After our edition, we're joined with some lovely ladies.
Let's get into it!
it let's go Nobody cares, bro.
Get out.
It's the night.
Kind of like.
In the night.
No control.
F*** out.
Put your shoes on outside.
You don't got to put them on in here.
I know the night is my first one scene.
I must believe in something, so I'll make myself believe in this night.
And I will never tell a story.
If you can't believe in I will never tell a story.
It will live.
What's up, guys?
Welcome to Fresh Fit Podcast.
After our edition, we're joined with a bunch of lovely ladies.
Quick announcement before we get to the show.
Rumble.com slash Fresh Fit.
As you guys know, that's the home base for us.
So if we ever get canceled, you know exactly where to find us.
That is the home base.
Starting next week, guys, we're probably going to have to put a lot of our stuff on Rumble, man.
So what we'll do is we'll probably start on YouTube and then go over to Rumble fairly quickly in.
And yeah, it sucks.
It is what it is.
But as you guys know, we're kind of uncensored.
We're kind of...
Controversial.
Yeah, we're controversial.
We're on the lines, you know what I mean?
So to play it safe, we just got to put a majority of our stuff on Rumble, man.
It is what it is, man.
Don't complain to me.
Complain to the censorship, man.
It fucking sucks.
It is what it is.
But hey, we'll put most of our stuff on Rumble.
Still be on YouTube, but we're going to be segueing to Rumble probably quicker.
What else?
CastleClub.tv, that's where you get all the Frank Castle behind-the-scenes stuff, whether we go on trips, etc.
As you guys know, I just came back from Los Angeles.
I did a thing with Jubilee.
I think they're going to release it early May, actually.
They were supposed to release it later on, but I think they're going to release it May 5th or something like that.
Okay.
So it'll be out.
Angie recorded a bunch of content, like vlog type stuff.
So we're going to edit it and put it on Locals Real, see how you guys like it.
If you guys like it, then maybe I'll do some more vlog shit.
I don't know.
You should.
Yeah, I don't know.
I hate vlogging, man.
I'd be grumpy.
I'm not going to lie.
But anyway, yeah.
She's like, Mr.
Grumpy.
Mr.
Grumpy.
Mr.
Grumpy.
She put on a shirt!
That will be out.
It was a good time.
Guys, we've got a yacht party.
April 26th, this Friday.
It's going to be a great time.
The yacht holds 120, but we're going to have some more for y'all because we're going to maximize the amount of lovely ladies on the yacht for y'all.
We got...
Three tickets left for the yacht, actually, guys.
We refunded a hater or two.
You and his refunds, bro.
Yeah, fuck these niggas, man.
Like, real talk, bro.
Like, I only want to be around people that rock with us, man.
Like, these dudes that be sitting here talking shit.
Like, bro, we don't fuck with y'all.
We don't want you guys there.
We only want to be around people that are positive people that we want to rock with.
And at the end of the day, this is going to be a cool-ass fucking party.
This is going to be lit.
I don't want no fucking losers there.
It's going to be fun times, good drinks, good people, good celebrities too.
It's going to be hella girls.
We already got like a big ass list.
Holy.
Henny Chris.
Yeah, man.
Henny Chris.
It's going to be wild.
And anyone that came to the hour party last time, you guys already know, man.
So much fun, man.
Yeah.
We don't throw parties off because...
Well, number one, it gets crazy.
And then number two, we will put all these other fucking promoters out of business if we were to do it, man.
But yeah, guys, it's going to be a great time.
We got three tickets right now, I think, because we had to refund a couple of haters.
So it was sold out last show, but then, yeah, we looked at who was on the list.
We're like, what the fuck?
Now, get this guy out of here.
So, yeah.
Mike!
Yeah.
Okay.
What else?
Forget about it.
And then, yeah, Chris, go ahead.
There it is.
Hey, shout out to the girls on the panel.
Shout out to the chat.
We got eight new girls on the panel.
Yes, sir.
We have single ladies, young girls, older girls, single moms, you know.
It's going to be a fun show, ladies.
And her last show was pretty interesting.
It was tough, right, chat?
I wasn't there.
But, uh...
Shout out to you girls on the panel.
Shout out to the merch gang.
Follow me on my socials.
Girls, DM me on IG, Aaron C. Poxon.
I guess that's the only nigga you can DM on this podcast.
So, to come on to the show.
And ladies, please DM me if you want to come on to the yacht because spots are limited, more or less.
I want to bring out as much girls as possible.
If you're ugly, if you're well, don't DM me.
I'm sorry, ladies.
Yeah, we're definitely going to have a looks check, too.
A looks check on that.
We're not gonna let every girl on the yacht, man.
If you're not attractive, I'll be honest with you.
Yeah, please ask me, can I bring my friend?
And I ask your friend, she's like fucking 200 pounds, bro.
Yeah, man.
I'm sorry, ladies, man.
Maybe next time.
That's how it works, man.
Yeah, man.
Definitely, yeah.
If you look like a gargoyle or if you're fat, we're not gonna let you on, bro.
Yeah, man.
Hell nah.
Hell nah.
Anyways, misogany.
Nope.
Yeah, so, what else?
I was gonna say something.
Oh!
Three tickets left, guys, for the yacht.
Three, like I said, right now.
So get them now before literally three left.
And then the VIP, I think we got a couple spots for that one.
And then we still got general admission, guys.
That's only $100.
The VIP tickets are a bit more expensive and the yachts are more expensive.
But if you want to go ahead and just meet us in person and be at the show, no problem.
$100.
The show's going to be in Miami Beach.
Doors open at 6 p.m.
And we're going to start the show around 7 or 7.30, depending on how quickly we get set up.
We're going to be there early to set up.
But yeah, it's going to be a good time, man.
We hope to meet you guys in person.
It'll be a great time.
So ladies, welcome to the show.
If you don't mind, give us your name, your age, what you do for a living, dating status, if you want to, of course.
Your body count.
And we'll start right here.
Welcome to the show.
Hi.
Hey, y'all!
Hi.
What's your name?
I'm Dahlia, and I'm from Connecticut originally, but I moved down here six years ago.
Oh, Connecticut.
How old are you?
28.
Well, I'm turning 28 in next week, so.
Okay, where are you from in Connecticut?
Farmington.
Oh, shit.
I grew up in New Britain.
Oh, shoot!
That's pretty close.
That's really close.
Literally right there.
Fun fact, 50 Cent's old house, a.k.a.
Mike Tyson's old house in Farmington.
Nice town.
I used to sneak and try to look at his house when I was younger.
I don't know who owns it now, but I think...
It's abandoned, I think.
Is it big?
It's huge.
Yeah.
Like 17, 20 bedrooms or some shit.
Mike Tyson had it and then 50 Cent bought it in like 03, 04.
Like right after GetRichardDietre and it popped off, he bought it.
He threw amazing parties.
My mom and my aunt would go a lot.
Yeah, I was 18.
Speaking of parties, I don't know who else.
I heard the amazing parties.
Oh, God.
Diddy?
Oh, God.
Oh, my God.
So, yeah, Farmington, Connecticut.
Alright, what do you do for work?
I'm a practical effects artist for horror movies and music videos.
Oh, cool.
Okay, that's a first.
When you say practical effects, can you tell us what that entails?
So I do props, sets.
The most recent one I've done was for Nas and Jay-Z and DJ Khaled.
And I built the set and did some welding on that.
Okay, so do you do sets for anything or is it like only particularly like horror themed?
I prefer horror and music videos because I like to work in that element better.
Okay.
I've done some commercials but I prefer not to do commercials.
Okay, so most of your portfolio is music videos but you do commercials.
Do you do movies as well?
Yes, horror movies.
Okay.
And when you talk about doing props and stuff like that, are we talking about, I guess, setting up when there's going to be a kill scene, setting up the room to look a certain way?
Yeah, I do that.
I do budgeting for the props, and I make fake arms or whatever people need.
Okay, I was going to say, like blood, all that?
Yeah.
Okay.
Mm-hmm.
Interesting.
Okay.
Speaking of blood, I smell blood.
What?
I don't know why.
Ooh!
Okay, what do you do for...
Sorry, highest education level completed?
So I went to school for music business.
You got a bachelor's?
Yeah, I ended up getting my bachelor's in that, and then moving on to move down here after...
Okay.
Music business, you said?
Where'd you get that from?
Capital in Connecticut.
In Hartford?
Yes.
I know.
But that's a community college, though.
Yeah, they have music business programs in music theory.
To get a bachelor's?
Yes.
No, you can move on to UHART after.
Okay.
So you started Capital Community, and then you went to UHART. University of Hartford.
Yes, yes.
Okay, alright.
So you have your associates from Capital Community College.
And then I had to move on to U-Heart.
And then you went on to University of Hartford.
Alright, alright.
Yo, is it still like expensive as fuck to go there?
It's a private school.
Um, I mean, it depends on where you're at, I guess.
But I also, I mean, I guess it's more personal stuff.
But I was also working with the state on helping me with certain things because of my situation at the time.
Okay, so you got financial aid.
Yes.
All right.
Relationship status?
Single.
All right.
And then are your parents still together?
Uh, no.
Nope.
Nope.
Well, she was going to 50 Cent parties.
And then Fresh, your favorite question.
Birth control?
Nope.
Okay.
Body count?
What body count?
Um, really?
Honestly?
Well, I'd say it has to be...
15?
How old are you?
I'm 28.
I don't have to.
What's your ethnic background?
I'm Geechee in Cherokee.
Geechee?
Geechee in Cherokee.
Geechee and Cherokee.
You don't really look Native American.
I don't have to.
I can speak Cherokee fine.
I don't have to look like it.
So you're not black?
I mean, I consider myself colored, like melanated.
Okay.
So, I don't know.
Black means dead, technically.
What percent Cherokee are you?
I don't know what percentage.
You don't know?
Because technically, if it's from my mother's side, they consider it full Cherokee.
Okay.
But, yeah, no, I have no idea what percentage.
Do you get financially based off that?
No, no.
Really?
No, you can't.
You could have, man.
You can't.
Not every native band gets that.
Okay.
Just because you're native, you know.
Oh, shit.
Okay.
Because depending on, you know, you could live on a reservation depending on what blood percentage.
Yeah, but that's like assisted living.
That's like living in assisted living.
Yeah.
Nobody wants to be, I mean...
A lot of crime, too.
Yeah.
Alright, what about you?
What's your name?
My name is Crystal.
Crystal?
Yes.
With a C or a K? With a C. How old are you?
I am 26 years old.
Where are you from?
I'm from Peru.
Do you live in Miami now or are you just visiting?
No, I live here.
How long have you been in Miami?
Almost two years.
What do you do for work?
I'm an architect.
That's a job field that's been changing a lot.
What's the percentage of men versus women in that job field now?
Because a lot more women are getting into it.
So here in Miami, I've seen maybe 60-40.
Mental women?
Mental women?
Yeah.
Wow.
Mental women.
It's because I also like working construction most of the time.
Okay.
I have my bachelors in construction.
So, oh, hey.
Okay.
So yeah, construction is mostly men's.
Okay.
Rarely a girl.
So I'm assuming you have a bachelor's degree, right?
Yes, I have my bachelor's.
Did you get it here in the United States or in Peru?
No, all my degrees are from Peru.
I also have a master's degree.
I just finished it.
In Peru?
Thank you.
Yes, from Peru.
The question, did you have to take a test when you came over to the United States to be an architect here?
Yeah, actually, you have to at least study two years to get your signature.
But in the meantime, you can actually be working and associate with an architect from here.
So they can sign for you, but you work together.
Okay.
It's just the same signature.
That's not bad at all.
Okay, so do you work under an American architect now?
Right now, I just finished my master's, so I took a little break and I'm starting to look.
I used to freelance a lot.
I used to do 3D modeling, remodelations, designing.
So you're an architect by profession, but you're looking for a job now because you just finished school.
Yes.
Alright.
And then, relationship status?
I have a boyfriend.
Okay.
How long have y'all been together?
Like seven months.
Okay.
How'd you guys meet?
Through a friend.
I was actually exercising in his gym.
In the yim?
In the gym?
In the gym.
Yeah, in the mint.
And yeah, I just met him there.
He invited me out.
Wait, so how did he approach you?
Well, my friend introduced us, and then he was like, yo, are you hanging out with my friend?
I was like, no, no, no, we're just friends.
We're friends.
He was like, okay, hey, what are you doing later?
I'm going to have a birthday party, so if you want to come.
I was like, okay, yeah, sure.
That was a good invite, man.
Okay.
Is he an architect, too, or what does he do?
Oh no, he's a lawyer.
He's a director in...
He's directing a team, but he's working for a software company, so he's actually selling softwares for lawyers.
Okay, so he's in tech, basically.
Yeah, he's in tech.
So he's like a tech lawyer.
Are your parents still together?
Yes.
Okay.
Back in Peru?
Back in Peru, yeah.
Alright, birth control for you?
Yes, I have this little tube.
Okay.
Alright.
What about...
Body count?
And what's on your body count?
Chris always got to ask that.
I'm going to say 15.
Okay.
What about you?
What's your name?
Hey guys, I'm Mosquita.
Hey y'all!
Okay, how old are you?
I am 40.
Where are you from?
Originally from Chicago, but I'm a Florida girl now.
Okay.
How long have you been here in Florida?
10 years.
Okay, Miami?
The whole time?
Yes.
Okay.
What do you do at work?
I am an independent accountant.
Okay.
So you don't work under a firm, you do it yourself?
Correct.
So you're probably a CPA then?
Yes.
Yeah.
Okay.
To do it yourself.
And then, so you have a master's degree?
I do not.
Because I'm an independent, I'm not a CPA because I'm not certified.
Okay.
So I just do the basic books.
So I just take care of all your books.
So I'm right above a bookkeeper.
Okay.
So bachelor's then?
Yes.
In accounting?
Yes.
Where'd you get it from?
Oh, Jesus.
Back in the day.
I went to a school in Chicago, let's put it like this.
That's a Florida thing.
In Chicago, we had Olympia College.
Our institute.
Relationship status?
I am single.
KBrown underscore.
Hit me up.
I am single.
Wait, wait, hold on.
Kids?
Yes, I have two beautiful boys.
are my heartbeats. - You let 'em hit it wrong.
You didn't let say it to us.
Now you're single mom.
Now you're single mom.
I don't think they need that.
I don't think they need that.
- Oh yeah, you're right.
- Oh yeah, you're right.
- Yeah, yeah, yeah.
- Your kids are probably, how are they, like, You ready?
Brace yourself.
Yeah.
I have an 18 and a half year old.
Goddamn.
And I have a one and a half year old.
What?
Wait a minute.
- We're here. - We're here. - We're here. - Just one day. - Come on, Chris. - Come on. - Come on.
And guess what?
My miracle baby and my oldest, they are 17 years and one week apart.
So their birthdays are literally one week apart.
He's my miracle baby.
Okay.
He's my miracle baby.
All right.
I was going to say birth control, but I guess...
No, them tubes are gone.
No uterus.
Play my music.
Hey!
Shoot the shot, shoot out the club Nothing happened up in the middle Seriously That's up to your fault Alright That's pop-ups I guess your ethnic background is just black Yes, black and Caucasian.
Okay, black and white?
A little bit of Korean, yes.
Okay, who's white?
Your mom or your dad?
My, on my mom's side is white and black.
My great, my grandmother is white.
Okay, alright.
What about, what about you?
What's your name?
My name is Erica.
I'm 22.
I'm from Toledo, Ohio, but I just moved to Miami two weeks ago.
What do you think, Fresh?
I give it a month and a half.
Oh, you don't think she's corrupt yet?
Not yet.
For what?
To be corrupted.
Alright, so you're from Toledo, Ohio.
There ain't nothing out there.
There's nothing.
That's why I moved.
Okay.
What do you do for work?
I just graduated college in December, so I'm currently looking for a position in marketing.
Okay.
Cool.
What did you major in?
I majored in communications.
Where'd you go to school?
I went to the University of Toledo.
Yeah.
Alright.
How many kids are at that school?
Oh, I have no clue.
I couldn't tell you.
I don't know.
What the fuck?
How would I know that?
Like, I mean, like, typically when you go to college, you would know, like, what your student population is.
Do you?
No.
Yeah.
I don't know that.
Back in your day, this Gen Z generation, they don't know.
Yeah, they don't.
Who cares?
We've been back in our generation.
For example, when I went to Northeastern, right, it was like 15K. You, I know, has around 15K as well.
Generally, like, big universities are going to have, like, a UConn is going to have 20 to 30, right?
So, I mean, okay, I guess you...
All they know is where the parties are at, bro.
Yeah, I guess the parties are at.
Was it like a commuter-type campus, or did most people live on campus?
No, a lot of people lived on campus or in the downtown area, so I grew up there, so I commuted my first year, but then I ended up moving downtown and getting roommates and stuff.
Okay.
Cool.
Relationship status?
I'm single.
Alright.
Body count?
I think it's like...
I think.
I don't know.
I think it's probably like...
14.
All the girls are going to say that number.
Be ready.
Consensus across the board.
At 20?
Goddamn.
She's 22.
23 in July.
That's so crazy, though, man.
It's almost more than your fucking age.
What should it be, Chris?
Bro, it should be like fucking two.
What do you expect?
She got pipe, nothing about it.
Yeah, man.
Them frat parties and shit.
No.
Erica, come on.
No, I don't mess with frat boys.
Oh, you mess with niggas?
It's the athletes.
Niggas?
No!
I take it back.
I take it back.
Not one month and a half.
Three weeks.
Well, what did I say last time?
Did I say this about that?
You gotta do one of the two?
Yeah.
I literally called it for y'all.
I told y'all.
All right.
Yeah, right?
I give you two hours.
Are your parents still together?
Yes.
All right.
Birth control for you?
Yes.
All right.
What's your ethnic background?
I'm half Filipino, half white.
Okay.
Who's Filipino?
Your mom?
My mom, yeah.
Of course.
Of course.
What?
Never fails, brother.
All right, cool.
What about you?
Never mind.
All right, what about you?
What's your name?
You speak Tagalog?
No.
Wow.
My name is Naya.
Nice to meet everybody.
How old are you, Naya?
Hey, y'all!
I'm the baby.
I am 19.
Where are you from?
Broward.
I was born in Broward, but raised Vero Beach, which is like two hours north.
A lot of people don't really know.
That's that rich area.
Yeah, rich area.
Retirement town.
It's real quiet, so that's why I'm out here in Miami.
I'm young.
I don't really want that.
I like the city life.
You move here by yourself?
Yeah, I did.
Oh, okay.
She belongs to the streets.
Dangerous!
Damn, I belong to the streets.
Dangerous!
We didn't even ask what she does for work yet, man.
Call me at my team and tattoos, bro.
Come on, man.
Damn!
By herself.
All right, what do you do for work?
She's smashing.
All right, so I model.
I do a lot of stuff with the modeling.
Okay.
You model?
People book me to be everywhere.
Like, people book me to be in their sections.
People book me to be on their yachts.
People book me anything.
Anything where you could.
She belongs to the streets.
So you're like an atmosphere model, basically.
Yeah, basically.
I'm new to it, especially...
For the audience, they're going to be like, what the fuck?
All right, so guys, the major city is New York, Miami, Las Vegas, Los Angeles.
It's a very popular thing to have atmosphere models and clubs and shit like that do this all the time because they want to make their place look lit.
They want to get B-roll.
They want to entice men to come in, etc.
So what they'll do is they'll hire girls to go there and party.
You'll think they're regular chicks, but they're being paid to be there.
Yeah.
So it's actually very common in a lot of major cities, especially to come back after COVID has been even more popular because a lot of clubs were dead after COVID. You know it's bad at Mr.
Jones when you got, oh, it grows on my table, it's lit.
Then it's like, okay, next table grows.
And then leave your table and say, oh my God.
So they'll be at your table for a little bit, and then say, okay girls, time to go.
Next table.
So yeah, it's something that's really exploded into major cities after the pandemic, because as y'all know, they closed the clubs down, right?
And then they needed to get their shit back up, so that's one of the ways they did it.
Could you imagine?
You pop like five bottles, press in the girls, and then they leave your table.
They're there for work and shit.
Are we allowed to respond to the chat?
Yeah.
Alright, so I see a lot of OnlyFans comments and stripper comments.
I'm not doing that shit.
Nah.
No disrespect to the ladies that do it, there's definitely money in it.
I know a lot of OnlyFans models, a lot of dancers, they make money, but no, that's not what I do.
So, not yet?
But people talking shit.
No!
Not at all!
I mean, you're a model, almost.
You might want to create, you know, non-nudity, OF, maybe?
Nah.
To be honest with you, I would dance before I do OnlyFans because I don't want anything in me on the internet.
You know, that stays up forever.
Screenshot, screen record, shit like that.
Again, no disrespect to the ladies that do it.
That's just me personally.
You sure about that?
Positive.
Positive, man.
Okay, I'm playing devil's advocate.
Alright.
Well, you're only 19, so high school I'm assuming, right?
Are you in college right now or no?
No, I'm not in college, actually.
I planned on going to cosmetology school, never.
But you graduated high school last year, right?
Yeah, I did.
Alright, relationship status?
I am single.
Alright.
Are your parents still together?
No, they're both remarried.
Okay.
Birth control for you?
No.
No?
When did your parents, like, divorce?
When I was, like, 13.
Okay.
Okay.
Yeah.
Alright, you did 50-50, or both, I'm guessing?
I was more so with my mom because we ended up moving to Atlanta.
So I was in Atlanta for a couple of years.
That was an experience.
A good one in the beginning.
But Atlanta is definitely overhyped.
To me, the best way to describe it is a new relationship.
That first year, y'all are good.
And then the honeymoon phase, once that shit wears off, it's like, damn, this is really Atlanta.
There's a lot of hate there.
Everybody calls it Black Hollywood.
And I think it's beautiful that there's a lot of Black entrepreneurs there.
There's also a lot of...
Gays!
And yeah, there's that too, but I mean, a lot of the black people there hate on each other, and it sucks, because it's like, you know...
That's everywhere, though.
She's never gave you niggas money.
All right, so off of that, I'm gonna guess your racial background is you're black?
I am Chinese and Jamaican.
Who is Chinese?
My mom, she's Chinese and Jamaican, and my dad is Jamaican and Trinidadian.
Can you speak Patois?
No, I can't speak it fluently, but I can understand it 100%.
Interesting fact for the people out here, there's a lot of Chinese in Jamaica.
Like a lot.
And there's a lot of Chinese in the Caribbean in general.
They're all over the Bahamas.
They're all over Barbados.
I didn't know Barbados.
But there's a lot of them in Jamaica, guys.
And I didn't know that until I came down here.
You will run into a lot of Chinese Jamaicans.
A lot.
What about you?
What's your name?
My name is Svetlana.
Svetlana?
Yes.
Okay, definitely Eastern European.
Where are you from?
I'm from Russia.
I'm originally from Russia, but I moved to Miami just one month ago from Chicago.
Okay, so you're Russian, but how long have you lived in the United States?
Four years.
Four years, okay.
So you were in Chicago for those four years?
Yes, so I moved just here recently.
Okay.
And you've been in Miami for one month?
Yes.
Okay.
How old are you?
I'm 32.
Okay.
What do you do for work?
I'm a makeup artist, but also I wanted to share with you guys, so I used to compete in a fitness competition, so I'm overall champion of Arnold Classic in a fitness bikini category, so...
Okay.
So you're also...
Did you get your pro card, or no?
Yes, I did.
Okay, so you're...
And actually, I was the first girl from Russia in my category who got a pro card.
Okay, so you're a pro bodybuilder, too.
I mean, I used to be, but not anymore.
I mean, you got your pro card.
Yeah.
I would consider you a professional.
So that's something to be proud of.
Highest education level completed?
College of bodybuilding.
Is it really a college of bodybuilding or are you just trolling?
It's in Russia, yes.
Oh, okay.
Not even as possible in my country, so.
So it's a bachelor's degree or?
I mean, it's kind of a different kind of college.
No, it's less than four years.
How long is it?
Actually, it's about months.
It's about years.
Would it be like the equivalent to a personal training cert here in America?
I think so, yeah.
It's kind of like this.
Is it equivalent to that?
Yeah, probably.
So you went to college in Russia, not here?
Yes, in Russia.
And then, relationship status?
I'm single.
Are your parents still together?
My dad, he died, so...
Okay.
Okay.
Birth control for you?
Yes.
Okay.
Kids?
No kids.
Okay.
Damn.
And I just got to ask, do you like Putin, yes or no?
I'm not going to answer this question right now.
I mean, there's no wrong answer.
I mean, if it helps you, I like Putin.
I think he's a good leader, but what do you think?
I mean, I can tell that I definitely respect him for the type of personality he is, that he is very strong, and he's the type of person who can control a big country like Russia.
That's what I can say.
I think he's very misunderstood.
But okay.
All right.
Cool.
I think you got all that.
She's like, oh no!
Yeah, because, you know, everyone's like, this is Ukraine, you know what I'm saying?
So it's like you can't say anything, but that's a whole other thing.
What about you?
What's your name?
What's up?
My name is Kelly.
Alright.
What's up?
How old are you, Kelly?
I am old enough.
Actually, I just turned a number today.
Today's my birthday, guys.
Oh, wow.
It's a birthday gift to me.
Thanks, y'all.
Thanks, Detax, for the birthday gift.
I appreciate it.
Well, we're going to see if it's a birthday gift.
What's your birthday?
When?
No.
What?
How old are you?
Age?
Yeah, I got a tip.
I'm three.
I'm three.
Thirty?
Thirty-one.
I'm 13, actually.
Blackthorn cracker, man.
That ain't that bad.
Where are you from?
Detroit, Michigan.
Oh, shit.
What's up?
What's happening?
Do you live in Miami now, or are you just visiting?
No, I live here.
I've been here for a year and a half.
Okay.
What's it like being from Detroit, man?
It's like the worst city in America.
No, don't say that.
Everywhere has its ghettos and it's good and it's bad.
You guys are consistently in the top 10 worst cities in the United States, man.
I mean, you know.
Crime is rampant.
Not many jobs.
Industry going on.
No, since Trump was in office, we came back.
Ever.
Bedrock has done, Quicken Loans has done phenomenal things to the city, so make sure you go visit.
Favorite rapper from Detroit?
She is 31, so Eminem, yeah.
Trick, trick, baby.
Trick, trick all day.
No, I'm just playing.
Oh, I'm about to say.
I don't listen to rap.
I think it's trash.
I know.
Rap is not...
I like payroll.
He's pretty cool.
Payroll is cool.
I agree.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Well, I'm glad you're here because Detroit sucks.
No offense.
No, but...
Don't be hating.
It's a sucky city, man.
Don't be hating.
Bro, it's...
I'll take you one day.
It consistently gets ranked like the worst cities in America.
We're the house of tech, bro.
We got techno music.
The only city that does worse than you guys in Michigan is Flint.
Flint's is worse.
Have you been?
Go visit.
Drink the water.
I ain't going, man.
Drink the water.
I ain't going, man.
Alright, what do you do for work?
I am a performance artist.
Like music?
I do go-go, I do fire, I do lirapole, I do LED, I do silk fans, all that weird stuff.
Highest education level completed?
A bachelor's.
I have my degree in psychology and business administration.
Where'd you get it from?
Indiana Tech University.
That's a private university.
That's expensive as well.
I was going to say it probably cost you like 40k?
Yeah, with an academic and track scholarship, which is like...
Damn!
Yeah.
Was it D1 or D2? No, NAIA. Which is...
Is that the functional equivalent of D3 then?
I think we had a girl on before to say N-I-A-A. It's getting a little bit better than D3. Okay.
Relationship status?
I am single.
Oh, okay.
And not ready to mingle.
Not ringling.
Only mingling with the Lord, that's it.
Okay, did you just get out of a relationship or something?
Uh, yeah.
Yeah, yeah.
Not positively, yeah.
Yes, I have one fur baby.
He is 10 years old.
You let him hit it wrong.
Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait.
Fur baby.
A fur baby.
She said fur baby, bro.
It's an animal.
I mean, that's a dog.
You let him hit it wrong.
I don't know.
Are your parents still together?
No.
Birth control for you?
No, no, no.
Okay, and I'm assuming ethnic background is black?
Why are you assuming that?
Okay, what are you then?
I am everything and everything is me.
How about that?
What?
We keep stats on other girls that come on for our racial backgrounds to see how diverse we are.
That's why.
Okay.
Well, I check other.
I'm doing 23andMe, so I'll let you guys know as soon as I find out.
Yeah.
You know that thing's a scam, right?
I know, I think so.
Someone literally posted, a friend of mine posted a video.
Someone sent in a lizard, like saliva, like their pet lizard, and it came back as Native American and Chinese and some shit.
It's a fucking scam, bro.
Okay, maybe I won't then.
Well, from what my great-grandparents look like, they're from North and South Carolina, so definitely have some indigenous in there.
But my dad is, like, black as shit, so...
Okay.
Yeah.
Makes sense.
Love you, Daddy.
Yeah, 23andMe, yeah.
And don't be a serial killer if you're going to do 23andMe either.
They'll catch you.
Um...
I'm serious.
They caught a couple of serial killers off those things.
So it does work.
It was a 23-A meal.
It was another one.
But yeah, they caught BTK and they caught the Golden State Killer off of DNA tests.
Stupid!
Three years later, bro.
Crazy shit, man.
They hold your information.
You give them consent to hold on to your DNA for further studies and all types of shit.
Oh, hell!
I said no.
So BTK, right?
Funny story.
BTK, the down, torture, kill guy.
He was from the Midwest.
He was from, I think, Kansas.
Wichita, Kansas.
He killed some people in the 1970s, right?
And he left some of his DNA, right?
The white stuff.
He left that at the crime scene like the fucking pervert he is, right?
They collected that.
He stopped killing people for a while, and then he tried to make a return in the early 2000s.
And what he did was, since he was called a serial killer, he put a Barbie doll tied up with some rope in a Kellogg's box, haha, serial killer, saying that he was gonna return.
But he said, in his dumb ass, he sent a message to police threatening that he was gonna come back.
And he said, if I send you guys a floppy disk, will you be able to trace it?
The cops are like, no, of course not!
So he sends them a floppy disk and they identify him as Dennis Rader.
So they're like, alright, let's figure out who the fuck this guy is.
They found out his daughter goes to school at University of Kansas.
What did they do?
She had went to go get like STI tests or something there.
So they get her DNA from the school.
It's a match.
And they come back and they arrest him off of DNA. And then another guy who was running around kidnapping the Golden State Killer, he would break into houses and assault women, right?
And he would do this weird tactic where he would make the men sit on all fours and he'd put China plates on their back.
And he said, if I hear this shit fall, I'm going to kill your wife.
And he would assault the wife in another room while the dude would sit there on all fours with China plates on them.
This is 1970s.
1970s, right?
And then he does this shit for like 10, 20 years, right?
He goes cold as well.
Someone in his family did one of these DNA things, Ancestry.com or some bullshit like that, uploads their DNA. They had DNA from other crime scenes back in the 70s and the 80s.
A detective uploads that DNA that they had from the 80s and 70s to see if it matches that website.
They find a match with a distant relative.
You triggered my trap card!
And then they just went back and they said, well, he's approximately this age by now, in his 60s.
They find out who he is, go to the house, swab the door of his car, get the DNA from there.
It's a fucking match.
Wow.
Come back with an arrest where I'm from like a week later.
Wow.
This nigga was busting nuts in the 70s and they called him 30 years later.
- So yeah, Mr. D.J., Detroit, I hope you ain't doing no crimes.
My dad was a private investigator, so...
Okay.
Alright, so yeah.
What about you?
What's your name?
I am Vera Devine.
What is it?
I'm sorry?
Vera, V-A-R-A. How old are you?
I'm 40.
Okay.
Where are you from?
I'm proud.
Originally from New Jersey, living here in Miami.
Okay, cool.
What part of New Jersey are you from?
Born in Hoboken.
Hoboken?
Oh, shit.
Hudson County.
Hoboken is actually extremely expensive nowadays, man.
Yes, it is.
It's one of the few places in Jersey where you can get a full skyline of the New York skyline.
It's like you can see Manhattan and everything.
I tell people all the time, if you want to get that city life, live in Hoboken.
But people have caught on and everyone lives there now.
Everyone left Manhattan and lives in Hoboken.
Nice place, though.
What do you do for work?
I do business administrations, and then I'm also an energy healer, so I'm certified to do chakra and sound healings.
Really?
How does that work?
It's vibrational therapy, so it works with different sounds.
I work with the crystal sound bowls as well as chimes, so it just helps you reach into a relaxation state, so that way you can just ease all your troubles away.
What if I'm always relaxed already?
I mean, if you're always relaxed, then you should be at a higher state of consciousness already.
What's mine right now?
Well, I don't know.
I can't rate your frequency.
I want to get a little frequency meter, though.
That would be pretty dope.
They have those.
You can walk around and just be like, what's your frequency?
Is it real?
Is it really works?
It does.
It's crazy.
I love it.
Sounds gay.
I need to see what mine is.
You can read the frequency in a room, you know?
What is it right now?
No, no, I'm saying I can't with the machine.
Oh, okay.
You need a machine?
Yeah.
It's pretty chill here right now though.
The energy is very chill.
Alright, so you do a business administration and then you also do healing on the side.
Yeah, I help small business owners with their businesses.
Okay.
And I'm a small business owner myself, so, you know.
Okay.
Highest education level completed.
Bachelor's degree in business administrations and then I also have an associates in private investigation.
That was my first go-to.
Okay.
I realized how messed up the world was and I was like, okay, they need to be healed.
Oh, you've heard of three people, you need to be healed.
I was just lying and cheating.
What's your chocos?
Relationship status?
I am in a relationship, eight months strong.
Eight months, okay.
What does he do?
He does a little bit of everything, but kind of like digital graphics arts.
Okay.
He's an artist.
Like a graphic designer?
Yeah.
Oh, hippie, you know.
Photographer as well.
Water distributor.
We're entrepreneurs.
What's a water distributor?
Kangen machine.
Have you ever heard of that?
It's really good.
Isn't that like an MLM type of platform?
It is.
Don't hate on it.
There's a pyramid everywhere.
Even in here.
Even in here.
Are your parents at the other still?
No.
They separated when I was two and then my dad passed when I was twelve.
Oh.
Sorry.
Birth control for you?
My guardian.
No.
No?
Okay.
What's your ethnic background?
Cuban.
Oh, full-on?
Full-on Cuban?
Full-on Cuban.
Born in the United States.
I was first generation, but full-on Cuban, yeah.
Okay.
Did your parents come in like the 70s or the 80s?
80s.
80s?
Yeah.
Okay.
They came with Al Pacino.
I'm just kidding.
They came through in Mariel.
Did they swim here?
Marielitas.
How did they swim here?
What the fuck?
My mom actually got a ticket to come over here on a boat all by herself with her family.
The government helped them.
Yeah, like raffles and stuff like that.
The government was giving them away.
She got blessed.
He emptied the asylums and the prisons and he just sent a bunch of them over here.
In the 80s, yeah.
But I mean, we gave them permission.
It's not like, you know...
Came on a boat.
Let them in!
Everybody came on a boat.
That wouldn't happen if they didn't kill Kennedy.
We already know who did that.
The mob.
You said the mob killed Kennedy?
Please, please, please, please.
Okay, hold on.
Please, please, please, please, please.
Please, please, please.
Hold on, hold on.
Don't worry, bro.
I'm also over here fucking sweating.
You said, who do you think killed John F. Kennedy?
The mob.
Who do I kill?
Who do you think killed them?
The government themselves.
Which mob do you think killed them?
Government mob.
Well, yes.
Honestly, the favors that he got to get into office, his brother kind of went back on them and they ended up going after the war on drugs and stuff when they weren't supposed to.
They got favors from like a gangster called Moe for him to even get in office.
And his brother was supposed to keep on this deal to not go after people in the United States that were doing illegal things.
And he did.
Okay, so who do you think killed him then?
Which criminal organization?
There's a couple of different mobs.
I'm not going to say.
The Italian Mafia?
I don't want to say.
Y'all trying to get her taken out.
I work in Hollywood.
I'm going to continue to work in Hollywood.
I'm not going to say anything.
She's smart.
I think she knows which mob it is then.
Does anyone else know?
Hey, shut up, niggas.
Relax, man.
Does anyone else want to chime in?
No?
No.
Who do you think it is?
I don't know.
I'm curious.
You got to go to Rumble.
Maybe when we go to Rumble, I'll say.
Don't worry, I'll wait.
I can't wait for this.
I do.
I have an 18-year-old.
Just one.
Damn, nigga, you old.
She got a guy, man, ain't that?
Eight months, bro.
Pretty counts, bro.
Yeah, she ain't single.
I said pretty counts, bro.
No.
All right.
Pretty counts.
All right, cool.
Go ahead, Fresh.
You want to hit the first question?
Okay, ladies.
First, should we hit Chats first?
We'll get the Chats again.
Yeah, let's hit the first question.
So ladies on the panel, obviously dating is a thing nowadays where it's trouble for each party.
But let's say you meet a guy, you like his vibe, you connect with him on a different level.
What do you expect him to do for you?
Let's say like a list of things from one to like three.
He must do for you as your boyfriend.
And we'll start right here.
I don't have much expectations in relationships, to be honest.
I feel like that just sets you up for failure.
Honesty is the number one thing that I would expect.
Honesty, consideration, accountability.
I mean, that's three.
Anything you should do, physically, action-wise, you think, as your man?
I mean, there's things that I would want him to do, you know, but that it's like requirements, no, but I'll gear the relationship based on whether or not they meet those expectations.
I think it'd be better if we said duties.
What are his duties instead of personality traits?
I would say it's one of their responsibilities as a guy is to protect me, make me feel safe, open the door, little things like that.
Not talk me down in front of anyone, talk me up, edify me in front of his friends.
What about you?
What is a man's duties to you that you would expect?
Physical or...
Let's say, for example, opening your door.
Something else he can do tangibly for you.
What do you expect from a man?
Like she said, expectations will get you nowhere.
Man, you should have went last, man.
Goddamn.
For real.
I mean, that's true.
Like, expecting anything out of anybody is just a straight-up failure.
But things that I like for a man to do is open the door, is be, like, attentive, you know, to make sure, like, if a hair is out of place or, like, an eyelash flew up or an eyebrow out of place.
I don't know.
Stuff like that.
Yeah.
Also able to express yourself and be like emotionally available and communicate.
Communication is...
I went to school for psychology, so that was a big thing for me is to be able to communicate, say how you are.
Because the thing is, is that everybody has...
Alright, alright, alright.
I hate that I have to say this.
Let me stop you real fast.
Emotional.
Because the things you guys are mentioning are...
We should have phrased...
Yeah, definitely.
They can't say it because they don't want to say it.
No, it's not that.
It's that...
Take me down or something like that?
You're talking about physically?
No, no, no, no, no, no.
What I've noticed with women is we have to...
Because here's the thing.
You're saying attentive and emotionally available.
That doesn't mean shit if he's not attractive to you in the first place.
That doesn't mean shit if he's...
Attractive?
Well, like, this is assuming you find him attractive already.
What I'm saying is that let's go back a step because whenever we ask girls this question, they automatically assume attraction.
No, no, no.
Let's not assume attraction.
I'm saying what's required for you to be attracted to him in the first place.
Does that make sense?
Okay.
So not already, I got him and I like him.
This is what I want.
No.
I'm saying, what does need to be there for you to even give him a chance?
So you're saying physical.
So service level.
Who knows?
Every girl's different.
Some girl's like, he needs to be six feet tall.
Some girls are like, hold on, ladies.
I'm just giving examples and you guys can go ahead and give your answers.
Some girls are like, he needs to be six feet tall.
Some girls say he needs to make this much money a year.
Some girls say he needs to have nice teeth.
There's typically some type of barrier to entry when it comes to dealing with women for them to be attracted to, to even give you a chance.
So let's start there.
Can we start over?
Yeah, we can start over.
We gotta rephrase the question.
So we're surface level.
We're going based off looks.
It's not surface level.
Because some girls don't care about looks like that.
I need them to have money.
So I need them to be tall.
So it really, every girl is different.
So what we're saying is, what does it take for him to even get a chance with you?
Three things.
Your requirements.
Well, to be able to just talk to me, honestly.
I don't know.
I guess I got a resting bitch face or something like that because people don't approach me.
I guess I don't give off like the friendliest vibe until somebody actually talks to me and be like, oh, you're really cooling down to earth.
But yeah, you ain't going to talk to anybody though.
Come on.
Let's be honest here.
I mean, when I was taught the golden rule growing up, treat others the way you want to be treated.
So if somebody speaks to you, you should speak back.
That's true.
Out of respect.
But just because you speak to him doesn't mean you might necessarily be attracted to him.
I'm talking about what are you actually, like, to be taken seriously from an intimate level, not to friend zone a guy.
That's what I'm asking.
You want me to go ahead and start this so we can get a level going?
Yeah, please.
Okay, all right.
Thank you.
So the question...
This isn't this hard.
Right, it's not that hard.
It's not that hard, okay?
After all my experience, damn it, your ass got to be sexy as hell.
That's number one.
I want to see a bald head.
I want to see a good smile.
Give me them eye contact.
I need some sexy-ass arms, okay?
Okay.
All right?
So he has to be physically attractive?
You gotta be physically attractive.
I mean, I'm not an ugly woman.
So we gotta be on some level of cuteness.
I mean, we gotta level up somewhere.
What's second?
And then second, once I approach you, because I will approach you.
What the heck?
I'm not shy at all.
I'm a Scorpio.
I go after what I'm...
I'm 40 years old, okay?
I ain't got time for no games.
I'll tell you what I want.
I see a nice guy after I talk to him.
Okay, all right, all right.
He can hold a conversation.
And after that, hell shit, I don't need the number three.
Okay.
Did that help you?
We'll go here.
Give you guys some time to catch up.
But okay, we'll start here.
What are the things that are required for you to even give them a chance? - Yes.
It could be one thing, two things, three things.
Go ahead.
I really like tattoos, so if he has tattoos and an alternative vibe, that's cool.
Is it required?
No, hell no.
Okay, we need requirements here.
Okay, so requirement.
Well, I think it's required that he has to be creative.
I like a guy who's creative and artsy.
Okay, what if he's creative and ugly, though?
I've dated creative and ugly.
Okay.
So the number one thing for you is he needs to be artistic.
Yeah.
Okay.
And then show up to my shows, like really.
Support you.
Yeah, be my fan.
Take pictures, videos.
Did your ex do that?
Show up to your shows?
Most of them, one didn't, and I never forgave him for that.
So question, if these other guys were creative and showed up to your shows, why did it not work then?
Because I was the breadwinner, so that didn't really work out.
Like, if I'm the one making all the money, it kind of sucks.
Interesting.
So, wouldn't it be fair to say then that if they're actually making money and they're out there chasing them back, they probably won't have time to come to your shows?
No.
No?
She's saying, you make time.
She's saying, nigga, make time for me, nigga!
I make time for my people, and I'm busy.
I mean, if I'm on tour, and I'm dating somebody, I'll see you once.
Like, I'll literally fly to go see you.
So I can make time, just like they can make time for my stuff.
I'll pay for the plane ticket to come to my thing.
What about you?
What are the requirements for you?
Describe your boyfriend.
He needs to take care of himself.
Like, he needs to look good.
He needs to look good.
He needs to...
Okay, let's be more specific because women like to speak in generalities.
I want to really get the nitty gritty.
Because you can take care of yourself and still be ugly.
Right?
So are we talking, he needs to take care of himself from a, he needs to go to the gym and be fit?
Does he need to take care of himself as in be fashionably forward?
Does he need to take care of himself and just be clean?
What are we talking here?
Take a shower with soap?
Clean.
He needs to go to the gym.
He needs to be attractive.
Okay.
So he does have to be physically attractive in all regards.
He needs to be muscular.
He needs to be muscular.
Yes, he needs to be active.
He needs to keep up with me, you know, like running, bicycle, snowboard.
Does height matter?
Well, I'm little, so all of them.
She wants to climb a tree.
How tall does he have to be bare minimum?
Minimally, he has to be maybe 5'5", because I'm 5'1".
Okay.
Lucky.
And then what else do you need?
He needs to know how to communicate.
That's key in our relationship.
He needs to make a smile too.
There's a bunch of homeless people that are active and 5 for 5 and communicate well.
Are you okay with those guys?
He needs to be funny.
There's a bunch of homeless guys in the crowd, too.
But the homeless is not attractive.
Hey, hey, hey.
There are some homeless.
Oh, really?
So communicate, you said, right?
Two walks around the block.
Describe communicate specifically.
What does that mean?
It's to be able to have a conversation with me without, I don't know, freezing up or not knowing what to say.
I don't like the people that are stupidly funny.
like a stupid funny.
I need to be, like, I don't know, just communication.
What is stupid funny?
There's a funny level, and when it's, like, stupid funny, I don't like it.
Okay, so you're saying be funny, but not too funny, but still be funny.
Yeah.
You got it.
Shit, what the?
Okay.
Okay.
And the reason why I ask that is because I wanted to figure out what kind of communication, but from what you're saying, it seems like you just want someone to be able to talk to you.
Okay.
All right.
What about...
Well, you gave your answers.
What about you?
What are non-negotiables that a guy needs to have for you?
Personally, I like them above...
I like them tall.
Like 6'3 and up.
6'3?
Right.
100%.
You what?
Ball players, y'all.
Honestly, I'm really big on personality, and I know that's...
That's cheesy.
Yes, I am!
They have to be funny.
Not like a personality charming, but they have to have a sense of humor.
You meet really attractive men, and they have the personality of a doorknob.
It's like talking to a bag of potatoes.
I just am big on that.
Interesting.
So they need to be funny.
Yeah.
I feel like...
So they need to be tall and funny.
You don't care if they're ugly.
And rich.
She's the only one being honest here.
I'm surprised that no one else mentioned finances.
You mentioned tall, funny, and rich.
In what order is the most important for you?
I would say funny is first.
No it's not.
I would say funny, rich, and then tall.
But rich isn't financially stable.
He doesn't have to be like a millionaire.
Like 800,000 would be good.
Wait.
A local or a year?
Network?
A week?
No!
Like a year.
That's crazy.
It's like just 100K.
Hold on, hold on.
Just out of curiosity, what do you think is a top 1% of earners in the United States?
Just out of curiosity.
I don't know numbers.
We already have gone over this.
I don't know my numbers.
So you want 800,000 a year?
You know that number.
Oh yeah, yeah.
That's important.
Alright, so for you, you're saying the number one thing is he has to be funny.
Yeah.
Okay, and then the number two thing is he needs to be six foot three or above.
Wait.
No, she mentioned personality or funny.
Yeah, I said funny, then financial, finances, and then...
So what if he's funny and he makes $800K a year, but he's 5'6"?
That's fine.
Okay, I'll take it.
She'll take it.
I'll settle.
She's athletic and he got money.
She'll take it.
She'll take it.
It's okay.
She'll take it.
Two out of three.
Pull up the calculator, Chris, just on the side.
All right, what about you?
What are the non-negotiables for you?
Three things they got to have.
Uh-oh.
No, it's fine.
If you got high standards, just say it.
It's fine.
Um, I wouldn't necessarily say, like, super high standards, but I definitely want somebody that has a, I guess, clean appearance.
Like, when I look at you, I definitely want you to look like you're keeping up with yourself.
Okay.
Um...
So you've got to be clean, number one, right?
Yeah, you know, look clean.
Like, I don't like seeing guys, you know.
Okay.
Um...
Ooh, number two...
I definitely want somebody dominant, but that's more so like after I see their person.
You can't really tell if somebody's dominant just like based off your, like looking at them.
Okay.
So you need them to be dominant personality.
Alright, and then what's the third thing?
Definitely mature.
Okay, so you could be ugly.
You don't care what ugly.
I don't think...
I don't...
Yeah, like...
Okay, so three most important things.
Oh, okay.
Yeah.
Well, yeah, I would say the clean thing...
We're not assuming attraction, ladies.
I'm making this very clear.
We're not assuming attraction.
I'm saying what is required for you to be attracted to them in the first place?
That doesn't fall into the clean, like...
Okay, so it's okay.
Well, let's just do a little bit of deductive problem-solving here.
If he's ugly, but clean, you will not date him, correct?
Oh.
But if he's attractive, but clean, you will date him, right?
Yeah.
So, but he's got to be attractive first is the main thing I'm trying to say.
Of course.
Okay, so physical attraction is more important than cleanliness.
Are you putting it all in one?
That's kind of what I was doing.
You gotta separate it.
Yeah, you gotta separate it.
Alright, well yeah, yeah.
In hierarchy of importance.
He's gotta be handsome, of course.
So physical attractiveness is number one?
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Because there's other girls out there that, I don't care how he looks, he's just gotta have money.
No.
And then there's some other girls that are like, I don't care how he looks, but he's got to be six feet tall at least.
This is common with women that are like five foot ten, five foot eleven.
They'll take anything over six foot tall, even if he's ugly.
So, that's what I'm saying.
I'm like, your hierarchy of needs, of what needs to be met first.
She was straight up, he needs to be good looking first.
So, for you, what is that?
What is good looking?
No, no, no, no, no.
What is number one for you?
You mentioned cleanliness, but it's clean and not cleanliness.
Because if he's ugly and clean, you ain't fucking with him.
Yeah, I would say he has to be handsome.
He has to be attractive, number one.
Okay.
Number two, I definitely do like a clean guy because I feel like, you know, somebody can be attractive and you see how they live, how they carry themselves and stuff like that, and you're like, ew.
That kind of turns you off.
So physically attractive, then clean.
Then what's the third?
Yeah.
Okay, so let me knock maturity off that list then.
Money, I'm assuming?
Yeah, you gotta be financially stable.
You don't have to have the most money in the world, you know.
What's the bare minimum for you per year?
I don't...
I can't give you a number, to be honest.
Let's say they're gonna maintain your lifestyle.
How much is that a year?
Come on, Gary.
You live by yourself.
100, 200, 300, 50k.
800k.
It's me and him?
Yeah.
Give us some grace.
Give us some grace.
I would say...
You want to one-up her?
Do a $900K? I'll do a $100K. I'll say $100K. I'll say $100K. What about you, Ms.
Russia?
What is the number one thing, or the top three things that they got to have?
Looking for a man.
Yeah.
The outcast.
Money, money, and more money.
More money.
Extra muscles.
What's number one?
I want to say there's something that I believe that American man is missing.
It's to be a real gentleman.
So what's really important for me that starts from the beginning, like you picking me up or you organizing how I'm going to be delivered to a place where we're going to meet.
It's about opening doors.
It's about to move my chair when I'm going to sit.
Be very attentive and actually care.
But let's be honest, Ms.
Russia.
There's plenty of men that will be attentive, but you don't give them a chance.
So what is required?
No, that's not true.
If someone will approach me and I will sit, it's actual gentleman.
I will give him at least a little chance.
Yeah, but he's ugly or he's short.
You won't give him a chance.
Come on, man.
I mean, we're talking about how long?
5 minutes?
10 minutes?
15 minutes?
1 hour?
1 day?
What is the chance?
I mean, there's plenty of guys that are nice and will treat you like a princess, but women don't like those guys because they might not be attractive, they might not be tall, they're boring.
They're nerdy.
So what's the number one thing?
I get it, you want a gentleman, but what is the most important thing that he needs to have to get a chance?
That's the first thing.
First and most important thing, okay?
Okay, we'll go with that.
Second thing is he has to be physically attractive to me.
Okay, what is that?
Does he have to be muscular?
More or less.
So I prefer to have some, this is some muscles on the man's body.
He has to have a nice smile, probably pretty tall, starts 5'10", at least, and up.
Ideally 6'0".
Okay.
Ideally 6'0".
To be quite honest.
That's really the number one.
Yeah.
That's the third thing.
- And then what's the third thing? - I want him to be very confident, but not arrogant.
You know the differences?
If someone coming from arrogance, you feel that you don't wanna even talk to this guy.
But if he's coming confident, like, okay, I wanna know about you.
I wanna know what you're doing, like everything. - Let's assume that he's attractive and he's a gentleman and he's confident, like you're saying, but he makes $50,000 a year.
Would you still give him a chance?
I wouldn't believe it's true.
What do you mean you can't believe it's true?
I mean, if he's confident, if he's so nice looking and everything...
Yeah, but he makes $50,000 a year.
Would you give him a chance?
She can't believe it.
Would you date that guy?
I mean, I have to be honest, right?
I already know the answer, but I just want to hear you say it.
Would you give him a chance?
One night.
No, it's not a one night stand for me.
It's not about this at all.
Probably it's not going to last.
You see what I just did there?
I took your three things, and I said, okay, he has these three things, but he still can't last.
So really, what you meant to say, instead of him being a gentleman, he needs to have some goddamn money.
What's the bare minimum?
You're trying to make a difference.
Because I know Russian women very well.
I've dated many of you guys.
Russian women and Colombian women are some of the most...
Picky when it comes to money.
Like, you need to have money to date these women.
I hate to say it, that's just what it is.
Colombian women, Russian women.
It's not only about money, okay?
I'll tell you why.
It's important, though.
It's very important for you guys.
And the reason why is because most Russian women and most Colombian women don't want to work.
So they look at it like, I'll work on the side, but I want a man that's gonna be traditionally masculine and provide for me.
They want providers, and I'm not, I think that's the way it should be.
I don't think women should work, honestly.
But with that said, you ain't gonna fool me, man.
I know how Russian women think.
You guys want providers.
That's why I said specifically, okay, he's chivalrous, he's six foot tall, and he's good looking, and he's confident, but he makes $50,000 a year.
What did you say?
No, no, come back.
So money does matter.
But your question was about approaching me, right?
No, to get a chance.
To get a chance.
To get a chance to start talking to me.
And then when I start talking to him, I cannot know how much he makes.
It takes time, right?
So it's going to be a couple of days.
But money matters.
But money does matter, though.
It does.
But why aren't you mentioning in your top three, then?
Ask me what is important for me to date someone from a long distance.
I can tell you.
All right.
See, and that's fine.
I knew girls were going to have a tough time with admitting that.
Yeah.
But that's fine.
No, I say it.
I agree.
The money is important.
But you didn't mention it until I pressed it.
But I guess it's not the tough for you when they keep coming to me to talk to me.
Okay.
But for long term, yes, it is very important.
Okay.
How much do they got to make here for you, bare minimum?
I mean, I can be honest, for me, the numbers right now, because I'm still thinking in rubles sometimes.
That's fine.
We can convert, baby.
Tell us in rubles.
Tell us in rubles.
Money, money, money!
Money!
How many rubles per month or per year?
Tell us.
What's easier for you?
Don't hold back.
Y'all got Google already?
I want to know.
That's a hard question.
Mother Russia.
Mother Russia.
Russell bears in the woods.
Babushka's waiting for you.
Babushka, by the way.
Babushka.
If he dies, he dies.
You will lose.
I don't know.
I cannot come up with a number.
Oh, you can't.
You just don't want to say it.
I cannot.
I mean, I dated a guy who was making...
I mean, at that time, I was thinking he was making a lot, but it still wasn't sometimes not enough for us for what we wanted to do.
And I used to date a guy who was making barely something, but he was so generous of spending on everything, so I didn't feel like we didn't have money.
So I know I cannot come up with a number.
Makes a difference.
Yeah.
Man.
She knows the number.
She just don't want to say it because she don't want to look crazy.
Just say one million.
I mean, that's a good number, yeah?
One million.
Realistically, that ain't happening.
We call that foreign aid.
Isn't it crazy how girls don't even want to be honest about what they want?
That's fine, though.
Yeah.
All right, what about...
I know you were talking.
We have to start over here because you couldn't even answer the question.
Because it's not about, it's about who you are as a person.
It has nothing to do.
You can, I have dated some of what some people may, I mean, even my dad, he'd be like, why are you dating this person?
They don't look like nothing.
Or I dated people that may have like seemed out of my league.
It doesn't matter what you look like.
It's about who you are within yourself.
How to make you feel.
Yeah, but he gotta come to me first.
I gotta get to that point, though.
I mean, once we get to, if I see you across the room and you eyeballing me, I'm gonna approach you.
I mean, something is attractive.
Yeah.
You know, that could be like their eyes.
Let me ask this question then.
All right, so we got a somewhat thing here.
Do you ladies think, we'll start hearing their work away, They say something like 50% of women are single, and then a majority of the women here at the table actually are single.
Do you think women's standards are too high in 2024?
Yeah, some.
In general?
I don't think they have.
One at a time, one at a time, one at a time.
We'll start here.
We'll start here.
Do you think women's standards in general are too high?
You could disagree based off of your own personal experience, women that you know, friends, family members, colleagues, etc.
You should go less, actually.
Yeah.
Spiritual conspiracies?
Do you think one of the standards are too high in general?
No.
No?
Okay.
Why do you say no?
Um, because I'm a woman and I have friends who are women and I see us constantly being like okay with stuff.
Fettling.
And we're constantly putting ourselves through traumatic things.
Like, so I think our standards are too low nowadays and we're kind of like, oh, if he's nice or if he's a gentleman, we're good on that.
But that should kind of be like the norm.
Okay.
Yeah.
So you think no because the standards are too low?
Yeah, I think our standards are too low.
Okay.
Do you think women's standards are too high or too low?
What do you think?
I don't know.
It depends on like how are you valuing yourself and what are your standards, right?
I don't know.
I would say Miami or in general.
In general.
No, I think we all know what we deserve, you know?
And yeah, that's it.
What do you deserve?
The world for us, the world.
The world, yes.
That's okay.
There you have it.
All right.
What about you?
Chicago.
You think women's standards are too high?
Well, I can't speak for all women and all of the women.
In general, of course, in general.
In general, the way the dating world is going right now, it make it hard at 40, because y'all's standards are too damn high.
Okay?
I'm going to tell you right now, your standards are too damn high.
Okay, I need y'all to bring it down.
Please do.
Okay, I get y'all want somebody that want all of this money.
Ooh, they gotta have this money.
Okay, that is so wonderful.
Get your own money.
Get your bag up.
Get your credit score up.
Get yourself together first.
And then you will...
Magnify the attention that you're doing.
So your energy, once your energy is at a level, you're going to match.
That dude is going to match you.
When I was in my 20s, not knocking your beautiful women.
No, no.
I didn't knock y'all at all.
I was a bottle girl.
I did all that shit, okay?
I did all that shit in Vegas.
They had photos back then?
Yes, they did, damn it.
We had Corbelle.
But I mean, I was a bottle girl.
I did that stuff in Vegas.
She was delivering that speakeasies, man.
That is fun.
Let me tell you something.
That one of Al Capone's bars.
That's where Al Capone was, it was in Chicago.
You might want to pay phone.
35 cents.
It went for 25 cents, 35 cents.
Shut up.
Shut up!
I'm serious.
Once you get yourself together and put yourself on that pedestal, then he gon' come.
He'll come.
You'll match that energy.
For me, my standards...
He gon' come alright.
He gon' come.
And then something.
So it don't matter if he makes it.
$50,000 or he making $500,000 or $5 million.
How you approach me and how you treat me, that's just how it's going to go.
And we're going to get down.
What about you?
Do you think women's standards are too high?
All right, Cat Williams.
Personally, I think women's standards are normal.
I think it just depends.
Everybody has their own standards.
I feel like it's not a general term.
It's also an age difference thing.
We have very different opinions.
Right.
I mean, looking back at this, you guys all kind of said very similar things.
Did we?
Pretty much, yeah.
Oh, she's taking notes.
Yep.
He had a note of it.
I don't know.
I think they're fine.
I think they're normal.
Well, that wasn't a question if it's too normal.
The question is, do you think the standards are too high?
No.
Okay.
All right.
What about you?
Do you think women's standards are too high in general?
I think it depends on the female.
Okay, but in general?
Yeah.
I would say yeah.
Why do you think yeah?
I feel like most of the women that speak on things like saying they need a guy that has this, this, this, and that can't really provide that for themselves.
And my dad, I'm really close to my dad, and he always told me to make sure I got my own.
You can't live off a man because they could cut all your shit off if they feel like it.
It's okay to have a man provide for you, 100%.
We're women, we shouldn't work.
As much as men, we should be able to be women.
That's right.
Be gentle, be feminine.
Yes.
But definitely have your own.
That's right.
Because, yeah.
Exactly.
All right.
Have your own.
And we meet together and make them millions.
True.
I work a welding job, so I know.
What about you, Ms.
Russia?
Do you think women's standards are too high in general?
So when you asked this question, I was thinking about my mom.
Every time I talk to her, she's like, okay, how's your date in life?
And I'm like, mom, nothing special.
So she's like, why not?
You went on a date?
I'm like, yes.
And she's like, okay, is he an alcoholic?
I'm like, no.
Is he in a drug addict?
I'm like, no.
Did he hit you?
I'm like, no.
She's like, what's the problem?
How old was her mom when she got married?
She was 23.
So is she panicking that you're 31 and you're not married yet?
She's not kind of panicking, but she's trying...
Sounds like it if she just says, hey, she's not an alcoholic.
She wants kids.
She wants kids.
I mean, I have two brothers, they have kids, and I'm kind of the last kid in the family with no husband and no kids, so it's okay.
She want to just make it accomplished.
Interesting.
Okay.
So, all right, do you think women's standards in general are too high?
Yes.
Okay.
You have high standards.
I do.
Alright.
What about you?
Do you think women's standards are too high in general?
I mean, I kind of keep...
I don't know what other women think.
I mean, I just...
I'd be around my mom and my nana and, like, I don't hang around.
Do you have any female friends?
Not really.
I don't have any friends.
Too many friends at all, really.
Besides, like, a gay guy.
Um...
All right.
I don't know what women think and what their standards are.
I mean, I know what my mother's standards were.
I mean, she got married at the age of like 18 and provided a house for her mother at the age of 21.
Okay, so do you think women's standards now are higher than before?
Yes.
No.
No, you think they're lower than before?
Yeah.
Because back in the day, you had to go, the dude had to go to your parents' house and ask to see you, to fucking speak to you.
I think that's how it should be again, because we don't have any standards.
Exactly.
So you think women have lower standards now?
Yes.
I have friends in Detroit, guys.
I have friends in Detroit, by the way.
What about you?
Do you think women's standards are too high nowadays?
I think women's standards are just delusional.
Delusional?
It doesn't match reality of life, like other ladies have said here.
What makes you say that?
That's a very strong term, delusional.
What makes you say that women are delusional?
It stands for both, women and men.
The standards overall are delusional.
It doesn't match life.
Tell me how men are delusional.
Women are coming up.
Tell me how men are delusional, or then tell me also how women are delusional.
Go ahead.
In the same standards, men want women to do things that they're not able to do for themselves, and women want men to do things that they're not able to do for themselves.
Give me an example of that.
What specifically are we talking about?
Cooking, cleaning, basic stuff.
So the men are delusional for wanting a woman who's going to cook and clean.
That's what you want.
And sex, 24-7.
Bend over and let me get it whenever I want.
And some head.
What are the women delusional of?
In wanting a man to provide for them 24-7, take care of them, put them up on a pedestal, open the door instantly.
Do you not believe in generals?
I do believe in gender roles.
Gender roles.
Gender roles.
Oh, gender roles.
Because that, to me, sounds like gender roles.
Yes and no.
Yes and no.
I believe that genders...
According to my notes here, you didn't want a protector and a provider.
No, no, no.
For sure, for sure, for sure.
But that shouldn't be the expectation that if he doesn't provide for me, you have to be able to take care of yourself.
Like, I wanted my man to take me here today, and he couldn't, and I had to, okay, well, I'll take myself.
Okay.
You know?
That doesn't mean that now he's less of a man, because he couldn't be there for me.
Okay.
You know?
Interesting.
Okay, so you think that they're delusional because they want something from the opposite gender that they should be doing themselves.
So, women should be working and earning their own money, but they want a man to be a provider.
And then...
It should be balanced.
Mm-hmm.
Okay.
So you think both parties should be doing both things.
Men should be cooking and cleaning as well and working, and women should be cooking and cleaning and working.
Yes.
So you don't believe it defines gender roles for the two?
I don't.
Okay.
No.
It all depends on the dynamics of the relationship and your jobs and your careers.
Mm-hmm.
By your logic then, would it be okay that the woman step up and protect the man every now and then?
What do you mean?
Especially if you can handle things in a more mature manner.
Say it's a guy who is straight up whooping ass.
I'm talking from a physicality standpoint.
That's what I was about to ask you.
You mentioned that the man is supposed to be the protector.
You said that's the first thing.
So I'm like, okay, if you think that gender roles are kind of fluid, right, like you're saying, so by that logic, that would mean that protection is a fluid thing.
Like, the woman should be able to protect, too.
Absolutely.
To an extent.
To an extent.
If I see danger, I should let you know I'm not just going to let something happen.
Hold on.
But do you genuinely think that you can protect your man, though, physically?
No, it depends on what it's against, right?
Maybe I can protect him against somebody that's trying to be sneaky or conniving.
I can have eyes.
Yeah, but we're talking for a mouth.
Physical protection or whatever.
Is that what you're saying?
My man's body is a lot smaller than mine.
No, y'all thinking way too far out.
No.
If some break down in here, I expect all the men in here to make sure all the women go out the door to protect us.
Now, in the meantime, while we hanging out there, I'm going to go into my purse and go grab what I need to get to be like, babe, just let me know when you're ready.
That's how, but a man is physically, physically, is supposed to protect the woman.
And that's just how it is.
And I expect that from my strong, sexy man.
They can try to remove us, but I mean, I would still want to be there helping.
But I got your back, baby.
Some women are okay being all day.
I can't beat no man.
I can't beat no man.
I'm too present.
I want to know that my man can protect me.
One microphone at a time.
One microphone at a time.
So you don't believe in gender roles.
You believe it's more fluid, right?
Yeah.
What about you?
Do you believe in gender roles for you?
Do you believe in gender roles or do you agree with her that it's fluid?
Both parties do both things.
I think it's more fluid to a certain extent.
I mean, I come from like a traditional like household, like the man, like North and South Carolina, down South, like white picket fence, woman stays home, man, you know, and...
So you don't agree with that?
No.
Okay.
All right.
What about you, Russia?
What about me?
You cut me off like a mug.
Well, I'm just asking simply, do you believe in gender roles?
And you're saying you don't.
You believe it should be more fluid.
You disagree with how you were raised in North Carolina.
I think I do believe that.
No.
I'm sorry?
I do believe in gender roles.
You do believe in gender roles.
Okay, so you believe in you stay at home and you do the housework and he goes and earns the money.
Not exactly like this, but I believe that there is some percentage, like I will say like this, for example, if a woman, she want to work and she want to do some kind of job, so it's going to be some side job, she's going to spend like 20% of her time doing this work and all other time she's going to do it.
But he's expected to make the real money to take care of the real bills.
You make some money to buy a bag or some bullshit, but the reality is that he...
It's disrespectful, by the way, how you're talking.
It's bullshit.
It's the truth.
It is not the truth.
Why do you say it's like a burst or something else?
Because it's bullshit.
You quite literally said 20%, which means that he has to earn 80%, which means that you would still earn 20%.
It would not go to any of the bills.
It would probably go to something like a purse or something personal for you.
Or make a gift for him.
It's still bullshit.
No?
Be honest though, you got a man.
Realistically speaking.
Every day in all, I buy no gifts.
20% it's too money, right?
What type of women buy gifts to our niggas all the time?
What type of women you deal with?
They don't seem very good.
Can I get you gifts?
That's crazy.
I pay for niggas.
And where are they at now?
Oh, in the strings.
They fucking in the present.
And let me all marry, man.
And let me all marry.
Man.
And that donut ain't trying to go back there.
So for you, you do believe in generals or you said no?
I said yes.
You do, but you want it where he makes the majority of the money and then you work some kind of job and maybe buy a place.
Kind of side job, yeah.
Okay, so that is gender roles then.
It's one of them.
But what's more about like a cleaned house, it's mostly on a woman.
It's about like a cookie that's mostly on a woman.
Take care of the kids and stuff like that.
It's mostly on a woman, yes, mostly.
And then listening to him at all times.
It's all about a talking, it's about conversation between couples, so between two people, so they can make arrangements.
Like if he's like, okay, I'm an early person, I can take care of early morning sabbatical and you cannot take care of the night time, for example.
Sprinkle, sprinkle.
It's all about, yeah.
It's all about conversation.
Okay.
But who's like the leader in the relationship?
Man.
The man?
Yeah.
Okay.
What?
Okay.
I mean, that's my opinion.
Yeah.
That's a Russian thing.
We'll get to that.
Okay, what about you?
Do you believe in gender roles or do you believe in it being more fluid as they were saying before?
It could be pretty fluid.
Okay.
That's my answer.
What about you?
I believe in gender roles.
You do?
Yeah, we know.
Especially in college.
What about you?
What do you believe in?
More fluid or gender roles?
Tell us, sister.
I believe in fluid, but right now I want a gender role.
I'm tired of working.
I'm tired.
I'm tired, boss.
I'm tired.
What about you?
Fluid.
Fluid.
Interesting.
Okay.
What about you?
Fluid.
Alright, for all the ladies that said fluid, would you be okay with going 50-50 on bills?
Absolutely, but no, no, no.
Hold on, hold on, hold on.
Let's be honest here.
Would you actually be okay with going 50-50 on bills?
Yeah.
You're paying rent, you're paying car bills, you're paying trips.
Because I don't want to be kicked out for nobody else.
I need to do that.
It's a security blanket.
Would you be okay with 50-50 bills?
I'm guessing for you, it might have been a yeah before, but now it's a no?
No, no, it's fine.
Yeah, absolutely.
But what would you prefer though?
I mean, we got one bank account.
I mean, I'm making money, you making money.
It's 50-50.
It doesn't matter.
Because when you're in a relationship, we both going to pay everything.
We just said a second ago you prefer generals.
No, I'm saying I was joking.
Oh, okay.
So you actually do want to go 50-50 with a man?
Yeah, that's fine with me.
I have no problem with that.
But if you had a choice, would you prefer to go 50-50 or would you prefer he makes the majority of the money?
And you don't have to work.
Come on, Queen.
I mean, honestly.
Come on, Queen.
You're tired of working.
Yeah, I'm tired of working.
What about you two?
Would you prefer to do 50-50 or would you prefer for him to make the majority of the money?
So, like, if we're talking about, like, the rent or things like that, 50-50, but if he's taking me to dinner or things like that, it's all on him, right?
Because, yeah, dinners, things like that.
So you want to go 50-50?
You actually want to?
Yeah.
Okay, what about you?
Do you actually want to go 50-50?
Yes.
Okay.
What about you?
I've done the 50-50 before in a relationship, but personally, I don't want to do that anymore.
Okay.
What about you?
Do you want to go 50-50 or no?
Yeah.
Yeah.
Do you know what that actually means?
Yeah.
You guys just explained it.
And that's a big thing on social media right now.
Everybody going 50-50 and stuff like that.
It's a pretty big topic.
Does it work though?
Does it work?
Yeah, does it work?
The thing is, I wouldn't mind a man trying to take over though a little bit.
I wouldn't really mind.
I wouldn't want that though.
Because like I said, I want to have my own.
I don't want it.
I wouldn't mind.
It's not like something that I need.
Like, it's not, you know, I can hold my own, but...
Interesting.
All right.
You're still young, so give it some time.
All right.
What about, well, for you, you said general, so you don't want to go 50-50.
What about you?
Do you want to go 50-50?
Please go 50-50 with me.
I'm tired of being at 100% low-key.
Mm-hmm.
If I can be spoiled, spoil my ass, please.
But, you know, 50-50 is better than, you know...
Would you prefer to go 50-50 or would you prefer to go with a guy that can pay the majority of the bills?
I mean, of course, if he can pay a majority of the bills and he wants to, I'm not going to tell him no.
Please pay 100% of my shit.
Sue loans is real, alright?
What about you?
Would you prefer 50-50 or he's the main breadwinner?
No, I prefer 50-50.
I like being able to pay sometimes.
Sometimes I'll front the bill.
I like having that empowerment.
You know what I hear?
A power struggle.
And they don't want to give it the power.
Most definitely.
Yes.
Yes, for sure.
Because you know if you give it the power...
Please let me submit.
I would love to submit.
Please.
Really?
I want to be in my feminine.
I want to be spoiled.
I want to be taken care of.
I mean, I don't mind.
See, the thing is that I'm paying 100%.
So if I can have 50-50, then yes, that's good.
But if you want to pay 100%, that's great.
There's levels to that shit.
Anytime a dude has paid for stuff, because I've been living here for a minute, and anytime a dude has done what he wants to do with paying for stuff, or paying for vacations, it makes me uncomfortable.
Once you do it, be like, bitch, and I did, I mean, I'm sorry, girl, and I did this for you, and you know what?
You better do this, that, or that, because another girl will do it like this.
And that attitude comes in.
It's weird.
When I come from a wealthy family, I don't need, that's the whole thing.
I don't need it.
I really don't need it.
Let's talk about how did that discussion even come to place, though.
Because, basically, how conversations like that come to place is like...
Let's keep it a thousand.
Let's keep it a thousand.
Women start fights.
Women start fights.
Maybe, but sometimes...
That's important.
Yeah, but so do guys.
Right.
Dogs start fights.
Cats start fights.
Everybody starts fights.
But the whole thing about this is...
Are you calling me a dog?
I didn't say you.
How dare you call me a dog?
The shoe fits.
How the heck do you know?
I didn't say you.
I didn't say you, sir.
That's fine.
We'll let you.
What are you going to say?
Go ahead.
So basically, like, sometimes people get set off by things, especially men sometimes.
So like, I can say something like, hey, babe, I got it this time, please.
It's okay.
Oh, you don't trust me to do this for you.
It doesn't have to get to that point.
Especially if I'm stepping in my womanhood, coming in soft, I don't have to raise my voice like a man.
I never have to.
But the fact that they feel like they have to, if I say, hey, no, thank you, about something, they feel like they're losing something out of that.
Like, they can't, just because they can't do this for me, they're losing control for some reason.
Agreed.
Men want to feel needed.
And it's okay.
They want to feel needed.
I can't act like a dizz.
It's almost like the man's trying to lead, but you won't let him lead.
No, I let them leave until they leave me off a cliff.
I mean, and then I have to get up.
So, I mean, it really depends.
I'm not saying dudes can't be, like, trustworthy with that, but it is kind of hard right now.
Like, it's a little hard.
Okay.
Very, very interesting.
We should play the video.
You want to play it?
I mean, I... Oh, God.
Whatever you think.
I mean...
We need to go to Rumble, actually.
The chat's first, though.
I'll read these chats.
I'll read some of these chats, and then I'm going to give my take on this, because you guys gave some very...
Crazy answers, but interesting.
Okay, Kester from Trinidad says, Hey, Myron, I found your ass.
You owe me some hours at McDonald's from when you harassed those fat girls in the pink Volkswagen Beagle.
Goddamn, bro, you got the story down perfect.
Is that Kester?
Is that really him?
My first job at McDonald's when I was 16.
I know, but is that really him?
No, it's not.
It's probably a troll.
JBX Ladies, what place do you hate being approached the most by men?
Oh, that's a good one.
Okay, where do you hate getting approached at?
Real quick.
Be the club, the mall.
Me, the gas station.
It just gives me creepy vibes.
Gas station.
Okay.
Yeah.
For you?
Muscle Beach.
You work out?
Muscle Beach.
That's like in California.
I'm very strong.
That's dope.
Yeah, but that's in California.
Like, how often are you going to Muscle Beach to go?
I mean, I've been here a year and a half.
Oh, you mean Muscle Beach and Miami Beach?
Yeah, honey.
You need to come work out, obviously.
You don't know where it's at.
Here it's up?
More than me.
What about you?
Not going to go work out at Miami Beach.
Muscle Beach, bro.
Come on, I got y'all.
Come on, Muscle's bro.
I'll hook you up.
I'll be castron.
I'm good, man.
What's the place for you?
That's an elevator.
Elevator?
You can't escape.
Hey girl!
I'm here for you.
What about you?
I would say, like she said, gas station or grocery store.
Grocery store.
I like the grocery store.
It's just weird.
And especially if you guys are still shopping and you end up running into each other again.
It's like, ah, shit.
Who are you?
What about you?
I would say parking garages or Jimmy John's.
That's so specific.
No, because it happens and you're waiting for your sub while they're making it and it's really weird.
They don't even take long.
It does take long.
It's not freaky fast like they say it is.
I'm being serious.
No, I get the turkey tom.
Following me in the bathroom.
What?
In the bathroom?
Following me into the bathroom.
- You what?
- They got all gender bathrooms now.
- Yeah, yeah.
That's what I asked for.
- Oh my God.
- You want equality?
There you go.
- No, I have no problem with it.
Just let me pee first.
And then you wash my hair.
- I gotta look at the bathroom.
- All right, what about you?
Grocery stores.
I want to do my grocery shopping.
I want to do my grocery shopping tranquila.
I don't want no one to interrupt me.
Parking lots also.
What about you?
The Uber or the plane, because you've got to stay in the Uber or on the plane with somebody who you probably don't really like.
Okay.
So I hate that.
Okay.
The live show is going to be streamed on Rumble, right?
Sorry for asking again.
I think so, yeah.
Yes.
Hamzi Ali.
Okay.
Zero in the Matrix goes, Hi again, this is watching FNF. I cut off all my promiscuous friends from my life, so thanks for that.
Is this a girl?
What I wanted to say is, Shenron, bless your guys' patience dealing with the bimbos ain't easy, fellow ladies.
Whose picture is on the $5 bill?
Who?
That's a tough one, bro.
They still make pretty money now?
Let's not be able to make it to this yacht party.
I'll try to make it to the next.
The grind never stops after all.
Yeah, by the way, guys, tickets are on sale right now for the yacht party.
It's on Friday.
I think we got maybe, I don't know if we still have any yacht party.
Let me check.
Once we got three tickets at the beginning of the show.
Have you ever let a guy or went on a date with a guy you weren't attracted to?
If so, why?
Okay, let me ask that.
Have you ever been on a date with a guy that you weren't attracted to?
We'll start here.
Two more left.
Two more left?
Alright.
Gone.
Well, you had like a blind date.
Okay.
What about you?
Yeah.
Yeah.
What about you?
No.
Nyet.
I don't believe that at all, but okay.
What about you?
No.
A believer.
Ooh.
Thank you.
On Tuesdays only.
Okay.
Ladies, okay, let me clarify this.
It could be you friend-zoned him, but he wanted to take you out anyway.
It could be someone that your girlfriend thought that would be a good match for you, something you went out just because you didn't want to disappoint her or some shit like that.
One person.
Okay, see?
What about you?
I had Q, yes.
You just need it to be clear.
That's it.
Be a little clearer.
Just a little more specific.
They get the answers.
Alright, what about you?
Yeah.
What about you?
Hell yeah.
Okay, what about you?
No, I leave if I don't like him.
Are you on a date though?
You don't finish that again.
What about you?
Yeah.
Okay, now let me ask the guys the same question.
Yo, have y'all ever went on a date with a girl that you're not attracted to?
Nope.
Hell no.
Shut up, lying.
He's lying.
So ladies, let me tell y'all.
You can ask any man this.
It's a no.
And I'll tell you why.
We go out with a girl.
Hold on.
Hear me out before you suck your teeth and shit.
Because unlike you guys, when we go out with a girl, we're like, okay, I would fuck her, so I'll go.
But we don't.
But you're still attractive?
Hence why they go out.
So that's my point.
Like men, we only go out with a girl if we find her attractive.
Like women are okay with wasting their time and going out with men that they don't like because they're able to get free meals, experiences, get some conversation because girls love attention and validation.
But with us, it doesn't operate that way.
We only go out because we're trying to get laid.
So to see how men date with a purpose and women typically don't, There's no girls that you hid.
You wouldn't show to your friends that you smashed.
You're like, oh shit, this is embarrassing.
No girls you never took out to dinner.
There's girls you bring to your apartment but never out in public.
You never had girls like that?
But you're missing the point.
That's the good question.
We may do it for money, but y'all do it to smash, but you may not be attracted to her all the way.
Because if you were, you'd be like, look at my hot girl here.
There's some level of attraction if you're having sex with her, though, is my point.
So there's some level of attraction if I'm going out.
I may think you're funny because I could be attractive, but I may not like your voice or, you know?
Y'all wake up on heart every morning.
I think you ladies are missing the point that you guys are okay with going out with someone you're not attracted to.
Versus the example you just gave proved my point even further.
We're not going to go out with a girl in public unless we find her attractive.
Does that make sense?
Because you literally just gave the example of, oh, there's girls that you take out on dates and girls that you just tell to come to the place because you don't want to be embarrassed.
So that puts my point even further.
You're only going to go out with girls if you find them attractive versus women are okay with wasting their time and going out with men that they don't find attractive.
Why is there a waste of time?
Because, and I'll tell you why.
Hold on, hold on.
I'll tell you why in a second.
Because you're able to get some kind of auxiliary benefit.
It could be free dinner.
It could be a cool experience.
It could be some free drinks.
It could be networking, whatever it may be.
Women get a bunch of benefit from going out with guys, but we don't really get benefit from going out with y'all unless we fuck.
How?
No.
Y'all might get a good time.
I agree with you.
Fun.
That's a good point.
I agree with you.
I don't know.
I agree with you.
Okay, do you guys actually think that you're as interesting as you think you are?
Hell yeah.
I'm going to party by myself.
Come on.
You can learn a lot from other people.
I like your realness right now.
Thank you for being honest.
You're right.
I've been out with guys that I wasn't physically attracted to, but after the date and after the dinner, and it was at Cheesecake Factory, ladies, okay?
But after that...
It was nice.
The guy was really nice.
I actually got to know him.
Really sweet.
I was like, oh, damn, okay.
Sure.
Alright, I'll try it.
Did he smash though?
Unfortunately not.
Nope.
No, no.
No, but he became a really good friend though.
He became a really, really good friend.
Right.
Good boy.
I mean, but it was a bubble date.
It was a bubble date.
I mean, what the hell?
Right.
But to me, if you're keeping it real with someone and let them know that you're not attracted to them and they still persist on taking you out because they...
How is that anybody's fault?
If they enjoy your company, if they enjoy...
Like, I just got that today.
Like, I told this person, like, I don't want to be with you.
I'm not there yet.
He just told you a guy is only going on a date because of one thing, to smash.
To smash, right?
So if you know that, whose fault is that?
If you keep him around...
Well, if he knows he's not going to smash, were you telling him you're not smashing, and they still decide...
I mean, they still want to.
They still want to.
But that's a personal problem.
They have shit to do with me.
So let me see this.
Is that a friend?
Uh-huh.
No!
It's not!
Are there any men and women that are really, really friends?
That's what I'm saying.
That have some type of intention.
I guarantee you if somebody had a chance to get in them draws, if you throw them pussy, I guarantee you they're going to catch it.
I don't give a fuck how long I've been friends.
I'm glad that you mentioned that.
So you don't think men and women can be friends.
Why do you think that?
No.
Because it's some type of physical attraction there.
Biologically, we give off pheromones that attract one another.
Unless you just really are asexual or you just literally don't like that person.
I'm going to give you the politically non-correct answer why.
The reason why is because women don't provide that much value to men that they think they do.
Okay.
I don't...
Perfect.
Okay, we're gonna rumble.
Rumble some, guys.
Okay.
Okay, go ahead.
Switch on over to rumble.
I'll explain this.
I'll explain this real quick.
Come on over, rumble.com slash freshfit, and I'll explain this.
We don't add no value.
Okay, okay.
I didn't say that.
I said that women don't provide as much value as they think they do.
Earlier I asked you guys like three things that need to be put in place, right?
For you to be attracted to a guy.
And a lot of you guys gave some things that are fairly hard to come by for men.
Being attractive, having good conversation, being physically fit, being tall, etc.
Do you think if I went around and asked a bunch of men what's required for them to be attracted to a girl, do you think they would have these amount of requirements?
No, absolutely not.
Nope.
Thank you.
They got a whole...
Nope.
Yeah, so the point I'm trying to make is that men have far less standards than women do, right?
Yes.
We're not as picky.
You guys are way pickier than us.
Yes.
Right?
And you guys have all these standards, etc.
So think about it.
If men aren't that picky and a majority of women meet the metric, are you really as special as you think you are?
Okay.
No, no, no.
Hold on, hold on.
Digest it and think for a second.
If men's standards are not as high as you think they are and they're pretty low and the majority of women fit into these standards, are you really as special as you think you are?
Damn.
Mic drop.
Misogony.
It's too general, you know.
It's all about who you think you are as a person.
It doesn't matter what other people think.
Why do you need validation from another person to know your own worth and your own value?
It's like, if you don't think that I'm not special, leave me the fuck alone.
Go find somebody else that...
You'll think it's special.
Let's remember how we got here.
You said yourself that men and women can't be friends, right?
Yes.
I mean, they can, but it's still going to be some type of attraction there.
And I agree with you that men and women can't be friends, but let's talk about why they can't be friends.
I'm telling you the reason why they can't be friends is because women don't offer as much value to men as they think they do.
The only value, really, that women provide is typically physicality and sexuality, is what men look for in women.
But what about advice?
What about, like, I mean, when I go out with my friends, like, my guy friends?
Advice for what?
About other women!
You're asking, you give it to me.
Come on.
Wait, wait, wait.
I like that.
I like that.
So you know how to get girls for guys?
I mean, I think I'm a pretty good wingman.
I got a couple people that, like, are engaged right now.
Do either of you guys have female friends?
No.
We can play a game.
I mean, I'm thinking women must be kind of interesting with all due respect because this is like a full women panel.
So we must be interesting in some way.
But for guys to ask us questions.
But to his point, he's saying that we think we have our standards are like up here.
Theirs is like here.
So that's telling them like, hey, we're not that freaking interesting.
So we want this and we want them to make this money and we want them to do all of that.
I don't know.
Look, I'm going to smash you tonight.
That's all I really want.
And whatever happens after that happens.
The people who are watching this now, they're not smashing us, but they're viewing this.
Oh, girl, they just view us.
What are you talking about?
That's the entertainment.
He's talking about the guy that you're going out with, John Doe, okay?
You and John Doe, he done took you to the rooftop in the top downtown Miami.
He about to spend a grand on you, right?
He about to give you the bag.
He done got your hair done.
He done got your nails done.
He got the makeup artist coming to you.
That's her man?
Like, no.
He done got all of that done for you and his main goal was to get all that off.
That's what he's saying.
That's what he's saying.
That's an extreme example.
What I'm saying is that men have to provide an enormous amount of value To women to even get a chance.
I mean, you guys admitted earlier, all of you have high standards to a degree.
But I didn't say that.
I didn't either.
I'm sorry.
Like, so how far will men...
Hold on, no, no, no.
You said he needs to be artistic and come to your shows.
That's not a lot.
That's after he became your man.
That's how you become my man.
Show some initiative.
Let's just say Moe.
If Moe was over there, what would attract you to Moe?
Wait, who's Moe?
That's the cutie fire over there with the sound chain.
Do you not see the fact that like, so I think you're missing a big component here.
He doesn't require you To be creative and come to his shows.
I think he's just looking to smash.
He's not looking for a relationship.
What I'm trying to show here, and I ask all these questions on purpose, the reason why so many women are single is because, to be very blunt with you guys, your guys' standards are a bit too high for what you bring to the table.
And the reality is that what most women bring to the table that men are interested in I want to know what are your three, the three expectations that you have for a girl.
My three expectations?
I mean, I don't think that's really that important.
I would say, I'll speak in general, because I'm speaking in general here.
I would say most men just want a girl that's attractive, not loud and obnoxious, and not a whore.
If you know those three things, most guys would find you, most guys, you could probably get married off of those three things alone.
So men's standards are not as high as women think they are, but women are the ones that have high standards.
But is that...
They're asking for something that they can't give when they say, don't be a whore?
What?
Are they asking for something they can't give when they say that?
She's saying, like, are they...
I see what she needs.
She's saying, why is it...
Are you making the...
Are you making the argument that, like, why is it that you don't want me to be promiscuous, but you can be promiscuous?
I don't care about that.
But is it asking something that they can't provide when they say that?
Because...
I don't know too many that don't sleep around.
I mean, I don't know too many.
I'm confused by your question.
No, but I feel like what you said is we ask for stuff, we have high standards, but in a way, when guys ask for something like that, As for something like what?
Like, don't be a whore.
Yeah.
What does that mean?
Don't be a whore.
That's relative to the man.
Every man has different standards.
One guy might want a virgin.
Another guy might say, okay, you could have had two or three boyfriends.
Some guys are okay with ten.
Every guy's tolerance for a woman's level of promiscuity is different.
But in general, right, if you're like a porn star or you do OnlyFans or you're a former stripper or something like that, most men are going to have a point of contention with that.
So everyone's tolerance levels are different, but obviously when you're out there with it, most guys are going to find it unattractive.
So that's what I'm saying.
In general, if you're pleasant, not loud and obnoxious, and you're not a whore, most men will give you a chance.
Versus if I took a guy and he was average looking and nice, and I guess not promiscuous or whatever, most women would not give him a chance.
chance does that make sense okay it's very simple do Do you give most guys the time of day that try to talk to you?
No.
Do you?
No.
Do you?
Yeah.
Okay.
No.
Do you?
No.
Do you?
Yes.
Yes.
He's not believing shit that comes out of your mouth.
Yeah, because her answers are kind of...
Didn't you just say earlier that you have high standards?
I have a high standards, but I can talk to this person.
Okay, I mean, when I say time of day, I mean time of day.
I don't mean as in having a conversation with them in the elevator, like you just said before, you don't want to do.
I'm talking about, like, a man that you'll actually, you find him attractive and you will give him an actual intimate chance.
What's intimate?
Like, go on a date with him and actually, like, be interested sexually and not just use him for free dinner.
Like, would you give most men, do you reject most men that talk to you?
I don't.
No.
I mean, I talk to them and sometimes I give them a second chance because the first date sometimes for me doesn't speak much about this person so I need a little bit more time.
So you go on a first date with every guy that talks to you?
Like every guy says, I want your number.
You go out with them?
Not every guy.
But they give chance even if I'm not sure about this guy.
Okay, but would you say a majority of them you don't go out with?
Yes.
Okay.
The majority of them you don't go out with.
Okay.
That's what I'm asking.
Digging together.
He got you.
Yeah.
All right.
What about you?
Do you go out with the majority of the men that talk to you or try to talk to you?
I believe her.
I don't get approached for that.
What about the dudes that try to slide in your DM and message you there?
Do you give them a chance?
A majority of them.
I mean, if they ask to take me out on a date, then, you know, I invite them to places that I'm at.
I don't...
It's like you can...
I'll be here.
How?
I'll be here.
What about you?
Straight up, no.
What about you?
Do you give most guys the time of day that talk to you?
Heck no.
Okay, so there you go.
I have to check their background first.
A majority of women, what I'm trying to illustrate by that is a majority of women don't like a majority of men.
Yeah, that's true.
That's true.
How do you know if you don't have a conversation with them?
Because you don't.
I'm asking because I'm very curious.
Because you don't.
Because women have unrealistic expectations.
He's not tall enough.
He don't make enough money.
His shoes don't match.
Oh, I don't like the socks.
I think they're just...
Like, most of them are killers.
Like, I'm mostly afraid of killing me.
Like, girls reject men for the most frivolous of reasons.
No, I'm afraid of serial killers.
That's true.
I don't know if I'm, like...
You know, social one day, and I meet a serial killer by accident, and it's because I'm too nice.
Like, I'm afraid of that.
Less than 1% chance, but she's probably rejected a bunch of guys off of that.
I'm terrified of that.
That's what I'm trying to say.
Like, women tend to just not see...
A majority of men are invisible to a majority of women.
It's just an unfortunate reality.
But that's why I online date.
That's what it is.
That's why I online date.
I online date because I give those men a chance that I wouldn't give in person, to be honest.
Not the cap.
To be totally honest.
Does that make sense though?
Does that make sense when I say that that's why men and women can't really be friends because women simply don't offer enough value to men from a friendship perspective?
Does that make sense?
Because I'm going to be all the way honest with you guys.
Women are really useless if you're not having sex with them.
Pretty much.
If you're my friend and I go over to your house and it's not...
Wait, you go over to my house?
And do what?
Talk?
I mean, you hang out with your friends.
You watch movies.
You have, like, brainstorming.
Let me ask you.
Let me ask you this.
Okay, cool.
I don't know what my guy friends do.
I don't know what dudes do for me.
They're not your friends.
They don't put me housing.
They don't give me my shit.
I don't know what the fuck.
What is a dude useful for?
All right, so how about this?
Okay, because my argument is that women are fairly useless if you're not having sex with them from a friendship perspective.
Right?
That's why I don't believe in having female friends.
That's not true.
That's fine.
And you don't agree with that.
I know.
So, what utility do you provide to a man as a female that he would not be able to get from a male counterpart?
Help you learn how to cook.
The best chefs are men.
The best chefs are all men.
If I go to your house and the cleanliness is not up to par, I will clean your house for you.
Or at least tell you, hey, you need to scrub your toilet a little bit better.
Hire a maid.
Hire a maid then.
You have a good way of wearing things.
Help you with your shopping.
Help you look more up to par.
I agree.
Shopping for what?
Food?
Clothes.
For your own wardrobe.
They got abs for that.
I don't know.
It's still a woman doing that shit.
Okay, I'm showing you value of a woman being a friend to a man, and yet y'all going like, but they can do this, but they can do that.
They're not doing that.
They have a woman as a friend, so prove your...
Prove your value.
If my friend is going to be around me, help me with things that I'm lacking.
Like, if you're into marketing, help me build my brand.
If you're into, like, tech or something, like, help me.
I'm going to help you.
I get that from guy friends.
We could get it from girlfriends, too.
We could get it from girlfriends, too.
That's not the argument, though.
My argument was men don't really benefit from being friends with women because women don't really provide you value unless you're having sex with them.
You don't get the best out of a female unless you're having sex with them.
And it's the same thing with men.
No, it's not.
Did we not just prove a second ago?
That women are okay with going on dates with men they're not attracted to?
Sure.
But it's the same thing.
It's the same thing.
It's the same thing with men.
Like right now?
You just defeated your own argument.
No, no, no.
For me?
I don't have a need for a man except to fuck me at this point in my life.
And I know a lot of women are like that too.
They don't put a roof over my head.
They don't pay my phone bill.
You're missing the point.
What I'm trying to tell you is that if you go out with a man...
All I need is a...
No, no, no.
Look, look.
Actually listen and understand because your responses are clearly not responding to my argument.
My argument is that when you go out with a man, he must provide value.
Whether he's taking you on a date, he's planning it, he's paying for it, he's giving you an experience, he must provide value to go on a date with you.
Can we agree to that?
Absolutely.
Right?
You ain't gonna go on no date with some guy if he's not providing value.
Correct?
Correct.
However, the woman can go on a date and provide zero fucking value and still get the date.
There you go.
So what I'm trying to argue...
Hold on.
Hold on.
So what I'm arguing is this.
For a man to get in a sexual exchange or in some type of intimate relationship with a woman, he almost always has to invest first.
The woman, however, does not have to invest and she can sit back and see if she wants to invest.
Hence, I'm going to wait three dates to have sex, blah, blah, blah.
So women are in the power position where they decide if they want to give value back.
So my point is that men must provide value, women do not.
So since women don't have to provide value, my argument is simply this.
If I'm not fucking a girl, it's pointless for me to deal with her because she doesn't provide value while I'm providing value to deal with her.
You don't enjoy her tongue.
I don't know.
I get that.
So that's a logical breakdown of why.
I'm from this generation.
So if you look at it pragmatically, if you look at it pragmatically, it makes absolutely no sense to be friends with a female as a male.
Makes no sense.
Cause I know for me to be friends with her, I have to provide value.
Cause let's keep it a thousand.
All the guy friends that you have that are in the friend zone probably, Probably still.
They don't pay for shit for me.
That's fine.
They don't have to.
They could give you boyfriend energy.
Hold on.
Hold on, man.
My bad.
They could provide you boyfriend energy.
They could give you advice.
Security.
They'll still provide you some level of security when you're out with them.
You'll still feel safer on them.
They still give you boyfriend energy and boyfriend vibes without you having to have sex with them.
You can complain about your problems with them, etc.
So you're able to get all the benefits without necessarily having to give up the cooch.
But on his end, what is he doing?
The same.
You're giving with a beautiful hand.
I don't have any of those benefits.
Maybe I have the wrong guy friends, but I don't have any of those benefits because they have girlfriends.
And that would be me overstepping my fucking boundaries.
That would be me overstepping my fucking boundaries.
I get what you're saying.
I don't know.
I don't know who's doing all that shit, but I'm not in high school.
Sorry.
I don't get all that fucking perks.
How far will a male friend go to fuck?
They're a female friend.
They'll wait years.
They'll wait years.
We had a girl on the show.
Man.
Actually, our first couple months on the show that we did back at the old spot.
And we had a test.
Call your guy friend and tell him to come to the studio.
You're home alone.
So she pretended to be at home alone.
Guy friend of 10 years, by the way.
Said, come over.
I'm horny.
Let's fuck.
In less than 20 minutes he was there.
After what?
10 years of friendship.
So what does that prove?
It proves what I've always said.
Women don't provide much value in the context of a friendship they're waiting to have sex.
That is the main predominant value.
Like, you're not gonna get the best out of a girl.
A girl's not gonna cook and clean for you and give you that love and true feminine affection unless she's having sex with you.
Women cannot serve two masters.
They can't.
They simply can't.
What do you mean that's not true?
I do that for my friends.
Like, whether you're a male or a woman.
Regardless if you're a man or a woman.
Like I said, if your cleanliness is not up to par, I will come in and...
I'm talking about from a male perspective only.
I totally get it.
I'm not a man.
I get it now.
You got it.
I get it now.
The way he just put it, I totally understand.
I never got it.
I mean, I thought my guy friends were just my guy friends.
Like, hey, we hang out.
We homies.
Oh, man, that's my homie.
That's my girl.
That's my dude.
Man, I'm going to hook you up with this chick.
But I totally get it.
Because they look at you.
The way they look at me.
The way they do things.
Yeah.
They're marinating the pussy.
You ever heard the expression, shoulders to cry on, turns into a...
Dictor right on.
It's true.
I think that's because you guys don't know how to draw that line.
If they'll give you the pussy, you'll take it.
But if you're a good friend, even if she gives you the pussy, you still should like it.
You still respect her.
I don't know how to be a friend to a female.
I have a friend like that.
If you offer it, the guy is always going to take it.
Because they're not a friend.
They don't know how to be friends to females.
So you know what?
How about you go back home Tomorrow.
Say, hey guy friend, let's hang out tomorrow.
Let's get drunk, have a good time.
And offer it to him and see what he does.
If you're so confident.
No, she literally made the argument earlier that men and women can't be friends.
I get that part.
Well, see, I don't have very many male friends.
Why?
I wonder why.
I wonder why.
Because a lot of guys don't hold fucking value.
Because they only want to fucking smash.
That's it.
You know their intentions.
Y'all don't think we hold value.
Y'all don't either.
So how do you feel about females that say they must have value?
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
But they have to hold value to be friends with you.
That's the difference.
See how you were able to...
No, hold on, hold on.
Yes, they do.
You just proved my point even more.
But we held value to each other.
Nah, hold on, hold on.
You triggered my trap card.
You stop being friends with them because they didn't, what?
Provide value outside of just wanting to fuck you.
So you got rid of them.
But guess what?
Men aren't smart enough to do that.
They will sit there and be friends on by a chick, get no fucking value, and try to get sex.
That's the difference.
Women are smart enough to cut off a guy if they're not providing value.
Men are not.
Ooh.
Women are smart.
Men are not.
- What?
- Boom, boom.
- Case in point.
- Is that what you extrapolated from that? - That's all I extrapolated from.
- Wow.
- I like that word.
- That was a low IQ comment.
- Now you don't make me.
- That's all I need to say.
- They didn't listen to the debate at all.
All she extrapolated, they better start by saying.
- No, I'm gonna start a fan.
- Hold on, real quick, you had a question for the panel.
- Let me think about the pussy. - You asked a question about girls having guy friends?
- Yeah, I mean, there's women that say they don't get along well with females How do you feel about that?
She belongs to the street.
That proves my point.
The reason why they mostly have guy friends is because men have more utility than women do.
The reason why girls a lot of times don't get along with each other is because girls have very...
I'm just going to be honest.
Women have very predatory tendencies.
What I mean by this.
Women are smart at deducting, does this person provide value?
Yes or no.
If it's a no, they're okay with cutting that individual off.
Men on the other hand, does this person provide value?
No.
Is there a chance I'll have sex with her in 10 years?
Yeah, okay, I'll keep talking with her.
Girls don't play that shit.
Like, they go out with their girlfriends?
Oh, this bitch don't pay when we go out on dinner.
Let's cut her off.
Men on the other hand?
Oh, this bitch don't pay when we go out for dinner.
You know what?
I'll continue to take her out.
So women are okay with cutting people off if they don't provide value and we're smarter at that shit.
Men are not.
So that's why girls don't have a lot of girlfriends because women tend to like see how far they can get.
Oh, can I get a free dinner out with this chick?
Can I get a free trip with this chick?
Can I do that?
And then girls catch on like, bet you haven't paid for the past two drinks.
We're cutting you off.
That's not a friendship.
You're not genuinely there to get to know a person and be a friend with a person if you keep in fucking tallies.
I just made a female friend that I don't mind.
We go back and forth.
If I feel like I want to treat that day, I'll treat.
It's fine.
It's on me.
I'm simply answering why women tend to have guy friends more than female friends.
And it's because what I just described.
Women don't tolerate being used like men do.
I don't use my guy friends.
Like, if I invite one of my guy friends out somewhere, I'm paying for it.
You just said you could have guy friends.
I only have, like, I mean, it's not very many guys.
Yeah, because guys don't provide value, so if they don't pay for your shit, you cut them off.
People don't provide value.
Why does it have to be male and female?
It can just be people don't provide value.
If you're not a good person as a male or a female...
Get to stepping.
That's it.
It doesn't necessarily have to be because you're a male or a female.
I've seen a lot of people are shit.
Where women, it'll be a group of us out and there's like maybe one or two guys and we usually do expect them to pay or expect them to take care of whatever.
And it's like if you don't, then...
We'll talk shit.
It's like, why are you here, nigga?
Okay, we got some more.
Thank you for bringing that point.
Like, men must provide value.
Women don't.
Like, I mean, you guys can get mad at me or say, that's sexist, that's fucked up.
But the reality is, is that men only are valuable and loved if they provide value versus women are loved regardless.
They don't have to provide any value.
This is why you can see dumb bimbos on a yacht all the time.
Don't provide no value, dumb as shit, but they're able to be around millionaires and billionaires.
Versus, as a man, for me to get on that boat, I gotta be a millionaire or a billionaire myself.
And for me to make that kind of money, I have to provide value for the world.
So, we're not the same.
I'm not sitting here getting mad at women or whatever.
I find it very interesting.
That girls don't realize the value exchange difference that you guys, number one, are not as special as you guys think you are.
I mean, when I asked you guys what you want, you all fairly said the same thing, and I had to pull it out of some of y'all.
But it's like, bro, I'm not saying men are special either, but what I'm saying is that we are way more alike than we care to admit.
But we want to sit here and say that we're special.
Good point.
Okay, Cabs, we got some chats here?
Yeah, we can hit some chats.
Next question.
Yeah.
Cam says, hey Erica, do you want to come over to Netflix and chill?
Because them cheeks I'm trying to slay and kill.
Why do you have to read it like that?
Chris, did you bring these rats from Dr.
Phil's rehab center?
Anyway, ratings from the creature from Daniel Katui.
Okay, fresh.
Alright, he called you deep-fried Pocahontas, two.
Crystal, four.
Lex Luthor, two.
Player Scout, five.
Unpaid DaBaby, three.
Shitlana, four.
Exotic Cricket, one.
And then Phil Shinobi, two.
Damn, man.
He rated you out of a ten.
You guys got anything you want to say back to the freshest shit?
Wait, is it?
I don't even know what that is.
Yeah, like, he just said a bunch of jibber-dabber.
I got something to say.
No, I want to know.
Myron's Nike slides.
Ask the ladies, would you be more attracted to a tall, fat guy?
He's a perfect height for you, but really fat.
Or a short, ripped guy?
He's super fit, but shorter than you.
Oh my gosh.
Those are two super weird combos.
I'll go for the fat guy.
I'll go for the fat guy.
Hey, baby, let's go to the gym.
Let's work out.
What we eat?
I ain't got time for that.
He ain't going in the gym.
Short and fit.
Will make him go.
Punisher.
Interesting.
Thank you, Ryan Fresh.
Watched this podcast earlier.
Work in the automotive industry.
I'd be happy to help you guys reach in high demand, high paying industry.
I'm 33, work in the industry.
Make 250K plus.
Started as a tech, now a fixed director.
Okay?
Automotive industry.
Okay.
Shout out to you.
Chris, maybe we'll reach out to you.
Hit up Moe.
Hit him up.
Delusion test.
Ladies, in hand-to-hand combat, no weapons, how many clones of yourself would it take for you to defeat Myron?
Two.
All I need is two.
Actually, one.
I feel like I can take you.
That's such a weird question.
I can take you.
You think so?
Yeah.
Let's go.
Meet me outside.
Catch me outside.
How about that?
You know what I hear?
Detroit!
313, baby.
That's what I hear, man.
Bless by ambition goes.
No, no, no, no.
No, we good.
Rumble Rants?
No.
Nobles.
Okay.
Red Pill Overdose goes, ladies, be with a loyal man making $50,000 a year or a man making $500,000 per year that you know will cheat.
Loyalty all day.
How was that laughing?
We'll start with you over here.
Loyalty all day.
But 50k per year.
50k?
That's fine.
Yeah.
I'll work too.
Well, you are loyal.
Double it up.
50k.
What about you?
50k per year and loyal or 500k per year but has other girls?
50 and loyal.
Which are the main?
Okay.
50 and loyal.
All right.
What about you?
50 and loyal, yes.
Stop the cat.
She's lying, man.
No.
What you doing?
I'm not answering that shit.
As you said earlier, 50,000 won't last.
But if you have only two options, it's going to last.
You are a makeup artist.
It has to last.
You are a makeup artist.
Do you know how much makeup costs a month?
I said hundreds.
What about you?
50K per year or 500K but has a side chick here and there?
Come on, girl.
I said I'm not answering that.
Come on, man.
All right.
Come on, Glo.
Keep it a thousand.
Bro, I would say the loyal one.
Or not the loyal one, I'm sorry.
The cheating one.
Don't worry, the three girls before you would want that too.
They just won't admit it.
What about you?
What are you going with?
500k, but as long as he's clean, that's all I care about.
Alright, what about you?
I'm an old whore, so I want both.
Damn.
Oh my god.
I'm so confused.
I want both, yeah.
Pick one.
Damn it, I want my cake and eat it too with ice cream.
To pick one, I'll take the 500k.
Alright, what about you?
Can I just pick none?
No, you gotta pick one.
One of the two.
I feel like all of us want a nice guy or 500k per year, but has other girls.
50 is not enough.
500?
Damn y'all, that's fucked up.
What's the bare minimum he's gotta make for you then?
200?
I mean, she's an architect.
Hold on, hold on.
Do you really think a dude that makes 200k per year is only gonna have sex with you?
Why not?
There can be loyal guys there.
What?
50K's a lot in Peru, though.
It's a lot in Peru.
It's a lot in Peru.
Hold on, hold on, hold on.
Real quick, real quick, real quick, real quick.
Good point, good point.
Do you ladies honestly think that you meet a guy that makes six figures per year, he's just going to be loyal to you?
Hell no.
That's why I'm at my boyfriend and girlfriend.
Do you think he's going to be a guy that makes six figures per year?
Do you think he's going to be loyal to you?
No.
See, I'm about to be single forever.
He can be, yeah.
If he's told to know and he knows what he wants.
She knows the truth.
What about you?
Yeah?
No?
No.
You?
I'm going to be single forever.
What about you?
The broke man's not going to be loyal.
All right.
What about you?
This pussy fine, so he's going to stay loyal for sure.
They don't give a fuck.
He's going to let that for sure.
They don't give a fuck.
I mean, I would hope so.
It's all in the guy, not about the money.
Let me ask another question to kind of see where you ladies stand.
Do you think you can sexually satisfy a man by yourself?
We'll start here.
Yes or no?
I'm up.
Yes?
Yes.
You think so?
Okay.
What about you?
I have.
Do you think you can sexually satisfy a man by yourself?
Yes, I do.
You do?
Okay, what about you?
I love these guys.
I hope so.
Okay, you can hope, but realistically speaking, do you think you can do it yourself or no?
Yes.
Okay, what about you?
I would hope so, but realistically, y'all always want more.
More what?
Never satisfied.
Never really satisfied.
I feel like you guys are always looking for more.
Same with women.
More what in particular?
Pussy.
And bitches be throwing pussy left and right.
Right and left.
They don't throw left and right, but that's fine.
Depending on what you do.
No.
Do you think you get sexually satisfied by yourself?
The question is, can a man sexually satisfy me?
That's awesome, but the question was, do you think can sexually satisfy a man by yourself?
Of course I can.
That's why I'm bi.
No.
Hell no.
Hell no.
What about you?
She kind of alluded to it by saying she's bi.
What about you?
You said you can, right?
Yeah, I love sex.
What about you?
Yeah.
You think you can?
Okay, so the answer is no.
You can't, ladies.
I know you guys are saying, I hope and I think I can, and the reality is you can't.
It doesn't matter if you're a dominatrix.
And the reason why you can't It's because it's simple.
Men crave variety in women.
So you can change as many wigs as you want.
You can put on different costumes, et cetera.
At the end of the day, men always want variety in women.
We always want different women.
They always say the best pussy is new pussy.
So you will never sexually satisfy your man by yourself.
And then the reality is this.
So there's a scale, right?
So we know most men are not sexually satisfied with one woman.
What ends up showing if he's going to step out is the more money he makes and the more status he has, the more likely he is to actually enact on that desire.
So the less attractive he is, the more you have leverage, the more he feels like he has you as the prize, the more he's going to be loyal.
Right?
But the more money and the more options he has, the less likely he's gonna be loyal.
It's very simple.
So, when you said 200K per year, I kinda laughed, because I'm like, ha, congratulations, he's probably gonna have other women.
Because, you know, you could give me the most loyal guy, if I give him a Lamborghini and a million dollars, he's having sex with models tomorrow.
Damn, that night.
Yeah, so.
You don't believe that there is a guy that actually would be loyal, that he's looking for that, that he has that in mind, and won just one part of that.
Oh, hold on, hold on.
Yeah, possibly, but why would he want you?
Big ass?
I don't know.
Because he's short and fat, and that's not what you want.
Exactly.
So what I'm saying is that the very men that you desire, that are attractive, that have this money, have the ability to get other women, so why would they be loyal to you when they don't have to be?
Now, is there a guy out there that's 6'3", with amazing teeth, and looks good, and has a Lamborghini, and wants to be monogamous?
Of course there's maybe one guy out there.
Right.
But what's the chances of you getting him?
He married his sweetheart.
He married his high school sweetheart.
I believe.
I believe.
We have a calculator.
Yeah, we got a calculator, actually, matter of fact.
Let's pull up the calculator.
Yeah, so you're...
If a guy makes a bunch of money, ladies, he's probably going to have other women, bro.
I don't know how girls don't accept this.
I think there's certain people that like multiples, and then there's certain people who don't.
I don't think it has anything to do with money.
Let's say I gave the man that you're with right now $2 million.
He could stop the water business that he has, and give him a Lamborghini and a blue check on Instagram.
You think he's just going to have sex with you?
I mean, if he doesn't, then he's going to not be with me anymore.
That's just the cost of the exchange.
Okay, so you would get rid of him?
Yeah, of course.
Hopefully he'll be a bigger person and get rid of her first.
At 40 years old, do you think that's intelligent to get rid of a guy that's a millionaire and successful?
Yes, I'd rather be by myself.
Yeah, for real.
I don't need to deal with that.
No company is better than bad company.
No way.
No company is better than bad company.
At my age, I wouldn't want to put up with the bullshit, to be honest.
Maybe if I was in my 20s, I would have been like, I'll take the money.
Okay, so let me ask you this.
Just so I kind of have a basis of knowledge here.
Do you think you were in a stronger negotiating position when you were 20 years old versus now?
I'm not here to negotiate.
Well, let's be honest here.
All relationships are in negotiation.
All relationships are in negotiation.
And each party has more power than the other.
But what I'm asking you is, let's say that your guy right now got a million bucks, two million bucks, Lamborghini, and a blue check on Instagram.
I'm convinced he would probably have sex with other women.
You're saying you won't put up with that.
What I'm asking you, and you're saying, well, maybe when I was 20 versus with 40.
And what I'm asking you is, do you think you're in a stronger negotiating position when you're in your 20s or when you're in your 40s?
She said it's not negotiating.
Every relationship is a negotiation, ladies.
Everyone, let's be realistic here.
I would say when I'm younger, of course.
I'm more at a loss the older I get.
Wouldn't it make more sense to stay with that man when you're older than leaving?
No, because it's not having ever learned that lesson.
You need to learn the lesson.
That's why people are still in this whole mission.
The lesson is that money does not come before love.
So if the money comes and they want to multiply their...
Have you ever had a dream that you had?
Okay, I'm just gonna be honest.
That's terrible advice, and I'll tell you why it's terrible advice.
So, the reality, right?
That's just money-based.
Have you ever had a vagina?
Have you been a woman in your past life?
Is this how you know all this information?
It's human as a male perspective.
Here's the beauty of being a man.
So, unlike you guys, men must understand women to attract them.
I need to know what turns you on.
I need to know how to be dominant.
I need to know how to be assertive.
I need to know how to plan a day.
I need to know how to dress a certain way, smell a certain way, go to the gym, build a certain physique.
I must understand women to attract them.
However, women don't have to understand men to attract us.
So the difference is this.
I'm speaking from a way more experienced lens than you guys are because I have to know what you're attracted to to get you to even go out with me.
So I understand women better than they understand themselves.
So are you even really being yourself or are you putting on a facade in order to get these women?
Yeah, to fuck you, yeah.
I mean, we're having a podcast discussion.
I don't think I really...
I'm not here really to attract or whatever.
I'm just telling you what it is.
Think about it.
How do you think I came up with these questions and I knew what a lot of you guys were going to say before you said it?
Or how was it that when I asked you a question, you didn't give me the correct answer that I knew it really was.
I asked another question and you gave me the correct answer.
Think about that.
You've been doing this podcast for a while.
I'm sorry?
You've been doing this podcast for a while.
Exactly.
That's precisely my point because you try to say, do you have a vagina?
I don't have to have a vagina to know how you guys think and how you guys operate.
My uncle used to say, my uncle used to tell me, Keita, a man knows what he wants before he even steps to you.
That's what he used to tell you.
Oh, I've heard that too.
Yeah, he already know.
I agree.
Like you just said, he done studied me.
He done watched me from across the room.
He done saw me come in.
He done studied me, so he already know what to do.
Yeah, my ex did that.
Exactly.
Guys are disgusting.
I don't know.
Who hurt you?
Somebody heard her back, Chris.
Somebody heard her bad, bro.
Just the way you guys are talking is just like, damn, I'm about to be single forever, bro.
I don't want a nigga anymore.
What did I say that offended you?
Why don't you just open up our eyes to a lot of stuff?
It's good information.
Thank you for sharing with us.
Thank you so much.
There you go.
Hold on, hold on.
Thank you for sharing the information.
What did I say that offended you, though?
What did I say that offended you?
Who?
You.
Yeah, yeah.
You're saying you hate men now.
Not hate, but you're disgusted.
But like, what offended you that you didn't like?
I mean, I'm honestly just disgusted with people in general.
The way that they treat one another in order to get what they want out of each other.
Like, that is sad.
Like, we're in hell right now.
I feel like we're living in Babylon.
And I'm tired of it.
I'd rather be by myself.
Alright, what about you?
You've been frowning a lot as I've been making points.
What did you dislike?
Me?
Yeah, yeah.
For you, yeah.
Um...
I just, maybe I just took things personal, so I just don't want to say anything.
You know, as a person, I might do that.
But, like, I just didn't agree with certain things, dude.
What do you not agree with?
I'd rather not share.
Go ahead, just what do you not agree with?
What is wrong?
So, mostly, like, the whole idea that women don't have something to offer.
But, you know, that's just my thing.
I never said that.
I mean, well, we're not as interesting as we think, but I don't know how interesting...
All of us may think we're interesting on different levels.
It's just, like, different stuff.
So what am I getting wrong, then?
Because I didn't say anything.
You asked me why I was frowning over here, and I was just processing stuff.
Shut up, Meg!
Would it be fair to say that you processed what I said from an emotional lens versus a rational lens?
Yeah, I would say that.
I would definitely say that.
I just, like, found out some ways that guys think, or maybe you think, and I was kind of, like, surprised.
That's it.
I mean, I kind of took you through the logical thing of, like, man must provide value on a date first, right, blah, blah, blah.
And you agreed with everything, but the thing is that you got to...
I mean, I don't agree with that part because sadly...
No, because I went on dates when guys didn't provide that.
They didn't have to promise me anything for me to go.
They didn't pay for anything.
They didn't buy me an outfit.
But what happened after the fact?
It depends on the guy.
Maybe I hooked up, maybe I didn't.
You did.
Sometimes.
Shit.
Shit.
So he provided...
For you to have sex with a guy, he had to provide some kind of value then?
I guess he had to be funny and kind of sizable.
That's my point.
He didn't provide...
That's not on the...
Sizability is not on the alcohol.
It's not always alcohol.
I'm just like...
I like to play video games and shit, and sometimes I'd be feeling a nigga.
We don't have to be on a date.
We don't have to be on a date.
What value?
We're playing a video game.
It's on my fucking system.
But he bought the system and had a place for you to come back to and play it.
It's my system.
At my place.
So what is he providing?
He had some charisma.
He had some charm.
His presents.
Thank you for your presents and dick.
That's what you're providing.
You came over to my house.
Same for women.
Thanks for your presents and your pussy.
According to your requirements, you said that they need to be creative.
Like you.
So he was creative then, I'm assuming.
Oh, he doesn't have to be artsy.
He can be creative with business.
I said creative.
You don't have to be a fucking Picasso or Robin Thicke.
You just gotta be creative.
Robin Thicke.
You gotta be Thicke somewhere, though.
You just say creative artistically.
But what I'm saying is that for that man to have come to your house randomly like that, was that a first meetup?
Probably not.
No, we probably have mutuals.
Probably?
Yeah.
Okay, so he did something right to be able to come to your house and have sex with you and play video games.
Just like a woman, it's a presence.
No, he had to do something else.
I doubt he just showed up and just was viewed there.
His presence!
And then you guys are smashed.
He had to do something.
He had to charm you.
So what, conversation?
Wait, he had to charm you.
Wait, hold on.
No, like, niggas just come, bro.
If you just come as yourself, that's way more attractive.
Come as you're a bro.
Yeah, but coming as himself, he had to be charming.
He had to do something to...
Nah, niggas be doing some shit that they, I don't know, like...
Charming.
What are they doing?
I guarantee you, if you be your genuine self to a woman, you might be married.
Are you married?
Do you have a girlfriend?
What you got going on with Myron?
What you got going on with Myron?
She's afraid of serial killers, right?
So you had to vet the guy out more or less.
My friends do, or my brothers maybe.
So he had to demonstrate value.
He had to provide social proof to your friend group.
Which is what?
What?
That he exists?
Yeah, he exists.
He's not, like, imaginary.
I don't know, like, the nigga didn't have to show off money.
I don't know what the fuck.
Yo, this is a perfect example of the pizza analogy.
This is a perfect example of the pizza analogy, bro.
What's that?
Please put me on.
The pizza analogy?
So, okay.
So women, right?
I look at you guys as...
Pizza consumers.
And what I mean by this is you guys just go to the restaurant and you enjoy the pizza and that's it.
And you walk out, woo!
The day's nice, right?
I love pizza.
But what women don't get is that the fucking dude was in the back.
He had to get certain types of dough.
He had to get certain type of sauce.
He had to get a certain type of water to make sure it comes the right way with the dough.
He had to get a special oven to bake the pizza in.
He had to put all this work in to create this fantastic fucking pizza.
And you guys don't know the work and toil it took to create that pizza.
You just enjoy the end product.
So, what I'm trying to say is this.
That guy, unbeknown to you by the way, demonstrated value to your group of friends, to your family, et cetera, in ways that showed that he's A, not a serial killer, which is one of your fears.
B is charming to a degree.
C, he has some kind of competency because he's able to establish value to another group of people so that you can go ahead and trust him and come over to your home.
But again, you just enjoy the fucking pizza.
You don't know what goes into making the pizza.
And this is most females.
But that's both sides.
You guys, hold on.
No.
Women don't know what it takes to be attractive as a man.
Right?
You must make the pizza as the man.
However, for you guys, I know what you...
Well, you don't know how much time it takes for us to get dressed.
You don't know how long it takes for us to get makeup.
These clothes are expensive.
Blah, blah, blah.
We don't give a fuck about none of that.
You can show up with no makeup.
You can show up with sweatpants.
You can show up with your hair not even done.
And men will still go out on dates with you.
Men will still show you attention.
That's my point.
If you want to make the pizza, cool.
But we don't care if the pizza's made or not.
You guys, on the other hand, care about the pizza and how it tastes, but you don't understand what it goes into making the pizza.
So you're sitting here saying, he didn't do shit, he didn't provide no value.
Yes, he fucking did.
You just didn't see it.
Because he's in the back, tossing around the fucking pizza with your sister and your friends, showing you that he's a good pizza maker.
That's why he was able to come over and play some fucking Mario with you after the fact.
Mama Mia!
Right.
That's what we're about to do.
I guess it's a lot of work to be doing.
It's a lot of hard work.
It's not about that.
It's that men have to do all these things to even get the chance at sex versus women don't have to do none of this shit.
That's what I'm trying to explain.
Guys care about how you look.
Guys care about how you dress.
But you're born with that.
You're born with your beauty as a female.
You can accentuate it.
You can accentuate your beauty, but the reality is, most guys like girls that wear very little makeup.
Most guys prefer women that don't have surgery.
Most men prefer women that are slim to a degree.
Do they?
Yeah, not fat-eyes.
So the things that make you attractive, you're born with.
This is why 18-year-old women can be on yachts with billionaire men.
You have to actually work out for that.
There's girls that don't go to the gym that still look good.
But there are no men that have an aesthetic physique that don't go to the gym.
That's the difference.
No, that's not true.
That's not true.
I know one guy that does not go to the gym at all, and he is...
It's just his body type.
I know one guy.
It's just his body type.
Let me guess, he's Nigerian?
No.
What's your ethnic background?
And he has developed shoulders and biceps and abs and all that from not going to the gym?
Come on, man.
I mean, he just has nice pecs.
He's toned.
Just because that's his body type.
He probably does calisthenics or something.
No, that's just his body type.
Again, looking at the pizza, not knowing what goes into making the pizza.
Men are naturally gonna, they're body fat.
They're gonna get thick.
They're gonna get thick.
If they don't work out, they're gonna get thick.
No, it's the opposite.
I mean, like I said, it depends on your body type.
You have mesomorphs, you have endomorphs.
The point is this.
Men are not gonna build an aesthetic physique that women find attractive with that 1.6 ratio of shoulder to width to shoulder width to waist ratio unless they go to the gym.
However, I know a bunch of fucking bimbos that don't work out at all but look good in a bikini.
We are not the same.
We must earn our value versus you guys don't So we're talking about men and bimbos not men and women right now No, I said that there are plenty of bimbos that don't go to the gym, that look good in a bikini, and they're on yachts, and they don't go to the gym at all.
They don't work out.
Versus a man is not going to build an aesthetic physique.
They have to take care of what they are eating.
They have to actually do something to be as they are.
They're making a lot of pizza.
Those bimbos are making the pizza.
I don't got that anything to make.
They are starving themselves.
Bimbos are dying on the surgery table every day.
You're reacting with your emotions.
It's just the fact that women don't have to go to the gym to look good.
They just don't.
It's genetics bro.
It's genetics.
And she looked good.
Do you work out every day?
Yes.
The thing is that somebody is going to like you somewhere.
So regardless of what your physique is like...
That wasn't the argument I was making.
You don't have to go.
Well, men don't have to go to the gym.
To answer your question, I do not go to the gym.
To build an aesthetic physique as a man, you must go to the gym.
To build an aesthetic physique as a man, you absolutely have to go to the gym.
Absolutely.
You must train with resistance.
You can be a hard worker.
You can be a laborer.
I know girls that don't care about that.
That's resistance training.
But it's not going to the gym.
It's life.
That's still training.
You're lifting shit.
Yeah, but it's part of your lifestyle.
Right, but it's still resisting.
You're still doing something.
I don't care about that.
But there is people, there is girls that don't care about the muscles or something.
And I respect that, but I don't care.
Do most men feel this way?
That wasn't the point.
I was just making the argument about the pizza, is what I was trying to say.
We are making pizza at the end of the day.
Let me be very fucking simple about this.
Men have to work way harder to get women than women have to work to get men.
That's true.
If you want a man worth some value, you gotta work hard.
I feel like as a woman, you...
Just for his particular question.
Where's your man?
No question.
That's what I thought.
I like to...
No, obviously I attract narcissists because I have a lot of work to do within myself.
And I'm learning a lot about myself, so that's fine.
I'm good.
I'd rather be alone.
An 18-year-old woman that's a virgin that has no life experience can pull a fucking multimillionaire that has worked his whole life to make that money.
Correct.
She is born with value.
He had to create his value.
We are not the same whatsoever, which is why, with all due respect, I don't really take female opinion seriously.
And the reason why is because you guys live a completely different life than we do.
Men and women are not the same.
Men are leaders, women are followers.
What the fuck do I look like listening to a bunch of followers?
No offense, ladies, but that's just the reality.
And this is the type of man that women want.
I don't sit here and argue with women and take your opinion seriously because, quite frankly, we're very different.
We look at the world differently.
I gave a bunch of factual statements earlier.
She responded with emotional arguments to me.
What the fuck do I look like putting a woman like that in leadership role?
And this is how most women are.
They're emotional.
And again, women are treated to men that think the way that I do.
Women love gentlemen.
Because you mentioned before, Ms.
Russia, that you want a man to be a man, right?
You want a man to be a gentleman, correct?
Yes, exactly.
And who else wanted a man to be a gentleman?
You wanted a traditional role.
You mentioned protection as a part of the traditional role.
You do realize for me to treat you traditionally and treat you like a lady, that means I must look at you as an inferior, right?
Boom.
You do realize that, right?
To let y'all go on this mode to make that you as inferior.
Hold on, hold on, hold on.
I disagree.
It sounds stupid to us.
No, no, no, no, hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on.
That was pretty deep.
No, think about it.
I want you guys to really think about this.
I never thought about it like that.
I want you to really, really, really, really think about this.
If I'm expected to protect you, provide for you, lead you, are we really equal?
No.
If I'm supposed to open the door for you and do all this stuff, pull out the chair for you, I'm supposed to do all this stuff and I'm responsible for you.
Are we really equal?
If you're pulling out my chair, you're opening up my door, I'm doing the same for you.
No, you're not.
Every man that even friends that have pulled out my chair for me to sit down, they sit next to me, I'm pulling out your chair.
You open up my car door, I'm going to lean over and open up your car door.
It's all about treating others the way you want to be treated.
Look, you're missing the big point here.
You think men give a fuck about a girl pulling a chair out for them or opening the door for them?
No.
You want that shit.
We don't.
Women want that shit.
They get mad.
Oh, I opened the door for you.
Now?
No, now men do get mad.
They'll be like, oh, I opened the door for you.
You can't open for me?
Um, yeah.
They try to test you.
Every man that I open the door for you.
With all due respect, because you date weird soy boys that are into art.
I guess so.
That's why.
I guess I do.
I guess I do.
Everybody's fucking different.
Okay, fantastic.
But the point is, is that most women want men that are chivalrous and gentlemen, right?
Well, guess what?
For me to be a gentleman, okay, I have to treat you a certain way.
And unfortunately, these things come from men being leaders and being dominant, etc.
A lot of you girls, someone mentioned that they want a man as dominant.
Well, guess what?
If I'm dominant, that means I am superior to you.
Correct.
Like, why is it that y'all want men to be leaders, and dominant, and providers, and protectors, but then I say some shit like, okay, cool, so you want a man that's superior to you?
Whoa!
That's offensive!
That's offensive!
I'm retarded!
I don't understand!
That a man that's superior to me is going to treat me as an inferior.
Yeah.
If I'm supposed to protect you, you're inferior to me.
Because you clearly can't defend yourself, so I have to defend you, and that's fine.
I'm not for that.
That's about the mindset.
No, but the whole thing is, it's easier to feel safe if a man isn't yelling, saying, you listen to me.
I'm not going to let anybody protect me.
You can't protect me if you're yelling at me.
You're stressing me out.
You can say, baby, I'm your man, and I can be your leader.
But you're not going to say, you're a follower.
You're not going to talk to me.
Because that's not safe.
That's not a safe environment for any woman.
I'm sorry.
You better come to me soft.
If I'm a woman, come to me soft.
Say, hey, baby, I'm going to protect you.
It's not saying that.
I didn't miss nothing.
We have no problem with men taking leave.
We got a problem with them getting disrespectful with it.
Don't get them cocky.
Baby, you can do whatever you want with me.
But don't be like, bitch, don't do that.
Don't get a weird type of vibe.
Your response right now is exactly why they play our podcast on psychology shows.
Sure!
Nowhere did I say...
Yell at women.
No word did I say.
No, it's the way it's being, like, we have no problem being led.
That's how you're saying it to her.
And being superior and inferior.
I don't care if you're in your feelings, man.
You're in your feelings, man.
I've waited.
I've listened.
No.
No, no, like I said if you were listening if you were actually listening you would notice that I said don't argue with your girl So he's just gonna tell you this is what it is.
I'm not saying to yell at women I'm not saying to do you need to do this.
No, it's like hey We're gonna do this and then she listens.
That's not argue with girls But I don't know how you extrapolated me yelling at girls just because I'm speaking to the audience by the way in this way doesn't mean that I'm telling guys yell at your girl, etc.
I'm just telling you the backstory and That women, I don't think women are in a position to tell men anything, because at the end of the day, you guys are inferior to us.
So I think men are supposed to be the leaders.
But why do you feel that way, though?
Why do you feel that women are inferior?
It's okay that they do to you.
It is, but it doesn't say that a manager is superior than a woman.
A man and a woman is inferior.
Okay, let me ask you this.
Let me ask you this.
If a man is taller than you, and stronger than you, and more competent than you, and your leader, Okay, you can beat some ass.
You can be ass.
Can you have a conversation, like a decent conversation with somebody in order to bring their temper down?
Or can you control a room?
Like, that's leadership.
That doesn't have to be a man or a woman.
If a man can beat your ass, you will listen.
No, the fuck I get a gun?
A gun or what?
You're missing a point.
Get out of here.
The point is we're like way down the street.
No, no, no.
Then why bring up the beat the ass thing?
What's the point of bringing up the beat the ass thing?
That has nothing to do with shit then.
And I get where she's coming from.
That's weird, bro.
It's the way, Myron, that you're saying, like, you guys are inferior.
You are.
You are.
Maybe from a physical standpoint.
And men are rough and brutes.
Relationships are more just physicality.
Our intuition and our heart is so superior.
It's different.
There you go.
Nobody is inferior or superior.
We balance each other out.
That's why men and women are supposed to be together.
You can beat somebody's ass.
I can talk to beat somebody's ass.
But in actuality, the man is still the man.
Nobody's not saying that they're not the man.
But that doesn't make a woman say inferior.
No, no, no, no, no, no, no.
You guys are going like way down the street in Broward.
He's just saying there's nothing wrong with the way that you all.
Okay, you want to.
He's the man, right?
He's gonna protect you.
He's gonna do all this stuff.
He's macho.
He's the king.
He is the freaking king of the jungle.
He is Mufasa, okay?
I am whatever the damn wife name.
I'm Nala.
Okay, you Simba.
I'm Nala.
Okay, that's what he's saying.
He's not saying that you're, you know, like he's going to talk trash to you and then he's going to tell you, well, you need to sit down, bitch.
I said this.
That's not what he's saying.
If you want to protect her, damn it, I'm going to sit down and I'm going to let daddy protect.
And he's not saying, someone has to be the superior.
Someone has to be the head and somebody has to be the neck.
My grandmother always said, the man is the head and the woman is the neck.
His head can't turn without that neck.
So he is the superior, but guess what?
You need an inferior woman and a strong woman to make that head turn.
That's what he's saying.
He's not saying...
The problem is that you guys...
I think the terminology needs to be different.
I don't think it's superior or inferior.
Myra, you do know it's 2024.
You can't say a woman that, you know, you do know.
No, it's the truth.
It's the truth.
Women want men.
That are superior to them.
Women don't look for their equal.
They look for a man that's taller, stronger, more competent, better than them in every regard.
So therefore, you are looking for a superior individual.
You guys don't like me saying that, but that is the reality.
Women don't look for their equal.
They look for a superior.
So guess what?
If I am the superior, I'm the fucking superior.
I'm not going to sit here and listen to your opinions and do what you want to do.
I'm the leader.
I'm supposed to protect and provide for you.
So it's my way or the highway.
And women respect and admire men that think the way that I do.
That's horrible.
Just because you're the leader and the superior in the relationship, why is it your way or the highway?
Hold on.
Do you prefer the men that you had before that made you pay 100% of the bills?
Because I'll tell you this.
If I was with you, you wouldn't pay shit.
You'd be sitting your ass at home and you'd be chilling.
But it's my way or the highway.
Or you can have the other situation where you're the fucking leader and you're the man and you're paying 100% of the bills and you get frustrated and angry and you don't have any friends.
That's what ends up happening when women have to pay for their own bills.
See, the thing is this.
You guys don't even know what you're attracted to.
You guys don't even know what you're aroused by.
It doesn't come until it hits you in the face.
You're like, damn, I like this guy because he puts me in my place.
But you guys don't even know this shit because you're programmed to think that you're equal to a man.
You're fucking not.
You're not.
We're not the same at all.
We're very different.
It's not programming to think that you're an equal to a man.
It is programming.
It's about balance.
It is programming.
If you're looking for a man to be, like, all is above you, like, yes, I do want somebody that is, like, better than me.
Superior.
Can we look up the definition of superior, please?
Go ahead, pull it up.
I'm not getting mad.
I'm not upset at all.
I'm saying it's like...
It's like y'all want to go to an expensive steakhouse, y'all want to get the best steak, but you guys don't want to pay for it.
That's what I always laugh at when women say, I want a dominant leader man that makes a bunch of money, but I'm supposed to sit here and listen to you?
First off, you as a woman...
You said balance, right?
The only balance you need to worry about is your pH balance.
No balance!
Life is not fair.
Life is not fair, I'm telling you.
It's not fair.
That's why all these relationships end in bullshit because people aren't looking for balance.
They're looking for somebody that is more superior or more inferior.
No, because my partner is somebody that I'm with.
Girl, you're so single.
I am single.
So why are you talking right now?
Because people don't have balance.
That's the issue.
If you don't have balance within yourself, then you're definitely not going to find it out in the world from somebody else.
Let us know.
I got you.
I got you.
Please do.
She lost, bro.
I'm lost?
You lost, man.
Balance.
See, here's the problem.
Like, that This balance shit, all this 50-50, it's all a lie.
Ladies, it's all a lie.
Let me tell you, you don't want a guy to go 50-50 with you.
It's a fucking lie.
You even said to yourself, oh, I grew up in a traditional household in North Carolina where the men did the XYZ and the women did what?
But why has things changed?
It's changed because of feminism.
It programs women to think that they're equal to men.
They can go out and chase a career and make a bunch of money and still be happy with a guy that makes as much money as they do.
Or they can even be the breadwinner, which I think you two kind of fell for.
What I'm here to tell you is you will never...
Ever, ever be attracted and aroused by a man that makes you go 50-50.
Sorry, newsflash, women and men are not the same.
You want a man to provide for you, okay?
That's just how it is.
It's in your DNA. If I cannot provide, my father taught me, if I cannot provide for myself, then I definitely cannot depend on a man to provide for me.
Alright, chats?
Damn.
I mean, it's a choice.
I will be.
I'd rather have my own company than be with bad company.
That's it.
Bye-bye and die alone.
Dominican Kono says, and you can't name the top five English, Spanish, French, Russian, anything Chinese.
So name three languages.
Nah, that's too hard, man.
That's kind of difficult, bro.
Hey there, Asian Jamaican.
Your people are in my country doing one thing, and that's fixing my roads.
However, instead you guys have small communities all over the parishes and raise the price of my favorite banana chips.
Where are you going with this?
I'm going to be nice tonight since you're Jamaican, but you have Asian blood, which means cooking rice isn't hard, so tell Myron Fresh Mo Bill and Shitty and Icy the proper way to cook white rice.
And by the way, no rice cooker involved.
Don't let me down.
Go.
That's a Jamaican brand.
Chippies!
Chippies is the Jamaican brand!
Chippies!
Okay, Mickey says, just went from $25,000 a year job to $65,000 a year job, big W. Good, good, good, man, but you gotta make more money, bro.
You gotta make more.
Most of the girls here at this table won't even give you a chance for $65,000.
These people got too much time on their hands.
Red Pill Overdose says, ladies, what are the things you need to keep a man, and who is more easy to maintain in a relationship?
I mean, you can answer the question already.
What the fuck is wrong?
Alright, yo, real quick.
Pull up the calculator.
Oh, man.
Pull up the calculator.
Come on.
Alright, Miss Russia.
We want you to put in your dream guy, okay?
What is the bare minimum age your guy's got to be?
Your dream man.
38.
38, okay.
Minimum, okay, what's the maximum age you could be then?
55.
Okay.
Minimum height for you?
5'10".
510.
Alright.
Race.
White.
They're rich.
I mean, black.
Russians like blacks.
White and black?
Russian.
See, told you.
No, they only like black if he has money.
That's not what they like.
Alright, black?
You said white and black?
White and black, yeah.
Okay.
Minimum education level that you want him to be, to have.
I mean, college.
College?
Okay, bachelor's degree?
Four years?
Yeah.
Okay.
Minimum income?
Max.
Boom.
What is a bare minimum income he's got to make?
You could say a year, a month.
A year.
Oh, chill, chill, chill, Kristen.
What is it per year?
How much you gotta make per year bare minimum for you?
Be honest.
400,000.
400,000, okay.
We got Snickle in the house.
Okay, can he be married?
No.
Okay.
Can he be obese?
No.
Okay, so before I run this thing, this is probably one of the most...
Hold on, hold on, ladies.
This calculator right here is probably one of the most comprehensive calculators of men in the United States.
It takes from the 2020 Crown Population Survey and from the National Health and Nutrition Examination Survey and the U.S. Census Bureau.
So this is the most accurate assessment of men in the United States.
So we're going to go ahead and see how common your guy is.
Okay?
Oh, this is hilarious.
Good.
Click it.
Let's see.
Congratulations, you scored a perfect five out of five cat bags, which means the chances of you being single are extremely high. - Thanks to the ref, bro.
- That's a team, that's a leash.
- Congrats.
- Pull that up real quick. - I think that's a good one.
- So the chances of you meeting your guy are less than 1%.
- Damn.
- Wow. - 1.5, actually.
- Yeah, not even, is it a quarter or a percent?
No.
Barely a fraction.
So basically almost a third of a percent that you have of finding your guy.
So a question for you.
You said earlier that you want loyalty.
Would you still expect him to be loyal?
Yes, I do.
Now, okay, let me ask you this then.
So this man that makes this kind of money, right, and is that tall, etc., you know that there's other women that are going to be 21, right?
I'm just being honest, like, because you're 31, right?
You're 31 years old, and this guy makes a lot of money, and there's going to be a bunch of women in their 20s that are going to go after him, so, like...
Good luck, girls.
Right?
Right?
So I'm just saying, are you going to lower your standards knowing that this man is extremely rare?
Talking about standards, should they consider someone much younger?
Well, making it younger isn't going to help with the standards that you have.
No, I mean, it's going to have a higher percentage.
Higher chance of finding him.
Okay, you want to lower the age?
Let's see how much it helps.
Let's lower the age.
What's the bare minimum age?
Are you 31?
32.
Okay, 32.
Let's see how much of a difference that makes.
Go ahead, Chris.
Could we put it back and point to 32 just to kind of show?
32 and 55, right?
Yeah, 32 to 55, yeah.
You do realize that that's not going to make any difference, right?
Hold on.
Think about this.
If you actually learn your standards, you might find a guy.
This way you won't, though.
Just saying.
Think about it.
Think about it, okay?
Think about it.
Jesus Christ.
Hold on.
And what I'm trying to say is, like, this man that you're looking for, like, he can get a much younger woman.
And here's the thing.
You're Russian, so you know.
You're Eastern European.
You know.
Because you know that men typically want younger women.
Like, this is in your culture.
You guys want providers.
The men want younger, more attractive women.
The women want men that are more older, robust, competent, have money.
Like, you know this in your culture.
So, do you really think, like, you want a guy to make you $400,000 per year, in this age range, number one, do you think you're gonna find him?
Number two, do you think he's gonna take you seriously?
And then number three, you really don't think he's gonna cheat on you?
Yes.
You're right.
You know what the crazy part is, too?
This doesn't account for his looks.
This doesn't account for his charm.
This doesn't account for his personality.
This doesn't account for if he's good-looking or anything.
If he's gay or not?
Yeah.
This could be a gay guy, too.
So, realistically speaking, what are your chances of finding this guy?
Also, Leff or Girff?
You don't know that?
Okay, so now that you know the numbers, that's the raw numbers, your chances of finding your dream man, are you going to lower your standards?
No.
Oh my!
Yo, bro!
I'm ready to get my cat, I told you.
We can move on, bro.
I'm ready to get my cat.
We can move on.
Alright, anyone else want to get their dreams crushed?
Lost souls.
Anyone else want to get their dreams crushed?
Lost souls.
You said you want $200k per year.
Lost souls.
I'm going to pull up her shit too.
Let's have fun.
Let's go half the money.
Half the money.
Alright?
Yeah.
This is going to be even funnier.
This is for Peru over here.
What's the minimum age?
Minimum age should be 29.
29 to what?
29 to the oldest guy that I did.
45.
Alright, 45.
Minimum height for you?
I want it to be only 6.
Be honest.
5'8.
I don't know if you guys noticed, she said 5'5 earlier.
I wrote it down.
But she's 5'1 now.
She upped her height.
Race.
Yeah, I like everything.
Penis.
You want the Indian guy?
Indians are nice.
They have the same skin.
He needs to be handsome.
Brown people are handsome.
I don't know, Asian guys.
Latino.
You've been with a Chinese guy before?
Did you say Haitian?
Yes.
I was going to Chinese.
Minimum education.
I went in on Lee's College.
Okay, bachelor's degree.
Can you have a master's?
Does he have to have a master's or just a bachelor's?
No, bachelor's degree.
Bachelors?
Okay.
Oh, 200.
We already know this.
200,000.
Okay, can he be obese?
No.
No gorditos.
All right, can he be married?
Thank you, Chris.
No.
Okay, let's go ahead and let's build her bed, too.
I really get a kick out of this shit, man.
Oh, man, and you also scored a five out of five cat bags.
Damn.
She got a higher percentage.
You got a higher percentage.
You're like a quarter of a percent, I think, or something like that.
No, not even.
Less.
How tall is your boyfriend?
My boyfriend is 5'8", actually.
What's his race?
He's Russian.
How much does he make a year?
He's making around, what do we put?
200.
Okay, so she put him in the calculator.
Okay.
Hold on, hold on.
You got him.
Wait, wait, wait, wait.
Pull that up.
Pull that up.
So, question for you.
Let's say you catch him having sex with another girl.
You catch him cheating.
What are you doing?
Now that you know how rare your guy is...
Oh, I don't care.
You're leaving?
Yeah, I'm leaving him.
I can find another one.
You really think you can find another one?
Yes.
Yeah.
She knows her value and her worth.
Good job.
Female arrogance, bro.
As long as she has a pussy, she can find another one of them.
You know your worth, bro.
Stand on that.
What's the two words we're going to use tonight?
Sprinkle, drizzle, drizzle, drizzle.
Okay, okay.
Let me ask you this then.
Who do you think...
Let's be honest here.
Who do you think is rarer?
You or him?
Because you basically just put your boyfriend in there and we just showed you where he stands.
I think we both are pretty rare.
No you're not.
As you should, as you should.
I have things that not a lot of girls could do, you know?
Like snowboarding, I skateboard, I surf.
There is a lot of people that do it, the women that do it, but not as much as hiking and adventure stuff that I do.
So, question.
How about creating a family?
You snowboarding and shit.
I don't care about that.
I care about having a family with a girl that I love, you know what I'm saying?
So how does that help me create a family?
You snowboarding and shit.
I do believe that.
We share interests, you know?
And it's pretty rare to find someone that shares the same kind of interests that we share.
I don't care about your interests.
I care about your interests.
You'd be really surprised at how many girls will be happy to learn snowboarding and skateboarding if they meet the right guy.
Do you actually think you command as much value as he does in the dating marketplace?
I'm gonna say yes.
She has a vagina.
Incredible.
She has a vagina.
Women have more value.
Incredible, bro.
Yo, that mindset right there, real talk, that mindset right there is why women stay single and why they, like, fuck up in relationships.
Ladies.
Yo, ladies.
Yo, if you're with a guy that makes a certain amount of money or a guy that is that successful, etc., like, You don't have as much value as he does.
You should be happy you even have him because we're in Miami.
You know how many girls he could get that are harder than you?
He could replace you like this.
No, no, no, because let's keep it a thousand.
He could replace you like this, but you can't replace him like that.
What?
There's a lot of rich guys in Miami that provide.
There's a lot of rich guys that provide, especially when we're in 20s.
Hold on, hold on, hold on.
How many rich guys are going to provide, take her seriously, date her seriously, make her the main girl, etc.?
I don't want to answer that shit on this TV show because I'm not trying to listen to my kids.
See, and this is the thing.
This is the thing.
All these girls around you, look, look, look.
If you notice, all of them say, no, girl, you go ahead.
You can find another one.
I'm telling you, you fucking won't find another one.
That's all you see in Miami.
Don't go to Utah.
This is why women perpetually stay single.
Y'all give each other terrible fucking advice.
I'm telling you, if you find it, man, shut the fuck up when I'm talking.
Anyway...
I'm serious.
I'm trying to make a serious point here.
If you don't want to listen, that's fine.
But at least maybe there's a girl out there that's watching this show that can fucking get it.
Because I have saved a bunch of girls from leaving relationships where clearly they don't have as much value as the guy.
If you meet a man that's on that level, less than 1%, right?
And maybe he has sex with another girl or he does something that pisses you off or whatever, suck it up because you're not going to get something better.
He can replace you.
What kind of advice is that?
Again, let me finish my fucking point.
Because I just showed you guys the hard fucking numbers and you guys are still delusional trying to sit here and argue with me that she has as much value as the man.
She fucking doesn't.
And that's the problem with you ladies.
You guys overestimate your value.
You think you demand this level of guy.
This guy's in the top less than 1% yet you're trying She can skateboard and snowboard.
She's on his level.
No, she's fucking not, man.
Stop being stupid.
If you find a man that's exceptional, guess what?
You better fucking make exceptions for that guy because he can find another pretty girl that's younger, that's hotter than you, that provides the same value because guess what?
Men aren't as picky as women.
You even admit it yourself, you're picky.
You want a guy making 200k per year?
You think he goes to fuck about a girl making 200k per year?
No.
He'll date a girl that makes 2k per year and be happy because he makes more than enough money.
So ladies, you need to know your fucking place and know if you got a guy that is exceptional, you need to make exceptions yourself.
Don't listen to these other girls that don't have a fucking man trying to tell you, no, leave, know your worth.
Then you'll end up single with fucking cats, five cat bags, 30 plus years old, 40 years old, and you can't find a fucking man.
I'm telling y'all, man.
Like, this is what it is.
This is how men that have money think.
We don't sit here and tolerate no bullshit.
Look, I don't want to be with you anymore.
Get the fuck out, then.
I'm gonna go get another girl.
What if she has your baby?
What if she's already pregnant with your baby?
You got a baby mama?
You're...
Like, what happens?
Like, what happens?
What happens?
Okay, you're bringing up a random scenario.
I'm simply telling her that it's her job...
She gotta get the fuck out.
Just be quiet for two seconds.
Sure, no problem, sir.
Yeah, just be quiet.
No problem, daddy.
Because no one cares about your opinion right now.
Okay, thank you, daddy.
I'm giving her some real advice.
When you meet a man like that, it's your job to keep him.
Uh-huh.
There you go.
Okay, yeah.
And your snowboarding and skateboarding is not enough.
Hear me a second.
Hear me a second.
Like, I understand the value of my guy.
And as we can see here, like, yeah, they are not that common, right?
But not because of that.
I'm gonna actually catch him cheating.
And say, oh baby, oh no, nothing happened.
Okay, keep doing it.
No, I'm gonna give me my place.
And I do know that he has value, but also me.
And yeah, I'm down to do some things for him because he does provide.
He is amazing, right?
But at a certain point, you know, there is a limit.
Yeah, you have a limit.
No, you suck it up and you stand by that guy.
You suck it up and you stand by that guy.
Bro, you know how hard it is to find a man that actually will take care of you and provide for you?
It's very hard.
You just graduated with your master's degree, right?
And you have the leisure of being jobless right now and he's taking care of you.
You know how much of a privilege that is?
We're your parents.
A majority of men will not provide.
He's not paying my bills yet.
Okay, yet.
Okay.
But he's paying for something.
So what I'm saying is that, you know how hard it is to find a man that will actually want to take care of you and provide for you?
That's not true.
In 2024?
That's not true.
Who said it's not true?
Me.
Are you paying bills for a dude?
What are you talking about?
I've been paying my own bills.
I've been on my own since the age of 18.
I've been paying my own bills for a very long time.
You literally said you had to go 100% on the dudes that you were with, man.
No, I didn't say that.
That never came out of my mouth.
That never came.
I never said...
You did?
No.
No, I didn't.
She said that she was right now.
I wrote it down!
No, I never said that.
You said, I'm tired of paying 100% for this.
I am tired of paying.
Not for niggas.
No, I did not.
That didn't.
I have not said the n-word.
Not once.
That's an n-word.
For guys, how about that?
I have not said that.
I did not say that.
I always keep my own.
If a guy wants to pay, if we can go 50-50, that's better than me paying 100%.
And if he wants to pay 100%, even better.
Rewind the tape.
Go back.
Go back to the live.
I guarantee you.
I put that on my life.
I put that on my mama, your mama, everything.
I did not say.
21,000 people are saying your cab right now.
21,000 people are saying your cab right now.
Give me more cabs.
Give me more cabs.
I promise you.
Somebody go back and watch the fucking videos because I don't got no fucking life.
Listen to what you said.
I wrote it down.
I never said I paid 100% with any duty.
You said 100%.
100%.
I am tired of paying 100%.
She was saying that because she's alone right now.
That's what she meant, I think.
Thank you.
I don't care what she meant.
That's what she said.
She said 100%.
I'm tired of paying 100% of my own bills.
I want to be spoiled.
I want somebody that I could go 50-50 with or that could pay all of my bills.
Bro.
But I'm not paying 100% for no nigga.
I keep my own shit.
So you're saying that you're trying to pay 100% for yourself?
Yes.
If it was so easy to find a provider to spoil like you're claiming, you would have had one yourself, bro.
I have two right now that's begging to take care of me.
And because I am not where I want to be as a person, and I'm not about to be using people.
Because you don't like those niggas, bro.
You don't like them, bro.
No, it's not even that.
They're good people.
They're good people, but I know...
They're good boys.
Yeah, I know.
Yeah, very good boys.
But I don't...
Who the fuck is waiting for a girl, man?
I don't want to be with anybody right now.
No, it's not simple.
It's being truthful within yourself.
If I don't want to be with somebody, I can literally call a dude right now.
Stop for two seconds.
You can't flex.
Let's go ahead and use your analogy.
What if I flexed that I watch porn every day and whack off to a bunch of new girls?
Would I be able to say I'm a player?
I mean, in your own right, that's how you feel about yourself.
Keep it a thousand.
If I whacked off the porn every day to a new girl and I bragged and I said, I'm a player and I get bitches, would that be valid?
No.
No, because you're whacking off.
Fantastic.
Okay.
So you sitting there saying, I got two niggas that want to pay for me.
That's not a flex.
You're a woman.
It's easy to have men that want to simp and pay for you.
The thing is this, you and her are not the same.
It's up to a woman to make the choice to be like, you don't need that.
You and her are not the same.
She's in a relationship with a guy that she actually fucking likes and is attracted to.
And he makes money.
You have some sims that want to pay for you that you don't want to be with.
You're not the same.
So you can't sit there and be like, it's easy to find a provider.
Yeah, it's easy to find a provider for a nigga that you don't want.
But it's hard to find a provider that you actually are attracted to and want to be with.
It's not the same.
Correct.
So again, this is what I mean when I say women give each other terrible fucking advice.
Context matters.
She likes the guy that she's with and he makes a bunch of money.
I'm telling her, don't fucking leave him.
Stay by him.
It's your job to keep him.
It's okay to find another provider.
No, I'm not saying that.
No, I did not say that.
That's not what's coming out of my mouth.
It's for her to find another provider.
I'm saying that there are other people out there to the point where you don't have to stay stuck in a situation.
I said it's not easy to find a provider and then you went ahead and said it's easy.
Somebody that's as beautiful and successful as she is, I guarantee you she can find another man that'll be willing, more than willing to take care of her and provide for her.
But hold on, hold on.
That she likes back.
Yeah.
Don't.
I mean, it's going to take time.
It's going to take time.
That takes time.
To like somebody takes time.
How much time do you need, though?
Until you're 31?
Who fucking knows?
In Russia?
What if she never finds the person?
I will.
She feels like she will.
She's 26 already, bro.
Wait, so hold on.
What if she follows your advice, leaves her guy?
Nobody's told her to leave her man.
Don't say that.
I didn't say that.
That didn't come out of my mouth.
That did not come out of my mouth.
Wait a minute.
You're telling her there's other options out there, right?
So by default, you're saying, yo, we can leave your man.
It's fine.
No.
If he cheats is what we're saying.
That's not coming out of my mouth.
I'm saying that there's boundaries.
If that man stakes his dick in another woman, you better fucking run because he's gonna do it again.
He's gonna do it again.
At this point.
It's a healthy risk.
It's a healthy risk at that point.
Because you can't find a center.
This is why you're saying follow your heart.
Who at the table thinks she should leave?
Raise of hands if you think she should leave if her boyfriend was cheating on her.
Raise of hands if you think she should leave.
Come on girls.
Let me see.
Your opinion doesn't matter.
How many thinks she should leave?
Okay, three.
How many thinks she should stay?
What do you think?
That's an itchy situation.
That's a really itchy situation.
You think she should leave too?
Okay, interesting.
So we're like almost 50-50 here.
Guys at the table, what do y'all think?
Should she stay or leave?
Stay.
Team.
Okay.
Just share the bills, share the pandemia, share the disease.
Yeah, man, she's staying, man.
She should stay.
She should stay.
Y'all telling me y'all will stay with y'all woman if she slept with another dude.
We're not the same.
We're not the same.
Come on, man.
He's saying because men are providers and all that shit.
Have a little bit of common sense.
Men and women are not the same.
You can't put us through the same lens.
Why do you think when I gave you the example of me whacking off to porn, Like, I didn't say, what if I found another chick to provide for me?
That's retarded.
We're not the same.
I have to give you an example that actually makes sense.
A woman cheating is not the same as a man cheating whatsoever.
Put yourself in a woman's shoes.
Put yourself in a woman's shoes.
Would you stay with that man?
You would stay with that man.
Abso-fucking-lutely.
If I was with an exceptional man...
If you know how it feels, to get your...
Feelings hurt.
That's the problem.
That's the problem.
You're going with your feelings versus being pragmatic.
We just showed y'all fucking numbers on the screen.
How rare that man is.
And you guys literally have the gall to sit there and tell her when she's 26 years old and she's been with the guy for a year.
No, go find another guy.
You know how long it's going to take her?
To find another guy that makes that kind of money, that's charming, that she's attracted to, et cetera, and fucking Miami, by the way, that will take her seriously and actually want to date her and not just want to fuck her.
Boom.
You really think it's gonna be that easy?
It is not.
It's not.
So I'm telling her, hey, You got the lotto ticket, okay?
Just because it has a crinkle on the side, don't throw away anything that you're gonna find a better lottery ticket.
You're fucking not.
You're in Miami, one of the most competitive cities for women in the country.
There's a new girl turning 18 every single day, and these men that have money want younger, hotter, tighter.
So if you got a guy that makes that money, these girls don't know what the fuck they're talking about.
That's why they're single in her 30s.
I'm telling you, men that have money think differently.
You must keep him, not the other way around.
If you're with a broke, you make it 50k per year, 30k per year, cool.
He could go ahead and bow down to you and treat you like the queen and all this other bullshit, but you ain't going to be able to go on vacation.
So what the fuck do you want to do?
Do you want to be able to snowboard?
Right?
In Denver?
What do you want to do?
Well, guess what?
Then you better shut the fuck up if you see some text messages.
And that's the problem.
You ladies think that you're equal to your man, who quite frankly on paper is fucking better than you in every way, but you sit there, I'm going to leave if he's on me.
Okay, leave.
Go back out on fucking Bumble.
Meet the next guy that's gonna tell you a bunch of sweet nothings, have sex with you, and never take you seriously.
Go ahead.
Go to the club.
Meet a bunch of dudes that throw bottles around and have alcohol and have chains and say, oh, baby, I'll give you the dream.
Next thing you know, he fucking goes after you have sex with you.
He's gonna leave us for an 18-year-old, though.
When we're 40, he's gonna leave us for an 18-year-old, though.
It's true.
I don't want to be left for an 18-year-old.
Here's the thing about men.
Here's the thing about men.
If I'm with a girl, right?
If a guy's with a girl and she's loyal, even with me having sex with other girls and she stands by my side, she won't give me a headache, etc.
Men understand the value of that.
So they're going to stick by you.
Men are way more loyal than women are.
Really?
FYI. Yes.
So they're not going to leave me for an 18-year-old when I'm 40?
No.
No, they won't.
Thank God.
Okay.
I don't need the sarcasm.
I was hoping.
I don't need the fucking sarcasm.
I'm not trying to be sarcastic.
I asked a serious question.
She's understanding what's going on.
She's trying to be 20.
No, I'm not.
Because you told me that they want tighter, so I'm generally worried as a 20-something.
When I get old, is he not going to want me anymore?
This is a genuine question.
I mean, right now, people don't want you, so...
Oh, they do.
Maybe you don't, but they do.
Male loyalty...
Just be quiet, man.
Just be quiet.
Okay, sure, sir.
You're talking too much.
No problem, sir.
You're talking too much.
No problem, sir.
The difference between male loyalty and female loyalty is we show our loyalty differently, right?
So, like, if he goes and has sex with another girl, that doesn't necessarily mean he even cares.
No, because you're fucking interrupting.
Shut up.
I'm bad.
It just got crazy offensive.
I don't need your ad-libs, man.
Shut the fuck up when I'm talking, man.
Goddamn.
No, it's not.
No, but I gotta fucking put some goddamn...
No, before I did, you got offensive.
You're still yapping.
Shut up.
I am.
I'm talking to her.
I'm not talking to you, man.
That's fine.
You don't have to take the advice.
That's fine.
If you don't like it, whatever...
I'm not being disrespectful to you or any of your team.
Yes, you are.
Yes, you are.
Shut the fuck up when I'm talking.
Shut the fuck up.
This is my shit.
If I'm making a point...
Okay, I understand that, and I apologize.
Why are you still talking?
I'm apologizing.
Just be quiet.
Just be quiet, man.
Okay, cool.
Just be quiet, man.
Cool.
Man, shut the fuck up, man.
Go up, man, leave, man.
Yeah, get the fuck out of here, bro.
She's one of these, I need to get the last word, bitches.
Get the fuck out of here, bro.
These last word, bitches, man.
You can get the fuck out of here, get the last word outside, nigga.
Get the fuck out of here, bro.
Thank you, nigga.
Yeah, go struggle your singing career, man.
No problem.
Fucking format fucking the beat here, bro, man.
We're on the same time, bro.
We're on the same time, bro.
Get the fuck out of here, bro.
Get the fuck out of here, bro.
You gotta get the last word of shit, man.
Get the fuck out of here, man.
Yo, walk up to the chair.
What?
What the fuck?
Wait, it's what?
You know what, y'all.
Can someone spray, please, bro?
Bro, you don't understand what I went through just now, bro.
Wow, no way.
Holy.
Oh, my God, the chair going crazy?
You know what?
I know what it is, but...
I think Moe may like it.
Moe loves that.
Wait, what?
No, never mind.
Wait, hold on.
Wait.
Hold on.
Probably.
Wait.
What?
No, we know.
Wait, hold on.
Wait, Moe, wait.
Anyway, let's get it.
We can bring the shit.
No, I'm just gonna hurry up.
No, Jesus Christ.
Bruh, what the fuck?
No.
It's the time of the month.
Is that time of the month, baby?
Does she gotta get kicked out?
Oh, no.
Yeah.
Alright, alright.
Hey, that's some dicks, man.
Alright, man.
She's, whatever.
Alright, let's re-chats, man.
You wanna make that swear, dick?
We gotta put the chats here.
Um...
And it's time.
Kuma-san says the Russian has been in the States for too long, bro.
Yeah, she's changed a lot, man.
I don't think so.
Dominican Kono.
Oh, that's a nice one.
I like that.
I think she'll like that one though.
The Witcher is cool.
How chicks look when they shade the size of their heads.
Hey, I like that.
That's okay.
I have Alakee-Shaw, but thank you.
Mother, you're a puta.
Is that Lizzo?
Send me that screenshot of me.
Send that screenshot.
Is that trolls?
I just want to finish my point real quick.
I just want to finish my point real quick.
This chick, before she left, she mentioned something about loyalty or whatever, right?
And I just want to stress to the women, right?
The way men and women show loyalty is very differently.
I know some of you guys are like, I will never accept cheating, blah, blah, blah.
I would argue that a man's loyalty is, is he willing to fight for you?
If you're getting your purse robbed, if the house is getting broken into, is he willing to step in between and put his life on the line to protect you?
That's how men show loyalty.
Women on the other hand, you guys show loyalty by not fucking other people.
We show loyalty very differently because I could go have sex with another girl, right, and love my girl the same.
And I won't die for that whore I just smashed, but I'll die to protect my woman.
So what I'm asking you is this.
If you're a guy, right, that makes this money and you catch him cheating, I'm not saying he's cheating, but I'm saying that there might be a chance one day he'll get bored and want to have sex with another girl.
What I'm telling you is if you do find some text messages from some other girl or whatever, ask yourself, damn, okay, Would this guy fight to protect me?
If the answer is yeah, then do you really want to leave that situation?
I wouldn't just leave.
I would probably talk to him, right?
I wouldn't just leave, right?
I'm going to ask him, hey, what's going on?
And I also want to make sure that what you just said, hey, is this serious?
Am I still the first person for you?
Okay, so you ain't leaving.
Okay.
That's all I need to hear.
But I thought you made it more so pertaining to money because of how much he makes.
Yeah.
Well, that's a part of it.
I'm telling her not to leave because that's a component.
And he's in shape.
That's part of what I want.
And he's in shape.
Like, I don't think, like, bro, y'all don't understand how hard it is to find a guy that makes six figures a year that's single that doesn't have kids and isn't married.
They understand, man.
They're all single, man.
Yeah, it's like, bro, think about it.
Why is the majority of the women on the panel fucking single?
I'm not married.
I'm single by choice.
No, you're not.
No, I am.
You said you want a man.
No, I am single by choice, but I'm not ready to go back into another relationship.
I just got out of a 15-year marriage and then another relationship and another relationship.
The point I'm trying to make is that a majority of men, would it be fair to say that a majority of men are not attractive?
That's fair.
Right?
That's fair.
Okay.
Like, notice how I'm not getting all triggered by me saying that.
Like, if I make a general statement about women, like, not being interested in general, oh, that's so fucked up.
But when I say something like, would you agree that most men are not attractive?
You guys say no, and I'm like, yeah, I agree with you.
Most guys are fat losers that are broke and can't even talk or be charming or charismatic.
I'm not offended at all.
I know most guys are losers, but I live an objective reality.
So I'm telling you, if most men are losers and only a minority of men are attractive, But men find most women attractive.
That means if you find a man that's attractive, he's rare.
But you're not.
So you should be smart and stay with that man and do everything you can to stay with that man and not fuck it up.
And think that you're special and you can replace him.
Because all that's going to happen is you're just going to end up being a fucking slut on Tinder and Bumble and riding around the cock carousel.
And it's going to be very difficult for you to find another guy.
And as you get older and older, your chances of finding your guy drop down.
You ladies do realize, after 30, if you're not married, the chances of you getting married are slim to none, right?
It's gone, bro.
If you don't want to get married.
Pretty much gone.
I want to get married.
I want to get married again.
Alright, well, you've been married.
I'm talking about girls that have never been married.
If you've never been married before and you're in your 30s, the chances of you getting married, statistically speaking, are very low.
Yep.
Very low.
They are.
Zero.
So, hey, man.
Sorry, Miss Russia.
But, hey, man.
I'm just telling y'all what it is.
So, like, you got something good.
Don't fuck it up.
And don't listen to these single girls trying to tell you, leave.
Hell no.
Don't leave.
Mike Davis?
Don't fucking leave.
Okay.
Why the fuck are we even reading this nigga shit, man?
Oh, this is the real Mike Davis.
This is a different one.
He says, Oh, so this is the real Mike Davis.
I think he's trying to say that the other one from the last show was not him.
Oh shit.
It's not the one we know or the one we're talking about.
Damn, Mike Davis.
So that's a...
The one from the day show was a completely different...
So this is the dude that really owns the Burger Kings.
Yeah.
Yeah.
I mean, $100 donation.
So the other nigga know?
No.
Only $100?
Oh shit.
What the fuck?
We gotta confirm.
Yeah, we gotta confirm.
We gotta confirm.
Really?
Edgar, thoughts on Ryan Garcia spending $1.5 million on a ring for his new girl.
She brings no value to him.
Johnny Billions, how much for a studio session?
D&D, a slap, look me up on all platforms.
$150 an hour minimum.
I don't know who this girl is, but if it's the girl that he was hugging up on, bro, I hope not.
She's unappreciative.
Jalen?
I don't know who it is.
Some girl that he was hugging up on, on pictures.
She didn't look interested.
Stinky the magic poo.
They said 50-50 in a relationship.
Let me get some clarity and I'm alerted to bullshit.
Yeah, bro.
That shit's a lie, man.
None of y'all want 50-50, man.
That shit's a cap, man.
Can't have an honest conversation with these women.
They're disingenuous at best.
Oh, jeez.
I think the only person...
Not all of us.
What?
Thank you.
Not all of us.
I'll say this.
The only person I think has been disingenuous is Ms.
Russia.
No offense, Ms.
Russia.
But you've been lying a lot, man.
You've been lying.
I get it.
You don't want to come off as mean.
That's not true.
I'm not mean.
I know you're not mean.
That's precisely why you've been lying.
That's what I'm trying to say.
You're not mean, so you've been trying to be nice.
She upset about you saying women not being interested, but tell her to look to the third girl to her right.
Ain't a damn word, but she's cute, so there.
Who?
Gay?
He said girl to the third of her.
I'm an IR radiologist in the Tampa area.
If I call my girl talking about how easily she could replace me on a podcast like Prue over there, she would need to get working on that tonight.
Hey man, hopefully he didn't watch the show.
Ladies, are you, yeah, and he's a lawyer.
Come on, man, you can't find another.
This girl's gonna be delusional, bro.
See, we had to give her a fucking pep talk to let her know how hard it is to find her.
We had to show her stats, and she still had the nerve to say, I can find another one.
No, you can't, bro.
She's 26.
That's Newport, Barb.
I think she got time.
I'll leave.
Bro, I know.
You 31 and single, man.
Bro, who the fuck is going to snowboard in Miami?
Come on, man.
Who the fuck?
Who's going to snowboard in Peru?
I said it before.
I'll say it again, man.
Like, yo, single women perpetually keep other women single, man.
Like, y'all just give each other terrible advice.
The blind leading the blind.
You got two fucking multimillionaires telling y'all how to get one.
And you guys are over here arguing with us.
Shut the fuck up.
We're telling y'all what it really is.
Like, I'm giving y'all the game.
We're both successful.
We both make money.
All my friends that make money, we all think the same.
We want a girl that's just not going to be a pain in the ass.
Follow our lead.
If we fuck a bitch from time to time, don't give me a fucking headache about it.
And you guys, is she trying to argue?
Nah, girl, don't do it.
Man, who you gonna listen to?
You gonna listen to her?
You gonna listen to Multimillioners?
Boom.
You gotta listen to the reason, you know?
Like, I need to know.
The West is doomed, man.
I'm trying to help you out, and you over here trying, like, I'm telling you.
He's a lawyer.
He's successful.
Don't fuck it up, man.
Don't fuck it up, man.
Don't fuck it up.
You got something good, man.
Make it last.
Have a family with him.
Get married.
Yeah.
Jason Todd.
Ladies, are you aware that a female midget has more sexual value than the average man?
The same goes for obese women as well.
God damn.
He's lying though.
Yeah, you see a lot of big girls with...
That'd be fucking, man.
They dudes, man.
Ladies, pro-abortion or poor life?
Oh shit, nigga.
99% of women are pro-choice.
Very few women are pro-life.
And even the women that are pro-life still think that women should have pro-choice.
- Mm-hmm, yeah.
That's in the situation.
- It's in your body.
- Yeah. - And that's, again, that comes into that egalitarian mindset that we talked about.
What else do we got here?
He goes, a lot of black people cap on the Native American part.
He's talking about that chick from Connecticut.
Their parents or grandparents tell them that, but a DNA test will most likely just say otherwise.
No, not if you look at...
I mean, I have a picture of my great-great-great-grandmother and my great-great-great-aunt, and they definitely are not 100% black.
Like, at all.
They're not 100% black?
No.
They have indigenous, like you can see.
Indigenous what?
Like, blood in those.
Indigenous Native Americans?
Yes, like the way their facial structure is, the way their hair is, like everything.
Like, I mean, you don't need, I don't need a DNA test.
Yeah, but one of them fucked a slave, bro.
Come on, man.
I mean, of course.
Duh.
Everybody's been colonized.
We're all mutts, if you want to put it that way.
Okay.
Ben Bake, do y'all know if Rumble will ever make it on the PlayStation Store?
Hell no.
I don't know, man.
Who knows?
Hell no.
I don't know, bro.
Why are you looking at the PlayStation Store?
PlayStation's for niggas, man.
Come on, man.
Fiscal year 14, the people, every league committee is different, but normally you have no to place first or top three in several shows to qualify for a pro show.
Then place first in the pro show to get your pro card.
I mean, you got a pro card though, right?
When did you get your pro card, Russia?
It was 2013.
That's a pretty long time ago.
Goddamn.
Google.
Damn, you old nigga.
Goddamn.
Rated from Fresh to Fit.
Reservation Slave 3.
Illegal 5.
Single Grandmom 2.
Unmarriageable 5.
Future Stripper 3.
Transformer 5.
Yacht Reject 1.
Where's it starting from?
From Fresh to Fresh.
Am I a future stripper?
Oh, I'm a single grandma.
I think I'm a single grandma.
Okay, so you're a single grandmom.
You're a marriageable.
I'm a future stripper.
You're a transformer.
Wait, what?
Yeah.
They called it the future stripper.
Which, oh, by the way, I'll tell you this, like, you gotta, don't ever get into OnlyFans or dancing.
It will fuck your life up.
I think you already know that.
But I'm gonna give you just another confirmation.
Type shit.
Like, yo, if a dude ever finds out that you were a dancer or you did OnlyFans, you know what they'll do?
They'll be like, oh, really?
That's dope.
But in the back of their mind, never wipe this bitch up, ever.
I got you.
So, whatever you do, I keep it a thousand with you.
Even being an atmosphere model is kind of shaky.
A lot of guys aren't going to like that.
But I'll tell you this, the clear line where most men will never take you seriously is if you ever did OnlyFans, you were ever a dancer, you were ever a sugar baby, you ever did any type of escorting, niggas are just going to be, I'm good.
Never take you serious.
Just don't say it.
They'll find out.
Here's the thing.
You always find out.
The girl could play the game or whatever, but you always find out at some point.
Eventually.
Because girls that are involved in that type of work have certain habits.
And once you spend enough time with them...
That's why we tell guys all the time, vet a girl for a period of time.
Even you fucking haters talking shit about fresh...
Nigga vet a her!
That's why he found out what he found out.
He's like, bitch, get the fuck up out of here.
Now she's going crazy, all mad and shit like that.
But the point I'm trying to make is girls that have that type of past always reveal themselves.
Yep.
Chameleons.
They could hide it for a bit, but a couple months, couple weeks, etc.
You'll find out.
What kind of actions?
I'm sorry?
What kind of acts do they like?
It's just a bunch of behaviors.
For example, a lot of guy friends.
She's traveled a lot, been to different countries.
Tattoos.
That's a component.
Is that why I'm getting the sugar coming?
Ladies, ladies, ladies.
It's not one thing.
It's a combination of things.
There's always nuances, right?
Mouth piercing.
What was that?
Mouth piercing.
Mouth piercing.
No mouth piercings.
It's just a bunch of different things.
The type of men that she's dated in the past.
You know, has she been to certain places?
Has she had certain experiences?
She's been on private jets before, etc.
Like, all these things, like, you just gotta kinda...
You'll get to know.
You figure it out.
And then, like, are they bad with money, right?
That's a telltale sign that a girl's a stripper, or she used to strip, if she's really bad with money.
I'm sorry?
I'm sorry?
Really bad.
Strippers are some of the worst women with money.
Because here's the thing, they're always making their money in cash, and they always have this mindset like, I'll just go to the club and make it back.
You know what I mean?
So they're really bad with money.
But there's a bunch of different things.
Always having a crack phone, not responsible, doing drugs.
Alcohol abuse.
They're not responsible.
Alcohol abuse in the past, drug abuse, right?
The drug abuse is a big one.
Even if it's recreational drugs, they like to party a lot.
There's a bunch of different things.
If it's one thing, that doesn't necessarily mean it's no.
But even if, like I said before, multiple of these things together, but yeah.
But yeah, if you're a stripper, or you did OnlyFans, or you did porn, or you did Sugar Baby, any type of sex work, most men are never going to take you seriously.
They're just not.
They'll sell the dream, they'll lie maybe.
Also, they can't hold a job.
I know a chick that did all of that and she's a CFO of a company and her and her husband just got married last week.
She did escorting.
It's only one girl, man.
Relax.
I mean, she's French, she's Australian.
Bro, I ain't, man.
Yo.
It's like girls, like, women don't understand the concept of the exception doesn't make the rule.
The exception to the rule?
Yeah.
Oh, okay.
Just because your friend was able to find a dude doesn't mean that there's not thousands upon thousands upon thousands of sex workers that can't find men.
I know a lot of strippers and boyfriends.
Bruh!
I mean, I do!
And I'm the only one in single.
Have you done IQ tests before?
Nope.
No, I haven't actually.
Yo, we know.
You lack critical thinking skills, man.
I'm not even trying to be an asshole, but...
How do I lack critical thinking skills when I'm thinking critically?
No, you're not.
When I'm seeing the stats right in front, where it's strippers that I know personally.
From your own personal view?
Yeah, from my own personal view.
That's what I'm speaking of.
It's your personal opinion.
Exactly.
I'm giving you guys my personal opinion.
I'm not giving you guys the stats of the world.
The world is bigger than your opinion.
I'm not giving you guys the stats of the world.
Then wait, tell us!
I'm giving you my perspective, my experience, the people that I know.
Let me ask you a question.
You don't have to state that every time I speak?
Okay, let me ask you a question, right?
So, okay.
I do well for myself financially, et cetera, right?
So, how about this?
What if I said, someone told me, oh, yo, people are starving and world hunger.
People are not eating in Gaza and world hunger is a problem.
What if I said, well, all my friends eat food.
You know?
Are you healthy, man?
Bro, we were just at Kumano yesterday.
I mean, but that's your perspective.
That's what's happening in your life.
Okay, you gave me the stats of the world, but you're giving me...
No, hold on.
If you told me world hunger exists, and then I responded to you and said, Understandable.
All my friends eat.
We go to kimono yesterday.
What you should properly respond to that is you're a fucking retard.
Because world hunger does exist.
Just because it doesn't happen in your world purview doesn't necessarily mean it's not true.
I'm not saying that it's not true, though.
That's the thing.
That's your assumption.
You're a stupid ass fuck man.
I don't lie to you bro.
No, I'm not.
No, no.
Because I'm telling you, like I said, I'm telling you guys.
No, I'm telling you guys from my perspective.
I'm telling you guys from my perspective.
But he's saying that to reality, right?
Okay, he's saying in general, but I'm saying from my experience.
So, like I said.
- Three hours later, nobody cares.
All right, we can move on.
- Bro, bro.
- God damn it.
- You are so rude.
- No, it's not about that.
- Nigga, you're rude. - It's like, if someone says an objective fact, and then you respond with an exception to the rule, that's just a low IQ behavior.
How is that low IQ behavior?
I just gave you the example.
I'm telling you, I know the exception to the rule.
It's okay.
Why even mention it?
Because it's possible.
That's the whole thing.
It's a possibility.
You can generalize people, but there's still other possibilities out there.
Just because something is possible doesn't mean it's probable.
Nobody said it was probable.
I just said it was possible.
But who cares if it's possible?
If it's a minority.
An extreme minority.
If you're giving people this information and not giving them a possibility outside of just what you're stating...
He's giving general facts.
How do they know?
It's general.
This is the difference between men and women.
I gave her objectionable advice, objective advice, telling her, don't get into this because there's an extremely high likelihood that it's going to sever and destroy your ability to build a partnership or a relationship with a man where it take you seriously.
Which is amazing.
Right?
You should.
I gave her an objective truth in general.
Then you respond and give a possibility of, I know a girl that was a stripper and a sugar baby and she found a man.
Yeah, but she was all the opposite thing.
She got into the same things that you were talking about, but like I said, she's a CFO of a company, bro.
Why would you feel the need?
It's a possibility.
Why would you feel the need?
I think that's interesting.
To give a perspective that's destructive It's not destructive.
Like I said, it's a possibility.
You said it's not a probability, but I'm saying it's a possibility.
So if you want to get into sex working and do whatever floats your boat...
You are giving dumb ass advice.
Please don't breathe.
How am I giving dumb ass advice?
You can do whatever your heart desires.
You can do whatever the fuck you want.
Somebody will be out there for you.
Yeah, you got fucking crackheads on the street making out.
We're cracking up with each other.
Where's your man?
Where's your man?
I choose not to have one.
Because I don't like...
Just like she said, she need a break.
I need a break.
Can I get a snack?
We're hungry.
No, no, no.
We're finishing up here.
Oh my god, bro.
I'm not giving you advice to go do that.
Don't do that.
I'm not giving anybody any advice.
I'm giving y'all possibilities.
I'm giving y'all possibilities.
This is why, yo, see not why I say men need to be leaders?
You guys can be leaders.
You see why men need to be leaders and we need to tell women what it really is and like, yo, don't do this, don't do that because you, I don't know if you noticed this, you've given destructive advice at every turn of when I've said something.
I'm not giving any advice.
You can find another guy.
Yo, it's possible.
I know a girl that was a stripper.
She found a man.
It's possible, Mara.
It is possible.
It's possible.
These are things that are possible.
That's it.
I'm not giving any advice.
I'm just saying.
No.
Hold on, hold on, hold on.
It is advice, and I'll tell you why.
Okay.
Because I told her a perspective.
Hey, do this because X, Y, Z. And I agree.
No, you didn't.
Well, I'm telling you I agree.
And then, instead of saying, you know what?
You're fucking right.
You say...
That's what you want to hear, Myron?
It's possible that you could find another guy.
That's what you want to hear.
Because shut the fuck up when I'm talking, man.
I don't need your ad-libs either.
Why?
Why is that?
Because, bro, you got to call out stupidity sometimes.
And then you say, well, she's 26.
You can find a provider.
I got two guys that want to pay for me right now.
So you are actually indirectly giving advice because you're trying to refute what I say and take the validity away from it.
And then I tell her, don't get into sex work.
And you say, well, there's a girl I know.
I know a couple strippers that found a man.
So, even though you're saying it's not advice, guess what?
You're saying it directly to oppose the point I just made, which does come off as advice.
Sorry, all right.
I'm sorry.
Yo, get out.
Next time I will say I agree with you.
Get the fuck out, man.
You want y'all to right there, right?
No, because I'm telling him.
The moment you started to do that shit.
If he wants me.
The chat wants you gone.
Get the fuck out.
I'm saying.
Get the fuck out, man.
I'm saying.
Just once in a chat, man, get the fuck out, man.
If you want to hear me telling you that you're a threat.
I don't care what you're saying.
Get the fuck out, man.
Get up, man.
It's a probability you'll leave right now.
That's why you leave, bro.
Popping like popcorn.
The moment you said that shit, bro, is when I lost all respect for what you're saying right now.
That's because, like he said, I mean, everybody's responding with emotion and not, like, listening and being realistic.
He's giving her advice, so just listen to me.
Bro, is that true, bro?
She out here saying all the money and shit?
Like you just said.
Yeah.
Two multi-millionaires are giving us beautiful girl advice.
Shit, girl.
Let me take notes.
I wish somebody would have gave me that advice when I was her age.
Well, for the chat, I'm not going to be doing OnlyFans or stripping, so fuck y'all.
I'm like a stripper.
Fuck y'all.
We gonna see.
Just don't listen to that girl, man.
Don't do it, man.
She's a yacht reject, man.
I don't never buy it to a yacht, bro.
She's nobody, bro.
Nigga said yacht reject.
What the fuck?
Let's bring back a classic.
Let's get the ladies to name the three non-American countries.
Bro, we gotta close out the show, man.
Let's get the ladies' last thoughts.
We have three more tests.
Three more?
Oh.
Yeah, three more.
First, get your best bonus for Money Monday.
He's an OG. We need a show.
Also, check in.
The middle girl's rights smells like sardines.
Nigga.
Okay.
Ladies, why did your last relationship end and what did you do wrong?
I don't know if we got time for that one.
Ladies, if you make more money than your man, does that make you the leader in the relationship?
And if so, are you prepared to fight off home invaders?
We covered it earlier.
Yeah.
Bro, let me tell y'all, son.
You guys don't even need to...
If a girl makes more money than you, she's going to feel like she's a leader.
That's why I tell y'all you need to make more money than your girl every single time.
Okay.
So we're going to get last thoughts from the girls.
I will say this, man.
I don't know if you noticed, bro.
There was a stench earlier that's gone.
Was it fucking Horror Effect Girl?
Yes, bro.
Okay.
She mentioned blood.
I said I smell blood.
Oh, you did say that earlier.
I remember now.
But blood doesn't smell, bro.
It does.
It does.
I thought it was her wig.
No, no, no.
Because I was next to her.
Was it the hair?
Yeah.
It was the hair, see?
No, no, but it was two smells.
Nah, she's trying to save her.
She's trying to save her, bro.
It was two smells.
It was the pennies and it was the wicks.
You're pretty good with the smells, man.
Nah, she don't hang my black girls at all.
Damn.
I feel sorry for y'all because I can smell it from over here.
I was like, what the fuck is that smell?
I mean, the big ass nose.
Nigga, you should see me face the whole show.
I'm like, goddamn.
My big ass nose?
Hey, man, it's that Arab nose, man.
I know, man.
But thoughts on the show.
Hate it, love it.
Hold the show for you.
No.
Oh, I loved it.
You guys have really good insight from a man's perspective that I really hadn't received.
And, you know, like...
All right, you're going to leave now?
I mean, we'll talk about it.
At least talk about it.
40, man.
Keep what you can, man.
Keep what you can, man.
It's tough out here.
I'm telling you.
What about you?
What about me?
How was the show for you?
She checked out once.
She figured out her man is less than 1%.
She was like, she was just thinking about that the whole time.
No, no, no.
Most of the time I was covered by these girls, so I was just kind of like a losing connection to the show, so yeah, that's maybe the reason.
But I like the show, it was very interesting to listen to the girls and sometimes it was too much, sometimes I think girls were too opinionated, but I mean, that's the show and we are here to talk, so...
See, in Russia, they don't have opinions.
They just follow the man.
She gets it.
But at the same time, I was like, oh my gosh, guys, how you have so much energy just to fight nonstop.
I was like, pfft, I was done.
I'm single.
I want to talk.
I want to fight with a woman all the time.
I got a response to everything.
So I only do it on camera, man.
I don't fight with y'all in real life.
I don't fight with my girl ever, man.
All right, what about you?
It was interesting.
It was fun.
I did more listening.
Not too much talking.
I liked hearing the opinions.
I liked hearing the opinions.
Or whatever you want to call it.
Facts opinions.
So that was cool.
Shout out to Detox for getting me on here.
I appreciate you.
Shout out to Detox.
And what I'll say for you, because you're 19 and you're young.
Obviously, try to transition out of the modeling sooner than you can.
Because trust me, it'll help you when you meet men and everything else like that.
If you meet a guy modeling, that's one thing.
But...
Try to get out of it as soon as you can so that you can find a man.
Modeling is the gateway to OnlyFans, stripping, and escorting.
I see that out here.
Welcome to the Miami.
And I'm telling you this because you just came out here.
Girls are going to tell you, girl, you can make some fast money.
Just do one thing.
Just sell some feed pictures.
It starts with feed pictures.
It starts with going to the club one time.
And there's going to be photographers hitting you up saying, yo, come work with me.
It happens already.
So make the photos and let me fucking know you're OnlyFans.
So stay strong.
Keep doing what you're doing.
Don't fucking do it, man.
Don't worry.
You too.
What?
She's still here?
She's still here?
Yeah, she's been checked out.
I've been listening.
I've been listening to everything.
Hey, what's the last thing we talked about, man?
We've been talking about how that...
Oh, the pennies that she's had.
TikTok, TikTok mindset.
Okay.
Yeah, what's your thoughts on the show that you can remember?
I thought it was cool.
I've just been listening the whole time because, you know, I... Nope.
What's the biggest takeaway you learned?
Well, I mean, like, if a guy cheats on me, I would stay as long as he's making money and taking care of me.
But if you're broke, well, I wouldn't even be with you, but if you're broke and you cheat on me, then that's not it.
I keep it a thousand.
I think that's the best mindset to have for women that want successful men.
You want a man that makes money and is good-looking and tall?
He won't have other women.
Accept that.
Or you can get a guy that makes 30K per year, isn't the most attractive, and he'll be loyal.
I promise you, he'll be fucking loyal.
Is it possible to find a guy that's six foot five and good looking and devout Christian and religious and gonna be monogamous?
Of course, of course.
But what's the chance of you finding him, bro?
Especially in Miami?
It ain't happening.
You ain't finding him.
Alright.
What about you?
What about you?
You're very...
You're very wise.
You're very wise, very base.
I respect that you understood what the fuck we were talking about.
I appreciate that.
Thank you.
You've been through a lot, huh?
Yeah, auntie.
I've been...
Alright, exactly, auntie.
I've been through a lot.
You're a cool auntie, though, man.
I've been through a lot of my life, but this show, I like it.
You said you were married for 15 years.
Mm-hmm.
Yeah, and I did.
I went through the cheating shit.
I went through all of that bullshit.
Yeah, so, I mean, it is what it is, but...
A lot of the wisdom that you were given, was it from being married for so long?
All of it.
From being married for so long, just dating.
I mean, I did the whole thing when I was, before my first son, I was a bottle girl.
I did all that bullshit in Vegas.
Let me ask you, have you noticed that it's significantly harder to find, I guess, quality men as times have progressed versus when you've met your husband?
Actually, it's better now.
Is better?
It is.
Okay.
Because it's a lot better because there are a lot of older men that are more settled and it is quality.
Would you say that the internet has made it where it's easier to find them?
Yes, absolutely.
That's why I like online dating.
It has made it very easy for me to say, okay, all right.
Question for you then.
When did you get divorced with your ex-husband?
What year?
No, no, I'm not asking like, I wanted to ask another question.
I just wanted the year.
You don't got to go into details.
Yeah, no.
2018 we separated.
2018, okay.
Yep, so 2018.
So let me ask you this one question.
Would it be fair to say that you separating with him in 2018, a part of you separating from him was the advent of social media, dating apps, online dating, the fact that it was easier to find men?
So you thought that you could maybe do better?
No, no, no, no, no, no.
We separated because I grew up.
He didn't want me to grow.
He met me at 19.
Okay.
He's 17 years older than me, 18 years older than me.
Okay.
So I've always dated older men because of the stability I wanted.
But you initiated the divorce, right?
I did, yeah.
Did you think you could do better?
Is that part of it?
No, I mean, I knew that I can find somebody, but I wasn't thinking about that.
I was just trying to get out.
Because when you grow up, when you're 20, and you go through all the changes in a marriage, nobody tells you how hard a marriage is and how much you have to really take.
I mean, the cheating, the conversation, the inferior, superior...
It's a lot of bullshit that comes within a marriage, and when you're in your 20s trying to have a marriage, you don't know what the hell you're doing.
So when you get in your 30s and you realize life is a little different, you become a little more mature.
Was he like a successful guy, good-looking guy, that type of shit?
Absolutely.
So you tolerated it, you were okay with it in the beginning, or you just got tired of it?
I shut the fuck up in the beginning because I was being taken care of.
Okay.
So when I got my bag up, I realized, okay, all right, I'm good.
All right.
Interesting.
Yeah, I'm good now.
What about you?
That's what I tell you, ladies.
Get your bag.
All right, pergamy.
Yeah.
It's not a script, I think.
Well, I've always been like a guy's girl, so I heard these kind of opinions before.
And I do agree.
You know, like you guys see different, the things different than we see it.
And it's also true that we have more advantage being girls.
You know, you can see it a lot in Miami.
We don't pay dinners, we go out for free, we get into jobs, just smiling, you know?
She knows!
And guys have to pay a lot.
Yeah.
But keep in mind, it's easier for you to have access, but it's harder for you to get a guy to take you seriously.
That's right.
That's why I told you, what you have is very good.
Eight months, successful guy, lawyer, not a drug dealer, not a criminal.
He goes to the gym like, You really did well, so don't fuck it up, man.
Don't listen to these women that tell you you can do better, like that dumb bitch earlier.
She's single.
That should tell you everything you need to know.
She's 31, hasn't had a guy.
I gotta go 100%.
You want to end up miserable like her?
I just want to be spoiled.
I agree with what you said earlier, though.
Earlier you said we give each other the worst advice.
I 100% agree.
I've been seeing that a lot.
I'm telling you don't be a sex worker.
She has the nerve to tell you, well, I know a bitch that got married and I know a bitch.
She has DFO now.
I know one, girl.
We tend to take advice from our friends that are doing worse than us, too, which is something that...
She's single, man.
Never do it, man.
Never take advice from your friends.
Fuck no.
And I'm talking about giving y'all some real big bro male advice.
This is how men look at the world.
Don't do that shit, man.
Don't do sex work.
Don't fucking leave your guy over another bitch that's fucking stupid.
Talk with him.
Are you talking to another?
Okay, fine.
Do you love me?
Yes.
Okay.
Am I the main one?
Yes, then shut up and be happy, man.
He's fucking another bitch, he nuts on and then he comes back to you.
How often is this gonna happen?
Should I ask that?
Who knows?
You know what, Hitler, I have more respect for you.
You know what?
I don't care.
I love you.
Just please don't bring me back diseases.
He will never leave you.
And he might change his way of thinking.
I'm giving you advice.
Look, man.
I'll tell you right now.
I'm in an open relationship right now.
Every time I fuck a new bitch, it makes me appreciate my girl even more.
I love open relationships.
Makes me appreciate my girl even more.
It's open for me only, by the way.
Clothes on her own, of course.
But it makes me...
I'm telling y'all, this is how it matters.
I was in an open relationship.
But he wants to be open.
But he doesn't want me to be open.
I can never understand why.
So you're in a relationship.
Why can't I be open?
I have a very...
I have a very pretty...
Attractive, quiet, submissive girlfriend that is an asset to my life.
So, you know, yeah, I mean, men look at it like, when girls stand by you through thick and thin and shit like that, you're like, okay.
You know what I mean?
It makes you appreciate her even more.
It's like, I'll hook up another girl, and then I'll go back to her, and I'll be like, damn, man, I miss you even more now.
I appreciate you even more.
And I know you guys might be like, what the fuck?
But that's really how men think because for us, right?
We can have sex with girls detached, right?
But when you actually care about a girl, it makes you appreciate it more because I'm like, goddamn, these girls are annoying or goddamn, these girls are stupid.
So it really makes you appreciate your main girl more.
And if she doesn't give you a headache about it, damn.
Because most girls will.
W and G. I'm giving you some gaming to keep your man, bro.
Really.
Especially high-earning men.
High-earning men.
I'm telling you, man.
You got something good.
Don't fuck it up.
I really don't want you to fuck it up.
Because if I didn't give a shit, I'd be like, whatever, bro.
Go back out to the streets and think you'll get somebody else with your snowboarding.
Like, nah.
Yo, fuck you, bro.
And that's becoming more and more common in my age group.
My age group, open relationships are more and more common.
And I'm down for it.
I don't, yeah.
You see that?
But I would never let my girl be open.
That's what I'm trying to figure out.
- Oh, you mean bisexual?
- No, open period.
- Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, no, no, no. - Open relationships are like way common now.
- No, no, no, no, no. - Why don't you men want us to be open?
Why you wanna be open?
I can't.
- Because men and women are different.
- But I wanna be open too.
You have your fun, I wanna have my fun, and we come come together.
- What I've found with most women.
- Tell me, shh, I wanna hear this.
- What the fuck, man?
What I found with most girls is if they're with a man that they truly like and they truly love in my own respect, they don't want to have sex with other dudes.
They just don't.
That's true.
The only time I've ever found it where a girl wants Sexual relations with another man is it means that her man that she's with is severely lacking in something.
He's either not physically attractive enough.
He's either too much of a pushover.
Maybe he doesn't have money.
Maybe he's not successful.
Maybe he's not charismatic.
Maybe he's not charming.
Something is missing that's very big where she needs to get sexual...
Release from another man.
It's an emotional thing with us.
It's very emotional.
So that's why I would never have an open relationship with a woman because I know if she wants to be open, it's over.
She don't like me like that.
Which I don't want her if she don't like me like that.
As a main girl, at least.
Okay.
So that's how I look at it.
That's why I said a woman can't serve two masters.
So if she wants sexual release from another man, the man that she's with is fucking up somehow gargantually.
That's even a word.
I agree, but for me personally, because I can't speak about other women, for me personally, I know how to take the emotions out because I have that experience.
That's an acquired skill, though.
It is a very acquired skill.
Most women can't do that.
I want my main man.
That's my boo.
That's going to be my man.
But I might want another little pee-pee on the side.
I may even want a little baby hand.
I want to have my phone too.
That's a very acquired skill.
It's a very acquired skill.
Most women can't do it.
You know, they just can't.
But yeah, were you asking me something about a girl or something?
I thought you were asking something.
Oh no, I just asked if you were in a relationship.
Yeah, you answered.
But you answered already.
Yes, yes, yes, yes, yes.
Okay.
We'll see you guys on Friday.
Live event in Miami.
April 26th.
Tune into that.
And after the live event, it's going to be Yacht Party.
Yes.
Come to Yacht Party, niggas.
Wait, do we even have tickets anymore for that?
Might be sold out by now, bro.
Yo, $20, man.
Nah, nigga.
Fuck you.
Fuck you!
Fuck you!
Just smell it, man.
Nah, nigga.
Yeah, we good.
You don't want no penny?
Alright.
Oh, it's gone?
Sold out?
No, they want me to lick the seat.
Sorry.
They want me to do what for the seat?
Oh, is that what y'all were laughing about?
Yeah, nigga, that's just weird, bro.
Why they want you to lick the seat?
That's where the girl is sitting.
Let Moe do it, nigga.
What?
He likes blood.
I don't like blood.
You got some sickos, man.
Well, anyway, guys, we'll catch you on the next episode of Fresh and Fit.
It's going to be our Friday, actually, live show, so get your tickets now while you guys can.
Link is below.
Get them April 26th, man.
Doors open at 6 p.m.
Show's going to be at like 7 or 7.30, and then y'all party right after.