Myron Gaines hosts the "Friendship Podcast After Hour Edition," featuring guests like Shauna and Glennie who debate ideal male body fat percentages and cosmetic surgeries. The group analyzes Miami's dating scene versus New York, discussing financial expectations and religious standards for partners. A major controversy arises regarding Chris Brown and Usher concerts, where men argue against partners attending shows involving screaming for other artists. The episode concludes by examining Coachella's $62 million economy, warning that wealthy men offering free VIP access to women at festivals may engage in manipulation or trafficking, urging caution against accepting unsolicited perks from strangers. [Automatically generated summary]
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Welcome to the Fresh of Podcast00:12:16
And we are live with some guys.
Welcome to the Fresh of Podcast.
After ours, this is Shaman who joined some lovely ladies and special guests.
Let's get into it.
Let's go.
Get out!
Put your shoes on outside.
You don't got to put them on in here.
I know the light is not what's seen.
I must do something so I'll make myself believe it.
It's my thing.
All right, and we are live.
What's up, guys?
Welcome to the Friendship Podcast After Hour Edition.
Sorry, guys.
I was supposed to go live earlier today, but I fell asleep, man.
I had an uneven sleeping pattern the past day or so.
So I should be.
Yeah, I'm going to shut the fuck up, bro.
Anyway, yeah.
So what will happen is I'll probably either do a stream after this or right after, maybe tomorrow.
So we'll see.
We'll figure it out depending on what time we end this, and we'll go from there.
And Penn State?
Penn State?
I don't know yet.
I don't know if we're going to do that next week.
And we're still locking in some of the schools.
So we'll figure that out.
Do you have anything you want to tell the people?
Let's have a great show.
Chris?
Alright, Ninjas, Hackers is back, man.
My hair wasn't really, you know, done today, so fuck it, man.
We out here, man.
I might have a little Henny Tonight, who knows, but I've been good so far.
But shout out to the girls, shout out to, you know, I had, supposed to have a bigger panel, but apparently two girls OD'd in the hospital.
I don't know what the fuck happened, and the other girl got stage fright.
I don't know, it happens, bro.
These girls are like fucking butterflies, bro.
They come and go out as they please, bro.
Anyways, shout out to the special guest, Hassan, on the panel.
I'm sitting there, I'm like butchering his name, who knows, I'm fucking it up.
But, Bill Z Mo, and, uh, Let's have a great show.
Happy Friday.
All right.
Lisa, thank you for waiting.
If you don't mind, give us your name, your age, what you do for a living, data status.
And if you want to, of course, your body count.
Let's start right here.
Welcome back.
Hi.
Damn.
So, name, age, what you do for a living?
My name is Shauna.
And right now, I'm not working at all.
I got hurt about six months ago.
From what?
That's right.
Crazy Miami bus driver.
Someone hit you?
No, I was on a bus.
I was on a bus, and the bus driver had to brake real hard.
Someone turned in front of the bus.
I kind of got ejected from my seat.
Oh, shit.
You're alive.
Are they going to pay you insurance money?
I mean, you probably should.
No comment.
I don't know.
Takes a ball, though.
All right.
How old are you?
56.
All right.
And you see the auto work for now?
Yeah.
Dating status?
I'm in a relationship.
Wait, hold on.
Is this new or?
Yeah.
Wait, hold on.
You don't want to tell Chad what you really did for work?
What?
Up to you.
If you want to tell them, that's cool.
If not, don't do it.
I like to sing, and I'm going to be doing some shower karaoke.
Okay.
Shower karaoke?
Yeah.
Maybe at the beach, a beach near you.
All right, bro.
It's not what you think, though.
I don't know how it works, but okay.
Highest education level?
I have an associate's degree.
In?
A science.
All right.
Parents together?
Parents together or no?
No.
Oh, you don't need birth control, but okay, that's fine.
Sorry.
And then Chris?
Your body count.
My body count.
Come on, man.
You're like a granny right now.
You're old.
I've lost count.
Yeah, I'm so old.
I can't even remember.
What?
Why keep counting?
200 bodies?
It's quality.
It's not quantity that matters.
Oh.
I mean.
Clock it.
Well, you say I lost count, so it must not be that quality.
What about you?
Where are you from originally?
Where are you from?
Me?
Yeah.
I grew up in California.
I moved to Miami a year ago from the Midwest.
All right.
Okay.
All right.
Me?
Well, my name is Glennie.
I'm 21.
Hey.
I'm 21.
What are you doing?
What are the questions?
Oh, I'm from New York.
What do you do for it?
I'm a makeup artist and a hairstylist, but I sing, I make music, I dance, and I model.
I'm in all entertainment.
I see.
Highest education level.
High school.
High school?
I did some college, but I was like, that's not for me.
It happens.
Dating status?
I'm single.
All right.
Parents together?
No.
Birth control?
No.
And what's your background?
I'm Dominican and Brazilian.
Oh, I thought you were black.
That's crazy.
Next.
No, I thought he was black.
All right.
And then Chris?
Wait, so you said you dance, right?
Yeah.
What do you mean?
You could get money thrown on you when you dance?
I mean, I've considered it.
Now that I'm down here, I'm like, hmm.
I mean, you should.
I've done it before.
I have nothing against it.
Where?
In New York.
When I first turned 18, I was like, YOLO, I need to make money.
And I tried it.
I didn't hate it.
But I started to feel like I had a lot of regulars that would come and they would just be like, sit down, you're too pretty for this.
They would pay me, but I wouldn't dance.
So I was just, I got over it.
All right.
Body count?
I don't got no number for y'all.
60, right?
No.
I don't like, what's it called?
Like, I know, obviously, but I don't really like be out here like, oh, I got a 60.
What's the rough figure, rough number you would say?
Below 20?
I wouldn't even give you a rough number.
Over 20?
We would never know.
Okay.
No, I'm kidding.
No, it's not over 20.
Okay, so 19.
Got it.
We'll go over here.
We'll come back to you.
Welcome back.
I'm here.
How old are you?
I'm 20.
What do you do for work?
I'm studying right now life and health insurance, and I'm in college.
All right.
What are you studying?
Sorry.
Business management and communication and journalism.
Awesome.
And what's your dating status?
Single.
All right.
Parents together or no?
No.
Birth control?
I have a baby.
No.
Okay.
And then Chris?
Wait, hold on.
She has a baby or something like that?
Yeah.
You forgot?
Well, I mean, I was in there last time, remember?
I was there and I bounced.
I'm a mommy.
Wait, so who's the dad?
I'm a sita?
Yeah.
So who's the dad?
He's in jail.
Oh my gosh.
Oh, shit.
We already knew that guy.
We already knew that.
All right.
Anyways.
All right, next.
Any other questions?
No, we're good.
All right.
What about you?
Hi, I'm Kyle.
Hey y'all!
Hey.
How old are you?
I'm 25.
And what do you do for it?
I'm a dancer and I'm a loctician.
What kind of dancer?
You know, dollar bills?
I'm a money dancer.
Like, yeah.
Okay.
What's your background?
I'm Haitian and Bahamian.
Okay.
But I was born here.
Yeah.
What are you?
No, that was in the back.
Oh, she's Haitian?
Yeah, she's Haitian.
Hey, hey!
Sorry, I didn't hear it.
My bad.
I was doing work.
All right.
Highest education level?
Associates in college.
And what?
Business and marketing.
Cool.
All right.
Parents together?
Yes.
They've been together like for a long time.
That's good.
Yeah.
Dating status?
Single.
All right.
And birth control?
Plan Bs.
Plan Bs?
Yeah.
How many takes so far?
Like, whoa, that's a crazy question.
I'm just curious.
You said Plan Bs.
I'm like, what?
What?
Like two.
Two this week or?
No.
Two this, my whole life.
This whole life.
Okay.
No, I shot abortions.
No.
No, I have no abortions.
I've never had no abortions.
I have one kid and I have no abortions.
You have one kid?
Yes.
All right.
I have good Gucci.
All right.
Chris, you don't want to ask a question?
No, I'll probably count as pretty high.
I know.
Okay, that's fine.
Welcome back.
Hi.
How are you?
Good.
What's your name?
Becca.
How old are you?
I'm 22.
What do you do for it?
Social media.
That's it?
Yeah, I guess.
What does that entail?
Everything.
Like?
Life.
I want to answer the question.
Like, is it like, you know, dancing?
Is it like content?
Like, I would say it's like mostly live streaming and like day to day stuff.
Oh, great.
That was great.
That was awesome.
Thank you.
Profound.
Yeah.
Dating status?
Single.
Highest education level?
High school.
All right.
Parents together or no?
Yeah.
Birth control?
Well, last time I said Plan Bs, but I just wanted to change my answer this time to Russian roulette.
Oh.
Damn.
Oh.
That's not a good thing.
I know.
That's fun.
Who's showing Blake?
Okay.
I don't want to know your body count.
All right.
Guest of honor.
Welcome to the show if you don't.
Thank you.
So we know who you are.
They may not.
Who are you?
You've seen.
You've seen Farhat.
What do you do?
I do content, fitness content.
I do coaching.
Yeah.
Everything fitness related.
Okay.
So I have a question for the panel with our guests, of course.
What's your ideal body type?
And is he a good example of your ideal body type?
We'll start here.
Yeah, I like fit guys, guys that take care of themselves.
All right, and for you, yes, I love your arms.
Thank you.
That's it, just his arms, damn, because he's like as slim as I am, kind of slim, but you have really like big arms, like you have really nice arms.
What do you mean, slim?
Oh, like you better not say that to a workout, but his arms make up for it, you know.
I have, oh, you're sure, whatever.
And your chest, you know, your body, what do you mean by slim?
Slim, like you're kind of small.
I'm small, so I know it's small.
I think you mean lean, then, but yeah, sure.
Lean, you're lean.
Wait, he's small?
Not small.
Oh my god.
Then I'm pequeno.
No, your arms are huge.
Thank you.
I'll take it.
What's your body type?
You liking the guy?
I go more for personality.
I don't care.
At all?
Yeah, you gotta be fat.
So he could be fat now.
Yeah.
I don't care.
Really?
Yeah, just be fat.
No, actually, but I'm not looking for none of that.
I don't care.
Okay, what about you?
I want to pop one off you a little bit.
I care about personality more.
If I look at my, I like everybody I've ever been with, not everybody is fit, but I would go for someone who looks like him for sure.
Okay.
And you?
Tall, slender.
Yeah.
Tall and slender.
I forgot.
So, typically speaking, when it comes to body type, right?
What percentage are you body fat?
Right now, probably 8%.
Right now, yeah, yeah.
Wow.
And are you all natty?
Mm hmm.
Okay.
So, I guess the question is ideally, from a woman's point of view, they say they kind of don't care about the body type, as they say, but honestly, we know that that's cap.
So, from your experience, how would you describe someone as the ideal body type for women?
For a woman?
Body Type and Control00:13:30
Yeah.
I think I might be a bit too lean.
I think around like 10 to 12 is usually where you want to be.
And yeah, I think I'm like, you got to have some muscle.
Like, just from experience, like me before compared to me now, I definitely see the difference with women or like attention that I get.
But yeah, you don't need to be like 8% body fat, like at least around 10%.
Okay.
Next question.
So, surgery wise, right?
If you could pick any surgery in the world to do right now, what would it be and why?
What surgery?
I would probably do.
I would probably do like.
There's this thing called PRP.
You can do it like you can do it for dry circles.
It's a cosmetic procedure.
It's called PRP.
What is that?
You know, if you're lacking sleep, sometimes you get little dark circles and puffiness under your eyes.
I probably have them now because I haven't had much sleep.
So.
PRP takes that away for about a year, six months to a year.
Yeah, you sound like you want to go to sleep.
All right.
What about you?
Any surgery at all?
No, I don't have any surgery.
Nobody.
But if I would, I would get my titties done.
Yeah.
Like it bigger or smaller?
No, no, no, no.
Not nothing like that.
More of just like perkiness.
Like I just wanted to sit where I want them to sit at all times.
Okay, you don't have to zoom in.
He's like, let's check it out.
Hold on.
Oh, yeah, you too, my bad.
No, I like my titties.
Ain't nothing wrong with them.
It's just like.
Preference.
More perky.
Yeah.
Like, I work out.
So it's like now that I'm seeing myself slimmed down, it's like it's preference at this point.
Yeah.
What would you get?
I love myself.
Just hypothetically speaking, if you would get anything.
I eat too much.
So I'm probably my double chin.
Yo, girls, can you please do me a favor?
Because you guys all sound like, right now, I'm being.
I'm falling asleep back here, okay?
I need high energy.
I need to speak into the damn mic.
Time's true.
All right, finish the sentence.
You know, like you see right here, into the penis.
So I need you to act like you want to be here, ladies, okay?
I love myself.
Come on, ladies.
You're supposed to get here.
We're lit.
It's Friday night.
I'm fresh and fit.
All right?
That's it.
That's all I'm going to say to you, girls.
Thank you.
Go ahead.
I love food.
There you go.
You know, I love food so much.
Like, I feel like I'm growing a little bit of fatness down here.
You know?
Yeah, there you go.
Well, you're going to eat a food too.
So that's all that matters.
That's it.
I'll probably just get something.
So lipo, got you.
All right, for you.
I feel like my body, I don't want to change it because I know when I get older, I don't want to look weird with implants and shit.
So, like.
I just like my natural body.
And a lot of people like it too, so I just got used to it.
So, nothing at all?
No.
And you?
I want my ribs remodeled.
What?
Yeah, so basically, like, they break the bottom three of your ribs and then, like, push them in and then tie you into a corset.
And it takes, like, under three.
What's that called?
Rib remodeling or rib sculpting.
Is that a thing?
Yeah.
You need help.
No.
Like, literally, it's like.
It's like an actual medical surgical procedure as well.
Like they do it on people that have scoliosis and stuff like that.
So.
Interesting.
Sounds pretty radical.
Okay, Hussein, question for you.
In bodybuilding, I've heard from other people and sources that guys do surgery.
Yeah.
They'll do lipo, all this stuff.
Is that like normal?
Yeah, yeah.
I didn't know actually when I first started.
Do you know Greg?
You said, I think he came here.
Yeah, he did a couple of times.
He made a video on me and he said, I'm not natural and everything.
He thought I had like oil in my muscle.
Like, they inject oil.
So, like, uh, Sintol, for example, when they're on stage, every single bodybuilder has it.
I don't have it.
I don't have it.
But, like, what are you doing?
I'm not doing none of those muscles.
She wants to make sure, man.
She wants to make sure.
What the fuck, Chris?
Did this nigga just zoom in on him, man?
Yo, on his muscles, man.
Yo, Chris, what the fuck, nigga?
Hey, he works hard, man.
Nah, nigga.
Oh, yeah.
Sintol and muscles, yeah, to like fix imperfections, more symmetry.
Yeah, they do, yeah.
Yeah, because what's scary is that nowadays, I feel like men are getting surgeries, and some go beyond the limit.
Some are actually full transformations.
I want to say the word on YouTube, but it's scary because nowadays, not only are men getting surgery, women are too.
And I got a video to play here as well.
It's kind of scary because in the club in Miami, this happens all the time.
There we go.
I'm telling you, it's bad.
It's really bad.
This is what we're going to show me.
I want to see it.
And tell me what you think about this video.
Change your hair.
Okay.
Thoughts on the video?
Um, well, Cunty ate, period, but she needs to get her lip filler retouched.
Okay.
Thoughts on the video?
I feel like it's hard to tell sometimes.
Isn't it?
That's scarier, isn't it?
Like, I feel like if I was a dude, I would be, like, fucked up because it's hard to tell.
What do you think?
You can literally tell.
How'd you know?
Her face.
Okay.
Her.
Um, I don't know.
It's crazy.
Like, I don't know.
It's kind of crazy how I myself have been surprised, like in person, in real life.
I've had girls tell me that they're not girls.
I'm like, wait, what do you mean?
You look just like me.
I can't.
I don't even know.
I don't.
What you want to be, you be.
It's bad.
Everything.
It's bad.
It's possible.
What do you think?
What was that?
A girl?
I lost.
I lost.
So, it's a trans woman.
Transformer.
Oh.
Yeah, I couldn't tell.
So, I mean, obviously, that's a far transformation, very far, but isn't that crazy?
Like how much people are doing transformations?
And I used to be a man.
So, it's funny because in Miami, especially, when you're lit, you're partying, all that stuff like that, they're out there.
Just chilling, waiting.
Um, so I guess back this way again if it's getting hard to tell Transformers from women, you think women are in trouble nowadays for dating?
No, no, why not?
No, because if you're a heterosexual man, then you're not gonna deviate from that.
Okay, for me, I feel like not at all because you could get your done in a surgery and it won't be as wet as a real life, so it's like.
It's not going to give what it needs to give, what a woman will give.
So they will never take our reign.
What do you think?
Is it over for women if men keep doing this?
We're just gonna run out of men.
No comment.
Yeah, that's how I feel.
I have no comment.
You're Chris.
I don't think it's right.
I see why her man is a Joe right now.
What about you?
I feel like if you're a secure man, you're always gonna want some wet type of sea.
I love.
Yeah.
Okay.
What was the question again?
Yeah.
Stupid.
Do you think with this new style of, I guess, like transformation, women are in trouble?
No.
Dating?
No.
There's a fish for like everybody in the sea.
All right.
Go to the comments of that video that we just pulled up.
You know what's scary?
Most guys said they will still go for it.
And you know what's insane?
They're actually being serious because they're starving right now.
But like, what do you mean?
What are they starving from?
Because most men are not getting laid in anymore.
Okay, but it's like 2026.
Go to the comments.
Definitely, yes.
Yes.
I'm telling you, bro, it is scary nowadays.
So, bro, it's bad.
Niggas are down bad, bro.
Down some more?
Sounds like a nigga problem.
Shit.
And from being honest, like, that's not a problem for the girlies.
That's a problem for y'all.
How so?
Because I don't have to deal with that problem.
And if I do, I just move on.
Men, it's like they think this is their only option because the real girls.
They can't get or fuck.
That's not the truth.
I think everything is perception.
You have to have control of your life and what you want.
And you get what you want.
And when you believe that you get what you want, you're going to get what you want.
So, not saying that is right by any means.
But what if they chose that over you?
That has nothing to do with me.
I am like, you're missing out.
That has nothing to do with me.
I'm not going to show you how you're missing out.
I just know that you're going to look into your future and be like, damn.
I should have just stood right where I was, you know, but it's okay.
So, sorry, go ahead.
So, I don't know.
I just wanted to say something like about the comments and stuff.
I feel like it's easier for guys to be attracted to somebody like that than like a full on man because if they want to experiment, it kind of makes it easier.
It's like a gateway.
Like, to them, it's like a sexy little mind fuck.
I bet it depends on the person.
It's just very scary.
What do you think, Hussein?
I have no idea what she means by experiment.
I'm not going close to that, bro.
That's why I don't.
But what if you don't know?
I would know.
You don't?
You wouldn't?
I've met women who literally, well, you know, not women that are women, and I wouldn't even.
And I know women.
It's scary.
It is scary.
I make sure I do my research beforehand.
There's a couple things I can send out before.
So do you not think that there's like men out there that want to experiment and figure out their sexuality?
That's another issue.
I'm not going to get into that, but if they want to, sure.
But that's not for me.
I stay away from it all.
That's okay for it to not be for you, but why does it matter how another person chooses to live their life?
It doesn't.
That's what I'm saying.
It doesn't matter to me.
That's good.
Yeah.
I just find it scary because I'm sober when I'm out.
So I see everything.
But guys that are not sober, they fall for this all day.
And it's scary because it's normal.
But yeah.
What do you think, Myron?
I will just keep going.
We got some chats here.
All right, the Deep Tinker says, uh, today's my birthday.
My friend sent me a blank for our picture.
Meanwhile, she has a boyfriend.
Men and women cannot be friends.
Ladies, what do y'all think?
Oh, that's my favorite.
All right.
I think that men and women cannot be friends, especially when you're in a relationship or if you're like talking to a woman.
I feel like you can't have friends, like female friends.
That's weird.
You?
I feel like it's like basic human nature to like interact with the other sex.
So I feel like.
If you trust your significant other, it shouldn't be a problem who they're friends with as long as it's platonic.
And if you cut a human off from basic human interaction, they're just going to go behind your back and do it.
For you?
I agree.
They cannot be friends if you're in a relationship.
I'm a little 50 50.
Like, y'all shouldn't be friends, especially if y'all both look good.
I don't believe in like good, two look, like two good looking people being friends.
They fucking, one of them like each other.
The other one has a crush.
One of them wanna fuck, you know?
But I also believe that it's good to have a friend in the opposite gender just because we get to see the different point of view.
I, as a person who didn't really have a lot of guy friends, Hated the fact that I didn't have guy friends because I don't get the point of view.
I don't think how y'all think, you know.
But if you have a guy friend, he'll tell you, like, yeah, he's just trying to do this, that, and the third.
This is what he really means.
And it could be the same for guys with girlfriends.
But you just need to have communication and trust with your partner.
That's really what it is.
It has nothing to do with, oh, they fucking or they like each other.
My line is if y'all both cute, one of y'all got to be ugly.
I'm sorry.
That's what I'm saying, huh?
Someone's ugly.
No, even the ugly ones aren't safe.
No, they're not.
But at least I will feel better.
I will go to sleep at night knowing that.
You out with your best friend that got a crooked tooth, and you got a baddie at home, a 10 out of 10 with 36 straight teeth.
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So it's like, what you gonna do for real?
Like, you're gonna go outside with your, I don't know.
Even if you go and cheat with your best friend, I'm not even gonna be mad about it.
Like, but that's just me.
I'll just walk away.
Can you be friends?
If you're in a relationship, yeah, you can be friends with a guy, but I think friends is a vague term.
So, I mean, friends, you can hang out with your boyfriend and The other person, if they really wouldn't be friends with you, then they're going to be okay with that.
If they're not, then you're going to know really quick.
And no, then you shouldn't.
Do you have any girls that are friends?
No.
Why?
There's no point.
I don't believe in guys and girlfriends.
No, no, no.
I don't have any girlfriends.
That was my point.
I was going to bring it up.
There's literally no point.
Unless it's like business.
Maybe sometimes I have like employees or girls.
I have like sales closers, but no, there's no point.
Yeah, there's no point, honestly.
Diglett, girl with a camouflage hoodie.
What have you learned since the last time you were Frank Castle?
Wait, what's she?
I think before, but we squashed it though.
So, have you learned anything?
Yeah.
Nope.
Yeah.
I have.
I mean, was the behavior called for?
It's very vague that I don't know what happened last time, really, but do you?
Maybe it was more to excitement.
I was excited.
So you fucked up.
I just, yeah.
Okay.
All right.
But it's okay.
Now it's okay.
We're doing good.
I mean, like, it's better.
All right.
Well, good luck.
All right.
DPG thing.
Shout out to you, bro, for supporting.
Shout out to OSS300 in house.
We here.
Let's fucking go.
Shout out to Bills, Mo, Chris, Fresh, and Myron and crew.
WChat.
Thank you, bro.
Shout out to you, fam.
Yes, ladies always say when men should take care of their kids or risk prison time.
Should men also decide if the kid is born?
P.S. Moe feeding because he hasn't been on CD.
What CD?
Crimson Desert.
Okay.
All right.
That's the last one.
Bro says, sent Chris to the Shadow Realm.
He breathing to the mite louder than the big bitches that show up on Pod, even louder than the Gordo Moe when he runs a mile in the gym.
Is he breathing?
I can't tell.
All right, my dad left.
Mine, appreciate everything you do.
F the money, these haters will dance for anything.
They'll be lucky if they get EBT thrown their way.
I'm sorry.
That's really funny.
Listen.
Cat says, Chris is really scraping the bottom of the barrel with his pound.
Aw, man.
Keeping High Caliber People Around00:15:07
Damn, that's fucked up.
Damn it.
That's tough.
Damn, girls.
Is he all ladies?
Is he coming at us?
Yeah, I mean, he is.
Damn.
Every single one of us.
I guess we're all just useless.
I don't know about that.
Don't put me in that hole, please.
I'm very useful.
Same.
Enrique Basis says W. Myron.
Thanks.
Period.
All right.
You know what?
Hussein, I'll throw it to you, bro.
Any questions for the girls at all?
Any questions for the girls?
Do you want to know dating wise?
I was dating in Miami.
Yeah, I was dating in Miami.
Actually, I was thinking of moving here, so let me know your experiences.
Terrible.
Why?
Well, it's kind of different for men and women, but I'm going to be really honest down here.
You got the top tier bops of bops down here.
Okay.
What does that have to do with you?
It's not me.
No, no, no, but I'm asking your experience with dating.
Well, I guess like with some of the guys down here, like they don't really want like anything serious and it's kind of just like a waste of time.
Okay.
But then there's like, I don't know, it's like 50 50 because sometimes you can find like a good guy that's actually like looking to settle down and like, you know, maybe it doesn't always work and you guys didn't see like across the same path like over time.
But then like there's like the other half where like it's just like, can I say, um, sluts?
Yeah.
Okay.
Well, there's like a lot of fucking sluts down here.
I'm not going to lie.
Like for men and women, like the guys down here are ran through a Fucking like there's a lot of women down here just like cracking for rent, okay?
So beware, sure.
No, I'm good, yeah, regardless.
Period, King.
I feel like rent is high down here, and the image on Miami is like it's like expenses are high in Miami, you know?
It's like LA and Atlanta, so oh, okay, okay.
I'm talking about dating, yeah.
So I feel like everybody's focused on just like the money and working and building a career and try to create keep an image, like, okay, no one's focused on dating, like, you know.
Okay.
But you might find that one, they're just not outside.
Yeah, so she's basically saying, like, the income here, sorry, the expenses here are really high, so people focus on making money than love.
Okay.
That's the main thing she's saying there.
That's unfortunate.
Okay, Mia?
Yeah.
You know, I'm not looking for any of that.
Like, I'm not into any of that.
But from my experience, it's not good.
So, yeah.
Okay, who hurt you?
All right.
I just moved here, so I don't know.
I'm listening to y'all.
I'm scared.
I'm like, Girl, I'm a lover girl.
I'm a lover girl from New York.
So it's like, I'm already coming from bad dating life.
Like, you know, like the worst of the worst.
Y'all saying it's bad down here, but in New York, it's like.
It's worse?
It's bad.
Why?
It's horrible.
But okay, because dating in the Midwest is scary.
I was going to say, you say how you just said like people are here trying to get their rent.
People are there just trying to get fucked.
They don't care about rent.
What?
Girls will fuck you for nothing out in New York.
Men will fuck you for nothing in New York.
Here, at least you trick to be tricked.
You know what I mean?
It's something, it's an exchange, but.
I don't think that's okay.
I actually love love.
I'm gonna love a girl down bad.
But if I shouldn't be, I'll keep that in mind.
So New York is worse than Miami?
I think so.
Wow.
I personally think I lived there all my life.
So it's like I had to date there.
Wait, you're saying no?
No.
What?
No, I've talked to guys in New York and Miami.
Did you live in Miami?
Not live in New York and have to date?
No, I don't even pay for your Uber to date.
Well, I travel a lot for work.
Bing bong.
I travel a lot for work.
Yeah, I mean, I guess like that's kind of what I was going to say down here.
I feel like both are bad, but like Miami just might be worse instead of like, well, I would say what's worse is like that the guys in New York don't really have like a lot of money.
They don't got money.
They don't want to take you out.
There's no motion of that.
They don't want to take you out on like a date or anything.
No.
But the guys down here, they'll take you to the trap.
They really care about like the show off and like showing that they have money.
So, you know, you can get taken to Kiki on the river on a Tuesday night.
Yeah, but what does that mean for my heart?
What is Kiki on the beach going to do for me five years from now?
You're young.
What does that mean?
You don't need to figure it out right now.
Just get the life experiences and enjoy it.
Yeah, I've had enough life experiences.
You're not going to find what you want down the road.
So that's my opinion.
Why?
Because people that are going to show you all of these things are not looking for a girl who's been through a lot of stuff when she was younger.
At least I'm speaking for myself.
I wouldn't go for a girl if I'm older, I have money and everything.
I'm not looking for a girl who.
Has had experiences before me.
What do you mean?
Like, you want to be with an all right version?
Like, hasn't been through nothing.
Yeah.
Ideally.
Why?
It's kind of so what?
You commode her into the type of girl you want?
Or, yeah, what if she's been through everything, but she's just like ready to just be happy?
She's been through dicks.
Yeah.
No, no, I can't have that.
No, there's no way.
It's just like too much to deal with after.
Also, are you speaking from experience or what you think?
What I think and also from experience of others.
I don't think I have to go through it to learn from it.
But also, just in general, when girls go through a lot of stuff, well, a lot of guys, a lot of dick, whatever you want to call it, it's hard for them to get attached emotionally after a guy.
And they always have this like thing.
Yeah, you fucking the wrong bitches.
I'm going to be honest.
No.
Wait, wait, whoa.
What?
No, no.
Why do you say that?
Wait, he's fucking the right ones, man.
No, because if you're not, like, I feel like it's either or.
Like, you want to fuck somebody and they're going to get emotionally attached right away off the phone.
No, sure.
I'm not saying that.
Or they're just going to be hard to.
Get emotionally.
There's some girls out here who just don't have a heart like that.
I've never dealt with it.
And the reason why I've never dealt with it is because the girls that I go for have not been through a lot of guys before me.
I'm not speaking from experience, I'm speaking from what happened to other people.
Okay.
So do you mean like hookup wise, dating wise, general wise?
I don't hook up.
I don't, like for me, honestly, if I was to date a girl, it would be to get like to see myself long term with her.
So every person you've been with has been a long term or potentially long term.
Yeah.
And if I don't see potential, I stop talking to them.
Okay.
But as a person, I go off potential and potential can only get you so far.
Why?
What do you mean?
Because potential isn't real.
It's what you think they could be.
And then when they start to show you that they're not or will ever be, you got to walk away.
Yeah, exactly.
That's what I'm saying.
But if I don't see potential from like, I could literally look at a girl and I know this is not going to work out from the way she dresses, from the people she hangs out with, from how many people she's been with me before me.
Like, I just wouldn't make it happen.
Question for you What gave you that mindset?
Because obviously you're in shape.
I'm sure you can get.
Hello, host, if you wanted to.
What gave you that mindset?
And how old are you, by the way?
What do you mean?
Your age?
I'm 23.
Okay.
I'm 23.
What gave me that mindset?
Honestly, I've just always had it.
I've never wanted to have a girl who's been with someone like a lot of people before me.
It's just that mindset of wanting what's mine.
I've always had it.
I can't tell you.
I guess my parents were like this.
They're extremely traditional.
That's how I was, you know.
Were you raised Christian, Muslim?
Muslim, yeah, yeah.
What's your background?
I'm Lebanese.
Hello, my God!
That's wild.
That's crazy.
But yeah, so I was Muslim.
My parents were like this.
This is how I was always brought up.
And yeah, that's what I'm looking for.
That's good.
I'm curious to know your experience.
So being a bit older here and my meals dating for you.
Well, I really wasn't looking for a relationship.
What I was, you know, going out with, I was just having fun.
I hadn't been here that long, but I mean, when I met somebody that was closer to my age, I liked them, it wasn't hard.
Okay.
So, from that explanation, would you still want to move here for love?
I'm not, no, no.
If I was, I would move here, it's not for love.
I don't think I'll have an issue with love, to be honest.
Like, wherever I move, because I do have like a lot of options, if I was to move here, it would strictly be for business.
That's what I would do.
And I'd see a lot more potential here than in Montreal for sure.
But whatever you go, you're always going to find like, go on and see like girls that you don't want to be with.
But I think it would be harder for sure.
But that's not what I'm here for.
So it doesn't really matter.
So I have a question real quick for the panel.
From his mindset, how he moves and operates, is that hot to you or not at all?
He's picking basically one girl, seeing how she is.
Is that hot for you or not?
There's some things that I do and like, I do agree with and don't agree with that he's saying.
What don't you agree with?
Well, I guess it wouldn't be that I don't agree with yet.
I just want to like ask about it before.
So like, How do you think a woman should be dressing?
Modestly.
So, do you think because I'm wearing a crop top?
Haram!
For me.
Okay.
Haram!
I mean, if the shoe fits.
For me.
For me, at least.
I'm not saying anything bad about it.
Like, you can do whatever you want to do.
And also, that's something as well.
I never tell my girl what to do.
But if she doesn't follow the way I want it to be, then she's just not with me.
So, what does she have to follow?
Like I said, like, modest.
Be like just a girl, girl of God.
Let's say this put it this way like, if she follows God and follows like the religion itself, could be Muslim, could be Christian, whatever, then she should be qualified.
All right, so that means you're out of there.
All right, what about you?
A lot of things he said I agree on, but I also disagree because I'm a dancer and I'm still a lover girl, but like, I'm not explaining this.
Like, what you go for is what you go for, but like, the appearance is not what it really is on the inside.
Yeah.
I'm a whole dancer, like, but I'm a lover girl and I do respect people, how they carry themselves, how they dress.
Like, it means a lot, but.
On the inside, it means more.
Sure, but why would someone speak to you and get to know your inside if they see from the outside?
It's not like, no, you're right.
Yeah, but that's also a reason why a lot of relationships don't work out for like dancers and stuff.
Like, because we're out here talking to a lot of men and doing a lot of things that's not godly.
What was your longest relationship?
Like five years.
My child's five years.
And you were dancing at that time?
Yeah, I was dancing.
I was doing a lot of crazy stuff, but we kind of came to an agreement.
I'm mature.
I'm very mature.
Like, when it comes to relationship stuff, I'm very mature, so I know how to move.
When I'm in a relationship, but I don't know.
I feel like there's other girls and there's other, like, there's other girls in the industry who don't know how to move.
It's a level of maturity.
It's just how you move and carry yourself.
That's fine.
Yeah.
Mia?
Oh, what was the question?
What are we talking about right now?
I got distracted.
Everything that he just said, if he was distracted to you, stupid.
I'm sorry.
I got distracted.
I was like, I was spaced out, you know?
That's just me.
Okay, his mindset, how he dates, is that hot for you or not?
Is that like a good thing or a bad thing?
Do you remember his mindset?
He gave us a good rundown, girl.
Come on.
He gave us a nice 10 minute talk.
I'm sorry.
I didn't pay attention.
It's fine.
It's fine.
I tend not to pay attention.
That's cool.
Move on to the next one.
Okay.
I would say I don't hate it.
Like, if anything, I love that mindset.
That just means you keep a certain caliber of women and people around you.
So there's nothing wrong with that.
I just think that there's certain parts of it that it's like.
You can't judge a book by its cover.
You know, like just because I'm dressed like this today doesn't mean I dress like this every day.
You know what I mean?
I get it.
Like, if initially meeting someone doesn't mean that's the one version they are.
Sure.
So I kind of, I'm big on compromise and big on like getting to know people deeply.
So it's like the surface is just that.
The surface.
And people's relationship with God is very, very important.
And that's, I think, not a lot of people, people just go over that one.
So it's like, I get it.
It is not.
I do agree.
Like, you shouldn't judge a book by its cover, but if you have 400 covers in front of you and you have the options, then you will be able to.
You're going to go for the cover that looks nice.
Exactly.
You know, it looks presentable.
I get it.
It's respectable.
What do you think?
Yeah, I think it's a good quality to have.
It'll keep you from getting a lot of STDs.
Yeah, and a lot of problems.
A lot of crazy stuff.
Let's go.
There's a lot out there.
It hurts.
Can I ask you one more thing?
Yeah.
So, like, would you rather, like, find a woman that's Muslim and that, like, actually follows, like, Uh, the rules and everything is that what you're like looking for long term, ideally?
Yeah, doesn't have to be Muslim specifically, but if she's religious and she follows the rules, then yeah, of course, there we go.
Yeah, I was gonna say, but what if you met someone right today?
You met someone who isn't falling into all of those things that you want and need, but you really like this person, and this person is okay to compromise and become the type of girl you want.
No, no, no, why?
I have my standards, I don't need to go through it.
Like, in my mind, maybe it's a bad mindset, maybe it's because I have a lot of options, but in my mind, I can just find that person.
There's no need for someone to go through the.
I don't even have time, first of all.
And there's no need to waste my time on like changing someone.
And also, you can't really change anybody.
I don't think that's not how I mean it.
I don't mean change.
Big word compromise.
You know, if somebody loves you, if somebody loves you, they will compromise things about themselves to be with you.
You know what I mean?
It doesn't have to be like big, but let's say like, okay, how I dress.
Oh, yeah, sure.
Like, she could be more modest just because she's.
She's with a Muslim man.
It comes also from like, why does she not dress modestly from the first place?
It's because she wants attention from men.
That's not always true.
It's 2026.
He thinks that's high.
It's high.
We in Miami, people just dress.
How do you express yourself?
I would say like fashion is a form of art, just like makeup.
You're not wearing it to impress other men, but it's a way that you, what's the word I'm looking for?
Express yourself.
Yes, thank you.
Yes.
As an artist, I'm a makeup artist.
So, and I style people for a living.
I don't have to put a girl in some booty shorts and a Tink top and a cut like no, it's really much.
It's really more about what do you want to do?
What do you feel like today, you know?
And sometimes, do you think this is something that I would wear?
I sweat one day, the next day, she won't look much longer.
It's okay.
Well, I don't know.
No, probably not.
No, not at all.
But this is something that I would wear like when I'm in front of a okay.
What are you expressing right now?
That I like diesel and.
I'm sure diesel makes shirts that are like covering you up.
I have other diesel shirts.
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Okay.
Why did you put this one?
Because I like it.
Sure.
Why do you like it?
Because it makes me happy and it makes me feel confident and it's comfy.
Sure.
My point says.
Yes, sir.
My point says.
Haram!
It comes down to the reason why she's doing it.
And that reason usually tends for, like, tends to, like, again, want attention, want to, whatever.
Like, again, towards stuff that I wouldn't like.
So, yeah, I wouldn't even talk to her in the first place.
That's what I'm saying.
I wouldn't even know why she's wearing it because first thing that pops into my mind is like, okay, she's doing it for attention.
So, do you think like a woman should be like dressed fully, like not showing like any shoulders, like and knees and your belly button in the freaking club?
First off, she shouldn't be in the club.
We're young.
It's fine.
I'm not telling you not to do it.
We're young.
I mean, like to each their own, but.
That's totally fine.
That's not what I'm saying.
I'm saying for me, she wouldn't be.
That's my point.
So, where do you think you're going to find your girl?
Go to church.
He's finding her in the mosque.
Keep it in the back.
Very quiet, sitting like this.
Hello!
You want to know where he's going to find her?
Somebody's father.
Why do you do that?
That was mean.
That's true.
Isn't that bad, though, to have standards?
No, it's amazing.
I'm not saying that it's bad.
I'm 22, but what you're doing?
He's 23.
Yeah.
So, I feel like your best option is to probably talk to somebody's dad.
No, I already found her.
It's not a problem.
I have a.
I found a bunch of them.
Oh.
I just.
Okay.
No, no.
That's not.
What I mean is they're easily findable.
Yeah, whatever.
But yeah, they're easy to find.
That's also because of your appearance.
What's up?
That's because of your appearance.
Like, your standards are so high because you have so many options.
It's not high, bro.
It's bare minimum.
It's bare minimum, ladies.
Don't be slack.
I said it.
All the things that he's saying, like the way you dress and this and that, like.
I could dress how I want.
It's hot outside.
It's cold outside.
All right.
How are you dressing?
Is that controlling you?
I'm your sexual excuse.
When you're in a relationship, I don't think.
To a certain extent.
To a certain extent, it's controlling.
That's why I recommend, like you said, it's because of my appearance.
I have options.
I recommend every single man to be the best version of themselves so they can choose what they want.
Right.
You're right.
There's nothing wrong with that.
Vice versa, girls.
I have a question.
Vice versa.
Yeah.
What if you met a girl?
Well, okay.
You said earlier, if she's Christian.
So that's okay.
So that's okay if she's Christian?
Yeah.
It's okay.
What if she's a nudist?
What if she's a nudist?
That's one.
First off, that's not a religion.
It's not a religion.
I know, but I'm saying, what if she's a good girl and she hasn't had anybody?
She's still a virgin.
She's saving herself from marriage, but she's a nudist.
You can't like her own body and she's okay with going to the beach and she doesn't like tan lines.
Yeah.
No, we're not doing that.
No, no, no.
I don't know what to answer.
So recently there was a controversy on Facebook.
Yeah.
Twitter and TikTok, where Austria and Chris Brown dropped their tour dates around the US, going everywhere Miami, New York, Vegas.
And men are upset.
They're saying they wanted to be canceled because obviously the governments want to go, whites want to go.
So, from your honest opinion, if your man told you don't go to that concert, would you still go?
We'll start here.
What kind of concert?
It's Chris Brown, the Usher.
They may pull you from the audience, bring you on stage, photo shoots behind the scenes, very raunchy.
Would you still go if your man said he doesn't want you to go?
Do I already have the ticket spot?
No.
Let's say no.
No.
So you would stay home?
No, that's fine.
I could stay home and watch a movie with him.
It doesn't matter.
Okay.
Not the cap.
If he doesn't want me to go, I wouldn't go.
But Chris Brown, I definitely would.
That's fine, Chris.
I definitely would go.
So, you would say no, but you would still want to go?
Yeah, of course.
Okay.
What about you?
I'm not going.
Why?
Because we could just stay home together, you know, cut and cuddle.
Stop the cap.
But what if you don't like Chris Brown?
Let me tell you something.
I'm going to tell you why I'm not going.
We can have our own Chris Brown Usher concert at home.
You know, like, we don't need them.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
We don't need them.
We just need very loud speakers.
In a mirror.
That's it.
That sounds very good on paper.
Yeah, Oh, yeah, yeah.
No, would you still go?
No, I'm not okay.
That's a whole different song.
Yeah, you're thinking of the wrong song.
No, you said, yeah, yeah, yeah.
So the comments were crazy because women are saying they're still going.
They don't care.
Yeah.
Their favorite artist.
Would you let your girl go to a concert like that?
No.
No, no, no.
Don't get it wrong.
I would let her go.
She can do whatever she wants.
But if she goes, she's not with me anymore.
Oh.
Solid.
Okay.
That's fair.
Is that fair if you still went to the concert?
Your man leaves you?
Yeah, but you lost your nigga.
That's crazy.
Would you like communicate that it's a problem before?
Would you be like, no, it's fine.
And then just see what she chooses to do.
And then if she chooses wrong, you just buy.
I would, she would know.
If we're together at some point, she would have known.
I would have told her.
But in my mind, like, why would you want to go to a concert?
I wouldn't go to a concert first off because it's a waste of time.
And second off, like, yeah, I don't see the point in going to a concert.
Like screaming for another man is just weird, in my opinion, if you're in a relationship.
So, yeah, I wouldn't.
Like, she would be aware, first off, but I wouldn't tell her specifically, I don't want you to go.
Don't go.
I'm not doing that.
What about live music?
What is that?
Live music?
Live music?
Yeah.
Yeah, like Coachella.
I wasn't even thinking like that.
Like, I was thinking like, you know, like speakeasy vibes, like a banquet, like an event, something like that, where they have like live music.
I don't know what that is, but like.
Like, like music.
Like, it's a little bit of a song.
So basically, like, say, like, me and you were dating and you didn't want me to go out and listen to music.
Like, my aunt's a singer down here.
Am I allowed to go or no?
She sings jazz and stuff like that.
She sings at like nice restaurants.
Yeah, right.
Yeah, that's fine.
That's cool.
So it's just the venue that matters.
It's the venue.
It's the person performing.
You told me your aunt.
So that's like family.
That's cool.
It's just like the event.
Like Coachella, for example.
I saw a lot of stuff recently.
Yeah.
Like, just.
It's bad.
Yeah, it's bad.
What's wrong with Coachella?
What?
Well, first of all, I'm trying to tell her, single, ready to mingle.
You might be in a dingo.
No, no, I'm honestly thinking like.
Influencers are there.
Okay, they're there.
You just said it.
How did I get there?
You're thinking about hot.
People, you're going to get fucked.
Like, the question is, how'd they get there in the first place?
Somebody paid it wasn't cheap for sure.
1k ticket brand or something, yeah.
But she um caught on to what she said.
She said hot people are there, yeah.
So she's going to the cheat or at least uh intention, you know what I'm saying?
I wouldn't go without my significant other, like, I wouldn't if I was like in no, if I was dating, yeah, like, no, if I was dating like in a relationship, I wouldn't go to the club without that person.
Like, if they didn't want to go out that night, I wouldn't go out if they didn't want to like go to an event.
I wouldn't go unless it was like I had to attend for work.
Oh, yeah, for work.
To network.
Uh huh.
Okay, so Coachella itself, they made $62 million from the weekend.
And honestly speaking, it's because high rolls are paying for tickets.
They're paying for space, tickets, campers, everything.
Now, if you're a girl going to Coachella, you're not paying for shit.
So when you go there, what's going to happen?
There's going to be drugs, niggas with money, and access.
Are you going to say no?
No.
I don't know.
I haven't been to a like experience, but if you could go, it's paid for.
I'm sure you would go if it was like from a brand that was like actually like a good one, like good long term, probably.
No, guys, it's like, but like usually, but just pull up, yeah, like a dude, yeah, yeah, it's paid for.
Pull up.
Am I already in California or like am I no, no, private jet, yeah, Coachella, no, weekend, nope, come on, back up, man, no, no, I don't know, I don't, Becca, no, Trust traveling to the other side of the world with men.
Do you know what?
Do you know what Rex trafficking is?
I don't know if I can say that online.
I'm your girlfriend.
How about that?
Oh, gosh.
You and your girlfriend.
No, I wouldn't travel with a man that, like, I don't know.
No.
Like, somebody that's, like, sketchy.
Like, I just wouldn't do it.
I wouldn't travel to the other side of the world with them.
I'm not, like, what?
That's going to be the last time you see me?
No.
He's there already, right?
And he's saying, all right, just show up to the airport, you and your girl, and pull up.
Suitcase and everything.
No.
All right.
Can I say, like, Can I say trafficking?
Can I say that?
I don't know.
Yeah, fine.
Okay.
Like, trafficking is a very big thing, especially in the big cities LA, Miami, New York, and there's some other cities too.
I don't advise any woman to get on a flight with a man that you don't know, a man that has money that you think could keep you safe, because it's usually a manipulation tactic.
They usually don't have good intentions.
They're either getting you down there to fuck you, fuck one of your friends.
Um, or they have bad intentions, they're gonna hurt you.
That's crazy, bro.
So, I'm not gonna go and do that.
Not as well.
I think I would go, but you just have to know how to move.
No, I'm not trusting you on the other side of the U.S. That's a six hour flight from here.
I'm already be seeing that guy.
I gotta know him.
Already be messing with him.
Like, oh, I want you to come out.
I missed you.
I'm out here at Coachella.
The point is that it's a free trip to Coachella.
Thank you.
Everyone wants to go for the photos, for the reels, for the times.
Is he paying for the outfits too?
I get free trips.
I get free trips for work all the time.
I don't want to hear that.
No.
But either way, if a girl goes to Coachella, just cut, bro.
Yeah, I know.
Just forget her at that point.
Even if she goes by herself?
Hell yeah.
Why?
Because she's not going to be alone.
Okay, look.
Coachella is a huge event.
Yes.
Everyone's there.
She's going to find some people and go hang with them.
She won't be there by herself the whole time.
Okay, so that's where trust goes into play.
Like, it has nothing.
A hoe is going to be a hoe, but let's say you got a good girl, like, let's say the type of girls you like.
Yeah.
And she goes to Coachella.
It's not nothing about looking for somebody else or having fun and getting wild.
No.
Her favorite artists are headlining.
She's never been to Coachella.
Her friends want to go.
It's just going to be a group of girls.
They all paid for their own ticket, paid for their own Airbnb, paid for their own outfit.
Question.
That's a problem, too.
Someone offers you VIP and some.
I'm going to take that VIP, but that don't mean you got to do nothing with the person who gave you the VIP.
You start drinking alcohol.
You start getting lit.
That's not what you're talking about.
You're talking right now sober.
But it could be somebody.
That's the point.
Okay.
So I don't.
I think we're speaking generally about something that isn't.
We should, because it happens generally.
Yeah.
I guess.
You've been to the club.
You know what I'm saying.
I know.
That's why I'm shutting up.
I'm telling you.
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All right.
Um,.
Any more chats here?
Jock says, Girls, why are you ugly?
Rate yourself from zero to two beats.
What does that mean?
Zero to two beats?
Is that like a beat up?
Music reference?
Like beat the fuck up.
Like you're chopped.
Chopped cheese.
Damn.
I've never heard that one.
Right?
That's what they meant?
Yeah.
I would actually rate myself.
That's why.
A zero out of done, busted out of 10.
All right, let's go.
Let's go to Rumble.
Uh, so agree more of these chats because uh, yo, this nigga Jock is funny, bro.
All right, it's a question why are you ugly or rate yourself?
Yeah, come on over, guys, Rumble.
Everybody, kick in YouTube.
I'm dying here.
Yo, is Jock new or no?
He's killing it tonight.
All right, let me know when we're ready to go.
You're making me want to ASMR.
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