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March 8, 2024 - Fresh & Fit

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Candace Owens Leaves Girls SPEECHLESS After Saying THIS

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	Thank you.
	And we are live.
	What's up, guys?
	Welcome to the Pressure Podcast.
	After our edition, we're joined by Candace Owens and a bunch of lovely ladies.
	Let's get into it!
	Let's go!
	Look into it.
	Where are the carrots, bro?
	Get out.
	Put your shoes on outside.
	You don't got to put them on in here.
	What's up guys?
	Welcome to the Frustrated Podcast after our audition with Joey Candace Owens and some lovely ladies in the panel.
	We're just going to get right into it, man.
	Might as well.
	We might as well.
	Chris, you got a quick announcement and then we'll get right into it.
	Go ahead.
	Get his own!
	Next.
	Thank you, Chris.
	One of the best ones.
	Everybody in the chat, they're like, yeah, Chris ain't talking, let's go.
	Let's go.
	Alright, cool.
	So we'll go ahead and start introducing the ladies on the panel.
	We'll start right here on the couch.
	What is your name?
	What's up?
	It's your girl Kay Hollywood.
	Kay Hollywood.
	Is that your government name?
	Hey y'all!
	Is that my government name?
	No, it's not my government name.
	Okay.
	How old are you?
	I'm 24 years old.
	Where are you from?
	I'm from Fort Lauderdale, Florida, whoop, whoop, whoop, broad county in the house.
	Okay.
	What do you do for it?
	I'm an educator and I'm also a rapper.
	I'm sorry.
	Educate and I rap.
	When you say educator, like, are you a teacher?
	TMI. What?
	What?
	TMI. You're in my business.
	Why are you in my business like that?
	Well, I mean, that's the point of asking the question.
	No, I'm not a teacher.
	I'm an assistant.
	An assistant teacher?
	Not an assistant, yes.
	What, special ed?
	No, no, seriously, yes.
	No, seriously, yes.
	Special needs.
	The SE department, yes.
	Okay, so you're an assistant teacher in a special ed.
	Special needs.
	Yes.
	Oh, I was just guessing, man.
	No, I'm dead serious.
	I know.
	What do you rap about?
	I be rapping, I be trapping, I be working while they shit.
	I be rapping about working.
	So, Candace, this problem.
	What?
	Goddamn!
	Okay.
	Relationship status?
	I'm single.
	Okay.
	Makes sense.
	Cool.
	What about you?
	What about you?
	You know what?
	You know what?
	Just to be fair, you're right.
	You're a rapper.
	Give us a bar real quick to show your skills.
	All right.
	Mic check, mic check.
	One, two, one, two.
	We in the fresh, in the fitness, about to do what to do.
	We in this shit, and we vibing, and we riding in two.
	And I'm at my building with the bitches in two.
	Oh, we in the crew, and we vibing in this shit.
	Like, I'm in the building, and we vibing, and we riding, and we, hey, Candice, what's up?
	What's up?
	Candice, yes or no?
	She's amazing.
	Yes or no?
	I think it's great.
	I love the confidence.
	Right away she jumped into it, which means that she's looking for somebody to see her.
	Potentially you can take off.
	You never know when your moment is.
	I'm for real.
	I thought that was cool.
	Thank you, Candice.
	Valid.
	What's your name?
	Alexis.
	Welcome back.
	Thank you.
	All right.
	How old are you, Alexis?
	24.
	Where are you from?
	Broward County.
	Sunrise, Florida.
	Sunrise, okay.
	What do you do for work?
	Specialize in crimes against children.
	Remember?
	Oh, yes, yes, yes, yes.
	Okay.
	Okay.
	Not for...
	It's okay.
	Never mind.
	I'm just going to put...
	I know what it is.
	Okay.
	Highest education level completed?
	Bachelor's, but I'm doing my master's right now.
	Okay.
	In?
	Forensic psychology.
	Okay.
	Relationship status?
	Year and a half.
	Boyfriend, right?
	Taken.
	Yes, sir.
	Okay.
	Body count?
	Five.
	Damn!
	Okay, I'll write that down too.
	Thanks, Chris.
	Alright, what about you?
	What's your name?
	My name's Johnny.
	Hey, y'all!
	I'm sorry?
	My name's Johnny.
	Johnny?
	Yeah, or AJ for men who don't feel comfortable calling me that.
	Wait, Johnny with a J-O-H? J-O-N-N-I. Okay.
	Okay.
	Is that your government?
	No.
	Oh, okay.
	How old are you?
	27.
	Where are you from?
	I'm from Dallas, Texas.
	Okay.
	Do you live here now or are you just visiting?
	I live here now.
	Okay, what do you do for work?
	I rap.
	I'm in the hair industry.
	I'm in the real estate wholesale market.
	I do a lot, actually.
	So, hair, real estate, wholesale, and you wrap?
	Yeah, and storage units as well.
	You own storage units?
	I buy storage units on auction and I resell everything out of them.
	Okay, so you real estate, wholesale those.
	Okay.
	Highest education level completed?
	High school.
	Okay.
	And then, relationship status?
	I'm married.
	Married?
	Yeah.
	How long have you been married?
	Um, we got married, uh, about eight months ago.
	We've been together about three years.
	Awesome.
	Okay.
	That's good.
	All right.
	What does he do?
	He is, um, he does digital marketing online as well as, uh, wholesale real estate as well as the, um, the, um, I'm sorry, as well as the storage units is what I was trying to say.
	He's the one who's got me into, uh, storage units.
	Okay.
	And then real quick, what's your hands that you guys have completed?
	Um, some college.
	Okay.
	I'm like Kanye.
	Alright, what about you?
	Does he like your hair?
	Huh?
	Your, uh, husband.
	Um, actually, normally I wear black or, like, you know, more natural color hair, but, like, I'm on a podcast where there's millions of people and I need to, uh, sell my shit, so I'm wearing green hair.
	Makes sense.
	Stupid!
	Yeah.
	Alright, interesting.
	What about you?
	What's your name?
	I'm Summer.
	I'm 27.
	I'm an OnlyFans model and I fight for celebrity boxing.
	Okay, where are you originally from?
	I'm from Miami, Florida.
	Okay, and you said you do OF on a celebrity boxing?
	No, I do OnlyFans modeling that is managed and I'm also signed to celebrity boxing for this year's South Florida Showdown fight.
	Oh, wow.
	So you box other celebrities?
	Yes.
	Okay, and then you said you're OnlyFans model that's signed, or you sign people?
	Yes, I'm currently signed to Fans Launch.
	Shout out to Lex.
	Okay, so you're the creator then.
	You're the content creator.
	Sorry, just a question.
	What is celebrity boxing?
	So, celebrity boxing is whenever you're chosen to fight another celebrity, and I'm about to go on and fight one of Howard Stern's people, Tan Mom.
	Okay.
	I think I do know Tan Mom.
	Yes.
	Wow.
	Okay.
	Cool.
	And, Candace, if you've got a question or whatever, just jump in.
	Yeah, I just literally remember what it was, yeah.
	Okay.
	Highest education level completed?
	I'm about to start majoring in health science at Broward College.
	Okay, so you're pursuing your BA? Yes, sir.
	Are you, okay.
	Relationship status?
	I am booed up.
	Okay, how long y'all been together?
	For three months.
	I know you guys see these muscles.
	I said rolls.
	No!
	- No, you know like when you box when you roll?
	- Yeah, yeah.
	- You said you, okay wait, so you're in college now, right?
	But did you do, how many years have you done so far?
	I just started.
	You just, okay.
	What about you?
	Enola Blaze.
	I am 26 years old.
	Okay.
	Where are you from?
	Michigan.
	Okay.
	What do you do for work?
	I am a mom and...
	She belongs to the streets!
	Wait, you've been on before, right?
	Oh yeah, she's been on before.
	Wait, a mom and what?
	OnlyFans.
	Oh, okay.
	Those are two different jobs, okay.
	High's education level completed?
	High school.
	Okay.
	Relationship status?
	Single.
	Okay.
	Wait, where's the dad?
	He gone.
	Not in the picture.
	Is that fresh?
	Damn fresh?
	Is he black?
	Yeah.
	You know what they say when you go black?
	You become a single mom.
	You never heard that?
	No!
	Very sad.
	Oh, shit.
	Okay, anyway.
	You never go back.
	My bad.
	What's your name?
	Hey y'all!
	Say it one more time.
	Sabella Reese.
	Now we can hear you.
	Is that your government?
	Celery.
	I said Sabella.
	Sabella.
	Oh, Sabella.
	It's not my government, no.
	But I'm 29.
	I'm from Denver, Colorado.
	I'm a central dom and a financial dom.
	I'm a dancer and a licensed sexologist.
	Financial dom?
	What does that mean?
	What does that mean?
	I take people's money.
	Oh, okay.
	That's fantastic.
	Yo, next time I'm a robin' nigga, I'm a financial dom.
	Hey!
	As a bank robber, like, I'm a financial dom.
	Well, she just dominates the money.
	How did you come up with Sabella Reese?
	What's it?
	Is it like Sabella, first name, Reese, second name?
	To be completely honest...
	Sorry about that.
	To be completely honest, my ex came up with Sabella.
	But Reese, I'm in love with Della Reese from Harlem Nights.
	So I was just in love with her.
	To this day, I love her.
	So that's how I came up with the Reese part.
	And I'm chocolate, so it was kind of like if it.
	Chocolate girl.
	Wait, question.
	You said you're a dancer.
	In Miami, that could mean many different things.
	Are we talking like pop lock in a club, or are we talking about like a stripper?
	Yeah, I'm a b-girl.
	Yeah, I'm a b-girl.
	No, I'm just kidding.
	I'm a dancer.
	I'm a stripper.
	Okay.
	Yes.
	I went to the office.
	Yeah, I was about to say it.
	At where?
	The office, bro.
	Oh, shit.
	Hands up!
	I don't know what she means.
	She's dancing in, Robbie.
	I'm legally Robbie.
	I'm legally Robbie.
	Yo, Chris, it's a hood, ain't it?
	It's a hood.
	For the audience out there, that's the hoodest strip club in Miami.
	It is nuts.
	No way.
	What's in the office?
	It is nuts.
	No, what's in the office?
	Taboo.
	Booby trap.
	Hell no.
	No, hell no.
	Booby trap.
	Sexy lady cabaret.
	I mean, I work at the big clubs too, but the hooddest ones, honestly, G5 is not hood.
	G5 is not hood.
	Yeah, the office and G5 are the hooddest ones.
	Alright, anyway, highest education level completed?
	Um, some college, some college.
	Okay, so high school completed and then did you get your associates or no?
	No, yes.
	Oh, you did?
	Okay.
	Alright, relationship status?
	She don't even know.
	Situationship.
	Okay.
	Alright.
	Yes, situationship.
	Like, are you exclusive to him?
	Yes, kind of.
	Yeah, that's no.
	Nah, man.
	She belongs to the street.
	I can do it.
	No, you do, bro.
	Come on, man.
	Come on, man.
	I'm a good girl.
	No, I'm a good girl.
	I'm exclusive to him, yes.
	Shut up.
	What about you?
	I'm Candace, not Owens.
	I'm the OnlyFans, Candace.
	The OnlyFans, Candace.
	This one ain't not OnlyFans.
	What about that?
	How old are you?
	26.
	Do you spell with an A or an I? It's with a K, only one, and an I. Okay.
	Where are you from originally?
	I am from Texas, from Dallas.
	Okay.
	Is that your real name, by the way, Candace?
	Yes.
	Awesome.
	We don't meet a lot of Candaces.
	Yeah, I know.
	I'm always like, when I swim, I'm like, oh, wow, another Candace.
	Yeah.
	What do you do for work?
	OnlyFans.
	Okay.
	Highest education level completed?
	Some college.
	All right.
	And then relationship status?
	Single.
	Oh, yeah.
	Wait, wait, wait.
	Trust that.
	She was blackface, right?
	The girl?
	Come on, bro.
	Come on, bro.
	Yeah.
	I'm trying to avoid it.
	It's like a whole conversation.
	She would try to avoid that shit.
	Oh, yeah.
	What happened?
	She got kicked out of school for doing a blackface joke on Snapchat.
	On accident.
	I didn't know what blackface was, I promise.
	I didn't.
	I didn't.
	I really didn't.
	Don't worry.
	We ain't mad at you.
	Yeah, let's go.
	All right.
	What about you?
	My name is Sienna.
	I go by CC Trinity though.
	Okay.
	How old are you?
	I'm 18.
	Okay.
	Where are you from?
	I'm born and raised here in Miami.
	Okay.
	What do you do for?
	I do a paid internship at an immigration law firm.
	Okay.
	Well, high school, because you're probably only 18, right?
	Well, I actually finished some college.
	Okay.
	You took AP classes?
	Well, I'm actually a full-time college student, is what it's considered.
	Okay, so you're in college right now.
	Yes.
	Okay.
	What are you majoring in?
	I'm thinking about majoring in political science or in journalism.
	Okay.
	Relationship status?
	Single.
	Okay.
	Let me guess, you're a fan of Candace.
	I am.
	I couldn't tell.
	Is it hard to tell?
	I thought she was older than 18.
	Yeah, she was the oldest 18-year-old I've ever met.
	Maturity-wise.
	Maturity-wise.
	Thank you.
	Thank you.
	I saw the first comment earlier, but it's fine.
	Okay.
	What about you?
	Hi, my name is Deja, but you can call me Dej.
	I am, what's the next question?
	Where are you from?
	I'm 24.
	Where are you from?
	I am from Chicago, Illinois.
	Chicago?
	I've been out here.
	Did you guys wander on the wind?
	You checked on the wind?
	I moved to Miami.
	Oh, thanks all, bro.
	Okay, cool.
	I moved to Miami for school.
	I had a full scholarship, so I moved, left, never went back, but I do visit every four months.
	Okay, so you got your undergrad here?
	I did.
	From where?
	From Florida Memorial University.
	It's the only HBCU in South Florida.
	Okay, let's go!
	What do you do for work?
	I am a veterinary assistant.
	Okay.
	And I also model.
	So you have your BA, you said?
	Yes, I have my bachelor's and I'm also in school now to get my certification as a CVT. Okay.
	Relationship status?
	Taken.
	How long have y'all been together?
	Four years.
	Goddamn, you're in college?
	Good job.
	Yes, we did.
	Okay, good.
	What about you?
	Last one.
	So my name is Elena.
	Elena.
	Born and raised.
	Into the mic, please.
	Born and raised.
	Okay, how old are you?
	I'm 28.
	Where are you from?
	I'm born and raised in Bulgaria, but I came here from New York.
	Okay.
	Bulgaria?
	Okay.
	What do you do for work?
	I'm a manager in the biggest casino in Fordham.
	The biggest, sorry.
	Casino.
	Casino, okay.
	Okay.
	Here in Florida or?
	Yeah.
	Hard Rock Hotel or?
	Yes.
	Okay.
	All right.
	Highest education level completed?
	I'm finishing my double master's.
	Okay.
	What are you majoring in?
	Cyber security, homeland security, and counter-terrorism.
	Okay.
	You can't make this shit up, bro.
	Are you an American citizen?
	Not yet.
	She's a spy!
	Yeah, she's a spy!
	Get out of here!
	Get out of here!
	I thought it was Russia at first.
	Yeah, yeah, yeah.
	She's in Bulgaria.
	Mother Russia.
	You all got us full, bro.
	She's looking to marry.
	Yeah, she's studying that stuff.
	Come on, man.
	CIS, you know what to do, man.
	Don't give her this naturalization.
	Okay, relationship status.
	I think I'm single since in the past 24 hours my ex came and stole my car.
	So I think I'm single, very single.
	You stole your car?
	Very sorry to hear that.
	I was on a vacation for seven days and I came back and my car was missing.
	But does he pay for the car?
	Yeah.
	Then it's his car!
	That was a present for me.
	Wait, what car was it?
	A Mercedes.
	A G-Wagon?
	Oh no.
	What was it?
	Mercedes what?
	Jilly?
	A white car?
	She wants to defend the country, but she can't even defend her car.
	And I'm taking it back.
	Oh, lovely.
	Yeah, okay.
	Yeah, she thought this was Eastern Europe.
	It's like, he bought me the car.
	It's mine.
	I thought it was mine.
	It's a gift, but it's not yours.
	What's your boyfriend?
	Is he Russian, black, white?
	What is he?
	American.
	What was he?
	New Yorker.
	White?
	New Yorker.
	White guy?
	He's a white guy, yeah.
	Okay.
	I'm taking that call back.
	Good to fuck that.
	That's what he said.
	And our guest of honor.
	Yes.
	Candace Owens.
	Hello!
	Hello!
	Thank you.
	Glad to have you.
	So, Candice, do you have a question do you want to ask the girls or do you want me to kick it off?
	You can kick it off.
	Okay.
	And then chats, just so you guys know, we'll be reading 50 and up, but first I'll get into the first question for the girls just to kind of see where we're at.
	So ladies, we have three things here.
	Work slash education or career, a man, and fun.
	I want you to rank the three, from one to three, where you prioritize them in your life right now at this moment.
	Okay?
	So start right here with Ms.
	National Security.
	What was their car?
	I think man will be the first one.
	What is your number one priority, your second priority, and then your third?
	Man will be my first one.
	Okay.
	Second one will be fun, and third will be career.
	Okay.
	Spoken like a true Eastern European.
	What about you?
	My first one will be family.
	My second one is...
	It's man, fun, or career?
	Man, fun, or career?
	Yeah.
	What's number one for you?
	I would say man, and then career, and then fun.
	Okay.
	What about you?
	Me, I'm education and career, then fun, and then man.
	Okay.
	Bam!
	Okay, she's 18, so...
	Yeah.
	Makes sense.
	Career, fun, and then man last.
	Okay.
	Yes.
	All right.
	What about you?
	Probably man, career, fun.
	Okay.
	Career first, man.
	Come on.
	I'm just trying to survive.
	Okay.
	Okay.
	What about you?
	So for me it's career, just because I was raised and I depend on a man.
	Okay.
	Call queen.
	Call me no man.
	Then it would be man, then fun for me.
	Okay.
	Okay.
	What about you?
	Probably man, fun, then career.
	Okay.
	What about you?
	Same with me, man, fun, career.
	Okay.
	On paper.
	What about you?
	It's going to be man, career, and then fun.
	We can't have fun if we haven't established anything for the community or raise our children properly.
	Okay.
	What about you?
	Man, fun, and then career.
	Okay.
	For me, it's definitely going to be career, fun, and then man.
	Go queen.
	Independent.
	Okay.
	All right.
	So...
	For the women that said man first, what are you actively doing to either get or keep the man that you're currently with?
	We'll start here with Miss...
	Actually, you know what?
	We'll start here on the couch.
	Sorry.
	So, if you have a man...
	Well, in your case, you have a man.
	What are you actively doing to keep your man in your situation since you put man first?
	So, for me, my man is...
	He's starting a business.
	Well, I guess he's already started a business and he's working on getting clients.
	So, me, it's just...
	More making sure that I put him first while I do have my studies and stuff during the week.
	When I am with him, I always put him first, just make sure that he's good and pretty much just alleviate everything else, all the stress.
	So when he has to focus on work, he can focus on work.
	Okay.
	What about you with your guy?
	Because you said man first.
	Green.
	Yeah, green.
	Yeah.
	Well, I'm sorry.
	To be honest, I cook clean.
	I make sure he has a stable...
	Well, I make sure I'm emotionally stable enough to where when he comes home, you know what I mean?
	He understands.
	He can come talk to me.
	I'm not going to judge him.
	I'm ranting.
	I'm so sorry.
	Moral of the story is...
	Suck his dick.
	Yeah, I do that too.
	Yep, there you go.
	Do you rap for your man?
	Do I rap for my man?
	Yeah.
	He likes to hear me sing.
	You sing, too?
	Yes, I do.
	Oh, wow.
	Can we hear it?
	Yeah.
	Fresh, man.
	All right, never mind.
	Why are you always doing this?
	Never mind, never mind.
	Do you want to be Diddy so bad, man?
	At least he's getting in trouble.
	Oh, no!
	Slinger trying to make him stop making the band and shit, man.
	What the fuck, man?
	Slinger always having girls audition.
	I'll give her a chance, bro.
	Come on, man.
	It's okay if I just go ahead and...
	Okay, but what do you do for your man to keep him is what I'm asking.
	Yeah, that's what I was saying.
	I make sure I cook, I clean.
	I make sure he has a mentally stable person he could come home to, talk about his problems.
	You know what I mean?
	And I'm not here to judge him.
	I'm not sitting here.
	I make sure I'm stable as far as my emotions so that way he can come to me when he's not feeling that way.
	What were you doing for work when you met him?
	I was bartending, actually.
	I've been bartending for 10 years.
	In Dallas?
	Well, here, too, as well.
	Oh, you've been in Miami that long?
	Well, no, I moved to Miami December of 2022.
	Okay.
	All right.
	And I guess I'll ask this kind of as a blanket question for you ladies, because you four all said that you want a man, but all of you are involved in sex work.
	Did you guys ever think that being involved in that trade might hurt your ability to have a man and prioritize him?
	Yes.
	Definitely.
	Okay, I guess we could start with you and then go.
	I used to actually shoot professional porn, so it was very hard for me to do it with somebody.
	And then I finally do just OnlyFans now, and I work from home.
	But I do a lot of solo stuff, too.
	What was your porn name?
	Rain Summers.
	What the fuck is that?
	Oh, look me up.
	I got 15 mil between the sites online on Pornhub, so...
	Oh, shit.
	Did you get paid a lot as a porn star?
	I did, but I was also taken advantage of whenever I was very young because I shot porn whenever I was 18 to 20.
	And can I ask how much money you get paid for, like, one adult film?
	It depends on what you do and what you shoot.
	One regular boy-girl scene starts at $1,000.
	And what do you consider a lot?
	Because you said that you make a lot and you said yes.
	What would you consider a lot?
	Well, I have one guy that sent me over $400,000 in the past four years, and he lives in Ireland, so that's just online.
	Damn!
	But that's not from porn, that's just, that's from something else, right?
	Because I'm saying, how much do you make making the films?
	You mean like just a guy who liked you, then started sending you money on the side?
	Right, I also just make content on the side and just sell nudes.
	Okay, so you were doing two businesses then?
	Technically, yes.
	Okay, so one person sent you $400,000, a lot of money?
	Yes.
	Wow.
	But in terms of the porn, just making the videos, how much did you make?
	I would say not a lot.
	Not a lot.
	It's only because I had a porn star on my show and she said the same thing, so I was just wondering if it was a different experience.
	Right.
	Okay, sorry.
	No, you're good.
	Okay, so you said Amanda's priority number one.
	Was that always your priority or did that kind of shift recently?
	Well, I never really had family or anything, and then me and my boyfriend have recently just come together, and I only do OnlyFans from home, and we're working on doing it together.
	What did you say that your boyfriend did?
	I don't know if he asked that, actually.
	I didn't ask her.
	Go ahead.
	My boyfriend's actually in the National Guard.
	Okay.
	So you earn significantly more than he does?
	Yes.
	Okay.
	Interesting.
	Because he's probably, what, like an E7 or something?
	Well, it doesn't matter to me.
	Yeah.
	You've been dating for three months, you said, right?
	Yes.
	Great.
	All right.
	Okay.
	And he's okay with it?
	Yes, he actually just made an OnlyFans account as well.
	Damn.
	Oh my god.
	Wait, is he active duty?
	No more.
	He's active duty and he has an OnlyFans account?
	No.
	It's not good.
	He's not active, no.
	Okay, so what does he do now?
	He's reserved.
	He's reserved.
	Okay, got it.
	Does he have another job then?
	He's gonna get out.
	He's gonna get out.
	Okay, he's leaving anyway.
	I didn't know guys were on OnlyFans.
	We're just starting the account.
	To be real, that's not a good thing.
	We're just starting the account.
	It's nothing up yet, but we're working on doing this together.
	So that's gonna be like Adam22, right?
	Adam22 does that?
	Yeah, pretty much, yeah.
	Pretty much, exactly.
	I'll tell you this though.
	If that shit fails, he's doomed.
	I think he's doomed, bro.
	I'm so curious about that.
	So do you ever feel like he...
	How does that make you feel?
	Do you feel like that's supportive to you?
	He's my number one supporter.
	I don't know how I would feel if someone that I would want to protect me and not want men to look at me would be like, yes, no, do that and make money.
	I think I would feel, and obviously I'm saying feel, so everybody's emotions are different, but I would feel like that was my pimp and I was just like a hoe.
	You know what I mean?
	Well, I'm managed, so I am completely managed, and people actually message the other people back for me and do all that and take care of that.
	I have an entire 24-hour team.
	No, I'm not saying that you literally work for him.
	I'm just saying that that dynamic for me, like a man encouraging that and being like, yes, go out and put your body for other men to look at would make me feel like he didn't value me a little bit, I guess that's what I'm saying.
	Well, he does everything for me, so I'm not really worried about it.
	Yeah, I didn't ask if you were worried.
	I actually didn't say, are you worried about it?
	I was just expressing that, like, how does that dynamic, like, does that ever make you feel like he doesn't, you know?
	No, it's working.
	Okay.
	I would have to say, agree with Candice there, that most men would have a serious point of contention with their girl having videos of themselves on the internet, having sex with other men.
	Anytime I've ever seen, that's why I specifically asked, what does he do for work?
	And I knew that there was an earning disparity.
	Because anytime a guy allows a girl to do that, nine out of ten times, she makes way more than he does.
	And she's able to provide a certain lifestyle for him, so he's okay with it.
	But it's never, he out-earns me, he's more successful than me, he has some status.
	It's never that.
	It's always the girl earns more, and he just deals with it because he's able to get a certain lifestyle he'd never be able to do.
	And if he's National Guard Reserve, I already know he's making like three, four hundred bucks a month.
	Like, reserve.
	So, if that, depending on what state he's in.
	You know, it could be more.
	So, I don't want to say that you're a sugar mama, but just keeping it real with you.
	Yeah.
	And it's good to hear that feedback also, because you've only been with him for three months, so you don't know where it's going to end, you know?
	And just think about that, because I do think that psychologically for a man, for him to be okay with that, there has to be something else going on, because men do want...
	That sense of, like, this is mine, you know?
	This is just mine, and it's exclusive to me.
	I think most men, I don't want to speak for men.
	No, that's absolutely true.
	100%.
	And I'm sure he's a great guy on paper, but, uh...
	Are you guys an open relationship?
	No.
	Like, he can't see other women?
	No.
	Oh, yeah.
	That's for the money, nigga.
	That's gift or pay.
	Yeah.
	I'm just saying, bro.
	100% for the money, then.
	I'm just saying, bro.
	If it was open, then I'd be like, wait, okay, maybe something else here, but like, okay.
	Interesting.
	All right.
	Okay.
	And was it, and real quick, was it, you said that you got into the industry when you were 18.
	When you got into the industry at 18, did you, was a man of your party back then?
	Or did it shift once you became 27?
	No, it shifted once I became 27.
	Okay, fair enough.
	What about you?
	You said a man is number one.
	Was it always your priority, or did it become your priority recently?
	I think it's always been my priority, but never had good luck with men.
	Is it because you chose wrong, you think?
	Yeah, you chose wrong.
	I didn't choose wrong, like, when I was younger.
	I just let people have my body when I was younger, so then it just, like, led me down that road.
	Wait, you let them have your body?
	Yeah, like, fucking.
	Like, sex.
	Wait, you just let them have your body?
	Hey, you're mine.
	Fresh mom, man.
	She belongs to the streets.
	Cool.
	You mean like hookup culture?
	Right.
	Yeah, like hookup with a lot of guys.
	When Tinder first came out, I think I was like 16 years old, trying to find a boyfriend.
	On Tinder?
	Yeah.
	I grew up in a very small town in Michigan.
	What happened in high school?
	Like I said, I grew up in a very small town.
	Okay.
	And did you think, like, having sex with them would bring you a relationship sort of a thing?
	I just thought that's, like, what you did, like, if you wanted to be in a relationship with somebody.
	I don't think that's...
	When you're 16, your brain's not developed, and I think a lot of young women think that when they're young, and so I totally get that, especially with culture telling you all the time that it's like, do this, do this, and maybe he'll want you.
	When did you have a...
	How old were you when you had a child?
	I had her when I was 20.
	Okay, so quite young.
	Was that a long-term relationship leading up to it?
	I met him when I was a stripper.
	He met me at the strip club when I was just getting off drugs.
	I was looking for a way out.
	I was staying in a drug house and everything.
	What drug were you addicted to?
	Cocaine.
	So, and he was a pimp.
	I, like, found out after, like, he took me out to eat or whatever that he was a pimp.
	So, I stuck with him for a couple weeks, like, staying in a hotel.
	And then, like, I got put on probation.
	So, like, he was still the only person, like, paying for my phone bill and stuff like that.
	So, I just stuck with him.
	And then, like, later on he just told me, like, he loved me and he wanted me to be his girlfriend.
	So, I was just, like...
	Okay, and this was when I was 19.
	Yeah, so you were very young.
	Did you grow up with a dad in your house?
	My dad died when I was 11.
	Okay, that's very interesting.
	This is sad, by the way.
	Thanks for sharing that.
	Yeah, no, I mean, there's a very clear pipeline that happens, and I think it's actually really great that you're sharing it, because, you know, the worst thing is when people pretend this is, like, an amazing lifestyle, and it's like I had every option available to me.
	I don't condone, like, girls doing OnlyFans.
	Like, I do it, but, like, I just do it because it also allows me to be, like...
	A full-time, I am a single mom.
	No child support, no benefits, nothing like that.
	And it allowed me to stop prostituting, because obviously I was a prostitute.
	I'm really grateful that you shared that.
	I think it takes a lot to talk about that.
	No, no, for sure.
	This is why I like to come on shows and stuff to spread what I've been through and stuff like that.
	Spread legs.
	I guess, what would you tell your younger self now, knowing what you know now?
	Just wait to have sex.
	That's the main thing.
	Just wait, you know...
	Get my priorities straight.
	I didn't really know how to deal with grief or anything like that.
	Like, I started drinking when I was 11.
	Started smoking weed when I was 11.
	Like, right now I'm completely sober.
	This is the first time since 11 that I'm completely sober, so.
	Aw, that's so good for you.
	How long have you been sober?
	That's awesome.
	Three years.
	Yeah, that's great.
	Three years is a long time.
	No, it is a long time.
	That is, you have it.
	You definitely have it, so stick with that.
	Thanks.
	I think what happens sometimes is the psychology element there is like when you grow up without a dad in the home, you are missing that affection and it sometimes transfers in the wrong way where you just want a man to give you affection.
	Right.
	And so, I mean, it totally makes sense listening to how you grew up.
	I guess, given your background and the things that you've been through and stuff like that, are your standards for men super high now?
	Are they lower?
	I don't have super high standards.
	I don't care about how much he doesn't have to make a certain amount of money, how tall he is, blah, blah, blah, blah.
	Obviously, I want there to be mutual attraction, but he doesn't have to be the most handsome man on the planet or anything like that.
	So, yeah, my standards.
	I'm just looking for a respectable man.
	I know I have a lot of baggage.
	I'm going to ask a very difficult question.
	I'm just going to go there.
	Do you think you deserve a good man?
	Given the decisions that you've made in the past and the mistakes that you've made, do you think you deserve a good man?
	I didn't for a long time, but I think I still deserve a good man.
	People can change.
	Yeah, of course they can.
	Thank you for sharing, by the way.
	Thank you for sharing.
	How do you filter for sex, though?
	What did you say?
	How do you filter for sex nowadays?
	For a long time, I was really desensitized, to be honest.
	So I took almost a year of celibacy, and that helped a lot.
	Got it.
	Okay.
	Alright.
	What about you?
	You also put...
	No, you put career first.
	Yeah, I put career first.
	Why a career over a man for you?
	Just because my experience with men hasn't been the best, and the way that I was raised, you don't depend on a man.
	Because at any time, I'm not comfortable with fully depending on a man.
	Anytime he can tell you to get out of his house, he can tell you anything.
	So I always want to make sure that I have my own, regardless.
	That's first.
	Secondly, he will come first.
	Or he'll come second.
	Just because I don't care how much money you have.
	If I truly love you and all that, I don't care how much money you have.
	That doesn't matter to me.
	As far as my lifestyle goes, I tell my men everything up front.
	This is what I do.
	I'm a dom.
	I'm a dancer.
	I'm a sexologist.
	Can you tell me what a sexologist is?
	I was going to ask that.
	I'm very interested.
	Thank you.
	It's a burning question inside of me as I was sitting here.
	So basically, I will honestly say a sexologist is basically a therapist, to really break it down, because I have to study people, I have to read body language, but honestly, being a sexologist, so to speak, it's just people, just talking to people.
	I do lifestyle parties.
	Sorry, so...
	I'm a guy or a girl, and I call you when I need...
	Sex.
	Advice on sex?
	No.
	It could be advice.
	It could be a way of direction.
	A lot of people have sexual fantasies, for one.
	They have sexual things that they want to do with their partner, whether it's a girlfriend, whether it's a husband, whether it's a wife, whatever.
	But the main thing that people are afraid of is rejection.
	So I teach them how to be comfortable.
	But are you just talking to them, or is there touching involved?
	No, I just talk to them.
	You just talk to them.
	So people will call you just therapy to talk about sex?
	In person.
	In person is more relatable, more personal and everything like that.
	Does that happen in the club?
	No.
	Okay.
	No, not the club.
	So it's just a therapist that specializes in sex.
	In intimacy.
	I wouldn't even say sex because it's more than that.
	It's intimacy.
	It's seduction.
	It's bringing a spark in your marriage.
	So no hadjobs?
	Did you say you had a degree?
	Sorry.
	I'm a licensed sexologist.
	So basically, it's kind of like having a real estate license.
	Yeah, how do you get licensed?
	It's basically like becoming a real estate agent.
	Okay, you just get a license.
	I didn't know there was...
	I honestly had never heard of this.
	Yeah, it's basically a two-year course.
	You can go to anybody if you want.
	You can pay for the course and you just take the course.
	That's it.
	There's nothing super...
	Can I go to DeVry?
	No.
	But yeah, so that's basically what it is.
	I just enjoy having people feel comfortable with their sexuality, feeling comfortable with whatever turns them on.
	It's not just about sex, it's about how you feel.
	Did you grow up with your dad?
	No, I did not.
	Okay.
	No, I didn't.
	So you said some of that, I don't need a man transferred a little bit from your mom's situation.
	No, I don't think that.
	I actually do not think that.
	Well, you said you were raised.
	I was raised by my mother.
	By my mother, and she said, don't rely on a man.
	But I'm just saying that sometimes moms can transfer their trauma onto their children.
	I do agree.
	However, I feel like I'm very different because I feel like it's a flaw of mine.
	I can be very callous, you know?
	So for me, I don't look at daddy issues.
	I don't look at shit like that.
	Just because I was attracted to the erotic world has nothing to do with my daddy.
	You know what I'm saying?
	No, I'm not saying the erotic world.
	I just was curious about your perspective on men, like full stop.
	On men, honestly, I give everybody a chance until they prove me wrong.
	So, whether it's men, whether it's female, but strictly men, I will say I have not had the best experience with men.
	You know, I've only had one situation where I could say the man was incredible, and I ended it, but...
	Why'd you end it?
	Just because we had other issues.
	He had a lot of mommy issues, a lot of codependency issues that I just was not prepared to handle, you know?
	And I felt like if I wasn't in love with him anymore, I'm wasting your time, where you can meet somebody else that can give you that time, and I just wasn't ready.
	Um...
	Mommy issues?
	Do I have mommy issues?
	No, you have daddy issues.
	I don't have daddy issues.
	Oh, never mind.
	I don't.
	So, I guess, when you say codependency, et cetera, like, does that mean, like, he wants to see you all the time?
	You want to hang out with you too much?
	No, basically, the things that he was not getting from his mother, he was looking for me to do.
	Such as?
	But men have to realize I'm not your mother.
	What did he want you to do?
	What were the duties he wanted to do that you had an issue with?
	Basically, fix his trauma that his mother created, and I just wasn't ready for that.
	Explain that.
	What does that mean?
	Okay, so I'm a nurturing woman.
	I am.
	However, he wanted mothering, like his mother, okay, they're from New York.
	So New York is very hard, very aggressive.
	They're not very nurturing at all.
	So his mother never told him that he loved her, like nothing like that.
	But when it came to like certain views, he kind of expected me to do what his mother would do, and I'm not your mom.
	Even as a fiancé, girlfriend, whatever, I'm still not your mom.
	But specifically, what would his mother have done?
	Give me one example of a task.
	Was he like, read me a story before bedtime?
	Tell me Santa's real.
	Or was it like, he wanted me to cook?
	I cook.
	I love to cook.
	No, I know.
	I'm just saying I cook.
	We definitely need an example.
	Okay, so basically his childhood trauma, he wasn't told that he loved, like, he wasn't told by his mom that she loved him and shit like that.
	I mean, stuff like that.
	I'm sorry.
	Stuff like that.
	But it was like his mom was very mean to him.
	But it's kind of like, even though he's looking at me for that nurturing effect, I'm still not your mom.
	You want that from your mom.
	I can't give that.
	So I love you saying I love you?
	Yeah, like, I can tell you I love you, but I'm not your mom telling you I love you, if that makes sense.
	Like, it's not the same thing.
	Like, even though I love that man completely, I'm still not your mother saying it.
	I don't know if that makes sense.
	Did he want you to, like, pretend to be his mom, or he just wanted you to say I love you?
	No, not...
	I told him I love him the whole time.
	It's so hard to explain.
	Yeah.
	Because you also did mention you're callous, by the way.
	I don't know if you remember that saying that.
	I can be callous in certain ways, but if I love you, I'm not callous.
	No.
	If I don't like you, I can be callous.
	Or I just want your money type situation.
	Did he want more affection that you didn't give to him?
	I gave him a lot of affection, but the fact that it didn't come from his mother...
	That's the type of affection that he was missing, that he expected me to bring, but I'm not your mom.
	I can't give you that affection.
	So it was hard.
	See, they want an example, a hard example.
	You're just saying in general, which is the problem here.
	I'm not saying in general.
	I'm literally saying like, okay, I'm your wife, right?
	I love you.
	As my husband, I love you, right?
	Well, not me, but yeah.
	But you know what I mean.
	But I'm not your mother saying I love you, but you're looking at me like I wish you were my mother saying I love you.
	I can't be your mom.
	I can only tell you I love you.
	So he wanted breast milk, but you gave him your milk.
	I gave him titty milk.
	I'm not your mom.
	Tomatoes.
	I can't be your mother, basically.
	You're looking for a mothering thing, and I'm your wife.
	I'm not your mom.
	So it's two different kind of loves, basically.
	There's a difference between a mother loving...
	Do you think that's something that could have just been talked through versus getting rid of a guy that was treating you well?
	I didn't get rid of him for that.
	I didn't get rid of him for that.
	That's the number one thing you brought up.
	I mean, okay.
	I know it is.
	I know, right?
	It is.
	I'm sorry.
	Let me guess.
	He cheated.
	No, he didn't.
	No?
	He was actually the first guy that I never had suspicions of him cheating.
	Till this day, he loves me.
	You know what I'm saying?
	But the emotional baggage that he was putting on me, I was, like, not ready for it.
	I really was not ready for it.
	And I was just being honest.
	Like, I love you, but I'm not ready for you.
	So you said that you were putting your career first also because you had bad experiences with men, right?
	Do you think those bad experiences are directly attributed to your line of profession?
	Yes, I do.
	Oh.
	Absolutely.
	Accountability.
	So wouldn't it be fair to say that maybe you've just experienced bad men from your workplace?
	No, because I wasn't always doing what I was doing.
	Okay.
	I do think in some ways I may be too independent, honestly, because not on purpose.
	I don't want to emasculate my man ever, and I never will.
	Okay.
	But the way that I was raised, I kind of tell the man, like, I don't need you, but I'm not saying in a sense of, like, you're not shit, basically.
	Okay.
	Like, I'm just saying, like, I have my own if you decide to leave tomorrow.
	Okay.
	Which is, I actually wanted to cut to her because you kind of gave a little face when she said, like, she puts her man first.
	Yes, I don't agree with that.
	You don't agree that you made a face?
	No, I don't agree with putting the man first.
	Oh, you don't agree with putting a man first.
	Okay, so, can you elaborate?
	Yes, I don't agree with putting a man first because when he leave you, then what?
	What you gonna have?
	If you put your all into a man, a man will leave you with shit and bricks.
	Can I say shit?
	I'm sorry.
	A man will leave you with nothing but shit and a bag.
	You know what I'm saying?
	You gotta have your own everything.
	So why would I put a man first?
	Sorry, I'm so not cool.
	When you say shit and a bag, could you just slow that down for me?
	I promise you, I am so not hip.
	And I mean shit in the bag.
	I mean like your stuff in the bag and you on your way.
	He already got the next girl in the house.
	I don't play those type of games.
	Okay, so you guys are specifically talking about, so you're assuming people just don't get married because obviously the court systems favor women.
	Actually, women will get everything if a guy gets up and leaves.
	So I heard somebody else say like, oh, like the house and blah, blah, and then you'll have nothing.
	I'm like, actually, in the current environment of what happens to men in courtrooms, you'd have pretty much everything.
	But the man got one.
	So that's it.
	You're basically saying you could potentially be with a person that doesn't want to marry you, but you should just never be with a person that doesn't want to marry you, is what I would say.
	If you're talking to a guy and he never wants to marry you, then that's a really...
	That's why I ended my last relationship.
	I felt like we were together for too long, and I asked him, like, hey, do you foresee us getting married?
	Do you see us continuing on?
	He was like, no.
	Straight up.
	No, but it's okay.
	I'd rather he would be honest.
	Yeah, that's true.
	At least he told you.
	Like, you know, for real, for real.
	I didn't even say no hurt by it.
	And I was just like, okay, baby.
	Baby, I love you.
	So you guys are painting a picture of not needing a man, but actually it's a circumstance where it's A specific kind of relationship where the guy doesn't want to marry the woman.
	Because, I mean, if a guy said, yes, I do want to marry you, then you wouldn't have this perspective of like, I'm not putting a man first, right?
	I would never put a man first because even though this is my life.
	You know what I'm saying?
	This is my life.
	But if you were married...
	If I was married, I still want to put my husband first.
	Damn!
	Wait a minute.
	Hold on a second.
	Okay, so this is how I feel.
	I feel like you should take care of yourself.
	How many girls agree with her?
	Just out of curiosity.
	I halfway agree with her.
	Okay.
	Anybody else agree?
	Because I just feel like that could be why he doesn't want to get married, right?
	If you're saying, even if we get married, I'm putting myself first and I'm not putting you first.
	If I was a dude and I heard that, I would definitely say, okay, then I'm not going to marry you.
	But it's also about coming together.
	You know what I'm saying?
	It's also about a union.
	And what I'm saying is there's a lot of people, I'm sorry, there's a lot of people nowadays that doesn't understand what a union is.
	Well, I would argue, potentially, that you're that person, because you just said, if we got married, I would still put me first.
	That's not a union.
	Would he put me first, though?
	Would a man put his wife first?
	Yes.
	What I'm saying is, you should always put yourself first, you know what I'm saying?
	But when it comes to a guy, you shouldn't put a guy over yourself.
	That doesn't make any sense.
	Yeah, so I would offer that in a very productive marriage.
	There is no I, I versus.
	It's just we.
	Like, I am in a partnership, a team, me and my husband.
	The concept of putting me first, even saying that, just sounds so crazy to me in a marriage.
	Like, I've never thought it once.
	It's just, it's us, it's the kids, it's our family.
	Like, I becomes we.
	And so I would just say, like, maybe when you put that out there to a guy...
	Like, I, I, I, then they say, okay, maybe this isn't marriage material because she's telling me that even if I give her everything and I have the potential, then the risk of losing everything, that she still would not make any sacrifices in her life.
	I can agree with what you're saying.
	I can agree with your statements.
	But what I'm saying is I haven't came across a traditional man like that as of now.
	So I'm going to focus on myself.
	No, that's fine.
	I just wanted to highlight that it's a specific kind of man that you're talking about if a guy doesn't want to get married.
	But also, fair, if you're saying the same thing, you're attracting that specific kind of a person.
	You know what I mean?
	If you're like, I'm all about me, me.
	Then he's like, okay, cool.
	I'm all about me, me, too.
	Can I backpack off that?
	I told my husband day one, I want to get married.
	I was like, no games.
	It's a we.
	When are we getting married?
	When are we having kids?
	We, we, we, we, we.
	I can agree with that, but then some people have different goals from others.
	My number one goal is to be a star and not to be married.
	Okay.
	Fair.
	You know what I'm saying?
	Yeah, but I'm saying that might be why you're not getting married.
	Yeah, I don't care to get married.
	Yeah, it's just feeding each other.
	I really don't care to get married.
	Which is fine.
	I have a question real quick.
	Who's your role model in The Rock Game?
	Onika, Tanya, Mirage.
	Yeah.
	Nicki Minaj.
	Got it.
	Her role model.
	Onika, yeah.
	Fantastic.
	How many girls actually want to get married on the panel?
	Real quick.
	Oh, everybody.
	Everybody?
	Okay.
	Just out of curiosity.
	Alright.
	So for you, you said that you're putting career first.
	Question for you.
	Do you think, after putting your career first, being a dancer, being involved in the work that you're in, that you're going to find your dream man at the end of the line?
	Yes.
	Because my career doesn't define me.
	Because my career doesn't define me.
	You know what I'm saying?
	I'm a completely different woman.
	I can separate my business and what I do from my actual personal life.
	Right.
	I was just about to exit.
	Something in my throat.
	Sorry.
	My bad.
	Sorry, continue on.
	Okay, so basically, like, how she was saying, like, when I do get into a relationship or an engagement, like, even with my ex-fiance, I told him, I tell everybody what I do up front.
	Like, look, I do this, that, and the third.
	Do you want to be a part of it or do you not?
	You know what I'm saying?
	You can have the password to my phone.
	You can, anything to make you feel comfortable.
	And with my engagement, he was like, well, I don't want you to work.
	I don't want you to do anything.
	He had money.
	He took very good care of me.
	He didn't want me to work.
	I did.
	Because it's an emotional thing.
	I don't care about money.
	You know what I'm saying?
	Money is not a focal point for me.
	Okay.
	I'd rather be taken care of emotionally, you know, and feel safe.
	That's my biggest thing.
	I want to feel safe.
	If I make you feel safe, make me feel safe.
	Okay.
	Because money can be made, spent every day, whatever.
	Do you think your job at all might be impacting how they value you?
	Yes and no.
	I say yes because the second you hear, oh I'm a sexologist, I'm a dancer, I'm a whatever, I decide to tell you I'm on lifestyles.
	What do you think?
	You think escort or you think she's just another stripper girl type situation?
	Yeah, it's honest.
	It's honest.
	That's automatically what you think.
	Especially when you see certain girls that are in the lifestyle, being dancers, being escorts, being whatever.
	That's how they present and they don't care.
	But me, I have morals.
	I have values.
	My career does not define me.
	I'm a completely different woman from what I am, from what I work.
	Me making money has nothing to do with the woman that I am.
	Don't you think that what you're willing to do for work does define your value, though?
	Like, to say, like, these are not my values, I just do this for work.
	Like, you know, I prostitute, but these are not my values.
	I just do this for work.
	No, I'm just giving an example here, right?
	Like, I'm not sure that we can separate that, right?
	I can't.
	I can't.
	Well, you can, but I'm saying that I think for men, and I don't want to speak for men, but you're telling them what your values are when you say, I do this and I do that and I do this, right?
	They don't think that you're just performing, per se.
	Because I make them comfortable.
	Like, I will tell you everything up front.
	I'm not gonna lie to you.
	I'm not gonna hide anything.
	I'm literally gonna show you everything up front.
	If you have any insecurities about what I do, if you have any questions, I'm like, look, babe, this is literally what I do.
	That's it.
	That's it.
	That's all.
	So that would, just so we can run your argument to a totally separate career path.
	Like, that would be like me saying, I sell crack to children.
	Yeah.
	But I tell you that I sell crack to children, so my values are in check because I told you that I sell crack to children.
	Let me also add, if I do get into a relationship, me telling you up front what I do, if you're not comfortable with that, I will not do it.
	If I value you enough where I'm like, okay, he's worth it.
	But I also know what type of man that I can give up part of my income for.
	But I'm just saying, how can you separate your values from what you do?
	Like, given that example I just gave you.
	It's easy.
	I can't really explain it.
	It's just easy.
	I just don't get lost in that world of being a dancer, being trapped in the erratic world.
	I don't get lost in it.
	Like, I'm very, like, headstrong.
	So it's like, it's literally business.
	It's kind of like an actor.
	I can go on Seinfeld and be, or friends or whatever, and be an actor, but it's completely different at home, you know?
	So it's acting for me, to be honest with you.
	Okay.
	And that's it.
	Like, yeah.
	And then at home, I cook, I clean.
	I will do all the things of wifely duties or, you know, and I'm happy.
	They're happy.
	So you're basically just, in your mind, you're like, I'm just two different people.
	I am.
	I definitely am.
	Sabella and Etienne are two completely different people.
	Keep it a bean.
	What?
	In the club.
	Huh?
	In the club?
	I'm Sabella in the club.
	Right.
	And what are Sabella's values?
	Does Sabella smash in the club?
	No.
	Absolutely not.
	Never did.
	Not the cow.
	Number one time.
	Back room?
	Never.
	No.
	Never.
	Ever.
	All right, Sabella.
	We're going to find out.
	Whole facts.
	Go ahead.
	Go ahead.
	Make a phone call in the office.
	Go ahead.
	Say what she wanted to do.
	All right, nigga.
	Call me y'all.
	You want me to call?
	Oh, y'all took my phone.
	I would call the office.
	But no, I've never done anything like that ever.
	Okay.
	Okay.
	No, no, and that's cool.
	I mean, you already said that you're putting your career first, which is fine.
	I'm just wondering, like, if you're okay with the quality of men that's going to be left for you at the end of the road when you're done with your career and you're done prioritizing that.
	I have dealt with both shitty men and quality men.
	So it's like I've experienced both.
	And because of who I am, they understand that, okay, this is her career.
	This is what she chooses to do to make money.
	But she's a completely different person with me.
	It's not heirs.
	It's not fronts.
	It's not I'm trying to get your money.
	It's not nothing.
	Can you remind me how old you are?
	27, did you say?
	I'm 29.
	29, okay.
	And you, how old were you?
	I'm 26.
	26.
	And you said man first?
	Yeah, if I have a man, yes.
	Yeah, if you can find one, you would put marriage first.
	Well, it's not find, but I mean, I guess.
	But yeah, I would.
	Like, I would put that first, yeah.
	What would be a better word than find?
	I don't know.
	It just makes me seem like I'm out here in the streets.
	I was.
	I don't think there's anything to find a man, like wanting to find a relationship.
	Like, I don't, yeah.
	More on the streets, man.
	For you too, do you guys think that you need to actively find a man or are you just going to find you?
	Just out of curiosity.
	For me, you can find me.
	I'm fine with my dog.
	I would like a guy to put in the initial effort.
	Yeah, but...
	I would.
	But...
	Yeah, I don't think I've ever just gone after...
	Like, be the...
	What's it called?
	You've never actively seeked a man?
	The go-getter, yeah.
	Yeah.
	But you have options though, right?
	You have options like going out, dating stuff.
	Yeah.
	Yeah, so just choose a good one.
	Well, yeah.
	So I was kind of dating somebody and then I just found out he lied about his age.
	Uh-oh.
	Damn!
	How old?
	Like, too young?
	Um, no.
	He told me he was 36, and I just found out he's, like, 50.
	Shit.
	He's just, like, really good at, like, dyeing his beard all the time.
	Does he do tattoos?
	No.
	Where did you grow up?
	Um, in Dallas.
	Okay.
	And when did you get into the business?
	Well, since I got kicked out of school, so, like, if you're at, like, I don't have a, no, I didn't have a dad, but I went to college.
	I, like, had a 4.0 and a Fulbright scholarship, and I was doing really well, but got kicked out for a joke I made, and then I, um, that led me into, you know, the sex industry, and it's just, for me, as a means to an end, it's the only thing I knew what I could do to make some money, so.
	And how does that impact, like, I guess, your relationship with your mom?
	Does she know you're on OnlyFans, or no?
	Um.
	Well, she does now.
	Hey, Mom!
	No!
	Like, country.
	Like, they're not gonna, like, know what this is, I hope.
	If they speak English, they might put it together.
	My little brothers watch the show, though, so...
	They do?
	Yeah.
	Okay, so do you think your mom would be...
	No, she wouldn't like it, but...
	She would understand?
	I think she just wants me as long as I'm in her life and, like...
	Was she, like, your friend growing up?
	She was in and out.
	I have, like, mommy issues and daddy issues.
	Holy!
	But, like, now, yeah, I see her more of as a friend.
	But she's still, like, she's very, like, religious and very, like, that.
	So, like, I don't talk to her about everything.
	I don't know.
	So, but, I mean, I'm sure she wouldn't be happy about it.
	And she wants me to, like, find something better.
	But I'm just doing what I can.
	And you feel like you have to do it for financial reasons?
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	Or did you just want fast money?
	Because I feel like you could get a job if you were like, I want to be a bartender.
	I mean, you're young.
	You're attractive.
	You don't have to do OnlyFans, right?
	I mean, I was broke.
	Crazy broke.
	And I never sold my body.
	So I feel like now people keep saying they have to, but...
	It's just like, I want fast money and I want to be able to pay rent, you know, sort of a thing.
	Yeah, I want to be able to pay rent, but what else would I do that's going to make me the same amount?
	It's not going to make you the same amount.
	I don't make a lot of money, because I don't do the absolute most.
	So I make a regular amount, and I make enough to get by.
	And I don't know, even, I don't know, I watched my mom struggle growing up, and I saw her do all the normal jobs, and she didn't sell her body and all that, and she struggled a lot.
	So I really just kind of was like, I'm doing almost anything.
	OnlyFans, I don't know.
	And to not end up like that and like literally being homeless and dumpster diving and all that, like I would rather, yes, I would rather do OnlyFans than that.
	So like, I think I just have that like, that fear, you know, like, and I just, I watch my mom do all the regular jobs and yeah, so.
	Candice, in your opinion, why do you think women resort to OnlyFans when they have other options?
	Well, so the first thing I would say is that I do see this trend.
	That's why I always ask about whether you grow up with a dad, because usually the answer is no.
	And I think that that definitely matters.
	And they do have other options.
	I think the problem is that when, especially when you're young, you just want fast money.
	And I don't think they realize that they're making, like, it's like, yeah, this is money up front, but you are, is going to cost you when you get older.
	Like, this is like...
	You know, it's like doing a deal with the devil, right?
	Where it's like, up front, everything's gonna look great, and then you're gonna, you know, trip over near 30, you know, and you're gonna realize the men, the options, and also, by the way, when you're on OnlyFans and selling your body, like, your body's only gonna go in one direction.
	Like, you are...
	A stock that is just declining with age, right?
	So there's going to be the next 18-year-old that wants to put her boobies on the internet, and you're just not going to be able to bring in the money that you could.
	So, you know, it's the youth, you know, they say youth is wasted on the young, and I think that that's very true.
	I think there's a new environment where also the materialism that's on Instagram makes them want more before they have to work for it.
	They're just like seeing...
	there spending with their thing and they're like, "I just want money." And that it's...
	They're being raised online and they don't have an example that shows them that that's just a mirage and it's gonna come at just a severe cost.
	So it actually breaks my heart when I see young women doing that because I know it's gonna be on the other side of that, you know?
	Could I add something to that?
	Sure.
	I feel like, especially with social media, a lot of girls base their worth off of how fast they can get money with doing the least amount of work.
	And I mean labor work.
	You see it on TikTok all the time.
	It's like, oh, I'm a Pilates princess, or I go to Starbucks every day, and it's like, oh, but I don't lift a finger.
	And it's like...
	You know all these girls are now now leaves all these other girls to be like oh Like what do I have to do to make that kind of money without doing a lot of work?
	Because that would mean like oh I I'm not worth like a lot.
	You know what I mean?
	So I feel like that's why OnlyFans is so you know popular Instagram is like reprogramming everybody's brains.
	Yeah a great man once said Fast money comes with slow problems.
	Um, yeah, I mean Who said that?
	That's actually, there you go.
	Yeah, I've said that.
	This is one of my quotes.
	If I rip it and say that I made it like it was for me, you can say I came up with it.
	He stole it for me.
	He's a liar.
	Because I've always kind of found this interesting when girls say that they put men first and then they get into a career field that's going to ostracize them from the very men that they wanted.
	They don't understand how men tick, I think.
	That's what's missing.
	We're animals at the end of the day.
	It's not going to change what men want and what women want.
	That's why I always say to women, your biology will catch up with you.
	You can think you're so smart.
	We can socialize.
	You can do experiments.
	But at the end of the day, your body's going to come online.
	And so I always talk about this book I read by E.O. Wilson, which is...
	It's called On Human Nature, and basically his thesis is that at the end of the day, your biology is going to win, and he starts correlating it to what happens in the wild, and what men want, what male species wants, and what the female species wants in the wild, and how your body actually dictates that, like why it is that...
	Men want a certain type of woman and why it is that women want a certain type of man, like the protection, the hunters, the gatherers, and that's never going to change.
	And I think that, unfortunately, for these women, when they realize that, when the biology really comes online is probably in your mid-20s, it's too late because of the things that they've done, and men are not going to change their taste.
	So it's just...
	Calamitous.
	It just happened.
	It's like I see it happening in slow motion.
	It's like a train wreck.
	I can't stop it.
	I just hate when I see OnlyFans girls that are really cool people, very nice people as well.
	But when they go home, they cry at night because they know they fucked up.
	But in public, they don't want to say, oh, I fucked up.
	It's more like, hey, you know what?
	I'll make it look good.
	Behind closed doors, it looks really bad.
	It's just tough to get a traditional man that's going to pay the bills and take you seriously and protect and provide for you.
	I don't mean to use an example, but you acquired yourself a lower status male because of your profession.
	And you've been together for three months.
	I promise you, the conversation is going to come up.
	I don't like this.
	I want you to stop.
	It's going to come.
	It's been in every single one of you guys' situation, whether you're a dancer, a stripper, whatever it is, OnlyFans, whatever that tough conversation.
	You know what?
	I don't like this.
	I want you to stop.
	And then that's where you've got to kind of make the decision.
	Or she's going to say, I want to stop.
	He's going to be like...
	Money in here.
	Yeah, in that situation.
	I'm never gonna stop.
	I've been doing this for a while.
	Fair.
	And that's fair enough.
	But that's kind of what ends up happening, where girls that are involved in that either have to A, stay single, B, acquiesce and get with a lower status male that's below them, kind of like in your situation, which I'm gonna...
	News flash for you.
	Six, seven, eight months from now, you're going to start to resent them because you make more money than them and you boss them around.
	I promise you it's going to come.
	It always happens when girls make more money than their men and puts them in a leadership role, puts them in a dominant role, and then that guy has to submit to the woman and that's a very unattractive feature to be in a relationship.
	You're looking at me like I'm crazy.
	You want a man that you boss around?
	Huh?
	You want a man that you boss around?
	Absolutely not.
	I don't believe in bossing a man around at all.
	So then what do you disagree with?
	If he's a man that I can naturally submit to as my leader, as my protector, as my provider, regardless of what I do, I'm going to do that.
	Whether or not I make more money than you.
	I've been in that situation where I make way more money than my man.
	How'd that turn out?
	Where's he now?
	Gone Not because of financial reasons It's new.
	You guys are in the honeymoon phase.
	I've seen this, and I don't mean to pick on you, but every single girl that's come on the show where she's in a situation where she makes way more than her man or whatever it may be, it never ends well.
	I think it's about how you carry yourself or how you represent yourself.
	I don't believe in letting your career define who you are.
	Yeah, you might not believe in it, but belief is not going to change biology.
	It's like, I don't believe that...
	Men can't also be women.
	You can say that all you want, but you're a man, dude.
	You're a woman.
	And it's the same thing.
	And men tick in a certain way.
	You're all young enough that if you hear that, you can make some changes.
	But don't think that you're going to change the way men tick.
	That's just not a thing.
	That's never going to happen.
	I don't think there's any woman that can change a man.
	And you also can't change how you tick, is what I'm trying to say.
	Like, you'll get with that guy.
	You'll think, oh, no, it's cool.
	We'll work together.
	I'll build him up.
	And then you realize you're just living off you.
	He's a fucking bum.
	You make more than him.
	You got more ambition.
	It's just very unattractive for a woman to be with a man that can't provide, unfortunately.
	I just don't look at that first.
	Like, if I'm into you, I'm not going to look at what you provide for me first.
	Like, I'm not going to look at a man.
	Okay, that's what I mean.
	How's that worked out for you for 29 years?
	It's worked good and bad.
	Do you want kids?
	I do, but I'm very cautious of who I decide to have a kid with.
	Do you want to be married?
	I do, yes.
	I almost was.
	Like, this close.
	Like, almost.
	Could I add something?
	Yeah.
	I was just wondering, so, like, you say that you are, like, a dom, right?
	I am, yes.
	For the most part.
	But you want a guy to be the dominant one in a relationship.
	Is that true?
	In a relationship, but not my career.
	True.
	I do.
	I have two different personalities.
	So I have me and I have my job.
	Understood.
	So I was just questioning, like, how do you expect a man to be dominant in a relationship if you don't allow him to be dominant?
	I absolutely will.
	If I feel you naturally, if I'm feeling you naturally, I will say it's...
	Sometimes it's hard for me to be attracted to a male, but if it's natural and I'm like, I'm feeling, like right now, I'm dealing with someone that I'm naturally attracted to.
	Right.
	And he knows everything that I do.
	We talk about it, everything.
	I'm naturally attracted to him, sexually, emotionally, everything.
	How long have you guys been seeing each other?
	What does it mean to be a dom?
	I hate myself for asking this.
	Can you elaborate on that question?
	Literally, when you say, I'm a dom?
	Because you said you were a stripper.
	So what does it mean to be a dom stripper?
	Or is it not together?
	It's two different things.
	It can be together.
	What's a dom?
	Basically, I'm fulfilling your fantasy.
	So if you want me to...
	It's not just the typical...
	I don't know if I... Can I say...
	Oh, you...
	Okay, these are two different jobs.
	You know what?
	Go all the way in.
	Explain it all the way.
	No, you don't have to.
	Sorry, I thought it was related to your role as a stripper.
	You're saying that people can book you for some other stuff.
	Okay, and where do you sell that service?
	So, it's...
	Like OnlyFans?
	No, I've done OnlyFans before everybody knows about it.
	I don't like OnlyFans.
	I'm not an OnlyFans girl.
	Basically, there's different websites that you have.
	We actually create real contracts.
	It's an actual contract you need to sign, you need to pay tribute, everything.
	If you have a wife, I need to know pretty much all about your life.
	What website is that?
	There's a lot of them.
	But which one are you on?
	SugarDaddy.com.
	I don't do Seeking Arrangers anymore just because there's a lot of girls.
	But for the Dom thing, that's what SugarDaddy is on.
	That's where I met my husband.
	Kings.com.
	Where?
	On Seeking Arrangers.
	Wow.
	Out of nowhere, she just comes in with a situation.
	Seeking Arrangers is a popular one.
	Seeking Arrangers is very popular.
	Sugardaddies.com or Luxury.
	There's an app called Luxury.
	So would you consider your other self a prostitute?
	Prostitute?
	No.
	Because I don't have sex.
	I don't have sex for money.
	Do I exchange a sexual fantasy?
	What does a dom do?
	Is there a fantasy not to have sex?
	Now I am kind of interested in the details.
	What does a dom do?
	Some want to have sex.
	I don't have sex.
	So what do they want you to do?
	It can be as simple as me walking around on a leash.
	I have one now.
	He literally wants me to walk him around on a leash.
	Oh my gosh.
	I'm sorry, I'm so nosy.
	He pays how much to have you walk him on a leash?
	A thousand.
	For how long do you have to walk this person?
	You have to walk him for an hour?
	You have to walk him for an hour?
	Come on over, guys.
	Can you take him outside?
	He will walk on all fours, hands, knees, all that.
	Outside?
	I can't do it that long because the police will be like, what y'all got going on right here?
	What do they call cash?
	Cash piggies.
	Do you guys know this?
	No.
	What is the craziest thing you have to do for one of these clients of yours?
	Oh God.
	I was afraid of that question.
	So I did have...
	Go all up by the way.
	We're on Rumble.
	You can say whatever you want now, ladies.
	Whatever you want.
	Okay, so one thing that I will never ever do it again is financial humiliation, which is basically I'm going to take evidence of your entire life, whether you have a wife, whether you have kids, whatever, and I'm going to call your wife, I'm going to call your family, I'm going to take pictures of it.
	It is a kink.
	It is a kink.
	I had a guy that literally drained his complete savings account.
	Am I uneducated?
	Is this any of this?
	This is a new one.
	He wants you to drain his account and you said you'll never do it again?
	Yes, because I didn't like it.
	I've had guys that...
	You didn't like spending his money?
	You know how many guys I've had...
	How much will he pay you to spend his money?
	Because now I need to know about this.
	I've had guys that literally, they will send me money every week if I want lunch, if I want rent, whatever I want, basically.
	But then the next week, I'm like, hey, I want this.
	And they're like, well, I'm facing eviction this week because I gave you all my money.
	Or I've had guys that are like, my wife found out the account.
	Like...
	I don't do that anymore because I don't want to ruin your life.
	I just want to complete your fantasy for the time being.
	I don't want to ruin your life.
	You got like the one guy jerking off in the corner.
	Hey, I got $27.
	Yes, I've had that.
	I don't believe in that.
	I don't want to ruin anybody's life.
	For some imaginary sex.
	Yes, exactly.
	Just because there's guys out there that just like that.
	They just like being dominated.
	Like, I don't know.
	You have to ask them what the fantasy is.
	Come on, man.
	There's no way you ain't draining his balls after you drain his account, man.
	Come on, man.
	No, no.
	Come on, man.
	Where's the captain at?
	Come on.
	Listen, I'm having a time.
	Come on, man.
	Next level six, bro.
	If that's the case, you can call anybody.
	You don't need to go on a special website.
	If you call any rational person, you're like, can you take all of my money?
	Yes, sure.
	Is that your thing?
	It's not the same.
	What are you doing extra?
	You have to create an emotional connection with them.
	So it's not like, oh, give me all your money and that's it.
	No.
	They want to feel connected to you.
	They want to feel like it's an interaction.
	She's getting ideas.
	She's like, I'm listening to this.
	Yes.
	It's an interaction.
	That's what I'm saying.
	Like, just because I say I'm in an erotic world, I'm not saying sex.
	I'm saying intimacy, a connection.
	Like, there's people out here that marry sex dogs.
	I'm so sorry.
	I have so many questions.
	So going back to the dog that you were walking, that was not a dog, but was a human, and it was outside.
	Yes, ma'am.
	And you said the police, until the police get...
	Can you just describe that interaction with the police when you were walking a human?
	It's very awkward.
	It's very awkward.
	Because you can get charged as, like, it's indecency, public indecency.
	Like a disturbance.
	So, yeah, exactly.
	Like, you really can't.
	And where did you do this?
	Like, what city were you walking this human?
	I've done it in Maryland, which, you know, Maryland is bigger.
	There's different areas.
	I've done it in Miami as well.
	It's a little bit harder because there's a lot of cops on the block.
	What would you say if you saw a woman walking a human walking?
	I've walked a girl.
	What?
	You walked a girl?
	Seriously.
	Damn, she really walked a bitch.
	Let's go!
	Yo!
	I'm a dog walker!
	Yo!
	It's just an emotional connection.
	That's what I'm saying.
	I love the erotic world because it's not always about sex.
	It's not always fellatio, cunnilingus.
	It's not always that.
	It's literally about feelings.
	But you also have had sex.
	If I want to.
	Yeah, if I'm attracted.
	Can I ask a question?
	Yeah, I'm sorry.
	You made your guy off seeking, right?
	That's why I'm about to ask this question.
	Were you a sugar baby before?
	No.
	You keep it real.
	I love being a sugar baby.
	Not really.
	To be honest, just like the same interaction I had with you on the Seeking Arrangements.
	Wait, what?
	What the?
	Wait, I'm here to fuck though!
	Can I finish this shit?
	I'm here to fuck.
	Hold on, hold on.
	Hold on.
	I was just stating.
	I was just stating, like...
	Wait, what?
	Wait, what?
	No!
	I told you, no!
	I was just stating.
	Hold on, hold on, hold on.
	They're going to bring it down for us.
	Wait, I was trying to finish my sentence.
	I was talking to her.
	And he didn't have no green hair either.
	Yeah!
	No, I didn't.
	I told you, my hair is very naturally, it's always black, it's always blonde.
	I'm wearing green hair because I sew hair and I'm on a...
	Wait, you two know each other?
	Hold on, keep it a beam.
	To be honest, I don't.
	That's fine.
	I'm not.
	Hold on, hold on.
	I can pull it up.
	My man's hair was on the site, but something will happen because I know what happened.
	But something will happen.
	Didn't you convert to Islam?
	That was besides the point.
	I never converted to Islam.
	I actually come from an Islamic family.
	Everybody in my family is Muslim.
	Every single one of them.
	I've never been on this show in my life.
	This is crazy!
	I was just simply stating a fact because yes, I did meet my husband on Seeking Arrangements, but that's...
	High-value men are on Seeking Arrangements all the time, is all I was trying to say.
	Absolutely.
	Yeah, but I'm there to smash, though.
	Yeah, he's a smash.
	Wait, what?
	Yeah, that's fine.
	Just like that never happened.
	But she brings a good point, though.
	It doesn't matter.
	It doesn't matter.
	Like the same way you were on Seeking Arrangements, so was my husband.
	I'm not going to find a wife, though.
	What the fuck?
	That's fine.
	Neither was he.
	But at the same time, At the same time, we're all looking for what we're looking for.
	He probably was not on there looking for that, and neither are you, and that's okay.
	But moral of the story is, you cannot discredit him for finding a wife on Seeking Arrangements, okay?
	Because all I'm saying is, is that he's not the only one on it.
	That's all I'm trying to say.
	Look at all that shit, man.
	Who out here is all on Sugar Sight?
	Where's your hand?
	Only two?
	C'mon.
	Man, some of these girls...
	Bulgaria!
	You didn't raise your hand and that's cap.
	We're dudes!
	We're there to fuck!
	That's not a flex!
	No, it's not a flex.
	You said who is on a sugar daddy website.
	So everybody.
	You said who.
	You didn't say which girls.
	No, I said girls.
	Girls, girls, girls.
	Oh, you did?
	Okay, my bad.
	Stop trying to make it weird.
	Stop trying to make it weird when we're all doing the same thing.
	Again?
	No, no, no.
	We're using it to smash.
	No, you guys are using it to smash.
	Not every man is using it to smash.
	They want the Splendid Daddies.
	I mean, they're lying to you.
	And you are using it to smash, but if that's the case, and I personally feel like if you're a very much so high-value man...
	At the end of the day, you guys are high-value men.
	I respect that.
	And I watch you guys every day.
	I think that about you.
	I think that about you.
	So with that being said, you should be able to walk on the sidewalk and find the high-value women.
	So with that being said, all I'm saying is...
	Bro!
	Offer that your situation on seeking arrangement would be an example of an exception and not the rule, right?
	So I don't think that most people end up married having met and seeking an arrangement.
	I'm actually very happy that happened for you.
	I think marriage is great, and I think that that is quite literally exceptional.
	But as a rule, I do think that most men are going to have Want to have sex.
	And most women are going for...
	Money.
	Money.
	Right.
	But it's her choice.
	I only...
	No, I only said that.
	I'm just trying to paint a real picture.
	I don't want everybody running and seeking an arrangement looking for marriage.
	That's all I'm saying.
	It's not realistic, to be honest.
	To be honest, I am very grateful for my husband.
	Okay, he's handsome.
	He got money.
	Like, everything.
	But all I'm saying is, is that when I said that, like, I'm and my husband are seeking arrangements, to the left side, it was kind of like a...
	Because it never happens.
	Yeah, I understand that.
	And I was just trying to remind him that he'd be on there too.
	And I love my man, okay?
	Hold on, hold on.
	We're not going to look crazy.
	Hold on, hold on, hold on.
	Look, look, look.
	Let me be clear about this.
	Number one, I don't remember you.
	Number two, I get hundreds of messages on that website.
	I didn't message you, you messaged me.
	Okay, if you say so.
	Number three, I messaged a bunch of girls.
	That's why I don't remember you.
	And then number three.
	I'm sure you do.
	I am a professional womanizer.
	I've spoken about this many times.
	I see that.
	I tell guys all the time, you're seeking, you're Bumble, all that shit.
	You're trying to pull me on blast and it's a big L for you.
	You're trying so hard right now.
	I'm not trying to put you on blast.
	I'm just saying when I was talking about my husband, you on the other side, I was trying to put him on blast.
	Because we're there for a different reason.
	I'm not there to find a wife.
	Well, that's a matter of perspective.
	Because I was not trying to put you on blast.
	I was just simply saying how I felt.
	Do you feel like you were just offending your husband because you felt like his worth was being diminished?
	It has nothing to do with you.
	When I said that, you were kind of like, uh.
	So I was like, okay, hold up now.
	Yeah, because that's weird to find your wife on seeking.
	And then you try to put me in the same frame as him as trying to find my wife on seeking.
	Fuck wrong with you.
	That's not me.
	What the fuck is wrong with you?
	Listen, I'm going to be the Oprah here.
	I think it was a miscommunication.
	I will say, first and foremost, I respect any woman that is defending their husband because, let me tell you, I will turn into a bear.
	Exactly!
	Secondly, I think that the point that he was trying to make wasn't actually disrespect your husband.
	He was just saying that, like, it's wild to consider a guy that would go on to seeking an arrangement looking for a wife.
	And I think that's valid.
	You had an exceptional situation.
	You love him.
	He is also correct to say that that's not a typical situation.
	And men should not and normally do not go on to seeking an arrangement.
	You basically lottery ticket.
	Yeah.
	You know what I mean?
	And that's my apologies if I, like, said anything wrong.
	I just kind of got like, like, that's my man.
	So when it comes to him, I'm like...
	Yeah, I get it.
	I get it.
	I got both of your points.
	It is nothing against you.
	I was just simply like...
	I'm not gonna lie.
	You're looking at Candace here, man We've been real transparent about using SA just strictly to get on there and use as a dating site Smash them chicks whatever maybe you try put me in the same box.
	Yeah Do you guys want to get married or no?
	Like you two.
	Not two, you don't talk to each other, obviously, you know what I'm saying, like in general.
	Oh, yeah, yeah, but I would have multiple wives.
	Okay, okay.
	Is that driven by faith?
	Yeah, I grew up Muslim, so it's a thing.
	I mean, I'm not the best Muslim, but...
	Is it mostly Muslim, or is it equal?
	And would you want wives for the same reason that Muslims take wives?
	Yeah, you would want multiple children, yeah.
	And then also you get bored of just one girl.
	So it's more ego than Muslim?
	That's why I don't want to get married.
	What does that have to do with being Muslim?
	What?
	I'm sorry.
	I'm going to shut up.
	They take multiple wives.
	I understand that, but like...
	Never mind.
	No, it's fine.
	No, no, no.
	I want to hear that because I don't know anything.
	Because I'm like, like I said, I grew up in a Muslim household.
	I also don't like to talk to religion with strangers that I don't know because we might have some type of miscommunication.
	So that's why I said I'm just going to shut up.
	Because like I said, it's my religion.
	So it's kind of like, you know what I mean?
	But that's why I'm just going to back out of that conversation.
	Bro, your hair is green and it's out and your titties are out.
	What are you talking about?
	What does that have to do with what I just said?
	That's haram as hell.
	Haram!
	Okay.
	I'm not saying I'm the best Muslim, but goddamn.
	Like, that's just crazy.
	So, how is it haram to get on to a podcast and blatantly disrespect the same women you claim to?
	Because in Muslim society, right?
	Here we go.
	Yeah, exactly.
	That's why I wanted to be quiet.
	Can somebody just tell me what haram is?
	Because I see people always saying that.
	It's forbidden.
	It's like forbidden.
	It means forbidden.
	It's like forbidden, yeah.
	Is that in...
	Does it mean forbidden in what language?
	In the religion, in Arabic.
	It means pretty much forbidden.
	No hijab, like being a whore.
	Forbidden, forbidden.
	Okay, we can move on, man, because you just want to...
	Yeah, she's just trying to start some shit.
	So for me, I think, personally speaking, I've had great experiences with women.
	I love women.
	But I don't know if I want to get married again.
	I was married before, actually.
	Okay, okay.
	But what I will say...
	What didn't work out, like, about the wife?
	Well, she had a kid.
	And I was too, in my opinion, too...
	I didn't want to focus on success and I didn't want to put time towards someone else's kid.
	So I said, you know, it's not working out for me.
	Part of that's natural too, by the way, biologically, like men not wanting to take care of something that's not, there's a lot of interesting science behind that.
	So I chose either that family or my success and I just chose success.
	But yeah, I mean, again, if I meet somebody, it may change in the future, but for now, I'm just living life, you know?
	Yeah, that makes sense.
	I'm always so interested in everybody.
	I'm sorry, guys, I'm so nosy.
	I ask way too much.
	No, no, no, no.
	You're good.
	I'm always just like, I want to know more about you.
	Was there anything else you wanted to ask besides the dog walking and the...
	That threw me for a loop.
	Yeah.
	I want to talk to you.
	I just...
	I'm interested.
	I would say, personally, I believe that if a woman has one person that she's in arrangement with and he's taking care of her, right?
	That's way much more better than banging random dudes in the club.
	Are you on any websites?
	No.
	That brings another question.
	Why would I date someone old with money when there are so many young guys with money?
	How did you meet your ex?
	The one that stole his car.
	We met on dating apps.
	And I think dating apps are something great because I would personally not date someone from my work.
	I would not date someone from my gym.
	And if I want to expand my circle, dating apps is an easy way to meet new people who are in different industries, have different interests.
	That's the future for me.
	Why did he take his car back?
	Yeah, why would he do that?
	Can I ask?
	Because he wants me back, but...
	Whose name was the car in?
	That's my question.
	Is it your name?
	His name?
	Damn.
	Girl, gotta give it your name.
	Yeah, so, question, because you said that you put a man first, and then fun, and then a career, right?
	Yes.
	If I'm not mistaken.
	So, what are you actively doing to keep your man?
	I mean, if he's taking his car back, you must have fucked up.
	I left him, but I kept the car.
	Why'd you leave him?
	Honestly, I didn't feel like this is my one and only and I want to have kids with him.
	I believe that I will meet a person that I want to spend my whole life with.
	So you wanted to keep the car after you left him?
	Like, if I make a present to you...
	That's why I respect women in the East.
	Because, like, they're just very honest about, like, I am here to take your stuff and you'll buy.
	So, you just didn't feel like he would...
	What made you say that he wasn't going to be the one?
	It's just a feeling.
	I do believe that I have certain qualities that I want the man to have.
	What did he not have that made you say no?
	A little bit of this Eastern European spirit, I would say.
	So you don't think before you bought the car, you could have told them that?
	Before you bought the car for you?
	Say, hey, listen, buddy, you know what?
	This is going good and all, but you're not my type.
	Honestly, I think it takes a few years to live with someone and being in a relationship to actually get to know this person and have an idea.
	Do you see your future with him or not?
	I'm confused.
	You said he doesn't have an Eastern European.
	Explain that.
	What does that mean?
	So, I would say I'm very dominant in my character, but I'm also very submissive.
	And I'm a smart retard.
	It doesn't make sense, bro.
	I'm not going to be submissive to every man on the street.
	You need to show me that I can be guided by you so I can be submissive.
	Because if every guy on the street is like, do this and do this, and I'm like, yes, sir.
	Like, where is my character?
	I treat everybody the worst, and then only the strongest survive.
	Amen.
	Honestly, Myron, she's rushing.
	She's rushing, bro.
	She's rushing, bro.
	She's rushing.
	He dies, he dies.
	Fuck it, yeah.
	Bro, what the hell?
	Shout out to Chris.
	Shout out to you, Chris.
	Okay.
	Candice, what do you think about Rumble as a platform?
	I love them.
	I know Chris.
	We've done an event together in D.C. He's great.
	He's here in Miami, right?
	He should be here soon, actually.
	Okay, nice.
	And then we'll do questions for girls?
	Oh, they have questions for Candice?
	Yeah, for Candice.
	Okay, because I know she's got it.
	You've got to dip out soon, right?
	Yeah, I'll take some questions before I dip.
	Let's do it.
	I'm an open book.
	You guys have been an open book, actually.
	Very productive conversation, I think.
	Very productive.
	Okay.
	I'm so shocked that Ms.
	Boogie- Oh no, I won't even sleep about the dog walking.
	Hey, you'd be surprised married couples do it too.
	You walk two dogs at the same time.
	You're like a- No, I'm just saying like within their relationship, you'd be surprised what people want to do.
	Like people are just, especially in the black community, that's what I really love helping- What?
	Yes.
	Black community getting dog walk the most?
	I didn't say, not necessarily dog walk, but you'd be surprised with- No, we don't.
	Because I do swingers parties as well.
	But not the dog walking.
	No, not the dog walking with black people.
	Is it normally Caucasian?
	Yes.
	And you want a man?
	Yes.
	From the mountains of Caucasus.
	So guys, this is a very anonymous questionnaire.
	So if you want to raise your hand because you wrote a question, it's fine.
	You can.
	Do you think that being a woman with conservative values these days makes you miss opportunities from the new...
	Who wrote this shit, man?
	This shit's terrible.
	For the new here, I'll read it.
	Okay, yeah, good.
	I don't know what you're saying in the background.
	Makes you miss out on opportunities from the new life opportunities and what if it doesn't work with the man that you sacrificed it.
	Missing new potential wife or life opportunities.
	I'm talking about cash flow.
	Yeah, I thought it was you right around here.
	I started putting your head.
	The strong said it really told me.
	Only the strong understood.
	Um, no.
	I do not feel like I'm missing out at all.
	Actually, I think that getting married was the first time that I felt like my whole life came together and I knew my purpose and having children Nothing else matters.
	I always want women to unlock that in life because when you realize...
	I think before, you just don't know what you're doing.
	You just don't know what you're doing.
	You're trying to stay alive.
	You're trying to pay rent.
	You don't know who you are.
	And then when you meet your person, you become the most secure that you will ever be in your entire life.
	We were talking about this earlier on the show where it's like, you can't take anything from me.
	You know what I'm saying?
	I don't care what the internet thinks, nothing.
	Because when your life is in order and your family life is in order...
	Like, you have everything.
	You have everything.
	That was sound.
	Okay.
	Do you believe someone can truly change once they find God or religion, even if they have a promiscuous past?
	Yes, I actually was thinking about that.
	Can you remind me of your name?
	Enola Blaze.
	Enola?
	Enola Blaze.
	My real name is Kayla.
	Kayla.
	So I was thinking about that with Kayla because I had a former porn star on my show, and you should definitely watch that episode, and she transformed her life.
	She has kids, she's married, and she just came to her faith, and it was a really interesting conversation to talk about, you know, the industry, same thing, drug addiction, everything, and then she just gave up her life to God and, you know, met somebody at church who just wanted to know more about her.
	She was very open about You know, her life and where she came from.
	And now she has like three kids.
	You know, she's been married to him for years.
	And what brought them together was faith.
	And I think that it is such a strong tenet and people turn away from it so much.
	But what God can do in your life when you give up your life to God, I've seen it happen.
	If you want to see a miracle, turn to faith.
	Wow.
	And I want that for you, by the way.
	Thank you.
	I'm going to pray for you, Kayla.
	Thank you.
	Just hopefully she don't go back.
	Okay.
	She won't.
	She's been sober for three years.
	She's got this.
	I believe in you.
	Thank you.
	Sorry?
	What advice do you have for young women who turn to OnlyFans for solely financial reasons?
	What else could they do for money?
	Literally anything else you're not gonna have a life of comfort you're not gonna have a life of like whatever you see on Instagram I mean I slept on friends couches I actually had a friend ironically in Miami who like we were best friends all through high school went to a club one night and Our luck somehow ended up with meeting Wyclef and Lil Wayne, and she just turned the whole life.
	And I remember I was so broke, and she was living in a condo in Miami.
	We were in our early 20s.
	I was visiting her coming from school, and she gave up school, sleeping with everybody.
	Drake, da-da-da-da-da.
	But she was living in like, imagine I'm like 20 years old, and I was 19, I think, and she was living.
	She had so much, you know?
	Where's she at now?
	Well, I'm going to update you on her story real quick.
	And she was so innocent, but then she just was effing everybody and every rapper was paying for her.
	And I remember vividly crying on the phone with my friend named Devin.
	And I was just like, it's so unfair.
	She has everything.
	It's like, of only I just slept with this guy.
	Like, I could have everything that he has.
	And he said, Candace, if you think that in 10 years your life is not going to be better than hers, you're out of your mind.
	Mm-hmm.
	I promise you, stop being friends with her after I just couldn't look at her, do this to her life anymore.
	And 10 years later, almost to the day, I was with Charlie Kirk.
	We walked into the Four Seasons Hotel in Los Angeles and she was the hostess.
	Wow, working.
	Oh, shit.
	So it's, you know, you make a deal with the devil.
	Who recognized you first?
	We were literally best friends.
	You know, like, inseparable sisters.
	And, like, the temptation, the money, the whatever, from that one night...
	And she threw herself at the rappers, too.
	It wasn't like it was Wyclef Jean.
	It wasn't like he was being...
	She threw herself at him.
	Whole thing.
	And it was wild.
	And actually, funny enough, then I went and started working out of school.
	I was working in private equity.
	And my boss got married, and he wanted to get Wyclef Jean.
	So I hadn't seen Wyclef Jean.
	And then I saw him, and he said to me, I'll never forget this, in the elevator, I am so proud of you for where you ended up in life.
	Because he just knew that I was the friend that said no.
	She was a friend that said yes.
	And so when I say this stuff to women, I understand how easy it is and I understand how hard it is to get off your feet.
	And I was the person crying, being like, oh my god, it could be so easy.
	But I'm telling you, it's just not worth it.
	It's not worth it.
	The person that you can attract, there's just so much more to life.
	I want all of you guys to just hear that message and know that you just don't have to live in the fast lane.
	Live in the slow lane.
	Isn't that crazy?
	We need to clip that and send that to every girl that's 21 that wants to be a bottle rat and do all this 304 shit.
	By the way, we had a girl on the show from Brazil.
	Remember, she was considering OnlyFans?
	Well, guess what?
	She did it.
	She made one.
	I wish she was here to hear that conversation.
	Because she made her OnlyFans like two days ago.
	Being broken, it feels so permanent when you're By the way, her friend told me.
	That's all I know.
	Sorry, you were saying again?
	When you're broke and you're in it, it feels like, how am I ever going to get out of this?
	But I also tell people, because my faith is intact, that looking in the retrospect, every single challenge that God gives you, He picks you uniquely for those challenges.
	You know what I mean?
	And I'm so grateful for being broke.
	I'm so grateful for when I was sleeping in my car, sleeping on someone's couch, sleeping in someone's closet, just trying to stay alive in New York.
	Because I know that it was like his perfect design to have me go through those experiences because there was something bigger at the end of that where like now I can speak with authority when I'm like talking to Destiny and he's like, are you lying about being poor?
	It was the dumbest question I've ever had.
	It was so dumb.
	But I can speak with authority because I've been there.
	You know, I'm not saying this.
	I think I'm better than you.
	Like I know what options face a woman when they're young, you know, but don't don't do a deal with the devil.
	I love that you said there's a choice because there's a choice.
	Women choose some of these bad choices.
	Okay, what's your advice for a young married woman?
	Don't read that.
	That looks really bad.
	I wrote that.
	Trust me, I'm having a hard time with these.
	Who wants to keep her marriage strong?
	Put faith in the center of your marriage.
	Honor him.
	Respect him.
	It's so funny because I'm such a bull in...
	People think of me as such a bull in the media, but the only person I listen to is my husband.
	like he's the only person that can get me to change my mind or see a different perspective, you know, and it's just because of the deep respect that I have for him.
	Like I just would never, um, like he leads, let men lead would be another thing.
	Like that's men like to lead and the right man.
	Yeah.
	Well, no, I wouldn't be in a situation where I would want to lead a man.
	Like, does it feel right?
	Does it make me comfortable?
	Like let him lead, you know?
	I just, um, I always followed you and, um, your, your presence in general, because I did know that you came from a similar, not a similar situation, but I do know you came from like a hard situation and I came from a hard situation.
	You know, I grew up, I was homeless until I was 13, 14 years old.
	I was, you know, whatever.
	And so that's why I took so much from you and everything you say, which is why I wanted to ask you that question, because I did notice, even though you don't talk a lot about being married, I do notice that there is a ring on your finger and you carry yourself in the presence of a woman who is satisfied and happy and accomplished in life.
	And I just want to know, like, what can I do to be that?
	What can I do to be for my husband, that woman that I feel like you are for me?
	And that might sound kind of creepy or a little bit weird.
	I think, honestly, it's all about honor and respect, and it seems crazy to say this, but the Bible, man, you read it and you're just like, man, this had to have been written by God, because it just works, and it talks about that, about letting men lead, and people have Sadly, over the years, just made that seem like it was something that was bad, you know, by pretending it meant like, oh, women are serving husbands and, you know, and they're miserable and things of that nature.
	But when you pervert the word, when you just pervert the word, period, your life kind of becomes perversion, you know?
	And so I think just, you know, respect yourself, obviously, but respect your husband and honor him.
	And I would...
	What did you say, Chris?
	I would...
	He likes my titties, actually.
	He's watching this.
	I'm pretty sure he's going to watch this.
	And then he's probably going to...
	That's fine.
	Only one of them put a ring on my finger.
	So that's the only person I care about.
	That's it.
	As long as he's okay with my outfit, then everybody else should be okay because he stood at an altar and vowed to me before God.
	All right, just go to the next question.
	Okay, I would say good question, but that's about it.
	Okay, next one.
	What is the best advice you give to a woman in her 20s?
	Me.
	What was that?
	That was you?
	That was me.
	Cool.
	My best advice to give to women in their 20s is to know...
	I'm coming to their 30s.
	...is to know that the 30s are better.
	Okay.
	Because I think that, like, when you're in something, again, like, if there seems like there's such permanence, and I hated my 20s, because it was nothing but anxiety.
	Yeah.
	I don't have any money.
	I don't have a husband.
	I don't have anybody in trust.
	It's like, it's just the most anxiety.
	Like, it's sold to you.
	Like, you're going to be so free.
	It's like...
	Freedom, that kind of freedom.
	It just sucks.
	The best chapter for me has been my 30s.
	I love it.
	I absolutely am loving the 30s.
	I know who I am.
	I know who I'm not.
	I have a man, a family, and finally the 30s felt like a big egg sale.
	I'm sorry.
	Let me just add a part two to my question.
	What kept you going in your 20s?
	Because like you said, you've been through a lot of stuff.
	And this is stuff that I'm also learning about.
	I'm sorry.
	This is also stuff I'm also learning about you just from seeing you and stuff.
	But what kept you going?
	What kept you motivated to keep on going in your career path?
	Yeah, you know...
	I think honestly it was just me being stubborn because there were definitely moments and I do wonder like what I don't know I really don't know like when I had those moments like why I kept going I think I think I probably started with a chip on my shoulder you know like just to prove that I could do it and I could be something different like having a mom that didn't graduate high school like a dad and feeling like every bet was against me so it probably started with a little bit of a chip on my shoulder and just wanting to prove the world wrong That damn Kanye song, right?
	It effed me up.
	I have Kanye trauma.
	But yeah, I mean, I think I was motivated just to prove people wrong, to prove the statistics wrong.
	And then, you know, I don't know, I just kept wanting to climb.
	I just never let go of that, like, I want to do this, I want to get out of debt, I want to do this, like, what else can I do?
	And I was always looking for an opportunity, always, like, making friends and, you know, willing to work harder.
	Like, I always knew, like, I'm going to outwork you, you know?
	So if it's between you and me, they're keeping me, you know what I mean?
	Thanks.
	Thank you so much.
	You're welcome.
	Because you said 30s are better.
	Would you say being a mom and having a husband is the largest component as to why the 30s is better?
	Because I guess that pressure to find a husband that you love and mind and respect and having a family, would you say that's the largest component as to your fulfillment in your 30s?
	What I would say is, I'm speaking specifically for women.
	I actually do think it is harder being a woman when you're growing up.
	There's just so much you've got to deal with.
	Am I going to get boobs?
	It's just so much.
	A lot of distractions.
	Yeah, just everything.
	Being a young woman, it's very anxiety-inducing where you're just like, I don't know what I'm doing.
	Also, society's pushing you to do things that you don't actually naturally biologically want.
	Right?
	Be like a man.
	Climb the ladder.
	Like it's just like what's being blared at you that you have to do is actually not your natural inclination of what you would want to do or like it is like the message that's blaring is counter to women really.
	So feminism just is making us even more anxious because we're doing jobs that we don't even want to effing do.
	But we're like we got to be bad just like men.
	And so I think that the best part of that Is, like I said, the exhale and being able to release it because, and this is again, if you do, you know, get married and establish and go back to tradition and stop fighting your biology and realize that like actually everything you were sold in school and through the media is a lie and it's counter to what's actually going to make you happy.
	And when you recognize that and you pursue tradition and honor and respect, like I was just like, Oh my gosh, I made it.
	Because you know why?
	I have a family.
	I have my family.
	I am loved unconditionally.
	And so you lost, world.
	I found it interesting because you mentioned that earlier that you have two sons and you have a husband.
	And then Fresh asked you, how do you deal with the hate?
	And you were like...
	Hey, fuck of a fuck?
	I got a family at home, I got that stable rock.
	And I think if more women had that, they wouldn't care about social media so much.
	They wouldn't care about what their friends think.
	They wouldn't care about all these distractions that come into a woman's life that kind of take their mind off of what's very important.
	And I found that very interesting, because if we asked the male influencer that maybe, that he didn't have a family, they'd care.
	They'd be like, oh, my image, my status, whatever.
	But for a woman, it's like, I got a family, I don't give a fuck.
	Right.
	So, I find it very interesting.
	By the way, Chris from Rumble one more time says, 50K everyone, thank you Candice for doing the show.
	51K. Shout out to Rumble, man.
	Wow.
	50K live viewers, 51 and climbing.
	Wow.
	That's amazing.
	All right.
	A lot of people watching.
	We're going to wrap it up soon because Candice has to go.
	Do you plan to pursue public office and or presidency?
	At all.
	You know, I never say never, but what I will say is that, like, I love my life in the home, and I just don't see why I would invite that kind of chaos unless I really felt like, oh, my country needs me, and there's nobody else, and this is a sacrifice.
	But I think people that want that, like, you have to be a certain kind of person and probably not a great person.
	If you, like, wake up and you're like, I just want to be the president, like, it's like, I don't know if that's, like, a good person, like, personality-wise.
	I'd love for you.
	Thank you.
	Me too.
	Right now I'm just running behind toddlers, I promise you.
	Thank you.
	Alright, we'll do one more.
	I know who this is from.
	Would you ever do celebrity boxing at all?
	Wait, who's from Brush?
	Of course!
	I would not do celebrity box.
	Oh, you know what?
	Actually, it depends.
	Because there's a few celebrities I like to box.
	Okay.
	So, did you say Nicki?
	Who would you fight for celebrity?
	I'll tell you who's number one on the hit list.
	Zelensky.
	I'll punch Zelensky straight in his face.
	The money you are taking from Americans right now, dude, Zelensky can get it, okay?
	And I would definitively whoop his ass.
	Like, he's just, I mean, like, just like the audacity.
	He's a small guy.
	Like, just, yeah, he's obviously a small guy.
	And the audacity to keep demanding that we all go to work to support whatever he's doing in his little corrupt circle.
	He's the most punchable face I've ever seen.
	So it would be Zelensky.
	What about a girl?
	I don't feel like there's any girl that I feel like I dislike enough that I want to...
	It's usually people that are just like lying to the American people and I'm just like, ooh, I just want to punch you.
	I don't think...
	Is there a girl that I have beef with?
	A rapper?
	No, like it's not even...
	There's no rapper that I feel...
	It could be any other public figure or anything like that.
	Like, I have hope.
	I always say I have hope for Cardi B. Like, I want her to, like, just change.
	Like, stop rapping about her vagina, you know?
	Like, you made it.
	You don't have to do that.
	Stop rapping about that.
	Like, is she?
	I served her.
	I actually served her twice.
	She's so mean.
	Oh, no.
	There is no hopeless.
	Cardi B versus Candace Owens, 2025.
	I can't right now stop my head thinking of any woman that I reserve that kind of ire for at the moment.
	But Zelensky, dude?
	He gets it.
	No, I agree with you on that one, man.
	You've stolen so much money from us.
	Cool.
	So...
	We have chats or no?
	Yeah, we can read the chats and we're going to close this out because Ken has got to go, guys.
	She's had a long day.
	She had to debate Destiny earlier.
	That's the past.
	It wasn't even a debate.
	He was just debating himself.
	Yeah.
	He was just going in circles and debating weird things where I'm like, out of state tuition is 30k.
	He's like, no it's not.
	It's gonna be contrarian.
	Let me look it up.
	And he's like, it's 30k.
	And then he was like, oh, well, that's just out of state.
	And I'm like, that's what I said.
	I think you're talking so fast you can't even hear yourself.
	And you're keep moving.
	What are you even debating?
	Do you really care this much about the price of out of state tuition?
	I asked him, I said, were you actually- He's a professional contrarian.
	Yeah, all you're just doing is whatever someone says, you say the opposite like a chat GPT. I'm like, it's raining.
	He's like, it's actually, it could be snowing if you're sitting outside.
	I'm like, okay, what do you, is that anything to you?
	Like, have some substance.
	You know, you're a 35-year-old man.
	I respect Destiny.
	I get along with him, but he's definitely a professional contrarian.
	I've told him this a million times.
	You argue to argue, Destiny, goddammit.
	And if he was 20, I'd be fine with it.
	But I'm just like, you're a 35-year-old man, dude.
	Like, believe something.
	I don't even care if something I disagree with.
	Say it with some hair on your chest.
	Get out of this outfit that you're wearing, dyeing your hair.
	This is not 35-year-old man shit, you know what I mean?
	It didn't end well.
	I think he got pretty upset, but I just...
	I wish him well.
	I want everybody to find substance in their life, but at 35 as a grown man, two marriages, open marriages, it's like, you just...
	No, I'm not even trying to disrespect him.
	It's just a fact.
	That's a Wikipedia page fact.
	You know?
	And it's like...
	People don't follow people and don't listen to people whose lives you wouldn't want.
	That's what I would say to everybody.
	And he plays to young people who just want somebody to reinforce their bad ideas.
	And I'm never going to do that.
	Because he did comment on me doing something like this.
	And was like, just defending people that had bad lifestyles.
	And I'm like, why would you want girls to have a bad lifestyle?
	You're pretending that I'm the monster.
	I'm sitting across from these people saying, like, you're worth more.
	You can do better.
	No matter what you've done, your life can change.
	Don't do this.
	And you think you're the hero for being like...
	Oh, Candice doesn't understand.
	Maybe these girls is what they want.
	It's like, no, you're a predator in my book.
	Like, you know that this isn't going to be how women, like, it's not going to fulfill their lives in a positive way.
	So, anyways, that was a little sidebar just to, like, say don't follow people that are just being contrarian.
	Like, make sure they actually are giving you some substance.
	I will say this.
	I've made jokes.
	I say, you know, women shouldn't be in leadership roles.
	They shouldn't be in politics.
	But I will make one exception.
	I think, Candace, you need to do something in the political world because more women need to hear your message.
	And the reality is, unfortunately, men, we can't get through to women the same way.
	We speak in a certain way where just even before you're able to interpret what I said, you're able to interpret what she said, and you're able to marry the two and let her be happy, whatever may be.
	And I think it's very important that there's a female voice that has some logic and reason, etc.
	And women, a lot of times, don't want to hear what we've got to say.
	We need someone that can speak to them, and I think you should really think about getting into office.
	And also, as men...
	I genuinely mean that.
	I'm very serious.
	We respect your opinion, which is crazy.
	Yeah, like...
	If I disrespect men, I'm like, we're different.
	And I think so much women are trying to change men or to tell men that they're not good.
	I'm like, why are we doing that?
	Like, let men be men, you know?
	Yeah.
	Yeah, I think your message needs to get out there to women because they'll listen to you before they listen to us, honestly.
	And I think you'll be able to reach way more women, I think, from a political standpoint.
	Yeah, we can.
	You need to get in there.
	You need to get in there.
	That's why I asked that question.
	What's something you never notice about yourself until someone else told you IRS? Me?
	For me?
	Is that for me?
	I can answer.
	My cousins, dude, they always diss me the whole time, and one of my cousins told me I look a little like the alien emoji, and I can't unsee it.
	What the?
	She did.
	Cousins are so rude.
	And I'm like, I do kind of like the alien emoji, actually.
	It's weird.
	Fresh Smooth.
	What is a creature next to Fresh?
	Anyways, rating from the couch.
	Goddamn, y'all are assholes.
	Hat Hooligan 1.
	Alexa 6.
	Rating from Fresh.
	Leprechaun 2.
	Pain and Gain 1.
	You Let Him Hit It Raw 2.
	Goddamn.
	Burnt Animal 3.
	Unpaid Candace 4.
	Jehovah Windus 4, LaQuisha 2, Plastic Face 3.
	Goddamn it, there's some assholes.
	How high did the rating systems go?
	1 out of 10.
	God, I was only a 4?
	No, no, no, they didn't rate you.
	Major shout out to the Classy Natelja Candice O being on Fresh and Fit.
	I totally love reading your book, Blackout.
	Are you working on another book anytime in the future?
	Yes, I'm actually in the edits for my second book and it's for women.
	Boom.
	Well, it's for women and men, but it's about everything we're talking about right now, so that's cool.
	Like, I wish there were more women.
	Like, what do we got?
	Sexy Red, Cardi B. Like, these are the women that women look up to.
	Kim Kardashian.
	Like, we need more women that are telling the truth.
	Like, this is what you need to fucking prioritize.
	This is what you need to do.
	This is what you should be valuing.
	This is what's going to bring you real happiness.
	Feminism is a lie.
	They ain't going to listen to me when I say it.
	They're just not.
	So, yeah.
	Lord Gaines.
	For the woman that told her sob story, you act like you're...
	Here to share your story when in reality you are here with no bra trying to promote your OnlyFans.
	This is why the trad life doesn't work in 2024.
	Can't save hoes more than a body stat.
	Goddamn, nigga.
	Ouch.
	I'm against bras.
	I don't think women should wear bras anyway.
	I agree.
	Okay.
	How many more do we got, guys?
	Candace, if you gotta go, we can...
	That's okay, I'll let you get into your questions.
	It's gonna be an extra five minutes.
	Okay, I'll fly through these then.
	Big things, Juan goes, fellas, Candace, this is the one of the best ones I've seen.
	Also, this is the most cat panel I've ever seen.
	For Miss 18-year-old, please don't follow these women.
	There's still hope for you.
	you a big FNF.
	Chris, you look like Terrence Howard.
	Actually, I can kind of see it.
	No one say they roast us too.
	Go Get It goes, hey, shout out to FNF and your guest star.
	Question for the panel, would you rather have 100% of $100 or 10% of $100,000 in the realm of stocks?
	Come on, man.
	I'll ask that one in the next one.
	The Sim Police Academy goes, Candice Hot Gal Owens, please give these delusional glorified mattress actresses that work shoddy respectfully.
	I think she did it in a way that they'll be able to take it out. - Eloquent way, eloquently.
	Much nicer than me.
	You know, it doesn't work when I call them bimbos.
	It's much better when Candace does it.
	Bender the Offender, ladies, do you think the average woman in America respects an average blue-collar man as marriage material?
	No.
	No, and I think that's because of their brains have been warped by Instagram.
	Yep.
	I want to see you.
	Not necessarily.
	I want a regular guy.
	You told us you didn't want a guy.
	You said you just wanted us to be a star.
	Oh my God.
	You know.
	Okay.
	Regular guy, 5'8", 50K per year.
	Can you do that?
	That's a regular nigga?
	Okay, not 5'8".
	Okay, that's a regular nigga.
	Six feet and up.
	Six feet and up.
	It's like two inches.
	I want tall kids.
	Bro, six feet is like...
	Cream of the crop.
	Literally, like 10% of the U.S. population.
	I'm raising the next D1 athletes.
	I need to be six feet.
	Alright, guys, please do not submit any more chats.
	Yeah, no more, guys.
	Nail, Candace, why...
	No, bro, different rules for today.
	Nail.
	Oh, she married my bad.
	Never mind.
	Navy in pink outfit.
	Hit me up?
	Oh, the 18-year-old.
	Okay.
	You just...
	Bruh.
	She spit on you?
	Horse labor.
	Oh, shit.
	I'm sorry, excuse me?
	You just spit on me, dude.
	What'd you say?
	No, what'd you say?
	Horse saliva?
	He's joking.
	You want me to say it again?
	No, I was just asking.
	I just wanted to confirm what you said.
	Alright, man.
	Keep going.
	Go Main Street.
	This is the moment.
	Gird your loins.
	Let's go.
	Okay.
	From Bruce B. Shout out to you.
	And then, John FNF two years ago, I've never made above 34K a year.
	Credit line, credit score under 500.
	I'm 26 now.
	I'm making 90K per year.
	Credit score over 700.
	Good stuff, down, dude.
	Down 55 pounds and my life is improving exponentially.
	Yes, that's what it's about.
	Yep.
	My son has a father that is able to properly raise us for him because of this podcast.
	I can never thank you two enough for the value that you bring to your audience.
	You two truly saved my life.
	And because of you, I gave my son something.
	I never had a strong and present father, WF9. W, bro.
	Good job with that.
	Thank you so much, man.
	Good job, bro.
	Spring and summer is officially amongst us, ninjas.
	Stay cool out there and keep chasing the bag.
	You three or four is better.
	Keep your spoiled ass sperm infested roast beef box in the house.
	Goddamn!
	I'm not be outside time this summer.
	This nigga could put you next to a slushie.
	Hey, that was actually a fire ass photo.
	I love that.
	Goddamn.
	Alright, OF Ladies, would you rather have only fans that make 200k a month or a YouTube channel earning the same amount, exact amount?
	And which do you think society would respect more?
	YouTube, duh.
	Wait, wait, wait.
	What is that?
	That's me in Finland, right?
	Jackie, yes sir!
	Jackie, let's go!
	Anything else?
	How many more?
	Ten more.
	All right, she literally said, I love a man, all that, if I really like him or attracted to him like that.
	But bro, just want to love back.
	And she said, nah, nigga, I ain't your mom's.
	I don't like him like that, God damn it.
	Sienna, what are you doing after the show?
	Fresh would like to take you out for dinner, then club and back to the crib for fun time.
	Who's Sienna again?
	Me.
	No, don't mind him.
	All right, continue on.
	The first ball is always trying to get fresh later.
	Glad to see Candace on the show.
	Was dope meeting you for the first time.
	YBLS back in 2018 when we met.
	Spoke with the Trump at the White House.
	Great memories.
	W Club.
	Damn.
	Candace, were you or Daily Wire took any part of the leaked video of Steven Crowder's argument with his wife?
	That's one of the wildest things ever.
	Somehow there are people on the internet that think that I leaked.
	How the hell would I have Steven Crowder's ring camera footage?
	Yeah.
	It was leaked by that journalist, Yashar Ali, who I've never spoken to in my entire life.
	The internet, the way that they come up with conspiracies, I'm just like, what are you talking about?
	Just because I called him out on it and said this dude's a monster after he attacked us doesn't mean that I got access to his ring camera.
	Yeah, his wife leaked it.
	Yeah, y'all know that.
	You guys know the wife leaked it.
	She edited it, too.
	What else do we got here?
	Watching for almost two years, up and everything, WFreshFit Crew.
	Love seeing dumb 304s get humbled.
	There's women in the world.
	Worth effort, but most are not.
	Buy my own book.
	Okay.
	Get some knowledge.
	They hear you, Candice, but they ain't going to listen.
	We'll see.
	I don't know.
	Hey, I think some of the girls here might actually maybe listen.
	They might not listen to me, but from another woman, maybe.
	The Muslims love you, Candice.
	Watched you since day one also.
	Oh, man.
	I guess they rock with you.
	We caught up?
	Okay.
	Cool.
	Guys, I hope you enjoyed today's episode, man.
	This was awesome.
	Thank you so much for sharing your story.
	I love that.
	We can invite you.
	Yeah, we got almost 50,000 people watching.
	Please.
	Follow me on Candace Owen's podcast, which is on YouTube, so you can just hit the subscribe button, and then other than that, I'm all over the internet.
	I think we've been trending, like I said, so we just went after Rabbi Shmueli today.
	Monster.
	Yet again.
	Yeah, exactly.
	Yeah, fuck Rabbi Shmueli.
	Yeah.
	Guys, check out Candice on everything, man.
	Check her out.
	I rock with her, so you guys already know her content's solid, man.
	We need someone like her in politics to lead the young women and keep them from astray from all the bullshit.
	We'll catch you guys on the next episode of Fresh and Fit, man.
	On Monday, we're going to have Jake Shields.
	We'll catch you guys.
	Peace!

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