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Okay, so today's topic.
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And I decided to Google the number of OnlyFans workers.
And when I tell you guys this number, I want you to remember: sex work is an industry for young women.
And so the majority of this number is going to come from Gen Z.
I found out 1.4 million women in America do OnlyFans.
So out of curiosity, I googled and, you know, some of this is with discretion.
We don't have all the information, but they guess that 1.2 million is between 18 and 24.
So I decided to Google what percent of women, how many women in America are between 18 to 24.
I find out roughly 10 million in America, 10 million women.
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So I googled seeking arrangements, which is, if you guys don't know, it's a sugar site.
How many women do you guys think are on seeking arrangements?
How many you guys think?
17 million women are currently on seeking arrangements.
Now, I could not find the age breakdown.
Maybe if I do a little more research, I'll find it.
But to think that the majority of women on seeking, now let's say the clientele for seeking goes up to like 80 years old.
Like I'd imagine there's got to be some old men.
So let's say women can do that up to 40, 35.
You have to think the majority of those women are likely under 30, 35 at least.
There's only 10 million women between 18 to 25, roughly.
I think it's like 10 point something.
So out of 82 million American men that are, oh, sorry.
So then I decided to think more about the consumers.
Who is consuming OnlyFans?
And I found out that 82 million American men subscribe to OnlyFans.
Now, to think about how big that number is, how many people are in America?
I'm pretty sure it's 350 million.
How many men are?
Yeah, it's 165 million men are in the United States.
And they're telling me that 82 million out of 162 million are subscribed to OnlyFans.
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I know there's some discretion, but even the fact that this is how it's leaning, even if it was 70% or 60% that are married, I still think that's mind-blowing.
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Okay, so I wanted to re-show you guys the video that we saw on Monday.
So there was a guy who got divorced over Yu-Gi-Oh!
So let me show you guys the video.
Let me just say it straight out the way.
Let me just say, I am no longer married.
Let me just say it.
I am no longer married.
Let me just say.
Oh.
Oh, yeah.
Okay.
Sorry.
Let me go there.
Okay.
I need to say this.
Let me just say it straight out the way.
I am no longer married and I'm divorced.
This is not what this video is about, but there's something that you guys need to know.
When I met this woman and I told her about my Yu-Gi-Oh stuff, she hated it.
She didn't like it.
She said that, hey, you can do something better with your life.
You should go back to school.
So you know what I did?
Back in 2016, 17, 16, I said, you know what?
Maybe she's right.
You know what I did?
I sold all my equipment.
I sold my YouTube channel.
I sold all my camera stuff.
I was like, you know what?
Maybe it is time to move on.
Maybe it's time for me to do something better with my life.
Not knowing that at that time, what I had was very special.
At that time, something that I chose to do, YouTube, I had something going on.
Even though I had some drama and stuff going on before and I shut down my channel a few times, I had something that I completely gave up.
I gave it up because someone said, hey, you know what?
Maybe it is time to move on.
You got to do something better with your life.
There's got to be something more for your life.
And I sold all my stuff for a woman.
And she's no longer here.
And the thing is, guys, the median is the message.
So if a woman is trying to change all of the things that you love, she doesn't like you.
She likes what you can provide.
I mean, he was a certain way.
He had certain things going on.
And by her coming in and saying, oh, do it my way, do it my way, do it my way, it means that she thinks she knows better than he does for his life.
And this problem persists.
She told me at that time, hey, you want to meet my mother?
You need a car.
Because I didn't have a car at the time.
I was doing YouTube.
I was working from home.
I didn't need to drive anywhere.
Yes, YouTube is what I did for a living.
It's how I paid my bills.
And I was street performing also.
How did I street perform?
I just catched the bus 20 minutes down the street, played my horn, went home.
I never needed a car.
But when I met this woman, you have to go back to school.
You have to exercise.
You have to get your degree.
You have to do something better with your life.
Even though I explained to her, this is what I chose to do.
A woman comes.
And this is why women get the impression that they build men.
It's very interesting when you hear women that say, don't ever make the mistake of building a man.
I'm like, so I saw a woman the other day on TikTok and she was with this basketball player.
And she said she supported him when he was in college and she really helped build him up.
And I just kept thinking, well, did you share?
Did you, I mean, did you memorize the plays for him?
Did you learn how to dunk?
Like, what did you do in this situation to build him?
But for some reason, we have a tendency to take all the credit and do none of the work.
I see it all the time.
I mean, how many times have you seen it where a woman, a man starts a business, a woman's the secretary, salesperson, whatever, and seems to think she did all the work?
I mean, I've seen this story a million times.
And now you have women that are in the NBA thinking that they, or with NBA players thinking that they built, this, I mean, gosh, I have literally, I mean, like Jeff Bezos' wife, did she deserve half of everything?
Did she build Amazon?
And then they'll show pictures of her in like Jeff's garage.
And you're like, okay, anyways.
Comes in your life and trying to tell you the plan that you chose for your life is wrong.
And out of love, I choose to say, you know what?
Maybe she's right.
And I took a chance.
I took a chance.
I say, you know what?
I'm going to give this up completely.
Like for good.
Sold the channel to Jarber.
Sold all my stuff.
Tried to go back to school multiple times.
There's something.
I don't want to say that I can't finish school, but it certainly feels like I can.
I don't know what it is.
And every time I talk to people, they just think that everything I say is just an excuse.
You are a grown man.
You are an adult.
You can do it.
It's like no one can see it from my perspective.
It's like I am always wrong.
When I study, what I do, I fall asleep.
What do they say?
Hey, you're lazy.
You're procrastinating.
You're choosing not to do this.
And I'm like, that's got to be something wrong with me.
When it comes to school, studying, and staying on task and staying focused, I just can't do it.
And I try and I go back to school and I pay all this money and I pay all this money and I pay all this money and I fail and I fail and I fail and I fail.
Music has always been there for me and I've always been great at it.
People say that, hey, they try to test me.
They say, hey, you know music, right?
You know this person?
No.
You know this person?
No.
You know this person?
No.
Well, how are you a musician?
I also get people say to me, hey, what key is this in?
I say, I don't know.
They say, well, how are you playing?
How are you a musician?
How do you play so well?
I am not the type of person who is book smart or knowledgeable.
I don't know things, but I know how to do things.
I know how to do things physically in a creative way.
I'm not a type of person who retains things and holds on to things, who can read a book and then take a test, pass it, and go on.
That's not me.
I am a creative-minded person.
To be honest, I see this struggle on both sides of the equation, right?
When we were looking at the Brianna chicken fry situation, she's trying to become someone she's not to be with the guy.
And, you know, so I do see this on both sides.
And I think that's the challenge you're going to get: people trying to be things that they're not in order to get a relationship.
Some people can change who they are, but I think over a certain age, your core is just your core.
That's how you are.
That involves creativity, I can do at least to some degree where people are like, why are you doing so well?
You ever thought about going to school?
I tried.
It doesn't work.
So this is all tying together.
I met the parents.
They asked me, Hey, what do you do for a living?
I had to tell them I am a musician.
I couldn't tell them I was a street musician.
I am a musician.
Then they said, Hey, you have a degree?
I said, I don't have a degree.
My ex-wife parents did not speak to me for two years and told her not to marry me because I don't have a degree.
What sense does that make?
So I give up this YouTube thing.
I give up my entrepreneurial things.
I try to do something that's not innately a part of my strengths at all because I'm thinking I'm in love to do something for somebody to prove something.
And this continues on through the marriage.
She says, Hey, you need to find a hobby.
I'm like, oh, let me play Yu-Gi-Oh! again.
So last December, last year, I started my channel up again.
I buy my channel back from job.
I'm like, oh, she gave me the LK to go into a hobby.
You know what she said?
You're spending too much time playing those cards.
It's either the cards or me.
She literally said that.
I'm like, you just said I need a hobby.
I get into a hobby and now you're saying I'm doing it too much.
What is it?
What do I do?
And you know what the saddest thing is?
Women will nitpick and henpick men for years over things that they genuinely love and love to do.
And I've seen men get out of marriages where they're just constantly apologizing for being loud or singing or whatever their thing that they really loved or maybe something about them that was a little quirky or different.
And it's like the saddest thing to see a man just broken because this woman has, you know, berated him over something he loves for years.
She says, why are you into those cards so much?
Peter Jones says, thank you, Pearl.
You are exposing another struggle that men have to fight with women.
Women work to neuter their man.
I said, hey, I need to make a video about something.
And I haven't played this card game for two years, on and off.
How can I make a video for my subscribers about something I have no knowledge of?
And I try to explain it to her, but she don't get it.
She thinks it's just cards you pick up and you just play like Una.
It's not that way.
Every three months, a new set come out, new stuff come out.
I can't make a video about something if I don't know what it's about.
I can't start my channel back up and just start making videos.
I have to be in it.
I have to learn about it and learn what's going on.
So she hated those cards.
She literally cried because of those cards.
And people say, hey, priorities, man, it's your wife or, you know, you got to do what you got to do.
But then I'll be back at that point where I'm giving up things that I like, things that's a part of my life for someone else to feel happy.
And I feel miserable in the process.
I'm sitting there watching all these YouTubers come out and make videos and do all this stuff.
They're traveling.
I'm like, that's what I used to do.
I love that.
I miss that.
Why can't she come along with my journey instead of scrutinizing me?
And then that's money gone from me.
It's not about the money, but that was money gone from me.
Then street performing.
I said to her, hey, I don't want to move away from Baltimore.
You may be thinking, why?
That's where my home base is.
My gigs, my performances, everything.
Keep in mind, I didn't have a job.
Like, when I say I don't have a job, like a real job.
A real job is, you know, going in nine to five.
I didn't have a real job for over 10 years.
It was YouTube and playing my horn.
That's how I paid all my bills.
So when we got married and we moved out to Baltimore to somewhere else that I didn't want to be, she said, hey, how come you're not paying the bills?
And I was like, what?
I have a job.
I have a nine to five job.
I don't make enough from this nine to five job to pay all these bills.
Before then, I could street performing and YouTube.
I made enough money off of that to pay the bills.
Now I'm working nine to five all day long.
And that's not a complaint because there are people who do that.
But I had something that most people wish they had.
Most people wish they can go out, make some money, pay their bills, and have all day off.
That was a gift.
That was something that was something that I had.
Now, you can take this video as me complaining, crying.
It is true.
I am complaining.
I am hurt.
I made some mistakes.
I did some dumb things.
And you're right.
It is my fault.
I chose.
I chose to sell my channel.
I chose to give up the thing, not realizing, say, you know what?
This is my YouTube channel.
This is my life.
You can't come into my life and dictate to me and tell me what's better for me because you don't see it from my perspective.
And then get mad at me when I lose all of those things that I can't do and I can't do what you think I should do.
I've never been that way.
It's like you're trying to tell me to walk or run a lap or race with no legs.
You're trying to tell me to do something that I innately just cannot do.
And when I say I can't do that, it's just an excuse.
So I'm moving out.
In two weeks, I'll be moving out.
I'll have my own place again.
I'm starting over, starting my life over.
And you guys know I couldn't make videos in the house.
The only time I can make YouTube videos is when she's gone.
And you might be thinking, well, why is that?
She would come in here from my room and say, hey, you're too loud.
Hey, I'm trying to read.
I'm like, wait, what?
I got to talk.
I got to make a video.
I'm disturbing her and yes I'm venting and I'm ranting.
If you stayed this long, thank you.
If you didn't, it's okay.
But I needed to get this off my chest because it was brewing.
I am deeply hurt and I hurt myself.
I don't blame her at all.
Everything that I've chosen to do is because I wanted to do it.
I wanted to make someone happy.
I wanted to make, I thought I can be that person for someone else and I thought I can do it.
I thought I can get away from YouTube and Yu-Gi-Oh! and street performer.
I thought I can go back to school and pass and get a real job and make some good money to pay all my bills.
I thought I could be that man who could do those things.
But the truth is, I have special gifts and talents that other people wish they had to be able to pay and make money.
Okay, so I went to his channel because I was just curious about he was getting millions of views on this stuff.
I kind of wanted to see what he was doing.
So this was 11 years ago.
Let's see.
I'm going to take a dump my name.
I'm going to no more sell it down to you.
Also, he's going to come on.
We're going to interview him in a second.
And if you guys have questions for him, please put it in the Audacity Network chat.
I will read your questions.
And yeah, we can.
I was just kind of curious what he's doing now, so I thought I'd bring him on the show.
I'm going to dump, where you at?
We're just counterpunks to the gravy.
Or whenever you attack me, how much you boy at, 28?
No, 38.
38?
Okay, I do not understand this at all.
What?
Oh, okay.
My producer says he's playing a very competitive game.
Must be very impressive in the Yu-Gi-Oh.
Oh, he's one of the OGs.
Do you know his stuff?
No.
Oh, okay.
Oh, okay.
Yu-Gi-Oh! gone crazy.
Oh, hell yeah.
Like, look how happy he is.
I can't believe she made him give this up.
I'll take that right for you.
So, you took that.
You took.
What is that?
720?
I'm sick.
Okay.
Is he on yet or no?
He is okay.
You want to bring him up?
One second.
Yes, you can bring him up.
Hello?
Who left her?
I think it's, I think you're glitching a little bit.
I don't know.
Is that us or him?
Yeah, I think your Wi-Fi is glitching a little bit.
I'm not actually the one in the video doing anything.
I'm just the one filming the videos.
Oh, I thought this.
Okay.
I thought this was you like 10 years ago or something.
No, I look the same now as it did 10 years ago.
I have not changed my look.
Got it.
So you would go to these like Yu-Gi-Oh conventions or something and you would just film all of the like intents back and forth.
Is that like the premise of your channel?
No.
So if it's Yu-Gi-Oh! related, I'm posting it.
That was my motto.
So I was basically just a newscaster or broadcaster for the game of Yu-Gi-Oh!
Oh, so you were like a Yu-Gi-Oh news channel?
Sort of.
Sort of.
So that's really it.
So I'll go out, interview players, interview people who won tournaments.
I'll go to tournaments and meet people, meet fans, talk about the game, what their opinion is on the game, and upload it.
Okay.
And so when did you decide to give it all up?
How long were you?
Were you married at the time?
Were you dating the woman?
No.
I got married two years ago.
I was dating her six years before that.
So I met her a year before that.
So nine years ago from now is what?
2000?
2015.
15.
Okay.
And did she not know about the Yu-Gi-Oh stuff before?
She did not know, but I did bring her to the tournament.
That's one of the first things I still do that.
When I meet someone, I say, hey, let's go to a tournament.
Let me show you what I do.
So I brought her there and she was just disinterested at that time.
Okay, because I was just curious.
You know, it's one thing if you don't know what you're getting into, right?
But it seems like she knew about the Yu-Gi-Oh stuff before you guys were that serious, right?
Right.
Okay.
And how did the conversation start about you like stopping?
Like, how long into the relationship was it when she started bringing that up?
It was around the second year, but it wasn't about Yu-Gi-Oh!
I know Yu-Gi-Oh!
What my channel is about when I posted about Yu-Gi-Oh!
But it was the second year that we were together.
That thing, the topics about what are you doing with your life came up.
Yeah.
Did your ex, they want to know if your ex stole your router.
No, no, she's not a bad person, yeah, uh, as a whole, she's not a bad person at all.
Her intentions are actually good, and I just wanted to make that clear that you know, it wasn't a um heated divorce, nobody lost anything, it was neutral, and we both came to the conclusion that we just weren't for each other.
Yeah, it was just it's it didn't sound like you were trashing her, it sounded like you she was trying to make you into something you weren't.
Would you say that's true?
Did he drop?
Um, I can't hear you right now.
We'll give him a second, guys.
Put any questions you have in the chat.
I will read them to him.
Nothing rude or disrespectful, you know, don't nothing like that.
But if you have any questions about like what happened, and I'm more I was gonna ask him next about what he's doing now.
I see we got six people in the chat.
We got Peter Craig, EJ, Shanil, Yakov.
All you got to do is 10 bucks a month on the Audacity Network.
She wasn't getting 24-hour attention.
Yeah, everything on everything on my end.
Oh, I hear you now.
Now you're back.
I don't know.
Everything on my end just stopped.
I don't know.
Literally, I'm looking at my camera.
I see myself looking at myself frozen.
I don't know.
I mean, we'll just roll with it.
But like I was saying, I don't think it sounded like you were trashing her.
It sounded like she just wanted you to be something that you just couldn't be.
Right.
And I tried.
Yeah.
So what are you?
I think people are curious what you're doing now.
So like what when you gave up Yu-Gi-Oh, what did you end up like going to do?
And are you happy doing it?
Okay, can you hear me?
Yeah, I can hear you.
All right.
So my goal was, well, I took her ideas of hold on.
I took her ideas and I said, okay, I'll go back to school.
Well, I'm trying to put it in the timeline because in my video was the car first.
So I bought the car.
I took out a loan for that.
I went back to school.
This was Coppin State University in Baltimore for political science.
Didn't do so well there.
We talked about my passion and what I really, really wanted to do, which was music.
And I'm trying to put or combine what she wanted from me and what I wanted so we can both get the same thing.
I was trying to achieve her goal and my goal in one.
And so since I love music and she wants me to go back to school, let me go back to school for music.
So I changed my major to music and I went to Baltimore City Community College and changed my major to music.
And I went there and I didn't do so well there for my grandmother's house and our um I'll try school again.
So I tried Morgan State University, went there one week, ended up leaving that school because conflicts of interest.
I was starting to get older and there were things I had to do mandatory, like marching band, which I've done already while I was in high school.
I mean, college and high school the first time.
I didn't want to do that as I got older.
Marching band.
End up moving into my father's house.
This is the timeline.
And I just worked.
From that point on, I worked and I worked and I worked.
Until she wanted around the time, this is the sixth year in now, six years.
Her parents finally gave up the idea that, oh, he doesn't, he's okay.
You can marry him.
And so, oh, as soon as the parents gave me the LK, I worked, I worked, I saved up for the merge.
I paid for the merge.
We got married.
Great.
Now that we're married, conversation come up again.
What you going to do?
I go back to school.
So I went to Frederick Community College for music.
And then I started teaching as a long-term sub in Frederick County Public Schools.
And here we go, at the end of the eight years, I became a full-time staff member.
And there's no way I could have gone to school full-time and worked full-time and major in music.
There's no way I could have done it.
Because once I go to a four-year university, the classes are during the time that I work, unless I get a nighttime job, which I've been trying to do.
And I've been unsuccessful.
Okay, so now you're teaching full-time?
Yes.
Okay, and I'm just curious.
So before you were working three hours a day when you were doing YouTube?
Let me elaborate on that.
Monday through Thursday, I work three hours, winter until spring.
And then Saturday, Friday, Saturday, I would work up until, if it's not winter or spring, all day.
And Sunday wouldn't either be my day off or if I didn't reach my financial goals for that week, I would play on Sunday.
And you're saying the, is that a trumpet in your picture?
Just say flugel that I play.
I've never heard of that.
I've never heard of that, a flugel horn.
If it is a trumpet there, then that's fine.
But I play flugel horn.
Okay, so you would do that in the summer.
And were you, you don't have to say numbers, but were you making more doing the YouTube stuff than you ended up doing teaching?
I was making more playing my horn than teaching in YouTube.
Wow.
So you're doing pretty well then.
Yes.
So I know people say, oh, he's a street performer.
And they think that you're just someone on the street begging or whatever.
But that was a choice that I made.
I wanted to street perform.
Yeah.
But now I use street perform.
Oh, I'm a street performer, but I was also a DJ.
And I also had a band and we did shows.
And people hired me for weddings and solo events.
So street performing was the base, was at the base level for me.
But that led to other things for me.
That's how I passed out my business cards.
That's how I promoted myself.
Well, it seems like you're really happy.
That seems like a great way to.
So, are you going to move back to Baltimore now and start street performing again?
I still street perform.
Okay.
And I'm not going to go back to Baltimore right now because I'm financially not ready to move there.
So I have a plan.
To go back to your question, I made about $1,000 a week.
Okay.
That's not bad.
Consistently across the year.
Okay.
So in the summertime, of course, that was more.
I would make $1,000 just on the weekend.
So for those three hours, I played Monday through Thursday, which is between $150 and $500 a day.
And then Friday, Saturday, Sunday, just $1,000.
It's usually more than that, but I've just, I averaged it out throughout the year as $1,000 a week.
Okay.
But I just, were you making more doing that than the teaching stuff now?
Yeah, that's true.
Okay.
So it's almost like you gave it up to make, it must be pretty frustrating.
You give it up to do something you don't like as much to make less.
I do like teaching.
Okay, you do.
So going back to what I talked about earlier, finding the middle ground between what she wants for me and what works for me was how I thought was going to bridge us together.
And so teaching and going back to school for music was one of them.
I only, I'm a substitute teacher because I have enough credits, college credits to do that, but not enough to be a music teacher.
Oh.
Okay.
Yes.
So what are your plans now?
Okay.
So I'm in the process of moving out.
My first plan was to find a second job, which I did.
I worked at the RPT, which is a registered behavioral technician, where I help kids with autism or ADHD, dyslexia, things like that.
So school during the day, teaching between four and seven.
Today I took off because of Thanksgiving.
So my goal was to save as much money, move out cheap, as cheap as possible, where I can still do what I need to do, save all my money, build my credit back up to where it was, and then get my own place again.
My own.
When I say my own, it's just me and my own stuff and build myself back up.
Because before I met her, I had two bedrooms, two bath apartment.
I was had all new furniture.
I was great.
That was fantastic.
And then you got into debt from school, I'm guessing.
Say it again.
And then you got into like a less, a worse financial place because of going to school.
Yes, because I don't really have control over my finances.
For example, if I'm playing my horn, the level of control is what place I go to, how many people are out there.
I can pick and choose which place, like Washington, D.C. The Inner Harbor, Baltimore City.
And I play well enough where people are like, you shouldn't be out here, dude.
Here.
You shouldn't be out here.
And I dress nice.
I make sure I get my hair cut.
I wear a suit.
I play my horn.
I treat people nice.
And people tip me for that.
So my plan is just to get back to where I was eight years ago, financially and credit-wise, and then build myself from there.
Okay.
Well, I'm happy to hear it.
It sounds like you're in good spirits through it all, right?
Yeah, yeah, I am.
Because even though the divorce happened in May, the healing process, or for me, and the realization of what's been going on started way before that.
It started, if I would say it started even before I got married, and I still went through with things.
Wait, so who filed?
Did she file or did you file?
I filed.
Okay.
I filed.
But it was neutral.
Okay.
There's a lot more to go into this.
Culture-wise, she's from Kenya.
I'm from Baltimore.
She's Kenya's in Africa.
Oh, that makes the degree thing make a lot of sense.
I was curious if they really care about that.
Yeah.
Let me feed you more context then.
Yeah.
They believe in education.
Yeah.
They believe in religion heavily.
Now that you got that out the way, that is also.
I have moments where I forget what I'm about to say.
Education and religion.
Also, for the wedding, normally in America, who pays for the wedding?
The guy.
The guy pays for the wedding in America?
I think so.
Yeah.
Okay.
Let's say that.
Yes, I paid for the wedding.
Okay.
If I can save $60,000 in two years to pay for the wedding, why can't I be able to?
These are things that come in my head.
Why wasn't I able to provide?
Why couldn't I?
You spent $60,000 on a wedding?
Yes.
If I, and I'm going to give you some more context.
I don't want to keep rambling, but I'm trying to let you see more inside.
I don't get along with my family at all.
When I say get along, it's not like it's more like we don't talk.
And I talked to my ex-wife at the time.
I said, let's have a small wedding because I don't want to invite my family.
I don't want to go through that process of trying to invite people who don't know me.
When I say don't know me, if you come to me and say, hey, and you call me some other name, I'm like, dude, my name is Shafest.
It's been years.
Or you come to me and say, hey, how's your saxophone plan going?
I'm like, wait, I've been playing since I was 10 and I played trumpet, and you're telling me I play sack.
Those are the type of people I don't want to invite to my wedding who don't know me.
But I had to invite people to the wedding.
Like it was her way.
To me, it was her way or nothing.
That's what it felt like.
No matter how much I talked or how much I pleaded.
And some people will say, hey, I was just being a pushover and I didn't put my foot down enough.
But I just sorry, go ahead.
I just wish that someone that she just listened to me and saw me and said, okay, this is going to be my husband.
Let me focus on us and not, you know, my religion, what my family thinks, the projections that she puts on me based on how she was raised.
Just us and grow together for us so we can be successful for each other and not for the world or other people.
Yeah.
There's a couple questions in the chat that people have for you.
Okay.
They want to know what did you have in common with her?
We both wanted, this is going to sound stupid.
Of course we both, everyone wants a relationship, or at least a good majority of people.
We believe in the idea of love.
Like we, we have our mindset of what love is and what that entails.
We both want a family and the normal stuff that people would want.
Family, kids, pay your bills.
It's very basic, basic things there.
As far as the word in common, as in the normal sense, you read the same books.
Do you watch the same shows?
Do you go to the same places?
Not much of those.
She's a book reader.
I'm not a book reader.
I like scary movies.
She don't.
She likes action movies.
I like action movies.
But we didn't really have much in common as in.
It was like, oh, wow.
That was spark people.
That people like to use that as a way to get together with someone.
They want to know.
Sorry, go ahead.
They want to know also when you first started to feel inadequate to her.
The second year after we started dating.
And here's why.
We were just friends and we were just going out and dating.
And then after the second year, I was like, maybe I should turn up the relationship because I'm the type, I'm not pushy.
I'm not, I didn't try to have sex with her or do anything with her.
So the second year, I was like, we've been together for the second year.
Maybe we should turn this thing up.
But that's when we had to talk.
She wanted to wait till merge.
And I was like, can I really do this?
Can I wait?
How old was she?
She's 25.
Was she virgin?
Yes.
Are you sure?
Yes.
Okay.
25?
Did you go to college?
Yes.
She went to college?
Yes, and she has a master's degree.
She's.
Yes.
Okay.
So we had to, and I was like, wait till merge?
Knowing myself?
Yeah.
I'm like, maybe, maybe I could.
Yeah.
Maybe I could.
Well, it sounds like you're kind of going with what she wanted.
Yes, that's true.
Yeah.
And so then it became, what can I do since we have to wait till merge?
So I started to touch her and she was like, oh, no, no.
We couldn't touch her.
She couldn't stay tonight.
We couldn't do anything.
And knowing myself, that was the first time.
Not that I felt inadequate for her, but I was, that was the first instance I was letting something that I like go for her.
But it was waiting until marriage, you know.
Maybe I could do that.
Wait, and how long?
You guys dated for like seven years, right?
Six years.
Wow.
They also want to know, ask him if he forgave his mother.
Did you forgive your mother?
Forgive her mother?
No, your mother.
I don't know.
My mother is dead.
Sorry.
They just, I don't know.
My mother died two years ago.
Okay.
I'm sorry to hear that.
Sorry.
They don't know.
They put it in the chat.
Juggle with those.
Yeah.
Okay.
Well, I'm really glad to hear you're doing better.
Where can they, where can they find you?
Just type in your Yu-Gi-Oh channel.
Or you can type in my name.
My name is spelled J-A-P-H-E-T-H.
And my last name is C-L-A-R-K.
You'll find a lot of things about me on the internet.
I was arrested for street performing.
I'm going to court for that.
That's crazy.
You're arrested for street performing.
Yes, you should see the videos all over Reddit.
It's crazy.
Okay.
I'll look it up.
I got a lot of stuff going on.
It's crazy.
Well, thanks for coming on.
And I know there's a couple people I think that want to have you on in the manosphere.
So I'm sure you'll get some emails.
We'll see.
We'll see.
I just want to be able to tell a story in a way where I'm not blaming her for anything.
Yeah.
Because I'm not the type of person who puts someone down.
Yeah.
Yeah.
Yeah, I can tell.
I don't think anyone gets that impression.
So thank you very much for coming on.
Okay, guys.
So the next story we're going to talk about today is the Conor McGregor case.
So I recently started researching the Connor McGregor case, and I wanted to know what incentive does a man as rich, powerful, and famous as Connor McGregor have to assault somebody.
So recently, Conor McGregor was accused of, I don't know if I can say it on YouTube, but grape, let's say.
And Connor McGregor is a world-famous superstar.
He's worth hundreds of millions of dollars.
He's married.
He has four kids.
And allegedly, actually, this was confirmed by both of them around six years ago, he received a message from a woman named Nikita.
And Nikita sent him provocative pictures of her in a sexy dress.
Now, who is Nikita?
Nikita was somebody that he knew, I think, through mutual friends.
And apparently, she had a boyfriend and a child at home.
Now, he picks up Nikita.
They go out.
They are partying.
It was like a three-day bender, but I think she was at the end of this bender.
And they're partying all night, drinking.
And he ends up taking her back to the hotel room with his friend and one of her friends.
Now, they're doing drugs, they're drinking.
This is like a three-day bender, right?
And I want to talk about some of the.
And after this happens, she is, she accuses Connor McGrabbiger of rape.
Now, I listen to many people go over this case, and I want to talk about the facts that are not too good for Nikita and the ones that are not too good for Connor.
So, number one, she sent him a sexual picture in a dress.
I don't know, I mean, to me, if you're sending sexual pictures to a guy with your boobs out and in provocative poses, to me, that signals that you want to have sex, right?
She had a boyfriend.
She had a child at home.
Connor's friend, I guess, also had sex with her that night consensually.
So not only did this woman have sex with Connor, but she also had sex with Connor's friend.
She was lying to her boyfriend about where she was the whole night and having in she and typing in-depth essays to him.
She says there are parts of the night that she doesn't remember.
For example, Connor's friend having sex with her.
It's pretty convenient.
I don't know.
And to me, but magically, she remembers Connor McGrauger graping her allegedly.
There's CCTV footage showing Nikita all over both of the guys.
Her friend actually testified against her.
The security guard that was with them all night said that he didn't see anything.
And she was very drunk doing Coke.
Now, this court was, this case was done in civil court.
And civil court is different than criminal court.
Criminal court is based on a preponderance of the evidence.
It means basically that you have to be over 90% sure that the person did it.
Unfortunately, in the UK, I learned about a system called the balance of probabilities.
Now, balance of probabilities means that it is more likely that they did it than not, meaning it's 51%.
And I've seen this get abused in family court year over year over year.
Now, he did have a jury trial, and it was eight women and four men.
I think that kind of worked against him in this case.
Now, there were some facts that I have to say did, I mean, could look bad, right?
One is that there is a tampon wedged in her vagina very far up, and I guess it had to be like surgically taken out.
And the second is that the doctor said that she had pretty bad bruising on her.
Now, my question is: if she's super drunk and doing Coke, what else was she doing that night?
She already had sex with two different guys.
So do we know the bruising is for sure from Connor McGregor?
And not only that, she proceeded to spend time with both of the men after.
So if I don't know about you ladies, but if I was assaulted by a man, you want to get away from him as soon as possible.
The next question is: if he really was that vicious towards her, I mean, how is she not dead?
Doesn't he beat up men for a living?
Like, how is she alive?
So, anyways, today I have a special guest coming on.
We have Private Eye Russ.
Hello, welcome to the show.
And he is going to talk about how Connor McGregor, I mean, I think to the average person, this would be a cut and dry case to me.
Like, this is not guilty.
I don't even know how we got a guilty plea.
And, like, I want to know how did he find himself in this situation?
And what can men do to protect themselves?
Well, thank you very much for having me on again, Pearl.
As usual, you're killing it.
Your production quality is outstanding.
And so I've got a high bar to try to reach.
So the Connor McGregor case is, unfortunately, I've worked on a bunch of grape accusations and every single one I worked on turned out to be a false accusation.
Now, that's not to say that there aren't valid accusations, but the men that I helped defend had the wherewithal to protect themselves with excellent legal counsel.
They hired me as well, too.
And so, Conor McGregor, see, men like Conor McGregor, wealthy, famous, super famous guys.
He's what you call an ultra high net worth individual.
Anybody with a net worth over $20 million is considered ultra high net worth, right?
If you're an ultra high net worth individual and you're not famous and no one knows who you are, you can go out in public and have fun and do whatever you want.
When you're Conor McGregor, when you're a famous individual, you put yourself at risk in a very significant way.
I used to wonder why wealthy people, some of the clients I work for for executive protection, would only go to really expensive clubs, exclusive places.
It's because they don't want to deal with the general public, not because they don't like the general public, but because of the risk of liability or the potential for liability.
I'll give you an example.
One of the guys who trained me how to do executive protection work so many years ago, a man named Clifford Stewart.
Clifford Stewart worked for Larry Flint after he got shot.
He was on his protection detail.
He worked for a bunch of famous people, James Garner, but also too, Mr. T, also the members of the Saudi royal family.
So people would ask, why would Mr. T need a bodyguard, especially in the 80s?
Mr. T was a tough guy.
You know what I mean?
Big guy, martial artist, fighter, all the rest.
That liability.
If somebody walks up to Mr. T and starts a fight, Mr. T hits them.
That just costs Mr. T half a million dollars because they are going to sue.
So Conor McGregor had no business being in the position he was in.
I'm not saying whether or not I think he was guilty or innocent.
It doesn't really matter now because he's got to pay not a significant amount of money considering the charges against him.
It's like $260,000, I think.
And American $250,000, 250,000 euros.
But he winds up in this position because a couple of different things.
One, lack of discipline, lack of self-control, lack of accountability.
The people on his team should have been steering him in a different direction.
So if you have an alcohol and a drug problem and you're out with a woman and you're both under the influence of drugs and alcohol, if there is an accusation, typically that should be a wash, right?
They should be about equal if there's equal protection under the law, right?
In theory.
But we already know if you're a man and you're being accused by a woman, even though you're both under the influence, you are going to be automatically considered to be the villain or the predator.
She's going to automatically be considered the victim, no matter what.
So imagine it from this standpoint.
Whether he did anything wrong or not, I think if you look at the court documents, they kind of speak for themselves, but I won't say anything that's going to get you in trouble with the YouTube overlords.
But the more you look into it, the more it looks a little bit off, let's just say.
So the key is don't get yourself in that position in the first place.
All right.
So I've come across women that were very, you know, under the influence and very flirty, even aggressively, you know, pursuing me sexually.
You know what I do?
I walk away.
Why?
Because I know that's trouble.
But for me to do that, I have to be sober.
You see what I'm saying?
So I have to be sober and in control of my faculties so I don't make that decision in the first place.
Because once you get in that position, think of it like this.
If you're innocent, once you're accused of grape grape, once you're accused of that, imagine you're in you're 10 foot in a 10-foot hole in the ground, and you've got to now dig yourself out with a spoon while people shovel dirt on top of you.
It's an incredibly difficult task.
We've been able to do it.
We've been able to do it every time we've embarked on that particular thing.
And I haven't had the privilege of working with some really good attorneys.
But there's a correlation to this, so bear with me.
So people wonder sometimes why the same women or stars or celebrities wind up going out with the same women over and over.
You see it again: this woman's dating this guy, then she's dating this guy, then this guy, then this guy.
They're like, why?
Why are they dating the same woman?
They're dating the same woman because she has been either partially or completely vetted.
She's a woman who can be trusted around a person who has that much wealth, that much power, that much fame.
And so she's proven not to be a thief.
That's one of those things.
She's proven not to be a person who's going to speak out of turn or pillow talk.
That's another thing.
And she's not trying to embarrass them.
That's why some of these guys will go out with the same women.
That's part of the reason why Drake is meant to steal your girl.
You know, like, number one, keep your girl away from Drake away from Drake because Drake is Drake is ruthless.
But part of the reason for that is these women have been already pre-selected, pre-chosen, and pre-strained.
You know what I'm saying?
So, Conor McGregor, and I've worked with some very wealthy, famous people, people that can't do things that ordinary people can do.
So, I'll give you an example, not names.
I'll give you any names, anything like that.
But I had a client that was so famous and so wealthy, he had a car guy.
The car guy filled the car, the cars with gas.
Why?
He couldn't go to a gas station.
If he went to a gas station, not that anybody's trying to hurt him, but he's so famous, he would be mobbed, and it would be, it would create a dangerous situation from there.
And if somebody was hurt in that crush, he would be sued because he would seem to be responsible.
So, when you have that much money and you represent that much wealth and that much earning potential, your life is no longer your own.
So, once you reach, like, say, a C-suite position, right?
And I've worked for many C-suite individuals as well, too, in temporary jobs.
Um, they're not just representing themselves and their family anymore, they're representing their corporate interests, their shareholders.
They have their answer answerable to the board of directors.
Conor McGregor's answerable to all these people, he's answerable to his employees, the people who work for him.
You know, this is a man who's worth more than I think $150 million or something like that.
An incredible amount of wealth for a guy who started out punching people in the face for a living, you know.
And so, to have that much, you have so much responsibility that goes along with it.
Um, so that $260,000 is a drop in the well compared to what he's going to lose going forward into the future.
So, we're talking about brand ambassadorships are walking away from him.
Um, you know, he's the face of so many different companies, including his alcohol brand.
All these things are in jeopardy now because of poor decision making.
And, um, you know, look, I've worked for wealthy guys that had issues, whether it was drug or drugs or substance issues.
And we've been assigned to, you know, I actually have guys now that when they call me, typically they'll call me when they're in trouble.
Hey, I need you to come get me.
Um, I went out with some some uh some exotic dancers, took them back to a hotel room.
They took all my clothes, my watch, my money, my car, my Lamborghini's gone, and I'm here in the hotel naked.
Can you bring me some clothes and pick me up and track down my stuff?
Uh, and and so they have those, but these aren't guys that are well known, they're wealthy, but they're not well known.
Conor McGregor, you know, And again, I try to tell guys this, there is no equal protection under the law.
Okay.
If you're a man and you're in that position, the presumption is that you are guilty.
And now, instead of the way our criminal justice system is supposed to work, where the burden of proof is on the accuser, now the burden of proof is on the accused, which is the opposite of what it should be.
But when it comes to this sort of thing, you're automatically going to be seen to be the bad guy.
Would it have been better for him to use escorts?
Wouldn't that have like solved this in a way?
If he was going to cheat, it might as well and party and go out.
Wouldn't it have better?
Aren't there women paid to do that?
Yes, there are.
There are women who do this.
And again, people vilify them, but escorting sex work, whatever it might be, or eggs work, sorry, is the world's oldest profession for a reason.
And so I had a debate with a politician not too long ago, a couple of years ago, not the one I've photographed, I was photographed with in South Florida, another politician.
So they were pro-choice, but they were anti-sex work.
And so, well, she was anti-men paying for it, not women selling it.
So, you know, going try to figure out the hypocrisy there.
But my argument to her was this: okay, why are you pro-choice?
Well, I think it's a woman's body.
She has a right to choose.
Okay, so a woman can choose to abort a fetus, kill a baby, whatever you want to call it.
All right.
But why can't that same woman choose to sell her body for money?
There you go.
And I got silenced back in return.
And so there's a lot of hypocrisy.
There's a lot of double standard that goes on in the legal realm and so many other things that men are up against.
And so when I hear people talk about, especially feminists, talk about this vast patriarchy that's holding them down.
And most of them don't know what they're talking about.
But, you know, if this was a patriarchy, we have so many laws that only benefit women.
We'd be the worst patriarchy in the history of patriarchies.
So many laws are anti-male and pro-female.
And again, Conor McGregor, will he appeal this?
The best thing he could do is just pay this off and still try to try to clear his name the best he can.
But the legal system over there was so stacked against him.
The judge was disallowing or ordering the jury to ignore evidence that would have cast even further doubt on the victim story.
I think it was the prime minister or the president of Ireland was sending her encouraging text messages.
The fix was in.
The fix was in again.
And even with his vast wealth, he still, you know, look, you can't fight City Hall, even when you're super, super rich.
And so he should have been, you know, look, some guys, and it seems like he has some substance issues, possibly.
Some guys need handling, you know, and again, I've handled, I've been, you know, a handler for people that had issues, brilliant people, incredible at earning money, but their demons would sometimes push them over the edge.
And my job was to grab them and pull them back, pull them back off that precipice.
And he needs people that are not going to enable him or help facilitate his downward spiral, but to put the brakes on it and give him alternatives.
And escort probably would have, you know, probably would have made life easier.
And, you know, again, it's about vetting, but he's got so much money that, you know, pay somebody to go out with you.
Would have been easier.
So, yeah, I think so.
And again, there's a stigma against escorts, but they've been around forever for a very good reason.
Well, and how is it different than I mean, that woman was going to sleep with her boyfriend in the next week, you know?
So I know it's, I know it's, it's kind of like some guys see it as gross, but I mean, a slut's going to be doing the same thing, you know?
Yeah.
Yeah, pretty much.
And, you know, so, so again, you know, I, I, um, I made this, this comparison before.
Women make the best they make the best spies.
They make the best hitmen.
They're the best at setting people up because people automatically want to trust them and trust their story.
And so that same ability to appear innocent helps them.
And, you know, again, I don't, you know, I'm not angry at, you know, people shouldn't be angry at women, but men shouldn't be angry at women because this is just the nature of things.
So don't be naturally angry.
It's like, you know, okay, my dog barks.
He cleans himself.
Usually he cleans himself when I'm on a conference call in a really loud, obnoxious.
This is just what happens.
I'm not comparing women to dogs.
That's not a sound bad.
That was bad.
That's not what I'm doing.
Please don't cancel me.
But what I'm saying is that's just the nature.
And so you have to understand their nature.
And I've posted this in one of my ex-stories.
I think men have been the victim of the Disney princess and Prince Charming narrative more than women have.
The damsel in distress, because there are more men that are attacking and vilifying Connor McGregor than there are women.
No, I saw that.
I couldn't actually believe.
I like Jake Paul, but I saw a tweet from him calling Connor a rapist.
And I just thought, do the men believe this?
I'm like, well, I understand the bruising, maybe.
Maybe it was pretty intense bruising, but we don't know if she hit herself.
We don't know how.
We don't know if she fell down a flight of stairs.
She's on Coke.
She says she doesn't remember having sex with another man.
What else does she not remember?
Yeah, precisely.
But this is precisely why he should have been away from that in the first place.
But a lot of guys that will jump on board that will do that as a means of virtue signal.
They'll virtue signal because they want to get the Adaboy and the pat on the head.
And it's unfortunate, but there are guys, Jake Paul is, he's a social media guy.
So he understands the value of what he's saying and what stories he's putting out there.
Obviously, he's a master of social media.
And so he understands that that's part of something that's going to be in his favor as far as likes and clicks and views and people watching his, you know, the BS fixed fights.
If you watch that Mike Tyson fight, that was fixed.
That was fixed.
Love Mike, but that was a fixed fight.
But he understands this stuff and he understands how to work the crowd.
So do a bunch of other guys.
There are some guys who believe it because, again, they've gotten this Disney.
And I remember there was a post, a tweet out where someone was asking, if you saw a woman in a fight with a man, would you intercede?
It depends.
Remember, I used to be a cop.
And so I'd say about 70% of the domestic violence calls I went on, the violence was initiated by the woman.
She called a cop after she called the cops after she started getting her behind kicked.
The women that were really getting battered and beaten by guys, unfortunately, were the women who rarely called the cops.
It was usually somebody else who called the cops.
Well, most of the cops, most of the calls we got was a woman hit a guy and he hit her back.
Then she called the cops.
And so, and you know, as far as the thing with the tampon, I've actually, I actually know, I actually know a woman that happened to.
She put one in and then she forgot and she put another one in.
And the only reason I know about it was because she asked me to help her extricate him.
And I was like, no, thanks.
No, no thanks anyway.
But you know, like, that does happen.
It's rare.
And, you know, I don't know what part of that story, what part of her story that was supposed to support.
I really don't know.
What is she saying?
That Conor McGregor has a unit the size of an arm.
I don't know.
I don't get it.
The story seems telling.
It seemed like that.
What was when I was listening to the court reporter talk?
It seemed like they were convinced by the doctors.
That was the big thing, that the doctor's statements were very convincing.
Well, yeah, but the doctor's statement is a very, you know, very linear and a certain lane.
Okay, they can say, yes, she showed bruising and this happened.
Did the doctor see Conor McGregor or his friend perform an activity that would have caused that?
No.
But the sensationalism of a doctor, and this was genius on the prosecution side, or the plaintiff side, I should say, the introduction of the doctor giving testimony in this dramatic way.
It's like this Perry Mason moment where like, oh my goodness, this happened to her and that happened to her.
And it makes it seem a lot more dramatic.
And I'm sure whatever happened to her, you know, who can help you dig your way out of that hole.
Why didn't he call you?
Why didn't he?
You know what?
I, you know, I'm available.
I would have flown over to Ireland.
They speak English barely.
And so, you know, it's unfortunate, you know, because you're dealing with a set of circumstances where someone is saying, okay, this happened to me.
And look, I'm not a calloused individual.
Look, before I worked the first great accusation case I ever worked, the attorney that put me on that case, I'd worked for him doing a bunch of other criminal defense stuff before.
And when he told me about it, you know, he said, look, I know you're squeamish about this.
And I said, what is it?
And he said, well, this guy's accused of this.
And I was like, ah, I'm not interested.
He said, look, just look at the evidence and let me know what you think.
And as I looked at the evidence more and more, I was like, wait a second.
So here in Florida, the cases I've worked on, and in all of the cases, law enforcement did no investigation.
There was no investigation before these men were arrested and accused.
So the accuser went in and said, this person did this to me.
They said, okay, let's go get him.
And he was arrested and perk walked.
They were rested and perk walked in front of their family, friends, and their peers at work with no evidence supporting it.
And so we had to find evidence to disprove it.
And again, unless you understand the dynamics of how to get that information, how to extract that information from people and how to go about pursuing it, you're, you know, like that, that line at the end of one of my favorite movies of all time, Blade.
Some Emma Ephers are always trying to ice skate uphill.
And you're literally going to be trying to ice skate uphill.
And again, a man with, and we go back to his wealth, a man with Connor McGregor's wealth and fame shouldn't be dealing with people like this and where he's going for a guy in that position.
You know, so now, so he's going to lose money with brand ambassadorships, endorsements, those are going to be gone.
You know, he's got to pay the money he has to pay.
But also, too, he had political aspirations in Ireland.
Those are probably out the window.
Yeah.
And so, you know, so there's so many different things.
You know, if he had political opponents that were worried about him, you know, running up behind them and catching up to them, this was a perfect opportunity to wipe him off the board.
And if anybody thinks that people are going to go to any length when it comes to politics, I've done political work, I've done opposition research.
Man, you want to talk about knife fight?
That's when the knives and claws and fangs come out, and anything goes.
And so, if I were Mr. McGregor going forward, I would number one, I would probably go to rehab.
He probably needs rehab.
People have been speculating a long time that he's, you know, he hasn't been sober for a very, very long time.
He's probably going to rehab just for his own sake.
Number two, fire your team, whoever your team is, they haven't served you well.
You need a team that's going to tell you, no, you can't do this.
No, we can't do that.
No, we have to do this instead.
No, we have to do that.
And then, if you need to, hire a professional, hire a professional, you know, but you know, he's a married guy.
You know, I get it.
He doesn't want, you know, he's kind of got to walk that type of and he's got children, but you know, you know, he's, he's, he's got to revamp his whole system.
And with his fame, he probably might be able to rebuild because of how much money was awarded.
So if it was in the United States of America, um, especially a case like this, when it comes to a lot of money, somebody wealthy, famous, famous, uh, Gloria Allred would have been on the case 100%.
She would have been on that case.
And once Gloria Allred gets on that case, you better get out your checkbook.
You're going to pay some money.
You're going to.
She's really, really good at what she does, you know.
But the fact that she was only awarded the equivalent of about $250,000, that for me raised a lot of red flags as well, too, because, okay, you know, and remember, the burden of proof is, you know, the standard of proof for conviction or judgment in this case is less than it is in the criminal court.
And the criminal court is beyond the shadow of a doubt, or supposed to be.
And in civil court, the threshold is much, much, much lower.
Oh, well, maybe he did it.
So let's give an award of some monetary value.
But she only got $250,000.
If that same case had taken place in the States, it would have been in the millions.
It would have been much, much more.
So he might be able to rebuild from this, but I would say the first thing he needs to do is do the usual mea culpas where he goes to rehab and then puts out a statement, you know, with his wife next to him and his kids with him, doing the Hallmark moments.
You know, I want to be a better man and this and that, and then try to rebuild from there.
But with the image he has, with the trouble he's gotten into over the years, your reputation follows you.
That's why brand management is so important.
That's what we talked about before: how men have to vet their women like you would a brand ambassador, like a corporation or a corporate entity would a brand ambassador.
It's part of your image.
I know guys out there will say, and women out there will say, I don't have a brand.
Yes, you do.
And you either control the construction of your brand or someone else will control it for you.
So a guy like Conor McGregor, he was involved in an incident where a man, an old man, didn't accept a drink from him.
And Connor McGregor punched the guy, like an elderly guy.
And it's like, so his image is such that, you know, probably the jury looked at it and said, well, you know, maybe he didn't do it, but I could see him doing it.
You know, the evidence doesn't look really good, but I could see him doing it because, I mean, look, I mean, you know, for the most part, he seems like a jerk, you know, to most people.
I'm sure he's great to his family, but he's done so many things in the public eye that hurt his image so much.
You know, frankly, I'm surprised he hasn't been hit with a significant judgment before this.
So what were his, okay, the three-day bender, the alcohol, the strange woman.
Was there any other mistakes he made in this process?
Yeah.
Well, yeah, I mean, there's a laundry list of mistakes he made.
Number one, he shouldn't have been there in the first place.
Number two, if you got a buddy that hangs with you and he facilitates this sort of behavior, knowing what you stand to lose, your friend would not let you or should not let you do this, considering what you stand to lose.
Now, he's obviously got an alcohol and it seems like he has a drug problem.
That's your biggest problem.
If you're a man and you're out of control, you're going to be held accountable.
Most women, unusual, in most cases, when it comes to the woman's not going to be held accountable.
They're not.
And so the man is going to be held accountable.
You can't be out of control like that.
Number two, control your communication with people.
And so, you know, there should have been a lot more accountability as far as her being given the opportunity to vocalize or put in writing somewhere and text messages that she consented to this.
And there are contracts that people have, sexual activity, consent forms and things of that nature.
I know it seems far-fetched and people think that's a lot to go through.
I've met women personally.
And so when I meet women, there's no alcohol involved.
There's no alcohol.
Meeting women for drinks is the worst idea on the face of the earth.
Why?
Because there's a thing called what I call the retroactive grape charge.
So the retroactive grape charge can usually be triggered by regret, guilt, or in some instances, the promise of financial reward.
So if we look back in time and we examine the Kobe Bryant incident in Colorado, a good friend of mine was friends with the young lady that made the accusation.
After she, after supposedly he forced himself on her, she had consensual eggs with, I think, four other guys.
They found the DNA of four of the men in her underwear, none of it, Kobe Bryant's.
But what happened was this.
She was bragging to people at a party.
This was all testified that, oh, hey, I hooked up with Kobe Bryant.
You know, this is after he's, you know, and laughing at high-fiving people, that sort of thing.
And so, and, and, and, and, you know, and so people are so quick to just say, okay, the guy must have been guilty.
Well, you know, my burden and my curse as an investigator is I look at the evidence.
I don't, I take my feelings out of things and look at the objective evidence.
It was settled out of court.
He settled for millions of dollars.
Why?
Because that was the most expedient way to go forward.
So whenever you see a star settling, it doesn't necessarily mean that they're guilty.
I'm just speaking just from an objective standpoint.
It just means that it's the easiest way to go forward to put everything to bed instead of dragging everything out in court.
Look at the lengths Johnny Depp had to go through to prove himself innocent.
But now, guess what?
But again, and I've said this before, being wealthy is like having a superpower.
Right.
If he didn't have the money to afford the legal representation he had and the investigators he had, he would still have this stain over his head.
People still want to blame him, even though it was found that she made up the story.
So how common is this to happen to average men?
Because, you know, I've sort of, me being me, when there's like men that I know or friends with relatives, I'll say things like, you know, maybe get like ring cameras in your apartment just in case, you know, because you never know.
But most men have the impression this won't happen to them.
I'm not rich.
I'm not famous.
And would you say that is warranted?
Well, here's what I would say when it comes to that.
There's no way they say the occurrence of false grape accusations is less than 10%.
Well, you know, how do you really quantify that?
Because if a guy can't afford an attorney, he can't afford an investigator.
How many guys are in jail right now that are innocent, but that couldn't afford to prove themselves, you know, couldn't afford to prove that they were innocent.
And so what I would tell guys is this: it doesn't matter if you're wealthy, it's not always about financial reward.
Sometimes it's about guilt.
Sometimes it's about shame or embarrassment.
You know, like they, you know, their friends find out, oh, you hooked up with that, with that fat, hairy, ugly dude at the bar.
Oh, that's nasty.
Oh, well, I didn't mean to do anything with him.
He just took it.
And I've actually worked on cases where that has happened to guys.
And so what I would tell guys is this, and this protects the women as well, too.
You know, before anybody accuses me of being misogynist, whatever.
So get confirmed consent.
Get a positive or definite yes that they want to engage in in physical activity.
Years ago, you could just, you know, like you could meet a woman or your guy or whatever, however you, however you go, and you could go out and one thing led to another and it would just people just kind of go with the float, right?
You can't do that anymore.
You have to get a positive yes.
I've actually met women for coffee and I actually have a an exual activity consent form.
And I'm like, look, do you see this getting physical at some point?
Yes.
And literally, I'll give it to them in an envelope when you have time, review this, sign it.
I'm not even kidding.
I know.
Look, look, I'm so paranoid about these things.
I actually tell people that I'm actually cursed, I think.
You know what I mean?
And I've had women say to me, Are you serious?
Yes, I am quite serious.
This protects you.
This protects you and it protects me as well.
And so, you know, and I've only had one woman object to signing and filling out the sexual activity consent form.
And guess what?
Didn't see her again.
And why?
Because, you know, look, I'm not going to engage with someone who may in the future want to do something like that.
And as well as saving text messages, because here's the thing: women will save every bit of correspondence you have, every text message you have, they will save it.
They'll record phone calls.
They'll save emails.
And so having that consent form, that's just one piece in the puzzle to protect yourself.
Next, don't meet women for alcohol.
Why?
You have to look at it from this standpoint.
When we talk about consent, right?
Here's what guys need to keep in mind.
You cannot consent if you are not in the right mind to also be able to sign a contract, a legally binding contract.
So if that person, if a drunk person shows up at a closing for a piece of property, the closing agent is going to cancel that closing and reschedule for another day.
Why?
Because that contract can be invalidated because it's not in their right mind.
Are they of legal age?
That's obviously that's the first thing.
Otherwise, you're in real trouble.
Are they of sound mind and body?
Are they under coercion or duress?
You know, you see what I'm coming from?
So if they can't legally consent, so meaning if they're under the influence of alcohol or drugs, there is no consent.
Now, I can't, I also can't consent, but nobody cares about men.
Nobody cares whether or not we consent.
It's all about whether or not the woman consents.
And so, and again, I'm not going to go back and forth about whether that's right or wrong.
I think we can all draw a very reasonable conclusion about the The fairness of that, but as men, you have to protect yourself.
So, that's where I would start if I were men.
Um, avoid those women who go out and are really, really, really easy.
Um, and and you know, women that are drunk and throwing themselves at you, yeah, sure, that might be an easy way to go, but um, you know, you could pay a price for it later on down the line, and it's incredibly hard for you to prove that you didn't, especially if she couldn't consent.
Uh, and so, from a male standpoint, guys have to stop being so cavalier.
Oh, every single guy I helped defend probably thought the same thing until they were literally arrested and perk walked and put in handcuffs and taken to jail and accused of grape.
And so, you look at the consequences of being arrested, and even if you're not convicted, so your reputation is shattered, it's done, you know.
So, if you if you google these guys' names, it'll show that they were arrested for eggs or battery, right?
Which here in Florida, that's the statute for grape.
And so, most people don't have the wherewithal or the skill or the knowledge to look further and say, Okay, what really happened?
I know how to do that, but most people don't.
So, their reputations are screwed.
Most people, when they hear that, just hearing the accusation is enough for most people to want to destroy you and burn your house, whether you're guilty or not.
People don't wait for a guilty verdict, they just hey, you're accused.
We had that hashtag believe all women thing.
Remember that?
Yeah, um, you know, and instead, that should be replaced with hashtag analyzed.
Believe no women, believe no, believe no women.
Trust the evidence, trust the evidence in front of you instead of just an individual's word.
Because, uh, how many women, like there was a colonel in the army that wound up having to get out of the army because he was accused of a um he was about to make general, I don't remember the guy's name, and he was accused of a woman he knew from the from the uh military academy of forcing himself on her.
Well, you know, his name got dragged through the mud, his career stalled, he wound up leaving the military, and he wound up suing.
And years later, she wound up admitting and retracting her accusation.
Well, well, the guy's life is already in tatters.
And when you look at the consequences for women who make false accusations, there is none.
She was fined.
Well, she was he was given a judgment of like $8 million.
And then, um, you know, then it was reduced to like $1.2 million or something like that.
She'll never pay that money.
But this guy's life is ruined.
His family life was ruined.
I think his wife divorced him.
You know, it ruined his career.
And most guys are just happy to be just be out of it.
But more guys should seek punitive damages when they've been falsely accused.
The other question, too, is what specifically is SA because, you know, is it like I've heard that that even could be considered if he takes the condom off without like her consent?
You know, not say like that's like you shouldn't do that, right?
But is that the same thing as getting pulled off the side of the road and you know, by a stranger and for, you know, I don't, I think those are different things.
Well, right.
Well, yeah, grape, grape by itself is it's kind of like the term human trafficking.
What does it mean?
Could mean a whole bunch of things.
You know, so like with the famous Diddy case right now, he was accused of human trafficking because he paid some, you know, male and female, you know, prostitutes to go across state lines.
So, he paid them to do this.
Did he force them to do this?
Were they kidnapped and thrown in the back of a trunk and transported?
No, they drove themselves over there.
They transported themselves over there, but that's human trafficking.
It can also be, it can be so many different things.
When you look at the term, the term grape, what I think of is someone being forced or coerced through some sort of force, through forceful action or the threat of force.
But it's much, much more than that.
Grape can be, again, you know, the problem with our legal system and the way the inequality or the inequity in the administration of justice is that I can have consent from a woman and we can copulate.
You know, I'm trying to use words that YouTube won't get angry about.
And we can copulate.
And a month later, she can decide she no longer consents.
So she can retroactively remove consent.
You see what I'm saying?
And so, you know, and so it's so fraught with danger.
Guys are, you know, like friends of mine think I'm crazy, like, dude, you really have women sign to fill these things out.
And they even have categories like, hey, do you want to do X, Y?
Why?
Because, look, I've worked on so many cases where guys were falsely accused.
Yeah.
And when you look at the evidence, like, wait a second, this guy didn't do anything any differently than anybody else would.
What do you think of ring cameras in the house?
Would that protect men?
To a certain extent.
And so, you know, look, here's the thing: you they can show that you didn't do anything forcefully to someone.
But if you then videotape them without their knowledge, yeah, you can't do that either.
Then there's a whole nether set of, and again, this is not to blackpill men.
This is not to blackpill men.
You know, I know guys are thinking, why bother?
Look, you got to be really, you're really, really careful.
You have to use a lot of discernment and you have to vet women thoroughly.
Vetting women thoroughly helps with this.
You know, we worked on one case where, and I'll tell the story about this one day.
So I'll give you and your viewers a peek about this story, all right?
A peek behind the curtain.
So this was a an SA accusation of a wealthy guy.
But when we started peeling back the layers and he made Bond and I sat down and talked with him, she he did have, you know, copy, he did copulate with her, but after copulating with her, she threatened to accuse him of grape unless he paid her.
He refused to pay.
She accused him of grape.
He was arrested.
And so when we looked further and further and further, she had a habit of doing this.
I'll write that story up at some point.
But he wound up getting out of it.
But again, like most people, we encouraged him to seek punitive damages against her, but he did not.
He just wanted to get, he just wanted to get put that behind him, you know, which I understand to one extent.
But if there is no punishment, because the law, you know, the state attorneys here in Florida that were quick to arrest guys, they were not willing to levy any sort of legal charges for filing a false report against the women that falsely accused these guys, even with admissions that, yes, it was a false accusation.
They still refused to.
So again, there is no equal administration of justice.
And so as men, you have to be really careful.
So I know a lot of people have been talking about, and you brought it up about escorts.
More and more guys are utilizing the services of escorts.
I found, you know, more and more women doing hidden sex works that husbands or the fiancés or boyfriends didn't know about.
And, you know, the, you know, the, the benefit of that, I guess, would be that this is a person who would be unlikely to want to file any sort of charges against you because that is their profession.
What do you think when, because men seem to think, oh, that's just the girls in the city.
The girls by me won't do that.
Or, oh, that's just the girl.
Like, even I would have this challenge with like whenever I talk about a trend, like people just seem to think that doesn't happen where they live or amongst their communities.
If it's ever a negative trend that women do, does that make sense?
Yes, it does.
And it's, it's, again, it's this, it's hidden, the kind of the head, the head in the sand wishful thinking attitude.
I've worked on cases for false grape charges in places like Miami, which is a major metropolitan area, and also in places like Ocala, Florida.
Most people never heard of his horse country, but the same thing.
And so the tendencies of female nature, they don't have borders.
Female nature is female nature, period.
And I'm not saying all women do this.
Please, to your viewers, I'm not saying all women do this.
The amount of women that do this is not a large number of women, but look at some of the things we've seen from the past where a guy and a girl, maybe they dated, they got together, then later on, years later, he's famous now.
And then all of a sudden they come out of the woodwork and say, oh, yeah, he did this to me 40 years ago.
There's a very famous one right now of a gentleman who was recently elected to a very, very high public office.
The woman said, he did this to me.
And some of it is politically motivated.
Again, we talk about the political game being about the dirtiest fighting you will ever see in your entire life.
They will ruin your life and they will ruin your reputation.
They'll have you thrown in jail just so they can win or defeat their enemy.
That's their job.
And so if you become rich later on in life, you could be a dude that has nothing.
And again, I've seen this where guys have had nothing, then all of a sudden they make a bunch of money.
And if a woman who hooked up with you in the past, all of a sudden finds out that you've got eight, nine figures behind your, you know, in your bank account, then let's see, what can I do?
And then they'll start getting those little voices, you know, chirping in their head.
Hey, look, you know what?
You can get paid.
And a lot of times they can.
And for them to get paid, they've got to ruin your reputation and drag your name through the butt.
And they have no problem doing it.
So, you know, if you become a target of opportunity, someone will target you.
Right.
Yeah.
The it's it got to the point when I was doing my shows.
Like, I just don't believe any women pretty much.
And I don't know.
No, I really don't, because they would say, they would all say, pretty much every other show, a woman would tell me she was abused by her ex-boyfriend.
And at first, I would just believe them because, I mean, if someone tells, like, if we're on this stream and you tell me, Mike, okay, were you in his house?
And so what had actually happened was he was pushing her to get out because she wouldn't leave.
So she was trespassing.
And she fell down the stairs because he was pushing her out of the house.
Like, that's what I gathered is he was just trying to get her to leave because she wouldn't leave.
And so I'm like, okay, you said he was abusive, but really you were doing the illegal thing.
You were trespassing.
Yeah.
And again, it's a it's a slippery slope if you're a man.
You know, if you want someone to leave your house, especially a woman, you know, and I get it, your house is your castle.
And so if there's a man in my house and I want him to leave, guess what?
I'm not calling the police.
I'm going to grab him by the scruff of his neck and his belt and he's going to get catapulted out of my house.
Yeah.
But with a woman, if it was a woman, I know from just cases I've worked on that if I if I put a hand on a woman and throw her out of my house, it doesn't matter what the circumstances are, I'm still probably going to get arrested.
And if she gets bruised, I'm going to get sued.
And so I've seen guys worked on cases where guys actually had to call the police.
And I've worked on cases where guys have physically thrown women out of their houses that all of a sudden they're getting arrested, they're getting sued, even though they're trying to get some big.
And again, there is no equal administration of the law.
There's no equal protection of the law.
And so men have to be really, really curving them into their life.
I've got, like me personally, I've walked away from so many women just because I'm like, nah, I don't like this.
I don't like that.
Or, you know, obviously one of the big red flags is if they're not willing to sign my act my consent form, you know, I'm going to email it to you one day just so you can see what I'm talking about.
And, you know, it's like, I've instructed my son to do the same thing.
Like, look, if they're not willing to sign this, go away.
But that's just one piece of it.
Number one, I'm going to check their habits.
Number one, I'm going to peruse their social media and see what types of things they do on social media.
And so, you know, guys were guys have to be more careful, especially nowadays, because it's so easy to put yourself in harm's way, either criminally or in a civil court.
You know, it's like in the criminal part of the Connor McGregor case, they found there was insufficient evidence to charge him.
And so that could mean a lot of different things.
There wasn't enough evidence.
They didn't think it rose to the level of criminal activity.
But in the civil trial, he winds up paying.
And so, you know, as men, you know, and you talk about, you know, you mentioned before about assault and, you know, that sort of thing.
Like if a guy takes off a condom, you know, stealth removal, they call it the stealth condom removal is what it's called.
Is that illegal?
Yeah, that is illegal.
If you take that off and you enter a woman without a condom when she thinks you're wearing one, you stealthily take it off and say you impregnate her or give her an STI.
You can't, yeah, that is actually battery.
But that same woman can retrieve your condom from the trash.
And again, I've worked on a really tragic case where this happened and she impregnated herself.
That worked.
Look.
I did not think that worked.
I'm actually working on a video just for the purpose of, they don't call it spermjacking or spurglary, which is what it is, but they have these kits that women can use either two to four times.
So it does work, actually.
They can retrieve a condom from the trash and it's kind of like a term, right?
None, none whatsoever.
If a woman spermjacks a man and steals his DNA without his consent, you know, they call it false, false, false, false parentage, false paternity, or forced paternity, I should say, spermjacking, spurglary.
There's so many other names for it.
But in the family courts, judges always presume 100% liability on the man's part.
If it's your DNA, it doesn't matter how she got it.
Spermjacking is not illegal anywhere on the planet earth.
Okay.
There are companies and they have marketing material and a whole bunch of like I've watched some of the YouTube videos.
I'm sitting there watching like, man.
And there are companies that manufacture products just for that.
So if I take off a condom without a woman's knowledge and impregnate her, I can be charged with battery.
But if she retrieves my DNA and impregnates herself without my consent, without my knowledge, and I can still be, I will still be paying child support for the next 18 years.
The guy we tried to help out with this case, we knew it was an uphill battle.
But even with all the evidence we got, even with statements I retrieved from her friends who said, yeah, that was her intention because the guy made a lot of money.
She even admitted in text messages that we were able to capture from friends of hers that, yeah, now I got him on the hook.
If I could just get, you know, so she fraudulently used his DNA.
And even with all the evidence we got, the judge was still like, yeah, okay, whatever.
You're still paying.
That's, that's how, that's how, that's how slanted, that's how good we are at being a patriarchy.
We put ourselves in jeopardy and danger with all these rules and laws that are designed to destroy a man's life.
So now imagine how that impacts a guy's life, his future.
Say you're a guy who's just trying to live his life.
You got a plan.
Well, now that plan has been put off the rails because you got sperm jacked.
Does that happen?
There's no way to quantify how much of this has happened.
Now, there's more than one way.
There's more than just that.
There's obviously the tampering with a condom.
That's one way.
That still is the tried and true method.
But the most common way women get the benefits to impregnate them without a man's knowledge or a willful act of trying to get a woman pregnant is I can't get pregnant or I'm already pregnant, so you don't need to use a condom.
So the old head fake.
But it still works.
Why are they sleeping with pregnant women?
That's so gross.
You know, but yeah, but these things exist.
And, you know, and when I look at it, I was sitting there like, holy smokes, man.
You know, if there was a company that manufactured a roofie kit, you know what I mean?
They wouldn't be in business for very long, you know, and people would be outside protesting these companies.
But these other companies, there's more than one company that manufactures these things.
And it's unfortunate.
That's why, you know, guys have to be careful.
You have to, and I actually talked about this.
You have to dispose.
I did a live about this one.
You have to dispose of your DNA.
You have to take charge of your DNA yourself.
First of all, throw it in the trash.
It's nasty.
Like, it's nasty anyway.
Just throw it in the trash.
Wrap it in toilet paper, flush it, use spermicidal agents in the condoms that are designed to kill sperm cells once you ejaculate.
You have to take charge of your DNA.
I actually told a put a story on X about a sperm jacking ring out in California where they had women that would collect DNA.
That was their job to collect DNA from men.
And they had women that would impregnate themselves with the DNA.
And these rings were criminal rings that would get a percentage of the child support.
Now, California is different because if, and these were targeting wealthy guys, mostly ball players, other athletes.
I got turned on to this because one of my neighbors, a woman, was dating one of one of the basketball teams in Los Angeles, one of his sons, the previous owner.
He's passed away, but she was dating one of his sons.
He would tell us all the scoops about this.
This was back in the 90s that stuff was going on.
So I'm sure it's probably still going on.
And so Men are targets, you know, so men have to be more cautious and you have to be more careful.
And what I tell guys is this: think of it this way, especially if you're an up-and-coming guy, if you're a wealthy guy, think that you are a spy in Cold War East Germany.
And one slip-up will send you to the gulag in Russia in Sniberia.
Yeah, I just didn't know that worked.
Like, I figured there was no way that would work you now.
I'll share some more details with you, but I'm actually going to make a video about talking about one of these companies in particular and some of them, and I'll share it with you.
But it's, you know, again, you know, there are so many pitfalls and landmines that men can step on nowadays.
You know, besides all the rest of the thing, the competition with other men, business, all the rest of this stuff.
You know, there are women out there that, and again, I'm not saying most women, I'm not saying all women, you know, but does it happen enough to where men should be careful and cautious?
Yes, they should.
And then, you know, going even further, we're talking about paternity fraud.
You know, so like if I'm married and my wife steps out of the marriage and gets impregnated by another man, do you know by law, the family courts in Florida would still, I would still have to take care of someone else's child.
Yeah, I knew that.
Unless the guy was willing to, and probably not, because the guy's a dirtbag anyway for messing with a married woman, but whatever, you know, unless he was willing to come forward and say, yeah, you know what, I want to take full responsibility and go to the courts and claim responsibility for that child.
What are the odds of that happening?
I've never seen it happen.
I've never seen it.
Well, actually, it happened once.
I've seen it happen once.
And again, I have people, I have friends who work, work at the family courts and with the family court system.
They tell me stories.
I'm sitting there like, holy smokes, man.
And that's a, I mean, like, that's a horrible law.
That's a terrible law.
And again, there is no equal protection under the law when it comes to that.
The man is, you know, going to be in a very bad situation.
And so when people ask about marriage, why is marriage falling off a cliff?
Well, these are part of the reasons why marriage is falling off a cliff.
Like, what, like, what's in it for me?
Oh, well, you know, society needs this.
Okay, well, to hell with society.
What do I get out of it?
Everybody else gets something out of this, but men.
Why should men do this if the laws are set up for men to either be a slave, a wage slave to your wife?
It used to be, they changed the laws, the statute for alimony used to be a life sentence.
So if a woman got alimony, she got it for the rest of her life until the man died, she died, or until she remarried.
Guess how many of those women remarried?
None of them.
Why should they?
None.
So now they put a limit on it.
So now it's just more like a really long car payment than a life sentence.
But again, there are so many laws that heavily skewed in the favor of women and against men.
So, you know, so we need to do a little lot of work on our patriarchy skills.
Yeah.
Well, thank you so much for coming on.
Can you tell the people where they can find you?
You can find me on X, Private Eye Russ.
You can look me up on, if you need to send me an email, send an email to private investigator Russ at Gmail.
You can DM me on X. Right now, my website, I think I told you before that the guy who was running my website, that friend, he's been dealing with cancer.
And so he's still dealing with that.
And so we're still trying to retrieve passwords.
And so my website right now is, you know, I've updated some of it, but I still need to get some more access.
So just reach out to me there.
Reach out to me.
DM me on X, or you can find me on Private Irus on Private Irus YouTube channel.
Well, thank you so much.
I want to thank you for having me on again.
It's always a pleasure to talk to you.
Yeah, thank you so much.
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So you're a fan favorite here.
See ya.
See ya.
Okay, guys.
So let me see.
Let me check the live chat.
How can courts be fixed with beyond the feminine favor with men and women being equal in all?
Family court is the worst.
The legislation does not fix this.
I mean, guys, I got to be honest.
I don't see this changing in any of our lifetimes.
I mean, I'm just being honest.
I hope it does.
I mean, maybe Trump will do something, but it's a pretty crazy system that's been going on for like 50 plus years.
I don't know.
Anyways, guys, let me know what you think in the comments.
Thank you for watching as usual.
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