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Oct. 14, 2023 - Fresh & Fit

02:55:11

Why Men LEAVE For Foreign Women! HEATED Debate w/ Western Women!

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	Thank you.
	And we are live.
	What's up, guys?
	Welcome to the Freshly Podcast, man.
	Actually, after ours edition.
	We're joining a bunch of lovely ladies, man.
	It's a Friday night.
	No intros, you guys know, so we're going to get right into it.
	Number one, rumble.com.
	What the fuck was that, Chris?
	I was trying to sing it, man.
	Bro.
	Dude, don't even do it, bro.
	Don't do that again, man.
	That was terrible.
	Yeah, man.
	Don't quit your day job.
	Oh, my God.
	Anyway, yeah guys, rumble.com slash freshfit.
	As you guys know, if we ever get canceled, which probably that day will come one day, go ahead and check us out on rumble.com slash freshfit.
	Also, castleclub.tv for all the stuff that isn't safe for YouTube and conventional social media.
	But Chris, go ahead.
	You got some, right?
	Girls, Aaron C. Parkson on IG. DM me to come on to the show.
	Shout out to the ladies for coming on to the panel.
	And if you have received any emails, ladies, gentlemen...
	They're fake because we don't do emails.
	We don't pay.
	We don't do anything like that.
	I'm still getting the emails.
	Report them.
	Send me screenshots.
	We got you.
	Other than that, ladies, have a great show.
	Thank you.
	Good job, Chris.
	Let's do it.
	Well, we're going to see in a sec, but ladies, if you don't mind, give us your name, your age, what you do for a living, dating status, and if you want to, of course, and we're going to start right here.
	Name, age, what you do for a living.
	Alrighty, my name is Becca.
	I'm 22 years old, and I'm an OnlyFans creator.
	Where are you originally from?
	I'm originally from Oregon, but I am based in Texas now.
	Okay, and then you said OF? Yes sir.
	Highest education level completed?
	Associates.
	I'm sorry?
	Associates degree.
	Associates, okay, and what?
	Oh, in business, sorry.
	Okay.
	And then relationship status?
	Single.
	What about you?
	Of course.
	My name is Juliana.
	I'm 30.
	I'm an event producer.
	Welcome back.
	Thank you.
	You said event producer?
	Event planner, yeah.
	Planner, okay.
	Where are you originally from?
	Ecuador.
	Okay.
	And then highest education level completed?
	Two masters.
	In?
	International administration and risk communications is one, and the second one is event planning.
	Okay.
	Did you get them in the United States or abroad?
	Well, I studied hospitality management in Switzerland.
	I lived in Dubai, in Paris, in Barcelona, and then I came over here for one of my masters and then to UM for my second masters.
	Okay.
	And then relationship status?
	Single.
	Still?
	Damn.
	Am I 30?
	Do better, man.
	I'm sorry, but I don't go out, so...
	Alright.
	What about you?
	My name is Jackie.
	I'm a yacht stewardess.
	I work on yachts.
	How old are you?
	I'm 26.
	26.
	And then where are you originally from?
	You work on yachts.
	I'm from New Jersey.
	Yeah, I work on yachts.
	That's a red flag, bro.
	All right.
	You said yacht stewardess, right?
	Yes.
	Okay.
	And then highest education level completed?
	I guess high school.
	I dropped out of college.
	Okay.
	And then relationship status?
	Single.
	All right.
	What about you?
	Hi, I'm Tess.
	How old are you?
	I'm 25.
	Where are you from?
	Denver, Colorado.
	All right.
	What do you do for work?
	I do a few things for work.
	I'm a CPG brand manager, so thanks Shark Tank for food brands.
	I also do private money loans, and I'm an OnlyFans creator.
	That's a lot.
	Private money loans.
	What's your background, like your racial background?
	My racial background?
	My dad is black and Native American, and my mom is white.
	So I have some Swedish, French, English, and then my dad has a little bit of Ghana in there.
	Okay.
	And so you said private lending and then branding?
	Brand management for CPG, consumer product goods.
	Okay.
	Alright.
	And the highest education level completed?
	I went to Tufts University and I got my bachelor's there.
	Tufts in Massachusetts?
	Yes, sir.
	Yeah, right outside of Boston.
	It's in...
	It's in Boston.
	Somerville.
	There you go.
	I went to Northeastern, so Somerville is not Boston, but it's right there.
	It's right on the edge.
	Okay, and then relationship status?
	Taken.
	Okay, how long have you been together?
	About a year and a half.
	How'd you guys meet?
	We met on Hinge and we went to a park on our first date.
	It was really sweet.
	I'm surprised.
	People are getting matched up on Hinge a lot.
	It's crazy.
	The dating apps are actually how a lot of couples meet.
	But you guys aren't married, right?
	Just together for a year?
	Nope, just together.
	What about you?
	Hey, y'all!
	Hey.
	Hi.
	My name's Holiday.
	I'm from New York, Long Island.
	New York?
	I live in the Bronx.
	I'm a TV and media personality.
	How old are you?
	I'm 34.
	Okay.
	Wait, 34?
	Yeah.
	And then you said TV and media?
	TV and media personality.
	What do you do specifically?
	Like, are you an actress or are you a...
	So I go, I'm actually a philanthropist, so I go on some of the hottest podcasts and I give game and we give views and go viral.
	Game on what specifically?
	How to keep a man.
	Okay.
	How to have a successful relationship.
	Last time you were on, you were spent some fire.
	I remember last time.
	And she's engaged.
	I'm engaged now, newly engaged, yes.
	Okay.
	But I'm an author, entrepreneur, have my own shapewear business.
	Okay.
	Yeah.
	Alright.
	What's your highest education level completed?
	High school.
	Okay.
	And then your relationship is engaged, right?
	I'm newly engaged.
	How long have you been together?
	Six years.
	Okay.
	Six years!
	And you're originally from New York?
	Yes, sir.
	The city?
	I'm from Long Island.
	Long Island, okay.
	Word to my mother!
	You already know.
	It's the hood, ain't it?
	Alright, cool.
	What about you?
	Hello, my name is Keila, Keila Lorena, and I am Dominican, but I live here in Miami.
	Wait, how old are you?
	I'm 32.
	Where did you go to school and stuff?
	I went to school, yes, to FIU, and I have my bachelor's degree.
	Okay, but where'd you grow up?
	Did you grow up in the Dominican Republic or here?
	I moved here when I was 12.
	Okay.
	Miami?
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	And then, what do you do for work?
	I am an actress and a model.
	Okay.
	Have you been in Vogue?
	Vogue?
	Not yet, but I will.
	Then you're not a model.
	I'm still a model.
	I'm still a model.
	I get paid.
	You said you have a bachelor's degree?
	Yes.
	FIU? Yes.
	What do you have it in?
	My bachelor's degree was in communication arts, and I also have an associate's in architecture.
	And after that, I got a certificate from Harvard.
	In what?
	I did it online for architecture as well.
	Okay.
	And then what's your relationship status?
	I'm single.
	Alright.
	After all that, still single.
	Alright, cool.
	What about you?
	My name is Jem Jules.
	I am...
	Sorry, what is it?
	Jem Jules.
	Jem Jules.
	Okay, so...
	Your voice is gone!
	Damn!
	First name Jem, last name Jules, or...?
	Last name Jules.
	That's just a stage name.
	Alright, how old are you?
	I'm 24.
	Okay, where are you from?
	I'm from Florida, but I was raised in New York.
	Okay, what part of Florida are you from?
	Pole County.
	Oh god.
	What is that?
	The boondocks?
	What the heck?
	That's like from Central Florida?
	Yeah.
	That's not even the hood.
	That's the country, bro.
	What do you do for work?
	I am a porn star.
	Oh shit.
	Wait a minute!
	You seen him?
	Wait a minute.
	I saw you before.
	She's on stage, man.
	I thought she meant, like, stripper.
	Okay.
	Okay, so you're a corn star.
	Okay, fantastic.
	I see why her voice is fucked up.
	It's my job.
	You know what I'm saying?
	My voice is going.
	I'm going to go fuck a course, man.
	I'm going to go fuck a course.
	All right.
	Fantastic.
	What do you do?
	Well, we know what you do for work.
	What's your highest education level completed?
	10th grade, I think.
	Oh, you didn't finish high school?
	Okay.
	I didn't finish high school.
	Okay.
	And then, relationship status?
	I'm in a situationship.
	Alright.
	Come on, man.
	Is he also a corn star?
	No.
	No?
	Regular guy?
	Yeah, he's an IT. Oh, shit.
	He's a nerd!
	Shots all the nerds, bro!
	I love a nerd.
	What can I say?
	Do you still actively shoot?
	Yes, I was shooting earlier today, and that's probably why my voice is, you know.
	TMI. TMI. I'm sorry.
	Whoa!
	Whoa.
	Wait, is this another one, Myron?
	Another one?
	Another one.
	What do you mean?
	A nerd and, you know.
	Yeah.
	Oh!
	Yeah.
	We had a couple that came up here.
	Neon and Sam.
	Oh yeah, but...
	And I was a sham.
	But she wasn't like a full-on...
	Because you're like full-on.
	You're not just OnlyFans.
	You're probably signed or whatever.
	Yes, I have an agent.
	Yeah, she's doing like...
	Damn.
	Same shit.
	She works for them boys if you don't understand.
	Okay, what about you?
	Hi, I'm Alina.
	I'm 30.
	Wait, 30?
	30.
	Sorry.
	No, I wasn't.
	Okay, look familiar.
	Where are you from?
	I'm from New York originally, but I moved here about three years ago.
	The city or upstate?
	Long Island is where I'm from.
	Yeah, East Islip is where I went to high school.
	Oh, really?
	Yeah, Brentwood.
	Oh my god.
	East Islip.
	I think that's where the Long Island killer is from.
	The Gilgo?
	I don't think so.
	No, he's come out east.
	Not us.
	But were one of his victims from there?
	Yeah, I think so.
	All over.
	Yeah, the Gilgo killer.
	It took them like 20 years to find them.
	No, like 10.
	10 plus, but they found them.
	Okay, and then what do you do for work?
	I currently am a manager at Starbucks and I am a cosmetologist.
	Okay.
	I do here.
	I actually recently have been working in Brickell, Brickell City Center.
	That's where I saw you from.
	That's where I saw you from.
	What do you get?
	He got a cold brew?
	I don't want to say my order online.
	You go to Starbucks.
	So, actually speaking, to be real...
	I didn't want to go there.
	I was forced to go there by a white girl.
	But I ordered a chai tea latte.
	With the pumpkin foam?
	Caramel drizzle.
	Okay.
	And an old milk.
	Nice!
	That's a good order.
	Don't do it, bro!
	Wait, wait, wait, wait.
	Hey, man.
	It was good.
	It was good.
	I don't like coffee like that, so that's why.
	Sorry, you were saying?
	You were going to say something?
	No, I'm a cosmosologist.
	I work for a beauty company.
	I was going to ask if that drink was influenced by a woman.
	No, no, no.
	I just didn't want coffee.
	Fresh, you got the right to remain silent.
	You got the right to remain silent.
	You're safe to use against you.
	You know what I'm saying?
	Oh, you're funny, bro.
	You're trying to be funny, man.
	Because I know who influenced it, so...
	I'm just saying it was a good drink for me.
	No coffee.
	Highest education level completed for you?
	Associate's degree.
	In?
	Liberal Arts.
	And then relationship status?
	Currently single.
	So free drinks on you?
	I could try.
	What about you?
	Hi, I'm Rachel.
	I go by Rachi.
	I'm Dominican.
	I'm 21.
	Did you grow up in the Dominican Republic or here?
	No, I grew up in Houston, Texas, but I was born in Igwe, Dominican Republic.
	Gotcha.
	What do you do for?
	I'm a recording artist and a student.
	Okay.
	So you can sing, right?
	Mm-hmm.
	Rapper?
	I sing.
	Can you spit like a quick bar first?
	Wait, spit a bar?
	Not spit a bar.
	I could do a little run.
	Let's hear it.
	Yeah.
	A little boy.
	Killing me softly.
	And I'm still falling.
	Wait.
	Still the one I need.
	I just want to be with you.
	You got me all gone.
	Don't ever let me go.
	Alright, that's enough.
	Y'all can go on Apple Music though, Spotify.
	Okay, Mo, was that an up or down?
	Oh yeah, Mo, you're a singer.
	What do you think?
	Be honest, bro.
	First half was a down, but I actually heard you catch it, so.
	Up on the second half.
	Yeah, I wasn't rehearsed.
	I heard.
	This was on the spot.
	Alright.
	Okay.
	What is your highest education level completed?
	High school, I'm guessing?
	I'm getting my bachelor's.
	You're pursuing your bachelor's though?
	What are you majoring in?
	I will be graduating in December.
	What are you majoring in?
	Journalism and music business from the University of Miami.
	Okay.
	Alright.
	And then, relationship status?
	Single.
	Alright.
	Good school, useless major, but whatever.
	What was your major?
	Criminal Justice, actually.
	Another useless major.
	But I acknowledge that, so...
	Actually, it landed me a job, but, like, normally, yeah, it's a useless major.
	I wouldn't say mine is useless.
	I can write really good, really well.
	I mean...
	Oh, God.
	I think traditional journalism is dying, if you look at, like, mainstream media.
	It is.
	However, not completely.
	It's on its way out.
	I don't disagree.
	I think independent media is the new frontier when it comes to journalism and news in general.
	No one trusts Fox or CNN or NBC anymore at this point.
	That's true.
	Anyway, but that's a whole other conversation.
	So, guys, I know we said that it's a Friday, and we're going to go ahead and get your guys' questions, and we will, but I actually have a topic for today, and we've got a video to react to today.
	First, as you guys know, I'm implementing some new themes and stuff like that for the show, and we're going to really start implementing them next week, because I'm waiting on some props.
	But this one we got without it.
	So, I'm going to start here with Ms.
	DR, and then we're going to work our way back around, and my question is this.
	Have you ever traveled abroad, and if so, which countries?
	For you.
	I mean, obviously, Dominican Republic is one, right?
	Yeah, that's it.
	That's it?
	You've never been anywhere else?
	No.
	Well, no.
	Okay.
	Damn, nigga.
	That's it.
	Well, you're here on the centerpiece, I'm assuming?
	No, I was born in DR, but I was raised in Houston, so I have double citizenship.
	Okay, so you do have a U.S. citizenship.
	Right.
	Okay.
	But every time I travel, it's just to DR and back.
	Okay.
	So you have traveled abroad, but DR only?
	Right.
	Okay.
	Boring.
	A little bit.
	What about you?
	I've been to Italy.
	I did a yoga retreat there about five years ago on the Amalfi Coast.
	Okay.
	I've been to Spain, Dominican Republic.
	Where else?
	That's it.
	That's it?
	Yeah.
	All that from Starbucks?
	No.
	What do you mean?
	All that from Starbucks.
	I'm just saying that's a lot of traveling.
	Well, what do you mean?
	I didn't always work for Starbucks.
	Oh, okay, okay.
	But I was working at Starbucks when I was in Italy and in Spain.
	Nice.
	Yeah.
	All right.
	What about you?
	I've been to Italy, Turks and Caicos, DR. Okay.
	Anywhere else?
	Yeah, Jamaica.
	I've been to Jamaica.
	Jamaica's nice.
	I love Jamaica.
	That's it?
	Yeah.
	Okay, what about you?
	My hometown, my home country, Dominican Republic, and Spain, and Bahamas, the Bahamas.
	Okay, cool.
	What about you?
	The UK, all of the Caribbeans.
	When you say all of the Caribbean, can you name a couple of the countries?
	Trinidad, Jamaica, Turks and Caicos, St.
	Thomas, St.
	Kicks.
	So literally everywhere.
	Wait, Barbados?
	I've been to Barbados.
	There you go.
	I've done Mexico, Tulum, Cancun, Ghana, DR. I just picked somewhere on the map.
	I've probably been there, too.
	Anywhere, out of curiosity...
	I got stuck in Qatar, in the Doha airport.
	But you didn't leave the airport?
	I was on my way to Africa.
	Have you been to anywhere in South America or Eastern Europe?
	No.
	Eastern Asia?
	No, I haven't.
	You said Africa?
	Where'd you go to Africa?
	Well, I was on my way to Lagos, Nigeria.
	Okay.
	What happened?
	A long story, but it was somebody, a trafficking situation.
	Whoa!
	And so I ended up finding this out and ended up getting stuck in the Qatar in Doha Airport and came back.
	Okay.
	Alright.
	Do you work out?
	I do.
	I can tell.
	Yeah.
	I'm a Stanmaster girl.
	Okay.
	Okay.
	What about you?
	I've been to a lot of places, British Virgin Islands, Mexico, UK, Scotland, Ireland, Italy, Switzerland, Amsterdam, Netherlands, France, Spain, Mozambique, South Africa, Austria, Germany, yeah, a lot of European countries, Italy.
	That's all I can think of off the top of my head.
	Okay.
	Are you Israeli?
	Do you have any Jewish background?
	No.
	No?
	Oh, okay.
	Oh, my God.
	You're so bad!
	I mean, I just had to ask real quick, you know what I mean?
	She said private lending, and I was like, wait, hold on.
	Wait one second.
	Okay, cool.
	What about you?
	Have you traveled abroad, and if so, where?
	Sorry, Maureen.
	Her voice is not getting any better.
	I'm going to take her off the panel.
	Why?
	I just gave her a tea.
	Why?
	She's on tea, bro.
	She's on tea.
	You know what?
	I just made it.
	I see.
	Relax.
	She came here with her voice fucked up, and it's like, you know what I'm saying?
	For now, let's have a seat, but if 30 minutes later down the line, if your voice don't sound good, then you know what I'm saying?
	Damn, Chris.
	Listen.
	All right.
	All right.
	Yep, that's fine.
	Wait, so she wants to leave?
	I don't want to leave.
	No, no, you're good, you're good.
	Alright, you know what, stay on.
	If it sounds good, if the chat's complaining and, you know, it's one of those things where...
	Goddamn, nigga!
	Chris, you don't want her to get up.
	- No, no, no. - No, no, no. - Come on, man.
	Okay?
	Let her stay.
	Let her stay.
	Alright, alright, fine.
	You know what?
	Alright, niggas, don't complain in the chat.
	They want you to stay, sweet girl.
	They want you to stay, okay?
	They want you to stay, sweet girl.
	The chat not complaining no more.
	Shut the fuck up, Chris.
	Make her get up again.
	They say W, Chris.
	All right.
	All right, cool.
	Thank you, Chris.
	No problem, no problem.
	Okay.
	Thank the chat.
	So we got, okay, so Austria, Germany.
	Okay, what about you?
	Have you traveled abroad?
	Yes.
	Yes or no?
	Okay.
	I've been all over Europe as well.
	I used to live in Spain, I've been to France, all over Europe I guess, and then outside of Europe I've been to...
	Eastern Europe or Western Europe?
	Mostly Western.
	All the first world countries?
	The safe places?
	Yeah, I guess.
	I mean, yeah.
	Mostly.
	I haven't been to crazy.
	I guess like the most...
	You haven't been to like Romania or Moldova or Hungary or any of these places?
	Unfortunately not.
	It's on the list.
	Okay, but you've been to the safe ones.
	Okay, cool.
	Or the first one.
	I've been to, I guess, North Africa and then as well like Morocco and then Mexico and then a few spots in Asia.
	Where in Asia?
	All over Thailand.
	And then stop in Japan, but mostly Thailand.
	That's my next trip.
	Alright, so Thailand, and then you said all over Western Europe?
	And then just Morocco for North Africa.
	What about you?
	Well, I studied abroad in 2012 and I haven't returned to my home country ever since.
	So I've lived in Switzerland, in Spain, in France, in Dubai, in Lebanon, I've visited Amsterdam, I've visited Germany, I've visited Colombia, Peru, Costa Rica, Panama, everything.
	Not everything, but I've traveled.
	Well-traveled, huh?
	All right.
	And what about you?
	I've only been to Mexico, fortunately, when I was very young.
	That's it?
	Mexico?
	Yep, that is it.
	And where did you go?
	Did you go to, like, the tourist area?
	Yep, we went to Cancun.
	Okay.
	Yeah.
	All right.
	Okay, so my second question now is...
	In the country that you went to, or countries that you went to, were the women more traditional?
	I'll start with you.
	Did you observe that, yes or no?
	No.
	No?
	Okay, well, Cancun, that makes sense.
	What about you?
	Yes, it depends on the country.
	Which country were the women most traditional from where you went?
	Russia.
	All Eastern Europe women.
	That's pretty much it.
	Not in South America?
	No, South America, probably...
	Colombia?
	No, not even.
	Oh, wow.
	Okay.
	What about you?
	Were the women traditional in any of the countries that you visited?
	Or which country had the most traditional women?
	I mean, I guess, depends on what you mean by traditional, but from what I would just assume...
	What does traditional mean to you, then?
	Family-oriented.
	I mean...
	Sorry.
	I think mostly traditional for the most part.
	Straight up Morocco, the women there were very traditional.
	However, why I ask, depending on definition, I do believe that the women in Western Europe, though, most European countries are pretty traditional as well.
	Which countries were the most traditional in Western Europe, in your opinion?
	I feel like...
	I just feel like mostly because everyone just kind of sticks to a script there they really don't you know like they kind of just go with the flow of their life so I feel like same thing with Spain to Italy to France I feel like they just nobody's it's different in America where everyone's trying to like break out and like be it like I don't think there's like major Women starting their own businesses going out of their way that there is but it's just so you saw traditional women and you said Italy and where else?
	Spain as well, but mostly Morocco when it comes to the way you dress.
	Women still had differences for clothes, but I think women still were just wives and housewives still in those countries.
	Okay.
	What about you?
	Definitely South Africa and Mozambique were the most traditional women.
	Okay.
	What about you?
	Everywhere I went, I feel like everyone's attached to social media, so there's no tradition at all.
	But while I did spend the very few moments in the Qatar airport in Doha, everyone was fully covered.
	Like, you're not going to see girls walking around in bonnets.
	You're not going to see...
	I'm not judging, but you're not going to see a lot of the things that you've seen in an American culture or in an American airport.
	Okay.
	What about you?
	I went to Spain, and I think most women over there are more traditional than here in Miami, but I think it's about the same, like nowadays.
	Some of them, I feel like older women are more traditional over there, but the youngest ones are, it's about the same as here, as Miami.
	I think because of social media.
	Where were you at in Spain specifically?
	Madrid and Barcelona.
	And the women were more traditional there than here?
	The older generation.
	But the younger women were the same?
	Yeah.
	Is there anywhere that you went where the younger women were traditional?
	No.
	No?
	Okay.
	What about you?
	In the countries that you visited, were the women more traditional?
	Yes, of course.
	Where so the most?
	In Italy, of course.
	In Italy?
	Yes.
	Okay.
	Someone else said Italy.
	Me.
	Over here.
	You said, okay, someone over here.
	Did you say Italy?
	Yeah, you said Italy too, right?
	I think they're traditional there as well.
	And they all Malfi, they were.
	They like dressed more modest.
	Definitely like more chill.
	Everyone walked everywhere or on their little Vespa.
	A clean.
	Life was definitely more simple there.
	They were definitely more traditional.
	Okay.
	The men were masculine.
	Okay.
	And the women were more feminine, for sure.
	Come to Harlem, we got a lot of masculine men.
	Oh, I know.
	And women, too.
	What about you?
	Well, you've only been at DR. Are the women more traditional than the women here?
	Yes.
	They are?
	How so?
	We cook, we clean.
	Okay.
	We pick up the children.
	Okay.
	That helps me segue into the second question here.
	What traits make a woman traditional?
	Start with you.
	In your opinion.
	Yeah, you kind of named some of them, but what do you think traits make a woman traditional?
	I think, yeah, cooking, cleaning, taking care of the kids.
	Not necessarily stay at home.
	I think you can be traditional and still have a job, but you definitely need to have dinner ready.
	Okay.
	What about you?
	What makes a woman traditional?
	What are traditional duties of a woman?
	Be more nurturing, emotionally intelligent.
	Yeah, taking care of kids.
	I wouldn't want to work if I didn't have to, but if I had to work, maybe doing something fun.
	And yeah, cooking, cleaning.
	Okay.
	What about you?
	I feel like I'm a traditional woman.
	You're traditional?
	In what way are you traditional?
	I mean, I cook, I clean, I suck dick, you know.
	Okay!
	Traditionally American.
	I mean, a lot of women have only bands, so that's kind of traditional now.
	Is it traditional or is it just a new norm?
	It's the new norm.
	Let's make it a traditional.
	Okay, so in your eyes, what makes a woman traditional?
	Well, cooking, cleaning, sucking dick.
	Watching their kids loving on their children.
	That makes a woman traditional.
	Okay.
	Alright.
	What about you?
	I think it depends a lot on your culture because each culture is different.
	What would you say is traditional?
	What's widely accepted amongst all the cultures that you would think that makes a woman traditional?
	I think just whatever she wants to do with her life.
	I mean, it's not...
	The same thing anymore as it was before.
	Well that's what makes it traditional because that's what it was before.
	Yeah but nowadays it depends more on your culture.
	It depends like what do you feel happy doing.
	Okay so what's that in your eyes?
	What's traditional now?
	Just being yourself.
	Doing what you like to do for a living or you know.
	So you're telling me it's how you feel in tradition?
	No, I'm telling you it depends on everyone's culture and it depends on wherever you're from.
	It depends on what you like.
	It's not like it used to be before.
	So you changed the definition of what traditional means.
	Because what's tradition?
	Like, only cooking and cleaning and that's what you guys mean?
	No, we want to hear your point of view.
	I mean, it's fine.
	If you think traditional is whatever you feel, I guess we'll go with that.
	Yeah, but I mean, like, it depends on your upbringing.
	There's not only one way of being traditional.
	I think I get what she's saying.
	Like, if you grew up in a home and your tradition is to take off your shoes at the front door, then that is your tradition.
	If you come here, we have to take our shoes off.
	That's the tradition here, right?
	But we may go to other podcasts and other places where you walk in with your shoes on.
	That's not a tradition.
	So you can't take that to every podcast and say, what's the tradition for a podcast?
	And it's like, what's the norm?
	It's like, there's norms everywhere.
	So I'm just defending what she may be trying to say.
	So I guess rephrase the question for her.
	Like, what is a traditional woman in the Dominican Republic?
	Yeah, but I'm not...
	What's tradition in your home?
	My home?
	Traditional woman in my home?
	This aikido is funny, bro.
	Yeah, like, it's incredible how the girls are going, like, leaping, you know, making crazy jumps to defend something.
	It's like, I mean, it's a pretty straightforward question.
	What are the traditional duties held by a female?
	Yes, but there are many ways that you can reframe that question.
	I mean, it's not only one way.
	Well, he's asking how you define traditional.
	Yeah, I define traditional.
	Yeah, it's not really...
	Like, if you have a man right now, what would it be tradition in your home with him?
	I'm just going to work, doing what you like.
	What are the traditional duties of a female?
	Of the female is allowing the man to lead the home.
	I think that's the number one.
	I say cooking and cleaning but it also entails...
	So following a man.
	Allowing him to lead.
	I wouldn't say follow.
	Allowing him to lead.
	But if he's leading, then that means you're following by definition.
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	So following a man, what else?
	And just being respectful to, you know, each other's feelings.
	I think as a woman, you're supposed to be nurturing.
	You're supposed to be understanding.
	You're supposed to be supportive.
	But I just think those are not just women traits.
	I think those are great partner and characteristics in a relationship.
	So cooking and cleaning is subjective depending on your occupation, depending on the time management.
	But I do definitely feel like as a woman, you do handle your household, cook clean, make sure your man is stuck dry before you leave.
	You know, all those good things.
	Alright, what about you?
	What are the traditional duties of a female?
	It's a hard question, but I would say I definitely agree with the cooking and cleaning.
	I think those can become shared responsibilities as kids come into the picture.
	Do you do that right now?
	I do do that right now.
	That's good.
	Yeah, I do do that right now because I take pride in those.
	The cooking and the cleaning or sharing it?
	Both.
	You live with your guy?
	I do.
	Okay.
	Yeah.
	But I take responsibility for when I need to take responsibility.
	Who's the primary breadwinner, you or him?
	Probably me right now.
	That's not true.
	I have a fiance and he washes dishes and he washes clothes too.
	Do you make more money than him?
	I don't.
	It's respect.
	He's the breadwinner.
	He's the breadwinner.
	Does he make significantly more than you do or is it comparable?
	He is retired.
	Completely financially wealthy and secure.
	Oh, he's bored then.
	No, he's far from bored.
	And he cleans and cooks and stuff too?
	Yeah.
	Does he enjoy it?
	So we have this thing like...
	Is he like a chef or some shit?
	No, but he's more of a like, if I cook...
	It's like a, you know how you get your pussy and it makes you cum?
	He knows how to turn me on.
	So it's kind of like, if I cook and he cleans the kitchen and washes this, I want to suck dick even more all night.
	So he's following your lead?
	No.
	It's just knowing your partner's love language.
	You know what I mean?
	I'm a woman, so I always cook and clean.
	It's nice some nights when I cook and slave over a stove and feed you and I've done everything all day that you say, yo, babe, go sit down.
	What is it, like 90-10?
	What do you mean?
	Like 90% of the time you're doing all that, and then maybe 10% of the time he'll come and clean up?
	I would give me 80.
	Okay, so he'll do it 20% of the time?
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	Okay, so for you, you said you guys share the chores.
	Okay.
	Yeah, I was like, but, you know, I take pride in those things, and I feel like it helps me make the home how it should be, so I think that's a responsibility of a woman, is making a home, being nurturing.
	I also think there's an aspect of, like, being very artistic and creative and knowing how to do traditional things, like sew and make clothing, play piano, like recite poetry, things like that, that make you hyper-feminine, that I think are very traditional and that I enjoy myself, so.
	Alright.
	Okay.
	What about you?
	I mean, I guess when it comes to being, like, traditional, it makes me, I guess, think back to, like, men versus female, like, hunters versus foragers.
	So, being, like, a woman, it's just more of, like, providing on, like, the easier ask.
	Like, the man does, like, the hard part, and you're there to kind of, you know, take care of, like, yeah, cleaning dishes, you know, getting the food, the shopping of the things that aren't, like, out of the way, but it's just being there and making sure everything's ready for, you know, I guess when they return home, that's traditional for me.
	Okay, okay.
	What about you?
	I think that traditional means in a woman perspective household environment.
	It's the manager of the household in a sense.
	And what are the manager duties then?
	Well...
	Make sure if you don't have the necessity of cleaning and cooking yourself, you make sure that that works.
	And that the plates that the significant other or somebody asked for are actually made.
	You take care of the kids a hundred percent.
	What about you?
	What's traditional female roles?
	I guess I would consider like traditional female roles, you know, cooking and cleaning, maintaining the household.
	Yeah, cooking, cleaning, maintaining the household.
	I think another really like important traditional womanly trait would be like Like having empathy, being kind, like being able to like feel emotions and like, you know what I'm saying?
	Grounding your partner.
	100% grounding your partner, being there because I mean traditionally men like...
	How would a woman ground her partner?
	Like, for example, I feel like men, you guys work a lot.
	Y'all are, sometimes for the most part, like, the breadwinners of the house.
	And with work comes stress and comes, you know, conflict in your head.
	And as a woman, you come home and you're having a bad day, you're on edge, you're angry, whatever, like...
	You come home to your woman, and she grounds you, and she levels you, and she talks to you, and she's there for you, she's empathetic, she listens, you know, she's an ear for you, and she's someone who has completely different biology and a completely different point of view from you that, you know, maybe you could get knowledge from and learn from, and, yeah.
	Perspective.
	Okay, do you think Western women are traditional?
	Yes or no.
	That's a good one.
	And just to personify this, this is the United States, UK, Canada, pretty much any first world English-speaking country, Australia, New Zealand, etc., where feminism is pretty prominent.
	Do you think Western women are traditional?
	No.
	I think we're definitely getting further away from what was traditional.
	I think it's important to break tradition, so it's like, yeah.
	Okay, so you say no and it's a good thing.
	Yeah, I do think so.
	100%.
	Alright.
	What about you?
	I think now more on day, it is getting, it is starting to be more important per se, but it's not over here.
	Alright, so you don't think they are, Western women are traditional?
	Okay.
	Do you think that's a good or bad thing?
	It depends what they're seeking for.
	Do you think it's good for women in general?
	Yes.
	What about finding a man?
	Is that still good?
	Finding?
	No.
	To be honest, if they're okay being independent and taking care of their household and taking care of their environment and stuff like that, no, they don't need a guy.
	Okay.
	Interesting.
	What about you?
	Do you think Western women are traditional?
	I don't think Western women are traditional, no.
	Do you think that's a good or a bad thing in general for females?
	I mean calm like it's a I guess not the best opinion it's an unpopular opinion, but I think it's a bad thing okay like I I mean personally like I don't know like why everyone like got crazy and wanted to like do their own thing and do that like I'm totally cool just hanging out and like baking all day and staying at home.
	I agree.
	That's a me thing but like that's the way my dad raised me and that's what I'm okay with and that's just like what I Enjoy to do.
	I mean, I work on, same thing, like, kind of goes with what I do for a career, though.
	I'm a yacht stewardess.
	My job as a yacht stewardess is to do laundry, take care of my guests.
	I always like to joke, like, when people ask me, like, what do you do for a living?
	I like to say I have a paid internship to be a housewife.
	At the end of the day.
	I'm just training for the day, but I'm not trying to get the bag.
	I mean, I will if I can, but I want to be successful.
	I invest.
	I'll be successful doing that on the side, but aside from that, I'd rather just be taken care of.
	I'd rather my man do the thing.
	My dad.
	I'm a daddy's girl.
	I call my dad when I'm in need, and then when my dad can't be there for me anymore, then my man better be.
	I don't know.
	That's just me.
	Do you think Western women are traditional, yes or no, in your opinion?
	Majority would be a no.
	It really depends on where you are because I think, especially in America, there's a very split culture where people are becoming more traditional and then, you know, really breaking that mold and not following tradition.
	So no?
	Do you think that's a good or bad thing for women in general?
	In general, change is good, so I'm gonna say yes.
	So you think it's good?
	Okay.
	Alright.
	What about you?
	Do you think Western women are traditional?
	Yes or no?
	And do you think that's good for women?
	I think Western women are definitely not traditional.
	Okay.
	And I think it's a bad thing.
	Why do you think it's a bad thing?
	Because those untraditional women are probably going to end up single.
	Okay.
	Nine times out of ten.
	And it's not your fault, but you have a choice and a chance to change it.
	I don't think a lot of women grew up like young ladies sitting here or myself with male figures and examples.
	Okay.
	To see what it's supposed to look like to be a traditional woman.
	A lot of women and men are not raised in homes and shown how to raise a family, how to be a leader or a follower or be submissive.
	Or this is how you take care of your family.
	This is how you support your man.
	This is how you keep a man.
	And I hate the terminology of trying to keep a man, but this is just what it is.
	So, I mean, my mama taught me, like, even being 12 and From showering certain times of the day to cleaning up behind myself.
	It's like, you'll understand what this means later when you have a man.
	And I didn't understand it then, but now when I'm in my own household and doing certain things, I find myself like, oh my God, I'm just like my mom.
	You know, I'm cleaning up after my man and you would think it would bother you because you're like, help me, help me.
	The untraditional is like, you're just taking your clothes off and leaving them at the door and you're not picking up after yourself, but he pays all the bills.
	He should be able to throw them wherever he wants the compromises.
	He loves you, so he's not just going to leave it at the door.
	But if he does, you better not complain about it.
	Yep.
	Alright.
	Cool.
	What about you?
	Do you think Western women are traditional?
	No.
	No?
	Okay.
	Do you think that's a good or bad thing for women in general?
	It's a very good thing.
	It's a good thing.
	Okay.
	Why?
	Because we deserve to do whatever we want.
	If we want a good job, we deserve to get it and it has nothing to do with being single or not.
	I don't think it affects your relationship status.
	What doesn't affect your relationship status?
	Being untraditional.
	Do you think it'll be harder to find the man you want though?
	It doesn't...
	I mean, I'm single now, but it doesn't affect me.
	I don't feel like it affects me.
	It depends on other things.
	Would you want a man that's gonna protect and provide for you?
	I do, but I still want to do my own thing.
	I still want to get my own back.
	So, you want a guy that can protect and provide for you and be traditional, but you don't necessarily think you need to be traditional.
	He doesn't have to be traditional.
	I mean, he can do his own thing as well.
	Him doing his own thing is protecting and providing for you.
	No, I think being traditional is to...
	It's like restrictive.
	You can do many things.
	I mean, you can be a good wife or a good girlfriend, but you can also do your own thing.
	Have your own job, get your own money.
	You get me?
	It has nothing to do with it.
	It doesn't limit.
	You don't have to limit yourself.
	Do you call yourself a feminist?
	I do.
	Yeah.
	Makes sense.
	But I don't feel like...
	I mean, we need men.
	I don't feel like I'm against men or anything like that.
	I just think that we deserve to do our own thing and it doesn't affect our relationship status at all.
	There's boundaries to doing your own thing, though, as a woman.
	Like, I'm successful.
	I have my own job.
	I make my own money.
	But at any point do I come in the house and throw my muscle, my feminine muscle around.
	Like, I make money so I don't have to listen or I can dress however I want.
	Untraditionally, I didn't have the most traditional job or career choice or ideology.
	But once I met a man who's saying, listen, if you're going to be with me, this is the type of woman that I like.
	You have to decide what you want to do.
	And why do you have to limit yourself?
	For example, if we want to dress a certain way.
	No, I didn't say you couldn't dress any certain way.
	See, most of the stuff that a single woman is wearing and dressing, she's trying to attract a man.
	I just feel like you can wear certain things and then still have the same mind frame of I'm respecting my man.
	Yeah, I'm not talking about respect.
	You can still respect.
	Obviously, you have to respect.
	You have to, you know, those are like core values.
	But you also can do your own thing.
	I mean, it doesn't have to affect, oh, if I'm untraditional, I'm never going to be able to find my Prince Charming.
	Like, we deserve to find our Prince Charming.
	Give me one example of when you say do your own thing.
	What do you mean by do your own thing?
	When it comes to like...
	Okay, like having your own job, going after your dream job, your dream career, things like that.
	Like not depending, not wanting to like, oh, I just want to be home and bake.
	And I respect that.
	I respect that a lot.
	I'm not judging.
	I'm just saying also you can do more than just having a husband, like having a partner.
	I've had all of those things.
	And when I got my man, it elevated 10 times more.
	I'm just saying from finances to credit to the way I think, the way I carry myself, whatever self-respect that I thought I had, it just elevated 10 times more.
	But that's when you find the right man.
	And he's your partner too, so I feel like it's different if you're in a situation with someone who also prefers tradition and you also are the same way.
	You found someone that fits into what you're looking for.
	Of course.
	Not every single man out there, not even most.
	I meet very little men who would expect that.
	And I have many male friends and I have conversations like, do you think, like, would you leave someone if they're not cooking, cleaning every day?
	Like, if I had my own life, you know, talking to exes and stuff, it's never been a problem.
	And I've noticed even men respect me more because I'm able to be like, listen, like...
	I'm here.
	I love and I respect men.
	Don't get me wrong.
	This is not some man hater type stuff.
	Trust me.
	It's just like I am my own individual person.
	I am a whole different human being and my life does not just depend on if some dude's gonna fall in love with me one day.
	Yeah, maybe there's a certain caliber of men who won't like me because of what I do or because I'm not traditional, but I don't want to be with those men.
	The men that are okay with that and that support it and love an independent woman who just wants to do what she wants, they will come to me.
	And the men that want tradition will find women who love to be traditional.
	Because I respect that as well.
	I wasn't raised like that.
	So I never saw it.
	Therefore, how am I supposed to sit here and be passionate and really want to be a traditional housewife for you?
	I don't know what that looks like.
	But traditional is like, you gotta think about it.
	I think traditional is like you have to come in knowing how to cook, clean, cook, and all those things.
	I wasn't the best cook.
	My man is a better cook than me.
	So he's taught me, it's okay, you don't have to come in with these requirements.
	You just have to be a good learner and a good listener.
	And so the word independent keeps being thrown around.
	You have to be coachable.
	I hear that.
	But I just think the word independent is being thrown around, and once you get in a relationship, you are not independent anymore.
	Yes.
	That's the beauty of it.
	So you think, no, women are not traditional in the West, and you think that's a good thing because they deserve to get their Prince Charming anyway?
	Yeah.
	Yeah, regardless.
	Alright.
	What about you?
	Do you think Western women are traditional, yes or no, and is it a good thing?
	Yes, I do think we are traditional.
	The more things change, the more we stay the same.
	The more you put us in situations where we have to cook, clean, we're still doing that.
	There are women that are still cooking and cleaning.
	But in general, do you think women are traditional?
	Yes.
	In the West?
	Yes, I do.
	I'm sorry, I do.
	Okay.
	And do you think that's a good or bad thing?
	It's a bad thing.
	Why is it a bad thing?
	Because, like...
	I don't know.
	Well, I guess it's a good thing.
	I mean, still we know how to feed and feed our families, take care of our families.
	You know, we still know how to do that.
	I'm home and I know how to fucking cook and clean and take care of my family.
	Okay, so...
	Okay, at least you admit it.
	So, you change your mind.
	You think women are traditional and that's a good thing?
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	What about you?
	I don't think women are traditional, and I think it's a bad thing.
	I grew up in a household.
	My parents are still together, 37 years.
	Like, my dad provided, protect my mom, took care of us, you know, was always there, always at everything.
	I did have a good life.
	I know most people don't, that I'm meeting, you know, especially in Miami.
	But I do think it's a great thing.
	I mean, I've had no traumas until I started dating men, you know what I mean?
	I was pretty in the clear.
	Blame it on us.
	Blame it on us.
	I blame myself too, who I pick.
	But yeah, I think it's a bad thing because, I don't know.
	No one's seeing, like, no one's having really great relationships.
	There's always so, you know, there's so much baggage with people now.
	Everyone you date has so much baggage and trauma, so.
	Alright.
	What about you?
	Do you think women are traditional in the West?
	And do you think that's a good or bad thing?
	They are not, and it's a bad thing.
	Why?
	Because it leads to consequences, like having children at a wedlock, and just trauma built up that they don't deal with.
	Please stop shouting.
	You want to speak louder?
	No, I can hear you.
	Anything else?
	It also leads to abusive relationships, domestic views.
	I feel like if women were a little bit more traditional, it would just help.
	Don't you think you see domestic violence mostly in traditional style relationships?
	Yeah, you could argue that.
	Male-female relationships?
	Sure.
	Okay.
	Alright, so I got a video to play here, which actually is very, very interesting.
	Yes.
	And I want you guys to see the stark contrast between the two women that are pictured in the video.
	Let's go ahead and roll this clip.
	This came across my timeline here.
	So, play from the beginning.
	So, this guy talks about the differences between a Western woman and a more traditional woman.
	Let's go ahead and roll the clip.
	Make sure to unmute it.
	And play from the beginning.
	Look at the difference between these two women.
	For better.
	For better.
	For worse.
	For worse.
	For richer.
	For richer.
	For poorer.
	For poorer.
	We hit that snag about 20 times in counseling.
	Real made it very clear to Jonathan, you cannot be broke.
	In sickness.
	In sickness.
	And in health.
	And in health.
	To love.
	To love.
	Cherish.
	Cherish.
	And to obey.
	We didn't talk about that one in counseling.
	We did talk about that in counseling.
	Yes, we did.
	So you want to repeat that again?
	You want to just keep going?
	I think we can keep going.
	I'll forever submit to you, Miles.
	I'll forever respect your minds.
	I'll forever honor your minds as the head of our home.
	In heaven, they hear.
	On earth, I declare and agree, I shall be a submissive wife unto you.
	I don't know about you, but I know which one I'm willing to give my life for.
	Now look at the difference between these two women.
	Rebecca.
	Rebecca.
	Wow.
	Yeah.
	That's crazy.
	Profound difference.
	So, ladies, what are your thoughts on that?
	We can start here with Ms.
	DR and then work our way back this way.
	I think it has a lot to do with how you were raised.
	If you were raised in a religious household, then you're more likely to think like that girl, the second one.
	And a lot of foreign countries do instill a lot of religious beliefs in their children.
	However, in America, not really the case.
	So I think religion has a lot to do with it.
	Who do you think is gonna have the better relationship?
	We gave you guys a bunch of these placards, because whenever I say raise your hands, it's always a pain in the ass.
	So, give me a green if you guys think the foreign woman's gonna do better, or give me a red if you think the American woman is gonna do better.
	Who do you think is gonna do better in that relationship?
	Raise your hands, pull them up, put them up, put them up.
	I don't think from watching that video that you could decide that.
	Because I feel like both of their messages were the same.
	Sorry, I didn't know.
	Who is going to have the better relationship long term?
	Staying together.
	What's the name?
	The foreign girl.
	Okay, so we got three girls that think the foreign girl's gonna do worse, four girls that think the foreign girl's gonna do worse.
	Wait, which one's mine?
	Worse or worse or better?
	Alright, ladies, please pay attention, okay?
	Stop talking and listen to what I say.
	Who do you think is gonna do better in their marriage?
	The American woman or the foreign woman?
	If you think the foreign woman is gonna do better, please throw up the green.
	If you think it's going to be the American woman, throw up the red.
	Okay, now we got a visual representation.
	Okay.
	So we have three girls, if I'm not mistaken, yeah, three girls say the American woman is going to do better.
	Yes?
	Three?
	Okay.
	Let's start with the people that think, actually, oh, you changed your mind.
	Okay.
	Why do you think the American girl is going to do better?
	For starters, I want to disclaim that I do not think I could accurately even make an assumption off of like the four second video I just watched of each of those women.
	I would say the American would have a better marriage only because I could tell in their chemistry, they were joking with each other.
	He clearly wasn't offended.
	She wasn't being serious.
	It was all fun and games.
	It's clear she loves that man.
	The smile on her face.
	She's getting married.
	She loves him.
	Of course she's going to be obedient in that way.
	She's going to love him.
	She's going to do what she can to support him.
	At least that's what I can take from that few seconds of speaking I heard her do.
	But that's why I would say that.
	But I want to reiterate that I barely, that was nothing to make any judgment off of.
	I feel like, yeah.
	Who else said, you said also you think the American girl would do better.
	Why?
	In the same way, can't really make a full judgment on their relationship, but when I see people who are very dynamic and having that chemistry, whether or not it's like a slight argument, I think that, or it's not an argument, it was just a kind of a joke.
	They were kicking off each other.
	That's what I want to see.
	I want to see the chemistry.
	I want to see the happiness in those moments.
	And I feel like that was very strong.
	You know, you love to see someone be obedient and proclaim their love.
	That's great.
	But I want to see the chemistry and the dynamic between them to decide that.
	Interesting.
	What about you said also?
	Why do you think the American woman would do better?
	I think she'll do better because he knows what he's signing up for and she's completely herself.
	Whereas the other one, she might be putting up an act.
	I don't know.
	But you can't put up a front for long.
	Yeah, doing what she feels like is right, not what she actually, like...
	I don't think they're both doing what they think is right.
	I wouldn't say that.
	I would say, like, don't be so, like, get up.
	Like, she was on her knees.
	The other one was being herself.
	So he already knows what's up.
	Alright, so for the girls that think the foreign girl is going to do better, why do you think the foreign girl is going to do better?
	We'll start here.
	I start by saying that she feels 100% more committed the way that she's speaking to her significant other, while the American lady was a bit more called descendant, in a sense.
	So, yeah, I see the fun and jokes of the interaction, but...
	Okay, so you think she's going to do worse because of her condescending demeanor on her wedding day?
	Mm-hmm.
	Okay, what about you?
	Why do you think the foreign girl is going to do better than the American girl?
	Kind of on the same page with her.
	Into the microphone.
	Sorry, kind of on the same page with her.
	After hearing, like, them talk about their opinion, I do agree, like, how they see it, and I see that.
	When I first saw the video, the reason why I voted what I did...
	Was just like watching that and then like during your vows though the way I saw it is like why at a time like at one of the most important times of your life during your vows you're gonna say you're not gonna obey your man?
	Like get at like...
	Make you embarrass him already.
	She didn't say that.
	And I get exactly what you guys were saying.
	Hey hey hey guys guys guys when she's speaking Let her please speak, one microphone at a time.
	I won't disagree with that, because I see that.
	And I'm like, oh yeah, I like the joking, and I like how they're on the same page.
	Because I'm like, when I'm with my man too, I joke.
	I am very, but not during my, uh-uh.
	I hear that.
	I will obey you.
	I will not respect, because if you're going to laugh at me in a stage in front of me, in the church.
	When I'm cheating on you, I'm going to laugh on you again.
	Which I would never do, but that's how I see that.
	We can laugh off the talk or with our friends, but not in the church, on the altar, during our vows.
	What about you?
	We got your opinion.
	Why do you think the foreign girl is going to do better than the American girl?
	She said it really well.
	At the end of the day, that's your wedding vows.
	You had plenty of time to get all the jokes and the giggles and the games out.
	The un-American woman already knows what she's getting herself into.
	She already understands her role.
	You guys can argue gender roles and this, that.
	There are gender roles, and that woman clearly understands her role to that man, and he understands his role to her.
	Like Myron keeps saying, the man can't pick and choose when to protect and provide, but you women get a chance to decide when you want to be submissive and let me lead.
	It doesn't work like that.
	So she's probably going to have a better shot of a long-term marriage, whether it's 100% always happy or not, versus the American woman, because the American woman, she looks like...
	She don't know how to listen and that's a lot of a lot of women's problem They don't know how to listen and shut the fuck up.
	All right You also thought if I'm did you think that the traditional girl the foreign girl do better?
	No, you thought the American girl do better.
	Okay, why do you think the American girls gonna do better?
	Because there's equality in that relationship because there's equality Okay, you can tell that do you think?
	successful relationships operate on 50-50 yes Do you want a guy that's equal to you?
	Equal in what sense?
	Do you want a guy that's taller than you?
	Taller than me?
	Yeah.
	I don't mind.
	I'm tall.
	Okay, but you said every girl deserves her Prince Charming, right?
	Yes.
	Okay, is your Prince Charming in your eyes going to be taller than you?
	It could be the same height.
	Okay.
	Is he going to make more money than you and be able to provide for you?
	Yes.
	Is he going to be more competent and more intelligent than you?
	No, I am competent and intelligent.
	We could be equally intelligent.
	Equally intelligent, okay.
	Do you want a guy that's stronger than you physically?
	Yes.
	In the gym and everything else like that?
	Okay, do you want a guy that has better sense of direction than yourself?
	It could be the same.
	That can plan the trips and plan the dates.
	I'm sorry?
	That can plan the trips or plan the dates, navigate.
	We could do it together.
	Yeah, but preferably would you want him to be able to do it better than you?
	Okay, yeah.
	Would you want a guy that can lead you and tell you, hey, I made plans and stuff like that and be able to make decisions?
	I want to collaborate too.
	Yeah, but you want a guy that can make the decision if needed, without you there?
	Okay.
	I mean...
	I mean, to me it sounds like you're looking for a superior, not an equal.
	But those are things he brings to the table.
	There's actually gonna be things that you could ask him about her that she brings to the table that he doesn't.
	It doesn't mean just because he does all those things and he's capable of that and maybe she wants that from him.
	There's gonna be things that he wants from her.
	Like, you could ask him, like, does she clean for you?
	Like, does she cook for you?
	Okay, so you want someone who does more than you.
	You want someone who is capable of more.
	Do you know how to, like, this or that woman stuff, you know?
	Like, does that make sense?
	No.
	No.
	I think it definitely did.
	What I described were tangible assets that the man brings to the table that she wants him to be better at her.
	Yeah, but y'all are the same way with women.
	It's tangible to want us to be scrubbing dishes and cooking for you, cleaning for you, picking your clothes up off the floor.
	Those are things that we can do for you, right?
	And those are things he can do for her.
	It doesn't make him superior.
	It's just women and men.
	I mean, you'll agree, we both have different roles.
	It it's not everyone's the exact same like some families like the guy cooks and cleans and the woman works, you know and Gorgeous like some of my best friends like I have like a really good friend.
	She's a pilot.
	She's you know She makes her money.
	She's doing well for herself and her man is a strong man.
	He's cool.
	He's hard-working He's super masculine, but you know his job is remote.
	He's home more so he's more capable of cleaning She makes more money than him and that's okay I guarantee that won't last long.
	It's lasted a very long time.
	It won't last that long.
	But it already did.
	Or there's some kind of situation where she probably might be cheating on him or she doesn't like him that much.
	They're so happy.
	Just everyone's different.
	Not every relationship has to look the exact same.
	I agree.
	Don't want to cook and clean.
	Some men love it.
	My brother loves to cook.
	He loves to clean.
	He loves things to be a specific way.
	And he wants his woman to be happy and he wants to come home and have support and be loved and be held.
	And if he needs a favor, she's there to lend a hand.
	Like, relationships aren't supposed to be like, I'm a girl, I have a, you know...
	And I have to cook and clean and all this stuff.
	You asked her some pretty simple, straightforward questions.
	And to me, she said relationships are 50-50 and equal, but the reality is the guy is not equal to her at all.
	The duties aren't equal.
	The duties are different.
	It needs to be equal.
	Which inherently means they're not equal.
	If I fuel you and I do what makes you happy and you do the same for me, we're good.
	I'm equal.
	You're better than me.
	You're superior.
	I don't care.
	We're both happy.
	I love you.
	You love me.
	I don't want to cook tonight.
	Do you mind doing it, honey?
	No problem.
	I'll do it.
	I got it.
	What I just described were tangible things about who, because she said, oh, I want a 50-50 partnership, equal partnership.
	But when I asked her, what does your dream man look like in every attribute, the guy, that's actually of some real consequence, by the way, the man is superior to her.
	So please explain to me how you're equal, right, in a relationship, but on paper, the man is superior to you in every way.
	That doesn't sound like a I'm telling you that it's not a matter of equality.
	Also, she didn't say that.
	You kept asking her things.
	Her answer to everyone was, we could both do it.
	And you said, but would you rather him?
	And she said, yes.
	Would you rather?
	Yeah, we'd all rather than pull a little more.
	She could have said, I would rather.
	She could have said, I would rather make more money.
	I'd rather be stronger.
	I'd rather be more competent.
	She was saying stuff.
	Sorry, let me cut you off.
	You keep cutting me off.
	Stop talking for two seconds.
	What I'm simply trying to illustrate here is that women don't look for their equal.
	You got a feminist here that is egalitarian in what she's saying, but when I asked her, what do you actually desire in a man?
	All the prerequisites are better than herself.
	So this is what I mean when I say women get the privilege of saying ridiculous things that don't make sense.
	Women want an equal partnership on paper, but the reality is that the man is superior to in every way.
	How?
	Can you explain your argument more?
	Because I don't understand really.
	You have to be quiet for two seconds so I can actually articulate it.
	I asked, do you want a man that's taller than you?
	Oh, we could be the same height, but the reality is she wants a taller guy.
	That's Cap.
	Do you want him stronger than you?
	Stronger than me, yeah.
	More decisive, yes.
	Make more money.
	Well, we could both make money, but the guy still has to make money, whereas if it was the other way around, the man wouldn't necessarily care about her making money.
	Women want equality when it suits them, but the reality is they want a guy that's better than them in every regard.
	Women don't seek their equal.
	It's in their biology.
	They want a man who's superior.
	And I look at it like if a man comes in and he's superior, he's got to come with some type of authority that comes with being superior because he's responsible.
	I'll be damned if I'm going to be responsible for a woman and be the leader, but not have the authority over them.
	That's ridiculous.
	You want a leader, but you want to be equal to him.
	It doesn't work that way.
	And that's what I mean when I say women don't make sense or are illogical creatures.
	If you want a man who's a leader, by definition, you are not equal.
	He's the authority and you follow him.
	You are the subordinate.
	You keep saying women this and women that, and it could totally be some women, totally.
	We are all completely different human beings, 100%.
	But I'm a woman, and I do not feel that way.
	Every guy I've been with, if you look at it objectively, then you would say, I'm more successful.
	I do more.
	I do everything.
	Okay, where are those guys now, then, that you were with?
	Yeah, I have no idea.
	You broke up with them?
	Well, every relationship was different.
	One was mutual.
	I broke up with one.
	You did.
	I had one and something with me too.
	Long distance wouldn't work.
	It's normal.
	Well, the point is that women in general don't want an equal.
	That's what I'm trying to say.
	And you gotta also understand that I'm speaking in general, just because you're okay with a more egalitarian relationship doesn't mean that other women are...
	So where do these statistics, like how many women have you sat, like how do you come up with women think this, women, is it because of maybe women you've come in contact with you've noticed have these traits, think these ways, or is it because of things you've been on the end?
	With a raise of hands, with green meaning you would want this.
	Would you prefer a man that can lead you, protect you, provide for you, and be the decision maker in the household?
	Raise of hands, what would you prefer?
	Let's see here.
	I would prefer an equal.
	Put it up.
	If you want an equal, give me the red.
	If you want an equal.
	An equal as in like you're sharing the bills.
	It's also like...
	Please stop.
	Okay, so two girls.
	So you can see here, right here with this small sample size, a majority of women want a leader.
	And here's the other thing.
	I've talked to almost 3,000 girls.
	Overwhelmingly, women prefer a man that's better than them in every regard.
	That's indisputable.
	I feel like with everyone that I interact with...
	Hold on, hold on.
	I feel like or I think?
	Merch.
	Merch.
	I want you to really think before you say something because how you feel like is irrelevant.
	I'm saying what actually is.
	Women want a superior.
	I will rephrase.
	I think...
	See, and now I lost my train of thought.
	Yeah, gotcha.
	Also, like, if I'm speaking and I say, like, I feel...
	You know what I'm gonna say.
	If you would have let me finish my sentence, you would have known what it meant.
	You know what I'm saying?
	We're hungry right now.
	Who knows?
	Well, here's the thing.
	If you thought, like, you would have had that thought known because it was an actual problem deducting...
	problem deductive...
	A problem-solving answer, but it's how you feel, so that's why it escaped you, because you felt that at that moment, and you had something to say, and then now I'm like, okay, well, no.
	What do you think?
	I don't care how you feel.
	What do you think?
	Feelings are fleeting.
	There was change.
	That's why you couldn't remember it.
	What do you think?
	I couldn't remember just because, like, I don't really appreciate how you're talking to me, and it does put me on edge, you know, so my brain, obviously, I did forget.
	Sorry.
	This is why men need to be leaders, because women rule with their emotions.
	So do men, except you guys express it through anger.
	We don't express it that way.
	And so, men decide anger isn't an emotion.
	You get angry, you lash out, you do angry things that, you know, men do.
	You know what I'm saying?
	And that's emotion.
	That is emotion right there.
	When a guy punches a hole in the wall, you're being emotional.
	When a guy fights a guy at the bar because he's a little tipsy and that guy looked at his girl wrong, that is emotion right there.
	When a girl cries, that is emotion.
	They are both emotions expressed in different ways.
	Except with men, you let it build up, build up, build up in your body and then you express it like that and all of a sudden you're not emotional, you're a macho man.
	Who hurt you?
	Okay.
	This is direct communication.
	You might not like it because women aren't used to direct communication and having their feelings challenged.
	That's fine.
	Let's go for it.
	But this is direct communication and what I'm saying is irrefutable.
	Women don't want an equal, they want a superior.
	Alright.
	That's a fact.
	It's not because I'm a woman and I don't look for that.
	I look for someone who fuels my soul and makes me happy and supports me.
	Did I say you?
	You said women and I'm a woman.
	I said women in general.
	One woman here on a table.
	I think.
	Yeah, 100%.
	And there's so many women in the world.
	So you sitting here saying women this in general.
	You have spoken to such a small amount of women in the world.
	You don't know.
	Like, that's, yeah.
	Yeah.
	No disrespect, but it's like, you sit here and you're like, women this, like, most women all, you have no, like, you can't say that, because where's your statistics coming from?
	Where's his research?
	Can I say something?
	It's biology.
	I would like to add to.
	Can I say something?
	With that energy, this is why girls are, they say, like, girls are aggressive now and have all this masculine energy, because you haven't met a man who leads, who protects, who is more superior than you, so it doesn't allow you to be in your soft girl era.
	You are in your survival mode.
	You don't notice it, but it is.
	And I'm telling you from a woman who...
	I'm an alpha female, especially in the workplace.
	I have to put on this.
	Don't try me.
	Don't take advantage of me.
	I'm the boss, right?
	But when you get with the man who is protecting you, providing, he is the leader.
	He can make decisions without you being there.
	He can put you in certain positions and he is superior.
	It allows you to be a woman.
	It allows you to be a lady.
	It allows you where you don't want to be combative.
	You don't want to be debative.
	You don't want to argue.
	Even if he isn't always 100% right.
	My mama taught me this valuable lesson.
	You don't have to pick and choose your battles.
	You don't have to argue about everything.
	And you don't have to be right about everything.
	It's just there is no 50-50.
	I don't want to make more money than my man.
	Because at some point he's going to become a bitch ass nigga to me.
	It's going to be cool for a while that I'm paying the bills and I'm going to hold it down if he loses it and I got to come in and hold it down.
	But that's only going to last for a certain length of time because eventually it doesn't allow you to be in your soft girl era.
	You can't worry about being a woman and nurturing him and loving on him the proper way because you got to do manly duties.
	It's not fun.
	I even want a man who knows how to please me better than myself.
	In all areas.
	One thing I will say is like...
	It's hard to meet a man like that.
	It is.
	But who you choose is up to you as well.
	So if you choose to protect, that's not that guy, then what do you expect?
	One thing I want to say is, point of view does matter, and the way you're raised and what you've seen, your perspective, that obviously does have an impact on how you think things should be.
	I never did see that.
	But even if you didn't, you have enough examples?
	I do, but I still, sorry, I still do feel the way that I feel.
	I respect that everyone's totally different, but like...
	Yeah, once you get it, I think it will change.
	Your feelings don't adhere to reality, though.
	And that's what I'm trying to say when I say that women tend to view the world through their emotions.
	Fuck your feelings, dude.
	Like, it doesn't matter that you think, oh, well, I want a guy that's equal to me.
	Most women don't.
	Period.
	Like, most women want a breadwinner, most women want a protector, most women want a provider, most women want a guy that's stronger than them, everything.
	Nothing about that sounds equal to me.
	I have a question for you.
	I get your point of view, and this is your point of view.
	That makes you superior by definition.
	What do you mean?
	Question for you.
	If you were doing this for so long, how is it working out for you right now?
	Wait, doing what?
	I'm sorry.
	Looking for your equal as a partner.
	How has that been working out for you so far?
	Honestly, really good.
	I'm gonna be completely, I'm not just saying this to prove my point, but I have recently found a guy, and we sat, and he thinks more similar to you guys than he does to me, but we're able to sit down and have really intellectual conversations, and, you know, I've expressed...
	Did he smash?
	Huh?
	Did he smash?
	Yeah, we talked for months, of course he did!
	Talk for months?
	Well...
	We've been talking for months.
	She said that he thinks the way that we do.
	You said that you were single.
	I'm sorry, I couldn't...
	You said that you were single earlier.
	I am single.
	I said, yeah, we're not together.
	Like, we're not...
	We just...
	Smash Bros?
	Yeah, you're smashing.
	There's no name on, like, the relationship we have.
	We're two people who enjoy each other's company, respect each other.
	We are just taking it day by day, and if one day, like, things work out and stuff...
	Listen, he's smashing, and he's watching you talk.
	Sorry, what's that?
	Wait, go ahead.
	Oh, yeah, sorry.
	At this point, yeah, we're not together.
	I am single, but it's like...
	You connect on that level?
	Yeah, totally.
	It was a cool level.
	Is he your equal?
	In what sense?
	What do you mean equal?
	For example, does he make less money than you?
	More money than you?
	Is he actually a leader?
	I don't even know how much money he makes.
	I don't ask for numbers.
	We're both very successful.
	I know that.
	She said that he thinks a lot like us.
	That doesn't prove our point.
	If that's true, then I know what he's doing.
	He's a master, bro.
	He ain't claiming her.
	I'm sorry, I did not hear that.
	Chris, what was that?
	That was Chris.
	I said, he's smashing and he's not claiming you.
	Because if someone asks him, hey, who are you with?
	He's like, I'm single, man.
	I agree.
	I don't agree.
	Basically, he's using your ass.
	I mean, you said he was single or you were single.
	Yeah!
	Because we've had conversations like, hey, where do you want this to go?
	I like spending time with you, you like spending time with me, what do we want to do moving forward, what are we working towards?
	And one thing we agreed on is, we enjoy each other's company, we take it day by day, we're gonna be genuine, and labels don't, like, labels don't matter.
	Man, I dub your resume.
	Come on, man, that's my man.
	I don't mean to be, uh, well, it's not your party here, but like...
	It sounds like he's just smashing and having fun.
	I'm smashing and I'm having fun and I'm having a great time.
	Sure you are.
	Okay, I mean, you're in Delulu land, but, uh...
	Love it here.
	He's really smart.
	Alright, going back to what I was saying.
	So you think the American woman is going to do better because what?
	Again, because she's There's equality in the relationship, you can tell.
	You still stand on that even though we literally just went over equality.
	I still stand on that.
	What about you?
	Did you say, who do you think is going to do better in the relationship and why?
	I think the foreign women.
	Why?
	I just think that American women and women from different countries, we have different relationships with our men.
	Our relationship in America with our men is just more tattered and shit like that, so we can't really trust our man, so I get where she's coming from.
	At the same time, a woman from a different country, she might be able to trust her men more because Just the past and everything.
	Wait, are American women traditional or not?
	I told you we were.
	Yeah.
	Yeah, I think we are.
	In general, okay.
	Yeah.
	But you're saying that the relationships aren't good between the two.
	So that's traditional Trauma bonding is a new phenomenon.
	It is not a good thing by the way.
	So you think the foreign woman is going to do better because of what?
	They trust their men more?
	Yes, I think they trust their men more.
	Okay.
	What about you?
	I was arguing that most American women choose bad people for themselves.
	On some level, that's your responsibility as well because you choose the wrong guys for yourself.
	What about you?
	Who do you think is going to do better?
	The traditional girl or the American girl?
	The traditional girl because she seems like she respects her man more.
	The American woman, yes, seemed like she was embarrassing him.
	What about you?
	Oh, sorry, go ahead.
	That was it.
	That was it?
	Okay, what about you?
	Me?
	I already talked.
	I said...
	Oh, yeah.
	Yeah.
	And you think it's because she's being more honest about it?
	Or the jokes?
	Yeah, because he knows what he's signing up for.
	She's not putting up an act.
	Does he, though?
	Does he really know?
	I think, because, like, why...
	Seems pretty real.
	I mean, if he wasn't...
	He wasn't mad or anything, he was laughing, so...
	It looks like he knows what type of time she's on.
	That's a booker face.
	I feel like he didn't laugh though.
	He looked stupid.
	Yeah, later he might have said something.
	Do you think the relationship's gonna last longer just because he knows what he's getting into?
	I mean, if you get into a pit with a snake and you know that it has poison and it bites you, I mean, it doesn't matter if you know or not.
	I just think it'll last longer happy than the other one.
	Than love bombing?
	Because the other one, I feel like she was doing too much.
	Doing too much.
	Yeah, she was just on the ground, like, worshipping him.
	I think that act is gonna fade in like a year or two, and then the other relationship is gonna last happy longer.
	What relationship do you think is gonna be better?
	A relationship where the woman values her man more than the man values her, or the other way around?
	Which relationships last longer, in your opinion?
	Obviously the one who values the man, but I don't think...
	Oh.
	Hold on.
	But wait.
	But wait.
	I don't think what she did shows that she...
	I mean, I don't think what she did shows that she doesn't value him.
	Question for you.
	I agree.
	Wait, wait.
	You don't think what the American girl did doesn't show that she values him?
	I don't think so.
	I think she was just being like, wait.
	I mean, she didn't like the vows that were being set.
	She's in a room with thousands of people making that joke?
	That's not funny.
	I bet you her family was laughing.
	Nothing came out of her mouth.
	Play the video again.
	She didn't explicitly say, I don't respect him.
	Everyone knows what she said.
	She mentioned, the pastor mentioned, obey your husband, and she mentioned, obey your husband.
	She said they didn't want that in the vows.
	It was like a joke.
	Imagine that was your son marrying her.
	How would you feel?
	I'm not saying I'm okay with what she's doing.
	I'm not saying I agree with it.
	I'm just saying it's gonna last.
	Stop for two seconds.
	Who would you prefer your son marry?
	The American woman or the foreign woman?
	We'll start here.
	Foreign.
	What about you?
	Foreign.
	The foreign girl.
	I don't know.
	You gotta pick one.
	Pick one.
	Maybe the American one.
	No, the foreign woman.
	The foreign one?
	Yeah, American.
	The American woman.
	Foreign.
	American.
	The American girl.
	The foreign.
	The foreign.
	Foreign.
	American.
	Wow.
	Okay.
	So, very, very interesting.
	So, this is what it is, man.
	I'm just gonna be very blunt about this.
	The American girl is the worst thing you can ever deal with.
	Like, the fact that she doesn't...
	I don't know if you guys noticed when he said, for richer or poorer, she made a face when he said that.
	And then to obey.
	Obey...
	Any good relationship between a man and a woman, the woman must obey her man, period.
	Like, there's a defined leader and there's a defined follower.
	If the woman is a leader, she's going to lead you to the end of that goddamn relationship.
	Women can't lead anything, and the reason for that is because they are...
	I'll give you a chance to rebut what I'm going to say here.
	Sure, don't worry.
	Women are emotional creatures, which means their feelings dictate how they move and how they make their decisions.
	Feelings change all the time.
	Men can be emotional as well, but men have a better ability to control their emotions and make deductive problem-solving decisions.
	This is why the world was built by men and not by women.
	So my thing is, if you got a girl that has the gall to disrespect you like that in front of all of your family and friends on the most important day where you're taking your vows and she's not going to obey you, Well, that's a tenement of being a part of a marriage.
	A woman must follow her man and obey her man.
	Whether you look at Islam, Christianity, Judaism, every single culture that's existed through this period of time, the man leads and the woman follows.
	That's how society is built.
	It's not built by women, it's built by men.
	So if a girl can't follow your lead, that woman isn't worthy of being in a relationship.
	And the other thing too I want to say is that the woman should always like the guy more than he likes her.
	Why do I say this?
	Because women...
	Get bored of relationships way faster than men.
	Women have more options than men.
	So for a girl to truly stay submissive and interested in her man, she's gotta like him more than he likes her.
	Since women are far more likely to end relationships.
	So the guy has to be That dude, the breadwinner, the leader, the dominant, and the woman follow him and like him more than he likes her.
	Also, real quick, that's a component.
	So, she made that joke in front of all those people, right?
	That's a one-time joke.
	However, that behavior transcends to everything.
	So, even though it was a joke in that instance, I guarantee you, outside of that courtroom or wherever they get married, she's made those jokes herself.
	When they're by themselves.
	The problem is, if they're home alone with that type of joke, it can manifest into actual actions, and as a result, it won't work.
	But again, that joke is funny in the moment, but in reality speaking, she dissed him in public.
	And here's the other thing, too.
	She doesn't respect him.
	That was disrespectful.
	Okay, so if a woman doesn't respect you, it's over.
	I understand that.
	However, he knows she doesn't respect him.
	He might not know.
	But that's why the relationship is going to fail.
	That's why the relationship is going to fail.
	When women are with a man that they disrespect, they treat him like absolute shit.
	She's angry, she's bitching, she's talking shit, blah blah blah.
	A woman must respect you.
	And the only way that a woman's gonna respect you is if she fears losing you.
	So I can tell you right there off looking at that situation, he probably either A has money or he's doing something for her where she's willing to tolerate him.
	I was just gonna say, he's tolerating it.
	No, she's tolerating him.
	There's men that tolerate that disrespect though.
	That guy you see right there, he may not know.
	I'll tell you why.
	Him and I have experience to understand what that really means.
	Because looking at it from an outside view, he's taking it as a joke.
	But to me that's serious because if you can make that joke in front of people like that, in that whole auditorium, that's crazy to me.
	And that transcends to more bad behavior going along.
	That woman doesn't deserve a husband.
	She doesn't deserve a relationship in my opinion.
	She's disrespectful and clearly she's doing it to fulfill.
	That's a problem.
	Western women want to get married but they don't want to be wives.
	Alright, somebody had something that they disagreed with?
	So how often do you both think about the Roman Empire after this conversation actually?
	I see what you did there.
	He's trying to be funny.
	Okay, press your button.
	That had nothing to do with the conversation.
	Wait, can I say something real quick?
	It did.
	I think there's men that tolerate disrespect, unfortunately.
	Like him.
	And that's the problem.
	I would never, I mean, I would never, but like, if the man was to like, object, obviously you would have been able to see it.
	Like, he would have been like, wait, chill, like...
	But he didn't so that back to my point he's gonna tolerate whatever she like her terms and there's men like that that are that's a problem.
	They don't understand their value their pussies.
	Yeah, exactly.
	There's men like that and he's one of them.
	It wasn't even about tolerating though.
	It was just about who's gonna do better the foreign girl or the American girl.
	It's not about We should say, who's going to have a better long-term relationship?
	That's what I meant to say.
	A more fruitful relationship, not just enduring the bullshit.
	What I'm going off of on that, though, is if we bring it back to before when you were saying, so when we bring back the toleration, so the American man tolerating the American girl, and then I think...
	And then I think we brought up how the foreign girl might give up the act a little bit sooner because whatever.
	But if it's about toleration, do you really think, though, that that foreign girl, with how she was acting there, you think she's going to give up sooner?
	I feel like she's going to take longer, where the American man, he's going to give up sooner than her.
	So if it's about toleration, it's the foreign woman versus the American man who's going to hold stronger.
	If we're talking about toleration on the other day, I'm gonna say the American man's gonna give up sooner.
	It's not even him giving up.
	She's gonna break up with him.
	Women initiate 70% of the divorces, so she's gonna leave his ass because he's a bitch.
	If she's talking like that at the altar, I guarantee you nine times out of ten, Because I've called numerous of men bitch ass niggas behind closed doors.
	So, I know that language.
	I know that body language.
	That body language is behind closed doors.
	Them arguments get real nasty.
	You're calling him out of his name.
	And I'm going to tell you, just from experience, I love my fiance.
	And I'm not going to say I didn't have a point in the beginning of our relationship.
	That's probably why we broke up and got back together.
	That I would say things that were very disrespectful.
	And he's like, if you really love me and respect me, you would never behave that way.
	I had to, like Myron said, almost...
	Risk losing him and fear losing him.
	To think about when I do get mad in those moments...
	You gotta have a better way to reflect that.
	One thing about this lady here, the American woman, she was being honest.
	She was.
	And to have that honesty and him not realize what was happening, he fucked up.
	But again, that honesty that she gave up front is a red flag, 100%.
	You were going to try to say something?
	No, I disagree with everything you said.
	Okay, what do you disagree with specifically?
	Go ahead.
	What do you disagree with specifically?
	Everything.
	What part?
	She was saying that men deserve to be respected and women have to obey.
	I didn't say that.
	I said women must respect you for their leadership to work.
	I didn't say men deserve to be respected.
	And men don't have to respect the women?
	No, the woman has to like the man more than he likes her.
	That's what I said.
	No, they both have to respect each other.
	That's not what I was saying.
	I was saying the woman needs to like him.
	Okay, are you going to actually refute my arguments?
	No, I'm saying that the respect should be mutual.
	That's not what I said.
	That's not what I said.
	I'm not saying that.
	I'm just saying that I disagree with the fact that You're disagreeing with something that doesn't exist then, because I never said that.
	Yeah, we weren't arguing respect on our relationship.
	What I mean is that the video that we saw, the woman, was completely obeying the man, and you guys, I mean, you are agreeing with that, but I don't.
	Because I don't agree with the fact that women have to obey the men in order for their relationship to work.
	I just don't think women should embarrass their men in the public.
	I don't feel like she was embarrassing him.
	And I don't think he was tolerating.
	I feel like from watching that, the energy from...
	The energy from the both of them, it was clear that they both have, you know, they kiki, they have the way that they communicate.
	It's clear that it's through humor.
	He did not seem caught off guard at all.
	He didn't seem like he was tolerating it.
	I bet you he looked over and his family's laughing too.
	It seemed like they both just had the same kind of dry humor.
	And I will say, on your wedding day, you know, that is very serious.
	That's sacred.
	I can totally see the point of view of, like, that's not the time or place.
	But from watching it, like, that's just funny.
	Like, they love each other.
	They're getting married.
	They're committing.
	I think the family was definitely looking in the audience.
	Like, I told y'all, and I told my son not to marry him.
	There's banter, and then there's disrespect.
	That was not banter.
	That was disrespectful.
	I could never...
	My son be telling you, you know what?
	I'm going to marry you.
	But fuck providing.
	I'm gonna do what I feel like.
	Imagine being at the altar.
	Just reverse it.
	I'm planning a wedding right now.
	I'm at the altar and we are about to say our vows and we get to that part and my husband says...
	What?
	Provide?
	To death through his part?
	Yeah right!
	To broke through your what?
	I'ma be looking like...
	That ain't no joke.
	Why are you doing this right now?
	If you said it seriously and I felt like it was like...
	Don't even play with me like that.
	While I got this expensive dress on, it's like, however X amount of dollars for this, don't play with me right here.
	Not to mention, he paid for that whole shit, probably.
	Isn't it the bride's mom?
	You don't know that.
	It depends on your culture.
	But it doesn't give the right to do that.
	But wait, let's go back to her.
	She's agreeing with the American woman, so why do you agree that...
	What I mean is that they both need respect.
	I mean, the man is not superior to the woman.
	They should be equal.
	That's my opinion.
	If it's about respect, she's blatantly disrespecting him on the order.
	She's not disrespecting him.
	I don't think nobody should be talking about marriage unless they know the Bible.
	That's true.
	Okay, so you said a bunch of things that are incorrect.
	So, number one, you said that...
	To me, they're not incorrect.
	Okay, but...
	I understand what you're saying, like, in my opinion, but we're talking facts here.
	Do you genuinely think that a relationship is gonna last, especially a marriage where the woman doesn't obey her man?
	It depends on many things.
	On what?
	Like, a relationship doesn't last only because of what you're saying.
	There are many things, many aspects that make up a relationship.
	That's the foundation, though.
	Yeah, like, a woman's gotta follow her man.
	It's just shallow.
	I don't think so.
	You think women lead relationships?
	In general, you think women that lead relationships?
	They both should lead their relationship, both working together.
	You can lead him to the grocery store.
	You can lead him to the bedroom.
	You can lead him in the kitchen.
	You can lead him to help him get a better credit score.
	You said they both can lead?
	How?
	It's a team.
	Why does anyone need to lead?
	Why don't you work together towards the common goal of being happy and living a good life?
	This is different between how men view the world and how women view the world.
	Men tend to look at the world through hierarchy, right?
	Like, okay, competence.
	I am smarter than this individual, so I am the boss.
	He's second in command, etc.
	Men understand hierarchy.
	Women, for some odd reason, you guys don't.
	The reality is this.
	Men must be competent and they must be in a position of authority over a woman for it to actually work where she can respect him and defer to his authority.
	It doesn't work where we're equal, okay?
	If I was as strong as you or I was as tall as you, I made as much money as you, as smart as you, you'd look at me, ah, he's an equal.
	But if I'd say, hey, we need to go and do this, you would have maybe a point of issue with that.
	But if I'm better than you at everything and I'm more experienced, you're going to defer to my authority.
	Who says that you're better?
	What?
	Also, why not Camino?
	Why are you just assuming that a man is better than a woman?
	I'm saying the man needs to be better to command respect from his feet.
	That's a vague word.
	It's a vague word, better.
	It depends.
	There are different kinds of intelligences.
	Like, you could be intelligent in one way, and he could be intelligent in another way.
	He could be...
	Your man must be more competent than you in things that actually matter.
	Maybe you can pick out the drapes or something for the house, but the guy's gotta be more competent in how the world works, making money, being more successful, being more intelligent than you are for it to work.
	Women don't want their equal in general.
	They want a guy that's better than them in every regard.
	I mean, I don't know how we don't understand common sense biology here.
	I appreciate that you guys invited me here.
	I never learned in biology that that's the case.
	Well, I think just the Bible alone.
	If you are looking to have a husband or you're looking to be a wife, you need to read the Bible.
	Because there's nowhere in the Bible that it doesn't say the man does not leave.
	Wait, can you cite a Bible verse?
	So religion is going to be God...
	The man, the woman, and then the kids.
	There's hierarchy wherever you look at it.
	And if you want to look at it in the Bible, you want to look at it in the Quran, you want to look at it in Asian culture, you want to look at it in Native American culture, you want to look at it in African culture, why is it that all human species, all different demographics of humans, put men in the leadership roles?
	Because y'all decided so early that you guys were so much better than us.
	And it's just like been a thing that's existed forever.
	It doesn't make it right.
	It works, though.
	It works.
	The world that you enjoy, you live in.
	No, it doesn't.
	It doesn't work.
	There's so much.
	It doesn't.
	Okay.
	She's leaving.
	She's leaving?
	Thank you for your opportunity, but I didn't associate with it.
	Okay, just leave then.
	Just leave.
	Don't make it a spectacle.
	Just quickly leave.
	Just quickly leave.
	See, this is what I mean.
	The feminists can't articulate their points.
	They get triggered and they can't...
	Yeah, whatever.
	That's funny.
	It's fine.
	More space.
	So, um...
	She was arguing a totally different point.
	And then we asked her, what are you really arguing?
	Could you even say that?
	Nothing, bro.
	Low IQ. Dumb feminists, as usual.
	So, tell me one society that's actually existed through time that's a matriarchy, then.
	Oh, I'm not saying there is one.
	I'm saying, like, it's all been patriarchy, but it's not right, and it hasn't ever led to, like, something so beautiful.
	Like, the world's not a gorgeous place, and men have run it forever.
	Women haven't had the chance to, like, really step into those roles, because over the years, the misogyny that's existed has...
	Has stayed.
	And it's stayed present because you guys have always run things.
	So how do you know you're doing it better?
	We haven't had a chance because we're women.
	We're supposed to be submissive.
	We're supposed to do this and that.
	I would argue that women have the easiest existence they've ever had.
	And I would argue that women live an easier life than men do and they have more opportunities than men do.
	As a matter of fact, if you really think that it's a patriarchy and it's so bad, name one right or privilege that men have that women don't.
	I'm not saying it's so bad.
	Answer the question.
	I am.
	If a patriarchy is so bad, name one right or privilege that men have that women don't also enjoy.
	But I can name a bunch of privileges and rights that women have that men don't have.
	So explain to me how the patriarchy is bad.
	I would say the first thing is like, men, baseline...
	Are always just respected more.
	You meet a man, you have a conversation, people always respect men more naturally.
	Yes, because forever you guys have said we are the most competent and women aren't.
	That's why when, as a woman, the amount of times I've been told, like, when I first met you, I thought you were super dumb, but after talking to you, you're really smart.
	Men don't get told that because you meet a man and men automatically get respect.
	It's very true.
	It is.
	I disagree.
	Well, I think, see, here's the thing.
	Women get more opportunities, and there's a reason why.
	There's a whole thing called chivalry where we give women preferential treatment, but men don't necessarily get that.
	If a woman is homeless or if a woman is in a bad situation, she's more likely to get hand out money, homeless shelters catered to women.
	There's a bunch of things in place for women.
	So I don't know what you mean by that.
	But you're more likely to get opportunity.
	You're more likely to get taken seriously.
	You're more likely to get a job than women.
	It's statistically proven.
	That's actually, hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on.
	Actually, absolutely not.
	Women are far more likely to get a job if competing with a man.
	If a woman's name is on a resume, she's more likely to get that job, especially if it's in a male-dominated field.
	Nowadays, it's only that way because the past forever, it's been men, so they have to do that so that people can't be like, oh, you only hire men.
	They hire women because it looks good for them.
	Okay, so once again, explain to me how the patriarchy oppresses women, then, that you're claiming.
	Because to me, it sounds like y'all get a bunch of opportunities that we don't.
	It oppresses us in the way it's happening right now.
	There's a few men in here talking to us like we're stupid, purposely misunderstanding things we're saying, but we just have to put up with it because we're women, and you're men, so you get humbled so much less than us.
	We are forced to sit here and listen to you, and it is your podcast, and I get that, but it's also like you talk over us.
	If we talk to you the way you talk to us, that would never slide, ever.
	But men can do it because you're men, and we have to sit and listen, and it's been that way forever, but that doesn't make it right.
	The way things are supposed to be.
	You know what I'm saying?
	It's just the way they have been.
	You can't just submit to the way things are forever.
	Nothing's ever going to change or improve.
	Well, actually, there's a bunch of times where I was speaking and you cut in to make...
	Multiple times.
	Yeah, multiple times where you cut in to make points that didn't make sense.
	And the thing is that we're challenging what you're saying because a lot of things that you're saying are just not true.
	No, and that's how I feel about what you're saying.
	Also, when I cut in, I have a headphone on, like the mic.
	Sometimes I don't hear when you're talking, and I am sorry, I don't mean to.
	But it's like, I'm not purposely doing it.
	I hope you know that.
	But you're still doing it.
	You stop talking in that.
	You do it, too.
	You also talk over me.
	And you also, like, you purposely, I feel like, try to not understand what I'm saying.
	I understand.
	Even if I mess a sentence up or something, you immediately are like, okay, why'd you word it like that?
	You say that to get in my head, when in reality, if you listen to my sentence, you would have known exactly what I meant because common sense and critical thinking.
	I'm a mind reader now?
	No, it's critical thinking.
	It's hearing a sentence and, oh, it's like when you get a text from your friend and it's a paragraph and one word's mistyped, you're not going to, like, send back and be like, what'd you say?
	Like, you're going to read it and you're going to figure it out.
	Critically think.
	Like, it's not hard.
	No, because you've made a bunch of arguments based on how you feel and not necessarily what's real.
	That's I worded it wrong, but you also are making arguments on how you feel.
	You feel like women need someone who's superior.
	Where is it in the books?
	Where's the numbers?
	Can I see them?
	Can I see all the women you've spoken to?
	You are saying how you feel, but you're not wording it as I feel.
	You're saying women are this.
	You're stating it as facts, but they're not facts.
	They're how you feel, but you're stating it like it's a fact.
	It is a fact.
	See, and you interrupt me too, and so it's like you can't just shame me and make me feel bad about it because you do it.
	Because you're incorrect.
	And we're also debating, and people interrupt each other as well.
	But I don't think I'm incorrect.
	And you're right.
	It is my opinion.
	But so is most of everything you're saying.
	No.
	What I'm saying is facts.
	Women, by and large, want a man that's better than them in every metric.
	Height, income, strength, competence.
	Women on average want a guy that makes 56% more money than they do.
	Women on average, so where'd you get that number from?
	You said women on average, 50%.
	Where'd you get it from?
	Women, college educated women especially, want a man that makes about 56% more money than they do.
	There's been studies on this.
	Okay?
	Women don't want a man that's equal to them.
	It's called hypergamy.
	It's biology.
	Women want a man that's better than them.
	Women since the beginning of time have either married across or above hierarchy lineages.
	That's just how it's always been.
	So this isn't my opinion or how I feel.
	This is what's real.
	You, on the other hand, have made a bunch of arguments based on how you feel.
	Well, I don't think women are this way.
	They are!
	Your arguments are the same, though.
	You also are making opinionated arguments, but you're saying it with passion.
	You're saying there's these articles, so pull it up.
	Show me the numbers.
	We have a list of articles here.
	You're free to go ahead and look at the study show.
	You said a bunch of stuff that was not true at all.
	He's just correcting you in real time.
	What are some things I said that weren't true?
	Can you name me some?
	You said that women don't want a man that's superior to them.
	No.
	My words were, I'm a woman and I don't.
	You can say some women, but you can't say women because I'm a woman.
	Are you all women?
	No, no.
	Are you all women?
	Oh, not at all.
	No.
	I'm only one woman.
	Exactly.
	I hate to be against women, but we could do a poll just here and just do the percentage.
	How many women here?
	I did that earlier.
	There's nine women out of literally everyone.
	Like, there's nine women.
	We've interviewed 3,000 women plus, pretty much.
	Just watch the podcast in the past, and then you can just see what they're talking about.
	I've seen them, but it's like, the amount of people you've had on, even altogether, like, combined, is such a minuscule amount of people compared to the amount of women in the world.
	What's your stats?
	To what argument?
	To what numbers?
	What numbers did I give you that you want stats to?
	That women don't want a bigger, stronger, better man.
	My only argument is it's not all women.
	Everyone is different.
	How do you know?
	Because I'm a woman who knows so many women and most of the women I met think the way that I do.
	How old are you?
	I'm 22.
	You haven't lived long enough to meet half of the women.
	That even have had successful relationships.
	Most of the women you know.
	And I'm not saying that.
	That's not the argument at all.
	But it has to be because you can only give opinions off of experience.
	You haven't had enough experience in your life.
	I'm going on 35.
	I haven't had enough experience in life to sit here and say...
	This is the majority of how women think.
	I can only tell you from what you have experienced, right?
	Exactly.
	That's what I'm trying to say is you can't sit here and say all women.
	My argument was...
	He said most.
	Most.
	I never said all.
	Okay, you keep saying women and women.
	This is why we correct you because you would say stuff like that.
	I said a majority in general.
	I never said all.
	Well, there are a few times you've said word for word, women this, women that.
	Some women, most women.
	She's speaking in general.
	I always say in general.
	Okay, Chris.
	Or a majority.
	I never say all.
	I never speak in absolutes.
	I speak in majority.
	Yeah.
	I showed it.
	I proved it to you here at the table.
	I've said it before.
	I've named a couple stats.
	And your only argument is my experience, my opinion, what I think.
	Well...
	I hate to say it, you're 22 years old and you don't know anything.
	But the poll you just ran with nine women isn't like an argument.
	And I told you I have a body of evidence of where I've spoken about almost 2,500 plus women.
	I have studies on my side like it's irrefutable that women look for a man that's better than them in every regard.
	Like that's not an opinion.
	That's an absolute fact.
	And you're arguing it, but you want a wealthy man.
	You want a man to provide.
	I didn't say that.
	I haven't said that.
	You don't want a broke man.
	You don't want to sleep in the car with him.
	You want to make sure he has a house of his own, a roof over his head, a car to drive.
	I just want a guy that supports me.
	It sounds good.
	You don't want a man that supports you.
	The support runs dry when there is no financial support.
	It runs real thin afterwards.
	Even just commenting on him saying why men run things, right?
	Women are emotional.
	I said this statement the other day.
	My uncle taught me this.
	He said, either you want to be a woman or you want to be a boss.
	You cannot be both.
	And it may sound crazy, but because women get emotional when they make decisions, we also have this thing called chemical imbalance when we go through...
	Periods and things like this.
	Just a lot of things happening.
	Hormones.
	Hormones.
	So when we make decisions, we are emotional.
	When men make decisions, they're more strategic.
	Am I saying all, but majority.
	So when you are working in the workplace and the reason why you're firing Tom is because he pissed you off today and you were on your period.
	The reason why Tom is firing Brian is because he didn't do his fucking job.
	You were trying to say something?
	I was going to say, I think for you to better wrap your hand around it, most women prefer men who can provide for them.
	Not just want, but prefer.
	And any woman, or not any, or the women who are settling for men who don't provide for them, then they're settling, you know?
	They look in the window and they're like, I wish I had a man who had more money than me.
	So they prefer it, yes.
	And then three years into the relationship, you get tired, then you break up with them.
	Yeah.
	Well, I feel like if I was with a guy because he provided for me financially and that was the main reason, then I can see myself getting tired years later because I'm an independent woman.
	I make my money.
	I was raised by a business owner.
	I've learned, do it yourself, do your stuff.
	If I'm with a guy who stimulates my brain, makes me feel good, makes me feel good about myself, that's what I meant by support.
	You can have both.
	And you can, you know?
	And it's okay to prefer that, but it doesn't mean women only want guys with tons of money.
	No, that's what I'm saying.
	They prefer it.
	But you don't want anybody who's lower than you.
	Well, when you get older, I guarantee you that's going to change because you're young right now.
	And you're the OnlyFans, right?
	Yes.
	So you make a good set of money.
	So that alone will tell you, okay, I make money, I'm good.
	I don't need that support until things run dry or things don't look as good as they look right now.
	Then the guy is like, oh, I'm broke too, baby.
	What are we going to do?
	Talk in the car?
	About high IQ conversations?
	We're going to figure our shit out and make some money, bro.
	No, no, but...
	We're just saying, as a foundation for yourself and your family, if the guy is not where he needs to be, it's not going to work out.
	I'm still trying to figure out how the patriarchy oppresses you.
	Patriarchy?
	I didn't even say that.
	Patriarchy isn't right, blah, blah, blah.
	I mean, I think the patriarchy works.
	No matriarchy has worked or stood the test of time for a reason.
	It just doesn't work when women are in leadership or in authority.
	Okay.
	Who runs OnlyFans?
	And again, you can't even name one privilege or right that men have that women don't.
	Well, you didn't ask me right to begin with.
	You were like, what's one area?
	I did answer your question.
	I said the patriarchy is created a society that allows women to thrive and women live life on easy mode.
	And I said, give me one right or privilege that men have that women don't if the patriarchy is so bad or not right as you claimed earlier.
	And you couldn't give one.
	I gave one immediately.
	What is it?
	I said the fact that men are naturally approached with so much more respect from people.
	And I refuted that because chivalry exists and women actually get way more respect than men do.
	Women get more opportunities given to them just because they're a woman.
	They don't earn respect like men have to.
	Men must earn respect.
	Women are just given respect for existing.
	Even your industry.
	I can't be a man helping OnlyFans and make a bunch of money.
	You can.
	So please explain to me how men are more respected.
	And then you said, oh, men have more opportunities.
	No, that's not true either because women are far more likely, and they've done studies on this, to get a job over a man if it's a female name on the resume.
	One thing I will say is I can't agree that you could be correct there.
	Names on a resume, right?
	So two people apply, a woman and a man.
	Yeah.
	You know, they might be more likely to hire the women.
	But you also have to think about what comes before that, right?
	So, like, a guy and a girl, they both meet, like, this super big, like, business owner at a bar at completely different times.
	When the guy meets the guy, the guy automatically, you know, like, wants to listen.
	It's another man.
	So let's talk.
	Let's talk.
	You're intelligent.
	Let's have an intelligent conversation.
	When a man meets a woman, she doesn't automatically get that.
	As a woman, I have to earn my respect with you, right?
	Oh, you have to earn respect like a man.
	Yeah, unfortunately, I have to earn my respect.
	Men have to earn their respect, too.
	Welcome to the equality that you fought for.
	Men have to earn respect in what?
	Yes.
	You just said that we're supposed to just respect all men.
	No, we're supposed to respect women.
	We respect women off rip.
	Men must earn their respect.
	Women don't get it just because they're a lady.
	I don't think so.
	I feel like most men I've met did not respect me the second they met me because I'm a woman.
	They want to smash first.
	And then also your profession and then also the way that you speak and also, no offense, but you're not necessarily the most...
	You're not really good at articulating your points.
	So yes, people are going to judge you based on how you speak, how you convey yourself, your profession.
	All these things come into play and they're going to look at the total package and the way you dress.
	All these things come into play.
	And then also on top of that, there's a stereotype that most attractive girls are stupid, which is true to a degree.
	Are all women stupid that are attractive?
	No, but it's a stereotype.
	It just happens.
	You have to prove them wrong.
	But why do I have to prove them wrong to be judgmental and just shallow as hell?
	It's so bare minimum to beg a man to be a good human being.
	No, but in the business world, not the only thing.
	And I never will beg a man to respect him.
	But you're in the only thing.
	You're not in a realistic work world where you're actually dealing with real people in real time.
	You're dealing with fucking nerds, horny niggas, and all type of weirdos.
	Not saying those don't exist in the corporate and the workplace, but you're in a factitious space of a job.
	You're not walking into a corporate building with a full three-point suit on and saying, respect me.
	Corporate men are horny.
	I didn't say they weren't.
	I'm not saying they're not.
	But you're not walking in actually giving a shot at someone respecting you.
	You're walking in half-naked, half-only fans, you can click this button and see my pussy and rewind it or whatever you want.
	Why would I respect you?
	I'm not gonna respect you until I actually feel like you have something meant to bring to the table.
	Why would I respect as a woman?
	I'm not respecting a woman.
	Because what is me having an OnlyFans and showing my body?
	It says a lot.
	It says a lot.
	I'm going to tell you what it says.
	I'm going to tell you from a grown woman.
	I'm going to tell you as a grown woman what it means.
	If there's no supply, there's no...
	Or if there's no demand, there's no supply.
	Men want this.
	They beg for it.
	You guys are the reason this type of work exists.
	Baby, I come from the strip club.
	I come from the strip club.
	I come from the whole life.
	I come from the selling the pussy.
	I did all those things.
	Where does it come from where you think that I don't deserve respect?
	I didn't say...
	But when I want people to...
	I shouldn't expect it.
	I'm going to tell you.
	I was a stripper.
	I was all those things that you're doing right now.
	And I respect it.
	I don't knock your hustle how you get your money.
	But you cannot expect people to treat you a certain way where you have a certain lifestyle.
	You have to accept what comes from it.
	It's just like the crackhead on the street smoking crack.
	I don't give a fuck if you're driving a Ferrari and got an eight-figure job coming in.
	You're still coming to my block asking me for some crack.
	You're a crackhead.
	But my example was I walk up to you in a restaurant and a man just met you in the same way.
	My argument was that he's on my OnlyFans and he sees that.
	My argument was I meet you in the real world, in real life, and naturally men, when a man approaches a man, they more than likely have a really good intellectual conversation, whatever.
	When a woman comes up to a man...
	Not always.
	No, they don't.
	The man's not even allowed in the room unless he reaches a certain level.
	Let me rephrase, okay?
	I feel like men are more open to having conversations that they take seriously with other men.
	When it's a woman, the conversation is usually because the guy wants to fuck, not because he respects me, not because he wants to talk to me.
	You have to change that dynamic.
	I'm in plenty of rooms with a lot of powerful, rich, fine, attractive men, and they all want to fuck me.
	But you know what the difference is?
	Everybody wants to fuck Rihanna.
	At least you're in the room.
	At least you're in the room.
	Here's something I want you to take with you.
	Your body, your looks, your pussy is gonna get you in the room, but it's not gonna keep you there.
	Real quick, you got a point?
	And the man's not gonna even get invited to the room unless he reaches a certain level.
	The privilege that you guys have is insane.
	You're able to rub elbows with millionaires, billionaires, you're able to get on a yacht just for existing.
	As a man, you have to earn that ability to do so.
	So, yeah, you're saying, I'm not respected, but at least you get the opportunity to get the respect.
	I don't even get the opportunity to get the respect unless I built the respect beforehand and I'm invited.
	That's the difference between men and women.
	That's why I say women live life on easy mode, and unfortunately, that's why a lot of guys don't respect women, because the reality is, y'all don't have to work as hard as we do to make money and to become successful.
	And here's the other thing, too.
	Men must perform.
	Women don't have to.
	You have the privilege of, I want to be a stay-at-home mom, which is great, but we don't have, I can't say I want to be a stay-at-home dad.
	It doesn't fucking work.
	No chick is going to take me seriously when I say, oh, by the way, I want you to work and I'm going to just stay at home and take care of the kids.
	No woman's going to give me an opportunity, but as a woman, you can go into a relationship and say, you know, I want to be a stay-at-home.
	Most guys are going to be okay with that.
	Yeah, pretty much.
	So we're not the same at all.
	And that's what I mean when I say women live life on easy mode and they get angry, but at least you get the opportunity to meet them.
	They might not respect you, but at least you get the opportunity to build that respect that's on you if you fuck it up and they don't respect you because you didn't convey yourself properly.
	Maybe they found out about your background.
	And unfortunately, ladies, when you're a sex worker, men aren't going to respect you, period.
	This is how it is.
	Okay?
	Fast money comes with slow problems.
	Okay?
	And in the corporate world, right, if you guys did get a corporate job, they would actually respect you more because they don't want to get hit with sexual harassment.
	They're going to treat you very well.
	They ain't going to say shit because they know they get fired by HR. So if you did work a corporate job, I don't know if you guys ever have, I doubt it.
	Trust me, you guys would get preferential treatment, you would get hired, and they would treat you very well because HR is dominated by women.
	If there's one sexual harassment claim, they're getting fucking fired.
	So they're going to absolutely respect And you can learn how to have men respect you.
	I think that that's a big thing.
	I do OnlyFans too.
	I've been through that whole thing, but I think...
	Wait, you do OnlyFans as well?
	I'm not arguing that.
	Why didn't you say that?
	She did.
	She said that.
	She said that.
	Yeah.
	But, okay, how do you...
	Your notes?
	I want to say...
	She did say OnlyFans, bro.
	She did.
	She did.
	She must have said that to y'all.
	I'm so sorry.
	No, she did.
	No, she said it on the show.
	I didn't know before the show.
	How do you curve the disrespect from men?
	I mean, for myself, I think there are characteristics like I care a lot about being intelligent.
	I care a lot about speaking well.
	I care a lot about being articulate and listening.
	And those are things that deem respect regardless of your gender.
	And so I think I've learned that from not feeling valued.
	by men and deciding no like I want to be seen as who I am authentically and genuinely and just gaining respect from being who I am and I agree there's kind of this dynamic of like do you want to be a boss or do you want to be a woman and I don't love that and I remember like one time talking to my mom and she was saying Tess like you're so opinionated you're so driven you're so passionate it's gonna be hard for you to find a rich man Because they want someone who's just gonna sit there and shut the fuck up.
	But, like, there are spaces where I can still exist and still be respected and loved for exactly what I bring to the table, but I think that doesn't mean that people aren't gonna still want to fuck me.
	Regardless, regardless.
	The women want to fuck, too.
	They can still be a boss.
	Everybody's trying to fuck.
	Okay, we've got some chats here.
	Okay.
	I'll read these chats here.
	I don't know if we're going to...
	Chris, did you name the number?
	Yeah, 20 and up right now.
	Okay.
	Well, hey man, like I said before, giving the people what they want.
	They don't want Super Chat questions.
	They just want questions.
	Ladies, do you believe a woman taking a break from a relationship?
	I think it's just an excuse for a woman to smash Chad McThunderstroke while still having a man as a backup.
	Basically, it's on 2.0.
	Yeah.
	Agree?
	Not always.
	Not always.
	Not always, yeah.
	Nope.
	So what other reason would she have to take a break, then?
	To make sure that this is the person she really want to be with.
	Yep.
	Period.
	Yeah.
	Yeah.
	Bro, okay, ladies.
	Guys, if a girl ever tells you, I want a break, you never take her back.
	Yeah.
	It's over.
	Why?
	It's over.
	Because when women say that...
	It's a longer...
	Translation, I'm gonna go ahead and exercise my options and see if I can go back out on the market and find something better than you.
	And if I don't, I'm gonna come back to you.
	No, you stay out there.
	Stay out there.
	What the fuck do I look like?
	Garbage pickup?
	Like, no.
	When a girl says that, she's effectively telling you, you're not good enough and I think I could do better.
	I'm gonna go out there, weigh my options, and gonna come back to you.
	You're stupid enough to wait.
	That's the truth.
	But he comes back though.
	That's absolutely the truth.
	But take me back, baby.
	Take me back.
	Here's the worst part.
	If you take her back, she's not going to respect you.
	No, that's not true.
	I don't think that's true.
	It's not true.
	Because sometimes you go realize that the grass is not greener, and you had it real good here, and you don't want to lose what you had.
	So now you know how to be made.
	And you know what you're coming back is?
	You're coming back as sex only or a side girl.
	You're never going to get a title or a marriage at that point.
	You will come back as sex only.
	I disagree.
	But...
	Well, you got lucky.
	I guess I'm lucky.
	You better do everything in your power to keep him, bro.
	I do.
	I do.
	With your background, I'm like, God damn!
	This nigga crazy!
	He is.
	If she has true, genuine desire, you shall become her number one pipe supplier if...
	Where the fuck?
	What?
	You shall never get a chance to mate.
	If you are a simp, it will end in you getting pimped.
	Question ladies, what is your thoughts on the expression you don't ask the fish how to catch a fish, you ask a fisherman?
	What?
	You don't ask a fish how to catch a fish, you ask a fisherman.
	You ask the experts.
	I think what they're saying is you don't ask the woman an opinion, you're going to ask the man first.
	I think that's what they're trying to say.
	They're talking shit on women.
	Do you agree with that or disagree with that?
	Raise of hands if you guys agree that you need to ask the fisherman, or do you guys think it should be the fish?
	Green if you think it's the fisherman, red if you think it's the fish.
	I'm not understanding this.
	I need some more.
	I need some more.
	So putting in context here, the man is the fisherman, the woman is the fish.
	Okay.
	So he's asking the question here, basically.
	If you're going to be asking for advice on how to get women, who do you ask?
	Women or men?
	Show the thumbs down if you think it's the woman, the fish, or green for the fisherman.
	Okay, so most of you think women know...
	Okay.
	Well, tell me this then.
	Why did you guys all say that if a girl leaves, it's okay.
	Take her back.
	Because I'm saying under just the circumstances, like, I know why I've left.
	I just left because I had to prove a point.
	Like, sometimes men get complacent the same way women do.
	Could you imagine if he didn't take you back?
	I was willing to risk that.
	I was willing to take that.
	I was willing to take that.
	That's scary though.
	But I'm just saying, because I had a point to prove, which is, don't get complacent.
	You don't want me to get comfortable still walking around with the rollers, gaining weight, and all this other stuff.
	You can't do the same thing.
	But that's scary though.
	But what's scary is you getting comfortable and don't want me to either.
	You might have lost a man that was for you.
	Maybe, but if God got the last say.
	I'm telling you right now, you got blessed and lucky.
	You know, and this is just the engagement ring.
	This is not the wedding ring.
	I get another one.
	But remember, six years off and on, right?
	No, not six years off and on.
	We broke up one time.
	In six years.
	And how old are you?
	35?
	I'm 34.
	I'll be 35 no longer.
	Bro, I'll keep it a million.
	And I have no children.
	Yo, keep it a million, you are lucky as fuck, and you better never fuck this up, because quite frankly, you don't deserve that man.
	Why do I not deserve him?
	Because you're older, you have a sex work past, and quite frankly, guys like that- I have no children.
	It doesn't matter.
	He could go get a younger, badder version of you with less lip talk, less social media presence, all that other shit.
	You need to worship the ground he's walked on.
	Actually, he's a full-time dad.
	He's a six-year-old that he takes full care of.
	He loves the fact that I came in and stepped in.
	Her mother's not present.
	So I'm not only a stepmother, I've stepped into a role that I really don't have to take.
	There's a lot of women not coming in, taking care of a kid that is not there, and they don't even got their own.
	Notice you stepped in because you had to.
	I didn't have to.
	I've met plenty of men that don't have children.
	But okay, just to be fair here, with all of the paths...
	What paths?
	Listen, me being in the strip club, I also come from...
	I've had corporate jobs.
	Yes, I worked in the strip club.
	But at the end of the day, when I met my man, I was already in a rise of starting my own businesses, transitioning out the club.
	We don't give a fuck about that.
	Yo, look.
	Everybody has a pass.
	I'm going to keep it a million with you again.
	No, but men don't want a pass.
	You want a man with a future?
	We don't want a chick with a pass.
	What I'm simply saying is you are lucky that you got this guy.
	You better do everything in your power to keep him.
	Because quite frankly, you can get a younger girl.
	That's still sucking dick on OnlyFans.
	No, no.
	That doesn't suck dick on OnlyFans.
	That's never even sucked a dick.
	She's influenced by social media.
	No, look, bro.
	I'm trying to explain this to you.
	That men...
	Do you not understand that women value experience and men value inexperience and the fact that you're able to land a guy that's successful that could get a younger, better version of you, you are lucky beyond whatever and you need to be super happy.
	I'm that girl.
	I really am.
	I really am that girl and I don't care about her age or anything like that.
	First of all, the younger girls don't even look better than me.
	Let's just keep that.
	I'm seeing a lot of girls that are 25 and they're looking 40.
	So let's start there.
	So he can go get a younger girl, but she's not going to be loyal.
	She's not going to be faithful.
	And yet she may be inexperienced.
	All I'm saying is that's cool.
	I'm here and I'm coachable.
	So I don't know everything.
	I'm able to be led.
	I'm able to be coached.
	And I'm transparent.
	So he doesn't have to walk out and nobody can tell him anything about me.
	I'm coming already laying it on the table.
	So it's not like we're waiting three months, four months, six months for you to find out who you with.
	I'm telling you at the gate.
	This is where I come from.
	This is what I'm on.
	This is what I'm not going on.
	He got a choice.
	He had a choice six years ago.
	I'm lucky.
	He's lucky.
	Oh, wow.
	You're crazy.
	I'll call him right now and he'll tell you he's lucky.
	Nope.
	You're crazy.
	You sound just like the woman on Arthur, man.
	Shit!
	He is very lucky.
	He is very lucky.
	I got homegirls.
	They are whores.
	I got friends.
	These bitches is whores out here.
	Girls is out here giving it up for nothing just to chase the rapper, the ball player, the whatever.
	He better be glad that I'm experienced because none of that stuff phases me.
	You lose a million dollars, I know how to help you get it back.
	I'm not leaving you britcher or poor.
	I'm riding with you.
	I'm here.
	You better be, yes, he is lucky.
	You're damn right he's fucking lucky.
	Yeah.
	So you think you're the prize in this relationship?
	No, he is the prize.
	He is the man.
	He is the superior.
	He is all of the above.
	He deserves to be worshipped.
	He does.
	So let me just...
	So what are you arguing about?
	I'm not arguing anything.
	What I'm saying is...
	What I'm arguing is that's just the fact of saying...
	You're saying I should be thankful that he chose me.
	No, he was going to choose me regardless because I'm that girl.
	What you mean?
	I'm next to...
	I know what's out here.
	I know what niggas is sleeping next to last night.
	Next wife in.
	I know the girls they wife in.
	They not them girls.
	They're being bamboozled.
	Is he safe right now?
	They're being bamboozled.
	I'm not being boozling.
	He's not thinking he's getting something and then marry me later and I'm a gold digger or I'm this and I'm that.
	No.
	We're not saying you're a bad girl.
	We're saying that you're loving it.
	If you're watching this show...
	He is, probably.
	Nigga, you fucked up.
	Like, I'm just gonna keep it a million.
	He got the girl.
	What the hell are you doing, bro?
	He got the girl.
	Holy fuck.
	He lost 50 pounds since being with me.
	Credit score up.
	I watched him lose $800,000 the first year we were together.
	He got it back 10 times more.
	I think he's doing pretty well.
	Yeah.
	I've been in his daughter's life since she was two.
	She's now six years old.
	I'm just saying, like, I don't know.
	You are blessed.
	And all the other baby mamas, shout out to you.
	Because I didn't have to have a baby to get the ring, to get locked in, to do any of those things.
	Yeah.
	He's scaring me right now.
	Say what you want.
	And he can have any girl he wants, but is she gonna be with you just for your money?
	Because when you see that, he can have any girl he wants because he's rich.
	Of course he can.
	But when you get sick and you gotta be in the hospital for six months and make sure shit still gets done, I'm that girl.
	I'm that girl.
	I'm the maid.
	I'm the everything.
	Call it whatever you want.
	I'm proud to be it.
	We just came back from hedonism.
	You ever been to hedonism in Jamaica?
	I think that's cool.
	I was just there.
	I got invited.
	I was in Jamaica like two months ago.
	Yes, I was there.
	But I didn't go though.
	You been there?
	Man, you put on a facade to get a ring, bro.
	You still masculine as hell.
	I didn't put on no facade, bro.
	He wants to sit there No facade There's nothing masculine about me That nigga is cheating right now Bro He ain't cheating man He's not cheating He's not cheating He ain't cheating man He ain't cheating man He's not cheating By the way We wish you the best We just wish you would've actually toned down the shit and just say, he's the shit forever.
	He is the shit forever.
	He's that guy.
	Keep that energy.
	I'm that nigga.
	No, I didn't say I was that nigga, but I'm just letting you know.
	I'm talking like this, but I'm not like this with my man.
	He's the man in the house.
	He runs shit.
	He's the boy.
	Keep it that way.
	You crazy.
	No, you crazy.
	You just saw the mask come off, man.
	I guess.
	You just said mask off.
	See your clothes come off.
	Is he watching this?
	Yeah, yeah.
	He's watching this.
	He's defending the offender.
	He's got $50 questions.
	Since spooky season is here, ladies, if your man tells you not to wear a suggestive costume to a Halloween party, We're good to go.
	If the man cares about you, he won't let you do that.
	Disclaimer, he probably bought it.
	The revealing outfit.
	But if he doesn't approve of what I brought home, no, I'm not going to do it.
	Okay.
	Yeah, I would say if I'm getting a Halloween outfit, I'm going to ask him which one he likes best, because he gets to choose.
	And then I feel comfortable, I feel sexy, I know that it's for him, and that's the decision.
	Alright.
	If he says neither?
	If he's my man, he says it's a no, then yeah, it's a no.
	Okay, for you?
	If it's a no, it's a no.
	Just talk a different story.
	And you?
	If he came and communicated to me, he didn't like it and gave me a good reason, yeah, I'll compromise with you.
	Really?
	Yeah, 100%.
	I'm all about compromise.
	If you communicate with me and, like, if he came up and he was like, you're not wearing that, and that was the end and there was no discussion, then, you know, maybe I wouldn't end up wearing it, but I'd still be like, but...
	You know, if he came up, he was like, it would honestly kind of make me uncomfortable if you were that, like, tonight.
	Big Daddy say no, it's no.
	I call my man Big Daddy.
	Only if it's a serious relationship, you know, it can be like somebody I'm just talking to.
	It's not going to get serious.
	If it's a fuckboy, no.
	Well, guys, you see it there.
	We got up next.
	Bender says, crazy how women essentially win the lottery at 18, and they think they deserve the world for doing nothing but making bad decisions.
	Okay?
	That's not really a question.
	It's a statement.
	Yuma Simone says, last time the black chick was on, she looked better and was fit.
	Now, she looks like somebody's insulin-resistant auntie.
	What the fuck?
	They're just typing shit.
	Respond to him?
	I don't.
	He can say whatever he wants.
	He's probably following me.
	Oh, shit.
	For sure.
	And tune in on every Sunday on Zeus watching me in your house.
	Okay?
	Okay, Zeus Network?
	Yes.
	The chin next to Fresh Stakes women should be given a chance to lead.
	What the actual fuck?
	You're the worst example of a woman for a young girl.
	You're a lazy slut.
	Sling your pussy.
	I don't know what it is.
	Get a grip, B-word.
	You prove that women deserve less.
	I don't want to say it, but you said it.
	You have any response for that?
	Yeah, suck one, dude.
	I don't know who the hell you are.
	IQ test ladies, name three countries.
	Real quick.
	Switzerland, Turkey.
	Ghana, Dominican Republic, and Puerto Rico.
	Wait.
	Are we going to Puerto Rico?
	Puerto Rico is a country.
	Fuck!
	Fuck!
	It might not be a country.
	Can I try again?
	Nope.
	United States, Italy, Spain.
	Can't name US. Italy, Spain, Switzerland.
	Alright.
	Okay.
	Fuck Canada, China.
	I hope that's it.
	One more!
	Canada, China.
	You said you traveled.
	What the?
	I love it.
	Trinidad, the Maldives, Greece.
	Argentina, Turkey, Peru.
	Okay.
	Colombia, Venezuela, Spain.
	Oh, that was good.
	Jordan, Lebanon, Abu Dhabi.
	Bless you.
	Abu Dhabi.
	Dubai.
	Sorry.
	Habibi!
	You're tired of me.
	You mean the United Arab Emirates, okay.
	What about you?
	The United Arab Emirates.
	I'm definitely gonna repeat.
	No, it's gotta be new.
	No, because I don't remember what everyone said.
	Alright, go ahead, say it, and then we'll tell you if you repeated.
	Just X me out.
	What the fuck?
	What you saying?
	Wait, wait, let her talk.
	We'll give you a chance now to prove your intelligence.
	Let's go.
	Three countries and you got it.
	I believe in you.
	I mean, yeah, I'm just saying after everyone went if I repeat.
	Mexico, Canada, Spain.
	And somebody say Spain.
	Asia.
	Oh god, oh god.
	No, that was my god.
	I'm so sorry.
	Shout out to Asia, man.
	I deserve no respect.
	I know, I know.
	That nigga you're talking to?
	It's literally lame that you talk.
	Yeah, you're smart.
	You're amazing.
	You're loyal.
	You're the one.
	Put my dick in your mouth.
	Yo, he's pulling a fresh.
	He's pulling a fresh.
	I love her, man.
	He's like, yo, fresh.
	Thank you, man.
	She was the most vocal one about women leading and I don't get respect.
	He probably asked that question knowing I wouldn't be able to answer it.
	But Vic, you don't think sex plays a big part of keeping the man?
	You got any more, Chris?
	Yeah, we do.
	I don't think so.
	Ladies, does the past matter to the opposite gender?
	No.
	Alright, we'll go ahead and use the thumb thing.
	The question is, does the past matter to men, is what he's asking.
	So, give a green if you think it's a yes, thumbs down if you think it's a no.
	Let me see.
	Please, throw it up, throw it up.
	Does the past matter to men?
	Okay, so...
	Yes, to men.
	Okay, so four of you...
	Okay, three of you said no.
	Why do you think no, it doesn't matter to men, your past?
	I think it depends on the guy that you're talking to, but I certainly think if they're more open-minded to the person that you are, they're gonna be receptive.
	If they're gonna get everything that I'm bringing to the table, then they have to accept- Education, cultured, well-traveled, can cook, can clean, can suck dick, all the things.
	And I can also be obedient and independent if I need to be because I can be responsible on my own.
	If I need to be.
	I can be responsible on my own because everyone needs to be responsible on their own to bring what they have to bring to the relationship.
	So I can function on my own as a human being.
	What do you think is more attractive to a guy?
	A woman that is...
	Not promiscuous, not that intelligent, not college-educated, but follows the lead and is fairly quiet.
	Hold on, hold on, hold on.
	You didn't even hear the question.
	Go for it.
	And you're trying to talk.
	Listening.
	Are you really?
	Wow.
	So, number two, again, number one, not college-educated, Not necessarily the smartest girl, but quiet and submissive and not promiscuous.
	Let's say maybe one body count or a virgin.
	Or a girl that's cultured, educated, has had 10 bodies and is independent.
	Which one do you think most men would find attractive?
	And the latter person is more attractive?
	They're both equally attractive.
	They're both as equally attractive.
	Yes.
	Who do you think the man is going to go for?
	I think generally.
	Don't use your ego invested.
	I want you to give me an objective.
	What do you think a majority of men would go for?
	They'd go for the one that they can tell what to do.
	So that's going to be the one that's less educated.
	Oh, okay.
	And not as traveled and cultured or whatever.
	Because you used that earlier.
	Yeah, yeah, yeah.
	And that's going to be your idea.
	Like, a man who's actually high value is going to want someone who has those traits.
	They're not going to want a dumb little 18-year-old bitch who doesn't know how to do shit.
	Because that's not being coachable.
	Being coachable is bringing skills to the table that can be utilized.
	No, it's not.
	Like, you can't be like, hey, can you utilize my skills?
	Okay?
	Yeah.
	So who do you think is more likely to follow a man's lead?
	The girl that I described first or the girl that's second?
	If I have a man who is superior to me, can help me get on that level, can help me continue to grow, then he's going to pick me.
	Because he doesn't have to train someone from a child.
	That wasn't a question I asked.
	Repeat the question.
	The question I asked is, of those two women that I just described, which one is going to be more likely to follow his lead?
	I mean, it depends.
	The first woman.
	The first one because she doesn't know what she's doing.
	Naturally.
	Until she's lost a few men by not letting him lead.
	And then you know better now.
	Yeah, but which one is better?
	The one that's lost a few men or the one that hasn't?
	I think the one that's lost a few men because she knows how to keep one now.
	Incredible.
	These girls that have no experience, like, what the hell is going on?
	Like, so what?
	She's never sucked a dick and all that stuff.
	Now you get her home and she still can't suck your dick when you train her.
	And she still can't do other shit too.
	When you were young, you didn't know, right?
	So when I coach you, so when I coach you, you're good to go.
	Yeah, maybe.
	Maybe.
	But I also have friends who...
	I have a homegirl right now, right?
	She's been with one guy.
	I feel so bad for her, right?
	Because she tells me about this bedroom experience with a man that she's been with for years and it's terrible.
	And she doesn't have nothing to compare it to.
	She just knows it's not satisfying her.
	That's weird.
	Yeah, that's weird.
	She doesn't know what she likes.
	She doesn't know she doesn't like it.
	She doesn't have nothing to compare it to.
	To be able to show him like, okay, you're not doing it right.
	This is really how I like to be pleased.
	Like, there's a gift and a curse to that.
	Does she tell me that?
	A man wants a girl without a past, but it depends that she's living currently in her past and her past experiences.
	Like dicks.
	If I was this girl then, and I get with this guy now, I'm not promiscuous anymore.
	I'm not saying I have never been promiscuous, but I'm definitely not promiscuous now.
	What is going on here?
	Listen, the way I was when I was 18, 21, I gave it up for nothing because I thought a man telling me he liked me.
	Listen to what I'm saying to you.
	Listen to what I'm saying to you.
	I mean exactly what I'm saying.
	I say this on any platform I'm talking to, so I'm not taking back what I'm saying.
	I stand on what I'm saying.
	And I believe what I'm saying.
	If me being 21, 18, 19, I have had sex with men that I don't know better.
	You don't know better.
	You're allowing a man to sell you a dream.
	You don't know if what's true, what's not.
	He's basically saying whatever you need to hear to get in your drawers.
	Until you get a little older and you realize The next guy you're going to date with, this is Kat.
	I'm not going to have sex with him without him really proving that he's trying to be with me.
	Like she was saying earlier, she's been having sex with this guy with no title.
	When I got to a certain age, there is no sex with no title.
	I'm not just laying down with anybody.
	I'm not shacking up.
	I'm not playing house.
	This is the first man I've ever lived with.
	This is the first man I'm buying a house with.
	I'm not playing house with you.
	You understand what I'm saying?
	So there's certain things that you just learn as you get old.
	Everybody's not going to go through the same learning lessons, obviously.
	All right, right.
	Let's...
	I got a scenario here.
	We're going to go into a dream world.
	So, let's say, right, you go to the Gucci store, right, and you buy a bag, right, and you see that it's on sale, right?
	It could be Gucci, Louis Vuitton, whatever you like.
	I don't know.
	Dior.
	Dior, whatever, right?
	Whatever fits.
	Whatever store you like, personally.
	You go and you get the bag, and you get it on sale.
	It's normally a $2,000 bag.
	You got it for $1,000.
	Holy fuck, 50% off.
	Fucking sick, right?
	You go, you tell your girl, take a picture of it, send it to her.
	Look at this bag I just got.
	Oh my god, girl.
	And she's like, oh my god, I got that bag too.
	I paid $700 for it.
	Whoa, whoa, hold on one second.
	What the fuck?
	What?
	And then you tell another friend and they say, oh no, I paid $500 for it.
	And you're like, what the fuck?
	So you're pissed.
	You go back to that store and you say, what the fuck?
	People got a discount on this shit.
	I paid $1,000.
	I know someone that paid $500.
	I know someone that paid $700.
	This is bullshit.
	And then while you're there at the store, you see other people buy the bag.
	Someone pays $10.
	Someone pays $2,000.
	Someone gets it for free.
	Someone gets it for $100.
	You're like, what the fuck is going on?
	And the salesperson looks you dead in the eye and says, oh no, that's your price.
	What the fuck?
	How'd that make you feel?
	Mad as fuck.
	I'd be pissed.
	Man.
	I mean, I'd be upset, but I gotta respect it.
	Okay.
	To better research.
	I guess upset.
	Not happy.
	Okay.
	Not happy.
	Yeah, I wouldn't be happy.
	That's exactly how men feel when they have to fucking wait for the box or court you to get sex.
	That's how men feel about it.
	So explain to me how you can sit there and make someone pay full price for something that other people got for free, got for a dinner here, got for a McChicken here, or someone else paid a thousand here.
	It's amazing to me how women will sit there and say...
	I'm worth this.
	But you let that nigga fuck for free.
	That guy took you to McDonald's.
	That guy took you for 555.
	That guy took you for Komodo.
	What the fuck is going on?
	This is bullshit.
	But I find it amazing how y'all will sit there and say, well, this is my price now.
	No!
	I am not going to pay full price for a vehicle with mileage on it.
	Period.
	That's how men look at women.
	Okay, now what about you, right?
	Let's just take you for an example.
	I meet you somewhere when you were in your...
	moving out your mama house.
	Okay.
	You wasn't this guy who was able to...
	I don't know, I used to live in Miami, so your rent is probably like $4,500.
	I don't know, something like that.
	Oh, it's way worse.
	Whatever.
	Okay?
	Now, you move out of here...
	Somebody takes over this building and moves in here and says, my rent is way cheaper than yours.
	Yeah, you're going to be pissed, but it's the time frame that you got in.
	The building is revamped.
	Things are redone.
	Elevator looks different.
	There's marble floors now.
	Oh my God, when I used to live here, the bathrooms weren't this big.
	Da-da-da-da-da-da.
	Shit changes.
	It is what it is.
	The niggas that dated me back then, they couldn't even hold a candle to the girl that I am now.
	Yeah.
	You understand what I'm saying?
	They couldn't have the same conversations and I damn sure wouldn't fall for half of the shit that I fell for then.
	You live and you learn.
	I'm so thankful that God sent me a man that's able to forgive for the mistakes and the unknowledgeable Actions.
	Experiences that I've had in my life because now I know better.
	So I would never give myself to a man that didn't deserve it.
	I would never just go off of somebody talking to me and just because they said I was pretty or they bought me this, I'm going to give up the pussy.
	You have morals.
	I can say at one point being a young girl, you don't have no morals, especially if you don't know no better.
	You have to live and you have to learn.
	Now...
	My man already knows what type of woman I am.
	He already knows that I have values.
	I'm not moving like that.
	I'm not promiscuous.
	I'm not that horny anymore either.
	You understand what I mean?
	If I'm a real estate investor, I'm always going to go with the newer property because I'm able to depreciate it better.
	I'm able to get better tax benefits.
	I'm able to go ahead and charge higher rent than the older building.
	The reality is this, man.
	Men always want younger, better, firmer, tighter.
	Period.
	Older women, unfortunately, a lot of the times have more sexual experience, more baggage, more negative experiences with men.
	And tighter, wet pussy.
	More negative experiences with men.
	And that goes ahead and gets attributed to me as the man.
	I want a clean slate that I can work with and mold this woman into what I want.
	Men since the beginning of time have always preferred women to have lower sexual notch counts and virgins.
	There's a reason why.
	Because when a woman...
	Right?
	No one wants to be where everyone else has been.
	and God forbid I put a goddamn ring on it when other guys have paid next to nothing.
	I can only hear that.
	Take a girl whose damn still smell like this.
	I'm gonna put you up some Tim's with some Hennessy and some pizza and say, yo, Try to chill?
	Bro.
	When I was 18, 20, now if he's saying that now as a grown-ass woman with actual valuables and assets, yes, I would feel that way.
	But the newer building is always going to be better.
	Yeah, but I also got that brownstone in Brooklyn that when I first bought it, it was worth, I don't know, $70,000 and it's worth $2.5 now.
	Unfortunately, women don't operate like men and appreciate over time.
	They depreciate over time.
	Maybe some, but I don't know about you.
	I don't know about you, but the older I get, the finer I get, the richer I get.
	That is a delusion.
	That is a delusion.
	I mean, I can show you pictures.
	I can show you stats.
	Okay, no, I'm going to show you stats right now.
	Men polled all over the world between 18 to 60 years old.
	Yeah.
	Guess what they find the most attractive female age group?
	What?
	18 to 24.
	Until they smell their panties and still lingering piss in that.
	No, no, no.
	Again, men between 18 years old to 60 years old, when polled, undoubtedly preferred women between 18 to 24 years old.
	Period.
	That's a fact.
	What do you prefer?
	What do you prefer?
	I prefer younger women.
	You prefer how old?
	So how old are you?
	Because I want to know, how old are you?
	And then when you're bringing home these 22, 23-year-olds, what are you really trying to get from them?
	Peace.
	Peace.
	Peace?
	Yeah, peace.
	What do you mean?
	She's crying to you.
	She's not crying to you about real life.
	She's crying to you about, I can't pay my phone bill.
	I can't pay my car note.
	I can't put gas in my car.
	I don't have food in my house.
	I don't know how to do this.
	I don't know how to do this.
	I don't know how to do that.
	She barely know how to even make you come from head.
	Are you a man?
	No, I'm a woman.
	I'm telling you.
	Okay, so it doesn't matter what you think because you're not a man.
	Men don't look for the same things that women do.
	And this is what I laugh at because women think they know what men want, but y'all really have zero clue.
	You want experience.
	You want money.
	You want competence.
	Guess what I want?
	I want the opposite.
	I'm supposed to be a strong masculine man who's a leader who could pay for things and take care of a woman.
	I need a woman that's not going to...
	No, I don't care about competency.
	And most men don't.
	Crazy.
	Most men don't give a shit at all about a woman's competency.
	What they're more important with is she's competent to follow my lead and be moldable to what I want.
	Men want younger women.
	I'm 33 years old.
	I'll be damned if I date a fucking 33-year-old woman.
	That's a goddamn shame.
	I wouldn't date a 33-year-old woman either.
	That's stupid.
	That's absolutely stupid.
	I wouldn't say the 33-year-old man either.
	You know why?
	Because he still wants to play games.
	He still wants to be outside.
	Did you not ask me what I wanted for a second?
	And then you're bringing it back to what you want.
	I'm just saying, what are you doing with a 25-year-old woman at 33, sir?
	He just told you as a man he wants that.
	That's what you want.
	He's not telling you what you should want.
	That's what you want.
	Yes.
	That's what you want.
	Did I not say earlier, men between 18 and 60 prefer women between 18 and 24 and found them the most attractive?
	Okay.
	Period.
	How much older is your guy than you?
	He's 50.
	And you're 34, so that's a 16-year age difference.
	Yes.
	What?
	I'm surprised you didn't...
	Do you realize you just proved my point for me before?
	What I'm saying...
	No, I'm trying to prove a point that me at 34 is not the girl at 24.
	So I get the age dynamic.
	I'm not disagreeing that...
	Listen to what I'm saying to you.
	Older men love younger women.
	Yes, that is a fact.
	But when you start talking about what age and how much younger and when does the age gap start?
	So what I'm saying is, you being a 21-year-old girl dating a 35-year-old man, it's a little scary to me because I'm like, she ain't got nothing at 21.
	She can't bring nothing to the table.
	Men don't care about that.
	Okay.
	At 21, I don't know shit.
	At 21, I'm still learning.
	I'm telling you, I'm around a lot of younger women.
	They still don't even really know how to clean their pussy right.
	I'm 21.
	You just learned how to clean your pussy right.
	No, babe.
	You're wrong.
	You just learned how to clean.
	You're letting niggas nut in you and you're still figuring out how to clean your pussy out right now.
	Maybe that was you.
	I'm telling you for sure.
	You don't know nothing about it.
	You don't know shit about living at 21.
	At all.
	Girls are still shacking up with these niggas.
	You know nothing about it.
	I have my own crib.
	My own car.
	That you rent.
	That you should.
	That you rent.
	So you shouldn't.
	You shouldn't generalize like that.
	At 21, you're still learning how to exist in the world.
	You're always learning.
	At 35, I'ma still be learning.
	You are.
	You are.
	At 34, I'm owning.
	You understand what I'm saying?
	But I'm owning.
	I'm not spending $7,000 in rent.
	You understand what I'm saying?
	My man doesn't care about my money.
	You know what I'm saying?
	Nor does any man that I've ever been with care about my money.
	So why are you arguing for being competent at being a boss and stuff?
	But I'm also saying, now that I'm a 34-year-old woman, I have to think back when I was 21, dating these older men.
	Like, what the fuck did you want from me?
	Except for some wet mouth and pussy.
	She called it.
	You were doing things that she was not doing.
	And she's 22, right?
	21.
	Most girls aren't selling pussy at 21.
	I wasn't selling pussy at 21.
	Maybe at 22 you were selling it.
	I don't know.
	Not all young girls.
	I didn't get any shit.
	You don't shit.
	But not all young girls are dumb.
	It's simple.
	Make better choices.
	Goddamn.
	I love it.
	I don't know if y'all caught this.
	She asked me what men want, etc.
	I answered it and then she brought it back to what she wants.
	I'm not saying that.
	I'm just saying I can only think of when I was 21 dating a 33-year-old man.
	What the fuck did he want?
	No, no, no.
	Forget yourself for a second.
	Other people have different experiences.
	We're just saying, generally speaking, a man of means that's 35, 33, whatever that age is, plus 30, he wants peace of mind and clarity.
	So guess what?
	Come home from work, long day, he don't want to hear.
	Babe!
	He wants to hear.
	You know what?
	Who's on the table?
	How was your day?
	And then be quiet the rest of the time.
	I don't think younger women are like that at all.
	I don't think so either.
	I think younger women, people who are even younger than me, are so much more talkative and so much more self-aware.
	Hold on, hold on.
	But younger women are more coachable where you can tell them, look, I need you to be quiet.
	I don't really want to talk right now.
	Whatever.
	I don't agree at all.
	Hold on, hold on, hold on.
	The younger woman will be like, no, fuck you.
	Are you a man and you date younger women?
	What's that?
	Oh, no, obviously I'm not.
	Then be quiet.
	What the fuck?
	Like, yo, how are you going to tell a guy who's old?
	Because I'm a young woman.
	And I'm telling you right now that I will not...
	And you're single, bitch!
	Shut the fuck up!
	Like, really, like, you're single, and you're telling him something, he's telling you something, and you keep talking, that's why you're single!
	I mean, I'm just saying, like, you're not a man dealing with dating younger women, so...
	No offense, but your opinion is irrelevant.
	And I love how all you guys are trying to speak as, men should this, men should that, I think men this.
	Y'all are all wrong.
	You guys don't know.
	And the reason why you don't know is because men are rarely honest with women.
	Because when they do, you say the dumb shit that y'all are saying right now.
	Y'all don't know what the fuck.
	What the fuck you're talking about when it comes to what men want?
	We want you to be quiet.
	We don't give a fuck about your job.
	We don't care about your education.
	We don't care about you being cultured.
	None of that shit.
	We want a girl that's not gonna be a whore.
	Not gonna embarrass me when I walk out in public.
	Not gonna dress like a slut and make me look like fucking shit.
	Not be a former sex worker.
	We want a girl that's gonna be quiet, docile, feminine, submissive.
	Follow my program.
	Get a dog then, because we are people, bro, capable of making mistakes and repenting later and growing and being different.
	Get a dog if you want someone to follow and listen all the time.
	Yeah, my past, my past.
	Can I finish my point?
	Yeah.
	So, anyway, that's what men typically want in a girl.
	We don't care about your opinions or how you guys view the world.
	Men in general don't care about these things because men and women live vastly different lives.
	Women live life on easy mode.
	Men live life on super hard mode.
	I'm not saying I'm a whore, but I know a lot of men who have married girls with an extensive past.
	Is she that girl now?
	No.
	And I'm not going to name any names, but I can name some very, very, very celebrity, celebrity couples who have been together years.
	Then they end.
	No, they're still together.
	Some, but all...
	Celebs are rare.
	This is crazy.
	I'm telling you what men in general want, and you guys are arguing with me about what men want, but if you guys told me what women want, I wouldn't argue with you when you said, I want a guy that's competent.
	I want a guy that makes money.
	I want a guy that's successful.
	I want a guy that's a leader.
	I want a guy that can listen to me.
	I want an intellectual.
	Have you noticed?
	Hold on, hold on.
	No, no, no.
	Stop.
	Notice how when you guys said what you want and a man, we didn't say shit.
	We said, cool.
	That is what women want.
	Women want competence.
	They want height.
	They want income.
	We didn't shame you guys for what you wanted.
	But when I say what I want, why?
	You want a stupid girl?
	You want a girl that's just not uncoached or not educated?
	She can't even wipe or pussy clean.
	Like, dumb shit.
	Like, why is it that what a man wants is always demonized, but what you guys want, we don't do anything.
	Yes, because earlier you literally did do that.
	You came at me for saying what I wanted.
	I told you, I said, I don't look for a bunch of money in a guy.
	I literally said, I want this and that.
	And you were like, no, no, you don't.
	And then you literally went on in the exact same way.
	I said, women in general want X, Y, Z, and that might not necessarily be reflected on what you want.
	The world doesn't necessarily operate on what you think.
	That's why I said it.
	That's why he asked the girls on the panel.
	And the same applies for you, though, I feel.
	What?
	Or I know, 100%.
	Same applies for you.
	What specifically applies for me?
	The way that you feel, the way that, like, your thinking and the argument that you have, like, I could say the exact same thing to you.
	You're not everyone.
	You're not every man.
	You are one man who wants a woman to be obedient, who wants a woman to listen and tuck her tail between her legs and just be a good girl.
	Okay, you know what?
	How about this?
	We got 20,000 plus people watching.
	How about I ask them?
	Because they're a bunch of dudes watching, right?
	Yeah.
	Go for it.
	And they can actually say what the hell they want to say without necessarily...
	But the guys watching your podcast are the guys that will obviously agree with you.
	That's the reason they're on the podcast.
	No, they hate for us.
	They hate me.
	I just want to leave your 21-year-old little chick in this building for 24 hours without you and let her run around this motherfucker.
	That's all I'm saying.
	I just want to know she's coming back home at night.
	Leave her in the elevator.
	I don't understand what you're trying to say.
	She's going to run wild and do crazy stuff.
	Exactly.
	Which she doesn't, by the way.
	Okay.
	Anyway.
	Guys, give me a one in the chat if you guys agree with what I'm saying.
	Give me a two in the chat if you guys agree with the ladies here on what they're trying to say.
	Let's see what they say.
	We got two chats.
	We got YouTube.
	We got Rumble.
	One.
	Because since girls think that I'm not speaking for men, I am speaking for men.
	That's why we've been able to build this audience that we have because we're telling y'all what men really want.
	But women don't want to accept what men want for some odd reason.
	I don't know.
	Bunch of ones.
	Let's not generalize in this table, Habibi.
	Listen, we were talking about what you wanted, not about what men...
	Yeah, some men like older women.
	But they agree with me.
	Or women their age.
	Because they watch you and they're your fans and they agree with you because you're like one of the only people who like have these opinions publicly and they can like...
	Publicly.
	Keyword.
	Opinions.
	Publicly.
	Most women can't say this stuff publicly.
	Yeah, they can.
	Because they get attacked like y'all are doing right now.
	It's cool.
	They get shamed.
	We're doing entertainment.
	It's crazy.
	Oh, wow.
	I'm dating a guy.
	I'm not dating.
	Well, you're smashing a guy that believes what we're saying and is telling you to your face the truth, but you can't even realize it.
	Wait, wait.
	He doesn't believe what you're saying.
	I'm just saying that he does have opinions that do combat mine.
	You know what I'm saying?
	And we've had conversations where I've listened to him and his point of view and been like, okay, yeah, I can totally see that.
	Take away the sex.
	He's gone.
	Let's move on.
	I'm just saying.
	I'm being honest.
	I'm being honest.
	Alright.
	You know what?
	I have a headache.
	And you were saying something before?
	I don't know.
	You were doing something like this.
	I don't know.
	Nope, I wasn't saying anything.
	We're way past that.
	I've got some more here.
	Girl in the middle walked into the weave shop and said, give me the Miss Frizzle.
	He thought he ate.
	Aventus Addict says, it's okay.
	I get the strawberry acai lemonade, which is the second fruitiest drink on the menu behind yours.
	Come on, bruh.
	He's like a little pride flag too.
	Don't get married, fellas.
	Look how foolish these women are.
	What the duties are supposed to be.
	Hit it and forever quit it, I think he means to say.
	I handle my duties.
	My dog says, you'd expect granny to know better with her age, but she also do look like she got an extra chromosome.
	What?
	What the fuck?
	Yeah, big ass clit that you'd love to suck.
	Oh, nigga.
	Chain next to the ghetto Miss Frizzle talking masculine as fuck.
	Because she obviously has heavy...
	DNA with that facial structure.
	These are the same men that will be in my DMs later.
	Like, what's up, mom?
	What's going on?
	Wifegirl got sold to Dream.
	Yeah, pretty much.
	Yeah, but remember, if they're in their DMs, guys, DMs doesn't mean...
	That means they want to fuck, man.
	Like...
	Okay.
	Yeah, it does mean that, huh?
	Raw Dog 17.
	To the chick next to Fresh, I guess you've never heard of a poll besides the one in a strip club.
	You don't need to literally ask everyone to get a general consensus.
	These gentlemen have interviewed a good sample size to help make the general statements they have.
	That's for you.
	Do you have anything you want to say back to him?
	Negative.
	Okay.
	Having bans is a key indicator she's a feminist that's arguing to argue.
	Question for the ladies.
	If someone breaks in the home, would you want to handle it or would you rather your man handle it?
	Oh.
	Is that chick with the bangs?
	Would you rather handle it or would you want your guy to handle it since things are equal between you guys?
	Maybe on Wednesday he could deal with the intruder, you deal with him on Friday?
	Whoever's closest to a weapon, I guess.
	If a guy breaks in, I'm there.
	I'm shooting him, my man's shooting.
	You crazy.
	I mean, if he's strong, if the guy that I happen to be with at that time is stronger than me, you know, I feel like he would have a better chance.
	Obviously him.
	But if you're stronger than him, though, then it would be me!
	Whoever has a better chance at handling it.
	Whoever got a better shot!
	Yeah, whoever has the better shot at it.
	Who got the better shot?
	Huh?
	Two big Tyrones.
	Do you know, uh, run?
	I don't have to have strength.
	I just gotta have good aim with that pistol.
	Okay, precious dog says, chick with the bangs arguing with a millionaire, like if she got the cup size for it.
	Oh no.
	Okay.
	One dollar says, Aisha, I thought my joke was so funny that they called me to the office to repeat it.
	What?
	Next!
	A dollar?
	Come on, give some more.
	You didn't pay enough to give a comment.
	Ladies on the show, here's the end of the show.
	We want to hear your opinions and last thoughts on the show.
	Of course, we'll start here and work our way around.
	Thoughts on the show, hate, love it, comments, questions.
	I think it's topics that need to be talked about.
	However, don't attack us so much.
	How do we attack the truth?
	Attack on the truth.
	I don't know, because we have different opinions, so I can't say what's true or not.
	Well, how did we attack her?
	What wasn't true that made you feel attacked?
	I think...
	Well, I didn't get personally attacked.
	However, you did attack my counterpart over here.
	Man, she's stupid.
	What did we attack her about?
	I think you guys don't really see eye to eye.
	You called me dumb.
	You said I was incompetent and like...
	Stupid!
	I never actually said that.
	Yes, you did.
	Yeah, you did.
	To you?
	Yes, yeah.
	And you were naming all these...
	Yep, you did.
	I totally commented.
	You guys don't see eye to eye.
	When did I say you were incompetent?
	Yeah, you did.
	I heard it.
	Did I specifically say, you are incompetent?
	Yes, you were naming things about me that were trying to devalue me and make me feel like...
	Such as?
	The point you were making was that I don't deserve to be valued or respected, and one of the things you said was like, Oh yeah, your point was, I believe if I'm not wrong, when I brought up if I met a man and then a man met a man, he'd obviously take him seriously.
	And you brought up that I would actually have the chance to earn respect even though I'm incompetent, I have a pass, even though this and that, I would still get the opportunity.
	That was the point you made.
	But don't take it personally, but I'm saying that's kind of one way you were attacking me.
	No, I said that you would at least get the opportunity to earn the respect, whereas other men wouldn't even get the opportunity.
	Just re-watch the sentence.
	I know what I said, and I'm telling you that I said that at least you get, because you said, we don't get respect.
	I said, at least you get the opportunity to meet the man to earn the respect, whereas the other guy, a regular guy, wouldn't even get the opportunity.
	That was a different part, but you did when you were making the point.
	No, you just rewatch it.
	I'm not kidding.
	I'm being completely serious.
	I know what you said.
	In an example sense, he's saying if you were these things, even so, you got the chance to be respected.
	As men, we don't.
	And then also I said that men are not going to respect.
	I said men also aren't going to respect if you come from sex work.
	That's what I said as well.
	But remember you were saying that I couldn't speak right?
	You were like, you can't articulate a sentence.
	That's true, though.
	You failed a bunch of times to articulate a sentence.
	That's a fact.
	It's my first podcast.
	I'm nervous, okay?
	I'm sorry.
	Okay, because that changed the fact that you weren't able to articulate yourself.
	Oh, yeah, I totally couldn't, but it doesn't mean that I can't articulate a sentence.
	It means in that situation, I failed.
	My bad.
	I fumbled.
	Just like you hesitate.
	Well, I never said you were incompetent.
	I just said you weren't able to articulate a sentence.
	You did rewatch it.
	You said that you said it.
	You are beautiful.
	I know.
	I know.
	And I'm just confident.
	She's dangerous, bro.
	She's dangerous, man.
	Seriously, this is a good podcast that these are conversations that need to be had.
	It is.
	Whenever you don't see eye to eye with somebody, it'll be nice to try and understand a little bit.
	No, I do understand.
	She was incorrect.
	She said, I feel this way, but that's not representative of women in general because women in general don't want to equal partnership.
	That's what the conversation was.
	Okay.
	So, I mean, like, is that wrong?
	I mean, I... You're not.
	You made good points.
	What I'm saying is...
	So don't tell her views is what you're saying.
	No, that's not what I'm saying.
	Try to understand her.
	And speak to me in a constructive way.
	If you feel like the way you think is...
	Shut up, bitch!
	...if I have to learn from you, then sit and, like, explain why you think that way and, like, let's have, like, a conversation.
	I'm totally open to hearing your point of view.
	No, you're not.
	But when you yell at me and, like, you become rude, that's when you get the reaction that you often get.
	The gaslighting is crazy.
	So what am I gaslighting about?
	Number one, nobody yelled at you.
	Number two, I explained to you very succinctly why you were incorrect.
	Your argument was, well, not all women want a guy that's a leader.
	And I said, well, in general, women actually do.
	And then you went back and you attributed what I said as if I was only...
	And then you said, actually, no.
	You attributed yourself to the example.
	I said, women in general, not all.
	You said, well, I don't think that way.
	And I'm like, that's you.
	Fantastic.
	But a majority of women actually want the opposite.
	Yeah, and my argument was, how do you know the majority of women, you haven't spoke to even 1% of the women in the world?
	Spoken to a lot of sample size.
	Yeah, of women in this industry.
	And there's studies online that prove our facts.
	Okay, let's move on.
	I've spoken to almost 3,000 girls.
	You don't believe that?
	Cool.
	I gave you a study before where women prefer men make 56% more money than they do in general, especially when they're college educated.
	Then, I told you biology.
	Women in general want a guy that's better than them because it's from a protective resource.
	I need a guy that's stronger than me, can make more money than me, has resources, etc.
	It's been that way since the beginning of time.
	Why is it that there's millionaire men that will go ahead and marry a chick that works at Hooters, but a chick that's a millionaire would never look at a dude that works at Hooters?
	Women since the beginning of time have married men across or above hierarchies.
	Because men are horny and y'all just like, y'all want someone super young and little and submissive and that's why y'all go for that.
	As a woman, like, I, I, even with my friends, I surround myself with people I look up to and I respect.
	Because I want to surround myself with people that I can learn from.
	Notice how I gave you facts?
	Yeah.
	And now you're deflecting the facts.
	Do you see what happened here?
	Totally.
	I gave you the facts of why women want a day up, and instead of refuting what I said, you said, that's because X, Y, Z. But it doesn't change the fact that I'm correct.
	When this is done, rewatch this and look at yourself talking back to him.
	Instead of refuting what I said with another fact, all you did was say, well that's because, which makes my point even stronger, XYZ. Your facts aren't facts.
	It's just opinions you have that you're saying are facts.
	But yours are opinions as well.
	What is the difference between an opinion and a fact?
	Come on, you're smart.
	An opinion is how you feel and a fact is something that you can prove.
	Something that is real no matter what, no matter how anyone feels.
	You are saying...
	So did I not just give you a bunch of different examples of how women date above hierarchy?
	We're just beating a dead horse.
	Let's move on.
	Wait, no, no.
	Are you being serious right now?
	Yes, 100%.
	We are beating a dead horse.
	You know what I'm saying and you're choosing to make me look stupid for your podcast.
	I understand, okay?
	We're beating a dead horse.
	No.
	Let's move on with questions.
	No one made you look stupid.
	You're doing it to yourself.
	Yeah, you are.
	We bring girls back.
	Yeah, there's a difference between an opinion and a fact.
	A fact is something that can be independently verified and is the truth.
	Okay.
	Regardless, an opinion is something that could also be factual but might not necessarily be true.
	So what I'm saying is not my opinion.
	This is a fact.
	Since the beginning of time, women have almost always made it upwards.
	Men have made it downwards.
	Or at least across.
	Okay.
	So that's what I'm trying to say.
	That's why you were incorrect in what you said before.
	Like, I feel like I wouldn't want a guy that's equal.
	Cool.
	But that's not most women.
	That's your personal experience.
	But most women want a guy that's better than them.
	And here's the thing, too.
	This is why you could go ahead and say, I didn't like the way that you talked to me, blah, blah, blah.
	That's fine.
	I'm very direct and I'm very concise and I say what the hell it is and I don't care how you feel.
	I'm telling you the truth.
	This is the difference between men and women.
	Men speak directly and say the truth regardless of how it might make them feel.
	You're probably not used to this because you don't, I don't know, guys want to fuck you, they don't tell you the truth, or maybe you communicate with a bunch of women, which women tend to beat around the bush and not necessarily be as direct because of their feelings.
	I'm telling you what it is.
	Now you're saying, oh, we're attacked.
	I'm not attacking you, I'm attacking your argument.
	That's the difference.
	If you say some stupid shit, I'm going to call you and say, that's not true.
	That's a lie.
	And if you want to defend it, come with facts.
	Come with facts.
	Don't sit there and say, well, that's because X, Y, Z, blah, blah, blah.
	Instead of repeating my argument, you deflect it and you say something else that proves my point even more.
	You know what?
	Today, I feel like I'm a lawnmower today.
	Vroom, vroom.
	Next time we need, like, articles, so we can cite stuff.
	I mean, do a research, man.
	Maybe we didn't come prepared.
	Do a research.
	Whose fault is that?
	Well, she probably didn't know what the...
	No, no, no, no, no.
	But you're defending her.
	Whose fault is it if you're not prepared to discuss a topic?
	Come on.
	And you're talking out your ass.
	I'm just saying that I'm defending her, yes, because obviously she's not on the same page as you, so understand that.
	And whose fault is that?
	Well, it's her fault.
	If I don't know something, I'm going to keep my mouth shut and listen to someone that knows more than me.
	You're right!
	So stop just going back and forth with her.
	Hey, listen, it's our podcast.
	No, she's an intellectual.
	She is.
	Don't diss her.
	Don't ever do that to her, okay?
	You're right.
	She's one of us.
	Yo, why are you so funny?
	Y'all are funny.
	Period.
	Play with her, sis.
	She's the one.
	We are all intellectual people.
	She's that nigga.
	Relax.
	Period.
	I learned a lot from the podcast.
	Very traditional, so I do agree with a lot of what you've said.
	Thank you for coming, by the way.
	Thank you.
	I mean, clearly I don't agree with everything, and that's fine.
	What do you not agree with?
	Just some of your views and that's okay.
	Such as?
	I don't feel like I should get into it.
	My voice isn't all prepared, but...
	No, what do you disagree with?
	We want to hear you out.
	We disagree with everything.
	Such as?
	We want to hear you out.
	Go ahead.
	I don't know.
	And that's okay.
	But I liked it.
	I feel like I learned a lot, and I would come back.
	See, here's the thing.
	You know what I'm saying is true, you just don't like how it makes you feel, so you're gonna go and sit there and say, I disagree with your points.
	Okay, so let me tell you.
	I just don't agree with how you go about it.
	Of course you know, right?
	And you're not all the way right, but you know, I guess it could be a little bit nicer.
	So you don't like the way the information was conveyed?
	Yeah.
	Alright, if I say 1 plus 1 is 2, or 1 plus 1 is fucking 2, does it change the fact that it's still 2?
	It does not.
	Okay, so a fact is a fact regardless of how it's stated, correct?
	Yeah.
	So once again, what did I say that was wrong?
	I just did not like the way that it was being said.
	There you go.
	Delivery.
	They said it was set, nigga.
	I'm sorry.
	I've not said that.
	I'm so sorry.
	So you don't like how it was set.
	That was angelic.
	Yeah, that's what I meant to say.
	But Myron, say it nicer, bro.
	I think I was very polite about it, but you guys, some of you guys were hard-headed and just couldn't understand the truth.
	I sat and listened to you, did I not?
	Yeah, but you didn't, like, could I interrupt you?
	Yeah, like, say it in a porn scene, like, Hey, what's going on, girl?
	I just want to know how you lost your voice this morning.
	I'm still, I'm curious.
	TMI! TMI, okay.
	I really love you guys.
	When I say I'm coming on here, you know, my followers be like, don't let them fucking talk to you.
	And I'm like, no, they don't play with me like that.
	But, I mean, when you say the truth, man, you lucky as hell you got that guy.
	I say what you want to say, but I like to say, like, you know, like the NFL and the NBA, only like 5% go.
	I'm the 5%.
	Okay.
	So I don't disagree with a lot of things you guys say, so I'm not going to sit up here and try to impose my ideology and my experiences on the way to...
	It is what it is.
	It worked for me.
	So I'm not going to say it's going to work for everybody, but I also know that I am the 5%.
	So a lot of things that have transpired in my life may not work out the same way for a lot of other young ladies.
	You are blessed.
	I am blessed.
	I'm not lucky.
	I'm blessed.
	Because you speak truth sometimes.
	Okay, go ahead.
	Sometimes.
	Nigga.
	I... I had a great time.
	Honestly, it's really interesting just hearing opinions that I don't normally hear.
	I really like Justin with my boyfriend.
	That's the only person I really spend time with.
	What does he think about your OnlyFans?
	He's not my OnlyFans, so it's not...
	Oh, he's been with you?
	Yes.
	Makes sense.
	Wait, hold on.
	Did you start it with him or before him?
	No, I didn't start it with him.
	I had it before.
	Did you do other people before him?
	No, no.
	It was only you?
	Yes.
	Anyways, I really liked hearing different opinions and hearing opinions of women that I probably wouldn't normally talk to.
	So that was interesting.
	At the same time, I definitely agree with a lot of what Holiday was saying.
	I really feel like I bring a lot of those characteristics that aren't Typical and normal and I have a very dynamic, interesting life and I'm a dynamic, interesting and intelligent person.
	So I just enjoyed, you know, hearing what everyone has to say.
	So I really liked it.
	I really liked it.
	And it's like, hey, like, I enjoyed being the anomaly.
	She just dissed all y'all niggas, man.
	You funny, you funny though.
	Okay.
	What about you?
	I enjoy the podcast.
	I think I learned a lot, like, you know, hearing other people's opinions and also just seeing from...
	I think it's also good to get, like, a big perspective as a female into the male perspective.
	Because, like, you might have your own opinion at the end of the day, but, like, hearing from a male, the counterpart, like, you know what you're talking about.
	And, yeah.
	So it's, like, good because I know how I feel, but, like, it's nice to hear the opposite side.
	I can tell you're a sweetheart.
	Do you think women in general are delusional?
	Yes.
	I mean, I know I get that way sometimes, but it's just like, I speak off of personal experience sometimes and stuff like that, and off of, like, how my, I guess, from my mother as, like, a coach, I guess.
	So I would say yes.
	Yeah, I noticed that you're not along with a lot of things that we said, and you would shake your head when girls would speak.
	I mean, I was also raised by my father, and my father is very anti-feminist, so I guess that's just, I was raised.
	Who here had a strong father in their life?
	Raise of hands?
	In your life?
	Yeah, my parents are married 32 years.
	40 years.
	My dad passed away in 2015.
	That's it.
	Pre-cursor.
	He wasn't there.
	My dad passed away in 2015, so my mom's away now.
	He was in there.
	He was in there.
	I'm going to go to shop.
	I'll be back.
	What about you?
	Well, it's the second time I come, so I enjoy it.
	You spoke in a lot more than last time.
	Last time you spoke more, but you were listening a lot more.
	Today I listened a lot more, that's true.
	What have you learned coming on twice so far?
	Um...
	Mo, don't make that!
	I know!
	You know how hard that is for a woman?
	No, actually, I always enjoy listening to the different perspectives of everybody, and as long as we do it with respect, I think it's nice.
	Okay.
	To co-exist.
	Yes.
	Alright.
	Who is more right, the men or the women?
	Be honest.
	Who has more what?
	Who is more right?
	Who is more correct in their assessments?
	This conversation.
	The males or the females in this conversation?
	In this conversation particularly?
	Yes.
	Men.
	Alright, fair enough.
	Okay, we're done.
	Last but not least.
	Aw, shit.
	Okay, I know you think I'm going to say, honestly, I've enjoyed my time.
	I love a good argument.
	I'm also very passionate, so, like, yeah.
	I like to...
	You're toxic.
	You're toxic as fuck.
	No, I like to...
	Argue with people.
	It's nice sitting with a group of different people who come from different places and have different ways of thinking, come from different backgrounds, were raised differently.
	No one is born knowing everything.
	I'm here to learn from people.
	I'm gonna go home.
	I'm gonna think about a lot of what y'all said.
	Yeah, we'll go from there.
	But sitting here now, obviously, it's high energy.
	It's like, this is kind of crazy.
	So my head's not completely put together, but I've enjoyed my time.
	Is this the first time that you've had your viewpoints challenged like this?
	No.
	No, not at all.
	Who else has told you this?
	I'm not this exactly like exactly what you're saying, but similar like my my father He thinks very similar the guy I'm talking to even we've had debates like this But the thing is when we communicate it's not like it's not like this It's like I think this way.
	Here's why what do you think?
	Okay?
	Well, I think this way and then at the end of the conversation We kind of come to either a compromise or a common ground.
	Because he wants to fuck you.
	No, it's Okay, I'm sure he does, yeah.
	And if you're bad, you won't fuck him.
	That's true.
	Your dad?
	No, no, no!
	No, no, no, no!
	She said her father and the guy that she's talking to.
	God, I hate that.
	So even the men in your own life have stated some of the things that we've stated on this show today.
	No, you asked if I've ever had my opinions opposed like this.
	I have had my opinions opposed in this manner.
	You said also that they think the way that we do.
	Similar, yeah, similar.
	Totally.
	I would say they compromised.
	He didn't compromise with you.
	He told you the facts.
	They said, you know what?
	Well, maybe this might work for you.
	Yeah.
	Well, the thing that they did with me that helped was explain, like, why they felt that way in a respective tone.
	Like, we talked like we were actually trying to understand each other instead of be right.
	Like, we don't talk and have these conversations.
	No, but I'm right.
	Okay, yeah.
	Like, I'm not going to apologize for being correct.
	That's okay.
	I am correct and you were incorrect and I have no problem with saying that.
	My thing is, hey, this is what it is.
	These are the facts.
	High response to it is up to you, but regardless, I am 100% correct in what I said as far as men and women and intersexual dynamics and women wanting a guy that's better than them.
	That's an absolute fact.
	And if you notice, she got help in that sense, but it didn't help at all.
	Versus you told her facts.
	And it's incredible.
	Even the men in her life that I never met, I never spoke to, I don't know at all, have similar views.
	That's one.
	If that doesn't prove the point that men typically tend to think alike.
	Just two, just literally two of them.
	That's it.
	I don't meet many men.
	The rest will not tell you the truth because they don't care.
	Okay, to answer your question, I've had a good time.
	Period.
	I mean, what are the chances, man?
	What are the chances, right?
	Okay, but no, I think this way.
	Only I think this way.
	What else do we got here, Chris?
	Did you guys like it?
	Did y'all like this panel?
	French, what do you think?
	Be honest.
	You want the truth?
	Yeah.
	Even now?
	Yes, right now.
	From us?
	Right now.
	Well, to be fair, this panel wasn't the best panel, but it was the most, I want to say, enjoyable.
	I'll tell you why.
	No, just kidding.
	Okay, he says, Western women are just dumb, and they're expecting you to tell them that they're smart because they're feeling, feeling, feeling smart.
	Best music, 2000.
	Yikes.
	And we end with that one.
	Alright.
	So we got a show on Monday.
	Yeah, Monday.
	We got a Money Monday for y'all.
	I'm going to give you guys an update on my passive income ATM. And I'll show you guys the numbers.
	And then we're going to go ahead and have a show on Wednesday for y'all.
	We went to a couple shows on Wednesday.
	Okay, yes.
	It's going to be on Wednesday?
	Possibly.
	We'll talk about ICM and Chris.
	Yeah, we got a couple, I think, that might want to come in or two.
	So we're going to go ahead and give you all couples therapy, and then we're going to start implementing some of the new stuff next week as well.
	I'm just waiting for the props to come in.
	Hope you guys liked the video.
	I lost a bunch of hair follicles, so make sure you like the goddamn video.
	Subscribe to the channel if you haven't already.
	I got a great doctor today.
	We'll catch you guys on the next episode.

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