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May 6, 2025 - Fresh & Fit

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Modern Men VS Modern Women

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	And we are live, guys.
	Welcome to the show.
	This is the Modern Women vs.
	Modern Men discussion.
	Let's go!
	Let's go!
	Go Put your shoes on outside.
	You don't got to put them on in here.
	I know the night is not just what seemed.
	I must believe in something, so I'll make myself believe it.
	This night and night.
	I will never tell a sign.
	Can't forget, I will never tell a sign.
	All right, we're back.
	I know, guys, Myron's going to be here later on.
	But if we get 4K subs on the channel, we'll be here faster.
	But what I'm afraid to do, welcome to the show, guys, guys and girls.
	And we'll begin with the intros.
	So name, age, what we do for a living, and dating status.
	We'll start right here.
	So my name is Sean, or Cause Actual, on Instagram, YouTube, and Facebook.
	I am a tactical firearms instructor.
	I've trained military SWAT teams.
	I've been all over the world.
	I'm a trained interrogator.
	I have four different interrogation schools underneath my belt.
	I am an Iraq War veteran.
	And I've been on the podcast before.
	I live here in Miami.
	And what else do you want me to say?
	How old are you again?
	36. And dating status?
	I am with someone.
	Cool.
	Alright.
	Good stuff.
	How'd you guys meet, by the way?
	Uh...
	You don't want to say?
	Yeah.
	Let me just say that.
	Okay, cool.
	Ethnicity?
	I am Persian, but I was raised by an Italian-American family.
	So, Iranian.
	Mamma mia!
	There you go.
	Alright.
	Welcome back, bro.
	What about you?
	I'm Johnny.
	I'm 38. I...
	Credible resume.
	I just do real estate.
	I'm the owner of JR Development Group.
	We're a brokerage firm in New York.
	Single, live in Brickell.
	Second time on here.
	And yeah, glad to be back.
	Day status?
	Single.
	Cool.
	Welcome back.
	What about you, bro?
	All the way from LA.
	Calvin Bondly.
	I'm 39. I'm in the real estate also in the Middle East.
	I do some other stuff with the government over here.
	I don't want to talk about it.
	You can call me Raccoon.
	Why?
	Because I smell trash from a mile away.
	Alright.
	That's funny.
	And dating status?
	I'm in a relationship with God.
	There you go.
	Man of God.
	Alright.
	What about you?
	Lena.
	I am French.
	And I am 22. 22?
	Sacre bleu.
	Sacre bleu.
	Okay.
	Ça va?
	Ça va et toi?
	Okay, I know a little bit, just a little bit.
	I've been to Paris for a week.
	And then, dating status?
	What?
	Dating status, like a single...
	Oh, yes, single.
	Okay.
	That's funny.
	What do you do for work?
	Work?
	Yeah, work.
	I am a student.
	Oh, here in Miami?
	No, in French.
	Okay, cool.
	All right.
	What about you?
	My name is Olive.
	Wait, wait, wait, wait.
	Pressure on this so much.
	Your body count?
	Your body count?
	Yeah, I don't know.
	He wants to know your body count.
	How many guys have you been with?
	In Miami so far.
	How many guys?
	My body count?
	Yes.
	My body count.
	Okay.
	Ten.
	Wait.
	Ten today?
	No, not today.
	When?
	In your lifetime.
	Yes, in my life.
	Ten.
	And how old are you?
	Twenty-two.
	Yo, Chris!
	Wait.
	Yo.
	Twenty-two?
	Ten bodies?
	Man.
	Okay.
	What do they usually say?
	Multiply it by three when girls say three.
	Exactly.
	Multiply it by three.
	So it'll be a little bit higher, but we'll give you the ten for now.
	Check engine light is on.
	What about you?
	My name's Olifka.
	I'm a student.
	I'm basically near Toronto.
	I do TikTok on the side, and I work as a server.
	I'm 22. I don't know if I said that.
	Yeah.
	Dating status?
	Dating status.
	I'm single.
	Cool.
	All right.
	Welcome to the show.
	Thanks.
	What about you?
	Hi, my name is Shreedy.
	I'm from California.
	And for work, I'm a butt tender at a dispensary.
	And dating status, I'm single.
	How old are you?
	21. 21?
	I just turned 21. Okay, awesome.
	So today we're going to cover basically why...
	Wait, wait, wait, hold on.
	I need the last two girls' body counts, man.
	This is ridiculous, man.
	Max and the girl next to Fresh, and then I need you two to actually tell me, okay?
	So starting with the one, two down from Fresh.
	Me?
	Yeah, that's you.
	Yeah, body count.
	I don't partake in hookup culture, so I'm not going to say it, but I don't do that.
	I just don't want to name anything on it.
	So is that high?
	No, what?
	No, I'm saying it's like...
	Because if it was 2, you said 2. Yeah, I'm saying I'm just not saying it at all.
	I just don't want to say a number.
	It may not even be a number.
	I just don't want to say it.
	Is it lower or higher than 10?
	Way, like way.
	No.
	Way higher?
	No, lower, lower, lower.
	Oh, okay.
	No, no, no, that's not me.
	How many boyfriends have you had?
	One.
	One, okay.
	How long was that relationship?
	Damn, you guys are really getting into it.
	Four years.
	Four years, and you ended it when?
	You guys are really getting into it real quick.
	Two weeks ago.
	Okay, there you go.
	And then you came to Miami?
	Oh, hey, no, no, no.
	I had the trip planned beforehand, okay?
	With him or all summer?
	What's that?
	I was hoping, but...
	Yeah, he didn't like to travel with me that much, I guess.
	I don't know.
	What's your ethnicity?
	I'm Polish.
	Alright.
	Okay.
	How about you?
	What's your body count?
	You guys are not going to believe me, but my body count is three.
	I don't believe that shit, bro.
	Wait, wait, wait.
	Oh, she's traveling.
	So you mean in Miami only?
	No, this is my first time in Miami.
	I came for my birthday.
	So three this week.
	What the fuck?
	Let's go!
	Turn it up!
	How old are you?
	I just turned 21, like yesterday.
	What's your background?
	My ethnicity?
	Yeah.
	I was born in Fiji.
	I'm Fijian Indian.
	Oh.
	Interesting.
	Polynesian, right?
	Like islander, yeah.
	Islander.
	Okay.
	So what state do you live in?
	I live in California.
	Where at?
	SoCal.
	Ah, there we go.
	There's answers right there, guys.
	Calvin, you believer, bro?
	Three body count?
	No, two of them were guys.
	One was a girl?
	Because I'm bi, yeah.
	So I don't know if that makes a difference.
	I don't know, man.
	Three's kind of low.
	Well, I wasn't really...
	I was like...
	Two.
	I don't know.
	I was like super ugly in high school.
	Aww.
	I didn't, like, you know, I'm not really into, like, like you said, like, hookup culture.
	But culture here is crazy.
	Yeah, Miami's a little bit different.
	There's definitely a lot going on.
	And then before you know it, it's like the first day.
	So either way, give you Fiji water.
	This is my first time.
	Is he telling you for no?
	Is he lying or no?
	Chris, is he lying?
	Keeping it real.
	Come on, man.
	I've seen your story.
	You got to see the balcony.
	You got to see the views.
	Yo!
	That wasn't me, though.
	Wait, that wasn't you?
	That wasn't me.
	Okay, so either way, we're going to cover today, why couples break up, and what's your opinion on that, right?
	So, there's talk for reasons why couples break up.
	It's communication, lack of money, and also, as well, just emotional distress.
	Wink, wink.
	So, in your opinion, why do you think people break up in couples?
	And why did your last relationship end?
	We'll start here.
	I'm sorry for your foot, by the way.
	Playing flitzies.
	Well, I think...
	She's bi, so don't forget that.
	Yeah, don't forget.
	So, I think couples break up in this day and age because of cheating.
	Okay.
	And then why did yours break up?
	Your last one.
	Wait, what?
	Your relationship.
	Oh, because of cheating.
	He cheated.
	On you?
	Yeah.
	You cheated on him?
	Hell no.
	How'd you find out?
	I went through his phone.
	Oh.
	Oh, I know.
	I shouldn't have did that.
	Do you think women cheat more than men?
	Today?
	I'm not gonna lie.
	They both cheat.
	Ah, that wasn't a question.
	Because I've been with women because she cheated on me too.
	But that wasn't a question.
	My question was, do women cheat more than men in today's age?
	No, I'm going to say no.
	You're going to say no?
	You sure?
	I want you to think about all your homegirls.
	Everybody.
	Yeah, I'm going to say no.
	Okay.
	100%.
	What do you think?
	Do women cheat more than men?
	Honestly.
	My friends, personally, no.
	But I have to say it's even.
	I have friends, both guys and girls, and I've seen people do bad things.
	I don't know the stats on it, so I couldn't say.
	What do you think?
	No, I know France is different.
	I've lived in France before, so you tell me what you think.
	They actually have laws about this shit.
	Go ahead.
	Can you repeat the question?
	So basically, do men or women cheat more?
	Do women cheat more than men?
	Do women cheat more than men?
	So I mean How you say so The man?
	Yeah.
	Does he have more sex than a woman in a relationship?
	Like cheating, like another guy, another girl.
	Like a mistress or like the female version of a mistress.
	I don't know what they call that.
	More infidelity.
	More infidelity.
	Man or woman.
	I think we have to do a translate app.
	I'm doing it right now.
	I will say this for the audience real quick.
	So in France, they actually have a law where you can't get a DNA test for a child if you're married.
	So if you're married with a spouse, you can't get a DNA test for that child.
	Correct.
	Because there's so much infidelity that they can't.
	They don't want to break up families.
	That's crazy, bro.
	Everyone's cheating in France.
	I'm never going there.
	Even my ex did.
	Wow.
	I lived in France.
	I dated a French woman for about eight years, so I'd go back and forth to Paris, to Lille, where she's from, down to Marseille, down to Nice in the south of France, Saint-Dropez area, stuff like that for the viewers that don't know.
	But I've been all over France, man.
	It's a different culture, obviously, but What I did realize is all European countries are kind of the same in certain regards.
	But French women are definitely beautiful women.
	There's a lot of culture there.
	They have a different personality than American women do.
	So if you like Caucasian women, go to France or go to Europe.
	Okay, good point.
	So you got another question?
	Yes, I think that's the men.
	Why?
	Because there are a lot of girls here or France?
	Let's do Paris.
	Where are you from, France?
	Lille.
	Lille.
	Next to Paris.
	No, I think that's the men because there are a lot of girls and the men, it's a dog.
	Oh.
	Men are dogs, basically.
	Yeah.
	Okay, so she's saying men cheat more.
	No, I think the whole point is...
	Whoever cheats more, whatever.
	Women definitely cheat more than people think.
	That's the point.
	Way more than the average guy would think.
	Here's the question to ask.
	Do you have a backup option?
	Do you have a backup option?
	A guy that you kind of talk to on the side that wants to be with you, but you haven't given him a chance?
	No, that wants to be with me, no.
	Really?
	Yeah.
	So we pulled up your Instagram right now and looked at your DMs.
	You wouldn't have no dudes in your DMs.
	Hell no.
	Come on, girl.
	Stop the cap!
	Hell no.
	How about you?
	No, no backup options.
	No backup options?
	No, absolutely zero.
	So you don't have no guys approach you at any day of time?
	No, like, as I said, like, newly single.
	I didn't really care, pay attention to that kind of stuff.
	I barely even went really, like, on Instagram.
	Like, I did my TikTok stuff.
	That's where I, like, whatever, make some money.
	Other than that, like, I mean, I just snapchatted my friends.
	So what state are you from?
	I'm from Toronto.
	Oh, Toronto.
	Okay, a boot time.
	I don't know how to do that.
	Maple syrup and all that, but okay.
	How about you?
	Yes.
	You have a backup option?
	It's not that...
	No, I think she's reading something completely different.
	I don't think that's what she read.
	Google Translate isn't really working, is it?
	Yeah, yes, but I am single, so...
	Period.
	So the mentality is she's single, so it doesn't matter.
	Right, right.
	I get you.
	Yeah.
	What about you?
	Who choose more, men or women?
	Your opinion.
	Considering 80% of divorces are initiated by women, and what an average guy can't get laid so easy.
	So you got, let's say, 80% of those divorcees or those females.
	You know, sleeping with only, what, 20% of the men?
	So it's definitely more women having sex.
	Well said.
	What do you think?
	Who do I think cheat more?
	Yeah, men or women?
	No, I think I said it before.
	I think women cheat more than most people think.
	And that's the best solution I can come to.
	I have no idea.
	Whether it's 50-50, I don't know.
	Women cheat.
	A hell of a lot more than they need on.
	That's what I think.
	See, but cheating is not only, you know, like, intercourse.
	They cheat emotionally.
	Emotionally, you know, like, that's like one of the biggest...
	I think that's what you were trying to get at.
	Girls have guys on backup.
	All girls do.
	The cheating starts with texting with girls.
	So the problem is most men don't have availability and they don't have the concept of abundance.
	A lot of men are not average.
	A lot of people, they don't have a lot going on for themselves.
	They don't have many options.
	Once they latch on to a woman, that's pretty much all they can get.
	They lose it from there because whatever they had to initially attract her, they get comfortable and they don't really try to stay with what they initially showed her.
	Then she ends up getting bored or tired and ends up cheating on him or whatnot.
	For the most part, I do think Women do cheat more because a lot of the guys are average, unfortunately.
	And that's just the way our society is.
	There's tons of beautiful women everywhere.
	And any amount of dude, according to what scale he's at, will want to engage with the beautiful woman.
	There's so many of them.
	I mean, that woman can attract any level of dude out there.
	But there's a difference between a dude at the very top of the spear.
	And the very bottom of the pole wanting to engage in long-term relationships with that woman, right?
	So that woman gets delusional and then thinks, oh, well, this alpha male up here really wants to be with me when in reality he just wants to smash and pass, right?
	So I think that's where the issue lies is trying to decipher as a woman, does this guy really want to take me seriously or is he just trying to have fun with me?
	And that's a...
	Very dangerous minefield for y 'all to be in.
	I even told my current girlfriend here recently, it's like, hey, you need to make a decision because there's certain things I need you to work on.
	And if not, your time is precious right now because you're in your 20s.
	You need to figure it out.
	Because for me, I can keep going all until, you know, I'm like, you know, some old dude.
	Like, what was the old celebrity dude, Al Pacino?
	Yeah, Al Pacino.
	Like 80 years old.
	Yeah, so like, I mean.
	Forget about it!
	As long as you stay in shape.
	Like this man right here, he's very much in shape.
	How old are you?
	You're 39 years old.
	39 years old.
	Well-groomed.
	I mean, if he stays like that...
	You're in good shape, too, man.
	It takes one to know one.
	I'm just a reflection of you.
	Nah, I'm just saying, man.
	He's got a good head on his shoulders.
	He speaks well.
	He communicates well.
	But I'm just saying, though, if you have those qualities as a man, you can go all the way until you're in your 60s and get every level type of woman you want.
	Regardless if you have money or if you don't have money.
	So that's kind of my thought process there.
	Pause.
	Anybody want to respond to that?
	Good point, by the way.
	Any of the girls?
	I agree, yeah.
	I mean, I agree with what you're saying a lot of things about men not putting in effort, maybe not acting the same later on down the road.
	Consistency.
	Consistency, exactly.
	And I do believe that women would potentially probably cheat if that was the case in some relationships.
	So, I mean, I can't disagree with you, I think.
	I wouldn't be surprised if that was a common thing.
	So now I'm curious.
	Let's say you find your dream man, right?
	How do you, yourself, stop him from cheating on you?
	We'll start here.
	Stop him from cheating on me?
	Yeah.
	How would you?
	No, wait.
	I'm sorry.
	But the question is kind of like, because if he's going to cheat, he's going to cheat regardless.
	There's nothing I can do to stop.
	Oh, so you're saying that you can't stop it at all?
	No.
	Okay.
	What about you?
	Yeah, I mean, it's everyone's choice what they want to do.
	I mean, my dream man.
	Wouldn't be a cheater.
	So how would I stop him from cheating?
	Well, I wouldn't have to.
	Who my dream man?
	What's your dream man?
	Oh, okay.
	I honestly think that the person you date has to be like your best friend.
	A new thing I set for myself is that we have to have like things in common when it comes to like activities and stuff.
	Like I love snowboarding.
	I love playing tennis.
	If they don't do that, it's kind of like, oh, they don't want to learn how to do it.
	Well, it's something that I enjoy going to do and I'd want you to tag along with me.
	It'd be a good time.
	Honesty, communication.
	And yeah, like wanting something out of life, having a drive for life and wanting to accomplish things.
	You know, I actually believe you because the way that you come off, I am a trained interrogator, so I watch different signs and stuff like that.
	I do believe you and what you're saying.
	So I think a lot of problems with men is we don't really observe the woman first.
	We just get stars in our eyes and we're like, oh, she's beautiful X, Y, and Z. But we're not really looking at the woman.
	We're not listening to what she's saying.
	We're just going off her looks.
	And that's what ends up happening.
	Oh, this woman's just a gold digger.
	I think both men and women do that, though.
	Like, a girl will look at a guy and be like, oh, he's so attractive.
	Meanwhile, his personality could be terrible.
	He could have no life.
	He could just be sitting at home playing video games, but they'll still...
	Pursue something because, well, he's attractive.
	What's wrong with video games?
	We got GTA 6. There's nothing wrong with video games.
	I also play video games.
	It's so funny.
	Girls be like, oh, he's so childish.
	He plays video games.
	But yet, date a fucking guy that does coke.
	I would never do that either.
	Some girls do, though.
	Maybe not you, but some girls do.
	Okay, what about you?
	I don't want to stop my boy from cheating because if he won't go with other girls, go.
	And you're okay with just going?
	No, no, no, I am not okay.
	If he do it that...
	Finish.
	Yes, it's finished.
	But if I stop here, he won't.
	So it's finished.
	So you mentioned your man, if he cheats, it's a dumb question because you can't stop him, right?
	But my question to you is, if a man's going to cheat, why leave in the first place?
	For you.
	I'm sorry?
	So if a man's going to cheat, right, and you know men are going to cheat, why leave in the first place?
	You're saying every man's going to cheat.
	Every man.
	Well, you mentioned you can't stop a guy from cheating, right?
	Yes.
	So if he's going to cheat anyway, why leave?
	Well, I would hope to not be with a man who I think is going to...
	Okay, hope and reality is two of your things.
	It's going to happen at some point, so why leave?
	Why leave?
	Well, you don't deserve that.
	What, you mean you?
	Yeah, me.
	I don't deserve that.
	So you think the next one's not going to cheat?
	It doesn't matter.
	I just don't want to be in a relationship like that right now.
	I think it's possible she can find the guy that isn't cheap.
	I don't know.
	You know what?
	That's the real raw truth.
	You can definitely find the guy.
	It's just a question of what type of guy.
	Let's play on that, the type of guy.
	Ask what type of guy she would like.
	What's her ideal guy?
	I have a feeling what you think she's going to say is a high-value...
	No, no, no, you know what?
	That's what I think you think she's going to say.
	What do you think I'm going to say?
	I don't think so, because where you're from in California.
	States and where people are from, it kind of molds your environment.
	If you look at how human psychology is, it's all about environment.
	Where were you born at?
	Who were your family?
	Who else did you learn from?
	Again, I think it's only going to be determined on that.
	And you say you work out of a dispensary, right?
	Yeah.
	So the kind of people you're around are probably real relaxed or whatnot.
	So you probably want someone that enjoys the same hobbies you have, which is probably, you know, marijuana-based, right?
	Oh, yeah.
	I mean, it'll be difficult if he doesn't smoke weed.
	Yeah, so she likes a very chill guy.
	I can imagine her dude's very chill.
	He probably don't stress out about a lot.
	He does like her, shows her that emotional connection.
	I don't think you require a whole lot, to be honest with you.
	I'm dead.
	Why?
	I'm just...
	I'm being...
	Look at her nails, man.
	Nah, that's nothing.
	Nah, that's nothing.
	Because every woman gets their nails done.
	Nah, not everybody gets their nails done like me, though.
	Bro, she's definitely not...
	This is my birthday nails.
	I don't know, man.
	And no guy cares about that, by the way.
	Oh, my God.
	I don't give a fuck.
	Oh, you're a Taurus.
	Yeah, I am a Taurus.
	By the way, shout out to the subs.
	I think it was...
	The person for the subs, Bill?
	Blasianbabies.
	Blasianbabies.
	Shut up, Blasianbabies.
	That's funny.
	So he's saying that you don't need a lot from a guy to find a guy.
	Well, I didn't say that.
	I don't know.
	But tell him why you require more then.
	Well, you see, it's like she said.
	And also, by the way, why did you guys laugh when she was like, oh, he has to be my best friend?
	I didn't laugh.
	You didn't laugh.
	I did.
	Because it's lame.
	What the fuck?
	Girls, here's the thing.
	You got to understand the psychology with women.
	Women are attracted to men that are masculine and know they can handle shit.
	You know what I mean?
	That they got their back and they can rely on.
	Someone like best friend, you know, it's...
	Your best friend?
	Yeah, but nah.
	Nah, best friend is like, it's lame.
	You know what I mean?
	Girls label guys that they're with best friends, or he's my best friend.
	They don't have that sense of security with him that they can have with other men.
	No, I disagree with everything you're saying.
	Yeah.
	Everything that you're saying.
	I think friendship is really important.
	I think she meant like someone that she can talk to.
	Yeah.
	And, like, explain everything.
	But, like, I get what you're saying, though.
	A man has to be a leader.
	Absolutely.
	So, a man's still gonna be the leader with her, but he's still gotta be able to communicate.
	He just can't be a stoic statue.
	It's about the relationship with her father.
	Was your last man your best friend?
	Very good.
	That's where it comes in.
	My dad and I are tight like this.
	I love my dad.
	Was your last man your best friend as well?
	Yeah, I knew him for a really long time.
	I knew him since we were, like, since we were, like, way, way younger.
	I don't even know.
	I can't go back that time.
	Why'd you guys break up?
	Why?
	Yeah.
	Oh, boy.
	I don't really know.
	What?
	No, you know what?
	I think it was just, like, I don't want to say anything bad about him because I feel like he's probably going to watch this.
	And I also, like, I still, like, honestly, like, I don't ever talk bad about people.
	We just kind of grew apart, to be honest with you.
	We knew each other for so long, both going in different directions in life.
	I kind of wanted something else from him.
	He wasn't really willing to do that.
	And I was like, all right, well.
	Bye.
	So would you say being a best friend is the end all be all because it still didn't work out?
	Yeah, but maybe we weren't as good as friends as we thought.
	I don't know.
	I don't know.
	I think the best friend title itself is kind of misleading because if you're a guy that has that title in general, it just means that you're nice.
	She just said the wrong thing, but I knew what she meant though.
	Everyone wants to be led.
	No woman for a relationship to work will deal with a beta.
	He's wording it a lot better than I did.
	Like, I still, masculinity, very important to me, absolutely.
	But I just want that person to, like, be, like, it's all based off friendship in the first place.
	How do you meet someone?
	You meet someone, you kind of become friends, then you start talking, you know?
	Well, you gotta have some mutual things that you like.
	I wouldn't necessarily call it friends.
	It's still, like, even dating is still like a minefield.
	Like, you're still kind of, like, playing this dance or whatever until...
	Until, like, something majorly happens or y 'all have been dating for years and it turns into something else.
	But for the most part, it's still a dance.
	Like, my chick's dancing still right now.
	I mean, God bless her, but I'm just saying, it's still a dance, you know what I mean?
	But going back to you, I guarantee you, I know what you're about to say, but the type of dude that you probably date is probably real chill, right?
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	So how about you go deeper into that?
	He's real chill, and he goes to work.
	That's what I'm saying.
	You don't require a whole lot.
	Well, I guess so, huh?
	Well, I'm the type of person, like, I just really like someone who's also, like, spontaneous.
	You know?
	Is that like corny?
	Man, she be outside in the clubs while he be working and shit.
	So that's why he be stressing out.
	Okay, well, he's chill.
	No, well, he's minding his own business.
	She be out in the clubs.
	She be out partying and shit.
	So that's why she's single, man.
	Because a man can't tolerate her going outside all the time, right?
	Yep.
	I don't even be going outside.
	That's cat, bro.
	Really?
	You don't be outside?
	How'd you meet Kristen?
	No, not me.
	No, no, no.
	But, you know, I'm just saying, like...
	He slid in her DMs.
	She's got some lashes going on, the nails.
	You think she's staying inside, guys?
	You think I was going to come to Miami with no lashes?
	No, no nails.
	Or two, and she's outside.
	That's crazy.
	I want to see her Instagram page.
	Yeah, you know, pull it up.
	My Instagram page.
	What's your Instagram page?
	Man, yo, she be outside, bro.
	I'm actually excited for this.
	If you see your page, we'll see a lot about you.
	You know what?
	Yeah, show her page.
	Let's see.
	Let's see your page real quick.
	This is fun.
	She's a little maintenance, so, you know?
	Aw, hell no!
	Yo, I'm cooked.
	The chat is gonna cook.
	Alright, you know what?
	Let's put it up right now, man.
	Aw, hell no.
	I can't do this today.
	Aw, look at that.
	She's on Balconies.
	Yo, that was my birthday pics.
	Birthday pics and Brickell.
	Man, she on Balconies, guys.
	You know what?
	No, no, no, but he asked a very good question.
	Who bought the roses?
	What about them?
	I bought them for myself.
	Really?
	Yeah, I ordered them.
	Shout out to Briz, Bouquets by Briz, I think.
	So for your birthday, you came all the way to Miami.
	Yeah, I did a solo trip.
	I did a solo trip.
	Now that's a red flag, guys.
	I mean, it's so sad.
	Solo trip is a red flag.
	Yep, yep, one of the highlights.
	Yo, tequila, if you got it.
	Yo!
	Wait, wait, wait, wait!
	5 and 14!
	You're from the hotel with a bottle of a bottle and you're done by yourself.
	Wait, no, that was a long time ago.
	Hey, she's probably on Tinder swiping.
	Hold on, hold on, hold on.
	She just turned 21. Shawn, let's say you're single, right?
	Would you wait for up?
	Up.
	Keep it low, put it on my page.
	Oh, hell no.
	Would you wait for up?
	Keep it straight.
	No.
	Would you wait for up?
	No, I'm not because of her page This is my first time flying solo and then to like another state.
	I'm from California.
	You know?
	But did someone fly you up before, or no?
	No!
	Never?
	I've never been flown up before.
	Man, you lying.
	I swear.
	You are lying.
	I swear!
	Girl, you are lying.
	I would've posted it on my Instagram.
	You know what?
	You are lying.
	You are lying, girl.
	You are lying.
	Why are you lying?
	She can't even...
	A tequila.
	Hold herself.
	Oh, hell no.
	You know what, Frush?
	I've never been drunk before.
	Really?
	No.
	That's amazing, bro.
	Believe me.
	It's on my Instagram right now.
	I'm so proud of you, buddy.
	Oh, my God.
	Look at this.
	Chris, I believe you.
	Look at this.
	Devil horns.
	This is crazy.
	Look at this, man.
	Calvin, what you waiting for, bro?
	My whole life right now.
	I'm totally opposite of what she described as a man.
	I'm not quiet, like chill, but when I come home, I want to see you hopping around like a queen on a chessboard in the kitchen.
	Type shit.
	Man's man.
	But yeah, I think your Instagram page is funny because your lifestyle is kind of...
	Don't judge a big man's camera.
	People do it all the time.
	You know, my Instagram is my Instagram, though.
	That is your little footprint to the world, though.
	You know that, right?
	It is, but it's cool, though.
	It's cool, though.
	Who's taking these photos, though?
	What do you mean?
	Who took the photos?
	My friend took those.
	Yo listen.
	What's your friend's name?
	Angel, she commented right there.
	Listen, I know that balcony.
	You know that?
	Come on.
	That's funny.
	She said a name.
	That's fine.
	I can't say no names.
	Angel's a guy name.
	That's a girl.
	Nah, it's a guy name.
	You should literally commentate.
	It's a girl.
	Alright, what about her page?
	Actually, mine's fine.
	You guys can pull mine up.
	I like mine.
	My grandpa's on there.
	It's a pretty wholesome page, I think.
	Let's see what you got.
	It's not that bad, I don't think.
	I hope not.
	Otherwise...
	We're gonna find out now.
	No, I'm excited, actually.
	I'm excited.
	I've never had someone look at my Instagram page like this.
	Okay, so that was Versace Mansion?
	It was.
	It was really fun.
	I don't see no grandfather.
	Where's your granddad?
	What's that?
	Did he pass away?
	He's in my stories.
	Oh, that'll count.
	Wait, my grandpa?
	What do you mean?
	You said your grandpa was on your profile.
	Yeah, he's on my little stories.
	When I went to Europe, I went to go see him, and we went to a restaurant, and I got a photo with him.
	So if you grab a binocular, you have to...
	No, I think, listen, okay, I'm not very good at, like, organizing my Instagram.
	It's good enough, okay?
	Okay, would you wafer up, Sean, for her page?
	I would, but maybe not from her page, but in general, I would.
	Okay.
	Why?
	Why not her page?
	I mean, like, all Instagram is fucking fake anyways.
	Let's just be honest, right?
	It's all facade.
	Half the people on there are just capping the cap, right?
	It's all personality, whatever.
	I would just...
	You know, if I was single, she'd be...
	I don't really date white women, but she would be the European that I would date.
	Pause.
	You said you don't date white women, but you had a white girlfriend for like nine years.
	She's French.
	I don't date white American women.
	I'm Polish.
	Yeah, I don't...
	That's not American.
	That's why I said I'd date you.
	Oh, okay, my bad, my bad.
	Sorry.
	I'm curious, Sean.
	What made you choose her over an American white girl?
	Man, American white women are just, you know, for dating reasons, I just can't do it, bro.
	Especially being brown.
	I've had the cops called on me.
	I'm dead.
	American white woman?
	She's Canadian.
	You're an American white woman, no?
	I'm Canadian, but I go from between Poland to Canada.
	And I go back to Poland all the time.
	You speak Polish?
	I do.
	I'm fluent.
	I know how to cook Polish food.
	I'm Polish-Polish.
	What'd you wait for her?
	What, from her Instagram?
	I don't make judgment on Instagram unless it's a big red flag, but that wasn't a red flag.
	No, I wouldn't.
	Okay.
	I don't like white women.
	What do you like?
	I like, you know, the last time.
	I like short, tan, brunette, brown eyes.
	I don't have brunette.
	Preference, yeah, yeah.
	I like big butt.
	I hate blonde, blue eyes.
	I don't know what the fuck that is.
	Latinos, basically.
	He just needs to go to Medellin.
	That's it.
	Medellin, Colombia.
	But, yeah, that's my type.
	Short, tan, brunette.
	Okay.
	Calvin, what'd you wife her up?
	Wifey, no, but anything softer than rock, I smash.
	I'll break you.
	Okay, Calvin, what's your type, though?
	Anything that walks with one leg's up to four.
	Oh.
	Let's think of, bro.
	Alright, let's bring up her page.
	Miss Paris.
	Oh, sorry, no.
	Miss French.
	She's been all over the world, man.
	Oh, wait a minute.
	Oh, no.
	Is that your yacht?
	Is that your yacht?
	Yes.
	That's your boat?
	Yes.
	You own the boat?
	No.
	Oh, no, my boat.
	Whose boat?
	Boat party.
	Oh, okay.
	How long have you been here?
	One month.
	I think that I don't understand.
	Okay, so you were on a boat in Miami.
	You've only been here for how many months?
	How long have you been in Miami?
	One month.
	You've been in Miami one month.
	And you've already been on a boat in Miami.
	Yeah.
	You're here by yourself.
	Yes, yourself.
	Come on, guys.
	I'm gonna be the odd man out.
	I don't think that's so crazy.
	By herself?
	No, no, no.
	Imagine you're in a new place, a new city, new country.
	And all of a sudden, you're on a yacht.
	There are people that you don't even know.
	She didn't say that she didn't know them.
	The yacht, right?
	Was it your friend's yacht?
	No friend.
	No friend, just pretty.
	I'm pretty.
	I'm pretty.
	Did you know the girl?
	No.
	Come on, guys.
	Come on.
	It's chill.
	It's just the vibes.
	Yeah, but would you go on a random boat?
	Yeah.
	Is that bad?
	I mean, get this right.
	You're out on the water for four hours.
	People like you don't know.
	That's the reality of going on the yacht.
	Yeah, but...
	You don't know anybody.
	Come on, I gotta know somebody.
	I gotta say this for you girls right now.
	First off, it's dangerous for you guys to roll out solo.
	It is dangerous for you guys to roll out solo.
	There is human trafficking going on out here.
	Thank you so much.
	It is a lot of stuff going on.
	Y 'all need to be more careful and shouldn't be just jumping on random boats because what happens if you get drugged on one of those boats?
	You're gone.
	We can't say that word, but again, You know, what happens if you're on that boat?
	You guys gotta be smarter.
	Bro, Jeffrey Dahmer would be in heaven if you lived in this era.
	Keeping it real, bro.
	He made a good point.
	Would you consider going on boats again?
	I mean, we'll start here.
	Huh?
	He made a good point about boats and yachts.
	Like, going on it by yourself and not knowing anybody?
	Is that good about what he said?
	Like, going with the promoter?
	Yeah, because you don't know those people.
	Is that bad?
	I'm being honest.
	He just told you why he's bad.
	Well, I know, I know, but like...
	Yeah, it's bad.
	In Miami, like, I came here, I didn't know anyone, but I've been having a good time.
	Like, I'm here right now because of that.
	I'm just talking to people.
	I don't know.
	It's like, fuck it.
	I have no idea.
	That's a horrible mentality to have, right?
	I know, so...
	Just a matter of fact, safety, guys.
	Just the vibe itself.
	Be safe, guys.
	What about you?
	Would you consider going on yachts still after what he said?
	I wouldn't really do it in the first place.
	I don't know.
	If I knew someone as a friend, they were part of the party, then sure.
	My friend's DJing a party, and I said, sure, I'd go with her.
	But if I don't know you, I'm a little scared, I can't lie.
	Promoters will just come up to you and be like, oh, come here.
	I'm like, by myself?
	I don't know, man.
	A little risky.
	So you've been here for one month, right?
	Yeah.
	Do you have a lot of friends in Miami?
	No.
	So who do you know here?
	Only boat owners.
	Shigga debbie.
	Um, we bet, we bet.
	Who do you know in Miami?
	Like, do you have friends?
	No?
	No, no friends.
	I am alone.
	Yeah, but who do you know?
	Do you know guys?
	Do you know...
	No, but I meet...
	No, but I meet...
	French guys, French girls, and...
	It's easy to have a friend here.
	Okay, so she's saying that she met people here, but at the same time, those people invited her to spots, right?
	Like places?
	They invited you to places?
	That's what she says, yeah.
	Guys and girls that speak French?
	Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
	Okay.
	Well, maybe that's how she trusts them because they speak French, but you never know.
	Yeah, I guess.
	I mean, she knew them, right?
	No.
	I can't tell.
	We're still in between.
	No, she doesn't know them.
	She met them here and they invited her out.
	She might meet some Haitians.
	Basically.
	Yeah, I mean, your Instagram definitely looked like someone that wanted to be taken out on a yacht.
	That's for sure.
	Yeah.
	100%.
	It's been a few.
	I mean, it is what it is.
	So, question.
	Do you ever think about safety when you go with people that you don't know?
	Of course, I think about safety.
	But it's like...
	I don't know.
	I met some friends out here through social media.
	And...
	I don't know.
	Like, just talk to them before you come.
	Call them on the phone.
	Because, let's say, for example, a girl's gonna go to a new country, a new place.
	This sounds so bad, you guys.
	I know.
	It sounds really bad.
	Because you see now, like, in real time, it's just like...
	Yeah, yeah, yeah.
	It's kind of weird.
	But no, honestly speaking, like, I think for girls, you go to any country, and you'll be fine because...
	Well, fine in terms of, like, people inviting you to places because you're a girl, but...
	Well, listen, I plan, like, a Miami trip.
	for my 21st and the reason why i really came alone is because all my friends were gonna be still gonna be like 20 and i was the only only one that's gonna be 21 you know so it's like no point for them to come if they can't get in anywhere i'm sure they can get in so you can party but they can't party well it's just like that was the vibe okay interesting um That was very confusing.
	That was a little bit confusing.
	You came alone?
	Yeah.
	And just because they're 20, you didn't bring anyone alone?
	I mean, like, why should I?
	I mean, I brought an 18-year-old with me.
	I mean, I was not going to come out here by myself.
	Really?
	No, I'd be too scared.
	Too scared.
	So let me get it straight.
	You planned a trip to Miami by yourself.
	Yeah.
	I had ChatGPT help me with the itinerary.
	Okay, okay.
	What's this thing with ChatGPT?
	I swear to God.
	Girls are using it for everything.
	Forget it, man.
	Sorry for all the stuff going on, but I'm using it to help me.
	Stupid stuff, like stupid shit.
	Has it been working?
	Because it's like Google, but it just gives you a simple answer.
	End up in Miami.
	Who put you on to?
	Who put you on to?
	Put me on.
	Who put me on?
	I don't know.
	My college professor.
	Chachi BT?
	Yeah.
	What would you be asking that?
	What do you mean?
	Oh, I don't know.
	Like, fun things to do in Miami.
	Shit like that.
	And it helps you book shit.
	Like, you know?
	It gives you websites.
	How about how to find a boyfriend?
	Oh, I don't be searching shit like that.
	I believe her.
	Wow!
	You don't care?
	How to find a boyfriend?
	She's like, I can find one anyways.
	It's a nice and simple one.
	Why would you want to search that?
	Because you said your standards are very low.
	You don't need a lot from a guy.
	So I would think it'd be easier.
	So you're saying, like, you're assuming I want a boyfriend.
	Oh, you don't want one?
	No.
	I think if the right man came along, you would look at it differently.
	Don't roll your eyes.
	Come on.
	I don't know.
	I just turned 21. I don't want a boyfriend.
	Young.
	Yeah, super young.
	She belongs to your boyfriend prior to this.
	I guess.
	So you say you broke up because of just growing apart?
	Yeah, basically.
	So you got tired of him?
	No, I didn't.
	It was her best friend.
	There you go.
	You said he was your best friend though, right?
	Yeah, we were really good friends.
	So what caused you guys to, like, grow apart?
	Was it because he...
	Oh, see, that's, like, getting into it.
	Just, like, things happening.
	Like, I don't want to, like, say too much about him.
	Things happening in his life, things happening in my life, where I'm going, where he's going, what I'm going to do with my future, what he's doing with his future.
	You guys still follow each other?
	Yeah, we just don't really talk, but...
	What?
	I don't block, like, people for no reason.
	Like, I just, I don't know.
	Did he cheat on you?
	No.
	No.
	I swear.
	What was so bad that you did a breakup?
	Just like, um...
	I don't know, I guess like effort over time.
	Just like, it didn't stick, so...
	I was like, okay, well...
	You're not putting in the same energy.
	That means he was fucking someone else.
	I don't think so.
	That's facts.
	If a dude stops putting in effort, he's fucking someone else.
	A dude's always fucking somebody just like a woman's always fucking somebody.
	It's always like that.
	Maybe.
	You think so?
	I think so.
	I can only speak for myself.
	As I said, I don't want to get too far into it.
	It does make sense.
	I know why, but I'm just not going to put anything else on him on the podcast.
	I'm guessing he didn't make a lot of money.
	He's also a student.
	Yeah.
	We got video bills, if you don't mind.
	Okay, give me your honest opinion on this video because I think a lot of women have good options, but they take it for granted because either he's not giving them what they want sometimes or either because He may be broke, but let's play the video quick to see what's up.
	All right.
	We have been together for four years.
	We have two kids, and he has worked so hard to provide everything we could ever ask for.
	He is a very good man, and he works very hard to give us a good life, which I really appreciate him for.
	But recently, it just...
	It just feels like I am existing in the marriage alone.
	I thought marrying a rich man would be great, but apart from being a provider, my husband is a very boring man.
	I look at my friends' love lives and it's just very much interesting compared to mine.
	They are not rich like us, but their husbands still create time for them to go out, go on vacations and have fun.
	But my husband never does any of it.
	And anytime I bring it up to him, he just says, if that's what I want, then that's what we will do.
	But that pisses me off even more because I don't want to be the one to tell him what to do.
	I want him to do it because he wants to, and I want him to surprise me with something to at least make our marriage romantic and interesting.
	He tells me he is working so we will have stability.
	He says I should be grateful for what we have.
	But I keep wondering if I'm supposed to be grateful for a life I don't even enjoy.
	And sometimes I try to think that maybe it's because we are both from different generations, because he is 46 and I am 24, but it doesn't help.
	I just need some guidance because I want to know if this is a phase in marriage that ends up passing, because I don't think I am ready to spend the rest of my life like this.
	Are you happy to see him when he comes home?
	No.
	And I want...
	We have been together for four years.
	Give me your first thoughts on this video.
	Is she ungrateful?
	Is she keeping it real?
	And we'll start here.
	She is ungrateful.
	Again, like, as a man, you gotta let her know from the very beginning, this is who the fuck I am.
	This is the stuff I have going on.
	You know, this doesn't fucking interest you.
	There's the fucking door.
	I'm always fucking busy.
	These men are always fucking busy.
	I have very little time in my fucking calendar for a woman.
	But I include her that one or two day a week because I have a business and all that other shit going on.
	But if she can't value that, if she don't respect that, if it comes to her too easy, then guess what?
	Four years later, she's going to be like, oh, fuck this dude.
	I'm getting bored.
	The problem is, I guarantee you that dude tried to lavish lifestyle harass, and then what ended up happening is she got used to that, and now it's boring.
	You can't do that out the gate.
	That's why I tell dudes, don't leave with your fucking wallets.
	Don't leave with that shit.
	If you got money, we all got money, right?
	We don't need to show people that we got money.
	I don't need to go take this girl to Kiki on the River.
	I don't need to do all that shit.
	I'm gonna take her somewhere like, you know, Moxie's or...
	Some other Italian restaurant or wherever around here.
	Or you take them sushi.
	It's just something chill.
	Get to know who the woman is.
	Some women do want that lifestyle.
	If that woman isn't your type or whatever, I would never wife up a woman that wants a particular lifestyle that is just...
	Even though I could provide it for her, why would I want to?
	Because that woman's gonna always be looking for the next best thing.
	That's not a woman that you want as a wife.
	That is a woman that you just have fun with.
	That's not a, you know, a woman that I want to raise my kids or any of that.
	It's just not.
	That's why I always, like, I try to, you know, anytime I see a woman like that, I'm just, like, disgusted, more or less.
	Like, you know, they have, like, all the surgery and stuff done.
	That's just not appealing.
	It's not appealing at all.
	That's what I was telling this young lady.
	It's like, you know, you don't got to get no surgery done.
	Just be yourself.
	I'm telling you, dudes value that more than anything else.
	Would you say he's correct or incorrect?
	Dudes will fuck anything.
	Fuck and relationship two different things.
	Okay.
	You can be in a relationship and he will fuck anything.
	I think she was keeping it real.
	I'm going to keep it real right here.
	I disagree with, like...
	A lot of the shit that you're saying.
	Go ahead.
	You don't even know what this girl looks like.
	And you're like creating a vision of her.
	And I'm sitting here saying like, is the guy next to me a mind reader?
	It's just a little bit weird.
	I'm not insulting you.
	No, go ahead.
	It's a little bit weird.
	It sounds like she was keeping it real.
	It sounds like you have this mentality of like, a man does this, a man does that.
	And you think like, this is attracted to women.
	Listen, a man needs to obviously provide, do all the stuff that men should do.
	This whole idea, like the way that you're acting, it comes off of like insecure.
	Like you have an ego and you're insecure at the same time.
	And you're fighting it.
	You have to lead, baby.
	I'm a leader.
	I'm a warrior.
	I will set the pace.
	She said four years.
	That's not long enough for shit.
	What are you talking about?
	She got bored.
	She's been with him for four years.
	She doesn't care about the money.
	And she's just bored because they're not having fun.
	What's so crazy about that?
	What do you mean?
	What's wrong with that?
	Why is she an evil, bad girl?
	I didn't say she was evil or bad.
	I'm just saying I wouldn't wipe her.
	You know the picture you're painting?
	I'm just wondering why.
	I mean, did the video, did you guys all watch the same video?
	But there was no girl in the video.
	You said tatted this, tatted that.
	Where'd that come from?
	I didn't say anything about tatted.
	Yes, you did.
	You said surgery, this, that.
	Yeah, I said what my preference was.
	When I see a woman, I don't look at superficial things.
	That's why I said don't leave with your wallet.
	We don't even know if the girl that was talking was that.
	You get what I'm saying?
	I'm just telling you what I like.
	I can't go with what you like.
	I can't go with this man likes.
	I can't go with Fresh likes.
	Chris.
	All y 'all do is like different stuff.
	I'm just telling you from my experience.
	I've been with a lot of women.
	You know what I'm saying?
	Let's not get into a competition about who gets more women.
	It's not about that.
	I think you would lose anyway.
	You don't want to cocktail me here, bro.
	It's not about that.
	I didn't call me to do that.
	Gotta go back to New York, baby.
	But I can tell you the reason why I say that is because I act the exact opposite of the way that you're coming off.
	And you probably get played.
	I don't...
	If you think so.
	I'm gonna be blunt with you, bro.
	You're the one who said you got cheated on, right?
	You sound like a beta.
	You sound like a beta, bro.
	100%.
	You sound like a beta.
	And you sound like a wannabe Andrew Tate type of guy.
	Oh, shit.
	Like a clown.
	How if I sound like an Andrew Tate?
	Because you're saying I'm a beta?
	Because why?
	You try to try me?
	I just said something to you.
	Do beta try people?
	Do betas try people?
	Bro, we're on a live podcast right now.
	Get up and try you.
	Relax.
	Just don't start calling names.
	Why are your face getting red, Dan?
	Because I'm getting excited.
	Alright, man.
	I think you're the beta.
	You've got so much to prove.
	I run this, I do that, I do this.
	So you're already affected by me.
	Look at that shit, man.
	I'm affected by you, bro.
	Are you kidding?
	You need this much to me.
	This much.
	A real piece, then.
	So would you prefer a leader or someone lay back like him?
	Who would you prefer to lead you as a man?
	I didn't say I'm not a leader.
	Wait, what?
	It's a leader?
	Well, he's saying for his girl, he's going to lead the way.
	For example, he's going to have a life for her to follow, not just have a random idea for her to bring up.
	So, for example, he's talking about his lifestyle is simple, not too crazy, not too lavish, but she's going to be taken care of and enjoy it.
	He's saying it's like he's kind of being like a...
	No, no, no.
	I'm saying the way he's acting, he's talking as if he knows all women.
	Yeah.
	And like...
	You don't know all women.
	Did I say I knew all women?
	The way you were talking and acting.
	Like you know all women.
	Did I say I knew all women?
	That's how you were acting.
	Did I say I knew all women?
	Not that I heard.
	You didn't say that.
	She says no in French.
	Calvin, what do you think, bro?
	Well, here's the thing.
	I think a stayed-at-home mom, it's a privilege.
	And if you go by 1950s standards, where a man protects and provides for women's everything, that woman has to be a virgin on her wedding night.
	If that word does not describe you, you're not a queen, you're not special, you're not a prize, you're just an average woman that works 9 to 5. That's being said, the worst thing a man can do is to give a woman too much freedom.
	Like, free time.
	It's literally like living next to a nuclear power plant.
	Like, I know people that are, like, my boy's, like, well off.
	His wife got too much time.
	And when women got too much time, they're not productive, man.
	They start scratching the surface and looking for problems.
	Include her at least for a couple of hours a day, you know, to help you do...
	Something.
	You know what I mean?
	Because when women, bro, they get bored.
	They start getting through social media.
	TikTok tells them, hey, you don't deserve your man.
	You deserve better.
	She goes to IG.
	And then next thing you know, oh, you deserve Kim Kardashian lifestyle.
	Girl strips.
	Girl strips.
	And women are very, like, they get influenced.
	You know what I mean?
	They're very easily...
	You just said that about the friends thing, too.
	Speak on that.
	Yeah, but it's different when a girl says, hey, this is my fucking warrior.
	Instead of saying, oh, this is my best friend and my boyfriend.
	Get the fuck out of here.
	She also said something about she talks to her friends.
	So, sometimes talking to friends, like, I've seen some girls talk themselves out of relationships just because one of the girls is single, one of the other girls may not be single, and so they kind of want to flock together a little bit.
	You want to respond to that about friends?
	Because they're friends when you said your guy should be your best friend.
	Yeah, I still stand by it.
	I think that the person you date should be, like, your friend.
	I mean, there's nothing there if you're not friends in the first place.
	Yeah, you can be masculine, you can be all that later on, but in the beginning, there's got to be some kind of friendship there.
	Do you think that for your...
	I guess, like, how to put this?
	Do you think your last man had, as the best friend, everything that you wanted, but it fizzled out, right?
	Do you think if he was more of a leader, that would help as well?
	Can we not talk about the last man more?
	Because I can tell from your response, well, I won't bust you far, but I can tell he was really a leader in your life.
	No, I'll say that.
	Yeah, we were both young.
	I mean, I'm 22. He's a student, too.
	I mean, what do you expect?
	Like, he's still building a life for himself, as am I. So what am I going to expect from him to be like, you know, very largely accomplished at 22, have all this, you know, great stuff?
	Obviously, he's not going to be able to provide that.
	I knew that getting into the relationship.
	So what do you want in a man now from that prior relationship?
	Right now?
	Right now, I'm not really, like, even thinking about dating someone else.
	I'm kind of content with just, like, figuring out my own thing, doing my school.
	I still have three years of school left, so I'm focusing a lot more on that.
	But definitely, future-wise, I agree.
	A leader.
	Someone masculine.
	Masculine.
	I still agree.
	Friends.
	Funny.
	Things in common.
	Let's be honest here.
	He needs money.
	Yeah, obviously you need money.
	I don't really care much for, like, big things.
	I don't care much for, like, designer.
	I don't care much for, like, yachts and all this crazy stuff.
	Wait, wait, wait.
	So, question.
	Do you want your man to pay the rent fully?
	I mean, I haven't even thought about that.
	I'm going to have a good job when I'm older.
	It would be great if I have kids.
	So, half-half then.
	Okay, I'm not a big fan of half-half.
	I can't lie.
	I'm a girl.
	I don't want that, okay?
	But, like, if I was, like, later on down the road, like, once you have a kid, like, you don't want to be going half-half.
	Like, I want to take care of the kid.
	I want to do my thing.
	So then, if you have, like, what, two or three kids, would you want to work to?
	Preferably not.
	Okay, so why the hell are you working right now?
	Just fucking, uh, just focus on getting a man so when you have kids, you know, you're good to go.
	Like, you're spending three years of your youth to fucking work and not use your degree later on in the future.
	Just work on getting a man right now and then have some kids and then call it a day.
	Yeah, but, like, that means, I don't know.
	That means, like, dating.
	Okay, you're saying, like, to get a man.
	Obviously, that would not be a man.
	Like, don't waste three years of life working and then all of a sudden your degree is useless down the line.
	It's a good degree.
	I'm in school.
	I want to be a speech pathologist.
	Oh, so you want to help fresh out?
	What?
	You know what's funny?
	She don't understand.
	She don't understand what you just said, Chris.
	That's fine.
	You need it more than me, nigga.
	So basically, space pathology, right?
	That's like, that's useless right now.
	It's useless?
	Yeah, like, does it make money?
	How much money does it make?
	It pays from 90 to 150 an hour, depending on where you are.
	Yeah, yeah, actually, if you do private practice, the waitlist currently where I'm from is about two years to get your kid to talk to a speech pathologist.
	Yeah, but basically, if you have two kids, you don't want to work, so just, I don't know.
	To me, I feel like you're just working just because that's a safety net for you because you're not sure if you can actually get a man that you actually want, so you want to pay $50.50.
	I haven't even thought about that.
	Because if you was confident and getting a man, you would have just got a man right now and got married or have kids.
	Like, why waste three years of life doing something that you're just going to throw away later?
	I mean, you know what?
	Yeah, I guess you're right.
	I'm excited about this career path, though.
	I'm kind of excited.
	I'm enjoying learning.
	I enjoy going to school.
	Listen, you're young right now.
	I highly recommend you don't focus on school too much.
	So you're just telling me to find a rich man?
	College is truly a waste.
	Unless you're going to be something very...
	like an attorney or something.
	So I guess the question is, are you willing to give up?
	Or I guess give a man the power to take care of you.
	At that point, let's say I did stop going to school and I just decided to date some rich man.
	I'm kind of giving away my freedom later on, right?
	If I finish this degree, I will always have that degree to have in the back, to fall back on.
	I'm not going to be in some shitty situation.
	Meanwhile, if I was to say right now, 22, screw school, I'm going to go find a rich man.
	Sure, I'll have everything I want, but why do you think this rich guy is with me?
	Because I'm young?
	Because I'm 22. And guess what?
	By the time I'm 30-something, bye-bye.
	New, like, 22-year-old girl comes in, 19-year-old, doesn't matter.
	Yeah, but when you get married, though, he can't just leave, like, randomly.
	If he doesn't leave, he'll have to pay for it.
	That's a huge extreme, though.
	Because, like, most girls...
	That's true.
	So either way, you're gonna be taken care of.
	Because at the end of the day, if he marries you, which should be the end goal there, you're good.
	You realize I've never even thought about this in my head, okay?
	Like two weeks ago, I had a boyfriend, so like, I get what you're saying.
	As of right now, I'm still gonna continue to do my little degree.
	I'm enjoying it, okay?
	I'm still working towards it.
	Alright, but the seed is there though, right?
	Yeah, sure.
	You've planted a seed, and I'll think about it.
	Good job, Chris.
	Hopefully it waters and not become old and dry like most girls nowadays.
	Because when they hit 35, their seeds are old and wrinkly.
	Well, eggs.
	And they can't have babies anymore.
	Before you know it, you want to fetch a fit crying about it.
	Yeah.
	Can you get a napkin?
	So, real quick, I mean, we mentioned before how men and women date and how it can be an issue, but from your opinion, Sean, and we'll go around this way, what's the number of things you think women are doing wrong in relationships nowadays?
	Like, you're doing it wrong completely to turn a guy off?
	They just have too many pre-notions and lists for qualifiers is what I think, and that's the reason why a lot of women are single.
	And a lot of men are singles because they have too many expectations.
	And so they're going for a very small pool of men where there's a bunch of men that have maybe a lot of good qualities, but they're not seeing those good qualities because they have this list that was made imaginatively by social media, whatever the case is.
	So I think that's the main issue is social media is definitely 100% the issue.
	And then dating apps too.
	I mean, you guys swipe, swipe, swipe, swipe.
	You know, there's like a million dudes on there.
	And they're probably not talking about much.
	It's probably some stupidness, probably like a guy fishing.
	But on the flip side of it, I see women posing the same stuff too.
	It's like high risk, high reward, or pineapple pizza, some dumb shit like that.
	You know what I mean?
	So I think we got rid of social media.
	And I will say, back in the early 2000s, I don't know if you boys remember, but times were different back then, right?
	You could go to the club.
	You could talk to any woman you wanted to.
	There was no Instagram.
	Anything like that, and you could actually have a conversation, and that's how you would, you know, interact with those women, and that's how you would date them.
	There would be no, oh, let me add you on Instagram, and then she wants to look at your Instagram, and then she's got to see you pop a bottle.
	You can meet the baddest woman in your area, but that's as far as it went, was your area, you know what I mean?
	Good point.
	What about you, bro?
	No, I agree.
	I said the same thing last time.
	Social media definitely...
	I've screwed things up for everyone, guys and girls.
	I think it gives girls exactly what you were saying.
	They get tons of attention that they normally wouldn't have got years ago before social media.
	And they entertain it.
	And they look for...
	What's this thing?
	Grants Greener on the other side?
	Yeah.
	That's what they tend to lead with, with that mentality.
	But men too, to be honest.
	Well, certain men...
	But for different reasons.
	We're not talking about...
	Yeah, not every guy, though.
	We're talking about looks for men.
	Top, I was at 20%, if, at best.
	What about you?
	I think love and morals died when social media, Instagram, was invented.
	Damn.
	You know?
	It's a sad reality, but it's truth.
	Like, back in the days, girls had to know someone that knew someone that knew someone else to just get invited to, like...
	To a yacht party or to a house, you know what I mean?
	Like a nice house party.
	Today, they can get invited nationwide from different countries.
	Their access to men is so vast, it's beyond their reach.
	And it's, you know, I thank feminist movement, to be honest.
	Like, it reveals the true nature of women.
	Just look at modern-day women, you know?
	Like, bro, everywhere you go, you see beautiful girls at a restaurant, three, four of them, they're all single.
	Yeah, 100%.
	Why?
	Why is that?
	They're all single.
	So, you want to tell me, like, for instance, you want a guy that goes to work, he's quiet, he's whatever.
	What time is it?
	11:45, before one o 'clock I can find you ten of them down the street, but you're not gonna want them.
	You're not gonna want them.
	I think women, I think the reason a lot of women are single is because they're, this is gonna sound, let me explain, they're insecure, very very insecure.
	And what happens is...
	How dare you?
	Many girls.
	What happens is they're so insecure that when a guy finally shows them attention or this or that, they start to question, how is this guy attracted to me?
	Because they think so low of themselves.
	And they say, this guy's willing to put up with me, willing to treat me well, willing to do this.
	And at the same time, inside, they already think so low of themselves that they say, this guy must be crazy.
	He wants to put up with me.
	He wants to date me.
	This guy's fucking crazy.
	So then they dismiss him and they try to go after a guy that they're not gonna get anyway.
	They're gonna go after a guy that's gonna treat them like shit and push them away.
	And then the cycle continues.
	I think a lot of it has to do with girls being very insecure.
	Can you respond to that real quick?
	You're nodding your head, so I know you agree.
	I do agree.
	I do think that a lot of females are very insecure.
	I'm not surprised.
	With social media, as you were saying, it's a constant comparison.
	You're comparing yourself to all these other women online.
	It did destroy love and morals.
	I mean, you look at OnlyFans, you look at every Instagram post ever.
	It's just destroying relationships.
	It's constantly, grass is greener on the other side.
	A constant post.
	Wait, wait, wait.
	But didn't you break up with your man because you thought you could do better?
	Got you!
	Well...
	That's because...
	No, I hate how we keep bringing this up because I didn't want to talk about this.
	I'm not even going to answer that.
	It's because I know what I want for myself.
	And I know that it just wasn't it.
	You got it.
	So you're strong and independent.
	So you broke up with your man.
	Got you.
	I'm a PhD.
	It was mutual, okay?
	No, it wasn't mutual.
	Okay, keep it real though.
	I'll stop after this.
	Let's keep it real here.
	The guy you were dating back in the day was cool, nice friend, but his future prospects weren't that high.
	And you said, you know what?
	I can figure out this by myself and get my degree and move forward and be happier finding somebody else.
	No?
	At some point.
	I don't know if I thought like that.
	Oh, I didn't want to talk about this.
	Yeah, I guess there's future prospects down the line.
	Once again, like I said, I haven't really looked at future prospects.
	It was literally two weeks ago.
	I'm just...
	I'm just kind of happy figuring out myself.
	I go to the gym, I go to school, I do my thing.
	Do you feel more free?
	Do I feel more free?
	I'm the same amount of free I was before.
	I always had my freedom to do what I wanted to.
	Do you feel happier?
	Yeah, honestly.
	I'm pretty happy, I can't lie.
	Were you bored?
	Was I bored?
	You know what I said about the boredom thing, right?
	It's just real.
	Yeah, no, it is.
	And it's funny because there's like a couple things you could do.
	Cheat, maybe like a lie.
	But when you give a girl the idea to be bored, you make a very good point.
	She's up to no good, bro.
	Because she's bored.
	And at that point, you're out of her frame of reference.
	Did you hear that video that you played?
	She said, my life is so boring.
	We're not doing the stuff, whatever.
	That...
	She's comparing him to all the other fucking dudes that she was with.
	You know what I mean?
	She's comparing him to Calvin.
	She's comparing him to Sean, to you, to you.
	So that's why virginity, a woman's purity, it's the ultimate price.
	Like, it's always been the most valuable thing about a woman.
	So if she didn't have those experiences with all those other men, she wouldn't feel like she's, she would just probably feel like, oh, this is real life.
	You know, I'm a homestay mom.
	This is like my...
	You know, I'm raising kids.
	I'm loving my husband.
	He's working hard.
	You know what I mean?
	But now she's comparing him and social media constantly in her head.
	You deserve better.
	You deserve better.
	Every page she scrolls is like, you deserve better life.
	You deserve better life.
	60% of white women in America, look at the statistics.
	60% of women in America are on antipsychotic.
	They're on antidepressants.
	Like, bro, that's...
	Six out of ten women.
	You know how fucking dangerous that is?
	That's scary.
	That's bad.
	To your point, though, Calvin, if you look at actual TikTok results and the algorithm, it pushes to women a certain agenda.
	And you'd be surprised.
	You have a woman in a household that's a stay-at-home mom, doesn't go out to clubs, bars.
	You're like, all right, cool.
	She's amazing.
	She's safe.
	She's good to go.
	But her cell phone is a danger.
	Because now, go on TikTok.
	Oh, you can do better than this.
	Oh, your man is not treating you right.
	Oh, he didn't buy your Birkin bag?
	Well, you know why, right?
	Like, you're about to speak on it.
	It's consumerism.
	So consumerism is what drives social media, right?
	That's why, like, there was more women on Instagram when it first came out than there were men, right?
	Because women wanted to look at fashion.
	They wanted to look at all these different things.
	And so that drove men to get on the platform because they see women are on it.
	And so...
	This whole fashion, lifestyle, everything got sold through Instagram and got sold, hey, I can do better because I see this influencer with this guy on a jet or whatnot.
	And then it just keeps perpetuating that line of thinking.
	I want to add something.
	Have you guys seen the new algorithm on Instagram?
	Let's say just a simple video of a guy, whatever.
	It could be nature.
	It could be anything.
	If you click on those three dots where you can, like, it gives you this list where you can click.
	You're not interested.
	There's a new algorithm.
	A girl in a bikini or showing, like, her boobs and ass and whatever.
	You click on that three dot.
	That not interested button does not show up.
	It's totally gone.
	Really?
	I saw it yesterday.
	Because I was scrolling through and then I'm like, I don't look at shit like that.
	So I'm like, I want to click on not interested.
	I'm like, weird.
	And then I scroll up.
	I see another video and I clicked on it.
	And then it says not interested, but totally unrelated.
	So those videos you can't even like.
	Click that you're not interested in them anymore.
	Wow.
	So it's literally force-fed to you.
	Look it up.
	Literally look it up.
	Damn.
	I'm going to check it out.
	So in your case, you said you don't want a man.
	You're 21. What's the goal here at this point?
	The goal?
	Live my life.
	The goal for you.
	Yeah.
	What age do you want to get married?
	30?
	I don't know if I want to get married.
	It's bad out here.
	Do you want kids?
	No.
	You don't want kids?
	Alright.
	As of right now.
	You'll change your mind in a couple of years.
	I don't know.
	Well, I mean, you are pretty young, though, but still, I mean, the mentality is have fun now, enjoy it, and get serious later.
	Yeah, I guess so.
	What's the goal for you?
	Like, in life?
	Yeah.
	Get married, have kids, travel the world.
	Snowboard, play tennis, be happy?
	Well, you're best at right now, man.
	You're 20, what, too?
	But, you know, like, a woman loses 80% of their eggs by the time they hit 30, so by the time you're 30, you've lost 80% of the best eggs you've had.
	I know, you've all been telling me to find a rich man and just get married.
	No, no, no, you can't.
	I didn't say that.
	Find someone that you can grow with.
	You know what I mean?
	But meanwhile, if you want to do your school, good kudos to you.
	But know that you're fighting time.
	Because here's the thing.
	Women are born on top of a mountain.
	And men are born in the valleys.
	Society judges a woman by how low she falls.
	And at the same time, society judges a man how high he can climb.
	You know what I mean?
	So, for you to lock down that guy...
	And, you know, try to build something with them, like grow with them, you know what I mean?
	And instead of waiting on the finish line.
	Because, listen, I'm talking for myself.
	I don't know about the brothers over here.
	I did not go through all this pain and suffering, take so much L in life, just to give it to one fucking girl.
	If I wanted to give all of this to one girl, I would have worked at McDonald's.
	W, awkward, man.
	Damn, keeping it real, bro.
	That's how, like, that's, like, this is not a flex, it's just reality, like, men in my caliber, men in my caliber, like, friends that I know, we're in the same level and higher, that's how we think.
	So you have a man over here, six figures plus a year, more for sure, successful, in shape, telling you that as a woman, understandably, he'll provide for you, but, like, he worked his whole life to be where he's at, and wants more than one girl.
	What's your response to that?
	That's his preference.
	You don't care?
	No, it's knowing my value.
	Yeah, like, what am I gonna do about it?
	Like, that's what he wants.
	But you're gonna want a man, if not him, similar.
	No, she doesn't want a man.
	She won't be single and no kids.
	I'm just saying, like, I don't...
	I don't know.
	Like, you can't change people.
	But she's young, you know what I mean?
	She's not thinking about all of that right now.
	She's living hot girl summer life.
	That's why I always say to all the brothers that are listening right now, do not fucking be a retirement plan for a woman that chose to spend their early 20s living hot girl summer life, partying with Chad and Tyrone.
	I want to touch on that too.
	You're gonna end up fucking paying for her as soon as or later.
	I promise you.
	Look, she's 24. She's already comparing, "Oh, my marriage is fucking..." Bitch, you're not fucking doing anything.
	You're sitting home.
	Like, what do you want to do?
	Bro, as a man, life is so fucking hard.
	As soon as you step your feet out of that door, it's a fucking war.
	Every fucking man out there that want to take a piece of your fucking meat.
	They want to take your job, your wife, everything.
	A to Z. You're fighting every fucking body out there.
	The last thing you want to do is to come home to a nagging woman that looks like fucking sad.
	Oh, we didn't do this.
	Bro, fuck out of here.
	You're right.
	That's why you gotta be a fucking savage.
	You have to be a fucking savage out here if you're a dude.
	Especially nowadays.
	I mean, you'll get eaten up, spitting alive.
	You just will not survive out here.
	Yeah, but these girls don't care, man.
	Yeah, that's a very good point.
	So, I guess we kind of skip you for a little bit here.
	In your life, what is your goal?
	To stay in America?
	To find a husband?
	To...
	Get a college degree.
	What's your goal?
	Party, yes.
	Travel party?
	Yes.
	Now I would like to travel.
	By yourself or with a man?
	No, with a man.
	If I find a man, I would like to travel with him.
	But in my future, I would like to have children.
	How many?
	Two.
	Two?
	Yes.
	And marriage?
	Yes, my age is.
	How old are you again?
	What?
	How old are you again?
	How old?
	How many years?
	Age?
	Oh, 22. 22?
	Yeah.
	So, if you found the guy right now, would you marry him and travel with him now?
	Not now.
	What age?
	She wouldn't accumulate that.
	She spilled that money, though.
	Yeah, yeah.
	What age?
	30. 30?
	30, yes.
	He has to wait.
	Eight years.
	Wait, you said 24 or 22?
	Yeah.
	How old?
	What age?
	22. 22. So he has to wait eight years for you to be ready.
	So the man, let's say you find a man now.
	Yeah.
	He has to wait eight years to travel with you and get married.
	Yeah, but not chilled for the moment.
	But not chilled.
	But he's going to invest eight years of money to you.
	On travel, on expenses, and all this stuff, and then you may or may not want to marry him at the end.
	Well, she's going to take a lot of pictures on those trips and add it to her resume on social media.
	And dicks.
	So, yeah, you're kind of cooked, not a lie.
	Bro, I'm sorry, but if I take a girl out, like, bro, I've gone on a date, you know, like, back in the days with girls like...
	Because I see, like, girls, they go out with a guy they're not even interested in him.
	She's only there to flex on her girlfriends and make sure that two of her fucking last exes notice that she's out with someone.
	I pay attention.
	I don't drink.
	As soon as the guy...
	Gotcha, bitch!
	I've seen guys, like, clean-cut, like, blue-collar, going out with a girl, and this whole time she's like, hmm, hmm, hmm, hmm, he's talking, engaging, asking questions, and she's just, like, answering.
	As soon as he went to the bathroom, she grabbed her phone.
	Yeah.
	I would dip out in a heartbeat.
	Messaging.
	Messaging.
	I've done it too.
	Bro, one time it happened to me.
	Because I saw that.
	I went to the bathroom and she did the story.
	I swear to God, this is a true story.
	I came back.
	I came back.
	Because in the restroom, I waited for a couple of extra minutes.
	I checked.
	She posted it and I'm not there.
	Fucking food that I'm posting, I'm not going to be in there.
	Bro, I went back again.
	I ordered everything on the menu.
	I told her, wait, I got something in the car.
	I went to the car.
	I got, like, asked for my key.
	I dipped and I fucking blocked her.
	I left her with a fat fucking tab.
	Let's go!
	I always make sure for the first couple of dates that the woman puts her phone away.
	And we always do that first couple of dates.
	Once she becomes my girlfriend and we start dating long term, then it's a little bit different.
	Then we can bust out phones, do what we gotta do.
	But for the most part, first couple of dates, that's like a red flag.
	She starts busting out her phone and stuff.
	I wouldn't even deal with it.
	Sean, every time a girl tells me, oh, I'm not one of those.
	If I got a dollar for every time I heard that line, I would be richer than Elon Musk.
	Damn.
	You could buy us all Lambos.
	I don't do that.
	I'm not one of those.
	Yeah, I'm special.
	That's why.
	If a guy asks you on a date to put your phone away, would you put your phone away?
	Hell no.
	Put my phone away?
	Nah, nigga.
	I never put my phone away for a date.
	I guarantee she would.
	It's according to the man and his delivery.
	Yeah, true.
	But let's say he's your type and he wants to get to know you better.
	Would you not put your phone away to talk to the guy?
	I mean, yeah, I would.
	To talk to him, yeah.
	Okay.
	Would you?
	My dad didn't let me go on my phone when I was talking to him.
	So it's not even a question.
	I put my phone away.
	I would get mad if I see one of my friends start pulling out their phone while we're talking.
	I'm like, bro, what are you doing?
	Let me put that away.
	We're having a conversation.
	So for me personally, that's never been an issue.
	That's the way I was raised.
	If I was in the car with my dad and he's driving and I start going on my phone, instantly he's like, what are you doing?
	Both your parents together?
	No, they're not.
	But your dad is active in your life?
	Very active in my life.
	Fresh.
	Um, men actually demographically, uh, raises kids way better than, than, than a single mom and even a two parents household, because a man's like a father's first priority.
	It's her safety.
	You know, men don't think with their emotion, they're like more logical.
	You know what I mean?
	When I, let's say I played when I was a kid, I fell in like on a bicycle.
	My first time I fell, I got up like tears came down.
	My dad looked at me.
	And that's all he needed to do, you know what I mean?
	Yeah.
	Other than, like, your mom is, like, going to cuddle you.
	Oh, no, whatever.
	That's why she's, like, I think she's more disciplined and she's, like, more hardcore.
	Like, because, like, she was raised by your father, right?
	I was always closer with my dad.
	Bro, you got to see it's so important for...
	If you're a guy that worked hard in your life and you're in your 30s, that you want to somehow settle with a girl and you're testing the water, bro, number one thing, she gotta be tattoo-free, debt-free, have a very good relationship with her father, both her parents in a marriage, you know what I mean?
	And no whole friends.
	Have a great relationship with God.
	You know, these are the traits that you need to, like, no tattoos.
	These are the traits that you need to look for.
	If you, if you, we all heard of it.
	Like, if you ignore red flags, now you're going to pay for it later.
	I promise you.
	Good point.
	I think the thing with tattoos is definitely a keeper.
	But I'm curious, like, would you disqualify a girl for a tattoo?
	No.
	Why?
	Because I have tattoos.
	And for some people, it's like an art thing.
	Like, I've dated.
	Some women, they are artists.
	Like, they paint, and that's their occupation.
	And so, for them, tattoos are art.
	And for me, some of my tattoos have meaning, you know, and it's more insightful than just, you know, hey, I like that drawing.
	I'm going to throw it on my arm.
	Like, it means something to me, you know what I mean?
	So, for a lot of women, like, I can't speak for, but, like, the women that I have dated, it's meant, like, you know, something special to them, you know what I'm saying?
	But you could agree, though, that for the most part, women with tattoos are kind of out there.
	Not necessarily.
	You go to college?
	True.
	But on an average, though, tattoos...
	I can't say that, because nowadays everyone has tattoos.
	I hear women say, oh, I got this tattoo because I was going through such a hard time.
	Like, you needed a label to put on yourself for you to be reminded for the rest of your life.
	It's the Medusa tattoo that I can't stand.
	I'm so sorry.
	So they, I don't know if I can say this essay, that's fine.
	Yeah, so they represent like essay.
	I don't understand if you were essayed, why would you put Medusa on yourself?
	Like, it represents it.
	So it's like a constant reminder.
	Me personally, I can't imagine like if that happened, I wouldn't want that.
	It's like, why would you want to look down and be like, yes, that happened.
	I don't know.
	I just think it's one of the dumbest tattoo ideas I have seen.
	That is an instant red flag.
	Well, a lot of women does that like you.
	I hear women, you know, oh, I'm on a spiritual journey.
	Listen, listen, ladies.
	Ain't no fucking reason.
	There's no reason for you to align your chakras, eating vegans, doing yoga, you know, in the end, go eat the same disconnected ass dick.
	That's real as fuck.
	There's no reason to do all of that, you know what I mean?
	I'm a spiritual journey.
	Oh, my journey.
	Every time a bitch say I'm on a journey, a journey of fucking what?
	Yeah, free spirits for a new go.
	Definitely, I don't date any woman that says they're a free spirit.
	I'm like, nah, I'm good.
	Unless I'm just trying to have fun.
	So, he just said in a nutshell, you're doing all this healthy lifestyle, living this journey, so to speak, and then you mess with Dirty Date Rodney.
	Does that make sense?
	What the fuck?
	What the fuck?
	What do you mean?
	Stay away from a woman that uses the word toxic.
	I'm on a journey.
	He was abusive.
	Narcissist.
	Bro, narcissist.
	As soon as I hear those words, I already think this is going to be a one-night stand.
	I mean, he's not lying.
	He's not lying.
	I swear.
	He's not lying at all.
	Are you single?
	I'm in a relationship with God.
	Are you single?
	Sounds like a situation show.
	It sounds like you're single, but you're not single.
	I'm in a relationship with God.
	So you're single?
	I'll tell you later.
	Hey, focus on...
	You're giving a lot of...
	I'm wondering if you're in a relationship.
	I have a lot of experience.
	It's not a flex.
	There's certain things I have enough experience in life and I just...
	Bro, I'm the Chuck Norris of all women.
	I'm literally the womantology of all women.
	Oh yeah?
	Interesting.
	Listen, I know where I'm at.
	I'm at the Fresh and Fit Podcast.
	But again, I'm going to keep it real.
	I'm authentic.
	It sounds like a lot of people are just saying things as if they know all women and they get women left and right and they're the pimps and they get girls.
	I'm questioning it.
	I'm wondering like the guy on the side of me.
	Are you getting girls left and right?
	Is his name?
	Sean.
	Are you getting girls left and right?
	I don't know what you think, Fresh.
	You know me.
	He definitely is.
	He gets a lot.
	So I think the question is here, do you think their strategy works or doesn't work?
	For what, though?
	To smash or to be in a relationship?
	Because they're all single, they said.
	I'm in a relationship.
	I said I was.
	Oh, but you're in a relationship?
	Yeah.
	Interesting.
	Okay.
	So what's the question?
	And he's kind of single, so...
	So what's the question?
	Do you think it actually works well?
	I think that...
	What, trying to pretend and flex on social media?
	Do I think that works?
	Well, he's keeping it real.
	No, I'm saying, but people don't know who he is.
	So what I'm saying, do I think that works?
	Maybe?
	No, I don't.
	I don't think that works.
	Well, he said being a leader.
	Like, the idea of, like, a leader.
	What is...
	What's a leader?
	Someone who has a huge social media following?
	What is a leader?
	I have one of those, too, but that's not what I mean.
	I know, but, like, what does that mean by...
	What do you mean by a leader?
	You make a decision and people follow it.
	You encourage the masses.
	You encourage your woman.
	Y 'all guys...
	Build together based off the path that you have set.
	So, like, it's sit, they sit.
	Not to that extent.
	That's like a dog and master behavior, but that's not, like, leader, you know, I guess, you know, wife behavior.
	I don't know.
	I think you're just taking a whole big generality and just...
	I think you've been drinking something.
	It doesn't matter!
	We can move on, man.
	We'll get some chats here.
	That was pretty funny.
	What do we got, Bills?
	Okay.
	Emorphia69 says, the responses to the video of the woman caller who wants to give up are very telling.
	Men do things irrespective of feelings because we are truly duty-bound.
	Women are weak bitches, like Purple Hat, placate the vaginas in the world while their own is waffling around.
	Marriage is buying both to one another in the eyes of God, and she's duty-bound like he is.
	Purple Hat is more of a woman than an actual woman.
	You want to respond to him?
	He's calling you a woman, basically.
	Who?
	This chat?
	Yeah, he said you're acting like more of a woman.
	That's the thing.
	I'm so confident.
	I don't give a fuck how I come off.
	I know exactly my situation.
	I don't need to flex.
	I don't need to pretend.
	Think whatever you want.
	You what?
	Let me ask you a question real quick.
	Ask me whatever you want, brother.
	How do you approach a woman?
	Let's say all three of these women are at...
	What's the restaurant?
	Let's use Moxie's.
	Moxie's!
	All these women are at the bar right now.
	They're not looking at you.
	They're looking at the screen.
	They're talking to a friend of them, two talking with each other.
	She's, you know, French, so she's enjoying American football that she hasn't seen before.
	And you're trying to introduce yourself to them and it's a big game.
	How would you do it?
	First off...
	I'm not going to answer that right now, but I'm going to tell you why.
	Because the real answer is...
	You what?!
	Stop that first.
	The real answer is, it depends on the moment, the situation, what's happening, what's going on.
	But that's the situation.
	This idea, like, you have this rule.
	That's what I was trying to get back to.
	You sound like you have a manual, and, like, you're the pimp daddy man, and you have the manual, and I should sign up to your manual.
	Pimp daddy.
	Pimp daddy cars.
	I have a question to you.
	I have a question to you.
	If me and you went out to Moxie's...
	Do you think you would end up pulling more girls than me?
	Let's just get to the bottom line.
	I'm just wondering.
	You know what?
	I don't wonder.
	Let's go there.
	You're trying to flex on me.
	I did try to flex on you.
	I'm asking you a question.
	You're doing it in a subtle way.
	So let's just get right to the point.
	Do you think so?
	Yes or no?
	Yes.
	There you go.
	You know what?
	Here's a better evaluation of this actual question.
	Ladies here on the panel, you got to choose one guy out of these two to go on a date with or if he enjoys quality time.
	Who would you pick and why?
	I prefer not to say.
	No, no.
	I want your honest answer.
	Come on.
	Oh, my God.
	Who would you pick out of these two?
	What was their names again?
	Sean.
	Johnny.
	Okay, Sean and Johnny.
	Can I ask them questions real quick?
	Yeah, that's fine.
	Go ahead.
	Okay.
	Two questions, that's it.
	Two questions, okay.
	So, what do you like to do for fun, you guys?
	It's a simple question.
	Oh, man.
	I like to eat.
	I like to go out sometimes.
	I like to smoke hookah.
	Have a good time.
	Okay.
	What do I like to do for fun?
	Yeah.
	I work a lot.
	I like to go out on my spare time for fun.
	I like to do a lot of activity.
	I like to do jet skiing, things like that.
	That's fun.
	I also have to say something.
	I'm not really into white guys.
	So then why the fuck you want to ask me questions then?
	Yeah, what the fuck is the point?
	Oh, damn it.
	What the fuck did you ever say?
	What?
	What?
	That was funny.
	I guess what?
	I guess what I'm trying to say is, and I know the chat can say whatever the fuck.
	Bro, she's the bottom.
	You're funny as hell.
	No, I'm saying what I'm trying to say is, and the chat can say whatever they want.
	There is no right or wrong answer.
	There is no how to get this, how to do this.
	Anyone telling you that?
	And that's why I'm saying this.
	It's full of shit.
	There's no, like, you do this, you get this, you do this, you get that.
	That's a cat.
	It's a lie.
	Anyone else saying that?
	Are you saying that, like, there's not a method to the madness?
	For example, if I have tested the dating market and it's failed me multiple times, but I choose this new strategy and it works, it's not better than saying, oh, I'm just going to try and figure shit out.
	So basically, we've done the hard work by failing so many times.
	We understand how to get results.
	Is that a bad thing?
	Say it one more time because I'm a little confused about that.
	The point is, he mentioned picking up girls, right?
	Yeah.
	So you mentioned that.
	So if it's working and it's going very well, then my strategy works towards getting girls.
	Yeah, whatever works for you works for you.
	Exactly.
	But there is a method to the madness where certain things do work and others don't.
	Yeah, but for what?
	For smashing?
	For wifing?
	Everything.
	So he's saying his strategy works.
	He's a girlfriend.
	He's successful.
	And she's submissive to him.
	Sorry.
	That's great.
	That doesn't mean that my method or his method or your method doesn't work.
	You see what I mean?
	Like this idea of a leader, people think that, does he have a social media following?
	That's the real.
	Keep it raw.
	You know that.
	You know fresh.
	That's what the first thing girls check who are looking for that.
	Does he have a following?
	Meanwhile, the person without a following could have millions of dollars.
	Live a lifestyle that they claim that they want, but they're not flexing on social media or they're not on social media.
	They're not monetizing it.
	They're not on it.
	You're talking about social status, which is a thing.
	Also, also, women...
	That's what I'm saying.
	Social status is a thing for girls.
	Because of social media, unfortunately.
	To try to work you for your money.
	I don't want to end up with a girl working me for my money.
	Not really for money.
	It's more like they...
	It's like a...
	It's like a check the box of like, okay, he has friends, he's well known, other people like him.
	It's like an approval.
	It's like a pre-check approval.
	It's not necessarily for money.
	It's like a pre-approval, which sucks because you shouldn't judge someone based off social media, but that's how it is nowadays.
	It is, but like, for example, I would say that I'm guessing that I'm in a similar situation to Fresh, to you, to Walter, okay?
	But you have a huge social media following.
	Huge.
	So you're going to have an easier chance getting women, for sure.
	Absolutely.
	I'm not debating that.
	I'm just saying...
	Wait, you're saying that we're similar?
	I'm saying outside of social media, financially, in certain areas, I think we're very similar, yes.
	I said think.
	Keyword think.
	But I think your social media status would allow you to get more women.
	Okay.
	Or not necessarily more, but they would be drawn...
	So you're saying, without social media, I won't get laid.
	That's not what I'm saying.
	You're twisting it.
	I'm saying you have such an easier chance now, because in 2025, you have a huge social media following and a huge platform and a huge podcast.
	It's going to be easier for you to pull a girl from, let's say, a club or something like this.
	I would argue that my fame hurts me.
	Not because of me and myself, it's because we always talk about women.
	So as a result, me saying to a girl, hey, look at my podcast, what's your fit?
	They're going to be like, ew.
	So it actually hurts me in the long run.
	Actually speaking, I get less girls now than I did before, which is funny, in fact.
	So I would argue, no.
	My status is not a good barometer for this actual example.
	But I would imagine a celebrity, a rapper, maybe that would be better.
	But me personally, no.
	It's not a good example.
	All right.
	We have chats to read?
	Okay, we'll do chats.
	Chats and I love hate.
	Blation Babies gets a 10-sub shot to you, bro.
	Appreciate that, man.
	Hoflation.
	For a second, I thought I clicked on whatever podcast by accident.
	Turns out this is fresh and fit.
	Chris, at least, get attractive girls on the show for this.
	I mean, they're pretty, man.
	The girls over there, I don't know what the fuck.
	They got pins in their face and everything.
	DJ Munch, I have a question.
	How do you get around the China 145% Terrace?
	That's from the last show for Samir.
	We got you next time, bro.
	We'll put it in the next Zoom call.
	TPC Films.
	That Peter dude definitely got whooped by his cheating girlfriend to say something.
	I'm trying to defend women's honor.
	What a fucking loser cuck.
	WFNF, WCC.
	Peter, dude.
	Any questions?
	Who's Peter?
	Peter.
	That was probably last stream.
	Yeah, last stream.
	Quick slap.
	Happy Sting of the Mile, El Grande and Moe is ready to eat all the tacos he wants for a taco tour.
	Oh, that looks good right there, buddy.
	You better save some for us.
	Facts.
	Fresh updates.
	Ladies, smash, marry, kill.
	Someone go first, not me.
	You go first, Zika.
	Can I say neither?
	Now you gotta choose.
	I have to choose?
	You gotta choose.
	It's the end of the world.
	You have to choose.
	And I can't just end the world?
	Last minute of life.
	I'm gonna go.
	I'll marry the last one, and then I'll smash the first one, and I'll kill the middle one.
	Okay.
	What about you?
	I have to kill the middle one.
	I'm sorry.
	What is it?
	Marry, smash, and kill.
	I guess it's just gonna be at random.
	I'll marry the guy on the right, and I guess I'll smash this guy.
	Looks like a weird Drake, but...
	Okay, champagne poppy in the building.
	What'd you do?
	Marry, smash, or kill?
	Which means like marry the guy, kill the guy, or date the guy.
	What is a smash?
	It's like sex.
	Sexy time.
	Marry's killed a smash.
	Okay, marry, kill.
	Everybody killed him.
	Oh shit, that's crazy, bro.
	Hey, but you know what that guy looks like?
	Hold on.
	That's prime example how 80% of average men are invisible to 80% of average men.
	Boom!
	You know what I mean?
	See, they're always going to smash the good-looking dude, and that's what I come in.
	And then they're always going to end up settling with the donkey.
	Oh, my God!
	The guy in the middle, you know, he could have the best fucking...
	For me, he looks like a truck driver, and they make good fucking money.
	But guess what?
	They're invisible to women nowadays, bro.
	And he's so fucking sad.
	Well, you know, just pause right here.
	Just go back to the screen real quick.
	I don't know if you can go back to it.
	So, the other thing, too, is you see how both of them have haircuts.
	He's kind of like, he doesn't have his hair cut.
	He doesn't look presentable.
	You can be a truck driver and be clean.
	Hygiene is very important.
	If you don't look clean, guys, you're not going to get laid.
	You're not going to have a girlfriend.
	He might be an awesome guy.
	He might actually take care of the family, be a cool dude, but because of his appearance, judgment by his cover, you know.
	Things do happen.
	The one on the left kind of looked like he's swinging both ways.
	That's why I said the one on the right, to be honest with you.
	I mean, to be honest, though, they all cheated on the guy they married.
	There you go.
	After four years.
	Yeah, after four years, they cheated on him.
	They get bored.
	We got Oddcraft2084 says, El Purple Hat, newsflash, it is not a flex for a man to be in a relationship.
	LOL, dumbass.
	I'm saying the opposite.
	Alright.
	I never said that.
	You want to...
	What's there to say?
	It's not a flex for a man to be in a relationship.
	I think...
	Okay.
	Cool.
	What the fuck?
	Okay.
	$4 for that?
	Fellas, have y 'all heard of the Mark of the Beast?
	Well, the butterfly tattoo is the mark of the 304.
	Fellas, if you ain't know, now you know.
	So what he's saying is, if a girl has a butterfly tattoo, she's a hoe.
	You have one?
	I don't.
	I have no tattoos.
	W?
	She has a whole sleeve.
	Is a butterfly a tattoo?
	A whole garden, man.
	A whole garden, bro!
	Oh, your tattoo is a butterfly.
	You have one?
	How do you say butterfly in French?
	Butterfly?
	Yeah.
	Can you say it again?
	Papillion.
	Papillion.
	Papillion?
	Yes.
	Why Papillion?
	Papillion, red flag.
	No.
	No?
	No.
	Why are you saying that accent?
	This is not going to be a red flag.
	Okay.
	No, because it means that if you have one, you're a hoe.
	Papillion.
	Okay.
	There you go.
	That's the next one?
	That's it.
	That's it.
	All right.
	This is what we'll do.
	We'll do this last game here, and I want you to be honest with your picking.
	Who would you pick to go on a date with?
	And who would you reject?
	And we'll start with you.
	Any guy here on the panel, who would you want to go on a date with?
	Like, go out with?
	Party with?
	Have fun with?
	Who would you choose?
	And why?
	I will start here.
	Goddamn!
	I'll start here.
	To go on a date with?
	One date?
	Yeah, one date.
	Okay.
	I would...
	You know, I want to be honest.
	I forgot your name, but I think you said some real stuff.
	Calvin.
	Yeah, but I think Sean?
	Yeah.
	I think Sean would be fun.
	So, Sean.
	Okay, Sean?
	You?
	And then real quick, why not these two?
	I already said I don't like white guys.
	Okay, there you go.
	I'm white?
	No, no, him.
	No.
	I don't know.
	I'm pretty tall, so I think I'm taller than...
	I don't think I'm taller than you, but based on personality and how I've gotten to know you, I gotta go Sean.
	Yeah, Sean.
	Okay.
	If you're a missionary, it doesn't matter.
	Tell them how you feel.
	How do I feel?
	Give him some advice.
	She's, like, holding back, like, I'm gonna get hurt and cry.
	I've been on here before.
	It's fine.
	Don't dare you.
	No, I'm not, like, it's nothing really.
	It's just, like, you're just argumentative a lot.
	Like, you're just arguing him a lot.
	I had a lot to say.
	I was just kind of, like, zoning.
	Oh, shit!
	Oh, shit!
	A lot in my ear.
	I was like, oh, shit.
	But do you also notice she can get away with, no disrespect to you, brother, but she knows she can get away with, you know, A fair enough amount of bullshit with Shawn, you know?
	Like, she can play it here and there, whatever.
	With someone like me, she knows.
	If I say yogurt is black, yogurt is black.
	I don't give a fuck if the whole world says yogurt is black.
	You know, so she already knows what she's like, ah, this guy, no, no, no.
	I respect that.
	Shawn's a bit nicer.
	Shawn is here to play the game.
	Shawn's cool.
	Like, Shawn is playing the game, you know what I mean?
	I give him that, like, brother.
	Like, you...
	You're an awesome dude, bro.
	See, bro, you know, Shawn, I'm more like you, he's more like Myron.
	You get it?
	Yeah, yeah, yeah, I get that.
	That's funny, that's funny, that's funny.
	Okay, and then, alright, cool.
	And then for you?
	Yes, Sean.
	Sean?
	And then, why not?
	Um, because Sean is my, uh, type.
	Type.
	Type.
	Okay.
	Alright, so Sean won the...
	Hey, Sean, what's up?
	Okay.
	We'll close out here with last thoughts.
	Hate it, love it.
	Hold the show for you.
	And we'll start right here.
	I liked it.
	I think all the women on the cast today did a great job.
	I know it's hard for you.
	You tried your best.
	It was great.
	There wasn't anything outlandish.
	You guys just kind of said your piece, more or less.
	So I think everything was cool.
	And I appreciate the dudes.
	Appreciate both of y 'all.
	I think y 'all did great.
	Everyone had a difference of opinion.
	Even though it gets heated.
	It's all good.
	We're men.
	It don't matter.
	Good stuff.
	And Fresh, I appreciate you bringing me on the show.
	Hopefully I'll come back on here again and actually give y 'all some real shit.
	Good stuff, brother.
	What about you, Johnny?
	Definitely an interesting time.
	Last time was better, I think.
	It was a little bit more...
	But it wasn't better because we were arguing.
	It was better because...
	I'm just gonna keep it real.
	You guys were fucking boring as hell.
	Mad boring.
	The other girls that were on here...
	We're way better.
	And I'm not just saying that because you didn't choose me.
	I don't give a fuck.
	How dare you?
	Oh, you're saying I'm boring.
	No, I'm saying that.
	You're looking right at me.
	You're like, oh, she's boring.
	I'm just keeping it real.
	I thought you guys were mad boring.
	I was trying to spice it up a little bit.
	Maybe that was my mistake.
	But last time it was a better vibe, better girls.
	And I won that one.
	I lost this one.
	Good stuff, man.
	I'll let you respond after.
	What about you, Calvin?
	Absolutely an honor, a pleasure to be here.
	Thank you for having me, Prej.
	Thank you, Myron.
	You know, I love you guys and I love what you guys do.
	And men need to step up and up their game and understand what the dating world is becoming.
	You know, as I said.
	Feminist movement have revealed the true nature of women.
	Like I usually say a scorpion doesn't stink you because they mean it.
	They do it because it's their nature.
	So now look at society.
	Women have never been as liberated as today.
	And like we have society is a chaos right now.
	And men need to protect themselves of all time.
	So I'm glad to be here.
	I would love to come back.
	Do what you gotta do and keep your head up.
	In the end, when a woman dates you, she's always gonna date up.
	That means that you're the prize, not her.
	Bars.
	Yeah, you kept it real, bro, with the wisdom and good stuff, man.
	W Aquaman.
	W Aquaman.
	I'm biking.
	I had a really great time.
	It was cool hearing everyone's different perspectives and stuff like that.
	What do you expect coming on the show?
	I honestly don't know.
	I asked my friend, I was like, it's not going to be like one of those balloon pop videos where he...
	I was like, okay.
	But they said it was going to be cool.
	They didn't say it was like a dating thing where you talk about, but it was cool.
	Okay.
	For you?
	Yeah, shout out Detox.
	Shout out to him.
	Shout out to Detox?
	What about you?
	Yeah, I mean, I had fun.
	Fun little thing to do while I'm in Miami, I guess.
	Sorry if I was boring, according to you.
	What'd you expect on the show?
	I kind of knew what to expect.
	I've watched videos.
	I've watched Sneeko's videos, like, with you guys.
	I've seen, like, I know, like, the mindset.
	No wonder you're boring.
	You watch Sneeko.
	I knew he was, like, on here with you guys.
	No, it's not even that it's him.
	You watch streamers.
	That's, like, weird.
	It's weird if I watch streamers.
	Well, I guess you're, like, what?
	I'm what?
	I said I'm 22. I'm 22, son.
	Yeah.
	No, I have watched the streams before, so I kind of knew what I was going into.
	Okay.
	Wait, wait.
	So, question.
	Would you smash Sneeko?
	Sneeko?
	Yeah.
	No.
	I said I don't know.
	I said I don't partake in hookup culture.
	Like, I'm not going to smash Sneeko.
	Like, I don't.
	Would you marry Sneeko?
	No.
	That proves my point.
	As much as I don't always like Sneeko, he's not here to defend himself, so we're going to stop that real quick.
	So, Sneeko...
	So, for you, how was the show?
	How was the show?
	Good?
	Is it bad?
	What?
	It's good.
	It's good!
	Was he entertaining?
	Because I'm a bavion.
	Yes, yes.
	Yes, yes.
	Oh, la la.
	Here we go.
	Ah.
	Oh.
	See?
	Oh, la la.
	I try to understand you, but...
	Not easy.
	Okay.
	My English is very bad, so I try, but...
	Complicated.
	Complicated.
	C 'est pas facile, ouais.
	C 'est la vie?
	How do you say it?
	C 'est la vie?
	C 'est la vie.
	English bad or good, niggas still gonna hit.
	Facts.
	Okay, guys, this was a show today.
	And by the way, shout out to Talks once again for bringing up the girls on the panel, so shout out to you, man.
	It's a little bit more stuff going on, you know, for Nightlife.
	But nonetheless, it was a good show.
	Pretty chill.
	Thank you, Calvin, for coming, Johnny, and as well, Sean, and the lovely ladies here.
	We'll be back next time on Wednesday for a show.

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