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April 12, 2025 - Fresh & Fit
01:15:53
After Hours w/ Girls
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And we are live.
We're Officer Tatum and some lovely ladies, guys.
Let's get into it!
Let's go!
Let's go!
Lucky too!
Come on here bro, get up!
Get up!
It's a night, on a pattern In the night, no control
F*** out.
Put your shoes on outside.
You don't got to put them on in here.
I know the night is not supposed to be.
I must believe in something, so I'll make myself believe it.
This night is not.
I'm not supposed to be.
Alright, and we're live.
What's up, guys?
Welcome to the Freshly Podcast, man.
Freshly here.
Henny and Fit.
Yeah, that's Henny and Fit, I guess, now.
This guy gets the ball.
Let's go, man.
Of course.
Let's go, man.
So, guys, welcome to the show.
Quick announcement, we're getting to the show.
Number one, I'll be at the University of South Carolina April 22nd debating some feminists.
It's going to be lit.
I'm also going to give a speech.
So make sure to tune in with Uncensored America.
I just did a breakdown on my other channel on the debate between Dave Smith and Douglas Murray on the Joe Rogan experience.
So feel free to go check that out.
After this one, of course, make sure you stay tuned in here.
We got special guest now is Brandon Tatum who's going to introduce himself here in a little bit.
And then any other announcements?
Yeah, man.
Follow me on my OnlyFans.
Follow me on my Twitch and shout out to you chat ninjas.
I appreciate you guys.
Last show was pretty lit.
Even though halfway I was like, you know, those girls were crazy, bro.
Like, 19 at 100 bodies?
Yeah, 1900 bodies.
Crazy. So, this is what we'll do.
We're going to have the girls introduce themselves first.
We're going to have Officer Tatum go last.
The special guest of honor.
We'll start with you.
What's your name?
I'm Angie.
Okay. How old are you, Angie?
I am 33. Alright.
Where are you from?
Originally, Charleston, South Carolina.
Okay. What do you do for work?
I work with biotech companies here in Miami.
So you live here now, I'm assuming.
Highest education level completed?
I'm currently in school, finishing up my BA in biomedical engineering.
Okay. Relationship status?
I'm super duper single.
Damn, why are you all duper single?
I'm just a busy girl.
I don't really have time for that right now, you know?
Busy girl?
I mean, working?
Working. What else do you do for work?
So I own my own business.
It's called Thrive Hub.
So, that's part of the partnerships with some of the biotech companies.
So, I reach out to med spas and different types of clinics, different clinical settings, and, you know, promoter products.
Great. I mean, do you want a family or no?
I actually have two kids.
Okay. I mean, shout out to you.
Two kids.
All right.
All right.
Are your parents still together or no?
No. And then, Chris, your favorite...
Well, it's not really your favorite question.
I wish Fresh was here, but...
Uh, birth control?
Uh, no.
Okay. Body count?
We're somewhere around 20 or so.
20? Yeah.
Do you believe that?
I'm being honest.
She got a tattoo on her chest, man.
When she was in her 20s, bro, she was a freak, man.
Yeah, I was super duper wild back then.
She was drinking to anyone niggas like you.
What about you?
What's your name?
I'm Big Cherry Pop.
What? Big Cherry Pop.
You're right.
Is your first name big?
Yeah, I think.
The Big East.
But my name Cherish.
Okay. So your government name is Cherish?
Yeah. Okay.
All right.
I'll put Big Cherry Pop.
I don't want to bastardize your name.
How old are you?
I'm 20. All right.
Where are you from?
I'm from Columbia, South Carolina.
Okay. What do you do for work?
I'm a rapper hairstylist, y'all.
Okay. Watch your raps.
Okay. Can you spit water?
Hey, y'all!
Uh-oh.
I don't know about all that.
I mean, you're a rapper, right?
And you're on a podcast in front of thousands of people that would hate a freestyle.
I'm not no freestyler.
I mean, do something from your album.
Rap about something.
About niggas.
Hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on.
Bitches ain't shit, but hoes in...
Something like that.
Come on, you got it?
Alright, you want me to rap for real?
Like something out of my song?
Anything. Alright, y'all.
I got y'all.
This from a song I just made.
Alright. I stay around the same ones.
I can't fuck with no new bitches.
A backstay on my mind like my next day ain't y'all meant to.
If a nigga play with me, he gonna wish he never did it.
Set his shit out like he Boosie.
Now my twin gonna cut me trippy.
That's all I got for y'all.
I mean, y'all, my mind was turned up, man.
all right I guess you know what
Wait, Mara, that guy who left the studio, what happened to him?
Some dude in a pink mask said that shit was trash.
Oh, shit.
80% Mara.
80% Mara.
Okay, where were you highest education level completed?
12th grade.
Alright, so high school.
Relationship status?
I got a man.
How long have you been together?
About a year.
Wait, does he know?
You with him?
No way.
I got a man.
So like, does he know you got him?
Or is he just fucking?
Nah, we ain't even fucking.
He in jail.
Is he free?
Yeah, is he free?
Is he free?
I got a man.
Something's up here, man.
I got a man.
Does he know he's in jail?
No, that's my man for real, not for fake.
Did you know him before you went to jail?
Yes, I knew him before I went.
I mean, before he went to jail.
Before you went to jail?
Wait! So both of y'all in jail right now?
No, no, no, no.
I meant to say before he went to jail.
So what did he do?
What did he do?
He didn't do nothing.
No, seriously.
I mean, I know you can't snitch on him in front of everybody.
No, seriously.
He done got sentenced, so it don't matter, but he just got caught with a gun.
That's it.
Your gun.
In the car.
Got pulled over.
It was a gun.
Stolen gun.
I don't know.
I just know it was a gun.
Feds or State?
Were you in the car with him when he got caught?
No. Okay, alright.
I'm investigating.
Was it Feds or State that grabbed him?
State. Alright, well, you got a chance he might get on a parole then.
Yeah, free my man.
Are your parents together?
No. How'd you guys meet?
You and him.
He was doing a music video at like, you know, State in Orangeburg, South Carolina.
Okay. He was doing a music video there for Homecoming and I was there for Homecoming.
Alright. Birth control for you?
Sorry? Birth control for you or no?
No. Okay.
And what's your ethnic background?
Black and white or?
Yeah, I'm black and white.
My mom black, my daddy white.
That's an interesting mix.
Yeah, that's the other way around.
All right.
You're Caucasian, right?
I'm German and Native American.
Okay. All right.
Who's up next?
Wait, hold on.
What? What?
Body count.
No, I'm talking to you.
Body count?
Come on, man.
Not murder bodies.
Like, not dead bodies.
I mean, like, actual, like, niggas you fucked.
Zero. Come on, Big Cherry Pop.
Drop the cap.
Cherry Pop got zero bodies.
Zero bodies?
Zero. I believe her.
Nah, she a bad liar, bro.
Yeah, come on, man.
He's in jail.
She's trying to hold it down.
I mean, he's in jail.
I'm sorry.
Zero bodies.
She means zero bodies since he's been locked up.
Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah.
That's what she means.
It's refreshed.
Every day, it starts over.
Yeah, exactly.
It's a new day.
What about you?
What's your name?
Mona. I'm sorry?
Mona. Oh, Mona?
Okay, how old are you, Mona?
22. Where are you from?
Germany. What part of Germany?
Karlsruhe. Bless you.
Bless you.
It's like one hour from Stuttgart or Frankfurt.
So, do you live in Miami or just visiting?
Visiting. Okay.
What do you do for work?
I'm volunteering currently in the US for one year.
After that, I'll go back to Germany.
And go to college.
So you kind of like live here then right now?
In Pennsylvania, yes.
Okay. So I'm one week in Miami and then...
Like you're like student exchange?
No more like volunteering, helping people with disabilities.
Oh, shout out fresh.
Life sharing.
Oh! What?
Did you say what?
Lecturing or sharing or...
Life sharing.
Life sharing.
So I live with them and then I help them with anything they need.
You're here on a J-1 visa?
B1, B2.
Okay, interesting.
So, highest education level completed?
High school.
Okay. Relationship status?
Senior. Alright.
Are your parents together?
No. And that birth control for you?
No. Live life on the edge.
And guten morgen.
Guten Morgen.
Alright, we'll come to you last.
What about you?
What's your name?
I'm Savannah.
Alright, Savannah, how old are you?
I'm 18. Wait, what?
You 18?
Yes. Goddamn, bro.
Chris, what are you doing?
Going to high school?
Yeah, bro.
Oh, y'all side, man.
I'm like, yo.
Y'all don't come for me.
Let me see your ID.
Let me see y'all side.
Don't come for me.
All right, where are you from originally?
I'm from Orlando, Florida.
Okay. What do you do for work?
Right now, I'm just focused on school.
I do nails and I rap.
Are you in college yet or are you still in high school?
I'm still finishing high school.
I do online.
That shit crazy, bro.
You really are going to high school.
I'm not finna lie to y'all.
No, no, no, it's fine.
Take your SATs yet?
Or no, you guys do ACTs down here, right?
I have no idea, bro.
We do both.
Why'd you go to college?
We do both, Myron.
Long time ago.
Goddamn. I don't know what the fuck they're doing all day.
Relationship status for you?
Me? Yeah, do you have a boyfriend or no?
Focus on school.
Good answer.
Good job.
Okay. Your version?
Huh? Your version?
Nah. Damn.
How many bodies you got?
I ain't answering that.
It's that high.
No! Because if it was like one or two, she's like, I got one body from my, you know, boyfriend.
I ain't gonna answer that.
You know, I'll be outside.
I'll rap.
Yeah. Spit a bar.
Spit a bar.
Yeah. Bars.
Concrete rolls.
Look. Concrete rolls.
I got it off the pavement.
A nigga want my time, he gon' pay me.
Bitch, I'm the biggest.
Ho, that's an understatement.
A nigga try to break me down because he seen that dog in me.
I don't want your nigga, little bitch.
Why the fuck you calling me?
She all on Instagram and keep stalking me.
They seen that bird, they seen that hawking me.
That nigga can't be trusted.
And I can see it in his eyes.
That girl, she a vulture.
And I can see it in her eyes.
It's all about a dollar, about a skiller.
They had a fucked up.
Now she a real nigga.
They had a fucked up.
Now she a cold killer.
They had a fucked up.
Now that girl a go-getter.
She a slime ball.
A slimey ass bitch.
Bought that check slime and all y'all.
Bitch. Alright, we can do a collab.
You and Big Cherry over here?
Nope. I can't see shit, man.
I don't know how niggas rock gas stations like this.
Goddamn, bro.
Gas stations?
Yeah, man.
Like, what the fuck, man?
Okay, I'll be back.
Alright. So, uh...
What's your name?
Helena. Alright.
Where are you from?
Germany. From where?
Germany. Germany?
Okay. School?
Education? Highs?
Yeah, I just graduated.
What, college or...?
No, high school.
Oh, high school.
Okay, damn.
Wait, how old are you?
18. Okay, 18. What?
Okay, uh...
Damn. Wait, wait, hold on one sec.
What's your first name?
I'm sorry.
Lina. Lina.
And then you said you're 18?
Yeah. And you're from Germany too, right?
Yeah. Guten Morgen.
Alright, and then what do you do for work?
I do the same as Mona.
Okay, volunteer?
Yeah. Are you also here on a B1B2 visa?
Yep. Man, y'all scamming, bro.
I'm about to call ICE, man.
Okay, uh...
How is the education at high school?
Again, sorry.
Highest education level completed.
High school?
Yeah, high school.
Are your parents together?
Yeah. Where's the control for you?
No. No?
Okay. Germany.
Yeah, okay.
Yeah, I put that.
Oh, and what's your ethnic background?
Me? Yeah.
I'm black.
I'm Haitian.
Puerto Rican.
Hey! Black, Haitian, Puerto Rican.
Alright, and then the German girls, you guys are white, right?
Well, you guys are German.
You guys are white for real?
No. No?
What's your ethnic background?
Both my parents are from Tunisia, North Africa.
Oh, okay.
Habibi! You speak Arabic or no?
I do.
Okay. Assalamualaikum.
Wait, is your family Muslim?
Sorry? Is your family Muslim?
Yes, me too.
Super haram, man.
What? Haram!
Are you German, like your ethnic background?
No, my parents are from Macedonia.
Okay. Alright.
Alright. What about you?
What's your name?
Wait, hold on.
I'm afraid to ask this question.
You know the question I'm about to ask you?
No? The body count?
I want to answer.
Damn, this is crazy.
You got bodies, bro.
It's you coming, bro.
Bro, whatever.
It's you coming.
Like I said, when I was 18, bro, I was jacking off, bro.
What? I was emerging, bro, when I was 18. Hey, listen, man.
Times were hard back then.
It was no internet.
Add a fucking A1 dollop.
Niggas doing Assetity?
Is this loading down?
No, no, actually.
Those VHS tapes?
VHS tapes?
Oh, shit.
Yo, pillow to the pillow.
Hope niggas loads.
Niggas go to play, get the Playboys?
Oh, fucking printer?
What you doing?
You got the VCR rewinder?
Bro. Yo, back then, there was no smartphones.
There was like no Kios.
Right. Yeah, so I can't do shit.
What about you?
What's your name?
My name's Jenna.
How old are you, Jenna?
I'm 20. Where are you from?
I'm also from Germany.
Okay. You don't have an accent, though.
Well, I grew up bilingual.
Okay. What do you do for work?
I also volunteer.
Are y'all all here together?
Yeah. Oh, yeah.
That makes sense.
You're here on a B1, B2 as well?
Absolutely. High school.
Relationship status?
Single. Are your parents together?
No, they're not.
No. I forgot to ask, what's your relationship status?
Are you single too?
Or no?
Yeah. Okay.
Well, you guys are in Miami, so.
What else would they be here for, right?
Yeah. Alright.
And then last but not least.
Wait, hold on.
Your body count.
No. Damn.
It's your comment now, bro.
You gotta do it.
You gotta be more sneaky.
I mean, they already know.
I'm about to ask.
I got a question.
No. I'm not offended that you won't disclose that, but I just wonder why.
Because some girls have and some girls haven't.
Is it because people are watching it that you don't want to know?
Or that you don't want them to know what your body count is?
Or what's the reason why?
I'm not saying you should or shouldn't, but I'm just wondering what the reason is.
No, I feel like that's something private that I don't need to share on the internet.
Yeah, is that high?
Relationship status.
But relationship status is something that is fair game to share.
Birth control is fair game to share.
But not the body count.
Okay. Interesting.
All right.
Were you raised in Germany, too?
Because, you know, for you, Jenna, you were raised in Germany or here?
I was raised in Germany, yeah.
Okay. All right.
And then your ethnic background is German?
Yeah. Okay.
So you're real German, unlike these girls here.
These foreign invaders.
All right.
What's your name?
Jennifer. Okay.
Jennifer, how old are you?
40. Okay.
Damn. Damn.
Where you from?
Omaha, Nebraska, but I live in Florida.
Oh shit.
Cool. What do you do for work?
So I work for a yacht company.
I'm an admin.
Oh, she belongs to the streets, bro.
She said she works for the yacht company, not on the yacht.
Have you been on yachts?
Yes. Okay, like recently, this week?
Yes, December.
But I work in the office in Fort Lauderdale.
I guess in that case, she belongs to the high seas.
Yeah. Arrgh, mateys.
Pirates and everything, you know?
I'll say your jokes are better than fresh, man.
Alright. Relationship status for you?
Single. Alright.
Are your parents together?
Wait, single at 40?
Yeah. Why?
Because I don't want kids.
I don't date men with kids.
Oh, so you just date men and that's it?
That's fucked?
I mean, I go on dates.
I'm looking for something meaningful.
Meaningful at 40?
Yeah, why not?
It's okay to be single and...
I'm just over it.
I mean, I want to marry my best friend.
You're going to marry your best friend?
Well, wherever he is.
I don't know.
He's going to be in a grave soon.
I mean, I go for younger guys, so he's there.
What? Black or white?
Spanish? Chinese?
I prefer Italian or Latin.
Mamma mia!
In other words, no niggas, bro.
I don't blame you.
No. Okay, and then, what's your ethnic background?
I'm half Italian, half German.
Mamma mia!
Forget about it!
Cool. And with the special guest of honor, we got...
What's up?
For those that don't know who you are, can you introduce yourself?
My name is Brandon Tatum.
I got a pretty decent social media following.
I do political commentary.
He's being nice.
He has a huge following, guys.
Go check him out.
I'm a former police officer, which was one of the greatest things that ever happened to me in my life, was being a police officer.
Married. We got two boys.
Christian, born again in 2008.
I don't know.
That's probably the most important things about me.
I guess I can add that I'm a business owner.
I own a couple companies and I'm an entrepreneur and all of that other stuff, but the most important thing is I believe in God and I'm a married man.
Yeah, he does one of the biggest voices in the conservative political commentary space, so make sure to go check him out, guys, on YouTube.
We've had our discussions in the past on some stuff, and we'll probably do an interview, guys, after.
Obviously, this is a fun, more relationship-dynamic show, but we'll definitely have a talk later on on another episode for you guys.
Oh, bro, I have no idea.
Hey, listen.
I'm keeping it real.
I'm not going to expect them to say it, and I won't say it, but I literally don't know.
So, like, back then, you was a police officer, so that helps you with the ladies, right?
No, no, no, before that, before that.
I think I was a good guy by the time I became a police officer, but when I was young, I was cutting up.
I went to college, football player, I was cutting up.
And I think I was still a decent guy, but I was still cutting up.
There was dudes that were way worse than me, but at the end of the day, when I look back on it, it's not something I'm proud of.
I'll tell you that.
I mean, but I'm sure it helped you, you know, be the man that you are today, you know what I'm saying?
And you can say that it had some contributing factors, but I regret it, though.
I regret it.
Because it was pointless.
I wish that I could have saved that for the woman that I ended up marrying.
It was a lot of heartache, a lot of frustration, a lot of drama.
I had a kid out of wedlock when I was in college, which was stressful.
I love my son.
He's going to be a great man one day.
But it was stressful, so I wished that I could go back and change it, but I can't.
But it's good to be honest about it and learn from your mistakes.
Fair enough.
Love you.
Now, man, welcome to the show.
So, what we'll do is, I guess we can kick off the first question or chats?
We can do chats, right?
Alright, I'll read some of these super chats and we'll get into the first question.
LMO for angling up these whales.
Bro, what the fuck, man?
We check a boss?
What else do we got here?
On the real, though, these niggas are brutal, man.
Let my nigga Mo hit, though.
Like, for real.
He'll serenade you while he hits your cervix.
He Haitian.
He don't want to stop.
Oh, don't want to stop.
He don't know when to stop.
Okay. Hey, I got your back, Mo.
Thank you, Comfort Zone.
Oh, that's a real picture of you.
I was like, dang, homeboy got a dress and everything.
Yeah, nah, they, uh, cause we do a little stream before the show.
Alright, what's next here?
Give my nigga Mo a chance.
What the fuck, bro?
What's that, a salad, bro?
Bro, I should be walking out.
Let me try, nigga.
Although, I don't have a criminal record, so, sorry.
Alright. Moe, you trying to hit?
I don't have a criminal record.
Alright, what do we got next?
She broke the scale.
It's over 9,000.
Get it, Moe.
Okay. Goddamn, nigga.
That girl just playing, you know what I'm saying?
I don't do no playing.
Oh, okay.
It's funny how we can instantly tell that a chick fucks black guys.
This is a good bro.
What else we got?
Damn, man, they really are on your head.
I was going to catch the rest of the stream tomorrow night, but I decided to check to see how things were going.
Oh, boy.
Look at who caught my eyes.
Marin, bring the scale out for this torta.
Does she feel dressing like that makes you feel empowered?
If so, hubba bubba, you're wrong.
I'm here looking like Majin Buu from Dragon Ball Z. Hey, you better be wearing underwear underneath that thing you call a dress.
We don't want no extra butt on those.
That's crazy.
That's crazy.
Yo, what the fuck, bro?
Oh, man.
Nigga. Alright, who's up next?
Congratulations to the girl in the pink.
How far along are you?
Holy! I gotta see how y'all mamas look.
Show me your mama, nigga.
Demetrius Raps asks, Ladies, can men and women be friends?
If yes, and you have a guy friend, Mario, you know what to do.
We can go ahead and go through this.
Ladies, can men and women be...
Just friends.
Platonic friends, which means nothing sexual.
With no intimacy at all?
I think so.
Yes. Absolutely.
All of you?
The question is, do you have friends?
We do.
That are males.
A lot, actually.
All right.
We got a test for this.
We're going to have you ladies call them live on air.
And I want you to say to them, who wants to go first?
Who really thinks their friend is really their friend?
Can we?
Because we have, like, a mutual friend.
That's our, like...
Best friend.
Best friend.
Is he watching right now on the show?
I don't know if he's watching, but...
Oh, and they can't be gay?
No, he's not gay.
Okay. Let's start with...
We'll do...
Is this the same friend that you have?
No. Wait, are they back in Germany?
I know him, too.
No. He's my friend, too, but...
Is he back in Germany or here?
Here, too.
He's in Massachusetts.
All right, let's call the masters.
So, ladies, here are the rules.
You know, you can't laugh.
Don't text him to warn him ahead of time, ladies.
Mine is in Pennsylvania, sorry.
Okay, even better.
So, and ladies, if he's trying to say, nah, nah, we're good, whatever, just press him a little bit.
Say, hey, I'm drunk, whatever you have going on, you know.
Yeah, just say, why did we not ever be anything?
But you're 18, of course, so just say, hey, I'm out, I'm killing myself, whatever.
Yeah. And press issue, okay?
Yeah. So don't laugh.
Well, she's starting first, Chris.
Yeah, okay.
Okay, so, no, no, go ahead.
Give it a ring.
Okay, what should I say?
Just say, Yeah,
because... Otherwise, she's under Captain Dermot.
I would be shocked if this goes well.
I've actually never seen this go well.
I think women, I'm not saying every woman is the same, but I think women say that, but they don't know the mind of a man.
The man is saying what he wants you to hear, but if you press him, a lot of times these men really would like to be with you.
They just won't say it.
The question is, is this friend single?
Yes. Are you calling the English speaking one?
I have to look for one.
Alright, who's ready to go?
Does your guy speak English?
Yeah. But still he's gonna know.
No, he's not.
Probably not if he's around his girlfriend.
But he has a girlfriend.
Well, they're...
Oh. Okay.
Can you talk to him in English or no?
Yeah. Okay, let's do it.
Pass her her phone.
Yeah, and don't show the number, please, ladies.
Don't be like this.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
We're done.
Yeah, just bring it.
Yeah, just call him right away.
Just, like, bring the phone up to the mic and just call him.
Who's going to call him?
Is it going to be me?
Jenna or...
Okay. Yeah, yeah.
She's the wild one.
Okay. Yeah, just call him.
And you're going to say this.
Hey, I've been drinking a little bit.
I'm just curious.
Why do we never become anything more?
Well, she's 18. I'm 20. Yeah, so that's fine.
Girls drink all the time, bro.
I mean, it's a fit, man.
It's a ruse.
Alright, you got it?
Ready? No, no, no, you don't gotta take the headphones off.
Just put it right up to the microphone and you'll hear it.
You guys don't laugh.
You got to turn it up, they'll put on speaker.
Beep. Beep.
Are you awake?
Are you in bed?
Can you hear me?
Alright. So, you know, Lena and I, we're out drinking right now, and I got a question for you.
Why? Like, because I know that, like, Patrick said something, like, at the beginning when we came here.
Why? Like, I know you and Anna are, like, a thing, but, you know, do you know what I'm—
Getting at?
No, I can speak German.
Bro. Wait, give me a second.
He doesn't get it.
He's like, "Talk in German.
What are you doing?" Yeah, go and talk in German and tell him why didn't we ever become anything more.
It's fine.
Okay. Just hold it up to him.
Yeah, okay, bro.
He's speaking German.
Do you check what I mean?
No. No, you don't check what I mean.
What do you mean?
Is Anne right next to you?
No. Where are you?
In the living room.
Alone? Yeah, she's outside somewhere.
Yeah, okay.
Well, I'm just asking...
It's really uncomfortable because I'm a little bit drunk, but...
Between us, do you check what I mean?
No. Why?
Yeah, why?
I was straight.
You're such a jerk, you're still talking.
But I meant with...
Do you know what I meant with Patrick, for example?
What he said at the beginning?
He told me at the beginning that he showed you a picture of me.
And then he said that you just think I'm pretty, if that's something like that.
And now, Lina and I talked a little bit and then we just said, check this out.
What are you laughing at?
What did you say?
Nothing. Nothing.
Okay. Can I go to sleep?
Yeah, yeah.
I mean, if you have to.
Nice, boss.
Okay. I have a response.
Thanks, guys.
That's all the big one.
you.
Bye. Come on, man.
He wanted to fuck me.
I don't know.
No, he's like...
No, you translate it.
She's on the cap.
Go ahead.
He was, like, basically, to put it all together, he was kind of annoyed because he wanted to sleep.
And she's like, do you know what I'm getting at?
He's like, no, no, just get to the point.
And I think he knew, but also, I think he also knows that, like, we get, like, that it's a joke because she said we're drinking.
He would never.
I think that I would want something from him.
So he would never say anything.
No, but the whole time I saw your face.
You were very embarrassed.
I seen your eyes.
You were flushed to red.
Yeah, because we're strictly friends.
No, but you actually don't like him probably.
But you're like, please don't say...
He's saying it.
Who else thinks men and women could be...
You think so too, right?
Yeah. Alright, let's try with her.
We're going to have you call one of your guy friends.
Hopefully this conversation...
Can we do this one in English, please?
Sure. And hey, anyone who speaks German, I want you guys to translate for us, just in case.
Alright, so just call them and say, hey, look, I've been drinking.
Why do we never become anything more?
That'll be the question.
Just hit them right away.
Just put the phone up to the speaker so they can hear it.
Don't text them before.
Alright, cool.
and we can
Because you're a slow Tuesday.
Try again?
You think or not?
You'll think it's like very...
It's like, oh, it's Friday night.
Only on Tuesdays.
Let's do that one again.
Alright, take two.
rings*
Is that McDonald's?
Pizza Hut.
Maybe y'all can actually be friends.
Nah, I'm just kidding.
Alright, so we'll move on.
So I got a question.
Chats? Okay.
Brandon, if you got anything, just let me know.
It's very interesting, right?
Because it's dynamic.
There are some situations where people can't be friends.
It's just rare.
A guy with a girlfriend, depending on the friendship that you have with that person, if you met them through a mutual friend or something like that, it could be a possibility.
But I don't know a guy that have girlfriends that if given the
that the person wouldn't engage with something.
It may not be sex, but it's still a little bit of something in them that like that girl enough to continue to be friends.
Why do I say that?
Typically, men and women are not friends.
Men and women don't have as much in common, unless they're gay men, as men and men and women and women.
Men don't really understand women like that, in my personal opinion.
And they're not kicking in and smoking cigars together and shooting the crap together.
So that's why I think it's just very rare for it to happen.
I think women are, they try to say that because it makes them feel good.
However, when you press a man on his topics, if you get him drunk, would he really say the same thing?
That's the question.
He may be smart enough to know, like, is she going to tell my girlfriend this?
Am I getting recorded?
Like, I'm not that stupid.
He's probably a smart guy.
Is he?
Yeah, yeah.
So, you know, that could be the case.
But if you, you know, in a situation where you and him was out at a bar drinking and you guys were, you know, kind of losing a little bit of inhibition, would he entertain anything with you?
Absolutely not.
You think not?
No. What does he look like?
Is he attractive?
Conventionally, yeah.
Conventionally? Oh, okay.
What I'll say to add on to that is what I've noticed, the only time men and women could be friends is if there's...
Dire social consequences that would fuck them up if they were to do something.
Like in her situation with him.
He has a girlfriend.
They're all friends.
Him hooking up with her, there's a high probability of him getting caught.
That keeps him in check.
But if those obstacles were removed, he would do it.
Right, they got mutual friends too.
That's the only time, yeah.
They have mutual friends.
So he talked to this friend and it's going to mess his relationship up with all his other friends.
And I'm not saying he may be a good guy and you guys may be able to maintain that relationship.
But it's very interesting because if some girl called me, I don't know.
What time is it in Germany?
No, he's here.
If a girl called me at 1 o'clock in the morning, you know, my first thought is, are you good?
Are you safe?
Are you okay?
Do you need me to get up out of bed and help you?
I'm not going to entertain some frivolous conversation with you.
Are you good?
If you're not good, then what are you calling me for?
I mean, that's just my opinion.
No, I agree.
I don't think men and women can be friends either.
I mean, you said it in a very polite way.
I just think that women don't provide men value from a friendship context in most situations.
Some can, but it's rare.
Alright, I mean, let's all master girls.
What do you bring to a guy that's only friends?
Oh, yeah, because they all, actually, they all said that they have a guy friend, so yeah, we can ask them.
We'll start with you.
What value do you bring to your platonic guy friend?
I would think, like, a woman's perspective, so that would help them, you know, navigate their own relationships and things like that.
Okay, that's something.
Something unique, ladies.
Don't say the same shit.
I feel like I'm a good listener for a guy friend.
He can't talk about stuff with his girlfriend that he can talk about with his friend.
Same thing, more or less.
Well, I mean, I agree with you guys and just in general, I mean...
I do everything that he would do with his guy friends.
We could go camping.
We could go skydiving.
We can go shoot or something.
I mean, there's nothing he can...
Of course, there are some things maybe that he does with his guy friends that we don't do, but in general...
So hobbies, then?
Sorry? Hobbies or anything.
Activities. Yeah, I mean, the guy in Pennsylvania, he's...
We... We're in the same company and we do a lot of stuff together most of the time.
So he takes you camping?
Sorry? So he goes camping with you in the woods?
To me it's like he's trying to fuck!
Let's smoke some, you know.
We didn't go.
Yet. But.
Oh, okay.
Yet. Like, it's just not go camping to fuck.
It's like to be in nature, to enjoy the nature.
Yeah, I know.
Nature. You know, like, trees.
She clearly doesn't know men's nature.
No, I do, I do.
Alright, what about you?
What do you bring to a guy friend?
If you have one.
I have guy associates.
Not more so of friends that I talk to.
And I honestly disagree.
I had to think about it.
You disagree that men and women can be friends?
Yeah, because...
So you take our stance.
I've had somebody tell me before, like, I told them I wasn't interested in them, and they were like, oh, I don't have friends that are females.
Any girl that I'm around, I'm fucking.
And straight up.
I guess he was honest.
Yeah. What about you?
What, I guess, I'm assuming this is the same guy from Massachusetts, but what benefit do you get from him being your friend?
Or what benefit does he get from being your friend?
He's like a brother to me, so like family.
So he gets a family vibe from you?
Yeah. Interesting.
What about you?
Well, we get him out of shitty situations because he tends to end up in situations where he sometimes just needs guidance from someone who thinks a little more clearly.
Guidance. Is this relationship situations or are the life situations?
Both. Kind of.
Yeah. Life?
It's mostly life, though.
So you're a 20-year-old girl.
And you can give a guy life advice.
Well, if he gets himself in a stupid situation where it's clear with work, mostly.
Okay. Because he...
I don't want to talk too much about his business, but he got himself in a situation that could have been avoided because he didn't think about the consequences because other people have feelings too.
And he just...
It seems personal.
Yeah. Gotcha.
But it was work-related.
Is he older than you or younger than you?
He's older than us.
How much older?
He's 23. Oh, he's not that young.
They're like close friends, so if he's afraid that if he does what you do, then you might know about it, then you might know about it.
Nah. Guys are very much like that.
I mean, everything the girls have named so far, a guy can get that from his bros.
Yeah. I don't think there's anything.
She said a female perspective.
Wait, wait, wait.
She's next, though.
Okay, what do you have?
You know, I just boost their ego, give them advice, dating.
How do you boost their ego?
Just tell them that they're amazing.
Hey, Ma, you're amazing, man.
Are you sure they're not missing your ego?
Like a chain, nigga.
Yeah, see?
I can do it, too.
Plenty of fish in the sea, you know.
Yeah, Brandon, man, go out there and get that bitch, man.
I mean, well, you're married.
Never mind.
You're married, man.
You got it, man.
Get married sometime.
I can do it, too.
Also, I would like to put it out there.
With me being 18, I have a very mature mindset, so if I do have a friend that's a male, he would have to be my age because the men that I would be in a relationship with would be older, 26 and up, maybe 30. What does an 18-year-old guy bring to your life?
Nothing. So, why is he your friend?
I mean, you know, like, okay.
Only to fuck you?
No, not to fuck me.
I would never fuck anyone my age.
No, but he's saying from his perspective, he'd only be friends with you because that's his goal.
Yeah, that's his goal and he has nothing else to do.
No, unless we grew up together.
Like, someone I grew up with, that's why I had to take that back.
You know, friends my age.
Someone I grew up with, our family knew each other.
But other than that, the men that I'm interested in are older.
Yeah. So, let me just pose this question.
Because I don't think anybody's in a relationship.
Nobody. Damn.
If you were...
We're in jail.
Oh, yeah.
Do you send them J-Pay?
You don't do nothing.
Oh, man.
So, what I'm saying is that if you were in a relationship with a guy, hypothetically, and I'm sure some of you guys have maybe been in a relationship before, so you just...
You have that experience.
Would you be comfortable with your boyfriend having a girlfriend that's more attractive than you?
Ooh. And why not?
Raise your hand if you are.
If I'm comfortable with that?
So the question is, just so I make sure for them, would they be okay with...
I don't think nobody more attractive than me.
Period. Yep.
That's it.
Are you on planet Earth?
Confident. Very much so.
We see it all right here.
No, tell them you're on Mars.
You're not here.
No, we right here.
Nah, we not here.
We see this.
Alright, so what would you rate yourself out of a 10?
10. I mean, yeah, shit's a 10. Always.
Interesting. Okay, I guess we'll go with the girls that said no, they would not be comfortable with that.
You want to go with that one first, Brandon?
Yeah, let's do that because as you can tell, it wasn't unanimous and it wasn't very quick.
Everybody had to think about it.
And the question you have to ask yourself is why do you have to think about it?
And the reason you have to think about it is because it's sketchy.
Guys are innately attracted to women.
That's why it would be...
But what if the woman is attracted to women too?
Uh-huh.
If a woman is attracted to women and not men?
Polygamy. I'm saying both.
I mean, I think that's more so why I would be comfortable with it.
You know what I mean?
Because I'm kind of...
Open in my relationships anyway.
Oh, so you...
Her and her, they put their hands up right away.
The other girls are all questionable saying, I don't know.
So, I mean, if you want to go with the people that say, no, I would not allow it, you want to ask them or do you want to ask the girls?
Why not allow it?
That means you're insecure and if you're insecure, you don't need to be in a relationship because everywhere you go...
Okay, so you're with them.
You would allow your guy to have...
But again, he's being specific.
Your boyfriend has a female friend that's significantly more attractive than you.
I like girls.
Okay. No, but...
What's the problem?
She doesn't have a problem because she likes girls.
So, for the girls that said no, why are you saying no?
We can start here with Miss Tunisia.
Well, I didn't say anything yet.
Yeah, she was thinking about it, bro.
And actually, I'm still thinking.
The thing is, I'm okay with him having friends.
Female friends.
But the key is, one that's more attractive than you.
I know, I know.
I really don't have an answer for that.
Yeah, let me just give you an example as a man that's in a relationship, married.
Me and my wife both probably agree with this almost a thousand percent, that it's just, it makes no sense for us to have friends of the opposite sex.
It just really makes no sense.
There are people that you know of, right?
You don't just abandon people that you knew when you were younger or stuff like that, but to say they're your friend, meaning that they can contact you, meaning that I'm okay with that person coming over to my house with my wife when I'm not there.
Because you should be able to do that if that's your friend.
I think that it's inappropriate, and it leads to people having extramarital relationships.
So people are not intending at times to do those things, but it's a temptation.
That's why people with nannies, they end up messing around with the nannies and doing stuff like that because they don't set boundaries.
So that's typically why people should be concerned and why people should put boundaries in.
But at the end of the day, it's self-control.
And if you can't control yourself, then I mean, that's a problem.
Right. But why make that obstacle?
I don't need to make it out.
There's nothing a woman can be my friend in.
My wife is my friend.
Anything that a woman can...
That's beautiful.
But that's the relationship thing, right?
I'm not talking to a woman about something I'm not talking to my wife about.
So outside of that, a woman has really no purpose in being just my friend.
Now, you could be an acquaintance, somebody I know, somebody that I go to an event, I can make contact with, but somebody that I'm considering to be my friend, like my homeboys that are my friends.
That means that we kick it with just me and them.
We can go travel with just me and them.
Yeah. Yeah.
Yeah. Girlfriends.
A lot of attractive girlfriends, they'd feel some type of way.
It's just that that scenario you presented is not normal.
Most of the time it's the girl that has the friends and not the guy that has the female friends that are very attractive.
That's true.
And interesting too, the girls that are okay with it are bisexual.
Right. So, are you bisexual too or no?
I have an answer.
Oh, you have an answer now?
Okay, what's your answer?
Okay, so my answer is probably if I get to know her and I think she's cool and not like weird or something how I feel about her And they don't hang out, just the two of them.
Are you bisexual?
I'm not.
That's interesting.
So she's not bisexual, but she needs some degree of control.
That they're not hanging out just the two of them.
So that typically means that they're not really friends.
Because friends should be able to hang out just the two of them with no question if they're going to be intimate together or something weird going to pop off.
So we know why.
So for her, she needs control.
These two light girls, why are you okay with your guy having a more attractive female friend than you?
Because I have a guy best friend and I know him since I'm little and he's like family to me so I could like understand if somebody else has the same.
I give him three days in a room with you.
Okay. Locked up.
So for you it's more like for you it's more like hey I can't impose boundaries on him that I'm not enforcing on myself.
You want to be equal.
Girls and boys always need to fuck or something like that.
Mostly. It's mostly, because at the end of the day, we do get hard.
Believe it or not.
And it's like, oh, shit!
I don't know.
It's interesting.
Because this is a good question.
The basis of their answer is based on their personal situation.
So for these two, we're bisexual.
It's no big deal.
For her, he can do it, but I need a degree of authority.
For her, it needs to be some type of caveat where they would allow it.
Well, and it also is based on life experience and maturity, right?
I mean, we talk about people who are 18 years old and not a lot of life experience.
You know, some of them didn't disclose their body count, so maybe that's a cover because they were freaky and don't want to disclose it, or they're not, and they just don't want to say it because they don't want to put their business out there.
I'll lean towards the not.
Meaning that they're not really sexually active to that degree.
And with that being said, they don't have the experience of people cheating on them and how dirty people can really be and people sneaking behind your back.
I guess the next question I would ask is that for the women who think that that's okay, have you ever had a person cheat on you?
Alright, we can start here and work our way around.
Have you ever had a guy cheat on you?
Yes. Do you want them to explain or just yes or no, Brandon?
No, it's just yes or no and then we can get into it.
No. Okay.
Alright. You ever had a guy cheat on you?
It's your turn.
Me? Yes.
Yes. I'm kidding.
You said yes or no for you?
I do the cheating.
I ain't gonna lie.
I'm not getting cheated on.
I hope your man in jail.
I'm just playing.
You're probably in jail cheating right now.
I'm not being in a cheating.
Alright. What about you?
No. Never been cheated on?
No. Not that I know it, that I'm aware of, anyway.
I mean, so, pretty much, wow.
So only two have been cheated on, these two, and the rest, no.
Yeah, so I think that's a contributing factor, right?
You gain a level of maturity and suspicion when things happen to you, and therefore you guard yourself.
Now, I don't believe that I've ever been cheated on, but I know what men think about, men talk about this stuff.
There are certain people that you gotta stay away from.
Wait, wait, wait.
Oh, you just caught people.
Hold on, you just caught a few people.
The connection, a friendship connection is invaluable to finding a mate.
So having a woman with a male friend, you develop a deep enough relationship and where does that go, right?
If you're having problems with your current man and your best friend is your best friend.
Right? You can talk to him when you can't talk to the person you with.
And then what happens?
They're there for you when the person breaks your heart.
They're there for you.
They listen.
And then you begin to compare the two.
And then that's how infidelity happens.
And this is why I think it's invaluable for people to understand the red flags and avoid them.
Young people, be aware of that.
Your husband or the man that you're dating, you should have a boundary there.
Don't set yourself up for failure.
And if that man does not hold a boundary, to me, that's suspicious.
If my wife tells me, hey, I don't want you being friends with these women, I don't need to be friends with these women.
If I try to fight for that, to me, that's a red flag.
That's me looking for out.
If she mess up, I still want to hold this girl on the back end.
And I think that's a problem.
Alright, so, question.
What are the top three things that you would say that kept your marriage together?
It's timing as well, right?
I think if me and my wife, and this is where I may disagree with you guys sometimes about the age thing.
I think that it was timing for us.
I was in a place in my life of maturity, experience.
I had a kid already.
I was over that I want to date women type stuff.
I wanted to be married.
And my wife was in the same situation.
She was in her mid-30s when we got married.
We both on the same page.
We both had life experience that led us to each other.
And that's how we made a commitment.
And our commitment is long-lasting because she partied and had her fun in college.
I did my thing in college.
And we met each other at the right spot.
Now, when I say partied and did a thing, I'm not saying my wife is out there tooting it up.
You know what I'm saying?
But I think that dating, being exposed to what you don't like, what you do like.
You know, sometimes women got to date men with money and get burned to realize that it's not about the money.
Sometimes women got to date the dude.
Y'all know it.
Women talk about this a lot where dudes, you know, good in the bedroom.
You got to date that dude that's good in the bedroom that trash your life to realize that it's not just about sex.
And so there's a little bit of life experience and exposure that you have to have before you meet that person.
So the key thing was timing.
And then also, obviously, I'm a Christian.
So that's what I want out of life.
That's what I believe God has called me to do.
So I'm pursuing that.
If I didn't have that as my faith background or the foundation, then I wouldn't even pursue that to begin with.
So those two things are incredibly important.
And then understanding the value of marriage.
That's one thing that I think a lot of people discard, maybe because they've been hurt or whatever the case may be.
But the most important thing, in my opinion, that a man would do in his life is marry the right person.
Marrying the wrong person will F you.
Marrying the right person will set you up for success and make you the man that you that you would be, that you could be with that wife that you would not be without her.
So understanding that as an entrepreneur, as a I would consider high value man is important and those three things together can lead you to a successful relationship.
And then fourth is sex, right?
The fourth thing is sex?
No, sex, like when you When you get to a point in life where you get married and you have children and all that, sex is not as important as people think it is.
When you're young, all you're doing is humping.
All you're thinking about is sex.
And some people, maybe not everybody, but generally speaking, that's why you have so many people having sex.
That's why I don't think there's a single person at this table that don't have a body count.
And that's what people think about when they're young, because that's hot.
Your mind is not developed to its full extent, but then when you start getting older you realize that it can't be about
That's true.
But, you know,
like, if you're her together, like, baby, you know, I'm horny right now, what's up?
Like, she'll give it to you every time you ask, right?
Like, I'm tired.
No? No.
But, it's reasons why.
Right? And because we're adults.
Like, we have a real life.
We got stuff to do.
You know, people do get tired.
People get worn out.
Take care of a little baby will wear you out.
However, I think it's important that in a relationship women do serve their husband that way.
If he asks for it, you better be making sure that you provide that for him.
Willingly. Willingly.
Yeah, of course.
Not, yeah.
Hey, bitch, come on, man.
Nah, I wouldn't advocate that.
If you got to do that to your wife, something wrong.
Yeah, something wrong, yeah.
But I think women should prioritize that and say, you know, even if I don't feel like it, I need to serve my husband that way.
Therefore, keep the women off of it.
A blowjob, a handjob, something, man.
Something. You can do anything.
I mean, anything.
A lot of times, men don't take anything.
Yeah, anything, man.
You know, it ain't got to be that much.
Just a little bit of something and a man will be all right.
I'm not saying that's every man.
But the successful men in marriage relationships that I know of, they think like that.
You're right.
Generally speaking.
Real quick, I want to make an announcement.
Guys, so Rumble, I think, is down right now.
A couple of streams are getting outages or whatever.
So what we'll do, guys, is we'll end the Rumble stream.
Just go to YouTube.
Watch the rest of the show on YouTube.
We're going to figure this out.
Castle Club is still up, so you guys can watch our Castle Club or on YouTube.
We're also live on Twitter as well.
So we're on all the platforms.
We've got over 10,000 guys in here right now.
So just come on over guys.
Come on over to YouTube if you're watching on Rumble.
I know the site's down right now, but it's cool.
Figure it out.
We're talking with the tech people right now.
So we'll be live on YouTube on X or on Cals Club, whichever one you want to watch, but come on over guys.
I can go with the first question of the video.
Yeah, go with what you got.
Okay, let me ask the ladies this question then.
What are some issues women have with dating?
Okay. In your opinion, we can make it kind of maybe one thing that you've noticed the most for yourself and then maybe in general we could do two things.
One for you and then one for women in general.
Or it could be just one thing because you and general women in general experience it.
Start here.
I think just being like forefront and honest like where they are in life.
From the female perspective or the male perspective?
I mean...
Because this is the issue that you guys have.
With the male population, right?
Yes, the issues you have.
With them being forefront on where they're at in life and what they want.
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