Debate w/ UK Feminists On Going To The Club While In A Relationship!
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Thank you.
What's up, guys?
Welcome to the Fresh Fit Podcast.
After our edition, we're joining a bunch of girls.
Let's get into it.
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Kind of fun.
In the night.
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All right, ninjas.
What's up?
Welcome to the fresh podcast after our edition.
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Yeah, I know, man.
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That's why you're saying that.
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Who knows?
We can't say that yet, but we'll see.
Okay.
Cool.
Without further ado, ladies, if you don't mind, give us your name, your age, what we do for a living, dating status, and if you want to, of course...
Your body count.
We're going to start right here.
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All right.
All right.
We'll start with you.
Hi.
Welcome back.
Hi.
I'm Megan.
I'm 20 years old.
Hey, Megan.
Yeah, I'm from Boston, and I am a medical assistant in OF4. Wait, medical?
Oh yeah.
Wait, you were on last time.
Yes, sir.
Zerka Stream.
There you go.
Yes.
Highest education level completed?
Yeah, high school, or medical assistant school.
And then relationship status?
Single.
Still?
Damn.
What about you?
My name is Charlotte.
I'm 22, and I'm currently a student.
I'm studying pre-med.
Okay.
Full-time student, right?
Yes.
Okay.
Where'd you get your...
Well, pre-med, so you're pursuing a bachelor's degree.
Yes.
Okay.
Do you want a job where you go to school?
It's up to you.
UM. Okay.
Oh, all right.
Yes, I live here now.
I'm from Boston, though, so...
Okay.
Are you actually from the city, or...?
I'm in the Gables.
No, I mean, like, in Boston.
Oh, no, I'm from a suburb.
What suburb?
Originally Weston, but I moved to Marblehead.
People are going to find me on the internet.
I lived in Boston for a good amount of time, so that's why.
They were going to find you anyway.
Yeah, Weston.
Alright, what about you?
A lot of money out there.
Haram!
What about you?
I'm Janice.
How old are you?
I'm 18.
Okay, where are you from originally?
I'm from Miami.
Okay.
Red flag.
What are you good for?
Literally.
We're literally.
I'm a veterinary assistant.
Okay.
And then, I mean, you're only 18, so I'm assuming highest education level completed is high school, or you're in your senior year or something like that?
No, high school, and I'll be attending Houston Baptist next year.
Houston what?
I'm sorry?
Houston Baptist University.
Okay, so you're going to go out to Texas?
Yes, sir.
Thank God.
Houston.
Well, Houston is in Texas.
Nah, that's it's own thing though.
Wait, what?
Wait.
That's it's own thing.
Houston.
Where's the school located?
In Houston.
She's saying Houston now.
Like Miami.
We understand.
What you're saying.
You're leaving to go to Texas, right?
To go to Houston.
Right.
Houston's a city in Texas though.
Like Miami.
It's its own thing.
It's nothing like Miami.
What?
It's nothing like Houston.
What the fuck?
You been to Houston?
I have.
You've been to the camp?
I've been to Houston many times.
That's why I know.
I actually lived in Texas for a while, too.
You've lived everywhere.
Well, okay.
Anyway, all right.
I'm just happy that she's leaving.
Yeah, I'm still so lost.
But okay, we'll continue on.
What about you?
My name is Janelle.
Hey y'all!
I'm from New York.
How old are you, Janelle?
I'm 21.
Okay, and are you from the city or what part of New York are you from?
I'm from Brooklyn.
Oh, okay.
Period.
Period.
Do you still live there or are you just visiting?
No, I just moved to Miami, but I moved to Miami from Georgia like three weeks ago.
What made you move here?
I just got my degree, so I just wanted to start somewhere new.
I went to school in Atlanta, so I don't want to live there anymore.
So, childhood, high school, New York City, and then you went to Georgia College?
No, I went to high school in Georgia.
I went to high school in Georgia, college in Georgia, and now I just graduated and I moved out here.
Okay, because you don't really sound like you're from New York, so that's why you have a more southern accent.
So I would say you're probably more likely...
Don't say that.
So New York and Georgia.
And then what do you do for work?
I'm an accountant.
Okay.
Do you have your CPA or not yet?
No, I'm working on it.
I'm getting my masters and I'm working on my CPA. Okay.
And you got a BA, I'm assuming, in accounting?
Yeah.
Where'd you get it from?
Georgia State University.
Okay.
Okay.
Is that the Bulldogs or no?
No, but that's UGA. That's in Athens.
Okay.
And then what's your relationship status?
I'm single, but I got a man that ain't my man.
What?
I'm single, but I'm not single, but I got a man and he's not my man.
He ain't my man, but he my man though.
Can you do me one favor real quick?
Can you say the word music?
Music.
Okay.
I just want to hear it.
No problem.
Why that word?
Music.
Yeah, because it sounds like that normally.
Music.
Okay.
Alright.
What about you?
Hi, I'm Mindy.
I'm 18 years old.
I'm from Boston, Massachusetts.
I'm from Boston, Massachusetts and I do OnlyFans.
And my highest level of education is high school.
Okay.
Relationship status?
Single.
Welcome back.
Okay.
I'm not even going to...
I'm not even going to ask.
Okay.
What about you?
My name's Lauren.
We'll get into it later.
My name's Lauren.
I'm 29.
It's Lauren, you said?
Lauren, yeah.
Okay, Lauren.
I'm 29.
Sorry, Herodot.
Okay.
Where are you from?
I'm from Birmingham in the UK. Okay.
And I am a practitioner, so I do, like, lip fillers, Botox.
Okay.
Couldn't tell.
I would say, like, esthetician, basically?
Yeah.
Okay.
And you do that here in the United States or back in London?
Sorry, back in Birmingham.
Birmingham.
Okay.
I'm assuming you're here on vacation?
Yeah.
Okay.
And then, highest education level completed?
Well, like, medical.
Okay.
It's different in the UK compared to what you have here.
I was going to ask, so do you have a bachelor's degree?
Do you have a trade degree?
Yeah, like trade.
Okay, so you went to esthetician school.
Yeah, yeah.
Okay.
How long is that in England?
I've been doing it for seven years now.
But how long is the schooling?
Oh, so for training.
I was training for probably about three years.
Okay.
Cool.
And then what's your relationship status?
Single, but kind of seeing someone.
And you're in Miami?
He's in Miami.
Okay, you came to visit him.
Yeah.
Makes sense.
Okay, all right.
So, okay.
I won't even, okay.
What about you?
Hi, I'm Sky.
I'm 24 from Birmingham in the UK. Let me guess, you guys are friends.
Yeah.
I knew it!
That's crazy, right?
Dang, I'll pull them together, man.
What do you do for it?
I'm a teeth whitening specialist.
Okay, so you guys work in the same place, I'm assuming?
Yeah, we do.
Okay, so you do more of the skin and lip stuff and she does the teeth?
Yeah, we're like a power duo.
Okay, so it's like...
Between us, we do the whole face.
Is it like a beauty spa, basically?
It's our hairdressers.
Yeah.
Okay, all right.
So, teeth whitener.
Okay, and then, what's your highest education...
Same thing, esthetician school, I'm guessing, like her?
Yeah.
Okay.
Is that also three years for teeth, or...?
Well, I did Three Years Shining, yeah.
Okay.
And then relationship status?
Single, but there's someone in the picture.
It's very early days.
Yeah, what's going on?
Sounds so familiar.
It's very early days.
Is he here in Miami or is he in the UK? No, he's in the UK. Oh, she's single now.
Okay.
What about you?
I'm Miranda.
I'm 22.
I'm from Boston.
I got deja vu when she said that name.
Everybody from Boston.
I don't know whose other Miranda's where it's at.
Are you actually from the city or are you from like Weston?
I was born in the city, but I grew up in the suburbs.
Weston?
No.
Where?
Quincy.
Oh, okay, yeah.
Red line right there.
Yeah.
Okay, I'll put Boston.
Okay, then what do you do for work?
I do OnlyFans.
Oh, what?
Goddamn.
I'm in college right now, too.
Do you want to drop or go to school?
No, I don't.
It's not BU, right?
No.
Okay, nice.
Northeastern?
I'm not saying where it is, but it's not that either.
Alright.
Every other school sucks then.
Okay, and then what's your relationship status?
I'm single.
Okay.
We could tell.
What about you?
My name's Kyria.
I'm 20.
I'm in a relationship.
Welcome back.
Thank you.
Oh my god!
Oh my goodness.
I'm so sorry.
Bruh.
I'm so sorry.
It's too early, bruh.
I'm really nervous.
I'm sorry.
You've been on before.
Why are you nervous?
Get us in towels.
Pick up your mic.
You got some dick in there?
All right.
Icy got it.
Yeah, Icy got it.
It's fine.
Gang, gang.
Where are you originally from?
Put the mic close to you.
Sorry.
I grew up here in South Florida in the Plantation Davie area.
And then I moved to New York for three years and I just recently moved back.
What I do for a living, I do a couple different things.
I'm an office manager, a home influencer on TikTok and Instagram.
It's like cleaning and cleaning tips and just stuff like that and decor.
Speaking of cleaning tips, is she cleaning right?
And I also have a podcast of my own.
Oh, what's it about?
It's called Scripture Unscripted.
I have a co-host and it's basically just like we hit record and we talk about modern day struggles for women who feel more resonated with the traditional way of life and just validating the fact that they shouldn't feel guilty for wanting to be a stay-at-home mom and wanting a man to provide and using the scripture to basically guide them.
That's awesome.
What's that on?
Fighting the fight for us.
Shout out to you.
Alright.
What's your highest education level?
I'm in college.
In college right now?
You're pursuing your bachelor's?
Yes.
What are you majoring?
I'm majoring in finance, but I'm trying to switch it.
Mostly because I don't really see myself in the corporate world in the future anymore.
I just think I'm switching to something to work with kids, an education type of degree, just because I want to homeschool my kids in the future.
And what's your relationship status?
You said you are in a relationship, right?
How long have you been together?
On and off for three years.
So we were together for two and then we broke up for like a six month period.
Why?
What'd you do?
I didn't do anything.
We met when we were really young and it just wasn't working out.
I was on a different projection in life and so was he.
And what I want out of a relationship is for both of us to be working towards a common goal rather than us living our separate lives.
I wanted us to be like a we rather than individually.
Chris.
No, she wanted the opposite actually, Chris.
And basically, I just wanted to make sure that he knew who he was before we were getting like super serious.
I felt like he was a little enmeshed in me and I wanted to make sure that he still had his passions and his personality and everything.
So I gave him some space and then we got back together like six months later.
Who decided to have the space, you or him?
Who wanted the space more, you or him?
Both of us.
No, no, no.
Somebody wanted more.
Was it him or you?
Who suggested it?
Who brought it up?
I did.
Okay, you wanted some dick.
No, but that's just because we were spending all of our time together.
We were each other's only...
I get it.
I didn't feel suffocated at all.
I didn't feel suffocated at all.
It's just...
I really want...
What I really wanted out of my relationship...
It felt like I was leading the relationship.
I wanted someone to lead me.
And I wanted someone to set the foundation of our relationship.
I wanted...
Someone who knew, you know, had a relationship with God.
I wanted someone who could provide for me in the future.
And if he can't provide any of that, then I'm going to tell him that, you know, it's not working out.
Like, I don't really waste my time with that kind of thing.
But he really wanted me, so he fixed it.
How much have you ever played?
No, Chris.
Oh, shit.
I'm sure we'll probably go into that a bit more.
Goddamn!
Okay, you said you're a college student.
What do you major in?
Finance, right now.
No, not you.
What do you major in?
Oh, I'm going for nursing.
I'm currently also a medical assistant.
I forgot to say that.
Okay, nursing.
What about you?
Hi, I'm Paola.
I was born in Boston.
I lived all my life in Venezuela.
Welcome back.
How old are you?
I'm 30 years old.
Wait, 30?
You said you're originally from Boston?
Yeah, I was born there.
Did you go to high school and stuff there?
No, I lived until I was two years old and I went to Venezuela and that's why I have my accent.
Okay, alright, so you grew up in Venezuela mostly.
Yeah, and I moved here eight years ago.
Okay, so you're an American citizen living in Venezuela.
Exactly.
Okay, what do you do for work?
I'm an engineer in a medical device company.
Okay.
And I went to school for industrial engineering.
Do you have your BA in it?
Bachelor in science.
Okay.
And then do you have a master's degree too or no?
No.
Okay.
But you're an engineer for a medical device company.
Yeah.
Where'd you get your bachelor's degree from?
In Venezuela.
Okay.
Yeah.
So basically it doesn't count.
Well, it does count.
At least I got the experience.
That's what you need to get into the industry.
I have in pharmaceutical and medical devices.
Okay, good.
Good for you.
Okay.
And then what's your relationship status?
Single.
All right.
And did your job accept the credit?
I'm assuming they accepted the credits from the Venezuelan university?
Yeah.
Okay.
I don't know why they take more into consideration the experience and if they like you, actually.
Okay.
Foreign degrees usually don't bear the same weight.
Yeah, but that's why.
But was your school maybe American accredited?
Was that why?
Was it like an American university in Venezuela?
I'm not sure.
I'm not sure.
Okay.
All right.
I mean, I know because, like, they typically get their degree down there.
They try to get a job here and they're like, that degree doesn't count for anything.
It's not the same, but...
So that's it.
Okay, but you said you had job experience, right?
Yeah.
Eight years of experience, so not bad.
Okay.
All right.
Cool.
So, guys, as you guys know, it's Friday, so that means we're going to go ahead and read some of the chats here.
Yes.
And we'll go ahead and get what you guys want to ask.
So we got a diverse panel of ladies here.
A lot of girls from Boston, some girls from the UK. Very, very diverse.
Some girls from Miami, some girls from Georgia.
Can we start with the...
Streamlabs?
Yeah, FNF. Guys, it's FNFSuperChat.com to go ahead and get involved.
So, what do we got here?
We got...
Oh shit, 100 bucks.
Shout out to you, bro.
God bless y'all and keep pushing forward.
Thank you so much, John.
I appreciate that.
Thank you.
Thank you.
All the way from Japan.
Shout out to you, my friend.
Guys, go subscribe to his YouTube channel.
We got Options Theta, 100 bucks.
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FNF Great Pod.
Ladies, would you rather be a stay-at-home mom or be a breadwinner?
Please explain why.
And then work our way back around.
It's a simple yet very good question.
Would you rather be a stay-at-home mom or a breadwinner?
I definitely want to be a stay-at-home mom because when I have my kids, I want to be the one that raises them and be able to teach them the values.
Because right now, society is pretty crazy, so I want to raise my kids.
And if you found that man today, would you stop your career to stay home?
Yeah, definitely.
Cool.
Okay.
What about you?
We know your answer.
I definitely want to be a stay-at-home mom.
That's my sole aspiration in life.
And back on my relationship topic, I guess, that's the main reason why I'm trying to switch my major from finance and don't really want to be in the corporate world anymore.
Because even though he doesn't make more money than me, like we make the same amount of money right now, I did end up leaving my corporate job at a law firm to work with children as of right now.
And I stopped school.
I'm about to transfer again into another major that would help me be a better mother just because, you know, a degree is kind of a necessity in this day and age.
But I feel like...
Debatable, but that's okay.
Yeah, I feel like if you find the right man, then you would...
I don't know.
Hold on.
Never mind.
Forget that.
So stay-at-home mom.
What about you?
Stay-at-home mom for sure.
I don't know why you would choose otherwise.
That seems like the dream job for a woman, honestly.
Only if the man can provide, obviously.
If you can't provide for me, then obviously I have to do the work.
But I'm not going to be with a man anyway if he's like that.
So if you met a guy that can, I want to say, meet all your needs, would you start OnlyFans?
Of course.
What about you?
I'm 100% a stay-at-home mum.
The stress of being a breadwinner is not fun.
What about you?
I mean, I am a mum and I'm a working mum.
I'm just really lucky to be in a position where I'm self-employed so I can manage the balance between being a mom and being able to go to work.
And I'm really lucky that even though I didn't work out with my ex, he's a really good dad and he has her half the week and I have her half the week and you know she goes to nursery but like on my days off I'm not working I have her all the time so I get to have that balance and I think...
For me, I wouldn't want my business to be taken away.
I still want to be able to provide for my child if I haven't got a man.
But if you had the choice of being a stay-at-home mom or a breadwinner, which one would you choose?
A breadwinner.
Okay.
What about you?
I'd say stay-at-home mom for sure.
Okay, what about you?
I would say stay-at-home mom, but I would never just rely solely on my husband.
I would always have a backup, but I would find probably a husband who could invest in me or take my own money that I've been making over the years to invest in the business, but I would never just trust a man.
Exactly, because we always need something to fall back on.
Yeah, I agree.
I would say stay-at-home mom, but I'm still going to do something from home.
Independent boss babe, yeah.
Yeah, I'll still do something from home for sure.
You go queen.
Yeah.
Period.
That's just niggas.
Alright, what about you?
I want to be the breadwinner because I don't want nobody telling me what to do and how to go when it comes down to it.
Because, you know, people get stingy with the money.
It's true.
You can't buy that.
Don't do that.
That's why you have to find a man that will do it.
That's why you have to find Yeah, don't tolerate less.
You deserve more.
Yeah, a lot more.
Okay, go ahead.
I definitely want to make all the money.
Not all the money, of course.
I want my husband to also have a job and make money with me, but I want to have my own job.
So you do want to be the breadwinner?
Yeah, absolutely.
Stay at home, mother.
Okay.
So we got three girls that want to be the breadwinner and seven of y'all that want to be...
Stay home moms.
Stay home moms.
Okay.
Interesting.
All right.
Where are we at, Chris?
What?
Oh, okay.
X Enterprise.
Goes, uh, two bucks.
FNF, I'm 18 and I have a business online I work hard on.
Since you guys say men should go out and deal with women, at what age are you referring to?
Sometimes I get anxious and want to go out and meet women, but that will damage my business.
What do I do?
Bro, you always have time to go out and talk to girls.
You just gotta prioritize the business and making money first.
Yes, that comes first.
Question for ladies.
Can you make me a sandwich, preferably with no mayo, American cheese, and lettuce?
And that's from Kendall Lawson.
I appreciate that, Kendall.
Ladies, how would your friends describe you?
That's from IRS. That's not bad, actually.
We can start here and then work our way.
How would your friends describe you?
Make it simple, probably in one word, right?
Two words.
Two words.
To describe yourself from your friends.
Cheerful and motivational.
I thought I was going to say big tits.
That too.
I have no idea.
What?
I literally have no idea.
Okay, if you were your friends, what would you say about yourself?
How would you decide yourself?
My mind is the end of a Minecraft world.
I have no idea.
It's just blank.
Okay.
I'm sorry.
Alright.
What about you?
I would say...
The life of the party.
Not just in the club, but like...
Outside?
Outside.
My vibe is just, you see me, we're gonna smile, you're gonna be happy.
Independent boss, babe?
You could, that too.
Okay.
What about you?
For me, I would say it's three words.
A bad bitch.
That's how my friends would describe me.
A bad bitch.
A bad bitch.
And also, I would say...
Not bad bitch.
Just all bad bitch.
A bad bitch.
Period.
And then also, I think they would say I'm very direct.
Because I'm very blunt.
I'm from New York.
Like, I'm very direct.
You're straight up.
Soundsable, right?
Alright.
Okay, what about you?
They'd probably describe me as like crazy and caring.
Crazy and caring?
That sounds about right.
The two C's, okay.
Two opposite C's.
What about you?
I feel like my friends would probably describe me as like ADHD and like driven.
Would you say?
Yeah.
ADHD riddled.
She dreams about what she's going to talk about the next day.
Oh wow.
I love silence and she loves to talk in every space.
So I got that balance.
I'm guessing whenever you guys go out, she's the most trouble.
I'm the one that's still sat in the same seat as when we got here.
She's normally in the bathroom talking to the girls for three hours.
I'm just like handing out my business cards.
Okay.
Alright, what about you?
How would they describe you?
Wild and abrupt.
Yeah, definitely.
Wild and abrupt.
Definitely abrupt.
When you say abrupt, what do you mean by that?
Like, there's no filter.
I will tell you exactly what is in my head.
Whether you like it or not.
With, like, a really bad face.
Like, dead serious face as well.
Okay.
No play with her.
Interesting.
Alright, what about you?
My friends would probably say that I'm funny and that I keep it real with them because if they're doing something I don't like, I'll tell them straight up.
Okay, so you're very upfront as well.
Yeah, but I'm respectful about it.
I'm not gonna be like rude to them.
I'm just gonna tell them like how it is.
What if she's gonna tell your friend that she looks fat in that dress?
Yeah, I would say that dress does not look good on you or something else.
That's not...
That's what I would say.
I would say that dress looks fat in that dress.
You look fat in that dress.
You wear something else.
How about not tell that to y'all?
I feel like if you're a good friend, you've got like a 10 next to me because you're my friend.
So I'm not going to let you go looking like shit.
Exactly.
That's what I mean by keeping it real.
You help me build them up.
Period.
What about you?
I don't really have friends.
I have colleagues, but I don't have friends.
What do they call you?
You don't have any female friends or no friends at all?
I try to stay away from female friends.
I try to stray away from single girlfriends.
But if they're in a relationship or they're married, then I'll be friends with them.
But I just genuinely don't have time to prioritize my friendships over my work and my relationship right now.
Perfect.
Someone said that that's a red flag.
Was that you?
No.
That's me.
Why do you guys say that?
Well, before she explained that, I thought she was just being one of those pick-me girls.
I only like guy friends.
But then you explained it, so I got it.
No, no, I don't believe in girl and guy friendships, so no.
Do you still think it's a red flag that she doesn't have female friends?
I don't know.
I feel like I'm such a girl's girl.
So if you haven't got girlfriends, I'm like, why?
What's wrong with you?
I'm like paranoid.
I'm like, why don't they like you?
What are you going to do to me?
I love supporting women.
I always comment on Instagram on everyone I see all the time.
It's just that to go out and hang out with friends, I don't have the time for it.
But I try to support women any other way that I can.
That's it.
And no, I don't have any male friends.
Okay.
Green flag.
Do you have a lot of female friends yourself or...
Yeah, like, I've got loads of female friends and I feel like I'm, like, that, like, support system for girls.
So when, like, I find that I end up friends with girls because, like, I hate bullies and, like, I want to, like, protect people.
But then I'm like, okay, so they haven't got friends.
I want to be friends with them.
And then I'm like, shit, I realize why they haven't got friends because they're not a girl's girl, you know?
Interesting.
Okay, what about you?
How would your friends describe you?
They will say I'm a little bit crazy, but at the same time super disciplined with working out.
I don't know, I work out a lot.
Okay.
Interesting.
What's the next one?
A lot was said there.
Yeah, we're gathering some intel.
Trade one goes, question, do you girls agree that women fall in love with your ears?
If so, why would we want you when dating in clubs where we both know guys are going to want to talk to you?
I'm so confused.
Okay, he's asking, do you agree that women fall in love with their ears?
Is that true?
Raise your hand.
So, what you hear means to fall in love.
Would you say that's true?
Raise your hand.
The guy has to have game.
It has to match with what you see too, no?
Actions speak louder than words.
To be honest though, it's a little bit both for me.
I do, but I don't.
It's a little bit of both for me.
I think they do, but I think they don't want to admit that they fall in love with what they hear.
I'm not talking about myself.
I'm not saying myself, but I know that girls would fall in love with what they hear.
Okay, cool.
Second part is, if so, why would we want you to be in the clubs where you guys talk to you?
Obviously, can you hear?
Just because you're talking, don't mean that you're doing anything else.
But there's a possibility it could happen, though.
But we choose who we follow up with.
So we can choose for it to not be you.
But there's so many guys talking to you, you never know who could sway your persuasion.
I could just say no to all of them or stop them before they even talk to me.
But you don't know that...
You might like this guy.
I don't let him speak to me.
Let's get a litmus test on our group.
How many of you think it's appropriate for you to go to the club when you have a boyfriend?
How many of you think it's appropriate?
It's okay.
If he brings us there.
Ladies, just please listen to the question and respond accordingly.
How many of you think it's okay to go to the club when you have a boyfriend at home?
Raise of hands.
Okay.
Nice and high.
I want to see who it is.
Only three of y'all?
It depends on the occasion.
It really all depends.
Like if it's a friend's birthday or like, I don't know.
Okay.
You would not catch me in no club if I had a man.
Okay.
So only three of you think it's okay to go to the club when you have a man?
The rest of you don't think so?
You don't think so?
Sometimes it depends.
Okay, so for you it's yes then.
Okay, what about you?
No?
But not every day.
You guys say it's okay?
Okay, I'm going to say yes because I'm not going to say that you can never go to the club again just because you got a man.
So I'm going to say yes.
Okay, so you're saying yes.
Okay, what about you?
No?
No.
You think it's okay?
Yeah.
And what about you?
No?
So you ain't never going to go to the club again just because you got a man.
Yeah, man.
You can bring him.
Go with that guy.
You could go with him.
You go in the club.
Hold on, hold on, hold on.
How about this?
How about we open it up for discourse?
Why do you think it's inappropriate to go to the club if you have a man?
We'll start with you.
Me?
Yeah.
Well, we can start here and then you.
Go ahead.
Wait, say that?
I'm sorry.
Why do you think it's inappropriate for you to go to the club when you have a boyfriend?
Because there's so many opportunities for someone to just, like, come up to you and talk to you.
And that's like, the second you say hi back or you smile back, that's already, like, interacting with someone.
And I just think it's, like, not the best thing to do.
I don't know.
Would you constitute that as cheating?
Talking to someone?
Just saying hi?
Yeah.
No.
No?
Okay, because that's what you mentioned.
No, but then it opens up our conversation for them to get to know you and all that good stuff.
It's like knocking the door.
So it's a possibility.
Alright, what about you?
Why did you say you shouldn't be?
And I'm going to give the girls I think it's okay a chance to speak too.
Why do you think it's okay?
Sorry, not okay.
Because it's like, why would you do something you don't want your man doing to you?
If you don't want your man in the club, what are you doing in the club?
It ain't no money for you.
It ain't nothing to get to at the club, but to get in your pants.
That's what the club is for.
Okay, so for you it's, I want my man doing it, so I'm not going to do it.
Yeah.
Okay.
You said it's inappropriate.
Why do you think so?
I mean, we all know what happens at clubs, and I just think that it's not okay.
Okay.
You said it's inappropriate.
Why do you think so?
Well, I just think it's disrespectful if you have a man to go there, first of all.
And I feel like it's not really safe, also.
Anything can happen.
There's a bunch of drunk men everywhere, like...
Okay.
And drunk girls.
Yeah, anything.
Anything could happen.
Guns, drugs, I don't want to be around that.
Okay.
What about you?
Why do you think it's disrespectful?
Or why do you disagree with it?
I just think it's disrespectful to go to a club while you're in a relationship.
Or in general.
I mean, I've never been to one, so...
Okay.
Never ever?
So you think it's...
Okay.
And then you...
I mean, you said it depends on the occasion, but that means go to the club.
Why do you think it's okay or appropriate to go?
Me?
For me, I don't know, if you're secure and you have trust in your relationship, it's not that I'm going to be clubbing every single day, but if I have a friend's birthday or in a special occasion, I'm not into clubbing every weekend or all the time right now, but if I have a birthday or a girl's night or something like that, why not?
But of course I wouldn't just go every night because people go to clubs, you know?
You think it's okay.
Why do you think it's okay?
I think because I'll choose my man wisely.
So if I don't feel comfortable with you being around a group of hungry women, then you're not my man.
Wait, I'm confused by that.
This is about you.
I can go to the club because I know I'm good.
I think it should be a case of if I'm in a relationship, then there'll be a time to come home.
Yeah.
So like, because past two o'clock clubbing, everyone's either flirting, doing drugs, or just doing shit they don't need to be doing.
So like, two o'clock is a reasonable time to be saying, okay, cool, goodnight.
Then we go get my wife.
Okay, so you think it's okay because you don't think you're going to do anything?
And I obviously wouldn't be with a man that I thought was going to do something with someone else.
No, but it's about you going to the club.
Yeah, I know I'm good.
If I've got a man, I've got a man.
So because she's good in the club, he should be good too.
Yeah.
You should be secure in your relationship.
Because I'm going to choose my man wisely.
Yeah, be secure.
I don't do relationships for fun.
I'm in a relationship to get married.
If you can't go and dance and your man's worried that you're just going to dance, I know my view on clubs.
I love going to clubs.
I don't go often, but I love going because I love music, I love dancing, I love the atmosphere.
I don't drink alcohol.
So I will go, I'll have a dance with my friends, and then I'll be home by like 12-1 sometimes.
Do you think, because you said you're marriage-minded and you're looking for someone to take you seriously, do you think a guy that's marriage-minded himself would want his bride to be at the club?
I've probably been about four times this year.
It's not like a huge thing.
It's been for occasions.
Okay, it's not a huge thing to you, but do you think a man that's marriage-minded would think it's a huge thing to him?
Well then that's not my line.
Interesting.
Choose wisely.
If he doesn't like what I'm doing, then I like him.
Choose wisely.
She toasts a club over a man.
Okay.
Goddamn.
That's unfortunate.
Maybe the clubs are different over here.
Yeah, the clubs in England are very different.
No, we've been to England.
We know what it is over there too.
It's easier to separate though.
That's fine.
Okay, so if he's not willing to accept you going to the club, he's not the man for you.
Okay.
And if he sees me in a club, he will be absolutely fine with that.
Yeah, I agree.
He would see me in a club and probably laugh at me while you're even there.
You could just watch this on YouTube.
It's very interesting.
Okay, what about you?
Do you think it's appropriate?
Why do you think so?
Yeah, because I feel like I'll let my man go out and do his thing and I've got full trust in him, so he should have full trust in me.
If I want to go out with my girls and have a dance, have a few drinks, and I'm coming home to him, there's no issues.
It's the same thing like if he wants to go out with his boys or go on like a lad's holiday, they want to go to Vegas, I'm not going to be texting him, kicking off, like go have your fun because I know that you're loyal to me.
Even if your guys want to go speak to girls, that's fine, but I've got trust in you and you should have that trust in a relationship.
Otherwise, what's the point?
Why should you make your relationship on the fact of just being able to go to a club or not?
Because that makes me feel like you're insecure.
If you think that I'm going to cheat in the club, then you think less of me.
I'm not going to sit here and worry about whether you're going to cheat, because I know I'll be good if you do.
You do your best.
If you cheat, you're fucked up.
I'm going to get my hair done.
What's a food that you don't like?
Like what kind of food you don't like?
Sushi.
So let's say, right, your boyfriend obviously knows you very well.
He says, you know what, babe?
I feel like eating sushi today, so you should too.
How would you feel?
If he really wants me to try it, then I'll try it.
I'll probably gag on it, but I would try it for him.
You don't like it, right?
Yeah, I don't like it, but I don't think Sushi's compared to going to a club.
So to be respectful, once again...
Yeah, if he asked me not to go, and it was a mutual thing, and I respected what he was saying, because obviously he's my man, then yeah.
But I feel like if we're going in a relationship together, we should have trust in each other to not have to even have that conversation.
But can you imagine, though, most guys don't like or want their girl to be in the club, though?
So then why still do it?
Yeah, but I'm not going to be with an insecure man that would think that way.
I'm going to be with a man that wants to be like, oh my god, my girl's a goddess and I have full trust in her.
Otherwise, I'm not with him.
I want to ask you this.
Do you think men and women are equal?
No.
Would you agree that men and women are vastly different?
Yes.
So would it be fair to say that a man's experience at a nightclub and a woman's experience at a nightclub are vastly different as well?
Yes.
Men are more thirsty than women.
Fair enough.
Thank you for proving...
Well, it's almost too easy.
No, but men are more thirsty than women.
It doesn't mean that we're going to allow that.
I completely understand that, but...
Because you said the reason why you think it's appropriate is because you would also be okay with your guy going to the club.
So what I'm asking is that do you think he's going to have the same amount of sexual opportunity with the opposite gender that you would have when you go to the club?
Yeah.
Really?
No, because it would be like men approach women more than women.
Hold on, I'm asking her.
Do you think that your guy that you are with...
Let's say he's devilishly good looking.
Do you honestly think he's going to have the same amount of sexual opportunities going to a nightclub that you would have?
Yeah, if he's like devilishly good looking, then yeah.
There you go.
We found the root cause of why she thinks that way.
No, but I just feel like if like...
Even in the UK though, the club scene is kind of similar here.
It's about being secure.
There's tables, there's VIP sections.
As a guy, you don't get invited to the table with a bunch of girls saying, oh, cook my table.
To be honest, we don't really have tables like that.
You just go to the club and you just dance.
Yeah, but that's not everyone.
Do you also agree with your friend's train of thought that a man is going to have the same amount of sexual opportunity with the opposite gender at a nightclub?
Yeah.
Okay.
And even if it's not through being at the club, it's through being active on social media at the club because it's a huge thing.
I don't know, obviously.
Okay, do you think a man has the same amount of opportunity sexually on social media that a woman has?
Yes.
Okay.
What about you?
You said that it's okay to go to the club as well.
Why do you think so?
I think that it's okay, especially if you're going together.
I think that it's okay to go to the club.
In this scenario, you're not going together.
If you're not, I would say that it's still okay as long as you're not out there doing anything.
I go to the club all the time by myself.
I'm not out there looking to find anybody.
I'm looking out there to go to this section, get drunk, and go home.
Who's section?
Are you paying for the section?
Yeah, who controls the sections?
No, I go to the promoter section.
Oh!
I don't know who paid for it.
They getting paid to find girls to come to the section.
Okay, so understand...
But we're not talking about when you're single.
We're talking about when you have a guy.
Do you think it's appropriate for you to go to the club by yourself and sit in a promoter section, which is paid by men, by the way?
But you know, in the promoter sections, it'd be like 10, 15 girls.
You're not really even talking to them.
Guys come to the section to entertain you guys.
Oh no baby, I'm entertained myself.
I'm all, I don't eat by myself.
Yo Charlie, period.
Come get this girl bro.
And also I think that for your man to go to the club, I've seen plenty of men in sections, like just from afar, I've seen plenty of men that go out to the club and they don't talk to anybody.
Like they'll be standing there or they'll be with their friends.
They're not talking to females.
So if you trust your man and he's not insecure, you're not insecure, I don't see a point why y'all both can't go to the club as long as you're not out there doing anything.
Insecure, right?
She also made the insecure argument.
What about you?
Why do you think it's okay for you to go to the club?
I think that every relationship has a foundation.
And I think if that foundation is strong enough, then, you know, you're not going to be insecure in the relationship.
And, like, you know, if your girl goes to the club and, like, someone says hi and she's like, hey, what's up?
Like, someone that she knows, you know, like a bouncer or something, you know, he's not going to get mad.
Like, obviously she doesn't want his dick.
She wants your dick.
She's not going to fucking go to the club and, like, you know...
See all these guys and be like, oh my god, I'm in heaven.
No, she's going to keep to herself, hang with her friends, mind her business.
I go to the club alone, not a single time have I let a man touch me or talk to me.
I'm myself, and I can vibe out myself.
So you're just standing in a corner?
No.
I meet the other girls.
I make friends.
I dance to the DJ. It's fun.
I get a little bit tipsy, but I'm fully in control of myself.
Who buys your drinks?
I've never gotten a drink bought for me by a man other than like a table, but I don't know who that is.
I don't know who that is.
It's not like someone taking me...
Who buys tables?
Men.
Men.
But they're not talking to me.
They're not talking to me though.
Okay.
This is a very interesting thing.
All the girls that are in favor of going to the club when they have a significant other at home sighted insecurity.
Let me ask you guys a question.
Who is more secure?
Someone who tells you the truth, regardless of the outcome, or someone who's scared to tell you the truth because they're scared of the outcome.
Someone who tells you the truth no matter the outcome.
What about you?
Someone who tells you the truth.
Truth.
I don't even understand the question.
The question is, who's more insecure?
The person that tells you the truth regardless of the outcome or the person that's scared to tell you the truth because of the outcome?
Oh, who's more insecure?
The person who doesn't tell the truth.
The person that doesn't tell the truth.
Oh yeah, sorry.
I thought you said more secure.
More insecure.
Who's more insecure?
Oh, insecure.
Who's the insecure one?
The lying.
The lying.
Yeah.
Fantastic.
So what if I told you that a staggering majority of men would have a serious issue with you going to the nightclub?
Talk to me.
And they're actually the ones that are really insecure because they don't want to tell you the truth because they're scared of how you're going to respond because you guys are going to say the things you guys just said.
Oh, you're insecure if you don't trust me to go to the club.
But if a man tells you, I don't want you to go to the club because X, Y, Z, or...
I would never call him insecure if he explains himself.
You literally decided that as an example.
No, if you talk to me and you explain to me why, we can talk about it and we can have a conversation and we can see both sides of it and that's fine and we can come to middle ground.
But at the end of the day, you're not going to stop me from living a separate life sometimes.
I'm not saying that separate life means that I cheat on you, but it means that I have my friends, you have your friends, and we have our own boundaries in our relationship.
Interesting.
But we can come together as one.
Okay, so he has to have the conversation with you.
I mean, I'm even going to, to be honest with you, I'm going a step further by saying that he even has to have the conversation with you.
But, let me ask you this then.
What if you were out with your guy, right, and you were going, you know, going for a walk, and you're walking with your purse, you know, everything's all good, and then some fucking guy just comes up behind you, grabs your ass, steals your purse, and runs away.
I probably...
Hold on, hold on, stop.
Let me give the full scenario before you respond.
Then, in one scenario, you tell him, you have to tell him, hey, go chase that guy down and get my purse back for me.
Or in the second scenario, he just chased the guy down, beats his ass to get your purse back for you.
What's more attractive?
He better go chase him.
Wait, wait, wait.
Hold on.
Can you repeat the, like, him chasing?
Yeah, because you were too busy trying to respond versus listening.
I actually was listening.
No, you weren't, because you wouldn't need me to respond.
You wouldn't need me to repeat it if you were listening.
I'm not going to argue with you.
Just, I... Can you repeat that one more time?
Exactly.
You weren't listening.
So, what I'm saying is this.
Yeah, pay attention.
Okay?
Stop interrupting.
What I'm saying is this.
It's very simple.
You're walking with your guy.
You have your purse.
Some random guy comes up from behind you, grabs your ass, steals a purse, and runs away.
Two responses.
Either A, you tell him, go chase him down and get my purse back, and you have to tell him that, by the way, because he's just standing like, oh my god, what do I do?
Or B, he chases after the guy, gets your purse back, and whoops his ass.
Which one is more attractive?
He doesn't need to whoop his ass, but get my purse back.
Second scenario.
You didn't have to say anything, right?
What about you?
He need to go get him and get my purse.
Fantastic.
What about you?
I know the point that you're going to try and say.
Answer the question.
Obviously, you want your man to be a man, have initiative, but that doesn't mean that he has to be silent and not have to talk to you to have initiative.
Anyway, what about you?
I feel like that's part of a duty, not part of a choice.
It's part of a duty.
Yeah.
Very good word.
What about you?
What would you want him to do?
Would you want him to chase that guy down?
To chase the guy down or if not, I'll go chase the guy down.
Let me ask you this.
Why is it that the man is expected to do what he's supposed to do, right?
But if a man is with a woman, she's supposed to do whatever she wants to do.
And even if he has a conversation, he could be told he's insecure.
Why do we have to tell women to be ladies and stay at home when they have a man at home?
Because what is that might be a lady for staying at home?
Yes, it's...
We're not in an old generation anymore.
Hold on, hold on, hold on.
Stop the show.
So, in one end, you want the man to be traditional and chase down the fucking guy and put his life on the line to get your purse back and exercise chivalry, but you don't want to go ahead and reciprocate and stay your ass at home for him?
Explain that to me.
You want a traditional man, but you don't want to be a traditional woman.
No, I'm being this generation woman, working hard.
I'll also go and chase that man down.
She would.
I actually would.
I would too.
So you fight men?
I would.
Do you honestly think that you would have an ability to fight off a man?
I'd give it a go.
Give it a go.
I have.
This is what I mean.
See, do you guys see the ridiculousness of what you guys are saying?
On one end, you want your man to be a gentleman and adhere to traditional values, but you're not willing to give back traditional values to him.
Is that a fair trade for the man?
Obviously, I'm not saying you need to be fully 100% traditional, but I'm also saying that I'm not going to sit at home for you.
I'm not going to stop my whole life.
But he's expected to chase an attacker for you.
That is so different.
That is so different than telling a woman to just sit on her ass at home.
Yeah, it's more dangerous for him.
I will do dangerous things for him, but I'm not down to just sit at home.
What do you need?
What do you want?
What do you need?
What do you want?
I'll do it.
What are you going to do dangerous for him?
I don't know.
What do you need?
What do you want?
You're the one that made the claim, so back it up.
What would you do dangerous for him?
Let's hear it.
What is he what?
Carry a child.
In 2023, you were like less than like 2% of childbirths end in death?
Come on, man.
No, but I feel like as a woman...
Listen, you guys...
Finish your point and then I'll say what I got to say.
I feel like as a woman, if I'm cooking and I'm cleaning and he has a home and he has everything he needs, if I want to go and have a dance with my friends, I'm going to go and have a dance with my friends.
If he has everything he needs and I have everything I need, I'm allowed to spend time with my friends.
And if that evening means going to a club, I'm going to go shite my ass for 10 minutes and be home by 11.
You're missing a key component of what men need.
Do men ask much from women?
No.
They don't, right?
Sometimes.
Yeah, they do.
Okay, sometimes.
Do men ask for as much as women ask for them?
No.
In comparison to females, do we ask for much?
No, not at all.
So if a guy tells you, hey, go clean and stay at home so I know that there aren't weirdos trying to grab at you at the club or whatever it may be, is that really that much to ask when you ask for way more from the man?
So, where's my time then?
Yeah, what are we asking for?
Because I don't know.
I'm in control of my life.
It's my life, it's not yours.
Hold on, hold on, hold on.
Stop one second.
Because you said I'm giving him everything that he needs, and I'm arguing that you're not giving him everything he needs, because a big thing that a man needs is to know that his girl isn't involved in activity that can compromise the relationship.
Then come with me.
But my friends are going out.
I also talked to you the entire time I'm at the club.
I snapchat you videos.
I literally am on my phone.
That doesn't mean anything.
Yo, do you know what I mean?
That does not mean anything.
We've been at the club before.
Girls facing their boyfriend.
Oh, babe, I love you, miss you.
And then come fuck with us.
That doesn't mean anything.
I've never done that.
You might not, but a lot of girls do.
I just find it very interesting how the girls that want to go to the club still expect their man to chase down an attacker and be a man, but when we ask you to be a lady at staying home, you guys are not willing to do that.
And that's fine, but this is what I'm going to say.
If you want to go to the club and be able to shake your ass and do what you want to do, cool.
You don't deserve a man that's traditional.
That's all I'm saying, because you're not a traditional woman.
It's not a country.
You expect me to take care of you, pay the bills, protect for you, provide for you, etc.
But you want to be able to reserve the right to go out and do whatever you want.
Why can't we do it together?
Why can't we pay the bills together?
That's traditional.
These days and age, the men are all crying that we don't pay our way and we're not paying the bill.
I don't think it has to be this black and white.
It doesn't.
There's a whole grey area.
I want you to be a stay-at-home mom, but I also want you to work and pay bills.
No, but I'm not going to tell you what it is.
Why don't we split the bills or something?
Go through them together.
Ladies, ladies, ladies.
The majority of the women at the table and the majority of women in general absolutely want to be a stay-at-home mom.
So what does that mean?
That means that women in general don't want to be the majority breadwinner.
So, just because you're willing to pay split bills doesn't mean most women are.
And most women would prefer to not split bills and have the guy be the breadwinner.
So, cool, if you want a more equal relationship, that's fine.
But what I've come to realize is that women say they want equality until they actually get it.
Then they realize, damn, my man's a bitch.
He's making me pay half?
I'm not down with this.
So, I mean, you can go ahead and have that egalitarian mindset, but it doesn't actually work in practice most of the time.
But I agree with you, though.
You said, like, if you had a traditional man, then I would agree, I would stay home.
If my man didn't want me to go to the club, and he paid all the bills, and if he paid all the bills, and he didn't want me to go to the club, and that was like, we were married, and he's a provider, then I wouldn't go to the club.
He has to do so much just to get that one.
Yeah, I ain't gonna go to the club.
But if you die, if you're not paying up, you're not paying no bills, nothing, I'm gonna do what I want, for sure.
Marriage, pay the bills, be that man.
Yes!
Be a leader.
Because in two days, I don't feel like it's worth it.
I feel like I'm going to go out and live my best life.
I'm not asking a man anything but respect.
Oh, no.
I'm not saying I need your money.
I don't need anything.
Absolutely.
Your time, your respect, and your trust.
No, because if I got a man...
And you have to earn my trust, too.
If I got to pay bills, I don't need a man.
I could just pay my own bills.
I mean, I would argue if you want to go to the club and you're in a relationship, you don't deserve respect as a female.
Ooh.
I would argue that.
Because it's not like you want to go to the club and entertain other men and be at a nightclub and be where there's drugs and alcohol.
There's a bunch of activity that can compromise the relationship.
Clearly you don't care that much, so why should I respect you?
I do care, but I want to go to the club not for the men.
There's other reasons to go out.
It's not just about the men.
I can go to the club and not shake my ass.
I can dance other ways.
Okay, how about this?
How about you, you know, get some neon lights, put them in the garage, put some music on, and dance in the garage?
No, you're not in charge of my life.
Hold on, hold on, hold on.
You just said a second ago, you said you're not in charge of my life.
Well, if the guy's gonna chase the dude down and get your purse back...
I would chase the dude with him, but that was not an option.
Do you actually think you can physically fight a man?
Yes, I do, and I have done it once.
How tall are you?
I'm 5'2".
But I've done it, I swear!
What's him, midget?
What are you fighting?
Like, yo, I don't want to...
Be an asshole, but this is what I mean when I say women are delusional.
Like, you guys are actually talking about you would physically try to fight a man.
Obviously, I'm kidding, but as soon as I open the mouth and start yelling, he gets scared.
I'm not saying I want to fight a man, but if a man's on the street trying to attack me, you better believe I'm going to make a fight for his life.
That wasn't the scenario.
In the UK, right, there's a lot of chefing going on.
Yeah.
Do you think you can fight a man with a knife?
Stabbing.
Yeah, well, stabbing.
You can fight a man off with a knife?
Well, no, I'm going to...
She wouldn't even be able to fight a man off if she had a knife.
You wouldn't know that.
I know you wouldn't be able to.
Look, I don't want to sound like an asshole, but women are physically inferior to men.
Let's take this outside.
Yes.
Oh, I agree with that.
That's so random.
I know, but women and men, they're built differently.
Men are stronger than women.
Why would men feel like we had to pay bills with them?
If we're inferior, I can't believe that I even have to have this conversation about human physiology between men and women where you guys...
No, I'm not gonna try, but I know I'm gonna lose.
I'm strong.
Like, it's fine.
You would lose, you would lose.
Are you guys aware that, like, even a teenage boy would absolutely...
Yes, I'm aware of that.
I'm not intentional.
No, you are, because you said you'd find a guy.
I would, but I know I'm going to lose.
You might lose.
Don't fight him.
You're too pretty to get hurt.
Do not fight a man.
I'm sure you have more handbags at home.
You'll be fine.
We'll move on to the next question.
We'll move on to the next question.
This is very interesting.
We've got a bunch of shots here by this.
Okay, I'll fly through these.
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No, no, no.
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OnlySams?
What the fuck, OnlySams?
No, that's someone else.
Oh, shout out to CEO Network.
Clockworks.
Wait, you...
What?
So who were they talking about?
How do you know what you have on there?
Oh, you bought it.
Thanks for the $10 Clockwork.
For the females, do y'all have guys in your friend zone that you know would make a decent long-term guy for you?
You're basically just keeping them around until you've had enough Chad Thundercock inquiring minds and such.
What's a thunder cock?
You can imagine.
Go back to that question.
You never had one?
I know.
You got a big one?
I feel sorry.
Oh, no.
All right.
Okay, let me simplify the question.
Okay.
Do any of you guys have men in the friend zone right now?
We'll say yes or no.
No.
No?
Yes.
Yeah.
Like, yeah.
Yes.
No.
Why you look like that?
They're gay though.
I don't have no friends.
If they're gay, does that mean friendzone?
Do you have any guys that want to get with you but you just friendzoned?
No, I just moved here and I don't talk to anybody.
I only got my one man.
That's not her man.
Exactly.
My man is not my man.
Okay.
It's only friendzoned then since that's not your man.
Yeah, kind of.
Do you have a guy in a friendzone?
No, I don't have male friends.
You?
No.
You got a couple!
Don't lie!
No!
I don't have any.
I don't text back.
What about you?
I don't have any male friends.
No.
Do any of the guys that you have in the friend zone as men, do you think any of them would be good long term boyfriends?
No, I will have tried.
Like maybe he's a nice guy, but he's just not attractive enough?
I don't know.
I don't know.
Okay.
Maybe.
I don't know.
What about you?
You?
The guys you don't text back?
Are any of them, like, good guys?
I would have texted them back, wouldn't I? Well, it would be...
I would have texted them back, wouldn't I? I'm not talking about them being attractive.
I'm talking about, like, they're nice guys.
They'd be, like, a great boyfriend.
They haven't had the chance for me to find out.
Okay.
How would I know if I haven't gotten to know them?
Well, they're your friends, aren't they?
No.
I don't have male friends.
You don't have any male friends?
No.
I don't believe that.
Okay, what about, you said you don't have any male friends either?
No, I've got male friends, but I absolutely would never get with them, because I know exactly what they're like.
That's so true!
I see the shit they do, I hear the shit they do.
They, like, come back as the guy talk, you hear it all?
I've seen what's been there, so no, thank you.
Are any of them, do you think any of them would make good long-term boyfriends?
Maybe they're not that attractive, but they're nice guys.
I tried that, and it didn't work out, so...
I was asking her.
Oh, sorry.
Absolutely not.
None of them are nice guys?
They're nice guys, but not to girls in a long-term relationship, I imagine.
Maybe they lie to them.
So they get around, then?
Yeah, well, maybe they just tell me that, but like...
Like Tyreek from Love Island?
They get around?
I mean, I didn't watch this season, but...
Oh, you messed up, you messed up.
I messed up, but...
Yeah, no, like, I've seen the shit they do, I hear the shit they do.
Good luck to those girls.
Now it's all coming full circle.
Do you guys actually think men have the same amount of options as women, sexually?
Because you guys said earlier in a nightclub you think they do, and then you said also on social media.
Yeah.
I really do.
Yeah.
It's the 21st century.
Men, women, if they want to be accessible, they will be accessible.
Women or men?
Guys, I've got the chat as well.
If they want to be accessible, they will be accessible and they will put it straight forward.
It's the 21st century.
Everyone's acting equal these days.
If we want it, we're going to go and get it.
Yeah, and I feel like even if the guy is like not the best looking guy, like if he's got the chat, he's getting so many girls.
Especially on social media, because they just have to text and just have to back up.
With the hookup culture, the guys are going to get the same.
Okay, hold on.
Alright, this is amazing.
This is actually really interesting.
How many of you actually think that, agree with them three, that guys are out here getting girls and killing it and they have as many options as women?
No, definitely not.
Raise the hands of women that agree with these three that men have a lot of options and are out here killing on social media with girls.
Hell no.
Nobody else agrees?
Just you three?
Y'all ugly.
Not you, but I know what she's saying.
They swear, like, they have the talk, but they just don't have the looks.
But sometimes, you don't know, like, you gotta find that out yourself.
So you agree?
You think that guy's out here killing it?
No, not all of them.
There's an extra step with men, but like, they still, if they go out and their end goal is to get pussy, they can if they try hard enough.
Yeah, if they try hard enough, they have to try harder.
That's the whole point.
They have to try harder.
You said it's like trying hard enough.
The men have to try harder.
Women have it easy.
We can go out and get any dick on the street right now if we want to.
Because men think with their dick.
Women think with their head.
Yes, men think with their dick, but that's not what he's asking.
He asks you if you have the same opportunity.
Men don't have the same opportunity.
It depends on a status.
And it's a different opportunity in a different way.
Status.
Let me ask you a question.
You think it's easy for a man to acquire status?
No.
No, they gotta get some money first.
So, by definition, is it as easy for men to get laid as women then?
No.
I guess you're right.
A woman can get a man way easier than a man can get a woman any day.
Period.
If there's gonna be a race, right, between who can have sex first, man or the woman, who's gonna win?
A man gon' win because men are opportunists, so any girl that come up to them that they could get with, they gon' take it.
But me, like, you can have 10 men come to you, but if they not the 10 men you want, you'll deny it.
But a man can have 10 women come to them, and they have 10 bitches, so now they gon' take it just cause they're opportunists.
You just feel the question horribly, but okay.
It goes back to what you said earlier about like girls fall in love with what they hear.
Yeah.
So if a guy can chat you into bed.
No, you said if he can.
That's the big thing.
If he can.
Yeah, but it's if a girl can get with a guy as well.
If you say, I want to get fucked.
Niggas are going to do it.
Exactly!
But if the guy says, I want to get fucked.
And if I do, now you're for everybody.
Huh?
Yeah, like a man say he want to get fucked.
And then I'm looking like, oh.
You're for everybody.
No, I'm just saying that it's easier for women to get a man than it is for a man to get a woman.
That's what I'm saying.
I thought you said the other one.
No, I'm saying that women got more options than men.
Okay, you just confused me.
But women are more picky than men.
Yeah.
That's what she's saying.
Like, a man isn't going to be as picky as a woman will be.
Because we can be picky.
Because we have our way.
She just said it.
Because you can be.
Exactly.
Guys can't be.
They couldn't take what they can get.
You're just arguing that guys are desperate.
And you're just arguing that women are able to excuse you for women.
I'm going to save this clip for when I get a man.
I mean, it's the truth, though.
Yeah, no, I mean, I just find it very interesting that you guys were trying to argue that, you know, a guy can go to the nightclub.
Because the whole reason why you guys made the argument that it's okay for me to go to the nightclub is because my guy can go to the nightclub and I wouldn't mind.
But you make the cardal mistake in not understanding that for a guy to go to a nightclub and get sexual access is way harder than it is for you.
Yeah, but then you've also got the thing of that guys, when they go out, they're the ones paying and getting girls to be on their table.
But are the women going to sleep with them or hook up with them for being at the table?
No.
Do you actually think the girls are going to sleep with those guys just because they have the table?
But you're asking the same question.
Do you think those guys think they're gonna get those girls just because they've paid for it?
So it's the same the same way around.
Why are they paying for the table?
It's absolutely not the same way around at all.
The men had to spend thousands of dollars to have women come into the section where there's a high likelihood that they might not even get sexual access.
You're gonna go to the club tonight, correct?
Yeah.
Are you gonna fuck the guys in the section?
You're missing the point of the conversation.
A man is not gonna be able to go to the club and command the same level of sexual access than a woman is.
True.
So therefore, since it's easy mode for women, it's an issue for most men for you to go to the club when you're their girlfriend.
Okay.
Okay, I see what you're saying.
But nine times to ten, though, these people that we've seen, like these promoters and stuff, like, half the time they're ugly as hell.
Like, they don't be getting...
My bad.
My bad, but I'm just saying, though, a lot of them, like, they're not giving.
Alright, Keyword, you said half the time, right?
Yeah, but I've never seen a five...
Well...
What about...
Hold on, hold on.
What about the other 50% where the promoter might be attractive or the other percentage where the guy that's running the table is attractive?
Maybe he's a high roller.
Maybe he's a celebrity.
Okay.
That's true, but...
I mean, I never had nobody...
You don't have to get with them.
You can find them attractive.
You're forgetting...
They also bring, as well, celebrity guests or, for example, guys that want tables to the section as well.
Right.
So it's not like the promoter is also another guy as well at a table, or many guys.
Look, man, I'm telling you how men think.
No guy that's in a relationship with a woman wants his girl at the club.
The reason why men don't say shit is because those are the ones that are actually really insecure, the example I gave before.
He's scared of what you're going to say.
Notice how I said, yo, a girl shouldn't be at the nightclub when she has a guy...
Oh, that's insecure, misogynistic, toxic.
They don't want to argue with you.
They just let you go.
So do you feel like men are okay still going to the club?
Men and women are not the same.
Okay, so if I can't go to the club, can y'all go to the club?
Absolutely.
Hell yeah.
So you can be around another thing.
Be for real.
Absolutely.
Be for real.
No, no, no, no, no, no, no.
Because, hear me out, hear me out.
Because, like I said, I can go to the club and tame men.
Hold on, hold on.
Before you speak.
Okay.
Think.
And then make a stance and then articulate your argument.
Because you've been contradicting yourself the entire night.
No, I haven't.
Y'all heard me wrong.
I don't know what y'all heard, but I said what I said.
You heard me right now, didn't you?
Exactly.
So I don't know what the hell y'all heard.
Watch this back, and then you'll see what we're talking about.
Think before you speak, please.
Ten folks would come talk to me, and I could not go for any of the ten folks.
But one person could talk to my man, or any man, and he gonna go for it.
Just cause that's the one person that done came to him all day.
Do you know how difficult it is for a guy to have a woman come up to him?
Are you aware that there's men out there that have never had a woman come up to them?
Hold on, stop it up there for two seconds and be quiet.
Are you aware that there's guys that have never gotten a gift from a girl?
Never kissed a girl?
Never had sex with a girl?
30 plus years old?
Never even had a girl come talk to them?
Ever?
Do they try or do they sit in their basement playing Fortnite?
No, what you're failing to realize is that most men, unfortunately, just aren't attractive to most women.
Most men are virtually invisible to most women.
So guys don't have the same opportunities that you guys do.
But it only takes one, though, is what I'm saying.
It just takes one girl to come up to you and you're going for it.
You have to be exceptionally good-looking as a male for women to come up to you.
You have to be within the top 1 percentile.
But you really don't have to be...
What if you got money and now girls are coming up to you?
And they just want to fuck you just because you got money.
But still, it just only takes one.
Is it easy to make money?
No.
Shit.
It all depends on what you're doing.
What you're trying to say when I say women are stupid a lot of the times.
No offense.
With all due respect.
But you guys grossly underestimate what it takes to be attractive as a man.
Oh, just be...
Girls are gonna come up to you.
Oh, just have some money.
Oh, be attractive.
You gotta go to the gym.
You gotta groom yourself correctly.
You gotta dress correctly.
You gotta pay the entrance fee to go to the club.
You have to have the charisma.
You gotta talk me into bed.
Like, it's not easy for men to be attractive.
Like, this is what I mean when I say women live life on easy mode.
You guys are grossly unaware of what it takes for a man to be attractive.
And I don't expect you to know.
But y'all are delusional.
Like, you guys are literally delusional thinking a guy has as much options on social media as a woman.
Do you honestly think a guy has as many DMs in his Instagram as you guys do?
No.
Seriously?
Okay, so if we've been stay-at-home mums for 10 years now, we're looking like shit, we're not keeping ourselves.
Are you going to go out and find a club check?
You can still maintain yourself being a step...
Stay-at-home mom!
Have any of these guys got kids?
No, but he's making it out as though we don't have to do a lot to look well.
Yeah, exactly.
When I look up, I look like shit.
But men don't care.
Look, man, you can be an average-looking woman and still DM a celebrity and get a response.
Who?
What celebrity?
I mean, Drake does it all the time.
Drake?
Where?
Drake.
I mean, this is amazing that I even have to explain to you guys this, that sex for men and getting relationships and dealing with women is not the same as a woman dealing with a man.
Then why do you guys live somewhere for less than a month and already start fucking girls?
What?
I'm just saying.
Nobody!
I'm just saying.
I don't even understand that argument.
As a man, you move somewhere, right?
And then you literally start fucking girls within the month because girls come up to you, girls talk to you.
Hold on, hold on.
Since it's so easy, what does a guy have to do to get laid?
Explain.
Go ahead.
Gloss.
I have a very low body count, so I don't really know how to explain it.
Not the cow!
I actually...
From the male perspective, since you think, like, are there just fucking girls in a month and a half, what does he have to do to do that?
It depends.
Like, he has...
Like, I don't know.
He has to dress nice.
He has to look good.
Like, he has to play with my head.
He has to be sarcastic.
Oh.
Do you think these things are easy?
I mean, you yourself, as the example, if you have a low body count, it's not that easy then.
Probably not.
So every guy would give you a high body count if that was the case.
I'm just not attracted to any of them.
Like exactly The ladies that just contradicted themselves a bunch of times yeah Yes, and to answer your question, it's okay for a guy to go to a club and not a woman because it's not the same.
Like, men and women are not the same.
Your guy can go to the club and fuck another chick and come back to you and still love you, but if you go and fuck another dude in the bathroom, it's over.
What?
No, cause...
It just takes...
Why would my man...
If my man go fuck somebody else and he come back to me, what the fuck?
Like, what are you doing?
I'm not fucking not dick anymore.
I have diseases.
What are you doing?
Wait, wait, hold on, hold on, cause...
You say, what is the dangerous thing we do for men?
Like how you said, oh, for the purse thing...
That's another dangerous thing.
You don't know what these bitches at the club got.
What this bitch...
This bitch probably ain't been tested her whole life.
You don't know.
That's dangerous.
Exactly.
No, but I'm just saying that as a point.
You fucking a bitch in the club, from the club.
I was making an extreme example, but what I'm saying is that, because you guys are trying to say, my man can go to the, why should he be able to go to the club and I can't, blah, blah, blah.
What I'm saying is that the man is capable of going to the club, having sex with a random girl, and coming home, and still loving you and supporting you.
But the other way around, can you please stop interrupting for two seconds and actually listen before you respond, because you've been talking without necessarily understanding, and you just respond.
Anyway, the guy can go to the club, fuck another girl, come back to you, still love you, still support you, you're still the main girl.
But if you went to a club and fucked another guy, me and you both know it's over.
You're not the main girl or that.
I'm like, if you go to the club and fuck another girl, then I might still be your main girl, but you're still a cheating ass.
You're the delusional one.
If you think that I'm still gonna be with you after you fuck another bitch.
I'm confused.
That's what I'm saying, because you can still have 10 men.
That's why...
I'm just confused because you say men can go to the club, but even if you take one and they fuck somebody, y'all think that's okay as men, but that's not okay to women.
So why do y'all think that?
And it's the same way y'all don't think it's okay for us to go to the club, but y'all think it's okay for y'all to go to the club, but why would you think it's okay for you to fuck somebody else and I just go to the club and throw some ass and it's okay?
That's why I said y'all delusional.
We mentioned earlier, right, that you have way more requirements for men.
So the man is paying the bills, taking care of you, I want to say, at the same time, being your security as well.
So, if he goes out to have some fun every now and then, is that that bad?
Well, they want you to cook, they want you to look good, they want you to have your nails done, they want you to attend him and serve him as he's a king.
The guys require a lot of things too, no?
Not just women.
Not more than you though.
We don't require nearly as much as women do.
You're gonna get your nails done and do all this shit anyway.
Yeah, but...
I think maybe, like, I'm...
Be attractive, know what to talk to, banter back and forth.
And what do you want from us?
Okay, but...
What do you expect from us?
Simple.
What do you expect?
Don't be a whore and go to the club and embarrass me.
I think like maybe I just think differently and it might not be everyone else's opinion but like I just hope like the next relationship I'm gonna be in like I have that trust and that we can both be free and be loyal and that might not be everybody's view what everybody wants but that's what I want and I'd like an independent relationship where we both support each other financially and emotionally and be loyal.
I agree.
You know what's interesting?
Women always ask themselves what they want in a relationship versus ever asking, what would the guy that I want want back in return?
Have you ever thought about that?
Like, you ever thought, like, instead of what you want, have you ever thought, hmm, I want this caliber of man, but what does that guy want in return?
I think that I'd like the fact if we could have an open and honest conversation to find out what we both want and then be able to agree on together.
Why should we have to tell you to be a lady?
I'm not asking to tell me to be a lady.
That's a lady in someone's opinion.
It's a conversation about boundaries.
Yeah, I just feel like if I'm having a conversation with that guy and he tells me his boundaries, I tell him mine and we come to an agreement together, then we're happy.
It's more of a, I'm not cool with this.
How do you feel?
But why does a man even have to sit down and give you these rules?
Because it starts the relationship off with great communication.
Yeah, communication is key in a relationship.
If there's ever an issue, ever, you at least know at this point I can come to you with this.
There's no hidden guidelines.
You need to come together and make the decision together and have the boundaries and the communication.
Because then at least also, if they go to the club and you've agreed and they're not going to the club, you can sit there and say, actually, we agreed.
So, I agree with you.
It should be that way.
But let's be honest.
It's not everybody's way.
It's just what I'd like.
Do guys ever sit down and say, you know what?
I'm going to cheat on you every now and then.
I'm going to pay the bills half the time.
I'm going to be a dirtbag sometimes.
They don't do that.
They just play the game, tell you what you want to hear, and it happens on the side.
So the reality is, they don't really talk to you like that at the very beginning.
They should.
I agree with you, but it doesn't happen that way all the time.
Men don't tell women the truth because you guys can't handle the truth.
You guys have made a bunch of nonsensical arguments that don't make sense in the face of the truth.
This is why men don't tell y'all the truth.
That's true.
I can't handle the truth because I'm going to slap the hell out of you when you tell me the truth.
Who are you going to slap?
Your man?
A man who's not her man.
Damn!
But my point, going back to it though, you said that celebrities will go for girls and they don't even have to be cute, right?
Yes.
So once again, my man goes to the club and he see a girl, she don't even gotta look that good, but she can still go and fuck him, right?
So I'm not going to say it's as easy as for women, but like I said, once again, it just takes one person.
But what it really is, it's not like...
Your man has to be exceptionally attractive for women to come up to him.
Yeah.
Like, I don't know why women can't wrestle us.
How many men have you approached in your life?
Look, look, look, you gotta think before you speak.
Like, realistically speaking, ladies, how many times have you approached a man in your life?
I guarantee probably most of you here at the table have not approached maybe more than five or ten guys in your entire lifetime.
I'll give them a reason to talk to me.
Hear me out, though.
But you're not approaching them.
That's my point.
Women aren't approaching men.
But you know you look good.
You know you look good.
But it's people out here that I met.
I know thirsty folks out here that will go up to somebody and try to get them in.
You know what I'm saying?
They going for it.
I know thirsty people.
So, like...
No, you just talk the talk, man.
Yeah, literally.
Yeah, you talk the talk.
I can see why the boyfriend ain't the boyfriend, man.
I saw you guys did a video about trade workers.
I'm an owner, operator, truck driver, and have net at 10k a week.
It would be love to come on your show and share the info if possible.
Okay, Fresh Can You Read the rest of the day?
Yep, we got here.
Random Guy says, from 1 to 100, how many willies should a woman go through before settling with a man?
What's a willies?
It's the man's private part.
They say in UK, they say willies.
What's a willie?
Wait, but like, what do you mean?
Sucking in?
No, it's just a willie.
We'll move on.
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Hey!
Ivan Silva says, I own a construction company making $500 to $600K gross, looking to lower my expenses through investments and write-offs.
What would you recommend?
Any connections in New Jersey?
Buy real estate, bro.
That will help you lower your tax liability significantly.
Ladies, what's the lowest caliber man you less smashed?
1 to 10 overall, not just looks.
5 is a regular guy and why?
What is the highest caliber man you rejected and didn't give a chance and why?
It's actually a pretty good question.
Okay, what is the lowest caliber guy that you had sex with and then what is the highest caliber guy you rejected?
They're not going to answer the lowest caliber guy that they fuck broke.
So let's go ahead with the highest caliber guy that they've rejected.
We can start here and then work our way.
I don't know, like from 1 to 10?
No, the second part of the question.
What's the highest caliber?
What do you mean by highest caliber?
Maybe he was a celebrity, maybe he was an athlete, maybe he had some status, whatever, maybe he had some money.
It was someone with status, but not status on height.
He was a good guy.
He had a lot of money.
I just felt that I was taking my nephew out.
Was he famous too or just rich?
Rich but not attractive?
Well, he was actually cute, but he was too tiny for me.
What about you?
Before I say that, I just wanted to tell you that I don't think that what you're looking for out of a relationship is completely unreasonable with men putting forth their boundaries.
However, I do think that it's safe to say...
You're speaking to them?
Who are you addressing?
Okay, the UK girls.
However, I do just think that it's safe to say that it's a lot harder for men to bring forth their boundaries than it is for women just because of the way we react.
For example, a man could say, oh, don't wear that, and that's him placing a boundary, but we're automatically going to call him misogynistic or controlling, rather than us placing a boundary.
I'd like to think if I built that level with my partner, he'd feel comfortable enough to be able to speak to me, because I'm going to be his best friend, his rock.
No, of course.
And I completely understand that.
And I think that's a really good way to look at it.
I think that's a terrible way to look at it.
No, because not every relationship has to be the same.
Bro, your boyfriend is not your fucking best friend.
Do you have a girlfriend?
He's your protector, provider.
He's the leader.
We are not the same.
I'm not going to sit here and be like, oh, we're best friends.
Yeah, we're besties.
I am responsible for you, so therefore I have a degree of authority over you.
We are not the same.
I am not your friend.
And that's what women are most attracted to.
Women don't want a friend.
That's fucking bullshit.
They want a leader.
Here's the thing.
When you have a friend, you friendzone that nigga.
You want a guy that's going to tell you, yo, we're doing this.
Be ready at this time.
I'm going to take care of you.
I'm going to pay the bills, etc.
That's what women actually want.
But we sit here and we lie to women and we tell them, oh no, find an equal.
Find your best friend.
It's all a bunch of bullshit.
Women are not attracted to men that they find as friends.
You want a guy that has a degree of danger, a guy that's mysterious, a guy that has you on your toes, etc.
When they're your friend, you're too comfortable.
And unfortunately, what I've realized is, when women are comfortable with you, they disrespect you.
Unfortunately.
I wish it wasn't like that, but that's just the way it is.
Myron, can I ask you a question?
Sorry.
Can I ask you a question?
I wanted her to finish her point and then you guys can respond to it if you want.
I just had to give my point there that I don't think friendship works, but continue.
No, I just think for their relationships where they want it to be more egalitarian or where they want to be the provider, I think that's fine because not every woman is the same and not every man is the same.
Sure, there's biology and psychology, but I think that, you know, ever since the pill was released, it was revolutionary.
And that alleviated some of the pressure of being the provider on men.
And if that's what she wants, then that's what she wants.
Don't think the pill has anything to do with it.
Yeah, absolutely not.
Okay, maybe I'm choosing my words wrong when I'm saying my best friend because I just want to feel like I can come to them and talk to them about anything.
So I want to make sure that they feel that they can talk to me about anything.
Maybe not be my best friend, but I want to make sure that I'm giving them that safe space.
You can tell them anything.
It's a figure of speech.
You're using it.
Yeah, I'm not saying that I want to be my best friend.
I'm going to friend zone them.
I'm saying I want to be able to give them that That quality of a relationship where they can confine into me.
That's what I'm trying to say.
Basically open up to you emotionally.
Yeah.
I don't think men should do that.
Yeah.
But that's fine.
I shouldn't.
Yeah.
Okay.
So what should you talk about?
Which are men in?
Which you mean if they don't open up to you?
You can open up to us, but we shouldn't open up to you.
If you don't feel emotional about you, too.
I think great.
In both ways.
Because men are not dictated by their emotions like women are.
We're not the same.
I'm not asking you to be dictated.
I'm asking you to show a little bit of feeling.
You're fucking human.
So I have a question.
Do you have a girlfriend?
Do you have a wife?
No, because she was literally just saying, like, you should open up because of emotions, whatever.
And I'm saying, like, because you build attraction through emotion.
And what I'm arguing is that men don't have that same necessity for emotional connection and ties that women do.
But you still have emotion.
Men don't need the same level of emotional stimulation to be tied to their partner.
That's number one.
Number two, men are not as emotional as women.
And then number three, you guys need that bullshit to feel great in a relationship.
We don't need that.
Can I just say, and this is such a point, is the fact that male suicide is so high, and they're always like, oh, males should speak about their emotions more, instead of just bottling up and then going and trying to kill themselves.
Yet when we're trying to give them a space where they can talk to their partner, they should be able to do it because they're a man.
They shouldn't talk to women about it, and I'll tell you why.
They're not going to speak to other men, because men are also...
Why would they tell you what...
Yeah, but your mom's not gonna cry to his best mate.
No, I'm saying men need to go and be vulnerable to other men, not to women.
But they don't.
They take advantage of their shit.
They don't want to look like a weak man in front of another man.
Fuck.
It shows strength if you're able to show me and talk about things.
No, it's an ick.
It is.
I mean, I'm an emotional guy.
Don't do it all the time.
Even the girls on the panel are disagreeing with you.
See, you say you want an emotional guy until you actually get one, and then you're gonna be like, God damn, you're a person.
You can't turn it off, though.
It's who you are.
But if I have a conversation because we're having trouble in our relationship and we want to fix it, then let's have a fucking conversation and fix our relationship.
Do you understand that emotional people, you want an emotional guy, you can't pick and choose when he's emotional.
He's gonna be emotional all the time because he's an emotional individual.
No, a non-emotional guy can talk about his feelings.
No, but if a man is emotional, he's an emotional man.
It will show a lot of times in a lot of situations.
Those men actually do hit you, by the way.
Those emotional men.
Girl, I don't know if they're going to hit you, but they're going to be crying, though.
Yeah, and when they cry to you for two hours, don't go fucking complaining.
Okay, the gray area...
It's usually not even in the...
I want to sit top because once again, that happens randomly.
We're just saying generally speaking, most guys are going to be emotional.
Men should open up to women.
Especially their girlfriend, dude.
And the reason why is because it's pointless.
You guys don't live the same experience that men do.
So are y'all in a relationship?
I can't take that for you.
What does that have to do with conversation?
Because I'm just saying, y'all talking about us, but if you ain't got no girlfriend, then...
Maybe he don't want her.
Obviously, your points are not...
Okay, God is cute, but God is good.
I'm just saying though, God is good.
My bad, I love you guys.
But back to...
You asking what is a relationship, but y'all over here are talking about women this, women that, but...
If you ain't got no successful relationship, then...
Let me ask you a question.
Can't nobody even be talking about me.
Let me ask you a question.
What are women looking for versus what are men looking for in general?
Thank you.
From the opposite gender.
I mean, I don't really know what men are looking for.
I know what I'm looking for.
I know a lot of women are looking for, like, providers.
I don't know what they...
But I don't know what men are looking for.
I don't really care.
They're looking...
So you're asking me a question you don't even really know or care for what you're even trying to argue for or ask.
No, I'm...
Thank you.
I just want happiness.
I'm just saying, I'm just asking, did y'all have a girlfriend?
That's all I am.
I'm asking you, what does that have to do with the topic?
He wants to be your girlfriend, that's why.
Oh no, that's, no.
I'm just saying, like, you keep saying women, this, women, that, and what men can do, what men can do, but if y'all were being men correctly, do you think y'all have a girlfriend?
or not like y'all not doing shit what if they don't want a girlfriend right now they get a girlfriend that's going nowhere that just sits at home but they if they want a girlfriend they can have a girlfriend let me ask you a question now Because clearly I don't think you understand the difference between men and women here.
It's very obvious you don't.
Men and women aren't the same.
A woman's goal is to get a relationship out of the top guy that she can get.
A man's goal is to have as much sexual access as he can.
So let me ask you...
Who picks who fucks?
Men or women?
Women.
Yeah.
Okay.
Now who picks who gets a relationship?
Men or women?
Men.
I agree men, yeah.
Okay.
So wouldn't it be ridiculous for you to ask us if we have a girlfriend when we're the ones that pick the girls?
Just like it would be ridiculous for me to say like, oh, are you fucking a bunch of dudes?
Well, why haven't you found the right girl yet?
Can you just like listen to the question?
Men pick who gets relationships, correct?
Yeah.
And you pick who fucks, right?
Yeah.
So if we don't have a girlfriend or maybe we do have a girlfriend, we're the ones that are picking them, correct?
Mm-hmm.
So that's a stupid question to ask.
Why don't y'all have a girlfriend when we're the ones that means that we're selective, just like you select who you fuck, right?
I mean, but what's wrong?
Why you ain't got no girlfriend, though?
Maybe we don't want one.
But why not?
Are you missing the logic in what I'm saying here?
She's just curious at this point.
So, like, no, no, no, no, no.
Like, you're college educated.
Like, do you not see the ridiculousness of what you're asking?
I see your point, but I'm trying to figure out...
No, I don't.
Why y'all ain't got no girlfriend?
Like, what's the point?
Wait, wait, wait.
But he's asking, right?
For example, the girl in the red hair, she has a low body count.
You know, we should ask her, well, why is she fucking?
More or less.
I don't believe her.
Who got red hair?
Her.
You bragged earlier that you have a low body count, right?
I didn't brag.
I just used it as like...
Yeah, you kind of bragged with it.
Shoot me.
I'm not a hoe.
I'm sorry.
See?
You're saving hoes now.
This shit gotta be weak.
TMI. No, it's not.
He's...
Wow.
Back to the question.
The caliber of me.
I'm really hoping...
Do the other ladies at the panel see what's going on here?
Like, with the ridiculousness?
I don't know.
We kind of lost, you know.
Nah.
This conversation was pointless.
Yeah.
No, it's because she asked a very stupid question.
She said, why don't y'all have girlfriends?
That's like me saying, why aren't you having sex with dudes right now?
Okay.
Because you don't want to.
Because you don't want to, right?
Because you're selective on who you have sex with, right?
Because you choose who fucks, right?
Yeah.
So wouldn't it be fair to say that we choose a guest relationship so we're selective on who we commit to?
Okay.
Common sense.
Easy.
So, now let me ask you again.
Okay.
Why don't you fuck guys right now?
Because I don't want to.
Oh.
Oh.
Y'all funny as hell for that Stupid That's incredible girl And if you must ask Yes I do have a girlfriend So she don't go out?
No.
She sits at home?
Yes.
Is she bored all the time?
No.
She's in a nice apartment building.
I think she's pretty happy.
No, you literally don't have to sit home the whole time.
You don't have to do that.
They just don't want you to go to the club.
You can go to so many other places and have hobbies.
Girls, girls, so tell me.
And here's the other thing too.
She's great because I do what I want.
I have multiple chicks.
Yeah, he does.
Yep.
See, she's a good woman.
Do you get tested between girls?
Oh god, here we go.
No, you should.
But you know what's scary?
It's not about the environment that you're in as a girl.
It's like, if I can mess this up with my man, is it worth it?
No.
Girls.
It's just like, I don't know, bro.
Is my man gonna be with multiple chicks?
Hold on, hold on, hold on.
Why do guys go to the club?
That's a good question.
To fuck.
Exactly.
So why would you want girls to go to clubs?
Oh, no.
I go to clubs and get licks.
No, I don't care what you want.
Niggas go to the club to fuck.
Oh.
So then again, why should men be able to go to the club if y'all in a relationship, if you go to the club to fuck?
Because they can fuck whoever they want.
I don't care about the niggas.
I care about the girl I'm with.
Why am I going to be with a girl that wants to shake her ass in the club?
And she's like, no, I ain't trying to fuck.
I already explained to you why a guy can go to the club and have sex with a girl and it's not that big of a deal versus if a woman does it, it's a big problem.
I would never understand how I make you up for somebody to say he loves you.
Nobody's gonna wife a bitch that's in the club.
Fuckin' all his friends and then he find out...
No one's also gonna marry a guy that's just fuckin' girls in the club.
I would argue a man that has sex with a bunch of girls at the club is very attractive to a lot of women.
Hold on.
Where did you hear a man?
I left my man.
Hold on.
The club, right?
I met at an event, actually.
Yeah, I met at an event.
At an event, a social event.
You can't make this up, bro.
Women, ladies, do you not understand?
Yeah, but I didn't get with him that night.
We've been talking ever since, and then we met up and went on dates.
So, I guess it's different than just going home and shagging us all in a little sleep.
And you gave him a kid.
Shagging.
You're missing the point that a dude that can fuck a bunch of girls is attractive.
A girl that fucks a bunch of dudes is not.
A whore.
I don't want my mom fucking nice to go.
Nobody wants a whore.
Yeah, but if he's pulling bitches, it's something.
No man with no STD.
Honestly, men don't want a whore.
Experience, that's one thing.
So, I think we are going to disagree here.
I don't think experience actually means the amount of people you had sex with, because I feel like the more you have sex with monogamously, then it just gets better and better for both people, because you get to know each other's bodies more.
I agree with you.
That's a female perspective.
For a female perspective, I don't know what my man thinks.
Do you disagree?
Well, my man says it gets better with me each time, so I would think so.
You don't think sex gets better with time?
For you guys.
So what a woman and a guy with connection is better.
But once again, after a while, it gets boring.
Really?
It does.
I don't want to sound like an asshole.
A lot of you ladies on the panel don't know shit about men, bro.
This is crazy.
Like, men don't need the same, you know, emotional connection to have sex for men.
Men want...
There's a reason why they say, I'm going to go get some strange.
Men want variety.
Men want different women.
We're gonna go get someone.
And get a Gemini.
Strange.
What?
What did you just say?
A bit of strange.
In America, it's a term for getting a new girl.
I've never heard that.
Never heard that either.
But men want sexual variety is my point.
I'm sorry.
I mean, think about it.
You guys are going to a club, right?
A couple of y'all are going to a club after this?
Think about it.
You mentioned it yourself.
Why do men have 10 to 15 different girls at the section?
Yeah.
Because they were trying to find whoever they're going to fuck that night.
They're trying to look like they have a bunch of people out here.
Is that variety?
Yeah.
Is that variety?
When you go to the section tonight, y'all are not going to be the only women there.
There's going to be you guys.
There's going to be blondes.
There's going to be Asian girls, black girls.
There's going to be girls of all different varieties.
Y'all are not going to be the only ones there.
So that proves my point that men want variety.
Okay, so since y'all are into variety, that's why y'all say it's okay for y'all to go be with somebody else and then come at us.
I'm not saying that.
I'm saying that men have a natural proclivity to want to have multiple women.
You guys want to have sex with the same guy all the time and it gets better because you have more emotional connection.
For men, it's like, we want some strange every now and then.
I'm not y'all tired.
We get bored of having sex with our girlfriends, dude.
Yeah, we do.
That's a dark secret, but yeah, y'all fucking...
But y'all don't think we get tired of having sex with y'all?
Then why don't you talk about spending up the bedroom?
There's so many other things you could do.
No, because women typically want monogamy from one guy.
The best guy.
And that's what they want.
Most of them want to have sex with just one guy versus multiple guys.
Most.
Not all, but most.
True.
So, why are you arguing against variety?
Because my man don't need no variety.
You have no man.
Yo, you're delusional, bro.
You have no man, what the fuck?
My man, that ain't my man, he don't need no damn variety, okay?
Man, he probably talking to a girl that's not part of you right now.
Damn!
They're like, baby, what's your podcast?
Alright, go.
Oh, man.
You finna drop her after this show?
So, are you finna turn this on?
Uh, yeah.
Highest caliber, right?
Okay.
Have any of you declined?
Oh no, because you were trying to talk to the British girls.
So what about you?
Highest caliber guy you've declined?
He was a celebrity.
I'm not going to say who.
Drake?
No, not Drake.
That's fine.
A-list, C-list, B-list?
I think A or B. I'm not sure what he is.
Rapper, basketball?
He's a rapper.
What's his name?
I'm not saying his name.
He has a song with Nicki Minaj, that's the closest name.
It's not Drake, though.
NBA Jump Boy?
But I said no, because I think he's ugly.
Okay, so, I don't want to sound like an asshole, but with all due respect, you're a fairly average looking woman, but you rejected an A-list celebrity.
I'm just not attracted to him, and I don't care about the money, so that's why.
Damn, why you had to say that?
That's just his opinion.
I think he's not that good looking either, so it's just our opinions.
But I feel like, why you had to say that about her?
It's not shade, it's just the honest truth.
He doesn't think I'm that attractive, I don't think he's that attractive.
I said you're an average woman.
I think you're an average woman *laughter* I'm gonna get an answer!
No, she said, "Bombering!" Let's really behave like a child!
I'm gonna attack!
I'm gonna attack!
I'm gonna get an answer!
It's just a joke.
Yeah, it's a joke.
It's a joke.
It goes back to my point that I said before.
I said barely average women have access to celebrities and there's my point.
She rejected an A-list rapper and she's an average looking chick.
No offense.
That's why he said, oh, you could be an average woman and a rapper would still get at you.
Alright, I see what you're saying.
Come on, man.
Okay, she got it.
Rappers literally hit everything.
Don't get out here fucking off on you on average, bitches.
But you gotta think, rappers are still men.
No, no, no.
I'm saying men in general.
She literally declined an A-list or B-list celebrity and she's an average looking chick.
That's my point.
That's what I'm trying to say.
So when you guys said, oh, a guy could go on social media and get chicks.
A guy could go to the club and get girls.
I'm like, not really.
Not really.
If top tier guys are struggling, what do you think a regular guy is going to do?
I don't think it's stupid.
He's going to go on.
I don't think they're struggling.
I think she said no.
I think just I said no.
And I have a very reason for saying no.
People out here that's going to say yes every time.
If you said no...
Everyone has a type, but we're just saying, if she can decline a guy like that...
If she can do it, man.
God damn.
Alright, what about you?
I've turned down a couple of people who make music.
Not like Alistair.
Like D? No, I don't really know.
I know who it is.
I don't really know the levels.
I say C. What if she's saying C? UK rap?
Grime?
Yeah, UK rap.
What's his name?
Nothing.
So in the UK, he's had some status and she turned him down.
Okay.
Was he from Brixton?
No comment.
Alright, what about you?
From the nines?
What about your name?
I went on a date with a guy once and he owned a big business.
I know, I said this story earlier.
And he took me on this date and he took me to this really fancy restaurant.
He was just doing the most.
He was like, yeah, I get caviar and subscription.
I was like, oh, you make me sick.
Delivered to his house.
Yeah, delivered to his house.
And then he'd been on this show, a big cooking show in the UK. So we went for dinner and he's getting the waitress and being like, can you cook it this way?
In this certain sauce?
And I was like, do you want to just go and ask the chef how to cook it?
And I was like, you just gave me the ick.
So I was like, no, I never text him back.
He did way too much.
Too much.
Too much.
But again, to get to that level, he did a lot too.
Yeah, he did a lot, but he just didn't do it right.
No game.
No game.
I feel like nobody really special talks to me.
No high celebrities or anything.
Z? Like a Z-list?
Zerka Zerka Yeah but I didn't Turn him down Oh okay That's true That's true Alright You see what I did there?
Yeah I see She's smart though Alright, what about you?
I ain't never had no celebrity try to talk to me.
It was like a million...
What you mean by that?
Man!
Alright, she never had a celebrity talk to me, but I had like a millionaire talk to me, but I didn't talk to him because he had a wife.
That counts, yeah.
So someone with status.
Alright, what about you?
Period, Pooh.
A celebrity or highest caliber guy to talk to you?
She has.
He was the NFL player.
Fantastic.
So, no, I turned him down.
Turned him down.
I'm not gonna say the reason cuz I'm not trying to put nobody manhood out there.
What team is it?
Oh, it was small?
No!
Wait, you fucked them, so what do you mean?
No, no.
Oh.
It was, it went, like, it got out.
Shit got out, like, picture.
What the fuck got out?
His dick off the pants.
Like, he sent me and I'm like, no.
What about you?
So, wait, hold on.
If it was big, you'd have been good.
No, if it was big, I would have been like weirded out.
So that shit was small?
He just sent it to me out of nowhere.
So it just weirded me out.
Oh, he sends it to her.
Yeah.
Alright, what about you?
Nobody really slides on my DMs or anything, so I'm just showing.
Do you got a boyfriend?
I'm not going to answer that on the podcast.
My love life is not a topic right now.
Why'd you come on a dating podcast?
I didn't know this was a dating podcast.
My friend asked me to come and I came.
She lied.
Who's your friend?
Stupid!
Melissa!
Oh, okay.
Damn, Melissa!
Well, she got your hair, so it's whatever.
Nah, she's definitely lying to me.
Yeah, she knew, bro.
She just doesn't want to say that now because she feels dumb.
No, that's not why.
You don't know how I feel.
I know how you're responding to the questions that we've given you throughout the course of the podcast and you've embarrassed yourself quite a few times while contradicting yourself.
Okay, thank you for telling me that I embarrassed myself because I personally did not think I did.
Watch the show back and you'll see.
Great, I will.
You probably won't.
They say truth hurts.
It's very obvious that no one in your life has ever told you that you're wrong.
Or that doesn't make sense.
Or you're contradicting yourself or anything.
It's definitely not Tripp and told I'm wrong many, many, many times.
That's even worse.
I don't think so.
I don't think so.
Because you have a listening problem as well, but that's fine.
What about you?
Highest caliber guy that you've turned down.
Uh...
You know...
I don't know what they do.
I see that they have the thingamabobby and I'm like, cool.
The car, the Lambos.
Anybody can get those.
I was talking like NBA and like, um, singers.
She outside, man.
You know me.
She outside.
She being modest, man.
Yeah.
Yeah.
Probably.
I don't know.
Yeah.
But what was the first part of the question?
No, no.
We're going to move forward.
That proves the point, bro.
You got girls talking to celebrities and everything else like that and just still getting rejected, man.
It's tough out here, man.
It's tough out here, bro.
Very tough.
It's really tough out here.
FJB... FJB is 10 to 50 bucks.
Shout out to you, bro.
Any more, Chris?
Let me read it.
Oh.
Hey, Myron.
Wanting to thank you about realizing woman nature.
Baby mama did me dirty.
Took my kids in condo.
Used to blame her, but you made me realize I brought this upon myself for not setting boundaries and knowing my worth.
Respect to you, brother.
Cool.
Shout out to you, bro.
Glad you realized now.
Devorah Darkin says, results tell the story.
Successful parents who are married don't spend time at the club.
They value their sleep and quality time with their family.
These women think they can have it all, but their life shows them that they can't.
Are any ladies going to change their opinion on the club now that you guys have kind of heard what men think about the club?
Fuck it, we're still going to the club.
We don't care.
I'm going to go to the club until I find a provider.
Provider?
AT&T? T-Mobile?
Wait, AT&T is crazy.
That's the only providers.
Did you sell?
I've been with my girl a long time.
I love her very much and I'm going to marry her.
If she goes to the club one time, she's single.
She's well aware of this and won't even hang out with club girls.
We've had hard-line gender roles and both of us are happy.
So you got a guy here.
He's been with this girl for a long time, but if she goes to the club one time, he's gonna break up with her.
And he's gonna marry her.
That's his business.
I can't argue with you.
No, I mean, it's just, it's just, man.
He'd just be mad every time you talk.
I mean, we're doomed, bro.
Like, it's crazy to me, like, A dude has to be exceptional and just to get like a girl to like not do basic stuff like go to the club.
Yeah.
Like he's got to be like, and the top guy.
Can I get turned down?
I mean, barely, man.
Like, you know what's interesting?
I see emigrants come to this country, right?
They get what?
Emigrants come to this country, right?
Right?
Guy brings his wife, right, and kids.
And...
He can barely have a job, maybe he's on welfare, he's struggling, etc.
But his wife is still at home, cooking and cleaning, taking care of the kids.
And he can barely provide, but he's trying his hardest, right?
But he doesn't have to pay all the bills and do all this extra shit and have a big dick and have status and all that to get his girl to stay at home.
The wife stays at home because in her culture, it's shameful to be at a nightclub shaking your ass with a bunch of other men.
It's kind of weird.
It's unacceptable.
But here in America and in the West and the UK too, it's completely socially acceptable for women to put themselves...
In compromising situations for the relationship and think, I want to be independent.
I should be able to do what I want to do, etc.
But you got immigrant women coming from other places that have no money.
Their guy can't even provide for them a lot of time, but they understand basic loyalty and duty.
It's wild to me.
But is the woman staying at home and he's going to work?
That's literally what I just said.
Okay, then.
He's still providing.
Even though he don't have a lot of money, he's still providing for her.
But my point is that guys of lower socioeconomic status, right?
They can still be rest assured that their girl is not going to do stupid shit regardless of their status because the women just come that way.
You understand?
Versus here in the United States, UK, Canada, etc.
You guys have different morals, different standards.
And I mean, this is what I tell guys.
Don't marry girls from the West a lot of times because a lot of y'all think it's appropriate to go to a club when you have a man at home.
Like, I would never commit to a woman that wants to go to the nightclub when she's my girl.
Look at what's going on with Logan Paul.
But you don't come in anyways.
You said you got other people.
You know what's interesting?
She's gonna do it with the fucking milkman while you're at work.
If she's gonna fuck someone else, it doesn't matter whether she's in the club or not.
But here's the thing, if she's gonna go to the club, that already tells me where her character's at.
But no, because there's ladies who stay at home, stay at home wife, and they get bored and fuck the neighbor.
How do you get bored?
Just do it.
You've got a hobby.
But see, it's the mentality, though.
Clean more.
It's the mentality.
But I feel like this is your mentality that you're projecting onto us.
That's not my business.
You've got your opinion.
Why are you single?
That's my opinion.
But I know that you can tell what to do.
Why are you single?
I'm telling you guys, it's amazing to me how men tell...
This is why men can't be honest with women.
Y'all don't like the truth.
You guys literally don't like the truth because I'll say what men in general want and you'll be like, well, it's my life.
I want to live my life.
Cool.
Then you live your life single and a guy's going to go get another woman.
I'm not begging for a man.
That's true.
But I'm not begging for a man.
That's the problem.
You need to be begging for one.
I'll get one when it's my time.
You're not going to be able to get one.
I'm not going to be able to get one.
Because we're in control.
So why do we need to beg if we're the ones that get one?
See, that's the problem.
You're not in control.
You're not in control.
At all.
So Manny's going to find me when it's time?
Can you stop aging?
Yeah, for sex.
Can you stop aging right now?
Botox.
Aw.
That's gross.
Too bad.
First one, because you need it, babe.
And then you look like crazy.
Hold on, let me ask you a question.
Are you getting down on your knee and proposing to a man?
Thank you.
No.
So then you don't have control?
No, I don't have control.
So I'm not looking, but I have to be found.
That's why you're single, we know that.
Yeah?
Yeah.
Of course, I'm not actively seeking a relationship.
Am I getting confused?
If you want to work, hold on, let me ask you a question, because your logic doesn't make sense.
Let's say you want to work at a law firm, right?
A prestigious law firm.
Don't you have to go to law school, work, understand, apply for the law firm, beat out all the applicants, get the job, and then work your way up?
Okay.
So, are you gonna get a job at a prestigious law firm by not looking and the law firm picking you?
But she's saying she's just not doing that right now.
She's not saying she wouldn't do that.
I'm open to it whenever it's available, but I'm not dating thoughts.
I'm not asking random men to take me out.
I'm saying yes if someone wants to take me out, but I'm not...
Oh my god, I need a man.
Oh, let's go find me a man.
See, and that's the problem.
Hold on, hold on, hold on.
I don't need one or want one.
This is the problem.
If you're not willing to need a man, you're not going to do what's required to keep the man and he's not going to take you seriously and wife you up.
I've been engaged twice and left them.
Those weren't the men that you wanted?
Yeah, because I had everything and I left them because they didn't make me happy and my happiness comes more than any other thing.
Like money, financial things like that.
I'm not looking for that.
I'm looking for someone that just makes me happy because I can do those things myself.
You need somebody to make you happy.
That's crazy.
No, I'm not saying that I can make myself happy.
I'm just looking for someone that makes me happy.
Someone that adds to a type in a way that's not just so much of it.
Marriage is not happiness through and through.
It's sorrow.
100% you're not going to have an easy relationship.
I'm just saying like I would choose feeling happy with someone that has no money and has nothing rather than being unhappy with a guy that just has everything.
That's the biggest library.
You're an entrepreneur.
You're not dating no bum.
I'm not saying that, but I'm saying like I have a lot of...
So money does matter.
Yeah, it does matter.
But that's like the problem with society today.
It's like we live in an individualistic society and all we care about is me, me, me.
And that's the problem.
That's why so many relationships are failing.
That's why so many children are children of divorced families.
It's because we always think that there's something better out there rather than being content and realizing, looking at it from a perspective, oh, I have a good guy.
He treats me well.
Yeah, but if you're not in a content relationship, would you?
Because everyone in the world is telling you not to settle for anything but the best.
Do you want your child to grow up seeing an unhappy relationship and think that that's normal for them to grow up in or to see two co-parents that are really happy and friendly together and seeing a healthy, happy co-parent relationship rather than seeing an unhappy relationship and then when they grow up thinking that's what they're going to have a want for their life.
But I think she means that right now, in times where right now, it's very easy to just...
No, of course.
That's not what I'm saying.
I'm just saying that going into a relationship for the sole purpose and goal is I need to be happy, then that relationship is destined to fail.
I'm not saying I need to be happy.
I'm saying I want to be in a relationship where we both feel happy because happiness means more to me than other things.
You didn't say that at first.
No.
Yeah, but this is what I'm trying to explain.
I'm sorry if I said my words wrong.
This is what I'm trying to say.
But why would you get in a relationship and not be happy though?
That's not my sole goal.
So when you get in a relationship, what's your reason?
I'm choosing a relationship with the person that makes you happy.
That's what I'm trying to say.
If you get in a relationship, what's your reason to get in a relationship?
My reason to get into a relationship, if my man can provide for me.
And by provide, I don't only mean financially because we are on an equal earning level.
But you've got to provide for you for happiness.
No, not necessarily.
So what if you were in a relationship and he did everything for you, but you weren't happy?
Ladies, ladies, ladies, one question at a time, please.
One question at a time.
He don't pay no bills, right?
What?
If he don't pay no bills, he don't make me happy, what he here for?
What you need a man for?
You can pay your own bills.
Well, I would never get into a relationship with that kind of man.
That's not the only thing.
But happiness is not my main goal.
Stability, protection, those are my main goals.
Will he be a good father?
Those are the main goals, not just my happiness.
Okay, so you have everything, but you're not happy.
Right.
If you had all that, I'd be happy.
Okay, but if you think about it with that mentality, you don't ever give yourself a chance to be happy.
You already look at the golden perspective.
I'm not looking at it from a gold digger's perspective at all.
No, no, no.
When I say provide, when I say provide, I just said I don't necessarily mean financially because we are in an equal income field.
If it's not financially, what else are they going to provide to you other than happiness and support and love?
You know, a man can provide so much more than tangible value to us.
If he's not making you happy...
I'm sorry?
Like, you say you wouldn't go in a relationship without trying to be happy, but why would you be happy?
If you don't come home from work and you see him and you immediately start smiling, what is he there for?
He's not a dog.
You understand, right?
Men and women are individuals, right?
At the same time, happiness does play a factor, but it should not be an all be all.
Because once again, it's ups and downs.
It's a rollercoaster.
It's never going to be all the way flatline.
So we're just saying, look, your happiness should be within you.
If it has to make you happy for you to be happy, it's going to fade away eventually.
No, but I'm going to do my best to make them feel happy.
Do you have high standards in men?
Are you very picky?
If you've been engaged to it twice and you left them, then you clearly are picky.
I'm not picky of looks, but I think in like...
How do you make it feel?
You picky about something though.
I think for me, marriage is like I want to be married to the right guy and I want that forever.
Do you think your chances of finding the right guy...
Are better now or maybe a few years before or later on?
God knows.
I don't want to think about it.
Let's have that uncomfortable conversation because women don't want to acknowledge the truth.
Do you think you have a better chance of finding the right guy right now or maybe a few years past?
Probably not.
I'm a lot older now.
If I have kids, I know that I'm not going to be as desirable as someone who's 18 and he doesn't have a child.
I know that.
But it doesn't mean I'm going to devalue it myself and what I want just because I might not have the same opportunities as someone who's younger, pretty, and doesn't have a kid.
How about this?
But what if what you want doesn't want you back?
Then they're not the right one for me.
That's incredible.
Only females can say something ridiculous like that.
I just want to tell you.
What if I walked around and I was fat and a slob and I was like, yo, I want a bad bitch.
No, bad bitches need to like me even though I'm a fat slob.
Take me as I am.
Just accept me for being a fat slob.
Why is it that women are not going to lower their standards and understand like, yo, you can no longer negotiate for the man that you had that you could have negotiated for 10 years ago.
So, what's the age that you've got to negotiate?
Like you're talking to me.
Ladies, once you reach a certain age or you have kids, you can't sit there and like demand the same quality of man anymore.
You can't.
Yeah.
You're 29, you have a child, you can't demand certain caliber of men anymore, unfortunately.
I agree.
I 100% agree.
So then, you got two options.
It's either I'm going to lower my standards and live in reality of what I can actually attract, I can write a check that I can actually cash, or you're going to stay single.
What do you want to do?
But like I said, I'm like Lauren Sanders of where I'm not looking for someone to provide.
I'm not looking for the most beautiful guy.
I am just looking for someone that makes me happy, like I'll make them happy.
But you're missing the point that what is required for them to make you happy in the first place where you give them a chance.
To be a good guy.
There's plenty of good guys that I guarantee talk to you and you don't give them a chance.
There's other things.
How do you know I don't give them a chance?
Starbucks.
You're still single.
Because I want to be.
No, you don't.
That's the point, though.
Yeah, but when I'm ready...
I would argue once you get to a certain age, it's not because you want to be, it's because...
You have to be.
You fucked up.
You fucked up.
That's what it is.
And we don't want to tell women these uncomfortable truths that, like, yo...
Because here's the thing.
By the time a girl is 21, 22, 23...
And she reaches 29.
There's been hundreds of guys that were fantastic that probably would have been good counterparts.
But you just chose like, ah, I can do better.
I can do better.
I can do better.
Like women are kind of always at the gambling table, up in the stakes, waiting in the casino longer and longer.
The next thing you know, it's fucking six o'clock.
Time for the casino to close.
You don't got no more chips.
And women don't want to accept that.
You have a perishable amount of time to get the best guy.
Speaking of time, same thing with the show.
Yeah, yeah.
Okay, fair enough.
So you, Miss 24-year-old, I think you need to start needing a man instead of thinking, I want a man.
Because if you just want a man, you're not going to do what's required to keep the man.
I'm ready for it if someone comes to the timer, but there's no one in the picture.
Maybe go to them.
Maybe go ask your guy out.
Yeah, you've got to start looking.
Oh, that's too bad.
So can I ask you?
Yeah.
What age should you stop being picky?
That's a very good question.
I think girls should stop being picky at like 25, bro.
I think y'all should stop being picky at 25.
Honestly.
But our prime is like my age, and your prime is like mid-30s.
25.
Wait, what'd you say?
So like, our prime is like this age.
Yes.
Our prime is like this age, and your prime is...
18 to 24.
Yeah.
And your prime is like 35.
Or older, yeah.
So you're always going to end up dating, like, different ages.
Men want younger women.
Yeah, and women want older, superior men.
But that sucks for you, though, because you have a certain amount of time to find a superior man.
Yep.
Once that's gone, he can't negotiate.
And that will actually keep you.
Yeah.
I'm here.
He wants it.
She's ready.
I love food.
Didn't you say you're talking to a guy in the UK? I didn't say it was a guy.
What?
Oh, shoot.
It's a girl?
A Transformer?
Well said.
Okay.
All right.
Fantastic.
Okay.
Where we at here?
As a man, 38 to 40s, we're able to attract girls of 18 and 22.
Is this considered too young for our dating options?
No.
No, bro.
18.
Absolutely.
Yes.
That's weird.
You want to date women in their early 20s, bro.
You don't want to date older women.
No offense to any ladies here that are older.
I don't know if y'all noticed, but some of the older ladies here on the panel...
Do you think that's okay?
Are kind of stuck in their ways.
Like, hey, I'm not going to change my opinion, blah, blah, blah.
They kind of have their mindset made and that's fine, right?
I want to be happy for me or it's okay to go to club.
I don't know.
Like, older women in general kind of tend to be stuck in their ways.
They're less coachable, unfortunately.
It's what it is.
Shit.
It's Sumi Mario.
Yeah.
Shout out Fresh and Fit.
Appreciate the content.
I've been listening since 2021.
Shout out to you, bro.
Mamma Mia!
Yeah.
304 is unlimited all expense paid vacations for life, but you're single forever or settle down with your dream man tomorrow.
I'm going on a holiday.
Alright.
Fair enough.
We got you.
Devery Darkens goes, results tell the story.
Successful parents who are married don't spend time at the club.
They value their time and family.
These women think they can have it all, but their life shows them otherwise.
Mo, do we have chats that are not safe for YouTube?
I think these are all safe.
Oh my God, they dare roll for that.
They should be all safe.
It'll be fine.
Okay.
All right.
Women who maintain friendships with overweight women tend to exhibit dishonest behavior, often using their comparisons as a means to enhance their own image.
Any of y'all got fat friends?
No.
I do have a slightly overweight friend.
Slightly.
What's her name?
Slightly, that means 30 pounds overweight.
I don't know what that is.
Her BMI is like 23.
Obi-Wan Kenobi goes, the UK girl in the white top looks like Maureen.
Girls.
Yeah, they said that you look like Maureen Ponderosa from It's Always Sunny in Philadelphia.
I thought Cat Lady, can we see who that is?
Best music, here to support FNF, cool.
Shout out to you, bro.
And then, shout out to you, bro.
Tom Jones goes, ladies, ears are linked to their vajayjay, no doubt.
Also, Asian lady, stop capping.
Who's capping?
Which one?
No, Asian lady.
He's Asian, too.
I'm Asian, too.
Oh, wait, yeah, you're both Asian.
I don't know which one.
Ask ladies if marriage is worth it for men, and then point at 8 out of 10 of the girls, and then reveal the stats.
Ask ladies if marriage is fine.
I don't care.
That sums it up right there, man.
I wouldn't want my girl to put herself in a situation where she's a subject of infidelity like going to the club.
Regardless of security and trust because I can trust men to be men and act like men.
Fair enough.
It's not that the guy doesn't trust you ladies, he just doesn't trust the men.
Prager Marcos, they are contradicting themselves, but the Asian-looking girl got the least screws loose.
Gold is a straight-up hypocrite.
Oh, I missed that part.
Gold is a straight-up hypocrite and at least desirable at the table gotta be some ugly rich man to want.
Unless it's just fucking, to be honest.
2911 as well.
Just give a donation.
Shout out to you, bro.
I see that.
100 bucks.
He says, I'd never give a Western woman a ring unless I got brain surgery.
She's actually Iranian.
Yes, I paid all the bills.
She also doesn't care if I sleep with other women, but she only sleeps with me.
By the way, I appreciate you guys keep fighting the good fight.
Oh, because you asked, is he paying all the bills?
Yeah.
And if his girl went to the club, he would not marry her.
Oh, this is the one that says something about...
Okay, okay.
Yeah, yeah.
He pays all the bills.
Because that was the first thing you sassed.
She don't care.
Yeah, and he has sex with other girls.
An Iranian Habibi!
Yeah, he's there, yeah.
I'm 6'4", earned over six figures, built and from the UK. On both of my trips to Miami, I smashed two married women and I picked up in the club.
That's why ladies shouldn't be in the club unless single.
Yeah, there's only time y'all doing a club.
That's crazy.
And they came just to dance.
Yeah.
Oh my goodness.
I can't be dancing.
I can't be dancing.
Yeah, man.
Yo, man.
Shake my ass.
Tell him, man.
My dope!
My homeboy!
Yes, sir!
Versus balls.
Have you...
Oh, go ahead, Bryce.
This is your boss.
I don't even want to read that.
Yes, you do.
Yes, sir.
I got it.
Have you girls thought about someone else during sex after...
After getting jiggy with Amy, we're back to blowing backs of three or fours.
First tell Miranda the importance of her using operation hands to work your gherkin I don't know They're making fun of him too.
Michelle116, second ovary down from Fresh would get dog walked by a 14 year old boy in high school.
You're getting smoked by Transformers in your own women's league.
Stop the cap.
You have anything you want to say back to him?
What?
What did he say?
Yeah, trans people should not be wanting to be sport.
Why not?
I agree with him.
No, no, no.
He's saying, because you said that you would fight a man, he said you would get beat up by a 14-year-old.
Let's watch it happen.
I want to see what the outcome is.
I'll fight a 14-year-old.
You're going to jail.
You're going to jail.
No, no, no.
She's going to the hospital.
And then jail.
Yeah, like the 14-year-old is going to fuck her up, man.
I just got to ask this.
How many girls here think they can actually fight a man?
Raise your hands.
I know you think you can.
I know I'm going to win, but I will fight though.
I'm not saying I didn't fight any man, but some men I believe that I could fight.
95% of men would beat you up.
And you think you could fight men too?
And then you think you could fight one?
I'm strong, I can.
She said she'd be going to the gym.
So you think you could fight a guy too?
You want to try?
They're being funny.
But in the real scenario...
Yeah, bro.
They're running, bro.
They're running.
Yeah.
That's just scary, because I, like...
I'd be...
Because we brought girls on the show before that say, I could fight a man or whatever, like...
That's why I'm kind of like an asshole and I'm like, no, you can't.
You're gonna lose.
And I think me yelling at them and telling them, like, you can't fight a guy, it might save their life.
But I don't know why women think, like, if you ever square up with a guy, you're the dumbest bitch ever.
You're the dumbest female ever.
You're like, what the fuck are you doing?
Why would you want to fight a guy in the first place?
Like, I hope you guys are kidding around, but like, never ever square up with a man.
Like, you're fucking retarded.
You will never win.
Every single time.
Like, what the fuck, man?
Anyway, what's good, FNF gents?
I have a question for the ladies I provide while my wife stays at home and tends to the two kids less than two years.
Knowingly, her value starts from being home.
What are your thoughts?
Keep her in the house, bro.
That's how you want it.
Gaz goes, the more high IQ the daytime show is, the lower the IQ the nighttime show is.
Goldballstrike, donate $100.
Thank you.
Just short support.
These women are delusional.
I'll be in Miami this month because I'm moving from Chicago.
I hope I can avoid these 304s.
You only can't.
Can't avoid them.
- Don't do more.
- Hey, please, we don't like it.
- The fucking way.
- Call about DM me.
- You say you don't go to the club for men, then why don't y'all go to the gay clubs and bars instead?
I do.
I do.
You go to Twist?
Yes, with my friends.
What's Twist?
Twist is a gay club on South Beach.
We don't know, so...
Wait, hold on, hold on.
No.
You don't go there every night, though.
No.
Tonight I'm going to see Steve Aoki, which is, like, my favorite all-time.
Wait, wait.
So, would you smash him?
Ew, no.
Absolutely not.
You said you won't stay- Wait, smash who?
Steve Aoki?
I'm sorry.
He's so ugly.
If you put you on stage, you're- I would not.
That's gross.
I'd probably be in Star Shock, be like, oh my god, I love your music, but that's it.
I'm like, I love your dick.
You're acting like you're probably gonna be on Molly.
No, I'm going with one of my friends and I'm not taking drugs.
I don't know how much fucking Molly you said, but I didn't fucking say that.
You say you don't go to the club for me.
Oh, no.
Okay.
Oh, I know...
Oh, I know it's because you love the attention you receive from straight males.
That's true.
Well, girls be going to a club for attention, too.
That's the other thing.
Men are self-deleting because they aren't getting what they want from life.
They want to be fit and successful.
They don't need to cry anymore.
Cry more.
They need to work out and earn money.
That's true.
Self-deleting.
That's true.
Some money.
For sure.
All I hear pink hair every time she speak is...
Who's got pink hair?
What the hell?
What the hell?
He a mad ass home.
That's it.
Mario, thank you, Mario.
Okay, last thoughts from the girls?
I believe it's time.
Yeah, last thoughts from the ladies because we got to get y'all out of here.
Okay, thoughts on the show?
Questions, comments?
Oh, hi.
I had a blast.
Loved hearing from you guys, I guess.
And yeah.
I feel like I lost brain cells listening to some of them.
No bullshit.
Fucking idiots, but it's okay.
What about you?
Last thoughts, disagreements?
Thoughts?
Massagony.
No comment.
Massagony.
No comment.
Go ahead, say it, man.
No, say yo comment.
Say it.
She's good.
Would you come back?
I don't know.
Okay.
I'm gonna say probably not.
But if someone I know really wants to go, then I would go with them.
But this is the only way I would come back.
Why?
You don't like it?
I mean, no.
It's fun.
I mean, don't complain.
You could maybe, like, learn something, you know?
It's fine, it's fine, it's fine.
Don't worry, I won't if you don't want me here.
You don't want to come.
I don't want to force you.
If you want to come, I'm not going to force you, okay?
Well, listen, this is your opinion on it.
Understandable.
Yeah, it's fine.
What about you?
She's tight, man.
Um, I had fun.
You guys are cool.
I thought you guys would be assholes.
Damn it!
We messed up!
Like, real assholes.
They're much nicer than the unfiltered, I'll say that.
Much more respectful.
Nah, it's cause the only thing I seen was that Asian doll shit and that shit was funny as fuck, so.
Shout out to Asian doll.
Shout out to Asian doll.
She a queen, man.
Big booty queen.
She a queen.
She a dumb bitch, but that's fine.
You trying to talk about Asian doll like that?
Nah, that's my sash twin.
Don't do her like that.
Yeah, man, she a failed rapper.
She's on OnlyFans selling ass now.
It's moving though.
At least...
They said...
Well...
That's how you know her rap career didn't...
She was terrible.
What about you?
Um...
I had a good time.
Period.
I feel like you kind of like...
Yeah.
You was kind of mean to her.
My head.
But other than that...
I feel like you don't really have...
I don't feel like that's how people...
I was honest with her.
I think you could have been honest in a more respectful way.
Like, you ain't gotta call her dumb and stuff like that.
I'm not crying.
Tell me how I could have been more honest in a respectful way.
Go ahead.
No, we'll talk about that off camera.
She's gonna fight you.
He's not gonna talk to you about that.
I'm not gonna talk to you off camera.
Okay, great.
Then I'm just gonna leave.
Okay, so you don't want to say?
This is your chance.
You don't need to know.
You'll figure it out for yourself.
Oh She's extra mad Is that a threat?
I think she's passive-aggressive She said she would hit a man.
She said she has before.
She's really angry.
Whatever.
You have a listening problem, but it's fine.
No, she's flirting.
What about you?
I had a lot of fun.
Definitely lost brain cells.
Okay.
What about you?
Do you know, I really enjoyed it.
Don't lie.
No, like, I think everyone's got their own different opinions.
So, you know what it is, what it is.
You can't please everyone.
Are you going to go back to those guys and engage to you?
Nope.
Hell no.
Hell no.
Nah, she a painting.
Is that how you say it?
A painting?
A painting.
There you go.
Are you going to try to land the guy that you're seeing here in Miami?
No.
I'll meet him later, yeah.
Good.
Not being like, are you going to try to get him to commit to you?
We'll see how things go Get me a British girl bring out here fucker Fucker Remind him.
Back to Brixton.
I'm literally on holiday.
No one play me out.
Back to Brixton.
Hey, it's having fun.
Okay.
Even better for him.
What about you?
Back to Brixton.
Last thoughts, questions, quick comments, I don't know.
I mean, it was definitely a debate.
I don't know about fun, but I had a good time.
My feelings.
Is that why it wasn't fun?
Because we hurt your feelings?
No, no, no.
I just think you have a very, very closed mindset.
Oh, shit.
Yeah, Ma, who hurt you, man?
Is it closed-minded or is it how men think in general?
It ain't how you think, it's how you're saying it.
If I say one plus one is two or one plus one is fucking two, does it change the fact that it's still two?
No.
No, but like...
So, facts over feelings.
What about you?
Sorry, you were saying you didn't...
You said it closed-minded.
Why closed-minded?
Tell me why.
Because you are absolutely right and everyone else is absolutely wrong.
And if that's how you live your life, then great, that's fine.
But I'm just never around people like that, so it's weird.
Well, it's not necessarily that I'm absolutely right.
I'm just right most of the time when it comes to how men think.
Look at him correct me.
He is a man.
He's correct me because you're absolutely right.
Yeah, because I'm telling you that men in general think the way that I'm telling you and I guess you don't like that, but...
Yeah, in general, no.
You know what?
Hold on, I'll tell you.
Yes, men are close-minded.
I enjoyed your company.
Men are close-minded, yes.
Men are close-minded.
Thank you for coming.
We want our girls to keep their legs closed.
That's why we're close-minded.
So, that's why...
I see what you did there.
Alright, what about you?
That laugh was OD. I had a blast.
I thought it was a lot of fun.
Okay.
What do you rate yourself once a 10, since you didn't like what I said earlier?
I don't want to rate myself.
I don't know what I would rate myself.
Bitch, you a 10, bitch.
You a 10.
You a 10, bitch.
I rate yourself a 10.
Yeah, you a 10, queen.
Period.
Just strictly looks, if a 10 is like a, you know, a Maxim cover model, what would you rate yourself?
Angelina Jolie?
Um, like, 7, I don't know.
Bitch, a 10.
Bitch, a 10.
I don't know.
I know there's like supermodels and like the most beautiful people in the world.
I'm not like oblivious.
I think I'm pretty, I don't know.
So you would rate yourself...
I think above average.
Significantly above average.
I would say just above average.
I'm not going to say significantly.
We can say 6 or 7.
I don't know.
I don't really like to use numbers like that to rate people.
Nah, you're a 10 queen.
Who keeps saying that?
Who's saying I'm a 10?
Thank you.
Come on, he's a queen.
Yeah, she's a queen, bro.
That's a queen, man.
Thank you.
All right, what about you?
Last thoughts or comments or?
Yeah, I just wanted to say that most of you are really cool and I enjoyed talking to you.
But just to finish my thought, I don't think that I'm necessarily looking at it from a gold digger perspective.
No, I did not talk to you about it.
I did not say that.
Because when I say that, there's more that a man can provide for you that is not tangible.
I mean, like, he can provide safety, stability, protection, and even solutions.
Because if I have something going on in my life, I expect him to come up with a solution.
So he provides all of that for me.
It's not just about money, you know?
Baby, I did not call you both of these girls.
Oh, someone did.
Me, I'm all about get you some money.
She said it.
She said it's giving gold-thigger vibes.
- Oh, I get this one. - I get this one.
- You go take that one's hat.
- Yeah, I like that one's hat.
- I would argue.
- I would argue.
- You go take it.
- It's interesting.
- It's giving.
- Yeah, she said that she's the gold digger.
I would argue that you probably have a higher standard of how much a man's gotta make than she does.
I already spoke about this earlier.
She didn't say that.
She said, um...
She definitely didn't say that.
No, no, no.
Here's the thing.
You're an entrepreneur.
You make six figures a year, right?
Does your man have to make six figures a year?
No.
Yes.
Actually nah.
She's been saying that though.
So you'll date somebody who makes less money than you?
Maybe not lying.
And where are those guys now?
Where are they now?
Gone.
Like Dwayne, they're gone.
Question answered.
No, because actions speak louder than words.
Women always say that I'll date a guy that makes less money than me.
Then they meet that guy and he's gone.
Well, I'm currently speaking to someone who isn't very financially stable.
No, no, but notice, right, it's going to be the same result.
It's not going to work out because, once again, that premise of he doesn't have to make money is cool and all.
Until things break down, then who's going to pay the bills?
You?
All the time?
No, it's going to suck.
It is what it is.
She would, but you'd fill out shit.
Yeah, I would pay the bills.
Don't put words in her mouth.
Yeah, but for how long?
As long as they're making me happy, then...
Oh, but notice, again, like I said earlier, it's going to fade.
Like, happiness is not long-term, it's short-term.
It's going to fade.
Let me learn my lesson in peace.
Bro, go ahead.
Hey, see, see.
I'm talking about everything, man.
Come on, Fresh.
I'm going to live a life, man.
Come on, man.
Here's the thing.
Come on, man.
I've interviewed so many women that are entrepreneurs that make money.
Like, bro, y'all are not settling with a fucking bum.
You might tolerate it for a month, two months, and then at some point you get tired of paying the bills.
You're like, yo, this guy's a loser.
I'm an entrepreneur.
I'm a go-getter.
Why can't you be a go-getter?
Next.
Women that are entrepreneurs are the biggest gold diggers because you guys need a guy that makes as much money as you.
Can I just say that?
You all want a girl that's going to support you from when you have nothing to when you have everything.
So why can't I support you when you have nothing and help you get to where you have nothing?
Because women don't build.
They move in, bro.
That's why.
Women want guys that have more resources than them.
Stop lying to the biology.
Women want men that make more money than them, 56% more.
And this is what I was talking about.
And also, it's a fact!
This is not my opinion!
I understand, but that's not what I'm saying.
I understand, but here's the problem.
You said happiness was your main point of contention, right?
So once again, you're happy in the moment of seeing the guy, he's making you feel good.
What can happen is, eventually, when things get kind of rough, or you get kind of like out of hand, where you're paying all the bills, You won't be happy anymore because you're like, damn, now I feel like I'm being used and he's abusing me.
So your happiness is going to fade away eventually, no matter what you do.
Yeah, but if that guy has got drive and that he wants to do better with his life, why can't I support him and help him?
If he had drive, he doesn't need you.
Yeah, bro.
Drive to a destination by himself.
Everybody's life path is so different and like someone could have had it really bad.
You have to help your man to get to a high level.
It's a L.
This is a lot about that man.
Just saying.
Bro, if you're going to do it, if you're motivated, you can do it.
That's a boy.
That's a L.
That's a lot, bro.
So if it's a loss, you're saying it's okay for women to be gold diggers?
No, no.
I am saying it's understandable because that works.
But once again, if it's on the flip side, it's not going to work.
What we're saying is all women are fucking gold diggers.
Some are just better at hiding the shovel.
Some might say, ambition, drive, education.
All women are fucking gold diggers.
Y'all all care about the man making money to some degree.
I know.
It's a point.
Because money is an necessity right now.
Here's the difference though.
We don't care about how much money y'all make, but you definitely care how much money we make.
And you said, oh, girl, date's a broke guy.
Yeah, but for how long?
It never lasts.
Just accept your nature.
You guys are all gold diggers.
Some are more significant than others.
Some are like, I need a Bentley.
Some are, I need you to have a career.
Some are, I want you to have education.
But women in general have a very deep interest in your future, which means you're a gold digger.
But I would argue you're more a gold digger than she is, guaranteed, because you're an entrepreneur.
So that means you have a higher standard, which means your shovel is bigger than hers.
Yeah, but I did that myself.
Which, therefore, you got a big shovel, which means you want a big shovel from the guy.
That's my point.
Why can't I share my shovel, though?
To be frank, you're wearing gold right now.
What about you?
Oh, I had fun.
This was fun.
That was great.
She's lying.
She didn't have fun.
She still thinks she could fight a man too.
I'm trying, you know.
I don't know.
I haven't had much surgery.
You know what?
She's got muscle though.
Arm muscle right now.
She got it right.
Arm muscle.
Look at her bicep.
He's gonna break her arm.
It's actually unsafe.
He's superior.
He's another level god superior.
I'm so scared right now.
I know this.
I run away right now.
We're gonna end the show so we can get to the clock.
We'll catch you guys on the next episode.
Hey, I'm on Telegram with Tate.
Can I trust this, guys?
He's making me pay Frost's University with crypto.
Can I just trust this?
It's him.
I want to join.
I just don't want to be played.
Bro, make sure you join the real world.
It's not called Hustlers University anymore.
Make sure it's the right one.
Yeah.
That might not be him.
And then Alex Hanson, who is the chick on the far stage left?
You're a babe, sup.
What was he talking about, far stage left?
What does that even mean?
You don't want her.
Over there, right?
You gotta be here.
He's talking about her.
Tammy, you gotta be here.
What?
Wait, on the left?
Okay.
Yeah, that's why I don't know.
Because it could be over here.
It could be over here.
No, it could be here.
Here?
Me.
What did I do?
Alright, whatever.
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