Pearl Daily’s Womanese episode reveals how Donovan Sharp’s red pill insights—backed by 1,000 interviews—expose women’s indirect communication, like calling an ex an "asshole" to signal lingering attachment or using "we grew apart" to mask recreational relationships. He traces his theory to a 2010 breakup with Martha, who dismissed him without emotional reaction, later dating again. Sharp argues modern women prioritize status and security while maintaining freedom, citing Gen Z’s 10% marriage rate by 27 and conservative figures like Matt Walsh possibly using IVF. Millennial/Gen Z sex declines stem from men’s limited access to high-value women, despite rising STD rates, as rotations prove unsustainable beyond novelty. Understanding these patterns helps men avoid wasted effort and identify genuine interest. [Automatically generated summary]
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So, when I first got into the red pill content, I think it was about four years ago, maybe three or four years ago now.
And as you guys know, one of the first videos that I saw was Kevin Samuel's high-value men sheet, and this triggered me a little bit.
It really did.
But one of the second or third, or maybe fourth, I don't remember at this point, people that I saw was Donovan Sharp's content.
And Donovan was or is a red pill content creator.
And he had a course called or a part of his channel called Womanese.
And he would say, This is what women say, and this is what they actually mean.
Now, at the time, guys, I got to be honest.
I thought, I thought Donovan, come on, that is not right.
He would say things like, for example, you know, if she calls him an asshole, it means she wants to F him.
And I thought, that's not true.
Maybe I just think he's an asshole, Donovan.
That is totally untrue.
Wrong, wrong.
But then I did a thousand, you know, I interviewed a thousand women.
And then I also observed myself, my friends, people I just knew whose behavior over the years.
And Donovan was one of those people that was just right about freaking everything.
It was insane.
His entire course, he has a course and it's called Womanese.
And the link to it's in the description if you guys want it.
It amazed me that he was just like, I think he spent years dissecting this stuff.
We're going to bring him on today.
He's a friend of the show.
And seriously, guys, I just, when I first heard the content that he had, I thought he was making it up.
I thought he was over-exaggerating.
And then three years later, I come back and I'm like, he is completely right.
Welcome to the show, Donovan.
I'm so happy to have you on.
Hey, how are you doing?
Can you hear me?
Yeah, it wasn't really mainstream back then.
So some of the stuff you would say, I would think was an overreaction or it'd be kind of out there.
And then time passed, and I just thought, holy crap, Donovan knows his stuff.
Like, I just, when it comes to what women say versus what they mean, there's no one that knows it better than you.
Nobody.
Well, and the reason why is because I have had many, many, many failures with women.
And I tell this to my guys all the time.
For every story that I have ever told about some big-breasted blonde that I, you know, gamed some one-night stand I had with a hot redhead or a brunette, there are 50 stories of absolute utter failure.
And I think in life, and I think this goes, I think this goes with any, with anything you do in life.
I think you learn more from failure than you do from winning, right?
Even in sports.
Like if you win, okay, great, we won.
But when you lose, if you look at yourself with a critical eye, if you're honest with yourself, you will learn a lot more, you know, during your losses than your wins.
For example, let's just say someone, Stephan Curry, right?
Greatest shooter ever.
You know, he shoots a bunch of threes.
Stephan Curry has missed more three-pointers than he's ever taken.
But with every miss, he learns a little bit more about what to do, what not to do, and you know, on any particular technique.
And so over the years, Stephan Curry has sort of honed his craft.
And it's not really knowing what to do.
It's knowing what not to do.
We all know, hey, in order to shoot, you play basketball.
Pearl, in order to shoot, you put the ball over your head and you let it go.
But there are certain things you can do, like spreading your fingers across the basketball, the way you aim with your eye, the way you aim for spots six inches before, you know, the basket.
That increases the odds of it going in, the arc of the ball.
You shoot it a little higher so it has more of a chance to go in.
Well, the same thing goes on the dating market.
If you go out and you approach, I don't know, let's just say 10 girls and they all blow you out.
They all reject you.
Instead of getting into your feelings, which is very easy to get because rejection is not easy to get used to, but it's a lot easier for men to get used to.
But instead of just, you know, she rejected me, blah, You have to think to yourself, okay, what did I say?
What did she say?
She told me that she had a boyfriend, but she told me she had a boyfriend like three seconds after I approached her.
Right.
And so I wondered why when I kept trying, she told me, Hey, look, I told you I had a boyfriend.
Whereas you approach another girl and you're talking to her for 10, 15 minutes, and then she tells you that she has a boyfriend.
That's exactly what you're thinking.
You're like, okay, is it really that she has a boyfriend?
No, she told you that as a shit test, right?
So the earlier in the set, she tells you she has a boyfriend, the more likely it is that it's a rejection.
If you learn these things and if you apply what you've learned and you go out and approach girls, you know that if you're, if you've been talking to a girl for 10, 15 minutes and then she says she has a boyfriend, you know, she's probably lying and she's saying that to throw you off the scent.
And so that's, that's really the main reason I created womanies.
I created woman ease was to let guys know, hey, listen, this is what women say versus what they really mean.
And so how long did it take you from when you were a complete blue pilled simp to like, how many years did it take you to figure all this out?
Like, I think it would help people to know like how many reps you had or how many approaches you did.
How many girls?
Like, what was your origin story?
Because some people might not know it here.
Yeah.
So, oh my God.
So, oh my goodness gracious.
Well, to make a very, very long story, very short.
So the way I discovered the red pill is I had just gotten out of a really, really bad breakup.
That's not the relationship that red pilled me.
Got out of a bad breakup, moved to Atlanta for six months, decided I didn't want to live there.
Then I moved out to Vegas.
And so I got this, you know, this call center telemarketing job, pardon me, you know, because I'm really good at sales, have a good speaking voice, et cetera, et cetera.
Well, there was this, yours is Mexican girl who was attractive-ish looking.
Looking back now, she probably wasn't as attractive as I thought she was at the time.
And, you know, we really started to hit off.
And everyone, everyone said to themselves, okay, it's only a matter of time before Donovan and Martha, the girl's name, hook up.
Well, of course, we hooked up and, you know, we had this three-week relationship.
Well, three weeks into the relationship, I, it just, it just clicked in my mind.
I honestly stayed with her probably two weeks longer than I should have, just because I was getting regular sex.
And I had, it's, it had been a while since I'd had sex with any girl for any period of time.
But she was a single mother.
She had a bad kid.
Her house was always messy.
She was, she was an absolute dumpster fire.
So even then, I had the foresight to say, okay, let me just go and dump this girl.
So I go over to her place and I dumped her face to face.
I was like, hey, it's not going to work out, blah, And what shocked me was that she didn't seem surprised at all.
She didn't take it as hard as I thought she was.
I thought it was just going to be a bunch of trauma and a bunch of crying.
You thought she was going to cry.
But here's, here's why I thought she was going to cry.
This is my blue pill mind because a week and a half before, she told me she loved me.
Now, I didn't tell her she loved me back, but I was like, no, there's no way this girl loves me because we've only been seeing each other for a week and a half.
We haven't known each other that long.
She's really just trying to reel me in.
So I was a little bit shocked when I told her, all right, Martha, it's not working out.
We need to go our separate ways.
She was like, okay.
Well, later on, I go home and, you know, I'm doing my thing.
And, you know, a friend of hers calls me up.
She's like, yeah, Martha just called and told me that, you know, you are going your separate ways.
And I was like, yeah, you know, it wasn't working out, blah, I said, well, how's she doing anyway?
You know, because I can't, again, I'm thinking, okay, maybe this was just the delayed reactions.
Like, yeah, actually, she's getting ready to go out on a date.
And I was like, what?
Like, I dumped this chick like an hour and a half ago.
Why is she going out on a date?
And so that right then and there, after I got off the phone with my friend, okay, I jumped on the internet and I typed in, why do girls get over breakups so easily?
And that Google search changed everything.
That was the genesis of Donovan Sharp.
So that's the reader's digest version of how I got into the Manosphere.
So I guess my question is, though, from there, like, did it take you one year, two years?
Because your womanes is so detailed.
Like, you go through everything.
And when I read it, I'm like, he must have spent years studying this stuff.
So how long did it take from point A to developing the course, I guess?
Lord, probably about a decade, probably about a decade.
I discovered the red pill in the summer of 2010.
I came out with the womanes course, incidentally enough, in 2021.
And, you know, listen, the good Lord, whoever he is, blessed me with a very good memory.
And so, you know, throughout my life, you know, I just kind of reflect on all of the interactions that I've had with women, the conversations that I've had.
And what I quickly begin to discover after consuming enough red pill content is, wait a minute, women are not really direct.
They don't really say what it is that they, that they actually mean.
And, you know, the interesting, the interesting thing, Pearl, is, is that a lot of men these days, we want women to be more direct.
And let's be honest, if women were more direct, we wouldn't have to read between the lines with everything they say.
But on the other side of that, if you deal with women on the regular, like I did for the better part of a decade, whether it's at work, you know, your relationship, your family, anytime you deal with women, you can't actually really count on the fact that they're going to tell you exactly what they mean.
And it sucks to not be able to take what they say at face value because it causes a lot of confusion and frustration, especially when you're dealing with them romantically.
Now, the two main reasons why women aren't direct is number one, being verbally direct is seen as a masculine trait, right?
It is a trait that is admired in men.
When a woman is direct, what is she seen as?
Bitchy, bossy, you know, whatever the case may be, or a woman with a bad attitude a lot of times.
The second reason women aren't direct is because it makes them look bad a lot of times.
If you give me an example, if a woman is attracted to a guy and wants to sleep with him, she's not going to say, he's hot.
I want to bang him.
Obviously, that makes her look like a hoe.
So instead, what she'll do is she'll make up something nebulous about him to give herself an excuse to be around him to sort of give herself the opportunity to make the sex happen.
So in other words, so instead of saying, well, you know, I really like the guy, I want to bang him.
She'll be like, you know what, Dave, over there?
I really like his energy.
Translation, I want to bang him.
But the way what the way modern women operate today, Pearl, and you experience this firsthand doing the pregame, interviewing a thousand women, they use their indirectness as a way to play games with men, as a way to mislead men, and sometimes even flat out lie to men about what their intentions are.
However, if you are familiar with the way women communicate in terms of what they say versus what they mean, you can pick up on this stuff rather quickly.
And that in large part is the reason I created Woman Ease 101.
And is it frustrating to you when blue pill men, like I see them attack you all the time when you are correct?
And it's like, do you think that blue pill men know that you're that you're correct and they're just white knighting?
Or do you think they're ignorant and they think they're doing the right thing?
Yeah, I think a lot of them are ignorant.
And I think a lot of them are, you know, caping up for their paramaidens.
But you know what?
All probably low-key know that most bitches out here really ain't shit, but they can't really wrap their, they can't admit it to themselves or other people because then it destroys this rose-colored view of who and what women really are.
A lot of men would like for women to keep that allure and that and that mystery and that mystique about them, like they're these otherworldly creatures.
But women, they burp, fart, and shit just like the rest of us.
And the sooner men understand and recognize that women are really no, women, like there's no woman that is special.
And I remember a long time ago, a really good friend of mine said, you know what, Donovan, women are people too.
And that sort of let me know.
And obviously, women are people too, but a lot of men operate like women are these otherworldly, godly, and angelic-like creatures.
But when you've been around them enough, just like you have, and you hear them, a guy and a girl, like a girl kept arguing with a guy.
She's trying to sleep with him.
Oh, yeah.
Nine out of ten times, the show, the cameras go off.
She's talking to a master.
And I'm like, you were just yelling at him 10 minutes ago.
Incredible.
Yes.
Dude, I guess you reacted to so many.
I'll show you some of the clips where the girl was trying to think.
And then I was like, we don't go for 10% of men or 20%.
It's not that bad.
And then there'd be like a single mother of four that's going for like this jacked, god-looking guy on the show.
And I'm like, how do you not see you're a single mom of four?
How do you not see this guy is out of your league?
Like, well, obviously, the reason why she doesn't see that this guy is out of her league is because the world tells her, never settle.
You know, you deserve the best no matter, you know, no matter what, no matter what your situation.
Video games, he's out of shape, doesn't have any direction in life.
No problem calling men losers, but we don't call women losers, right?
We don't.
And in my opinion, if you woman I'm talking to, is she a loser or is she a woman of potential quality?
Yeah.
And the other thing, too, that they and it just drove once I figured out that you guys were correct, I was, I could not believe, like, they attack, like they put us on a DHS watch list.
And it's like, they do not want men getting this information.
You guys would be too powerful, right?
No, listen.
And the thing is, this, man, it's like, if let's just say I were to, let's just say I were to make this provocative statement.
Like, women, you know, all women are, all women are the color purple.
Let's just say I just started a whole channel called The Color Purple, and all women are the color purple.
Pearl, no one's coming after me.
Would you like to know why?
Yeah.
Because there are no purple women walking around, right?
But the reason why they attack the manosphere, you know, women, women are like water.
They take the shape of the container that they're put in.
Right now, the container is fucked up.
So women are fucked up.
And so guys like me exist too.
We're not going to save everybody.
We get that.
But if we can save enough people, then, you know, maybe we can make the world a better place.
Who knows?
Yeah.
If enough men were red pill aware, I think there would just be single mothers everywhere.
Yep.
There probably would be.
A lot of guys would just do nail and bales and yeah, they wouldn't take them seriously.
I before we get into the womanies, I wanted to get your take on a tweet that I had that everyone was white knighting.
They look back and I think retrospectively, they're like, oh, I didn't know my value because I slept with the drummer, the bartender, this guy, that guy, that guy, that guy.
And I could have, and I could have got more resources, but I didn't know it.
I think that's what they're communicating.
Do you agree or just say that?
Yeah.
Listen, it's cap.
It's cap.
Women understand when a woman does, when a woman figures out that persons of the opposite sex want to have sex with them, instantly they figure out, okay, the world is open to me.
If a woman is not sexually attractive, nothing is available to her.
Preferential treatment, dates, marriage, kids, whatever the case may be.
Every form of a transactional relationship.
So I'll use my relationship as an example.
If Devin didn't let me have sex with her, I would not share my resources with her.
By the same token, if Devin knows that if she didn't have sex with me, I'm not going to share my resources.
It is a transactional relationship.
And a lot of people, they kind of scoff.
Oh my God, it's a transactional.
Yes.
All relationships are transactional.
Love is an action.
Love is a transaction.
There is no act.
There is no romance without finance.
And I know a lot of people are going to have a problem with that, but this is the way it is.
And dude, I guess relative to what you were when you met her, she is always going to love and respect you.
But just understand that if you fall off and don't show the resolve to get it all back, she is going to leave.
And I conflate it to this.
Let's just say a man has a lot of money and he falls off, he loses his job, right?
A lot of guys will say, well, she'll probably just leave him.
Well, no, she's going to give him time, you know, of course, due to the fact that she's been with him a while, but the clock is ticking.
On the other side of that, let's just say that a woman were to gain a little bit of weight.
The man wouldn't instantly leave her because she's been thin the whole relationship.
He'll give her a little bit of time to get thin.
But everyone in here knows that if that woman stays fat and that dude and that dude has any value whatsoever, he is either going to cheat or he is going to leave her.
That's what this is.
This is just kind of what it is.
And so I think what we need to, I think men and women alike, we need to understand that we both have to provide, we both have to provide value.
Men loaded exchange.
We got to get out of that mindset.
You know what?
I don't think I put this.
Devin is so awesome.
She's so on your pro.
She's so on your program too.
And I like, I just wanted to say, I feel like she is so well.
Like, she's such a good.
Yeah.
I didn't want to say trade.
I know that was disrespectful.
But no, seriously, I was like, just watching you guys interact even like off camera and stuff.
She's, she is such a model woman.
Like she does great.
She is.
She is.
Yeah.
I love her.
I love her very much.
And, you know, it's, it's, um, our nine-year anniversary is coming up in October.
And it's hard for me to believe that we have been together for almost nine years.
It was un, dude, it was absolutely unbelievable.
Or it's absolutely unbelievable.
Yeah.
Devin is, Devin is awesome.
I love her to death.
And I mean, we're still going strong.
I'm glad that I'm with her.
I said to her last night, I was like, dude, I'm glad we found each other.
And it's even great because it shows that you can have it all as a man.
Like you can play the field and you can settle down and have a good long-term relationship.
And I will tell you this.
I will tell you this.
It is my life is 10 times better now that I am with, than I am with one woman than it ever was when I was running through hoes in Vegas.
Yes, it was fun.
It was a great time.
Magic carpet right, all the rest of that.
But there's something to be said about having a woman that you love and trust who respects and trusts you.
It's, it's just a much better existence, but you can't get to that point unless you know how to handle them.
You can't get to that point unless you can decipher what they say versus what they mean.
Listen, Devin hit me with a lot of womanies when we first started talking.
She did.
And what's and what shocked her, what shocked her was that I would just call her out on it.
Like I would just call her out.
She's like, and the funny thing is, is a lot of times she didn't even get upset.
She just kind of laughed.
That's what I knew she was right.
And she says to me all the time, she's like, you're the only, she's like, you're the only man that I have ever met who has spoken to me in this way.
Women respect you when you understand how to handle them.
They might not like you for a short period of time, but in order to get a woman's love, you have to have her respect.
And you cannot have a woman's respect unless you understand what she says versus what she means.
So why don't we start there?
What was the early womanese that she would throw at you?
Oh my God, the early woman.
And the guy wasn't really, the guy wasn't really coming around.
And so I was like, okay, what's the, she actually reached out to me for a consultation.
I'm like, okay, what's the problem?
Well, he's this, he's that, and the third.
And I said, okay, so first of all, let's go ahead and get this, get this straight.
She's like, what's that?
I was like, you're fucking this dude.
And she's like, okay.
She's like, no, I said you're talking to him.
That means you're fucking this dude.
A lot of girls, girls don't like to say, I'm fucking a guy.
They like to say that I'm seeing a guy or I'm talking to him or I'm dating him.
So that's the first thing that she would say.
Then she would say, well, I want to go hang out with, I want to go hang out with my guy again, whatever the case may be.
And at that point, she would, and at that point, when she figured, when she figured out that I knew what she was saying, like, you know, being able to read between the lines, you know, she would be a little bit more honest and dare I say, a little bit more direct, because she knew that if she tried to sort of mislead me about what her intentions were, that I would just, that, that I would just call her out on it.
Here's another, here's another womanese translation we gave.
So we went to Hawaii.
And this is actually our, our nine-year anniversary.
So we went to Hawaii and I remember we were talking while we were on the trip and she was like, okay, so what are we going to do after this?
I was like, well, you know, I mean, if I like you after this trip, then, you know, maybe we'll continue to see each other.
And then she says to me, she's like, well, I kind of have to do the same thing.
I don't know.
And I said, Devin, stop it.
I said, stop it.
I said, you've already made your decision.
You don't have to.
What she tried to do is she tried to, she drawed that inverse projection.
Oh, he's going to tell me he's not sure about me.
That's making me the same things that make us attractive to women are not, it's not, it's not the same in reverse.
And so she had to learn a lot of that.
But, you know, a lot of times when she would hit me with, you know, when she would hit me with like it, like, she told me that she was going to go out with one of her friends.
She's like, hey, you know, my friend Kim called me and she asked me if I wanted to, you know, go out to the bar or whatever.
And I told her I would see if I could go.
And I was like, no, no, no, no, you're not going.
She's like, no.
I told her I would see.
I said, Devin, you're not going.
She's like, what are you talking?
I was like, Devin, if the answer is anything but yes, the answer is always no.
That's it.
That's all there is to it.
And she was like, huh, I never really thought of it that way.
Guess what?
Devin didn't go to the club with her friend Kim.
She had already had her mind made up, but because she wanted to be indirect, even with me, I'm not the person she committed to.
She says, well, I was thinking about going.
I was thinking about saying, no, no, no, no, you had already made your mind up.
And that's actually one of the translation clips I'm going to show today.
Oh, sure.
Can you share it on screen?
Yeah, sure can.
Let me go ahead and share.
Does he have the ability to share it?
Well, I think you have to give me the ability.
Yeah, that's what I was, I was just talking to the producer just to make sure.
Oh, there we go.
Perfect.
Oh, there we go.
Okay.
Let's see.
Let's go to clip number two.
And here we go.
Maybe.
No.
We'll see.
No.
More than likely.
Uh-uh.
Hell nah.
If nothing comes up, sure.
Sure won't.
If I can finish my project, of course.
Of course not.
Plans?
Definitely.
Definitely not.
When it comes to meeting up with girls, a general rule of thumb is that if the answer is anything but yes, the answer is always no.
Listen, if a girl wants to meet up with you, she'll meet up with you.
She won't put conditions on it.
She won't tell you about other plans.
She'll simply say yes and wait for your instructions.
Okay, so pardon me.
This is where a lot of guys, Pearl, end up wasting a lot of time, energy, and resources on a woman who just isn't interested in them.
Like I said in the clip, if the answer is anything but yes, the answer is always no.
And the way this will help you is that you won't be wasting time chasing a woman who doesn't like you like that, right?
These are the girls.
These are the girls really who almost always put you in the friend zone if they don't straight up ghost you altogether.
The men who understand this are the men who don't get hung up on, or the men who don't get hung up on girls, you know, on girls who don't want them, which of course allows them to move on and spend time, you know, pursuing women whose, you know, whose interest level is a little bit higher.
So again, if the answer is, if the answer is anything but yes, the answer is always no.
It's got to be an enthusiastic yes 100% of the time.
What else are the common ones that what would you say are like the most common mistakes women or men make when interpreting what women say versus what they mean?
There is only one mistake that men make when interpreting what women say versus what they mean.
And that is taking what they say at face value.
You can never, you just can't.
And again, this doesn't, I'm not trying to make women sound like these nefarious creatures.
This is just how they are.
Okay.
Men are direct.
Women are passive.
Okay.
And you just have to understand, especially in the romantic context, women are, women don't want to look like a slut.
They don't want to give you the wrong signals.
And so they're always speaking.
For example, let's say you start dating a woman and she says, I want to take things slow.
It absolutely positively means something else.
And I've got a clip for that as well.
Okay.
This one is actually really, yeah, this one is crazy.
Listen to this.
We need to take a break.
I've been fucking another guy behind your back.
We should start seeing other people.
I'm cheating on you.
Let's try an open relationship.
I'm having sex with another guy.
We need to talk.
I'm dumping you for the guy I'm cheating with.
A woman will never just tell you they're fucking someone else.
So to circumvent having to be honest and having a difficult conversation, which by the way, means admitting she's cheating, she'll use any combination of these statements to avoid looking like a cheating slut.
If she says any of these things to you, she's been fucking another dude for at least six months and now knows she can start a relationship with him.
Count on it.
Okay.
So there it is.
Okay.
And you have seen and heard the many, many ways that women characterize engaging in promiscuous behavior.
How many girls have you interviewed?
Like 12 or 1300, some crazy number like that?
Around a thousand, yeah.
Around a thousand.
And I don't think I have ever seen or heard a woman say straight up, the reason my boyfriend and I broke up is because I wanted to sleep around or my boyfriend dumped me because he found out I was cheating.
Okay.
The way this will help you guys when it comes to dating is being proactive and ask her, hey, what happened in your last relationship?
Now, what she'll say is we grew apart or he wasn't attentive to my needs or sometimes they'll just straight up lie to you and say, he cheated on me.
And by the way, all these phrases are translated in the course.
And when she says this to you, you now clearly understand that she is recreational use only.
If you talk to a girl and you ask her, what happened in your last relationship?
Oh, we grew apart.
This means she cheated.
This is how womanies helps you guys.
It gives you a clear understanding of which women you should not take seriously and which women you shouldn't.
Got it.
What else?
What else do you have in clips?
Oh, this is a, this is a, this is another good one.
Watch and learn and listen very, very carefully.
This is, this is actually, this is a lot of this is, it's kind of a sobering reminder, and it sucks that this is true, but it is.
Here we go.
I'm a strong woman.
I want a strong man.
I'm super competitive.
Ellen's super competitive guy.
Men are intimidated by me.
I am turned on by men who intimidate me.
A dating hack I discovered a while back is if you ask her what kind of woman she is, she will tell you what kind of man she wants.
A woman who talks about how strong, competitive, and intimidating she is is telling you she's turned on by strong, competitive, and intimidating men.
Okay.
Because this is why I'm always, I'm sorry, go ahead.
Because we turn into the men we want to marry.
So yeah, so it's like a woman with a sleeve wants a man with a sleeve, right?
There you go.
And this is why I've always encouraged men to be proactive with their dealings and women as far as like vetting them are concerned.
Guys, ask questions.
Do not be afraid to quiz her.
Don't be afraid to put her on the spot.
Because if there is one thing that we are all aware of, whether you're, you know, whether you're good with women or not, is that they love nothing more than to talk about themselves.
And not a one of us in here watching this right now are unaware of the phrase, let a woman talk long enough and eventually she will tell on themselves.
Women, and you guys got to pay attention.
Women are always telling us who and what they are, but most of the time, they're not aware that they are.
Okay.
That particular translation that I just showed you, that allows you to find out what kind of woman you're dealing with, as well as the kind of man she wants to deal with.
Again, this saves you a lot of time because now you have the information you need to make the call as to whether or not you want to continue dealing with her.
Okay.
So what questions would you say that they should ask?
The one that I just said, hey, what happened?
Or you mean as far as no, just ask, hey, what kind of woman are you?
Tell me what kind of woman you are.
You know, describe yourself in 30 seconds.
And if you ask a woman to describe herself in 15, 30 seconds, she will almost always tell you what she wants in a man.
And the reason she does this, Pearl, is because she's trying to impress you.
Like when you ask a woman what kind of a woman you are, she's trying to impress you, right?
And that's, that's not a bad thing.
She wants to impress you because she likes you.
But what you also have to understand is that when women are trying to impress, when women try to impress you, they're going to tell you what they think you want to hear.
This is why they tell you I'm a strong, independent, and super impetuous and super competitive.
Okay.
Got it.
All right.
Very good.
The next one is my ex is an asshole.
This is actually the first one that we were talking about.
Here we go.
My ex is such an asshole.
I'm still in love with my ex.
A woman who talks shit about her ex is not over her ex.
Remember, gentlemen, the more she tries to convince you of something, the less likely it's true.
A woman who calls her ex an ass wants her ex in her ass.
Never forget that.
So many men, they actually, and this is where a lot of guys mess up.
So many men think that if a woman, if that if a woman thinks her ex is an asshole, that she no longer wants her ex, guys, that is completely wrong.
Yes, she thinks he's an asshole.
And chances are he probably is.
But if you're dealing with a woman who, A, talks about her ex and B talks, you know, calls him an asshole, you need to understand that she is not over him.
Okay.
The reason she's talking to you is to create a false sense of scarcity with her ex to give her the impression that she's fucking someone else.
The second reason and the most important reason is she's looking to distract herself.
She doesn't like you like that.
Okay.
She just wants that constant, steady flow of male attention from you while she makes while she waits for her ex to make a play to get back with her.
And when he does, trust me, she will go running back to him.
So understanding this translation, my ex is an asshole will again keep her from wasting time with women who don't really like you.
And here's the thing, Pearl.
Every woman has that one ex she can't leave alone.
It's that one ex, that one ex-boyfriend, that one situationship, that one, she can't leave him alone.
Yes, eventually they do move on to some degree.
But if she calls her sex an asshole, her ex an asshole, when she's dealing with you, understand that it's only a matter of time before she starts fucking with him again.
So was there a situation that that happened to you and you found out she was cheating with the ex?
Oh, yeah, 100%.
Dude, the girl's name was Victoria.
I actually met her at a Five Guys.
Dude, dude, this girl was, oh my God, she had a great ass.
So I hit on her at Five Guys and she's actually looking grumpy.
I was like, oh, either you don't like black people or you hate your job.
And she laughed and that kind of broke the ice.
Well, she used to talk about how her ex was an asshole all the time.
And again, I had the game, but I didn't have the understanding.
And I was like, yeah, he's an ex.
He's an asshole.
She likes me, blah, Of course, her phone is buzzing away.
And I'm like, well, who is that?
She's like, well, you know, that's my ex-boyfriend.
I'm like, oh, okay.
I wasn't worried about it because it's your ex-boyfriend.
He's an asshole, right?
Come to find out, she actually got back with him.
She got back with him while she was with me.
And that's when I sort of discovered monkey branching.
So that was my introduction to when women call their ex an asshole, it still means they want to get with him.
That doesn't mean that she doesn't think he's an asshole, but she absolutely still wants to get with him.
A woman can hate a man and still want to have sex with him.
Absolutely.
Oh my God.
Yeah.
Women can, women can, we can, we can despise, and men don't understand this.
Like, we can, we could hate a guy, not want to spend any time around him, but still want to sleep with him.
That's right.
That's right.
Listen, and men, and it's funny because, and I know a lot of women who have slept around, they have probably fucked a guy or two.
They genuinely just did not like his people.
Dude, I fucked plenty of girls.
I just didn't like that much.
I just like having, I just liked having sex with her.
This is one, this is one of the, this is one of the few things that men and women have in comma, have in common as far as like, you know, sexual interactions.
We will have sex with a woman, even if we don't like her.
If a woman hates you, when a woman tells you she hates you, it really means she loves you.
And I've said this before, Pearl.
The opposite of love, as far as a woman goes, the opposite of love isn't hate.
The opposite of love isn't different.
If she doesn't really care, if she couldn't care less about you, she's over you.
If she hates you, she probably does, but she probably still loves you too.
There's a thin line between love and hate, and that's why the scene goes that way.
Got it.
Okay, what's what's next?
This next one is extremely, extremely dangerous.
Okay, so a lot of women, a lot of women like to say, we have a healthy relationship.
Take a look.
Okay.
This is a toxic relationship.
You're making it so hard for me to cheat on you.
When a woman finds it hard to cheat on you, she'll characterize your relationship as toxic to try to get you to make it easier for her to cheat.
Way too many men fall for this ploy.
Do not be one of these men.
We have such a healthy relationship.
It will be very easy to cheat on you when I decide to.
Beware of any woman who brags about a healthy relationship.
This means she has cheated, is cheating, or is going to cheat.
Remember what I said about toxic relationships?
Well, the opposite applies when a woman says her relationship is healthy.
Yeah, it's a guy with no standards, right?
She can just do whatever she wants.
There you go.
And a lot of men, listen, you guys need to understand very, very clearly that modern women always want it both ways.
Okay.
They want the status and the security of being in a relationship while also being able to engage in activities that make them look single.
In other words, they want you to take them off the market, but still allow her to have the forent sign in the front yard.
And this is where a lot of men go wrong in their relationships.
When women shame you, like in the clip we just saw, they are clearly telling you they don't want to be faithful to you.
Women go to the club for attention.
They're on Instagram because they're looking for your replacement.
Standards at all.
The family will.
Because if men actually had this information, I think it would make relationships better.
Yes, there's going to be a learning curve.
No, women don't like it when women hate it when you figure them out.
They hate it, but eventually they respect you and love you for it.
Yeah, but beta bucks providers are what keeps society running.
So that's why they don't want them getting the information.
It would just be single mothers everywhere.
Like if men were just single mothers and then they wouldn't know what to do with all the single women.
So they may be a men's problem.
Go ahead.
Our dude, our channels and all that being shadow banned and taken down, it is this is an economical decision.
Okay.
They try to characterize, oh, we're trying to protect women from men.
No, no, no, no.
This is economical because it's, you said it yourself when we talked about it earlier in the episode.
The economy, the economy relies heavily on men not being aware of what their value is compared to what women's value is.
Every kiss begins with, okay, get down on one knee, do all this other kind of stuff.
You know, my wife is the boss, et cetera, et cetera.
Most guys have, most men in the world have never been exposed to this kind of content.
And the powers that be are making sure that never happens.
And now we know why.
Yeah, it's basically $8 or $2.
Do you want to make $8 or do you want to make $2?
Yeah.
I mean, I saw that tweet.
I saw that video.
That was profound, Pearl.
Yeah.
No, I mean, it's so simple when you think about it.
I mean, I don't know what age you figured it out, but at some age, men understand that they lose money if they tell the truth.
That's right.
Or they get kicked out of school.
They lose something, right?
And so they just learn to lie.
It's not really their fault.
But, and it's not really the women's fault either because we're born into this.
It's like our grandmothers or whoever.
But corporations have more control over society if they're spending the women's money that they steal from the men rather than the men making choices.
Go ahead.
This is why, this is why, this is why 90% of the commercials are geared towards women.
Yeah.
If you look at any commercial, every commercial, almost every commercial you see is designed to get you emotional.
And it's funny, we don't even see commercials anymore.
It's like we're seeing these miniature movies, these miniature romantic comedies now.
The powers that be on Madison Avenue, you know, the advertising capital of the world, they know.
And listen, this is a tale as old as time itself.
And this is men and women alike.
People buy based on emotion.
They rarely buy based on logic.
I used to sell cars for a living.
And yeah, you can tell about the, you know, the power steering and the, you know, the engine, this and this and that and the third.
They're not going to buy the car for 10 reasons.
They're going to buy it for one reason.
And if that one reason is an emotional reason, you have a much higher, there's a much higher probability that you're going to close that sale.
The guys over on Madison Avenue understand that very clearly.
This is why they push that emotional button every single time because women make what 80% of the financial buying decisions in this country.
So yeah, if I were them, I would do the same thing.
Yeah.
What's the next one we got?
The next one we got is a red flag.
Now, what would you consider, Pearl, as a red flag?
In women?
Yeah.
No, in men.
What is a red flag?
Post-red pill, awakening that you have that like if.
Like if a guy does or says or is X, Y and Z, that is a red flag.
Oh, tough one, isn't it?
Give me a second.
Well, the what I'm thinking of could be a red or green flag, depending on what you want.
Um, an easier time, you know.
I'm saying like if, but if you want to play life on hard mode, you go to the city where there's a batch of 20 year olds that come every year.
You know, you know what I mean.
So if you want like, that's one that I would think of, but we like the men with options, so I I'm having a hard time deciding which, like if it would be red or green, because you know we isn't that interesting.
Yeah, you actually gave.
You actually gave the right answer.
There really are no.
The only red flags that I can think of for a men that are not sexually Or economically attractive is, he plays video games.
He lives, he lives with his mom, right?
But there are guys who play video games and live with their mothers who actually are able to get women somehow.
So this next clip is about red flags.
Let's take a look and listen.
I want to take this slow.
I want to keep fucking my ex.
Wait a minute.
That's the wrong one.
I do apologize.
Sorry about that.
Here we go.
That's true.
Red flag.
That turns me on.
If it gets the attention of law enforcement, it gets the attention of young hot beaming.
Red flags are turn-ons for girls, guys, and that's all there is to it.
If a woman says XYZ is a red flag, it means she's turned on by him.
Okay.
Again, Pearl, you have interviewed like, you know, a thousand girls, you know, over the years.
And one thing that is consistent across the board in terms of their maid selection is that they consistently commit to, have children with, get into situationships with men who have, quote, red flags.
And they tell us as much all the time when they talk about why their relationships end or why they're not with the baby daddy anymore.
And I'm telling you, better than nine times out of 10, they rattle off red flag after red flag.
He drank too much.
He was a drug addict.
He had a gambling addiction.
He had two baby mamas when he, you know, you know, you know, when he met her.
The list goes on and on.
So when these chicks out here talk about that's a red flag, it is important to understand that this means that they're giving you the green light to pursue them.
It should not be this way, but that's the way it is, unfortunately.
And it's interesting, too, when I would have girls coming on the show and I would actually see what their exes looked like.
Yeah.
And sometimes you would see the same ex.
I'm like, he might have been dated a couple of you.
But the one thing I think with young women now, it's really, they don't care about money anymore.
They can go make their own money.
They care about clout.
That's what they care about.
They care about pop.
Like when I started seeing it through the lens of young women want popular men.
So they want the guy playing guitar.
They want the guy with clout.
Everything, you know, and even couples that you see meet nowadays, it's like a lot of times it's through online communities where the guy is the popular one in that community or like it's in the neighborhood that they live in nearby and the guy's the popular guy at the bar.
Like it's all, it's all women are like in high school forever.
They just want the popular guy.
So the, so the, the more men can like mimic that, the more they get the young hot women.
Now, the older women, why I don't want to say wise up, but they have to think long term more.
Yes.
So that's when you see them.
Like I see the older women going more for like the doctors, the lawyer, but I don't really see the young women giving a shit about men's accomplishments at all.
Like I see that, I see that with like women 27 and up.
Right.
And the interesting thing is, is what a lot of men and women really don't understand that like when we're younger, girls tend to mature faster than boys, right?
I mean, dude, my sisters matured faster than me, but and because of that, they they assume that when they're older, they're more mature.
No, no, no, no.
As soon as a woman figures out that men want to have sex with them, the maturation process stops immediately.
Okay.
And the reason for that is because they now know that they have everything they need to get everything they need.
In their firmware, they're thinking, okay, guys want to fuck me.
So I don't have to have a good personality.
I don't have to learn to cook, clean.
I don't have to learn to have conversation.
That's why there are so many smoke shows in Miami and Las Vegas and New York and LA who look, who are drop dead gorgeous, who are as dumb as a box of rocks.
Hot girls are useless because they've never had to be useful.
And I think I think a lot of guys need, I think a lot of guys need to understand that.
So, when it comes to girls these days that you've been dealing with and interviewing, yeah, of course they're not worried about a doctor's, you know, a man being a doctor when they're 21 and hot.
But here's what happens.
So, they stop the maturation process when they figure out guys want to fuck them.
But then, all of a sudden, when they're 28, 29, and they start having, and they start buying their own drinks from the club, maybe the situationship doesn't last as long.
Maybe the guy you're having sex with isn't angling for a relationship a week later.
That's when the maturation process starts up again because her hindbrain is thinking to herself, uh-oh, I'm not getting as much attention from these high-quality guys as I was when I was younger.
So, now I'm going to try to develop a good personality.
Now, I'm going to try to cook and clean.
Now, I'm going to be pretend to be feminine and docile.
There are a lot of guys out here who have dated men who have dated women, you know, who are in their 30s and 40s who act like fucking teenagers.
The reason why they act like teenagers, the reason why they act like overgrown children, is because they still have the mind of a 16-year-old.
16 years old is when they discovered that men wanted that men that men wanted to fuck them.
So, they hadn't really thought about improving themselves in any way since they were 16 years old.
So, when you're out with the 38-year-old former baddie, she probably might have the maturity of a 20-year-old because four years ago, she figured out, uh-oh, I better get mature because guys aren't throwing the dick at me like they used to.
And I see this going up every like I see the length of or the age of women that date like bad boys for longer, I guess you could say, going up every year.
Like, for example, in my mom's generation, it was like if you weren't married by like 20, like out of college, really, you were a loser.
Now, it's Gen Z only.
I mean, Gen Z is 27 because I'm two months away from Gen Z.
I barely, I'm a millennial, but barely.
Wow.
Yeah.
So, you're a millennial zero, then, huh?
Yeah, like if I was, I, my birthday is November.
If I was born in January, I'd be Gen Z.
So, that's how close, that's how close I am to the cutoff.
Um, but only like I looked up Gen Z, like 15% are married.
Wow, yeah, I'd have to, I let me, I could, I don't want to misquote what percentage of Gen Z. 15 out of every 100 Gen Zers are married.
That is, yeah, no, actually, it's 10%.
Oh, and let's see.
So, but Gen Z, I know they're some of them are too young.
So, what is the youngest Gen Z?
I know, I know.
So, some of it's, yeah, so the youngest Gen Z is 13, the oldest is 27.
So, yeah, so, but still, that still means half.
Like, I see this going up and up every year.
Like, you know, it'll be interesting to see like Gen Z. If I had to predict, I think they won't marry.
Because when I was in Ireland, the average age of first marriage was 35.
What?
Yeah, that's not uncommon in some European countries.
If you Google like average age of first marriage, what do you think about generation?
Well, how do you think Generation Alpha is going to do?
Because it'll just, I mean, if technology advances, I don't know if it will, but I mean, IVF is so common in the cities.
It kind of has extended fertility a little bit.
If women can wait till 45, they'll do it.
I mean, I know, like, they try to say it hasn't, but I, I just, because the thing is, what I see is things happen in the cities and then they migrate to the country.
Does that make sense?
So, yeah, we had this discussion.
Yeah, absolutely.
Yeah.
So, the trends that I saw in like downtown London is like, I mean, the women there on my volleyball team, I mean, they're older than me and not really thinking about marriage.
Like, some of them are like 32.
Incredible.
And so, I see this like the party years or whatever.
Like I see that continuing to go up, especially if, and I know it's all sort of fake, but like if Botox gets better, if IVF gets better, or even if they don't get better, if the illusion to women is that it gets better, I just see it going up.
Does that make sense?
Like, even if the technology isn't there, as long as they can convince women that it will be there, you know, I mean, if you, if you see twins, like, like, think about this, Donovan.
Matt Walsh had two sets of twins in his 30s.
Right.
His wife was in her 30s.
Those were definitely IVF.
Of course.
Like, Crowder had twins too with the wife in her third.
Like, so if the conservative, if the right-leaning commentators are getting IVF kids, like what?
And I think they're going to hide this stat, but what percent of the future generations, I mean, even Nick, I'm not going to say his name, but Nick F, I mean, he was born via IVF.
Like, what percent of future generations are going to be born via IVF?
I think it's going to be a lot.
I think someday it might be a majority, even if the stats don't like show that.
Does that make sense?
No, that make, dude, that makes perfect sense.
And I heard a stat that millennials and Gen Zers are not having nearly as much sex as we thought they were.
I mean, I've heard, I mean, I've heard that they're just not having sex anymore.
Like, how true is that?
I mean, I think the women are having sex.
I mean, if you want to check that out, I mean, the STD rates will tell you because women are the ones that the women are the ones that are spreading STDs.
So if women are not having sex, then Gen Z should have a lower STD rate.
I do think, yeah, I mean, I do think we got to think about like if a guy, if we're having sex with a smaller percentage of men, if a guy has a five-girl rotation, how often is he seeing the girls at the bottom, right?
Oh my god.
Do you know what I'm saying?
So I could maybe see like that, possibly, because like the fives, the sixes, if the guy's a nine and ten.
Sure.
Yeah, they'll just throw themselves at him.
I had a five-girl rotation for two and a half weeks.
Like, dude, anybody, listen, man, look, every guy says, I want to be fucking multiple girls.
And listen, we all do.
I've done it before, but guys, like it should be two, three at the very, very most.
And I know we teach you guys to make sure you keep one in the kitty to, you know, to keep your abundance mentality.
But guys, what you have to understand is that sleeping with multiple girls is work.
It is, sometimes it can be a bit of a full-time job.
And here's the thing: if you've got a rotation of women, you have to fuck all of the women.
Otherwise, they're not in your rotation.
You'll hear a guy say, well, I'm fucking five girls at the same time.
No, you fucked five girls three months ago.
No, the definition of having a rotation is you're fucking every girl in your rotation regularly and she expects to have sex with you again in the not too distant future.
Gentlemen, that is hard work.
It's fun when it first starts and it's a nice little ego boost that you've got all these bitches in your phone that you can come over and, you know, and let you smash her out in three texts or less.
But trust me, once you get there and listen, once the new air is off, oh my, it really is, believe it or not, it's more trouble than it worth, more trouble than it's worth.
And here's the thing.
The worst thing about having a five-girl rotation like I did for two and a half weeks is that you have to have sex, Pearl, when you don't want to.
If you want to keep a girl in rotation, you got to fuck her.
And listen, if girls think guys are thinking about, no, if you're fucking three and four and five girls at the same time, you're not wanting to fuck all the time.
But if you want to keep the bitch in your rotation, you have to fuck her.
That means having to have sex when you don't want to.
And that is not fun.
That's not, that is no fucking fun, dude.
Yeah.
And I, I think that's where some of maybe the sexlessness comes from.
It's like if a four, five, and six, like, how often is she going to get into contact with a nine and a ten?