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May 29, 2024 - Fresh & Fit
01:22:19
A Fresh Match With Fresh&Fit
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Thank you.
So, we'll just make some announcements right now.
Sorry that my voice is bad.
I was destroying some kids that I've watched earlier.
Couldn't tell.
I was cooking.
I was cooking, man.
He was, he was.
But guys, as you guys know, Costco.tv, today is the last day.
It expires tomorrow morning.
Yeah.
So, get in there now, guys.
$17 for CastleClub.tv, man.
We're almost $5,000 strong in there.
Let's go!
We want to get to $10,000 strong in there.
We're drowning out the haters.
They're losing power.
They're sitting there saying a bunch of BS. No, bro.
This is a support rumble.
You support us.
You support rumble.
You support free speech.
Then we can continue to give you guys the interviews that you guys want.
We got Rich Cooper coming this week.
We got Tommy Son of America coming this week.
How is that fuel?
That's fueled through Rumble and our ability to be able to do free speech so we don't have to worry about all the other BS, man.
So we got fire guests coming.
We got Aiden Ross and Charleston White coming tonight.
You guys want us to keep giving y'all this fire?
It costs money to do this stuff, guys.
We have value in Zoom calls, meetups, masterminds, workshops.
I'm telling you guys, Castle Club's the last bastion of free what?
and speech.
And just for the people out there that don't understand, guys, not only are we going to put a portion of that, let me just be very clear about this one more time because people still don't get it.
Guys, the majority of the content is going to be free and it's going to stay free.
The Money Mondays, the dating shows on Wednesdays, the Friday guests, etc.
All that's going to be free.
The only thing that's going to go behind the paywall is a portion of after hours.
However, we're not just going to give you guys after hours.
We're going to give you guys live updates, news.
I'm going to be tweeting on that.
Locals, I'm already starting to tweet in there.
The stuff that I can't even tweet on X, I put on there on Castle Club.
We're going to be having Zoom calls weekly or bi-weekly where you guys can ask us questions and we answer.
We're going to be doing meetups where it's going to be dating workshops, fitness workshops.
If you want to be an influencer, we're going to open up an Influencer Academy where we're going to teach you guys how to become viral.
We're actually going to give away some of our trade secrets, which we never have done before.
We might sign you to the platform if you're good.
So keep that in mind.
For all you guys that want to become influencers, and then we're also going to do yacht parties, all this stuff, live events, all that stuff is going to be there.
Also, we're trying to build a community, guys.
What I want is we want Castle Club chapters in major cities in the United States.
We can come visit you guys.
We already got a stable in Dallas.
We did a meetup over there.
We want We're good to go.
When you do Zoom calls, guys, I want everyone to drop where they're from because I know one of the big things that I notice when we do the calling shows and you guys actually talk to us is, hey, Mario, where do I find like-minded guys?
Hey, we're going to network with individuals that are RP-aware and aren't Simpson or aren't Blue Pill.
Guess what?
Castle Club is going to be that place now.
We're going to be putting all our effort and focus into Castle Club.
That's community.
We're going to build it.
And again, you can get in for only $17 a month, man, and your grandfather in, or you can go ahead and get in for a year and...
It'll be $97, but it's going to reset to whatever the yearly price is.
So if you want something consistent, guys, just get the $17 a month, man.
Get it now while you can because it's going to shoot up to $35 after tomorrow.
It's going to shoot up to $35 after tomorrow.
If you guys are wondering, that's double the price of Hulu and Netflix.
Well, Netflix and Hulu isn't going to give you a community.
Hulu and Netflix is going to teach you how to make money.
Hulu and Netflix is going to teach you how to become an influencer and make a bunch of money.
They're not going to give you the community.
They're blue-pilled on Netflix.
If anything, they're going to push more of that LGBT, all this weird stuff, feminism agenda that they're pushing right now.
We're teaching you guys how to become the best version of yourselves.
You guys are going to be able to meet as a person and everything.
You want to communicate with us.
It's going to be on Castle Club.
So it's not just after hours.
It's all the other stuff as well that you're going to be able to get in there.
The community, guys.
So CastleClub.tv, man, get in there.
We're going to go hard as hell in there.
We're probably going to have a Zoom call after this because we've got a little bit of extra time.
I think Aiden and them are going to come in a little bit later.
Yes.
And then the last point here, for the OGs and Castle Club, we're giving you actually a chance to come to Miami, listen to the studio, watch a live show, chill with the boys, and have a good time.
So if you're OGs and Castle Club from back in the day...
We got you, bro.
We got you.
We got you.
Don't worry.
We're going to run a sweepstakes specifically for y'all that were here from the beginning, man.
So, guys, I mean, at this point, if you want to sit there and say, yours is a money grab and we hate you guys or whatever, you probably never rock with us anyway.
You're probably an Auburn preacher, Ethan D. Klein fan, and you got paid to come in our chat and talk a bunch of crap, and that's fine.
It is what it is.
But the real ones know that it's not cheap to run this.
I showed earlier while I was on stream 46K that I had spent already on running the podcast.
In the past 16 days, it's not cheap to run this, guys.
There's a reason why you guys see it run the way it does, very smoothly.
Things are happening behind the scenes that you guys don't even see.
Girls are getting kicked out.
I don't have to get up.
All this stuff that you guys don't see, you're able to enjoy the show at a very high quality because it's not cheap to run, guys.
And the fact that people are even sitting here saying, well, just get rid of the staff.
It's like, okay, sure, let's just do that.
Let's just cripple a business because you don't want to pay for a fucking subscription service.
Come on, man.
Like, incredible.
And listen, as creators, we made mistakes.
We're not perfect, but at the same time, we had a lot of value, so we got you guys.
Yeah, man.
And if you guys want the interviews, you guys want the edgy guests, etc., the Tommy Sotomayor, the Nick Fuenteses, all that stuff, guess what?
We have to be independent, guys.
That is what it is, man.
Anyway, let's get into the dating show, guys.
Let's go!
Match.
Match.
All right.
We are back and And once again, it's a dating show, but not any dating show, a fresh match with Fresh and Fit.
Welcome back, guys.
MK, how are you doing today?
I'm doing awesome.
I'm super excited to see these couples today.
And we added some props here on the actual stream.
You see this button right here?
If you're not going to be a match, we're going to say, you're out!
You're not a match.
Anyhow, MK, tell us about dating nowadays.
What's your expectations and what's happening in the marketplace?
You know, it's interesting.
I was actually on a different, a virtual blind dating show last night.
I got asked to comment on it.
And there was a guy who's like, and this is such a problem with most singles today.
He's like, man, there's just so much dating advice out there, you know?
Like, I don't know which one to take, you know?
It's like, someone's telling me to do this.
Someone's telling me to do that.
And guys, and those watching you probably can relate to that.
At the end of the day, Just do what feels right.
Like, I know this sounds so cliche, but if someone's, like, spitting out some garbage, you're like, really?
Is that how I should pick up a girl?
But, like, you're like, I can't see myself doing that.
Don't do it, because it's going to come across as cheesy and forced, and that's, like, so unattractive, it's not funny.
So, take the advice in this whole social media era that we live that resonates with you, and disregard the rest.
I would say as well, if you're going to take advice from somebody, make sure they actually have the results that you want.
But also, whatever they tell you doesn't work.
Like for example, if I give you a method of talking to girls, it doesn't work.
Then obviously it's not going to work for anybody else.
But at the same time, if it works, then okay, I can try this again, different ways.
So it's about using things that actually work for you as an individual.
Granted, today we're going to do an icebreaker challenge again.
Some questions here.
So we have some guests here on the panel right now.
We have Emily and Dylan.
So, we'll start with the intros.
Name, age, reader for a living.
And we'll go from Dylan first.
My name is Dylan.
I'm an image consultant.
And I'm 26.
And as an image consultant, I help people elevate their personal brand on an online image.
Okay.
Yeah.
Emily?
I'm Emily.
I'm 26 and I coach women with insecure attachment styles.
So maybe you've heard of like anxious attachment, avoidant attachment, things like that.
So I coach them to become healthier so that they can attract healthier relationships.
Yeah, that's pretty good.
Okay, so question for both of you.
Why do you want to find love and why do you want to be with somebody?
I want to find love because I think it's important to form a relationship with someone and be able to be there for each other.
And when you can't handle something on your own, it's important to have someone to support you and just being able to guide you through those tough moments and also be able to have fun with each other, go on adventures, be able to learn from each other.
I think there's a lot to gain from having a relationship.
Okay, well said.
Yeah, I think there's something very just inherently like human about wanting a partner.
And I know, for example, a lot of women, they have this like really deep desire to be a mom.
And while I do have that, I've just always known that like a fulfilling long term partnership is one of the things that is like one of the biggest dreams and goals of my life.
I think there was another part of your question that I might have forgotten.
That's actually pretty good.
That was good.
Well, we can all agree here dating is kind of almost like dead stuff out here.
However, we're going to bridge the gap here on the show and see it live.
So we'll do a five minute timer here on Icebreaker Challenge between both of you guys here.
I'll start the clock right now and let it rip.
But hell on if you need help.
Yes, so we have...
I'm going to set you up if you want.
Okay, they're here to support you.
So we're going to give you two icebreakers each.
Yes.
Go for it if you want to.
If you already got a question that you know you want to ask Emily or Emily, you know you want to ask Dylan, go for it.
All right.
You guys ready?
We'll start the timer right now.
There we go.
Five minutes.
Where do you see yourself in five years?
Ooh, I see myself probably still living here in Florida.
I moved here a little less than a year ago.
Really love it so far.
And I see myself continuing to grow my business.
It's something I'm really passionate about, and it's just so fulfilling that I get to help women really change the trajectory of their lives and their relationships.
And I hopefully see myself maybe married at that point, but obviously there are things that are within my control and things that aren't.
So those are the main things.
That's cool.
I was going to ask you the same thing reflexively, but I think I might use one of mine.
What's a hidden talent that you have?
A hidden talent that I have is that I'm really good at being entrepreneurial.
So just being able to find the best approaches in life, being able to minimize time and being efficient.
It's a weird thing, but yeah, just being entrepreneurial.
Yeah, no, I totally get that.
That's cool that we have that in common.
It definitely changes your perspective on so many things, I feel like.
Oh, do you want to ask another one?
Yeah, what made you move to Miami and what are you looking to get out of being here?
Yeah, I feel like it was kind of divine intervention.
So I'm originally from the Atlanta area, but I actually moved from Nashville.
I went to school there, lived there for many years, really loved it for a while.
And then it just became very, very hard to keep living there.
Like all my housing situations kept falling through and I literally just had this feeling like I was supposed to move to like Miami, which was so bizarre because I'd only visited like once or twice.
And ultimately, when I moved here, things just kind of fell into place.
And so for right now, it just feels like it's where I'm supposed to be.
Like, you know, like the stars have aligned in a way.
Okay, awesome.
Let's see.
Would you call yourself a saver or a spender?
I am a spender.
I used to be a saver, but I'm definitely a spender now because I try to utilize all my money and all my assets and put it to its optimal use.
So I think saving is...
I don't think people who are rich don't really save.
They use it to invest and to generate more revenue and more income and more assets.
How about yourself?
Yeah, I think that makes sense.
Yeah, I would tend to agree.
I think especially that's a pretty natural trajectory when you, I don't know, think about money a certain way and then you kind of become an entrepreneur.
I think there's a tendency for a lot of people to like sit on money and kind of hoard it.
And then when you realize that like you're your safest asset, you're like, I'm just going to dump all this money into, like, my own skills and my business and things like that.
So, yeah, I would say a little bit more of a spin.
We've got a few minutes left on the clock.
Real quick, this is a hot topic, by the way, finances, okay?
As we know, I mean, Google it.
It's either the number one or the number two reason why marriages end in divorce and finances.
So, yeah, how important is that to have that conversation in the early stages of dating for you guys?
And have you been proactive about that in the past?
Hmm.
I don't think I've been too proactive in the past.
I'd like to, you know, just being able to work on my business and, you know, focus on that and being able to provide for those in my family and those I'm in a relationship with.
But I think it is important to, if I'm looking for a longer term relationship, to talk about finances and how we want to go about that.
So I think it's definitely important.
Let's be honest here.
Do people actually talk about that generally when they date or it just like happens to pop up every now and then with issues?
I feel like when I've seen this come up, it's often been because there's tension around it.
I don't think many people are very proactive about it.
And I mean, I can say that I haven't been either.
And this was a very good question.
Like, hmm, this is something I could work on.
You know what you should ask?
What's your credit score on the first date?
And then I'll tell me all I need to know about you.
But yeah.
Wait, actually someone did that.
Really?
Yeah.
He's like, I think it's normal to ask that question.
And the girl's like, don't do that on the first date.
Because typically, if you go back on the score, you're a bad person.
Just saying!
You don't pay your bills.
You'd be doing other stuff.
I'm just saying.
You're categorized as a bad person.
You know what?
Everyone's got a story behind their credit.
For example, yeah.
I don't know.
You've got to be honest with it.
If someone tells me they've got 400 or something, it's like, what are you doing about that?
Let's break the ice here.
What gender is the worst with money?
Men or women?
In your opinion?
In my opinion, I think probably women, honestly.
Okay, what about you?
Misogony.
Being honest here, being honest here.
I don't, it's hard for me to say like one or the other because I think a lot of it has to do with like each individual's relationship with money.
If you had to guess the average between men and women, just generally speaking.
What would it be?
Come on, girl.
You want me to say women?
No, no, no.
You tell me.
You tell me.
I genuinely do think it depends on the individual.
And I think that there definitely are...
There could be women who maybe don't understand the value of money if they aren't the ones who are perhaps more in the provider role or they haven't really had to provide for themselves.
On the other side of that, I also think that there are men who will, like, throw money at women because they're trying to win them and they don't really have a...
You should work in PR. You're very good at questions.
Okay.
Last round here.
Fire round.
One minute left.
Let's go.
And by the way, if you want to leave at any point, press the button and that person will leave actually.
So whoever wants to...
Yeah, we forgot to mention that.
Yeah, yeah.
We just get rolled away.
Pretty much.
Okay, go ahead.
So what are you looking forward to do the next year?
Ooh, definitely continue growing my business, but also life just feels so fulfilling at this point in time.
I have really, really amazing friends.
We all just like are challenging each other to grow and continue to evolve as humans and just to continue dating and getting to know myself more, continuing to grow.
I also have a cat that I took in recently who just had kittens.
I'm gonna have one.
And so seeing them grow up will be fun.
And yeah, Mary-Kate is getting one of them.
So if you want a kitten.
Yeah, if you want a kitten.
She had six.
I think most of them have homes.
Do you even like cats or do you like dogs more?
I honestly like cats more.
Okay.
This is a big thing in common, by the way.
You're a dog or you're a cat.
Dylan's very smart for saying that.
I grew up with cats, so...
Okay.
I like it.
I like it.
So, do I get to...
Yeah, go for it.
Okay.
Last one.
Who is a woman in your life that you deeply admire, and what do you admire about her?
Ooh.
I think the woman I would deeply admire is my mom, just...
Naturally, just because my mom and dad are divorced, and my mom just stepped up and raised me, and my older sister also raised me, so I have two sisters and one mom, and I grew up with all of them, so I just deeply admire the woman in my family who helped raise me and helped provide for me while I was learning and educating myself in school, so my mom has worked a lot and definitely want to be working hard here in Miami to provide back for her and my family.
Okay.
We'll stop right there.
So Dylan, Emily, would you go on a first date with this person?
Yes or no?
Yes.
Would you?
Also yes.
Great.
So think of a first date.
Dylan, where do you want to take her?
And we'll plan that next time, okay?
Okay.
Cool.
Awesome.
Good job.
Thanks, guys.
Thanks.
All right.
Next.
MK. Yes.
What do you think so far?
I liked it.
I liked it.
There was good banter.
They didn't feel awkward asking pretty interesting, non-surface level questions.
They were comfortable.
I think Dylan was a bit nervous.
I agree.
I agree.
Because he was still on point, but he was almost like, let me ease into it a little bit more, but he wasn't there yet.
It wasn't smooth.
It was a little rigid.
Kind of like robotic leg.
But I think most guys are going to be like that because they're on a date for the first time.
It's like, oh, she's hot.
She's cute.
I don't know if I want to mess this up.
Let me just talk slower.
So it happens.
As a guy, it does happen.
Oh, yeah, definitely.
But if you want to get around that, guys, this is a trick that is a little bit unconventional.
You go home.
You take a shot of whiskey or tequila.
You've got to kind of like drink the chicken a little bit, get out of the way, and then come into it refreshed.
Oh, really?
Really?
And we're going to focus on, you know, I already did my thing, you feel me?
Alright, alright.
Everyone's got their stuff.
Everyone's in different ways.
Welcome, guys.
Welcome, welcome.
Eddie and Erica.
So at any point, guys, if you want to buzz the other person, if you're not feeling it, with all due respect, there's no hate here.
So this is the life support for your life, actually.
So if you want to get them away from you, press this button right here.
I have some questions here for you.
Here we go.
Alright guys, we're going to provide you with two questions.
Icebreakers, feel free to use them.
Feel free to use your own.
And ladies first.
Let's do the intros real quick.
Name is We Do For Living, and then why do you want to find love?
Okay, I'm Erica.
I'm 31.
I'm an event planner, and I guess love would be just the cherry on top of my life right now.
Okay.
Eddie?
I'm Eddie.
I'm 28 tomorrow.
I'm a personal trainer.
Thank you.
I don't know.
I think it's hard to find love out here in Miami.
It's tough.
It's tough, for sure.
We're going to the same gym for boxing.
Okay, so we'll start the clock.
Five minutes on the clock.
Icebreaker challenge.
Just talk, get to know each other.
And then questions are here if you need help.
And if you want them out of here, here's the button.
Let's go.
Okay, what is the funniest thing you've done in the last week?
The funniest thing I've done?
I don't know, like, I don't really do anything too funny, I guess.
I live a simple life.
I go out, I train my clients, because I'm a personal trainer, like I said, but go home, just kind of relax after that.
Funny?
I don't know if there's anything too funny about that.
Pretend we're not here.
It's just you guys.
Imagine the lights are off and I'm black.
You can't see me.
Go ahead.
You know what?
Let me find another question.
Oh, this is a good one.
Have you ever ghosted someone?
I have not actually.
I don't believe in ghosting.
I feel like I would rather be a very authentic person and if it makes me look a little too vulnerable or emotional, I would rather be perceived as that and keep my humanity.
I respect that.
That's hard to find.
I feel like out here in Miami a lot of people get ghosted for sure.
I would say my personal experience, like, I traveled the country, you know, met a lot of people, and there's definitely some people I ghosted along the way.
Not because they were bad people, but, you know, you just kind of, there's a few people out there, you kind of just gotta let them go.
For sure.
So you don't believe in, like, communication and telling someone, hey, with all due respect, this isn't going anywhere?
Like, yeah.
I love communication, but at the same time, I feel like when you're with them, you communicate enough and you let them know, like, it's not going to work out.
Or, like, in my case, I was traveling, meeting a lot of people.
I was like, yeah, I'm not looking for anything serious.
Then you find those few people that are like, but I can change you.
I'm like, oh.
Yeah.
Okay.
Typical.
Typical, for sure.
You cannot change anyone.
Like, I'm not going to stop traveling the country just because, like, somebody in South Dakota wants to get to know me, you know what I'm saying?
Yeah, a wall drug.
Like, you realize I've got to go to Miami still, right?
W-man.
Alright.
Cool, cool.
I'll pay you.
So, next question.
Are you a city person or a country person?
That's a good one.
So, I was born in L.A., but I grew up in Iowa.
So...
Out here, my friend's got to get used to me listening to country music, so I'll still bop some Morgan Wallen, some Luke Holmes, you know.
Yeah, you know, come on now, come on, you know.
I'll bop that, you know.
Post Malone and Morgan Wallen just came out with a song, so I'll definitely have that going.
But I have to, like, when certain people show up, it's like, alright, turn that off.
So I'd say I still got those country roots in me, but I do love living in the city.
There's a lot more to do.
It gets old being in a cornfield and drinking with your friends.
I'm from Michigan so I feel the same way where I love going back home to visit and my friend has like two acres with meadows of flowers to attract butterflies so I love going back home and doing things like that but then also being in the city and having all of the opportunity here is great so I like a balance of both.
So I'm curious real quick.
We're at a three minute mark here.
Erica, right?
You're 31.
Why do you think you're still single?
You seem very nice, very polite.
Why do you think you're still single right now?
Because I gave too much time to someone who didn't deserve it and was in an 11 year relationship.
Wow.
That's a marriage.
That's a marriage right there.
Yeah, I was engaged.
Why'd you guys break up?
Probably not.
I can't explain the whole thing in a podcast, but that happened about three years ago.
So, yeah, two and a half years ago or so.
So that's why I've, like, eased back into dating, just because I wanted to take some time to just...
Reset.
And decide what I want for my life and build that.
So that's actually why I moved to Miami.
So I've been enjoying that.
And now that's why I'm open to something.
Excellent.
You're in the right place for that.
One thing I can say about that is when you live in the Midwest, the lifestyle is finding love.
So different.
Right out of high school, get married, have kids.
That's the lifestyle.
When I realized that was the lifestyle, I was like, ugh.
I don't think I belong here.
Eddie, would you be opposed to dating someone older than you?
Not at all.
Okay.
Not at all.
That's typically what I do.
He like the cougars.
Okay.
Eddie, no.
Playing with him.
No.
This is good.
This is good.
We have 20 seconds left on the clock.
Well, I'll just ask questioning right now then.
Eddie, would you take Erica to be your first date?
I would say yes, just because we're both from the Midwest.
I feel like we probably have a lot in common.
And this three minutes just flew by, so gotta get to know somebody, you know?
Nice.
Erica, would you take Eddie to be, well, sorry, take you on the first date?
Yeah, I'd be open to that.
Wait, hold on.
Is that yes or no?
You're open to it.
Okay, cool.
Awesome.
Are you both going to leave here?
And good job.
Awesome.
Thanks, guys.
All right.
How was that one?
I loved the foundation of compatibility they had.
Both growing up in the Midwest or some version of that country and all that.
They totally shared that interest.
But starting off...
Man, you can't just say, I don't do humor.
Like, you gotta wing it somehow because humor is so important.
It's so sexy.
So, I've heard girls like funny guys.
Wink, wink.
So, I would add that in there.
Maybe, like you said, mix it up a little bit because saying you're not funny at all is kind of like, eh, no fun stuff.
And girls hate to be bored.
So, if you're gonna bore her, she's gonna be like, ah, you know, I need to be exciting outdoors, have fun, or something.
Just exactly.
You can't start it like that.
Like, oh, actually, nothing funny.
But the good thing is, I don't think he was nervous.
Like, the first guy, Dylan, he's definitely more confident.
The answers need to be more deliberate.
No, it's good.
It's overall good.
Welcome.
We have Jose and Crystal.
Welcome to the first Icebreaker Challenge.
So we're going to do five minutes on the clock.
These are your life support.
If you want them gone, hit the button.
And then they're gone.
And the question is here for you guys if you need help with the actual icebreaker.
So we got some icebreakers here prompting you.
Oh no, use these ones right here, Crystal.
Those are the last ones.
Use them if you want them or make up your own whenever you feel comfortable.
Yeah, so first start with your name, your age, and what you do.
And why are you looking for love?
Sure.
Ladies first, please.
Oh, ladies first.
Gentlemen.
So, my name's Crystal.
I'm from Florida.
I'm an entrepreneur.
I own a couple of salons.
Oh, I own a couple of salons.
My company is called The Face Wardrobe, and yeah, I'm looking for love because I just feel like I'm at that age.
Are you tired of being independent?
Oh yeah, I've never been built for the independent life.
It's not by choice.
I'll do it because it needs to be done, but it's not by choice.
Okay.
Amen.
Jose?
You know, multi-entrepreneur, a trap, a scam, I do a little something.
I'm kidding.
I'm totally kidding.
I'm totally kidding.
I'm in construction.
You're out!
Yo!
He's got humor.
He's got humor.
He's funny.
That's good.
That's good.
She's laughing already.
And on the next episode of Fed Reacts.
All right, brother, go ahead.
Now I'm looking for love because Cinder don't work, you feel me?
So, how are you?
But you have a very infectious smile.
It's the most beautiful smile I've seen in that room.
Oh, wow.
Thank you so much.
Okay.
Confidence.
All right.
We'll start on the clock.
Five minutes.
Let's go.
Actually, I want to start with this question.
Have you ever ghosted someone?
Oh, definitely.
It's interesting.
Yeah?
Why?
You know, it's just that toxicity.
You got to run from it.
I feel like a lot of us are used to toxicity.
It's like our norm.
And so if I notice like toxic traits, I... Imagine we're not here.
Look, just like...
Oh, okay.
Perfect.
Yeah, no, men are creepy.
I see that.
I felt that.
I think I've ghosted a couple people myself.
When I was in high school, I didn't know how to talk to people, so that's how that pretty much went.
Yeah.
Yeah, I just went on a couple dates, asked them a couple questions, and then literally walked off.
And I had to see them in class the next day, so it was...
It was kind of weird.
But other than that, I haven't done that since because I'm growing up.
Okay, yes, yes.
I was going to say, have you ghosted anyone as an adult?
Nah, because then you have to see them the next day.
You know what I'm saying?
Somehow, someway, you bump into them.
Florida's too small.
Yeah.
Yeah.
Okay.
So, I like this one.
What are your pet peeves?
Um...
Disorganization, man, and...
When somebody texts me if I got a dime at 3 a.m.
while I'm asleep, that's crazy.
I can't be doing that.
No, no, no, I'm kidding.
I'm kidding.
I'm totally kidding.
I'm totally kidding.
Yo, son.
This is crazy.
Miscommunication is a big one.
I really think that communication solves a lot of problems.
Without communication, you have a bunch of breeding ground for violence, and that's what most of our problems as humans is.
I try to derail from that and try to bring in a lot of communication, be very open, honesty.
I've lost a lot of things because of my honesty, but Hey, I'm still here.
So I've won the appropriate things.
Yeah, I can relate to that.
I feel like a lot of people don't really know how to take my personality because I'm very honest and it's very, like, forward and blunt.
So sometimes it can be, like, it can seem a little rude if you don't really know the person.
So I can relate to that.
You do well in New York.
Give me an example of telling someone the truth where it came across maybe as rude.
Oh, man.
Man, I got a ton of them.
Oh my god, you know when you have to think of an answer, you can never think of it, but let me just let him go first.
I know ladies are first, but yeah.
Okay, so usually I've kind of gotten to understand that like There's people that say just brutal things to kind of feel empowered and then there's the actual truth.
So my thing is I kind of give bland answers and people take them the wrong way.
So I had a friend who she likes to get a bunch of group of people together and take them to different churches.
And then she asked us, what do we think about this church?
So I've been to a couple of them, and I've witnessed this.
I'm saying, man, if this church is nice, the message, everything is great, but if it wanted to be this church, they should have just did that.
And she got so upset, and my other friend was like, man, you should think about your answer.
But I'm like, why did she ask me about what I thought?
You know what I'm saying?
And I haven't said, like, this church is trash.
I didn't say anything about the denomination whatsoever.
I'm just giving my observation in terms of look and feel.
You know what I'm saying?
But I said it was hot, though.
The message was hot.
I got it.
But whatever.
Okay.
I actually do remember a time.
So I work in a salon.
I own a couple salons.
Face wardrobe in the building.
My mom used to do that too.
But I work at a salon and I made friends with a girl and one day she came in with this red sweater and I just told her, I was like, Heather, I don't really like you in red.
And I wasn't trying to be malicious at all.
I was just like, you know, I don't think that's your color.
Yeah, that's not her color.
I felt that.
I felt like because she's kind of had these red and pink undertones, like red is just like making you look more red.
So I just was telling her like, girl, I don't think that's your color.
I feel like I'm really good at like style and beauty.
And she took it so offensively.
Our friendship almost ended.
But I had to tell her like, girl, I would never say anything to intentionally like hurt your feelings.
And then, you know, we made friends again.
But that's just a little example.
Yeah, and they all want that friend to be honest and tell us, but I'll take it.
They don't really want the honesty.
No, you don't.
You don't want that.
You guys are both honest, right?
Yeah.
So you're very honest?
Yes.
What is something someone could do on the first date to turn you off?
Try to kiss me.
So you don't kiss on the first date?
I don't kiss on the first date.
I just don't.
Nigga, what?
Yo, wait, wait, wait, wait.
Jose, you what?
I agree with that.
First and foremost, wait, wait, wait, wait.
It's Miami.
First of all, it's a nasty city.
Period.
It's a real nasty city.
Even if you're not at Booby Tribe, it's a real nasty city.
But when you...
I told you I'm from the trap.
But anyway, when you kind of get to see what goes down in Miami, yeah, just hold my hand for now.
We'll wait until that third date.
You know what I'm saying?
Yeah.
I actually like men that don't try to kiss me on the first date.
Yeah, that's hard.
Yeah, I see that.
I see that.
I have so many questions.
Okay, hold on, hold on.
How would you know he's really into you if he doesn't go for the actual, you feel me, like, affection?
How would you know he's like, he might just want to be a friend, he's just cool.
How would you?
I want to answer that for her.
I feel like a man should have that answer, but...
I love his confidence.
A little song, call it the Henny, but anyway...
So, I feel like it's in the conversation.
A man, when he wants something, that he goes after it.
He chases it.
He asks questions around it.
How to get into it.
How to get...
If I really like a girl, I want to know what makes her laugh.
I want to know her favorite color.
I want to know what's her favorite food when she's upset.
I want to know...
I want to know what's her favorite show that she could binge or what's the type of show that she could binge.
I want to know all those things.
You know what I'm saying?
Because if you don't, at the end of it, somebody told me that at the end of it, when you get like 60, 70 or maybe older, I don't know what age it is for men, but your body parts start working.
You feel me?
You ain't going to be horny for this person no more.
So you got to come up with a conversation.
And back then, like sitting on a porch with your partner was like a cool thing.
You know what I mean?
So, you know, when you get there and you're old, you're sitting on a porch looking out.
What are you going to be talking about?
Is it going to be that same sexual conversation that y'all had in the beginning?
Or, you know, if it's really like a good partner, he should be really into you and want to know that these conversations could go on forever and it feel like it's been five minutes, but it's eight hours.
You know what I'm saying?
So, yeah.
Yo, Jose, you're a good talker, bro.
This is good.
This is good.
Just think of Jose.
Did you practice?
Okay, so that's the time right there.
Before we end this...
Damn, that was 30 minutes.
It went fast, right?
So, Jose, would you take Crystal on a first date?
100%.
I already got the place and everything.
Yeah, yeah, no, don't worry about it.
Yeah.
Crystal, would you go on the first date with him?
I would, yes.
Yeah.
Lit, lit.
I like that little t-shirt.
Appreciate that.
Somebody told me not to fix it.
J-Cole, yeah.
Is that a fresh match?
Okay.
I think it's a fresh match.
Definitely.
Oh, I like it.
I like it.
This is actually really funny and insightful.
Appreciate that.
You should learn from this actual example here, but go ahead.
We'll come back to you.
Thanks, guys.
Thank you guys for having me.
So, MK. First and foremost, if there are any men, which I know all of the viewers are probably men at this point, please take notes.
We want a couple girls here.
Please take notes.
All right, yeah, to the ladies, too.
For the men, take notes for what he was doing.
Yeah.
I thought he was just catering.
Like, not in a weird way.
You know what I'm saying?
So...
Typically on a date, you want to get to know the person and ask questions.
What he was doing, he was filling the blanks for her so she could talk, be comfortable.
And as a result, she was laughing.
She was chill.
She was laid back.
And he lowered her defenses by just being genuine and being funny.
And I think if you're funny enough with a girl on a date and she's responding to it positively, then you can...
You know what?
You can ask her anything.
Definitely.
She's feeling comfortable.
Exactly.
And it wasn't too much, by the way, because I've seen some guys who are like, put the grace on the humor.
He didn't force it.
No, no, no.
But he also got deep, too.
You know what I'm saying?
He wasn't just keeping it at the surface of funny.
I just want to make her laugh.
No.
It was good.
Good.
It was depth.
Yeah.
Welcome back, guys.
Okay, so this is the round here.
We're going to do a little bit different.
So Dylan and...
It was Emily, right?
Do you want to switch with anybody?
Or do you want to stay as this couple?
Anyone here in the room?
Do you want to switch?
I'm fine with staying.
Do you want to switch?
No.
Okay, perfect.
Oh, this is getting serious now.
Goddamn!
Okay, so here's the actual rules for this round.
This is the first date.
Dylan, you're taking her out.
Pick the time and place where you want to take her.
And then we're going to make it very romantic.
I see.
Melissa, bring in the special item.
Glass ice cake.
I see.
She knows.
Yeah, she knows.
But before we begin this part of the segment, Dylan and Emily, in your experience, why do you think that you're single?
I think I'm single because I just want to explore my options out there.
I've been developing who I am and exploring myself as a person and just been traveling and seeing what the world is like.
So now that I've experienced a lot, I'm looking to get deeper into dating.
Okay.
Emily?
I mean, I feel like I'm not that old.
I'm only 26, which some people are married by now, but, you know, not me.
And I think every, like, relationship or dating experience I've had thus far, I've kind of needed to develop more as a person.
And so, yeah, I feel good about how much I have grown at this point in my life.
But there obviously is still more growing that I... And everyone needs to do, and so I hope that the next relationship I have is like it for me, but there's also a possibility that it won't be, and I'll take that as it comes.
Okay, so we'll begin this segment here.
Here's the candle of love.
Here we go.
Here we go.
Christian Fitz, collaboration, only candles.
Alright, we'll begin the timer.
Five minutes on the clock.
Let's go.
Alright.
Well, I have a date planned out.
Are you into museums?
No, but I'm willing.
That's good, because I'm not into museums that much either.
This needs some music.
So, how do you like the beach?
I do enjoy the beach.
Okay, so, let's go to the beach.
Hold on, hold on, hold on.
I'm up here, brother.
You plan a date.
She comes along.
She can't say anything because you're planning the date.
You're paying.
You're the guy.
You're taking charge, brother.
Tell her where you're going and this is it.
We're on a date in real time.
What's happening?
Time and place where we're going.
I'm going to be at the beach at 2 o'clock.
Come join me.
Okay, sounds good.
Alright, so we'll start here.
Candlelight dinner on the beach.
Is that cool?
Yeah.
Or lunch.
I imagine we're not here, just two of you guys talking on the sand, getting sandy feet, all that stuff.
Let's run it.
Hey, it's great to see you.
It's great to see you too.
You want to walk down to the water area?
Sounds good.
Alright, let's set up this picnic.
I got some...
Some meat.
Do you like meat?
I do.
I hope you're not vegan.
I am not a vegan.
I will never be a vegan.
Cool.
And, you know, some fruit, too.
Let's set this up.
Got a little charcuterie situation going on.
All right.
All right, we set it up.
Cool.
It looks pretty nice, right?
It does.
You did a great job.
Here, you can have the first piece.
Oh, that's so sweet of you.
Here, you can eat it.
Cool.
So, how...
So, it's been a while since I've seen you at the Fresh and Fit Podcast.
Have you been since then?
You know, I've been pretty good.
Yeah.
Not a whole lot has changed.
Still thriving.
And, yep, still here.
How about you?
Yeah, I've been chilling, you know.
You know, thinking about you maybe a little bit.
Not too much.
So, done anything exciting since then?
Since about 20 minutes ago?
No, no, no.
Since the Fresh and Fit podcast.
Oh, a while ago.
A while ago.
Yes.
I have been hanging out with my cats.
Oh, wow.
How many cats do you have?
Well, remember how I told you that?
Yeah, so technically I have seven cats right now.
I will not permanently have seven cats, but I became an overnight cat lady, it seems.
How many kittens are you giving away so far?
I'm planning to give away all of them except one.
Except one?
Except one, yeah.
Are you in the market for a kitten?
Potentially.
Potentially.
I don't...
I'm not too sure about that, though.
Okay, well...
Taking care of a kitten is a lot of work.
It is.
It is.
They're also too young to be separated from their mom still, so we could revisit this topic in about eight weeks.
Sounds good.
You want to go in the watering?
Okay.
Let's try it out.
Sounds good.
Cool.
This water is pretty cold.
Actually, let's go back to the sand.
I don't want to be here.
That's a good plan.
Actually, I wanted to ask you a question.
I was curious about your business and how long ago you started it.
Yeah, it started about almost two years ago.
It started off as a photography business, but it slowly evolved into image and brand consulting.
So I help individuals elevate their personal brand online and also help them with coaching and real life as well.
So self-improvement and then just making sure that they're really optimizing their opportunities in life and generating the most leads possible and just becoming the best version of themselves.
Very cool.
What do you find is the most rewarding part of that?
Just being able to help people, being able to help them transform, and seeing the results that...
Puts them into the person they want to be and just seeing that happen.
So I think that's really cool.
And then I also learn a lot myself being able to work with others.
I learn a lot of new techniques and I also have friends that makes me accountable to do better as well.
So it's like almost creating a brotherhood while I'm doing business too.
So it's pretty cool.
That's super cool.
That's awesome.
I think it's really important to have like community around you as you're doing those things.
I think entrepreneurship can be really lonely.
Yeah, so I think that's really cool that you've got a community with you.
Yeah.
And what about you?
How long have you been doing your business?
Yeah, it's been about a couple years as well, so got like a similar trajectory, it seems, with our businesses.
Yeah, yeah, started about a couple years ago.
Okay, guys.
Okay, MK made the call here.
She's calling the date off.
I want to give some feedback.
So I noticed that you loosened up when you started talking more about yourself, but you felt a little bit more rigid just with her in general.
Did you feel rigid?
Yeah, I might be, you know, a little nervous.
I get that.
I can tell too.
You're a bit nervous.
I can tell.
Yeah, I totally get that.
Understandable.
And do you feel that way on most first dates?
Yeah.
Like if you haven't really known this person, maybe just like, hey, you want to meet tonight or tomorrow?
We have a quick intermission here with someone who wants to say something.
What are you saying?
Oh, you're saying it right now?
Okay.
Derek Myron?
Durag Myron ranted from Rumble and says actual NPC chatting LMAO. He's saying that you're NPC just because you're talking kind of like robotic in a way.
Sorry, go ahead.
Oh, I feel that.
Okay, okay.
So you feel it.
Yes, you understand it.
And then, yeah, just a piece of advice, you know...
Women, of course, love to be asked questions, you know?
Like, who doesn't, you know?
And so it's like when something like about like the six kittens, like, hey, so remember you're doing the six kittens, like, you know, like, what's that like?
Like, that must be like, what are you up all night?
Is it like six babies?
Like, you know, like, ask a little bit more information-seeking questions, because then you're like, oh, wow, he's taking intention and actually cares.
Yeah.
So listen, listen, this is from me to you as a guy, because, bro, it's tough out here, bro.
Dating, not being nervous, being on point is hard as hell, especially when she's cute, you know what I'm saying?
She's pretty cute.
So...
She is pretty cute.
So Dylan, very simple.
You know what I do on dates?
I barely talk.
Well, for one, I stutter sometimes, but it's because I don't want to give too much out of the bag, you know?
So what I do is ask questions, very deliberate questions.
I'll answer.
I respond basically like...
Tell me more.
Really?
No way.
You have cats?
Seven?
That's crazy.
Why'd you do that?
You want to give some enthusiasm with answers to questions?
Make it more fun.
You're kind of like monotone, kind of like chill, which is fine.
But on the first thing, you need to be there present with enthusiasm.
That's what I'm saying.
First impressions going so far.
And if you're nervous, just ask questions.
Keep it off of you.
Keep it on her.
Now, Emily, for you, real quick.
How was that first experience?
And tell him the truth.
Don't lie to him.
Don't hold back.
Transparent.
It was pretty awkward, which I feel like I have a lot of, like, grace for that.
I think it makes sense that people are normal on dates, and I also, like, think that it is harder for the man to actually, like, guide the conversation.
So...
Yeah, I don't feel like judgment at all towards you, but I definitely did feel like some awkwardness.
And like, I mean exactly what he was saying, like, if you ask me a question, I'll ask you a question back.
It could be a great little thing.
Let it flow.
So right now, this is the last question from me.
Emily, would you go on a second date with Dylan?
I think I would because I feel like a lot of like the awkwardness was just nerves, you know?
So I think it's worth like getting to know someone, you know, like giving them another chance if you just think that there's nerves there.
Yeah, I like that.
Dylan, how do you think you did?
Based on what you said, I did horrible.
I wouldn't say horrible.
It's because, one, there's chemistry, for one.
But two, it's like, as a guy, we have this, I want to say, fear of rejection.
And we manifest in different ways.
It could be, for example, stuttering.
It could be, for example, talking slower.
But you're a guy that's well put together.
You know, you're definitely in shape.
So I think your confidence just needs to be there to match that, you know, physique.
And then from there, you got it, bro.
You got it, man.
All right.
100%.
Thank you, guys.
Yeah, thank you.
Emily, I think you're trying to be nice here.
So I'll keep you in the runnings just in case you want to go to somebody else.
But good job, guys.
Good job, guys.
Thank you.
She's like, we're friends, though.
No, he did it awesome.
Oh, geez.
Okay, who's next?
Who's next?
I ain't gonna lie fresh.
I saw that too, bro.
Yeah, yeah.
She being nice, man.
That white girl nice.
But it's okay.
You know, like I said before, this is very, very, very intensive because you're on camera and it's like a first date.
It's gonna be tough, you know?
Especially on one of the biggest platforms, bro.
Anyone would be nervous.
Absolutely.
I'm telling you, man.
Fresh and fit.
Let's go!
Oh, God.
Okay.
Welcome back, guys.
This is the date segment of the show.
We got Eddie and we got Erica.
Now, granted, Eddie, you're the man.
Yeah.
Date, time, place, where it's going to be.
Candlelight dinner, if you want to, as well as candles right here.
And Erica, you're just going to follow suit.
And we'll do five minutes on the clock.
Let her rip.
Can I ask a question before we start?
Of course not.
No, I'm just kidding.
Go ahead.
I'm curious.
Is height an issue for you?
Oh, is height an issue for you?
No.
No?
Wait, how tall are you?
I'm 5'7".
How tall are you?
5'6".
Could you stand up real quick?
Both of you?
Yo, chat!
Is she way taller than him, or is it comparable?
It's not too far off, right?
No.
I think it can work.
Totally.
Put some Jordans on.
Yeah, with some Jordans on.
Here's the secret.
McQueen's.
McQueen's give you that extra height.
Don't ask me how I know.
Wink wink.
But what if she wears heels though?
Fresh, how you know?
Nigga, I be wearing them shits.
Come on, man.
Oh, okay.
If she wears heels, I'll throw this Tim's on.
Ah, okay, okay.
There you go.
There you go.
There's a woman who's confident in her skin that says, yeah, I don't need this, like, this whole illusion that, like, they've got to be so tolerant of me for me to feel safe and secure.
No, she doesn't need that.
I'll tell you this.
A shorter man is closer to what?
the cooch We're gonna start this bad boy Five minutes on the clock.
Let's go!
Alright, so, date idea.
Thing is, we're both from the Midwest.
There's not a lot to do.
So for me being out here, I'm not big on the Miami, take someone to an expensive dinner and do all this stuff.
I actually want to get to know someone.
So it's like, let's go out, we'll get coffee, we'll walk around, we'll get to know each other.
You kind of tell me more about you.
We'll have things in common.
Obviously, Midwest, we'll have a lot of things in common.
But I'm not trying to show out on the first date.
That's definitely not me.
Especially being new.
So that's a good setup.
But what are you taking here?
What time is it?
And I imagine you're there in real time.
Let's go.
Alright.
We're out.
I'll pick you up.
We'll go get some coffee.
We'll walk around.
How about we go to South Beach?
We'll walk on the beach.
Get to know each other.
Talk.
Sit down.
Look at the ocean.
So coffee's in hand.
Really get to know each other.
Yeah.
I feel like coffee's like, you know, I don't want to like chug some tequila, you know?
Coffee's in hand.
Sitting on the beach.
Yeah.
Go.
Okay, what's your coffee order?
I actually get made fun of for this, but I love a good lavender latte.
I'm not going to lie to you.
I get a lot of heat for that from my boys, but yeah.
Sorry, I'm messing with you.
I'm not like a black coffee drinker.
I'll take that right now.
Do you know my coffee order, bro?
What is it?
Black coffee.
Black coffee.
Cookie crumble.
Frappuccino.
Cookie crumble.
I'll tell you what, man.
A real man drinks what he wants to drink.
Sorry, what's your coffee order?
Get him fresh!
I'm kind of the same, actually.
I love the lavender omelette latte.
Oh!
Oh!
But a few things in common.
Okay.
Alright, so we're going to drink some lavender latte.
We're going to sit on the beach.
We're going to talk about...
You.
Because I'm big on getting to know somebody.
I don't want to really talk about myself.
I've done a lot in my life, but I want to get to know the person I'm on a date with.
I hate going on a date and somebody's just constantly talking about themselves.
I want to actually interact, go back and forth, get to know each other.
I don't know about you, but if you go on a date and somebody's talking about themselves the whole time, for me at least, I'm going to sit there and be like, I don't want this date to continue.
I kind of want to leave.
Alright, so start asking.
Okay, so imagine we're not here.
You guys are on a date.
Let's go.
Alright, so what brings you to Miami?
The weather was number one for me, and then obviously working in events, it's a great place for that, so Miami was kind of a no-brainer.
Okay.
What about you?
Okay, on my side, like, in Iowa, like...
No offense to people in the Midwest, but working out isn't big there.
People will kind of just be like, oh yeah, I'm cool, I'm content with life, we're good.
But for me, I played college football.
I wasn't good, don't get it twisted.
But...
I was big on, like, fitness and, like, working out and stuff like that, so I think, like, that's really important in a lifestyle.
If somebody is consistently going to the gym and dedicating to themselves, I feel like that shows a lot about a person because if somebody's dedicating to themselves, it probably means they have a clean household.
They probably really, like, take things, like, they'll make a checklist of things they gotta get done.
I don't like being around people that are messy or don't want to get things done.
Proactive people are like, oh yeah, I got this thing I gotta do, but I'm gonna do it next week.
Let's do that.
It's like, no, let's get what we need to get done now.
So then, in a week from now, you're free.
And then we can go on that second date, third date, keep going, kind of thing.
You don't want someone that's messy.
Agreed with that.
Perfect.
So, are you messy?
Like, I'm curious.
No.
Oh, hello.
Sorry.
No, I'm not a messy person.
I like my place very clean.
Alright.
Are you a cat or a dog person?
I feel like that shows a lot about a person.
It depends, honestly.
So, when I lived in Michigan and I had a backyard, I had pit bulls.
I loved it so much.
I have a very special place in my heart for my cat who passed away but he was a sphinx cat so they're like very sociable he would always greet me at the door he loved going out like he would do beach walks and coffee shops and everything like that so I like him but he was a very different type of cat what about you?
So I actually had a dog, and then I started traveling, and I realized that my dog had motion sickness, so I couldn't really bring my dog with me, so it's sad, but I try and see her as often as I can.
Her name's Bashful.
I love you, Bashful.
Anyways, but something that is important to me is, like, fitness.
Like I said, I'm a personal trainer.
I love being in the gym.
Is that something that's important to you, or do you kind of put it on the back burner, like?
I wouldn't say backburner, but it's not.
So I try to do like Pilates and yoga.
I like very slow.
I don't like very high intensity.
I like very calm movement.
So I would say more yoga, Pilates, everything like that.
And I try to do that three times a week or so.
But I wouldn't say I'm in the gym six times a week.
Nothing like that.
That's good though.
I mean, for me at least, I always like to switch it up.
I like to try new things, so I would be open to trying a Pilates class.
I don't know if a lot of guys are open to that, but I'll always do something to just try and find common ground.
I want to be able to like, all right, if we have this in common, we both like this, let's keep doing that.
Because then it kind of keeps the relationship going.
You can grow from there and get to know each other more.
Yeah, and I also think it's healthy to have separate things, too.
Oh, for sure.
Yeah.
I'm definitely the type of guy where it's like, I don't want your life to change because you met me.
I want you to have your life, do what you have to do, and then whenever it's our time, we'll have our time together.
I'm not big on text me and call me wherever you're at.
No, I'm not on that, no.
Okay, that is time.
Okay, so Eddie and Erica, that was your first date.
I want you to tell me, Erica, would you go on another date with Eddie?
Be honest.
No, no, no.
Be brutally honest.
Brutally honest?
And if you say yes, why?
No, why?
I would say yes if it wasn't coffee.
Okay.
So you want tequila shots?
Alright, that's fair.
And Eddie, would you take her on a second date?
For sure, yeah.
I think we can definitely keep finding more common ground.
She seems cool.
So this was a very chill date.
Yeah, the first date has to be chill.
Tell me what you think went wrong, and then what went right.
And we'll start with Erica.
Okay, so I don't mind a coffee date for the first date, I'll be very honest.
But sometimes it can feel just a little lack of intention, I guess.
But for a first date, I'd be willing to give it a try and see how it went.
But for a second date, I need a little more than coffee.
Okay.
Heidi?
I wouldn't say there's anything bad.
I'd say, you know, we do have a lot in common.
There's a lot of things that we agree on, so I would definitely be down for another day for sure.
Cool.
Cool.
Okay.
Thank you, guys.
Thank you.
Appreciate that.
Thank you.
MK, thoughts on this real quick.
So, yeah, I know that Eddie, I felt nervousness, you know, from him.
And I get it.
Like, this is a fake scenario, you know.
But yeah, the questions seem forced.
And it's funny because you're saying, you know, I love talking about them and ask them questions.
And then he just started talking about himself.
Did you notice that?
Yes.
I think I did it pretty good as well.
I just wish it was more like, I want to say again, enthusiasm with questions, more like banter back and forth.
Because the problem is, if you're just talking, conversating regularly, it's okay, but there's no energy behind it.
Yeah, for sure.
It's not going to go anywhere.
Versus, there's intent energy behind each question and answer.
Like, really?
Wow, that's amazing.
You're really cute, by the way.
Nice smile.
You're putting attention behind everything you say, so there's a result.
This was no result here.
Dating is all energy.
It's all energy.
So you've got to put in the energy for people to feel it.
It's a give and take.
But I will say this, though.
I thought that was honest.
They said, I will do a second date.
I believe her.
I think that was genuine on the second date.
Hear me out, because there wasn't any spark.
There wasn't a big spark.
But they did have common ground compatibility.
And guys, that's enough.
That should suffice it.
That should be enough for a second date.
Screw the chemistry, as I say.
That will build.
Think about this, though.
I think this girl here didn't like the coffee day at all.
No, he didn't.
She wanted to go out on a town, have a great time.
So that right there might have turned her off.
I don't know if it was like the happy, you know, got to be whatever, like, smith and woolen.
She's like, I don't think you got to put out all the tricks.
But yeah, I think she needed, like, she associated intention and effort by doing something more.
And that's, most girls, they're like, you know what, if it's a coffee day, I don't know.
But if it's going out, having fun on town...
They want to go.
What about a lunch day anyways?
We're just saying.
Okay, so the segment is going to be the last date here.
Well, sorry, your first date actually.
You decide where you want to take her.
Time, place, venue.
And you're going for the ride.
Are you ready?
Yeah, I'm ready.
First date, though?
That's the question?
First date?
First date?
You're going to tell us, everyone, the date, the place, the time, and then you're going to act it out in real time on that date with her.
Alright, alright.
And if you want to leave at any point, just hit the red button.
And vice versa.
Okay.
That's the acting part.
Yeah.
So imagine we're not here.
No, we're not here.
Okay, okay.
It's midnight in black.
So I'll say, look...
All right.
All right.
Don't ignore that one.
So let's say, all right, it's about seven o'clock.
We done met up.
Slink in a row.
Yo, I'm in the drop top.
I ain't trying to get copyrighted right now, but anyway.
So yeah, it's about 7 o'clock.
We're in Lincoln Road, right?
We're getting some ice cream.
Something simple is the first date.
Because the conversation is what's important.
You feel me?
Then out of nowhere, pow!
Pull up that Sephora, you feel me?
Unlimited credit, you heard me?
I said, unlimited budget, you can have that.
Whatever it is, you want.
Right, right, right.
And then at the end of the day, We put both our emails, right?
So she could get that free gift on my birthday.
What's up?
Just for you, baby.
Just for you.
Just for you.
Period.
I'm kissing on the first day.
That's cause we can't kiss.
I'm trying to get that kiss right there.
That's a smart man.
That's a smart man right there.
He knows what he's doing.
That email was a good tip, brother.
I got a bunch of those.
We gotta win the prize!
Do we even need his date right now?
Not really.
I can laugh my way into something.
Save some girls for the rest of us, man!
Listen, man, that was impressive.
Appreciate y'all.
I'm just feeding off the energy, that's all.
Oh my goodness.
That's hilarious.
That was real spontaneous because I just made it up right now.
We've got somebody commenting right now.
I think he finds you very amusing.
What do you say?
500 bucks!
Shout out to you, bro!
That boy wanna be heard!
There we go!
Shout out to you, man!
Lincoln on ranted from Rumble and says, I'll say it right now.
Boy is a FK an idiot.
If you ain't never had a girl, just say that, my boy.
You didn't see her reaction when I said the email?
Forget the unlimited budget.
That was just to get her in the Sephora.
When I got her in the Sephora, I said, put my email.
She was down.
You tripping.
You paid $400 just to look stupid on the comments.
Like, come on, man.
She's smiling at the end of the day.
That's all I'm saying.
It's definitely smooth.
Okay.
Honestly, MK, I think this is good.
I like it.
I like it.
How are you feeling, Crystal?
I love it.
He's so cute.
Is that a French match?
Is that a French match?
Listen, we're good for the audience here because this is very good what you did, Jose.
But before we get to that point, Crystal, could you tell me From your experience, just this one interaction right here.
What'd you get from it?
And is it good?
Yeah, I think he really paid attention to detail.
I love makeup.
So, suggesting Sephora on the first date was a really good play.
I love men who pay attention to detail.
And yeah, he's super cute.
He's super sweet.
I love it.
It's a 10 in my book.
Wait, wait, wait.
I just have one question.
Don't hit that buzzer, though.
No, no.
I'm not going to hit the monster, but I have one question.
Do you believe in Jesus?
Of course.
Of course.
I just went to a couple churches.
I'm looking for them.
I believe them.
I believe them.
Work to the silk god himself, you know?
I like that.
I love that.
Hey, yo, Jose, man, thanks again for donating to the non-profit organization.
Thank you, Jose.
That's what I do.
I'm mad of honor.
That's what I do, man.
Shout out to you, bro.
God, you feel me?
Church of Christ, that's what I'm saying.
Amen.
Jesus.
Okay, thank you for that.
That was great.
You guys can head out.
Awesome.
That's a fresh match, man.
That's a fresh match.
I loved it.
That was the freshest match I've ever seen, bro.
Yeah.
So, yeah, that boy killed it.
No, I'm serious, man.
I want to say the same thing.
That boy killed it.
Like, take out your notes.
Like, he's doing really well.
Hey, I'll tell you this, man.
They go to church on...
Sorry, they go to party on Saturday, go to church on Sunday.
Anyway.
So, listen.
Listen.
She looked like she's already got pregnant.
What was that interaction, you think, just now?
Was that even in most guys' wheelhouse to, like, do that, what he just did?
Well, first of all, wait, you think you'd legitimately do the whole credit card thing and support?
No, no, no.
I'm just saying, him even just saying that in his, like, funny demeanor won her over.
Oh, 100%.
Like, he was already, and it was passed from the first interaction.
Locked and loaded.
Like, I mean, do you see how much she was smiling?
You know, and he read off that.
Imagine if she was a wall.
Yes.
I don't think he would have taken it the same way.
Yes.
But he was going with her energy.
Energy between the two of them, fire.
So see, here's something that people don't understand about dating as well.
When it comes to men and women and having that actual desire and attraction, you say certain things to get a reaction.
When a reaction is given from that individual to you and you respond to that in a certain way, it kind of grows that attraction even further.
So...
That being said, him saying the shopping and the email stuff was funny, but her hearing that made her in the zone.
Her hearing that was like, wow, this guy's like, got money on point.
He's funny.
He's charming.
I'm down for it.
And she even said, I don't kiss on the first date, but she'll do what?
Kiss him.
Which tells me, again, as we know on the show, women make rules for guys that they find attractive and alpha, so to speak.
Mm-hmm.
Screw the rules.
You make your own rules between the people.
How can I apply a rule with this guy?
It's going to be a different rule with that guy.
But also, we talked about her comfort level, but with that said, trust goes up.
She feels safe with him.
She was laughing multiple times.
Oh, I feel so safe.
I'm willing to break one of my own rules.
And I have a feeling that she makes more than him, but his confidence is on point.
She doesn't need like she's out.
You're like...
But hold on.
MK, we had a couple last time.
Can you give us an update on the couple?
The girl in the red.
I forgot her name.
Yeah.
Nexus.
Nexus.
And then the guy.
What's his name again?
Demarius.
Thank you.
Thank you.
Darius.
And Nexus.
The black guy and the Venezuelan girl.
Oh.
Yeah.
Yeah.
They went out on a date after last week's episode.
And that's not the only couple that has gone on a date outside of Fresh and Fit.
No, there's been another couple the previous week that went out drinks and a show.
Yeah, so no, we'll be doing, at some point, guys, we'll be doing a show on the update of the couples who are out here.
We're in the reunion of people that have been on the show that are dating currently or dating in the past.
But this is a good episode.
This is great.
This is awesome.
And people, look, chat, I understand, you know, you might not like the format of this show, but this is not for you if you don't like it.
This is for people that want to find love, understand dating dynamics, and if you don't get it, it's fine.
Maybe watch a late night show with the girls that want you to get roasted.
But it's not a kind of show.
This is more for you to learn from, interactions, see in real time where people actually operate, and also understand that life is not about black and white.
There's some great areas here in between.
You need to learn as a man and a woman.
Amen.
Amen.
No, and I will say, yeah, this is for the person who wants to up their game.
If you're for the person and you're not getting on dates, there's a reason why.
Tune into this show, you're going to learn something.
And you want to have both perspectives, man and woman.
You got some chats here?
Yes, we do.
Cool.
Direct Myron says, niggas that complain about $17 shouldn't even be in the chat talking shit.
Laugh my ass off.
Like, bruh, you got bigger problems if $17 is too much.
I agree.
Granted, I want to say this for myself as well and for the chat.
If you don't want to pay, bro, I understand completely.
It is fine.
You don't have to.
But if you support us, you support Rumble, you support other creators in the space that do this type of content, I understand it helps us go a long way.
And yes, the money you donate to this actual local Castle Club goes a long way helping us do events and give you guys back as well.
And we're doing a giveaway as well after this show.
$500 to five people in Castle Club only.
Chris A. King says...
Whatever happened to the part two with all the tall, sexy, luscious, 1.6 shoulder waist to ratio, European man, I mean, Menno Henselman, it turned into a credit card episode.
Oh, so he wants to know about the episode with Menno.
So we're doing that collab again, part two.
Not yet, of course, because he's traveling and stuff like that, but once he's down and he's more concrete, we'll do that for sure for you guys.
We got you.
977 says simp card.
What?
Okay, so, hold on.
Hold on, hold on.
My switch.
Real quick.
When it comes to being a simp, people misunderstand what that actually means.
When you're out here dating in the real world, you might understand what that actually means, okay?
I'll just say that part.
Go ahead.
Oh, I mean, we're about to end, though.
Catcho says, just on Castle Club, shout out to you.
WFNF, can't wait for meetups and interact with the community.
Yeah, oh, guys, by the way, we're doing free meetups in the community there as well, but we're doing some actual big ones with some celebrities coming into town, but you're only going to see them in Castle Club, not on the actual stream, because they can't be, you know, on the stream because, you know, sponsors a lot of stuff, but it's fine.
What's next?
Mighty77 says, this guy needs this shirt.
Ah, man.
Which guy?
I think he means...
Jose's a nice guy, though.
Yeah, man.
Yeah, I don't know.
I think I'm a little jealous of his game.
He means either Eddie or Jose.
I think he meant me, Eddie.
Maybe.
Question for the lady.
How are you still single?
I think the 31-year-old.
Oh, yeah.
That's what I asked earlier, right?
Yeah.
Daydream says, Zesty Boy definitely played both sides of the field.
Oh, I think his hand movements were kind of like out there.
That's probably what he's talking about.
I mean, that boy got some swag, man.
Yeah, man.
He says, I should have seen this coming.
Yo, cat lady!
I think he meant the girl.
Yeah.
Broke is complaining about the paywall.
Yo, lower your fucking voice.
Yeah, man.
I mean...
Yeah, look at the whole thing.
Teller says, so did you want to deposit the whole three dollars?
Me.
Your effing voice, bro.
It's showtime.
I was OG Castle Club member.
I reached out with a discount.
Will I be able to get into the sweepstakes?
Yes, you can, brother.
Just hit up Mo, because Mo would know for sure.
Yeah.
And I think I remember seeing you in the chat as well, so shout out to you.
Joshua Dunn again says, deleted Netflix sub to join Castle Club.
WFNF, L-SYOPs, L-Liberals, W-Free Speech.
Shout out to you, bro.
Hold on, bro, real quick.
Just so you guys understand, we are not Netflix.
We're not Hulu.
We're not a platform that is only videos.
We're doing actual Zoom calls, question and answer.
We're bringing in guests.
We're doing meetups.
We're doing brotherhood.
We're doing things that are not...
You can't pay for that really anywhere else.
So it's not the same thing as a subscription-based service, okay?
It's actually going to help you move forward in life, in real life, and as well online.
So it's way more than just a sub to Netflix.
Okay.
Damien says, just join at these broke people.
I've done awesome in crypto and credit card points since finding you exactly a year ago.
Thank you.
Mo, how did we join this Discord?
Don't have Instagram to DM you.
If you have a Discord account, you can find me on Discord as well.
So just DM me if you're on the free Discord.
What is it?
As BigMo underscore B-I-T-W. Okay.
Let's do it.
We have Jus.
Haters would prefer to support Korn, OnlyFans, behind the paywall, but not support people that help us thrive.
I mean, bro, that is the most...
Craziest thing I've seen as well.
And it's funny, they'll donate and support those girls after the show, but talk about supporting us and you're like, oh, it's too much.
Okay, buddy, you got it.
We have here, Joseph Cenarius says, WFNF guys, the world needs people helping men to stop being Honestly, bro, I would put it into actually getting more skills in your endeavor.
Or, for example, I'd invest into maybe, if you can, real estate.
So, I mean, it's a lower amount, but build up a little bit more and get to real estate as well.
Anymore?
SauceGodFPS says, please put this segment behind a paywall.
We don't want it.
Listen, brother.
It's going to be free for people to learn.
If you don't like it, don't watch it.
It's simple.
There's a lot of gems in here, though.
A bunch of gems.
But again, if you're paying attention, you'll find it.
If not, it's not for you.
But in any case, Mary-Kate, where can they find you?
What's new for you?
And let's close out.
Yeah, guys, all the single men out there, you need to come this Friday.
You're invited to Successful Singles.
So if you're looking for love, you're serious about it, you want to get behind, I mean, get away from the apps and actually meet people in real time, then come this Friday, mkmatchmaking.com.
You can purchase your tickets.
Men right now are half off.
That's right, men.
It's in your favor because there are a lot more ladies coming, okay?
Okay.
There you go.
Yeah, come on.
It's a deal you cannot pass up.
MKMatchmaking TikTok, MKMatchmaking YouTube, MKMatchmaking Instagram, and get your best practical dating and relationship tips.
Link down below.
And I want to thank the team as well.
Shout out to Icy, MK herself, for bringing the girls.
Icy, come on, real quick.
Yeah!
Get here, girl.
Icy!
She's putting a lot into the podcast as well.
She recommended The Buttons, which I saw in an actual episode.
Yes!
Shout out to her with The Buttons.
Good job on that.
And yeah, man, this is a great show.
I think people need to understand that it can't always be bad talk about certain things.
It needs to be a positive, good light sometimes.
And you know what?
A change of pace.
Of course.
And not even that, you guys, like, genuinely, I'm gonna say this.
I have over 44 ideas that me and the Discord done came over for Castle Club.
So, Castle Club, get ready, because we got some shit for you guys.
Let's go!
We've been doing this for three years, Fresh.
The After Hours with Myron and all of that.
It's time to change it up.
Let's have some fun.
I agree.
You know what I mean?
This is light.
By the way, I love how y'all love my cousin.
So shout out to Jose.
That's what I'm saying.
That's what I'm saying.
Down the wall.
That's what I'm saying.
There you go.
That's why.
We're out of the family.
Right?
Nah, let me stop.
And shout out to her new teeth, by the way.
Thank you, daddy.
So yeah, enjoy the show, you guys.
We're really putting in a lot of work behind this.
I'm hoping to recruit.
Mary Kay's doing a very great job.
And, you know, enjoy the show, you guys.
Alright guys, so we have Adrian Ross and Charleston White later tonight on After Hours, and we'll see you guys there.
But guys, don't forget, Castle Club membership, it ends literally tomorrow morning.
$17 is the price right now.
It's going to go to $35.
Get it now while you still can.
It's a low price, and you're locked in for that for life.
But I understand, once it goes up guys, you see the value, I'll be sorry that you didn't sign up sooner.
I'm telling you guys.
Alright, later guys.
Peace!
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