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Dec. 5, 2023 - Fresh & Fit

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Ladies FIGHT About 50/50 Relationships!

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	Thank you.
	What's up, guys?
	Welcome to Fresh Shared Podcast, man.
	It is the After Hours edition with some lovely latest.
	Let's get into it.
	way.
	Let's go.
	Look into it.
	How many cares, bro?
	Get out.
	Get out.
	It's the night, kind of pattern.
	In the night, no control.
	Get out.
	Put your shoes on outside.
	You don't got to put them on in here.
	All right, we're back.
	What's up, guys?
	Welcome to the Fresh Fit Podcast, man.
	After ours edition.
	Quick announcement against the show.
	Number one, rumble.com slash freshfit.
	Check us out over there, guys.
	If we ever get cancer, you'll know exactly where to find us.
	Rumble.com slash freshfit.
	That is the home base to check us out on.
	Bear with me, guys.
	I got a new mic here, so Mo's going to be calibrating it live, real time.
	So if you hear my voice fluctuate throughout the show, just bear with me here because this is the first time that I'm talking into it live on air.
	So Mo's adjusting it as we speak.
	That shit is huge, bro.
	Yeah, sounds good though, so far though, hopefully.
	So it is what it is.
	What kind of mic is that?
	That shit's huge.
	It's Telefunken.
	Tele what?
	Don't worry about it, man.
	Starting on the haters, man.
	Yeah, yeah.
	So you guys know we always invest right back into the biz and trying to give you all the best audio quality and best show that we can.
	So anyway, yeah, Roma.com slash FreshFit.
	CastleClub.tv, guys.
	You guys know that's where you can get all the behind-the-scenes stuff, IRL streams, crazy stuff that we might not necessarily put on YouTube.
	Also, check us out over there to get the behind-the-scenes stuff as far as before the streams.
	Yeah.
	And Frank Castle's.
	There you go.
	So CastleClub.tv.
	And then also, guys, check me out on Twitter, UnplugFitX.
	As you guys know, I post on there pretty much two to three times a day.
	And yeah, man, I'm going crazy on there.
	Let's get it to 100K. Damn, it's still up.
	Yeah, it's still up somehow.
	Damn, it is still there.
	I got banned the first day, but after that I learned my lesson and I'm good now.
	So it's still somehow up.
	Shout out to Elon, man.
	And we forgot to mention, guys, you wanted the first day of Blueprint.
	Here it is, guys.
	Here's the link actually on the screen.
	I'll post it in the chat.
	So if you want to get laid on the first date, here's the full Blueprint on how to do it from A to Z. We got you guys, man.
	Zoom call, full effect.
	Go check it out.
	And then I'm back to doing vlogs, man.
	Recently, you know, cupped the SV, my dream car.
	But...
	Someone hit the car actually.
	So I'm going to show you guys the vlog.
	It was crazy what happened though.
	Coming up tomorrow.
	Did you cry?
	Nigga, I was so mad.
	But when I saw who hit me, I couldn't get mad bro.
	What kind of car did they have?
	Wait, who was it?
	They had a Volvo actually.
	Okay, I mean, that's...
	It's terrible.
	Anyhow...
	Was it a girl for us?
	No, it was an F word.
	If you know what I mean.
	Can't say it on YouTube, but hey.
	I think this is karma for saying it so many times, but it's probably karma.
	Anyhow, it's fine.
	But yeah, Lifestyle Vlogs, and then guys, don't see your network for more item value, masterminds, and meetups, so go check it out.
	Let's go.
	Yeah.
	So yeah, I think, oh, and then also guys, we got an email, a new email address if you guys want to go ahead and reach out to us, whether it's for a consultation or some other type of business inquiry.
	It's fnfreach, right, Icy?
	At gmail.com.
	F and then N as in November, freach at gmail.com, okay?
	Fox, November, Fox, Reach, Romeo, Echo, Alpha, Charlie, Hotel at gmail.com.
	Yeah, because people are going to misspell it.
	R-E-A-C-H. There you go.
	And then Chris.
	Yeah, Chris.
	Chat, we got seven new girls on the panel.
	I never see someone that appraised himself so great for doing their drop-off.
	Howdy, you!
	On a Monday!
	Yeah!
	Don't you appreciate it!
	That's a good one!
	So, ladies, give me the Aaron C. Parkson on IG.
	Make sure if you want to go to a show, priority comes to new girls only.
	Okay.
	Let's go!
	I mean, the audience has to cheer, you know?
	You're on the couch, right?
	Yo, yo, audience, are you cheering on the couch back home?
	Let me know.
	Anyways, ladies, see me if you want to come on to the show and let's make it happen.
	I love the niggas in the back hyping you up.
	I'll give you this, though.
	You brought ice spice, so shout out to you, bro.
	Oh, man.
	A lot of fun to do if you guys don't mind.
	Give us your name, your age, what you do for a living, dating status, and if you want to, of course.
	Your bot account.
	And we're going to start RiceBots.
	Are we doing that?
	You can start.
	Okay, hi, I'm I Spice from Wish.
	I'm kidding.
	I'm Jasmine.
	I'm Jasmine.
	That's Jasmine.
	How old are you?
	I am 27.
	Where are you from?
	And I am from South Miami.
	Okay.
	And I currently, I used to be a third grade teacher, then I was an art teacher.
	Like Chris.
	Hey!
	That's art too!
	Yeah!
	And now I work in retail.
	Okay.
	Yeah.
	Okay, and then what's your highest education level completed?
	I dropped out of graduate school.
	Okay.
	So you have a bachelor's in what?
	Fashion merchandising.
	Okay.
	Yeah.
	Where'd you get it from?
	Lane University in Boca Raton.
	Okay.
	Okay.
	All right.
	And then what's your laser status?
	Single and ready to mingle.
	Well, actually, she's a crush on Mo.
	I already have Mo.
	Mo's on my radar.
	Mo's on my radar.
	He's a cutie with a pretty smile.
	I'm a sucker for good teeth.
	Oh, he's smiling.
	I love him.
	I'm a sucker for good teeth.
	What do you like most about Mo, his smile?
	His smile.
	And also, he's just like a little teddy bear.
	A big teddy bear.
	Hey, Mo.
	Hey, by the way, Mo loves using his mouth, by the way.
	- He's an eater! - She's an eater, let him eat! - That one can eat some food! - Oh man.
	- Let him eat! - He's a munch, he's a munch! - Munch, munch, munch! - Yeah! - Let's go! - He's a munch! - He's a munch! - You see, bro? - Yo, just so you know, he likes to steak bro? - Yo, just so you know, he likes to steak very - Ooh!
	It has to be well done.
	It was only one time.
	I just wasn't mad.
	Are your parents still together?
	Yes, sir.
	They're about to be 30 years married in January.
	Okay, cool.
	All right.
	So tell me, why did you say fuck them kids and went to retail?
	First of all, they're still my children.
	Secondly, it was my parents' business and I want to create a name for my own.
	I want to create a boutique one day.
	Your parents own a school?
	My parents own two schools.
	Are they private schools?
	Yes, sir.
	What about you?
	I'm Melanie.
	I'm 20.
	I'm from here.
	I was born in Miami, but I was raised in Seattle.
	You went to high school in Seattle?
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	Do you live in Seattle now or do you live here?
	No, I moved back.
	You moved back?
	Okay.
	What do you do for work?
	I'm in luxury retail.
	Okay.
	Are we talking like Liam and Marcus or Nordstrom or something like that?
	Zach's.
	Zach's?
	Okay.
	Cool.
	Okay.
	Do you work in like the corporate side or on the floor?
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	And then what's your highest education level completed?
	I just finished high school.
	Okay.
	Relationship status?
	I'm single.
	All right.
	And then are your parents still together?
	No.
	No.
	Okay, when did they divorce?
	Um...
	I don't know.
	You don't know?
	I don't know.
	Like, were they together for like 10 years?
	Oh, like you were a kid?
	No, I was a kid.
	I was really little.
	Oh, okay.
	Alright, um...
	What are you wearing?
	Me?
	She's wearing a dress!
	Yo, yo, fresh.
	She's wearing the curtains in the back I don't know what that is.
	It's a nice online site.
	All right.
	Okay.
	Fantastic.
	All right.
	What about you?
	What's your name?
	My name is Nelshauna.
	Nelshauna?
	N-E-L-S-H-L-N-A.
	Okay, cool.
	How old are you?
	27.
	Where are you from?
	Texas.
	What part of Texas?
	It's Beaumont.
	It's like an hour and 30 minutes away from Houston.
	I know exactly where Beaumont is.
	Interstate 10, right?
	Yep.
	Whoa.
	Are you from Texas?
	I lived in Texas for many years.
	Oh.
	Okay.
	It's right outside of Houston.
	Going towards, I think, Louisiana.
	Yeah.
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	What do you do for it?
	I'm a nurse.
	Okay.
	Wait, nurse?
	Press it.
	Yeah!
	Gotcha!
	Don't play with it!
	It can kill you in your sleep!
	This is away from the computer.
	Yeah.
	What's the highest education level completed?
	College.
	Bachelors?
	No.
	I'm a LVN. I haven't went.
	But you got your associates though, right?
	Yes.
	Associates in nursing, I'm assuming?
	What's your relationship status?
	I'm in a relationship.
	How long have y'all been together?
	12 years.
	What?
	That's a nurse?
	I'm a nurse.
	I'm surprised.
	Well, I'm proud of you for that.
	What does he do?
	He rap.
	He's an artist.
	Wait, is he doing well?
	He's upcoming, yeah.
	What's his name?
	OGD Barry.
	Oh, so he's a nigga.
	I mean, come on.
	He's made a show, GD Barry, man.
	Come on, man.
	I saw him downstairs.
	He had swag.
	Oh, he's downstairs?
	Oh, he's gone.
	He was, he was, he was.
	He's legit.
	Okay.
	And then, are your parents still together?
	No.
	When did they divorce you?
	They were never married.
	They split up when I was little.
	Have you met your dad before?
	Yes.
	Are y'all cool?
	Yes.
	We have a good relationship.
	What about you?
	What's your name?
	My name is Renee.
	I'm sorry, what is it?
	Renee.
	Can you hear me?
	Okay, yeah, I got you.
	How old are you?
	I am 24.
	Where are you from?
	I'm from Houston.
	Okay.
	You guys know each other?
	No, no, we don't know each other.
	Oh, because you guys are neighbors.
	Yeah, that's what I was asking.
	And then, what do you do for it?
	I work in tech on the HR side, so I hire software engineers, product managers.
	Okay.
	Highest education level completed?
	Bachelor's.
	In?
	Global management from Arizona State online.
	Okay, Sun Devils, right?
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	Arizona State.
	Alright, and then relationship status?
	Single.
	Alright.
	Are your parents still together?
	My dad died when he was in 2016, and they were married.
	Okay.
	My condolences.
	A widow.
	Your mom is widowed.
	Okay.
	My condolences for that.
	Okay, and then, yeah.
	What about you?
	My name is Skye.
	Sky, you said?
	Mm-hmm.
	Okay.
	How old are you, Sky?
	I'm 18.
	Oh, shit.
	Where are you from?
	I'm from Fort Myers.
	It's like two hours away from here.
	We know where Fort Myers is.
	Who's there, bro?
	Nothing up there.
	Nothing, bro.
	Okay, what do you do for work?
	I don't really work.
	I'm in school.
	Okay.
	In college?
	Yeah, I'm a junior right now.
	In college?
	Dual enrollment.
	I tested out of high school and then started college.
	Okay, I was literally going to say, did you take AP class in high school or what?
	So what they did, the criteria was you take a test, it's all the high school curriculum, you test out of it, and then I just started college.
	Okay, so you were going to school, like physically high school, and then simultaneously going to college.
	No, I was full-time college.
	I tested out of high school.
	Okay.
	So you were just going straight to college at 16?
	Yes.
	Okay.
	So you're in college now, and you said you're a junior?
	Yes.
	Okay.
	Interesting.
	They let you test out of high school?
	That's crazy.
	I mean, it's the American school system.
	It's not like it's crazy.
	Yeah.
	All right.
	Fair enough.
	Not in Ireland, bro.
	They wouldn't let us...
	I mean, things would change or something.
	Like, goddamn.
	Yeah.
	Yeah.
	Well, to be fair, curriculum is trash anyway, so you're not really getting much anyway.
	It's up to you.
	Do you want to drop where you go to college or no?
	Yeah, I go to FGCU. FD what?
	FGCU in Fort Myers.
	Okay.
	I don't know what that is.
	I'm just there for my bachelor's, okay?
	What are you majoring in?
	I'm pre-law.
	Okay.
	All right.
	And then-- - - Oh! - Oh my god! - That wink, man. - That wink for me.
	It's the wink for me.
	He's feeling you.
	He's feeling you too much.
	It's the wink.
	He's feeling you.
	I guess you guys like the sound effects.
	I've never seen a girl so appreciative of the sound effects.
	I'm appreciative of his smile.
	What is your relationship status?
	I'm single.
	Are your parents still together?
	They are.
	How long have they been together?
	It will be 23, 24 years this December.
	That's a good congrats.
	What about you?
	What's your name?
	I'm Maria Alejandra.
	Okay.
	It's going to take me a minute to write that.
	Maria Alejandra, how old are you?
	I'm 25.
	Where are you from?
	I have a bit of a long story.
	I'm Colombian, but I grew up in Miami, but I moved to Spain when I was 20.
	Okay, where'd you go to high school?
	I went to high school in Doral, Doral Academy.
	Okay.
	But you're Colombian, you grew up in Miami.
	Yes.
	Okay.
	And then you said you lived in Spain for a while?
	I went to university in Spain, yes.
	Okay.
	In Pamplona, Spain.
	Shout out to Pamplona.
	Okay.
	What do you do for work?
	I have my own business in tourism and events in Barcelona.
	Okay.
	Do you live here or do you live in Spain?
	Both.
	My parents live here, so I come back and forth visiting my parents, and then I live in Barcelona full-time, yeah.
	All right.
	So you have a tourism business, you said, right?
	Yes, I do.
	Highest education level, you said you have a bachelor's?
	I have a bachelor's, and I'll go into a master's in a bit, yeah.
	Okay, what do you have your bachelor's in?
	In marketing and business.
	Okay, where'd you get it from?
	University of Navarra in Pamplona, Spain.
	Top university in Spain.
	Are your parents still together?
	They're not, but they're really good at co-parenting since I was little.
	Okay, so divorced.
	How long have they been divorced?
	Since I was 10, so 15 years.
	Okay, so 15 years.
	I have a stepdad, too.
	He's really good.
	Okay.
	All right.
	And body count?
	Don't answer that.
	Wait, are we doing those three the fifth?
	Okay, that's fine.
	Are we asking butterflies?
	Do you just have to lie and say three?
	Lie, say three.
	Zero.
	I'm a virgin.
	I'm a virgin.
	Yeah, okay.
	What about you?
	What's your name?
	My name is Paris.
	Paris, okay.
	An Asian girl named Paris.
	I've seen it all.
	For real?
	Is that your real name?
	No.
	It's Ling Ling.
	Alright, how old are you?
	It's okay, two.
	32 you said?
	Yes.
	Where are you from?
	China.
	Oh shit.
	Konnichiwa.
	What part of China are you from?
	Konnichiwa is actually Japanese.
	That's Japanese.
	It's a joke, man.
	You said you're from China.
	What part of China are you from?
	Xinjiang.
	Xinjiang.
	Where's that at?
	It's north and west.
	Okay, Northwest China?
	Yes, close to Russia, Kazakhstan, and Pakistan, India.
	Do a lot of Chinese up there speak Russian too?
	Not really.
	No?
	No, they speak a language like a waiver language.
	It's more like a Turkish.
	Okay, okay.
	Alright, what do you do for work?
	I was a journalist before for car racing events like Formula 3, Dakar, this kind of car racing event.
	but now I'm just a housewife okay she's a spy she should not become doctor You're a former journalist, but you're a housewife now.
	When you did journalism, was it in Chinese media or American media?
	It's Asian media.
	Asian media.
	But also international because we do Dakar and we cover the Silk Valley and Formula 3 Asian Championship.
	It's like international kind of.
	Oh, wow.
	Is it like F1? No, it's lower than F1. Oh, lower than F1. Yes.
	Okay.
	Okay, so you covered sports, it seems like to me.
	Yes, extreme sports.
	Specifically.
	Okay, all right.
	So you were like a sports journalist.
	Yes.
	You covered sports.
	Okay, all right.
	What is your highest education level completed?
	I studied public administration and I got management bachelor degree.
	Okay, is that like a bachelor's degree in America?
	Yes.
	Like four years?
	Yes.
	Okay, and what did you study again?
	Public administration.
	Oh, public administration.
	Okay.
	And then you're in a relationship, right?
	Married.
	Married, okay.
	How long have you been together?
	Five years.
	Is he Chinese too?
	No, he's Ukrainian.
	He's Ukrainian.
	Was he living here before the conflict?
	No, we was living in China before, and because it's the Russian-Kurani war, so we moved here.
	You left?
	Yeah.
	Oh, okay.
	All right.
	So you guys were living in China before.
	Was he there on business?
	Yes.
	Okay.
	What does he do?
	Modeling.
	- Come on.
	- Oh! - Oh! - Oh! - Oh! - Oh! - Mo, get your model. - Yeah, his beauty comes out.
	- Okay, so he's-- - Modeling. - He was a modeling in China.
	You guys were living together.
	And then when the conflict happened, you guys came to the United States.
	That's dope.
	I'm too pretty to fight war.
	Is he like a Ukrainian citizen?
	Or does he have Chinese citizenship?
	No, he's Ukrainian citizenship.
	Because Chinese citizenship is really hard to get.
	Yes, I was gonna say.
	Okay.
	Alright.
	Yo, I love China, man.
	He got lucky, man, because that's amazing.
	China's amazing.
	Luckily, if you guys were in Ukraine, they wouldn't have left.
	At all.
	Okay.
	Yeah, I went to China last weekend, if you know what I mean.
	Did you go?
	Are you serious or anything?
	What?
	He went to Chinatown.
	He didn't go to China.
	I went to China already.
	Are your parents still together?
	Divorced two years ago.
	That's what I'm trying to be with.
	You said divorced two years ago?
	Yes.
	Okay, but they were together your whole life pretty much.
	Uh, yes.
	Okay.
	Alright.
	Alright.
	Yo, this is crazy, bro.
	Yo, y'all see that?
	I see a mole.
	Look at her.
	You see that?
	It's like a wink, wink and a...
	- Ooh. - Look at that.
	- Okay. - Get a room, bruh. - Momo taking a couple bookies soon.
	- Yo, W. Morris, bro. - W. Crohn, I don't know what you talking about. - All right, we gotta, so we can read some of these chats and then we'll get into the first question.
	Fresh, you got questions, right?
	Yeah, I do.
	Okay.
	So we got here, question for the ladies.
	What was that, Mo?
	Oh, shit.
	Okay.
	Smooth with it goes, question for ladies, $100 or one Bitcoin?
	One hundred dollars.
	One Bitcoin?
	Sorry, we have to go right.
	Which one are you taking?
	One hundred dollars or one Bitcoin?
	One hundred dollars.
	One hundred dollars.
	Bitcoin.
	Five years ago, I probably would have taken Bitcoin, but it's all gone to shit.
	You're taking a hundred?
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	I'll take a hundred.
	Okay.
	A hundred.
	Damn.
	You stupid.
	Oh, y'all are dumb as that, man.
	Yo, a Bitcoin is worth like, what, $37,000 right now?
	Yes, and it's going up.
	Are you serious?
	It is only going up right now.
	Yo, yo, yo.
	41K. Listen, listen.
	You just said $100 to 41K. Are you crazy right now?
	I'm crazy.
	I can't think.
	Yo, y'all are wrong.
	I wasn't educated about it.
	Maybe when you thought about it.
	No, no, no, but even at this Louis, it was worth more than $100.
	It was $26,000.
	A few months ago, it was $26,000.
	I mean, bruh.
	But again, do women understand?
	No, women don't understand.
	Because that is crazy, bro.
	But most women don't understand that shit.
	She said it loud and proud.
	$100.
	No, because I don't understand Bitcoin.
	Ladies, question.
	So, question.
	Why don't you ask how much is a Bitcoin?
	Because I don't care.
	We were given two options.
	Chris, that's a good point.
	Why should she even care?
	I mean, she was a teacher too.
	Because it's a hypothetical.
	Yeah.
	But again, once again, women don't care about finances and stuff like that.
	No, that's not true.
	I don't know about Dave Ramsey.
	I don't know if you can say that.
	I mean, I used to watch Suzy Orman too.
	Oh yeah, never mind.
	Can we say that or no?
	Say what?
	Dave Ramsey?
	Can we talk about it?
	No, you're fine.
	Yeah, it's cool.
	Oh, okay.
	That's crazy though, but hey, I said it before that a lot of girls aren't as financially savvy.
	They just spend money, but they don't necessarily care about making it or investing.
	That's not true.
	Because my husband, he bought Bitcoin and he lost all.
	Yes.
	But I bought, how to say, currency.
	And I make money.
	So if you speak like women cannot make economies and finances, it's not true.
	I'm not saying all, but I'm saying a good amount of women don't understand money.
	I mean, you even said $100 over Bitcoin.
	Yes, because he lost everything on Bitcoin, so I don't trust it.
	Did he invest in Bitcoin?
	Yeah, he did.
	When did he buy it?
	2017 or 2018.
	How much did he pay for it?
	60,000.
	Ooh!
	67?
	Bitcoin wasn't 60,000 back then.
	They invested.
	What does the...
	Wait, 60K?
	He invested 60,000 in Bitcoin?
	Wait, what kind of...
	Is it dollars?
	Is it like...
	Chinese are...
	I don't know the conversion rate.
	All right, can someone check what the conversion thing is?
	But yeah, I mean, if he had held it and sold it...
	It's worth more now.
	It was worth 26,000 three months ago.
	If he had held that Bitcoin back in 2017, it would be worth way more now.
	What did he sell at?
	Because in 2017, Bitcoin was like 6k.
	Because he listened to Elon Musk and he bought Dogecoin.
	He bought Shiba.
	That's not the same.
	That's Dogecoin.
	That's not the same.
	You can't buy anything with Dogecoin.
	You can't buy anything but with Bitcoin you can.
	I'm like, if I had to sell it, it's off.
	He bought Dogecoin.
	Bitcoin you can actually buy some stuff with.
	Stupid.
	Okay, so, bro.
	Come on, man.
	Oh, your husband, man.
	This is not stupid.
	This is Money Monday.
	This is Money Monday, yeah.
	We might as well turn into that.
	It's Mo Monday.
	Mo Monday.
	Mo Monday.
	Okay, who's next?
	We got Elvin J says, question for the ladies.
	Well, the girls.
	When was the last time a man went above and beyond for you, but you still dumped him?
	What did he do?
	I got this.
	I got this.
	Can I start?
	We'll start here first.
	Okay.
	So the question is, when was the last time a man went above and beyond for you, meaning he did the world for you, but you dumped him anyway?
	What did he do?
	Actually, I don't have this kind of experience.
	Never?
	Is this Ukraine guy your first guy ever?
	He's not my first guy, but I dumped other men.
	No, she's been in sports fresh.
	No, no, but the question is, he did things for you, right?
	Yes.
	They were really good.
	Yes.
	But then you dumped him.
	Why did you dump him?
	Emotional break.
	Emotional break?
	Yeah.
	Was he not who you wanted to be with?
	Like, what was the issue why you just dumped him?
	It's like, you know, women may have some hormone levels change every month.
	And it's like a circle.
	Like, sometimes you feel really good and sometimes you just feel low.
	But you don't know the reason.
	And when you feel low, everything for you is like wrong.
	So you felt low and said, fuck this nigger.
	Not narrow nigger.
	Yes.
	Oh my god, I'm so sorry.
	I saw a video of Chinese people getting black people hair, bro.
	It was hilarious.
	Understandable.
	Okay, cool.
	One more vibe.
	No, no, no.
	I mean, like, I never had the experience with...
	Yeah.
	Got it.
	Okay!
	That's a first man?
	Are you okay?
	Yeah, you're breaking by, I guess.
	You're breaking by, okay.
	Goddamn.
	Oh, shit.
	What about you?
	I feel like that's a very ambiguous question because if he went up and above for me and I still dumped him, I feel like it wouldn't be fair if he went up and above for me and I would have just dumped him.
	What happened to me last time is that I thought he did, but then, you know, essentially I found out that he just didn't...
	To try to get to me.
	But at the end of the day, he was still interested in other people.
	And that's fine.
	No, he wasn't cheating because we weren't like, you know, proper serious.
	We never like established any like seriousness.
	But I think it's unfair to like do these things go above and beyond for me.
	And then at the end of the day, not have anything serious for me.
	So did he love bomb you?
	You think?
	I don't know if he laughed on me because at the end of the day, I felt like it was very, you know, what's the word, reasonable what he did for me.
	We both did nice things for each other.
	But at the end of the day, I caught him talking to other girls.
	And I mean, it's fine if we weren't serious, but I told him, like, this is not cool to me.
	So I was like, I don't want to do this anymore.
	So that's what happened.
	I just didn't want to do it anymore.
	We still don't know what he did above and beyond, though.
	Oh, uh, he, uh, well, he would buy me really nice gifts, but also do really nice favors for me, and I know the gifts are not everything, but it just, it's nice, it's a nice gesture, and I find that to be a nice, you know, go above and beyond for me.
	So he bought you really expensive gifts?
	No, that's not, that's not just it, because I, my love language is to, uh, give things and be nice.
	What's the favor he did for you?
	Well, he would just, you know, pick me up and, you know...
	Wait, pick you up from where?
	I live in Barcelona, so in Spain it's different.
	Like, people are...
	Europeans tend to be a little bit more like...
	They don't have, like, cars because we have public transportation.
	So he would take the time to pick me up when there is a lot of traffic.
	And so I really appreciate that because he didn't have to do that.
	And also just treat me nicely enough for me to, you know, like him a lot.
	So he bought you nice gifts and picked you up when you still dropped him?
	But what kind of gifts?
	Oh, I didn't drop him for that.
	I dropped him because...
	He was interested in other women, and I just wasn't interested in other men, so I didn't want to keep going with that.
	What kind of gifts, though?
	It doesn't matter.
	The gifts are irrelevant, really, because anything I could get, a little bracelet or a little cupcake is a gift for me.
	That's nice.
	But you said expensive.
	Like Van Cleef?
	Oh, no, no, no.
	He got me a nice perfume.
	That's it.
	The money's not important to me.
	It's just about the gesture.
	That's it.
	Okay.
	But wouldn't it be fair to say that most guys are always going to look at other women and be interested in other women?
	Absolutely.
	That's 100% true.
	So why'd you get rid of her for that then?
	Probably an eagle thing.
	I'll be the first to admit it.
	Do you think you made a mistake?
	It was the perfume.
	For me!
	Looking back, do you think you made a mistake?
	Oh no, because I didn't drop him.
	I told him my boundaries.
	I was like, hey, if you're going to see other women, I would rather if we use protection.
	Because at the end of the day, I'm also going to Miami.
	And I don't really, I'm just not like that.
	But if anything, I would like to use protection because of things and that.
	And then he took it the wrong way.
	So I didn't really drop him.
	I just told him my boundaries and he just didn't reply.
	So is that my fault?
	So he ghosted you?
	No.
	Hold on.
	You were smashing a nigga raw for like, how long was it?
	Months?
	Oh, it was like just two months.
	Bruh, and it's a nigga no?
	You gotta put a condom on?
	He's gonna say no.
	Well, I mean, if you're interested in other women, why wouldn't you use a condom if you're gonna be interested in other women and me at the same time?
	So you were okay with it?
	You just wanted a condom?
	Okay.
	You didn't say that until I... Well, that's different.
	Oh, yeah, the text was just like, hey, like...
	You didn't drop him because he wanted other women.
	He kind of dropped you because you wanted to use protection.
	I didn't...
	See how, like...
	Yo, girls, just change the story.
	No, but...
	I told him the boundaries, and then he didn't say anything, and I was just like, well, I'm not going to keep begging you for my attention, so wouldn't that be something, me dropping him as well?
	I'm not going to be like, hey, but it's okay.
	You're not worth the condom.
	Oh, my God!
	Wait, were you guys exclusive?
	He just didn't have the ability to contain himself to not use it.
	Were you guys exclusive when you guys started?
	That's what I said.
	We never...
	So there was never a conversation about, like, we're going to see only each other.
	There was no exclusive.
	No, but there was a point where I was like, I should get on birth control of anything.
	And he was like, yeah, you should.
	And I feel like that's in itself implying that we're going to be...
	Exclusivity?
	So you assumed...
	That it was serious from how he's moving.
	But that nigga said, yo, no condom?
	Sorry, I'm out.
	Right.
	And I wasn't cool with that, so I was like, well, whatever.
	It is what it is.
	My nigga said, roll up until I die.
	I guess so.
	I guess so.
	All right, what about you?
	Well, I've only been in, like, one really serious, like, relationship, and I actually broke up with him because he failed to meet my standards.
	Oh, shit.
	Period.
	Wait, I'm gonna guess.
	I believe her.
	He didn't reach the sky.
	Ha, ha, ha, so funny.
	Wait, what?
	What is the sky?
	What is the sky?
	I'm in the sky.
	I'm in the sky.
	Oh, okay.
	I get it.
	Okay.
	So what did he not accomplish as far as your standard goes?
	It's not even about the different gestures he would do, but he was 25 and still living off of his parents' money and refused to do things for himself.
	I want to be with a man that my kids can look up to and respect, somebody who can hold his own.
	I gave him so many chances, but he just kept failing to achieve anything.
	He was 17 and he was 24.
	What the?
	Oh!
	I'm sorry.
	Why would you do that?
	Oh, my God.
	Stop.
	It wasn't his fault.
	I lied to him about my age, which is...
	What the?
	Should not be a million.
	Was he worth it?
	Was he worth it?
	See?
	Did he lie?
	Giddy up.
	Giddy up.
	Oh, my God.
	You got it?
	Giddy up.
	Yo, niggas.
	Check IDs, all right?
	Bro.
	I didn't mean to say that, I'm sorry.
	Here's the scary part.
	Age of consent in Florida is 18.
	It's 16, Romeo and Juliet law.
	He can still go to jail.
	Age of consent in Florida is 18.
	No, it's 16.
	It's with parental consent.
	She's wrong.
	It's Romeo and Juliet law.
	Someone pull it up.
	It's 18, and then Romeo and Juliet laws, I think, cover only about three-year difference.
	So you're wrong.
	It's four-year difference.
	Alright, pull it up.
	Let's see.
	She's wrong.
	It's like 100% here.
	No, no, no.
	It's 16 with parental consent.
	Bro, you're a liar, man.
	Parental, your parents' consent.
	Like a good relationship.
	Literally.
	Coming out of one.
	It's 18.
	Pull it up.
	Pull it up, guys.
	I'm not gonna lie.
	Y'all deserve each other, man.
	Also, I was young, and I didn't know a lot of things, so I feel like I kind of just rushed into it, and I was like, it was my first time ever being in love.
	Does he know now that you were underage?
	Well, now he's not going to know.
	No, put age of consent Florida.
	Put age of consent Florida.
	Bro, me and Juliet...
	Okay.
	What's the, uh...
	18 years old.
	Now...
	So, it's 18.
	You're wrong.
	And then now we're gonna go into...
	What?
	Who said...
	With parental consent at 16.
	Yeah, with parental consent.
	Now we're gonna go ahead and type in Romeo and Juliet, Florida.
	Because him being 24 and you 17, I think that's a bit too much.
	That's like seven years.
	That is scary, bro.
	Yeah.
	14 to 17.
	The victim?
	The victim.
	Four years.
	Oh, four years?
	Yeah.
	Bro, he would've went to jail.
	Well, I didn't press charges.
	I didn't bring them up.
	Well, your parents didn't.
	Well, they didn't know.
	See, you don't know what you talk about, man.
	I just told you that I was qualified for the age for a four-year difference.
	I didn't say what I did was legal.
	I'm telling you the Romeo and Juliet law.
	That's scary, man.
	He had to have been 21, though.
	See, yo, what the hell?
	You guys see how convincing she was on that whole show?
	You told him you were 18?
	No, it's, yo.
	And this is why, yo, you guys gotta check this shit.
	Yo.
	You can meet a girl like this and she'll tell you, age of 16, Romeo and Juliet lost my parents' consent.
	Like, that's a whole bunch of shit.
	Right now, there's a basketball player.
	18 years old is the age of consent, and then it's only a four-year gap.
	Yeah.
	And he's way older.
	He was 24 when y'all met.
	He could go to jail for that.
	Right now, there's a basketball player.
	I think his name is Giddy.
	What's his name?
	Bruh.
	What the fuck, man?
	Also, you don't like to admit when you're wrong.
	I can tell you have a very bad habit about that.
	No, I just told you.
	You were 1,000% wrong just now.
	But it was four years.
	I was talking about the Juliet law.
	Romeo and Juliet law.
	No, she said age of consent was 16.
	I said, no, it's not.
	No, it's not.
	It's 18.
	It's 18.
	And then the difference between y'all was way too high.
	I said with parental consent, though.
	That's what I'm talking about.
	But did your parents consent to it?
	She brought up to Romeo and Juliet and say...
	Romeo and Juliet is not going to save the dude.
	He would have went to jail.
	But I'm not talking about that.
	That's not the correct situation.
	Well, first off, you lied.
	And you would have put him in jail.
	I just said that.
	That's crazy though.
	But that's what I'm saying.
	I was a kid.
	I'm trying to say, like, I didn't understand those things.
	I was just looking at it because I was in love with him.
	I just wanted to stay with him.
	I know, that's what I'm saying.
	And I know that now.
	That's not what you said.
	That's scary, bro.
	Y'all are all wrong.
	It's 18 is age of consent and there's nothing, no way around that.
	If you look up with a 17 year old, it don't matter.
	You're going to jail in Florida.
	There's no Romeo and Juliet laws.
	The guy would have to be within a certain age group for it to even matter.
	But that guy was way older.
	He was 24 years, 17.
	He's going to jail, bro.
	And in Fort Myers, cops ain't doing shit, so they're gonna rest at his ass, for sure.
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	Goddamn.
	Alright.
	Oh my god, bro, stop!
	Alright, we saved some of your niggas, man.
	Is there a statue of limitations on that?
	Probably, yeah.
	Five, ten years, probably.
	Goddamn.
	Because you just admitted to people.
	Yeah, you're funny though.
	You'd be like, wait, hold on.
	What about this?
	No, because I just did the math.
	I'm sorry.
	I didn't mean to say that.
	No, no, it's fine.
	The math just calculated.
	It wasn't mathing.
	It wasn't mathing.
	Yeah, that's what I was like.
	Yeah, don't worry.
	I got you.
	Stupid.
	Okay, what about you?
	A time when a guy did the most for you, you thumped his ass, said, all right, nigga, I'm out of here.
	I wouldn't say doing the most.
	I would say kind of my ex.
	He kind of went above and beyond, but he was cheating the whole time.
	No way.
	On you?
	Yeah.
	Yo, you know what you just said, right?
	He said black men don't cheat.
	He wasn't black, though.
	Who said he was black?
	Oh.
	Never mind.
	I was trying to save him, but never mind.
	He was black, though.
	Was he black?
	No, he wasn't black.
	What was he?
	He was white?
	Latino.
	No, he was mixed race.
	He was mixed.
	So he was black.
	Mixed or what?
	Like what?
	Like white and...
	Black.
	Yeah.
	I mean, I don't know.
	Colored?
	I don't know.
	What is it?
	Colored?
	It's crazy.
	I don't know.
	Colored is crazy.
	Is it mixed?
	I don't know.
	I don't know what's wrong with this panel, man.
	I mean...
	I understand, concerned, and worried at the same time.
	So, what did he do that was good for you?
	Well, I mean, he helped me get a new car and stuff.
	Ooh, what kind of car?
	Wait, did he buy it in a car?
	Well, he didn't buy it straight out, but he put the down payment on it.
	Damn, that's a lot, though.
	I put the down payment on my dad's truck.
	That's nothing special.
	But I still had to make the payments on it.
	Oh.
	So he just put the down payment on it.
	What kind of car?
	Oh, he won!
	He won!
	Nigga say, yo, sweetheart, down payment covered.
	But I still have to make the payment, and so if I don't, they're going to take the car.
	Still to this day?
	No, I mean, I already got a new car.
	That is huge, by the way.
	Yo, okay, question.
	How much is down payment that he put down?
	5K? 10K? Oh, it was four!
	I don't want to say.
	I'm not going to say the year 90,000.
	Come on, come on, come on.
	It was a Range Rover, so it was a...
	Wow.
	Okay, wait, hold on.
	What year was it?
	This was a few years ago, so it was like maybe...
	Is it a sport or a big body?
	It was a sport.
	Roughly 2016, 2017?
	Well, this was a few years ago.
	I think...
	I can't remember the year.
	I think it was like...
	I don't know.
	It was like...
	Yeah, probably 16.
	So depending on the time you bought the car, it's between $5,000 to $15,000 minimum.
	It could have been more.
	So he put like $20,000 down basically.
	And she's complaining about payments.
	That's the minimum.
	He probably put more.
	He probably put more.
	That's fucked up, man.
	I mean, he was cheating the whole time.
	He had a whole, like...
	He got to a Range Rover.
	Wait, so...
	Question!
	He was taking care of you, right?
	He loved you, right?
	I don't know about that.
	What's a little bit of side business?
	No, he was telling everybody that I was, like, crazy and, like, he didn't know me, so...
	Was he buying other ranges for girls?
	No.
	So you were the main.
	Do you regret leaving him?
	I would say no.
	I would say no.
	I don't regret it because he was cheating the whole time.
	What about the next guy?
	He's going to cheat too.
	No.
	If he's honest, if you come up to me and you say, hey, you're the main, but I'm going to have a chicken wing on the side, that's different.
	Okay, so you don't like the lying part of it.
	Yeah, if you're honest and you're like, you said, your girlfriend, you have other girls, you're honest.
	You didn't lie to her.
	Wait, when did he say that?
	Wait, is that true or not?
	No, it is.
	It is true.
	He told his girlfriend that, hey, you're going to be the main.
	I'm going to have other side.
	She signed up for it.
	That's different.
	You take care of her, right?
	Do you pay her rent and everything?
	She lives a good life.
	Period.
	She lives a good life.
	Did you pay for her cartoon?
	Does she pay rent?
	She lives a good life.
	What does that mean to you?
	My version of a good life can be different than your version.
	I've never seen a girl that's so interested in what Angie's like, bro.
	Her writing is different for everybody.
	It can mean a whole different thing.
	I just give you money for food each month.
	She left.
	Oh, you're not together?
	No, she left the apartment.
	She left.
	Currently.
	She was here earlier.
	She was cleaning up and stuff and she left.
	Period.
	You asked a lot of questions, by the way.
	I find very...
	She's a curious person.
	No, HR, that's all they are.
	So, why do you come to work late?
	Something like that.
	Where are you going tomorrow?
	Okay.
	Where am I? Yeah.
	Okay.
	Cool.
	Okay.
	What about you?
	It's 12 years.
	Yeah, we've been together for a long time, so I haven't had nobody else to, like, go above and beyond.
	And I was a kid when we first started dating.
	Okay.
	FBI open up FBI what's with these what's with the FBI yeah cause you're you're what 27 right now right Yes.
	So you guys met at high school?
	Yes.
	High school sweethearts?
	Is he 27 as well?
	He's 28.
	Okay, cool.
	That's Romeo and Juliet. - Yeah, so like, 'cause age and senate Let's not admit to it.
	Can a 17 and 18 year old date?
	Can a 17 and 18 year old date?
	What about an 18 and 16?
	Or 15?
	It depends on the state.
	Every state is different.
	I know Texas, age of consent is 17, and then we got Romeo and Juliet laws in Texas, so they would have been fine.
	Her and him.
	But yeah, it's 17 and 24.
	You guys keep saying it, someone can report it.
	What if the parents don't approve, though?
	You guys wanted him to get reported?
	He can't get reported now he's not 24?
	Nobody knows who he is.
	The statute of limitations haven't gone up yet.
	But she's 20.
	Yeah, you asked a lot of questions, nigga.
	I know, because we need to stop talking about it.
	You brought it up.
	I didn't bring it up?
	Yes, you did.
	You did bring it up.
	No, like right now.
	HR? HR? What about you?
	I don't know.
	I feel like...
	Merch.
	I feel like the men that are consistently trying to impress you.
	Yeah.
	I miss you.
	Every five seconds.
	I miss you.
	I miss you.
	They tell you that?
	Yes.
	You're on a roster at that point.
	It's just...
	It's just really annoying when they try too hard.
	Like, you have my attention.
	So annoying.
	You have my attention.
	But a text is kind of different than, like, actually...
	No.
	I mean, it's just like, I don't know.
	I hate, like, repetitive, like, men.
	So you don't like men showing all the affection?
	I know, who?
	You don't like the chase of men?
	No, I like the chase.
	It's when they, like, just, like, I don't know.
	When they, like, smother you with love.
	Yeah, when they smother you.
	Like, when we're trying to get to know each other, like, let the vibe flow.
	Like, you're trying to, like, push, like, something on me.
	Like, you're trying to, like, force something.
	Like, a conversation or anything.
	Like, love bombing?
	Yeah, I promise you.
	Like, just when they smother you.
	When they just put too much attention to something.
	It's just too much.
	Too much.
	You don't want it.
	I promise you, bro, Seattle fucked her up.
	Gotta be Seattle.
	I'm hoping.
	What?
	Your time in Seattle messed you up.
	Is he right?
	What do you mean?
	Like, relationships?
	Yeah.
	No, I think...
	No, Seattle's actually really good for dating.
	A lot of my friends are married, which is ridiculous.
	For women, it's good.
	For men, it's terrible.
	Why?
	Why is it bad in Seattle?
	There's too many men that live in Seattle.
	What's the ratio?
	I feel like there's too many, like, cheap men in Seattle.
	It's some crazy, like, 55, 60, something like that.
	That's not that bad.
	I mean, you're a female.
	It's great for you.
	Oh, period.
	Yeah.
	Microsoft is there.
	A lot of tech companies are there.
	Seattle's not good for men.
	Isn't Tinder there?
	But not there.
	Isn't Tinder there?
	Oh, Tinder's everywhere.
	Yeah, Tinder's everywhere.
	No, I'm at the headquarters.
	Oh, I don't know.
	That, I don't know.
	Silicon Valley.
	But I wouldn't be surprised if it wasn't.
	So, in short, him texting you, I miss you, and all these lovely things.
	It's just not that.
	It's not that.
	That's not the issue.
	It's when they're consistently doing it.
	There's nothing else.
	There's no conversation.
	It's only I miss you.
	What do you miss?
	My attitude?
	Because I know I'm giving it to you.
	I like that.
	I guarantee you, if you actually liked the guy, it wouldn't matter, but okay.
	Ask him to send you some money and then he'll stop texting you.
	I can like a guy.
	I can really be vibing with a man.
	But when there's like nothing else going on, like it's just like you have nothing else to say but oh you're so pretty or I miss you or I love hanging out with you.
	There's no conversation, nothing real, no actual connection to like...
	I'm confused.
	If you don't like him that much, why are you seeing him if he was only telling you that?
	It sucks.
	Okay, wait.
	Hold up.
	Where did you get lost?
	No, no, no.
	Because you said I was with a guy, right?
	But he would only text me to say, I miss you, or whatever.
	What I'm asking is, if he didn't have substance like that, what made you give him a chance?
	I mean, it can be nice at first.
	It's like things that fizzle out within five minutes.
	It's really nice.
	You'll be good.
	You'll be talking, conversating.
	So how long were you guys talking for?
	It was just an example.
	It wasn't really...
	It's just the only thing I can think of.
	Because usually when a guy...
	I just didn't really have a good example.
	So you just talked about nothing.
	Fantastic.
	You ask me a question.
	Bro, what the hell?
	He's made a scenario out of nowhere.
	He talked to you.
	He complained about an imaginary guy that was never there.
	No, it's happened.
	It's an example.
	It's just not like a specific.
	This is Seattle Info Effect.
	I'm telling you.
	This is Seattle Info Effect.
	I'm telling you.
	Why?
	Explain that.
	Can you explain that?
	I just mean they're very soulless and they...
	What do you mean by that?
	They're very nonchalant and they actually are hoes.
	Whoa!
	You don't think the men in Miami are whores?
	I didn't say no.
	How long have you been in Seattle to know?
	I just have dated a few girls from Seattle.
	Were they from Seattle and in Miami?
	Some left for Miami to move over there and some were born there, but it's really common.
	But you never dated in Seattle?
	Nah.
	So you don't get the real experience, though.
	Because that's a washed version of Seattle.
	I'm not dating to Seattle.
	Seattle's shit.
	It's cold and it rains a lot.
	The people from Seattle are fucking assholes.
	It has a name.
	It's called the Seattle Freeze.
	Everybody that goes to Seattle, they say the same shit.
	The people are assholes.
	They're dicks.
	That's the reason why you become heartless and nonchalant.
	That's why you're like that.
	I'm not heartless or nonchalant.
	I mean, I guess I can't be a bitch, but...
	Bruh!
	Just hold an L. Just hold an L, man.
	Alright, let's move on.
	What about you?
	What about me?
	Okay, so...
	I don't want to name drop, but his name rhymes with...
	I don't want to name drop, but his name rhymes with Karen.
	So my ex...
	Karen?
	Yeah, Aaron.
	So my ex...
	Aaron?
	Shout out to Aaron.
	So my ex...
	He must have been white.
	Chris?
	No, he was black.
	I don't date white men.
	I don't like that.
	Okay, sorry.
	I'm sorry.
	It's okay.
	It's okay.
	I had my white boy face.
	Anyway, so he...
	Yeah, you're good.
	Go ahead.
	Keep going, keep going.
	Okay, so he went above and beyond, but not in the, like, way where people, like, think it's gift-giving.
	He went above and beyond in his words of affirmation, and I ate that shit up, okay?
	Oh, both boys are the worst.
	Oh, wait.
	So nothing even...
	I'm so sorry.
	I didn't know...
	No, it's fine.
	Okay, so I ate that up.
	Like, I don't know, because, honestly, it's kind of sad, but, like, I get everything that I need from, like...
	Me, myself, personally, financially, and like my parents.
	So, for a man to go out of his way to compliment me and like give me the affirmation and the support that I needed in a relationship when you're not blood, like I ate that up.
	And he gave me that, but he only spent four dollars on me.
	Four dollars?
	WM! He bought me a burger from McDonald's!
	You cost four dollars?
	Stop!
	Moe!
	Moe, buy her Big Mac, bro.
	- I'm gonna buy a Big Mac. - David McDonald's on Quarter Pounders.
	- Oh shit. - You better get her a Big Mac.
	You better get her a nice juicy Big Mac. - What he did is like he went above and beyond in his words of affirmation and I ate it up because I didn't hear like things like, oh you're pretty, you're beautiful.
	Like I didn't hear things like that.
	So of course I heard it growing up.
	No, I was not insecure.
	Okay, I'm the most confident girl like you'll meet.
	But not in a humble way.
	But the thing is, he gave me...
	Yeah, that's not humble at all.
	But he gave me the words of affirmation I needed.
	He supported me with my career.
	He supported me with school.
	He didn't support you.
	Okay, I supported him.
	He supported you with words.
	No, seriously.
	It was my first boyfriend.
	I literally was like the sugar mama of that relationship.
	And I learned a lot from it.
	But again, the words of affirmation is what I needed in that time of life.
	What do you mean by words of affirmation?
	He would be like, oh hey baby, I know you're going to school today.
	I hope you crack down on your books.
	That's moral support.
	Yo, that nigga stole you a dream.
	What you want to hear?
	For the shelter?
	I mean, I was unfaithful.
	I will admit, I was unfaithful because I realized words of affirmation ain't shit.
	I can give that to myself.
	She got to think for...
	- I was trying, but then like...
	- Scene talkers.
	- The thick was good? - The words were affirmation were too deep.
	- The thick was good, right?
	- No.
	- It could have been that good.
	- She got to think.
	- Oh, you wasn't.
	- It was a long distance relationship.
	He was in New York, I was in Miami.
	And I would fly to New York.
	So what was he doing for work?
	He was jobless.
	My uncle died, and then he lost his job, and he was grieving, so I got it.
	I was there to support him.
	How long was he grieving for?
	Like three months.
	So he had a job while you guys were together and still only spent $4.
	No.
	So what was he doing when you met him?
	When I met him, he was a SoundCloud rapper.
	Were you about 17 years old?
	He's an actual artist.
	Mo, give her a snippet, man.
	Mo, how much money you made on SoundCloud?
	Is that a livable wage?
	Is it a livable wage?
	Ladies, ladies, ladies.
	You guys are yelling into the mics and it's hurting the quality of the show.
	And it's got to be one mic at a time because you guys always know.
	Just stop yelling and speaking all at the same time.
	One microphone so people can actually hear what you say.
	But he was a SoundCloud rapper, but I believe in his vision, okay?
	Because I see the potential in people.
	Stupid.
	Mo, did you make more than $4 on Apple Music?
	I made more than $4.
	Okay.
	He wasn't on Apple Music.
	It seems to me like you were a sugar mama.
	But I learned a lot.
	I learned that I need to not spend $5,000 on a man over the period of five months.
	That's like $1,000 a month.
	That sounds perfect.
	Well, I was making $100k a year.
	Was the burger that good?
	It was at 2am when you were high.
	Alright, we're going to move on to the next thing.
	Alright, so I'm going to read these chats.
	Guys, from this point forward, we're going to go, what, 15 up, Chris?
	Yeah, that's fine.
	15 up from this point forward, but I'll read the ones that came up before.
	Ladies, which is the largest lake in North America?
	So the Frosh.
	That was Frosh, by the way.
	What's Frosh?
	What's his name?
	Okay, Candy goes, wonder if the new GTA 6 main character would collect child support.
	Okay.
	Cam two times.
	Question, ladies.
	What qualities do you think are of a good, strong family?
	If we have time, we'll come back to that one because I think Fresh has some questions to ask.
	Thong Wedgie goes, ladies, whose advice do you take more serious?
	Your mother or father slash father figure?
	That's a good one.
	All right, raise your hands if you would take your father's opinion more seriously.
	Okay.
	How many of you would...
	Oh, wow.
	Majority of you would take your father.
	Father figure.
	Okay.
	Majority.
	Okay.
	Shorty Necks are fresh.
	Your hair color is my favorite color.
	Let me know when is that time of the month so I can show you what I'm known for.
	Next week.
	Okay.
	Stud Muffin goes, would you rather get smash any woman of your choice or release GTA? What is that?
	Who's he asking that to?
	What is GTA? I don't even know what that is, but what is it coming out?
	Okay, we'll move on.
	I don't know about GTA. That game doesn't come out for two more years.
	Chris gotta stop thinking outside the box or he will look like one.
	Ratings for these loaded dishwashers from Fresh.
	Okay.
	He's rating you guys from 1 to 10.
	He goes unpaid eye spice, 3.
	Smellany, 4.
	Alien from Predator, 3.
	White girl colored in shit, 3.
	Boobs.
	Boobs on a stick, four.
	That's the person that skipped high school.
	I'm a Honda.
	He gave you a four.
	And then Chen, the blogger, four.
	Do you guys have anything to say back to your ring?
	What does a ring account look like?
	What does Honda mean?
	How much money is in that account for you to be saying that?
	What the fuck?
	Okay.
	Who the fuck is that, bro?
	Alright.
	The Austin 24, how disrespectful.
	18-year-old Dunbrod said her university is a community college.
	False.
	That's Dunk City.
	I went to FSW. That was the community college to do my associate's degree.
	Period.
	That's Dunk City basketball school.
	We got some clout.
	Shout out Eagles.
	Shout out Eagles.
	Okay.
	That chick from Barcelona reminds me of that tour guide in the Lizzie McGuire movie.
	I don't know.
	Trigona says, Myron, if Angie gets fat on you five years from down the line, how are you acting, King?
	I'm planning her on a diet.
	She's going to the gym.
	What do you mean?
	What if she doesn't want to go to the gym?
	There's no choice there.
	Red Pill Overdose.
	Question for the ladies.
	Rate yourself on how you think society would rate you and then rate yourself on how you would.
	I think society rates me an eight, but I'm an 11.
	I don't rate myself, so.
	Yo, Mo, what do you rate her?
	Oh!
	One out of ten.
	I give that an 11.
	Mo!
	These guys are lovely.
	She can see 11.
	I would blush, but I'm black.
	What the?
	I don't blush.
	I already see it.
	You're blushing, though.
	It's my blush.
	Your face is saying you're going to get hair.
	So you think there's, like, absolute you?
	No.
	No.
	I need steak and waffles.
	He's gonna bring the blush out of you.
	We got here, Robert Foday goes, me and my girl have me watching you guys for a while now.
	I think it means me and my girl have been watching you guys for a while.
	And we love you guys.
	Question for the ladies.
	Name three countries.
	We'll start right here with you.
	Name three countries, please.
	Spain.
	Russia.
	Okay.
	Japan.
	All right.
	And I forgot to mention, you can't name the United States, Mexico, or Canada.
	And you can't repeat what she said.
	Yes.
	So next one, go ahead.
	Portugal, UK, and Iceland.
	All right.
	Okay.
	Hey, y'all!
	Hey, y'all!
	You said what?
	The what?
	The DR? Yeah.
	Okay, two more.
	I don't know.
	I can't even think right now.
	No, no.
	We got time today.
	Oh!
	Yeah, I got time, good.
	That's how I could.
	Yeah.
	Okay, so the DR. All right, let me see.
	Make your boyfriend proud.
	Think Africa.
	You ain't gonna be proud of me on this one.
	Think Africa.
	Damn.
	No vacations?
	No like...
	You don't have a dream country you want to go to?
	You want to be somebody's wife, nigga!
	The fuck going on, bruh?
	The fuck going on?
	Indonesia...
	Mongolia, South Africa.
	Mongolia still exists.
	Yeah, Mongolia exists.
	They have a tourism campaign.
	I just saw it on TikTok.
	Where's Mongolia?
	Mongolia is next to my hometown.
	She knows, man.
	She knows.
	It is.
	They want to bring people under 40 to go into their country.
	I saw it on TikTok.
	That's cool.
	TikTok is lies.
	Yo, she approved that, so...
	Alright.
	Check that real quick, Mo, please.
	If anyone wouldn't know, it would be Miss China over here.
	Is that modern day China?
	Here's Russia, here's Mongolia, here is...
	No, Russia, Mongolia, China.
	She doesn't know crypto, so it's...
	We surround Mongolia.
	But she should know where she lives.
	Alright, look it up, Mo.
	Alright, we'll move on.
	What about you?
	Name three countries, please.
	France, Italy, Ukraine.
	What about you?
	Indonesia, Brazil.
	Someone named Indonesia.
	Oh, they did?
	Singapore.
	Okay.
	Wait, Singapore...
	What was that one?
	Two?
	Brazil, and Kenya.
	Now what about you?
	Switzerland, Norway, and Costa Rica.
	Y'all got some smart girls on the chat today.
	Yeah, relatively.
	Jaleel goes, the girl next to Fresh rocking the...
	Oh, a nigga version of Ms.
	Fizzle from the Magic School Bus.
	I'm changing on the Magic School Bus.
	Okay, you're giving a man that makes one million dollars a month, but you can no longer leave the state you live in.
	Could you do it, WFNFW Chris?
	Would you guys stay stuck in that state, but you can't, but you can't, but he makes a million a month.
	Would you do it?
	A million a month.
	Florida?
	Yeah.
	I wouldn't.
	Which state?
	Wait, but who says he's giving the million to me, you know?
	He's not.
	Yeah, exactly.
	Alright, so would you stay?
	Yeah.
	How much money am I getting?
	10%.
	Well, how much money do I get?
	If he's making a million, I could be...
	No, you live a good lifestyle.
	How about that?
	Like, what is a good lifestyle?
	Whatever you want.
	He just takes care of me?
	Yeah, whatever you want, yeah.
	Yeah.
	Would you stay?
	Which state is it?
	Florida!
	It could be Idaho!
	Okay, much love for FNF. OG member here since 2021.
	I have a question for everyone.
	What's your favorite Christmas movie and why?
	Home Alone.
	I was gonna say.
	Looks like it's Home Alone all around.
	The Grinch.
	Official IRS ratings from 360 Myron Mei Ling.
	Okay, so Mei Ling, five.
	Fresh Keeper away from her.
	Alexandra, four.
	Wobble down to the gym.
	Goddamn.
	He gave Sky a five.
	He gave Renee a four.
	Every time you talk, that thing on your head is two-stepping like a crackhead.
	Goddamn.
	Nilshana, five.
	And then Melanie, six.
	Moldy Chia Pet.
	Everything about me is fresh.
	Everything about me is fresh, baby.
	Thank you.
	Okay, what's up next?
	These ratings are funny.
	Frosh.
	Frosh goes, hey guy, is the studio falling apart?
	The drapes between 12-year-old relationship and Scary Spice fell, L-Curtains.
	What does that mean?
	That's right.
	No, they're talking about her outfit.
	What do they mean by fell curtains?
	They made a joke earlier.
	No, it doesn't even look like curtains.
	I know, it's still not good.
	Ice spice, more like snorting on ice than smoking on spice.
	I'll take it!
	I'll take it.
	You thought I was feeling you?
	That nigga all munch.
	Galah goes, geez, this is a hard panel tonight.
	Ronald McDonald will be proud of her man donated $5 to her restaurant.
	Question for ladies.
	A man employed making $100K a year or a business owner making $75K a year?
	Business owner.
	Making $75K a year?
	Okay, what about you?
	Business owner.
	Okay.
	Business owner.
	Yeah, taxes are going to take half, so business owner.
	Employee.
	What?
	I'd rather have the man making $100,000.
	But taxes take half.
	And they're still going to take $75,000.
	Yeah, but if you have your own business, there's a way around it.
	And you still can write stuff off driving to work, clothes.
	No, not really.
	Yeah, you can.
	Yes, you can.
	Yeah, you can.
	Have you written stuff off on a W-2?
	Probably.
	Yeah, so you probably don't know how it works.
	It's hard to do something.
	Yeah, but I can sit there with my parents when they do their taxes and have tax write-offs.
	I know, my mom does that all the time.
	My dad has a business and my dad works for someone.
	Alright, that's fine.
	Let me ask.
	75k a year as a business owner or 100k as an employee?
	Your guy, what would you prefer?
	I would say business owner.
	Alright.
	Employee.
	100k.
	Alright.
	Interesting.
	Okay.
	What else do we got here?
	We got here, Fresh Ball says, Melanie, we want to take you out for tacos for the show.
	Who's Melanie again?
	I'm Melanie.
	Okay.
	Okay.
	Then back to the crib for intimate conversations and bedroom fun.
	Fun fact, Fresh BBC can bend into a boomerang inside a woman when doing the missionary position.
	You'll find out later when we get acquainted.
	Make the move fresh.
	Oh, wait, they're telling you to make a move on her?
	Yeah, this is Fresh's Balls.
	Do you have anything to say back to Fresh's Balls, Ms.
	Seattle?
	Get him fresh!
	Get him!
	Get him fresh!
	Next.
	Get him fresh!
	You got him fresh!
	Yes, sir!
	L. Chris for bringing in the Chia Pet.
	God damn it, it's Bando.
	Maestro man, if you modern women are so proud of being 304s with the whole do you girl and no regrets mindset, why are y'all always so ashamed to say your body counts?
	What's your body count?
	My body count, I don't know.
	I don't keep count.
	No, it's under 12.
	What?
	You said 50.
	Mo, you trying to be 13?
	Oh, shit!
	Oh, shit, Mo!
	I mean, more than three bodies, so I'm gonna say.
	No, but I'm kidding.
	No, but y'all always, like the J. Cole song says, a girl with a body count of three, you multiply it times three or something.
	Something dumb.
	So you're saying you have a higher...
	No!
	Okay, who here wants to admit their body count on the panel?
	I'll admit it.
	I will admit it.
	I just lied.
	It's 17.
	Okay.
	Alright, what about you?
	Yeah, she definitely kept track.
	Do you want to say it?
	Three.
	Three?
	Multiply by three.
	I've only had two boyfriends.
	Four.
	Four?
	I don't say my body count.
	Damn.
	HR? You know what?
	HR? I don't say my body count.
	Understandable.
	Yeah, okay.
	Might get fired.
	Yeah, what about you?
	Are you guys willing to post your bank accounts?
	Yeah.
	Oh, yeah.
	We kind of did already.
	Did you actually?
	We actually do talk about our investments.
	So what's your body count?
	Answer my question.
	It's online.
	No, I'm asking you.
	Go look it up.
	What is it?
	Nigga, go look it up!
	Well, you're asking me a question to demean me either high or low value, right?
	Okay, you know what?
	How about this?
	You're in the studio right now, right?
	You know how much this costs?
	Yeah, this isn't expensive.
	Do you own this?
	Do you have investors?
	Do you have somebody helping you out?
	No, let's pay it for.
	So, okay.
	So what's sitting in your bank account?
	No, I'm asking you cash flow.
	It's in here.
	The assets here.
	If he sells this, he's going to get the money back.
	This is an expensive condo.
	I'm 18, so I'm going to have to.
	These are expensive.
	You didn't have to answer.
	You could have just said, I don't want to answer.
	No, but, well, he did.
	He was fair.
	He said he owns all this stuff.
	I mean, that's what I asked.
	No, so the question is, what's your body count?
	I just said two.
	I didn't hear something.
	Me too much. - I'm 18. - She's 18. - She's 18. - And if you like before, I don't know.
	- Oh God.
	- Okay, what if I give you a range?
	Yeah, give a range.
	That's all I'm saying.
	Can I be 101?
	What?
	What about tomorrow?
	Oh, 101.
	No, no, no.
	I didn't say 100.
	I did not have a 100 count.
	I said 100 because it's just a fair range.
	That's a big range.
	I want to be in the range.
	That's a big range.
	She's cute.
	What do you identify as?
	Me?
	Yeah.
	A woman?
	Okay, just make sure.
	Alright, what about you?
	Four.
	Four?
	Yep.
	Oh, that's beautiful.
	Take all their numbers and multiply by seven.
	What about you?
	I love you a long time.
	Can you say your body count fresh?
	Can you say yours?
	No.
	Can I retract my statement?
	No, it's too late.
	It's on the internet forever.
	It really is.
	It really is.
	Who bought this panel, man?
	Chris, you did.
	Chris, you did, man.
	You're proud of it, too.
	Your girls picked us up.
	Are you trolling too much?
	All right.
	Fantastic.
	I lied.
	I lied.
	You can go with your question, bro.
	You went from Seattle.
	You're probably a recovered junkie from Tacoma, Washington.
	Also, H.R. Ho, what's the main thing you look for on resumes?
	What automatically makes you turn away?
	WFNF Mondays.
	You called her H.R. Ho.
	That's a creative.
	So demeaning.
	What do you look for on resumes?
	The main thing we look for on resumes is if your resume matches the job description.
	You have to have the keywords from the job description in your resume.
	And if it's like well written.
	So you have to make sure there's no spelling errors.
	It's well written.
	And also, you have to go into what you did at your job, so not just like...
	Experience.
	Yeah, like analytics, maybe you said 10% or whatever data on your resume is good.
	Hiring managers look for that.
	That's some good tips.
	Cool.
	Not bad.
	Life lesson.
	But I'm not an HR hoe, so...
	Yeah, that was rude.
	I mean, you answered so.
	Okay.
	And last one here.
	Lavon says, ladies, for those of you that think you're not average, what is putting you above most women out there?
	My personality.
	I think I'm average.
	You cost four dollars.
	You're not average.
	I think I'm average.
	You cost four dollars.
	You said you cost four bucks.
	Are we going to go around?
	Yeah, we can go around.
	We can start here, I guess.
	Okay, so what makes you not average?
	Your personality.
	My personality.
	What about your personality makes you not average?
	I'm very bubbly.
	Honestly, it's from the Bible, but my dad and like people have said, I have the gift of gab.
	So I have the gift of talking and speaking to people and relating to others.
	Gab!
	G-A-B! The gift of gab is the way that you can relate to people and talk to them.
	Do you think men care about a woman having the gift of gab?
	Yeah, because men say I'm funny all the time.
	Of course they care about the gift of gab.
	They also care about the gift of gab because that leads to your mouth.
	Okay, so wait, you're trying to advertise your head?
	No, no, no, no, no.
	I'm just saying, men...
	You can't just be a pretty thing to me.
	Bro, you are too friendly.
	I'm not too friendly.
	I would say most men just want a quiet girl.
	Why do you think that?
	You don't know me.
	You just took...
	No, gift of gab doesn't mean you're friendly.
	It means you know how to speak to people.
	Yeah, but what if I told you most guys want silence?
	Well, you can't have me then.
	I'll be single forever before I'm silent.
	Mo, chill.
	That's your girl.
	Fantastic.
	You can call me that.
	What about you?
	Pull up the question again.
	What?
	Pull up the question again, guys.
	What's going on right now, bro?
	I don't know.
	I'm trying to get them to pull the question back up.
	Yo, bus for the bathroom.
	He said bus for the bathroom?
	Bus for the bathroom.
	Okay.
	Nigga, aren't you the producer?
	Nigga, I forgot the question.
	How do you stand out against other women that are average?
	That are average.
	What about you, Ms.
	Seattle?
	How do you stand out?
	I guess I'm really good with numbers.
	I'm just really good at multiplying money.
	That's literally not funny.
	Don't give a fuck.
	Yeah, I'm doing numbers.
	Okay.
	That's not funny.
	Mapping, mapping, nigga.
	Alright.
	What's good?
	Good at multiplying, alright?
	What about you?
	What sets you apart from other women to not be average?
	Just like my whole aura, me as a person.
	Just keeping it real.
	Period.
	How many countries can you knit?
	I named one.
	That's it.
	That's all.
	And I don't feel bad about it.
	I see why she got married.
	I'm not married.
	Well, engaged, right?
	I'm engaged.
	- Well, if she signs up, then you say why.
	- Oh God.
	- Oh, why? - Oh, that nigga be like, turn around, backshot. - My nigga paid for this. - Oh, you paid for the BBL?
	Oh, that's good. - Wow, it looks real. - It looks nice. - Hold on, I will say this though.
	It is better to build her up than to find her like that.
	So I would give a...
	Find her like what?
	As in like, for example, it's been 12 years and it's probably tired of hitting flat ass.
	No, no, no, no, no.
	I didn't have a flat ass.
	I had a shape, but I had two kids and I wanted to fix myself.
	Why you have two kids?
	Okay, 12 years.
	So two of his kids?
	Two, yes.
	How old are they?
	They're seven and three.
	So cute.
	Okay.
	Alright.
	What about you?
	How do you stand out?
	I would say I like to work out a lot.
	I like to go to Pilates like four or five times a week.
	How does that help the man?
	Well, because I'm fit.
	So I like to stay fit.
	I like to take care of my body, eat well.
	But again, if a woman works out, I mean, she's going to be fit too.
	How do you stand out?
	Well, not all women go to the gym.
	Facts.
	Quite a few do.
	But not all.
	A lot of women don't go to the gym.
	Especially black girls.
	That's not true because I don't go to the gym.
	A lot of women don't go to the gym.
	A lot of women don't take care of their bodies.
	Especially black girls.
	Who's saying that?
	Chris.
	Who's saying that?
	No.
	Come on, Myron, come on.
	Well, the average black woman is 187 pounds.
	Is that a statistic?
	Are you serious?
	In America?
	Yes.
	The average woman is 175, 5'3".
	The average black woman is 187 pounds.
	They're not working out.
	What's the average man?
	I don't know that, to be honest.
	I can check it, but regardless, women are too fat.
	Yeah, that's true.
	So what do you mean that every girl goes to the gym if the average is 175?
	Well, let's say women go to the gym.
	Not a lot, but some of them do.
	How else do you stand out?
	How else do I stand out?
	Because she's a black queen.
	Yeah, I'm a black queen too.
	I would say...
	I'm pretty.
	I didn't say that.
	I would say I'm very caring and nurturing for the guy that I'm with.
	And yeah.
	Okay.
	What about you?
	I think I'm average.
	I don't think I'm above average.
	Okay.
	Good answer.
	Good answer.
	All right.
	What about you?
	That's the only truth we've told so far.
	Oh my God.
	Stop.
	Don't do it.
	Stop.
	Don't answer me right now.
	Why do you kind of do her like that?
	Why do you kind of do her like that?
	That's not fresh.
	Bro.
	That's kind of rude.
	This guy's a limit.
	Rude?
	No.
	He's just kidding.
	He's just joking.
	What's rude about saying someone's average?
	No, because that means you're basic.
	Hold on, hold on, hold on.
	I'm not Adriana Lima.
	I'm not some supermodel where I just stand out.
	Is it an insult to be average, you think?
	It's an insult to...
	I think it is because everyone's special.
	A majority of the people are.
	Not everybody is special.
	You can't just give those titles to everyone.
	That's why it's average.
	No, but they're special in their own way.
	No.
	Society views them as average, and that's the basic criteria.
	I'm the basic criteria.
	That's what I'm saying.
	No, you're not.
	You're a queen, and I really wish you knew your best.
	You can't keep feeding everyone these types of delusions.
	I'm not feeding everyone these types of delusions.
	Not everyone is pretty, and that's okay.
	I accept that I'm average.
	Everyone is beautiful in their own way.
	No, they're not.
	No.
	Wait, but, like, would you say you're humble about your beauty?
	Would you say you're humble about it?
	I am.
	I just told you I was average.
	Yeah, but, like, that's below humble to me.
	What?
	I don't think it's average.
	I think you're very pretty.
	Thank you, and I really appreciate that, but I've worked.
	I have friends who are models.
	Those girls are gorgeous.
	Those are tens.
	Those are the beautiful girls.
	I'm just not one of the girls, and I accept that.
	That's not a problem.
	But do you compare yourself to them?
	I mean, I kind of have to.
	You don't have to do anything.
	You don't have to.
	I mean, let's say we're in a club.
	I'm standing next to my model friend and a guy comes next to me.
	But that's reality, though.
	Like, everything is a competition.
	And that's not a problem.
	No, but you should be your own competition.
	Can I digress?
	I can't compete where I can't compare.
	I need a better doctor if I'm going to do that.
	But what do you mean by average?
	Like, 175 pounds?
	Is that what you mean by, like, I'm kind of confused?
	No, I'm just saying, like...
	Let's do one at a time.
	Yeah, well, number one, the average, yeah, that's the average weight, right?
	But what I'm saying is that, like you're saying, there is no competition.
	I think that's kind of a crazy way to live life because if you're going to sit there and say, oh, there's no competition, well, by that default, then I can just be homeless and say, there's no competition, bro.
	No, no, no.
	I'm happy with myself, so yeah, whatever.
	Yeah.
	No, no, no.
	But when I say there's no competition, I mean, every day you're supposed to get 1% better.
	So you should compare to yourself that was yesterday, not to someone else that's doing it.
	Like, I don't compare myself to Kim K because I'm never going to be on that level.
	Exactly, because you can't compete where you can't compare.
	But is she above average, Kim K?
	I don't know.
	I mean, well, it depends on them.
	She's made an empire up of her looks.
	They said that's probably not.
	She made an empire up of her sex tape.
	And guess what?
	People buy it.
	People still buy her stuff.
	She's in the house.
	One microphone at a time.
	But hold on.
	Keep in mind, the marketplace decided her value.
	Same thing with you.
	You could be in your own world, but when you step outside, they're going to tell you you're fat, you're ugly, you look good.
	They'll tell you what you are.
	Yeah, that's true.
	Like, they keep saying, I'm Chia Pet.
	I spice here.
	And, like, I'm not eating it up, so...
	But, you know what's funny about this?
	Us as men, her being real and saying, you know what?
	I'm average is harder than you saying you're 11.
	That's true.
	No, but I just say that to boost my ego.
	I'm not really an 11, though.
	I'm like a 7 on a good day.
	I'm a 7 on a good day.
	Like, when you say you're an 11, like, is there room for improvement?
	Like, you're saying you're perfect?
	No, no, no, no, no.
	Oh, shit.
	Thank you, love.
	See, she said it.
	Yeah, but the point is that...
	See, here's the thing.
	I don't know if you guys have noticed it, but you guys kind of...
	Women don't live in reality a lot of the time.
	Can you please stop interrupting for two seconds?
	You have a very bad habit of interrupting.
	You need to stop doing that.
	Girls sit there and call themselves 10s or 11s or whatever it may be.
	And it's just crazy to me how they think that they're perfect and the reality is you're not.
	And then also on top of that, there's people that you're competing with.
	Whether you want to accept it or not, there's a lot of men that are attractive, etc.
	You have to compete with other women to get these men.
	So it's like...
	For you to sit there and say, I'm a 10, I'm an 11, blah, blah, blah.
	Well, if you really were, you would have had that guy by your side or chasing after you.
	And the reality is that most women don't have the value that they think they do.
	But do you think men and women have to compete?
	Or women and women and then men and men?
	Everyone competes.
	Both genders.
	But it's just that one gender tries to sit there and say that I don't compete with anyone or that I'm my own competition, which is a ludicrous way to look at the world.
	Because you compete with everybody no matter what, whether you go to school, sports, competing for a job, competing for a man.
	We all compete.
	It's just that women don't want to admit that they're competing.
	Sure.
	And the other thing, too, that I noticed that women tend to do is she said, I'm average.
	And then you immediately said, no, you're not, blah, blah, blah.
	And then she also kind of bigged you up, too.
	You guys feed into each other's delusion.
	Women don't tell each other the truth at all.
	Like, y'all are never going to tell each other you need to lose weight.
	You're never going to tell each other, hey, maybe you should be more quiet.
	Oh, hey, maybe you should change this behavior.
	Women never really hold each other accountable for their poor decisions.
	They really don't.
	I have a question.
	So what is like above average?
	Like to you guys, you guys are men, right?
	I mean, I guess we're all straight here.
	What is above average?
	We're not.
	Like, what is a 10 or what is an 11 to you guys?
	I'm kind of curious.
	I mean, everybody has a different standard, but I would say there are some women that you could make the argument are pretty much objectively beautiful by most standards.
	What makes them that?
	Like, what's some standard?
	I mean, it's just things that men typically look for, right?
	Men typically look for a thin waist, right?
	Hips that are a little bit wider.
	Long hair universally.
	Coke bottle shape.
	Obviously, full breasts.
	Youth.
	Good skin.
	If a girl has that, she's going to be attractive to a majority of men.
	Yeah, but who's right at the end of the day?
	We just told you the market dictates it.
	And there are standards that men generally look for in women.
	So you might have an opinion of yourself, but again, you step aside, they're going to tell you what you are.
	Yeah.
	The important part is there is an ask for every seat.
	There is always somebody that's just going to want you.
	You're funny, yo.
	Fair enough.
	I was kidding.
	Yeah, what about you?
	So she said she's average.
	What about you?
	I wanted to say, I wanted to add to what you guys were talking about.
	I think it's all about subjectivity because at the end of the day, like you said, beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
	And sure, there's objective reasonings to help people, you know, look at beauty, which is, you know, the thin waist, the nice face or whatever.
	But at the end of the day, you cannot, like you said, compete where you compare.
	At the end of the day, of course, if someone has self-confidence to myself, this is what I feel like.
	That doesn't mean I'm going to project that on other people and believe that they're going to think I'm like 11 or 12, you know.
	But I personally have the self-confidence to think, oh, I'm.
	Do you think men care about confidence from women?
	But it's not about men.
	You're asking a question about whether...
	No, no, no.
	Hold on, hold on.
	It is about men because men are the ultimate consumers of female beauty.
	So it is about men.
	So I'm asking you the question then.
	Do you think men care about female confidence?
	Yeah, I think so too because I've heard many...
	The answer is a profound no, we don't care about your confidence.
	Okay, but let me ask you a question because I've heard before that like, oh, men may think because you've seen a pretty insecure girl and you're like, oh, she's not that pretty because she's insecure.
	Or she's secure so she has more to add on.
	I mean, I've seen comments like that.
	But this is what I'm saying going back to this is subjective.
	If a woman's attractive, she's attractive.
	Men don't care about a woman's confidence because we don't look for those traits in females.
	You guys look for that.
	We don't care about that shit.
	But who makes the rules about the level of attractiveness?
	There's a class for everyone.
	There are things that men universally find attractive and it tends to be that women don't really care and or know what the things that men find attractive.
	We don't care about your confidence or your ambition or any of that shit.
	That's what you guys look for in us.
	Then why do you lie about it and say you care?
	Because they want to have sex.
	Period.
	Wait, care about what?
	Because here's the thing.
	If I meet a girl, right, and she sits there and says, oh yeah, I'm confident.
	I went to school.
	I'm educated.
	I got a job.
	Well, clearly you're invested in that, right?
	That's why you went to school and you did that.
	The guy is going to appease that ego into your ego investments and compliment you on what you worked on.
	But realistically speaking, he doesn't give a fuck if you worked a job or if you were homeless.
	But what about the men that want to split bills and do 50-50?
	Don't they care about that?
	Well, of course, but guess what?
	Do you want them?
	That's not a man.
	That's a boy.
	I know!
	Yeah, but those aren't the men that you want.
	Exactly.
	Right.
	Well...
	This is crazy to me.
	You're fighting to talk to men, well, you're saying this in real time, that you don't even want.
	But it's funny because the men that you actually do want are taller than you, successful, On somewhat good looking, as well, they'll tell you what it is for the most part, but sometimes because they want to smash you, they'll tell you what you want to hear.
	So in retrospect speaking here, your idea of what looks might be is good for yourself, but in reality speaking, they're going to tell you what it is, just who they choose.
	Sometimes you can decipher when a man is telling you what you want to hear just so he can hate it.
	You couldn't tell.
	Four dollars?
	I can't tell.
	Fresh!
	Fresh!
	I'm dis-fresh!
	That was bad!
	That was bad!
	You wanna lie to you?
	Yeah, Moe!
	Moe!
	I'm done!
	Fresh, how dare you...
	No, I mean, I just want to say one last thing, which is, you know, the dichotomy between women being nurturers and men being more into the nature part.
	Nurturers have this appease where they're more caring and have a little bit more emotional I want to say intelligence towards, you know, others.
	And with nature, well, of course, if we're talking about animalistic senses, well, men only care about certain characteristics to procreate and things like these.
	However, then how do you differentiate?
	Again, this is just me because I believe in a bit of a soul and a bit more deeper.
	How do you differentiate between animals that just have this sense of animalistic sense and then, like, humans?
	Like, why can't we progress towards caring about each other's, like, ambitions and things like these?
	Like, why is it just about, like...
	Because you're looking at things from a female lens, which is your fault.
	It's my fault.
	Well, I'm saying that's your fault right now, is you're looking at things from a female lens, like, why don't you care about ambition, blah, blah, blah.
	Let me ask you this.
	If it's my job to take care of you and provide for the family, etc., why would I care about your ability to provide?
	Well, why do you like me at all?
	You just want to procreate and that's it?
	Pretty much, yeah.
	It's because humans lack empathy.
	No, it's not about soul.
	I can make the argument that you don't have a soul because you want me for what I provide.
	I can make that argument too.
	But you just said you're looking for a woman's perspective, so I have the, I like to look for ambition, I like to see what the man likes.
	Okay, but ask yourself, why are you looking for ambition and what the man likes?
	Because I want to care for him as well.
	Okay, no.
	The real reason why you're looking for ambition is because a man's ambition is directly tied to his ability to create resources in the future, which is what you're interested in.
	So that's a very selfish and self-interested way to look at things, which is fine.
	Because when we're mating, we're trying to be in our best interest.
	So what I'm saying is that men don't look for that because we know that we have to come into the relationship as a provider.
	So why do I give a shit about you being a provider?
	Well, they're not all providers because then there's the argument of the 50th.
	You're missing the whole point of the argument.
	No, I understand what you're saying.
	I think you're right.
	I'm supposed to be the one that comes in to provide, so why would I care about your ability to provide when that's my job?
	If you got in a relationship with a guy and he spent more time to get ready than you and he was a super pretty boy, but he didn't provide any money, would you want to be with him?
	No, but would you care about the opposite?
	Would you want me to get ready and look pretty for you to provide for me?
	That's my point.
	Right.
	You don't see what I did there at all.
	You're saying the same thing.
	I'm saying if I came into the relationship, I'm the pretty boy.
	I'm taking longer to get dressed than you.
	I'm getting my nails done and all this other shit.
	You would be like, what the fuck?
	I don't care about you being like this.
	It's not my job to be the pretty boy.
	It's not your job to be the provider.
	Right.
	But I never said about pride.
	I was just saying ambition and just like passion and life is providing.
	It's an economic thing.
	Ambition is a woman's womanese for translation for I want you to provide for me in the future.
	Yeah.
	Come on, man.
	Let's be honest here.
	Question for you, Fit.
	If your girlfriend didn't want to work at all, would you be able to...
	She doesn't.
	I told her to quit.
	So she never wanted to work again?
	She works for me now.
	Okay.
	Yeah.
	Do you care if a female has, like, cares about you?
	Like, do you care about if a female is empathetic towards you in a relationship?
	I mean, I would argue...
	Like, you say that's the only thing, like, if that's the only thing she provides for you is empathy.
	Would you care about that or no?
	I don't think, I don't think, I think women lack empathy in general when it comes to men.
	And I'll tell you why.
	Women don't give a shit about what men go through.
	They don't care.
	If I'm a brokie, all you care about is that I'm a brokie and I'm not where I'm supposed to be.
	Oh, shit.
	And women don't really care about men's struggles.
	It's like they want the guy to be finished and ready to go when they meet him.
	So I don't expect her to have empathy because it's my job to be successful and be the best version of myself and then she comes after.
	That's what it is.
	Women really don't have empathy.
	I'd argue men in general typically have empathy because we have to understand women to attract them.
	But women don't have to understand men to attract them.
	You guys exist, guy comes to you.
	For us, we have to exist and know what women like, what they're attracted to, what they're not attracted to, dance around things, lie to y'all, sell your dreams, give you affirmations or whatever your love language is.
	You said your love language is getting gifts or whatever.
	Like, guys gotta understand all this shit to be able to get women, but women don't have to understand men to get men.
	Now, obviously, if you're the girl's top pick, you're going to care about him.
	You're going to want to be there for him and support him.
	But he has to be your top pick because he's doing what's providing for you.
	Angie's empathetic to me now, but she wouldn't have been empathetic had I not been the individual that I am.
	Facts.
	Women only give a shit and are empathetic once they actually are attracted to you and like you in the first place.
	So she likes you for you.
	Sometimes there are women that will build a man for them.
	Sometimes there's women that will build a man for them.
	Those are usually the women that are thrown away.
	Are you serious?
	No, I'm serious.
	I have friends that have built their perfect man.
	He's a project.
	They see him as a project.
	No, they're married.
	They molded him and warped him into what they wanted.
	Do you respect yourself for doing that?
	I don't know.
	I didn't do it.
	It doesn't work.
	It never works when a woman is building up a man.
	Women don't build, they move in.
	That's generally what it is.
	I think a man...
	Can absolutely build up a girl.
	Hey, I need you to be XYZ. I need you to be the best girlfriend for me.
	I think men need to build women and, you know, reprogram bad habits because a lot of females have bad habits.
	But if it's the other way around where the woman is coming in like, oh, I'm going to build you up.
	No girl wants to do that.
	Tell a man how to be a man.
	That's fucked.
	But I could easily come in, because I'm the leader, I'm supposed to be the man anyway, and tell her, I need you to do this, I need you to do that.
	Hey, I don't like girls that do this.
	Hey, I want you to dress like this.
	That's totally fine from a male perspective, because that's my job.
	I'm the one that's responsible for her, so I should have some authority over her, too.
	Simply put, kings make queens.
	Queens don't make kings.
	Are you worried your girlfriend is just with you for money?
	Well, here's the thing.
	I understand that a big part of the female mating strategy is security and a component of security is finances.
	But for it to be only money, well, you're not going to get the genuine desire if she only likes you for money.
	It's a bunch of other things that you have to be able to have as well.
	But yeah, I'm not going to sit here and lie and be like, oh yeah, my money doesn't have a play at all.
	No, of course it does because security is a critical component to attraction for females.
	Are you worried if you ran out of money, she would leave you?
	Well, no.
	No, I have a serious question because men say this all the time.
	No, because what I did was I put some investments on the side where I'm always going to be able to have a certain amount of money coming in regardless of what happens.
	Well, that's wealth.
	I feel like wealth is attributed to education and building things.
	And then there's people that, like, you guys always talk about these topics, like, oh, you would leave your guy for, like, Ferraris.
	I'm not going to shut up, by the way.
	But I will say that you guys always talk about, like, the Ferraris and the Porsches, which is understandable because there's a lot of women like that.
	But what's the difference between, like, being rich and, like, wealth, which is building education and building something with your man, and then, you know, being rich.
	I've met tacky people that have, like, all these Porsches and all these things, but it Have you ever been in Bugatti?
	They can just lose it, and that's not wealth.
	Well, he just said he's not going to lose it because he's smart with his money.
	But that's what I'm saying.
	Then you have wealth, which I believe is...
	It's funny because you mentioned Porsche and Ferrari.
	Yeah.
	No wonder they lose it.
	You need to get a Lambo.
	Bro, GT3R! I used to work at Porsche.
	It just comes down to being intelligent and obviously investing your money into certain assets that pay you back so if things were to go down you'd still be fine and you'd get passive income.
	If you figure out a way to make money while you sleep, you'll be alright.
	But yes, I mean, I'm not delusional to sit here and be like, it's only me!
	Like, no, it's everything.
	It's obviously being in the gym and having a certain level of fitness.
	It's in my character.
	It's my mindset.
	It's the way I do things, my money, everything else, status, all that plays into it where you gotta be a complete package as a guy.
	I mean, think about it.
	We're in Miami.
	There's many millionaires here in Miami.
	Why choose him over everybody else?
	That's true.
	For one, he can provide, but two, it's him.
	But a lot of men here just want you to love them for them.
	I hear that so many times.
	I want you to love me for me.
	You hear that in rap songs all the time.
	Like, I want her to love me for me.
	No, it's everywhere.
	Love me for me.
	I don't want a girl who's a gold digger.
	I mean, we hear it all the time.
	I've said this before.
	People get mad.
	I say all girls are gold diggers.
	Some are just better at hiding the shovel.
	Right?
	So some girls will sit there and say words like ambition.
	Some girls will sit there and say, oh, I want a guy that's a provider.
	Another girl will say, oh, I want a man that's a leader.
	Like, all of these things are nuanced ways of saying I want a man that has money to some degree because you can't be a brokie and expect compliance from your woman.
	Like, she'll support you for a little bit like she did, right, for three months.
	But women long-term don't provide security for men.
	So all girls are gold diggers to some degree.
	And there's no wrong with that.
	Like, I want to be very clear about that.
	I don't think that there's anything wrong with a woman wanting a man that could provide.
	I think that's good.
	It's healthy.
	It's the way the world has worked since the beginning of time.
	And that's just how it is.
	I don't think women should be in the workplace.
	I wouldn't be honest with y'all.
	But, you know, feminism is here.
	So now you guys got to work.
	The mics?
	Someone hit the plugs?
	Alright, yeah.
	Someone hit the plug in the bottom.
	Let me fix it.
	I can hear myself, but...
	Oh, Icy, you got it?
	Alright, thanks.
	Someone hit a...
	No, no, no, because the plug is in the back.
	I got it.
	Yeah, so one of you might have kicked it or something.
	What about now?
	Let it turn on.
	And it's going to turn on in a second.
	All right, Chad, we do a lot, man.
	We're back.
	Okay, we're good to go.
	Yeah, I can hear you.
	And just to answer your question as well, so I think for a guy, obviously speaking, he wants to hurt a lot for him, but I look at that as who I became from experiences of what I've been through, just dating experience, the man I am today, that's what I want.
	So after all that hard work, okay, now I have to show myself as a man, I hope you can like me for who I am now.
	Versus back in the day, I wasn't up to par, I wasn't where I needed to be, so as a result, I think you didn't like me for who I was back then, but now I've become the man of today.
	That's what I want.
	Do you test girls?
	Like, do you test girls, like, show up in a toy?
	Like, I see these videos on TikTok.
	Do you show up in, like, a, what is it, a hoopty?
	No, that's stupid.
	Do you show up in a hoopty?
	So, I have a little test where, like, I'll actually, like, pull up in, like, a Jew wagon, but I'll be like, yeah, I'm downstairs in a Toyota Corolla.
	Why would that matter to them?
	Huh?
	Why would that matter to them?
	No, no, because I'm waiting to see her response.
	Wait, there's people that genuinely have a different response?
	I mean, I've never had a bad response to it, but I'm just saying, I just want to see her mentality.
	Now she'll be like, oh, you're not on a toy.
	Would you ask her for money as a test?
	Because I've seen people do that.
	Well, I mean, that's another way you can test a girl, too.
	But I feel like if you're doing things correctly, like, I won't see it on camera, but if you're doing things correctly, she's going to want to invest into you as well.
	In what way?
	What does invest mean?
	Because invest is money.
	Let's say she lives at a building, right?
	And you're pulling up to valet.
	Oh babe, don't worry, I got valet.
	Or for example, I got lunch today.
	I got dinner today.
	Small things like that.
	Obviously speaking, if she wants to show love on Valentine's Day, or for example, your birthday, she might buy you a gift too.
	But just speaking in general, if we go spend the money on you, she actually likes you.
	I agree, because when I like a guy, I will always offer to buy a drink or to buy a dinner if I genuinely like them, just as a gesture of, like, me giving, like, oh, I like you.
	And it's not every single time.
	No, it's not.
	But obviously, when you're in the mood, you like the guy, oh, you know what?
	He's been good to me.
	Dicking me down good.
	I'll cover this.
	Because I've heard tests, like, sorry, I didn't mean to cut you off.
	Oh, no, no.
	Yeah, because I've heard tests where it's like, oh, I've heard tests where it's like, ask her for $700 and see if she sends you the money, like, That's kind of, like, weird to me.
	Well, that's kind of, like, cliche because, I mean, obviously speaking, like, that's a random number.
	I would just say, like, test of her, like, actual desire and her actual, like, I want to say, the small things matter, you know?
	Because if you ask too much big things up front, obviously, she may not be that invested.
	But if time has, on some level, gone by and you ask for little things over a period of time, you can see the character versus the one-time money or one-time events, you don't really see the person's character over a period of time.
	Well I've heard like a lot of success stories from like my parents friends where you know it might have started off like they didn't have the money or they just wanted to like foreign parents that went to another country and started a new business and I think it's all about like the actual value of how you see a man for example where like you may not see he's not rich at the beginning but you're like oh we can build something together and I've seen so many success stories of parents that are foreigners and they started their own business And they're still together 30 and 40 years later.
	And it's true what you said.
	They saw the value in that man for the future.
	And at the end of the day, they're still together because they worked at it together.
	And it's true.
	Maybe the man put in more work or whatever in that sense of the economic ground.
	But the woman was always there to support them.
	But I would say modern women don't have that trait really like that anymore.
	Girls are hypnotized by TikTok and Instagram.
	Sure, I agree.
	They see guys making money and success and everything else like that.
	I don't think a lot of women are willing to build up with guys in today's day and age, especially in the United States.
	Not all men are worth building with, though.
	Because I feel like the man that's sleeping in until like 1pm, you're saying, oh, I'm going to build with this guy.
	The guy that's not working hard at his current job.
	You can't say, I'm going to build with him.
	The guy that's never read a book in his life or is not meeting with entrepreneurs and spending time To meet with them, how are you going to say you're going to build with him?
	Yeah, but you mentioned foreigners.
	The mentality is different.
	And if you're coming as a couple, they're coming here to actually make wealth and build together.
	Versus if you live in America already, and you've already built your wealth, she's coming into it after the fact.
	So you have to test her to see if she's going to be on par.
	Sorry, I just want to say, I'm an immigrant, and I've just been hearing a lot of people saying, like, oh, like, now American people don't have the values that they did before because they're more comfortable, so they don't need to build that success with their partner, and I just personally think that's, like, a lost value, but that's just what I think.
	I agree.
	But I think it's possible, you know.
	Well, we're not going back, so.
	Depending on the man, right?
	I mean, you guys are different.
	Like, you guys are not sleeping in until, like, 1 p.m.
	So many men who are your age...
	No, I don't think, Renee, I don't think it just depends on the man.
	We sleep in late, but it's because we work at night.
	But I get what you're saying, though.
	I understand your perspective.
	I think it does.
	Not all men are going to be millions.
	Like, you say you want to build with this guy because he says, hey, I have this billion-dollar business idea.
	Stick by me.
	So many men say that.
	Stick by me.
	But there's no characteristics of a millionaire.
	Like, Elon Musk, if you look at his interview 20 years ago, he was working 24-hour days to get Teslas off the ground.
	Hold on.
	Real quick, real quick.
	What's your opinion on this?
	Because you have a boyfriend.
	You guys were in China.
	Why'd you choose him?
	And this money is a factor for you?
	Money.
	I choose him because he's sweet.
	Nah, it's money, yeah.
	He's sweet and handsome.
	Even if he doesn't make enough money like I make, I build business for him.
	Bro, this nigga spent 60K on Dogecoin, man.
	But remember, she's not from here.
	The culture's different over there.
	So you'd make more money than him?
	Yeah.
	Was it always that way or is it that way now?
	From first two years.
	She's a housewife.
	Yeah.
	So how are you a housewife?
	I know, right?
	Because later I helped him with his modeling career and then we make money during the pandemic.
	I promise you, bro, you should be a private investigator.
	You ask a lot of good questions.
	How are you a housewife?
	He has to have money for you to be at.
	Like, if you're not working.
	If you live in Miami, Ren is like...
	Yes, they make money for the past three years during the pandemic.
	Doing like crypto?
	No, no, no.
	Modeling.
	Scamming the shit.
	Modeling made him a millionaire and retired?
	Is he still modeling now?
	Now we're trying to do modeling here in Miami.
	Yo, this thing goes...
	Do people in...
	Run on the money, bro.
	Wait, Rush, do people in foreign countries not care about income like Americans do with the men and women?
	Obviously, it's a factor, but not like how, I want to say, the entitled women of the West are.
	It's kind of like they come to it with, okay, all right, nigga, do this for me, do that for me, versus, all right, I'm with my man, I'm going to build it up and see where it goes because I believe in my man.
	I feel like women here are like...
	So, wait, I'm still trying to understand.
	So...
	He's a model, but he doesn't model right now, or he's trying to find a modeling gig in Miami?
	Yes.
	How long have you guys been here?
	Three months.
	Okay, so you just moved.
	Yeah.
	But he was modeling and successful in China?
	Yep.
	Okay, so they just moved here, I guess you're trying to...
	So he had a lot of success in China, and that's how he's surviving off savings?
	Yes, we do a lot of advertisement and movies.
	So question, if he runs out of money, would you stay?
	Of course we will stay together because we build our dream together.
	What's the...
	Okay.
	Is he watching right now?
	No.
	No?
	Actually he doesn't even want me to be here.
	Oh wow.
	Yeah.
	Why'd you come and we didn't want you to be here.
	Why'd you disobey your husband?
	Disobey?
	Is she a child?
	Well, because I mean, disobey your family.
	If he's your husband, you gotta like listen, like he's a man.
	Disobey your family.
	My man, I want to be able to listen to him.
	What do you say to that?
	He didn't want you to be here, but you're here.
	Would you agree with that?
	Disagree?
	She's saying that disobeying him.
	No, because we respect each other.
	We respect each other's choice.
	And I make this choice because he knows I'm smart, so he believes in me.
	But what if he told you, babe, honestly, I don't want you to go?
	Would you say, no, I'm still going?
	Or would you be like, you know what, I'm going to stay home?
	I will tell him the reason why I need to be here.
	Why?
	And I convince him.
	Why?
	Oh, you're convinced.
	Okay.
	Go ahead, Chris.
	What?
	No, no.
	Why are you here?
	I'm here because I'm really interested in this show.
	I really want to meet you guys.
	Okay.
	I know.
	She wants...
	I want to meet China, too.
	She wants...
	I'm just kidding.
	So I had a question for the panel real quick.
	And we got a video to play.
	Chris, you're crazy, bro.
	Wait, video?
	Yeah, just real quick.
	We got time, Chris, or no?
	Yeah, yeah, fine.
	Okay, so ladies, real quick.
	When you meet a guy, right, let's say you do dump this guy.
	Tell me two things that you do before you dump him.
	So you meet the guy.
	It's been maybe like six months, maybe a year, maybe three months, whatever time it is.
	You're going to end it with him.
	Two things that you do before you end it.
	I can tell you about the $4, nigga, what I did.
	What'd you do?
	I can actually tell you three things while I tell you two.
	So I apologize for my wrongdoings because I was unfaithful to him.
	You told him sorry?
	I told him I am, yeah, I told him I'm sorry.
	You admitted to cheating?
	Yes, I admitted to cheating and then I broke up with him the next day because the guilt was eating me up.
	Was he cheating too?
	Hell nah.
	He was broke.
	He wasn't cheating.
	And the second thing that I did was I thanked him.
	I thanked him for teaching me the new experience because it was my first relationship at 25.
	So you know what that means to me?
	You got closure by admitting what you did and you just dipped.
	Hell yeah!
	So you smashed another guy while you were with him?
	No, I gave...
	Yeah, you did.
	Don't to another guy.
	Oh, just head?
	Yeah.
	And all my friends, all my guy friends, you didn't even fuck?
	I didn't...
	Yo, hold on.
	Real quick.
	Ladies.
	Wait, wait, wait.
	Actually, hold on.
	This is very important.
	Ladies, what is worse?
	Giving head or getting fucked?
	Giving head.
	Because that's your mouth.
	Giving head, right?
	That's your mouth.
	Damn.
	It's too personable.
	I was drunk, okay?
	To a random guy?
	No, I knew him.
	He was a club owner in Wynwood.
	So you were trying to date him?
	Yeah.
	Yeah.
	What did Jimmy Foxx say?
	Jimmy Foxx said, blame it on the alcohol.
	Bro, you fucked a promoter?
	Was it because he had money?
	Is that why you wanted to just...
	A promoter?
	No, don't need alcohol.
	Oh, shit, Mo.
	From Wynwood.
	No, but like, I thanked him for giving me, like, for loving me.
	I thanked him for loving me and I apologize for my infidelity.
	So she gave closure and then left.
	Got it.
	What about you?
	What did you do?
	Two things or maybe one thing you did before you left your guy.
	I, um, I made his whole family, like, hate him.
	I love him.
	How?
	Like, I just made them really realize, you're a bum.
	Like, I'm sorry, they, I mean, I, to this day, keep, like, my word.
	I told them, like, they said I was the one dragging him down, and to this day, he proves me right.
	I was doing jack shit, but helping him.
	And he, to this day, just proves me right, and I love that.
	How are you dragging him down?
	They said I was dragging him down.
	They said he was doing jack shit.
	What was he doing specifically?
	Nothing.
	Not graduating high school, not working.
	Oh my god.
	So this is when you guys were in high school together?
	I was 17, 18.
	Okay, and he was 17, 18.
	And he was doing bad in school, and they were blaming you originally.
	They were blaming me for everything he had ever done.
	Since my homeboy was born.
	I was at fault.
	I was just at fault.
	And then you were able to flip the script.
	How'd you do that?
	I flipped the script.
	I mean, it's just like, how can...
	The lights were there.
	The signs were there.
	I just...
	But how did you expose it is what we're asking.
	I mean, I can't get into that.
	Bro.
	But I did.
	I promise you, Russell and Seattle are nonchalant or heartless.
	I don't miss.
	Are what?
	Nothing.
	Okay, what about you?
	No, no, but look, just to summarize, basically, you ruin his family reputation and then dipped.
	Basically.
	I just wanted everybody to know.
	It wasn't your fault.
	Yeah, it wasn't my fault.
	I just let everybody know before I stepped out of that situation.
	You guys wanted to say I was this bad person?
	So if you notice again, it's closure for you before you left.
	Got it.
	Same pattern here, right?
	What about you?
	I mean, I don't...
	We're not breaking up, so...
	Period.
	Okay, let's give me an alternate universe type of reality here.
	Let's say you were going to break up.
	What's one thing that you would do before you break up?
	This is a marvel.
	You can create your own reality.
	Or maybe one of your friends broke up with a guy.
	What did she do before she left?
	Oh my god, stop!
	PC reboot.
	Go ahead.
	We got time today, coo.
	Yeah, I got time, man.
	You have white brain.
	Wait.
	Just in general, what do you do?
	Or a friend would do, you think?
	Before they break up.
	We'll come back to you.
	Oh my god.
	What about you?
	Okay, hypothetically, before I left, I would make him, like, maybe take me on a trip or spend as much money and then leave.
	Okay.
	Put some money in a bank account and then I would just, I can't do this anymore.
	Wait, question.
	Would you tell him on the trip or wait a few days?
	No, I would act like everything is okay.
	And I would be like the best.
	I would do everything.
	Pull out all the stops.
	Right.
	And then when we got home, I would just block his number.
	You a savage nigga.
	You what?
	What about you?
	What would you do before you ended?
	I would just send a text.
	We're done.
	Block him on everything so I don't have to deal with it.
	Right away?
	If you keep texting back, you're just going to give them more into your life.
	If he's like, oh, I want to talk about it.
	No, I don't want to see you.
	Then he's just going to come back into your life.
	So make it quick and simple.
	Is that how you ended your last one?
	You just text him, we're done?
	It was efficient.
	Okay.
	Did he ever try to hit you back up?
	I don't know.
	I blocked him.
	He actually tried, like, texting me on burner numbers.
	It was crazy.
	Yeah, for sex.
	Yeah, that's what the email, that's what they all do.
	Yeah, for sex.
	Well...
	Wait, is this a turnaround?
	I'm gonna be honest, you're a cold 18-year-old.
	Alright, what about you?
	Are we talking hypotheticals or what happened actually?
	Real.
	Give us the real.
	I'm the same way.
	I just say we're done.
	Blocked.
	I don't see why to invest more time into something that's not valuable.
	Is no condom guy blocked right now?
	Stupid.
	Oh my god.
	He's not blocked.
	But he deleted his Instagram.
	How do you know?
	Maybe he just blocked you.
	Of course I checked.
	I'm a woman.
	What can I say?
	It's the truth.
	See?
	I'm telling you bro.
	No condoms?
	They can't escape it.
	Oh my god!
	There was one more, bro.
	I'm telling you.
	Why would I want to have sex with someone that's having sex with other people and have no condom on?
	I think that's kind of gross.
	Why would you want to have sex with anybody without a condom?
	I'm not stalking him.
	You are.
	He's the leader of his Instagram.
	How'd you know that, then?
	How'd you know?
	Stalker.
	No comment.
	Do you have a thin stuff?
	We just don't talk anymore.
	That's it.
	What about you?
	I will tell him he deserves someone who truly loves him.
	And I will still be friends with him.
	Oh.
	That's the worst.
	What if your new boyfriend didn't want you to be friends with him?
	What would you do?
	If my new boyfriend doesn't want to be friends.
	He says, hey, Ling Ling, no more friends with ex.
	Now!
	Actually, he pushed me for this, but I don't have any connection with my ex-boyfriends.
	But do you still talk?
	No, but they still have my Instagram.
	They give me likes, but they don't talk.
	Oh, no, that's not good.
	See, I keep thinking about your current relationship.
	I can just tell that it's 50-50 almost, even though you stay at home.
	She worked with sports people.
	She worked at NASCAR as a journalist.
	She's been to many parties, man.
	Why did you put your hands up with journalists?
	Because, you know, at the end of the day, man, I know girls who work for athletes, man.
	They belong to the streets, man.
	Sorry to say, man.
	Oh, my God.
	Wow.
	Hey, hey, listen.
	Oh, you look good.
	Come by and do extra research.
	Oh, my God.
	Okay, Chris.
	Oh, my God.
	Come on, man.
	I'm not lying.
	I'm not lying, chat.
	So it seems from the answers here on the panel...
	That most women want closure before they leave.
	Either it be cheating, getting some money, or just saying that they're done.
	How is money closure?
	Well, you mentioned a trip.
	Just sending a text is not closure.
	That's just cutting it off.
	Well, you might be a little bit different about the majority.
	So it is a video online.
	It's circulating.
	And I just find it funny because this video, if it's, well, again, I don't know if it's real or not, but for context here, the guy literally wants to go back and is willing to do whatever it takes.
	Yeah.
	Look at this video.
	Okay, let's look.
	Get on the car.
	It's my time.
	I like this.
	I don't want to like this.
	It's crazy.
	I like this.
	I like this.
	You can't put a picture of my coat at you in a hundred seconds.
	Bro, who beat me out of that, bro?
	I don't ever met nobody, baby, baby.
	It's all of his friends, too.
	Yeah, that's dedication, man.
	That's dedication!
	This is wrong!
	How do you know this isn't a skit, though?
	I'll take you back!
	I'll take you back!
	It's gonna get a skit!
	Let's go!
	Girl, I want!
	Girl, I need you!
	What the hell is this?
	Ladies, real quick. real quick.
	If a guy did something like that to you, would you take him back after you ended it?
	No, no, this boy is like child.
	It's too much?
	It's childish.
	Childish?
	Yeah.
	So you would say no?
	No.
	What about you?
	Ick.
	Burn the jump.
	What would you do?
	My immediate reaction is that's what you think.
	I'm worth a song.
	You think that's going to get me back?
	I'd drive off.
	I don't even know how she stayed there that long.
	Drive through.
	I need more than that.
	I need some money.
	Send me a cell.
	Unblock me.
	That's the kind of love I want.
	Send me a Zelle.
	Send a handbag to my house.
	Unblock me.
	Did you know you were going to break up with your guy even when he did the down payment for the rent?
	I don't know.
	Oh!
	No, I can't.
	I don't want to get to the bottom.
	Tough questions, Mario.
	Tough questions.
	You knew you were going to break up once he did the down payment, didn't you?
	I didn't know he was cheating at that time.
	No, she wanted a reason to escape.
	No, I didn't know he was cheating at the time.
	You did.
	No, I didn't know.
	No, you did.
	No, I was in love.
	I didn't look through his phone.
	You did.
	I didn't.
	So how'd you find out?
	Because I... Eventually, he just didn't want to hide it anymore.
	He just was upfront about it.
	He was honest.
	No, he just brought the girl over.
	What?
	In front of you?
	Yeah.
	And what did he say?
	This is a friend?
	Bro, she's lying, bro.
	No, I'm not lying.
	No cap.
	He brought the girl to the house.
	So, I mean, normally you build up to something like that.
	So you're telling me he invested and put $20K into a Range Rover for you, but then he went ahead and just brought a girl over and didn't say anything about it beforehand?
	The girl was outside, and I took his phone, and I looked, and he was talking to a whole bunch of other girls.
	So this was like an ex-girlfriend of his that he was saying was just a friend.
	So you were aware of her?
	Yeah, I was aware of her, but he said that this was a girl he was with for us.
	He didn't know it was that serious?
	Yeah, it was like a girl best friend kind of thing.
	I didn't know it was...
	He had a lot of girl best friends.
	What'd this guy do for a living?
	Drugs.
	No...
	I mean...
	Was he a scammer?
	Yeah.
	He wasn't a scammer.
	His parents had money.
	Okay.
	Those are the worst.
	Oh.
	Okay.
	From Africa.
	Okay.
	Okay.
	So his family had some money.
	He put the down payment for your car.
	And then you found out that he was cheating on you.
	Would you accept cheating from a guy though or no?
	Okay, if he was honest about it, like if he was a type of guy like how you were, I can respect that if he's like, hey.
	Yeah, but are you aware of that like most men are never gonna be honest about that?
	Well, he has to be honest, because you're honest about it, though.
	But he's one in a million.
	Isn't that a no-man relationship?
	It's only open on his house.
	It's not open.
	Yeah, it's only open on mine.
	It's closed.
	How is it fair?
	She knows what she's signing.
	She's not going to be looking through your phone.
	It's not fair, because life isn't fair.
	Men have to work way harder to get anything in life than women do.
	Because he's different.
	He has money.
	He has options.
	I think for most men, they don't have the money like that.
	So they can't be cheating.
	What I'm saying is that most guys are going to cheat anyway.
	So it's like, why not just accept the reality that if you know most guys are going to cheat to some degree.
	I would rather him be honest.
	He lied too much.
	It was just getting...
	I'd rather sit and be honest.
	Yeah, but most women can't handle the truth, though.
	Yep.
	That's why.
	I can handle it, though.
	If he's honest...
	Clearly you didn't, you left him.
	Yeah.
	Well, because he wasn't honest from the jump.
	If he was honest, like he said, hey, I'm going to be...
	But why would he risk 50-50 shot?
	He doesn't know how you're going to respond.
	Well, obviously...
	I mean, I think men should be honest with girls, but I'm telling the ladies here, I'm letting you guys know, reality is that most men aren't going to be honest because most girls can't handle it.
	Yep.
	If a guy went up to you and said, look...
	I want to have other women, but I expect you to still be loyal, not go out, not do stupid shit, blah, blah, blah.
	Are most women going to listen to that?
	How much money do you have?
	I'm down.
	If I get a Ferrari and I get a big house, I'm down.
	Oh, if I get a Ferrari, I get a big house, most men can't provide that, so I'm down.
	So you're saying, if you're taken care of, you'll deal with it.
	No, she wants to be taken care of lavishly.
	Yeah, if you can give a nice lifestyle, yeah, because you can afford to cheat.
	Like, if you're working at McDonald's, obviously, I don't want to be in that, and then...
	You're bougie, man.
	So loyalty is a price to you?
	You're bougie HR, girl.
	Of course.
	No, it's not a price, but I mean...
	I mean, don't lie.
	Come on, man.
	Okay, how many men can really give you that 1% lifestyle?
	There's only a few, right?
	Not too many.
	It's a 1%, 0.1, I think.
	That's not true.
	Very little.
	But it's back like what she said.
	Nigga, you would annoy me.
	No, no, no, I'm saying 0.1% of men who can afford this.
	Yeah, that's less than 1%.
	Only about 1% of the U.S. population makes 500k.
	I mean, my parents did it.
	But they're not in like a $10 million house.
	It's a different kind of lifestyle.
	Have you guys ever seen the Sprinkle Sprinkle lady on TikTok?
	I love her.
	No.
	Oh my god.
	She's like you, but for women.
	You guys don't know who she is.
	She's like, take his money and leaves.
	Sprinkle Sprinkle.
	It's the same objective, right?
	Notice how all the girls know about this.
	Dumb shit.
	This dumb shit.
	But they didn't know that Bitcoin is worth $40 million right now.
	She argues that all men cheat, and then you have to accept it, and then might as well just take the money.
	I'm saying I agree with it, but she's saying just take the money, they're all going to cheat, just accept it, that's just what it is.
	So if all men cheat, why not date a guy who can give you a Lamborghini?
	That's what I'm saying.
	If all men cheat, why not date a Lamborghini?
	If you're going to get cheated on, there should be a guy who's actually going to...
	Yeah, who can avoid you and make sure he takes care of you.
	So, I mean, that's what I'm saying.
	She kind of says the same shit in a different way.
	The reason why I say it is because a lot of girls leave good dudes because they found out that he had sex with some other girl or whatever.
	And I'm like, well, the guy that cared about you, he loved you, you're dumb for leaving him because the next guy you get is probably going to cheat on you and maybe won't treat you as well.
	But if your girl is providing everything for you, why cheat?
	Providing what?
	The same reason you suck that other dude's dick off.
	You want somebody different You want some variety Same reason you blew it down I got drunk, you wanted some variety That's the same reason That was a little too much That was too much crazy Hey, listen!
	I made it, man.
	Relax, man.
	Chill, relax.
	All right, man.
	Anyway, men want variety is why.
	You want a variety that night?
	Guys want it all the time.
	Even when they're married?
	Even more so.
	Married men are the most single.
	So it's worse when you're married.
	Married men are the most...
	They show you their wedding ring and they flirt with you.
	They feel like their OnlyFans stubs and strip clubs?
	What are they full of?
	Married dudes.
	Men want variety.
	Because, again, this comes back, remember that whole thing about, I'll say that you guys are kind of delusional about your sense of self-worth?
	Women will sit there and say, I'm a 10, I'm an 11.
	But why is it that girls that are 10s and 11s still get cheated on?
	It's because men want variety.
	You're never going to satisfy a man by yourself sexually.
	Men always want other women.
	And I explained this to my girl, she understands, and she's like, okay, I get it.
	It is what it is.
	It took a while for her to understand this concept, but I just had to explain to her that men and women are not the same.
	We want other girls.
	You guys want the best guy, we want the most girls.
	That's how it is.
	And I've seen, she's very understanding.
	How long have you been?
	Especially when they have money.
	I think it's different.
	If you have a lot of money, it's a little different.
	If you have a lot of money, it's different.
	Dudes act like me that have money and don't.
	It doesn't matter.
	I know, but I'm saying it's different.
	You're going to get a girl who's accepting.
	But they cater to a different caliber of women.
	You'd be surprised though.
	A lot of girls are not cool with it.
	They may say they are, but when it comes down to time, they can't handle it.
	It comes to that ego that I told you guys about.
	A lot of girls have an overinflated sense of self-worth.
	They're looking like, oh, well, you know what?
	Why am I going to do this when this guy over here will go ahead and spoil me?
	And I'm like, he's going to cheat on you too, stupid.
	He's just going to lie about it.
	Or they say, well, I want to be like you.
	I want to be free too.
	Well, be free back to the streets.
	I guarantee you.
	But hey, you're going to come back.
	Yeah, I'll never let a girl be.
	Open relationships only work when it's open for the man, not for the woman.
	Hell no.
	Because you think women cheat emotionally, you're saying.
	Well, no, because for, well, that's a part of it, but for a woman to give herself sexually, it takes a lot more mental and cognitive, how do I say this, investment than a man.
	So, like, a girl has to connect with that man to some degree to have sex with him.
	We don't have to connect with a girl to have sex with her.
	Don't you always say women are the easiest ones to have sex with?
	You always say women have the choice.
	Who said that?
	No, I said it's easier for women to have sex.
	Right.
	So, off rip, right?
	Let's say you love your man.
	Are you going to go cheat on him?
	No.
	A man can love a woman and still want to go cheat.
	No, that's not true.
	Do you want a polygamous kind of thing?
	Are you looking for multiple wives?
	No, no, no.
	Why is it not true?
	If a man truly love a woman, he will not cheat on her because he doesn't want to bear the tongue which makes her feel sad.
	Hold on.
	Have you seen Jay-Z and Jenny Mai?
	Have you seen Jay-Z, the Robert Roberts, turned multimillionaire, and then Jenny Mai, the TV host?
	Have you seen that couple?
	You mean Young Jeezy?
	Yeah, Young Jeezy.
	He cheated on her.
	So, he loved her.
	He cheated on her, too.
	Man, she was Asian.
	Cheated, too.
	So, on some level, I get what you're saying, but reality speaking, I'm not going to love women and still cheat.
	It's not the same thing.
	As in, like, he can love his world, and they have support on the side.
	The level of betrayal for a woman to cheat is not the same at all.
	Like, when a girl cheats, it's over.
	If a man cheats, it's like, whatever.
	Because she cheats up, right?
	Is that what you're saying?
	She's only going to cheat with the guy that she can see in the future.
	She's cheating typically because the man that she's cheating on, the guy that she's with, currently has something that that guy doesn't.
	Women don't typically cheat up, though.
	I mean, she said it.
	When you cheated, you said you felt an immeasurable guilt, right?
	You had to end it.
	Okay, for men, it's not the same.
	Men don't care, right?
	We can have sex with a girl and not give a shit about her.
	But for women, it's like if you're having sex with another dude, when you have a man at home, I know you have to get to a certain mental space to be able to do it.
	But do you think women, do they have to have feelings for that dude that they're cheating with?
	To some degree.
	And they just want to see a future with them too.
	Or such a lack of respect for their current guy that it doesn't matter.
	That part.
	Which is the problem.
	Yeah.
	Like you.
	So if I step out with another girl, it's not the same as a girl stepping out on another guy.
	It is what it is.
	So you don't feel as though you have to tell your current partner, I cheated.
	I mean, she knows what I do.
	If you have no feelings for the girl that you're cheating with.
	I don't know.
	Well, he already told her at the beginning.
	But when you do it, you're like, hey, I'm going to go to this girl's house.
	She doesn't want to know.
	Oh, okay.
	Did I just push in the buttons for no reason?
	She doesn't want to know.
	If she doesn't want to know, does that mean she still respects herself?
	Yeah.
	How so?
	Because she's smart enough to understand that this is how the world works, so that she respects herself by living in reality.
	Well, she has a lot of intellect.
	Question, are you looking for multiple wives?
	Are you just looking to have one wife?
	No, no, no, I'm interested.
	Are you trying to have a polygamy?
	I would have multiple wives.
	Yeah, I would never have just one.
	Wait, but how does a poly...
	So you have another girlfriend?
	I'm gonna try to get another one, yeah?
	Oh, you're looking for...
	Okay.
	We got some runner-ups.
	Sorry, but Maren doesn't dabble and...
	Well, Chris, you're my lawyer, man?
	Speak for something.
	Speak for yourself.
	Okay.
	But yeah, so no, I mean...
	And here's the thing.
	I think most guys want to have multiple women.
	It's just that can a lot of guys pull it off?
	A lot of times they can't.
	It's difficult.
	I don't think they can handle it.
	Or afford it.
	It's not even about affording it.
	It's about a lot of girls...
	You have to have rock-iron frame when you deal with it.
	For example, I don't sit here and explain myself to women.
	I don't think men should ever explain themselves to women.
	I don't negotiate with women.
	It's like, this is the way it is, and that's it.
	I'm the authority, you're the woman, you listen to what I say, and that's it.
	There's no...
	And I don't believe in equality between the genders.
	I don't think men and women are equal at all.
	I think women want a certain kind of guy that has his shit together, that could be a leader, etc.
	What the fuck do I look like as a leader asking for your permission?
	That's ridiculous.
	So men that like women that are dominant, does that make them Men that like women that are dominant, does that make them...
	Those are men that women don't desire.
	Yep.
	Pretty much.
	Pretty much.
	That's a submissive man you're describing, and most women don't want that.
	Okay.
	Is that the same with the men who want you to pay for stuff, and they like ambitious women?
	That's a boy.
	Is that the same?
	That's someone that can't afford their own bills.
	Well, not all the time.
	Some men require...
	Bro, those are men that just don't like you.
	I've never been on a date with a man who says 50-50.
	Yeah, I know.
	Honestly, I don't think...
	No one ever whipped that shit out.
	But the thing is, you say 50-50 is wrong.
	I think that's like a good thing because...
	Are you serious?
	Yes.
	Wait, what?
	Wait, you agree or you disagree?
	So you think a woman should be a provider?
	No, I think 50-50 is fine though.
	50-50 is fine because you shouldn't expect a male to provide everything for you.
	If he's going 50-50, he's going...
	Hold on, ladies.
	Let her finish her thought and then you guys can go ahead and say what you want to say.
	Just give me 20 seconds.
	So I think that if you're claiming to be an independent ass...
	Bitch.
	You should not...
	And then you meet a man that provides for you.
	You should not be mad if he doesn't provide everything for you.
	If you're independent, why do you need a man?
	No, no, no.
	Hold up.
	If he gives you the dinner, I can get the movie.
	What's wrong with that?
	So you're saying that you want to be a provider.
	That's what that means.
	I don't want to be a provider, but I think it's fine to...
	I think it's okay to give back.
	So she's saying it's okay to go 50-50.
	Why do you disagree with that?
	Go ahead.
	I'll turn it to each of you to say your point.
	Okay, that's good.
	I mean, it's just...
	Okay, it's really big.
	To me, it's just at the beginning, it's really important.
	A man is not going to come to me and say 50-50.
	That just gives the rest of the relationship Not only is it a standard, but I think women provide a different type, not necessarily money, but we provide an emotional care, a nurturing aspect.
	We're not a provider to go out in the world and fend for ourselves and a family.
	That's a man's job.
	He just said men don't give a shit about that.
	About empathy.
	What?
	He said that men don't give a shit about women's personality.
	No, no, no.
	He's talking about in a relationship aspect.
	I'm talking about in a family aspect.
	That's what I'm talking about as well.
	Yeah, I'm talking about if I'm married to some guy and I'm supposed to take care of the kids.
	I'm supposed to.
	I have different roles.
	We play a role, yeah.
	And my role is not to be a provider.
	Okay, so you disagree with if he's a stay-at-home dad and you provide the bills.
	Correct.
	You can't do that.
	That's not a man.
	That is not a man.
	That is a man.
	A man that takes care of his family?
	Can I ask you something?
	Does your dad take care of your family?
	Yes, he takes care of my family and so does my mom.
	What does your mom do?
	My mom is an entrepreneur.
	No, she does not work for her.
	You just said that both of your parents own schools.
	Yes.
	They do.
	So do you want to work while you're pregnant?
	Like nine months pregnant?
	No, I don't.
	Okay, so how are you going to go 50-50?
	No, I'm saying...
	Hold up, hold up.
	You can't be delusional.
	You're going to work while you're pregnant.
	The thing is, my mom owns a school, my dad owns a school.
	They're both principals.
	They're co-principals.
	It's 50-50.
	My mom started the school, my dad came to her vision.
	Well, who are students?
	My dad was in the military before he joined the school.
	I just asked you who provides for your family.
	You said your dad.
	Okay, but so does my mom.
	Okay, so she has to work while she's pregnant.
	She didn't know she was pregnant.
	Okay, because the mom provides.
	That's why your mom didn't work.
	If you're 50-50, it's 50-50 to all.
	That's why you attract $4 men.
	Nine months pregnant, you're going to be serving.
	Nine months pregnant, you're going to be at the CVS. I don't want to be disrespectful, but honestly, you have to set a standard for yourself.
	Okay, but the thing is, I was a jit when I dated that kid, so I don't have the same mentality.
	You said you're okay with going 50.
	50-50 is fine.
	If he gives the movie, I give the dinner.
	There's nothing wrong with that.
	That's not 50-50.
	60-40, 70-30.
	50-50 is when the rent is due, no matter if you're nine months pregnant, if you're sick.
	I'm not talking about marriage.
	I'm not talking about marriage.
	If you're in a relationship, it's 50-50-0.
	Okay, but why are you two against 50-50?
	What's wrong with that?
	Because that's not how it was raised.
	My parents are very traditional, and my dad provides.
	So are mine, but I'm saying, I don't like men spending money on me because I've always been raised.
	That's why you don't get anything from men.
	That's why you got a four for four.
	You can't be against it.
	No!
	You didn't get anything.
	That's why.
	Damn, son.
	Don't feel bad.
	I'm saying, honestly, I learned from that and I know my worth now, but I'm saying like...
	But you're still attracted to the same kind of man.
	You're still attracted to what I'm saying, though.
	No, you're not listening because you still have the same type of guys.
	You still want to date a brokie.
	Mama, you just said 50-50.
	You want to date a guy.
	No, I'm saying in the future, when I'm married, I don't think there's an issue.
	Moe?
	Like, if your husband loses your job, what are you gonna do?
	Okay, he just said he's smart with his money.
	No, I'm saying what are you going to do?
	Okay, but my husband should be smart with his money.
	If he loses his job, there should be other incomes.
	Okay, let's say he doesn't have wealth.
	But I would never be with a man who's like that.
	I don't want to be with a guy who's like that.
	Okay, but what if he loses his job 10 years into the relationship?
	He should have other money.
	Are you going to leave him?
	If you have a child with him, are you going to leave him?
	How is it different than like, she just called her delusional.
	How is it different than when you said she should have backup plans and things like that?
	That's not delusional.
	That's just being smart.
	How are you going to move out and say, oh, I'm fine with my one job.
	Are you not going to think, what if I get fired?
	Yeah.
	What if I can't come out with this?
	Especially if I'm a man.
	You need pan B's, pan C's, and that's for men, women, and anybody.
	If you're being really smart, how are you just going to dive into something and say, I'm good off of that?
	You need pan B's, pan C's.
	This is funny, bro.
	What if the jazz...
	What if it was a drastic situation, something happens and he loses his opinion?
	He should have a plan B. Don't people say if you have a plan B that means you think plan A is going to fail?
	What?
	A man should have multiple streams of income.
	If you're a man who's going to say I want to provide for you.
	But see, if you're with a 50-50 man, you will never find a man who has those types of ambitions.
	Anybody that has that mindset.
	Real quick, you got 21k watching, guys.
	Like the video.
	It's up to the channel.
	You believe in 50-50 relationships.
	You don't.
	Do you believe in 50-50 relationships?
	No.
	You don't?
	Okay.
	You don't, clearly.
	You don't.
	Do you believe in 50-50 relationships?
	No.
	No?
	I believe.
	Okay.
	But your relationship right now is not in 50-50.
	Yeah, you're a housewife.
	But the money they make together.
	But that's not the same.
	You're there to support, like emotionally.
	You're a housewife.
	You're a housewife.
	I build his career.
	Without me, he's still nothing.
	That's what we're saying as women.
	Sorry.
	We play different roles.
	We're there to help you.
	We're talking about making money.
	50-50 for making money.
	Yeah, you're not providing money.
	No, she's saying without her, a man would have a career.
	Yeah, but she doesn't work now, though.
	Moral support.
	So...
	You're saying...
	But she's reaping the benefits.
	I'm not working right now.
	It's because I'm prepared for my master's degree.
	No, I understand that.
	But I'm saying, but do you believe in 50-50 relationships?
	Yes, I believe.
	Okay, so when the rent is due, you pay half every single month?
	Yes, I'm able to do that.
	Okay.
	So when you're pregnant, you're still going to be paying nine months pregnant.
	You're going to be paying half.
	You might culture all the women like this.
	Something's off here.
	What's off?
	It doesn't make sense.
	She's a housewife.
	No, but I think she is gaining the benefits of...
	She planted a seed.
	It's a full-blown tree now.
	And she's reaping...
	I mean, she's getting those benefits from...
	No, but I'm saying she invested into her husband.
	She invested into her man.
	And because, listen, because she invested into her man, she's able to be a housewife.
	Listen, the China isn't Chinese.
	Yeah, I know, it's just confusing.
	Chinese women don't go 50-50.
	Yeah, that's not the culture there at all.
	It's not the West at all.
	China woman is more powerful and stronger than the man.
	Go ahead, Empress.
	She's westernized.
	But why do you guys keep bringing up being pregnant?
	What does that have to do with this?
	That's your future with a man.
	You think that's the only thing women are capable of?
	Think of the wild.
	Why do they mate?
	But what if you get pregnant?
	Eventually you'll get pregnant.
	Why do they mate to have kids?
	I think she's lost.
	Yeah, there we go.
	If I do have a child, I don't want to do it with someone that doesn't have the money to provide for me.
	Yeah, but I'm saying I can agree to disagree with the whole 50-50, but when I'm pregnant, I don't want to work.
	So that's not 50-50.
	No, but that's the only period where I'm okay not working.
	I know, but like, you're going to be...
	How long are you...
	You're off the workforce for nine months, probably a year or two, when the kids, how are you going to go back on to the job market?
	It's not that easy.
	You still have a child now.
	It's not a dog.
	It's a child you have to raise.
	And that's where we come in with our roles.
	That's a woman's role.
	Right there, when that child's there, you take care of the kid.
	You nurture.
	And that's a full-time job.
	That's a full-time job.
	Because that's not a man's job.
	Men, like, genetically are not built for any of it.
	Men are supposed to provide a nurturing aspect too, right?
	And it happens in nature all the time.
	But are they supposed to provide a nurturing aspect as well?
	Stop real quick.
	Stop real quick.
	I think what...
	It's interesting because, like, you said you want 50-50, but when they gave you a very real-life scenario of you having a kid and being out the workforce for a period of time, then you were like, oh, you know what?
	Maybe no.
	And I think that's kind of where...
	Where feminism lies.
	Because feminism tells women to chase a career and make money, etc.
	But when real life hits and you have a kid or whatever it may be, you're not going to want to enter the workforce when you have a fucking baby in the crib.
	Do you want to leave it in a daycare or whatever?
	Most women, typically, what I've realized is most girls go into the workforce because they have to.
	But if they have the luxury where their guy is able to make enough for both of them, they'll stay at home for sure with the kid.
	And I've seen even career women, lawyers, doctors, whatever it may be.
	They have a kid.
	They start leaving work earlier.
	They start getting itched.
	They're like, what the fuck am I doing here?
	Or they cut back their hours.
	So I get what you're saying.
	Like, oh, 50-50, it should be this way.
	And practicality, it just doesn't work, really.
	It just doesn't work.
	And there's a bunch of reasons for that.
	I don't think women are as ambitious as men when it comes to wealth creation because you guys just don't have the natural proclivity to create excess resources like men do.
	You know, women typically make money and say, dumb shit, like I'm independent.
	Men make money and say, oh, I can take care of a family now.
	We're not the same.
	Like, when women make money and say, I'm independent, ask yourself, who are they independent of?
	They're saying they're independent of men.
	Do men think there should be a certain percentage?
	Or no?
	It should only just be providing and then nurturing.
	Well, here's the thing.
	You can thank feminism for, you know, the feminized men that sit there and say, let's go 50-50.
	But most girls, and it's interesting how most girls here on the panel don't want a 50-50 relationship.
	And I would argue most women don't want a 50-50 relationship.
	You know, they might not admit it.
	I'm glad you guys admitted it, but most girls don't.
	And I would argue, even with you, when you get a guy and you have a kid or anything else like that, you're not going to want a 50-50 relationship.
	I mean, I was like a 100-0 relationship.
	Yeah, but you weren't pregnant.
	And it didn't last.
	Think about it.
	It didn't last.
	Yeah, but it didn't last.
	No, it didn't.
	You cheated on him.
	That should show you right then and there that you don't...
	No, but even if I didn't cheat, I would have left him.
	But you did.
	That's my point.
	That's the truth.
	Why did you cheat?
	I cheated because I was bored.
	Exactly.
	You don't have to tell me my truth.
	I have a genuine question.
	Would you still cheat if the woman had a child?
	Huh?
	Would you still be cheating if the woman had a child with you?
	That's the most time men cheat.
	I mean, she's not going to be as attractive as she.
	I'm going to want other women.
	That's like when most men cheat.
	They say, oh, my wife...
	Yeah, I would have...
	And here's the thing, man.
	Every dude I know that has money has other chicks, bro.
	Every single one.
	You know, the only thing I've noticed is that they get escorts.
	I mean, I'm not with that.
	Yeah, fuck that.
	What's so wrong about that?
	Paying prostitution?
	Paying for sex, I think, is not a good move.
	What if men that pay for OnlyFans, is that the same thing to you?
	They're both terrible.
	Just as bad.
	OnlyFans are even worse.
	It's online.
	Paying for pornography.
	But they're not physically touching.
	That's why it's worse.
	You're not getting anything.
	Yeah, it's worse.
	You're paying for porn.
	Nah, that's a hell.
	And I'd argue most of them will find that very unattractive too if you find out a dude who's out here paying for OnlyFans.
	Honestly, if you watch it yourself, I don't think you should have a problem with it.
	You watch porn?
	What do you mean?
	I plead the fifth.
	Okay, sir.
	You need some help, man.
	You're an anomaly.
	Most women don't watch pornography.
	I know.
	Okay.
	You got some chats here, by the way.
	I thought everyone watched porn.
	Yeah, just...
	No.
	No.
	Really?
	Very few women watch porn.
	I mean, you watch porn, too?
	I thought everyone watched porn.
	Like, I thought...
	I feel like women...
	I mean, not on a regular...
	Not a regular thing, but, yeah.
	Like, it's not like...
	But, yeah.
	Watching porn once or twice a month...
	As a female, that's not that often.
	There's dudes that watch porn every single day, 10 times a day.
	Women watch porn.
	They just lie about that shit.
	But not like as men.
	Not to the same degree.
	You're not watching it 10 times a day.
	Put it this way.
	This is what I always say.
	If the porn industry relied on female subscriptions and women watching porn to sustain itself, it would go bankrupt in a day.
	It would go bankrupt in a day.
	So, okay.
	That guy goes, thanks for the content FNF question.
	Do women like long hair, man bun, or should the guy have short hair?
	We like providers.
	First off, why do you care, nigga?
	This is your hair, bro.
	Rock it how you want to rock it.
	We like providers.
	We like bank accounts.
	If you are that guy, bun or not, nigga, you get in the box.
	I like long hair.
	Who else likes long hair?
	I like both.
	It depends.
	I like buns and short curly hair.
	It's cute.
	Okay.
	Depends on the hair.
	It depends on the guy.
	You're the man, bro.
	Depends on you.
	Depends on what suits you.
	It has to suit you.
	You can like whatever you want.
	It just has to suit you as a person.
	But don't get me wrong.
	A nice tape is good.
	Dixie Normas goes, I see what she did there.
	Oh my god.
	Without saying it out loud, think of the number of bodies you have.
	Now, if you have a daughter, would you be proud if she had the same amount of bodies at the same age you are now?
	Oh, not a bad question.
	Would you be proud if your daughter had the same amount of bodies that you do now?
	You would?
	Yeah.
	Yeah.
	In 27 years.
	Yes, 100%.
	I mean, yeah.
	Come on, man.
	You gotta think better with these questions.
	I'm stupid.
	Oh my God.
	Gotta catch them all.
	That's funny.
	Old Spice is delusional as fuck, man.
	Old Spice.
	It's okay.
	Tolilu entails Tolilu.
	Emiliano goes, ladies, what is the best advice you've ever given to someone?
	FNF is doing God's work.
	You are the best pocket in the world so far in changing and saving lives.
	Anyway, Chris is still a bum.
	This is true.
	What's the best advice you ever gave, he said?
	Nigga, that's...
	Oh, you were ever given.
	No, you ever given to someone.
	Yeah, best advice they ever gave to somebody?
	Are we gonna go around and answer?
	I mean, nah bro.
	It's quite long.
	The advice is shitty.
	Chris Lancaster says, in the workforce, your boss is likely to be a man.
	Follow the man you choose or follow the man that's your boss.
	What'd you choose?
	Would you follow your man or your boss?
	I'd follow the boss.
	Boss?
	Yeah.
	My man.
	No, my man.
	What about you?
	My man.
	Who'd you follow?
	My husband.
	Let's switch that.
	My husband.
	Who'd you follow?
	Husband.
	Husband.
	My man.
	Husband.
	My husband, of course.
	Because if he leaves, there's repercussions.
	It depends.
	Why?
	Why?
	The defense was more clever.
	You're a little deviant, aren't you?
	She said she like long hair?
	Give us a little wink, give us a little wink.
	The defense was more clever.
	That's a good one, man.
	Alright.
	Okay.
	Chris, oh no, we got that one?
	Yeah.
	Oh, good?
	Okay.
	Do you have anything else?
	No.
	Let's get last thoughts from the ladies?
	Yeah.
	Because we got to close this thing out.
	Alright, last thoughts, last questions, disagreements or with anything we might have said or whatever it may be for you.
	We'll start with you.
	How was the show for you?
	I loved it, honestly.
	This was a...
	This was very refreshing of a podcast, and I was very scared.
	But I really appreciate everyone that's here, and you guys are very professional.
	Like, you're on your boss shit.
	And I appreciate it.
	No questions or disagreements or anything like that?
	I mean, I have disagreements, of course, but, like, that's like...
	What do you disagree with the most?
	Yeah, what do you disagree with?
	No, I mean, you have to coexist in life, so...
	But what do you...
	Girl, this is for content.
	This is for content.
	Oh, you just go with the 50-50?
	Yeah, that's it.
	But you agree with it in the same sense.
	Yeah, in the same sense.
	So you don't disagree with it, so it's kind of confusing.
	I mean...
	It's like you agree, but you disagree.
	I only agree with the pregnancy.
	That's it.
	Okay, but...
	I don't want to get into it.
	You can't just get pregnant and go right back to work.
	Yeah, you don't get that.
	No, I don't get that part.
	I honestly truly don't understand that part because I've never lived it, so...
	Well, you got to think about it because you're going through reality.
	I don't have to think about it until I get a ring.
	Listen...
	My only question is, is my nigga Mo gonna hit?
	Moe has to take me to dinner first.
	Oh, okay.
	Well, he has to do more than that.
	Also, we're not splitting the top.
	Oh, well, you're into 50-50.
	Not for the first date.
	Not for the first date.
	Okay, yeah, you don't know what she wants.
	Man, you selectively want 50-50, man.
	You want some bullshit, man.
	You can't change that up.
	That's what I'm saying.
	Never listen to what women say, man.
	Yeah, I'll be fine.
	By the way, you're in luck because we're getting food right now.
	Yeah, we are.
	So, yeah, there you go.
	What about you?
	Oh, pay your share!
	Mo got it, yeah.
	Alright, what about you?
	Wait, what was the question again?
	Oh, we talked about the bill, Chris gone.
	You saw that shit?
	Yo, he's gone, bro.
	He laughed instantly.
	Alright, what about you?
	Okay, how was it short for you?
	Questions, comments, questions, disagreements, anything?
	I don't know.
	I'll keep, no, I'm okay.
	Fantastic.
	I'll keep them to myself.
	Yo, I'm telling you, nonchalant as fuck.
	Okay, what about you?
	It was interesting.
	It was interesting.
	Can you think of two more countries?
	We got Italy.
	We got Colombia.
	All right.
	Fantastic.
	What about you?
	My last thoughts for you is just make sure you really know what you want, because if you're saying you want 50-50, then you're going to find a guy who's actually standing on business and is like, you're nine months pregnant, I still need half of the rent.
	Honestly, I'm not going to find anyone like that unless it's Moe, so, you know.
	Moe, I feel like, is more a provider.
	I got respect for Moe.
	I got respect for Moe.
	So just make sure you know what you want so you don't get a Wendy's 444 anymore.
	Make sure you know what you want.
	You need to set standards.
	You can be diluted for a little bit if you want, but you need to set those standards.
	Because the moment you get pregnant, everything goes out the window.
	And you have to...
	I know you're not pregnant now, but you have to think about that stuff and who you want to be when you get pregnant with.
	Because that's who you're next to.
	That's who you're building this with.
	Wait, she's talking...
	What?
	No, she's so right.
	She's speaking facts over here.
	Thank you for that.
	Wait, were you disagreeing?
	What?
	No, he said she's talking because you're not shalant.
	Oh.
	That just went over your head.
	So I just want to just make sure, you know, don't say you want 50-50 because a guy is going to stand on that and he's going to say, well, you want it 50-50.
	I don't care if you're sick in the hospital.
	Pay half of these bills.
	You're right.
	That's why you have to be really specific with what you want.
	You cannot tell a man, no, don't get me that.
	That's too much.
	You're just turning down what he's doing for you.
	He's going to remember that men are smart.
	Women like to say men are stupid.
	Men are not stupid.
	They love a discounted woman.
	They love what's free.
	They love what's easy.
	If you want to split the bill, they will split it.
	They don't give a fuck.
	They don't care.
	Use that next money for the next girl, the other half.
	For their next date.
	Accept it.
	Accept it.
	Let them treat you like you should be treated.
	There's no reason.
	About and beyond.
	Yeah.
	$5 next.
	$200 minimum.
	$5 next is crazy.
	You know what?
	No, I think this is interesting for the audience to hear.
	You guys are hearing a bunch of women talk to each other.
	And this is a lot of the time the conversation.
	Hey, what do you mean 50-50?
	He better pay for everything.
	Like, what are you doing?
	Like, he's a brokie.
	Blah, blah, blah.
	So I kind of wanted to let them talk so you guys can hear it.
	Yeah.
	It's not even about them being broke.
	It's just you're not going to be able to afford a simple dinner for us.
	How are you supposed to put- But it's more than just money.
	If you're broke, it means you're a bum.
	You're not trying.
	You're not doing anything with your life.
	Exactly what I was just saying.
	This is how women talk about men.
	You can't just say, I want to build.
	He has to be the right building partner.
	You don't have to be with the rich or the richest man, but you need to build with somebody.
	You have to grow with somebody consistently.
	You cannot say, oh, we're building and it's only one of you growing.
	Translation, you build and she's there to help you.
	I've definitely seen relationships where I've seen the man and the woman build each other and not just support morally.
	No, people build businesses together and they grow something and they make something out of it together.
	But you have to be with somebody who's on the same grind.
	You can't just fucking...
	You can't be wanting something that somebody else wants to stay in bed.
	You can't meet a guy working at McDonald's.
	You're not growing with that.
	You're not growing.
	Yo, you know what I hear, Mo?
	What?
	My dog thinking of shit.
	What?
	What?
	Motion advice.
	Oh, okay, okay.
	Yeah, I mean...
	I see what you're saying, but it starts with the guy.
	Because if the guy isn't that dude, you can't do nothing.
	Yeah, so what's the correct way to do it for you, Fresh?
	Because you're laughing, so what's the correct way to do it for you?
	Don't do business with women, personally.
	I think you should only do business with men.
	I agree, yeah.
	Because doing business with women fucks you up, and women just don't have the same financial incentives to be successful because a woman's value is not tied to her socioeconomic status.
	What if you're married?
	Huh?
	What if you're married?
	Can you go in a business if you're married?
	She can help me, but I mean, at the end of the day, she's not going to have, like, no real authority in the business.
	You know, I think she should help, like, make things a little bit easier, but...
	Honestly, that kind of reminds me of my parents, because my dad literally went to the school because some man told my mom, oh, you're a female?
	Like, they're not going to take you seriously.
	You need a man in this business.
	Well, yeah, that's a smart point.
	That's kind of true.
	That's kind of true.
	The reason why...
	The thing is, man, is that most entrepreneurs, most wealthy people, they're men for a reason.
	And the reason why is because men have an incentive to go out there and produce because we know there are sexual market values based on what we provide.
	Women, on the other hand, your sexual market value is not based on that.
	So that's why girls can be broke and still find a guy.
	I mean, let me ask you all a question.
	Would you rather be rich and ugly or pretty and poor?
	Pretty and poor.
	Rich and ugly.
	Would you rather be pretty and poor or rich and ugly?
	Pretty and poor.
	As a female.
	Hmm.
	I mean, bro.
	How ugly are we talking about?
	Like, you're not going to be able to get a date.
	Like, it's going to be tough.
	Like, overweight?
	And you're old.
	Ugly and rich or pretty and poor?
	Okay, pretty and poor.
	Okay, what do you...
	Pretty and poor.
	Ugly and rich, your looks will fade regardless.
	Well, come on, man.
	Okay, what about you?
	I would rather be ugly and rich.
	As a female?
	Yes, because I think it's true as a female.
	As a woman, yeah.
	You'll never get a man.
	You're going to be single then.
	You won't be able to find a guy.
	You won't be able to find a guy.
	I think pretty important, to be honest.
	What about you?
	Wait, question.
	If I'm ugly and rich, is Mo still going to holler?
	No.
	The point is, when I ask this question to women, most of them say pretty and poor.
	But if I ask this question to men, what are they going to say?
	Rich and ugly.
	That's the difference between men and women.
	But you can get girls rich and ugly.
	As a guy, that's the point.
	Yeah, that's true.
	That's what I'm trying to say.
	So men have an incentive to work harder.
	That's why I don't personally do business with women because they don't have the same mindset with earning resources.
	What about a masculine woman?
	Like her mindset.
	Even worse, they're annoying.
	No, no, no, no.
	I mean like a masculine woman like she thinks like a man.
	Yeah, even worse.
	Those girls are annoying.
	I just mean, many women will argue in normal relationships.
	Imagine adding business to that table.
	Oh my goodness.
	Okay, what about you?
	Masculine women are annoying to be around, bro.
	It's terrible.
	Sorry.
	Do you have anything else to add to that question, disagreement, anything like that?
	No?
	Oh, no.
	I was just saying...
	Hey, y'all!
	Sorry, your turn.
	Go ahead.
	I think at the age, we all are kind of out.
	We're all kind of young.
	We just need to know our standards because...
	We need to set them.
	Time is sticking.
	Alright, what's your standard?
	How much does he gotta make for you?
	It's not necessarily a money thing.
	It's, uh, are you gonna be able to not only provide, not in just like a financial way, but help take care of a family, help raise kids?
	That's financial.
	So my question is, how much does he gotta make for you, bare minimum?
	A year?
	Maybe like 100,000.
	100,000?
	Okay.
	How tall has he got to be?
	I don't care about height.
	At all?
	No.
	He could be 5'1"?
	That's fine.
	No, that's cap.
	Interesting.
	No, she's actually, like, she's really, like, real, like, she's honest with that.
	No, she's not, bro.
	No, she's not.
	How would you know?
	I'm telling you, I know her.
	Pull up the calculator, Chris.
	Yeah, I just got out of my relationship.
	Goddamn, I would show you her ex, but I can't do her like that.
	Then he go to jail.
	Yeah, he won't go to jail.
	Don't show him.
	Wow, bro.
	She ain't single as fuck, man.
	Yeah, bring up the calculator just out of curiosity.
	Okay, what about you?
	Oh no, sorry, did you have anything else or that was it?
	I thought the conversation was more nuanced than I thought it would be, to be honest.
	What did you want to talk about then?
	Oh, no.
	Nuance means that it was, like, equal, balanced.
	So I thought that was quite balanced.
	And my last thoughts is, you know, love and peace.
	That's all I have to say.
	So it was nice being here.
	Yes.
	Thank you for that.
	Why'd you say stupid?
	Why'd you say stupid?
	He's always so quiet about his smirkiness.
	Alright, let's go real quick.
	What's the minimum age for you that he's got to be?
	Me?
	Yeah, the corner.
	Me?
	Yeah, miss.
	Oh, you did high school?
	I usually like older men, so maybe like 25 to 30.
	Okay.
	Yeah, we can tell.
	Yeah, we can tell.
	Oh my god!
	You're lying to niggas, man.
	Put him in jail.
	That's wild, actually, bro.
	I ain't gonna lie.
	You said minimum, what's the minimum height he's got to be?
	Put five foot.
	Five foot, really?
	I'm not picky.
	So you can be shorter than you then?
	That's fine.
	Okay.
	Race?
	I'm not picky.
	Any of them?
	Yes, any.
	Asian?
	Do you like black guys?
	Shrimp?
	What do you mean?
	She wants $100,000 a year.
	It's not about the money.
	If we get along and you're willing to provide the criteria that I want for a family, that's fine.
	Okay.
	So it looks don't matter to you at all then.
	Not necessarily.
	If I like you and we get along, that's fine.
	Education level, permanent education?
	At least high school.
	At least?
	Well, if he's making 100k, wouldn't he easily have a bachelor's?
	No, I have to go to school to make money.
	Plenty of people.
	On average, he's probably going to have a bachelor's.
	Alright, can he be obese?
	No.
	I don't respect...
	Sorry, Chris.
	Sorry, Chris.
	Alright, can he be married?
	No.
	Why would I be married with him if...
	Alright.
	Maybe you'll be a second wife.
	I don't know.
	Alright.
	Exclude married then.
	Alright.
	Let's see.
	Oh, you mean like he's already divorced and everything and I'm moving on.
	No, he's married.
	No.
	Okay.
	God, no.
	Let's see what her guy comes out at.
	Let's see here.
	The percentage of men that meet your requirements are...
	Okay.
	So about 2%.
	Oh...
	You scored four out of five cat bags.
	So yeah, the likelihood of you finding that guy, even with the lower standards, is fairly high.
	This is based in the United States, based on the National Health Survey, the U.S. Census Bureau, and then what was the other one?
	I'm not marrying somebody below what my parents do.
	Yeah, National Health and Nutrition Examination Survey, and the CDC and the U.S. Census Bureau.
	But like for different cities, like here in Miami, it's a little different.
	In LA, in New York, I mean, most men have to make 100k.
	It's still rare to find.
	They're everywhere.
	Yeah.
	They're not as everywhere as you guys think they are.
	Well, that's where we are.
	Yeah.
	And then here's the other thing.
	You got to remember, okay, you meet the guy, you find the guy.
	What makes you think he's going to pick you over other women?
	That's true.
	How do you stand out?
	I told you, I'm average.
	I don't think I stand out.
	But you want a well above average guy.
	Yeah, because I can.
	I have guys around that caliber.
	For sex?
	No, it's not for sex.
	I don't just open my legs.
	That devalues you as a woman.
	I mean, you're still single though.
	Yeah, because I just got out of a relationship.
	But...
	Once again.
	So you think someone that embraces...
	I'm young.
	I just got out of a relationship.
	I have a lot of learning to do for not only myself, but what I want in a partner.
	So you think someone that embraces their sexuality...
	Yeah, learn to do, like, not putting dudes in jail.
	God damn, bro!
	Wait, but do you think someone that embraces their sexuality that devalues them as a woman?
	Very much.
	If you're just sleeping around, that's disgusting.
	As a woman, that's disgusting.
	As a woman at this young...
	You disagree with that?
	I mean, you do you, boo.
	In terms of women or men?
	In terms of everyone.
	I think also for women, that really places where your value is.
	Yes.
	I mean, I'm not doing it, but I'm saying I'm not going to stop you from doing what you want to do.
	I'm not saying 17.
	That is fucked up, man.
	Who said 17?
	How are you going to promote whores?
	You know, a whore yourself.
	Because, like, I support all people.
	Yeah, you can support them, but it's not the way to live.
	It's not a lifestyle I would choose to live at all.
	So you think OnlyFans is devaluing?
	Very much so.
	Oh my god.
	You're opening your legs.
	Everyone opens their legs on there.
	I can see you for $4.
	It's literally just like your boyfriend.
	I can pay $4.
	- You're literally, first of all, I'm not saying that I do that.
	- Sex, that's what only fans is.
	- That's what only fans is.
	- That's what only fans is. - People do gaming on there.
	- Look, look, look, look, look.
	You guys are just yelling at each other.
	Go ahead and say why you think it's not that big of a deal and then she can respond.
	I don't think it's a big deal because I don't think...
	Look, you're not someone that can put...
	Who's to say that you're right?
	Me.
	And obviously it shows by the type of men that you're with.
	Okay, first of all, how many times do I have to say that I was 24, 25?
	24, 25?
	At 25, your brain is fully developed.
	Your brain is fully developed.
	You're a woman.
	Grow up.
	It was my first boyfriend.
	At 25?
	Yes, at 25.
	And you had 17 bodies prior?
	No, that was a lie.
	That was a lie.
	But that's what I'm saying.
	Our lifestyles will never line up.
	Well, you're 18, you're a jit-jit.
	And guess what?
	I have a man who would buy me Venn Cleef.
	And good for you, I make 100k a year.
	So you're almost 30.
	You're almost 30.
	I mean, cool.
	Cool.
	I graduated.
	Like 10 years ago and you're only making 100K? No, I'm in grad school.
	What is $100,000?
	I'm in grad school.
	Do you have an SF90? Do you have a Bugatti?
	I don't care.
	That doesn't impress me.
	Materialistic things don't matter, bro.
	What kind of house do you have?
	I have a townhome.
	500K. Wow, that's so impressive.
	What's the average house in Florida?
	I don't live to please you, bro.
	But that's what I'm saying.
	I don't live to please you.
	Your standards are low.
	Your standards are low.
	No, it's not.
	I literally pay a fucking mortgage.
	Congrats.
	Let me embrace a little bit.
	Congratulations.
	Is that high to you?
	But that's high to you.
	I have a different perception because my parents are poor.
	I was literally living with my parents last year.
	Now I pay a mortgage.
	That's disappointing that you're almost 30 living with your parents.
	I wasn't.
	My dad said that you were living with your parents.
	My dad invited me.
	He said, until you're married, you can live with me.
	So I'm sorry, he has traditions.
	Oh, so traditional.
	Yeah, he's Southern, bro.
	And that was a lie.
	How many times do I have to fucking tell you that?
	There's going to be clips of you saying you had 17 bodies.
	You think I'm going to find my husband on this group?
	No, your husband will see this.
	He will.
	Guess what?
	I feel like he's going to hit you with a 50-50.
	You know what he's going to say?
	He's going to be like, why would I spend more than $4 if somebody else can get it?
	You don't know me, bro.
	You just said that you need to stay in the sky.
	You don't know me.
	She doesn't feel free.
	Maybe you need to count up to the sky because your standards are done.
	You open your legs for free.
	You're working on an escort.
	I feel like you're For $4!
	Like, he can go to jail.
	Is that fake Cartier?
	Because no way you're driving an Uber with fake Cartier.
	You can go to jail for that.
	I can go to jail.
	I can do anything.
	But, like, actually, is that fake Cartier?
	Maybe.
	Maybe.
	So you said you're not about materialistic things, but you buy fake shit to try to impress who?
	I don't impress anyone.
	Some lifestyle.
	You're making $100,000.
	What is that?
	Almost 20% of your income?
	That's embarrassing.
	No, it's not 20% of my income.
	Almost.
	I said almost.
	Well, good.
	You think you know people.
	You don't.
	I'm not saying I know you, but I know your standards.
	No, you don't fucking know my standards.
	- She's gone off of a base of what you ever get. - She's gone off of a base of what you ever get. - This is what you have left people to believe of you. - And an escort of three of four has more standards than you 'cause at least she knows her worth.
	- Well, good for you, Renee, and good for you, Sky.
	I guess Jasmine doesn't know her standards.
	I guess Jasmine hasn't met her Aladdin yet.
	- Yeah, it's okay. - You won't meet him if you're saying that you're saying that you're saying that I don't wanna meet him yet.
	I have things to do. - You're looking crazy. - But now you cannot have those expectations that you want But it doesn't matter.
	I don't care about any of that.
	I don't care about any of that.
	So then you don't want to be married.
	You don't want to have a family?
	No, no, I do.
	You just want to take care of yourself.
	But you just admitted that you opened your life for free.
	I never said that.
	You said that about me.
	But you admitted to that.
	Don't call me mama because that's degrading.
	But I never said that because it's degrading.
	How?
	Explain.
	Because I don't like it.
	I don't like it.
	Why?
	Because I don't.
	Is it derogatory?
	I don't like it.
	I just don't like it.
	Sucks.
	Welcome to the real world.
	I don't like a lot of things.
	Cool, sis.
	Like, I don't care.
	You just need to raise your standards, because I feel like...
	Yeah, I do.
	But I don't...
	Like, they really do, because they don't be opening their legs for free.
	I don't think you can compare...
	First of all, I have no...
	I was sheltered.
	I have no experience with...
	Sheltered, and you think $100,000 is a lot of money?
	Please.
	No, it's not a lot of money.
	That's like $100,000.
	How are you making $100,000 drive an Uber?
	I don't...
	No, that's not the only thing I do.
	I used to be an art teacher.
	And you have a bachelor's?
	You're not making 100k with an art teacher.
	Yes, I have a bachelor's.
	And you're driving Uber?
	I literally started last week.
	I do it for fun.
	Oh, okay.
	Delusional.
	Delulu, tell us Cholulu, babe.
	Can we finish off with the last thoughts?
	Yeah, I'm done.
	I said peace and love, guys.
	And everyone laughed at me.
	No, I need peace and love.
	It's her turn to talk.
	It's really opened my eyes.
	That's good, I'm glad.
	Me too.
	I'm glad.
	I'm right here.
	I'm glad this opened your eyes.
	Alright, that was a fun...
	Shout out to the girls, man.
	Dr.
	Marco.
	No fish was being thrown.
	I'm happy.
	What do you mean?
	No, no, no.
	Fist, fist, fist.
	I think we stabbed each other with our words instead.
	I mean, you admitted to all of it.
	You admitted to all of this.
	Like, you opened your mouth.
	What did I admit to?
	I admitted to four dollars.
	You admitted to sleeping with a guy for four dollars.
	I lived with him because of that.
	Let's wrap it up.
	Yo.
	Oh my god, that's so funny.
	Is that your Chinese opinion?
	Yeah, I'm not gonna lie, bro.
	I had to walk away for a little bit.
	That was crazy.
	But yeah, this was a great show.
	I think we covered a lot of points here.
	Me and mine were definitely enjoying your debate and debacle, what's going on here.
	Skyrosa, you ass.
	I'm not gonna lie.
	I don't care.
	She doesn't pay my bills, bro.
	I didn't come up crying, which is...
	I don't have to, because my parents aren't poor.
	I'm in school.
	Cool.
	My parents provided shit for me, too.
	Like, your preference.
	Yeah, Uber's cool.
	Yeah, because my daddy worked harder.
	I'm sorry.
	Sucks.
	Do you want a cookie?
	Do you want a cookie?
	I think you do.
	You're saying I have privilege.
	I don't like cookies.
	I don't have a sweet tooth like you.
	It be like that.
	Cool.
	Are you guys in high school?
	This is hilarious.
	Okay, this was a great show, guys.
	I think we covered a lot here, especially between ladies.
	Oh, man.
	All right.
	We'll be back on Wednesday.
	Did we get your last thoughts?
	Yeah, sure.
	Oh, okay.
	Yeah, hope you guys enjoyed the show.
	I didn't have to do that much moderating.
	They just argued the whole time.
	It was a pretty good show.
	What do we got here?
	Aussie Bogan.
	Aussie goes, Sup, Fresh and Fit?
	Have you guys sussed out the GTA 6 trailer yet?
	Because it's Miami.
	Thoughts on a Florida Miami rep?
	Bro, it's not going to come out for two years, man.
	Yeah.
	Reserve my thought until it actually comes out.
	But other than that, yeah, I think we'll be back on Wednesday.
	We got one more rumble right here as well.
	Oh, one more?
	Okay.
	What the fuck?
	LOL, what?
	Why that Oreo-ass Q-tip head so confident, ugly as fuck, and most black men don't even want black women because they act like they're like her and worse?
	Goddamn, nigga.
	That's me.
	It's delusion, baby.
	Okay.
	We're caught up, right?
	Alright, guys, we'll be back on Wednesday for Red Bull Wednesday, man.
	We'll have a topic for y'all and then obviously after hours.
	Hope you guys enjoyed the show.
	Catch you on the next one.
	Peace!

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