat pride male model?
One.
One who's making millions.
Hey, can anyone name me an equivalent to OnlyFans for young men?
I've heard, you've read numbers as high as 25% of young women have an OnlyFans or have considered it.
The lowest I've seen is 15%.
What's the equivalent?
Young straight men.
That doesn't include women that do sugar baby escort or just ran through Tinder, right?
There are young gay men that are fat gross potato sex symbols.
Yeah, yeah.
I don't really know about sex.
I'm sure they have OnlyFans.
But as far as like the Tess holidays of the world, as far as take your pick, the entire Victoria's secret lineup where they did plus size.
Look, this is the, you cannot continue to blame men while women are being told that they are beautiful at any size, that they can have an abortion at any time, that all of their decisions are valid and none are valid for a men.
To the point now where we've invalidated young men's decisions to not engage.
I would argue young men have far fewer prospects when they're looking at good women in their generation than women do.
And you know how you know the dialogue reflects that?
Tommy Lorraine, she can't help herself.
She lists a bunch of expectations of men and none from herself.
Andrew Wilson and Aster.
That's why we had him on the show on Pierce Morgan.
He said, can you name me one duty?
He said, there are many women who would love to be feminine, who would love to have a man take care of them, who would love to have, who would love to have a family and be able to stay home.
Okay, great.
Those are things that you would want.
What are you bringing to the table aside from being fatter, more depressed?
And having herpes and being on antidepressants, physically inert than ever.
That is young women.
It's not the same message that young men are being bombarded with.
Young men, right now, and I have a son, I have a daughter.
I'm going to have to protect her from predators.
Anyone touches her wrong, guess what?
You'll see me on the nightly news with cuffs behind my back.
I have to protect him.
From false accusations of him being a predator.
I've had to think about this when you have a boy-girl twin.
I have to teach my daughter that she is not perfect, just the way she is.
She is not a princess.
Everything she does isn't inherently virtuous.
And I have to teach my son the same.
Also, you're not a piece of garbage because you were born a young white male.
Don't own the checking your privilege.
Don't own the white guilt.
Then I have to teach both of them.
You are both imperfect.
You are both fearfully and wonderfully created in the image of God and your actions define you.
Society says, man at fault, woman beautiful at any size, brave no matter what you do.
All choices are as valid as the next choice.
Men, these are your duties.
And then you see it from conservative, so-called conservative women.
This is what we expect of you.
Okay.
What can we expect of women?
Why are you trying to control me?
Okay, then enjoy 60% of women being single and unmarried by the year 2035.
Yeah, I mean, what's happening is women are delaying marriage.
So if you do like women and childbearing, it's just the age of first birth and first marriage is going to get older and older.
Women are winning with our sexual strategy.
We're getting to spend as much of our youth and fertility on ourselves.
Women don't, because he's still under the idea, and I went through this too, that women want to be in relationships, but we really don't.
We don't, because if we wanted to, we would make choices to reflect that.
Five, I think, is a stat that I heard.
What she just said is flat out wrong and sounds really shrill and naggy.
And there's hypocrisy in what she said, her fake, her fake little scenario that she presented.
Yeah.
A woman wants this, a woman wants that, woman wants this.
And the man just wants to sit at home in his mom's basement.
Well, let's think about that little analogy just made up there.
His mom's basement, where's dad?
Yeah.
Did mom get tired of it?
I think most of the guys are just doing this to save rent.
Pretty much every guy I know that's living at home under 35 or even under 40, they can afford a house, but they don't have a woman to move in with.
They like their parents and they just think, eh, whatever.
You know, it's easier to just live here and not pay rent.
I don't think men are kind of pragmatic.
Like, I know a lot of guys with the money for a house, but they just don't see the point.
Her marriage when it was convenient for her and then leave him take the house.
And now dad's in an apartment, can't afford to provide for his son.
Yeah.
So now he's living at home with a mom who left his dad at a convenient time.
And what is it like women?
Why doesn't he trust women?
Yeah.
No, she's making it sound like young men just put in no effort and live at home.
Hey, hold on a second.
Let me ask you.
Who was it who spearheaded an entire movement to make sure that you wouldn't have to pay for your own birth control?
Was it men with condoms?
Was it, or no, it was, that's right.
Sandra Fluke, remember that?
Where it should all be taxpayer-funded on demand, period.
Same thing, hobby lobby.
It was a violation of your rights to not have abortion or abortificance, as they believe it.
16 out of 21 birth control methods were paid for by Hobby Lobby Health Insurance, but it was a violation of your, so who was the one who wants free birth control?
Who's the one, which group wants free extended maternity leave?
Free child care, rearing, raising so you can out.
I just want to be clear, which one is that?
Is it young men or is it young women?
How many young women are checking out and going to trade schools, the trend that we see?
How many are becoming carpenters, electricians, working in a foundry?
No, we're just getting jobs in human resources and basket study weaving programs.
Sure, there are plenty of lazy young men entitled.
Matt says, I'm 40 and I still live with my mom and dad.
Pearl's right.
There's no point in buying a property when I can build with my family.
They appreciate my resources.
And anytime I build with them, yeah.
Like some of the guys I know, it's just their parents are getting older.
Sometimes it's their mother.
Like maybe their dad died and like their mom just needs help.
And it's just easier.
I'll young men.
Absolutely.
Is Tommy Lorenz?
Is she married to like a former baseball tradesman?
Who's now a coach?
Okay, I mean, that's cool.
I'm sure he's not a lazy guy, but she definitely, she definitely had a lot of boxes for herself there.
Yeah.
I'm sure there were no tradesmen around who were working on it.
She says all these young men are lazy.
Who do you think's putting up the freaking electric poles?
I know.
More construction than ever in history in this country.
Who do you think is doing it, dum-dum?
Yeah, it's, but it's just a feminist.
Not young men.
Listen, it's just like a feminist rehab.
Fake nose makeup chicks.
You think that's who's doing it?
Yeah.
Really?
You think?
Yeah.
Sorry, Gerald.
No, don't be.
My problem is it's just like Tommy Loren is sounding just like what she purports to hate.
And that's my issue with her specifically on this is that she doesn't look at what caused men to be in that state.
She doesn't look at that and say, hey, what are we telling young men right now?
What are we doing to them as women, as society in general?
What are we telling young men?
Because that's what we're really talking about: is young men are checking out.
Okay, why?
Not, ah, stupid, lazy young men.
That's not how you solve the problem.
Even if you disagree with what's causing it, you don't go, men are being lazy right now and living in mom's basement.
Stupid men.
We have enough men telling other men that they're stupid men.
We have enough self-kind of regulation amongst men.
What we don't have enough of is looking at how are we training society.
Are you getting what you've asked for, ladies?
Do you like what you have?
Okay, then let's change it.
Don't just keep blaming men.
Try to figure out what the root of the problem is.
Yeah.
Then we can get somewhere.
Well, there are two solutions to this.
Okay.
And they don't like the male solution.
The young male solution, statistically, and we've talked about this, they're just checking out.
They're saying, I'm not going to get married.
It's too much risk.
I don't like the choices that I'm looking at before me as far as women.
Young women, like Tommy Loren, their solution is to blame men more for checking out.
What about a young man who's just planning his life?
He's like, yeah, I'm working my ass off.
I'm working 10 hours, 12 hours a day, five to six days a week.
I come home.
My parents are not just my mom.
I hate that.
Because it implies that the mom just leaves and takes everything and the dad's a deadbeat who, whatever.
But he's just this young guy, he's living at home with his parents, saving up money so that someday he can, when he's ready to propose to a woman, when he's ready to start a family, when he's ready to suggest that to a woman, he has all the things behind him, ready to go.
Yeah.
And he has the money.
He has an investment.
He has investment accounts.
He has down payment for a house.
Guy has a car that's paid off.
The guy who can support somebody.
What's wrong with that guy?
Yeah.
Because he lived at home with his parents until he was 25.
Right.
Took advantage of the opportunity he had because he came up kind of, you know, not rich.
Let me tell you what a young man goes.
First off, let me give you a very clear example.
Okay.
If you're a man and you're obese, no, you're two times as likely to be obese if you're a woman, a young woman than a young man.
That's just a fact.
And young men don't typically like obese women.
Black guys, we get it, but.
Oh, that's so true.
So you're a young man and you're obese.
You're living in your basement.
You know what not one of your male friends says?
Nah, don't worry.
You're in great shape.
The best you can hope for is, hey, man, you're in a rough spot.
You know, I'm here.
I'm here for you.
You'll figure it out.
We don't tell them that you're beautiful and brave in your state of disarray.
Every single woman, by the way, who are twice as likely to be obese as young men has friends going, no, Becky, you're beautiful.
If he doesn't, I had a scenario.
This is true.
I had a scenario where I was roped in by my then lady to console her friend who boyfriend broke up with her.
And they were going, oh my God, let's go.
He just doesn't deserve you.
And they're like, tell her.
And I go, I remember when she cheated on him.
And they all were like, no, it's his loss.
I'm like, no, it's not.
It's not like he.
Oh, that's so funny.
Dodged a bullet.
Where have you been, Crowder?
We've been waiting for you.
it took a divorce you want me to you want whereas if a guy cheats on a woman we'll go even the bad guys like nah she caught you Well, them's the brakes.
It's your consequence.
Young men are held accountable.
Young women are not.
And that's how you get to the point of being cheated because you weren't giving her enough attention.
Exactly.
There was no more intimacy.
There was a breakdown in communication.
If a guy cheats, no matter what, he is a piece of crap societally.
And I'm not saying that either one is okay, but I remember going through that going, wow, I guess there is no wrong that can be committed here that is impermissible.
Hey, let me ask you this.
You're a young man.
You go through it.
You go, oh, okay.
Hey, I think she's really, I think that woman's really.
You know what?
I'm going to take my shot.
Oh, wait, can't cat call.
Oh, wait, according to Gillette, I can't even go up and hit on a woman.
Okay.
Oh, wait.
We have a problem of rape culture.
So if everything is consensual, but she doesn't like me later on and I break up with it, she could still go out and falsely accuse me of rape and I lose everything as we saw with Aziz.
I'm sorry, as we saw with Chris Hardbrook, as we saw with plenty of, as we saw with Trevor Bauer.
Okay, there's that.
All right.
Well, let's say I work.
I do.
I don't incur student debt and I finally find a right woman.
Okay.
I want, oh, well, if she doesn't want to work it, okay, she's going to go out and work.
She's not going to raise the kids.
Oh, I guess I have to outsource the raising of my children, which is never a part of my dream.
All right.
I guess I'm going to, you know, I'm going to work extra.
And Crowder knows about that.
He got a white woman.
White women love nannies.
They do not want to be moms.
They're like, who else can do this?
Who else?
Our hearts that we can get the best nanny.
Oh, now I'm not present enough at home.
And she's gone.
And the law says that even if she never made as much as me, she can take all of it.
And now I'm living in a junior suite.
So men go, you know what?
Considering the caliber of women out there in the young generations, they're checking out.
And I'm not even a monk.
I'm 37.
Especially if it's a young man and their mom is that woman.
Yeah.
In that scenario, you just, you just played out.
Yeah.
Their mom is that woman.
Why won't this man get married?
Yeah.
And by the way, you also hear, by the way, if he loves you, he'll love you just the way you are.
Women tell other women.
Guess what?
That's not true.
Loves you.
There are things he wants to change about you.
Just like.
I know Crowder's nanny was working 50 plus hours a week.
Yup.
White women and nannies.
You with him, you know, the pet project that you treat him as.
But then I've also heard women go, if love is never transactional.
You just heard not one, two, three, but four or five transactional portions of that equation.
Man has to be successful.
Man has to be a provider.
Man has to be masculine.
Man has to lead until he starts leading in a way that you don't like, in which case you can leave him and take half.
Love is never transactional, but she's not going for a carpenter who's working his ass off and making a good living, but isn't rich and is a good man who will treat her right.
This is, there are plenty of men like that around.
Young women aren't interested.
And young women are fatter, more depressed, less mentally stable, and men are checking out.
Here's the thing.
You can scream women.
And I don't want to see this.
I want to see it.
I want to see a return to traditional relationships because it's the most fulfilling thing that you can find in your life if you find a woman who is good.
And women, if you find a man who is a leader and submit to him as in any other subordinate role to a leader, you will too find what is good.
But here's the reality: you can scream until you're blue in the face and blame.
They're checking out now.
They're just not.
They're just not getting married.
They don't think it's worth it.
You can scream.
You can continue to blame men and you will die alone.
That is a guarantee.
There is no doorknob.
There's always a simp crowder.
I hate to say it, but there's always a guy that'll do it.
There is.
Number two: until you start taking that lens and looking back on yourself.
Let's talk about choice because I always hear about women's choice.
All right.
I think we got enough.
That was amazing.
Welcome to the Red Pill Crew, Steven Crowder.
Welcome.
We've been waiting for you.
All right, but let's get into today's topic.
The reason why you guys are all here.
All right.
So, everybody, welcome to another episode of Pearl Daily.
Today, we're going to talk about women getting dumped.
So, we all know that women end 70 to 80 percent of relationships in marriage, and there's a social infrastructure in place to encourage women leaving their men.
They leave because they're not happy, they leave because they think they can do better, they leave because they get pumped and dumped by Chad, Gavis, Tyrone.
And all you hear about in society is women breaking up with men.
But what happens when it's the other way around?
Over here, we recognize that men give a lot more in relationships than women.
Men are expected to pay for everything, they're expected to give up their hobbies and peace of mind just to have a woman in their lives.
Men also deal with so much more than women would deal with in a relationship.
Think about it, guys.
The last girl you dated, she probably wouldn't shut up.
She made you go do things you didn't want to do.
She nagged you in your own house.
She had some pet that she brought around that messed up all your stuff.
So, if a man leaves, it's usually something serious.
Women cannot handle being broken up with.
We can't handle rejection, and we refuse to do the inner work to see how we contributed to a certain situation.
That's what we are going to talk about today: women and how they can't handle when men break up with them.
All right, so first, let's talk about the top five reasons why men leave.
Here's an article: Okay, you thought you had the perfect guy, you couldn't imagine him cheating or walking out on you.
I heard hear this frequently in my office.
Why didn't he tell you how we felt?
Why did he clam up or act like everything we did was okay when it wasn't?
He was so into you that you thought he would never leave.
These are the things that guys keep to themselves.
A majority of men I counsel are complimentary about their partners until I ask them how she makes him feel.
And they begin revealing all the things that hurt them.
When a guy feels hurt, he seldom uses words to express himself.
When he may say he feels angry or he feels neglected, but for him to say, Well, you really did hurt my feelings or you made me feel like less of a man is rare.
Unfortunately, women expect words from men that they can't relate to.
Therefore, they frequently overlook how their actions may be making a man feel.
Men don't typically just walk out of a door and leave the love of their life.
If they do, they probably won't explain why.
Here are the top five reasons why guys leave.
One, a guy cannot feel loved or build trust with someone who they feel disrespected by.
He needs to feel like his opinion matters and that you have his back.
When a man gets close to you, he understands you see his weakness.
He needs to feel accepted even with his weakness.
When you talk with your friends about how your partner is like another child, how much more money you make, or all you do for the family, his natural instinct is to feel defensive and compete against you.
If his masculinity is threatened, you're making all the decisions.
He questions why he's in a relationship.
He feels like he's a project instead of a partner.
Trying to fix your partner is like pushing them out the door.
He questions if he can ever please you or if he'll match up to your expectations.
Instead of trying harder, he gives up and becomes apathetic, and the relationship falls apart.
He feels sexually rejected.
The majority of men I counsel feel unloved by their partner.
Men feel as though their partner makes excuses not to be with them.
He compares the way you dress for work or for girls tonight to the way you dress around the house.
He feels used and questions if you love him or your lifestyle more.
This is a contributing factor to divorce.
Moms often become more emotionally attached to their children than their husband.
He has been begins feeling rejected emotionally and sexually.
Five, he feels unappreciated.
A man will do almost anything for a woman he loves as long as he feels appreciated.
He needs to be recognized by his partner as satisfying her the most.
Men may seem unemotional, detached, and focused on other things, but they hear everything you say about them when it involves appreciation.
Don't wait to thank him.
It loses its significance when they're walking out the door.
A relationship involves two different people, and that means men and women must think about what they say and do, how what they say and do affects their partners.
Women have permission in society to feel pain and hurt, but men find that more difficult and usually only share how they feel with their significant other.
If you're the person who holds your man's feelings hidden, holds your man's hidden feelings, take extra care to treat him with respect and appreciation.
All right, put a one in the chat.
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Okay, why men quit relationships?
Women says the three reasons why men leave relationships.
Here are the top three reasons why some men leave relationships.
I've done some research.
Let's get into it, family.
Number one, their needs are not being met and have not been met for a period of time.
And therefore, they have given up on the idea that their needs will be met in this relationship.
Number two, he feels unappreciated and like he's being taken for granted.
Number three, there is a lack of connection and intimacy.
This lack of connection can cause a man to disconnect completely.
I mean, completely.
And it creates a desire within him to move on.
All right, there we go.
Number one.
Crazy girl won't leave her ex-boyfriend alone.
Oh, man.
Okay, well, I need you to come over here.
Wait for the door.
Ma'am, step away from the door.
All right, go on side.
I don't want her here.
She's been asked to leave many, many times.
She doesn't want to leave.
I don't want her hurt.
I don't want to arrest it.
I just want her out of here, please, and I want it noted.
I want to report.
You can see she's been doing this forever.
I've been waiting for my glass to come in and break.
She dated my son.
They're not together anymore.
And I don't want her on my premises.
This is my home.
I don't want her here.
And this is my son.
And I don't want him coming out of here because I don't feel safe with him.
Okay.
Ma'am, what is your name?
Ma'am.
Dang.
Just take the L. That's enough.
What is your name?
I don't want her in trouble.
I just want her to understand she's not welcome here.
What's her first name?
She doesn't want to answer me.
Sandra?
Samantha?
Samantha, are you hearing what she's saying?
Hello?
Samantha, do you?
I bet he had that good D.
That is the only way you have a girl acting that nuts.
Have your driver's license, you're an ID with you.
Okay, this is going to last for a couple more minutes until my other deputy gets here and then she's going to have two routes.
One, she's going to answer me, or she's going to go to jail.
Or are you going to leave?
Okay.
No, she's going to go to jail.
Okay, so please, that's not what we want.
Just give me your driver's license.
Hey, I don't have it with me.
You still need to leave.
Well, then you need to talk to me.
I can understand how relationships and stuff like that can be very, very volatile.
But this is not the way to act like it, because I'm assuming you're an adult.
All right?
What is your last name?
Amanda, what is your last name?
Samantha, if you're instructing him, he is going to be.
Samantha, you're currently trespassing.
Do you have ID on you?
You don't?
Or are you not going to provide it?
I don't have it.
Okay.
I'm asking.
Are you going to leave?
You have your registration in your car.
You're running that tag right now.
That car?
I'm showing about to show your registration.
Are you going to leave right now off this property?
Is this her car right here?
Yes.
Okay.
Is that a yes or no?
I'm not going to ask you again.
Sam, they're not playing with you.
We just want you to leave our home.
We don't wish you any ill will.
You're just not welcome.
You can't logic with crazy mother.
Tell her to arrest them.
Tell her to arrest her.
You don't come here anymore.
You need to leave.
Why would you want to go and obstruct justice and get yourself into trouble when you're being given the chance by three officers to leave here who are being very respectful and calm with you and giving you the chance to go to your home and deal with whatever it is that you need to deal with?
Brutal.
Brutal.
Okay.
Part two.
Let's see what she does next.
I love police, Cam.
Justice and get yourself into trouble when you're being given the chance by three officers to leave here who are being very respectful and calm with you and giving you the chance to go to your home and deal with whatever it is that you need to deal with today and not be here and get yourself in trouble.
It's not worth it.
You just can't stay here.
That's going to cause your problems later.
If you get arrested, then you got to go back to court.
Then you're considered a stalker.
Then you're obstructions of justice not listening to a police officer.
Are you going to leave right now?
Please leave.
And do not come back.
Yes or no?
Okay.
So you heard her.
She wants you to trespass from this point.
It's on camera.
If you come back on this property and we catch you here, you go to jail.
You understand?
All right.
Thank you.
I don't know.
Like I said, if she comes back on your property, you call us.
She has bluefist.
Stop side.
Go get her.
She's going to kill somebody.
Yup. You're gonna have no consequences.
And by the way, guys, we want you to call in later and tell us your breakup stories.
So get ready.
There's going to be a link in the chat in a bit.
The suspect passed seven business parking lots, multiple side streets, and a few turning lanes, but didn't stop.
Turn the car off!
Turn it off!
That girl's going to get shot or something.
Okay, a woman cheats on a man and also will not leave his doorstep.
Open the door!
I'm not playing that on me, Symphony!
Check this out, man.
Hey, yes!
Hey, yes!
You wanna let it go?
You should have thought about saying when you did what you did.
You wanna let that shit go, sleep?
Man, come on!
I want to!
I can't live without you!
No, I've been coming by the door for three days, and you ain't been in the finger.
Bro, she's crashing out.
I gotta be able to run, and I need you to go.
I'm not going nowhere!
I'm not gonna go.
I'm not going nowhere, but you go on the door, Damon.
I'm not going nowhere.
He said, I think he should.
One of the comments says, I think he should forgive her and take her back and then treat her like Cassie.
This one's drinking!
This one's drinking!
I can't live without you.
I'm not living without you.
I can't do it in a shit.
Yeah, you are.
I'm a kid.
Man, I can't f*** down, man.
Oh my god.
I can't live without you, Lynn.
All right, girl gets rejected and looks like a psychopath.
Wait, what did it say?
Hold on, it said, watch me get rejected by my crush.
What do you mean?
Payphone.
Hey.
I was wondering, um, it's Sophia.
If you want to come grab dinner with me and I'll buy Sophia Okay, what's up?
Do you want to go get sushi snap and I'll buy?
I'm kind of busy.
Okay, that's fine.
Are you sure?
I mean, I'll pay just for a second.
No, like.
I just want to talk to you about everything and say sorry.
And like, no expectations.
I literally'm just like, I was in the area.
It was by Riley's.
Yeah, I can't.
I can't.
Yeah.
What the hell did she do to get that response?
Oh, okay.
All right.
I'm doing something right now.
Oh, okay.
For sure.
Maybe later sometime.
Okay, bye.
Bye.
Well.
Yeah.
All right.
Let's see.
hold up.
Which one word do I say on?
Oh, here we go.
Girl gets rejected by a doctor.
Okay.
I was rejected.
So last night I went out with my doctor, who's so nice, such a gentleman.
I have nothing bad to say.
The date was fun.
He was easy to talk to.
But towards the end, that's when we started getting into like the more serious questions.
I try to keep first dates like 90 to 95% fun and light-hearted and just like a vibe, and only like 5-10% more serious, deep conversation.
So we got to like the question of like, what are you looking for long-term?
And I was honest.
I said, you know, I see myself being a stay-at-home mom one day.
I don't know how to work this.
Oh, I see.
Trying out this new concealer by Mel.
Yeah, she's not hot enough for a doctor unless he's kind of simpy.
And anyway, the doctor was super honest with me about he sees himself with a partner who works full time, like long term, like even when they have kids.
And he was really honest.
You know, he says that, you know, he's a family practice medicine or something like that.
And he has so many student debts.
He can't financially provide for a family for like 10 to 15 years.
I feel like I put on way too much concealer.
Like, what's the point of the ball?
And listen, I do want to be a stay-at-home mom, but what he said is not a deal breaker for me.
Because you have to put it into perspective.
We live in California.
We live in one of the most expensive places to live.
So yeah, him as a family doctor with, you know, hundreds of thousands of dollars of debt probably for medical school.
Yeah, he can't afford a family here.
But if we were to fall in love and, you know, date seriously, we could just move, right?
That's why in my mind, I'm like, this isn't a deal breaker for me.
I didn't say that to him, but that's what I was thinking.
I feel like I can still see my pimple.
So far, I like this concealer.
So we finished dinner, and it's when he's dropping me off that he was really honest with me.
Remember, we met on delight where you have to unmatch your match in order to keep swiping to get a new match.
So he told me that he didn't think our ideal future lifestyles were compatible.
And look, I could have disagreed with him, but what's the point?
Because he doesn't really like me.
He's just not that into me.
So I agreed with him, thanked him for dinner, and by the time I made it back to my apartment, he had unmatched me on delight.
But here's the best part.
I got rematched with a guy who I had previously swiped right on before I matched with the doctor.
And we talked a bit last night.
And guess what I'm getting ready for right now?
She took the LOK.
This was an alright.
That's right.
Your girl already has another dinner date for 5 p.m. tonight.
Ladies, don't let rejection get to you.
Final makeup look.
Now I just need to do my hair.
Wish me luck.
Yeah, he probably found her TikTok.
All right, crazy ex-girlfriend comes over to a boyfriend's house.
Hey, funny me.
Okay.
Do you know what day it was yesterday?
Day yesterday, I know it was Monday.
My birthday?
Okay.
Happy birthday.
Now, but I'm sure she didn't actually message me yesterday, to be honest.
Sorry, what?
I'm sure she didn't message me yesterday.
Okay, but you blocked me.
Okay, but you blocked me.
No, I haven't.
I haven't blocked your Instagram.
Yes, you have.
You blocked my number.
You blocked me off Instagram.
Like, we've broken up.
I'm like, like a month ago.
Yeah, but you know, you can email me.
You can wish me happy birthday.
It's just the least that you could do.
Even though you've just broken up not that long ago, I still care about you, innit?
Hopefully, you care about me, but hopefully you don't.
Wish me a happy birthday.
Okay, but you broke up with me.
Like, how am I supposed to say happy birthday?
I feel like this might be a skip to you.
How am I supposed to say happy birthday to you if you blocked me?
Because there's so many ways.
You've got my email.
You can email me.
You can even bank transfer me a penny.
You don't even have to break the bank for it.
Transfer me a penny.
Put reference.
Happy birthday.
There's so many people that do that nowadays.
Hold me, you're like, why am I going to bank transfer you money or like even a penny when like you blocked me and you're the one who broke up with me?
I just still think it's a bit unfair that you're not even wishing me happy.
But if it was your birthday, yeah, I'd 100% to wish happy birthday.
Oh my gosh.
Okay.
I had four guys spray.
Oh.
Okay.
Now we can watch the breakups last week.
So guys, last week I decided I wanted you guys to give you guys a chance to dump me.
Obviously, we can see how well I took these breakups.
So I had a great breakup.
Guy number five or four, I think it was.
Sean, he calls in a lot.
He had a great breakup.
So let's react to these.
Wait, wait.
I can change.
I can change.
I'll do better.
You've had three months to do it.
I haven't seen any change.
Sorry.
Yeah, can you guys, can you guys dump me on stream?
I want to see how you guys would do it.
Can I get like you guys' dumping speeches?
Got to give us a scenario of how why are we dumping?
Okay, so the scenario is it's just not like I don't know.
What's the not cheating, but you're just she's just not putting out?
No, no, putting out not cheating, but you're just like over it.
It's who I am as a person.
How about this?
How about this?
She's spending too much time at your house.
She's like, no, no, no, she's putting too much time at your house and she doesn't like your interests.
So she's starting to put herself at odds with your business time and your hobbies.
How about that?
Okay, yeah, let's do it.
Shiv, you want to go, Shiv, you want to go first?
Yeah, so for me, I just don't give women reasons.
I just break up with them.
So I just be like, hey, like, I found out like my grandma's really sick.
I might have to go to India for four months.
Oh, don't worry.
But I'll wait for you.
I'll wait for you.
No, you don't understand.
Like, you deserve so much better.
I don't, you're the, no, you're the, you're the one for me.
Don't worry.
I'll be there for you.
Carl, I'm gay.
I'm gay.
Fuck out.
I'm happy.
I'm asexual.
I identify as a bad person.
That's okay.
Okay, then can we just be friends and still hang out?
It's against my religion.
I changed to it.
I'm a Scientologist now.
Okay.
Scientologist.
All right, Glenn, you're next.
Dell me, I'm ready.
I want to say that once again, she insists on coming to your house.
So you haven't had alone time in like a month, a month and a half, because she wants to spend every waking second with you.
And when she comes over, she doesn't like you on your computer.
She doesn't like you watching football.
I want to do something, Glenn.
Yeah.
What do you want to do?
And then you're naming these opportunities.
I don't want to do that.
Why do we have to do what you want to do?
Okay, how would you break that?
Come here.
Come here.
Let me show you something.
I'm going to show you something in the bedroom.
Oh, wow.
I'm excited.
Do you see what's next to the bed?
Is that one night stand?
Yeah.
You are supposed to be just like that one night stand.
Okay.
Okay, but it worked out.
I'm so happy.
Yeah.
So one night stand.
You have turned into a 30-day stand.
And it's not going to work out.
Like, it's just, it's just doesn't do this.
But why?
I fucked your sister.
She's 15.
I don't know what to tell you.
I'm just kidding.
I'm just kidding.
It's just like, I'm going to.
You know, I think my favorite.
I think, Glenn, he got right to the point.
I did enjoy that.
But the best one, oh, Doug, okay.
Like, your mom is the business.
Like, she makes the biscuits.
Okay, you burnt the biscuits.
You know, it was one time.
I'm getting dumped over one time.
Sorry.
Could you tell me?
Could you just tell me why?
What did I do?
Can you tell me, please?
Your mom uses no teeth.
Okay, I told you the teeth thing is a problem.
Okay, well, can we just get some closure?
Yes, the door will close on the way.
Dawn, you're next.
How are you going to do it?
This was a masterpiece.
Hey, can I talk to you for a second, girl?
Yeah, what's going on?
So, you know, and this is an open conversation.
It's a two-way street.
As we always have communication and conversations, it's not only my opinions, it's yours too.
And so I would like for you to say anything.
There will be no consequences, no negative things.
It's an open-ended discussion.
I was looking on the internet and I found these clips of you being a colonizer.
And I wanted to ask you because, you know, I'm pro-black, you know, and I'm for the communita.
And, you know, what do you have to say about these things?
I'm going to have to break up with you, actually, because I can't have that.
I get it.
I get it.
And that's where we just have to separate, you know?
And I get it.
You know, I still care about you.
We'll still be close friends.
I wish you the best.
This is the best breakup I've ever had.
I don't want it to be negative.
I don't.
We had 80% of our time together.
It was great.
Yeah.
You know, and the last guy shut the door in my face.
So this is great.
No, the door closed on itself.
Self-closing doors.
I wouldn't do that to you, Pearl.
Yeah, the other guys are kids.
Look, I'm not going to do that to you, Pearl.
I'm not going to lie to you.
Oh, you're so nice.
I'm going to miss you.
Okay.
Yeah, I'll miss you.
You hate to see a go, but you love to watch her leave already.
I asked him to do another.
Well, I'm sorry my colon.
I'm sorry, my colonization was a problem.
It's cool.
Some people needed to be colonized sometimes, but it's okay, Pearl.
Yeah.
You didn't do it.
I just have to stand with the community.
Yeah, I understand.
Doug MPA, you're next.
Are you going to dump me?
So, so I would set it up where, so, example, I'm a punctual person.
Pearl and I work together, and she knows how much I can't stand it when she's late to call stuff like that.
But when I'm with somebody, I'll do something like if we're supposed to be somewhere at 2 and I know the person is always late.
I'll tell her like 1.15, right?
And so there are things I will do to mitigate the things that she does to piss me off, right?
And what I'll do is I'll stop doing those things.
So she's doing things that annoy me.
So I'll say, you know, the last couple of last month or two, you're always late.
Always.
It's because you don't respect me, do you?
I don't think you do.
And so I'll start, you're not supposed to keep Tally or keep track, but I'll change certain behaviors and start keeping Tally and track of where she's deficient and then use that to break up with her.
You're always late.
I'll pay for all the dates and all the food, and then I'll say, you never pay for a date.
You just want me for my money.
I thought it was especially funny because I know Doug MPA hates when girls pay.
You told me you wanted to pay.
Yeah, but you know what?
At least offer.
But you hate it when people offer.
Yeah, you know what?
I would set it up like that, where I would find reasons where she's deficient and use those to break up with her.
Like, you know what?
You're late all the time.
Okay, but wait, wait.
I can change.
I can change.
I'll do better.
You've had three months to do it.
I haven't seen any change.
Sorry.
Here's my question.
Have you guys ever used pointing out other chicks to make her feel like you're not even into her?
Like, she's not your type?
I did that.
She broke up.
Yeah.
I really liked my colonizer breakup the best.
Give one more.
I would get to it.
No problem, man.
I've been doing it for a while.
He's like the professional breakup.
Yeah, that was great.
Like, H still at the end.
Can we give him another scenario?
Can we give him another scenario?
I want another one.
Yeah, okay.
Try to touch the game.
Okay, I got one.
I got one.
Go ahead.
Let's say she's insecure and she's accusing you of leaving dick imprints on the counter.
Okay.
She thinks you're cheating on her.
She thinks you're cheating on her.
And she thinks that she sees your dick imprint on the counter.
And you know, you're following all these girls.
I'm not doing that.
You're liking all these pictures.
And I'm just, I'm freaking out.
And she knows your Instagram DMs are full of titties.
Yeah.
I need you to follow uglier women, please.
Yeah, right.
No, I understand that one.
All right.
Hey, Pearl, can we have a conversation?
Yeah.
Let's go.
The guys always tell you, you got to have communication with your girl that's more superior than her ability to communicate.
So you have to make time for it.
So, Pearl, I know you've been having issues or speaking about IG.
And first of all, I don't want to get it wrong.
So tell me if there are any issues or things you want to talk about.
is it what's the well you're just you're always like you you're always following these girls and liking their picture like Like, you never follow men.
It's always just women on Instagram.
Always, you know.
And your friend, she wants to sleep with you.
I can just tell, I think you're cheating on me.
No.
Don't forget the fingerprint.
I'm not saying that.
Go ahead.
It's on the counter.
As far as the girl in particular, right?
We're friends and we've been friends for a while.
And Pearl, I never lie.
I'm not going to lie to you.
I'm too old to be doing that.
I went to war.
I've been in combat.
I'm not scared of you.
I'm going to tell you the truth.
I'm going to tell you what you need to hear, even if you don't like it.
Have I not done that in our relationship already?
Yeah, you have.
I guess I was overblowing it.
That's okay.
People get their ideas.
And the number one most important part is you communicated to me.
And we had the time to talk about it.
If you didn't, then that wouldn't be a problem, right?
Because possibly it would build resentment and other things like that.
So I appreciate you bringing that to me.
Is there anything else that you had issues with?
No, you're the best.
I'm so glad this is working out.
Now.
About it really working out.
If it would work out, if we transition this relationship.
I'm serious, Pearl.
I mean, Desi was such a straight thing.
At the end of the day, I might not be the guy that you need.
I could be a great friend for you.
I think we need to.
No, no, I need you.
But like, we're.
I've never been with anyone better.
What?
You need yourself.
That's number one.
I can't, you know, besides you.
You have those feelings, right?
You believe I'm cheating.
You believe that this IG is right or wrong.
So he takes the problems he opened me up to say and uses them against me.
So you don't.
So you don't, you don't want to be with me anymore?
I want to be your friend.
I want to support you.
I've always done that.
And I'm okay with that.
Most of our relationship was good, Pearl.
It's not a bad thing, but everything in life doesn't last forever.
There's time limits.
But you said you wanted to marry me someday.
And you said that you have an issue with these things.
And we don't want that in a marriage.
Imagine our kids having to deal with this if we had kids.
That was such a beautiful line.
Would you want that for your children?
I don't think you would.
No, I wouldn't.
And I think you need someone who won't give you those type of issues that don't follow women on Instagram.
I get it.
And it's not a cool thing for your perspective.
And I respect your perspective.
It's important.
I'll always be here for you, Pearl.
That's for sure, for sure.
Really?
Especially at 2 a.m.
John, man.
Holy shit.
Anyways, guys, I got a standing ovation from the panel.
Okay, so I want you guys to call in the links in the chat.
And what is the worst way a woman responded to you breaking up with her?
What caused the breakup?
And if you divorced your ex-wife, how did she handle it?
Doug MPA, are you on the line?
Is he here yet?
No.
Maybe he's not.
He's coming soon if he's not.
Oh, it's telling me my battery's low.
Let me check the website really quick.
By the way, guys, you do have unlimited super chats on the website.
So the, let me see.
Let me go back.
Get.
So if you do have a super chat, put it on the website and I will read it.
Okay, i'm charging this.
Hey, sorry about that.
Okay, how's it going?
Doug MPA going good.
I was just reminiscing from that beautiful breakup.
Yeah yeah, that that breakup um show that we had, and Sean's beautiful, two beautiful breakups.
That's a talent right there.
It's great because he gets the girl to open up.
Do you have any other problems?
And then she's like, yes this, this and this and this.
Well, we can't bring that into a marriage, awesome.
So um, what was the worst way a woman responded to you?
Dumping her?
Hold on one second, one second, one second, one second okay, one second, one second, okay.
Yeah, there are people in the uh actually on the show already ask the question again.
Um, what's the worst way a woman responded to you?
Breaking up with her?
Well um, so i've never been broken up with.
I've just had women on date.
You know we're dating and they're like yeah, you're not really my speed, but out of a relationship i've never been broken up with.
Um, in dating though uh, you know I believe in ghosting guys.
Ghost these women because women feel entitled to your time, to your resources and to closure.
Don't give them any of those right.
So I ghosted this woman and um, she put me in one of those um, are we dating the same guy groups?
Those are brutal.
And so one of my friends who's a woman uh, was like it is this you, i'm part of this group and i'm like what?
And it was a picture of me and i'm like what the heck is going on here.
So that's probably.
I've never really been broken up with out of a relationship.
But i've had some crazy stuff happen in dating where you know i've ghosted a woman or I just didn't want to see her anymore and she's, you know, does something like that.
Or you know just the places where you would example, you know I like to karaoke a lot or I like to do trivia and stuff.
They'll do the thing where you break up with them.
You don't want to date them anymore, but they'll show up to the place that you've brought them multiple times.
They'll just show up one day and you're like what are you doing here?
So i've had that happen, but i've never really been broken up with.
Did a girl ever crash out on you when you dumped her?
Uh like, crash out, like get violent and stuff.
No, like I don't know, she called crying texting, anything like that, um screaming.
Never, not really.
No, I guess I avoid the crazy ones.
Okay.
So, so most of them took it okay and just accepted it.
Yeah, most of them took it okay.
Okay, that did so.
I have had the one, I've had one girl where I broke up with her and she got my sister's phone number one time and was trying to call my sister and say, Hey, you know, I think he's about to break up with me and I root, blah, blah, blah.
So, that's probably the craziest thing that has happened.
I brought her to a family function, and apparently, she said, Hey, you know, let me get your phone number.
And my sister was like, Okay.
And so, after we broke up, she kept calling my sister, but that's probably the craziest thing that happened.
That is crazy.
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Doing excellent.
How about your guys?
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So, tell me about your law or tell me about your breakups.
Have you had a woman crash out?
Most time, I just ghost women.
It's like if I'm not interested in them anymore, I just ghost them, just start talking to them, texting them, whatever.
It just kind of goes away eventually.
But there was like one woman who was trying to cause issues.
But since I have like more than three years of private security experience, I was able to foresee that ahead of time.
And when she started talking things that I didn't like, I just pointed to my hobby, which is those little guys.
Yep, security cameras.
Yeah, I just pointed to one of my security cameras inside my apartment, and she immediately changed her tune, just left, and that was it.
You just have to prepare ahead of time for this kind of stuff nowadays.
It's just simple as that.
What was the reason you dumped her?
She wanted to be just the only woman in my life, and that's not going to happen.
Okay.
Yeah.
So, because I'm all about ghosting, man.
You know, ghosting is another one of those things where women try to, women will do that to men, but then when it happens to them, they try to say a real man wouldn't ghost and blah, blah, blah.
Because I, okay, women still try to hold men to a higher standard.
And there are a lot of men who think that they should hold themselves to a higher standard when we tried to do that at one time, but women call that patriarchy.
So I'm all about it.
So what got you into the whole ghosting thing where you just stopped talking to a woman?
It's just once I get what I want from a woman and she doesn't have anything else to offer, that is it pretty much.
It's just how it goes.
I mean, I'm in a small town.
Most women are from like over 100 miles away from me.
So it's actually easier for me.
Got it.
Okay.
Cool.
Well, I wish you luck in your ghosting.
Keep it up.
Yeah.
You sure will.
And keep those cameras rolling, man.
Oh, dude.
I just had two more contracts for cameras just today alone.
So I'm installing more and more around my town.
So I have access to over 60 cameras now.
So that helps me.
Great.
Well, thanks for calling in.
Calling anytime.
Okay.
Sounds good.
Have a good time.
Okay.
JC Jackson.
JC, are you there?
Yeah, can you hear me?
Hey, there you go.
Hey, JC, how's it going?
Where are you calling out of?
She's going good out in North Carolina.
Same as always.
Cool.
So tell me, have you dumped a woman?
Did she crash out?
What happened?
I had two really bad ones.
One I just straight up dipped.
I got sick of her.
She was always...
We had this, like...
We were together for, like, three years.
We had this arrangement where I worked to put her through school.
And then we got her done with school.
And then we were working to put me through school.
And yeah, she didn't like the whole working full-time while I went to school thing.
Of course not.
Yeah, yeah.
There was no even back seats there.
That was not happening.
But yeah, I dipped.
I just, I left.
She came home from work one day.
Me, most of the furniture, all that good stuff was gone.
Just left her and the apartment, her name, and her dogs.
Like, here you go.
So she messaged me and she was pretty ill about that.
She went through our preacher and stuff even to get a hold of me because I wasn't, I was like, I was, I was not talking to her.
Yeah, you got to just take the L.
Yeah, I told her, I even told her preacher, I said, look, she was this way before she started working.
Everything was fine.
Then she started.
I got her through her EMT school.
Then she started working full-time while I went to, you know, went back to college to finish my degree.
And she was always angry, always ill, always had an attitude.
I was like, but what about the other one?
My ex-wife.
So my first marriage.
I found out she was talking to other dudes and stuff while I was gone for the military.
When I got back, she didn't think I knew.
So I just kind of let it go for a time.
She didn't know I knew.
But all the bills were in my name.
So I took the phone.
And when I left, I took the phone, took my stuff, and our kid.
I couldn't really take our kid at the moment.
But when I went through the phone, she had been buying, she'd been buying prescription pills from one of our neighbors.
One of our neighbors had like a pain pill.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
So I went to, I went to my lawyer because we were, you know, I was getting divorced.
So I look, this is going on.
He went to a judge, got an emergency order.
And so she found out I was breaking up with her basically when the cops showed up.
Like, hey, hey, the kid's going with him.
You can argue about it.
The kid's going with him right now.
Oh, my God.
I was not physically there.
I was not within, like, but I was like across the street watching it.
And she was freaking out with the cops.
And then my phone blew up after they took the kid.
And, you know, they put the kid in the cop car, brought her to my house.
Like I said, I was within 100 yards.
So she couldn't see me, but I could see everything.
And my phone just, my phone went off.
And that was a bad.
I ended up getting full custody eventually.
No way.
Hey.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
I got one of the few men in the history that got full custody.
But I had full custody of my daughter after that from age five until she was about nine, I think.
And then, you know, her mother went and got quote unquote clean off drugs and remarried.
And she came back and now we share 50-50 custody.
Now she's fine.
But like, it was, you know, when our early years was really rough.
Okay.
On a scale of one to 10 in looks.
The mother of your child, where would she rate?
Because she got off drugs and got remarried again?
She, I would say about a six.
Like, like, we were from a small town and we were high school sweethearts.
And then, you know, we broke up and she got a younger guy from our same high school.
And she 100% convinced that man, like, hey, yeah, go into the military.
Like, they got, they got, they got re they got married three weeks after our divorce went through.
So, okay.
It was kind of like completely lined up.
So, another thing I'm going to ask the, I'll ask each person is, why do you think it's so hard for women to take L's when it comes to relationships?
Why is it?
Because they've never done it before.
I see it with everyone.
I've seen it with my mother.
I've seen it with my mother-in-law.
I've seen it with my sister-in-law.
I've seen it with, I've seen it with my sister.
They don't, they don't know how like it fundamentally messes up their brain if they're the ones that broken up with, because it just, it's just not supposed to happen in quote unquote their reality.
And they have no idea how to, like, you can't explain it to them all day, but it just, the wires will not connect.
It doesn't matter what you do.
You know what?
You know, like, men will crash out over a breakup at, like, 18 to 20.
And since it's so delayed for women, and it doesn't happen to us till like 25 to 35, depending on when you start getting ugly.
And I don't know.
I think it's kind of delayed for women.
Would you agree?
Yeah, I think most young men.
So I think social media is different now.
I don't, because back then we didn't have like phones at our faces for everything.
So I think most young men my age, they had done cried over girls by like 12, 13.
So like by the time they got to 18, they're like, oh, yeah, I got dumped again.
It is what it is.
Yeah.
Well, I think Gen Z is just kind of delayed with that.
I don't know how old your daughter is, but like it's 18.
I don't like my Gen Z relatives, it was very different than like the millennials because if they like went out drinking or something, we would be excited because they'd be going out and like doing something.
Like none of them really seem to date or like, I don't know.
They just seem like all the big life events are like delayed.
Is that what you've seen or no?
Yes.
Like I don't even, because I have younger female cousins.
Like no one really even dates anymore.
Like there's no like talking or dating phase.
It's it's because my cousin recently got a boyfriend and it was, I had no idea he's this I know had this is he's at the fucking family family dinner.
Like just it goes from it goes from this person doesn't exist to they're coming over for every holiday.
Like there's no really in between for some reason.
Yeah.
I agree with that.
And I think it's because of the social media thing where that has translated to like instant gratification in real life too.
Yeah, they don't have to go out.
Like they can just sit at home.
Yep.
Like my I have a sister-in-law who's 16 and a or my daughter will be 15 later this year.
They don't want their licenses.
Like they don't want to drive because they don't have to drive.
That's a big thing.
That's a big thing.
A lot of young people just aren't driving.
Yeah.
So weird.
It's so weird.
Yeah, my Gen Z relatives, it was just really contrast because if they, the two I'm thinking of, if they were caught like with a boy drinking or anything, I think our family would have been like excited because they just would never leave.
Do you know what I mean?
Like we're like, oh, finally, they'll do it.
They're like doing some normal teenager stuff.
Yeah.
Yeah.
Okay.
And even back when I was young and dating, like, you know, the early 2000s, like the dating, the breakup ratio was still the same.
Most of the time, the girls were breaking up with the guys.
Like, you would know if you would know if a girl got broken up with because they be they had meltdowns in the middle class in high school.
They didn't care.
Okay.
Yeah.
Now they do it on social media.
All right.
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Hey, Luis.
How's it going?
Good.
Hey, Pearl.
Good to finally see you.
I was watching YouTube not too long ago and I saw that you were at the grove right up the street from my fiancé's place.
It was a shame I wasn't there at the time.
I would have said hello to you and the guy that you were with.
Okay.
Cool.
I don't know where that's.
I don't know if that was me.
Yeah, you were at the grove.
You were doing some interviews and you were with the Indian guy.
I think he's Indian.
I'm not too sure what his name is.
Oh, okay.
Oh, you're talking about in California.
I forget the names of places I went to.
I'm like, I don't remember going to the grove.
Okay.
Yeah.
No, that was awesome.
I enjoyed that interview.
Cool.
Cool.
I was going to ask.
So, dumping women, how has that gone for you?
What's the craziest thing that a woman's done after you dumped her?
Oh, yeah.
So, so I dated this religious chick, right?
And I was actually engaged to this religious chick.
And we were together for about two, three years, and everything was going great.
But I started seeing all these red flags.
So, but after the engagement broke off and it didn't work out, she got into this religious podcast, right?
Where she was being negative, being super, you know, playing the small fiddle.
Oh, woe is me.
It was all his fault.
And just you're just spewing all these lies to this platform that she had, you know, on this religious chat that she would have on YouTube.
She was telling the female-friendly Version of the story, you know what that is?
What is the friendly version of the story?
Is where they're the hero and the victim at the same time in the story, right?
That's about right.
Sounds about 100%.
Can I continue?
Go ahead.
So, yeah.
So, and then when I found this out, obviously, I didn't reach out to her.
I'm like, look at this.
I was sharing that platform with my friends and family members.
Like, can you believe this, bro?
You know, she's like telling lies.
How you know, I was a bad guy, you know, I was a bad influence.
And I just couldn't believe it.
It was just, you know, lies after lies, but it was making her look good, obviously.
But it was just one of the things that I couldn't believe she would, you know, go to that extent to, you know, kind of blackball me or, you know, treat me, you know, paint me like I was the evil person in the relationship, which I wasn't because I did everything for her.
I bent over backwards.
Yeah, it's a long story, but I mean, can you give me an example of one thing that she said and tell me how you would tell the story and how she would tell it?
Not like everything, but just like one specific example that she told.
Oh, yeah, definitely.
Let's see.
So, okay, so I live in San Diego, Go Padres, right?
So we had this pool party at one of the places where, you know, me and my housemates were renting.
It was like a five-bedroom house, nice size pool, hot jacuzzi, and everything.
So we had, it was summertime and we had this huge party.
And so I invite her and I invite some of her friends.
And my, my, the main housemate is a personal trainer and he has his own gym, his CrossFit gym.
So of course he would bring his clients and his coaches.
And it was just, you know, it wasn't as bad as Girls Gone Wild, but it was pretty close enough because all the hot coaches and the clients were wearing, you know, they were super fit, wearing their best bathing suits, outfits.
And, you know, obviously, I wasn't going to hide anything from my fiancé at the time.
So I said, you know what?
Come on down.
Let's have a good time.
You know, it's going to be, it's going to be a great time.
So she gets there.
She doesn't like what she sees.
She looks at me like, hey, what's going on here?
So I'm like, okay, well, you know, just relax, you know, let's have some drinks and enjoy the views and enjoy the music.
So as soon as she gets home, she tells like her friends and family members, oh my God, you know, this, you know, he invited me to like this, like, you know, almost like a, like a diddy party or something like that, you know, half naked.
and you're trying to be like honest and like transparent about it it was ridiculous you know
I mean, she went, she went as far as contacting my mother to tell her what I was up to with these guys that I'm living with.
I'm like, it's not, that wasn't even the case.
I'm like, and how dare you go behind my back?
You know, these, this, these issues are between you and I.
I mean, don't bring my family into it.
So, how did she take the so she went on a pot?
Like, when you broke up with her and dumped her, was she like balling and stuff?
Or how did she react when you actually broke up with her?
Oh, yeah, she was just crying, you know, and you know, I think I heard another uh guest mention something about, you know, or maybe those are the videos that you were putting on earlier, how, you know, oh my God, you know, you're my life, you know, take me back, you know, I can change.
And I said, listen, you're never going to change.
You know, it's like, I saw the red flags and I thought once we got engaged that she would change knowing that this was going to be a serious thing and we were moving forward.
But she just got even worse.
And I'm like, you know what?
You can't change a zebra stripes, right?
I mean, you're never going to change.
You are who you are.
You're super jealous.
You're super controlling.
It's like, and I don't deserve this.
So I treated you nothing like a queen.
So it's time for me to move on.
Dang.
Well, good for you.
And so after you said all that, that's when she went on the podcast?
Yeah, maybe six months later, she got into this podcast, religious Christian podcast.
And it's just pain.
Over here, you know, look, women are whores.
Women are mothers.
But the worst thing about modern women is that they can't, they overshare too much.
Britney Renner.
Brittany Renner, she could have won if she would have made a couple of different decisions.
And the worst part about a Britney Renner isn't the fact that she's a waste of a pretty, isn't the fact that she's a whore.
Isn't the fact that she freaking groomed some young 18-year-old and had his kid.
It's the fact that she can't keep her mouth shut.
If you get with a Britney Renner, she will write a book about you.
Your ex.
Any guy that gets with her is going to be fodder for a podcast afterwards.
I agree 100%.
Brittany Renner's made a comeback this year.
Let's see if she pulls off Kevin Gates, you know?
She made one of his wives.
Yeah, she's doing that like the buzzer beater, like the Kobe at the end.
Let's see if it goes in.
We'll see.
Yep.
All right.
Thanks for calling in.
Okay, Colin, anytime.
Thanks, Pearl.
Okay.
Then we have a return guest.
We have Detox is back on.
Let me get him in here.
Detox, how you doing, buddy?
What's going on, buddy?
How you doing?
Doing good.
How's it going, Detox?
Just terrible.
Just terrible.
How you doing, Pearl?
Why?
What's that?
It's a joke.
It's a joke.
I'm doing great.
How you guys doing tonight?
Good.
So, what's the worst way a woman's reacted when you've dumped her?
I got a few of them because I dumped quite a few chicks in my days.
But the most recent one, we were like an on again, off again.
But I'll start out just to give her some credit.
She wasn't always like this.
It didn't start out this way.
Okay.
I had brought her, and believe it or not, this is a traditional woman.
She was from another country.
I brought her over to the States.
We were sharing a place.
What continent?
I don't want to say because if I say that, like, people know my profile and stuff.
So I don't want to.
Okay, sorry.
Let's just say not from the United States.
Okay.
Cool.
Okay.
She was staying in my apartment.
And then little by little, the modern woman started creeping out.
Right.
So one night we got in this argument and the argument was unresolved in the nighttime.
We both went to bed pissed off.
And then the next day, the next day, I was like, I slept on the couch and she slept in the bed.
I went in there to wake her up and I gave her a kiss on the forehead and she jumped up and she's like, I was sleeping.
I was sleeping.
Why the woke me up?
And she just started wigging out.
So I went, like, I left the situation.
I went into the living room and that pissed her off even more.
Right.
She runs into the living room.
She's, she's like yelling at me because obviously in her head, she thinks she's doing the best she can do to resolve the situation.
And I just didn't like the way she was talking to me.
It was like she was standing over me, putting her fingers in my face.
And I was like, I'm not going to talk to you when you're pissed off like this.
Right.
And she goes, if you walk out that door, we are finished.
We are done.
And I'm like, whatever.
So I take out my phone and I start like just ignoring her and looking at YouTube or whatever, just trying to like tell her to like, I'm not going to engage with you while you're all pissed off like this.
She snatches the phone out of my hand.
Right.
And I'm like, I got really fucking pissed, but I held my temper.
I'm like, don't fucking do that.
I take my phone back from her.
She snatches it out of my hand again, but to the point where it like hits my hand and my phone falls.
Right.
So at that point, she's like, she's like cocking back like she's ready to swing on me.
And I grabbed her hands and like I pushed her back.
Right.
So after that argument, we pretty much broke up the next day.
I had to kick her out.
And like, it was like a super, super duper dramatic scene.
Right.
So at this point, we're broken up.
Like I kicked her out.
I'm like, I don't want to see you again.
She, she, she took an Uber all the way to the airport and flew back to her country.
Then later on, like a couple of weeks later, I find out that she's telling my mom, like, oh, he put his hands on me and he was very aggressive and violent.
And she's basically saying like all the stuff that she did to me that I did to her.
And that it was so messed up of, so messed up of me to kick her out at 2 a.m. in the morning.
Like she was just some like, like I just started this whole shit for no reason, right?
It was insane.
All right.
So then we started talking again, like to fix the relationship.
It was, it was like on and off again for like two years, right?
We started talking again to like fix the relationship.
I missed her.
She missed me.
We were like working through all of our issues.
Right.
And so I'm getting ready to go fly down to her country to meet her.
And then me and my mom are having this conversation.
Whenever your girlfriend becomes like best friends with your mom and you don't like your mom, that is a huge red flag.
Because if they get along and your mom is crazy, most likely the girlfriend is going to be crazy too because they think alike.
So she, I'm getting ready to go fly down and my mom is like, why are you going to go see that girl?
My mom had this thing where she would like play both sides, right?
She would be like my girl's best friend when I wasn't around.
And when my, when my girl wasn't around, she'd be like my best friend and like say bad stuff about her.
Right.
So my mom is like, you shouldn't be wasting time going to go see that girl.
I don't know.
Why?
She basically starts explaining to me that this girl told her.
So she was in the process of reapplying to get her visa to come back to the States.
Right.
She told my mom that I called the American embassy or whoever it does that hands out the visas, that I called them and ruined her visa.
And that's why she failed her visa test.
And I could not believe what I was hearing.
Right.
So then she, she, I was like, fuck that.
I'm not going down there.
Right.
Like, why would you say something like that with zero proof?
And then just because you felt like I did that.
It was completely assline, backshit, backwards.
Like you just, you're just making shit up at this point to make me look bad.
And then saying that behind my back to like people we know.
Right.
So then she, so we hadn't talked for like at that point, I just stopped responding to her.
So then I think it had been like maybe 20 something days, like 21 or 22 days later.
I just got back from a work trip.
She's, she calls me and I'm like, I'm on the phone with the client.
Like, let me call you back.
She calls me again.
I say, stop calling.
I had to text her.
Like, she just kept calling over and over and over and over.
And basically, like, I lost a lot of money on the sales call because the client just kept hearing boop, boop, boop, every five seconds while I'm trying to have this business, this business call.
And like, this is right when the economy started getting like really crappy.
So I really, really needed that money.
Right.
I tell her, stop calling me.
I'll call you in a little bit.
Like, what is so important that you have to talk to me right now?
Right.
She goes, Did you tell these people that did that?
And basically, she started listing off all of this crazy shit that never happened.
And I was like, That's why you're blowing up my phone.
Like, you couldn't wait to talk about this later.
So, so ultimately, what ended up happening happening with this girl?
Nothing.
I just stopped talking to her, man.
Like, it got really bad.
We just got in a few arguments.
And, and then, um, so two of the clients, we were running this business together, like, really successfully.
I gave her like my worst clients, but those clients, um, a large portion of my clients were also like friends that I knew for a really long time.
She ended up becoming like best friends with my clients, and now they don't talk to me because of all the crazy shit that she's put up with.
Oh, yeah, basically, poisoning.
There's so many women doing that, actually.
Yeah, they start hanging out with all your best friends and all of your family, and they just like basically manipulate them against you, like to absorb the resources.
It's crazy.
You want to hear the old, so I had a friend.
Um, he was 20 years old, 19 years old, and he got this girl pregnant.
And his mom, okay, his mom was a single mom and hated his dad, right?
So, right away, the mom took his baby mother's side.
So, he had she had the kid, and I was working a part-time job in retail at the time.
And this guy's baby mother would come to the store and follow him around, yelling and screaming at him, calling him all sorts of names.
You say he wasn't a man, he wasn't a good dad.
And then his mom and his baby's mother were the same, were friends.
So, then his mom would say the same thing: oh, you're just like your dad, you know, you're a piece of garbage, blah, blah, blah.
Right.
And he put up with that for two years, right?
Dude, well, he bought an over-the-counter a DNA test.
He swapped that baby's mouth.
Swapped his mouth.
It wasn't his kid.
That's wild.
Two years of his baby mama yelling and screaming at him and his mom yelling and screaming at him, shaming him, calling him names, insulting him.
No one's going to be able to do it.
So fighting with the baby mama.
Right when he found out he packed up his stuff and moved out of state.
Yeah.
The crazy thing is, I wish there were some type of legal repercussions that would happen to people that do that.
Like, I've heard some horror stories, dude.
Like, absolute horror stories are like dudes end up, you know, taking their own life and eating, you know, stuff they shouldn't be eating or swallowing, you know, chemicals that keep cars cool, like just doing all kinds of stuff just to get out of the situations.
Like, they're that stressed out, you know?
It like really wrecks their mind and people just don't care, you know?
Like, I know this back to the this one chick that I broke up with, she ended up like becoming friends with a guy that I make music with, and then he had to deal with her shit.
And she did like even crazier stuff to him.
But after I broke up with her, right, she, so I was already seeing somebody new, and then like we were talking about fixing the relationship or whatever.
She comes over to me and this new chick, like, just to talk or whatever.
And the new chick was in the other room sleeping, and her, her bedroom door was right next to the front door.
And I'm like, look, keep it down.
She's sleeping.
Like, I don't want to argue with you right now.
And she's like, dude, I hate your ass.
And she just started wigging out.
She slams the door so hard that like the foundation of the house was like shaking and it cracked.
And of course, my roommate woke up.
Then she starts hanging out with all of all of my friends, like showing up to places that she did, she had zero idea that we would be.
She just magically found out we were there.
Like, um, in the city that I live in, we do this thing called the drum circle, where like a few hundred people go to the beach and you know, we go out there and have a few drinks.
So, she would just show up and find us like she had GPS on us, bro.
Why would you want to be around someone that you like aren't together with anymore?
Do you know what I mean?
Like, don't you want to find a new boyfriend?
Yeah, exactly.
Well, she did find a new, she did find a new boyfriend, which was like one of my one of my best friends, and then he drove her crazy.
And she did the same thing to him that she did to me, you know?
So, she dated one of your best friends.
Like, were you mad at him?
No, I didn't care.
I wasn't like super in love with this girl.
I was kind of just banging her.
And, like, we ended up living together and like producing music together, but I wasn't like, I wasn't like super into her, you know, like we were just kind of like hooking up.
And I called her my girlfriend, but I didn't like actually.
So, do you date a bunch of these creative music artist type?
I mean, I have dated a few, not a, not like a ton, maybe like four or five.
Because you know, all of them are crazy.
You know that, right?
Don't talk about us creatives like that, man.
No, I'm talking about the women, not the men.
No, I've dated some pretty awesome creative women, man.
They're not all bad.
Trust me.
There's a lot of amazing women out there.
But to finalize that story, one of the things she would do, right, is so she was also my sister's best friend for a while up until the point where I broke up with her.
She stopped talking to my sister all of a sudden, like my sister was evil.
And they never had a problem in like their 20, 25 years of friendship until I, like, until we broke up.
Right.
She started.
So I had moved in with, so the same girl that I was living with, well, we ended up not becoming a thing.
And then, but we were like still really good friends.
So her and her boyfriend had this place and they invited me to come stay or come visit or wherever.
I ended up moving in with them because they were like awesome people, you know?
And this chick would come over to the house.
And when she found out I lived there, she's like, you guys need to tell him to leave.
And they're like, we're not going to kick him out.
This is his, this is his house, too.
What are you talking about?
She would like talk shit to all of my friends about how terrible of a guy I was and how mean I was to her.
And he's such a bad guy and blah, And then, so she formed like this whole little online community where all they do is like talk about me.
You know how I realized what the men go through is because when I started thinking or I guess talking like a guy in some retrospects, they started treating me like you guys.
I mean, I got whole coalitions of women that try to take me down.
So I call it the Facebook fan clubs.
I mean, that one woman probably cost me $2 million.
One scorned woman.
That's insane.
It's, you know, I kind of understand when men don't fight.
They're just like, look, you win, lady.
Look, you win.
Just take whatever the fuck you want to take.
Those groups, those groups took me to some pretty dark and like depressing places.
But like over time, like after 10 years, I'm just like, you know what?
Whatever.
These people are going to say whatever they want to say about me.
Like, I just don't give a shit about it anymore.
So after a while, it's more amusing than anything.
Like, these people are still talking about me because we broke up like 10 years ago.
They're still in the Facebook group about you.
Every, like, every day.
And they, and they track my location too.
So whenever they figure out what city I'm in, they put it in the group.
Are you like a DJ or something?
I don't know.
How do they know what location you're in?
Because somebody that they know will see me or like an old friend that I definitely don't talk to anymore will call me up and like start a conversation or say they have work.
And then they'll be like, oh, by the way, where are you?
And then they just disappear.
And then I'll notice that whenever I'm in that city, like at certain locations, like people start treating me different.
Like I've had places where people were like super friendly to me.
Now they're like spitting in my coffee.
Oh my God.
That's the worst.
It's the worst when you know they're doing it, but you can't prove it, but you can just tell.
Do you know what I mean?
They give you the look.
They give you the, I call it the look.
Like once you see that look, you know they recognize you before you recognize them.
Yeah.
It says, CRX Joe says, 49 and tired of dealing with all this BS.
The ex-wife screwed three different guys and handed me divorce papers.
And she told me what she did.
Women are evil.
Like, why didn't she just, if you didn't know about the cheating, why didn't, why did she tell you?
You know what I mean?
Like, she could have, she could have divorced you and like made up some, you know, sob story or said you don't appreciate it.
That would have been better than I just, what's what's the purpose of saying that?
You know what I mean?
Like imagine if a guy's gonna like dump you and he's like, oh, and I eff'd her, her, I effed your friend.
It's like, for why?
Why would you do that?
Yeah, they just do that.
It's because, I mean, they don't want to punch you physically or fight you.
So they'll just try and like get at you, you know, emotionally.
But I'm going to run.
Thanks for having me on, guys.
Thanks for coming.
I was here talking to you.
Okay, we have one more person on.
This will be the last call of the night.
Cool.
Bucky in.
Bucky, are you there?
Bucky, are you there?
Yes.
Bucky, how's it going?
How's it going?
How's it going?
Where are you calling out of?
Have you called him before?
That name sounds familiar.
I've called him one time before.
Okay.
What part of the country?
Were you Midwest?
Yeah, I'm in Georgia.
Cool.
Okay.
Well, that's a little soft, but.
Can you hear me?
Yeah, I can hear you.
So tell me your breakup story.
What's the worst way a woman's broken or you've broken, a woman's reacted when you've broken up with her?
Yes, yes.
I didn't tell you I had a breakup story.
I'm an older guy.
I'm in my early 50s, never been married.
And I lived in China for about 20 years.
So I had a girlfriend there.
She was very nice in the beginning.
But later on, as we started to, there were some things between us that, you know, I felt that were her character and mine were a little different.
She wasn't like cheating on me or anything like that.
But we didn't like the same outside of sex.
We didn't have nothing in common.
So I broke.
I told her, you know, that and I had been with her for about six months.
After I told her that, she told me in the Chinese tradition that if you break up with the girl, you got to give them, what do you call it?
Money.
Because like I was in my late 40s at the time, she was in her late 20s.
And they said you wasted their youth because she was with me for about six months.
Okay, that's not that much youth.
Like, come on.
Yeah, yeah.
She's not that.
Yeah.
I don't know why, but she, a lot of Chinese men do that.
That's very common.
Like, they did a younger girl.
If they break up, they have to pay the family some sort of fee.
Okay.
Because, you know, that's what they do.
Okay.
So I told her basically, no, I'm not paying that up.
And so she got her family to come down and harass me at work.
And her family and some other people she had, they would come by and try to demand some money out of me.
So things got a little worse after that.
And I basically had to hire someone to go down and pay her family a visit, not violently, but to let them know things could escalate if you keep on bothering me.
And they kind of backed down once they saw that you, you know, that I, you know, was going to do what I was going to do.
But she turned into a complete monster after that.
Because she said, I told her.
Was this in China?
I'm sorry, what?
Did you say you said she was Chinese?
Was this in China?
Okay.
Yeah, this was, yeah, because I don't know if she wouldn't have gotten away with that here in the States, but in China, there's a lot of men that do do that.
Like if they're wealthy and they're rich and they marry or they're with a girl who's like in their 20s, they got to pay for visiting expenses and all this other stuff.
And if they break up, the family will want like a fee for that because they say you wasted their youth.
So in China, it's called Chin Chun Fei.
So that was a crazy situation.
But that was the craziest one I had been through.
And I still don't know why she was like that.
We got another super chat.
Wait, hold on.
I want to read it really quick.
She was evil, claimed to be Christian.
Thank you for the super chat, guys.
Wow.
So it's common there for like boyfriends to get harassed for wasting women's youth, essentially, if they break up with them.
No, I won't, I don't want to give China a bad name because there's a lot of very nice Chinese women and women of all races.
So I'm not saying that, but it is common.
But here's the thing.
Most Chinese guys will pay that up if they have like, if they, I don't know, like they're what I call cultural tricks.
So they automatically know that it's going to cost money just to, especially if she's attracted to be with this girl.
So if he, if he's an older guy like myself in his 40s and the girl he had, he had was in her 20s, then yeah, it's common for them to do that.
But most people are not wealthy.
They don't have that much money.
So most times, like, it's not like that.
It's like both people are in high school.
How was it being a passport, bro, there?
Did you get like a lot more female attention?
Like going from America?
You have an American accent, so I'm going to assume you're American.
Yeah.
Yeah, I got a lot more.
Yeah.
If you go to China, there's not too many black, well, I'm African American.
There's not too many black people there.
And although there is sort of a bad stigma, but you get a lot, you get a lot more attention from people in general.
Yeah.
And I like petite skinny women.
So they're right up my alley.
Yeah.
So go ahead.
Was it like 10x or just a little bit better?
Like, I'm just curious the difference in dating like American women versus Chinese.
Okay, that's a good question.
Here's the thing.
I think if you're good with women here in the States, like you just, you know how to talk, you know how to interact.
You know, some guys are just good at it.
They're better at it.
You'll get like tenfold there.
Like you will, you know, you'll get better.
If you're like me, I wouldn't say I was socially awkward, but I don't really go out that much and talk to a lot of women.
But I can still, you know, talk to a girl and get her interested.
Then it's like 5X, but I noticed the difference.
Like guys you see who normally might be losers here, they'll pick up a lot of women there, even if they're socially awkward.
They'll get more women.
But if you're already good with women, it's like tenfold.
And are the women of a higher quality there?
Like, are they more feminine?
I mean, clearly, at least that one was at least just as crazy as American.
Yeah, yeah.
But I'm just curious, overall, did you, like, like pros and cons of Chinese versus American?
I just like to get, that's a unique experience.
So I think it's interesting.
And you live there for 20 years too?
Yeah, so tell us.
Yeah, I went there in the late 90s.
And it was completely different by the time I left, which was like in 2021.
I came back here.
So in the late 90s, China was much more conservative.
But behind closed doors, I noticed people would say like, oh, everybody, like the Chinese woman will tell you, oh, yeah, we Chinese are conservative and you Americans are like open.
And they are right because just to a bigger degree, because Chinese are more traditional.
But I discovered like behind closed doors, like when you got to know people, so-and-so was sleeping with this person.
I was a teacher at the time, and so-and-so was sleeping around with the professor.
And so you did it, but they kind of kept it in wraps.
Now, things started to change like in the 2010s, like 2010, 2012, and it became more like open, you know, to be promiscuous.
But they're not, it's still not like it's here.
Like you can't really just go out and, you know, with your butt out and hang out in the strip club or they don't have that type of thing there.
The government does crack down on open displays of sexuality.
I've heard you need a lot more money to get married there.
Is that true?
Yeah, there's a thing they called hong bao.
Hong bao is a red package.
So if you get married there and you know, you think, oh, what's the word?
Dowry.
You give like the wife a dowry.
So some people give a lot, some people give a little, but it's customary for the man to give something to the woman's family.
Now, some, oh, another thing too, in China, if you get married and you're a guy, you better have a home or at least an apartment and a car.
If you don't have that, it's a little more difficult because the parents won't think you have anything for their daughter.
So a lot of guys make sure they have that before they even think about marriage.
Got it.
Just one second.
CRX Joe says, thank you for the support of men.
I've been watching your channel for a while now.
Keep doing what you're doing.
Thank you for the super chat, guys.
It's very helpful when you guys send them.
Because we are monetized on YouTube now.
So thank you so much.
Sorry, continue.
I'm sorry, what else did you ask me?
i think i was just um the pros and cons of um was there anything better about american women that you like missed when you went there um i like petite women but i do like not fat but i like you know okay like you know yeah you you like step in the right places Yeah, yeah, that's it.
That's it.
Yeah.
So Chinese are a little skinny, but once they take off, you know, once it comes off, I don't get too graphic here, but, you know, some people, they just hide it better, like how they dress.
But in terms of like, here's the thing.
When I was here in the States, I really, I was going to college.
This was a long time.
It was like in the 90s.
And I really didn't, I was a guy in my early 20s.
I didn't really start exploring women till I got there.
So I really don't know much about American women.
I know a lot about Chinese and Asian women.
So I mean, Chinese and Asian women from that part of the country, not the ones living here.
So, yeah, there is a difference.
As I said before, they're more conservative.
But if you get one girl that's very honest about her sexuality, people start to come out more like in the 2010s.
I noticed things changed.
So that's when you started seeing more people be honest about their sexuality.
And what they try to do in China is they tell foreigners that, oh, yeah, Chinese people, they'll still see this today.
Like Chinese are very conservative, and the West is like, you know, really corrupt.
When in reality, like behind those doors, they're doing all the same type of stuff.
It's just more secret.
Yeah, women are women.
Yeah, they like you, you know.
You know, I could tell you story after story of, you know, when I first got there, I was this woman, she was married.
She was an older woman.
She, I was like in my late 20s, she was an older woman, and she was married, and she didn't tell me.
But she was giving me this guy's credit card, and then I was driving around in the car that he brought her and all this crazy stuff.
Then later, I found out that she was married, but she didn't tell me.
So I got pimped big time.
But yeah, yeah.
So you still hit though, right?
Yeah, yeah, actually, yeah.
You didn't die, and you still hit.
Sounds like a win from you.
It was a win, but if that guy ever found out, I don't know what would happen.
I cut that off.
But I want to say one last thing.
Okay.
There's a place in China called Fujian Province.
And a lot of African people go there.
Like a lot of, for some reason, a lot of Africans do business.
And the women there are what they call Sheng Yu.
I don't know if you've heard of this before.
Shengyi.
Leftover women.
Yeah, very good.
It's very popular on YouTube now.
So there's a Chinese women who are like older and they are fine as hell.
They're not like some of these fat.
Like you asked me what was different about America.
In America, you get an older woman.
She doesn't really take care of herself.
But you got women there who are like 40, 50, who look like they're in their late 20s.
Oh my gosh, they don't.
I've never been to China, but in Japan, they don't age.
Yeah, I know.
I know exactly like 20 years, I could misinterpret their age.
Go ahead.
Yeah.
Yeah, you've noticed that you were in Japan.
So yeah, it's the same thing in China.
So you got a lot of women there who are older, who have no children, who are in Chinese one thing, Chinese, I give Chinese credit for.
They're very smart when it comes to business and making money.
Even the average person knows they're very practical.
So you got a lot of these older women who, you know, who got banked, who look good for their age, and who can't find the guy.
And there's more men in China than women.
China has more men than women, slightly more.
So you got a lot of these guys who are older who are wifeless, but they won't even talk to those women.
So if you go to Fujian, they particularly go for a lot of these African dudes who go there and they become like a boy toy.
And I didn't know that until my friend told me, yeah, oh man, I got all my friends over there and I went there with him.
And yeah, they were hitting big time.
And some of these guys were broke, but they go over there and a lot of Chinese like them.
So yeah, that's one difference.
I would say, yeah, you asked me about a difference.
I would say the women who are older, actually, they're actually, I think, well, it depends on what standards you have, but they take care of themselves.
They age better.
I've seen that with like someone in the chat says my ex is Japanese and oh, they age and get fat.
Look, I was there like a long time ago.
I was like 12, but I just remember that some of the moms, I couldn't believe they were moms because they looked like 20, 25.
But she was like, like the kids were old, like it wasn't like a young mom with a baby.
Um, okay, well, thanks so much for sharing.
Doug MPA, you got any other questions for him?
Nope.
Thanks for bringing that perspective, man.
We really appreciate it.
Yeah, that was super interesting.
Call in anytime, okay?
Yeah, if I have something useful to add, I'll call in, you know, and just shed a little light on some subjects.
Sure.
If I don't, then you won't hear from me.
Okay.
Call anytime.
Maybe we'll do, see, Doug MPA.
Maybe we could do a passport bros show.
Yeah.
And guys can share there.
Because we just had two semi-passport bros call in.
So you could have guys talk about why we could get Austin Holloman to call in.
He's done, I did a show with him like a long time ago.
Are you there?
Yeah.
I thought the sound went out for a second.
Yeah, yeah.
Yeah.
I'll have to reach out to him.
Cool.
Yeah.
Those are all the rest of the callers.
Cool.
Well, guys, thanks so much for calling in.
It's been great getting callers the last few weeks.
So I really appreciate it.
Doug MPA, any final thoughts on dumping women?
Women, learning how to take an L is part of being a man.
We all remember the first time we got our hearts ripped out.
And men, we just got to keep going.
You know, you get your heart ripped out, you get rejected, and you got to pick yourself up because men are the ones that approach.
I've met some of the most powerful women, lawyers, doctors, surgeons, and they will not approach a man because they can't handle rejection.
And like the guy, the caller said before, women don't know how to take rejection until they smash into the wall.
A lot of times, you breaking up with them is the first time that anyone has told them no in their lives.
So, guys, just watch out.
You break up with a woman, you know, hopefully she's know where you live.
If you break up with her at your house, protect that PS5.
They always go for the PS5, man.
So watch out for that.
Yeah, but these, you know, but and I just recommend ghosting, guys.
You know, just ghosting.
Okay.
That's it.
All right.
Thank you, Doug MPA.
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And I'm thinking about doing the Amish video in the next like two weeks.
And I want to keep you guys posted.
So I want to go to an Amish neighborhood and interview some Amish people.
And I have two choices for this video.
I can go to this Amish place that I went to when I was a kid.
It's like three hours from where I'm at now, and I can just see.
I could just see if any of the Amish will talk to me.
I don't know.
I haven't been there since I was like eight.
Or if somebody watching happens to know any Amish people that would do an interview or something.
And ideally, you're in the Midwest somewhere.
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Yeah.
So, anyways, just so you know, only 4% of the Amish are obese, and the average Amish person lives to be between 80 and 85.
Yeah, I just think it'd be cool to go see their thoughts on like relationships.
And I don't know.
Like, I want to see if any of the women's answers are like, are women women even when they're Amish?
So I just want to see.
So it would kind of be a cool video.
I certainly, I'm totally willing to go to this Amish community by myself and just see.
I'm just a little nervous.
I drive all the way out there and no one will talk to me.