Pearl, live-streaming from South Africa amid technical chaos on Rumble, YouTube, and Facebook, critiques conservative media’s failure to grasp "female nature" as a key reason for its declining influence. Citing demonetization (reapplication by Feb 12), they analyze trends like rising sex work visibility, divorce rates, and church wokeism, arguing these reflect biological realities—not easily reversible cultural shifts. From the Hodge Twins podcast to Alex Stein’s show, Pearl highlights discomfort with Red Pill’s dating strategies (e.g., Myron’s "sleep with 50 women" advice) and dismisses claims that Christian women differ fundamentally, noting legal hurdles like the Supreme Court’s female majority and abortion’s entrenched status. Skeptical of grand solutions—even tax incentives for married parents—they frame societal changes as inevitable, comparing them to India’s persistent infidelity and polygamy norms, while urging audience engagement via likes, subscriptions, and donations. [Automatically generated summary]
This is going to be a little bit of a struggle stream today.
The reason it's a struggle stream is because we're now live on Facebook, Rumble.
We're trying to expand the brand for you guys, okay?
So give me one second while we try to fix this.
See if it's going on Rumble.
But, you know, to start, guys, how's your day going?
How's it?
How's your time?
Oh, holy shit.
Live on Rumble.
Okay, I think we're on.
Put a one in the chat on Rumble if I'm live.
One in the chat on Rumble.
South Africa.
We got South Africa in here.
Okay, so what are we talking about today?
What did I make?
Is it going or no?
Oh.
Okay.
All right.
Blessing's going to try to fix this.
How is you guys' weekends?
You know, a couple updates on the channel.
I went to the U.S. this weekend.
I did the Hodge Twins podcast.
So that was a lot of fun.
That'll be out in like three weeks.
I think that podcast is going to get me in trouble.
I won't lie to you guys.
They'll just say this.
They have a lot of pent-up anger about a certain type of woman.
And it's going to get me in trouble.
I feel it.
But whatever.
Whatever, whatever, whatever.
I also did Alex Stein's show.
That one.
Oh, I'm on Rumble now.
It says no audio.
All right.
One in the chat on Rumble if you can hear me.
Alex Stein's show was a lot of fun.
I wasn't really expecting them to bring on men to hit on me.
I didn't really know what to do.
A lot of comments said, Pearl, you look so awkward.
Well, it's because I felt awkward.
You know, imagine you're going into a professional setting and they just bring in men to, you know, you're just like, I don't know about this.
I don't know.
Okay.
I think it's working on Rumble.
I'm sorry if it's not.
But I want to talk about my soul searching I've been doing.
Maybe not soul searching because I forget women say that when they're like going crazy, but I've had a bit of an evolution in the way that I think currently.
And I think this, I'm going to start over.
All right, let's pretend this is the beginning of the live stream.
Okay, so what up, guys?
Welcome to the Just Pearly Things YouTube channel.
Please, please, please like the video.
Please hit a like.
You know, that's the most important metric that YouTube uses to push out these streams.
So I can see your comments on both sides.
I see Sigma, MGTOW, and Rumble.
And I do see Todd's, or no, Todd on the bottom of the chat and YouTube.
So I do see your comments.
I'm going to be looking at these chats.
But likes, they're free.
And, you know, it helps push out these streams.
If you guys can, please send a cash app or a Venmo.
We're setting up Bitcoin to receive that too.
You guys know we are demonetized, so you guys really help me do what I do.
What's wrong now?
Oh, don't worry.
Okay, he's fixing that.
All right, so no, we're still demonetized.
On February 12th, we get to reapply.
So, you know, we're going to reapply and pray.
That's all I can really do, right, guys?
Pray, pray, pray.
But I'm actually kind of glad I got demonetized.
And the reason I'm glad is because I was just, I was working so hard before I got demonetized.
It was, I can hear myself now blessing.
Could you do it?
I can hear it through the door.
And oh, it says audio is low on Rumble.
This audio is low.
Is he coming back?
Hope he's coming back.
I feel like I'm trying to, I'm trying to go for this, but would I turn it up here, maybe?
All right, tell me if that's better.
Oh, thank you.
A $5 super chat on Rumble.
Thank you.
Thank you guys.
Okay, so, oh, and I'm going to watch my phone.
I'm going to turn off my Do Not Disturb.
So if I see a Venmo notification, I'm going to read it.
They're still complaining about the audio.
I don't know what's.
Okay.
Okay, well.
It's good now?
Okay.
Okay, I'm going to start over my story.
I'm really sorry, guys.
I'm sorry.
We're going to improve and get better.
You know, so taking this time off has allowed me to do a couple things.
One, and you guys already know on this channel, is spend a lot of time with my father.
And my dad, it's so interesting talking to people in their 50s and above because they really saw, like, most of their life, they didn't have social media.
So you see that their worldview just isn't as polluted by it.
So I've gotten to spend a lot of time with my dad, some old friends, and it's just been really, really nice.
I was working so hard before I got demonetized, and I just, it was too much.
And now I took a little break.
I'm a little happier, you know.
My dad doesn't like media.
He doesn't really, he's been on the channel once or twice, but you guys are quite rude a lot to my family.
So I don't put them in a ton of stuff, maybe here and there.
But then people think it's okay.
Even TradCon men think it's okay to insult them.
So it's just, you know, whatever.
But his audio is still low.
Are you guys playing with me?
I don't know what to do, Rumble.
This is why I do one stream.
It's kind of whatever.
Okay.
So back to what I was talking about.
So the past couple of weeks, there's been an argument between the Trad Cons and the Red Pillars.
Now, what is Red Pill?
I don't think Red Pill is what most people think it is.
I don't even know if I would be considered Red Pill.
I talk about a lot of Red Pill stuff.
I tend to agree with their point of view.
But Red Pill is really just guys coming together trying to solve their problems.
And, you know, looking at the way that women are and figuring out how to navigate the modern landscape.
So for example, we have Myron.
Now, Myron gives the prescription that you should sleep with 50 women before you settle down.
Now, I don't think I'm in the position to give men advice on how to date, court, and sleep with women.
That's not my expertise.
I don't, I've never done that.
That's just not me.
Okay.
So the reason Myron says this is because women like men with experience.
Not your Christian women are not any different and or special.
Okay, this is a common misconception that there's special women.
Women are still women.
Women tend to like men with experience.
That's why Myron says stuff like that.
Okay.
Okay.
So the last couple weeks, I've really been thinking about the way the world is going.
And I've been thinking about how I've noticed in the last five years, I have seen more and more sex workers.
I have seen more and more divorces.
I have seen more and more wokeism in the churches.
I have only seen wokeness getting more woke in my lifetime.
I've seen marriage really virtually disappear as an institution.
I mean, in my life, most people I know that got married were dating for maybe five years and then decided to get married.
Really, gone are the days.
And typically what I see when, you know, in the church, they might do it a little more traditionally.
And, you know, I always get this criticism, Pearl.
It's like they become like the God police.
How often do you go to church?
I go to church.
I mean, I skip sometimes, but I go as much as I can.
All right.
I'm a Catholic, right?
But even in the Catholic church, and I've been in non-denominational churches.
I've even like been to Pentecostal churches this year.
I still see single mothers.
I still see older single women.
You know, even the church isn't immune to the culture because people are people and women are women.
And that's a lesson that I learned from my dad.
My dad always hated motivational speakers.
He always, always, always hated preachers.
And I didn't understand why.
A lot of the stuff they said, I thought it was true.
I thought, dad, you know, why, like, why are you so bothered?
He's like, look, they're just full of shit.
None of them have a real plan.
And, you know, I'm a woman, so I never really had a problem with them.
Okay.
But then I got older and I started to understand what he was talking about.
And all these pastors, they would come out with like having side chicks or embezzlement.
And it would be back to what my dad originally said, which is people are people.
So another thing my dad and I disagree on is my dad, he is pro not pro-choice, but he's not really too bothered about abortion.
Now, me, I've seen an abortion.
I think it is a terrible, terrible thing.
I think it is evil.
I think it's one of the most evil things you can do as a woman.
But the way my dad sees it, my dad is a really, really practical guy.
My dad ran, he ran a company with over 200, like roughly 200 employees.
And He doesn't really care too much about what sounds good.
He cares about what works.
He's just one of those guys.
And what I increasingly understood, I don't know, I guess the older I got and the more I've been in media is that everyone's just trying to sound good instead of do good.
You know, like even the abortion debate, and I realized, even me, okay, let's use me as an example.
When I was talking about women not voting, it's like funny.
I mean, I believe it in my soul.
But I don't know if I see women not being able to vote ever coming in my lifetime.
How would we go from arguing what a woman is to actually repeal the 19?
You know, oh, the blessing.
The volume's low on rumble.
What they're saying.
Okay.
And even, and it was interesting because I started to notice patterns, not about what's moral, but what about what I started to notice patterns.
Not necessarily patterns about what's moral, but what works.
And I noticed that even the people, you know, like let's use Tate as an example.
they're saying the volume is low on rumble.
I'm sure it's the software.
I know, this is why I'm not the biggest fan of the dual streams, because there just always seems to be issues, but, meh, it's okay.
Okay.
Oh, I think he said it's better now.
Okay.
Well, okay, what was it talking about?
What was I talking about?
Oh.
And so back to the abortion thing.
So, you know, I could say all day abortion is wrong.
Here's why it's wrong.
And explain why it's wrong.
But people are people and women are going to keep getting abortions.
And it doesn't really matter what I say.
It's legal and it doesn't really seem like it's going away anytime soon.
And you almost start to like look at the world in a different way.
Like instead of we all think that we can change the world.
And to be honest, the world kind of is how it is.
And it's so funny because these content creators get like they almost become super grandiose and like start to they almost want to play God.
And I see this a lot with that Chase guy, where he feels like it's his job to save the West and go on these podcasts and talk.
And the problem is, none of it's like actionable advice.
Like, is vote, is women voting going anywhere?
No.
Is any of this degeneracy really going to stop?
Are we going to see women being less of whores?
I don't think so.
I think you're going to see more sex workers in 10 years than now.
I think it's going to be more normal for, you know, I'm seeing sex workers run for Congress.
I think it's going to be more normal.
And this isn't, this isn't really what I want or what I would like to happen, but I just start to think about it more and more.
And I think I don't really see, you know, any most content creators having a real like plan of action.
And I'm not trying to diss them because I'm not even saying I'm better.
You know, I'm just saying the more I think about it, like abortion, let's get rid of abortion.
How?
With the six female Supreme Court or whatever it is, the majority female Supreme Court justices, you think that abortion is going somewhere?
Okay.
So, and I see the chat, they say, God, and then I'll, I'll also see men.
Oh, Tate was who I was thinking of.
This is no, no insult to him at all.
But I'll also see men prescribing things they didn't do.
Men tend to need to sleep around a bit for women to want them.
But I'll see them come on the other side of that and then say that it's all degeneracy and evil, even though that that system got them to where they are with women.
And I'll look at the results of waiting till marriage, that like trad cons kind of push.
And what I see is women kind of marrying dorky guys they don't really like.
And this isn't me, you know, trying to be mean, but I don't meet many conservative trad men that are different.
And what they'll do is they'll come out and tell everybody, you know, like there's a certain couple that I see.
And I don't even mean this to be mean, but I'm just being like objective facts here.
They'll say, hey, we're doing it the right way.
We waited till marriage.
And I look at the couple and it's an older woman, a younger guy, and the woman has nudes on the internet.
And I think, well, if that's what you guys are selling, it doesn't really seem to be like what guys are going to buy.
So this is kind of just a new train of thought I've had recently.
And I just wanted to talk about it.
I'm not claiming to have all the answers.
I certainly don't.
But you start to realize that a lot of like media is just a show.
And really when I started, like, I didn't, it's like you're just looking for what's true.
And you realize that everyone's kind of talking to an audience.
Everyone's trying to build a brand.
And it's just like a show.
Like everyone's, they don't actually think anything's going to change.
They don't have a real plan to change.
It's just a show.
let's see who can look better in a debate.
We are brainstorming.
Yeah, we could brainstorm.
I'm not, but okay.
So now I thought to myself, so the whole economy, women make 80% of consumer buying decisions.
there are the odds that changes in my lifetime?
Do I think women are going to get less edgy?
There's no evidence to suggest it's going the other way.
So how do you adapt in a modern world is the real question.
Yeah, there are four women on the Supreme Court.
Yep, see pumping out media that is truthful.
Well, if media was the solution, why hasn't 50 years of media turned people more conservative?
It seems like it actually produced the opposite effect if media was the solution.
Is this crazy?
And everyone's getting kind of fatter.
You know, there's more sex workers.
I'm demonetized, guys, but I did get, I'm going to look, I did get great content.
Thank you, James, for the super chat on Venmo.
appreciate you.
Is this really going anywhere?
I don't think so.
So, how do you adapt?
Because the world's going, like, even, okay, I was thinking about this, and this is brainstorming.
Men are very solution-oriented.
So, maybe, you know, you know, you could homeschool, but even if you homeschool your kids, like you have kids, you do the trad thing, you're still in a society that isn't trad.
There's no proof or evidence that if you have children, they're going to be traditional and conservative and have all these grandkids.
And really, I don't think you're meant to impose your will on adults.
You know, I think you should encourage, you got to give kids the tools to make decisions.
And they either make them or they don't.
Someone asked, where's the shopping spree?
You know, guys, I'm sorry.
I really wanted to do it, but I had to go back on Pierce Morgan a day early.
I really wanted to do it with Sneeko.
I thought it would have been really funny, but I just, I couldn't do it.
I felt a little bad.
So I wanted to pull something up.
Hold on.
You know, do I think it's likely that we're going to have a Christian theocracy?
And I'm not going to lie, you know, I mean, people sound really good when they talk about this.
Even Nick, like last year, like, he sounds really good.
He sounds really inspiring.
When I listen to him talk, he's super inspiring.
But, and maybe I, maybe I'm just a Debbie Downer.
I don't know.
But, you know, the solution is more truthful media.
I mean, I maybe, but I wouldn't, I don't think that is the solution.
Let's say we wanted to repeal the 19th.
Men's rights activists have been working to just get more fair laws for men for 50 years.
What makes you think you can switch it?
That's why you move the good to the good communities or build your own good communities through online communications.
Now, I don't necessarily think that's false, but I still think women have a nature.
And when you give freedom to women, women will always, always, always go for the top 20% of men.
So, as a guy, you can either decide if you want to be the top 20% of men and maybe pick one to settle down with, be the relationship guy that tends to get with the women after they've been with the top 20% of men, or be or walk away and just be part of the sexless men.
And as women, we really can choose if we want to.
And by the way, guys, I think this is biology.
I don't think this is a choice in a way.
You know, women have the choice to either go for a top 20% guy that you actually like, but you'll probably have to deal with him cheating.
And why do I think that?
Because do you know how different the world is going to be in 10, 20 years?
Half of women guys are going to be single and childless.
Half, 50% of women.
It is going to be competitive.
If you get married to a top 20% guy, you will have no leverage.
None.
None, none, none.
Then the next option is to marry a guy you don't really like that much.
And I see Christian women do this all the time.
Oh my gosh, that's like the standard in the Christian church.
And they'll be like, Pearl, what churches do you go to?
Bitch, I've been to churches all over the freaking world.
And guys, and they'll say, you don't have to accept that.
It doesn't always happen.
I go with what I think is more likely than not likely.
It's not about my morals.
None of this is about what I think is right.
I look for patterns and trends.
And I see how things will play out.
So, okay, you build these trad Christian communities, but there's still social media.
Women are still women.
They're still going to go for the top 20% of men.
That means, I mean, a bunch of chicks are going to cheat.
Like the same, the same thing is going to happen.
Indian culture.
No, I really've seen very similar stuff.
I know the divorce rate's lower, but it's not.
And I see everybody coping.
Everyone, all the trad cons are saying, no, we're going to fight this.
It's going to go a different way.
And, you know, I think maybe one solution could be tax incentives for kids with married parents.
But I still see women being women and women will push polygamy.
Women are going to push it because women would rather share a top guy than be with a guy that they don't like.
I don't make the rules.
And then so when I first got into this red pill stuff, I thought to myself, no, that's not true.
I don't want to like, I would rather have a guy to myself.
And that's what I said.
But then I would watch what I did.
And, you know, there's been times where I've been with a guy and he wasn't faithful.
I didn't leave.
Even me.
Because women are women.
Women are women.
So, yeah, so how to adapt in the modern world.
Now, I will say there is another side to this.
There is another side.
Luckily, most people are fat and lazy.
Yes.
Yes, yes, yes.
A lot of people are fat and lazy and just don't work hard.
And because of this, there is more opportunity for women and men to get in the top 20%.
You know, as women, body positivity, it just means less competition for us.
All these women getting tattoos, it means less competition for us.
All these women dying their hair blue, chopping it off.
What does that mean for us?
Less competition.
As a woman, you can get a guy like two points out of your league, I would say, just by not having tattoos, not being fat, not having debt, and not being a complete whore.
Men, on the other hand, I will say life is much harder as a man, but most men are overweight too.
You know, most, you know, I think the average salary is 35,000, 40,000 a year.
Now, it really isn't fair because women are stealing men's money.
And I do believe that it's much harder as a guy, but there are ways to make money online that we've never had in all of history.
You used to have to like work on a farm.
You know, there's light at the end of the tunnel for people that want it.
And what I realized is that most of media is just, it's like, you know, like when I started, I thought we were all looking for a solution and the truth.
But the problem is the conservatives can't handle how women are.
And that's why they're losing because none of them understand female nature.
my opinion.
Anyways, so Pearl keep up the great work.
Some of send some of them loyal fans to my channel.
No, I will not.
We are in desperate times.
Sorry.
Sorry.
This is, I can't send anybody.
Also, I wanted to shout out.
Alan gave me $100 this week.
So I appreciate it.
So, anyways, I know these have just been random rants that I think of.
And to tie it all back into my dad, my dad thinks like this.
Like, he thinks in terms of like practical advice and solutions.
And I think, yeah, I think that a lot of media is just people arguing without, you know, and it's fun.
Don't get me wrong.
I love dunking on people.
It's amazing.
But, you know, what is the solution for most people?
I don't know.
So let me know what you think in the comments.
Make sure you like the video and subscribe.
You know, I'm going to do a bet.
I just wanted to rant today.
I was just feeling it, guys.
Feel free to send, you know, a super chat, like the video, subscribe, and I'm gonna talk to you guys next time.
um okay goodbye and then I end it on rumble I don't know how to end it on rumble so I guess you guys will get a little a little more I have 1,000 people watching on Rumble.
I don't know how to end this.
I guess I'll wait till Blessing comes back.
Yeah, it says feminism is spreading all over, and you can see it's affecting the population.