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One way or another, by hook or by crook, via charm or through struggle, almost all of the Full House regulars over the years have done the bit.
We dated, we married, we mated, we stayed together, and we built healthy families, and mostly in that order.
But getting hitched and having kids should be by no means your highest aspiration.
It should be your bare minimum life hurdle to jump.
An organism which does not reproduce is a genetic dead end.
But just being a Lothario makes Jews smile.
And insildom is not an option.
However, it's also true that just becoming a father will not save the white race.
And if you don't do it right, you could even drag it down.
Since we live in dark times, acting on our most fundamental normal human impulse becomes a revolutionary act.
Get married and have kids is not de-radicalization either.
It increases our numbers, leads to healthier lives for men and women.
And more often than not, it increases our commitment to the cause because there's no more skin in the game to be had than knowing that your own children will inherit this world.
We wax on about the glories and struggles of fatherhood on this show every week, but we probably don't do enough to help those willing and able men and women who are eager to get into the greatest life game of all and who may need just a little more advice and cajoling.
So this week, we will do our best to condense our accumulated wisdom, supplemented by some hired youthful help, to help you.
So, Mr. Producer, let's do it.
Now, welcome,
everyone, to episode 145 of Full House, the world's most beloved show for white fathers, aspiring ones, and the whole biofam.
I am, as always, your optimistic host, Coach Finstock.
Well, I'm not always optimistic, but this week I am back with another two hours of what we hope will be big help to all of the singles in the audience.
Before we meet the birth panel, though, big thanks to Zach and Anon for their kind support of the show this week.
And if you'd like to be like those sultans of support, yes, I'm trapped in alliteration for this section of the show, please visit giveso.com slash fullhouse or full-house.com and the support us tab.
And with that, let us get cracking.
First up, he was so good at dating and then settling down that he did it twice.
Sam, welcome back, Biggie.
Hey, man, if you fall off the horse, you got to get right back on and keep riding.
But yeah, it's great to be here.
That was great words at the beginning there, Coach.
And I wanted to quickly mention, I met a couple of listeners of the show who were actually new guys in our local group and great guys.
I'm always excited to talk to people that listen to the show and get their take and their story.
And it's just so encouraging.
You know, sometimes you do get a little discouraged about things, but man, there's these great guys out there, bright guys, funny guys.
We had such a good time that I'm sure they're listening and they'll know who they are.
One guy was talking to me about a girl he's talking to online and sounded like he's just in the kind of feeling each other out stage, but he said, oh, yeah, and she loves the show too.
She loves you guys.
And he made sure to tell me that, you know, our reach seems to go a lot further than we might think.
And there are a lot of people who listen, a lot of people who appreciate the show.
And that's, that's certainly great to hear.
And it's great to interaction to meet people IRL and talk about things we talk about on the show, you know?
Amen.
Thank you, Sam.
And thank you to the audience who always goes up to you and gives you the love.
And it certainly shows up in the show inbox from time to time, too.
And it really fills our sales.
Thank you guys for appreciating what we do.
We got a couple of those in the second half.
Little teaser.
No smasher this week.
He is on the road and did not bring his recording equipment, but he did want to break the cherry here of advice for the single guys with these barn burners.
Stop being a pussy, talk to women, shower, wear deodorant, brush your teeth, and don't overspray the cologne.
And if you still buy axe body spray, you should kill yourself.
So there you go.
Get the notebooks out, dudes, and start taking notes because we are going to cover a lot of ground this show and try to keep it moving, try to keep it practical.
And we've even got two hired guns here with us to keep us honest because Sam, myself, Smasher, we've been out of the game for so long.
Rolo has been in the thick of it for a while.
And we don't want to be out of touch with the youth and how things are in the dating scene.
So with that, let us then move on to our res single guy on the show every week.
And he better not be playing video games while recording this week because we need him to share his ribald tales from online dating and all the rest of it.
Rolo, welcome back, my friend.
Well, Coach, I have my camera off, so you'll never know.
Not the answer that I wanted.
Yeah.
But seriously, are you optimistic?
You've been the area of your country, and we'll talk about this too, is supposedly not the best for single women because they're lefties or they're crazy or whatever.
But are you still optimistic?
Are you still confident it's going to happen?
You're going to find the one and start a family.
Well, I will say this.
So for, I guess I'll lead with something a little bigger.
If there are single guys out there, like thinking like, oh, I need to find the base trad waifu or whatever, I promise you that there is a girl out there that has a good relationship with her family.
Her dad raised her well.
She's probably saving herself for marriage and she wants to be a stay-at-home wife that bears children and cares for the family.
I guarantee you that woman is out there, but there's no guarantee that one, you're going to meet her or two, you're going to meet her before another guy meets her.
So the possibility of meeting a good girl is it's still in my mind.
I'm not cynical.
It's just a matter of finding that four leaf clover, as Wise Man once said.
Reps, reps, reps, one of our buddies texted me before the show.
Just keep plugging, go for it.
Don't get discouraged, but I don't want to get too far ahead of myself.
All right.
Finally, our very special and very patient guests.
First up is perhaps a name you've not heard in some time.
Real OB-1 meme there.
Wooderson, welcome back to Full House, my friend.
How the hell are you?
It's so good to be back.
Quit porn.
Yep.
Step one.
Yep.
If you're poisoning your mind, don't do that.
Woody, what is your, we did ethnicity, religion, fatherhood status.
So I guess what is your dating status right now, my friend?
I have a live-in girlfriend.
And we talked a little bit before the show.
You ring shopping yet, or is that a little premature?
I don't know if she listens.
So yeah.
I don't know.
This is.
You're talking about finding the one.
And, you know, like, I'm probably going to say a lot of things that people disagree with tonight and are, you know, might get upset about or whatever.
But I don't think there's any such thing as the one.
She is a very good one.
There are good ones.
There are bad ones.
A lot are better than others, you know, but there's no such thing as the one.
So you should have said, you should have said, and there's ugly ones.
It's true.
Good stuff, man.
Yeah, absolutely.
Please just be brutally honest.
This is no show for pussyfooting or worried about hurt feelings, whether it be the single guys or any of the women listening out there.
It's why we had you on.
Thank you for your service.
Yeah.
Don't fish, don't.
What was the thing about fish?
Don't ask fish how to fish how to fit catch fish.
Yeah.
All right.
And finally, we dip down into the ranks of the youths.
Not slumming it, but we do have a genuine 20-something Zoomer with the Zoomer haircut on.
I'm joking him a little bit.
It's not meme worthy, but he's got curly hair.
Anyway, Anthony, welcome on Full House.
We're honored to have you, buddy.
Thank you guys so much.
I'm super glad to be here.
And make sure that every girl you ever meet gets a 23 in me.
Good one.
Anthony, what is your dating status, please?
Same as Waterston, actually.
Yeah, I have a, I've been in a long-term relationship and we live together.
So pretty, pretty serious, definitely serious now.
All right.
I won't probe as to how serious it's going to be.
But before we get cracking here, I just want to draw the audience's attention.
I've mentioned this on the show many times, but we did a sort of show like this, episode 14 in our first few months, Get the Gringa, where Sam, J.O., me, Smasher talked about how we met and settled down with our now wives.
So that was sort of our origin stories.
And there's a lot of nuggets in that show, but it's been so long.
The ground has changed under our feet.
And we really wanted to get these guys who have been far more recently in the dating pool to update all of our guys with the objective here.
At least it's my objective is to help all of you out there find your future wife with whom to build a big, beautiful family.
Now, you may score a lot of tail in the process of that hunt.
I'm not going to, you know, say, oh, Tisk, Tisk, no, no.
But we're not setting you up to beat Don Juan and game theory and all the rest of it.
Although sometimes that can help.
The problem is that we've got tons of single guys.
We hear from them all the time who are despondent.
They are close to giving up.
They've got the natural drive.
They want to get married.
They want to have a big family, but they're discouraged by the scene.
They're tempted by insildom or drugs or porn or whatever else it is.
So we're going to do our best by them.
So let us start there then with the lay of the land and the actual being seen.
Rolo makes it sound like it's pretty rough out there in terms of the quality of the women.
I'm sure the women would complain about the cup quality of the guys.
Let's go to Anthony first as the youngest member of the show and the one, you know, probably closest to actively dating on the younger end of things.
What was it like, Anthony, when you were still going out?
Easy, hard?
Anything you want to share?
Yeah, I think the biggest thing that I noticed that makes it hard, besides the fact that, you know, admittedly, unfortunately, there is a lot of, you know, girls like women my age who are lower quality and stuff like that, just because maybe, like you said, they don't have a good relationship with their fathers.
They don't have kind of like, they didn't have anybody to guide them towards the right things growing up and so on.
But the big thing that I've noticed isn't necessarily even so much that, because I've heard Sam say a lot of the times that, you know, if, you know, if you treat them right and you do things the right way and everything like that, you can, you can essentially, you know, bring them towards the right ideas and the right thoughts and so on over time.
And I think the biggest thing that I see that is a problem is a lot of guys are really shy.
And in breaking the ice, like breaking the barrier seems to be the hardest part.
And, you know, socially, I think having like a, you know, social aptitude is very important and being able to go out there and, you know, be confident and say what you think, or at least, you know, pretend to be confident if you're not.
And I think there's something to be said for, you know, surrounding yourself with people like that, if that isn't something that's, you know, you know, built into you naturally.
You know, it helps a lot.
So I'd say if you sorry.
No, I was just going to say, you know, we bang the drum about joining the cause so often.
And, but that a secondary effect of that is that you're going to have a bigger social network of guys with wives, with friends and stuff like that.
That will be extremely helpful compared to, I don't know, like solo hunting out at bars and online, perhaps.
How did you meet your girlfriend, Anthony, if you don't mind me asking?
Yeah, of course.
My situation with her probably won't be as helpful because she actually approached me for the first time.
I just happened to be with the same friend that gave me the lovely shirt that I showed you guys earlier.
I was in my car at a stop sign and I was sticking my head out the window, yelling at him.
He was in front of me at the red light, like pretending to yell at him or whatever at the red light.
And she drove past me and my head was sticking out the window.
She saw me.
The girl that she was with was her best friend.
We already knew each other.
I knew her best friend before from other friends.
And she asked who I was and ended up able to reach out to her, reached out to one of my friends, got a hold of me, and she actually initiated that.
So for that situation, lucky dog.
She made that one easy.
That was easy on my part there.
I was thinking maybe she catgalled you as you were driving by.
You hollered back.
Yeah.
Yeah, sometimes they come to you.
Good stuff.
All right.
And Wooderson, how about how did you meet your girlfriend?
And before that, you did have self-reported a lot of success getting dates and being able to play the field.
Whatever you want to cover here at the top, big guy.
Yeah.
So I met my girlfriend when I was traveling in Ukraine last year in Kiev.
She actually, we I rented an Airbnb in the same apartment complex where she rented an apartment uh, and we met in the gym of that apartment complex in Kiev uh, which actually leads me to talk a little bit about the scene, the dating scene which you were asking about.
I mean sure, i'm very down on American women.
I would say American women, i've traveled a ton internationally and uh, I would say it's not like, you know, oh, Eastern European women are so special, or like, you know, Argentinian women or something are so special.
It's that American women are abnormal.
And they have a lot of people.
Okay, so they have had the most exposure to like the Jewish narrative and the dismification of like relationships and perspective.
Like they grow up on all this teen, this media that's directed at teen girls.
They grow up now, they grow up on social media, which is much more impactful on young women.
And as we know, and a point that I was going to get to later, which is that, you know, women are very malleable.
And this is a good thing and a bad thing.
But, you know, in the West and particularly in America, we have had the most intense propaganda directed at women probably anywhere in the world, other than, I don't know, maybe Western Europe, I guess, which is happening.
England's pretty bad.
Yeah.
It's had a profound effect on them.
And so they are, I would say, just on average, they have the worst attitudes and make the worst wives and girlfriends.
Like of, I mean, I've dated women in South America.
I've dated other European girls and American women.
And like, I'll never do it again.
And I mean, this goes for other guys, you know.
Well, Wooderson, would you say they're, they're unrealistic because of their expectations about life?
Yeah.
I mean, I think you have like, I mean, as we know, there's like 80 to 90% of women, you know, on these dating apps in America are all chasing like 8%, 2%, 5% of the guys on these apps.
I mean, they have like, you know, the most like mid, you know, for our, for our Anthony, the drip king, I'll use some Zoomer window.
FR, FR.
Yeah, FR, FR.
Yeah, the most mid girls imaginable, like think they deserve, you know, six figures, six foot tall, six pack abs or whatever, and she'll just be like a chicken nugget.
Very true.
So you actually advocate then, Wooderson, traveling.
You know, we talked a little bit about travel.
Oh, you can't get married and settle down.
You got to travel first.
But for you, traveling showed the other side of femininity.
And so, so non-American girls are just a little bit more like natural or interested in settling down.
I mean, I'm, you know, I'm glad that you're bringing the perspective, but I certainly don't want to like tell our guys you have to go to Europe or South America to find your future waifu.
Yeah.
So, I mean, one of the points that I wanted to make sure I got out in this is that you should spend your youth and your 20s dating women.
Do not move in with a girl.
And you should spend that time on self-improvement and exploration.
And that's what, and building yourself as a man and making yourself someone that is worthy and is desirable by women.
So, you know, you should spend the time in your 20s, like getting settled in a career, building savings, you know, hopefully maybe buying a house or just building some type of investment portfolio, something like that.
Do not, do not move in with a girl until you're at least like 30-ish.
And in that time, you should have also spent some time outside the U.S.
And it doesn't have to be like tons and tons of time, but I mean, you should at least meet and get to know women that are not American women.
I mean, I've, I can't tell you how many guys that I have met that have like spent their whole lives dating American women.
I'm not going to use the other word, I guess I could use.
And they like, you know, they go to South America or they go to Eastern Europe.
And it's like, you can just see the look on their face.
It's like galaxy brain explosion.
Like, oh my God, I didn't know it could be this way.
I had no idea.
And you'll see guys' entire perspective be revolutionized.
All right.
And fair, full disclosure for me, my wife moved in with me when we were 21 to our apartment.
And look at me now.
Look at us now.
It all worked out.
It's funny that Anthony is cohabitating and Wooderson is cohabitating, but take that into consideration.
There is a risk when you move in too early in a relationship or too young that you're going to lock it down.
Sam is an opponent of this.
So he'd prefer that you get married and then move in.
But Anthony, how's it been?
I mean, you're a young guy living with your girlfriend and it's going well.
So you want to push back on the move in question here before we move on.
Yeah, I mean, it probably will sound hypocritical.
I think generally speaking, I actually think that there's definitely something to that.
I actually think that you're probably right about that.
I'd say in most situations, it might be worth avoiding.
You know, I don't think there's any situation that's perfect, obviously, but there's certain things that, you know, that may make it easier.
And ultimately, you know, I have a, I have similar ideas and stuff to Sam.
I do think ultimately you should wait until you get married and then move in together and stuff like that, because then you have a real stake in it and you guys have to make it work as opposed to sort of having like a trial run.
There's got to be a beginning where everybody's committed to it.
And now we're going to make this work because it's not going to be easy.
It's not just going to going to be a situation of, oh, we ran into some trouble.
I guess we'll just back out of this thing.
You're going to run into trouble no matter what.
By being married, both people have made the commitment to stay with it.
And I really think that's the best way.
I can see it both ways.
And in one sense, you're getting a preview into what life would be like before making a serious commitment.
But the flip side of that is that you could just sort of get sucked into a relationship and bring it forward that might not actually be the healthiest one because you're quote unquote playing house, as my dad derisively called it.
He advised me against moving in with my then girlfriend at the time.
Maybe he was right.
In my case, I got lucky.
But we are putting the cart before the horse here because the single guys are like, I would kill to have that problem.
Move in or stay living separate.
So let's go back to the mindset, not the sigma grindset necessarily, but it seems to me that there are concrete physical things that our guys can do, getting fit, dressing better, practicing some of their approaches, but it's kind of all up here as I tap my temple in terms of your confidence, your ability to be social and engage with women.
So Wooderson, when you were playing the field and having a lot of success, were you just being yourself?
That's a valid piece of advice.
Or were you psychologically hunting and running a process to be more successful?
So in terms of like approaches and routines and all that sort of stuff from, you know, PUA spheres, manosphere type thing.
I mean, really what that is, is that's a fake it till you make it kind of confidence routine is what it is.
So I like to come at it from the other perspective, which is you should be doing things, you know, having goals and doing things in your life that as a result of achieving those things, you will become more confident.
So like learning how to like, you know, do a magic trick and like call a girl fat in the right way or something is, you know, that's like PUA nonsense to fake confidence.
I'm suggesting, and my advice is that you spend time doing self-improvement.
So like working on things like a career, saving money, having investments, having experiences, you know, that's like, I, I know Rolo thinks traveling is like lame or, you know, whatever, but I think you should travel and have experience.
I think it's lame.
I think it's gay.
It's different.
Come on, man.
Okay.
I thought we were I didn't know what we were I don't know yeah So yeah, I think you should do things to build confidence, which are, it's self-improvement.
And so through that, you will become a more confident person.
In terms of like actually talking to women and, you know, making approaches, a little piece of advice that I can give guys that are like, they're, you know, there's kind of like the sniper method and then there's like the machine gun method, I guess.
And I, what I don't want you guys to do is the sniper method where there's like one girl, you know, maybe she's at your work or your gym or whatever, something, your D and D club or whatever.
And you're just like thinking of the perfect way and like the perfect thing to say to her and, you know, how you're going to win her over and all this sort of stuff.
Like you're just this sniper that's like stalking this one target.
So, you know, and there may be a girl that you are most interested in above anyone else you know or anything like that.
And that's fine.
But you're not.
Waterson, I wanted to interject something briefly to agree with you, which is if you talk to enough women, you will start to see over time that you have a type, so to speak.
There's a type of personality that you're naturally going to work more easily with, you know?
And so then you don't have to have the sniper thing.
You can kind of note it because you're going to run into those people from time to time.
There's women out there in the population who are each of our types.
You know what I'm saying?
And that's maybe a different way of saying what you're saying.
Yeah, well, really where I was headed with this is that what I would suggest to all single guys is that you should use every interaction you have with another human being as a chance to practice.
It's reps, as Coach said.
So I want you to make small talk with every single person that you interact with on a daily basis, the cashier, the bank teller, the, you know, the guy at the tire shop, and try to carry a conversation with these people.
Try to talk to them to the point that they're willing to, they share something voluntarily about themselves.
Do this over and over and over again.
And even it, well, it's going to be uncomfortable at first, but that's okay.
And guess what?
You know, if you're doing it with clerks and things like that, these people are paid to be nice to you.
So it's perfect practice.
I'm going to pull from Bellerophon real quick because I solicited input from all of our guys and across networks and now platforms.
And Bellerophon said a good example of doing exactly what you're talking about, Wooderson, is checking out at the grocery store, a harmless way to practice flirting, even if it's an older woman or even a grandma.
How was your day?
And she says, oh, you know, okay.
And then you say something like, just okay, be honest.
Is it the manager?
Is he giving you a hard time?
I'll say the word and I'll go beat him up for you.
That might be like a cheesy example.
But you'd be surprised that women stuck in like retail positions are very welcoming to that sort of chit chat.
So it's very good advice to practice.
And I didn't mean to cut you off there, buddy.
Before I forget, I wanted to tell a quick story about confidence and not necessarily, well, first things first, there was a tall Jewish guy in my fraternity in college whose motto was looking good, feeling good.
And there is absolute truth to that, despite the source.
You know, when you are looking better and are fitter than average, maybe you're tan and the summer, you got a fresh haircut.
When you look better, you are going to be more confident and you're going to be more likely to have a positive interaction with a woman who might become your wife.
If you're getting flabby and you're dressing like crap and you're not taking care of yourself, you're drastically cutting your chances of succeeding.
But the flip side of that is how important confidence and chit chat is.
And I'll tell just a quick story.
I was out to lunch with a guy a year or two ago who, truth be told, was kind of fat, not particularly good looking, and not even that good of a dresser.
But holy cow, we had a hot waitress and he was just aggressively or unashamedly flirting with her, complimenting her, you know, giving her the look.
And I couldn't believe that she reacted positively to it and like was genuinely smiling at him.
And I was like, holy cow, this guy might even actually have a chance with this nine.
So take that to heart.
If you can do both at the same time, look good, feel good, and be confident and make small talk and all the rest of it, you're going to drastically improve your chances.
I'll come back to you, Wooderson.
It strikes me that you're kind of, you know, there's the whole saying that chicks dig jerks and you're kind of like a confident, aggressive guy.
But Anthony, I just seeing him for the first time tonight, looks kind of like what my wife would say, I want to put him in my pocket.
And what I mean by that is he looks nice and friendly and smiley and approachable.
Anthony, when you were dating, did you, sweet baby boy, Wooderson says, were you just the nice guy that women related to because you were friendly and smiley and non-threatening?
I'm projecting or guessing a lot here.
Go ahead, guys.
That's funny.
Because partly, yeah, I'd say partly that is true.
It actually really relates to what Watterson was talking about, you know, making chit chat with everybody that you talk to, getting to know people around you.
Wooderson.
Woods.
Oh, Waterson, my fault.
Getting out there and being able to make conversation with everybody.
It kind of, you know, builds your ability to make conversation and not have these like canned openers where, you know, as soon as you bring that up to a girl, it's kind of, you know, she knows what's coming.
She's been there a million times.
So a lot of the times, like in social circles, I've just, I've made such, you know, small talk with a lot of people, kind of, you know, try to have some conversation with, you know, whoever I can, whatever I'm out in public.
And the place that I live is like, you know, relatively close knit.
So when you go out back in public, you tend to see the same people again, whether you're at a lot.
One of the big ones for me is whenever you go to the gym, you see the same people.
They're there at the same time.
And I think a lot of the times whenever women in particular see you maybe, you know, drawing a group of people over to you when you're talking to them and you're, you know, joking, having a good time, you know, people are reaching out to talk to you.
People are saying hi to you.
They're waving at you.
They're, you know, shaking your hand, whatever.
I think there's something to be said about that because it is, you know, like a projection of confidence.
You know, looking nice, obviously, is going to help that to your ability to be able to go out and do that.
But that's one of the things that I've always kind of used is just my ability to be social in a group.
You notice that you get a lot of looks and a lot of attention, you know, from women in particular because they pick up on that kind of thing since a lot of guys my age in particular are sort of shy and reserved.
So I think there's definitely something really important by that.
Funny that you say that I said I look nice because everybody I ever talk to says, you know what?
I'm surprised that you're nice because you look like a douchebag.
And I was like, oh, that's fine.
No, you look, you look like a nice, sincere guy.
Yeah.
If I were, if I were gay, I'd no, no, no, edit that, Rolo.
I'm joking.
All right.
So where did you, Anthony, where did you have the best luck?
Were you just meeting women IRL or did you use the apps?
And I want to get Rolo in here too, the idea of whether our guys should approach, you know, online dating aggressively, IRL only, both.
Where'd you have the best luck?
Yeah, probably kind of like this is probably going to maybe make people think this is stupid, but I'm very against meeting people online for the most part.
You have certain things where you can go on, you know, paid memberships and things like that.
And you're kind of dealing with a different breed of, you know, more serious people.
But you have, you know, things like Tinder and Bubble and stuff like that that most people my age are on.
I think 99% of the time you're dealing with somebody who's maybe, you know, a hookup or they're talking to, you know, 150 different guys and, you know, you're just kind of, you know, one in the queue.
So I'm not sure that that's a good way.
And there's something about online, especially with myself, I feel way more uncomfortable online.
When I'm out in public, I talk to everybody.
There's no problem.
might, you know, since I've done that for so long, you get to the point where that doesn't bother you.
But online, there's just a disconnect that, you know, over text, things can be kind of mistranslated.
You're not exactly sure how the person's feeling.
Sometimes humor doesn't come across.
You know, you take a bad picture or something like that.
They've never seen you before.
Then you, you know, I, I, I think ultimately, you know, to build your social skills and so on, you're going to be a lot better off, you know, trying your best to start in person.
Sure.
A lot of people say, you know, the gym is not the place for that.
I would tend to disagree.
I think if you approach that in the right way and be, you know, talk to people in your community who are there and people of all ages too, you know, when people see that you can interact with people of, you know, older than you and younger than you, there's kind of a, you know, sort of acknowledgement or like respect that comes with that, I guess.
And I've gotten a lot of, you know, notices in that specific circle and even simple places like the grocery store and even on even on like school campus and things like that.
I mean, there's, you know, there's a lot of different ways that you can kind of get attention in those ways.
So I think anything, there's a, you know, a good public circle of people your age is probably the best place to start and, you know, try and get to know the people around there.
Yeah.
Remember, guys, women want to be hit on, even if they're not going to accept your advances.
You're not going to offend them.
They're not going to recoil from them, from you.
Some guy said he likes to go up to women in the gym and whisper in their ears, it's the Jews.
No, I'm joking about that.
But Wooderson says any guy with sauce doesn't waste time on dating apps.
However, I want to say that like guys, like for my generation, we didn't have dating apps.
We didn't have Tinder or match.com or anything.
You know, the idea that you've got a marketplace of potential women, even if 95% of them are not wife material, seems like a huge asset today, even though I know it's contributing to sluts and, you know, where women are just, you know, hunting for the 10, even if they're twos.
But it sounds like you agree, Wooderson, that.
Yeah, I don't know if it was me that's dropping out or, Coach, but I'll go ahead and answer that question.
Yeah.
So I do think that dating apps can be of some utility, but you have to keep in mind that the percentage of men that are on there, any like decent looking chick has an insane amount of attention on there.
So you're like fighting with a million other hot dogs to reach the bun.
And yeah, it's just, it's very difficult to set yourself apart to, and also like a sensitive girl that you might be interested in is probably not fielding like a thousand leads on a dating app to find the right guy.
So yeah, I guess I would say the more overarching point is that if you do what I'm talking about, which it seems counterintuitive, but if you focus on yourself, like getting fit, getting your finances in order, working on self-improvement and like seeking things that you're interested in and having hobbies and being passionate and that sort of thing,
then women will be attracted to you.
This whole thing gets so much easier.
And it's like, if you're a guy that's, you know, in his early 20s and doesn't have a ton going on, I mean, and you're like, oh, why don't I have a girlfriend?
Like, why am I not in uh, you know, in a relationship and like about to get married?
Or you know, whatever my dad and my grandfather did, this and that um, I would say, one, it's a different time.
But two, like you need to have an honest self-assessment which is like, what am I bringing to the table right now?
You know, do I have stability?
Do I have a career?
How do I look?
Um, you know, first things first fix yeah, fix yourself, get yourself ready.
You're never going to be a hundred percent perfect, so don't let that, you know, keep you from pursuing things now.
But what I what I mean to say is that it's like if you, if you work on yourself, the girls will come.
Uh like not, not it like that sorry, maybe that was the wrong words yeah, that comes later uh, but yeah.
The other thing i'll say is that I was worried that when I was getting closer to turning 30, that like, oh no, i'm not going to be able to date girls in their early 20s or whatever, but like i'm 33 now and it is easier than it has ever been to like have 21 year old girls interested in me, and that's because I have something going on.
When I was 21, I didn't have anything going on, I didn't have any money, I didn't have a career, I had had no experiences.
I was not mature, you know uh yeah, and the value of yeah, go ahead.
The value of the man goes up if he does the right things in life.
As he gets older and, including 30s, 40s and 50s, the the market value, so to speak, of the man continues to increase with women not necessarily usually is going down with age.
Yeah, I was gonna say sam, they hate that about us that in many cases we actually we get more handsome and more attractive as we proceed through our 30s.
Uh, when my wife looks at me maybe not today but, you know, in my 30s or whatever compared to pictures of us when we were in our early 20s, she's like, oh my god, you look like a little baby, you know uh, and now you are real men.
You know salt and pepper in the beard and all that.
So uh, definitely for the older guys still out there hustling, do not think that just because a little long in the tooth uh, that you're not going to be in the game anymore.
Uh, before I forget, go ahead, please.
Yeah, I would say you're actually in uh, you're in the best spot, assuming you haven't made a ton of mistakes and set yourself way, way back in some kind of like big financial hole or or something like that.
But um yeah, do not be discouraged.
If you're like, maybe in your mid 30s or something like that, and you haven't uh, or you know, even older um, you haven't landed a girl yet, like no no no no, in fact, you're in a perfect point, because something that I wanted to get to, which is, you know, I keep, I keep uh, suggesting and uh and saying that I think you need to.
You know, work on yourself, build yourself through, you know, at minimum through your 20s.
You know we're kind of talking to young guys here, so that's why I keep bringing that up um, But, you know, in your early 30s is the first time, in my opinion, that you should start looking seriously to find a wife.
And she needs to be at minimum 10 years younger than you.
And something that also that I wanted to get out regarding this is that, you know, when looking for women and they're like I suggest, she should be minimum 10 years younger than you.
This is important for a number of reasons.
One, you know, she's always going to be like young girls.
Unless you are under 27.
Well, yeah, because you're supposed to divide, divide your age by two and add seven, right?
And let me just push back on that just a little bit because being of roughly the same age as my wife and having the exact same schedule, you know, we were seniors in high school the same year, not together.
But there's nothing wrong with having a woman your age.
You don't want a date older than you.
I think that's a little bit weird, but having the same cultural and time reference is a very nice thing to have in common.
Yeah.
I think the thing is what he's what he's saying about the age is it's nice when there are some years between the man and the woman, the man's a little bit older, maybe like he said up to 10 years.
He's saying minimum 10 years, but whatever the differential is, it sort of naturally builds towards the woman is kind of looking up to and respecting the man in a way that is helps the relationship.
Yeah.
So she's always, and this, it's not like, I don't want guys out there to be like writing a note down.
It's like 10 years and it's this hard and fast rule.
It's like, oh, no, you know, I mean, obviously this is, we're talking about humanity here and personality and these things are malleable, you know.
I'm not, this is like not some super hard and fast rule.
If you're one year, couple years on either side, whatever of any of you're just saying it helps.
It helps for the man to be older by a little bit, but it doesn't.
Hey, whatever works out is, is what we're in favor of.
Right.
She's always going to be like the young hot thing to you.
So in terms of like attraction, that's that's huge.
The other thing that I want to point out is that, you know, when looking for this young lady or, you know, or having yourself open to meeting this young lady or seeking her out or whatever, you have to understand that most parents do a terrible job of raising daughters and that's globally.
And you have to understand that she's going to be woefully unprepared to function in the world.
And do not get angry at her.
Be willing to teach her and just be kind and understand that most women at any age, if you're a mature man with your stuff together and things going on, you're going to have to, any woman of any age, by the time you get to her, you're going to have to raise her again and show her things.
And you have to be patient and understand that you're going to have to bring her into your world.
And it's not going to be an easy process necessarily.
I mean, it might be, it might not be, but you're going to have to teach some things.
And I want to say that like I want to add to that, that women, a lot of times, you know, I mean, a lot of guys in our movement will be like, well, she has these Libtard views or she, it's this or that.
She doesn't check these boxes or whatever.
Women are malleable.
They will follow a strong leader.
They're just.
They might just be programmed to do this.
They might just be saying the only thing they've ever been told you know exactly, but they're literally.
They're uh facts or you know, copy machines or whatever they.
They will just, they take in information and then they spit it back out and and since we're talking about a wife and not just a girlfriend or something, I think that you got to get away from this pal mentality, you know, and in another age, a wife and a husband were seen as stations in life that have uh rights and responsibilities and things like that.
So when you get married, you're not just having, like the next step in your buddy relationship with this other person a husband does certain things and a wife does other certain things, and you're function together to make a family, and if you have children, then that family involves other people.
So I think you need to look at it that seriously.
And it's not just all about the the butterflies of being in love.
Yeah, sam I I want to add to that uh, just a little task there, which is that uh, there's no such thing as a partnership.
Someone is always in charge and that doesn't matter.
That's business partnership, that's relationship, whatever.
Someone is in charge.
So, if you're, if we're talking about equality and fairness, that means the woman is in charge.
Um, if we're talking about uh, you know, like a family that I know our guys want to be in, it needs to be explicit and you need to be explicit going into a relationship that I have the final say and uh, and that's sort of with my uh, with my like Anti-american women thing, is that they have been, they've had it pounded into their heads, this idea about equality and fairness and all this sort of stuff.
So-called 50-50 marriage, yeah, traditional gender roles have been absolutely slaughtered and destroyed in America and um, you know, outside of America they are doing a pretty good job of destroying them with social media and other uh media, but there's still some of it, some remnants of it uh, still exist.
Wanted to add here uh three, the three things that women look for in men, or what attracts them to men.
And this is sort of a brief synthesis from f Roger Devlin, Devlin's sexual Utopia in power.
He did the research he's not an Alpha Chad himself, but he did a lot of homework into the female psychology.
Number one, of course, is wealth or material well-being.
Women, for obvious biological reasons, are attracted to a man who you know, it could be a fancy car, or it could just be the idea that he's got a fat bank account and could take care of you.
Number two is, of course, looks.
Hat tip to uh Electromechanical Eagle.
When I solicited input he said, uh, just be tall and handsome, smartass uh.
But you know that obviously goes a long way.
You have to know yourself.
If you're not tall and you're not handsome, you're gonna have to work on the other categories.
And number three, which is also just important, is social status.
Even if you don't look like a chad and you don't have a lot of money, if you are perceived as having high social status, whether it's in our cause or in your church or in your community group or whatever you do uh, that is going to make a woman also understandably appeal or attracted to you.
Uh, because you're a mover, a shaker, a doer and not a loser.
Uh wanted to talk, I want to get Rollo in here and I wanted to address the geography question too.
Uh, you could meet your future wife in Kiev and Antarctica.
Probably even some good ones left in inner city, Baltimore.
But where you live definitely impacts your chances.
Quick story, when we were on that epic road trip uh, two weeks ago.
One of the guys in the van was single and he was scrolling through tinder and he says, holy cow, i'm getting way more likes wherever we were Tennessee Kentucky, I don't remember but we were somewhere in white rural America and he was getting more feedback on tinder than from wherever he came from.
Uh, and I noticed that too, moving from northern Virginia sort of just a stressed out, expensive tangle of cutthroat people to move into the country that women in general have hungrier eyes uh, they're maybe a little bit more natural and inclined to engage with you than maybe when they're scurrying about and chasing careers and whatnot in a city.
Um Rollo, you are on uh, at least one dating app and you do go out on dates with women a lot, but you are a little bit black pilled uh, because of the quality, I guess, of the ones that you've engaged with so far.
Has anything that we've talked about so far rubbed you the wrong way?
Or what do you want to get in here before we move on?
Oh, absolutely plenty of that has rubbed me the wrong way.
My last girl, my last girlfriend, was from Switzerland.
I've dated many girls that are not American.
And um gosh dang, I forgot what I was gonna say because it's just like everything is just like it was like all like conflicting.
You know, like my, my face is like just so red right now.
Well, if you weren't playing final Fantasy, maybe you'd remember what uh bothered you so much.
But no, go ahead, rack your brain, give the other perspective.
That's why this is really Swiss.
Go ahead, yeah.
Well um, so like you, work on yourself.
So back when I was about uh, 20 ish uh, around there um, I was a delivery driver and I gained a lot of weight doing that and you know, I I started out skinny and just being on the road all day and just eating.
And then just, you know I, I was chat.
I worked with a lot of very good looking women and I chatted them up all the time and just one day, some girl I was friendly with uh, she what, she did have a boyfriend, but we would just, you know chat, because we're cordial enough and she just said to me, when did you get so chubby?
And I was like oh, what?
And then I just looked down.
I was like oh, dang it, i'm all fat.
And then I and that was when I made made the active decision like, okay, I need to lose weight.
I need to be in shape.
And then eventually I turned from chunk to hunk.
You know, I wasn't always the chiseled Roman statue that I am today.
But that's a true point.
He's not that.
But at a certain point, it's like, work on yourself.
Okay.
And then what?
Like you can only be so good.
And if that doesn't work for, if that doesn't work for you.
And then what?
Well, so one thing I would talk about with the physique is that your physique, like your looks, they can only disqualify you.
They will never qualify you for, you know, a hot girl or a quality woman.
Your looks are only a disqualification.
You can never be like, oh, I've got such a good physique that like I will land a girlfriend.
No, it does not work that way.
It can only disqualify you.
All right, Rolo.
Any other quality?
All right.
So you've got yourself together physically.
How about the, you know, the dating?
Well, then I started.
Well, then I started reading books.
And then I started doing other things in a more artistic manner.
And then what?
Like just bettering yourself.
It's not enough.
And as far as the dating apps goes, like no man worth the juice is on those.
Well, you know, so what's that old Rod Stewart song?
You know, some guys have all the luck.
That, that's true.
A lot of it is right place, right time.
Like you can have everything going for you and you can still miss.
Like, coach, how many, what, what is the percentage of the audience that is single guys?
Was it 60%?
It was over 50%.
Yeah.
Right.
And the reason that so many of the audience is single guys is because so much of the country is single guys.
Like we're, we're at the point where, like in my area and where I am, it's not like a unique thing.
Like I'm not like in the heart of darkness.
Like I am in like the outskirts of the outskirts.
So I got plenty of things around me.
But like, so just as far as disqualifiers go, women that are morbidly obese, women that actively do porn or are prostitutes.
And believe me, it's a lot.
It's, it's a lot.
Non-whites, women with STDs, and then women with with kids.
Now, if anyone wants to say like, oh, well, don't get picky with that.
But still, like, these are a lot of things.
Like now I'm looking for-covering a lot of percentage of people that way.
Yes.
Exactly.
That's the thing is I'm looking for a white woman who is at least thin.
Like that is what I'm and with no STDs that doesn't do pornography.
Picky picky.
Exactly.
In this day and age, that is.
I think Rolo's getting at a point which is outside of our control is that our society is very toxic.
And that's a that's a point we cannot ignore.
That's true.
That that's the problem is because here I can I can be the best me that I can possibly be.
And you know, I do have a lot of things going for me, but if I cannot tell other people like what is best for them, like you can say like, oh, women are malleable.
Okay, but if you tell anyone in your life, like the perfect example is a boomer.
Tell a boomer the absolute truth about how the world works.
Are they going to listen to you?
I mean, probably count.
I'm asking anybody.
Sam said probably not.
So, you know, Sam was first come, first curve, first serve.
Now, with a woman, yeah, women are malleable, but they have to respect you first.
A woman is not going to respect you if you just come up to her and, you know, speak truth to power because you are saying everything that society, academia, media, and probably everyone around them tells them the opposite of.
Now, when you speak with conviction, when they already respect you, sure, but you like, it's not as simple as, well, you can just get a Libtard woman because the Libtard woman is still, she's going to be by default, she's going to be pro-gay.
She's going to be pro-black.
She's going to be pro-trans.
She's going to be pro everything that we don't like.
And you have to wean them off that.
And it is a really slippery slope as to getting them to just respect you because you're going to have to bite you.
Yeah.
So I mean, go ahead, Wooderson.
I want to dig into our, I want to dig in on our, you know, deal breakers and what is too much, what is workable and, you know, what is not to worry about.
But go ahead and then we'll get onto that.
Yep.
Yeah.
So a few things.
Like, I mean, Rolo, what I'm hearing a lot of with what you're saying is blaming other people and blaming things that are outside of yourself.
And what I'm challenging.
I'm cutting you off right now.
No, no, no.
I'm saying that's what I'm working with because I'm not going to let you paint some kind of like, oh, you're just an incel.
You're down on yourself.
No, These are things you have to control what is controllable.
And, you know, the society around you is not controllable.
And in terms of right.
And that, and that, that was my point is.
Okay.
So this is what I'm working with.
Oh my gosh.
In terms of what you, you know, women being malleable, right?
You need to be.
You're not telling me anything I don't know, by the way.
Okay.
You need to be, well, then I'm telling the audience.
Okay.
You know, it's attraction rather than promotion.
You, women are not going to respond to arguments.
Okay.
You have to like you, if they bring up their stupid views, you can just sort of laugh at them, maybe poke a little lighthearted fun.
Tell them what you think, but don't engage in any kind of argument.
And if you are someone who's worthy of respect and someone, you know, make yourself a high value, high SMV male.
And then she will start to adopt your way of thinking over time because women seek power and they if they see you as a powerful, respectable man, they'll start to just abandon their ideas and accept yours.
But if you sit down and you're like, I'm going to argue you out of this opinion or that opinion or whatever, it's never going to work.
Yeah, just to interrupt, I think that's like a really good point because I've ran into something similar with that before.
And like you said, you kind of have to get yourself, you know, financially, socially in a place where you already, you know, command some sort of respect so that when you're talking to whoever the girl is, she already sort of understands that, you know, you have this role where you're, you know, somebody to be respected and somebody who understands what they're talking about.
A lot of the times I see a lot of guys my age, friends that I have and stuff who, you know, think similarly.
They Kind of try and convince, you know, a woman in the way that they would to a man.
Like if I was talking to one of you and you didn't think the same, I would say, oh, here's, you know, here's this specific fact.
And, you know, here's why this argument is incorrect.
And here's why, you know, this is so important.
And, you know, kind of stress the different point than what I was bringing up, by the way.
It's like it completely, this isn't, I didn't say anything about arguing with him.
He just brought up getting a libtard woman and being malleable because some guys get hung up on, well, she's a libtard.
Right.
Antifa is not acceptable ideology, but I have dated female liberalism.
I have, I have dated a liberal journalist.
I mean, I think there's a difference between women are like by default, what society tells them to be.
And so you, there's a difference between just like a default liberal, because that's what's high status in America and a woman that is an actual radicalized libtard.
And I think our guys can tell the difference.
Yes.
Well, actually, I wouldn't go that far.
I'd say enough can, but some guys cannot tell the difference.
Right.
And then the problem lies.
Whenever you hear a guy say, I can't date a Libtard woman, because they assume all Libtards are radicals.
But these days, what is the difference between the standard Libtard and the standard Antifa?
Like there's still anti-white supremacy, pro-gay, pro-trans, Black Lives Matter.
All cops are.
The difference is the fervor with which that they hold those opinions.
Sure.
How deep does it go?
Yeah.
Well, how many Libtards do you talk to?
Because I come across a lot of them.
And I've met the ones that are like, I'm not crazy like Antifa, but they're just as radical as Antifa.
Like they're just as antifa.
I mean, that would be, if I heard, if I heard that, I would take that as a positive sign that she knows that like there's radical leftists and she's not one of them, even if she spelts the platform.
That's what I would think too.
Yeah.
And you can be like, yeah, those guys, they're total dorks.
Have you seen them?
Their ideas are so losers.
One of the, one of the biggest deal breakers I hear from guys is too high a body count.
I personally think that all of Rolo's disqualifiers there, having a kid, having done porn or only fans, or, you know, I forget if it was drug use or STDs, but yeah, STDs, STDs in fact.
But how high of a body count is too high?
Okay.
Yeah.
Virgin is preferred.
Triple digits would certainly be too high of a body count for me.
But I suspect, I'll posit that our guys are a little too hung up on body counts these days, but I'll just propose that and let you guys kick it around.
I think it depends upon the woman and like where her head is at now.
And did she learn something from a bad experience or not?
Or, you know.
Yeah, I think, so first of all, how will you ever know?
And by worrying about that and asking that question, you are setting yourself on the spiral of jealousy that will never end.
Because let's just say she might talk about it.
They do talk about it.
Let's say she tells you 10, right?
And you, you know, you're like, oh, well, but what if it's 15?
Or, you know, what if it's 20?
Or, you know, how do I know?
And then you can go and listen, I'm speaking from experience here.
You can go down a rabbit hole of trying to interrogate her about her past.
And there is, you'll never know the truth.
You just won't because it's impossible to know.
And so I would say be very careful about going down the route of interrogating a girl about her past.
I mean, people show you who they are.
Like you need to pick up on how this person is and who they are by your interactions with them.
Very good point.
Yeah, I think our guys are too hung up on it and it really can screw you up.
You know, you could have a very, you know, like you're sitting there on the couch having drinks.
Hold on.
Right.
And you're like, so tell me how many guys you've been with and like everything's perfect.
She's looking at you.
And that, yeah, okay, go ahead.
Guys aren't, guys aren't hung up on it because they think it might be five or six.
Like there's girls out there like, yeah, I've had sex with, I don't know, 70, 80, 90, 200 guys.
That's what they get hung up on.
I was friends with a girl.
I was, I was friends with a girl that when she was 24, she told me she had sex with 300 different guys in a year.
So, I mean, if you can't get on that, like, this is the thing, like you should be able to tell by your interactions with her if that is the case.
Like, well, and why do you think guys get hung up on it?
Do you think guys get hung up on it because it never comes up or because it comes up?
Because this is encouraged on all sorts of social media.
Yeah, like they're proud of it.
Some of them.
Yeah.
It is actively promoted.
It's actively promoted on Instagram and Snapchat and TikTok and all these other things that girls routinely frequent.
So they think like, oh, so this is a good thing.
This gets me status.
So it is something that they openly talk about.
And that's why guys get hung up on it.
Cause there's a guy that's like, geez, I've had sex with like 10 girls and I thought that was a lot.
And here's a girl that's like had sex with like 14 guys in one night.
Like what, geez.
And I thought this was a good one.
Like that, that's why guys get hung up on it.
It's, it has nothing to do with like, oh, I'm, I'm just insecure because what if she's been with guys better than me and it was more than six?
No, no, no.
Like, guy, there are some serious problems out there.
Yeah.
Single digits is nothing to worry about.
Low double digits is probably nothing to worry about.
High double digits and certainly triple digits.
Well, whatever the number is, I think whatever the number is, I think if the man or the woman is wanting to turn away from that type of a lifestyle of just sleeping with people, I think that's what you're what you want to know is that the person is really trying to do something better with their life.
Yeah.
I would tattoos are go ahead, Woody.
Yeah, I would also point out that if you are not finding a mate that is a young woman, you know, preferably in her early 20s, then there is a very, very high likelihood that you are not getting her sexual best.
And I think that's what most guys are really worried about with the whole body count thing is like this idea that, you know, she got the platinum dickhead from Chad or whatever.
And like you are not going to be able to, you know, you're never going to do it for her like that.
And so yeah, that she's like morally worn out, so to speak.
Right.
And so I think the, I think the point is, is that, yeah, I mean, if you, or if you like find, if you're like in your early 30s and you find a chick your age, like I guarantee you are not getting her sexual best.
That's it.
I mean, if you, you can accept that and, you know, and whatever, knock her up or whatever.
But if, yeah, if you want to ensure that you are, then you need to find a young woman.
I have so many more questions that I do want to add on the body count.
That is not something that I get hung up on because in this day and age, like you're crazy to think that you're going to be like in a girl's like top five or like your first five or whatever.
Fair enough.
Because if you're unless you're like 18, 19 or something like that, but if you're like late 20s to like mid 30s, like if she doesn't have those other things that I suggested, like, you know, the body count, and I know a lot of people say like, well, that, that woman's got the DNA of every man she ever had sex with.
Well, do you want white babies or not?
You got to have to take what you can get.
And that's the sad reality of where we are.
You got to make some compromise somewhere.
I would say if you believe that you're the best she's ever had, you're just like, convince yourself, I'm the man.
She's never gotten it better than me.
Then you're never going to.
Well, the woman's not going to get better than one of our guys.
That's like the absolute truth.
Nazis in the sheets.
Yeah.
Guys, I got so many more questions and topics to tackle for the second half.
I hope the audience has gotten at least several nuggets out of this first half.
You damn well better.
I wanted to close with one of great ape niggies.
He's rarely wrong.
It does happen.
But he said, observe how your girlfriend or potential mate interacts with weight staff, with service staff to see if she is a good person or not.
If she abuses them, she's going to abuse you.
On cold approaches, remember JO's tip, his go-to from when he was a dating man.
Oh, look at you.
Look at you with a little charming smile.
Not threatening, not creepy.
You'll have to practice it in the mirror.
But I always thought I have never used it.
I probably never will.
But I thought that one was one.
And we'll maybe ask Wooderson and Anthony for more in the second half.
Don't get hung up on tattoos.
If she has a tattoo or two, don't let that be a deal breaker.
If she looks like she's got vines crawling all over her body, yeah, that's probably too much.
When to broach our ideology, if at all, with a girl you're dating is a good one.
I want to know whether Anthony's now serious girlfriend was a libtard or a moderate or our gal.
Do chicks still dig jerks?
Is there a point to being a little bit wild and crazy?
And also remember, guys, if you roll into a bar or a club with a dozen dudes and you're having a blast and you're all interacting with each other, you are going to look like you have a higher social status than if you just go in solo or with another guy that I imagine looks a little desperate.
And also don't forget church.
If you're looking for better women, I don't know if this certainly worked for some guys, but you're going to find a higher caliber of woman morally in a church than at a bar necessarily.
We've got so much more to come in the second half.
Stay with us.
For the break, I'm going to a happy, really kicking around what song we were going to go for for the break, but this is a happy synth wave song called Give Me Your Love by Gateway Drugs.
Just tell the women that give me your love or else.
Works every time.
Be right back then.
I don't know what you're doing.
Trying to cross that any hope of friendship.
Well, this is how we'll lose it.
Every word you say is understood and lost into the night.
And the world we've made would be so good if we only get it right.
Always, I will, always I will, always be waiting for you.
Always I will, always I will, always be waiting for you.
Your voice penetrates the darkness only to hide you from the silence.
In a pointless way we run around, trying to shy away from violence.
Does it matter where I disappear to you?
Discomi, and the latter leaves you searching through devotion.
I don't need always.
I will always, I will always be waiting for you.
Always, I will always, I will always be waiting for you.
Give me, give me your love in the middle of the night, like a tiny one.
Gimme gimme, gimme.
Give me your love again.
Gimme gimme, gimme.
Give me your love in the middle of the night, like a tiny one.
Gimme gimme, gimme.
Then you love it
If you think it's what you need, It's fine pretending that it's true, But you know just where it leads.
Always, I will always, I will always be waiting for you.
Always, I will always, I will always be waiting for you.
Always, I will always, I will always be waiting on you.
Always I will always.
I will always be waiting for you.
Give me, give me, give me, give me your love in the middle of the night, never tiny one.
Give me, give me, give me, give me your love again.
Give me, give me, give me, give me your love in the middle of the night, never tiny one.
Welcome back to Full House episode 145, part two, second half dating extravaganza.
If this isn't adding value for you, dear listener, don't tell me.
I don't want to know.
We have so much still to cover.
I look like Alex Jones here with papers all over my desk, notes.
There's so much to add, but we're going to do it here in one hour or less in the second half.
But before we get back into it, we do have one new white life.
Lovely email from a listener who says, you can call me Cody.
I've been a big fan of the show and have been listening for a couple years now.
It's great with an encouraging atmosphere to it and one of my standbys for work a day listening.
Sometimes the wife and I listen together on long car rides and at some point we'll let the kids listen, but they're still very young and just like their father are prone to saying things out loud in public that are perfectly natural to think and even say, but perhaps wouldn't be well received in the current social climate.
I have been chomping at the bit to drop you guys a line when it was relevant to do so to inform you of some new white life on the way.
Let's see.
The wife and I are expecting our fifth child on Thanksgiving Day.
It will be sooner.
Way to go, Cody.
Way to go, Mrs. Cody.
I enjoy your announcement segments and was looking forward to contributing my own.
Ideally, there will be more, but we'll see.
And he says, much love in Christ to all of my blood brethren.
Way to go, brother.
And sorry, yeah, I wasn't waiting.
I was not putting that down the schedule.
Maybe I'd forget it or lose it.
You know, I'm getting old.
I'm a little scatterbrained.
So we're just, we're doing it live.
Way to go, brother.
Yeah, man, that's great news.
Thank you for the kind words, too.
We love you guys.
Hopefully we'll meet one day.
All right.
Let's see.
Oh, and I did want to say Winston wrote in very helpfully after he heard my travails with driving around the dog to get her to puke up the rat poison that she ate.
And he just said, hey, buddy, you got to remember, you get them to drink hydrogen peroxide and then they will puke it up.
I have the world's dumbest beagle and I learned this trick after she ate a pack of gum containing xylitol, which is toxic.
The vet trip cost me over $1,000.
And since then, I just use the hydrogen peroxide and she's still kicking.
There's an article up on the American Kennel Club that tells you how to do it.
So keep that in mind for your doggos too.
Thank you very much, Winston.
All right.
To ease us back into the content, I did want to give credit to all of our friends who on very short notice delivered their succinct advice.
Real, you know, we're going to machine gun you here with advice.
Rusty was the one who said, reps, reps, reps.
Do not be attached to outcome with women.
If she doesn't seem consistent with our thing or would be heroic, or it would be heroic and impossible to mold her, move on.
Be confident and decisive.
Women do not have intrinsic interests or independent thought.
Discuss things you are interested in and your energy passion will attract her.
And by the way, I'm not endorsing every single one of these things that I'm going to read off.
Take notes to our guys on the show in case you want to correct or supplement or agree with anything that they say here.
Our pal Sam Melia from Patriotic Alternative UK.
Remember, he came on the show probably 30.
Sam chimed in.
I messaged him because a Nigerian scammer was impersonating his channel and trying to get me to fork up my Bitcoin to him earlier today.
So I was playing with the Nigerian and sent the screenshots to Sam.
Sport fishing.
Sam says, take control.
A woman wants to know you're taking care of her.
Don't deliberate with her over where to eat, date, time, place.
If she can't make it, suggest another date, time, and place.
If she's that offering alternative, then she's not interested.
Text him to a minimum.
Keep her guessing what you're up to.
A man shouldn't be on his phone 24-7, especially before you've sealed the deal.
Pre-date texts should be limited to making plans.
If I hear about a guy texting a girl, good morning, it's time to take him out behind the woodshed.
And on early dates, go for activities.
Avoid situations where you're just sat in front of each other for extended periods.
Activities allow for natural conversation to develop, whereas dinner in a movie is forced conversation followed by silence sitting next to each other.
That doesn't build rapport.
Competitive activities are great to open up opportunities for teasing and playfulness.
I always recommend mini golf, especially if your town city has one of those new joints.
Yes, that reminds me of Daniel LaRusso going out to the amusement park with the cute blonde from Karate Kid.
Thank you, Sam.
Yeah, good advice.
Yep.
You and Laura and all your great work over there and your lovely and hopefully soon growing again family.
Not Russian, not Russian.
I'm not Rushing.
I'm not Russian either.
All right.
Kwas Ragoon, our O pal Quasragoon says, and this one's a little bit out of left field, but it's not bad.
The best tip I can give anyone is to take your girl camping early on in dating.
You'll learn lots about her.
How flexible is she with physical hardships?
How much does she need creature comforts in order to be pleasant?
And three, most importantly, what is she like without makeup and showers?
And I don't mean this just aesthetically.
I mean it in the biological compatibility sense.
My wife and I have both remarked that we never smell bad to each other.
And yeah, absolutely.
My wife says I always have a certain smell to her that she enjoys, whether that's pheromones or whatever.
Yeah.
Very opponent.
Some of us, yep, some of us are genetically predisposed.
You know, they say that women on birth control can't smell bad mates.
So sometimes people get married and then like she goes off birth control and then she's like, I just, I'm not that into you anymore.
I don't know if that's a total LARP or whatever, but there is such a thing.
There's something to it.
Yep, 100%.
And he actually posted a link to an article that says that that is a real, you know, for the I Love Science bros.
Let's see.
I dated girls that could be fresh from the shower, dressed and perfumed, but they still never quite seemed right.
It's anecdotal, but there's something to it.
So take those girls camping.
Thank you, Quasragoon.
Let's see.
Andrew, with a quick one, says, maybe this is cynical, but I'd say try to avoid dinner or drinks on the first date if you're meeting her from an app.
Basically boils down to not wasting money if she's going to ghost you immediately after that.
All right.
Cynical, but savvy.
While we're on that one, one of my questions was, are we still, I don't know what the kids are doing these days.
Is it still expected that we, the men, pay for everything, even if it's on like a first tender date?
I would hope so.
I would suspect so.
Okay.
Okay.
Of course.
Yep.
All right.
Very good.
Just check.
All right.
Nathaniel says, for guys who already have the date, they need to relax and try not to be a people pleaser to the girl or say what she what they think she wants to hear.
They can sense that shit and you'll either never get a follow-up date or you'll attract a manipulative type.
Make sure you just know how to talk to women in general human beings.
And at some point, you might find one that's attracted to you as well.
TLDR, the cliche, be yourself is really good advice for guys dating.
Very good point, Nathaniel.
If you're faking it, if you're playing an alternate persona in the hopes of locking her down and then like you can't keep up that charade for 30, 40, 50 years, might as well filter them out by being yourself early.
Be yourself.
What's that?
I said, speak for yourself, implying that I can't do that.
Oh, I'm very good.
It's called personality mirroring, Waterson, helpfully put in the chat.
And it's cringe.
Yeah.
I mean, look, be yourself, I kind of don't like because some people are not good people.
So you don't necessarily want to be yourself.
You want to be better than yourself.
But yeah, if you're putting on merit, it's also not good advice because most people by default are themselves.
So it's like, if you meet a girl, just like, just like breathe oxygen and like, be sure to drink water.
Very good.
Let's see.
Yourself.
Oh, well, normally I transform into Mr. Hyde around this time.
So I'll try not to drink my going out.
All right.
He also says, relax, relax, relax.
If you're stressed or trying to say what you think she wants to hear, you'll either never get a follow-up date or attract a narcissist bitch.
As far as getting the dates, I never use the dating apps.
I always talk to women and had fun with it, whether I had intentions toward them or not.
And it worked well for me back in the day.
That brings up a crude question, but I think it's relevant.
And it reminds me of the Jewish creation.
There's something about Mary where they were debating about whether when you're going out on a date, do you want to have cleared the decks in advance to be a little calmer and not desperate?
Or do you want to have gone through a whole month of NNN before going out on a date?
Don't get explicit, guys, but I assume you want to be to not wank it before you go on a date.
I would say this.
You need to quit porn, period.
But there, I don't know how to say, it's gross no matter how I say it, but there are some, there are some physical like demands that if you don't have a girlfriend, you know, it is necessary at times.
Sleep doesn't take care of it all the time.
Yeah.
Yeah.
Exactly.
Yeah.
And we'll just, I'll expand on that a little bit.
When you go NOFAP, you will 100% guaranteed be more mentally and even physically aggressive toward the opposite sex.
And I don't mean in a rapist sense.
Yeah.
Yeah, you'll have more time.
Yeah.
You'll have more drive.
But the bigger thing is like, if you're saying, oh, how are you going to get along?
Oh, the physical needs or something.
Once you open that door, whenever that is as a teenager as a young, young man or something, it is very hard to close that door.
And that's why you should try to be a virgin when you get married and then you'll have a happy sexual life.
Amen.
And then finally here, Ruckus says, tell those boys to come with the Pepe Le Pue Genghis Khan energy.
Approach.
Now, this is an interesting one.
Incredible.
An image there.
Yeah.
Here's an interesting one.
Approach each woman as if you have already had sex with her.
Also, be honest without being a creeper.
A woman might say you just want her for sex.
You balk and say, that's not all I want, but it is on the list.
And stop being an absolute retard and refusing to go meet women at a bar or a club.
That is where people go to meet people.
And while I've had my fair share of thoughts flashing me and offering me more, I've had just as many who balk at the idea of such a thing as though I had suggested cutting off a nipple or something.
If a guy is nervous, go to the bar, dress like a bouncer.
I don't know how bouncers dress these days, but girls will think you're wallflower just doing your job.
No, a G-string and a bow tie.
Yeah, but you know, I got those items.
It's a great point along the lines of women know you want to have sex with them.
I mean, if she's attractive, she knows you want to have sex with her because every single guy that she's ever encountered after the age of about 16 has wanted to have sex with her.
So she knows that.
So if she calls you out on that, you have like you're, you have to say, of course.
But I want to get to her.
Yeah.
I ain't here for a cup of tea and chit chat, but we can do that too.
Anthony, was your girlfriend a liptard, a moderate, or Argyle when you met her?
And I just, we touched on ideology there.
I don't want to get bogged down again.
But there's also the question of when you reveal your power levels to your girl.
One guy jokes half jokingly that you raise the JQ on the second date.
Iron rule.
Really filter them out.
But go ahead, Anthony.
Want to hear more from you and when, if we broach WN, Jewish power, degeneracy, all that.
Right.
Yes.
Second date.
Wow.
That's pretty good.
Yeah.
I mean, I think in terms of when you do it, it kind of depends.
It comes down to what you guys were talking about earlier, sort of sort of feeling out the situation, kind of understanding where she's at, sort of figuring out the difference.
Maybe if she, you know, has an ideology that's not like ours, still kind of realizing, okay, is she disliked this because she was raised around this and that's what she was told?
Or does she, you know, vehemently believe in this and will, you know, we'll die for this and the things that we would say about the way that we believe kind of have to, you know, sort of parse that in the way that they talk.
I didn't exactly mean to broach it the first time, but I did on accident.
Sometimes that happens.
I was just happened to be sitting there talking to her the first time that I had spent a lot of time around her.
And we had friends with us too.
And I had made a joke about something about they were talking about rappers or something, something like that.
And my friend had made a joke about, oh, yeah, you know, Anthony really doesn't like blacks.
So immediately I get the wide out of the book, you know, take out, you know, how yeah, right.
How exactly do you explain that?
So I broached it pretty well and kind of laid it out at that point because I figured how, you know what I mean?
How else are you going to, you know, explain that?
Obviously saying it that way does not sound, you know, that's not, that's not all there is to it.
But we had like, I'd say we had a pretty decent, you know, talk of that.
She was definitely not anywhere even remotely close to my, to my same level of thinking.
But I will say, I mean, I got to give her a lot of credit for never saying oh, you know, I I don't like you because of that or I wouldn't, you know, want to be with you because that, you know, she would always listen and ask questions and understanding, you could tell that there was, you know, like a curiosity there, as opposed to just being like oh, I don't agree with you, i'm done with the conversation.
Sure, good stuff Woody, how about you?
Yeah, so I think you should let it come up naturally um, and there's no reason to sit down with her and be like, this is this and this is that.
I mean, do you respect women's opinion on politics in general?
Like, that's like what I would ask.
So it's like, why are you trying to have these conversations with her?
Um, you let it come up naturally and you address individual issues as they come up.
Uh, the other thing I would say is that you know if you're doxxed or um, you know if it does come out somehow what you believe, or you do end up having it come out uh, having the, the conversation, having the talk or whatever um, you know, I wouldn't, don't try, you can't convince anyone of anything like uh I, I truly believe this.
You, you have to lead them there um, and you need to own it.
Don't qualify, don't walk it back, don't equivocate.
That's just, this is what I believe and you know.
But don't hammer her and be like you're so stupid, don't?
You see?
Like, look at this graph, like it just sometimes you got to just move on to the next topic or something.
You know.
You just say it like, you say you own it, you state it, leave it there.
You know, maybe it come up, come up again in different ways later.
Absolutely, it's like how, how we handle, how we handle things on this show too, is these are facts, we're not crazy, and like it's just the way of the world.
And yeah, if you're like like super excited, like oh, my god, you know I gotta gotta talk about this and that, and like red pillar and stuff like that hell, no man like you have your beliefs.
Don't be ashamed of them, don't keep them secret from her uh, but just be uh cool, calm and collected, as my mom used to tell me before, baseball games fly casual, chewy and uh establish.
Yeah it's, it's like our ideas are dominant and rising because they are right and because the world is collapsing into.
So uh, it's not.
It's not really like mission impossible.
Sorry Woody, go ahead.
Right, I have an unfortunate story.
All right, go for it.
Rollover, yeah, I was dating a very Christian girl uh, some years ago, and just one day we were talking about this and that and she brought up Satanic cults that she thinks runs the world and how disgusted she is by pornography.
And I was like, oh baby, I got a hanging curve here and and then I slowly eased in on this and she was like she couldn't deal with it so much, like it was such a shock to her that she became a raging Philosemite kicking the I I, I couldn't, I couldn't believe it.
It was crazy.
Because she was like it's these satanic cults, like these people like Jeffrey Epstein and Harvey Weinstein and all these people in Hollywood, like just like naming Jews and like oh, and they happen to be all Jewish for no reason, and these people that run pornography.
And I was like well, I have a book right here, it's called Merchants Of Sin, like we can just look through it, and I was like showing her all the stuff, like I literally had the book, and I was showing like here's like Al gold uh, Al Goldstein, and uh, and who's that poet guy?
The disgusting one again, Alan Ginsberg.
Yeah like, look it's, it's not a coincidence.
And then she was like right there on the spot trying to rationalize how it wasn't Jews, even though, like everyone she named was Jewish.
And I showed her proof that it was Jews, like and, and you're doing exactly like, you're you cognitive?
Exactly what i'm suggesting not to do, which is to try to sit there in one sitting and convince her it's the Jews I did all.
No no no, shut up, dude.
Oh, shut up.
She set me up for this listen.
The move is to be like, lol, don't you mean Jews?
And then move on.
No, the no.
The move is to let them think they figured it out.
But that was a person that pretty much said, i'm, I don't like that.
Jews run the world, and the thing that I hate the most is ran by those people like that.
That is a like, that is a layup.
And beat her over the head with the book and she reacted poorly.
No, I should oh dude, give me a break.
Dude you you you, you would go for that, not gonna give you a break.
That's why i'm breaking your balls.
No no, that that is like such a like a layup, like.
That situation never happens to anyone, never.
Paradox with women like you think it's a layup, but it's not dude, that never happens, that doesn't happen with anybody.
And look, and and I have that same situation that happened with people that I worked with and uh, one of them became a transgender after like, he was like all these these Illuminati types, and then he just named a bunch of Jews and I was like here's why it's Jews like, but I wasn't dating that guy, so that was irrelevant to this conversation.
That just happens and that's unfortunate it's.
But when, when people set you up for, like boy, i'm ready to be red pilled, and you say like well, let me red pill you like oh, my gosh, i'm going to be blue pilled, of course that happens too, because everyone thinks they're smarter than they actually are and when someone is objectively smarter than them, a lot of those people they get insecure and then they just deny what that person said because there's no way you could be smarter than me.
Well, her world was absolutely would be shattered to, to admit the truth of it.
Yeah exactly, especially like in the day, this day and age of like feminism, girls get it done, and girl power and all that.
Like so many women like really think that they are infallible because the system has catered to them with, when there's not much for them to unrealist yeah, so like, like I know everything.
It's the satanic cults it's.
It's the satanic cults that run pornography.
It's like okay, it's not like.
How dare you think you know more than me?
How dare you say something that's not my worldview?
All right, I got a big one here.
Arguably one of the biggest issues in dating and deciding is this a fling?
Are we going to date for a long time?
And is she the one to marry?
And that is sexual attraction.
I have always been a big proponent of the idea that if you are not climbing up a wall to get with her in the early days, if you're not like insanely, rapidly excited about the prospect of intimate relations with the woman early on, that that might be a sign, might, that it's not necessarily the most eugenic thing.
The idea behind this, of course, is that there are ancient spirits in our blood, in our DNA that drive us toward mating with those for whom we would have healthy, prosperous, many children.
And I'll say this too, without trying to sound like a jerk or cocky or whatever.
Before I met my wife, I had at least two or three girlfriends who were pretty, or you could say were beautiful and were pleasant and were intelligent.
On paper, everything was there, but I was not super into them in that way.
And then when I met my now wife, I said, holy cow, it was like going from eating, you know, bread in a prison to steak dinners without trying to kill the lily or go overboard here.
And I was like, holy moly, I never knew I could be that into a woman physically.
And I'll share, sometimes she likes when I share our story.
Sometimes she doesn't.
So I'm always walking on eggshells a little bit, but she said the fact that you were so into me was a major factor for me as well.
So the question then, because another little anecdote, a guy, good guy we know was dating a girl.
Everything looked good on paper, but her grill, her face was like, you know, maybe a little bit of a butterface, a brown bagger.
And he just, I couldn't do it.
I couldn't go forward with it.
So obviously, you know, guys who are fives can be insanely attracted to fours and fives or even threes or twos, you know, opposites attract sometimes.
There's weird stuff that goes on.
But I'm going to, I'm going to go to Wooderson first.
I think he's rearing up to hit a homer on this one.
How important is sexual attraction and the attractiveness of the woman for settling down long term?
Sorry for the long wind up.
Yeah.
So I agree with you, but I would also qualify it.
I think the desirability and mutual attraction is an indication of genetic fitness and genetic compatibility.
But I would also qualify it with like, if your if your sex drive is way up here and hers is way down here, then you're not a good match.
You you need to kind of meet each other on that same plane.
And even if you're attracted to each other, and I think there's just some people like, you know, we, we have sex all the time.
Well, what does all the time mean?
I mean, is it, you know, every day?
Is it multiple times a day?
Is it once a week?
Like different people's like, you know, sexual activity and frequency is different and you need to make sure you guys match on that.
In terms of like, should you find your wife attractive?
Yeah.
I mean, I think if you're not attracted to her on average, on balance, all things considered, you know, her spirit, how she is, her looks, her personality and all these sort of things together.
Yeah, I mean, I think some people weight certain things.
It's like the it's a deal breaker if she's not like a certain level of attractiveness to you, I guess I would say.
Because you'll always be, it'll always be that thing that you're like, ah, you know, man, I really wouldn't.
Guys are going to be cracking jokes about me at the bar.
What does he see in her?
Sam, yeah, Sam, I wanted to go to you and let me just phrase it too, because I know that you were an advocate of, you know, remaining chaste, essentially, until, well, to a certain extent for marriage.
But what, you know, what if it's a little, and this is another tough one and it kind of dovetails with that.
You don't like there's, there is a benefit to playing the field and test driving a little bit, I would argue, before signing on to a lifelong agreement.
But go ahead, big guy.
How about it?
Well, in this, in this sick society we live in, yeah, I guess all that is true, you know, and how much attraction plays into it and things like that with all this pornography and all the bad social things that we have that we all accept as normal.
But I think that in the ancient world, men and women married who their parents told them to marry.
And sexual attraction is just like a normal thing between men and women, because it's, you know, as they say, the birds and the bees, you know, that's, it's just a natural thing between a healthy man and a healthy woman that there will be sexual attraction.
Now we have all these, you know, like love stories and things that we emulate and all that stuff, falling in love and attraction and all the hijinks and adventures of it.
But I would, I would, and so in that sense, yeah, I guess you got to figure all that stuff out.
But I, you know, I like to use the analogy of imagine some small agricultural village 150 years ago where most of our ancestors lived and the men went out and worked all day or hunted or whatever they did.
And, you know, they didn't even see women too much.
And then they would come home to their wife and that was the only woman they knew.
So of course they were attracted to their wives because, you know, you didn't have TV with all the bad images and all the printed materials with bad images and you didn't have as much, you know, all that stuff.
So the only excitement, sexual excitement you got was from your own wife and you loved her for it, you know, and you cherished it and all that.
Now in this glutted, sated society we live in, sure, all those things, all those factors you're bringing up, I guess you got to figure those out.
And what, you know, what really does that play?
Because, you know, desire goes up and down.
I'm talking not only from day to day and year to year, but, you know, even years, things, you know, sex, sex lives go up and they go down and you have, you know, just you don't, people don't stay the same exactly.
They change a little bit.
And I think that by being married and being committed to marriage, well, you're just going to ride that out and you're going to discover new things about your wife that you didn't know, you know, a few years ago.
Your relationship will continue to grow.
And somebody might say, yeah, but if you sleep with 20 or 50 or 100 women, oh, you learn a lot.
No, I think you learn more by being with the same person over and over again, where you really feel, figure out what really gets her off, where you can just touch her a certain way.
And in just half a minute or a minute, you got her right where you want her and things like that.
So that's the way I would answer that question.
It's not exactly a nice, neat answer.
Fair enough.
Yeah, absolutely.
Sam is definitely right.
You don't learn anything about yourself or the other person by being with them once or twice or something.
Yeah, exactly.
One night stand is you're not going to learn anything from that.
All right.
Go ahead, Anthony or Rolo, if you got anything or else I'll move on.
Yeah, I come from like a real similar place to how Sam thinks on that kind of thing, you know, with the whole sexual attraction, whether you want to think of it as, you know, nature or God, but, you know, clearly that sexual attraction is something biologically, you know, there's something important about that telling you that, you know, there's something here and that might, that might be the initial thing.
And I definitely think that's important to continue that.
Obviously, if you lose that, you can have problems and so on and, you know, end up, you know, losing that relationship because of it.
And I think there's also something to be said with, you know, they mentioned earlier about, you know, trying to, you know, act like yourself.
You know, does conversation flow easily?
Do you have to think?
Do you have constant things to like talk about that?
You know, plus a sexual attraction and so on and things like that.
I think that's, you know, that's, that's a nature.
That's God telling you, hey, there's something here and this is something to pursue, you know, so the sexual aspect is a huge part, but, you know, I think there's a lot of those things that combine together to, you know, make the whole.
I want to add one other thing to what I was saying.
In the ancient world, those people, they, to, to just be merely motivated by passion, they looked at that as being like an animal.
You know, they, they married for higher purposes, like that it was good for their family and, and they married because that was who their parents told them to marry and things like that.
They looked at mere attraction as being no better than the animals.
And because they lived a much rougher life in a sense than what we have, they, you know, their life was harder in a lot of ways.
So it was important to really be better than animals.
Important.
Yeah.
Very important.
Yeah.
Sexual attraction is important.
It's obviously not the only factor.
Yeah.
And it's important to not let it become such an important factor in your mind.
You know, it must be one among many important things.
I had a fat Babushka Russian instructor in Moscow in 2001.
And I remember her saying, six Buddhetskuchna.
We were talking about relationships.
That means sex will become boring.
As she was like counseling these Americans.
Now, Sam says, oh, contrary, my lady.
Yeah.
No, no, no.
But no, like, you know, certain evolutions do happen.
And my wife happened to be also very intelligent, which was important to me and a lot of fun too.
So there's all these different factors that you have to take into account for sure, weigh them in the balance, but not be some cold-eyed like accountant putting it down in a spreadsheet.
Trust your gut is another thing that came through from a bunch of other guys in terms of their advice.
Trust your gut and trust your nuts too.
I would supplement there.
Now, something that's been bugging me is I wanted to say something like, you should be dating with marriage potential at the top of your mind.
In other words, don't commit to a woman and don't sleep with her unless you think she might be the one or your future bride.
But that's hard to tell.
Is that a good approach to take?
Or should our guys be more casual and just go out there and have fun with women, you know, in the purest sense as well as in the physical sense, and then see where things take them?
You know serious, purpose driven.
I'm seeking a wife and i'm going to have kids.
And obviously there's another factor.
You know you say that early on I want to get married and have kids.
I guess that's a turn on for some women.
Or should they like, take a little pressure off themselves and just go date and be normal?
Um yeah, i'll address that.
I dating with a serious purpose in mind, I mean with the advice, the suggestions that i've laid out earlier in this show.
I mean I would say um, you need to hold off, even if it is a, even if it is a girl that that seems like she's great and everything and all that uh, but you're a young man and you don't have a lot going for you and you haven't um, really matured and and built a foundation as a man.
Um, I would say uh, you need to hold off in uh, pulling the trigger on on doing that and you need to wait till uh, you get a little bit older and you've established yourself some more um, but and so do not uh, be like oh, she's so great and you know, puppy love can last a long time.
Uh, you'll feel these intense feelings um, for the first year.
Or give or take um, and you need to.
Uh, you know she's going to be ready to do it.
Uh, she'll be ready to get married with these, you know, with these intense puppy love feelings, a lot of the times uh, she will um, but you have to keep a cooler head and uh so yeah, I mean I i'm not suggesting like oh, just use women for fun or whatever um, but you need to have some experience with women to know when you've found the right one.
Well put, I think you'll know it.
You know you got to let it play out, let the situation play out, and then you'll know yep, all right uh, i'm gonna go.
It's sort of in keeping with the show.
A question from the audience and this will kick off more stuff.
And he says, first, i'd like to say thank you to the birth panel for creating the best podcast to listen to while mowing the lawn.
You're damn right, sir.
Uh, you know, lawn supremacy now forever.
Uh, in all seriousness.
Navigating this world is tough and you guys do great work.
Keep it up.
Thank you very much, buddy.
All right bit of context.
This is not too long, don't worry.
I was in a long-term relationship for a few years.
When I eventually came around to my viewpoints, she started moving in the opposite direction, toward the left.
We started to disagree on almost every issue, such as having kids, how we'd raise them politics, the vaccine race gender Jq, etc.
In episode 100 of Full House, a listener wrote in with a very similar situation, but he was married, if I recall correctly.
I took the advice in that episode to heart.
I kept raising the issue to her and eventually it became painfully obvious there was no way it was going to work.
I finally split up with her, which was 100% for the best.
Now, fast forward to more recently, I started dating a new girl.
We line up on all the issues that my ex and I did not.
She wants to have a big family and be a mother.
She knows my view on politics, race, gender, and the JQ.
She doesn't agree with me on everything, but for the most part, she either doesn't care or agrees with me.
Sounds good.
But there's some red flags.
Two major ones being that she has one, a high body count.
And number two, she smokes weed.
On the one hand, I'm elated to find a girl that isn't a crazy leftist and wants to have a big family.
On the other, I fear I'm lowering my standards and can do better.
The dating game is brutal these days, especially with Gen Z millennial women.
Should I ignore these red flags for now, or is it better to be single and hold out for someone better?
Any advice would be appreciated.
I would say that it depends how she views those things.
She says, yeah, that's my body count.
Or is it something like, yeah, those, that was not wise what I did.
I've learned a hard lesson from that.
You know, I think it depends how the person views those bad things.
How old are you?
Would be my question.
Sam, don't ask Sam's agent.
Yeah, right.
It might, this woman might depend on how old she is and stuff like that.
If this is the guy I'm thinking of, the guy said he was in his 20s.
So we can assume that she's between like 20 and 29 and probably below 25.
It's not Arian Stallion, by the way.
And the show is dedicated to Arian Stallion 14.
Yeah, I'm sorry.
We didn't have him on here.
We needed him.
Well, I want, we'll still have him on, but I didn't want to have him come in and gum up the words.
No, Sam wants him on.
I want him on.
We can't have people coming on this show that call me Italian.
Okay.
Come on, guys.
Oh, we invited Kanye West on, but we can't.
Yeah, we can't have Ariane Stallion.
Kanye West didn't call me Italian.
All right.
So he's, yeah.
So high body count possibility.
Yeah.
So I would say to the guy, I'll forgive you for not listening to this episode because it didn't exist when you were writing this question, but you've already started down the road of asking her body count or maybe she offered it to you.
You know, I don't know.
But if that's an I guarantee you that it that she offered it to him.
Okay.
If that's an issue for you now and you've can you've got she told you and time has passed and you haven't gotten over it and it hasn't it's not something you feel like you're going to be able to be okay with and then yes, you need to move on immediately.
Don't waste any more of your time.
Don't waste any more of her time.
But if it's like this is fresh and you just wrote this email because you just found that out, then I would say give it a little time and see how you feel about it later.
But if it's something that keeps coming up that you keep thinking about and you keep dwelling on and you don't think you're going to get over it, then, you know, it keeps coming up.
It is still an issue in your mind.
That's a sticking point.
No matter how great she is, you need to quit wasting her time and quit wasting yours.
I think that you have to be a little more nuanced with this.
I think if this guy thinks a high body count is 10, then he needs to stop being a retard.
But if it's like near 100 or something, I can see why he might think that this may not go anywhere because it's very likely that this woman is going to get bored, especially with stoner women.
The most loathsome women I've ever dated were potheads.
And I mean that.
I've heard a lot of a lot of libertarian weed gang say like, oh, girls that smoke pot are more fun.
No, they're not.
They're the most depressed.
They're the most lethargic.
They have the most disagreements over nothing.
So if this is a girl that's banged a lot of guys in a smoking pot, it's probably worth it to get out.
But if she smokes pot because she has glaucoma and she had sex with nine guys or like five and you think that's too much, like you need to stop being so neurotic.
I would just say that, you know, coming from a recovered alcoholic, I would say that someone that is smoking like a joint at a concert when it's passed to them or something is one thing.
But if someone's smoking weed on a regular basis.
Yeah, yeah, that's what I'm saying.
It matters.
When this guy says she smokes weed and a high body count, it matters about how much pot and how much the body count is.
For sure.
And if she's smoking weed on a regular basis, I would say that's a sign of deeper psychological issues and just other things going on.
That's a symptom of a bigger problem.
Yep.
And there's also the factor of I can see our guys like I wanted to say, if you're already having these concerns and misgivings and second thoughts, it's probably a sign that it's not right.
But at the same time, I know that there's a ton of guys out there on our in our spiral.
Yes, a little neurotic and overthinking things and making the perfect the enemy of the good.
God knows, you know, just, I don't know, pots, pot smoking and body counts are unfortunately part and parcel of living in America.
And beggars sometimes cannot be choosers.
So it's the impossible like judgment call, right?
What if he has a problem with her body count because it's the banned body count?
If she listens to slipknot, if she listens to slipknot, date, you must not.
I don't know.
I saw some like family minivan with like slipknot and other things on there.
I guess if it's the misfits, it's okay.
Yeah.
Slipknot.
Like, I don't know what to say, man.
I don't want to tell you to kill yourself, but he says it right there.
Rehab or something.
A slipknot is the hangman's noose.
Yeah.
Like when I learn someone likes slipknot, it's like finding out someone's favorite restaurant is Denny's.
Like, you know, there's other options, right?
Like literally anything else.
Let's let's go to the ultimate question when you know or when you feel it is time to actually pop the question to that woman.
This is a softball for Anthony for Waterson for Wooderson.
You got me thinking Watterson now, Anthony, and Sam too.
Sam's done it twice.
And I'll, my two cents here is that, you know, I probably waited too long.
I should have done it a little bit earlier.
But by the time I popped the question, it already felt like we were married.
And I remember telling a buddy or whoever it was at the time that it almost just seemed like a formality, that we were already married in spirit and also in, you know, a material sense.
were living together.
And that's not to take away from the special my wedding day is after the birth of my children and maybe stealing home to win the championship in sixth grade, absolutely one of the greatest days of my life.
Like I loved it from start to finish, not no regrets, nothing but joy when I think about that day.
But for me, I popped the question when it felt like we were already married.
Sam, you want to take this one first and then we'll get to our guys who are seriously dating and what's going through their minds.
But when did you decide to pop the question?
Well, I am not a fan of a long engagement.
I think that the relationship should move along, you know, in a pace where it will just feel like the right time.
It's the next possible thing.
Wooderson touched on some points I agreed with, which was you have to be a man of some means.
You got to have a place.
You got to have a car.
You got to have a job.
You got to have some money and some things.
But, you know, maybe don't get carried away with that, but you do have to be a man of means.
And, you know, just the maturity of the relationship in both cases was at the point where that was just the natural next thing.
That's definitely what I wanted.
I'm not dating somebody just to date somebody.
It's to move towards a goal.
Everything in my life is to move towards a goal.
So that's, I suppose, it's just the way I live my life.
And maybe somebody else lives their life a little differently than that.
And then so they might have a different answer to that question.
Go ahead, Phyllis.
All right, Anthony, I'm putting you on the hot seat.
Yeah.
Are you?
I have plenty to say.
I would say that what's necessary or like, you know, you should be having conversations about family, children, parenting.
Yeah, exactly.
Your future, your things like that.
And, you know, before you're ready to get married, I mean, this is something with any girl that you're dating, even like I'm suggesting guys that don't move in until you're in your early 30s or at least 30, do not move in with a girl.
That's my, just my suggestion.
But even when, you know, you're dating in your 20s and a girl that might become something serious, whatever, you need to be having these conversations.
And you should let these things come up naturally, of course, but like you should have had conversations about family.
How many children do you want?
Like, how do you want to parent?
You know, these, and not like sitting there like some of these broads do where they go on a date and they've got their checklist and they're like, you know, do you like this?
And like, checklist, checklist, checklist.
No, like, you know, you should have naturally had conversations about these important topics and ensured that you align on those things.
And once you've had that, I would say pretty much any time after that, when you feel satisfied on these important topics that you're aligned on, and I'd say do it.
Go ahead, Anthony.
What's going through your head?
Yeah, that, no, that's, that's actually, that's, that's pretty much exactly what I was going to say is, you know, if you're with somebody for that amount of time, you know, those conversations should be happening.
Um, definitely things you should be talking about, you know, marriage, kids, family, you know, location, things like that.
And I think if you are with somebody who, you know, who is the right one and somebody that you can go to that next level with, I think those conversations will come up naturally.
Like you said, it won't be to the point where you need to think, okay, I need to sit down on the third date and get this checklist and make sure that she wants to have the same amount of kids, make sure that she wants to get married, so on and so forth.
I think those things will happen naturally.
That's another way of, you know, God kind of showing you, hey, you know, this is sort of the person that you would want to be with.
You have, you know, kind of a connection and a similar thing there.
I don't, I think if it feels forced, then, you know, there must, there's got to be something, something wrong.
Yep.
There's a little bit of a sunk cost calculation, I think, that probably happens for some people where they're like, well, we've been together for this long and things have gone good enough.
Might as well just do the bit.
I'm speculating.
Yeah.
I know a guy.
I know a guy and I know he won't listen to this.
So I can actually tell the story.
He's someone that's a mentor of mine in business.
And I respect him a lot.
And he's been very successful at a young age.
And he had this same girlfriend that he had been living with for a really long time.
She's like, she's in her maybe, I don't know, mid-30s or something like that.
And he's just turned 40.
And he's not like the tallest guy, but he's also not terrible looking.
I'd say like decent looking to, you know, on maybe on the handsome side, but he's got a high net worth and 40 and, you know, has everything going for him and did exactly what you're talking about, Coach, which is that sunk cost fallacy and was just like, she gave him an ultimatum and he married her.
And I was like pulling my hair out.
I'm like, dude, don't you realize you could go get a Slavic girl that's half your age and, you know, with a way better attitude?
Yeah.
But yeah, you know, I don't know.
You just can't talk people out of some of things like that.
Yeah, we always say that women are dumb and malleable or whatever.
Yeah, we could be pretty freaking retarded sometimes too.
That reminds me, we did, Wooderson, you might enjoy this one.
We did a show called Eastern Promises with a man who married a Slavic woman from Eastern Europe early on in the show.
All the positives and some of the negatives too.
You gotta use a firm hand with them.
I'll tell you that much.
Yeah, you gotta, wow.
There was something that Sam said when we were talking about very carefully corporal punishment at home.
And, you know, Sam said, sometimes you gotta break them a little bit.
And I said, yeah, like a horse.
And they excerted that one.
Yeah, there's a commie podcast called I Don't Speak German that a friend alerted me to.
They talked about our show a little bit and they're going to do like a full house focus very quickly.
And I tuned into the one where they were talking about NJP and Waukesha and Daryl Brooks and stuff.
And then they like sort of shoehorned us in there and they excerpted us talking about black atrocities against white people and what the proper response to.
And my wife happened to be there when I was playing it over the speaker and she was like, those were like, those were the clips that they excerted.
You guys sounded nice.
You're talking about going on a hike and then, you know, hypothetical responses to the offenses against our people.
You know, they, they never really dig down.
And I tweeted about this the other day.
It's always like they treat white radicalization.
And by that, I mean unapologetic pro-white racial solidarity and advocacy, coupled with speaking about Jewish power and its malign influence.
They always talk about malign influence in foreign affairs, but we got our own malignities at home.
I know that's not a word.
But they never engage with our core legitimate grievances.
Grievance has a negative connotation to it because it just sounds like you're whining, like you're complaining.
But when injustices are being done to you, how do you think the left got as far as it did, but by coming up with bullshit or exaggerated grievances, which they harped on and harped on, with, of course, the benefit of tons of money and system support.
But if you're not willing to talk about what's wrong and how we're being wronged and you just want to stay positive, I'm sorry.
The enemy has shown that that works.
But more to the point, why are we radicalized?
Why are we angry white men?
Why do we support white nationalism?
Why are we hostile to Jewish power?
And I just like, it took me 10 seconds to rattle off open borders, black crime, Jewish power, double standard anti-white discrimination.
And then, of course, this filthy, disgusting child innocence destroying culture that we live in.
So to all the enemy, excerpt that one, faggots, because you want to know, we tell you, God knows we all love telling our red pill stories left and right on the show, on the internet, whatever.
It's nothing better.
There's no doubt they have to be careful what they excerpt because they're going to draw fans here.
We're going to get more fans.
I will become a communist and change my ways if any of the hosts of that show can rep 225 on a barbell on any exercise.
Bro, Daniel Harper is fatter than Ethan Ralph.
They couldn't rep 225 pound dumbbells.
Imagine your avatar being like the stay puffed marshmallow man, only it's like really your face.
I mean, if they are going to listen to this, I mean, like, of course, how can you take yourself seriously if like every single one of our guys could beat the dog shit out of you and take your wallet?
Like, it's just how do you take your ideas seriously if like if you're such shitty physical specimens.
Oh, sorry.
They're not.
I blame Coach.
I did too.
I know.
I let the I let loose the kraken.
Weapons free.
All right.
Turn it off for the kids.
Go ahead.
No, don't, don't curse with a bandit.
Yeah.
Go ahead, Rolo.
They're not just like physically disgusting.
They're all on SSRIs.
They all take Xanax.
They all smoke pot.
They all have porn addictions.
Everything about them, they are the most physically and mentally weak people on the planet.
They are using the system to its full potential to destroy us because we are threatening to take away their simple physical pleasures, which keeps them from just accepting the reality is that they're humans and they have human responsibilities.
And all they want to do is watch Game of Thrones and masturbate to degenerate porn all day while taking drugs.
That's all they want.
And we're saying, have a family, get in shape, be self-reliant.
And that is the opposite of everything that they want.
I'm not, I'm not even.
It's so ridiculous, but you're not wrong.
They are.
They are fighting right all of their power to make sure that this disgusting system is preserved for as long as possible, because everything about them is so pathetic and disgusting that anything else will reveal just how worthless they actually are, because they have absolutely no value.
They're fat.
They're disgusting.
They're addicted to drugs and porn.
They do not have girlfriends.
They have to buy them from OnlyFans.
And this is their freedom.
This is freedom for them.
It's not freedom.
We are depriving them of their addiction.
What could be more free than watching Netflix and selling bathwater on OnlyFans?
What could be more freedom than that?
Well, smoke and pot.
Go ahead, Watterson.
Yeah, Ted Kaczynski.
Waterson.
Sorry.
Your new name's Waterson.
Sorry.
Thank you, Anthony.
In the beginning of his manifesto, Ted Kaczynski talks about how leftists become leftists because they know they'll never measure up.
They know they can't compete.
And they are in some way defective and weak.
And they know this.
And that's why they gravitate to leftist ideas.
And while us on the right, we seek nobility, power, strength.
These things were drawn to that because that's like who we are innately, at least a lot of us.
And to support that point and Rolo's point and Sam's and Anthony's, I didn't listen to the whole thing.
I got bored with it, frankly.
But they were mocking the idea of protesting in Waukesha.
And then they turned on a dime and did a hemming and hawing about the disgusting oil and gas climate activists who are defacing paintings by saying that those people are trying to draw awareness to their cause.
We might not like it, you know, might not support it.
They're like, you know, on eggshells over the idea of defacing priceless masterpieces, but they're trying to affect change.
And like 10 seconds earlier, we're mocking the idea of actually showing up in the street to do a protest about white people slaughtered at a Christmas parade.
I mean, why don't they throw the tomato soup on this ugly modern art?
Because the ugly modern art is made by transgender people.
So therefore, it is beautiful.
Everything about them is everything about them is the opposite of reality.
Inversion, right?
Yeah.
Every, everything about them.
No, sorry, Rolo.
I wasn't trying to shut you down.
I just, Anthony had something there.
I didn't want him to get.
Yeah.
Special guest.
Go ahead.
Go ahead, buddy.
We're not.
I was just going to say these people are, you know, they're, they're dysgenic.
They're not, they don't have like the presence of mind and, you know, the physical and like mental sort of capabilities that a lot of people on, you know, on like our end would have.
It's easier for them to be weak.
It's easier for them to agree with, you know, whatever it is that'll give them the most praise online, whatever will, you know, will come with the least amount of, you know, backlash.
It's, it's easy for them.
So they just gravitate towards that because they don't, you know, they don't find the worth in struggle, I guess.
Amen.
Cleaning up loose ends here at the end.
Not that they are to be discarded, but I just got them last minute or I'm just seeing them now.
Our old pal Franklin, a competitor producer, if Rolo ever bites the dust or really rubs me the wrong way, I'm going to roll Franklin into being the producer for our show.
He just says, he said, trust your gut and pay attention to the red flags.
Thank you, Frankie Baby.
Our pal Calem Blue emailed in just before the show and said, get yourself together first.
If you've got a dark cloud hanging over your head, you're probably not going to seek or find the right person.
Maybe you need to forgive your parents.
Maybe you need to forgive yourself.
You're probably not going to be looking in the right place.
Find a hobby, faith, or cause you're passionate about and seek a partner who is also passionate about it.
Maybe the most important quality to seek in your partner is a pleasant attitude.
Oft overlooked.
Is she nice?
Is she friendly?
You know, he said, there are times when life gets tough and having a partner who powers through it by your side is worth more than all the money in the world.
There's so much more than that, but I'll leave it there.
Cheers, gentlemen.
By the way, great show last week.
Love you guys.
No homo.
Thank you, Calem.
Absolutely.
You want a ride or die woman, but you also want one who can just chill out with you.
You could do Netflix and chill every once in a while.
You could just go for a little walk and talk and hold hands.
Need to hold my wife's hand more often.
We used to do that all the time in Moscow, walking through the streets.
And I would say our pal Watterson is Wooderson, sorry, is learning Russian, which I did back in the day.
And I used to always say, Mojna, and I would put my hand out, which means may I.
And she would take my hand.
And that was basically the peak of romance and charming that I ever accomplished.
Last question.
Do chicks still dig jerks?
Yes.
Should our guys be not felonious or like a-holes, but should they deliberately let their wild side out a little bit when they're dating because of that whole chicks dig jerks thing?
Yeah.
So once again, I have a lot to say on this.
No, people, yeah.
So, you know, a white man, someone that you, that is esteemable, that you look up to, that you respect, that has power, that person is usually not a jerk.
Really, what I think people mean when they say like, you know, nice guys finish last and that sort of thing is this dichotomy that I will lay out quickly, which is that people perceive or someone might be called a jerk is a man who just follows his interest and does what he wants to do and what is best for him.
And with, you know, without taking too much consideration in what other people think or want necessarily.
Of course, once you're in a relationship, you know, you have to take into account her needs and that sort of thing.
But as a single man, you know, you need to like never move to a city for a girl.
Never change your life for a girl.
And this whole nice guys finish last thing, it's guys that change their thinking, their ideas, their life, anything.
They change something for a girl.
That's the nice guy finishing last.
But the person they might call a jerk is just a guy who does what he thinks is best, no matter what she thinks or anyone else for that matter.
I'm going to disagree.
I think the guys they call a jerk are guys that just don't fawn over them, like the guys that don't give them the good morning text, the guys that only text them when it's making the plans.
I think that's what the jerk is.
Yeah, I mean, I think that agree.
I would agree with you.
Maybe I'm not.
Maybe I didn't make myself clear.
Yeah, I don't think it's like that guy's a jerk.
He thinks this, that, and whatever.
And it's really, he's just speaking what's on his mind and truth to power and whatnot.
No, I think it's just, it's the guy that does not cater to the woman's wind and is essentially the guy that just ignores the girl.
Like that's, that's the jerk.
Like the guy, the guy, the guy that the girl can't have.
The guy that's playing hard to get, that's only interested when it's convenient for him.
I think that's the quote unquote jerk.
We can size up our guys, alphas versus beta versus in between.
And if we can, then the opposite sex surely can.
And look, people that there are alpha leaders and there are beta followers.
That's just human nature.
There's a woman for all of you out there.
Like you can't necessarily LARP as an alpha Chad if you are not that deep in your genetic code or you're short.
And I don't know.
But everybody can have a little bit of swagger, even guys who don't have everything together sometimes still get the girl.
Everybody's got a little bit of spark and charm and aptitude or an advantage over other sexual competitors.
You need to honestly assess what you have, emphasize those things, and still, of course, adhere to coaches' five mandatory rules.
If any of you are complaining that you don't have a girlfriend or you're having trouble dating and you don't have white teeth, clean fingernails, a fresh haircut, a decent wardrobe, and are not in good shape, then I don't want to hear boo-hoo from you.
Those are five simple, easy things that, of course, I just happen to be able to address.
And here's another thing.
Multiple people have said, Coach, you have a very nice smile.
It's a big white, toothy smile.
And I can't do anything about my smile.
I had braces.
But you know what I do?
Like once every two years, I buy over-the-counter tooth whitening strips.
And I don't know, it keeps my teeth nice and white.
Too many of our guys I've seen who are single and complain about it do not have clean fingernails, a fresh haircut, white teeth, and all the rest of it.
I've mentioned that on the show before.
Coach's teeth are really white.
Oh, thank you, Sam.
Why he looks so Mexican?
Yeah.
Dark skin, white teeth.
Hey, tall, dark, and handsome.
That's a thing.
Antonio Bandera's at the computer.
Real quick, as we bring this puppy home, we are landing it.
Big shout out to Rockwell who chimed in on the Picky Eater.
We get a lot of feedback on the Picky Eater thing.
Very gracious audiences.
Rockwell on Twitter says a couple tricks we use on our three-year-old.
Number one, tell them their friend's mom made it and it's their hamburger.
So sort of obfuscating.
Oh, this is a special treat.
Number two, tell them, don't you remember you ate this before and you loved it?
But he agrees, it's still a struggle.
Especially, especially eggs.
All right.
And another buddy says, okay, we had the same issues with our daughter.
She would not eat anything other than chicken nuggets and milk.
Nothing else.
Screaming bloody murder.
Two years ago, I started the technique of you will taste this just a bit and then you will give me thumbs up or thumbs down.
After a lot of tears, she got the message that, hey, if I don't like it, I can say no.
The catch, though, was that if she ever ate something, then that was it.
She could not say no again.
Example, pizza.
She once started with a tiny bite.
I cleaned up the sauce.
She was eating the dough, then a bit of sauce and a bit more cheese.
And then it was like, no, I don't like it.
Well, you ate it.
I don't want to hear anything about it.
And that managed to get her to eat a lot more.
So just some tricks there.
And JT says wrote in about ramen.
He said, ramen does not have to be empty crap calories.
Oh, and of course, I didn't even think about this, you know, grub coach.
I was like, ramen in packet, put in hot water and add packages.
He's like, you can add meat.
You can add all these enriching things to ramen and get healthier calories on them through that.
So we're really coming full circle.
My Alex Jones pile of papers has been consolidated.
Rolo, thank you for merchants of sin.
I will link that in the show notes because that, who wrote that, do you know?
Or you remember?
Benjamin Garland, I believe is the author's name.
Sounds like something that should be on all of our guys' bookshelves.
The White People's Press is putting out a 2023 calendar with heroes from mythology.
Sam said he's ordered mine.
Yeah.
I went to do it today and then it asked me for some code for something and I got hung up, but I'm going to do it.
There is not going to be an Our People Our Year calendar this year.
I talked to the creators.
I was so honored to contribute to that last year.
They said, I won't say why they're not doing it again.
It's not nothing bad, but I don't want to be a demoralizer or a Derrad.
See, if that was me, I would just put 2023 on it and sell the same calendar.
I mean, hey, now you're talking.
Yeah, because a lot of people didn't get it last year and I would buy it again.
It was so good.
I would have the same calendar for next year if it had the right dates on it.
1.08 a.m. here on the East Coast, November 5th.
It's not too late to turn that around.
I'm going to go talk to my buddy and say, I mean, especially because some of the writing in that calendar was absolutely brilliant.
The visuals and just the whole layout of it was great.
I would buy another one for 2023.
Hell yeah.
Just make it the same thing.
Yeah.
Don't worry.
I think they're over.
Yeah.
Change the graphics a little bit and keep the text.
Doesn't have to be.
Yeah.
All right.
Good stuff, Sam.
Look at you.
All right.
Let's see.
Anthony, thank you so much for coming on.
Again, we had never spoken and I didn't really know who you were.
I just gambled.
I was like, this seems like a good dude.
And lo and behold, I'm not surprised.
So honored to have you on.
Hey, and thank you so much.
I've been listening for a long time and it was, it was.
It was great to be able to get on here and talk to you guys.
So I really hope I'll get to uh, talk to you guys more and hopefully see you soon too.
So, thank you so much.
Amen, and if you ever pass out, if you ever pass out at a party, i'm getting the clippers and i'm going to give you a good.
I'm coming back next time with a fast cut.
You're going to be ready for it.
Good stuff brother, thanks and god bless.
Good luck with your lady and Wooderson.
Uh, really nice job there it is.
He posted the Pepe with the zoomer fro.
That the zoomer fro is a real thing.
I've seen that on so many kids, even out here uh, but Wooderson, I dare say uh, you did a very fine job tonight.
I don't dare say it, I just say it.
Thank you so much.
Anthony was bussing, I was bussing coach, you were bussing.
Rollo was made.
Uh, I would say, cook your food, quit jacking off to porn and hit the gym succinct.
I'm glad you and Rollo are friends now.
You got over your little tumult there in the beginning and now you're pals.
Hey, baby.
I think we did some good service by the audience tonight.
I damn sure hope so.
Yeah.
And I'd like to remind listeners that coming up here on the 9th, there's a day to commemorate, which is back years ago.
And I'm talking maybe 30 years ago, Tom Metzger was promoting this idea of calling November 9th Martyr's Day.
And instead of just automatically getting the trigger response to saying the word crystalled, instead calling it Martyr's Day and maybe taking a moment to remember the martyrs of our cause on that day.
And for myself, if I could just give some quick recommendations, myself and any who gather with me, that's a day.
We usually try to spend it outdoors, maybe grill some meat.
And when I say meat, I don't mean hot dogs and hamburgers, but maybe steaks and lamb chops, have some hard liquor and some tobacco.
And it's a good day to gather with a few comrades and toast the martyrs.
You had me at hard liquor and tobacco, my friend.
Sorry for being glib here at the end.
A little high at the end of the show.
Thank you, Sammy, baby.
And Rolo, my dear friend, you know, I risk or I worry about boosting you as an eligible single on the show.
But I forget if it was Anthony or a recent young correspondent who said, if you guys are feds, you're really good feds.
No, we're not feds.
We're totally honest.
And I'm telling you right now, Rolo is the single best eligible bachelor I know.
And he will be a great husband, father, and life partner throughout whatever, whichever lucky lady is lucky enough to shack up with him.
And I mean that sincerely, my friend.
Thank you so much.
Any last thoughts before we land it?
I cleaned my gutters today.
There you go.
More evidence.
Yeah.
No, no woman wants to clean gutters.
How are the goats?
Oh, well, you know what?
My favorite goat is now my least favorite.
And my least favorite is now my favorite.
So, you know, some role reversal going on.
There you go.
Parallels for the dating scene.
You never know.
Fight one day, could be your best friend the next.
All right, buddy.
Full house episode 145 was recorded at least here in Appalachia.
It's a gorgeous November 4th, now November 5th.
I'm out in the gazebo.
The dog's been barking.
I can still hear those crickets.
The moon is up there with Jupiter nearby.
And if you are listening to this, you are still alive and there is still hope.
So to all of our single listeners, male and female, I guess some of our married listeners who might be edging toward divorce, this was useful for them too.
But seriously, never give up.
It's never too late.
And if you got just one piece of advice out of this show that is going to help you go on to what is unquestionably the greatest joy in life, marriage and parenting and fatherhood for most of our listeners, motherhood too.
Hey, we'll be happy.
To close us out this week, so tough, but I'm going with a techno track, but it's a beautiful techno track and it's called Tokyo.
And it's a beautiful woman saying she'd basically move to Tokyo if that's where you wanted to go.
And I think that's the spirit that so many of us need to keep in our hearts.
Well, I guess Wooderson said, don't move for her.
But if she wants to move to Tokyo for you, that's a good sign that she's a keeper.
You know what I mean.
We love you, fam.
We will talk to you next week.
Make it hammer on.
Still hoping for Kanye.
Put out the Hail Mary to the Russians with attitude, guys.
And then, of course, there's always just us shooting the shit and giving you the straight dope.