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Aug. 31, 2024 - Fresh & Fit
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What is Optimal Age Difference Between Men & Women?
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Thank you.
What's up, guys?
Welcome to the first-year podcast after our edition.
We'll join some lovely ladies.
Let's get into it!
Let's go.
What's this?
How many carrots, bro?
Get out.
Get out.
It's the night.
In the night.
No control.
F*** out.
You don't got to put them on in here.
I know the night is not just what it seems.
I must believe in something, so I'll make myself believe it.
This night and night.
I will never tell a sign.
If you get me, I will never tell a sign.
I'm not.
Are we muted?
You're on, you're on.
We're good?
Damn, what the hell did we hear them say?
Elmo, bro.
We're making changes coming very soon next week to the podcast.
Nothing major, just different changes.
Yeah, yeah.
Important stuff that you guys need to be aware of.
Also, I want to go ahead and say it to you guys right now while we're live on air.
Next Wednesday, we're going to go to University of Miami and debate...
That's our topic.
Yeah, we're going to debate some feminists.
We're going to have a topic.
I think you guys will enjoy it.
But it's going to be next Wednesday.
It's going to be live.
It's going to be during the day, by the way.
It's going to be from 12 to 3.
So My Nocturnal Ass is going to be out during the day.
You guys probably haven't seen that in many years.
So I'll be out during the day, guys.
University of Miami.
It's going to be lit.
We're going to have a couple of little ladies with me.
We're going to have maybe Chris Bumass.
We'll even be out there.
Who knows?
But it's going to be a good time.
And that'll be this Wednesday.
Change My Mind episode on a college campus.
Let's fucking go.
Uh-oh.
It's going to be crazy.
I know.
Hopefully we don't get kicked off the campus.
But tune in, it's going to be 12 to 3 if I'm not mistaken.
12 to 3 is going to be the time span that we're going to be out there, alright?
These niggas?
Get them off.
Yeah.
Already.
He drinks any of it.
Actually, Chris is probably going to be on campus drinking.
Are you going to be there?
I'm going to drink.
Yeah, I'm not sure.
Fuck it.
Oh yeah, now you want to show up.
You want me to be there or no?
Chris.
Sorry, Myron.
Speaking of...
No, he talked to you.
Me?
Chris, what you got to say, bro?
No, man.
Anyways...
Yo, man.
It's Labor Day weekend, man.
The 304s outside being 304s, man.
We brought a show to you guys.
So, shout out to the girls for coming on.
I forgot it's Labor Day weekend, actually.
Yeah, yeah, man.
These girls.
Yo, I had six flakes at the last minute, man.
Sorry, I'm still driving.
My jeep is fucked.
I'm like, bitch, I see you trying to get ready for the club and shit, you know, to see Moneybagg and them boys, man.
But anyways...
Wait, them boys for real? - No, no no, no.
No, nigga, I'm wrong boys.
So...
Oh, my God.
Follow me and my Twitch guys, Aaron Pogson, and let's make it happen.
Ladies, welcome to the show.
If you don't mind, give us your name, your age.
Wait, not yet.
Hold on.
Too fast.
Give us your name, your age, what you do for a living, dating status, and if you want to, of course, your body count.
We'll start right here.
Welcome to the show.
Hi, thank you for having us.
Oh my God!
This virgin...
Sorry.
I'm so sorry.
Sorry.
It's okay.
I'm really sorry.
I said in the beginning, I don't want water next to me.
They told me it's all right.
No, it's fine.
It's fine, Audrey.
That was close, though.
The spread eagle.
Shout out to Audrey helping out.
Spread eagle.
I'm so sorry.
Go ahead.
What's your name?
Okay, my name is Tessia, and I just moved to the States almost a year ago.
Okay, how old are you?
I'm 21 years old.
Where are you from?
I'm Lebanese.
I was born and raised there.
Habibi!
What part of Lebanon are you from?
Mainly from Beirut, the capital.
Okay.
What did you have for work?
I sell life insurance.
Okay.
And highest education level completed?
Bachelor's degree.
Did you get it in Lebanon or here?
Lebanon.
Okay.
What did you get it in?
I got it in international business management and so to do my master's in finance.
Okay, international business.
And then you're pursuing your master's right now?
I'll do it in spring semester, hopefully.
Okay.
So, in finance, right?
Yeah.
Where'd you get your...
Are you doing your master's here in the United States?
Yeah, I'll do it here.
Okay.
All right.
And then, married, single, boyfriend?
No, I'm single.
Single?
All right.
Are your parents still together?
What?
Are your parents still together, or are they divorced?
Together.
They're still together?
Yeah.
Wait, how long have you been single?
Two years.
Two years?
Yeah.
Interesting.
Okay.
And then your favorite question, Fresh.
Are you on birth control?
No.
And what's your body count?
Fresh, you already told the chat already, man.
Told him what?
Whatever.
No, no.
Told him what?
When she spilled the water on you, you said what?
The virgin?
Yeah.
You think I was kidding?
You think I'm a believer?
Come on, man.
I don't believe it, man.
I don't believe it, man.
Body count?
Zero.
All right.
Habibi's lying.
Come on.
All right.
Well, she knows better because if she says anything other than zero, not marry you.
Allah Akbar!
Haram!
All right.
What's your name?
Hey, y'all!
Hi, I'm Safari.
Safari?
Okay.
How old are you, Safari?
I'm 24.
Where are you from?
I'm from New York, originally.
- The city or?
Are you from the city or?
Okay, what part? - The Bronx.
- Oh shit. - You took turn away. - You took turn away, bro. - Six string. - Took it all over, bro. - Okay, what do you do for?
I'm an independent contractor.
For what?
I do everything.
Happy endings?
Absolutely the fuck not.
For what specifically?
Are we talking like contracting for the government, contracting for a private sector?
Sometimes the government, sometimes for myself.
Okay, what's your...
Service.
What service, yeah?
Oh, like rental.
What kind of rentals?
What do you mean?
You said rentals?
Yeah.
Car rentals?
Yeah.
Oh, okay.
Oh.
You can just say that!
Just say you run a car renting business or something.
I didn't know how deep you wanted me to get into it, so I was just like, you know...
Okay, so you basically lease out cars to the government and the private sector?
Yeah.
That's a big contract.
Do you do it through Toro or do you just do it yourself?
Sometimes through Toro, sometimes myself.
How big is your fleet?
Not that big.
Three cars, five cars, two cars, one car?
Five.
How'd you get a deal?
I basically know somebody that put me on like a while back.
Bruh.
And then I just kind of like ran with it because I didn't really know what I wanted to do.
Like I've experienced cosmetology.
I have like rental experience, but like I didn't really know what I want to do.
I was like, why don't you just do that for like right now?
Did you start in 2020?
No, I just recently started.
Okay.
I'll tell you this, bro.
For rental car companies, a contract with the government is a big deal because it's guaranteed monthly.
Yeah, because...
Because rental seasons are up and down.
So if you have a government contract, that's huge, bro.
Yeah, no, I mean, it's just interesting.
Is it for, like, a law enforcement agency or, like...
What kind of government are we talking?
You don't got to be specific.
I was just curious if it's, like...
She's worried now.
I just really don't want to get too deep into it.
All right, that's fine.
Wait, wait, wait, hold on.
You do car rentals?
Because your IG looks crazy man.
I don't see no cars, man.
That's my personal IG. First of all, why are you doing me?
Take that down!
Take that down.
That's my personal Instagram.
Take it down, Chris.
Take that down.
It's public, though, man.
I mean, yeah, it's public.
I'm a grown woman.
What I do outside of my business is none of my goddamn business.
Let her live, Chris.
I'm grown.
Grown does what grown wants.
You're actually so active right now.
Yeah, nigga.
She's grown, my nigga.
I should go to the archive.
Yeah, B, she from New York.
Don't be too deep into it.
Oh my god!
This the hood, ain't it?
That's crazy, son.
Yo, B, what's on my mother?
It's just car rentals?
I've been sober for 10 years, bro.
What's on my mother, B? That shit look crazy.
Alright, alright.
So I'm on it again.
So I'm gratifying someone your nights.
So, independent contractor.
She's independent.
Alright, we'll put bottle here too.
And then what else did you say you do?
You do cosmetology too?
Yeah.
Okay, cool.
How long have you been in Miami for?
Since January.
Okay.
Alright, so you just moved out here.
Dating status?
I am saying so.
She belongs to the streets.
How'd you guys meet?
We actually met in Miami.
Where?
Like the beach.
Cool.
Okay.
So it's like official.
So if I was to ask him, he would say he was in a relationship.
Oh yeah, absolutely.
Okay, okay.
And you said, sorry, six months or a year?
That I've been in Miami.
No, that you've been with him.
No, we just recently met, so it's been like a couple months.
Okay.
How to put up the car facts, man.
Like two, three months?
Yeah, almost three.
Okay, and then met at the beach.
I'll have it for you.
Is he the guy that...
No, he couldn't have been the guy that put you on with the cars.
Is he?
No.
Damn, y'all are cross-examinating me!
Of course!
This is an interrogation.
You got me sweating!
Highest education level in the place?
High school.
Okay.
Are your parents still together?
No.
Okay, and then birth control for you?
I'm not on birth control.
Alright.
But why is that a question?
I'm just curious.
You know what it is?
We've just realized that a number of women do not take birth control, but engage in activities that will result in kids.
Some Chinese guys try to trap them, so we ask that question now.
Yeah, bro.
Crazy bitches out here.
And other niggas too.
My mouth is on the floor!
So that's why we asked that question.
Facts, facts, facts.
Being honest.
Okay, and what's your ethnic background?
I'm Dominican and Cape Verdean.
Okay.
Ah.
Okay?
I was gonna say, she didn't strike me as like...
Don't say it!
Like an FBA, foundationally black American, as they would say, right?
That's better.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Because she said she was from the Bronx, so I was like, she'd probably speak Spanish to me, it's probably...
Que lo que!
Dark-skinned Puerto Rican, D-E-R. And then Cape Verdean, that's...
Portuguese?
Well, no, that's Portuguese, but you don't really run into them in the Bronx.
They're mostly in Boston, Massachusetts.
Yeah, my mom and my dad in Boston.
Okay, man.
Can't make this shit up.
Fun fact about Cape Verdeans.
You can't deport them.
Why?
They won't take them back.
I'm not even trying to be funny.
Really?
Yeah, Cape Verdeans, that's why they commit crimes all the time and they're here illegally.
You can't send them back.
They will not take them back.
One of the few countries that won't take deportees back.
That's crazy, bro.
Damn.
So she can commit a crime right now and won't get deported?
Well, I think she's American.
You were born here, right?
Okay.
Okay.
That was kind of a shaky nod.
But either way, assuming she was a Cape Verdean national and she got arrested and they tried to deport her, they would not take her back so she would be staying here.
Wow.
You guys are blessed, man.
Yeah.
Anyway, what about you?
What's your name?
I'm Isabel.
Isabel.
All right.
How old are you, Isabel?
27.
Where are you from?
Miami.
Okay.
What do you do for work?
I'm in school.
Okay, full-time student?
Full-time student.
Graduate school.
Psychology.
You look familiar for some reason.
Do I? You look familiar, too.
Oh, shit.
Yeah.
I don't know.
It's like a fresh bow.
I've seen some...
Club?
In the streets.
Which club?
Strip club?
Which club?
I don't know.
There's a lot of girls that look like me.
Nah, nigga.
I don't look at her face, bro.
She's on his own.
And that's a lot of girls that like me.
Bro, hold on.
Is it?
Actually, you know what?
I'll get into it later.
If it comes up.
Before you look familiar.
Okay.
Are you pursuing, you're 27, so are you pursuing your masters or your bachelors?
My masters.
Okay.
Alright, well, I'll give you, what's your undergrad in?
Psychology as well?
Yes.
So I think the first time that we've had a girl that majors in psychology that actually is pursuing a higher level degree because a bachelor's degree in psychology is absolutely fucking useless.
It's trash.
I don't know why no one like...
I say this and people call me an asshole and I'm like, bro, you literally can't do anything with a psychology degree unless you actually like...
I'm assuming you're trying to go all the way, you're gonna be a psychiatrist or a psychologist?
Yes.
You're gonna get your doctorate?
Yes.
Good job.
Yeah, there you go.
Bro, that's the only way you make money.
I'm a PhD.
Like, I genuinely can't think of another way to make money in that field With that profession or that discipline unless you become...
All the way.
You have to become, yeah.
Is there another way?
Unless I'm crazy?
You can do counseling, stuff like that.
But maybe...
But you can do that with a sociology degree, right?
Yeah, but it'll be in schools or something like that.
You can't do...
But you could probably get by with a degree that's not as hard.
That's why I'm going all the way.
Yeah, because I can't think of another...
That's where you make the real money and do whatever you want.
It's like the one thing in the med field, like...
Well, you're trying to get in there, so you know this.
Being a physician's assistant, right, is kind of a way to get around it, or a nurse practitioner, where you don't have to go all the way and become a doctor, but you can make damn good money.
In the psychology field, you can't do that.
Is there anything that's equivalent to like...
A psychologist aide or assistant that makes you six figures in the psychology field?
I don't think so.
Is there?
I don't think so.
I don't think so.
That's why they have to go all the way.
That's really why they have to go all the way.
So, all right.
Kudos to you.
I think you're the first girl that we brought on the podcast that's pursuing psychology and actually going to take it the whole way?
First?
I think one of the first.
But, uh...
Oh, my God.
Something is...
Yo, I swear to God, bro.
Something's up, man.
I can't remember what it is, though, but something's up.
Okay, cool.
First of all, bro.
Just say it, man.
Don't be a pussy.
Dating status?
Oh, she don't know English now.
No, because the way he said it, I thought it was something in Spanish.
Oh, no, no.
Actually, we don't understand him either.
Hey, okay, cool.
All right.
Yeah, so where did you get your degree from?
Your bachelor's?
Uh, IRC. What's that stand for?
Indian River State College.
Indians, bro?
Yeah.
Where's that?
In Port St.
Lucie.
Okay.
Alright, that makes sense.
Okay.
And then, um, relationship status for you?
Um, I'm seeing someone.
Okay, how long have you been together?
Um, maybe a couple months.
A month and a half.
Have I asked him when he said he has a girlfriend?
Give it real.
Um, yes.
For sure.
Oh, really?
Yeah.
How'd you guys meet?
At Murder Murphy's house.
I know.
Okay.
Okay.
Yeah.
That makes sense.
Yeah.
Okay.
We'll just click for you, my friend.
No, no, no.
Because Murder Murphy's cool with some of my boys.
And I think...
Chet probably doesn't know what the fuck you're talking about.
That's 6ix9ine's ex-manager.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Or does he still manage?
Nah, nah.
Not anymore.
Nah, not anymore.
But they're still cool, though.
They are cool?
I saw Danny like two days ago in the club.
Nigga living life.
Shout out to Danny, man.
Bro, he put out like a teaser for a song or something like that.
Yeah.
Somebody calling my first name, man?
And Danny's funny, bro.
That nigga is funny.
You know what's funny about Danny, though?
He may fuck up, but he always has the back, bro.
Like a deal or a contract, always.
6ix9ine, bro.
Look, I'm going to say this.
I know you're cool with him, and you probably know him.
I think the biggest thing that fucked him up in his career is he's extremely lazy, not consistent, he has a buzz and he doesn't run with it long enough, and he doesn't see things through.
Like his little NFT, the little vape thing that he had, didn't push any of it through.
Fucked himself up.
I think he cares.
That's the biggest thing he'll get.
But he lost so much money doing that.
I know.
By not doing that.
You know what I mean?
And not like pursuing the music and shit.
Am I accurate?
Stupid!
I don't know.
I just met him.
So, I don't know.
You just met your guy or you just met...
Both.
Okay, alright.
Y'all smashed?
Chris, come on.
Chris.
Let me ask you questions here, man.
Oh, yeah, you did.
Alright, cool.
Of course.
Okay.
Now, I'm not even a hater.
I like his old music.
But it kills me because I'm like, bro, you could have been so much bigger and made more money and not had these lawsuits and all his headaches if you just moved smarter, man.
We all can move smarter, all of us.
Are your parents still together?
No.
And then birth control, are you?
No, never.
Living life on the edge?
Oh, what's your ethnic background?
I'm Colombian, Cuban, and Mexican.
How many parents you got?
The drug trafficking trifecta.
Goddamn.
That was a crazy victory.
You're gonna die for a while.
You're gonna die for a while.
I thought I was watching FedReacts.
Now we know how she got that chain.
Oh, shit.
Yeah, that thing is iced out, right?
Because that's the first thing you noticed.
Icy, yeah.
It's cool.
Yeah.
It's real?
I don't know.
It was a gift.
I believe it.
Fresh?
From who?
From the guy I'm seeing.
Oh, Fresh probably knows what it is now.
Which was probably a gift to him, so...
That's fire, though.
FBI, open up!
You meet the guy, you get an iced out chain.
Well, she's saying that he got it as a gift.
He gets a lot of gifts.
So, time me down.
Like I said, I hand me down.
What the fuck?
I mean, that's what you said.
Yo, listen, bitch.
It's a hand-me-down.
It's a hand-me-down.
You won't say that, but you know what I'm saying?
I mean, it's muddy, though, man.
I love you so much, girl.
Here you go around your neck.
Little does you know.
If I was a girl, I'd wear it, too.
Hand me down.
Wipe me down.
You guys are fucking assholes, man.
No, he is!
I think you guys are cool.
You know who it is?
I think so, but I'm not sure.
Alright, let's move on.
You probably do know him.
What about you?
What's your name?
Taylor.
Welcome back, Taylor.
How old are you, Taylor?
I'm 24.
Where are you from?
Tampa.
What do you do for it?
I work for a news station.
Really?
Oh, me too.
Me too!
Yeah!
Me too!
Yeah!
Chuck Taylor.
Gang.
Highest education level completed?
Bachelor's from USF. University of South Florida.
What'd you major in?
Marketing.
Okay.
Oh god.
You could have talked to one idiot we had on the phone earlier.
Facts.
Relation status?
Single.
Still?
Damn!
What's going on Taylor?
Are your parents still together?
Yes.
Alright, birth control for you?
No.
Damn, Taylor.
Are you like a news anchor?
No.
What do you do for the news station?
No, I just work with ad agencies and advertisers to make sure commercials are running.
I remember you now.
Okay, all right, news station.
I asked a question about the news station, but I won't run YouTube, so I can't.
Yeah, for now.
That's fine, that's fine.
And then ethnic background, I'll just put Caucasian, I guess.
Yes.
Okay, unless you know.
Quite.
How can you tell?
How can I tell?
Oh, she's Caucasian?
I don't know.
You never know.
Never mind.
My bad.
I'm sorry.
Okay, cool.
What about you?
What's your name?
It's my turn?
Yes, it is your turn.
Wait, hold on.
Taylor, you're about to count.
We don't really have jokes for her.
Oh.
I'm not answering that.
Good job, Taylor.
She belongs to the streets!
Okay, and what about you?
What's your name?
Tatiana.
Tatiana.
How old are you, Tatiana?
Sorry.
What?
How old am I? Yeah, how old are you?
Oh, no, I'm 28.
Oh, shit.
Damn!
Where are you from originally?
Unfortunately, California.
Where part of California are you from?
La Jolla.
My condolences.
Where's La Jolla?
Southern, Central, I never heard of that place.
You've never heard of La Jolla?
No.
Where's that at?
In San Diego.
Oh, okay.
How far are you from San Diego?
I'm in San Diego.
La Jolla is in San Diego?
Oh, okay.
Is it like a neighborhood of San Diego?
Yeah.
Oh, okay, okay, okay.
It's like the equivalent of PB or something like that?
No.
Like Beverly Hills.
Is she right at the border?
Okay, it's a suburb of San Diego.
Yeah, but I've never been to Mexico.
Oh, interesting.
I wouldn't go either.
My dad never let me.
Smart man.
What do you do at work?
I'm in biotech.
Okay.
Highest education level completed?
Bachelor's.
In?
Marketing.
Okay.
And where'd you get it from?
University of San Diego.
Okay.
Relationship status?
Single.
Single.
Still?
Sadly.
Okay.
And for some of you guys that are probably in the chat wondering, me and her spoke on an IRL stream in Brickell.
Me and her had a discussion.
And I remember it was hard for you to find a guy that was compoundable in Miami.
If I'm not mistaken.
Then she phoned you.
But she got a lot of options.
You said what?
She got a lot of options, though.
You said she got a lot of options?
Yeah.
That's what I remembered in the conversation.
I think from what she said, they weren't viable options, though.
Yeah.
Keeping it real.
Are your parents still together?
33 years.
Oh shit.
Good example.
Yeah.
Alright, birth control for you?
Never.
Okay.
And what's your ethnic background?
Lebanese.
Alright, cool.
The Lebanese gang is here.
Did you guys grow up Muslim?
No.
Oh, Christian?
Haram!
Both of you are Catholic?
Yeah.
Okay.
Alright.
Actually, I'm surprised.
There's actually, like, a lot of Catholic Lebanese.
A lot.
Wow.
Lebanon is mainly, like, a lot of them are Catholic Christians.
It's, like, a Christian country.
Yeah.
Damn.
Yeah, it's like, what's the percentage of Muslim versus Christian?
Is it, like, 50-50 almost, or...?
It used to be more Christians, I guess.
But right now, with everything going on, Muslims are getting more because of Syrian refugees or something.
But it's like 50-50 right now or a little bit more in the Muslim side.
But it's a very modern country.
Yeah, it's very westernized.
Beirut is like a city.
People think it's like you guys got huts and stuff like that, but it's actually like a developed city.
It's very developed, it's very modern, it's such a nice environment, very nice lifestyle too.
Safe?
Yeah, safe.
No, there's no crime, right?
Oh, there's a lot of crime, but I consider this safe.
There's a lot of crime, more than in the United States, in Beirut?
Yeah, right now it's not very safe because of the war going on, but we're so used to that.
So if I was just in Lebanon two weeks ago, and whenever I see crime, I just laugh.
You laugh.
Oh yeah, because they're getting bombed all the time.
I'm just so used to that.
You said you had a boyfriend a couple years ago, right?
Yeah.
Where's he now?
In Lebanon.
You left him?
Yeah.
That's fucked up, man.
Damn.
That's fucked up.
You left him.
He about to die over there.
Are you over here chilling?
I'm very chilling.
Her baby about to get rude, if you know what I'm saying.
Whoa!
Yo!
Them niggas is keeping it real, if you know what I'm saying.
Yo.
It's real.
Cold-blooded, bro.
Okay.
Okay.
It is cold-blooded.
It is Friday.
Oh, my God.
You get it?
It is what?
No, he gets it.
Friday?
It's Friday's show.
Okay.
So, ladies, let me ask this.
I'll start here and work my way backwards.
Ladies, what do you think is an appropriate age spread between a man and his significant other?
For a serious relationship.
So let's say, for example, she is 18 and he's 30.
Or he could be 25 and she's 24.
What's the appropriate age gap?
In your opinion, for the relationship to last and actually work, what do you think is the optimal age spread range ideal?
I feel like it just depends on maturity level.
Some people mature quicker than others.
Let's say, for argument's sake, both parties are mature.
Yeah.
Okay.
There you go.
All things equal.
What do you think the best spread is from an age standpoint?
I mean, I would want someone in my age range, ideally, because you don't want to have your husband be like 70 when you're 50 and he's just old and shriveled.
Okay, so 20 years over is too much.
Okay, so what do you think is an acceptable range?
I would say, I don't know, five years?
Okay.
Five is the minimum or maximum?
Maximum.
Okay, so maximum.
Okay, and then what's the minimum then?
I want the range.
Sorry.
Like one to five years.
One to five years?
Okay.
Does a man have to be older, in your opinion, for it to work out?
Okay, you think the woman could be older?
Okay.
What about you?
What do you think?
I think same age to five years.
And the man has to be older.
Okay.
Doesn't work the other way around?
No.
Okay.
I mean, sometimes, but like...
You ever dated someone your age?
That's what I thought.
That's what I thought.
Well, she did say man older, but yeah.
Okay, but she said same age.
Yeah, you're right.
Actually, good question.
Yeah, Taylor.
Okay, and then for you, you said it could be either or.
All right.
What about you?
What do you think?
I think one to seven, eight years older.
Okay.
So I'll go one to eight years.
Who needs to be older, in your opinion, for it to work out best?
The man.
The man must be older?
Is your man older than you?
Yes.
How far?
Three years.
Okay.
What about you?
I kind of agree with you, with Isabelle, with the same time span, one to eight years.
And I think the man should be older.
Is your man older?
How much older?
A couple years.
Couple?
Is that two?
I'm not putting you in my business.
Just know that he's a couple years older than me.
Alright, so he's an older nigga.
Two years or?
More than two.
Ten.
Ten?
No.
Eight?
I'm not giving you the number.
He's a couple years older than me.
Twenty?
Well, she said up to eight years, so I'm assuming...
It's giving sugar.
He's probably like 30-something years old.
It's giving sugar, baby girl.
Okay.
What about you?
Listen.
Same as they said, like one to seven years.
One to seven.
But like if I were to date someone younger, like I don't want to date someone who's 16 or 17.
I'm 21.
Okay, so do you think the man needs to be older or the woman needs to be older or it doesn't matter?
The man should be older, 100%.
The man must be older.
Okay, so I guess you're the only one that thinks it could work the other way around.
Okay, why do you disagree?
Go ahead.
My sister is older than her boyfriend, but it's just by two years.
She settled.
Huh?
They lived together.
Yeah, but how old is your sister?
30.
Yeah, like there's a difference between dating a 28-year-old, like 28, 30, than dating someone who's like 19 or 18.
Chris, what'd you say?
She settled at 30.
She's like, how long her and her man been dating?
I think three years?
Yeah, she hit the Hail Mary, more or less.
She what?
Like, Hail Mary, like, towards the end, she was like, you know what, I need a man, I'm turning 30 soon, so let me find somebody.
Right?
I mean, was that her first boyfriend, or no?
No.
She probably did, like, three.
No, it was.
Oh, she was in the streets then.
Yeah.
No.
So she was an virgin then?
Nope.
All right, I mean, come on, man.
She's the first birth, bro?
She's settled.
It's fine, though.
It's fine.
Yep.
Okay.
It's my two cents.
It's my two cents.
You see where he's going there, right?
Like she met her first boyfriend at 27 or 25, so she didn't have a serious boyfriend before then, so they're saying that she was, you know, dating around.
Okay, that's a yell.
Alright.
San Diego, we ain't stupid.
We know it goes crazy down there in San Diego.
San Diego sucks.
It does suck.
She sucks, too.
She made her side jeans at the border.
Yo, Chris, come on, bro.
Hey, my brother, man.
It's Friday, man.
Hey, man.
Fucking asshole.
Yeah, girl.
I swallowed you, man.
Yeah, okay.
So, okay.
So you guys all pretty much agree that the man should be older except for one.
And you disagree because you've seen your sister do it successfully.
But do you think in general that works out when the woman is older, generally speaking?
Okay, and my age range Okay, so that's to be what at what age does a woman need to be in your opinion where she could be older than the guy?
What is the guy need to be?
It just depends on maturity.
Because you meet guys that are 23 that act like they're 28.
Or you meet guys that are 26 that act like they're 20.
It just depends.
Okay.
Fair enough.
Now, we'll start here and then work our way back this way.
Who needs to be the smarter person in the relationship for it to work long term?
The man or the woman?
Who needs to be more competent in your opinion?
Both.
Yeah, if you had to pick one.
What do you mean smarter in what way?
In everything.
Just understanding how the world works, being competent, being able to fix things, being a problem solver, being able to adjust to certain things, stuff like that.
I grew up in a conservative environment in a male-dominated country.
I believe that the man should be the provider, the more experienced in his life when it comes to work, struggles, a lot of things, in order to be able to be helping the woman.
Because the woman is more like, I don't know, girls could be very smart too, but guys should be the one who guides.
The man should guide, the man should provide.
Obviously the woman can work too.
It's not about all of that.
Who do you think needs to be more competent in a relationship for it to last long?
I think the man for sure.
You think the man?
Yeah, because I feel like as a woman, there's certain things I'm just not doing.
Like, I'm not killing the spider in the corner.
Like, you gotta fucking do that shit.
Like, there's just certain things that I have to draw the line at that I would just feel more comfortable if a man does.
I guess you draw the line at spiders, okay.
What about you?
Who needs to be the more competent individual in the relationship, in your opinion?
I agree.
The man has to be smarter, because if I'm outsmarting you, that's not good.
We're going to be fighting.
Does it worry you that you're pursuing a PhD in psychology and most men are not going to reach that level of intelligence and or competence?
I'm a PhD.
It does.
By your standard, you want the man to be smarter, so therefore you're limiting your own pool of men by going into higher education.
Does that worry you at all?
Did that even come across your mind at all?
I don't think it has anything to do with the education.
I mean, yeah, a little bit, but a lot of it's common sense and a lot of people don't have it.
Okay, so you're looking at it like you're okay with being smarter than your guy as long as he has more common sense than you.
No, like we both need to be smart, but he needs to be smarter.
Okay, so yeah, so then he needs to be more intelligent than you and have more competency and more common sense.
Yeah.
So he needs to be superior to intellectually in every way.
Maybe not in every way, because that's not going to happen, but in many ways.
In a majority of ways.
In a majority of ways, yes.
But what I'm asking you, though, is like someone that's your master's degree candidate right now, and then you're going to obviously pursue your PhD.
So you're gonna be in a like top 1% of educated individuals, so I would assume, you know, by that you're gonna be more intelligent than most people, right?
As a PhD, it's not easy to get.
Are you concerned that by you achieving this high level of education, you're gonna dwindle your suitable pool of candidates of men?
Has that ever, like, come to your mind?
Of course.
It has come, okay, you have to learn about it.
And that's fine, but he needs to have more street smarts.
Which you can't really learn in school.
Okay.
And also have more book smarts too, to a degree.
Yeah, of course.
Okay.
But I'm okay like being smarter and like book smart wise, but like street wise, he needs to be smarter.
Okay.
But you do understand that like as you reach higher and higher levels of education, the man that meets your requirements as you get smarter and smarter and get more and more education dwindles more and more, right?
Yes.
Okay.
Oh, so street smarts like sell drugs and shit?
Everyone knows when to give a hand-me-down chain.
Why not?
Everything.
He just needs to know what he's doing.
Not get us caught up.
Whatever.
Every time I talk to girls that are in higher education or pursuing higher education, when I say that to them, they're kind of like, oh.
It doesn't really hit them until I explain, like, hey, just so you know.
As you get more and more degrees, less and less guys become suitable for you.
You know what's scary?
Girls with education, right, are on paper smarter than niggas.
But then I don't understand.
You go wipe up a deadbeat nigga, have his baby, and then say, what was me?
I'm a single mother.
I'm like, wait, you have education.
You have a master's degree, you have a bachelor's, and you're doing dumb things.
So I would say education itself is not.
Does the guy that you're with right now have a bachelor's degree?
Keep it real.
I don't think so, no.
Wait, you don't think so?
Definitely not, my nigga.
You don't question these things?
Yo, I'm telling you, bro.
The cycle continues.
I mean, you're a future here, you know?
You get old and older, man.
You gotta figure it out.
But no, her dude is a solid guy, though.
Solid guy.
Oh, you know who it is?
I believe so now.
Give her a tip that only she would know that none of us know.
Tattoos.
Oh, come on, man.
A lot of people have tattoos.
Hella tattoos.
Yes.
Tatted to the max.
Awesome, cool, dude.
Damn.
But fuck somebody up.
Alright, that's interesting.
Alright, what about you?
Wait, what was the question again?
Yeah, Taylor!
Get it right, Taylor!
Stupid!
This is a blonde moment, I guess.
It's too easy.
Come on, I have to say it.
Alright, who needs to be more competent in the relationship for it to work, the male or the female?
Oh, the man.
You think so?
Okay.
What about you?
Oh, I think the man.
You think the man too?
Yeah.
Okay.
I'm sorry.
Alright.
For a relationship to work, who needs to be The breadwinner, in your opinion?
The man.
Damn.
Okay, I didn't even hesitate on that one.
Alright, what about you?
The man.
Damn.
I think we should both make bread, but he should be the provider.
What?
Wait, wait, wait.
What's the psychology degree?
Who makes more, you or your man, right now?
Well, she's a full-time student.
Yeah, she's a full-time student.
That don't mean nothing?
I don't know how to answer that.
And all those student loans you're going to have?
No, my college has paid off.
By who?
You?
Part of it's my dad.
Oh.
Yeah.
Part of it's me.
What?
That's what I'm saying.
You see?
Okay.
Make it make sense.
Yeah, because...
It should have been a quick...
He makes more.
Because she's a full-time student.
But then she hesitated.
Man, you got a job, nigga.
You just don't want to tell us.
She got a job.
Yeah, she know what I'm saying.
She got a job, bro.
She just don't want to say it.
I'm telling you, tinkers are tingling.
I've seen you before, my nigga.
What?
No, no.
Not bad.
Nothing bad.
Nothing bad.
You know what I'm saying?
Or is it?
I mean, I've been in videos.
Huh?
What's that?
I've been in videos, music videos, stuff like that.
Okay.
Artists.
Okay.
Yeah.
Okay.
Okay.
Still, you should've said he makes more.
Like, something's off here.
Should've been like an emphatic, yeah, he makes more.
Yeah, he makes more.
But she had to think about it.
I was like, wait, hold on.
What's going on here?
Alright.
Think about this.
That's fine.
Okay, so you said we both can make bread.
Okay.
Fair.
We both can make bread.
How much more bread does he need to make than you?
Like, a hundred thousand more at least.
A month?
A month?
A second.
No, I'm just kidding.
A second?
I'm a believer.
Let's go on an annual basis or a monthly basis.
How much more do you need to make more than you per year or per month?
Whatever is easier for you to calculate.
I don't really care about that as long as he pays most of the bills.
Right.
Pays all the bills and takes me out.
He can take me shopping.
I don't have to be worried about that.
Okay.
So, okay.
So basically, he needs to be the provider.
Yes.
Like, you work, but you have zero financial responsibilities.
Right.
Yeah, she's a student, man.
You know what I realized, bro?
Yeah.
Women want to find a man that can take care of them.
Well, they make their own money, save their money, you spend your money on her, she'll spend her money on you.
Exactly.
And then when it's all said and done, deuces, nigga, I got my cash.
I'm out.
That's what they really want to do, bro.
You want to be a man?
Be a man for me.
Yep.
Okay.
Alright, what about you?
Who needs to make more money, the man or the woman?
I feel like the man.
Okay.
Does he have to be the sole provider?
Can you be 50-50?
What do you think?
I would prefer my man to provide, but I'm okay with being 50-50 because realistically speaking, a real relationship isn't always like...
One person or one person.
50-50?
Sometimes it's 60-40, sometimes it's 40-60, sometimes it's 50-50, so I don't really mind going.
Have you been in a 50-50 relationship before?
Mm-hmm.
How'd that go?
She left.
Where's she now?
She skedaddleed.
A lot of girls say, I want a provider, and then they'll go and be like, oh yeah, but 50-50 is okay.
Come on, bro.
Until you do it.
That's like two extremes.
If you're sitting here saying you want a provider, by definition, that means you're probably not going to fuck with a dude that does 50-50.
And for how long is the question?
I feel like when it comes down to 50-50, there's certain things that depend on that.
The guy that I was with, I ended up really...
It got to the point where it wasn't just 50-50.
I'm not about to be taking care of no nigga.
Bitch, are you fucking dumb?
Oh, shit!
Yeah, look at you.
I ain't got no makeup on today, but for real, I'm a bad bitch.
So why would I be taking care of you?
I don't need a leech.
I need a partner.
I need somebody that I'm going to build together with.
I don't need somebody that's going to be just all up on my ass.
Translation, I want a leech off you, nigga.
No, no, no!
I don't need you to do that.
I got my own shit.
But it's like, you know, like, realistically speaking, I would want somebody that is as hardworking as me.
50-50 doesn't work, then.
It doesn't work when it comes down to you not standing on your word.
When you say 50-50, that means you're gonna be 50-50.
But how do you divide that between men and women?
What's it say, what's half and half?
Like, what's fair to me is, like, you pay the rent, I'll do everything else.
I'll cook, clean, do laundry, you know, handle it.
Oh, yeah, that's not 50-50 at all.
It's not, though.
But that, I feel like that's...
We're talking about from a strictly financial standpoint, not duties.
We're talking financial.
You paying half the rent, half the rent.
Yeah, she want to provide her, nigga.
Yeah, exactly.
We break it, 50.
We break it down, man.
Y'all don't want 50-50.
Yeah, because by that logic, then, yo, you know what?
You work Wednesday through fucking Friday, and I'm at the house, and then, you know, I come in and work Monday to Tuesday or some shit.
Yeah.
Like, Down the middle.
Yeah, it'd be down the middle.
I mean, yeah.
If it's bills, then yeah.
Like, you do the rent, I'll do the car, everything else.
Yeah, nigga.
I like that you asked the right question, sir.
Because you was thinking 50-50 on, like, responsibility.
But no, we're talking about 50-50, like, financially.
Yeah.
See, chicks don't want to pay bills.
She don't want it.
All right, what about you?
If I were to date someone, like, I would prefer he would be financially stable.
Like, he has his own car, he has his own, like, apartment or whatever.
Like, something in a way.
So he's got to be the provider?
You know, it's a very weird...
It's not like he's a provider because I want to help too.
It's not a 50-50 either, but he has the more financial stability than I do.
In a way, it's like this, but I would help too.
Translation, he has the capability to take care of me until I feel like not working anymore.
What?
It's okay, don't worry.
I translated your womanese.
What you going to help him with?
Lebanese, womanese, same shit.
Okay, what I said was, basically, like everything you articulated basically boils down to this.
I want him to have the ability to take care of me should I decide I don't want to work anymore.
Yeah, kind of.
But, but, I'm a workaholic.
It's not like I love to work.
Okay, translation.
I want you to be able to take care of me up until I'm done being a workaholic and I feel like chilling.
You can put it like that.
And it's okay to have a guy being the provider.
We're just saying like, just say what it is.
It's like...
Yeah, women always dance around this question.
Different definitions.
50-50, 50-50.
Two different definitions of 50-50, by the way.
But the provider is like a very extreme measure as well.
Like, okay, provider, the woman doesn't work.
No, like, it's like, it's a compromise, like a partnership.
It's like when both of you want to grow.
Who pays the bills?
Both.
But not 50-50.
I can help in certain ways.
He can pay the rent.
I can pay something else.
Or I get the groceries.
We help each other out.
It doesn't have to be he has to pay.
In the beginning, maybe for sure, for dates and stuff.
Okay.
I like how she tried to walk that back, but we ain't stupid.
We got a thing here, a topic.
Mo, if you could bring it up, or Bill has it.
We got a video, right?
So ladies, Marcus Houston, famous R&B singer, okay?
He's 41, claims he married a 19-year-old because women his age come with too much baggage.
He looks the exact same, bro.
Yeah, he hasn't aged at all, bro.
Goddamn.
Yeah, he hasn't aged.
Pause.
Pause, yeah, good skincare.
So, ladies, he obviously 41 years old, pretty much double his girl's age, over double his girl's age.
What do you guys think about that?
Good, bad, works out.
What are your guys' thoughts?
Obviously, he's older than her, probably more competent than her, and makes significantly more money than her.
He's one of the greatest R&B singers in history.
Yeah, more famous, etc.
Yo, look at the comments as well.
Yeah, the comments?
But yeah, nigga said, no, he just, never mind.
Okay, go.
What are you guys thoughts?
Do you guys agree with that statement that marrying a girl that's 19 years old instead of marrying a 41 year old is better because he doesn't have the old baggage?
What are your thoughts on that?
Agree?
Disagree?
Like what kind of baggage?
If you mean like, if you like, it's like physical, like a lot of wrinkles and stuff.
I don't know.
I'm so against that, honestly.
You're against what?
I'm against like this much of an age difference because a 19-year-old is not that mature.
Like, don't convince me otherwise.
Okay, so you don't agree with that because the woman isn't mature?
Yeah, like she has to explore life.
Why should she date?
Explore life?
Like what?
Like, discover herself by herself.
Who is she as a person?
Like, travel, get to know herself better.
No, like, educate herself, seeing who she is by herself, as a person, as a girl, a woman.
Like, a 41-year-old already has his life figured out somehow, so, like, he's gonna hold her back somehow.
Somehow?
Yeah, like, in a way or another.
I don't know much.
Hold her back from home?
Bet you won't do it.
I bet you won't do it.
Interesting.
But you did say earlier that you come from a culture where it's more conservative, the man is a leader, the provider, he's more competent, he understands things, so wouldn't it be good for him to be older so he can guide her like you described earlier?
Not that much.
Too much guiding, I guess, 20 years?
It's not about guiding at this point.
It's like she did not take a mature decision to date a 41 year old.
Obviously, she has daddy issues.
Interesting.
Automatically, you have daddy issues.
Got it.
What about you?
What do you think?
41 years old 19 years old Hurt March if you I
If people think that he's gross for dating a 19-year-old, they should think about the same double standard.
If it's gross as a man doing that, it's gross as a woman.
I know what you mean.
I feel like there's certain things that like, like if you're a minor and like before you turn 18 or whatever, like obviously people are gonna look at you, obviously guys are gonna look at you, but I feel like it's a little bit predatory if she's 19 because obviously that means that you were looking at her before she was 19.
She has to be 18.
I think he met her when she was 18 though, this chick.
Yeah.
I'm not mistaken.
Well, if you can fact check me, I don't know.
Are you saying that guys that are getting girls that age are talking to them before they turn 18?
Is that what you're saying?
That is scary.
He met her at 18?
Yeah.
So she was of age?
Kind of different.
She was of age.
Okay, so that kind of defeats your argument.
So what's your stance now?
I don't know.
I don't really care too deep about...
What's the oldest that you ever dated?
The oldest that I've ever dated?
50.
Probably like...
37.
And how old were you at the time?
I was 21.
That's pretty much the same thing!
Similar age gap.
That's how she can relate.
I mean, not really.
I didn't meet him when I was a minor and he wasn't, you know, he met me when I was 21.
Minors under 18, right?
And he met her at 18.
My point of bringing that up was, like, if he didn't meet her before 18, but, like, because he met her at 18, like, there's nothing I can really say.
Okay, so you don't disagree with it?
No, she doesn't.
Yeah, now, no, because she's of age, you know?
I think she's talking about all the buzz going around on the internet with all these, like, allegations going on.
Yeah, interesting stance.
So, okay, so...
So, but you don't agree with the age range.
You don't think that's appropriate?
Um...
Assuming they meet at the right time, the age gap is a problem, you think?
I mean, if they meet at the right time, then fine.
You know what I mean?
But, like, if they meet before at the right time, I just feel like that's weird.
Okay, so you think it's weird.
All right.
What about you?
What do you think?
I think he's trying to fill a void by dating a young girl, or a young woman.
Alright.
I mean, what void though?
Maybe he feels old, like he wants to feel young again, so he's like taking some of her youth.
He can't handle a woman his own age.
Can handle?
Yeah, that's what I'm getting from that situation.
Oh, okay.
Because he says older women come with too much baggage.
So you want to handle baggage?
What?
So if a girl is like, you know, with a...
It's okay, we don't understand him either.
Go ahead, Chris.
Facts.
If a girl was with some kids, she's, you know, she has...
Emotional damage!
Why would a guy like MH handle a girl like that?
I mean, he's rich, he has clout, he's in good shape.
Like, why would you handle a girl who's like that?
I mean, I feel like he's generalizing because there's a lot of young girls with emotional baggage too.
Not her?
Oh, well, okay, well, maybe not her, but...
She's tighter, younger, no baggage, man.
Like, come on.
I don't know what to say about that.
If they're happy, then it should be it.
He's a Jehovah Witness now.
That's crazy.
All right.
Niggas be knocking on your door.
You hear about Jesus Christ?
Ah!
So wait, real quick.
So you think that he's filling a void by getting with a girl that's younger than him because he's trying to like relive his youth is kind of what you were saying?
I feel like a lot of older men do that.
Interesting.
Does anybody agree with that?
She's kind of.
You agree with that?
Okay.
I kind of do.
Like the psychological thing going on.
I like it.
She's spinning.
I like it.
She's spinning, I guess.
Okay.
Anybody else agree with her?
You agree too?
Yeah.
Okay.
Go ahead.
What's your stance on this then?
I mean, I don't think it's that weird.
It's just like, what do they talk about?
Like, what does a 41-year-old have in common with a 19-year-old?
I was just going to ask a question.
Good job.
Facts.
I don't think it's like...
I saw the comments said that he was a pedophile.
I don't think that.
But it's just like, what do you guys talk about?
So your issue...
Is that the age gap makes it difficult to find commonplace with conversation.
Yeah, he's so many years on her and she's so young.
And I feel like 10 years from now, it's not gonna last because she's gonna be like, Oh, I wasted my time with this guy.
I got married so young.
Do you think it's a bad thing when women get married young?
No, because I just know how 19-year-old women think.
Or women think when they get older.
The modern woman, I guess.
Do you think that's a good thing to have?
Is that fear of missing out or thinking that I wasted my youth and got married young?
Do you think that's a good thing that women should have?
Let me ask you a better question.
How about this?
What's worse?
being married and being with a man that you love and saying damn i missed out on my youth but i have a man or not getting married hitting 35 years old being single oh okay oh okay you know what it is taylor's salty right now she wished when she was 19 18 some wife threw up no i mean she saw the chance man she's 24.
she's right there she got some time left okay so so your biggest thing is like the common place of conversation Yeah.
Interesting.
Okay.
What about you?
What do you think?
Well, I disagree with that because...
What do you disagree with specifically?
I mean, I don't think the age gap...
I think they could have things to talk about.
Okay.
They could.
No, no, no, no.
I'm just writing down what you said.
Okay.
Like, I have friends who range from, I don't know, 18, and then I have friends that are, I don't know, in my company, I was homies with, like, the 60-year-olds.
Like, it doesn't matter.
Okay.
It just depends on how you connect intellectually and the common interests you have and the chemistry and whatnot.
So you're just on a conversation point.
Okay, what about the age gap difference?
Do you think that's a problem?
Yes or no?
I don't know.
Yes.
Okay, why do you think there's a problem?
Well, because when he hits 60, what, she's just gonna be 40?
No.
What do you think about him saying that he doesn't want to be with women that are 41 years old because of their baggage?
What about his baggage?
Okay.
Do you think men and women wear their baggage the same way?
No.
Okay.
Explain.
How do men have their baggage versus how women have their baggage?
Well, the male and female brains are different.
Oh, we're getting somewhere.
So, what do you think the difference is between men carrying baggage and women carrying baggage?
Well, women are more emotional.
So, I feel like we tend to be...
We can get kind of crazy.
Dramatic.
Yeah, women are dramatic.
Would it be fair to say that baggage typically strengthens men while hurting women?
Sure.
I mean, it definitely hurts women.
Do you think men have a higher likelihood to become more attractive from their baggage?
I mean, it depends the baggage because if you go through hardship, that builds character.
So, if you've been through a lot...
And is character an attractive trait to women?
Absolutely.
If you're the right girl.
Now, let me ask you a counter-question.
Do you think character is as important to men as it is for women?
No.
I know what y'all say.
So does baggage really matter that much for men versus women?
Sorry, say that again.
I said, does baggage matter as much negatively for men as it does for women, knowing that baggage can help a man versus baggage typically hurts women?
Baggage definitely hurts more.
So is he crazy to say that he doesn't want a woman with baggage then?
Catch it, bitch!
I guess not.
There you go!
Well, okay, well, here's the thing.
So, I do have a point to make, because you guys all agreed, because she made a comment that...
He's kind of void.
He's seeking his youth through the woman.
He doesn't...
What's the other thing that you said?
He's trying to fill a void, feel young, and he can't handle a woman that has baggage.
Would that be fair to say?
Yeah, well, the first part of that, that's not necessarily a bad thing, you know?
Okay, but you said it...
Okay, so you think it's a good thing then, trying to fill a void by being young?
By being with someone younger?
I mean, why not?
If he's taking care of her, and they're obviously both getting something out of it.
Okay.
So, just curious, because you guys agree with her, so for you four in particular, what if I said, you guys are dumb, broke, stupid, and young, and you want to fill a void by being with a man that's more competent, richer, and older than you?
What would you say to that?
I'd be like, okay, that's right.
Damn!
Yeah, I'd be like, that's true, damn.
Okay, you guys would say that's true?
No.
Where's he at?
Okay, you would say no.
Why would you say no?
If I were to have a void, I'd do something about it in a healthier way.
Dating a guy who would fill a void is not going to last.
Yeah, but wouldn't it be fair to say that you have to date men to fill a void because men and women are different and we bring different things to the table?
I don't have to date anyone.
Are you asexual?
What?
No, I've dated before.
Okay, for example, look, so men and women, do you agree that men and women are different?
Of course.
Okay, do you agree that men and women bring different things to a relationship?
Exactly, yeah.
Okay, so by definition of interacting and getting with the opposite gender, you are filling a void.
I'm not filling a void.
I'm completing something.
It's not about void.
Why should you feel empty?
Okay, so you're looking at it half empty, half full.
It's still filling a void because you're attracting each other because you guys have different things.
Yeah.
Filling a void.
There's a void here.
Look at my hand.
There's a void.
Oh my God, we come together.
There's no more void.
You know how it sounds like, the void?
It's like something like you have issues.
It's not about that.
Is that how it sounds?
Oh, shit.
Kill him, Abby?
Yeah.
Oh, oh.
What?
You kill him, Inglezee?
Yeah, Inglezee.
Inglezee?
Inglezee?
I guess I told her, Chad, that does she understand English or English is broken or something.
Hurrah!
I'm speaking really good English for a person who just moved here a year ago.
Yeah, yeah, it's good, but come on, man.
It's almost as bad as my Arabic.
But anyway, back to what I was saying.
The void, right?
Because this is a void.
It gets fooled by the man.
So, going outside of that.
So, would you guys agree, right, that Because you said, oh, he's filling a void, blah, blah, blah, all this other stuff.
I can make the argument, hey, you guys are filling a void because you guys are dumb, young, and want a man that makes more money than you so you're poor.
Wouldn't that be ridiculous for me to say that?
No.
I'll answer for you.
It actually is ridiculous.
Because these are things that you biologically want.
A man that's more competent than you, smarter than you, that could be a leader, a guy that makes more money than you as a provider, a guy that's older than you.
These are things that you naturally look for.
And we've interviewed like 3,000 girls and overwhelmingly this is what women look for.
It's not just you guys.
So, if I was to sit here and be like, oh, well you're just trying to fill a void because you're dumb and poor.
That's kind of dumb for me to say that.
That's like a very gross representation of female attraction.
You're in psychology.
Women look for these things.
Wouldn't I sound kind of crazy if I tried to shame you for your natural wants and proclivities in a man?
Yeah.
So why do women feel the need to shame men for their natural proclivities and wants in a woman?
I feel like because we think it's pervy when the girl's too young.
Or when the woman's too young.
What if I said it's predatory when the woman wants a man that has more money than her?
And what if I said she's stupid because she wants a guy that's more competent than her and more experienced?
Okay, okay, okay.
I think I'm going to extreme levels.
You do realize, like, all I did was take, like, the equivalent for the woman and just say it back, and it sounds extreme.
And that's my point.
If I say, hey...
Let's demonize what you want as a woman and shame it and call you dumb and poor because you want a guy that's smarter and has more money than you.
That'd be ridiculous.
Like, that's not natural.
This is what women look for.
So I find it interesting when girls say, well, it's predatory that you want a younger woman than you that doesn't have baggage or whatever.
I think that's like...
Men just naturally want a younger woman just like you guys naturally want an older guy.
Right?
We just naturally want a girl that follows our lead versus you want a guy that can take care of you.
And then you said also...
Explore yourself, right?
You said that you want to be able to explore yourself and get some experience.
Do you think men care about a woman's experience?
I think they do.
Of course, experience in what?
What do you mean?
Life experience.
Life in general.
Do you think they care?
I don't think so.
Experience in going out or whatever.
I don't think so.
Not that much.
It's more like...
So if you know that men aren't really interested in a woman's experience like that, why do you think that that matters?
Because you brought it up as like, oh, the woman needs to experience life.
It's for the woman's sake, not for the man's sake.
It's not because of...
It's for herself.
It's not about being selfish.
Yes, it is.
No.
It's about her discovering herself of who she is.
So what do you think is better?
For her to find herself by herself?
Where she can make some serious mistakes and hurt herself in the future?
Or, find herself with her man.
Like, in my opinion, what I would do, I would find myself for myself.
Really?
I would not depend on the man in order to find myself.
Okay, you know what?
What's your body count?
Or, blowjob count.
Yeah.
Yeah, see?
My body count is zero.
Well, your mouth count.
What do you mean, mouth count?
Yeah, like, how many dicks you put in your mouth?
I mean...
Whoa!
No, no!
I mean, she's given blowjobs for it.
Come on, girl.
No, I did not.
No, you did not?
I'm not answering that.
Okay.
Or a handjob count.
Whoa!
I'm not answering that.
So, you know it's interesting that you're saying that women should have experiences and everything else like this, but you're a virgin.
Why are you a virgin?
Because my gut feeling...
It's like I don't feel comfortable enough.
Like the relationships I've been...
It's not like I felt like this feeling that, oh my god, I want to marry you or something like that.
It's like...
So why are you withholding that experience?
Because I don't want to.
You triggered my trap card!
I would love in the future.
But I'm asking you, why are you withholding that experience?
Because I'm faithful in my religion.
And at the same time, because I don't like, I don't like with just whoever or like to experience, oh, I want to experience, I want to do that with a guy or whatever.
No, I want to do that with a man I would love and give myself to that person, that one person.
Let me translate what you're saying.
So you're saying and advocating like women should go out and have experiences and live life.
But, like you yourself, you're a virgin, and I'm not stupid, and you're not stupid.
Me and you both know that you're a virgin because you know that if you go and fuck a bunch of guys, it's gonna hurt your ability to find the man that you want, right?
It's going to hurt me as a person.
And it'll hurt your ability to find a man in the future.
Yeah, of course.
So you're preserving yourself.
I'm not preserving myself.
It's not like I don't want to do it because I don't.
Yeah, you're preserving yourself.
That's fine.
I'm not trying to shame you.
It's good that you're a virgin, by the way.
It's actually very good.
Thank you.
Okay.
I know a lot of people probably don't tell.
No, I'm dead ass.
If it's true.
If it's true.
But what I'm saying is that you do realize that your own behaviors contradict what you're telling girls to do.
Because in America, when you tell a girl, live life, experience it, find yourself.
You know what that means?
Go fuck a bunch of guys and figure out what you like and what you don't like.
Well, that's not the American definition that I mean.
Okay.
But that's what it means in the Western world in general when you say that to girls, that's typically what it means.
They won't say it like that, but that's what it means.
But I find it interesting that you say that, but you're a virgin, right?
And you're not necessarily looking to fuck guys because you know that your value is based on your body count.
It's like about morals and manners, like the way I would live life.
It's not about dating guys and going out with guys or whatever.
That's my point.
The way I live life is I educate myself.
I discover because I'm religious, right?
So I discover my relationship with God.
I make sure that I have a good relationship with my family.
This kind of traditional thing going on.
And this is how I discover myself and maturing myself.
Of course, I talk to guys and whatever, but it doesn't have to reach to that level where I have to have sex with them or whatever.
But I learn from my experiences and I grow.
I don't have to have sex in order to learn from my experiences.
So let me get it straight.
You have boyfriends that you don't have sex with that you don't love.
No, no.
This for you.
Me?
Yeah.
Did you love your ex-boyfriend?
Yeah.
So you had boyfriends in the past that you didn't smash.
No.
And you didn't love us either.
I didn't what?
Love.
Of course I did.
But not to the level of marriage.
I was too young.
Of course I loved them to the definition that I knew what love was.
Interesting.
Okay.
But you do see kind of like how your stance is a little hypocritical?
In what way?
You're not having sex and you're preserving yourself, but what you're saying and advocating for is girls should go find themselves or whatever, and typically in America, when you say that, that means go fuck people.
Typically, in America.
Maybe you didn't mean it that way, but what I'm saying is that when you advocate it like that, that's how most people are gonna interpret it.
Let them interpret it that way, but for me- That's destructive advice!
Because they're going to hurt themselves, but you're smart enough to not hurt yourself.
Does that make sense?
That's what I think.
Let me give you my stance.
Let me just give you my stance.
I genuinely believe that women without instruction are headed for destruction.
What do I mean by this?
I think women need masculine leadership.
Because I think if you don't have masculine leadership, whether it's a father, a brother, or a strong boyfriend or husband, you're gonna lead yourself to make really bad mistakes that will fuck you up.
Whether you be a whore, do drugs, drink a lot, whatever.
The thing with women is like, when you guys get baggage...
You kind of carry it with you for a long time, right?
I'm sure all of you guys have that one girlfriend in your group that's a slut, that has all this drama, all this trauma, and she can't really find meaningful relationships with men.
She has problems, right?
All of you girls probably know a girl like that.
So, with women, I think you need to protect them from themselves and you need a strong masculine leader.
And I think that's why women look for guys that are competent, make more money, and can lead them.
So, I think the only way a guy's gonna do that is he needs to be older and more competent than her.
A lot of the times, man needs to be significantly older to be in that position.
Each one has their own experiences.
Maybe for me, in my experience, I've been raised well in my household.
When you're talking about masculine leadership, whether it was a father, in my experience, I have a very good father who I was raised well.
I already know.
But that's you, though.
That's you, not everyone else.
That's in my experience.
I'm not a person to judge anyone.
I didn't face what she did, or I don't know what she went through.
But in my experience, because you're asking me about what I would think about it, this is what I think about it in different ways.
Yeah, but you have a strong dad, which is why you kind of have the world view that you have.
But I think for a woman, she needs to get married when she's still as young and attractive so that she can find a guy.
What?
You want a girl?
A girl has a window of time to find a man.
Would you agree?
A window of time.
So, guys want a girl that's like between 18 to 25, I would say is like their peak years.
Some girls can push the clock back a little bit, right?
Go to the gym, take care of themselves.
Some girls can push the clock back.
But in general, most men, especially when their value is higher, they're going to want a girl somewhere in their 20s.
So, if you only had a certain amount of time to find a man, Wouldn't it make sense to get married as young as possible so that you can get the best guy?
Not at 19.
If you're telling me that the peak years were in their 20s, in their 20s, everyone gets married in their 20s.
It's like 18 to 24.
And everyone doesn't get married.
The average age in America to get married is around 30.
You know, I have friends.
I have my best friend's sister.
She got married at 23.
Was this back in Lebanon?
She's right now in Michigan, I guess.
Okay.
Yeah, but she's Lebanese too.
I mean, 19, 23, what's the difference, man?
Big difference.
What?
Don't look at me!
That's it!
I mean, there's one difference.
If a girl's 19 and you're 23, what have you learned when you were 19 and 21 right now?
A lot.
Like what?
At 19...
I think I was still in college.
I didn't talk to my...
What have you learned?
Learned?
Being tougher, I guess.
I will say that you do kind of mature in dog years.
There's a big difference between someone that's 19 and 21.
But the point is that I don't think women understand how little we care about your maturity.
Like your cognitive maturity.
We don't really care.
Really?
No, we don't.
Not in my experience, though.
You're a virgin.
That's what I told you?
You have no experience.
Whoa, whoa, whoa.
It doesn't have to be.
Not to the extreme levels.
Are you disagreeing with him?
You ain't got experience?
Or do you?
Look.
Look, man.
Like, the reality is...
No, I told her she doesn't know anything in Arabic.
Like, look.
Men don't really care about how smart you are, your degrees, your education, and how competent you are.
Because when we come into a relationship with you, we're expected to be the smart ones.
We're expected to be the providers.
So when men come into a relationship, what we look for is like, is she attractive?
Is she not a whore?
Is she gonna embarrass me when I'm outside?
We look at like, and I was talking about this on the last podcast, you guys look for survival value Is he strong?
Is he tall?
Does he make money?
Is he smart?
If we, like, break down on the side of the road, can he get us a safety?
You guys look for survival value.
We look for a replication value.
Is she young?
Is she hot?
Are my kids gonna be attractive?
Is she fertile?
Like, if she gets pregnant, is she gonna be able to bring this child to term?
We look for different things.
So we don't care about your guys' competences and experience and all this other crap.
We don't give a shit about it at all.
When I'm talking about that 19-year-old, like about that 19-year-old girl...
Do you guys agree or disagree?
What do you guys think?
Don't look at me.
Agree or disagree?
I agree to a certain extent.
Who agrees to a certain extent?
You?
Me.
How many times have you guys asked you about your schooling?
Well, everybody asked me, like, oh, what do you do for a living?
Yeah, yeah.
I mean, that's basic.
Okay, but let me ask you this.
If you said...
I'm pursuing my master's degree for psychology, or you said, I don't have a fucking job.
Do you think it would change anything?
I mean, maybe.
They might judge me, call me a bum or something.
But would they walk out on you and say, I'm not interested in this chick anymore?
Well, it depends on the guy.
Yeah, it depends on the guy.
I feel like some people would definitely look down on you.
Yeah, but would they stop the date and walk out on you is my question.
No, because they're still trying to get with you.
Exactly.
So let's flip it around.
Let's say you meet a guy and you ask him, like, oh, what are you doing?
He tells you, I'm fucking homeless.
I'm actually, you know, got a box next door.
Would you probably get up and walk away?
Yeah, maybe.
See a difference?
Like, your education means virtually nothing versus his status and competency matters a lot.
Do you know how many girls are in Miami with no job, just on yachts, at parties, at events, at celebrities' houses, and they don't have anything going for themselves?
It's because it doesn't matter.
Everything doesn't matter.
Don't they get bored?
Matter of fact, let's have fun with this.
If you were a man, if I took your same exact brain and I put it in a man, you would not know Murder Murphy.
You would have never met your guy.
You'd never even been in those circles.
Hmm.
She's smiling.
Maybe I would've.
No.
Like, I know them because of a guy.
Because of a guy?
Yeah.
You wouldn't have met that guy if you were a man.
Yeah.
Yes.
I mean, he hangs out with guys, too.
So, I don't know.
Maybe not.
Maybe I would've...
The opportunity that you have now to even...
No, but I get it.
I get what you're saying.
Yeah.
Okay.
Let me be very blunt about this.
You're around guys that are successful and have some money, right?
Right.
As a man, you can't be around those guys unless you also have a lot of money.
Right.
But as a woman, you don't have to have the same status or money to be in those circles or get invited to or be in those circles.
I agree.
So men have to earn their place to meet other affluent men.
Women don't.
So what I'm saying is if I took your brain, as smart as you might be, pursuing your PhD, and I put it in the body of a man, you would not have met the individuals that you met, is my point.
All fucked.
Right.
That's what I mean when I say female competence is irrelevant.
It's great that you're going to school.
That's great for you.
But I promise you, if you drive out of school tomorrow, the guy that you're with wouldn't care.
He would still date you.
He was like, good.
Yep!
Go in the kitchen.
Go in the kitchen to cook, man.
So you see the difference?
Because girls always put emphasis on their education and experience.
Well, you didn't really name anything.
But you guys get the point.
Girls put a lot of emphasis on their education.
And it's kind of like Coke.
Because I think deep down, all of you guys know that we don't care.
But you kind of think that we care?
It's empowering, but we really don't.
Myron.
And I would argue, make it even more fun, the more money the man makes, the less he cares about your education.
Because remember, what did you say a second ago?
I still wanted to be a provider, right?
That I still want to be a provider?
No, no.
What did you say?
You said, even though you make your own money, you still want to be a provider, right?
Of course.
Okay.
Let me ask you a question.
Let's say you're with a guy, but he dressed really well all the time and had a bunch of Jordan sneakers.
What would your response be to that?
You're saying if I was with a guy that dressed nice?
Yeah, like he hung out with you and you guys were dating and he had a great Jordan collection.
Alright, like, good for him.
Awesome!
You don't give a fuck, right?
Yeah.
That's how we feel about your career.
Boom.
Done.
Yo, that's a same response all day.
Isn't it crazy?
But here's the thing, I gotta, I gotta, like, do you feel that, like, that not give a fuck attitude you just had?
Like, how you were just like, okay, you got Jordan Sneakers, who gives a fuck?
Right.
That's how we feel about your money and your career.
Literally burn that feeling in your head every time you say, I'm pursuing school and I'm going to be a psychologist.
Men are like, fuck, that's no better for me.
Because you admitted it earlier, even if I make money and I'm successful, I still expect you to pay the bills.
So even if I'm good looking and I got these Jordans, it doesn't benefit you.
So why do you give a fuck?
That's just for ourselves, though.
That's not for guys, because you never know.
You could be left alone or you could die.
Something could happen.
Sure, sure.
Of course, of course.
But women use that as like, oh, well, I'm going to stave off marriage because I'm going to go pursue my education or I need to find myself, like she was saying or whatever.
But I'm saying that's a waste of time.
That's like me saying, oh, bro, I can't get married until I really get my Jordan collection up to par.
You see how ridiculous that sounds?
It doesn't benefit me to increase my Jordan collection to be more attractive to women.
So you guys kind of waste your time pursuing an education because all it does really is just make you less attractive or makes it harder for you to find that guy.
And more annoying.
For example, let's say, okay, I'll give you guys an example.
Just so this really hits home.
Let's say I spent my 20s focusing on making sure my manicure was on point, always getting a haircut every three days, always wearing the best designer, buying a bunch of sneakers, always well dressed.
I'm like a fucking metrosexual.
Hey, y'all!
I'm still straight, but I'm like really big on my looks.
Takes me longer to get dressed than you.
Takes me longer to get, you know, do my shit.
You smell better?
Et cetera.
I smell better than you.
I got the best shit all the time.
I'm always dressed better than you.
Et cetera, right?
I'm the more attractive person in the relationship.
Wouldn't that kind of annoy you after a while?
Mm-hmm.
You sure?
Would that annoy you?
I think so, yeah.
How long does it take you to get ready?
Maybe over an hour.
I'm taking two hours to get ready every time.
How would you like that?
No, I wouldn't like that.
Babe, what do you think about my shoes?
Aw, you don't like them?
Come on.
And I changed them out like four times.
Do they match?
What do you think?
I'm telling you to take pictures of me and shit.
Would that be annoying?
Okay, what about you?
Oh yeah.
Be annoying?
That's how we feel about your guys' careers!
It's annoying.
It's annoying.
It doesn't help us.
At all.
It doesn't help you, like, for me to get dressed for three hours and look really fucking good.
It doesn't benefit you to a degree, but then it gets to a point of diminishing returns.
Just like you, pursuing a career, making a bunch of money.
It doesn't help us really at all.
Because most of you guys want a provider anyway.
So what does your career do to benefit me?
But isn't it funny?
It's for survival.
Because they want to depend on themselves and not the man.
But if they find a man, maybe they'll let them provide and take care of them.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
But it's like they lead with that shit.
That's like me going on a day saying, I got a nice Jordan.
I take three hours to get ready.
Girls are looking at me like, what the fuck?
You weirdo?
That's how we feel when y'all talk about school and I got to get experience and all that.
Education and your age.
Not all of the guys think like that.
Honestly.
So, hold on.
Let me break it down for you real quick, right?
I know you're pretty young.
No, bro, she's Arab.
She should know better.
No, no.
But guys ask just to ask.
They don't ask for reasons.
It's like peasantries.
Like, okay, you know what?
What's your name?
How old are you?
We do it for work.
And then they tell you what you want to hear.
Oh, that's amazing.
To fuck you.
To fuck you.
I'm so proud of you.
Masha Allah.
Yalla, yalla.
Mashallah, aksi!
But they don't care.
- Yeah, you know.
- Yeah, but you know what's happening in Lebanon?
- No, you know.
- You know what's happening?
- You know what's happening?
- Yeah, you know.
- You know what's happening? - You know what's happening?
- They're just saying, they're just like, like literally bro, it's like, you know, they just want to get to small talk, whatever maybe, but it's like, they're asking like, - But don't they value, - to be polite.
- Don't they value like the intuition and the smartness of a girl?
- No, no.
- No, no.
- So, you don't know if you're a girl or not?
- No, no, no, no.
- Oh, guys are dumb.
Alhamdulillah.
I told her, she said, do they care?
And I was like, they don't give a fuck.
Nigga, I don't know what y'all are saying, man.
I'm trying to finish this conversation.
I'm enjoying this.
Actually, this is the first time I think I've spoken Arabic on this podcast.
Yeah, maybe after the show.
Can I speak my native language?
What is it?
- Yeah, bro. - Yeah, that's a big one. - Blackfish.
- Hey, yo.
You can't say nothing, nigga.
Nigga, you're right, because I ain't a host, nigga.
Well, you act like a host, nigga.
I'm just saying, bro.
Right now, if I speak Beijing, they won't know what I'm saying.
Alright, do it then.
You guys ready?
Alright, so...
My bad, my bad.
What are we getting on?
What?
Hi.
They won't get it.
I could be late.
Let me go down there.
What?
Does anyone know what they said?
Have a good day.
Let me go down.
No, go down with your pussy, man.
Let me fuck.
What?
No, I don't.
I said, let us go down there.
Let me go down there.
Yeah, fuck.
Cheese on bread.
Cheese on bread, you asshole!
So that's the language you're talking about?
Yeah, it's like native English.
It's Beijing.
You know Rihanna the singer?
Wow.
It's like...
Here, I'll give her the equivalent.
It's like...
Moroccan Arabic.
That's the equivalent.
Moroccan is like really fucked up Arabic that's like fucked up English yeah yeah yeah so so after the show you guys can go out for some show water mom you know Like, after the show, you guys, you know?
Yeah.
But anyway, so, does that make sense, though, ladies?
Kind of like how we view your money and status versus how you guys view us?
Like, what we're looking for versus what you guys are looking for?
We're looking for youth, beauty, and fertility.
You guys are looking for strength, competence, and resources.
And I think that's okay.
I think it's actually beautiful that he got with a 19 year old because she's at her peak and he's at his peak.
I think men don't reach their peak until they're in their mid 30s to 40s and then women hit their peak like at 18 pretty much and then from there it kind of goes down.
But for men like we start low like at 18 we have no value.
Zero value at 18.
You know like it starts like this so like Men and women, right?
Girl's 18 years old, she's up here, bro.
18-year-old guy, here.
As the woman ages, and the man ages, then it starts to invert.
Right?
So I would say they're probably at the same point at around maybe 29, 30.
And then as he goes into his 30s, he starts to surpass her.
If he does the work, if he's a bum, not making no money, then obviously he's just going to stay down here.
The man has to work to surpass the girl.
But if he does the work, he'll surpass her.
I would say a guy is even lower.
Like, when he's 18, he's wheezed, bro.
Oh, yeah, he's not even...
I mean, I'm just being nice when I'm playing down here.
Be honest, it'd be fucking, like, not even at the table, bro.
Like, 18-year-old men are fucking absolutely useless in society.
Invisible.
Can't do shit.
Invisible.
Can't do nothing.
Absolutely useless.
Like, I think...
This is how I look at it.
Women are born with value, and, like, men have to build their value.
Like, you right now, right?
You're, what, 21-year virgin?
Yeah.
Okay.
Well, assuming you're really a virgin.
Allegedly.
Some guy would really value that.
They'd be like, damn, she's young, she's attractive.
You come from a Christian family, she has a dad.
Oh my God, this girl would probably be a good girlfriend or wife.
So you have high value right now, but as you age, it's gonna go down and down and down.
That's just how it is, unfortunately.
But a 21-year-old guy, if we took a 21-year-old guy like you, that's a virgin.
Nobody gives a shit about him.
See, and you even know that he's useless.
So it's like...
See, she even made this face.
It's a 21-year-old guy that's a virgin.
It's not the same.
Alright, we have a ton of chats to read.
Anybody else got any comments or disagreements or points you want to make?
Taylor.
Nobody.
Taylor Gang.
Psychology person, anything you want to say?
She's taking it.
I mean, this should make sense for you the most out of everybody here.
It does make sense.
Alright.
Alright, we'll go ahead and read some of these chats.
And then their question is next.
Oh yeah, and then we'll go into your questions.
So let me get this straight.
You can start OF at 18, but God forbid you find a good man that just happens to be much older.
And let's be honest, women are not as intelligent as they think they are.
99% of women cannot have an intelligent conversation, i.e., can any of you tell me the difference between fascism and communism?
Oh shit.
Most relationships are not built on common interests contrary to popular female tropes.
Alright.
Oh, because you said that, right?
Like they won't be able to talk about anything, right?
Yeah.
Okay, so I'll tell you why I think you're wrong on that.
So, okay, would you agree that men and women are different?
Would you agree that we have different interests?
Would you agree that more than likely you're going to have more similarities and interests with a man than versus with a woman?
And vice versa.
As a woman, you're going to have more interest with a fellow woman than with a man.
Yeah.
Okay.
I genuinely believe that you shouldn't have that many common interests with your woman.
And I'll explain why.
If you're a hyper-masculine guy and you have a hyper-feminine woman, you guys are simply not going to be the same at all.
You guys are going to be very different.
If anything, she'll adopt a lot of the interests you have so you guys will end up having similarities.
I'll give you guys an example.
My girlfriend, she didn't play video games before she met me.
But, to bond and have more similarities, she started playing a video game that I play, so we have something to talk about.
So she followed me in that situation.
She supports, though.
You still play?
I haven't played it in a bit.
I know.
But I'm just giving an example here.
Got it.
Sorry, go ahead.
But, yeah.
So, like, we ended up having another interest based on what I do that she followed me.
Right?
I have a true crime channel where I talk about serial killers and all that shit.
She has somewhat of an interest in it, but she got even more interested in it to assist me, right?
So I think in the course of your relationship, if the man is like has some shit going on or whatever, he's interesting or whatever, the woman's naturally gonna fall into that and then you guys will end up having hobbies together, right?
But generally speaking, A super masculine guy and a super feminine woman are gonna be polar opposites.
And then the woman, if she's feminine, she's gonna adopt some of those interests of her man.
Like, what I've noticed a lot of times with girls, if they watch sports with their guy, they naturally become the fan of whatever sports team he likes.
If he's a Phillies fan, now she's a Phillies fan.
Right?
So, that's what I've noticed.
Those interests align automatically once she's with him.
Agree or disagree?
I see what you're saying, yeah.
Yeah.
And then, I mean, just girl shit.
Like, no, she hangs out with girlfriends and talks about girl shit because I don't want to sit there and gossip and talk about that stupid shit all the time because men and women just have different interests.
You know?
Mm-hmm.
So, okay.
What else do we got here?
Love supporting the show.
Buddy!
Okay.
Uh...
No other Caribbean understands Bayesians?
That's a lie!
Yo, bro, that's cat, man.
They're trying to say y'all got the worst English.
No, they don't.
Listen, you know who has the worst English?
Jamaican?
If you know more.
No.
Maybe St.
Croix.
Bro, wherever Chris is from, that's where it is.
Yo, I swear to God, bro.
Wherever Chris is from, the island has the worst English, bro.
I swear to God, bro.
Is that true, Chris?
I mean, pretty much, yo, it's broken, bro.
Yeah.
My brother went to, I think he was 13, and he went over there for a few months.
When he came back, I was like, what the fuck is this nigga saying, bro?
Yeah, what?
Yo, and it took him like at least two months.
To recalibrate.
Yeah, to recalibrate.
I'm like, what the fuck are you saying, bro?
It's just horrible English.
Chris, trust me.
That's how I feel about you.
Oh, yeah.
Well, you're the host, man.
Dating many girls are just to confuse your enemies so they can attack your main girl.
Ladies don't understand this strategy.
Oh, so they don't attack your main girl.
Oh, okay.
Clever.
Myers laugh when Chris starts talking his fucking meme.
It's kind of funny, bro.
These guys in the chat keep saying you're all dumb.
I disagree.
I think you're all queens.
Let's prove them wrong.
Name all these.
Don't let me down, ladies.
Don't let the massages win.
Oh, the pedals.
Alright, let's move on.
Ladies, would you fuck this man if he was poor?
Yo, what the fuck, man?
Leave little baby alone, bro.
Nigga had a bad day.
Yo, I tweeted about that.
I said, look, if this dude can get bitches, all of you guys can fucking get girls.
Like, come on, man.
Yo, bruh.
Just get some money, get your status up.
I know, man.
Get in the gym.
Like, if he can fucking get girls, bro, put that picture back up.
Nigga, he gets hoes, bro.
I know he does.
Look at that.
Come on, man.
Oh, my God.
That was a bad angle, though.
I'll give the credit, man.
What was that?
You said?
That's a bad picture.
Yeah, see?
She gets it.
He looks like he's going to kill someone.
Would he be able to smash?
No, I don't smash anyways.
Okay, I'm just trying to see.
All right.
Chris Tots.
Why does Chris always start off his sentence with, Hey, man!
Hey, man!
It's Chris!
Yo, hey, man.
Nice to be a teacher.
I'm just saying, hey, man.
Okay.
That's what it is, man.
Knowledge and wisdom says, and he loves you, but you're not done hoeing.
Oh, that's crazy.
That's true though, man.
If you notice, the girl I was, the curly hair girl I was here on Wednesday, she said she met a guy at a young age, but she wasn't ready.
Happens all the time.
Yeah.
I think she said she's still not ready.
There you go.
Yeah.
Fresh if you had Benjamin Button Disease.
Goddamn.
Bro, screw you, bro.
Right out.
What the fuck?
Is that AI? No, it's Moe, obviously, bud.
They stayed the way to a man's heart and through his stomach.
Ladies, what are you cooking for your man to make sure he stays with you?
Also, Melissa and Audrey's response said they'd be cooking with Icy.
Okay, two girls have a man here, right?
What do you cook for your guy?
If I'm being honest, I haven't had the chance to cook for him yet.
I only cooked for him once.
It was a filet mignon.
Only once?
Did he pay for it?
No, I bought it.
Bought it?
With his money?
With his money or your money?
With my money.
What do you do for it?
That's my motto.
Bro, what do you know that we don't, man?
She lying about something?
No, I don't know.
I'm messing with her.
First is nice.
He ain't gonna put you on blast.
He never does that shit.
Unless you, like, make fun of him.
Yeah.
Wait, wait, hold on.
Question.
How long the one that's to the right?
What's her?
She's black?
Almost.
I don't know.
She's Dominican.
That's African.
I'm not getting into that, but we've been together for a couple months.
Three months.
Oh, okay.
Three months?
Okay.
Almost three months.
87 cook and he's with you Right, I mean one woman I'm like yo, why is she the Bible right?
Okay, she cooks she cleans and the body because right now I see you like you're pretty pretty girl man.
No makeup on But that's all you presented to your man though because apparently you have been cooked you which you know for okay Chris wants to know in a roundabout way What are you doing to preserve your man as your man?
um I'm not about to give you, like, my little tips and tricks, but, you know.
Okay, outside of sex.
Not for us, for these ladies right here on the panel.
Yeah, outside of sex, yeah.
Because we're both on go, and, like, my, like, his lifestyle is very intense, my lifestyle is very intense, like, I just try to keep the peace a lot of times.
Fuck your lifestyle, man.
It's your man.
Like, he doesn't care about that shit, man.
Like, even if we're arguing, like, and I know that he, like, I know that I have a valid point that I could really, like...
You argue with your man three months?
Huh?
You argue with your man three months down the line?
No, I'm just saying, like, if there was to be an argument...
What does he do?
Just out of curiosity.
He's in sales.
Okay.
Does he make significantly more money than you do?
Yes.
Like double?
Triple?
Like triple.
What kind of sales?
Just sales.
Stop pressing me.
Yo, he is fucking all the girls, man.
Where is he at right now?
Where is he?
He's working.
All the girls.
1219, nigga.
What do you mean, where?
Where's he working?
He's working.
I know, but where?
It sells right now?
FBI, open up!
I'm telling you, his office is real, like...
Yeah, his office?
You do my business today!
I love it too much!
You all live in my business.
So maybe one day I can be looking at a girl like you.
Well, first of all, the banks are closed.
I'll live that weekend, man.
He ain't working, man.
I want to be lucky one day to get a girl like you.
I want to know what this will work.
That's all.
This nigga ain't working, bro.
No, he ain't working.
It just might not be legal tender, if you know what I'm saying.
This nigga ain't working out like that weekend, man.
She's with the Bronx, bro.
And she's Dominican.
I'm just going to keep it a thousand.
Cambrian's and Dominicans are the biggest fucking drug dealers.
They're the main suppliers of all...
Major drug routes most of the time.
He count kilos.
Of course.
Cavarian, Dominican, 100% a drug dealer.
Wow.
Wait, is he a Cavarian, too?
Or no?
No.
Okay.
Is he white?
No.
Is he black?
Yeah, he's black.
Oh.
Wait, wait, wait.
Hold on, hold on.
Is he Haitian?
Oh, so we...
What kind of black, though?
What kind of black?
Is he Haitian?
Is he like...
Nigga black or like...
He's a drug dealer, bro.
She would have been correcting us by now.
No, it's pharmaceutical sales!
Like, nigga, she would've been correcting us by now.
He would drug you up, bro.
Oh, man.
Nigga, trapping.
They met on the beach.
Yeah, the beach.
Oh, yeah.
Oh, you want some weed?
You want some...
Oh, yeah.
Loud, loud, loud.
Loud, loud, loud.
She's got two five purple tops.
Yo, nigga, they're like...
Yo, yo.
Yo, my friend, right?
They're walking on the south beach.
They be like...
Loud?
Loud?
No, it's quiet right now.
It's quiet!
Loud, loud, loud.
What do you mean?
Sweet!
He's like, oh no, I'm good.
And then he's like, wait, how much?
Oh, it's 350.
Oh, I'm good.
Oh, you're mad cute, though.
That's how I started.
You're mad cute, though.
You left a free.
Nice ass, man.
Let me see your IG, man.
Bend over for me, bitch.
Oh, shit, your IG's lit, man.
Yeah, like diamond necklaces.
Pop it open, okay?
You single, bitch?
Sorry, this is banter between guys, okay?
You can see him.
He's like, what's your sign?
I'm a Pisces.
Oh, me too.
I'm a Libra.
Whatever that means But yeah You fucked up when he said That he was working Now that he was saying Come on Yeah I'm like at work Where's that At work At work Come on man At work At the beach At work At work At that weekend man Yeah she came early in Dominican You know she likes the drug dealers You should have said Her cousin's a drug dealer Guaranteed Come on man Look at that I have to connect you I mean, you're not wrong.
This week is trash.
Yeah, this week is trash.
You know what I mean?
I can connect you.
We don't miss.
I mean, put you on my cousin Rico.
We don't miss.
This shit trash, nigga.
There she is, officer.
We get it straight from Puerto Rico.
Half the price.
There she is, officer.
She's right there.
Yep.
We got him.
We got her.
She got another connected in Boston.
I don't know what you're talking about.
I am innocent.
Yes.
Allegedly.
I am innocent.
I am innocent.
No, no, no.
No, no, no.
Instagram, man.
Okay.
We'll save her some grace.
- Geez!
- Nah, nah, nah.
- Where is the gray? - I'm sorry to think that she's the connect now.
- What was the thing we're getting there, bro? - I'm sorry to think she's the connect, bro.
- Yo, come on, girls, man.
- Yo, take the check.
- Can you stop?
Take the check.
- Hey, ho! - She's innocent, man! - Why is the check from the Bronx in Miami?
Why am I in Miami?
Come on, man.
I lived out in Miami.
If I'm being honest, I lived out in Miami before.
I wanted to move out.
Hey, hey, hey.
She's a boyfriend, bro.
Respect.
Respect, my nigga.
Respect, my nigga.
The Nochella is crazy.
Thank you, friend.
Thank you, friend.
But we cool, we cool.
This shit is starting to connect to me now.
She came from New York.
She's in Florida.
She came right in and fucking Dominican.
I'll tell you this, bro.
Dude, there's a salesman.
And he's working right now.
I'm so proven Dominican.
Yo, that IG's...
Bro, come on, man.
Oh, my God.
There's a man right now in the pandemic.
Man is at work right now.
Oh, you beautiful.
Wait, wait, wait.
Oh, you beautiful.
Yeah.
Okay, alright, show it to you!
Open it!
Who's pitch is that?
No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no.
She was sugar paper for sure.
It's fine, bro.
Who is that?
It's fine, bro.
No one.
No one.
That we know.
Okay.
But people just comment on our page.
I don't know about Sugar Baby, bro, but it's definitely white powder, if you know what I'm saying, man.
Bro.
Oh, Dominicans get the best price.
Bro, what is this?
Can you take my Instagram down?
Like, y'all forcing it.
What?
Forcing it?
Chris.
Yes, you're forcing it.
You're all of it.
Myra, don't take this.
It's in our face.
Don't take our word for it.
We said you had a nice booty, man.
I used to compliment.
I used to be like, yo, you're right.
No, no, no, no, no.
The fresh updates.
Yeah, bro.
I don't want to see that shit, nigga.
Alright, Nick, we'll go back to shots.
Oh, what?
We got to switch?
Don't take our word for it, bro.
Oh, what did nigger say?
It's clean.
It's clean.
It's clean?
Okay, alright.
Go ahead and pull it up there.
What if I just do that?
What the?
Is that your Twitter?
I don't have a Twitter.
So who's that?
I don't know.
I've had people impersonate me before.
I don't have a Twitter.
I only have Instagram, TikTok, and a Snapchat.
Niggas ain't going to impersonate you on Twitter, man.
I've had my identity stolen when I was 18.
They literally took all my normal accounts, like my Facebook, my Instagram, my Twitter.
When I did have a Twitter when it first came out, they hacked all that shit, and I literally could not get it back.
So, what happened was when I came out here, they took my phone.
Like, I got robbed at a club and took my phone.
So I have, like, no of my normal contacts.
What club did you got robbed at?
What club?
I don't know.
Something in Hollywood.
What the fuck?
Because I have two phones and I put one of my phones down.
I got two phones.
I got the wrong phone.
Because I hadn't finished transferring my...
Well, I'm sorry to happen to you.
It's whatever.
That sucks.
What club, though?
There's a lot of clubs in Hollywood.
They got a strip.
It was on Hollywood Boulevard.
I stay around there, yeah.
Name the clubs that she would get robbed at, Mo.
Nigga, anyone that parties in Hollywood, bro?
That's an L, my nigga.
What the fuck you doing in Hollywood, nigga?
Nobody goes there, bro.
It's the one across the street from a bakery.
Oh, yeah.
There's one where I used to live.
I had to move, bro.
I should get all this fucked, bro.
There's one across the street from a bakery.
I mean, yeah.
Like, you get a party in Hollywood?
Yeah, yeah.
You a hood niggas, bro.
What the fuck's going on in Hollywood?
Yo, bro, that's an L, bro.
Let's move on, bro.
That's wrestling.
More pieces of evidence are coming.
No wonder she don't want to talk.
Yeah, she got...
She a random scammer niggas.
We're fast.
Is she from New York?
The Bronx?
And dealers.
Okay.
All right, let's move on.
Cafe Iguanas is part of the underworld.
Yo, Iguanas!
Back in the day.
W, Bills and Moe, shout out to my guys, although I don't watch After Hours anymore because the real value is on daytime shows.
I'm Ninja Watcher tonight, got the show on the background as I work in my business, WCC and W Money Clips.
Thank you, gentlemen, for everything big things coming soon.
Thank you, my friend.
Shout out to you, bro.
This one is for the female species.
Who has more pride, men or women, and who do you think needs more for a healthy relationship?
Oh, good one.
Who has more pride, men or women?
Heroin pride.
And who do you think needs more for the relationship to work?
That's actually a really good question.
We did it earlier.
Men.
Roughly.
Men.
Both.
Men are ego-driven.
So they want to be at the top.
They don't want the woman to be better.
Okay, but who do you think...
You're talking obviously about a select few men.
But in general, who do you think has more pride?
Men have more pride or women have more pride?
Women.
Okay, let's start here real quick.
You think men do?
Okay, that's fine.
You still think men?
What about you?
Um, I don't know.
Can you come back to me?
Come back?
Ah, man.
Proving all the stereotypes.
Blonde can't answer questions.
The Dominican Cabernet is a criminal.
Cuban, Colombian, Mexican is with a trapper, probably.
I don't know.
More than likely.
I don't know.
What about you?
What do you think?
Who has more pride, men or women in general, speaking?
Men.
You think men do?
Okay.
Who do you think needs to have more pride for the relationship to work, men or women?
I think the woman.
You think the woman needs to have more pride?
Yes.
Why?
Because you just want to be proud of your relationship.
You don't want to be hiding your guy.
I just laughed because one of the comments says they all zoned out.
We're all zoned out.
No, you are.
I know.
I'm so tired.
Don't worry.
Alright, what about you?
He needs to have more pride.
I mean, I feel like the man could have more pride, but I feel like there's also situations where a woman would want to have more pride in a relationship than a man.
Who do you think has more pride in general?
More women or more men?
I feel like it could be both because I feel like men, they operate based off of, like, ego.
And women, it's really more of, like...
I don't want to say this is all the time, but sometimes it could be, like, territory.
You don't think women operate on ego?
Sometimes, I think so.
Did you just say earlier that I'm not going to accept 50-50 because I'm a bad bitch?
And I don't got makeup on?
Yeah.
And that's one of those points.
Okay!
Interesting.
Okay, what about you?
I think women have more pride.
Guys, they approach women very easily.
A girl wouldn't go and approach a guy and be like, hi, you're so hot or whatever.
I don't know.
Most of the people I know, most girls I know, they have that pride even more than guys.
And guys, they approach you, approach you.
I don't know.
Okay, I'll refine what you said a little bit.
I genuinely believe women have way more pride than men do.
Like, maybe the guys at the top that have money and status have pride, but they had to earn that pride.
Women, though, on the other hand, I would say if you take, like, an average woman, she has way more pride than an average guy.
Because, like, you guys have social media, you guys have Snapchat, you guys have dudes swaying you all the time.
Like, I think the average woman has way more pride than the average guy.
Because for men, we have to earn our pride.
Because, like, let's say I'm a fucking loser, right?
And I run around and I'm like, I'm a king!
People are gonna laugh at me.
Like, nigga, you're a loser.
Like, you know what I mean?
Like, no bitch is gonna want me.
People are gonna laugh at me.
But like, you guys run around and say, I'm a 10.
Nobody tells you you're delusional if you're not a 10.
I've seen fat girls that literally run around and say, I'm a 10.
And you guys are there.
Yes, queen.
Yes, queen.
In the back of your mind, no, bitch, no, you're not.
Even though in the back of your mind, you're like, you fat bitch, you're not a fucking 10.
But you guys was like, yes, because you guys don't tell each other the truth.
So I think women are prideful to a ridiculous degree.
So y'all agree that women have more pride now?
Yeah, women do have more pride.
Fair enough.
And I will say, I think that man needs to have pride in a relationship because if a man has pride, he's not going to let a woman disrespect him.
That's true.
And I think the biggest thing is like...
Shut up, bitch!
I think it's very important to be able to tell your girl, shut up, or you're dumb, or that's not true, or whatever.
And I don't think most guys have the balls to stand up to the girl and tell her, this is what we're going to do.
Shut up, bitch!
All over your man?
Is that really your man?
That's boring.
She literally said, it's boring.
Yeah, it is.
That's the best answer you can give.
You got a dog, not a man.
Yeah, I think we need to be able to...
We need to have the pride and we need to be the one that's more egotistical than the woman.
I think when a woman's egotistical, it's a fucking problem.
Because I think with women, you guys get so much attention.
Like, attention for women, like, hurts a relationship.
Because what I've noticed is like...
So, if I got a girl, right?
And she's like, not a whore.
She's good to me.
She doesn't cheat on me.
Like, I might go fuck another bitch, but I'm coming back to her.
Right?
Like, I can get all the attention from other whores.
My girl's my girl.
Right?
Doesn't matter.
But when you guys get attention, you guys think, I could do better.
Yep.
And then you go, you think you can do better, you actually end up doing worse, and then you take an L, because you hurt yourself in that process of, like, fucking that new guy.
So then you try to go back to the old guy, and if he has half a brain, he's gonna be like, fuck you.
And he'll never take you seriously ever again.
So I think with women...
You guys have pride and it leads you down the wrong path.
Because you guys don't earn your pride.
You guys are beautiful.
You guys are giving your value.
So you have to earn your pride.
The man has to earn his pride.
So he earns that pride.
Gets the girl.
And then he has that pride and he's not going to let that girl disrespect him.
Which actually makes him more attractive.
So I think if anything, the man needs to have the pride.
I think at first like the girl should have a little bit of pride and the man not have a pride certain extent but then later down the road when they're getting to know each other um I think like the man should show a little bit well here's the thing she actually said something that was correct uh the woman needs to have pride because of her man I genuinely believe a woman's value is based on the caliber of man she could attract yep like I'll give an example if a woman is 35 years old and single not married I look at her as a failure Sorry.
If I see a guy that's 35 years old, single, not married, he has a bunch of options.
Women want to take his last name, not the other way around.
Yeah.
Because, like, if you see a girl that's, like, 40 years old, 35 years old, she makes $200,000 a year, super successful, but she doesn't have a man, what do you think, Oprah?
I think good for her.
Man, what do you think?
Can you repeat the question?
Thank you.
You meet a girl that's 35 years old, make it $200,000 per year.
What do you think?
I don't really have a complaint against that.
I just think it's sad, but I would never judge because that could be me.
That could be me.
Okay, you wouldn't judge, but let's keep it real.
What would you think to yourself?
35 years old, $200,000 per year, but single.
I don't know.
She just hasn't found the right person for her.
At 35?
Fucking cope.
What about you?
What would you say?
I think she prioritized a career over a family and a man and...
Yeah.
Finish her sentence.
I know you got more than you want to say.
Don't be a pussy.
Come on, Taylor.
Come on, let's go.
You're almost there.
Say what you want to really say.
You're halfway there.
Yeah, I think she made the wrong decision by doing that.
See, I had to drag it out of her.
Because, like, you know, working for...
Never mind.
What a pussy.
Alright, what about you?
Would it be fair to say that she failed?
I mean, I guess.
No!
Well, she could still find someone.
People get married later.
Yeah, but her eggs show up at 30, what, 30-ish?
Early 30s?
Do you think at 35 she's still going to be able to find the man of her dreams that she could have got maybe at 21 or 22?
Of course.
I don't know.
Probably not.
Somebody said of course?
Yeah.
I did.
I mean, women look good at 35 these days.
It's makeup, though.
No, it's not makeup.
Yes, it is.
Surgery, makeup.
You can't tell me nothing.
Nuh-uh, Chris.
You know what I look at when I see a girl that's 35 years old that makes $200,000 per year?
I'm like, wow.
Something's wrong with her.
Broken.
Baggage.
You know when you go to- Something's wrong with her.
To the supermarket, right?
Like Publix, right?
Especially if she's attractive.
Then I'm like, this bitch is- Something is totally wrong with her.
A bitch.
Could you imagine going to Publix, buying milk that is not expired?
Oh, shit.
You drink it, you have a good time.
Milk is good.
Wait, good time?
But let's say that same carton of milk, right?
You wait two weeks to go buy that milk.
It looks good, though, from the outside.
When we drink it, we die.
That's women at 35 years old.
That's spoiled milk?
Hell yeah, it tastes like shit.
What the fuck?
Tell you, bro.
Like, it's bad.
Wait, hold on.
The silence is so bad.
Oh, my God.
If she got a kid, nigga, that's like someone that drank from the car before you.
Oh, shit!
Yeah!
There you go!
It's that bad.
It's that bad.
They could kill you from that carton of milk.
It spoiled and he drank from it before you.
Now you got a drink from it.
They could kill you.
And he spit it back in.
Oh, you think you're nasty, nigga?
No, but...
You're nasty, nigga.
Come on, man.
You're nasty, nigga.
Yo, yo, Chris, that nigga, when you go play basketball, and you give him your Gatorade, you gotta tell him, no backwash, nigga.
Yo, Chris is that guy.
No gophers.
No gophers.
Chris, that nigga that does the backwash, you gotta tell this retard, nigga.
Bro, no fucking backwash.
I mean, Chris is correct, though.
I mean, Chris was correct, though.
Don't put it on your mouth.
Come on, man.
Come on, man.
What?
Come on, man.
Nigga, you...
Bro, you bitch, you fuck...
Nigga, look...
Oh, really?
Sorry, my bad.
See, ladies, we roast each other.
Put my camera.
Let me not see that right now.
Okay.
Anyhow, let's move on.
Uh, yeah.
Okay.
The one...
Okay.
Question, ladies, if you had to choose one girl on the panel to share a man with, who would it be?
Oh, shit.
Okay.
Which girl would you share your boyfriend with on the panel if you had to?
Let's say you had your dream man, but he's like, yo, I need two girls.
Sorry, you're never going to get me monogamacy.
Who would you pick to share your man with?
We'll start with you.
Her.
She's already my best friend.
Whack.
What about you?
The virgin.
Why though?
And why?
Interesting.
Who would you pick to share your man with?
And why?
Here on the panel.
Pick one.
Probably her.
I'd pick you too.
Yeah, because she looks freaky.
You're freaky.
Yes!
She's educated and she looks freaky.
I wouldn't want a virgin, no offense.
Okay, what about you?
Who would you pick?
Oh yeah, same.
And then who would you pick?
I'd pick her.
Would you be worried that he might like her more because she's younger and a virgin?
Yeah.
I don't care.
No, she cares, bro.
She paused.
I think she just hit her like, wait, that was a bad decision.
She paused.
She's like, wait, fuck, fuck, fuck, no!
Shit!
See, they're smart.
They're like, okay, she looks like a bigger slut than me.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
I can play the good girl compared to her.
Yeah, see, yeah, they're mad.
Y'all devious.
You guys are literally, you're a bigger slut than me, that's my thing.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
And then you, yeah, what about you?
How did you feel about that, like, Younger and she's a virgin.
Aren't you worried about that?
No, I think she seems really sweet and she seems like she would be a good representation of our man.
Translation, I think I'm more attractive.
Okay.
No, no, no, no.
Less competition.
Yeah.
No.
It's funny.
Come on, Taylor, man.
It's endearing at least.
Come on, Taylor.
Come on, Taylor.
Chris.
I zoomed in.
Hey, sorry, man.
It's Friday.
Yo, Taylor has to go knock it, man.
I'm just saying, man.
You okay, bro?
Hey, listen, Freshman, you thinking it, man.
I'm definitely not thinking it at all, bro.
Oh, really?
No, I'm close.
Fuck it.
How much any you have, bro?
Yes.
Okay.
The answer is yes.
Okay.
Let's get out of here.
Okay.
Let's keep going with the chats and we'll close this thing out.
Chris's face when I go on the panel starts to cap.
What the fuck?
Okay.
Who the fuck is that?
It's me, bro.
Is that you?
Yeah, from like years ago.
I used to work at South Beach.
Yeah.
Hey, there you go, man.
Use that picture!
What the fuck?
I'm thinking of...
Fresh!
You worship me!
That's sex, we love...
Alright, um...
Fresh.
Pneumonia, pronounced Pneuma.
Modern women are fat, masculine delusional ratchet whores whose only use is me to piss in their face.
What the fuck is this?
What?
What is that?
She just lied so confidently in the show.
Click on her Instagram link.
That's the Twitter link on her IG. Don't let this slide.
She has an OnlyFans link.
Check right now.
Who?
Oh my god.
Uh, the one from Bucks.
Oh shit!
Oh shit!
What the fuck?
It's the light of a mission.
I feel like people online are so entitled to know everything.
It's the light of a mission.
She said, that's not my Twitter.
She said, she went in that hole round about, I had my account hacked at a club.
They stole my phone, that's not my shit.
They impersonated my Twitter.
But niggas find that Twitter through your social medias.
I literally have no access to my Twitter.
That's not my Twitter.
You want me to check my phone?
But it's still there.
I mean, yeah, I took it down because my OnlyFans is linked.
I mean, I left it out because my OnlyFans is linked.
How did they find it?
Now I know what she means by independent contractors.
She contracted with OnlyFans, nigga.
Bro, you know what's crazy?
They'll be like, yo, I never lie.
But you know what they do?
Live omission.
But I'm saying what it is.
I mean, I don't necessarily have to tell you everything that's going on in my life.
You know what I mean?
They're going to find it, though.
I don't care.
Sorry, fresh mind.
I'm not hiding nothing.
I'm grown.
She's an adult.
Boy, y'all niggas got nudes?
- No, no, no, no, no, no. - What the fuck is wrong with you guys?
- No, no, no, no, no. - All right, we ain't gonna show that. - We're good. - All right. - Dude, come on, man. - - I mean, come on.
- No, no, no.
It's not them, it's the dudes in the chat found it.
They found her shit.
Nobody won't see that shit anyway.
But it's all open.
So, okay.
Please listen to the questions that are asked and answer them.
Remember, it's highest level of education completed.
Oh, that was from before.
- Yeah, yeah. - Bro, why does a person look like a walking shadow?
I can see my own adjustment, but just see a person.
- No, no, no, stop, bro. - No, stop, bro. - That's Photoshop, baby.
- Okay, they cook us too.
See, ladies, they roast us too, ladies. - If she's an independent contractor, the first is white. - - Yo. - I have a beautiful poster.
Where can I get the FNF PO box?
She don't sell caddy, she sell coochie.
Shout out to FNF. Love y'all niggas.
Big up Myron, big up Fresh, big up Chris, big up Moe, big up Bill.
Stay blessed, my niggas.
Shout out to you, bro.
WFNF in the Melbourne CC. There are amazing guys here with different lifestyles and different professions.
W to all of them.
And guys, Mo Habibi.
Shout out to all our people watching from Australia.
Oh my days!
WFNF with the Friday stream.
As a male-based podcast, would you consider doing a call-in show with a prostate cancer doctor?
Oh yeah, that was earlier.
Okay.
Judge doubled down.
Tyrese gave his child support.
Just another reason to avoid marriage.
Goddamn, bro.
You know that she was getting, I think, like 20K or something like that?
And she went back for more money, like 40K? Yes.
Even though he paid all the time, didn't miss payments, nothing.
And it's like, bro.
Yeah, it's crazy, man.
Tyrese has been going through it for years, bro.
That nigga is a solid dude, by the way.
You got him.
I have a serious question.
I was 180 pounds in March.
I now weigh 151.
I've been eating right now.
I'm having panic attacks when doctors are telling me I'm depressed.
I don't think I'm not sad.
I feel good.
Then out of nowhere, it just hit me in my arm.
Please, what's your thoughts?
Daron, you need to find a productive habit, man.
Just losing the weight is not enough.
You've got to make sure that you lost the weight correctly.
You're eating well.
You're getting enough protein.
You're lifting weights.
And you have a productive hobby that's keeping you active, keeping your mind preoccupied.
You're not depressed.
Depression isn't real.
Fuck it, throw the after hours on locals only.
Tired of the FBA niggas wanting handouts.
Yeah, facts, man.
Fuck them, dude.
Jacob!
Okay.
Park is nearly complete.
I had to edit it a little bit.
Look like a good panel for this question.
For the ladies, is it okay for a girl to withhold bedroom fun?
If so, why and where does it stem from and what makes it okay to get you get me?
Monarchist.
So, is it okay to withhold sex from your boyfriend?
Um...
Yeah.
Well, she's done it the whole time.
Yeah, if so, why and where?
So we'll skip her.
She's done it the whole time.
What about you?
No, no, no.
I want to hear her.
You want to hear her opinion?
Yeah.
Why do you withhold sex from your boyfriends in the past?
Because I don't think they were the one.
Okay.
Oh, good answer.
So you wasted their time.
Got it.
No, I've learned a lot.
No, no, no.
What did they learn from you?
Exactly.
That's messed up, bro.
Yeah, is it ever appropriate to withhold sex from your boyfriend?
I don't think so.
You don't think so?
No.
I think that, like, also, at the same time, like, I'm a person where it's, like, boundaries.
Like, if you make me feel unsafe or, like, you violate one of my boundaries, then it's, like, it's gonna be harder for me to open up to you.
You know what I mean?
But it's her boyfriend.
Yeah, but I'm, like, I'm gonna, when I address that, I just need you to be able to be, like, okay, I hear you.
Respectful.
Yeah, I feel like if you're, like, pushing back, then I'm gonna be, like, the fuck are you pushing back on my boundaries for?
Give me an example of a, I'm a little confused how you would have a boundary So if he violates a boundary that has nothing to do with sex, you're not going to want to give it to him then?
Is that what you're saying?
Yeah, if you make me feel unsafe at any point, whether that's emotionally, physically, mentally, I'm not going to want to...
Can you give me an example?
Because that's a very nebulous way of describing it.
So me like I'm the type of person where like I grew up with a really big family So like it took a lot for me to like open up and come like out and like say my truth and like say what I need to say so like it gets to a point where like if somebody like Interrupts me or like just like if I'm trying to tell you how I feel and like I'm telling you genuinely how I feel and you just say fuck me I just shut down and I guess like there's better ways that I can handle it of course there's always better What if your feeling is like invalid?
Because feelings are temporary and a lot of times they might not reflect reality.
So I definitely agree with that but my thing is I'm a person that like I overthink things and I also think that like I'm a big person where like okay if something bothering me now let me go shower on it let me take an hour maybe 20 minutes to still think about it.
If it's still bothering me obviously I'm gonna still bring it up because it's still bothering me.
Yeah but wouldn't be fair to say that like if you're like you're emotional and you're erratic like that that your feelings matter even less No, because I feel like even if I feel like I'm gonna bug out, I can compose myself and calmly tell you that.
So if I'm calmly telling you that and you're like, bitch, fuck you!
I don't know what the fuck you guys say!
Well, it's not that, but it's just like, it ain't that serious, chill out.
Yeah.
I mean, I wouldn't bring it up to you if it wasn't that serious to me.
You know what I mean?
Like, obviously, if I feel like it's not that serious, I'll just be like, fuck it, let me go take a shower.
So you're communicating that it's an issue for you, and if it tunes you out, then it's...
Yeah, it's like, if I sit here and let you talk shit about me and hear you out for mad long, and then I try to say something that you just don't necessarily agree with, and you turn around on me, and then you just be like...
Oh, fuck you.
Then it's like, I'm going to shut down.
And it's like, what was the point of me bringing it up to you?
I honestly think that I'm the type of person where, like, I don't bring things up unless they truly bother me.
So it's like, if I'm truly bothering, like, truly bothered by it, and I come to you and I expect this to be a safe space, and you turn around and you make me feel, like, fucking stupid, it's like...
Stupid!
You know?
Does that make sense?
No.
No, no, it makes sense, but I think you're putting a very strong precedence on your feelings, and, um, I mean, I get it, you're a female, but I think this is precisely why women should never be leaders.
How dare you!
Because, like, you might be like, oh, I feel this way, but, like, is it real?
Is it real?
Like, feelings are temporary and they're fleeting.
So, like, and you're subject to that based on your hormones.
It could be that time of the month.
It could be someone said something to you and it just shrubbed you the wrong way.
And they're like, I feel this way.
And then he tells you, like, yo, Jalal, it's not that serious.
You're like, you're not taking me serious.
I mean, I feel like I have the ability to be like, alright, I'm bugging.
Like, I'm crashing out right now.
Yeah, but that takes a certain level of rationale, which you've just literally demonstrated that you might not have sometimes.
You just said that you would go and take a shower and then fuck it.
Yeah, that's like if I feel like if the matter is of that importance to me.
Like you said, feelings are fleeting.
So if I feel like it might be something that...
That's the problem.
Notice how every sentence you say, if I feel like.
Yeah, because it depends on the circumstances.
Sometimes it could be like the feeling is fleeting and it's like, all right, I'm bugging.
Like, all right, my bad.
Like, I'm bugging.
But sometimes the feeling could not be fleeting and I could be like, all right, now I've got to stand on business and stand on what I feel.
And then you'll be homeless and no money.
Just so I get this straight, your current man, if he says to you, listen, Troy, are you bugging?
That tunes you out.
Shut up, bitch!
Oh, good point.
Because sometimes I really do be bugging.
So it's like, I feel like if he tells me I'm bugging, then I know I'm bugging.
Sometimes he's telling me I'm bugging and I know I'm not bugging.
There's a very important part of the situation or something that I could bring up that he might be wrong about, but because he's the man, I'm going to just be like, you know what, you got that.
Let me just take a breather.
I don't believe that at all.
She would argue with niggas and say, you're not getting no pussy.
But that's fine.
Yeah, for sure.
I'm just giving her an out.
I already know what type of time she would.
I'm giving her an out.
You ain't getting no pussy, nigga.
I'm gonna go shower.
I'm Cape Verdean, nigga.
Yeah, some shit like that.
That's fine.
What about you?
What was the question?
Yeah, got you.
Stupid.
Well, that was kind of a long answer.
Do you withhold sex from men?
Have you ever withheld sex?
Is that the question?
Or is it more along the lines of what would be the reasons why?
Pull it back up real fast.
Like from your boyfriend?
Yeah, from your boyfriend.
Is it okay to withhold sex from their guy?
And if so, why?
Yes.
Okay.
Under what circumstances?
Because that's not my husband.
So...
Okay.
Okay, so you think it should be...
It could only be your husband.
It can only be my husband that what?
That's entitled to your body.
Uh, yeah.
Okay.
So not your boyfriend?
No.
Okay.
So, um, are you okay with...
Let's say you say, no, you're not getting any tonight, and then you go fuck another girl.
Okay, bye.
Have fun.
Okay, so you're gonna break up with him then?
Maybe.
Maybe.
Or he takes your chin away.
Okay, well, let me ask you a question.
Now, let's say you're saying, under what reason would you be like, hey, I don't want to fuck or whatever?
Like, what reason would make you withhold?
Could be a lot of things.
Okay, pisses you off?
Gets you mad or something?
Yeah.
Okay.
Fair enough.
Let's say you guys go to a club.
Some dude smacks your ass and pushes you.
But you guys got in a fight earlier.
You look at him and he says, I don't feel like it.
I'm kind of pissed off at you.
How'd you feel?
Nah, it's messed up.
I'd leave him.
Why is it messed up?
Because he's supposed to protect you.
At all times.
You triggered my tram card!
So it'd be fair to say that it's duty to protect you, right?
Yeah.
What's your duty as a woman in response?
Your duty is you have to have sex with him?
You have to?
What?
Your duty is your booty!
What if you have a cramp or something?
Your duty is your booty!
If you don't want to do it, that's fine.
That's a crazy way to look at it.
Yeah, I mean, okay, why do men talk to women?
Bars.
I don't know, I guess to get a girlfriend.
And why do we want a girlfriend?
Because you want a wife and kids or whatever.
Okay, what does it take to have kids?
Sex?
Yeah, but...
So he's trying to have a kid right there that moment?
No, but men want sex, right?
Okay, and you want protection, right?
So he decides, you know what?
I don't feel like it because we got in a fight.
You would look at him crazy if he didn't protect you, right?
Yeah, of course.
Because it's his duty to protect you, right?
And it's your duty to provide him sexual satisfaction.
Yeah, but I feel like a guy should be more understanding.
Oh, okay.
You should be more understanding that you got your ass whooped then.
I didn't feel like it that day.
No, that's just wrong.
That's just wrong.
Oh, now it's wrong.
You know what's interesting?
You know what's interesting?
My duty is way more dangerous than yours.
Because I'm expected to potentially lay my life on the line.
All you got to do is lay on the bed.
You can die giving birth.
Barely.
We're talking about the sex, not the birth part.
We're talking about the actual sex.
Listen, there's times where things are off, 100%.
But generally speaking, if your man has some needs, and that's your man, then why can't he come to you?
Wait.
Name one girl you know who died given birth.
- All right, cool. - I wouldn't even count that as a thing, because we're just talking about sex, not the actual thing of having children.
She's going to the night must-teacher.
- She met you, man.
- She met you, man.
- I just find it interesting how men are always expecting the whole purpose of that exercise.
I didn't mean to get a gotcha moment, but I love to do this with women.
Men are always expected to adhere to their duty, but women don't have to adhere to theirs.
And I find that very interesting.
I mean, they should, but I feel like if he's going to demand like that, you guys should be married.
You know what it really is about this, bro, for the most part?
Whenever it's a woman's sexual preference or needs, it's how she feels at the moment.
No matter how much you provide or how much you give, it's the moment right there and then that matters.
Controversial take.
This is why I always say you need to have multiple women.
I don't believe in being monogamous because of shit like this.
I don't want to...
I'll tell you this, if I have another chick that will, you will fucking wanna, no matter how you feel at the time.
That's the truth.
Well, first off, I ain't forcing it.
If you don't wanna do it, cool.
Yeah, I'm not gonna fucking sit here.
I'm gonna tell you, okay.
Go fucking home, and I'm gonna call another girl.
And you know I'm gonna call another girl, because I'm gonna call her in front of you.
That's how you gotta deal with women.
No offense, ladies.
But that's really...
Oh yeah, I've done it before.
A few times, bro.
You know what I mean?
My girl will never, ever tell me fucking no.
Ever.
Never.
Yes, Maddie.
Yeah, like, she never will.
Because she knows, I'll call another girl.
And I've just come to realize that with women, like, you guys only respect men that can walk away from you.
That's the only thing you guys respect.
No offense.
Actually, full offense.
It's the truth.
I knew it.
What about you?
Do you think it's okay to withhold sex, and under what circumstances do you think?
For the most part, no, I don't think it's okay.
But, you know, why do you just do that?
You're a better sound.
Taylor, it's not really a penis, alright?
So stop stroking the mic.
Yeah, you're stroking it.
No, I'm not.
Yes, you are.
You were, Taylor.
Come on.
And she's like, yo, not really, but...
Oh, I didn't even realize I was.
Yeah, we know.
I know.
My heart is in this bag tonight, but...
Alright, go ahead.
I lost my train of thought.
You're saying they shouldn't do it, but...
They shouldn't withhold sex from their guy, but...
Yeah, for the most part, no.
I mean, if he's like being a real dick or like a big asshole, then yeah, I would.
Okay.
Sorry, Myron.
Fair enough.
Well, you know what?
You're being a real dick, so I'm not going to protect you today when those black guys come up.
Okay, but to be fair...
Myron, what?
How dare you?
Yeah, Myron.
How dare you?
If I was to just like sit here and call you a loser, piece of shit, would you even want to protect me?
Of course not.
Well, here's the thing.
It would be my masculine duty to protect you.
Yeah, that's true.
I think if a guy was in a relationship with a girl, I've literally seen dudes die trying to protect their chick.
Or even an ex-girl that don't want him no more.
So I find it kind of preposterous when girls say, I don't feel like it.
I'm like, oh, really?
Okay.
Preposterous.
That's a word.
Preposterous?
You don't know that word, Chris?
He knows it, but it's not used often.
Often, yeah.
But yeah, I just think it's kind of wild.
Because it's like, you guys expect a wolf from us.
Like, make more money, be competent, all this shit.
It's like, I just want some pussy.
And you're like, I don't feel like it.
My body, my choice.
Yeah, so...
This is why I think men shouldn't be monogamous to women because of this very reason that we're discussing now because a lot of girls will sit there and be like, no.
And I think the only way that girls really respect you and will always give you sex and really want to fuck you and suck your dick with that certain type of, you know, veracity is when you have another girl.
Good job, Chris.
You know some words.
Hey, listen, man.
What about you?
Nigga.
Competition is good for you guys because you guys don't compete enough.
I generally believe women live life on easy mode and you guys don't compete enough.
Question, so should girls also not be monogamous?
Let me ask you a question.
Do you want to have three boyfriends at the same time and fuck all of them?
Or would you prefer to just have one good guy and fuck him only?
That's a bitch damn it depends on the three guys wait, what?
I'll rephrase the question again Let's say you have two options.
You can have one guy that checks all your boxes and you only fuck him, or you have three guys.
Let's say they all check your box too, but you're fucking all three of them.
Which one would you prefer?
Obviously the one guy, but you were saying a guy needs multiple girls.
Let's switch around.
Now, I want you to ask me the same question.
Would you rather have one girl that checks all your boxes, or three girls that you fuck all the time?
Three girls.
Why?
That is the difference between men and women.
Why?
You guys want quality, we want quantity.
So you like variety.
Every man wants variety.
Hold on, as a matter of fact, hold on, let's have fun with this.
You said you're a model, right?
Music videos, right?
Yes.
When you go to the music video, how many of y'all are there?
There's a few.
Different skin color, shape, sizes, right?
Why is that?
Variety.
Variety.
Oh, okay.
Gotcha, bitch!
Leave it in your own...
Yeah, it's funny.
Now it's all coming circle for you, right?
Your entire industry is based on what men want, which is variety.
This is what men want.
The reality is that most men, unfortunately, can't get the variety that they want, so they have to be monogamous.
My girl's attractive, I'm not good looking enough, or I don't have enough money, or I don't have the balls to tell my girl, I want another woman.
So he has to be monogamous.
But if I gave a regular dude $3 million, a blue Lamborghini, and a blue check on Instagram, guess what's gonna happen?
He's gonna have multiple women.
He's gonna tell the girl, Take it or fucking leave it.
And a lot of times a girl just fucking takes it.
Okay, so just be a Mormon.
Okay, I guess if you want to say...
There's other polygamous religions, but okay, that's cool.
Islam is one too.
That's why they're Catholics.
They want monogamy.
LOL. But so, you know, yeah.
But yeah, I do think that women operate best when you have multiple women.
Because of that very reason.
Because, I mean, let's be simple.
If a guy comes to talk to you, right, and he has women around him and he has females talking to him and shit like that, you're going to be like, okay, this guy's probably cool and attractive because he's not a weirdo.
Women are talking to him, right?
Right.
Women want guys that have other women.
But if I go to you, do you think I need you to be talking to a bunch of dudes for me to be attracted to you?
Well, I heard guys like girls that other guys want, so maybe.
But can't talk to or touch or have.
What do you think is going to be more attractive?
I meet you at a club and you're talking to five different dudes, or I meet you at a club and you're by yourself solo?
Ooh.
By myself.
Or with girls.
Now let's flip it around.
Let's say you meet me at the club, I'm by myself standing in a corner, or you meet me at a section and I got 10 other girls there.
Which one's a more attractive scenario?
I'm at the bar by myself in a corner drinking, or I'm in a section, I got 10 girls around me and a bunch of people.
Which one's a more attractive scenario?
They both look kind of bad, but I guess the second one.
Because at least you can have fun there, right?
Right.
That's the difference.
When you have dudes around you, you're not attractive.
When I have girls around me, I am attractive.
We're not the same.
She has psychology, so she knows.
She's plain dumb, man.
Alright, what about you?
Any time that a woman can deny a man sex and why?
I'm feeling like Joe Biden right now, guys.
I just want to agree with you so I don't have to argue.
Yo, listen, you are the only one that's actually doing some dumbass shit.
Oh, yeah, well, it's late, blah, blah, blah.
Please answer the question, because right now, the girls answer the question right now, and you're fucking not doing, like, if you're tired and old and shit, then fucking leave.
All right, cool.
Answer the question, man.
Joe Biden.
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Maybe she's not in the mood.
So if she's not in the mood, then it's fine.
I mean, are we scared?
I'm not in the mood to protect you then.
Okay.
Jamal in the game, break in.
I'm not in the mood.
Tyrone!
Yeah, alright.
I think the general consensus here is many to understand is like women reserve the right to feel like they don't want to do it and you just...
It's on you to just get it from somewhere else if they do that shit.
Teach them a lesson.
Never force it, bro.
Hell, fuck that.
Never force it.
Don't sit there.
Please!
Please!
Just a tip!
Just go home.
It's her body, her choice.
Also, your wallet, your choice too as well.
Dude, I've kicked so many girls out of my house with that shit.
Like, just leave.
I'm like, oh no, wait, no, let's do it.
No, get the fuck out of here.
Yeah.
Because they know what's going to happen.
Yo.
What?
Can you imagine if niggas like, yo, I ain't paying a fucking light bill until I get something.
Yo, niggas have done that though.
No, niggas have done that.
I'm not paying no bills.
No TikTok.
Bro, niggas have done that.
That's crazy though, bro.
Yeah, yeah, that's funny though.
That's the extreme though.
It is.
Makes sense though.
Yo, three days, no lights, girls will leave instantly, bro.
No internet.
No TikTok.
Yo, girls.
Yo, let's switch to Cast Club real quick.
Alright, cool.
Alright, niggas, come on over to Cast Club and then we're going to finish the show off over there.
Can we bring two chats before I do it?
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
And then we're going to close and go to Cast Club.
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Hey, man, I want to complain because we want some German conversation at Castle Club.
We don't want Moe in fresh silence to you when you explain to girls the German lesson.
Yep.
Oh, oh, the, uh...
Castle Club only.
Yeah, yeah, we'll go to Castle Club.
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