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July 27, 2023 - Fresh & Fit

02:42:00

Girl's Ex Calls Into Show & EXPOSES Her LIES!

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	Welcome.
	So we're going to go ahead and just give you guys a quick summary.
	What ended up happening.
	Actually, this is a rare, not El Chris.
	It's not Chris's fault, guys, or Moe's fault.
	What ended up happening is there was a bug.
	It got sent to the wrong stream on our Rumble account, but we're back up live now on the proper channel.
	If I'm not mistaken, give me thumbs up in the back, guys, if we're good.
	We should be.
	We're fine.
	Yeah, cool.
	So, real quick, I'll go ahead and just tell y'all, the girls on the panel, and summarize real quick.
	We've got Leah, 19, from Spain, works at a kosher factory, or a kosher bakery.
	High school, highest education level completed and single.
	And then we've got Francesca, 23, New York City, former teacher, esthetician, and model.
	High school, single.
	Katya, 30, from Russia, fitness instructor slash scripper from 11, bachelor's degree in engineering.
	And single.
	And then we got Rosa, who's 30 years old from Providence, Rhode Island.
	Rapper, associate's degree in customer service.
	Single, 10 years of HR. Then we got IC28, Miami, Florida.
	Obviously works for a small local radio station.
	High school education completed, highest completed.
	And then single.
	Then we have Nadia.
	What was your age again?
	30.
	30 what?
	30?
	35.
	35.
	I said 35, but I'm 32.
	32.
	Okay.
	32 years old, Miami, Florida.
	Entrepreneur, runs a med spa, credit repair, bachelor's degree in business from University of Miami and in a relationship for two years.
	Yes, and we had an excellent question by Troy, if you don't mind one more time.
	Take us through it, Troy.
	Yeah, absolutely.
	So I just wanted to ask the girls on the panel, what is the most important?
	And what I'm talking about here is initial attraction.
	Okay, so when you first meet the guy, what is the most important?
	Is it looks?
	Is it money?
	Is it status?
	Or is it riz?
	Or is it a combination thereof?
	And let's start here this time.
	I feel like it's a combination of mostly all, to be honest.
	Like, yeah, you don't want to judge a book by its cover, but at the end of the day, you're going to go based off what you see first.
	You're not going to be like, oh, I think he's a good guy.
	No, you're going to be like, oh, he looks good.
	Let me approach him.
	Or, oh, I think he has money.
	Let me approach him.
	I guess first encounter, what's the thing that stands out the most for you?
	Number one thing for you, mostly.
	That stands out to me?
	The personality of a guy.
	But you don't know that.
	You don't know that, so you go for the looks.
	How do you see personality?
	Exactly.
	Got it.
	Looks for her.
	What about you?
	Smile.
	I like your smile.
	You attract me with a good smile.
	That's look.
	And then when I have a conversation with you, if you piss me off, then you're not it.
	New York!
	Okay, so it looks as well against the smile, the first thing.
	For you?
	Okay, at the beginning I said that if the guy accepting himself, but then the girl said like, oh, but you don't know, like at the beginning.
	So I guess the look as well, because the only one we can see is the look.
	And the rest we can guess, but the only thing we can know for sure is how he looks.
	And I guess, yeah, like lips or...
	Can I just put in a devil's advocate here?
	Maybe just to, you know, the remaining girls to answer.
	Because, like, you're saying about looks, but, right, the guy comes over to you and he talks to you, right?
	He's going to say some stuff.
	You know, say it's in the club.
	He comes over to you and starts talking to you.
	Okay.
	So there's a little bit more to go on there.
	Okay.
	Because you can say, yeah, he's a hot guy, but also, like, what's he saying?
	How's he saying it?
	What's the vibe?
	Okay, then I can repeat the same that I... It is looks.
	No.
	If the guy is accepting himself, he's accepting the way he's looking, the money he's making, and that's okay with me.
	If he's okay, if he's happy with how he is, that's sexy for me.
	That's attractive.
	But how do you know when you first meet him, if he's happy with himself?
	I can feel it.
	You're going to talk in a certain way.
	Even though, let's say, if you don't make that much money, you're going to talk like if you're saying, like, sorry.
	Or like, oh, I'm going to make it soon.
	I'm going to be the best, blah, blah, blah.
	But so it's mean that you don't have anything to show me right now.
	Even though, like, oh, maybe I have tons of cats and I'm helping cats and it's going to be attractive because you're into that.
	You said if a guy's coming up to you in a club or something like that.
	If you're coming up to me in a club, one, if your breath is hot, get the fuck away from me.
	But if I look at you and you're like, oh, okay, are you buying me a drink?
	Let me test your waters.
	Let me see if you like to treat your ladies or are you a bum?
	If you tell me, oh yeah, what do you want?
	Now I know I can vibe with you.
	If you ask me, oh yeah, you buying us a drink?
	What?
	Us?
	Us don't exist.
	That was an old school line that people used to use.
	They'd go up to the girl and they'd say, instead of saying, I'll buy you a drink, because they were told, don't be too submissive, they'd turn it around and say, are you buying me a drink?
	Is that what you're talking about?
	No.
	You'd be like, no, no.
	You came up to me.
	Are you buying me a drink?
	I didn't go to you, babe.
	So it's a combination of looks and money, basically.
	You can't be broke.
	I'm sorry.
	I got it, so you gotta have it.
	I can say broke.
	If he's young and okay-looking or good-looking and he's accepting himself, then we can make money together.
	We can make it together, baby.
	Now we see why you're single.
	She's Russian, bro.
	I was married, though, with the same guy twice.
	You married to the same guy twice?
	Yeah.
	Do you know the statistic for that?
	I was looking at some marriages these days.
	It's like 6%, I think, of people that...
	Oh my gosh, my story's crazy.
	But yeah, so it doesn't...
	At the beginning, he wasn't that rich.
	Then he became rich.
	Then he married him again.
	I changed.
	No, actually I married him the second time when he wasn't as rich as when I first met him.
	No, no, no.
	When we divorced.
	Oh, okay.
	There must have been some dark triad shit going on there.
	He must have had that like...
	It sounds like this was a very sort of like...
	He must have been like one of those broody sort of bad boy kind of...
	Yeah.
	Oh my God!
	So no bad boys anymore.
	That's why I'm like, okay, no, no, no.
	Oh, no more bad boys for me.
	I'm past that anymore.
	No, no, no.
	So you're just looking for a nice, reliable...
	Okay.
	All right.
	Any nice guys out there?
	She's available.
	Hi.
	What about you?
	For me, it's the energy.
	Energy is everything to me.
	And if they can make me laugh...
	No, for real.
	There's a difference.
	If you have energy, but the way you carry yourself, the confidence is everything.
	Someone who's underway of being healed or healing themselves or working on themselves, they will come across very differently, their energy and everything about them.
	So again, I want you to break down what energy is.
	How does someone give you that energy?
	Energy is, if you make something move in me, you know what I'm saying, that I didn't know I could massively feel, then damn, that energy is different.
	I need to know more.
	You need the energy.
	There you go.
	I think she tried to say it's like connection, probably.
	Like, the guy's supposed to feel her energy and her vibe.
	Mi amor, it's that energy where everything comes.
	Again, they speak to you.
	That same intention.
	They have more intention.
	That intention is there more.
	But you mean sexual intention?
	I could be, you know what I'm saying?
	It depends, it depends.
	But no, more so, again, just, you know, we're so used to this regular...
	Dominance, dominance.
	Right, it's more so of...
	You pay attention to details.
	Yeah, it's different.
	The point is, you're feeling something different.
	That's point blank.
	Everyone has a different take on your energy phrase.
	I'm just going to say myself, which means how the guy makes you feel.
	Yeah, of course.
	Pretty much.
	Yeah, of course.
	To break it out.
	Thank you.
	Women don't even know what they want.
	I mean, a combination of just looks and knowing how to talk and not being a weirdo.
	Not being a weirdo, I think, that puts you in the top 5% now, doesn't it, really?
	I mean, yeah, but it's just how you come and try to talk to me.
	Okay, yeah, yeah.
	Because you could be attractive and the next thing you know, it's like, you say the wrong thing.
	I'm a high value man.
	I see.
	What is one thing I can tell you to turn you off completely?
	What I just said.
	Okay.
	I guess the common thing you guys just say normally.
	Is that what they say to you?
	High value man?
	Wait, don't ask me about my body count.
	Like, don't do that.
	That's just weird.
	Okay.
	What do you ask me that for?
	What's your body count?
	Why would somebody ask that?
	Why would somebody ask that early on in a...
	Why would somebody ask that at all?
	We just came into the podcast, right?
	And what he said, what's your name, your age, and your body count?
	Oh, I... Right, in this context, that's different though.
	I meant in a...
	No, um, my...
	Okay, so the guys my age are very, like, immature.
	Yeah.
	So that would be, like, the first thing to ever say to you.
	I'd never...
	I don't...
	I'd never fucking get that.
	I explained that to my mom and she's like, why do you hang around that?
	It's not me.
	It's everybody.
	I would never ask.
	I just don't get that, man.
	Well...
	When we say we're trolling, by the way, we don't want you to...
	I mean, if you answer, it's up to you, but yeah.
	I guess in the context of dating itself, that would be kind of weird.
	Yeah.
	That is weird.
	I don't want to know.
	Okay.
	I'm going to say it's their aura.
	Oh.
	It's their aura.
	Energy again!
	Stop playing.
	Y'all haven't experienced it.
	That's why y'all hanging on it.
	You could go literally this close so everybody could hear you.
	It is their aura.
	Their aura is very important.
	Not the looks, not the money, because you can have a fine man and a man with a lot of wealth, but how does he treat people?
	Has he healed himself?
	What triggered him?
	If you're in tune with yourself, you can pick up on people's aura.
	So to play devil's advocate, if there's a homeless bloke but you feel like he's healed himself, are you going to go there?
	Okay, now you're...
	No, if the person healed himself, he's not going to be a bomb.
	Exactly.
	He's already on low vibration.
	I have a question.
	A high vibrational man who has a really great aura is going to have a lot of going for himself.
	Who in here has the best aura to you?
	Man-wise?
	You.
	Why?
	Why?
	Because he was easy going.
	He was chill.
	You know what's funny?
	I know what you're saying, but the word orisone is kind of wawa.
	It just means the guy that knows who he is as a person is cool, complex, and a humble wawa.
	That's what it really is.
	A humble guy that's cool.
	Can I just make a point here?
	Because there's some people in the chat, so stop the cap and all this sort of stuff, when they're talking about energy and stuff, I think that they're fucking right.
	They're right.
	What they're saying, they're trying to express it, and maybe they're not expressing it in a way that makes sense to men, because men are very logical and very linear.
	But what they're basically all saying...
	Is that they want to feel that vibe when they meet the guy.
	Now, because I do dating coaching, right?
	So I've taught guys.
	I've taught very rich guys.
	I've taught very good-looking guys.
	You know, an accommodation of the two.
	And they're not getting any fucking results out there.
	They're not getting the results they want in the dating market.
	Well, why is that?
	Well, usually it's because they're kind of boring fuckers, to be honest.
	That's what it comes down to.
	And they don't know how to talk to women, but they don't know how to be...
	Charismatic and sort of, and kind of polarizing.
	You've got to bring some fucking energy and some like energy into it.
	Like your guy, was he, you know, was it like a bit of a boy?
	No more.
	No more.
	I like boring.
	Now I want a boring.
	Don't bring energy.
	You're 30, aren't you?
	Yeah, you're 30.
	He's right on the clock.
	I want romance.
	I want all that.
	I want to feel different.
	No, of course it's good to have a romance.
	Yeah, of course.
	But like, it's okay if it's not going to be like so perfect.
	It's not going to be like a macho man.
	It could be more simple.
	That's fine.
	I'll take it.
	Well, I think people's standards change.
	I think women's requirements change over time, don't they?
	Absolutely.
	Especially with Instagram.
	Yeah, definitely.
	So that could be another question, actually.
	And vice versa, for sure.
	Yeah.
	On both ends.
	Yeah.
	Experience will change everything.
	Yeah, because when you guys were younger, did you have different...
	Well, obviously there's various ages here, but you've got different expectations or requirements for the guys that you're with than you have now.
	Yeah, of course.
	I was just saying that.
	It's different in ages.
	I know you guys are looking for something totally different than what I'm looking for.
	I ain't looking here to be...
	I'm trying to have fun.
	Y'all looking for love.
	Yeah.
	I ain't looking.
	You're right.
	I'm attracting that shit.
	I was in a relationship before you.
	You're 23.
	Correct.
	And you were with the guy for four years.
	It's quite a long time, isn't it?
	But no, you have fun.
	I am.
	You enjoy yourself.
	You figure out things you like.
	And you know what's funny?
	That she looking for fun, she probably going to find a lot faster than all we are.
	Exactly.
	Because you know what happens?
	Because as the women get older...
	Facts.
	But it's because she's not looking for it.
	That's why.
	No, it's also because as women get older, they start to put higher requirements on letting a guy through.
	So it suddenly starts to become...
	Whereas when you're young, it's just like, yeah, it's fun and I'll fucking, you know, whatever at the party.
	We'll have a good time.
	As you get older, it starts to be all these different requirements.
	Like, okay, so, you know...
	It's bills.
	Yeah, what bills are you going to pay for me or are you going to help me?
	Do you think you have a better chance of finding your dream man when you're younger or older?
	We'll start here and then work our way.
	I feel older.
	What's that age?
	30?
	Yeah, around 28 to 30.
	No!
	All right.
	What about you?
	Do you think you have a better chance of finding your man at older or younger?
	And what's the age?
	So I'm not trying to find anything, but I feel like I would be ready to settle down by like 25, 26.
	But the question is, do you think a woman has a better chance of finding a man when she's younger or older?
	And then what is that age?
	In between.
	25, 26.
	So whatever you want to call that age, 25, 26.
	Okay.
	Middle age?
	Whatever.
	Is that middle age?
	No.
	No.
	30 is middle age.
	What about you?
	Okay, I hate to say that, but it's probably when the girl younger, of course, she has more chances to find the dream man.
	Besides that, she probably doesn't know what exactly her dream, but she may be going to be lucky enough to...
	How old should she be?
	What do you think?
	25.
	I mean, for me, younger is like 25, 26.
	What about you?
	But it's always a chance.
	I don't feel like there's an age.
	Well, the question is, do you think you have a higher likelihood of finding your dream man when you're older or younger?
	And what is that age?
	I shall say older.
	You know what you want.
	You've experienced life a little bit more.
	Dicks.
	Okay.
	And what is that age group that you think would be?
	What is that age?
	I say 30s.
	30s.
	Okay.
	After all the energy.
	What about you?
	I would say around like from your 20s to 25s, you'll find somebody.
	Well, if you dedicate to finding somebody.
	So younger, you think?
	Yeah.
	All right.
	And what about you?
	I think that we'll find our dream man, just like you said right now.
	I agree with you 100%.
	When the time is right.
	Divine time.
	Divine time.
	You can't put a time on that, which is funny.
	But I think that when you're young, you don't know what you want.
	You see a fine-ass man with a whole lot of money, and you think that's what you want.
	But then when you get with him, his insecurities are ugly.
	He treats you very disrespectfully because he feels superior to you.
	So, no.
	Okay, the question was...
	I think that when you mature, when a woman matures her mind, which is probably in her mid-twenties, early thirties...
	Do you think the likelihood of her finding her dream man is in her mid-twenties?
	Mid-twenties, early thirties, when she knows for sure what she wants, you know, what she's experienced, when she's already experienced all those ugly frogs.
	Okay.
	Do you think that it's...
	Because you mentioned before that the man being superior is a problem, you think?
	Yeah.
	A little bit because...
	Why so?
	Why can't we be equal?
	If money wasn't a problem, if I can provide just as much as you can, why do you feel superior to me?
	Well, let me ask you this.
	Do you want a man that's taller than you?
	Do I want a man that's what?
	Ideally, would you prefer a man that was taller than you?
	Yeah.
	Would you prefer a man that's stronger than you physically?
	Oh man, here we go.
	He's setting me up.
	What would Jesus say?
	Yes, I do.
	Would you prefer a man that can lead you?
	Absolutely.
	Would you prefer a man that's more competent and more intelligent than yourself?
	I just said that.
	Uh-huh.
	I can't disagree.
	Doesn't sound anything equal there to me.
	Ouch.
	But what if I am strong?
	You're not.
	Okay.
	Women are inferior to men physically.
	No, but wait.
	They say I'm yelling, but I'm going to say, I have to say, but the men can't have a kid.
	So, let's say, okay, you're stronger, but the first...
	I have a portal that brings life.
	Exactly.
	We get kids from the men.
	Okay, but that doesn't...
	Again, that means that we are not equal.
	Yeah, we're not.
	We're not.
	But don't...
	You just said a second ago that we...
	Okay, alright.
	Got him!
	Got me.
	I'll think about what I... I'll think about my words.
	Yes, please.
	It's not even that.
	I'm not even doing that to try to trip you up or make you look crazy.
	It's just that I think we give women the privilege of saying things without thinking before they speak and or checking them on what they say when it doesn't make sense.
	I'll be honest.
	A lot of you guys said a bunch of bullshit a second ago.
	I agree.
	Energy, aura, the vibes, blah, blah, blah.
	But when we ask you guys, please define that.
	None of you can actually come to a concrete reason or why you are looking for that.
	The reality is this.
	You want a guy that exemplifies a multitude of things, looks, charm, charisma, status, et cetera, make you feel comfortable while simultaneously still not making you feel too comfortable.
	So he's boring, being able to be thrilling, exciting, et cetera, putting you in your place on your shut the fuck up when you need to hear it.
	But not too much.
	That's the reality.
	But none of you can say this because it sounds ridiculous for you to actually explicitly say what you really want.
	You say dumb shit like the vibe or the aura.
	No, you need a guy that can tell you this is how it is.
	This is what we're going to do.
	I made the plans already.
	Wear this.
	Don't do that, etc.
	Men speak English, not womanese like you guys are speaking about.
	So we have to actually go ahead and tell guys exactly what it is.
	Yeah, I mean, the most attractive thing that a guy can have is dominance.
	Aside from looks and aside from, you know, height and all that shit.
	Basically, personal qualities-wise, it's dominance.
	But it's the ability to temper that dominance with charm and humour and charisma as well.
	And that's when you're thinking about the James Bond character.
	When you're thinking about the Daniel Craig, you know, kind of James Bond.
	It's that kind of vibe, isn't it?
	That's what you need.
	And that's what most guys find so fucking difficult to attain.
	It's not fucking hard.
	They want to experience, for example, fun, a little bit of drama, a little bit of like, you know what, I'm the guy leading you in this scenario.
	And at the same time, having some games and some love.
	Well, sex.
	That's what I meant by love.
	Troy, next question.
	Do you have it for the ladies?
	What is the most unattractive thing that a guy can do when he takes you out on a date?
	I like that one.
	Be insecure.
	We can start here and then work our way.
	Oh my god.
	Be insecure.
	I had a gentleman.
	He was fine.
	He had money.
	But this man and I could not go on dates together, especially in public, because if I were to turn and look at someone else, it's...
	Oh my god.
	But were you having sex though?
	You were hooking up, right?
	With the insecure gentleman?
	Yeah, he was my boyfriend.
	Fine, okay, okay.
	Real quick, you said that you couldn't look at other men.
	Would he tell you, hey, stop doing that?
	Or how would he go about telling you about it?
	It's a wrap.
	The date is over.
	We're packing it up.
	I suppose what I meant really was initial dates.
	Not so much as a boyfriend.
	If some guy you meet on a fucking dating app or whatever, you go on a date, what is the most unattractive thing in that situation?
	Just as advice for the audience, for people who are trying to get their date game on point.
	Um, let's see here.
	I see being too touchy.
	Yeah.
	Hold on, hold on, hold on.
	Let her answer this.
	We'll get to you in a sec.
	Okay.
	Let's just put it like this.
	Nothing will piss me off unless you have bad breath.
	Like, I'll listen to you, we'll vibe or whatever.
	We may not go on a second date, but I'm gonna be cordial.
	Make sure your breath is nice and clean.
	So, you don't tell them?
	Would I tell him?
	Yeah, I'd pass on a Tic Tac.
	But that's different to...
	What would disqualify him for a second date then?
	What would he do that would disqualify him from you seeing him again?
	What would I disqualify him?
	Other than hygiene?
	Other than hygiene?
	I guess.
	Okay, if he is...
	Spending too much time on his phone.
	Like, you didn't wrap it up earlier, you know what I mean?
	We're getting to know each other.
	Don't pull out your cell phone.
	Cause I'm not gonna do it.
	Okay.
	I see.
	I haven't been on a date in a long time.
	I'm guessing just how you speak to me, how you address to me, certain mannerisms, like if you're not polite, especially to the people who are serving us or anything like that.
	That's an important point, isn't it?
	That gets brought up a lot.
	It shows me how you are social proof-wise, if you're capable of being in any type of room and talking to somebody, or are you just a rude-ass nigga?
	Yeah.
	Yeah.
	How you treat your mom, servers, people around you.
	That's what I was gonna say.
	You know that how they talk to their mom on the phone.
	It's like, I got Sunday dinners I like that.
	A family man.
	And for you?
	For me, it would be the lack of attention.
	It's like spam and looking around and I want eye contact.
	Like, we feel something, you know?
	Like, we're here to connect.
	You know what works really well, Troy?
	Active listening.
	Yeah, that's what plays with that.
	I'm focused on her.
	She gets all my attention.
	I'm listening to what she's saying.
	Not to respond, but to actually give a response to, I guess, get more answers.
	Absolutely.
	No, we work with this guy.
	We work with this guy.
	Wow.
	We work with this guy, a conversation expert.
	He's done postgraduate degrees in communication skills and stuff like that.
	You know Chris Voss, the terrorist negotiation guy?
	He's taken some of his techniques, some of his conversational techniques, like how can we apply this in social situations?
	And what he always talks about is exactly what he talks about, empathetic listening.
	So when you're on the date, it's like really getting to know her, but not just in a fucking superficial way.
	Not just like, oh, so you're at the club on Friday, and oh, so how do you get into central Miami usually?
	You know, it's like really getting into what are her hopes, what are her dreams, what are her fucking passions?
	You know, really getting under the surface.
	But I would argue, and I don't know if you guys agree, you also need to couple that with some flirtation as well.
	Absolutely.
	So you're getting to know her, It's a Mario game.
	We're leveling up.
	Exactly.
	One up.
	No good.
	Okay.
	Exactly. - Exactly.
	She knows.
	She's Russian, so it's going to be like, oh, he's got to take me on 15.
	No, no, no.
	I completely agree.
	It's a bad listener.
	Even if he pretends like he listens, but if there is no connection, you're very good at it.
	Thank you.
	I'll take that.
	You're always like, at least make it seem like, but you're good.
	Okay, fine.
	At least you're good at making it seem that you're a good listener.
	Yeah, so, yeah, bad listener because this is really important for many women.
	Okay.
	And then for you?
	I don't like a nigga that woke on his tippy toes.
	I'm not gonna lie, my dead ass went home.
	I'm not understanding.
	I met him on Instagram.
	So he's like, hey, I'm going to take you out.
	I said, okay, where are we going?
	It was down the back of my house.
	So he's like, okay, you don't have to pick me up.
	I'm going to meet you there.
	So I got there and I see him.
	I'm literally clowning him on the phone with my friend.
	Like, look at this nigga walking on his tippy toes.
	Oh, are you behind me?
	I said, no, no.
	Yes, he's literally on his tippy toes.
	Yes.
	Like a Barbie?
	Yes!
	Like you were wearing heels.
	No heels.
	I'm sorry.
	Not wearing heels.
	Not like a Barbie.
	Hell man!
	Hell man!
	So, he was wearing high heels?
	No, he was wearing regular Jordans.
	Why was he walking on his tippy toes in particular?
	I can't ask.
	He was short.
	She's like, I didn't stick around for that.
	I'm 5'6", so like 5'5".
	Okay.
	That's why he was trying to make it seem that he was telling you.
	Impairments?
	Right.
	And then another thing I don't like when like, okay, it's my first date.
	First date, do not rub your leg on me.
	You know what's funny?
	If she liked him, it wouldn't matter.
	But she don't like him like that.
	Mate, if he was six foot five, Chad, you'd have been like, oh, I fucking love the way he was walking around on tippy toes.
	I fucking love the way he was like...
	It was so cute, the way he was doing that tippy toes thing.
	You do it right.
	That's pretty funny though.
	And for you?
	And for me, no.
	You just have to have interest.
	It's the lack of interest.
	If you're not really interested in what I'm talking to you or what I'm telling you.
	Yeah, so...
	Or when I'm just anything.
	If you're not looking at me, you're not like checking me out.
	You're not like, I don't know.
	Yeah, like, I want you, you know, like, I had a tiger.
	So how would you know that he's not giving you that attention, you would say?
	A guy that he's just on his phone.
	Crickets.
	Exactly.
	He's on his phone.
	You're like trying to talk to him and he just gives you them simple answers and he doesn't even ask you nothing back.
	It's just like, boy, I'm wasting my time.
	Goodbye.
	That's a big part when they don't ask questions back or try to get to know.
	Try to make the conversation keep going.
	This interview is over.
	Why don't you ask me and you?
	Because I'm here.
	And you and yourself.
	I'm here.
	But she said two really key things there, two really interesting things, which is bringing that eye of the tiger, like you said, like that strong eye contact and also that sort of sexual intent.
	And I think bringing those things out on the date is really important because if you're not bringing those things out on the date, you could be having a nice conversation.
	Do you know what I mean?
	And you're talking about this and that and your 401k and your fucking office job and whatever.
	But if there's nothing underlying it, if there's no intent, then what is there for her to...
	Why is she going to be into that?
	Exactly.
	Right.
	If there's no, like, oh, we should go somewhere, like, oh, we should go camping, or, oh, we should go do this.
	I told somebody, I was like, listen, let's go out for an ice cream.
	You know, let's go out for an ice cream day or something.
	Like, you know, a little different, simple, again, intimate, but you can get to know the person a little deeper.
	I like my niggas to take me out the state.
	Take me out the country.
	I'm going to go away.
	Take me to Jamaica or something.
	I don't know.
	Yeah, Shorley just want to have some fun, man.
	But something she also said as well is guys who make it all about them, right?
	It's all about me, me, me.
	I did this, I, I. Yeah, that's where we ever tried to throw away.
	Good for you.
	Like, if you sit up there and talk about all your accomplishments, it's kind of like...
	Or a guy saying, oh, I need money.
	I need to look for some money.
	Oh, no, like this.
	Oh, no, like that.
	That broke energy, like, stop.
	Well, I don't know who's doing that.
	But as Mario was saying, you as a guy are the employer.
	She's the employee.
	You answer questions to see if she gets a job with you.
	Pretty much.
	All right.
	Troy, what was your next one?
	What is the thing that will give you the ick?
	You know, what is the thing that will turn you off a guy if you've been dating him for, you know, a few weeks, a month, a couple of months or whatever?
	What is it that's going to make you turn off from that guy and be like, fuck this dude, I don't want to see him anymore?
	So this is after...
	We'll start here, right?
	Yeah, this is after...
	She kind of already answered this, but yeah, we can start here and they'll work our way.
	So you're dating him now, a little more serious.
	What could turn you off, I guess, like all the way?
	Completely.
	They want to know all the secrets.
	There's a thing, there's a thing, there's a thing.
	We're just like, give it to them.
	They're trying to get the code.
	That's what we're here for.
	But there's a thing in the men's sort of dating advice space called the light switch effect.
	And they say that women can turn off very quickly.
	You know, like one day she's like, oh, baby, I'm into you.
	And then the next day, I'm not happy.
	And then that's it.
	You're done.
	So what is it that causes that?
	Literally, if you're disloyal, if I go through your phone or something like that...
	That's where you're fucking up at.
	You're not supposed to be fucking through your phone.
	I don't do that.
	I don't do that.
	But if you have a girl calling you at three in the morning while we sleep, it's like, that's an issue.
	That's my auntie.
	Stop lying.
	She worried about my well-being.
	Three o'clock in the morning?
	Some other auntie.
	Why are you not supposed to go through the phone?
	I like to go through the phone.
	You like to go through the phone.
	I can't lose no more weight.
	You can take mine and I take yours.
	Yeah, what's the problem?
	If we're together, if you're loyal, we're in a relationship.
	That isn't supposed to be an issue.
	What if it's...
	Not that serious of a relationship yet.
	You guys have been, like, hooking up for a little while.
	Like, surely at that point, you shouldn't be going through the phone.
	Do you know what I mean?
	And plus, you got to set the stage at the beginning.
	You know what I'm saying?
	You don't want to set that whole, yeah, use my phone now.
	You can go through my underwear, but I can go through your phone.
	That's two different things.
	Wait, wait, wait.
	Well, you don't pay for the man's bill to be going through the phone.
	Yeah.
	- But what if I do though? - I mean, why would you pay me in the phone bill? - I'm not saying, what if he's not a man if you gotta pay for his bills, - Hey, he's texting out a bitch, why you paying that shit?
	Uh-uh.
	- I'm paying for that bill. - You can't guarantee that shit. - All right, ladies, ladies, ladies, ladies. - You're gonna give me that phone back. - One mic at a time so we know what you're actually saying.
	So for you, it's a girl calls you.
	Is that what it was?
	Huh?
	Yes.
	If a girl is calling you...
	Another woman contacts him?
	Yes.
	Like, there's loyalty.
	I don't...
	That's a turn off.
	Like, I would simply just leave you.
	Oh, okay.
	That's cool, cool.
	You want her right?
	Just for a girl contacting him.
	Yes.
	No, like, no, like, on some disrespectful, like, oh, hey, baby, like, how are you?
	And stuff like that.
	But can he actually control that, though?
	If another woman contacts him?
	If there's messages that go back, that he's going back and forth for her.
	So there's a conversation.
	Exactly, yes.
	That's not what you said before.
	If he's leading her, yes.
	But would you like to date a man with no sexual experience?
	No, tampoco así, like, no.
	Or who is not good with women?
	Not like that.
	Huh?
	That he's not good with women?
	You wouldn't want to date a guy that was not good with women?
	I just wouldn't want a guy that has a lot of women around him when he's with me.
	That's it.
	Interesting.
	So basically, a woman contacts him and he entertains it.
	Okay.
	What about you?
	Insecurity.
	Like, if I'm going outside...
	You find that specifically.
	If I'm going outside and I'm wearing this...
	Okay.
	And you see...
	But I'm covered.
	But you see me.
	Barely.
	And you tell me to change...
	Shut up.
	If you tell me to change, it's just like, what do I got to change for?
	You know I'm coming right back to you.
	So it's just like, what's the problem?
	What's the issue?
	Another thing.
	If you tell me to stop posting because I'm posting too much and niggas is on my...
	I had a boyfriend like that.
	What do you mean?
	Instagram is for pictures and that's what the fuck I'm going to do.
	Post pictures.
	I'm confused.
	Yo!
	So, insecurity.
	I don't like insecurity.
	The force is strong with this one.
	Holy!
	You just got to be secure.
	That's all right.
	Goddamn!
	You can't.
	All right.
	What about you?
	What is it?
	I don't understand what kind of relationship we have.
	Because I don't have that big experience.
	I don't have that many boyfriends in the past.
	So are we already intimate together or what's going on?
	Intimate, but you're seeing each other consistently.
	Yeah, but not super serious.
	No, if we intimate, it's super serious.
	What do I mean?
	What do you mean?
	A sneaky link is not super serious.
	Okay.
	No, for me, let's say...
	But that's what we're talking about, sneaky link.
	Oh, so then, yeah, so you got to tell her it's a sneaky link, not somebody that you go on the side and, you know, do a little...
	If we're just more like a friend, let's say, we like each other, blah, blah, blah, but we're not really intimate, like...
	Deep connection and stuff.
	Then, of course, I'm not going to check his phone.
	And it's one thing.
	But if we are more, like, into each other, then it's...
	For me, it's more serious than three things men supposed to do.
	Protection, as I said, listener and leader.
	If he doesn't do one of them, it's turn up.
	Like, I can give him chances, like, wait for that.
	Maybe he's going to figure out.
	I understand.
	American guys...
	Not as smart as the Russian woman, but the guys like they're very smart in some point.
	Like, let's say, like, I don't know, like trades or some stocks or I don't know, engineering, engineering.
	Okay.
	Yeah.
	And actually get a job in engineering.
	Yeah, true.
	I agree 100%.
	The guy's very good in engineering as well.
	I give you like the first place here.
	But in the relationship general and in like, I don't know, in many things, I think sometimes women can be wiser, let's say, not smarter.
	Okay, so you're saying if he doesn't lead, if he doesn't, what was the other one?
	Protect or listening.
	Okay.
	But wouldn't you...
	Okay.
	That's fine.
	Does that suffice for your answer?
	Because I guess for her, she's looking at it a little bit further down the line.
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	Yeah.
	No, that's fair enough.
	That's fair enough.
	All right.
	Lead, protect, and what was the last one?
	I'm sorry.
	Listen?
	Listen.
	Okay.
	Like, it's also about the money.
	Like, here's the guy's like, oh, even Zorka said, like, my money, my money.
	And you're like, blah, blah, blah.
	I give you a credit card.
	What do you mean?
	If I'm with you, if we're, again, it's more, yeah, it's more deeper connection, but whatever.
	Okay.
	What about you?
	What's an instantly ruin or relationship that you got with a guy in the early stages?
	Definitely the jealousy.
	Jealousy?
	Yeah.
	Period.
	Simple.
	Can you simple jealousy in what way?
	Jealousy in, again, guys, the way you act.
	Just things that they feel that they can control or that they want to control at first.
	I feel.
	So let's say an example would be.
	Of controlling, yeah.
	We're talking or something like that.
	And you want to go with your friends to the club.
	And I say to you, babe, you know what?
	At this point, I think you're just still home with me.
	It's a little bit crazy.
	I don't like that type of energy.
	What are you going to say?
	I mean, Dan, you're coming.
	I mean, really calm.
	I'm going to ask you, hey, why are you thinking?
	What's up?
	You know, I got an event.
	I'm an artist.
	After all, if you feel like that, do you want to come with me?
	Yeah.
	You know what I'm saying?
	Okay, but what if I just don't want my girl to be out there like that?
	I mean, you got to have a solid reason.
	You can't just tell me no.
	Yes.
	Yeah, I mean, you got to explain what your thought is behind that intention.
	You feel me?
	Is it the intention that you don't want me to go out just because you feel a thing?
	Or is it really the intention you really feel something and you really don't want me to go out?
	That's different.
	You feel me?
	I always wonder, because if a guy is going to be your leader and he tells us something out of respect, hey, I don't like this, why question it?
	Bobby, I'm going to be home.
	At the beginning, that's the point.
	You're supposed to keep that momentum.
	You're supposed to keep that leadership, right?
	But along the way, nothing's perfect, of course.
	Things, we get disappointed, right?
	When women get disappointed, things get shaky.
	No, Bobby, you should stay home.
	If you find a man, what the fuck you need to go outside?
	It's not even that.
	It's more so in general, right?
	Because then you're accustomed to them once and it's like that's an expectation.
	So again, if it's a day you really feel a way and you're telling me your gut feeling, baby, I'm going to follow that.
	That's your gut feeling.
	I'm very big on my intuition.
	But now, if it's, I got to figure out your intentions correct.
	That's it.
	So one night, gut feeling, yes.
	The rest of the night's no.
	Absolutely.
	Well, I have a question.
	What if it's going to be the opposite?
	He wants to go outside and you want to stay home with him.
	Will it work the same way?
	He's going to like, no, I'm going to go.
	Again, yeah, make your life a moving prayer, right?
	I have that status.
	So it's like you got to treat people.
	I'm going to treat him how I want to be treated at the end of the day.
	So if that's how I want to be treated and I want things to carry, yeah.
	Make your life a moving prayer.
	I have to trust you.
	If not, what the fuck is the point of all this?
	Straight up.
	Could we just say that?
	Make your life a moving prayer.
	Yeah, make your life a moving prayer.
	For sure.
	Practice what you preach.
	That's beautiful.
	Okay.
	So you want him to treat you the way you want to be treated?
	Yeah, we treat...
	Yeah, of course.
	And you're going to treat him the same way?
	Why not?
	Stop the cat!
	Interesting.
	No, why is that a fucking cat?
	I want to...
	And especially when, again, I'm in a different level of life.
	And you said you want the man to lead too, right?
	We can both lead, I feel like.
	Why can't we both lead?
	He can take that lead, first place, whatever.
	By the end of the day, I'm a visionary.
	Also, we both bring a lot of things to the table that we can use and work together.
	You do understand if one person leads, that means someone else has to follow.
	Whatever.
	Hold my hand.
	Together.
	Number one.
	But one person has to lead the relationship.
	Then that's cool.
	So who does it need to be?
	I don't know.
	I guess who's...
	Me!
	Can make it happen.
	Who can make it happen?
	Because you don't know.
	So who do you...
	Okay, for a relationship to actually work...
	Definitely the guy, of course.
	Said the thing, but I feel like since we're educators and we're nurturers, it's like we're gonna set the tone, I feel.
	Really?
	Yeah.
	Again, I want you to, I want things to go this, oh hey babe, this and that, but at the end of the day, they want our opinion.
	They want the way we think.
	Oh, we want to learn what you're thinking.
	Tell us straight up.
	Yeah, but who makes the final decision though?
	We both do, because without me finalizing that, too, then again, no.
	Excuse me?
	Yeah.
	Hey, baby, what are you thinking?
	Yeah, you're thinking about it, though, in a way of very basic in what's going on now.
	I want something different.
	This is what I want to remember.
	How many people run the United States, the most powerful country in the world?
	That's what's up.
	How many people run it?
	How many people run it?
	I hate you.
	One in a team.
	How many people run a successful company?
	Many.
	It takes many.
	But who's the final decision maker?
	Cool.
	But to get to that, there's always a higher up.
	Yeah, so you do understand that anything that is actually worth a damn, typically there's one final decision maker.
	I agree with you on that, but again, what I want you to agree with is in the part of this also, the other opinion has to matter.
	She tries to say that you're supposed to make your decision bigger.
	Together in her needs.
	No, not at all.
	Our needs.
	But sometimes women don't know what they need.
	And that's cool.
	But again, that's what I'm saying.
	Take the fucking lead.
	But I'm also going to tell you my opinion and what I think and then we can figure it out from there.
	It's a compromise.
	No.
	Is a man responsible for protecting you?
	Yes.
	Yeah.
	Yes.
	So if he is responsible for protecting you, right?
	As my man, yes.
	Okay.
	Okay, wouldn't it be fair to say that he has a degree of authority over you too?
	What do you mean authority?
	Explain authority.
	I'm not a possession.
	I'm not an item.
	You cannot possess.
	You feel me?
	You cannot.
	But explain what you mean by authority.
	Yeah.
	If I am charged with protecting you and putting my life on the line to protect you, by default, that means I have a degree of authority over you because I'm responsible for protecting you.
	Authority, right?
	Responsibility without authority is slavery.
	The problem is that women want the guy to protect them and put their neck on the line for someone who's not going to listen to them.
	That's foolish.
	That's slavery.
	If I am tasked with protecting you, then you need to listen to what I say.
	If I tell you, sit your ass inside the house, you sit in the fucking house.
	I'm not going to sit there and explain myself to a female why you need to sit in the house.
	Hold on, let me continue.
	Right?
	Because women, quite frankly, don't know shit about how the real world works.
	Women typically aren't the victims of violence, like men are.
	Women don't understand the craziness that men are capable of.
	And a lot of the times, I'm not going to sit here and explain to you, hey, I don't want you going to the club on XYZ night because XYZ. This is what it is.
	You expect me to protect for you, provide for you, lead you?
	Then follow what the fuck I said and sit your ass inside the house.
	I think it's crazy to me.
	Women expect men...
	To sit there and protect them, but they will not listen to that same man who was tasked with protecting them.
	But you gotta build that.
	I feel like it depends on deliverance and tone.
	You can tell me to sit the fuck down and whatever the hell you want, but it's about how you say it.
	Because I can listen to my man.
	My man gonna tell me what to do.
	Okay, cool.
	I'm gonna sit down.
	But bitch, sit the fuck.
	Wait.
	Hold on.
	You can make a woman feel very submissive or you can make a woman feel gangster.
	So what you doing?
	You gonna make me feel horny or you gonna make me feel tight?
	What are you doing?
	Exactly.
	Except you.
	I could sit down, ain't about nothing.
	I could listen to you.
	But watch how you speak to me.
	You know what's interesting?
	Women like you love it even more when they say, shut the fuck up.
	I do.
	So you just contradicted yourself.
	I do.
	I do.
	I'm toxic as fuck.
	I'ma tell you that.
	So what you just said literally doesn't work for a woman like you because a woman like you...
	Here's the thing.
	I've noticed you're fairly a masculine female, which means you need an even more masculine man.
	So a guy needs to damn near come to...
	I don't want to say physically attack you, but he needs to tell you, shut the fuck up and sit inside.
	And you need to understand that there's that threat of potential consequence from him behaving that way.
	But isn't that kind of crazy that it raises masculinity up to that level?
	So my thing is this.
	I tell guys, look, you're the leader.
	Don't sit there and let women, you know, bully them.
	Because you were saying something as well where you don't like, you think it's insecure.
	You don't like insecurity when a guy tells you to change or Instagram posts.
	But wouldn't it be fair to say that he's probably telling you that for some logically sound reason?
	Hey, I don't want a bunch of thirsty, strange, creepy individuals hitting on my girl and putting her in a situation.
	Because you got to remember too, Who's responsible for protecting you?
	That same man.
	Okay.
	But on my behalf, I'm speaking on my relationship, right?
	I never had a person to protect me as you speak, right?
	So I've used to insecure men.
	So that's what I'm speaking on.
	I'm used to defending myself.
	You were single when you were doing this.
	Doing what?
	Like posting on Instagram and doing all this stuff.
	No, I was not.
	You were talking with the guy.
	I was in a relationship for four years.
	Okay.
	But wouldn't it be cool to say that if you're in a relationship with a guy and he says these things...
	It's not really insecurity?
	Okay, no, not technically, because I know he was insecure.
	He told me himself, right?
	I don't mean to, but literally, so...
	So he told you...
	It's not even sugar-coated.
	I'm insecure.
	You're not going to the club.
	Nah, that nigga took a perk, whatever the fuck, and on the side, he was like, I'm not gonna lie, babe, I'm deadass insecure.
	Like, I'm jealous over you.
	I don't want no nigga looking at you.
	Respectfully, he told me that.
	So it's like, okay, cool.
	I respect that, but I cannot have you around me.
	I'm outside.
	I'm pretty.
	I would argue that that is actually brave, not insecure.
	Because if he was really insecure, he wouldn't have told you anything and let you do what you wanted to do.
	That's why I had to pop a perk to tell you the truth.
	That was a very uncomfortable situation for him to be in.
	Most men can be honest with women.
	But you can be honest with me, though.
	Do you think it's insecure because he's afraid that some other dude's going to take you?
	Yeah.
	And therefore, he should be more secure in himself.
	And that's my thing.
	If you know I'm coming right back to you, why be insecure that somebody might take me or you might have a...
	Because you never know what can happen.
	I understand that, but don't feel that way.
	There's a lot of situations.
	There's a lot of men that are stronger than you.
	And that's insecurity.
	They can pull you into a car or a van.
	That's insecurity.
	Because I go outside as a better bitch than me.
	You know what I mean?
	My nigga can probably see her.
	But I know you're coming back to me.
	You get what I'm saying?
	Like, I'm not here.
	I'm not about to be like, oh, yeah, my man knows home.
	It's home.
	It's home.
	No, I ain't none of that.
	But I'm saying, no, you're going to come back to me.
	We fucking, all right, back.
	Cool.
	Next day.
	Really?
	Yo, this is scary, bro.
	I'm serious.
	May I say that if the guy take responsibility for me, if he following my needs, my wants first, let's say, if he think about me, then it's okay.
	I'm going to listen.
	But if he going to say, shut the fuck or whatever...
	Just because his ego, just because he wants to be like, oh, I'm a leader without even having anything like behind that, then it's bullshit.
	That's what probably girls saying.
	But if the guy following, like he take my interest first, then it's okay.
	I understand.
	He's saying, do not go to the club because it's in my best interest.
	There's a problem here, right?
	Which is that women crave attention.
	So the keys to the kingdom, really, the gold of the realm is attention, right, for women.
	So they want to get the attention, but they also want to play on both sides because they also want to say that the guy who knows full well that she wants to get this attention and that attention maybe could lead somewhere else under certain circumstances.
	She wants to say it's insecure for that guy to say, I don't want you to go to the club.
	Right?
	But she also would like the attention that she would get from going to the club.
	So it's kind of like you're being a little bit disingenuous in a way because you know full well that you're going to go to the club.
	You're going to get these guys hitting on you and blah, blah, blah.
	And you might choose to exercise your hypergamy in that situation.
	So there's some justification for the guy to be insecure.
	Or not insecure, it's just that he's into you.
	Not justification, because you should never be justified for being secure.
	Be secure.
	Know who you are.
	I agree, I agree.
	You can know who you are, but you can't control somebody's actions at the end of the day.
	So if you're my female and I'm a man or whatever the case might be, I don't want you out there even Having a choice of option, you know what I mean?
	And that's where I say you picked the wrong woman.
	Same thing with you, because if you pick a man and he has a whole bunch of options, you're going to feel like you're getting dogged out, that you're out here getting dragged out.
	I can't do no rap.
	But you understand it's the same type of context, though, because you're giving that choice of option.
	WIC. But the point is, right, even the most secure dude in the world, even the most high-value fucking man in the world, most secure, most jacked, tallest, most money, all of that bullshit, whatever, right, even that guy doesn't really want his girl going to the club and having other dudes hitting on her.
	Do you know what I mean?
	Now, you could say, well, he should be just so alpha that he just doesn't give a fuck and he's completely zen to it.
	But that's not really the reality of it.
	There's always going to be, because men are very jealous, there's always going to be that peripheral jealousy.
	So I think it's a little bit disingenuous to be sort of tarring men with this brush of, oh, you're insecure.
	It's not necessarily, it's just natural male instinct, isn't it, for protection.
	Actually, you should be worried if he doesn't care about you going out.
	Exactly.
	If he cares about you, any lick of care at all.
	Anything at all?
	He said, you know what?
	Damn.
	I like this girl.
	He should be inside because I care about you.
	If he doesn't care anything about you, go do what you want.
	I don't care.
	No, but like every night, I mean, yeah.
	Okay, question.
	Wouldn't you prefer to go with your man rather than without your man?
	I'm sorry?
	Would you prefer to go with your man or without your man?
	I'd rather go with my man.
	I don't want to pay shit.
	You don't pay shit regardless.
	But the point is, if he's going with you, then it's even better.
	Exactly.
	The question, if I'm not mistaken, going back, was what is the biggest thing that will turn you off in a somewhat relationship with a guy, right?
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	Go ahead, Icy.
	I would say communication.
	I'm not really so much of a headache.
	Stop the cow!
	No, I'm not.
	Because I'm not sitting here annoying.
	I'm not texting him 24-7.
	I'm not calling 24-7.
	I'm not one of those annoying bitches.
	Anyways, continuing on.
	It's just more or less communication.
	If I'm hitting you up, especially if I'm adding value to your business or anything like that, If you don't respond within, I would say, that day, that's more or less where I start being like, alright, this is not worth my energy, this is not worth my time, you got 24 hours, if not.
	And it could just be something simple, you know what I mean?
	I don't ask for much, you know what I mean?
	It's just communication.
	If you don't have that and you just, fuck it, I'm not getting nowhere because you don't want to give me sex.
	What about you?
	You said already, being insecure, right?
	You want to finish that story off?
	Absolutely.
	Carry yourself with confidence.
	If I'm with you, if I've given you my time of day, if I've allowed you into my space, Continue what you were doing before.
	Why?
	So, question.
	You said that you were like looking at other guys and your ex didn't like that?
	That's true, yeah.
	Can you give us an example of that real fast?
	I won't forget it, okay?
	I'm gonna share the last day that I had enough.
	Okay.
	We were at a restaurant and a couple walked in and just because I turned around, just because I saw motion, you know, I'm a human.
	I turned my neck.
	Oh my god.
	It was over.
	It was over.
	I was looking at the man.
	I wanted the man.
	What was his sign?
	Scorpio.
	Oh yeah.
	I have a question.
	When you're out with a guy, y'all don't just seem to need to just put your head down and just only pay attention to the person you're with.
	Facts!
	No, no, no.
	I'm literally...
	Wait, question.
	It's not because someone...
	It's not put your head down, but it's more or less like when you're on a date with somebody.
	I naturally do this.
	I don't know about you guys.
	I'm in my own little world in a day.
	It's more or less if I walk into a spot, my head is down, I'm making sure I'm watching where I'm stepping at, but I'm not trying to make eye contact with nobody.
	Then I sit down, eye contact's on the person, nobody else.
	So I'm genuinely asking, do you guys do this?
	They pushed me.
	They were walking by.
	Where did they push me?
	You said motion, motion.
	You said you felt motion.
	I felt motion, exactly.
	He had my attention, sis.
	He had my attention.
	Stop it.
	Get some help.
	So anyway, so this couple walks in, you look at the man.
	What did your boyfriend say at the time?
	He got pissed off.
	What did he say, specifically?
	He didn't even say nothing.
	He just asked for the check, and his look said it all.
	You know?
	You finished eating?
	No.
	The food just came.
	It was over.
	Did he just pay for the check and get up and leave?
	Yeah.
	No, we walked together.
	Of course he didn't leave me.
	He told you to get up or you followed him?
	No.
	You know it's a wrap.
	Hello, can I get the check?
	Okay.
	Pay for it.
	It's time to go.
	So you didn't stay.
	You left with him.
	We left together.
	Did he say anything to you?
	Boy, that ride was so silent.
	He was getting ready to take me to the sugarcane field to drop me off.
	Did he break up with you after that?
	Did he try?
	No.
	He didn't break up with me.
	I had to let him go.
	You let him go?
	I had to.
	She said he tried.
	So you wouldn't leave him when you tried to break up with me.
	I did!
	I was the one that broke up with him.
	Okay.
	That was that day.
	Do you think it's appropriate for a woman that's in a relationship with a guy to look at another dude?
	It's not appropriate, but in this instant, guys, it was something that was not intentional, okay?
	I wasn't looking at the guy because I was attracted to him.
	You said it a second ago.
	No, I did not.
	It was just a person walking by.
	Yes, Mara, she did.
	Okay.
	What's your background?
	When did she say that?
	What's my background?
	I don't remember her saying she wanted the guy that walked behind her.
	They're putting words in my mouth.
	I would say that you said that he said that you wanted the guy.
	That came out of his mouth.
	Was the guy hot?
	It was an old man.
	Come on, man.
	Was he a sugar daddy?
	Kind of, sort of.
	What's your background?
	What's my background?
	Puerto Rican.
	Okay, so...
	What's up?
	You know what's funny?
	What?
	It's because if you know your man who's a type of way about something, why do it?
	It's like, you know...
	Oh, guys, it wasn't like that, though.
	But if you respect your man, you know what?
	He doesn't like these things that I'm doing right now.
	Don't do it.
	Absolutely.
	I agree.
	It's emotion.
	Fuck that nigga.
	All right.
	What's up, babe?
	Yeah, yeah, yeah.
	Because you know time of this.
	Oh, my God.
	I'm just saying he was your sugar dad you said?
	no he was not my sugar dad he was my boyfriend my boyfriend did he have a yeah he was good was he old?
	no he was young How old was he?
	He was 30.
	And you were 30 at the same time?
	I was like 29.
	29.
	Okay.
	Do you think...
	So you looked at the guy and then he broke up with you.
	You know, it's interesting because guys typically don't act like that off of just one instance.
	I would be willing to bet that this probably happened on multiple occasions and he got tired of it.
	You're funny.
	Yes, I do.
	I swear to God.
	I don't know what it is with Puerto Rican chicks, bro.
	You touch them, they get pregnant.
	What the fuck's going on, nigga?
	Wait, what?
	What did you say?
	He's saying I'm fertile.
	I don't know what it is.
	Men typically don't behave like that.
	There was a pattern of behavior that probably led him to act that way.
	You had probably fucked up a few times, and then that was the end of it.
	Well, you say fucked up.
	She's smiling, too, because she knows I'm right on point.
	Myron, you guys will be best friends.
	You guys will get along so well.
	It could also be that he lost respect for her.
	Because, sorry, that she lost respect for him.
	Yeah, 100%.
	Because when women do these things, when they start to do these micro little, you know, disrespectful things, it tends to be that they've lost respect for the dude.
	And once the respect has gone, you're fucked.
	Yeah.
	Yeah, it's true.
	Once they start going against what you're saying.
	She don't like him that much.
	Because if she did, she'll be like this.
	Yeah.
	Focus.
	Oh my God, that's exactly what he said.
	That's what I was saying.
	You don't like him that much.
	That's what I brought up.
	That's what I said.
	My boyfriend...
	She was tolerating him because he had money.
	That's what it was.
	Hey, hey, hey, let's not go there.
	Don't do me like that.
	You don't want to be exposed this way.
	Yeah, I mean, it's just like, bro.
	I see.
	Come on.
	I see.
	Women stick together.
	Was he your baby daddy?
	No, he wasn't.
	There you go.
	It was not.
	Don't do that.
	Don't do that.
	Listen.
	Typical situation.
	Just saying.
	Yeah, I think if anything, because you said he was insecure because you did that, I think that's very secure for him to just get up and say, I'm not going to tell her this disrespect anymore and end the date right then and there.
	Listen.
	Listen.
	Okay.
	You guys are doing...
	You guys are being extremists right now.
	You guys are doing a little too much right now.
	We're being extremists.
	Okay, yeah.
	We're being extremists.
	Go ahead.
	Because this was...
	My intentions were not this...
	God damn, this man looked good as fuck.
	Damn!
	It wasn't like that.
	It was just like...
	Oh, so you did say...
	You know, that's what it was.
	Why did he interpret it?
	I mean, look, we're only hearing your side of the story.
	Why did he interpret it like that?
	Do you know what I mean?
	Y'all help me figure that out.
	Because why?
	You probably displayed a pattern of behaviors that were treacherous that may display some type of infidelity and he had a problem with that.
	What kind of man would you label him as?
	And that was the straw that broke the camel's back and that's why he ended it.
	I guarantee it was a bunch of different behaviors in tandem together that pissed him off and that's why he did that.
	To be fair, if it was an older man, regardless of the facts, like you said earlier, the things you did before that caused him to act that way in the moment.
	And I can tell that you're also a fairly masculine woman.
	You probably talk back to him.
	You're probably like, no, probably disagreeable, etc.
	And all these things like climb up and he's just going to be like, fuck this shit.
	No.
	I actually want a man to lead.
	When I'm always making decisions, when my brain's always brain-wrestling, always thinking, making decisions.
	It's tough.
	It is.
	It's hard.
	So please allow a man who is very confident in himself, who has gained or achieved a lot of his own personal goals, go on and decide for me.
	I will be quiet.
	I will be respectful.
	So let's add these two together.
	Lost respect, multiple acts of infidelity in a way of maybe progressing to that point, and we get what you did, basically.
	Am I wrong?
	Am I right?
	So I'm adding what you said, which is, for example, lost respect, and then two, multiple acts of you doing that.
	The bottom line is lack of respect.
	If you look at a guy that kills his wife or does some crazy shit to his girlfriend or whatever.
	Hold on.
	Hold on.
	Hear me out.
	The root cause of it nine out of ten times is always a lack of respect.
	Men will kill for a lack of respect.
	Are you saying that's okay?
	Where did I say it was okay?
	No, I was asking because you said it as like, no, that's normal.
	We advocate don't ever hit women, touch women at all.
	Okay.
	So he never said that.
	Nowhere did I say it was okay.
	I never said you said that.
	I'm asking.
	Well, I mean, I didn't say it.
	So therefore, what is the point of asking the questions?
	Continue.
	She's so serious.
	So anyway, what I said was the bottom line is men kill women a lot of times for lack of respect, right?
	Whether he kills a cheating wife or a girlfriend or attack somebody, typically violence is enacted when they feel disrespected.
	So what I'm saying is that him behaving that way was probably a culmination of multiple instances of disrespect, which is why he did that.
	Because men don't ask for much from women.
	However, women require a lot of men.
	So if a guy doesn't even get respect...
	They get pretty pissed off.
	So let me ask you a question, because you guys, believe it or not, believe it or not, yeah, oh my god, very similar.
	Like, I'm pretty sure you guys are on his favorites, like, on YouTube and stuff.
	I'm pretty sure he follows you guys.
	But...
	Sure.
	Help me out here.
	Help me out here.
	Is that something, as a man, okay, and you're out on a date with a lady friend, Do you require her to...
	Do you find it an insult if her eyes just go the other way for one second?
	Yes.
	I mean, it's disrespectful, yeah.
	It's pretty disrespectful.
	How would you feel if you're a man looking at every hot girl left and right when you were sitting under?
	Guys, but it wasn't like that.
	I understand where you're coming from, but I promise you this is innocent.
	Wow.
	Every other time.
	Every other time.
	This is like one of those Agatha Christie stories.
	It's all the clues running up.
	She's saying that she just momentarily glanced at this dude.
	Okay, fine.
	Whatever, fine.
	If that may be the case, that's fine.
	But it does seem like maybe there was a bit of a pattern.
	But the general point about lack of respect, I think, is very key.
	Because, guys...
	One of the reasons why guys get so fucking mad about lack of respect is because they know inside they've lost it.
	They know they've lost the fucking frame.
	And that's why they get so fucking angry.
	Because on some level they think, I've fucked this up.
	And they kind of have, to be honest, because we have to fucking level up and we have to be the ones who hold that dominant frame at all times.
	Yeah.
	The thing is, ladies, is that everything about women is, you know, mystique, right?
	We call it the feminine mystique, right?
	We talk about this.
	We don't know when you guys have your periods.
	We don't know if you guys are interested.
	We don't know when you guys are ovulating.
	Everything about female nature typically is concealing, right?
	Not showing interest, etc.
	So when a girl overtly looks at another male, that is a huge form of disrespect because women don't typically show interest.
	And men know this subconsciously, right?
	If a girl compliments a guy, it's rare.
	We're not used to it.
	That's true.
	Women typically don't show interest in men.
	You know what I mean?
	So if a woman shows interest in another man in front of you, that's one of the biggest forms of disrespect because men know how rare that is.
	So for her to overtly do it in front of you is a huge sign of disrespect.
	And really, the guy at that point, the guy should leave at that point.
	And the guy should end the relationship at that point.
	Oh, Lord, have mercy, guys.
	Again.
	I'm not necessarily you.
	We're just using your stuff as an example to speak more of a general point.
	You get it?
	Now, I have no complaints about this man because he actually was really good, except for this part right here where he just had very low tolerance for this disrespect.
	But my question to you guys...
	Do you regret losing him?
	Do I regret losing him?
	Be honest.
	Yes.
	You had to think about that.
	Yes, you did.
	You know you miss him.
	I don't miss him because he had a really ugly attitude.
	He had this really ugly attitude.
	But you miss him.
	I really don't miss him.
	She got a boyfriend.
	My question is...
	If, again, the woman just looked innocently, how can we fix this?
	Because I didn't get to fix it.
	I didn't think I was wrong.
	I was like, go ahead.
	Like I said before, it wasn't just an innocent look.
	I guarantee you did a whole bunch of other things that pissed them off prior, and that was a straw that broke the camel's back.
	And you know you did, too.
	Yeah.
	I can tell from the way that you're looking at me.
	I'll be honest with y'all.
	We ask you guys a bunch of questions that we already know the answer to.
	Y'all really can't fool us.
	We know women better than they know themselves.
	That's why you guys say dumb shit like the vibe and aura.
	We're able to decode that womanese because we've spoken to enough of you guys from different ages, different countries, different backgrounds.
	And yeah, I mean, I just know when men behave a certain way, nine out of ten times is because of something the woman did in response because men are very simple and And it's very difficult to agitate men.
	So if you got him agitated off of just looking at a man, I know for a fact you did a bunch of shit beforehand and pissed him off.
	But it could be something he's dealing with too.
	It is.
	Mommy issues.
	Let her come out.
	That boy had mommy issues.
	He had...
	Explain mommy issues.
	I want to know what that is for you.
	Okay, he had a really bad relationship with his mom.
	Bad relationship.
	Really bad relationship.
	So how is that?
	His mom...
	Because for some reason, he felt like when he saw a little bit of flaw in a woman, it reminded him of his mom and how she failed as a woman and it just got ugly.
	So, no, I don't miss him.
	I don't miss him.
	I don't miss him.
	That's how I'm more confident.
	Yeah, that was it.
	That's wild.
	Back then, yes, but you got to understand, and you guys got to side with us women, that, you know, you learn a person gradually when experiences present themselves.
	When situations Come about.
	So you want our pity because you chose the wrong person and you stayed?
	No, I left.
	Why did you leave in the end?
	Because that was the final straw.
	I swear to God.
	What you perceived as his insecurity.
	Yeah, that was crazy.
	Taking me to the sugar game fields?
	Yeah, boy.
	Explain that.
	What do you mean?
	He was trying to take me to the sugarcane fields in Pahokee, Florida.
	Belgrade, Florida.
	Do you guys know what that is?
	I don't know, but let me tell you something.
	He was trying to drop me off there, but listen to me.
	Let me tell you how it worked out though.
	When we got there, right?
	And his dumb ass got out the car.
	Okay.
	He got out the car and he started talking crap.
	Okay.
	And, um, he starts walking and I knew he was trying to leave me.
	What was he calling you when he was talking crap?
	He was just saying, I can't believe you.
	I love you.
	He wasn't calling out my name or nothing like that.
	But I knew he was getting ready to leave me.
	And when he turned his back right quick, I got hopped in that driver's seat so fast.
	I shut the door and I hauled ass on his ass.
	So you left him?
	I sure did.
	So you left him in the field?
	I sure as hell did.
	With all his chains on, all his money on, I had the Glock in the car, I had the Mercedes, and I drove off.
	He had to call somebody to come get him because...
	It wasn't going to be me.
	Did you give him back his car?
	I eventually did, yes.
	This just shows that one instance was not the cause of that.
	It was a culmination of things added up to what you did.
	Because, dude, what right-minded person is going to drive to the sugarcane fields for one glass of the old man?
	- Come on, bro.
	- I don't know.
	- I don't know.
	- No, it's not.
	- She's not gonna talk about all the bullshit shit.
	- I didn't do nothing.
	If I wanna be doing Nadia, I would not be involved with something.
	A nigga's not just going to be like, I'm going to drop this bitch to the sugar cane just because.
	Ladies, I want your opinion.
	Is that from one instance or from multiple occasions happening that he did that?
	What do you think?
	Multiple occasions?
	What do you think?
	Same.
	What do you think?
	Same.
	What do you think?
	Even they know!
	Even they know.
	Your cap!
	Ladies, he was really crazy.
	No, no, you were really crazy.
	No, I'm not.
	Be honest.
	I promise you.
	Yo, do you work out?
	That's a random question.
	No, no, because how's your waist trainer?
	I ain't got no, no.
	You don't?
	What are you talking about, crazy ass?
	I bet you're paying attention to details.
	Now you pay attention to.
	Okay.
	Don't wave straight in there.
	What's the point?
	What's the point of that?
	Do you want to ask something else, Troy?
	Do you want to ask the girls?
	Right, there's this idea about masculinity that...
	So testosterone levels have dropped dramatically in the West, in the USA, and in the UK, Canada, and so on, over the last 10, 15, 20 years, right?
	Do you think guys are less masculine in general?
	And how does that make you feel about modern men?
	Okay.
	Real quick.
	I got to hit the rumble rants.
	I forgot about that.
	Yes.
	I'll read them real quick.
	Hold that question for one second.
	All right, Chris, let's pull these up.
	And guys, thank you so much for the support.
	All right.
	Zepper two goes.
	Last thoughts?
	Yes, my friend.
	National Security Agency goes, ladies, is it true that y'all only wash your hair once a week and instead just put your hair in a bum?
	Slash use dry shampoo?
	If not, how often do you wash your hair with soap and water?
	You don't wash your hair with soap and water?
	I just wash my hair.
	And then leave in conditioner.
	Anybody wear a weave?
	I mean, I wear a wig, so I don't wash my hair probably like a month later.
	That's different.
	I'm a badass.
	I'm watching my hair, not my hair.
	2021.
	Rather watch reruns of your show than 20 minutes of that whatever BS podcast.
	You guys are the fire.
	Keep up the good work.
	Appreciate it, man.
	We'll be back on YouTube soon.
	Don't worry.
	You can never build a kingdom with a woman who still craves attention from the whole village.
	I agree.
	I agree.
	What do you mean?
	You want to say that earlier?
	I want to go to the club.
	I know I'm young, but I'm going to leave it settled down.
	That's the first time I see Mark confused.
	I want to do what I want to do.
	If I go out and he tells me, no, I need an explanation.
	Jealousy.
	Y'all are a cat, bro.
	She's 30, so who cares?
	She's 30, man.
	She went outside for 10 plus years.
	Yeah, she wants to stay home now.
	I know.
	I'm 20 years old.
	You couldn't tell her nothing.
	Stay inside.
	I'm going out.
	Mother Russia.
	Mother Russia.
	Maybe the woman gets better with the age, so just don't get that one.
	- No one couldn't even keep one side. - - - - - But to be honest, my ex-husband actually been complaining about me going to the club for work, But why I did that?
	Because at the beginning, I was staying at home.
	But then when I see that there is no responsibility, there is no like, you know, he doesn't think about me first.
	Then I start going and making my money back.
	I would say if he told you not to go to the club, he's definitely thinking about you first.
	Was he, I want to say, a lifestyle that you wanted?
	Was he giving you the house?
	At the beginning, when we first get married, I've been home, wife, I stay home.
	I cook, I clean.
	But then I realized that there is nothing for me.
	There is just men using me.
	No, no, no.
	Hold on.
	Did he pay the bills for you?
	I move into his house.
	What are you worried about?
	No, no, no.
	Okay, but...
	Okay, that's how it happened, like, tomorrow or in...
	Okay.
	Thank you.
	As soon as he, let's say, lose his interest or I do something wrong, he can just kick me out of the house.
	So...
	But did he kick you out?
	Yeah, eventually he did.
	No.
	After you went to club or before?
	No.
	Okay.
	Before the club, we started having complications.
	Like he's being aggressive.
	And he explained that- Why was he being aggressive?
	Okay.
	He said that I'm losing respect or whatever.
	Maybe.
	I don't know.
	I don't remember.
	It was a couple of years ago.
	Now she doesn't remember.
	No, no, no.
	This was in America.
	This is in the- Yeah, United States.
	Okay.
	What he's saying?
	I don't know.
	I didn't love him enough.
	You know what?
	He can say whatever.
	It's not the truth.
	It's just miscommunication.
	Why was he saying that?
	I get it.
	You were being ungrateful.
	And then he got mad at you because you were going to...
	No, man.
	I was grateful as fuck.
	I swear.
	I don't make it up.
	I literally...
	Was he an American dude?
	Say again?
	Is he American?
	Yeah, he's Cuban.
	Hi, Fredo.
	He's watching us.
	Hi, Fredo.
	I guarantee if we pull them aside and ask them, yo, what happened?
	She probably was being ungrateful, disrespectful, annoying, giving him a hard time, etc.
	So that's when he told her, yo, Get the fuck out the house, bruh.
	Or she's saying, I'm gonna go to the club now.
	Or some shit like that.
	No, no, no.
	It was a little more complicated.
	Wait, I'll tell you what happened.
	So he'd been constantly in the computer.
	I understand he's a great trading and it was respectful.
	I tried to, you know, stay away from him and blah, blah, blah.
	But he don't give me attention at all.
	Maybe?
	Oh, here we go.
	Now we can't.
	No, Fredo, Fredo, I go to the club.
	- LeBron, Fredo.
	- Fredo, if he's a day trader, it takes immense focus and clarity to day trade.
	- Nigga, nigga, straight up.
	- She was just annoying.
	- Yeah, he has to work.
	She didn't work.
	She stayed in the house all day.
	She got bored.
	She wanted attention.
	Maybe she came here from Russia.
	She didn't have friends like that.
	So he was like her only like real social situation, but he's always on the computer working.
	So she gave him a hard ass time and he got annoyed.
	He was like, yo, what the fuck?
	But he doesn't want me to have a friend.
	And as you said, I'm supposed to stay at home.
	I get it.
	We need a segment where the guy calls in and tells us the full story.
	Can you call him right now?
	Uh, uh, I have no my phone.
	Oh, yeah.
	Call Fredo! Call Fredo! Fredo! Fredo! Fredo! Fredo! Fredo! Fredo! Fredo!
	Listen, man.
	I went back to him after that, but then it goes back.
	This is what we're going to do.
	You're going to call him and then you're going to pass me the phone.
	And then I'm going to ask the question because I don't want you to bullshit it because I'm going to say exactly what you said.
	Then I'm going to say, is that true?
	And tell us the real reason you kicked her out.
	As a day trader, you need immense focus in a room, locked, no noise.
	She was annoying him.
	That's straight up what it was.
	No, no, no.
	Wait, I explained one thing because it's important.
	No, no, no.
	At the first time, I laughed.
	At the first time I laughed and he was upset.
	That's why he divorced me.
	But the second time, I called police because he was aggressive and he did bad things.
	That's why.
	Did he go to jail because of that?
	No, I called his lawyer because I didn't know, guys.
	This is my...
	Okay, so in my country, if I call police, they're going to say, hey, guys, don't do that anymore.
	And they leave.
	Yes, they took him.
	I didn't know that they're going to take him.
	Did he touch you?
	Physically?
	Be honest.
	To police, I said no, but...
	Not like he's beating me, but you know, like whatever, like something like that.
	You, she probably pushed him.
	I'm aggressive too.
	There's more red flags.
	She was whooping on him and he pushed her off.
	There's more red flags in his story.
	But I became that.
	I became that once I lived with him the whole year.
	I haven't been like that.
	There's more red flags in his story than the Chinese comedies parade, isn't there?
	To be French, you might as well be Chinese.
	Exactly.
	No.
	Okay.
	Call Fredo, man.
	That nigga needs to be free.
	Free Fredo.
	Free Fredo in the chat.
	Free Fredo.
	That nigga did no wrong.
	But I already said everything.
	There is nothing to say about that.
	What the hell?
	This is crazy.
	This is fucking crazy.
	We're going to put hashtag FreeFredo on the chat.
	He has a new relationship right now.
	Whatever.
	But not Fredo, Alfred.
	He's calling himself.
	Oh, he's calling?
	Oh my God!
	Fredo's watching!
	Yay, Fredo!
	Hey, what's up, man?
	How are you?
	Hey, so, uh, yo, you're on the Fresher Fit Podcast live.
	I just want to let you know and everybody can hear you.
	All right, sweet.
	So your girl's trying to sit here and say that you kicked her out the house while your ex-wife called two times.
	She's trying to say that you kicked her out the house or that you were a jerk or whatever it may be.
	Give us the real reason what went down and why you were annoyed by her, why you guys ended up...
	As a day trader.
	Yeah, as a day trader.
	Man, she's not easy, man.
	She's a wrestler.
	She's trying to paint you as a crazy guy on here.
	But Fredo, I just go to the club.
	She's a wrestler.
	Oh no, I already knew that, bro, that you ain't put your hands on her.
	Yeah, I never put my hands on her.
	I was let go free and clear.
	All that got settled out.
	Let me ask you a question.
	Did she hit you first and you kind of had to get her off you?
	She She even said that.
	Mother Russia!
	I haven't been like that at the beginning.
	He taught me to do that.
	Like, I teach from him.
	I learn from you.
	Now it's his fault that you hit him.
	Okay.
	You know the vibes.
	- Right. - No hard feelings on that end.
	- Yeah. - Hey. - Hey. - Hey.
	What caused you to be more demanding?
	Because she said she wanted to go work at the club after a while, but what caused her to want to go work at the club if you're paying all her bills?
	What caused that?
	She said the club is her first love.
	Oh!
	Yeah!
	This is so brilliant.
	You're paying the bills, taking care of her, and she wants to go work at the club still?
	That's amazing.
	I bet.
	Not to be a victim in this show, but I had a lot of patience with it.
	I had a lot of patience.
	And it got to the point where she just was dating other men.
	That's not true.
	She wouldn't fuck them.
	I have no doubt she wouldn't fuck them.
	Oh, she was tricking!
	She was pimpin'!
	Oh my God!
	That was not the whole story from Mother Russia.
	Yeah.
	That wasn't.
	I know, I know.
	I'm telling you, it's going to be deceiving, but...
	Oh no, we knew, bro.
	We just want to hear your side.
	Girls always lie about the man's side.
	They put the guy as the bad guy, blah, blah, blah.
	Hey, just ask her this.
	How many times did I break up with her?
	Probably just one time, and that's why we ain't together.
	But she broke up with me so many times.
	And I know the game.
	I know how it is.
	You know, I'm patient.
	You know, she's a woman.
	I know where she's at mentally, but it gets to the point where it's, you know, you're dating other guys.
	I didn't date him.
	Hey!
	- She knows what they're talking about.
	- He, my friend gave me a ride and like just-- - She was not just dating one guy, she was dating one guy.
	- Yeah, it's happened after you kicked me out of the house and I have to pay everything myself.
	Then when I said, and you date bitches 100%.
	- Serious, go ahead, talk that shit.
	- Yeah. - Yeah.
	I'm going to go ahead and I'm going to play the same game.
	Eventually, that's it.
	I can't stay loyal in that regard because at the end of the day, I'm here at home.
	I'm trying to make some money and she's out there.
	Yeah, we don't live together because, first of all, we had to sleep in different bedrooms.
	It's impossible to sleep with her in the same room.
	Why?
	She had her own room.
	What?
	You know, you couldn't make even a peep of noise because then if she would wake up...
	What the fuck?
	Sis!
	So Fredo...
	I have a day trader, right?
	She was paying all the bills.
	He's like 6'4".
	And Fredo, I have friends that day trade too as well, right?
	You need focus.
	You need to be in a room locked in.
	Make those trades happen because it's very, very stressful.
	He just gambled.
	She said that you were a gambler.
	You know how the markets are.
	Yeah, he was a gambler.
	Exactly.
	No, a trader and a gambler are two different things.
	You just said it.
	But he was a gambler.
	No, he's saying you know how the markets are.
	So it's almost like a gambler, but he's not a gambler.
	He's a trader.
	He said he doesn't need the money, he just loves numbers.
	Do you guys see how the brothers stick together, though?
	No, no, we have to because y'all be lying.
	And the girls stick together.
	I caught her in a couple of L's real quick and the thing is that he was providing everything, taking care of her, etc.
	And she's like, oh, but he was an asshole.
	He asked her, too.
	He's like, hey, tell me if I'm wrong.
	I'm just glad you're...
	Wait, who did it first?
	Who are you, bro?
	Him, I never cheat.
	I still don't sleep with anybody.
	Yeah, going out on dates is cheating.
	No, I don't go on a date.
	I've never been on a date.
	Except in bags, it's cheating.
	No, I don't go on a date.
	Never.
	Sometimes I'll grab her phone and I'll see the guy texting her as I had her phone in my hand.
	Wow!
	Text another guy.
	That's cheating.
	And look at her, she got this mark too.
	But you just said that, is it okay?
	That's not true.
	The guy could text me, so what can I do?
	Why do you have another dude's number?
	Yeah, have your phone number.
	From the before, we've been separated for like a year.
	I'm gonna let you get the last question.
	Go ahead, go ahead, go ahead.
	Ask you this real quick.
	How about the dude that dropped her off in the Benz right in front of her building while I was inside waiting for her?
	Oh!
	That's right, Ben!
	Oh, boy!
	Oh, boy!
	What do you mean to say?
	This is where you have to go and run.
	We didn't know your pain and we knew she was kept, man.
	That's why we got to share your side, bro.
	Let's go, man.
	Let's go, man!
	What a better girl, man.
	You got a lot of money.
	Yeah.
	We already got another one.
	Hey!
	Get a younger Russian singer.
	He said get a younger Russian singer.
	Get a younger, you're agreeing for that.
	Guys, guys.
	That other way, other way, other way.
	We found a new segment on the show.
	Go ahead, grab it, grab it.
	Basically, we call to verify the truth of the story.
	Boyfriend, boyfriend, and we say the full story.
	That's crazy!
	That's amazing.
	No, guys, it depends how you see that.
	First of all, I never cheat on him.
	I still don't.
	I've been in love.
	Too late, too late.
	No, seriously, my heart broken.
	And he said, like, I've been dating.
	I never date.
	There's nothing, like, to be fun about.
	He's already dating another girl.
	Well, I've been, like, all this time I tried to build relationship back up.
	I never cheat on him.
	I can say, like, whatever.
	All my girlfriends know.
	I never even kiss anybody.
	I never...
	What about the guy who drops you off in the bend?
	Okay, so we leave separated.
	I see people, not only girlfriends, we leave separated.
	I work in a club.
	Excuse me.
	I never, like, he said something about shopping.
	I'm buying myself things.
	Whatever he's thinking, it's in him.
	Like he said, like, yeah.
	One day, no, one day he's...
	One day he's...
	It's just the same guy.
	He's a good friend of mine.
	I'm literally showing him my girlfriends.
	Maybe he can find the relationship.
	He wants to smash you, though.
	That friend wants to smash you, I guarantee you.
	No, that's okay.
	Many guys want to smash me, so what can I do?
	Should I talk to people at all?
	When we leave separated?
	When we are separated.
	But you guys are married, right?
	Technically.
	We need your passport back.
	No, but come on.
	I understand what he's saying.
	Putin is angry.
	Come on, you.
	Get it?
	Okay.
	Oh my god, Chris.
	Friday needs to get a nice Ukrainian girl.
	What he did, guys.
	What he did, he slept with me and he slept with her at the same time.
	So then he still seems...
	I've been at the house and he bought many small bouquets, like roses, and he put it in one because I see the bags and I call him out and he said, no, no, no, I want artists.
	He bullshit me all the time.
	He lies so much.
	She was a Ukrainian woman?
	I don't know.
	Ask him.
	You're friends.
	They became best friends.
	And another thing that we were living like I slept yeah I slept in another room like we had whatever we want.
	He's like 6'4".
	It's really hard to sleep with him.
	No he's pretty big guy like and it's hard to sleep with the same bed with him.
	He's like you know like pushing me and like stuff.
	That's where you get extra old bed.
	All I hear is wah-wah-wah.
	You know what I hear?
	I'm grateful.
	I was grateful, guys.
	He took my car.
	He sold it.
	Like, no, trust me.
	I don't say that I'm perfect.
	Yeah, that's true.
	But he's pretty cruel.
	Wow.
	Your brother.
	That's your all's brother, though.
	That's your friend.
	Ain't that your friend?
	That's your best friend, y'all.
	Ain't that your friend?
	Listen, I'm not gonna lie, guys.
	We found gold.
	This is a great segment.
	She tells a story.
	Guy calls in.
	Other half of the story.
	Yeah, for real, man.
	We're about to start calling exes.
	Yeah, bro, for real.
	You need to get this story.
	You need to speak to this lady's ex as well.
	Yeah, you want to call him?
	Yeah.
	I guarantee your story is way worse than hers.
	What's his name?
	Scorpio.
	No, it is not Jamal.
	Scorpio is a white guy.
	It was a white guy?
	Yeah.
	And you know she disrespect the fuck out of him.
	He walks all over that nigga.
	Damn!
	He's never been a Puerto Rican ever again after you.
	He's well.
	Becky, right now as we speak.
	She's so much more peaceful.
	Thank God We appreciate you being I want to say open You know you were capping Let's move forward Do you really think so?
	Yeah, they do.
	We'll talk after.
	Not me, of course.
	Okay.
	Putin is...
	Damn.
	Putin?
	Well, he's alive, nigga.
	Oh, not coffin, but like chair.
	Alright.
	Okay.
	Cancel.
	Fresh.
	In his chair.
	Sorry, guys.
	First, let's watch the news, okay?
	All right, what do you say?
	Oh, wait, okay.
	Tell the rapper not to quit her day job.
	Her rapping is ass.
	She rapped like B-Rad from Malibu's Most Wanted.
	Man, you're such a hater.
	All right, hold on, hold on.
	You know what?
	Since you're so good, go ahead and diss Waylo317 right now.
	Go ahead, go ahead.
	Let me just stick to the facts.
	I never go back as a rap.
	Baby, you got me this for me.
	Make it rain and make it worthy.
	Cause niggas are wasting, they got me.
	But really, you ain't never had me.
	I'm hotter than a nigga for real.
	I don't play that shit and that's real.
	Keep it a stack, man.
	Keep it real.
	Cause I know what I want and that's real.
	Baby, don't sleep on me.
	I always keep the bag on me.
	Let me not spill.
	Let me not reveal The top of queen I am And what I can avoid I run I run so far away I run so far away And expect an exchange Nah But yeah, no, follow me XXRosa baby Yeah, wait a 1, 2, 4, 6 I showed you Hating ass Hating ass Went to $20, you cheap ass You'll take them $20 in the vets, baby
	That's a good, ain't it?
	Take that Willow.
	That was I'm just going to end myself right now.
	This is terrible.
	Allegedly.
	Allegedly.
	It's comedy, guys.
	It's comedy.
	It's a toy gun.
	Okay.
	Moving on smartly.
	We have here Demetra Denma says, Hey Fresh, I'm a fan of your vlog channel, but I know I can elevate the editing of your videos.
	How about I edit three of your Columbia vlogs for free and you can let me know what you think.
	I'm not included.
	Cool.
	Just send me a DM on Freshman CEO. Just put like a vlog editor.
	Unofficial Landy says...
	Yo!
	Use that wallet.
	Not to quit her day job.
	That shit was straight trash.
	Y'all are horrible.
	That's why I got Sony deals.
	You fucking gleams.
	Lanes.
	Tell them.
	With or without boyfriends, want the Jason Love experience?
	Fresh Guarantees, two things.
	Oh my God.
	Yes, sir!
	Your back will be blown out.
	your poonani world's return to normal after three days pre-bbc yes sir just so you know i get tested regularly clean as fuck listen you have only fans the results what's your results and And if it's negative, awesome, let's do something.
	If not...
	What made you think that he had STDs?
	No, I was just...
	Well, technically it was Fresh's balls.
	Yeah, so that's messed up, man.
	Yo, Fresh.
	We just gonna talk about his balls like that?
	Sorry, not sorry.
	He's a man of God.
	Man of God.
	Okay.
	Yeah, there you go.
	Fresh's a man of God.
	Thank you very much.
	Cam two times goes, unpopular opinion.
	I blame Neo for exciting men into wanting independent women and being soft and inspiring women to be misindependent with his songs.
	P.S. I love his songs in R&B. I mean, but you gotta remember, bro, unless the girl's from like...
	The early 2000s and shit.
	That shit's a bit boober, isn't it?
	Yeah, bro.
	These younger girls don't even know who Neo is.
	Stop it.
	Wasn't Neo caught up being a player?
	Well, you're older, so you would know.
	No offense.
	But these younger girls, they're not going to know.
	I'm younger, but I know who Neo is now.
	Alright, name three songs from Neil right now.
	Come on, I don't really know.
	Miss.
	You can't hear me.
	Don't ask Neil's baby song.
	I can't even tell you a little baby song right now.
	You can hear three pop sports songs.
	No, I can't.
	I'll get it to you.
	Do you more?
	Uh-huh.
	Yo, little wee mood.
	Mood.
	Mood swings.
	Okay, mood swings.
	But I didn't say that.
	I can't think like you know from New York I am but I smoke a lot I can sing the song to you like put the song on I'm so sick I'm not come on Shame on New York man Cam's sister, Myron Fresh, will y'all ever do a show with y'all shirts off?
	Yes!
	Let's do it right now.
	I'll do it right now.
	Why not?
	Give me three months, then I'll do it.
	Right now, I'm not doing that shit.
	Myron, you look good right now, though.
	Oh!
	Wait, don't you have a man?
	- Oh my God. - Oh my God. - Oh my God. - Oh my God. - This is 4K. - Whoa, whoa, whoa. - Disappointment. - That don't matter, bro. - Oh shit, okay.
	I've been together for two years.
	I'm not going to fuck that up.
	I'm giving you a compliment to safety.
	You look nice.
	I appreciate that.
	Thank you.
	That don't matter.
	Yeah, fresh.
	You got this.
	What the hell?
	Pastor Walter Lee.
	1 Corinthians 11.9 says, For indeed man was not created for woman's sake, but woman for the man's sake.
	Is that right?
	Did you forget about Jesus' first wife?
	Lilith?
	That's not true.
	That is not canon.
	That's actually blasphemy.
	Is that what it is?
	Who was Lilith?
	The devil's...
	No, you mean the first Adam wife?
	Yeah.
	She was.
	She doesn't want to surrender.
	She doesn't want to listening.
	And that's why.
	Yeah.
	I mean, that is a story, but it's not canon.
	But if it was going to be true, it is going to be the devil's like, sorry, not.
	Yeah, definitely.
	She was.
	For him, yeah.
	And then, guys, from this point forward, because we got, like, I think 25,000 y'all watching, we'll go 20 and up for the Rumble rants, but I'll read the rest of the ones that came through.
	So, any ladies with or without boyfriends want the Jason Love experience?
	Fresh guarantees two things.
	Once again, your back will be blown out, and two, your Panani will return to normal after three days pre-BBC. Thanks, Fresh Balls.
	You're really adamant about that.
	Fresh Balls.
	Angelo Dunlao goes, ladies, top three preferences for your future husband and what three reasons should he choose you?
	That's actually a pretty damn good question.
	Let me go ahead and get through the rest of these rents.
	Save that one real quick, Chris.
	Welp the Barber goes, detox the name.
	- Hey, hey, hey, hey. - Detox. - Detox. - That's the detox.
	- Yeah, yeah, yeah.
	- Detox? - Detox in the building? - That's our official DJ as well.
	When we hit one million on Freshman Clips, he will be there.
	I'm crying.
	Why they said Franny like they know me.
	The one more party?
	He's going to be there.
	We're going to do it again.
	We're going to do it again.
	We're going to get that big yap again for y'all when we hit one million on the Clips channel.
	Let's do this.
	detox.
	Yeah.
	It's a motherfucking name.
	You know the vibes.
	If you get 500k on Rumble, let's do a party as well.
	How about that?
	Oh, damn.
	It's a vibe.
	It might not be as big as one mil, but it'll be lit.
	Okay, we'll get another big ass y'all for y'all, man.
	There you go.
	It'll be a great time.
	It costs a lot of money to do that party.
	We'll do it for y'all, man.
	Fuck it.
	We'll do it for you guys.
	It's like, what, like 70k?
	It's a lot, bro.
	It's a lot, but we love you guys.
	We'll do it.
	Body count matters, Franny.
	Yeah.
	She and her husband had texted the guy that he was the best sex and left her sore.
	It's online.
	New hoes compare men.
	Wide vagina energy.
	I'm not going to lie.
	You had me there, but you lost me.
	All right.
	Natalya in my booty.
	Okay.
	Nut all in my booty.
	Okay.
	Respect to Walter.
	Being out of shape.
	Average looking with stutter and limited vocabulary, but still pulling.
	We got hope with a little bit of clout and money.
	Thank you, brother.
	Showing us the way.
	Who's Walter?
	Who's Walter?
	Two girls over for Myra look like she hit Ninjas?
	Niggas, niggas.
	Oh, she does.
	These grannies need the cobwebs knocked off right off the plastic protector on their sofa.
	They'll send you a check for $12 on your birthday if you do it right.
	Wow.
	Okay.
	Shlana goes, good to know that Russian spent her youth energy freaky sex years on that bad boy.
	She's now ready to offer leftovers to the next available simp white knight.
	Do you have anything you want to say back, Kamrad?
	To be honest, I don't really understand.
	It's good to know that the Russians spent years on the bad boy.
	And now he's sleeping with another girl while he's sleeping with me.
	And you guys all support that.
	Good job.
	Wait, we're not the ones telling you to go fuck him.
	You support him while he will be intimate with me and with her.
	You're still together?
	No way, no, but he was like that.
	Not right now.
	Alright, yeah, we'll kill Twitch.
	We're gonna kill Twitch tomorrow, guys.
	We're gonna kill Twitch tomorrow, Facebook.
	Oh, you gotta get in Twitch jail, too.
	Okay, come on over, ninjas.
	Okay.
	Sorry, she's blaming us for fucking her ex.
	That makes sense.
	That's all you, nigga.
	What are you talking about?
	You just said, I'm still fucking him and it's your fault.
	No, no, no.
	When you support that behavior that while we've been together, he sleep with me and with that girl.
	And of course, now he find the girl and he blaming me by seeing other guys.
	When they're together, we supported...
	How long ago was that?
	A month.
	I got a question, though.
	A month?
	Wait, so he was watching our podcast?
	Yeah.
	He was just playing 515.
	He was just playing 515.
	He was jumping in the Mercedes Benz's.
	Yeah.
	She owns a Mercedes-Benz, so let's make a chick bend over.
	If Mike Shorty is out here in niggas cars to get in drops home, bruh.
	He must be on fucking bitches.
	If you're going to be in another dude's Mercedes-Benz, he's going to make another bitch bend over.
	Guys, I'm not America and you don't know that.
	Okay, comrade.
	Fresh, why a dog in my girl's DMs?
	He gets played, bro.
	Wait, did you DM bitches from your dog?
	No, no, that's him!
	That's him!
	Wait, who?
	Huh?
	That's not me.
	I'm just kidding.
	You know, Fresh actually has a random account that's like Fresh's dog and he'd be like doing his own thing.
	everything.
	It's not me.
	It's not fresh.
	It's not me.
	It's fresh as dawn.
	It was crazy.
	I lost my login to that account, so I don't know who's doing that because it's not me.
	Stop the cat.
	If someone's doing it.
	Stop the cat.
	Stop the cat.
	I don't have it.
	Bender the offender goes, I think it's funny that women will make a high-value man pay for a date since the high-value man is more rare than the woman.
	He is giving his time to someone who may not be worthy.
	True.
	No.
	I love the spoil.
	What does HVM mean?
	You know the problem with that message?
	He's right from the perspective of this show, but what it fails to understand is that women don't see it like that.
	Women's not going to be going, hmm, yes, this is a high-value man, and therefore he's more rare than me.
	Like, she's not going to fucking see it like that.
	She's just like, let me see the fucking cash.
	Most of them think that they're special and that they're equal to you, even if you're actually superior to them.
	Can I ask you a question?
	Guys, you don't pay because to simp.
	You pay to lead the date and you dictate the terms.
	That's why you pay.
	And actually, you go where you want to go, so it doesn't matter.
	Never let a woman pay, bro.
	You pay because you handle your shit.
	You're just fucking right.
	Of course I'm going to pay for the fucking date because I'm not a fucking broke-ass type one.
	You had something that you wanted to say before?
	Yes, I do.
	I want to ask you, what is your definition of a high-valued woman?
	There's no such thing.
	There's no such thing.
	What?
	He just told you he's the leader.
	He's the leader.
	So what's your idea?
	You're a woman.
	This is what it is.
	There's no such thing as a high-value woman on her own.
	A woman doesn't become a high-value woman unless she has a high-value man that claims her.
	So I wouldn't be of value if I didn't have a man claiming me?
	You need a high value man claiming you.
	As his girl.
	Because women attain the status of the man that they're with.
	No one cares about a woman's status on her own.
	It only matters when you're with a man that's of value.
	Hillary Clinton.
	Bill Clinton.
	There you go.
	You know what I mean?
	So that's what it is.
	Because here's the thing.
	The reason why there's no such thing as a high-value woman is because all women have value.
	Because as soon as a girl turns 18, bam, she's on the market, she has value.
	So since all of you have value...
	What's value to you?
	The ability to attract the opposite gender fairly easily.
	But, I mean, in that sense, it tends to be younger women at their fertile peak who have the most value, if you're looking at it in that sense.
	Your prime years.
	Exactly.
	So that will be the equivalent.
	If you think of...
	And this is why you get these fucking big arguments, don't you, about a guy in his 30s who's wealthy, you know, reaches his peak, whereas actually...
	Really, probably a woman in her 20s.
	Really, to be honest, is at the peak.
	Okay, so where are we at here?
	Last chat?
	Last one.
	And that's a controversial take, but I genuinely don't think that there's such a thing as a high-value woman on her own.
	Ladies, if you're of a lower socioeconomic status than your man, I want you to remember this analogy.
	The peasant does not tell the king how to run his kingdom.
	Yeah.
	Ayo, this segment, we're afraid of fire, exposing the lies.
	Hey, man.
	That is a new segment on the show.
	How am I lie?
	I don't understand.
	No, no, you left out certain points.
	But there is more behind that.
	Like, I can tell the whole stories and then I could be, I don't want to be a victim, but I didn't do anything wrong.
	But you can address, you can picture, like, you know, my English, first of all, the culture is different.
	And of course, you know what to say, but in the reality, I'm pretty innocent in this case.
	Yeah, maybe like whatever.
	You can say, yeah, she left, but so what?
	All my friends have good cars and stuff.
	Male friends.
	No, I mean, girlfriends, I don't really like...
	But there were clearly guy friends involved here.
	Yeah.
	He did say a guy dropped you off.
	I leave separated with him.
	He kicked me out of the house.
	I pay my bills.
	He said we're not together, that we are blah, blah, blah.
	And I mean...
	Why did he kick you out, though?
	Because he...
	Because I called police.
	No, he said that you said...
	So you got him arrested.
	Guys, I couldn't do nothing else.
	He said things...
	I don't want to say that, but he said in certain things that I was like, you know...
	And we know that he didn't put his hands on you.
	He said...
	Do you really think that only, like, abuse can be only if he put his hands on you?
	Oh, wow.
	It's emotional then.
	Oh, wow.
	Wow.
	That's dangerous.
	This is dangerous.
	Okay, I don't say that...
	He went to jail for no reason.
	No, no, no, he wasn't in jail.
	He was there just one day and I go around...
	He was in jail!
	Guys, I didn't want to go to the jail.
	I just didn't know what to do.
	I have no parents here.
	I have no friends here.
	You called the police.
	Guys, where am I supposed to call?
	No, I called police to help me.
	I have no mother, I have no father, I have no friends.
	She's not from here, so the Lord in Russia are probably from America.
	I have no friends.
	I'm going to I live with my husband.
	But didn't you just say right now that you have girlfriends that have...
	Nice cars.
	Later, when I left, of course, it's like a year later.
	Okay, but I do want to say this because this highlighted to me when he said it.
	He said that you told him that The club is your first love.
	Yes.
	What do you mean by that?
	No, I know that came out of your mouth because I've had somebody tell me that back in the past.
	So can you explain that?
	That's a very specific club.
	I tell you that, like, I didn't work the whole year.
	Once I see that I don't feel secure with this man, that he doesn't listen, that he doesn't give a fuck, that all he's doing, like, he's watching me if I'm good enough for him.
	I don't feel myself, like, loved.
	No, he maybe loved me in his case, but I don't feel like I can make the kids with this But if he makes money, how do you not feel secure?
	I'm not understanding that part.
	Were you just trying to get attention out of him and then he wasn't reciprocating attention from you?
	What is it?
	Girl, I understand.
	My years, as you all say, like, the girls, as old as it gets, it's not getting better, right?
	And I don't feel like...
	At that time, I had no papers, right?
	I'm in a foreign country.
	All my hopes was in him.
	Trust me, I was like...
	So he sold you a dream?
	Yeah.
	Okay.
	No, he didn't.
	Did he know you stripping or he knew you after stripping?
	I tell you that, that I was dancing.
	And he knew you before you was dancing?
	He loved me because of that.
	It's not really stripping.
	We've been dating once and he didn't really like, like whatever, he liked me but not as much.
	But then he see me once in a club and then he's like, oh, give me your number.
	I said, you had my number, but he blocked me.
	Anyway, and then, no, literally he loved me because I was in a club, I guess.
	This is so toxic.
	This story is so dysfunctional, isn't it?
	You made the right decision.
	Let's watch it right now.
	Bro, there's a bunch of air right now.
	Yo, man.
	This is a true mommy love story.
	Yeah, and I don't know if you noticed, I don't have to be a victim, but then she goes into how he did everything wrong and everything else.
	No, but he said the same.
	He doesn't want to be a victim either.
	I mean, I would say, you know, it seems to me like you did more shit to him than he did to you.
	Not true.
	The first year I didn't and I just know who he is, but I loved him.
	So what can I do?
	I'm supposed to play by the rules, you know, and he he put it.
	He said it like, trust me, like I'm from Russia.
	The man always first in Russia.
	It's not like he I wasn't raised here and I'm a little bit different.
	And it's like they say, don't wake up.
	His new name is Fredo Bang.
	Shout out to you, bro.
	Fredo Bang!
	Fredo Bang in the building.
	Abdul get the rocks.
	Let's do questions, comments, and last thoughts on the show.
	So we'll start here.
	Any questions or comments for us on the panel or last thoughts on the show?
	Oh wait, no.
	We did have one more question that was pretty good.
	Oh yeah, that one question.
	Masculinity.
	Oh shit, and the masculinity one too.
	Well, We made a promise to the girls.
	So keep that in mind.
	We will fly through these then.
	Chris, pull up the...
	Actually, no, Troy, you had it first.
	Go ahead, hit your question on masculinity.
	The question was, testosterone has fallen in the West and across the world over the last 15-20 years.
	Do you think men are less masculine today?
	And if so, how does that make you feel about modern men?
	We can start here and then work our way.
	I believe, yes, men are more feminine now.
	They're more sensitive with things like...
	I don't know.
	Anything you do, anything...
	Men look for attention, too.
	I'm not even going to lie.
	Like, yeah, women look for attention, but men do, too.
	Like, men still are going to want to have...
	They're going to bitch at you, for example.
	You go out, they're going to bitch at you, and that's them getting your attention because, oh, you're going out, you know?
	So they're always going to...
	But do you think that makes men less attractive?
	I don't like that.
	I like me, a masculine man that could put him and me together.
	The only problem with this is, I feel like they're framing a masculine man as a guy who doesn't care if they go to the club and make a hoe of themselves.
	No, no, no.
	Do you know what I'm saying?
	It's like that's the framing of it.
	That's the example I'm giving.
	I agree with the overall context that guys need to be more masculine, but I'm not sure that Are you paying attention?
	Sorry, go ahead.
	I agree with the overall, you know, analysis that men need to be more masculine, but I'm not sure that framing guys, he's pissed off because you want to go to the club and like fucking, you know, shake your booty.
	That is making him feminine.
	I'm not sure that is a...
	No, it's showing their insecurities.
	That's feminine to me.
	Like, I don't know.
	A guy showing his insecurities is feminine to me.
	I have a question.
	I don't like that.
	You like to argue?
	You like to argue?
	Sometimes.
	That's a little feminine.
	Alright, I just feel like You shouldn't be going back and forth or bickering with a female.
	You get what I'm saying?
	Females bickering.
	We do the bickering.
	We do the back and forth.
	We do the bitch shit, the catty shit, the...
	Oh, you mean do I like to argue with women?
	As a male?
	Shut the fuck up.
	Do I like to argue with women?
	Is that what you mean?
	No, no, of course I don't.
	You're a female.
	Like, you're a lady.
	Do you like to argue with her?
	No, of course I don't.
	Oh, but...
	You debt it, right?
	You say, I'm not going to lie, we're not going to argue right now.
	I told you what it is, and that's that.
	That's what I don't like.
	And that's what I feel like men are becoming now.
	Everything has to be a bicker back and forth.
	No, you're a man.
	That's what I'm saying.
	Say what you got to say, and that's that.
	Just like he said, right?
	Shut the fuck up and stay in the crib.
	Okay, cool.
	That's it.
	Stand on it.
	Don't go like, oh, no.
	Oh, no, baby, you shouldn't go to my class because there's going to be someone's guys.
	But you just said that you had an issue with that.
	I said, I don't like that.
	You just wanted to tell you, shut the fuck up and sin aside.
	That's what you want.
	I just don't like that sassy shit.
	Like, I'm not masculine, but, like, I'm alpha.
	I'm very alpha.
	I know what I want.
	Here we go.
	So, I don't gotta say that.
	Y'all know exactly.
	But I'm saying, though, like, I want a man that could double that, like...
	No.
	Girl, shut up.
	Stop talking.
	Like, I'm not...
	I don't want the nigga that's going to keep going.
	I don't want this shit out of you, but I'm saying I don't want nobody to keep going back.
	I got it.
	Like, time up.
	Like, come on, babe.
	Time up.
	Like, you're fucking up.
	Wait, wait, wait, wait.
	So, so, so, so question New York.
	Do you really hit niggas?
	I do.
	Yeah, really.
	And do they hit you back or no?
	They do.
	Oh no, not no hardcore shit.
	A nigga never punched me in my face or nothing like that.
	I'll slap you.
	I'll fight.
	I like a nigga that's A nigga.
	Like, you're in your body.
	You're a man.
	Be a man.
	Yeah, but you know what?
	I won't lie, because I have family from New York, the Bronx BX. Just a hood, ain't it?
	Yeah, I mean, girls like you are very annoying with Papa Don.
	Like, we'll fuck you, and we'll tune you out.
	But, you know, after, like, you know, the first week or two, like, it's great sex, but goddamn you.
	That's why me and you won't work.
	Hey, hey, hey, hey, listen, thank God.
	Hey, thank God, because my ears right now, I'm just tuning you out right now.
	That's you, babe.
	Yeah, we won't work, but.
	Chris, you have talked about sex.
	She's like, I'm not sassy, so why would you want to be sassy?
	The question was, masculinity, is it dying in men?
	Yeah, and is that making men less attractive overall?
	I think it's a little bit changing.
	Just the masculine now, it's not the same as before, but it's still masculine.
	Yeah, okay.
	I still think there's a framing problem here.
	Because if you imagine whatever ultimate alpha male figure that you would have from history, like Alexander the Great or Genghis Khan or something, his masculinity is intact, right?
	His masculinity is unimpeachable.
	If his girl was going to the club...
	And he complained about it.
	You wouldn't then say, oh, he's feminine because his girl's going to the club.
	It's just something that would never have been in question at that point.
	You know what I'm saying?
	I don't think it undermines the dude's masculinity.
	I just think that...
	I think that...
	Modern society has enabled, obviously, women like to go to the club, but they also love attention.
	So I think you guys want to milk the attention, but you also then want to sort of almost blame the guys for it by saying, oh, but these guys are so fucking feminine, they can't handle it.
	You know what I'm saying?
	Now I think that.
	Now I think because they're so sassy, we start to just blame them.
	Like, oh, it's because of them that we're acting this way now.
	Do you think that you act...
	More that way because of the way the men are.
	I act more masculine because of how men are.
	That's interesting.
	Why are you going to buy me a drink?
	I will buy you a drink.
	Don't ask me to buy you a drink.
	Are you a girl?
	I do that.
	That's female-like.
	Why are you asking me to buy you a drink?
	That's female-like.
	Interesting.
	I feel like they still have their masculinity.
	It's just I feel like they try to adapt to what's What about Dominican Republic, though?
	That's still pretty...
	I mean, I moved when I was six years old to the US, but they are very strong-rooted.
	Yeah.
	Again, I don't think it has died.
	Their masculinity is more of they try to adapt to what's happening now and, I don't know, carry themselves.
	I feel way to be more hip or more...
	I don't know.
	Try to remember that women's...
	In some cultures, I think masculinity is still very prevalent, you know, like in probably Russia, probably Cuba as well, probably fucking Fredo, the fucking Cuban drug lord, you know, sort of like...
	And some of the Latin countries, I think masculinity is still very, very, very prevalent.
	But I think in the West, it's compromised.
	Yeah, I agree.
	I agree with that for sure.
	But wouldn't it be fair to say that it's compromised in the United States because women are more masculine here?
	Well, they're saying it's for the men's fault.
	We have to...
	Five years ago, women were not like this.
	Yes or no?
	We weren't born like this.
	We weren't born masculine like this.
	We were born soft, innocent.
	We're getting to peak ratchet now.
	Yeah.
	What was the next question?
	Well, what I honestly believe that killed masculinity in a sense is the past 10 years where they have access to internet, they have access to things that they could do in solitude, for example, porn.
	Guys could see it How many girls that they can, so they become desensitized to like actually trying to talk to women.
	A lot of men nowadays, they're like, how can I say they're more in the house than they are working, than being outside, actually providing, being the protecting source.
	So, it's a very small, small, like, percentage of men that actually go out there, get the money, be that strong man.
	They're fit.
	They're, like, on their shit.
	And then it divides the rest because everybody else is just a broke-ass nigga trying to make it, so...
	Okay.
	What about you?
	That was good.
	I believe that masculinity...
	Why do you put it away?
	It's to the mic.
	Just leave it there.
	Don't even touch the mic.
	It's movable.
	She could put it close.
	She'd keep putting it away.
	That's what I'm saying.
	Put it close and don't even touch it.
	Listen!
	I feel masculinity is at an all-time low right now.
	And it's primarily because, like you said, I see the internet.
	So we have men teaching men how to go from simps to pimps.
	Is that right?
	Come on!
	So we have men that are basking into their femininity.
	We have men that are stealing our own terms.
	And it is...
	I don't think what you're saying.
	What they do, they actually help men to become more masculine versus the ones that are watching from home that are fat, that can't get no bitches, that can't even go outside and socialize with girls.
	So they come and watch this show to get pointers to become a better man.
	So let me ask you this.
	So then what is the definition?
	What is the meaning behind from simps to pimps?
	What's so wrong about a man being a gentleman?
	Wow, there's a difference between being a simp and being a gentleman.
	Please educate me on that.
	A simp is someone who is obsequious is the word.
	A simp is somebody who is submissive, who puts himself underneath the woman and pedestalizes the woman.
	A gentleman is somebody who can own his masculinity and treat a woman well.
	He's classy in the way that he behaves, but he doesn't take any shit.
	And I think there's a big difference between the two.
	I think a simp is pussy whipped and a gentleman knows who he is.
	Yeah.
	And who he has.
	And not only that, him being a gentleman is contingent on the female's behavior.
	Exactly.
	As soon as she fucks up or looks at a dude at a restaurant, the gentleman in this ends.
	And also, you don't want to hate yourself because if that man was going to do whatever you want, you don't want him.
	Yep.
	You don't want the nice guy.
	Nobody wants the nice guy.
	Simp stands for sucker idolizing mediocre pussy.
	So I don't think anyone wants a simp.
	Perfect.
	Is that what it stands for?
	Yeah.
	Does that answer your question about sims to pimps?
	Mm-hmm.
	Okay.
	Cool.
	Women don't want sims, as much as you guys try to say that.
	And I love how she tried to conflate a simp and a gentleman.
	They're not the same at all.
	Yeah, that's why I need a clarification.
	She needed education.
	Yeah.
	They're not the same.
	I want a gentleman.
	Not somebody that'll let me run all over them.
	You tell them what to do and they do it.
	Chivalry and being a gentleman is contingent upon your behavior.
	The problem is that most women, I'll be honest, don't deserve a gentleman or chivalry at all.
	Because most women aren't shit and a lot of them aren't ladies.
	So why am I going to go ahead and give a woman chivalry when she's not even acting like a lady?
	Yep.
	I agree.
	So what...
	She hits niggas?
	Yeah.
	So again, back to you, Myron, because everybody's looking at you.
	What do you mean?
	What's the question?
	The question is, back down to this, because we have been looking at, you know, different women and their backgrounds, and they've explained themselves to you and their relationship status.
	And the gentleman on the podcast, the viewers, they've been agreeing with everything that we're not.
	You know, like, these girls are She used a man.
	This girl was looking at so many men.
	So my question to you is what would give us an advice to make us better women?
	Stop being a ho.
	I wouldn't you agree that a hoe would be you giving up your goods?
	You can't be a hoe if you're not exchanging sexual energy.
	You're giving up your energy, your attention to one guy who walked in the fucking restaurant.
	Don't steal his car.
	I would have been.
	I would have been.
	Oh, my God.
	In the sugar cane.
	Get him again.
	And take his gun.
	All right.
	Those are a couple answers.
	I mean, you want mine?
	Yeah, she's looking for your validation right now, Myron.
	I would just say I think the biggest thing is that women need to be coachable.
	I think a lot of women aren't coachable.
	They don't follow a man's lead.
	They think most women don't respect most men is what I couldn't realize in 2023 and beyond.
	And yeah, women just need to be coachable.
	If you're coachable, that handles most of the problems because then the guy could be a man.
	You fall into your feminine.
	He's in his masculine.
	He's a leader.
	He leads you.
	But again, you obviously have to pick the right guy to be your coach as well.
	Absolutely.
	But that's where a lot of women fuck up is because they picked the wrong guy.
	Yeah.
	I agree with that.
	But where's the right guys?
	And how do you know it's the right guy?
	Not at Club 11.
	I'm not playing.
	I'm not playing.
	I'm playing.
	I've been in Club 11 since 2019.
	By your heart being there.
	I love it.
	That's a hoot.
	That's a hoot.
	Okay, because you were young.
	Yeah, but I was not a good candidate to be there to meet or whatever.
	I'm just there.
	And here's the thing, I never once talked to dancers when I was there.
	Okay, fine, but where we can find a good guy?
	I mean...
	Right here.
	Yes, sir!
	Here's the thing.
	There's probably a bunch of them already that are trying to talk to you, but you ignore them.
	Don't you have a boyfriend?
	I did.
	I did.
	I ignored them all.
	And they all got married.
	I did that.
	Yeah, because the thing is, is that I guarantee a nice guy's come across you or that, you know, show an interest, but you ignore them.
	That's just proving their point, though.
	You just ignore them because...
	Hey, shit!
	Yeah!
	You said he was two years in a relationship and you over here talking about some Byron.
	They said, Byron.
	Byron, baby!
	Everybody glorifies him.
	They glorify him.
	They look up to him.
	I don't mean it literally.
	But fucking girls, how about we all in a podcast?
	What she said in the beginning in her relationship status, what she said?
	Happily in love.
	In love.
	Not happily in love.
	This is my love.
	Stop, stop, stop, stop.
	Stop the club.
	Stop the club.
	- No, this is, no, no. - Oh! - Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. - You're turning it around and we wanna know because the viewers are looking up to them.
	So they're also looking for women that they look up to.
	So what is that woman?
	Who is she?
	What are her attributes?
	That's what I'm trying to get to.
	Because I look at what is passing by me, because I'm making sure of the safetiness around me.
	You know what?
	I take back my...
	That good aura that I gave you earlier.
	Give me back that good aura.
	You know what's funny?
	You know what's funny?
	I get in with the aura, and I get in a one, two...
	Motion, you know, I'm a human.
	Nah.
	This is from before, Chris?
	Oh, shit.
	I saw motion, you know, I'm a human.
	I turned my neck.
	Oh my god.
	It was over.
	It was over.
	I was looking at the man.
	I wanted the man.
	What was the sign?
	Wait, wait, wait.
	And I wanted the man.
	I wanted the man.
	What was the sign?
	What was the sign?
	What do you have to say?
	Thank you so much for having me.
	I love this show.
	I love everybody.
	What are you going to say with evidence?
	What evidence?
	This show never happened.
	If your man's watching, you're single now.
	Oh yeah.
	Thank you.
	The show was great.
	The show was amazing.
	I appreciate everybody.
	Also, I appreciate the ladies who came out.
	Ladies, if you want to get on the Fresh and Fit podcast, DM me.
	I will get you on the show.
	Also, guys, tune into locals so that way you can always see the behind-the-scenes content and then experience what we do before the show.
	And what is your Instagram so they can DM you?
	The link is in the description.
	She's so ICTV. Can we hit that question real quick?
	One last one.
	Let me explain something to the audience.
	Don't put this on me, bro.
	So, you can't have girls waiting for three hours and then do a show.
	So, respectfully, before it started, we'll do two hours max for the girls to go home after.
	That's what I'm saying the show.
	Yes, that's true.
	Yeah Ladies top three preferences your future husband and what three reasons should he choose you?
	Oh So top three preferences, we could start.
	Top three preferences?
	What do I mean by preferences?
	Like what you like the most?
	What do I like?
	Oh, okay, okay, okay.
	You stupid.
	First of all, I was trying to translate that in Spanish.
	You can start here since she needs to translate it in straight.
	What about you?
	What three preferences you want in my guy?
	Okay, three preferences that I want in my guy after everything that Myron did.
	Myron.
	Myron.
	Yes, Myron.
	She's going to say yes, Myron.
	Myron.
	Myron.
	You know, I'm a human.
	What was the sign?
	What was the sign?
	The man and...
	What was the sign?
	The man and...
	What was the sign?
	Let's just continue on.
	Because we do got to respect...
	Fresh is right.
	We did tell the girl...
	We did say that.
	So we want to get them home.
	They were waiting for...
	Unless you want to wait.
	Another hour or two.
	You cool with that?
	No.
	Another hour or two for what?
	I miss my club appearance.
	Exactly.
	She want to stay next tomorrow for another hour.
	Let's do it.
	Another hour?
	Wait, wait, wait.
	Let's just get through this question and then last thoughts.
	Okay.
	Hold on.
	All right, go ahead.
	So top three, preferences, and then top three, what do you bring back?
	Keep the question up on the screen, please, Chris.
	Okay, my top three preferences in a man are his personality, his ambition, and is he goal-oriented, you know?
	All those two kind of the same.
	Yeah, ambition and goals are the same.
	That is the same.
	Okay, so then let's go ahead and take three reasons why he's choosing you.
	Because I actually will pour back into him.
	Okay, I will.
	I will.
	I will invest in his business.
	pull off on him pull off on him pass pass go ahead go ahead you get her soul yeah so wait so you'll uh you'll you said you're pouring to him and what else Yes, I would help invest in his business.
	I would nurture him.
	Yeah, don't give any fucks up because I will give you a reflection of you.
	Okay, anything else besides being a mirror?
	So, pour back, be a mirror.
	What else?
	Nurturing and loving.
	That's who I am.
	And look at other men.
	Stop it.
	I want her to be single so bad.
	What about three reasons he should choose?
	That was her three reasons of why they should choose her.
	Oh, sorry, sorry, sorry.
	Yeah, all right.
	I see.
	Three preferences in your future husband and what three reasons should he choose you?
	Actually, no, you'll go last because you're going to give good answers.
	What about you, Ms.
	Providence?
	Top three preferences.
	No, let's see.
	Top three preferences.
	Driven, hard worker, family man.
	What he get out of me, I'll be your muse.
	Again, his muse, inspiration.
	Again, his muse.
	Yes, that's what I said.
	Interesting.
	Am I saying it wrong?
	No, no, no.
	That's a word that goes on use that much, so.
	Okay, so anyways, I'll be his muse, as well as...
	I know you guys took the words out of my mom.
	So yeah, I'll be his muse, as well as I'm very passionate, so, you know, we can achieve anything.
	So I'll be your cheerleader for sure, you feel me?
	We gonna win, baby.
	And then also, you know...
	Even if he tells you to stay home and cheerlead from there?
	Again, you gotta build that.
	You can't just initiate that energy like that.
	I feel like you get to that point, and then I'm like, nah, my baby.
	But he's driven into a hard worker, though.
	Right, okay, at that point, cool.
	But that's what I'm saying.
	Like, it depends where along the lines of when we're talking, we get to that point.
	I'm not gonna do that from the beginning of the stage.
	He's gotta be driven into a hard worker from the beginning.
	Those are qualities I want, right?
	Hard worker.
	But what if he wants you to stay inside as a quality back?
	It all got to make sense.
	It does.
	I don't care.
	It got to make sense.
	Listen, my manager is driven, hardworking.
	You going to humble with his goals?
	Listen.
	Listen.
	Listen, you guys want to think about...
	Anyway.
	She said what she said.
	The point is, I said what I said.
	That's what I want.
	And I'm a great cook.
	So I'll take care of you and feed you.
	You feel me?
	That's right, man.
	She's a great cook, man.
	She said what she said.
	Oh, this a hood, ain't it?
	That's it.
	Chris, this a hood, ain't it?
	This is where you start rapping.
	Nah, fucking yeah.
	But yeah, that's that.
	It is what it is.
	Okay.
	Yeah, I want a wiper.
	Oh, wow.
	Yeah, that'd be, that'd be, that's not a fair trade.
	Hey.
	All right.
	Moving on, I guess.
	Just kidding.
	I'm going to say.
	Yeah, he's kidding.
	Stay in the house!
	No!
	I've been a whole wife, so I've been to none that.
	Okay.
	Okay.
	You've been what?
	I said I'm divorced, so I've been to none that.
	Oh, that shit changed, right?
	No.
	Who initiated the divorce?
	You or him?
	I did.
	I guess he didn't give you the energy that you wanted?
	No, not at all.
	Was he driven and a hard worker?
	He was.
	But that's not...
	I mean, as I stated earlier, a lot of things take into play, you know?
	It takes a lot of different things.
	Don't just take one thing.
	A boom.
	Now we're happy forever.
	It takes a lot.
	Oh, chat saying call Nick?
	What?
	Who's Nick?
	Who the fuck is Nick?
	Call Nick.
	There's somebody.
	I don't know who Nick is.
	Why'd you leave him then?
	He didn't treat my son on his own.
	And my son passed away a year ago.
	So he didn't treat his last years.
	He didn't treat him.
	I feel, you know, I'm still trying to heal from that, but he didn't treat him.
	I'm sorry.
	Very good.
	You know what I'm saying?
	In that aspect.
	So, yeah, I, yeah.
	Yeah.
	It's deeper than that for me.
	To me personally, I thought the love of my life, I want to grow with this person.
	I'm not going to marry someone just to marry.
	But unfortunately, things happen in life and that is what it is.
	That's right.
	Yeah, that's definitely sad.
	You're doing your thing.
	She can't dress very nice and you're good to her and I can't dress very nice and you're bad to me.
	What are you talking about?
	So, first of all, don't be an asshole.
	Second of all, I think be connected.
	Connected to what?
	Connected to me.
	Connected to money.
	Are you Wi-Fi?
	Kind of.
	So in my case, I think I'm not mercantile.
	I take you as it is.
	Whatever we have, we're going to work with that.
	I think I'm pretty.
	And I'm going to stay home if you're going to tell me.
	If you're going to tell me, I'm going to stay at home.
	Well, I think last time you proved that wrong because you went to a club.
	No, again, as I said, if the man following first my interests, then I'm going to do what you say.
	If you follow just your interests and you're an asshole to me and you're just no bitch because I said so, no, I'm not going to follow you.
	Then I annex your territory.
	And actually, you know what I think?
	My ex-husband grandfather said, just go back home and stay with your wife.
	Okay, it's happening.
	But no, he'd kick me out, okay?
	Don't be surprised.
	and then I have another guy friends and girlfriends and whatever.
	It's me, my man.
	No, accountability.
	Rush is down right now.
	It's okay.
	I'm not in Russia.
	We don't claim you.
	Actually, it's a good country.
	Just right now, yeah, it's down by the news, but it's fine.
	We don't claim you anymore.
	Yeah.
	Alright, what about you?
	Top three preferences and what do you bring back?
	You gotta be good at bed.
	You gotta be confident.
	Wait, wait.
	She didn't even say what she brings back to the table.
	She just said what she wanted.
	I said.
	I think she did.
	You just didn't pay attention.
	She did.
	No, but I said, I'm not mercantile. I'm not mercantile.
	I'm going to stay at home if you're going to say, and I said something else.
	But you said your first love was the club.
	You don't even know.
	I mean, man, when did somebody treat you like a motherfucker, you can say many things.
	I don't say what he said.
	He's gonna say that he's gonna put a bullet in my head if I'm gonna do this.
	You know, like, we said many things.
	I would not bring it up.
	I don't know.
	Fredo!
	Maybe you should suck his dick.
	Wait, wait, wait.
	Suck your what?
	Huh?
	Suck your what?
	Where?
	Dick?
	I said that.
	You did.
	No.
	I mean, if you like him so much...
	She said his dick, not hers, his.
	I don't know.
	She has an accent.
	I don't fucking know.
	Yo.
	She was married too, doing all that, bro.
	Get the rocks.
	All right.
	Man, if you're married, it doesn't mean anything.
	You have to be a husband.
	Just be a husband, then I'm going to be a wife.
	Easy as it is.
	If you're not a good husband, if you're a motherfucker, if you're bad to me, what do you want to...
	What do you expect?
	Yeah.
	All right.
	Tell it to the rocks.
	All right.
	Okay.
	Go ahead.
	Me?
	Oh, you got to be good in bed.
	You got to be confident.
	And I'm not going to say you got to be a mama's boy, but you got to be like in tune with your family because I like a family man.
	Family man.
	And I'm a family person, so that's why I'm asking for a family laid back.
	I could bring not necessarily everything you're bringing to the table, but I could match your energy.
	And I'm loyal.
	I'm loyal.
	You'll be a dude back, okay.
	Alright now!
	And then what do you bring back in return for all that?
	I match.
	I have the same.
	Everything I want, I have.
	Oh, so you're a mirror.
	Exactly.
	Yo.
	That was easy.
	A dirty mirror.
	Dirty mirror.
	Don't say it like that.
	It's the person I got.
	Okay?
	Hell yeah!
	Huh?
	Huh?
	What did you say?
	Huh?
	The thing?
	What?
	Huh?
	Huh?
	Oh, wow.
	Whoa!
	What the...
	She keeps saying STD to you, man.
	I don't know why she keeps saying STD to you, man.
	It's because of the super chat.
	Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait.
	This is just...
	Can I see that question again?
	To be honest, guys, I really, I'm really happy.
	Even though you don't, you dislike me back, but I'm really happy that I bring it up.
	At least I make...
	Why don't we dislike you?
	Yeah.
	It look like so.
	Yeah, you're being mean.
	You're not supporting me, let's say, in this situation, but either way, like...
	I mean, we support the truth.
	What's the truth, man?
	Wait, wait, wait.
	Phoenix17 says, so Russian, wait a second.
	You called the police on Fredo for emotional abuse.
	So how should we...
	That was easy.
	I don't know.
	Do you really want me to bring it up, everything?
	No, no, no.
	Yeah, I can't believe for a reason, trust me.
	Listen, you've had your chance.
	Okay, he break many things.
	He threw everything in the middle of the living room.
	He said a lot of things, like he threw up next to my door.
	He threw up?
	That's your bro, though.
	That's your bro, though.
	That's your nigga, though.
	Hold his hair.
	Hold his hair, man.
	That's your bro, though.
	I don't say anything.
	He's maybe a good guy.
	And, you know, we have an argument.
	I bring all this dirty underwear here, but it's kind of interesting, but whatever.
	You know what's funny?
	This is a mind of love story.
	Cuban divorce.
	Literally, Cuban divorce.
	Yeah, exactly.
	But you're not, you know, like, you're against me.
	But I literally, I never cheated on him.
	I never, yeah, maybe like, you know.
	But he was a choice.
	I'm not like you, you know?
	Like, I'm not like for the- Wait!
	Wait!
	What do you mean you're not like me?
	I've never married twice!
	I'm not gonna- I'm not gonna fight, you know?
	Like, I mean physically- No, I mean- I'm playing and I go, oh that's what you mean.
	So what I try to say is that when the guys 6-4 try to like, you know, like I tell you, even if it's not physical, I'm not from here.
	For me it's a lot.
	No, I know what you mean.
	And eventually I'm gonna start protecting myself.
	This is all.
	And how I can protect myself?
	Fight with him?
	No.
	- No. - I mean, just shut the fuck up.
	- No, I... - You don't have to break at you, I don't have to talk about it then.
	- Hey, hey, hey, hey, hey.
	- A guy is young at you, is that okay?
	- Oh, he right though.
	- Throw a brick at him.
	- That's true though.
	- What he said, I understand.
	- If a guy is young at you, right, and he's young at you, then shut the fuck up.
	And then leave.
	Where am I supposed to go?
	I'm very dependent.
	Eventually I did that.
	Eventually, after you call the cops.
	Because why am I supposed to go at night?
	Guys, it's six in the morning.
	Like, where am I supposed to go?
	Shelter?
	And go where?
	No, I didn't know that Baliz...
	I didn't know that Baliz was gonna take him.
	I thought...
	Okay, I thought it was gonna be like a third person.
	They're gonna come and say, guys, Don't do that.
	Are we gonna stay calm?
	And that's it.
	That's what I thought it's going to be.
	Russian laws are probably different.
	Yes, yes.
	I didn't know they're gonna take you.
	In Haiti, they come and warn you.
	In Haiti, they will come to you and be like, yo, stop playing.
	The second time they come around, they might, you know, whatever.
	I didn't want to do him bad.
	I just want this old just go down.
	Put him in jail.
	Guys, I didn't know they're gonna stop.
	I already said I didn't know they're gonna But maybe sometimes it's good, you know, to chill him up.
	What's the problem?
	I put him in gulag.
	I put him in gulag for 17 years.
	one day exactly make him cool one day lose one day i would say record who cares only one day it's okay i would say there's probably probably now after you did that to him he probably feels resentment towards you ever since then so like therefore from that point on the
	the relationship now, everything is kind of like a get back because you fucked him over in that sense right there.
	How about he fucked me over as well?
	But guys don't see it that way when they ask for the simple things, especially if he wanted you in the house and then you chose to be outside and be in the clubs after he cheated or anything like that.
	At that point, you just disrespected him.
	Once he asked me to leave the house, that's when I start working again.
	How am I supposed to pay my bills?
	No, you're right.
	You're completely right.
	I'm not knocking you on that.
	I'm just saying, like, you know, I like how other people would say, too, like, you know, you could have picked a better job.
	I can't!
	It seems like there's so much into this, like, we're trying to finish, so I ain't even gonna hold you.
	No, for real.
	I love that guy, so I'm happy.
	I'm happy that I bring you up.
	This is my house!
	No, I actually leave the whole month without him, so...
	Let's say we go to a party and I tell you we should leave because a fight's about to break out and you tell me no.
	If they start shooting, can I please leave you for dead?
	Amigo, explain to me why I should run for my life.
	Yeah, please tell me.
	I got a rap career.
	This will be good for you.
	That's for you.
	That's for you.
	Anybody else?
	Wait, shit.
	I think that's one.
	That's it.
	Oh yeah, she was the last one.
	To the girl next to Myron.
	To the girl next to Myron, my girlfriend likes your outfit.
	Could I trouble you to show it off again by standing up and giving us a twirl?
	Just to control it, bro.
	Oh, thank you.
	I got it at sex.
	It's Versace.
	Period.
	Me!
	Period.
	Nigga.
	He said I had a waist trainer on.
	You got to do the check.
	She like, she like.
	You got to do the check.
	Yeah, yeah.
	Yeah, you have to do it.
	Because he feels like I.
	Your boyfriend won't get me.
	I had a boyfriend.
	Hey, man.
	Hey, man.
	Yeah, man.
	You know what I'm saying?
	Just Puerto Rico, it's a single.
	At all times.
	If you don't have a ring, you're single.
	Oh.
	Okay.
	All right.
	Hey.
	Call me, bro.
	All right.
	I'm sorry.
	I won't let you.
	Wait.
	They got it from the east.
	So guys, we did make a promise to the girls that we'd get that out of here.
	It's not fresh trying to go to the club.
	We did actually make them that promise.
	So real quick, we get the last thoughts for the girls on the show and then we'll go around.
	What are your last thoughts if you have any?
	I had fun.
	I had a great time.
	I loved the...
	Paella.
	I love everybody's opinion.
	I love that everybody...
	He's stupid!
	Okay, done.
	Sorry, my fingers slipped.
	I didn't mean to do that.
	Continue on.
	Oh, Mara, you heard her feelings?
	I heard her feelings?
	Are you a feminist?
	Yes.
	You heard everybody's feelings.
	No, wait.
	He's an anti-feminist.
	Anti-feminist.
	No, no, no.
	I'm a huge feminist.
	Anti.
	No, I'm feminist, man.
	How?
	You didn't support us not one time.
	What is feminism?
	Oh.
	Anyways, I appreciate it.
	Thank you so much.
	You support females.
	You was not supporting us not one time.
	You was really on the guys team.
	Yes or no?
	Okay, define feminism real quick so we know that we have the same.
	I particularly cannot define that to you.
	The dictionary word, I can't.
	Stupid.
	Fuck it, call me that.
	I'm not going to define that, but I'm saying supporting females, you weren't supporting us.
	That's what I'm trying to get to you at.
	Emotionally.
	Is someone lying to you supporting you?
	I'm sorry?
	He didn't hurt my feelings, but I'm saying to her, she's a little hurt.
	You were being mean to her like she said.
	Is someone telling you the truth supporting you or lying to you?
	If somebody is telling you the truth, are they supporting you?
	How do you know it's true?
	Exactly.
	I'm saying, in general, if someone tells you the truth of your situation...
	They love you and they want the best for you.
	Exactly.
	Correct.
	I'm going to leave it there.
	Okay.
	So, I mean, I'm still shocked.
	Like, okay.
	She said, I'm anti-feminist.
	And I said, please define feminism.
	And you couldn't define it.
	I mean, I did.
	I did.
	I said, supporting females.
	And that was enough for you.
	Asked me to define it more.
	I said, I cannot do that.
	I explained it to you already.
	I said, supporting females.
	You did not do that.
	That's what I'm trying to explain.
	All right.
	Feminism.
	Go ahead.
	Okay.
	Since you don't have the definition.
	Go ahead.
	Explain it.
	Is the fight for equal rights between the two genders.
	For women.
	No, equality between men and women for rights and privileges in society.
	Okay.
	Okay.
	So, I think women should have the same rights as men.
	Of course.
	But we don't though, because it's a double standard.
	I think women have more rights and privileges than men do.
	Because women have all the same rights that men do while still enjoying female privileges that only women can get and men can't get.
	I think women have more advantages than men in 2023 and women live an easier life than men.
	Give me two examples.
	What do you mean?
	Of advantages that women have more than male.
	Okay, well, women can go ahead and get an abortion and have 100% unilateral control.
	Hold on.
	Women have 100% control of who's born and who's not.
	Even if the man wants the kid to be born, he has no say in it.
	Wait, but technically, didn't they just change the law?
	I don't really know clearly.
	I'm literally just asking.
	Did they not just change the law?
	You can just cross the state line and go somewhere where abortion is allowed.
	So women have 100% control of who's not.
	So it really does not matter at this point.
	Men have no paternity rights.
	But the thing is though, a man still had the right to say a female cannot have an abortion whether she was raped or not.
	No, she was getting an abortion with that.
	And Rave's making only about 2-3% of overall.
	That's a minority.
	The point is that if a woman is pregnant and the father wants to have the child and the woman says no, he has no rights.
	So that's one thing that women have.
	Number two, women don't have to join selective service yet they get all the same voting rights as men.
	Do you know what selective service is?
	No, I don't.
	Explain it.
	That's a female privilege.
	You have to be a year right in the army or something like that.
	No, you have to sign up for the military at 18 years old in the United States.
	I figured that's what it was, but I wanted to know specifically what it meant.
	So those are just a couple examples.
	I mean, women are able to go ahead and get affirmative action given to them.
	Women are able to get jobs that they're not necessarily qualified just because they're female because of matching quotas and wanting to get women more into a workforce.
	Women have more advantage than men do while simultaneously still being able to be treated like a lady, which is an inherent advantage.
	I mean, I would argue women have more rights or privileges than men do.
	I agree to disagree, but that's, you know.
	What do you disagree with specifically?
	Because I don't believe that necessarily.
	Like, I don't feel like...
	What makes you not believe it?
	Everything I just stated was a fact.
	Yeah.
	It was a fact.
	To yours, like, okay.
	Stupid!
	It's actual statistics.
	You are aware that a fact is a fact regardless of whether you believe it or not.
	Correct, you didn't say an opinion.
	You said a fact.
	Exactly.
	That's why I stopped myself from talking.
	Thank you.
	Is there anything else you disagree with?
	Nope.
	Go ahead.
	I don't want to stay on this topic no more.
	Exactly.
	- I can add something, but we are at the beginning, like the basic thing, but we are less strong, we're less smart, we're less, like many things we're we're less smart, we're less, like many things we're less.
	That's why maybe we have a little bit more rides.
	That's why you guys opened the door for us, because we're not as strong as you are.
	I don't understand.
	So what are you trying to say?
	She's saying us having chivalry is because most women are not capable of being on our level, basically.
	Yeah, but women, here's the thing, women get the chivalry and they get all the same rights and privileges as men and others that men don't get.
	So women have everything.
	They get the best of both worlds.
	And more.
	OK, OK, fine.
	But we still not get something like, by the way, we're born like we're not as smart as you are.
	We're not as this and that your guys like that.
	What could be smart?
	Yeah, some of us, but like majority, like like general.
	Come on.
	As you said, you guys.
	Actually, actually, on average, women have higher IQs than men do.
	Yeah.
	Yeah.
	But then you are running all the guys running this show and we are like the stupid one, you know.
	Well, that's because...
	Have you seen the opposite of any show?
	When the girls are smart and making fun of the guys?
	I don't even know.
	Well, I mean, it's a free country, isn't it?
	It's a free world.
	Any woman can set up that show.
	Yeah, but we can't, but we don't because it's like nature.
	We're not as smart as you are.
	Girls try.
	It's just they're not consistent.
	They don't stay disciplined.
	They're not like the men that sit here that are driven to do this.
	Because our nature...
	No, check me out.
	That's why it's dominated by men.
	A lot of things are dominated by men because we're just too fucking lazy to do the extra work.
	We're not lazy.
	We are meant to be mothers.
	Start that shit up.
	We're meant to be at the house.
	What does that mean?
	Does that mean I need to work hard?
	I need to work hard in the house.
	Don't you think that the girl who stay in the house work hard on her kids, on the house, and her husband?
	Yes.
	Yes, but not as much as a man who's out there working.
	She made money.
	No, no, no.
	No, nigga, what do you mean?
	Are you a mom?
	Yes, I'm a fucking mom.
	Are you a stay-at-home mom?
	Yes, I am.
	So you're really going to give these niggas credit and tell me that being a mom is less difficult?
	Bitch, you're in the house.
	You're in the house.
	You have to educate your kids.
	You're in the house.
	You're in the house.
	Educate them in the house.
	It doesn't matter.
	The nigga has to go outside and make shit happen.
	You're in the house.
	You got your shit together.
	I get what she's saying.
	I think it has to go out in the field.
	Shut up.
	Okay.
	We're out of here.
	Being a mom and raising children, and doing laundry, and cooking, and taking shit.
	It ain't raising shit, but these niggas don't do it.
	They don't give these niggas the fucking credit that we really want to have.
	They pay your bills though.
	They pay your bills though for you to be able to do it.
	- Hey, who pays poor bills?
	I'll teach all these people how to pay the fucking bills right. - That's what I'm saying.
	- Hold on, hold on, hold on.
	Hold on, that was it.
	It just came out there.
	- Wait, if you stay, if you're a stay at home mom, how are you getting money? - See, that was it.
	If you're a stay at home mom, how are you getting money?
	By your nigga.
	Are you kidding me?
	No, shit at me.
	I'm gonna tell you how I get out.
	I run businesses and my businesses are on automation.
	Okay, quick question.
	How did you start that business?
	With the nigga helping you, yes or no?
	Fuck no!
	Ain't no nigga behind you.
	I did everything by my motherfucking self.
	Ain't no nigga behind shit.
	I do.
	And I ain't never had to pop pussy.
	I ain't never had to do it.
	You're the only fan.
	I got all this shit out of my life.
	I put my fucking books.
	I put my fucking head into the fucking books.
	I learned how to fucking pay my bills without fucking Let's go down.
	Let's notch it down.
	Let's go back to the topic at hand.
	At the end of the day, I believe me personally, I see.
	I don't know about you.
	And then I don't know about you guys.
	I personally believe being in the household, doing your costly duties is not the same being compared to a man that's already working.
	So you definitely ain't being a mom full-time because a mom full-time...
	Are you doing laundry?
	But these niggas being outside, they're doing more than us?
	They working.
	You got a nigga that's making a hundred K, please.
	I'm making a hundred K! You're just an independent woman, bro.
	You don't understand that.
	I don't want to be independent, but I know what you're trying to say.
	This is what feminism do to everybody.
	This is exactly what feminism do.
	How much is you making?
	How much is you making?
	I see, for real.
	But she didn't ask you how much you making.
	Because y'all are giving it.
	No, she's not giving nobody credit.
	She's saying Guys, guys, guys, okay.
	Ow, my ears.
	This is my ears hurt.
	Sorry.
	I think what Icy was trying to say is that women are lazier when it comes to resource creation is what she means.
	Resource creation.
	I definitely am not lazy.
	The women I'm around are definitely not lazy.
	You gotta understand.
	Hold on, look.
	You need to get out of your emotions for two seconds and listen.
	What she's saying is that women...
	when it comes to resource creation, a.k.a. going out there and making money.
	Just because you're an entrepreneur and the girls that you know are entrepreneurs doesn't mean that a majority of women are entrepreneurial-minded and hard workers.
	And if you don't believe me, men earn more money than women on average.
	And the reason for that is because men are more incentivized to work and earn resources because it has a direct correlation to our ability to find a woman.
	Uh...
	For example, I'll give you an example.
	You being an entrepreneur making a lot of money doesn't necessarily impact your dating ability.
	But a man being an entrepreneur making a lot of money absolutely impacts his dating ability.
	I'm being a trapper.
	She's not going to be around 24-7.
	I'm not dating no trappers.
	Also, you take care of your kids.
	We're not talking about...
	I'll tell you this though.
	You got a strong aura.
	What?
	So that's basically what she's saying is that, like, women aren't as hard working when it comes to making money and getting out there.
	Just because you do it doesn't necessarily mean that it's representative of other females.
	Most women would prefer to stay inside and not necessarily have to be the breadwinner.
	I agree to that.
	Okay, so that's what she's saying.
	That's exactly what I was saying when you were just arguing with me.
	I agree.
	Hardcore!
	I'm just going to say, I agree to Byron, but you're just getting out.
	It's because she loves me.
	I love you!
	- I got a question. - Are you Puerto Rican?
	Yes, I'm Puerto Rican.
	That makes so much sense.
	Somebody was trying to say something over here?
	I think that we're not supposed to compete with a man at the entrepreneurship, same as the man can compete with us as being a mother or like single father or whatever.
	We also...
	We always...
	Like, we've been made for raising kids, stay at home.
	Like, okay, we can do roles different.
	We can go work.
	We can be successful.
	But the same as we cannot compete with a guy in the work world, the guy cannot compete with us in the same, in the inside, in like, I don't know, kids.
	The reason why is because it's very simple.
	I mean, human beings are put on earth to mate, right?
	Meaning having sex and have children.
	A woman's ability to mate Does not does not is not contingent upon her success and her income But a man's ability to make is contingent upon a status and income Yeah, men are just more incentivized to work hard because we can't fuck unless we become a somebody women can fuck with being a nobody Okay, but simple you can't say that woman more lazy because she's staying home and men more productive because she going out We just have a different role and you know I hear what I said I said women are lazy when it comes to resource creation, okay?
	That's it.
	Nadia, you said that you do not have to stand on a nigga.
	You don't need a man to be behind you or nothing.
	But you was madly in love for two years.
	Or are you still not?
	Girl, she like Myra now.
	No!
	Myra!
	Myra!
	Can you guys stop screaming, please?
	I'll tell you this.
	Puerto Ricans have one weakness.
	You know what it is?
	Myra!
	Maybe you.
	Bigger, better big.
	I know I don't know Puerto Rican pussy I mean yeah Allegedly French you a man of God Yeah Because I didn't say thank you guys So thank you for inviting me I still enjoy even though it was intense, but I like that.
	Anyway, I like bad attention too.
	It's still attention.
	I have not enough attention.
	What can I do?
	I'm the worst lady.
	Fredo!
	No, guys, I bring him up.
	He's a very smart guy.
	I'm happy you like him because it's my choice too.
	But now, next time I bring it up, maybe you're going to like him more.
	Let's see.
	Thank you for having me.
	Thank you, Detox, for inviting me as well.
	No, that was interesting.
	Thank you.
	Could she summarize in a wrap?
	Let's wrap this up.
	The chick is up.
	What about you, ICU? What are your last thoughts and everything?
	We talk about women, bro.
	Click the link in the description.
	Click the She's Still ICTV one.
	Go ahead and also tune in to Locals.
	Please subscribe to Locals.
	Let's get that live chat going.
	You know how I like my chat talking shit, so let's get it.
	If you want to come on the show, just DM her because Chris is bumming.
	You don't check his DMs.
	I mean, he's just going to send you to me anyways.
	Hi!
	I do.
	Yeah.
	Girl messaged me today.
	I want to come on.
	Message this guy.
	What?
	I messaged you?
	No, no, no.
	I brought Mara's cat, bro.
	I'm always on my phone, so just send them to me, Mara.
	You too much.
	I'm going to send them to Icy.
	No, no, no, no.
	Yeah, yeah, yeah.
	Send them to me.
	That's cat, bro.
	You want to say?
	I just got to say that's correct.
	Yeah.
	Don't make me pull up my phone right now.
	Fuck that.
	Chris be sleeping, bro.
	The whole entire day, bro.
	I be up.
	I be up from 8 in the morning till now.
	It's too midday, bro.
	So, do you want to check the timestamps?
	Wait, I want to say my goodbye.
	I see.
	Do you want to check your time times?
	Nigga, from 4 to 9 p.m., you still wasn't up, bro.
	Like, what is that?
	Nigga...
	4 to 9?
	That's what Myra just showed me.
	From 4 to 9.
	She literally said at 9-11.
	Oh, he never answered me.
	Funny things.
	You know what's bad with the girls that messaged us, bro.
	All right.
	Anyway, okay.
	Let's just go ahead.
	Your go.
	Well, thank you guys for having me.
	I appreciate everybody's feedback.
	And if y'all want to learn how to pay your bills the right way, okay, if you want to learn how to become free and get out of being a 14th Amendment citizen, learn your consumer rights and your birthrights.
	That's an unorthodox way.
	That's me!
	That's because that's what we are.
	Under the 14th Amendment, we're still all slaves, so...
	Okay.
	Nadia is my coach.
	At least you are aware.
	Alright.
	It's an interesting way to phrase it.
	And W, Chris, for the awesome panel, by the way.
	Hey, hey, hey, wait, wait, wait.
	Sorry.
	Listen, niggas.
	Here we go.
	Here we go.
	Awesome.
	I bring this shit over, what, what, three years?
	Almost three years, all right?
	So...
	Angie, how much you gave him a drink?
	Yes.
	No, no, no.
	Barely, barely.
	Hey, listen.
	Barely.
	I drank because today's panel was, like, fucking crazy as fuck.
	At the end of the day...
	I would say he had three drinks.
	He sound like three drinks.
	Only three?
	Right now he sound like he on three.
	I mean, listen.
	Only three?
	At the end of the day, shout out to the chat, shout out to the panel, shout out to the girls for coming on to the show.
	Thank God for no fights.
	And yeah, I mean, let's do it.
	That'd be Chris Johnson.
	Where can they find me?
	they can find me in the bar afterwards Fredo Fredo So basically, thanks for having me on, guys.
	Awesome as always.
	Fucking great panel.
	What is the final conclusion of all of this?
	Don't steal someone's car.
	Don't steal their gun.
	Don't fall in love with the club.
	Oh, shit!
	Etc.
	Yeah, find me at RealTroyFrancis.
	Go tiptoe.
	Go tiptoe.
	Exactly.
	Find me at Real Troy Francis on YouTube, on Instagram, and on Twitter.
	And come to Columbia, because me and James Tusk are going to be doing a boot camp in Columbia later in the year.
	It's going to be no holds barred, shadow side, four days of debauchery, okay?
	We're all going to get jacked up on a train, and we're just going to go out there and just go fucking nuts, basically.
	So you need to reclaim your masculinity, so drop me a message, Troy, at Real Troy Francis on that.
	All those links are below, guys.
	Go check them out, man.
	One of the best dating coaches in the world.
	We'll catch you guys on the next episode of Fresh and Fit on Friday.
	Either do a call-in show or have a special guest, and then we'll have an after-hours for y'all.
	All of these Instagrams are below.
	Go ahead and send them a dick pic.
	I'm sure they'd love that.
	I ran, I ran so far away.
	I just ran, I ran all night and day.

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