Pearl Reed and guests dissect modern wage dynamics, where 48% of women avoid dating lower earners while men face $111K mortgage splits over eight years. They cite UK/US pay gaps (11%/15%), criticize women’s career-driven independence as transactional, and warn of emotional labor exploitation—like Joey McMullen’s ex-wife mocking his success or Orthodox Christian Marte’s claims of women prioritizing careers over family. A 5K-person survey revealed 98% support "destroying men" if women held financial power, linking to plummeting birth rates. Ultimately, they argue men must avoid 50-50 splits, maintain dominance, or risk emotional and financial betrayal in relationships. [Automatically generated summary]
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Okay.
I want to say hello to the people in the chat on the website.
Thank you guys again so much for supporting me.
And before we get into the show's topic today, I think I know what I'm going to do for the show tomorrow.
And I want to give you guys a heads up on this conversation because I think it's worth a conversation.
So I'm going to read the website.
Carlos says women still yes, simps to help them get their work done.
It's not like they work more.
They just have more slaves.
Damn, Carlos.
Pearl Reed.
Did you see the baton girl got arrested?
No, I didn't.
But maybe I should follow back.
Doug MPA, maybe we can do an update on the show tomorrow.
So Doug MPA, also make a note of this too.
So apparently I pissed off Michael Knowles, or not Michael Knowles, they're all the same.
It's like a simp epidemic.
Alyssa Walsh and Matt Walsh, apparently I pissed off.
So as you guys know, conservatives always sell traditionalism, right?
And yet we constantly see men and women not acting in traditional ways on the right.
Like for example, and I know this is hypocritical on my part, but a lot of their wives are public facing.
Why are you public facing when your husband's the public figure, not you?
Do you know what I mean?
That would be the essent, the extent of that would be like, imagine, imagine.
And this is not saying right or wrong, but I'm saying this is definitely not traditional.
Yeah, so my producer, he's here.
Now imagine if he brought in His wife or his girlfriend, and he brings her in, and she starts.
She says, Let me do the equipment.
It would be kind of weird, right?
You would be like, What are you doing?
You know, or imagine if you brought your girl to work and she just said, Move over.
Um, now that's like the equivalent.
I'm not saying that's right or wrong, but I'm just saying it's not really traditional.
Now, Matt Walsh seems like a very nice guy.
This isn't really personal.
And I'd like to say, Matt Walsh, when you see this, this is not personal, even though you've insulted me back for asking a freaking question.
Okay.
So I saw his wife's Twitter.
And by the way, his wife has spurged out at me many times for no reason, right?
Like, you know, one time I tweeted that they don't understand the reality of divorce because none of them are old enough to have gotten divorced.
Now, I know some of you guys beat us to the punch.
You guys get divorced at 30, 25.
You guys, you guys go for it.
You shoot for the stars and you say, Let me get fucked fast, right?
So, but that's not really the norm, right?
So, a lot of men could live in delusion.
And it's tougher with Gen Z, us women.
Millennial women have been so terrible that we've really ruined.
Gen Z men have woken up.
They've seen their dad get screwed over.
They've seen their grandpa get screwed over.
They've seen their great grandpa get screwed over.
But there's some millennial men, I would say.
And by the way, I'm the youngest millennial.
I'm 28.
So this is like around 28 to like 40-ish is my generation.
I'm two months away from being Gen Z.
I almost made it.
I almost could be a Gen Z woman.
I would sound so much younger.
I could be like, Yeah, I'm Gen Z. I'm so close, but it's okay.
So I had a tweet, and this tweet said that either, because I didn't understand why the Daily Wire pretends that this divorce grape stuff just is not happening.
I'm like, why do they, why do they pretend?
Why do they live in this delusion?
And I thought maybe they just don't know.
They haven't seen these, their friends, their family get screwed, or maybe they did see it and they believed the woman, whatever sob story she told.
That happens, right?
Women are very deceptive.
And so she spurged out on me when I said that.
Now, I recently saw her Twitter.
Now we can show the screen here.
And it says, Alyssa Walsh, wife of Matt Walsh, bubbly extrovert.
Sole purpose on Twitter is to troll Matt Walsh.
Now, I'm going to have a call-in show about this because I want you guys to tell me maybe I'm wrong.
I just kind of had the question: the primary point of your Twitter is to troll your husband.
Now, I am a white woman.
I grew up around white women.
And I got to say, white people just put up with dis not all, not all.
Not, I can't even talk like this.
Hey, right?
We have a tendency, I'll say we have a tendency to put up with disrespect that I don't find that other races do the same.
And oftentimes, we put up with like subtle disrespect, let's say.
And I just kind of had asked the question: your primary purpose of your Twitter is not to support your husband, but to troll your husband.
Now, people kind of were mad at me.
Like, obviously, I'm getting ratioed on this stuff, but I don't care about the ratio.
There's too many simps for me to take that seriously.
Like, you guys believe women at all costs.
So, okay, they said, Here we got, okay, Pearl, we're gonna have to have the birds and the bees talk.
When a man and a woman love each other very, very much, have been married forever, have a billion kids, trolling each other is a form of foreplay.
One day, I may, oh, oh, thank God, I might get to experience the tiniest amount of that.
And I keep asking the question: is your job to be a support system or an adversary?
And the other question I have is: if women wouldn't do this to a boss, right?
So imagine you have a boss, okay?
Would you be able to make a LinkedIn profile that said, My primary purpose of this is to troll my boss?
No, because the other employees, he would lose respect, right?
The other employees would think it's also okay to do that.
So, how is this not applicable with children?
Now, this sparked Matt Walsh getting very mad at me.
This did spark this, okay?
He said, Pearl, I understand that you're miserable and lonely.
What?
Where is this?
I am a happy person.
Can I?
All right, I guess I'm miserable and lonely.
And I have never been in anything approaching a functional or healthy relationship in your life.
So, because I don't think it's normal to publicly troll your husband, now I know, I know, yeah, you guys can like joke around in private, but you guys tell me in the chat, do you want your wife publicly trolling you?
Is that I mean, I don't know.
Maybe I could be completely wrong on this.
I could be completely wrong.
Um, he said, So he'll try to be patient with me.
So, now we have the typical.
I know, first of all, first of all, first of all, that's not even true, okay?
But it's all right.
You see, husbands and wives who love each other will often do this thing called joke around.
They may even have this other thing that I know is foreign to you called a sense of humor.
I hope this clears that up.
Now, go spew your BS everywhere and leave my wife out of it.
Okay, you brought your wife into this.
Your wife is public-facing, and you guys parade your relationship around like it's something to aspire to.
Your wife is giving commentary.
Do you know what I mean?
Like, okay, all right.
So, I mean, you kind of brought your wife into it when you put her public-facing.
So, I asked the question, and they don't have an answer for me for this: isn't a wife supposed to be a helpmate and not an adversary?
Now, I want you guys to answer this question tomorrow.
Doug MPA, this is what we're going to do.
I could be wrong.
I'd like to say I could be wrong.
We're going to read the chat on the website and then I'll check to see if we have super chats.
Okay, American women will be married to a high-value man, but will still have to be seen and heard to maintain this illusion like she stood beside him or contributing somehow.
What a joke.
Let me look on the other chat real quick.
I could be wrong.
I reserve the right to say, you know, maybe I just got that wrong, but I don't, I think she's just going to keep going until she really embarrasses him bad.
I don't see this stopping, I'm going to be honest.
Okay, let's see what we got over here.
Okay, so we'll get into the topic today, but I wanted to let you guys know what we're talking about tomorrow, and you are totally welcome to call in.
So today we're going to talk about high-earning women and wage gap relationships.
So throughout most of history, it was accepted that a man would pay all of the bills if he was in a serious relationship or married.
Men went out and they brought home that bacon.
They earned the money, the resources, and women kept the home.
It was nice and simple.
In the last 50 years, women have decided that the patriarchy was oppressive and decided to change the social contract.
Now there is talk of going 50-50 and the dangers of wage gap relationships.
Modern leftist feminists are trying to brainwash women into thinking that a man can become abusive if he makes more money than the woman.
Men out-earn women and always will in our lifetime.
While women may be getting more and more education, they are also getting more debt and still go into industries that don't make a lot of money.
As men continue to do the dirty and dangerous jobs that women won't, men will make more money.
So to demonize a man because he makes more money is another exercise in how feminism will keep women single.
Wage gap relationships is just another word that these women came up with, and that's what we're going to talk about on today's show.
Okay, so I'm going to play, or no, first I'm going to read this article.
So this is an article by Charlie Ross.
Are you in an eight, not an age gap, a wage gap relationship?
Here's how to navigate it.
Pop culture tells us all kinds of things about money and relationships with it.
That it makes the world go round, that it's a rich man's world.
But how does it impact the dynamic of our dating life?
Especially if our partner or love interest earns significantly more than we do.
Welcome to the world of a wage gap relationship.
The podcast called The Cost of Love, the podcast, The Cost of Loving revealed in a recent survey.
48% of women said they wouldn't be comfortable entering into a relationship with someone who earns less than them.
Whereas two-thirds of men reported feeling fine about dating someone with a lower salary.
Is this wage gap dynamic a hangover from traditional gender roles?
What about the progress that's been made towards equality in recent decades?
The overall UK gender pay gap continues to fall, down by 0.4% to 11% in the past year.
While the last year, in the U.S., the gap hit an all-time low of 15%.
Women hold almost 30% of C-suite positions in the U.S., up from 17% in 2015.
Yet while the wage gap is slowly closing, it still very much exists, proving the historical foundations of inequality will take a lot longer to escape.
Given how recent the advancements are in women's access to money, women couldn't even open a bank account in their own name until 1975.
The expectations of traditional gender roles can still be present in heterosexual relationships, explains UK-based sex and relationship therapist Madeline Monroe.
And regardless of gender, earnings can be closely linked to a person's self-worth.
And a gap between partners can therefore exacerbate feelings of inadequacy, making individuals feel they are not enough for a partner, according to Monroe.
Beyond traditional roles, it's a deeply personal and vulnerable tool that can evoke shame and fear of judgment.
It is linked to security and safety, and our relationship with money is shaped by our attachment strategies with subconscious beliefs formed before the age of seven.
As a result, discussions about finances can be inherently triggering and activate nervous systems response that we may not even be aware of.
These responses might include avoiding conversations about money, overspending when feeling anxious about finances, or struggling to adhere to a budget.
Since money is rarely discussed openly, we may remain unaware of these patterns until we enter a relationship or encounter specifical financial hardships.
So it's not surprising that the wage gap might trigger certain insecurities in a relationship.
For Londoner Scarlett 31, her reluctance to date someone who earns significantly less from her doesn't come from a commitment to traditional gender roles, but the expectation to live and share a certain lifestyle.
I wouldn't want to date someone who doesn't earn very much, she said.
Just because I have a certain standard of living I want to maintain, I grew up with no money and wouldn't want that for my future.
Whatever side of a wage gap relationship you might be on and whether or not it bothers you, it's important to acknowledge the power dynamics at play and how it could potentially impact your relationship.
For instance, Paula, 32 in Vancouver, Vancouver, earns double the salary of her partner, Jack.
She works in sales and he is a business analyst.
He said it doesn't bother him, but I think it does a little, she said.
Sometimes he feels under pressure to keep up with the things I want to do.
I've had to adjust my expectations, Paula said, that their policy is that bills are split 50-50.
She admits to paying more, including for some expenses that her partner doesn't know about.
This leads to feelings of tension, particularly when it comes to savings.
I sometimes resent him when he spends all of his money without saving any, she says.
The ingrained societal norm that a male heterosexual partner should be the breadwinner weighs heavily on Paula at times.
I sometimes stress about having a family, she says, admitting that if they do have children, she wouldn't necessarily want him to stay home with them, even though it might make financial sense for him to do so.
While wage gap politics can cause issues in heterosexual relationships, Eliza 33 says she and her wife of 12 years who have outearned each other at different stages of their careers have always enjoyed the financial equilibrium.
I don't think people in the same-sex female couple see money as a sticking point, she says.
They contribute varying amounts to a joint bank account based on how much they're earning at the time.
I do feel freed of those gendered expectations and feel the opportunity for a lot more equality in same-sex relationships, she adds.
Regardless of sexuality or our perception of gender rules, a wage gap can impact any real expert.
One, share how the wage gap feels.
Talk about the wage gap head-on because we avoid it.
It leaks out into unconscious behavior or your partner and the relationship.
Is there insecurity, guilt, or frustration?
Being open and honest can help alleviate what you may be holding or feeling.
Discuss your financial values.
Take the time to understand each other's financial backgrounds.
How did each of you grow up thinking about money?
Set expectations.
If the higher earner wants to spend more on dining out, travel, or entertainment while the lower earner feels strained to keep up, it's essential to have an honest and open conversation about expectations.
Schedule regular check-ins.
I'm sure that's exactly what men want, regular check-ins.
They said, do you know what?
I need, I knew a woman wrote this.
Regularly discuss your contributions to the relationship, both financial and non-financial, to ensure you feel seen.
Yeah, exactly.
Men are just dying to feel seen.
That's what they want.
Okay.
Next, we're going to go through some tick, some videos.
Cam earns more about wage gap couples.
And then we're going to do a call-in and you guys can give your thoughts.
I was cut from I.
I was cut of us.
Cam earns more.
And there is like Cam earns more.
And there is like quite a significant difference between what we earn.
Hi, I'm Isla.
Hi, I'm Cameron.
I think when you're in a relationship where, you know, one person might earn more than the other, I think if you split everything 50-50, you avoid any kind of resentment towards the other person because you've kept your own individuality throughout a process like that.
And I think that's really important.
We're going to live together.
We have to split it together.
Yeah, we have to be responsible and split money together.
We do everything 50-50.
We clean the house 50-50.
No one really takes the lead, I think.
My parents' household, my dad's like the guy.
My mom cooks, she cleans, she sorts out the house.
My dad works, comes home, dinners.
I think the approach that we have is very different to that.
My mom works, my dad works, his mom and dad work too.
It's just that they have more traditional mindsets of how they do things.
But like specifically me, I couldn't do that.
Like I need it to be 50-50 because if it isn't, I'll resent him.
I'll be like, well, I cleaned the house.
What have you been doing?
You know, and I don't want that feeling.
Wow.
You don't think 50% rent?
He's good with it.
He's like, all right, you want it to be 50-50.
I'll take the extra grand a month.
He's probably sitting on the date with her.
Imagine they're like on the date.
And she's like, yeah, it's really important that we go 50-50.
And he's like, is this a trap?
Is this a trap?
And then she says, no, no, I really want to go 50-50.
He's like, I'm going to let her pay.
I'll pay her.
I'll let her pay half the date.
And he's like, is this, is this a trap?
Is she trapping me?
Okay.
And now he's gotten half the rent.
I don't think this is a bad thing.
Doug MPA is going to call in later and give his take.
And then we're going to accept callers.
But here's my thought.
If women leave anyway, all right, hear me out.
Women, like, from a man's point of view, it's not like the women stick around.
You might as well get your bag up, Kings.
And then they'll be like, well, but she'll cheat with her boss.
She was going to cheat anyway.
It's 2025.
I mean, I've had PIs tell me to just assume women baseline are sleeping with two men at a time.
It's 2020.
What do you think she's doing while you work?
Why do we have the rich housewife cheating with a pool boy?
That's a phrase for a reason.
You might as well keep your money.
Okay.
Women fake it like she's going to pay.
Okay.
This is a bad thing, Pearl.
Oh, like I can control society.
I'm trying to be realistic here.
If the average marriage is eight years, and overall, your marriage is most likely going to be miserable.
It's not going to be good.
I'm just thinking, you might as well keep your money, right?
At least then you can like go fishing or whatever you like to do.
Okay, so my boyfriend makes more money than me.
Susan B. Anthony, suck my bait.
One thing I've learned from dating someone who makes more money than me is you, as the receiver of the money, have to pretend like you want to help pay for things, right?
Just to like keep up morale in the relationship.
So this is my number one strategy for making my boyfriend think that I want to help pay for things.
Whenever we go to a restaurant and the bill comes, I do a very fake and dramatic reach for my purse.
I'll say something like, let me get it this time.
I bend at the hip, reach down.
If he doesn't see me, I go back down more dramatically, let me get it this time.
It's very performative.
I have no intention of paying.
But when he sees me, he says, oh my God, don't worry about it.
I got it.
You'll get me next time.
Boom.
I just saved $43 and he feels good about the relationship.
I don't feel bad doing this because guys do the same thing during sex, right?
After they finish, they're like, let me, uh, ugh.
And you're just like, oh my God, don't worry about it.
I got it.
You'll get me next time.
Dang.
Let me go to the next one.
Women say that the person makes less is paying more in 50-50.
Make me appreciate white people.
I love this.
Because technically, if you're going to be splitting something 50-50, then it is a direct correlation between your ratio of income.
I just think women fought to be equal.
Here you go, women.
Now we're equal.
Now you get to pay your way.
Congratulations.
You're like, I wanted to work.
Well, you got to work.
Now, if you picked up some 18-year-old woman off the boat, right?
Okay, she just got off the boat from Taiwan or like, I don't know, maybe she's did a year of college and then dropped out to be your wife and said.
And also, women aren't having kids like that.
Now, my mom had six kids, right?
Then they adopted.
So it's a long story.
But I mean, that's a lot of kids.
But like, the women are having one, two kids.
You're telling me you can't do like a remote sales job?
You can do that from the house.
And now you got to cook for three people.
You can't put it in the air fryer.
And then, I mean, most packs come in like you have to feed yourself anyway.
You can't just.
I mean, it's 2025.
Why the fuck would it not be?
That's actually 50-50.
So, yeah, if one partner is making more money than the other, they are going to be pitching in a little bit more money.
Because if you split it down the line, you're paying for less.
And the person who is making less is actually paying more because that's a bigger chunk of what they make.
Not to mention stuff outside of the 50-50 rule, like emotional labor.
I would never go 50-50 in a relationship.
There's a certain level of respect I command in a relationship, and you can't get that at 50-50.
Doug MPA, are men getting respect in relationships?
Why does the red pill exist?
You guys are acting like you get, if you pay for the traditional wife, that she's going to respect you.
Didn't I just show you Alyssa Walsh stays home?
And do you know what she did with her free time?
She made a Twitter account to troll her husband who's working.
Here, like, okay, if I was a guy and I'm not a guy, so you guys can tell me, this is how my problem-solving ability would be.
I would assume that my woman will leave me.
I would just, I would go in and say, okay, I expect to get left and I expect to get cheated on when she gets bored.
And I would say, hopefully, that'll be it when the kid gets to pre-K.
And then I could start, then you could start searching for model number two, right?
Then you could start, you realize, and then I would just, I would just observe.
And when she starts like working out, I'll be like, okay, it's time for me to eat less and hit the gym because I got to go find the next, the next Chica.
And I would go in.
So if we know, like, why would you not go in?
Okay, so if we assumed that she's going to leave, which is a fair assumption, right?
And I know you guys are so nice.
You guys are nice people.
You'll like, you'll be like, oh, but she's different.
Yeah.
Was your ex different?
Was your other ex different?
Was the ex before that?
Was your, did your high school girlfriend stay?
Okay.
So now imagine this.
So what I would do is I would make the chick work.
And if anything, I would want a woman that made more than me.
Now I would assume she's going to cheat with the boss, right?
I mean, assume.
Wrap it up, fellas.
But that way, at least she can't, you could maybe put her on alimony, okay?
Then the other thing I would assume is that she's going to leave.
And I would just keep the money.
I would, I would go 50-50, save half the money, maybe put it into some Bitcoin she can't take unless it goes south.
I think that's what I would do.
I would take the money saved on rent and I'd put it into Bitcoin.
And when she cheats, I would just say, Sayonara, Chica.
And then I would go take a class at a community college and find my next wife.
That is what I would do.
Keep holding these 304s accountable, Pearl.
Good luck.
All right, I got a super chat.
So glad you stuck it out.
Thank you, Samson.
I love that you guys can super chat.
I'm a broke 20-year-old man.
Is it over, Pearl?
No, it's not over.
Your life is going to be so much better when you're 30.
Fellas in the chat, didn't your life get better after 30?
Didn't it?
Look at your life is going to be great.
It just sucks when you're young.
When you're 30, you can bang all the 20-year-old Broads and the 30-year-old Broads and the 40-year-old Broads.
That's a huge dating pool.
Like at 30 as a man, you can go get the cougars post-divorce.
They won't even ask you for commitment.
You'll just be the fun guy.
Then you can go sell a dream to the 30-year-olds ready to settle down and be like, yeah, I'm totally.
All I want is a family and something long-term.
Then bang them, never talk to them again.
Then you can go to the 20-year-olds.
And the 20-year-old women, they have so much power, right?
So they're probably just going to have sex with you and then leave, which is great for you.
Or they might stick around, right?
But probably not.
I mean, it's kind of like when you get a girl, when I have a friend, he dates in a big city and he says, I love the women that get there.
They just got to the city.
But I know I have six months till they leave me for the next guy.
So you could be strategic here, right?
And then maybe if you're lucky, one will stick around.
A miracle will happen.
Said Pearl is projecting here.
I'm not projecting.
Which part am I projecting about?
I mean, this is what I hear from the fellas, okay?
This is woman's logic.
I'm just saying, that's what I would do.
That's what, if I was a guy, I would just, I would go in with the assumption that she's going to leave.
And I would, I would position my life accordingly.
And I would completely protect myself.
I would not want to be in the position that a lot of you guys are in.
So sorry, fellas.
A lot of you guys got yourself.
I would have looked at the market and I would have said, yep, she's going.
You are correct.
Walsh is a simp.
She is disrespectful.
Thank you, Olive.
Are you a real woman?
Or are you a woman pretending to be?
I don't really believe women that are watching my channel.
Yeah, your profile picture is too high.
You're hot.
You're a guy.
All right, we're going to finish this TikTok.
Household chores.
Extracurriculars.
All of the stuff that could actually have a monetary value, but typically men do not see it as such.
It is a woman's job and they don't feel like they also need to chip in.
So yeah, when you hear this, run.
Okay, I think that's all of them.
I'm going to, all right, Doug MPA, I'm going to put this in the chat.
And so first we're going to let Doug in, Doug MPA in.
And then, and then, oh, we got some subscribers on the website.
We got Clue, thank you for signing up.
Michael, also, thank you for signing up.
And Jones, thank you.
Peter, thank you.
Edward, thank you.
Thank you guys very much.
Okay, now I'm gonna put in the zoom link in the chat.
Oh, it's already there.
Thank you.
Okay.
Doug MPA, I want to hear from you.
I personally, and then I want to ask the question from you guys.
Could you date or marry a woman making more money than you or have you?
And how did that go for you?
So that's what I want to hear from you guys, but I want to hear from Doug MPA first.
Is he on or no?
Not yet.
All right.
He's coming.
It's just, you know, I don't understand because you guys, you'll complain and say the women are whores.
The women are whores.
Why wouldn't you just assume that?
Do you know what I mean?
Like, why would you assume that your girlfriend or wife doesn't have anything in her past?
Like, wouldn't you just assume, wouldn't you just wear a condom?
Do you know what I mean?
And then it's like, oh, the women are divorcing.
Okay, so wouldn't that make sense to assume that she's going to leave you?
Wouldn't that be like, like, isn't that kind of pragmatic here?
I don't really think the guys are simpy if they go 50-50.
I think they're kind of smart.
I mean, now they're saving on rent.
They can get a little nest saved until the woman decides she's bored and wants to go have sex with his best friend.
Or her personal trainer, or her boss.
One of the three.
Right?
It's either Curveball says condom sex sucks.
Well, enjoy chlamydia.
Enjoy it.
Have fun.
Enjoy.
They said facts.
Okay.
Enjoy herpes, chlamydia, gonorrhea.
Enjoy it.
No, no, no, no.
And maybe a child.
You know, Doug MPA.
Until the woman decides to go.
Yeah, okay, there you go.
How are you, Doug MPA?
Or her personal trainer?
Wait, her ball.
Back in business.
Can you hear me okay?
Yeah, you got to turn off my show in the background.
Oh, yeah, sorry about that.
Well, enjoy it.
I made that mistake.
Hold on.
Enjoy it.
Have fun.
Enjoy.
They said facts.
Okay.
Enjoy herpes.
I can still hear it.
I don't enjoy it.
No, I have nothing open.
Okay.
I think it might be on our end.
Hold on.
Oh, is that.
Can you hear me?
Okay.
I can hear you okay.
Okay, now we're now.
Now we're good.
Now we're good.
Sorry, I think it was on our end.
So what are your thoughts, Doug MPA?
Guys, someone from the chat, I think it was a special tiger.
He said, it's about leverage, Pearl.
You don't want a woman to have any kind of leverage over you.
And here's the thing: when men get divorced, most of the time the man's net worth rises and the woman's net worth goes down.
Men have to accept early on that dealing with women is going to cost.
Okay, so like losing money, especially okay.
I'm not talking about the average guy.
The average guy has more to lose.
But a guy who's successful, has a highly valued trade, highly valued skill, highly valued education.
Men need to be leaders and set the tone, right?
And that usually involves money and resources.
Okay.
So you and that should go through dating and relationships and marriage.
And if you have a highly valued skill, highly valued trade, all that, you can walk away and you're just going to make more money.
But the type of respect that a man that's worth something commands, you can't get that 50-50.
He just can't do it.
Now, I'm talking about a certain kind of guy who's put in the work and who, like, for highly valued skill, highly valued trade, all that stuff.
The average guy, maybe not.
But, you know, but I don't see the high-earning men getting respect either.
Like, I don't see that.
Like, if anything, I swear, I see the low-earning guys getting more respect half the time than the high-earning ones because the women's with the high-earning guy more likely for resources and the low-earning guy, it's for like alpha traits.
And it's like, if women know the men will walk away, then they respect them.
Like, haven't you ever seen those guys that get women to pay for them?
And somehow, like, these women are afraid of these guys.
Like, they don't want him to leave.
Do you know what I mean?
Yeah, but that's the thing.
You can put forth the resources and the money.
Be sensible about it.
Because remember, men are better with money and spending than women, right?
And so you set the tone with your resources and your masculine frame.
And then if she's not giving you the respect that you command, you just leave.
Remember, the biggest, the two biggest superpowers a man has is to be able to determine who his girlfriend, fiancé, and wife is if he chooses to be married.
Guys, don't get married.
And walking away.
All throughout this process, whether you're 50-50 or not, guys, walk away.
What is the average mortgage cost?
Remember, I always say set a comfort and convenience level, guys, and don't go beyond it.
Most of the time, if you're getting frustrated with a person or a situation, you've gone above and beyond your comfort and convenience level.
Do that with women too.
If a woman gets too annoying or you're spending too much on her or she's not putting out, you leave.
So that goes along with, guys, you, I, I've never done 50-50 and I wouldn't because it gives a woman leverage and she's going to try to use that.
Well, it's using terms like we're going to be 50-50, but I'm doing all this emotional labor, all this garbage.
Set the tone early.
Okay, wait, I want to do that.
And don't part with anything you can't part with.
A man shouldn't be dating or in a relationship if he doesn't have time and resources set aside anyway.
I don't know.
So I'm looking at these numbers, right?
So it says the average mortgage cost is $2,300 a month.
Now I divide that in two.
That's $1,158 a month.
So then I times that times 12.
That's going to be.
Oh, wait.
Hold on.
I got rid of the one.
That's going to be $13,000 a year.
$13,902 times the average length of a marriage, which is eight years.
Wait, hold on.
13, wait, I got to do this.
Okay.
13 grand times eight years.
That's 100.
Wait.
No, no.
Sorry, times eight.
I'm doing this wrong.
It's 111,000.
See, I'm like, do they really, do the men really, knowing that the women are going to leave, is it really the women are disrespectful anyway.
Like, if anything, I should expect that to be the baseline.
She might as well pay.
Like, if, if, if I was looking at rich men, right, or well-off men and seeing that this money helped them, I don't see that helping them, though.
If anything, I think that rich guys or like wealthy guys are known for being bigger simps because that's what they like lead with in order to get leverage.
Where the low earning, like the low-earning men tend to use like frame or game.
Here's the thing, Pearl, you're talking like you've never had to date women.
You've never had to be in a relationship with a woman.
When you're a man, you know from young that dealing with women who are worth anything is going to cost you money.
You get once you've achieved a certain amount, partying with money as a concept isn't really like an L.
It's how much you're losing and in what circumstance.
If you're going to find a woman worth it, she's going to cost you money.
It's just set expectations.
And if she isn't doing what you want or showing you what you want, you leave behind.
One of the worst things.
So I used to mentor young African-American and young African immigrant men, right?
And I would have to teach them how to take L's.
If you take a woman out on a date, pay.
And then if it doesn't work out, keep it moving.
But don't part with anything that you can't part with.
I hate when a guy takes a woman out on a date, pays too much for a dinner, doesn't get laid, and complains about it.
Like, that's what dating is, unfortunately.
Now, once again, guys, set a limit.
Don't go beyond what you can afford.
I don't know, Doug.
I think that women fought to be equal.
We're equal now.
I don't see, I think your sentiment is from an older generation.
I don't see the men in my generation signing up for this.
I think they're going to look at that, like the younger guys, and see it as a bad deal and that it's just not worth like paying for.
Well, you know, like, and I'd say, like, most of the girls I knew in college that ended up getting married, like, they went 50-50.
Like, it was that was like the norm.
Go ahead.
Yeah, but, but, like, you want to put yourself in a position where you can pay 100% of the bills, guys, if you had to, because women result, women reserve the right to change their mind at any given time.
And most of the time, this whole 50-50 thing goes out the door when you get married or if the woman has a kid.
Because I've had friends my age who have a kid, and then all of a sudden, the wife was this career-oriented boss babe.
Then a kid is born, and she wants to stay home or work part-time, and she'll resent the husband because he can't afford for her to not work.
Guys, put yourself in a position where if you have to, you can pay 100% of the bills.
If your wife or your girlfriend wants to stay 50-50, that's fine.
But odds are by the time she hits her 30s, she's not going to want to be 50-50 anymore.
And you're talking, bro, I'm going to go to the house.
They're throwing him in daycare now.
The moms aren't even watching him.
Like, 65% are enrolled in full-time daycare.
I mean, if this number's right, two-thirds of preschool-aged children attend early education programs, which I think is daycare.
I'm looking at this.
It's like, like, if the moms aren't watching, okay, if the modern women are not watching the kids, right?
If they're not having a bunch of kids, what are they doing all day?
Like, they're having one child, Doug MPA.
It's like, go get a part-time job or something.
Yeah, but we've deified having children.
Women think that having one child, oh my God, it's like they, they, women of the past, my mom's mom had like 11 kids and outlived all of them or something like that.
It was crazy.
That is crazy.
Now they have one and they think that they're that they're God's gift to the earth.
I know, bro.
I'm going to have to concede to you on the activities of young men because I'm not Gen Z like you, but I'm telling you, once you hit your 30s and you have means, you can date a different way.
And you get to the point where you know that you're going to make more money.
You're going to be productive and you want a certain quality of woman.
It's going to cost you.
So just get ready for it.
And also, look at it for if you want the kind of respect that a man of value, I'm not going to say high value, but a man of value should get, it's not 50-50.
You should set the tone from the beginning and keep that tone.
Because once again, there's going to be a time where that woman will change her mind and not want to go 50-50-50 anymore.
So you should be ready for it because women reserve the right to change their minds about anything at any time, especially paying for you could just say too bad, get to work, lady, or leave, you know.
Well, I just tell the guys I would mentor 50-50 because women have this weird thing where I may be going 50-50, but I'm also doing all this emotional labor.
So, you know, I have to pay and I have to listen.
Just don't even, you don't have to pay everything, but pay the big bills at least.
Yeah, I'm always going to advocate for that.
Put yourself in a position where you can pay 100% of the bills because one day you might have to.
And if you can't, she's going to resent you and make your life hell.
I'd say save your money.
She's going to leave anyway.
I say save your money.
Put it into some Bitcoin for when she divorces you that she can't find.
But let's see what the people have to say.
Do you want to let in the first person?
Oh, and who?
All right, guys.
And I we're we want to use your personal experience.
So, if you don't have experience with dating um high-earning women or something that's relevant to the topic, please refrain from calling in.
This is to stay relevant to the topic.
So, Gabe, unmute there, buddy.
Yeah, yeah, go ahead.
Yeah, Gabe, have you dated a high-earning women woman before?
No, but I was um watching the TikToks that you were watching that one interracial couple where the girl was, you know, blabbering and blabbering, and it triggered PTSD symptoms that I say that I've heard growing up.
Okay, what did you hear growing up?
I'm really trying to stay on topic.
So, is this relevant to the topic, though?
It is, I think it is.
Okay, go ahead.
That's fine.
Just all the 50-50 garbage.
I expect like my man to do housework too and all that stuff.
And, like, as a guy, I think if I was in that position, I would be like it would drive me crazy.
So, yeah.
Okay.
Thanks for calling in, Gabe.
Yeah.
Oh, you should look up the whatever podcast clips of Andrew Wilson and Rachel Wilson having to fight off some feminists that tried to attack him physically.
Yeah, I saw that clip.
Yeah.
Rachel on that girl.
Yeah, I saw that.
Yeah.
Thanks for calling in, Gabe.
Thanks for calling in, Gabe.
Let's see what we got next.
I want to read.
John, are you there?
Yeah, I'm here.
Can you hear me?
I'm going to read the super chat really quick and then you can go, John.
M42 single only want to date young women, but the dating app says suck not drinking either.
So where can I find me a girl?
Advice, please.
You know what I heard on Twitter that I guess the dating apps, if you shouldn't unmatch like girls that stop talking to you because it ranks you higher if you keep them as your matches.
I mean, that's that's what's like going viral on Twitter right now.
I don't know if that's true.
I think on every college campus, there are women that are looking for their MRS degrees.
I don't know, I don't date women, but you know, that's something I've heard from guys.
No, Women don't get well, maybe some schools, but women used to go to college, want to get married in college.
But I think the majority of women get their degree to prove that they don't need a man and really want to go out into this.
They get their social work degree or their lesbian dance theater degree and think that they're going to go save the world.
Please remember the modern women, Michael Pearl.
I know, but I just asked my Gen Z like brother and his friend this morning, and he told me there were girls on campus that got right out of it.
How many of them are actually going to get married, though?
In college.
They showed me them.
They were showing me them this morning.
I don't know.
I'm just telling you what I've heard from guys.
Like, I'm just, this is something I've heard.
You could take it or leave it.
Okay.
I concede to you as the expert with the youngins.
I mean, this is just what they're saying.
I don't know.
But I don't think it's the.
I would agree with you.
It's the exception, not the rule.
John, what do you have for me on the topic?
Yeah, can you hear me?
Yeah, go ahead.
Yeah, sorry.
Remind me, how am I responding to the topic exactly?
Yeah, so have you ever dated a woman that made more money than you?
Like, have you ever done 50-50?
How did it go?
Gotcha.
Yeah.
So I'm married to a woman who makes more money than me, and I almost exclusively attract those type of women.
Not sure why that is.
Really?
What's your job, if you don't mind me asking?
Yeah, no, I don't mind.
I'm a relationship counselor.
Okay.
And what industry is your significant other in?
My significant other is in the academic industry, but we met on Tinder like years, years ago.
Is she a PhD?
Yeah.
I'm a PhD.
I kind of picked it up.
And so have you found it to be a problem in the relationship?
Do you guys split the bills 50-50 or how do you guys do it?
It usually starts out 50-50.
And then over time, they start to see more of my value.
They start to wonder how they can contribute, or they come in that way immediately, recognize my value, and go, how can I contribute?
And then that's usually how these career women do it.
They try to pay for things because they usually don't come, you know, like mentally, emotionally, psychologically prepared.
So that's her compensation.
It's a pretty balanced thing, if you ask me.
So she's made more money than you the entire time that you've known her?
Yeah, pretty much.
Well, no, that's not true.
Actually, no, we were 50, we were probably 50-50 when we met.
And then I made some pretty risky business choices.
And she started helping me out.
And then I've just been taking over her business since then, basically.
She doesn't want to deal with it anymore.
She'd rather not work, obviously.
Wait, so wait.
You're taking, how do you take over her business?
Like, how does that work?
And how does she not work?
I take on her clients.
I take on all of the management.
And I'm taking over all the logistics as well.
Has it ever been a problem where she holds it over your head?
No.
Not even a little bit.
I wouldn't pick someone like that.
I wouldn't, I wouldn't.
I can't imagine dating someone like that and then making it past the bang process.
It's like really easy to test for, actually.
Did you move into her house?
She bought one for me.
So I'm saying the ultimate alphas are guys that get women to pay for them.
That's sad.
Yeah, I was going to say, yeah, I call it dangerous.
Right.
Knock it off.
I know.
I've seen it, Doug.
I'm telling you, there's a guy that I worked with in London.
He would go after female lawyers.
That was his thing.
Like, he would go, or finance girls.
And he would just get them all to pay for him.
He didn't even have to work.
So, John.
Everything's competitive.
How old are you?
I'm 33.
And so do you guys have children?
We're working on it.
We're trying.
So, okay.
Nothing.
Okay.
Yeah, because that actually counters a point you had made earlier about a lot of these women struggle like letting go of that stuff.
And you had said something about like the transition of becoming a mom.
I guess I'd make the exceptions to the rule.
I know that's probably what you mean about like proven pearl, right?
I'm being the exception to the role where she realized it before that and realized, oh, I want to be a mom.
Therefore, that's a full-time job.
Therefore, that's all the things that I've been looking for to fulfill me in life.
That's what I want to focus on, not providing for a bunch of strangers.
I'm just going to give you a warning.
So, I have a friend who's a woman who's very successful, and they live on a farm, and her husband's a graphic designer, but he takes care of the farm and their three kids, right?
And she's like way up in public service.
You know, she flies to Washington, D.C. and does all these different things, whatever.
But she had to start going to the well, there's this problem already.
She's way too valuable.
So, so she had to start going to therapy because she missed all of their children's, all three of the children's important moments when they were young.
So, she missed their first word when they took the first step.
So, he would call her husband call her and say, Honey, you know, little Billy took his first step and said his first word.
And she's been going to therapy for a year or two because she feels so much guilt over missing her child's children's younger years.
Like, women have this weird thing where they're just full of regret.
Am I going to be a good mom?
And there's not really any way that because women think that they're supposed to be the ones there for those moments and not you.
You're the man because they held it inside their body for nine months.
So, be careful.
If you guys have kids, that's actually a burgeoning part of therapy: are these boss women who feel this kind of regret for missing their children's younger years?
Holiday guy, holidays.
Yeah, I hear you, but if you can't be your woman's therapist and that isn't an easy thing for you to do, then you shouldn't be with her in the first place.
You shouldn't be having kids with her in the first place.
Did you say be your woman's therapist?
Yeah, absolutely.
If that's not easy for you to do, why is she going to someone else?
Why is she paying another man, another woman?
Why is she talking to anyone else at all?
Why is she asking for advice from somebody else?
Okay.
Hey.
Do you not agree with that, Doug?
That, like, that you're that your wife should be going to you instead of like an actual therapist?
So, well, I do, but guilt over being a good mom.
I mean, how are you going to?
That's something that she's got, because remember, mothers deify motherhood.
So, you trying to be a therapist about her feelings of motherhood is just going to be a long burn of it.
Yeah, I don't, Doug, Doug MP, I don't think that's what he's saying.
That's not what I'm saying at all.
That's not what I said.
Well, no, but I can understand if that's not something you can do.
If that's not something you're good at, that's not something you're good at.
No, no, but what I'm saying is ain't got nothing to do with me, bro.
No, I'm saying, I'm talking about this specific issue that I'm talking about about motherhood regret.
Maybe you didn't hear me.
Okay.
No, I heard you.
I've talked to mothers too.
I actually used to run a daycare when I was a child.
I know, I know all the ins and outs, all of this stuff.
Yeah, if you can't be a therapist, if that's a job to you, then that's your problem.
Okay.
You have to be able to handle your women.
No, no, you don't.
You handle snakes and tigers.
You don't handle women, bro.
Okay, how do they act?
Everything that you have to handle is describe a snake entirety to me.
Yeah, they'll freaking bite you and try to eat.
Describe a snake entirety.
Yeah.
They'll try to bite you and try to eat you, bro.
So if you're handling what do women do?
If you're a woman, good luck.
I'm handling multiple, and I have been for decades.
Yeah, you're living off your chick, too.
I'm living off.
Okay.
I'm sorry that I upset you.
No, no, no.
You didn't, you didn't upset me.
Whatever works for you is fine.
I respect you.
Whatever works for you works for you.
Is that why you're describing something that's already been established?
No.
Because you're not insulted.
No.
I'm not.
So you're just saying the audience.
A grown man's just repeating things that have already been said.
Look, I'm just telling you what I know.
You can take it or leave it.
I respect what you're doing over there.
You're proving Pearl, right?
That's good.
Whatever works, it works for you.
I don't need to prove anyone, right?
Okay.
Is the way that provides a lot of things?
Is the way you exercise leverage?
Is it other women?
Is that how you do it?
I don't need to exercise leverage.
I'm just a good person.
I do good things.
Just like I'm handling a friend right now on the phone.
You want to talk about it, Doug?
Because this doesn't have to be confrontational.
I know you think I'm trying to sun you right now.
No, no, no.
This isn't my platform.
It's not.
If it was, we'd have a whole different conversation.
But you do you handle your woman.
You don't need to say that, though.
That should go without saying.
Yeah.
We're grown men.
Okay, that's fine.
Okay.
Okay.
Do you?
Okay, well, thank you for calling in.
I appreciate it.
We're going to move on to the next caller.
Sure.
Okay, we got.
Miller, are you there?
Yeah, I'm here.
Go ahead, buddy.
Yeah, I'm married to a woman, but she's more like a friend.
We knew along each other before we married.
So right out the gate, I made more than her.
I was in the military.
Okay.
And I supported her through college.
She got her Hurleywood education.
So now she's making more than me.
But yeah, I feel like we've grown apart after she started making more than me.
I don't know what getting her busy and stuff.
So we're not really close like we used to be.
And before we met, she had a before we got married, she had a child.
So yeah, we're not really that close.
And we're growing apart and we just decided to get a divorce and just call it a day.
And you noticed a shift when she started to outearn you.
Yeah.
Yeah.
Have you dated since, or did you just get a divorce?
I talk to other ladies and stuff like that and sleep with other ladies, but my wife is my wife.
I would never like, she comes first.
Like, I would never put someone in between me and her.
But you guys are getting divorced, right?
Yeah.
I'm going to have like court on the 24th over Zoom call.
She's in Florida.
I mean, you wouldn't put anyone between you and her when like it's over.
Yeah, like when me and her was close, like if even if I go outside and have a relationship, like even if she finds out, I wouldn't make she feel guilty.
I would like to know like I messed up.
And she would forgive me.
But we kind of drift apart after she got her job and she got her out earning me.
She just kind of drifts away.
She doesn't talk to me as much as she used to.
Got it.
If you had to go back, would you switch it at all?
Would you like tell her to not go after like the job or would you maybe try to were you 50-50 from the beginning?
Uh like I was more I was more uh she was like she was more independent.
We were independent.
So, like when we go on dates, I think she paid for more she was.
She was uh more of the.
She did more, to be honest.
And what about bells?
Did you split those?
Yeah yeah, we split those okay, so it was kind of so.
She helped uh, I helped her most of the time when I can.
She we um we, we stepped uh, we help each other out as much as we can, and so she wasn't a she wasn't a burden to me.
I'm really grateful for having her in my life.
I learned a lot from her, but we, we kind of drift apart.
And if I would do it again ah, I don't know, would you, I would have to do like I would.
I would have to be in a position, like being like in, like my entrepreneur, where I could scale my own business to stay above her, but or where I can stay with her.
Got it like I can work remotely, but since I was in the NAVY, I was stationed like a different state and stuff like that we, we weren't together.
Most times when I'm like deployed, I um, I couldn't get in touch with her.
So like we grew apart due to some out got it, outside circumstances.
Got it well.
Thanks for sharing Miller, you're welcome.
I'm gonna move to Marte.
Look, Carlos Acosta was next.
Okay, it's uh.
Hold on hold on, Carlos Acosta, you're next go ahead.
Hello, we can hear you go ahead.
Yeah, oh yeah.
So congrats on uh getting uh monetized, thank you.
Thank you yeah, uh.
So uh, I haven't really been in a relationship like some of these adults.
I've been in more like immature relationships okay, but I, where it's easier to be the guy that pays because you're paying for, like you know nothing.
Basically okay um, but I guess what I wanted to ask um, since you're so versed in all this, like you know, relationship chaos uh, I want to like, I guess I want to flesh out in my head, like the cycle, so it's like women earn more than men and then, because of you know, or they they, they seek out uh, a career or whatever to climb up this social ladder or whatever right,
and then they try to find men up there right, and then eventually uh, they keep climbing and keep, keep climbing until they can't find the men that they want.
And so uh, you know, they become these girl bosses right uh uh, in in order to find the only man that can conquer her, right she's, she's gonna try to find who's the, the true alpha, and then she finds that no man really wants to be around the girl boss.
So what happens after that?
Like, what's the?
The feedback loop?
Right because um, if there wasn't a feedback loop, then women, I think, would just be like wait a minute, being a girl boss is bad, but obviously they still keep they.
No, they go have sex with the personal trainers, they get the kid, then they go back to the jacked.
That's what i've seen.
They go back to the jacked guys.
So they go, they get the kid from the provider guy in their late 20s, early 30s, divorce him and then go back to the jacked ones.
Interesting, but just like recreationally.
But women want to be side chicks.
That's why they keep picking it.
So okay uh, and and is, is there anything?
So will you say that?
Like, where does it start?
So like a baseline woman right, like i'm trying to like model, model it out of baseline woman starts out like in college, let's say she's, or high school.
That's where the women, I think, where most people, try to figure out what they're going to do with their life.
They try to maybe date some guys and maybe they sort of get a feel for this dynamic between the topic though and, like people's experience.
So do you have anything that you've seen that you could add to it?
Oh, okay.
No, like I said, don't really have like an marriage experience like these guys.
I just wanted to get your opinion on that whole like cycle.
And you answered the question.
So thank you.
Yeah.
Okay.
Thank you.
Yep.
Have a good time.
Marte, I think, was next.
Yeah.
It's Marte.
Hey, how's it going?
Hey, what's up, Pearl?
Congratulations on being monetized, by the way.
Thank you.
So staying on topic here, I just want to address the fact that when we when we have modern dating here, and I'm not going to bring up my experience as far as like a relationship, but as far as dating, because we have to enter into a relationship, you have the dynamic of introduction, right?
And when you introduce yourself to somebody on a date, we now have identity politics that's playing part in this with feminism.
You know, we all know that is the entailment with that.
So when you meet a woman and she has all this vast experience and you're talking to her on a date, you're realizing that if you don't have a lot of life experience, if you're talking to women, there's less that you can show her.
There's also this and also the fact that you are now going to possibly be competing with this woman.
It's hard not to go ahead and dodge this in this dating era too, because now they identify with this career.
So you have two options.
I'm an Orthodox Christian, like my boy Andrew Wilson.
Oh, nice.
So you have two options.
You can, I was also his coach, by the way, his him and Rachel's, I did their diet and stuff like that.
Oh, cool.
But so when it comes to this, you have two different dynamics that you can have.
You got a stay-at-home, you know, mom that goes ahead and helps out with the kids and everything else, where work is now optional, right?
You're not competing for resources, doing all this other stuff.
You can carry the brunt of the relationship on your shoulders financially, which I would advocate for men to do.
Like Doug was saying, that's a great thing to do with the brunt of the bills.
The other problem that you're dealing with, which is like 80% of the dating dynamics that I've ran into in modern dating, is the identity.
You're not meeting the woman.
You're meeting her career.
And then you're going to find out about this woman later.
I recently went on a date and we, you know, we talked about everything.
She's a CEO.
Everything went fine, right?
You know why everything failed?
It's because I didn't ask about her career and I didn't care enough about the entailment of her position, what she did, and all this other stuff.
Normally, this would have never been a problem like 20 years ago.
Now that we run into this, it is now like, if you don't identify with this whole part of my being, which is my identity now, not me as a woman, which is secondary now with modern feminism.
You're now having to go ahead and meet her career, which is the representation of the entailment of her as a person.
And then whatever else personality she has.
So things that flip dynamically backwards.
If you're making less than her, you're competing at such a high rate now because the average man makes, what, 53K, Pearl?
I think it's 53.
Right.
So now the average woman now thinks that's broke.
So, when you meet her, good luck telling her that you're a journeyman or anything else, they automatically perceive that as low, even if you're making more.
So, you now have identities to deal with too, in this whole fray of the dating pool dynamic.
And it's rough because establishing your position in the dating dynamic and saying, Hey, you know, I'm a good man, all this other stuff out the window.
Because if they're meeting you and you're their now identity is now their career, and that's what they are and who they are, what do we do?
We either have to bring up something that's equal or above what they are, and that's changed the dating dynamic of everything now.
I'm going to chime in real fast.
So, the biggest problem with what you're talking about, if you meet a CEO, because the area I'm dating in, I always meet these women exactly like you're talking about, these career women, right?
And they don't want a husband, they want a wife.
That's the problem.
All these women, they want you to be their wife, they want you to support them.
I would say a girlfriend and a cheerleader.
I would also say that too.
Yeah, yeah, that's the problem.
And if you make less than them, that's really the expectation.
Because, like you always say, Pearl, men are benevolent with their power.
Men, I always say when men win, everyone wins.
And when women win, they win for themselves.
They want a competitive, successful man to put aside his ambitions, his desires, to help her with her own selfish desires.
And that's exacerbated even more if she makes more money than you.
A man will be benevolent.
Let a woman move into his house and nest in his house and change everything around.
Put his stuff in a man cave in his own basement.
Women will never extend that privilege to a man that moves into her house.
There's a difference in mindset.
And so if a woman starts making more money than you, or a lot of women, if they go 50-50, that mindset starts coming out.
It's the intangibles I'm talking about.
There's a survey that I recently did on Threads.
Threads is a new community where I'm doing a lot of debates, tingling with a lot of feminists on there.
Just so happens that feminists happen to be rife in this community where it's rife for feminists.
So I did a survey, and this is Pearl, this is along with what we're talking about here, and I can tie it back in.
So I did a survey if women had all the power and the power dynamic was different, where women made most of the income and had most of the force, monopoly of force that we talk about, would they literally destroy men, right?
Even women had voted for A, it's 5,000 people on the survey that I put out.
Women overwhelmingly voted that they would destroy men.
Holy can send you the survey that I did and everything else, that they would relegate them to enslavement positions.
It was like 60 men, 60 women, 40 men in this survey out of 5,000 people.
So when you take this, and this is a real poll that I could send you.
So when you look at this dynamic, we can go ahead and mirror this with dating now and show that what would happen if the tails were reversed, right?
So if we take these roles, we can now see this as a reflection of modern dating where now we're meeting women who are right up here and the man is down here.
What's going to happen?
We're going to see this play out.
And so when women are graduating college at 67% rate, you can go look this up too, and they're going to be out earning men.
You're now going to see their dating pool shrink.
I'm not telling you something you don't already know, Pearl.
Also, Doug, along with your point, you're completely correct about this.
We talk about the entailment of disposition.
If A, then it's going to lead to B.
Now you're going to talk about a plummeting birth rate as a result of this because women are only having one baby.
Everything's going to be plummeting.
Societal, uh, yeah, but degeneracy is going to go up, but see, everything else goes up.
The way I see it is like this is already happening.
So, like, you're going on dates with C, you're like a nice orthodox man, and you're going on date with this crazy CEO.
These are the choices now.
So, yeah, it's like you, you're a good looking guy, you know, like this isn't.
So, it's like, if I was a guy, I would just go with it.
I'd be like, ladies, go ahead, pay for me.
It's called the king summer.
I would just ask, like, what can I get out of this now?
You know, you're talking about something that's a temporary thing, right?
Yeah, but there's no longevity of it.
But it's gonna be, it's gonna be temporary anyways.
What do you did?
You think like I get that.
That leads to, I think the world that we're talking about leads to a nihilistic approach.
And I think we need to find a solution that's different than that.
I mean, for me, to be honest, I have two jobs.
I work as a licensed myopic and I also work as an entailment of like following law enforcement.
So if you look at all this, like, why do I have two jobs?
People ask me this.
It's because I know that women are going to, I'm going to run into women that are going to outearn me.
But what do I do?
I'm going to provide a buffer as like a secondary job, right?
So as a man knowing this, Doug, I'm coming in with precautionary measures in this dating society, right?
So if I know this, men get pissed off at me when I have these debates with men all the time.
Well, men shouldn't kill themselves for a job just to go ahead and be the equivalent of what women are now.
Well, shit, it's tough out there.
So it's hard finding a solution.
So Pearl, it's either like nihilism.
No, it's not nihilism.
Hear me out.
So, I mean, my friend, my friend, one of my good friends from childhood, she dated a guy for her 20s, went 50-50 with him for seven years, then they broke up.
She didn't want to be married.
She was one of those, like, she raised her little, her mom didn't want to be a mom, so she raised her.
I don't know, you ever meet like the oldest girl where they raised the youngest kids and then like it kind of rooted.
She didn't ever want to be a mom after that because her mom like put it on.
Anyways, long story short, I don't think it's nihilistic.
She had a good relationship for seven years.
She obviously left him as women do.
And he got, he didn't leave that.
Like he could have had an eight-year marriage and then be on child support alimony and have paid half the rent.
Do you know what I'm saying?
Or like, so he saved money for, he saved money for seven years, had a got a hot woman in her prime and then moved on.
Now he's dating the next hot woman until one sticks around.
I think statistically, like, what are we looking at as far as numbers?
And I mean, we could always talk about possibility and probability.
These are things that are always mentioned, but it's like, what do you, we do have a descriptor, right, of this, right?
We do what you've offered is a descriptor, but what do we offer as a prescription for society?
And I think that's where the nihilism comes in when we don't have a prescription for men out there that are, you know, they're working these labor jobs and things and they're being outearned by women.
Yeah, but you can't, but you can't tell like men how to live.
Like that would make them women.
Do you know what I mean?
Like, if you're going to like me, you're a man on the internet to be told the solutions to your life.
Like, it's like the part of being a man is deciding for yourself how to live and like living life on your terms.
You know, living life on your terms.
So like when these internet people are like, oh, we need a solution for society.
I'm like, is this a society of women or men?
Like this is men, right?
So like they're going to live up.
Go ahead, Doug.
So we're in, so I'm, I'm in my mid-40s, right?
Women in their mid-40s are and younger are living what I call the great experiment.
Okay.
They have all they're the most free women ever, right?
And they truly have the ability to live life alone.
They can be married.
They can have children.
They can be whatever.
Right.
But a lot of, so we have the journey of a man.
The journey of a man.
My dad told me when I was young, you're going to get a job when you're 16 and you're going to work until you're dead.
Hopefully, along the way, you find a highly valued skill, highly valued trade, highly valued education to be able to put yourself in the best position to live life on your terms or support a family, right?
Women want the journey of a man, all these modern women, or they think they want it.
STEM fields have a recruitment and retention problem because only 22% of students of STEM are women.
And 50%, by the time they're 43 or have a child, quit STEM jobs.
CEOs only are CEOs that are women for three to four years.
The average man is a CEO for eight to nine years.
CEOs quit after two to three years or when they're 43 years old.
These women are going to quit because they know that it's optional.
Success is mandatory for a man and it's optional for women.
Women reserve the right to change their minds.
And all these women are going to smash into that wall and realize, I don't want to do this long term.
And hopefully, these women will teach the upcoming generations don't be like me and live this illusion that I'm going to save the world with my social work degree.
Oh, God.
That's what's going to happen.
Doug MPS.
Oh, we thought it would be a positive impalement.
But that's not going to happen, though.
Like, I mean, look at the Gen Z only fans rates.
Yeah.
I know, but I don't, I think selling hope when there's no indication that's going to happen is mean.
Do you know what I mean?
We got to be realistic here.
When we got one out of five women in Gen Z being on OnlyFans, there's no indication it's going back.
So if I was a guy, and I'm just saying this is from a woman's point of view, I would just think about what I could get out of this.
And I would just expect her to leave.
Like, you know, if the women are being whores, I'd just be like, well, it's time to enjoy the whores.
Like, what else are you going to do?
I mean, from my point of view, as an Orthodox Christian, it's hard to look at things like that because that literally is antithetical to my belief.
I'm not pushing back against your position.
And I'm not saying that I would prescribe for men to do something because I would not tell men what to do.
Right.
But one thing I would say is that they're like, I know that we're railing to get some kind of solution, but hope isn't a plan.
Hope isn't a solution either.
You know, so I think one thing that I would do is like, as a, as, you know, me being my man of faith, is we are looking for people that we can be in a relationship with for a long term, right?
Marriage, right?
Marital agreements.
So I think that if you could find somebody who has the same faith structure you have, and I'm not talking about Protestants, right?
Those are a whole Earl.
I agree with you 100% when you're talking about I don't see any.
I'm sorry.
I've interviewed a lot of victims of divorce rape.
I've seen the Orthodox.
If anything, I've seen religious women act worse.
And I think they're saying 9% divorce rate.
No, they lie to you guys about the stats.
I mean, they always look at, they always try to find a way around it.
And what they want to do is they want their religion to be right.
And so they're going to, what they do is they keep making the barrier to entry to say you're only a real Christian.
They include in the surveys, they'll say only if you pray once a day, only if you do this, only if you do that.
And they don't want you to believe what's in front of like your eyes.
And I'll talk to the people that run like the Orthodox matchmaking or the Chris, like they have the same problems.
The divorces that I've seen have come from all religions.
If anything, I see the more serious religions when they do it.
The women are more vicious because their reputation, it makes perfect sense.
Their reputation is entrenched in like, you know, in their religion, they're a bad person if they get divorced.
So clearly they got pretty serious.
I mean, as far as like, look, you can tell me this, but I just know you're going to have an ego investment in your religion being right, right?
Everyone, and I've heard this same argument.
Have to understand.
I've heard it from devout Muslims, and I've seen the Muslim women throwing it back in London.
Okay, I've heard this, I've heard this from the like Michael Knowles.
And then I met one of the worst divorce rape stories I ever heard in my life was from the exact church that Michael Knowles went to.
Then the Orthodox told me they were different.
And then I had an Orthodox priest in my space, and he was telling me when he counsels the men that he tells the men to buy their wife clothes to get laid.
And I'm like, that's coming from a priest.
And so I just know, like, I know that group dynamics are going to be the same regardless of what religion.
Like, there's going to, it's kind of, you get 10 women in each, half are probably going to divorce.
And if there's a lower divorce rate, I guarantee they're making their husbands' lives miserable.
I mean, because women are women, men are men.
Group dynamics, like it's just not going to, there's no, like, everyone wants their religion to be a buffer, but it's just not.
Yeah, but I'm not going to also sleep around with a bunch of women.
That's like totally antithetical to my belief.
You don't have to do that.
I know we're going to be an empath with that.
Well, I don't, I don't care.
Don't do it then.
I just, I like, I just, the problem is that this is just pragmatic.
I just see the men that don't do it get screwed.
Like, and that's the tough thing: I think men are kind of like at it, like an empath where they have their morals.
And a lot of not you, but I'm saying this is just what I've gathered.
They see what works.
And when the guys sleeping with all these women get better treatment, they're kind of like, what else am I supposed to do?
You know, like, we're getting guys that like juggle multiple women are getting paid for now.
Like, there are men in the cities that get they figure out how to get women to fall in love with them so hard.
They cover their whole life.
I've talked to these men, and these women are loyal.
Like, they're loyal.
I mean, as far as I can tell, I don't know.
But do you know what I mean?
I'm not saying what to do, but no, it's like I hear what you're saying.
Yeah, but I'd rather be a monk than live the life of like men that are running around increasing their STD rates and also spending more money than they have to.
Because that's the thing, though.
Men turn into pay picks really quick when it comes to like trying to get draws and panties and things like that.
And when you also realize that, you know, these things are fleeting.
Women actually on dates, I've literally had women tell me things like, you know, 200 bucks, that's nothing.
You know, you, it's all I'm asking you for is dinner, right?
That's nothing, yet you won't do the same thing.
And equality is out the window, even though you make more than me.
Yeah, but if, yeah, but if you just do like the players that I've talked to, they just do drinks.
And it's like, we're either doing drinks or I'm not coming.
And we're either having sex in the first like three, they give three dates tops or I'm not doing yeah.
Yeah, I'm all for coffee dates.
We're gonna move to the next caller.
Yeah, go ahead.
Yeah, thanks for calling in.
Calling anytime.
Brian, are you there?
We're gonna do Brian, Marvin, and then Sean.
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Unmute, Brian.
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So, Marvin, unmute.
Good evening.
How you doing?
Doing good, buddy.
I just want to say congratulations to Pearl from getting your network over here from Zaitization from YouTube.
And thank you.
Yeah, and another thing, I love how you challenge mentally Michael Noel and Walsh.
Just don't like to listen, just like Brittany Reiner wasn't listening to you and I interviewed this past year and just kept antagonizing you.
That just makes me sick when they do that because they don't want to hear the truth.
Like Myron says, they need to, you know, submit sometimes when they got taste defeat, but they don't always know how to do that when it comes to the truth.
Um, so I'll just tell you, you know, you're still here, and that's all that matters.
Thank you so much.
I appreciate you.
Yeah, and I did join the $80 membership last week.
Thank you so much.
You're the best.
Make sure I'm grandfathered in from here on out, please.
Gladly appreciate that.
Um, I'm gonna start out by saying because I never really got the chance to describe my occupation, and it's a very uh dangerous occupation, you know.
And I'm soon to be to um go back to school to get another license added to the one I got because you need this license to get the other one.
Okay, I'm a commercial class A driver, hazardous material license, and federally, you know, mandated to the federal government, you know, with the TSTSA and everything, all that good stuff.
It's a whole hazardous material on big rigs to all the local customers in California and Nevada.
Um, I soon to you know, move on to the crane operation with the semi-truck sometime this year.
I'm going to find someone that could um take me in under their umbrella.
So, back to this point: this kind of jobs, these infrastructure jobs, um, that you've been talking about for weeks and months now.
Like, I haven't seen a single woman do the things that I do.
I'm sorry, you know, I'm just being honest.
Um, if it wasn't for us, they want to have air conditioning, they want to have an office, they want to be working at the orchard doctor's office jobs and the schools and everything.
It takes a guy like me to bring everything to their office so they can stay comfortable in their office and do their career, their profession.
You know, that's how it works.
So, I put my life on the line for everybody else.
Um, um, I did have somebody years ago in 2012, my ex, that is, she's about three hours away from you, Pearl, by the way, in Iowa, Scotts County.
Okay, and uh, we didn't work out.
She picked the guy that she married, she was seeing him the whole time prior from 2012 behind my back when I was driving the semi-truck across state to state when I was an over-road driver before I became a local driver the last 15 years.
So, um, she was sleeping around with him behind my back and made babies with him.
And she was trying to manipulate the whole relationship, like you know, that I was supposed to pitch in for these bills.
I was like, No, we're not together, you're with this other guy, you picked him.
And I was like, I don't want to be with somebody that's not been true from the start.
You expect to go 50-50.
We're not going 50-50.
I just want to be out.
I want to be done with you for good.
And now, well, we're in 2024.
Okay, now I'm hearing from Facebook that she's miserable, she's not happy.
She's probably going to get a divorce now from the guy.
And she, the same person that she married, went to jail over a year ago.
Did she earn?
Did she earn more than you in the relationship?
No, never, never.
She did work at one point, but that was just a retail thing.
Do you ever wish you did 50-50, or are you happy that you did that you took over the bills?
No, I wasn't.
No, I look back.
I was never happy taking over the bills because when you lied to me the first time, that makes me believe you're a liar the rest of the way, the rest of the years, the rest of the months.
So, why even bother?
Okay, so in hindsight, if you had to go back, you would have.
I mean, obviously, knowing, but knowing what you know now, you, but assuming, like, even without, sorry, do you, do you wish if you had to go back, you are you happy you split it or no?
Like, do you wish you didn't?
Um, sorry, sorry, I keep saying this wrong.
Oh, my God.
Sorry.
No, I'm just okay.
Just slow down.
I understand.
Okay, you understand.
Yeah, yeah.
Sorry.
Yeah, let me explain.
Let me explain before we get into conclusions.
I don't want to be, you know, going crazy on conclusion, but I'm the kind of person I don't believe in the 50-50 unless it's 100% front from the get-go, which she did not do, by the way.
So that tells me, no, why even do it?
You know, that just, that's like being blindfolded.
You go into something and you don't even know what's going on.
Yeah.
Why do it?
So you're actually in a disadvantage at that point, you know, financially also too.
So that's not good for anyone.
So back to the point, though.
I'm glad I didn't do that because I probably like a lot of guys financially not well in so many levels.
I'm not doing terribly wrong now, but I feel like I could do better.
But that set me back a little bit because of what she's done in the past.
So then I broke up with her and I took an eight-year hi A this break and I met somebody else in my area in California in the San Francisco Bay Area.
That's where I stay at.
And she too became, you know, like her.
You know, she believes that marriage is a business.
And when as soon as I heard those words from her, I said, oh, no, if I marry this woman, she's not going to care about me as a man.
She cared about the resources.
So I said, no, I can't be with this.
And then I found out she was like the rest of her group, the feminist.
I don't know well with feminism.
So the next girl did the same thing, did something similar?
Yeah, and both of them are in their 40s now.
So in the future, are you going to go 50-50 or are you still going to cover the bills?
I want 50-50, preferably, but you're done with this shit.
Yeah, you got that right.
You're like, I'm not paying for shit anymore.
But in today's world, today's Western world, modern world, it doesn't work.
Just like Myron Fresh Fitz says, it doesn't work.
The man's got to be the leader.
The man's got to make all the rational decisions for the better of the household, especially if you got to be a protector.
A lot of us never had the chance to go to the military or went to the state law enforcement, higher patrol academies or possibly the gun race to get training.
A lot of them never did that.
I did that with my brothers, and a couple other.
I actually went to the police academy about seven years ago and I had my little share of taste of what it's like in there with the training on this intensify with defending the loved ones you care about.
So a lot of them never got that chance to understand what it takes to protect your community, your loved ones, and so on.
It's a big responsibility.
It's not that simple.
Most people don't believe in any of that in the household.
Oh, it's too crazy for the kids around, you know.
So I was like, no, I've been alone ever since because of all this.
So I don't like too many people being materialistic.
And most of these women I was with, just went through resources, materialistic, and it just didn't work out.
So that's why I'm going to be a free agent.
Thanks to you.
And thanks to Coach Greg Adams in Las Vegas.
Nice.
CGA is great.
Thanks for calling in.
I appreciate it.
I'm going to read the super chats real quick.
It says you're monetized.
I just want to go through them really quick.
Tell this dude to listen to Ryan Stone.
Dude lives in anxiety.
Ian Ironwood.
Praxeology of a dominant male.
Men are raised as defective women.
Clue Studio.
$50 super chat.
Pearl is back.
Thank you guys.
YouTube monetization.
Yup.
Yup.
I'm back, baby.
All right.
Let me check the thing on the website.
Let's see.
Let me see what else we have.
Trad cons are worse than feminists.
You see feminists coming with purple hair and peer.
Oh, that's you, Doug.
MPA.
It seems like working hard at a career is going to help me find a good relationship.
At one point, is it better to skip school, hit the gym, and being bag a boss girl for money?
Hey, this is what a lot of the Gen Z guys are doing.
They're like, we can't keep up with these women.
Disregard the previous caller.
He wasn't defensive or insecure.
He came across as an alpha male who stood his ground and didn't see validation from anyone.
Some people are just different.
Women used to go to college to get some B.O. Sorry, Doug MPA.
I keep wanting to read your stuff, but I'm like, you're on the call.
The Bill Burr bid on marriage.
If you're skydiving and you know that two-thirds of parachutes won't open, I'm not doing it.
Smart.
I don't see any reading ones.
Next up.
Sean, you're next.
And then Joey, you're after that.
Sean, unmute.
Yeah, can you hear me?
Yeah, I can hear you, Sean.
How's it going?
Pearl back.
Pearl back.
Let's get it, man.
Let's run up this money.
What's the next video, Pearl?
Like, now you monetize.
What are they going to say now?
I don't know.
I'm going to do a lot of reactions this week.
I'm going to be like, it'll be like, Pearl reacts to modern women.
We're going to film like 10.
talk it's gonna be like talking to youtube like how how A nice hat.
What did you do?
Let's go.
So, Sean, you've dated everywhere, right?
You've lived all over.
I know you've called in before.
So, what are your thoughts on the high-earning women?
Like, women.
Have you ever dated a woman that made more money than you?
Or would you date or marry a woman that made more money than you long-term?
Yeah, so great question.
And shout outs to you, Doug.
And shout outs to Marvin, too, for subscribing and putting money up on the show.
That's important to support the channel.
So shout outs to you, Marvin, and your service.
But when it comes to marry or date, I've been dating women before in my past that had more net worth than me.
They didn't make more, but they came from rich families.
So that's why I said they had a higher net worth than I did.
Yeah.
So I did date those women.
And as far as if I got married, which I would not, but if I did, right?
It would be more in a way I would marry a woman that's up.
Marriage is pretty serious.
So if you ask Genghis Khan or Julia Caesar who they married, it would be a woman that was at their station or equivalent.
You get what I'm saying?
Because they had to secure grain supplies, you know, had to squash political fights.
So they just never married a side piece.
Now they had concubines for side pieces that they liked, but they never married those girls.
So if I did, it would be some way to protect myself.
But at the end of the day, guys, you know, Kanye could be broken in Kim.
Kim still got more money out of him.
What is her name?
Tiana Taylor.
She just got divorced, right?
She still got more money out of him, even though she said in the claim that she was richer than him.
So at the end of the day, there's no protection.
I just wouldn't get married.
But I have done it before.
I have had those relationships.
And it takes a different type of man to be in those type of relationships.
Like that Chad, that giga chat that called, you know, that dude was like, I'm the therapist to my shorty.
She come to me.
So you have to be a very dominant man.
You have to be very articulate.
You have to be very in touch with your emotional side to be able to, you know, handle all that type of stuff that that type of woman would bring to you.
So as you saw, that guy even said, I do it.
I don't got no problem with it.
And he probably does it.
I wouldn't question him.
I think he doesn't have no problem with it.
So have you ever dated when the women had higher net worths?
Did they ever use it like against you or as a way as a way to control you?
Was that ever a problem?
Yeah, no.
So they would probably use it in a way to bribe me.
So they'll be like, I remember I used to have a, you know, my Japanese girl, she used to be like, I'm at coach.
Do you want a coach bag?
Do you want this and with that?
Because she was trying to buy favor, trying to change maybe an opinion or something of where I was going to move, where I was going to make my next career move.
You get me?
But at the end of the day, never in a negative way because they knew it wouldn't work.
You know, there's a thing called S-test, right?
Women test you.
And so they wouldn't be with you if they couldn't control you.
And if they know they can't control you, then they'll just know what it is.
So I never got a situation where they attempted to control me.
You know, a little test here and there, but I just wouldn't fall for it.
You know, at the end of the day, that's your choice.
But when you get married, you have no outperil, right?
You can't walk away.
That's your best leverage as a man is just to be able to walk away.
Moment you get married, then a simp judge is going to come through with the simp lawyers and everybody else.
So it's going to be toy soldiers against you.
And you're going to be sitting up there thinking about law and justice and order.
And there's a bunch of simps around you.
Like, you should, you should have stayed with her.
We believe everything.
We believe all women.
And so then when you get crucified, you're going to sit there looking crazy.
So I think in my situations, negative.
They didn't.
But I was a Marine, you know what I'm saying?
Combat decorated.
They kind of knew like, oh, you know, what am I finna tell him?
You know, like he'd been to war and combat.
So I think just being a well-rounded man and not having weaknesses really help.
Because that's just like troops.
When you lead troops, right?
If they find that you have a weakness, regardless if you're a general or if you're in charge, they're going to try to exploit that weakness.
And so you just have to be, what do they say?
Protect yourself at all times.
Did you see the tweet at the beginning?
The Matt Walsh thing at the beginning?
Oh, okay.
I was going to say that.
You should call him.
No, no, no.
I'm just hitting that.
I just, no, no, no, I just call in tomorrow, okay?
Because we're going to do a show.
He got mad at me on Twitter and I was kind of curious your thoughts.
But call in tomorrow if you have time.
Okay, back.
Because we're going to do shows.
You was in that religious dude in the head.
Look, shout outs to God.
But dudes coming with the religion, man.
It's like, come on, man.
Y'all should be out here doing the worst.
Hey, what did Eve do in the garden?
We already know what it is, man.
Come on.
Get out of here.
Yeah.
Did you know what?
I've just had so many of the religious guys.
And I don't want to make it a religious argument like I'm arguing for one or the other, but they all are convinced that their religion protects their women from doing these things.
Facts.
And I'm like, like I had a girl.
Do you know what's crazy?
I can't say who, but there was a girl on the show and she was talking about how devout of a Muslim she was.
One of the really, like one of the famous guys that came on the show took her home after.
She's through back that same night where she was talking about her religion.
And I'm like, bro, I lived in the Middle East.
I know what it is.
I'm like, again, man.
I'm not against God, but the guys, the Bible will not save you against these.
What they want to do, what people want to do.
The sad part about it is feminist women.
What do they say?
Nature always makes its most dangerous things bright colors in different shapes for you to be able to detect it.
So, feminists have piercings, tattoos, purple hair.
So, you can see them coming.
But these TradCon through 304s, man, you can't see them coming, man.
You really can't.
And then it's a two-pronged attack.
You have the TradCon women who are trying to manipulate men and be undercover feminists.
And then you have the TradCon men telling you to fall for the trap.
Yeah.
And I think, Pearl, you might have said it before, but they become the police of the Bible.
So they'll come at you with what you want to hear because you're all about the Bible.
But then they start guarding what Jesus says.
Like, you get what I'm saying?
So they'll be like, well, you're not a real Christian man.
And then, just like they tell you, you're not a real man if you don't do X, Y, and Z.
And the Bible is one of the most red pill books ever.
No, but they forget those verses, Doug.
Yeah, no, they wipe those away.
No bad verses, only the good ones.
You talk about patriarchy and all that stuff, but the Bible is it.
You know, yeah, no, it was the ultimate RP, right?
So, shout outs to Pearl, man.
Pearl's back, pearl's back, y'all haters.
And then shout outs to CGA free agent lifestyle.
That is the afterpill.
So, much respects to you and what you're doing, Pearl.
Keep rocking and rolling because you're winning.
Shout out to YouTube.
Thank you, YouTube.
Yeah, thank you, YouTube.
And make sure you call in tomorrow, okay?
Because I think I'm kind of curious what you'd say.
Go on my Twitter right now and look up Matt Walsh in my back and forth.
They're gonna do a show on it tomorrow.
And everyone, make sure to follow Pearl on Twitter because Pearl gets the party started on Twitter, man.
Yeah, I know.
I just shout out to you.
I just saw he responded to me, and I'm trying to debate how I want to say back.
Okay, thanks, say monetization with the deuces sign up.
Be like, okay, Joy McMullen, are you ready?
You're on mute, buddy.
I'm mute.
Yeah, I'm ready.
Can you hear me?
Yeah.
Joey, how's it going?
What's up, Pearl?
Congratulations on the monetization.
I've been watching you for quite some time.
Excited to tell you a story about what it's like to date a higher earner, be married to one, and then, of course, divorce her and be married to a stay-at-home wife.
Perfect.
Let's go.
Yeah, it's an interesting story.
When I was 19, I had just finished serving three years in prison, got out and found myself a sugar mama.
Are you Canadian?
Yes.
I bet.
Women love criminals.
Go ahead.
I'm sorry.
Did you like have a plethora when you're on dates?
Like saying, oh, I just got out of prison.
And they're like, tell me more.
And the panties just melt off.
Yeah.
Was that like anymore?
Not as much anymore.
Because, you know, going from the bottom 1% to the top 1% of earners, you don't really talk about you've been to prison, you know, 20, 25 years ago.
It's not as cool as it once was being a grown man with teenage children that are in university.
No, you don't.
If they find out, that's how they'll get all the women, you know?
Yeah.
Well, my son likes to talk about it.
Daddy's a badass and blah blah blah.
I was like, yeah, maybe 20 years ago, son.
Maybe 20 years ago.
Yeah, so I got out, found myself a higher-earning woman.
Everything was great so long as she was in control of the money and kind of overseeing everything.
I was a stay-at-home boyfriend, I guess.
She didn't say I needed to work.
She's like, oh, go to work when you want.
Get a job if you want.
I got it.
We'll hold it down.
And blah, blah, blah.
I was like, yeah, this is cool.
How much older?
How much older was she?
One year older.
Oh, okay.
So you were the same.
What did she do?
She worked at the hospital.
Like a nurse or something?
Yeah, like in nursing.
She was cheating, right?
Okay, sorry.
She was incredibly faithful as far as I know.
Okay, okay.
Yeah, exactly.
Okay.
No, I just the nurses I hear about.
It's it's it's she's gotten projectively worse.
And now that she's into her 40s, and I'm in my 40s, mind you, this was you know 23 years ago.
I'm 42.
And I've only had two girlfriends and two wives in that period of time.
I don't date.
And when I do, I'm shopping for a wife.
I've always wanted a wife.
I've always wanted kids.
So I'll preface with that.
Ended up getting her pregnant, the nurse.
And I started taking myself more seriously as a man, wanted to get a job, go to the gym, do things like that.
Long before you had to do that on the internet, like it's really hard pushed on men to get into shape and do that sort of thing.
And I wanted to do it simply because, you know, obviously you got to take care of the kids.
But she also began looking down on me and making fun of me to her friends.
And I'd see the way she was talking to other dudes where I knew they made a hell of a lot more money than me.
Eventually, I hit it big on YouTube like you Pearl.
I don't get to talk about cool stuff every day, but I talk about fish tanks.
And fortunately, I made millions of dollars doing it.
I'm also known as the king of DIY.
Oh, nice.
Anyways, I'm going to look it up.
You're going to like it.
Put it in the chat.
No, don't, don't link it to the chat.
I don't need to come in here and be like, hey, how's that nurse?
Okay, okay, okay.
That's fine.
Yeah, so you can look it up.
Okay.
So we end up having children.
And, you know, I'm literally with her for the kids.
Because to be honest with you, when you're dating a woman that's even a year older than you that makes more money, odds are it's a trade-off for their looks.
She wasn't much of a looker.
And people were always surprised that I was with her.
And it used to hurt my feelings.
I was like, dude, this is my wife.
But I realized I wasn't really attracted, you know, never kissed on the mouth, stuff like that.
And over time, I started making way more than her.
And she wanted to start splitting bills 50-50.
And that was the turning point where she just got worse and worse and worse with time.
Now that her control with the money was gone and she couldn't control me, it's not like I was running rampant or running the streets.
It was like, well, now he can leave me.
There's nothing I can do about it.
And I bet you were getting interest from hotter women and that had to drive her nuts, right?
The anxiety of it.
I don't know if I'd call it interest, but it was absolutely ridiculous because I was traveling the world and girls wanted to talk to me that the type that you see like in music videos type stuff.
And I had never experienced that in my life because I'm from a little town in Nova Scotia called Truro.
So it was the first time I had ever experienced anything like that.
She's going to go.
And I never dipped into any of it.
I stayed faithful, but sort of thing.
They were just so nice and kind and feminine and ladylike and pretty.
She wasn't, right?
Oh, it was the worst.
Have you ever walked over a bridge and you know that animal that lives under it that you got to answer riddles?
Yeah.
She looks like bridge troll.
I have.
So I have, I used to have a friend as a girl, and we met at my first job in public service.
And she got married to this guy, and her now ex-husband was one of the smartest men I've ever met, but he was kind of shipless.
He couldn't really stick down to get a college degree, and she had a government job.
So she held them down their first couple of years, years of their marriage.
But along the way, he actualized.
He got all these IT certifications, and then he started getting his name around and doing these IT contracts for major corporations.
And he was the same as you, where when they first met and got married, he could barely keep a job, but he used his smart intelligence and actualized, right?
So I'm talking, he's making five, six, seven hundred thousand dollars a year.
But she never saw him as the new version of himself.
She only saw him as the old version and treated him as such.
And he literally said that he gets respect from his colleagues, all these people in his field, but his wife didn't see him the way that everybody else in the world saw him.
Was that your experience?
That was like the part of it that I can share with the internet as opposed to some of the more things that in the divorce agreement I've signed that I wouldn't share on the internet, which was more physical related.
And it got pretty bad eventually, where she just turned into this rotten person.
And I filed for divorce.
I realized that she was talking to guys behind my back, Lord knows what else, speaking to lawyers on her own, like kind of trying to set me up.
Luckily, I was able to get better lawyers and fight for myself as a male, which a lot of men can't.
And I got the kids, I got the house, and things were great.
I met a girl a few months later, much younger, a 15-year age gap, which sounds horrible, but we say good for you.
No, that's a good thing.
Yeah, we say good for you.
Yeah, so I was 15.
You could have gone for 20.
Oh, no, you can't go for it.
No, no, that's 35.
She was 20.
I was her first.
And she wanted everything the same as me.
And it was the first time where I was like, man, this is somebody I've ever met that was like truly kind and nice.
And like I had opportunities to kind of like explore and go travel the world and test out all different types of cars, girls.
But I decided after a couple of years of dating with her, we ended up getting married last year, about one year ago, April, May.
No, 10 months ago.
She's going to kill me if you're not knowing the date where I got married.
But the difference between that and now she's a stay-at-home wife is everything, not everything I say goes because she has her opinions and stuff, but it's like she values my opinion as number one.
If I want to vote, she's voting for whoever I vote.
If I want, like, no matter what I want to do, she wants your team because that's the thing.
Like, one of the most powerful things a woman can do is be on a man's team.
And we know when a woman's on our team.
We know it.
We can feel it.
There's just like a feeling that goes along with having a woman on your team.
And that's one of the biggest things that modern women don't do.
It's like, especially out here daily.
Like, I always meet these women where they have to negotiate and question everything a man does.
And it just gets to the point where it's just disrespectful.
I'm going to ask you a question.
Was the you said that she controlled the finances.
Did you get to the point where you're like, I'm tired of you controlling the finances?
Did you have to have like a confrontation about the finances?
Was that the straw that broke the camel's back?
I wouldn't say that.
It's more like, are the bills paid?
I would work and like she would have all the money, all the money go into a one account type of thing.
And all I cared about is like, is money or our bills paid?
And maybe on Friday, can we get a pizza?
Like, I don't come from money and I didn't have a lot of money even during that relationship.
So I never had a huge value on money as opposed to just make sure the bills are paid.
Don't call in sick.
Do as much overtime as you can, etc.
So I never got frustrated with the money aspect, just the way she would look at me when people were around and treat me and talk about me or talk down to me and or even just make fun of me.
And even when I started making like substantial amount of money, she would make fun and her friends would call her out and be like, he makes tons of money.
He's relatively good looking.
He's sweet to you.
They're like, why?
Because girls like to show off for other girls.
And it always confused me.
And I talked to her when they'd leave.
I'm like, why do you do that?
Like, you realize that if I leave you, the grass isn't greener on the other side.
She'd been single for seven years now and doing really bad.
Got a DUI in order to start her car.
She got to blow into this thing.
And you're dating a hot young woman.
Good for you.
Girl, if you've seen her, she's smoking hot.
Yeah.
A lot of these women, you actualize and she refused to see it or she saw it and she didn't like it and had an active campaign to tear you down.
And that's exactly what happens.
I love it when guys two years.
I was warning her, like, if you don't change, if this doesn't stop, if you don't make an active attempt at changing the way you act and how you react, like, I'm going to file for divorce.
And she's like, no, you're not.
I'll take the kids and I'll take the house and take this and I'll take that.
And I was like, well, you know, my children love me, so you can't take them.
I was like, if you want the house, that's cool because I bought this when I was broke.
Imagine the house I can get now.
I still live in my little broke house.
I want you to start life over in a studio apartment, sleep on a beanbag.
Oh, no, I kept the house and got it.
I love it when guys say I'll do better and then they do it.
And that's what happens most of the time, Pero.
I told you this whole thing where, oh, you know, you lose so much, but most guys end up winning, man.
Most guys, they get more productive when they get out of a bad relationship.
It's like they have hands around their neck and the hands aren't choking them anymore.
They just get to work after.
Men are immature for a tremendous amount of time.
And I think that we start, our heads, you know, get screwed on a little bit more straighter in our mid-30s to later 30s.
I think that men start to look, most men who take care of themselves start to even look better, get more attractive, more handsome, that sort of thing.
And then, of course, they reach more of their financial strides into their 40s.
So I had options in terms of what I could do next for a wife.
And I could have dated my age, but what comes with that is I have to date their past.
I've got to date their children.
I've got to date all their experiences.
I wanted nothing to do with that.
I wanted to start with a clean slate.
And I was lucky enough to find somebody by chance just at the gym.
Guys, if you want to meet like a girl of your dreams, go to the gym.
They're there.
That's where they go.
I'm going to ask you a question.
So you're the sole provider of your family, right?
Yes.
How does that make you feel providing for your family?
Like, can you articulate the satisfaction that you have of providing financially, mentally, spiritually for your family?
I think that most men want to provide.
We have this innate feeling inside of us that we want to provide.
Now, whether you do the work to be able to do that is your choice, but we all have the innate need to provide and you're actually doing it.
So, can you describe how that feels?
Do you feel better doing it?
Like, how do you, how do you, how would you describe it?
I feel it's the same.
It feels the same as like, I got to go take a shower.
Like, you just, these are things that I have to do.
I don't feel like it's rewarding.
I don't want to pat on the back.
This is just what a man's supposed to do: take care of his family.
Is he supposed to be the sole provider?
I mean, everybody has different preferences.
Some people have a wife and a husband or a couple earning money together, which, you know what, in my opinion, however much money you can bring into your household, bring as much as possible.
But what I do find is for myself, when it comes to being a sole provider, when my children are now 20 and 17, soon to be 18, these guys are going to leave me.
They're going to go live their own lives and forget that I raised them and everything I did for them.
And I'm going to be stuck here.
And I have to make sure that the person that I'm stuck with and or chose to be with is the right person that I can be with alone.
Because once you remove the dynamic of children, life is going to change just as much as when you put them into your life.
Because when you have kids, everybody says, oh, everything changes.
Imagine doing that for 20 years.
And then you take them out.
You're going to be left with that person and you're going to be sitting in a room staring at each other thinking, I don't really like you.
So I'm lucky that I made these decisions to file for divorce around seven years ago, maybe a little bit more, and found the right woman for me moving forward because I don't want to run the streets.
I don't want to have girls, a bunch of different girls in my bed all the time.
I'm typical though, though.
I'd love to, but I just like when it comes down to it, I just don't think I could do it.
I did that in my younger years and I had my fill, fellas.
It's not like I've only been with two women, but had my fill.
And I'm much happier waking up and knowing that because I'm in an age gap relationship, when I'm 80 and I need help changing the diaper, that I've got a hot little nurse that's going to be able to do it.
Well, thanks for sharing, Joey.
What a nice story.
I love it when guys, I love when guys come and they say, I'm going to do better and they do it.
It's just awesome.
And believe me, she's watching your every ex is watching your every single move and she knows she messed up, bro.
And I guarantee you, all the people that were trying to tell you about her behavior and asking why you put up with it, they're telling her she messed up every single day of her life.
I'm telling you.
I don't do it for revenge.
I wish her the best.
You know, hopefully she doesn't get any rain on her under that bridge, but and her riddles aren't that difficult for those that want to cross it.
Nice.
Nice.
Well, thank you so much for calling in, Joey.
I'll check out the time.
I just subscribed to your channel, so I expect great.
Yeah, I did too.
I don't have any fish, but maybe I'll get one.
Hey, we'd love fish and fish tanks.
Could go in the background here, you know.
Last and not least.
If you want one back there, let me know.
I'll fly down.
Oh, yeah, maybe.
I could be your first client.
Only if only, only if my producer takes care of it.
And I don't have to do any of the work.
Bye.
Thanks for having me.
Okay.
How many more callers do you want to do, Pearl?
Um, I'll do these last two and then we'll okay, close out.
We'll do Matt.
Are you there?
Unmute.
Thanks for waiting, buddy.
We really appreciate it.
Go ahead.
No worries.
Okay, so to let you to let the pearl know, I've got pretty much three stories, maybe four.
I don't know.
Okay.
Three.
One, yes.
Yes.
I've had a woman go 50-50 with me.
Actually, in fact, this first date, she offered.
Okay.
Which is really, which is really rare.
And I have dated a bunch of women, at least two women that were that made a lot more money than me.
When I was still in college doing my associate degree, these two, I had one girl that was working on her master's in psychology that was hooked up with me for a little while.
And I've had a chemical engineer working towards her, or sorry, chemical engineering student working on her PhD, also kind of going.
She was six years older than me.
And so they had their, so they had some serious, serious education while I was still, and the engineer one, when I was fresh out of high school going into university, dealt with the PhD higher earnier one.
I don't know what it is, but they were into me.
So was it ever a problem for you?
Like, did they ever hold it over your head or get mad about it?
You know what?
Education-wise, I it's kind of the other way around.
I don't really like it when a woman has more education than me.
Okay.
I don't know why.
It just, I just, something odd about it.
Like, I feel like, like, I'm not, I'm not the guy that's wearing the pants when I'm the guy with less education.
I really do feel even if it's psychology, does that even count?
Well, what are you getting educated in being crazy?
Like, I don't know.
It's just like, I have to say, I had some pretty interesting debates about things.
Like, I was trying to tell her, like, there's things in the background.
He just couldn't make her see it.
Okay.
And so they had some really interesting conversations, but I don't know.
It felt weird.
Those are your preferences.
I'm the same.
I genuinely avoid because I've had experiences with dating women that make more money than me in the past.
So I just don't do it.
I don't.
And that's a preference of mine only because I've said it in the chat.
I've said it to Pearl multiple times.
Women that one earn more.
And two, if you couple that with have more education, it's the one-two punch will talk to you like they can beat you in a fight.
They will get so disrespectful.
Remember, men are benevolent.
We'll be better educated, make more money, but we won't talk to women the way that women who are better educated and talk make more money to talk to their man.
They literally forget that you are physically stronger than her and she would talk to you with her chest puffed out.
So I just, I just avoid it.
Do you know what it is?
I think it's got to be like a like gym rat guy who just like is like an absolute savage.
I think those are the only guys that can pull it off because like, I don't know.
Those are just like the only guys I've seen that can like pull that off are they just have to be like almost like so Machiavelli like almost to the point of criminals.
You know what I mean?
That I like long term long term anyways.
No offense to you, Matt.
Okay.
Well, dear, just to let you know, like, okay, just, you know, what got me going with the, well, not all women.
Some women like the brains.
You got to find, those are the ones that are harder to get.
So what got me hooked up with the 20 with the 26 year old?
Like I was 18 and I was hooking up with a 26 year old with the chemical engineering PhD, right?
What got me in her pants?
This is not, I'm not fucking kidding.
So she showed me her PhD thesis and she did on a hydrogen fuel cell reaction reactor to be able to take hydrogen and some mixture of methane and come out with huge amounts of energy.
But they had a big problem of too much heat creating friction in the cells.
And then I came across a type of studies and through MIT when I was still here in Winnipeg at the U of W and I and I was able to take her math without even having all the education yet and all the software.
I was able to compound a type of formula and a type of thesis and give it to her and able to increase her reactor to 63% efficient.
And she was just blown away from that.
She showed that to all her other colleagues that she was working with and they couldn't figure it out why a high school student could do that.
And next thing you know, you know, she's showing me her tits.
You were like, this is the best payoff on physics ever.
I know.
Well, you know, the crazy thing is when you're dealing with the more educated women that are like in these engineering and science backgrounds and stuff, one of the things that got me to leg up, like when I was in the forces and stuff, I've learned how to have access to certain technologies that have not reached the academic world yet, that were just fresh out of requiring a security clearance to access this stuff.
Like you had to know your stuff, search through patents and things.
And I had the ability to just hand out technology to a lot of my professors at different universities I was going to like hot cakes.
And next thing you know, you just watch their eyeballs sink to the back of their skull.
I'm like, sorry, all your work and life's work has already been done before.
You just kind of missed the boat on it.
And next thing you know, you have, next thing, you know, you have some of these women profs that just want to, you know, pull my beard a little bit and sit on my lap.
And where the hell is this going?
And that's worth more than the money because you know that they're going to get fame.
Okay.
So the secret to higher educated women is giving them the technology that gives them a one-up that they're that much closer to getting that Nobel Peace Prize.
And then when one guy shows up in their office, you know, close the door, shitting gold bricks, and next thing you know, reconstructing everything that they've ever done with giving them a huge advantage in technology, all of a sudden, that is worth way more than finances.
And how long were you with them?
Was it like a one-time thing or were you like with them for a while?
You know, to be on the only relationships last for me about a couple of months and then they're, then they just get tired of me and move on.
So they probably, I wouldn't be surprised if I was fucking a massage agent in any way.
I wouldn't be surprised because I've gotten to solving some trouble for handing out stuff that I shouldn't be handing out a couple of times.
Oh, God.
And yeah, so like I said, I'd be really, really careful about that.
But, you know, some of these women, they're honey pots.
I'm telling you, they'll take care of it.
And then there's a couple of times there, too, where I ended up hooking up with a university professor at one of the universities here in Winnipeg.
I won't talk it because this was years ago, but one day coming out of a physics class, I had this woman come in and all these other girls are rushing into this class to get the seats and everything.
I'm just kind of like, this is kind of weird.
There's no men in this classroom.
It's all women.
And I'm like, and so I'm sitting there trying to write down the last bit of physics notes.
And they were doing like really high level computational physics and stuff for electrodynamics.
And I thought she was another physics prof. And it's like, what is this class?
Oh, it's oh, and she was embarrassed.
So it's like it's a woman's studies class, eh?
And it's like, what?
Yeah, it's about embracing the divine feminine.
And I'm just sitting there like, she looks embarrassed telling me this, eh?
And I just laugh, eh?
Divine feminine.
Like, what the fuck do you use this shit for all these other women?
Hey, and it's just like, and she's, and she's like, excuse me, you are so rude.
And I'm like, tell her, shut the fuck up and make me a sandwich.
Like, why the hell are you here in this classroom?
And so it's like, what are you going to do?
It's just like, what are you going to do about it?
Kick me out of university?
Okay.
Well, I'll give you my number.
I'll give you my phone.
You can call somebody who cares.
So this woman getting pissed off of me, eh?
And she's like, you know what?
Maybe I'll talk to you in my office about manners.
I'm like, okay.
So I show her up in her office about a couple hours later when her class is over and there's no students there.
And next thing you know, I just like, oh, and I sit down in her class.
I put my feet up on her desk and I'm like, okay, lady, tell me all about embracing your divine feminine.
And next thing you know, it's just like, excuse me?
It's just like, you've got the, and I just told her, you got like the really nicest tits I have ever seen.
And next thing, you know, I don't, the long story short, I'm fucking her on her desk.
Like, there is.
This is like, this is the guys in the chat are going to get ideas.
They're going to go to class and be like, you're great.
Let me tell you.
So here's what it is: a lot of these professional women.
Yeah.
They're on this strong, independent, I don't need a man stuff, but they get lonely and they get a little bit of attention from a guy that's somewhat attractive and they fall apart.
There's that moment of weakness.
All these women who say they don't need a man, because one of my friends, she's been, well, we're not friends anymore, but she's a professional woman and she's professionally single.
And she's like, she's on these dating apps.
And this guy that was a male traveling nurse reached out to her on some on some app and said, Hey, you know, I'm in you.
They put nurses up in hotels that travel.
He's like, I'm at my hotel.
Come to this hotel.
We can meet in the bar.
I'll buy you dinner and then you can just come up to my hotel room and spend the night.
And she's like, I can't believe, I can't believe he would say that to me.
Does he know I'm a professional woman?
I wouldn't do that.
I said, he says that because it works.
She showed me a picture of this guy.
He's a decent looking guy.
All you women, you're going to stay home another Friday night and watch scandal for the 15th time or friends?
No, every so often.
Some of your friends are going to answer that guy's call.
They're going to go to that hotel, eat dinner at the bar in his hotel, and go up to his room with you.
Really think so?
I was like, yeah, he wouldn't have said that to you if it doesn't work.
All these professional women have this myth that they don't need the protection of a man, they don't need sex, any of that.
But then a guy like you comes along and is banging her on her desk in her classroom.
Yeah, you know what, Bill thing is?
I like the best props are the ones when you have the really long hair because I'm like, I told you before, I'm like into long hair.
I don't mind the nose ring because the nose ring has something fun with it.
And I don't like the tattoo.
The nose ring is great because you try when you're trying to, you're fucking them from behind, you're trying to reach out and trying to rip it off their face.
Okay.
And yeah, it's like, and then you got the long hair is the handlebars, right?
The longer the hair, the more torque you got in your breaker bar, right?
So that's that's how I look at it.
Well, well, we're gonna get to uh we're gonna get to Miller because he's the last person we met.
Thank you, Matt.
Always good to see you, man.
Great story.
All right, Miller, are you there?
Yeah, I'm here.
Yeah, I did talk before.
Oh, yeah.
Oh, yeah.
I was married.
Oh, yeah.
He was up.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
We're going to wrap it up.
I just didn't recognize your camera.
Was it off?
Okay.
So we're just going to wrap it up.
Go ahead, congrats on your demonetization.
Thank you very much.
Thank you.
Dark MPA, I want to show you this one.
This is so funny.
I can share my screen with him, right?
Yeah.
Okay, so during this call, Matt responded to my response, right?
Matt Walsh.
And I said, he said, Pearl, I understand you're miserable and lonely and have never been in anything approaching a functional, a healthy relationship in your life.
So I'll try to be patient with you, blah, blah, blah.
And so then I said, isn't a wife supposed to be a helpmate and not an adversary?
Oh, let's go.
And he said, Pearl, I understand that you're miserable and lonely and have never been in anything approaching a functioning or healthy relationship in your life.
So I'll try to be patient with you.
You see husbands and wives who love each other do this thing called joke around.
They may even have this other thing that I know is foreign to you called a sense of humor.
I hope this clears it up.
Now go spew your bullshit somewhere else and leave my wife out of it.
And I said, oh, wait, wait.
Sorry.
I didn't read the next one.
Wait, go.
Go back.
Hold on.
Oh, anyway.
So he quote tweets that and he said, it's called a joke, Pearl.
The mother of my six children is very much my helpmate in a million ways you couldn't possibly understand that I won't waste my time explaining to you.
You can take as many pot shots at me as you want.
I don't care.
Leave my wife out of it.
I promise this is not a road you want to go down.
And so I responded, I said, guess who's going to be on my thumbnail tomorrow?
Oh, you guys.
Subscribe to Pearl on X. Pearl gets the party spur on it.
I'm like, you're not going to tell me.
You're his wife tweeted at me first, like a year ago.
I'm like, you're not going to have a public-facing Twitter profile and then say you're above scrutiny, bitch.
Yeah, she's a public figure.
And then what got your attention initially was just the whole, you know, I existed to troll his account.
Like, what about optics?
Understand what I'm saying?
Like, what does that mean?
I mean, it could be a joke, but some people could take it not as a joke.
Well, we'll see where this whole thing ends up.
I'm like, these people think they're like God's gift to the earth because they got married and had a family.
You guys did it in your 30s like the rest of us.
Like, get the fuck out of here.
You didn't do it traditionally.
Like, I don't, I don't need the virtue moralist today.
The, all right, is it, is it wise to look up?
Anyways.
Oh, and then Brett Cooper came in.
Totally understandable, to be honest, because to be fair, I was calling Brett.
She's mad.
I don't know if she actually is, but I've done shows on her, so it's fair enough.
But she said, Alyssa Walsh is the kind of wife and mother who women should be looking up to point blank.
She's fiercely devoted, and she and Matt have built an incredible life together.
She's hilarious, a loyal friend, and if you know her, you are better for it.
And I said, is it wise to look up to a random woman on the internet who made it her life's mission to troll her husband?
I'm just asking the questions.
I'm just asking.
Maybe, maybe we should be, okay?
I'm going to screenshot this and say, call in show tomorrow.
If they don't come, then you guys are, you guys are.
I'm trying not to say the P-word anymore, but I can't think of another word.
You guys are scaredy cats, I guess.
Yeah.
I'm going to take a picture of Alyssa Wicca.
Colin's show tomorrow.
Anyways.
Anyways, guys.
Look, yeah, I am choosing violence.
Okay, so, anyways, guys, Colin tomorrow.
And we're going to do a show.
Doug MPA, any final thoughts?
Yeah.
If you're a man worth something, stay away from.
Here's the thing.
You could find a woman who treats you with respect that makes more money than you, but the percentage is slim to none.
That's all I'm saying.
Women are not benevolent like men.
They will use any power they can against you.
Because once again, women want men who are ambitious and motivated to set their, what they want aside to help them achieve their own selfish desires.
So stay away from women who make more money than you because I think it's not a matter of if the disrespect comes, a matter of when.
I think that some, as John proved when he called, maybe it works for some people, but I think it's a small amount of people.
So why take the risk?
Okay.
Thanks, Doug MPA.
All right, guys.
I'm excited for the show tomorrow.
So make sure you all call in, like the video on your way out, and subscribe to the channel.
Ring that notification bell.
And I will see you guys.
Oh, wait.
Was there any super chats I need to read before we end?