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June 19, 2024 - Fresh & Fit
01:09:42
A Fresh Match With Speed Dating!
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Thank you.
It's a fresh match.
Let's get into it.
it.
Let's go.
Listen, last show we couldn't do it because of the flooding, but now we're here all together as one.
Listen, it was a lot going on behind the scenes, but we're here today, so we made it happen.
Mary Kate, what's up with you?
Nothing much.
Getting married in a week and a half.
Woo!
Really?
Yeah!
Well, I never met your husband Malek.
How'd you guys be, actually?
Bumble.
It still works.
There you go.
Matchmaker here.
So there's an article that came up, actually, about single and dating in Miami.
Tell them a little bit about it.
It's a little depressing.
I don't want to show it to you, but we all have to face the facts.
Yeah, yeah.
So, here it is, guys.
Florida ranked worst state for singles in 2024.
Shocker!
Shocking.
We're here to change that, right?
I know.
We're trying to right now.
And then his Instagram posts as well on...
What site is that?
Yeah.
There we go.
Always in Florida.
Yep.
Some people commented on this as well, and they were very funny.
They said, you can date, but you cannot marry in Florida.
For singles, for married, for everyone.
What's more comments there, Bills?
There we go.
Yeah, he says it's the best place for singles.
I think so too, by the way.
But cool.
This is what's happening right now as we speak in 2024.
But today we're going to do something a little bit different.
We're going to do an intro for the guys at the very beginning.
Then the girls can do it after the fact.
So we'll start right here with Rhett.
Tell us who you are, what you do for a living.
And then, for example, I guess like your fun work life.
Sure, yeah.
So, how's it going?
I'm Rhett.
I'm 25 years old.
I work at a celebrity marketing agency.
I'm the head of PR and branding.
So, I run that department and it's a lot of fun.
You know, I also have my own boutique agency I do some stuff at.
You know, as far as the free time, I spend a lot of time, you know, on the water sailing.
I used to be a Teen USA sailor, and, you know, I spend my time, you know, out socializing, you know, being responsible for networking and connections.
You know, I'm always out in the town, always, you know, making those connections in the right environments, if you understand what I'm saying.
But, yeah, you know, happy to be here.
And I was dating for you.
I mean, it's good.
I like the Miami scene.
It's a little fast for some, but I'm a fast guy.
I like the way that things move, and I think that the scene is a little bit electric and has something for everybody.
Okay, awesome.
Alberto?
Yeah, my name's Alberto Martinez.
I'm a real estate agent here in Miami, and I also am a part-time actor.
All right, cool.
And how's dating for you?
It's been interesting.
Miami's an interesting city with interesting people.
Well said.
It's called interesting.
All right.
Hudson.
How you guys doing?
I'm Hudson Chabert, 32 years old, and I'm a pilot.
Excellent.
What do you like to do on your free time?
Well, I love kayaking.
That's one of my favorite things to do.
I go with my son and we get to enjoy the water and just going out.
They got like this private beach in Orlando State Park.
I'm always flying in from here in New York.
So I'm like not here solid here, but I want to do it.
I want to make the move here.
But yeah, dating in Miami is kind of rough.
Out of the pilot too, that's crazy.
All right.
Yeah.
What about you?
What's up, guys?
My name is Raj.
I'm 28 years young.
I'm actually a full-time entrepreneur.
I've actually been one of the leaders inside of an organization called Digital Dynasty, where we focus on e-learning, helping people educate them on that.
Now, my passion, I would say, is just, I feel like, personally, I don't want to say it like that, but if you die tomorrow, God's not going to thank you for the trillions of dollars you've made.
It's about what it is that you did for the world.
So for my passion, I feel like it's more so going around the world, helping people, serving others, and impacting lives, I feel like.
So that's more my passion on the outside.
That's amazing, bro.
And how's dating for you?
Dating, I feel like for me, I focus on vibrations.
I feel like if she's not the right frequency, I'd rather not focus on it, you know?
Because at the end of the day, a radio station is only going to play one station at once, not two.
So if you focus on what you want, you attract what you want, not what it is that you don't like, right?
I like that.
And what's one way you measure frequencies and vibrations?
I just feel like just energy, just conversations, seeing that if we like the same things on the same level, we see the same vision, we see the same future, 10 years from now, 50 years from now, 100 years from now, even the future generations, do we see it the same way?
You know, that's how I see it.
Hey, I appreciate y'all.
This boy tapped in.
But yeah, my name is Gabriel.
I'm 23 years old.
And, you know, I'm everywhere but nowhere at the same time.
Been traveling a lot lately, you know, from Jersey.
And right now I'm getting into the event space business.
So, you know, it's been an interesting journey so far.
But, you know, I ain't got much to say.
At 23, bro, how's dating for you?
I mean, I'm not gonna lie.
I mean, it's pretty good, but, you know, gotta chill down a little bit.
Okay.
I like that.
Alright, and then ladies, tell us about you, what you do for a living, where you from, your name, and age.
Thank you.
Hi, everyone.
I'm Kat.
I live here in Miami, originally from PA, and yeah, so I'm in the adult industry, as some of you know, so yeah.
And how's dating for you?
Dating isn't easy, obviously, in my job.
But I mean, it's still fun.
I do meet people that are pretty cool with it.
And yeah, so it still has its ups and downs.
Okay.
Yeah.
And up next?
My name's Rochelle.
I'm 41 years old.
I have a dance studio for kids.
I've been dancing my whole life.
It's here in this Brickle area.
And the other question was, how dating is for me?
Yeah, so far.
Well, I was married for 10 years.
I don't have kids.
And then I just got out of a seven-year relationship.
So I'm new to this whole dating scene.
Damn!
Oh, this is exciting!
You should put in that work!
She clearly knows what she's doing if she's been in a long-term relationship, so that's a good sign.
Yeah, I mean, holy!
What about you?
So my name is Scarlett, and so I'm from Slovakia, Europe, and I live here.
I've been living here for almost a year.
And how was dating for me?
What do you do for work?
What do I do?
I'm a dancer.
Cool.
And then how's dating for you?
Dating?
It's tough.
I've never been in a relationship and...
I'm scared to be in a relationship, too.
Which girl, how old are you?
Did she say that?
Oh, I didn't.
I'm 19.
Oh, wow.
Yeah.
All right.
Yeah.
Hey, man, check her ID, bro.
Check her ID. Check it out to win!
Okay, thank you.
What about you?
My name is Coco.
I'm 31.
I'm an executive assistant.
I've been in Miami for about two years now.
I'm an influencer.
And, yeah.
How's dating for you been?
Dating for me...
Is it harder at 31?
I got a roster for the summer.
Oh, shit!
She's gonna have some fun.
Okay.
What about you?
Hey, everybody.
My name's Alyssa.
I'm 26 years old.
I'm from New Jersey.
I've been living here for almost a year now.
And I'm a social worker.
Okay.
That's my career.
And how is dating for you, Alyssa?
Dating is disappointing.
That's the word that I come up with.
Dating is pretty disappointing.
You remind me.
Okay, great.
So we did our intros here on the panel.
So we're going to try to match some people today and have a good connection, so to speak.
So we'll start again with Rhett.
Yep, you got it.
Cool.
So ladies, I want you to raise your hand.
Yes or no for Rhett.
Green is yes.
Red is obviously no.
So if you want to go on a date with Rhett, raise your hand for yes, for green.
If not, Red.
Alright, you can put it up, ladies.
You can put it up.
So green is yes, red is no.
So Coco and we have Cat, that would take, okay.
So Rhett has Coco and Cat?
Yeah.
Awesome.
Okay, now Alberto.
So raise your hand for green, and then raise your hand for no with red.
Put it in.
Goddamn, nigga!
What?
Yo!
I'm sorry.
I'm sorry.
And we'll sing.
Yo, okay.
We'll come back.
Don't worry about it, though.
We'll come back.
We'll come back.
All right, what about the pilot, Hudson?
Green for yes, red for no.
Okay, so we have Alyssa.
And we have Kat.
Wait, who are the greens?
Keep the greens up.
Who are the greens?
Okay.
Thank you.
And then for Gabriel.
Sorry, red for no.
Green for yes.
Okay, we got Alyssa and Coco.
All right.
Okay.
All right, and Raj.
Last but not least.
Up, down.
Green for yes.
Okay, he has Coco and Kat.
All right.
Coco and Kat.
Awesome.
So now, ladies, if you don't mind, get some balloons.
Can you get some balloons, ladies, real quick?
I see.
So we're going to do something fun for the guys here.
We're going to do actual, like, you get to pick now on the girls' side.
So, who are you going to go on a date with?
Just pop their balloon, and that'll be your date for the actual, like, show.
Sorry, Alberta, we got you, bro.
We got you.
No, no, no.
We got you, man.
Because at the end of the day, you don't know.
Like, we've seen couples match that were like, they wouldn't be a fit.
And they took a chance and they didn't.
It depends, honestly, on the vibe or the vibration.
I like it.
Yeah, it's the frequency.
Whatever he said it was.
I believe in it.
Yeah.
The vibration.
So let's start with Rhett.
Just choose one that you want to go on a date with and a partner balloon.
The best one for you.
You gotta get up and like...
Let's do cat.
Alright.
Icy's got you.
Alright.
Okay.
Alright, you guys can walk off.
Cool.
Alright, we'll do...
Alright.
Just pop the balloon.
Okay, Coco!
Alright, go in the back.
Gabriel.
To spot that balloon real quick.
Yeah, vibration.
Yeah, I know, guys.
In the chat.
Okay, Alyssa!
Can you play with it?
No, no, he's not.
Okay.
And then Hudson.
Hudson, go for it.
Pass it to him.
Yeah.
Grab that.
Cool.
All right.
Let's do it.
Oh!
Okay!
All right!
I don't have a phone.
And Alberto...
This is the last but not least.
Listen, we'll give you a chance to come back to somebody else in a lineup, but for now, Alberto's the guy.
Alright, cool.
So we'll have you go in the back.
So we'll bring in the first two, and that's going to be...
Oh, guys, by the way, Yacht Party is going to be in July.
We're working on dates right now.
But listen, I'm telling you right now, if you want to have fun with us, network, make connections, and have a chance to win a Rolex, type into Yacht Party.
Link down below, Castle Club as well.
I'll see you guys there, man.
But the first couple is going to be, I think we're going to be Raj and Coco.
Rod and Coco?
Yeah, if you don't mind.
But so far, who do you think is going to match so far with these people here?
I think the surprising thing, maybe Hudson and Rochelle.
We'll see.
We'll see.
I think Gabriel and Alyssa.
It was almost like an instant, like, yeah, I'm feeling this chick.
There's a connection.
Like, instantly.
Without a doubt.
Yeah, I'm excited to see them, actually.
I will see some sparks flying.
So, yeah, let's get them back.
Set up on their date.
And let's start with, like...
One icebreaker, and then the guy can start with telling us his date.
There you go.
His icebreakers...
I think, I think, uh...
Honestly, speaking late, right now the setup is good.
We got old, young, in the middle, so we'll see what happens.
Yeah.
And also, like, yeah, we have a couple different people with different walks of life, so we'll see.
Like, I'm hoping for some matches.
It's gonna be fun.
Alright, are we ready?
Coming right now.
Oh, let's do it.
But yeah, without further ado, guys, we're going to start the actual first setup here.
We've got Coco and Raj.
All right.
Right here.
Thanks, guys.
Come on down.
Welcome back.
Welcome back.
Alright, so we got a three minute timer here.
And keep in mind, if for any reason you get bored on a date, you want to just drop off, hit the red X right there, and you're out of here.
No hard feelings, guys.
Yeah, so this is Icebreaker, get to know each other a little bit better, and we'll start three minutes on the clock.
Awesome.
Let me ask you, for both of you, Coco, would you consider yourself more of a saver or a spender?
Spender.
Elaborate that.
What do you usually spend on?
Chains, my hair, my nails.
I love getting massages.
I love self-care.
I feel like it's super important.
So I really put a lot of money into myself.
Okay, okay.
And Raj, yeah, how about you?
I would say spender and saver at the same time.
I think certain things you should be saving and investing.
But when it comes to spending, I do like to invest into myself and always, you know, want to make sure my health is to the top best.
I do invest into a lot of designer, Jeff, because I like fashion as well.
So, you know, it's key.
Both sides equally.
Personal branding, that's very good.
Alright, so we'll start the timer right now, and let's go.
Awesome.
So, what's up?
We finally get to connect, right?
I know.
We talked a little bit.
What got me for you was the vibes, of course.
It gets all the girls.
I'm sure you knew that, but for me, it's the vibes.
We were vibing beforehand.
You're just a vibe.
You're just a whole vibe.
You got to be on a specific frequency.
You got to know what you want at the end of the day, right?
Right.
You got to be confident with that.
And I think a lot of people, they're not confident with what it is that they want and they're unsure.
That's why they're struggling maybe when it comes to dating.
You know, they're struggling with the right people, the conversations, what to even talk about.
I always say just be yourself, enjoy life, and live it to the fullest, you know?
But let me ask you, you know, when it comes to just fun in general, you know, let me ask you this question, actually.
It's a fun question.
Okay.
If you had unlimited money in the world, if you had unlimited, what's the first thing you would do?
Okay, I mean, naturally the first thing is pay off my debts.
But, like, the fun thing, I would get me all my homies and we would all go on an inclusive trip, adult only, and just live it up.
Or buy a whole, like, cul-de-sac and, like, put all my friends in a house and we all just own that block.
That's sick.
That's actually a cool memory that I always had.
I know we talked about it a little bit when it came to content and stuff.
I used to be in the content space with YouTube and that industry, and I felt like having a content house was something I always dreamed of having.
Having the friends that group around, we're shooting content together, we're always just grinding in a grindhouse where we're creating something, always showing something for other people, which is fun.
I want to butt in real quick, if you don't mind.
You mentioned debt, right?
If you don't mind sharing, what's your total debt amount right now?
Ooh, I think I am at 10k.
10k?
Okay.
Is it a credit card?
Is it like a car?
No, yeah, credit cards.
It's all credit cards.
Yeah, my car's paid off.
What'd you buy with the credit cards?
A BBL. Which I lost my results to, we won't talk about that.
But a BBL. Moving from, I lived in three states in a span of 365 days.
From New York to Philly, down here to Florida.
So a lot of that money went to moving.
And honestly that's what it was, a lot of moving.
So then I was just living in Hollywood and I moved to South Beach.
So that's where all my debt is.
Will that concern you dating her, Raj?
Like let's say for example, her spending habits are kind of like a little bit like nonchalant.
Would that bother you at all?
Oh, not necessarily.
I feel like when it comes to it, it's about being smart at the end of the day, right?
Having conversations between each other, making sure that, you know, the expense was worth it.
You know, there's always things that we want to put money into that's just personal gains as well.
And there's nothing wrong with that at the end of the day.
I think it's just about being smart about it, right?
If it's the right time to do it or if it's not the right time, is it in the future that you can do that?
Right?
Do you guys talk about your relationship with money in the early stages of dating?
Is that normal for you guys?
It's like taboo.
Honestly, with money, I'm really good.
I do spend a lot, but I say I'm broke, but my bills are paid.
I have food in my fridge, there's gas in my car, my phone bill works, everything is paid, but I like to buy things.
Do you think a man that's smart with money would help you manage it better?
Yes.
Raj, do you have any debt?
Not at the moment.
So I'm very grateful.
I used to.
You know, I had to work my way out of it.
So I had to go into debt to go learn, to educate myself, to then eventually get out of the debt.
Good for you.
Okay.
All right.
Time is up.
Okay.
So I guess nobody hit the button, Ra.
So you guys are both coming with each other?
Yeah.
Yeah.
We're cool.
Perfect.
All right.
Thank you guys.
Appreciate that very much.
Thank you.
Yeah.
Yeah.
I think Hudson and Rochelle are coming next.
Yeah.
What do you think?
I loved his energy.
I love both their energies.
They're bringing it.
They were in it.
They have this understanding where it's like, they're cool.
They're just cool.
And even if they end up dating or in friendships, they bring their energy, and I think they have both something to learn from each other.
Which at the end of the day, we're all looking for someone like that.
Awesome.
Welcome back, guys.
Mr.
Pellett!
Yes.
What's up, man?
All right.
Thank you.
City to city.
Thank you.
Here you go.
Excellent.
Welcome back, guys.
All right.
Okay, so this is part two.
We're going to be doing the actual, like, icebreaker challenge.
So tell us about yourself back and forth with them.
So just imagine we're not here.
Imagine we're just, like, onlooking.
You guys are about yourselves.
Three minutes on the clock.
Let's go.
Well, like I was saying before earlier, behind the scenes, I'm from New York, Washington Heights, and just growing up, I was raised by women, so I love to see women in power.
My mom is Dominican, and my grandmother, they were born in Dominican Republic, and she came here to Washington Heights, and like, literally, like, she was cleaning the floor, and then ended up owning 10 salons altogether.
So, to see women in power, when you said you own your own business, you have a dance studio, I was like, that's pretty fire.
Wow.
Awesome.
Come out the gates.
Ask him any question you like, or we can start with an icebreaker.
Or anything, anything.
You can't say no Hudson, the pilot.
Yeah.
What made you want to become a pilot?
Honestly, I took a flight to the Dominican Republic one time and I felt like this is where my space is.
I'm here, there's nobody else, and it's me and God.
And honestly, it was a dream.
It's like looking up at a mountain.
You know, you look over the mountain, you're like, how the hell am I gonna get up there?
And being a pilot is one of those things where it's like, growing up in my neighborhood, it wouldn't happen.
Like, I never met anybody else that was Dominican that was a pilot.
Rochelle, what's your type?
You seem very shy.
Well, I'm older than everybody here.
Come on, don't say that.
Age is just enough.
He don't care.
I'm just telling you.
I was caught off guard.
Really?
I understand that.
So I was like, oh my gosh.
Every show is different.
We have age demographics always changing.
But yeah, what inspired you to get into the dancing, owning a studio?
Well, I've been dancing since I was four years old.
I danced my entire life, danced professionally, majored in dance.
I went to school in Texas for dance, traveled, doing all that.
And then I used to draw my dance studio since I was seven years old.
So I always wanted to own a studio.
And then I eventually, I've had a studio for 15 years.
I want to see some moves.
I'm going to be honest with you.
I want to see some moves.
I don't know if it has to be now.
Ballet.
Ballet.
Okay.
Yeah, I do ballet.
So, what's the youngest you ever dated?
The youngest?
Yeah.
Probably older than me.
Never younger.
Are you open to dating someone younger?
I don't know.
I'm just so new to it.
I've been in a relationship for 17 years of my life, so I don't know.
You as young as you want to be.
And honestly, you look young.
Thank you.
And no kids.
Hudson, you mentioned you have a kid.
Yes, I have a 14-year-old.
I love him.
His name is Ethan.
He's...
I mean, if I die, that's my copy in this world, so I'm good.
You know?
I mean, when I die, whatever.
I don't know.
And, Rochelle, are you open to dating someone's kids?
That's, yeah.
Yeah.
I would think, yeah, that's fine.
You still want one.
Yeah.
Not sure.
Maybe.
Maybe.
I could have a daughter.
Yeah.
I wouldn't mind a little daughter, blonde hair, running around the house.
It drives me nuts.
You have no qualms about dating somebody older, right?
No, of course not.
I'm about energy.
As long as we click in and we match and I have fun with you, I can be myself around you.
And obviously, I'm always flying around, so if you're cool with that, sometimes I'm gone a week, a week or two, I come out of nowhere.
It's very random, my schedule.
So I need to find a woman that's not going to cheat on me when I'm gone.
Can you imagine coming back and there's a whole orgy in the crib?
Why wasn't I invited?
Is that an issue?
Being gone for a week?
No, I don't think so.
I could be your captain?
My co-pilot.
Question, Rochelle.
Are you part of the Mile High Club?
No, I'm not.
You should be.
I have waivers in the back.
Well, at least he makes you laugh.
Yeah, that's always a good sign.
I'm just throwing it out there, you know, if that's an option.
Do people actually do that, by the way?
Duh!
Why is it so uncomfortable, man?
That's like this small.
I wonder how people even fit in.
It's like I'm back in high school.
This is a fun time.
You'd be surprised what happens in a close basis.
Okay, real quick, Rochelle, last question for you.
So, let's say we did a rating scale.
I know you're a bit older, though.
But, 1 out of 10, what would you rate Hudson the Pilot?
Well, he's a 10.
Oh, wow.
I'm just older, but he's a 10.
You know, here's one offer I would give.
Men, there's some men who are hung up on age, but most don't.
Most aren't hung up on age, but they love a woman who's confident in her age.
You know, and so you are gorgeous.
And just wear that confidence with your age, and that's what they're going to be attracted to.
Definitely.
Okay, time is up.
I liked it, guys.
Alright, so that was good.
Second date?
Second date?
Second date.
Yes!
Alright, let's do it!
Come on, y'all!
You sound like being newly single!
You don't got a cup, goddammit!
Where's the cup at?
Somebody bring her a cup!
That's so funny, man.
I like this.
Okay, come on in, guys.
Alright, guys.
Thank you.
Thank you.
Alright.
Excellent.
Yo, he's just like a ball of energy, man.
He's a really cool guy.
Good energy, man.
He should be an actor.
He was running with it.
He was running with it.
Yeah.
And I think everything would have gone even smoother.
The age.
Yeah.
Rochelle stepped into entire age.
How old was Rochelle again?
41.
Yeah.
Okay!
I know.
She looks amazing.
Like, it's like, you know, when a woman, like, owns her age, and I'm like, no, I can't keep up with the little 21-year-olds.
It's like, please, little 21-year-olds run circles around me.
Makes sense.
Okay.
Welcome back, guys.
We got Gabriel.
We got Alyssa.
I'm not gonna lie.
I see chemistry already.
About three minutes on the clock, and we're gonna say this real quick.
Imagine we're not here.
This is you guys talking.
Continue trying to do better.
Let's run it.
So, Miss New Brunswick, what's up?
What's up, Gabriel?
When you going back to Jersey?
When are we going back to Jersey?
Oh!
Applying pressure.
Water film, boys.
I just want to say real quick, I've never worn headphones before with curly hair.
So, I don't know how we're walking right now, but...
You like how my voice sounds?
It's okay.
No worries.
You trying to play hard?
I mean, I've heard better.
Oh, spicy.
I like that, though.
I like that.
You like Dominican?
Of course.
All right, so we could talk more.
But I'm not gonna lie.
I've heard from a couple people that Dominicans can be a little toxic.
Sorry, but we're good and best, though.
Listen, Gabriel, I'm at the point of my life, I'm not looking for toxic.
Hey, listen, listen.
Who said I was toxic, though?
Are you telling me you're not?
Listen, I'm gonna leave that unanswered, alright?
Yep!
That's toxic.
I have a question.
First date, Gabriel.
What are you taking, Miss Alyssa, over here?
Listen, you active, right?
Mm-hmm.
Alright, you like competition?
Friendly competition?
Not friendly, I like competition.
Oh, alright, perfect.
So you like go-karts?
I like go-karts.
Alright, so, supercharged it is.
I like to be a passenger princess, though.
Well, for that one, you definitely gotta compete against me.
You gotta know who the better one is, alright?
I'm gonna tell you right now, you're definitely the better driver.
Oh, you're so perfect.
Perfect.
Well, that is true.
Stats-wise, men are better drivers.
You know?
Women can't drive.
She's smart, bro!
Alyssa's smart!
She's getting points already.
That's what's up.
How dare you!
Okay.
Question for you.
How important is it to, like, I want to say, have the gem in your life, Alyssa, for your man?
Very important.
You don't have to go like seven days a week, but I'm active.
I like to be in the gym.
So I would personally love my partner to be in the gym too.
100%.
Well, I'm the type to just wake up and start doing jumping jacks.
So if you fuck with that, then that's cool.
Jumping jacks is crazy.
Hey, listen, I'm active.
I got high energy.
Okay.
And Alyssa, what do you think of his first date idea?
I like it.
I like this.
That's different.
Different?
Yeah, that's different.
You know we do that on this side.
Okay, yeah, I don't think a guy has ever taken me go-karting before.
Oh, perfect.
I like how that sounds.
You'll be my first.
Of course.
Of course.
Okay, okay, okay.
Okay, I gotta ask this question.
Why did your last relationship end?
Ooh, let's go.
You first.
Oof, of course.
Nah, ladies first, ladies first.
No, no, no, I insist.
I insist.
You go first.
You go first.
Go first.
Okay, so I've been single for a minute.
Like five years I've been single, but I've been in like different like situationships and things like that.
Really?
Yes.
How come?
I feel like more the guy over me.
Like in the past I'm like, you know, I want to be like the cool girl, the chill girl.
I don't want to, you know, put a label on anything.
I want to, you know, be cool with everything.
But I was just wasting my time basically, you know, for sure.
So you think you'd be wasting your time with me?
I hope not.
But I'm at the point in my life now where I can, you know, if I sense toxic, if I sense that we're on different pages, I won't waste my time.
Well, listen, you know, on this side, I'm always be honest and I'm always be transparent, so...
So be honest and be transparent.
What are you looking for?
Listen, you know my time.
You know what type of time I'm on.
What type of time are you on?
We can do that for after, you know, after the pod.
Ooh!
What?
No, no, no, wait.
Hold on, hold on, hold on.
Real quick.
Gabriel, are you sensing that you're on the same page as Alyssa right now?
No, I think so.
100%.
Okay.
Yeah, yeah.
I don't want to assume, though.
Tell me.
What time of time are you on?
Listen, we're here in Miami right now.
We're having a good time.
The chemistry's already there.
I don't gotta say no more.
I gotta know why you're single, bro.
You got some reason on you, bro.
What's going on here?
That's a good question.
Nah, I mean, to be honest, I'm single because, you know, I'm still young.
I'm still trying to live, traveling a lot.
You know, I don't want to commit to anything.
I want to make sure that I'm established as a man before, before I decide to take anything serious because, you know, I'm the type of guy that if I'm gonna have you as my girl, you know, I want to take care of you full and full and through, you know?
So, you know, I don't want to do you a disjustice by taking you on and then, you know, I'm going to be struggling and shit.
I'd rather just have you chilling at home and taking care of the household, 10 kids, you know?
Alyssa, if your man is on the way up, has ambition, is going somewhere, would you wait for him to get his money up?
100%.
And I'm not just saying that just to say that.
Like, the last guy that I talked to, like, situationship, he didn't have a car, he didn't have his career, he had nothing.
And I'm strictly off of vibes.
Because, like, I don't know, I feel like people have money, and one day they lose all of those things, and you realize they're a loser.
They're boring.
So to me, personality, vibe, connection is everything to me, and I'm not just saying that.
And I think it's true like Miami gets this like rep that like all the women's like how dare you you know not have make 100k or 7k or you know it's like I mean seven figures like no like it's that's that's like your time are like one percent of the women who like probably spend 20k on themselves in a month you know because they got sugar dyes they got this and that but that's like so few so try not to label all women because here we have a woman right now is like no you're hard-working that's all that matters and I've got good spirit then yeah that's right Alright, time is up.
Thank you, folks.
I think this is a good setup.
Thank you.
And also, real quick, so Alyssa, would you go on our first date with Gabriel?
Yeah, for sure.
Alright, there you have it.
Let's do it.
Awesome.
Awesome.
Thank you, folks.
So, Gabriel was a smooth talker.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Very smooth talker.
He got some game to him, but I already know what type of time this nigga are, man.
But I really do think, though, that they're on different pages.
Like, what she was putting down is like, I'm ready.
I'm not ready for games.
Like, you know, I'm ready for the real deal.
And he's like, I'm still traveling.
How old is she again?
26.
She's older.
Yeah.
Well, I will say this, though.
It could start off hot and heavy, maybe, and, you know, in her favor.
But again, where he's at, you never know.
Yeah.
You never know.
No, no.
It seems like, I think they're going to get a drink after this.
All right.
All right.
Welcome back, guys.
We got Kat and Rhett.
All right.
Here we go.
Let's do it.
Put your headphones on.
Thank you.
It's funny, though, because, well, I'll see it later.
All right.
All right, guys.
Welcome back, guys.
Oh, wow.
So it's time to get to know each other on a deeper level.
I'm ready.
You know, we can start you guys off with some icebreakers if you want.
You can just act as if you're on a date right now getting to know each other.
Yeah.
This is your three minutes of fame.
Let's do it.
Ready when you are.
Let's go.
All right, sounds good.
How's it going?
It's going great.
This is fun.
I love watching everyone go on these dates.
It's kind of sexy.
Yeah, me too.
I think it's a lot of fun, you know, watching, you know, everybody interact, you know, the magic fly, right?
Yeah, so tell me about you.
What's your favorite position?
Wait, is that how you start on first dates?
Yeah, I need to know.
I'm a vanilla guy.
I personally like missionary.
You know, sometimes, you know, you know what works best.
I mean, you know...
Simple works, you know?
I mean, I don't...
Simple.
No, that's cool.
How about you?
What's your answer?
Um...
I like...
Gonna be some shit I've never heard of, of course.
File driver.
What?
Do you know what that is?
We need a demonstration.
We need a demonstration.
Can we demonstrate real quick?
We need it, bro.
This is like sex ed, bro.
We'll do it after the show for him privately.
Yeah, because I need to teach you, obviously.
Sounds good, you know.
What's your second best?
What does it feel like for a woman to be super confident in her sexuality?
Oh, I love it.
You know, that's my, you know, whole thing.
Anyone who's, you know, assertive, confident, you know, that, you know, I lean into that, you know.
I think if you went to, like, my old Bumble bio and it asked, like, what are you looking for?
Like, what turns you on?
It's like, you know, confidence and a smile.
You know, that's, you know, I lean into it.
I gotta know, what is your type, Rhett?
What's your type of girl that you go for naturally?
Oh, I love tall blondes.
Tall blonde.
There you go.
Okay.
Am I considered tall?
Maybe.
What's your like, I guess, tall figure?
Is that like six feet?
I don't do math.
I don't know.
I'm worried.
It's more about the ratios.
I love math, so that would sound perfect.
What's all you?
I'm 5'10".
So what is shorting you?
Is that bad?
I prefer that.
When I say that, I'm more mean.
It's a descriptor.
It's more like, okay, the silhouette of, okay, slim, aspirational.
With my background, I'm referring to a trophy wife.
Gotcha.
What's your type?
You know, this is so hard because I'm really eclectic.
I mean, that's the truth.
So I can go from...
It just depends on the mood I got.
I'm not going to lie.
Sometimes I'm really nerdy because I love those deep conversations.
Sometimes I just want to wild out.
So yeah, it's hard.
If you had to choose, BBC or WBC? What are you going to choose?
Oh my gosh, don't do this to me lately.
I'm not going to talk about this.
What?
Just, you can see what I've been doing lately.
Oh wow, okay.
That'll be after.
Okay, Rhett, where's the first date you're taking, Kat?
I'm a big cocktail bar guy.
I really like high-end rooftops.
I like views of the ocean.
That's my whole thing.
I haven't actually known a lot of guys who own high-end venues, so I'd probably go to one of my buddy's places as a slight flex.
I'd probably go outside of Brickell knowing that he lives in Brickell.
I'd be like, okay, bet.
Let me take you to my territory.
Let me get the home field advantage here.
I'd probably go out to the other side of town, maybe go North Beach.
Change of scenery, you know, vacation.
You mentioned her favorite, cocktail.
No pun intended.
I'm just saying, bro!
He knows me already.
This is great. - This is awesome.
- Oh no! - Oh my God! - We're gonna have a good time. - Oh my God. - And Kat, are there any red flags?
If a guy does something on a first date, what would be a major red flag for you?
Just being really rude.
No manners.
Manners are big for me.
Definitely.
People are like, darling, don't worry.
What's the worst date you've ever had?
Ooh, that's a tough one.
Let me just say, never take a girl to a Chinese restaurant.
That's not the move.
We're not allowed.
You got to tell us, bro.
You got to tell us, bro.
What?
So, you know, it's just the whole vibe.
So you think like, all right, sushi is always the move, right?
We know that, right?
Because it's light, easy, you know, high-end, upscale.
They always love a picture.
A girl's always like, oh, let me go out the sushi.
But like, you know, Chinese, it's like some weird spicy shit.
You know, half that shit's runny.
It's like puts you on a full stomach.
So, you know, I mean, after hours, you know, immediately shut down.
It's just not the vibe.
Maybe that's why they pick it.
Not to be disrespectful, but the staff, they just tend not to set the vibe of a date.
Sometimes you just want a little service.
You want her to be fine-dined.
Understandable.
No Chinese restaurants.
Your worst date.
My worst date?
Um, I don't know.
I always have really good dates, but one time I hung out with a guy, it was, like, kind of later.
And so we were like, fine, we'll just stay in and, like, you know, have some, like, white claws and, like, lame shit.
And, um, he was so annoying that, like, I pity-fucked him just to get him to fucking leave.
Yikes.
That was the worst.
That's rough.
Okay, that was different.
I mean, it was super hot.
He was like, you know, he was like put together, but so, I mean, just boring.
I mean, I don't know.
It was funny, though.
I've had a worse date, but no.
It was really bad.
Rhett, question for you.
Does her being a porn star bother you?
I mean, it's, you know, an interesting choice of career, but, you know, I mean, I've seen worse, you know, and I've seen like...
I've seen worse?
No, I mean, it's...
No, I mean, I'm not gonna be disrespectful.
Do I think that it probably has, you know, some damage to status?
Yeah, potentially.
I mean, For context, I'm from Greenwich.
It's one of the top five wealthiest towns in America.
You don't really have a whole lot of porn stars in Greenwich, Connecticut.
But at the same time, I grew up in an industry that's like the entertainment world.
People do all kinds of things.
I've done business with Playboy models before.
We work on the metaverse for one of the biggest porn companies in the world.
You know, when I think about it, I'm like, alright, you know, I mean, there are worse things, you know, so it's like, you know.
Do I consider it something that I, like, advocate for?
No.
I mean, is it like, you know, it's not a deal breaker, you know.
He's open-minded.
He's open-minded.
Okay, last question for you, Kat.
So, yes or no?
Second date.
Can you smash?
Wait, those are two different questions.
This isn't like that terrible date I told you about.
I know, I know.
But you're absolutely lighting me up here.
Jeez.
Okay, try to answer a question.
Second date, yes.
I'm keeping a second date.
Okay, there you go.
I'm not that easy.
As you say.
Alright, cool.
Awesome.
Thank you.
That was great.
That was great.
That was awesome.
Thank you.
I know, bro.
I know.
It's bad.
Alright, guys.
Thank you so much.
Good job.
That was pretty funny.
I mean, at least she's not a nurse.
Yeah.
Oh, yeah.
Yeah.
I tend to think that nurses are worse than porn stars.
I don't know why, but they're undercover with it.
You feel me?
I'm telling you, Mary Kay, you don't know.
You've seen too many porns with nurses.
That's the thing.
No.
I'm telling you.
Look, I said, guys, we go to a club, we go out.
The nurse is always the one DTF. And it's so random because she's like, oh, I'm stressed from work.
That's when I have some fun.
And before you know it, I pass her off.
And I'm like, damn, that was easy.
But, uh, So, you know what?
Going back to Karen Red, at least she's putting everything out there.
She's honest.
Yeah.
And there's something to say about that in Miami and dating.
The honesty is very ironic for the situation.
Wait, let's say real quick.
Guys say they don't want to hear the honesty.
Do they?
Yes or no?
To be honest with you, they do want to hear it, but to put you in a box right away.
Yeah.
So if you're smart, you keep that from the guy.
And this is me being adversarial because I'm telling girls what to do to get the guy.
But for a guy, he shouldn't know because he can say yes or no to her in real time.
That's true, though.
Who's so smashed, though?
But what do you wait for?
Probably not.
No.
Probably not.
We got Scarlett and Alberto.
So we'll do three minutes on the clock.
Icebreaker challenge.
You guys get to know each other a little bit better.
And let's start.
Alberto was going to X. No!
What?
What's that?
Damn!
She said no!
Oh, that's no!
I didn't know.
My bad, my bad.
Wait, wait.
Is that for sure?
No, he did it too.
So the X means that he has to go right now.
Oh no, we can talk.
Let's talk for a little bit.
At any point in time, if you want to get him out here, just hit the button.
And then what?
What happens when I press it?
Someone else comes.
A different guy.
How old are you?
Different girl too?
Scarlet's a very nice girl.
She's very beautiful.
She's just very young for me.
I get that.
What's your usual type of age?
In her 30s.
I'm 36, so you know, maybe 28.
And then how's dating been for you?
For example, I guess older has been better, but like you ever try younger?
I have, but the thing about younger girls is they're just looking for money.
You know, they're looking for a guy.
Have you ever had a girl ask money from you on the first date?
Yeah.
Really?
Yeah.
Wait, how did that go down?
I had one girl ask me to pay her rent.
On the first date?
No way!
That's mommy.
On the first date?
Nah, it was on the first date.
It was later on.
Can I just ask you, what was the leading up to that?
It's like, oh man, life is so hard.
Yeah, she was playing like, oh my god, this sucks.
I can't pay my rent.
Scarlett, you wouldn't do that, right?
You would never do that, right?
Not on the first date.
When?
When?
Second date?
Not even, maybe second yet because I don't care about what I text the people that I don't know.
I text anything.
But if I know you, I'm not just gonna text you anything.
Like if you're my long-term friend, like I know you for 10 years, I'm not gonna ask you for money.
But if I know you for two days, I'ma ask.
I don't care.
Okay, because they might say yes.
No, because they might, because I don't care if it's yes or no.
I don't care.
But is that like a tendency for you?
Do you usually ask guys for money?
Yes.
I always ask.
Everyone.
But what do you mean?
Everyone your age asks.
Yes.
For anything.
Not at my age, but like age like him.
Maybe.
She sees me as a sugar daddy.
That was before though.
Okay.
And have you gotten money?
Yeah.
Absolutely.
So there's a culture in Miami where girls are in a league of their own because they can have multiple guys and just ask them, hey, I need 200 bucks.
I need to pay rent.
And you'd be surprised when you guys actually pay.
What do you think is the difference between the men who pay and the men who don't pay?
Well, for one, there's classes to, like, how men run game, and some guys have unlimited money, where it's like, they don't care, so here's 200 bucks, here's your right money, I don't care.
There's a guy that's like, you know what?
I work hard for my money, I'm gonna give it to you because I don't know you that well.
But once they get to know the girl better, then they may do it in the future, but, like, at the very beginning, it's kind of like, alright, I just met you, why are you asking for money?
It's weird.
Yeah.
So, in his response, I mean, to be fair, if I just met you, I'm gonna pay your rent!
That's crazy!
No, 100%.
Okay, so real quick.
Scarlett, do you foresee yourself dating somebody older or younger?
Younger, not at all.
And because the girls are more mature, right?
And I like from 23 to 33.
Okay.
And a question for you then.
Dating now in Miami, do you feel like an older guy can satisfy you fully?
In what way?
Financially, yes.
But not sexually, right?
No.
How many guys would you need to satisfy you?
Like, for everything?
Financially.
And sexually.
And emotionally.
Yeah.
I just want one.
You just want financial?
Yes.
But with everything.
Yeah, financially.
She doesn't care about love.
Do you?
I have feelings for someone.
Right now?
Yes.
Question.
How much does he have to make a year for you?
A year?
I don't do a year.
I'm from Europe, so I do a month.
A month.
How much a month you gotta make for your lifestyle?
I don't know, maybe 20-30k.
Okay.
A month?
A month.
A month.
Scarlett, how much do you make a month?
Me, I get the money from my boyfriend.
So that's why he has to make it.
Is it a sugar daddy?
No.
It's mine.
Yeah.
No.
So, let's keep it real here.
This is getting kind of tough.
Yes or no to Alberto?
No, no.
And yes or no to her?
No, thank you.
Okay, we're going to do a switch here real quick.
So just sit right there, brother.
And then we're going to have Hudson.
Come over here, bro.
We're back in the game.
Who wants to take a flight with me?
Okay, we have Captain Hudson over here.
Let's take a public flight.
Come on, baby.
Okay, okay, Hudson.
She is 19 years old, aspiring to be a trigger baby.
Just kidding.
What kind of?
And she's single.
She's single.
What say you?
Honestly, you know, I could do like maybe a week with her.
I'm going to be real, you know, because she's 19, you know, like, let's have some fun, boom, in and out, I'm good, you can live your life.
Is that a bad thing, Scarlett?
What?
Exactly.
Weekly.
Yeah, weekly.
Weekly.
In and out, he's like, here today, going tomorrow.
What do you want?
Yeah, what are you looking for?
Because I can see you like once a month.
Right now, for nothing.
But are you okay giving money to a woman?
You know, just when you see her.
You just met her.
I mean, you a pilot.
You know, because I'm in it now.
I don't know when I'm going to see you again.
Maybe, yes, when I come through and you're here and you provide that girlfriend experience, I don't mind paying.
Let's do it.
Are you serious?
Hell yeah!
Give me the whole girlfriend package, argue with me, curse me out, break up with me, let's get back together, and then let's go have makeup sex.
And then I'll just pay you at the end of the night, I'm with that.
But it seems like you're okay with love being transactional.
Right now, in the stage of my life, yes.
And you're okay with love being transactional?
I'm an astronaut, I'm always in the sky, I need to just come visit.
That's the whole love if it's transactional.
But that's what you want.
That's what you just said.
I don't want that.
I don't want nothing right now.
I don't want nothing right now, but it's not love if it's transactional.
It can never be.
So you understand that a guy who gives you money, it's just like transactional, not love.
Yes, no love.
There can't be no love.
So your actual boyfriend, would he have to give you money?
I would never ask for it.
Guys, guys.
Because I love him.
That's important.
Because you love him.
Of course.
That's important.
If I don't like you, I ask for money, for sure.
Guys, there you have it.
Check.
Alright.
That's true.
Yeah, 100%.
Okay, so yes or no to Hudson?
Nope.
No?
That was a fast no.
Goddamn.
I'm sorry, baby.
I'll do a yes.
Okay.
There you go.
Thank you, brother.
And then, Rick.
Yep.
Come over here, brother.
Okay, uh, Scarlett.
Yes.
My boy is over here.
Sorry, Rhett's over here.
And he is actually the guy of the hour.
He's popping.
He got the chains on.
Yes.
He's that guy.
How we doing?
So, uh, would you call on a date with Rhett?
Rhett.
No, he's not my type.
What's your type?
My type is Nigerian, Jamaicans, Afro-Americans.
Wait, how'd you call that?
You called that.
- 'Cause she's 19 and she's a stripper.
She like niggas.
- No, I have always liked, I was like in a fourth grade in a primary school, so like, what is it, elementary, and I liked the guy, he was from Portugal, and I liked him already, and I was a little girl.
I was like nine.
- Portugal and Uganda aren't the same place, honey.
- What is it?
- No, it probably came over from Africa.
He was my classmate!
Aren't you fucking Eastern European?
What the hell is this?
Miss me with that bullshit, you know?
The Fabio look doesn't work for her.
Maybe the roommate look doesn't work for me.
She was saying that if she meets a guy and the guy isn't really, I guess, her type per se, she doesn't like the guy, she wants for money up front.
What do you think about that?
I think that, one, you should always be asking for money up front.
You know, it's a man's job to provide.
But then, two, if you don't like the guy, you shouldn't even be bothering to engage.
It's just a waste of time for everybody, you know?
At the end of the day, you're just gonna end up with a waste, you know, people are gonna be pissed, you know, you're gonna end up with bad vibes, and then you're gonna end up, you know, what, hopping to the next person?
I mean, then you're just on, like, some, you know, bad, like, parasite vibes.
But it's like, you know, if it is something where, you know, there is a romantic connection, Then of course, you know, I mean, there is a very clear dynamic in the relationship and, you know, it's a man's job to provide.
You know, ideally not in a directly monetary way, like, you know, more gifts, like, you know, diamonds look better than dollar bills.
But, you know, I do think that it is a man's job to provide.
And, you know, I mean, if you want to show, you know, kind of who you are, that's also one of the ways of, you know, quietly demonstrating status, you know?
Question for you, though, Rhett.
Let's say you met her for the first time.
She asked you to pay her rent.
What say you?
I mean, I obviously wouldn't do that, but, you know, it's like, okay...
There's a difference between providing and providing for the right person, right?
So I'd say that you met them for the first time and they're asking for you to pay the rent.
I think that seems like a gold digger.
I think that if you are dating and all of a sudden you guys have been seeing each other for, you know, one to three months, you know, and all of a sudden she's like, you know, and she's got a...
Context, right?
Context is the key to everything.
So it's like, okay, if she all of a sudden is like, hey, can I move in with you?
Can you cover my bills?
You know, I think things like that all of a sudden are very different.
You need to be a provider in that sense, but you need to demonstrate first that you are able to be a provider by doing things like, you know, offering gifts on the first date and, you know, paying for, you know, high-end restaurants and things like that.
So that's how you demonstrate that you can be a provider.
But then, of course, you are still vetting them as a partner.
So they still need to, you know, show that they are, you know, partner worthy because you're not going to provide for somebody who isn't worth being your partner.
So in that response, like, you know, basically if she's worth being your partner, then yeah, probably down the line you will end up paying her rent.
She probably will also end up eventually living with you.
You also pay your own rent.
So it's actually not that big of a deal.
There might be a short window where you are covering her bills in the interim.
It's really, you know, a no brainer.
So the provider.
Man is the provider.
Okay.
Now, as far as like the first date, if they don't give you like a gift, is that not a good sign?
I never got a gift on a first date.
Okay.
That's a bad sign.
I've never heard of gifts on a first date.
But what type of gift?
I've never heard of not giving a gift on the first date.
I mean, I've given $400 bracelets to girls I haven't even lost out yet.
Ladies, are you hearing this?
You understand?
Like, this is just such a red flag.
It's like, you know, I mean, I get that, you know.
But what y'all doing on a first date?
Maybe it speaks to your career.
You know, I'm not trying to be disrespectful.
But, you know, it is one of those things where you should be receiving gifts on the first date.
You know, because a man who can provide value...
For talking?
No, because it's not about the woman at that point at all.
It has nothing to do with the woman.
It is about the man signaling his ability to provide.
And it is about a man's status.
You are showing, hey, I'm a fucking baller.
A $500 fucking bracelet is nothing to me.
Fuck you!
Here's my fucking diamond tennis bracelet.
Here's the fucking $500 bill to swan down in the design district.
Tell her, bro.
It's nothing.
It's showing that you're that guy.
You want to be that guy.
You want to buy a ticket to the Ritz, a diamond bracelet.
You want to do whatever it is.
It needs to be no skin off your back.
So you do that.
Yes, I do.
I absolutely do.
Would you go on a date with him now?
No.
Oh, okay.
No.
Well, I mean, after what I've learned, I mean, you know, offer rescinded.
Okay, okay.
Thank you, Rhett.
That was amazing.
I did say I didn't want to be disrespectful.
No, no, no.
I did.
Okay, Chino.
We'll have you go, bro.
Thank you, bro.
I think what he was saying has its merit.
And in Miami, that's the thing.
That's the thing in Miami.
However, I think you should do fake bracelets.
What?
I'm talking shit.
Why are you not kidding?
Why are you saying you're kidding?
Okay, Gabriel.
Welcome back, brother.
Scarlet, he's not BBC gang, but he's close to it.
He's like Dominican.
Wow.
It's black enough.
I like Dominicans.
Black enough.
Okay.
So, would you begin commence?
She's 19 single, looking for a guy that's gonna love her.
If you don't like you, she's gonna love her.
I ain't gonna love you.
I'm telling you right now, I'm not gonna love you.
That last guy, that last guy for me, he probably got you a little wet, right?
He got you a little wet?
Talking about the money and shit?
No.
Nah?
Nah, I forget.
But listen, I'll be honest.
You from 2019?
You was born and raised in Miami?
No.
Where were you from?
Slovakia.
Slovakia?
When did you come to Miami?
Last year.
Last year?
June.
Oh, so you two went to the Miami scene then, right?
Mm-hmm.
You two went to the Miami scene?
I'm what?
New?
Too into?
You too into the Miami scene?
What does that mean?
You lost cause.
That's what I'm trying to say.
You're really into the Miami scene.
It's typical for girls to ask men for money.
You're already doing it after a year.
Did you do that in Slovakia before?
I mean, my dad always gave me everything, so I'm already used to it.
There's no chance I would date a broke guy.
Okay.
She's honest about it, though.
I'll give her that.
But Gabriel has to know.
Okay, there you go.
No, no.
Where's Alberto?
Alberto?
Yeah.
We need to give him a chance real quick.
Yeah.
Because Alberto was going through the heat today.
God damn.
I want to see Alberto with Rochelle.
Me too.
And I want to see Alberto.
Okay.
I see.
Bring Alberto and Rochelle.
But hold on.
Hold on.
Hold on.
I actually don't advise men to give gifts on the first day.
No, no, no.
I'm serious.
Okay.
Let's talk about this real quick.
Yeah.
So in the event, Rochelle and then Alberto.
Oh, okay.
In the event you meet a girl in Miami, typically what happens is, well not typically, what happens is sometimes they'll see you as a mark or they'll see you as somebody that they can hustle basically and they'll ask for it and if you're like wooed by her looks, you're like okay I'll give it to you and that could be where she gets what she wants without doing anything.
And it's based off superficial from the get-go, not feelings, not love, not any potential.
Now, an older guy talking to a younger girl is kind of like, okay, that's a given because that's the dynamic.
However, you gotta say, no, that's not what I do.
Here's how I move.
If you're cool with that, then let's operate.
It's a wrap.
So that's the kind of premise there.
But for most people that live in this culture here in Miami, that's normal.
They ask for money up front.
Like for example, you meet a girl, have a good time, you might smash.
And she'd be like in the morning, hey baby, my tire pops.
Can you get me a tire?
I happened to one of the contestants.
They had a great date.
Amazing.
They didn't have sex.
And the elevator going down.
So my rent is due at the end of the month.
That is typical.
What?
And you'd be surprised, guys will say no, but some will say yes.
Welcome back, guys.
Alberto!
Welcome back.
I'm back.
Rochelle.
Alright.
This is a new match here.
I think you guys are both a little bit older.
Three minutes on the clock.
Let's see what you got.
Icebreakers.
We know each other.
Wait, really?
Yeah, funny story.
We actually have met before.
Many times.
Wait, so...
Whoa, stop the show real quick.
It's a small world.
No date nothing?
No.
Okay.
So, she was dating my friend, and I went out with her friend.
Oh.
Wow, you guys.
Okay.
Interesting.
Wait, wait, hold on.
Sorry, go ahead.
I know, I'm curious, like, are there any attributes, and again, we're not going to try to force you guys or anything, but are there any attributes about the other person that you do like and you would want in a future partner?
We're just friends.
Rochelle owns a condo in Brickell and I like that aspect of her.
She's a homeowner.
She's got her own stuff going.
Is that important in a future partner?
Yeah, of course.
They're independent, they already have their own thing going on.
So you wouldn't want to date someone remotely like Scarlett who is just like...
Absolutely not.
I mean, I know you do very well for yourself, but even if you had the multi-multi-millions to give away...
I feel like somebody has got to bring something to the table.
Alberto, how do you source girls for yourself now?
How do you find girls now?
Dating apps or in person?
Just through friends, networking, work, and just traveling and doing whatever I do.
Do you want a wife now in your life?
Maybe at this point in my life, yeah.
And question for you.
Would you consider going outside the US? Like to Colombia, Venezuela, somewhere else?
No, I'm not a passport.
No?
No?
Here, American soil only?
Yeah, USA. Why not?
Oh, yes.
Why not?
Well, it's back to like, you know, they want citizenship.
Okay.
You never know.
He knows what he's talking about.
Hey man, he's on game, bro.
I'm from Miami.
Yeah, yeah.
So we'll play Alberta, because you seem very wise as well.
Tell the guys here watching, one thing to look out for with women that may be trying to scheme on you.
Yeah, what's the one you look out for?
One red flag.
One or two.
Red flag?
Yeah.
With women that you've seen.
Well, you can kind of just tell by the way they dress sometimes, you know.
That is actually what I want to touch on real quick.
They're gorgeous.
I mean, like, there's no lacking of gorgeous women in this city.
But I think, yeah, when a woman tells you that she spends, like, over $10,000 on just self-care, like, and just nails and things like that, like, they're going to expect someone to pay for that.
And so if you're signing up for that, then so be it.
Just know that you're signing up for that.
I know girls that get BBLs, and they want credit.
Then they have a boyfriend and like, babe, I have some debt and you paid off.
Can you help me pay out debt?
And that's from the BBL. That's what happens, man.
Okay, Rochelle, you've been very quiet, but tell us your dream man.
Yeah.
Well, not what I had before, but...
Was that your friend?
Yeah.
Oh, damn.
Shout out to German.
Oh, damn.
Don't even go there.
In the past, in the past.
Damn.
Oh, shit.
Yeah.
I'm figuring that out right now.
What's one or two qualities that you know you cannot?
A good, nice person who's respectful and has their life together.
Fun, outgoing, likes to do things, but just a good person.
You're really fun and outgoing.
I see you all the time in a different place on Instagram.
Yeah, I love going out.
You're very shy on the show, though.
Yeah.
They caught me totally off guard.
I got you.
All right, so we're going to close this up here real quick, guys.
You got any chats, Moe and Bills?
Yeah.
But they just are coming in now.
Cool.
All right.
Aisy, could you bring all the girls in the back and all the guys, too, as well, over here?
All the girls.
And all the guys.
Everybody together.
Everybody.
So...
From behind the curtain, all the way from the spin wheel, and behind the front.
Welcome back.
Okay, cool.
Cool, cool, cool.
So, I want to ask all the people here so far, if you're going to go on a second date with somebody here, stand next to them and make some space.
Yep.
So, if you're going on a second date with somebody.
So, let's say the first date was well and you want to go on a second date, let me know.
Perfect.
So, we got Hudson next to Rochelle.
We got Gabriel and Alyssa.
Right on.
We got Raj and Coco.
We got Kat and Rhett.
And Scarlett is saying no to everybody.
Okay.
Lovely.
She won our BBC gang.
Okay, cool.
Alright, this was a great show.
I think we did some good work here.
Yeah, you guys brought really good energy.
Hudson was amazing, by the way.
Thank you, man.
Anybody want to take a private flight?
I got you, no problem.
There we go, there we go.
Okay.
I got you, I'm going to hook you up.
Alright, anyone tonight going out for a drink after this?
I'm going all right.
Gabriel and Alyssa?
Anybody else?
Any past contestants?
Yes, so I did follow up with one couple weeks ago and they went on three dates and right now, yes, and right now she just moved home.
Oh, and he helped her move.
That was really sweet.
But she's in the midst of actually finding new work and she's like, I know I just got to channel my energy and she goes, I understand it's all about timing, but for now we're going to be good friends until I get my feet on the ground career and stuff.
Did he smash?
Okay, it's fine, it's fine, it's fine.
Alright guys, thank you for watching, man.
We're going to do a Zoom call on Locals right after this.
And Yacht Party's going to be in July.
We're going to push it back for you guys as well.
We're going to be in Vegas for 28th of Power Slap.
So we'll do it in July and I'll see you guys there.
But real quick, some chats before we head out here.
All right.
Thank you, everyone.
Thank you, guys.
Thank you.
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My biggest problem dating is that girls finish too quick and tweet for a fourth round.
Any advice?
Yeah, what the heck, bro?
How much juice do you got?
Probably a lot.
Short King 13.
That is hippo and some hand signs.
Shout out to you, bro.
Cool.
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RoughRider7 says, WFNF, WMK, WStream.
So much to debunk this is crazy.
Imagine the porn star saying she's not that easy.
The European chick is so delulu.
Don't need to bring her in outdoors to save her.
Gold digger at plain sight.
This is hilarious.
Yes, it was a lot of RP truce there you should have seen coming up.
That's interesting.
Yeah, this is a more relaxed show, guys.
It's not as serious and as robust, but I will say that you can learn a lot from watching your show, even if you don't think so, just by listening to what they're seeing and their actions as well.
Most definitely.
Yes, a lot.
Is that it?
Oh, we can't show it on YouTube?
Yeah, this one I don't want to show on YouTube.
Okay, we won't show this one on YouTube.
Well, if you want to read it, you can read it.
We'll read it on Castle Club later on.
Alright, guys.
MK, where can they find you?
MKMatchmaking.com, MKMatchmaking on Instagram, MKMatchmaking TikTok, and MKMatchmaking YouTube.
So go ahead and follow guys.
And yeah, I'd be happy to give you advice for men and women.
But more particularly men who have been following me.
And if you're a Miami guy, she does these matchmaking events in person.
So if you're single, you want to meet people here in Florida and Miami, hit her up and you can do that as well.
Yeah, actually, real quick, July 11th, we're doing our first virtual one.
I partnered with a big marketing agency here, and they're like, we've got the platform, bring the people.
So, guys, even if you're not in Miami, come to the virtual event, because you are going to be matched with amazing people, quality singles.
Okay, awesome.
Alright, guys, this was the show here.
Thank you for watching, and I'll see you guys on Castle Club right now with a Zoom call, and then another stream.
Cool.
Alright, guys, peace.
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