Pearl and her guests dissect Rolo Tomasi’s alleged jealousy, including his $2K trip cancellation, fundraiser sabotage (despite her $12K for Thor), and public insults like "Autistic." They contrast modern women’s extroverted demands with men’s biological need for solitude—"social battery"—citing disrupted hobbies, guilt-tripping, and Nala’s lawsuit as examples of disrespectful dynamics. The core argument: women now dominate intersexual interactions, rejecting traditional introvert-extrovert balance, forcing men to defend essential alone time for mental restoration. [Automatically generated summary]
All right, as you guys know, I am self-producing today, so you're gonna have to give me like five minutes to make sure this stuff is working.
I don't have anyone else in the studio, so I'm trying to, you know, I always get comments from people saying, Pearl, Pearl, Pearl, you need to be back your stuff together.
I just am so disappointed.
Then leave.
It's totally leave.
You know, I totally welcome you to do all this yourself in the most respectful way possible.
There's nothing stopping you from tomorrow.
All right, so it looks like this is not, some of these are not working.
Okay, so I need to start this one.
Start live stream.
Okay, this one's gonna go.
I think my rumble's working now, but I don't think the other ones are.
So let's go to YouTube.
Okay, can I start this live stream?
Oh, go live.
Here we go.
Okay, I think this one's going.
I also need to hear from you guys if the I need to hear if the audio is okay.
Again, I need you guys to bear with me.
You know, okay, view on website.
Let's see.
Okay, looks like Audacity's going.
I think the only one left to check is Twitter.
So let me see how the Twitter is doing.
What is going on with Twitter?
all right just to you know let the time pass as you guys know you know i love showing my mixtapes and so whether you like it or not um I am gonna be showing you my music.
Now, this one was not produced, but this was a banger.
And hold on, let me get the this one was a love song.
I'm trying to get Twitter going.
I've so far gotten rumble to work.
I've gotten now, okay.
Now we're gonna let's make sure the song is going.
feel free to get a whale merch okay now we're gonna go to cam six What is my iPad not working today?
No, why God?
Hold on, let me try it again.
Oh, I think it's going now.
You guys are like, Pearl, if you were a man, you'd be able to do this better.
Look, I don't know what to tell you.
Now, I think Cam 4 was the one.
i'm going to go get twitter all right i'm going to turn this up a little bit Okay, so I wrote a song called Fallen in Love in the Dark.
Also, feel free to get a whale merch.
All right, listen to my mixtape.
I'll be back.
And maybe I'm going out of style now.
But that's alright when I'm with you.
And the world don't need to know for a minute.
But my world's been so much better to with you in it.
I'm probably saying too much too soon.
But I know I'm falling for you.
We're falling in love in the dark.
We're watching the world fall apart.
We won't be their heroes, but we're the star of our own show.
I'll give the keys to my heart in the dark and now my heart flutters.
You're the type of guy to make me wonder.
It's probably too good to be true.
But I know I'm falling for you.
Falling in love in the dark.
I'm watching the world fall apart.
Oh, we won't be there heroes.
But we're the star of our own show.
I'll give you the keys to my heart in the dark.
In the dark.
In the dark.
Oh, in the dark.
The world's been telling us that we ain't it just a bunch of no good degenerates.
And maybe they won't love us back.
But when I'm with you, I'm fine with that.
I'll give you the keys to my heart.
We're falling in love in the dark.
We're watching the world fall apart.
We won't be their heroes, but we're the star of our own show.
I'll give you the keys to my heart in the dark.
In the dark, in the dark, in the dark, in the dark, hearts fall apart.
We won't be their heroes.
We're the star of our own show.
I'll give you the keys to my heart in the dark.
All right, did you guys like my mix tape?
I want to get that one produced so you know They're like every girl just becomes a okay, let's see did it work on the website?
Let's see.
Am I live streaming now?
Oh yay, it's going.
I think it's finally going.
Yes!
Yes!
I think, anyways.
Yes!
Yes, I have succeeded.
Oh my goodness.
You don't know the toil that I've been through.
And now, oh my gosh.
I'm triple streaming.
Twitter, I haven't gotten to work yet.
But now I got Rumble.
I got YouTube.
I'm switching my camera.
I'm playing my mixtape.
What a time.
Oh my goodness.
I might force you guys to listen to one more song.
Anyways, I might, do I force it?
Let me see.
Is this one?
No.
Okay, I'll torture you tomorrow with another mixtape.
Tomorrow.
So, oh my gosh.
I was just getting so frustrated.
I'm so happy.
All right.
So I did promise you guys something.
So to start the show, I'm going to read the people that signed up.
And I did promise that once I got 10 signups, I would give the Rolo T.
So today I'm talking about my internet lore.
Now, many times, you know, people have talked shit about me over the years, and I really haven't ever responded.
I mean, now, Rolo Tomasi is a phenomenal author.
I love his work.
And when I read his work a couple of years ago, and I only talk about this publicly because my brother said I could, but I have a brother that committed suit, or not, sorry, didn't commit suit, try, attempted suicide like years ago.
I know it doesn't, I don't sound that torn up now.
It was very sad at the time, but you know, this was a very long time ago.
So we've kind of moved on to, you know.
And when I read Rolo Tomasi's book Couple years ago now, it really made a lot of stuff like make sense, you know.
Um, Alpha Widow was something that I'd seen, something that I'd experienced.
And that was one of the first videos I saw of Rolo's.
And really, when I got into this space, I wanted Rolo to be my friend.
I really did.
And unfortunately, he did not accept my friendship.
Now, before I get into it, I want to read all of the people that signed up last show that are allowing me to talk about this internet lore.
Now, I will give you guys tea because remember, whenever I bring up someone else's name, it gives them the ability to create drama out of this, react to it.
Like, God only knows what this man's going to do.
I mean, he's done whole spurging sessions on me.
So, I try to keep other people's name out of my mouth, but I will do it when I am paid.
Yup.
Yes, I will.
Shaylin, thank you for signing up.
Yearly membership.
Matthew, another yearly membership.
Sneed, monthly membership.
Another yearly membership from Pashel, I think.
This is on the last 14 hours, 221 hours ago.
Another one from Eric.
And that's perfect.
Once we get to, you know, at some point, we won't even have to do commercials, even though this is our sponsor second link.
I'm going to talk about it later.
I do like them.
So this isn't even a forced sponsor.
But at some point, if we get enough memberships, I don't even have to do commercials.
And I can do a super full, I could even have a whole production team in here, but who need, you know, what do we need?
Anyways, Ladybird, another monthly membership.
Eric, another monthly monthly membership.
Robert, another monthly membership.
Marquise, 10 or a monthly membership.
Ivan, another monthly membership.
So again, the ideal trying to think of our show costs.
Okay, so it's tough to say because the monthly memberships and yearly are different because the yearly, but roughly we get 10 signups a show in six months.
My costs are covered and I can move out.
I have a lot of guilt in my life.
I'm going to be honest.
My haters will use this against me.
I don't really enjoy my dad.
He's helping me out.
He built me a studio because I can't afford two rents right now to do the show.
And I have all this very high production, amazing equipment, but YouTube demonetized me, right?
So, you know, now I'm home.
Feel like a loser a little bit.
I won't lie to you.
So, you know, essentially I'm unemployable.
Although maybe I haven't tried hard enough, but I really do believe that I'm meant to work in media.
It's something that I know a lot of women quit to be content creators, but I have a little bit of success, you know, where it actually worked out for me.
And I just believe, you know, this is something I'm meant to do.
And I really want to make a non-gynocentric media company.
That's my goal.
And I really want to bring back 90s humor.
I'd love to bring back Weinstein.
Now, I'd love to, I know I can't, but I want to give an opportunity to some of these guys that, you know, got opportunities taken away for no reason.
And I really believe that I can make this app very cool.
I know there's been some issues, and I do apologize.
We're understaffed.
But it's getting better.
I'm recently, this week, we're having someone put thumbnails on all of the content on the website.
And hopefully, in the next month, we can re-upload all of my old content.
On top of that, the documentary, we just hired a new team.
I don't want to talk about my old team.
I made some mistakes in the past year.
I'll just say this.
I had to find a new one.
You know, I feel like sometimes I start these shows just telling you guys about my L's.
I don't know.
But I'm not, you know, this is what it is.
Oh, we got another monthly membership.
Thank you.
Oh, Steve.
He said he donated on the website.
Rolo secretly loves you.
You're rare.
You know, it just is what it is.
Now, I will give you guys the T on Rolo.
I'll give you my side of that story because it just has been talking shit for years, saying I'm a terrible person.
And I just want to know what was my crime.
Now, I could be a better person.
I won't lie to you guys.
You know, maybe there's like a level of good people, and I definitely would not put myself at the top.
You know, I've done some embarrassing things in my life.
I really have.
Just is what it is.
Okay, but I think I read everybody who signed up.
I'm going to give a Zoom link to my friend Glenn, who is also benefited by this.
Let me see.
Let me send this to Glenn.
Which one was Glenn's number?
Let me text him so it's at the top.
So, okay, so the one thing you learn in life is you shouldn't meet your heroes.
And I think I learned this in media because when I joined, what I loved about red pill content and reading red.
Now, let me go further back.
What is the red pill?
Now, what the red pill is, is a collection of men's experiences online.
So essentially, men got together to solve a problem.
And this was on anonymous forums like back in the day.
So, and there were some prominent writers during this, and one of them was Rolo Tomasi.
Now, what Rolo Tomasi did was took all of the experiences of men in the forums, and he also, and he also had his original ideas, and he wrote a book.
And Rolo, I gotta say, he has amazing work.
And when I got into media, I wanted nothing more than to meet and interview him.
I loved him, and I loved Kevin Samuels.
I loved them.
I thought they were so amazing.
And so much so, but Rolo just was a little bit apprehensive with me.
Now, I have to say, this could have been, there was someone behind the scenes I had a falling out with very early on.
And I'm going to, by the way, I'm giving you what I remember.
Some of this has been some time since it happened.
So I'm just like some of this was three, four years ago.
I'm remembering this to the best of my ability.
Now, this girl and I had a falling out, but do you know what's crazy?
We worked it out behind the scenes and it never became public.
It never became a big deal.
We moved on.
So maybe this was why he was apprehensive.
I also had, I'm going to talk about this.
When.
I went on Fresh and Fit the first time, like four years ago, I really had, me and Myron had an argument, or not an argument, but he, long story short, there was a miscommunication and I talked about this, like he yelled at me in front of like all these people.
It was really embarrassing because it was like a miscommunication at the time.
And I decided to talk about it on the internet.
And this was just not smart.
I ended up taking it down because I was, so I can understand where like the apprehension came about me.
Now, this is like five years ago, four, I don't remember.
And me and Myron worked that out also behind the scenes where Myron, I like sing his praises now because in all honesty, say what you want about those guys, but they're one of the few that I feel like I'm burying myself now.
Whatever.
I don't care.
I got nothing to lose anymore.
I don't care.
So, you know, Myron.
So maybe this was why.
I don't know.
But Rolo, I think I put on a pedestal a little bit.
I loved Rolo.
I loved him.
I thought he was so smart.
I thought his book was amazing.
It made my brother's attempted suicide make sense because I was really mad at my brother for a while about it.
And it just, I was like, oh, that's why he tried it.
It made that make sense.
It made like, you know, failed relationships that I'd had before make, it all just like made sense.
And I was like, wow.
I want to interview him.
Now, I take this to the point where I actually scheduled an interview with him.
And he ends up like, I move, by the way, at the time, I'm full-time playing volleyball and doing the media stuff.
And I missed a volleyball game to interview this guy.
I spent probably two grand extending my trip, moving my flights just to interview him.
I was so excited.
And he cancels on me that week because he claimed he had COVID.
Now, I don't know if he had COVID or didn't, but I'll tell you what, I was really disappointed.
And I saw him on a show like six days later.
So I thought after COVID, you were supposed to, I don't know.
I thought, like, you know, I think he just didn't like me.
I think from the beginning, maybe it was something I did early on that set him off.
Maybe it was because in the beginning there was some red pill ideas that triggered me.
Maybe that's what set him off.
But I just think from the beginning, he just did not like me.
I don't know why.
I feel like I'm a breath.
I feel like I'm a joy to be around, but you know, and he would just be on these streams.
He'd call me Autistic, which, you know, they kind of stop calling everybody that.
I know I'm a bit dorky, okay?
But have you met real Autistic kids?
Like, it's a little bit.
Okay.
Now, anyways, he would call me an idiot, which, okay, I could be smarter, but it's like, Rolo, what are you?
And I think his issue was, I think, for my knowledge on the topic at the time, I just got a little bit too famous too fast.
Where, you know, I start getting invited on shows he's not invited on, where, you know, he's been doing it 20 years.
And in my head at the time, I felt like, well, who cares who's saying it?
Let's get the message out there.
Now, I could see in hindsight where maybe I could have done a better job on certain shows or I could, you know, I could have articulated things better.
But Rolo, I don't know.
Like, I've had media, like people I know in the industry talk about why he's not like more famous, but he just doesn't have the most mass appeal, likable, you know, personality.
I don't think that's what he's in it for.
Because even to this day, I still like the guy.
You know, I really do.
But I can't, this is a one-sided liking, so I guess I got to hate him now.
Anyways, long story short, I end up getting very famous and I have like 20 employees.
And when I'm doing collaborations at the time, guys, I would have like three collaborations in a day.
A lot of people don't believe me when I said that I didn't know who Nick was, but I didn't have a media company or a team behind me.
Most people are owned by someone if you look into them.
I was independent completely.
And I have no idea how this didn't like show by the people I had on.
I saw a clip of Nick talking about race mixing.
And that's why everyone was criticizing me because I had him to talk about the J topic, you know.
But I had him on to talk about race mixing.
And while he was there, he obviously, you know, spoke about it.
And now, anyways, before he comes on, I say to Rolo, hey, can I invite onto other content creators?
Now, I'm telling you, this was stupid, but in my head, I don't like, it did not take me near as long as these other people to build my brand and become a big, well-known person.
And I think because of that, I didn't really have the caution that other people had.
I was like, who cares?
Let's have everyone on freedom of speech, baby, you know.
And so all I did, he had a tweet about vasectomies.
And so what I did was when I asked him if I could bring on content creators, I think he thought it was just going to be people in the space or something.
He didn't specify.
I don't think it's a big deal.
So I send the link and I don't know who's going to say yes, but at the time, I sent the link to this live stream about this.
He had a tweet about a vasectomy and how the quickest way to be a high-value man is to like get a vasectomy.
He didn't say it was the best way or the only way, but you got to admit that does, if we followed family cord, if we're being objective here, that prevents a lot of problems.
Now, anyways, Rolo ends up going on the stream and I'm just letting anyone on that was talking about his tweet on the timeline.
So these were agreers and disagreers.
And I thought we could all have a nice conversation and come to a conclusion.
And by the way, I did invite his friends too.
I invited like Bryson Gray because, you know, all the Bible thumpers were very upset about this tweet.
So Bryson Gray comes on and he's Bible thumped in.
Now, Nick F also came on and he's Bible thumping.
I also invited Myron, but Myron couldn't come.
We'd squashed our beef at that point.
I'd also invited, I also invited who else?
Who else did I invite?
I invited MLD.
He was in Japan.
Sergio came on.
Yeah, Sergio.
I don't remember.
This was so long ago now.
Like he was a year and a half ago now, Glenn.
Yeah, it's been actually almost two years now.
Freaking two years ago.
It's only two years like in March.
Yeah, guys, by the way, this is a butchered story.
This is what I remember.
I am not going back and getting every receipt.
I don't care enough about this.
Anyway, so then the way he took it was that I was trying to attach Nick to him, I think.
And this was an ambush.
Even though on the stream, I was on his side.
I was defending him.
And I don't, maybe I didn't moderate it well enough.
Like, I think Bryson was kind of talking over him.
And, oh, Reclaim Your Throne was on there.
Who's more red pill?
You know, so my intention was to have a good conversation where we could hash out this debate in real time on X.
Now, I could see why he would take that as an ambush.
I really could.
And there's no excuse.
I made a mistake.
I wish I didn't do that.
I apologized immediately.
I pulled the stream.
I said sorry, you know, I was so apologetic.
I was like, oh, and I don't.
Yeah.
And to this day, so then after that, he has blacklisted everybody that's associated with me.
Everybody.
I am talking about, I don't, you know, I don't know if I want to say their names because I'm not trying to bring anyone else into this.
But I have one person he wants to do.
Well, yeah, that's what I was going to say.
Glenn's one of them.
And this is the thing.
All I wanted to do was work with this guy.
That was it.
All I wanted was him to be.
And the other thing that happened was I asked him to mentor me.
I really wanted him to be my mentor.
And then he screenshotted it and put it on Twitter.
And I was like, and he was saying that, I don't know, I didn't want to do the work or I didn't want to.
And I'm like, I don't know.
I like, I have a guitar teacher.
You know, I like having mentors.
I just, why would I not have someone mentor me that's like better than me?
You know, I thought he, I, I, to this day recommend his book.
You know, it made a lot of things in my life make sense.
So Glenn, I have Glenn on the phone and Glenn is another person.
He was one of the, I can count three people that were blacklisted.
And by blacklisted, and I think he picks and chooses because I work with Myron still and Myron still streams with him.
So maybe it's just like smaller people he blacklists.
I don't know.
But I was very hurt, by the way.
I did a reaction early on when the first video he started like talking trash about me.
And I was devastated.
I was like, I was like, this is my hero.
And then he just, you know, shit on me.
And then he just calls me fat on Twitter and which is fine.
I call a lot of women fat.
So it's, it's totally okay.
Sis, you're forgetting about that entire summer.
Like, remember the entire summer after the whole tweet thing?
Like, I'm working behind the scenes because I was working as Rose producer and you were coming to Vegas and we were trying to get a sit down between the two of you.
Remember that?
And you're like, yeah, I'll meet with him off the record.
You know, we could squash this stuff.
And you're like, see what he says.
And then I'm coming to him with it.
And he's like, keep on wanting like, yeah, I want.
Oh, I forgot about the picture thing.
Oh, yeah.
Oh, my gosh.
I forgot.
Holy crap.
Okay.
So this is what happens.
This was another part.
See, I forget about all this because, guys, I didn't maybe remember talking about this publicly.
I don't think I have.
But at this point, I don't care.
So what happened with Brittany Venti.
So Brittany Venti is a girl who has just been attacking me for years.
She has made videos criticizing the way I smile, criticizing the way I dress.
Like, you know, she made a rumor about me that I dated a homeless guy.
He was not, okay.
I don't know.
If homeless is staying in five-star hotels, you know what I mean?
Like technically, but I think that's kind of, you know, offensive to people that are actually homeless, right?
When it's off of like a technicality, like you don't have an apartment lease, but you're staying in hotel.
Whatever.
I don't want to talk about that, but I hate this woman because I mean, she's just, you know, she's gone after my mother, gone after all this bullshit.
Now, mind you, I met another woman who also was not a fan of her, who had a very similar experience because that's kind of what Brittany does.
She just does takedown videos, whatever.
And ends up, what ends up happening is this girl tells me that Brittany Venti has nudes on the internet.
Now, what these women do is after like things get leaked or bad things happen, what they do is they make a fake story and like pretend it was all fake.
And that's how they like make a smoke screen around something that really happened.
Now it's tough because some internet rumors are actually fake and they aren't real, but you kind of just have to use your discernment.
And so remember, so Rolo had gotten an anonymous, an example where this happened to Brittany before.
Rolo had gotten an email or something.
I don't know exactly what, but he got wind that Lauren Southern had an abortion of Destiny's baby.
And essentially, Brittany Venti comes in and makes a do you want me to chime in on this part?
Yeah, go ahead, guys.
So Rolo received an email from allegedly from Lauren Southern's husband out of the country asking for a lawyer to, you know, that he could point to him to help him out because he was going through some stuff.
And during that, there was allegedly another email came from this guy or this person that worked at this OBGYN clinic that saw Lauren Southern allegedly go in there to get a, you know, pregnancy test.
And basically he took that and then the rumor of her and Destiny together and put the timeline together like, oh, well, this makes sense.
Yeah.
This is who's so he kind of ran with that story.
And what did I say to you, Glenn?
Did I say it sounds credible that was pregnant or if her and Destiny were just hooking up, but that's confirmed now that that happened.
And so Brittany Venti, in order to like stop Rolo in his tracks, pretended to send him an abortion document.
Now, I said that there's no way this is real to Glenn at the time.
And I guess Rolo still went public and she ended up making him look kind of dumb because he just believed this random email.
But it was true, right?
It actually was true, but that's how they like divert from their craziness.
Does that make sense, guys?
Like some they'll do something crazy or like something that makes them look bad.
And then in order to fake it later, what they'll do is they'll leak something that makes it look like everything's fake, but it wasn't fake.
It was real.
But they go to extreme lengths to make you believe everything was fake.
Did I explain that right, Glenn?
Let's see if you can.
You cut out a little bit, but go ahead.
You missed the part that we're like, you know, what?
Brittany Venti's fake nude.
Thank you.
Well, no, the nudes I'm going to talk about next, but I'm saying the abortion part.
That's done, right?
So, like, there wasn't even, yeah.
So, allegedly, she had a miscarriage or abortion.
And we assumed that that was Rolo took it as that was Destiny's love child.
That either she was pregnant, that she was pregnant, and the baby is born, and we didn't know where the baby is, or that she had an abortion because there's no baby present.
And she aborted Destiny's baby.
It's one, it was one of the two theories that he had, but he believed that the OBGYN paperwork that he had was authentic.
Yeah.
And he was going to like Destiny challenged him and like bet him $10,000 that he can't prove it.
And when we went to No Jumper, Destiny was at No Jumper that day as well.
So Rolo brought this paperwork with him in case he was going to run into Destiny and thinking that, you know, by whipping it out, that Destiny would be able to, you know, have to admit to it.
And in my head, I just thought there's no way that there's someone that's going to risk their job for some internet clout.
I mean, I just didn't think it would happen.
Like, she could sue so big time.
You told me to tell him not to run with it.
I said, I said, tell him not to run with that.
Did he listen?
No, he ran with it.
So even when he's talking shit about me, from my perspective, I'm still looking out for his best interest.
So what happens is now, Brittany Venti, on top of this, try like she's done a diversion thing to divert from the fact that she has a nudes on the internet.
These are her nudes.
Everybody knows they're her nudes.
But, you know, your face isn't in it.
So everybody, what happened is, I guess on 4chan, they would tell women tits or get the F out.
And I guess she chose tits.
So, you know, so at some point.
Just for her, you know, for her sake.
They're a nice pair of titties.
I'm not going to lie.
Like, they're proportionate.
You know, they're nice.
Yeah.
I mean, look, a nice pair of boobs.
Congratulations, lady.
Now, somebody sent me this nude, and I send it to Glenn.
And it's on the internet.
You can Google it.
It's really not hard to find.
And then Rolo is, what did he do?
He like screenshotted that and was like, tell the Daily Wire that Pearl's trying to like solicit under.
I forgot what the hell he accused me of.
What he did was, you sent me, he sent me them.
And I was like, oh, shit.
I was like, man, it doesn't show her face though.
So, you know, I don't think we could roll with that.
You know, because it's like, and you didn't say, like, hey, you know, use this or anything.
You're like, look what I found.
Right.
Like, yeah, because if you find some internet gossip about your arch nemesis, you're going to send it to your pals.
Like, what the hell?
Yeah.
Like, so, so I'm like, I show it to him.
I sent it to him.
I said, look, I was like, you know, this looks like, you know, her, but it doesn't like, we don't see her face in it.
So be careful.
You know, like, I wouldn't, you know, just wouldn't enroll with it.
And he's like, where'd you get it from?
Well, I don't lie.
I said, Pearl sent it to me.
You know, like she knew that we were going through the shit with Brittany because Britney accused Rolo of asking for her nudes and her underage nudes at that in an email.
Yeah, because again, Brittany's trying to divert from the fact that she has nudes on the internet.
Like that, she they're on the internet, they are real.
I know multiple people in conservative media who know that they are real.
And she's gonna make some hit piece now trying to pretend that they are not real.
They're real.
She was probably young.
And Rolo said that you tried to give underage nudes to me to him, right?
And before I even like checked it, like the age on or the date on the picture that she took, because she wrote the date that this, the titties were allegedly uploaded, right?
And then I looked at that date plus her birth date.
And then I'm like, oh, so this chick in this picture is 19, 20 years old.
So they're not underage nudes.
And I tell that to Rolo.
So he already knew, but he decided to spin it as you're trying to solicit underage nudes to me through him.
And then he starts telling everybody I work for the Daily Wire because at one point I had a consultant who worked for the Daily Wire, but this was his side business consulting.
And he quit like four years ago now.
It would be like hiring an editor as a contractor that, like, imagine if my editor in his free time contracted, did contract edit work on the weekends.
I mean, it's not really the, and if I did work for them, I mean, I wouldn't have a problem saying it, but he ended up getting community noted.
Anyway, so that's the, I think that's all the tea, you know, and then, oh, and then he fired Glenn.
No, you're missing one part.
What did I forget?
It's, it's been so long.
When we went to Daily Wire, right?
Remember, he, uh, James Sexton, he tried to say like the whole James Sexton thing.
Because the member originally the panel was going to be four red pillars.
Oh my gosh.
Then, do you know what's crazy?
He accused me of trying to get Rolo off the panel when I suggested him to be on it to begin with.
I was supposed to have a one-on-one interview.
Nobody else was invited.
And I said, and I knew everyone in the RP was going to complain and say Pearl shouldn't get this collabs.
I'm like, hey, let me try to get someone else in the door.
I also agree.
There's a lot of great men in the space that I respect a lot.
Let's bring like, I don't have a problem filming with anybody.
Let's bring them.
And then I forgot how he got some screenshot and was trying to spin it.
Like, I was trying to not let him in or I don't know what he was trying to do.
No, what he was trying to say was that you were trying to use him to get to James Sexton to get James Sexton on the show with you.
And then you had them cancel Rolo off as soon as James Sexton would confirm or something like that.
I don't remember.
I mean, it was bullshit.
From my point of view, what happened was I, on the phone, I wish I had it in writing, but I don't.
My assistant at the time, she doesn't work for me anymore, but she could confirm it.
I said, my assistant's the one that sets everything up.
And I said, why don't you see if we can bring these other people in the door?
And for whatever reason, at one point, Sexton was going to go.
Maybe Rolo sabotage.
He probably did.
I don't care.
It ended up being a one-on-one with Michael Knowles.
I enjoyed myself.
I had a good time and I left.
He can say what he wants.
But really, this guy for years, this is why you shouldn't meet your heroes because this guy for years, all I wanted was his friendship and like to interview him.
And just, I mean, even like Glenn could attest, I didn't even really, I mean, I would get frustrated because I was sick of him like spreading lies about me.
But I really never attacked his character.
I can even say I understand why he was mad.
The Nick thing wasn't my smartest move.
I could see why early on that disagreement with Myron maybe would make people skeptical of me.
You know, that's, that's fine.
Yeah, but that's Emma says.
Let's just get it.
Let's get down to brass taxes.
The real problem is jealousy.
Okay.
He believes he should be where you are.
He believes that he put in the work, you know, for 20 years that he should have the recognition, the 2 million subs that you have.
That's really what it is.
Sorry to say, but that's what it is.
Yeah, and it's really not fair to some extent.
I mean, as you guys know, I've admitted this as a woman.
It's just easier in media.
Like, I don't, you know, I could see why it would be frustrating for him.
But, you know, I can't, if he doesn't like my show, he doesn't really have to watch it.
It's totally fine.
And then I just wish he would say that.
He should be flattered.
He should be flattered that you acknowledge his worth.
Whenever you reference someone, you never, then they still get mad that you don't reference them enough.
I've come to this problem with like three different people where it's like, you'll reference their ideas, but then no, then they'll be like, oh, I need more references.
And you're like, okay, I'll give you more.
And it just never ends.
It never does end.
I just wish he would stop, I don't know, making, I understand his position, but I just wish he'd stop making stuff up about me.
That's just not true.
And I wish he wouldn't have, you know, cut off Glenn and these other people that just for working with me.
I think that it's a little sad, but, you know, I appreciate you, Glenn.
You're good friend.
You're really nice.
Yeah, you're a really good friend of mine.
Oh, and he also wouldn't come to the fundraiser I did for, I was raising, I was raising money for his friend Thor for, because Thor had brain cancer or has brain cancer.
And I was raising money.
Here's the thing.
Here's the thing about that.
What did we raise like $12,000?
You got 20, he helped.
Like, he had he got like 12 or 15,000 donated.
Yeah, just you alone.
And here's the other thing: like, we had everybody almost on rule zero come to your live stream to help raise the funds for Thor.
It was like, yo, let's can we just like put everything aside?
Can we just put everything down and like all the beef, whatever?
We have a friend here that is has a has a very you know, dangerous and you know, um, you know, problem here with the brain tumor.
And, you know, we're trying to collectively raise the funds needed so that his family could be at peace and rest, knowing that everything's financially covered.
But, you know, while he's in recovery in this, and instead of being able to put the, you know, the swords down, he's like, fuck it.
No, I'm going to do it by myself.
I'm going to do some other fundraiser for him.
Guess what?
That never happened.
Never.
Never to this day.
It's been over a year.
He's never followed through with that fundraiser that he was supposed to help him with.
So it's just a bunch of bullshit.
And if I remember it right, he was telling people not to come to the fundraiser for his friends.
Can't did he do what is in my?
I can't remember.
This was so long ago.
This was a year ago what you're talking about right now.
Yeah, but he was a year ago.
He was telling people not to go to the fundraiser, wasn't he?
Yeah.
Yeah.
So he was telling people not to go to a fundraiser for his friends' cancer.
Anyway, so that's that's the beef.
That's the lore.
I think that's pretty much it.
Um, I understand why he doesn't really like me.
I can understand him not wanting to work with me.
I wish he would stop punishing other people that don't agree with him.
Um, that's really my two cents.
Do you have anything else, Glenn?
Um, no, no, I think you, I think it was about time that you actually because I've been trying to get you to do this for a while now.
Um, and I'm glad that you did it because people needed to hear your side of the story.
Everybody knows there's three sides of the story, right?
There's his side, there's your side, and then there's the truth.
Um, I just encourage people to like examine the individual's character when you when you when you listen to this stuff because people's character does you know uh reveal a lot about this, you know, the individual.
And again, I admire Rolo's work, I enjoyed working for him.
I'm sorry that he decided he wanted to put me in a position to try to pick between my friends or working with him.
Everybody knows that I will pick my people every day.
Um, money's, I don't do this for money, I don't do this for anything other than you know, my people are my people, and I'm not going to be bought and paid for, you know.
Um, and uh, that's what it is.
And, you know, I think when you look at this, his work is great, he's a great writer, he did an amazing job with his books.
But the man himself, I have an issue with, you know, he may not be the most smartest person, Pearl, in the world, because I'm far from hell as not, but your character and the way you treat people, it does matter.
It leaves a better impact overall, and that means more than honestly whatever words people could put on a page.
Yeah, and my offer is still open to him for friendship and reconciliation.
Um, I am oh, that's gone after this now.
You know, that shit is over.
I mean, I think it was gone before, but you know, all I can do is give my side, and that's really all I got.
Anything else, Glenn?
No, nope.
Have a good show, sis.
We're almost at Thor's house right now.
So thanks, Glenn.
I'll watch on the live.
Sure, sure.
Thank you.
Bye.
We also got another sign up from Paul.
So, yeah, I mean, that's the lore.
I said I would do it.
And I will give you lore on other people, too.
You know, Dane says he cannot defeat you on substance.
So he goes with low social shaming, insults, and peer pressure, which is feminine.
A lot of these guys in the space are like that.
You know, not really.
Most of them are really good people, to be honest.
I've met a lot of really great guys in the space.
But yeah, he might be your hero, but like many men in the space, he's feminine.
His thinking and behavior is feminine, but he just speaks against women.
He's not intrinsically a masculine thinker.
Steve said he's jealous of your success, acting like a 304.
Anna says, Rolo needs to embrace change.
He laid a lot of foundation for the red pill, but you bring something new to it.
There's room for both of you.
Fazelle, Rolo is an old effing fart.
Just forget about him.
Nothing in the world is better than a pair of stiff nipples.
Pearl, don't waste time thinking of this fool.
Well, I already did.
You know, I was very, this was something that upset me for a long time.
Now I'm over it.
But he made himself look ridiculous.
Yeah, he did.
Steve, on the abortion thing, yeah.
Rolo is a bit 304-ish.
Perhaps he's scared because he's getting old.
Fazelle said, what's wrong with being homeless?
I became homeless while my ex B got crazy.
Yeah, and do you know what the thing was behind that situation?
Was all it was was a paperwork issue.
It wasn't like they make it seem like I got him off the side of the street.
And I'm not trying to spend a lot of time talking about an axe of mine.
I mean, this was so long ago, but God, the internet just never forgets.
Fazelle, I always wanted to read Rolo Tomasi's The Rational Male.
Now that he didn't accept your friendship, it's business competition.
He sees himself as an OG while you and Tate are trending in the red pill market.
Well, you know, I'd still recommend his book.
I think asking someone to mentor you shows a lot of humility and respect.
He should have been flattered.
That's what I was hoping.
But, you know, it is what it is.
He seems to have faded from the view recently.
I haven't heard much about him.
He's the center of attention issue.
The Air Force dude is cool.
I think Rolo demands too much credit.
He doesn't appreciate new people adding to the space.
Sugar.
And by the way, if you want your thing read, you just go to the website.
We're on both app stores.
It would be super great if we could get 10 signups today for yearly memberships.
But, you know, you guys are so nice.
I'm always flattered that we get any.
Masculine operates based on principles.
A lot of these guys in the space are feminine.
Okay.
Okay.
All right.
But let's get to today's topic.
Let me, let me, I got to switch one thing on the settings.
So for a second, I'm going to make you guys listen to my mixtape again.
Sorry, the mixtapes.
I don't care.
You know, I got to go fix something.
Do you guys want to hear the country?
I'll play you.
Don't party.
So this is.
I want to make this a little faster, but this is my we don't party like we used to song.
And I wrote this about how I've really my whole life parties.
Everyone's recording and on their phones and stuff.
And I kind of wish I was alive in 1992 before it, but I was born in 96.
We don't party like we used to.
Take me back to 1992.
Everybody's acting brand new.
We're not looking across the room.
Everybody is looking down.
On their phones, no one's around.
Yeah, we used to tear up the town.
Now I don't hear a sound.
People don't dance cause somebody's watching.
Drink too much, everybody's talking.
We used to rage like there was no stopping.
So put your hands up, everybody's walking.
Put your phone down and get on the dance floor.
Shake that booty like you never did before.
Look real silly, yeah, raise your hands.
Let's get together, baby, just dance.
We used to snap a Polaroid.
Now the whole night's on record.
I used to know who my neighbor was.
Now we really don't do that stuff.
We used to go out and ding-dong ditch.
Now that ring cam is the biggest snitch.
Now all these young kids do is stream on Twitch.
2020s are the biggest glitch.
People don't dance cause somebody's watching.
Drink too much, everybody's talking.
We used to rage like there was no stopping.
So put your hands up, everybody's walking.
Put your phone down and get on the dance floor.
Shake that booty like you never used your hands.
Let's get together, baby, just dance.
Take a shot, baby, get your move on.
Be like Stella and get your groove on.
Take a shot, baby, get your move on.
Be like Stella and get your groove on.
There ain't nothing you can't do wrong.
We don't party like we used to.
Take me back to 1992.
Everybody's acting brand new.
We're not looking across the room.
Okay.
Yeah, I will make you guys listen to my mixtape.
Okay, Dane says: in 96, I was 25 married and I had two kids.
I thought I was so smart and I was genuinely in love with a beautiful midget.
Fazelle, don't gas me up.
Don't do it.
Also, guys, I am begging my dad.
My dad is a superhero.
He is the smartest person I've ever met in my life.
You guys don't even know what you're missing by not knowing my father.
He's so cool.
And he built, like, he's just the coolest guy ever.
And I've been begging him to do a, he hates media, would love to get a show once a month where he gives his thoughts and everything that's going on in the world.
And I want to put it just on the website because he doesn't want to be like public, public, you know, or even audio only.
If you would buy it or if you would sign up if he did that, remember, he's a guy who had 10 kids, a bajillionaire, not really, but like he did really well in business.
And I even want my dad to write a book.
He's so cool.
So anyways.
Pearl's dad is amazing.
I met him in person.
He's everything Pearl says he is.
That's a Doug.
He did meet my dad.
Pearl, you were two years old when Stella got her groove back.
Did you write all of this?
I wrote the lyrics and then I hired a production guy.
Get him on the show.
He would never, but I think we could do it on the website.
Pearl, you need to play the song with you and Bryson Gray, the one we did and I had my guy work on.
Next show, I'll do that as my intro.
Okay, we're going to get into the actual topic today.
Hold on.
I'm kind of hot.
I know you guys are thinking, Pearl, this is a mess.
Look, this just is what it is.
Okay, so.
All right, so recently we talked about women not having hobbies and not liking video games.
And again, you know, these shows really make me think about the differences between men and women and how they like to spend their free time.
Many of men's hobbies can be done alone and not in the physical presence of others, you know, fishing, video games, and other activities that can be enjoyed alone or with another person.
You know, most female activities usually involve a social setting with others requiring talking and adherence of social rules.
You know, in the context of a relationship, men tend to have more introverted tendencies, wanting to have alone time or just spending time with their significant other, where women tend to be more extroverted, wanting to spend time with their friends, you know, wanting to go to social gatherings and activities, you know, like wine dates, coffee activities, festivals, etc.
And the difference can cause friction in a relationship because women want to go out, they want to be around people, where men, they just want to stay home.
We know the trope that after a long week at work, men just want to play football, watch video games, while his girlfriend or wife wants to drag him to a bunch of stuff he doesn't care about.
And if he decides not to go, he has hell to bay.
Pay, and she will hold it against him for a long time.
She might even talk to her friends negatively about the man.
So why do men tend to be more, to need more alone time to recover?
And women want to be around people.
The concept is a social battery.
A social battery is a term for how much energy someone has for socializing.
It can be depleted by social interactions and recharged by restorative activities.
Extroverts get their energy from social interactions where when their battery is low, they will choose to spend time with others to recharge.
Introverts expend energy from social interactions.
They feel low in energy and they will choose to spend time alone.
Unfortunately for guys, modern women always perceive that their way is the correct way in a relationship, leading to women constantly trying to make the men do things he doesn't want to do and attacking the men for his hobbies and not giving him any alone time.
Studies have shown that men need alone time.
You've heard stories of men who get home from work and sit in their cars for 15 minutes to an hour to recharge.
And the man that stops by the bar to get a beer before he goes home to see his family.
Because conversations about norms in society and relationships have been controlled by women, there's a general lack of understanding as to why men need their alone time just to unwind after a long day to restore their social battery.
So we're going to watch a video first talking about the real reason men need their alone time.
So we're going to go to Cam4.
Tell me if this is going.
It becomes harder when we don't have this natural stimulation.
It's like it used to be hard for me to listen to my wife.
I learned listening to a woman stimulates this hormone.
All you have to do is don't fix it.
That's what we always want to do.
We want to stop, stop the problem, solve the problem.
Because when you're a man, if you can solve a problem, dopamine goes up.
That's for a man.
When a woman, when she feels someone hears and cares about me and I'm not alone, not only does oxytocin get produced, but dopamine gets produced.
Women, that's right.
And we get sleepy because Oxy is so much about them.
And so what a man has to do if he's married, you have to compensate for that.
You have to have ways to raise your testosterone.
So how do you rebuild testosterone if you're a man?
Again, men don't know this.
And so what happens is even before all these new challenges came about, there were rituals and relationships.
At the end of the day, men would just sit around with men and women would be with all the women.
And the men would relax and the women would stay busy.
And you go, now today women are going, well, that's unfair.
You should be busy like me and doing all these things.
But we've never been that way.
And there's a reason we're that way and nobody understands it.
The reason for that is men need to make at least 10 times more testosterone.
Most men, 40 times more testosterone than the average woman.
Women need at least 10 times more estrogen or 40 times more than men.
So you've got this complementariness.
Now I certainly have estrogen, certainly a woman has testosterone.
But if I'm a man, I'm working hard, I'm facing challenges to keep my stress from building up.
I have to use up my testosterone.
I'm solving problems.
Solving problems is using up testosterone.
At the end of the day, I've run out.
How do I rebuild my testosterone?
The way you rebuild your testosterone is to forget your problems and relax.
Okay, so we have them talking about how, from a scientific perspective, men just have different needs socially than women.
Now, next, we're going to talk about a social battery and what it is.
So the term social battery describes the amount of energy a person has for socializing.
People with a full social battery have plenty of energy for social interactions, whereas those with a low social battery may feel that it needs recharging.
The concept of a social battery is a metaphor helping people describe how socializing affects them.
The size of a social battery varies among individuals and different people prefer different activities to recharge.
Some people, such as extroverts, get their energy from social interactions.
Therefore, when they feel low in energy, they may choose to spend time with others.
In contrast, introverts expend energy during social interactions.
They may need to recharge by spending time alone.
Other people who may need to do this include autistic people and people with social anxiety.
The social battery is not a medical concept, but it is a popular and convenient way for people to explain how social activities affect them.
Read on to learn more about social battery.
The social battery is a metaphor for explaining how much energy a person has for socializing.
A small or short-lasting social battery means that a person has less energy for socializing overall.
It may be that they find socializing tiring, stressful, or overstimulating.
As a small social battery drains quickly, these people need to recharge more often.
A larger or longer lasting social battery suggests that a person has a lot of energy for socializing.
It may take a long time for them to feel tired, so they do not need to recharge that frequently.
In fact, they may get energy from socializing.
Many things can affect how a person's social battery lasts, long a person's social battery lasts, including their personality, the type of social interaction, the quality or ease of the interaction, external stressors, internal stressors, and anxiety.
Introversion and extroversion are measures of how people respond to external stimuli, including social interaction.
Extroverts tend to focus on the external world, gaining energy from social interactions.
Introverts are more focused on internal factors and may find social interactions draining.
Using the social battery concept, extroverts have longer social batteries and a lower tolerance for spending time alone.
In contrast, introverts have a shorter social battery, but still solitary or quiet activities energizing.
It is important to note that introverts can still enjoy socializing and find it fun.
The fact that a social interaction use up their social interactions use up their energy does not indicate shyness or lack of social skills, just a particular type of temperament.
What depletes someone's social battery?
What depletes someone's energy depends on their personality and how they experience social interactions.
A very extroverted person may not feel as though their social battery ever drains.
For those who eventually find socializing tiring, the following may have an effect.
The people they socialize with, the type of interactions, the size of a group, the duration, the power imbalances, or the stress.
Signs of having low energy for socializing include being weary, stressed, or burned out, home, or the desire or the need to do something quiet, such as reading or watching a film.
Signs of having a smaller social battery include feeling the need for a lot of quiet time, the tendency to focus on the inner world, getting frustrated or tired by social situations, and feeling overwhelmed by crowds.
How to recharge the social battery.
And talking about a video of a woman talking about how men deal with stress differently.
Men and women deal with stress very differently.
Women typically feel better after talking through her problems, while men typically feel better after some alone time.
And here's why.
Men need 30 times more testosterone level than women to be highly functioning.
So imagine him as a smartphone.
In the beginning of the day, his battery is at 100%.
And as he experiences stress, he burns through his testosterone.
So by the end of the day, his battery is pretty low.
One way that men recharges their testosterone level is by doing something simple and mindless.
You guessed it, playing games and watching TV.
He is temporarily switching off so that he can plug in and recharge his battery.
So ladies, it's important to not take his alone time personally because 99% of the time, it's got nothing to do with you.
They just have a biological need to switch off and rebuild their testosterone to a much higher level than women.
Okay.
We got the next one, which is a man outlining why he needs his alone time.
That's why they got man caves.
The third thing men want but don't ask for is time alone.
Men need time to be alone and reflect on their lives and thoughts.
This time allows them to gain a sense of control and clarity in their lives and recharge their mental and emotional energy.
It can also help them to feel more connected to themselves and their goals.
From a psychological perspective, this need for time alone is important to men as they often strive for autonomy and self-sufficiency.
This time alone can also help them to differentiate their own thoughts and feelings from those of others, enabling them to better regulate their emotions.
Three other examples of this could be: number one, encouraging him to set aside a few hours each week to focus on personal projects.
Number two, suggesting he take a day to go out on a solo trip in nature to refresh himself.
Or number three, finding activities, hobbies, and social groups you enjoy as well.
Okay, what do we got next?
Women say men need their cave time.
Let men let men have their cave time.
This might seem like I'm an advocate for men, but this is for purely selfish reasons.
So, ladies, listen up.
And need their cave time just as much as we need our me time and self-care time.
When we give them the space they need for themselves, they come back to us more loving and nurturing.
Time is like their charging port.
And that time of independence actually produces a hormone, testosterone.
Much testosterone in a woman can stress her out, but men need that replenish for them to de-stress.
If we don't press him while he's in that state, he'll recharge faster and come back to us faster.
And we need to not take it so personally.
It's not like he doesn't want to spend time with you, but it's his own body telling him that he's out of balance and he needs to regain that balance.
Sometimes it can be difficult for us to understand the importance of cave time, but maybe that's because we don't understand the value of me time for ourselves.
So that's why I always say self-love first and then we can get back to loving each other.
Okay, so next.
Okay, so today we're going to do a call-in show.
If God is willing and this equipment succeeds, God, please let this work.
I beg you.
I know it's my own fault.
My producer's out of town for another week.
God, please, God, please let this work.
So the questions are going to be, and I'm going to tweet this too.
I'm going to tweet this on Twitter.
So people doing a call-in show on YouTube for these questions.
The link is in the YouTube chat.
Okay, now that's done.
Next, I'm going to go get the Zoom link and I'm going to force you to listen to my next mixtape while I go get the Zoom.
Oh wait, not that one.
That one wasn't too good.
Okay.
I'm going to fix.
Now I need to go get the Zoom.
I've been shaking every day since I had to leave.
It's not what I wanted, but you're not good for me.
Saying, babe, come over, let's do this over Come beat my shoulder to cry on.
Life really ain't been the same since you've been gone.
Cause you're addicted.
Side effects include missing you.
Loss of appetite, sleepless nights and trust issues.
You're hiring.
I'm a love addict.
This feeling is fatal, mentally unstable.
You should have come with a warm label.
You're in bed with someone else saying you miss me.
And I'm crying on the bathroom floor, wishing I didn't leave.
This love is expired, but I still desire a refill.
A refill because you're addictive.
Side effects include missing you.
Loss of appetite, sleepless nights and trust issues.
You're high-risk.
I'm a love addict.
This feeling is fatal, mentally unstable.
You should come with a war label, with a war label, with a war label.
It's been three years now, and I'm married with a diamond ring.
You're with some random girl, but still in love with me.
I won't admit it, but I see you in my dreams.
I wonder, are you the one who's supposed to be next to me?
You should have come.
Okay, on my way home, he says, This is awful.
All right, we don't need to.
You can keep your opinions to yourself.
This was too auto-tuned.
This is like one of my warning labels.
I'm putting the link now.
Okay.
View on website.
Here we go.
I did write this, but I want to redo it because I don't know.
It's just a little bit too much AI.
Or I wasn't.
I'm a better singer now, so I think I would, you know.
Okay, so now I'm going to join on my laptop, but I need to turn the sound off.
I'm going to try something to see if I can control it from my laptop and I don't have to get up because that I'm going to test something.
This may go south.
Okay, join.
Oh.
Okay, now I'm going to test speaker and mic.
And I want it to be muted.
But whatever I'll do when I get in.
On guys.
Okay, now let me, okay.
Sorry, guys.
Okay, you can join with computer audio.
We're gonna mute this and then okay.
Doug, can you unmute and talk?
I want to see if I can hear you.
Doug, let me text him.
Yeah, can you hear me?
Can you hear me?
Yeah, I can hear you.
Oh, heck yeah.
Now let me make my laptop one of the owners of the meeting so I can you do the admission room.
on.
Yay!
All right, the Zoom has been figured out in two days.
Every day.
So tomorrow, today I figured out all aspects of Zoom and now I can see the Zoom.
Tomorrow I will be able to stream on Twitter.
Tomorrow I will figure that out and maybe Facebook too.
Okay, so now I'm a host.
So I can, if I want, oh, you know what I can do?
That doesn't work, does it?
Well.
Interesting.
Let's see if any of these work.
You had it.
The first button you pushed, it showed everyone's face.
Really?
Just, I don't have my camera on.
I don't think so.
It gets rid of mine because you see that.
Okay, well, you know, it's one day at a time.
It's okay.
We can just do audio today.
Okay, guys, the links are in both of the chats.
Doug's, who's Doug?
Doug's been my moderator for three years and he helps me out, right, Doug?
Yeah.
So what do you, so we're going to repeat, you know, the topic just to remind everybody because I know I made you guys listen to my mixtape.
Okay, so the questions are, what type of social battery do you have?
Do you need alone time in a relationship?
Has there ever been a relationship where the person you were with wouldn't give you any space or let you recharge your social battery?
Any comments, guys?
Personal stories I really love that you've had.
This isn't about right or wrong.
It's just more, you know, what is like, what has your experience been?
So Doug, why don't you get us started today?
I'm an extrovert and I'm also a twin.
So I've always gotten my energy from other people and I had to learn how to be alone.
Because now that I'm in my 40s, I really appreciate my alone time.
But I was a social butterfly when I was young.
And I come from a family where my family liked to be left alone.
My parents had no friends and they really enjoyed each other's company.
I couldn't have friends over most of the time.
And I used to wonder why they were like that.
But now as I've gotten older, I just want to be left alone.
And but I've always been in a relationship context when you're an extrovert and you're a guy, you tend to attract women who are introverts.
Or like I had that problem.
And then they get really jealous of you giving your attention to everyone but them.
And it causes problems.
There are a lot of women out there, especially the really pretty ones, who want to find they're attracted to a guy who has social skills, who's an extrovert, but then they want to be able to put him in a cage to be the one that can say when he goes out, when he can go out to play, when he can do all that.
And I have no idea why women get off on that.
I have no idea.
Do you think that introverts are better together?
Or do you think it's better that one person's introverted and one person's extra?
Because in my experience, it can go like both ways.
Because the con is if you're two extroverts, you're both talking over each other.
You know, it's, you know, but the problem with extrovert and introvert, if it's like one or the other, there's a disagreement on like events that you might go to or not go to, you know?
So I'm just curious your thought on that.
I think that third wave feminism messed up the relationship between men and women when it comes to one being it because an introverted woman used to be able to compliment a man's extrovertedness, you know what I'm saying?
Or be there and stand in the background.
But now modern women, whether they're introverts or extroverts, want to try to stand next to a man instead of behind a man.
So that whole so I would say before the 2000s, a man being an extrovert, being with an introverted woman was good, but introverted women and extroverted women still are on this.
The social contract has been messed up.
Okay, so your answer is neither.
If I can say one more thing about the social battery on social media, guys, a lot of people, they don't want to, especially a lot of women, they don't want to do the work to be actual friends.
Like men make honest to goodness friendships, but women really don't, right?
And so you have this trend where when women do talk about a social battery, it's an excuse to be lazy when it comes to social interactions and social relationships with people.
So you see, oh my God, my social battery is depleted.
So I just have to go home today.
Or my friend called me, but my social battery is depleted.
So social battery has been another term co-opted by modern women as an excuse for bad behavior.
So that's true.
I feel like women are more extroverted nowadays than men.
But it's interesting because women have always been the more social creatures.
So what do you think that is?
Say that one more time.
Women have always been more social than men.
Would you agree with that or no?
I would agree.
Would you say that women used to be more introverted, but they were more social, but now they're more extroverted?
I think that women have always been more extroverted, but the remember men and women used to never really hang out until like the 30s or the 40s.
That's true.
That's true.
So this whole men and women hanging out together still is rather new for like humankind.
So maybe that's where the whole thing gets messed up.
But I think that in certain situations, women are less are introverted more, but we still have a bunch of women around.
Women are infinitely more extroverted around each other than men are.
Men will just sit there and watch a football game and not say a word.
You know what I'm saying?
Or, so yeah, when it comes to men and women hanging out, I still, I would, to answer your question, I would say that women are still more extroverted because they like people and men are more likely to gather around and you know and be obsessed with things.
So answer your question simply.
I think that women are still more extroverted, especially if you include social media.
Do you consider social media extrovertedness?
Do you know what I thought about this the other day?
Like me and you talking now, does this count as a social interaction?
I would say yes.
So, because that's a question: is I've the older I've gotten, the more normal it's been to get your social interactions from social media, right?
But it's different than a real-life interaction, you know?
Yeah, yeah, I'd agree.
That's why so many people talk trash on the internet.
If you said that to the person in real life, they'd knock your teeth out.
So, yeah, I'd agree.
Guilty.
Sorry.
Okay.
The okay, guys.
Um, you're the only caller right now.
So we could see, guys, um, if you want to call in and talk about it, the Zoom link is in the chat, too.
So, yeah, the questions are: what kind of social battery do you have?
Like, you know, are you introverted and recharge your social battery being alone?
Or are you extroverted and recharge your social battery being around people?
Have you ever been in a relationship with a woman that just doesn't understand that you need alone time to recharge your social battery?
Have you been one of those guys where before you get home after work, you have to sit out in your car for 45 minutes and like read the newspaper or listen to some music before you go into the house with your wife and kids?
Have you been one of those guys?
Because I know a lot of guys doing that.
And also, remember, guys, women control the narrative when it comes to intersexual dynamics between men and women on mainstream TV.
So, how many times has your significant other or your wife or something just not understood that you just need alone time?
It's not you.
Just leave me alone.
Then they get all upset and start yelling and screaming at you and stuff and trying to make all these accusations.
Has that ever happened to you guys?
Guess what percentage extroverted I am?
What's it?
Guess the um, I took the Jordan Peterson test.
Go ahead.
75%.
97.
Yeah.
I'm not insane.
But I've always dated guys that are a little more introverted.
Before like the 90s, it was always good for an extroverted person to be with the introverted person, and the introverted person understood their role.
Like they would stand behind the extroverted person.
Yeah.
Now you just have women that just want to be in front of a man, whether they have social skills or not.
Yeah.
I'm going to read the chat really quick.
Guys, call in.
Call in or we have beef.
Tell me about your social battery.
Okay.
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So a kitty on the website.
He said, introverts do not understand extroverts.
I'm going to bounce off that real quick.
Kenny, you are 100% correct.
We live in this world, especially with social media, where people are given this platform to bitch and moan about everything that introverts think that it takes more energy to be an introvert than it does to be an extrovert.
And that's not true.
Extroverts connect people.
If you're sitting in a room full of people that you don't know, most people will just sit there staring at each other.
But the extroverts have to, they make the effort to connect people.
You know, I was a person at work that would plan happy hours and do all these things.
You know, I've connected people that are friends for life.
I've connected people that just by meeting them or different groups of friends, mixing groups of friends who have been dating and some have gotten married because I've introduced them at a social event.
And that takes energy.
And these introverts, oh my God, life is so tough because I just have to sit there.
It's like, no, extroverts are the ones who connect the world and make the world go around.
It takes more energy to be an extrovert than it does to be an introvert.
And I don't know what crazy clown world we're living in where people that are introverted, all you have to do, what do you have to do to be an introvert, Pearl?
Maybe you could be a good listener, I would say, to be an introvert.
That's something that I think introverts are maybe better at than extroverts.
They're usually better listeners.
Right?
Yeah, I guess you can try to look on the bright side that way.
Well, I'm just saying.
I'm like.
Okay, Dane says all of this introverts extra.
Dane, if you're here to hate, this is your warning number one.
If you're here to hate, I'm going to, we don't need to create, if you don't like the topic, I don't know why you're on the website.
Okay, Kenny, 80% of humans are introverts.
Anna, I'm very introverted by nature in a social situation.
I can switch it on and off and be very sociable, but it exhausts me.
Social society is designed for introverts.
Extroverts have to bite their tongues because we need to say it, hear it, and let it bounce and let it regurgitate.
All right.
Yaakov says, social absolutely simply stated when roles and family were important, men face out a requirement to defend and hunt.
Women face inward to clan and family.
Kenny says the population has been moving away from family.
So many one-parent households, you can't teach family well.
Fazelle said I'm a loudmouth extrovert, but I haven't been tested on any personality scales.
I just did Jordan Peterson's a while ago.
And, you know, it's funny because it's something I'm sometimes insecure about.
I talk a lot, but now I get paid to talk.
So look who's laughing now, mom.
You know, okay, Pearl, about your sponsor.
I spent years with joint and muscle pain, no energy.
I literally thought I was dying.
My life was shit to do anything.
I found out I had T levels of an 80 plus year old.
Steve says, I have a homestead, got like not, I need a lot of lone time groups exhaust me.
Do you think there's you could be an extrovert if you don't like groups?
Is that possible?
I don't think so.
I don't think so at all.
Another pro, what do you think of people that say, I'm an introverted, extrovert, or extroverted introvert?
Do you think that's just an excuse?
I think women, women, yeah, women always like to say in the middle.
So they'll always say, it depends, or I'm sort of in the middle.
They don't like to take a hard stance.
Does that make sense?
So that sounds like something women say when they don't want to admit it one way or the other.
Does that make sense?
That's what I think.
What do you think?
Yeah, I agree.
I agree.
It's like I hate when women say the word partner because the partner is so vacuous and nebulous and vague that the person that establishes it that says they want a partnership usually reserves the right to be able to control the inputs and outputs of that partnership.
But that's the same thing with I'm an introverted extrovert.
They want to be able to control all the inputs and outputs of a social interaction with somebody.
On Twitter, some people responded to me.
So I was just going to read what this said.
Someone said, I posted the questions on YouTube, which are, what type of social battery do you have?
Do you need alone time?
Have you ever been in a relationship where the person you were with wouldn't give you any space or let you recharge your social battery?
This guy said, I was, and if I wanted to do anything, go see my friend.
It would be days of underhanded comments.
And slowly, she would throw out whatever grenade she could to think of justify, to justify treating me like shit.
And I couldn't sit in a car while she went into the gas station for cigarettes 15 feet away.
Has that happened to you, Doug?
What kind of underhanded comments do women do so men don't like do social things?
Have you experienced that or no?
It's shame, insult, guilt, and the need to be right.
They shame you first.
Can I have an example just for this situation?
Something they might say.
You know, so they'll shame you and try to say that you, so example, I've been with a woman who didn't want me to go to the gym as much.
So they try to tame you usually by saying, oh, you know, you want the, you want to look good for somebody else or, you know, or that they project because they know that maybe so go to the gym with him.
Sorry.
You know, it's just insult, guilt, and need to be right.
You know, they, they, um, or if you play video games, oh, they don't have a hobby.
If they want to stop you from doing something, ask them, what are you doing?
Why are you always up my ass?
Why don't you find something to do?
And then tell her, guys, I was playing video games or I was going to the gym or I was working on cars long before you.
I'm going to be doing it long after you're going.
Have you ever tried to give women something to do to leave you alone?
I tried to get them interested in a hobby.
I actually had a friend that was nationally ranked in Madden back in the 2000, like late 2000s.
And he actually, him and his girl, they fight about Madden and football because he was a Cowboys fan and a Seahawks fan.
So he'd watch football and he'd play it.
And she bitch and moaned and complained.
He sat her down and explained to her the rules of football because she complained because she didn't understand football.
But she had the humbleness to be able to start from, okay, this is a football, that's a quarterback, that's a wide receiver.
And when she learned football, she didn't bitch as much.
But that led to a certain amount of humbleness and humility that most modern women don't have.
Guys love explain, like I ask, sometimes I ask my brother about his video games and to explain to me them.
And they get sometimes guys get so excited because no one asks them about their hobbies like ever.
Yeah.
Yeah, women don't do it.
Why do you still hang out with your friends?
Are you a little kid?
Was an example someone put in the chat?
Have you had that one?
Yeah.
Yep.
All of them.
I've heard them all.
Let's see.
Let me see what else we got here.
Steve says, women are still angry.
Even if women are angry if we are happy, women have become very selfish.
They need hobbies other than banging other guys.
Kenny, introverts will get mad at extroverts.
President Trump is an extreme extrovert.
That is why he says things and restates that introverts have an internal way to filter.
Richard, introverts are more passive-aggressive on the whole.
Vizelle, we need to bring back shaming.
No, you know, I actually, I think we should just let them be who they are if they want to be whores.
At least now you can see it, right?
You don't like now the women don't even have to pretend to not be whores.
Like they can just be a whore and you can just not date them.
Kenny, introverts easily gang up on extroverts because they are the majority because they think extroverts think the same way you do.
Sorry, Glenn, or not Glenn, sorry.
Doug, go ahead.
Oh, no.
I was going to say, you're talking about women being whores.
You can't even call them out anymore or you might get sued.
Oh, yeah.
Tomorrow I'm going to update my lawsuit, but the last, I'll tell you the last, the last thing Nala said to me was, let me find this.
Apparently, otherwise, retain counsel.
I mean, apparently they're taking me to court.
So this will be a very entertaining court case, I guess.
The things I do for you guys, the things I do, I will not bend to the will of this porn star.
I mean, you're going to have to rob me legally.
Yeah, that's what you're going to have to do.
Because speaking of social battery, so that remember, men and women mixing casually and socially is a newer thing.
And I don't know if you guys remember that cartoon, the Flintstones, where they used to go to that lodge.
That's what men used to do.
Like women would go to Rotary Clubs and men will go to lodges.
But this was back when men had male spaces before women invaded them all and destroyed all the male spaces.
Yeah.
And that's one of the reasons why guys play video games because playing video games online, I don't really play video games online.
I like the Quest-based ones.
But it's one of the last places where you can, you know, talk trash, leaderboards, see who's the best.
Where else in society can you do that?
Women always women always invade.
Yep.
Women kick down the door, change everything around, ruin everything.
It's always men make a cool thing and then women ruin cool thing.
But then they feel entitled to have their own spaces too.
So women can have their own spaces, but men can't have theirs.
Women don't even want their own spaces.
They want their own spaces with hot guys.
No, have you seen women-only gyms?
They always fail.
Do you see the women's only bar?
I think it was in Sydney, Australia.
It was women-owned, women-only, and showed women sports, and it failed.
Yeah, they want women-only spaces, but they just want jacked guys.
So, like they want like a members' club.
That's like a perfect place for women.
Members' club with hot rich guys, like country clubs.
I think country clubs are for women.
I know men sign up to them, but my theory is that they sign up to them to either please their wife or to get women.
Let's say the best couple, one of the best couples, is a guy that plays a video game and a woman that likes to read.
Because you could both sit on the couch and spend quality time together.
He's playing video games and she's reading your book.
Carlos in the chat says, I dated a woman once who hated to see me silently reading my crime novels.
She would find any excuse to interrupt me, and she would never admit that she hated it.
What is Nala basing her lawsuit on?
Because if it's slander, she has nothing.
Oh, I'll counter sue.
Guys, don't look at I hate fake trad con women.
I hate them.
I grew up around the last decade.
I've had to deal with women like this.
You and this bitch wants me to give her $300,000 for defamation, or she'll take me to court.
Take me to court, you dumb.
This is the woman claiming to be a born-again Christian.
If anything, this further shows what happened to Turn the Other Cheek.
You know what I mean?
Anyways, take me to court and sign up to theaudacitynetwork.com to help me fight it because I will, I will go.
I'll read the, I'll actually read it back and forth.
I think I'm, I was debating, can I get in trouble for showing a whole lawsuit on live stream?
Yeah, I'd avoid it.
I'd avoid it.
I don't know.
A little advice from your content guy.
I don't know.
I might live stream.
I think if I go to court, I'm live streaming it.
I got nothing to hide.
And that's one of the ways you know Nala's fake is because she hasn't, okay.
One of the biggest problems with social media, especially modern women, they think that they can get out of college and become an entrepreneur and open a business.
Back in the day, like if I wanted to open a restaurant, I'd get a job at a restaurant at 18 and then I'd work like seven, eight years, 10 years at a restaurant, get to management, learn how to cook and stuff, and then open my own restaurant.
I became an engineer.
I'd work at an engineering firm for seven years and then open my own or law too.
But women think that they could open a business with no experience at all.
It's like, what skills do you have?
And that's the same thing with these reformed whores who want to become religious.
This religious study, you're supposed to study this stuff before you start running your mouth and telling people how to act and what to do.
Women want all the respect without doing any other work.
None of the work.
Fazelle says, I've said this before and I'll say it again.
Women have the power of the pussy and we have the power of the purse.
Not really, because women find a way to get your money.
Sorry.
You cop counter Sue, she has a lot more to lose.
P. Damien, introverts and extroverts are only on the surface.
Public persona, the private persona, is closer to the actual person.
Kenny, they want a woman's only space that men pay for.
They had it at strip clubs, then they effed it up.
Dane, if I had to agree with everything you were, Doug, okay.
Dane, um, okay, women are angry if we are happy.
Women have become very selfish.
They need hobbies other than that.
Okay, we read that.
I don't, what do we do now, Doug?
No one's calling in on this topic.
Well, I would probably think because you know, I would say most of the guys in the chat, maybe 80%, know exactly what we're talking about.
Easily relatable topics could be a thing where people don't really call in a call and because I know for a fact that you guys know exactly what Pearl and I are talking about, man.
Come on.
Especially if you've had a long-term relationship or you've been married before.
Oh my God.
With the first thing a woman will do when you put a label on it is put herself in direct contention with your alone time and your hobbies.
Yeah, I want to hear about how have women disrupted your alone time?
Because you've talked a little bit how they disrupted your extroverted time, but how did they interrupt your alone time?
Well, I've never really, well, okay, so once I had to learn how to how to be alone and I cherish it now, but it took me a while.
And it's mainly just I like taking at least one day on the weekend to have some alone time.
And they start to see when that time is and try to hold you to something during that time.
It's like when a guy wants to watch a football game by himself, the game comes on at 1:35 and a woman will literally intentionally plan something.
She checks the TV schedule to see when the game is and then plan a brunch right when the football game starts and then like make you make a choice.
It's like, do you want to be alone or go with me somewhere?
And it's just like, why are you even putting me in that position in the first place?
Right.
And it's just like, yeah, so that's what happens with my alone time now.
It's like, I make sure to let the women know that this is, you know, this is when I want to be alone or this is when I want to do a hobby forever.
And that time is literally walled off like on Outlook, you know, put the little meeting, meeting invite thing to block some time off and they'll go ahead and plan something anyway.
Yeah.
Yeah, that makes sense.
Well, sorry.
I'm sorry, Dean.
You're gone.
Sorry, Dane.
I guess you got to go.
I gotta, I gotta, I gotta, we can't, yeah, we can't have the spurging out.
We're trying to have a cool chat.
Um, thank you for, I'm seeing a lot of new names in the chat on the website and also in the chat on YouTube.
Guys, Pearl's chat is the best chat on YouTube.
And thank you, everyone, for being there.
That's one of the reasons why I try to greet everybody because you guys are hilarious and you guys stayed through all the technical difficulties.
I've seen people who've been here since the beginning.
So I want the energy the same on YouTube and on the website.
So thank you guys for being a part of the chat on the website and on YouTube.
Doug NPA really appreciates it.
Yeah.
And also, if we get enough people on the website or on the app, I've actually just spoken to someone who builds out like schools.
So maybe someday we could open like a finishing school or something, you know, or Like, turn some of this stuff into like programs, you know, like end and end simping school.
I don't know, but the I have some really cool ideas for the website or for the app if we get enough people on.
So I appreciate you guys.
You know, I know how it takes a lot to download an external app from YouTube, but we've put a lot of effort into it, into the design, and it kind of looks like Netflix to be honest, the layout at least.
So, you know, you got any other thing to add about the app?
The app itself?
Yeah.
Yeah, it mirrors the website pretty well.
You get all the notifications that you do on the website on the app.
You can chat with the scene, you can watch the shows, you have access to the archives, all that stuff.
So if you don't have that on your phone, download it.
It's at the app store and it's on Android.
Cool.
Well, I think we're going to close out the show.
I guess this topic wasn't, you know, people didn't have anything to add, but it's okay.
We can always do it a different day or see two calls in tomorrow.
Also, this is a little later than I normally do, guys.
So if you like this time slot, I'll consider it.
I will consider it.
I promise nothing.
Thanks so much for tuning in.
You have any final thoughts, Doug?
A lot of women use social battery as an excuse to control friendships, like talking to people when not to.
So watch out for that.
And guys, if you got to be in command of your time no matter what.
You know, if you're busy, if you're paying the cost to be the boss, if you're grinding, if you're on the way up, you're entitled to some time alone, guys.
You need it.
Men, we are problem solvers and you need time to kind of shuffle things around, put things through your logic process.
And you can't do that with some broad yapping in your ear 24/7.
So asking for alone time is not too much of an ask, guys.
It's not.
Don't let these women tell you that it is.
Well, thanks so much, Doug.
I'm going to end the Zoom.
And thank you guys so much for watching.
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