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Nov. 17, 2023 - Fresh & Fit
02:09:25
PsycHacks Returns!
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What's up, guys?
Welcome to First Year Podcast, man.
We're here with special guest Psych Hacks.
Let's get into it!
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What's up, guys?
Welcome to the Fresh Fit Podcast, man.
Regular edition.
It's Friday.
We've got a special guest in the house, Psych Hacks.
Real quick, guys, two announcements.
Actually, three announcements.
Number one, rumble.com slash Fresh Fit, man.
You guys know where to find us, man.
That is the home base in case we ever go ahead and get canceled.
You know exactly where to find us, rumble.com slash Fresh Fit, man.
Even more important in 2024.
And then castleclub.tv, all the behind-the-scenes content.
And go ahead and make sure you join the CEO network on Patreon, guys, where Fresh goes ahead and sets you up with other high net worth individuals, successful guys, puts you in rooms with them.
You guys are able to go ahead and have conversations and questions with a bunch of guys.
We need to bring Jim Sexton.
When's he coming?
He's coming December.
In December.
December, January.
Sweet.
Hey, guys, he got sick.
He ended up getting the cough, cough.
You know what I'm talking about.
So that's what ended up happening, why he couldn't come last time we had Rolo on.
So we will definitely bring him, though, in early December.
It's going to be a great pod.
And then, yeah, guys, check me out on Twitter, man.
Unplugged Fidex.
As you guys know, I post on there.
I'm going crazy on there, posting a bunch of stuff.
We're already at 30K followers.
Let's go!
Shout out to y'all, man.
I've had it for about a week now.
So let's go ahead and get that thing to 100K, man, because Twitter definitely, especially now with the election year coming, it's going to be huge.
And I cover certain topics on there that I might not necessarily cover on YouTube for obvious reasons.
Yeah, one of those is for sure.
But yeah, without further ado, guys, we've got a special guest in the house.
One of my favorite guests, actually.
Welcome back, Psych Hacks.
You guys are the best.
I'm so happy to be here.
Thanks for having me back, guys.
We're happy to have you, man.
Really happy.
So what's new?
It's been a while.
Yeah, it's been a couple of months.
I have been doing lots of things, man.
I went to Japan for about a month.
That was a blast.
I've been working on my book.
I'm about two-thirds of the way through it now.
I hope to have it finished by the end of the year.
Can you tell us what the book is about?
It's about relationships through the lens of behavioral economics.
So I'm trying to explain why people do the things that they do with as little ideology as possible.
Okay.
From a strictly, I guess, psychological perspective versus...
Well, psychological and behavioral economics.
So it's like people are rational.
They only see me rational if you put all these other ideological assumptions on how they should be behaving.
But when you look at how a lot of people act, like hypergamy on some level is rational, right?
We talk about that.
Yeah, absolutely.
for her best option all things being considered among her available options in the sexual marketplace.
Yeah, that's kind of a rational decision, right?
So it's like that but across the board all the different aspects of relationships between people.
Gotcha.
So, well, you know, let's talk about Japan, So you made a video talking about the passport movement, and prior to going to Japan, you had said, there tends to be this connotation that if you're a passport bro, you're a loser, your sexual market value is low, you can't attract women in your home country, therefore you have to go abroad and leverage your American passport or Western passport to get action therefore you have to go abroad and leverage your American passport or Western passport But your opinions changed after going to Japan.
Can you tell us a little bit about that and what it was like being out there compared to the West or the United States?
I didn't really get too deeply into the passport movement, but that was my connotation beforehand.
I think that's generally just what I picked up.
That's what everyone tends to think.
Yeah, exactly.
And I just sort of uncritically went along with that.
I didn't look too deeply into it.
And when I went to Japan, I had an eye-opening experience.
I mean, the First of all, Japan's a great culture.
I think it's one of the more perfect cultures that we have on this planet today.
Things work the way that they should in Japan.
Like, the streets are smooth.
The cities are safe.
They don't even lock up their bikes in a major city like Tokyo.
It's clean.
There's no trash anywhere.
The food is fantastic.
It's a beautiful place.
Virtually no crime.
Virtually no crime.
It's amazing.
It's a shame-based culture, so there's pros and cons to that.
Shame works, huh?
Shame does work, man.
There you go.
Sure.
And it's interesting because we have a good friend.
His name is John from Modern Life Dating.
He's lived in Tokyo for the better part of a decade now at this point.
And he's always raved about being in Japan.
He's always talked about how, you know, he comes to the United States every few years, and he's like, what the hell is going on?
And he can't wait to get back to Japan.
And you're not the first person that's told us about, like, the enormous difference in culture and how kind of far behind Americans are in the West in general.
Can you take us through some of the things, I guess, some of the biggest things you noticed and differences between here and there?
Sure.
I liked it so much, I'm actually going back next week.
Nice!
I love it there.
And I'm going to go and focus on my writing.
But a few things that I noticed, especially around the women.
The women are gorgeous in Japan.
I don't think that most Western women could even buy clothes in Japan.
The Japanese woman is slender in life.
I think I saw maybe 20 overweight women in a month, and I think most of them were kind of like the old granny-type women.
I mean, there's almost no overweight women, let alone obese women.
I remember when I took the plane back to LAX and I got off, I was just...
You just get used to it, you know, being around it in America all the time.
And it was quite a rude awakening.
So they're slender, they're lithe, they're very feminine.
The women wear dresses and heels.
They're...
They're elegant, like there's a version of femininity there that is celebrated as one thing that a young woman can aspire to.
They're very respectful, and there's kind of the opposite of chivalry in Japan.
Like, just in all the ways that we kind of take for granted that women kind of come first in the West, men come first in that way in Japan.
In small things and in big things, too.
For example, I remember one day I was walking into a public place at about the same time as a woman, and I opened the door reflexively to hold the door open for her, and she refused to walk through it.
Oh, wow.
She made a show of embarrassment and kind of laughed and said, "No, no, no, no," because it would have been disrespectful to allow me to disrespect myself in that way by allowing the woman to go ahead of me.
Wow.
I know.
Culture difference, man.
Yo, they really live out why women deserve less out there.
That's great, man.
Shout out to Japan.
You being a foreigner, being white, did that impact you at all, being in Japan?
I wonder.
There's a lot of interesting data about how different races do in the sexual marketplace.
And you can break it down in the perceptions of different races as well.
And across the board, white men tend to fare the best, and across the board for women, Asian women tend to fare the best, like the rated highest by all the different races.
So I bet I did have a leg up there, but I don't really have a point of comparison.
Okay.
Gotcha.
Yeah, because I've heard from John about how racism is kind of apparent.
They call him gaijin or something like that.
Sure.
Were you ever refused service or anything like that when you were there?
No, everybody was very friendly and nice to me.
They went out of their way to make me feel at home.
Many people would just chat me up when I was out at restaurants or at bars.
It was a very welcoming and warm place.
They might have thought it was black.
That's probably what it was, bro.
So the obesity, man.
And I noticed this too.
Last year, right around this time, we were in Romania with the Tate brothers.
And don't worry, guys, we'll be back over there.
Shout out to Andrew and Tristan.
I didn't see any fat women in Romania, dude.
I was like, what the hell?
And we were looking at the mall.
And we were actually looking.
And we were there.
We were in Romania for damn near a month.
Dude, I saw maybe three fat women the whole time.
And they were, again, like you said, older women, right?
So this whole obesity thing, it's an American thing, man.
It's the food.
I mean, you go into the 7-Elevens in Japan, and they don't have any processed food.
They don't have candy.
They have sushi, and it's not gas station sushi.
You could actually eat it.
They have healthy snacks, like dried peas.
That's what people snack on in Japan.
They have much smaller portions.
I think they go for taste over quantity, and they don't have a lot of refined sugars.
So I think that's a big part of it.
Wow.
I'm not sure that they're really working off to burn the calories.
I'm sure that's becoming more and more popular these days, but I think it starts with the nutrition, as I'm sure you know.
Yeah, people just eat less in general in other parts of the world.
It's like America, yeah, the portions are wild.
Okay, so what is your thoughts now on the Passport Bro Movement?
Because we get asked about it all the time, man, and we've been...
And again, tell us about passport brawls, blah, blah, blah.
And it's, you know, what I've always said in general is that, well, actually, let me hear your take on it, and then I'll give you my perspective.
What's your take on it now that you've been over there and you kind of see...
Well, I do think that there's probably some truth to it.
Like, if you're having some trouble getting a woman or attracting...
Good optionality.
You can do geo-arbitrage.
Just go someplace where you're...
Appreciated.
Yeah, exactly.
Why not?
But it's not just for those guys.
Who wouldn't want to have a more peaceful, respectful, feminine, easygoing woman?
And I think the usual pushback from the women...
Oh, man, I got some very angry...
All from women after that episode.
Also from Asian women, interestingly, I got a few that reached out that said that I was pigeonholing the Asian women.
And I can see that.
I had a conversation with a woman recently about this where there's these positive stereotypes about Asian women.
It's like, don't tell everybody that Asian women are just respectful and submissive.
Then they're going to come to expect it.
It's like, okay, fair enough.
I'm sure not all Asian women are like that, but that's a positive expectation.
You know what I'm saying?
Women of different races, they have to work against negative expectations.
You know what I'm saying?
So it's like, I get that it might be annoying, or maybe there's a pressure to live up to some certain positive expectations, but it's a good problem to have all things being equal.
Like, is it really that bad that people assume that you're good at math?
Yeah.
I guess if you're not that great at math, it could cause some difficulties, but, you know, she was telling me how she was given a job, she was offered a job as an accountant, just because she thinks that she was an Asian woman.
I have a reminder.
It's like, the upshot here is that you were offered a job just because of your race.
It's like, that's a good problem to have.
But I don't want to be an accountant.
It's like, I get that.
But you got offered a job.
Yeah.
How many other kinds of women are gone?
Can you imagine?
That's wild, bro.
Just for being black?
Yeah.
That would be amazing.
What was that?
Fried chicken tester?
Purple drink tester?
I mean, you got some purple drink right now.
Take the grapes, nigga!
John's a girl of mine, man.
We got some purple drink right now, man.
Yeah.
Yo, no way.
No way.
Since it's nigga time.
Oh, yeah.
Y'all like that?
Oh, yeah.
We got the windspinners, too.
Grape juice and brushes, man.
Grape juice and brushes now, baby.
Oh, man.
Link is below.
What, Mo?
Oh, yeah, yeah.
RP Strongstream, guys.
We're going to do that tonight, by the way, as well.
We're going to cover the top 10 or 20 Red Pill songs.
After the after hours.
After the after hours.
So you guys are going to get a three-peat today, man.
But the way I see it, to go back to that, which is, I used to think that you would just go to one of these countries like Thailand or Colombia because you couldn't catch fish here in America.
But even Master Fisherman...
Take their boats to where there's more of the fish that they want to catch, and they can catch it more easily.
Just because you can, and I do believe that, you can still find quality women in America, but it's so much easier to find quality women.
20 is more over there.
Sure.
And I wouldn't even consider Japan as a passport, because normally they give a negative connotation to guys that want to travel to get women.
But the thing is with Japan, Japan's actually pretty expensive.
Tokyo's one of the most expensive cities in the world.
Not right now, man.
The yen is very weak against the dollar.
So if anybody wants to go to Japan, now is an excellent time to go.
Now is a perfect time to go?
Okay.
Wow.
Things have changed, huh?
Inflation has been going.
But in general, Tokyo's been a very expensive city to be in.
Which is good that the yen is down now.
Versus Colombia, it's super cheap.
Everyone goes there.
Because Japan's a first world country versus where everyone else goes typically for passport destinations.
Brazil, Eastern Europe, DR, Colombia, etc.
Sure, you make $100,000, it's not that big of a deal.
Especially in a place like Miami.
Oh my gosh, you're just a schmuck here.
Yeah, the money's worth it, yeah.
But you have $100,000 in Thailand.
You're going to be treated like royalty.
It's like a millionaire.
Pretty much.
Yeah, making $100,000 in Thailand is like you can live like a millionaire in the United States.
And that's the same thing.
It's like the hypergamous instinct is more or less universal, right?
So women want a significantly better offer.
And I think a significantly better offer is generally an order of magnitude.
So if a woman is making $100,000, you have to be making seven figures.
In this country to represent a significantly better offer for her.
And how many men are making six, seven figures a year?
Not a lot.
Exactly.
And not only that, I mean, this is a controversial take.
This is my opinion, not everyone else here at the table.
But I talked about this when I was at Access Vegas.
I said men have to work significantly harder for a worse product of female in 2023.
I mean, you have to earn significantly more money.
You have to be significantly more charming.
You have to be more handsome.
You have to be more attractive in every regard, right, as a guy in 2023.
But what are you competing for?
You're competing for women that aren't virgins.
You're competing for women that are going to be probably come from a promiscuous past, aren't going to be submissive, are going to be combative, are going to challenge your authority.
Like, you have to work way harder, and you're getting a worse product.
So it's like, God damn, what am I doing here, right?
Versus you go back 70 years ago.
A regular guy can work at a steel mill, make, you know, 20, 30 grand a year, be able to raise a family off that, and be pretty rest assured he could find a woman that would be submissive and dutiful to him.
But you can't find that anymore.
It's very difficult.
One of the great things about my podcast doing well these days is, and I now do consultations with guys from all over the world, Nice.
And I was doing a consultation with a guy from, let's say, the Middle East, and he told me that American men are the best men in the world, and we get the worst deal out of any men in the world.
More along those lines.
He did the geo-arbitrage, but in a very clever way.
Okay.
He used Instagram as basically a dating app, and he targeted university girls in his home country.
He just sort of looked for people who were posting at the university and started to DM them directly.
While living in the West?
He was living in Portland, Oregon.
Listen, I call this years ago.
You remember, right, bro?
What did I say?
What's the biggest date app in the world?
Instagram.
It's Instagram, 100%.
For sure.
It really is.
It is, bro.
You shouldn't get a girl's number anymore.
Just get her Instagram account.
I mean, why?
Unless you want to FaceTime.
Close the date.
That's pretty much it.
Might want to grab the number?
Yeah, I see what you're saying.
Yeah, I mean, an Instagram close could be pretty legit.
I say get both, but yes.
I mean, in today's day and age, yeah.
You've got to grab the idea, too.
Instagram is great because it allows you to brag with somebody else's mouth.
It's like in the old days when you're at a social party, you're talking to two people, you walk off, you want the other person to turn to the girl that you're targeting and be like, did you know who that is?
Yeah.
You know, he's the...
It's like, oh...
It's always more impressive when someone else brags about you.
And that's what Instagram does.
You can brag about yourself, but it looks like someone else is doing.
It's a very curated peephole into your life.
And so it allows you to show people the impressive things about you without being overtly...
I look at, as a real estate guy, right?
You know, it's all about getting passive income, you know, not necessarily working for your money.
Instagram, if you set it up correctly, can give you passive demonstrations of higher value.
Passive DHV, right?
Just like money coming in without you trying, your Instagram profile will increase your value without you trying.
Because it's there, girls are able to look at it.
On their own time, and then boom, your profile demonstrates higher value for you, and then you're able to create social proof.
And then if she follows you, if she looks at your stories, you're able to consistently show social proof without being try-hard or showing it to her directly.
And you made a good point, because think about it.
Back in the day, like you mentioned, you want someone to talk about you to that woman.
However, nowadays, it's kind of like the actual Instagram itself talks for you, and as well, it buffers you, because once again, if she doesn't like you, she won't respond.
So you know, if Rip, hey, you're not that guy that she wants to actually take out or be with.
You guys are absolutely right.
One of the things that men do poorly with respect to women, it's like that little knowledge is a dangerous thing.
They learn, oh, women like high-value men.
So all I need to do is demonstrate on the date that I have a lot of money, that I have a lot of status.
And so they talk a lot, and they bore the woman, and he just comes off as try-hard or douchey.
Good point.
What I always say to guys, it's like good literature.
Show, don't tell.
And if possible, allow her to discover the impressive things about you.
So it's always more impressive if someone finds out that you have a Porsche.
It's like, do you know anybody who's run a marathon who hasn't told anybody that they were running a marathon?
I think it might be physically impossible for someone to do that.
But if that were true, it would seem so much more valuable.
Yeah.
No, I mean, we've said it, shout out to our guy Donovan Sharp, discovery always trumps disclosure.
Absolutely.
Every single time, especially with women.
And yeah, it's a very delicate balance of like, Getting your shit together and being higher value, higher status, but not necessarily bragging about it and having someone else or having something else do it for you so that you can kind of find it on your own.
I can't tell you how many girls have the issue where a guy would be like, oh my god, you know what I do for a living.
I'm successful.
Look at my cars.
It's like, bro, you just ruined it.
Totally.
Versus your Instagram page, oh wow, is that his car?
No way.
And if you see that after the fact, you win.
And if you're lucky enough to have a Porsche, I tell guys that the best place for it is in the background.
Yeah.
Because what's more impressive, they have a Porsche or that you're so rich that your Porsche is just your car and it doesn't have to be the focus of the picture?
Because I guarantee they're going to notice that there's a Porsche in the picture or a Ferrari, whatever you happen to have.
Yeah, that's a good point.
You can leave little breadcrumbs for women to kind of follow back to the impressive things, but you should always allow them to discover those things.
I have a new thing that I do now.
So, for example, let's say I have her phone number, right?
I don't have her Instagram.
I'll say, hey, you know what?
I'm going to pick you up in a Toyota Corolla.
It'll be black, of course.
I pull up in black, but it's actually a G-Wagon.
It's hilarious because does he already respond to it?
It's funny as hell, bro.
It's funny.
Um...
Did you get your cars back, by the way?
Last time I was here, you said that Walter had to sell most of his cars.
Did you get any of your cars back?
Oh, he was trying.
He was trying.
He was trying, man.
Actually, I'm getting a new one tomorrow.
Oh, yeah?
You want to spill?
No.
You'll see it on Instagram.
There you go.
But yeah, so your opinion has changed on the Passport Bro movement in general, I guess.
Or you've kind of seen why they're doing what they're doing?
I think I've just accommodated myself to American women so much over the last, you know, 10 years, 20 years.
And I just, it's like, okay, you know, there's ways of making do.
You know, there are quality women out there, and you have to learn how to vet and filter for them.
But it was great to be in a place where it was respectful, lovely, feminine, elegant women.
I mean, it was a treat.
Yeah.
Yeah, and I think, because we get asked so many times, like, yo, what are your thoughts on Password Bros, blah, blah, blah, and I've always said, like, dude, if you want to go abroad and find a girl, you can do that, but understand that American women don't give a fuck.
I don't know why you guys want us to talk so much about Password Bros as if American women care, because, like, The funny part is that, like, I say, oh, I'm going abroad.
Fuck this shit.
Fuck America.
Fuck the West.
I'm going to go find girls abroad.
Do it.
Do it.
But understand that American women, number one, are not going to change.
And then, number two, they really don't care, guys.
Like, when they ask that question on the Super Chat, I'll be like, you know what?
Raise your hands.
How many of you guys know about Passport Bros?
Like, maybe one girl on the show might know.
Zero, one.
But in general, most girls have zero concept of this idea of men leaving the West to go find women.
Most women don't know what it is.
But when they learn about it, they generally are very antagonistic to the idea.
And if they do find about it, exactly.
They'll lose even more respect for men that do it.
They might laugh about it or roast you, but that's about it.
Because they don't understand that quite literally, yes, there's a cesspool in the dating market for men here in the United States where it's like you've got to work really hard for virtually nothing.
So it makes sense a lot of times to go abroad.
But even if you mention that, like in her eyes, in Western women's eyes, they're going to look at it like, oh, well, you have to do that because you're of lower sexual market value.
I think the only way they'll actually feel the pain is if the guy that they actually want is the one doing it.
Guys that they don't care about, oh, you can leave.
I don't really care.
But all the guys that they cared about, six foot, successful, went abroad, then they would care.
So they have to.
Yeah, but women in general really don't give a fuck about what men think and what we're doing or what we're experiencing.
And I think men need to just understand that they really don't care and stop asking, what do women think about the Passport Bros movement?
Most of them have zero clue.
Well, I'm not surprised by the reaction because there's really only three ways that women have game.
I should probably make an episode about this, but why not?
Historically, they can only do three things.
One is they can throw sex at you.
And they say that a...
Way to a man's heart is through his stomach.
No, it's a little bit lower.
And if women can be crazy in the bedroom and they can do things that that man has never done with another woman, didn't even know it was possible to do with that anatomy, it's going to melt his brain.
He's not going to be able to think straight.
And if she plays her cards right, she's going to be able to lock him into a commitment before he even knows what's what.
The second way is through shame.
And they have their own version of Dread Game, which is that they shame men into doing what they want.
You have to man up.
A real man would step up and take responsibility.
These passport bros are just losers.
I mean, it reminds me of...
The women who would go around in the teens and shame publicly the men who didn't sign up for the draft to go fight in the war.
They would tie these, I think, yellow ribbons around them to show that they were cowards.
Though who knows why they weren't allowed to fight.
I'm sure that they didn't all simply not want to go.
We can't forget as well the age.
Oh, you like dating younger women?
You're a weirdo.
Yeah, but those young women like dating older men.
I mean, that's the truth, is that in no culture on the planet today and historically has the average age of a woman been older than the average age of a man at first marriage.
So it's like men date younger women because, in part, women like older men.
Because older men are more established, they're more successful, they're emotionally regulated.
There was that, did we talk about this last time, about that study, I think it was based on Tinder, that based on the actual swiping behavior of women, apparently the most attractive age for a man, they reach their peak sexual marketplace value at 50.
Yes, yes, I think we had some mention of that, yeah.
Yeah, that makes sense.
Yeah.
Patrick Dempsey, do you know who that is?
I've heard the name before.
He was just named people's sexiest man in the world.
I saw it, he's 57.
Yeah.
I believe it.
I mean, for men, I mean, if you do the work, you can actually really, you can maintain, if not actually even potentially increase your sexual market value as a man, you know what I mean?
Girls like the greys.
Wasn't it that guy, the actor, George Clooney, wasn't he also an icon too as well?
Yeah.
Idris Elba.
Yeah, Idris Elba.
All these dudes are older.
You know what I mean?
Like, The Rock.
You know what I mean?
Like, all these guys are significantly older.
If you look at them now versus, you know, 20, 30 years ago when they were younger, like, they get more women now, you know?
Sorry, so you were saying, and then what was the third way that they had the game?
The third way is actually in conjunction with the first two.
The third way is the takeaway, which is that, you know, and if they do things right, they either...
Throw the sex at you, and then they threaten to take it away.
Gotcha.
So it's like you either have to put a ring on the finger by this or we're done.
That's basically how they get killed.
The second one you mentioned, which is shaming men, and I think that's really important because a lot of guys don't even know that they're being shamed sometimes because it's so inclusive and popular American Western culture to say things to men like, grow up.
I remember one girl vividly said, oh, men are Peter Pan boys.
They don't want to grow up, etc.
Or, the most famous one is, you're having a midlife crisis, right?
And you made an entire video on this.
Can you break down this whole concept of midlife crisis that we say about men and why guys need to go in with their eyes wide open when they hear that insult?
Yeah, it's really interesting because it doesn't seem to affect everyone equally.
Clearly, not all men have midlife crises, and it seems very clear that more men seem to have midlife crises than women, and that's kind of strange.
I mean, if midlife crises are just about a growing awareness of our own mortality and how little time we may have left, it seems like that should affect women equally than men.
True.
Right?
Yeah.
So I do think that there's some component to that, is that it gets to be about 40 to 50.
You might have your first real brush with mortality.
Maybe you had your first real illness.
Maybe your parents are ill or they've passed on.
And you realize, wow, my grandparents are gone.
My parents are gone.
I'm actually next on the chopping block.
Who knows how much time I have left.
And when people...
I learned this when I worked with cancer patients for a couple years.
When people actually are facing not just an abstract idea of their own mortality, but a concrete manifestation of the time they have left, they get busy living as quickly as possible.
There's this famous psychologist named Irvin Yalom.
He said that cancer cures neurosis, which is basically like as soon as you have a real problem to deal with, all of your fake problems tend to disappear very, very quickly.
And neurosis is mistaking a fake problem for a real problem.
That's my definition of it.
Which causes real suffering, by the way.
So, the reason why I think certain men are subject to the midlife crisis is It tends to afflict guys who are more rule following, who are sacrificial, who have stepped up and done the right thing for most of their lives.
And I think they get to this point where they realize, oh, how much time do I have left?
And they think, my whole life I've been doing what other people have told me to do.
I've done what I should have done.
I've been a good boy.
You know, I've gone to school and I did what my teacher said.
I've gone to work and I've done what my employer said.
And then I've served my wife and my children dutifully for sometimes 10, 20 years.
And I think, well, what about me?
When do I get to live my life?
When do I get to benefit from the good and the value that I'm generating for all these people around me?
I want a cut of my own pie, too.
And it looks like a midlife crisis because potentially the last time these guys were allowed to think for themselves, to be selfish, was when they were teenagers, before they were more or less forced to assume responsibility, sometimes very early.
And so that's why I think a lot of male midlife crises look like teenage fantasies.
It's because they're kind of out of practice being selfish.
So it's like fast cars and hot women.
Nothing wrong with that, of course.
But one of the points that I made is that I think it's useful for guys to ask, what about me sooner?
Yes.
Earlier in their lives.
So it doesn't have to, like, explode in an orgy of adolescent, let's say, selfishness.
At 45.
I think it's good to be selfish.
Like, selfish is baked into the individual organism.
It's connected to our survival instincts.
I think trying to override our natural predilection for selfishness is probably going to cause more problems than it's going to solve, actually.
And I do think that the reason why men tend to have more midlife crises than women do is that women aren't out of practice asking, well, what about me?
This is something that they ask throughout their lives.
So I think if...
It's interesting.
The key here is to, I call it creative selfishness.
And that's kind of what makes the world go round.
Like, we're all in it for myself.
Like, Myron, can I just have some money?
Would you mind?
You have enough money, man.
Just give me some money.
I want to have some of your money.
Is that going to work?
Probably not.
Probably not, right?
Though he could spare it, I'm sure.
So I've got to be creative.
I've got to show up and provide something of value to be able to do business and transact with the world.
Because they're all out for themselves too, and they're gonna try to get what they need and want from me.
And so creative selfishness is how can I get what I want by being of value to other people?
That's like, how do I fit into the world among everybody, kind of the dog-eat-dog world of everybody all out for themselves?
I think you're right because in order for you to be selfless, you have to be selfish first.
Because how can you appreciate it if you were never the opposite?
So I think that's a good point.
There's also, we can appreciate that the self, the concept of the self continues to evolve.
Like Jordan Peterson talks about this, is that on higher and higher levels, you can conceive of the self as encompassing more and more of society.
Like in the beginning, selfishness is just you.
But then selfishness might be, like, your family.
Like, you wouldn't necessarily throw your family on the bus just to save yourself, right?
And so now there's some folks who might be more important or as important than you.
And then it might be their community.
Because what is the good of living in a house if the rest of your community is a war zone and it's unsafe and there's crime everywhere?
It's like, that's no way to live.
And so then you begin to take and assume kind of a greater conceptualization of self.
At the highest levels, we...
What's good for the individual is what is ultimately good for the greatest number of people.
We all have to get there together, eventually.
That was well said.
We're a long way off, but we all have to get there together.
Add on to that midlife crisis thing, because I've seen women use this a lot, right?
And they typically use it for guys that are kind of...
Having some fun because you mentioned something earlier that a lot of them end up where they're making a lot of sacrifice early on in their life to end up creating a certain platform for themselves to be able to be successful in their 30s or 40s, etc.
A lot of times they have to give up their 20s.
And this is what I did, honestly, to be honest.
Some girls tell me sometimes, oh, you're going through a midlife crisis, blah, blah, blah.
And in my head, I'm like...
I don't think it's a midlife crisis.
I look at it like more along the lines of I'm finally realizing my worth and I have the ability to do things that I wanted to do that I wasn't able to do before and it's always interesting because whenever women say oh you're going through a midlife crisis nine out of ten times they're saying that but They were the ones that had fun in their 20s.
They were able to do certain things They're able to experience certain things in life without necessarily having to sacrifice whereas the man you can't experience these things unless you sacrifice so If you tell an 18-year-old girl, 19-year-old girl, 20-year-old girl, whatever it is, hey, you should settle down and find a guy.
They'll look at you with three heads like, no, I'm not going to do that.
I'm going to live my life.
I'm going to do what I want to do.
But if a woman asks a guy in his 30s or his 40s, hey, why aren't you No, I'm going to live my life and do what I want to do.
And they're looking at them, oh, you're going through a midlife crisis.
No, I'm not going through a midlife crisis.
I just finally realized what my value is.
And it's not going ahead and committing to women that, quite frankly, decided to have their fun in their 20s and be whores.
While I had to go ahead and sacrifice, I want to go ahead and get her a girl when she's at her peak, when I'm at my peak.
And I think that's the best way for it to go.
But I think...
When women say the term, because it's typically females that say you're going through a midlife crisis, not really men.
If it's men, it's loser guys that are more beta.
And it's not out of concern.
A crisis sounds like a bad thing.
Are you okay?
It's definitely a pejorative term.
Yeah, 100% it is.
It's not actually concerned about the person's mental health.
It's a pejorative term to shame them into growing up.
You know, Peter Pan syndrome, I remember one girl said, a lot of guys have Peter Pan syndrome, blah, blah, blah.
Oh, how old are you again?
Oh, I'm 29.
Oh, yeah, now you want to go ahead and say that guys have Peter Pan syndrome.
You weren't calling people Peter Pan syndrome when you were 19 or 20.
You were having sex with those guys, and you were happy that they were willing to take you in a Ferrari and show you around and everything.
You loved the Peter Pans when you were at your peak, but now as you're getting older and you're trying to get some stability, now they're Peter Pans.
Now they're commitment phobes.
Now they're having midlife crises.
Now they're immature.
Now they're fuckboys, right?
But when the women are at their peak, none of this vocabulary is used when they're at their peak.
And typically, when you hear male crisis, you hear a guy that's around 40 plus at Hooters or Twin Peaks with a Corvette that's just drinking beer, watching sports, hitting on the girls that work there.
That's what you hear normally.
But on the other hand, women that call guys that, what are they doing?
Shaming them to go back to their family and stay in order.
So you're right, man.
Very good point.
It's just like the passport bros.
They think that that is a pathetic man.
Yes.
And what's really interesting about the grow-up talk is that you never, in every instance that it is utilized against men, and I think it's actually been used against me more often by other men, to be honest.
And there's a lot of men out there who are white knights who are looking out for the...
Yeah, I was going to say, they're typically simps that use that term.
It's women and simps.
But, sorry, continue, please.
But, like, every time it's been leveled against me, it's been a veiled attempt to...
Do what is best for the woman in question.
Like, no one ever pulled me aside and said, Orion, you know, man, you really need to be true to yourself.
And you need to spend the time to figure out what it is that makes you happy and to chase that with reckless abandon.
You need to man up and do that.
Or you need to man up and start that business that you've been talking about for 10 years.
You need to man up and leave that woman because you clearly don't have that genuine burning desire for her anymore.
She's not good for you, man.
Man up and just end it.
You never hear talk like that.
It's always put the ring on her.
Do the right thing.
Which is always do the right thing for the woman in question.
But they never say that to the women.
They say do the right thing for you.
That's the biggest difference.
Whenever advice is dispensed to females versus men.
It's only selfish if it doesn't benefit them.
By the way, Twitch, come to YouTube and rumble because we've said this too many times.
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What do we got here?
And someone asks, what are you wearing, bro?
I'll explain later.
It's coming, it's coming.
Yeah, coming with today's episode, which we're going to talk about the Diddy situation as well, guys.
Just wanted to catch up.
Can you read some of these chats real quick?
GreaseJunkiesDIY says, Fuck Bad Boys, it's a style record label, and it's a motherfucking crew.
And if you want to be done with Bad Boy, then fuck you too.
Chino XL, RP2PAC, West Coast.
There you go.
We got here, Derek the Trader says, Y'all know what time it is.
Fresh, you so ugly when you threw a boomerang, it didn't come back.
Ha ha ha!
That's pretty funny, bro.
He says as well, Fresh so ugly, when you were born, the doctor slapped your parents.
Okay, nigga.
Again, Derek says, Fresh, you're so ugly, because we gave you a Red Bull.
You're funny, man.
Okay, cool.
What's next?
How did I invite the ops on the podcast?
I mean, if I invite somebody on, I'll talk to Myron first, so I don't know what you're trying to say.
RizalRealm, shout out to you for subbing to Twitch.
Appreciate it.
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Honorable, always stick to his word.
Y'all kick on fire.
Maybe stream on there off and on to Rumble.
And at the British Garden, no one ran up on y'all.
Please second amendment him.
Guys, we're at Rumble all the way.
I'm not going on kick, so that's not happening.
Yeah, we're not leaving Rumble, man.
This is the home base, like I said, free speech.
You know, the president of Rumble is actually a good friend of ours.
We rock with him.
Like, we're not leaving.
So it is what it is, man.
We're here till the ship.
We went even, baby.
When we were down, and people hit on us, and we were, uh, there you go.
We were canceled.
Who had our back?
Rumble.
Shout out to Rumble, man.
So, yeah, man.
I get it.
I know Kik is like the young guy's streaming platform, but Rumble's better, bro.
No hate on Kik, but Rumble's better.
What else do we got here?
Blackest Panther.
Oh, Blackest Panther or Cam Two Times.
Okay.
I pulled a woman from Thailand, and this BBC is up.
I've never been with an Asian woman before.
I was thinking, what are y'all thoughts on black and Asian relationships, specifically black men and Asian women?
Dude, if you're happy, do it, bro.
Yeah, they could go create a Tiger Woods.
Black is back there.
I know Chaz says not to bring streamers or influencers on the pod, but it's 100% needed.
Their audience is why we have an OF pandemic of simps and men that have no self-respect.
Their audiences need RP content the most.
FNF will continue to change lives.
Yeah, guys, I mean, you know, like I said, I don't have a problem with Jack.
I don't have a problem with Neon, any of these young guys that are, you know, trying to make it with the streaming and doing the IRL thing.
Obviously, they have a younger audience that might need some guidance down the road, and, you know, we could collab and...
Sure.
Audience is great.
You know, we don't have a problem with Jack.
So, you know, it is what it is.
Tyler25, thanks for the value, guys.
Continue to deliver.
Keep y'all foot on the pedal.
2024, all gas, no brakes.
FNF and fam to the effin' mood.
Yeah, man.
Shout out to you, bro.
I appreciate that, Tyler.
He's been M.A. for a minute.
Shut the pedal on, man.
Appreciate that, my friend.
OG in his face.
Shout out to you, my friend.
I appreciate that.
What does that mean?
Shout out to you, bro.
Like he's going super same like that?
Yeah, he's going super same.
His workout's, by the way, on Instagram.
He's really in shape.
It's over 9,000!
The senior, should I hard reset my life and move back in with my parents?
I have children whose lives I'm very active in, but due to child support and random debt, I'm drowning.
I was making 80K at the beginning of the year and had to take a demotion.
Now I'm at 55.
Ooh.
Hey, bro, nothing wrong with doing that if you need to, man.
If you need to reset and go back with your family for a bit, it is what it is, man.
Make it happen.
You just need to focus on making more money, especially since you have family.
So this is Castle Club.
Shout out to y'all.
PsychHack's one of the most swagged-out white boys I know.
Dude is a fucking badass.
Love you and your channel, homie.
Come out to Vegas.
I'll have some...
Bad hoes waiting for you out here.
All right, Avenger.
He has no problems right now.
He's good.
Yeah, he's doing pretty well.
50s old, and he probably got a Japanese girlfriend now at this point, too.
50s old and no problem getting women.
Problem was maintaining frame and LTRs.
You helped with this.
I asked Rolo about dating if no interest in casual sex.
Myron, you instead told me to go watch H3 Podcast.
Not all supporters have the same problems, so just be kind to the supporters who ask genuine questions.
Wait, you helped with this.
I asked Rolo about dating if no interest in casual sex.
Myron, you said go to...
All right, man.
Okay, bro.
I mean, like I said before, because a lot of people are critical of me of, like, when I say, yo, you need to have had sex with 50 women before you actually think about, like, you know, taking marriage seriously, and you go, oh, bro, you're promoting the genesis, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah.
Look, man, I'm telling guys to be able to understand female nature and put yourself in a position where you're sexually experienced where a girl can't manipulate you.
I'm not saying 50 bodies is the...
End-all, be-all number, but it'll put you in a position where you should be able to understand female nature to a degree.
What are your thoughts on that, brother?
As far as, like, you know, people don't like that stance that I say, like, hey, you need to be 35, make 100K per year, six months of savings, be in shape, and hooked up with 50 chicks.
Do you think that's a bad, I guess, strategy to move before getting married?
No, we talked about that last time.
I tell guys they shouldn't seriously consider getting into a long-term committed relationship headed towards marriage until at least 35.
And I think that's for a number of good reasons.
One of the main reasons is that around 30 is the time when an average man's sexual marketplace value exceeds the average woman's sexual marketplace value for the very first time.
And until that happens, all through the 20s, a woman is going to be outclassing a guy left and right.
Yeah.
An average 22-year-old woman is going to have so much better options.
It's not even close.
It's not even close.
She smokes you.
She's beating celebrities.
She can't.
She's literally getting more attention than celebrities, man.
Well, being a really hot 23-year-old is basically the equivalent of being a billionaire scion, like an heir to a fortune, like a trust funder.
Yeah.
The world, you live in a bubble.
The world is just very different for you.
But even if you're not super hot, at least you're 23.
And the 23-year-olds, they're getting hit on by the 23-year-olds.
They're getting hit on by the 23-year-old's fathers.
They're getting hit on by the 23-year-old's grandfathers.
I mean, they got the pick of the litter, right?
In general, the person who has more options has more power.
And if you have more power, you have more leverage in dictating the terms of the relationship.
I mean, we've seen even recently, Cassie was 19.
Did he hit on her?
Yeah.
Multi-millionaire, power, successful.
Good point.
Can I have any girl in the world?
19-year-old.
Yep.
That's true, man.
Brother love!
And real quick, I got to ask you about this from a psychology perspective.
In a relationship, who do you think should have the leverage and what are the social ramifications of each if one party holds it?
Well, I think one of the reasons why we have yet to have a World War III is because of the nuclear bomb and that more than one country has it.
Like, if only the Americans developed the bomb, we probably would have become even more tyrannical than we have in the last 70 years.
But the fact that at the beginning just the USSR did, it created some deterrence between those two superpowers.
Yeah.
And I do think that it's important for men to develop optionality so that they can combat the passive optionality that a woman has just by being a woman.
And that kind of levels the playing field.
You don't necessarily have to be spinning plates, though that's one way to do it.
The best thing for a man to be is visibly competent.
Women, in order to increase their optionality, they want to be visibly attractive.
That's why they're on Instagram with the booty pics, right?
They're using their body as bait.
Men can't really do that.
A lot of guys, some guys can if they're really, you know, yoked.
I'll tell you from example, when you post shirtless photos, you get more attention from men.
So it doesn't help you as a guy.
Interesting.
Yeah, you get more.
Pause.
But when you're a guy and you're in really great shape, some girls will admire it, but to be honest with you, and ask any guy that's a fitness influencer, they'll tell you.
You get more attention from men.
Bro, how'd you get your biceps like that, et cetera, than women?
I got that about my car.
I thought I was going to be a chick magnet.
It turned out to be a dude magnet.
Dude.
Yeah, man.
Guys like, oh, fresh.
You bought Lama for girls.
No, dude.
It's older men that love cars and young kids, oh my god, that's my dream car.
Girls are like, is that a Ferrari?
Yeah, they don't even know, bro.
They don't know.
I got flagged out by a guy who was going the other direction.
He was like, stop, stop.
That was my dream car.
He made me pop the hood.
I mean, it was cute, but it was like- What car was it?
I have a Z4, a BMW Z4. Okay.
I really like that car.
Convertible?
It is.
It's a hardtop convertible.
Ooh.
Nice.
Right in the back.
I see how he's doing, man.
Midlife crisis?
Okay.
Midlife success, baby.
There you go.
But sorry, continue on.
So you were talking about the...
So men have to be visibly competent.
Yeah.
If you do something well, you want to make sure the world knows about it.
Yeah.
So, to be honest, I think that...
Clearly, there are things about being a high-value man, having high net worth, taking care of your body, but I think more than anything else, the magic sauce with women is fame.
Is to be, to have some...
Talked about that.
We called it years ago, bro!
Yeah.
Let him finish his thought, then we'll talk about our...
And why is that?
Because I think that, like, you have to understand, I'm sure you guys already know, but for the audience at home, that...
Attention for a woman is the equivalent of sex for a man.
Yes.
It's that reinforcing.
And if you are a man who can command an audience, whether it's a stage at your local theatrical production or it's on YouTube or on social media or what have you, and there are eyeballs looking at you, and there are men who respect you, and there are other women looking at you in admiration, like, women are going to find a way to get around you because then they can vicariously bask in the attention that you are receiving.
Yeah.
And women know subconsciously that as a man, if you have an audience or you have some level of notoriety or fame, you're doing something right because it's significantly harder for men to build an audience or get into the music industry or become an entertainer than it is for a female.
So they know deep down, they're like, alright, you're providing some kind of value if you're big.
I've always said, and I hate to say this, A guy that has like 10k followers on Instagram is like the equivalent to like a girl that has like 250k on Instagram.
10,000 on Instagram is tough.
As a dude, you got 10k on Instagram, girls are going to be like, oh, this guy's fucking doing something.
That's a benchmark.
You know, that's like a benchmark where, because let's be honest, a regular bimbo can have 100,000 on Instagram with like no pictures up because men are that thirsty.
But as a dude, if you're going to have that kind of following, you're doing something right.
It's kind of depressing.
They can just do a little dance and put on makeup and some music and they have a million followers.
Dude.
There's girls I know on TikTok that literally just make videos about, I'm tall, and they make a bunch of fucking money.
But fame is really, really important.
A lot of guys don't believe this.
We'll leave aside this recent celebrity that I've established, but it was so much easier for me to attract women when I was a broke actor living in New York City than as a rich doctor in my 30s.
And I think it's because I had my stage, and the lights were on me, and people were looking up, and there was the reviews.
Ah, the social status.
Exactly.
You know, you're the contextual alpha.
Being a leading man on a stage, even if it's not a Broadway show, people are going to be waiting at the stage door.
You know, you mentioned the contextual alpha.
That is so goddamn important, because I've told people this before, that if you're at the right place at the right time with this right situation and context...
You can be that guy.
Absolutely.
You don't have to necessarily be the most attractive guy or the most physically capable guy, whatever, but if you are the top guy in your certain social niche or circle, you'll be fine.
This is why, like, when I used to work in, you know, regular jobs, right, when I was, you guys know I worked at McDonald's, got fired from that, and then I worked in loss prevention at Macy's, et cetera, the girls were hooking up with, like, the managers or the bosses, et cetera, and these guys were relatively lower value, right?
I don't know, some fucking, you know, that's a whole other thing.
Some crazy bitches hit me up, guys.
Sorry.
What the hell?
What the heck?
Just block that whore, man.
I don't even know who she is.
Anyway.
I swear to God, bro.
I don't know who this chick is.
Best of Asian chick, bro.
What's going on, nigga?
Bro.
Yeah, man.
Why'd she look Asian, too?
Yeah.
She did?
She did, man.
I watched her video and said I'm going to hit up...
No, I'm just kidding.
Ball jokes aside.
Ball jokes aside.
Bro, I'm telling y'all niggas, I don't know who it is.
Turn that off before you go live?
Yeah, sorry.
Bro, what?
Bro.
We're talking about, oh yeah, Contextual Alphas.
Yes.
So they were hooking up with the managers and stuff, and if you look at these guys on paper, they're lower value.
I mean, the guys making, I remember back then, we were making like 8, 9, 10 bucks an hour.
He was making like an 11, but he was getting a bunch of the girls.
But why?
Because in that situation, he was getting a lot of the cases.
The management loved him.
He was one of the better, we call them story detectives, right?
Catching people that are shoplifting.
He was getting chicks.
The guy had done a DUI and stuff and whatever, but he was getting women.
How?
Because in that case, in that scenario, he was a contextual alpha, so he was able to hook up with a bunch of girls that worked at Macy's at the time.
So I think that's also very important, especially since most men meet women through social circle game.
Most guys aren't out here cold approaching and doing all this other shit to the same degree that we talk about here in RP. Most guys are literally meeting women through social circle, contextual alphas work, etc.
Apps, maybe.
That's the furthest they'll get into meeting someone that's different or completely out of their social circle.
But yeah, that's very important.
But yeah, you're talking about your acting thing.
And just to add to your point as well, this is why they will take you dating other women as well.
Because they see you as the guy that gets other girls.
But if you're an average guy, I'm not sharing an average guy.
Why would I do that?
Best way to get a woman is to have a woman.
Exactly.
Women want what other women want.
You're married?
You got girls around you?
Nothing works better than marriage, because what it does is it kind of makes you safe.
Because women actually kind of want to be nicer to guys, but guys, no one's ever nice to them, and so they can't decide whether this woman is just being friendly or she's flirting with him.
That's why they tend to fall in love with the barista who smiles at them, because he's the only person who fucking smiles at him all day.
It's the only, like, actual positive...
Hey, Chad!
Here's your treat, Chad!
So true, bro.
She's my wife.
Kinda.
Right?
But if you're married, it's like, oh, this can't lead to anything, so I'm going to touch you, I'm going to get close to you, I can open up to you.
I applaud with my ability.
Also, at least one other woman has vetted you and said that you were the best that she could do.
Yeah.
And it's actually, I mean, it's just like recruiting.
It's always easier to steal somebody else's man than to get your own, because it's just 1v1 versus maybe like 1v100, you know what I'm saying?
Yeah.
That's a good point.
No, no, so true, man.
Give me some more chats here.
Yeah, I'll go back to it.
Oh, in a relationship, is it better to be loved or feared?
Ooh.
I think feared.
Because she will love you after that.
But obviously not from a violent standpoint.
It's more of a losing you standpoint.
What do you think?
I think fear is the basis of respect.
And if a woman doesn't respect you, she can't love you.
There you go.
So she shouldn't be like...
She shouldn't be, like, actually fearful for her safety or security, but I like that.
I mean, King Solomon said that the basis of wisdom is the fear of the Lord.
You know, it's like when we live in holy terror, we can kind of get our lives together and live in a better way.
Also, look at love itself.
It's a feeling that's there, but the moment you do something that she doesn't love, it can fade away.
It's conditional.
Yeah.
And I've always said, if you're gonna look at, the example I give for guys is, if you look at love as like a tree, the seed of the love of tree is literally fear.
Because fear is a necessary requirement for respect, right?
So, in order for a woman to respect you, she has to fear you, and the only way she fears you is by fear of loss, of you walking away.
That's when you're able to get her admiration because, like, okay, I had to work to earn this guy's affection, and I respect him, and I fear losing him.
That's how you get women attached.
But the problem is that a lot of guys, like, have girls that don't give a fuck if they lose them.
And that's why you get the disrespect, you get the ridiculousness, she calls you out your name.
And, you know, there's a bunch of y'all probably watch this podcast right now.
Your girl be nagging you and talking shit to you.
You know, embarrassing you in public, etc.
She's just with you because you're a placeholder boyfriend.
And I don't think enough guys can identify this situation that she's only with me and tolerating me because I'm the best that she could do now.
But if she finds another guy or maybe she might even be cheating on me or whatever, I'm just some level of comfort.
Or maybe she's with me out of necessity because I pay bills or whatever.
But this is why guys need to understand that you need to get respect from your girl first.
That's so important, man.
Yeah.
But that comes from fear.
What else do we got here?
25-year-old electrician, $70,000 a year, saving to FHA Triplex, which go for $150,000, $300,000 in my rural area.
To maximize my savings, I move back with my family.
My issue is that, let me get home at this age, demoralize me, and makes me feel like a failure for not having my life together on my own feet, even knowing I'm saving towards something greater, especially when I have to tell women.
Any advice to keep my head above water during this, and how much do you recommend I save before buying?
Bro, yo, dude, you're 25 years old, man.
See, here's the problem, right?
He's putting women into his plan already.
You're not where you want to be yet.
So, honestly speaking, right now, if you have women to your factor of your current status right now, it will never work out anyway.
So, put yourself first.
Be selfish a little bit.
So, you know what?
Damn.
All right.
I got to buckle down, be with my family for a little bit.
But when it's finished and I'm done, I'll be set.
Yeah.
Delayed gratification, my man.
You just gotta, you know, suck it up and keep going.
Like, you know, instead of thinking to yourself, like, oh my god, I gotta go back and live with my family, think, oh, I get to go back and live with my family.
Instead of saying, oh my god, I gotta save this money, say, I get to save this money.
Instead of saying, oh my god, I gotta buy this house, blah, blah.
No, say, I get to buy this house, which will eventually create wealth for me and passive income, and then I'll be able to go in and get women.
Stop being a fucking bitch, man.
That's some NLP shit there, man.
That's good.
You just gotta be able to do that, yeah.
You gotta reframe the situation and realize how blessed you really are to even be able to do that.
He's an electrician at 25.
It means he probably doesn't have debt.
He went into the trades.
He's ahead of most 25-year-olds who are coming out of college.
Yeah, he'll be making $100,000 very soon if he keeps going, you know what I mean?
So, yeah, dude, take this time to work really hard.
And if you've got extra time, get another fucking job, man.
Red Pill Life, WFNF for checking that dork, Jack, and OF304. All right, man.
My boy Fresh rocking the Uncle Elroy from Friday Drip today.
Spell Versace, okay?
S-O-S-A-C-H-E. No, you missed the whole point, my friend.
The whole point was, you talk shit about Myron, he's not here.
Again, like, this is my co-host here on the panel.
It's someone talking shit and he's not here.
That's fucked up.
Now, granted as well, he was heated from the previous debacle with his girl.
And I'm like, alright bro, it's funny whatever when he's not here, but say it when he's here.
You can't.
Oh, it's a joke now.
Alright, cool.
But it's what it is.
Appreciate that, my friend.
Yeah, of course.
Stick it up for me.
What else do we got here?
I just wonder, if you had a friend or associate, and some talk shit about them behind their back, what would you do as a watcher?
Are you going to sit there and be like, oh, that was funny?
Some of you guys are weird, man.
Honestly speaking, bro.
Weirdos, bro.
Honor's not even a real thing anymore.
Nah, it's not, man.
Guys, what are your thoughts about the book called 48 Laws of Power?
Good book.
Good book.
60 Minute Man.
To Psych Hacks, how can a man attain attraction from his girl after losing a fight or is it a lost cause?
Ooh, a good one.
A fight with a man?
I'm thinking he's meaning a physical confrontation where he gets beat up.
Yeah.
Let's say a boxing match or even in real life.
Well, did he put up a good fight?
I mean, it's like, if you can take one on the chin, even if you don't win, at least you can kind of...
You scraped for it.
I think that that's respectable.
I've never had to be in that situation, so I'm not really sure.
Because there's been cases where guys will have a fight, like an actual legit fight, and they lose, and the girl's like, wow, this guy's not who I thought he was going to be, and then they leave.
Sure, that's very like...
Yeah, you know mammalian.
I mean that's like when the alpha's the the male primates are fighting and the loser gets demoted in the social hierarchy and loses its access to the women It's like I think that's pretty primal.
It's probably baked into a lot of women's psychology I'll never forget those this girl She was dating this MMA guy and she watched her boyfriend get beat up in the cage and You know, obviously it's a fight, but it's a, you know, a sport-sanctioned bout, whatever.
But I guess, you know, going back to what you were saying, like the mammalian side, right, because we're animals and mammals at the end of the day, she lost attraction from him and she broke up with him after that fight.
And it's like, I think women watching their guy get beat up by another man does something in their head where they just lose attraction from a primal standpoint because he's effectively displayed...
Oh, I can't protect you.
Even though he's a world-class fighter, could beat up 99% of men in her eyes, right?
It's just not a good look.
So it's like, it's the same reason why I tell guys not to cry in front of girls.
You don't necessarily want to fight in front of your girl, you know, if you're going to lose.
Like, these are all things that can, like, set you back big time because the problem with women is that they're emotional and erratic lovers.
So it's like, they can change like that if they can get turned off so quickly.
And they tend to get bored with men faster than men get bored with them.
So it's like, yeah.
Anyway, what else do we got here?
Um...
How can...
Okay.
Have you heard an academic song about Selena Powell?
It's called Selena...
No, I haven't heard it.
DripCon, I've heard Psych Hacks on the last show mention that Hollywood version of romance is false, but don't go into much detail.
Could you explain what he meant by that?
I don't know if we have time for that.
Boys, if you haven't already listened to Drake's new song, If The Shoe Fits, it's gotta be a Top 10 Red Pill song because it speaks on girls right now.
Shit's funny because it's okay if he says it.
Yeah, he mentioned, basically, he saw a girl's Instagram.
Shorty's so fine.
Click the link tree on her sucking dick.
Gotta be out of her mind.
Yeah, that is what it is, man.
Yeah, he has some bars in that one.
That shit was lit.
She was lit.
That shit was hard, man.
Shut a drink, man.
Yeah, thanks.
That was pretty hard.
What else do we got here?
Fuentes, Psych Hacks is one of my favorite FNF episodes.
I became RP aware this year.
Thanks to FNF after a bad experience.
Do you believe in order to be RP aware you must go through the bad first?
No.
Fortunately for me, I didn't really get destroyed by a chick to become RP aware, but I watched my friends get destroyed.
So you don't necessarily need to go through it, but you will be way more receptive if you are the one that is the one getting destroyed.
Jaylex goes, thoughts on Leslie Jones' comment on men not smashing her right and Corey Holcomb roasting her about it?
Also, Corey Holcomb will be a great guest for the show.
I'm unaware of who any of these people are.
Is that a comedian?
Yes.
Oh.
Okay.
Fuck kicking those gambling scumbags, ruining lives daily.
Don't gamble unless you have to have one, a miserable life.
Yeah, bro.
That's why I'm not for the gambling.
Yeah, at all.
Anything else?
Guys, from this point forward, we're going to go 50 and up because we still got to cover the topic with Diddy.
So, I work at Canadian Oil Patch, making 200 G's a year, working on getting fit and growing passive income.
I can only pull fat girls and don't enjoy sleeping with them.
So now I'm in a statistic of one third of sexless men thinking about being a passport, bro.
If you can only pull fat chicks, bro, it's one of two things.
Either A, your sexual market value is low, or B, you're just awkward and weird and women don't find you attractive.
You know what's crazy?
Like, I don't guys give a bad rap to, like, fat chicks.
Bro, they're actually helping you.
I'll tell you why.
You're still getting...
No, hold on.
You're still getting laid, even though you shouldn't be getting laid at all.
You're getting some access.
So while you work on yourself, you can become better.
You can cut it off.
Slay the grunts and get your level up?
Exactly.
So imagine...
You had no sex whatsoever during a period of time.
You'd be going crazy, bro.
At least to give you a service.
Might not be the best service, but it's a warm place to rest your head until you wake up to the next mission.
I'm deadass, bro.
It's true.
Sex does keep you in a non-hungry state, which allows you to...
To be indifferent with respect to pursuing better options, like you cannot go from being single to dating a nine.
That's just that cannot happen.
It's very difficult.
So I talk to guys about spinning plates.
It's like, first you got to get three fives.
And then once you got those, you don't need another five.
So you just go after a six.
She's better, but she's not that better.
So it's not going to be so scary.
And then you pull her and then you're like, okay, well, which of these fives are going to go?
Or can I squeeze her in?
And then before you know it, you got three sixes and you build up from there.
Yeah.
You gotta have that non-hungry state.
A starving person only thinks about food.
Exactly.
That's the other reason why I think guys need to get 50 chicks, man.
Bro, if you've never banged a girl before or you're sexually inexperienced, well, girls will sell you a dream and you'll believe it because you're stupid.
I'll tell you this, man.
I appreciate all the BBWs I had.
They were harder for the cheese, man, because they know what's up.
Hey, listen, bro.
Oh, man.
If you're a nigga like me, you understand.
Fresh is taking down some biggies.
I'm just going to say it, man.
It was tough at the beginning, bro.
We're here now.
We're here now.
Talk your shit, Fresh.
Talk your shit, Fresh.
I've done it before.
I ain't gonna lie and tell y'all, but man, I can't do it no more.
I preferred older women when I was starting out as opposed to the bigger women.
Dude, so my actual beginning body count was older foreign women that were either divorced or looking for fun in islands.
That was my predominant, I want to say, type.
And then obviously what I can get is some bigger chicks, of course.
But that experience and learning, for example, dealing with those women, I was like, damn.
Now that I'm equipped with these grunts, so to speak, I can level up and then go further.
Sure.
You cut your teeth.
Yeah.
Yeah.
Man, I was like, what the fuck?
No, no, no.
I get it, man.
I get it.
I'm not going to sit here and be like, I've never done it.
No, I have.
I just fucked that shit, man.
I can't do it.
Not anymore.
You don't have to anymore.
Yeah, I've done it before.
I try it out.
I'm like, nah, the same for me.
Midlife Crisis is just a man breaking out from being an NPC and trying to become a player.
It's shamed to keep trapped.
Psych Hacks, you cookin'.
Solution selling is the best way to do business.
Absolutely, man.
Alright, so we're gonna go ahead, guys.
Again, from this point, we're only 50 and up, but we're gonna go ahead and hit the topic at hand.
As you guys know, we talked about...
Well, actually, this news broke what, like yesterday?
Literally, this morning I believe.
Within the past 24 to 36 hours, this news broke about Diddy.
If you guys don't know who Diddy is, can we pull up his wiki real fast?
The young people might not know.
Brother Love, Love, aka P. Diddy, aka the Booty Bandit.
What?
I'm just kidding.
I'm just kidding.
That's what they say on live.
Hey, Diddy's that guy though.
Diddy's that guy.
He's a legend, though.
In industry, music.
Yeah, for New Gen Zers, you guys might not know.
He's before a lot of y'all times.
But yeah, it used to be Puff Daddy.
That's how old I am.
I remember it was Puff Daddy.
But Sean Love Combs, 1969.
God damn!
God.
Okay.
Also known by...
It looks good for his age, though.
Pause.
Yo, men age like why, baby?
Yo.
Yo, born in 69?
God damn!
Yo, I'm not gonna lie, bro.
I've seen him a couple times.
Dude, he was running around the Zodiac Killer was killing people.
Dude, he looks like he's like 30.
Real talk.
He moves like he's 32.
Yeah.
Anyway, also known by his stage names Pup Daddy P, Diddy, and Diddy, is an American rapper, singer, record producer, record executive, and actor.
Born in Harlem, Combs worked as a talent director at Uptown Records before founding his own record label, Bad Boy, 1993.
Combs has produced and cultivated artists such as The Notorious B.I.G., Mary J. Blige, and Usher.
And Cassie.
Yeah, they didn't put her on there, did they?
Oh, Lord!
Oh, man!
Yeah, his debut album, No Way Out 97, has a certified seven times platinum.
The album was followed with Forever 99.
The side continues at Press Play 2006.
In 2009, Combs formed the musical group Diddy Dirty Money with singers Kalina Harper and Don Richard.
They released their collaborative album, Last Train of Paris.
In September 2023, Combs released his fifth studio album, The Love Album, Off the Grid.
You know, it's interesting because...
I remember when he had that show, Making a Band.
And he did like part two and all that.
That shit was crazy as fuck.
It was on MTV back in the day.
Bro, I love that shit.
Y'all remember that?
The band, Making a Band?
I love that shit.
I don't know where any of them guys are now.
What?
Nowhere, unfortunately.
Yeah, they're nowhere.
Of course, I was watching the R&B one, bro.
Y'all already know.
Of course.
What?
Day 26 was fire, flames, bro.
This guy, Moe, man.
Anyway...
Zesty Mo in the house.
So now that we know who Didya is, we should pull up Cassie too.
Let's pull up Cassie real fast.
And then we got the lawsuit here.
In the meantime, obviously people know Didya as the guy in the music industry.
He's pretty much the guy at the very top of the food chain.
He brought Biggie to the mainstream, made him who he is today.
Obviously, rest in peace to him.
But, you know, amongst the accolades of Diddy and his well-being and his, you know, current wealthy status, there's a lot of allegations around his, like, sex life, what he does behind the scenes.
And it's crazy because on some level...
You haven't really heard a full story on him to give you that, like, okay, this is 100% true.
We've heard little tidbits here and there of people saying this and that, you know, kind of like hush-hush.
But recently, we've seen Cassie come out, which is his, like, longtime lover, girlfriend, aka more so than that, saying that he did multiple deplorable acts.
And it's crazy because this is the first time ever...
It's been this public to this level where someone that close to him brought it up.
And I think for most people, they're like, wow, maybe it is true what they heard about Diddy from the past and all the other allegations.
Because on some level, you would think him at his level, oh, that's not true, you know, he'll never do that.
But to hear someone this close to him say these things, I mean, dude, is it true?
Is it not?
We're going to find out eventually.
So, have you guys here?
Yeah, read this chat.
Or she could be mad that he cut her off, too.
I mean, who knows, man?
Who knows?
Okay, Derek Trader says, question for the panel.
How bad of a long-term effect will OnlyFans have on the data market?
A working finance and a company is growing at an incredible rate.
For example, payment to creators in 2022 was a staggering $5.6 billion source of Bloomberg.
I want to get Orion's opinion on this.
Real quick, do we have Cassie's thing?
We do, but...
Okay, let's get your take on it.
Because we've talked about OnlyFans at Nauseam.
What do you think the impact will be on this OnlyFans economy that we have long term?
It's only going to grow.
It's only going to get bigger.
It's actually just using technology to leverage something that women have been doing for centuries.
Well said.
Good point.
So, in general, men exchange resources for sexual opportunity and women exchange sexual opportunity for resources.
And if either party can get what they want more cheaply, more safely, or more easily than in relationships in real life, they will do so.
Yes.
That's just true.
And so what a woman can now do is she can leverage her one sexual opportunity, whereas in the past it was tied more or less to one or maybe just a few men.
Using technology, she can leverage that one opportunity to literally millions of men.
And it's completely safe to her because she has, you know, a screen between him and her.
I remember I watched a TikTok just recently where a woman seems to be flying in first class.
You know, who knows if this is real?
But the caption says, I just realized, how am I going to pay for this flight?
And it cuts to her in the bathroom and she's kind of like putting her shirt back on.
So the idea is she did some sort of like quick OnlyFans streams in the bathroom of the airplane to get the kind of money that she needs to just fund the airplane.
And whereas before, if a woman needed something, she would just go like hit up her husband.
You know what I'm saying?
Hey, you know, I got to powder my nose.
We need an extra hundred bucks for this.
Now she just has men in general that she can go to for money.
And she just gives a little sugar, and the guys will throw dollars on the virtual stage.
And so on some level, it's going to be harder and harder for women to resist that pull.
Because it allows them access, well, kind of.
I talk about in my book that there are captains and passengers.
And those are actually gender-neutral roles.
Like, women in today's day and age are actually encouraged and supported to be captains, right?
But because they're women, they're going to go about their captaincy in different ways.
And on some level...
What we see as a female captain is how can I load as many passengers onto my boat by leveraging my sexual opportunity?
So these TikTok stars, these OnlyFans stars, they're kind of like female captains.
They're like, just like a male captain is like, I want to get as many women on my boat as possible.
Because I'm going to use my status and resources.
Well, women are selling their sex for money, and they can do so on a grand scale now.
And I think that's going to lure more and more, especially young women, into that, and it's going to be very hard for them further down the road.
Well, I'll take it a step further.
So I was talking to this girl, and her friend is a nurse and necessitist, making easily somewhere between $100,000 to $200,000 per year.
Still, on a sugar site, that's why I tell y'all a lot of the times, sugar sites are good for meeting different types of girls.
Of course, you guys say, oh, you guys go sugar babies, blah, blah.
We use sugar sites to date, right?
And you can actually meet a lot of successful women.
As a matter of fact, it's a lot of lawyers, doctors, etc.
They're on those sites to screen out brokies, right?
So you can actually, if you're one of these guys that wants a girl that isn't necessarily a brokie or a girl that you can...
Converse about certain topics, whatever the fuck it is.
You'll find them on that site, right?
A lot of times their profile's private and they'll contact you.
Whole other conversation.
Point I'm trying to make is this.
She's a professional making a significant amount of money.
But what does she do?
She's still on there looking for guys to pay her rent, looking for guys to buy her bags, still exploiting, right, her sexuality for some type of benefit.
And what I've realized is that regardless of a woman's income, status, etc., A lot of them will still find a way or regress back to sexualizing themselves to get something out of men.
And if they can do it without having to necessarily give up the box, they will do it.
This girl had a boyfriend the whole time that she was doing it, man.
And with the internet, women are basically able to scale their sexuality now at an unprecedented level.
And they're able to do it safely now.
It used to be you had to be at a strip club and deal with weirdos touching you.
It used to be in the Wild West during the gold rush, you had to be a prostitute and risk chlamydia and syphilis to have sex with, you know, Westerners that were, you know...
Going to the West during the gold rush and, you know, risk getting killed by Native Americans, Comanches, and all this other bullshit.
But now, women are able to do it through the safety of the internet and home, and you had a key word there, sexual opportunity.
AKA, it doesn't actually have to happen.
Just the guise of potentially happening or the fantasy is enough.
That's how webcam succeeds.
That's why if you look at OnlyFans creators, half these chicks that make a lot of money, They have a boyfriend or they have a dude that they're with, but they don't show that because it's going to significantly affect their ability to collect revenue.
I'd also like to add as well that these girls are only fans pretty much.
They want love too.
Just that on some level, they have attention at their beck and call and it kind of like has a placebo effect because it kind of gives them that like, you know what, I'm getting all this attention, but they're missing the love aspect.
But the problem is, once you go down this path of only fans, The guys that they actually want, don't want them.
It's a cycle of meeting guys, getting smashed, getting tossed back to the dating pool.
And I can only imagine how depressed they're going to be when they get older.
Because it's going to be even harder.
Yeah, I gave a prediction, and I'd love to get your take on this.
I have a prediction that we're going to have...
We already have a multitude of women suffering from mental illnesses of anxiety and, you know, depression and withdrawals, whatever the fuck it is.
Nearly every woman I personally know is on psychiatric medication.
Wow!
That's crazy!
Wow.
I predict...
And I said this on another episode, but I'm going to say it one more time.
In the next 20 to 30 years, when these Gen Zers are older and past the wall, because they're really the ones that are on the forefront of this stuff.
People in our age group in our 30s, we still remember what it was like to not have social media and growing up on iPads.
But these Gen Zers, born in the late 90s and early 2000s, dude, them especially...
In the next 30 to 40 years, you're going to see a mass spike in mental medication prescriptions.
Because it used to be...
Look at Britney Spears right now.
Britney Spears is off her fucking rocker.
If you guys look at her on Twitter, she's dancing around with knives and going crazy, blah, blah, blah.
And she was famous back in the 90s at a crazy level.
This was before social media.
That's what I call real fame.
She was famous as fuck.
Now you have regular chicks.
Regular ass girls that have huge audiences, enormous amounts of attention.
They're cutting, contacting on the internet all the time.
They're almost like pseudo-celebrities, right?
Maybe not to the level of Britney Spears, but they're getting damn near the same amount of attention that she got 20 years ago.
You're telling me that that's not going to affect them mentally?
They're not going to be dancing around in a fucking thong with knives and shit like that in the next 20-30 years when they hit the wall and they're no longer able to elicit the same attention they did because now the new younger girls on the block are getting all the attention?
I genuinely think we're going to have a mass increase in...
Psychiatric medication being prescribed to young women or older women now at that point.
I agree with everything you guys have just said and I think that we have to be very...
Let's go talk a little bit more about what attention is.
It's not just eyeballs on you.
It is a rush.
Like I remember that from my days as an actor.
It's like when you walk on stage and the lights are on you and the whole audience, hundreds of people are quiet and they're focused and attentive to whatever you're doing.
It is an emotional, exhilarating experience.
And I know women who won't, like they're professionals, they're in relationships, they'll keep stripping.
They'll keep doing things on OnlyFan because I think they miss that rush.
I miss it sometimes.
It's like I don't miss being an actor, but I miss performing because it's really like no other experience in the world.
You don't even get it here.
Like I know that there's nearly 10,000 people watching us, but They're out there.
To have that living, breathing attention, it's not just notoriety.
It's an emotional euphoria.
We saw recently Joe Smith and his wife, right?
And he married her, and she kind of stopped the behavior of the corn scenes and the stripping stuff.
And the moment things slow down, what does she do?
Go right back to it.
But this time, I'm an OnlyFans.
So you're right, man.
That rush, that actual, I want to say, level of attention, it's hard to find that anywhere.
So it's scary.
And I think women getting it at an unprecedented level on a mass scale, right?
Yeah.
It's gonna make them go crazy.
I mean, there was this one woman, I forget her name, Moe, maybe if you could remind me.
We talked about this with Rollo Tomasi.
Model?
She was a model.
Older.
She was Playboy, Playmate, whatever.
She was dating a rockstar, etc.
She's like in her 50s or 60s now, right?
And unfortunately, Caucasian women tend to age pretty poorly.
She's way beyond her great years.
Milk!
Yeah, it's spoiled.
Definitely.
But she was hot back in the day.
She's literally, like, posting Instagram posts about, like, oh, I'm invisible now.
This sucks, blah, blah, blah.
And I'm like, welcome to being a fucking guy.
Like, holy shit.
But it's like, she can't, like, handle it.
Like, she's literally posting pictures of herself crying on the thing.
Like, I don't know how to handle this, blah, blah, blah.
I'm invisible now, blah, blah, blah.
All this other shit.
And I'm like, wow.
And this is a girl that experienced a fraction of the attention of And validation that modern women are experiencing now.
And here's the other thing too, I don't know if you guys, there was a documentary that came out like a year or two ago on social media and how they purposely make it to make you addicted to the likes.
Even the way they put the graphics on the app when you get a notification or you get a new message or whatever.
They design it in a way to keep you coming back.
This is why, man, I can't tell you how many times we've seen girls lose their Instagrams or whatever it may be.
They freak out!
They literally lose their mind.
They don't even make money on it.
There's not even a business on there.
But they lose their fucking minds because that addiction, that dopamine hit, when people like your posts or people comment or people send you messages or validate your behavior, it's a real thing.
It's huge for them.
You know what's scary?
So there's a guy in L.A. that is kind of like a scammer.
And what he'll do is he'll ban the Instagram girl's account that he wants.
And they say, hey, you want this shit back?
You gotta fuck.
Oh god!
And you know what's crazy?
Like, from what I've heard, 9 or 10 times, they fuck for the pageback.
No kidding.
That's crazy.
This guy's hideous, bro.
That nigga going to jail, bro.
For real, bro.
He's going to get busted for that.
That level of, I want to say, manipulation won't be worse because they need it back that badly.
That's crazy, bro.
Here's another thing to keep in mind.
That's one of the reasons why the dynamic between women and their mothers is so complicated.
Because there's actually a lot of potential envy in that relationship.
You see a woman who's past her prime who sees her daughter getting the attention that she used to have.
And I think that's part of what makes mother-daughter relationships really interesting and complex that we don't really have to deal with.
Interesting.
Okay.
So let's pull up Cassie now.
So we talked about Diddy Guys, obviously entrepreneur, extremely successful, been around for damn near over 30 years.
Yep.
Made a bunch of artists.
To include her, Cassie Elizabeth, Cassie Ventura, born August 26, 1986.
God damn, she's older than me.
Real quick, man.
We got a panel here, man.
Guys on the panel.
Who drew her?
One out of ten.
One out of ten psych hacks.
At her peak.
In that picture?
Yeah.
I mean, she's a very good-looking woman.
I mean, I guess I'd give her an eight in that picture.
Okay.
What would you rate her?
I'd give her a solid eight, man.
She's pretty attractive.
Yeah, I'd give her an eight, too.
Yeah, 8.5?
Eight?
I mean, 19, hot, young, bro.
Yeah, at her peak, yeah.
Most guys would want that in a heartbeat.
Yeah.
She's an American singer, songwriter, model, actress, and dancer.
Born in New London, Connecticut.
Oh, shit.
Okay.
I know where that's at.
She began her musical career after meeting record producer Ryan Leslie in late 2004, who signed her to his record label, Next Election Lifestyle Group.
Two years later, Ventura released her debut, Me and You.
Oh, yeah.
I remember that song.
Me and you.
Now, I'll be waiting.
Waiting on a phone like you.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
That's how it goes.
Yep.
Tell me if you like it.
Yo, back in the days, man.
Yo, man, I'm surprised we even know that song, nigga.
You were in Barbados.
Coconuts!
Hey, man!
Coconut time!
Let's go!
Me and you!
Me and you better!
Tell me if you had it!
Yeah, I remember that shit.
Um...
Which was discovered by rapper Sean Diddy Combs.
Leslie agreed to partner with his next selection imprint with Combs' Bad Boy Records for the commercial release of her debut album as the song marked her first entry on the Billboard 100.
It soon peaked at number three on the chart in July 2006.
Yeah, I remember this shit was a hit.
So, damn, she 37 now?
God damn.
God damn, dude.
Time flies.
Time flies when you're having fun, huh?
2006, like, bro, nigga, that's Jim Jones' We Fly High.
Whoa!
That shit came out at that time.
What were you doing in 06?
I was 16 years old.
I was in high school.
I was junior year.
Yeah.
What were you doing in 06?
I had just graduated college.
I was trying to make it as an actor in New York City, so I was going to a lot of parties and putting on shows and touring around.
Justin Timberlake could come out with, I think, like, My Love.
My love.
Oh, no.
That song.
That's the number one song for selling a girl a dream, by the way.
Lying up bitches on that song.
I can see his holding hands.
I'm gonna beat your toes in his head.
I can see his in the countryside.
That's the number one song.
That's how you line a dream.
You play that song.
Yeah, we're gonna have a future together.
That shit's a fucking lie, bro.
The sell her a dream.
Justin Timberlake.
Yeah, my love.
That's definitely...
He's like, I've done that before.
That's hilarious.
Future faking, that's what we call that.
Future faking.
Yeah, that is future faking.
It works, though.
I'll tell you that.
Okay.
Woo!
That should be an honorable mention on our Red Pill songs right there.
That shit's a lie.
Finesse.
Yeah, we did it in the Blue Pill songs, kind of, but it's also a Red Pill song if you spin it the other way.
If you know, you know.
But okay, so yeah, we read it.
Okay, so guys, so basically, we have a video to play, right?
We have a video to play.
Yeah, let's run it real quick and then we'll pull up the lawsuit.
Of what's happening right now.
Yo, I'm not gonna lie, man.
Like, this is crazy because for the first time in history...
He's being exposed by somebody this close to him, it actually hurt his image.
Not fully hurt his career, of course, but his image-wise, this is heavy, bro.
Yeah, yeah.
All right, let's go ahead and run the clip here.
We got a news clip, if I'm not mistaken.
All right.
Also tonight, music mogul Sean Diddy Combs accused of sex trafficking and sexual assault in a lawsuit filed in federal court here in New York.
Chloe Malas is here.
here.
Chloe, what more do we know about this?
Lester, the lawsuit filed by Cassandra Ventura, known by her stage name Cassie, met Combs when she was 19 years old.
She was later signed to Combs' record label and the pair had been romantically involved.
Ventura alleges that Combs not only raped her, but over the course of a decade physically abused her, as well as, quote, lured her into a drug-fueled lifestyle.
Ventura says that after years in silence, Darkness.
Now, Combs' lawyer said in a statement in part that his client vehemently denies the allegations, calling them baseless and outrageous, and that Ventura has been demanding $30 million, threatening to write a book about their relationship.
Thanks for watching.
Stay updated about breaking news and...
So, and now let's pull up the lawsuit real quick, and I'll read like the first paragraph, and then we'll go ahead into discussion and get everyone's take on it.
We got it, Bills?
This is a lawsuit right here, guys.
United States District Court, Southern District of New York.
And just to let you guys know, this is a civil...
Matter, not a criminal matter, which means they have to find beyond the preponderance of the evidence, which is basically 49% to 51%, and he can be held liable, Sean Combs, and more than likely he'll have to pay some money.
By the way, I'd like to mention, Cassie has a husband now and two kids, and apparently she was dating her trainer.
So, I mean, on this level, she's away from Diddy, and she might need some money.
Yeah, that's another thing too.
And some of these acts occurred while she was with this guy, right?
Yeah, that's crazy though.
Alright, so I'll read the first place.
Plaintiff Cassandra Ventura, Ms.
Ventura, hereby alleges as for and for her complaint against defendant Sean Combs, Mr.
Combs, Bad Boy Entertainment, Bad Boy Records, Epic Records, Combs, Enterprise, LLC, and Doe Corporations 1 through 10, corporations together with Mr.
Combs' defendants as follows.
Preliminary statement.
Okay, it says here.
Defendi Combs is a rapper and record executive, popularly known by his stage names Pup Daddy, P Diddy, or Diddy.
Mr.
Combs came to fame in the early 90s with his record label Bad Boy Records.
He rose to prominence in the music and entertainment industry over the decades and is regularly referred to as a hip-hop mogul.
In 2022, Mr.
Combs received a Lifetime Achievement Award at the BET Awards.
During his acceptance speech, Mr.
Combs stated, and I quote, I have to give a special shout-out to you, a special shout-out, thank you, love, to the people that was really there for me.
He named a number of people before adding, And also Cassie for holding me down in the dark times.
The dark times.
That is definitely a good statement there.
It's coming from the dark man fresh himself.
The truth, however, is that Cassie, Ms.
Cassandra Ventura, was held down by Mr.
Combs and endured over a decade of his violent behavior and disturbed demands.
For Ms.
Ventura, the dark times were those she spent trapped by Mr.
Combs in a cycle of abuse, violence, and sex trafficking, among other violent and unlawful acts, Mr.
Combs.
Rape Miss Ventura in her own home after she tried to leave him.
Often punched, beat, kicked, and stomp on Miss Ventura, resulting in bruises, burst lips, black eyes, and bleeding.
Blew up a man's car after he learned that he was romantically interested in Miss Ventura.
That man is Kit Cuddy, apparently.
Okay.
I guess day and night.
What?
Day and night.
Nigga, blowing up my car.
Okay, never mind.
Force Ms.
Ventura to engage in sex acts with male sex workers while masturbating and filming the encounters.
Wait, hold on.
Wait, what the...
Yeah, bro.
That was easy.
What's the terminology for that again, of sex acts?
You said voyeurism?
Is that what we're looking at?
That's it, yeah.
Basically, that's when you have your woman get fucked by other dudes.
You sit there and watch.
A.K.A. Cucking.
And in this part, I think he was dirking it too.
That's disgusting, bro.
Demanded that Ms.
Ventura...
Okay, so we read the click.
Ran out of his apartment with a firearm in pursuit of a rival industry executive whom he learned was nearby.
Demanded that Ms.
Ventura to carry his firearm in her purse just to make her uncomfortable and demonstrate how dangerous he is.
And introduced Ms.
Ventura to a lifestyle of excessive alcohol and substance abuse and required her to procure illicit prescriptions to satisfy his own addictions.
How did your girl hold your peace?
That's not a...
Come on, man.
That's a stretch, bro.
That's a stretch.
But basically, guys, those are the basic things.
They're going to go into each one probably in more detail as to when it occurred, blah, blah, blah.
But scroll up a bit, Bills.
But these are basically the allegations that she's making, okay?
The grape...
Physical abuse, having her hook up with other dudes that he watched, ran out of his apartment to chase a rival industry executive with a gun.
I don't know how that affects her.
Which is Suge Knight, by the way.
It is Suge Knight?
Okay.
Suge Knight confirmed.
Which give them a little bit of historical situation here.
Shook Knight guys was the CEO, the guy that ran death row records at the time back in the nineties.
Right.
And I'm showing my age here again, you know, Tupac and Biggie had a beef, right?
East coast, West coast wars.
I go into the more detail on this on Fed reacts where I talk about Tupac's life and the murderer that they, that they caught recently.
But yeah, there was beef between the two and Shook Knight and P Diddy did not get along with each other of Puff Daddy back then.
So, and then there was beef because basically, like, Pac thought that Biggie set him up to get shot in New York City back in the early 90s.
And that's how it kind of started.
And then they made a bunch of songs talking shit.
But yeah, you guys can see here, these are the allegations.
I'll turn it to you.
I'll get your guys' take on it, what you guys think.
You want to take it first, Ryan?
We're kind of out of my depth here, man.
I mean, you can speak about allegations in general.
Well, actually, you know what?
No, because we're going to link this to the baseball situation.
Yeah, we can do that.
What's his name?
Yeah.
I'll say this.
If these things are true, what she's stating here in this lawsuit, obviously speaking, bro, I mean, it's messed up because, dude, that is some heinous shit.
Now, mind you, they've been together for like 10 years plus.
He made her at 19 years old.
So I just wonder if these allegations are true, why not tell the police or go to somebody sooner?
Because, honestly speaking, bro, if I had a daughter, She's being abused.
And her parents definitely knew something was wrong.
Why not go to the police and say, hey, this happened to my daughter.
What can we do about it?
Police probably wouldn't be able to do much without the cooperation of the primary victim, I would think.
So if she wasn't on board, I don't think you can get it on her behalf.
I don't know.
I'm not a legal expert.
Yeah, she would have to testify.
Why didn't she do it back then?
Why is she doing it now when everything's finished, so to speak?
And granted, I feel bad for the actual father of her kids.
Could you imagine, right, bro?
Oh, yeah.
You wife up this chick that's been apparently ran through by multiple male prostitutes and degraded in ways I can't see on camera and give her two kids and be like, oh, I love her, man.
Yo, I'm in a bad choice here.
I got fucked up!
But again, this is crazy because this is being said against Diddy, and Diddy with all his power, success, and I want to say accolades, bro, we've heard rumors before of some things that happened in the past, and it's like, is it true or not?
Who knows?
But is it scary?
Because you don't know.
Yeah, I can't speak to the allegations in particular.
I don't want to comment on that.
But we did talk about fear being the basis of respect.
But that can definitely spill over into terror.
And there are some very unsavory people out there who terrorize young women into doing what they want to do.
And I think maybe the reason why they don't go to the authorities sooner is because they're just too afraid.
Probably scared.
Yeah, obviously because she's a musician too, right?
But yeah, so my take on this...
So here's the interesting thing or weird thing here.
This whole thing about him having her hook up with people...
Very interesting.
There was a girl I used to see in New York, this was years ago, and she had told me that one of her exes, you know, was a model, you know, like some 6'8 Chad guy, whatever the fuck it is, and he had been tasked, he had gotten a job one time, he was like a male, you know, escort, he had been tasked one time to hook up with a female, and he didn't know, and there was going to be a guy watching, he didn't know who the fuck it was until he showed up, but he showed up, it was Diddy!
And I was like, what the fuck?
And I heard about this like two years ago, two, three years ago, I was like, what the fuck?
So it's really interesting for it to, you know, resurface now with this situation.
Now, with that said, right, we don't know what the hell's going on here.
We know that this was a long-term relationship.
You know, is some of the stuff she says potentially true?
Of course, we don't know.
We'll see when they go to trial or if they settle it out of court, we won't know.
But if they go to trial, then obviously she's going to have to present evidence to prove these allegations are true.
But just with all the women that are coming forward and going after rich, powerful men and saying, oh, X, Y, Z, blah, blah, blah.
If you were with them for so long, why didn't you go to the police?
Why are you waiting now to make these accusations?
No one forced you to go back with him all these times.
You could have...
Left him a long time ago.
Her argument is she tried to leave multiple times, but his power and status overrid her leaving because, again, his team, people he knew, would always bring her back.
Of course she's not saying that, yeah.
And remember, she's in the music industry.
So her ties are tied with him because, again, he's like her manager, so to speak, in the industry.
Not manager, but like, you know, he's on top of her.
So you can make some phone calls and say, hey, you know what?
Don't let her drop a single album.
Of course.
You know, cut her off for her funding.
So it's kind of crazy because he had her, like, honestly, by the neck.
Yeah, yeah.
And obviously, this is one of the negatives of the music industry a lot of times.
But...
Here's something that I'll say.
Yeah, please.
You hear about the police allegations with the rich and successful guys, but I hear about allegations with not rich and not successful guys.
I just did a consultation with a guy two days ago.
He was accused of unsavory sexual conduct by a woman in his college, and he was just expelled.
Yeah.
So it's like...
And every single week, I don't think it's hyperbole to say, I deal with a man who has had some sort of administrative violence or relational aggression where his reputation was ruined.
Never usually to the point that the police get involved.
But it's like you have to be rich in order to get to that stage.
Most women will...
I'm treading into dangerous territory here.
I feel you, bro.
It's like, it's rather, it's not as uncommon as you think.
It's not just the rich and famous guys.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
No, regular guys get accused all the time too.
And the thing that sucks is that a lot of times they don't even have the resources to defend themselves.
Like, they'll just have to take the L or whatever it is.
On campus, college campuses, yeah.
They'll just, they're never going to bother, bro.
There's no defense.
It's just, we heard this, we can't have this.
Yeah, you're out.
You're gone.
And I know this because I had gotten in trouble in my college one time.
It was some bullshit, so I ended up getting cleared of it.
But, like, it's a kangaroo court when it comes to universities, and they're like, a lot of times it's like a discipline conduct board that does it, which is your peers and students, and guess who runs it?
A lot of times it's feminists.
So, If you get hit with an accusation like this, thankfully for me it wasn't.
It was some other bullshit.
I threw a piss out a window.
That's a whole other thing.
That's a whole other thing.
That was a really good reason.
That was a good reason, goddammit.
It's a whole long story.
But yeah, it wasn't nothing like that.
But I ended up getting cleared of it.
But the point is, goddammit, is that...
What are you laughing at the back for?
It's my urine, goddammit!
I said, I believe it.
It's my urine.
What the fuck?
But anyway, like I was saying...
Did they test it?
You could have just said it wasn't me.
Hey Shaggy, it wasn't me.
Oh man.
But what was I gonna say?
Listen!
Oh yeah, yeah, it's a kangaroo court, man.
So it's like, it's some bullshit.
And if you get accused, even if you're innocent, whatever, they're just gonna go ahead and get rid of you just because it's like they don't want to deal with the bullshit.
But you made a good point.
It's not federal, it's civil.
And on some level, I mean like, okay, let's say this is actually gonna go down and it's gonna be somewhat on her terms.
Is she actually going to win?
I mean, bro, he has lawyers out to Wazoo.
It's one of the best in the world.
I mean, dude.
Oh, this is a very important point as well.
So, he offered her, apparently, between 10 to 15K to just pay her off.
K? Sorry, a million, right?
To, um...
Hey, you know what?
Go away here.
I think on 7M. It was a little bit more.
Okay.
Yeah.
She wanted what?
She wanted more though, right?
She wanted 30.
Oh, shit.
So, he could have, I mean, she could have settled for like 10, 15, but she wanted more.
So, I just want to see what's going to happen now because at this level, bro, like, dude, is she going to actually win this?
I doubt.
Like, how are you going to beat Diddy in court?
Yeah.
Yeah.
I mean, granted, it's a lower standard.
It's only 51% preponderance of the evidence.
It's a civil case versus a criminal where it's beyond a reasonable doubt where it's going to be like 90 to 10%.
Most of these things don't go to court.
They get settled before.
Yeah.
Yeah.
Maybe he'll up the price.
Because, I mean, this is going to definitely, like, it is a black guy on his reputation.
Yeah.
Because, I would say, he's had a pretty fairly positive, you know, I haven't heard anything controversial from him since, like, the 90s when he had the nightclub shooting.
But Shine took the drop for that one.
He didn't even go to jail for that.
But if you notice, anything...
Well, shit.
Anything around Diddy that's, like, bad gets, like...
Yeah, I mean, he has the money to fight and everything else like that.
No, no, I mean, like...
Shine took the hit for that.
You get, like...
Oh.
You know what I'm saying?
Hey, Diddy, listen, man.
I'm my enemy here.
I'm just talking about the news, bro.
I'm just saying, bro, listen, man.
You know, things happen, so...
There you go.
Nigga, I live in Miami, bro.
He lives in Miami.
No beef, bro.
No beef, man.
No beef.
I've never met these men before in my life.
I don't want no problems, Sean.
Sean Combs.
This guy at first is like, oh, yeah.
No problems, bro.
Just say it.
It's already done.
You already fucking said.
Listen, I've been in the same place as him.
Oh, you're done now, bro.
And I'm just like, bro, like, dude, like, hey, man.
I go to your parties, bro, but show it to you, nigga.
Yeah, well.
Guys, if you don't see press tomorrow, y'all know what time it is.
Diddy gonna send a hit, man.
Yeah, take that.
Boom, done.
That's gone.
It's like a...
You gotta be dancing around, spinning this shit after he shoot you.
So one time Academics was here, right?
It was me, Academics, his boy, and some other friends, and some girls.
And then he's like, yo, bro, Diddy gonna go to the party, pull up.
And I'm like, yo, act.
What you want, dog?
He's like, bro, from what I heard, man, I'm not sure I want to go.
And I heard some things, and I'm like, bro, I'm with you, bro.
I don't know if I want to go either.
But, I mean, it's allegations.
Who knows?
Yeah.
I think...
I'll give my final take on it.
I think that some of this probably is being sensationalized, right?
To maximize shock value, maximize potential earnings from this situation, draw emotional strings, you know...
Garner sympathy.
And then also kind of absolve herself of some responsibility as well.
Because keep in mind that during a lot of this lawsuit, she was married.
She had a man.
So, of course, she's going to have to put Didi in the negative part to not make herself look like as a cheater as well, right?
She's going to have to absolve herself of a lot of responsibility here and say, oh, no, it wasn't.
I was great.
Blah, blah, blah.
We don't know if it was actual grape.
I mean, they had a long-term relationship.
It could have been consensual, but she doesn't want to say that because she doesn't want to come off as a whore because she was married and had kids at the time.
So there's a huge incentive for her to lie here, right?
So you've got to look at it objectively.
I don't know.
The only people that I really know are God, her, and Diddy, the truth.
But...
I'm willing to bet that a lot of this is being sensationalized for maximal output and making the most amount of money.
I just gotta say, man, rest in peace to her husband, though.
Dig it, that's an L, bro.
Yo, dawg, that's an L. Yo, I promise you, bro, if I spent my entire life working on myself, becoming a man, and I married a chick like this, bro...
You don't think he knew?
He might have known something, but all this shit?
Come on, bro.
He knows now.
Okay, as a man of means, do you think that he's going to be mentally stable after hearing all this stuff with his wife?
I think it's going to be tough, but I've never met either of these people before.
I bet he's going to be the supportive partner and say, you know, they're going to have a little powwow, it's going to get really tough, they're going to be prepared for the backlash, and I suppose if he's going to be interviewed, he's going to be the loyal, devoted, and supportive husband.
Yo, bring up Cassie's Instagram real quick, if you don't mind mowing bills.
Bro, you gotta see this dude, bro.
Is he Blue Pill?
I don't know, but bro.
Probably is.
It might be the right move.
What are you gonna do?
Throw your wife under the bus?
I mean, on some level, you gotta double down on your position.
Bro, it was multiple black dudes.
Dude, in the document, it says, Diddy said, find me a black...
Sorry, black men with big dicks.
Wait, what?
Yeah, yeah.
Bro, it's in there.
Find me multiple black prostitutes with big dicks.
Bro, that's his wife, dog.
Nigga!
She got red railroaded!
Like...
Dude, okay.
Be honest, bro.
You're white, right?
If you find out your wife is getting banged by 10 black dudes from Africa, like me, what you gonna do?
Like me, he's crazy.
Like me, you from Barbados.
You made her, you gave her two kids.
He said...
Psych hacks!
Just so you know, in my class...
I have a confession to make.
Yeah, I took a lot of black dicks on camera.
Little men watching me.
Are we still good together?
You might hear something about this on the news tomorrow.
So I thought I would tell you tonight.
There's no...
Yo, if I was white and I heard that, yo, bitch, we're done.
We're done, bitch.
We are done, okay?
That's crazy.
Yeah, that's crazy.
Let's just hope she wasn't saying stuff like, you're the biggest I've ever had.
You're the biggest I've ever had.
That too.
Yo, bad.
Yeah, if I find out a girl who was dating a black dude before me, I'd break up with her.
Yo, Tyrone, Jamal!
This is unacceptable!
Bro, I know I brush like this!
No!
Come down, come down.
Come down.
That's him right there.
Oh, man!
Cowboy slinging!
Come on, man.
Come on, man.
Man, you could've done better, man.
You could've done way better.
Did he know, though?
Did he actually know?
I think he knew.
I bet she sold him a story.
Yeah, that was then.
I was really confused.
I was young.
Could've been true.
I got involved with just the wrong people.
Maybe she was vague.
Okay.
Listen, man.
Mudsharks all the way.
Yo, what the fuck, man?
What's that?
I've never heard that.
I'm too pure for this, man.
Goddamn.
But yeah, I mean, we'll see what happens, man.
I mean, this is definitely going to be an interesting thing.
Do y'all think this is going to go to trial or do you think he's going to settle?
Nah.
Honestly?
You think he'll up the money and just pay her and tell her to shut up?
You probably won't disclose, but these things very rarely get to trial.
That's what was so interesting about the Depp-Herd situation, is it actually went to court.
Yeah.
Yo, pull up Diddy's net worth.
I think he's a billionaire, if I'm not mistaken.
Honestly, if I'm Diddy, here's how I move, right?
Bitch, you tried me.
I'll feed a 15, 10 mil.
You didn't want to take it?
Alright, bet.
You want to see what's big dog now?
I'm playing this game.
I'm going to go to court with you, fight it all the way, and I'm going to bleed your lawyer money out and still beat your ass.
That would be the move, yeah.
Just because, you know what?
He has the money to delay and bleed her out.
Not only did you try me.
But my image is now tarnished.
Because now, it's on the news, bro.
It's everywhere.
That would be a countersuit, most likely.
Because, dude, his image, his career is forever set in stone.
But his image is definitely tarnished now, bro.
Yeah, so he's pretty much a billionaire.
900 million, wow.
Yeah, he's worth 900.
Mind you, I think personally speaking, bro, some of this shit may actually be true.
I don't know myself, but it might be true.
But if it's true, bro.
I've heard the...
The cuck story.
I've heard that before.
I got stories too, but I'm not going to say that.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
But regardless, he is a legend from a music standpoint.
And we'll see, man.
I mean, again, I think some of this is sensationalized.
And he's done a lot of good as well.
Yeah.
I don't know if it's like, kind of bumps his back, because he did it recently too as well, a lot of good stuff, like Brother Love.
I mean, shit.
He was saying that back in the day, but seeing it now.
Well, yeah, I didn't even know about this Brother Love.
What is that?
So, basically, he preaches love, respect, harmony, randomly out of nowhere.
I'm like, bro, what's your name, Diddy?
So, I call himself love, brother love, but it's like, why are you doing this right before this came up?
You feel me?
Like, you've been preparing for this for a minute, or this is in your soul from the very beginning?
I don't know which one it is, but...
Tomato joke incoming.
Diddy, or diddy not do it?
Oh!
Get out of there, bro!
Get out of there!
Chris, I know you ain't talking, man.
You say way worse jokes.
I know you ain't talking, bro.
Real quick, I want to get your take on the Dodgers pitcher that got in trouble.
We were talking about that before the show.
Trevor Bauer.
Trevor Bauer, yes.
What's your take on that situation and false allegations in general?
Well, I follow that one a little bit more closely, and it sounds like, given the evidence that he had about the situation, which came to light recently after the settlement, is he was...
Yeah.
Yes, there was a settlement.
It wasn't for money, apparently, but they did reach some sort of agreement.
And part of the terms of the agreement was that he was allowed to go public with the evidence to exonerate his name, which, you know, thank God for that.
Part of that were text messages between the woman in question and some of her friends who were just sort of like treating him as a meal ticket, I think.
He's worth $50 million, I remember.
Hey, girl, who are you going to hunt?
There was some predatory language in there.
She's taking videos of herself, sleeping next to me in the bed.
And it was the day in question where she was beat.
Yeah.
Yeah.
I mean, very concerning.
I guess there's more than one way to skin a cat.
So if you can't get the money one way, you can find a way to get it another way.
I think he was immediately suspended and let go from the L.A. Dodgers.
I mean, that's what we were talking about earlier is that this is what we might call administrative violence.
And when charges are so significant, there is no trial.
There is no one even wants to touch it with a 10 foot pole.
There's just, we heard this, we can't be associated with this.
We have to let you go.
Yeah.
And the guy also was sitting on the evidence that could have cleared his name for, I think, over two years, but he couldn't release it to the public because it would have been obstruction of justice.
I think in these situations you are definitely guilty until you're proven innocent, and you really only get a chance to tell your side of the story if it goes to trial, which it generally doesn't.
So, I mean, I think...
I don't know the guy personally, but he seems like he...
And the damage is done.
Like, he lost the money, he's labeled, you know, a sexual deviant by society, and then it's interesting because, like...
When the guy finally is able to come out with the information and exonerate themselves...
Nobody cares.
Nobody cares!
The soccer player that was vindicated...
Nobody cares.
I thought it was really...
No, no, no.
We do.
We do.
The masses...
But the general public doesn't care.
They care less.
Well, how do I say this?
When he gets accused, it doesn't get the same press coverage as when they're exonerated.
On purpose, by the way.
What I didn't love is that the woman was doing press junkets.
She was on interviews, which I think is basically like giving a news platform to a school shooter.
Why would you do that?
Yeah.
Yeah.
And it's because we live in a gynocentric social order, man.
You know, we live in this world where it's Believe All Women, etc.
You know, I think the more of these...
I mean, and honestly, the Amber Heard-Johnny Depp situation, I'm really glad it happened.
I thank God that he recorded those conversations because that was...
I would say the beginning of being able to shift that this Me Too thing is fucking being weaponized by women.
And the problem with the Me Too situation, it's not that it's the false accusers that are the problem.
It hurts the women that are actually real victims.
And there's plenty of them.
You know what I mean?
And it makes them less likely to go to the police.
It makes them more scared to come forward.
And it fucks it up for everybody.
Just opportunistic women that want to go ahead and leverage the Me Too situation for their own personal gain, make some money, maybe sometimes just absolve themselves of responsibility because they cheat on their guy, the guy found out he's trying to break up with them.
No, I was great!
You know what I mean?
It's a trump card that every woman has in their repertoire that they can use to absolutely destroy a man.
And the thing that sucks is that when the news comes out that it was a lie, nobody cares by then.
And this is premeditated.
The image is done.
From the very beginning to get money out of him, which is crazy.
I wonder if a team is going to be brave enough to sign him back.
I think he's been playing overseas for the last couple years.
Yeah.
I mean, who knows?
Isn't that crazy that we have to say that?
I wonder if there's a team that's brave enough to bring him back.
He's an innocent man.
Isn't that crazy?
And here's the other thing, too.
We're red pill aware.
Most guys are fucking blue pill idiots.
They don't understand anything about female nature, conniving practices that women run a lot of times to have the advantage.
Most guys are completely sleepwalking when it comes to intersexual dynamics and have zero clue of female manipulation tactics.
And they'll call guys like us misanders.
So it's like, we're like, damn, I hope he gets signed.
But everyone else is probably like, well, you know what?
You were accused, so you don't deserve a chance.
Welcome to the real world.
Wild, dude.
Wild.
All right.
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That was the last tiny woman said they needed a man.
Ooh.
That's not a Red Pill song.
That's not a Red Pill song, but that's the job in line with these women.
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Anything else?
No, that's all.
All right, cool.
PsyCax, where can I find your brother?
Oh, I'm on YouTube, mostly.
The channel's called PsyCax.
My name's Orion Taraban.
I'm a psychologist in private practice.
I do consultations.
But my YouTube channel is generally where you can find me.
When does the book drop, officially?
I think I can finish writing a working draft by the end of January, and it's probably going to take a month or two to get it edited and put it into shape, so I hope to have it by the end of Q1 or beginning of Q2 next year.
I still don't have a title, but I'm working on it.
It's going really well.
It's a little bit more highbrow than some of the stuff I put out there, so I hope I don't alienate the audience base, but I'm really proud with the way things are done.
When it comes out, we definitely got to talk about it.
Yes.
Wait, is everybody here?
They are?
Yeah.
Okay.
Damn it.
I wanted to ask one more question.
Go ahead.
Let's do it.
Okay.
And before we close out, I'm sorry.
I just have to ask this because you made a...
And we talked about this a little bit last time, but I really want the audience to understand this concept.
You made a video about the adored and the adoree, right?
Between men and women.
The adored and the adorer.
Yes, sorry.
Can you talk about that a little bit and why men need to understand that being the adored is where you need to be as the man?
Sure.
It's actually pretty easy to understand.
I call it the balance of attraction.
The fundamental axiom is that it's not possible for two people to like each other exactly the same amount.
It's not possible.
That means that in any relationship, one person likes the other person more and the other person likes the other person less.
This is the adored, this is the adored.
There are pros and cons to each.
But in general, most people, men and women, want to be the adorer because the adorer gets to be with the one they love.
And that's where all the feels come.
That's supposed to be like the most profound, beautiful, ecstatic experience that you can have in life is the opportunity to be with the one you love.
Mm-hmm.
And in general, boredom is going to drive women out of a relationship sooner than men.
And so it's been said that you can make a woman feel anything except bored, and there's some truth to that.
And the longer she's in the position of being the adored, she's on that pedestal and you're looking up to her, the less she's having an emotional experience and the more she might be looking for the door.
Also, if you're looking up at her, she's looking down at you.
And a woman wants to look up to her man and think, man, I'm lucky to be with this guy.
He is tall, he is strong, he is rich, he is competent.
How can she do that to the guy who's staring up at her with puppy dog eyes?
So what I tell guys, especially guys in their 20s, a lot of nice guys, you know, they're well-meaning men, they're doing what they think they're supposed to do vis-a-vis women, is that they have to make a voluntary sacrifice of being the adorer so that the woman can be in that role for the stability of the relationship.
Because the longer the woman is up here and she's not having the emotional experience and she's looking down at the man, the days of that relationship are numbered.
So I understand you like to do nice things for the woman.
You like to praise her.
You like to put her up on that shelf.
But if you do that, you're basically kind of adoring her out of the relationship.
Well said.
Yeah.
And I wanted you guys to hear that from him because so many men make that mistake where they adore the woman too much and you rob her of the emotional stimuli of being the adorer.
That's right.
The women need to be in that position where they feel in love, et cetera, because they respond more favorably with their emotions.
As a guy, you like your girl.
That's good enough for you.
But for your woman, she needs to literally love you and adore you for you to get the best out of her.
Like is great.
I mean, Patrice O'Neill talked about that.
He said the best situation was the woman loved the man and the man liked the woman.
You know what I realized, too, about this?
On a deeper level, if she is adoring you, she'll let you have other women.
So for example, if she's adoring you, she will say, you know what, alright, he's the other woman, I understand because he's that guy.
Versus the opposite, if you're adoring her, hold on, you're giving me time, attention, and resources, I don't want to share that with other women.
As a result, I've noticed that men care way more about a woman's sexual fidelity and women care more about a man's, let's say, emotional fidelity.
A lot of women, they just sort of want to feel...
They don't love it when a guy maybe steps out of the relationship or sees other women.
They might roll their eyes, but a lot of them will tolerate it, especially if they feel like there's something special about that relationship.
That you're doing something with her that you don't do with those other women.
Yeah, no, I could say that from experience.
As you guys know, I'm not monogamous.
That's stupid.
But what I will say is that one of the complaints is, oh, well, because girls are always going to find something.
They'll be okay with it, but it's going to come up.
This girl did this, blah, blah, blah.
It could be something as simple as like, They use the shower.
That's fucked up.
Blah, blah, blah.
Oh, yeah.
Like, little things like that.
It's like taking the girl to your Italian restaurant.
Yeah.
That's what's going to cause the whole thing to fall apart.
They want to feel special.
Exactly.
That's what it really comes down to.
We went to Orlando to Halloween Horror Nights.
Yeah.
I brought a chick.
Oh, yeah.
Right?
That was our horror night.
She's like, wait.
Why didn't you bring me?
You were busy?
But that was special.
But again, they want to feel like they're over the other chicks.
So it's just different.
Yeah.
And that's the thing.
Any guy here, you want to have multiple women, et cetera, be prepared for that conversation.
It's going to come up every single time.
I don't care how high status you are, how much your girl likes you, blah, blah, blah.
It's going to come up.
Well, wait, this girl does that, blah, blah, blah.
It's going to come up because they want to feel special, man.
Yeah.
That's what it comes down to.
Some sounds for you guys.
Yeah.
All right.
Cool.
Is that it?
I could do this all night.
Yeah, dude.
I mean, fuck.
Well, hey, maybe we'll do another show tomorrow.
Who knows for y'all?
I don't know.
Maybe.
Maybe we'll do another one for y'all.
I'm in town for the weekend.
Yeah, he's here for the weekend, man.
So if you guys want another one, we'll see.
Maybe we'll give it to y'all.
But guys, he is PsychX, man.
Check him out, man.
Really great channel.
I watch it myself, so you guys already know that it's fucking awesome.
A lot of great psychological breakdowns on why men and women do the things that they do.
So if you want to be able to figure out your girl more from a psychological perspective, man, check him out, man.
His channel is linked in the title, man.
Check him out.
We'll catch you guys back here with some lovely ladies and a special guest.
Peace.
Peace.
I ran, I ran so far away.
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