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May 15, 2024 - Fresh & Fit

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A Fresh Match With Fresh&Fit Ft. Rollo Tomassi & Michael Sartain

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	Thank you.
	Today we're some special guests on the show.
	For the dating show, let's get into it.
	to it.
	Let's go.
	All right, we are back.
	So it's a little bit different.
	It's a fresh match for Fresh and Fit.
	You know, I'm playing on words there.
	But shout out to our sponsor from Rumble as well.
	The rumble.com slash Fresh and Fit.
	And coffee is 1775.
	Go check it out.
	It's pretty good coffee.
	Without further ado, welcome to the guests on the panel.
	Michael, Mary-Kate, and Rolo.
	Mary-Kate.
	Go first, Michael.
	Hey, what's going on guys?
	Welcome.
	I'm excited.
	I watched your first episode.
	It was really interesting.
	So I'm kind of interested to see how this goes.
	But, you know, we're going to talk about dating and what the fuck is happening with dating right now.
	It's tough.
	What's up, everyone?
	Mary-Kate.
	Mary-Kate's Matchmaking.
	I hope people believe in love again by helping them connect to their ideal partner.
	Maybe she can help me.
	I don't believe in that shit.
	I'm just kidding.
	I'm kidding.
	I'm kidding.
	I'm sorry.
	Yeah, right, man.
	That's okay.
	That's a little bit heavier than I thought.
	How dare you?
	I'm Rola Tomasi, the author of The Rational Mail, a five-series book series, and it's good to be back, finally.
	Also, a co-host from Access Vegas, along with Mike.
	Let's go!
	Welcome back, guys.
	So, Myron's actually doing a live stream with Vitaly right now and Ada Ross, catching some, you know, people, if you won't say what they are.
	So, tune into that after this as well.
	But whatever you do, guys, please tell us your idea of the current dating market, how to solve the problems we have with dating men and women.
	What do you think so far?
	Yeah, so, there's two main issues.
	One of them is the one of boys and men.
	Richard Reeves wrote a book about this concept.
	Whereas, as women...
	Start to gain in socioeconomic status.
	So 60% of college graduates now are women, or I'm sorry, enrollees are 60%, 68% are graduates.
	As more and more women graduate from college, they're going to earn more income.
	As they earn more income, they're going to look for men that are at their level or across.
	It's like Rihanna who's worth $100 million dating a billionaire, right?
	And so the number of men that they have to choose from becomes smaller and smaller.
	But they're not just competing with other women who are educated and make $100,000 a year.
	They're also competing with women who are just like working at Twin Peaks and are broke.
	So they're educated women, but they're also competing with uneducated women.
	And so what's happened is there's a small group of men that they're all competing for.
	Six feet tall and make $100,000 a year.
	That makes you in the top 2.3% of men.
	There's all these women trying to get with those men.
	And because they can't get with them, they're settling for those men.
	But if you were to look at it on a socioeconomic record, they're not settling.
	They're actually going directly across.
	But women are complaining they're settling.
	Because one of the issues is Kim Kardashian and the average girl in Kansas are seeing the same images on social media.
	They're seeing the exact same images as each other is seeing.
	Now, from a man's standpoint, the issue is this.
	There's this bottom third of men that have just been left out of short term dating.
	Mac and Murphy talks about this concept.
	They just don't have any chance.
	And what they're being told is you need to wait until your girl is done with her short term dating so that you get her for your long term dating.
	So when she turns 30 and she's done with her fun stage.
	You get the leftovers.
	When she went to Raccoon and Ultra.
	If your girl has been to Ultra, Burning Man, and she's been to Miami Squim Week, and Atlanta Swim Week, and she's been to Ibiza, and she was at EDC, and she was at Coachella.
	And Dubai!
	And she's been to Dubai.
	Oh, Lord!
	Yes, for sure, man.
	I'm sure she belongs to the street.
	She is the street, bro.
	At that point, she is a fire hydrant.
	Get the water hose!
	The point is this bottom third of men, they're being left behind.
	And so there's other studies that show that as men make less money, the likelihood of them going a year without any sexual intercourse increases.
	So it's actually proportional.
	So we're just talking about money.
	We can talk about game.
	We can talk about height.
	We can talk about looks.
	We can talk about charisma.
	We can talk about social status.
	Or my favorite one, obviously, which is pre-selection, make-choice copying, women approving you, making more women be attracted to you.
	Those things are not being taught in general.
	And so you have a bunch of women that are dissatisfied because they think they're settling because they're going after this small group of men at the top.
	And you have a bunch of men at the bottom who are dissatisfied.
	And the main thing is Andrew Tate does not become incredibly popular unless those men were not being spoken to.
	And the reason why he became so popular is because no one was speaking to those men.
	Richard Reeve even admits he's like, academicians were ignoring the idea that men could be in crisis.
	The idea that men could be in crisis or men could be a victim of anything was just so anathema to anything that academics believed.
	And because of that, that's the reason why Andrew Tate blew up so big, because no one was speaking to that group of people.
	Well said.
	Okay.
	Interesting.
	I like to simplify it much more.
	And really what it comes down to is a couple things.
	One, like I said last episode, dating is a skill set.
	You can either choose to learn it, get better, which is essentially getting better at yourself, making yourself more attractive.
	Whether that be making more money, whether that be going to the gym, whatever it is, get better at being more attractive.
	And the second thing is action, man.
	Nothing's going to happen without action.
	People are literally waiting in their house, watching Pinion on Netflix, waiting for their Prince Charming to come knocking on the door, or their princess.
	It does not come without massive action.
	It is a numbers game at the end of the day.
	I have a question.
	You match both men and women.
	Do women want to improve to find their man, you think?
	Yes.
	I will not let women work with me unless they're open to being coached.
	It doesn't work that way.
	It doesn't work that way.
	Because, again, why would you hire me if you already have the love of your life?
	If you're already set?
	Clearly there's something there we've got to tweak.
	There's something they're not listening to.
	Some feedback they're not taking, maybe.
	Something, yes.
	Yeah, that the world's giving them.
	All right, and Rolo?
	Well, first off, I think a lot of the problems that we see with dating right now and meeting people is this right here.
	It's the buffer of social media, the buffer of technology.
	I think a lot of guys just simply sit behind a buffer so that they don't have to make the approaches or it's easier.
	It's a buffer against rejection.
	And I know a lot of guys will teach text game and everything else, but really there's no substitute for face-to-face.
	That's why I kind of like when you wanted to invite me on this show.
	I'm like, oh, finally.
	Now we can see what's going on.
	Some of the most popular shows I've ever done with other creators, when I do collabs, is when we sort of do like a play-by-play of dating like there's a video of a guy like you know kind of hitting on a girl or whatever and then really kind of I hate to say like be like John Madden you know like okay here's where he screwed up and here's where she's that kind of stuff and so so you can see it happen like live in real time or at least sort of an after-action kind of thing and honestly I think like everything you know that Mike and MK has said so
	far you know would be in full agreement with right you know Mike's gonna give you the nuts and bolts of it here But I think when it comes to doing something actionable and that's practical, it has to be face-to-face.
	And I think both men and women, when I talk to women, they'll say, you know, Rola, I've done everything right.
	I've got my job together.
	I've got my education together.
	I've got the bag.
	I'm 32 years old.
	Where's my man?
	Yeah.
	And there's no pushback.
	There's no approach.
	There's no action on her part.
	There's no action on the guy's part either, right?
	And so it's like you've got the boys on one side of the playground, you've got the girls on the other side of the playground, and then neither one of them want to lower themselves to actually come together and do anything.
	And I think a lot of guys will say that they're afraid of making an approach because they're afraid that they're going to get a me too, or they're going to get some kind of rejection, like a serious ass rejection.
	And so what do they do?
	They rely on things like OnlyFans.
	They rely on things like, you know, Hinge, Tinder, Bumble, that kind of stuff, which is actually starting to, like, really lose popularity these days.
	So I think, like, shows like this or, like, learning the skills to actually approach live in real time is a lost art.
	Right now so I think really making those approaches and as you said taking action some something that's very important.
	I just what he just said right there there's a survey I recently saw came out women under the age of 30 something like I believe somewhere between 17 and 23 percent of them said that a man coming up and approaching them constituted harassment yes yes now that's not the majority of women but even the fact that a quarter or a fifth of women I would say that constitutes harassment.
	Everybody has the opportunity to ask once.
	You can ask once.
	But the fact that we've done that, so now when you consider that, now there's that 17% who think that's harassment.
	Then there's that next 20% who are probably annoyed by it, but maybe don't think it's harassment.
	But that's enough to where men are like, fuck this.
	Why would I put up with this?
	Why even try?
	And I totally understand where that comes from.
	So there was a question on TikTok, social media going around, where it says, if you're in the woods, do you rather encounter a bear or a man?
	Or a man, yeah.
	And to see the answer was alarming.
	It goes to show how much women think about men.
	But without further ado, guys, we're doing a show today, speed dating slash matchmaking, a fresh match.
	We have some guys and some girls here to do a show, and we're going to find out today if they're going to match or not match.
	But ultimately, here's a video that kind of explains dating in Miami and pretty much the rest of the States.
	So play it real quick.
	This video kind of depicts what's happening in the dating scene.
	One second.
	All right.
	You just get these intense levels of frustration, and I've got to the point where I'm actually fishing somewhat mechanically.
	I'm casting, I'm casting, and I've lost that expectation.
	I've lost that belief that I'm going to get something.
	I just want to feel anything.
	I don't care what it is.
	Something alive.
	At the same time, you just get these intense levels of frustration, and I've got to the point where...
	I'm going to remember this when I'm on the charter fishing boat on Friday.
	Yeah, yeah.
	I gotta do something like that for Instagram.
	And as you guys know, I have my issues as well.
	But whatever we're going to do, guys, we're going to bring the people in here.
	Let's do it.
	Guy and girl.
	This is the icebreaker section.
	We're going to do an icebreaker game where, for example, they're going to come in, meet each other, feel each other out, and then decide...
	They've never met each other before?
	No.
	So first time, guys and girls, let's see what happens.
	All right.
	So let's say tour.
	Let's do it.
	Let's do it.
	Let's do it.
	Let's do it.
	All right.
	Welcome, everyone.
	Welcome, welcome.
	All right, guys, so you've got your icebreakers.
	Have at it.
	All right, here we go.
	We've got a three-minute speed date.
	Ready?
	Why don't you, do you want to go first?
	Sure.
	All right, what was the best advice anyone ever gave you?
	Ooh.
	I think when, oh that's tough, let's see, never trust anybody that says trust me.
	I think I'm gonna go with that.
	Anytime somebody says trust me, I've been let down, they didn't follow through, their advice was wrong, so I think I'm gonna go with that one.
	Do you have a question, Tam?
	Yeah, so what is the longest relationship you've had and why did it end?
	So, my longest relationship was four months, so I actually haven't had anything longer than that.
	Part of the reason why I pursued the career I did.
	And although my dating relationships have been short, they've been intense and they've been very beautiful.
	In this situation, there was infidelity, so I was cheated on.
	But it's actually interesting because within that relationship, I really learned how to still love and choose myself.
	And we actually became really close friends.
	We became even closer intimately afterwards than before that.
	So you said intense.
	Would you describe yourself as a passionate person?
	Of course, yes.
	Okay, what does passion mean to you?
	Yes, I would say passion is really looking for that depth and self-discovery.
	So part of my values is evolution and evolution of self.
	And as much as, you know, learning about yourself, what is your truth?
	What is your truth in relationship and in life?
	And really finding your purpose in that sense.
	Can I ask another one?
	Keep going!
	In Miami, I've run into a lot of people that are shallow, right?
	You don't find that depth.
	So how have you kind of maneuvered through the dating scene, the dating apps?
	What has it been like for you?
	Yeah.
	So I would say Miami for me really is a city where you can find community.
	I don't think other places do community as well as Miami does.
	And I can say this because I'm part of the entrepreneurial community.
	I am part of the conscious community.
	So I do have a lot of friends that are spiritual that are on this conscious intimacy journey.
	So it is different.
	Like, you know, even coming to Brickle, I don't come here that often.
	I was like, oh, yeah, it's really like different pockets everywhere.
	Right.
	But I'm a firm believer that you can really find what you're looking for.
	You just have to set the intention and you have to put yourself out there.
	Okay.
	Alright.
	We got one more.
	Yeah.
	We got one minute left.
	Yeah, for sure.
	So, yeah, what type of relationship are you looking for?
	I'm looking for a wife.
	I'm not going to lie.
	I've done the situationships.
	I've done the casual dating.
	I've done long-term during college, a little bit after that.
	Recently in Miami, I haven't had the best luck with finding that next partner.
	I just turned 30.
	I just bought a house.
	I'm kind of pretty settled in my life, and I think, you know, I got the backyard.
	I want the dog.
	I want the backyard.
	I want everything.
	I think I'm looking for something serious.
	Now, am I on the dating apps?
	Yes.
	Have I had bad luck with the dating apps?
	Of course.
	But I've met some really good women.
	I've met some beautiful women, ins and outs, but they just didn't last.
	I think we just didn't align.
	Whether it was me or her, they just didn't align.
	So I think that's why I'm here today.
	That's why I'm more of an in-person.
	I'm going to walk up to you at the bar.
	I'm going to go to a yoga class and kind of talk to you.
	I'm going to try to ask you out to coffee.
	So I think the dating apps don't work, but I think I think I'm looking for someone serious, so yeah, that's where I'm at right now.
	Alright, time is up.
	Buzzer sound?
	Okay.
	Listen.
	Now, ladies and gentlemen, choose from your...
	Actually, you know what?
	No, the ladies part as well.
	There's going to be an actual sign next to you.
	Thumbs up, thumbs down.
	Thumbs up, thumbs down.
	Now you're going to choose if he stays or if he goes.
	Green is if he stays, red is if he has to go.
	Just the lady?
	Just the lady?
	Olivia, go.
	Olivia, get him green.
	Now, tell us why he gets to stay.
	I think, for me, I really feel energy, and I think he's being genuine in his answers.
	So, yeah, I think it's something that I could learn more about him, and maybe it goes for him.
	Okay, great.
	Love it.
	Alright, so both of you can leave.
	There you go.
	Now both of you can leave.
	Round one.
	Do we have to?
	Yeah, because that means that she chose him.
	So that's pretty good.
	Alright, and then next couple coming up.
	Possible couple.
	Roller, what do you think so far, man?
	I thought that was a good exchange.
	Definitely a value exchange, for sure.
	Nice conversational skills on his part, for sure.
	But she said four months, my nigga!
	Slipping that into the conversation was pretty cool.
	But at the same rate, you know what?
	It's funny, because I talked to this about clients.
	Should you judge someone based off of having a really crazy, like, oh, it was two years, but maybe it was toxic.
	Maybe it was a toxic two years, and maybe, like, he's still or she's still recovering from those toxic two years, you know?
	Mike, maybe she was a, or he was a narcissist.
	You know what?
	I don't want you to.
	This is so funny, it's like 3% of the population are narcissists, but all of you are dating narcissists.
	Somebody is not good at math.
	But no, the thing is, so the first thing, I thought Tan, when he started off asking questions, there's this one survey in the UK that shows that When women say me or I seven times during a date, they're far more likely to have a second date.
	They looked at thousands and thousands of speed dates from that.
	But the other part was, at the end, I thought he was giving too much.
	And I know it was a three-minute date, but he doesn't need...
	I would never express, and I know you may disagree with this, but I'm a dating coach.
	The difference between being a matchmaker.
	I would never express that I wanted to get married on the first date, ever.
	Okay.
	For any reason whatsoever.
	The thing is, in most situations...
	I agree.
	In most situations, the way the date is going to be is he's going to be chasing her.
	And so this way we do it the other way.
	All right.
	That's a good assessment.
	Okay.
	So we got Jihan and the lovely Katie.
	Awesome.
	So three minutes on the clock.
	And at the end, she's going to choose if you have to stay or go, brother.
	All right.
	And by the way, you can ask questions from the top of your dome.
	It doesn't have to be on the cards there.
	But if you want to, you can.
	Let's back up.
	Let's run it.
	Got it.
	Want to start with Katie?
	Yeah, Katie, if you want to open up a card, go for it.
	Let's go!
	Okay, I just picked one?
	Yep.
	By all means.
	What is a hidden talent of yours?
	Into the microphone.
	Into the microphone.
	What is a hidden talent of yours?
	I can do the splits.
	I'm pretty flexible.
	Oh, cool.
	That's like a strange hidden talent for a guy, but yeah.
	I'm done.
	I think you guys are perfect for each other.
	I'm sorry.
	I've seen enough.
	I've seen enough.
	What the heck?
	What would be your dream job, Katie?
	Okay, this is going to sound lame, but I would just want to be a school teacher.
	That's what I'm working toward right now.
	Wait, can we see the split, bro?
	Oh, shoot.
	That was a while ago.
	Okay, I can put my leg over my head, but I can't do the splits anymore.
	Let's see it, bro.
	Let's see it.
	Come on.
	Like, actually.
	Oh, my God.
	I'm sure Kenny would be impressed.
	I was in capital.
	There goes your three minutes.
	Damn, you can't.
	That's incredible, man.
	Oh, shit!
	At first, I thought the question that I opened was supposed to be for me, and I was going to say jumping rope, so it's kind of similar.
	Nice.
	Well, what were you like as a kid?
	Were you like a nerd, popular?
	I was not popular.
	I was all about tennis and family, and I was very innocent growing up, naive.
	I'm a lot different now, but growing up was kind of awkward, shy.
	What are you like now?
	You're not as shy anymore?
	No.
	What made you, what made the difference?
	Probably coming to Miami, honestly.
	Like, I'm from a small town up in Michigan, and things were just more sheltered over there.
	Yeah, I feel that.
	Here I was able to come out of my shell a lot.
	It didn't take long.
	When did you move down here?
	I was 19, and I'm 29, so 10 years ago.
	What made you move?
	There was just something in me that wanted to get out of the Midwest, and so I took the chance when I had it.
	Something in you?
	Yeah.
	I mean, yeah, same pretty much.
	I'm from Alabama, so it's a pretty small town I'm from, and I decided to move down here actually half a year ago.
	Oh, okay.
	I mean, so I'm pretty new here, but...
	Yeah, well, I meet a lot of people that are new, and a lot of people assume I'm new, too, or that I'm a tourist, but I've been here for a while.
	What's your favorite thing to do here?
	I live on the beach, so I really just love whenever I have free time, going down to the beach with some friends, hitting a pool party, something like that.
	You just got a place by yourself, or you live with family?
	I have a different situation.
	I have two kids, so they're with me most of the time.
	But when they're not, then I have the place to myself.
	Oh, nice, nice.
	I see you.
	What happened with the dad, like...
	That's a good question.
	We were just never really in love.
	There's no hard feelings, and we're really good friends.
	We were just really young when it all happened.
	So, I don't know.
	I just think there were too many bad things that happened, and we just kind of lost love after that, and we never really had it in the first place.
	Did you guys like purposely have kids or just came back?
	No.
	So our first kid, we just were like hanging out and we had our first daughter.
	Hanging out does it.
	Hanging out will cause you to have a kid sometimes.
	We tried to make it work after that.
	We tried to make it work after that.
	I think it was, you know what, it was just too forced.
	It was too forced.
	And there was too much pressure from the outside.
	Speaking of pressure, time is up!
	Incredible.
	You have to, Katie, you both.
	Right there, the thumbs up.
	The thumbs up and the thumbs down if you'd like to continue.
	Thank you very go Just for future episodes, I think it might be better if the dude leaves and then she does No, he's great.
	I'm not saying this.
	I'm just saying in general.
	Hold on, Katie.
	Why yes to him?
	Why?
	We had a good conversation.
	Oh, we had a good conversation.
	I agree.
	I think you guys are perfect for each other.
	You ever had a wonton soup?
	Of course.
	Okay, great.
	You in there, buddy.
	Alright, let's go, Jehan.
	I cannot wait for the after hours.
	Let's go.
	Okay, my boy.
	Oh, my God.
	We're here making love happen, bro.
	One couple at a time.
	Let's fucking go, bro.
	Let's go.
	I love this shit, man.
	Who's next?
	Who's next?
	Thank you, China, man.
	One thing I want to say is, like, when you're on a date like this and a girl brings something up that's, like, chaotic, like the last two girls have, like, keep pushing that.
	Go further.
	Like, see how crazy you can get the stories to get.
	That's always really good.
	Keep digging.
	Keep digging.
	I'm almost like, really?
	No, tell me more.
	Yeah, tell me more.
	Exactly.
	Your mic's off.
	Exactly, yeah.
	Your mic's off.
	Because I'm mostly like, really?
	Tell me more.
	Tell me more?
	Yeah, you know what I'm talking about.
	Give them enough rope.
	Just keep giving them rope.
	That is the best.
	Please tell me more.
	Open-ended.
	All right.
	We have Ariana and we have Sean.
	And guys, you can pick any number of questions you see to ask the other.
	Ladies first.
	Or just go off your head.
	Exactly.
	Or you don't have to ask questions.
	Okay.
	Where do you see yourself in five years?
	To the moon.
	To the moon.
	No, honestly, probably a wife, kids, house, stuff like that, as far as I see myself.
	Okay.
	Do you have anything else you want to say about that?
	No?
	No, I mean, if you want to give me details.
	How about you?
	Same vibe, definitely committed.
	How many kids?
	Housewife, two.
	Two?
	Only two?
	Not three, four, five, six?
	That's a lot.
	I'm just playing with you.
	I'm trying to lighten the mood a little bit.
	These questions are kind of...
	So here's a question.
	You told me earlier that you're a makeup artist, right?
	And you own your own shop.
	Is that correct?
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	Who's the most interesting person that you've done makeup for?
	So, I did makeup on a doctor.
	She's a scientist.
	Okay.
	And she was about to give a speech.
	She was about to give a talk on sleep patterns and how to manage your stress and how to make stress actually your ally and how to use it as a power.
	That was super interesting.
	I meet the coolest people all the time and we have the best conversations.
	That's what I love about my job most.
	Awesome.
	Well, that's good that you like that.
	You got any questions for me?
	What are your hobbies?
	Well, I got a lot of hobbies.
	I like working out.
	I like to run.
	Running is like a big stress relief for me.
	People see me around Brickle.
	I run about 10 miles a day.
	I actually teach firearms for a living on the side.
	It's my side business.
	Kaz underscore actual.
	So folks on YouTube know who I am.
	But I train military SWAT teams.
	I just like shooting guns.
	It's fun.
	And we train actors.
	So shout out to the actors at BMF for 50 Cent's production.
	Okay, very cool.
	Nice.
	What's your favorite food?
	Tacos.
	Tacos, come on.
	I mean, honestly, I love all food.
	I'm a big foodie.
	But that is like a top.
	But what kind of tacos do you like?
	I mean, there's so many different types of tacos.
	Shrimp, fish.
	Okay.
	Carne asada.
	She's Hispanic, you know.
	Yeah.
	Would you be able to give them a recommendation on the best place in Miami to eat tacos?
	Yeah.
	Tacos stand in Wynwood.
	Okay.
	I like Wynwood.
	I like Wynwood.
	Yeah, I mean, I like tacos that are well made and they're tasty, so I recommend those.
	Okay.
	So like 4 a.m.
	after you go to 11, you would go to this place?
	I wouldn't know I don't do that, but...
	I like that.
	I like that.
	See?
	It was a trick.
	It was a trick.
	I know, I know.
	I like that.
	Where are your body used?
	Like, what do you look for in a woman?
	Oh, man.
	You know what?
	Loyalty.
	That's my number one thing is loyalty.
	I'm trying to keep you PG here, but loyalty is my number one thing.
	Without that, you don't have anything.
	Loyalty and respect, the top two.
	Everything else, you know, if you have loyalty and you have respect, everything follows suit.
	Sometimes you will lose the attraction.
	Obviously everyone ages, right?
	We're not going to stay the way we look right now.
	We will get older.
	We will age a little bit.
	But at the end of the day, as long as you have those core values of loyalty and respect, your relationship will be there forever.
	My parents were married 30-something years.
	Okay, time is up!
	All right.
	So the lovely taco eater.
	Thank you.
	You can choose.
	I knew you were going there.
	It's all in the chat.
	I'm watching the chat.
	You can choose from the sign right there.
	I'm just kidding, by the way.
	Yes or no.
	Green is yes.
	Red is no.
	Just there or go.
	Okay!
	Please tell us, why in the world are you choosing this guy?
	He's awesome, by the way.
	Why him?
	I'm interested in getting to know him better.
	Okay.
	I like that.
	Good job, guys.
	That was a good exchange.
	The last...
	People here.
	And we have an Easter egg coming up.
	An Easter egg of a lot of proportions.
	Yeah, go ahead, guys.
	Actually, not fertilized eggs, by the way.
	Not fertilized.
	They're unfertilized.
	Unfertilized eggs.
	We have one of our own in studio.
	Oh no.
	We have, without further ado, welcome Abby Daniel!
	Hello!
	Hello!
	Hello, how are you?
	Good, good.
	I'm getting the special treatment today, getting the insight.
	I'm lucky you get to go at the end and get to see how everybody do their interactions.
	We are on the clock.
	Get ready.
	Let's go.
	If you guys want icebreakers, choose from any of these questions.
	I don't think this one has been asked to you.
	Or ask for yourself.
	If you have something you want.
	If you don't need it, you don't need it.
	I could choose this one.
	Whatever you want.
	Speak from the heart.
	Do you like overdressed sweaty guys?
	No, I'm kidding.
	I do.
	I like it.
	I like it.
	I got one on my side already.
	What would be your dream job?
	Look at that.
	I don't want a job.
	The chat likes that.
	I'm doing it now.
	So what would be your dream job if you could do anything tomorrow?
	I think she's serious.
	She is serious.
	For the rest of your life.
	There's a gun to her head since she's at work.
	Fly a plane.
	I'll be a pilot.
	Goddamn it.
	A pilot?
	I would never get on a plane.
	I would never get on that plane, bro.
	Nope.
	Be like MH370 all over again.
	Yeah.
	Oh my god.
	Too soon.
	Too soon.
	This nigga, bro.
	Is it my turn to ask a question?
	Yes.
	Abby, I would totally get on your plane just to let you know.
	That's a bad idea.
	What is something that is true about you that most people wouldn't believe?
	Oh, that wouldn't believe.
	That wouldn't believe.
	Hard to think of one.
	He's white.
	Yeah, I think most people...
	Unbelievable!
	Most people actually tell me I look like Denzel Washington.
	That's usually the first thing that...
	Yo!
	That's usually the first thing I hear about it.
	You what?!
	People tell me I look like Fresh, so...
	No, usually when I run into people, they don't think, especially when I'm traveling outside of Miami, that I actually live in downtown Miami because I'm your average looking white dude who speaks zero Espanol.
	So they're like...
	It kind of takes them a second to say, I'm not kidding, I'm not kidding.
	Because I also think they know I'm from Jersey, New York, because chocolate, coffee, those accents hit quick.
	So people don't really believe that I live in Miami for the last three, four years.
	Or actually, better yet, that I'm a six-foot white dude that I didn't play college basketball.
	I would say that's the number one thing that I would probably say.
	Okay.
	Well...
	No, it's up to you guys.
	You motherfuckers have to be grown-ups now.
	It's your turn for a question.
	Okay, Abby, tell me about your last relationship and why it ended up.
	Ooh!
	So my favorite.
	So my favorite.
	I haven't been in a relationship.
	Ever?
	Ever.
	So just single?
	You're so single, you're on the clearance rack at this point?
	So then what would you want in a relationship, Abby?
	What would I want in a relationship?
	Yeah, yeah, yeah.
	Listen, time is over, but listen, keep going, keep going.
	Finish that last question.
	Finish the last question.
	What would I want in a relationship?
	Yes.
	I'm sorry.
	More respect than you're getting in this room right now.
	So I just turned into a roast of Abby.
	All right, let her speak.
	Let her speak.
	Guys, real quick.
	By the way, if you're in the chat watching right now, Super Chat in your comments live or post it during the actual interaction so it'll be funny as hell.
	But let's continue.
	Go ahead.
	Go ahead, Abby.
	I would just say loyalty.
	That's the first thing I can think of.
	Okay.
	Same quality here.
	Now, you asked me a question.
	I said, what's your last relationship like?
	You said zero, which is hard to believe.
	Now, are there other people on Earth that thought you were in a relationship with them when you actually weren't?
	That's a great question.
	That is a great question.
	Daniel, spin!
	No.
	So if we asked them, they wouldn't say they were in a relationship with you?
	No.
	Okay, got it.
	Okay.
	Okay, we can stop it there.
	Okay, so Abby.
	Bravo.
	This is in your, the ball's in your court.
	No pun intended here.
	Uh, raise your, raise your flag.
	Green for yes, red for no.
	Okay!
	Okay, all right!
	Okay!
	I'm always gonna, I'm always gonna say yes.
	It doesn't make any difference.
	Dana, it's not, they're not getting married.
	I guess you're hopping onto her plane then.
	I'm kidding.
	Go back there and check it out.
	You love birds?
	Get out of here!
	You crazy kids.
	Okay, so, guys in the chat.
	You can see clearly here, right?
	Dating is not as simple as it seems.
	Is that what we're seeing?
	The interactions between man and woman are not always smooth.
	It can be a little bit weird, a little bit dry, and usually, no offense to girls here, but they'd be lacking in conversation.
	So you need to mind up with the man.
	How dare you?
	But guys, real quick.
	Interactions here, conclusions.
	Let's go.
	You want to go first?
	No, you go.
	Overall...
	I said yours first.
	Overall, I absolutely could have used more interaction from the women.
	I'm not going to lie.
	I wish they were pricking up a little bit more with the men we're putting down, you know?
	And there were, I'd say, at least three of the guys who were continuously asking questions, which I think was good.
	But then there was one point, I'm not going to name any names, but it was almost like he was scrounging for questions.
	And it's like, at the end of the day, guys, if you're on a date and the energy's not being matched for energy, just say, hey...
	Best of luck to you.
	You know, like, hey, let's split ways.
	Like, don't waste any more of your time.
	Because at the end of the day, a lot of people are like, I'm wasting so much time.
	Don't waste the time.
	You need to match energy for energy.
	And it was not equal in the four that I was seeing.
	Okay.
	Rollo, what do you think?
	I will...
	The one thing I'm going to comment about with the guys that actually surprised the hell out of me is that these guys actually had some conversational skills.
	I know you've got the questions here, but the fact that they could ask stuff and sort of improvise on the fly like that, that's a skill right there.
	Those are social skills.
	So being able to carry on a conversation.
	One of the things I tell guys when we're on Access Vegas or when people call in for some sort of advice or whatever, one of the things I talk about is if you haven't taken a class in improvisational theater or something like that, you probably should, especially for guys who tend to be more introverts.
	I don't think we have one introvert here.
	And even the guy that can put his foot over his head, it takes a certain amount of extroversion to do that.
	If you tend to be more of an introverted guy or you fumble for conversation, this is probably one of the most common things.
	Asks for advice that we get is like, I can't carry on a conversation.
	I know what to say.
	I don't know how to keep things floating.
	I think if you had some sort of ability or some practice ability to do improvisational theater, one of the first things they teach you in improv is never say no.
	Always say yes.
	Because a no kills a conversation.
	Yes always keeps going.
	So if you ask open-ended questions and you can lead to a yes to a yes to a yes, even if you're just goofing, right?
	Even if you're just doing a green amplify, it's still a yes and it still keeps the conversation going.
	And also, the guys were very animated too.
	I was actually pleasantly surprised.
	I expected these guys to come in here and just sort of like, you know, clam up.
	If you need an improv coach, by the way, in Miami, I know the best one.
	Good advice.
	So a couple things.
	Women are the gatekeepers to when you guys are going to have sex.
	Men are the gatekeepers to when you're going to be in a relationship.
	And two of the guys started talking about being in a fucking marriage in the first couple minutes.
	No.
	Even if you want to get married, that is something that she has to earn throughout the interaction.
	I really don't like the idea of giving up that much that soon.
	Because one of the things that happens is some women may actually see you as just, hey, this is a hot guy I want to hook up with.
	And some women may see you as relationship material.
	As soon as you say, I'm here to get married, that hot guy they wanted to hook up with, that relationship or that reality is fucking gone now.
	That's why you don't do that.
	That's one of these things where...
	Guys, just consider her figuring out that you're a doctor or you bragging to her that you're a doctor.
	Let her discover these incredible things about you.
	And the fact that you have a nice house and kids, or you want kids and all this other shit, she needs to discover that.
	She needs to work for it.
	And so one of the things I always say is like, and one thing that I will say I really appreciate, because I've seen other shows like this, the guys start complimenting the girls on their physical appearance.
	It's okay to compliment them on other things, but physical appearance right off the bat, in dating today, is just such a terrible idea.
	I'm glad none of the guys did that here today.
	Again, if you're a matchmaker, I think it's different, but as a dating coach, For men today, most women are not interested in most men.
	Women swipe right 5% on dating apps.
	Men swipe right 55% on dating apps.
	And so in order to do that, you have to build your value.
	You have to build your value by getting her to invest.
	And when you start off the conversation with a bunch of compliments, or you start starting off by basically just giving up the farm and saying, I'm a Ready to get married off the gate, you are not only less attractive, you're less mysterious.
	And so that's why I tell guys, never do that.
	You can do it, but she needs to earn it.
	I want you to consider the situation.
	Most dating now, this is the way it's set up, a man is trying everything he can to keep a woman's attention so that maybe he has a chance of having sex with her and going on another date.
	He's a pitch man.
	You need to fucking break that paradigm.
	As a man, you have got to destroy that paradigm.
	You need to look at her like she has chlamydia.
	If that's what you've got to do, so you stop sitting there.
	You cannot be in a situation where it's like, I'm putting her under a pedestal.
	And women will appreciate it more because you get to be more of your authentic self when you behave like that instead of staring at her big boobies.
	Got it?
	Beautiful.
	I have a quick question about that real quick because I always preach like date intentionally, you know, date with a plan.
	But I so agree with you.
	First date, not the time and the place to be talking about marriage.
	It's just not, even though that's what you want.
	But how do you still show or deliver that you are serious?
	What's one way to do that?
	You can deliver that you're serious, but again, this is where the difference is.
	In your situation, because you're talking about being a...
	A lot of times the guys who are watching the show are just having trouble getting women to go on dates with them, period.
	My advice is for them.
	What you're talking about, you're a matchmaker.
	So in your situation, you have two people who have come to the realization, I'm at a point in my life where I'm ready to be matched.
	In that case, you can have the conversation.
	And by the way, I didn't say women can't talk about marriage.
	Women can talk about marriage.
	If I was talking to a woman and she's like, I want to be faithful to my husband and I want to have kids, that's two thumbs up for that.
	That's totally fine.
	Because we kind of assume women want monogamy.
	That's not a secret for us, and that doesn't make women less attractive to us.
	This format already removes one step, which is the approach, which is, is this guy hot enough?
	Is this girl hot enough?
	They're already here.
	They know they're going to have the conversation, so it removes one step in the flow.
	We're supplying the environment for them to thrive.
	Right, so that the conversation can take place.
	Okay, so guys, we're going to actually have a segment here because before we give the girls the power, they got to choose who went and who came.
	But now the guys have the power to choose who they're going to date with.
	So guys and girls come in.
	We're going to do guys on one side, girls on one side.
	And the guys can actually choose...
	Who they want to take on a date.
	So guys, think about a date you want to go on.
	For example, maybe Olive Garden, walk in the park, maybe some tacos, maybe even the movies if you want to.
	And then we'll have the guys pick one girl per guy.
	Okay, so who wants to go first?
	Daniel.
	Yes, sir.
	Pick who you want and they'll come next to you.
	Olivia.
	Alright, Olivia.
	Head over there.
	Okay.
	Four and four basketball?
	What are we doing?
	I'm gonna say tacos.
	You can't do that!
	I gotta do that!
	Not you!
	Wait, hold on, hold on.
	That's originally inappropriate.
	Unless you're fresh.
	Then it's totally fine.
	Say whatever you want.
	Trust me, bro, I'm black.
	I can do this.
	You can't do this.
	Uh, Chinaman!
	Chinaman!
	You're next!
	Who do you pick?
	Chinaman!
	Chihuan!
	Oh!
	You can pick nobody!
	Oh, you pick Abby!
	Okay, cool, Abby!
	Alright!
	Young thing.
	And then last but not least...
	Yeah, it's all good.
	Okay, Tan.
	Okay, so guys, here's the scenario.
	You guys can tell them real quick what's the scenario for the date.
	Okay, guys.
	So, yes, the gentlemen have the honor of creating your ideal date with this woman.
	So, you have like five, ten seconds.
	No, we're going to do one by one.
	But, yeah, you guys are going to create the date scenario and you're going to act as if you're on the date.
	So, time, place...
	Sit right there.
	Three minutes on the clock.
	Let's do it.
	We'll do an order, so we'll do Danielle and Olivia first.
	Let's do it.
	Come on down, guys.
	The press is right.
	And the rest can...
	Oh, go to the back.
	File out.
	Yeah.
	You can head to the back, guys.
	Yeah.
	Thank you.
	All right.
	So first couple here...
	Olivia and Dan, well, hopefully we can see some action here.
	Some good action.
	Can't wait to see it.
	Some arms distance action or is that?
	Whatever works, bro.
	Alright.
	You guys ready?
	Yes, sir.
	Three, two...
	Oh, by the way, before you begin, Daniel, tell us the location, the place, tell us the time of day it is.
	Already got it.
	Perfect.
	Alright.
	One, two...
	Three!
	Let's go!
	All right, Olivia, we are at North Italia.
	It is 4 p.m.
	in the afternoon.
	We both just got off of work.
	We're hitting happy hour, casual drinks, outside bar, right in Mary Brickle Village.
	Getting some appetizers, getting some cocktails, a kind of wine, get a little comfortable with each other.
	We did meet off of Bumble, though, just to kind of set the stage there.
	Okay, because you swiped on me, we swiped, we connected, then you messaged me first because we're on Bumble.
	So you start off, you dig me.
	We match.
	Now we're at Mary Brickle Village.
	And just ordered us a couple of Caesar salads.
	I love the energy.
	This guy is dangerous.
	Caesar salads.
	He's trying to fuck tonight.
	The deal is I pick...
	I'm like going to go with the nachos or something.
	Not that they have it there.
	But the deal was I pick the appetizers, you pick the drinks.
	So you're up.
	All right.
	So I continue telling this story.
	Okay.
	So I picked the drinks and I hope North Italia has a spicy fruity mezcal margarita.
	Okay.
	A little tajina on the rim we're doing?
	Yes.
	Yes.
	Exactly.
	A little spicy girl.
	I like it.
	I like it.
	Okay.
	So the intro is done.
	Imagine you're at a table sitting across from each other.
	Let's go.
	Okay.
	So Olivia, what's your favorite color?
	The worst thing to ask ever.
	So why'd you match with me on Bumble?
	Yeah, I was curious of meeting someone new and learning about what they're into.
	Okay, but what was it about my profile?
	What made you want to swipe right on it though?
	Was it my selfies or my bio?
	It was a bio that had a description of, yeah, some of the things that you're into and perhaps also it was some of the work that you're doing.
	I noticed that you were either on, you know, social or on stages and really passionate about what you're doing work-wise.
	Well, I'm from Jersey and I work with some non-profits.
	I also do podcasting on the side as well.
	So that's what grabbed?
	That was the grab or that was the hook?
	Yes, that was the grab.
	Okay.
	Did you think I was attractive?
	Oh, the start of the hesitation!
	No, I felt like, okay, if you're in your power and you're really stepping up, yeah.
	Okay, okay.
	Well, I just finished that first mezcal.
	We're going to do a second round.
	That's okay?
	Sure, we're going to do a second round.
	Okay, even though you're not even halfway through, that's all right.
	How's the Caesar salad?
	Not really my choice, but yeah, it's kind of to the side at this point.
	We'll flip it then.
	You pick the entrees and I'll pick the drinks, alright?
	So we're going to do two double McAllens neat.
	They can come over now.
	McAllen's definitely not drinking that.
	You just switched from tequila to whiskey.
	Mezcal, mezcal.
	No, tequila.
	Mezcal's tequila.
	I know, I know.
	That was a McAllen.
	Hey, we got a donation from Dr.
	B84. What'd he say?
	He said, forget about it.
	He said forget about it.
	Okay.
	Dr.
	B84 in the building.
	Okay, continue.
	I'll pull up to Joey Cerviani.
	How you doing?
	Type of language.
	But, um...
	Well, where are you from, Olivia, by the way?
	Michigan?
	No, I'm originally from Chicago.
	Oh, Chicago.
	Okay, okay.
	What brought you down to Miami, then?
	So, yeah, seven years ago.
	No, I was working for an SMS marketing company, and they acquired an office here.
	Okay, and it was your choice, or did you move on with the company?
	I moved out.
	It was my choice, ultimately.
	How do you like it so far?
	No, I've been loving it.
	I mean, the reason I came to Miami is because it was such an international city.
	I had my heart set on Europe, but Miami happened, and for now it's been where it's at.
	Have you met a cute boy yet?
	Yes, I feel like there's really attractive, a lot of attractive people in Miami.
	Do you have boys?
	I do.
	Same.
	Love that, love that.
	Here come the rumble jokes.
	Why are these jokes about 1939 going on here?
	What's going on here?
	That McAllen's starting to settle in now.
	There we go.
	Why are they telling you to invade Poland?
	What the fuck is that?
	I mean, I shouldn't see the mustache.
	Yo, nigga, you are funny, bro.
	Okay, so we have the actual date here.
	I don't know what you want to say to this, but how's the date?
	And we're talking about the young lady here.
	How's the date?
	Yeah, I'm not really into it, so it's just nothing.
	I'm just curious.
	Why?
	Please tell us why.
	I mean, even personally, like, from where it was set, like, the stage, like, it's not really my type of thing.
	Was he too pushy and, like, was he taking control too much?
	Did you feel like that?
	Yeah.
	You could say, yeah, it was intense.
	It was a little too intense.
	When he was saying, why did you like my...
	Yeah, I was like, oh, you're really assuming a lot of things here.
	Wait, so question.
	If he didn't assume or had that set up from the very beginning, would it have been more, like, I guess, relaxing to talk to him?
	I guess if it was the question, like, oh, like, what made you really curious about, you know, getting to know me?
	I feel like that's a different type of energy than assuming already, like, I don't know, it was just, yeah, it was, yeah, maybe the intensity.
	So I'm guessing he can't get on your plane?
	And that's okay, because not everyone's for everyone.
	Daniel, sir, you did the best you could.
	But don't worry, you're not out yet.
	We've got some other people here.
	So let's bring the other people in.
	Good job, guys.
	I think what Daniel did would have worked with a lot of women.
	Sometimes you're just not, like she said, don't match energy.
	I just don't think it was a match, yeah.
	And there's nothing wrong or right about it.
	Alright.
	Okay, number two coming in hot and heavy.
	Thanks, guys.
	Yo, Daniel's funny, man.
	I like this guy.
	Bringing up history along the way.
	Setting the stage.
	Dude, that's Harvey Specter right there.
	That's Harvey Specter.
	Yo!
	Whoa!
	He got the chair for her?
	He came with the chair.
	He got the chair tacos tonight.
	She's not eating tacos tonight.
	She's not eating tacos.
	Okay.
	Okay, so set the stage, brother.
	Time, place, where you guys are at?
	So, we're going to go to a paint sip starting out because she did tell me that she's a makeup artist, so she likes to do stuff with her hands.
	I know she likes to paint, so I want to find something that she likes to do because it's going to bring her into the fold, right?
	And then after that, I would take her to Gecko's.
	They have like sushi.
	It's like a place here in Brickle.
	It's a nice little spot.
	I cook my own food, and I also bake my own food, so I don't actually eat out a lot.
	So sushi is where I have like the ground of where I can meet you at.
	Perfect.
	So let's start at the first location and then move to the second location.
	Let's go.
	Alright, so I guess, hey, they picked you up or your Uber or something like that.
	We got to the restaurant or we got to the pain and sip.
	I guess I can draw with my little...
	You got your little thing there, too.
	Yeah.
	Here, you can have mine.
	So let's have the conversation.
	We guys are there right now.
	What's going on?
	How about one of you guys tell us something to draw or something?
	Hmm.
	Okay, you know what?
	I got something a little easier.
	How about two lies or two truths and a lie?
	So Mike could be the actual conductor there and then you tell him what to do.
	Yeah, let's do this.
	I want you guys to tell two things that are true and one thing that's a lie to each other.
	Can you guys do that?
	Alright.
	So you're going to say three things.
	Go ahead and tell him three things and two of them are true and one of them is a lie.
	And you have to draw an eagle on your paper at the same time.
	Okay.
	I was married once before.
	I used to dance professionally.
	I have three dogs.
	Okay!
	Which one do you think is a lie?
	So, in my prior career, I was an interrogator for the U.S. Army.
	But I'll say this, because interrogations are actually control and repeat questions, and so I have not had enough time to actually sit here and talk to you and be able to figure out what is true and what's not true.
	So, there's some pseudoscience there for you guys.
	But out of those three, I would say maybe the dancer?
	The dancer's what?
	Fake.
	False.
	False.
	No.
	Oh.
	I know which one it is.
	The dogs.
	The one that took us on the first one.
	Oh, you're never married.
	Oh, you're never married.
	Oh, wow.
	Actually, I said two lies on one truth.
	Oh, she said, okay, so...
	So which one is the truth?
	Oh, it's a professional dancer.
	Okay, where at?
	Here.
	I mean, I'm talking which club.
	No.
	Oh, so you're that type of dancer.
	Okay, all right.
	I mean, I'm stupid.
	I did date a dancer back in Atlanta for a couple of years.
	In Atlanta, they're wholesome men.
	I have a question.
	First date, if I was you, it would be a course of AR-15 followed by MP5 and then maybe a Barrett and then we're going to do a Six Sour and a Gold Desert Eagle.
	That's what I would take a girl on my first date if I was you.
	I don't do that.
	And the reason why I don't do that is because I'm a professional and I charge for that.
	And so it is work for me.
	So I don't actually get enjoyment going shooting guns as much as I used to.
	Because I've trained thousands of people all across the United States.
	So for me, it's like work.
	And I want to get away from work as much as I can.
	Got it.
	Okay.
	Beautiful.
	But I get what Mike is saying.
	Taking her into your frame of what you do normally.
	Okay.
	You got like what?
	20 seconds left?
	You gotta ask me something.
	Oh!
	Or actually, the two truths.
	Yeah, your turn.
	I've been married, I have a bastard son out there, and I have a cat.
	What?!
	Which one's a lie?
	The cat.
	No.
	The bastard son is a lie.
	That'd be a cat.
	When he said he's a dog person.
	If he had a bastard study, he wouldn't even know.
	Question, question.
	Would you date a guy with kids?
	No.
	He would not date a guy with kids?
	No, because I did that before and I didn't like it.
	It was a baby's mama kept coming back in.
	Yeah, it was very dramatic.
	There was a lot going on all the time.
	It felt very draining.
	No.
	Okay.
	Alright, so time is up.
	Now, question for you.
	How's the date?
	And would you go on a third date or second date with him?
	Well, I don't like that you pick two things to begin with.
	Okay.
	So I felt like we can start somewhere and then let it happen.
	Always, always.
	I'm just giving the narrative or whatnot.
	But yeah, you're correct.
	Because, I mean, if the first date was crappy, I'm going to be like, hey, I'm going to call you an Uber and that's going to be it, right?
	Yeah.
	Yeah.
	Other than that, I did like the idea of it being painted with a twist.
	I do prefer an experience, an activity.
	So, yeah, for that reason, I would go on a third date, yeah.
	Okay, and last question.
	Rate him one out of ten.
	Anna, you rate her one out of ten.
	Oh my gosh, no pressure.
	That's mean.
	Yeah.
	We were so uncomfortable.
	She's a good person.
	Like, I talked to her back behind here.
	It's like, oh shit!
	Oh shit!
	It's not a...
	Okay, you know what?
	You know what?
	How about this?
	Is it a match?
	Yes or no?
	I really need her to open up more.
	I want to know who she is, because right now I just see the looks, and there's a million beautiful Hispanic women here in Miami, and trust me, I'm a good-looking dude.
	I get plenty if I really want that, but I'm not in that mindset.
	I'm really looking for someone to settle down with, someone I can have connection with, and I need to see the humor, baby.
	I know you've got it in you.
	Where's the humor at?
	You're going to ask me the questions.
	Wait, I take you to a comedy show.
	How about that?
	See you laugh.
	Okay, so I think we're good here, right?
	All right.
	Good.
	Second date?
	Second date?
	I like it, guys.
	All right, there you go.
	Thank you.
	Think about this.
	Think about this.
	Think about this one.
	We got the third.
	People here coming through, man.
	Scrap!
	Okay, uh...
	That was pretty funny, actually.
	I'm back!
	We got Chinaman!
	and Abby.
	This is hilarious.
	Okay, so you can choose location, time, and scenario.
	Let's see.
	Alright.
	We are at Petco at like 2 p.m.
	because I dropped out of high school, so we're not in a school or don't have any work.
	Okay.
	So we're in Petco looking for hamsters.
	Yeah.
	Have you ever had a hamster?
	Yeah, I actually did.
	Like in first grade, I had like five hamsters.
	I just named them like Jihan Junior, Senior.
	I don't know.
	They're cute, but they bite you.
	They shit all over the house and stuff.
	Oh, they also have kids.
	Oh, they eat their kids, by the way.
	That's why you have to train them.
	Yeah, I was traumatized.
	I came back from school one day, preschool.
	Yeah, no, no, no.
	I was in fifth grade.
	Yeah, I came back from school and I found out one of my amsters just got eight.
	Not by my family, by the way.
	By another hamster like my mom.
	No, that's racially inappropriate.
	What?
	What's culturally inappropriate?
	So, I have a question for you.
	Yeah.
	Since I've never been in a relationship and I'm a virgin, how would you treat me on a first date?
	Like, honestly, to be completely honest, I'm a virgin as well.
	I've never had a girlfriend, and so, um...
	Wait!
	Stop the show!
	Stop the show!
	There we go.
	Stop the show!
	Wait, wait!
	Count the basket.
	Emotional damage!
	Wait, you're telling me you're a virgin too, bro?
	Yeah, I mean, just look at me.
	This man is very self-aware.
	Two virgins and petco.
	Wait, Abby, how old are you, Abby?
	19.
	Wow, you're both 19 and virgins?
	Exactly, there's a first time for everything.
	Okay, so how would you be here on a date?
	You know, I'm not going to be the one guy who's going to say, oh, I'll take you on a date to some crazy-ass place.
	We're just going to keep it simple.
	We're going to go to a cafe, maybe go get some ice cream.
	That sounds great.
	What's your favorite ice cream flavor?
	Chocolate.
	Chocolate?
	Oh, okay.
	Did that mean something?
	Did chocolate, did that mean something?
	I'm really confused.
	I was thinking maybe you would say like...
	Dark chocolate.
	Dark chocolate?
	Oh, shoot.
	Wait, Abby, are you a BBC game?
	No, I'm a virgin.
	I know, but do you want to be?
	No, I like Asian guys.
	Okay, continue.
	You're almost done.
	Yeah, yeah, just get some ice cream.
	What's your favorite ice cream flavor?
	It really depends.
	I like the cookies and cream.
	Yeah, yeah.
	This is so sweet.
	He's complex.
	Like you, Biden, it's soft, crunchy, tastes good.
	Is it bad for your braces?
	Yeah, it is pretty bad for my braces, I'm not going to lie.
	I'm getting them off in another year or so.
	Do things ever get stuck in your braces?
	Oh yeah.
	Like what?
	Like steak.
	How do you get your steak cooked?
	Like pink.
	Because if you cook it too much, then it's too hard to chew on.
	It's too hard.
	You like it.
	Yeah, I like your pink.
	Okay.
	Okay, so time is up.
	Yo, if this doesn't get a second date, I'm out.
	Okay.
	I'm out.
	They're perfect.
	So Abby.
	Absolutely perfect.
	Abby, you're on a date.
	How was the date?
	It was great.
	Okay, question for you.
	Yes or no?
	Yes.
	Yes.
	Wow!
	You know what?
	I am shocked.
	You know why I'm shocked?
	They're both virgins, both 19, and they both like Asian food.
	Yeah.
	That's great!
	What are the odds?
	It was very humorous.
	I think the idea of going to Petco is brilliant.
	It's simple.
	Especially if you're 19 and you can't go to a club and drink.
	Exactly.
	Keep it fun.
	Keep it at your level.
	Don't try to be some generation you're not.
	I'm not going to lie.
	At the beginning, I thought you guys had almost staged this.
	Here's what we're going to say.
	No, it is true.
	Okay, okay, okay, this is good.
	I like it.
	The flow was good, and you guys were genuine.
	So, thank you.
	There you go.
	Thank you.
	I think Jihan is so genuinely authentic that he just doesn't even know better to just say these things.
	And I think a lot of women might like that, so I think that's actually pretty refreshing.
	Like, he does not seem to give a shit about what anybody else thinks.
	Yeah, I'm just going to be myself.
	You know, you don't want to pretend to be someone you're not, and then later on, you guys have issues.
	Well, that's why Abby gave you the green thumb.
	Unless she wanted to give a black thumb for some reason.
	I don't know what that was.
	Okay, good job, guys.
	That's a match right there.
	That's a fresh match.
	Okay, good job, Abby.
	Good job, Jihan.
	Okay.
	Nobody's going to tell her that she's a 5.
	No one's going to say that.
	There's fucking 10,000 people watching this.
	No pressure.
	Last group here.
	I am so happy to be a part of this, man.
	Matches everywhere.
	Good laughs.
	Myron's going to be back soon, right?
	Yeah, so we'll be back for half hours.
	Scenario, time, place.
	Let's go.
	Yeah, I mean, we can kind of top off at what everyone else did, right?
	So I'm more of an outdoors kind of guy.
	So I think sunset hour, you know, five o'clock, six o'clock, sun is setting.
	We grab a blanket.
	We go to Virginia Key Beach, you know, not too crowded.
	We stay away from the South Beach.
	We get a bottle of wine, red, obviously, hopefully.
	We keep a second bottle in the tuck, hopefully, because, you know, one's good for now, and then if we like each other, we'll stick around for the second.
	And then, yeah, we just kind of vibe, you know, make some eye contact, good conversation on the beach, and then potentially jump in the water based on how much we drink.
	I live on the beach, so that's a perfect match for me.
	I think that's the ideal date, and if we like each other's company, we'll go get food.
	I think first we start off with some drinks, get comfortable, you know, get on the beach, and then if we like each other, we'll go get some food after, and then we'll see where it goes from there.
	Okay, let's start a date.
	Alright, let's go.
	So, I pick you up, ask you where you live, pick you up, tell you to kind of bring a bathing suit for backup in case we want to jump in the water, maybe dress for the night, you know, don't tell you where we're going after.
	Well, hold on, hold on.
	Let's imagine you're already at the lake or beach right now.
	You're at the location.
	What's the conversation like?
	What's happening?
	Okay, so a lot of eye contact.
	The sun's reflecting off your eyes.
	I see the blue eyes.
	We're getting deep.
	Let's talk like you guys are right there.
	You're in the moment right now.
	You don't have to worry about the backup outfit.
	I'd probably wear a cover-up that's made for going out just in case we do go out after.
	Okay, so we'll start off with why are you single or why is dating in Miami not worked out for you?
	Because it's Miami.
	What do you expect to be different?
	With me picking you up, you obviously said yes for a reason.
	What do you expect to be different?
	I don't know.
	With you, I could pick up that maybe you were ready for something a little bit more serious.
	Was it the wife comment?
	Yeah.
	What are your thoughts on the wife comment?
	Let's talk about that because somebody didn't like that.
	Oh, it's not that I don't like that.
	I mean, it is coming on a bit strong, but I come on strong too.
	Okay.
	So maybe we're a good match.
	Okay.
	Wait, you come on strong?
	Yeah.
	You come on strong?
	Hey, come on.
	Off strong.
	I don't know.
	Okay, so we have the first bottle of wine.
	We're getting intimate.
	We're talking about past trauma.
	We're talking about previous relationships.
	When do you know that you're going to stay with me the night?
	Or when do you know that we're going to hang out after?
	We're going to continue the night.
	For me, it doesn't take too long to figure it out.
	Like, I don't need to text all my friends to figure out if I like a guy.
	Like, if I like you, I like you.
	It's, like, super clear.
	And usually it's before the date.
	I can tell if, like, I like someone.
	Okay.
	Are we jumping in the water, yes or no?
	Very important.
	Yeah, as long as my hair doesn't get wet.
	Oh, I was going to ask.
	Do you care about the makeup coming off?
	Okay, the hair is the one thing, but do you care about the makeup coming off?
	I can splash my face with water.
	That's fine.
	Okay, okay.
	These are all good answers.
	Yeah, so what do you think?
	Are we going to dinner?
	We're going to dinner.
	We're doing Netflix after.
	We're watching a murder documentary.
	I like scary movies.
	Okay, okay.
	Are you...
	Can we do a quick never have I ever?
	How about the between the two of you?
	Never have I ever.
	Okay.
	Something you've never done, but you think he has done.
	Okay, never have I ever been on this kind of date before.
	So I've done something like this.
	Not blind date, but during COVID, I was on a social media platform where you submit a video and then females would DM you or reach out to you.
	So I had like over 100 dates on that, which went really well for me.
	So I've done something like this.
	Not a blind, specifically, they would DM you and you would talk.
	Oh, I'm so sorry.
	I meant like a beach date.
	Like I've never actually.
	Oh.
	Oh.
	Roll it back, roll it back.
	Hilarious.
	I've never done the beach day, okay.
	Hilarious.
	What's your typical date?
	Is it more of a nighttime date for dinner?
	Why have you not done a beach day?
	What I'm used to is just going out for drinks and then whatever happens after that.
	But I'm just not used to an actual date, so that's kind of refreshing.
	Okay.
	Why do you think that guys have not asked you out to a beach type of date?
	Do you think that you give off the energy where you just want to go get drinks and that's it?
	No, I personally don't think I give off that energy.
	I just think that's what they're kind of looking for more than anything else.
	And have you voiced your opinion about the fact that you prefer a different type of date?
	No.
	I'll be honest.
	I'm very passive.
	That's like a weakness of mine.
	My next question is, do you have a problem voicing your opinion?
	I do.
	It's hard for me.
	So are you more the submissive type?
	I guess, yeah.
	If I really like somebody, I'm agreeable.
	And it's hard for me to express myself.
	If I like somebody, I go along too much with what they want.
	Do you ever challenge or question the decisions made by the men, or do you just go along for the ride?
	I mean, there is to a point, right?
	But yeah, usually, I mean, things haven't really worked out, so I can't say that there was any, like, usually it ends before that even becomes an issue.
	So do you think you're going to change your ways going forward?
	And after our date, do you think this has changed your mind a little bit?
	Changed my ways in terms of, like, speaking up more?
	Yeah.
	Yeah.
	I think, like, with you, you're someone who actually seems to want to communicate with me, so with you, I think I would be able to do that, yes.
	Okay, so is there a second date after this?
	I like it.
	The time is up.
	Fresh putting it together.
	Fresh match.
	Okay.
	Before you leave though, quick question.
	Would you be a girl that has kids?
	Um...
	No.
	I would not.
	She has kids.
	Nope!
	Shit.
	You do have kids, don't you?
	You told me that.
	Uh...
	Yeah, of course I would.
	Of course I would.
	Wait a minute!
	That sounded better on your head, didn't it?
	There's a different tool for every...
	Every problem.
	There we go.
	He used a new tool.
	Of course I would.
	Of course I would.
	Did he just switch it up like that?
	Okay!
	You should trust him.
	Did he just switch the cable?
	All right.
	Thank you, ladies and gentlemen.
	Okay, we're going to do conclusion thoughts here, and then we're going to pick the couples at the very end.
	Chat is involved as well.
	They can help decide as well.
	So, thoughts on this, Rolo?
	I thought that, like, he was asking a lot of questions, first of all.
	I mean, maybe that worked really well with her because she was passive, right?
	But I think most guys, if they feel like they have to carry the conversation like that, then you need to have a different tact.
	What I would have suggested, maybe Mike's familiar with this, is to use a breadcrumb technique, you know, like to sort of like lead from one question to the, like leading questions, I guess, like leading from one to the next to the next.
	So she's talking about herself, rather than saying, here's my, it's like negotiating the terms of a contract.
	As opposed to actually having some sort of human conversation.
	And maybe that's just because of the format that we're on right now.
	But I know that a lot of guys, when they are struggling with conversations, it's usually because they're the one that's floating the conversation the whole time.
	All right, Swallow Tomasi, man.
	Yeah, well first off, I love the dating scenario, by the way.
	And just so for all the men in Miami dating right now, I know you feel like there's so much pressure, like I gotta get rid of sexy fish and all that.
	Like, here you have a woman who lives on South Beach who says, oh my gosh, a bottle of wine on a sunset?
	Yeah, by all means, let's do it.
	You know, oh, I've never been asked this before.
	So there you go.
	That's just a little hint to the guy's date in Miami or maybe even Las Vegas, too.
	Action dates usually.
	I mean, I think a lot of people think of it as like, oh, you meet a girl at a club and then you go have dinner and then you go like that kind of stuff.
	I think a lot of guys need to understand that, like, when they're trying to make an emotional impact on a woman, they need to have something that they can associate that emotion with.
	So if it's like...
	I don't know, hang gliding or parasailing or rock climbing.
	I'm throwing out really extreme ideas, but you get the idea.
	I hate to say it, but the Petco idea, the pet store idea was actually pretty novel.
	And I think that's actually, it's not necessarily an action, but you're seeing like animals there and it's like, oh, what kind of animal would you like if we were a couple kind of thing?
	Yeah, be creative.
	Have an experience.
	And yeah, that does create emotion, which again, anyways, I don't have to go along about what emotion can do in a relationship.
	We call that smart rizz.
	Drizzle, drizzle.
	There you go.
	But also, I wish there would have been more back and forth.
	But she did admit she was passive.
	And he was kind of a little too strong with the questions.
	I wish there was a little bit more give.
	I mean, a little take and give.
	It's a dance.
	There's innate sex differences between the genders, and it's way more important for a man to be interesting than a woman to be interesting on a date.
	It's just the fact of the matter.
	Men are more interested in a woman's physical attractiveness, and women are not as interested in men in general.
	If you're one of those 4.5% of men where women are always swiping right on you, Don't listen to anything I'm saying.
	Just go direct, whatever you need to do.
	But for the rest of us out there, what you need to do instead is you need to get her to qualify.
	And so one of the things where I felt like these guys, you talk about breadcrumbs, I like making things not toxic, but fucking chaotic.
	I like to go places like, why?
	Who cheated on what?
	And your girlfriend did what?
	And then you found him doing this?
	I want, please tell me more.
	I want things to go as crazy as they can and get as wild as they can to where she's barreled over laughing and At the first place we go, my man Austin Dunham, he likes to say two locations and two hours.
	Two locations and two hours for the first date.
	And then you as the man and the first date.
	I would like to see that before too.
	But what these guys were doing were asking interrogation questions.
	I don't want to do interrogation questions.
	I want her to talk so much that she's almost glowing.
	And she's telling a story about some crazy shit that happened in her life.
	Because those crazy stories, like, that kind of goes across...
	I mean, that's what this whole Fresh and Fit program is about.
	It's women telling crazy stories about their life and men are listening to it.
	So that's where you can kind of cross the gender gap by doing that.
	So I would have liked to see a little bit more of that.
	But I think that takes a little bit of practice.
	I love Never Have I Ever, Two Lies and the Truth.
	There's a bunch of different games you can get.
	A bunch of different drinking games you can get that'll get people to turn things...
	To where they start telling the truth very quickly on.
	So that's what I'd like to see a little bit more.
	That emotional association doesn't necessarily have to be a positive one.
	It could still be a negative one as long as you're leaving her feeling something.
	I think the vibe just means she can talk about herself in totality, not be judged for it, and actively listen to her, what she's saying, give it back to her in a plausible way.
	I think it makes a lot of sense.
	Okay, guys, come back in.
	We're not going to choose the couples for the last segment here and close out the show.
	So come back in if you don't mind one more time.
	And then Rolo, MK, and Michael, you guys tell me and the audience who's going to fit in your eyes and why.
	Alright.
	Coming right now.
	Hey man, this is pretty funny, man.
	Okay.
	Let's see the folks here.
	Let's feel the vibe.
	Wink, wink.
	What's the vibe in the room?
	Okay.
	So, Rolo, you go first.
	I think Jihuan and Abby are actually perfect for each other.
	I'm sorry, I was going to say the same thing.
	It's Jihuan and Abby.
	They're going to make it, but I want to watch.
	I want to watch the day.
	Abby, can you come on screen?
	That's a show I would watch.
	Stand next to Jihuan real quick.
	Hey, you want to come here?
	There's potential because there's sincerity behind it.
	There's genuinity.
	And that's something that's lacking in today's day.
	I can see like a genuine couple right here.
	We've got orange chicken and no seasoned chicken at all.
	What?
	No seasoned chicken.
	No seasoned chicken and orange chicken.
	That's great.
	You're the seasoned chicken.
	No, no, no.
	You are happy.
	Oh, you are.
	Wow.
	Okay.
	MK, next couple.
	All right.
	I'm going to say Sean and Mariana, but I do agree with Sean.
	I do think that there can be more coming out of you.
	And I don't know if it's because there's like a dozen cameras on you, you know, which is understandable.
	But I see some potential there because not having no Sean, but I do know Mariana a little bit more.
	I think that you have some attributes she's looking for.
	So I see something.
	Okay, do you agree?
	Second date?
	Yes or no?
	Mariana.
	Me?
	Yeah.
	Yeah, I guess I want to get to know him better, but I mean, I think it blowed here, I guess.
	Okay, stand next to each other if you don't mind.
	Alright, and then Sartain.
	I actually liked Olivia and Daniel.
	I don't even care if they have chemistry.
	I just want to see that, like for my own personal.
	I just want to see them go talk shit.
	Dating should be fun.
	I know everyone's like, hey, let's go dating to figure out whether or not we're going to get married.
	Why put so much pressure on the interaction?
	It's not 1953.
	We don't have to do this anymore.
	Dates should be fun.
	You should be throwing axes.
	You should be driving...
	You should be fucking going out on, like, water skiing.
	You should be doing crazy shit.
	You should be going on rollercoaster rides or eating the butter cake at Mastro's.
	Some fun shit that you'd be doing anyway with your buddies.
	That's what dates should be like.
	So just, I want to see cool people doing fun stuff.
	Do you agree, yes or no?
	We went to North Italia.
	That was not a cool thing.
	Hold on.
	Hold on.
	That's fine.
	Okay.
	I think, personally, Tan and you should have matched.
	What do you think?
	Tan and you.
	No.
	Hold on.
	Tan and Olivia.
	Yeah.
	I can see that, too.
	Yeah.
	What do you think?
	Yeah, I think more so Tan.
	So, hold on.
	Real quick.
	Two minutes on the clock.
	Let's go.
	You two.
	Wait, what?
	Right now.
	Right now.
	Come on down, guys.
	Sit down.
	Olivia, sit here.
	Tan, sit over there.
	Okay.
	This is your chance, Tan.
	Get him, Tan!
	Take her home, buddy.
	Redemption.
	Get him, Tan!
	Okay.
	New date.
	New location.
	Time.
	Set it.
	Do we have to do the date again?
	Yes.
	You know what?
	Just wherever you want it to be.
	First thought, when Daniel picked you, go.
	Wait, what do you mean?
	When Daniel chose you instead of me getting to choose you, what was your first thought?
	That's a good question.
	Very good question, love it.
	I think he chose you maybe more so for physical attraction.
	Oh, he's shaking his head.
	Okay.
	So you mentioned energy last time.
	So what do you describe as good energy to you?
	What does good energy mean to you?
	Yeah, so I mean, my work, I'm an intuitive sex and intimacy guide.
	So I do sexual energy healing work.
	So for me, I really know if someone is doing things out of their ego.
	I know if a man is ungrounded, I know where there's power plays.
	So for me, energy is important that you're really just self-aware.
	You know yourself, and obviously no one's perfect, but there is a desire to want to be better and to be your best self.
	Okay, so you mentioned you've never been in a long-term relationship.
	So I'm assuming the energy was off each time, every relationship you've been in.
	No, I think the energy was really intense.
	At the time, I had a lot of codependency.
	So what I call love addiction.
	So for me, it was these highs were super high, but the lows were low.
	So it was my own journey of really realizing where I wasn't being vulnerable.
	What do you think about love bombing?
	I mean, love bombing is horrible.
	Have you fallen for the love bombing?
	No, to be honest, I would say I always, I actually had a hard time trusting what men would say to me.
	And I think now actually, now that you mentioned that, it makes sense because maybe on an energetic level, I could feel they weren't being authentic.
	So, yeah, sometimes it takes time to see if someone is really taking action versus just saying things.
	Got it.
	So the men have described their perfect date.
	What's a perfect date to you?
	What would we do on our first date?
	Yeah, so I'm definitely big in nature.
	So a hike, I would love a hike somewhere where it's like lush, almost like fairyland.
	I'm super into that type of stuff.
	Okay, time is up.
	So Tan, sorry, Tan, right?
	Tan, yeah.
	Yes or no?
	Of course, yes.
	Olivia, yes or no?
	Yes.
	Alright!
	Let's get it!
	The sexual energy is there.
	Daniel, Kate, T, would you see a match with you guys at all?
	What'd you say?
	Do you see a match with you guys?
	Yeah, they were having a good conversation.
	Last round.
	Two minutes.
	Let's go.
	On the clock.
	Do it.
	Let's do it.
	Shut up, Meg.
	Okay, last round.
	Oh, I see what you're doing.
	Are we doing the thumbs up?
	Yeah.
	When do you finish?
	Two minutes.
	Nine o'clock.
	Already.
	Okay, new date.
	New date.
	Well, no, it was between me picking before.
	I want to go back to that.
	It was between Katie and Olivia, but Olivia won the Rock, Paper, Scissors contest between her and Katie before, so that's why I picked the one.
	Okay!
	That's funny.
	All right, go ahead.
	Katie, we're going to go to North Italia.
	There's a nice outdoor boar there.
	The bartenders definitely don't know me there by now.
	Oh my God.
	That's what's up though.
	Exactly, exactly.
	But we did meet in person this time.
	You had a similar client that you worked with, that I worked with, and then we met over work.
	And then I kept you later and wasted a lot of your time at work in order to talk to you more.
	Then they asked you out.
	You said yes.
	Now we're sitting down at North Italia.
	So thank you for coming.
	Oh, thanks for asking me out.
	Of course, of course.
	You are gorgeous.
	We're sitting down in North Italia, having some drinks.
	What's she drinking?
	She is a McAllen fiend.
	Do you like scotch?
	It's not my go-to.
	It's not mezcal.
	It's your go-to, right?
	Let's just have a rum and coke.
	No one drinks mezcal on purpose.
	It tastes like fucking burnt rubber.
	They only drink mezcal when they're on a shitty date.
	But what brought you down to Miami, Katie?
	I had a change of heart when I was in my older teens and I just wanted to leave the Midwest and I had a chance to do it so I took it.
	Okay, well, congrats.
	You just came down here in a whim by yourself?
	Well, I transferred, so I was going to a school in Ohio on a scholarship for tennis, and so I was contacting some coaches down south because I wanted to come.
	So you played tennis in college as well?
	Wait, you played tennis in college?
	Yeah!
	Basketball and tennis, yeah, yeah, yeah.
	Wait, how do you do two college sports?
	Different seasons.
	But there's a lot of overlap, obviously, because basketball is basically from August through March and April.
	And tennis was basically because it was up in Pennsylvania at the time.
	So you're basically just hoping that that cold weather...
	Outlast throughout basketball season.
	And then you gotta make a good relationship with your coach and let him know that you're not going to the preseason little voluntary but non-voluntary practices.
	But yeah, did both.
	I've never heard of someone doing two college sports.
	That's really cool.
	Yeah, thanks.
	No, it was a lot.
	But at the same time, tennis was basically freeing, because basketball season, it's like a nine-month season, and tennis is like two and a half, plus you're outside, not in the five-degree Scranton weather up there.
	So when it came time to play tennis, it didn't really feel like a college sport.
	Plus, I was already in shape because of basketball, so...
	I didn't have to go through all the, you know, the grueling exercise and whatnot.
	I could kind of just step on the court and play and just practice skills.
	Yeah.
	I found tennis to be a lot harder once I came to Florida because it was just so hot.
	It was like overwhelming, the heat.
	It is, and plus the floods and the rain.
	So Nova Southeastern, actually in Fort Lauderdale, their courts actually bend in.
	Because it rains so much up there that they're planning on the draining system.
	So you're actually hitting up more than anything?
	Because the water, when it lands, it has to go towards the net.
	So they plan on the rain.
	I wish I could have seen that.
	We never played against them.
	I went to FIU. Maybe we'll have to go up there and play together.
	Yeah, I want to check out these courts.
	Do you like serving volleyers?
	I'm more of a baseliner.
	Hmm.
	Okay, so we would have some stressful matches against each other.
	Overhead, yeah.
	Okay, time is up!
	Okay.
	I'm ready for mixed doubles.
	Katie!
	Yes or no?
	Yeah.
	Have a good time.
	Daniel, yes or no?
	I've had mine up since I sat down.
	He's had his own pause.
	He's had his own pause.
	So we've got our matches right now.
	Is everyone happy with their matches?
	I'm very happy.
	Ask her about the single mother thing.
	Oh!
	I gotta ask you, brother.
	She has kids.
	Is that okay?
	Yeah, yeah.
	How many?
	I'm hoping at least three to four.
	No, I only have two.
	Only two?
	I'm going to hold my tongue.
	I'm going to go easy.
	Okay.
	This was a great interaction here.
	Thank you, Katie and Daniel.
	Daniel, you're funny, by the way, bro.
	You're hilarious.
	Okay.
	Thanks, sir.
	You can get him now.
	So, we'll close up the show here.
	Rolo, MK, and Michael, last thoughts on this.
	I want Daniel to manage my hedge funds.
	They give you 17% guarantee month over month.
	Overall, how was the show, Rolo, you would say?
	I thought it was great.
	I haven't done this before.
	I may only watch the one or two before this, and this is actually a great interaction.
	I think we've got great couples and stuff on here as well.
	What should guys take away from this show, you believe?
	I think learning dating skills is very similar to learning social skills and just being able to have conversations in the first place.
	I think that's something that's very lacking in most guys these days.
	And so seeing it done or in as controlled an environment as possible, I think just having examples of this is very valuable to guys.
	What's your growth takeaway?
	That there are actually guys who can actually carry on a conversation.
	And the one thing I get the feedback from, maybe you do too, as being dating coaches, is when women are saying, I really wish guys would just approach.
	I really wish guys would just come, you know, a live approach.
	As opposed to, oh, we've got to meet on Tinder.
	Oh, we've got to meet on Bumble.
	Oh, we've got to have this digital buffer between the two of us.
	Rather than, I think we've said this on Access Vegas.
	I ask the girls, I say, when was the last time you met a guy live, in person kind of thing?
	And it's usually, some of them will say yes, but for the most part, it's done digitally.
	There's the buffer between them.
	And so I think having this right here is a good example of how you can carry on a conversation and also what you should and should not do.
	Thank you, Rolo.
	MK, for guys and for girls, what should they learn from this?
	No, I love that you put this together because, honestly, this is what's lacking, you know?
	Face-to-face interaction.
	That's what's required.
	What you said in the beginning, like, how are you going to build meaningful connections behind the screen?
	It's just not going to happen.
	So, guys, yeah, take this as a lesson, like...
	Out there, whether this works, whether it doesn't work, but out there, please be confident enough to approach women because, yes, they do want it.
	Yeah, and it is a skill set, and so continue to follow us for that skill set.
	Because guys in the chat, you might laugh at the guys on the screen, but they had the courage to come here and talk to those in person, and that is huge, by the way.
	That's very huge because most guys are like, oh, I don't want rejection or me too, which is understandable, but you've got to take that risk, man.
	Okay, Michael.
	Yeah, I believe in the concept of immersion.
	So do the hardest thing you can first and then work back down.
	So consider these people are, you know, there's 10,000 people watching you right now.
	With all the pressure you have, when you guys are alone, it's going to be so much easier to communicate.
	I recommend you guys go out and do this as much as possible.
	And I know it's hard because you're going to have some bad interactions.
	But, like, you can even make bad dates funny if you make the shit crazy enough.
	If you make...
	If you can make the conversations interesting enough, even bad dates can be fun.
	That's what I'm saying.
	So what I would tell you guys is get as much experience as you can.
	Approach a bunch.
	Get as much experience as you can.
	Go on a bunch of these dates.
	And even if it doesn't work out, do something that you enjoy.
	And guys, you've seen my L's on camera, man.
	Grant Cardone told me no.
	That was a very shocking thing for me on camera.
	Again, told no.
	And now I'm doing a podcast with some of the best people here.
	Rolo, Mike, MK, Moe, Bills.
	So, you're going to take L's in life.
	It's normal.
	But, if you give up, then you lose.
	But keep trying, man.
	Just keep trying.
	Okay.
	Some chats here, Bills?
	Yes, sir.
	Cool.
	Alright, so we got Cam two times.
	Cam says, Abby and Jackie Chan are supposed to be my favorite and most entertaining of this dating game.
	They should be each other's first, but I don't think they would be each other's last.
	I hope they do.
	Also, Abby, you look like Cheyenne Cooper.
	If you know, you know.
	Who is that?
	I kind of want to look him up.
	I'm gonna have to look that up.
	We have Jay Ichiban.
	Oh, Castle Club.
	Guys, we're doing Zoom calls.
	You asked for it, we'll give it to you.
	Trust me, we got you guys.
	And we're doing cash giveaways.
	Is that her?
	What the hell?
	Nigga, she got some titties though.
	Yeah, so Castle Club, we're giving away cash prizes every week and doing zone calls for you guys because you guys supported us thick and thin.
	We love you guys, man.
	Okay, cool.
	Yo, Fresh, was there a winner for the raffle?
	Instead of ending and naming the winner, you'd be in contact shortly.
	Yes, there's a winner, but I'm doing something special for the winner as well as everybody else that participated in the actual raffle, so stay tuned for that as well.
	I'll hit you guys on the side about that.
	Other name Taken says, W Rollo from my father.
	Oh, God.
	Rational male is brilliant.
	Your elaboration on the female matrix is beyond accurate.
	This book should be mandatory reading in all schools.
	I agree.
	W Big Mo.
	You can find my book on Amazon.
	All five of them are on there.
	Please, if you're wondering how to read the books, read the first one first, and then the other ones aren't in any particular order.
	Okay.
	Welcome, brother.
	Nordy3 says, can you get Taekwondo on the show?
	Yeah, I heard about him.
	He would be a perfect guest, especially for this matchmaking show and after hours.
	He's a professional dating coach.
	He has also been collabed with Sneeko a few times.
	Oh, sure.
	I don't see why not.
	Okay.
	DJ Bill says, W Fresh.
	Thank you, bro.
	Hey, man.
	I take my L's, bro.
	And, you know, I take W sometimes.
	Alright.
	That's it.
	We caught up.
	That's it.
	We caught up.
	Guys, this was a great show.
	I think we learned a lot.
	Each and every person here.
	Ladies, thank you for coming.
	Guys as well.
	And listen, dating is hard nowadays.
	We understand 100%.
	But if you give up, you lose the battle.
	Listen, there's AI bots, there's robots, there's videos, OnlyFans.
	That's cool and all, but bro, you want real love, man.
	And look, I've failed a bunch of times.
	You guys see my emails online.
	But guess what?
	I ain't giving up, man.
	And guess what?
	I ain't going to China.
	We're done!
	Let's get out of here!
	Let's get out of here!
	Oh, you gotta see what he did there.
	I'm not going anywhere.

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