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Oct. 27, 2023 - Fresh & Fit
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Couple Intervention: Masculine GF Doesn't Want To Submit To Low Earner?
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It is the first episode of Couples Intervention, man.
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Welcome to the Fresh Air Podcast, man.
It is Friday, bro, and we got a 3P for you guys.
We're going to do the couple show right now, and then we're going to have Mr.
Organic in a little bit, and then we're going to obviously have an after hours for you guys.
With some girls.
Well, man, so we got a 3P for you guys.
Hardest working podcast in the world right now.
And we just got back from Vegas literally yesterday.
So we did an Axis Vegas out there.
That was a good time.
Power slap with Dana White and Rumble.
Yep.
Guys, so what we're going to do is, from this point forward, we're only going to do 20 and up as far as Super Chats go.
I'll read the ones that came in, so don't worry.
Can I hear you, Myron, or no?
I can't.
One sec, guys.
Okay.
Mo got it.
Alright.
So yeah, guys, we're going to do the intro here, but once again, this is going to be the first ever couples intervention show on the podcast.
So what I've heard of you, if you guys don't mind, give us your name, age, we do for a living, and then currently, I want to say your, I want to say, goals for this intervention.
Absolutely.
My name is Yeby.
I'm 30 years old.
I am an assistant teacher and I'm also an aspiring tech entrepreneur.
Okay.
And what are your goals for this intervention, you'd say?
Well, she knows I'm very familiar with this podcast, and I wanted to bring her here so she could see that you guys aren't as bad as the media says, you know?
But she knows that.
She knows you guys aren't bad.
She knows you guys are really good guys.
But yeah, you know, to learn a thing or two.
We've been learning a lot from you guys, at least I have.
And to be here in person and, you know, see the energy, meet you guys and...
How'd you find a podcast?
Man, Andrew Tate.
Oh, okay.
Nice.
But I found Andrew Tate because of your podcast.
Oh.
So, okay, so did you find us first or Andrew first?
It was like the same thing.
At the same time?
Yeah, I was scrolling on TikTok.
I saw it on your tape.
I saw a freshman.
You know what I'm saying?
Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah.
Do you know which podcast it was in particular?
Dude, I honestly don't remember.
I've seen a lot of it.
Probably the first one.
No.
Yeah.
One of our clips, Paul.
I mean, yeah.
I mean, if you search, especially earlier before, if you search like Andrew Tate, like Fresh Fit comes right up.
I remember our names were very tight in the algorithm together.
And we will have a collab coming with Andrew very soon, guys.
I'll reveal some more on that later on.
But don't worry, I was actually, we're coordinating some stuff.
Don't worry.
Very soon.
Okay.
So wait, hold on.
So you said you're 30 years old, assistant teacher.
You guys have a daughter together, right?
Yes.
And then you guys are from Connecticut originally.
Okay, cool.
What about you?
Yes.
Hi, everyone.
My name is Abby Sola.
That's my first name.
I'm 34 years old.
I grew up in Chicago, but I've been living in Connecticut for like the last 10 years.
And I am an unemployment advocate for the Connecticut Department of Labor, and I'm also a Human Resources Sergeant with the U.S. Army Reserve.
Okay, perfect.
So I gotta know this.
What are your goals for this, I want to say, episode as well?
What are your goals?
Yeah, I would say my goal is honestly just to be open-minded and to listen to what you guys have to offer as far as your male perspective, the male perspective in relationships.
As we've been in our relationship, there has been a lot of growth.
There's been a lot of disagreements as well, trying to You know, have two people with two different backgrounds, two different upbringings coming together.
I'm glad you said that.
What's your background?
So, my parents are from Nigeria.
Yeah.
My nigga!
Okay.
How you gay?
Okay.
You do it all the way.
Okay.
What's your background?
Puerto Rican, man.
Puerto Rican?
Yup.
That's a crazy mix.
Okay, so I was told you missed your first flight.
Whose fault was it?
All right.
So this is how it goes.
Tell me the story, brother.
I'll be honest.
This is how it went.
So I don't fly a lot.
And honestly, like I was telling you guys before we started, excuse me, I don't like flying.
So I'm not too familiar with how things go.
And so we were literally like, the gate is right there.
We see it and we're sitting at a bar and I'd said, I came up with a bright idea to have a glass of wine because I get a bit anxious, you know, when the plane first takes off.
So I have my glass of wine, and it is now 9.24, and I tell her, hey, let's go board the plane.
To my understanding, the time that the boarding pass set for the plane, which was 9.30, was, um, right, the boarding time, but that's the time that the plane takes off.
So someone...
But the thing is, then I turned to her and I said, wait, you know this, you travel, you're in the army, like, you fly all the time, you...
So it went right over our head, bro.
Fair enough.
Alright.
Okay.
So it was your fault.
Fantastic.
Okay.
Sorry, go ahead.
So we gotta figure this out, man, because this is very important.
What is your biggest issue in a current relationship right now?
What's the biggest issue?
Well, um...
We have a daughter, right?
And she is three years old.
And my...
My girlfriend here, right, she's in the military and she's got some goals and aspirations, right?
Right.
And she was supposed to leave back in March.
She didn't.
She left, but then they sent her back for some other issues.
And now she's leaving again, and I honestly am in disagreement with it, right?
So this is actually something we were preparing to talk about.
Even when the...
The idea came up, the opportunity I would say came up to be in the podcast.
We had a long conversation about this and a big back and forth with my sister-in-law and brother-in-law who I think they're even watching right now.
Shout out to them.
But yeah, that's the issue and I tell her I think it's important that...
It's not that she was forced to go.
It's more that she wants to do this.
But with being a mother and having a three-year-old, it's tough on me as a...
Me being with my daughter by myself, having to provide and take care of her and all that.
Thankfully, she has a better job than I do.
I will admit that.
But...
But yeah, man, that's been the main, main issue.
So she's the breadwinner in this situation.
You guys don't have to say exactly how much you earn, but roughly, if you can give us an approximate 10 to 20k off, roughly, what would you say annual for you and then for her?
I'd say around 28 to 30k for me.
Mine is about 55.
Okay.
And that's combining your job with the DOL and the Reserve?
Right.
And it's National Guard, right?
Or is it Army?
No, actually, Reserve.
Yeah, Army Reserve.
Army Reserve.
Okay.
All right.
And it's 55 with everything combined?
Yeah.
Okay.
And your Turo business.
Don't forget that.
Oh, right.
Yeah, yeah.
There's a little bit of...
So you have a Turo as well?
Yeah.
Okay.
And that brings in an extra...
Yeah, I would say like an extra like three, four hundred dollars a month because I'm paying the car notes with it and then there's like some profit that I make after the fact.
So we could round up to, let's just say 60 for you then.
Okay.
So 60, roughly 60 and then 28 to 30.
Okay, so y'all combined is around 90k which is more than most people in Connecticut.
Above average.
Yeah, for a couple.
Okay, sorry, go ahead Fresh.
So, just real quick, I want to get your part on this as well.
So, you want to leave the family to go pursue your career.
What, I guess, was driving you to do this?
Because you have a daughter who's three years old.
Why do you want to leave now?
And you're a sergeant, right?
Just so we know?
Yeah.
Okay.
All right.
Was it supply?
No.
No, so I'm in human resources.
Yeah, and I want to preface this by saying this is not an easy decision.
I think anyone that has kids knows when you have to make sacrifices or make tough decisions, where you have to take time away to do something, especially when it's financial, it's tough.
But yeah, the reason why I'm doing it is to be able to reclass, which basically means to change jobs.
You want to switch your MOS? Yes.
Yeah, I want to switch my MOS. And why this is really important is because I'm looking to get to 20 years for retirement.
Currently at nine years, so I'm almost at the midway point.
And so I'm kind of in that space where I've gotten far enough to where it's worth to keep going, to get to retirement.
And then coupled with that, I want to be able to do an MOS that I know I would be happy with.
I'm kind of burnt out from human resources.
Gotcha.
So, and correct me if I'm wrong here, because I'm trying to make sure I summarize this correctly.
So, you're taking this and volunteering, so it puts you in a position where you can ask for an MOS that's better, so that you can ride it out the last 10 years doing that MOS. Yes.
Because if you want to go ahead and ask for a better MOS, you need to volunteer for stuff.
We all know how the government works, right?
So, is that what it is basically?
Yeah, it's really a requirement.
It's a school requirement.
So in order for me to change that job, I have to complete this school course.
Gotcha.
What does MOS stand for?
Military Occupational Specialty.
Basically, it's a job in the military.
Got it.
It's like what her position is.
So right now, she does HR for the military as a sergeant.
And what's the MOS that you want to switch to?
Public Affairs.
Would you be on the news and stuff like that?
Or would you be making sure that certain things get disseminated a certain way?
Yeah, so like social media, interviewing, being able to put out information to different media channels.
It's got to go through her basically before it gets put out, anything media related.
So you want to do that the last 10 years.
And how long would this training be that would have you away?
It'll be about five months.
Damn, five months to get that LMS? Yeah.
It's a 16-week course, so when you add in the weekends and everything, it comes to about five months total.
Okay.
Five days on, two days off?
Yeah.
Do you get sent out of state?
Yeah, so it'll be out of state.
It'll be in Maryland because that's where the school base is.
It's called the Defense Information School.
So pretty much all branches that have their public affairs attachments goes through that base to complete whatever course they have.
They're going to teach you about classifications, what to put out, what can't be put out, that type of thing, what's good for media, what's not, how to...
Yeah.
And the reason why this is important to me and why I'm switching to this MOS is because my educational, my civilian education is in that background.
So I have my bachelor's in media studies.
I was going to ask that.
Okay.
And my master's in communication and multimedia production.
So, I mean, I would like to...
You know, be active in some capacity, you know, doing what I went to school for, what I'm most passionate about.
And I wasn't able to do that MOS when I first got into the Army because of my test scores, so I had to, like, retake my test, retake the ASVAB, and I got a higher score.
Did you get your degree while you were in the military, use your GI Bill?
No, actually, I joined the Army after I finished my Master's.
You didn't try to go in as an officer?
You said you just enlisted?
Yeah, I just enlisted because at the time the recruiter was pushing that, hey, you'll be able to switch over to the officer's side later.
You can do greens with gold.
Let's just work on it.
Get you in quick.
Yeah, get you in.
He wanted that bonus.
Yeah, you can say that.
I think the test score, too.
There's a certain test score that you need in order to qualify for officer school, which I didn't have when I took the test the first time.
So it was kind of like you either can retake the test.
Or enlist right away and get in.
And kind of go with a different path and get to where you want to get to later.
I just did it that way.
So, I gotta ask a question, though.
So, your daughter, right?
Obviously, you love your daughter.
You both do.
Who's the one taking care of her mostly now?
Like, what are duties?
Like, going to school or going to preschool?
Well, let's put it out like this so the chat can keep roasting me a bit more here, right?
So, we take turns changing the diaper, right, you motherfuckers?
We take turns.
This is what happens.
I understand the position that I'm in, and I want to clear something up, okay?
Yeah, please go ahead.
So, and...
And hopefully, you know, let's just see how intense this gets.
But in the beginning of our relationship, right, I simp to her, right?
She told me she wasn't ready to go into a committed relationship with me.
She wanted to have an open relationship because she didn't know what she wanted yet.
Me being the simp that I was, I was like, why?
I mean...
We're already, everything is good.
Why would you want to talk to someone else?
Why ruin, you know, the whole energy, the vibe?
She's like, no, I just want to make sure I test my options and, you know, and this and that and I'm over here.
At least you know that you fucked up.
So now after four or five years, now I realize and I'm like, yo, but, you know, it's listening to people like you and listening to people like Andrew Tate that, you know, it's opened my eyes.
Absolutely.
So I understand where I went wrong.
You know what I'm saying?
So, yo, Yo, they're going in.
They're going in.
I was expecting this.
I'm like, I can't wait to see what all these guys say.
So, I mean, I want to, you know, push back on that and say, I don't think he was a simp for that.
I'm sure you guys are tough in this area.
He was a simp for that, but that's fine.
I was choking you off.
It's okay.
We all were at some point.
Yeah, we all do that, where we chase a girl that doesn't necessarily like us, and, you know, it is what it is that happens.
So, sorry, you were going to say something else?
No, no, no.
That was just it?
Okay.
Real quick, what was your educational background?
So she has a bachelor's.
Do you have your bachelor's?
No, sir.
I only have a high school diploma.
And assistant teacher, like do you, at the high school level?
So I work in a school for kids with severe autism, behavioral issues, who are suicidal and want to even attack people.
Okay, so you're dealing with kids, are they like, does the state pretty much have them at that point?
Yeah.
Okay, so you work for the state.
Well, I guess so.
I mean, I work for an organization called Oak Hill.
So they're in bed with the state, I would say, because the state gives them $100,000 for every kid they take in.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
No, I'm familiar.
Growing up in Connecticut, Oak Hill is where the really bad kids would go.
Oh, wow.
So they have that reputation for taking in.
And a lot of times it's like kids that might have really bad behavioral issues, broken homes, whatever it may be.
So you're an assistant teacher there for Oak Hill.
Yes, sir.
So currently you guys split duties for your daughter.
Yes, sir.
I pick my daughter's poop off the floor while she's finished working from home.
Okay.
Is most of your work predominantly done from home?
Thankfully, yes.
Nice.
Okay.
Actually, I had a question.
So, you're the breadwinner, right?
You made most of the money.
You're kind of like assisting her.
If you made most of the money, you think you would kind of say, you know what?
At this point, I can rely on him.
My career wouldn't be that important if you focused on him being the breadwinner?
Yeah, that's a good question.
I mean, I think it's a bit tricky.
I did tell you that.
I told you, if you are willing to leave your job, I am willing to work two to three jobs so you can be at home with the baby.
You told me, unless you are making $80,000 a year, Yeah.
And I did say that because I kind of did the math and like in order to successfully thrive in a two-parent household, 80,000 a year is sustainable.
You know what I mean?
So he, if I'm now...
In Connecticut.
In Connecticut, right.
Yeah.
So if I'm taking myself out of the picture and saying, hey...
You know, I really can't help you financially.
Now you have to make up the money that I was making.
And as soon as I gave him that number, he, like, kind of flipped out and was like, what?
Why are you saying $80,000?
I don't know if I can make that much, you know, and I'm like, I'm just giving you kind of a run.
Do you guys have a house or are you guys renting?
We're renting.
Apartment?
Yeah, apartment.
Okay.
All right.
Sorry.
Let me clarify that.
So when you told me $80,000, right?
What I told you was, the average male makes between, what is it, 38 to 52?
Yeah, 30 to 50 in that range.
My honest reaction to that was, if I'm making 80 grand a year, what makes you think I'd still want to be with you at that point?
Oh, shit.
You know what I'm saying?
That was my honest reaction to that.
Goddamn, nigga!
Well, I mean, at this point, the child would be the reason.
Right, and that's honestly why I'm even sucking it up, you know?
Yeah.
Because this has been, like I said, this is really the main issue.
I would say this is definitely the paramount issue in a relationship.
Do you love him?
I do.
I do.
I love him so much, you know?
It's painful to hear him say that, like...
You know, oh, if it wasn't for our daughter or if I was making a certain amount, I'd be out.
Because I wouldn't...
So, honestly, deep down, you just wish you made more money?
It's not really even about the money, per se.
I think it's just about being able to continue to work as a team.
You know what I mean?
Like, continue to communicate, continue to, like, whatever comes our way, let's try to...
Handle it as a team together.
Handle it step by step, case by case basis.
And he's very black and white about certain things.
He always reverts back to certain topics.
I don't want you to be working that much.
I can take on more of the financial responsibility.
You need to be more at home.
But you can see why as a man he wants to lead.
How many hours a week are you typically working?
I work 40 hours a week.
So 9 to 5 basically?
9 to 5.
And then what about you?
Yeah, I work about 35 to 37 hours a week.
So when you guys said that you, I guess, divide the responsibilities.
So when you're going, because obviously you have to leave to go deal with the kid, be a teacher, etc.
Is she at home with the kid most of the time?
Well, the kid's in daycare.
Okay.
So that's probably eating a decent amount of money too then.
So even though you're at home, oh, because you can't be away from your laptop really, so you can't take care of the child the way you want.
Yeah, I couldn't.
So you guys put them in daycare even though you are home.
Right.
Okay.
And how much does daycare cost a month?
A month?
It's...
Like $400 a month.
What are like y'all monthly expenses like all together?
Like if you include rent, daycare, like the necessities, not the other stuff.
Right.
Food, rent, everything, roughly.
Rent is what?
$1100 for the rent and then like electricity, it's like $80.
That's not bad for the town that you guys are in because that's a pretty good school district they got too.
And you guys want to stay there I assume, right?
Yeah.
I mean, for the most part, for now, yeah, you know.
His family is from...
We'll just say Central Connecticut.
Central, yeah.
Yeah, Central Connecticut.
Not too far from where I grew up, guys.
It's a better town, actually, than where I grew up.
Sorry, you were saying?
Yeah, so I would say, like, about, hmm, like, 2,200?
Like, 2,000?
With, like?
Like, electricity and, well, I was counting, like, the car.
We'll round it up.
2,300?
Covers everything, pretty much?
Yeah.
2,300 overhead?
Okay.
I want to take it back a little bit.
Just take it back a little bit in time.
Do you love her?
I absolutely do.
I do.
With all your heart?
Absolutely, man.
When you guys first met, when was this?
2018.
May 2018, April 2018, around there.
How'd you guys meet?
Amazon.
Jeff Bezos hooked us up.
Yeah, like y'all were both working in the warehouse or something?
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
So you guys were equal at that time?
Same pay, basically?
Not even, because she had two jobs at the time.
I was living with my mom, you know.
I was 25.
He didn't have a car at the time.
He was using his dad's car.
So at the time, I actually...
So he was being a Puerto Rican?
Is that what he'll do?
Pretty much.
I didn't know.
I didn't really know it was like that, but I learned.
But, you know.
I love him regardless, you know.
But at the time, it was kind of like an in-between job for me.
I literally was there for three months, and then I was able to get another job, and I left.
And in that three-month span, we met.
Okay.
Yeah.
And then I, from there, then went off to AT&T. So I did that, and I'm saying, yeah, I mean, the rest is history now.
So right now, currently, what are your goals for your family?
As a man, as a leader, what are your goals?
Well, like I said, I'm an aspiring tech entrepreneur.
So I recently just launched an app.
I don't want to get into detail about it.
But...
My goal is to market that, right?
And I pray it becomes very successful.
I believe even these cats watching us, I think they'll be very intrigued to what it is.
Can you tell us a little bit about what it's about?
Or like, for example...
Of course you can't disclose without messing you up.
Yeah, yeah, sure, sure, sure.
So it's a web application called Quester.
And basically...
It has a lucrative revenue model that rewards content creators, streamers, celebrities for playing online video games with their fans and followers.
Interesting.
Okay.
That's pretty good.
So, alright.
So, they'll basically play games with their supporters, and how would the revenue be generated with ads?
Selling ads, I'm guessing?
No, not at all.
It's...
That's the part that I can't get too much into.
Then don't.
That's fine.
But it's basically an app where you would market it to influencers who then play the game with their supporters.
Absolutely.
Do both parties earn the money?
No, just the influencers.
But the other party gets the bragging rights.
Oh, I play with so-and-so.
Yeah, and I beat them in some game, whatever it may be.
That's not a bad concept, though.
Yeah, it's very unique.
It's been...
Four and a half years in the making.
I just launched it beginning of this month.
Okay.
Quester.
Yeah, Quester.
So you're on the way up, basically.
You're starting right now, but you're going to be promising.
Absolutely.
I spoke it into existence.
Absolutely, man.
And then what are your goals for family currently?
My goals for family is for us to continue to grow as a family, you know, to, you know, get married and to have another child in the near future.
With him?
Yes.
Oh, absolutely.
Yeah, with him to continue to help him to grow Quester because it certainly is going to be a remarkable platform for many years to come.
So you believe in a vision?
Absolutely.
The first time we met at Amazon, he had talked to me about this idea.
So this was like the infancy stages that he was very passionate about.
I have this idea.
He told me a little bit about it in kind of our first...
Meeting at the job and, you know, ever since then, it's something...
So you can see the ambition he's going for.
Okay, next thing for you.
Tell me one thing that he does right and one thing he does wrong in a relationship.
Well, one thing that he does right, he does a lot of things right.
You know, he's a great father.
You know, I will definitely give him so much credit with that.
He's so attentive, he's so animated, so energetic, and he just pours out so much love to our daughter.
So that, yes, absolutely.
And, you know, we were both new parents when I got pregnant.
This is our first child together.
Don't know what we're doing, but, you know, he took that initiative and was like, we can do this, you know, so from the beginning.
I mean, one thing that, you know, could...
Listen, whatever's bothering you, let us hear it now because this is very important.
Yeah, I would say...
He just seems to, like the way that he communicates towards me, the tone, the diction, the delivery.
It's how he says it.
Yes, it's how he says it.
And he's very short-tempered.
He talks very loudly, which he said culturally.
He's Puerto Rican, man.
That's how Puerto Ricans are.
You know, so sometimes it's not even about the topic.
It's about the way that he is delivering it to me.
Can you give us an example of something he might deliver that you dislike, just so we kind of have an idea here?
Like, what's a phrase that he says that you might not like?
Oh, boy.
Like...
Make me a sandwich?
Is it something like that?
Or is he very direct and concise and it's not warm?
Is that what it is?
He's just like, geez, come on.
I told you not to do that.
If we're talking about something, if I'm asking him a question, he can get very irritated very quickly instead of us being able to work through the conversation.
But is it something that he's spoken to you about before, though?
Yeah, it may have been a topic that we've talked about before.
Okay, so it's him repeating something that he's already told you before.
Yeah, sometimes it could be that, which he's talked about, that, oh, I told you this already.
What's it typically about?
I would say...
Is it like chores, duties, or...
Yeah, I mean, chores, you know, that's a part of it.
Like, I mean, you know, I would like for him to be more helpful, you know, with the chores.
Okay.
I just stopped washing the dishes, man.
And, like, that's not something that we agreed on.
Yeah, I just stopped.
Oh, okay.
Because I'm sick and tired of washing the dishes.
Okay, okay, okay.
That's just not, you know, it's just not acceptable.
Dude!
Because this is a conversation we've had.
Like, dishes is one of those few chores that is never ending.
Okay.
If you're not around the house, it's not something to just do once a week, once a month.
I do it.
Yeah.
But, bro, like, it's annoying.
When I used to work, I used to work on Amazon and this other job I'm at.
Get home and I got to wash the dishes, bro.
It sucks.
Yeah.
I just stopped, man.
I gave up.
So Dishes is a big one.
Yeah, it is.
And it's been a big one from early on.
So that was a specific item.
He'll tell you, wash the dishes, and you didn't wash them or something, and he'll get pissed.
No, I end up always having to wash the dishes because he will use one plate and put it in the sink.
The sink can be empty.
And it's like, wow, you didn't look at the sink and say, let me add to this greatness that's happening right here.
An empty sink.
Let me keep it that way.
To avoid dishes, use plastic.
There you go.
This guy.
Okay.
So sorry.
So you said the thing that was wrong, again, you said the way you communicate, short-tempered, and chores.
That's one thing, yeah.
Okay.
Okay.
Not for you, my friend.
Yeah.
One thing that she does right, one thing that she does wrong, currently.
She's very helpful.
You know, she's not stingy with her money.
You know what I'm saying?
You live good, huh?
Yeah, man.
Dude, bro, look at me, man.
I gained some weight, dude.
I used to weigh like 160 when I met her.
She can cook?
Oh, man.
I mean, I think I'm a decent cook.
He's just a very picky eater, which is like kind of a recipe for failure.
Let's just say I think you cook probably five times a year?
Oh, wow.
So this is a good topic to get into.
Is that going to be what's one of the wrongs?
Yes, absolutely.
So just so I make sure I have this, she's very helpful and she's not cheap.
But the one wrong is, or is it more than one wrong?
I guess the biggest one is she doesn't cook?
I don't cook often.
You spend a lot of money outside, unfortunately.
Okay.
Yeah.
And that's something I take accountability for.
You know, I definitely need to work on that.
Okay.
For sure.
But speaking to that, I think that part of why I haven't been cooking as much is because he is a very picky eater.
It's like, whatever I make, it's always something that he doesn't like about it.
You know?
Like...
And it's like, I'm eating it, and I'm like, this is pretty good.
But he's like, oh, it's too spicy.
I don't like that seasoning or the aftertaste.
So it kind of discourages me.
Okay, it's based on taste, not on calories or something like that.
No, it's based on calories or carbs or anything.
What is that you cook from that Nigerian food?
Oh, a goosey?
Bro, what is that, bro?
I'm Puerto Rican, man.
Bro.
She gave me a hoosey with cow tongue, bro.
I don't eat cow tongue, bro.
Okay, so we can attribute it to a significant difference in cuisine is what it is.
Okay.
And then you go ahead and use cook without...
And I love spicy food.
And he doesn't.
No, I'm trying to eat more spicy now.
Okay, question though.
If you know what he likes, what he doesn't like, would you want to make what he likes?
Well, yeah.
Yeah, that's a good point.
Yeah, I do want to be making more of Puerto Rican food, you know.
Actually, it's rice and beans.
It doesn't have to be Puerto Rican, specifically.
I made rice and beans a couple of times and you liked it.
Like black beans.
Yo, I'm not going to lie, though.
Coltang is crazy, though.
Holy shit, it's crazy.
Cow tongue?
It's good, though.
It's good.
It's an acquired taste, but once you get into it, it's good.
Any other wrongs that you guys can think about that you dislike?
Just list them out.
Go ahead.
When we have a conversation and she cuts me off or talks over me, you know, stuff like that, man.
She doesn't understand that.
I tell her, I'm like, babe, you are very masculine.
It's like, no, what do you mean?
I'm like, you are very masculine.
I'm telling you, this needs to change.
Because, you know, my place as a man, I don't have it, unfortunately.
I don't feel like I have it, right?
So then, can you blame her?
Right, no, no, exactly.
Not because I haven't been doing what I know what I need to do, and I've been working on it.
But then again, we get to the...
Like, our schedules are set up weird, especially with the baby in daycare and stuff like that, having to pick her up, like...
It's very, very complicated.
And again, I'm not making an excuse.
I'm just being realistic about our life schedule, right, with the baby.
But no, like I told you in the beginning, the example I told you, like, I'm willing to, if I have to work two to three jobs to get where I need to get, just so you can stay home and, you know, I gave her the option.
But no.
So in order for her, in order for our way of life to keep going the way it is right now with the baby and all that, she needs to keep working the job.
She needs to keep working.
And I still need to be the bottom G. Unfortunately.
You know what I'm saying?
It doesn't have to be unfortunate.
Like, I've never put him down.
I never try to, like, throw it in his face.
Like, oh, I run this.
Or what are you going to do?
Like, you know...
I can leave you at any time or anything toxic or anything like that.
I'm always like, hey, this is the situation that we're in and I want to see you grow.
I want to see you grow with your business and the idea that you have.
The whole working three jobs and basically killing yourself is what he's talking about doing.
I don't think that's the best path to take.
Because you're not going to have any energy to do anything for yourself, for a family.
Like, you're going to be miserable.
You're going to be agitated.
Working jobs you're not passionate about.
I mean, that's what it's going to come down to.
All to say, hey, I'm the breadwinner.
You know, we can figure out how to both contribute.
Do you think you can do better than him?
Be honest.
In what sense?
For example, maybe income, looks, height?
Yeah, I mean, if you're saying better, I guess that can be subjective, what is better.
But yeah, I mean, I definitely think I can, for sure.
For you, do you think you could do better than her?
Be honest.
In regards to what?
Just generally?
More feminine, more submissive, more, I don't know, pretty.
If I can be a better version of myself better than her, if I'm understanding your question correctly.
No, the question is, currently right now, your current status, your current, I guess, income, current, like, looks, so to speak, can you do better, for example, with a different woman, you think?
Oh, with a different woman?
Yeah.
I'm very confident, so I'm not shy to talk to certain girls or any girl, really.
But could you manage that right now?
Oh, absolutely not.
Absolutely not.
And this is a conversation I was having with my co-worker.
I'm like, you know, if...
If I was ever to talk, if I wasn't with her and I wasn't living the way I am right now and I was to go meet any other random chick, knowing what I know now, I know I'm not fit to even, you know, be in that position.
And if I ever did speak to any girl, right, in the position I am now in life, I wouldn't feel proud of myself, you know, to just go out and then say, yo, bro, I got this baddie one or not, you know, and then just slap the word.
I don't feel good, you know?
So right now, she's doing you a favor.
Mm-hmm.
So you know what you got to do for her to become better, right?
Mm-hmm.
So just do it.
Absolutely.
Absolutely.
And you, yourself as well, could do better, but you chose to love him.
I think on some level, you guys understand your values and your roles.
So question from you, though.
Do you know what he wants you to do?
Yes.
Yes, I do.
Are you willing to do it?
Well, with the cooking, he would like for me to, you know, cook more often and, you know, cook different foods that are...
Well, hold on.
The main issue was leaving the kid for five months.
Well, yes.
That was something that we had talked in length about, and we did come to an agreement.
No, we never came to an agreement.
Okay, so this is the part that's a lie.
When are you slated to leave?
November.
Well, yeah, November to April.
Okay.
I'm still in the process of transferring to another unit.
Yeah.
So you already signed the paperwork.
It's done.
The transfer's coming.
Yeah, the transfer portion.
Because the unit I'm at now doesn't have a slot for public affairs, so I have to go to a different unit that can support me and send me to school.
Gotcha.
So that part is done, but then I just need to get enrolled into the school class.
Alright, so you've already switched units and you're just waiting on the last for them to send you now.
Right.
Okay.
Yeah.
And you're going to be there, you said, on weekends or off.
So are you going to go back to Connecticut or how did you guys arrange that?
So that's something that we're still going to be discussing, having ongoing discussions.
So the positive in this, and I'm always like a glass half full type of person.
So the positive in this is that if I go during this timeframe, November to April, I will get Thanksgiving break, weekend, and also like a two week Christmas break where I'll be able to come home.
So there's that part.
And then, you know, we can work out where they can come and visit me, whether it's on the weekends.
I can try to come and visit one weekend.
It would be difficult to visit on my end.
But, you know, they can come and visit me.
That's what, like a seven-hour drive at least?
Yes.
From there to Maryland?
Connecticut, Maryland.
And it's like five, five and a half, I think?
It depends where you are in Maryland.
Okay.
And would you be able to stop it if you wanted to at this point?
Well, see, I mean, I could always choose to not go to school and embark in that, but then have to look at the ramifications of what that actually means.
That means that I will be staying in the MOS that I'm at now, and I can't see myself doing that for another 11 years.
You would miss this opportunity, basically, and you would probably be stuck in HR for the next 10 years.
Right.
If you don't go.
Yeah, time is of the essence in order to do certain things, like with reclassing, there's age limits, but of course you can get waivers, but still there's, you know, there's the age thing, there's, you know, being able to still have time left on my contract.
There's always so many factors.
There's a lot of variables that come into play that are going to drastically affect, okay, I see what you mean here.
So this is really the only window of opportunity where you're in a good position.
You're able to go ahead and get this training.
This training will set you up where the last 10 years, if you're going to do something that you actually want to do, that you'll enjoy, then you can kind of ride into the sunset for your retirement.
Right, absolutely.
And the retirement is something that benefits the family as a whole, not just me, but him and our daughter and if we have another kid in the future.
I want to hear your take on this, if you can ever compromise from what you're seeing.
But let's do some chats real quick and then come back to you.
Yeah, yeah, we can hit the chats real fast.
And just so you guys know, I'll read the ones that came in, but obviously, Bill, do you know which ones came in way before the show started?
Okay, and then we're only going to read 20 and up, just because we got to make sure that this thing is nice and smooth.
This is crazy, man.
I had no idea.
Yeah, yeah.
Dude, when you guys put that up, I was like, oh, this is perfect.
Let me do it.
This is a pawn, you know?
It's a chess move, you know, bro?
No, I completely understand.
So let's check this out to me.
All right, what are we...
It goes, W Myron, the Pocket Pussy Podcast is watching, taking notes to copy even more.
The monotone nerd wants to be Myron so bad all the way to where he sits on camera.
By the way, we need a one-on-one interview with Sneeko about a new IRL stream career.
That'd be dope.
Yeah, Sneeko is, yeah, we'd have to be on Rumble.
My man simped for fresh in a wig.
This guy, bro.
Myron's saying that 24 hours working is inspiring.
I appreciate that 60-minute man.
It happens very often.
Jay Morrow goes, both answer hypothetically, if you were to break up tomorrow, what would be the reason this should be telling us what you're ignoring?
We've already kind of went over some of the things.
Big Bossing CEO Network, various layers.
Cool.
What's up, boys?
Myron, I don't want to give out the sauce, but does the name of Chronicles of Ring belt you?
Not Riddick.
I don't know what you're talking about, bro.
And my goal of being a competitive bodybuilder has been Rapport, and this is from Brewski.
I'll never be able to thank all of you enough for the amount you've changed my life in all aspects.
Appreciate that, Matt.
Shout out to you, bro.
Derek the Trader goes, ignore the chat.
Internet is full of trolls.
FNF are here to help.
The fact this couple agreed to come here takes courage.
Absolutely.
You guys have a daughter.
She has a priority here.
God bless you both.
Shout out to you, Derek the Trader.
Yeah, I would say you were very brave to come on the panel.
So shout out to you guys for coming.
Shout out to you guys, man.
Thank you.
Bruce Key goes, I want to thank the entire FNF crew for changing my life, especially Mario for telling me I'm a fat loser.
I just turned 26.
I've gone from 265 to 195.
That's what I'm talking about, bro.
Good stuff, man.
King Yu goes, WFNF, keep up these shows.
It really gives a real perspective of the everyday people.
Man's needs to work harder and make more money.
Can't have your girl making more money than you equal a woman in control.
You want to respond to that?
Yeah, I mean, I don't know if he...
He obviously missed it.
I've proposed the idea of working two to three jobs so she could stay at home and be with my daughter.
Yeah, these were earlier, so he might have missed it.
Yeah, so, you know, but with all that being said, you know, I'm also focusing on the staff.
That's my main priority, you know what I'm saying?
So I want that to be my main income.
All right.
Last one here.
All right.
Three diglets.
How are you going to be able to make a quester a success if you can't even handle washing the dishes, sir?
This nigga, bro.
What?
That's a good one.
I cook more, you help me wash the dishes more.
Deal?
Nigga!
What do you guys think about men washing dishes?
Please.
It's not that serious.
It's not that deep.
I'll give you my take on it here.
I'm still collecting information, making sure that I assess everything properly.
Hold on, man.
I'm not just going to say a bunch of bullshit without thinking before I speak.
What else do we got here?
Anything?
The Streamlabs?
Yeah, we did.
Okay, guys.
FNFSuperChat.com, man.
Like I said, 20 and up, and then we'll...
That's fine.
Yeah, 20 and up, guys, and we'll get it going.
I see some here, though.
Yeah, what the...
Two days ago.
Oh, okay.
Gotcha, gotcha, gotcha.
Okay.
He did pose a good question.
If you guys were to hypothetically break up, what would be the predominant reason why?
For you, and then for you.
Man, we're going deep here.
Okay.
You can be honest.
I don't want you to think I'm going lowballing, right?
But...
You know, sometimes I feel that she isn't too attentive to the baby as more, you know, as I would like her to be.
She's sometimes way too distracted with work.
And she's done work and eight-hour shift.
And, oh, I got this thing I need to do for the military, this post of social media thing.
Or, hey, I got to go wash my car as a tour or this now.
Oh, I got to help my mom and my dad with this.
But then you're over here for hours on the phone and stuff.
So, you know, it's things like that that are really aggravating, you know, because the baby then is just running around in the room.
She's very independent, you know, playing by herself and this and that, and I try to be there with her.
I try to read some books, and she does too at times, you know, don't get me wrong, and it's not like she doesn't want to do it, but the reason that she doesn't do it is because she's so busy.
Yeah, understood.
Okay.
What about you?
I would say if we're not going to get married, if that's somehow going to continue to mysteriously drag out.
You know, when we have these discussions, he talks about the financial aspect and wanting to be financially ready, you know.
And I think that's fair.
That's fair.
So that would be why you would leave him if he didn't commit and get married to you?
I mean, I feel like we should be progressing towards marriage.
You know, we've been together for five years, and this is discussions we've had multiple times where, you know, I believe we're on the same page about it.
So I think that that will help to solidify, you know, our relationship Family unit and be able, you know, because that is something that I think is spiritually...
But if you're not willing to follow his lead now, right, and put your career on hold, in this situation, would you be able to do it within the confinements of marriage?
I mean, realistically speaking?
Yeah, so putting my career on hold, it would have to be worth it.
But how would marriage change that is my question.
If you guys got married hypothetically tomorrow, would you actually put a stop to what you got going on as far as going to Maryland and pursuing your dream?
No, I don't think the...
So nothing would change?
Well, I mean, it would just basically solidify our union.
How?
And because we are putting our vows before God, we are, you know, creating that...
But isn't one of the vows to obey your husband?
Yeah, absolutely.
Submissive, obey your husband.
Yeah, all of those things.
But once again, you know, the topic we're talking about having to do with working.
I understand.
And it wouldn't make sense for me to just drop what I have.
I have a good job.
Yeah, I have a good job that has benefits.
I think marriage would only cement and exacerbate the problem, probably.
Because what you're basically doing is you're putting cement on something that isn't stable.
Okay.
And it's more amenable to be broken.
You know what I mean?
Because it's like right now the foundation isn't there.
You know what I mean?
So it's like get married but the foundation isn't there.
One of the duties when you take your vows, right?
I'm not Christian or Catholic.
I'm assuming you guys are, right?
But I know they say, you know, the big one is obey your husband.
Tell death to us part and obey your husband.
Yeah.
And it's, you know, with all the books of, with all the religion of the book, they're all, you know, the woman's got to follow her man.
And in this case it's not happening, which...
I see your perspective, too, because now that I'm talking to you guys, I see where this all kind of stems from.
So, alright, I'm just going to give my assessment here.
One last question.
Alright, go ahead.
Yeah, please, go ahead.
You both have been together for five years.
Have you ever cheated?
No.
To be honest.
Absolutely not.
Never?
No.
No texts?
No talking to a guy behind the scenes?
No phone calls?
Nothing?
No.
Never?
No, never.
That makes sense.
What about you?
Thankfully not.
I've never loved another woman but her.
Never?
Never.
Come on, bro.
You're Puerto Rican.
Never.
Mo, this all right to you, bro?
Okay, so never.
Never.
Wow.
That's amazing.
Well, I mean, to be honest, he doesn't have the sexual market value to cheat anyway.
So let me just give it raw.
Okay.
The reason why you're in a position that you're in is because of you, my friend.
You're not adhering to your responsibilities.
And in turn, she's had to take a lot of the responsibilities on, and it's put her in her masculine.
Gonna give it to you raw?
You're a fucking bum right now.
Straight up.
$30,000 a year is unacceptable in Connecticut.
Mm-hmm.
Especially to raise a family in the area that you're in.
And you just have to make more money.
All of these problems stem from your inadequacy to be a man, and that's why she's responding the way that she's responding.
So I have to put the onus on the man.
Now, does she have some things that she has to work on as well?
Of course.
But a lot of the things that she's doing, chasing her career, trying to move over to the military, thinking long-term with her pension and her retirement, etc., these are all masculine traits that she's had to take on because you're not adequate right now.
Period.
That's what it comes down to.
So the onus is on the man.
Because you're the leader, you're the protector, you're the provider.
And right now, the reason why she doesn't want to give up her career is, quite frankly, she doesn't trust you for her long-term security.
She just doesn't.
So this is all your fault, dude.
100%.
She has some things that she could work on, but the foundation is that you're not strong.
So since you're not strong, she has to carry some of that weight, and since she has to carry some of that weight, that puts her in a situation where she can't even focus on the child, she can't be attentive.
Because I know your biggest gripe, but she's not attentive to the child, which is completely, I see that's a very valid gripe, because she's not adhering to her motherly duties, but she can't do it because, if you notice, it's to make more money, it's to earn on Turo.
It's typically for betterment of the family, which that should be your job.
You should be the one saying, hey, I got shit to do, etc.
She should be complaining about you not being attentive to the child, not the other way around, if anything.
So she's basically been put in a masculine position.
She can't cook.
She's not really caring to figure out what you really want to eat or learn another cuisine because she just doesn't have the time.
And this all stems...
Typically, a lack of female submission stems from male inadequacy.
Lack of trust which typically comes from male inadequacy.
So you just got to be a better man, bro.
And the thing is like you're trying to tell her, hey, I need you to cook more, I need you to be more submissive, you're masculine, etc.
You're trying to cash a check you don't have the money for.
You can't tell her to follow you or tell her you need to do this, etc.
You know, if you're not the man.
You got to be the fucking man to tell the girl to behave like a woman.
That makes sense.
You know, that's really what it comes down to.
And I mean, this is actually, this is really interesting because a lot of you guys that watch the podcast right now, y'all might be laughing, talking shit.
Ha ha ha, this guy's a loser, blah blah blah.
A lot of you guys are in the same situation where you're trying to sit there and get women to be submissive to you or she should follow your leader quickly for you, but you don't have your shit together.
You cannot demand submissiveness and femininity from a woman when you don't have all the masculine traits to demand that femininity.
It's, you know, we always say, you know, you need authority and you need responsibility.
A lot of guys think about the authority, but they don't think about the responsibility.
You want to be able to tell a girl what to do?
You want to be able to tell her, hey, I need this, I need that, blah, blah, blah, etc.
That comes with the responsibility of, I got everything handled.
To be honest, you know what's happening here?
You're catching a check in Myron's name, not your name.
You can't catch it.
It's not your name.
Right.
That's a good point.
Or Andrew Tate, or whatever.
And that's one thing, too, about watching this kind of content, is that that's why we're so big on the self-improvement.
And a lot of you guys get mad at me, Myron, you don't collab with these other creators, blah, blah, blah, blah.
The reason why is because they don't solve the other problem.
It's good, one thing, to have girls on the panel and talk about fucking intersexual dynamics and you should be submissive and blah, blah, blah, blah, blah.
But...
If we didn't teach you guys how to make money, how to become more successful, how to have the right mindset, it doesn't fucking matter because you can't command submissiveness from women if you don't got your shit together.
And a lot of you guys that are watching this shit right now, you guys might be laughing, but a lot of you guys are in the same fucking boat where you're with a woman and you got her by the skin of your teeth and she's doing most of the work and you guys kind of cohabitated.
She makes most of the money, but you wanted to still make you a sandwich and suck your dick and shit like that.
No, she's not gonna because she's fucking tired from doing your goddamn job.
That's the reality, man.
So, yeah, dude, I think it's very important that you need to make more money.
Absolutely.
Period.
That's number one.
And the reason why she doesn't want to give up her career, rightfully so, is she doesn't trust you.
You're not stable.
Yeah.
She's older than you too, so she has a little bit more life experience.
She's more educated than you.
She makes more money than you.
She has a more stable career.
She has a pension.
She has a future that she's looking at.
And you don't have that.
So she has to rely on that because at the end of the day, if anything fails, at least she'll have that security.
So she's creating it herself for both y'all.
And I'm surprised that this relationship has even lasted this long with her being in the breadwinner position.
Definitely the daughter is a big player.
And that's where the proof of love comes in.
What else could it be?
I'm big on holding women accountable.
I'm really big on holding women accountable.
But the reality is, man, is that you're fucking up big time.
So I said earlier, she's doing you a favor.
And obviously speaking, I'm proud of you for coming here as a man.
Because this took a lot of courage because I had no idea you're not the breadwinner.
That being said, though, in this case, we can see clearly...
And that's only step one.
It's not just about being a breadwinner.
That's just step one.
But a lot of guys gotta understand, you have to be the breadwinner, you gotta be the leader, etc.
And you gotta be able to be that fucking guy.
Where the girl feels safe and says, you know what, man?
I could walk away from this job.
I don't fucking need this shit.
But that would solve a lot of problems too.
But again, the frame here is that...
It'll solve all the problems, bro.
Yeah, 100%.
You want to have her follow your lead.
And she wants to.
She loves you.
I can tell her she loves you 100% because she's still here five years later and you're not the man you need to be currently.
But hopefully you change that in the future.
But for you, like I said earlier, question for you, last question for me.
If you actually saw him as the leader and he manned up and said, you know what?
Baby, I got it.
I'm making 100K a year now.
I'm going to take care of the family.
Would you put your career to the side?
I would put my full-time career and probably keep the Army reserve since it's a part-time.
Yeah.
And it's a minimal...
You'd go into a less demanding MOS or you would just put...
Yeah, you would go reserve?
Yeah, I'm reserve.
Full-time reserve?
Yeah, I'm reserve now, so I've been reserve from the beginning.
Is this going to make you active, by the way?
Well, it's like temporary active duty status.
Because you're doing the training.
Yeah, so it's like ADTS active duty training for school.
I want you to respond to what me and Myron said, and then how are you going to improve as the man to lead her and your daughter in the right way?
No, absolutely.
I think hearing those tough words from you, it's like, it's gold.
You know what I'm saying?
Everybody got things to say, and it's actually funny.
Trust me, a lot of them are in the same position.
Yeah, I know.
I know they are.
I know they are.
And this is, I'm really glad that we got to see this, because...
Yes.
This is what I call red pill masturbation, where you're watching red pill content and you're like, alright, I'm going to be assertive and dominant on my girl, but I don't have the fucking funds and or background to be able to back up what I'm going to say.
I'm going to tell her to do this, or I need you to do this, I'm going to behave a certain way, but unfortunately you don't have the backing to be able to do so.
It's like going to a bank and saying, hey, I need a loan to buy a house, but your credit score is 420.
They're not going to give you a loan for the house.
They're going to laugh at you and they're going to tell you, get out the bank.
Same thing.
As a man, you want to be able to tell women, hey, I have this authority.
I'm telling you what to do.
The responsibility comes with that of being that man in the first place so that you can actually take care of everything.
Yeah, and I also want to add, I knew coming here, right, I was expecting to hear tough words like that because I know where I am.
You know what I'm saying?
Coming from love, man.
Yeah, absolutely, man.
And I'm telling you, man, it's gold.
It's gold.
Excuse me.
So I was expecting to get fried, cooked from you, man, you know, and I came here with that mindset to learn something, you know, for both of us.
But I definitely also want to hear what she has to say about you, about what you just said about me, you know.
Yeah, the funny thing is I thought I was going to get fried or cooked, to be honest with you, because I see a lot of glimpses of when you have the, you know, all-women panels and when the conversations go awry, you know, and they're going back and forth with you.
We're both pretty cooked right now.
Well done.
Well done, man.
So I was here.
Unfortunately, the clips that go viral are the ones where I insult the women for being delusional, etc.
And the clips where I tell the men that their fuck-ups never go viral because no one cares when men get shit on.
So, sorry, continue.
Yeah, for sure.
My question to answer you, babe, like...
Is there a world where there can be a temporary solution where we're both making it happen?
Is that a bad thing to you guys in your eyes?
Where it's like, okay, he's not making $100K, but he has a better job than he did a few years ago, and I still do need to keep a job.
But we're sharing the responsibility.
Is that such a horrible thing to do, maybe temporarily?
No, it's not.
What I've realized is this.
With my chick, she works, but she does it electively.
And I told her, you could quit whenever the fuck you want.
You don't need them.
And I think it's very important for the woman to work electively, right?
Not mandatorily.
Because when a woman works mandatorily, it's like, oh my god, I'm growing my teeth.
I'm doing something that I don't necessarily want to do, maybe, to earn money.
I've noticed with girls, they're at their best if they don't work or if they work electively.
So...
I want it where he puts you in a position where you're working a cush gig, you're in the military, you've done your tenure, it's cool, but you're doing an easy OMS, you're chilling, you're doing the bare minimum, and you're just getting paid whatever you need to do, and he handles the majority of everything, and you work from a position of when I feel like it.
Just on the one weekend a month.
Yeah, exactly.
You're chilling once a month and you're chilling.
And just having a business.
Yeah, the two-row thing on the side, exactly.
Exactly.
Like easy stuff that you can do from home and the kid is the predominant responsibility.
So that's my thing.
I genuinely believe that.
And I've noticed that women operate best when they work, if they do work, electively, not mandatorily.
So that's on him.
He needs to be in that position to have you working from a position of power, essentially, not a position of need.
But I think we covered a lot of points here, and I can see, definitely speaking, that you want to do better.
Hopefully you will.
And you understand his issues, and you love him.
Are you willing to take that role where, hey, you know what?
If man's up, I'll be submissive and follow him.
You guys are in a better position than 99% of people, though.
The fact that you guys are willing to talk it out, you guys are able to come here and hear another perspective, you guys are better off than most people just off of that alone.
Wow, thank you.
That's comforting.
That's definitely comforting to hear.
And this is something that can be fixed.
Because it's on him.
It's really on him.
And he can do it.
You know what I mean?
It's performance-based at this point, which can be done.
Yeah.
It's attainable.
So, just last question from me.
Was this, I want to say, productive for you guys?
You think it was productive?
Yeah.
I mean, I'm blown away.
It was a good experience.
I was like, whew, you know, I'mma just, you know, let him take the lead with the questions and everything.
But this was a good learning experience and we appreciate y'all raw honesty.
With both of us.
I appreciate you guys coming.
Yeah, absolutely.
I knew this was going to be tough, man.
And I guarantee there's probably a couple right now that's going through something similar or people that are going through something similar and they can learn from it as well.
What you guys are experiencing isn't uncommon.
It's very common.
Because we live in a world where women make most of the money now.
At least from, I want to say, average standpoint.
So on some level, this is going to happen often.
If not, more often than not.
So, I mean, it's going to happen.
Yeah.
No, man, but anything else, Rush?
That's it.
Yo, guys, thank you for coming, man.
Yeah, no, for sure.
Thank you for having me.
Socials and net, for example.
Anything you guys want to say.
Yeah, no, just to add on to what you were saying, you know, that's something that little by little I've been recognizing, you know what I'm saying?
And I feel like this was the moment where God laid down the sledgehammer, you know what I'm saying?
Boom, you know, so it's like...
You're 30 years old, man.
You can do it.
Absolutely, absolutely, man.
Yes, we can.
Yeah, yeah.
And also, if you couldn't do it, she would have been left.
Five years?
If she didn't believe you at all, bro, she would have been gone.
I think she's impressive that we're here right now.
I'm impressed that we're here right now.
Yeah, absolutely.
Yeah, I love him, you know.
Yeah, absolutely.
There's a lot of good qualities, I think, that we both have.
And even if we don't agree on things, we always find a way to, you know, move forward, you know.
And I think that's the recipe for a long-term relationship is everything is not cookie cutter.
Everything is not cookie.
Perfect.
Of course, of course.
You know, and two people are not going to be identical twins that just yes each other all day, you know?
To sit here and take this criticism, that's huge, bro, because most people can't take it.
They freak out, oh man, no, make excuses, but you said you took it as a man and bro, just improve.
Yeah, yeah.
No, thank you, man.
I come from a very strict church background.
I would say it's called the Sound Doctrine and Pentecostal Church.
So, you know, we were taught that when God speaks to you, you know, in a tough way, you know, it's because He loves you and stuff like that.
So, you know, this is a big moment for us, and it's awesome.
But yeah, people can find me on social media, OfficialMasterQ on Instagram and Twitter.
And yeah, I'm going to be releasing a YouTube channel later.
I'm probably going to be doing a vlog with this whole experiment as well.
Cool.
Do it.
Make some money, man.
For sure.
You need it, bro.
Just a second, man.
Yeah, so you can find me on Instagram and Twitter, LadySola, at LadySolaLife, and the same thing on Facebook, LadySola.
All right.
Awesome.
Guys, thank you.
The first episode, it was very productive.
I think it was great.
It went well.
What do you think?
Yeah, no.
Thank you guys so much for coming.
I think there's a bunch of people that can learn from this.
I guarantee you there's people that are watching that are going through the same thing.
And thank you guys for coming, man.
We'll be back here with Mr.
Organic in a little bit, man.
I think he's pulling up right now.
So we'll be back for the second part of the three-peat, man.
Love you guys.
Peace.
Peace.
So far away.
I just ran.
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