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Aug. 10, 2023 - Fresh & Fit

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Fake Lawyer Walks Off Pod After Being EXPOSED!

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	Guys, welcome to the Fresh Effect Podcast after our edition.
	We're joining a bunch of lovely ladies.
	Let's get into it.
	I'm independent.
	I don't need no woman.
	Look into it.
	Nobody cares, bro.
	Get out!
	Get out!
	It's the night, by the time, in the night, no control.
	Go!
	Put your shoes on outside.
	You don't got to put them on in here.
	And we're back.
	We're back, guys.
	What's up?
	Welcome to the Freshier Podcast.
	After our edition, we're joined with a bunch of lovely ladies.
	I don't know what that was by Fresh earlier, but anyway, yeah.
	I guess we'll just cut him along.
	I'm a bad nigga.
	Bro, we just started.
	Sorry, sorry, sorry.
	No, because that's the team, you know?
	I'm independent.
	You go, King.
	You go, King.
	Keep it clean, man.
	We just got out of YouTube, Joe.
	You are, you are, you are.
	All right.
	Anyway.
	Guys, pretty much when we get into the show.
	Number one, rumble.com slash freshfit.
	As you guys know, we are fresh out of YouTube jail.
	We were in jail for two weeks, but now we're out.
	Yeah, sure.
	If you guys don't know where we are, it's like a random day and we're not streaming on YouTube, that probably means we're on Rumble.
	So go over to rumble.com slash freshfit.
	Go follow us over there, guys.
	Let's get to 500k followers on there.
	We got over a million on YouTube.
	We're on almost 300k over there.
	I want to hit 1 million on the Clif channel, so make sure to sub to all of our channels.
	And you got Big S on the way coming to the platform.
	Who?
	Wait, what?
	Big S on the way.
	When?
	Come in soon, bro!
	Can you tell me about it or something else?
	Oh, okay, okay.
	Wait, who?
	Can't say, can't say.
	You know what, I'll give you a hint.
	He's as black as me.
	Okay.
	That's actually a pretty good tip.
	There's not many people blacker than him.
	All right, guys.
	And it's not Michael Blackson.
	Guys, check us out on freshandfit.locals.com.
	As you guys know, IC goes ahead and live streams right before we go live.
	So if you guys want to see the setup and what goes behind the scenes, which a lot of work goes behind the scenes.
	And we make it look easy for y'all, but you guys can see all these podcasts around and copy us and they keep failing.
	Hey, it's harder than the looks.
	So check us out over there on freshandfit.locals.com.
	Also get the merch at freshandfitstore.com.
	Hoodies, t-shirts, etc.
	All in stock.
	Also, guys, subscribe to our other YouTube channel.
	It's called Fresh Fit Clips.
	On there, we post shorts, which are under a minute long.
	And then we got clips between three to six, seven, eight minutes, whatever it may be.
	So if you don't got time to watch a full-on podcast, go ahead and get the best parts on the Clips channel.
	80% of you guys that watch that are not subscribed.
	I'll be looking at the numbers.
	So make sure to go subscribe.
	Let's get to one million so we can get another plaque.
	And then we're going to throw another YAP party for y'all when we do.
	Let's do it.
	So if you guys want to see me get drunk once a year like I normally do, you better go ahead and get us to one million subscribers so you can see Myron turn up.
	Because you know I don't drink otherwise, really.
	And then go ahead and check us out on more Fresh Free Clips, guys.
	That's our other Eclipse channel.
	Let's get that one to 100K. And then check us out on Spotify, because if you guys want to get the audio or video version of the podcast and you don't want to do it on YouTube, go ahead and check it out on Spotify.
	Moe uploads every episode every night after the show, right, Moe, if I'm not mistaken?
	All right.
	And then also, guys, check out Fresh.
	Yes, guys.
	You know, we travel a lot for podcasts and for other events.
	I went to Colombia recently.
	It was an awesome trip.
	Going to post the vlogs on that tomorrow as well because, you know, we were off the YouTube channel for a little bit.
	Then as well, guys, the network.
	Going to be doing a lot more videos, Zoom calls with celebrity guests.
	Go check it out.
	Tap in.
	Add value, give value.
	See you guys in there.
	And check me out, guys, on FedReacts.
	As you guys know, I break down criminal cases over there.
	I'm probably going to live stream tomorrow.
	I'm probably going to cover the Trump indictments and other criminal cases that have been going on.
	As you guys know, Trump got indicted three different times.
	One by the state of New York, Washington, D.C., and the Southern District of Florida.
	Two Fed, one state.
	And I predict that Georgia's going to indict him probably next week.
	Damn.
	So we will go ahead and cover that stuff so you guys like the true crime stuff, whether it's, you know...
	Current events or historical stuff with serial killers, whatever.
	I cover all that stuff.
	So go check out the best true crime channel with an actual former fed.
	And then also, guys, go ahead and get my book, Why Women Deserve Less, out now in stores on Amazon.
	Hardcover, softcover, Audible, and Kindle.
	If you don't like to read, you can listen to me yell at you on there because I narrated it myself.
	Next one will be narrated by Sasha.
	She loves it, bro.
	She loves it.
	Yeah?
	She loves it.
	So yeah, guys, go get the book.
	It'll save you some lives.
	It's only like 80 pages, bro.
	So it's a quick read or a quick listen if you do it on Audible.
	Yes.
	And then, Chris?
	Yes, girls, DM me to RNC Poxon on IG. Make sure your page is not private.
	Once again, I'm going to say this once again.
	Once again, we don't send you emails.
	We don't pay out any girls on the panel, is what it is.
	If you're not sure, ladies, send me a DM on RNC Poxon to come out to the show.
	And once again, ladies, I don't know what the fuck we're doing in December.
	Stop asking me to come out on the show December and next year.
	Do not do that shit, okay?
	Wait.
	If you want to fly into Miami...
	Do it in the month, okay?
	So as simple as that, okay?
	Yeah, Chris will ignore you if you hit him up.
	Yeah, definitely.
	Say, I want to come in two months.
	Like, bro.
	We don't know where we're going to be.
	We're not even going to cancel, bro.
	Who knows?
	December 1st, are you free then?
	I'm like, I don't know, man.
	Why be canceled, assassinated, like in jail?
	Like, who knows, bro?
	Guys, y'all know.
	We're pushing an envelope over here.
	I'll still be independent. - Just talk to me. - Bye. - Bye. - Okay, but in any case, - Take it away, sir.
	- Ladies, if you don't mind, give us your name, your age, what we do for a living, dating status, and if you want to, of course.
	And we're going to start.
	That is business.
	Period.
	That's private.
	Period.
	Welcome back.
	Period.
	Oh, hi.
	My name is Virginia.
	I'm 18 years old.
	What is it?
	I'm sorry.
	Virginia.
	Virginia, okay.
	Yeah, like the state.
	Okay.
	I just graduated high school, but I'm about to start.
	You're how old?
	18.
	Where are you originally from?
	I'm from here, but I moved around a lot.
	Okay.
	What did you do for work?
	I just moved from North Carolina like four days ago.
	I drove here.
	Okay.
	And I'm looking for a job right now, but what I do on the side is OnlyFans.
	Okay.
	My highest level of education.
	High school.
	I graduated and I'm about to start in Broward.
	I'm a criminal justice major.
	Hey!
	Okay.
	Sister!
	What is your current relationship status?
	Single, relationship?
	I'm single.
	Wait, you said you drove here?
	What are you saying?
	I'm sorry?
	What are you saying?
	I stay here in Hollywood.
	My family's from here, but I had a family member up in North Carolina where I graduated from.
	So a question, what do you do to OnlyFans?
	I post content just of myself.
	I don't want to involve anybody else in it.
	I mean, just everything.
	Like rituals and shit?
	No What about you?
	Don't do that.
	What's your name?
	Tia.
	Okay.
	How old are you, Tia?
	I'm 21.
	Bia.
	Where are you from?
	I'm from Jamaica, but I was raised here.
	I came up when I was like six or seven.
	Okay, but so, but where'd you, where'd you go to high school?
	I went to high school Pembroke Pines Tarter.
	All right, so you're from the Pines.
	All right, cool.
	Um, and then what, uh, what do you do for it?
	I'm a server.
	Okay.
	And then, what is your highest education level completed?
	I'm in school right now.
	Okay.
	Associates.
	You have an associate's degree?
	I'm getting it.
	Oh, you're getting it.
	Okay.
	What are you going to get in?
	Computer science.
	Oh, nice.
	Nice.
	Probably the only girl in there.
	Okay.
	And then, what's your relationship status?
	Single.
	We can tell.
	I need to mingle.
	What about you?
	I am Mikayla.
	Okay.
	I'm 24.
	Okay.
	And I'm from far away, which is Lithuania.
	I'm from Europe.
	I'm just visiting here.
	Okay.
	You went to high school and lived there your entire life?
	Yeah, I live in Lithuania.
	Okay.
	So are you here on vacation?
	Yeah, it's just a vacation.
	Okay.
	Wow.
	That's super cool.
	What do you do for work?
	I am a student full-time.
	I study medicine.
	What's your highest education level completed?
	What do you mean by that?
	So in America, we have like, you know, you go for four years, you get a bachelor's degree, then you could pursue a master's, that's another one to two years, then you go to med school, then you can go to med school or pre-law.
	No, it doesn't work like that.
	In Lithuania, you finish high school, and then you have six years of medical school.
	Okay, so you get your degree and then you just immediately go into medical school.
	Okay, so you're in medical school right now.
	And you're studying to be a doctor?
	Yes.
	Yeah, dermatologist.
	So you're in med school.
	So her highest completed is probably an equivalent of a bachelor's degree in the United States.
	My highest?
	No, I mean, it's like a PhD.
	Well, no, I'm saying when you finish, but I'm saying completed.
	The question is completed.
	So you have your BA now, you're completed, and then you're pursuing your doctorate.
	Yes.
	All right.
	And then what's your relationship status?
	I'm single.
	Okay.
	She belongs to the streets.
	I mean...
	What kind of medicine are you going to pursue?
	Dermatology.
	Okay.
	Mark it for that.
	What's your lashes status?
	My what?
	Lashes status.
	They're looking crazy.
	What is that?
	What the hell?
	Lashes.
	My lashes status?
	- Your eyelashes. - Your eyelashes.
	- Um, I don't know, just on fleek, I guess. - Period. - Period. - Tell 'em to stop playing. - Okay.
	Tell 'em to stop playing. - Okay. - Okay. - Brush your nose and random stuff.
	- That's what I'm saying.
	- Okay. - Okay. - All right, cool.
	What about you?
	What's your name?
	I go by Pecan.
	My real name is Tisha.
	They call me Pecan.
	Hey y'all!
	I'm 23, turning 24, September 15th.
	Okay, talk your shit.
	I'm an artist.
	Where are you originally from?
	I'm from Nassau, Bahamas, but I was raised in Fort Lauderdale.
	Okay, so you're a Bahamian, but you were raised in...
	Okay.
	Yeah.
	I went to school in Bahamas for a little bit, but no.
	Okay.
	And then, sorry, you're saying you're a musician?
	No.
	What do you do for work?
	I'm a tattoo artist and I paint canvases.
	That's why I said I'm an artist.
	Oh, okay.
	When she said artist, I automatically...
	I thought music artist.
	No, a little bit for fun, but...
	Okay.
	But your real profession is you're a tattoo artist.
	All right.
	And then what's your highest education level completed?
	High school.
	Okay.
	And then what's your relationship status?
	Married.
	Cool.
	How long have y'all been married?
	Well, one year.
	We've been together for two years.
	Is he Bahamian too?
	He's Jamaican.
	- Boop, boop, boop, from Kingston. - From the National Bahama show, Bahama Mama.
	- Are you in trouble?
	- Scrimp! - You got that, tell the people where you got all this energy from all of a sudden.
	Listen, man.
	I came up today with some Gorilla Mine.
	Listen, let me tell you this, Brian.
	I was tired.
	I was out of it.
	Drink some of this, baby, and I'm good to go.
	So there you go.
	Link is below.
	Use the code FRESH when you check out, guys.
	And more importantly, I'm independent.
	You go, King!
	Yes, sir!
	You put on the table, bro.
	Shout out to Derek for more plates, more dates.
	Let's go!
	Okay, what about you?
	Welcome back.
	Oh, yes.
	My name is Alondra.
	I'm 23.
	I am in a relationship.
	Where are you originally from?
	I am from Puerto Rico originally, but I'm local.
	Okay.
	You went to high school in Puerto Rico or here?
	In Orlando.
	Orlando might as well be Puerto Rico too.
	Might as well.
	Yeah.
	Yeah.
	I know.
	I just unlocked the memory in your mind.
	So how's it going with your guy now?
	It's going great.
	I'll be relocating to Orlando in a couple months.
	We love that for you, girl.
	I'm confused.
	Remember, she was on a show before.
	She was on here.
	And her...
	You made more than him, right?
	Or was it...
	No, no, no.
	You were more dominant than him.
	Yes, at some point.
	And then we broke up for a little bit.
	We got back.
	He started listening to the podcast.
	And we started applying some of the things that he learned on the podcast.
	And then we got back together and it's been great ever since.
	For himself.
	And it benefited us.
	And so, here we are.
	As you guys know, I've been more active on my Instagram.
	I've been posting reels.
	And one of the clips that I posted was like, you don't become high value for a girl.
	You do it for yourself.
	A woman benefits as a byproduct of you becoming better.
	So, awesome.
	I'm really happy to hear that.
	What do you do for work?
	I work in sales.
	Okay, sales.
	Okay.
	What's your highest education level completed?
	High school.
	Cool.
	And then you said you're in a relationship.
	How long have y'all been together now?
	Five years.
	Cumulatively?
	Off and on.
	Yeah.
	He better put a ring on that.
	But that's really great.
	Hearing those stories actually is really inspiring.
	What about you?
	What's your name?
	Alright, so my name's Leigh-Anne.
	I'm Haitian.
	Yo, how old are you?
	I'm 22.
	I don't know why, bro.
	I was in Jamaica, right?
	And people were like, yo, where are you from?
	Are you from Haiti?
	I'm like, no!
	Stop saying that!
	Doil of Haitian?
	Yes, it is.
	It is.
	It is.
	It's the complexion and, and, and, and, and, like, right here.
	Right here.
	They got big ass nose.
	Miss Pecan, be quiet now.
	Okay, go ahead.
	Pecan pie.
	Where are you originally from?
	Um, I'm from New York.
	Well, I'm Haitian, but I was raised in Broward, sorry.
	What part of Broward are you from?
	Are y'all, I'm assuming y'all two are friends?
	Yeah.
	For the audience that might not be familiar with Florida geography, that's like 30-40 minutes.
	Yeah.
	I used to live there when I first came to America.
	Yeah.
	I was actually in Towngate.
	Where are you from?
	Barbados.
	Barbados, okay.
	Big man.
	Fun fact, all the federal agencies, they all live in Pembroke Pines.
	Hell yeah, they do.
	When I was on the job, most of them all had a house in Pembroke Pines.
	Better school system, Broward County in general.
	Clean.
	More family-oriented.
	I taught there.
	FBI, HSI, DEA, they all have houses there.
	So you're from the Pines.
	What's your highest education level completed?
	Sorry, what do you do for work?
	My bad.
	I'm a cashier, my highest education, I have an AA, and I'm studying to be a medical lab technician.
	Okay, so you're pursuing your AA and being a medical technician?
	Well, I already have my AA. I just have like two more years to go.
	Okay, for your bachelor's?
	Yes.
	But you have your AA and doing what?
	Med technician, you said?
	Big up!
	In medical lab.
	Okay, like what kind, like are we talking like philobotomy?
	What specifically?
	No, like, the people who just basically control, like, blood work and all of that.
	Like, the tests and shit.
	Sorry.
	That's a phlobotomist.
	Yeah, phlobotomist, yeah.
	Okay, so you drop people's blood and stuff.
	Yeah.
	Okay, alright, so you're a phlobotomist.
	Alright.
	What's your relationship status?
	I'm single.
	Alright.
	And body count?
	Okay.
	Ain't nobody outside that question.
	What's going on?
	What's going on?
	Too far, Chris.
	Too far.
	Too far.
	What about you?
	Last but not least.
	My name is Lexi, also known as the Biggest Flexer, because I stay flexing on sh-period.
	Okay, Lexi.
	Wait, why should I look out fresh like that?
	You can't see me, I'm too black, man.
	I'm an independent.
	How old are you?
	I'm 23.
	Alright, where are you from?
	from north carolina bull city shout out to y'all okay period bull city it's called yeah because we run over new okay what's your profession so um right now i'm studying to go to law school but So you're a full-time student?
	No, I already graduated.
	I have a Bachelor of Science in Criminal Justice, and I work at the Miami-Dade State Attorney's Office.
	Period.
	Period.
	B.A. and C.J. All right, where'd you get that from?
	Florida International.
	Shout out to y'all and family alumni!
	And then you said you work at the State Attorney's Office.
	Uh, uh, uh.
	Yeah, you said prosecutor.
	No, I'm a defendant attorney.
	Period.
	Get that right, baby boy.
	Let's clarify this real quick.
	This is, don't forget where you're at.
	You're on my podcast as a guest.
	You're not going to speak to me like that.
	Oh, I'm sorry.
	My apologies.
	So, because normally when you say a state attorney, they're going to assume prosecutor.
	So you work for a public defender's office?
	Public defendant's office?
	Yes.
	Okay.
	Because the state attorney would be the state attorney, which would be the prosecutor nine out of ten times.
	Because the state is the person that prosecutes.
	Period.
	Poo.
	Okay, y'all.
	So you work for a public defender's office?
	Um...
	Look, I don't even know.
	Stupid.
	You don't know where you work?
	No, I work at a state attorney's office, but I don't know if it's prosecutors or defense attorneys.
	Okay, when you go to court, what side are you sitting on?
	Are you sitting with the defendant?
	I don't work in the courthouse.
	I work in the attorney's office as a victim witness coordinator.
	Okay, so you set up the interviews with the witnesses that are victims?
	Yes, yes.
	So different.
	That sounds more like prosecution.
	Prosecuting?
	Okay.
	Yeah, because if it's a witness, most of the time, the burden of performance is on the state to prove the person guilty.
	They're the ones that have to bring the witnesses.
	Yeah, you're right.
	So therefore, more than likely you work for the state.
	Yeah, you're right.
	From the prosecution side.
	I don't support them people.
	Get it right, nigga.
	I don't support them people.
	LAUGHTER Period.
	That's the independent for me.
	I'm sorry.
	I don't really know what to say right now.
	I'm just like, I'm so...
	Yo, listen, man.
	Can't make this shit up.
	Yeah, because if you're coordinating with witnesses who are victims, there's a high likelihood you're probably on the prosecution side.
	You know, I never knew this, y'all.
	I never knew that until you mentioned it.
	That's crazy.
	I literally thought I was working for defense attorneys.
	But now that you say that, I'm like, damn.
	Damn.
	Get it together, girl.
	Get it together, girl.
	Okay, stop playing.
	The way the legal system normally works is the person's presumed innocent until proven guilty in a court of law.
	Correct.
	And the burden of performance is on the prosecution to prove the person is guilty.
	The defense doesn't have to produce any witnesses.
	They just have to sit there and defend.
	So since you're dealing with witnesses who are victims, the high likelihood is probably the prosecution that you're working for.
	And he would know.
	And then he says state attorney's office, which automatically said, okay, it's a state attorney, which means it's a...
	Well, maybe we should hire you, Myra.
	I'm not a lawyer.
	I did the opposite side.
	So, okay.
	So I'll just put stated.
	Okay.
	So you're probably like a paralegal.
	No, I'm a victim witness coordinator.
	Oh, victim witness coordinator.
	Okay.
	Yeah.
	So that's your official title.
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	Okay.
	And then you said you have a B.A. and C.J.A. from FIU. No, a B.S. Bachelor's of Science.
	Oh, I thought it was bullshit.
	Me too.
	Me too.
	Sounds like bullshit.
	Okay, so say victim coordinator and then what's your relationship status?
	Single, but I got a husband.
	Wait, what?
	It's complicated.
	It's complicated!
	So a situation shit.
	Yeah, a situation shit.
	I'm gonna smack a bitch about mine.
	Does he also work in law?
	No, he's a YouTuber.
	Wait a minute.
	What's your name again?
	Lexi.
	You don't know me, love.
	You don't know me.
	You ever been in one of those videos or no?
	laughs laughs Nah...
	I'll be right back.
	First go do some investigation.
	Normally we ask this question whenever it grows into situationship.
	Who is it that's reluctant to commit?
	You or him?
	I mean, ladies commit more than men.
	Okay, so you want the commitment?
	Yeah.
	Okay, so he doesn't want to commit.
	That's why it's a situation.
	It's mutual.
	No, it's not.
	Okay, you have it.
	We'll hit the chats.
	We just went through the whole thing.
	We talked about state attorney's offices, tattoos, med school in Lithuania.
	Very interesting panel.
	The first panel today.
	Captain Times.
	Captain Times.
	Please always assume if a man don't respect women that he don't respect his mom.
	A man could have a great mom and no respect for the women around them because they're no good and don't respect themselves.
	True.
	Oh, people always assume.
	Okay, yeah, I see what you mean.
	Machaka goes, shout out to Fresh's Balls.
	He's a real G. What the?
	Okay.
	What the?
	What the?
	Ladies, what characteristics do you think you have to have for a strong relationship?
	That's not bad.
	Yeah, so...
	Yeah, keep it simple.
	So we'll start here and then work our way back.
	Top two traits, characteristics you have to have for a strong relationship.
	Just name two.
	Or situationship.
	I say communication.
	Okay.
	A man loves a woman that can communicate.
	If you can communicate, you can keep your relationship together.
	And that's just period.
	Okay.
	Comms and what else?
	Is that what you do?
	Hmm.
	Because it's not together right now.
	But, oh baby, but we're still going.
	Okay.
	Next one.
	Alright, so communication, what else?
	Period, Pooh.
	What's the second one?
	Hold on, next one.
	It's two.
	What's the next one?
	Trust.
	Okay.
	So communication and trust.
	Alright.
	What about you?
	I say motivation and honesty.
	What does motivation mean?
	Like, pushing him to be better within himself as opposed to just focusing on just you.
	So you gotta push your man to become better?
	Yeah, and we should grow together instead of growing apart.
	But, I mean, wouldn't you want him to be already motivated by himself?
	I would hope so, but some people just don't come built like that.
	So if you gotta push your man to be better and become successful, is that gonna be hard on you?
	No, because we're supposed to grow together.
	Even if he's not successful when I found him, as long as he's trying to get himself to that place in life, you don't got to be put together when you first come up.
	But if you're still pushing yourself and trying to grow as you go, as opposed to sitting down and being a bum and not doing nothing for yourself, that's a whole different story.
	Like Chris, yeah.
	Are you a queen?
	What about you?
	Top two characteristics for a successful relationship.
	I would say loyalty and understanding.
	What about you?
	I'll say communication and understanding.
	This is from personal experience.
	Okay.
	What does understanding mean?
	Okay, you can communicate, but guess what?
	They probably don't understand where you're coming from or don't understand you.
	Yeah, I don't understand her at all, but...
	But if you have both communication, when you tell them what you want and what you need, and vice versa, and you guys understand each other, then you guys can come to a mutual ground.
	Yeah, because sometimes communicating doesn't mean you're listening.
	Yeah, it doesn't mean you're listening or it doesn't mean that you're willing to compromise for me.
	Understood.
	You know what I'm saying?
	Understood.
	I got it.
	What about you?
	I would say confidence.
	The first one.
	The next one would be belief in God.
	Amen!
	Do you believe in God for real?
	As you should.
	What's your religion?
	Well, I cannot put myself in one religion, but I do believe in God and energy.
	So you're spiritual?
	Yes, I am.
	Okay, so you don't subscribe to any religious ideology?
	I do, to some.
	Which one?
	Oh, so multiple.
	I'm not going to name them, but I have some that I do.
	Okay, so you practice multiple religions?
	I like Buddhism and Hindu.
	Okay, so two religions that you follow.
	I grew up on Christianity, so it's like a mix, you know?
	I can't say it's just one.
	It's all about being spiritual, not religious.
	I guess you take parts from different religions.
	She's not religious, she's spiritual.
	Tomorrow, Charmander.
	It's a difference between religious and spiritual.
	Yeah, because I know some people that go to church and still text underage girls.
	That's insane.
	The church may be the worst.
	Okay, so basically you believe in God.
	Maybe not through the framework of a religion, but you believe in that there is a higher power or powers.
	What about you?
	Loyalty and willing to grow, not being closed-minded.
	Okay.
	What about you?
	Connection and respect.
	Big on respect.
	Respect is...
	You better stand on it.
	Seems like you guys have a lot to say about respect.
	Who do you think requires respect more, the man or the woman in a relationship?
	Both.
	It's even.
	You think it's even?
	Yeah.
	It should be.
	We should respect each other.
	Realistically speaking, who do you think needs to have more respect for the relationship to work?
	We'll start hearing that work our way.
	I just want to get you guys taken care of.
	I mean, like in a relationship, you should be just as respectful with your partner as they are with you.
	Yeah, but there has to be a higher level of respect for one party because one party typically has, you know, needs to Every relationship, there's one person that cares more than the other about the relationship.
	That's how relationships are formed.
	So, who is it that needs to respect more for the relationship to be successful?
	I mean, I believe the answer you're going for is a man, but I really believe that you just respect them as much as they respect you.
	You know, I respect my man.
	He should respect me.
	That's about it.
	That's all I see it as.
	Yeah, but who requires more respect if you had to pick?
	For the relationship to work, keyword.
	I mean...
	Words.
	I can't...
	No, to me, it's mutual.
	It's 50-50 to me.
	Are relationships ever 50-50, though?
	No.
	It doesn't have to be.
	be.
	I mean, you can still respect each other as much, you know?
	Okay, we'll come back to you.
	Please come with a decision.
	It's not rocket science.
	What about you?
	Jamaica!
	I mean, I do agree with her, like the 50-50, but I will say that personally, I believe, honestly, the female should.
	You know, hold on, real quick.
	Let me just get a...
	How many of you think relationships are actually 50-50?
	Raise of hands.
	Raise your hand up if you think relationships are 50-50 between men and women.
	Okay, then none of y'all should be saying 50-50 with respect then.
	So, we're going to go back to you.
	What do you think...
	Who do you think requires more respect for the relationship to work?
	The woman.
	The woman, okay.
	Now, coming back to you, who do you think needs the relationship more?
	Sorry, the respect more, the man or the woman?
	Just because of gender.
	I mean...
	I'm saying this on my own terms, like females, because it's usually the female that dominates the relationship.
	Okay, that's fine.
	No, it is.
	What about you?
	Who requires respect more for the relationship to work?
	Women should get more respect.
	You think the woman should?
	Yeah.
	What about you?
	Being my natural self, I would usually say women.
	But due to my experience in my relationship, I would say men because they provide the most.
	Really, they have to deal with more shit.
	They have to deal with our emotions.
	All of that.
	So you have to put all of that into play.
	And sometimes they might be like, one day, F this.
	You feel me?
	Just because, okay, we're on our period.
	We have to go through the emotions and we take it out on our men sometimes.
	Sometimes?
	A lot of times.
	Okay, there you go.
	I'm going to come back to you because I don't want you to influence the girls' answers, but I'm going to come back.
	I have a follow-up question specifically for you.
	What about you?
	Who do you think requires respect more for a relationship to work?
	Men.
	The men?
	Okay.
	Yeah.
	I'll come back to you as well and ask that.
	Oh, she knows.
	What about you?
	The woman.
	The woman?
	Okay.
	Why?
	Honestly, I feel like...
	Merch?
	I feel like, as a woman, if a man disrespects you, you're more quick to be like, yeah, it's time to go.
	Like, you ready to dip.
	But if a man...
	If you disrespect a man, I feel like they're more tolerant.
	Like, okay, maybe I should...
	They're gonna stay.
	Yeah, like, try to communicate with her, try to do a little something to try to...
	Okay, let me ask you a follow-up question.
	Who do you think responds more favorably to disrespect, men or women?
	See...
	Who's aroused more by disrespect?
	I would say...
	Yeah, a woman responds more to disrespect as we'll sue.
	So who requires respect then?
	I guess a man.
	Gotcha, bitch!
	Too easy.
	Alright, what about you?
	I agree with Pecan.
	You think it's a man?
	Yeah.
	Why?
	Because men do more for women, you know.
	We just sit back and get treated.
	Okay.
	Yeah, we just sit back and get treated, you know.
	Okay.
	The guy that you're with now, do you think you respect him to the full capacity?
	We're not together.
	Well, it's a situation.
	She wants to be with him, but he don't want to be with her.
	Yeah.
	So do you think a part of the reason why he doesn't want to commit might be because of lack of respect?
	No, I respect him to the fullest.
	I motivate him.
	You don't talk back to him or anything like that?
	No, we treat each other equally.
	It's nothing like that.
	Right now, we're just both focusing on God and we're preparing ourselves for marriage.
	Is that what he told you?
	That's what we told each other.
	While you were in our business.
	Dang, fresh.
	I didn't pull it up, but...
	Well, damn.
	Did you pull up what you was looking for?
	Did you find what you were looking for?
	All I'm going to say is YouTube is awesome.
	You found it?
	Can I see?
	No, no, no.
	Let's continue.
	Okay, whatever.
	He'll expose it later, I guess.
	For you, would you say that one of the things that led to you getting married and being in a marriage was understanding that the man requires more respect?
	i would say that's one of the things yeah and um do you think if you had stuck to that with the female needs more respect you would still be married to this day or would have been able to get the ring No.
	No.
	Profound.
	Because one thing that females don't understand, well, most females, just talking from female to female.
	You don't got to qualify.
	Say what you want to say.
	Just talking to other females, they don't understand that men have emotions too.
	You get what I'm saying?
	And they feel disrespected.
	They feel hurt just as well as we do, but they don't vocalize it.
	They don't.
	Real men are not out here crying about disrespect.
	Yeah, about disrespect.
	You get what I'm saying?
	They try to be strong for both of us.
	We're much more emotional, vulnerable.
	We're supposed to be nurturers, so it's natural for us to be more emotional, more vulnerable.
	For you, would you say what flipped the script and helped you get in a more healthy relationship was understanding that your man requires more respect than you?
	100%.
	Yeah, because before it was the other way around, right?
	Right, right.
	It was always me, me, me.
	And then when it was, you know, it had to change in order for the relationship to improve.
	Because if he's always worried about me and my feelings, you know, my feelings change all the time.
	I'm on my period.
	I'm on my feelings, you know.
	And here's the other thing, too.
	And I wanted the girls on the panel that were married in a long-term relationship to kind of let the other girls know that might be single, etc., that think that women require more respect.
	The reality is that a man requires more respect, and I'll tell you why.
	As a female, right, if you feel disrespected or you feel a certain way, it's okay for you to be emotional about it and, like, talk to your guy to a degree.
	He's not going to lose attraction for you for being emotional.
	However, if you disrespect a man, right, A guy that you actually like, that's attractive, that's fairly stoic, etc.
	He's probably just going to be like, man, fuck this bitch.
	And he's just going to end up giving you less attention and not even vocalize how he feels about it.
	Because men typically, especially the guys that you like that are traditionally masculine, they typically keep their emotions held.
	And they're just going to say something, they're just going to see you less, give you less attention, and not take you seriously.
	They're going to put you in what I call the invisible sex-only category.
	So at least with men, we have the benefit of being rejected overtly.
	Oh, I'm not interested.
	Oh, I have a boyfriend.
	We get immediate feedback, right?
	With girls, though, y'all might not know because you're still seeing a guy, you're still fucking a guy, but you don't know in the back of his mind he's already bringing you off as recreational use only.
	So I think with women, that respect needs to be to a higher degree because that's what men respond to the most favorably.
	If a man feels disrespected by a woman, he's going to be like, fuck this chick.
	If she doesn't respect me, she doesn't want to follow my lead.
	If she can't follow my lead, we can't build anything.
	If she thinks she's equal to me, it's not going to work.
	And if I can add, because that's the way that I used to think before, I understand what perhaps most of us are coming from.
	Like, absolutely, I want respect in the sense of like, you know, no, I think we know like the premises that we're all discussing as far as respect goes.
	But I think when you want like a successful dynamic in the relationship, if your man is always trying to chase you and respect you and basically bow down to you, you're going to get bored.
	I don't know how I feel about my man always trying to cater to me all the time.
	I'm like, go do something.
	It's not only that, but after a while, they're going to get tired.
	They're going to get bored of, oh, damn, I have to keep doing this and keep chasing you and keep chasing you.
	It's never enough for you.
	You get what I'm saying?
	A lot of people who, you know, oh, I have this standard, a man have to do this and this and this for me, you feel me?
	If not, then I'm not going to date them or they're just not good enough for me.
	That's why a lot of them are single now.
	That's why you ain't got no marriages.
	Because you expect things from a man that you can't even give to them.
	Okay.
	Yeah.
	And that's kind of why I was, like, pushing back when you guys were trying to say it's 50-50, because realistically speaking, relationships are never 50-50.
	I'll give you an example of what I mean by this.
	If you're dressed provocatively, etc., and you want to go outside, your man has the authority, right, to tell you, hey, I don't like that outfit, go change.
	But if you wore something and you don't like it, and you tell him to go change, it'd be more attractive for him to say, no, I'm not listening to you.
	Because women don't like men that they can control.
	That's just an unfortunate reality.
	So by default, the woman has to have more respect for the man because his word goes, hers doesn't necessarily go.
	So that's why I always laugh when women say, oh, equal respect or equal, not really, realistically speaking.
	The men that women are attracted to always have a power dynamic where the man is in a leadership role.
	If a man's a leader, by definition, you are not equal.
	Yeah, that's true.
	You know, that's like walking into your job and telling your boss, oh, I'm the boss today too.
	Like, no, he tells you when to show up.
	He gives you the hours.
	You're getting a paycheck from him.
	He has some level of authority over you.
	You guys are not equal.
	You know, and I'd look at a relationship the same way.
	The man is the boss and you follow him.
	You're a subordinate.
	That's just how it is.
	And that's what women want, even though we live in this crazy feminized world where we'd say men and women are equal.
	Go ahead.
	Like, why is that the case?
	Like, are you going off, like, of the Bible or the Quran?
	Well, okay.
	I like that you brought religion.
	Religion typically adheres to biological realities, right?
	The reason why every, you know, major religion puts men in leadership roles is because since the beginning of time, women aren't really capable leaders over men.
	And attraction isn't built when a woman is leading a man.
	It's the other way around from a biological sense.
	Religions realize this, and they say, okay, for society to thrive and be optimal, We need to put men in leadership roles and women follow them because the women are going to respect the men.
	They're going to have sex with the men.
	We're going to go ahead and be able to spread our offspring.
	But if it's the other way around, it doesn't work.
	So religion, a lot of times, adheres to biological realities.
	No woman really wants to be with a guy she could push over and lead.
	Women typically want to be able to just be pretty and sit back.
	So the reason why I come to the conclusion I come to a lot of time is because it's rooted in biological reality between the two genders, that men and women inherently are not equal.
	Physically, we're not equal, but we all have the same mental capacity.
	I disagree.
	No, we don't.
	The way women perceive certain things versus how men perceive things are completely different.
	Well, I mean, if that's the case, why can a female be a doctor?
	It's just because we're emotionally different that doesn't completely differentiate how we are as people, what we can understand mathematically, with science, with everything in general.
	Let me ask you this.
	If I had 20,000 male soldiers and 20,000 female soldiers and I was going to send them to war, which group would you send?
	The men or the women?
	I mean, obviously the men.
	Why?
	Because physically we're different.
	But today it's in a society.
	We're not going to war.
	We're not attacking each other.
	We're not in a primal state.
	You missed what I did there.
	What I'm trying to say is that just because someone is capable of doing something doesn't mean they're optimal at doing something.
	So just because women can become doctors and can get into science, technology, engineering, and math doesn't mean that they're optimal for it.
	And the majority of women prefer not to go into these job fields.
	Most women want to work, you know, comfortable office jobs, you know, air conditioning, etc.
	Women typically don't want to work laborious jobs with their hands.
	There's some women that want to do it, right?
	We have one here at the panel.
	But even looking to the profession that she's going into, dermatology is female-dominated.
	But if you talk about brain surgeons, anesthesiologists, etc., the more...
	Not to knock what you're trying to do, but like the more sensitive work that requires like precision and...
	Cardiologists.
	You know, split-second decisions, etc., It's male-dominated.
	And there's a reason for that.
	And the reason why is because pattern recognition in men and women are different.
	Men are more rationally sound, more logically sound, and a lot of times this helps with getting into certain career fields.
	And they're stronger too.
	So just because women can do something doesn't mean that they're optimal at doing something.
	I'm not saying women aren't capable.
	I'm saying men are optimal.
	I can't disagree.
	Alright, fair enough.
	Alright.
	Anybody else have anything that want to add to that or disagree?
	Alright.
	Cool.
	Smooth.
	Y'all want us to disagree so bad.
	No, it's not that.
	I just want to make sure everybody gets a chance to say what they want to say.
	IRS. Do you believe most women have a whole face?
	Raise your hands if you think.
	Yes, ladies.
	Most women have a whole face in their lifetime.
	I'm not saying you.
	I'm saying most women.
	See, they don't want to admit it, but they know.
	Not saying you.
	Okay, so only girls in Lithuania don't have whole faces?
	I don't know about other girls, but I know about myself.
	The question was specifically about other girls, not you.
	Yeah, not yourself.
	It was impossible.
	But I base on myself, so...
	I base other people on myself.
	What's your sign?
	Sagittarius.
	No.
	That makes a lot of sense.
	Does it really?
	Does it really make a lot of sense?
	I'm just showing.
	I don't know what that means.
	Oh, I don't know what that means either.
	I was concerned.
	That's very interesting.
	So wait, you said you base how other people behave off of yourself?
	That's my perception.
	Yeah.
	I mean, if I'm like that, if I'm a good person, I think other people are good too.
	I mean, having a whole face doesn't mean you're a bad person.
	I don't think that was the point of the question.
	No, she just used an example, but do you think that's a good way to perceive the world, like kind of comparing yourself to others when human beings typically tend to be vastly different?
	Yeah.
	To a degree?
	I'm not sure how to answer that, actually.
	But if you're asking me if every girl has their whole face, I don't think so.
	You don't think so?
	No, I don't think so.
	Maybe in Lithuania.
	Is it not a thing in Lithuania?
	I don't know.
	Probably it is.
	Let me tell you this example, because I'm in Miami and I can tell the differences.
	People here are more likely to do something wild.
	While in Lithuania, everyone's closed down.
	It's like Scandinavia.
	People don't really talk too much to each other.
	Reserved.
	Yeah, very reserved.
	It's not like you guys in here are so friendly.
	It's a cultural difference.
	Yeah, it's very different, actually, when I think about it.
	Okay, so if I'm going to summarize what you said, are you saying people are more promiscuous here than back home?
	Just keep it a thousand.
	I don't wanna...
	Say it.
	Say it.
	That's what I've seen.
	Okay.
	Alright.
	Not wrong with that.
	It is Miami.
	Okay.
	Blackest Panther goes, the most wicked and heartless thing a woman can do to another woman is to tell the woman that her man is cheating.
	If she was genuinely happy, it destroys her innocence and naivety.
	If she would never find out, shut the fuck about it.
	Okay.
	Let me ask y'all a question.
	If you found out...
	Okay, if you found out that your girl's boyfriend was cheating on her, would you tell her?
	Yes.
	All of you guys would?
	Yes.
	There you go.
	All right.
	Fair enough.
	It's the lawsuit behind it.
	Even if she was in a happy relationship and everything was great.
	That is fine.
	I don't mind being the bad guy.
	But at least you know.
	I didn't hide this information from you.
	And then when you found out on your own, you come back and tell me, you knew this all alone?
	Exactly.
	Okay.
	Okay.
	That's funny because next one sounds like I'll get mad at them for telling them the truth, which is hilarious.
	Alright, and then the last one here is...
	Sorry.
	Guys, we already got 8,000 plus y'all in here on YouTube alone, and then we got another...
	Mo, give me a number.
	Shout out to Evan F for always keeping it real.
	Y'all have helped me out with my finances, relationship, and be a better member of society.
	P.S. Chris is still a bum.
	Shout out Big Mo.
	Yes, we're going to go 20 and up, guys, because...
	Yeah, because we got about 16, almost 20,000 y'all watching about 16k right now.
	Ladies, do y'all think, okay, you know, that was going to be the topic of the show.
	Okay, Sean Don goes, ladies, who all think Tory actually shot Megan?
	This will show who critically thinks on the panel.
	So we'll go ahead and start, I think, here.
	Do you think Tory Lanez shot Megan the stallion or not?
	I mean, I'm not a detective right now.
	I really don't know much about the situation.
	Like, what exactly happened?
	Okay, well...
	Yeah, I know nothing about it.
	Who actually knows the case?
	Yeah.
	I know someone.
	Only two?
	Yeah.
	I know somebody that knows them.
	And they said they were just all drunk.
	And basically, Megan started popping shit on Tory, and then that's how it all happened.
	Because he...
	Megan was mad that Tori was actually sleeping with Megan's best friend, which is Kelsey.
	So that's how it happened.
	And Megan's like, oh, Tori, you were sleeping with Kelsey behind my back, this and that.
	And then her and Tori got into it.
	And then that's when Kelsey jumped in.
	And then I guess Tori pulled out a gun and then it went from there.
	So...
	I mean, he didn't do it on purpose, but I think he shot the girl, and that's why he's facing 10 right now.
	So that's just what it is, you know?
	I don't know.
	Do you think he shot her?
	We'll go with you.
	I don't think so.
	No.
	Well, I was asking her.
	Oh, her?
	Yeah.
	Honestly, I don't really know nothing about them.
	Me either.
	I have no idea what's going on.
	They don't know.
	This is like front press news on social media.
	I knew they wouldn't know.
	I told y'all.
	You're familiar.
	Do you think you shot her?
	I don't think so.
	You don't think so?
	No.
	What makes you think he didn't shoot her?
	I just feel like, you know, as they said, they were all drunk and everything, you know.
	I've heard that same, you know, story that she just said.
	And from everything that I've heard, it just sounded like everybody was just into it and it just seemed like, you know, the gun went off.
	So I don't think it was purposely...
	But I feel like now that she, you know, has attention and everything, now that she's dragging it in, you know, to the certain extent that it got.
	And I don't think that he deserved 10 years for that.
	You feel me?
	Because everybody makes mistakes.
	This is his first time, from my understanding, shooting somebody.
	I mean, I would hope so, too.
	So you don't think he did it?
	I don't think so.
	Or not purposely.
	Okay.
	What about you?
	I mean, like, if you're sentenced 10 years, like, you being an ex-FBI agent, you did that, right?
	Homeland, but yeah.
	Same thing.
	Okay, so then you should know that, I mean, you can't sentence somebody without concrete evidence or some sort of evidence.
	I mean, he must have done it.
	There must have been some evidence linked to it.
	Maybe the same gun, maybe some DNA, or maybe, like...
	You know, fingerprints, the situation, cameras.
	It was a lot of circumstantial evidence.
	And also on top of that, you had witness testimony that kind of changed.
	So, and I mean, I would say that the defense did a pretty good job of creating reasonable doubt, which is all they have to create to be able to get someone off.
	So, you know, it is what it is.
	It kind of sucks, but Yeah.
	I mean, if he did do it, I believe he, I mean, deserves the amount of time.
	I mean, like, imagine getting shot in the foot.
	Yeah.
	That would suck.
	I don't think he shot her.
	I think her foot shot her.
	So, look, as an upcoming lawyer.
	10 years, though?
	10 years.
	Yeah, like, as an upcoming lawyer, I do feel like they were all drunk.
	I do feel like maybe it could have been Kelsey.
	You know, like, she were trying to break them up because you was f***ing this girl, man.
	So, maybe you were trying to get in, like, oh, no, No, no, no, no.
	And then you grab the gun and the gun went off.
	So I do feel like it could have been Kelsey.
	Let's tell you that.
	Just know that I know people and I'm not saying that it is Kelsey, but I'm just saying she trying to play her hand, you know, trying to be all innocent, but it really could have been her because she don't want to get sentenced.
	So that's why she trying to really be on some hiding type shit.
	I'm confused because you said a second ago that you think Tori shot her.
	No, I'm saying, I do think it could have been either one.
	I don't know who it could have been.
	It could have been either one.
	From what I heard, that Megan and Tori was arguing.
	So, it could have been either one.
	You know, maybe Tori did shot her, or maybe Kelsey jumped in, she grabbed the gun, and the gun went off.
	I don't think it was purposely.
	Shoot her.
	Not shot.
	Shoot her.
	You know what I mean?
	What upcoming lawyer are you going to be?
	Are you going to be on the prosecution side or the defense side?
	No, I want to be...
	Y'all are trying to play me.
	Bye.
	Bye, bye, bye, bye, bye.
	Ha, ha, ha, ha, ha.
	But I will say you did have a good take on it, and you too as well, because it's more like, you know what, critical thinking versus like, oh, I feel like I'm team Meg, whatever, so.
	Yeah, I'm not on nobody's side.
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	Fair enough.
	More of a base look.
	We do it live, right?
	Do it live.
	Okay, and then guys, Yeah, we'll keep going.
	Okay.
	Sharmuta detector.
	Beep, beep, beep, beep, beep.
	All right.
	Appreciate that.
	Natalie goes, ladies, as a woman in her early 30s, I am telling you, listen to Myron.
	Shout out to you, Natalie.
	I appreciate that.
	I think he knows everything, but yeah.
	We'll listen to him, girl.
	What do you disagree with that I've said?
	Tell him.
	I don't know.
	I just...
	My girls were on the last podcast and I just watched it and you were just seeing a lot of...
	Wait, hold on.
	Weren't you friends with the sisters?
	How do you know?
	How do you know?
	Oh, because you were on a yacht with them, right, recently?
	Oh.
	Why you?
	Damn.
	Damn.
	You said, hey, my friend, try to, you know, want to be on the podcast, all right?
	Very good.
	Thank you.
	All right.
	So, question for you.
	So, you said you didn't like some of the stuff.
	What did you disagree with in particular?
	Um...
	I don't want to get into it.
	I don't have a problem with people disagreeing with me whatsoever.
	Like, you were degrading women and I didn't like it.
	Like, you were like, oh, if a man takes a girl on a date, she gotta fuck after.
	And I'm like, damn.
	It's like that.
	I never said that.
	He didn't physically say that, but in his words, he said that.
	What the fuck?
	Wait, wait, wait.
	Is it clear?
	He didn't say that.
	No, but it was...
	That was maybe her interpretation.
	Yeah, that was my interpretation.
	That's still not what he said.
	Understood.
	That's what you understood, right?
	Yeah, yeah.
	That's what I took away from it.
	Understanding, see?
	Understanding, yeah.
	Understanding.
	Okay, just so I can clarify here, so I can properly address this.
	So you're saying that I degrade women, and I do so because I said that if a girl goes on a first date, she needs to sleep with a guy.
	Allegedly.
	Yeah, so I felt like that was kind of degrading.
	No, but that's what you're saying?
	Summarizing what I said?
	You want to take it that way, yeah.
	I'm literally asking you, I mean, clarify for me.
	Was it in particular that you did?
	That podcast just blew me because I didn't really quite understand it.
	I didn't.
	It was the last podcast y'all had last Friday.
	So how can you disagree with something you don't understand?
	Okay, well maybe you need to get more into it.
	So maybe I can get an understanding.
	Since we're talking about understanding.
	So what is it that you didn't understand?
	What do you want to be?
	I want to be independent.
	I don't need no woman in my life.
	I understand everything.
	You're gonna be lonely as hell then.
	Just like you That was great That was great Let's not get into it It's okay.
	I mean, if you're going to make a statement like, I disagree with this because you're degrading women.
	No, because it was something you were saying, like, you know, men spend the most money and, like, if a man takes a woman out at the end of the night, you know, she should...
	Give us some cheeks or whatever.
	See, I was there.
	He was there.
	Okay, so explain.
	No, but you watched it, so you understand, right?
	I didn't watch the whole thing.
	Oh, you didn't watch the full thing!
	I stayed on for like 30 minutes.
	So as a lawyer, the context has to be reviewed in full detail.
	Yeah, you're right.
	I wasn't on from 9.30 to 12.
	I feel like I joined...
	I think I joined at like...
	10.30 and then I stayed on to like 11.15 and then I took a shower because I was waiting on the girls.
	What'd you eat?
	I was like in and out.
	What'd you eat though?
	The food you ate though?
	I'm babes.
	I'm vegan.
	I ate vegetables.
	So my thing is if you want to be an upcoming lawyer, right?
	You need to be able to summarize what the opposition says.
	You're right.
	Understand it.
	Okay.
	Have a counter argument.
	And debunk what they said.
	And I still haven't heard that from you.
	So I'm still trying to figure out here.
	You're saying, oh, you think you're always right.
	I disagree.
	Okay, what do you disagree with?
	Oh, you degrade women.
	Okay, how do I degrade women?
	Oh, well, my understanding was you said guys should have sex with a girl after the first date because he paid.
	I was like, I never said that.
	Okay, so what did you say?
	So you're making an argument for something you don't even know.
	Go ahead and explain to the people, your fans here.
	No, because you're the one.
	If you're going to disagree with a point, then it's on you.
	I didn't disagree with the point that you said women had to always after the first date.
	That's the point that I didn't like.
	Stop it.
	Myron, she's the gritting man.
	Myron.
	If you're going to take a stance, you do realize if you're going to take a stance, you need to be able to, one, to support your claim.
	Okay, the claim that, like, I don't agree with that.
	I don't think women should have to...
	I never said that, though.
	But I don't think, at their first date, women should always have to bust it open, like, you know?
	I never said that.
	You're getting to know each other, you know?
	Nobody said that.
	Nobody said that.
	That's just what it gave me.
	I'm just saying that's what it gave me.
	So you misinterpreted the information.
	Okay.
	Misinterpretation.
	Sorry, fans.
	Sorry, YouTube, and all these...
	Whose fault is it if you misinterpret the information?
	Whose fault is it if you misinterpret the information?
	Just go ahead.
	Bitches.
	Yo, she argue with herself, man.
	It's giving not understanding.
	It's giving nothing to me.
	It's giving nothing to me.
	Yo, wrong talk.
	Remember how I said that men and women aren't the same?
	You just observe what just happened?
	No, no, no.
	Let's use this as a learning point.
	So y'all agree with me?
	Or you think after the fact of the day, after he spent a little hundred dollars on you, a little two-year-old, hey, hey!
	Hey, when I'm speaking, you need to be quiet.
	You had a chance to speak.
	You couldn't defend your points.
	You didn't even know what was said.
	So please be quiet while I'm speaking.
	What was illustrated was she didn't like what I said and made her feel some type of way.
	She interpreted a certain way and came on here and gave me her interpretation, which was absolutely incorrect.
	This is one of the biggest differences between men and women.
	Women analyze how the information is conveyed.
	Men analyze what information is conveyed.
	This proves my point that women are emotional thinkers first.
	She's going off how I made her feel when she saw that segment versus what I actually said.
	This is literally a quintessential example of how men and women interpret information differently.
	This is why men need to be in leadership roles.
	She's not the speaker for all women, though.
	No, but I'm just giving you an example real-time that just happened in front of you.
	How women interpret information.
	You gonna take that from her?
	No.
	I don't really care.
	And here's the other thing, too.
	I'm just here.
	Let's make this even funner.
	She wants to be a lawyer, which typically you're going to need to debate.
	And I will be.
	And I will be.
	Can you please stop interrupting?
	Please stop interrupting.
	So what I'm saying is that she's going into a field where you need to be able to debate your points, be logically sound and rational, and she would even revert it back to female nature.
	I'm not knocking her for it, but this is just how women in general tend to interpret information.
	If they don't like how it makes them feel, they kind of run with that feeling and they might misinterpret the information that was said because it made them feel an incorrect way.
	I mean, like I was trying to say, what her behavior is, it doesn't speak for all of us.
	Like, there's some women that can keep their composure that are good at analytical thinking.
	Yes.
	Just overall, like, you know.
	Well, here's the thing.
	I never said all.
	But a considerable amount of women lead with how information makes them feel versus what's real.
	That's my point.
	She can definitely fix the way she's thinking.
	You're not going to be that way permanently when it comes to wanting to be a lawyer.
	You're definitely going to improve.
	You're going to study more.
	I think you're missing the point here.
	What I'm saying is that women tend to interpret information based on how it's said versus what it's said.
	And they'll have an emotional response to it.
	That's why when I asked her to please articulate what offended you or what was incorrect, she said something that wasn't even said because it made her feel a certain way.
	That's what I'm trying to establish here.
	Basically, he's saying that she interpreted with her feelings instead of with her brain.
	Basically.
	Instead of the logic behind it.
	So what was he actually trying to say?
	Since you're a married woman.
	I didn't watch the podcast.
	The last podcast that you watched to interpret it for you.
	I'll tell you what he said.
	He said in a nutshell, make on dates to fuck.
	Now, ultimately, hold on, when the connection is there, things happen, it's natural.
	But from the standpoint of men, we go into it, you know what, I like the girl, I want to see what happens.
	Girls go on dates and they say, oh, you know what, free dinner, I'm going to see what this guy's about, maybe I might like him, maybe I might not.
	We're just saying, in that setup right there, men go into it looking for more.
	Girls are like, you know what, I'll see what happens on a date.
	That's it.
	Yeah, nowhere did we say she has to.
	She never has to do anything.
	At all.
	We're just saying that when a man goes out with a woman, it's typically for sexual reasons.
	When a woman goes out with a man, it's a multitude of other reasons.
	Because women get value out of a first date, regardless of whether they sleep with the guy or not.
	The guy, a lot of times, doesn't get value unless he gets some kind of intimacy.
	So basically, every day a guy goes out expecting to meet at the end of the night.
	First night, he wanted to smash.
	Guarantee you.
	We didn't though.
	That's not the point.
	He wanted to though.
	How long did it take?
	We didn't do it till like three times in.
	He's struggling over here.
	It's the head on the mic for me.
	Yeah, I think we'll just move on.
	You got it, though.
	You got it.
	We'll just move on.
	What's wrong?
	Where are we at here?
	We're gonna move on.
	Yeah.
	Fresh look like he closed the fridge with his lips.
	with his hips ladies if you met a man that's making a little above average salary he says he could provide for you and children but we have to move to a Would you be cool with that?
	You're going to Oklahoma.
	Kansas.
	Missouri.
	Arkansas.
	I mean, I'm already kind of private when it comes to my relationships.
	But, I don't know.
	I mean...
	We'll make it simple.
	How many of you, by raising hands, would move to a smaller city if you're provided for?
	I come from a small city, so...
	So, only three girls on the panel?
	The rest of you wouldn't move?
	I would move if I loved the person.
	Well, yeah, that's the question.
	Yeah, if you're in love and being provided for.
	Well, I mean, there can be a difference between just like you just want to be with somebody that provides for you versus just being with somebody you love.
	I want to be with somebody I love, not just because they're going to provide for me.
	I want that connection.
	Would you be with someone?
	The question is based on you.
	So would you even be with someone that took care of you if you didn't love them, though?
	I would move for them as long as I love them.
	Why would you be with them if you don't love them?
	Well, then if that's the point, then yeah, I would move.
	Got it.
	So, yes.
	Alright.
	We got here.
	Where are we at?
	DJ Troy, one of the greatest blessings a woman can give a man without being married to that man?
	I think that's the question he's asking.
	What is the greatest blessing a woman can give a man without being married to him?
	We can start with you.
	Go ahead.
	Loyalty.
	Loyalty.
	You just, you know, you keep to yourself and to this person and even though you're not fully committed, you just show them you're about it and you'll be faithful.
	I mean, that's a good one.
	Okay.
	For you?
	I'd say children, because that's a whole other responsibility.
	You're bringing a new life into the world that's basically saying, like, I'm willing to communicate with you for the next 18 years, honestly, for the rest of the life of this child.
	Do you want to have kids without marriage?
	No, no.
	That's the question.
	Without being married to that man.
	Yeah, I'm saying that's the biggest blessing I could give you.
	Without being married?
	Yeah.
	That's what he's saying.
	You're cool with that.
	Real quick, guys.
	We're going to go ahead and we just passed the one hour mark.
	We're going to kill the Facebook, Twitch, and Twitter.
	Come on over to either Rumble or YouTube, guys.
	Fresh Fit on YouTube or on Rumble.
	Come on over, guys.
	Come on over right now.
	Come on over from Twitter and Twitch.
	Sorry, continue on.
	So she's saying kids basically is her blessing.
	Kids?
	Before marriage?
	Okay.
	Her presence.
	Presence?
	Yeah, her presence.
	Her being there.
	Isn't that like, I mean, he's there too.
	Yeah, but a woman's there too and her time is more valuable, biologically speaking, because she has a time limit to get pregnant.
	So your time is better than my time?
	Yeah, biologically speaking, yes.
	Damn.
	Yeah.
	That's crazy.
	I have eggs that are gonna expire.
	Tick tock.
	You know what I mean?
	And it's not gonna expire by when you're 35, you know?
	Thank God.
	Well, you're a man, you know?
	Thank God, right?
	Okay.
	So you think that women have more value up front because of the biological time clock?
	Yes.
	Because the milk expires.
	Okay.
	I see that perspective.
	Yeah.
	Milk.
	Yeah.
	Expires.
	I'll have to disagree with those two, but not to, you know, give me a light over here or anything, but just because you give a child to a guy doesn't mean that he's going to stay or think that that's a blessing to him, you get what I'm saying?
	So that's how you see it, but that's not how they see it, you get what I'm saying?
	Depends on the person.
	I'm going to leave the country.
	Who said that?
	But, um...
	I would think it's basically loyalty, honestly, because it's hard to come by that these days, especially living in these times with females being city girls and yeah, so I'll say loyalty.
	Trust, basically.
	That goes hand in hand.
	Loyalty and trust.
	I second third that.
	Loyalty and trust without being married.
	That's big.
	For you?
	I would say support.
	Support?
	Okay, that's good Then Miss Lawyer here One blessing you give to your man without being married YouTuber man Faithfulness I believe in being faithful Never turning on my man Are you faithful now?
	Of course I am Even without the title right now You know, staying down Do you really think that's a gift Or isn't that supposed to be a requirement?
	Okay.
	I mean, I couldn't think of another gift.
	Don't you want me to be faithful, nigga?
	Yeah, but shouldn't that be a requirement?
	Yeah, of course.
	Versus, you know, something that is a gift?
	Because a gift is kind of like elective, right?
	Versus mandatory?
	Yeah.
	Yeah, I don't...
	What gift?
	I mean, what gift could you give a man?
	I mean...
	Okay, this is great.
	All right.
	Question for you real quick, because you said that a woman's time is more valuable from the biological perspective.
	So, real quick, who do you think the prize is in a relationship, a man or a woman?
	Here we go, right?
	I think a woman.
	Okay, why do you think so?
	Well, she gives the kids, first of all.
	Okay.
	And she's making...
	Well, a man is only doing anything in life.
	It's because of a woman.
	Okay.
	What do you mean by that?
	Well, I mean, why are you going to job?
	Why are you trying to accomplish something if it's not for a woman?
	Okay.
	So, I think the woman is the prize here.
	Because you're doing it for her, for the prize.
	Okay.
	Interesting.
	But wouldn't it be fair to say that once the man does all that and accomplishes himself and gets in the gym and acquires the status, the money, the fitness, etc., that he actually inadvertently turns himself into the prize?
	He becomes high value, but a woman still is the prize.
	You think so?
	Yes.
	Would a woman be the prize if beautiful women are still pretty common versus a high-value man?
	Well, that's a high-value man would not cheat and be loyal.
	You think a high-value man would be loyal?
	Because he has discipline and emotional intelligence not to do so.
	Interesting.
	Discipline.
	So you think a component of being high-value is being disciplined with his sexuality?
	Yes.
	Controlling your urges and basically putting your energy into something that makes you grow more.
	Interesting.
	Do you like my penis?
	Let me ask you this.
	Are you picky with men?
	Absolutely.
	You are.
	Okay.
	What's your preference?
	Do you want a guy over six feet tall, I'm guessing?
	No, I don't think that it's going to be mostly the looks.
	What are you selective on, then, particularly?
	Well, it's many things.
	Energy.
	Yeah, it's one of those as well.
	It needs to be good energy.
	It needs to have morals, first of all.
	Such as?
	Such as, well...
	No cheating.
	Yeah, one of those.
	Respecting.
	Not just women.
	People around him as well.
	What are your preference?
	Do you want him to be physically strong?
	Yes, I would prefer my man to, let's say, protect me if I need to be protected.
	Yeah.
	So I just find it interesting because you want the guy to be disciplined with his desires, but you're not necessarily disciplined with your desires.
	Why not just go with a nice guy that's homeless?
	How am I not disciplined?
	Or more average.
	Why not just get with a more...
	How am I not disciplined?
	You see what I did there?
	What you want in a man, right?
	If I tell you, oh no!
	Peel it back a bit.
	Take it easy.
	Why are your standards so high?
	Just have some discipline.
	Get with a more normal, average guy.
	You're like, no.
	What the fuck?
	So I just kind of find it interesting that women expect men to be disciplined after a man has to work to gain his value, but women are never disciplined and lower their standards with the type of man that they want.
	Why is that women can ask the world of a man But a man can't ask a girl, hey, I want to have multiple partners.
	I've worked myself to have a certain point.
	Like, why does he have to exercise discipline?
	Well, she's disciplining herself too.
	She's not giving away herself to any men.
	That's the thing as well.
	I mean, not having a whole phase, I think that's a...
	Understandable, but realistically speaking, are women virgins?
	Yes, there are some.
	Who?
	There are some.
	Are you?
	I know a couple.
	There are some.
	Okay, but the vast majority of women, are they virgins?
	No.
	There are some.
	Okay, but the vast majority are they?
	Well, because men manipulate women.
	Okay, we gotta have some accountability here, because women are the ones that pick who fucks.
	You see what I'm doing?
	Because you're saying, okay, I want a man that's disciplined sexually, right?
	Like, he should suppress his urges and wants.
	But when I ask you, are you gonna...
	Not suppress.
	Why suppress?
	Quite literally what you just said a second ago.
	No, just...
	Suppress it, control it.
	No, no, no.
	This is energy, right?
	You're talking about sexual energy.
	You could convert it into something that's more...
	So therefore, he's suppressing it and putting it into something else, which is literally what I just said.
	I wouldn't say suppress.
	It's just shifting the energy to something more.
	Okay.
	Well, that's how you go to gym.
	You just put your sexual energy to gym.
	That's how you do it.
	It doesn't fully go away, though.
	It's still there.
	Well, yeah.
	That's why you have a woman, right?
	Oh, man.
	How about this?
	What if I say you suppress your need to be with a man that makes more money than you?
	Just get with a more average guy.
	Why not be alone then?
	That's discipline.
	You guys see what I mean here?
	When you put the shoe on the other foot, women aren't going to go ahead and settle.
	Why would I waste my time and energy on someone I don't think that's valuable?
	Okay, so why should a man waste his time and energy on a girl that expects monogamy from him when he's busted his ass to get to a certain point and he wants to have multiple women?
	Okay, so if he got to his point, he's now eligible to be able to cheat because he has money now and he's able to cheat?
	Is that what you're saying?
	I think once a man reaches a certain status and makes a certain amount of money, and if he wants to have multiple women, I think he should be able to do so without any type of shaming or anything.
	Because the problem is this, men are apologetic for being men.
	And with all due respect, the way I view women is women are trustful babies.
	Men are self-made millionaires from a sexuality standpoint.
	When you turn 18, you basically get a big endowment of a million dollars.
	That's your youth, your beauty.
	Men that are millionaires and successful will go ahead and want to date you even though you really don't bring that much value to the world.
	You just turned 18.
	Men, on the other hand, they have to pay for the yachts.
	They have to pay for the nice cars.
	They have to pay for the lifestyle.
	They have to go to the gym and get in shape.
	They have to learn how to fight.
	They have to become competent.
	Men have to work way harder.
	Yeah, because you have more.
	Hold on, let me just finish.
	Men have to work way harder to attract the opposite gender.
	So, it doesn't make sense to me that women will sit there and try to police your dick When they never worked hard enough with having a dick.
	That's my point.
	Women are trust fund babies.
	Men are self-made millionaires.
	Trust fund babies can't tell self-made millionaires how to spend their money.
	So I find it ridiculous when women try to say, a high-value man does X, Y, Z. No, a high-value man doesn't listen to women.
	Bars.
	Period.
	I have a question.
	Go ahead, sure.
	Do you think all rich men cheat?
	A standard and majority do.
	Majority.
	You should know.
	But we're focusing on the majority, not the few.
	If I had a daughter, or my sister, I told her this, if you want to get with a man that earns a lot of money, be prepared to share him.
	Yeah.
	Holding out for that 1% man is delusional, stupid, and not in your best interest.
	Especially since you've made it yourself.
	You're on a biological time clock, right?
	So that's how you would raise your sense?
	Oh, what do you mean?
	Raise him in what way?
	Just, if you know that he's cheating on his wife, let's say.
	Would you say that he's doing a good job?
	I would tell him to be honest and let women know up front that he wants multiple women.
	And that's the most important thing.
	But, let's be honest here.
	Are most men going to be honest and tell women, oh, I want to have multiple chicks?
	No, because, I mean, look at your response.
	You have an issue with a man being polygamous, which is cool.
	A lot of women do, but The reality is once men reach a certain stature, they're going to do it whether you like it or not.
	So if I'm telling you it's raining outside and I give you an umbrella and you walk outside and you get wet and you didn't open up the umbrella, whose fault is that?
	It's your fault, right?
	Because I told you it's raining outside and I even gave you the umbrella.
	So why be in a relationship then?
	Why step outside?
	Yeah, why?
	Because at some point the sun's going to come out.
	So just for that one moment?
	You see what I did there?
	At some point the sun's going to come out.
	It might rain, but in general the weather's always nice.
	But that women got to be able to weather that storm, and they don't want to weather it.
	That's what comes with the territory when you're a high-value man.
	We don't want a high-value man without dealing with high-value man problems.
	That's not a high-value man problem.
	Can I put in?
	Fresh.
	Yeah, sure.
	And then I'll rebut what she just said.
	My thing, it all depends on the individual and how well they communicate with whoever they're talking to.
	And it also depends on the female as well.
	Now...
	If you reach a certain caliber in life or whatever, and your success, you get to cheat or whatever.
	That depends on if you talk to your person about that, who you're with.
	If you're in a community relationship, you have to communicate that.
	Okay, hey babe, at this point, I think we should have an open relationship.
	Now, if they agree to that, give me the option to agree with you or disagree with you.
	Yeah.
	So I get to choose whether I want to stay or leave.
	I agree.
	That's the only thing.
	That's where I, you know...
	I agree.
	Are you cool with your man seeing other girls?
	Am I cool with it?
	Yeah.
	No.
	Hold on.
	He wants to communicate with you and say, you know what, babe?
	Because guess what?
	The only reason I disagree is because I gave him a chance to go do that.
	Oh, you gave him a chance?
	But you still call the shots because if you're not okay with it, you can't do it.
	No, here's the thing.
	Let's hear your thing.
	Because at the end of the day, regardless of the fact, a man is going to cheat regardless.
	It depends.
	Not every man cheats.
	I'm not saying that.
	So you know it's coming.
	But majority of the men cheat.
	If you find that he got cheated on you tomorrow, what would you do?
	What would you do?
	Honestly, I've been through a lot with my person, so I can only speak for myself.
	I would stay.
	But would I constantly take the disrespect?
	No.
	I wouldn't if it's like, you know.
	So you would stay, but he'd be like the nice.
	It's my thing is the lying.
	You want honesty.
	I want honesty.
	So if you get to do what you want to do, that means I can go.
	I don't mean, okay, I'm not going to throw myself on every dude.
	I'm not going to sleep with every dude.
	But if I decide, hey, I want to stay with you while you're doing this, then that's my choice.
	But if I don't want to stay with you while you're doing this, then I get to leave.
	I get to keep my options open.
	Just let me be able to keep my options open if you want to be able to do what you want to do.
	See, she wants to honestly react to it.
	Which is fine, but once again, that means, oh, you can see other people?
	So can I? Which is not cool, though.
	Yeah, so how would men feel about that?
	Yeah, how is it not cool if you guys...
	I'm not saying I'm going to go throw myself and sleep with every dude.
	No, I'm not going to sleep with anybody else and degrade myself.
	Just one or two.
	No, I'm not going to degrade myself while I'm with you.
	Because that fucking lessens my value.
	So she knows.
	You know what I'm saying?
	So, yeah.
	Alright, so you even know subconsciously that going out and dealing with other men to try to maybe get a get back is a bad move for you as a female.
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	You had something?
	What's the point of being in a relationship if you're not going to be monogamous?
	I mean, the point traditionally of a relationship is to be that person's other half.
	To grow with that person in sickness and in health.
	And if a woman can't be Have multiple partners, just like the men.
	I mean, how...
	the majority of men, you know...
	Okay, let me ask you a question.
	Okay, yes.
	If you were with a man that you truly loved and admired and respected, would you want to fuck another guy?
	No.
	Okay, now let's flip it.
	If a guy was with a woman that he loved and admired and respected, would you want to fuck another girl?
	The answer is yes, in general.
	Would I want...
	No, would he want...
	Yeah.
	Going back to the question again, I asked you, if you're with a man you love, admire, and respect, would you want to have sex with other men?
	You said no.
	Now, let's flip it, right?
	Because you're saying, why not be monogamous?
	Now, let's flip it.
	If a man's with a woman that he loves, admires, respect, is he going to have sex with other women?
	The answer, 90 plus percent of the time, is yes.
	But that's, why be in a relationship if that's the point?
	If it's for religious reasons, I believe that's fine.
	Because you're looking at a relationship from a female perspective.
	Only.
	Because I think it's messed up to just be disloyal.
	Yeah, because, I mean, that's my opinion.
	I mean, why be in a relationship if you're not going to be loyal to that person, be that person's other half?
	I mean, unless it's for religious reasons, I understand it more, but you're trying to influence, like, or just trying to tell us, like, oh, we worked for it.
	The majority of guys are cashiers at CVS. How are you working?
	Just because you were born with different genitalia than I? Here's the thing.
	Men have to work harder in general than women in almost every endeavor in life.
	I find it very interesting and funny that women that are given their value try to tell a man who has to earn their value how to spend their value.
	You understand?
	But we're not like assets.
	We're not like something at a grocery store that you say, oh, I'm this price, I'm this price.
	How do you know how much value you have?
	We're just people at the end of the day.
	That's all we are.
	Alright, so in dating, in relationships, there's hierarchies.
	Whether people want to admit it or not, we're all competing with each other to some degree.
	Women are competing for the best mates, men are competing for the best mates.
	The metrics that make us attractive are different.
	The metrics that make a woman attractive, in general, youth, beauty, chastity, right?
	And fertility.
	It's what men have wanted since the beginning of time.
	Women want security, provisioning, strength, competence, etc.
	But the things that a woman wants in a man take time to acquire.
	The things that a man wants in a woman don't take time to require.
	So therefore, our values are different.
	And since our values are different, that heavily influences how we deal with each other.
	Hold on.
	You just said we're not price tags or we don't have certain values.
	You sell yourself online.
	OnlyFans.
	How much do you charge for your You're taking it out of context.
	I'm talking about in a relationship.
	I'm not, at least me on OnlyFans, I'm not messing around with other people.
	I let my partner know, yo, this is a good way for me to make some additional money.
	I've had a lot go on in my life, right?
	And I'm not getting any support anymore from anybody.
	I've had it really...
	I hear what you're saying.
	I'm just saying everyone has a level of, I want to say, authority, price, for example, or value on some level.
	Because there's competition between you, her, her, her, and her.
	There is?
	100%.
	In what way?
	I'll give you an example.
	Let's say a guy's going to choose a girl in here.
	He's going to look at what she does for a living.
	How hot she is?
	Is she feminine?
	Is she going to help me with my business?
	All these factors are going to determine what he's going to do with you.
	So there's a level of competition being set up between all the girls here at all times.
	I mean, like, there's always going to be a guy like, oh, like, she's better looking, she's cooler.
	I mean, like, does it matter at the end of the day?
	It does, if you want...
	I mean, like, you know, you're always going to find, like, go on shitty dates, go on good dates.
	You just got to find that person you connect with.
	It doesn't even have to be.
	See, you're speaking from a privileged perspective because you're the one that's choosing.
	You're not competing.
	No.
	Like, you're not overtly competing where you're acquiring status and money and all these other things.
	Like, with all due respect, women live life on easy mode, which is kind of makes you guys delusional about how the world really works.
	Mm-hmm.
	It takes two to tango.
	I mean, like, we have sometimes, like, we can't...
	No, it takes one to initiate the dance, and that's the man.
	That's the difference.
	It doesn't take two to fucking tango.
	It takes the man to initiate the dance, and the woman follows.
	Yep.
	That's how dancing works.
	And if you've got a good leader, any woman can dance with him.
	So it doesn't really take two to tango.
	Man, you go overpriced, man.
	12 bucks?
	Goddamn.
	And that's the thing, and I say this with all due respect, but the reality is that women are very replaceable when it comes to beauty.
	And I get what you're saying.
	Well, I have a biological time clock, etc.
	Well, you're an attractive young woman.
	That's cool.
	But this is Miami.
	There's a bunch of attractive women just like you that...
	Pretty much are going to be similar to...
	Here's the thing.
	The level of high-value men in comparison to beautiful women aren't even close.
	It's different.
	It's very different.
	It's very different because they can look good, but they can be not sugar honey iced tea.
	Okay?
	So...
	What do you mean by that?
	From the men or the female perspective?
	- The men.
	- Okay, but the point-- - No, I'm saying, I'm seconding on your point.
	You get what I'm saying? - Yeah, I mean, like high quality men that are attractive are very rare, but like beautiful women are everywhere.
	Exactly, but it's more common for a man to put up with females that have less than them than a female that has more than a man to put up with a man that has less than them.
	You get what I'm saying?
	If a female makes more than a man, it's more like...
	Difficult for her to like that man.
	Difficult for her to accept that man for making less.
	You get what I'm saying?
	I understand.
	Most women don't want to be in a breadwinner position.
	To me, it looks like you, in particular, you would want a guy that's very picky, so you're probably going for a higher value guy, right?
	I'm a high-value woman.
	I pick a high-value man, yes.
	Yeah, we know you do.
	Okay, well, controversial take.
	I don't think there's such a thing as a high-value woman that's single, but that's my take on it.
	And I can explain that.
	What'd you say, Mo?
	Her Instagram is a high-value.
	Mo said...
	She's pretty bad, man.
	Oh, it's bad?
	Yeah, it's bad.
	I mean, it's just modeling.
	No, it's not modeling.
	It's just modeling.
	No, that is modeling.
	I don't have naked pictures in there.
	I'm going to have to get my boots on.
	Okay, so I'll explain why and I'll explain why I have this belief and then you guys can agree or disagree.
	I don't think there's such thing as a high value woman on her own and the reason why is that typically women are evaluated on the strength of their relationships.
	Men are evaluated on the strength of their success, which then builds relationships, right?
	So when two men meet, they shake hands.
	What do you do for work?
	You know, etc.
	That's how they measure each other, by status, income, influence.
	Women, on the other hand, judge each other by how beautiful are you and do you have a man?
	Do you have a relationship?
	When two women meet, it's like, oh, are you single?
	Blah, blah, blah.
	So...
	A girl that makes $100,000 a year, or let's say a million dollars a year, doesn't have the same equivalent power as a guy that makes a million dollars a year.
	That man is going to command more attention in the dating marketplace because women are more interested in income and status.
	Men, on the other hand, are not interested in that, right?
	So a millionaire man is not the same as a millionaire woman.
	Now, with that said, since women's value comes typically from their relationships, if a woman doesn't have the last name of a high-value man, she's not high-value.
	Because then any girl can run around and call themselves high-value.
	A woman's value typically is determined by the caliber of man that she can attract and, most importantly, retain, not just fuck.
	It's why women aspire to get married and walk down the aisle in a white dress and they dream about that.
	Women typically want a relationship with a higher status guy.
	So I would argue a woman is in high value unless she has a high-bodied man last name to co-sign her.
	Because women acquire status through men, not the other way around.
	You have anything for that?
	Yeah, I don't agree with that.
	Why do you not agree?
	Because I think women's value first starts with her...
	Age, then her beauty, and then her brains, and then her beliefs, and then her respect to herself, and then her hobbies, and then her time investing into what she does, into hobbies.
	Let me ask you this then.
	If a girl has all these things in line, wouldn't it be easier for her to find a happy man?
	Yes.
	Okay.
	So, if she has those things in place, it should be easy for her to find a guy.
	Yes.
	So, if she can't find a guy, whose fuck up is that?
	When it's easy to find a guy?
	I mean, it's the woman.
	There you go.
	So, if you have all these things in place, it should be easy for you to get a man.
	But if you don't do it...
	But there's not as much high-value men as there is high-value women.
	Oh, so they're scarce.
	That's what he was saying.
	You basically disagree with.
	Yeah, but there is, though.
	I'm not saying that there isn't at all.
	You triggered my trap card!
	You learned this way of arguing for me that I said earlier.
	I'm not saying that there isn't at all, though.
	Yeah, but they're scarce.
	But they're still manageable to find.
	If I wanted to, I would find one today, but I don't want to.
	Yeah, you can find one, but ladies, let's not conflate getting sex in a relationship or two different things.
	I'm not talking about sex.
	No, the game is, can you actually keep the man long term?
	Just because you can attract a guy and go on a date with him, doesn't mean that you can keep him long term.
	You can.
	And here's the thing.
	It's very interesting because you're aware of your biological time clock.
	You're aware of this.
	You can't sit there and tell me, oh, I'm just having my fun, etc.
	You're keenly aware of the fact that you have a limited amount of time to find the best guy.
	So if you really were with the best guy, or you've been dating him, or you can get him, as you say, you'd be in a relationship with him right now.
	But why are you single?
	Not necessarily.
	Maybe I don't want to right now.
	I think that's a cope.
	No, you know, studying medicine isn't an easy thing.
	You know what I mean?
	Hey man, she's green car ready.
	Bro, she's...
	I think that's a cope, man.
	I mean, do you think you're gonna have more value now or when you're done with your medical degree?
	Not necessarily like till I finish everything.
	Maybe this year I'm not ready.
	You know, why do I need to chase someone?
	Why do I need to look for someone?
	By your own admission, high-value men are scarce.
	So, by default, you have to chase them.
	No, I don't.
	They need to chase me.
	Oh, shit.
	She's independent, bro.
	She got this, man.
	I'm fine being alone, you know?
	I don't mind being alone.
	Some women are scared to be alone.
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	Real quick question.
	And I mean, I just got it.
	Okay.
	Miss Lithuania, do you think, because I see you have high standards, do you think you deserve a high volume in?
	Yes.
	Okay.
	Do you think you present yourself as wife material?
	I do.
	Let's pull up that Instagram.
	There we go!
	Oh, okay.
	Let's go!
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	Yes, it's giving wifey.
	It's giving wifey.
	It's giving what?
	It's not even that bad.
	It's giving paid for.
	No, it's even YP material.
	You have your high class.
	Whose car is that?
	Whose car is that?
	That's a modeling thing.
	Okay, cool.
	Whose boat is this?
	Actually, you know, I actually wanted people to know how this happened.
	I was traveling with my mom at Lake Como.
	Okay, anyways.
	It's a boat that he runs.
	Okay, she's in a fucking Ferrari.
	That's a Lamborghini.
	Oh, Lambo.
	No, no, no.
	Hold on.
	Whose car is that?
	It's a modeling thing.
	I go to Miami and model.
	That Green Lambo is a modeling thing?
	Yes.
	They use props.
	They rent cars as props and stuff.
	Props, hotels, late nights.
	I was with my mom in Italy.
	Wow, that's beautiful.
	You're so beautiful.
	You look so cute.
	Oh my gosh.
	They're hating, girl.
	Wait, wait, hold on.
	So your mom's all these?
	They feed you too?
	She did that, actually.
	After the photo shoot, we went together to eat dinner.
	So where's your mom?
	Is she here?
	I don't see her at all.
	Oh, yeah.
	She has Instagram as well.
	No, no, no.
	I mean, on your page.
	Of course she's not going to put her on my IG. That's your mom.
	What was that?
	Okay.
	Sis, you're so pretty.
	I was expecting worse.
	Yeah, like, y'all were trying to comfort her like she was just some run down or something.
	No, no.
	You girls don't know.
	I mean, I know what you mean, but I thought it was worse.
	This is actually, really, this is very interesting to see the female's perspective on this Instagram versus the guys.
	What's the first thing that comes to your mind when you see this Instagram?
	We'll start hearing their work our way.
	First, one word, if you had to describe it.
	About her business.
	Okay.
	Well, that's a few words, but okay.
	That's fine.
	What about you?
	She looks good.
	She looks nice.
	Okay.
	What about you?
	Do I really have to?
	Yeah, sure.
	Yeah, go ahead.
	Keep it a thousand.
	It just gives, like, in some pictures, very promiscuous vibe.
	What makes you think that?
	I mean, she looked good, and everybody on Instagram can see that.
	Thank you.
	What about you?
	And single.
	I would have to say, the first thing that comes to my mind, you know, I grew up with my brother, so my perspective is going to be a little different.
	I don't know.
	Okay.
	But I think high class, like, she's high maintenance.
	You get what I'm saying?
	And, you know, if you're a dude trying to talk to her, you would have to, you know, maintain her.
	Come with the bread.
	Yeah, come with the bread.
	Bring the bag with you.
	Okay.
	What are your thoughts?
	She looks like a model.
	Thank you, girls.
	What about you?
	Iconic.
	Thank you, girls.
	You know what I see from this, man?
	I see a woman of value.
	When I say value, I don't mean...
	Great value.
	I mean, low value.
	But to be honest, her page has a lot of travel, a lot of lifestyle, which I understand.
	Obviously, you want to showcase where you're at, what you're doing, your model.
	But a guy's going to see up front who she with, who's taking those pictures, and why is she always alone?
	That's the question he's going to think.
	And then it's like, okay, cool.
	If I don't know who's taking the pictures, I'm going to assume it's a guy she's smashing or multiple guys on different trips.
	So by default, I'm thinking she's like, for the streets.
	But why do guys think that?
	No, no, and Fresh, I've noticed she doesn't have a modeling agency here.
	She's a mad student and that's all she has.
	So, if you're a model, what is your agency?
	And then...
	No, no, no, no, what?
	Sorry, go ahead.
	Who do you model for?
	It's in my country.
	Okay, what is the name?
	You want to write it down?
	No, no, yeah, say it.
	It's going to be difficult because it's Athleanian.
	Okay, look at you.
	Alright, go ahead, Maren.
	No, she was going to say it.
	Were you going to say it?
	No, she was bullshit.
	No, she was about to say it.
	There's pictures that has tagged me in there.
	So, let me get it straight.
	You model and you post it.
	Do they pay you per post?
	Yeah, they do.
	Bro, you have three rows.
	That's all I see.
	And one photo shoot.
	Two, three.
	Yeah, but I have so many.
	I don't post all of them.
	Yeah, okay.
	Okay, so it's very interesting how women interpret photographs versus how men interpret photographs.
	If a man was to look at this, right, and he thought about taking you seriously, etc., he might have some doubts.
	Like, okay, hmm, how's she in these expensive locations?
	Who's taking the photographs?
	Why is she in foreign cars, right?
	Expensive foreign cars.
	Like, men in the back of their mind know that women typically don't pay for these things.
	So they're going to assume, is she a sugar baby?
	Sugar daddy.
	Is she an escort?
	Does she have her parents?
	Do you ever assume that?
	That's the least I'm going to assume.
	That's really rare.
	Remember, we're talking about, see, here's the thing, like, if I was a loser, right, and I was ugly or whatever, you wouldn't care about how much, you wouldn't give me the opportunity, right?
	Like, I wouldn't have to talk to you and introduce myself.
	I could have a million in the bank.
	You wouldn't give a shit.
	You'd be like, oh, you're not attractive.
	You don't want to get to know me.
	You judge a book by its cover.
	That's cool.
	That's totally acceptable.
	Oh, you don't?
	Men do too.
	But the difference is that men judge a book by its cover differently than women do.
	Women just openly reject you.
	Men reject you from a relationship.
	Does that make sense?
	So when a woman puts herself out in a certain way, he'll still talk to you.
	He'll still take you on a date.
	He'll still sell you the dream.
	But he'll be like, I have my reservations.
	What's she doing at this foreign location here?
	What's she doing in this Lamborghini?
	It's always going to be in the back of their mind.
	He's using Instagram.
	He's a red flag, first of all.
	Y'all take social media too serious.
	Hold on.
	I think a man shouldn't use Instagram.
	I think it's not...
	I don't understand the point of a man using Instagram.
	So you think it's a red flag if a man uses Instagram?
	If he's following many people that are...
	I mean...
	But isn't that a majority of your followers probably?
	Or men?
	Well, I think if a man is following a lot of bikini models...
	It's weird?
	Yeah, I think that's weird.
	What's a big red flag?
	A woman that's putting herself out there on the internet, you know, dressed a certain way, or a man that follows a lot of women?
	I think that a man who's using Instagram is a red flag.
	Who do you think Instagram is more, men or women in relationships?
	I think men are able to cheat more while they have Instagrams.
	Who hurt you?
	I mean, I've just seen many, many texts.
	So you actually think that men have more opportunities because of Instagram?
	Yeah.
	Than women do?
	Yeah.
	Really?
	Yeah.
	How many guys do you DM versus how many guys DM you?
	I don't DM anyone.
	Oh, thank you.
	Now how many men DM you?
	A lot.
	So who actually has more options on Instagram?
	Men do.
	Yes, men.
	No, we do because they're sitting there and we don't even pay attention to them.
	We DM us more than we DM. Women are more reserved.
	If you go on your DM, it's right there.
	I have a plethora of men that hit me up on that.
	The most a girl does is heart, maybe a story.
	That's the most you'll do.
	A guy's going to DM you, yo, where you at?
	Pull up to this spot.
	Come to here.
	We keep liking until you send the message.
	On the beach tomorrow.
	Or keep replying to your story until you reply to them and it's like, you don't get the hint by now?
	Nigga?
	I don't want to.
	Of a woman, the percentage of women in Instagram is bigger.
	But you do have, but I can say...
	No, usage across Instagram is about 50-50 at this point.
	Yeah.
	Right now at this point?
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	Do you really think men have as many options as women on Instagram?
	Do you genuinely believe that?
	It's iffy for me.
	There's a huge disconnect.
	The reality is that women actually have far more options.
	They've done studies on this.
	Girls that are lower than average looking get more messages than the top 1% of guys.
	They've replicated this on dating apps, Instagram.
	Like, women get way more messages and attention on social media than men do.
	I will agree.
	If guys don't talk dancing and stuff like that, it's kind of weird.
	But Instagram, I think, is business, you know, lifestyle.
	It's a little bit more different.
	But TikTok, it's kind of weird.
	Yeah.
	So, I mean, you can say that, but at the end of the day, right, when a man looks at a girl's Instagram, they're going to assume certain things.
	And here's the thing that sucks.
	They're not going to look at you as a med student.
	They're going to look at you and be like, is this a sugar baby?
	Is this girl an escort?
	How is she in these foreign locations?
	They're going to assume certain things based off your pictures.
	That's just the world that we live in.
	We judge a book by its cover.
	I haven't seen one medical photo there.
	You in scrubs.
	We don't know what you're doing.
	What are you studying, man?
	Yeah.
	I get it.
	Like, hey, it is what it is.
	But the thing is that women want all the attention without dealing with the consequences of that attention.
	When you put yourself out in a sexual way, unfortunately, a lot of guys aren't going to respect you.
	That's just how it goes.
	And they will never tell you to your face why they rejected you.
	They'll respect you, but they won't wipe you up.
	You're saying, oh, I have all these high-value men, etc.
	Yeah, they're hitting you up probably for sex based on your profile.
	But how many of them are getting down on one knee and committing to you that you actually like back?
	Man, I shouldn't get started, Ian.
	No, I am not.
	You're, like, putting me on the spot right now because you're talking, like, you are talking only about me.
	So it's like...
	Because we're...
	Yeah, I understand what you're trying to do and say that I am this and that.
	But you guys never...
	I didn't say you're anything.
	I said this is how it looks.
	There's a big distinction there.
	I'm telling you, this is what it looks like.
	Don't gaslight now.
	Okay.
	That's how it looks, but that's not what it is.
	And that's fine.
	But what I'm saying is that we live in a judge, a book by its cover society.
	Yeah, we're going by optics.
	So they're going to go off the optics and be like, ah, nah.
	I mean...
	Females, we do, so we should understand that we go by looks.
	Yeah, women judge a book by its cover more than men do, but when men go ahead and repeat it, but when men reciprocate and judge a woman by looks, it's an issue.
	Women could reject you all day judging a book by its cover, but if a man tells you the same thing, you're picking on me.
	No, I'm just telling you optically how it looks and how men think when they look at pictures like this.
	Yep.
	No, I truly understand what he's saying because people didn't know, like, I mean, I was truly in law until I posted me with my graduate, you know, me graduating.
	And then just like a few weeks ago, I posted me at the law office and they like, oh, damn, like, she's really working at the state attorney's office.
	Like, you know, because people only judge you by what they already see on your page.
	So, yeah.
	They don't see you in a doctor's coat, you know, in the lab working on school.
	Because we only share a certain amount of things.
	They only see you in your little model outfit with your Lamborghini drop top, baby.
	You know what I'm saying?
	So I truly get where he's coming from.
	Well, if you've seen me on Instagram, then I don't want him anyways.
	Because I don't want a man who's using this.
	And that's another thing, but that's a society we live in.
	Everybody just lives by social media.
	That's kind of double standards right there.
	But you use Instagram.
	But you use it.
	So you can't really come for a brand name.
	If you look down on people that use it.
	It's super critical right there.
	You're contradicting yourself because if you don't, it's like, what's the difference between you being on Instagram and a man being on Instagram?
	Mm-hmm.
	Get her.
	Okay, guys, we're going to rumble.
	I would argue a girl being on Instagram is more destructive to the relationship than a man being on Instagram.
	We see more options.
	Women get more options on Instagram.
	If anything, the girl's got to taper down her profile, not the guy.
	That's true, because I had to dot out a lot of things being married due to my relationship, and it's kind of disrespectful to my husband, so I had to realize that, comprehend, and understand that.
	It's all about, like I said, communication and understanding.
	I think...
	We'll go to Rumble real quick.
	Guys, come on over to Rumble real quick.
	Come on over.
	We're going to switch over to Rumble.
	I think I'm making an important point here.
	And then I'll turn it to the ladies.
	I don't mean to pick out...
	Lithuania, obviously, is triggered.
	But look...
	This isn't about her.
	This is about...
	No, no.
	This is about Instagram in general.
	Not just her.
	This is Instagram in general.
	I think...
	Kill the...
	Let me make my point.
	I think Instagram is somewhat handedly one of the biggest contributing factors to the degradation of relationships between men and women in the modern day age.
	And the reason why I say that is because what Instagram allows women to believe and think is that the grass is always greener on the other side.
	And what I've realized is that when women have an abundance of options, they tend to behave in a manner that isn't conducive to a good long-term relationship, unfortunately.
	When women think that the grass is green on the other side, they always think that they can do better.
	They think that there's another guy out there.
	There's a prince charming.
	And then Instagram, a lot of the times, sells a dream to females.
	Right?
	And I think that's very damaging for females because since women aren't the ones that actually go out and pursue men, men pursue them, just by a woman putting herself out there on the internet, it allows a flurry of options and situations to come in that can absolutely fuck up the relationship she has.
	Mm-hmm.
	So, a woman being on Instagram and showing her body or putting herself out there isn't the same as a man doing it.
	I can use her, for example, she probably gets more DMs than A-list celebrity guys.
	Yeah, she does.
	And she only has 7,000 followers.
	If that doesn't show to scale the immense disparity between males and females when it comes to options, especially on an app like Instagram...
	I don't know what it is.
	So I think it's a big contributor to the issues that we deal with in modern dating.
	And we know guys that only DM girls with low followers.
	On purpose.
	Yeah.
	Right.
	Yeah, that's true.
	Low 10k is perfect.
	You look at her Instagram, I guarantee you there's probably some big celebrities that are in her DMs.
	Verified.
	And tell me, and not to use her as an example.
	She's smiling as well.
	Yeah, she's smiling, right?
	But here's the thing.
	She knows.
	And if you guys notice, very confident, a little arrogant, etc.
	I got these high-value members.
	So you get this kind of...
	Inflated sense of self-worth because of the caliber of men that are approaching you and talking to you.
	But does that mean that these men are going to commit to you?
	No.
	Probably not.
	They're simping.
	But women go off perception.
	Oh, this guy's hitting me up.
	This is the caliber of guy that I deserve.
	I got NFL players, soccer players, this A-list slab hit me up, blah, blah, blah.
	But women think just because they can attract that caliber of guy that they can marry that caliber of guy.
	Yeah.
	The reality is that attraction and retention are two different things.
	But I think modern day women make the big mistake of assuming that they're the same.
	They're not.
	So, anyway.
	I don't know if y'all agree or disagree.
	Don't like what I said.
	I agree.
	Time to rumble, people.
	I ain't gonna lie, y'all.
	Tonight I'm agreeing with him.
	But first, how you know she have a...
	You know, more males in her DMs.
	I mean, look what she's posting.
	I just want to know from your point of view.
	I like to learn, you know, men's perspective as well.
	Because I grew up with my brothers.
	So, you know, I like to...
	So, I'll give you a little tip here.
	If she's posting her location where she's traveling to, there's going to be Jill tagged on certain posts.
	So, she's going to end up on people's explore page and then, oh, wait, who's that?
	Send her DM. Pull up here.
	Come here.
	So it's just naturally she's going to end up in people's seats.
	No, I believe you.
	I asked you that question just to understand more.
	But me being...
	I post my husband, you know, and everything, and I still get DMs on the daily.
	Oh, for sure.
	You know what I'm saying?
	And a lot of times, it's kind of opposite for women.
	Once a man gets in a relationship too, you know, more women hit him up because there are things that they cannot have.
	Or they see the way that a man treats their significant other and they think they're going to get the same treatment.
	You know what's crazy?
	I know girls that go after guys with wedding rings.
	Yes!
	But I do know some married women that's the same way.
	Pecan, I see your IG, man.
	You are not married.
	I am married.
	My husband is in some of those pictures.
	If you slide to the last slide, go ahead.
	Go ahead.
	And guess what?
	He took some of those pictures, too.
	He took a lot of those pictures, baby.
	All right, Pecan.
	He was there for that photo shoot.
	That was a And he was there and we took photos together.
	Where is he?
	Where is he?
	All right.
	Oh, okay.
	Go to the pictures.
	All right, Chris, switch to Rumble.
	Guys, come on over to Rumble.
	Guys, come on over to Rumble.
	Come on over to Rumble right now.
	But guess what?
	Guess what?
	Chris, she says she posts her mando.
	Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait.
	Chris, she says she posts her mando.
	Okay, look on the outfit.
	Look, in different slides, if you scroll to the last...
	Wait, it's on the slide?
	Listen, it's multiple pictures posted.
	I have to work?
	Listen.
	Okay, because if you go to his page, I'm on there too.
	But guess what?
	It's set up the same way.
	I don't see him.
	We have understanding.
	In the gray.
	In the gray.
	Look in the gray.
	That's my tattoos.
	Okay.
	Are you tatting him up, sis?
	Yes.
	Oh, let us see that one.
	Hold on.
	Wait.
	No, go to the gray.
	Because the black dress is a photo shoot.
	The tan is a photo shoot.
	And rolling loud, with the yellow hair, we went together.
	Where is he?
	I didn't say that one.
	I said the one with the gray.
	Oh, that was him right there.
	That was a photo shoot.
	Wait, who did this?
	Oh, who said Jesus is your little beautiful?
	That was just a meme that I posted.
	- Oh no. - Oh no. - Oh no. - Oh no. - Oh no. - Oh no. - Oh no. - Oh no. - Oh no. - Thank you.
	- That was my birthday.
	That was my birthday with the orange hair.
	- Okay, let us see her man, y'all.
	- Whoa, whoa, whoa.
	- Where did she say? - I said the gray outfit.
	They're going to everything but the grey outfit.
	You don't see the one piece right there?
	Which one is this?
	I don't even remember.
	Go to the last one.
	Go back up to the top, Chris.
	If you look under all those posts, my husband is under all of them.
	Click the one where the tattoo there and then click his profile.
	Let's look at his pictures versus hers.
	Which one is him?
	That's not him.
	That's my tattoo client that I shared.
	So this isn't your husband then?
	No.
	He's under all my fucking pictures.
	Okay, let's click a picture and find him then.
	Not this one, Chris.
	Go back to the top.
	It's right there.
	It's right there.
	Okay, go back.
	Let's find him.
	Click this.
	Which one is he?
	Lil' Smoke, right there.
	Okay, click the Lil' Smoke, Chris.
	600.
	Oh, shit.
	Oh, he says slime.
	He trying to slime hot.
	All right, let's see.
	Oh, he don't got pictures of you either.
	Right there.
	Hold up.
	Oh, no, he does.
	Okay, okay.
	There you are.
	Okay, so at least he has you on his profile.
	Let us see the picture.
	No, but my heart...
	But I have him...
	Okay, he's in my highlights as well.
	You looking at his highlights, but you ain't looking at mine as well.
	He is on my page, but you guys decided not to scroll through me.
	I mean, you're way easier to find on his page.
	You know what happens, right?
	People go to your page, they swipe up and down.
	Okay, I was sitting there on the chat, nigga.
	- So they're not gonna see him.
	That's so much cap, man, damn. - One by a clock.
	- Yo.
	- You gotta think big to find him.
	- Yeah, we had to think.
	- Now, okay, I ain't gonna lie, I did take him off my page after-- - Oh!
	I'm talking about the picture that I had of both of us on our page on the first slide.
	I took him off because of a situation that happened.
	I didn't take you off.
	No, it's not because of that.
	Bro.
	Listen, he didn't take me off because I didn't do anything to this fucking night.
	Wait, so, is it P or you and your twin?
	Huh?
	Bess?
	We're twin.
	You're a man?
	Is there or no?
	Listen, man.
	No, I said the gray one.
	They said you're single, sis.
	I'm not single.
	If you go to my highlights right there, if you go on there, you're not even on the picture I told them to click on, they're not even clicking on.
	Chris, click the one that she asked us.
	Which one?
	Which one, sis?
	The last one.
	With the gray outfit.
	The gray outfit.
	The gray jumpsuit.
	The gray.
	Are you colorblind?
	That's fucking brown.
	Chris, go on.
	Colorblind.
	Yeah, Chris.
	Like, he's doing what the fuck he wants to.
	No, I said, great, that's black and white.
	Right there.
	This one?
	That one?
	Chris, yes, yes, that one.
	I said the last one.
	Just digging it, bro.
	No, you don't know how to fucking face shit.
	What?
	Who's fucking this shit?
	She covered the face, y'all.
	She broke, wow.
	I was back for you.
	I was back for you.
	I have my man on my Instagram.
	No, but you can't show your damn face because bitches will be choosing.
	We talk about women, bro.
	No, bitches will be choosing on your makeup.
	She has three gray outfits.
	By the way, isn't that them busters?
	Huh?
	Damn.
	Yes, it is.
	Oh, that's right around my corner.
	I know my place.
	Okay, you know that song?
	I'm not single.
	You see him under all my photos.
	I'm under all his photos as well.
	It does not matter.
	You look thirsty.
	You look like thirsty.
	Who?
	Him?
	No.
	Because I comment back under his shit.
	I don't comment to every nigga under my post.
	I don't comment to no nigga under my post.
	Let me just keep it very simple.
	From the outside looking in, we had to do significantly more work to find your husband on your profile versus finding But guess what?
	Guess what?
	The only reason that is, I had him on there.
	But guess what?
	He embarrassed me, so I took him down.
	But I did not do anything to embarrass him, so that's why I'm still on his face.
	I understand that.
	Thank you.
	But once again, just like you said with her, right?
	Image is everything.
	We don't know that.
	So again, at face value, it was significantly easier to find him on your profile than the other way around.
	Even with your direction, it was still kind of hard to find.
	Hey, but guess what?
	I'm sliding them DMs, man.
	But guess what?
	Are you going to get an answer, though?
	No.
	It's a lot of niggas that's sitting there still.
	You know what's funny, though?
	It doesn't matter if I'm doing it because you look single.
	From the outside looking in, objectively speaking, you look like you're single on your profile.
	You don't give off married woman vibes at all on your profile.
	I don't see no wedding ring.
	Yep.
	Guess what?
	Do you see one on his, though?
	Doesn't matter.
	You don't see no wedding rings.
	Okay, but guess what?
	But it doesn't say anything about our relationship.
	That's a canvas that we collaborated on.
	That's not anything to do with our relationship.
	You're playing against yourself, though.
	You're playing against yourself.
	I'm not.
	That might be her man's.
	Maybe.
	Yeah, that's the girls.
	I kind of look a little tomboyish on there.
	I could look like somebody's little homegirl on that post, you feel me?
	I look a little tomboyish on there.
	Yeah, but the point is that you're there and you're easy to find.
	It's not the same on yours.
	That's what we're trying to illustrate.
	I get what you're saying.
	I'm not saying you're wrong.
	Yeah, so it's just, you know...
	Yo, Instagram, man.
	Yo, Instagram is a different relationship.
	I try to find that shit.
	It's a great outfit.
	Definitely not single.
	We have some chats here as well.
	It's crazy, bro.
	Yeah, that's funny.
	Yo, I got a man's!
	Yo, man.
	Your girl needs to put her shit on private, man.
	If you're in a relationship with a chick, yo, her shit needs to be on private.
	No, married.
	I see a guy with a girl.
	I'm a tattoo artist.
	I'm like, well done.
	What tattoos?
	That's by yourself, man.
	Sam the Pilot.
	I'm an artist, so you have to represent your artist.
	Do that one.
	Hold on, hold on.
	We got you.
	I have clients.
	You guys got me grinding.
	Went from eating Cheetos in my mom's basement to making $5-7k a month, and now I'm making $25-30k a month.
	Good job, bro.
	Thank you guys for everything you guys do.
	FNF, Tate, Jay Waller, and Sneeko.
	Freshest Dog.
	Damn, Chris.
	Really went to the WIC office for this one, huh?
	Question for the ladies.
	Do you believe your wife material?
	If so, what qualifies you, baby?
	Bring to the...
	Bring to the what?
	The table.
	The table.
	Oh, he's stuttering.
	Ladies on the panel, like the video.
	He's doing a lot, you know, like the...
	IRS? I think...
	I mean, we've already shown two girls' Instagrams.
	They were fun.
	I mean, he asked the question.
	He didn't say based off Instagram, though.
	Nigga, you're dumb, bro.
	Guess what?
	As long as my man is happy, it doesn't matter what y'all think.
	I keep him happy, so it don't matter what y'all think.
	That's fucked.
	Yeah, man.
	This panel looks like a cast to set it off, too.
	And then we used to make sure they don't have a weapon.
	What the fuck?
	Maybe I got a Glock 40.
	Go check it.
	Ben, they're the offender.
	Question for the whole panel.
	Do you think that mothers in today's society are more selfish and less concerned about their child's future?
	I believe so.
	Hell yeah, bro.
	Going through personal experiences.
	Anybody here with kids?
	No.
	Oh, okay.
	That's a first.
	First time.
	I'm surprised.
	All right.
	Honorable 1000 goes, bro, I don't know about y'all, but if I hear period one more time, I'm going to throw my phone across the room.
	Period.
	Annoying as hell.
	Come on, girl.
	Say it.
	I only said it once, so they didn't talk about it.
	All right.
	509, Tucker, 20 bucks.
	Appreciate that.
	Shout out to you, bro.
	Waylo goes, shorty next tomorrow with the big ass shoulders.
	Definitely going to get Frank Castled.
	Wait, wait.
	What did that mean?
	He said you have big shoulders.
	Do you have anything you want to say?
	I am, because I'm strong.
	I'm fit.
	Strong and independent, right?
	Knock the bitch out.
	Yep.
	Beat the bitch up.
	Yep.
	Do you like lift weights?
	What do you do?
	I don't do anything.
	I'm just vegan as hell.
	I just eat healthy.
	So you don't go to the gym?
	I don't go to the gym.
	I don't work out.
	I don't do nothing.
	His body is bodyin'.
	Sorry.
	You said you're fit, though.
	I'm fit.
	The arms fit, the waist fit.
	Find the waist!
	This is going to be a great case.
	Okay, so what?
	I still have fun.
	I still enjoy myself.
	Period.
	I'm messing with you, boo.
	Okay, boo.
	So when you become a lawyer, what kind of lawyer are you going to become?
	Criminal justice.
	What?
	If I don't do criminal justice, I want to do entertainment law.
	Look, baby!
	I want to work for you!
	When you say criminal justice, are you talking about prosecuting attorney?
	I want to be a defense attorney.
	Do you know what defense attorneys are really underpaid?
	That's why I'm still considering!
	I'm trying to figure it out.
	Seriously.
	I'm trying to figure it out.
	Okay.
	Fair.
	So you're going to figure out which one you want to do?
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	All right.
	Defense attorneys are just really under...
	Well, if you're going to be a public defender, unless you're going to be like a high...
	I mean, when you're starting off, you have to start somewhere.
	You can't start as a private attorney.
	Yeah, you got to litigate.
	Regardless, you got to work for the court system, gain the clients from them, take their clients, and then you can become a private attorney.
	So that's just what it is.
	Okay.
	But you want to do whether it's prosecuting or defense.
	You want to do something with criminal justice.
	That's the first option, but I honestly really want to do entertainment law because I've been talking with a lot of people that work in my office and they said that shit is stressful.
	It's stressful.
	It can be.
	Okay.
	So I might want to do attorney.
	I want to work for LaBaby.
	LaBaby, I want to work for you.
	LaBaby.
	Yeah, I mean...
	Here we go, 509 Trucker.
	All right.
	Short and next tomorrow with the big ass...
	No, we got that one, Chris.
	Not twice.
	509 Trucker, appreciate that.
	And then we got here, Brady.
	Myron, do you agree hurt men learn to read red flags and hurt women become red flags?
	When a man gets hurt, he looks to become better.
	When a female gets hurt, she stops caring.
	Okay.
	Okay, I see your perspective.
	I think it's important for guys to, you know, you gotta get fucked over by a female at some point to understand that she'd become better.
	I always thought Marilyn Mason had more energy.
	I called you Marilyn Mason.
	Who's that?
	That's way before her time.
	She's 18.
	She don't know who that is.
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	You know, I think he went and saw the head guy of the Church of Satanism and he made him a pastor.
	He made Marilyn Manson an honorary pastor.
	I read that somewhere.
	That's what I love.
	What was that?
	Baby, in my corner, but you, like, y'all don't know that they say girls with a big forehead have the best pussies, so that's what it is, you know?
	It's just tsunami.
	Who said that?
	It's just tsunami.
	That shit just flood the whole studio.
	Who said that?
	It's a fucking sound effect, right?
	Like, who the hell said that?
	I have never heard that either.
	Y'all never heard that.
	In the Caribbean, they say, well, I know in the Caribbean, they say females with a little bit of peach fuzz got the best poom poom.
	Fresh?
	Okay, that is true.
	I never heard it before anyone.
	Okay.
	That said, no, I've heard that the pretty girls always have a big forehead.
	That's what I heard.
	I don't know about a poom poom.
	So, read it fresh.
	Girl next to Myron got a plan runaway for a forehead.
	You can land a Boeing 747 on that sector.
	Blame your plan, baby.
	The U.S. is something else.
	Girl Next to Myron has a four-year degree and still manages to make black people, especially black women, look ignorant.
	Bitch, you don't have shit.
	You don't even have a fucking high school diploma.
	You paid $20 and that was your last $20.
	You spilled the drink again.
	Clean up an aisle.
	304.
	There's definitely a Frank Castle coming tonight.
	My money is on the chick next to Myron.
	Keep RPing these 304s.
	It's interesting to see them short circuit whenever they can't rebut a point with logic over their feelings.
	Well, I mean, guys, you got to understand men and women think differently.
	This isn't...
	I don't think any of the women are going to leave this podcast and change their mind.
	No.
	It's really for y'all to just kind of learn.
	I mean, she did it.
	Who's going to...
	Oh, well, yeah, actually, yeah.
	She did.
	That's one out of, like, I can count.
	I'm fairly understanding.
	I love learning.
	She won't either.
	Yeah, I mean, of what, we've interviewed almost 2,400 girls now at this point?
	I could think of, like, maybe 20 girls that, like, took in our vice seriously and found a guy.
	Yeah.
	2360 is the official number?
	Okay, 2300.
	Almost there.
	2360.
	Shout out, Wayne, for 20 YouTube memberships.
	I appreciate that, my friend.
	We should change the color of the wedding dress from white to brown for modern women.
	I think he means that because they're not virgins, but I see what you did there.
	Who cares?
	Is anybody here on the panel a virgin?
	I'm married, so...
	Virgin Maddie!
	No, I was not.
	I'm not even going to sit up here and cap.
	My name is Virgin.
	All right.
	Who cares about Megan Thee Stallion?
	She's just a 304 that makes terrible music for other 304s with terrible music taste.
	I don't even listen to Meg like that.
	Any of you guys fans of Megan Thee Stallion's music?
	Cool.
	The only thing I listen to is Hot Girl Summer, to be honest.
	So no one's really, like, a big fan?
	No.
	No disrespect, but no.
	Name three mega songs.
	Top three.
	Um, Hot Girl Summer.
	That's the only one.
	Uh-huh.
	Right now, I can't even think off the top.
	Damn!
	See?
	No!
	Stop!
	I'm a little tipsy.
	Yeah.
	And you're my lawyer?
	Fuck that shit.
	Put me to jail, nigga.
	Okay.
	Yeah, that was...
	Why y'all always put me on the back?
	I ain't never coming on...
	I'm never coming on fresh and safe no more.
	Oh, man.
	It's fine.
	It's fine.
	We don't want you back.
	Yeah, it's fine.
	You don't?
	No, no, no.
	Neck!
	Okay, uh...
	Hey, listen.
	So far, you've been nice, respectful, but goddamn, you stupid as fuck.
	Fuck!
	What are you?
	What's your degree?
	Bitch, you're behind a computer.
	Fuck out of here.
	I press buttons and...
	Yeah, you don't got shit.
	You don't got shit.
	All right, forehead.
	Yeah, all right.
	But you want to lick this forehead.
	Come put your tongue on it.
	That's a whole lot of licking right there.
	I should be dry as fuck.
	But I tell my...
	I fucking reach the top.
	Hey, yo.
	Who hurt you, man?
	I'm not even hurt!
	Girl, all these niggas is hurt.
	Your fucking neck piece is like a broken heart.
	Okay.
	Okay, Faith, what's up?
	Hold on, are you going to say that from him?
	Don't say that from him.
	Come on, come on.
	Hey, listen.
	I'm behind this shit dealing with your ass.
	I have to listen to your ass.
	Don't say that from him.
	All right, go ahead.
	How dare you talk to me like that?
	You're a queen!
	You're a queen!
	Don't take that from him!
	Queens don't argue with peasants sometimes.
	So where is your king now?
	My king is at his house, at home, praying to God right now.
	I know, he's jacking off because your ass is here right now.
	He ain't jacking off!
	She finally left!
	She turned my boner off!
	I mean, hey, hey, you know what?
	Like, you know what?
	Your ass is pretty nice.
	I won't lie to you.
	Why are you looking at that?
	You showed it!
	Yeah, girl, you kind of stood up there on camera.
	Oh, you was looking too?
	Of course, we all did, baby.
	Of course.
	I did it.
	Show that thing.
	All right, you done?
	Are you done?
	I mean, yeah, I'm pretty much done.
	Okay, shut the fuck up.
	It's my room for me right now.
	You can't even turn me on right now, so...
	Oh my gosh.
	But like, when you talk, I'm like, oh man, this girl again, man, bro.
	Really, you want to be a lawyer in real life.
	Like, seriously.
	It doesn't matter what I want to be.
	If you're not supporting my career, don't you worry about me.
	No.
	And that's just it.
	Period.
	I want to support your career.
	Okay, I don't need you to support anything I do.
	Okay.
	Are you okay?
	laughter laughter Oh my god!
	She's got a drink, one drink spills, Shine.
	She can stop again.
	What?
	Again?
	We thought it was like, "Take her cups away." You spilled the drink like four times.
	No, three times.
	No, no, I told her.
	Four drinks for her.
	And we've been giving her water too.
	We've been giving her water.
	Did you drink before you came?
	I don't know.
	She didn't.
	She didn't.
	that helps you get tips a year.
	Yo, Amaja going to court and she turns out drunk to your hearing.
	I know Marga's party gave you more than one or two.
	No, she only gave her three.
	Three?
	She had two.
	She also said she hadn't eaten anything.
	Okay, we'll get you out of here.
	Yeah, so hurry up, because I'm ready to go.
	I gotta work in the morning.
	Y'all ain't got shit to do, but lay in y'all bed.
	Yeah, because then with your ass, man.
	I mean, if you want to leave, you're free to leave at any point.
	I make my own schedule, but I feel attacked.
	If you want to leave, you're free to leave.
	All right, leave.
	Frank Castle!
	Yeah, I'm on leave.
	You said you have stuff to do, right?
	And we don't have anything to do.
	We're going to just go lie in our bed.
	I mean, you got stuff to do.
	Feel free to leave.
	The door's right there.
	I think that was a little jokey joke.
	No, we're dead ass.
	Come on.
	Alright, so two options.
	These grown ass men that are 30 plus.
	Here we go.
	Okay, what else?
	I'm literally just responding to what you said.
	You said, hey, I have stuff to do.
	I got to go to sleep.
	And I was like, alright, cool.
	Well, you're free to leave at any time.
	How was that?
	I mean, I would say we're being pretty mature about it.
	Yeah.
	Unless you were saying that and you were just lying or trying to get a rise.
	There's a saying that goes, put your shoes on outside?
	Not in here.
	Is that just a saying?
	I've never heard of it.
	Have you heard of it?
	We should let the chat decide.
	Just reminded me of that meme.
	We should let the chat decide.
	Have you ever had a dream that you...
	This is what we're gonna do.
	Chris, can you enlarge the chat real quick so we can see it?
	Alright, so guys, if you want her to leave, put a one in the chat.
	If you guys want to say, give her a two.
	Bye.
	They called it a long time ago, bro.
	We didn't even push for it.
	Alright.
	Are they giving a bunch of ones?
	Yep.
	Shit, it's fucking fun.
	How many of you got watching, man?
	How many people are on you?
	21,000 people.
	I love ones.
	Ones are angel numbers.
	I love that for me.
	It looks like it's a...
	What is the consensus?
	Does Rumble let you do polls?
	No.
	Damn.
	I would have loved to do a poll on this.
	Not you want to do a poll on me.
	I'm seeing some twos, though.
	I'm seeing twos.
	That's what I'm saying.
	I see twos.
	That's my magical number.
	Two is my magical number.
	I mean, act sure, man.
	But you was pressing.
	Wait, wait.
	I'm saying act two.
	Are you here?
	How far are you?
	Like, please shut the fuck up.
	Can you put on the headphones, please?
	No.
	Can you shut the fuck up?
	If you want to hear me, put on the headphones.
	That's why we have them in the first place.
	I don't want to hear you.
	Alright, well, then you can't hear me.
	Stop yelling across the fucking studio.
	It's literally like 50-50 right now.
	It is kind of 50-50.
	Put your headphones on, girl.
	Put your headphones on, girl.
	You got a spam lawyer.
	If you don't put your headphones on, girl, I'm not eliminating myself.
	I don't like people coming for me.
	Oh, so right now you're good.
	The more you feed it to the energy, the more it is.
	So right now you're good.
	I don't know how you're...
	You're blessed.
	Yeah, it's literally 50-50.
	Yeah, it's 50-50.
	So we'll move on.
	There's got to be a poll option on Rumble, bro.
	Damn.
	Come in soon.
	That would have been lit.
	My Myra wanted to do a poll on me, y'all.
	He don't like me for real.
	He hate me.
	Nobody hates you.
	Nobody hates you.
	Okay, Nick says Nancy's taking a mess of L right now.
	Holy.
	Nancy is taking a mess of L right now.
	Holy.
	Be respectful.
	Listen to what they say.
	Get out your feelings.
	Worst lawyer ever.
	Worst lawyer ever.
	Bitch, you only got $20.
	That was your last.
	Oh, boo-hoo.
	Hope you go buy like four four four fours with that, babes.
	To survive.
	You got these real quick.
	I'm going to be short to send these women a dick pic after the show.
	Please don't, because last time they delivered and I was unhappy.
	No, but just know that they will.
	They will, unfortunately.
	So we have your freshest balls.
	Yes, sir!
	Yes, sir!
	Fresh is a gigolo with lots of dough.
	Even though he looks like a big-ass toe, he's always surrounded by a thorough force.
	First of all, I'm not a ho.
	We're not going to be a rhyming.
	It was from Nick Cannon's song, Gigolo.
	Sam Combo says, Myron, the Scandinavian statistic you state also regarding women staying in medical and social career fields despite being in an egalitarian society is absolutely true.
	I witnessed this in Norway when I visited Salute.
	There you go.
	Rams, women with tattoos, new spirituality, or love for all black makeup and fashion tend to be highly feminist and likely bisexual.
	Do you agree or disagree?
	Disagree?
	I'm actually all three.
	Because I'm all three!
	And it's the...
	Well, actually, I lied.
	I don't wear makeup like this.
	This is, like, the only time if I'm out and about doing something, like, unexpected, then I'll throw on my makeup or if I'm gonna be on camera or whatever, but...
	I have one that's hidden.
	Okay, yeah, I don't want to say it.
	It's a pentagram.
	I do text, actually.
	It's a cross.
	Two Rock says, glad you guys are back.
	Shout out to Nick for handling L's on Valuetainment.
	Bigger L. Creepy bald guy.
	I'm going to help Mandela get that.
	Motherfucker legs up.
	Shout out to NC.
	Alright.
	Saswani says, ladies, can you name three books excluding fictions?
	Yeah.
	What's the discussion in FNF Discord?
	Fresh Hair?
	No, no.
	Three books.
	Fresh Hair.
	Morrow is gone.
	Oh, okay.
	Three books.
	That are not fiction.
	Non-fiction?
	Yeah.
	Shiloh.
	The Boy Who Was Raised as a Dog.
	Wait, what?
	The Boy Who Was Raised as a Dog, it's a psychological book I read in a treatment center.
	Do you need treatment?
	I'm a treatment kid.
	I mainly read fictional books.
	Emotional damage!
	One more book.
	One more book.
	He said non-fictional.
	I read Harry Potter all the time.
	That's not real life.
	Yeah.
	Gus, you got two.
	Oh, wait.
	Oh, no, no.
	Never mind.
	Okay, three books.
	Non-fiction.
	Non-fiction?
	I'm not gonna lie.
	I didn't read a lot of non-fiction.
	I was more of a fiction.
	The only one I can think of was...
	I don't remember.
	It was like something like Heaven Sent, Sent to Heaven, about a kid who died and then came back.
	They made a movie about it.
	Non-fiction?
	Oh, I know exactly what you're talking about.
	I can't remember the name.
	Yeah, I can't remember the name.
	I just know she's not lying.
	I mean, I can't confirm or deny that, so...
	Alright, what about you?
	Three books that are not fiction.
	Well, You're the Placebo.
	Okay.
	Truth Works.
	And...
	You should read that book again.
	You don't know what it's about.
	True.
	Okay.
	I can't really say.
	Last book.
	And I really love Robert Greene.
	I think you know him, no?
	Yep.
	What's your favorite book from Robert Greene?
	Because you've read it, right?
	I love his book.
	It's...
	48?
	No, not the 48.
	Me, actually.
	Out of Seduction.
	That's a good one.
	Cool.
	Interesting.
	Three books.
	Non-fiction.
	I would have to say House of Leafs.
	Would the Bible count?
	I can't remember the name of the book, but it's also a poetry book.
	It's about her life experiences.
	I can't remember exactly, but it's something Rhapsody, something like that.
	I can't remember the exact name.
	Y'all don't read no books, man.
	I do read books.
	How to Win Friends and Influence People, Rich Dad, Poor Dad, and The Power of Now.
	W. For you?
	Honestly, I can't really think of three books right now, but I've read The Secret by Shonda Rhimes.
	Okay.
	And then you?
	Three books?
	I don't know the names, but one of them that I'm reading right now is Juicing and Learning to Detox for Life.
	I'm really big on health.
	I'm vegan.
	So yeah, I read a lot of books that helps me with my health.
	But you don't go to the gym though.
	I don't need to go to the gym.
	I eat really healthy.
	I eat fruits and vegetables every day.
	That's why my shoulder is so strong.
	You see this?
	I ain't gotta go to the gym, baby.
	This body is a motherfucking ape.
	Any books you read about law?
	Yeah.
	I've read a lot of criminology.
	I've read ethics books.
	I've read...
	It's just been, like, I don't know the names of them, but I've read a lot of genres, like ethics, criminology.
	Okay.
	So you read a lot?
	Yeah, I do.
	Of course, with law, you have to read a lot.
	That's just what it is.
	That is scary.
	Alright, let's move on.
	Alright.
	You're scary.
	Thank you.
	You scare me.
	I should scare you.
	Alright!
	So I got a new chick and my boundaries are known to her and I don't put up with anything I don't like.
	She is super cool but 21 years old.
	I'm 31.
	I've been cheated on so I don't trust women in general.
	How can I trust again?
	That's very difficult to answer, my boy.
	You want to go around the table and have the girls answer this one?
	Sure.
	See what their answers are?
	Sure.
	All right.
	How should he go about this?
	He's 31 years old.
	He's with a 21-year-old, but he's been cheating on before and he doesn't trust women in general.
	How should he go about this?
	Like, I just say you shouldn't put your problems on everyone.
	You know, you should give her a chance.
	Just see what her vibe is like, you know, how she acts, how she carries herself, you know.
	Okay.
	Because trust comes with time.
	So you have to give her time to see, you know, how it works for you, you know?
	How long do you give her time for?
	I'll say at least like five to six months because trust builds over time.
	It doesn't build quickly.
	Imagine what it is.
	Okay.
	What about you?
	I just feel like you can't compare all your past situations to your current situation.
	You never know who's going to be a different person or how they're going to treat you.
	Like she said, give them time, see how it goes for maybe a couple months or so and then see how you feel.
	What about you?
	Yeah, I mean, it varies, I would say.
	As far as how can I trust again, you kind of have to have a clean slate with each partner, but you obviously learn from experience, so don't do the things that...
	You know, perhaps as a man that, you know, or allow certain things that could have put you in that position.
	Also, I think that the fact that she's a lot younger does help the dynamic because, you know, there seems to be like a pretty good age gap there.
	And that may be a different situation overall.
	What about you?
	You can't really put A stigma on everybody due to what you went through in your past.
	But you can also be on the lookout for those behavioral patterns and things like that.
	So it's also about learning the person that you're talking to as well.
	You can't expect to learn somebody in like three months.
	That's not enough time.
	Okay.
	How long should they wait?
	I'll say at least six months to really get to know a person.
	I honestly didn't really know my husband until we moved in together.
	You never really know anybody until you move in with them.
	You never really know them at all.
	How long were you guys together before you guys got married?
	A year.
	And then how long did you guys live together before you guys got married?
	Six months.
	So a year total, six months living together.
	What about you?
	What do you think you should do?
	Well, I think he should communicate to her about this situation.
	What should she say specifically?
	Well, if she says that she doesn't feel like she's comfortable not cheating, then I mean, it's obvious.
	So I think that he should say what happened.
	And if she does the same thing, then I guess that's what she wanted.
	So tell her what happens to me in the past so she can do it again.
	No, exactly.
	That's what I was getting to say.
	Because if you tell certain people about your past, they just learn how to not get caught.
	That's the wrong people, though.
	It is, but you never know.
	You're going to find out eventually.
	You never know.
	Wait, hold on.
	I want to get her opinion before it's...
	But then you guys can challenge...
	Just so I understand this correctly.
	Communicate what happened to you in the past...
	Yeah, you tell her that you were cheated on and then you don't trust women.
	That is so bad!
	Oh my god!
	That nigga's gonna die!
	Communicate and let her know that you don't trust women in general.
	No, not trust women in general, just that you've been hurt before.
	You just said a second ago, don't trust women.
	Well, you've been hurt before.
	Well, you could say that you've been hurt before and then he just needs some time to be able to trust her.
	There's a term for this advice.
	Okay.
	Dog shit advice.
	Dog shit advice.
	Well, then he should go see.
	Well, let me ask you a question.
	Do you think a woman is more likely to find a man attractive after saying this or less attractive?
	It depends on the woman.
	It does.
	It does.
	Do you think it would make the man less attractive or more attractive if he communicated to her that he's hurt and he's been hurt before by a woman and cheating, etc.?
	It's hard for me to answer this question.
	I think it depends on the woman, as I said.
	Yeah, it does.
	I'm curious to know how you would feel about it.
	How would you feel?
	How would you feel about it?
	Well, then I would try my best to prove that I'm not...
	I wouldn't hurt him.
	You wouldn't lose a little bit of respect for him?
	No.
	At all?
	No.
	Interesting.
	That's her and her feelings, so you can't...
	How many of you, raise of hands, would lose respect for a man if he admitted that to you, realistically speaking?
	Keep it a thousand.
	One?
	Only one of you?
	Because I don't want to judge you by that.
	No, I can honestly speak from personal experience.
	In this scenario, I'm telling you right now, you're going to feel the type of way.
	It's like a week.
	I can only speak from what I went through.
	Like I said, the person that I'm dealing with, the person that I'm dealing with right now, my husband, he's admitted that to me.
	And I understood what he went through.
	Now, that doesn't mean that he was a week behind man.
	You feel me?
	It just means that...
	Hey, this person got one up on him.
	And this is why you didn't post him.
	Okay, that's not why.
	Because I post him on a daily.
	On my story, I post him on a daily.
	You're about to trigger her again.
	I'm not triggered.
	I'm just saying what's facts and what's not.
	Stories disappear.
	So...
	Only one girl admitted it.
	I've also had...
	Like, I've had this happen in my relationship.
	He had a previous partner that did cheat on him.
	And in the beginning, he did share...
	Like, he shared it with me in a way that I almost felt bad for him.
	And it's like...
	You know, now, when we talk about it, which we don't, but when it does come up, the topic of cheating, I just know it's a boundary and that's it.
	There doesn't need to be all the extra.
	And I don't want him to tell me, oh, I was so hurt.
	And, you know, and it sounds fucked up.
	You know, it sounds fucked up for me to say that because it's not that I don't care about his feelings, but I just I don't want my man crying to me.
	You know, about what happened to him.
	Like, we can talk about it.
	And I used to, it kind of, like, again, it sounds fucked up.
	But at the reality, like, really respecting my man, I just don't want to hear him cry.
	You know?
	I don't want to have to feel like I have to fix your days.
	You know?
	Again, it sounds bad, but at the end of the day, the dynamic, let me finish, the dynamic is that Whether you realize it or not, that's kind of what it ends up being.
	It's not necessarily a conscious thing.
	Like I said, it's kind of different for me and everybody else's opinions.
	We're just sharing our ideas.
	I'm not disagreeing with you.
	I didn't say you were wrong for feeling how you feel.
	I'm speaking on my feelings and why I think the way I think is because I grew up with my brothers.
	Yes, I have sisters.
	Mind you, I have over 13 siblings.
	Majority of them are females, but I grew up with my brother.
	So I understand both sides of each individual is what I'm saying.
	So my point is different from anybody else's on this.
	I didn't grow up around my sisters.
	I grew up around my brothers.
	And my brother was one of my best friends growing up.
	So that's why I empathize with both sides.
	I understand my side as a female and I understand his side because he dealt with different things growing up with different females so I understand.
	Alright.
	Interesting point because a lot of you guys said that...
	We got two more.
	It doesn't...
	Okay.
	Alright, that's fine.
	I'll come back to it.
	Go ahead.
	What did you tell him to do from the post?
	What did you tell him to do?
	He's 31, she's 21 and he's been hurt in the past.
	I would say I'd agree with her with the communication, but you did make a good point how people do tend to, like, learn from, I guess, other people's mistakes, like, you know, like, they'll keep in the back of their mind.
	But I'd say, like, a relationship is all about risk, you know, so if you're willing to really just, like, you're just gonna have to honestly just take that step.
	I mean, I understand where you're coming from, too, where you say you don't want your man to cry to you.
	Like, you know, like, you can communicate about it, talk to you, you know, but not all the time wanting to, and I get that.
	Right.
	But, um, like I said, just risk.
	Like, you're really just gonna have stuff.
	Every day is risky.
	I mean, everything is risky.
	I know what you're saying.
	Alright.
	For you?
	Um...
	If you believe your judgment is correct and adequate, then you should give her the benefit of the doubt and have faith in her.
	Because, I mean, naturally, if you like her, there's a reason why you like her.
	However, if you're not confident enough in becoming serious with her, then I would recommend going with a woman that's a bit older because there's definitely a mental differentiation between you two, being 31, 21.
	The girl, she's, you know, just, you know...
	Barely legal to drink and the guy, you know, he more than likely you have yourself set up.
	So, I mean, that's everything you have to take into consideration.
	But if you really believe she's the type of individual you want to have around, then you know what?
	Just take that risk.
	All right.
	I just had a few questions based on because she said that you should communicate that you don't trust women and, you know, kind of go from there.
	Um, What is bigger treachery?
	A man cheating on a woman or a woman cheating on a man?
	Start with you.
	It hurts just as bad.
	What's worse though?
	I think they both suck.
	Okay, just choose one that's more painful you think.
	For which gender?
	I believe it's more painful for the female because, you know, we have psychological differences.
	Okay, so you think it's worse if the man cheats on her?
	Yeah, because we tend to feel worse about it.
	That's fine.
	What about you?
	What's a bigger form of treachery?
	A man cheating on a woman or a woman cheating on a man?
	I'd say, honestly, a woman.
	Because I feel like men cheating is normalized now.
	It's just something that I wouldn't be as surprised about.
	What do you think?
	I agree with her.
	It's worse when a man cheats on a woman?
	Okay.
	What about you?
	Um...
	Honestly, I feel like women because we're more emotional.
	It's worse when a woman cheats?
	No.
	Or worse when a man cheats?
	When a man cheats because we're more emotional.
	We feel it more emotional.
	A man feel it logically.
	I feel like.
	Well, both ways.
	What about you?
	Could you repeat the phrasing of the question?
	What is a bigger betrayal or more treacherous?
	A woman cheating on a man or a man cheating on a woman?
	A woman cheating on a man.
	Okay.
	What about you?
	A man cheating on a woman.
	Okay.
	So it's worse.
	Okay.
	What about you?
	Um, man cheating on a woman.
	Okay.
	Because women become weak.
	Interesting.
	Now, I'm gonna ask the second question.
	Who loses more respect for being cheated on?
	A man or a woman?
	Start with you.
	Who loses more respect?
	Yes, for being cheated on.
	A man or a woman?
	Like, do the woman lose more respect for the man?
	Yes, like, who would lose...
	Okay, just say, like, if your man cheated on you, would you lose more respect for him, or would...
	If he cheated on you, would you lose more respect for the man?
	I feel like men would lose more respect for women, because men wouldn't expect you to go do what they did to you.
	Okay, so the man would lose more respect.
	Okay.
	So that contradicts what you said before.
	Okay.
	That's fine.
	What about you?
	Who loses more status or respect by being cheated on?
	A man or a woman?
	I feel like a woman loses more respect because I feel like we put more of our information out there as opposed to a man.
	Like, if he gets cheated on, no one's really going to know about it.
	No, but if it were to be public, what's worse?
	I would still say a woman because I feel like that's kind of embarrassing.
	Okay.
	What about you?
	Man.
	Man?
	Okay.
	You?
	It's women because we're expected to carry ourselves to high standards and have morals.
	So you think the woman would be more embarrassed for having a cheating guy or the guy being more embarrassed?
	The guy being more embarrassed.
	Oh, okay, okay, okay.
	So the man loses more respect.
	So why you say I'm contradicting?
	No, because you said...
	Well, we all said it, so we all...
	We're all contradicting.
	Don't just try to come for me, Myra.
	He's not just coming for you.
	I don't need the attitude, please.
	Okay?
	I really don't need the attitude.
	So, yeah, because on one end you're saying that it's bigger treachery if a man cheats on a woman, but then some of you guys are saying that on the flip side, the man loses more respect if he's cheated on.
	See the contradiction?
	That's what I mean.
	I was going off the motions.
	Okay, what about you, Miss Lithuania?
	Who loses more status for being cheated on, a man or a woman?
	That's embarrassing to have a man like that.
	Mm-hmm.
	Okay, but who lives more status in general, the man or the woman?
	General, not just your standpoint, but who generally?
	For me, or like generally, like society, or like if I... Yes, society in general, yes.
	And then you can give your personal one if you want after.
	Well, then I cannot answer for society then.
	Why would I answer for society?
	I can only answer for myself.
	Oh my god.
	Bruv.
	Are you serious?
	I mean, that's a narcissistic quality.
	Which is very interesting because this is like the fifth time now that she's not been able to answer her question in general.
	She can only put it on herself, which is actually a trait of a narcissist.
	And you are in one?
	No.
	Of course you would say no.
	What narcissistic traits have I exuded?
	You really love to show power.
	I have a show to run.
	There's gotta be some semblance of order and authority for the show to run correctly, right?
	It's the way that you say things.
	I mean, you date men with power.
	Well, I don't date men that don't respect women.
	Oh.
	That's a whole other thing.
	Wouldn't it be fair to say that as a man, being a leader and having some level of authority is the utmost respect for a woman because you're putting her in a protected provision under your leadership?
	Yes, but the way that you're controlling and saying things are not nice.
	Well, we're not on a date.
	We're on a podcast where there's got to be an open discussion that's mediated to a degree where people are able to speak in open form and articulate their points without necessarily being interrupted.
	Well, that's what we think.
	I mean, how else would you conduct the podcast with a panel of people?
	I just think that you're being disrespectful towards the things that you say.
	How am I being disrespectful?
	Well, just the things that you say.
	Can you give me an example?
	Yes, the way that you're calling me a narcissist without having a medical diagnosis presented.
	I mean, that's a narcissistic trait, an inability to be empathetic.
	Gotcha.
	Well, then I have nothing else to say.
	You know, I mean, you want me to call it solipsism?
	Basically the same exact thing.
	Well, you have to be one to see one, right?
	I wouldn't say that.
	I don't have to be a retard to say someone's a retard.
	So that's not calling you a retard, but I'm giving you an example.
	Like, that's a trait of a narcissist, is that you've had a very difficult time Being able to answer things outside of your own purview and your own perception.
	That is a narcissistic trait.
	Ask any psychiatrist.
	They will tell you that's a narcissistic trait.
	Triggered.
	So, I mean, I'm just telling you something that I didn't say you're like a full-on narcissist, but that is a narcissistic trait.
	Right, she is.
	Okay, thank you then.
	So, but I'm still trying to figure out how I'm being disrespectful by stating something that's...
	No, you're not.
	I'm just delusional, right?
	I'm giving you a chance to explain to me how I'm being disrespectful.
	I'm saying something that's fairly objectively true here.
	It's the way that you articulate your sentences.
	You're putting a woman down without you putting actually a woman down.
	How have I done that?
	Behind the lines of what you're saying.
	How have I done that in particular?
	It's how you're saying it.
	How have I done that in particular?
	I agree with your colleague here.
	That's how I said it?
	That's how you say it.
	That's how you say things.
	I understand what you're trying to do, but it's how you say things.
	Because I speak directly and concisely?
	Yeah, it's the way that you articulate and the words that you pick is not really nice.
	And the way that you insult girls.
	How did I insult any of the girls here?
	Girl next to you.
	How did I insult her?
	I mean, she's stupid though.
	Huh?
	How did I insult her?
	Y'all are so fucking rude on this show.
	I'm asking though, how did I insult her?
	So you didn't?
	I didn't insult her at all.
	Okay.
	I'm dumb.
	But y'all ain't got shit.
	None of y'all.
	I didn't call you dumb.
	He didn't.
	No, he did.
	Back there.
	Aaron.
	All right.
	So I'm asking you, how did I insult her?
	How did I insult her?
	I don't have a paper and notes that I'm taking.
	But I saw how she felt.
	Well, if you're going to make a claim, then you need to be able to back it up, correct?
	I'm not writing exactly what you're saying, but I just see how a person is feeling.
	Oh, so feelings now.
	Okay, yeah, sure.
	My thing is, like, if you're going to make an accusation, like, oh, you're being disrespectful, you're putting women down, blah, blah, blah.
	I don't think I've really said anything that's been putting women down or being disrespectful, whatever.
	I've been fairly objective and factual in my assessment on saying things.
	I mean, just because it's direct and concise doesn't necessarily mean that it's rude.
	It's just a very matter-of-fact way of speaking.
	Facts don't necessarily care about your feelings.
	I can't control how you respond to me giving you an objective fact.
	So whose fault is that?
	Well, you're calling me narcissist.
	That's a narcissistic trait, to not be able to empathize with others.
	I think that's an insult.
	How do I do that?
	How do I not empathize with others?
	I've asked you several questions throughout the course.
	Just because I don't talk about what society thinks?
	Throughout the course of this discussion, I've asked you several questions, and I've prefaced it with, in general, and you were unable to answer it, And you continuously went back, I can only answer for myself.
	I can only answer for myself.
	I don't understand or care or know how other things go.
	Like, that is a narcissistic trait.
	That's a fact.
	Any clinical psychiatrist will tell you, like, oh, an inability to empathize with others.
	I don't think you have the degree to diagnose me.
	I'm not diagnosing you.
	I'm saying that that's a narcissistic trait.
	Okay, good.
	Okay.
	Can we get your response a little?
	No, well, hold on.
	Because, like, my thing is, like, when...
	Because this is the thing.
	I'll say something.
	Women don't like the way it makes them feel, and then they'll make some, you know, claim that isn't true.
	No, I just feel like it's the way you come on.
	No, no, no.
	Stop interrupting.
	I'm not going to let you make a claim that isn't true without me challenging you on it.
	Stand on it.
	Tell me how I was disrespectful or I did whatever you're trying to claim.
	You can't.
	Yep.
	You just dislike the fact that I'm being objective and concise.
	Can't get around what I'm trying to say here.
	And you're like, oh, well, you're putting down women.
	Am I really putting women down?
	Is it my fault if you can't necessarily articulate yourself or have a stance that can stand up to what I'm saying?
	Yeah, you're right, actually.
	I mean, like...
	Don't blame your lack of preparation, right?
	Or lack of whatever it may be, awareness or whatever on me.
	Like, I'm just telling you, hey, this is what it is.
	You're actually incorrect.
	Oh, my feelings!
	You're putting me down.
	Am I really putting you down?
	We're having a discussion here.
	Well, I'm not claiming that you have narcissistic traits.
	You are.
	So, that's not nice of you to say.
	That's what I'm just saying.
	That's it.
	Girl, Miami.
	Man in Miami.
	That's just how they built.
	That's just how their parents built them.
	To see what it's like.
	But guys, we've literally been sitting here for two hours and 40 minutes giving our opinions, some of them speaking down on men and we're just listening to each other.
	I don't think one of the things that we prefaced the podcast with was let's not take anything personal.
	Opinions are gonna be said.
	I've heard some things I don't like and I will have to move my body just to not say my comment that's not requested.
	We're just sharing opinions.
	You take what you take, you leave what's not for you.
	Yeah, I agreed, but he still carried on.
	Because it's kind of his podcast.
	We kind of put ourselves in this position.
	So what we don't like, we don't like.
	And we take what we take.
	Then why do we still talk about it?
	That's because we're sharing opinions.
	Well, because you made a bunch of false claims.
	That's why.
	That's why I'm challenging you.
	Oh, well, you're being a jerk and you're being assertive on this podcast, blah, blah.
	Well, yeah, we have to control the platform to a degree so that we can have thoughtful discussion.
	If we didn't, people would just be talking over each other.
	There'd be no order.
	There'd be no semblance of what's going on.
	It would hurt the listeners' ears.
	It's very interesting how Anyway, I mean, this is a perfect example of emotions right now.
	In the face of reality and facts, this makes me feel uncomfortable, so I'm going to say this and not be able to prove it.
	If I can add, I think also keep in mind that some of the insulting things we're reading.
	It's not him saying it.
	He's reading it from some of the people that are insulting us behind a screen.
	So just keep that in mind.
	It's not necessarily them saying that.
	That's at least how I... I'm glad you did, girl.
	You've been here more than once, so you know.
	Listen, I'm reading with them, so...
	I mean, you could have watched the show and prepared yourself in your own, too.
	It's not really an excuse.
	I did.
	I watched it last week, and I didn't like it.
	Just don't read the comments.
	Yeah, if you paying attention to...
	Don't pay attention to the screen, and you'll enjoy yourself.
	Exactly.
	So going back to what I was saying, so you can answer the question, who's more respected, a man or a woman, when they're cheated on?
	A woman would lose respect for her man.
	Okay, so it sucks more when the guy gets cheated on?
	Well, I think it sucks for a woman to get cheated on.
	Okay.
	Okay, but who loses more respect from society by being cheated on?
	A man or a woman?
	A man would probably applause him, right?
	I'm asking your opinion.
	No, I'm just, that's probably what you expect me to say.
	I don't know.
	It's not about what I expect.
	It's about what's your opinion in general.
	It's about what you think.
	For me, I think women now are waking up and it would be embarrassing as well.
	Okay.
	What about you?
	Women lose their respect.
	You think the woman loses their respect?
	Okay.
	What about you?
	I believe the women lose, like, their respect is lost more due to societal standards.
	For example, like in this podcast you were talking about, oh, like, men, like, why can't we have more partners?
	We work for it, right?
	So, I mean, obviously you didn't like that same idea with females, so naturally if she cheats, she's seen way more negative than the man would because it's more applauded for the man to have multiple partners.
	So who would lose status more by being cheated on, the man or the woman?
	I thought the question was, like, who...
	The first question was, what's a bigger form of treachery?
	And then the second one is, who loses more respect for being cheated on?
	I mean, but society loses respect for the female.
	That's what I'm trying to say.
	Okay, if she cheats on the guy.
	To the man.
	Okay.
	So...
	So, this is what I think on this, and I'll turn it to you guys because we've got to end this thing here soon.
	I think it's way more treacherous when a woman cheats on a man.
	And the reason for that is because women aren't designed necessarily to be promiscuous and be hoes.
	Some girls choose to do that, but in general, most girls would prefer not to do that if they could.
	There's a reason why a woman can only bring one child to term per year, but a man can bring hundreds of children to term per year.
	So, I think it's a bigger form of treachery if a woman cheats on a man, right?
	And then on top of that, especially since they're not designed to necessarily be hoes.
	And then when a guy gets cheated on, he loses more respect because if a man gets cheated on by a girl, he fucked up.
	I blame the man when a girl cheats on him.
	And I'll tell you why.
	The man is a leader.
	If the girl cheated on him, more than likely he wasn't adequate in some kind of field and she went looking for another male to fulfill that.
	So the man loses more status, which going back to the original question, Which I disagree with you on.
	You said a man should communicate that he doesn't trust women.
	I think that's very bad.
	Because by him saying, oh, I was cheated on.
	I was hurt.
	What he's telling the woman is, I fucked up in some degree.
	She lost respect and attraction for me and she went and fucked somebody else.
	That's how women interpret that.
	So it's actually very unattractive for a guy to sit there and say, oh, I got cheated on.
	It's not the same.
	Naturally, it's unattractive for anybody to say that.
	But you preach about accountability all the time.
	So, I mean, naturally, if she decides to cheat, you know, that's a fucked up thing to do.
	That's a whole thing to do.
	Yeah, but the man, again, see?
	It's just the man's fault.
	And I'll tell you why.
	The man is the leader.
	The man is the authority.
	So, if the woman is no longer following his authority and his leadership, he fucked up.
	No, he didn't fuck up.
	If you get cheated on, just leave and it's not your fault.
	You can mutually leave each other.
	And I don't believe anybody has more authority over the other person.
	If you want to go with a traditional type relationship, I'm all for it.
	I would do that as well.
	So you want a traditional relationship?
	I would.
	Congratulations.
	Most women want traditional relationships.
	Yeah, but that's what I'm saying.
	Nobody wants equal partnership like you're trying to argue for right now.
	No, I mean in the sense of I can still have my career.
	He does his own thing, I take care of the kids, but I still have my career.
	That's cool, but you still want him to make more money than you.
	No, I really wouldn't mind being with a guy that makes less than me.
	Stop the cap!
	I'm serious, I'm serious.
	You're 18, man.
	I thought that way.
	Yeah, you think that way until you start paying the mortgage and you're going to switch your...
	I think that way until you really start paying all your bills by yourself, no help.
	I'm not saying it's not that bad.
	It's so long, you can show your booty hole.
	Yeah.
	I don't want somebody that's going to make like a thousand a month compared to me making three thousand or four thousand.
	Like I want at least...
	So that proves my point, you don't want a guy making less money than you.
	Or a lot less than you.
	I want a decent amount, like, of difference.
	Not too much.
	You don't know what to want, man.
	It's okay.
	It's okay.
	We're all learning.
	The point I'm trying to make is that a man absolutely loses more status from being cheated on.
	If you look at Will Smith, his reputation is absolutely tarnished because his wife decided to be a slut.
	But on the other hand, you look at someone like Kobe Bryant cheated on his wife.
	She's applauded to this day.
	Jay-Z? First digging it through.
	Jay-Z cheated on Beyonce.
	Applauded to this day.
	Women don't lose status for their man cheating on them.
	And if anything, if they stay with them, they get respected and applauded even more.
	But the other way around, when a man is cheated on, they lose an enormous amount of respect.
	It's fucked, but it's true.
	You made a very good point earlier.
	Let people hide themselves.
	So give them the benefit of the very beginning, but watch them closely, give them time, and they'll tell you who they really are.
	And then from there, you know what?
	I'm not cool with this.
	I'm out.
	Peace.
	And not to pick on you, Lithuania, but this is an example of what I mean when I say women typically give very bad advice.
	Because the right thing to do is say, yeah, communicate, be open, tell her your vulnerabilities, right?
	But I think that's a very destructive way to go because women can't handle the truth in general.
	I mean, think about it.
	For the most part, yeah.
	Like, I mean, hold on.
	Let's stop the show real quick.
	Think about this, right?
	Much of you on the panel are extremely uncomfortable at the moment.
	Why?
	Because we've had a pretty factual, truth-based conversation.
	And the reason why it's uncomfortable is because we've talked about some unflattering truths about female nature, how men perceive things, what men really think, and some of you are uncomfortable from it.
	And I think the reason why is because women rarely get told the truth in general.
	So...
	Yep.
	as a man will get you cheated on a lot of times or a woman not respect you men are supposed to be strong and stoic not confiding in a female with their most vulnerable situations yep anybody have I don't know.
	It's just like having the conversation if you haven't like been through it it's difficult to hear but these are things that happen subconsciously in relationships that you want this like Power, dynamic, exchange.
	You don't need to talk about it with your man.
	Your man doesn't need to tell you, I'm bigger than you.
	I'm more important than you.
	You're of less value.
	But if it's really something healthy that's going to work and it's something traditional that you're looking for, that dynamic is going to happen naturally.
	And if that is the man for you, you're going to follow it naturally.
	You're not going to have to have all these additional conversations that don't feel good to have because they're We don't feel good.
	It's going to happen naturally if it's really the right person and he really does bring those things to the table and like you do as well.
	Anything else?
	No.
	One thing about it, a female is not going to have a problem compliant or listening to a male that's doing everything that he's supposed to do.
	Period.
	Depending on the female, you know, if they're just hard-headed or just want to do what the heck they want to do, then they're just going to do what they want to do.
	But if they're ready to be in a relationship and commit and listen and take, you know, heed to authority and let their man lead, then that's just what's going to happen.
	All right.
	We got some shots here and then we wrap this up.
	Yeah.
	Where we at here?
	She might not be able to keep him, but the problem is he will want other women too.
	That's what started the argument.
	Yeah.
	Men always want exercise options.
	I just find it interesting when girls expect monogamy.
	Question for the girls later.
	If a man were to ask to marry the girl and ask for a prenup and she says no, is it fair for the man to still sleep with other women without any type of drama after?
	She loves JoJo.
	YouTube gang, what's good?
	Great content.
	Keep it going.
	Appreciate that.
	John next to Maren is a nut broad.
	And what's the P.O. box to ship these stickers?
	I hit the DMs on the gram.
	Calling it now, Ludacris next to Myron getting castled.
	Hey man, y'all had your chance and you guys voted too.
	Girl next to Myron on Wick.
	What the fuck, bro?
	Damn, y'all just talking shit about me.
	All the broke niggas talking shit tonight, ain't they?
	Ain't got a pot to piss in.
	Damn.
	Myron Wednesday next to Fresh Eyeball and the fuck out of you.
	What?
	Oh, Wednesday.
	I look like the mother.
	I don't look like Wednesday.
	I'm not even that email.
	We can't tell.
	I wasn't aware.
	Ladies, would you rather make 500k a year, be 45, single, no kids, or be in your late 20s with two kids under five with your ideal husband taking care of all the bills?
	Also, I should pick you.
	Alright, so we'll answer the first part.
	Raise your hands if you would rather be making half a million dollars a year, 45, single, and no kids.
	Man, that's tough.
	Okay, and then you would want that?
	Yeah.
	Really though?
	I think so.
	I'll just adopt a bunch of cats.
	Man, you don't know what you want.
	So the rest of you would rather be in your late 20s with two kids?
	Under five with an ideal husband?
	Okay, let me ask this one question then to follow up.
	Would you rather be rich and ugly or pretty and broke?
	As a female That's a tough one.
	That's a very tough one.
	To me it is.
	Alright, we'll move on.
	Jamaica, pretty and broke or ugly and rich as a female?
	I'd say pretty and broke.
	I'd say the first one.
	Ugly and rich.
	That's her answer.
	Of course you would say that.
	Because she's pretty.
	I'll say pretty and broke.
	Pretty and broke.
	Pretty and broke, yeah.
	Pretty and broke.
	Pretty and broke because I can find a rich man, period.
	Okay, what about you?
	Honestly, I think rich and ugly because, I mean, if I'm rich, I must have gotten to that point somehow.
	I'm more than just the looks.
	I'm a personality.
	I'm intelligent.
	Well, if I become, you know, have like $500,000 a year, I got it somehow.
	I got it from a skill, from, you know, just working hard.
	Remember, that is redeemable in the dating marketplace.
	You know, that's not what I revolve my life around.
	Like, if it happens, it happens.
	You don't revolve your life around men?
	No.
	What were you put on earth to do?
	Chill.
	I mean, like, I don't...
	Chill.
	But then again, you have to think about it.
	He didn't say pretty and broke or ugly and rich.
	He didn't say that, you know, that you're ugly and smart or pretty and dumb.
	I know, but what I'm saying is if I got rich, naturally, like, there's a reason why.
	You know, he didn't say I won the lottery, like...
	You know, there's more to just being ugly.
	I mean, like, I worked for what I got, unless, you know...
	Do you think that money is going to help you with finding a guy?
	That you want?
	That's not necessarily my priority.
	Like, you know, my priority is get somewhere to live, you know, take care of whatever family I got.
	And then what was your reasoning for being rich and ugly?
	I mean, I think it's just better.
	How?
	How so?
	You wouldn't be bothered by anyone.
	True.
	Okay, that's fair.
	That's actually a good point.
	You're ugly, nobody bothers you, and you enjoy your money by yourself.
	So if that's the case, why did you pick a husband and kids?
	But you didn't set the age.
	I can be young and rich and ugly.
	It's a little strange.
	It's a little contradictory because on one side you're saying, oh no, I prefer the...
	Yeah, but I don't want to be 45.
	That's what I'm saying.
	But if you're rich and ugly, you will almost...
	It doesn't necessarily mean that...
	Ugly doesn't mean old.
	I mean, that's a component.
	But it's not necessarily that.
	A lot of a woman's beauty does come from her youth.
	Significantly, actually.
	I mean, if you look at all the surgeries that women do that are cosmetic, it's all to make it look like you're pushing a clock back.
	Whether it's Botox, Lipo, whatever.
	A lot of these cosmetic surgeries that women endure are for the preservation of youth to a degree.
	Okay, so I'm rich, then I can do Botox, right?
	I thought about it.
	You have everything, right?
	You get the money.
	I think she's just disagreeing and disagreeing.
	That's cool.
	Luda next to Maren.
	It ain't nobody drunk but me, but I gotta check Maren's misogyny, and it ain't no sense because it's dumb inside.
	That sounds like a song.
	The wage gap strikes again.
	Okay.
	Oh, he's trying to say she's ludicrous.
	Oh, okay.
	I see.
	It was a ludicrous joke.
	What privileges do your main chicks that were useful get that you're not as useful?
	Side chicks did not.
	Huh?
	Referencing your interview with Leia and retaining a man, and what if you had less money?
	Well, unfortunately, I just got to be painfully blunt about this.
	If you're a guy and you don't have your shit together financially, it's going to be very, very difficult for you to maintain multiple girlfriends.
	That's just how it goes.
	So yeah, you got to have your shit together, guys.
	Which bus stop did y'all find this panel at?
	Here is a question for the panel.
	When was the last time you ladies said, I am sorry?
	This woke culture, the more I noticed, the accountability seems to be a woman's kryptonite.
	That's actually a good question.
	Yesterday.
	When's the last time you said sorry to a man?
	Start here.
	I mean, I really never said I'm sorry.
	I said I'm wrong.
	So, I did what it is.
	You've never said sorry to your guy that you're with?
	I say I apologize.
	What the fuck are you sorry for?
	That's the same thing.
	No, I apologize.
	You don't say you're sorry.
	You're just, what the fuck?
	I mean, same shit.
	It's the same thing, honestly.
	Saying I'm sorry.
	It's been a while, y'all.
	It's been a while.
	Saying I'm sorry is by definition an apology.
	Yeah.
	It's been a while.
	It's been a while.
	That you apologize?
	Yeah.
	Alright.
	It's been a while.
	About what though?
	Okay.
	When's the last time you apologized to the guy that you're with now?
	I'm not with nobody.
	Oh yeah, she's single.
	It's a situationship.
	Do you think the reason why it's still a situationship is because you don't apologize?
	No, I do apologize.
	But I don't say I'm sorry.
	When's the last time you said...
	It's been like...
	Like, three weeks?
	Because I don't have shit I'm sorry for.
	Fuck I'm sorry for.
	Alright.
	Bruh.
	Bruh.
	That answers everything you need to know, right?
	I think that, uh...
	Yeah.
	I hate y'all here.
	I hate y'all.
	I'll give you one tip, honestly.
	If you want that guy to be serious and take you seriously, you need to change your behavior, man.
	Y'all don't know my behavior.
	Y'all only know what y'all seeing on this screen.
	Yeah, I know.
	How a woman behaves in public around people she doesn't know, on the first impression, tells you a lot about the woman's character.
	Okay, bet.
	So, what I'm saying is that you're saying that he's being a little fidgety, it's a situation ship, he's not wanting to commit.
	I'm willing to bet some of your practices and behaviors is what has him hesitant to commit.
	So, I mean, you can take that advice or not.
	I've already been in a relationship.
	For sex only?
	Yeah, for sex only.
	Everything's for sex only on Fresh and Fit, you guys.
	Everything's for sex only.
	Sex only purposes.
	What was that, Mo?
	Go ahead, Mo.
	She's not going to listen.
	No, I don't.
	It's fine.
	Well, if you want the guy to take you seriously, I think you have to change.
	Okay.
	No offense, but yeah.
	My faith.
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	What about you?
	I know, Myron.
	I know.
	Honestly, it was like a little bit ago, probably the last person I talked to.
	I apologize because I acted a certain way that I felt like it was very rational.
	And I was like, yeah, like, I could have handled that situation a little bit better as opposed to doing what I did.
	So...
	Okay.
	Did you, like, break up with you because of it?
	Well, we wasn't really together.
	Like, we were just talking, but...
	Do you think it put a strain on the relationship?
	Um, not really.
	Well, I guess you could say it did because he was just like, yeah, like, I didn't like how you reacted, da-da-da, but we both communicated how we felt about the situation and made our comments and whatever, how he felt and how I felt, as opposed to just keeping it to ourselves.
	How long ago was that?
	Um, like a month ago or two.
	Alright.
	Uh, what about you when the last time you apologized to a guy?
	Probably yesterday.
	I don't know.
	Okay.
	Okay.
	What about you?
	For me, it was yesterday because...
	Oh, shit.
	What'd you do?
	It was really me going off my emotions, honestly, and I had to realize and do some thinking, you know, as to how I would feel if I said the same thing.
	Well, if he said the same thing to me, you know, and yeah, I had to apologize.
	Okay.
	What about you?
	Today.
	Why do you want to go on that one?
	Do you want to sleep?
	Do you want to sleep?
	Yes.
	Okay.
	So, um, you're next?
	Yeah, she's next.
	Last time you apologized?
	Today.
	To who?
	To a stranger.
	I bumped into him accidentally.
	Okay.
	When was the last time you apologized, like, a significant other or boyfriend?
	Oh, that was a long time ago, because I'm not in a relationship for a long time.
	When was the last time you had a boyfriend?
	A long time ago.
	Over a year?
	Not answering exactly what Did you say you got a high value mail whenever you wanted earlier?
	Yeah, but I don't want it now.
	Who says that I want it now?
	What was that, Chris?
	She doesn't choose at all.
	Many options, right?
	No, you don't choose a guy that you want to fucking deal with for the rest of your life.
	He chooses you.
	Like, who bends down on one knee to propose to you?
	You or the guy?
	I'm not looking for anyone, if you're asking that.
	Yeah, because you don't choose...
	I don't want to.
	I'm not into dating.
	Because you don't choose.
	I'm not into dating.
	Basically what he's trying to say is it's the man that chooses who they want to be with.
	Great.
	Alright, good.
	Perfect.
	I mean, okay, so what are you doing here in Miami then?
	Wait, sorry.
	We have a Frank Castle.
	Okay, she's leaving.
	Yeah, okay.
	Yeah, because apparently niggas ain't shit.
	What?
	Yeah, her braids aren't tight, man.
	Don't do my girl.
	Hey, hey, hey, she wanted to smoke.
	Alright, oh, I should buy the fuck right now.
	Hey, you gonna take that?
	Ms.
	Lawyer, you gonna take that list, Ms.
	Lawyer?
	Yo, what the fuck, man?
	Is she driving?
	Yo.
	Oh, man.
	Just call Uber.
	We got it, man.
	It's fine, man.
	Fuck it.
	It's fine.
	Yo, let's call Uber, man.
	Yo, she shouldn't drive.
	I don't know how tipsy she is.
	Just get around here, man.
	Yeah, please.
	Just get this quick and get around here.
	No, no.
	Listen, lawyer, put your shoes on, man.
	You gotta leave.
	When you're gonna leave, you gotta leave completely.
	Just go downstairs, please.
	That's the rules.
	You can't sit in the studio when you walk off the set.
	You gotta leave.
	Yeah, just leave.
	Yeah, just kind of rule.
	That's my guess.
	We're not gaslighting anything, man.
	It's a rule.
	It's a protocol.
	If you want to walk out and storm out, you've got to leave all the way out, bro.
	Whatever.
	Yeah.
	Haven't been in a relationship for a few years.
	Okay.
	I didn't say exactly when.
	But I've not been in a relationship.
	For at least a year.
	For a while, yes.
	For at least a year.
	Okay, if not more.
	So, what about you?
	Last time, I apologize.
	Like, almost a year ago.
	Yeah.
	Damn.
	What about you?
	Okay, so, it was a bit foolish.
	Bear with me.
	It was yesterday, and I went on a date, and me just graduating high school, I'm used to guys, like, you know, not having too much money, and on the date, he offered to pay, and it was a bit expensive.
	I was like, I'll go 50-50, and he was like, no worries, and I'm like, are you sure?
	I'm sorry.
	It's like a big bill, like, no worries at all.
	Just, you know, wasn't used to it, so I apologized, but he paid.
	Last thoughts?
	Sure, let's do it.
	We got some more rants, though.
	Yeah, we do.
	Okay, fine.
	Here's a question for the panel.
	When was the last time you ladies said, I am sorry?
	I've read that one before.
	What do you think is the max difference in age a high-value man should date?
	Leonardo DiCaprio dates young women and he is 48.
	Do you think that is extreme or the age gap could be higher?
	I mean, yeah, man.
	I think you should be dating women under 25 if you can, preferably.
	Because once they get older, they kind of get set in their ways and don't want to listen and are feminists and a bunch of bullshit.
	The girl next to me sounds like Whitley from the 90s sitcom Different World.
	Wow.
	If the chick has pictures in Dubai on yachts on expensive trips, she's taking more transactions than Bank of America.
	Bougie bitches terrify me.
	Huge liability.
	They want more than length or girth.
	Fair enough.
	Lawyer girl, your eyes look like buttholes.
	Those weaves replace the wrinkles in her brain.
	Okay.
	Yujinga, Lithuania girl, they are not saying you are promiscuous.
	They are saying your Instagram may portray what you are not.
	Does that make sense?
	Sure.
	Yeah, I understand.
	Okay.
	Alright!
	We get last thoughts?
	Alright, we'll give you ladies the last thoughts.
	Go ahead.
	What are your last thoughts on the show?
	You just want me to give feedback?
	Your honest opinion about the show.
	Just thank you for having me on.
	It was pretty neat.
	Thanks for your opinion.
	You still think we're put on earth to chill?
	Low key, yeah.
	I'm chilling right now.
	I think we're all chilling.
	Yo!
	What?
	No, no, no.
	It's just...
	It's a good attitude.
	She's relaxed.
	She's not stressed.
	Meaning she's not into drama.
	Yeah, no, no, no, no.
	At least that is not.
	It's not about drama.
	It's just kind of like understanding purpose on earth, why you're here.
	It's a chill.
	You make life.
	You just make it what you want to be.
	Just manifest it.
	I think only women can say stuff like that, man.
	If you take the things that some of you guys say and have a man say it, it would sound absolutely ridiculous.
	I've heard some guys say it like that.
	They didn't say, yeah, I'm put on, like, I'm just, you know, I'm here to chill.
	She's 18, man.
	Come on, man.
	Yeah, she's 18, bro.
	Yeah, but like I'm saying, if I asked to do it, why are we put on earth?
	And he said to chill, we'll all ridicule him and make fun of him and say he's retarded.
	But that's fine.
	What about you?
	Last thoughts?
	Points?
	Disagreements?
	You didn't really say much on the show.
	Yeah, honestly, I was just listening.
	My perspective before coming here, honestly, it changed.
	Misogony!
	What was the perspective before?
	Misogony!
	Honestly, I thought you were just gonna be an asshole, you know?
	But, like, actually listening and hearing that you were able to defend your side, like, speak, coming from, like, you know, logic and intelligence.
	Like, it was, I was able to see your perspective, you know?
	And, like, I was able to understand and, like, see where you're coming from.
	And, like, it opened, expanded my mind just listening to everyone and also seeing, like, different perspective and what people say and what people think.
	It allowed me to learn more, too, like, being here, so.
	Awesome.
	Appreciate that.
	What about you?
	It's actually funny.
	I really want to thank you for doing this.
	For putting my Instagram.
	Because I know what people say.
	And they say the same thing in Lithuania.
	So at least I had a chance.
	Other people have told you?
	Yeah.
	I know what you're saying.
	Why do you fight me so much on it?
	If people in Lithuania are listening, because we're pretty conservative.
	We're pretty conservative.
	It's not like Miami.
	It's not the cap.
	So what I told you isn't anything you haven't heard before.
	What you said, I've heard worse.
	I study medicine, so it's very hard for me to have an Instagram like that.
	I understand completely.
	And I try to balance it.
	I try to balance it.
	It's cool.
	Let her speak.
	So anyone who's listening to me and is in Lithuania, I hope you got my point and understand that Who you may think I am, I had a chance to prove that I'm not.
	So, yeah, thank you for this podcast.
	She belongs to the streets!
	No, she don't.
	I don't think you disproved anything to me.
	I don't want you to prove anything.
	I just wanted to have a voice over what people were saying.
	You know?
	I can hear you.
	I mean, with all due respect, you kind of confirmed some of the stereotypes.
	I understand what society may think, but I know who I am, and at least I had something to say about that.
	Okay.
	Alright.
	What about you?
	Last thoughts?
	How was the show for you?
	I actually had a good time.
	Thank you.
	Like I said, I love learning, so What was the most important thing you learned?
	Um...
	Super Saiyan 1.
	Honestly, it's really about, um...
	That's one of the main things.
	I ain't even gonna cap.
	You're right.
	You need to post a picture of you and him and pin it at the top.
	I mean, I have a reel, but it's not on my grid, so I took it off because after the incident...
	You should have your wedding photo pinned at the top.
	Okay, but we don't have our wedding photo.
	It doesn't matter.
	You're the woman.
	I understand that.
	I mean...
	Niggas DM you.
	Girls don't DM you.
	Yes, they do.
	And if they do, it's a smaller amount than you.
	You might get one for every third of you.
	No, but here's the thing, though.
	What's up?
	Here's what you guys don't understand.
	It's women out here that's so freaking conniving and wants, like, it's women out here ready to ruin a relationship and don't even want the men.
	Trust me.
	But if you go and give them attention, they will sit here and, haha, hey, your man did this and this and this and DM'd me.
	Like, I've had situations where females be like, okay, you feel me?
	Like I said, we've had our female disagreements.
	I'll leave that in the past.
	But who has the ring in the title?
	I do.
	But it's still embarrassing.
	So why are you comparing yourself to peasants?
	I'm not comparing myself.
	It's no competition regardless, but it's still embarrassing.
	It's embarrassing when I have a wife and she doesn't have me on her page.
	Okay, if I, if it's dudes that's DMing me, right?
	I don't necessarily sleep with them, but if I entertain them, it's still going to be embarrassing for the men, right?
	100%.
	Okay, so why, when y'all sleep with females, why is it not, why can't it be embarrassing for us?
	Because men and women aren't the same.
	It does not matter.
	Like we said, it's still logical thinking.
	Y'all want someone to be loyal.
	It's the opposite of logical thinking right now.
	No, it's really not.
	Men and women are not the same, so therefore the standards are not the same across all boards, whether it's cheating, infidelity.
	But it depends on the relationship and the people that's in it.
	You know what I hear?
	Copacabana.
	Copacabana.
	No.
	I'm willing to like...
	Your man loves you.
	I compromise for my man.
	Whatever my man wants, I compromise for him.
	Okay.
	But I'm not in a relationship with you guys, so whatever you guys want or expect from a female is not the same for my man.
	Alright.
	He tells me what he wants.
	I'm married.
	I'm still married.
	Soon a divorce comes in.
	No, it's not.
	You can't speak for my relationship.
	Are you married?
	Are you married?
	That's the thing.
	Thank God.
	Are you married?
	The majority of the divorces are, you know...
	But guess what?
	He vocalizes what he wants.
	And guess what?
	I work with him.
	Guess what?
	For now.
	No, it's not just for now.
	I've been in a relationship working with him.
	And despite his mess-ups and everything, guess what?
	I've still been there.
	But you said earlier, the reason why I don't have his photos on my page is because of what...
	Mess ups in the past, yes.
	I'm not going to continuously be embarrassed by somebody.
	Embarrassed?
	Yes.
	If you're sitting here doing shit to me publicly and people know that you have followers, if you're messing with your followers or people that have you on Instagram and they follow me, what you guys don't realize is when you do dirt and people know on social media that you guys are together, unless you have a private relationship.
	Okay, so he's doing it out in public then?
	If it's done in public, you're going to be publicly embarrassed.
	Yeah, but you still got the ring in the title.
	It does not matter.
	You guys are going off what you think, but females, like you said, think totally different.
	Hey, it's what we know, man.
	Okay, you guys are going by masculine energy.
	He's coming back to you.
	He loves you, but this is typical female thought process.
	I'm going to put myself in the same line as random bitches that hit him up on Instagram when I'm the one that has the title, the relationship, the marriage.
	I was the one that walked down the aisle.
	I'm his main girl.
	He loves me.
	But depending on the man, it's the same shit.
	What?
	No, he loves you.
	Y'all be hurt by our actions too.
	Regardless, if y'all want to admit it or not, it's the same thing.
	Yeah, but you talking to other dudes is not the same as him talking to other girls.
	Do I talk to other dudes?
	I'm saying it's not the same because you're trying to equate it as if I'm not doing this.
	No, all I'm saying is just how you guys try to make it seem like you guys don't have feelings or more like We're more triggered by our feelings.
	Yes, that's true.
	But you guys still have feelings regardless of the fact.
	And you guys are still going to feel disrespected at the end of the day.
	So why should we keep putting...
	Okay, yes, we tolerate more shit.
	But why should we keep...
	If we get enough of it, we're going to leave.
	So why keep doing the same thing to us?
	I can't hear this thing called coke.
	Copacabana.
	Let's go on.
	Anyways.
	Goddamn.
	I think I learned something.
	Alright.
	We're done.
	Go ahead.
	Okay.
	Okay.
	So, overall, I really appreciate, like I've said before, the work that you guys are doing, empowering men and really giving them the tools to be men and, you know, show up as men.
	So, overall, I'm very grateful.
	Every time I listen to the podcast or I come here, I also learn from the ladies and also always think about...
	Learn what to not do?
	You know, or maybe...
	Maybe I see my...
	It's like a mirror.
	A mirror.
	I learned from the ladies as far as seeing my past self or my younger self in a mirror.
	What's the biggest piece of advice you'd give the girls on the panel that you might see in them and yourself in the past that fucked you up?
	The fact that sometimes when we...
	Oh god, this is going to sound bad.
	No, give it to them raw.
	Go ahead.
	Just say it.
	I think more women need to hear the truth from other women, bro.
	Y'all constantly lie to each other, which is why women are operating in darkness when they deal with men a lot of time.
	Darkness!
	I really think that as women, we need to when we are be realistic about really what we're bringing to the table because I think that you Don't make it harder than it already is to make this statement.
	We all think that, you know, we're high value women.
	This is not, you know, told towards anybody in the table, but we all think that, you know, we're the queens, the prize, the high value and the this, the that.
	But the reality is that, and I probably realized this the last time I was here, A lot of us just say this because it's what we know.
	It's what's been put into us to know for our self-worth and our confidence.
	But sometimes we really need to look into ourselves introspectively, into really who we are, what we're bringing, and what we're really representing or bringing to our relationship as women.
	Because sometimes we think it's better than what we're actually bringing, if that makes sense.
	Are you going to take that from her?
	I just said that it's not directed towards anyone.
	It's not directed towards anyone.
	She just said it's not directed.
	I literally said that before because I saw that.
	Like I said.
	Yeah, I would take that.
	Alright, next.
	Jesus.
	Why would you do that?
	You're instigating right now.
	That was already so hard to say.
	I would never.
	Not him trying to instigate.
	Hey, y'all.
	Man, you would say shit all day.
	Goddamn, but you was here?
	Can't wait to?
	Go ahead.
	Honestly, I'm more of a listening person, but I enjoy listening to everybody's insight and opinion as opposed to just keeping it within my friend group and my friend's opinion.
	Because, you know, your friend's always going to tell you what you want to hear.
	So it was nice to surround myself.
	Wait, are you saying that women aren't honest with each other?
	What?
	No, she said her friends.
	No, I'm saying that like...
	Which are women.
	I mean, that's not all women though.
	But most women are...
	Let me just shut up.
	Thank God.
	I'm just saying like, when it comes to a relationship, nine times out of ten, even if you're dead wrong in the situation, your friend's gonna be like, you know, F that nigga.
	Like, you don't need him.
	So it's just like...
	Surrounding yourself by people who...
	I never met y'all.
	I don't know you from Canada Pate.
	I just saw the podcast a couple of hours ago, honestly.
	Hours?
	So it's just kind of like...
	You feel me?
	You don't really know how other people think unless you surround yourself by different perspectives.
	Yeah, that's true.
	That's a good point.
	I agree with her.
	Yeah, she has a valid point.
	And she's Haitian.
	Alright.
	Okay, what does that have to do with anything?
	How's that right?
	Kudos to all patients.
	What does that have to do with anything?
	She's right.
	Well, anyway, guys, that concludes this episode of Fresh Fit After Hours, man.
	We went a little over time, but, you know, we had a good panel here, so even though I lost some hair follicles.
	One more chat?
	Alright.
	I hope you guys enjoyed the show, bro, because that was painful in some points.
	It was very painful.
	I can tell you that Blonde is never challenged on her point of views for men, and I can also tell she rarely hears the words, no, definitely walks over a lot of guys that be simping.
	Is he correct in his assessment that guys don't really challenge you?
	Absolutely not.
	There you go.
	Maybe she's just strong in her mind.
	I think he's correct.
	I think he's correct too, bro.
	I mean, your responses are very indicative of your experiences.
	Can't look at things from outside your own perspective.
	I don't agree with that.
	And then after I ask you, oh, no way, people have told me this in Lithuania, but I'm going to defend.
	Like, it's like, oh, come on.
	Why would I live by society's rules?
	I ran, I ran so far away.

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