Pearl critiques modern women’s rejection of male relationships, citing Chicago conversations where they dismiss men for effortless female friendships, claiming societal progress—like safety and independence—makes romantic bonds obsolete. She warns of loneliness risks (e.g., Golden Girls) and toxic friendships, like her ex-best friend Liz, while linking trends to shared housing (e.g., Maggie Shambrook’s $120K communal living in Australia). Men may face emotional fallout if women prioritize friend groups over traditional partnerships, even suggesting older widows in Wisconsin date recklessly with little consequence. Ultimately, she frames this as a cultural shift where men could become collateral damage in women’s evolving social strategies. [Automatically generated summary]
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So, I was out in Chicago the other day and I started a conversation with a couple of young women about the dating scene.
During the conversation, the women were talking about how they don't put effort towards dating men because they would rather hang out with women.
I couldn't believe it.
These women were dead serious.
I heard them talk about how much easier it is to go to a club or hang out with the girls or go on a trip with their girlfriends than to put themselves out there in the dating market to find a boyfriend or a husband.
This made me think how this could be.
And I thought of a couple of things.
We are four generations into women being told that they don't need men.
Modern women have forgotten what men bring to the table in relationships, the comfort, the security, and the presence of a masculine man.
Like two, like Myron from Fresh and Fitz says, men have civilized the world so much that women can live alone or with other women.
Packs of women can roam the streets without fear of anything bad happening to them.
And three, women hanging out with their girls short is a short-term solution to a long-term problem that can lead to disaster.
Modern women are giving away their best years to colleges, jobs, and now they're girlfriends.
It's only a matter of time.
Where most of these women will want to be with a man, it's just a matter of when.
But by the time they realize that, it'll be too late.
At this rate, it's going to be like 62.
That's the day they're ready to settle down.
Okay, so you can see on social media women swearing that they will never leave their friends for a man.
They that they have time, that they have time with their girls or they can go on girls' trips.
But what I would say to them is, you can't marry your girlfriends.
Well, I mean, some might, but you can't have kids with your girlfriends.
Your girlfriends won't provide for you and protect you.
And also, like I say on my channel all the time, women can't stand each other.
If you ask most women who has done the worst, most download thing to them, it's usually other women.
And I believe that a woman has more of a chance of getting betrayed by their girlfriends in a 20-year period than by their husbands.
Lastly, most women can count on their friends being there for them in their old age.
We have all watched the series Golden Girls.
That's a real thing.
A bunch of old, lonely women living together.
Is this the type of life that women want to live?
So we're going to start with seven reasons why women choose their friends over a man or over boyfriends.
So, okay, seven reasons why girls choose friends over boyfriends.
The tiff between friends and boyfriends is never-ending.
Have you guys ever dated a woman and felt like you had to date her whole friend group?
Like it's not just her, it's the friend group you have to appease to.
Because every time you guys have a fight, she goes to the friend group, and now you have to rationalize.
You have to tell your side to the friend group.
The former has been through with her through all the roller coaster rides of life, while the other has brought has brought bought has bought an all-new meaning to her life.
To choose between these two gems has never been easy, but it seems girls value friendship more than their own real-life relationships.
So before you get into a relationship with your dream girl, make sure she doesn't have a best friend.
I mean, definitely not the one in, I mean, definitely not the one in Piar Capunchimana.
Have a look at the reasons which convey why girls are inclined to move more towards their friends.
As you never know, these might act as best relationship tips for you.
Number one, friendship is forever.
Once a girl has, that's not true at all.
Once a girl has chosen her soul sister, dare you replace her.
They might fight like cats, but in hard times, you would watch them being each other's back.
Being each other's back.
Oh, just to be clear, a girl never finds a soul brother in her male friend.
Fights with best friends are free from any knots, whereas single friends with the boyfriend can ruin the fairytale dream.
Number two, deeply entrenched in each other's lives.
Friends have stuck for her for obviously a longer period of time, and anybody would place their old relations above their new one.
From her grunge and gross, dressed up, dress up as a team to perfectly dressed adult, they have seen it all.
Although there's no denial that boyfriends can do romantic things to melt their woman's hearts, but friends steal the show often.
Three, the lightness of mind and soul.
When compared to long hours spent with their boyfriends, even if you minutes with friends, feel more honest and relaxed.
Yeah, because do you know the same way you guys have to lie to us to make us happy?
We have to lie to you too.
There's this idea that being honest has a good relationship.
Okay, let's pretend both sexes were honest.
Okay, let's pretend.
Then the men would say, the men would say, I want to fuck your friend.
Your friend's hotter than you.
Yeah, I want to bang the front.
But do you say that?
No.
No.
Because, or the sister or the mother, whoever the hell it is.
You guys don't say that because you love us.
The same way women, we don't say, my ex was better than you.
Or we don't say, you know, we don't, we don't say uncomfortable truths like our body can.
There's a reason that we lie.
We have to.
Do you guys really want to know?
Do you know?
You don't.
You'd rather we lie.
Both sexes, we want to be lied to.
So anyways, yeah, so of course she can be more honest and relaxed with the girlfriend.
She can be herself.
Anyway, she's an open book in front of her friends.
Moreover, she can share anything and everything with them.
Therefore, being loyal is not a big task for her.
Until women use that honesty against each other and destroy their reputation and ruin their life.
Ask me how I know.
The rescuers, after all the pebbles that life has thrown at her, she's got her friends to bring her back together.
Boyfriends might be the ex, but friends are never getting older.
So it's a scolding of her parents or a fight with a boyfriend.
She finds home in her friends' hug.
Five, a bucket full of weirdness, all crazy and quirky things.
Find their place at a friend's lap.
She can be drenched in foolishness and still no one would judge her.
I mean, this is, yeah, women can be more annoying with each other.
Where you might tell her to shut the fuck up, right?
Yeah, it's, yeah, it's, they have their own humorous dancing on the world's weirdest yet funniest songs.
Her A-rated talks find a higher level when she is with the gang.
Six, no need of space.
Most of the fights in a relationship revolve around the space each partner need.
The quarrel over minimal things result in a tensed atmosphere.
But with friends, you need no space as you already have the freedom of speech and action.
Seven, friends are family.
Friends spend long hours in her house doing nothing as if it is their own house and her parents and their parents.
Also, with passing days, they become a large part of the family.
On the other hand, she needs to think a hundred times about bringing her boyfriends to meet her parents.
Yeah, so women are even making articles about choosing their friends over a man.
But don't just believe the articles.
Believe women themselves as we make TikTok saying the same exact thing.
Don't ditch your friends for a boyfriend.
You only have so much free time.
Do you know what I mean?
You got to ditch somebody for your boyfriend.
So it's either the job.
You know we're not going to do that.
The friends.
And now they're saying don't do that.
Don't do that.
Especially now that I'm 27 and I'm still seeing a lot of women do that.
I'm like, girl, stand up.
Stand up.
Look, first off, if your boyfriend is isolating you from your friends, red flag, leave.
Of course, it's the fat girl saying this.
Of course.
I see those.
I see the blubber.
I see the cat.
That's disgusting.
And you should be able to have girl nights.
That's normal.
In fact, that's very healthy.
You don't need to do everything with your partner.
For God's sake.
Also, stop calling him your other half.
You, you yourself, you are whole as a person.
You are whole as a person.
He is not your other half.
He is just an addition to your life.
I always tell my boyfriend, I want you.
I don't need you.
Can you imagine her telling you this all the time?
It's like we behave badly and then just brag about it.
And we think it's like a good thing.
You gotta think it like that, girls.
Stand up.
Because I see sometimes here some things that concern me.
And I need y'all to stand up.
It's okay to be in love, but stand up.
Yeah, of course.
Of course.
So that's that's womanese for I don't like my boyfriend that much.
When they say I need, I, you know, it's like when a woman really likes a guy, she begs, she pleads, she cries.
Please don't leave me.
Please, please, you know, you know how it goes.
But when she says, I want you, I don't need you, that's I don't like you.
Yeah.
Here we go.
Now she's going to talk about how after 30, friendships have a harder time being maintained.
After 30, if you have a whole bunch of friends, I'm looking at you sideways, point blank, period.
Female friendships is one of the most hardest things to maintain besides your bills.
It's like literally up there.
You can maintain a relationship with a man more than you can maintain with a female.
I used to think back in the day, like if you didn't have friends or if you didn't have a lot of friends, you were the problem.
You can have acquaintances, but I'm talking about like actual friends.
After 30, I can stand hard on like two good friends, like if I needed to.
You get what I'm saying?
And all you need is like one good best friend.
And like you're good.
Like you're fine.
But I can't be friends with a girl who has all these friends.
Like to me, that's like.
Yeah, the problem is the more like friends a woman has, the more she can manipulate them against you.
She can like turn the group against you.
You know.
Okay, so why you should never choose a man over your female friends.
We got another article.
A couple of years ago, my best friend was arguing with her boyfriend about me.
This guy, oh no, this guy was a grade A, of course, emotionally abusive tool bag.
Without going too far into the details of their relationship, I'll say he had made it his mission to drive a wedge between my friend and me.
Despite the fact I live thousands of miles away, he saw me as a threat to his hold on her.
Anyways, one night, my friend, I'll call her Tara, and I had an especially hilarious conversation on the phone.
I laughed until I cried and so did she.
The tool bag, who I'll call teabag, did not like this.
In the midst of our laps laughter, Tara whispered, oh shit, I gotta go.
I'll call you back later.
My stomach sank.
Shit, shit, shit.
What was happening?
I tried to get in touch with the mutual friend to check on her.
But since it was late in the U.S., I couldn't find anyone.
About 30 minutes later, she called me back, her voice hushed and thick sounding.
I don't know.
He gets so mad when I'm talking to you.
So what really happened, guys?
Put what you think really happened in the chat.
The laughing especially, he's convinced we're laughing at him.
It just infuriates him.
He said, Luis will never choose you over her husband.
I'm all you have.
In that moment, several things became obvious to me.
One teabag had to go immediately.
Friends and I had tried to eject him from her life before.
Okay, there's the real story.
But things were escalating and she had to get out now.
A short while later, Tara's relocation was orchestrated by friends and family while I could not be there.
We were almost, we were in almost constant contact as she extricated Teabag from her life.
So yeah, again, usually when a guy has boundaries, standards, or really asks anything of a woman, that's when everyone in her life will try to get her to leave him.
Yeah.
Anna on the chat says, I would choose my husband over female friends if I had to.
Luckily, I don't have to choose.
Thanks, Anna.
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He was wrong.
There is no choosing.
There is no either or.
There is no, there is room in my heart for both my husband and the woman I love.
The love is not the exact same thing, but take one away and I would be incomplete.
So often I think it's an expectation that once a woman is married, her friends, especially other female friends, become secondary.
A child is remnant from a former life.
I often encounter this idea among friends, acquaintances, acquaintances, or family that when a woman who marries a man, the marriage consumes her.
Yeah, because if you have a kid, it's like, are you going to go to the club with your friends or read your kid a bedtime story?
You really got to pick.
You can't be there for both, right?
There's a pre-game.
Being a grown-up married woman somehow means that a woman's husband should be her best friend, her lover, her soulmate, or everything.
But how could one person be another person's everything?
Frankly, that's a lot of pressure.
And I can't imagine being another person's everything.
I'm happy that I'm not my husband's everything, nor is he mine.
This is a conversation that is changing.
But even when I was in the process of managing my life with my husbands three years ago, there was a bit of worry in the back of my head that somehow I would lose myself, my friendships, or that I was expected to.
But the truth is, without my female friendships, I wouldn't know a thing about love.
The first person I ever got a love letter from, arguably the only person, was my friend Liz.
We'd been best friends since high school, went to colleges very far apart, and were very lonely one spring break.
Neither of us could afford to go home.
And as we sat in our dorm rooms in different parts of the country, we longed for each other's comfort.
Then I got an email from her.
In her letter, she talked about relationships and crushes, friends, and intimacy.
At one point, she wrote, But our friendship has taught me about love.
I doubt other people, but I don't doubt you.
I love you through your weirdness.
You love me through my weirdness.
Sometimes I'm somebody else with other people just like you are.
But I'm me when I'm with you.
I want to be madly in love one day, but our friendship is a guide.
This is how love is supposed to be.
You're the only person I've ever wanted to write a love letter to.
Thank you.
So again, this is us, we try to make our husbands into women, right?
We like tell them about our problems.
They become our best friend.
Big L for the men.
I felt the same, and I still do.
In that precarious time when we were trying to figure out adulthood and how to be in adult relationships, Liz and the depth of my acquaintance and appreciation for each other's greatness and shortcomings gave me something to strive for.
Through boyfriends and girlfriends, Liz and my relationship was always the benchmark of how I deserved to be loved for and cared for by anybody.
I remember being in a relationship where I was tactically, or not so tactically, asked to be someone else to alter fundamental things about myself.
These relationships always began to sour as soon as I'd remember Liz and think, is this not how I want to be loved?
Is this how I want to be loved someone?
As someone, I'm not.
Decades later, I still think of Liz's words when I'm confronted with questions of honesty or authenticity in relationships.
The first time I said I love you and I meant it was to my friend Beth.
Those three words had always terrified me.
I'd said to people before, but I always felt a nagging guilt about it.
I wasn't sure if I'm being honest.
Beth was and is one of those friends who would never lie to you, no matter how painful it is to both of you.
We worked in the same office when I was in my early 20s and we became fast friends over the hatred of scanning photos and having to take notes at production meetings.
What struck me and scared me about Beth is that she was immediately able to see through my BS.
What I usually, while I usually could charm people into forgiving my forgetfulness or selfishness, she wouldn't stand for it.
You're not a shitty person, but sometimes you really act like one.
She said to me one night after I had behaved especially lousy, I don't remember all the details, but it involved her waiting for me for hours while I flirted around doing God knows what.
I could shrink off most others' anger, but when Beth looked at me, it wasn't anger.
It was hurt and disappointment.
I mean, they should date.
She's a lesbian.
That's what I'm getting from this article.
Well, we had it out that night amidst the tears and the frustration.
I realized that Beth was angry because she cared enough to hold me accountable for my actions.
Though I didn't like to see it in myself, she saw me as somebody better than the idiot I was acting like.
After the dust settled, I offered the most sincere apology I had ever given up, given at that point.
While Beth accepted and hugged me, I told her I loved her and the first time I meant it 100%.
While I felt like I had my armor torn away, I never lost my trust in Beth and I never felt more loved.
That night, I added, holding the person you love accountable, even when it hurts to my mental definition of love.
Over the years, I've had many experiences that have shaped what love meant to me.
Some were with men, romantic or platonic, but the majority has been with friends who are women.
And although I've learned a lot about love in the 10 years that someone in a physical relationship reveals things that aren't always uncovered in friendship, I find myself reaching for the lesson on love I've learned from the women in my life rather than past romantic relationships.
This is not to say that women's friendships are in service to the ultimate payoff of marriage, blah, blah, blah.
Far from it.
I'm not even really saying that this is entirely unique to women's friendships.
I've just found that it is women who I feel a distinct kinship with.
For me, the ultimate payoff is that every time true love touches you, you learn a little bit more about how to love yourself and others.
You learn about how you see.
There doesn't have to be a winner.
Yeah, because it's going to be the friends.
It's not going to be you fellas.
Sorry.
I hate to be the bearer of bad news, but if she's got a thought friend, you're cooked.
Done.
That's it.
I don't have one person in my life who's my everything, but the people I've chosen to love me are everything.
Without them, I'd be nothing.
And the foods, oh wait, okay, this is talking about something else.
Yeah, so here we got women talking about how why you should never choose a man over your female friends.
And I just want to show you guys how this in essence plays out.
Like, what is the long-term ramifications of this?
Where does this go in 20 years?
Well, what we're going to see is a lot of female community living together.
So you're going to see women sharing apartments, sharing community homes, and single mothers choosing each other instead of a man.
And then they're going to break up, blow up, and the women will go on to the next parasite.
After dealing with divorce, Tessa Guider and Christian bait to Keffer decided to raise their family in a, wait for it, wait for it.
So it's like a play on like mother and community, like mom, you and like it's still a community of moms living together under one roof, helping each other raise children together.
So the backstory is I found out that my husband was cheating on me for a year and I left him, obviously.
And then my friends were like, hey, you guys can come live with us while you're figuring out this next phase of your life.
And then my best friend also went through an equally terrible year.
Yeah, when one friend in the divorce, like when one girl in the friend group gets divorced, I got bad news for you fellas.
I got bad news.
You're next.
Yep.
Especially if she's having like a good, if she's having fun.
Women hate being left out of fun, right?
We love fun.
We hate, like, that's why, like, this is kind of how our brains work.
So you guys go to work and we don't realize that you're having a terrible time.
Like, we think you're having fun.
So that's why we had to join work.
So we're like, what?
They get to have fun.
I want to have fun too.
And now we're crying at work.
We're doing like TikToks crying in the car because we don't want to work.
Well, and it's the same thing with divorce, right?
We'll see the women.
And even if it's not a fun divorce, we'll see them and be like, oh, that's so fun.
They're going out to eat prey love.
I want to eat pre-love.
And we don't, what we don't see is the not getting called back, the all this, you know, BS, the ex-husband moving on to someone younger, hotter, better in every way, humbling you.
You know, we don't see that.
We just see the, oh, a trip to Aruba.
I want to go on a trip to Aruba.
And then, yeah, we end up divorcing too.
So yeah, I hate to say it, fellas, but yep, then you're cooked.
Then you're cooked also.
With her husband, the same time as I was.
A couple months into living here, she was called me up and she's like, hey, this isn't working.
I think I'm going to leave my husband.
And I was like, okay, well, come live with us.
It's three moms who are amazing moms.
And I think that's what makes all of it.
When they say I'm an amazing mom, that means they have to say it so their actions don't show it.
Every amazing mom that I know never has to say I'm an amazing mom, right?
It's always, they just are.
It's kind of like the guy that's rich.
He's like telling everyone he's rich.
He's not actually rich.
He's telling everyone he's rich.
It's so beautiful and so easy.
Like, I mean, I'm going through a divorce and yet I'm so happy and calm.
We all help each other with the kids.
We also all help each other with like just cleaning up the house or making dinner.
Like we like kind of just, oh, I'll cook this tonight or I'll cook this tonight.
And we make each other coffee in the morning.
Like it's so crazy.
Women never talk about emotional labor when living with other women, right?
So there's no counting the chores and saying, I did this, you did that, you know, yada, yada, yada.
But when they do it for a man, it's like, that's when we start counting.
Like, it's just like we just like take care of each other.
The con is like I went from, and it's not even really a con, but it's just like I had one kid and now there's three kids in the house.
And so that can be a little bit loud.
House gets, gets noisy.
There's like two, four-year-olds running around and then a one-year-old baby crying at the same time.
And like, it's just can be a lot.
We're very lucky in that our daughters, like our best friends.
Like it's crazy.
They get along so great.
Until the moms have a falling out and then they're going to be ripped apart from their best friend.
And like play together so great.
My biggest piece of advice is that you have to make sure that these people line up with your values.
Kind of who you are as a person, I just think is so important.
I think this whole situation could have gone so differently if there was tension in the house, bad energy, or just somebody who didn't align with how I kind of feel and live my life.
You have to really make sure that you know, like one, that your parenting styles are similar, that your views and your beliefs on things are similar and that you trust those people because like they're going to be around you.
Yeah, we're cooked.
Cooked.
That's the future.
I'm telling you, that's the future.
We're already in it.
We're already watching this go on.
I'm the youngest millennial.
I'm two months away from Gen Z.
I kind of wish I was.
I'd feel younger, you know.
But That's that's what's gonna happen.
And people think I'm blackpilled or a doomer, but I'm like, do you guys not have eyes?
You don't see everyone getting divorced.
You don't see people like, it's like 10-year relationships.
That's what we're kind of in.
It's like a subscription model instead of a marriage model.
Like, I don't know.
And do you know what's crazy?
The people that always call me blackpill are always divorced.
That's that's that's the crazy thing.
It's like they don't, it's like two plus two equals four, right?
Their parents will be divorced.
They'll have gone through a divorce.
And then they'll say, Pearl, you're so blackpilled.
I'm like, what did you do?
You did a subscription model.
Or the women, it's like, what happened to your ex-boyfriend?
Where is he?
They'll be like, oh, I believe in marriage.
Where's your ex-boyfriend?
Well, we weren't married.
Well, were you throwing it back?
Yeah.
Oh, okay.
So I guess it's not that special, is it?
John says, except for you, Pearl, 95% of women are bought and pay for it and can't be trusted.
Well, your kids a lot and you know, basically helping raise your children and your children are going to be like watching them and learning from them.
And so someone said in the chat, I hope Pearl doesn't hit the wall.
Well, I got to do it eventually.
I'm going to age.
I'm going to be 70 and still got it.
I mean, I, you know what?
I reacted to something today, which was a 72-year-old hooker.
She did not still have it, but someone did it.
Like, it's got to be someone that you align with and values and trust.
And you would, you feel safe letting your children.
Yeah.
And now here's the thing.
So single mothers, we all know are whores, right?
So they're all going to be throwing it back and bringing these random men into the house.
And now this has like got to be a father's worst nightmare.
He's like, because you all know that if there was like a horrometer, right?
If there was like a, like, I don't believe that all women are equal sluts in a friend group.
That's not what I've seen.
But what I can say is usually there's somebody putting out in a friend group because a group of guys is not going to hang out with a group of women unless somebody's putting out.
So someone in the friend group's doing it.
And whoever's doing it is going to try to pull all the others towards her.
So she's constantly going to be trying to get the others to be whores.
And naturally, that's like our natural inclination.
For I, I, you know, that's just what we want to do.
Now, there are women that understand there's consequences for doing that, so we don't, right?
But when you have women getting cancer diagnosis and divorcing their husband and throwing it back for 100 men rather than be with their husband, this is a trend.
This is kind of, we're going to do a show on this later, but what does that tell you?
You know, I covered a 72-year-old hooker.
She didn't have sex for 40 years and then was like, I'm going to start throwing it back.
So that's what I can say.
If you get a group of women, they're one of them, and it could be your wife.
You're not really going to know which one's the super slut, right?
You guys marry women that you think are great and they turn out to be super sluts.
So you're not really going to know.
But there's a super slut in the group that's pulling them.
And the longer they're together, the more bad decisions will happen, right?
Because one girl in the group is going to get the Botox and then the other girls are like, I want Botox.
Then, you know, then they do it, right?
One girl in the group is going to be like, I want to travel.
I want to go on all these trips.
And the other girls are going to be like, I want to go on these trips.
And there's no guy to be like, hey, how are you going to pay for that?
And then there's one woman that's going to file bankruptcy and the other girls are like, I'm going to file bankruptcy too and just run on my credit cards.
Right.
So that's kind of how it works.
So this has got to be a living nightmare for the men because these are all cute women, right?
They're all, I know you guys.
These are woods for you.
These are woods.
You would do it.
So if they're woods, then what's going to happen is one of them's going to be thrown it back.
There's going to be a rotation of men.
And then it's also going to, what also is going to happen is they're going to bring over, then the one girl is going to see the other girl bringing home men.
And then the other girl is going to be like, I want to do that.
And then they all start doing it, right?
Then I'm going to take this one step further.
So what's going to happen next is then they're going to sleep with the same guy somehow because obviously the town's not too big, the city.
Some Chad is running through.
He's waiting, right?
He's waiting.
There's some Chad that has a script for single mothers.
He's probably going to give them a really nice script on the first date.
Like he's open to being a stepdad.
He's not, but he's going to get that Poonanni, right?
So he has this waiting for them, this script.
And then, yeah, long story short, they're going to fall for it.
Then they're going to fight over a guy.
And then they're going to break up.
Then the kids are going to be devastated because they lost their best friend.
And then they'll just find the next one.
So that's how it goes.
Okay.
Let's see what we got next up here.
We got older women in Australia also living together.
These women have come to see what their future is.
Yeah.
So this is.
So remember, it's all fun and games after the first divorce, right?
Now, I'm not going to pretend that single mothers have no shot at redemption, right?
It's when they look like this and they're a single mother.
Like the question is, how hot is she?
How hot is she?
How pleasant is she to be around?
And how old is the kid?
You know, like if she got pregnant at 15 and she's 32 and that kid's 17, a lot of guys aren't really going to care, right?
They're going to be like, okay, the kids, I mean, the kid's not really a problem.
Like, I knew a guy who was a pretty successful guy.
And he said that the woman that he loved more than any other woman he dated was a single mom.
But he said the kid was a 16-year-old, good kid who had like no problems at school.
He had his own group of friends.
So it wasn't really like a problem, right?
But if you have a two-year-old in tow, so the younger you get divorced, the better shot you got, right?
And you can also be a second wife, depending on how old the kid is, right?
Because, you know, if a guy, if he's divorced, right, and he doesn't want any kids, if he goes with a childless woman, the problem is she's eventually going to want a kid.
Probably, right?
She might say she doesn't, but you know, eventually it'll come to it.
Where if he gets the single mother, she may be done.
She might be.
I'm not saying she will be.
I'm just saying this is the things that guys are going to think about if you're hot enough.
But these women aren't pulling shit.
I mean, somebody's going to do it, right?
But at this point, they might as well be escorts with this lady I covered earlier today.
It's going to be released next week.
You'll see the video.
They might as well just be an escort because, yeah, nobody's doing that.
And like Tate and thinking I want to protect and provide and come home to that.
It could look like it's a new medium-density social housing development on the Gold Coast.
Oh my goodness, put your own little seating area in here.
It's similar to the type of accommodation they're hoping will solve a problem these women share housing insecurity.
In an all-too-familiar story, Maggie Shambrook had a successful career and single-handedly raised three children.
Then redundancy hit.
I had no success in the private rental market because I was then on Newstart allowance.
With no hope of ever owning.
Translation, I didn't save at all.
I had a very successful career and I saved nothing.
And now I am facing the consequences for my actions, which society never lets me do until I'm old, ugly, and used up.
And now they got to figure out what to do with these old single ladies.
Yep.
Owning their own home, the women sought the help of a newly formed foundation sharing with friends.
After meeting at a workshop, they've decided to pool what little superannuation they have to secure their futures.
They require $120,000 in capital.
Now that buys you nothing in terms of a house in any other private market.
Their investment pays for the construction of affordable, purpose-built accommodation with five private living quarters, communal laundry.
This is the future.
Yeah.
I mean, you kind of see this in retirement neighborhoods.
Like, I have a relative who was married later in life.
And this relative, the husband basically met the woman because he moved into a retirement neighborhood where he wanted to meet the single ladies because there's a lot in retirement homes.
We outlive men.
You know, when I was in high school, they sent me to, I got in trouble for something through a party.
I know.
And it was like 10 people.
But let me tell you, my parents made it seem like World War III.
Like, do you know what?
They left me home alone for two summers in a row.
Okay.
When I was in high school, like a month and a half at a time, because I played travel volleyball.
I did nothing.
Nothing.
Thank you for the super chat, Doug.
Nothing for two years.
No boys, no parties.
And the last year, I was like, I'm going to have a little shin dig, right?
So I threw this party and it was like 10, 20 people.
But let me tell you, I'm from a Catholic area.
They acted like this was Project X.
They really did.
And I got caught.
And do you know how I got caught?
I got caught in the dumbest way.
So my dad, he sat me down.
He's like, I found beer in the back.
Like there was a can, beer, like full of beer cans, a bag full of beer.
And I thought he was messing with me because we didn't drink beer.
Look, I'm a shots only type of gal.
Or like I drink beer now, but I was in high school, right?
And do you know what happened?
These assholes came back.
So I went to go join my parents on vacation.
And these assholes came back and threw another party when I left and left a mess in the garbage can.
And so I got grounded.
I got grounded.
And I got in trouble because these assholes that I invited, that I thought were my friends at the time, came back and threw a party and left evidence.
What an L. Anyway, and I know, I know, I know.
Then they acted like this was World War III.
I mean, it was rightfully so, but I'll tell you the over-exaggerations I got after this.
Like, they would like, my parents for years would call this like, Hannah threw this big party.
And I'm like, okay, it was like 10 people.
I was way too scared to do a real rager.
And do you know what's crazy?
My next two siblings threw ragers all the time.
Nothing.
Freaking nothing.
I was the only one.
I got sent to live with my grandma in Wisconsin for half the summer in the middle of nowhere.
And then my little brother, I came back once and he's playing beer pong in the living room.
He's throwing these rays.
There's like 30, like I don't want to like, my little brother, I could tell you crazy.
He was wild.
He had these crazy stories.
And do you know who didn't get in trouble?
Him.
Parents get older and they just stop giving enough.
They're like, whatever.
Have sex.
Just make sure I don't hear it.
Invite the people over.
Broys can do it.
No, no, I had a sister who did the same thing.
I was the only one.
I was the only one.
Anyways, I'm not salty, but I'm just saying I was a relatively good kid in high school.
Like, I really, I didn't drink at all until this party.
I know, and then my haters will like use this against me.
They'll be like, see, do you remember that thing you did in high school?
They're like women, they just live in the past.
Now, anyways, we're going to read this, watch this video.
Laundry, a library, and garden.
Was really trying to work out what.
Oh, I didn't even get to the point like a woman.
So, my point was: my point was this.
So, when I went to my grandma's house, I got to see first-hand widow dating.
And so, these were women that were like older.
But you see, women will always re-enter the dating pool.
If you think your wife is like not going to have sex after you die, you are sadly forsaken.
These women were throwing it back.
They got nothing to lose.
They don't give a shit about chlamydia.
They're almost dead.
Do you know what I mean?
So, but it was interesting because they would be dating, and I would sit because I had to DD for my grandma and her friends.
And I would take them to like a karaoke bar, right?
And they would tell their like dating stories, right?
And let me tell you, it was interesting the problems that they would have with dating.
It was like things you wouldn't think about.
Like, they would be dating a man and he would die.
So, imagine you're like going on a third date, you're excited for a fourth date, and then you hear he's dead.
They would be like, they would get cancer.
They, you know, that is what you're dealing with with the dating pool.
And then they would like not want to date men their age.
It's like women, right?
You're old as hell.
They'd be like, I don't want to date someone old.
And I'm like, huh?
You know what I mean?
Anyways, I'm going to continue.
What's the least you need to live privately?
And then what would you be prepared to share with other people that you've got to know?
The foundation, which is currently seeking charitable status, provides the land, an 800-square-meter suburban block.
Pearl feels no accountability for the party.
No, it was my fault.
All I'm saying, I'm going to be the one.
I'm going to be a woman.
I don't care.
I'm going to do it.
I'm going to double down.
All I'm saying is there was no equal punishment distribution in my house.
And I think older kids in the family can really relate to this.
It's like when you're the older ones, it's like you do anything.
They crack the whip.
The whip is crap.
But it's like by the youngest, the parents are so tired.
They just don't care.
They don't.
They really don't.
I have developed a dark.
Or he passed away during the sex acts.
Look, I don't know.
Okay.
I didn't ask that question.
I was 18 at the time.
A base of about 120 women who are actively prepared to come into a model like ours.
The idea not only provides a housing solution but also addresses another epidemic, loneliness.
I don't have any family at all.
And so the sense of community is important as far as I'm concerned.
There are still hurdles to overcome, but these women now have hope for a brighter tomorrow.
Daya Clark, ABC News.
Yeah, so that's what we got.
So, anyways, guys, that's the future.
That's what we're going for.
So let me know what you guys think in the comments.
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Please remember that.
These women have come.
And yeah, you know, I will see you guys next show.