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🔴 Modern Dating Is Cooked: Who's to Blame & Can it Be Fixed 2025-08-15 18:18
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White?
No, but I would be lying to you if I said it wasn't a component of it because white males in this country still largely determine a lot of national elections.
And that's the most problematic group for the left.
So replacing white males who are the most likely to be conservative with any demographic would be in their best interest.
If you were to have Frank Luntz run a focus group, if you were a Democrat today and you're going to go, okay, what's my biggest problem here?
What's my biggest roadblock to that?
Ah, that's right.
It's those white males in the suburbs or country who go to church and who own guns.
How do we marginalize them as much as possible and change those numbers?
That is a statistical reality.
I think, again, going through it logically, you would understand why.
No, I don't think they necessarily go brown better than white, black better than white.
I think they go anything better than white conservative males because that's what keeps us from achieving unfettered national power.
And I won't act like that's not the case.
And I wanted to go back to one thing, just so you don't misconstrue this at all, because people talk about the manosphere and red pill and stuff like that.
And I know we've to the people out there who take this and at all go like, oh, okay, I know there are people in the red pill who say, yeah, go out and bang a lot of chicks so I can find out who a slut is.
No, that is the opposite of what I am saying here.
I still think you should seek the right things in a meaningful relationship.
The reason that I'm directing this largely toward young women is because it's a problem that can only be corrected from you.
And the men who are seeking something meaningful, you do need to, that if you don't want the guys who just bang a lot of bitches and red pill and hate women, then you need to know it's your duty to understand what it is that those men want and they're going to have different expectations.
And that's okay.
And by the way, I want to encourage men to have those expectations so that we don't have young men being CADs and promiscuous shitbags.
But the guys, you know, you don't get any credit for it either.
And that's a thing.
Men, hey, if it's a very wealthy, tall, successful man who's been married for 10 years and has never cheated, he kind of does deserve some credit because guess what?
He has a lot of opportunity.
All of the qualities that take a lot of effort are taken for granted.
And then the expectations are uncomfortable.
I want men who are looking for something real, who want to be good leaders, who want to be good fathers, who want to be good husbands.
And I think that a lot of women want that, but he's going to have different expectations.
And I can tell you this in my life.
You know, it's no secret that I was married and now I'm not.
Before that, when I dated, I was routinely, when I was rejected, told that it was because I was boring.
That was the main thing that came back.
I'd be like, yeah, you know, I'm kind of a creature of habit.
And this is what I want to do.
I was younger.
This is what I want to do with my life.
And it requires pretty kind of a regimented schedule.
But, you know, I like going out to dinner with a close friend or obviously if we're in a relationship and maybe going to the movies, maybe occasionally, you know, getting away.
But I'm happy being at home and keeping my circle of friends pretty close.
And when I'm not pursuing these professional endeavors, it's pretty important for me to rest.
And so I'd like someone who also likes to kind of lay back and take it a little bit easy and understand those rhythms and margins of, you know, hitting the gas and hitting the breaks and recovery so we can build.
It's like, I just want to dance.
I've never once outside of comedy clubs been to a nightclub.
I won't set foot in them.
I didn't, not because like, oh, no, it just, to me, is just, it's like what I picture hell being.
It's like going in and pulsing and lights with people I don't know and I can't get to know them because it's nothing to me but a meat market.
Like I like sitting, you know, the place that they're like, they would be considered old men place, a restaurant or a lounge where you can sit, maybe there's some, and you can talk and communicate.
It's just, it's always, now I will tell you this, when I was boring, the exact opposite in my 30s.
All of a sudden, every woman who was in their 30s didn't want to dance.
They were boring.
And that's what they were looking for.
How'd that change?
Were they boring all through their 20s and their early 30s?
And then it was considered wrong for me to ask a little about the background and go, oh, no, no, you weren't.
You were the one who said I was boring.
Well, why wouldn't I want someone who was always boring?
It's okay.
It's okay.
Young men, it's okay.
And young women know that the kind of men who you want them, that's what they are.
These are their preferences.
Make adjustments or die alone.
And I hope you don't die alone.
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