Argentinian Girl Admits She Held A Man Down For 13 YEARS!
Mia, a 19-year-old Miami OnlyFans creator earning over $20,000 monthly, reveals her past 13-year relationship in Argentina ended when her partner refused to relocate to the US. She contrasts this with her current life, where she prioritizes financial independence and rejects men lacking emotional intelligence or genuine conversation. While hosts debate whether wealth dictates respect, Mia argues personality supersedes status, noting that despite her high earnings and AI-enhanced branding, finding a compatible partner remains difficult in Miami's superficial dating scene. Ultimately, the discussion highlights how modern women increasingly value self-sufficiency over traditional relationship structures. [Automatically generated summary]
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Over That Life00:11:12
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Welcome back to the show, guys.
Fresh and Fit After Hours with Cam from Trading.
And four lovely ladies here.
Let's get into it.
Let's go.
It's a miracle doc, they counting me out, Raising my destiny, shaking his hand, Flipping the script, changing the plans.
I screw the top and I'm taking the fans, Making them jump, making them dance.
Making them jump, making them dance.
We bout to change the game.
We, out here taking names, Let our voices rise, Let them reach the skies.
We bout to change the game, So, obviously, as you know, Myron isn't here.
He's covering the war, but I'm still going to give you guys a really good show today.
So, we have Cam, some lovely ladies here, and we'll start with the first intro of the night.
So, what's your name, age, what we do for a living, dating status, and if you want to, of course, your body count?
So, name, age, what we do for a living.
I'm Rachel.
I work in fashion, and I'm starting my own brand.
What else?
Dating status.
How old are you?
30.
Okay.
And, yeah, we need the actual song.
And,.
Wait, yeah.
Dating status.
Single.
Single.
And body count, zero.
Come on, girl.
At 30?
No way.
I haven't killed anyone, so no.
Oh, okay.
She's smart.
She's smart.
Okay, so.
That's great.
Highest education level?
Some college.
Some college?
Two years of college, yeah.
Okay.
Parents together or no?
Yes.
Birth control?
No.
See, that's how you get them.
All right, it's fine.
All right, what about you?
Zero.
I'm Penelope.
I'm 19, and I'm a content creator.
Where are you from?
Quebec City, Canada.
That's the accent.
Chocolat bleu.
I speak French.
Oui, oui, ça va?
Oui, oui, ça va.
I don't know anything.
I just heard that one time and I was like repeating it.
Dating status?
I'm single.
Okay.
And you live here in Miami now or are you visiting?
I'm just visiting for three weeks.
Okay.
And what do you do for it?
I'm a content creator.
Nice.
What kind of content?
OnlyFans.
Yeah, you can't make this.
Okay, go.
Now she's serious.
Okay, I'm just curious.
What made you want to get into OnlyFans at 19?
All right.
Because I like taking pictures.
Okay, that was a great intro.
No, not especially naked, but I like taking pictures, going on a trip by myself.
And like, I don't want a job that takes me to nine to five.
Yeah, control, you want your freedom?
Yeah, I want to travel and go everywhere I want.
Pick pictures on Instagram as well.
Yeah.
Okay, what's your highest level of education in school?
College.
College?
Yeah.
Right now, I'm in pre university.
Okay.
Yeah.
And you're single, right?
I'm single.
Prince together?
No.
Birth control?
Yes.
I take the pills.
Oh, you said it.
I take the pills.
Okay.
And body count?
Zero.
Come on, man.
You have birth control.
No.
Yo.
Okay, okay.
My birth control is for my bleeding.
It's hurting a lot.
I started it at 13.
For my bleeding, wait, TMI.
Well, first of all, they love honesty, I do too.
But why are you on birth control if you're not?
To stop my bleeding, I take it and continue so I'm not bleeding because it hurted too much.
Okay, okay.
At first, no, blow jobs.
No, blow jobs.
Yeah, how many?
Four okay, we're gonna move on.
Uh, because that was a bit weird there.
What about you?
Welcome out to camp.
Hello, everyone.
My name is Ari.
I'm 35 and I'm from Argentina and I'm a hairstylist.
Okay, um, dating status single, single.
And how has it been dating for you in Miami?
Has it been good, bad, or oh, like a bit older?
So, well, to be honest, for Argentinian women, it was kind of a cultural shock because men are so different.
In many levels, very fast paced, huh?
Yeah, yeah, okay.
Uh, parents together or no?
Uh, parents together are your parents?
No, no, all right.
Uh, birth control, yes, and highest.
Do you have any kids?
No, no kids, no, highest education level, university.
Okay, uh, for what?
Uh, I've been studying English, English, yeah, for being an English teacher, but I chose to be a hairstylist.
Interesting, okay, yeah, and then uh, body count.
Oh, what does that mean?
Sorry, my English is.
Quantos hombres?
No.
How much?
How many guys?
A couple.
A couple?
Is it under 10 or above 10?
No, I just think it's interesting that it's such a hard thing to say.
Yeah, it should be easy.
Yeah, it's easy.
It doesn't really.
Okay, go on.
Because a couple.
We'll give her like 20.
So, but I'm not there in the same time, you know?
It's okay.
I like to choose and then to see if it's working, to see what is going on.
Emotional mature, which is very interesting.
We'll come back to you about that though, but thank you.
And last but not least, welcome back.
Hi, I'm Mia, and um, I'm currently studying like recently, I started studying life and health insurance.
Okay, and I'm still in college, I'm business and management, and communication and journalism.
That's a lot.
And how old are you?
20.
20.
Okay, and I'm still a mom.
That was so much, bro.
That was like a That's a 10 minute intro right there.
I know.
I'm still mommy, guys.
How many kids?
One.
One?
Yes.
Where's the baby daddy?
What is he alive?
Why?
Yes, he's alive.
He's currently, you know, somewhere else.
Somewhere else, yeah.
Interesting.
Yeah.
What's your dating status then?
My dating status?
Yeah.
I'm single.
I currently don't feel anything or want anything with anyone.
So, yeah.
Just having fun.
That's it?
No, not having fun.
Just chilling, living my life, and, you know, being Mia.
Being Mia.
And work wise, you said you're working on life insurance then?
Life insurance.
Yes.
Health.
Parents together or no?
Huh?
Your parents together?
Birth control?
Never.
Obviously, no.
Never?
And then body count?
Honestly, eight.
Eight?
That's not terrible.
Well, she's only 20.
Eight people.
I'm only 20.
That is not.
No, honestly.
You know, we want to be for real.
Let's be for real.
You got to think, she has one kid.
So for nine months, unless she was pregnant, you know what I mean?
It doesn't make sense.
At least one year she was out of the game.
It doesn't.
No, it does make sense.
It does make sense.
I'm agreeing.
Thank you.
I appreciate that.
He's backing you up.
Yeah, she's ready to.
I'm a little bit.
It's true.
It's okay.
Yeah, but this time I came and, you know, I'm being a good girl today.
Good stuff.
Welcome back.
I love it.
Well, Cam.
You guys can't hear me?
No, we got you.
We did a Monday morning earlier.
You killed that with your student.
Amazing work, how to trade swing trading.
So we know who you are.
They may not.
Tell them who you are.
Yeah, 31 years old, originally from the Bay Area.
Have built one of the greatest trading systems, arguably, in the world, solving one of the biggest problems for the middle class, which is.
Middle class people do not have upper class investments.
We built a software that allows you to copy my trades, fully SEC compliant.
Everybody wins.
Oh.
Yeah.
And then, dating status?
In a relationship happily taken for four years.
Good stuff, man.
So, Cam actually used to be a dating coach back in the day, guys, just so you know.
So, Cam has a lot of experience with dating, vetting women, and questions as well.
So, let me start off with the first question for ladies on the panel.
Yeah, something that always crosses my mind when I hear single women talk is.
Where do you get your standards from?
Do you get them from what you've experienced in real life, or do you get them from what you decided you deserve in your head?
We'll start here.
Anemia, for example, what do you want in a guy?
Where does it come from?
In your head or what you heard, what you've seen, your experience?
So I feel like a little bit of all the above, but I've had to take myself away from Instagram reels and stuff because I feel like a lot of those are.
Don't get me wrong, I do like money, but all of them are so.
The guy needs to give me a million dollars a year, like X, Y, and Z.
And to me, that's not genuine for something that I'm wanting.
Like, I'm wanting something real.
I want.
I'm 30.
I'll be 31.
Like, I'm kind of over that life.
Yeah.
But I don't know.
I think now I know what I'm wanting.
I know my standards from experience, whether it be good or bad.
And then things that maybe I see my parents interact with each other or close friends or family that they're married or whatever.
Did you go to college?
Yeah, for two years.
Which college?
In New Hampshire.
Was there a lot of parties and events?
There were a lot of parties, yeah.
Did you party a lot?
I did, yeah.
All right.
She's not a zero.
Not a zero.
Okay.
Was that good for you?
Yeah, yeah.
What about you?
I think it's from how I was raised by my parents.
So I got standards from how my fathers act.
And also, what I see, my experience, I've put my standards higher.
From bad experience and also good experience.
So, question for you Your parents are in your life, right?
They're very active in your life?
Yeah.
I'm really close to them.
Did they approve of your OnlyFans?
Yes and no.
It's the like they understand more because of my past.
Because I had a difficult past and like they understand more because of it.
But they are really strict.
What does it mean?
As in Uncle Funko?
What does it mean?
Don't worry about it.
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In relationship.
Okay, okay.
Yeah, okay.
But also like they're really strict parents and my.
They're strict?
Yeah, they're strict.
I'm white.
What the heck?
Yeah, yeah, but I'm not like I'm an adult now, so I can do whatever I want.
But are you here alone in Miami?
Yeah.
By yourself?
I'm by myself, but my father is stressing out.
He's calling me every time, texting me, and everything.
So she's saying from her parents and what she's seen, her dad.
Yeah.
That's interesting because, okay, so your parents shouldn't determine what you deserve, life determines what you deserve.
Meaning, like, what we deserve is what we get in the context of dating.
If I walk to Halle Berry in her prime, she's just gonna, like, she's not interested in me.
I'm okay with that, right?
Like, so my issue is a lot of women, they say, like, this is what I deserve, but it's like, you've never actually dated a guy of that caliber.
But I've dated some.
So have you dated a guy that meets all your standards?
Not all.
Not all at the same time.
But I dated some guys that were, like, almost there.
Yeah, almost there.
And why did that not work?
Communication.
On what he wasn't going to the.
Yeah, he wasn't like communicating that much.
Yeah, and also another one, I didn't want to sleep with him.
Like, I wanted to wait and like.
Oh, so you weren't dating him for a long time?
Yeah, we were in couple.
No, no, no, I know, but like three months in, six months in?
Four months in.
Oh, so you made him wait for four months?
Yeah.
So, like, why should he.
Why?
I just felt like I wasn't enough for him.
So I decided to like.
You thought he was out of your league?
No, because I didn't want to sleep with him.
So I decided to end the relationship because, like, he.
Okay, so you put him on hold for four months and then he ended it.
No, I ended it.
Interesting.
Yeah.
So was he more like a friend?
No, we were kissing and stuff, but.
Oh, blowjobs.
End stuff.
That's the end stuff part.
Okay.
That's one of the four.
Okay.
No, just curious.
Yeah.
Go on.
Well, I think it's.
We have basic standards from our parents, but also we learn a lot from many different relationships, good and bad, toxics.
And we learn little by little, we start having high standards because of, I think, from my personal experience, it makes me more have a higher standard from bad relationships.
Okay.
So, from our fats?
Yes.
Okay.
So your standards get higher as more men date you and you either don't work out with them or don't work out with them?
When I date someone, sometimes I see just like that when if the guy is there is a connection, you know, they talk, they're interested or not.
But when I build, when I start a relationship, that is when you start.
Mice, like what happened then, and sometimes the relation gets in a toxic way.
Toxic, yeah.
Yeah.
And that is when you learn, when you have to finish the relationship and it's very hard.
Yeah.
And you learn in those moments how to.
Yeah.
I don't want that kind of person.
Sure, sure, sure, sure.
This is what I'm kind of trying to get at, though, is that if all of you are single, what if you're dating out of your league?
What if the guys that are into you in the short term aren't interested in you long term?
Meaning, all of you have probably dated guys that are pretty high level guys.
You're all attractive to some extent.
Yeah.
The point is, what if they were only down for one date, two dates, three dates, one kid, walk away, right?
It obviously didn't work.
So the question is, is it because he doesn't feel like you're everything he wants?
Or is there something I'm missing?
I would love to hear your perspective.
Because you're young with a kid.
My perspective, yes, I'm very young.
And honestly, I'm not looking for any of that.
And I don't want any of that.
Any of what?
From what I've learned and what I've been through, honestly.
Who hurt you?
I don't want to be in a relationship.
A relationship is not important.
What is important is yourself.
And you need to focus on yourself and make sure you're okay.
Okay, but once you're okay, then.
Guys.
Bruh.
Okay, okay.
Let's say you work on yourself, right?
You become okay.
You still don't want a man?
Is that what you're saying?
You don't need a man.
I'm a woman.
Oh, shit.
I'm a woman.
This is a woman.
A woman, a man.
A man needs a woman.
A man needs a woman.
Right or wrong?
Right or wrong?
No, we don't.
Not at all.
No, bro.
I've been taken for a minute.
You guys want a woman.
To smash, yeah.
Yeah, I'm just trying to.
So.
When did how old your son?
But that's how I feel.
I have a daughter, she's almost two years old, and you know, it's not because of the father because he wanted to leave me, it was because you know, like life, life problems, you know.
And it's not, I'm not gonna talk about that right now.
We're not, that's fine.
We don't need to dive into that exactly.
What I'm trying to see is it's about right now and how I feel, and that's how I feel.
So, you know, and just because I'm the youngest one here doesn't mean nothing from my experience.
She's with him, from my experience, how do you?
19.
There you go.
But you're young too.
I just turned 20.
Like, I'm turning 20.
It's the same thing.
From my experience, it's just not.
Men are not menning.
And they need to.
Men are not menning.
So what you're saying is men are not menning.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
And it's not.
It's not.
It's not in the sexual way.
It's more in the respectful.
No, not in a provider way.
Gentlemen?
You don't need to.
Me?
Any other woman, you guys can have that providing weight.
Me, I'm more of my personality, is more of how I feel.
Like, you're in the moment, you're supposed to like make me feel like, damn, this is yeah, you want to be in love, you want to be in love, and you want to feel this is it, yeah.
And I don't think that's ever okay.
This is the perfect question I have based on what I asked originally, right?
Where do you get that standard from?
Yeah, oh, I'm sorry, where do you get that standard from of saying, I need a guy who wants.
Sorry, I want a guy who makes me feel in love basically all the time, is what you just said.
You know, when you have a baby with someone, you're supposed to expect that already, right?
But why?
Because you're having the baby for the person, but it's not just that.
You know, it's like your family, you've seen them together, right?
As a family.
They're together.
They created you.
Sure.
So, like, you're saying that you didn't get it, right?
That's how you feel.
Exactly, yeah.
It's not that I didn't get it.
I just didn't really try for it because it wasn't worth it.
But you have a daughter, though.
This is the biggest thing I didn't try.
Would you rather be with someone that doesn't treat you right?
Or would you just stay in the relationship just because you're not?
But you give him a kid and you have a daughter with him.
So, I mean, maybe.
You give him a kid?
Yeah, you give him a kid.
You give him a kid and he treats you wrong.
You give him the kid.
I mean, I'm just saying.
Why did you have unprotected sex with somebody who wasn't going to stay or put a ring on your finger?
I was very young.
I know.
I was very young.
I wasn't thinking.
Yeah, I was stupid.
So you take responsibility for that choice.
Okay, I just want to make sure at one point she does take responsibility.
Okay.
It's a blessing.
The best blessing of my life.
Amazing.
We're on the right track.
It's fun.
Wonderful.
Yeah.
For her?
No, she won.
Okay.
Yeah.
So my point of view here is that, like, okay, they all have standards from either experience or.
Against parents, and then of course, like her bad experience.
And it sums up, for example, now we have women are saying, you know what?
I've had standards, I have a kid, I have baggage, I have drama.
So now it's like, how to find the right man?
And with all that baggage and drama, why would they get picked from the right man?
Is the question.
Well, once again, you have to be honest with who you are and also understand that the men that are willing to sleep with you in the short term are not willing to date you in the long term most of the time because you want to date up all the time.
So, If you want to date up, that means that guy has a ton of options, right?
So if that guy has a ton of options, that means he has a ton of options, which means you're not the only one.
So maybe he has other girls like you, better than you, worse than you, but you have to compete with that.
So women always say, oh, yeah, this NBA player is in my DMs.
All right.
Like he fucks sixes.
Like it's fine.
You know what I mean?
It's not like, it's not impressive.
Can you keep him?
Your standard should be based on the type of guy that you can keep.
That's the reason I've been in a relationship for four years.
My woman understands that.
I also understand as a man that my standards for keeping somebody cannot be made up.
Meaning, I can't ask for a runway model who also has a PhD, who's also 22, who's also worth $10 million because it doesn't exist.
So ask yourself do your standards come from real life experience or just from like, oh, I just like say this because like this is who I am and I believe that I deserve this.
That's why most women getting older in life, you guys still have time.
But most women getting older in life, they stay single because they think as they get older that they're also, to be frank, it's just the way it is.
You're depreciating in value.
We don't get our value until later.
Yeah.
30s, 40s.
Yeah.
30s, 40s.
Or even just like in high school, think about all the guys in high school.
They all suck now.
You all think they're trash.
The jock.
Right?
All my high school friends are garbage.
Right?
So it's like understanding we peak later, you peak earlier.
That's the pros and cons of being each gender.
But understand how that plays into the relationship dynamic.
So I have a question.
You mentioned you don't want a man or you don't need a man, right?
Let's say you get older and then you want a man, right?
Would you pay the bills for your man?
Perfect guy.
Great question.
You mentioned before you don't need a man, but if you want a man, would you pay the bills?
It depends.
On what?
It depends on how he treats me.
So let's say he treats you very well.
Would you pay all the bills?
Duh.
Okay, so you would.
Yes, I will.
Cool, great.
Because I'm used to always, it's always, everybody, every woman is always used to a man paying for her, you know?
Yeah.
But it's not like that, you know?
Everybody's different.
You know, people are different.
Well, I'll say this as a social media person.
And also to your question, like, I was feeling like I should say something.
You know, why does it have to be like that?
Why does it always have to be like that with everybody?
Like, I know that I'm young, but like, you know, It's a new generation.
Why can't people just change how they are and instead of like being so well, I don't know what you're referring to, exactly?
Instead of being so like disloyal to like how you were saying, because that's basically what you were saying, why does it have to be like that?
Why can't it be so oh, they're better than this person, they're popular, they're models, this and that?
Like, no, it doesn't have to be like that.
You're saying, why can't everybody be loyal to each other?
Everybody's their own person, they're people.
They're just people.
Everybody's people.
So, why can't it just be normal?
It doesn't have to be, you know.
So, I'm getting from this she's going to pay for her man when she wants a man.
Cool.
Really?
Well, she can't have it all, right?
She can't be like, I don't want a man.
But then she already has a kid.
That's what you're thinking.
She either has to date a guy with a kid or date a lower level man without a kid.
No.
What do you mean?
No, that doesn't matter.
It doesn't matter.
Any man that wants you will get you.
Hey, she's being serious, right?
No, she's being serious.
I'm being so serious.
I'm being so serious.
She'll pay.
What about you?
Would you pay for your man?
All your requirements minus the money.
No.
You wouldn't pay?
For me, we have to be.
If we decided to be together, we need to fight together.
Fight together?
I mean, in life.
Oh, like fight in life.
Yeah, fight in life.
You know?
Yeah, because it's half, half.
So you pay half?
He pays half?
Yes.
That's better than most.
Question Would you prefer him to pay all of it?
Not really, because I've been working so hard.
It's like letting him pay everything is take control more on me.
Oh, so you want more control?
Oh, interesting.
She don't want to give it up.
Okay, I see that.
Me, you, and Myron, too, we have different views on this.
So, my girl moved in with me when I was at my lowest.
But keep in mind, she met me at a peak.
I was doing really well.
Then I made a mistake, lost it all.
She stayed.
I actually told her to leave.
Really?
She did not leave.
She moved in, paid half the rent and bills for a year, helped me get back on my feet.
Then I took off again, and now I take care of her.
So, most guys will never experience this dynamic.
And that's why I'm proposing this year, because I actually know why she's there.
And for how fine she is, she's not expensive.
Like, she has one YSL bag and an Apple Watch.
Not because I can't get her more.
I make $250,000 a month, not a year.
Why I say that, though, is because she gets spoiled in life in all ways.
Yeah.
But not because she wants a Chanel bag once a month or a Gucci or this or this or this.
Like, I would walk away from that type of girl, and I have before, because it's like, you don't actually know what matters in life.
Like, this rolly holds its value.
What you have holds its value, and it's a good networking piece.
But a woman walking around with a Chanel bag, it's just like too many.
It's like, does it really matter?
No.
It doesn't really matter.
And if they want that a lot, then they don't know what matters and they're going to crush your empire.
But I like that you told her to leave.
She stayed when you were rock bottom.
Yeah.
And that's like loyalty.
Nowadays, it comes, many castles are already built.
So good stuff, man.
Yeah.
Okay, for you, would you pay for your man?
100% of the bills.
If he's like the perfect, right now, I'm feeling like her.
I don't need a man.
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I don't want a man.
Right.
So I don't really care.
I wouldn't.
But later, maybe when I want kids and everything, Yes, I would, but I'd prefer to do like 50 50.
But if he's the perfect man for me, he treats me well and everything, I could.
Let me add something.
Does anybody here, raise your hand, does anybody here like men?
Nope.
No, raise your hand.
I like full men.
You're a lesbian?
Nope.
On OnlyFans, you are?
Or just pick and choose?
Okay.
You like men?
I love men.
Do you like men?
You didn't raise your hand.
I didn't see you raise your hand.
I like men.
Okay.
You like men?
You like men?
I don't like.
I love.
She's changed her mind.
It's all about how she feels.
I'm confused now.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
It's not.
I don't change my mind.
I never hated on you guys.
Like, I love men.
No, no, no.
Men are not menning, but that doesn't mean I don't love men.
Yeah, like you love a manly man.
I like a manly man.
Yes, yes.
Okay, okay.
I want a man that's manny.
Okay, so now you want a man.
Like, this is the thing.
No, I'm not.
Now I've been.
What do you mean?
I've been wanting a man.
You've been wanting a man.
Yes.
Okay, I got it.
So here's my point: is that women, all you guys say, I don't need a man.
Okay, I don't need a woman either.
I want a woman.
So I think internally, you have to, like, Kind of reprogram your mental health to get the type of man you want.
Look at her chicken.
I'm laughing because when you hang out with a guy too much, you start to notice like they start acting like you right around.
That's facts, right?
My girl acts like you.
Facts, yes.
No, you start acting like your girl.
Yes.
My girl says all the time.
I don't know who you're hanging with, but that's not a good thing.
Okay, well, that's how I feel.
They start acting like you.
And it's too much, like, like they become too feminine.
Yeah, it's not Manning.
If he's been kind of hold on, what kind of guys do you like?
I watch this.
That's not a question, it is a question.
No, that's not a question.
It's not.
So, what is it?
Ask one of your friends.
Oh, can't recover from that one.
Wow, so, so that's not, yeah, are you gonna answer it or no?
No, I'm not.
But oh, you thought it was a question because you wanted her to answer it because that's what you do to questions you answer questions.
Oh, okay, just making sure.
No, no, no, but no, just being honest.
Like, honestly, can I ask another question?
But it might not be a question.
We're gonna find out in a second.
No, you're not.
What kind of guy is your baby daddy?
Can you describe him?
What kind of please?
What race first?
Black.
He is Hispanic, you know, yeah, okay.
What kind of guy?
What does he do for a living?
Red flag, you know, drug deal.
Pirate shit, yeah.
That's bad.
That's pretty bad.
But violent crime or making money crime?
Making money crime.
Okay, good.
Not violent crime.
Okay.
Maybe both.
But, you know.
One for two.
Sorry.
That's fine.
Yeah.
If I'm speaking honestly, yeah.
Okay.
What do you like about it?
Or is there nothing left?
I don't like nothing about it.
Okay.
Why did you open your legs for him without a condom?
Before I met him, I didn't know what type of person he was.
But, you know, he showed me that side when usually people show that side.
Early.
When they're, yeah, early.
Early on in a relationship, yeah, they'll show that they're so good.
They'll do anything for you, they'll die for you.
Yeah, the best.
And then when you're with them for so long, it changes a little bit.
Like you get that little feeling.
Do you have full custody of your kid?
It's not, yeah.
Okay.
Yeah.
Yes, he's in jail.
No, no, I don't know.
Of course I do, but.
Does this make you emotional?
That's not the problem.
I'm always fine with, you know, sharing my child.
Amazing father.
Yeah.
But it's just more of like the love.
Yeah.
Do you want to date a different type of guy in your future?
I don't want to date.
I'm not looking for that.
No, but at some point, you're not going to date women, right?
Later?
Like, you're going to date men again.
I like women.
I like women.
You don't need men.
I love women.
I know.
First of all, let's get this straight.
If you want to know Mia, Mia loves men.
She's Mia, by the way.
I love Mia.
Third person, you guys.
Mia.
Mia.
Third person.
Mia.
Mia loves men, but I love women only because of what we go through and also how beautiful we are.
We're so beautiful.
Like every woman, like even if a guy calls a girl ugly because she's ugly and a girl is better looking than her, you know, girl is still beautiful.
You're so beautiful.
I think you need to change your type.
That's how I am.
What do you mean that's my type?
I'm talking about women being beautiful.
Like my type, no, my type, I do have very bad type because I go for toxic men.
She knows that.
That's good.
I know that.
I'm very conscious of what I go for, and I'm very young.
And I know what I go for, but it's not like if I'm looking for it for real.
It finds you.
It's more like it finds me.
Okay.
And I just, I be interested because, you know, I'm bored.
What kind of music do you like?
She belongs to the street.
I like soft music.
I used to like ghetto music, but I'm more of like a party next door or like.
She's calming down with us.
Or like a Drake or like a.
Okay.
Something calm.
Real quick, because you're a bit older as well.
Would you pay for a man now if he was your dream man in a way minus the money?
Would you pay for a man?
100%.
So my last relationship, it was very similar to what you were describing with you and your girl.
I was the breadwinner at the beginning.
And then, so I was paying the bills, I was paying for things.
Occasionally, he would take me on a nice date.
And then, towards the end of the relationship, He was more the breadwinner, but I mean, at some point, I paid off his debt for him.
You're a real one.
Yeah.
So I've, yeah, thousands of dollars.
She's easy to deal with.
I can feel it.
I don't know what it is.
Maybe it's just, once again, in comparison.
So I always say, you always have to have something to compare something to if you're going to make a decision.
Meaning, you can't just decide what you want because you want it.
You have to say, okay, she's easy to deal with.
Why did I sign that?
Because you're not that bad.
You are hard to deal with.
Yeah.
And I know that.
Why do you think I'm.
Very high.
Because you're 20 and he already left.
It's not because he left.
He got locked up.
I left him.
I left him, my love, and he went crazy and got locked up.
That's the real story.
No.
That's not it.
You know, you can't just think what you think.
Like, it's not really it.
Like, that's not the true story.
So, I left him and he went crazy.
But are you guys together or even in jail?
Like, meaning like telepathically?
We're not together anymore because it's not.
I don't feel that way anymore because, you know.
It's already gone.
It was, it was, yeah.
It was there, but it's gone.
So look, I asked this because there's a video going viral right now of a woman saying, in not so many words, she found her dream man.
But there's one thing she's doing differently than most women.
Let's play real quick.
I want to see this, yeah.
Here we go.
I better cry.
Shout out to, um you good?
You good?
You good?
No, I'm kidding.
No, don't cry yet.
All right.
Excuse me, miss.
Do you think it's okay to date a man for money?
A man for money?
No.
Actually, I thought it was going to be funny.
No.
But you're an attractive woman.
So if you could land a millionaire, why not do it?
I mean, money can't buy happiness.
People that have a ton of money and they're still missing something, so so where does happiness come from?
Now you're being really trivial.
I don't know.
Connection with your partner if you're single comes from within, learning to love yourself, understanding who you are as a person.
Are you single currently?
No, I'm dating him.
How long you guys been together over three years?
But between the two of you, who makes more money?
She does.
I do.
You're the breadwinner.
Have you always been the breadwinner?
Yes, do you think that being the breadwinner as a woman changes the dynamic in the relationship with a man?
No, I mean, I see other couples struggle with it, but not necessarily us.
Like, I don't care.
I mean, I make more, but it's our money.
Like, what mine is his, and vice versa.
How do you feel as the man being that your woman makes more money?
Well, there's a season for everything.
It's at a time where she was able to carry us while I was figuring out job, life, with school, moved around, figuring out my passion and my path.
She was a lot more stable than I was.
At some point, the tide is going to change where the goal is for her to stop working at some point, and then she had taken.
Time I would focus on other things that she wants to.
So it doesn't make me.
I love that.
So that is awesome on paper.
And I'm not going to lie, that's a really good dream.
One day I'm going to come over.
But you had that dream as well.
And you actually met the requirements.
You became better and you succeeded.
Now, what if he doesn't succeed all the way?
What if he says, you know what, I'm working on this, but it never actually comes to fruition?
So you saw the video.
Give me your opinion.
Do you think he's going to change and become better?
Or do you think that she's in a lost cause because she's paying, but there may be no return at all?
I mean, their interaction seems kind of genuine.
I don't know.
So, something that they said, I forgot exactly what she said, something about, well, money can't buy happiness.
When I think about that, I usually tell people, like, money really can't buy happiness.
And I've been in both places where I've had nothing to my name and I've had everything to my name.
And I think, sorry, I lost my train of thought.
But what if I told you money could buy you happiness?
What did you ask?
So, what if I told you, right?
Money could buy you happiness?
I don't think so because.
When I've dated men that have a shit ton of money and they're very materialistic or their only way of providing is money, they don't have anything else to offer.
And even women, too, that I'm friends with, like they're always chasing something else.
And that's a dopamine chase.
That's not real happiness.
That's something that is like an instant gratification.
So, as somebody with a lot of money, I will say this women can't be happy with a man's money because they didn't really earn it.
So, men can be happy with their own money because if they're getting it in a way that makes sense to them, There is impact.
So, I don't care if you're a kingpin or you're a trader like me.
Like, I make impact, not actually trading.
Trading is just moving numbers on the screen, but helping others and like selling my software to people to copy.
Like, they can win.
Like, Sahil was here.
Like, Sahil changed his whole life.
Yeah.
Right.
So, like, that makes me happy.
The resources that I provide for people make me happy.
Me, my money probably makes me more happy because I let my girl live a life that she wants to live as opposed to how it makes her happy.
Gotcha.
Right.
Because she doesn't, maybe she doesn't feel deep down like she's like, I didn't.
Accomplish anything to get this, but she did.
She actually did, but she may not feel that.
So I bet she's really happy on the screen because she makes her own money and she's earned it.
But that's a short term dynamic that's going to end.
Meaning when she's 38, she's going to be like, fuck, he still hasn't caught up?
Yeah.
What's going on?
What do you think?
Sorry, sorry, go ahead.
I was going to say, like, that reminds me of people, like, they're having a purpose.
And when guys ask me, like, oh, like, would you rather just not work for the rest of your life?
Like, I can take care of you.
Like, Honestly, it sounds nice, but I would not have a purpose.
Like, what am I going to do?
Sit at home, watch TV, and doom scroll.
Like, there's no purpose for me to do that.
I don't have anything like igniting inside of me.
So, yeah, like, I don't want to work sometimes, but I don't want to be a lazy piece of shit either.
Like, I want to earn it.
And that's a good mindset, right?
Because whether you work corporate or not, your girl should have a role, right?
So, like, let's say you have, like, I have a business, for example.
I've offered, I've told my girl, like, hey, do you want to work in the business or do you want to do something yourself that means something to you?
Yeah.
Whatever her, that's not for the internet's business, but she made her decision and I respect the decision because at least it will make her happy because it's her path.
Meaning, if you think about what Rob the Bank said about his divorce, he's like, I replaced my wife's role in my life with maids, chefs, assistants, blah, His wife could have been all those things and probably been fulfilled because now they're building together.
She has no purpose now.
Yeah.
So, whatever it is, whether your girl's working corporate or not, If you're serious about her, you need to help her find her purpose too.
Good point.
What do you think?
I like to have a purpose too.
I like to work on my own.
Uh, I like to be like financially independent myself.
For sure, I like men that provides, but I have to have something like a goal.
Yeah.
I have to have something by myself.
And I, I think I would maybe like to work for my men, but I also have to have something for myself because I don't want to put like everything in this one basket.
Yeah.
Yeah, I think that's the fear a lot of women have.
They don't want to be giving up all control because you never know.
They're like, you know what?
What if he leaves me?
What if he cheats?
So they want to have some control still left in that relationship.
What do you think about this?
From my perspective, what I see is the relationship, I think, won't work in the future because in the way she is, she's kind of like, what you would say, you know, and he's kind of okay.
And also, she had the masculine energy on this role.
And he, some guys are not saying that is why I'm saying fight together because what I'm seeing is she had the opportunity.
I don't know the relationship, but she had the opportunity to push him to be successful like her, you know?
And he had the opportunity just to grow with her or stay comfortable.
Yeah.
There is no level of.
Levels to it.
She will feel it at some point.
She's still, like you said, she's still there.
She's not doing the same thing.
I'm just, you know, she feels all the heavy responsibilities in her back.
Yeah, she had experience, so she's on a different level.
What do you think about this?
Again, she's thinking of him, so.
Honestly, I think I feel all of you guys.
I understand all of you guys.
Honestly, I feel like I'm a woman.
No, I feel the same way as everyone.
Yeah, she shares all of her opinions.
Everyone here, I share all of your opinions.
Yes, I feel I understand all of you guys.
Like, that's how I feel.
Yeah, that's all I have to say.
That was a great answer.
I would say more, but you know.
But so this video right went viral, and it's funny because typically speaking, women don't want to be the ones taking care of their man because long term doesn't really work.
Like you said before, short term thinking, and it sounds kind of favorite, but long term, That's not a rule to take care of men.
But in this case, the posture is what got me.
Because he's like this.
She's like, Superman.
Who's more masculine?
And it's framed.
She is.
She had the control.
If you notice, every religion that has worked and successful has the frame of a man being a leader for the most part.
And this tells me, this is going to add something because her posture alone.
Emotional Maturity Matters00:10:45
Just like he said, some women don't fully work for it.
But just like she said, also.
Women are independent.
Some women are independent, and she has some men that, you know, give it to you, but they don't give it to you, so you have to give it to yourself.
Did Dwayne Wade.
And that's why I understand all of you guys, because she understood her.
Thank you.
You know, women don't get that.
Appreciate that.
Did Dwayne Wade and Gabrielle Union work out, or no?
They got divorced, right?
I think they're still together, no?
What was this?
They had a scandal, though, or something, or no?
I could have sworn there was a thing about Gabrielle.
I could be.
No, no, no.
But there was something about Gabrielle Union.
There was something about Gabrielle Union saying, maybe it wasn't D Wade and Gabrielle.
I really feel bad.
But some celebrity couple, basketball player, and actress wife was like, they're both rich.
They both make their own money.
They're both independent.
I think if they're both too much in the same financial league, it's hard for the respect to be there from a woman.
A woman really needs to look up to her guy.
Meaning, if you're a woman and you make a quarter million a year, that's great.
But typically that type of woman is going to want somebody that makes.
750 a mil from what I've seen, like I have.
Yeah, so so I've seen that, and then my concern is those women are now getting older in age and more successful, but looking for the higher level guy.
And that higher level guy wants the younger, younger girl who doesn't really care about the career because he has so much, it doesn't really matter.
He wants someone just to help him.
Yeah, so here's my actual question based off of this video as well.
So, knowing that you can make your own money, you're independent for the most part, and you have your own like money come in, if you meet the guy, your dream guy, so to speak, right.
Why would he pick you over all of you in here?
So, for example, why do you pick her over you and vice versa?
We'll start here.
So, your dream man is in front of you.
He's between all these girls here.
Why do you pick you over them?
I have something to say.
Okay.
We'll come back to you.
No, no, no, no.
It's fine.
Okay.
I don't think, you know.
That's my phone.
What the heck?
That's why I was quiet.
I apologize.
But, you know.
So, again, your dream man is here.
He's in a room.
He can pick any girl here on a panel.
Why is he going to pick you?
Because, again, she's taking care of a man, but it won't last very long.
So, in this scenario, it doesn't work well.
It won't last very long.
I know.
But why would he pick you, though?
I don't care.
I'm the one.
That's so fascinating.
I'm the table.
She's never thought of what she brings to the table.
I'm the youngest one here.
No, you're not.
She is.
She is.
I don't care.
What do you even care?
I'm strong.
I don't care.
You know when there's a gap?
I'm the smallest one here.
Oh, maybe.
And yes, no, maybe I am.
I am the smallest one here.
I'm telling you, I'm you're taller than me.
No, I had I am 4'11.
Like, oh, girl, no, but she weighs less than you, for sure.
I had I have a big butt.
Um, do you?
Yes, I do.
Um, but let's let's say I'm one of the youngest ones here, and you know, what was your question?
Okay, uh, again.
Obviously, you know, this video is a one off or two off if it lasts that long.
Your dream man's here.
Why do you pick you over all the girls here on the panel?
From your point of view.
Oh, this is a lot of depends.
Yeah.
But let's just, not to like, maybe like your main, I guess.
If he's young, if he's.
Remember, your dream man doesn't need to be the greatest thing of all time.
It just needs to be what you actually think you can get.
And hopefully, based on the things I've been saying, you've lowered that a little bit.
I don't know you girls.
I don't know you, but I think I'm emotionally mature.
That's the thing.
Yeah.
You're emotionally mature.
Yeah.
Okay, that's what she's saying.
That's her quality.
That was it.
Yeah.
So you can understand him better than everyone here on the panel.
Because I don't know them.
I think she's actually smart.
It's just her English isn't that great.
Yeah, yeah, no.
She's smart.
I get what she's saying.
So emotionally mature.
Yeah, my English is, yeah.
It's not good.
Okay, that's fine.
And for you?
Why do you pick you over all the girls here?
Okay.
So if he's my dream man, He would pick me.
I don't go for men that want other girls.
I'm not jealous at all.
I'm like possessive.
Like, I want my man to want me.
If he wants other girls, he's not your man.
He's not my man.
Question.
You do OnlyFans.
Your dream man, do you think he wants you to do OnlyFans?
No, I don't think so.
But if I explain my reason why I started OnlyFans to him, he would understand.
But I don't want to do OnlyFans all my life.
Understandable.
Yeah.
So let's just say he met you, saw you doing OnlyFans, and said, You know what?
Because you're doing it, I don't want to be with you.
You ever thought about that?
You meet your dream man, he's like, Oh, he cheated on OnlyFans?
I'm good.
No talking, no explanation.
He won't be my dream man.
But two things can be true at the same time.
Because he could say, for example, you could say, for example, he is my dream man, but he doesn't like OnlyFans.
It's okay.
Totally fine.
But it's what I do right now.
It's important for me.
It's my number one priority.
And if a man doesn't like it, I won't stop my account for a man right now.
Maybe later.
How much do you make a month from it?
How much a month?
It's private.
More than 20K?
Depends.
Which month?
Okay, so around 20.
Yeah.
And she's 19.
That's really good.
Bro, at 18, I was playing video games.
Oh my God.
Okay, what about you?
What was the question again?
So, again, your G Man's here, stand right here.
Why do you pick you over everybody else, in your opinion?
Kind of going back to what she said, like emotional intelligence, I provide.
And also, I think I provide everything for myself already, not even talking like finances, but.
Like spiritually, mentally, overall health and well being.
And I would want my man to provide everything for himself as well.
So that way it's a balance.
Are you making six figures a year?
Or more?
Probably not this year, but last year, yes.
Okay, question for you.
You've been here all in Miami?
Six months.
Six months.
How's dating been for you?
No.
No?
No, I have not enjoyed dating here.
Why?
I feel like everyone just wants to sleep around, or the guys that don't want to sleep around.
To be honest, I just haven't vibed with them.
I've been on a couple dates with some guys, and they were great people, very respectful, and exactly how I would want a man to treat me.
But we're not compatible.
The conversation was dead.
I couldn't have a conversation with them.
They would not let me touch a door.
They would pay for dinner all the time.
He was a gentleman, but.
At the end of the day, like, I can't have a conversation with him.
Like, it just wasn't vibing.
I guess I would say.
Yeah.
So it's funny, in Miami, especially, well, you know, I'll answer.
You're not from here, so.
For you, how's the date been for you?
Because you said before it was not the best.
Wow.
Comparing to Argentina?
Yeah.
I think most of the men I've been here in Miami, they need more.
Passion, they need more care, intelligence, you know, and how to approach a woman properly.
But sometimes you have a nice dinner, he's being respectful, but then he says something like, and we are like, he says something, sorry, stupid, or, and we are like.
So he'll let ruin it for you.
That's a little thing sometimes, ruin everything.
Does anybody here approach men?
You do?
Solid.
Okay.
Anyone else?
I'm just curious.
If dating, like, my whole thing is if something isn't working, you should try to fix it.
If something's working, don't fix it.
Like, keep doing the same thing and double down on it.
If what you're doing right now is letting guys approach you and it doesn't work, then I think you should approach guys because men are really easy to get in the short term.
So you can give yourself more leads by just approaching guys at the gym that look good and that you want to talk to and seeing if they're stupid or not.
And if they're stupid and dumb, like the ones that you did and the ones that have bored you to death or whatever, or said something stupid, then move on to the next guy.
But you need to put up more shots for yourself.
You have a lot of followers.
I have a question.
Hold on.
I have a genuine question.
Real quick.
Here's the issue, though.
In Miami, it's very fast paced, right?
So, like, I get what you're saying, but you're going to find a guy in a major city like Miami, Vegas, New York, and they're already thinking to themselves, like, yo, I'm making money.
I'm that guy.
Like, I want what I want.
Yeah.
So, for instance, like, even if they walk up to them, It's like, okay, this is a fun time, not a long time.
Sign up, I'm out.
Maybe.
How do I know?
Well, I've been here 12 years, and I'm sure you guys can experience the same thing.
But go ahead.
Oh, you were going to say you have a question.
Why are you giving me stuff?
What?
Because I kind of have short term memory loss, and I kind of forgot.
Really?
Oh, yeah.
No, I just, I really, I forget things.
I really, if you really know Mia, you know Mia.
I don't know Mia.
I don't know Mia.
Okay, Mia forgets things and I forgot.
What were you going to say?
It'll come back to you.
What were you talking about?
What were you talking about?
We were talking about why don't you approach men?
Why?
Yeah.
Why don't I approach men?
Confidence on First Dates00:11:01
Because they feel so confident.
They're so confident, and then they feel like they got it.
And then when you give them that energy, they just, you know, they think they could just take it away from you.
And then, you know, they don't know how to receive it.
Then when you go away, they think that they could give it back and say, Oh, I'm so in love with you.
I'm so obsessed with you.
And then it just like when you don't feel like that no more, they give that.
And then when you do, It's gone again, like right.
No, I'm confused.
That's how I feel.
I feel like that too.
What do you mean you're confused?
Wait, you understand her?
Yeah, because like when you approach a man often, not all the time, like they will feel confident and they will not take advantage of it, but like take you.
I don't know the word in English, but like they will feel like.
Like you want them, so they feel confident and they feel like they can do anything, and like you already want them, so they don't do no efforts.
And no, I think all that's made up.
I look, I'll say that as somebody who doesn't like, I have a sample size to discuss, meaning like I'm not, I don't know my body count, but I know it's what it should be to be able to talk about these things.
If the girl is the girl for you, whether it's for me or the next high level guy, like.
Are you crying?
Yes.
I think she thinks I'm funny.
Because I can't hold it anymore.
Yeah.
Wait, why are you crying?
Just continue.
I got in trouble for last time.
That's all right.
Just a gap, brother.
You know, there's a gap.
Yeah, yeah.
It's just a gap.
So, I lost my train of thought.
It doesn't matter what the girl does.
If she's the girl he wants, it doesn't matter what she does.
Mm hmm.
Meaning, like, she can walk up to you, she can sleep with you on the first date.
All that shit is bullshit.
Men just say, oh, yeah, she fucked on the first date.
It just wasn't her.
It just wasn't her.
Like, it just wasn't her.
None of that little shit matters.
That's just excuses men say, and I'm telling you as a man, if the girl wasn't the girl.
That's it.
So, okay.
You're saying on the first night, Leigh, it wasn't her?
No, no.
What I'm saying is, like, if a guy, let's say I'm single again, and I sleep with a girl on the first date, and then I don't want her anymore for whatever reason.
It's not because I slept with her on the first date, it's that the box was trash.
Okay.
If the box was good, I'm coming back.
It's not that complicated.
We just say shit because it's easier to say that to your homies, like, oh, yeah, she's not it.
No, you just don't want to wife a girl that you fucked on the first date because you feel bad because your homies are going to say something about it.
Who gives a shit?
If the girl is the one, if you really like her, it doesn't matter that she fucks on the first date.
You will stay with her.
But I got.
This gives them some pushback here.
Let's be honest.
First date lanes are not a bad thing because obviously speaking, the connection is there, the vibe is there, it works out.
Yeah.
But what's to say that's not every time with somebody else?
So there's a.
It's a great point.
There is a.
A great area where, like, okay, it may just be you.
We could fight other dudes.
How do you know this?
I was knocking bad bitches when I was on air mattress.
So the reason I say that is because when it wasn't about money, it was so much more fun.
Yes.
And when I didn't have shit, I could still do it.
So I knew I was like, dude, I'm still him without any of this.
So, well, how do you think, like, how do you think A Boogie feels?
You think A Boogie goes around, she was a hoe?
He's A Boogie.
Yeah.
What the fuck?
He's Drake.
He's Trey Song.
It's like, are they whores?
No, it's fucking Trey Songs.
Who gives a shit?
I mean, they still are, but.
But I just like, I'm like, who are they going to be whores for then?
The top guy.
That's what I'm saying.
If a woman wants to exercise her sexual freedom, who is it going to be for?
Guys like us.
Yeah, but here's my issue, right?
Like, I get they want to have fun with us and have a first night lay, but what about everyone else that would be good to them?
Like, long term partners, like maybe guys watching.
They're good partners, loyal, so to speak, or more of a gentleman.
Yeah.
But we're just going to, like, have fun and dip.
You may not, but.
What's your question, though?
I don't know.
So, my point is like, I get what you're trying to say, but in reality, in my point of view, if you have like a first night late with a girl, most guys would be like, okay, you, she's a hoe, whatever, I'll wife her.
Okay.
I'm on the opinion like, you can still wife her if you see she's like there for you.
She has other qualities.
It takes time, though.
Yeah.
But to say that she's not a hoe the first night, you don't know.
You don't know, but I wouldn't automatically say somebody's a hoe just because she smashed it on the first date.
I don't necessarily assume that.
Like I said, if I was doing it before I had bread, yeah, she may have done it, but she may have just been in love with the game.
Right?
She may have just fell for it.
And like, I'm not saying fell for it in a manipulative way.
I'm saying you may have really thought I was that charming.
And that's okay.
Yes, it's okay.
I have a question.
First night with a guy, sex.
How do you feel about it?
And is it bad, in your opinion?
I don't think it's bad.
Have you done it?
I have.
Wait, there goes my book.
Oh, they said your book goes zero?
Oh, look, it's fine.
It's fine.
It's fine.
Sorry, go ahead.
I had to call that one out.
But I mean, there's been guys that I've spent like the whole day with.
Like, we've been on a date and it turned out to be like a whole day and night thing.
And, you know, we go home and sleep together and we still have like a connection.
But I think physical intimacy is something that sparks first, especially if you're literally with each other.
Yeah, you can feel it.
Yeah.
Okay.
For you?
Is it a bad thing or a good thing, or what do you think about it?
I don't think that it's a bad thing.
I don't think that it's a good thing.
It just depends.
If you respect your limits and if you want it, that's perfect.
Do it.
And also.
Just do it, mate.
Yeah, the thing is, like, if you're a guy and you sleep with a girl like the first date, you can call her a hoe because you're calling yourself a hoe.
You slept too on the first date.
Hold on.
We'll get into that.
Men can be hoes, but.
Continue.
Go ahead.
I'll go later.
Well, this will be kind of.
In my culture, women, we are more free in that suspect because we normally have sex on the first night.
Argentina?
Yeah.
Sign me up, nigga.
Let's go.
Let's go.
So we are more free in that suspect because then we know that if there is some good connection, we continue seeing and seeing and seeing.
And every day, and then a week, and then he moves, and then.
And then we take a long time.
He decided to say, Would you be my girlfriend?
Like, after a year, living together.
So, look, look, just add to your point.
You know, it's funny.
I just discussed it with a friend the other day.
And if you get sex out the way at the very beginning, you can see who the person really is.
That's what I'm trying to say, bro.
Okay.
That's what I'm trying to say.
Real quick, before you go, every girl I've been with, it was either first, second, or third date.
Anything.
Yeah, Sam, Sam.
It's not happening.
She doesn't fuck with you.
100%.
She's not making you wait.
She does not fuck with you that often.
Yeah, 100%.
It's very, like, I have a sample size to discuss this.
I'm not just talking from a few.
Like, this is, I know this to be true.
I agree.
Yeah.
I agree.
Yeah.
Sorry, you want to know the point?
Yes, I wanted to say that in my personal experience, my boyfriend for 13 years was the last one before I came here.
And I feel here the guys judge more girls for being with them the first night.
So for us, for Argentinian women, we have to wait.
You were with a guy for 13 years?
You should have led with that.
Hold on, she should have led with that and her qualities.
What do I bring to the table?
I actually held a man down for 13 years.
That's a lot.
13 years.
Good for you.
The first time, the first night, and then 13 years.
Why did it end?
Because I wanted to come here and I gave him.
How recent?
How recent?
How long ago?
He went three years ago.
Three years ago, you broke up?
We were agreed because I was coming here and he didn't want to come.
Why do you want to come?
He didn't want to leave the country.
He felt more comfortable over there.
That's not bad.
Okay.
First night.
Shit.
First night.
First night.
Remember, you love men.
First night is actually.
I love men.
I. First night, let's be for real.
First night, yeah.
Yeah, let's go.
I created a baby.
Let's go.
Yeah.
She has some awareness.
Yeah.
Let's go.
Okay.
Okay.
So, first night was my virginity, actually.
What?
Yes.
Oh, she's wild and fresh.
Wait, and your kid?
All of them?
Yes.
My baby daddy's my first.
First?
My first, my baby daddy.
Yes.
Yo.
Okay, okay, okay.
So, so.
One toss.
You know, it's funny.
But it's not about that.
It's not about that.
I agree with you, you, and you.
It's about family and, you know, men not wanting to, like, you know, lock in.
Yeah.
Great.
So this is my take here, right?
If you have a first night lay with a woman, you basically met all her requirements, you charmed her, and the vibe, wink, wink, was there.
So it's a natural flow of progression.
You meet somebody, connection, charm, You know, execution.
Now, let's say long term, keeping a woman long term.
That's a whole different story because that's harder to do than a first night late, in my opinion.
100%.
So, how do you keep somebody for 13 years?
That's depressing.
Sorry?
How do you keep somebody for 13 years?
That's a lot.
He was younger than me, about five or four years.
But I've been working by myself and, you know, paying all the bills.
And then I pushed him to do better.
And then when he got.
He got a good job and he was earning more money than me.
She's gonna get some fire head, bro.
And then we were pushing each other to be better.
Gotta be, bro.
Damn.
That's wild.
Keeping Her Long Term00:02:57
Okay.
What's your longest relationship?
Four years.
What end?
He cheated.
On you?
What type of cheater?
I need to understand.
He slept with some girl that he works with at the office.
No way.
Yeah, that's a real affair.
There's levels.
There's levels of cheating.
You know, there's levels of work.
Cheating on you?
Yeah, he would never.
The week he cheated on me, he went and asked my parents for my hand in marriage and then cheated on me.
Yeah.
Hold on, was it white or black?
White.
Well, his family was Mexican, but he was white.
His mom's side was Mexican.
Yeah, Mick went to this?
He was white.
Okay.
Your longest relationship?
One year.
When in?
OnlyFans.
No, no.
Didn't.
Did he smash?
No.
For a year?
That's her problem.
She does OnlyFans, but you don't fuck the guys you date.
That's interesting, right?
I'm a virgin.
That's very interesting.
You're a real virgin?
Yeah.
Not bullshitting.
Cap.
But you do only.
Like, so what do you do on OnlyFans?
Solo.
Cap.
What have we done?
Yo, bring her her Instagram real quick.
I want to see her page.
Yeah, watch her Instagram.
I want to see what.
Yeah, it is interesting.
Dude, because what.
I'm scared, actually.
A little bit scared.
Is that part of your brand, though?
Like, you say, like, on OnlyFans?
You're like, I'm a virgin who does this?
No, I told.
People that I already did stuff and everything, that's the opposite.
And then, uh, do we do it in chapter?
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Supporting Freedom First Creators00:10:10
Cool.
So, Cam, real quick, in your opinion, right, is dating cooks and a woman too delusional in their standards, or do you think that they can change with time?
What was say the question again?
Is it too delusional?
Women's thinking nowadays for dating, or is it cooked?
I mean, dude, before my girl, I think I got really lucky.
I also think men need to coach women and lead them a little bit more when it comes to their mindsets with dating.
Yeah.
Because I think if they understand how the men are picking the women for long term, they will start to realize oh, they're doing this with logic and sense, not just delusion.
Like, they're getting it.
Even when we make jokes about, oh, like she must give some fire head or she must have fire, like that's not enough for a high level guy.
There's everywhere, there's great everywhere, like genuinely.
But you have to have more to offer for a man to really be faithful to you, especially if he's like a high level guy that you're attracted to.
Yeah, 100%.
I agree.
Okay, we got her Instagram here.
Can we go to Rumble only?
That's you?
Let's go to top.
Straight hair.
You're 19?
Different, wavy hair now.
I curled it.
You look older in these photos a little bit.
Some of them, at least.
Can we see her now?
Cool, one sec.
So funny.
Is that my Instagram page?
What is yours?
Oh.
I know somebody there, that's why.
Alright, let's see your page real quick.
So we've got here Penelope XOXO.
Okay, let's see here real quick.
And you're 19, huh?
Yeah.
No, we're almost there, it's fine.
Okay, Cam, watching her pizza, would you wife her?
No.
Or not?
No, no, no.
But she wants.
It's AI.
No, it's not.
It's AI?
You know, but you know what you're doing, right?
Yeah, I know.
Go to the pizza picture, real quick.
Just go to the pizza.
No, no, scroll down a little bit.
Scroll down.
Right there.
Pizza.
Like, yeah, there's a lot of.
It's AI, too.
AI helps you.
That is AI.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
I get it.
My point is, you know this isn't attractive to any guy who doesn't want just more than sex.
Meaning, these are guys that want to fuck.
Okay, you know that.
Oh, we're off YouTube.
Yeah, okay.
Yeah, so we can cuss.
So I'm just making sure you know that.
Because a lot of girls, they'll like do this OnlyFans thing and they'll go on this run.
And then they'll be like, but the right guy's going to find me and he's going to make everything up.
Okay, you got it.
I won't go out with guys that text me on Instagram.
No.
Because you know they're in shit.
Yeah.
But no, not in shit, but like.
You know what they're in it for.
Yeah.
And I'm not going to sleep with them.
Yeah, you know, yes.
Okay.
But some of them are really kind, but like, I know what they want.
You know what they're attracted to.
Yeah.
Which is the image and the aura you're putting off.
Yes.
But I like posting some.
That's AI too, but I like posting some.
I like posting some.
But you weren't really in this.
No!
She's smart though.
Wait, who made this for you?
A guy?
Huh?
Who made this for you?
A guy?
Myself.
Yourself?
Yeah.
Oh, she's on top of our game.
I've seen the AI models on the exploit.
You know how I turn my phone on black and white?
What?
It just takes the.
No woman's that hot in black and white.
So if you want to be a faithful guy, a tip that I give you is.
No woman can trigger your mind to be like, oh, I need that if they're black and white.
They're just not that hot.
Wow.
So, you know, it's crazy.
Some people are creating AI models like this just using a fake person.
No, but it's me.
I know, and I know it's you.
But celebrities are damning the girls that are fake.
Like, I don't want to say names, but like Nick Cannon, bro.
Oh, no.
Serial dammer of AI girls.
And it's like, bro, this is girls loving real.
You just have to look.
Do they have pictures with friends?
Do they have highlight videos that make sense where you can't AI them?
Because there's some of them.
They can do videos now, too.
Yeah, I know, yeah, but you just gotta like look, you gotta just do your due diligence.
There's no other way to say it.
Okay, let's see her Instagram Argentina over here.
No, don't know.
Mine is very poor, very poor, yeah, yeah, bro.
He's only here, so yeah, yeah, this Canada's finest.
Okay, oh, wait, this is not me showing.
No, you got zero body count, please.
I told you zero.
No, we can show you on Rumble.
What does Rumble censor?
Do they actually censor?
Just no nudity.
Oh, but there's no nudity on my Instagram.
Only Only on OnlyFans.
But there's no nudity on my wall, too.
On your OnlyFans wall, she's saying.
Meaning you have to subscribe.
No, even if you subscribe, it's only in DMs.
Oh, oh, oh.
She's chatting.
And it's really you.
Yeah, it's me.
You know, sometimes I have the Filipino.
Yeah, are the Indians?
Are the Indians?
Come again.
Click, click.
All right, let's see your Instagram page.
It's Pernazina, yeah.
No, my niece.
Wife, you're not.
Just here.
Huh?
Just here.
You have one?
That's mine.
Get art style.
Okay.
I don't use it.
Come on, Abulaswag.
You have a good page so far.
There's nothing wrong with this.
She's learning.
No, no.
You're doing good.
Bikini picture.
Who's that?
That's my hair, hair, hair.
Is that you?
No, something.
I'm about to say.
Okay, so yeah, we can back up.
I mean, it's not the worst, but.
There's nothing slutty about it.
She's good.
My page is slutty.
Correct.
Okay, I want to see her page.
Let's go.
Miss Texas, Dallas over here, Dallas.
You got it?
It's funny.
This exercise is so funny because girls would be like, I want a man.
Let me see your page.
I'm like, please.
But I don't want a man.
Well, you don't want a man.
I know.
But some girls don't want a man.
Your page is valid?
Can we see your page?
I don't want to see.
Okay, Rachel P23.
Okay, I'm like unknown.
I don't have my glasses.
Okay.
Wait, are you ginger or are you just like white?
Huh?
I was born a strawberry blonde.
Strawberry?
That's crazy.
Naturally?
Mm hmm.
And then as I got older, I got more.
You take good pictures.
Yeah, sorry.
Yo, yo, yo, I retract that statement.
Yo, she was like, Dave sucks in Miami.
I wonder why it sucks.
Okay.
This is just what?
For self expression?
Like, genuinely?
Or this is.
This was a photo shoot.
So I've done modeling before.
Oh, I know an orangutan.
Yeah.
He's a photographer, bro.
Giselle, Giselle, I need to pay for that meal.
See, yo, yo, yo, she's outside, yo.
Dave's looks at Miami.
I wonder why.
Look at your page.
Okay.
What about her?
Let's grab.
Mia is a good girl.
Actually, believe it or not, Mia is a Scorpio.
She's really good.
She is.
She is a freaky dickie.
I don't know.
She's a freaky dickie.
But, friends, you got to be.
You're not gonna even find me.
A lot of guys are going for it.
You won't even find me.
How much you're gonna bet you won't even find me?
Really?
If you find me.
We don't know her last name.
Of course you're here.
We don't know her.
It's gotta be here.
It's gotta be her name.
Can I get a tissue?
No.
How the hell did you find?
Wow, you guys are good.
If you guys.
We got her.
Who is that?
Wait, that's not me.
It's the stories always with the Scorpions.
That is not me.
Let's see here.
I don't even post anything.
Oh my god.
That's the first time I get it.
Oh lord.
Pause.
Doesn't need a man.
I only apologize.
I'm going to cash.
Yo, fire, bro.
Fire.
Yo, get out of here.
Get out of here.
Guys, red flag.
You guys are mad because I'm mad.
Oh my god.
She's riding motorcycles, bro.
I'm a good girl.
Right.
Next one.
I only study mathematics.
Who's that?
She loves men She loves men They can see my cute toes, you know No, no, we're good Fireplace?
That ain't your crib Yes, it is You guys pick me up from there right now We good, we good, we good Okay, okay, okay So look, look What'd you weigh?
No I know you would So look, look All I'm saying is You want If you want a man You gotta be careful What you post on Instagram Because it looks a certain way And that's what they go for Yep Well, you were kind of chubby.
Um, I just had had a baby.
Relax.
My bad.
I'm just.
When you have a baby, you're a little dick.
The only green flag here is that at least the gym is part of her highlights and it's not all partying.
I'm such an addict.
It's an addiction.
Did you?
That's good.
It's a great addiction.
It's a bad addiction.
It's more like.
I was talking bad.
Get off that.
What's going on here?
What is going on here?
Who is that?
That's you.
That's you.
I don't know who that is.
That is somebody that is like so.
She's so pretty.
Oh my god, she's so cute.
Okay, so real quick.
We got one of the best traders in the world here.
You guys are haters.
Nah, nah.
Why are you haters?
You're good.
We don't want to ask a career question.
Yo, actually, they looked really nice.
What?
And I just hit it.
I'm not gay.
I'm not gay.
20 is 20.
Yo.
What the heck?
The Addiction to Posting00:13:15
I'm really not gay.
Get out of here.
I don't like girls.
I promise I don't like girls.
You said you did it earlier, but it's fine.
So, um,.
Question for you.
Cam, you had a question from earlier.
Yeah.
You want me to go ahead?
Yeah, go ahead.
Wait, who is the question for?
Everyone.
Do you guys care about what a man does for a living, or do you just care about the type of money he makes?
We'll start.
I think I do care what they do.
I've dated a guy, and he did OnlyFans, but I didn't know it was with other girls.
You hoped it was with other men?
No, I hoped it was with no one.
Oh, okay.
Just like solo stuff.
Like me.
Like, I didn't date him, but I went on a couple dates with him.
If he's watching it, though.
If it's so.
Man.
And you're okay with that?
No.
I stopped going on dates with him.
Question, question.
Is he really straight?
Oh.
Because that's probably another thing.
You know, guys that do OnlyFans?
Weirdly enough, some of them have managers, and then there's like a vault.
Now, I don't know.
Don't ask me how I know, but like, I've heard where like girls came on a show.
Yeah, my guy did OnlyFans.
Couldn't find out he was gay.
Yeah.
Wow.
Bro, anybody who whacks it on camera is gay.
Yeah.
That's fucking weird.
Why would you want it?
And those guys that I've talked to, like, they have feminine, like, mannerisms in a way.
By the way, they're in shape.
They look a certain way, but they're fucking undercover.
What about you?
What was the question?
Do you care about what a man does for a living, or do you just care about the type of money he makes?
I care because I don't want it to be illegal.
But, like, if it's legal.
Like, I want to know because it's interesting, but I don't really care.
Let me give some more context because I think they're thinking about it in illegal versus legal terms.
What I mean is this every high level job, meaning a man that can provide at a level that you probably want, given you all live in Miami, except you, has a job that has pros and cons.
Meaning a doctor might have to go to the ER at night.
Yeah.
A tech guy might be kind of nerdy and like locked in on his engineering shit all the time.
Yeah.
An entrepreneur like myself might be traveling a lot.
A trader might be locked in in the mornings and not be able to focus on you.
So that's what I mean is do you actually care about the career and the way he runs his day to day life?
Meaning, do you want a specific profession or do you just care about, hey, if he makes this number, that's enough because I know he can take care of me?
Yes, I care about what he does and what job because I think it's important.
That's tell me how life is for him.
Is life important?
He wants growth.
He wants, you know, if he has a kind of like routine.
Yeah, what is his life about?
One job for 20 years, the same thing.
It's kind of interesting.
Oh, it's my turn?
Yeah.
Yes.
I don't care.
Okay.
I don't care.
He could be a loser and I won't care.
And I know I'm one of the youngest ones singing here.
I do not care.
I don't care because I really don't care.
I know some people say it, but I really don't care.
Like, you could be a loser and I won't care.
Are you from.
I'll come up with you.
I'm Nicaraguaense.
I'm Latino.
But you're born here in the States?
Huh?
No, I'm born in California.
What part?
Patterson.
Is that SoCal?
It's more farm area.
Hill?
Farm?
But like closer to like the Bay Area or closer to LA?
Yeah, Patterson.
I'm from the Bay, that's why I asked.
I don't know.
Yeah, but it seems to me they don't care about the profession, more about the money.
Yeah.
It doesn't matter about that.
It matters more about, like, you know, how you feel about the person.
How to make you feel?
Personality.
Personality.
How do I say my English?
Personality.
Personality.
So it's how to make them feel more so than the job itself.
But you're asking that because.
I'm asking that because what you'll start to realize is if you actually date quality men long term, you will start to find new problems that you didn't originally find in the short term.
Yes.
That is something I'm bringing up because you should think about what you're willing to settle for when you're dating a guy that is out of your league.
Okay?
Ideally, does everybody want, does everybody here want to date a guy that is above them or out of their league, or do they want to date a guy that's below them?
Which one?
Above?
Raise your hand.
Fuck me.
Below?
Fuck you, bro.
That's crazy.
Same level.
Yes.
Already did.
Yes.
No, no.
Yep.
The same?
Why is it a hard, the same?
Okay.
You as well, didn't mind me, right?
Especially in Miami itself, there's a lot of high earners here.
Yeah.
But they're wilding, bro.
They're having fun.
They don't want to wake her up.
It's a fun time.
So I feel like for her, she's kind of like, do we really want that?
Do we want some.
She's probably dated some higher level guys.
She's like, these guys ain't selling them down.
Yeah.
Yeah.
But what does like higher level mean?
Like, are you saying financially?
Are you saying.
Higher level than you.
So like when Richard Sherman said to Skip Bayless, I'm better at life than you.
Meaning like the things that matter to you, is he better at those things than you?
So like, is he tall?
Is he jacked or in shape to some extent?
Does he make way more money than you?
Is he just higher social status?
Is he just flyer than you?
Like, is he above you?
Like, there's levels to life.
We can't act like the person that bags groceries at age 55 is at the same level as me or Fresh.
It's just not the same thing.
I think that question doesn't scare me, but like thinking about someone higher than me in a way is scary because if I think, no, if I think about it, if they have an ego involved with that, then that's where I'm out.
They're going to have an ego.
That's the thing.
So, guys, I've seen this in different ways, though.
I've seen guys that make, and you probably see this less in Miami than I've seen in the Bay.
The Bay Area culture is different because a lot of guys do want a woman with a career that can match them.
And it's because it's a really educated place.
Where here, it's not really about education, it's more about show money.
Yeah.
So it's kind of like LA in that sense, where it's more show money.
And those guys kind of just want a woman to submit.
Career, when I say career women, by the way, I mean women that are very successful for women, meaning like women's success is like 150, 200, 300 a year.
Man's success, real success, is like a mil plus.
And I'm not saying if you make half a million, you're a loser.
What I'm saying is typically the girls that are making a few hundred grand a year are not dating guys that don't make seven figures, from what I've seen.
They're not dating like they're equal.
And if they do, it doesn't last long.
I've known too many guys that said, I'm dating this girl that makes 200K a year, bro.
Then they got kicked out of their own fucking house and they're broke.
I'm like, you didn't get shit from that in two years?
You know what I mean?
Whereas a girl comes up off a guy because a guy will share his resources.
Dating a woman with money is kind of dangerous because they don't really share their money like that.
They kind of just hog it.
And then, like, I know girls that are rich, bro, and fine.
And they're like, oh, if I marry him, I'm making sure this shit's separate.
See, it's funny.
Women are aware of how money works.
And if they're dating somebody, they kind of secure it.
Men are like, oh, I love you, girl.
You won't cheat on me.
You won't.
Yeah.
Bro. Tate said this well, prenup only protects you if the judge approves it, you know.
So, meaning when I say the judge, you guys, lesson for you guys, understand that if you ever get married, a prenup only, even if the girl signs it, a prenup only protects you if the judge, in the event of a divorce, is like, you know what, that sounds fair.
It's just up to the judge.
A judge can void the prenup and throw it out and be like, that's not fair.
100%.
Even if the girl agreed to it.
Yeah.
It's very just like luck.
So, and a good lawyer as well could always argue.
But going back to your question, what I was going to say is you brought this up before.
Tate said this where Tate was like, I don't want a woman who knows how to open the door on the McLaren.
Yeah.
So if you meet up, like for me, like when I've been, when I was single and dating, I was like, I don't want a girl that knows what this is or like knows the type of car I drive.
Like if I ask her, what's a C, how much is a C class versus a E class versus a S class versus a Maybach?
I don't want her to know that shit.
That's what we should know.
Yeah.
As guys, right?
But if a girl knows that, she's been around too many ballers and she's probably just going to leave me for the next one.
Rolls Royce door.
You know how to close it.
I'm like, yo, that's freaking me out right now.
I got you.
So, uh, Real quick before we close out here, any questions for Kamir or Cam about dating?
Anything at all?
You just want to ask Cam.
Best trader in the world here.
One of them.
Three countries.
How's a girlfriend?
It's working very well.
You're going to get married this year.
I don't understand.
Why does that matter?
Why does all of that matter have to matter for a relationship?
Like, what does what matter?
Why can't it just be equal?
Why can't it just be, you know, like a normal human thing?
Like, just two people connecting.
Two people connecting, yeah.
Great question.
There's layers to that.
So, why can't it just be two people connecting?
Because if it's not a woman, it's a man.
No, that's a great question.
And then if it's not a man, it's a woman.
So why?
Why can't it just.
It's a great question.
It's because as men, we've been wanting that our whole lives.
So sit on that for a second.
We've been wanting what you said our whole lives.
It does not work that way.
Meaning, when we were nothing, no one gave a shit.
Meaning, even when I said I was fucking bad bitches on an air mattress, I mean that.
But what I mean is I still had to learn how to really communicate with women at a high level, how to approach women on the street, at the gym, at the coffee shop, which is very hard to do.
Okay, so yeah, I have height, yeah, I have good facial hair, whatever, but that's not the point.
The point is, we become what we earn, whether it's in skills of approaching and communication, whether it's in fashion, which comes from resources, whether it's in cars, whether it's in money, whether it's in social status.
So we've been wanting what you've said forever.
Excuse me, excuse me.
Uh huh.
You say this, but what do you mean about women?
You're talking about like men?
What about women?
What about us?
Like, you're talking about you, but what about us?
He's getting there.
You're talking about how you feel.
Yeah, yeah.
You asked me, why can't it be a normal human connection?
You don't think of a woman, like, you don't think how this woman doesn't feel about this, like, how you're with your woman and you're about to get married with her.
You know, do you think about how she feels and how everything?
That's why she wants to marry me.
All right.
So, women don't accept men until they become something.
The only difference between my relationship and most people's relationship is that has been proven by me being up, then down, then up again.
So that's what really matters.
You'll become something that really matters.
Well, yeah, I mean, you don't want to date a bummer.
I don't understand that.
I don't understand.
It's not.
Well, ask any other one.
My question was, you know, why can it be equal?
You know, you don't have to be nothing.
They don't have to be nothing.
Push yourself.
We're all just human.
I want them to know.
We're all just human.
I know.
I know.
I felt that way when I was 18.
When I was in college and I was walking around.
So you're basically saying you had to become something to get married?
I'm saying, not to, yeah, to get married, but also to even fuck.
Meaning, to get sex as a man, except from you, clearly, but like to get sex from a man, well, clearly, right?
You said I date losers.
So he didn't have to become anything.
Hold up.
What are you trying to say?
I didn't, I did not say that.
You did say that.
What?
You said that.
I did not say that.
Mia, you're right.
Mia, remember what you said, Mia.
Mia doesn't remember much things, but Mia did not say I dated a loser.
I said he could be a loser.
He can be a loser and I'll still be with him.
But for him to become a loser, Mia knows what she's talking about.
For him to be a loser and still, you know, that for him to be something and want to be with him, that's something else.
For him being a loser and wanting him, yeah.
Is that still?
Tell him, Mia.
I get him.
What is a loser to you?
That's what I mean.
What's a loser?
A loser is when you have nothing.
You have nothing.
No money, no nothing.
Nobody.
Nobody.
Okay.
So just to be clear, when you have Mia, like Mia, someone like Mia.
Okay.
So if any loser is here, clearly she's willing to accept it.
And you're here.
You're here to, you know.
Okay.
What I'm trying to say is every man here will agree with me that when we didn't have some sort of value to offer that we were not.
Born with meaning, we had to create it in some way, whether it's through fitness, fashion, communication skills, or social status.
No woman gave a fuck, yeah, even in college, just like women look for what they want, you know, men look for what they want.
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So, I'm answering your question, I'm saying that's why it can't be equal, it's because you won't accept that, yeah.
When I was in high school, not me, well, we know I said it, not you, and then you got angry, so now everybody else, but not me.
So, basically, you're willing to date any guy just based on how you feel about them, and that has nothing to do with the value they've created in the world.
Yep.
That's extremely rare.
And I would say, guys watching this, that's your bitch.
Like, it's okay.
And I will take it.
I am a freaking big bitch.
I am a bitch.
I am a bitch.
He meant, I was like, no, I meant like a girl.
Yeah, I was like, it was more like a girl.
No, I don't care.
I'll take it.
I don't think you're a bitch.
I don't think you're mean or rude.
I think you're very nice, actually.
No, I'll take it.
Okay.
I'll still take it.
Okay.
I think it was a compliment.
Yeah, it was a compliment.
She got it.
That's all right.
Because I am.
Yeah.
If she felt like I was insulting her, she would yell.
No, I don't feel insulted at all.
I am.
I'm very feisty.
I'm very, you know, feminine.
I am very, you know.
Yeah, we can tell.
I have power.
So, anybody else have a question for Cam?
No, that's why you can't be equal.
It's because we've had to earn it.
That was still not a reason, but thank you for, like, at least trying, but it was not a reason.
And I honestly will never understand, but, you know, this world is just this world.
Imagine, imagine speaking.
Hopefully, it could be a better world.
Imagine speaking in front of, like, people at Fortune 500 companies and not being able to convince her that I'm correct.
Yeah, yeah.
See, I'm telling you, bro.
You didn't even give me a reason.
I did.
I said it's because you said your question was very simple.
You said, why don't women, sorry, why can't men and women be equal and like, why can't we just accept each other without these materialistic qualities?
That's what you said.
And I said, it's because women do not accept men without materialistic qualities.
What about men?
What about men?
We accept women based on what they're born with.
Yeah, right away.
No.
Why are you saying no?
We're men.
We're telling you.
Because no, it goes both ways.
No, that's not a good reasoning.
Hold on.
You're horrible with your looks, right?
You know, just how people were born differently, you know, somebody else might think a different way.
So just like how you're thinking that way, that's how you think.
Nobody else thinks that way.
No, no.
Most men think the same way.
I'm telling you.
He's telling me.
Nah, but you know you understand me.
No, I don't.
I know what you're saying.
I don't think it's trash.
You have different opinions.
You know what?
You're right.
I'm done.
Thank God.
Okay, so listen, we're gonna run a show up here.
We'll do last thoughts on the show, and then Cam, you can close out.
Yeah.
So, thoughts on the show, how was it for you?
And we'll go from there.
It was really good.
I'm glad I came back.
Yeah.
Why do you cry so much?
She gets emotional.
You emotional?
I'm a very emotional person.
And I wasn't crying.
I'm such an actress.
I'd be acting too much.
I'd be playing too much.
I knew she scripted this shit.
I knew.
I knew she scripted this shit.
I knew.
That's crazy.
I'd be playing too much.
I wasn't crying.
I was just crying.
Because it was air in my eye.
Gotcha.
Gotcha.
And my lashes.
Okay, Mia.
Thank you.
I wasn't crying.
I don't care.
I don't need to cry for nothing.
I had a really good time.
Thank you.
Yes.
What about you?
That was my first experience here in the Bosco.
I'm glad that I came because I could share in my poor English what I think and what I feel like a woman from another country and share a little bit of my culture.
Yeah, it's funny because I've met a lot of Argentinian women and they're beautiful, by the way.
But it's kind of like they're more free.
And I was like, I like women are so uptight and sometimes very aggressive.
They're more like, just want to have fun, party, dance.
And it's like, it's free over there.
It's free.
I get it.
We don't care the status, if you have money, if you don't, if it's nothing at all.
If you show, this is something that I will share, if you show with fact, not with words, love, that is everything for us.
It's a great culture.
But here is different.
The guys need compliments for validation, girls too.
Yeah, it's not my problem, dude.
We don't show that.
All right, boys, we're going to Argentina pretty soon.
Let's go.
Let's go.
Pass my bros.
How about Nicaragua?
Okay, what about you?
It was really nice.
It was my first time too.
And I'm glad I came because it was nice meeting you guys.
Yeah.
And I've learned new things.
Did you hear about the podcast before you got here?
Did you hear about it before?
No.
Never?
Never.
My first time.
You got spirit today.
I'll tell you that.
What about you?
I've been on other podcasts before.
And I don't remember.
It was years ago and they were awful.
But I really felt like this, like.
I learned some things and not just from the ladies, but from you guys too.
And I didn't feel like it was just a bashing on women type of podcast.
Like it was actually real.
So I appreciate that.
Yeah.
Fair.
Well, today was pretty chill.
Yeah.
Maybe not the other one that I heard about.
Definitely.
It was such a good day.
Good conversation.
So, Cam, where can they find you?
And just in case they don't know who you are once again.
Yeah.
Yeah.
Profit with Cam on Instagram.
So Profit with K A M. What I'll say is this if you're dating and you're single at this point in the world, I would try to make money doing something where you can live anywhere and do it.
Trading is honestly one of those things.
There's other things too.
You don't have to work with me.
But what I'll say is like, there's other countries like Argentina where women make a lot more sense than American women for the most part.
Their standards make a little more sense.
She's the only person here that held somebody down for 13 years.
Yes.
Everyone else was.
You're not old enough to hurt nobody down for 13 years.
Yes.
I hold somebody down for five years.
That's long enough.
That doesn't have anything to do with what I said.
I said she's the only person here to hold somebody down for 13 years.
That's a fact.
Okay.
Five and 13.
It's all the same.
Okay.
That's my point.
American?
Not.
So.
That's not acting.
I know she's not acting.
I'm going insane.
Anyways.
Serious.
Argentina, other countries is where I would start.
I would try to make money doing something else.
We let you actually trade for free with us for a few days.
You can see it's legit.
Fresh is becoming a client.
He's actually coming over tomorrow and he's going to watch us trade live.
So, yeah, there's not much more than that.
And what was good for me is that I saw one of our guys that watched you from the podcast we did.
In December, join your program, make money, and then flout here to come on our podcast, talk about it, because that's some real G shit.
So, guys, man, make money with Cam, and of course, we'll be back on Wednesday.
I think we're going to skip Penn State and just head to the show on Wednesday, so we'll still be here.