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And Chris, without further ado...
Yo, chat, we got eight new girls tonight.
It's Wednesday, you know, tonight is Sober Chris, hashtag.
And yeah, ladies, Aaron C. Boxer on IG, make sure when you send me DM, please, you know, send me nice and precise.
And if you get frontcastled, please don't send me a three-paragraph reason why we ain't shit on our, you know, website.
Like, Dewell tagged me in my podcast in a message, and I left a group chat, and she's like, oh, you're a bitch.
You can't handle this.
You're insecure.
I'm like, bro, I just left a group chat, man.
What the fuck?
I ain't read shit.
But anyways, chat, man, keep doing you.
Wait, she made that post because you left a group chat?
No, no.
Yeah, yeah.
No, well, she DMed.
She tagged everybody in the group, me, you, and Fresh, in the podcast.
Okay.
On Instagram?
Yeah, on Instagram.
Which chick?
Dewell.
We had a girl on the other day that was huge, and then when we pulled up her Instagram, she didn't look like her photos, pretty much.
And she goes to the beach.
Wait, what?
She goes to the beach.
So anyways, ladies, Aaron C. Poxon on IG, and guys, follow me on my socials, you know, and let's make it happen.
YouTube and everything.
Let's get me to 1K tonight.
ACP Gaming.
Aaron C. Poxon, right?
ACP Gaming.
Oh, ACP Gaming.
Okay.
Yeah, it's Aaron Chris Poxon.
Always chewing peanut butter.
Yeah, but wait, hold on.
You only play Fortnite on there, right?
I played Left 4 Dead last night.
League of Legends.
Oh, Chris!
I'm actually going to join you, bro.
I downloaded LOL. Hey, let's get it, man.
Yeah, let's get it, man.
League of Legends.
All right.
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Alright, cool.
No further ado.
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Ladies, if you don't mind, give us your name, your age, what you do for a living, dating status, and if you want to, of course, we're going to start right here.
Welcome to the show.
Name age we do for living.
Okay.
My name is Cindy.
I'm a part-time nanny and a part-time student.
I am 24 years old.
Where are you from?
I was born in Haiti, but I am currently...
Yes, sir!
Hey!
Hey!
I currently live in Highlandale and my, you said body count?
My body count is one.
Hundred?
No, just one and I'm still with him.
One thousand?
No, I lost my virginity to my boyfriend.
You said you're a nanny and a student, so you're in college right now?
Yes, I'm going back.
I'm actually in the process of going back.
I'm still waiting on my FAFSA. What are you majoring in?
I'm going to do major in early child education, and I'm also going to get a certificate in surgical technologist?
I don't know.
So you're in college right now?
Yes.
Do you want to drop where you go to school?
You don't have to if you don't want to.
Do I what?
Do you want to drop where you go to school?
You don't have to if you don't want to.
I don't.
Okay.
And then you said your relationship status, your inner relationship.
How long y'all been together?
We just celebrated our fifth year.
Okay.
Get it.
Okay, so high school, sweethearts.
Yeah.
I'm guessing you guys met in high school?
We didn't go to the same high school, but yeah, we did meet.
Okay.
Wait, so you were virgin until 22?
I was a virgin until 19.
You said you're 27?
She's 24.
I'm 24 years old.
Oh, 24, okay.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
And then, are your parents still together?
No, they're divorced.
Okay.
And then, for us, your favorite question.
Are you on birth control?
No.
Okay.
All right.
Kids on the way.
All right.
All right.
What about you?
What's your name?
My name is Danielle Cohen, also known as Danielle Pitbull.
I'm 27 years old.
Okay, where are you from?
I'm from Broward County, Florida.
My mom was born and raised in Cuba, and my dad was from New York, so I am Cuban, but I do not speak any Spanish.
Your last name is Cohen, though?
Cohen, from my dad's side.
There's a word we can't say, but everyone knows.
Sound check, sound check.
We know the last name, what that means.
It means money bags.
What does he do?
My dad actually passed away, but he was an accountant.
He was a CPA, so not only was he an accountant, he was managing a whole company.
What do you do for work?
I'm a professional fighter.
I'm a professional fighter, but in between fights, I work security, private security, as well as I'm a volunteer at a dog shelter.
That's where I know you're from.
Private security?
Do you even lift, bro?
What discipline of martial arts do you practice?
Because you said you're a professional fighter, right?
Are you a boxer?
Are you MMA? I do both.
So my pro debut was for Gamebred.
So that was Gamebred Boxing with the gloves on.
So Jorge Masvidal's promotion.
I was up in the Milwaukee Bucks Arena.
This was on the Roy Jones Jr.
undercard.
Okay, so it was boxing?
Yes, that was boxing.
But I also do, right now I'm at American Top Team training full-time MMA camp.
Jiu-Jitsu as well?
Jiu-Jitsu, yes.
Wrestling, Mako Mondays.
So I wrestle, I do Jiu-Jitsu, I do kickboxing, I do boxing, I do everything.
So I have to learn all the languages of fighting in order to do MMA. Of course.
You know what I want to see?
Your specialty is boxing originally?
Specialty is going to be boxing.
I want to see your Spartacus Nico.
That's what I want to see.
Okay, highest education level completed?
I have my bachelor's degree from Florida Atlantic University, from the College of Business and Management, and my minor is in Business Law, and I was also the Vice President of Public Relations in Toastmasters Club.
Toastmasters, that's good.
I'm currently single, technically, but I do have a valentine, so I'm dating someone right now.
It's new.
I'm excited.
Technically, no labels yet, but I am excited for this one.
Is he, I'm assuming, a fighter as well, or...?
Correct.
It's really hard to date out of the industry.
I've tried.
And as you know, as a podcaster, as someone in the industry, it's hard to date outside of your lane if they don't get it.
I know you've talked about sometimes you need someone to not be in the spotlight, but I've tried that and it just makes it worse.
So it's easier and it's more fun than when someone understands.
If I can't answer you for six hours because I'm in the gym, I'm actually in the gym.
It is what it is.
I notice with women, it's difficult for them to not get a guy in their profession or at their level.
Like, if a chick is famous, she can't really date a guy that isn't famous.
Correct.
It just goes the same way.
All right, parents.
Oh, well, you said they were together before he passed, right?
He passed in 2020, so.
Okay.
Sorry about that.
Thank you, thank you.
But they were married.
Okay.
Correct.
And then, first favorite question.
Are you on birth control?
Birth control.
Can't.
With a weight cut, oh my goodness.
With a fire weight cut, it's very hard.
So I was, and then I had to get off of it when I started training hard because your body actually goes in through.
So you're Cuban and Jewish, basically.
We can't say the words.
It's your background.
Did you have something?
Yeah, body count.
Okay.
I ain't answering that.
How many bodies in the ring and out the ring?
What about you?
My name is Maisha.
Hey y'all!
Maisha?
Yes, Maisha.
How old are you?
I'm 19.
Okay, where are you from?
Hollywood, Florida.
Okay!
Hollywood in the building?
Oh, she's next to me.
Okay.
What do you do for work?
I'm a hairstylist.
I do braids, ponytails.
Okay.
Highest education level completed?
Diploma.
Okay.
Hold on.
You do your own hair?
Yeah.
What do you call that?
Lace wig.
Cool.
Alright.
You look good.
Thank you.
Relationship status?
I'm single.
Okay.
Are your parents still together?
No, not anymore.
Divorced?
No, just split.
Okay.
And then, birth control?
No.
Alright.
And what's your racial background?
Italian and black.
Okay.
Who's white, your mom or your dad?
Yeah, my dad's black, but my mom is mixed.
Okay.
Is she black and white?
Mixed with Italian, yeah.
Okay, so she's Italian and black.
Yeah.
Forget about it!
What about you?
My name is Daphne.
I'm not a furry, but I feel like it's easy to say like, oh, the furry pointing to me.
That's okay.
I just like my cat ears.
I think they're cute.
I think my makeup's cute.
I know it's weird and everyone...
Hates it.
I know that.
It's okay.
I know it's weird.
I like it.
I don't know.
I know it's weird.
I like it.
Thank you.
You're adorable.
So we're weird together.
Daphne.
Yes.
Didn't the character Daphne wear purple in the show Scooby-Doo as well?
Scooby-Doo.
Yeah, she did.
Yeah, she did.
Okay, so what are you cosplaying as right now then?
Uh, nothing.
I just do my makeup weird and I wear my little ears.
Diva.
From Overwatch.
Diva, right?
I don't think she knows who...
She don't know who it is, but I'm saying we know who it is.
Okay.
Uh, okay.
How old are you?
I'm 24.
Where are you from?
I'm from New Orleans.
Okay.
Do you live in Miami now or just visiting?
No, this is my first time in Miami, actually.
Okay, so you're just visiting.
Mm-hmm.
Yes.
What do you do for work?
I'm an OnlyFans creator.
She belongs to the street!
Nerf this!
If you couldn't tell.
Nerf this!
Okay.
Highest education level completed?
High school.
Okay.
And then, relationship status?
I'm single.
Okay.
Are your parents still together?
No, I don't talk to them.
At all?
Not really, no.
Was OnlyFans a reason why they stopped talking to you or you stopped talking to them?
Why specifically?
I don't know.
I just grew up and got really distant and I'm okay with that.
Not a sob story.
I'm fine.
So it's not that...
Is it you don't talk to them because you just don't reach out or is it like you guys don't talk because you guys have a standoff of some kind?
A little bit of both, I guess.
But it's not like...
Did it have to do OnlyFans or what was the reason?
No?
We just kind of stopped.
Okay.
Birth control?
No.
No?
No.
I don't take any medicine.
What's your racial background?
I'm a little bit of...
White?
Well, yeah.
White.
Okay.
Yes, I'm white.
All right.
What about you?
Hey y'all!
You said Paige?
Paige, yes.
Okay, how old are you?
I'm 20 years old.
Okay, where are you from?
Jamaica, but I live in Turks and Caicos Valley.
Why TCI specifically?
Well, that's where my mom moved my brother and I to to get a better living.
Okay, then Jamaica?
Yes.
Okay.
Alright, so you're here on vacation?
Yes, I am.
Okay.
I'm heading to Jamaica tomorrow.
Okay.
Yeah.
Okay.
What do you do for work?
My mom and I own a medical aesthetic spa in Turks and Caicos.
It's called the Lyft Aesthetic Spa.
We do Botox fillers, all that.
Nice.
Pulling up.
Highest education level completed?
For now, diploma in high school.
I am going back to school this year for nursing in Houston.
Wait, nurse?
Yes.
Are your parents still together?
My dad died when I was nine.
So your mom is widowed?
That's not funny, man.
My mom is remarried.
Remarried?
Okay.
Yes, and they are still together.
Ten years plus.
Okay.
Are you single or relationship?
I'm in a relationship.
Okay.
How long have y'all been together?
A while.
I can't really give a date till tomorrow.
It's been that long.
Till tomorrow.
What does that mean?
Tomorrow's the anniversary?
No, tomorrow's when we talk about it.
Oh.
You're single!
No, I'm in a relationship.
I don't want to be single, but you know...
Did he ask you to be his girlfriend?
Yeah, I'm in the process of moving though, so it's like I'm not really trying to do the whole timey thing.
Wait, so when did he ask you to be his girlfriend?
My sister.
My sister!
My sister Organizing things.
See, even the girls are confused.
No, the thing is, like, it was me, but I just don't want to say it right now.
Got it.
Okay, keeping things private, that's fine.
Right.
Private but not a secret.
So you're single.
Private but not a secret.
If a man approaches you, you're wedded.
Are you interested?
I'm going to say, next page gal.
What is your name, baby?
It's the next page, next chapter.
Okay, I think you could make your assumptions off of that one.
Okay, you said you're a parent.
Okay, are you on birth control?
No, I am not.
Okay.
You want kids?
I do want kids after marriage.
How many do you want?
I want three kids.
I want two boys and one girl.
Hopefully the boys come first.
Listen, I am a boy mom at heart.
My boys will be fresh and fit, okay?
Okay!
Okay!
I'm going first, nigga.
You said you were born in Jamaica, right?
Yes.
So you're a Jamaican citizen.
Do you have like an American citizenship too or no?
No, I'm Turks and Caicos, British citizen as well.
I was going to say, okay.
All right.
So I was wondering, like, she's got to have dual citizenship of some kind.
Alright, so you carry a Jamaican and a British passport.
Right.
And Turks and Caicos.
Bless up.
I'm going to go ahead and get the rest of the UK. I want to get the full...
European passport?
Yes.
So TCI has their own passport?
I thought it was a British passport.
We have our own passport.
However, we are British territories, so we are able to get the other...
Like Barbados?
Passports as well.
It's very similar.
Okay.
So you have a TCI passport, but when you have a TCI passport, you can get a British one.
I have a TCI and a British passport, yes.
And Jamaican passport, yes.
Okay.
Yeah, man.
All right.
Cool.
Okay.
What about you?
My name is Taz.
I'm 29.
Taz?
Taz.
T-A-Z-Z. Yeah.
Okay.
How old are you?
29.
29.
And then where are you from?
Broward.
Broward County.
Broward?
What town in Broward?
I grew up in Cooper City.
That's a good area.
You said Broward too.
What?
Fort Lauderdale?
Sunrise.
That's a good area too.
Is Sunrise not Fort Lauderdale?
Not to sound stupid.
It's like a suburb of Fort Lauderdale.
What do you do for work?
So, I do social work, and I do OnlyFans on this side.
Oh, nice!
Keep it on the side of the screen!
By the day you're helping people, at night you're doing the same thing.
Yeah, you're helping people, exactly.
It is the pain, okay.
I'm assuming if you do social work, that means you're probably employed by some state or government agency.
Are you worried that they'll find out and then you can lose your job?
No!
No, I'm not worried at all, actually.
Wait, that can happen?
I feel like if I lose my job, then I was just meant to lose my job and I'll just full-time pursue what I'm doing.
The thing is, it's not my passion.
It's not really what I want to be doing with my life.
Service work?
Social work.
I'm sorry?
Is OF your passion?
I think having like financial freedom and independence and working for myself and like being able to live the lifestyle I would like to live is my passion.
So let me ask you this.
What if there's a way you could make the money and be an entrepreneur without, you know, Would you do that instead?
That's definitely the goal long term.
I would love to give a TED talk one day.
I love research.
I'm a published researcher.
I would like to do that.
Get a PhD eventually.
How long have you been a social worker?
I got my master's like a couple of years ago, maybe three.
Yeah, so three years.
Do you work with like children, men, women?
I work in a hospital.
I work with patients.
With patients.
Okay.
Elderly.
Oh.
Yeah.
Okay.
Damn.
Okay.
So you look at it like, yo, if they bring me in one day and say, yo, we found out about your OnlyFans, because it happens, we've had so many social workers, teachers, et cetera, get called in because of this.
Hell, I knew a girl that was a mechanic, and she lost her job because of OnlyFans.
Because, yeah, it makes the business look bad.
So you're okay with that.
Yeah, completely.
I really don't subscribe to the belief system either that what you do in your personal life should affect your professional life.
When I'm at work, I'm professional.
When I'm with my patients, I'm professional.
Whatever I decide to do in my personal life, it really shouldn't affect...
I'm a murderer.
Are you MSW? Yeah, MSW. What's MSW? Master of Social Work.
And you said you're a high student.
So you have a master degree?
I do.
Where'd you get it from?
Florida State University.
Okay.
And you got it in, I'm guessing, sociology?
Yeah, no, social work.
It's kind of like counseling therapy.
I could be a therapist if I had wanted to.
I could only imagine if one of the people that she works with says, you look familiar.
Are you Tathmanian Devil?
I've seen you online before.
It's Tathangel, actually.
Tathangel?
Yeah.
Wasn't it like a thing, Tathangels?
Charlie's Angels?
Are you sure?
I don't know.
I never heard of it.
Relationship status?
I have a girlfriend of almost three years, but I'm polyamorous, so I also date other people too.
Other people or men?
Both.
I'm bisexual, so I date both.
What about furries?
No, why not?
Like, I don't think shame here.
Okay.
Wait, wait, wait.
Animals?
Oh.
Oh, God, no.
Oh, my goodness.
Okay.
Are your parents still together?
No, they divorced when I was five, and they both remarried, and I have amazing step-parents.
Like, I'm super close to all four of my parents, yeah.
Are you on birth control?
Yes.
Oh, she broke our chain.
She's like, I don't want no kids, nigga.
What's your racial background?
White.
Hi, my name is Elaine.
I was born and raised here in beautiful Miami.
Red flag.
How old are you?
I am 27 years old.
Okay, 27.
You're from Miami.
Okay, what's your racial background?
I am Cuban-Italian for the most part.
Okay.
Alright.
Mamma mia!
So I am currently, temporarily, may I say, I'm a front desk sales associate.
Okay.
I am also working on getting my small business off the ground.
Okay.
What may that be?
So I grow edible variety plants.
Not how it sounds.
Let me clarify.
So health and wellness wise, citrus plants, garden veggies, heirloom variety plants.
Mushrooms?
Oh, okay.
No mushrooms.
Highest education level completed?
I have my associate's degree in veterinary technology and I specialize in exotics and surgery.
Okay.
Why didn't you do anything with the veterinary discipline?
So when I first, when I was finishing my program, it required an internship, which by all means was a lot more fun than I expected it to be.
And I learned I wanted to specialize in surgery because of it.
But I also saw a really dark side to, I had been rescuing for a while, so it wasn't fresh to me, the animal world.
But it's very humbling that once you do it professionally, you can't save the way you think you want to save.
And it was just very dark and it put me in a weird place.
Damn.
Because you've got to put down a lot of animals and stuff.
Yeah, I literally have had pets that you can tell that they were brought in because somebody made a complaint to the county and they didn't have a choice or they'd have to pay a fine.
And like homie didn't want nothing.
They declined all treatment.
They just wanted us to like make them better.
And I'm like, ma'am, you said no to everything.
How?
Am I supposed to wave a magic wand?
The dog's literally dying in front of me and I can't do anything about it.
So, it was really dark.
And then the management doesn't help because, you know, a lot of people don't know that managers, to manage a veterinary hospital, they don't always have to have any veterinary experience whatsoever.
So, they have, like, no idea what we do regularly throughout the entire shift, but demand we do more and we're not doing enough.
Okay.
And it just, it wasn't for me.
And also, my small business has, it's made me realize that there's other things in life that I'm much more passionate about.
And although I do love animals, Maybe enough to save them but not enough to work in that world.
Can you save her?
I love animals so so much and you can come home with me whenever you want.
Relationship status?
I am Confused.
Me too.
From Miami.
I am currently single, but I do currently have a person of interest.
No, not at all whatsoever.
I'm very open and straightforward.
I have nothing to hide from anybody, even though my mom's probably watching this.
Hello.
Hi, mom.
And my 94-year-old aunt probably too.
Hey.
So you're single, but you have a guy.
No, there's someone that I like.
Me too.
Oh, you have a crush.
But I'm not currently in a relationship with anyone, no.
Okay, so you like him, but does he like you back?
You wanted to bring up your crush so bad.
I haven't asked...
But he knows I'm on the podcast tonight, so...
He's probably watching it.
Oh, that's who you want to FaceTime with?
It might be.
Oh, shoot.
Okay.
What if it wasn't him she was on FaceTime with and you just said that?
I mean, she even had to confirm.
How long have you been talking to this guy?
Um, not very long.
Like, as recent as my toenail polish, but I have known him...
That was good.
Is that like a week or two weeks?
Definitely less than a month.
Okay, so when would you consider it started?
Like the first time flirting became heavy?
Or like the first day?
You just met him downstairs?
I've known him a few years.
So you have old toenail polish?
I just feel like I see him in a new light recently.
I feel like I don't understand how anybody else has passed you up.
I see genuinely good, gentlemanly qualities in him that I don't understand how a lot of these...
Dumb other females have passed him up.
Oh, wow.
Passionate.
Listen, I'm here in friendzone through the wazoo.
Passionate.
Yeah, let me, just so I can, just so I make sure I have this correct, um, were you, you guys had known each other, but there wasn't a relationship or anything like that?
No whatsoever.
Friend of a friend.
Okay.
Just knew each other.
So you guys were just platonic friends before?
Hell yeah.
Okay.
So, so what made you change your mind now if you had a friendzone for so long and then you decided to give him a chance?
I wouldn't necessarily say friend zone, because friend zone is under the assumption that he felt some type of way and I put him in the friend position.
It's obvious if he likes you.
Yeah, if he's with you now, then that means it was always there.
I feel like it was on both sides.
Like, he saw me as a friend until some point.
I probably saw him as a friend until some point.
And the conversation got to a point when we went out for drinks just to hang out, celebrate that I got a new job and whatever.
Drinks, right?
No, no, no.
Chilling.
Straight up.
I have no problem, like...
Being completely open and honest on the interwebs.
I'm willing to wager that if you had had these drinks with him maybe a year or two prior, maybe even five years prior, he probably would have still reciprocated romantically.
Right.
I'm sure if I had known him five years ago and I knew the man that he was, I would have sacrificed whatever I had to sacrifice to be with a man like that.
That's our point, is that if you had given him the opportunity years ago, he would have taken it back then is what we're trying to say.
Sacrifice.
Possibly.
Because you're saying you think he friendzoned you too, but no, it's you friendzoning him.
I do feel like if he was sitting in front of me right now and I asked him if I hit on him a year ago, he'd probably still say no.
Bro, we're telling you as guys, he'd only want to smash from day one.
It's very possible.
It's very likely.
I don't deny that.
That's the point, though.
Yeah.
Never say never.
And by the way, this is a song...
But we were both spoken for somewhat at the time, so either way.
There's a song called Living on Alcohol by Jimmy Foxx.
And it's so important.
And you're 27 years old, right?
I am 27, 28 this summer.
I mean, yo, I mean...
I hate being right all the time, bro.
Goddamn.
How old is he?
How old are you two?
Me.
Us?
Yeah.
Nigga, we're asking her questions right now.
I'm sorry, I'm sorry, I'm sorry.
If I'm not mistaken, if I remember correctly, he's 33 years old.
He's 33 and you're 27?
Yes, ma'am.
Okay.
Wait, you don't know?
Not ma'am.
One of the closest age gaps that I've ever been interested in.
Listen, I'm happy for you.
You know, I hope it works out.
And then it goes waiting.
Wait, wait, wait.
So Chad's saying call him.
Call him!
Can you call him right now?
What would we ask him though?
Back in the day...
He's gonna say no.
He's gonna say, no, I had a girl, bro.
He's got a cat, man.
Let's keep it at that.
She said that they were spoken for.
I'm sure I was more than him.
I was in a serious relationship when I met him.
That is how I met him.
Isn't that crazy, bro?
Isn't that crazy?
You could be with a chick and things don't work out.
And it should be your whole boy, bro.
It's just what they meant to be.
She's 27.
She gets with a guy that was nice.
She said other girls passed.
I'm going to be honest.
I would be under the assumption that he passed up as many women as women passed him up.
I mean, I can't assume...
He is the open your door, pay for your meal, no questions asked, pick you up flat tire, never have to...
Those guys don't do well with women normally.
Really?
What does that mean?
Even if it's not with me, I pray he does well with any good woman.
Oh my god!
She just friendzoned him again.
Friendzoned him again!
She said run it back.
Three more years, you know.
She's crying now.
She's like, I gotta call him.
You're either grossly unaware or you're just like saying a bunch of BS to say.
Good boy.
Good boy.
What a good boy.
Yeah, there's a reason why there's a phrase, nice guys finish last.
Oh, absolutely not.
Sometimes they finish just in time.
Right.
That's a good one.
For you, for you, for you.
Time is ticking.
Time is ticking.
I'm 32.
You're so crazy, but when you were 21, that nigga was invisible.
Facts.
Come on, man.
I'm in Miami, nigga.
If I had known him when I was 21, I promise you I would have said yes.
That's a cow, bro.
That's a cow.
This is man.
You can't make it shit out of it.
Okay, yeah, I mean, yo, it's fine.
Thank you for being honest.
Thank you for confirming many things that we've talked about on this podcast many times before.
I know when to acknowledge a good man.
Even as a teenager, I was made fun of for it.
It's okay.
I didn't acknowledge anybody in my school.
27 years later.
Are your parents still together?
My parents divorced when I was about 12 years old.
Alright, birth control?
I am not on birth control, but I do not currently need it.
Why?
I had a procedure done when I was 24 years old.
I cannot conceive naturally.
Oh, wow.
Wait, what made you do that?
I'm on the fence of, I want children.
Do I have to give birth to them?
No, there's plenty of children who are a part of our population that didn't choose to be here, Earthside.
Who inspired that?
Kim K? No.
No, actually, I was raised by a group of women.
My dad was not super present.
You know, my mom, my grandmother, my aunt, my tia, all of them.
And so I feel like, although I am my mom's biological child, there are other children who didn't get to choose not to be loved.
And if I get to choose one and they love me in return, why not make the world a better place?
Just like animals.
Unfortunately.
What about you?
What's your name?
All right, my name is Nikki Smooch.
Nikki Smooch?
Nikki Smooch.
I don't actually like kissing.
Nikki Smooch?
What the fuck?
All right, how old are you?
I'm 30.
Wait, 30?
Okay.
Where are you from?
I'm originally from Baltimore, Maryland.
Okay, Baltimore in the house.
Let's go.
Do you live in Miami now?
I do.
I live in Miami now and I've been living in Miami for six years.
Okay, red flag.
I'd love to see it.
Uh-oh.
Alright.
What do you do for work?
I am a booking agent.
I own my own booking agency.
You book like what?
Are we talking...
Yes, it's luxury concierge and booking, and it is based in these lovely Miami streets.
I launched it about two years ago.
Okay, so it's your business.
It is my business.
I also am an interior designer.
I went to college, and I had my associate's degree in interior design.
Nice.
Period, queen.
Interior design.
Alright, relationship status?
I'm single.
That was a big sigh.
I'm single.
You know, mingling and...
Are your parents still together?
My parents are not together.
My parents got a divorce when I was about like 19 or something like that.
Birth control?
No.
I don't believe in that.
What's your...
You have kids?
I do.
How many?
I have two children.
Okay.
Okay.
Yes.
Racial background?
I am black, Irish, and Native American.
Okay.
Anyone else here, mom?
No?
Just only one?
Oh, wow.
I'm the only mom.
Only mom?
Okay.
Yeah, while you're 30, so.
I need, like, a big cup that says, like, mom.
And then you asked something.
You were saying you were asking something before.
Oh, you want to know how old you were?
Take a guess real quick, because I'm always interested to see what people think.
What do you think we are?
Everybody get a guess?
- You look-- - 27, 33. - Nyren looks. - Damn, fresh. - Yeah, there's no. - Nyren looks about 24. - 24. - 24. - 25. - 25. - 24, 25. - And then what do you think fresh is?
There's no way he's 36.
He looks stressed.
26.
Oh my goodness.
Somebody free him, please.
Wait, what did you say?
So you think I'm 26 and then he's what?
No, you look 25.
25?
Okay.
25, 26.
Ain't no way he younger than me.
25, 26 fresh?
Yeah.
Okay.
Do all of you guys agree with that or disagree?
Disagree.
Disagree.
What do you think?
We'll go quick.
You're about 37 and he's...
Jesus!
Goddamn!
What?
That's fine.
You're like 32.
32?
Okay.
I'm 37 and he's 32.
All right.
I think you both look like 25, 26.
Yeah.
All right.
25, 26.
Really?
Y'all look at a lot, bro.
You guys are long.
27, 33.
Yeah, you do luck in your 30s.
His vibe, his vibe definitely gives me 27.
Like, he gives me, like, I'm young, I got these girls figured out, and I'm ready right now.
He gives me, like, okay, I'm ready to settle down.
I'm happy to do that.
I'm gonna be real with y'all.
Very interesting.
I need a queen like you.
I need a queen like you.
What about you?
What do you think?
I'd put you both around 34.
Okay, cool.
What about you?
You have about as much gray hair as I do on my head.
Right?
That's why I'm going with 37.
I would definitely say 37 is too old.
25 is too young.
I would say you're 27 at 30.
Right?
26, 27.
He in his 30s for real.
36, 34.
36, 34.
Okay.
I'm 34, he's 31?
31.
No!
You're very close, very close.
Yeah, I'm old.
We've been doing him so wrong.
If I had dyed my hair, that would have been good.
I normally do dye it.
I was talking about the gray in your beard.
Yeah, if I had dyed it, I would have been good.
At the end of the day, the real question is, who's stressing him?
Who is stressing this man?
Who is stressing this man?
I had a very stressful job before this.
That's why I got most of these gray hairs.
I worked in law enforcement before this.
How old are they?
Oh, you asshole.
In the back.
26?
Listen, that's the 40 squad over there.
- No, we're here. - We're here. - We're here. - We're here. - We're here. - 40 and we're gonna show here. - We're gonna get back together. - We're gonna get back together. - We're gonna get stressed. - That is about 42, 30, 36.
- It's a braids with Feathern flock together.
- Can I get body counts?
- First of all, I love me to do. - Yes, body counts.
Yes, body counts. - Let's get body counts. - Let's get body counts.
- Nah, I'm just okay. - The 40 squad is crazy, bro. - All right, all right.
So they said all y'all niggas old over there.
I disagree with that entire statement.
I said that statement.
I love y'all though.
30.
Teddy bear men right here.
They all young.
They age well.
They age like fine wine, my teddy bear men right here.
He's 26!
Yeah, he's definitely not over 33 at all.
He's not in his 30s.
Tell your ages over there, man.
I am 35.
I knew it.
Aaron is 35 years old.
He's the oldest nigga here.
A-A-R-O-N? No way.
I'm 33.
33?
No wonder he was smiling at that 26.
What about you, Bills?
I'm a solid 30.
Shake your dress, shake your dress.
At the end of the day, they are the 30 squad.
I never thought, bro, I'd be this age, bro.
Goddamn.
You're here now.
Thank God you live to make it, you know?
A lot of people dying young these days.
I get the 20s guests all the time.
So, we got 10,000 of y'all on Rumble and another almost 7K on YouTube, man.
So, guys, we're going to go 50 and up from here, but all the ones that came up from before are the 20s and et cetera.
We got y'all.
We're going to read them.
I'll read the chats and I got a line of questions.
Then we got a video to react to, actually.
We got a topic for today.
So, all right, real quick.
Dom721 goes, any update on when FNF... When if y'all are going to get monetized again on certain YouTube?
We'll see, man.
We'll see what happens maybe later this year.
The concept of chasing women...
I mean, it's no biggie, man.
Like I said before, we're Rumble.
The concept of chasing women is so much funnier when you break it down.
You're begging someone to let you spend your money on them.
LMAO ladies, what can you do for your ideal man that he can't outsource?
Oh, shoot.
Anyone else gonna go first?
I mean, okay, does anyone have anything that they can answer that now?
I would say, I feel like I can.
Like, the only thing, like, you can go, like, he can't go out and receive is, like, true feelings.
Like, he can go out and get, like, a prostitute and get sex and whatever, but, like, at the end of the day, that person doesn't really care about him.
But, like, I do, and you can't pay for that.
Okay.
Word.
You can always pay for a beer, a fresh meal, hire some chick to come clean your apartment and be dressed some skimpy type of way.
Yeah.
But a woman who loves you will do it for you without you asking.
A woman who loves you, who truly puts the world, you ahead of the world...
You can't pay for that anywhere.
You can't pay for that.
You always, you never gotta ask, always come home to a fresh meal, place is clean, bed is made, drawers are clean.
I mean, don't say always, though, because you put it in the...
You don't gotta worry about calling somebody to do it.
You know what I'm saying?
I would argue...
You don't gotta be like, my house gotta be clean this weekend, I gotta call it clean.
I would argue your point, though, because if a woman really loves you, It's not what she does without you telling her.
It's what she does when you tell her to do things.
So for example, if you tell me to do X, Y, Z, let's say, for example, you're on my go, right?
And I tell you to do X, Y, Z, you do that.
It shows that you love me because you're listening to what I say.
If you do what you want, it's your own agenda.
Yes, I know.
Because if I'm your partner and we're on the same page, I know what you need before you need it.
No, you should, but you can't always assume though.
Okay.
I feel like a female or a woman listening to you when you tell her to do something, it doesn't have to do with love.
It more has to do with respect.
It has to do with respect.
But guess what?
With respect, you can't have love.
You can't have respect without love.
I can respect my boss.
I don't have to love them.
No, he's saying you can't love a man without respecting him.
Yeah, you can't.
Oh, okay, okay, okay.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Anyway, hurt you backwards.
Sorry.
Okay.
All right.
So, what's the next one here?
Okay.
Question, ladies.
Who would you rather have?
An average man who will be monogamous or a six-figure porn star, but he only sleeps with other women when he's on set?
Okay, so...
What would you rather have, ladies?
A regular guy, 5'8", making about $30,000 to $50,000 per year.
Okay, that amounts to about $3,000 a month, right?
Roughly $3,000 to $4,000 a month.
Or a guy that's making $10,000 per month, but he's a porn star and he has sex with other women on camera.
Which one would you prefer?
We'll start right here.
I wouldn't get the porn star.
Okay, I feel like I'm speaking from feelings.
Okay, how about think?
What would you actually go with?
Let's go with what you think versus what you feel.
If we're not thinking about my feelings, of course I'm going to go with the porn star because it's like, yeah, I get money, I get to live a certain lifestyle, but going into my feelings...
Let's say they're both the same guy and they both make you feel good.
No, it's about me being jealous.
Like, it's about, like, my perspective.
I wouldn't feel right about him going on set and having sex with a different girl.
Okay.
Because, like, if he comes home and tries something with me, and, of course, being the type of girlfriend that I am, I'm going to watch his, like, his videos.
And if I, I'm like, oh, you did this and that with that person, I ain't going to do it with me.
Like, why did I been screaming so hard, you guys?
What about you?
All right, what about you?
I would definitely choose the man that's monogamous, that makes less money per month.
Okay, so you'd be okay with $30,000 a year?
Correct.
But at the end of the day, I'm a professional fighter.
I know I'm going to make billions, so it is what it is.
Would you want to steal with a guy when you make that kind of money?
If love is there, I would stay with the man for love.
Period.
Word.
Love phase, though.
I don't think it does.
It's a feeling.
Love phase, but the things that come with it don't.
Love is a choice.
I mean, you even admitted earlier that it's hard to not deal with guys that aren't in your industry, so you tell me as a fighter.
Because the passion and the drive.
But there's a lot of broke fighters, I'll tell you that right now.
100%.
Yeah, but are you going to support a broke fighter as a woman?
I would.
How long?
Stop the cow!
For life, it is what it is.
For life.
Aww.
Would you?
I'd wife her.
Interesting.
He could make less than you, but I think if he counts potato and it's a different story.
Alright, yeah, women never support dudes.
For too long.
Her last name is Cohen, bro.
Bro!
What about you?
Money matters a lot.
Okay, what about you?
Uh, what about you?
What would you go with?
The porn star making six figures, 10k a month, or the regular guy that's going to be monogamous to you, but $30,000 per year?
That's three to four.
That's too low, right?
Roughly three to four K a month.
For you, not for anybody else.
We can work on the money thing.
No, let's say he enjoys his job.
He don't want to change.
Man, I'm chilling, man.
Listen up for me.
He says, I'm him.
I can't deal with the man who's...
I'm him.
I'm him.
All right, she's picking a porn.
All right, what about you?
Who are you going with?
Jesus.
I would go with the porn star.
I feel...
Makes sense.
Come on!
I feel that...
Nerf this.
Love and lust are very different emotions and I feel from experience being in a relationship that a man can go out and have sex with another woman and it not be emotional at all.
I feel that I could still feel the love throughout all of that, and I think that women and men get validation in different ways.
My validation comes from posting a cute picture on Snapchat, and a man can get his from going to see another woman, but that doesn't mean that he doesn't love me.
That doesn't mean that he loves her.
Men cannot have that emotional connection, but I feel as though when women have a sexual interaction with someone else, Or at least from my experience, it's always emotional.
So I would definitely want to be provided for.
And I really wouldn't even think twice about the fact that he's out there doing it with other girls.
Alright, I think I agree with you.
That's actually a very basic take on it.
Okay, what about you?
No, I... What?
What?
30k per year?
I'll do the 30k per year, but I'm going to say, though, how you're going to say that...
30k and TSEI ain't going nowhere, though.
We know that for a fact.
But what I'm going to say, though...
Been there many times.
What I'm going to say, though, is...
With you saying that, with women having sex, it's emotional.
You're having sex with a man that his job is having sex with other women.
You're emotionally entangled with a man that is having sex with other...
Listen.
Alright, so you disagree with her.
You disagree with her now.
Oh my god!
I disagree in the explanation of you saying that, you know, women are entangled by our feelings when we have sex with men.
Because if that's the case, then you just contradicted yourself in saying that you want to be with a porn star.
You understand what I'm saying?
You just like...
That's the island talk.
No, she didn't.
She didn't contradict herself.
If I'm, as a woman, going to be like, hey...
When I have sex with you, you know, this is how I love you.
This is how I'm feeling you.
I'm emotionally entangled with you.
Because we're having sex as a woman, right?
I'm not going to think another woman is going to be entangled with you.
If I'm saying that women are going to be entangled with you.
But I feel like with her, she sees it as that's her way of feeling love and showing love.
But she doesn't expect the other person to show love and feel love the same way Oh You guys totally misinterpreted what she said Like, she said, I would go with the porn star and her explanation for why she would go with the porn star is her argument is men don't bond emotionally through sex to the same extent as women do.
Exactly.
So she's saying, if my guy was to go out there and have sex with other women, he's still going to love me the same.
That's her argument.
So that's why she's like, I'm okay with the porn star because I know men can compartmentalize their emotions and sex, but women, it's very difficult for them to do that.
So the woman that's having sex with him, what if she start creating feelings for him and he wants to cheat?
But her argument is that's irrelevant because he still loves her.
It sounds like her problem and not him and her problem.
Hold on, let her talk about it, man.
I understand.
Can I summarize that correctly for you?
That's precisely what she said.
And I know it may seem controversial and like I'm trying to appeal to everyone.
This is my experience.
Let me stop you real quick.
Don't appeal to everybody.
Say what's on your mind.
That's the whole point of the discussion.
And I don't see it as that way.
I'm just making an argument.
I'm just making an argument.
Yeah, no, that's fair.
I think yeah please ask me whoa that's a joke that's not funny that's not funny Don't do that again.
My apologies, host.
You're not platformed.
I called you a queen, man.
You're a king to me, sir.
I'm so sorry.
You know, heart love.
Now you're dusty.
That's crazy.
I'm hurt.
That's just my opinion.
It's what I've experienced.
At first, when I would hear things about like, oh, men cheating, I would think to myself like, oh, I could never be with someone who cheated.
And then I was in a relationship that was so loving that it didn't really bother me and it did change my perspective.
At first, I was like thinking to myself, absolutely not.
Like, how could I be with someone that cheats on me that isn't love?
And then I fell madly in love with someone and I found out that he went to go and see someone else, and I was like, well, I love him so much, I can't just leave him over this.
And I feel like men and women are wired differently.
But that, again, is just my opinion, and I understand if you don't agree, I get it.
Question for you.
Why'd you guys break up?
Um...
Because typically that guy never leaves.
He's still there, right?
Right.
Yeah.
I think we had...
I don't think that age gap is a problem at all.
I was young when I met him.
I was 18.
He was around 31.
I think that...
I don't think it's a weird age gap.
I really don't.
I think if...
I hear a lot of people say that...
I'm sorry, repeat that.
I don't...
She was 18 and he was 31.
At 18 years old, you can go and make financial decisions that will permanently ruin your credit for the rest of your life.
You can go vote for a president who can lead a country into war, but you can't date someone who may have experience and can teach you these things.
I think the whole age gap theory is a bit strange.
I agree with that.
But as I grew older, I wasn't the same person, and I know that it wasn't All his fault.
I still love him to this day, and I wish him the best, but I'm not the same person that I was when I was 18, and so I've obviously changed a lot, and so has he.
So we just kind of got not as close, which just kind of...
Who broke it off, you or him?
It was mutual.
No, no, it was somebody.
He initiated it.
I was definitely heartbroken for, oh my god.
Did you cheat on him?
No.
Because men rarely initiate breakups.
What happened?
Were you being too clingy?
Or were you annoying him?
I mean, I'm definitely a little bit annoying all the time.
There's your answer.
But what's annoying to you guys?
Well, I mean, it could have been her contacting him too much, bothering him.
Nagging.
You know, nagging.
It could have been that.
Why are you not home?
I didn't know how to be the right woman.
And I feel as though...
I feel...
As time has gone on and I've, I guess, done more research.
Did you guys live together?
We did live together and I think that that was an issue.
We also, in the beginning of our relationship, slept in the same bed.
And now I like not sleeping in the same bed.
I think space is really important.
Not for me, but I think for him.
I think if he was able to take more time away from me, he wouldn't get so fed up with me because I know that I'm weird and a little bit annoying.
So I think that...
Question.
If he called you now and said, I want you back, what's your response?
Ooh.
I can't...
You know, I can't say.
I feel like I would have to...
I know that sounds like a stupid answer, but I think if I heard his voice say it, maybe my feelings would be different.
I'm...
I need to work on this, actually, but I'm pretty reactive, and I'm practicing not being as reactive.
I think if I were to hear his voice and see his name pop up on my phone, I don't know what would be going through my mind at the time.
I know what's gonna be.
What is it?
F-O-I-T? Oh, interesting.
Okay.
Alright.
Porn star or loyal guy making $30k per year?
Well, no, she gave her answer.
She didn't give her answer yet.
You're going with the loyal guy, right?
I'd rather go with the loyal guy.
Okay, cool.
But I do, after you explained, I do kind of get your explanation with that.
Okay.
What about you?
You like petting animals?
You get touching her.
Oh, I could pet you.
You're like a bear to me.
In a very great way.
Don't take offense.
Nigga, you're roasted already, nigga.
What about you?
What are you going with?
The porn star, for sure.
I think it's hot.
I'm into it.
Yeah.
I think the monogamous guy is very boring for me.
It doesn't make a lot.
Very boring.
Someone keeping it a thousand.
She's based.
Someone keeping it a thousand.
What about you?
While I do understand both of y'all's point of view, I'll go with the monogamous man.
I have no problem with the man who makes the same thing I'm making yearly.
Or maybe a tiny bit more.
You know what I'm saying?
We all start somewhere.
Hopefully you're not making that forever, but if you are, you are.
Right?
Teachers don't get paid enough.
I'd rather a monogamous man.
I grew up watching every reason why to want the monogamous man.
I grew up with every example that wasn't the monogamous man.
I'll pick the monogamous man.
AKA her friend.
Alright, so I'm going with the monogamous man in this particular scenario only because I can't do the porn star thing.
Now, granted, if he was in another type of profession and did Why do we limit the monogamous men to 30 years?
Why is it that we don't say that monogamous men can have more than 30 years?
Why do we limit them?
It's money or money.
I wouldn't mind a stripper, to be honest, but a porn star, I don't know.
You can make money and still be monogamous.
She's understanding the concept of it.
She doesn't want to be able to look it up on the internet.
Exactly.
Yeah, like, touching on what she said earlier, the energy exchange thing, because even if he's not...
You know, emotionally tied or whatever.
The energy exchange thing, it happens during sex regardless of what you feel like.
Yes.
So, like, that's not something...
Man, I'm competitive and bad.
I mean, it is content though, but yeah, I get what you're saying.
If I see her do a split on her dick in that video, I ain't doing a dope!
I know!
What?
I think I would straight up drop off the face of the earth.
I would die.
He's a rapper.
But that's exactly what I'm saying.
I'm taking notes.
Are you kidding?
Real quick, man.
Someone important.
The birthday of today.
Trump and Roman, man.
He's always a good supporter in the chat.
Keeps our stats.
Keeps our stats in chat as well.
Trump and Roman.
Yeah, he keeps all the stats for the show, so shout out to him.
Wait, there was another guy that had the stats.
Icy, I don't know if you grabbed this contact info when we were doing the IRL stream.
Are you crazy?
Okay.
Alright, so I'm going to go to the first question here.
Ladies, have you or someone you know ever been flown out by a guy?
Nope.
Hold on, whoa, whoa.
Okay.
Jesus!
So we can start here and work our way back this way.
Go ahead.
Have you or anyone you know been flown out by a guy before?
Yes.
I do know people that have.
I have not been flown out.
You have not?
Okay.
I have not.
Alright.
What about...
Who was it?
Was it a friend of yours?
Yes.
Okay.
Where'd they go?
Um...
Bahamas.
They...
Jamaica.
Oh my god.
It was within the states.
Oh, within the states?
Okay.
Do you know from where to where?
My friends aren't really out there like Chicago.
Do you know from where to where by chance?
California, New York, Miami.
California.
They went from Baltimore to California?
Miami to California.
LA? Yeah.
What do you mean by they're not out there like that?
Alright, what about you?
I might know a couple distant people.
Nobody I'm close friends with.
I've also been offered a couple times, but I have declined.
Okay.
Offered but declined.
Yeah.
I've been offered.
Like, I feel like...
Hold on, but what made you decline, though?
Like, what was the...
She's not trying to hunch.
Yeah, word.
She's not trying to hunch.
I feel like...
Merch, merch.
Based off the way I was raised, I have no problem.
I do not judge if you get flued out somewhere and you do whatever it is that you...
Your heart...
Desires.
Right?
If my intentions are not to be in a relationship with you, and your intentions are very clearly not to be in a relationship with me, but I know for a fact that if you fly me out to the state you live in, you want to sleep in the bed with me and do some nasty, I'm telling you right now, that's not my intentions and I'm not going to do it.
Why?
It's wrong for me to take your money and know you pay for all these things, and I'm going to go over there and I'm going to tell you no.
But what if you like him, though?
What if he's actually your type?
But if I like you, that don't change the fact that I'm not gonna sleep with you just because I like you if you don't like me back.
I could want you all I want, but if you don't want me back, we're not doing it.
He likes you.
No, but you just want a hunch.
How do you know?
Sir, this is not a petting zoo.
How do you know?
You do not want to get to know me.
You just want to talk to my petting.
You're assuming.
You're wrong.
You can tell by the way a man speaks to you, the way he references you.
This is not a petting zoo, but you decline.
You don't know nothing.
And you don't need to meet up with somebody else and get to pull with another man.
Big person!
Hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on.
So offered by decline, where did your, you said you have a friend that did it?
Yes, she was flown out to Jamaica.
I told you, man.
It's all Jamaica, bro.
I have not heard from her since.
She's still acting on Instagram.
She's live, I think.
Let me hear her on one of my podcasts.
What about you?
Maybe once when I was younger.
For a threesome.
To New York.
From Miami to New York?
Yeah.
What about your friend?
Adventure.
Okay, that's fine.
If it was you, then we don't need to worry about it.
Okay, what about you?
Have you ever been flown out or a friend?
Yes, I have been flown out.
Okay.
To Chicago.
From Turks and Caicos to Chicago.
What about you?
I have never been flown out, but I have a girlfriend who has to a bunch of places by some famous rappers, and I think it's really cool.
But I did date a guy, and he...
You said rapper is plural?
Yeah.
A few of them?
Yeah.
Okay, so is she also an OF creator?
Yes, she is.
Okay, so...
Yes, and she's...
Okay.
You're Miami.
Why are you here?
Why?
Did someone fly you out?
Someone fly you out to Miami, maybe?
I'm practicing my social skills.
I do OF, and I am obviously hoping to, you know, make some money off of it, and I think that I have a lot of social anxiety, so pushing myself to go on podcasts and...
Good for you.
No, I mean, why are you in Miami?
Oh, for this?
For this?
Okay.
Cool.
Yeah, I'm literally here for, it's my first time in Miami ever, and I'm here for one day, and then I go back home to my cozy bed tomorrow.
You came over here when it was kind of chilly.
Yeah, I was expecting really nice weather and nice people.
It's normally not like this.
This is the coldest winter I've ever seen here.
The coldest and the longest BS winter.
Yeah, and I'm from Mola, and it's warm.
It's not even cold street.
It's like cold, hot, cold, hot.
Yeah, I'm not a fan, but it's really pretty and I'm happy and grateful to be here.
You flew off on a podcast?
I did, yeah.
Oh, that's so cool.
Yeah, I got here today at like, I can't remember what time, but I got here today and I leave first thing.
Hopefully you can fly out again this summer.
Anyway, sorry, I know I got sidetracked.
Alright, so not you, but a friend, right?
Yes.
Alright, what about you?
I have never.
Okay, you have a friend that's been flown out?
Yes.
Okay, where'd she go?
Do we have to...
I mean, they're not gonna know.
You don't have to say who she is.
I'm just asking for locations.
Where'd she go from?
Probably from Miami to where?
Bahamas.
Okay.
I called it, bro.
Jamaica, Bahamas.
I don't miss, man.
Alright, what about you?
I've never been flown out, and I do not know any friends that have been flown out.
No way.
You know fighters, man.
Fighters, like, we get flown out for fights, but not for, like, sex.
We're fighting the best.
- I'm not gonna be able to find out. - That's what's going on.
- Calcone! - Calcone! - Calcone! - You've at least been offered then at least. - Say that again?
Me?
Personally, no.
What?
I think you can do this a little couple times.
So you've never been offered Airflow now and you don't even have a friend that's done it?
No.
What about you?
Same.
No, and no friends?
No.
I believe her.
Makes sense.
Okay.
All right.
What's that?
I'm saying it was him.
All right.
My second question is, and we'll start here, we'll skip you because, well, we'll skip both of you because you guys aren't involved, I guess.
Yeah.
You, did your friend smash?
The person who flew her out, did she smash?
Did she smash them?
Yes.
That's no longer my friend.
Okay, so is it a yes or no?
Yeah.
Wait, why you mention that part?
Why you mention that's not your friend anymore?
Because, um...
Her moral compass.
It's important to know she's disconnected from this person.
Okay.
That's fine.
What about you?
Yes.
Yep.
All the rappers?
What's the same time?
Was it like an orgy?
Oh, I don't know.
Who's your favorite rapper?
Who's my favorite rapper?
Dolph or Jeezy or old school Gucci Mane, like the Chicken Talk album?
Are you a BBC gang?
Pardon?
Are you a BBC gang?
No, I don't know.
I... She doesn't understand the question.
Are you team EBC? I mean, I've never...
I can't say I've never had it.
She can't tell if she liked that type of dessert.
She never tasted it before.
Okay.
Okay.
Alright.
So, wait.
Okay, so...
But yeah, she did have...
Intercourse.
With all of them.
With all of them?
Not one.
Which rappers?
I gotta ask.
Oh, man.
I can't say...
Bro, they probably smashed a bunch of chicks, man.
It don't matter.
Who is it?
I don't know if I could say that.
I feel like I'm going to get in trouble.
I can't sing that.
No, I can't.
No, I... Well, I don't...
They probably made her sign an NDA, and I don't think I was supposed to know.
Exactly.
Okay, all right.
But I don't want someone to, you know...
All right.
I'm sorry.
Is she a porn star?
I mean, she is on the hub.
Oh, yeah.
She's a porn star, yeah.
All right.
It was about to get juicy.
All right, well, you want to say who she is then, since you don't want to say the rappers?
No, I can't.
I'm sorry.
I want to keep...
Snitches get stitches.
That's fine.
I mean, bro, she already has her pussy all over the internet, so it don't matter.
All right, what about you?
No.
You didn't smash?
You went all the way to Chicago?
You didn't smash?
No, when I went to Chicago...
No, Real Talks, I literally called my best friend.
I had my own hotel room, and he was with his friends.
We would talk and vibe, but it was just like a friend vibe.
I'm not, I swear to God.
So you knew him from before, he flew you out to Chicago, and you guys didn't hook up, and he was with his friends.
Right.
So he flew you out to hang out with you, you hung out with his friends?
No, he flew me out, he hung out with me for the first night, and then he went with his friends to go move.
And then he went to go hang out with his friends?
I don't think it was like that.
They were having a move.
You turned them off.
They were making a move.
But either way, I guess.
I was just there for the weekend.
If a nigga want to smash, he's going to smash.
So he didn't want to smash.
If a woman wants to smash, he'll smash.
I think she turned him down.
Let's be honest here.
You think he flew you out just to hang out?
Come on, man.
I mean, I never thought that, but at the same time in our messages, as I said before, he knew it was never on the table.
That's why he has a penthouse.
Did he make a move on you, though?
Be honest.
He did, but I was...
See?
He was trying to.
He did, but not when he flew me out.
When he flew me out, it was strictly on some, like, you cool, let me show you this type shit, because I really wanted to become, like, hosting at different clubs.
I wanted to host in different countries at clubs, like, I don't think he had any intention.
Literally last year, I went on a birthday tour in five cities.
I went to New York, I went to LA, I went to Houston, I went to DC, and I went to Miami.
I was in Miami last year.
I came here to start hosting in Cubs.
It was never on no like...
Alright, that's fine, so no.
What about you?
You said threesome, right?
Yeah.
Was it a guy and his girl, I guess?
It was like a guy in one of my friends.
Ooh.
Yeah.
Okay.
A guy that she was seeing.
I'm guessing.
Suppose.
I guess.
Sugar Daddy.
Oh.
Okay.
In New York City, that makes sense.
A lot of sugar babies out there in New York.
Okay.
What about you?
Oh yeah, you said you did your friend smash?
I declined, but I do suppose if I had gone, the smash would have happened.
No, I'm saying your friend, because you said her friend went, right?
She did.
She smashed him?
She did smash him.
And that was from, where did he go?
Was it Miami, LA? Jamaica?
No.
Yeah, Jamaica.
It's Jamaica.
And what about you?
Yeah, my friend smashed.
She did?
Yeah.
Okay.
Did she say good things?
Because she went to the Bahamas right from Namaste.
It was California.
Oh, yeah.
Miami and California.
She was just all about the business.
She was killing two birds with one stone.
Now she's in LA. She's making moves.
Oh, she went to the network.
Was he in the show biz of some kind?
Yeah.
The dude?
Yeah.
He was well-connected, but he was not like a rapper, though.
Okay, what was she?
Was she an entertainer of some kind, or trying to be?
Dancer.
Oh, a stripper.
Yeah.
That makes sense.
Makes sense, yeah.
But what move were you going to make?
Unless you want to dance in LA. They got hostings, they get paid events.
Yeah, she was modeling.
She was modeling, too.
They get closed-door events.
So she went out there, smashed them, and then he hooked her up with some shit.
Right.
Yep.
Interesting.
Alright.
W networking.
Yeah, I guess that's how girls network.
But have you guys ever flown anyone out?
Or even for a podcast?
Have you guys flown anyone out?
No way.
For a podcast?
Yeah.
No, listen, I honestly feel like when you fly someone out, it doesn't have to be like natural.
Well, that was my next question, actually.
Okay, so if flown out, are you obligated to have sex?
No.
In your opinion, hold on.
Relax, man, we'll get you.
Alright, what about you?
Let me start here.
I don't believe that you're obligated, per se, but I do believe that you should understand the understanding.
Like, what are we doing here?
So doesn't that mean obligated then?
No, I was like...
Understanding is kind of an obligation, I guess.
Like, you should know what time it is.
If you're really not down for it, then you should, A, definitely have your own money to get the fuck out of there if you don't want to.
And, B, like, you just should know what time it is.
Like, it's...
So, it's an unwritten rule.
Okay.
Yeah, it's an unwritten rule, for sure.
Okay, what about you?
Um...
Are you obligated to smash if you get flown out, in your opinion?
I don't think you're ever obligated to smash under any circumstances.
Is it expected, though?
Yeah, and if you have absolutely zero interest and zero...
What's the word I'm looking for?
If you have zero intent on exhibiting that type of behavior with that person, don't put yourself in that situation.
Because then you're going to be the one to complain.
You know what I mean?
Like, don't complain, oh, he treated me like this, or he wanted this, and he really expected that, or he left me high and dry after he flew me out.
Ma'am, learn how to read the signs.
Take some social cues.
He wanted some punani, and then you got there, and you thought it was just fun and games?
After he paid all that money?
Absolutely not.
What about you?
I mirror the thoughts of the other girls.
Absolutely.
I definitely don't think anybody's obligated to ever have sex with anybody.
That's weird.
But if you are accepting the invitation, you should know that that's going to be expected and it's absolutely on the table.
That's fair.
Interesting.
Okay, what about you?
Like you said, I understand that that's on the table, but while speaking about being flown out, that's a conversation that it's had, no?
If you're going to say, hey, I want to fly you out, it's going to be, okay, well, what's the plan when you fly me out?
What are we going to do?
What's in the mind?
I don't think that it's ever an obligation, but if it's...
It should be discussed what you're flying out for before you go.
Well, if you discuss it and it tells you I'm trying to smash, then at that point it is an obligation.
Even in your own scenario, you said it was just his friends playing me to move on you, right?
So it isn't always spoken beforehand.
It was spoken beforehand.
The plan was for me to be hosting.
I needed to go to...
No, no, no.
He wanted to smash.
You said no.
But obviously, he told you in a way, I want you.
No, okay, when we met, when he told me that he went to Smash, it's when I was working at a bottle girl at a club in Texas.
It's fine, it's fine.
So in your opinion, it should be discussed, but it's not obligated.
Right.
What about you?
I think it's pretty obvious if someone flies you out that you're obligated to have sex with them.
So you think it's obligated.
Alright, what about you?
I don't.
You don't think so?
Okay.
What about you?
I definitely think it's obligated and implied and very obvious.
Okay.
What about you?
I think it's obligated.
Can I ask a question, actually?
What if you get there and the vibe's off, what would you do?
What if you get there and you've never met the person and the vibe is off, you're not feeling it?
How do you handle it?
We'll get to that here in a second.
We'll get to that.
But I just find it very interesting how a bunch of the girls said, I don't know if you caught on to this, the female psychology.
A lot of you guys said you're not obligated.
However, if you accept it, you should know that it's expected, which is literally the same thing as obligation.
But I've come to realize that women almost never want to push Any type of sexual pressure on each other, so they always leave it open-ended because that's a taboo subject.
So I found it very interesting how a lot of the girls kind of danced around and said, well, it's expected, but it's not obligated.
That's the same thing.
But to her point, she's saying in a nutshell, it isn't obligated in her eyes because if the vibes are off, it's a no-go.
Well, no, she just brought that up just now.
That's what I meant, though.
That's like what I had brought with them earlier when I said you should have your own money to get up out of there if the vibes aren't, you know, checking out.
I feel like you should know the vibes before getting on a plane to go see a random person.
What if they're weirdo?
Let me ask this.
Okay, so a lot of you guys said that the woman isn't obligated.
Cool.
Now, is the man obligated to continue to give her time and can he kick her out, in your opinion?
He can kick her out.
Depending on how she's acting.
One at a time.
What if it's you, though?
Depending on how I'm acting, if he doesn't like me in person versus on how we've been acting.
No, no, this is strictly, he thought he was going to get some sex.
You say no.
Oh yeah, he could kick me out.
Okay, what about you?
Definitely, okay.
What about you?
What do you think?
If the woman isn't obligated to fuck, which is totally cool, can the man kick her out for that?
Since he's not obligated to spend time with her now.
I wouldn't say it's okay, but yes.
He can kick her out.
Morally.
100% yes.
What do you think?
100%?
Yes.
Okay, what about you?
He could kick her out.
In my case, I had someone there that I knew I could...
I already had my own way out.
I already thought in my mind, though, if this nigga's bullshitting, I need to have a plan.
If he likes you, it's if he thinks he's gonna get...
Sex.
Yeah.
It doesn't matter if he likes you or not.
Alright, what about you?
I feel like if he had enough money to fly you there, he should fly you back home.
He's not obligated to pay for your trip and your stay there, but if the vibes are off, like, send you back home.
Don't, like, kick her out.
But if you don't give him what he wants, why should he get you a plane ticket back?
Yeah.
He doesn't have to be a good human to you.
If you guys were already speaking sexual, that's exactly why the flying out came.
For sure, but he should fly you back.
I just don't think he should kick you out.
I feel like if you're not giving him something, why should he provide you with something else?
Because you're a good person and you've got this girl in a city that she's not familiar with.
Nobody is obligated to be a good person.
Exactly.
You should be.
I see your perspective.
You should be.
Fly her back.
Wouldn't it be fair to say that if the woman's not obligated to have sex with him, wouldn't it be fair to say that he's not necessarily obligated to get her back?
Absolutely.
Or a plane ticket.
So you're saying they should do that?
I mean, yeah.
Why not?
Like, you're not obligated to continue to let her stay in this hotel and, like, whatever.
Like, enjoy this free trip.
Like, just send her back, like, that day or the next day.
And if he's a gentleman, he'll get her back home safe.
Yeah, exactly.
I just think, like, if you wanted her there enough, like, to fly her out, like, okay, that's fine.
It didn't work out.
Like, whatever.
Like, be a gentleman.
Send her back home.
Don't kick her to the streets.
Like, she's still a person.
It depends on the type of person you're dealing with, in my opinion.
I just want to ask something real quick though.
Would it be...
When we talk about it, I'm talking from, like, a moral compass, though.
Like, how you said that, like, he could just, he should just kick her out.
But what I'm saying is, I... Do morals have a place in a situation like this?
I don't know.
Let's be realistic.
If you know he wants Punani and he flying you out, you saying yes under other circumstances, you know you finna play him because you're not gonna give him what he wants.
You have no morals going there to begin with.
Why would you expect good morals in return?
Before traveling, that's why it's so important to discuss what it is you're getting yourself into.
You're coming out to have sex with him, and you get to explore a city that you've never been in.
I feel like for hypothetical purposes, it's a transaction.
Assume you're in a situation where it's been made clear this is what he wants, and you've understood, I'm not going to give it to you, but I'm going to take the money anyways and fly out and see how this goes.
But that's one situation, though.
That's dumb.
Hey, hold on.
Do you have morals?
Nope.
Why'd you fly out?
No, I flew out because it was a friendly understanding of him putting me on in the industry, in the club.
He wanted to smash, though.
He didn't.
Wait, do you all think that guys just want to smash when they try to grow up?
Like I said, I feel like you're missing my point from the beginning.
When he said he wanted to smash was when he met me in person at the club I was working at.
You're smart, right?
I believe I tried it yet.
So you can pick up on people's...
Intuitions, for example, what they are intentionally want to do.
Right, but I don't know everything.
I don't know everything, and I don't pretend to.
But we just sat around the room.
You agreed.
If a guy flies, he wants to smash.
Right?
Understood.
However, I said what is talked about before.
She's saying that you could kick her out, but you should be a gentleman and get her back.
Alright, that's fine.
You agree with her on that.
Okay, what about you?
What are your thoughts on that?
I agree that it's not very gentlemanly, right?
I do see your point.
But I also feel like it's the same in comparison to being spoiled in other ways.
Like if a man is paying my bills, I've had men pay my bills and get absolutely no sex in return with the understanding that...
You never gonna get that far with me.
You are under no circumstances obligated to pay for my bills.
You want to give me money for my bills?
You can give me money for my bills.
We can have good conversation.
The question is, can he kick her out?
Yeah, he can kick her out for sure.
Although I do agree with the gentlemanly perspective, right?
But I feel like from a blunt perspective, you know what he wants, you have no intention to give it to him, and you accept it anyways.
What are you expecting?
You know what I'm saying?
Because if the situation is reversed, you're going to ask me, like, sex in the city is not real?
Like, there's not cougars out there flying out young men?
They expect to get laid, and the young man gets to where they're going, and he don't want to give it up?
She's going to be like, all right, well, figure out how to get back home.
What are you here for?
Alright, what about you?
Do you think the guy can kick her out if she doesn't?
Since she's not obligated to give sex, she's not obligated to hang out.
I do believe that he can kick her out, and as a lady, you should already be leaving.
Okay.
Alright, let me ask this.
If you were in a position, and you were a guy, and you spent the money to fly a girl out to your city, etc., and she got to the location and said, hey, I'm not feeling it, what would you do?
Start with you.
Sorry, by the way, shout out to MLD for a $100 check.
Oh, shout out to you, John.
Shout out to you guys for the mega W with the consistency of shows.
You guys are killing it.
Yeah, man.
No breaks, man.
Thank you, man.
Appreciate that greatly.
Okay, so let's say you're the man.
Let's put yourself in the man's shoes.
You spent a thousand bucks to get this chick out to you, right?
With a plane ticket and hotel, etc.
And she doesn't want to have sex.
What are you doing?
I actually, well, if I'm ballin' out of control like that...
No, you ain't ballin' out of control.
You're a regular nigga.
You spend a thousand bucks.
You make 70k per year.
You spend a thousand bucks to get this chick out there.
What are you doing, realistically speaking?
I love it how whenever I put women in men's situations, they always suppose that they're a multi-millionaire.
No, you're a regular fucking nigga, man.
Average.
You're making 50, 70k per year.
Let us be the little to the max.
No, you're an average guy.
What are you doing?
Alright, so I'm an average guy and I'm flying somebody out.
So I wouldn't kick her out because that's just not what...
I'm really not going to kick her out to the streets.
And if I don't want to just send her back in the plane like she said...
Then I would just be like, well, I hope you're okay with somebody else coming over.
Like, you can go ahead and pop a squat on the couch, maybe.
Next caller!
Next up!
Next up!
So you would let her sit in the house, but you would call another girl over.
Yes, sir.
Make it extra dramatic for her to hear.
You are real nice.
Talk to you.
You're one of us.
Call another girl over right in front of her.
That sounds familiar.
That sounds very familiar.
What about you?
What are you doing?
You spend a thousand bucks to get this chick out here and she don't want to fuck.
What are you doing?
If I'm regla degla and I go out of my way to spend that kind of money on you, I'll feel some type of way.
I don't know if I could say that I would Throw you in the streets?
But I'd be like, bro, you got 24 hours to figure out what your situation is because I got somebody else on the way.
If you're not going to do it for me, somebody else will.
Period.
Sounds familiar.
Period.
She'll give her 24 hours and you'll let her stay too.
I mean, I feel like it's, regardless of whether I'm the man and the woman or the woman in the situation, it's my heart speaking.
Like, I wouldn't throw you in the streets.
Would I be pissed?
Yes.
But I would let the, I would be the bigger person.
I'll be like, bro, you got 24 hours to find yourself a flight, find yourself a friend, find yourself a something, but you gotta get up and get out.
You ain't gotta go home, but you ain't gotta get out of here.
What about you?
What are you doing?
It's tough.
I don't know.
Just be a gentleman, like you said earlier.
Yeah, no, for sure.
The other one is your money.
Gentleman.
I do think that's where I fall.
If I was going to spend the thousand, I was prepared to spend the thousand.
If the girl gets there and she's not feeling the vibe, I'm never going to kick a girl out or fly her back.
She can enjoy it.
I'm going to take the L. That was the L for me.
So you're going to let her stay in your house?
Is she staying in my house or it's a hotel?
Let's say in this scenario, it's your house.
What are you doing?
It's my house.
I'll ask her what she wants to do, but I would maybe suggest if she wants to go home, I'll pay for her return flight.
Yeah, I love women.
Would you really?
I treat women really well.
Yeah.
If you were a man, you would?
I mean, I'm a woman that dates women.
I have a girlfriend of three years.
I do love women.
Hold on.
Are you the breadwinner in your relationship?
I would say it's mutual.
She is a therapist as well.
Yeah, we're about the same.
Okay, bro.
So you're talking about being in a breadwinner stance here in this situation, but you're in an equal partner relationship.
Well, you said I'm the one that's flying the girl out, so I'm assuming that I would be, in this scenario, the breadwinner.
So if I was the breadwinner in that scenario, I would ask the girl what she wants to do, what she feels comfortable.
But you're a regular guy.
You're not a six-figure owner.
You're a regular guy.
She'll want to fuck.
Okay, so you're going to let her stay.
Like, if somebody doesn't want to fuck me, I'm not going to cry about it.
I'm not going to be mad that I lost a thousand dollars.
Like, I was willing to spend a thousand.
I'm going to, like, own my shit, and I'm going to, like, say, damn, that sucks, but, like...
You're going to spend another thousand and get her back?
Like a gamble.
It's a gamble that I was willing to take.
Interesting.
Okay.
What about you?
What are you doing?
If she doesn't want to fuck, what are you doing?
First, before I even spend a thousand, Shawty had to let me know she's going to fuck.
Exactly!
But that's what I was saying in the beginning.
But she gets there and she says, the vibe's not right.
Now, if I done spend a thousand, she gotta get the fuck.
She gotta get what?
She gotta get the fuck.
She gotta get the fuck.
I was like, hold on.
I'm sorry, that's island talk.
I'm sorry.
That's just how I talk.
I'm so sorry.
But she gotta go.
Why I say that?
Because whilst I'm telling you, baby, I'm ready to spend a thousand on you to come over.
The deal wasn't, you come over and you love my personality and you love my vibes.
It's, I'm gonna spend a thousand on you to come bring your ass over here and we're gonna do something.
It wasn't, you weren't promised a romantic scenery with me.
You were promised a thousand dollars I spent on you to bring your ass to my crib.
Bend over the balcony.
But that's why I say you have to talk about what is it you're agreeing to before you agree to it.
Because whilst you want to be the gentleman and say, okay, she could stay, baby, you done made the agreement to come over and fuck.
So if you're not going to be the lady of your word, I'm not going to be no gentleman to you.
Exactly.
Where are your models?
Interesting, yeah.
You see that?
You caught that?
There ain't no morality anymore.
Where's her morals on me already breaking my back over to spend that money?
But I've never been in that situation.
I never lead with that intent to say, hey, you're going to buy me this, I'm going to give you this and not give it.
That's crazy to me.
This is really interesting.
Alright, what about you?
What are you doing if she gets there and she'll want to smash?
She told me that she was smashing before I bought her the ticket.
Let's say it was assumed.
I would probably kick her out.
You'd kick her out?
Yeah.
How would you go about it?
You're so nice about it.
Can you please leave my house?
How would you go about it specifically?
I mean, I think obviously I say it a little bit nicer, but I think as a man and I'm expecting something, I'd be a little more frustrated.
Probably just tell her to get the fuck out.
So you tell her you have to leave.
So you want to tell her, hey, someone else is coming.
You just be like, hey, look, I understand, but you got to leave.
I wouldn't tell her someone else is coming.
She doesn't care.
I feel like I would probably know that someone's coming over anyway.
Yeah.
Why try and make her feel worse?
Just tell her to get out.
I feel like that's enough shame on its own.
All right.
And you wouldn't pay for anything.
You'd just be like, all right, later.
I mean, if I had some money, I would probably...
No, you're a regular nigga, man.
I'm normal.
Why is it broke?
You literally spent your last house in there.
Every time we give women...
Hold on, hold on.
Every time...
I find this very, very interesting.
Every time we give women a scenario, you're the guy, they always assume they're rich.
Because that's what they see.
That's what we want.
I mean, I think if you're flying someone out, you should have...
It kind of proves...
That's what we want.
Without fail, even if it's an average girl, whatever, every single time I'm ballin' I got money, they always assume that, but it's like, it proves my point that like, bro, most girls, dudes are invisible to them, bro.
Like, most men are virtually invisible to women.
We want a rich nigga.
That's fair.
Y'all can't even fathom Like, being a regular guy.
Like, you can't even imagine it, because when I ask you, imagine being a guy.
Okay, I'm a rich nigga, right?
You're 5'8", you barely get any dates, most girls don't even know who you are, you're a regular guy, most dudes are virtually invisible to women, and it's amazing.
And anytime we ask a girl, oh, you know, Run a scenario.
Run a scenario.
They always assume the guy's rich and they assume the guy's good looking and the guy has chicks.
I mean, look at all the love movies.
Look at all the romantic movies.
Are we not using you guys as examples?
Cinderella.
Who said I got money?
Are you guys not rich and good looking or no?
Who said I got money?
We're not average figures.
That's the point.
We're not regular guys.
Define rich.
Whatever.
Define rich.
Whatever.
This is their show.
They're rich.
What are you doing?
Are you kicking her out?
What are you doing?
She doesn't want to smash.
You spent a thousand bucks to get her out there.
You're a regular guy.
Let's say you're a barber since you're a hairdresser.
Male version of you.
You're a barber.
You're making 50k per year.
Regular guy.
You live in fucking Memphis.
I'm that nigga.
You bring that girl over.
She don't want to fuck.
What are you doing?
You got four kids.
If I was a gentleman...
You're not, though.
I'm a gentleman.
You might be.
You're a gentleman.
All right.
What are you doing?
I wouldn't make sure I'd be able to get her back home even though...
So you're dropping another k to get her home.
With blue balls?
Sheesh.
Keep in mind, it took you a week to make that.
You're making 50k million.
What?
Let's give it a million.
It took you a week.
It was assumed that she was going to fuck.
I'm going to make sure I have enough to get her back home.
I'm sorry.
But you didn't know that she wasn't going to change her mind and not fuck.
Why is Shawty coming on the one-way, though?
Yeah!
It's called insurance.
You don't know where you're going?
It's insurance.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
But I'm saying, like I said, in this scenario...
When I was invited to getting thrown out, I had my way back home.
No, you're the nigga, man.
I'm talking about...
You're the nigga now.
Remember.
Nigga, nigga, nigga.
I thought you said you didn't get invited.
You're making $1,000 a week.
I've never thrown out.
You're going to drop another $1,000 to get it back?
But I have been offered.
Okay.
Oh, okay.
First off, he's from Memphis.
She's already selling it.
Remember, you're a guy now.
Yeah.
Like I said, I will make sure I have enough to get her back home.
Okay, so you drop another $1,000.
Two weeks gone.
It's irresponsible, financially speaking, but I get where you're coming from.
What about you?
What are you doing?
I'm definitely flying her back.
You're flying her back?
On sight.
Exactly, because that's somebody's daughter.
I'd rather be broke for a week than have one night of awkwardness.
I'm good off that.
No, no, but you can just kick her out.
One day she'll be somebody's mother, maybe not the mother of your child.
You'll fly her back?
Damn, bro.
You about to waste two weeks of money?
At least I could go to sleep.
To hell?
You go to sleep with the lights on and with the lights off and no heat.
Alright, cool.
What about you?
What are you doing?
I'm gonna get her an Uber to the airport.
I feel like if she's gonna be like, no to sex, she already took that risk in account, no?
Word.
But I'm never flying out if there's a one-way trip.
If I'm a regular guy, I'm saving my money to fly you out.
We agreed on us having sex.
So the fact that you're here now, you're talking about the vibe is off, like, bitch...
Get the fuck.
As they say in the Bahamas, carry your cunni, alright?
Like, pop a...
What is it called?
Like, the pussycat pill?
Like, pop that pill, get your vagina wet, and let's do what we gotta do.
Like, it's really not that deep.
Because you knew what you were coming out for.
Okay, but then you took that risk.
Exactly.
I would never go out of nowhere.
Listen, my daddy taught me don't even go to dinner with a man if you can't buy that shit two times.
What the hell?
I ain't going nowhere with a man.
Especially to another country.
Bitch, are you ditzy?
Did your mother fail you?
If I ever go to a country with another man and I'm not able to fly myself home or get myself a hotel that same night, you're a ditzy bitch.
And you're dumb.
It's very interesting how when it's the girl's money, you guys switch it up 100%.
That's great.
No, but I agree with it for myself.
I live by that.
I live by that.
For you guys, for you guys...
Understand?
When it's their money, it's like...
When it's their money, they're playing.
Niggas?
I would never expect the men to go.
You guys, I have a question.
I have a question.
I have a question.
Real quick.
Real quick.
Yeah.
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And then we've got a video to react to as well.
Is that an hour already?
Dang.
Hour and a half.
Hour and a half.
Y'all niggas like to talk.
Okay, someone is going to ask something?
Yeah, I have a...
Well, I want to, but you can go first.
Sure, go ahead.
What's wrong with flying her back?
That's another thousand.
We're just asking here.
I know, but everyone making it seem like...
They just explained it to you.
That's another thousand.
They just explained it.
I understand, but you shouldn't have flown her out if you don't have a way to get her back if you're a gentleman.
She shouldn't have flown her out if she wasn't ready to fuck.
If you're a gentleman, you're not flying.
I say no.
I offer a personality with a thousand dollars, baby.
I offer dick and a knight to...
Why do you have to have sex to...
No, it's like a burger.
What if you just want to vote?
Because some men don't always want to have sex.
I'm sorry.
No, but in the chats, we had the agreement to have sex.
That's why she's coming out here.
That's what I'm saying.
You have to talk about what is sex coming out here.
I see where y'all heads at.
Go ahead.
May I? Thank you.
Go ahead.
For you guys I just was wondering let's say that she gets there and she does tell you the vibes are off like what is your best case scenario?
Are you wanting her to kind of go through with it and like uphold her end of the bargain?
Is that like feel sexy for you knowing that she's like not into it but gonna do it anyways just to like Fulfill her obligation or would you send her back or would you tell her to go catch an uber?
Like where like where you guys fall?
Like what is your best outcome if she gets there and she's like the vibes are off?
Is this for them?
What do you want to give your take and I can get mine?
So yeah, you know, if things happen more like the vibe isn't there, which hardly ever happens, but if it's not there, then I think on some level, you know, respectfully, we could part ways.
What level?
Because, you know, time is money.
Money is time.
So, you know, unfortunately, there was somebody else there to pick out her slack.
Sure, yeah.
And that's how it goes.
But then the next female that you bring in to replace what she didn't do, you're losing twice!
The next girl is in town.
She's close by.
She's in town.
Yeah, she's like two blocks away.
Yeah, so normally you would want to screen this out.
Make sure that she's DTF. Preferably it's a girl you've met before.
I call it sexual screening.
But for some odd reason, if she were to show up and she doesn't want to do it, then yeah, I kick her out, bro.
Get the fuck out of here, man.
Yeah.
Like, really?
Like, I'm not gonna stay here.
Now, with that said, like, normally...
But if you don't want to have sex with me and the vibes are off, why do you want to stay in my place?
Hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on, ladies.
Like, I would go, like, first, obviously, like, set up, like, an activity, like, go get something to eat or whatever and get to, you know, hang out or whatever, but...
He says activity and not date.
Yeah, because I'm always hungry anyway, so whatever, right?
But yeah, if she don't want to smash bro, like, yeah, I'll be like, alright, cool, no problem.
And I just kick her out, man.
Like, alright, you gotta go, though.
Like, man, I kick girls out for being on their period.
Like, I don't give a fuck, man.
Really?
Oh, boy.
Just lay down the towel.
It's not that bad.
Nah.
I hate you.
Yo, you're not.
You're a savage, bro.
I hate you.
You know my girls are like, I'm bleeding, but I'm not bleeding.
Yeah, that's fine.
When you say that, it's because of who you say that.
My thing is, I don't.
You can't just let any man hit when you're bleeding.
I'm like, you know what I mean?
Guys, guys, guys, guys, guys, guys, guys.
It's got to be one at a time.
It's very annoying for the audience when we all speak over each other.
But yeah, I don't like blood.
So for me, no.
And if a girl doesn't want to have sex, I'm like, alright, whatever.
I'm not going to play this game with you.
Just leave.
Because it's...
How do I say this bluntly?
I have to get confirmation.
Misogony.
Men really only hang out with women for one main reason.
Men want sexual access, man.
Women are not as interesting and as cool and as deep as they think they are.
You guys are relatively boring and very similar in the way that you guys view the world a lot of the times.
Are there girls that are cooler than others?
Of course.
Me.
Incredible.
But in general, if a girl doesn't offer a man sexual access, They're pretty much fucking useless, bro, to be honest with y'all.
And here's the thing, too.
I've come to realize, a girl can't fully give herself to you, and you can't get the best treatment and get the best side of her unless she gives herself to you sexually.
Because if you've ever been friend-zoned by a girl, then you'll know.
It's like you're doing your part, giving her boyfriend energy, giving her relationship advice, talking to her, giving her attention.
She's getting all the benefits without giving you sex, and you're not getting the best out of her.
So it's kind of a waste.
So...
If you're not fucking a girl, you effectively can't get the best out of the girl because women can only serve one master.
She talked about this earlier when she said that if a man has sex with another girl, he can still love his girl.
Yeah, because for us, sex is just a physical thing.
But for women, women need to give you their body physically and they also need to give you their mind for you to get the best of them.
And if you're not getting her body, that's her biggest tool set.
That's her biggest gift.
There's a reason why the makeup industry has existed and is a billion dollar industry.
Women understand that their sexuality is their primary agency.
And if you're not getting her sexuality, you cannot get the best out of her.
I have nothing to say.
Yeah.
A lot of women can have sex and not get emotionally attacked.
So she can have sex with you and still not respect you, still treat you like shit.
Of course.
But those are women you don't want to take seriously.
Yeah.
I can't do that.
At that point, she's already been fucked up.
Yeah, she's been desensitized.
You notice that a lot with girls that are hardcore porn stars.
They're desensitized to it, so they're able to have sex without emotion.
These are women you don't want to commit to.
It takes your soul away.
It sucks your soul out of you.
But listen, I have met men that treats...
I think certain women the same because they've experienced...
Put your hand down, please.
Thank you.
We'll get you next.
Don't worry.
I saw you.
You were saying?
They've experienced a woman that doesn't care for sex and just does it for fun.
So they meet another woman and think it's the same, but it's not the same.
Yeah, I mean, every girl, there's varying degrees of how much value women put on sex.
Because some women just do it like an activity, like a man.
For sure.
I don't think that's okay.
Because then a man will...
What, like, why don't you think that's okay?
Yeah, why is that?
That's her life.
What's okay about it?
What's not okay about it?
Yeah, what's not okay about it?
Like, a girl seeing sex as, like, whatever?
Yeah, tell us.
I'm sorry, I don't want to speak on this topic because I know a lot of women are like that.
Oh.
No, no, no.
Anybody want to do the podcast right now?
I'm so sorry.
That's another reason why men treat women the way they do because of this exact reason.
Why are you scared, though?
Because I don't want to offend women.
And I'm also a hairstylist.
I'm sorry.
I'm sorry.
I'm respectful.
I'm very respectful.
I don't want to offend anybody.
I'll say it.
She slow shaming me.
But that's fine.
There's nothing wrong with saying it.
No, because...
Women complain about how men treat women, but this is the exact same reason why.
Okay.
They did it before that was a common thing.
But all women are not the same.
That's what I'm trying to say.
I see your perspective.
I agree with that.
You're saying a man's treatment is correlated with how the woman behaves.
Yes, I look at sex very personal.
Okay.
All right.
Well, I know a girl that gave her man her kidney and he still cheated on her.
That's fine.
I don't care what situation with her.
He goes, he goes, he goes.
It don't matter.
She just helps him live longer.
Just like you guys said, he will love her.
Cherish her.
He doesn't want to be with...
Like she said...
Her man's a porn star.
I know a lot of celebrities that have cheer on their girl, but still love their girl.
Stop talking about cheer on their girl.
But that's what I'm saying.
How is he going to take you seriously when he's doing that, though?
Was that what you wanted to say earlier when you had your hand up?
No, I was asking, though, do you guys not have girlfriends, though?
If you're saying that you don't have and you can't...
Get all from a female.
Are you saying now that you don't have girls as friends?
Is that what you're saying?
Oh, platonic female friends?
Absolutely not, no.
You don't at all?
No.
And there's a very, I guess, logically sound reason for that.
It's agony.
Women are fairly useless as friends, to be honest with you.
They're fairly useless, yeah.
Anything that they could provide, I can get from a guy and it's going to be better.
So I'll give you an example, right?
Pause.
During the course of this conversation, when I asked you guys, put yourself in the man's shoe, what did you guys immediately all do?
Oh, I'm a baller.
Oh, I got money.
Blah, blah, blah.
You automatically assume that you are a higher status individual.
I didn't do that.
Hold on, you might have not, but women almost always do this when we do this exercise.
We've done this more than once.
So they always assume that they're attractive, they always assume they're tall, they always assume that they have money.
And the reason for that is because most women don't understand the male experience whatsoever.
You might a little bit if you have a brother, but in general, most women are very unaware of it, and most men are invisible.
So my thing is, I'd rather be friends with and confide and discuss topics with someone who also has dealt with the same trials and tribulations, right, that will understand my perspective.
Most women don't.
So what ends up happening a lot of times when you have female friends is you end up being her emotional tampon.
You end up being her solution provider.
You end up being her masculine energy.
You end up being a lot of boyfriend traits to that girl.
Inevitably, because it's just a male instinct, right?
They've done this too.
This is why...
Why did women not be allowed in the military infantry for so long?
Because men have a natural provider protector instinct.
When a woman is getting attacked in combat or whatever, men are going to spring to action to try to help her and compromise the unit.
So this is why women have been kept out of infantry and combat position for so long.
So I say all that to say this.
If you end up as a friend with a female, you're inevitably going to take on boyfriend traits whether you want to or not naturally.
But on her end, she's not necessarily obligated to give you any type of sexual access.
So what's happening is it's a one-sided relationship which a lot of girls that put guys in a friend zone, they're able to benefit and get the benefits without the guy getting what he wants.
She knows.
Right?
And a lot of you guys, all of you guys right now probably have at least one or two guys that's in the friend zone that would hook up with you in an instant if you called them, but you would never hook up with them.
But you're still able to siphon off benefit from them.
Men, we don't get it that way.
So I look at it like, okay, from a logically sound perspective, why am I going to be friends with a female when I know for a fact I'm not going to get any type of reciprocation?
And then on top of that, it's someone that can't identify with my masculine problems.
It's an L for me altogether.
Perfect!
And that's another reason why men don't want their girlfriend or wives with a boy best friend.
Thank you.
So I understand.
They're just entertaining the thought of them, they're thinking in their minds constantly about having sex with you.
And even if you hang out with them and you don't think that it's...
You think it's innocent, you're still entertaining those thoughts, which is like cheating.
So from a logically sound perspective, that's why I think it's a waste of time, 99% of the time, to be friends with women.
Now, are there exceptions?
Of course.
I got a friend out in Vegas, Michael Sartain.
He's friends with a bunch of females, right?
But he's able to leverage being friends with them to get him into certain social situations.
Right?
To get invited to parties, have events, etc.
So he's able to meet other women, right?
Because they serve as social proof.
But most guys can't pull this off properly.
Most guys end up in the shit end of the stick where they're giving all this boyfriend energy and they're not getting what they want in return.
And that's what will happen if you're not aware of what's going on.
Because you know it's true.
That's why I think it's, to answer your question, that's why I don't think it's plausible for most men to be friends with women.
Don't answer the question you don't want the answer to.
I don't know.
I'm a very beneficial friend.
Go ahead.
You were going to say something?
I honestly feel like...
Merch.
When I see men with their sisters, like their blood sisters...
That's different.
I understand that, but having that female perspective in their lives has helped a lot of them, no?
Because I feel like when...
Personally, what a woman brings to the table is nurture.
What female perspective would they get that's valuable, specifically?
Nurturing.
Anything to do with how he wants to take care of his kids.
But from the perspective of a man who wasn't raised, he doesn't know how.
He'd be like, look, I don't know why she's acting this way.
Maybe you can talk to me, open my eyes.
You've known me for years.
What is it that I can do?
So dating advice?
And if it's a burden for men to take on the boyfriend responsibilities and male and female friendships, set boundaries.
Set boundaries.
Know your place as a friend.
Know your place as a friend.
Say, if we're going to go out and you're my friend, split the bill.
You're my friend, right?
You don't want to get me pussy.
Most women are not okay with that.
Let's keep it a thousand.
But like I said, if I'm going out with my friend, I'm expecting to split that.
Especially if you're dating somebody, you should definitely be like, oh yeah, I'm going with my guy friend and that guy should definitely offer the okay.
Do you have guy friends right now?
Yeah.
That you hang out with?
Not regularly, but I do hang out with them.
I also don't hang out with anybody every day.
This podcast is making my head hurt by seeing the way people think.
Really?
Like what?
The way people think is like irritating me right now.
Tell me.
What don't you agree with?
Tell them what's up.
Because I have a dad and he explains a lot to me.
I don't know.
Which is why.
We want to know.
Yeah, like what?
I mean, you can't just make...
I don't know, because I also feel like...
Roast them.
No, I'm not.
I'm not.
I'm roasting nobody.
Please don't take nobody.
No.
I don't know nobody's personal life, even if you explained it on the podcast.
I feel like having male...
Male...
Friends?
No.
Male figures in your life, like a father, grandfather, brother, big brother.
Uncle, yeah.
Uncle.
If you have that in your life, you would understand...
What we're saying?
Yeah.
Which is why, no, I really want her to actually say her point without anybody pitching in to finish.
Some men think that all women are sluts are coming to a girl profile, like Instagram or anything, look at her in a certain type of way.
Sorry.
I feel like it's not like that.
What is it like?
I don't know.
I'm sorry.
No, but we can't let her.
No, we cannot let her make a statement.
Wait, wait, wait.
This is the reason why right now.
Hold on, stop, stop, stop.
This is why a male, a male, how can I say it?
Perspective.
A male figure is very important in a woman's Life.
Okay, so what she's trying to get at, please correct me if I'm wrong here.
Because remember, we talked about, you said, well, you should have a female friend for a female perspective, correct?
And then your argument was for nurturing.
Right.
For nurturing.
What I would argue is that it's not a man's job to be a nurturer.
I would argue, as a father, your job is to tell your daughter or your son how the world really works, right?
To be the disciplinarian and kind of be the front line to keep your kid from becoming a fuck-up.
It's the mom's job to nurture.
Yeah.
Your job is to be the disciplinarian and let your kid know that there's consequences for doing things wrong.
This is why, you know, single mother households fail so much.
I live with my dad and my little brother, so most of the things the women are saying is, like, kind of irritating me right now.
I'm going to punch my face.
I am a support.
You're not a business.
I can understand your personality.
No, I am a support.
I am a support all women's girl.
I'm a girl's girl.
No, no, I'm not.
I'm very close to my mom as well.
Okay, but my social media, people probably think...
Who hurt you?
No one hurt me.
Honestly, I'm not...
What my thing is, though...
She agrees with our perspectives, and she's confused as to why you guys don't see our side, but I get where you're...
Is that what you're trying to say?
Because I've been watching her when I speak, and she nods with a lot of things I say, and then, yeah.
If she doesn't understand that, you guys can't grasp some of the things we say.
A lot of people be like, about this podcast, that the guys are bad people, or they're mean, or aggressive, disrespectful, but it's only because some of the things they are saying is right.
It's just the way they say it that offends the women.
See, I can relate to you.
Personally, I'm not seeing the issue.
I'm sorry again, girls, girls on here.
I love you girls.
Okay.
That's cool.
It's okay.
We love you too.
Yeah, we do.
Fuck with me.
Yeah, I know that's right.
But going back, so yeah, I see, because you made the argument about the nurturing.
I don't think it's valid.
I think you're better off as a guy just having guy friends versus having female friends.
Even when it comes, because a lot of girls make the argument, oh, well, I could tell you how to get girls.
I don't think women are really good at attracting other women in general.
And I'll explain, because I know she might say, well, I disagree, I have a girlfriend.
What I mean by that is, women are not good at attracting women as a male.
Because attracting a woman as a woman is completely different.
She said earlier, and I made sure to ask this, are you 50-50 in your partnership, in your relationship?
And you said yes.
But I guarantee if you were a dude and you were with that woman and she was heterosexual, she would not be okay with going 50-50 with you.
She would expect you to be the predominant breadwinner.
What I've realized is this, and I love asking girls that are bisexual this question.
Wait, wait, wait.
I'm sorry.
Oh, keep talking.
Girls that are bisexual, right?
If they date both men and women, I ask them, well, what are your standards when you date a man versus dating a woman?
They're okay with being equal and 50-50 with a woman, but they are not okay with being 50-50 with a man.
Actually, I don't.
Most of the time.
But that's not my experience.
What's not your experience?
Well, I actually do really like masculinity and the femininity, like that polarity and the dynamic.
Yeah.
And I find that still is present in my relationship with my girlfriend.
Like I definitely have the more masculine energy and she has the more feminine energy.
And like I would like to make more money and I would like to take care of my girlfriend.
I'm trying to do that.
So I do understand.
And then like with men, the men that I date...
But it's not obligatory is my point.
Kind of it is though.
She ain't gonna leave you if you continue to be 50-50 for a little bit longer.
No, she would never leave me.
We love each other very much.
But the burner performance would be extremely higher if you were a man.
She would expect you to pay a majority of the bills.
Yeah, I understand.
Versus she'll let it slide since you're a woman.
So what I've realized is the standards are different even for bisexual women.
They hold the men to a way higher standard that they date than the women that they date.
I'm bisexual and I hold my men and my women to the same level.
Likewise.
You going 50-50 with dudes?
I'll go 50-50 with a man.
You go 50-50 with your guy right now?
I've been going 50-50 with a man.
And a lot of men will you take advantage of that and save their money and go get a girl they really want.
Ask him why one woman who held up his end of the bargain when he had no job, ask him why that wasn't enough for him.
And he's gone.
That's not my problem.
Not my monkey, not my circus.
But guess what?
Not anymore.
Not anymore.
Not my monkey, not my circus.
But she definitely didn't hold him down when he had nothing.
Hold on.
And he will use that and go get a woman he really wants.
He will save all his money.
Thank you!
Thank you!
But the woman you really want is not going to do it for you.
Now you spin!
And he will treat that woman the way he was supposed to treat you.
Tell her, sister!
And anyway, I read the comment, I'm sorry, I know you're not supposed to be on their side.
And every female girlfriend I've ever had go 50-50 with me too.
No ifs, ands, or buts.
No bums.
I'll carry you when you need to be carried just like I expect reciprocation.
That's why.
Wouldn't it be fair to say that since the relationship didn't last, that doesn't really work?
Because you're saying, oh, I go 50-50, but all your 50-50 relationships haven't lasted.
So wouldn't it be fair to say it doesn't work?
I don't think there's anything wrong with accepting reciprocation.
Like, I may not always be able to give 50-50 financially.
That's my point.
Hold on, hold on.
Whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa.
That's precisely my point, though.
Exactly.
But I'm saying, like, because sometimes you start at the bottom, right?
You're always at the top.
When I can do 50-50 with you on bills.
You're moving the goalpost.
With all due respect, you're moving the goalpost.
You're moving the goalpost.
The literal argument I'm making is that women typically don't fare well when they're going 50-50 with a man.
Right.
Can they do it?
Are they capable?
Of course.
But is she going to suck your dick with the same ferocity?
No.
Nope.
Is she going to submit to you the same way?
No.
Are you going to get sex all the time like you want?
No.
She will argue with you.
Yes.
She's going to be more masculine.
She's going to be more tired.
She's going to be more likely to challenge your authority.
That's why the man is supposed to be.
That same woman that was provided for that broke man going 50-50 with him?
He's gonna leave you eventually.
I did so much for him.
I did so much for him.
And he's gonna still cheat on your ass.
But my thing is though, you're basically having a roommate that you have sex with.
If you're dating a woman...
No, but hold on.
When you date a woman, you're attracted to their femininity, right?
And when you're dating a man, you're attracted to their masculinity.
That's two different things.
I have to disagree.
If you didn't make a man feel like a man, you were going to get a woman that makes him feel like a man.
Not all women...
Who are not straight are feminine.
And not all men who are not straight are feminine.
I have siblings, step-siblings, half-siblings, friends who are gay, bisexual, XYZ. Some of them are feminine, some of them are masculine.
I don't mind wearing cargo pants and Jordans, but I also like looking nice in this cute-ass little dress.
So I'm telling you right now, I don't search for masculine or feminine.
If I feel like...
If I feel like we vibe and we get along and you...
Right, just search your attractiveness.
Your soul has something to offer.
Yeah, exactly.
Bro, you don't know what you want.
You don't know what you want.
Just say it.
You don't know what you want.
I've dated women in dresses.
You don't know what you want.
I've dated women in pants.
You know what I'm saying?
Not literally.
You know what I mean.
You know what I mean.
Well, literally in pants.
There's a big disconnect here, though.
I mean, with all the polyamorous stuff.
Hold on, hold on.
Stop, stop.
There's a big disconnect here.
Because you're saying, like, oh, well, I'm not always a feminine woman, etc.
That's cool.
We live in a society where women don't necessarily have to be ladies and men will accept you.
However...
You are not gonna date a guy that wears heels on Saturdays.
Stop it.
You're not doing it.
You're not doing it.
Like, men have a tolerance...
That could be her preference, though.
No, she won't do it.
Men have a tolerance for women being masculine to a degree, but women have zero tolerance for a man being super feminine, especially overtly, dressing like a woman, behaving like a woman, etc.
Zero tolerance.
Like, they're not gonna do it.
If you're not bisexual, I wouldn't want you to be super feminine.
I agree with your statement.
You wouldn't even give a bisexual nigga a chance.
Come on, man.
Straight women would not date bisexual men.
I have been with a bisexual man.
I wouldn't pause it.
Wait, wait, hold on.
You would mess with a guy that's bisexual?
Right.
I'm not a cheater, but...
Wait, wait, hold on.
This nigga is sucking dick.
Get a dick in the butt.
Fucking you.
I'm not a cheater.
You're cool with that?
I'm positive if he's staying with me, but yeah, I'm cool with that.
You can look at him and feel like you're looking at your man.
She lost her virginity to the guy that she's with.
She's never been with a dude like that.
I've never been with any other man.
Sorry.
You can still be monogamous regardless of your sexuality.
How old are you?
If it's understood that you're both being monogamous.
You're missing the point.
I'm saying that Men behaving like women or cross-dressing or whatever is almost never going to be accepted by a female, whereas a man will accept a woman that wears cargo pants to Jordans, as you put it earlier.
Does that make sense?
So there's a level of tolerance for female masculinity, but there's no tolerance for male femininity, like overtly.
You had a point?
I feel like mindset-wise...
I'm 19, so when I meet girl that's older than me with a mindset of a 16-year-old, it triggers the fuck out of me.
- You think I have a mindset of a 16 year old?
- No, no, no, no, no, no, no. - You think like in general, especially on a internet.
- 'Cause you're talking from a age early year old. - Especially on a internet.
- Yep.
- Hold on, hold on.
- Somebody else has something?
We got a video to play.
- Yeah, somebody else has something? - I didn't necessarily have a point.
I was just saying that I could never date a bisexual man ever.
- Why?
- Like I could not look at him as my man.
And I want to feel dominated by my man.
I want pure, intense, masculine energy.
I want complete control in my relationship.
I need to be controlled.
I could not have a feminine man telling me what to do.
What makes you think a man's chicken can never dominate me?
What makes you think he's not bending the guy over?
So he doing the bending makes it better?
What makes you think he's doing the better your top slash bottom agreement stands I get where she's coming from?
It's because he's gay.
What?
No.
Bisexual.
You know.
He has a bisexual man.
He has a bisexual man.
All right.
All right.
Wow.
Wow.
My fucking head.
We'll do this real quick.
I'm sorry.
How many ladies at the table would date a bisexual man?
Me.
Love it.
Two, and three.
I got one word for you guys on panel.
Ants.
Alright, let's move on.
Alright, so we got a video to play here about the flying out.
So, most of you said that the woman is unobligated to have sex, right?
No, I think she is.
That's why I said most.
Most of you said that she's not obligated to have sex.
So, when she gets flown out, some of you guys said yes.
I think only two of you said yes.
Okay, we got a video to play.
Let's play this video real quick and get the ladies' reactions to it.
So, woman upset.
Okay.
She flew out a dude and he didn't want to give it up.
Alright, let's see.
Let's play this thing.
So how would y'all feel if y'all flew a dude out, spent $2,300 for his plane ticket, and he don't even want to fuck?
Listen, I didn't come here to have so much children.
I appreciate you flying me out, but listen, I don't just have such people on the first day.
Okay, but it's been a few hours.
We didn't watch movies.
We Netflixed and chilled.
Get to know each other more.
That's what I'm trying to do.
I'm trying to vibe out.
I didn't spend my money for nothing.
I'm saying, like, why are you trying to, like, come at me because I don't want to have sex with you?
Because, like, what's your problem?
Like, is it little?
What you mean it's little?
Like, no, listen.
Are you ashamed?
Like, it's okay.
Like, I don't mind.
I don't mind.
Wow, that's what I'm saying.
Don't do that to me.
That's weird.
I thought we were going to get to know each other.
Maybe go on a nice little date.
That's all you thinking about.
I need to know before I even go on a date.
I'm not going to play with you.
You want me to go on a date, spend all this, waste my time, and I get up in here and you're probably little.
How about I get your money back?
Because I'm not going to go back and forth about Alright, so ladies, real quick.
And for all the geniuses saying fake in the chat, that's fine.
That's not the point.
The point is to ask a question here.
Ladies, um...
Is he obligated to give her the money back?
Yes.
No.
Yes.
Hold on, hold on.
And then say why.
Yeah, yes and then why.
Yes, because he knew she would've wanted to fuck.
And he don't find her attractive.
That's exactly why he's not trying to fuck talking about some, oh, he want to get to know her.
Alright, what about you?
Is he obligated to give her the money back?
This one's weird because...
See what I did there?
Did the switcheroo on him.
He was real goofy because it just seems like he was like...
He's obviously not attracted to her, but like...
He's a goofy for not wanting to fuck?
Man, what if I call the girl a goofy for not wanting to fuck?
I know, right?
Are you with the vibes?
You goofy ass bitch.
He should've known.
He should've known what he was walking into.
She flew him out to fuck.
Interesting.
He should've known.
If I wasn't attracted to her, why did he show up?
Right.
So pay her back.
That's weird.
That's goofy.
Why does she get him a flight like you said?
Be a gentleman.
A gentlewoman.
$2,300.
He did say, I'll give you a little.
I did the switcheroo there.
All right, what about you?
What do you think?
Should he give her the money back?
Is she obligated to get him a ride back?
You said earlier that the man should get the chick back.
Why can't she get him back?
Why would he get on a plane that she bought for it?
That is a man.
He's not a man because he got on that plane.
So he should give her the money back?
Do you think he should give her the money back?
I don't think he has the money back.
I'm sorry.
No?
Don't give her the money back?
I don't know.
You don't know?
Okay.
He's taking on the feminine role.
Okay.
What about you?
What do you think?
Do you think he should give her the money back?
I think he's obligated to...
Figure out his own way back home, but not to give the money back.
That's her fault.
And she's not obligated to get him to back or anything like that.
So same thing for you as it was with the female scenario.
What about you?
Yeah, no, he's not.
And shawty tripping about some...
She, what she said about something she fucked before she even go on the first date and things.
She needs to see the court in a little bit.
She's a whore.
That man is protecting himself.
Demon be gone.
He protects himself.
No.
He, she needs to learn from this lesson.
This is a lesson for her to learn.
She is a man.
Exactly.
And just how I said.
She's a he, I'm sorry.
And just how I said, if a man flies a woman out, how, if she doesn't, if they have an agreement and she doesn't want to fuck, he could kick her out.
Mm-mm.
Boy, if you say you ask...
That video just made my head hurt.
First of all, he's dumb as hell talking about something he's offering the money back.
First of all, if bitch you chopped, I'm gone.
I'm finding another bitch in your city.
Okay?
Okay.
All right.
So he does not obligate it to do anything.
All right.
What about you?
What do you think?
No, not obligated to pay the money back.
Is she obligated to get him back then?
She already assumed the masculine role by flying him out.
Yes, if you're going to be masculine and you're going to be on that daddy energy and you're going to fly somebody out, fly them back.
So you're the same way for both sides.
Yeah.
Fly them back.
Be a gentleman or be a gentleman?
All right, what about you?
First and foremost, this...
Holy crap.
It was a lot to unpack.
I know.
I kind of threw that on you guys.
$2,300.
I'm not paying.
I do not care how fat the L in front of the word love is.
I am not paying $2,300 for you to come see me.
No, but let's say you did.
So what are you doing now?
So he doesn't want to fuck.
What are you doing?
You paid $2,300 to get this guy out there.
It's your dream man.
That is a girl.
You paid $2,300.
A unicorn that's just money?
Yeah.
No, no, no.
You spent $2,300.
You're making $30,000, $40,000 per year.
What are you doing now?
He don't want to smash.
What are you doing?
I'll be but hurt and I'll do the same thing as if I was a man.
I'll be like, well...
Kick him out?
I'll be like, well, you got XYZ amount of time because homie on his way and big homie that I invited to take your place, he don't play.
So you better be home by the time he can't hear.
Girl, honestly, that's like buying a car you can't drive.
Girl, fuck.
Alright, are you giving him 24 hours too?
I'm driving it.
- Are you giving the 24 hours?
You gave the girl 24 hours. - Under regular circumstances I would, but he acting like, "Sir, do you see what you shape like?" - Don't give him a little 24 hours. - No, you wanna act like, look how he was acting.
- No, but she knew what he was shaped like before she flew him out.
- Yeah, but you can't be looking like that and be hella extra.
- No, he can.
He can't.
- No, watch, he acting like he knew exactly what he was doing. - And it's a joke.
She's a joke because why is it that First and foremost, you're flying this man out.
I'm not saying she's not a joke.
I'm not saying she's not, but I'm saying like, big homie, if you're gonna look like that, you probably hashtag shrimp gang, and you acting like, bro, you acting like a missus.
You're acting to give back the 2300 you probably don't have.
Just go sleep on the couch, big homie on his way to take your place anyways.
Chris, you know what this is, bro?
Mimei talking.
That's Miami and her talking right now.
Just how the female can get out of the house.
You're going to have that man in your house.
Don't the other big homie come and fuck you?
No, because I don't fly men out.
Because if you're going to call another big homie to fuck you, he better be making you scream his name and hope he's going to be on that couch.
I don't disagree with you whatsoever, but I'm also not flying no grown men out.
Yo, can we get some...
I feel like the roles is being...
That couple done bouncing around for the rest of the day.
No, the cups have been empty.
The cups have been empty.
Go ahead, go ahead.
What would you do in this scenario?
I need more water.
My head is throbbing.
They'll get you.
They'll get you.
Get her another water or anybody else.
Everyone wants water?
No.
The question was, is he obligated to get the money?
No.
I don't feel like he's obligated to give the money back, no.
That's right.
She was very much goofy for even paying that in the first place.
Yes.
She should have invested in a new hairstyle instead of that.
Yes.
A facelift.
No.
To touch on a similar comment you made when the situation was reversed.
In your opinion, should she get him a ride back?
Or like a flight back?
No?
No.
No.
To the airport, at least.
To the airport?
Yeah.
No.
To touch on the comment you made when the roles were reversed, you made a comment about how you probably find somebody in your city who'll be there.
You might want to be gone before she gets there.
If you have somebody in your city, why are you flying somebody out?
Exactly.
Word.
Don't get me wrong.
Don't get me wrong.
I get the concept you're explaining, but if I have a mister to replace, oh boy, have your bags packed before he gets here because it's Alright, so you're not giving, it's safe to say, you give the girl 24 hours, but you're not giving the guy 24 hours.
If you have somebody in your city to take his place, then why are you flying somebody out?
I mean, you mentioned, you made the same statement.
You had somebody in your city who's going to take her place, but she better get going.
This is why we're different as men and women.
For you, you don't see why, but I see why.
He has a number one, and the girl in the city is the number two.
So if he can't get the first one, might as well go for the second.
Basically, no?
But sometimes the girl in the city is always available.
Listen, when he's calling for that girl in the city, that girl is always available.
That is his default.
They don't ask him Google Chrome or Siri.
They're going straight to Google Chrome because they know that is his default.
That man knows what he's He doesn't know what he's getting with that girl.
He doesn't know what he's getting with you.
It's the mystery that's going to excite him.
That's why men don't want women that have been around with other men, especially men in their friend groups, how they know they get down.
It's the mystery.
So if you're going to come over as a man and I fly you out, and I'll probably fly my man out.
I have no problems with that.
I work.
I want to spoil my man at some point.
You feel me?
Once in a while.
But that would be my man that I know is going to put it down on me.
It's not gonna be no random nigga that I ain't never even been on a date with.
Don't even know if he like her vibes.
Baby, he doesn't even like the way you look.
You're walking, breathing, and you're a woman with a vagina.
What I've realized is when it's the girl's money, what this exercise basically demonstrated was, which is very interesting, If it's their money, it's a fucking problem, and yo, bitch, you're getting out, or dude, you're getting out, regardless.
I said it either way.
But the point I'm trying to make is that I find it interesting that women always, almost always, act in their own best self-interest when it's their money.
However, when you're the guy, you're expected to act on their best interest as a gentleman.
I have a question.
How would you guys feel if a woman flew out and paid for everything?
Would you not feel like a...
Why would you smash it?
That never, to be honest with you, like, even though I know this thing was probably staged, my point was to kind of flip it.
That's why I used it.
But, yeah, hypothetically, most women would never fly most guys out.
Okay, but if I used to be like, come to the church and you find us, I got a condo, I'm going to put you up.
Holy shit.
Wouldn't you think...
But what if it happened?
Would you not come in mind to fuck?
Wait, hold on.
One person at a time.
Yeah, one person at a time.
Holy shit.
Can I finish?
Yeah, go ahead.
What if it happened?
I'm sorry.
What if a girl actually did fly me out?
So what's your question?
What would I do?
How would you feel?
I wouldn't accept it.
I wouldn't accept it.
If he was a real man, he wouldn't have accepted it.
I don't think so.
I don't think it comes down to a real man.
If you're a real man, this and that.
I personally wouldn't accept it.
But I feel like men also put themselves in that position to where they hold a certain masculinity as to where the standards aren't the same for men or women either way.
It's not.
Just how men say that they could be able to not be misogynistic.
Or just be with women.
Or be able to be with multiple women and still be with you.
Just how they hold themselves to that standard.
It's the same thing with all these different scenarios.
It's never going to be at equal level because men always hold themselves on a different level and position than women.
Right.
A man is not going to...
Do you not agree with that or do you agree with that?
I agree with it, but then that's why I answer how I answer the question.
What's the argument?
Just how you said...
No, because he said how men...
He said, realize the difference how when women are talking about spending their own money versus how when they're talking about spending a man's money.
That's the argument.
Men hold themselves to a certain level and standard to where women have that open space to look at it that way.
What the fuck?
I don't know if it's a liquor, but you lost me.
I'm sorry.
You lost me.
Just how he said.
She blamed it on alcohol.
Hold on.
Hold on.
- Hold on, I'm gonna stop you there.
But we have here real quick some questions from ladies.
- Oh lord. - Just to break the ice. - So we'll do the chat first and then your questions. - Let me just read these real quick.
Okay.
If she is beautiful, her ass is fat and is looking like a snack, but her energy is whack.
Her body shaped like a Coca-Cola bottle.
Her soda is flat.
That's why the men she dates will never come running back.
And that's why she will end up with her cats.
Okay, shout out to Kim.
I do have a quick color body and I do have a cat.
Oliver goes, how is that midget 2 from Fresh A Fighter?
She looks like she's wearing a baby muscle suit.
She couldn't fuck up a 13-year-old boy.
You know for a fact she has fucked all her trainers and sparring partner.
A girl in the room has so much makeup on it too.
You have anything you want to say back to Ms.
Cohen?
What the fuck?
Here's the thing.
The silence is deafening.
Talk to them.
How tall are you saying that you're a midget?
That's why you asked me my height earlier.
Now I understand.
5'3", first of all.
Second of all, actions speak louder than words.
I knocked out a girl who was 5'11".
I don't really have to say much more than that other than pull up to anytime, anywhere, and let's run it.
So hold on.
That's a call out.
So don't hit her.
Hit her up.
Let's borrow her, bro.
All of her.
Okay, girls in the room that have so much makeup on it looks like a casting couch for Barnum and Bayley Cetrack.
Absolute clowns.
No one looks under 35.
I don't think you know what a real woman looks like.
Red Pill Rants goes to the ladies who want a 50-50 partnership.
Are you okay with working while pregnant and paying 50% of the bills for the rest of your life even after 60 years old?
Meaning mortgage, car notes, kids, college tuition, trips, light bill, water, etc.
Who's okay with that?
This question is not for me because I'm going to be a stay at home.
But they're asking who is okay with that?
Who wants to do 50-50?
Because you said you're okay with it.
So are you okay with all that?
I feel like, yes and no, there's a portion in there that doesn't exactly make sense to me.
Why am I paying bills till I die?
Let's point out that we are fiscally responsible around here and plan for our future.
Yeah, but we're fiscally responsible.
We pay 50-50, but we still set money aside for retirement.
Yeah, but the light bill is still going to come due every month.
We're going to still pay our bills, but I'm not like...
Working for the rest of my life.
If that's how it has to be, then that's how it has to be to make you flow.
It never has to be like that, baby.
You're not doing all that shit.
For 60 years?
Come on, brother.
Wait, you mean what?
You have no idea how many people's rents I paid myself out of pocket, making less than what the rent total was.
And I still did it.
That's why you're single now.
But it had nothing to do with a relationship, even.
Friendships, even.
What's even worse?
Alright.
You gotta do what you gotta do.
Okay, Ninja Smokehouse.
What happens in my personal life shouldn't affect my professional life.
Wow.
The delusion.
And she has a master's degree.
Why would a man choose you over a woman who cares about what men want?
Feminine fit, modest wife.
Well, she dates girls, though.
Yeah, I'm not concerned about men choosing me.
All right.
Chris brought four black chicks.
LOL. He making Fresh play the darker games.
Okay.
Anyways, ratings from Daniel Kaluuya of Fresh.
Okay.
Okay.
Deep Fried Sid from Ice Age, four.
Dick Pole, two.
Fresh's Cat, three.
Burnt Animal, three.
What does that mean?
I think he's attempting to rate us.
He is.
I think he's attempting to rate us.
Absolutely hilarious.
Because sweetheart, I promise you, you could drop into every single DM at this table and nobody's responding.
No.
This is the only way they're able to be hurt, ladies.
Let's be very respectful.
This is the only time they're ever hurt by a person who was obviously bullied as a child.
Let's just be respectful.
Say the Ice Age key.
Who the fuck is up?
I don't know if you can see it, but you're on the floor.
I'm going to go ahead and assume, remember?
I'm reading the tool, but it's okay, baby, because your dad probably rate me an eight.
What like is this?
Why are you guys even assuming he's speaking about it?
I'm not even on that list.
I don't know what to talk about.
I'm not even on that list.
I was looking, I was like, which one's me?
Okay, okay.
We're gonna go back to it.
My nigga said burnt animal.
What the fuck?
I remember back in the days, the song that they used to make fun of.
All right, so we go, okay, it goes, ratings from Daniel Kaluuya.
Okay, so he's saying you.
So, deep fried, deep fried, he called you a four.
He called you dick pull, too.
Freshest Cat...
No, no, no, Lilo.
Lilo, four.
And then he goes, Freshest Cat, three.
And then they say...
Am I the four?
Yeah, you're the four.
You call that burnt animal a three.
Tax the streets a two, you call the you Jewish nose a two, and then boomerang eyebrows a four.
Wait, I'm deep fried Sid?
Yeah, you're deep fried Sid.
I'm my Sid.
From Ice Age.
I'm my Sid.
I don't even have a lisp.
What the hell?
Any of y'all got a response to this nigga?
My response is, fuck you.
Thank you.
He's not talking about me.
I thought it was very creative.
My response is, it's absolutely unfortunate that you were clearly bullied as a child and this is your only outlet.
Damn.
Because I'm sure that you think I'm a two but your father thinks I'm a eight.
Sorry your mother never loved you.
I don't look like Sid!
Ain't no way!
I'm glad you tried to have the bad.
Spoiler!
Oh, all of this is happening.
Everybody on this table nods.
We could all make that guy's bad or insane.
Who do I have to curse out?
Chris or Aaron?
I don't know.
Wait, who's Aaron?
The dude that said this, who was it?
It was freshers or moot that said this.
Yeah.
Oh, no.
Yo, nigga said burnt animal.
What the fuck is burnt animal?
What is burnt animal?
I thought that would have been me to be honest.
That's TCI.
That's TCI.
He called her burnt animal.
Niggas is fucking dick, bro.
I thought that would have been me.
All right.
Nick Hickers.
Okay.
I see what you did there.
Hey Fresh, any chance we could get a Money Monday topic on growing your IG and how to network?
Also, can I use the DMs on demand to build a car IG? And is it possible to cover Sinatra's Overwatch and Valorant Pro essay accusations?
Wow.
I don't know what he said about the IG growing part.
I need more followers.
Yeah, bro, we got you with the episode for sure.
Yeah, you can do that, bro.
Yeah, you definitely can.
But the last part, I'm confused about, like, who's...
Sinatraa, I think he's an Overwatch pro.
I'll look him up.
I remember that name, Sinatraa.
Yeah, we got you, bro.
Hunter goes bunny ears, OF is tiny daft.
Oh, is this one of your friends?
Ew!
Is that one of your fans I guess?
Is that one of your subs?
Oh yeah, thanks!
Would you ever date one of your subs?
Yeah.
Nope.
Okay.
Nope.
I mean...
Hell no.
It's right there, ninjas.
All right.
Possibly.
Question.
Yes?
If Myron flew you out, what would you do?
Wait, what?
Why would you ask that?
She's part of the obligated team.
I'm just curious.
I don't want to disrespect him by answering that question.
I don't know how to answer that question.
I don't want to be disrespected.
You can be honest, it's fine.
It doesn't hurt my feelings.
Well, no, I... Don't worry, I got you.
I mean, I respect Myron.
You know, I don't...
Oh, man, I don't...
She don't like niggas, man.
Okay.
I think you're very...
No, I... She don't like niggas, man.
Okay, okay.
Just say it.
Y'all don't date niggas.
I just haven't...
No, no, no.
Okay.
She's never dated a black guy before, period.
You guys, you gotta give her a chance to dip her toes in the water.
She's new to this, not used to this.
Um, I don't know how to, I don't know how to answer that question.
Let her go black, see if she goes back.
I think she'll go back.
I think she'll go back.
You're a masculine man.
Very masculine.
You have to take charge as a leader.
And completely, I don't want to make decisions.
I don't want to, I want to wake up in the morning and not have to decide anything on my own.
I want to, the ears, I want to.
I want to be a pet.
My role in a relationship is I want to be a dog.
Do you like the whole collar thing?
Yeah.
Would you bark?
Would I bark?
I'll put my brain on idle.
I'm very, very, very submissive.
That's like a dream.
So you would bark.
I'm very submissive.
Okay, could you meow?
Okay, that's pretty good.
So, ask the question.
Come on.
I mean, I would know what I would be expected to do.
I know what I would be obligated to do.
Can he put you in a cage?
What?
What type of cage?
I do enjoy being in a kennel.
I know it's weird.
It's safe for me, and I feel like...
What?
That's what happens, bro.
She's a freak.
What?
I don't necessarily think I'm a freak.
I know it's weird.
Okay, guys?
I know it's fucking weird.
I get it.
I get it.
It's weird.
It's strange.
It's comforting for me.
And it's not even just a sexual...
It's not even just a sexual thing.
It's mental.
Comforting.
I'm sorry, I'm not sure how to answer that question.
If he asks, I would answer him.
It's disrespectful for me to ask her what she would do if you flew her out.
This is going to be so awkward.
Tell them after.
Tell them after.
How about that?
Okay.
After?
Oh, my goodness.
I'm sick of fresh now.
Yes, sir.
What was you?
Who, me?
No, her.
Oh, yeah.
Okay.
I mean, you just kind of did come out of nowhere.
I know.
I don't accept that.
Masculine leader.
I'm like, ooh.
Yeah, but, bro, you can't ask her.
There's 20,000 niggas watching, man.
He's trying to play a wingman.
Let him be.
He can do that shit off air, Matt.
Let him be.
Okay, okay.
This dude always try to do this shit on air, man.
They want to know, too.
Get him, Myra.
All right, man.
Let's move on.
Myra, get him, Myra.
God says, I love how not a single one of them mentioned how they would be a loving and nurturing mother or be an asset instead of being a liability.
Okay.
I literally said nurture.
I literally said a woman's job.
We were not talking about it.
But nurture is a woman's on a whole, no?
Yes.
Shut up, bitch!
Let me just get through this.
Okay.
All right.
MLD says, Myron, I'm so glad you got rid of the red Rolex.
No, I still have it.
I still have it.
I just haven't worn it in a bit.
Dude, it's a collector's item now.
They don't make it anymore.
But Fresh, when you're getting him an iced out watch.
Nah, man, I can't.
I've been trying, bro.
I've been trying.
No man should be flying out any woman, in my opinion, in 2024.
She can get her own ticket with her own money.
Okay.
That's MLB. Shout out to you.
If the sexual attraction is that serious, bro, fly yourself out to go see him.
Okay.
These came out after?
Yeah, those are earlier.
Those are earlier?
Okay.
And guys, as you know, every single chat gets shown on screen.
However, you know, after we hit like 15K, we started reading the 51s and up.
We just want to make sure that we get you guys more of the show.
Taz, cancel your plans tonight.
Shorty, we're taking you out for dinner after the show and then back to the crib to clap your cheeks.
Rule one, don't fuck up.
The Lambo or hero will bite your ass.
It's the big homies pride and joy.
Rule two, don't post our horizontal cardio session online or fresh and swole transformer cousin Flammu aka fresh champagne will beat you up.
Rule three, don't be shy to message the balls.
We like feeling tingling.
That's...
He obviously has no grammar skills.
I think he meant to say, massage the balls.
He meant to say, don't be shy to massage the balls.
Hold on, hold on.
What's your response to Fresh's Balls?
Don't respond.
Get it.
Don't respond.
What's your response?
Go ahead.
My response?
I mean, I'm going home to my girlfriend tonight.
Like, I have my baby waiting in bed for me.
Sorry.
What about tomorrow, though?
You can hang out first tomorrow.
Yeah.
I'll be in Vegas.
When he gets back.
When he gets back.
Wait, do you like black guys or no?
Ooh.
Yeah, I do.
You do?
Yeah, I do.
But you're bisexual, right?
Yeah.
Oh, okay, okay.
That doesn't have to do with rape.
Okay.
I mean...
MSWs are not very...
Why is the chick next to mine built like this?
What the fuck, bro?
No!
No.
What the hell?
That's fucked up, man.
Aurelian says, ladies, what are your thoughts on a new research poll that shows 70% of women have a backup plan with a friend or ex in case their co-relation doesn't work out?
Cheating.
Also, W. Chris, he's been going hard on these three or fours the way he went at the 50 Cent Puerto Rican chick who kept name dropping.
Keep it up, Chris.
Thanks, man.
Okay.
Yeah, how do you ladies feel about that?
70% of women have a backup plan.
That's cheating.
That's cheating.
I feel like if you have a backup plan in your head, that's kind of like...
In your head, in your text messages, in your portfolio.
If you have a backup plan, like in real life, you're actually speaking with that person.
You're like, oh yeah, you're the person I'm going to do.
A backup plan is not somebody you haven't spoken to in three years.
Somebody you talk to regularly.
If you're like, oh, if you F up, I'm going to go on Instagram and post this and I'm going to do da-da-da-da-da-da.
That's not really cheating.
I'm not saying it doesn't exist, but I'm not okay with it.
As a partner, I'm not okay with it.
I know for sure.
I know for sure.
I always have a backup, so...
It's the ladies that were pulled.
He's not the...
Like, to expose myself a little bit, like, when I had, like, my last, like, bitch argument...
Shut up, bitch!
Listen, listen, listen.
I'm not even talking, man.
Relax.
I need you to relax.
We have to get through the chats.
Me?
Yes, you.
Oh, the whole night I've been talking?
Yes.
That's not my fault y'all been letting me talk.
No, you're loud as fuck.
Y'all just told me to lift up my mic.
No, I'm saying, can you please shut up for two seconds?
Okay, I'll shut up for two seconds.
You could have said that nicer.
I don't care.
It's just our studio.
Okay, thank you.
This is what happens when they don't find you attractive.
You could have said that nicer.
I mean, I told you to be quite offset, right?
No.
You look right at me.
You was like, oh yeah, okay, right?
Didn't I tell you to shut up earlier?
That was so long ago.
What the hell?
Bro, you still here, though.
It was tonight.
It was tonight.
It was like...
Ten minutes ago!
That was not no ten minutes ago.
Look at us having a whole fucking conversation.
No, you had a conversation with yourself.
What the fuck's going on?
No, you're talking over other girls.
You're talking back.
Hey, listen, you're not that pretty.
You're talking back.
And you talk the most.
You're talking back.
Goddamn.
You're talking back still.
It's like, you know, I wish.
And you're still talking back.
I see why you're single.
I'm not single.
I mean, I don't know what he's doing right now, bro.
I'm not single.
I guess you aren't listening to the chat.
I'm not single.
Go for it, man.
I'm not single.
Fix her, Aaron.
Yo.
Come say ass out, bro.
Okay.
Come something, bro.
I'm sure right now, man.
Yeah.
Loud and wrong.
Oh, well.
Okay.
Oh, well.
I'm not gone, bro.
All right, say it, relax.
Why do you three of fours want an authentic man but have hair hats, stupid ass makeup like the OF4, fake ass nails, fake asses, lips, et cetera?
If you believe in Sky Daddy, he gave you everything you need in life and you're still not happy and want to change yourselves.
Buy Chewy, buy Rumble, don't buy OF, fellas.
WFNF. All right, man.
Two down from my heart, look like Barnacle Boy.
No!
What the fuck?
He's talking about you, Miss Cuba.
I'll take it.
I don't care.
All right.
Hey, guys.
My original chat on Monday didn't get read, but it's cool.
I understand it's show business.
I came in late tonight, but I heard someone is Jamaican.
Hey, listen.
Don't let our people down.
And what I mean by that, show Myron Fresh Bills, Chris and Moe how to cook proper white rice.
Simple.
You can't F it up.
Ball is in your court.
Tell the steps.
Go.
Okay.
He wants to see.
White rice.
Yeah.
How do you make it?
How do you cook white rice?
Y'all said think before we speak, right?
Can I set it in place?
She was out earlier.
When it comes to the kitchen, I take it serious, you know, when you put your foot down.
For white rice?
For white rice, yeah.
Because I do it different ways.
I do carrot rice and stuff like that.
I like my rice flavor.
How do you make it?
Well, I usually shred the carrots, and then I boil the water.
I used to really boil the water after I washed the rice.
And whilst the water's boiling, I'd season it.
I'd put some chicken bouillon, or sometimes I'd use chicken broth to flavor the rice.
I'd boil it with the carrots that I just, like the shredded carrots.
Mm-hmm.
Step by step.
I boil the carrots in the water after I develop flavor.
I add salt, taste it, then I add in my rice and I let that cook down afterwards.
When I see it start forming so that the butter doesn't melt out and the flavor goes, just before the rice has fully firmed and set, I add in the butter and then I let it steam out and then it's done.
It's firm and it's good.
Like, it's good as fuck.
Man, real quick.
Can you just like it for me for the rest of my life?
I can.
Trust me.
I literally just cooked.
So your rice, you put the rice in after you boil the water?
Yeah, because that's when I'm doing carrot rice.
I like to season my water first.
Okay.
I was always told that you put rice in when it's cold and then let it boil.
You could also do it that way, but then there's different methods to do it.
Haitians use...
Where they fry their rice and they use this green...
I do my rice.
She asked me a question.
She asked me a question.
I hate mushy rice, but I like rice from so many different cultures.
Forget all that.
I never do rice the same way.
She answered the question.
If he flew you out, what you about to do?
If Mo flew you out, what you about to do with Mo?
Mo flying me out would have to let me know what he want from me before I even come, and I wouldn't go.
Mo say you want to smash.
I'm not going.
All right.
All right.
If you ninjas would have bought Rumble back when I kept mentioning it, you would have damn near tripled your money.
That is true.
Yeah, Kno, 187 facts.
Rumble is the future.
I don't have to join the Chris's Intense Fitness program.
Okay.
Ladies, for your dream, man, would you drop going to the club wearing makeup on Instagram?
If not, would you drop these things if you were the last woman on earth and or three countries?
Okay.
Huh?
Man, I don't drop it knowing I'm turning and getting older.
Yeah.
I already don't really go to the club.
Same.
Knowing what I want in life and my goals and stuff, I already dropped that for myself.
A man doesn't have to come in the picture.
Absolutely.
Alright, let's go with name three countries.
We'll start right here with you.
Name three countries, please.
But you can't say the United States, Haiti, Canada, because you're from Haiti, right?
United States or Jamaica.
Or a country that someone else named.
So Mexico, United States, Canada, Haiti, or Jamaica.
Go.
Peru, Chile, and Nigeria.
Okay.
What about you?
North America, South America, and Nigeria.
Facts.
No, she said Nigeria.
North America, come on, man.
Alright, one more country.
North America, South America, what's the third country?
Nigga!
Don't worry.
You got this.
It's only 100 more.
Huh?
One more.
Um...
Bay Kitchen Travel 2?
Where you want to go to?
Force cards.
Where's your next fight?
Ooh, uh...
Hmm...
Jesus...
Okay.
I was going to say Canada.
South America and now North America are continents, by the way, but that's fine.
Okay.
Okay, fantastic.
All right.
CTE. You can give her some boxing gloves, but don't give her a glove, nigga.
All right, what about you?
What about you?
Name three countries, please.
Europe.
Yep.
Antarctica.
Okay.
One more.
You got this.
In China?
Fuck!
Fuck!
She said that shit copping us out.
Europe?
Holy!
Europe?
We need to give you a globe too.
I wanted to say Peru, but they already said it.
God damn, we gotta give you a globe as well.
Alright, what about you?
Day three countries.
Uzbekistan, Egypt, and Somalia.
Turkey, Guatemala, and Saint Lucia.
What about you?
Argentina, Ecuador, Colombia.
Okay.
What about you?
Cuba.
No, I can't use that.
That's where you're from.
It's okay.
There's still like 170 left.
Trust me, there's plenty to go.
Dominican Republic.
Okay.
You got this?
Two more.
Damn, you said I couldn't say Jamaica.
Um...
Canada?
Can't say that either.
Ay, pero cuando yo lo dijo...
Ay Dios mío!
Escúchame!
Dime!
Por favor!
Ay Dios mío, this makes me look stupid.
The other girl's got excuses.
She can say, I get punched too much.
She can say, I just do wigs, nigga.
What's your excuse?
Puerto Rico.
Puerto Rico, okay.
One more.
What was the last one?
Brazil.
Yeah.
Nobody said Brazil.
Nobody else said that.
Puerto Rico is a U.S. territory.
Yeah.
It is not its own country.
But I do want to travel to all these places for me.
What the fuck?
Antarctica?
You trying to go to Antarctica?
Hold on a second.
First of all, Diabora Borealis?
Y'all could have said Dubai.
Dubai?
Yeah, that was sad.
I'm sorry.
That was sad.
Is Dubai a country?
Don't look at me like that!
And I said that.
Yeah, but Dubai is not a country, bruh.
It's a city in the United Arab Emirates.
UAE. Okay, what about you?
No, it is.
Alright, three countries.
It is a country.
Dubai is not a country.
It's a city in the...
Yeah, UAE. Really?
Oh, my bad.
Thank you, my bad.
Well, you are.
What about you?
Three countries.
Oh, what'd she say?
Oh, I said Japan, Kenya, and Russia.
Yeah, she got it.
Sweet.
To the point.
Speaking of Russia, Poo's interview drops tomorrow with Tucker Carlson.
I can't wait to see that.
Wait, what?
Sorry, I didn't know that.
With Tucker?
Didn't he get, sorry, didn't he get taken off of Fox?
Yeah.
Yeah, he left Fox.
There's some haters over there.
He has YouTube.
Yeah, he don't need Fox.
Sorry, totally interrupted.
I just got excited.
Nah, he's done better without Fox.
Fuck Fox.
Mainstream media news is bullshit, man, is what I'm trying to realize.
Hold on, man.
It's all a distraction.
If, uh, wrong.
Yeah.
If Tucker flew you out, what are you doing?
Wait, I'm sorry, who?
If Tucker flew you out, what are you doing?
Tucker.
The sound effects.
I don't know, probably nothing.
I would love to have a conversation with him.
I think he's really smart.
I want him to teach me.
Oh, he's going to kick you out then.
He's going to employ your own strategy.
Oh yeah, he can throw me right out the front door.
He's going to give you the Jazzy Jeff.
Jazzy Jeff!
Or in her case, she's going to be like...
Dennis Rodman stole my girl in LA, but I stole a girl from Rick Ross at Miami Van Dome.
Fuck celebrities.
Listen to Pretty Whores on Spotify.
If you like actual music, not that garbage.
High-value man shit.
Fresh put out.
L Fresh W Me.
You're a whore, bro.
Okay.
The fuck?
Okay.
Remember, chat, a girl's IG is filled with face pics.
She's fat as fuck.
Speaking of chat, shout out to that nigga Roman.
It's his fucking birthday today.
Ladies, shake your ass for a great man.
Ladies, you have only two options in life.
Your perfect man wants to marry you, but he has side chicks, but you stay loyal to him or be single and rich all your life.
Which one are you choosing and why?
I'd be single and rich.
Single and rich for all y'all?
Who says single and rich?
Raise your hand.
Two?
Okay.
I'm single and rich.
You can use them for their companionship.
Okay, so you think single and rich is the way versus being with a guy that is your dream man but he has other women.
He wouldn't be my dream man.
My dream man does not have other women.
My dream man does not have other women.
But realistically speaking, if he's your dream man, he's probably going to be a bunch of other girls' dream man too.
No, if he's my dream man, he will be with them.
Ladies, I know this sounds amazing.
Sorry, not amazing.
I know this is going to be very difficult to hear, but you guys really aren't that special and different from each other.
Women typically look for the same things in men.
You guys pretty much are attracted to a few universal traits in men.
But then you just said that men would fuck other women but still love their girls.
So whilst we're not all that different, you're still choosing to prefer this one girl over the others.
So I really feel like it's not that same way how you say that women aren't that much different.
Men aren't either.
I never said they were.
But I'm saying, whilst you're saying that we have the capacity to be misogynistic with one man, why can't men do that?
Monogamous.
I'm sorry.
Monogamous.
I'm so sorry.
Monogamous.
That's my mistake.
I can't believe for that.
That's fine.
But whilst you're saying that women can be with one man, why can't men make the sacrifice to be with one woman?
I don't...
I feel like...
Why should I? Okay, because...
Hold on, so it's about what you want, but not what we want.
Why is it not what we both want?
Because I wouldn't be...
When I'm in a relationship, it's about an agreement with us being with each other.
How about this?
How about this?
Let's sacrifice this.
You have to sacrifice him paying for your lifestyle.
And you guys go 50-50.
How about you make that sacrifice?
Is that cool?
But you're saying it as to what...
Hold on.
Is that okay with you?
No.
You ain't gonna make the sacrifice, but you gotta make the sacrifice.
Exactly.
No.
I feel like you're taking it out of proportion, because how you're saying it is how you two want to live your lifestyles, how you two want to have that with women.
I'm saying for me, I'm okay with not having that.
Having what?
I'm okay with not being with a six-figure man.
I would sacrifice that six-figure to have my man to myself.
Okay, so you're okay with one 50-50 now?
I'm not going 50-50.
Because a man will have nothing and give you his everything.
I don't have to go 50-50 with a man.
Where do you get that from?
Why is that like a...
You give me 20 and you give me 20.
Why does a man...
Are you saying that the only man that will want to be with me and not another woman is...
Okay, let's live on planet Earth for two seconds.
You live in Turks and Caicos Islands, one of the most expensive islands.
I've been there many times.
Your fucking blackberries are 10 bucks.
So, yeah, it's expensive to live there.
Everything is imported.
So, you're telling me...
That you think you're going to be able to have a guy take care of you and himself and potentially children on less than $100K per year in TCI? That's not what I said.
But then again, you're taking it so way out.
You're taking it so far that it doesn't have to go.
Your question to me was, would I be with a man 50-50?
Yeah.
And you said no.
No, I wouldn't.
But you're talking about a man that would cheat on me with other women and he's making six figures.
I'm saying that in this world, I don't have to live to such restrictions.
Why would I restrict my...
I'm not going to look at myself in the mirror and say, okay, girl, well, you're going to get this man and you're going to allow this man to cheat on you because you're going to feel like he doesn't...
He's obligated to do that because of what he's giving you.
If I don't see myself as a prize, why am I getting a man?
Why?
I don't think you understood the question here.
It was...
What the fuck?
Be rich and be single by yourself or have a guy that's your dream and but he's going to have other...
And I'll be rich and single by myself.
Okay, then just say that, man.
Versus trying to say, well, why does he want other women?
He should sacrifice for me.
But what I'm saying is that you're not going to sacrifice your standards.
Why should he sacrifice his standards?
Why would I be with a man with such standards is what I'm saying.
Not every man is like that is what I am saying.
A majority of men want women, more than one girl.
Majority, but I will go for the minority is what I am saying.
How would you know?
I will go for the minority.
How would you know?
I will speak to them, go on dates with them, live with them.
You know men tell you what you want to hear, right?
Yeah.
So how would you know?
You will still see the actions and you will let the actions be for itself.
You think you could finesse somebody like that forever?
No, no, no, no, no, no.
Okay, right now, as you guys are saying this, you will never commit to one woman only.
Is that what you're saying?
Publicly?
You will never commit...
So, okay.
No.
You will never commit to one woman only.
Your wife, you'll never commit to her only.
If I made the choice...
And that's what I am freaking saying.
There will be a man that will make the choice for me.
Hold on.
That is what I'm saying.
But you see what I just did there?
He lied to you.
You said if you make the choice.
I told you what you want to hear.
Gotcha, bitch.
No.
Thank you.
The question was.
No.
The question was for you to answer honestly.
It's not the same.
You want what you can't really have.
But at some point, your actions will prove it, though.
If your actions don't follow up, then bye.
No, but here's the thing.
She doesn't make sense.
And she's saying, I don't want to go 50-50 with a man.
So by definition, if you now want to go 50-50 with a man, and I know where you live, and I know how expensive it is to be in TCI, you need a guy that makes at least six figures to be able to take care of you so you don't have to go 50-50.
Well, we're saying, hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on.
We have a great habit of not listening.
You just like to talk.
God damn, you're annoying.
Look...
You're saying you don't want to go 50-50 with a man.
Fair.
Cool.
You don't want to split the bills.
In order for you to be with a man where you're not splitting the bills, he's going to have to make six figures where you live, specifically.
Because I've been there and I know how expensive it is to be in TCI. What I'm saying is that when you get a guy that makes that kind of money, guess what happens?
It becomes instantly attractive to a lot of other women.
It's going to be very difficult for him to be monogamous to you, is what I'm saying.
So there's a likelihood that he will have sex with other girls.
That's all I'm saying.
The more money a man makes, the more options he has, and the more likely he's willing to take those options.
And you are Jamaican.
You should know from your own people.
Niggas, get down.
You should know.
So all we're saying is, if you have high taste in men and you're selective, which it seems to me like you are, that man, a lot of the times, is going to have other women going after him, too.
I understand that.
If he respects you...
That's cool.
He just won't tell you.
You won't know.
And I'd rather you not tell me if that's going to be the case because I'm not going to accept it knowingly.
So you're okay with it?
No, I'm not.
I'm not going to be okay with knowingly.
I'd rather follow the dream then if that's the case.
If that is the case.
Delusion.
Delusion.
Okay.
All right, man.
If that is the case.
All right.
Okay, let's go to their questions.
Cool.
Because I think we're caught up, right?
No, we have a few more.
A few more?
Where?
Five more.
Five more?
Okay, I'm going to fly through these.
Let's do it.
They have Chris put Fiona next to Shrek is wild.
What?
Who's Fiona?
Fiona next to Shrek.
Oh, you mean fresh and then the girl next to...
Oh, okay.
The redhead who barks will be trolling tonight.
She was just on whatever last night pulling...
Oh, don't be simping.
Okay.
Whatever.
Oh, you came from California?
Well, goddamn.
Alright, Fimo here.
Thank you both for all you do.
The finesse, man.
That's funny.
I wish women did not take your content so negatively and actually realize it for their best.
I appreciate the different perspectives you two have, FNF gang.
Yeah, man, but girls don't give a fuck what we gotta say, bro.
It's fine.
It's for y'all niggas to learn.
Ladies, you walk in on your guy beating it to porn on his phone.
What do you do?
Walk out.
Join.
Join.
What you doing?
I would probably join, yeah.
Wait, hold on.
Question.
Hold on, wait, hold on.
What if it's a white woman?
I don't give a damn.
It's porn.
He watches it on his phone.
Okay.
But what are you going to do, though?
Like, oh, specifically?
Yeah, seriously.
What are you going to do?
Oh, and he's finishing?
Well, he's not finishing, but I guess he's just whacking it.
What are you going to do?
I'm gonna look at what he's watching and I'm just like, grab his dick.
Start jerking it off.
Like, what else am I supposed to do?
Okay.
Okay, what are you gonna do?
What you about to do?
You walking out?
You staying in there?
What are you doing?
I was staying, but I would question why he thought he had to hide it from me.
Okay.
What about you?
She want to have a full conversation while a nigga trying to whack off, bro.
Why are you hiding this from me?
Bitch, get out!
You don't have to be here hiding it.
She's trying to have a full-on conversation.
I want peace and quiet.
I want peace.
Is this what you like?
Alright, what about you?
Incredible.
What are you doing?
I would either join or see if he just wants a master.
Be like, that's cool, too.
Like, it's all good with me.
Okay, what are you doing?
I'll let him masturbate.
You leaving?
You're just walking out?
I feel like if he's doing it on his own, then that's what he wants to do to begin with.
I'll let him have his time alone.
I don't need to be there all the time.
Do you?
What if he wants to go to a girl's house while you're not there in his time?
All these different scenarios.
He's jerking off to another girl.
No, no, real talk.
Think about it.
He's home in his room, jerking off to another girl.
Same shit, no?
Pretty similar.
He's cheating, in a sense.
How is it cheating?
How?
It's not the same thing when it's somebody you know.
Like some girl whose house you could drive to?
That makes it better?
Nah.
Or look, let's say I just met her randomly.
That makes it worse.
Because you know her.
Why are you meeting somebody like that?
It was in a supermarket.
All right, what are you doing?
You walk in, he's fapping.
What are you doing?
I would just wish I never saw it.
Okay, all right.
Someone keeping it real.
All right, what about you?
What are you doing?
Same.
Wish you never saw it?
Yeah.
Okay, what are you doing?
I wish I never saw it.
I'm walking out.
Wait, so you want to fight him?
Nah, I'm gonna walk.
I'm gonna take my L and just walk.
Sometimes in life, you gotta take some L's.
I'm gonna be in his meat.
She gonna beat him next.
Alright, what about you?
Beat his meat.
What are you doing?
What?
He's wagging off to gay porn though.
- Ow!
- Ow! - Oh, wait! - Oh, wait! - You didn't have a problem earlier! - Why you shuffing out? - Why you shuffing out? - Why you shuffing out?
- Bisexual!
- Yeah, you're okay with bisexual, right?
- No, no, no! - You wanna be thinking about bisexual? - I was thinking about my actual boyfriend right now.
- We got him now.
- No, no, no.
I was thinking about my actual boyfriend right now. - We got him on the road.
- You treat my track card! - If it's bisexual, that's his own. - That's your bitch!
That's his own.
For a man.
Yeah, okay, we got you now.
But if you had him and your girl was masturbating, what would you do?
What would you do if you walked in and your girl was masturbating?
She's gonna join.
Masturbate's a porn, bro.
He's definitely gonna wanna join.
He's gonna be like, oh, let me help you.
Okay, so if you didn't finish her off in the bedroom and only you came and now she got the rose, what are you doing?
Women don't see...
Females rarely, if ever, watch pornography.
Check during the ovulation month.
Check during the ovulation week.
That's cool.
But in general, even if they do watch porn, they don't watch it to the same frequency or level as men do at all.
But what would you do?
Also, question.
Do you know who you're talking to?
I'm just asking.
The leader of the BBC gang.
The leader?
The leader, man.
Delete with who?
Should be destroyed.
Can't walk after that, man.
What are you talking about?
You're speaking from...
You're speaking from...
Look at me!
Allegedly, by the way.
Allegedly.
But you're making scenarios, so I'm asking you the same scenarios that you're making.
And I gave you one.
Allegedly.
First donation to the church.
Allegedly.
All right.
Cool.
What do we got here?
All right.
Female, thank you.
Oh, no.
I read that one.
Right?
I think so.
Yeah.
So female here, right?
Yeah, that one, right?
Rockstar needs to give you a podcast episode of GTA 6.
It's going to be based in Miami.
Facts.
And then ratings from Myron.
Rihanna Forehead, four.
Pinocchio, three.
Nah.
Triple H, two.
Nah.
Bob Marley, two.
Kitty, five.
Oh, my God.
Daddy Girl, four.
Pussy beater, three.
Your dead grandma, negative one.
Oh, shit.
Oh, shit.
Freshest sister, one.
I'm a bitch and she's a crazy season.
I think I was so tall.
What the fuck?
Because I'm Jamaican.
Who's my sister?
You.
Who?
They called you freshest sister.
Y'all do kind of look alike.
What?
No, we don't.
She's more my sister, though.
All right, you blacker, but...
Alright, cool.
Alright, let's hit some of the girls' questions.
Or no, Chris, what's the drop?
It's one o'clock, man.
Alright, cool.
It's one?
Yeah, y'all talk too much, man.
We wanted to get this thing done sooner, but you guys kept going.
Questions here.
We'll just like do these real quick.
Do you believe in marriage?
Do you believe in marriage?
I believe in the concept of marriage from a religious and ceremonious perspective, but from the state being involved, no.
So get married religiously, right?
Get by the church or by the mosque or by the synagogue, but don't do it with the state.
And I believe it's the best way to obviously raise children.
I agree.
How do you feel about age gap relationships?
And ladies, you can or not say that I asked that question.
It's up to you.
So when we read your question, if you want to raise your hand and be like, I asked that question, you can.
I think it's good.
I think men need to go and get with a younger woman that has less experience than themselves.
Women value experience in men.
Men value inexperience in women.
I think a girl, a man should show her all her first.
He should be the first one to take her to travel.
He should be the first one to take her to Virginia.
He should be the first one to put her in a nice car, nice restaurant, trips, whatever it may be, because once a girl experiences that from another guy, it kind of fucks them up.
This is why girls that are older and tend to have more experiences, they're not the best girls to get with.
No offense to older ladies on the panel.
But as a man, it's in your best interest to get with a younger woman that's more impressionable and more likely to follow your program versus getting with an older girl that's stuck in her ways.
Alright, well said.
I have a question.
Well, not a question.
I have something to say.
Yeah, sure.
A lot of men go on women's social media and assume that a guy is doing all this for them.
It could be just a girl doing it.
No.
That's very, very rare.
But for me...
For me, on the dinners I post is me by myself.
That's fair.
But a majority of women that post extravagant lifestyle things, nine out of ten times, they don't pay for it.
Facts.
That's just the reality, yeah.
Unfortunately, yeah.
If you see a chick posting in Dubai, you see a chick posting in, you know, the French Riviera or yachts or whatever, she ain't pay for it.
Nine out of ten times.
Yeah.
Is there a rarity where they pay for it themselves?
Sometimes.
What if their family has money?
That would be an exception, but that's rare.
But all the Instagram models you see on there on yachts in Dubai, there's just no way they're doing that.
If you see her posting photos in a Lamborghini or something like that, women don't buy exotic cars.
That's true.
Men overwhelmingly buy exotic cars.
If you look at purchasers of Ferraris and Porsches and everything else like that, it's almost always men.
So, yeah.
Okay, what would you consider a red flag in a woman?
So, red flag and a woman.
I said that.
Okay.
Just one?
I mean, there's a million.
Yeah.
You give one.
All right.
You give one first, because I answer all of those questions.
So, say, if she's doing whole type behavior and wants to be wifey, then I think that's a red flag, because it's like you're pretending to be wifey, but your actions show otherwise.
So, I think on some level, you're being a hoe.
It's qualifies these from being actual a wife.
That's what I would say.
Being a hoe like what?
For example...
OnlyFans.
What do you consider a hotel?
For example, what you do.
Oh, shit.
Have guy friends.
Go ahead.
I would say...
That's not how you talk to your sister.
I would say the biggest red flag is a girl that does not listen or get on your program.
A girl that are combative and don't listen?
Useless.
Yeah.
Yeah.
Because as a man, your job is to be the leader, and if she wants to sit there and argue with you and be rambunctious or whatever...
Yeah.
What if you're not a good leader, though?
What if you're not being a good leader and that's why your girl's not listening?
Then why?
That's completely possible, which is why I tell guys all the time, you need to get your money on point, you need to get in shape.
You need to be superior to your girl in every way.
Right.
You need to be stronger than her, bigger than her, faster than her, smarter than her, make more money than her, so when you tell her shut up, she shuts up.
Yeah.
Right.
And she respects you as well.
Yeah, she has to respect you.
But she only respects you if you're better than her.
But I think a big component and the cornerstone of relationship working is the guy's got to be better than his girl in every way.
And if you tell her to shut up, she needs to be, oh, sorry.
And she shuts up.
But do you think, though, that great leaders, like I see a lot of the time, great leaders accept feedback.
Would you not be willing to accept feedback from a woman that you were dating?
Of course.
I mean, her take is going to be important to a degree.
But you're the final decision maker.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Of course her opinion is important.
That's your girl.
That's your girl.
But you're the final decision maker.
That's at the end of the day.
She can give a suggestion or, hey, I think this, blah, blah, blah.
But at the end of the day, you have to be the deciding official.
I don't believe in this whole...
I think the whole concept of 50-50 partnerships is a lie.
I think that only could potentially work with two females.
But in a male and female dynamic, we've shown it that...
Women have a need to be with a man that's superior to them.
And if they're with a man that they feel is equal, that's when they start to disrespect them.
That's when they start to lose attraction.
That's when they start to get bored.
Like, she needs to be anxious when she's around you.
She needs to feel as though, holy fuck, this guy is so much better than me.
Like, fucking any girl would want him.
Like, I better be on my, you know, P's and Q's.
And it's unfortunate that it's that way, but women are attracted to men that they are chasing the validation of.
Men, on the other hand, we don't need that.
Like, a girl can be...
Infatuated with you, treat you really well, etc.
You're not going to break up with a girl for being boring.
However, if you pedestalize her and you give her flowers and you're this fucking nice guy and you do all this bullshit, she will get bored with you.
Men don't require spontaneity to stay exciting.
Women do, however.
So for a woman to get that spontaneity and that excitement, she needs to feel as though her position isn't solid, unfortunately.
Can I comment on that?
I've talked about this.
We had a psychologist come on and we actually talked about this and I'll give you a check in to comment.
In every relationship, there's the adoree and the adored.
The man needs to be the adoree and the woman needs to be the adoree.
And the reason why is because women need more emotional stimuli in a relationship to be satisfied and happy.
And the only way you're going to experience that emotional stimuli is if you're the person that's adoring the other individual.
So, women need that to stay in place.
Men, however, girl treats you good, whatever.
Even if you cheat on her, go fuck another bitch.
I'm like, damn, but this girl's a router down.
I ain't leaving her.
She cooks and cleans and all this other shit.
Men rarely leave women.
That's why I knew right away, as soon as you said, oh, he broke up with me, I was like, yeah, you must have been insufferable.
Because men never leave chicks if they treat them well.
Yeah, you called me on my bullshit, for sure.
Yeah, it is what it is.
Gotcha, bitch!
So, that's why I think...
That's why the man has to be the leader, because it automatically puts him in the adored situation.
I wish it was like that!
I wish we could be gentlemen and get you flowers every fucking day and treat you amazing, but women don't respond favorably to that.
Nice guys finish last.
Someone's gonna say something?
I forget where I heard this from, but I agree with what you mean about how the woman should adore the man.
I feel like whenever...
For it to last.
Yeah, exactly.
And if you're a girlfriend or a wife to your husband, you know your husband has girlfriends on the side and you get comfortable and you're not doing things that...
Make him extra happy every day in pushing that mile.
You get comfortable.
Then other women know that they want your place.
The girlfriends want to be the wife, and they're going to compete and do everything they can to take the wife's place.
And if you get too comfortable, then I feel like your position could be teeter-tottering.
I can't think of the word, but teeter-totter is all that comes to mind.
Am I wrong?
Yeah, no, I mean...
It's unfortunate, but that is the necessary ingredient to keep women interested is they can't know that they're solidified.
You know, this is why when women get married a lot of times, sexist marriages are extremely common.
Women initiate most divorces.
Why?
Because they get bored most of the time.
You know, guys get fat, they get lazy, they don't stay the man that attracted them in the first place.
They become more soft.
Oh, okay, honey, anything you want.
The worst thing you could do is, like, give a girl everything she wants.
But if you give a guy everything he wants, he ain't fucking going nowhere, bro.
Guys are, you know, we're used to the world challenging us already, so we don't need to be challenged by our girl.
But a woman, though, however, needs to be challenged by her man.
That's just my take on it.
I don't know.
You guys don't have to agree.
And if the man isn't secure within himself, I feel like the woman will intimidate him.
Yeah.
Well, that's why he has to be superior.
That's why it's so important that there needs to be the age gap, and then that man needs to be superior to her.
This whole intimidation thing, it would never happen.
On the other end, if the guy's making less money than you, if you're leading him, he's going to say, you know what?
Alright, I'm not doing my role correctly, so I'm going to fight back in a different way, which is cheating.
I'm taking your money.
I'm finessing you.
Which is why I told you earlier, the guys that you dated never stayed with you.
And then you're going to resent him.
Like, any time a girl's in a breadwinner spot where she's providing for the guy, she starts to get resentful.
Oh, you a fucking bum.
You nag him more.
You get annoying.
You become more bitchy.
You don't want to have sex with him.
And that's another reason why the man would leave the woman.
That too, yeah.
100%.
So when you say, I did all this for you, he's going to feel like you wasn't treating him like a man?
Because women aren't natural providers.
That's why I was kind of making fun of you earlier when you were like, oh, support him.
Come on, man.
Once you're making a million dollars plus, you broke your ass dick.
You're making $100K? Fuck out of here.
That's just how it is.
Women don't respect men that are less than them.
They just can't.
It's almost biologically impossible.
They might tolerate it for a bit, but I've never seen those relationships last long term.
Every relationship I've ever seen last long term, the guy is superior to the girl, he can get other women, the girl is fucking happy and ecstatic that he picked her, and that's how it goes.
And he's a traditionally masculine guy, he pays all the bills, he takes care of her.
That's the only time I've seen things last.
I never see it last the other way around.
Alright, next question.
When would you say a woman is ready to be married?
From Cindy?
When is a woman ready to be married?
Cindy?
Cindy?
As soon as she turns 18, in my opinion.
I think girls should get married as young as they can.
And the reason why isn't necessarily because I want you to be a wife early.
It's that that's when you have the most value.
Right?
So, if you go to a casino and you gamble, right?
It's probably best if, not that gambling is good, but just for the purposes of this analogy.
If you're going to go to the casino, right, it's best for you to probably go in there with the most money that you have, right, and go early before it gets crowded, right?
You want to leave when you're up.
You don't want to necessarily leave when you're negative, and I think what women don't get is that once you reach a certain age, you start to become negative in the casino, and then what ends up happening?
Well, you have to leave with a loss, right?
That's exactly like the dating market.
If you leave when the chips are down, you're not going to leave satisfied.
You're going to leave mad as hell.
So you want to leave when the chips are up, and your chips are up for a woman is when you're younger.
But a lot of people look at me crazy when I say I want marriage at an early age.
That's because feminism has taken over.
Feminism indoctrinates women to chase a career, make money, chase education, and there'll be a man waiting for you at the end of the line.
And the reality is that a lot of times it's not true.
I know a lot of older women that are still single and have the career.
This is what happens, right?
When you make money, you become successful.
And you said that you make a lot of money for yourself, so I want to get your take on this.
As you get older and you make more money and you become more successful, your tolerance for male stupidity goes down.
You're not going to deal with a guy that don't got a car no more.
You're not going to deal with a guy that doesn't have a job.
You're not going to deal with a guy that can't string along sentences or send you proper text messages or proper punctuation.
Your tolerance for male stupidity goes down.
Well, guess what happens?
As your tolerance goes down, your standards go up.
Standards go up, the men that are suitable for you go down.
Now you're eliminating 80, 90% of men from potentially being partners.
So your standards go up, but here's the problem.
Your value is a woman, not a value is a person.
Your value is a woman goes down.
You're getting older and you're making more money and you demand more.
However, the man that you want, wants younger, firmer, tighter.
So how do you compete?
It's tough for older women a lot of the times, especially when you make a lot of money.
That's what they say.
Men, as they get older, they stay prime.
Like 30s and then mid-30s.
As a woman gets older, they say she...
After 25, I feel like it's 18 to 25 and stuff.
Green area.
I can't think of the word.
Prime.
Yeah.
And then after that, it's sadly not that anymore.
Universally, that's what men find the most attractive.
Now, are there women that are exceptions that could be 30 years old plus and look good and still find a guy?
For sure.
But the mindset.
But it's going to be tough because as they get older and make more money, it's very difficult for them to be with a man that's less than them.
Yeah.
So, what's your take on it?
I mean, you're probably very selective, right?
Because you said you're financially successful yourself?
Yes, and I am super duper selective.
I don't have any tolerance for male stupidity.
I don't have any tolerance for stupidity at all.
And if you have less than me, it's no for me.
I mean, you're 30, man.
Exactly.
Would it be fair to say that you're dating men?
What's your bare minimum income requirement for you?
100k a year.
100k bare minimum.
So, all for that, automatically, 85% of men are disqualified.
There's an app for that where you put in, it's like the women delusioners, something like that.
Yeah, we got our own.
That's actually...
It's crazy.
Better.
Yeah.
I want to see it.
Actually, no, because it's all...
It's 15% of all Americans make $100,000 a year or more.
So if we're going to just take single men that are attractive, it's even less.
So automatically, 85% of all Americans are taken off if we account for tall enough, what you like in personality, all that.
Less than 5% of men.
There's also a lot of men that are in their mid-30s or late-30s that are cheating on their wife their same age with younger women.
Mm-hmm.
Right.
Yeah.
I ran into a man in Sunny Isles Beach.
Oh, shit.
Was he Russian?
She's snitching.
Was he Russian?
I mean, I also work at a resort called Aqualina.
It's a spot called KU. I met him there.
Oh, shit.
It's a lot of Russians and Jews.
He was married.
Yep.
He had a kid.
I saw you.
I was like, what are you going to say?
We're on Rumble, so you can say whatever you want.
You can say whatever you want.
Let's go.
Yeah, Sunnyhouse, there's a lot of money out there.
I'm not really...
I want to be married with kids, too, so...
Yeah.
Yeah, I mean, I think women should get married younger just because, like I said, your chances go up to find the best guy, and then as you get older and you make more money, it's just tougher.
Like, right now, I mean, is dating tough for you now at 30 making the kind of money that you make?
It's nearly impossible.
And with two kids.
It's tough.
It's nearly impossible.
And you came to Miami.
Yes.
Basically, even more nearly impossible.
What?
We got another question.
All right.
Because we got quite a few here.
Okay.
Thoughts on swinging?
I guess, like, swinging, like, for example, parties and events.
Okay for the man, unacceptable for the female.
Yeah, I would never show him right now.
Yeah.
Unacceptable for the woman.
Okay.
We have here...
Worst dating experience.
And I would argue, I'll take it a step further.
You guys can tell me if you agree or not.
I think if a woman truly loves and respects you, all other men are invisible to her.
Yes, that's true.
100%.
Absolutely.
So if she wants to swing?
Swing somewhere else.
Yeah, you're fucking up, guys.
Somewhere else.
Worst dating experience.
Catfished.
Oh, yeah.
Instagram says one thing.
That sucks.
First thing I'm like, bro, who are you?
That sucks.
Who are you, bro?
How did that go at the end?
That was my question.
I want to know, how did that go at the end once you were catfish?
Did you just kick her out?
How did you finish that?
How did that go?
It went great.
Oh, so you were the gentleman that let her stay.
What?
You said it went great.
Yeah.
For me.
Oh, because you still got what you wanted at the end of the thing?
What about you?
I got pressure, so...
Okay, ambiguous.
No, I mean, like, the worst date or the worst experience?
What specifically are you asking for?
Just your worst date and experience, really.
I remember I went out with, like, this German chick one time that was, like, super fucking masculine and rude.
And that was annoying.
Like, masculine women are extremely...
Like, I don't think girls get it that, like, when you act like a dude, it's really annoying.
Most men will never have the balls to tell you.
I told this girl, which actually led to the fucking arguments.
But, yeah.
Acting like a guy, talking like a guy, behaving like a guy...
Men may or may not tell you, but we automatically put you in a box when you do dumb shit.
So, did you smash Mara or you left?
No, no, I left her.
Bro, I didn't even pay the bill, I was so fucking annoyed.
And she, and she, well, hold on, I paid my half, excuse me.
I paid my half, I said 50, so this is what happened.
We're there at this taco spot, right?
And she's being annoying, whatever, and she orders all this shit.
I'm like, man, fuck this shit.
So I said, alright, I just want a soda, and then, and I said, uh...
Separate checks, by the way.
And I said that on the onset.
She, like, right when the food came out, she fucking loses her shit.
She's like, looks at me, and I can see just, like, fucking burning, right, in her face.
And she gets up, and she's like, go fuck yourself.
She, like, walks out the restaurant.
And I'm just, like, sitting there drinking my fucking soda.
I have a question.
What made her masculine to you?
Uh...
The one thing that she said that really...
I was like, what the fuck is wrong with this bitch?
She asked me, what are you looking for?
Which, you know, when girls ask that dumbass question, right?
It's like, whatever.
So, I always keep it ambiguous, right?
So, I said, oh, well, you know, I'm just kind of...
Same where it goes.
And she's like, oh, so you're just fucking people.
And I was like, well, that was extremely rude.
Just like that.
Like, oh, that was rude.
Like, what's your problem?
And she, like, didn't, I guess, not used to guys, like, telling her, like, what the fuck's wrong with you?
And she didn't like that.
And then after that, that's when I said separate checks.
And then she lost her shit.
So yeah, whatever.
She got mad.
And she like walked out and left the food there and fucking like said, fuck yourself!
And like made a whole scene when she did it.
I'm just sitting there drinking my soda, whatever.
Oh damn you!
Fancy was pretty good.
I was like, fuck it, man.
Because I remember that day I had done a really hard workout and I needed calories.
That's why I remember.
I was so fucking tired before I dealt with her, dumbass.
You drink regular soda?
Every now and then I will.
Once a month or so, I'll drink full calorie soda.
If I'm really low, I'm losing weight.
Even at a high level, you're still dealing with bullshit.
Nobody's safe.
Yeah, I was in a huge coward deficit that day.
Dream relationship.
What's your dream scenario, I guess?
Five wives.
Yeah, like two or three main girls.
It's really tough to balance anything past that, and then you do whatever you want.
Yeah.
I want to have a loving wife.
One woman, a loving wife, and maybe a dog.
Or a cat.
Maybe a kid or two.
You just saying what I want to hear now again?
I know some girls think that's crazy, but I've done it before and they're all friends to this day.
I'm not with two of them or whatever, but what ends up happening is, since I have a screening process of when I deal with girls or whatever, I typically look for girls that have certain traits and characteristics.
Once I introduce them to each other, they end up being friends and getting along.
Like baby mama one, two, and three all being friends.
You can say that, polygamous situation.
But I never do threesomes with them, though.
That's like a rule.
You never want to do a threesome with any main girl.
You with them, but they're not with each other.
No, they were all hetero.
But even if they were bi, I wouldn't do a threesome because that will set you up for problems.
A lot of guys like to do that.
They'll try to do a threesome with their main girl.
Even with a rando, you don't want to do that.
It sets you up for failure.
Threesomes are definitely windows of relationships.
Okay, you agree that it could be problematic?
I agree 100%.
I'm sorry, just to understand, you said your dream relationship was a wife, a loving wife, a dog, and a couple children.
One or two, maybe.
One or two.
She's stroking a mic.
I think the question here is, are you just saying what she wants to hear?
Next question.
Here's the scary part.
You don't know.
Yeah.
Does being a stripper, past or present, make a woman unwipable?
Add a note here.
A stripper who does not prostitute.
Okay.
That's my question.
Okay.
I would say in 99% of cases, it's a disqualifier.
And the reason why, to explain it, Strippers have to put themselves in very precarious situations to earn a living.
Random men touching you, a lot of girls, and it's competitive now too.
Since so many girls like fuck for money that are strippers, you almost always have to do that to make money as well.
It's very difficult for you to actually make money by being on the pole.
Let's keep it a thousand.
The lifestyle, a lot of them have to do drugs and alcohol to cope with being in that profession, sell themselves, etc.
There's just so many different factors that come in that can fuck with that girl's psyche and her mindset.
And once a woman is fucked in the head, it's very difficult for you to rehabilitate that and deal with it, right?
You know, they always say you can't turn a hoe into a housewife.
That's the quintessential example.
So are there...
Strippers out there that might have reformed and changed and could be a potentially wifeable girl, of course, there's always exceptions to the rule.
But in general, it's not rehabable.
So would you date someone that was a stripper in the past?
No.
Me personally, I would not.
Because I understand what that lifestyle entails.
I've dealt with plenty of strippers in my time.
And it's just the risk is not worth it.
Especially when there's women out there that aren't tainted.
You know, it kind of comes back to if I was going to go on a cross-country trip, right?
I got a Honda over here, right?
That runs good, right?
It looks good.
But it has 200,000 miles on it versus I could buy a brand new one with zero mileage on, right?
And my life depends on me making it from New York to California.
Which vehicle am I going to pick to make that long journey?
I'm probably going to go with the newer car.
Even though the older car is capable and there's a chance that I can get across, the likelihood is slim.
So to maximize my options, I'm going to go with the newer vehicle.
And what I'm talking about when I say that journey is I'm talking about marriage and a long-term relationship.
Yeah.
So, that's why I would say a lot of the times it's not, it's extremely risky.
And the more money you have and the more status you have, etc., the more you risk when you take on a girl like that.
And I mean, men get that type of money, I feel, to have a woman of such exclusivity to them.
You know, I feel like I don't think men with money are going to want the common growth.
And then your image comes with it too, right?
So like, you know, with men, your entire empire can be tarnished by the past acts of your woman.
Look at Logan Paul.
Yeah.
Before he did his fight, right?
What did Dylan Dennis do?
Just went and attacked his ex-girl.
Look at all these pictures.
He showed like 100 plus images of his wife with other men.
We don't even know if she fucked them.
But just the implication in itself can tarnish your legacy and your reputation.
Look at Will Smith.
Jada Pinkett Smith.
Embarrassed the fuck out of him at that red table.
Legacy tarnished, right?
So...
A girl doing stupid shit can hurt you really bad as a man from an image standpoint.
So the more money and status you have, the more you have to protect your last name.
And that's kind of what it comes down to.
I just think pretty woman, you know.
Alright, last one here.
Do y'all think it's okay for your woman to cheat?
No.
No, that's alright.
Yeah, I think, yeah.
Because the reason why, to go on it, I think is, if a girl cheats on you, right, and has sex with another man, she's had to get to a certain point mentally to do that.
Man, I would argue if she's even talking to another guy, it's over.
Because she's mentally checked out at that point.
You know, I think women are loyal by nature to the right guy.
But that loyalty will absolutely be tested if you're not loyal to your mission.
You must be loyal to your mission and then she will in turn be loyal to you.
What do you think from a male point of view?
Like if a man cheats, it doesn't mean anything?
Controversial take.
I don't think women should get mad when a man has sex with another girl.
And I have varying ways on this, right?
To a man, it may not mean anything to the girl, but the girl may, the feelings may occur, and then it may enter an affair or anything like that.
So I figured this out after talking to so many girls, right?
We've interviewed almost 3,000 girls, and I've always wondered, like, yo, why do girls have such an issue with dudes having sex with other girls?
But then it hit me.
The reason why is because women know that if they fuck another guy, it's over.
It's a wrap.
They don't respect that man no more, they don't go fuck about him.
But what they falsely do is they think he had to get to that same mindset to fuck this other girl.
But what they don't realize, for us, we didn't have to get to that mindset to fuck that other girl.
She was hot and available.
But for you guys, it's a big issue to fuck another guy.
So you think a man has to go to that same level, mindset-wise, to do it, and the reality is we don't.
A lot of girls I know, they'll drink, smoke, and it just happens.
But ask yourself, like, they had to numb their ability to think about it, right?
That's important.
We can fuck sober, man.
Yeah.
If the opportunity is there and she's high and she's available, we'll do it sober.
Especially if we know we're not going to get caught.
So, I say this, right?
So, girls get mad at me when I say this.
But I think if you could take one piece of advice from this podcast, I'll say this.
All men are going to cheat.
It's about fine.
Not all.
99% of the men that you encounter throughout your lifetime are gonna cheat.
It's about finding the one that you're willing to tolerate it from.
So my thing is...
Also understand what you're getting with.
If you're getting with a guy that's six foot plus, making $100,000 plus per year, he's attractive, he's in good shape, etc.
Congratulations, you just found yourself a 1% man.
But guess what?
All the other girls are gonna want him too.
Be prepared to share that guy.
You will never get a high value man to yourself.
Ever.
You will never do it and get it to yourself.
Other women are always gonna want him and at some point he's gonna break and he's gonna fuck one of these chicks.
So I say, the more attractive your man, deal with it.
Or, if you want a guy to be loyal to me, A little more regular nigga, but women don't want regular guys.
I think it's pretty simple, though.
I think it's simple, right?
Because look at it as a Hot Pocket.
A guy goes into his fridge or freezer or whatever, gets a Hot Pocket, puts it in the microwave, eats it.
A girl's like, what should I eat today?
Should I eat bananas, Hot Pocket, pizza, Italian food?
Says, you know what?
After all day of thinking what she wants to eat, she'll go Hot Pocket, but after the fact.
But she thought about it the whole day.
So on some level, guys are ready to go right away because they'll think about it emotionally and say, okay, I'm making this choice because I feel like it's the best choice for me at this point.
That's what I would say.
Did you just call yourself a Hot Pocket?
No, the girl.
Alright, just confirming there if I understood that correctly.
She totally missed the analogy.
Okay, cool.
You were going to say something else?
I thought as when men increase their value, they become peakier with their women.
That's why he doesn't want a common woman.
No, no, no.
That is true to a degree.
They won't even look a certain woman away if she's dressed a certain kind of way.
To wife.
To wife.
Key.
So when men deal with women, we put a girl in two categories.
Wife material?
Not wife.
Have fun material.
Yeah.
To have fun, that's anything a lot of times.
You might want to do a black girl one day, an Asian girl another day, maybe a BBW. It doesn't matter.
Like guys will do whatever in this.
They'll do some strange.
That's where that whole term came from.
But when it comes to wifey, guys are typically pretty linear in that situation.
But when it comes to having just sex with, that's different.
So I would say for the girl, your job is to get yourself in that wife category.
All right.
And, again, I don't think a girl should get mad if a dude steps out and has sex with another girl.
I think it would be very foolish for a girl to end a multi-year relationship or leave a guy that they truly like because he has sex with another girl.
Whenever happens...
Especially if you're picky as a female.
Yeah.
Whenever happens, think about that hot pocket.
You got it.
I mean, if he's lying about it, then that doesn't count.
I feel like if you're going to lie about it, you know you do so wrong.
If you're to come to me and say, hey, I'm going to be with you, and this is the case, and this is the case, and I can't cheat.
If I'm going to be the one to be like, yo, all right, I'm done saying, he said, he is going to be with other women.
He can't beat me.
If I made that decision wholly, then okay.
But if you're going to tell me this, this, and that, like...
You just said you don't want to know.
Why is he going to tell you?
You don't want to know.
You said a scenario and I said I would rather not know.
But then you're proving my point.
Now I know.
Now I find out why you let me find out if I just told you I didn't want to know.
I never looked.
He won't tell you.
But how I know they didn't tell me.
So what you just, I don't know, I don't see if you realize that you kind of contradicted yourself.
So what you just explained is precisely why men aren't honest with women.
So I'm honest, personally.
I tell girls I'm never going to be monogamous.
But 99% of men aren't going to do that because they're going to get the reaction they just got from you right now.
So most girls are not going to accept it.
So they're like, alright, why am I going to tell a girl she's not going to accept it and I lose her, I might as well just sell her the dream, make her happy, and just do my best to hide it.
That's what most guys do.
Yeah, you know.
Unfortunately.
So, I think men should be honest.
I think it's fucked up when they lie, personally.
Yeah.
Right.
However, I'm preparing you guys for reality, not dream world.
Most guys are gonna lie to you.
Yep.
They're not gonna tell you the truth.
So what I'm saying is, when you go through a phone and you see fucking Mindy in there, you're like, who the fuck is Mindy?
Uh...
Breathe.
Breathe.
Realize.
Do I have the title?
Do I have a ring?
Or is this man providing for me?
Is this guy taking care of me?
That's when you start to assess what is this guy bringing to you.
If he's not bringing shit to you, then yeah.
Break it up.
Cool.
But if he's providing for you and you have a great time with him and you're really attracted to him, etc.
Is it worth tarnishing an entire relationship because he stuck a dick in some other bitch that he doesn't even give a fuck about?
I think that's foolish.
What if you do care about her in some kind of way?
Probably won't.
Because I've seen a lot of marriages, the man have a woman that he take care of.
He probably won't.
And let's say even if he did care, it's probably not going to be the same level as you.
My dad married his side bitch.
Probably because of...
He married the side bitch?
Yeah.
What did your mom do to fuck that up?
He's Cuban, girl.
He is.
That makes sense.
That's what they do.
He married his next side bitch, too.
Yeah.
He's Cuban.
He did the same thing he did to the side bitch.
And the chick he's with now, but his side bitch did the last two marriages.
That is Cuban behavior 101.
If the main girl isn't a pain in the ass and she accepts it, bro, he ain't leaving, bro.
I'm telling you.
Like, ladies, if you have a guy and he fucks other bitches and you're cool with it and you don't give him a headache, I promise you he's not going nowhere.
He's not going fucking nowhere.
Sorry.
A quick question.
Are you guys' parents still married?
Yeah, my parents are still together.
So your father cheats on your mom?
No, but that's because he was a brokie.
Oh, so he isn't a brokie now?
Nah, he's still a brokie by my terms.
But I mean like...
I love my dad.
I grew up without money.
So we had a lot of love and not a lot of money.
My dad didn't really...
He just hit six figures recently, but he's under that now.
He makes less than that.
So I take care of them now.
But the thing is that my dad always used to make jokes that if he had money, he would have four wives.
I grew up in a Muslim household.
But in Islam, you can't have four wives.
You have to be able to provide financially for each.
So that's the checks and balances for it.
That's why I tell girls all the time, if you do got money, be prepared to share him.
I can understand where your whole ideology comes from.
It works.
It simply works.
Multiple women and one guy, it works.
I know a lot of modern Western women don't like the concept, but in practice it works.
I can understand where you're coming from with what you're bringing now.
What about you?
Your parents still married?
Not together.
Not together?
My dad passed away.
Oh, my condolences.
No, but he left earlier though You tell that story like did he really go to the grocery store say I'll be back - I know you won't sell that joke, but From what I heard, bro, he drove away and never came back.
I don't know what it was for, but he never came back.
He didn't say where he was going, nothing?
To be honest, bro, I get it.
My mom's very nagging, so I get why he left.
I'm not beholden, bro.
I understand why you left, bro.
I understand.
Let's wrap it up, please.
Alright, we'll close out.
Last thoughts.
We can start here.
Alright, so thank you for having me on here.
This was a lovely conversation.
You know, everybody is so, you know.
We hope you find your guy.
Thank you.
I appreciate that.
And yeah, shout out to Detox for inviting me to the podcast tonight.
Detox in the building?
Yeah.
Shout out to him.
Alright, what about you?
I'm very grateful to have been here and met all of you lovely ladies and the rest of the cast in person.
And shout out to Chali and Aaron for having me on the show.
Hopefully we'll chat with your guy.
Thank you.
Person of interest.
Person of interest.
What about you?
I'm going to go see him after the show.
That's right.
Thank you very much for your hospitality.
And while I think that we definitely look at things through a different lens, I can appreciate the perspective you provide, although I may not agree with all of the things you say.
It's very interesting.
So thank you very much.
She's definitely an MSW. She had the politically correct answer.
That was a therapeutic answer.
What about you?
I'm very grateful for the experience.
Honestly, I'm happy for how you guys came at me.
How you were annoying and how he was respecting.
Because I am trying to get in the media world with doing content creation.
I like the hard feedback.
This is just...
Challenging me how to control it, you know?
So thank you guys for having me.
Thank you for the experience because this is what I was really here for, the experience.
So thanks for that.
Cool, cool.
Per animal.
Meow!
Yo, that was crazy, bro.
I think he's in a chat.
Content, you won't...
Hey, hey, that's what it is.
Yeah, it's gonna be worse than that.
You should hear what they say about Fresh than me.
Way worse.
We say way worse about us.
All right, sorry.
Go ahead.
Darkness.
Thank you for your hospitality.
This is beautiful.
And you're also a lot...
You're really tall.
I wasn't expecting that.
I was kind of shocked.
Not that I wasn't expecting it.
I'm sorry.
No, I just was just a lot taller than I had...
No, no, no.
That's not what I meant.
No, no, no.
Don't sweat it.
That's the number one comment I get when I meet people in person.
Like Mo or Bills or somebody will be like, whoa, what the fuck, bro?
You're taller than I thought.
The first thing I said.
And the girls are very kind.
They've been really helpful.
So thank you to the female staff here as well.
You guys are awesome.
They better agree.
They are.
You guys are awesome.
They better.
They better.
We messed up, bro.
We messed up.
It's supposed to be opposite.
Yeah.
All right.
What about you?
I have fun.
She watches our show, don't you?
No, I like watching podcasts, though, so...
She said she grew over...
You live with your dad, right?
Yeah.
There you go.
I live with both of my parents at first, but they split up.
Okay.
What made you pick your dad over your mom?
My daddy's girl.
But I always talk to my mom, so...
Okay.
You made the right decision.
Yeah.
No, statistically speaking, single father households do better than single mother households.
Yeah.
So...
Alright.
What about you?
Thank you guys so much for having me.
I had a lot of fun.
I'm usually, I'm in an MMA gym, so I'm around a lot of men all day, so it was nice to be around women.
I got both, because you know this in the fighting world, we don't really get to hang out with women.
Yeah, of course.
So that was cool to see both sides, because I always hear the male side.
I believe more on the male side, but it's fine.
I'm around with the five people you're around the most.
I'm sure it's probably difficult to find women that are combat fighters in combat sports and that you actually like.
Fair.
Yeah, men in general, we've heard that overwhelmingly or just easier to get along with.
Yeah.
All right.
What about you?
Well, thanks for having me and I had a lot of fun and shout out to Audrey for getting me on the show.