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	Thank you.
	What's up, guys?
	Welcome to the Friendship Podcast.
	It's a Friday show.
	We got a bunch of special guests now.
	Let's get into it.
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	What's up, guys?
	Welcome to Freshly Podcast, regular edition.
	We're here with three special guests, Mike Sartain, Wes Watson, and Rolo Tomasi.
	Today, we're going to be talking about a couple different things, including getting your mindset on point, because, you know, we haven't had a Money Monday in a bit, so we got three guys in the house that know a little bit about, you know, getting your mindset to make some money.
	But before we get into that, rumble.com slash freshfit.
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	And we're going to go ahead and give you guys a Zoom link in there to join in and ask some questions and be able to get your questions answered from three very successful individuals, whether it's Mindset with Women, Making Money, Running a Social Circle game, whatever it is.
	And we're doing a giveaway on Castle Club, $1,000 to two winners.
	So we're going to break it down, five hundred each, two winners at Castle Club.
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	We got you guys, 100%.
	Yeah, guys, we're going to be posting a lot more on there, and it's going to get to a point where we're probably going to start putting a good amount of our content back there as well, guys.
	I mean, if you guys want us to stay independent, stay free, not to worry about censorship and everything else that's going on, because you guys already know censorship is real, especially in election year.
	Yeah.
	Some of the cons are going to be moving over to Castle Club, but we're going to give you guys a good amount of time, and we're going to give you guys discounts and everything else like that so everyone can go ahead and join in.
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	No pun intended.
	How do you like your coffee, brother?
	I like my coffee black like I like my metal.
	I mean, I've been drinking black coffee since the penitentiary.
	Strolling the track with that Folgers black.
	I like my coffee like I like my women, with a spoon in them.
	There you go.
	Fantastic.
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	But guys, without further ado, give us your intro, who you are.
	Raul Tomasi, author of The Rational Mail and the five-book series, Rational Mail.
	Also co-host of Access Vegas with Mr.
	Sartain.
	I mean, everybody knows Wes motherfucking Watson.
	I mean, I built my YouTube channel fresh out of the penitentiary.
	Yeah, 500,000 subs.
	But what's more important than that, how many people I've helped by just not being a soft advocate.
	Badass bitch like half the people in the comments who swear the fuck they could ever fuck with a motherfucker in person because they're badass keyboard horror motherfuckers.
	Let's go!
	Alright!
	Hey, I'm Michael Sartain and I haven't shaved my arms yet.
	I'm working on that.
	I'm going to do that here in a little bit.
	I haven't cut my hair yet either, sorry.
	I'm a former US Air Force captain, did counterintelligence for a while, flew a KC-135 as a navigator, and I have a very, very offensive evolutionary psychology podcast along with a male performance coaching program.
	Offensive, we love that word.
	Yes.
	And today we're gonna discuss developing a winner's mindset.
	So, I believe the guests here are well capable of giving that advice, and Wes, I'll let you lead off with that point.
	I mean, I started at the lowest of the low, and that's what motherfuckers need to realize.
	Who are you on your worst day?
	Who the fuck are you when shit's not going your way?
	There's so many cupcakes out here that don't realize their life is so comfortable, so fucking easy, that they're whining about not getting their way.
	They're not facing true adversity.
	So in the penitentiary, you have real adversity.
	Some people out there in America or around the world right now are actually facing problems.
	But most of these motherfuckers are really just not getting their way.
	They're crying about not getting their way.
	And that's the biggest fucking crock of shit ever because when you get your way, you start to get weak.
	And my whole thing is I've lived a life purposely from penitentiary till I exited to the street that was based off of hard daily tasks that I didn't want to do so that every day I made myself proud.
	Everything I do each day is very difficult.
	I wake up at 2.45.
	I'm at the gym by 4 a.m.
	I eat a certain way.
	And I mean, I stay away from the drugs and alcohol and the vices.
	So I mean, these are all the things that will break you.
	And if anybody's listening, if you want to start somewhere, drop the drugs, drop the alcohol and realize that's where you start.
	That's where everything begins.
	And then you start to really listen to your conscience and go within and say, like, what needs to change in me?
	Everybody thinks they're so fucking intelligent, but the true side of intelligence is a man's ability to change and stay that way.
	Well said.
	No, I have a question.
	You told me once in prison you read Marcus Aurelius.
	I think a lot of people have a misunderstanding of what stoicism is.
	Can you express how you use it?
	I mean, I literally just stayed fucking...
	I stayed so disciplined.
	Who the fuck's gonna come out of prison?
	Like, not even have live this life that everyone's living out here and make as much money as I did and rise to where I'm at today and still never break.
	I made a commitment to myself and the commitment was deeper than anything.
	So everyone really worries about how I react and I speak.
	What about in the morning when you don't get up and your bitch ass lays back down?
	What about all you pussies who literally think you're going to kill it in the gym and you quit after two months?
	What about everybody who starts a business and doesn't follow through on their business plan?
	The whole thing is, I don't give a fuck about how I feel, I get it done anyways.
	So being stoic means you don't care about your feelings, you'll get the work done anyways.
	And I mean, it's the easiest way to measure who someone is.
	When it comes down to it, the work that needs to be done, do they get it done or not?
	Well said.
	Cool.
	I always read these kind of, I don't want to call them self-help, but if I like, what's the guy that wrote Unscripted?
	I forget the guy.
	Who did it?
	Marco?
	Yeah, Marco.
	So I'll read stuff like that, or I'll read these guys who are like, they'll say, okay, I've got like 12 tips for, you know, to live a better life, right?
	Was it a unscripted, you know, like how to go from like nothing to everything?
	And usually it starts off with sort of this Batman origin stories.
	Like, you know, I was born a poor black child in the inner city and suddenly, you know, if I can do it, you can do it too.
	I don't have that story, okay?
	And I think that that's probably a little bit more realistic place to start right now.
	I'm not saying that, you know, not to take anything away from guys who like have actually had...
	Overcome adversity, but I think a vast majority of guys, they're just regular dudes, right?
	They grew up in suburban America or something like that.
	But those guys are the ones who are sedating themselves.
	Those are the guys who are still kind of half asleep, right?
	And it took me a while to sort of sort that out for myself because I mean, I had just a pretty average life.
	I didn't have some sort of...
	I didn't go to prison.
	I was never in any kind of real trouble in my life.
	But it was just sort of coming out of the doldrums, right?
	It's coming out of that sedation.
	And I've said on this show several times, the first place you want to start, if you want to read all these self-help things, if you want to get all this sort of positivity mojo thing going on for yourself, the best thing you can do is stop sedating yourself.
	And that's the number one problem I think I see with most young guys, especially the latter half of the millennials and most of Gen Z right now, is they sedate themselves with pornography, they sedate themselves with alcohol, with prescription opioids, weed.
	The moment weed became legal in states and everything, it's like the productivity and everybody is listless and lazy and they don't want to do anything.
	Like Wes here, it's like, I don't drink.
	I used to work in Wine and Spirits.
	I used to, before I did, before I became Rola Tomasi, that's all I did.
	I was working in liquor, in the liquor business for a long time.
	And I've seen guys go from, like, being very productive people to being very, like, just listless, lazy, and just, you know, go downhill.
	And it was right around the time I was writing my fourth book, Religion, I said, you know what, I'm going to stop drinking until I finish this book.
	And because I was more productive as a writer, I was more...
	I never had a DUI. I never had any problem with it.
	It's just that I wanted to be more productive and I couldn't do that if I was drinking on a Friday and then recovering on a Saturday and then trying to pick myself up on a Sunday again.
	It was just not pragmatic to do it anymore.
	It just made sense not to do shits like that.
	And that's what taught me Like, leaving these sedations and leaving, like, if you have a, if you're shitty, if your online life is, you know, your escape life, whether it's video games or whatever it is, if your escape, living that escape life is better than your shitty life, you got a problem.
	That's when you have to sort of make a decision whether you want to live in the real world or you want to live in this sedation world.
	And so...
	I said, you know what, I'm gonna stop drinking until I'm done with this book, and then three years later, because it took me a long time to write the book, you know, I thought, okay, well I'll just, you know, then I'll celebrate with a drink or something like that, and I got to three years, and I'm like, I don't want to.
	I just simply don't want to do it anymore.
	So you mentioned vices that we all have as men.
	You mentioned the P word, you mentioned drinking, weed, and us as men, we have this issue all the time because we're here in the world, things are gonna happen.
	How do you deal with vices growing up as a man?
	How do you get over vices?
	I think the first thing is recognizing that you have them and recognizing that they're a problem.
	And there's a concept that I learned from Robert Greene, the author of 48 Laws of Power.
	This isn't any of his books.
	It's from his interviews.
	And Robert Greene has this concept called live time and dead time.
	So if you're in your car commuting to work, that's dead time.
	If you are giving your time to an employer, that's dead time.
	Because you're not doing anything to grow.
	You're not doing anything to progress.
	It's a concept really, I think he mentions it a little bit in Mastery, in his book Mastery.
	And so what you need to do is you need to start looking at the times where you have the time that you can take that is live time.
	Meaning it's all you and you can do whatever you want to with it.
	Now, most people, they'll go play video games.
	They'll go smoke weed.
	They'll want to relax.
	They want to just get away from all the responsibilities that they have to do.
	Relax.
	Leisure time and then get back to work afterwards.
	And that's what the vast majority of people do.
	But that live time, that is the time that you have that can be the most productive, that's where you need to hunker down and that's where you need to focus on right there.
	So when you're in your live time, you're building something.
	You're building a brand.
	I don't care what it is.
	If you're an ideas guy, work on that idea.
	If you're an artist, if you're a musician, if you're an entrepreneur, that live time Once you start investing in that lifetime, that lifetime will help you get out of the dead time that you're in right now and that will help you transition out of being sort of this 9 to 5 wage slave into somebody that can actually focus on a brand and has time for themselves so that they can develop that into something greater than what they were before and then escape from that shitty life that they have into something better.
	Alright.
	I mean, there's just so much wrong with Robert Greene.
	Have you seen that fucking creep?
	He's had a stroke, that's why.
	Can you really make a thing about seducing women while having a picture like that?
	Pull up the seducing women.
	He's only got one book that's called The Art of Seduction, but everything else is not about that.
	It doesn't matter.
	I'm just saying, when someone writes a book, I turn it around and say, do I want to be like this motherfucker?
	And like, there is no way half the authors that people speak about I even want to be remotely like.
	So that was a big reason why I had to write a fucking book.
	And I probably sold more copies than some of these motherfuckers.
	Not Robert Greene though.
	But I'm just saying, I didn't read his book in prison.
	Robert Greene's book in prison is actually Contraband.
	You can't get 48 laws of power in prison.
	But the thing is, I think it's massively manipulative.
	I didn't manipulate anyone in prison.
	I inspired people to change.
	And I love when people disagree with me, because I did more than them already in six years, so they could suck my fucking dick.
	But I mean, the whole thing is, is like, the point is, is I need results.
	If I'm gonna follow a man, I need results.
	And why are so many people opting out of having a true result and saying it's because they didn't want it?
	You fucking liar.
	That's like half these people who talk shit on hot chicks in the comments and say, I don't like BBLs and fake tits.
	I like a natural girl.
	Yeah, your chick's real natural.
	And she's just sitting there all.
	You're like, yeah, there's your chick, homie.
	Chick's all natural next to her.
	All this shit's crazy.
	When everyone quits lying, they'll get somewhere.
	The only people I can really work with and be around are people who are not liars.
	They're like, I could be in better shape.
	I could be richer.
	I could be smarter with my financial decisions.
	I could be a little more calm, but I don't like that.
	I'm where I'm at because I've never had a job.
	I sold drugs my whole life.
	I went to prison and I came out and like I say, I ran shit in prison.
	I ran shit on the streets.
	I ran shit on the streets.
	I run shit everywhere I go.
	Before prison, I was a millionaire.
	In prison, I had more money than most of these motherfuckers.
	And out of prison, I'm murdering everybody in six years.
	They're not even close to me.
	I just parked $10 million worth of cars down the street and left them there with my two security guards just watching my damn cars.
	My day costs more than most of these people in the comments have in their bank accounts.
	But I mean, this is the whole thing.
	I don't care.
	When you get to my level of not caring, you won.
	Everybody said everything about me, they talked all this shit, they tried to do this, and the thing they will never do is break me.
	And that's what my boy Jato said the other day.
	He said it was in the book, Conversations with God.
	And it said, someone asked him, God, or someone asked someone else, when's the next man coming that's going to save us and speak for us?
	And God said, he's not.
	And he said, why not?
	He said, he fears the criticism.
	So everybody's afraid of really telling the truth.
	They're really afraid of coming out with what they know in their hearts true.
	And everybody knows in their heart that dudes should not have tits.
	Oh no.
	We're already there.
	I want to say this real quick.
	They do not have titties.
	It's just a thing.
	But I mean, hey, Michael, get them.
	So, just going back, the first question, when we talked about stoicism, and then the second question, when we talk about diversions, right?
	The sedations.
	The thing happens is, like, the further we get away from a survival scenario, where we were surviving as humans, like, say, 50,000 years ago, there was no time for porn, there was no time for...
	For fucking around.
	There was no time, any of this stuff.
	There's no time for video games.
	Everything was about survival.
	Everything aided you in survival.
	And when you, the human brain was built for that because the majority of our existence was a very, very rough, brutal existence up until about 8,000 years ago.
	And so now we're not evolved for it.
	So now, all of a sudden, we have...
	Violent men, violent industrious men have constructed huge cities that we've chiseled out these little safe areas where we can go on YouTube and talk shit.
	Like, seriously, like this would...
	Do you remember that video where Mike Tyson is beating the shit out of some dude on an airplane?
	I guarantee you that guy has made comments on YouTube and just forgot that in real life people hit you back.
	Because the human brain was not made to write things and then not face people.
	You remember we had Marquette on and Marquette was like, do you want to know why men are respectful to each other?
	Because we can go nuke on each other.
	Mutually assured destruction.
	And so you lose that part of your brain and then the other part is you are rewarded for accomplishing goals.
	And you have to accomplish those goals Because you have a wife and a family to take care of, and because you have a job you have to do.
	If you work in, let's say, law enforcement, construction, whatever, if you're sick, your wife leaves you, you still have to go to work.
	So we as men have a burden of performance, and we have to do that thing even if we don't fucking feel like it, which is stoicism, which is why I asked the question before, is the idea that even when it sucks, we still have to do that thing.
	Because the alternative that we have is to be weak and slow and dumb, Which is something that we're afforded now because we live in a softer society than our ancestors did.
	Well said.
	Yeah, going to the stoicism thing, I agree with Wes's interpretation of it.
	Stoicism is more along the lines of doing things when you don't feel like doing it, right?
	And having that masculine discipline to get it done regardless of how you feel.
	But for some odd reason, like, you know, YouTubers in the content creation world, like, oh, you got to practice stoicism, Myron.
	You need to, like, be less ranty and all this other shit.
	And in my head, I'm like, shut the fuck up.
	Because if I did, you'd be bored.
	You wouldn't watch.
	You'd be like, oh, this is not entertaining, etc.
	That's true.
	Yeah.
	The one thing I've learned about coaching men is you gotta inspire them, and you're not gonna inspire them by talking monotone like this, and I think you need to go to the gym and exercise and eat well, because if you don't, you're probably gonna be fat.
	So Myron, here's the difference.
	When you're passionate about, because I've seen you before get excited about improving men's lives, and we've had guys come on here, they've called me, they've called him, they've called you about not taking their own life.
	When you passionately respond to that, that's still stoic.
	Because you're motivated about accomplishing a goal.
	Again, when you express yourself in the gym by lifting more weight, you can still have energy towards accomplishing a goal.
	It's that you're not affected.
	The reason I'm a good coach and I help people is because if someone says that they're suicidal, they're going to take their own life.
	I tell people in my group all the time, if you died in front of me, I'd step on the back of your fucking head and walk over you into the gym and handle the rest of my fucking day.
	And that's the thing.
	Everyone's so fucking weak.
	They give a shit.
	Like, I don't remember that there was anything in my life that made me opt out of the work I had to do.
	It wouldn't matter if anyone in this room dropped dead.
	If I died, I want you guys to kill it tomorrow and not take one second out of your day.
	And that's the thing.
	I don't even want anybody To really be phased by what we think is the worst thing.
	People cry about their problems.
	Okay, who died?
	Who got life in prison?
	And even if those happen, who gives a fuck?
	Keep it going.
	Like, nobody's really ever lost that much.
	And the thing is, is like, they just think they're losing because like I said before, they haven't gained.
	Everything that someone would want.
	And in all reality, I'll still never opt out of the work because I know the work instills the worth.
	I won't have worth in these 24 hours if I don't put in the work I need to do in these 24 hours.
	Being in prison and shit gives you the mindset of just getting through today perfectly, getting through the next day perfectly.
	When you string together seven perfect days, you have a perfect week.
	When you string together perfect weeks and perfect months, you have a perfect year.
	When you do that for six years, you beat everybody around you.
	They're like, how'd you do that?
	I'm like, I just did the same day every day.
	I never took back steps and you did.
	And that's the thing.
	It's like, it's very simple.
	Everything we have to do is very simple, but everybody lacks personal development so much, they can't do the simple plan every day.
	And they think it's something so complex.
	I'm like, bro, if you saw how I run my business, you would laugh at how simple it is, and you guys will over-complicate it.
	Top people have to come to me to show them what they're doing wrong, because they learn from business guys.
	And business guys made it such a fucking problem.
	And I'm like, it's a personal brand.
	It's not a business.
	You have to run it differently.
	And they're just like, what?
	They don't understand it.
	And I pull away so much unneeded bullshit in their business, and they're actually profiting again.
	But I mean, fuck, bro.
	Everybody's got so much advice to give and so little results, and that's the problem with the internet and the world.
	So if anyone comes up to you, and they're not living the life you want, just tell them to shut the fuck up and get away.
	And there's not one person that will ever come up to me in person Face to face, and I will not tell them the truth.
	That is what I think all men should start doing, and women, so they don't feel so used, so walked over, so fucking resentful towards people that fucking wrong them.
	Like, call them on it.
	Don't hold that shit in, you know?
	And I was also gonna say, too, just to finish my thought, like, you know, they say, oh, broke the stool, so blah, blah, blah.
	There's a reason why when you're in the military and you're training for war, and you can speak to this, Mike, They're not sitting there saying, oh, well, you know, you should do some push-ups and we're going to go run for a few miles and we're going to come back.
	No, it's, hey, you fucking maggot, drop down and give me 50, etc.
	Why?
	Because men respond favorably a lot of the times to being yelled at and ridiculed because it makes you urgency and then also the need to compete, right?
	So, like, with men, you have to be brutally honest with them.
	And another thing, too, I've noticed with men versus women when they give criticism.
	Like, with men, if the criticism is coming from a valid source who is better than them or emulates something that that person wants to emulate, they look like something like that person wants to emulate just like what they're saying.
	I want to be able to look at this person and be able to respect them, et cetera.
	They will go ahead and respond favorably to that because it's one or two things.
	They say you could be either like the losers that I was on the Jubilee podcast with where they'll say, well, you know, shame doesn't work.
	And, you know, just tell me nicely.
	You could be a pussy and be a loser or be in that fucking camp.
	That was so hard to watch.
	Or you can respond favorably to it and be like, you know what?
	You're fucking right.
	I am a fat piece of shit and I need to lose weight and get my life together.
	And then the winners are going to rise.
	And then the losers are going to stay losers.
	And that's fine.
	We need winners and losers.
	I remember when you were defending Fresh and you got really heated in that.
	In fact, I did a whole response to that.
	Again!
	I mean, you broke the damn cup.
	You got the new cup.
	Yeah, I'm glad to see that's back.
	By the way, coffee, 7075.
	Yeah, there you go.
	I was going to say, when I was doing the breakdown of that video, when you were defending him, people were like, oh, he's so emotional.
	Look at him.
	He's losing his mind.
	He's frothing at the mouth.
	And every time I get a little bit impassioned about stuff that I talk about, especially when it comes down to the shit that's going on with the DHS and the NGOs and shit, I'm basically being fucking ratioed by the government right now.
	So if I get a little heated about that, it's not because I'm like, oh, here's the rational mail, you're supposed to be it.
	You don't get emotional.
	I'm not Mr.
	fucking Spock, man.
	If I think that there's a reason to emphasize certain points, I'm going to fucking emphasize those points.
	Makes it memorable.
	That's what Wes does.
	It emphasizes fucking points.
	When did that ever become a thing that a man was so good at debating?
	Motherfucker, I'll kick your teeth in, fool.
	What the fuck are you talking about?
	So the thing is, as far as Wes is concerned, it reminds me of this, I think it's a quote by Jerry Rice, who said, today I will do what others won't, so tomorrow I can do what others can't.
	And I think those are pretty good words to live by.
	Beautiful.
	So we spoke about, obviously, mindset, stoicism.
	What about staying motivated?
	A lot of people say, for example, okay, I want to be successful, but it's a journey you got to take.
	These motherfuckers, they act like they're straight family men and shit, and then they can't even look at their family and realize they're underperforming for their family.
	Like literally, how the fuck are you not trying to be a superhero for your fucking wife, your kids, or anyone?
	Even if you don't have a family.
	When I was in prison, it was my future family.
	It was the future that I wanted to step into.
	So I had to be this certain type of man when I came out.
	And I mean, that's what happens.
	It's just, you have a vision of what you need to fit.
	You can't think that you're going to just step into it when you get gifted the woman and gifted the situation.
	You have to become that guy way beforehand.
	And that's why a lot of these guys are failing.
	They don't realize the success equation is preparation meet an opportunity.
	There's plenty of opportunities on the internet.
	They just suck.
	So no one watches their content.
	There's plenty of women out there for them.
	They're just dumb and ugly motherfuckers.
	So no one fucks with them.
	So, I mean, and the whole pool of men, like, you pulled up in a shitty car, bro.
	You look like shit.
	Like, you're a dumbass.
	Like, what the fuck is this?
	You're not winning in the woman's game.
	Like, they're not going to choose you.
	Would you even choose you, motherfucker?
	Most of these guys would never choose them.
	And that's the thing.
	Like, start preparing to get the life you want.
	And if you want to win, beat everybody around you.
	That was my goal.
	I'm just gonna beat everybody around me.
	I'm gonna be more jacked than I'm, I'm gonna have better cars, I'm gonna have more money, I'm gonna fucking speak better, I'm gonna have a better fucking Instagram, all the shit that matters, and I'm gonna beat them.
	But Wes, devil's advocate here.
	But I'm not motivated, bro!
	Oh, well I don't give a fuck, die then.
	I don't care about that.
	We'll leave you in the gutter.
	I should never even have to say anything.
	You should be able to see me up and take that as a motivation.
	The fact that I have to speak to you, even I'm showing everything I do all day and you can just model after it.
	The fact that I have to tell you stuff to motivate you too.
	How big a pussies are these people?
	So, one time, and only one time, I saw a guy in a Lamborghini pull up to Starbucks, right?
	It's one of the first games in America.
	It's the best.
	I just saw a guy pull up in a Lamborghini, blonde chick in the front seat, top down.
	I'm like...
	I needed that.
	I need that shit.
	Needed it.
	And I said to myself, you know what?
	I'm scared right now.
	I'm nervous.
	I'm going to set her.
	But I'm going to walk up to him and ask him, we need to do it for a living.
	I mustered up the courage.
	Walked over there.
	I said, brother, sorry to bother you, man, but I'm out of breath, by the way.
	What do you do for a living?
	He said, I invest in real estate.
	Multifamily properties.
	I have passive income.
	That's how I make money nowadays.
	And I do whatever I want.
	I'm like, really?
	So you know what I did?
	On YouTube that same day, typed in, how to buy real estate.
	I went on a two-year journey studying real estate, how to get it.
	I could have said, you know what?
	Fuck this guy.
	He's a Lambo.
	He's a dirtbag.
	But then, two years later, I worked overtime, left my first job, got two jobs, and then I bought a property.
	And again, was it someone telling me, oh, bro, stay motivated?
	It was no.
	I know what I want.
	I'm going after it.
	That was it.
	So yeah, motivation, man.
	That's what the internet really...
	The biggest thing to the internet is this.
	Like, I'm somebody's vision of what they want.
	If I ain't your vision of what you want, then pass the fuck on.
	But I'm someone's vision of the life they want.
	And then I show the actions to get it, and the words I speak are their self-talk when they're going through the actions and needing the motivation.
	So a lot of people don't realize that they actually, like...
	They'll use you.
	So they can't get up in the morning so they're like, Wes got up in his cell and still did his burpees.
	I can do mine.
	So there's two types of people.
	The person who operates from their higher self and they see their better self doing the work.
	And then there's people who actually use you as like an alter ego.
	And I mean, nothing's right or wrong.
	Todd Herman was one of my coaching clients and he wrote the alter ego effect.
	And I mean, this is like even top athletes, they create an alter ego to be able to do shit like Kobe Bryant used to play that...
	Yeah, well you would play the fucking Jason song like he was gonna go for murder.
	He was gonna fucking kill everybody.
	He played the theme song to Halloween or Jason or some shit.
	But this is him summoning a different mindset and a different individual.
	But the whole thing was I've never done that.
	I've only used my higher self.
	So I was always seeing myself at the highest level and then creating that individual.
	And I mean...
	If you really believe someone has great information for you, but they haven't done anything in life, you're the stupidest motherfucker ever.
	There's too many people who don't apply the knowledge they know, and they sit there and just talk their whole fucking lives away.
	If you don't have results, you need to fucking shut the fuck up until you have them.
	Straight up.
	The question about motivation.
	David Goggins, he says it in a great way.
	He's like, it can't be motivation.
	It has to be obsession.
	Because motivation, you'll have it for a few days and then it'll just go away.
	Have you ever seen somebody go to a Tony Robbins seminar and then they go right back to the mother's basement?
	Motivation only lasts for a certain amount of time.
	So what I recommend to people first is gratitude.
	Guys, if you ever read Steven Pinker's Enlightenment Now, you realize how lucky you are to live in a time after antibiotics when you can live.
	Do you understand the wealthiest man in the world, Henry VIII, died of gout, which is something that's easily curable now.
	So much gratitude.
	Before the year 1850, half the earth's population died before the age of five.
	When you consider all these incredible hard lives that these people lived more than 200 years ago, how incredibly fortunate you are, you should have gratitude.
	The second is when you think about professional athletes making $40 million a year and they still don't come out and play defense, it's like they need to be motivated.
	It's insane that you would have that, but you don't take, it's like my man Brad Lee says, would you take $10 million to not wake up tomorrow?
	It's like, you wouldn't?
	Okay, then your life's worth $10 million.
	So wake the fuck up.
	The second thing is present moment awareness.
	It's like the concept of just totally and completely accepting the world the way that it is.
	I'm short or whatever.
	This is where I need to start from.
	I have to start from this place.
	I need to accept the way that it is.
	So that I can take right action.
	It doesn't mean you condone it.
	If you're fat and you realize you need to recognize your fat, it's the people who don't recognize their fat, they keep eating the same shit and keep thinking that they're just going to have a skinny mindset and the shit's going to go away.
	And the third one is the total and complete acceptance of your own mortality.
	You're going to die.
	It doesn't make any fuck.
	Listen, you guys are worried about posting a meme and Wes posted a video with P. Diddy.
	Like seriously, he doesn't give a fuck.
	I don't know if you should post that.
	Post!
	He's doing $3 million a month.
	Are you doing $3 million a month?
	They're not even doing $3 million in a lifetime.
	If they made $300,000 this year, they'd be at the Bahamas drinking Mai Tais and shit, celebrating with all their buddies.
	I made $300,000 today and I didn't even want to do it, spend any money on nothing.
	Yeah.
	But you made a good point, obsession.
	I think for most people, they're like, you know what?
	I kind of want this.
	I'll put in some work.
	But when you're obsessed with it, it's all you think about.
	You go to sleep, you wake up, you work.
	That's on your mind.
	And even for me, for example, back then, bro, you know what I thought about?
	Four things.
	Retirement mom, buying a Lambo, having a business.
	But your family's also from Barbados.
	You know what the other side looks like.
	Foreign people are literally like, I was saying it before we came on here, they're just way better.
	They have better energy.
	They don't complain.
	They have focus on what they want.
	A lot of Americans, they kind of just...
	They're fucking blaming the system and blaming all this shit.
	I love capitalism.
	I love the people that kill it.
	But for the most part, a lot of places, people are just fucking big ass whining victims.
	There's a lot of foreign people in Miami that are just go-getters.
	You don't even hear them fucking with this bullshit, you know?
	Yados.
	If you make $32,000 a year, you are in the top 1% of wage earners on Earth.
	Damn!
	On Earth.
	That makes sense.
	Consider that.
	On Earth, yeah.
	In America, it's like $600,000 a year to be in the top 1%.
	But on Earth, it's $32,000.
	That's...
	It's like five point something million the other day was net worth or something to be in the top 1%.
	These fucking memes are so fucking crazy.
	I think it was going by state even.
	No, but for the whole planet, when you consider something like half the Earth's population lives on less than $5 a day, then you realize you're in top 1% just making $30,000 a year.
	Just the fact that you guys live in North America, even if you're in Mexico, you have no idea how good you have it compared to people who live in places like Nepal or Sub-Saharan Africa.
	It's so fucking hard in some of these places.
	Or Gaza.
	You know, people over here are crying about, oh, I don't want to work and be lazy and kids are getting bombed.
	People don't even hear this negativity in other countries.
	They're like, what?
	You have the life I want?
	Tell me how to get it.
	They just don't even give a fuck about it.
	You know what I want?
	Let me take something onto that real quick.
	Because, like, there's a lot of guys that I know and that Mike knows who sell courses, like online courses.
	And there's also a reason why, like, self-help books, like, that's, like, the biggest section in, like, you know, Barnes& Noble right now.
	The reason for that is people want that instant gratification.
	They want to know that if I buy this product, if I buy this pill, if I buy this course, whatever, that once I do that, that's going to solve whatever I think my most immediate problem is.
	They want instant gratification.
	We live in a time where we're so used to having something immediately there for us, whether it's our playlists on our phones or if it's fast food or whatever the fuck it is.
	We're so used to being able to satisfy those needs really quickly that If we encounter something that it takes longer to actually achieve, like if you want to go from being a white belt to being a black belt, you've got to put in all the time to get from the white belt to the black belt.
	Or if you go to the gym, it doesn't happen overnight.
	You have to go and consistently be doing things over and over and over again.
	So when you get into these courses, what happens is when you buy these courses or you buy these books, what happens is people don't complete those courses.
	They'll buy it because they think that the act of buying that course, it tricks their brain into thinking that they've already completed that course.
	Or they can always come back to it when they're ready for it, so it has this act of completion kind of like psychological effect.
	When you get that course or you get that book or you get whatever it is that you think is going to be your magical cure for whatever is your most immediate need, Then suddenly, and if you don't deliver on that, and this is something me and Myron run into quite a bit, is if you don't deliver on that, if you don't get the supermodel, Myron and Rolo teach a course that guarantees that we're going to be able to fuck supermodels, right?
	We're going to get nines and tens immediately, and if I don't get that, then these guys are charlatans, and these guys are, you know, these guys are so much to go.
	Don't say we sell a course even though we don't.
	Exactly.
	Even if we don't.
	And so what they're saying, because they've already made up in their minds, you know, in their heads, they've already made up their minds that I'm going to take this course, I'm going to read this book, I'm going to do these things, these step-by-step things that this guy is selling me, and if I don't get that effect, like, overnight, then these guys, then fuck these guys.
	The thing is, we all kind of just address the masses of idiots too much, and that's what they want.
	The whole thing is, they're so fucking stupid, they want to just be contrarians for fucking, for attention.
	They don't even want a result.
	They just want to go against what the successful people are doing so they can get fucking attention.
	So you should not even address them.
	There's only gonna be 1% of people that sign up for something that actually do it, and the rest are just pussies.
	And you should call them that when they fail.
	You know how many fucking entrepreneurs that post their before and after photos of them getting in shape?
	And they're almost like a participation trophy having fat little kid.
	It's like, bro, you're still a man.
	Your before and after pics have to be the quality of other men.
	Just because you have money doesn't mean you're exiled from getting a six pack, you fucking pussy.
	And the thing is, they post them Just because they have money, there's bodybuilders in the comments going, great job, you fat piece of shit.
	And it's like, dude, why are you guys applauding this guy?
	He hasn't done shit.
	He's just less fat.
	Good effort.
	Good effort.
	He's just less fat.
	Why don't you feel like a pussy?
	People are applauding you and giving you a fucking participation trophy.
	Well, look, he's trying.
	He's fucking 36 and worth $40 million, bro.
	Get a bicep vein popping and some abs, motherfucker.
	Jesus.
	Like, why are we going to...
	I agree.
	Do you guys realize, do you guys understand that by us accommodating your shortcomings, we make you weaker?
	So everybody who has a problem with someone like me, I would just smack you so many times that you will forget that you're even able to even speak until you have a result.
	And when you have one, when you have a result that I give a fuck about, guess what I'll do?
	I'll tell you, good fucking job.
	And it'll actually mean something.
	Because everybody is giving empty fucking validation to people.
	And Wes Watson will not.
	He will say, no, you're a bum, fucking, broke, titty-having bitch.
	Until you pull up in some real shit and show me a real result, I'm not going to give you no props.
	And then when I do give someone props, they're like, hell yeah, that's genuine.
	Everyone's become so disingenuous because they're afraid of getting fucking canceled or whatever the fuck.
	So they're just fucking kissing ass.
	And it's bullshit.
	I don't fucking like it.
	I won't do it.
	I'll go in someone's shit.
	And they're like, I'm on this fitness journey.
	And I'm like, people are watching.
	You better fucking do it.
	And everyone else is like, great job, Timmy.
	And he's just like, yeah, I'm trying.
	It's like, you're 37.
	And he's like, yeah, I did good, right, guys?
	It's like, no, you didn't.
	Do you see what the normal people on my program do?
	They'll go from, like, being straight fat to fucking, like, dick skin, vein, ripped, like a motherfucker.
	I bet you dick skin probably hurts all these little bitches in the chat.
	But, I mean, the whole thing is, is like...
	100% Stop giving people fucking validation or props over something that you don't really believe.
	Have you ever seen this?
	There's a great movie.
	It's called Whiplash.
	Have you seen Whiplash?
	I and this old chick used to call it Whip Flash.
	I'm like, how stupid are you?
	It was this great movie about this one kid who wants to become the best jazz drummer ever, like Buddy Rich.
	That's what he wants to be.
	He runs into a teacher.
	The teacher's name is Mr.
	Fitch, and Mr.
	Fitch is just like Wes.
	He just drives him into the ground to the point of abuse.
	Just kicking his ass, making his hands bleed, demanding the best out of him.
	And throughout, the people who watch this, like the Gen Zers who would watch this movie, they go, oh, this is abusive.
	How could this even possibly happen?
	If abuse is words, I live in a wrong state of this world.
	Abuse is not words.
	There's one point in the...
	That's what women say.
	The best line in the movie is, like, he's talking to, like, Mr.
	Fitch is talking to this kid, right?
	He says, you know what the two worst words in the English language are?
	He goes, what?
	Good job.
	Because he really...
	He wanted him to become the best because if that's what you want and you're committed to that, then I'm going to kick your ass into the fucking ground until you become the best jazz drummer on the planet.
	We only give a fuck what you're doing wrong.
	You're supposed to do what I'm telling you, motherfucker.
	I'm not going to applaud you for doing what's right.
	I don't think enough people realize how much investment you have to have in yourself to go from ordinary to extraordinary.
	A lot.
	And it's only like, you know, people don't get it.
	And once you're like there to get to the next level, even though it's just like 1% difference, it takes a ridiculous amount of work.
	Dude, does anyone even realize, and let's make this about me right now, my favorite subject.
	Does anyone even realize how many times over and over people thought I was at a certain level and then I just straight buttfucked that level into another level?
	Dude, people can win once.
	Yeah, you can win once.
	That's pretty easy.
	You can win a couple times.
	But to keep fucking winning over and over and just compiling on top of each other, the only thing that takes is for you to never stop.
	And people really think it's a hack.
	These business guys come into coaching and they're like, so what system are you using?
	I'm like, I talk to everybody.
	They're like, well, how are you selling so much?
	I'm like...
	I've actually impacted every single person that signed up for my program's life.
	They're like...
	It's like a foreign topic to them that you've actually done something for them on the front hand before they signed up.
	They're worried about making content.
	One of my clients comes in, he's like, I just gotta get better at speaking.
	I'm like, no you don't, you fucking idiot.
	Did I teach you anything?
	I'm like, you need to get the fuck out of the way.
	And he's like, what do you mean?
	I'm like, I showed you a process of removal to tap into a message coming from above that's more powerful than all these lames on the planet combined.
	You're supposed to guide them.
	As soon as you tap into this message and you follow it wholeheartedly, which I call conscience congruency, God speaking to you and supplying your path.
	As soon as you do that and you get the fuck out of the way, everything you do will be perfect.
	And people are like...
	They just don't even understand that.
	They think it's them still.
	It's not you.
	You need to get out of the way and be a vessel for a message that's going to solve a lot of problems down here.
	And in all reality, I get so much criticism because I'm the solution to all these pussy problems.
	All these soft men.
	The biggest problem is soft men.
	Straight up.
	Agreed.
	So, do you want me to read the chats?
	And then we're going to do the video with Diddy.
	Oh, you want it?
	Okay.
	The video with me and Diddy or that new one?
	No, the new one!
	That one's rough.
	Wait, Diddy's cardio exercise?
	Is that what I'm talking about?
	Did he do it or not?
	Huh?
	Did he do it or not?
	It's so funny because Harrison Bucker, who is a kicker.
	I would say that was AI. That was from earlier when I was streaming, and not that one.
	Diddy is a kicker, and Harrison Buckner is also a kicker.
	You see how that works?
	They're both in trouble.
	Flamer says, a high IQ panel, W men, L whales, Mark Cook and I next, by the way.
	Any advice on going to Influencer Music Channel?
	YouTube Channel?
	You've got to make good music, my friend.
	And also, do collaborations if you can.
	Yeah, collaborations.
	On TikTok.
	They go really viral.
	He went there right away.
	Collabs are what's going to matter the most.
	Yeah, 100%.
	Ivan Lill says, Myron Fresh, Wes Rolo, and Mike, thanks for your mentorship from Oside, California.
	Oside?
	That's where I'm from.
	Raisin Posole and South Posole.
	That's a gang neighborhood in South Oside.
	Okay.
	Pro Super on the F15 and 16 vet of 16 years total, 10 active.
	165k a year after I left active duty in 2018.
	Got my shit together, thanks to you guys.
	Good stuff for you, Evan.
	Good job, bro.
	Yeah, he worked on F15s and F16s.
	EasyMoneySniper says, Sethfellas, can you guys recommend any real estate rental property invested on books, WFNF? I recommend Set for Life.
	It's a pretty good-to-read book for anyone that works as an employee job.
	What do you recommend?
	There's a couple of them, man.
	Chris Crone has a pretty good one, The Straight Path to Real Estate Investing.
	That's a pretty good one.
	We're actually going to have him on the pod, I think, in August.
	Awesome.
	So stay tuned for that.
	Why do they roast that guy so bad?
	I like him.
	Yeah, I like Chris, too.
	They're on his case about some of the shit he says.
	I'm like, I believe that shit.
	You know, I've always said obsession is a term that Lazy used to describe the dedicated, and that's just what they do.
	It's like they look at someone who is very successful and he has weird little quirks or whatever about him, and they're like, oh, this guy's weird, but it's like, yeah, that's exactly why he makes more money than you and more successful than you, stupid.
	Best point ever.
	When people tell me not to post that, not to do this, not to do this, I'm like, bro, if I posted content that you fully agreed with, I would smack myself.
	It'd be the dumbest thing to make sure all you guys agreed with me.
	This is not going to work.
	And if you understand my habits, that's why I'm where I'm at and you're not.
	So we can all agree here.
	We meet millionaires all the time.
	That was the best point, though.
	And they are not normal.
	Like, we're not normal.
	We actually do shit out of context.
	Because we understand it's business, one.
	And two, things have to go out of the green.
	Dude, how many billionaires do you know?
	They're the worst.
	You're like, this guy's a psychopath.
	Yeah, yeah.
	I mean, we don't want to be like Diddy, though.
	But other than that, yeah.
	Yeah, I mean, you just gotta understand that wildly successful people have quirky, strange behavior patterns that you might not necessarily align with or be like, what the fuck is this?
	But that's exactly and precisely why they're where they're at and why you're where you're at.
	You know what happened to me, though?
	Best point ever.
	The first time I heard Ilama speak, I was like, God damn, I think he's a fucking billionaire.
	I'll tell you what's funny, Elon Musk doesn't care if he's couchsurfing on his friend's apartment because he's focused on what he's doing at that time.
	It's just like Steve Jobs did not care about any furniture in his house.
	He had one outfit.
	You know why?
	Because he was too focused on it.
	He's like, I'll put on whatever clothes just so I can go to work and get this shit done because that's what he was about.
	When I was working in the wine and spirits industry, I worked with guys who were wealthy men.
	Not rich men.
	Fucking wealthy guys like move fucking countries around.
	And these guys do not care about...
	They sure as shit don't give a fuck about anybody in any podcast chat room or anything like that.
	I think that's selfish though.
	If you have success, I think you should share it.
	You should almost fly a flag that shows your success.
	Most of those guys are in those positions.
	They don't do those things because they're too busy fucking doing their job.
	Like Jeff Bezos does not go and do like masterminds and shit like that because he's too busy making fucking money or Elon Musk goes and does what he does because he's too busy doing his thing.
	You know why they don't want to do it?
	Because they don't want tension.
	They want to just stay low.
	That's true.
	All the haters.
	They don't want haters at all.
	I get it.
	A lot of them grew up in an age that isn't our age.
	And a lot of them are actually transferring to this.
	I have billionaire clients that are like, I have to start doing this.
	This is costing me a lot of money that I didn't.
	So I mean, there's kind of a meshing of two different generations right there when you speak.
	And the new generation of billionaire, if they have a personal brand, they reached it way quicker than the guy you're talking about.
	Much quicker.
	Where we at here?
	Okay, Seth fellas, can you...
	No, big up yourself.
	Oh, this is a Jamaican term.
	Big up yourself!
	Boosted score, 725.
	This is him, 2000.
	24 in Toronto, one year left of my plumbing apprenticeship.
	Aiming to pull in 90K this year.
	Hello, overtime.
	Love my job.
	When y'all touch down here, come check out my Pops Jamaican restaurant.
	WFNF, Bombaclot.
	Matt says, West is 99% of these keyboard warriors would not say shit in real life.
	They just want to feel tough.
	They just want me to talk back to them because they love me.
	They did say, hope one day I'll respond back to him.
	They're like, he responded back to me.
	And they have like heart eye emojis.
	They look like that emoji to me because they love me.
	And they're Rumble Rants?
	Yes, sir.
	Yep.
	Where are we at here?
	Okay, Silky Silk says, Captain Myron and Wes, I'm a six-figure contractor, but struggle adapting to civilian life after the military.
	How did you guys adapt to life after your major lifestyle change?
	Sartain military, Myron homeland, and Wes prison.
	Good question.
	Yeah.
	I'll turn it to your guests first.
	Sartain?
	Yeah, for me the the transition was because I was still like when Wes did something similar where he was posting every day on social media even before he got out of jail I was very heavy on social media before I got out of the military and I was actually like working in nightlife part-time So the transition wasn't as hard the thing is like you can become irrelevant if you want But you can choose to stay relevant even when you're in the military.
	It's up to you You just have to be a little bit more careful about the stuff that you post Honestly, I don't like 99.9% of people.
	But this is the thing.
	I had to start creating people that I respected.
	So my goal even in prison was to create people that I respect.
	And that's all I'm doing still.
	I'm so triggered and so bothered by how big a pussies everyone is that I have to create people that I can genuinely look at and say I respect this man right here and not have to be fake.
	So everyone I don't respect I tell the truth to.
	I don't fucking like anything that you do.
	Fuck you.
	And then the people that actually follow the type of beliefs that I have, I mean, that I believe aren't even a choice.
	These are like universal truths for all men.
	It's not something that we can even...
	People are like, do you have any regrets?
	You don't get to choose what you regret or not.
	These are like truths for all men that it's instilled in their fucking DNA and their soul that they want to be this way.
	They're drawn to be this way.
	But the whole point is, what I'm saying is, I had to create people I respect.
	It's very hard to just run across someone who's like, oh, this dude gets it fully.
	Even my wife the other day was saying, I don't have anyone I can really learn from.
	I'm like, you're the new teacher.
	And she's like, what do you mean?
	I'm like, you're gonna have to create people and build people up.
	And that's what self transcendence is.
	Like everybody's in a phase of self-actualization, making themselves awesome, building the best version of themself.
	But once you fully transcend self and you realize you've put the work in for a very long time, your next job, Either you're going to sit there and critique everyone around you, and it's going to erode your mindset, and your mood's going to just always be pessimistic, or you're going to take it upon yourself, extreme accountability, to change what's in those people so that you can genuinely respect them.
	And most people are just massive liars.
	They don't respect much about themselves or people around them, but they just lie.
	And the whole thing is, I just won't.
	So this is the difference.
	It was eroding my mindset to be around weak fucking people, so I just had to weed them out by telling the truth all the time.
	Yeah, I mean, the biggest thing you're going to have to acclimate to is just you've got to understand that most people are normies and you're just not going to want to be like them.
	The worst thing you could be is normal, right?
	People say, oh, well, you're just a normal guy.
	That's not good, guys.
	That's actually an insult.
	That's what Arnold Schwarzenegger, the worst thing I can be is the same as everyone else.
	Absolutely.
	So be content with the fact that it's going to be difficult for you to make friends.
	Be content with the fact that you're going to be alone a lot of the times.
	And be content with the fact that you're probably not going to agree with or like most people that you deal with.
	Average is a punishment for the weak.
	Yep.
	What else do we got here?
	My guys, welcome to Fresh and Fit.
	Gentlemen, cheers.
	Thank you so much.
	I appreciate that.
	Anything else?
	Okay, Michael goes, Myron, I need a refund for fresh reading my Super Chat on Wednesday after hours.
	No.
	Hey, man, he wasn't here, man.
	Yeah, I was busting the paydos, man.
	Sorry.
	Kyle from NYC here.
	What are your thoughts and opinions on lazy people in the first responder realm?
	Always good seeing you, brothers.
	Keep doing God's work.
	Yo, try not to be assigned with those guys and try to stay away from them, man.
	So one of the things that's good about law enforcement is you can kind of pair up with guys that you want to work with.
	So try to stay away from fat people or people that are lazy because that's a fucking liability for you, bro.
	And I know a lot of you guys like to pair up with women just because like, oh, let me see if I can tap that.
	Don't do that either, man.
	That's going to set you up for failure.
	Especially if you're on patrol and you have to respond to something for real.
	Don't do it, man.
	Make sure she's in shape and she's actually capable if you're going to pair up with a chick.
	What do we got here?
	Wes, show the titles to all your cars.
	I show them all the fucking ties.
	Hey, actually, hey, you want to see them?
	I have pictures of them.
	No, he's just a troll, bro.
	Don't worry about it.
	I know, but the best part is, you idiots don't realize, when my cars have Montana plates, you can't finance a vehicle and put it under a Montana title.
	The car has to be purchased outright to have Montana plates.
	When you see supercars around here, and you see these other vehicles, and you see my Phantom out front with Montana plates, a Mansory Phantom, my G-Wagon with Montana plates, every other one of my cars with Montana plates, what is it?
	It's purchased cash, motherfucker.
	Well said.
	And guess what?
	Purchasing cars cash is not smarter than leasing them or financing them.
	Straight up.
	Why would you do that?
	I have to.
	Because I don't have the crazy credit like people who have been out here building credit forever.
	So honestly, you should finance the car.
	Get the lowest APR, finance it, keep your liquid, and flip the money.
	Why would you give it all to a car like a dumbass like me?
	It's actually a stupid move.
	It's actually dumb.
	But me in all reality, I like cars.
	I like big ass rims on cars.
	I told you guys I was a drug dealer, right?
	Don't I look like a massive drug dealer?
	The best.
	Do you see how I pulled up right now?
	I pulled up with one Phantom in front of a Bugatti with another Phantom behind it.
	Who the fuck has the audacity to believe that's how they should pull up?
	What type of idiot does that mean?
	That's next level stuff, bro.
	We're doing okay, but that's next level stuff, bro.
	Holy crap.
	When you believe you're supposed to pull up like that, that's what all you motherfuckers need, is to really believe you're worth that shit like your boy Wes Watson, motherfucker, straight up.
	All right, what do we got next here?
	Anything else?
	All right, cool.
	So here's the thing.
	I don't know if you want to play this full video on YouTube, though.
	I mean, no, it's right everywhere.
	Everyone's posting it.
	On YouTube?
	Yeah, it's on CNN. So, today we got a new video.
	CNN on YouTube?
	Yeah.
	And apparently, there's a video showing a guy...
	Paco Punch!
	Puff Daddy, give us money to Puff Beats.
	Or Punch Daddy in this case.
	Yeah, Punch Daddy.
	Wow.
	So we'll play the clip, and obviously speaking, this is some evidence here for a while.
	That already looks weird.
	That was crazy, bro.
	Or 2017, I believe.
	I don't think he should have left his shirt.
	But yeah, this is crazy, because, you know, the allegations made, and now we're seeing it.
	You said this is on YouTube?
	Yep, it's on YouTube.
	Oh, shit.
	Okay, all right.
	All right, let's go.
	All right, this shit is crazy.
	That's full-screen, dude.
	New surveillance footage obtained exclusively by CNN appears to corroborate some of the allegations of abuse against music mogul Sean Diddy Combs.
	The video, captured on multiple cameras, shows Combs assaulting his then-girlfriend, Cassie Ventura, in a hallway at a Los Angeles hotel in March 2016.
	A lawsuit filed by Ventura in November last year and settled the next day referenced actions that seemed to match those seen in this video.
	There is no audio.
	That's crazy.
	According to the complaint, Combs became extremely intoxicated and punched Miss Ventura in the face, giving her a black eye, which according to the lawsuit prompted Ventura to try and leave the hotel room.
	The surveillance video obtained by CNN begins as she enters the hallway.
	The complaint says as she exited, Mr.
	Combs awoke and began screaming at Ms.
	Ventura.
	He followed her into the hallway of the hotel while yelling at her.
	The complaint goes on to say he grabbed her and then took glass vases in the hallway and threw them at her.
	In the surveillance video, Combs can be seen grabbing Ventura and throwing her to the ground.
	As Ventura lies on the ground, Combs then kicks her twice and attempts to drag her on the floor back to the hotel room.
	Ventura is seen picking up a hotel phone.
	Combs seems to walk back to the hotel room, then returns and appears to shove her in a corner.
	Moments later, he can be seen throwing an object in her direction.
	According to Ventura's now settled lawsuit, the pair began dating several years after they met in 2005.
	They parted ways in 2019.
	Combs' attorney said the decision to settle was in no way an admission of wrongdoing.
	This is crazy.
	Ventura declined to comment on the video, but her attorney told CNN the gut-wrenching video has only further confirmed the disturbing and predatory behavior of Mr.
	Combs.
	Words cannot express the courage and fortitude that Ms.
	Ventura has shown in coming forward to bring this to light.
	The video hasn't been seen publicly before and comes on the heels of a series of civil lawsuits alleging Combs' involvement in sex trafficking and sexual abuse.
	Allegations Combs has repeatedly denied.
	In a December 2023 statement, Combs responded to the claims in all the lawsuits saying, Sickening allegations have been made against me by individuals looking for a quick payday.
	Let me be absolutely clear.
	I did not do any of the awful things being alleged.
	CNN has reached out to representatives for Combs for comment.
	Okay, that's the video.
	I never really speak on other men's relationships or shit like that.
	I just say you never hit a woman.
	Yeah, never exactly.
	No matter what it comes down to.
	But the thing is, it's always really hard because a lot of people misconstrue a lot of shit about me online.
	And I'm like, oh, that's such bullshit.
	But that's pretty bad right there.
	So I'll just say you just can't be hitting women.
	It's just what it is.
	I think we can all agree.
	Never hit a woman.
	Yeah, sure.
	Dude, that was wild.
	Dragging her back.
	Yeah, but the other part is this.
	That's 2016 when that happened?
	Yeah.
	So are there more cameras now or fewer?
	Guys, you really can't hit women.
	The point is, you guys don't understand.
	You shouldn't be doing it in any way unless a girl has a knife to my son.
	That's the only way I'm hitting a woman.
	But what I'm saying is, in this case, I keep trying to tell people, in your house, you should have cameras in case somebody tries to run some bullshit and say you did such and such.
	Yeah.
	I was going to go that route, but people talk so much shit.
	I had a thing where someone tried to say that I was assaulted to one of my exes.
	And she's the only one who has a domestic violence restraining order on assaulting me.
	But I never went online talking shit because I don't do that shit.
	But the thing is, a lot of guys get fucking just straight...
	Manhandled in that situation especially and a lot of you guys who are like real low-class and you suck and your chick wants to leave anyways She's probably not gonna say that you did a bunch of fake shit But I mean guys when the chick doesn't want to leave and the guy leaves her she goes talking shit Yeah, so I mean low-level loser guys have never if you haven't had a chick say you didn't do shit Oh, he can't fuck his dick small.
	He beat me.
	He's gay.
	He has no money He's actually a queer like all this shit If you haven't had a chick say that about you, it's because she wanted to leave willingly and you're a lame.
	Any woman's gonna be heated if you leave her and talk shit.
	That's not the case in this video.
	We're not going with that.
	I'm just saying.
	Yeah, he was an NFL kicker in that one.
	The issue...
	I'm not gonna lie, bro.
	This video just highlights like how much things are in in the dark no pun intended for sure and Just nowadays because a camera you know social media is coming up to light and this 2016 like you said earlier Imagine now how many cameras are that's in 4k with multiple other angles Like I said before, I have cameras in my apartment in case somebody wants to say some shit happened that didn't happen, number one.
	And number two, whenever I go out somewhere and somebody tries to buck up to me, I immediately hand my phone to somebody and I'll be like, you gotta hit me first and we're gonna get this bitch on camera because you're not gonna come back and fucking sue me later.
	They'll still sue you even if they attack you.
	For sure.
	But film everything, that's what I'm saying, and know that you're always being filmed.
	The times have changed.
	So this was actually ruthless what he did.
	But I have a question though.
	To Cassie, at least in this video, this happened in 2016.
	Why'd you stay for 2019?
	Three years.
	Why would you stay in this craziness?
	It's really weird for us as men to rationalize the idea.
	I ask women this all the time.
	If a woman was physically abusing me, I would just leave.
	I couldn't even imagine the concept of staying.
	But in this situation like this, we see women all the time who are getting abused by men, and it's like their equilibrium.
	And then you find out the next relationship was the same way.
	Somewhere in their life, they learned the equilibrium was to get hit.
	Because I heard this one girl, Brandy Andrews, came on my show one time.
	She goes, I had to separate the idea of violence from love.
	She thought that violence against her was a way that this guy showed love, by acting super fucking jealous.
	And she had to go to therapy to get that mentality out of her head.
	So I think that's part of what's going on here.
	To stay there.
	That long?
	For another three years?
	Yeah, you're right, it's crazy.
	But all the victims that actually get, you know, attacked, right?
	This is the one kid we saw at Live and Color on camera.
	And then there's others that just say, oh, he did this and that to me, and nothing happens.
	So having cameras in your house is very good because it protects you from that actually happening.
	That's a good point.
	I think the reason why she stayed so long is because the violence was reciprocal on both ends.
	They were probably both attacking each other, and that's just the reality.
	How long were they together before all this shit happened?
	Oh, five to 19.
	Fourteen years.
	Okay, so they've got history.
	Keep in mind that Diddy's very powerful in the music industry.
	She's an artist.
	She knows that if she leaves him, obviously, he's taking care of her financially.
	There's an investment in there.
	There's a financial investment in there.
	We know from looking at studies, et cetera, as well, when there's domestic violence, most of the time, it's both parties attacking each other.
	It's actually very rare it was just a guy attacking a woman.
	It's usually both parties attacking each other in most cases.
	And then on top of that, also, I think the big reason why, because if you guys remember, she launched this lawsuit on him and, like, In 24 hours he capitulated.
	And I was in my head like, wow, she must have had some shit.
	I guarantee this video is part of the discovery.
	And she probably showed it to him like, hey, we got this video.
	We're willing to go public with this.
	You better fucking settle.
	And I think he settled.
	I think the reason why it's resurfacing now is because, keep in mind, there's a federal investigation going on.
	Criminal.
	And this was probably given to the feds as well.
	Because I know for a fact Cassie probably cooperated with the feds on their investigation.
	So it could easily have been leaked by law enforcement, could have been leaked by the U.S. Attorney's Office, by prosecutors, whatever the fuck it is.
	But you best believe that Cassie's legal team probably had this footage and she used it to get them to capitulate.
	So being former HSI, do you think the hotel was paid off by they need to keep it hidden until now?
	Or do you think they had it from before and it just didn't drop it?
	I think Cassie probably, if she's smart, well, no, I already know this.
	She probably collected it that day.
	Really?
	Yeah, man.
	You know how girls are.
	I mean, you know this very well.
	Like, let's give it a thousand.
	What are you trying to say, Myron?
	No, no, no.
	We've all been through this bullshit.
	Every single one of us here have dealt with a woman scorn.
	And what do they do?
	They're like, okay, I'm going to go ahead and have an insurance policy at the end of this.
	If this doesn't work out, I'm going to have an insurance policy.
	She knows the cameras are there, etc.
	She probably secured that security tape same day, day after.
	She probably secured it.
	Okay.
	You know what I mean?
	And then just held on to it if things don't work out.
	Damn.
	I want to say something else, dude.
	Like a lot of dudes who are always snitching on themselves.
	Whoever you're friends with now or whoever you're dating now, when you're not friends with them anymore, all of your secrets are up for sale.
	Yes.
	This is something I learned in the intelligence community.
	It's like, while all of a sudden you're not cool with that person anymore, like if I go up to a girl and she used to be friends with some other girl, She...
	They just can't wait to fucking tell me all the secrets.
	Just know that's the way it is, guys.
	Even your closest friends.
	As soon as your closest friend isn't your closest friend anymore, everything you ever told them in confidence is up for the highest bidder.
	Just know that.
	So, be careful about what you say to people.
	That's why you just say it all online anyways.
	There you go.
	Then nobody can use it against you.
	But I do want to say, definitely what he did was crazy.
	Like, I mean, the fact that he chased after her...
	In socks and butt naked almost.
	It's like, bro, what the hell?
	And also, I don't know if you noticed in the footage, it was a little weird that he was really adamant about getting that bag back.
	We don't know what's in that, right?
	Obviously, regardless of whatever's in the bag, you can never...
	There's no...
	It's indefensible to do that.
	Like, ridiculous.
	But we've seen women hit you, hit Chris, and you never hit them back.
	So even if Cassie was hitting him, that was Rufus, bro.
	Yeah, yeah, yeah.
	No, it's crazy.
	It's indefensible.
	But I'm just saying, I'm just saying for her, because you asked why she stayed so long.
	Yeah, yeah, yeah.
	I guarantee that the violence was reciprocal.
	Because my thing is, let's say I was an advocate for Diddy, but I'm not by the way, and I want to defend him.
	How do you defend that video?
	The other part is he has a moment to actually sit down and take a breath and then throw something else at her.
	He has a moment to actually consider.
	And then he goes, you know what I'm going to consider?
	Throwing this piece of glass at her.
	Now, and I think going back to the stoicism thing, that is where stoicism is very important.
	So, like, obviously stoicism is a man who's doing things you don't feel like doing even, you know, because it has to be done.
	The dude was drunk, okay?
	Yeah, and that's why alcohol is a devil.
	And also, stoicism is like when you're dealing with a woman that you're in a romantic relationship with, you don't sit there and argue and cause a huge issue.
	I mean, even in your situation, this bitch tried to call you, right, and get you to say some shit, and you were really calm on the phone.
	Okay, well, if you don't want to do that, then that's fine.
	It is what it is.
	And you were calm on the phone, and that worked out in your favor, right?
	Like, when you're dealing with a girl from a romantic sense, you always want to be pretty stoic.
	Like, I don't think men should be negotiating with women.
	It's my way or the highway.
	Oh, you don't want to do this?
	Cool, then you're effectively single.
	So I think with Diddy, him chasing after her like that, right, and doing all that stupid shit, number one, it shows the, you know, the evil of alcohol.
	And then number two, shows a lack of stoicism, which is bringing him a lot of trouble now.
	I would argue this is a major L. Yeah, yeah, yeah.
	Now, we've all taken L's on this platform here, all of us here.
	And someone watching here could say, you know what?
	Damn, that's...
	Crazy what happened.
	What about my life?
	And if you could apply it to your life, okay, now I know, have cameras in your room at all times.
	Don't ever hate women, obviously speaking.
	Yeah, bro, never touch a girl, man.
	It's an L for you every time.
	And three, keep...
	I don't give a fuck if she's punching you, bro.
	Just leave.
	Keep all your receipts.
	Yeah.
	This is Danny, by the way.
	That's the other thing, guys.
	The other thing you need to understand is every time I tell my guys, when you're texting a girl, if a girl sends me nudes, I'm like, go with God.
	Have a great day.
	Or come over later.
	Let's work out.
	I never respond with sexuality.
	Unless it's my girlfriend, I'm never going to respond sexually.
	The reason why is because you need to assume that everything that you send, she's going to snapshot.
	This is the reason why I do use the unsend feature on fucking Instagram.
	You can take stuff off.
	You can use secret mode on WhatsApp because people can take one thing.
	You remember the thing with Andrew Tate?
	But there's this other part where she's like, well, it's not grape if I consent to it.
	They conveniently left that part out.
	The BBC didn't put that part in there.
	So you can take these things out of context really easily.
	Also, doctoring text messages is super easy to do in Photoshop.
	That's the thing you guys have to understand.
	That's why whenever I text people things, I'm like, let's get on the phone.
	I also like to use FaceTime, because FaceTime, the phone can't record audio on FaceTime.
	Now you can have a second phone to do it, but there are other apps, like if you call someone, they can actually record the phone call.
	That's another thing I would look at.
	I just, like, I'm seriously, man, I just don't, people can take anything you do out of context.
	Yeah, I mean, what did he do there is indefensible.
	I mean, chasing after a girl and doing all that, that's ridiculous.
	I don't care if she had a million dollars in the back row.
	Just let her go, call the cops.
	It is what it is.
	You're a famous celebrity.
	You've got to be even more careful with the stuff that you do.
	I made a joke on X. I said, check me out on Unplayed FedEx, by the way, on X. I said, he chased after her because she said, all eyes on me is better than ready to die.
	Oh, man.
	My hip-hop vet's over there.
	She won her lawsuit.
	She got her money, but that's crazy, though, bro.
	That's crazy.
	Okay.
	Well, I would agree with her on that one.
	All eyes on me is better than ready to die.
	But anyway...
	No, that's the old hip hop.
	All right, Myron, you have to change my life, which is success.
	Brandon Carter and ATT. I do online personal training with Brandon Carter now and make a thousand dollars since I started December 31st, 2023.
	Outside of my 80 plus hour week, scheduled with CDL, CMI trucking, semi-trucking.
	Thank you, FNF fam, Changing Lives, FUH3, and Abba and Leach.
	I appreciate it, bro.
	Also, Jens, I have good news.
	I've been waiting for this.
	I know now I can make three-fourths of a mil.
	Well, on April 23rd, 2024, the FTC finalized its rule banning almost all non-competes in employment agreements.
	Oh, wow.
	That's good news.
	Bro, Brian.
	So many emotional betas in the chat right now.
	Agreed.
	They're not going to get attention any other way.
	Yeah, little beans, 20 bucks.
	Cool.
	Anything else?
	No, let me just...
	All right, we're going to do a cult castle club.
	James Sexton says, look at this panel.
	304s are quaking.
	Great episodes, gentlemen.
	Appreciate that.
	Hey, shout out to Jerry Sexton.
	The worst attorney.
	Is that really him?
	Yeah.
	James, if you work in San Diego or California, let me know.
	Yeah.
	Yeah.
	Yeah, guys, I mean, I think it's pretty self-explanatory that, you know, what Diddy did is indefensible.
	And you guys can learn from it.
	Just know, never, ever put your hands on a girl.
	You know, with that said, right, the tougher conversation is why did she stay so long?
	I genuinely believe that it was probably an abusive relationship from both parts.
	She had a financial incentive.
	They had a relationship incentive.
	They're together for a very long time.
	And we don't know what was in the bag.
	However, chasing after a chick butt naked in a white towel in some fucking rainbow socks, it's just not a good look, man.
	Yeah, I'll tell you this, bro.
	Stupid.
	He didn't drop the towel.
	He didn't drop it one time.
	As drunk as he was.
	I'm just saying, but he didn't drop it.
	It's true.
	He didn't drop it.
	That was talent.
	But yeah.
	Nita Soda says, My girlfriend was drunk and we got into an argument where she hit and disrespected me verbally.
	She apologized.
	Should I use her for sex only or cut her off?
	That's a personal decision, bro.
	She hit you, bro.
	I just don't believe once a girl hits you, bro, it's dead, man.
	Because what you don't get, dude, is once you get into a physically abusive relationship with a girl, obviously what you guys saw with the Diddy situation, that's what's going to end up at the end of it.
	It's irreparable, bro.
	Because what you've effectively shown to that, well, number one, if she hits you in the first place, she'll respect you.
	And then number two, you're just setting yourself up for, you're cruising for a bruising, because what might end up happening is you, she could hit you in the future, you could like, just push her off you to defend yourself, and then she'll call the cops, they're gonna take your dumb ass to jail.
	Most states have a mandatory arrest clause, man, so it's like...
	Unless you change genders.
	Good luck with that, bro.
	But yeah, never hit women.
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	We often get shadow banned randomly.
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	Mr.
	Watson, what are your thoughts on religion and the idea of God?
	I really think that voice in your chest.
	That voice of reason.
	Your conscience.
	I really believe that's God speaking to you.
	Supplying you the perfect path to walk through life.
	There'd be no other explanation why I could just fully listen to this voice that guided me the whole time and I could end up where I'm at.
	Whenever you're trying to debate with this voice of reason inside you is where the problems come from.
	I mean, your conscience is the authentic voice of God.
	And whether you want to say God, creation, the universe, whatever, I don't have a picture to them.
	I don't envision Jesus.
	I don't envision a body at all.
	It's just a voice.
	It's just...
	It's what I believe in.
	And I think it's important also, it's the voice that comes to you when you're not on drugs or alcohol or whatever, man.
	It's really important to be sober, man.
	You don't earn any of, you don't tap, you're not an antenna, you don't tap into these messages and the voice that you should be hearing to guide you through life if you're fucking around with drugs, alcohol, or even overeating or anything like that.
	Anything that's not aligned with you being a great advocate of the message.
	So once you're a proper advocate to actually deliver this message on earth, you start hearing it greater.
	And that's why everyone always, they always trip on like why religious people become so successful.
	And they just don't understand it.
	I mean, it's just, you're operating from a different set of virtues and values in regards to what people want to believe.
	When I first came out, I would never say God.
	I just wouldn't do it.
	I'm like, the universe, the universe, the universe.
	I wouldn't say God.
	And then recently I just started doing it.
	Because I don't give a fuck, and it felt right to me.
	It's just what it was.
	Cool.
	Mike, where can the people find you?
	Listen, you guys can watch my show.
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	We got some ladies this time.
	Oh, you do?
	Okay, cool.
	It's W. Chris.
	All right.
	Alright guys, we'll catch you guys back here in a little bit for After Hours.
	Zoom call now.
	Casco.TV. Come on over.
	Peace.

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