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Nov. 15, 2023 - Fresh & Fit
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Husband Wants 50/50 & Wife Has BPD?! He Married For A Greencard?! Couple Intervention!
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Guests of Honor, welcome to the podcast.
This couple's intervention.
We know who you are.
Please tell the audience who you are.
We'll start here.
Hi, everyone.
My name is Bianca.
I have been on the podcast before.
I love this podcast.
I am not an OnlyFans girl.
I'm actually a college student, and I'm also an assistant.
So, without further ado, I will pass it on to my- How old are you?
And where are you originally from?
I am 23 years old.
I'm originally from Ecuador.
I came here when I was five, so I feel like I can say that I'm a Miami girl, pretty much.
Gotcha.
Are your parents still together?
Yes, they are.
Okay.
And do you live in Miami now?
Yes, I do live in Miami.
Okay.
And I gotta say, good job for no OnlyFans, because being in Miami...
Yeah, seriously.
It's hard to find out.
And then, did you go to college?
No, you said you're in school right now.
I'm in school, yeah.
What are you studying?
I'm studying health administration, so I'm going towards that route.
But I also started my own social media management agency, and that's been kicking off.
Okay.
So...
Okay, so you are a student and you have a social media management thing, which I'm assuming you take on accounts and you help them with posting and stuff like that, whether it's a small business that wants to get more reach on Instagram or something like that?
Yeah, I feel like we're really good at that.
He taught me a lot that I know about social media, and then it's kind of when I hopped on and started my own ventures on it.
Okay.
So what do you predominantly manage?
Is it like small businesses?
Is it...
Everything, really.
I do small businesses, like influencers.
I do help OnlyFans girls.
Okay.
But I don't...
Myself, I don't work in OnlyFans, no.
Okay.
All right, then.
All right, cool.
What about you, bro?
Welcome.
Thank you.
Thank you for everything.
I'm Valentin.
Ah, sorry.
Not closer to the mic.
How old are you?
I'm 24 years old.
All right.
Where are you originally from?
I'm from Argentina.
So, yeah.
It's my first year in the United States.
And...
Gracias, boludo.
And yeah, I'm with her since last year.
And yeah, we are having some issues that we would like to discuss further on.
And what do you do for work full time?
What I do, I do social media marketing.
I do have my clients on that.
I do a little bit of trading also.
I do a little bit of everything.
When you say trading, what do you mean specifically?
I basically hold just coins.
Oh, okay.
So you trade crypto?
Yeah, just buy and sell.
Okay.
And yeah, pretty much I have services.
I have blogs.
So you said you do social media marketing.
Is it the same company that she has or you do it separately yourself?
Yeah, myself.
Like I have my own clients.
Okay.
So she has her clients and you have yours.
Yeah.
And the same thing where you manage other potential influencers and businesses and everything else and you run their Instagrams for them?
Yeah.
Okay.
I mean, I don't like to run Instagram.
Yeah.
I don't like to run Instagrammers.
I help them with promotions and stuff.
Okay.
Okay.
Alright, so you'll help promo their businesses.
Yeah, I have an army of influencers.
I'm working on my own app, actually.
Okay.
Alright, cool.
And you've been here for a year?
Yeah, for a year.
And you guys are married, right?
Yeah, we are married.
When did you get married?
We got married...
Oh, shit!
Oh, shit!
Bomb drop real quick.
That's what I thought.
We got married in March...
Yeah, so we've been married.
And you guys have known each other for a year?
Yeah, so through the map.
That's pretty quick, man.
Yeah.
Okay.
How'd you guys meet?
We met at Mandrake in Miami.
Like a lounge.
Yeah, can you describe to the audience what that is?
Yeah, it's like a sushi place lounge area.
Yeah.
Yeah.
Used to be popping before COVID, but it's okay now.
Okay, so you guys met at Mandrake.
It's a sushi lounge.
Yeah.
Okay.
Did you guys meet through friends?
Did he come up to you?
Or how'd that...
Some girl cut her foot in the bathroom.
It was a funny situation.
Some girl cut her foot in the bathroom.
We went to her aid.
And then we kind of just like, we're like, hey, what's up?
And then we originally started out as friends.
And then it kind of progressed into more.
Like, it's a very, like...
Okay, so like a girl cut her foot at the club, or sorry, at this place, and then you guys were helping her at the same time.
Yeah.
You know like in a movie, when it's band-aids, and they both drop it, look up like, you're the one!
Exactly.
That's an interesting way to meet.
Alright.
Okay.
So, and then I guess through you guys helping this girl out, you guys became friends first, and then, okay, when did you guys go like on your first date or whatever?
My birthday.
So like it was kind of just like I invited him to the club because I had my birthday party at the club and then we've I mean we were just friends like we didn't really like think of anything plus and then I don't know we just got each other alone and then just clicked immediately we talked for like four hours we talked for like eight hours like just talking How did you know that she was the one you wanted to go out with?
I didn't know at the beginning.
That was the thing.
At the beginning, I was actually, I don't know, flinching.
Just having fun?
Yeah, having fun.
Like any other single guy at the club talking with women.
And she was at the bathroom.
I didn't notice anything, like, special, to be honest, at the beginning.
Like, we were friends, like, at the beginning.
I was, like, hooking up with girls and stuff, and she was, like, around.
And the thing is, I got to know her, like, on the, I don't know, deeper.
And I realized, like, she has something that I can, like, work on, you know, like wife material, you know?
Okay, so certain qualities that you liked for a wife.
Yeah, for like, I don't know, like, being together, you know?
Like, not only just being a girl.
Just a smash?
Yeah, just a smash.
She wanted more.
Okay, cool.
Okay.
You saw qualities in her that were wife material that you liked.
All right.
Exactly.
And then, what did you see in him?
Let me just say, you know what, I want to take this more serious, because one year, marriage is crazy.
Yeah, it really is.
I feel like even at the age that we're at, it's even harder just to be married so young.
But, I mean, originally from him, he was like, off the bat, like one of my really good friends, and I think Any relationship that starts off as friends is something that you treasure and you should hold because then you really get to know the person without any ulterior motives and I never had any ulterior motives with him.
I mean it's just like we automatically clicked and everything was completely like so magical like it was like super romantic and everything and I just I fell in love with that and um Did you friendzone him first?
No, I mean, we never really friendzoned each other.
It just never got past a certain point, you know?
Oh, okay.
Was he in the scene same time as you?
You all see him around.
You never, like, talked to him before?
No, I just, I literally, like, was walking over to the sushi place and I saw him in a Camaro with, like, three other friends who looked like they did TikTok and I was like, they look like an interesting crowd.
I'm gonna join them.
So you saw him for the first time when they were in the car, but then you didn't actually get to speak to him until the girl cut her foot.
Yeah, yeah.
And I think that was like, immediately I was like, okay, all of these guys have like some kind of aura that I'd like to discover.
Oh, you didn't know?
Okay, there you go.
I think we're going to figure out a lot of stuff that we don't know on this podcast.
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I'm sure we will.
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All right, cool.
I'm smelling green here, but okay.
For the panel, I want to know as well because they want to know, I'm pretty sure too, what's the main issue here with you guys right now?
For you and then for you, the main issue.
I think our main issue is just like a lot of like communication and like foundational issues.
Like I feel like he has a long way into like learning what it is to become a man, like truly become a man, like a high value man.
Can you lower the AC a little bit?
Yeah, we got you.
Yeah, Bill's is...
It's freezing.
Sorry.
And then ultimately, my battle is becoming a high-value woman.
That is what I want to do.
And I want to be in a traditional relationship where I have a high-value man and I'm a high-value woman.
And I think...
My definition of a high-value man is just someone that is a leader, is very intuitive with his girl.
I don't know how you feel on the topic of 50-50 and splitting bills, but I'm still figuring out exactly what I like.
Is it happening right now?
Yeah.
50-50?
Yeah.
And you don't like that?
I'm not the biggest fan of it, no.
So let me get this straight.
You guys live together?
Yes.
You guys live here in Miami?
Yeah, like Fort Lauderdale.
So I asked you earlier what you saw in him for long term, but you kind of call him not a man.
What's up with that?
Because he, I feel like, I think, I don't know, I feel like he presented himself a different way at the beginning, too.
And just, like, over time, it just got, like, less and less.
And I just, I really would love to fix that.
And, I mean...
Give us an example of something.
Yeah, one example of that happening.
Something that was present in the beginning but isn't present anymore.
Just a lot of respect is the biggest issue, I feel like.
I mean, I feel like both ways we don't respect each other as much as we should.
And I mean, I really would like to get to the bottom of that because I feel like what drives me insane or what drives me crazy and turns me into this crazy girl is just disrespect I don't like.
I don't like it.
Can you give us an example?
One example of disrespect so we could just put it into an actual...
Just getting into a fight and then insulting that person or something like that.
What does he call you?
Truncleta?
Stupid.
Stupid?
He says I'm stupid sometimes.
Is that the worst thing he calls you?
No, I definitely say the word.
The big word?
Yeah, I mean, I just started speaking in Spanish.
And when she gets mad, I mean, she talks with me in Spanish, but when she gets mad, she starts talking in English and insulting me in English.
Real quick, so you gave your issues, right?
That you want a traditional relationship, you want to be a leader, be more intuitive, understand things about you that doesn't have to necessarily be said, and you don't like the 50-50 split.
What are your problems with her?
What are my problems with her?
Yeah, because I want to be fair if we just asked her what her problems are and what are yours.
Well, I think my problems with her are like, I think she lacks a lot of maturity when it comes to, you know, a lot of situations.
Okay, can you give us like kind of an example so we're able to contextualize it?
Yeah, I mean, she seems like a kid in a lot of situations, like just regular situations, like getting up, I don't know, coming home, going out, I don't know, like behave.
So she still goes to the club?
No, we go to the club once a month, let's say.
Okay, together.
So what do you mean when you say by, like, give me an example of how she is immature or coming home.
What do you mean by that?
I don't know.
It's like a, I don't know, a childish behavior.
I don't know.
I can't give you like a...
Is it the arguments?
I think the biggest thing also, I should probably mention this, and I guess you can turn this into a mental illness episode if you would like.
No, she's crazy.
No, let me explain.
I have borderline personality disorder.
Oh, shit.
Wow.
Okay, so you have BPD. How'd you find out, by the way?
I got diagnosed.
Can you give us an example of how that, um, how it, uh, comes out?
Like, like, give us an example of how that would come out.
Um, I just have, like, severe attachment issues, like, anxious attachment issues, and just, like, the fear of abandonment is, like...
I see a little red flags.
If he leaves for, like, work, do you get, like, antsy?
A little bit.
Like, not really, but, like, a little bit.
Like, that's another thing that I would like to, like, establish is more, like, trust and, like, communication.
Like, trust and communication is something that I feel like we need, like, more in our relationship.
But you said you were friends first, which you built a connection, and that's an understanding.
And you got married.
So wouldn't the trust be already be there at that point because you know him very well?
Yeah, but I mean, I feel like there's things that we can, like, work on, you know?
Like, I feel like trust is, like, a slope, and sometimes it goes down, and then sometimes it's up.
I feel like she got obsessed with me at the beginning, and that is, like, a good thing, and also a bad thing.
Like, I don't know.
Everything has, like...
Good and bad.
Yeah, good and bad.
Everything is a jinjang for me.
So, yeah, like being here, I'm in the United States, and I came here alone.
Like, I made my new friends, and, you know, I made my own money here in the United States.
And, yeah, everything has—it's good and bad.
So you mentioned that she lacks maturity.
Yeah.
You told us, I guess, in a way, coming home and certain things that she does.
Anything else that you want to bring up that she does— Yeah, anything else she does that shows immaturity?
You dislike, yeah.
Because she voiced out what she doesn't like about you.
I can give you a specific example.
It's just like, it's unnecessary.
It's just like, I don't know, getting dressed, I don't know.
I guess it's not a big deal.
I mean, there's just small things that bother me.
But like...
She's good.
I mean, she's doing good.
The only thing I would like her to change is her opening her mind or her possibilities to do new things.
She's very close-minded in terms of, I don't know, she likes to work on a nine-to-five, I don't know, and not being an entrepreneur or not working on that or being super negative about a lot of things.
And I'm super positive about everything in life in general.
She doesn't like taking risks.
Entrepreneurial risks.
You don't like that.
She wants the stability of a 9 to 5.
You want to be a little bit more fluid with entrepreneurial ventures.
And also, your lifestyle requires you to be outside a lot.
Sometimes for work, for clients.
So her thing might be, she doesn't want you to go outside like that often.
Yeah, sometimes.
Is that real?
No, I don't have an issue with him doing what he does.
Just, I think sometimes it's a little weird.
Why is it weird?
One time we went to a business meeting at a strip club.
I think that's enough.
A business meeting at a strip club.
Well, you'd be surprised.
A lot of entrepreneurs and influencers and actually people of celebrity status have meetings in some of the strangest places possible.
That includes strip clubs, clubs, lounges, cigar bars, off the golf course, you know, parties.
It can be a funny situation, but I was telling her, hey, this is a business meeting.
I'm actually talking with a developer that is helping me with my app.
We were at the street club, whatever, but I was with her.
I got mad about that.
There's a world of people that actually do business in these places, just so you know.
Yeah, that is very true.
Because you're saying that she lacks maturity and haven't really been able to give us an example.
So let me give a scenario and you tell me if it's correct so that I can understand.
Let's say you do something that irritates her.
Is she likely to just lash out and just be emotionally erratic versus being calm?
Is it very hard for her to control her emotions?
Yeah, I think that's an example.
For example, she gets mad and she can't get past that situation.
Gotcha.
I mean, I'm really like, let's say I learned a new skill or I learned something from a situation.
And I get past that and I know.
And I learn from the situation and I keep going.
And I feel like she learns from something and she doesn't stick.
Let it go?
Yeah.
Does she bring up things that you did in the past that pissed her off?
Yeah.
Okay.
So...
Emotionally erratic and then brings up things from the past.
When you guys argue, what is it normally about?
Not most of the time.
A lot.
What's the most common?
Top two.
Yeah, give us top two or three.
That is an arguing point.
Is it bills?
Is it chores?
Because there's typically...
A root cause for most arguments is it is it maybe he's not doing enough chores.
Maybe you're splitting bills.
I feel like I do everything around the house like cleaning and cooking and stuff like that and I kind of just expect I feel like I feel like fifth in my foundational basis I feel like 50 50 isn't a hundred percent fair because I have to do like the housework you know like I feel like I'm basically paying to do the housework at this point and Like, I have to pay for my cleaning supplies and just, like, pay to get the housework while he kind of sits on his PlayStation and I have to cook and clean and do stuff, you know?
So you do all the homemaking duties while also paying half the bills?
While paying the bills, yeah.
Okay.
So that's one arguing point.
What else is another one?
Another point of argument?
Yeah.
Let's say, no, sometimes I'm, like, emotional about certain things, let's say, but nothing is a big deal for me, and I don't really care about, like...
When you argue with her, what is it mostly about?
So she has her issue with going 50-50 and doing housework.
What's your problem with her if there's an argument?
Oh, dude.
Pfft.
When it comes to maturity, let's say a situation comes in.
I can't think of an example.
Let's say, I don't know, the light cuts off.
We have to do something about it.
Let's figure it out.
Where's the candles?
Let's stand up.
It's a stupid example.
She deals with the situations in the...
The wrong way, like she gets stressed, she cries, I don't know, she doesn't find solutions to the problem, you know?
Gotcha.
So that is lack of maturity.
So has the light ever cut off or you're just giving a random example?
It's a stupid example.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Okay, but your light hasn't cut off, but in general, if a problem comes, she responds emotionally to it and becomes very difficult to deal with.
You're looking for a solution and she's not helpful.
She's crying and being emotional.
Basically, you're trying to solve the issue, you're nonchalant, she's more emotional.
Yeah, I literally said that.
I feel like he just kind of stonewalls me and builds a gigantic wall that I just can't cross.
Let me preface this.
I think this man is the love of my life.
I love him so much.
I would do anything for him.
I'm so serious.
I would do anything for him.
You already did.
Yeah, he did.
You married him.
Okay.
But I love him so much and I would do everything for him and I just wish he was a little bit more appreciative of it.
I don't feel like my energy is being matched in terms of what I do.
Okay.
Alright.
How can you match your energy, you think?
How would you solve your issue by...
Just, like, being there for me a little bit more.
Like, I ask him for, like, flowers, and I haven't, like, received that.
Like, I just, like...
Like, you know, just, like, basic things, you know?
Like, holding the door for me.
Like, driving.
You know, kind of doing stuff that is, like, nice.
Making sure that I'm on the right side of the street.
Like, just, like, small things that you've, like...
Question for you.
You said you grew up in a two-parent household.
Was your father the primary breadwinner?
Yes, he was.
Did your mom work?
Yes, she did.
She did?
But did she do so, like, maybe in a way where it was elective?
Like, she didn't need to work, but she did anyway?
It was elective, yeah.
My mom, my dad is, like, he always has, like, he's always instilled in me, like, this provider mentality of, like, you know, men need to be protectors and providers, and I feel like my definition of a man, or, like...
Based off of your father.
Yeah, just based off of my father is someone who is a protector and a provider.
I don't know if you guys agree with that, but at least what other women are teaching me as well is that, you know, men need to be protectors and providers.
That's what you should search in a man.
So, with your dad, your mom worked, but she worked a side job, nothing serious.
He paid the majority of the bills.
Your mom could have quit at any time and been fine.
Yeah.
And he would have been able to take care of it.
Yeah, and he did, because my mom, she got diagnosed with a terminal illness.
Okay.
So, you know, my dad held it down from there.
Okay.
Right now, could you currently, I want to say, your current job, pay all the bills, if you wanted to?
Yeah, of course.
Why don't you?
This is your wife, right?
Yeah, it is.
She is.
Why not?
I'm just curious.
I mean, I just like to have my comfort zone.
I don't know.
I just like to keep working.
In Argentina, when couples are together, is it the man that normally takes care of the household?
No.
Here's the thing.
In Argentina, where I come from, if a guy meets a girl and they're boyfriend and girlfriend, they can split 50-50 everything and there's no issue about it.
I respect the hustle of a girl, and I respect the hustle of a guy.
I mean, I don't care if, for example, she always criticizes OnlyFans, like, oh, OnlyFans is this, like, bad thing.
And, you know, my ex-girlfriend was, like, a huge OnlyFans girl.
Oh, okay.
Yeah, I think I always, like...
I'm not going to lie, and I'm saying this publicly, I feel like I have to not compete with her, but I'm always like, what does he see in me if his last girl...
I'm a traditional woman.
I don't have any plastic surgery.
I'm a normal girl.
But his ex, and I don't want to seem insecure about it at all, but his ex is this girl with huge tits and a big ass and does OnlyFans, and I just feel like that is so...
Wait, is she blonde?
Yeah.
Yeah.
Beach blonde.
Is she from Argentina?
Yeah.
She's like, top zero.
Bro!
What the fuck?
What?
Are you subscribed?
No!
Okay, okay, okay.
I know her.
Oh, you probably...
Do you?
Oh, shit, nigga.
Top zero.
Yo, okay.
Continue, continue.
Okay, all right.
Oh my god, what did this turn into?
Black twist!
Wait, so you probably seen my dick.
No, definitely not, bro.
I've seen other stuff.
Okay, so she's a porn star then, clearly.
Yeah, she's a porn star.
She was making, let's say, I'll give you this example.
She was making a lot of money, much more than me at the moment in Argentina.
So I got used to the idea of, like, you know, a girl...
Earning a lot of money.
Okay, and we splitting the bill 50-50 even though she earned more than me.
Okay, okay.
So you would say like this...
Did that relationship make it solidify in your head like it's okay to split bills with women?
I mean, yeah.
And where I'm from, to be honest, it's common to split the bill 50-50.
I mean, I can take her out to dinner.
I understand that.
But that relationship, 50-50, why did that relationship end then?
She was really manipulative.
I don't know.
She controlled me.
She had a camera on my apartment.
We have different apartments.
So she put a camera in your apartment?
Yeah.
Because she thought you were cheating?
Exactly.
Were you actually?
I wasn't.
You weren't?
I swear to God.
Did you discover the camera?
She was cheating on you.
This is my theory.
She was so insecure about herself.
She was making good money.
She is still making a lot of money.
I'm going to sip my tea.
Yeah, she was a lot of things.
She was really insecure about like, I don't know, the relationship.
Me cheating on her.
And she put a camera on my apartment.
In your apartment.
And you didn't know about.
No, I knew about.
Oh, you knew it?
Yeah, it was in front of my face.
Why'd you allow it?
Yeah, I think it was my problem.
I mean, I agree to that.
You agree to it?
Yeah, just to stay with her.
So she gave you an ultimatum.
If you don't put this camera in your apartment, we're done.
Yeah.
Okay, and you agreed to it.
Who broke up the relationship?
You or her?
No, I ran away, dude.
She was crazy.
So you ran away?
Yeah.
So were you out together and then you just said, fuck it, bought a ticket and came to the United States?
Something like that.
So you never even called her and said, we're done?
No, no, no.
We were definitely done.
Is that her?
No, it's not her.
I feel like the only way out for me was the United States.
Because if I stayed in Argentina, I can go to every party.
Because in Argentina we only go to, let's say, elite parties, the best parties.
They're private events.
And every weekend.
In Argentina they party a lot.
She will be there every weekend to every party, so I can't have fun in this country, you know?
It's like in Buenos Aires, it's like the capital.
Yeah, she was at every party.
Did that piss you off that she was at every party?
Yeah.
I couldn't have fun.
And everybody was hitting on her and shit like that.
Yes, but she was with me, so she was very respectful.
Okay, let me ask you this then.
Was she doing pornography when you met her?
Yeah, of course.
She already was?
Yeah.
Did that bother you?
Not at all.
I mean, I respect 100% the hustle of a girl.
If a girl wants to make money, she can do anything she wants as long as she's not doing anything with a guy.
But pornography is with a guy.
Thank you.
Please tell him.
I don't like to change people.
I'm all for not changing people's mentality, but I have tried to tell him this.
Can you agree that doing pornography with your couple is fine, but I mean, the difference for me is you're not doing anything in person with another guy.
But you're chatting with them, right?
That's not cheating for me.
But you also don't know if she was shooting content with other guys before you came in.
And also, OnlyFans, you sent private videos.
Yeah.
So, she could be sending other stuff that you don't know about.
Yeah, I mean, she was, I mean, the thing is, her OnlyFans was so big that she had people working on, their OnlyFans, like, she wasn't, like, in charge of selling.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Okay, okay.
You get this.
Okay, very, very interesting.
Are your parents together still?
No, no.
They're divorced?
Yeah, I mainly grew up with my mom.
Okay.
Do you know your father?
Did you ever meet him?
Yeah, yeah.
How old were you when they divorced?
I was a kid.
I was like five.
Okay.
Do you talk to your dad often or no?
No, I don't talk with my dad.
You don't have a relationship with him at all?
No.
Okay, so your mom raised you.
Yeah, 100%.
Did your mom tell you, did she instill values that men are supposed to provide and protect?
Or was she more like, hey, equal 50-50, partnership?
That's why this is the thing.
I really respect my mom.
She raised me.
She's really proud of me because I'm here.
I'm successful and everything.
She does split 50-50 with her husband at the moment, and I respect that.
She got fired of her job recently, and she's doing things as an entrepreneur, and I'm glad.
She's helping her husband, and they're working together, they're making money together, and they're paying the bill together.
So your mother's relationship now is more like equal partnership and that's kind of what you've been used to?
Yeah, my whole life.
I mean, I get the thing.
I'm not stupid.
I came to Miami and all of the sudden is like, hey, here's how we do it.
The man has to pay the bills and the woman has to stay home and raise the children.
And you don't believe in them?
You don't like it?
I mean, I respect, I mean, that can be, and if both, I mean, they both and the couple agree, I don't see any problem with that.
There's a saying, hold on, real quick.
So, you understand and you acknowledge it, but you don't believe in it?
I mean, I believe in that.
I just like a woman who works for her money.
I just don't like a woman.
So even though you acknowledge that the traditional relationship is okay, you don't disagree with it, it's not what you do.
Yeah.
Okay, fair.
So there's a saying, what the Romans do.
Now in this case, this is your wife.
Yeah.
Why her though?
Because she is the opposite opinion.
Yeah.
I mean, that's what I'm saying.
Everything is good and the bad.
I mean, her mom always tells her, like, your man has to pay everything.
And I'm like, okay, this is it.
I mean, I can pay for everything, but, like, that will not, like, let you progress in life.
Like, you have to do something for your own.
Like, as little as, you know, making $1,000, $2,000 a month, you have to do that.
You know what I mean?
Hold on.
Do you want it to work?
Work?
I mean, I don't...
I mean, I'd rather her not working, but like...
No, no.
Do you want this to work together?
Like, this relationship?
Yeah.
I mean, that's why I'm here.
So, question for you.
Yeah.
This might sound mean, but did you marry her for a green card?
Oh, shit.
No.
No, but like, that helps.
I mean, she was actually one that proposed me to marry.
Yeah.
Oh, so you brought it up.
Yeah.
Because you want him here to stay.
Yeah.
She got obsessed.
That's what I'm saying.
Just out of curiosity, did you come on a visa or did you come on a non...
Because Argentina, if I'm not mistaken, is a visa waiver.
You didn't need a visa to come, right?
No, I had to get a visa.
You did get a visa.
Yeah, I had to get a visa in the United States consul, whatever, in Argentina, to stay here.
But did you enter with a visa is my question.
Yeah, I entered with a visa.
You entered with a visa.
A B1B2? Yeah.
A B1B2. Alright then.
And then, obviously, you probably had to go back and you were like, hey...
I don't want you to leave.
I love you.
And you guys got married.
Yeah.
I mean, I didn't propose, by the way.
Let me just straighten that out.
I did not propose.
I don't believe in that.
That's obviously like...
What he meant by that I proposed is that I kind of told him like, hey, I know your situation and then I want to help you.
Like, you're the love of my life.
I can't have a relationship with the love of my life being in a different country.
I don't believe in like...
Long distance.
Long distance.
Like, I just...
I don't think...
You proposed the idea of getting married.
Yeah, I did.
But he proposed in his own time and everything.
It's a genuine marriage.
Trust me, we've seen fake marriages.
Clearly you guys actually are together.
You guys actually do love each other.
Usually it's the other way around where the girl is using the guy to get in or whatever.
But in this case, you love him, you care about him, you propose the idea, you propose to you.
So I understand it's definitely legit in that regard.
And just fact check, Argentina is not a visa waiver country.
Thanks, Moe.
I don't want to add as well.
What?
They did mention they want to do couples therapy before they came to the show, which means they actually want to actively work on this themselves.
Yes.
Outside of Fresh and Fit.
Yeah, they're going to do it.
That's actually a good thing.
They're going to go to therapy, which I think is actually a good idea.
Yeah.
Depending on who you go with.
I have some questions.
No, please keep going.
No, let's do some chats first.
I am actually shocked at that answer, by the way, that he gave earlier about the green card.
What?
What?
We'll get to that here in a second.
Okay, go ahead.
Okay, Fresh.
I have a buddy, 22, who's dating and taking serious a 42-year-old woman who's a nurse with two baby daddies.
He moved in with her, and I tried to put him on to you guys.
He wasn't with it.
It really shows a lot of men aren't RP aware.
Yeah, man.
Some guys aren't.
Yeah.
Okay, what else do we got here?
I am Davey, 50 bucks goes, WFNF, 24 years old, going to hit 50K in the bank by January.
How can I grow up more, keep up the work, boys?
Keep that money on the side, bro, and then go ahead and start saving more money to invest into.
That's your emergency fund, my friend.
Taj goes, Myron, I have my oral board interview for the police department tomorrow morning.
Are there any last minute tips, advice you can give me, excluding suit slash tie and doing research on a department I feel very confident right now, but I would love your expertise.
Um...
Bro, just be calm, go in there, get a good night's sleep, and then they're going to ask you questions about your moral character and everything else like that.
Be okay with telling the truth, like, hey, there was this one time where I was conflicted, etc., but I wanted to do X, but I ended up doing Y. That's very important, because they are probably going to ask you a question that is integrity-based like that.
So just have a story ready to go in your head, where you were tempted to do something and you didn't.
Free Truman Show.
It should be required for newly married couples to watch RP content after marriage.
You get a year to divorce without losing anything.
Women would still be up to trickery.
At least a man would have a true chance.
People aren't ready for the RP, bro.
Trust me.
Do you guys have a prenup?
No.
No?
What is that?
Like a...
He doesn't even know what it is.
So basically, it's a document that you can write up with a lawyer.
It kind of has like a protection for each party.
So if you have like real estate or assets, they're protected in a way.
Interesting.
No, we don't have it.
I don't have it.
Who makes more money?
I do.
You do?
Okay.
Okay.
Approximately 50% of marriages are sexless.
Would be interesting to see episodes regarding this issue as many men are quietly suffering.
Dad Starting Over would be a good YouTube channel to interview.
Thanks for what you all do.
Appreciate that, Tregona.
Yeah, maybe we could do that.
Mo, can you pull up that channel and save it on the side?
What up, FNAF gang?
I'm an average Asian male and making 55k a year, 55 foot 8, 35 years old, 180 pounds, body count of 3, happily married with our 4 biological kids.
Where are we at here?
To an average Asian woman whose body count of 3, 33 years old, 5 foot 240 pounds.
Alright.
That's very detailed, bro.
Yeah, that's very detailed.
But, bro, you're fat as fuck at 180 pounds and 5'8", man.
You need to lose way some weight.
Black Nazi goes, someone tell her, you can only be a high-value woman if you can lock down a high-value man.
This...
This nigga Tony Hawk better run while he can.
What the fuck?
That's so funny.
They call him Tony Hawk because he's a skater.
I do skate.
That's funny, bro.
Skateboard?
That's so funny.
That's funny.
Igrunt goes, yo, that alien looking ass 304 has a five head, a huge nose.
Hope you're paying extra rent for all the space that empty container is taking up.
God damn.
Bear goes, narcissist BPD. These are extremely rare disorders are used by women every day to excuse bad behavior.
You were diagnosed by a psychiatrist using a DSM-5, receiving therapy, meds.
Yes, yes, and yes.
Okay.
Did you know this before you married her?
Uh, no.
Yes.
It was a trap.
No.
It was literally...
You triggered my trap card!
Wait, you didn't tell him?
It was the first thing I told him.
It was the first thing, literally.
Literally, first date.
Well, you gotta make it, I wanna say, repetitive because...
I made it repetitive.
He doesn't understand what it is.
He thinks it's all in my head and that I've crafted this.
But no, obviously my upbringing kind of fucked me up a little bit.
And now I have a personality disorder.
But at the same time, I don't excuse my bad behavior with what I have.
I just kind of, you know, I treat it.
Question, and you guys don't have to be super accurate about this, but what is total yearly income between the two of you?
Probably like 70 to 100k.
Okay, it fluctuates that much.
Yeah, 70 to 100k.
A year.
Okay.
And you guys are young, so that's not bad.
And he's the predominant breadwinner?
Yeah.
Now, if needed, and you asked this before, he could take care of both of you.
However, I'm assuming you said it wouldn't be comfortable.
It would be like, you know, pretty much...
Too much.
You'd be able to do it, but y'all would be basically like paycheck to paycheck, that type of shit.
Yeah, I don't want to do that.
I mean, I want to just save a little bit of money.
Okay.
You'd be able to do it, but you wouldn't be able to save.
Yeah, probably.
And you're renting, right?
Yeah, we rent.
Okay.
Okay.
And they're Fort Lauderdale.
Just so the audience understands, Fort Lauderdale is about 30 miles from here.
Similar cost of living to Miami.
It's not cheap.
It's not cheap either.
You guys have a one or two bedroom apartment, I'm guessing?
Yeah.
Two bedroom?
One bedroom, yeah.
One bedroom, let me guess, 3K? Something like that a month?
2K, yeah.
2.2.
2.2?
Yeah.
Oh, that's actually pretty good.
Yeah, 2.2, yeah.
We wanted to move to more close to Miami, like Sunny Isles, and pay like $2.5, like $300 more, and we're living in Sunny Isles, much better, I think.
Okay.
You're closer to the beach, are you?
Go ahead, Mo.
You look closer to the beach?
For a lot of the area?
Yeah, I like the beach.
Okay, alright then.
So, I mean, okay, so you guys could live on one income, it's just that you would have to bring down your quality of life.
You wouldn't be able to save money.
You'd have to maybe not, you wouldn't be able to do certain things that you guys normally do?
Yeah.
Okay.
I just bought a new car also.
Okay.
What car is it?
I just bought a BMW C4 2020.
Cool.
It's not relatively new.
Is it Lisa or...
No, I just paid it off.
Paid off cash?
Yeah.
Nice, man.
Thank you.
Okay, question real quick.
So your ex, because I don't mean to go into this deeper, but I actually do know her.
You do know her?
Yeah, I know her.
Shut up.
No way.
That's so funny.
I'm in the circles that, you know...
Yeah, yeah, probably.
So what if, right, she didn't have, like, issues mentally?
Would you have married her?
What?
I'm sorry, again?
For example, she's crazy.
100%.
No, no.
Her.
Oh, my ex?
Yeah, she's crazy.
Oh, yeah, she is.
What if she was, like, sane?
Would you have married her?
Yes.
Yeah?
Yes.
Okay.
So question.
With her.
What made you choose her?
Because I should have made this like a baseline here because obviously speaking, she's definitely crazy.
But for you, like you're doing things that like she doesn't want you to do.
And I asked you a question earlier.
Do you want to make it work?
So if you want to make it work, why not do what she wants you to do?
I'd be a man.
For her.
Yeah, you're absolutely right.
Because she's your wife.
Yeah, you're right.
I mean, I want to make this work, so I guess we have to find our right balance.
That's why I always talk about the Jinjang.
I always have a title on my skin.
And, yeah, we have to find our right balance.
I mean...
It's hard.
I mean, it's hard to be a housewife, you know?
I mean, I love the single life.
I love, you know, to go out every nightclub, you know, flirt with every girl.
That's a really good lifestyle for me.
It was for years, but, like, I was looking for a girl to, you know, to get married and just to have, like, a quiet life, not to get out, you know, to party every day.
Do you think you're happy right now with Bianca?
Or do you miss partying, having fun?
Be honest.
No, no, no.
I am happy.
I am happy and I want to be more happy.
So my way to make it work is like, you know, stop arguing.
She having more mature like behavior.
She having more like an open mind.
And I'm doing more things that she likes.
She wants me to open her door every day.
I mean, sometimes I'm working on my phone 24-7.
I literally work on my phone every time, and I have to do everything.
Sometimes I can't drive because I have to work.
There's like a 40-minute drive to Miami, and she has to drive.
And I'm like, okay, you don't even have a job right now.
You don't do nothing.
At least you cook, drive.
I mean, the minimum.
This is before when she didn't have a job.
What?
This is before when she, because she has a job now, but you're saying like back before when she didn't have a job.
Yeah.
Okay.
I mean, and yeah, pretty much I have to work on my phone, so literally, if she wants me to, you know, be more kind, buy her little flowers or whatever, I can do that.
I mean, I know she loves me and I love her, but like, it's hard when you like live together for months, you know?
Also, I'd like to mention, and you guys are, everyone in the chat's gonna, like, the chat's gonna blow up.
We moved in three weeks of dating.
Okay.
Like, we moved in together, like, after three weeks of dating.
Okay.
We went to New York with her parents.
Yeah, we, like...
Bruh.
I feel like we hit the ground, like, running, because, like...
We met.
Our first date, he asked me to be his girlfriend.
Like, literally, our first date.
Wait, what?
First date, he asked me to be his girlfriend.
On your birthday?
On my birthday, yeah.
Okay.
Tony Hawk, what's going on, bro?
I don't know.
I like to do tree flips and kick flips.
I don't know.
And, okay, so he asked me out.
And then I was like, do you want to come to, like, my family trip with my parents?
Like, two weeks.
Like, literally, like...
What does your father do, by the way?
My father has his own construction company.
Okay.
So your family's well off?
Middle class.
I mean, if he owns a construction company, he ain't no middle class, bro.
He has his own carpentry company.
He does everything, though.
He has employees and stuff?
Yeah, he has two employees.
Two employees, but they do contracting and everything else like that?
Yeah.
Okay.
He's well off.
Yeah, he's well off.
He's able to provide a situation where your parents...
To this day, he's always like...
My dad is one of the number one people in my life.
I respect him so much.
I look up to him beyond belief to this day.
Where do your folks live?
Here in Florida or are they up in New York?
Yeah, here.
They live five minutes away from us.
Okay.
Alright.
But it was just a family trip to New York then?
Yeah.
Okay.
It was a family trip to New York.
He came and he left a good impression and then in New York we had an Airbnb together for like a week and we were just like I wanted to get out of my parents house I was just eager to get out of my parents house and he was like I need a place to live and I was like It's convenient.
Okay, it's convenient.
Like, let's do it together.
And originally, the agreement was that he was going to pay a little more rent than I was.
But it just turned, like, split.
You know how I mentioned, like, she just got out of her parents' house, you know?
So when you guys met, you were living with your parents?
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Okay.
So she's experimenting the life, you know, of being independent and living alone.
Is this the first time that you've lived alone?
Yeah.
By the way, or lived not under your parents' house?
Yeah.
Did you live in dorms when you were in college before?
I did not, no.
You lived at home and you commuted to campus?
Yeah.
How many, because you're 23, so how many more years do you have left in school?
I have like a year left.
I took a gap.
I was going to say you took a break?
Yeah.
I also started later because, remember, I'm the military girl.
I was in the Navy.
Do you remember that?
It was a while ago.
It was a while ago.
It was last year.
But I was in the military, but I had an injury and I couldn't continue my service.
How long were you in?
I think six months.
Okay.
You got a medical discharge?
Yeah, I got a medical discharge and...
So I started college a little later.
Okay.
Yeah, that's why.
It's taken a while.
Sorry, you were saying something?
No, the thing is, for me, I've been hustling for literally years.
And I've been making my own money, let's say, eight years and living alone in Argentina.
And I have my own story in progress.
And yeah, I just feel a little bit more mature in terms of living.
Yeah, you've been on your own for longer.
Yeah, I have my own career, let's say.
And...
Yeah, I don't know.
So, I have my notes, everything in my head of what's happening here.
Do you?
Yeah, yeah.
You can go ahead and you want to take it first?
Yeah.
Or should we read the chats first?
Mo, you call it.
The chat?
Before...
It's just one?
Okay, I see it right here.
Aaron Carter has risen from the dead and started dating Peyton Manning's forehead.
Man, y'all niggas, man.
Okay.
So, before we start to close this off a little bit here.
So, in this case...
You both know what you need to do, right?
Now, you mentioned being more of a man, buying flowers, opening the door.
It sounds easy to do, but you're not doing it for some reason, right?
You mentioned, I guess, being less emotional, being more, I want to say, understanding yourself.
Anything else you think you could do to make it better yourself?
Yeah, for sure.
I would say the biggest thing that I need to work on, and I express this to him all the time, I don't think the problems in our relationship are one-sided.
I'm not that type of girl to be like, it's your fault, you're a piece of shit.
I'm not like that.
You do say that when you're arguing, right?
What?
You say that when you're arguing, right?
No, like, I guess like being disrespected a little bit kind of just like pushes you to say that because I feel like a lot of the reason why girls act, why they act or why women act very emotional is just I feel like they're being pushed to that point.
That's toxic.
Oh my god.
So he's, but your biggest thing is that you didn't, I wrote this down earlier, is that he calls you stupid or he belittles you.
Yeah, I don't like that.
What does she say that makes you say that she's stupid?
Is it valid?
Pendejo.
It's not about what I say, it's about what I do.
Okay, what does she do that makes you say you're stupid?
Like, I'll like drop some keys and he'll be like, you're stupid.
Uh, I don't know.
Pendeja.
I don't remember specifically, but yeah, something like that probably.
Payasa.
Payaso.
Okay.
Sorry, continue on first.
No, no.
Okay, so what can you do as well to make this work?
One more thing.
Yeah, I mean, thank you.
I mean, thank you for, like, honestly trying to make this work because it ends up, like, helping us.
And, yeah, I mean, I can be more of a man for her, like, buying her flowers, doing more details for her.
Hold on, do you want to be, though?
Because, see, this premise here, this foundation has to be from the very beginning.
Because if it's not in you...
Are you going to do it now?
Probably not.
You might do it for a little bit, and you stop.
Because I'm sure at the beginning, things weren't as like, I want to say flat out how they are now.
Let me ask you a question.
Let's say, or you guys.
If you want to impress a girl, let's say, for the first time, let's say, and you take the girl out, you buy everything for her, obviously.
If you want to be like, you know.
I know where you're going with this, but go ahead.
Yeah, like, you date her for a week.
You go all out.
What?
You go all out for the girl.
Yeah, you know what I'm saying?
So, yeah, I think that after the time, it fades a little bit, but you can get to a mutual agreement of, you know, the respect and, you know, the interest about the other person.
So, basically, you love-bombed her for like a week or two and said, okay, I got her now.
I'm about to get married.
Fuck this shit, nigga.
I'm in.
I'm already in this.
Locked in.
Okay.
So, again, I bring this to you because, honestly speaking, bro, it happens to most guys.
You put in the work at the beginning, you get her, you relax, it gets complacent, and then she's like, damn, nagging you a little bit, nudging you, like, hey, could you do this, could you do that?
Do you agree with that, what he just said?
Yeah, I feel like naggy wife is kind of the role that I've taken up and I don't like it.
What is that naggy wife?
She keeps telling you things back to repeating herself like, hey, can you do this for me?
Do that for me?
Oh, just do this.
Change this.
It's always coming back the same thing over and over again.
Yeah, probably.
Yeah.
So, again, I just think here, in this situation, you guys did it too early.
Because, for one, you don't know who she is, and you don't know who he is.
Because he portrayed a picture of himself.
As you can see, he either gave you some hints of who he is as a person, but I think it's time.
I'm moving in, in three weeks, it's crazy, dawg.
Like, yo, like...
Yo, I bought a dog.
They didn't live with me, but he was outside the first four weeks.
I couldn't imagine another human being.
Off rip, I will say this.
I'm glad you guys are together.
Thank you.
But you have a lot of work to do, as you guys know.
But more importantly...
As an individual, you need to understand him, you need to understand her.
But that only comes with time.
And being together that close at the very beginning, you can't possibly learn somebody, you know, the right way.
Because what's happening here is, you're seeing her for who she is, but you're not ready for her.
Because, I'll tell you this.
As a leader, as a man, being someone that's married to a woman, you have to understand that you have to be that guy who's going to take care of the family, be there for her.
And yes, I get you're from Argentina.
It's not the same over there.
But you're in Rome, bro.
You're in the U.S. You've got to conform to something.
Now, as a man, if you don't want to do that, then she's not for you.
And as a woman, if you want your man to be along those lines of a leader and be an actual high-value man, then you chose the wrong person because if he doesn't want to change, then what'd you do?
So I think on some level, You guys have a love there, but the understanding and the foundation is rocky.
And if you don't change now, it won't get any better for the future.
And to be honest with you, I think he's comfortable where he's at.
You want him to do better, but is he going to change?
Probably not.
Thank you.
Yeah, I want her to step on, you know, and be on my level.
And, you know, if I make, let's say, I make a thousand dollars a day, she needs to, you know, be motivated by that and say, okay, I can do like 200, 500, let's say.
No, no, but you're seeing the point.
I didn't say that.
I'm sorry.
She needs to come on your level.
I was saying that you don't understand her.
That's the problem.
I got it.
And she doesn't understand you.
So you want her to do better, but she wants you to do better by two different things.
So, I'm saying in a nutshell, that right now, you both want different things that you can't give each other.
And as a result, what's gonna happen is, more arguments, more toxic environments, and if you don't fix it now, I wanna say the foundation, it's never gonna work out.
Question, you said you bought that BMW, right, cash?
Yeah.
How much did it cost you?
40.
So you paid 40k cash?
Yeah.
Okay.
Alright.
Do you have anything else for it?
Or no, you were trying to say something, right?
I don't think so.
I just want to hear your take on what I just said.
Does that make sense?
Yeah, I mean, I think the biggest thing is, like I said, it's not a one-sided thing.
I just think we both, it's not him he needs to change.
I think we both need to change.
I need to make strides towards being a more high-value woman.
I want to, you know, control my emotions.
Just be more in my feminine energy, but it's hard to be in your feminine energy when he's not in his masculine energy.
And I just feel like it's not a criticism.
I just feel like, you know, he can do more strides to do that.
I feel like, as a woman, I feel like when you're in a relationship, the man should be a leader.
He's the alpha.
He should, but nowadays, are most men that way?
No.
Alright, let me give my take on it.
Please.
So I'm just going to be very, very blunt here.
I don't mean to be offensive here, but I'm going to be very honest about the situation from going through everything here.
She's looking for a provider.
You're looking for a partner.
The two don't coincide.
You're looking for someone who's equal to you or someone that's going to also be a potential breadwinner.
She's looking for someone to take care of her and that's going to be a masculine leader.
And the problem is that you...
You're not ready, at this point, just from some of your behaviors, you're not ready to really take on a woman as a husband.
You still have some party stuff that you want to do.
You're just not really responsible.
You spend $40,000 on a BMW cash when you're in a marriage with a girl.
And the thing is, too, is that she's taking an enormous risk on you.
She married you.
She's helping you with your immigration status.
She's basically deferring to your authority.
And the reason why she's so frustrated and angry and she's nagging you and stuff like that.
And a lot of these arguments come is because you're not fulfilling your job.
She comes from a household where her dad is a leader.
He's a provider.
Her mom worked.
Her mom worked electively versus having to work.
And she has that frame of reference of what a man should be off of her father.
And you're not lining up to that.
And that's where her frustrations come with.
And a lot of the times, whenever you look at a woman and she's frustrated or she's in a situation and she's nagging or whatever, A lot of the time it's because the man isn't doing his job.
Now, does that mean that she's off the hook?
No, she has some things that she has to work on as well with the BPD and everything, but your inadequacies are bringing you out even more so because you're not doing your job, so it's heightening her instability.
I feel like I can't be a completely feminine woman and just be in my feminine energy of just mothering something or being...
Because how am I going to mother something if I have to constantly worry about, oh, how am I going to pay this bill?
How am I going to pay this?
It's not about being a gold digger.
I hate gold diggers.
I'm not a gold digger.
But as a woman, I feel like you need to know your value and your worth.
And I feel like...
Being a woman of in itself is a job.
You have to be a nanny.
You have to be a cleaner.
You have to be a psychologist.
You have to be there for your man.
And providing for her financially is not a burden.
It's not a gold digging thing.
You're supplying and you're supplementing all of these things.
You're paying for all these things.
I understand your perspective 100%.
But the thing is that you guys are looking for different things.
You're looking for a traditional man.
Unfortunately, he's not a traditional man.
At least not yet.
He's looking for a 50-50 partnership.
And the other telling thing, too, is that you want to be able to save money, and you don't really want to be a breadwinner yourself.
You want to be able to kind of make money, save as much of it, and then have her chip in with the bills, which I understand, but that's not what she wants.
So you guys are looking for two different things.
She's looking for a traditional masculine figure, and you're more of like a more modern man, which, unfortunately, I'm going to give you some advice here.
Most women, even the most liberal women, believe what she believes.
Even a girl that has a career that makes a bunch of money, she's still going to want you to make more money, bro.
Let's get something straight.
I still want a career, and I'm still trying to push in that direction of being a career.
That proves my point.
Even with you being someone who's more modern, you still want a man to provide for you.
He also expects me to just have this millionaire mentality of just having a million dollar business.
And I feel like I'm being pressured to do that instead of being pushed in that direction.
See, you guys start a company together?
No.
Wait, no, no, hold on, hold on.
This is like an analogy here.
Two of you start a company with two different mission statements.
Yours is 50-50.
Yours is, he's the CEO. But as a result, the business is shaky because it's two different statements.
So I'm just saying to say, like you said earlier, you're on two different playing fields here.
And if you don't catch up to each other or make a compromise, it won't work.
Well, yeah, I mean, it's just very, very simple.
I mean, bro, I'm just being a thousand percent with you.
Like, you're not really mature right now.
You're like a kid, bro.
You're like a kid, dude.
Which is fine.
Thank you for the...
I mean, I was listening the whole time.
Thank you for the perspective, and I think you're absolutely right about, like, what you say.
I thought about it.
And...
Yeah, I mean, we had, like, a rocky, like, beginning.
And we found out, like, we have different, like, mindsets.
Her mom, like, taught her about, like, you know, having, like, a marriage where the guy pays everything.
And I came from, like, an entrepreneur, like, group where, like, everyone...
Aaron's money.
I don't care if you're a woman or a guy.
You can make money.
She sometimes makes, for example, excuses about, hey, I'm a woman.
I can't make that money.
And I'm like, dude, are you kidding me?
I don't say that, but thank you.
I don't think I've ever said that in my entire life.
This is an example.
She's getting excuses like, hey, I'm a woman.
I can't make that money.
Never said that.
She did.
She said, men make more money than women.
I'm like, dude, she had tits.
She can do OnlyFans and make a lot of money.
But she doesn't want to do that.
I don't want to do that.
I don't want to do that.
I love...
I'm all for women who do OnlyFans.
That's not what I want to do.
That's not something I want to do.
I respect that.
Look, look, look, man.
I'm just going to be, again...
You need to man up.
You're kind of a bitch.
I'm not gonna lie.
I'm just gonna tell it like it is.
You got a girl.
She's married to you.
She's helping you stay in the country.
She is petitioning for your green card.
She's taking an enormous amount of risk on you, and what she wants in return is a leader, a guy that's gonna take care of her, a guy that's gonna be dominant, a guy that's gonna be assertive.
Looking at your girl and saying, hey, keep up with me, make money with me, Do you want another dude?
I mean, you're the man, bro.
That's what I'm saying.
You're the man.
You're the leader.
You dictate everything.
You should be telling her what it is.
You should be the breadwinner.
You should be taking care of her.
I mean, bro, spending 40K on a BMW when you have a wife at home is ridiculous.
That's crazy, bro.
Thank you.
Thank you for your advice.
You're living like you're single.
And then the other thing, too, is that you're responsible for her now.
You're a fucking man, bro.
You need to behave like a man.
I feel like girls have this thing where they like to turn their brain off when they're with their man because they know their man has got it.
He's got it.
He knows where to go.
He has everything planned.
I feel like I have to take on that role of knowing where I have to go, having everything planned, and it's exhausting.
I feel like I'm doing everything.
I understand that.
Sometimes.
And that's why, dude, that's why she's nagging you.
She's nagging you because you're not doing your job as a man.
Like, I get it.
When you're dating, you guys want to go 50-50 feeling it out.
That's cool.
But, dude, you just literally, y'all got married.
It's now, it's changed.
Now you have to step up.
And it's up to you, bro.
Like, if you don't want to step up and you're like, okay, you know what?
Nah, I kind of want to do this 50-50 thing.
Then be prepared for her to be nagging you, to be mad all the time, not be fulfilled, etc.
But women want a dominant leader and you might not be that guy yet.
Let me give you the forecast, right?
Because obviously speaking, there's a lot to take in.
Yeah, yeah.
We're just being honest with you, bro.
You're a dude.
I'm a dude.
You know, we're all dudes here, bro.
We understand the struggle, bro.
We want to live our life.
Thank you.
Get lit.
Have fun.
So, here's the forecast, bro.
Right?
Yeah, I made bad decisions.
Hold on.
A year pass.
Two years pass.
You know, hopefully you're still together.
And, you know, she's still nagging you.
You're still doing anything.
And you break up.
But now you're in the country.
You're good to go.
You leave.
You do your thing.
Or you make a change here and you say, you know what?
I'm going to be the man that she wants me to be or for myself.
Just be that man.
And you stay together.
So again, it's up to you, bro, as a man, if you want to say what you want to do.
But if you really love her, you make a change.
If you don't, then...
And here's the thing.
You need to make the change.
And I'm going to tell you why.
Yeah.
It's not even about doing it.
Of course, you should do it.
You guys are together.
You should do it, like, you know, for the betterment of the marriage.
But the point I'm trying to make is you need to change anyway, because let's say you leave her.
Next girl you get is also going to want you to be a leader.
And I know you're saying like, oh, I want a girl that's a hustler that makes money.
That's fine.
Guess what happens when a girl becomes a hustler and makes money?
She wants you to make even more money.
I mean, you were in that relationship with that porn star.
She was bossing you around.
She put a camera in your fucking house and you sat there and said, hold on.
She was bossing me around.
Yeah, she was bossing you around.
But you know why she was bossing you around?
Because she made more money than you, bro.
Yeah.
And anytime a girl's able to boss you around, she loses attraction for you.
So the point I'm trying to make is this.
Let's say you find this girl that's a go-getter that motivates you, that makes money, etc.
She's going to still expect you to make more money.
So you need to man up regardless.
Because if it doesn't work out with her, the next girl's going to want the same shit.
Yeah, and I tell him, all girls are like that.
You know what he says?
You know what he says indiscreetly?
And I don't mean to call you out, but he thinks being a provider and being a provider for a man is prostitution.
No, I don't think so.
No, he says this all the time.
He's like, oh, you want a man that, like, being a man that pays everything for his girl, that's prostitution because you're exchanging sex for money, which is, it's not that.
It's not, I don't feel like it's that.
I mean, no, it can be different.
I mean, if a guy pays everything for a girl and a girl is using the guy for that, for me, it's like paying for it.
But I'm not using you.
I'm not using you.
No, no, you're not.
See, I get what you're saying, because most girls, I'm not gonna lie, bro.
I'm not paying shit.
But she's your wife, bro.
This is actually your girl.
This is your wife.
You know, granted, your ex-girl, bro, I actually know her.
And it's funny because you said you were with her, right, bro?
But you know what's funny about that whole scenario?
She was controlling you.
Yeah, 100%.
I believe that.
She felt like she deserved it.
You know why?
She made more money than you.
Yeah.
So in that reality right there, even though she's paying half and half with you, she's trying to control you.
And in that sense right there, what does that mean?
If you leave her, like he said before, next girl is going to do the same shit.
Bro, all girls want the same...
Like, they'll sit there and say, I'm a boss babe or whatever, but they all want you to be a leader.
So you might as well figure this out now and understand that I'm the fucking man, I'm the leader, etc.
You just got to be more mature.
I mean, it's crazy to me that you spent 40k cash...
On a car when you have a wife at home, bro.
Like, that money should have been saved as an emergency fund.
Like, you just gotta move smarter and be more intelligent.
Like, do you really need a BMW? Do you really need a car like that?
Well, thank you.
Thank you for that.
I mean, I just wanna have fun a little bit and then save.
I mean, I just wanna have the mentality of, you know, I spent 40K, I can make 40K. Bro, fuck your fun, man.
Yo.
In your 20s as a man, you should be sacrificing and grinding.
You shouldn't be drinking.
You shouldn't be partying.
You shouldn't be running around.
You know what I was doing when I was 24 years old?
I was arresting terrorists.
I was working every day.
I was working 70, 80 hour weeks.
I was kicking doors in, arresting some of the worst people of the worst.
I was putting pedophiles away.
At 24, I had to decide, okay, I'm either going to become a man or I'm going to continue to be a boy.
And I forced myself to mature.
And that's what you have to do, man.
You need to literally take your 20s and grind.
Like, fuck having a car, fuck partying, fuck drugs, fuck all this other dumb shit.
You should literally be at home, working with your wife, building a legacy, right?
Because you decided to get married, and she took an enormous amount of risk on you, getting you a green card, letting you stay here, right?
Where there's more opportunity than in Argentina.
And you gotta pay it back, man.
You gotta step up and be a man, bro.
You need to sacrifice your 20s as a man.
You're not a woman.
You need to build your legacy now while you're young and you're able-bodied.
And I feel like being married to him this young...
I want to reiterate that we did not get married for the immigration thing.
We just genuinely have a lot of love for each other.
And we have connected on a different level.
And that's the real reason we got married.
But...
I think the roles have kind of interfered.
And I feel like that's why I can't be...
Well, there is no role.
That's the problem.
There's no defined roles here.
Exactly.
I feel like as a woman, I have my roles and I have my responsibilities.
For me to be in my feminine energy, I need to complete those roles and responsibilities.
But I can't do that if I'm constantly thinking about where to get money from.
Okay, let's play this out real quick.
If he doesn't change, would you leave?
I want to say no, because it's been an issue for, like, ever.
And I've never left.
I mean, we've both done a lot of things to each other, and none of us have left.
And I think that shows, like, commitment to the relationship and just making it work.
If she doesn't change, would you leave?
Here's the thing.
I want this to work, right?
So, if she wants me...
What's your favorite color?
Blue.
Green.
Go ahead.
For Rumble?
Okay, rumble.com.
Yeah, I want a change for her, and I want her to change for me.
So, I want to make this work.
I mean, I'm going to be honest.
I mean...
I have always been honest with her.
I mean, it's not like, hey, I'm a scammer.
I'm like, hey, I want you for your green card, so I'm not going to behave that way for a certain amount of time until I get my green card and then I'm gone.
No, I'm transparent and I'm always going to be honest with her.
And I'm the way I am.
And yeah, for the 50-50 thing, I think it's fair.
And...
Well, look, we spoke about it on the show.
You guys have your both, I guess, issues you brought up.
We found a several line here where you can make a change for each person, but ultimately it's up to you.
50-50 is unacceptable, bro.
I think it's unacceptable.
You think so?
If you want her to do what she's supposed to do, you want her to be your wife, you want her to stay, like, you know, cook and clean for you, et cetera, while you play PlayStation, it costs to be the boss, man.
You can't sit there and play PlayStation and then go 50-50 with her and then expect her to do what she's supposed to do.
You need to do your job and then that allows her to do her job.
Okay.
Let's say, okay, I'm going to say that.
I'm going to say this.
If she expects me to change that way, I can do that.
I can do that.
But I expect her to change as well in terms of maturing and, I don't know, being more professional about her life.
Well, here's the thing, bro.
She's not going to flip out as much if you're doing what you need to do.
Naturally.
It's just natural.
Like, she's going to be in her feminine state, and she's going to be less likely to nag you or whatever when you're doing what you're supposed to do.
If you're paying all the bills, you take care of her.
She's sitting at the house.
She's chilling.
She's taking care of your stuff.
She's washing your underwear.
She's cooking and cleaning.
You're going to have everything ready for you when you show up.
She can't argue with you.
She's not in a position.
And if she does, you can tell her, shut up.
What are you talking about?
And that's the thing.
You need to have that...
You need to have that...
You need to have that leverage with your woman.
The problem is that you don't have any real leadership skills right now.
And she's frustrated from that.
And that's why I manifest...
Again, you got some issues that you got to deal with as well.
Of course, yeah.
With going to therapy and everything else to help that.
But at the same time, the woman is the representative of her leader.
And right now she doesn't have one.
Bro, no matter what girl you date, 50-50 won't work.
And it's crazy because that chick that you were talking to before...
Yeah.
I've seen her before.
Really?
Multiple times.
In Argentina?
No.
Oh, in OnlyFans.
What are in social media?
Social media.
Oh, yeah.
Translation, she was talking to other men when she was with you because you weren't doing what you're supposed to do.
DMs.
No.
No way.
Yes.
And that's what happens when you're not the guy.
That's impossible.
I believe that because I had her account the whole time in the whole relationship in my phone and she had my Instagram account.
But when you broke up?
What?
You still have it now?
What?
You still have it now?
No, obviously not.
I don't care what she did after we breaking up.
Well, you broke up before, way before, but you just didn't know.
Bro, I had her Instagram.
You're talking for the cloud.
But yeah.
Alright, man.
Whatever you say, bro.
But yeah, I mean, the relationship was really, like, controlling.
Like, I had her Instagram.
She had my Instagram.
I had her location on 24-7.
She had my location.
She had a camera on me.
I didn't have a camera on her apartment.
But, like...
And here's the other thing too, bro.
I gotta tell you.
Men and women are not equal.
You have this mindset of men and women are equal.
I have your location.
You have mine.
You make money.
I make money.
That's not how it goes, bro.
You need to be the leader.
Your way or the highway.
We don't negotiate with women.
You need to learn the skill set.
And I get it.
You're young.
You grew up in a single mother household.
You've seen equality work to some degree maybe with your mom.
But that's not how it works in general, man.
Most of them want a breadwinner.
So, like, whether it's with her or with another woman, regardless, every girl, regardless how much money they make, always wants a breadwinner, wants a leader.
I'm just realizing this, and yeah, thank you.
The thing is, when I was in Argentina, let's say, living a single life, when I paid everything for a girl, I was like, in my mindset, it was like, okay, I'm impressing this girl, I'm paying for the apartment, I have...
I used to rent like the luxurious apartment in Argentina and I had a really nice car in Argentina and I was like if I pay everything for a girl it's for me to impress that girl for like temporary time and then I kick her out and I keep going with my work and that's how life is and that's that's here's the thing bro I'm not telling you to pay for every girl like don't do that shit I'm saying this is your wife Yeah.
This is different, bro.
This isn't like a random bimbo or whatever.
This is your wife and she's taking some pretty serious steps to be together.
Also, the mindset is, do it for yourself.
Like, if you're gonna be a leader, you're gonna be a man, you want control, you gotta pay the price.
I think I lack some leadership skills.
You're young.
It's going to take time.
Bro, we were there.
I'm 10 years older than you, pretty much.
How old are you?
I'm 33.
I remember when I was 24, right?
I had to fight being immature and doing stupid shit.
Luckily, my job forced me to mature, but you might not necessarily have that right now, but you just need to do it, bro.
Because the thing is that you decided to marry her.
Now you have responsibilities.
Yeah.
You know, you have someone that you need to take care of because that's what you committed to.
And I can tell you, bro, I got married young.
Well, pretty young.
You got married?
22.
Oh, shit.
I was married, and I realized it wasn't for me, and I left.
But again, that was me being mature, so you know what?
I made a mistake here.
You know, granted to her, she wanted me to do better as well, but it wasn't in me.
So I had to step away and say, you know what?
I can't do this.
I gotta bounce.
I mean, that's fine.
That's a smart move also.
I mean...
But for you, leaving probably is an option because she's actually genuinely there for you.
I'm positive.
It doesn't matter what I do, she won't leave me.
She's obsessed.
I can do anything.
That's why I'm relaxed.
I'm chill.
Yeah, that's the issue.
Yeah, I mean, I think she's scared of being alone.
That's why.
But, like, that's a good thing for me because I can do anything and she will still be there.
No, that's not how it works.
Actually, now that you say that, that actually makes me want to not, like, I'm so mad that you said that, actually.
I'm fuming that you're mad, actually.
I'm fuming at that, actually.
Well, it's better to talk it out and hear it.
But, I mean, dude, you know what you got to do, bro.
You have to change.
Not even just for her, but for you as a man in general.
And then you're going to become a better partner.
You have to think about...
Because here's the thing.
As a man, you don't make money...
For yourself, you make money to take care of the people around you that you love.
I'm sorry, but that was so fucked up.
And I think everybody in the audience is like, literally freaking out about that.
I don't know why you just said that, brother.
Not that she was hilarious to me, but not to her.
Yo, by the way, just so you know, like, dude, she could fuck your life up, bro.
She really could.
How?
Oh.
You ever heard about Scorn Woman?
No, what is that?
Are you going to find out, nigga?
You better change, man!
Anyhow, this was a great show, man.
No, bro, you need to change, man.
I'm telling you, you need to change.
All jokes aside, everything else like that, you got to change.
And I would suggest, do you go to the gym and lift weights?
No, but I want to do that.
You should start doing that.
He gets mad at me about me not going to the gym, but he doesn't go to the gym either.
So I feel like for me to actually take initiative and stuff like that, I feel like I need a leader and a partner to do those kinds of things.
There's little things like walking the dog out.
You have to take responsibility.
Yeah, I do that.
Yeah.
You gotta lead by example, my man, is really what it comes down to.
I think, yeah.
I mean, you should be going to the gym regardless.
You're a woman.
Come on, man.
Your looks are everything.
You need to go to the gym anyway.
You need to stop being lazy bimbo.
But for you, I would say a lot of the problems are stemming from you not doing your job.
I, you know, and I'm very hard on women on this podcast.
I'm sure you guys see all the clips or whatever.
But when it comes to, you know, a man in a relationship with a woman, the man bears most of the responsibility.
If the woman's acting crazy, a lot of times it's because the guy doesn't have his shit together.
Isn't it crazy?
We've seen a bunch of couples here, right?
Yeah.
More often than not, it's the guy not being the man he needs to be.
Yeah.
I'm seeing a patting here.
Please go ahead.
Yeah, I'm sorry.
Let's say I present myself as this man who comes from Argentina who had a different mindset and now I realize in this country everything works differently.
It's a process for me to change and I'm willing to do the change.
I know in a lot of countries, you guys are from here, right?
United States?
Yeah.
I was born in the United States.
Okay, okay.
Barbados.
But my family's from North Africa.
Same situation like her.
My dad and parents are still together.
I understand and I respect that there's a lot of traditional families that work in a different way.
Blame Argentina.
Blame Argentina.
It's weird because I feel like Hispanic countries are the ones that have the most role.
You know what's crazy about this too?
Messi would be disappointed in you, bro.
No.
Messi would be like, my guy!
No bueno!
Come on, man!
He got a family?
He's a leader?
He's taking charge?
What you doing?
He's also like a billionaire.
So yeah, if I were a millionaire...
Hey, you want to be there, right?
Successful.
Entrepreneur.
Yes.
That's part of the process.
Yeah.
If I were in that level, yeah, I would be paying everything.
But it starts now, though.
It starts right now.
Yeah.
With her, if you wanted to make it work.
Yeah, I want to make it work, so yeah, we will figure it out, like, slowly.
Alright, uh, some more chats here?
Yeah, I'll read the chats, and then, um, uh, okay, what do we got here, and then we'll close this thing out.
This guy is a baludo?
What the hell does that mean?
He's calling him like an idiot.
Like friendly.
He's young, guys.
He's 24, bro.
There's still masculine dudes here.
It's just the city boy.
Buenos Aires are feminine, just like the USA. Love from Cordoba, Argentina.
Cordoba.
Okay, Cordoba.
Is that like the rural area?
It's like another state of Argentina.
Most chorizo...
Baby girl, this Timothy Chalamet looking dude ain't the one for you.
After the pod, you should come over to our place for a Haitian vacation.
The B&W, I'll hit you with the BBC. No era show.
What the fuck?
That's wild.
No era show.
Okay.
No era show.
that's fine he says as a self-made multimillionaire in my early 20s bro what the fuck are you doing wearing Valentina and Off-White that's just a waste of money same with the BMW only buy a car if you have 100% the cost in cash liquid get a rest from iron and fresh I mean yeah man that's pretty I see it as a I see it with the AP also with the watch.
Oh yeah, but I have 16 properties, bro.
I bought this with passive income.
I didn't buy this with earned income.
You definitely want to always live way below your means.
Dude, I still drive around my 2002 Honda.
And what you're not seeing is...
Hold on.
He's also a leader, takes charge, has someone that follows and respects him, and the nagging is to very minimum, if at all.
Because he made the right choices.
The foundation is there.
Okay.
And there's nothing wrong with delayed gratification, man.
Like, you know, designer, buying BMWs, all this shit, man.
Bro, I'm a multimillionaire.
I don't drive around that shit.
I drive my 2002 Honda.
But see, I'm single.
I don't wear a designer, you know what I mean?
Like, save your money, bro.
I get what you're saying, bro.
I'm single, and like, legit, like, I'm doing what you want to do, but I don't have a wife.
So it doesn't make me want to change because I'm just doing me.
But you got a wife, nigga.
You got to do something.
What the fuck?
Yeah.
When you make a decision, bro, you got to think of not just yourself, but you also have to think, okay, I have a wife at home.
How's this going to affect her?
Because you're responsible for her now, bro.
Yeah, that's another thing.
He literally flat out tells me that he does not care about my opinion.
I do care.
Like, flat out tells me, I don't care what you say, I do what I want.
But I'm paying for my shit, bro.
You can only say shit like that when you're paying all the bills, bro.
You can't tell her I don't care about your opinion and y'all are going 50-50, bro.
You can only have that authority when you have all the responsibility.
So her opinion counts if she's paying half.
But if you want to be able to tell her I don't care about your opinion or we're doing it this way, you gotta pay for everything.
I can pay for that power.
You got it.
It's a price, man.
For telling her to shut up, yeah.
Callate.
Callate.
Just hum up.
Puta.
Andate la concha de tu hermano.
Yeah, bro.
Okay.
There you go.
What else you got here?
Yahweh.
Yahweh goes, he's not really getting money like that.
You can tell that's why he wants 50-50 so bad.
The only way he can get money like that is if he's selling his...
What?
Dick.
His ass.
Or his girl selling hers.
You can tell he's not a go-getter for seeing his posture.
No, he can support both of them.
It's just that he doesn't want to do it because he wants to be able to save more money and live a certain lifestyle.
I'm not going to lie.
Buying that car 40K, I mean, if you're broke, you're not doing that shit, bro.
Yeah, yeah.
It's just that he just doesn't want to make certain sacrifices lifestyle.
Stop the bullshit.
He did it for a green card.
His visa was expiring and had to marry the first white girl.
Either man up and change or go back to Argentina and enjoy your 20s.
Three weeks moving in is crazy.
She's also crazy for saying yes to all this.
Well, she did take an enormous amount of risk on you, my friend.
Yeah.
You know what I mean?
Normally, it's the other way around.
Yeah, that's what I'm saying.
I feel like I've kind of taken so many risks from him, and I'm not really expecting much.
I'm like, okay, whatever, 50-50.
I don't care.
I'll work, and I'll pay my half of the bills, whatever.
I don't really have an issue with that.
Well, you kind of do, though.
I do, yeah.
Don't lie.
But being disrespected and my opinions not being held accountable when I'm cooking and cleaning and still paying my half of the bills, I don't like it.
You saw what happened here, though?
In this whole scenario, you messed up.
What?
You messed up, big time.
Why?
And typically, this is what happens to most women.
They fall in love with what they hear, but they choose the wrong guy.
I don't think he's the wrong guy.
No, no, but for what you want, right now he's the wrong guy.
But if he changes, he won't be.
You get what I'm saying?
So right now on paper, he's not what you want.
Do you agree or not?
I mean, not 100%.
I mean, I just feel like the tradition, we both come from different upbringings.
I mean, obviously, you love him.
I'm just saying the actual foundation itself for what you want.
He's not the traditional man that you want.
Traditional.
That was your first complaint.
I literally wrote it down.
It lacks intuitiveness about what you feel.
You're not a leader.
He goes 50-50 with you.
You don't feel like you can look up to him yet.
All these things, which he needs to step up.
I feel like even if we get a divorce and he decides to be with another woman, he's going to face these issues again.
That's what I'm saying.
We're in the middle of a fight, which is something that you should never do.
He's always like, I can do better.
I can find better.
I'm just like, you're going to face these issues.
Divorce, though?
Let's work towards making it work.
That's what I was telling him.
I'm always like, we should work on our issues.
The grass isn't always greener on the other side.
And starting afresh with someone new, you're just going to have the same issues.
Yeah, I mean, the other girl, whatever other girl you get is gonna probably want the same shit, bro.
Yeah, like, love-bombing someone for, like, a month.
I mean, love-bombing someone for, like, a month is, like, I feel like any man that is, like, is a man, like, he provides for his dream girl, you know?
Like, I feel like his wife is a trophy, you know?
Like, not trophy wife stuff, but, like, I mean, his wife is something that he looks up to, that he respects, and I just...
And I also wouldn't be able to make it without her.
I mean, she also does a lot of things that are good for me, and I really appreciate her.
And also, I don't know how to cook or clean or do anything.
And I'll tell you this, bro.
These other Miami girls are going to be hoes and not do that.
Yeah.
Yeah, that's what I'm saying.
So that is more expensive.
I would love your guys' opinion on this.
I would love it.
What do you guys think?
And maybe even the chat, you know, just leave your opinions on there.
What do you guys think about men and just boys in general who act like...
A flirtatious on Instagram, you know, like liking girls bikini pictures, DMing them and telling that they're pretty, calling them gorgeous, calling them all that stuff.
Is that what he does?
Yes.
I did that in the past once.
He's done it four times and I've called him out on it.
No, like two times maybe.
And he says it's a normal thing.
He says it's a normal thing.
Likes are normal.
Machismo!
Likes are good.
Machismo!
Oh, man.
Look, bro, I mean, if we're going to even get into this part, look, if you want to flirt with other girls and you want to have other women, again, it's going to cost to be the boss, man.
Listen.
You can't be not a leader and dominant and assertive with your girl and then be out here flirting with other chicks, man.
Listen, bro, he is Tony Hawk.
He's networking.
He's networking.
Right?
Yeah.
Networking.
Right now with you guys.
Yeah.
There you go.
Okay.
You're funny, man.
You're funny, bro.
You're a funny nigga, man.
- Thank you.
Okay, it's a reason for the lifestyle inflation trap when you feel it to care about your money, but when you get it, you realize how stupid it is, so trust me, I made those mistakes too.
Please take what Myron is saying to heart and focus on the grind here, bro.
Guys, even myself, I just realized less is more.
And like, yo, bro, the money you make now, man, invest it, bro, because it won't last forever.
Yep.
Anything else?
Yep.
Okay, Albois, this dude needs TRT. He's going to go to the gym.
You need to start going to gym and lifting, my friend.
He's going to teach you a lot of discipline.
What's TRT? To stop for replacement therapy, but he doesn't need that.
He's only 24.
He was raised by a single mom, and he respects his mom's untraditional behavior and has no connection with his dad.
That's a part of it.
Yeah.
3Diglets, you have a good woman by your side, man.
Don't mess it up, sir.
Yeah, yeah, you do.
Thank you.
- Hey guy, no. - Hey wey. - Spanish. - Hey wey, no eres hombre.
Eres marica.
¿Qué tipo de hombre quiere su esposa que pague la mitad?
Ha, you're not a man.
You're just a tall boy.
How do you know I'm tall?
Precious advice with those fake teeth.
Actually, they're kidding.
It's not fake.
Everything's real.
He was also saying what type of man makes his wife pay half.
He's calling you in Spanish.
This guy is a fucking...
Oh, pussy.
Why is she even with him?
I think he's getting a wake-up call, though, man.
Anything else?
That's all.
That's it.
Guys, I think...
And here's the thing.
There's a lot of relationships that are kind of in the same situation.
Very similar.
I don't want anybody in here talking shit because realistically, some of y'all are with a girl right now and you go on 50-50 and she doesn't respect you either.
This is so common.
That's another thing.
I wanted to bring something up.
Sorry to interrupt you.
But I don't want to be that woman that...
He's still building up his legacy.
He's still building up something for himself.
I don't want to be that woman who builds up a man and has him built up just for another girl to take him or just for him to be with another girl.
I don't like being Bob the fucking builder.
For a man, I'm not gonna, like, you know, like, release hammers on all this shit.
Like, I want him to step up and I want him to realize that what this is is, like, he's, like, trying to adapt to this modern mentality that's not working and that's why men are, like, dying off.
There's no manly men.
This is why women wait at the finish line and pick the winners.
But that's the other thing, too.
If he builds himself up and he becomes that man and he makes that money, guess what?
That's a minority of men.
Other women are gonna want him.
Yeah.
So be ready.
You can't have your cake and eat it too.
If he ends up making the amount of money that you want where he's supporting you, taking care of you, etc., more than likely other women are going to like that.
But usually the case is the woman builds the man up and he gets to this luxurious lifestyle where she ends up being super loyal to the man and then she gets cheated on by him by these other girls that are younger.
If you are the one building your man up, that's a problem.
Yeah, right.
That's a problem.
What do you mean?
Yeah, right.
Why are you agreeing?
Why are you agreeing?
You're not executing it.
No, I think the thing is you have the fear of me leaving and I think if you make it work with me, I won't leave and you're not going to leave also.
Smart man.
Tell him what you want us to hear.
Tell him what you want us to hear.
Say it again.
Say it again, brother.
Tell him what you want us to hear.
Oh, man.
All right.
We're going to...
Oh, last one.
Okay.
My boy, I'm 25.
I'm a contractor.
Married a five-year son.
I provide so my wife will stay at home.
I provide so my wife raises my family and keeps my home in order.
She doesn't act because I provide Top G. Okay.
Yeah.
Lastly, well, thank you for coming.
Thank you.
Where can I find you?
My Instagram is BiancaChanF.
We're going to have no whole pictures on there.
No, not at all.
Just one.
Just one?
Yeah.
Oh wait, you want a married woman, man.
Okay, fine.
I'll archive it.
Wait, is he on your page?
Yeah.
Yeah.
Okay, good.
We have a picture.
It took a while, but...
Okay.
And then for you, where can I find you?
My Instagram is ValentinXV.
And I do giveaways on my Instagrams if you guys want to go follow me.
Okay.
I give away money and stuff.
Cool.
Save that money, man.
That's what I'm saying.
He gives money to everyone.
Giving away money.
Can't pay for rent.
2k?
Come on, bro.
Come on, man.
Yo, you tripping, dawg.
Come on, man.
Get your priorities in order.
Thank you.
Nick, you single, man.
He hasn't given me...
He hasn't given You know what?
Never mind.
Alright.
Thank you, guys.
You know what you gotta do.
You know what you gotta do, goddammit.
Damn!
Alright, guys.
We'll catch you back here with some girls.
And I think we'll have a special guest pull up, guys.
We'll catch you guys on the next episode here in a bit.
We'll probably...
I'm thinking around 9.30 or 10 o'clock.
We'll start.
Love y'all.
Peace!
I ran.
I ran so far away.
I just ran.
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