After hours this year, we're joined with six lovely ladies.
Let's get into it.
Let's go!
Let's go!
Come on in here, bro.
Get out.
Get out.
It's a night.
Kind of hot.
In the night.
No control.
F*** out.
Put your shoes on outside.
You don't got to put them on in here.
Alright, and we are live.
What's up, guys?
Welcome to Fresh Fit Podcast.
After our edition, we're joining some girls.
And guys, quick announcement when we get into the show.
Number one, rumble.com slash freshfit.
As you guys know, that is the home base for us.
Also, cowsclub.tv, that is how we're able to make the content despite being banned and demonetized everywhere.
Banned again.
Yeah, cowsclub.tv.
Yeah, we got suspended on Twitch yesterday.
So we'll see what happens.
You know, sometimes when you're too real, they suspend you.
But, uh, me and Fresh got a wager on what got his band.
We'll see what happens.
Was it me or was it him?
Was it me or was it him?
We're gonna find out soon.
Um, which word it was that got his band.
But, uh, you...
My money's on Fresh, man.
Your money's on Fresh?
Okay.
Which is rare, right?
Because he's not the one that normally gets...
I know, right?
Um, but anyway...
What else?
Oh, guys, we just completed doing a great interview with Phil.
We talked about the USS Liberty, man.
Obviously, the interview, we had to put the majority of it on Rumble.
It's up on Rumble right now.
Timestamps are actually in right now as we speak, so make sure to go check out that interview.
Probably the most censored piece of American history that they don't want you to know.
The USS Liberty Attack, man.
It's over there on Rumble.
The first part is on YouTube, but the mainstream is over there on Rumble.
So go check it out, man.
So shout out to Phil Turney for coming on the show for that.
And then Chris, go ahead.
*Dom the Monk* Yo, cheers to Bills, man.
Henny Bills.
Henny Bills, long week.
We lit.
It's Friday night, man.
We're here to chat with the girls, man.
You know, it's Friday night.
Let's go.
On the panel for now.
Shout out to you guys.
Follow me on Twitch.
Hopefully, you know, I'm still on Twitch, so you guys can follow me there, okay?
Other than that...
Let's have a great show.
And we have a Zoom call Sunday, Castle Club at 8pm.
So we got you guys with a link coming up at 7.45 on Sunday.
Stay tuned for that.
But without further ado, ladies, if you don't mind, give us your name, your age, what you do for a living, dating status, and if you want to, of course, we'll start right here.
Welcome back to the show.
I'm Vanilla Baby.
I'm 26.
I do reality TV. I'm single.
And not high.
Yeah, I'm not high today.
Where you were here last time?
Yeah.
Oh.
Shouldn't say much.
That makes sense.
Where are you from originally?
Originally I'm from Colorado.
Alright.
But you live in LA, right?
Yes.
And then you said reality TV? Yes.
Highest education level completed?
High school.
Okay.
Relationship status?
Single.
Still?
Yeah.
That was quick.
Alright.
Parents still together?
No.
Okay.
And then your favorite question?
Breath control?
Arm implant.
Oh yeah, I remember.
Hey y'all!
She belongs to the streets!
And then ethnic background is black, white, something else?
And Hispanic.
Alright.
Which is Hispanic?
Alright.
Hey y'all.
My name is Martasia.
I'm 24.
I act.
I do music, amongst other things.
I'm a creative.
And I'm from Miami.
I'm single and I'm young.
I mean, barely.
Wait, what did you say barely?
I mean, 24 is like almost to her age, the peak at 25.
Damn, you're right though.
So yeah, so...
Wait, you said it was Martasia?
Yes, Martasia.
Okay.
And then you said you're from Miami, actress and singer?
Yeah.
Okay.
Highest education level completed?
I have a bachelor's.
Okay.
Where'd you get it in?
Health sciences at UCF. Okay.
Cool.
Alright.
Relationship status?
Single.
Birth control?
No.
Any kids?
No.
Alright.
Are your parents together?
No.
Okay, and you said UCF, so, okay, Orlando, right?
Okay.
What about you?
Wait, hold on, body count?
Wait, what?
Body count?
Oh, body count.
He's asking you that.
You better not lie.
Oh, my body count is what it is for me, girl.
What it is for me, that's an interesting number.
All right, and what's your athletic background, Black?
Yeah.
Okay.
As black as I look.
She's one of us.
I wasn't sure if it was Haitian or Jamaican.
Oh, yes, I am Haitian.
Yes, sir!
I gotta ask a question.
No, mute your mic, Fred.
So, hold on, hold on.
What?
No, bro.
You heard what's happening, and then he was right.
What do you think about that?
Is it true?
Is it not true?
Is it real?
What do you think?
I'm not sure.
I have to talk to my goddad because he lives there.
And then they had the whole issue with like pirates and the overthrow of the government.
Pirates?
Yeah, my dad has a shipping boat out there.
So they still got to like recover all that stuff.
Wait, pirates like Donnie Depp?
Wait, in Haiti you mean?
There was pirates.
Pirates from that island took over my dad's ship.
And they kind of like might have hurt the crew.
What?
My uncle actually died from that similar story.
So, yeah, Haiti.
Yeah.
Wait, so you're telling me there's cats, dogs, and no pirates?
There's a cat's dog issue, a pirate's issue, a government issue, just a lot of issues.
Damn.
Yo, hate it going through it, bro.
Just a lot of issues.
Okay.
All right.
Okay.
Well, so you're Haitian, because we know there's certain groups of people that would not consider her black, oddly enough.
What?
Yeah, there's a whole...
I know.
There's a whole group of people that would not consider you black.
She's black as day.
I mean, I've been told by other people I looked Indian.
I've been told.
No, no, no.
You look Indian?
No, no.
That's what I've been told.
Well, I'm white then.
I'm white.
I don't want to give this too much attention, but what I'll say is that there's some people in the United States that look at it and say, if you're not the descendant of a slave, you're not black.
American.
Oh, yeah.
Yeah, I know.
It's foolish.
It's ridiculous.
If you're from the Caribbean or you're from Africa or whatever, they don't consider you black.
I know.
It's weird.
Trust me.
We get it.
We say the same thing.
They call themselves foundationally black Americans.
FBAs.
Yeah.
Anyway.
What about you?
What's your name?
My name is Faith.
I'm from Columbus, Ohio.
Okay.
I'm 23 and I'm an esthetician.
Okay.
Columbus, Ohio?
Mm-hmm.
Are you just visiting or?
Yeah.
I'm actually on vacation with one of my best friends.
She belongs to the streets.
Columbus, Ohio.
Yes.
Oh, okay.
And you said you're an esthetician?
Yes, sir.
Okay.
Oh, yes, sir.
Okay.
What do you...
Oh, highest education level completed?
I did a trade, so the esthetician.
Okay.
But I completed high school, too.
Okay.
So you went to trade school.
How long is trade school to be an esthetician?
Two years?
No, it's like six or seven months.
Okay.
Yeah.
And when you say esthetician, is that like skin care, hair?
Yeah, I specialize in like brows and facials.
Okay.
Relationship status?
I'm single.
Alright.
Are your parents still together?
No.
Okay.
Birth control for you?
No.
Okay.
And then, oh, I forgot to ask.
Do any of you guys have kids?
No kids?
I do.
You have?
Okay.
Where's the daddy?
He's involved.
She's a mother.
Where's your kids?
Huh?
Back home?
Where your kids are.
Oh, they're back home.
He's back home with his dad.
There you go.
Okay.
She belongs to the street.
I'm assuming, right?
Or Colorado.
Okay.
Alright.
What about you?
What's your name?
I'm Jules.
Jules?
Okay.
Sorry.
Sorry.
My hat slipped.
What?
How old are you?
I'm 26.
Where are you from?
Day County.
Like Miami or?
Uh oh.
This the hood ain't it?
So Miami then?
Yes.
Okay.
Yeah.
What do you do for work?
Get money.
I sell water bottles if I got to.
You're a hustler.
That's what it means.
You're a hustler.
Yeah.
Okay.
Okay, but can you tell us like what specifically?
One of your hustles.
Yeah, one of your hustles.
Like me one.
You don't even know!
That's a lot.
What do you want to hear?
What's the main one?
What is the predominant source of your income?
The biggest one.
Legal.
I'm an adult entertainer.
Okay.
She belongs to the streets.
I entertain the adults.
Oh, she sucks deck for a living.
Shit, if it costs.
Okay.
Okay.
Like OnlyFans, I guess?
I let that go when I had my baby.
Okay.
Real good?
Yeah.
You can't even tell.
I have two.
Two?
I know, right?
So, hold on.
Okay, so are you still an adult entertainer or did you leave?
I entertain some adults.
Wait, are you still doing it?
To an extent.
To an extent?
Yeah.
Okay.
Alright, that's different.
Man, she walking on ice, man.
It's different.
Okay.
Yeah, I'm walking on life.
Fuck ice.
Alright.
And you said you got two kids, right?
Yeah.
Oh, what's your ethnic background?
White?
Yeah, I'm just white.
Okay.
Basic bitch.
Damn.
Chris.
That's white.
White is basic, right?
I'm just going on this.
Do you know him?
No.
He's coming out of your heart.
Damn.
And you're black, right?
I'm black and jerky.
Not Haitian or Jamaican or anything like that?
No.
Alright, so you said you're an adult entertainer.
Highest education level completed?
College and high school and some college, no.
Did you get your associates?
I kind of let it go, yeah.
You got your associates?
No.
Oh, okay, so high school then.
Alright, relationship status?
I'm single.
Alright.
Where's the daddies?
In the streets.
In the streets?
Okay.
Alright.
Are your parents still together?
Shit, I ain't gonna hold you.
I don't even know who my old boy is, boy.
Makes sense.
You don't know who your dad is?
Yeah.
Yeah, she black brush.
Okay.
Are you on birth control?
What does that even mean?
I'm black.
I control the birth.
Wait, wait, wait.
What does that mean?
I control the birth.
Wow.
So...
She has to control, man.
Okay, yeah, no, you are in control.
Yeah, you're right.
Yeah, of course, but like, are you getting assistance with controlling the birth?
There we go.
Through a pill?
No.
Or an IED? No.
Or a...
Okay.
Okay.
So, no.
Alright, body count.
Come on.
They flaming her in the chat.
150.
Come on, you know your body.
Are you talking about my body count, what, this year?
Yeah, this year, yeah.
This year, like, three.
This year?
100.
Three.
Alright, man.
I mean, you're not people you killed.
I mean...
Yeah, like three.
What the fuck?
What's your stage name?
Jules.
Jules?
Jules, like...
Like jewelry.
Oh, jewelry.
Yeah.
Okay.
Jewels.
Jewels.
Got it.
Because I don't...
There's gem jewels, but you're just jewels.
Jewels.
Okay.
And you said you got two kids, different dads, I'm guessing?
Yeah.
Okay.
Alright.
And black.
Alright, what about you?
What's your name?
I'm Via.
I'm sorry, VIA? VIA, yeah.
Okay.
How old are you, VIA? 26.
Where are you from?
LA. Okay.
You live here now or are you just visiting?
No, I live here.
Okay.
When did you move out here?
About four months ago.
Okay.
What do you do for work?
I'm a day trader.
Okay.
That's cool.
That's not something you see every day from a female.
I know.
Highest education level completed?
High school.
All right.
Relationship status?
Single.
All right.
Are your parents still together?
Nope.
Birth control for you?
No comment.
I'm not going to comment on any of those questions.
You're on birth control or not?
We are answering.
That's a simple question.
I'm just not going to answer.
If you don't want to say it, it's probably a yes.
Yeah, it's a yes, yeah.
Because most girls will deny it.
She telling that nigga no.
Okay, you said you're single, and what's your ethnic background?
I'm Mexican.
Of course she is.
She's in LA. I don't want to be stereotypical.
It's all good.
And how long have you been day training for?
About four years.
Okay.
Do that full-time, I'm guessing?
Yeah.
No other jobs?
All right, that's good.
All right, buddy.
Come on.
She's wearing white That's a good question Chris.
I mean, I'm trying to crack that get him Chris.
What what I don't know Hey, I bet you won't do it Chris.
All right.
Welcome back.
Yeah, what's your name?
Yeah Hello, I'm Gabby.
How old are you Gabby?
32.
Where are you from?
Damn!
Brazil.
Part of Brazil?
The capital, Brasília.
Okay.
How old are you?
I'm sorry, high education level completed?
I went to college for physical education.
So you got like a four-year degree in Brazil?
Yes.
Okay.
In PT, physical education.
And then, what do you do for work?
Nowadays, I'm a birth and death doula, so I help families, especially with postpartum, and also I teach people about conscious dying.
Conscious dying?
Yes, like I teach people about sustainable ways of dying and why you should write a last wishes letter.
Yo, I like him.
It's kind of interesting because she said conscious dying, but you're not going to be conscious, and sustaining means quite literally you're not sustaining when you're dead anymore.
Wait, wait, hold on.
Can you go into more detail?
It doesn't make sense.
I don't want to die.
You're right, we're all dying, right?
Conscious dying meaning that you wouldn't be afraid of death.
You embrace it as we are all born and we all die, so...
When you embrace the fact that you die, like the stoics say, memento mori.
When you embrace that, you live life more fully.
Because some people are afraid of everything, so they don't realize that the fear is holding them back from life.
So I help people awaken.
Our time here is limited, and it's a beautiful but short trip, and we never know when you're gonna lose someone that you love, so really live today like...
It could be a last.
Yeah, leave nothing behind, you know, because you never know.
Where do you live?
You said you're from Brazil.
Where do you live?
Do you live in Miami?
Yes, I live in Wynwood.
Okay.
I see her too many times.
Yeah, yeah.
I work around here with the babies.
Here.
He's walking the dog, I'm walking the babies.
That's my baby.
Yeah, that's his baby.
I guess he's single too.
Single dad.
Yeah, yeah.
I'm single.
Yeah, that's correct.
For now he is, yeah.
Relationship status for you?
Single.
Okay.
Still?
Yeah.
See this?
Podcast is not bringing...
Man, they're afraid of you.
They don't want to die.
Don't blame us for your parents that are going to switch.
Yes, they are.
What?
Birth control for you.
What did you say, Chris?
I used this ring, my precious.
Oral ring?
It has like a...
It has like a natural cycle thing, so it measures my temperature.
What?
For birth control?
It tracks everything?
Yeah, so it tracks my body temperature and it can tell when I'm ovulating.
Oh, so you just avoid sex?
But you don't have birth control though?
No, no pills.
That's the first.
Ovulation?
32 years old.
The ovulation is going to be soon.
Just say it.
And then you said you're Brazil, right?
Yes.
Full Brazilian.
Okay.
So what I can do is, guys, is it Friday?
Yeah, it's Friday.
We can read some of your guys' questions that you guys got for the ladies.
It's Friday.
We do have a topic at hand for us.
You want to hit them with the first question or do you want to read chats first?
We can do chats for supporters first.
Give me 30 seconds to...
Alright, Bill needs to get it organized.
So, we'll do the first question then.
Go ahead.
Ladies on the panel, we know it's tough dating nowadays.
You're all single here.
And for the most part, we've all been in situations where dating people, they suck because they are either bad people for us or they're not what we want.
But we're in these scenarios.
How's dating for you in Miami or where you're from?
Is it good or is it bad?
Tell us the real deal on dating for you.
We'll start here.
Okay, so where I am from, Brazil...
I feel that people are not very loyal.
Well, I mean, probably more Miami, right?
You live in Miami now, so you can talk about Miami.
Yeah, so in Miami, I feel like I got to go on some first dates, but I couldn't really connect with the guys here.
Why is that?
I felt that oftentimes they were just like, oh, I'm the founder or the CEO of this thing and that's it.
And then what else do you bring to the table?
Like, oh, you're a cool guy.
Are you kind?
And I felt like that's not there.
A lot of it is just showing what they have professionally.
That's a lot of shit though, man.
It's nice that you were successful in that way, but you gotta also be a cool person and bring something to the table.
So the vibe was in there?
Yeah.
Okay, I gotcha.
I feel that's common in Miami though, so I'm curious to see what the other girls are gonna say.
Yeah.
What about you?
I don't know yet, because I just got here four months ago, but I don't really go out or anything, so it's hard for me to meet people.
I just live in my home, that's it.
But you have Instagram, right?
Yeah, but I mean, come on, I'm not going to answer to a guy in my DMs over Instagram.
You never have?
Come on.
Come on now.
On a date?
No.
Bruh, we're in Miami, the age of social media.
You never went on a date before, ever?
Mm-mm.
What about, for example, dating apps?
I'm on the dating apps, but I feel like Hinge is the best one, right?
I don't know, in my opinion.
But you'll probably get like 300 likes and maybe go on a date with one guy, two guys maybe.
Okay, how was that experience for you on those dates for guys?
It was good, yeah.
It was good, it just didn't work out.
No, but why didn't it work out?
Honestly, I don't really know.
I mean, the guys I've been on dates with weren't interesting or one guy that I did see it going somewhere.
We got in an argument and we just didn't see eye to eye and that was that.
About what though?
Yeah, I'm just curious.
What is it about that turned you off with the argument?
So I don't like when people say something like, what are you doing?
But they are hoping that you say something else.
Like where you have to read between the lines.
Does that make sense?
Just be straight up.
Just tell me.
You know what I mean?
I don't like those little games.
So I said that and it really pissed him off.
He's like, oh, you're so like...
Your mood just changed.
And I was like, no, I'm not here to play games.
Just say what you want.
That's it.
And he got upset.
And then I was like, okay, let's forget about it.
Whatever.
And then, yeah.
And he didn't forget about it.
He got really mad that I said that.
If he said what he want, you would dump him on the spot.
He wants sex.
But, you know, that's not for me.
And then you leave him.
No, I wouldn't, though, because just be honest.
No, you would, bro.
Yep.
Ain't nobody really just saying that.
Come on, man.
Okay, like, what was the context of the inquiry that he gave you?
What did he ask, specifically?
So we were supposed to hang out that night, and he asked me, what are you doing later?
Like, you know what I'm doing later, right?
He wants a fight.
Wait, what?
Wait, wait.
So hold on, you guys already had a planned date to hang out, and then he asked you, what are you doing later?
Yeah, thank you.
That's what I said, and then I told him, like...
Like, did he mean, like, doing later as, like, and this is before you guys met up?
Well, we were already seeing each other.
No, no, no, no, no.
Oh, like for the day.
Okay.
So let's say you guys had your date planned for 7 or 8 p.m.
Did he message you at like 2 saying, what are you doing later, knowing he was going to meet you at 8?
Or were you guys already out together and he asked you why you guys were out in person, what are you doing later?
No, the first one.
Okay.
Okay.
See, that context matters.
So, he was gonna see you later.
That doesn't make sense for him to ask that then.
He wanted to fuck.
So that's why I said, I was like, you mean hanging out, right?
And he's like, oh, I'm just confirming.
I'm like, what do you mean?
What?
So he did a weird confirmation.
A very weird confirmation.
Yeah, that's kind of weird.
That's so weird.
What are you doing?
Instead of saying, are we good for later or something.
Or I'll see you at eight, right?
Well, here's the thing.
That's what I would've preferred.
Girls are really flaky in Miami.
That's probably why he did that.
Yeah.
Facts.
Girls are flaky.
I mean, in general.
But he's assuming the flake before he even confirms.
It's a shitty way to do it.
I just didn't like it, so I said something and he didn't like that I said something.
How long were you guys hanging out when this happened?
A little under two months.
Damn!
And you were just okay with saying, fuck it, I'm not gonna talk to this guy again?
Well, no, because if you don't want to have an adult conversation already, and we're already just two months in, that tells me that later down the road you're not going to want to have harder conversations.
So, I don't want to deal with that.
So you just want him to say, I want to fuck?
Come on, let's Netflix and fuck.
I mean, yeah.
You rather that?
I don't really care, as long as you're honest and straight up about it.
I respect that.
Interesting.
Yeah.
Alright.
There's probably some more things there we're missing, but...
Yeah, yeah, definitely not messing.
Alright.
What about you?
How's dating for you?
Oh, we know.
I ain't gonna hold you.
I don't date.
She fucks.
Shit, if this motherfucker paying me, shit, I never will.
Well, to an extent, but nah, I ain't gonna hold you.
I don't date.
Because if you want to be realistic in this time of era...
Right.
Even if you date, niggas gonna do what they wanna do.
Niggas are going to...
They're going to still cheat.
They're going to still trick on Paulina.
And you at home cooking his meal while he just let it go with Paulina and not coming home to you.
I don't do all that.
I'd rather understanding than a title.
Okay.
Let me ask you this, though.
I guess you're child fathers.
Didn't you date them at the beginning?
Yeah.
And what caused, I guess, I just wanted them to break it off with you or vice versa?
Okay, see, my first BD... I had my first baby when I was like 15, so...
My first BD, he was a grown man, you feel me?
FBI, open up!
Type shit.
So...
Okay, you know what, let's go the second BD. The one's more of age.
When you're older.
The second one, I ain't gonna hold you.
It was all gravy, but...
It was unexpected.
The baby.
The baby was unexpected.
Really?
So you didn't know you were pregnant?
No, he knew.
From when I knew, he knew.
Type shit.
It was just unexpected.
When you're dealing with somebody, you don't just...
Be, you know, doing the do, and then, oh, I'm gonna get pregnant.
I mean, I don't know.
I just didn't see that I was able to have another child at the time being.
And I... Kept it?
...had a baby, randomly.
So you don't want to be with him, like, I guess, because he's the father of your kid?
Or you just feel like it's not worth it?
He's a crab.
Like Mr.
Krabs?
What?
Like...
Arr, baby.
Put that shit down.
He's a crab.
I'm confused.
Yeah, I've never heard that slang term before.
She's basically saying he's not shit.
Oh!
Okay.
And then, being the fact that I had my first baby at 15, come on, I got pregnant again, you think I'm gonna kill my baby?
No.
Oh, did he want you to get an abortion?
He ain't say shit about that.
Because I asked.
So what did he say when you said, do you want to keep it?
What did he say?
Nothing.
Part left.
He left it flat.
So you told him I'm pregnant and he just ran?
I mean, no, not really.
It just was like a dull moment.
How long were you guys together when this happened?
I mean, I've been fucking with him for about six months.
Okay, so...
There's some chemistry there, but...
So you told him and he was just silent?
I guess he didn't believe me until I started getting bigger.
Oh, shit.
And then what did he do at that point?
Kind of got down.
Alright.
So you don't date anymore because...
I don't date.
I don't date period.
Wait, so niggas gotta pay?
I mean...
Yep.
Alright.
Wait, hold on.
You made your baby daddy pay?
Okay, there you go.
He had me.
Okay, good.
It was the eyes.
Okay, we can move on.
What about you?
I don't know if you know this.
I feel like your relationship is going to be as good as you are with yourself.
I mean, that's a big factor.
I also have a relationship with God, so that's a big factor for me too, personally.
So, let's say your last person you were talking to.
Okay.
How'd you meet them and why did it end?
Well, keep in mind, she's not in Miami.
She's in Columbus, Ohio.
Back home, back home, back home.
Yeah.
I mean, she might as well be in Miami.
We were together for like a year.
It was great.
It was fine.
I think that we just kind of distanced each other because he's busy, I'm busy.
It wasn't anything negative.
Okay.
Yeah.
So dating now, how do you find your next mate?
Is it in church?
Is it like apps, Instagram, money?
I'm going to let the universe kind of The universe?
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
So I'm gonna let that kind of pull towards me, you know?
The universe is going to pull towards you with a great man like their name is Faith.
You never know.
You never know.
Your name is Faith.
The irony is shocking.
I just learned about manifestation!
What is it like, I guess, dating in Columbus, Ohio for you?
I mean, for the past five years, I've been in two relationships.
They're both long-term?
Yes.
She must be a good bitch.
And how long?
Five years, two relationships.
How long did those, was one like two years, three years?
Yeah, it was two years in the first one, and then the next one was a year.
A year?
Yeah.
So you mean four years?
Or no, three years?
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Not five?
Mm-hmm.
Okay, so three.
You know what I mean.
Math is in her, yeah.
Okay, that's fine.
She has faith.
Okay, so why did those relationships end?
Like, you said one of them, it was, like, he was busy and you were busy?
Yeah.
And then what about the second one?
No, so the first one, like, we just grew apart.
Like, I don't know.
I feel like that is like a pattern for me.
In relationships, we just kind of grew apart.
I don't really like to argue.
I don't like to say too much.
Okay.
Grew apart.
Yeah.
You know, how did you guys grow apart?
It's always interesting when girls say this.
Let me guess.
He was a bum.
I wouldn't say that.
I don't really know how to explain it.
It's just kind of like life was life.
Let me translate it.
Your career aspirations didn't match up to his.
You guys that were on different life paths, you probably were on a trajectory to earn more and acquire more status and resources than him.
And he wasn't on the same path.
So you said, you know what, we're growing apart.
Yeah.
Fucking every time.
Yep.
Good job, Mark.
It's just like, you know, you gotta translate the womanese, man.
Yeah.
You be tired and over all this shit.
Huh?
I say it's good, man.
You be tired and over all this shit.
No, it's just that, like, women are really bad at saying things like they are, is what I've realized.
I've interviewed her, like, 3,000 plus.
And you guys always find a way to sugarcoat something, saying things like, we grew apart, or he just wasn't the one, or whatever.
And it always comes down to, like, the same fucking thing.
I'm making more than him or I'm increasing my status.
He's not.
He's stagnating.
I'm progressing.
I can't be with a guy that's not progressing.
I'm going to go find a guy that's progressing and or doing better than me.
Makes sense.
Every single time.
Which I don't knock you guys for, but I think it's very important for men to understand that women by nature don't want an equal.
They want a superior.
Which, that's a whole other conversation.
So same thing with the other guy?
Same thing?
You guys grew apart as well?
Yeah, he owned a pretty big roofing company where I live.
So he was just constantly going and going and going and it really started growing pretty fastly.
He didn't really have the time to invest in the relationship and I didn't, you know...
Okay, so you guys grew apart because he was so successful.
Yeah.
So one guy grew apart because he wasn't ambitious enough, the other guy was too ambitious.
Yeah.
Interesting.
I would have sat my ass home.
Go take your ass to that roof, bring your ass back.
Yeah, I think that's something that women really don't understand is like they want a guy that makes money and is successful, but then it's like...
He has to work.
Yeah, it's like you want a guy that earns a lot of money, you're not going to see him that much.
Facts.
What?
Because I'm dealing with that.
Who?
Wait.
Who got a lot of money now?
You said he's single.
I am, but shit.
No titles.
Just understanding.
Understanding.
What I need from you is understanding.
Alright, what about you?
What's dating like for you in...
I mean, you're in Miami now.
Yeah, I just got back actually, but as far as like the past, it's just been...
Where were you at before?
Orlando.
Okay.
As far as the past, it's just been a lot of like me getting...
Me getting bored or tired of like the personality of the person usually.
That's what turns me off very fast.
And then any inconsistencies in the way that they treat me or how they're talking to me, I'll be probably at the door.
I'm really good to, like, leave.
I probably always got my, like, running shoes.
What's the longest you had a relationship for?
Longest.
She got bored of her hair.
What the fuck?
What?
What does that even have to do with me?
Okay, I look like Jaden.
Jaden is...
So basically, guys nowadays are boring.
They don't have a lot of, like...
Hot Cheetos?
Not necessarily.
Like, you don't have to just be boring in order for me to want to, like, dip.
You just might...
Parts of your personality just might not be for me.
Like, you might be too playful for me.
Or you might be, like, one of those guys where...
You know how they try to roast you?
To try to, like, bring you back down?
Yeah, like, shit like that.
Stuff like that is just not my vibe.
It's not my vibe, so that's happened before.
Would you say being inconsistent is another one?
Yeah, because they'll first start talking to you and everything is great and they're saying everything that you like and then the minute that you go on a date with them, maybe you give them the kiss that they wanted.
You give them one thing that they wanted.
Now they're kind of like...
Trying to do too much and act like they was like all the way up here and they're that guy.
And it's like, no, be that guy that you was the first time because I'm the same person.
So don't change when you finally get just a piece of what you want.
Or even I give you an inkling that you will get it.
Right.
They'll already start messing up and I'll be like, all right, I ain't going to wait until I can see the new you.
I'm out.
I mean, when you take off your makeup, you're not the same person though.
Oh, when I took off that makeup, I'm still beautiful.
I mean, I ain't saying you're not beautiful, but...
So let's dead that.
Let's dead that.
Okay, thank you for that.
What about you?
Dating for me in LA, it's not good.
It's like a pimp epidemic out there.
I was just about to say that.
Most men out there want to be pimps or they just want to fuck.
You mean like they try to pimp you right off the gate?
Yeah.
Yeah, basically.
That's how they come at girls out there.
What's that term when you're on the blade?
Is that like a term over there?
That means like you hoeing.
Put that hoe on the strip.
That means you're on the street.
Thousand dollar night.
When you say men are trying to pimp, can you describe that specifically?
Are we talking, because obviously it's 2024, times have changed drastically.
OnlyFans?
Are we talking they're trying to put you on OnlyFans?
Are you talking they're trying to put you on Chatterbait?
Are you talking about they're trying to put you out on the streets for real?
What do we mean by this?
I mean, it could vary.
It could be from the streets, the club, OnlyFans.
They're just trying to get money out of you, basically.
Okay.
And so I haven't done any relationships since my ex passed away, so I've just kind of been focusing on myself.
Is he the baby's father?
No.
Okay.
Is he from Colorado?
No.
He's from San Diego, California.
Okay.
There you go.
Mexican too?
Puerto Rican.
Oh yeah, you fucked up.
Okay, so...
Interesting.
So, with LA, everyone is pretty much trying to pimp you.
Not me.
Men in general is what I mean.
Girl, if they trying to pimp you and you turn it down, they tried to pimp you.
They ain't got to do all that.
It's an epidemic.
They ain't trying to pimp me.
That's for damn sure.
What about the guys that aren't criminals?
The guys that aren't criminals, they're more of just trying to fuck, basically.
Interesting.
Yeah.
Is there a big sugar baby culture out there?
I would say so, yeah.
It's LA. Yeah, same here in Miami.
Yeah.
Quite similar.
Interesting.
All right, what's the next question?
or do we just hit chats?
Yep, chats are ready.
Them chats, brother.
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Yeah, I know.
Moe reads it.
Moe sucks at reading.
Why do you get it on Moe, man?
Yeah, they roast him up for that reading.
It wasn't that bad.
Okay, let's hit some of these chats real quick.
Guys, go ahead and get your questions in.
Let's see what you guys got to say.
FNFSuperChat.com, guys, or Rumble Rant, or Castle Club It In, either or any of those three methods.
And we've got a video to play to as well.
Big Moe really said...
Ovulation.
Okay.
With the Shrek.
CJ Sweat goes, Yo, Myron, Libro, WFNF. I don't know who that is.
Who's that?
No idea.
304s, welcome to the Church of Fresh and Fit.
Here are our leaders, Decon Fresh and Pastor Fit, are here to save your souls and help guide your life back on track.
Please respect the man of God.
Question for you.
What's something you never realized about yourself until someone else told you?
X, we tell Chris he's a bum.
That's actually not a bad question.
What's something that you didn't know about yourself, but you realized that after someone noticed and told you, we can start right here with Miss LA. Something that somebody else told me that I didn't realize about myself.
Yeah, and then you're like, damn, actually, they're right.
Maybe on a TV show?
How about this?
I'll keep reading the chats.
You guys think about it because that is kind of a deeper question.
I'll keep reading.
But just think of something, ladies.
WFNF for bringing on OGs from Cals Club.
Dominicano, yep, shout out to him.
On the pod, he's our Make-A-Wish kid.
Moe, take him out for some Bloody Marys and help the nigga feel rejuvenated.
Ladies, the kid is single and ready to have someone teach him about the birds and the bees.
Okay.
I really am confused.
You want to shout him out real quick?
Yeah, he's here.
Dominicano, you want to come up here?
You want to come on, bro?
Yes, sir!
Yeah, say what's up to the people.
Shout out to the OG. Shout out Chicago Castle Club Mafia.
Thank you guys for bringing me on.
This is great.
You low-key looking like that.
You love you.
You put up.
And this is one of the guys in the Castle Club that needed help with heart issues.
Yeah.
One of our members of the B84. Yeah, one of our guys is a doctor.
So, yeah, man, Castle Club, man.
Shout out to him, man.
Let's go.
Shout out to the community.
Shout out to Dave.
Thank you, Dominicano.
Ladies, rate the girl next to you and name one thing she can do to improve her looks.
All right, so...
Also, you rate her an 8, 9, or 10...
Think about this.
Alright, so let's answer the first question or this question first?
Okay, yeah.
So first we'll go with something you didn't realize about yourself.
Yeah.
So we'll start here on Miss LA now.
You got some time.
And then we'll go to the next one.
That I'm overly giving.
Okay.
Something negative, man.
That's too good.
I already knew the girls were going to...
Something that was not nice about yourself.
I can be a bitch.
Oh!
Okay.
Well, we knew that already, but...
Okay.
I believe it.
For the TV show.
Um...
I've been told before that I can be pretty prideful.
You know?
That, like, if someone does cross me, like, I'm not...
I'll forgive, but I definitely don't forgive nothing.
Ours.
Prideful?
Yeah.
What about you?
I feel like I've been told that when I'm having a conversation, it's hard for me to zone in.
I zone out.
Yeah, we know.
I can tell.
Yeah, I don't mean to.
It's just me.
Do you smoke weed?
Yes, I do.
But not right now.
But that might be a side effect of the herbs, you know what I'm saying?
I feel like I was like that before, though.
And Botox.
For real?
Oh, that's bad, man.
I don't have Botox.
I actually have filler.
Oh, filler?
Chris, leave her alone, man.
Yo, I'm ignorant, man.
No, Botox.
My forehead moves.
What about you?
What got fillers in?
My lips and my cheeks.
I thought it was your chin.
Wait, hold on.
Your cheeks?
My cheeks, my lips, and my chin, yes.
Can you stand up and do a twirl?
Do I have to?
I mean, if you want to.
Up to you.
I'm okay.
Okay, fine.
Don't worry about it.
Thank you.
How did you...
Shame me in those cheeks, Chris.
Shame me in those cheeks.
Oh, man.
My body's real.
She meant like her cheeks.
Hey, listen, man.
It's like her cheeks just said stand up.
I thought it was ass cheeks, man.
No, no, no.
I thought it was ass cheeks.
No, no.
You said your ass.
Your ass and your cheeks.
Then you spanked your ass.
No BBL. I thought the same thing, too, Chris.
I gym six days a week.
Really?
Yeah, I lift.
See, now I'm intrigued.
I was in a gym today, by the way.
I did chess, because you know, chess is for the curls.
Sorry, chess is for the...
whatever.
Stupid.
Okay, one thing about you that you realize that someone told you, that you didn't know a girlfriend before?
They be like, I act too much like a nigga.
Yeah, you do.
I believe her.
Yeah, I believe her.
On some real shit.
I mean, I noticed it, but it's like, I be trying to train you.
Like one of the boys.
Like one of the boys.
What part of the day are you from?
Opa-Lanka.
Triple C's, B's, baby.
Oh, Carol City.
Oh, yeah.
Carol City.
Oh, shit.
This a hood.
Chopper.
Okay.
What about you?
I was gonna say the same thing that I'm basically like one of the guys.
No, you're not.
I don't see it.
I think it's just because when we go out...
Actually, she day trades and she argued with that guy.
And I'm mean.
Well, I'm honest.
I don't sugar cut stuff.
Do you like confrontation?
Do you like to argue?
No, it's not worth it.
For what?
You argue with the nigga on the side.
Facts.
Loki, Loki, Loki, Loki.
Okay.
What about you?
That I always want to be right.
That I always want to be right.
I can see that.
My response was that I can think whatever and you can think whatever.
Can we agree to disagree?
If not, I'll kill you.
Yeah.
Okay.
Hey, she does death shit.
She's 32 and single, so I'm not surprised.
I'm not trying to be an asshole or whatever.
Do you want to get married?
Not sure.
She's not agreeable.
It's actually one of the biggest things for marriages.
Like, men want an agreeable woman.
It's kind of like a turn-off.
Are you married?
No, she's not married.
She's single.
No, I'm not talking about...
She's asking me if I'm married.
Yeah.
You have a girlfriend?
Basically.
You gotta have one.
How are you?
Okay.
So, the thing is, when girls ask me that, I always find it interesting when they say, are you married or do you have a girlfriend?
I don't think, okay, if I was to ask you, hypothetically speaking, right, are you having a bunch of sex right now?
Fucking a bunch of dudes.
If I was to ask you that, that'd be a weird question for me to ask you, right?
But I'm not.
Well, but it'd be a weird question for me to ask.
Whether you are or not is irrelevant.
It's by being realistic.
Well, either way, it's not really my place to ask you that question is my point I'm trying to get across here.
So, and the reason why is because women who picks, women pick who fucks, right?
Yeah.
So, if women control sex, who controls relationships?
You're not answering my question.
I am.
I am answering it.
I'm trying to explain this to you to see the concept of as to why I come up with this answer.
Who controls relationships?
Women.
Actually, the man.
Not really.
The man.
Yeah.
Ain't gonna lie, because y'all could be...
Y'all are the only ones that determine whether y'all gonna get tied down or not.
Yeah.
Because you can say it, but it ain't gonna...
So, I would say that you're fairly selective with who you have sex with, right?
Depending on how much they pay, according to what you said earlier.
Right?
To a degree.
Good job, Mark.
Right?
Yes.
Okay, so...
What the fuck?
So, you're selective with who you might have sex with.
I'm selective with who I commit to.
There you go.
So are you in a relationship or no?
You didn't respond.
Is that even me?
That's why he's single.
I think I chose who I want to be with.
I saw him on him.
I saw him on him.
She'll argue with you.
He didn't say it straight up.
She'll argue with you.
Who?
Who's gonna argue with me?
Yeah, she would.
What?
He didn't say it straight up.
No, I'm just saying that like...
Whether I have a girlfriend or not is irrelevant, is what I'm trying to say.
That's like me asking you.
You asked us?
He's on Hinge.
Yeah, because...
He's on Hinge?
Wait, wait, wait, wait.
I'm actually...
I'm not on Hinge.
Someone's probably using my profile.
I'm banned.
So I don't know how.
Yeah, I'm banned.
I get banned off all the dating apps.
I'm banned.
So someone's probably using my...
They literally ban me all the time.
So someone's probably using my pictures.
But yeah, like, the reason why I said that was because, like, men control who gets in relationships and women controls who fucks.
So it's like, to ask a guy, are you in a relationship or do you have a girlfriend, is kind of like a strange question.
Because that's like me asking, like, oh yeah, are you fucking people?
You'd be like, uh, I pick who I have sex with.
That's not a flex.
Right.
So, but yes, I do have a girlfriend.
It's an open relationship.
I, I, I, uh...
Finally.
We got the yes.
He's taken.
I'm not actually.
He's in an open.
It's an open relationship.
Well, close on her end.
Open on mine.
Because I don't believe in monogamy.
It's understanding.
Hey, well, she's happy right now.
It's an understanding.
That's all that matters.
So yeah, I always find it interesting when girls ask that, like, do you have a girlfriend?
It's like, well, it's not really like an insult for men, but it is what it is.
But anyway, yeah, a single woman is not the same as a single man.
So when I was saying that she's 32 and single, it's because she's being non-agreeable.
Like, not to sound like an asshole.
I promise I'm not trying to hurt your feelings.
But I do genuinely believe if a woman is in her 30s and she's not married and has children, she failed.
Facts.
What do you think?
We can agree to disagree.
There you go.
There you go.
You know what?
Let's play a game real quick.
One of the supporters asked a question in the chat about rating.
So rate your comes apart next to you.
One out of ten.
And how they can improve their looks directly.
We'll start here.
You can rate her.
And then we'll go around.
Yeah, one thing to improve her looks.
One out of ten, and then one thing to improve her looks.
One out of ten.
Alright, let me look at this masterpiece.
You can't use eight to ten.
That was a good one.
Wait, you can't use eight to ten?
You cannot use eight to ten.
You can't use eight to ten.
What?
I mean, a ten assumes that they're perfect, ladies.
Yeah.
So you gotta rate one through seven?
Is anyone here perfect?
Everybody here is perfect?
Yeah, to me.
I got a lazy eye.
Yes.
You catch me at the right clip, I'm gonna be looking like this.
No, girl, stop.
Everybody's perfect.
All right, all right.
I'll give her a six and a half.
Okay.
All right.
How can she improve?
I think she'll look better without the eyelashes, like natural eyelashes.
I think it'll be a hit.
Okay.
But she's beautiful.
Alright.
Cool.
Now you go ahead and rate her next to you.
One to ten.
What's up, baby?
You can't use ten.
I know, so I can't use eight and above, okay?
Seven.
I think you would look good with darker hair.
Like all black, maybe?
That'd be nice.
It's a shit show.
Alright.
Let me see.
One out of ten.
So, whatever we can't use...
8 and above.
And if you want the girls to stand up, you could, ladies, if you want to, like, get it better.
Why you ask me to stand up?
Because I saw you before.
Okay.
Stand up.
Shit, you don't want to stand for him.
Stand for me, baby.
Okay.
I can see that shit.
Yah!
Chris, happy.
Alright, what's the number we can't use?
7.
I mean, it's why they're single, man.
Okay.
You say I couldn't use a high.
How could she improve?
I feel like I don't fuck with the chin She beautiful I think that was the best criticism I've heard.
That's the funniest one.
Yeah, man.
She's like, I don't fucking chin, nigga.
All right, Columbus, it's on you.
Wear her.
Go ahead.
One to ten and give her a rating of how she can improve.
And then if you want her stand-up, she can stand up, too.
Don't go easy on that bitch, either, because I see something right now.
You should have let us do left and right, not just left.
You should do left and right.
Hold up, because ain't nobody asking you nothing.
Close your mouth.
Nobody asking you nothing.
I might close that.
I know you would.
Shit.
I know.
This is real life right now.
Okay, I think you're a seven.
I think you're beautiful.
I really do.
But you know what?
I want to see you in some 30-inch bundles.
I want to see you in a bust down.
What's a 30-inch bundle?
A wig?
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Remember, we're men.
We don't know these terms.
I don't think there's anything wrong with you at all.
I really don't.
Perfect answer.
What about you to her?
I know.
I lay your ass out of here.
Wait, you want to chime in?
Can we resume?
Okay, let's continue.
Honestly, I thought you were seven.
I thought you were too cute.
I think the only thing...
Go ahead and say it.
Feel free to say what you want.
I'm not a fan of veneers or stuff like that.
I'm a big fan of real teeth.
So that's always something I'm just like, nah.
I feel you.
It could be Rihanna, and I'm like, nah.
Them shits look good because they white.
They just big.
Yeah, like...
They look good.
They look good because they white, but they just big.
That's because my natural teeth are big.
That's why.
That's why.
Damn.
Now you can go ahead and rate her, Ms.
Brazil.
Go ahead.
I'd say a six.
I feel like you could change the clothes aesthetic.
Like, maybe something that matches more.
Damn, bitch.
You know what?
We being honest right here.
You don't want to give me a five because I said your teeth big.
No, no.
We're being honest here.
You know what we should do real quick?
Reverse.
A free-for-all.
Reverse.
You start it off.
Free-for-all.
Reverse this.
Whoever you want.
Free-for-all.
Go ahead.
Fuck it.
I'm finna lay all you hoes out.
Alright.
Coco!
Punch!
You look good.
I ain't gonna lie.
You giving me like a natural woman.
I don't got nothing bad to say about you.
I ain't gonna hold you.
Okay.
I wanna hug you.
You right here.
Let me see you straight to - Yeah, you scraped.
you.
Yes, you.
Y'all straight.
Wait, no, no, no.
She wanted to roast the hell out of them.
I don't have really nothing about to say to They're really beautiful.
Real quick, Chad, do me a favor.
Give me ones in the chat if the audio is good.
I saw somebody say something about audio.
Just give us ones in the chat if the audio is good for all the mics.
They caught me a drunk ass bitch.
Obviously, we're always trying to make sure quality is the highest level.
On YouTube and on Rumble.
Real quick, guys.
Oh, we'll go back to the chats.
Guys, go ahead and get your questions in, and then we'll go into your second question.
Right, Fresh?
And then we got a video to react, right?
We definitely do.
Alright, cool.
What else we got here?
No.
Okay, it's good?
If they're going to put a 2, tell us what the problem is.
Alright, what's up next?
Yeah, we did this one.
Yeah, yeah, next one.
This is how the guest in the back walked in the studio Anything else?
Okay Yo, via I go front, but you remind me of the 20 letters of the alphabet What?
A letter?
I think he means the 20th letter of the alphabet.
Z? Right here.
Oh, okay.
Okay.
Yo, V, I ain't going front, but you remind me of the 20 letters of the alphabet.
Silly me, it's actually 26 letters of the alphabet.
How can I forget the U-R-A-Q-T? And you can get the D later.
Oh, and you can get the D later.
Oh, good job, dude.
Yo, okay.
Yo, okay.
Alright.
Interesting.
Funny segway.
Alright.
Go ahead.
They're saying the sound effects are too loud.
Well, we can turn it down some other time.
Ladies, would you rather be rich but single and childless for life or be the wife of a non-monogamous billionaire?
Hell yeah!
Give me the billionaire for $200, Bill.
But is he giving up the money, is the question.
Okay, so the question, ladies, would you rather be rich but single and childless for life, which means you're just going to be an old hag with some money and by yourself, or you're with a billionaire that you're attracted to, but he's going to have other women?
We can start here with Miss L.A. Which one would you prefer?
And why?
It depends if he is taking care of me.
That's the question.
Well, then he can do what he wants.
Okay.
Okay.
And you like him.
Yeah.
So you'd rather do that than have your own money and be by yourself and childless.
I mean, I'm gonna have my own money regardless, but...
They won't.
Well, in this example, you don't.
Okay, in this example, no.
I mean, he could do what he wants.
Well, technically, she does have money in both scenarios.
Well, yeah.
You have money in both scenarios.
It's just that one, you're by yourself.
And no kids.
The other one, you have a family.
Second choice.
Billionaire.
Okay.
What about you?
First choice.
By yourself, no kids?
Yes.
She look like it.
Yes.
Okay.
Alright, what about you?
I guess it really just depends on if you believe in monogamy or not, you know?
So, I mean, I would go with the first one, I think.
Talent money with no kids?
Yeah, yeah, yeah, because I feel like it's a lot of pressure being the second, you know?
You lost a friend.
But just hear me out.
I feel like it's just a lot of pressure trying to be that for somebody.
I mean, most men aren't monogamous, though.
They're going to sneak into it.
Where I'm from, though, monogamy is popular.
So it's like, I'm not really used to that.
Ohio?
Yeah, of course it is.
Yeah, I'm not really used to the Miami scene at all.
Wait, are you guys friends?
Shit, we just met today, hoes connect.
We just met today, but she's cool.
She's cool.
Yeah, you heard that.
Yeah.
Okay.
I'll come back to that.
What about you?
Are you taking a billionaire in a family or a childless with your own money?
And no man.
Shit, I'll do the monogamous.
I ain't gonna lie, cause I love hoes.
Okay, so you'll do the billionaire too.
Alright, what about you?
We can have our own money in both scenarios, right?
Alright, boss bitch, right?
Well, yeah, I mean, the billionaire, let's assume he gives you an allowance for some shit to live on.
No, no, no, no, no.
Like, I can have my own company and make my own money, but...
Come on, man.
Let's be real here, man.
It's like the relationship is non-monogamous.
Yes, on his end only.
That's fine.
Which means it's monogamous for you, but not for him.
That's fine, but I can have my own money also.
Well, yes, you would get your money through.
Yeah, and you'd have a family.
No, no, not through him.
Like, my own stuff.
That wasn't a question.
No, no, I just want to make sure so I can answer.
You're adding to it, but...
You want to go with the money?
Cheeks of Mexicans?
Look, it's family.
Basically, you have a billionaire boyfriend or husband or whatever, and you have a family, and you don't have to worry about money, because it doesn't really make sense to work.
Or, you have your own money, but you have no family and no children.
And tacos.
Huh?
The second one.
Oh, no children, no family.
No, no.
I'm sorry.
Oh, the billionaire.
With the family.
Okay.
Alright.
What about you?
I'm not into poly, so I'll do the first one because of the money, but I would be jealous about that situation.
Oh, wow.
Okay, so if I'm not mistaken, we got, what, three girls here that would be childless?
One, two, and three?
Mm-hmm.
Okay.
Do you guys think that you're going to find overall satisfaction as a woman through career and pursuit of success?
I think I could definitely reach a certain satisfaction that would leave me happy enough to understand.
But do you think you're going to get that satisfaction through a career and success is what I'm asking you.
Do you think you're going to get that life fulfillment satisfaction as a woman?
I'll come back to you.
Do you think you're going to get that satisfaction and life fulfillment through a career?
If you're fulfilled within yourself, yeah, I do.
Interesting.
Mm-hmm.
What about you?
Do you think you're going to get it through a career instead of a family?
Well, I said it was not about the money.
It was mostly because I would be uncomfortable with the guy being fragmented.
I would like to be with someone who's grounded.
And all in.
I respect who's into poly, but it's just not for me.
So you would rather face the despair of not having a family than just dealing with him cheating on you every now and then?
It would be a despair to be with someone who's poly.
That would be a worse despair.
Say it, girl.
Hold on, but you've got to compare the two, right?
So both sides suck, right?
But on one side, you have no kids, no lineage, no one to look after you in your old years.
But on the other hand, yeah, it sucks, he fucks other bitches, but he comes back to you and you're his wife and you have kids.
Which one hurts more?
You were born alone and you die alone.
Oh my god!
Just for you three, I guess, you didn't get to answer it.
So do you think chasing a career and the pursuit of success is going to fulfill you as a female?
I think it definitely can fulfill you as a person, being that...
But as a woman?
Yes, because a lot of the times your dreams are something that can fill you up.
It can definitely give you hope and aspiration to see a new day.
So if there's something in your life that you're chasing and you actually do accomplish that, that can fill you up and give you just as much happiness as a man or a child would.
Because at the end of the day, for a lot of women, kids are not the end-all be-all of the world.
And that's just period.
Do you agree with that?
Yeah.
Do you also agree with that?
Yes.
Well, you guys are wrong, and I'll tell you why.
And this is kind of why, and I'll go into a little bit more detail here.
Feminism, I think, has lied to women and told you guys that pursuing a career and education, just chill for two seconds.
Clap.
Chasing a career and education and these masculine things is going to fulfill you.
But the reality is that's what fulfills men.
We're chasing after success and building up our name and our status because that increases our ability to find a mate, right?
But for you guys, you chase career and success and money.
That doesn't really help you find a mate.
If anything, it makes it harder for you to find a mate because as you make more money and become richer and you have more status, Your standards go up with your status.
But with men, we could become multi-millionaires and still date a girl that works at McDonald's, hypothetically speaking, of course.
So we're able to use our success to go ahead and attract women.
You guys can't really use your success to attract men because we don't care about that stuff.
So I think women derive their fulfillment and their pleasure from having a family and children because women are social creatures.
You guys, versus men, we're like more...
We understand that if we don't go out there and be successful, we're going to be losers.
No one's going to respect us, and we deal with consequences.
But for you guys, you can choose if you want to be successful or not.
It doesn't make or break you.
So I don't think women get the same fulfillment from chasing a career.
And we've had plenty of girls come on that earn six figures a year.
Older.
Make a bunch of money.
They get into the professional world.
Then they have kids and guess what they do?
They cut the hours back.
They say, fuck this.
Maybe they quit their job altogether because they realize kids is what I want to do.
Versus for men, they have a kid.
Oh, I need to work more hours.
I need to earn more.
I need to really become successful to take care of my kids.
So when we have children we look at things way differently Between the two genders so I don't think a woman pursuing a career and success is really Conducive to her having long-term happiness especially since you guys only have a finite amount of time to have kids facts So, I don't know if you want to respond to that, but...
I feel like, again, womanhood is for a woman to stay what she does and doesn't want.
Period.
It's the scope of what we want in our lives.
Because at the end of the day, a man is the maker, he is the seer, the doer, and the everything in his universe.
And for a woman, outside of what a man can give me or what he brings to my life, I need to be the way maker, the doer, the achiever, the everything for myself before I can even include another man in that.
You must be whole.
And if chasing a career and chasing things that mean something to me is how I feel that fulfillment before I get a man or kids, or if I ever even choose to do that, that's my business.
No, for sure.
But what I'm telling you is that you've been indoctrinated to think that way from 60, 70 years of feminist propaganda and programming telling you to go out there and chase a career, earn money.
You need to be whole to find a man.
That's not...
We had a guy in here earlier, right?
He was born in the 40s.
And he was saying...
Yeah, 40s?
Yeah, he was 77.
He was a survivor on the USS Liberty.
But I asked him, hey, was divorce really a thing back in the 60s, 50s?
He said no.
But they were getting married way younger, right?
And the women were happier.
So I find it interesting how women have more money now than ever before.
They're more successful, more educated.
But they're the least happy they've ever been.
I also feel like that is the aspect of social media.
I think social media allows us to feel that the glass is always half empty.
But this has been a problem since the 70s before social media is what I'm trying to say.
I understand, but you're saying too that there's a difference in the amount of happy women that there are even though there's more money.
I still believe that a lot of concepts and ideals are spewed out to us so much to the point where we don't even know what we're thinking or what we even choose to believe.
Versus what Instagram or a podcast or what have you has.
There's so much information regurgitated at you that I feel like a lot of the time people don't step back in order to decipher what they believe, what they think, versus what they see.
So I think that's what it is.
A lot of the time people are just comparing their lives to what's already out there.
Well, that's a direct result of feminism.
That's literally the propaganda I was just telling you about.
Why do we have to settle?
It's been lying to you guys for decades.
What are you saying?
Why do we have to settle for a guy who is a cheater?
Well, this is just one example, but you can find a guy that won't cheat on you, but he just won't be that attractive.
What?
Tell me about it.
Oh, am I speaking of porn lately?
What's she gonna be geeked out?
Okay, hold on, hold on.
Ladies, you do understand that the more attractive your man is, the less likely he's gonna be faithful to you, right?
Facts.
Okay, so, you don't agree with that?
No.
Who said no?
Why is that?
Me.
I believe there's attractive men who are definitely faithful.
Who?
Just not in Miami.
They're everywhere.
There's billions of people on this planet.
So then why are you single?
Because, I told you already, it was a personality thing.
It had nothing to do with actual loyalty.
So let me get this straight.
You believe that your career, your self-independence will take you through life, you'll be happy, right?
But what if you find out later on that you're not happy?
Because your whole agenda or your whole setup is what men should be doing.
So for example, let's say you still have your career, but you have a man at home to take care of you, and you work because you want to work, because you have to work.
That pressure on you every single day is not natural.
As a woman, you have enough pressure on being independent, it's not natural.
Back in the day, you'd be a stay-at-home wife, and she might have some hobbies or whatever, but it was normal.
It's her feminine energy that was there.
You being masculine energy is like, it doesn't work.
That's why you say that.
So you prefer traditional values?
That's what it should be.
Yeah.
Because even though social media and these new endeavors, still we are biologically made to be men and women, which means men provide, women are caretakers.
I feel like it's not fair, though, sometimes, just because I feel like, especially social media, if you're a woman that doesn't want to work, then you're just lazy.
Well, that's only idiots that say that.
But who's saying that?
Who's saying that, though?
You're right.
Other women say that.
Exactly.
But men say that as well.
I've heard men say that as well.
Who?
I've heard men say that as well.
Like top-notch men, CEOs, founders.
I've heard it.
And then look and see who they're dating or who they're with.
They're with the receptionist or they're with a woman that works a bullshit job.
I asked the question, why are they saying that though?
Because if you peel it back a layer, why are they saying that?
It's because they want to tell you what you want to hear.
In reality, who are you actually dating or smashing?
The receptionist.
For example, the one two down from Myron.
She's a boss babe, and guys know she's not lazy.
Well, Chris?
She's a boss babe, right?
So guys know the one in the white, right?
Oh, okay.
So guys know she's not lazy, so she say, yeah, whatever, I'm not lazy, blah, blah, blah.
So guys will lie to you to fuck you, and that's why you are where you are.
You're single, and you're fucking niggas, man.
Yep.
How did that?
I don't know.
I'm lost.
It's fine, bro.
Where we at?
Okay.
Yeah.
Moving on.
To respond to what you were saying, because she was the one that made that assertion.
Hey, CEOs, I've heard them say that I don't want a lazy woman or whatever.
When men talk to you, they're looking, okay, how do I get laid talking to this woman?
Right?
So if you say something like, oh, I'm an esthetician.
Let's use your example.
I'm an esthetician.
Oh, really?
Cool.
He's collecting information, so she's employed.
Alright.
Tell us about your past relationships.
Oh yeah, I had a guy, but you know, we grew apart.
Right?
Translation.
His ambition wasn't like mine.
I had better aspirations.
He wasn't doing anything.
Boom.
So he knows, okay, this girl is a career-oriented woman.
So what's he going to say?
Let me appeal to her ego investment.
She's invested in building a career, making money, so I'm gonna say something along the lines of, I'm a businessman, and I want a girl that works.
But let's switch around, right?
Let's stop and switch the scenario.
Let's say you said, I'm unemployed, and I'm learning to sew.
You know what he would say?
Yeah, I think homemakers is something that's rare and we need it back in society.
Right?
So I think women need to become better critical thinkers when talking with men and understand that men are going to tell you what you want to hear based on what you tell them because their goal is to get sex.
And for them to get sex, a lot of times they have to sell you a dream, they have to lie about certain things, conceal certain things.
Most men truly can't be honest with women about what they want to do.
For how they feel about things.
And let me add one more alert to what you're saying right now.
Imagine a guy that's successful, making good money, living the lifestyle.
You're a businesswoman.
You're busy as well, right?
So, by default, you're going to be busy working as well.
What does that mean for him?
Well, guess what?
When you're busy working, what can I do?
See how the girls.
So now this is perfect.
I'll tell you what you want to hear.
Keep in the loop.
I'm telling you a dream and then doing what I want on the side.
So see how it works out for men to tell you what you want to hear.
And see how I will still take option one.
Yo, French, we know about you.
It's the reality, bro.
Yeah, another thing too, you gotta, because you're young, you're what, only 24, right?
I promise your mind's gonna change when you get closer to 30.
What?
Yeah, but we know.
Are you her?
Are you her?
Listen, she is cool, but like everyone else, she is in the paradigm of dating.
I want to know.
Do you?
Do you regret any of your decisions?
Not at all.
Not at all.
I'm leaving my life.
And let the church say amen.
All right, man.
See, that's destructive advice.
See, we haven't seen the defects of this current paradigm in full effect.
I mean, we've seen some women on depressants, and they're actually saying they're depressed, but some of you are still young.
When you get older, though, it's going to hit you face on.
Because here's the thing.
If she really didn't care, then why go on dates with these businessmen that you were talking about?
Facts.
I never said I want to be single.
The question was, oh, nothing, so I had to choose that.
Monogamous.
But you're going out with men that are a high socioeconomic status.
They're the most prone to cheat.
That's true.
Explain that to me.
That doesn't make sense.
And her job is doing what it takes.
See, that's why I don't believe anything you guys say.
You guys are all full of shit.
Because...
This is the thing.
I'm literally a professional female translator.
So on one end she's saying, I'm happy and I'm single and I'm 32 years old, yet you're going out with men that are of high socioeconomic status that you know are more than likely going to cheat on you if given the opportunity.
So why go out with these men if they're the most likely to cheat?
Because you're 32 years old and you understand I need security now.
I need a man that makes money.
I need a man that can take care of me and protect me and provide for me long term.
I'm tired of fucking working.
You might not admit this on a podcast, which is cool.
Fine.
Be single, independent.
But at some point, you don't want to be independent anymore.
Right?
It gets tiring working in the work field for a long time.
It's a burden.
I think nobody wants to be around an idiot.
And even about friendships, you want to be surrounded by people who are inspiring you.
So that's why I go on dates with those kind of guys.
To get inspired?
What?
To get inspired?
But money?
I want to go out with someone that I admire because why would I surround myself with someone that doesn't add up?
That's what I was saying from the beginning.
Ms.
Brazil, because it sounds to me like you have very high standards.
You're going out with these guys that are very successful, started businesses, and they're still boring to you, right?
There's no connection.
Yeah.
Okay.
And you said your biggest thing that you have an issue with is clearly infidelity because you're willing to stay single to avoid infidelity, correct?
Yeah.
Okay.
Yep.
So let me get this straight.
You've met guys that make a bunch of money and are successful and they're not good enough.
So let's say you do find a guy that makes enough money and he is interesting and charming.
They were superficial.
They were superficial.
Yeah, yeah.
Let's say you find a guy that's more deep.
You don't want to talk about football Sunday?
I'm like, we have more to talk about.
Okay.
Let's say you find this guy that makes the money, successful, and he's deep.
He's cool.
He's interesting.
And you have a vibe.
You think he's only going to fuck you?
We'll find out soon.
I'll let you know.
We're in Miami.
Come on, man.
Fucking delusional.
I'm moving to it realistic.
And it's even worse.
And it's even worse, actually.
I have to go to Ohio.
You would love it.
I have to go to Boston.
It would be realistic if somebody...
I don't know about Boston either, man.
I don't think women are realistic about...
Once you get into a certain caliber of guy, you just kiss monogamy goodbye.
You know what I think it is?
Can you tell me three perks of being polyamorous?
For me?
Yes.
Wait, for you as a woman or for him?
For you.
Oh, polygamous, because she said polyamorous.
Because you said you want an open relationship, so that's something that you practice in your life.
So what are the three perks and...
For me?
Yeah.
I mean, well, for one, I can do what I want.
I don't have to sneak around or do no weird shit.
Oh shit.
And that's really what it is.
That's the biggest thing.
I don't have to always be, oh my god, I gotta hide my phone.
I'm a fucking man.
I'll never...
Sound fucked up.
I don't listen to women ever.
I don't think that we're equal.
How dare you!
I'm the leader, I'm the provider, I'm the protector.
So why am I gonna listen to a female?
That's real.
It doesn't make sense.
I'm supposed to be the leader, so what the fuck am I doing listening to you?
I too.
So, I'm not gonna sit here and be like, oh man, I better not get caught cheating on my girl.
Like, that's pussy shit.
I'm telling her, look, I love you, but I have other women.
That's what I'm gonna do.
Bitch.
I'm not gonna fucking lie.
He's being honest, though.
I don't bust my ass to, like, make this money and go to the gym and everything to fuck one girl.
It's stupid.
And only fuck on you?
No!
Now, here's the thing.
Like, most guys think the way I do, though.
They really do think this way.
It's just that they'll never actually, like, vocalize it.
Because, like, it's considered, like, crass and rude.
Oh, my God, my feelings.
But most men, especially guys that, like, have, you know, grinded, put themselves in a certain position, they're not going to sit there and have sex with just one girl, dude.
So I look at it like this.
You can either A, get the guy that's gonna lie to you, be like, yo, I love you, you're the only one.
He's gonna fuck a bunch of other girls.
Or B, deal with the guy that's like, yo, I love you, you're my main girl, but I'm gonna have other women.
I think the best way to go is option two.
I'm big with understanding.
That's why I say understanding.
Because you ride here trying to lock a nigga up is...
Outrageous.
Or, the other option is, for some of you ladies that want monogamy, you're gonna have to lower your standards significantly.
5'6", 50k per year, maybe not the most attractive guy, but he's nice, he treats you well, right?
Well, see, you guys are fucking laughing at me!
That's them bums on the side of the road.
See?
Like, yo, this is crazy, I'm telling you, okay, you guys want monogamy, this is the best chances, and you guys are laughing at an average guy.
They want what they want.
Wait, wait.
Blaze your head if you're married!
They got hope.
Exactly!
No, you're going to aren't married, alright?
So, alright.
That's fine.
But, the taller the guy, the more the money he makes, the less likely he's going to be monogamous to you, man.
See, women want to understand men to literally get what they want.
But you don't want to assign us to get what we want.
That's the problem.
If you know what we want, then you would move accordingly.
Yo, Brazil.
What are the top three things that would keep...
Top three things for you, man.
For what?
For you, like, why would a guy stay with you?
Top three things.
Why would a guy stay with me?
Yeah, top three things.
He's trying to say, damn, Chris, you suck at talking.
Yo, look at that lip, man!
Fuck this panel, man!
I'm sorry to say it, man.
The top three redeeming traits that you have that would keep a guy around.
The top three traits.
Top three.
That would keep a guy around.
I'll be a great mother.
That's the cap.
Because he knows that.
No, she takes good kids for a living, bro.
She'd be a great mom.
Oh, yeah, you're right.
Well, assuming you can bring a child.
The fact that y'all said cap, she looks like a lover.
I love cooking.
So I cook organic, fresh meals.
Overeats.
And I take care of myself.
I go to the gym every day.
I do yoga.
I dance.
I meditate.
I really do my best to be a good human, so I think that it'll be winning, you know?
Okay.
Wait, can I say something real quick?
That's cool.
That's beautiful.
Now I have a question for that.
But there's a lot of other women that have those qualities.
Oh, yeah!
That's the snap!
Hold on, she go...
Oh, shit!
That's the only W you had on that.
That's the only W you had on that.
That's the only W.
I didn't say I'm the only one.
You last one.
I didn't say the only one with these qualities.
I said that these are my qualities that I feel that are great and they are authentic.
Like, I wouldn't be making effort to take care of a kid or cook a meal.
It's natural to me.
The word is full of people.
The word is full of people.
I think you're missing the point.
Like, you're 32 years old and you bring these traits to the table that other women can bring.
Why wouldn't I just get a younger woman that isn't going to argue with me?
You admit it yourself.
You need to be right all the time.
So why not get with a younger girl that's not going to argue?
I said we can agree to disagree.
I didn't say I'm right all the time.
This is fantastic.
Do you watch a podcast?
No, she doesn't, bro.
No!
She's a date trader, so she has some logic.
Okay.
Oh, yeah, she does.
Yeah.
All right.
Wait.
We've got a video to play.
Yeah, a video?
Before we do this...
Did you have another question to it?
I do, actually.
The lady is on the panel.
You got our opinion on dating, so to speak.
But let me ask you this.
You're a man that you actually want your dream man.
What standards do you have for that man?
Let's see you meet him today.
Could you point him out if you meet him today?
What would it be, your standards?
Let's say two to three things that you would look for in a guy to date seriously.
My standards is to have clear communication.
Okay.
Straightforward, very straightforward.
Like him?
I want to have other women.
What's your response to that?
Okay, daddy.
You wanna bring her home?
He's being honest, right?
He's being honest.
Yeah.
So I'll say that this doesn't work for me.
I'm 33.
Okay.
Yeah.
Communication.
What else?
Straightforward.
And then...
And that he would...
Be good at keeping the intimacy good.
Like, be creative.
Romance.
Man, you're a starfish, man.
Man, she's a starfish, bro.
Because I feel like sometimes that goes into being poly is that you're not taking the time to make this good because you are everywhere.
So I would like someone who is committed to having the dates and intimacy and...
He just mentioned there's guys that will follow all those things that are not that high level as a guy.
They may make less.
Why don't you date one of them?
What?
Yo, hot guys doing everything.
Holy shit.
Like a 5-6 guy?
5-6, 50k a year.
Make the money.
He'll do all those things for you.
Communication.
Everything.
What's wrong with him?
Why couldn't the billionaire do it?
He just told you why.
Because with that level of pursuit of success, he's gonna be like, why are they following one girl?
Because the billionaire's gonna go for the 21-year-old that won't argue with him.
And she's not gonna care if he brings five bitches to the house.
That's why.
Alright, baby.
And he's gonna tell you what you wanna hear, too.
And then do it behind your back, regardless.
So...
Yeah.
Cause I'm that bitch, he gon' take over you.
The more money a man has, the less he gives a fuck about what you think.
Like, he's just gonna...
The more honest he can be.
You know?
I'm looking for the unicorn, you know?
Like...
Oh, don't worry!
Alright.
Main standards, you're looking for a guy long-term.
Yo, you're in a fairytale right now.
Hey, what you drinking on over there?
Let me get some.
I'm fine, dog.
What about you?
Did you say unicorn?
Unicorn.
Yeah.
What the fuck?
So you said what shape did you do in that guy?
Top three.
What about you?
So she said clear comms and keep them to miss you up.
What about you?
A guy that's ambitious.
Alright.
Takes control and is honest.
Alright, man.
So when you try to argue with him, he tells you shut up?
That's fine.
Be honest about it.
Look, I don't get, like, my feelings hurt.
None of that stuff.
Just say it like it is.
That's cool.
Okay.
Okay.
What about you?
What's that?
So, looking for your dream guy.
Your standards for that guy.
Talk two to three.
Alright, let me close my eyes so I can picture it.
Yeah, what do you look like?
Sexy man.
Chocolate, vanilla?
I don't care.
How tall?
I don't care.
As long as it ain't a midget, I can't get jiggy with that shit.
Okay, but realistically, three things you can look for in a guy.
Communication.
I want a leader.
Okay.
You would say a provider, but sometimes, you know, the role gets flipped.
So I would say someone who communicates, a leader, and someone that respects me, well, my mind.
All right.
What about you, Ohio?
I feel like if we're on the same level, like you respect me, I respect you.
When you say, yeah, explain this whole same level, what do you mean by that?
So, like, before we even, like, get to a relationship, obviously we're gonna come to an understanding of, like, hey, hey, I like this, or, like, I'm, like, you poly, or I'm monogamous, you know, so, like, you know what you're going into when you get in it.
So, it's like, if you respect that...
But wouldn't you argue that you're not on the same level if he's polygamous and you're monogamous?
Yeah, then we just went and get it, it wouldn't happen.
Like the relationship wouldn't happen.
If that was the case.
So you're saying lay the cards out and then you're going to decide what you want to do.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Okay, okay.
Because I got confused by your whole same level thing.
Oh, I'm sorry.
Well, question then.
Okay, so you want a man on your level?
No, no, not necessarily.
But I'm just saying like, if you respect my values, I respect yours.
That's all I'm saying.
Okay.
Do you want a guy that's like a leader though and stuff?
Absolutely.
And you guys want a guy that's like a protector, provider, earns more than you and everything?
For sure.
So by definition...
But I know it comes with that.
Big nose.
Okay.
So then, by definition, you guys aren't on the same level then?
Yeah, no, I'm not saying that I want to be on the same level with that.
I'm just talking about, like, respect.
That's all.
You mean likes and dislikes?
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Okay.
Yeah, but do you think the respect is the same between the two genders?
No.
So then why would you say that?
I'm bad at explaining how I feel.
I've never done nothing like this before.
I keep my opinions to myself 99% of the time.
That's okay.
I get it.
You have an issue with articulating yourself.
I'm just trying to figure out here.
The three things you want is you kind of want the guy to come to the table and I guess give his position on where he stands on certain things.
Mm-hmm.
Just be upfront.
Okay.
But you're saying that you wouldn't accept certain things.
So you want them to be honest?
I don't think anyone would, you know?
Yeah.
I think the smart women accept certain things.
For sure, under certain conditions.
Okay.
Okay, so what else traits?
You want them to be honest, I guess, and upfront.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
What else?
A, they called you an expensive escort.
And I can see it.
Oh!
She's been on everybody here all night.
They said that in the chat?
Tell me the chat.
Tell me the chat, bro.
Alright, honest up front, and then what's the last one?
Yo, she ain't lying, though.
Chris.
Finally, somebody being real in the motherfucking chats.
Where Chris at?
Last one.
Just like what she said later, you know.
That's, I don't know.
Okay.
Yeah.
So what if the leader came in and told you, hey, what you think is right is actually stupid.
You need to do it this way.
I respect your opinion.
Everybody has them.
Would you take it?
Chris Cameron Angle.
A guy comes in and tells you, look, you know, this isn't what it is.
You want a guy of this certain caliber.
This is what it is.
You got to deal with.
These are the parameters of this relationship.
I mean, I'm not going to sit there and argue with you.
I would just respect your opinion.
Okay, alright.
What about you?
I would say like them, honesty.
I like someone who's like just warm and sweet.
I really, really, really like someone who's very nice in general.
Have the guys that you've met before been nice?
Nope.
Yes, but I'm saying like with the consistency though, they're always, because nice I feel like it's very situational, but maybe I'll say kind.
Kind is throughout, like it's a very very like consistent thing.
So I would say a kind guy, someone honest, someone ambitious, who definitely has like some plans or some goals that he just tries to actively strive towards.
Cap.
Alright, what about you?
Honesty, communication, and make your own bread.
What's the third thing?
That was three things, are you still?
Make your own money.
Shit, I hear you.
Bitch, you said communication and make your own bread.
That's two.
Yeah, two, yeah.
No, she said honesty, communication, and money.
Communication and make your own bread.
She said honesty, communication, and money.
You know...
Did you want to play the video and then I can...
Yes.
Because it has to do with this?
Yeah.
Yeah, I'll respond.
Because...
But you know what's crazy?
This is very interesting.
It is.
Every time we do this exercise with questions about what women want in men, it is so vague and so, like, not direct that I don't think you guys even know what you want.
Ambiguous.
Most women don't.
They don't know what they want.
It's the A word, guys.
Which is scary, by the way.
Okay.
That's a fad.
So you know how Kamala appeals to emotion?
Yes, she does.
Imagine a smart guy that wants to get laid.
That's all he has to do.
And he's in your pants.
He might even give you a kid.
Before you know it, you're stuck with a deadbeat.
Anyhow, let's go ahead.
Dates are reserved for a man you are dating.
If you want to get to know a man, you should meet for coffee, a drink, meet in a park, take a walk, have a conversation.
There should be no exchange of money to get to know a man.
Do not take anything from him.
Get to know him.
Ask questions.
Find out if you have a future together.
If you are intentional about dating, stop expecting men to court you before they get to know you.
Dates are reserved.
Okay.
What do you guys think on that?
For one, a bitch with a nose like that can't tell me shit.
Okay.
Let's start here.
You know, runnin' nose.
Let's start here.
Can we watch it again?
Yeah, I won't forget anything.
Let's watch it.
I feel like I need a second.
Okay.
Let's play this again.
Again, Chris, if you don't mind.
One more time.
For a man you are dating, if you want to get to know a man...
You should meet for coffee, a drink, meet in a park, take a walk, have a conversation.
There should be no exchange of money to get to know a man.
Do not take anything from him.
Get to know him.
Ask questions.
Find out if you have a future together.
If you are intentional about dating, stop expecting men to court you before they get to know you.
Okay.
So we'll start here.
Basically, you should know what you want in your man.
So you ask questions, get to know them better before they start paying for your, I want to say, needs and wants.
What would you say?
I disagree with that.
Why?
I feel like if someone invites me out for a first date and they're like, oh, let's go, whatever, get coffee.
So you are inviting me out of my house to do this thing with you, so you pay for it.
I think that's pretty fine.
But does it have to be really big and extravagant?
No.
So coffee's fine, right?
Yeah.
Matcha, coffee, tea, açaí, bowls, Pura Vida.
So you agree?
That's a hint, guys.
So you agree then?
I 100% agree with what she said.
I feel that it's nice that they will take care of it.
It doesn't have to be Casa Dona.
It could be Pura Vida.
The first day, but then the second we can upgrade if it's nice.
To what, though?
For the audience, Pirabita's a really fancy, overpriced, healthy food place in Miami.
Yeah, overpriced.
Chipotle's better.
What?
I won't be going to Chipotle with you.
Yeah, but you're 32, so you can't pick and choose.
Oh, shoot!
I disagree.
The expectations that you set from the beginning is how a man's gonna treat you from there on.
Yeah, I get the whole coffee thing and stuff, but for me personally, I take my time very valuable, so I'm gonna ask all those questions before the first day.
I don't need to get to know you before the first day.
Really?
I should already be asking the questions, whether it be through text, phone, FaceTime, because then if you're actually getting the privilege to go on a date with me, that's a big step.
What about him?
Facts.
Both.
I mean, I see it as both.
The privilege?
The privilege?
Alright, out of curiosity, um...
Yo, get her, man.
You're picky, right?
You're picky with the men that you date?
Alright, there it goes.
You're picky with the men that you date?
Okay.
Do they gotta be taller than you?
I mean, I'm 5'5", so yeah.
Okay, do they gotta earn more than you?
Short.
Of course.
Be more intelligent or competent than yourself?
Of course.
Dumb.
Okay.
So the man that you're looking for more than likely is kind of rare.
Would you say most men are unattractive to you?
But we didn't talk about attractiveness.
You said tall and...
That's a component of him being attractive.
Okay.
No, he doesn't have to be a 10, honestly.
No, of course not.
But I'm saying like a majority of men, do they meet your standards?
No.
So, yeah, so by definition you're selective and you're picky?
Correct.
Okay.
Now, do you think the man that you're gonna go out with more than likely is as selective as you?
Yeah, I would think so.
No, they're not.
Well...
They're not.
Men are not nearly as picky as women.
So who really has the privilege?
Facts.
Ooh.
Gotcha, bitch!
Because I don't think women understand that, like, you guys are very replaceable.
You even said it yourself when she gave her own traits.
Hey, there's another girl that can do that.
Well, you're very right, because the threshold for us to be attractive to a woman is very low.
Be attractive, don't be a pain in the ass, don't be a whore.
We'll go out with you.
But you guys, on the other hand, I need to be tall.
I need to be charming.
I need to be cool.
She went with some millionaires and she said they're not interesting.
They don't have a vibe.
So it's very hard to please women.
So the reality is if you're going out on a date with a guy, that means he's been vetted to some degree.
It's really your privilege to go out with him.
Gotcha, bitch!
Okay.
But I always find it interesting how girls kind of look at it like I'm the prize.
Not really.
I don't think so.
You're not.
What?
Bruh.
I was just having this conversation with somebody.
They was like, women, they go all around the world.
They fix their self up.
They do all these things to find a man or to get this one guy.
So in reality, who's the prize?
If you're doing all this stuff, you're getting BBLs.
You're getting your teeth done.
You're getting all this shit done.
You're out here walking around fancy to get this guy attention.
So who actually is the prize?
Hmm.
Well, the point is that I'll make it even funnier.
The girl don't even gotta do all that bullshit.
Tell me about it.
You know what I mean?
So, here's the thing.
Since women are more selective, right?
And they have higher standards, that means by definition the man that they're dealing with is rare.
Right?
So if demand is rare, who's really the prize?
Who's easier to replace?
Supply and demand.
Attractive men are low in supply.
Demand goes up.
Attractive women are in crazy supply.
There's a bunch of them.
So are they really in demand?
I don't know.
I don't think so.
I mean, there's a reason why you go on a music video shoot.
There's two or three rappers, but there's 30 girls.
You go to nightclub, there's one or two dudes in a section, but 50 girls.
Yup.
Right?
For men, we want quantity.
For you guys, you want quality.
Why is it that I can have multiple girlfriends with girls knowing that I have other girls and it's fine, but it would never work the other way around?
Nick?
Women are okay with sharing men, and women understand kind of deep down that like, men of value have options and you guys really don't have as many options you guys think you do.
You guys actually have less options than you guys think you do.
How dare you?
Just because a guy hits you up on Instagram and says, hey baby girl, you hot.
Or some dude hits you up on, what was that, Hinge, or whatever.
How many of them are real candidates?
Not many.
A majority of them are not.
Look, how long you been in Miami yourself?
I literally got here yesterday.
Okay.
Did you go to the club yesterday?
You went out?
Yeah.
How many men approached you?
A lot.
Yeah, a lot.
Okay.
How many of them did you even entertain or talk to?
Maybe one or two?
No, they were not kind of in the caliber that I was looking for, so...
Rich?
No.
I was at Wynwood.
I was at Dirty Rabbit.
I've never been there before my friends took me.
I don't mean to pick on you, but I'm just using that as a raw example.
You get a girl here, right?
She comes in from Ohio, and she's out and about, and then all these guys go up to her, and she's giving a majority of them no time of day.
So it's like, that means most men are not attractive to most women.
And I guarantee for all of you guys probably experienced that.
A bunch of guys might come up to you, talk to you or whatever, and you reject most of them.
Yeah.
So if a guy does come along that's attractive, who's really the prize, ladies?
I know that's like a different way to look at mindset.
Like, okay, I actually like this guy and he's not a piece of shit.
Let me work to keep him.
Let me be in longer relationships and be able to keep the guy around.
But I think women kind of come in with this whole thing like, I'm the prize.
It's a privilege that you're hanging out with me.
The guy reads on that and he's like, eh, fuck this bitch.
I'm gonna just have sex with her.
I'm not gonna take her seriously.
Kicks it to the curb.
Because most girls don't really do enough to keep guys around.
You guys really don't.
You guys think I'm the prize.
He needs to fucking do this.
Play hard to get.
Work for me.
Whatever.
Do you guys really think that's gonna work for a dude that has like five, ten other girls he's talking to?
Nope!
You said something earlier that kind of alarmed me.
I didn't want to bring it up.
But...
Oh, shit!
She flexed that shit?
You said something earlier with your guy.
So...
This guy, right, that you were talking to for like two months, right?
You guys had a little argument, right, on a disagreement, and then you were just okay with cutting it off and ending it.
Who do you think lost out on that?
I guess he did.
No, you did.
You're aging.
You probably more than likely had sex with this guy.
He can get back out on the market and get another girl.
Clearly, there's a proof of concept there that works because you're hard to get, right?
So, he did something right.
And he's going to just go back on the market and get another girl.
You, on the other hand, you're back in the market and it's going to be harder for you to find a guy because your standards are higher.
You make quite a bit of money, probably day trading.
You're probably successful.
You don't sound like a retard to me.
So, by definition, you're going to need a higher caliber guy.
Yep.
So who really lost out there?
And I find it interesting how you're willing to throw that two months away because of a disagreement.
But this is what I mean when I say modern women are terrible at keeping men around.
Well, no, no.
I only threw it away because...
It wasn't just a disagreement.
He blew it out of proportion.
So we had a disagreement and then for two weeks, we were not talking the same and so forth.
Why didn't you apologize?
I did.
And I said, it's not even worth keep talking about it.
Like, let's just move on.
It's fine.
But he kept that in the back of his mind.
That's not apologizing.
That's not, bro.
Okay.
It's not apologizing at all.
If anything, you're trying to minimize his concern.
Facts.
And this is a common tactic that women do.
You minimize the problem.
So try to trivialize it.
Make them look stupid.
Like, why do you care about this?
You're being emotional.
When in reality, he might have probably took it as a form of disrespect.
Like, what the fuck?
And the thing is, is that, like, with certain levels of guys, like, you need to apologize.
And you need to, like, understand your place and know that, like...
Look...
The level of disrespect that men are gonna tolerate is almost always attributed to their level of success.
So the more successful the guy, the more attractive he is, the less tolerance he has for disrespect.
So, you not acknowledging your mistake and kind of playing this game like, I'm the prize, I'm gonna apologize to you, right?
Which you might not have said that overtly, but you probably might have thought it, right?
He's gonna look at it like, man, fuck this bitch.
I could go get another girl just like her.
Facts.
That's not gonna argue with me.
Not give me a headache or like take my concerns seriously.
So I think if women came in with the mindset of let me try to keep this guy versus let this guy keep me, I think you guys would be able to like keep guys longer term.
Because I find it alarming that you were with this guy for like two months.
You guys, it seemed like you guys were doing good.
You guys fucked and everything.
Why would you just throw that away?
Why?
I'll tell you this, am I on me?
You on the other hand, like you too, like you said, oh yeah, I'm quick to like end relationships.
Like, why?
They weren't even real.
I don't feel like they were real.
But ask yourself, why weren't they real?
Because they were just for short periods of time.
We're still getting to...
But why was it a short period of time?
It was a short period of time because I saw things that I didn't like.
So instead of staying, I'd rather just leave.
So that way you find more time with a woman who loves everything.
And I find more time with a guy who loves...
So you were looking for a reason to disqualify him.
No, I wasn't looking for a reason.
I was just living life and I saw the reasons presented themselves.
Interesting.
Yes, very.
Wait, what's living life?
Living life is us talking and communicating, if we're texting, if we're calling, if we're seeing each other in person.
You say or do something that I'm not really resonating with and I tell you about it, you continue to do it, why would I stay?
This whole living life thing that girls use, it's probably one of the most destructive phrases I've heard women use.
Just living life.
There's so many definitions.
You guys understand that, right?
You have a finite amount of time where you're at your peak to find the best guy that you can find, right?
You guys understand this concept that women absolutely have a do-by date?
Like you guys, your attractiveness is perishable to a degree?
So you're shaking your head, you disagree with that?
Jess, I feel like we're people and you're kind of making us sound like bananas.
We don't ripe, we don't turn old.
We're human.
Don't dim us like that.
So you don't get old?
Men get old too and them balls get saggy.
They get to the floor.
Let's keep it up being.
Who gets older first though?
Naturally.
Huh?
Who gets older first naturally?
Whose eggs dry up naturally?
Women.
So it is expired because...
Look, I'm going to defeat her whole argument right now.
You're an esthetician, right?
Your job is to help women stay beautiful, right?
Right.
Would it be fair to say that every single aesthetic procedure that you do has some kind of component with making a woman look more youthful?
Mm-hmm.
So wouldn't it be fair to say off of that concept that the cornerstone of beauty for a female is youthfulness?
No.
Why not?
Well, you know what?
Yeah, for sure.
Getting rid of wrinkles, getting rid of blemishes, etc.
These signs of aging.
The whole aesthetic industry, matter of fact, makeup, it's all designed to preserve youth and women.
So, you're saying, oh, why are we being treated like bananas?
I'm just trying to help you get picked before you fucking go brown, and you're over here arguing with me.
I understand that, but some of that is societal programming.
Well, I love you.
Yes, well, societal programming is reality.
Just like women want a provider and a protector and a leader.
I don't sit there and say, Man, I'm not like some fucking shelf, like, what do you mean I gotta provide and be stable and shit?
Like, no, like, men just have to, you either do it or you don't.
You either are a provider or you're not.
If you're not a provider, you deal with the consequences.
Women don't respect you, your peers don't respect you, you get made fun of, etc.
You deal with your lack of ambition, etc.
Every single one of you ladies here at the table said you want a guy that's ambitious.
What if I sat there and said, well that's fucked up, why do I gotta be ambitious?
Wouldn't that sound stupid?
Yes.
So, societal standards are societal standards, but it's based in biology.
Women's value, a lot of times, is determined by their youth.
So I'm telling you, if your value is determined by youth, it would behoove you to operate in your youth and get the best guy that you can cash out while you're at your highest.
Why are you going to leave the casino when your chips are down, when you can leave the casino when your chips are up?
I've never understood this with women.
You motherfuckers want to stay in the fucking casino gambling.
Yeah, I'm just going to get it.
I'm going to keep going.
I'm going to keep going.
Yeah.
And then you'll fucking end up bankrupt.
You got to know when to hold and when to fold.
Yeah.
And the problem is that women keep holding thinking that they can get a better hand and you're not.
As you age, like her right now, she's playing Russian roulette.
She got the last bullet type shit.
You are beautiful.
You are beautiful.
Wow.
Horrible advice.
I'm good.
See, hold on, hold on, look.
See, I love how I said something that was realistic, and what'd you do?
You're beautiful!
You guys love each other!
That's all y'all do!
That's all y'all do!
Bro, if she was my little sister, I'd be like, what the fuck are you doing?
How are you 32?
So look, here, I'll give you guys a real story.
Go back to like 2017, right?
My sister was about to go to med school.
She's trying to be a doctor.
I had a very serious talk with her.
I'll never forget this show.
I was in the car.
We're in Brooklyn, New York.
And I looked at her and I said, you stupid bitch.
Find a guy now.
Really?
Before you become old.
Yes.
I told her that straight up.
She don't like it.
She got angry at me.
Oh, why do you gotta talk like that?
Right?
I was like, no, you're gonna be 30 soon, right?
She's about two years younger than me.
You need to fucking find a guy now because you're gonna become a doctor, you're gonna make money, and then you're gonna need another doctor, and it's gonna be harder for you to find a man once you become a doctor.
She took that advice seriously.
She found an anesthesiologist together now, etc.
But I had to kick her in the ass and let her know, bitch, you're gonna get ugly.
And you're gonna get old.
And ain't nobody gonna want you.
Because, unfortunately for you, no one gives a fuck that you're a doctor as a female.
Nobody cares.
That shit only is attractive if you're a dude.
No one goes, man, my dick is hard.
She's a doctor.
No dude ever says that shit.
Nobody gives a fuck.
So I told her, find a guy while you're still young and beautiful.
And she found a guy, fortunately.
But, I had to have that very real talk with her, and now sugarcoat it and say, you're beautiful, it's fine!
No!
No!
Yo!
Find a guy now!
As you get older, it just becomes harder and harder.
That's real, though.
You want the real, or you want that bullshit?
It seem like you hoes in here love that bullshit.
And that's why I ain't gonna lie, I gotta fuck with this podcast, cause they be letting you hoes know what's real.
It's a fantasy world and it's the real world.
I will say though that there is an aspect of like, women like being lied to, but at what point do you want to be told the truth?
Because most people don't tell you the truth anyway.
And me!
So...
Alright, um...
Another question or chats?
No, we're not finished here.
Thoughts on the video.
Oh yeah.
What's up?
We got on that video.
Oh yeah, she made part of her nose.
Yeah, I forgot the shit.
You said that she has a nose and she can't give you advice.
Yeah.
Who made?
Did you?
Yes.
Just to recap, she's saying, basically, when you go on dates with guys, don't have to pay for a shopping date.
Just go on dates.
At a certain extent, it's all of what you want.
Like, what you looking for in life.
Like, if you want a husband, I ain't gonna lie, no man should turn down providing for you.
So, it's all of what you want.
Like, Bitch, I don't know.
I ain't known to all that shit.
To be real.
Alright.
That was definitely a lot.
What about you?
Barely.
Keep it...
Come on, Ohio.
What is that?
No, no, no, no, no, no.
That's a question.
Can you repeat the question?
Yeah.
Because I forgot the video, too.
Got you.
Stupid.
It's business time.
No, that's fine.
The video basically was her saying that you should be using, not going on dates, but instead you guys meet in some kind of, I guess, less pressured situation where you talk and get to know each other before he courts you.
That bitch at a park is giving pedophile a park.
On a first date?
What did I get?
Okay.
Yeah.
Does that make sense?
Or no?
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
I feel like, I mean, you're gonna know if you like the person you're talking to in the first three text messages.
You know?
That's me.
I mean, for me at least.
Or like a phone call, you know?
You know the vibes instantly.
So...
I mean...
So you're cool with the video?
Yeah.
Alright.
What about you?
I feel like I agreed with what she said earlier.
If you're initially taking somebody outside of their house, then I definitely think that you should pay.
And no, I don't believe that you have to go to an expensive restaurant in order just to spend time with someone or try to, you know, just impress them and show them that, hey, I don't mind spending a quick little buck on you.
I don't mind showing you that I can go out of pocket for you and, you know, try and do something to impress you.
I don't think there's nothing wrong with that.
But using that example from what you do normally, you're going to leave them anyway.
Yeah, man.
So I'm gonna go do that all out for you just to show you a quick buck.
And you're gonna be like, ah, you're boring.
I'm out as fuck, man.
I never said nothing about boring.
Yes, you did, man.
Y'all keep throwing that buzzword.
Come on, you're boring.
I'm sorry.
Freaking buzzword.
No.
Buzzword?
Buzzcut?
It's just...
Sorry.
Chris, come on.
Anyways, it's just the fact that if you were taking somebody outside their house, to me, I believe that, yes, you should be open to paying for them.
And that doesn't mean that you have to go out of pocket or go beyond your means.
If you know, nah, I'm going to cap this date at $50, $100, even $25.
You take the girl for an ice cream at the park.
Are you going to be cool with that, though?
Yes!
I've done stuff like that before!
She won't, bro.
Yes, I have.
You do not know me.
I'll take your word for it.
What about you?
I feel like a date is a date, whether we go to the beach, go to the movies, whatever.
It doesn't matter the amount you spend.
As long as you feed me.
Okay.
I just think that, like, we did a question beforehand where we asked you guys what you want from your partner, three, you know, options and three standards, and your ultimate answer is basically saying, okay, here's my standards, and you kind of don't know what you want in a guy.
So my thing is, when you go on these dates, for example, when this video said, if you go on these dates...
You're gonna get to know the guy better to see what you actually want.
So my thing is, like, it doesn't matter if it's expensive or not.
And you're saying, like, it doesn't matter.
Well, you're saying it doesn't matter.
No, it doesn't.
Okay.
I don't know, man.
I think girls want the nice extravagant dates or the effort.
They want to see effort.
But to what avail?
It depends on the guy.
Yeah, like, a bitch ain't gonna go to motherfucking Chick-fil-A with a little baby.
A bitch, I don't want no Chick-fil-A with a little baby.
Bitch you better take me to poppy poppy steak Motherfucker cheap my life.
I guess that's that rid of those rich men problems that you guys You want to work.
I want to go so but that's me Okay, we can do it your questions Let us know some more I think the way a woman treats a guy is directly proportional to how much she's attracted to him and So, what I mean by that is, the more attracted she is to the man, the less she's going to demand.
But the less attracted she is, the more she's going to demand.
I'll give you an example.
You mentioned something about little baby and forcing him to take you to a steakhouse.
I don't know.
I think...
Not saying little baby.
I'm just saying the status of a man will determine what that woman going to want from him.
Yeah, but status and attraction are two different things.
I think if the woman is very attracted to him, he can say, yo, we're going to go to McDonald's.
You should be okay with that.
You're right.
But if she's not attracted to him, she's going to be like, alright, I need to get an experience out of this motherfucker if I'm going to go out with him.
I need to go to a steakhouse or somewhere fancy.
Yeah, I think to your point, though, if the guys have that status, but you don't like him, you've got to work for me, nigga.
Yeah, if he has money and status, but you don't like him, you're going to make him work.
But if he's attractive, you're just going to go with wherever he tells you because you don't want to miss the opportunity.
Yeah.
I ain't gonna lie, you right, cause my baby daddy got me like that with them eyes.
He got me like that.
Wait, he's a celebrity?
I don't wanna talk about it.
I don't wanna talk about it.
Hold on, I'm finna give y'all a hint.
Put the cameras on me.
Y'all ready?
Ay, y'all seen Tia Podcast?
Nah, but tell us.
He was like this.
Who?
He was slinging dick.
He was slinging dick on the show.
His eyes.
He was slinging dick on the show.
Your baby daddy?
One of them.
Yeah, the new one.
Does the gentleman know who it is?
He was slinging dick.
Put that shit on.
She means AD. Antonio Brown.
My car still was running.
Walked out your bitch life.
He damn sure did.
Like he walked off the field this summer.
Stankin' bitch.
One of your baby fathers is Antonio Brown?
The football player?
Unfortunately.
My baby's nine months.
So it's Shannon Sharpe.
Shannon Sharpe is crazy.
Okay, so...
AB. And the baby's how old?
Nine months?
Yeah.
Her name's Legacy.
She's so cute.
She has his eyes.
Oh my God, I wish I could show you guys.
No.
I'm not going to show you this shit.
And I cannot make this shit up.
Now mind you, this is the first time I ever sat and really talked about it.
I had interviews before.
From Fresh and Fit.
A bitch got outside today.
A bitch got outside.
I done turned down wine, sipping wine.
All type of interviews.
I was bored.
I said, fuck it!
Let's go outside.
What the fuck?
And we outside.
This is crazy.
Trying to say cap.
They're saying cap?
Chats say cap.
Okay, you bitches.
Sit and watch.
Sit and watch me.
He from Liberty City.
Sit and watch.
He from Liberty City.
We should continue this conversation on Cows Club.
Yeah, we should actually.
Because I'm going into more detail.
Okay, we're going to come on over to Cows Club.
I got a question or two on this.
Actually, I read through some of the girls' questions here.
We actually got a political question too.
I'm going to text them right now.
Text the stinking bitch.
Oh, shit.
Come on now.
Come on, man.
Tell him, tell him, Jewel's on your podcast right now, and you know what he's gonna say?