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Feb. 13, 2025 - Fresh & Fit
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Top 5 Reasons Why You Shouldn't Live With Your Girlfriend
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Other announcements, I will be, literally just came off just now.
I'm going to be, no debrief tomorrow, 5 p.m., guys.
I'm going to be up in D.C. with Tim Pool.
Going to go ahead and do TimCast IRL tomorrow night.
So make sure to tune into that at 8 p.m.
Eastern Standard Time.
TimCast IRL. He just signed a deal with Rumble, too.
Yes, I saw that.
With Rumble Premium.
Big partner.
Shout out to him for that.
And Chris Pavlosky and Rumble.
I mean.
Once again, Rumble is proving that they are the bashes of free speech.
And at some point, Rumble is going to take over all the political channels, whether you're left-wing, right-wing, etc.
Everyone's going to go to Rumble, man, because the YouTube censorship is starting to get out of fucking hand.
You know, Tim Pool going on over and streaming on Rumble is huge.
And, you know, the White House did a stream earlier today, and Rumble obviously dominated YouTube for views.
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So tomorrow night, Timcast IRL, 8 p.m., then I will be on the Culture War Friday morning debating a P-Star.
So that's going to be funny.
And then I'll be back Friday night, and we're going to have a huge Red Pill Avenger episode for you guys.
It's going to be fucking awesome.
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On YouTube.
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Friday night.
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I think we're going to have Donovan Sharpen Studio.
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We're going to bring it back to the humble beginnings.
As you guys know, this channel started as a dating channel.
It still is.
Self-improvement.
And obviously, we're diversified, so we're able to cover...
A multitude of different subjects.
Quite a lot.
But we definitely want to go ahead and give you guys the content that originally started this channel in the first place and not deviate too much from the roots.
So, yeah.
Make sure to tune in Friday night.
I'm debating whether we're going to have an after hours that night if we're just going to do the bros.
I land around 8.30 p.m.
So we might have to push the show back to like 9 or something like that.
But we'll figure it out.
That is Valentine's Day as well.
That's why we picked that day.
Yeah.
Perfect timing.
So it's going to be Valentine's Day.
With all the RP guys, man.
It's going to be awesome.
We're going to bring a bunch of guys in.
And yeah.
Speaking of Valentine's, today's topic is going to be why you should never, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever live with your girl in the same crib.
Now, you're probably saying, fresh, Myron.
Wait, hold on, hold on.
What if I get married with kids and house?
Of course, that's a little bit different.
We're talking about a girlfriend that you're actually living with that's not your actual wife beforehand.
Now, more often than not, guys, you...
Talk to a chick.
You meet her outside, whatever.
And if you've got game, you've got some, like, some riz, whatever you want to call it, she might come to your crib and stay a day or two or three or four or five days at your crib.
You're like, damn, this is actually pretty good.
Like, sex is amazing.
She's a good girl.
I feel like I could do this shit long term.
You see, you know what?
You know, you can move in whenever you feel like.
And surprisingly, though, this happens more often than you would think, especially here in Miami.
So a lot of people will meet.
They hook up, whatever, have a good vibe.
And then before you know it, they live in the same house together.
The problem is that, like, things can always go awry.
And when you don't know how to maneuver with a girl long-term, you lose frame, you lose passion, you lose purpose.
You end up being a cuck, pretty much, to yourself.
So, in essence, guys, you've got to understand that, like...
Oh, TTS? Cool.
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Raj, tip $50.
Hey, F and F appreciate all that you do for us.
Shout to you.
Also, Myron, just want to say thank you.
The way that you break things down not only makes it easy me to understand, but I can also articulate myself to other people, too.
Sweet.
I'm glad.
I don't know if you mean in the dating aspect or the geopolitical space, but either way, I appreciate the compliment, man.
I really do try to, you know, I know some people watch the debrief and you're like, oh, this is kind of redundant, Myron.
But you got to remember that we're getting a lot of new viewers.
A lot of people are tuning in.
So I kind of have to explain things from the beginning with with the stuff.
But yeah, I appreciate that, bro.
I really do try to, you know, take it from remedial all the way to fairly competent.
So you guys get an idea of what's going on here, because I do understand and I'm sensitive to the fact that some of you guys might not be aware of some of the geopolitical topics I cover.
So I try to, you know, cover it all so you guys are able to understand it.
And if you want to speak on it at a basic level, if you choose to.
What else do we got?
Any more TTS? Cool.
Alright, so moving on smartly, we got like five topics to cover today regarding why you should never live with your girlfriend, long term at least.
Now, number one, this is pretty simple, pretty basic, but how about everybody?
You could be white, black, Asian, tall, short, doesn't matter.
You lose frame control over a period of time.
Now, you could be the biggest, most, I guess, tallest, most masculine alpha out there.
We got even our friends at Tate's that live in Romania.
And they don't live with their girlfriends or wives.
For good reason.
It's because when time passes, no matter who you are, things get softer.
You tend to like say, you know what?
You want to stay in, watch a movie?
You get some ice cream with her?
You take her out?
Oh man, can we cuddle?
And before you know it, time passes along and you're like, damn.
I didn't go to the gym today.
I didn't work on my business.
I've been with my chick all day.
I didn't get shit done.
And it just takes one or two instances where you do this actual activity where you just kind of say, you know what?
I'll do it tomorrow.
You put it off tomorrow or next week.
Just chill with your girl.
Guys, if you understand what I'm saying here, it probably happened to you as well in the past when you live with a chick.
You're like, you know what?
I could do that next week or I could do that tomorrow.
And you may say, well, fresh, I'm strong, bro.
I got willpower.
I could go past that shit.
Well, you can for a little bit, but not forever.
And it happens to everybody.
No one's really safe because at some point in time, You're going to bend the knee.
No pun intended.
Bend the knee to her will or her way at some point.
Now, when it comes to frame, if you have a girl in your life that you're going to be with long term, she has to miss you.
She has to want to be with you when she's not with you, of course, which means, for example, she's at her crib, she's at work, whatever.
But if she lives with you and she's actually with you all the time, which is number two, obviously it makes her heart grow fonder, especially with time.
It's because You're going to be with her all day, non-stop.
It means you wake up, you get breakfast, you know, she knows when your alarm goes off, she knows what you want to eat, where you go, who's calling you.
All these things take away the mystery of you being that guy for her.
Which means, automatically, you become pretty much like a friend or roommate.
Not lover, not her man, but a roommate.
The problem is, guys, that this dynamic here is not made for men to progress and succeed successfully because you're going to be becoming a casualty of Circumstances living together.
Which means you become a...
I want to say the word cuck, but you become kind of complacent because when you live with a woman, bro, you become almost like in this weird way under her spells.
I know it sounds crazy, but I can't put it into words, but it's more like you become lazy in a way.
Which I think is why you should live with your brothers or live with someone that's a man because you're a competitive spirit back and forth or just live by yourself.
And then also you have peace as well.
Peace of mind.
No arguments.
No headaches.
Listen, I'm all for having a girlfriend or having a girl you care about and you love, but she can live at her own crib, bro.
Get her another crib if you need to.
Another apartment.
Live at your apartment.
You guys come together whenever you're ready.
You travel.
Go out.
But at the same time, man, living with your girl, guys, I'm telling you right now, we've seen it thousands of times on the show, outside the show, you lose frame and control over a period of time.
And I think for most people here, if you want to actually have a girlfriend long-term or wife long-term, yeah, you want to test out how things are together.
But living together for a long period of time, it's never a good idea.
So number one, again guys, you lose control and frame over a period of time, you don't want that at all in your lifestyle.
Yeah, look man, I think it's very important for guys to realize that when you live with your girl, what's going to end up happening is you're going to start to inevitably become lazy, softer, you know, convenience breeds familiarity.
Familiarity breeds contempt when it comes to females.
You know, girls want a guy that they can't rein in, that they can't control, that is mysterious.
And a big part of you being able to maintain that attraction is by you not being too available.
And I know some of you guys are like, what the fuck are you talking about, Myron?
Like, that's weird.
Yeah.
Female attraction, guys, doesn't make sense.
This is why so many men struggle with women.
Because if you look at things from a logically sound perspective, you would think...
The better you treat her, the more you wait night, the more you be a gentleman, the more time you spend with her, the more you invest, right?
The more you get back.
Well, let me tell you guys something.
When it comes to women, women is the one endeavor where the more time you invest, the more resources you put in, the more attention you give it, it actually is detrimental to you, right?
And this is contrary to everything you've been taught as a man.
Since the time you were a little boy, what did they do?
Hey, go to school.
Get an education.
Work really hard.
Make money.
If you do this and you're diligent for 10 to 20 years, you're going to end up becoming successful.
So everything about the masculine journey is about putting in effort, having merit, and being patient and having delayed gratification.
The only thing that doesn't abide by these universal laws of success is females.
Because, ironically enough, the more time and effort you put into them, The more likely you are to lose your investment.
And I know this is completely backwards, but this is why so many men struggle, especially guys that are smart, mathematically sound, engineers, etc.
They struggle the most with women because they can't figure them out because it doesn't make sense.
And the problem is because the female is an emotional creature.
And emotions change.
They're not subject to the familiarity of a math equation or 1 plus 1 is 2 or things making sense.
Women don't abide by these universal laws of Logic.
So, with that said, I think step one is to recognize that you're dealing with someone who, quite frankly, doesn't make sense in their sexual strategy.
That's number one.
And then number two, by identifying that, you realize that a large part of your sexual market value to that woman is your anonymity.
Now, the anonymity, okay, is determined by your availability.
And if you live with a girl...
You're always available.
Familiarity sets in.
And then she loses attraction for you.
Very simple.
Right?
But, you know, you're not going to hear this from mainstream media.
They're going to tell you, oh yeah, I live with your girl.
Yeah, you save rent.
You make money.
You're able to have a dink.
Double income.
No kids.
Like, no man.
It's completely detrimental to you.
Because what ends up happening is your girlfriend quickly turns into your roommate and resentment is going to come.
Okay?
So don't live with your girl, guys.
It's one of the stupidest things you can do.
Now, are there some guys that can do it?
We talked about this with Donovan Sharp.
He lives with his girl.
He's been able to make it work.
But not everyone can do it.
And I know most of you guys, maybe entry-level red pill awareness, maybe some of you guys have bad habits that your girl can exploit.
Like, it's not for everyone.
So what we say is, look, for a majority of you guys, you're going to almost always be better off not living with your girl.
girl, you know, outside of some extreme circumstances where like you're someone like Donovan Sharp who lives and breathes this stuff.
Your wife is intimately involved in your business.
So it makes a lot of pragmatic sense for her to be living with you because she's literally running a lot of your social media platforms and that convenience helps you run your business better.
But outside of, you know, circumstances like that, most of you guys, 90% of the time should not be living with your woman.
Also, to your point, people will choose the wrong girl to live with.
For example, Donovan knows his woman very well.
So that choice itself...
Was with her for like four or five years before.
...is a W because he knows his woman.
You might meet a chick.
Oh, she's beautiful.
She's a nine.
Mind you, it's funny.
Oh, I met a nine or ten, bro.
I'm a wife her up.
When you live with a chick that's a nine or ten, she becomes like a six or seven.
This time itself takes away the joy and lust of it, pretty much.
And it's almost like it's going to weigh down on what you think of a person.
So even you yourself, as a man, if she knows you that well, where's the mystery?
No mystery at all.
I got a friend that wears glasses to the club.
You might say, that's dumb, bro.
Why don't you wear glasses to the club?
And he's giving me his riz, all that stuff.
He taught the girls.
They're like, wow, this guy is like super charming, but I don't know his eye color.
It's because the mystery is there.
So it sounds kind of crazy, but like having a mystery keeps things alive long term.
If not, then, oh, I know this guy very well.
I know he's going to do this.
He's very predictable.
I'm bored.
Remember, women's emotions are like a roller coaster, up and down.
Without that, it's a straight road.
It's going to be boring itself.
So, indefinitely, if she does not have that mystery, she will leave at some point or cheat on your ass at some point as well.
Either way, live when a girl is a L. Especially if you're not going to be masterful or know how to find a girl.
Long term, that's good for you.
And I think just in general, what Myron is saying here, you're not going to find the right person, maybe.
And even if you do, the chance that you keep in frame the whole time will be definitely lower because, again, it takes experience and time.
And to be honest with you guys, it's a chance you're taking.
So, I would say, in that sense, guys, avoid living with a girl long term.
Now, number three.
She can call the cops.
She can even set you up.
She gets mad at you.
Live with her long term.
And what happens is, guys, girls definitely don't want to lose their spot at your crib.
Because they put in time and effort.
They invest it into you in their own way.
Now, what happens is, let's say you piss her off.
You get her mad.
And she's like, you know what?
Fuck this guy.
I'm going to teach him a lesson.
She may even say, alright, I'm going to hit myself.
I'm going to boost myself and say, he did it to me so he doesn't fuck with me at all.
For example, you may even just say, listen, I don't want you to go out with your friends.
What did you tell me?
And she gets an attitude or whatever, and then before you know it, four days later, she calls the cops and says, you hit her.
Or it could be something as crazy as like, oh, I think you're cheating on me.
Whatever reason it is, she has the option to do this to you at any time, any given time.
Now, She gets milk to your house.
She has things come to your house naturally.
She has the right to do this because she lives in your house, and she's obviously a resident of your house.
So by default, her even just being there can cause you issues because she has the option to do it to you.
Now, at the same time, guys, we can't predict what she's going to do anyway, but what I'm saying is the fact that she can actually do it with an option is crazy.
So my thing is having her in your home...
For an extended period of time or getting a meal to your house, it's definitely going to be out for you no matter what as well.
Alright, we could hit some chats here?
Yep.
I can't even see it.
Fresh, can you read it?
I can't even see it.
Okay.
Yo, Fresh and Fit, y'all the goats, shout out one question.
I'll be there for the meet and greet and yacht party, but I'll be there Friday evening.
Where's some place laid back where I can meet women at?
See y'all soon.
Let's go.
This is a fresh question right here.
Yeah, pretty basic, man.
I would say Wynwood.
It's an art district area.
It's pretty poppin', kind of cheap, laid-back, and just cool vibes.
So I would say Wynwood, of course.
You could do Dirty Rabbit, you could do Pilos, or you could even do, like, Centro.
Any of those spots are pretty cool.
Sluchu says, related to tonight's theme, it'd be cool to discuss strategies on how to build local communities of black men and men, in which we could eventually run the local governments and politics.
Yeah, that's not a bad idea, bro.
Start with Castle Club.
I think that would be a good start to that solution.
That's what I would say.
11. Met this girl down here in Georgia, and she said she wants to move in.
Of course she wants to move in, bro.
They all do.
She said she likes me because I'm racist, like her dad.
I'm black and she's white.
Surely I'll be fine to meet her dad, right?
Alright, nigga, you gotta be trolling, bro.
You gotta be trolling.
Really?
Hmm.
I don't know, man.
Just don't do it, though.
It's going to be L no matter what.
That's it?
One last check.
One more?
All right.
First up, this.
WFNF. Shout out to you, bro.
All right.
And cool.
Good to go?
Yep.
All right.
So that's number three.
You want to chime in on that one?
Live with a girl?
You take it first.
I already did.
Oh.
Shit, what the hell?
You can call the cops at any point in time.
Well, yeah, that's another liability too.
The other thing, we could definitely talk about that.
So, for those of you that live in a western country, right?
United States, Canada, etc.
Many of these westernized, first world, common law countries have very strict domestic violence laws.
And what that basically means is if the police show up, let's say you guys get into an argument and neighbors overhear it, right?
What ends up happening is the cops show up.
In many states, guys, and in many jurisdictions, the police have to effectuate an arrest, or they can't leave the premises.
It didn't always used to be that way, but after so many spouses were killed because police didn't respond to DV calls seriously, what ended up happening is a lot of these jurisdictions mandated laws where one of you has to get arrested that night at least to separate them.
It's their way of almost kind of...
Eliminating liability on the police department or the law enforcement agency.
Because, God forbid, they walk away and then you guys fight again and someone ends up dying.
So they're like, you know what?
Fuck this.
Someone's going to jail.
Sometimes they take both parties to jail.
Sometimes they take one party to jail.
But what I will say is, 9 out of 10 times, the man's going to go to jail.
Because if the woman's able to demonstrate any type of evidence that he struck her, he's going to go to jail.
Versus for the man, you need to...
Not only show proof, but you have to have a convincing story as well.
Because law enforcement, unfortunately, and the legal system in general, almost always takes the female side.
Because women are looked at as the weaker sex.
They're looked at as the victim in most situations.
So they always get the benefit of the doubt.
So, a lot of women exploit this to their favor and use it to destroy your life.
And they know that a domestic violence arrest and conviction can really fuck you up.
Why?
Because there's laws out there, like the Lautenberg Act, where if you're convicted of a misdemeanor crime of violence, you can't carry a gun anymore.
Right?
And that will obviously affect your ability to maybe get in the military, be a police officer, work in any type of civil service.
Even a restraining order will mess up your ability to get this stuff.
And it's a misdemeanor.
So these domestic violence issues, though it could be a misdemeanor, can absolutely have catastrophic implications on your life and in your future, guys.
So that is something also that you avoid by not living with your woman.
We had a girl on the show after hours that had a...
Well, I think it was a boyfriend or her husband.
I forgot what it was.
But she called the cops on her boyfriend at the time.
And he lost his job, actually, from...
That incident.
And what happened was, she felt bored in a relationship.
He ended up losing his job, and she left anyway.
This is why, like, sometimes living with a girl has a adverse effect, because that right there, guys, she was just bored.
She didn't like the guy anymore.
She was bored.
She didn't want to get overweight.
She called the cops, and he got arrested.
Even though he didn't hit her directly, it was a case of like, oh, well, I'm done with him.
I want him out of the house.
Here we go.
So, in essence, guys, just be careful, man.
And if you want to be careful and cautious, record every interaction that happens like that.
She's going to say, oh, I'm going to call the cops on you.
Bring your phone out.
Record everything.
So when they show up, hey, listen, I need to touch her.
Here's the footage.
Because like what Myron said, they have to arrest somebody at some point.
Which means either you or her has to go.
So, in that case, record it.
You're safe.
You're not going to be under any type of issues because it's recorded.
The cops can see it right away and you're good to go.
But then again, guys, like, if you don't record, who knows what can happen.
So, Just be careful at that point.
Alright, number four.
Keeps you distracted from your goals and purpose and mission.
Slow guys actually have goals in place, or they should have goals in place, and having a girlfriend in your life isn't a bad thing, but she's always in your quarters, your living quarters, always next to you, always around you.
You end up almost like letting things pass by and just go.
Like I mentioned earlier, you end up saying, oh, you know what?
I'll put off this tomorrow.
That next week.
It's fine.
We'll cuddle.
We'll go to the movies.
You become almost like a slave to your convenience because she's right there.
It's easy, you know what I'm saying, to smash.
It's enjoyable.
She's cool.
But you kind of put things on the side that you should be putting as a priority because, remember, again, if you don't work your job, work your business, guess what she's going to do?
Leave anyway.
So, at that point, you put things to the side and put her as a priority, which isn't a bad thing.
But the problem is that if your business is not a priority or your work is not a priority, you're going to become a lasting horizon anyway.
So my thing is, like, in that case, guys, remember, if she's a priority in your life before your business and your work, that's an L. And as well, your goals are important.
But all your goals and your ambition, where are you going to go?
Nowhere.
So in essence, guys, that's important for you and your actual success.
But putting your girl first that lives with you is an L. Yeah, and the other thing, too, Let's just be honest.
A lot of you guys, your default response is going to be to prioritize your girlfriend over other things, right?
It's kind of like...
Okay, if you don't have red pill awareness, right?
What's going to happen is you're naturally going to prioritize your woman over everything else because she's a human being.
You want to make her happy.
You want to have her be able to enjoy the relationship.
So you're going to maybe forego things.
Thinking that it benefits you and the relationship by doing so, but what you're actually doing is you're actually hurting yourself in the long term.
So in the short term, when she tells you, oh, don't go to the gym, eat ice cream with me and watch this movie, you might say, okay, I could take one day off the gym.
You take that one day off the gym, you're eating ice cream with her and hanging out.
So she's happy right then and there, but what ends up happening is you've actually hurt yourself because what you've done is you've instituted almost like a bomb that's going to explode later on that's going to fuck you up in your mind where you now have created a habit where You're okay with bailing on something you had planned for short-term pleasure with your girlfriend.
Now, this is all good and dandy the first day, second week, third month, you know, maybe even a year.
But what ends up happening is you slowly become a bitch the more you do this.
Now, what's going to happen is you're going to do it more and more because human beings are naturally lazy and naturally want to go ahead and follow the path of least resistance.
So, when she offers you something like movies and ice cream over you going to the gym and grinding, It's going to be, you know, a welcome distraction.
And most of you are not going to be able to deny it.
So it takes a very strong-willed person with an enormous amount of discipline to be able to look at their girl and say, no, no thank you.
A lot of you guys are going to bend and be like, okay, I watched this movie with you eating ice cream, not knowing that you've basically just created a very bad habit that you will continue to repeat.
Because if you give up on your goals once, right, it always starts with something small.
The slippery slope, right?
If you give them an inch, they take a mile.
It always starts small.
And then it builds and becomes worse and worse.
Two or three years down the line, now you're a fat piece of shit.
You're no longer the man that she fell in love with in the first place.
You've lost all the things that made you attractive.
And then she fucking leaves your monkey ass.
And then you wonder why she left you.
And the reason why she left you is because you changed.
But ironically enough, you changed because she asked you to fucking change.
Right?
And this is why I tell you guys all the time.
Never follow a woman's lead.
All she's going to do is make you a shell of your former self, make you fatter, stupider, weaker, less strong-willed, and she's going to tell you, hey, delayed gratification is lame.
Just enjoy your life.
No, bitch.
Me and you are not in the same timeline.
You need to enjoy your life now in your 20s because you lose value as you age.
Me, I need to build my fucking value.
We're not in the same fucking timeline.
You understand?
This is why it's so important for you guys to get a woman when you're older in life and you have some things established because then you can actually enjoy the fruits of your labor.
But if you and your wife or your girlfriend are tight in age, she's in her 20s, you're in your 20s, guess what?
She carries way more sexual market value than you do in the 20s.
And on top of that, right, you already got her more than likely by the skin of your fucking teeth, especially if she's attractive.
So you need to be even more 10 toes down on your fucking goals because if you're not, you're going to lose her.
So the point I'm trying to make, Is this, guys.
Women make you weaker.
Okay?
Women are naturally lazy.
They don't have the same proclivity to work hard as we do.
Why?
Their sexual market value is not based on their productivity.
Sorry, that's just what it is.
It's the truth.
A woman that's a retard bimbo can be on a boat with future, thinking about her future with that future.
Meanwhile, you're dumbass.
You have no opportunities for future.
You ain't even getting on the yacht, nigga.
You're not even going to be able to meet him in person and shake his hand.
Versus average chicks are able to get in rooms with these individuals and really create something.
So, since you guys don't play by the same set of rules, you guys don't live in the same reality, you can't live life on her terms at all.
You can't.
So, knowing that, you guys need to understand that your productivity is your value.
It's not hers.
So you can't sit there and do the dumb shit that she does and expect to be successful.
Do not change for a woman.
A man will take a woman and turn her into something that he loves.
A woman will take a man that she loves and turn him into something she hates.
This is why female leadership has never fucking worked, ever.
All the Abrahamic religions, all the different societies, why were they all patriarchies?
Because simply put, patriarchies make fucking sense.
They lead to great civilizations.
Meanwhile, matriarchies lead to failure.
If we had to rely on female ingenuity for human progression, we'd still be fucking rubbing sticks together.
Because women suck at everything.
Let's just be honest.
They really do.
Okay?
And when they are given the ability to compete against men, what ends up happening?
They get fucking smoked.
We had to bring in Donald Trump, a fucking president, to literally make an executive order so that men can't compete in women's sports anymore.
That's how badly these trans people were fucking these bitches up.
Even being on hormone suppressants, they were destroying them in all athletic regards.
Why?
Because men are superior to women.
We have to sign an executive order to fucking stamp it out and make it obvious for everyone.
Meanwhile, they want to go ahead and call me a fucking misogynist or sexist for acknowledging biological reality where the president had to fucking come in and make a law to keep you bitches from getting your asses whipped by trainees.
So, look.
I say all that to say this.
Men and women are not on the same timeline.
Your value is based on what you create.
Her value is based on her beauty and her creating a child with you.
Don't fuck that up by being a loser and going off of her timeline.
If she wants to go and invite you to eat some ice cream or do some other fuck shit, you gotta stay steadfast in your goals.
And again, that's why I tell you, just don't fucking live with them.
Less opportunities for you to fuck up when she tries to entice you to do some shit that deviates from your goals.
Women, 9 out of 10 times, are just big fucking distractions.
Especially for you younger guys that are trying to make a name for yourself.
Good point.
Also, a lot of guys will drop their friends, family, just to please your girl.
And it was funny.
You want to delay her leaving because she's going to leave anyway at some point.
Whether she leaves now or later on, she can see the weakness inside of you.
So, if you live alone, though, you can say, listen, I got to work till 10 p.m.
When I'm done with work, then I'll see you.
And you know what's funny?
What's she going to say?
I'm next to you.
You're not doing no work?
No.
She's not with you.
So living by yourself gives you the opportunity to say, you know what?
I need space to focus on my shit.
When I'm done, I'll see you.
If you live with her, babe, what are we doing?
You're not doing anything right now, right?
Let's go have some fun.
So in essence, guys, having that space in itself gives you the opportunity to work on your craft, your business, or your actual career.
And you can say no and set a time when you can see her.
If you live with her, You can still do that too, but it's kind of hard because she'll be like in your face non-stop and it's kind of annoying.
So in that sense, be smart about it.
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Never been to Miami before.
I'm debating.
If I save up my money for Philippines this June or go to Miami for 10 days, would the flight fares be expensive for 10 days in Miami?
Hotels as well.
Bro, it's way cheaper in the Philippines, I'll be honest with you, bro.
But, Miami's going to be more fun, I think, in my opinion.
Because, of course, you can go to Florida, you go to Miami itself, you go to the Keys, Orlando, Disney, Universal.
You can do a lot more, but Philippines in itself is going to be mainly girls, I guess, or ladyboys.
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And number 5, the last one on the list.
She will expect marriage or be entitled to it at some point.
So, living with your girlfriend itself is obviously has its issues, but the main thing is that she's going to feel entitled to be your wife next.
It just means that right now, when you're living with her, she's planning the season of like, I'm going to be his wife.
Even though she may not have the actions to actually be a wife, in her head she's a wife.
So by default, when she's entitled to this wife mentality, she's going to say, well, you should know what to do, or you should know how to maneuver, and at some point marry me at the right time.
So I get this, right?
Obviously most women want marriage, they want to find a guy that's going to take care of them, be with them, and be a provider.
But, if you live with her, that kind of exacerbates everything, because now she's like, oh, I live with this guy, he's taking care of everything, the bills, I'm going to be his wife soon.
So let's say, for example, the time frame was maybe like two to five years.
You might marry her or even sooner.
But because you live with her, it's one year or six months.
You get what I'm saying?
So having that time with your girl, living with her one-on-one, she's going to think to herself, oh, this is my husband.
This is going to be my time to get married.
I can't wait.
The issue is that like right now, how things are, you need to vet a girl properly, which is why we say, guys, don't live with a girlfriend because you need to give at least a year to even live with her.
Or talk to her like that seriously.
Because nowadays, guys, there's so many things you can find out.
Like, she does OnlyFans.
She does porn.
She does, like, you know what I'm saying?
Sells box on the side.
You don't know.
So it takes time to actually investigate everything and get a full picture of who this woman is.
People can lie all the time, bro.
They can lie from six months to a year.
You don't know.
So to be safe and to make sure you make the right choice, you got to understand, listen, the woman I'm living with right now could change.
So by default, if I just keep her...
To a distance, obviously we go out every now and then.
We go to events.
We go to parties, if anything.
But living with her, guys, you don't know who she really is.
But she's going to expect you to marry her at some point way faster.
Yeah.
Living with a girl absolutely puts in her head the potential of marriage, right?
And that's every girl's dream at the end of the day, guys.
They all want to walk down an aisle and wear a white dress and have all the attention on them.
It's like a female orgasm.
But you definitely imply that by living with her as well.
She might try to put the pressure on you to marry her by you doing that.
And again, man, you guys forfeit a lot of your power when you live with a girl, man.
Men don't have the same leverage or relationships that we used to, man.
So you really got to protect all the angles.
That you have leverage in the leadership because, quite frankly, she can replace you a lot faster than you can replace her in today's modern sexual marketplace.
That's just what it is.
And on top of that, we have a society that reaffirms that and rewards them for replacing you and, you know, fighting another guy.
You can look at someone like a Beyonce, you know, to the left, to the left.
I could have another you in a minute.
Like, all of our pop culture reinforces women treating men as disposable commodities.
That's just the reality.
Versus, you know, if a guy comes in and says, you need to date like women and you need to treat them as expendable commodities, well, you get banned off TikTok for that.
And I know that specifically because I got banned off TikTok for saying, date like a woman.
Treat them like expendable commodities.
But if a woman does a video and says, oh yeah, like, just use men.
Go out on dinner dates.
Don't, you know, have no intention of hooking up with them.
Use this guy for Uber.
Use this guy as a sugar daddy, etc.
Like, exploiting men is completely socially acceptable for women.
Matter of fact, if I line up 100 women, 90 of them plus are probably going to admit that they've been on a date with a guy that they don't like just to do it.
For food?
Right?
For food, maybe an experience or whatever.
Like, a majority of women have absolutely been on dates with men that they don't give a fuck about or don't like.
But why are they able to do that and why are they able to do it?
It's because society incentivizes and encourages women to leverage their options and enjoy life and if that means that a guy's got to foot the bill, who cares?
Right?
There's this general acknowledgement that a man...
Should pay for everything and show you certain experiences even if he gets nothing in return.
And I'm here to tell you guys, fuck that shit.
I'm here to literally tell you guys, put your foot down.
No!
We're not going to pay for you bitches to have experiences.
Okay?
We're just not going to do that.
If you're going to go ahead and deal with a woman and spend money, whether it be your time and resources, etc.
She needs to reciprocate.
And most of the time when you guys are going out with women, unless you're a bitch, you want some type of romance.
Let's be honest here.
Some of you guys sit there and cope and say, no, we're just friends or whatever, but you're over here helping her out, doing mechanical work when she calls you, helping her fucking change the smoke detector and shit.
Like you're doing all this boyfriend shit, you know, lying to yourself, saying, no, we're just friends.
But deep down, you know you want to sleep with her, but you're too much of a fucking bitch to admit it.
So I'm here to tell you guys, do not allow women to use you, okay?
Don't let them do it.
Because the reason why they do it is because society reinforces it.
I need you guys to date like women.
Okay?
And you use them as expendable commodities.
When the shoe's on the other foot, you'd be amazed at how much fucking power you really have as a guy.
And living with a woman, you lose that leverage.
To bring this all back full circle.
Living with a woman, you lose that leverage.
And on top of that, you expedite the process of her wanting to get married.
Which inevitably puts you in a position of disadvantage.
Because when you're married with a woman, you lose all your power.
All your bargaining power is pretty much gone because now she gets rewarded for divorcing you.
Now, I know some of you guys are going to say, well, Myron, hold on.
Like, what about a prenuptial agreement?
Cool.
You signed a prenuptial agreement.
Everything that you came into a relationship with is yours.
But after you're married, everything is 50-50 from there.
So let's say you build a business or you significantly increase your net worth while you're with her.
Guess what, dumb fuck?
She's entitled to some of that.
So this is why marriage in most cases is just a bad fucking deal no matter how you split it.
The only way that I could see getting married to a woman as feasible in the United States is you need to do it without the state involved.
You need to do it through a religious ceremony and just go from there.
But using the state to get involved...
It's extremely problematic and puts you at a significant disadvantage because we have an entire industry, we have an entire pop culture, we have an entire family court that is created to rob you of your resources and transfer to the woman.
And the reason why is because they know that the man most of the time is the higher earner, so therefore he is going to be the target of the financial exploitation.
These people, family judges, family lawyers, family courts, etc., they all exist because men pay.
Okay?
That's what you guys gotta understand.
They all exist because men pay.
So they have zero incentive to help you or protect you when it comes to maintaining your resources.
And that's what the Marriage Institute does.
It puts you into a predicament where you are now in a situation where you're in a business deal with an individual that has zero incentive to make it work.
But they have every incentive to divorce you and ensure that the courts strip you of your resources and allocate it to them.
Fuck that.
We're not paying for that shit no more.
We're not buying.
Okay?
And living with a woman expedites that fucking process.
Don't live with women, guys.
I'm telling y'all, man.
All you're doing is speed running the inevitable car crash that's gonna come when you live with a chick.
You know what's scary?
We know some big players in Miami that are married to the wife or the woman of their dreams.
Five years pass.
Six years pass.
Things aren't working out that well.
And because he doesn't want to lose half his ass, he's kowtailing to her because, you know what?
If I treat her right, she might stay.
The problem is, he's trapped.
Because now, she has the power.
Because remember, before he moved in with her, he had the power.
But when they move it together, and they get married, pretty much, even with a prenup, she knows the power.
Which means, whenever she feels like, or whenever she's bored, she can leave and then say, Sayonara!
Half the paycheck is mine.
Deuces.
And God forbid you have kids for alimony.
Cooked.
So guys, listen.
It sounds crazy because we're saying, don't live with a woman, bro.
But look at it long term.
Where it leads to.
It can save you money, time, stress, and your career.
Because a lot of guys that get divorced never recover.
They live in an apartment by themselves.
They're stuck.
And it's sad.
It's really sad because that guy was successful.
Did his shit.
Went to school.
Worked his ass off, and then all of a sudden, well, you know what, honey?
I want a divorce.
I'm bored.
Mine's just fucking Chad for free, not living in his house.
And before you know it, you're out of the house, and Chad is living in your house.
So it's scary, man, because that could become you at any point in time.
But even before that, living with a chick, guys, we listed to you five things that will happen to you, and it can happen to any guy, no matter who you are.
You could be a player.
You could be a boss.
You could be the Riz God.
It doesn't matter.
Are human.
And being human, hey, we are simp tales.
All of us here have been simps at one point.
You, the viewer watching, us, we've been through it.
I've been through it at least.
And I understand what it means.
So I tell you this, guys, is because it's a place of love.
And hopefully you can see what we're seeing here to better yourself and not be caught up in this trap.
Because it's sad, but this is life.
It's unfair.
It's part of reality.
And if you don't make a change now or start making this change or understand what's happening, you meet a chick.
She moves in.
We take her in.
Oh, this is great.
And by the way, when guys say, oh yeah, bro, I can move into my crib.
I'll smash every single night.
Well, you can smash every single night without her living with you.
What happens is, she moves in with you.
You're like, oh, this is easy pussy.
Let's go.
You know what happens when things come easy to you?
They also go easily as well.
And with easy pussy leads to easy problems because now she lives with you.
My tummy hurts.
I'm on my period.
And all these things add up where they're like, I'm bored of this guy.
He wants sex.
I'm over it.
The mystery has to be there.
Without that, guys, you're cooked.
Because the mystery means, oh, I miss this guy so much.
Where's he at?
Is he with another girl?
I don't know.
She's next to you.
Oh, he's playing his video game.
Oh, he's watching the sports game.
Oh, he's just sitting here on the bed bored.
I'm bored.
I'm going with my girls.
All this shit happens not only one day, But it adds up every single day.
And you take one step into that, oh, I'm going to live with her.
She can move in with me.
Bro, every guy I know that has lived with a chick, personally that I know, he either had a DV case against him, has either lost a lot of money and time and progress, or lost his career.
I've made a couple of one finger.
One couple I know that stayed together over this period of time, and they're like legit older.
So nowadays, guys, be careful, man.
Be very careful.
Alright.
Any more chats, guys?
Alright.
That's funny.
Fried chicken.
Positive quity Mike.
I caused the phrase I caused the phrase?
I think you mean coined?
Make me a sandwich ban on TikTok.
I love the removal of sandwich emoji because I went around commenting on hot bitch livestreams.
Oh, okay.
So, I guess it's bad?
I think so.
Damn, that's crazy.
Just that phrase?
Make me a sandwich?
I believe it.
TikTok, I believe it.
Yeah.
ModernET says, Hi, FNF. I'm a Council Club subscriber and I was trying to start a clip channel with FNF content.
As I get monetized, I contact your team, Noble, and ask to be whitelisted with Rumble.
He passed it to Rumble, and later he told me to post content later.
The same week, all the videos received copyright strikes, and I got demonetized.
That's only three months ago.
This week, it's happened again.
I waited over a week, and then I started posting a second channel.
I lost as well now.
I want to try again, but how can I avoid strikes?
We need to put you in that whitelist program.
Hit up Noble again.
I'll verify as well, but yeah, you need to be whitelisted on our channel for Rumble.
So, we'll work on that, bro.
Tyler Durden says, fresh slash Myron.
I've noticed any chick that I date that has an amazing body, they're all alpha-widowed.
Yo, it's a secret, bro.
It's a secret.
I have a good net worth, good-looking, tall, pause, in shape, and I can afford the delusional worldview.
But after I'm done doing my thing with them, I'm like, I could have just gotten it cheaper.
I went like, Eros.
LOL. Bro, that's the same sad tale we all go through, bro.
You know what's funny?
I got friends that make a lot of money too.
They're like, alright, this chick, I just want to smash.
I don't care about her.
Long term, I don't want to wife her.
She's a baddie on Instagram.
Fuck it, I'm just going to pay.
That's what they do.
And listen, I understand.
Because going on a date, hoping to smash, paying for dinner, taking her out.
I get it.
It's certainly time intensive.
I get it, bro.
I see why a lot of guys do it.
And then once you make a certain amount of money, you start to realize that all these girls sell box guys.
Bro, yeah.
It's scary.
It's like almost all of them, bro.
They do it on the side, or they do it surreptitiously, but they're all pretty much doing some form of sex work, man.
It's ridiculous.
But yeah, that's the game now, guys.
Honestly, it's a personal decision.
If you want to pay for a box, you guys know that we don't like it.
We're not fans of it.
Fresh did it one time, and he said never again.
Me, I personally don't like it because I think it's important that women respect you, and if you're going to go and pay for sex, she can't respect you while you simultaneously pay her because when you pay her for sexual access, what you're inferring is your time is more valuable than mine.
Therefore, I must give you a value-loaded exchange, and I give you money on top of my time.
So for me, I just can't.
I can't come to terms with that because, to me, I look at men as superior to women in every way.
I didn't bust my ass to become who I am to pay some random bitch money for sex.
Fuck out of here.
That's how I look at it.
Maybe that's ego.
Maybe that's me being an asshole.
But, you know, that's me just being transparent with you guys about why I personally don't do it.
Now, if you guys want to do it, fine.
No problem.
It is what it is.
And honestly, mathematically and pragmatically speaking, it probably makes more sense.
But we're just telling you guys why we personally don't like doing it.
Yeah, also, I like the experience of going...
Out with a girl that I like.
That likes me as well.
We have a good time.
We vibe.
And it's not rushed.
You get me?
When you pay, it's kind of rushed.
And it's almost like an issue because now you're kind of like, hey, I'm paying you to leave.
I want her to stay a little bit longer.
And some of y'all niggas are even worse.
Some of you guys will have a regular chick that you see that you've been paying for a box.
And then y'all will wife her.
I've seen that too, which is crazy.
Start off as Trigger Babies, then they end up together.
Yeah.
Crazy, bro.
Oh, did we finish that chat from Tyler?
I think so, right?
How do you guys handle nines that are alpha widowed?
Is it really worth it?
They're for the streets, bro.
I talked about this probably yesterday, actually.
Nines and tens, bro, are community property, guys.
Also, the problem is, bro, the dude before you that smashed her day in and day out, busts inside of her guts nonstop and gave her an experience that you can't give her, that guy's always going to be there.
So let's say you wife her up, bro, and she's like, oh, this is my new man.
If he comes back...
Or says, yo, where you at?
What you doing?
I'm in town.
Bro, best believe, even if you're the best guy in the world, she loves that guy to death.
So, you could fuck up.
Maybe you didn't give her what she wanted.
You didn't give her a good time.
The vibe was bad that day.
He hits her up.
But she's going, probably.
And at that point, it's like, that's your girl.
But she's widowed, alpha-widowed to another guy.
So, is it worth it to me?
Hell no.
Not for a wife, bro.
To smash?
Eh, cool.
But to wife up?
Hell no, bro.
And guys, I've been that guy.
They got a new man.
And I'm like, bro, that's crazy.
But the problem is that whole dynamic right there, bro, an ex can always come back into your life.
And that's an L, bro.
You don't want that.
Trust me.
Okay.
What's the next one?
That's it?
All right, man.
We covered five things today.
Why you should live with a girl in detail.
We're going to do a Zoom call now.
Answer your guys' dating questions for Cast Club.
All Cast Club members, jump in, guys.
We're going to put out the link right now for you guys on Cast Club.
On Locals.
So, yeah.
Supporter only for this one, guys.
We'll do another free Zoom call maybe next week.
Guys, one more time.
Live event.
February 22nd.
Next Saturday, here in Miami.
We'll do the first two hours.
Cast Club only.
And then premium is going to be for the actual speakers, networking, all that fun stuff with lunch.
And then after that, the after party.
Yachts, girls, us, networking.
All in one, guys.
You don't want to miss it.
Here in Miami.
And again, links are down below.
It's in one week, guys.
This is the last week you can get it.
And actually, I think after-party tickets are almost sold out.
So you got like, what, five left?
So guys, hop in now while you still can.
People text me like, no one's not this weekend.
Bro, get it now.
Log into your account.
It's going to be there.
Cool.
Oh, because we're on Rumble Studio, right?
We can stay live.
So you just want to switch it to Locals Only?
Yeah.
Okay.
Yeah, so guys, what we're going to do is we're going to switch it to Locals Only.
Obviously, just stay where you're at.
Don't go anywhere.
If you're watching this on Locals or YouTube or Rumble, just switch on over to Locals or just sign up, guys.
Guys, it's $35 a month.
You're able to join the event.
It's a no-brainer, bro.
You guys get to talk to us once a week just by being a cast club, which is a crazy deal because anybody else is going to charge y'all a bunch of money for this type of shit.
Shit.
I know creators that charge 10k to talk to them.
Facts.
And a balance of y'all, they niggas ain't sharing nothing really that we're not putting you guys onto.
So, for a fraction of the price, man.
So, yeah, guys, it's an incredible value.
Obviously, you get the whole content log, and on top of that, you get to talk to us once a week, which in itself takes care of the $35.
That's fucking cheap.
Yeah.
You know what I mean?
The price of Chipotle and some bitch that you don't like, pretty much.
No-brainer.
It's a no-brainer, bro.
Yep.
Or some bitch that don't like you.
Let me rephrase.
Men only go out and date with girls that day.
I gotta say, man, I think nowadays dinner dates are dead, bro.
Dinner dates are like an L. I used to go on dinner dates back in the day, but now I think it's almost dead, in my opinion.
It's not dead.
Men are always gonna do it, but it's just not...
It's a very...
It's a counterproductive way to get what you want.
I mean, you can still get it done, of course.
Yeah.
But, you know, it is a little bit...
Most of these bitches don't deserve a dinner date.
They don't.
They don't.
That's the reality.
They really don't.
So, that's what it comes down to.
And we got After Hours coming up at, I think, like 10.45 or some shit.
We got Mr. Organic pulling up.
Yep.
And some girls.
Alright.
Good to go, guys.
Zoom call.
Zoom link is in the Castle Club feed or slash the locals feed.
So if you want to join the Zoom right now, the link is in the Castle Club feed or the locals feed.
Alright.
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